When my dad got home from jail, he always cleans stuff up and everything. I hated it.?
361115
Could he be removing fingerprints...Really I believe in prison they had to keep there cell clean, this could just be something he got used to doing.
536731
It's not a big deal...I mean it's strange he shows up outta nowhere and wants to call the welfare, but if he does and they do come and there's nothing wrong...they're just gonna go away. They will say it was an unfounded call and be done, just like that. If you have nothing to hide and only to prove you're right, don't worry. Perhaps he's talking about calling the welfare because the mother doesn't seem to be taking proper care of the child. They might want to hear from you how many hours your keeping this child and what kind of lifestyle you know her mother has her living in. Don't feel shamed if they do show up...quit worrying about what the neighbors think, like I said, if you're doing nothing wrong, there's nothing to worry about. I have a drug addicted, psycho sister who is currently in jail. When I had my first child and I didn't wanna listen to her crap all the time about drugs and money and so forth she'd call the welfare on me and blow them some wild story...knowing full well when they checked it out they would find nothing. I went through this 4 different times!!!! Each time they would come, they would ask me about what the supposed report was about, check my house out and my daughter and say I'm sorry mam for having to come over like this, I'll document this as an unfounded case. I understand your anger about the situation. I would probably withdraw myself from the mother and child as to not be involved with anymore of their issues. Good luck!
1081660
Sounds like your dad needs to grow up.
9792
Working as a corrections officer in a county jail. The inmates were ok and easy to deal with but the boring daily  routine and smell of urine from over flowing toilets was not for me.
326934
well here's what my dad used to do...\n\nat 7.30 in the morning he would walk into our bedroom, past our beds, open the curtains so the blinding sunlight fills the room, then on his way out he'd rip our blankets off and throw them on the floor. \n\nI can't say we wern't  pissed when he used to do that in the mornings but i'll never forget it.
907790
YOU SHOULD NOT RECEIVE ANY PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT !!!\nYOU SHOULD JUST BE THROWN IN WITH THE REST OF THE LOSERS !!!\nAND WHATEVER HAPPENS TO YOU IN JAIL JUST TAKE IT AS A HARD LESSON LEARNED !!!\nHOPE IT'LL TEACH YOU TO STRAIGHTEN UP YOUR ACT AND CLEAN UP YOUR LIFESTYLE !!! \nUNLESS YOU REALLY LOVED IT IN JAIL THE KEEP DOING THAT SAME CRAP !!!
1077113
yes....it's called integrity/honor.  Hhhmmm, wonder why he threw you out of his house????
254983
eww! i know, it like totally sucks girlfriend! they treat you like you are in prison.
895380
i agree with christoph...s. Call the police. This situation is one in which you cannot control any more than he apparently can. This is not behavior that should be tolerated. If he goes to jail it might save his life and your sanity ! at least in jail he will have no choice, but to stop using. And also they have NA (narcotics anon.) meetings and some sort of re-hab services available to him. I know it's a hard decision to make but I wish I had done that for my husband, He died due to a cocaine overdose and I was a widow at age 27, Please think about it. God Bless you and your dad.
367825
I've been married for 3 years now, and let me tell you it has been hard at times.  My husband is very very compulsive about cleaning.  I however am the opposite.  He will come home from work and nag and complain NON STOP about everything about the house. When I do the dishes, he'll come in and yell at me because I'm not drying the right way, or I'm not stacking the right way.  We really had our breaking point when at 530am he was getting ready for work, and he took down the curtains because he wanted me to get a start on cleaning and making him breakfast.  Now I work full time too, and my alarm was set for 7am.  We had the biggest fight. I finally told him I couldn't take it anymore, he was bringing me down so much that I was starting to hate my self.  Just saying that too him killed him.  He had no idea that I was so unhappy.  After getting so much out he now makes an effort to make me feel better, he makes me breakfast in bed every Saturday.  And when he gets ready to complain or nag he holds back and simply offers the advice "take it or leave it"
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I pray that he will change his prejudiced ways, mature in every way and that you really think about yourself and why you want a convicted felon in your life. You can't change him. You can't help him unless he helps himself first!  You both will probably be very different people by then anyway.
701943
Are you serious? It looks like you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Nobody hates their life so much without realizing they need help. What happened to you in your childhood?\nYou need help. Professional! Immediately!
1067602
Geez I would never let my brother do those things to me.  Maybe its your daughter you should be worried about?
364847
my dad verbally abused me (he said he wished i was never born in his own "special" way and said i was a terrible son, husband, father, provider, etc).  i promised years before that i would scatter his ashes in an open waterway but if he doesn't leave me money for this deed, i will be glad to flush him down the toilet.  after all "all water ways lead to the ocean" (from finding nemo), right?\n\ni haven't spoken to him since and i don't intend to no matter what he brings to the table.
1104872
I'm sorry you are going through this.....My oldest did the same thing....he stole everything he could pawn or sale for money to keep his habit supported. I had to put a lock on my bedroom door to keep him out. And even that didnt work for long....He stole from his grandparents...friends....neighbors. I had people calling me all the time about the things he was doing. It started when he was about 14 years old....and he was in and out of trouble for so long. We had him to doctors and therapists.....he got put in juvenile centers.....county jail.....and finally did 3 different prison sentences..all of this was in the time frame of 11 years......after the second time in prison...I told him if he got in trouble again...then I would not come and see him...its too hard to watch your child like that....he got so used to that institutional life....that he couldnt funtion in the real world. Now he is out again....and seems to be doing good.......He is working and living about 4 hours away....we talk on the phone almost daily.....He lives with my brother..his uncle......He seems to really want to make it this time...and God willing ...he will....Be strong......tough love is just that....but I think its tougher on the parent than the child.....My prayers are with you and your child...
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Unfortunately my girlfriend is a clean-a-holic.\n\nEverything is shiny and tidy in our home.\n\nI'm not really complaining, but it would be nice sometimes to just relax, and let it 'runaway' a little.\n\nSometimes I'm trying to fix something, and I put down a screwdriver or something, and when I turn back a minute (sometimes seconds) later, it's been tidied away.\n\nHighly annoying.
1016833
YES...someone I know very well is the user. He started at only 14 and HIS OWN FATHER WANTS TO KEEP HIM HOOKED. He lies about everything, even small things. He wants everyone to love him or hate him.He flirts with girls just to get their drugs.He abuses his family and friends until they leave him just so he can get away with doing whatever he wants. Even when he is clean for a few months, he picks at himself until he bleeds and has mood-swings with tantrums. He is selfish.His mom spoils him, even gives him money for drugs and she abuses him too.The saddest part is that he has a baby that he can't take care of for even one hour.