how do you know that you GF is having an orgasm?
363138
If you ask and she tells the truth.  It's very tough to tell with someone who is good at faking.  There might be something with the muscle spasms at the end, but right then is not really the time to be analyzing things and paying attention to minor details like that.
331762
Maybe you aren't giving her orgasms. Lots of women fake it. How do you know she is doing it if you aren't home?
1103585
Alot of women experience orgasm in  different ways. Some through clitoral stimulation, and g-spot. It's my personal opinion, that it is completely healthy to masturbate, and find out what feels, good to you, and to also experience orgasm first hand. And trust me, when you have one, you'll know. It'll be an all over body experience, I doubt it can be mistaken for anything else.
1021784
OK, first of all, most girls prefer clitoral stimulation to vaginal stimulation. So stop trying to put your fingers inside her for now until you get good at the clitoral stimulation.\n\nYou need to find the clitoris first, it's a pea sized mass of erectile tissue....if you follow the labia minora up towards the belly button, where they meet you'll find the clitoris. \n\nOnce you've found it, you need to rub it gently and slowly. Keep watching your girlfriend's face and listening to her to see if she's liking it (but I guarantee she will!). When she starts to get closer to orgasm (you'll notice a change in her breathing and she might actually tell you to go faster), start rubbing a bit harder and faster. This should bring her to orgasm in a few minutes. \n\nYou could try oral sex as well if you want to go that far just now - still focus mainly on the clitoris and just make flicking movements with your tongue, or try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue.
107428
An orgasm can be two things.  \n   1) for men it is a spasm of the pelvic muscles followed by semenal ejaculation.\n   2) for women it is a uncontrolled spasm of the pelvic muscles.\n   3)  If you had one...you wouldn't ask...you would be smoking a cig right now.
1039862
Women respond to sex differently than men.  Find out what her favorite parts of sex are pay attention to them.  I myself, don't even START thinking about my own orgasm until I have satisfied her at least once.  If she's not enjoying it, it might be that you're not putting her needs first.  Believe me, you do that, she'll be MORE than happy to make you happy.
1094778
it feels good, some girls can orgasm that way
131517
you feel it!!! For women, it could either be clitoral or vaginal. If it is clitoral, there is a sweet tingling in your clits that transcends to your belly to your head and in my case, i get release through moaning and sometimes, by biting. If it is vaginal, there is a sweet rush from the head to the spine to your butt and that sweet release while being conscious and sensitive to what is inside the vaginal canal. The latter is better.\n\nFor men, i think it is almost the same, the only difference is that they ejaculate.
486081
It depends on if she orgasmed or not if she climaxed it is the same feeling as a guy relaxed, destressed, if she didnt she is thinking that was it what about me!!! Yo dude get it back up I'm not done!!!
405532
Well, there are many ways to make a woman have an orgasm easily...first of which is attentiveness...be attentive to her and build a rapport....then play. Play with her clit, her vagina, and for God's sake man, make sure you pay attention to her if she indicates she like something take note of it, and be gentle ....unless she likes it rough but she will tell you all of that through her body language.  But most important....ENJOY her and you will enjoy yourself when she has that mind blowing orgasm you want her to have.
6457
on a womans point of you  there is no way you would know for sure if were having an orgasm, it's not about screaming or anything like that, you'll never know....unless she's 100% honest with you if thats the case i would question if she's truly a woman see the original birth certificate if you know what i mean
598022
It's called "female ejaculation". If she "squirts" that means that she has reached her peak becasue you've stimulated her g-spot. It's like having the orgasm of all orgasms. Every woman wants to achieve it, but not many women can do this. What come out is just mucus, female lubrication.
623505
try caressing in general...you have 2 get her 'worked' up..some people orgasm on penetration,what u say whn making love, oral sex...you need to ask this question to ur gf shes b best suited 2 tell u how she C*** :) best luck!
330835
i am assuming you mean faking an orgasm. yes i have a few times. but for all the guys that read this let me tell you that you CAN know when a woman is faking. when a woman really has an orgasm her muscles contract very very rapidly. this is a very hard action to fake at aproximatly a contraction every .08 seconds. so guys if you tune in to what's happening then she won't be able to fake it anymore.
729640
Most women consider a fast orgasm to be about as exciting as a sneeze. Why the heck would you want to make that a goal? And, unless you have her hooked up to scientific gizmos (now that's romantic), you won't know if it's real or not (no matter what any guy says. All those "ways you can tell," like flushing, vaginal contractions, etc.? Can. All. Be. Faked. Trust me).\n\nIf you're looking to give a woman a fast orgasm so you can get it over with, I don't know why you'd care whether the orgasm was real or not. If you're looking to please a woman, stop thinking about orgasms and start making real love to her.
1140928
dpends on the woman, if her noncentral gspot is there she can, my fiance gets nothing out of me doin stuff to her breasts.  If your gf hasnt had an orgasm from you doing what ur doing, she prolly cant.
49066
Here's a simple way to "find" it:\n\nWith your lover lying down on her back, legs spread, kneel (or otherwise arrange yourself comfortably) so that you're between her legs, with your hand in front of you, so that (with proper lubrication, or sufficient arousal on her part, so that it's pleasant for her) insert one or two fingers (nails clipped, fingers clean) into her vagina, palm up.\n\nGently curl your fingers toward, you, palm still facing upward, so that the middle of the top joint of each finger (the spot where a fingerprint is taken) presses gently against the wall of her vagina, right under her pubic bone. \n\nSOMEWHERE in that area, more or less in the center (it may be up or down from where you first try pressing) is the g-spot. It often seems to, once found, be a slightly raised mount versus the area around it, but not enough to be able to easily find by touch.\n\nThe best way to be certain you've found it is to do this during sexual play, especially cunnilingus. If your lover's already quite simulated, she should feel, after gentle, repeated pressing on the right spot, an increasing sense of arousal, which can build up into a far greater orgasm than she normally has.\n\nEven women who normally only have one orgasm, and then are "too sensitive", can sometimes have multiple g-spot orgasms. One needs to pause, fingers still inserted if possible, while she catches her breath for a moment, then VERY gently begin repeatedly pressing the area. She may find, to her possible surprise, that it still feels good, not overly sensitive. One should lay "off the" clitoris until she begins to get quite aroused again, though.\n\nHere's a site with much more detail about this and other sexual techniques: