when you have no one when your hurt who do you turn to?
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you kinda came to the right place.
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not much you can do if the person doesn't love you back.  sorry
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sometimes you cannot, depending on what happened and how in love you were, but time and someone to fill tha void will help
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no...you have to trust again at some point.  just be careful at first, and give yourself plenty of time to heal from the wounds others have given you.  you can't go through life not trusting anyone.  just be careful about who you trust, and don't do it right away.  make them earn your trust.
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First spell what you are trying to get right, friend. You shouldn't have to look for a friend, you are somebody too! Love yourself an others will eventually follow suit.
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Dear Friend,, If One looses his Loved one,,, its not that easy to stay,, coz one can feeel the sudden out burst of life,, but then when the loved one was already lost,, so just have to accpet the Ground Reality,, and try to undergo the pain,, and stay in the pain,, but do not skip the pain,,, and try to be with company of nice freinds and well wishers,, and dont stay alone,,,\nto hear it self is painful,,
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While I see your point that its harder to find people like this, I can still empathize for people.  I have been hurt alot, starting at five when my dad walked out, and i just dont want to see others hurt like i have been hurt.  I go out of my way to make sure i never hurt anyone.  And i often find that people are more than willing to take advantage of that.  It makes you sad to know that no one looks out for other people anymore, and its all about themselves.  This is definetly not me-i would go without to make someone happy, and if i see someone in pain i will do whatever i can to stop that pain.  I got a forward from someone about the perfect heart that i think you would really appreciate.  I would tell you, but it might be a little long-I know this might seem weird, but if you wanna email me at wyzeone2000@yahoo.com, ill find it and send it to you.
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When your not looking for someone, thats when you usually find them.
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No one is here but me.
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I think you're asking because you already know the answer.  You should leave but of course you don't want to because you need him/her.  Ask yourself if perhaps you are addicted to being hurt, to playing the victim of a never-ending game of being loved and abandoned.  A lot of us do that.   We become attracted to people who will surely hurt us and leave us...and we love it.  Then we have a chance to be broken hearted and miserable again.  When you get fed up of the pain, there will come a time when you will be honest with yourself and start making different choices.  He/she is not the problem, it's you...face yourself now.
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if u somehow lost ur goals, u could start with the goals of the ones u love. if u dont have loved ones, find the ones that nobody loves and help them. sometimes helping others works best to help us
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you have someone to be with you and care for you. with him your never lonely and when your hurt you got someone to comfort you. when u go to him u got someone to play with and lean on. he keeps your happy when ur sad and sometimes sad instead of happy but ur always gonna love him.
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I think when the love is not there anymore
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have an open mind even when it hurts there are more fish in the sea you will find someone new to fill the void and hurt
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is there no body that can help out?
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When you feel like no one loves you or that your just all alone.... look to God. When you build a relationship with God/Jesus.... it fills that emptiness... that void. He is always there, when your smiling, laughing or even crying.  I find that it's when the world has disappeared that I can truly feel his embrace. It takes time to build as in any relationship you have to make time.  But if you make time.... you'll find that it's worth it. God's love is like no other.
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If you have to chose one,be with someone who loves YOU more...you chances of being hurt are less and you will be taken care of much better then by someone who does not love you as much...