she borrows money from me ,what i should do?
366966
She is using you, she has a boyfriend that she will marry if you don't stop talking to her now your going to get hurt even more. C'mon you are a doctor you can have anybody you don't need to limit yourself.
353371
get a written agreement,keep paying your portion,you may even have to pay all just to keep your credit good,then if she dont pay,sue her or chalk it up as a lesson learned
323488
Contact a lawyer to help protect yourself and make sure everything does get returned. If money is a worry you can typically go to a courthuose and get a number for a lawyer and have a free hour on the phone where you could explain your problem and get his advice.\n\nIt is her stuff and she should get it back.
1007391
you could loan her money... a small amount to cook dinner and rent a movie. or while he's at work, help her set up something creative. like a treasure hunt in the house or a romantic setting ;)
490066
You could report it to the local police.  This also involves a federal offense... if you want your sister to go to federal jail then report if not give her a chance to pay your mother back and if not report it.  Let her know that you are VERY serious.\n\nI had this happen with my father.  I worked for two weeks and told him to send me the check I get in the mail.. since I was in college and paying for everything myself.  He takes the check of almost 300 dollars and cashes it and spends the money.  He dodged me for about three months... I could have reported him but he has paid me back some but not much.  Also, I've learned not to trust him like I used to.  I never lived with him, trusted him with anything important to me again.... so you live and you learn.  \n\nThink before you do something you might regret b/c God knows all and sees all... you dont have to be the judge.. God will do so.  Just try and get her to pay her back even if it's just 20 or 30 her and there... \n\nGood luck!
1129178
well how much money are we talking about here? If its over 500 bucks I wouldnt do it. If you are good friends it could ruin your  friendship. I had let a friend borrow 1500 bucks and had to fight tooth and nail to get it back and I'll tell you what? I dont feel the same about the friend anymore. Just my suggestion..
604759
Have her give you a picture to help prove it.  Tell her you seriously want to help her.  I think she'll do it and will understand if she's really wanting your help.\n\nYou are doing a nice thing by helping someone but don't let someone con you out of money.
824394
I would definately check into that.  Thats extortion in my book.  Also, see if u can get her a calling card or the number to one, for those calls out I guess.
787622
borrow it from someone or take a credit card advance
947986
Do you have any documentation of the loan?  Was there an agreed timetable for repayment?  If you have a promisory note or an IOU, then you can try to put a lean on his houses and cars.\n\nHowever that will definitely kill the friendship. If you value your friendship, just explain that you really need the money and if he could just pay a portion of it each month ($500 minimum and $1000 maximum/ per month)  then you will be happy.  If your friend begins to slack off, gently remind him that you did him a huge favor and he should pay you back.  Be understanding if there is an emergency that disrupts the payment schedule.
270025
Just don't give her any money.  Unless, of course, she gives you something in exchange that you want. :)
816249
what you need to do is simple.  get one of your checks and make it out to the local police department....then, sign her name where the signature goes.....on the back write "we need to talk" (leave it where she'll find it)... she'll get the picture because here it is.  Once the bank begins the process it will be up to you to press charges....but, if the amounts get too high the bank will press charges without needing your consent.  What she has done is a felony and she can do serious time for it.  By the way, she isn't a friend......at least anymore.  And, you need to face that fact and start looking for a new roommate.  good luck.
283205
"Trying to pull a fast one"? Honey, don't look now, but shes already pulled it. What's worse, by not confronting her you appear complacent, even willing, to let it ride. If you want the money back, tell her so, After all, IT IS YOUR MONEY!
384953
tell her that you are the same person with or with out money and tell her how you feel about her treating you differently
883231
Time to get serious about the situation.  You have a contract and she has voided the contract with the bad check so she is out.  Did she tell you in advance about the bank problem?  If no then she is a con-artist and she will promise to pay in a few days and there will always be delays, stories etc.  She is bad news and you don't need to support her.   Kick her out asap and let someone else be duped by her.  Trust me I am in a similar business and I have heard every sort of excuse and sob story.  Don't give her any more time.  Go through a legal avenue so you son't have to listen to her stories first hand and fel sorry for her.  The next landlord will get the same bad business.
17641
Is it worth the hassle?\n\nYou will have to take her to court and prove that you loaned it to her.  You have any witness that saw you tell her it was loan?  It is very hard to prove since she could say you gave it to her and just want it back because her brother broke up with you.\n\nThis is just a life lesson.  Forget about the dress.
1079734
If you could give examples of the mooching it would be better.\n\nAnyway, be firm yet fair.  Don't give in about letting your money go.  Let the person know, in no uncertain terms, that you are not a money tree and that they can not keep coming to you.\n\nIf you go out to eat with the person, ask for separate bills in advance.  Only pay for your self.