I liked someone but lost due to my faults how to recover?
373773
Unfortunately I also lost the love of my life due to some faults of my own.  It took me a long time to realize that I had to let him go.  It was just not to be.  Only then was I able to work on my faults to be a better person all around.  That was a few years ago, I still love him, but haven't spoken to him since, but in a way I thank him for hurting me into getting help with some faults I really needed to fix.  Time is all that will heal.  I would let her go and take care of #1....YOU!  good luck!
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
187184
cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
510820
ya i had this problem too. what i had to do is i found some one i liked and when i wanted to chage i didnt and i stayed with them for a while untill i couldnt handle it at all and then i moved on. it works its just a matter of self control
144820
u messed up!anyway u have to agree that u were on the wrong.and tell him how u feel,(truly feel) the truth matters now.and if u dont say what u feel u will regreat.so in other words just say the truth,what comes out from ur heart then let him take it the way he wants to take it.but u messed up and do u think if u were done for  the some thing u would want that person back to ur life.i dont think so coz the person will repect the same thing or in a different way.dont have ur hopes up.pray and let it be.
74993
You have to give urself time 2 heal...dont jump into another relationship...try to see what went wrong and why u couldnt stop it...then...began 2 grow as a person...and once u have healed then u can began 2 work towards having better..longer and more successful relationships...\n\nGood Luck..SMoOoCHez!!!
398203
find someone else to like that will like you back
150701
If this guy doesn't like you, sweety there is nothing that you could do. I have been in a situation like this before. I had a crush on someone for three yrs. Everytime i saw him, my heart melted right into my hands. As time went on with him knowing how i felt, and not once did he care, i gradually got over him, it took some time but i did. Compared to the type of women that he was dealing with, in my mind i felt that he just let something good slip right passed him. If a man doesn't realize what they could have had, then hey their loss. If he can't see the good woman in you, then someone will. He's not worth your sleepless nights, your tears, your pain. Get up from there, fix yourself up, and take yourself out.
58335
start a coversation about things you both like who knows after your talk, you may not like him/her anymore. if you still feel the same way, the best way is just come out and ask for a date. if he/she says no then you just saved yourself some heartache.
570195
get over it, find someone who you know likes you.
815704
Remember how you acted when you first met the other person?  Remember the special little things you did?  Holding hands, sneaking a kiss and an hug?  Walks on the beaches, a quiet dinner out...\n\nGo back to that time and get the feeling back.
123910
There is always a chance, at the moment give that person some space, and you need space to to think about what went wrong and see how you can get past this hurdle, then try to win the person back, cont push it though because thne you will be rejected. but you will know if there is a chance..... and if there isnt.... try and move on dont just by stuck on that person\nHope everything works out for the best\n\nXoXo\nme
351981
This may not be possible.  How hurt was she?\nIf you are serious, look for her.  Try to talk to her in person.  Make sure she understands that you are not a player and that you really do feel sorry for any grief you may have caused.\nLet her know that you want quality time, not just a casual encounter.  Spill you guts.  Confess to your stupidity and lack of sensitivity.  Beg if necessary.\nOf if you don't feel that strongly about her, forget it.  It was never meant to be.
33088
bigskullfan doesn't know what he's talking about. Consider yourself lucky to have gotten rid of those who've done you wrong and look some more. Remember love happens when you don't expect it b/c you're not trying too hard. Or try forgiving those who've done you wrong. Good luck!
1175968
i have had a similar experience. You need to understand that everybody makes mistakes. What really matters is if they learn from their mistakes. If you think that he knew he was wrong and he loves you unconditionally now then you need to forgive him and stop thinking about what happened. If you keep putting him down, chances are he will feel desperate and lonely and will do the same thing again. If you don't want him to do the same thing again then stop punishing him. If he is really sorry for what he did then forgive him and forget the past. You can't build future living in past. Forget it and try building your future with him... =)
121520
Stop trying so hard. Let things happen naturally. Get out and have fun, but don't think about it so much. Its always when you least expect it, that you find that special person, or good friend.  Any time wasted worrying, is one more wasted day.
853758
You need to explain to your b/f that you've been hurt before and it's going to take some time.  Be patient with yourself and with him and allow yourself to enjoy being with a good guy for once.  There's the old saying "Once bitten, twice shy," so it's OK to feel badly.  Talk to your b/f and if he's the great guy you described, he will understand.