the boy i was once in love with still loves me but i like his friend what should i do?
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel
424339
Your first mistake was saying yes. End it now. The longer you go, the more he's going to be hurt when time comes. Tell him it's a little akward being with him so youd like to go back to being friends. If he really likes you then he would rather keep you as a friend then lose you all together. it will be akward after the break up for a little while, but just keep seeing him and talking to him, then the akwardness will go away, and everything wil be back to normal the way you liked it before.\nGood luck
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
493465
Well he is taken you should have spoken sooner.  Life is to short to wait on something, you gosta take chances, and the worst he could say is no.  I have liked a friends bf before but i didnt proceed, because our friendship was more imporiant.  And boys will be there forever there are only some friends are a one out of a million\nIf you have any further ?'s you can email me blondiewifabooty14@yahoo.com
145790
Dear Nanis,it would seem your friend is suffering from love lost in the past,or making an excuse to not get close to you.Love is an outgoing concern for the one loved GREATER than concern for self.And it is unfair of him to judge YOU as if you are going to hurt him too! In the meantime,still talk with him,be kind to him,and listen to him IF he returns the same thing.Otherwise it was not meant to be.I loved a girl once,and kept after her a whole year--but she simply did not love me.So decide with your HEAD what is best...the heart is a very deceptive emotional organ...you have to see 5 to 10 years down the road--guard your heart--YOU are worth loving,not being kept at arm's lentgh.
321450
u cant stop thnking about him, u wish u cld date him even tho ur friend is dating him & ur bff has been in luv w/ him 4 3 yrs, u tease him, & he teases u bak. he makes u cry cuz u cant have him.  this is my situation so...
247342
does he deserves to b a boy friend wen he hurts the feeling of the one whom  he loves the most ? \nhey ........ this was just one side of a coin \n may be this is the way he expresses his love . \nhave a talk with him and clear it out and by the way love is like this . it has to have some knick -knacks
534860
Simple, just relax and don't worry about your bf's friend. There's really nothing you can do to a girl who loves someone else. He'll think you're manipulative if you do something to make his friend lay off. They're just being friends. Plus, you said he didn't love her. It's going to be okay. And if he does love her, well maybe he loves you more. Don't let it bother you. =]
224871
If he is confused and has feelings for this other friend then you need to seek out someone who will make you happy.  Don't keep waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want because it will be you who will suffer in the end and you may also question how deep his feelings really were for her to begin with?  You could end up with more issues than you have now and regrets.
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
744929
if he doesnt love you honey you need to move on and find some one who does and fall in love with them.  you can love more than one person in your life trust me i'v been there.  if he isnt still in love with you and with you then you need to find some one else and i'm sure there is osme one else out there that is more perfect than this guy.  if he's moved on hes moved on and probalby does not love you anymore...if he loved you he'd tell you guys are straight up like that most hte time.
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
587199
Look, like some of them said, forgive him, and i don't know if you loved him or not, but any boy that will do something with your BESTFRIEND is not a good man. you have all of your life to find that right one, and if he wants to be with her let him be with her. hell she mite not be the only one that he has messed with anyway.
699096
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
211788
you cant make someone love you. if he really likes someone else, maybe you should give up the heart ache. think of what you putting yourself though, i hope the guy isn't stringing you along. i had that happen, my friend and i both liked the same guy he knew it used it against us, we stopped being friends and he'd hang out with us separately rat bastard. i had nice guys that liked me, but i only wanted that stupid jerk.(those were my teenage years) don't let that happen to you!!!
955136
Depending on how long him and his ex have been going together depends on how much time you need to wait until you let your crush on him progress.  Just take you time and try and be there for him as a friend.