What do you do when your bofriend is never at home and he stay out of the state?
371257
Find another boyfriend!
790884
Get out and make friends, there are people in your same situation that would love for you to join them.  The worst thing you can do is sit and home and get depressed about him being gone all the time.  Create you own life and have fun with it.
1026467
Set him loose and tell him do what you think is best. Then you both either do or don't see others while away. If you guys are meant for each other then you will get back together...but in all honesty you probably won't. We all go thru it at some point. It sucks but we get past it.
267367
Find new friends. If you can't do the obvios thing and just go ask the police you are line to be where he is. Stop the drugs, work hard, etc. because you will realize this later. But I sound preachy. You will someday know what I say is true.
590131
Pay attention to him when he's around.You say he's traveling because of work,so he's working to help support you right?Well when he's home,put friends on hold and some things you want to do,put on hold until he goes out of town again.That will give you plenty of ME time when he's gone. Make him feel like you want him around,ask about his plans for that day.Maybe he wants to spend time with you,maybe alone,you never know until you ask,but he most likely wants time with you since he's not around much. I'm sure he missed you. he might want to visit some of his friends or relatives while he's home too,just ask what his plans might be for the day. If he visits his friends then you can maybe visit yours or do something on your own. You can work things out with a traveling partner,it just takes some adjustment.You have spent alot of time alone and have got into suiting yourself alot.It does take time to readjust to someone else being around. Just try to communicate as much as possible.Even your eating habits might have changed since he's been gone so you have to figure,what time is lunch and will we be eating together?Just be available as much as you can so you both can decide on your days activities together.
202275
Do you have any family on the East Coast?  Do you have a job, or can easily get one? Would he support you while you looked for a job?  What would happen if you couldnt for a while?  Is he going forever, or will he be back someday?\n\nBasically, if you don't think you could ever give him up and are willing to give up everything in your life now for him then go.  If you aren't then maybe its time to get a low cost long distance plan.
442784
I WOULD JUST GIVE HIM HIS SPACE, HE SAID THAT THERE WAS NO ONE ELSE, SO JUST GIVE HIM AS MUCH TIME AND SPACE THAT HE NEEDS AND HE WILL REALIZE WHAT HE HAS AND HE WILL COME HOME.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
537977
You are in breach of contract and costs will start running up for your liability, until he gets his property back. You will not make any friends.\nMaster.
691791
Moving back to your hometown can be hard after you've been out in the "real" world.  Many people associate home with certain things - like childhood, which can cause them to feel they aren't accomplishing what they should be.  \nIf you feel that these feelings you have aren't because of him and it's because of moving back home - you might try talking to a trusted friend or counselor to help you sort it out.\nEither way you should talk to him and tell him what you are going through right now, so that he knows you aren't trying to pull away from him or that you aren't unhappy with him.  \nAnother idea would be to maybe move a bit further away from "home" - like 30mins, close enough to everything but far enough away so you feel you have your own life.
191563
You really can't. I had the same problem, but fortunatly for me she lives 300 miles away so they lost touch.\nIt'd piss me off too. Eventually they will stop talking and move on.\nBut, if she comes over to see him when you're not there, you should seriously talk to him about it, and tell him it is unacceptable.
334252
Try sitting down with him and calmly (and nicely) talking with him about it in explanation. I suppose that you have just recently moved out of his home and he misses you - is that right?\n\nWell, it's only natural, I suppose. I can imagine that if I were a father - especially the father of a lovely lady - that I would be ridiculously "clingy" and not want her out there running around all by herself. What would happen if she came across a bottle of ketchup that she couldn't pry open on her own? My God, how could she eat hamburgers then?!\n\nBut seriously, he is probably very worried about you being off on your own. Keep in mind that this is a new experience for him, too!\n\nSo, talk with him, and explain your situation and what you can and cannot do. I am sure that he will understand (though he is bound to be a bit sad, but that's only normal). To make him feel better, just visit him every now and then, but make your visits memorable and fun. Bring him a pie; I don't know of any fellow who would turn that down. :D\n\nBest of luck!
511456
write him a letter. if it is returned then he isn't there.
701503
people make choices in life. you are not willing to move in which means that you are not that committed to him and his situation. social services could help him. notify him to call social services.
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
797063
Stop doing everything for him and give him a taste of what it would be like if you weren't around.  He is using you, wake up!
177650
Well, first of all he is the one who put you out.  Why should he care how you got there?  Sounds like you are on your own now.  I am so sorry you are going through someting like this.  Stay safe and keep in touch, okay?
703441
well when you get home call him right alway and tell him what happend and make sure that next time you two are going to meet up be prepare for everithing and your friend that didnt want you to have the # he probably realy cares for you so talk to him and tell him y is the reason he didnt give it to you