Why most of the friends you had in high school dont keep in touch after?
360015
I think that high school is a stage in life....when you leave that stage you tend to go on to bigger and better things. If you go away to college, you meet all these new people and as mean as it sounds you tend to lose track of your h.s. friends b/c you simply dont have time. I havent been to a high school reunion, but I feel that when I do have mine I will want to have great things accomplished not so I can feel Im better than everyone, but so I will feel that I have accomplished things some of those people never thought I would.
592232
Not-so-popular! And you know what? In retrospect, I'm glad! I had many great friends in High School, just not the "correct" friends. I wasted so much time worrying about why some jerks didn't like me. And it is so crazy in retrospect because I can't stand those people. Imagine if I'd had to spend a lot more time with them! High school kids need to learn this lesson: there's more to life than being popular. Sometimes things can even work out better for you if you're not.
282362
Always had the same number of friends coz we should learn to keep our friends instead of replacing or losing them! :P
587084
well i have a couple\nthey have less of a social life and interaction with other people and because of that if they later decide to start going to public school in high school like a few people i know did they are kind of thought of as being nerdy and dont really know a lot of the slang...which i suppose is also a good thing sometimes, but they have to learn everything like that.
874991
sometimes if you really value a friendship and especially one that you had since 9th grade, you need to give in.  best friends are hard to come by
36978
They keep them because they think they've got something you will still talk to them about and maybe this way, this would lead to the two of you getting back together again. I know some girls try to pull off stuff like this, maybe this isn't the case, but it might be as well. You know what i'm saying, they just wanna use them as an excuse for you to talk to them, that's all.
1054919
This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
608195
If you were good friends in school then there is no reason not to.\nUnfortunately as we get older we get so busy at times that we forget about the great friends we had in the past. There are so many people I wish I would have kept in touch with, but did not. \nSo, don't make that mistake.\nAlso, it has been my experience that when You are thinking about another person alot like that, he or she usually is or has thought about you.\nDo it!
587479
You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
1049639
Yes and no. Highschool was a blast sometimes, especially because I had a tight group of friends. But there was so much immaturity, so much gossip and backstabbing, people caring way too much what everyone else thought of them, etc. It's a tough time!
411341
Yup...my friend met his girlfriend in high school.  When we graduated they had to split up because they went to school in different states.  They met up again 9 years later and got married after being together for 2 years.
452777
I met a friend and I consider her as my bestfriend, during my hi-school days..She was my classmate only for 1 year, then we parted ways as my family moved to our province and her family too, our place seems like A-Z, on the first few months we had communications then it fades away..after 22 years, I was happily married w/ 2 kids and working abroad and 1 day I was terrribly surprised when I received an email from her..and she said that she never gave up on looking for me though I did..We were very happy then..her family still remembers me and my family as well..I'd like to see her very soon when I got my vacation, we've got so  many things to talk about..I love her, she is my very best friend.
557314
u'll have to try  www.myspace.com  lots of student uses that website to get in touch with their old friends from high schools.good luck girl.
685274
Well its nice that you would want people in the class to be friends.  But I don't see that happening because it is in the nature fo highschoolers to be clique-ie and vicious.  You can try to brnach out yourself and just be friends with different kids.  But the problem with that is that the new group you talk to will probably have a pre-disposition about you becuase  of where you are coming from.  They will then be apt to disagree, repel, and attck you.  Kids are animals anyways, just the few sophistacated and reliable kids.  My school tries to get all the kids to be "friends".  They have cheesy programs and 'reach out' activities, but that just makes me see how terrible kids are in the frist place.It is very complicated.  It's highschool and it sucks.
1141964
I am not a highschool graduate of '06 (still have 2 years to go) but i know that my friends, who are attending college this fall, have the fear of the new beginning, its a whole new chapter in your life and your basically on your own, in highschool you were more structured, you depended on your parents for most things, now your considered an adult you are gonna be making choices that you've never made before
352092
there not your real friend. end of story. if they cared they would take even 5minutes to c how you were doin. there more like acquaintances.a real friend cares...end of story. i have "friends" that do this all the time, i quit called them, texting them, emailin them, i lost any contact, if im important enough for them, then they'll look for me.\n\nlose all contact w them and find real friends that care enough bout u.
1038389
I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~