When me and my boyfriend were just friends, we talked on the phone every night, now we hardly ever talk, why?
364047
Maybe now that he has you he doesn't feel like he has to keep trying as much. You should tell him it bugs you, that you like talking to him. You could call him at night to talk, but definatly tell him that you'd like for you two to talk more.
216176
I just don't see how people can actually say that they have a relationship with someone and call them your boyfriend/girlfriend if you only talk on the phone. If you do not see one another then its not a relationship and it won't go anywhere. It doesn't sound like it is going anywhere so if I was you I would just break it off and quit wasting time on someone who you can't see and find a girl that you can see and share friendship, turst, honesty,love, lust,passion,ext with,all the neccities that a healthy relationship requires.
361358
I'm bad on the phone too. We just leave the phone for when we make plans, and have actual conversations face to face. If you're in a long distance relationship and need to communicate this way, talk about your day and then use the events to spark up conversations on your thoughts about certain topics.
410568
I'm 26 and in a long distance relationship as well.  We live 2.5 hours away from each other and I always return her phone calls.  It pisses me off if other people don't return mine, so I always return theirs.  Point to remember, guys don't like to talk on the phone.  I have trouble talking on the phone for more than five minutes.  I love her, but it seems like more of a job than a pleasure.  I can talk your ear off in person, but not on the phone.  Sounds like your boyfriend is forgetful or too busy.
350327
well since you didnt include much information i can only guess to why you feel you are losing him. you probably are. maybe your relationship is stuck in a rut. By this i mean maybe you have been through all the fights and spontanious moments and need to spicin things up again. Make things more interesting. If you and him have been together for a long time you might be alittle bored with eachother and like i said need to try some new things. Try being honest with him.
91724
My G/F and I live many miles apart. We can only get together on weekends, so that means during the week, we tie up the phone lines all the time. We have no problem talking on the phone.\nWe talk about everything under the sun and act as though we are in the same room together.\nJust start talking and if it's the right person, holding a conversation will not be a problem.
1092659
Are you trying to talk and he is not interested?  Is it a comfortable silence where you are just content to be together and possibly know each others thoughts?  Do you want to break up, but are waiting for him to make the move or do you want to stay together and are worried he already left so you are afraid to put yourself out on a limb and reach out to him - maybe this is what he is waiting for?  Is there other demands on his or your time that limit the time to talk?\nIt may be a sign of breaking up, a sign that more effort is required, or that you are comfortable enough not to have to talk all the time.  I am sure these are the things you are already thinking, but only you and he can decide if it is over or if you want it to be over as we don't know the personality quirks of either of you.  If the communication is so bad that you cannot ask him then I guess it is over or never was.
745051
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
440654
Maybe he just doesn't like to talk on the phone.  Maybe your idea of "as much" is too much for him.  It doesn't mean he doesn't like you or is trying to seduce you, while that may be the case you have to see it from his point of view.
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
342185
A lot of boys just don't talk much on the phone to girls - even their girlfriends.  But if he talks to you when you're together, that's what counts.
154112
Well, you must remember most guys are lazy when it comes to phone conversations. They like to talk in person. It seems to be a good feeling to have the girl present when conversating. Now, if you keep calling and he doesn't answer, then it means he was "playing" you girl. Though you must consider the fact that he's probably afraid of losing a wonderful girl like you and he wants to take things a little slow.  Give him some time.  Set a time to meet again and hang out a little more or have him plan things out with you.  He will eventually warm up to you and then you won't have to worry about phone calls because he'll be there by your side to conversate with you in person. Just remember that men are a bit slow. LOL. Be a little patient if he's worth the time. Sometimes, you might have to get to know the guy a little more to find his sweet self.
663949
About time, you asked what he thinks of you. It seems that you have slipped into that friendship realm, not the boyfriend one.\nUnless some change is made, that's all it will ever be.\nSpeak up, and ask him outright.
762944
Sounds like he didn't value your friendship as much as you did. Friendship is like love in a way, sometimes we get burned, and there's nothing we can do other than just move on and keep going. I hope you have other friends to bring joy back into your life.
774570
i know how you feel. my friend did the same thing and unfortunately she has changed alot and we are not close like we used to be. but that doesnt mean that it has to be that way for you too( hopefully it wont! )\n\nat first my friend was confused i would try to help her out as much as i could and now i guess shes made up her mind (she has a gf now) and i just let her do her own thing. \n\nits sad becuase we hardly talk like we used to.  oh well what can you do
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
491499
Sounds like a fairly new relationship, take it slow. If he isn't calling, maybe he has good reasons. Tell him your bothered by this, try to come to a resolution between the 2 of you. A good relationship needs amazing communication. No hiding things. If this doesn't work, start shopping for a new relationship. Always another bigger better fish.