is it bad when every other word my friend says about the guy she is dating is "BASTARD!"?
369055
She has (cliche coming) LOW SELF ESTEEM.\n\nShe does not realize that the one thing she should look for in a man is HOW DOES HE TREAT HER.\nNothing else matters if this is not right.
668575
It sounds like your friend has A LOT to learn and is going to learn it all the hard way. The fact that she has a list even is insane. You are absolutely right that when she said yes to him, it was as is. That's all she is going to get and the sooner she realizes it, the better. I mean, it's one thing to get your man to put the toilet seat down (possible) or get him to not fart at the grocery store (impossible), but when it comes to things that are part of him, his personality, his inherent behaviors, etc, she is going to hit one brick wall after another. If she is that unhappy with the way that he is that she felt compelled to write a list of things to change about him in one month, then she should not have said yes to begin with. She is going to be very dissapointed, and she is going to drive her man crazy!!
807726
yeah, there are too many to pick. The one's that are six run-on sentences long about some kind of stupid relationship dilemma involving mom, my best friend, my current boyfriend and my ex boyfriend. What should I do? He says this but she says that...\nthey really should have spell check on here though. I'm afrain youngsters don't know how to read or write properly anymore, and I could use it every once in a while.
810987
I have a friend like that.  And it gets very annoying!!  Her main thing is with guys though, she always has to be center of attention.  Whenever I would be talking about something to do with me, she would always butt in and start talking about herself.  Finally one time she butted in and I stopped her and said,"Can I finish my story that I wanted to tell you and then I will listen to yours!"  I was just honest with her about always interrupting me with her stories, and when it came to guys she was always being too pushy for me to get with someone. (She's married so it was like she would do the flirting for me-and that is NOT GOOD!)\nShe is better now but she still has her moments.  I have known her for about 10 years now so we are pretty honest with each other, and we know we will always be there when the other has a problem.  So I say just be honest with her, a little at a time, and remember there are probably things about you that annoy her also and if she mentions any just take it as constructive criticism.  No one is perfect and who better to tell you about your faults than your best friend, that way you can work on being a better person together.\n\nRemember be gentle and honest!
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
1013522
You're a douche, why would you "hit it" if she really is how you describe her "poor and average looking and smells like a french fry and has a PMS attitude."  Guys like you are why women hate men!
830269
hey lizzie, my advice is YEA. cause im the same damn way. i call this girl EVERY night. and i call her names like big-head, or slow, or nerd ,dork, just stuff that wouldnt really insult her. so yea my guess is he does.
328846
Are you interested in your friends boyfriend? or Has he made a pass at you and you want her to know what a jerk he is? Because if you are wanting to tell her because you are planning on getting with him, I want you to know you have crossed the wrong line here. Girlfriends have a code, and no man, can destroy that between us!!!
1131637
I believe it is the intent of the person saying the word.  If someone is using it as an insult or to degrade another person, I think any word is inappropriate.
577627
Your perception of what you heard in the one sided conversaton, clearly " sounds" like a someone admitting they are " dealing" with some female in a BAD way.  I would report it, and let the police deal with it. Better for your concience in the long run.
717802
All relationships require some give and take on both parts,but it isnt healthy to praise someone for bad behavior.This will only encourage it more.Your friend should have stood her ground.Just my opinion.
533538
'Handle' is a very strong and a negative word. It implies you have bad intentions and are a male chauvinist pig. But I am not calling you that. I think you may be a nice guy with a bad English. So I'll just suggest you to either be nice to her or to ignore her.
656228
haha... you cant spell. but na... i dont knkow... but that person above me is dumb... \nand really dumb... in fact you should swear at her cos she sucks male genital like a cheese grater...
160235
There is nothing wrong with it, what makes it bad are immature men who are really boys, that like to talk crap and degrade women so the sterotypical thing to do is wait but you can tell on the date if he is a genuine good guy and if the chenistry is there then go for it.
295269
if the things coming out of her mouth before you date her turn you off, chances are the stuff she says WHILE you're dating her will turn you off even more.  I mean, as far as what she said, it kind of makes sense cuz no girl wants to date a scrub who can't take care of himself.  If she said she would never date a guy who wasn't RICH, that's gold digging.  But whether they come out and say it or not, most girls won't date a guy who's broke because who wants a part of that?  If you marry someone who's broke, chances are you'll be broke too.  I'm a guy and I'd be rela reluctant to date  agirl who couldn't hold a job down.  I probably just wouldn't do it.  But by insisting on a guy being a provider doesn't mean she's a gold-digger who would date an "ugly fool" just for the money.  And so what if he's ugly?  Isn't dating someone for looks just as bad as dating someone for money?  Would you date her if she was busted?  Life's a b****, man.
957976
If you will listen to most people talk, after a while they will misuse a word in such a way that makes you realize that MOST people seem to not know the actual definitions of a lot of the words they say... it is kind of funny...\n\nMy girlfriend has an issue with colloquialisms... she can never quite get the meanings right, and I try not to make fun of her but sometimes I cannot help but laugh, but I don't bring it up over and over again... that is kinda mean, I think.\n\nNo doubt, your boyfriend has a few things that he thinks he knows but is wrong about and should think about that when he makes fun of you. You just need to find one and then you can even the playing field.
637286
you really should not abbreviate as much as you do. I had to read one of your other questions to find out what "b-friend" was. Never invite a female to stay with you. No matter who she is////