ok heres a whole new subjection..what to do? PLEASE HELP!!!?
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Well, all I can do is give you my side of what I seem to be seeing here.\nFirst, why are you falling for her when you should be looking for a HIM?\nSecond, none of the beginning part is really important here.  The real problem is you feel like you are going to end up loosing one or the other as a "friend", right?\nYou are correct to say that they BOTH should have them, it's a 50/50 split, and there isn't anything they say or do that should change that!  The most important thing you can do is remember the children need both a mom and a dad, not just one or the other!\nAfter I got my divorce, I wanted to make sure my kids could spend time with their mother, no matter what!  It was her choice to push them away, not mine!  \nIF you loose one of them as a "friend" then they weren't worth the bother or time anyway!  (They would have run away from you if you ever really needed them, think about it!)\nGood Luck!\nB.I.M.!\nTinkermanLT
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dude, ive been here before so i knw how u feel. wat u DONT wanna do is straight out ask. get the good mood n vibe goin, n then do sumthn creative. wat ive done before is take a pic on my phone of sumthing saying things like "will u go out with me" or "will u b my girlfriend". so b creative n most of the time itll work. like i said, get a good conversation goin before poppin the question. happy to help!:)
688597
All of you step back and take a breather. Spend a bit of time alone before doing anything as you still sound a bit confused about your feelings to be honest. Then you'll make a good decision
638003
Give yourself a call and spend some alone time together. I am sure she will be thrilled with the attention. Have Fun!
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ok, im considering...whats the question???
617397
its such a bad thing to move on and get into another relationship=said who? dont listen to that idea, if you please all, you please none. follow your heart and mind, it has always the right answer then believe what you have decided and choose to be happy :)
574076
talk to him!!\nlet it all out
249083
Go party it up!! Live a little .. Go out and do what single guys do!! You will be fine, it was just a crush we all have them now it's over, find a new one!!
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I would advise you to get to know the new guy first, become friends with him, and get o know what he is about before any rash judgements are mad. You dont want to drop Mr. Six Years for someone wh might not be interested or may have problems of his own. (Sidebar: DAMN, SIX YEARS AND NO RNG.... SEEK OTHER OPTIONS)
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Don't date either of them if you want to remain friends with them.  If you don't care, pick one and STICK WITH IT.  Don't play them against each other.  It's not a good idea!
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Advice on a guy . . help . . .
471576
don't be afraid to try new things, like sex posotions, toys etc. Maybe get sme hot new lingerie, or introduce some porn into it.....All good ideas!!
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Try something new.  And make sure there is plenty of time to talk.  A first date should be exciting.  You don't have to go all out, just be yourself and show her a good time.  Pay attention to her!:)
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just be friends for now. if anythings meant to happen it will, in its own time!
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hey do something different, dont be bored, so much to do find yr fun its out there ;-)
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just give each other some distance. the weirdness will go away eventually. this happened with my best friend from middle school. we didnt talk for a really long time and then moved in separate circles for awhile. when we hit high school we sort of gravitated to each other again and were inseperable until college. then the old chemistry came back and we screwed up big time... not to go off the topic... if there are ever feelings involved they don't go away completely. just play it cool. he'll miss you if you stop calling and start hanging out with other people.
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Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!