why do guys change when you have sex with them?
356791
depends on quality of sex. or on quality of guy...\nhow old r u?
794915
i agree with you, man... they think just because some guy is willing to stick their penis in their vagina and move it in and out, that means he loves her!!!! huh???  it doesn't even make sense.  they always go out with guys that just use them.  i don't use girls and i end up alone.  nice guys finish last, i suppose.
424228
ok not all guys are like that and the ones that are are probably just angry cause they cant get in a good relationship or they are just in it to get laid.... my gf's ex was like that and when i started going out with her she started realizing it. like some guys are diks and u need to be able to kno who they are and spot it before u get too attached. but to be fair a lot of girls mess with our minds too so its not only guys
562868
That is a nice story and you know it is untrue. Our bodies are healthy and normal and for the most part we all function about the same. Your testicles simply need time to recoup and produce. So all of us guys know that there is a lot of variety in the number of times, daily, every other day or so, weekly or whatever.\n\nTruth represents things the way they really are. We are not made for sex. Sex is made for us.\n\nNothing as natural as this is harmful in any way whatsoever. Us guys right after this, though, lose interest almost immediately and like to relax. That is not the same as feeling weak. We simply have worked out and then want to take it easy for a bit.\n\nSo this has nothing to do with weight.  The little energy it really takes makes us stronger.
593855
simple guys are horny and r in such a rush to do it they don't even care if it's with the wrong person.fortunally there are good guys out there who are willing to wait for the right time. stick to those boys
505671
Not very much.  Ive seen Murry shows that have men & women who have had sex changes & the audiance has to pick out the men & women.  Sometimes it is very hard to C a great lookin woman & think she use to be a man.  WOW. I would think a man would get so tired of getting screwed over by a woman & change. R a man cant handle his sex roll so he has a sex change R Men think they can do better by being a woman.  Who knows.
1036136
He thinks that now that you are having sex, there is no more need to flirt.  He thinks he is going to get sex whenever he wants it now.  He probably thinks he owns you now, and that you are his absolute property.  Better be careful; he could be a maniac.\n\nSex changes a relationship.  He only flirted to get you in bed; probably nothing more.  And that is all he wants (sorry to have to tell you).  Is this guy married?  Now that he had you, you are not worth as much to him.  You gave yourself to the wrong guy.  Sorry.  What really you should do is get all his clothing off, then give him a very sound paddling and strapping with a paddle and a strap, on his bare bum.  He really deserves it, and it is the only way you will get any respect back.  Good luck.
684282
YEAH CUZ TO A GUY SEX IS SEX AND THEY LIKE IT NO MATTER WHAT BUT TO A GUY IN LOVE SEX IS WAY MORE PASSIONATE AND HE SHOULD VALUE THAT A LITTLE MORE AND YOU REALLY NEED NOT WORRY
55951
Usually when a guy acts like this it is either because he has a guilty conscience or the woman is giving him reason to believe something may be going on like acting flirtatious with other men or even by not being as caring towards him.  If this has been a recent change in his behavior and you are not doing anything that could explain his actions, I would be suspicious of what he is doing.  I hope that's not the case and that it is simply a misunderstanding that will be worked out.  If he has always been this way, it may just be his personality or he may have had some bad relationships before you.  I would suggest changing your behavior to see if he changes.  You won't be able to change him but by changing your own behavior (in a positive way), you can elicit a better response from him.
106235
because u grow to have feelings for him and your hut that he lie to you when he could have just told you the truth men do that so that they can have there cake and eat it to just let him be you dont need to be having sex with him let him stay as your friend or leave him along he could be telling the truth or he just don't want to have sex with you again
505281
Same reason why guys put their genitals into plastic dolls and dirt piles and dogs and just about anything else.  Guys like to get off, any way they can, and there is nothing you can do about it.
705206
Every guy is different and each responds to different things. Believe it or not, while some guys are turned on by in-your-face provocative attitude, many find it cheap and a total turn-off. It's in the subtleties and how the chemistry works between two people. Pay attention to that and you may not have to try so darn hard. This goes for straight or gay.
738803
Answers:\n1. Guy's are pre-programmed by nature to cheat. It's nature, and look how the animals interact with sex. they just seek pleasure and no commitment.\n2. You let him Cheat you. You showed something like "cheating is OK.\n3. He has a Cheater friend. It's peer pressure here.\n4. He has a broken family background: History repeats itself.
232082
The only guys that try that are trashy guys.  If you quit attracting trashy men and stopped giving them the impression that you WILL go to bed with them on the first date then you will start to attract guys with a little more class and higher caliber.  \n\nIncidentally, I'll bet you HAVE had sex with more than five guys on the first date.
514194
People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
1044940
no, it makes u a whore. The relationship WILL not last. Guys are sex obssessed and u give in, but then they got it, and then they will end it. A, they don't like whores so much, B, not cool, C passion lasts 3 years, lust is 1 year and sex is maybe less, u start losing the "good sex" and then ur not close, u fall apart and then it's over. It is NOT respectful of yourself and ur body. U want an std w a million pills? Get pregnant?
414193
If your boyfriend is used to having sex with you, and you stop giving him sex, he will probably leave.  Maybe you should try asking him out on dates since he isn't doing it, or just breakup since you don't seem very happy.  Maybe the 3rd time will be the charm.  (It took me 5 tries to find the right one)