what would you do if you were shy around your boyfriends friends?
371564
Don't be!!  You know if you are shy you shouldn't be because remember this his friends were probably there before you, and if you want to be a good girlfriend then you should be able to get along with his friends. In the long run it will help you out too, because then you will know what his friends are like (in case he goes out with his friends a lot, you know how they act around people then you can decide if you trust him with his friends). Anyways he will probably respect you more for trying to get to know his friends.
322786
Cheetah, if your man's friend tried to get at you and it was (uninvited).  you have no other choice but to tell your man. You have no commitment with his friend, no loyalty to his friend, that is owed to you man ! By not telling him, you and your boyfriends partner form a pact. you and he have a secret that you share from your man.  Your man is the only one out of the loop.  If you know your man's partner is like that... you should let your boyfriend know so he can know about his boy. Why, because you now know his intent and his feelings for you.  Think about it ?
1003379
I would say don't invite him because they'll either treat him bad.no respect,check on him or talk about him all day.He would probably feel uncomfortable and so would you, i say to avoid any problems dont invite him, then WHY WOULD YOU HE BROKE UP WITH YOU.? is not like his the only fish in the sea, heyyyy! theres more guys that can treat you better. i say you get all pretty and and just chill with your girls, dont rush by having a boyfriend,the boyfriend will come to you, that's what makes things spontaneous!
1022284
Dump him... and date your friends...
200557
I've been there and what i did was just start talking to him that way you don't feel so weird to be around him. we both are dating other people and we just talk as normal people b-cuz we realized we cant be as close Friends as we were before but we still hang out with the same people and its better to be talkin to each other than not talkin at all.
539886
stay single.  don't degrade yourself by sleeping around.  and you probably don't want to get involed with "his" friends
692959
I think the same way about myself, and I'm shy too. Just go up to him and make friends. If thats too hard, at least try to talk to him sometimes. If all of that is too hard ask yourself if you really want to be with him, that will get you going.
734879
I am glad that my boyfriend has close female friends--it makes him more sensitive and gives him a good array of people to interact with.  If he says they're jsut friends, then they probably are--don't harp on him about it because that is what will breed hostility.  Maybe you might even click with his female friends and expand your friend network, too.
347519
Tell your boyfriend that it feels like things have changed and you would like to see whats its like without a boyfriend you could also add things don't seem like they did  and it would be better if you just remained friends if that can happen!
1168148
no if u didnt know him u dont have to act like u did just stand by and be close 4 ur boyfriend
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
56950
He might not be comfortable talking to you around his friends or he could be ashamed of you.
136881
You shouldn`t do that to the boyfriend because most likely he`ll be all hurt and that will be bad blood between the friends.\n\nBut that`s only if you don`t truly love his bestfriend.  If you do, then maybe you should go for who you love, given that you know for a fact that he loves you too.
477681
you mean make other friends behind your back? I hope you mean boyfriend cause otherwise you need to seek help
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
452330
My husband was extremely shy. We were friends for 15 years before we ever started dating. Then we dated for 5 years and now have been married almost 2 years. \nMy suggestion is to treat it like friends. If you are so shy then you can take baby steps and learn how to make friends first.......who knows? maybe one of these new friends could turn into something more. \nJoin a quiet social group. Just being around people with the same interest will get you talking.....
1179860
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!