What do you do when someone is picking on you for 3Years?
361311
I know what it's like. Always being picked at, Laughed at, and even shoved out. But I learn from them. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. anywayz, my advice to you is first you need to tell someone about it. whether it be your teacher or your parents. if the bullying doesn't stop, take matters into your own hands. i'm not saying to fight the guy (although that is an option for a much, much later use) but to sorta use your head to out smart him. If he still continues, take a stand and MAKE the school move him to another class and to keep him away from you or else you sue.\nI'm pretty sure that you'll won't have to go that far but just try and find out what's his problem and try and help him. Hey who knows maybe you'll actually become friends.\n       Good luck ;)
438533
move as far away from him as possible i'm sure your friends will be there for you if not then find new friends do whats best for you and your child feel better get well and NEVER let a guy treat you like that NEVER let any one abuse you physically or emotionally be strong us women need to stick together and let all jerks in this world know that we will not let them hurt us anymore.
278737
Tell him to stop. And if he doesn't stop, tell someone important with authority: like your parent, or a teacher, or anybody who can slap him around. Unless he's like 3 years old and just doesn't know the difference. Then just tell him "NO"
300601
Just ignore him, and if at any time he threatens you or your safety, talk to someone about it.
1153472
get away from the abuser. and tell some one. ANYONE!!! you don't want to be by your self on this! and if it really was me then the abuser wouldn't be around very much longer :)
177020
Why would u stay with someone that beats u? For 3 years? Get out and get a restraining order, it will be hard but in the long run it will make you stronger and you will be much happier and safe.
1150051
Be as nasty as possible if that dont work talk to the police. Show no care or feelings for the person just hate and be very nasty that s the only way to get through to them may sound harsh but thats how its done. oh or intreduce her to you best friend lol
1168216
Here are some things for you to keep in mind, and share the appropriate parts with him.  It is part of an answer I did a while ago for someone who was being bullied .....\n\nIn dealing with a bully, do be assertive, but the child being bullied is not usually strong enough to fight the bully physically ... bullies don't pick on kids who are stronger than them. \n\nBullies don't go away. It is true that bullies are cowards, and tend to back down when people stand up to them, but bullies also seek revenge. Unless bullies are stopped, they tend to get worse and worse, not better. \n\nMost schools have someone you can go to so that some adult will know about what's happening and can begin to stop it - a guidance counselor, a teacher you trust, the principal, someone. Can you go to the bully's parents and tell them? If the bully has actually attacked the child, go to the police. The bully can be charged. This is not a laughing matter. No matter what the bully has said about not telling anyone, TELL. Here are some well researched tips on dealing with bullying:\n\n1. If you are bullied, TELL. Telling is not being weak or being a coward or tattling. It is helping to protect everyhone from that bully.\n2. Tell someone you trust - teacher, counselor, parent, some other adult. You CANNOT handle this yourself. \n3. Do not retaliate or get angry. This could make things worse.\n4. Respond evenly and firmly or say nothing and walk away.\n5. develop good strong friendships and support each other. Bullies tend to pick on kids that they think don't have many friends or kids thye think others won't hlep.\n6. Act confident.\n7. Try to stay away from places the bully will be if that is possible. For example, take a different route to school.\n8. Avoid unsupervised areas of the school.\n9. Try not to bring expensive items to school that might attract the bully's attention and that he might try to take or break.\n10. To gain confidence and feel stronger and feel that youcan take care of yourself, enrol in a self-defnece program if one is available, or a martial arts program or something like that. Self defence programs teach you some very good skills, very quickly.\n11. Join a group, such as Scouts, a cadet program, or something like that, so that you have a special group of friends. \n\nGo to the website www.bullying.co.uk/ which has lots of information for parents and for kids about bullying and about some things you can do. I think this website might really help you figure out some good positive things you can do to deal with this.\n\n\nI hope this answer has something of value in it for you.
987442
call the cops. i had to do it before and it's what it is. sometimes it's the ONLY thing to do. trust me. it beats years of harrassment. speaking from experience here. *hug* God bless you and take care hon...oh...and thanks for the best answer points! :) from the other question.
150273
Treat him like a little brother.  If your friends tease you, get new friends!  If they have no compassion for a person who is slow through no fault of his own, they are pretty cruel.
557322
1: Tell him it's over and don't listen to any pleading. Done is done. Make sure you do this where you have an escape route and where the public is close by. Tell him on the phone if you have to. Then hang up on him.\n\n2: Doesn't work? Recruit some help. Talk to family and call him in for harrassment. Be prepared, he isn't going to like having law enforcement show up to tell him to lay off.\n\n3: Don't take his phone calls and walk away whenever he approaches. If he touches you scream like bloody murder and get help. He will get the message soon enough, or go to jail for harassing you.\n\n4: If he has stalker potential then you need a plan of action to defend yourself. Keep a pencil with you in case he gets really bad and trys to pin you down, stick it in an arm or leg and break it off. This gives you evidence that he is the one who attacked you. Don't be against smacking him one to get away to call the police. Talk to your parents about getting into some karate. OR, look up a rape prevention class. If I can be of any better assistance to you let me know. Good luck.
49360
you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
136902
ignore him/her. if they are abusive, chances are they are looking for the feedback to let them know that they are getting to you. life is to short to sweat the small stuff.
350006
That's a tough situation.  I had a bully in 7th grade.  Ultimately, and it will be the hardest thing to do, but you have to tell an adult.  Someone that will listen.  A parent, or a teacher.  Someone that can watch your back and put the bully in his place.  I know it sounds like tattling or ratting on this person... but think about the news stories.  There's violence out there and you just can't keep quiet about it.
128698
Well u should stand up for urself and let no one push u around but if they keep calling u that u should tell someone incase it keeps happing. if they r pouring stuff on u then u really have a problem
450624
Start with a restraining order. It should have more details.
900129
How is she abusing you? And you need to tell someone. Tell your school principal or call the police. Tell someone.