last nite, me and wife had first group sex, mmmf, and we both loved it, is this that wrong?
369506
If she loved it and you enjoy her loving it nope nothing wrong there. If ou're trying to bring in some religious issues well that may be a whole nother story.
628951
Sure, and as for why, just a something new to experence and learn from.  It could easily cause more pain than pleasure.  Learning what your spouse is really doing while you are gone, what your friends really think of you, and then they's just the perverted fun you could have too.  Sounds like a hell of a roller coster ride.
959267
Yes, something is wrong.  It doesn't matter how often you actually have sex- every day, every week, every month- as long as both of you feel contented. You are unhappy enough about it to be asking this question, so something is going on that isn't quite right.\n\nI've been in a low sex marriage (sex less than once a month, sometimes no sex for six months + at a time) for years and years and believe me, it isn't going to get better over time.  You'll end up being the "pursuer" sexually and emotionally, as I am with my husband.  Seek outside assistance now, while your relationship is still fresh enough for you both to invest in addressing this issue.  Otherwise you'll end up like me- wondering if you chose the wrong mate, wondering if it's still possible to fix it, wondering if platonic friendship is going to be enough for the next 40 years.
387313
My wife and I have an exceptionally happy marriage. We've been together for 15 years, and still love every moment we spend together.\n\nMy wife is bi-sexual, and I am straight, and for years she had fantasies about inviting other women, and other men and other couples into our bed, as did I.\n\nAt some point it became a part of our pillow talk, we talked to each other about our fantasies, and engaged in sharing fantasies as part of our lovemaking.\n\nAfter a few years of that we decided to invite a friend into our bed.\n\nIt was a disaster! We hadn't done any research at all on how to be successful, and foolishly thought all we had to do was enjoy ourselves.\n\nA few more years went by and we continued to share fantasies, and again the subject came up - needless to say we were more cautious this time, we actually found some swingers discussion boards, and became participants - asking questions, and learning how successful swingers did it.\n\nWe joined a couple of swingers match making sites and started to understand what we were looking for and how it matched with what others were looking for.\n\nWe found a great magazine about swinging (I'll put a link in the sources section), and read it cover to cover.\n\nWe looked online and found a swingers club in our area and decided to visit the club.\n\nWe went to the club and get so excited that we couldn't wait and ended up having semi-public sex with each other (which was one of her fantasies - she is very exhibitionistic).\n\nThen we went home and again had fantastic sex.\n\nWe went again the next weekend, and found a couple that looked fairly unthreatening and asked if we could sit down - they were very helpful in explaining all of the etiquette of the swingers lifestyle, and what the expectations were, so we sat with them all night and basically had them do a brain dump of everything they had learned in 25 years of being swingers.\n\nOne of the things we kept hearing was that we needed to set rules - which explained the disaster we experienced in our first attempt - no rules! We didn't know what was expected, there were guilt feelings and jealousy, and recriminations.\n\nWe sat down and developed a set of rules designed so that we would both know whet was okay, what made each of us uncomfortable, what was strictly off-limits, etc.\n\nWe discovered that getting ready to go to the club was so exciting that we almost didn't even need to go, the anticipation, the time we spent naked while bathing, grooming and getting ready, the conversations we had with each other while getting ready, watching her get her sexiest outfits on, and try things on for me, excited both of us so much we almost always had to make love before we even went to the club!\n\nAs we got more comfortable and confident (because of all the open conversation) our sex lives again improved, we couldn;t keep our hands off of each other, riding in the car became really hot, getting ready for work in the morning became really hot, getting ready for bed, going out to dinner, all of our daily activities became huge turn-ons because we were so hot for each other.\n\nWe would spend time talking about things we wanted to try, and watching attractive women walk past would cause secret smiles to cross our faces because we would both be wondering if that sexy soccer mom was really a closet, back scratching, climb-the-headboard s lut!\n\nOne night at the club, after months of playing with just one another, we met a married woman who followed us back to a room and joined us.\n\nIt was incredible! We both felt completely confident in our marriage and in our rules, and fulfilled a couple of our fantasies right then!\n\nWe met her and her husband for dinner a couple of nights later and immediately hit it off - the hardest part of swinging is finding a group of people that all like and respect each other, and find each other attractive!\n\nWe started having foursomes - extremely erotic and enjoyable, and became
