i just told my dad that i am gay and hes saying that i cant see her anymore what should i do?
365383
Talk to him again, it may have been a shock to him, he is a parent and parents have an agenda for their kids, life should go accordingly to the !norm! as parents see it.  Give him time let him get used to the idea, let him see this is what you want and that your happy.  I don't know what age you are, this may be a factor, think about your approach again, and wait for the appropriate time(only you will know when that is.
1131515
Wow!!! This is a problem considering you are not 18.  Maybe wait to be so open with your mother about your sexuality until you are old enough to move out on your own.  Trust me, she does love you, but she will obviously need time to get through her own issues about your choices.
568803
Tell yur mom that it is between her and your father, and you are not interested in getting involved.  If she gives you heck, tell her that you are just a kid, and this is an adult situation.  If she gives you even more heck, get on the phone and tell your dad that he is a wimp for not talking to your mom.  Let them know you don't want to get involved, and they won't involve you.
156718
Well Sweety, honesty is in most cases the best policy. Don't you think that she will find out one day? I would sit down with her and tell her that you need to tell her something that she might find shocking or that she might be upset about. Then, tell her, "Mom, I want you to know how much I love you and what a good mother you've always been (if this is true), and I need you to hear me out and try to stand by me, because I really need you now." Something to that effect. You may want to pick up some literature on parental understanding and support for parents of gay children. There's no real easy way to do it but I can tell that it's something you must do for your own peace of mind. I'm a mother and I can tell you that for most mothers, there is nothing that will change their love for their children, even if they are upset. The bond is so very strong between mother and child that I'm willing to bet that she will not stop loving you. She may be upset and unaccepting at first but if you keep the lines of communication open, you will work things out. Good luck, Honey. Here are some websites that might help you:\nwww.gayfamilysupport.com\nwww.outproud.org/brochure_for_parents.html
1120447
you need a hug.\n\nyou sound like your mom didn't love you enough, or did your daddy not love you engouh.\n\nThis cry for help is very brave.
756142
If you really care for her stick by her. May be she is having a hard time dealing with her sexuality. It sounds like she is into you. She told her parents.Just give her time.
971556
You say she is Not a lesbian or bisexual.  You and her are both lying to yourselves.  She is just that.\nIf she is this upset about it, then she should go to a therapist to discuss her feelings and set a plan to come to grips with her sexuality.
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Strange..... that can mean alot of things, so without a better explanation.... i'll give it a shot.\n\nIt's possible that he is starting to get concerned on how close the two of you have gotten... and is a bit scared.... he may even be thinking that the relationship is moving way too fast and it's time he gets out while he can.\n\nThats all just a guess though, cuz you didnt explain what "strange" meant.\n\nNow.... if strange means that he is humping your Dad's leg whenever he walks in the room.... then that's a whole different issue\n\n*** added after her new description ***\nPossibilities:\nHe cheated on you\nHe's gay\nHe likes wearing your underwear\nHe's breaking up
876889
When I came out my family told me that they knew already. They didn't hate me.  Be honest with her.  Make sure you know what you want, both in life and out of this conversation.  You may try talking to another family member that you think will be more receptive.  They can be support for both your mother and you.\n\ntalk to friends and have a plan.  have somewhere to go for support is it goes badly.\n\nGood luck.\n\nPS most mothers don't "hate" their children
568455
Yes, tell her it all.  Unfortunately, she may not believe you and it may cause a rift in your relationship with her, for awhile anyway.  You shouldn't have waited though.  It may sound like sour grapes at this point and your mom may think you are making this up because she is making fun of you.  I would tell her that she could believe you or not.  It is her choice, but to not be surprised to find out that your stepdad, has been cheating on her in the past, or will be cheating on her in the future.  Tell her that you are not saying this for any other reason than that she needs to know the truth.  I'd even tell her that you really thought that he was being a great guy by coming all that way to help you out and that you wouldn't say anything against him if it was not true.  Tell her that you do not want to cause any problem with her and your relationship with her.  I would also tell her that you do not want to be alone with him or have your daughter left alone with him.  It may make your point stronger.  Good luck!
767038
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
358670
There is no good way to tell her.  BUT, if it's important to you to tell her then you should.  Just prepare a little first--practically and psychologically.  Understand, it will be emotional for both of you.  Mothers can surprise us though.  She might already know, and is waiting for you to be honest with her.\n\nPersonally, I would tell her you want to talk to her privately about something that is very important to you.  Next, I would tell her how much she means to you and that you love her and appreciate all she does for you.  Tell her, this is why you "have to tell" her because she means so much to you.  Tell her first that this is a very difficult thing to talk about but that you need to so that she may have the opportunity to be a part of your life (in the future).  THEN...just tell her the truth.  "Mom, I'm a lesbian" or "Mom, I'm gay."  Give it time to sink in.  Once you say that, it should be enough for the first conversation, unless she wants to talk more about it.  AVOID arguing and be prepared to end the conversation and disappear to a friend's house (if you need to).  She may or may not become angry (which is normal) and say hurtful things she really doesn't mean.  Just keep it short, sincere, and see what happens.  She may not 'believe you' at first; just give her time to process her emotions.  Chances are you will feel better after you do this.  Good luck and GOOD FOR YOU.  Be who you are without shame.
295705
told him what and i am confused he dumped you and she told you your avatar is a guy are you gay is he bi is she a guy too i have a headache
284293
You didn't forget to ask...she forgot to tell you. Don't blame your daughters sexuality on her though. Just move on with your life and find someone who is worthy of you love. Be there to support your kids.
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
827412
Ouch : ( Are you sure she is straight? she could of been hurt from you rejecting her. You need to tell her that you did have feelings for her when she came out to you, but you weren't mentally ready to deal with these feelings/emotions yet. You need to emphasise that you understand it may have been a phase for her, and just showing her the decency of telling her how you actually feel. By you already telling her i am sure she has started to think back when she did like you and what attracted her to you. I don't think she has lost her forever, you never will you to are good friends. But you need to also understand she will be emotionally and mentally a mess, because she had strong feelings for you and you burned her so she properly has compressed those feelings until how you told her how you feel. And i am pretty sure she would be questioning her sexuality again. So please be patient with her and don't give up. \nBest of luck : )
209990
I really believe you need to talk to your Dad and Mom together.If not them then your mom and step mom. Or a counselor.Tell them how you feel. Also I don't think he really knows he's doing that to you. You are his child also. I'll say a prayer for you, and good luck!!!