is it better to fall for a gay man or a bi sexual man?
357633
You need to look at why you allow yourself to be treated that way.  Before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone you need to love yourself first.  I find it hard to believe that you truly love yourself if you would permit two different people to treat you with such disrespect.  Personally I think you should drop them both and concentrate on yourself for a while.
310057
No.  In order to be bi you would have to find the same sex attractive and be attracted to them.  If you aren't then you aren't so I wouldn't worry.
367233
ya, u might b in confusion...coz i hav some frds who r attracted to more then two guyz so u can handle it. so be careful coz u really hav to look well to both of them and ask urself which one is made foryou or wait till who propose u first...have fun
1045360
i think, instead of thinking of the gay hot guy that you are not going to change you should consider the straight guys that are possible.  no matter how hard you try you will not win over the gay guy unless you are another guy.
778946
If he is truly Bi and he likes to have a girl and a guy, then you might get somewhere.\n\nWhen women do the "how do I turn him straght" bit though I find it hard not to chuckle. Turning a gay man straight makes as much sense as trying to make blue paint red. It really isn't going to happen :)\n\nEnjoy the challenge, but you might want a backup plan - apart from anything else, if he IS bi and you get him, don't be too gutted as and when he wants to flip back to the "home team" :)\n\nBi guys are great, but not *usually* the best choice for a straight long term 1-2-1 relationship.
1100425
I think bisexuals are the luckiest of all sexual persuasions. Bisexuality isn't about lusting for men and women equally, bisexuality is about being sufficiently emotionally flexible that you can fall in love with either sex. \n\nThink about it. Heterosexuals are limited to half the world's population when trying to find a potential mate. Homosexuals have the same problem. But bisexuals (theoretically) have twice the possibilities because love can strike them anywhere, with anyone. \n\nThat, my dear, isn't a case of confusion. In a world where everyone wants to be loved, being bisexual is a type of manna from heaven, or maybe just plain old-fashioned good luck. Take your pick.
462168
Gay guys like bi guys because they are easy and there is little commitment.  Bi gays usually are easier to work with because they are more discreet.  Bi guys usually don't want everyone to know their business--and that is okay for a lot of gay guys.  Gays guys think straight men are hot, and a lot of bi guys act more straight.
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
784069
There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.
481557
first of all if you are sexually aroused by both male and females then you are bi, but if you are only sexually arroused by somebody of the same sex you are then you are gay.\n\nI would suggest going to a gay bar and going onto a date with sombody, not for sex, but to see if you feel more comfortable in a gay relationship first.
583786
theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
88644
Whether you are gay, straight, or bi, if you choose to be with either a man or a woman, since you are bisexual, you have to be able to commit.  Will you be able to supress your feelings towards men and deny them, so that you will be able to be true to this woman? The same if you were with a man. If you are with a man, will you be able to be faithful to him, and deny your feelings for women (not to mention other men too).  Being in a relationship is all about commitment and monogomy, not about who you are attracted to.  You will always see other people who are attractive to you, but you must remain faithful if you are in a relationship.  As far as finding her, be honest and let her know about your sexuality.  If you keep it a secret, it will eventually come out, and can potentially destroy your relationship for lying in the first place. Hope this helps.
755068
Being a caring person doesn't mean you are gay. You are gay if you want to have sex with other guys. If you want to have sex with other guys but also want to have sex with girls you are bi.
154681
if your gay go with the guys.if not girl.but if the guys are your best freinds never dump them for a girl....
99295
Well imagine your life with a person of the same sex,or try dating a person of the same sex that you are attracted in a certain way,and see what you feel.Experiencing will make you know.I'm bisexual,and if you ask me if i could have a wife(sounds so weird)I would say yes,cuz first of all a women knows better how to handle money,how to take care of a child(that can be adopted)and stuff like that.Though i still like boys,it's like the sex doesn't matter,they are all potential partners...:)
868596
First, do you think most people know that you are bi or gay?\nOf course not. So, the guys that you believe are straight, could very well be bi or gay. Keep your chin up!!!
482532
it depends.  on if you would be willing to put forth the effort on being a true bi-sexual.  And if you are willing to put out for the same sex partner?