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Aww, bummer...but yea, I think it may have been too soon...but another thing is that while yes, age is nothing but a number, this is typically a critical time in both of your lives/ages - youre just getting your feet wet in all the fun (and not so fun) stuff life as an "adult" has to offer, and she's just getting her feet wet in her sexual peak (which can last for several more years if she's lucky!!). While it was more than likely really fun, exciting, etc., you guys are probably on different planes in life, and these things are better explored (have your fun!!) before jumping into something more serious, such as moving in, etc.\n\nSorry it didnt work out :-(
36047
If you love your wife the way you should, you wouldn't want this. Why would you want to make love with another woman or watch you wife make love to another woman. I asked my husband whats your ultimate fantasy, I expected it to be this and when he told me what it was I questioned him on why it wasnt this threesome thing... he said I love you and you are mine I want no one else and I want no one else to have or experience you, why would I want to see anyone else with you in that way loving you the way I do." These were his exact words. He is a great Man and only a man could feel that way. I think you need to grow up there are other ways to put a spark in your marriage than to bring in another woman or man. As for me, I will fulfill the fantasy he asked for and thank my God above that it wasnt one like this.
851043
If all parties involved consent, then no, I wouldn't call it cheating, but ask yourself this: how would you feel if your wife had another man? Would that be okay with you? It works both ways.
824985
To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
500959
I agree with Gill Billy. I've been married for the best part of 14 yrs and looking is a part of life. There is NO way I would ever cheat on my wife however we can walk down the street and have a bit of fun looking. I have had, in the past, invitations to play around and have always enjoyed flirting but never gone any further than that. I love my wife. Would never do anything to jeapordise what we have. I believe its great fun and so does she. Its just something thats a natural part of life to look around...but its personal choice to do or not do anything about it. Maybe I'm just lucky......I dont know. Good luck mate
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My wife has had other partners before I have only had her. Except when I was younger I was molested as a child.  I remember pleasing the molesters.  Yes there were more than one person.  But any how It is by choice that I remained a virgin I still conidered myself a virgin after those incodences because it wasn't by choice that my virginity was took. But I waited until I was married before I had concenting sex.  She said that I am the best she has ever had.  She has what I have read about Petite Morte.  "little death."  She "leaves" her body and floats above the ceiling for a little while before coming back.  Her Orgasms are so intence that she passes out.  I also have a method of stringing along her Orgasms.  By touching her back and her neck and certian areas around her body and she has one orgasm after another.  It is the God's honest truth.  \nShe said that none of her partners has ever made her feel like that before.  Take it for what it is worth.  If you don't believe me it is ok.  It isn't the first person.  She hardly believes it herself.
643565
Well one of the last fights I had with my spouse just before I filed for divorce was about sex.  I felt she should have it with me and she felt she should have it with everyone else but me.
116747
It's not completely wrong. But consider this....who has him now? lol they may have the "good OLD times" but you've got the now and the future...when she does this just smile, tell a few story's yourself..never hurt..best of luck
1082161
Now this is a christian retreat right? So you want to make some treats for the couples, let me see if they are going for a retreat I would think it is to learn more about each other and to find their self. I guess the sex treats might be okay but I am not sure all the couples might be okay with this. Have you spoken to all of them about this?
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Yes it is..You really get to know your spouse..what their feelings are toward marriage, having kids and respecting each other.. We went for a weekend and it was really alot of fun.You meet alot of of other couples also..
538136
I dont necessarily think its wrong as long as its with another adult and you arent doing it with children online.  I would suggest going out on a date rather than online stimulation.
934196
If you're both into it, then no, it's not wrong at all. Enjoy!
463788
I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;