hey girls! anyone there has been experienced a one night stand? no offens, dont you find it cheap?
372593
nope it was the most rewarding experience of my life. but then again i was not the one getting walked out on...... best years of my life. :D although now i have been settled........
63700
Many years ago, I dated this one girl.  On the first date, she backed away from my advances. She said she wanted it to be special.\n\nI said OK - that's cool.\n\nI took her out on a second date, and I brought her flowers.  I took her out to a fancy restaurant, then we went out dancing.\n\nOnce again, she pushed me away.  This time, she got a little angry with me.  She said "When I want to have sex, I'll let you know."\n\nI said OK.\n\nThe next four months, we went out a lot.  I bought her jewelry, and I took her to shows.  I treated her  like she was a princess.\n\nShe started asking a lot of questions one night.  Honestly, I felt like I was being interrogated, but I must have answered all the questions correctly, because she said "Make love to me."\n\nAnd so I did.\n\nThen I dumped her @ss.
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Some girls think some guys can be sweet etc, but depending on how a guy acts around a girl then this can give the impression that they are after sex or a one night stands, depends on how the guy approaches the situation, if he is genuinely interested in the girl then he may spend hours asking questions and getting to know her but if he just wants to get close and pash then he is more than likely out for a one nighter.
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first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
848778
In this era of fast food, one night stands and relationships sans commitments; the boys who could lie, deceive and act like hell are going to have more girlfriends. \n\nIt is all about the ethics, morals and values. And you know like begets like. So, the kind of guys would always get unfaithful gals.\n\nIf you are really for the quality of the relationships; please do not try to add numbers.\n\nAnd always remember that the guys having more than one girl friend are not LUCKY.
234064
One night stands with co-workers really don't work out. You both agree things won't be weird but they are then the roomers start flighing. My advise is don't. If you do keep it on the down low.
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
645829
Good idea trytaking her shirt off while kissing if she doesn't resist go ahead and get her to bed !hope it will be the best sex you've ever had !!!!!\n\nKeep me posted
915792
Pulled a Polish girl in Colgne in Germany, great night out, went back to her flat.....her sister was in the bed next to us and watched everyhing in slilence that we did.and we did EVERYTHING. never spoke, just lay on her side and watched........Bizarre.....it was like it was all perfectly normal...and yes I would have asked her too.but it did not seem the thing to do on a first date.....Also climbed out a fair few windows and fire exits in my time as husbands came home etc ...
50842
Yes sir, there is more puntang ready to hop in the sack than you can imagine. It's a players dream. You can also meet some really nice girls that just don't go to bars and have no other way to meet people. I have found both, the girlfreind I have now has a house, a nice tight bod, likes things I do, and a good job. I found her in the newspaper! Just watch the coin some of these chicks are out for a free meal, just keep it cheap and don't get carried away. Do coffee the first time around to meet, then do a lite lunch on a sat afternoon, skip any expensive meals, then get them out for drinks because they really loosen up and kindof know you now. Don't push the sex after the drinks they will let you know they want it, and it drives them crazy if you focus your attention on them and make them feel good but don't get nasty, they will make the moves. Good luck bro  xoffice.com
65324
if you stick with one partner, and use protection, then it's not bad, it's good. But if you do a whole bunch of one night stands in a row, then it'll be bad, morally, and bad things will happen, unwanted pregnancy, STD, etc.
268999
Ma'am...I believe you've just been the victim of a very nasty thing that we men do sometimes. It's called "A ONE NIGHT STAND". He just appears to have wanted sex with no strings attached.A note - never trust men who try to get in your pants the first chance they get....they probably have done/are doing it with many others as well.
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That is so sad to hear, but i dont think that it will hurt because it seem like this one night stand boy done already popped your cherry (not to sound nasty or nothing but the last boy done open you up) it  always hurt at first when they stick it in but then after a while the pain is going to go away
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Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
367110
It was ok; I have done a few. Mostly with people I met online, couples. And I was mostly single; meeting other couples. Keeps the emotions out that way. It is a pretty shallow experience, really. Sex one on one or even alone is better, alot of distractions with more than two people and pressure to perform. I think allowing other people into your bedroom is avoiding the real underlying issue within the couple.I had a boyfriend once that was always pressuring me to do that it got to be a real turnoff and we are not together anymore. If you are a sex a holic and can handle it emotionally go for it. It just wasn't my thing.
425739
Im female and have never slept with someone the first night I met them but the question you should be asking is do you think your any less bf material since you slept with her the first night you met ?? U were pretty easy too.
302810
I promise, you'll feel better after a few pity parties with Ben & Jerry.  And you WILL find someone who really loves you... just be sure to use protection.  DON'T have a one-night stand... you'll only feel dirty for giving the gift that keeps on giving to someone else.  Just remember, you are a wonderful person and she was not worthy of you, and by being responsible you are proving how much more you are worth to the world than she is.  Good luck and best wishes!