Which is safer: a room shard with females in a hostel or a room in a shared house (with females)?
374622
id go for the house a few parties later u wont be strangers>>
551342
Ask the room(1) guest to move to room(2), room(2) guest to move to room(3), room(3) guest to move to room(4), ....., in general move room(n) guest to move to room(n+1), ....\n\nAsk the new guy to stay in room(1).
34049
after a few meetings then ask if u can wisk her away... make sure she is secure in the whole plan   seperate rooms, whatever it takes make her feel safe!
614962
No it isn`t weird that you are uncomfortable with sharing your bed.  Think about it, you spend a lot of time in your bed alone.  So you get used to having the whole bed to yourself.  I still get uncomfortable sharing my bed.  It feels as if my personal bubble is being invaded.  So don`t worry, you`re not alone.
335607
It's like a bonding thing. We go in there and gossip, talk about plans, and also, we are always afraid of being stranded with no toilet paper, lipgloss,tampon, etc.\n\nSo we go in groups so that if someone needs something usually a companion can go get whatever they need, or has it in thier purse. \n\nThat's what we tell you anyways. We actually go in there to practice making out with each other and hide furniture and TV's.
792687
Your grandfather has Alzheimer’s and it will only get worse, there is no cure for this. My mom has it and I am taking care of her. No you are not overreacting about sharing a room with an eight-year boy. Can’t they fix the basement or attic into a room for one of you or add on a room in the back for you. Grandpa needs to be close to mom as it is very trying to care for a loved one in his condition. Your mom will need all the help she can get and if you are helpful you will stand a better chance of getting a separate room. I think there are laws about boys and girls sharing a room if the youngest is of a certain age and eight sounds plenty old enough but if you go to the authorities about it grandpa will end up in a nursing home and your family will be terribly upset with you and you will regret what you did to grandpa in the future as nursing homes give terrible to no care. If worse comes to worse maybe you can put up a divider wall in the middle of the room. I wish you and your family the best of luck.♫
652154
I do that too.  When my roommate was out of town, I had to check everywhere - Under the bed, in the shower, in the closet... just to make sure I was the only one in the apartment.  But there is a point where you go overboard.  You can't always be afraid, but a girl has got to be careful these days!  Maybe talking to a couselor would make you feel more secure.  Or take a self-defense class.  I did and now I feel like if I DID find someone hiding in my apartment I could kick thier butt!
292865
honestly i would love to be so close to a guy that i could room with him with no problems, it would be a challenage but i think a good one although it would cause some problems we tend to be more demanding and etc. well you should no that do you have a girl as a friend? if so ask her to room if not it may be a little hard to get a female to trust you enough
736159
Sharing has its perks.  You will always have somebody to talk with and go out to lunch with.  Learning how to live with a stranger is great training for marriage too.  Get Bunk beds however. lol
758669
no...it isn't bad at all....alot of people like to have there space, and still enjoy a dedicated trusting relationship. I have two cousins who have long term girlfriends , and haven't moved in either! With them it is something about having there own, belongings and able to go where ever they want to, with out feeling bad by leaving someone at home.
709646
Its an extra bonus if a room mate can do all the right things like pay rent on time and be clean and considerate etc but if you can enjoy each others company, make friends and go out some places together that's great but most times I haven't wanted to get too close to anyone I share a house with. I like to be friendly but not live in each others pockets... I can be pretty private when I want to be and if I live too closely with someone I'm not in a relationship with that can become difficult... remember familiarity can breed contempt.
16962
Living in a dorm all the way.\n\nIt is important to learn the skills of living on your own before you are completely thrust out to live on your own. People grow up faster in my experience if they have to live in the dorms. Plus that way there is no commute and you have quick access to all the educational and social resources. Be careful about spending too much time with friends and making poor decisions. Those can come back to bite you without your parents looking over your shoulder. Act like a responsible adult and you should be fine.
823466
Why not ask a favour from a friend of yours, and arrange a "double" date.  Then tell your g/friend that you thought it would be nice to go to ...... (wherever), and that you thought you would bring .........(your friend) along, so why not bring her roommate.  If you are lucky, maybe your friend and the room mate will hit it off.  If not, talk to your g/f.  Make plans well in advance with her, so that you get your arrangements with her before the room mate does, and say something like  "I thought we could go to ........ (wherever), it will be really nice to do something alone together".  That way, you are hinting that you want to spend time alone with her, without telling her that her room mate is a pest.  Good luck!
441874
It depends on which college you are in, each college has its own specifications. Mine for example had two toilets and one shower and one bath for a group of ten to share. See if you can visit your college, there should be a chance to visit the accomodation
52944
This is from a girl:\n\n"Girls go to the bathroom together to gossip, but we also do it so we can primp together. What good is primping if there's no one else to complement you--or to complain to? The truth of the matter is, gossiping aside, most of what women do when they are standing together in front of a mirror is put themselves down. 'Ugh, I am exhausted. I hate these bags under my eyes.' 'Ugh, my skin's breaking out--it must be this humidity.' 'Ugh, I really have to start going to the gym.' Then the other women tell you that you're crazy, you look great."
335769
hmm both. With the disgusts, you can share evil stories. With the intrests, you'll share more peaceful and kind conversations. Make your pick!
1182328
being in the same room