me vs. girlfriends school?
366602
my bf and i are going through this right now. i'm going to school and he is working so its hard for us to spend much time together. what is really important is to set aside time that is just for the two of you. make your relationship just as important as anything else you would do. its hard at first to make the time but it will help out the relationship a lot.
98228
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
985336
no, my daughter is home from school cause her bf broke up with her yesterday infront of the hole school called her names, man just something like adults do when we break up with the other person, so stuck at home taking care of a 12 yr old who refses to be seen in school today.
883904
A girls gotta do what a girls gotta do.  You can handle it girlfriend, chill!
206238
Jesus freak. She dated my boyfriend as undergrad @ Stanford
342321
I think live is too short for you to put all of your effort on one girl and you aren't even out of school yet. Love hurts, but can be wonderful at the same time. Just don't put all of your "eggs in one basket" live life a little and don't get tied down yet. Take time to be in school and have fun.....responsibility can come later. Good Luck.
989148
Who cares?  They are both "PARTY" schools?\n\nWhich one is cheaper?
702772
Is she your girlfriend or is this just a second date?\nIf she is your girlfriend, it doesn't matter where you go, as long as you enjoy being with eachother. She doesn't even need to your girlfriend. Again, as long as you are enjoying your time together, it doesn't really matter where you go. Just be with each other!
425686
Relax.  Your grades are not as important in college as you think.  Experience is going to get you where you need to go.  And as far as your girlfriend moving away, it happens.  I have personally gone though it.  But if you want it to work out, you have to work at it.  Stay in constant communication.  And if it is meant to happen, it will.  RELAX!  It wil be painful, but if it does last, and you see her again, it will mean all the more to you and her.
379197
Well, I'm not a guy, but let me try to help U:\nU're an educated guy, U're so smart, but maybe she has seen in this other guy something she likes the most and maybe it's something U don't have, I don't blame her for that, but I do blame her for telling lies and trying to justify herself in that way.\nThere's another thing: If U're that kind of smart and polite, show to her that U can respect her decision, don't approach to her anymore, she's the one who has to make the balance, let her be happy, if she wants to be with this other guy, U'll have to focus on someone else, besides, sometimes we just judge for appearances, and maybe that's happening to U.\nNever judge a book for its cover!\n\nSee... as U added some new facts, let me tell U, about your image, don't care about it, I mean, the time will make the difference, let it to the time, and U'll see that she's the only one who is going to be judge by your classmates and friends, maybe they cannot realize what kind of girl she is, but, I'm pretty sure, if U're right, time will give that satisfaction to U.
642055
Hey boy, this is my exprience about my own longterm relationship :\n\nYou should keep your girlfriend just as your friend , not as your need. If you choose the second option, when the girl leaves you, you will going to die and if you choose 1st option , you can get the better girl friend.\n\nThis is the truth. Believe it to be successful in your own relationships.\n\nHave fun.
401980
Ask yourself these questions, Do I really love my current boyfriend? Do I really like this guy in class? Would I go that low to cheat on my boyfriend but not care because he live so far away? Just think about those questions. If you would rather have a relationship w/ the boy in class, CALL* your bf and tell him that you want to take a break because your not doing so good with the distance. Then say yes to the boy in ur class. \n\n\n*break- ups over IM, or E-MAIL, anything not in person (except if u live far away) are just cheesy and shows that ur a coward
636591
If you moved from Michigan to be with her because you love her, her going away to college shouldn't matter if your love is really. because no matter how far away you are from each other your love will always be their. you should be  proud of her and encouraging her for wanting to make a better life for the both of you. let her know that you are behind her 100% no matter what her decision is and that you will always love her and be there for her that is how strong your love is for her. if it's meant to be it will be no matter how far away you are, this is a test of your love.
63292
This would be easier if you said the one who is a long distance girlfriend is the controling one, because that would be an instant "GUeh-oodbye!"\n\nHey you're young in college, did you need to settle down? You're still discovering yourself at the moment, and this is a good time to not be obligated to anyone.\nIf it were me, I'd tell the controlling one that I like her enough to hang out with in social settings, but I do not want to be tied down period, and if she's gonna loose her mind about it, she can just move on right away.\nThe girl back home- she sounds like the kind of person you don't want to lose touch with. Maybe you could both agree to see other people. Bearing in mind this means SHE can go out with other guys, who are going to want to try and get in good with her, possibly try to score, and if the idea of someone scoring with YOUR girl, bothers you. Well.....\n\nLong distance doesn't have to be a bad thing. I know for myself, when you're finally together again, nothing is sweeter than the feel of their skin, the light in their eyes, and their sweat mingling with yours... oops got carried away there. But that's my point, does the girl at home really do it for you, would you burn with jealousy if she started hanging with another guy? IF so, she's the one, atleast for now, and so long as she knows how imporant she is to you, you'll both be fine.\n\nYou're at college, STUDY man! (and party some, but I didn't say that)
196618
i am not sure i understand your question, so let me ask you a few:  where are you from and will she go with you?  what are you going to study at school in California?  can you find a school close to where you live now?
676411
So friend, it definately sounds like there is some flirting happening.  you should, in a calm manner address your Gf regarding the issue tell her the ruth that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would like to do something about it, but the best thing would be is that if she felt strong enough towards you she wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would reduce her time together with dude, especially since school is out.  As colleagues, I can understand that they may have gotten to know each other pretty well and may have a strong mental connection. but there are certain places you just don't go...if my fiancee (we're 29 and 32) knew that a boy at school liked me and flirted sometimes, he would be pretty hurt and I would minimize the chance of that happening by not putting myself in a position that would have me being responsive to the flirting gestures of another and dilating pupils (other signs of flirting that are difficult to prevent), I would just not be around that person to avoid that type of interaction.  \n\nHopefully if you talk with her, she will reassess the motions and actions that she is making and that are happening between them and understand that they are not appropriate.\n\nGood luck, you need to ultimately do what is best for yourself in the long run..whatever course that means you should take.\n\n\noh and the quote: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...is in no way from a "show"..it is Saint Augustine (November 13, 354–August 28, 430)...well before they had T.V.
32071
Oh honey darlin' baby child! There is no question! Go to College!! If your relationship with your girlfriend is strong it will last. But you can so not cope through life just on devotion. You need the education. You will have so  many experiences in college that will form the man you will be. You need this. And she needs to understand that you deserve this. Go...to..school!