How do i explain to my b/f that he hurt my feelings?
359188
you just need to tell him i didn't feel what you did was right than ask him how would you feel if i said something like that it wouldn't hurt you think about take a sec and if he doesn't care you just need to let him go because if after seven years he doesn't respect your feelings he doesn't deserve your time or energy
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
452726
Tell him that you're not ready to say it and put that sort of label on your feelings. But that you feel for him. That you care about him. When my man first told me, I din't say it back. I told him That I feel for him. It made me really nervous. I told him never to say it unless he means it, because I would never say anything empty.
717472
the best way to deal with love is to lay it on the line.  your heart is broken without him, you cant lose much more by telling him how you really feel.  i say honesty is the best policy and if he loves you too, hell take you back especially since its not because you did somethign stupid.  you just told him no, but realize your mistakes now.  tell him you love him - im sure he will be incredibly happy!
485763
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
409177
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
446490
Just be straight with him.I've been in a similar situation before and my b/f was just happy that I was honest with him.He didn't get mad about the lie at all.Honesty is the best policy,no matter the consequences!
329202
First, you need to understand why you're fighting. Is it over another person, money, time spent together? What?\nAfter you figure that out, plan a romantic evening. We're talking candles, music, pretty lacey things if you're at that stage, that kinda thing. And then apologize. Tell him how much you love him and that you're sorry that things have been so hard and that you wanna start over. And then do. If he feels the same way, he'll accept your apology and he might even apologize himself. \nGood luck sweetie
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
381068
Sometimes it's easier pointing out our partners flaws then our own.But we all have them. Tell him that the situation opened your eyes on seeing how he felt towards it and ask him to forgive you. In the end he'll do the same even if it takes a while. Just note that every time you have an argument remember whats important like when you first met and how you would get those butterflies in you stomach and just reminisce. It really helps ease the situation and it reminds you that arguing with someone that you care that much about is stupid.
371959
I would just tell him and get it off of your chest. Explain to him that your very sorry and that's the only tings you have ever kept from him.
558490
Dont play with his feelings like that cause someone could get hurt. Just tell him and get it over with. Cause if you do that, he will think that you are full of games. And being dishonest is the worst way of starting a relationship.
352210
Why do you have to tell him that? He already hinted that he doesn't want to be "pressed". The smartest thing to do is ACT like in love, but don't give the actual verbal message. \n\nMy guess is that YOU want him to love you back. It's not about revealing your feelings, it's about making him love you. Unfortunately, this doesn't just happen in a single day and it cannot be coerced by similar questions.\n\nLet him be, act like a loving person and your (and his) feelings will become evident.
739542
you need to bring it up, because if it hruts yo uand he doesnt knowthat it was an honest mistake it just may keep happening. i think the best thing to do it to sit him down and tell him thats your not being jealous and you understand how much they mean to you. yo ujust felt kinda bad that you had plans and they were broken, and yo uwere uncomfortable with her making it just so he goes you trust him, but you dont want to make him uncomfortable so you seem jealous. but the best relationship is based on trust and honesty and if he knows how you feel, hopefully it wont happen agian. let me knowif you need anything
252086
This is for you now and for the rest of your life.  As a guy, I wish all women would follow this advice:\n\nJust tell him.  Tell him honestly.  Don't be cruel but don't delay, and don't try to spare his feelings.  There's no way to keep him from being hurt and YES HE MAY HATE YOU, but it's much better to let him move on.  The more you draw it out or try to make it easier the harder you will make it for both of you.\n\nDon't do it in front of his friends or your friends.  Don't try to make it easier by offering to stay friends (though you may stay friends anyway, but don't force it).  Don't start listing his faults or reasons why you're breaking up; just keep it simple and say it's how you feel and it's not because of something he did or because there's something wrong with him (unless, of course, it is).
1111884
You broke it....you buy it!  It is you who's supposed to apologize to him, not him to you.  He just acted defensively against you, cause I can imagine what kind of things you said to him.  \n\nYou go to him to reconcile, and he will say "sorry" to you too for hitting you back.  Just don't expect too much from him...cause is you who made the damage....not him...he just tried to cover himself.  If he doesn't forgive you...move on.\n\nNext time...watch out for what you say.
386292
You have a perfectly valid reason for being upset. If he loves you he should respect your feelings. He basically lied to you. You can do better.