my boyfriend and i have been together for 2yrs and i often run out of things to talk about what should i do?
374943
Part of a long term relationship is learning to deal with the fact that sometimes you just don't have anything to say and it isn't even necessary.  You have to learn to simply be together and enjoy that the other person is near and that words aren't needed.
392055
The little things just building up.. I would say something that bothers me when its small not let all of them build up into a large fight.... thats what me and my boyfriend do and we have a great relationship now that we started talking more about the little things
901103
Just ask whatever comes to mind as long as you enjoy the walk with him. He will sometimes volunteer some imformationa also. SO just enjoy been with him and ask him anything that comes to mind. He he doesn't like th e question just say I am sorry and talk about something else. Soon both of you'll will know each other pretty good. SO exercise your freedom of speech.
152353
you need to be honest with him. open up to him dont lead him on if the relatoinship is going down hill and u want to save it you need to tell him how you feel and what you want to work on. its better to tell the truth than to lie and lead him on, unless he knows its in a runt. anyways just open and be honest. remember communication is the key to a relationship, thats why so many people cheat on their loved ones cause they can up and front tell them they are happy anymore put yourself in his shoes, how would you want to be talked to bout this,, really think bout that good luck
243665
i think you should talk to him. both of you need to find out what is the problem that has both of you too constantly arguing. Maybe you can both see about having like a couples therapy thing.  sometimes its best for someone from the outside to see whats going on. I think if both of you love each other so much you should do what you can to make it work if after all that your still arguing more than you not arguing well than maybe you two should go your seperate ways. it wont mean you two dont love each other just that you to aren't meant for each other. but i would do what i can before saying its over definitely. good luck and best wishes.
937045
Talk it over with your boyfriend, openly and honestly. Discuss what worked then and what isn't working now. Discuss what each of you want out of the relationship and from sex. Ask questions about how you can please him, give information about how he can please you. Listen with your heart to what he is saying. Talk to his heart about your wants and needs. Then, after discussing, practice what you talked about. You might consider taking a night, a weekend, or a vacation away to get away from the usual distractions and focus on pleasing each other and putting your talk into action.
156312
you need to have a heart to heart talk with him. dont critize him but tell him what the problem is. tell him that you want to stay together and work it out. lay down some grounds that you wont cross to get him upset and tell him your boundaries. you got to tell him what you want out of this relationship.
781390
Wow,first off,if you have been dating for over 2 years..you're doing a fine job to me. Secondly,don't worry about "keeping him interested" because in all honesty,you will focus more on keeping him around,and forget about why you love him,and why he loves you..and end up hurting the relationship. Just relax,and realize he has stayed with you the past two years of HIS life,when he had the chance to break up with you. Enjoy his love,and just continue to love him back. I wish you the best of luck,and hope nothing but the best for the both of you!
1141562
Do something together like go to a concert, go into a hot air balloon, or travel with him and create some interesting ground for you to talk about because this could end up in a dead end relationship.
881774
You both need to be more open. Closed mouths don't get heard dear...Also communications is an important key in any relationship...It ok for you to ask, as well as it is for him. Do what really makes you happy....Good luck
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
834327
In love and relationship's matters,you need to be honest and sincere and straight.Tell him directly what you think or what you are expecting from him;if you will have a relationship with him.Lack of communication is the cause, that many relationships end  in a completely  disaster.Good luck.
498923
You two need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk about this issue - open up and reveal everything you have said here --- don't leave out anything
506695
Try to remember that he has a life as well as you do. If you want to see him more often, talk to him about it. I don't know the specifics on your relationship, but communication will help you figure it all out. Remember to listen to each other.
720987
No relationship can survive if there is no communication. So now you have his attention and he knows how you feel and you know how he feels, this isn't such a bad thing. Swallow your pride and keep the communication going. In the future telling your boyfriend what you need out of the relationship is not being over emotional but should not require breaking up to get his attention. Relationships are a give and take sittuation and that is the only way they'll work. Give it another chance but make sure to have a heart to heart conversation once in a while before you get to the breaking up point.
273688
I believe in "open" relationships, not the open kind where you date others. Ask him what reason he has for not opening up to you and if there's something you can do to change that. Being honest is the way to go. You can't spend the rest of your life with someone who keeps things from you. You want to be able to share "everything" with each other. That builds a strong foundation within the relationship. \n\nYou can try to temporarily forget about this for a while. Start doing fun stuff with him instead. Go on mini vacations, take trips, spend nights together away from home, do the things he likes like taking him to a baseball game, going to the beach, etc. You know, guy stuff. That way he'll be able to relax and you two can talk casually. Maybe then he'll feel more at ease about being with you and who knows, he might even start telling you things. \n\nYou can "trick" him by asking "have you ever" questions just to get him to say something. If you know he's going through something, ask him subtle questions relating to that specific thing to give it a nudge. But at the same time, be "generalized" and not make him think you're trying to "get information" or smother him. Just be smart about it. :)\n\nGood luck to you.
201859
hey,\nthe first question u should ask is do u love him. i do understand that sooner or later giving can b quite costly. what u could try and do is increase ur conversations wid him. it does happen when he is content with wat he is gettin n tends to forget to give or just does not knw wat to give u. try to lower ur expectations most importantly.\ni hope everythin goes well :)