is it healthy for a son and mother to discuss her sex life?
370150
I think it is healthy, but its not necesarily for everyone. As you can see from some of the above postings, a lot of people would be pretty uncomfortable talking about sex with their mothers and its pretty understandable. However the more that people understand sexuality and the better informed they are and ulitmately safer they are. Also in some situations is almost a necesity if the son doesnt have much of a male influence in his life, his sexual development may hinge on learning things his mom has told him. Plus even if its weird any time a guy can get perspective on sex from a female its probably going to make him a better lover for his future partners. So id venture a guess to say that women probably wouldnt mind as much that their partners learned a little about what women like from mom.\n\nStill this only works if the relationship between mother son is fairly open and talking about sex is not an akward conversation.
120035
I'm an advid listener of Dr. Drew's Love Line, and apparently this is very common. In his mind he's still making the transition of you from being his lover to mother of his child. That, and being a guy, I could definitely relate to the other posts thus far - having sex after watching a kid pop out would definitely be a bit strange. Try talking it over with him and spicing up your sex life with something new, such as sexy lingerie, roleplaying, etc.. Something new will help redefine you from the sexual relationship you had prior to the child.
141635
Hi Sweetheart, I'm Tina (Mom). You answered my question about the "Ask Mom" column I want to start, so it looks like you might be my first asker, even though I don't have the column yet. Okay, I went through what you did when I was your age. I too had had sex and my parents found out about it and off to the Doctor we were going to go but my Mom backed out when I admitted the truth. The best way to handle this is to realize that they will find out one way or another. Either by a Doctor or if you tell them the truth. There's nothing to be afraid of. It's not a death sentence, just something that's very hard to admit. I would sit down with her and say "Yes, I've been sexually active and I don't want to lie to you about it." If you've lied already, then apologize and take responsibility for it and try to assure her that it won't happen again. Remember, it will only last moments and you will get beyond it and things will return to normal again. The cat's pretty much out of the bag so you may as well lay it on the table. You may get punished but that's part of taking responsibility for it. You're going to be just fine, Honey. Your Mom loves you and you both will get through this. Good luck. Tina (Mom)
199227
Don't get in a tug of war over her son's affections. Ask her advice from time to time, and do mother-daughter kinds of things together. Show respect and include her before she asks to be included. I'll bet you'll get along just fine.
1155367
well congratulations On being so accepting of your son being gay!!  The world could use more mothers like you! as long as you are accepting then I really don't see anything wrong with it!!, but I would pull them aside and tell them just that!! Congratulations on being a really cool, mother you seem to be the best!  \n\ncongratulations on your new business you really must be excited I wish you the best of luck and continued susses on your new venture!!!\n\ntell your son and employee I wish them well in their relationship
940457
Some parents have the misconception that if they ignore the "sex" issue that their children will not be curious about it. That is unfortunate. I had many young ladies come through the hospital where I used to work who were pregnant mostly because they were uneducated in the sexuality department.All children should be taught sex and they should be taught from the parents moral standards and background. I think some parents don't know how to approach the subject with their kids. I also think that many are uncomfortable with their own sexuality so it makes it very hard for them to talk to their kids and explain something that they are uncomfortable talking about themselves.
94359
this is something you have to make a choice about.you cant let your mother make it for you.thats wrong.but if u enjoy it go ahead.
642841
Make it a threesome, or mind your own business.  There are fathers and daughters in this world who do such things, enjoy it, and consider it nobody else's business.  That sort of thing NEVER goes on between mother and son.
192096
take ur son and go what can she say she is bussy getting laid anyhow so u r better 4 him \nhe dont need to b around a woman like that cause then he will think all women r like that and he may grow up 2 treat them bad
383652
tell them about safe sex
744298
mom i'd like to f*** basically a mother some guy thinks is hot and wants to have sex with....
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I agree with Kristin, but I am a little confused as to why this hasn't been address previously. If you are babysitting, or taking care of the child, then it is perfectly fine to set guidelines, and to tell her no, or to put her in timeout, or take toys,etc away. However, unless you are told it's ok by her mother, I would not spank the girl. Also, I would recommend talking to the mother and your son in private, not in front of the child, to find out what, if any, kind of discipline happens at home. I also would be highly offended and incredibly angry if the matter was brought up in front of my kids. I do think that you have the right to an opinion, I mean I respect my mother's ( who am I kidding, I am my mother, lol), and if they are to marry, you will need to know as her presence will be a permanent one.
568100
you should ask your mom or dad about it. actually they should have talked to you about sex a long time ago. you're to young to be on a public forum asking sex questions. you're gonna get somebody sent to jail.
512215
What's more important to u the friendship of the guy, or being able to feel guilty, since your mom has been though what she has, she should understand, how bad would it be if she found out, would u be in more trouble then not telling her. I don't mean to be mean to u but really that is just selfish, & your mom should respect u for telling her the truth. It's understandable what happened under the circumstanes. It depends on how open minded your mom is. good luck, i would talk to her, i'm sure u feel bad about your friend, also i would tell your princple, that boy will have that on his record. do the right thing.
597300
This should be analyzed by a professional and my biased opinion shall remain "between the lines" of this response.  There is no question about it and this woman should be ashamed of herself as well as the son.  It should be ILLEGAL to take your son to his prom.................LOA!
72958
u have to respect the mother but you have to let her know how  you feel about her boy and don't lie moms know but remember you are with the son not the mother and you don't have to go around her
589737
I guess mothers (over their sons) are really nosy...and in terms of the opposite...protective behavior aside...maybe she's looking into how to make herself feel young again? Not too sure...but either way...my gut tells me you should confront the issue and find out what she's really getting out of it...