how do you make the first move with a guy?
364016
its all in the eyes. and body language,after that grab his hands and precede to get closer. by then hell take over.
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
200425
well if you like the guy you should try talking to him first. start off simple, you know small talk.see how he acts around you. than it will be much easier to ask him if he likes you.
1103321
STEP 1\nThe first step is target the guy you want to like you.  There aren't any steps to just attract all guys to you so you have to target a specific group but more specifically a certain person.  \n\nSTEP 2\nAfter you have targeted the guy you like get to know him and make sure he knows you exist.  While you're getting to know him find out what he likes see if you have anything in common.\n\nSTEP 3\nIf you find out that the guy you were aiming for has nothing in common that is okay.  Like the old saying goes opposites attract.  If you do have stuff in common try to do those things together but don't show up everywhere he is because that will repel him.  And for having nothing in common try to do some of the things he likes anyway especially if you don't know whether you like it or not because you might end up with a new hobby.\n\nSTEP 4\nIf would be easy if he liked you back but if he doesn't or you don't know you have to look for the signs.  One sign is he will talk to you and by talk I mean he will actually be conversing.  One way to quickly end a conversation is to answer questions and not ask any or to give one word responses to everything.  If the guy is doing that it could mean that he is shy or that he is trying to not talk to you.  If he shy you'll be able to tell because he'll be kind of quiet and nervous.  Another sign that he likes you is he will try to contact you.  For example if you happen to see him somewhere he might come up to you and start talking instead of you starting the conversation or he might call you instead of vice versa.\n\nSTEP 5\nIf he does like and you like him and it obvious then ask him out.  Its been shown that most guys would like you to make the first move.  Don't be to forward or aggressive when you ask or you may intimidate him and scare him away.\n\nSTEP 6\nGo with the flow and let him like you.\n\nA general way to get most guys though is to be pretty but in a tasteful way.
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
1185714
if the guy is shy and dsnt make a move...then......YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!! trust me! i did!! and i never regret any of it...well, his glad i did the first move too.(this is the 21st century,its the century where girls make the first move instead of guys)You deff should make the first move...\n\nIf a guy likes you, \n-he will read your sms over n over again\n-he calls just to say 'hey'\n-he calls just to say where he is and where r u.and how r u? hows ure day? etc etc....\n-pretend 2 go sick,(2 see if he really cares)n if he do...tht means he cares for u :)\n-when ure talking to him face to face,compliment him like 'i like your hair'...then see if he blushes! (if he does...scorre!!)\n-if you see a bunch of hot girls walking your way...purposely walk slightly 1cm behind him...n when you guys pass those hot girls,take a peek at his eyes..to see if his looking at those hot girls..if he didnt...then all he care is YOU.\n-surprise him with gifts..(doenst have to b expensive) n see if he blushes and smile...\n-if u want to know if a guy likes you....whenever u guys r going out...even tho to a nearby store..he will dress smartly...dress to impress...\n-Last but not least...if u want to know if a guy likes you, his tone of voice is different with you than to his homies..his laughter is different whenever his with you...
453773
Because he is shy and u are waiting for HIM to make the move.  Thank goodness we live in 2006 and IT IS OK for u to make the first move!  He may be worried that you will slap him, or not want to kiss him back.  So if I were you just jump right in there and lay a lip lock on him that he will never forget!!!!!
981059
Just walk up to him, and start talking.  He's a guy.  It's that \nsimple.
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
371854
Yes, there is nothing with making the first move.  Do all of the above.  Make dinner with candle light and where something sexy when he comes home.  Leave messages on his pillow if you leave first.  Send him e-mails saying  something sweet or that you just Miss him.  You can even send him flowers.  I've done it.  They really like it.  Flowers aren't just for men!
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
409433
Sure, if you want.  Follow your instincts. I am sure he would be flattered.\n\nSometimes, girls have to make the first move.
465401
Some guys like to be the first to make the move. But some guys like to have you kiss them. Either way you shouldn't ask. It makes it seem to planned. Just be spontaneous and kiss him. I don't know how your guy is but most guys are turned on by girls who make the first move because chances are they want to kiss you but don't want you to freak out.\n\n<3\nPhoenix
923177
yeah it's true... guy should make the first move though...girls will look so desperate if her make the first move..
349732
u can make the first move. not sexually if u don't want to but jus walk up to him and tell him how u feel. but i do recommend that you prepare for the good and the bad. after you tell him how u feel wait for his reaction and if he says he likes you then it's good but if he says he only likes you as a friend don't get mad jus say "ok" and "well i guess i'll see you around" then leave.
844281
Just step up and talk to him. He might be the shy one. He probably doesn't want to be the one to make the first move he doesn't want you to think he is just hitting on you.
664734
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.