there is this  guy who likes me and i like him but won't go out because his popular friends say I'm ugly
375587
ok, he chose his friends over you.  What else do you need? He obviously doesnt like you "enough".  you will have many, many opportunities after school, high school can be horrible when u r not one of the "popular crowd members"...ride it out, you will become a swan after graduation....keep smiling
80813
Honey, I've always been a strong believer in actions speak louder than words.  If he tells you he likes you, but doesn't act like it, then he's just putting you on.  Forget about him and find a guy that will notice you.  Life's too short to waste on some dork that can't see past his own nose.
645497
First off, you should pay attention in English instead of worrying about this guy.  Second, why the heck would you go out with someone you don't even like?  Are you trying to become more popular??
926788
if he really likes you and assume you like him tell him to his face he is not attractive to you and you wouldn't even see him that way. and if you don't want to hurt his feelings think this : who care about his feelings not me lol
99653
Awwww, this is soooo cute (sorry, got carried away there).\n\nYeah, have to agree with another answerer. Get him alone, it doesn't work if his friends are there, then he has to act all tuff and cool. Get him alone, and tell him in a quiet way that you really, really like him, a lot. Ask him how he feels about you. Things have a tendency to work out fine after that.\n\nThe best of luck to you :-)
906421
girl you gotta break outta that shell your in. you gotta be more out going,loud,noticeable!you gotta make him WANT to know who you are.hook an outfit up,fitten you just right,get with a group of loud friends and make sure he sees YOU.and neva say your not pretty,there is not one ugly female on gods green earth,he made every female unique,you just need to bring your uniqueness to full blast for this guy.make HIM drop to his knees,I'm sure you can do it.just remember one thing:he likes you and he just don't know it so show it to him.\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
1084173
some guys are like that. there are two reasons: \n1. he likes you and doesnt want his friends to know that\n2. his friends dont like you, and so he wouldnt want himself embarrased to be seen with you...\n\num, ok...if you're confused whether he likes you or not, searh for the obvious signs, the way he talks with you if you are alone, if he's trying to make you feel special, if he flirts...etc, etc
1184827
Don't be so obssessive. Spend time with your friends when he is with his friends. If you are too clingy he won't want to be with you. Don't let him know you are always available. If you make plans with your friends and he asks you out tell him no! Keep him thinking you are an important person because u are!!!
66888
That means he doesn't want you.  Find somebody else to really like.\n\nTell him that you like him a lot and that he can call you anytime.
22004
Friends should always come before guys because friends last longer.  If he cant respect you for your opinions on who you want to hang out with then it isnt worth liking him.  Dont let other people tell you who to hang out with and who not to.  When you start thinking for yourself you will find out that you will be a lot happier and more confident and sometimes that will even lead to more popularity. Dont follow the crowd, do what you want to do!
1073064
You should find a guy who will like you back.  This guy is either flirting with your friends because he's not interested in you like that, or because he knows you like him and wants to make you jealous.  Either way, you deserve someone who will take a genuine interest in you.
913280
hang arond him and let his friends know that you are close to him and they will start talking then eventually telling him but not to close i did this and thi girl didn't qwant to go out with me caseu i was to much as a frind
773727
ohhhhhhhhh high school! more months and Im out of hell hole! Anyways let me give u sum advice! My best friends brother is popular at my school. He has the biggest ego and thinks hes all hot and crap when he isnt anythin special. POPULAR guys tend to be PLAYERS! They date you for a week or 2 dump u and go find sum other popular girl. Now ur story might be different! I say u get 2 kno him and if he doesnt ahve a big ego and isnt all about himself ask him to like a football game or sumthing and just hang out! If he likes u he likes u! Just make sure his intentions with u are good like no i want to get in between ur legs and all that stuff
868029
ok well i am in 10th grade so hopefully i have some good advice.  the guy thinks he is a big shot because he is in high school. he also prob thinks hes cute or something and knows you think hes cute since you smiled and glared at him. he prob noticed it then when he was with his friends he wanted to act like a big shot because a girl smiled and glared at him. so he wanted to seem popular around his buds. and you are right he was just trying to get a reaction out of you. guys are just like that, as you get older you'll learn that all they want is a girls attention and when they do get her attention they feel like they are all that so they will obiously brag about it. think if some hott guy glared at you and smiled at you, wouldnt you go and tell your best friends? thats exactly what he did. hope it all works out for you, good luck in school!
240556
hun, if you like him then go out with him. Do you. If they are your true friends the will accept your relationship. Dont give up on what you want because your friends dont want you to go out with him. Its your life and you only live it once. Good luck.
144151
if u really like this guy and its ur choice just foregt what people say u. it's ur life not their. go ur way.\ngood luck
486079
You are setting your own limitations.  Ask him out.  No one is out of your league, you are setting your value too low if you think that.  Life is priceless for everyone.  If he rejects you, he wasn't worth your time and I would reflect on his hollowness to uplift me. \n\nWhat you do is you purchase tickets to a baseball game, concert and invite him as though you have no one else to go with or tell him you thought about asking him before inviting any of your friends.  When I was single that's how I went out with many hot guys; to my surprise, they'd be interested in me at the end but I would always end up disappointed in them because of a personality flaw.