I have a ridiculous boring job, will girls go out with me?
371743
uh...\n.It doesn't sound too bad.\n\nYou don't need to have an university degree to ask her out. . . \nbut you should be well rounded, open minded, and show her what you know =).
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
911366
The only reason why people may find you boring is because you put that image on yourself by thinking that way and putting yourself down. Thinking negatively about yourself is what keeps people away from you, they can tell your self esteem is very low. I think a good way to get out of your shell is to keep talking with those colleagues at work. If you get to know them better, they can invite you places and introduce you to new people. To start conversations is easy. A simple "Hi, how are you, how was your weekend? I did this and this over the weekend" usually gets the ball rolling. To get your self esteem up, write out a list of hobbies you enjoy, topics that have meaning to you, or write down things you like to try. Apply that list to your life and conversations and let that motivate you. And if that doesn't work, you might want to see a counselor about this and your breakup, you could be going through depression and they can help you boost your confidence. Good Luck!
723762
Hey relax, dont try and work to a script just let the evening develop, thats the fun of dating. good luck
80697
Carry a sign over your back and front that says:\n"Looking A Girl for Hire - 1 Week"
1093062
you cant plan out when you will meet someone, or where to go to improve your odds...\ni looked for 6 months for a girl, and i siad f this, and 1 week later the first female i ever seen at my work was hired, and we dated for like a year\n\nif it is meant to be it will be...
1072824
Try looking for sales girls that work in the better retail and department stores (especially the perfume, cosmetic, jewelry and clothing sections as they're very attractive there and dress as fashionable as you do)...just give them a compliment on their dress, hair or smile then introduce yourself and talk about how their day is going --- then ask for the phone number.
571251
Why don't you try spending some time with her at work before you ask for a real date? Offer her some small candies when you see her at work. If you leave work at the same time, walk her to the bus stop or her car. See if you can sit with her on lunch break, or try saying hello on coffee break. \n\nIf her reaction to these attentions is positive, then ask her to go somewhere with you after work, instead a more formal date. "On Fridays, I go to Martha's Diner for pie and coffee after work. Do you like pie?" is more likely to get a yes than "Will you go out with me sometime?"
928170
Ask her if she would like to do something outside of the workplace with you.  You're obviously very impressed by her and if you told her (generally) what you said here, I'm sure she would be very flattered.  It sounds like she likes you, too, but that the work environment is not the time or place to find out.  If you both work at the same time, ask her if you could take her to get something to eat after work (or whatever), tell her how much you admire her work, her excellent grades and how friendly she is.  That opens the door for you both to get closer and to see if there's a relationship beyond work - I'm betting there is! :)
669894
Not a good call!  She's your supervisor and could get canned if she fools around with you.  Shitting where you eat is never a good idea.  \n\nIf you feel the need to have an office hook-up, bang one your co-workers.
918658
Let me give you some good advice - it's not a good idea to date someone with whom you work.\n\nIt gets complicated, everyone knows your business, and if it doesn't work out you have to see the person every day.
439462
First of all you can not make someone like you. And I am not sure why you would want to.\nGo about your work like you do not notice. I had a girl at work not that long ago that didnt like me. She was very open about it and it got to the point where she wouldnt talk to me. In our workplace we HAVE to communicate. But she wouldnt. I just kept on talking to her acting like I didnt realize she was trying to ignore me and not talking to me. I still got my job done and honestly it annoyed her which made me feel better hahahaha!\n\nAct like you do not know they are behaving like children. If people want to act like that on their own time that is their business. But I am at work to do my job and if they do not want to be my friend that is fine...I am not there to make friends. However in the work place I am going to be professional about it.\nAll you can do is be the bigger person and make sure your work is not effected by your concern over their behavior.
291509
If you really like this girl then you should let her know. I think you should try the relationship, the trick is to just keep your relationship and your job seperate, while at work your relationship is not open for discussion, maintain a professional attitude in the work place, and don't allow your relationship to come into play. Also make sure she has the same attitude, and when work hours are over everything should work out just how you want it to. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z, they both just keep their mouth shut, that way no matter what rumors are going around at work no one will ever really know what is trully going on.
1125813
Tell her you want to take her out.Ask her what kind of guys she likes(ie; does she like bad boys, or nice guys?).Ask her what alcohol she likes to drink. Keep the conversation light - don't ask about her future or goals in life unless she brings it up.  I like funny, easy going conversations.I get bored with the question"so how was work, what did u do at work today?"-when i come home from work I like to forget about it.Ask her specific questions about herself that you want to know, don't be general & don't ask"so tell me about yourself" - instead ask her so what kind of food do u like?what movies do you like,etc. And then you tell her what food u like or movies u like.Then you 2 will just start having a good conversation & she'll feel open & free to ask u questions to.Then it will come natural & u won't have to think urself "ummm,what do i talk to her about?"
371718
Don't date coworkers. That is unprofessional and retarded esp if you like your job.
155323
Female of course! I might want to do something besides just talk.
445937
that sounds really nice! good luck - any girl would be lucky to have you!