My sis is in love wid a guy I can't realy bring myself to trust. And, she wants to marry himWhat should I do?
360585
There is not much you can do. she is in love with the man and she is an adult so your parents unfortunately don't have much to say and should  support her in whatever choice it is that she chooses to make\n\nYour sister evidentally sees something in him that you cannot see and that is what counts. YOUR SISTER is the one that is marrying the guy and she knows him better than anyone else does. She is following her own heart and that is what counts\n\nLove your sister and support her. \nLet her make her own choice and if it is a bad choice and she gets hurt, then show her support and do what you can to comfort her. \n\nFor now, let her make her own choice.
669227
There a guy just like that in my life, I used to confine in him cause he was a good riend and he told me once that he like me and I should be with him even if it was a secret relationship, I told him I can't do that cause no matter how my bf hurt me I still love him and I am not going to leave him. I made my decision based on the vibes I was getting from the other guy. You need to ask your boyfriend's brother about his whereabouts on particular days. Use you woman's intuition, most of the time it is right and on clue. You need answers and you need them answered. But tell that guy exactly what is on your mind. Don't completely trust him. Take everything at face value and question other things completely.
268918
Let your brother know that you like this guy.  If your brother is against it he will tell you then walk away, or come to a compromise with your brother.  If he dont care which he prob. wont then go for it. B/f you start a relationship with this guy set out some rules and let him know that if it does or doesn't work out it's between the both of you.  Just think if you marry this guy your 1 step ahead; the family already likes him lol.
1120364
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
807636
If the guy was REALLY interested in your sister and ending his marriage, he would have done so already. \n\nMy advice to your sister is to find a SINGLE guy out there and forget about the married guy.  It will only make her happier in the end and she won't be sitting around waiting for something that won't ever come to fruition.\n\nBesides that, he cheated on his wife with her.  What is to say that he won't tire of your sister and cheat on her after they are married?  He is a loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
331103
Your sister is immoral and on her way to becoming a sexual deviant being. She needs guidance. Maybe you are the one to help her out.
1014827
I wouldn't try to hurt her by giving her two choices but I'm afraid that's how it would have to be. She can either be with your brother or your cousin. If she stills wants both as yoou caring for you brother its your job to protect him and not let a girl hurt him in anyway so you will come to a hard decision and sacrifice because it might be your friendship vs. your brothers trust and love. If you don't like that way just let your friend find out the hard way whatever game you may play will always be used on you the other way.
1179597
tell her before she finds out form someone else. if it is her brother, she will upset if you do not tell her yourself. \n\nwith the other girl, well, u liked him first so u just need to go for him! but make sure it is ok with his sis first. the ask him out before the other girl can get to it.
495099
You know what must be done, if you have hard evidence confront him as well as your sister. Especially you are sister should be one that you should be more angry since she's blood related. Either that you could just forgive them and go on with your life, find a better guy.
367730
Just be honest with yourself and your family.  If you truly love her AND you honestly believe she will never do it again...then just tell your family.  Let them know how much you care about her and if they love and trust you, they should accept her.
150324
Tell him to leave you alone because your sister means way more to you than he ever could.  Then decide if you need to tell your sister.  I vote yes, but it is tricky because she may be hurt and blame you or not believe you.  Regardless family first...
559955
She is JUST your step-sister.  It sounds like you're both consenting ADULTS.  Sheesh, these idiots who say/think you're blood related or it is against the law, OMG!!!  There is NO blood relation in step-sister/step-brother.  Two people who aren't related get married and their kids are step-brother/sister.  What fools!!!  I say go for it!!  Life is short!!  You might regret it later if you don't!!  Good luck.
1081515
You need to get right to the heart of the matter and politely and sincerely ask your sister why she feels unable to respect your privacy. If there is a trust issue, it needs to come out into the light.
570560
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
1023299
Well maybe ur aunt is little sucpicious bout the guy u r dating............well if u r sure and u know that he is rite guy to be married...........then just tell ur aunt that u trust him and u trust ur aunt feelings ..............surely ur aunt will understand........don't worry......may God bless u wid ur future
921745
Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.
298451
If you have any doubts it is.  I wouldn't do it.  It's at your own risk; what happens when her sister finds out that her sister is dating her exboyfriend?  Hopefully she doesn't choose you over her?  :)