Could i be in this Girl's life just for a season or it is fate?? *This Is for Grown- Folks?
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People enter other people's lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  Perhaps you came into her life when she needed a comforting word or hand. Some one she knows is in her corner. Many great friendships and romances start out ths way.
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You ever heard of Medea...well in her play she says be careful to not get lifetime expectaions mixed up with seasonale people.  Some people just come into your life for a season meaning a short time and with in that short time teach you a lesson to last you a life time.  If she says she needs space give her space because she will realize later that you never leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love.  When she realizes that she will come back.  And if she does not everything happenes for a reason.  I do not know who or what you believe in but God may be moving her out of your life for someone else to come and love you right and much harder than she did.  TIME...Biggest enemy and best friend just let time handle it.  Also weight the pros and the cons of the relationship if the good out weights the bad stay or try to work it out if it is the opposite leave it alone.  I hope this answer helps.
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Of course!!!life is 4 fun..not 4 doing romantic scene but erotic !!!\nI would dragged her in a coner were there would be no1 and then......it would be really fun!!!
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Nope. Life goes on. New loves will come into your life :)
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Well, it's not really what I want to accomplish, but how I lived my life. I think, like you, I want to travel, but not too often. I am morre concerned with having a family and taking care of them. I want to fall in love with the perfect guy, get my heart broken. Maybe a few other things, but mainly I want to know that I   lived my life well and took every oppurtunity that came my way. I want to have made a greaat influence on my children and maybe on the rest of the world.
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No!!! life's a b!itch, get over it , yeah it sucks and it doesnt exactly sound like she is the queen of maturity, but if you roll it over your sholder and be the mature, nice one, people will realize what a        b!tch she is and take your side.  Now who's hurtin???
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People are like seasons. They come and go in your life, for better or for worse.
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If you like them both, flip a coin, let fate decide. If fate decides one guy, and your first reaction was... DANG... I wanted it to be the other guy. Go with your gut.. choose the guy you wanted it to be!
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Although I'm not a club going person, I believe that just about anywhere is a place to meet someone who will/can catch my attention.\nAfter having disappointed relationships, I believe that I have to wait for GOD to send someone that's worthy of my time, feelings & heart to be in a serious longlasting relationship.\nAlthough life is short & I'm not promised tomorrow, I will not give up on meeting my queen!
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it is not up to anyone here to make that descision for you, however you need to ask yourself "Is this person going to get me where I want to be in life? or are they going to hinder me?" "Is this person going to be there for me when I need them? or are they going to leave me in the lurch?" "can I spend the rest of my life with this person?"\n\nif you can answer these all with yes then go for it but I think you already know the choice you need to make. and I think it is the right one.
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I do not believe in fate, but rather just follow the path God has set before me. I feel that everything in my life has happened for a reason. The hard part, at times, is not knowing the reason until further down the road.
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Depends on one's age.  And it merely sounds as tho you're both at a tender age of not knowing what you want in your lives just yet.  Some take longer than others.  And some need many experiences and lessons along the way.  Do whatever you feel comfortable with.  Please dont make any life committmants until you're totally ready yourself.  :)
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Dont be! Me thinks that applies to everybody. Dont feel like that, im sure better things will come your way, im sure it eventually will!\n\nHow does one know where one wants to be in life?\nI cant quite get what you're trying to ask, but let me try :)\n\n--Well, sometimes you dont and stuff just happens untill you are where you are, and sometimes you have to plan things out to get to where you want to be.\n\nHmm...\nIf you really need to see what will come to you in the future, i guess you would have to have a goal or an aspiration... a dream! Lollers, and then take the necessary steps, or make the decisions that you might know will get you there... y'know :-)\n\nHonestly, i myself cant seem to place my self in this world, and even to know exactly what will become of me when i get older.\n\nI have tried to make plans, i have my dreams, but sometimes things just dont work out the way it should be.\n\naaaanyway.\nI suggest you don't let things happen - make things happen. youl know when your there after all those decisions and forks-in-the-road and shat.
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I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
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To LIVE ur life as it is fated... cherish de good moments and de bad ones too. Try live ur live as though 2 moro does not exist. u'll find out de answer.
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in other words, you chose how to live, and how your life is going to be, it isn't just going to happen for you. and, you can't just sit around and hope something happens, you have to make it happen for yourself.
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Life is risk. I am in the same situation as you, except the girl I'm after has a boyfriend, but I'm going to tell her how I feel anyway. Stupid? Probably. But I don't want to look back in a few years and wonder 'what if'. You may lose a friend, and you may gain a girlfriend / boyfriend. Remember, fortune favours the bold. :)