i think my boyfriend is cheating on me how do i find out?
371003
yeah.. hes done with you.. come to papi ill make u feel better!!!
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
231350
Trust your instinct, it is usually right. Leave him. Even if your instinct isn't right, then you should still leave him. Because you don't trust him. You'll just be putting yourself (and him) through a lot of stress wondering if he's cheating or not. Then you'll end up with a bitter breakup. \n\nSo, once again, break up with him.\n\n**Mr. Curious, you're an a.s.s. I guess the whole world should be as perfect as YOU. Right? You sure think a whole lot of yourself speaking to this girl the way you did. Seriously old man, I know the hemroids make you cranky but don't take it out on girls. Go get some tucks pads or something. Mabey taking a nap would help, too.**
28357
First I would validate that s/he indeed is cheating.\n\nS/he might have other issues that you are not aware of.\n\nConfront the person if possible, in a non-hostile manner.
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Well I dont quite know what to think either?\n\nJudging by the question, you seem to have troubles with the boyfriend? I am probably wrong here because you question is a little hard to understand. However, I shall answer it like this anyway.\n\n\nFirstly, you should NEVER jumped to conclusions that he's cheating \nbecause you dont get to talk to him, etc.\n\nHowever, I would get a little suspisious of something in your position. I think you need to re-consider his intentions? What exactly does he want in your relasionship?\n\nAt the end of the day, your question isnt really detailed enough to come up with some useful answers (if any lol). I mean, how long have the two of you been dating?\n\nIf you havent been dating long enough.... then dont take this guy seriously. I wouldnt take a girl seriously if she acts the way your guy does. Oh well.... what do I know?\n\nGoing by your question, he doesnt take you seriously and the best way to solve this issue is by talking to him. I hope it all goes well for you, but be prepared to leave him if he contiues the same ways. I would certainly prepare myself for this, etc.\n\nGood luck!!
754163
he probably cheating but you should really   talk to him i mean look him in the eye and say what you want baby i got it  what you need you know i got all i am asking  is just a little love ..
1026531
how do u kinda cheat on someone? do him a favor... leave him then go get ur head checked.
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
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you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
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Nah.. your boyfriend is cheating on you.\n\nOr you girlfriend.