This question is for the ladies. Ladies, what is the most important thing when considering a man for a date?
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I'll be honest.  For a first date, looks are very important.  I mean, the first thing you know about a person is whether or not they are physically appealing.  Whether the guy has a good personalilty determines if he gets a second date.
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Romance.....Just a honest man and one that listens is nice.\n☺
178468
Good sex, good food, and honest.  One that is loyal and loves spending time with her man, but also giving him the space he needs.  Never argue about things that don't matter and always flirting with your man.
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simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
1024250
You not knowing what youre looking for is the best position to be in, because when you meet someone you will instinctively know whether it is worth pursuing or not. Conversation and personality will flow automatically without you judging or marking a check list and they will either push your buttons or not lol. You'll know it when you find it.
692115
what do you want to enjoy with a guy?  Whayever it is I am sure you will find someone to oblige.
49741
how hard is it to find the right guy?  it would be easier to find the person we wanted in our lives if we knew what we were looking for.  So make a list of what you want in a woman and go from there.
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I'll be honest here ... \n\nYes looks are important ...\n\nIt may not be the only thing that's important when dating and getting to know somebody, but it sure does count in my book ...
1045662
that wld depend as to what type of guy Im interstd in for that week..... or  what type of guy ill be looking for... \n\nclub, if im just looking for a casual date, or short fun\nbookstore, for someone serious \ncoffeshop, for someone whose comfy and relaxed\nchurch if i want a guy whose serious abt relationships and family\nfriends place for someone whose fun to be with
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This is a tough one to answer. In my case yes looks do matter to an extent. There needs to be some physical attraction in the beginning not that its the most important just a percentage. Body type really depends on the guy. I have dated several women with all different kinds of body types. A good personality is a must, its a real downer when your partner is always in the dumps or is angry all the time. I myself enjoy a good conversation so intelligence is a must (not a rocket scientist just bright). Tallents are always a plus, its nice to have a tallented girlfriend but not a necessity. All in all what I'm looking for in a woman is one that loves me as much as I love her. Someone that will be there when I need someone to talk to or be comforted. Basicly a best friend, I think that if your partner is your best friend your practically invincible.
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Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and every guy has a slightly different opinion of what beauty is in a woman.  However, once you get pass the initial physical attraction, I really think that whether or not a woman's personality is attractive is what keeps the guy interested.  I guess the same thing can be said for what defines a good looking man.
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looks are important but not as much as you think. a woman places much less importance to how a man looks compared to how he can make her feel. so a keeping good attitude wold be recommended
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Personally,I like a man who is a little on the wild side..a bit of a badboy,who knows what he wants and how to get it,but not in a nasty way!I like him to have charisma,passion,drive.Be romantic but not slushy,be giving but not a push over,kind and sensitive when need be,but not OTT.Ultimately a man who is a man,but who knows when to show his softer side.
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Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
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Intelligence\nWit\nHonesty\nLoyalty\npositive outlook.......happy!\n\nSomeone that needs me as much as I need him. Someone that genuinely enjoys being around me as much as I enjoy being around him. :)
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let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
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most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...