i ask my ex a question about his friend and he got madd wat do this mean?
374660
Look he obviously has no confidence in who he is as a person. People do not need to justify themselves if they are secure with themselves. If he didn't feel insecure he would have taken the question for what it was.
1156972
there are many different reasons and ways to find out. if you say that you two are really good friends even though you are no longer together, he will understand if you ask him. He might deny if you ask him in an uncomfortable situation. Also, many women are worried that they turn their exes gay. I haven't seen that yet even though I have been accused of being turned by my ex-girlfriend. My friends knew about me years ago in high school. If he is gay, don't think that it is your fault because it isn't. If your friendship is as good as you say, he will be fine with your question regardless and will open up to you. All guys compare themselves to each other. It is part of the male psyche. They may ask a woman or gay man who looks better between them and another. Just answer him honestly. Friends prefer honesty over just trying to make them feel better.
787806
you answered your own question he is just trying to make you jealous because he still likes you and you moved on!
777233
Most of the time when someone gets that defensive, it means they are guilty of something.  Now, he may not be...especially if you (or maybe an ex girlfriend) are very jealous and always make those type of accusations.  But if all you did what innocently ask about them and he blew up about it...I'd be suspicious.
869758
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
688016
I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
244647
It means they culd be jealous of you but more than likely they are trying to make points with others.  You do not need friends like this.  Dump her and find someone new to hang around with.
298185
Be 100% honest. Why waste time if it could mean a good relationship. And if you are worried about him not being your friend...well, if he does decide to be mad...he wasnt a true friend. Just go for it.
18079
ask his bestfriend or his girlfriend why do you need it he is your ex
838570
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
242265
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
760638
Give him some time you have hurt him and his pride right now won't let him talk to you. He's hurt and mad and needs a little time to deal with it. That's what goes on sometimes in break ups so give him some space. You're both better off if things weren't right in the relationship and you weren't happy just takes some time to heal before you might be able to be friends. Best of luck.
206759
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
355697
Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
895119
well do you really want to know. it means he hates you! lol what do you think it means? he obviously likes you and wants you all to himself, how come you arent together yet