Why do you have to go to school i think because you meet hot guys and have fun with your friends??????????????
360427
Let me tell you from experience:\n\nWhen I see the people I knew from high school who went to high school for their friends are still in the neighborhood working cashier jobs with several kids and struggling.\n\nWhen I see the people I knew who went to school for their education, they have their own houses, nice cars, and they STILL have good friends, but none of those friends are cashiers.\n\nYou go to school for a good education.\nIf you have TOO much fun as a teen, you're going to have a REALLY hard time as an adult.
792217
Perhaps it has to do with confidence, and just plain putting yourself out there to meet someone.  Like if a person is just at home/work/the grocery store or whatever, and doesn't really get out there to meet people, they might not.  You don't have to go to clubs and all, just do things that you enjoy doing, like if someone likes to cook they can take a cooking class and maybe meet someone there.  Or religious functions/events, etc.  Also, confidence is really important.  If you don't like yourself and/or are not confident, then no one is going to like you either.  People LOVE confidence.  You really have to gain it from the inside, and it's very possible to do so even if someone doesn't have a whole lot of confidence right now.  I believe if you're really confident (not just pretending to be) and put yourself in a position to meet new people, they should be fine and find someone to share their lives with.  People really do just have to be themselves, and not try to be someone they're not.  If they're a kind/nice person, stick with that, it's great!  Nice guys don't always finish last!  I HATE jerks, and I can tell when someone is a jerk pretty much off the bat.  In fact, I have a weird thing for bookwormy-nerdy-weird guys lol.  I've been there and done that with the "hot" guy thing, and I find people who are quirky just 100 times more interesting most of the time.  But again, confidence in who you are is pretty key.
918920
This guy's too cool for school, you're gonna have to take the lead on this one.  Men don't chase women as voraciously as the once did because they get scared they will annoy you and you'll just walk away.
962225
Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
1028712
be youself..don't be like other people..you are your own woman...and don't need to be a follower..what are your interests..are u into sports....if so..join some of those school activites
669790
Hey I'm a prep and I have never even had a bf!! I have better things to do...even though guys are cool and all. I have a lot of guy friends and I don't get all caught up with dating. I have school work, fencing, and a lot of other things to keep up with. Anyway, don't associate being preppy with dating. Not everyone's like that...even though it may feel like that sometimes. :)
553828
There is nothing wrong with you.  I too was single all throughout high school, but started meeting great guys when I went to college.  I was the winner of all of the local beauty pageants, and even did modeling for dillards and jcpenney's.  I never was asked out in high school and was bummed about it at the time. My modeling coach told me that men especially high school boys are intimidated by attractive women who happen to be smart. She told me to give it time and then I would be asked out by men.  She was right.  It is hard to wait. I totally understand. Try to keep busy with school activities whether it be drill team, cheerleading, volleyball, basketball, choir, band, etc. and take time to hang out with your friends.  You will be asked out when the time is right. Do not rush it. It is hollywood and all the fashion magazines that make us feel that we have to be asked out or dating in order to have self worth. Do not buy into that.  There are guys out there who will be totally amazed by the awesome person that you are, but you have yet to meet them or if you have, they are not at the place they need to be in order to ask you out. Best of luck.
803342
dont worry about the guys in your school.  Look for an older guy that will take care of you.
221505
your studies because they will take you further than he ever could. Also if you have to choose, he isnt the right guy for you so don't waste your education.
660172
Simple:  the guys are intimidated by you.  Point blank.  I had the same problem in high school...you will find better opportunities when you get out of high school and into college!!  Just keep doing you and achieving all you can achieve...they will come to you in the end!!!  I know because it happened to me!!!
172307
Dude, I love answering this question.  Don't worry about it, your interests may be considered lame by the cool crowd, but you will find friends that share your interests.  My boyfriend was a total dork in school (like into Dungeuns and Dragons and in band and stuff) now he's really hot and he's still into that stuff, but he has me and lot's of friends.  The most important thing to remember is that IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER AFTER HIGH SCHOOL.  No joke, as soon as you graduate, go to college or work, whatever your choice, but you don't have to worry about being cool, you will grow into your looks and girls will find you attractive, you will find friends.  There is no reason to try to fit in the "COOL KIDS"
588861
hot guys aren't mean and stupid.\nThey just have higher standards. so if you don't fit there, that means that you are not good enough for them.\nsome ugly guys are ready to go with girls my dog wouldn't date. so they can just treat you better.while a hot guy finds you worthless.\nso forgive us if we can't lie to our selves.
618931
get new crushes there are alot of hot guys out there
897291
Are you kidding me! I've seen some hot and active guys that love all those things. What makes you a nerd is if thats ALL you do and if you have no social skills and dress in like dungeon and drangon T-shirts...
622141
first of all you are a highschool student that means you are still young and you still have a lot of time to party and go crazy in the future, you know i have a problem knowing that i need to study but i go out insted or do something more fun instead now thats a problem. youll be fine just dont study to hard or you will forget how to have fun, i got cople of friends like that you got to reward your self sometime aight
1136807
it's really good. u develop ur personality on ur own. u get to play sports at school. u get to join cool activities in school. u don't go to school on saturdays and sundays.
27156
Find a fellow student who understands them well and ask for help. A plus would be finding a HOT fellow student......