what are the best ways of excitig a boy without the practice of masturbation?
360525
kissing on sensitive parts of the body like the neck and back try giving him a massage and using your lips every now and then blow all the way up his spine it sends tingles right up my when my GF does that\nhope this helps!\nnick
67630
There’s no limit or normality, I guess!\nAnybody has his own exigencies and characteristics!\nSome boy plays 1-2 times in a day while other one 2 -3 times in a week even!\nThere’s no contraindication and it depends by your libido and lust. Enjoy anyway!
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A glass of wine is nice. But trust me, too much of any makes the boys...well, not do so well. If you know what I mean. Check out a kama sutra book if you want something erotic. Much better than beer.
579199
Masturbate, of course.\nIt's the natural and logical thing to do.\nIf you're asking this question, it means you're probably fairly young so I certainly don't recommend going out and messing around with guys. \n\nTry theclitoris.com for information on masturbation.
663745
lightly tickling and stroking with your fingernails\n\nplay with the spot where they meet the peroneum (in front of a*se hole) \n\nsqueeze and massage them just as he is about to c*m
403701
Buy some videos on techniques, like giving a better bj.  Preview it and see what you think, but the idea is actually to watch it with him to practice.  He will love the idea that you want to try and the visual stimulation more than your technique improvement I bet!  There are some good videos out there on numerous exciting topics for couples.
1149568
how about trying masturbations?
785692
Relax and enjoy it, it's healthy and good for him.  Unless he can't stop or is doing it until he is raw and sore, otherwise, have fun!!
1182589
One thing my guy tried was right when he felt he was going to ejaculate, he would tell me to move to a different activity or position. That way, it gave him a few seconds to relax, and then he would have to take more time to get it to be erect again. Also, you don't necessarily need a girl to help practice; that's one advantage of masturbation. There are also alot of books on this that most regular book stores carry (sex, masturbation, erections/orgasms, etc). Or look online for sites about it as well. Plus, if that's the only reason women are with you is for sex, then forget them. You sound mature, and you don't need people like that who are only going to use you. Well, I hope that helped.
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BOY; BE GENTLE\nGIRL; MAKE BOY USE LUBICATED CONDOM
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sit back to back and just talk it'll be like your talking to yourself. plus if he gets bored he can sleep just playin.
239479
Get a babysitter and get out! Or, get a babysitter and atay in. Sometimes it's nice to play house, just like before the kids, when you'd chase each other around the kitchen table naked. We have a 3yo boy, but she works days, I work nights. I know what you're talking about. A hot tub doesn't hurt either.
115890
Try tantric mastur bation first, when you master that, sex is only a small leap.
531354
You can start out by breast feading him still and then finishing the session with a bottle.  It's going to take a few tries for him to get used to but eventually he will take to it and he will even prefer the bottle after awhile.  Good luck.
51668
Relax, Relax, Relax. Tell him what feels good. When he does it, tell him not to stop. Repeat as necessary for proper results...
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There are many ideas on the matter. Exercising the PC muscles is a good start. They are the same muscles you squeeze when you stop a flow of pee or when you ejaculate. Practice squeezing without using your butt muscles. You can do this exercise whenever you remember, driving, sitting, walking, anywhere possible. Stopping your pee midstream helps strengthen it too. Another thing is to practice delaying your ejaculation. During masturbation bring yourself to the point where you are just about ready to ejaculate then stop and squeeze your penis right below the head until the sensation passes, then continue masturbating until you again reach the point just before climax. Repeat the exercise until you can't stop any more and you orgasm. The more you practice the better, soon you'll be able to tell when you're about to climax and so stop yourself from ejaculating during intercourse until you and your partner are both ready. Be patient, it takes a while to be able to catch yourself and stop just before you climax. With time and practice you could have sex for quite a while before you allow yourself finish.\nAnother method calls for squeezing the scrotum just above your testis when they move up as you near ejaculation. You can do this to yourself or you can have your partner do it. Don't squeeze your testicles or you might lose the mood, you just want to grab the scrotum and pull them down not allowing them to move up into position for the climax. Hope this stuff helps.
382989
Well, you could try meditating. What's wrong with masterbating? It's yours, why shouldn't you be allowed to play with it?