Can u be in love with someone u have never met, u just talked on the phone with him??
368731
Well, *I* can't. I gotta be around them and smell their smells and  see their body language. Love for me is a thing that happens after a few weeks of getting to know who they REALLY are.. live and in person. You can certainly like someone a lot and form an attachment. I just met too many strange people online and over the phone.. to "fall in love" based on a good conversation.
545319
Hmm... I feel that u should meet atleast once or more than once if u can becoz life decisions are not taken in such a hurries matter. Just tlking on the phone won't insure that u no everything on the phone. Anyone can show their good side on the phone becoz it's only voice commmunication but u really get to no a person when u meet him/her\nHoping u 2 get along \nWith Lotza Love\nNick
129327
You probably think that you love him.  But the problem with chatting with someone you never met, is you have no idea if that is the "real" them.  Most times it is not.  Everyone shares the best things about themselves, so you aren't going to know all the weird, quirky, or even disturbing things.  Not to mention the stuff they tell you could be completely made up.\nI believe it is possible to love what you believe is the person, but you could be loving a made-up person.
505521
Love can return. It takes a lot, but I don't see why you would want this if he would never give his number to you, deny straight to you that it was him, lie to you he was in an institution & then abandon you by going offline. I think it's a good thing that he disappeared like this & didn't wait until it had gone too far. I think that you should just move on & try to find someone else. I know those long hours & hour phone calls can be very bonding, & it's hard to let go, but look what he has done to you & you've never met him in person yet! (lied, lied, abandon, & hide stuff).\nI think that he didn't really love you as much as you loved him if he can just jump offline & never think of you again.\nGood luck when you decide to move on
214910
It's a tough one.  Anybody can say that they love someone over a phone or in an email but you can't really know unless you're with the person.  When you two do get together, see how he is around you and you'll know.  It's a lot harder to lie about your feelings in person than over the phone/email/etc.
257636
First of all, you should ask yourself these questions:\n\n-Can you love someone you don't know or have never met?\n-Can you love 2 guys at once?\n-Can those guys be real?\n-Is it love or illusion?\n\nMy advice? If you can't find a way to find out the truth about those guys, find real ones.
256938
It is possible to fall in love with someone you've come to know on-line.  I've known couples who have met on-line and are happily married.  I believe it is completely possible.  Congratulations on finding that someone special.\n\nI suggest you plan on setting up a meeting, and see if that same chemistry exists outside of cyberspace.  Sometimes people feel much more comfortable and are able to be themselves when there's a computer between them, than when they are there in person.  Give it some time and effort and hopefully you'll have a connection in real life that is as strong or stronger than the one you have via email.\n\n"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get--only with what you are expecting to give--which is everything. " ~Katherine Hepburn
822274
It sounds fishy!  Go with your gut instinct and trust yourself.  You definitely need to find out more about this guy.  How can you love him if you don't even know him.  It sounds like an infatuation to me.  I wouldn't marry someone I'm not sure I love, or someone who I don't think loves me.\n\nTrust is the basis of any relationship and if you ask yourself, I think you'll find that there isn't any trust here..for a good reason.\n\nDon't do it!
777537
If you've never met him in person then you are making a mistake planning your life around him. Make choices that will benefit you in the future and if he fits into the picture then fine but don't cater your decisions to him. Even the best of relationships are fragile at first and the guarantees are slim that he will become your life long love upon a first meeting.
194714
tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.
276217
I don't really know..but how long have u been in contact with the person? it could be love.. there have been situations like this and people ended up being together forever!  I think you need to meet with the guy more..i mean I mean, the guy can say all the right words in a letter and by e-mail...
265506
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
22504
is there really, cos i ever felt. love at the first sight is just like you ever know her/him,even if you never meet before.but is not happen in every1 in this world,thanks to god if it ever happen in your love life
314283
Of course. When you fall in love with someone, there is always a fear that your feelings won't be returned in the same way. Some people never work up the nerve to disclose their true feelings to the one they love. They just stay "friends" with this person because they don't want to be without them. So it's entirely possible someone you know may be in love with you, but too scared to say so.
549399
wow this is tough. is he single? if he is than you should tell him how you feel. but b4 just try to talk to him on the phone and hang out whenever you can. Jus dont drop the bomb on him like that. Jus say exactly how you feel because if don't tell him soon than somebody else will have him. And jus be brave and have confidence. and for the long distance part it can work out if both people put in the effort to make it work.
728944
this is a question i had asked myself for 13 yrs. I had fallen in love when i was young and in high school. We had to move to another state so that my mother could find decent employment to take care of us. My mother told me that because i was young, i would soon forget. Me and this guy lost contact a year later after I had moved away. 4 years later, we made contact once again and began a phone relationship. We made plans to reunite. Things didnt go as planned and that trip was not made due to him becoming incarsarated for a crime that he did not commit. I began another relationship. I have had several relationships with other people since then. None of them had ever compared to the one we shared, until recently. Once again, I went about finding him. He had since married and had a child. We talked on the phone and we once again spoke of our feelings. It was known at that time that we both had always felt the same way. I was getting married 6 months after that phone call and I knew what I had to do. I had to go see him. I owed it to myself and to my future husband. My fiancee left me over this, but had i not made the trip, I would not have known what I know now. The love I have for him, will never go away. However, seeing him and his family together instilled a peace within me. I know that he is happy. I finally recieved the closure I needed to move on, knowing that we will always share a bond. Since then, I have met a man that I know will have my whole heart, the way that he should. Finalizing a former love relationship is the most important thing you can do for your self and the other person involved. It is what will allow you to move on and make future relationships work.
65201
I wouldnt be serious with someone i have never met or talked to on the phone. hey you are corresponding through the INTERNET, you could be talking to a 12 year old boy or anyone. personally i would not meet this person too many crazy things going on in the world.