i meet him only once in a while and he calls me his sister like,how do i know if he loves me as i do?
372508
Time to go find someone who will call you his lady!
497431
Go to him when you two have not been fighting and when he is relaxed and tell him exactly what you have asked here on Yahoo answers. Don't try to make it sound like it's nothing so that you two will not end up fighting. Let him know you are not sure how much more of this you can take. Also be ready to tell him exactly what you need from him, or ways that he can make this relastionship work. And lastly, be ready to do exactly what you say you are going to do if he can't give you what you need... Leave Him! When he realizes that he has lost a good thing he will come running back ready to do whatever it takes to make you stay. Or you will find someone else who will respect you and love you the way you need to be treated. Pray about this little sister and good luck.
841551
You're right, there may be something going on.  You will have to play detective.  If you get a chance try to see if he has received any texts from her and read them. Ask him why he runs your sister down.  You need to follow him if you can (without being seen) to see where he goes.  I wish you luck.
935977
don't trust his sister. Ask his friends. I hope everything works out for you.
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
185750
I think you should just ask him why he's staring at you, and if he doesn't tell you then just either ignore it or have your sister ask his interestif she told him, or if she knows anything about what's going on.\n\nAlso if he likes another girl (are you absolutely sure? if he told you then that's basically the end of it, but if someone else told you then it might not be true.) then you shouldn't think about him and you should try to move on, because you never know... there might be someone else that likes you, and you haven't noticed because you're focusing on him too much.\n\nAnother thing, if he keeps on staring at you, and not talking about it or not explaining himself, then he might not have a purely romantic intrest in you, and he might be looking for something else, (especially if he likes another girl...) and you should definitely try to get to the bottom of it, or completely forget about him.
961934
Hey ya!\nDon't worry , maybe you can ask your sister about it ,maybe she knows it!\nBut I have brother too and a lot of my friends like him more than just my brother , so If I knew that someone from my friends loves him I won't tell him about it,cause it's something like sisters jealousy.\nIf your sister "don't know it ,but she can ask her" so then you must tell her that it's OK and you'll ask her.\nIt's time to move on ,keep on fun kin and be yourself! :)
169371
Talk to him and find out how he truely feels. This way you will know where you stand instead of always having to wonder or wish you knew.
723251
talk to your sister first of all, because its your life, your decision. if you don't feel that way about him its best to let him know now so you don't end up dragging him through a more hurtful experience.
474479
Sharing is caring... just kidding.\n\nWell, if you are really in love with him, as in you both been dating him I guess its up to the man to decide.  But if you both are just attracted and really like him let him decide but explain you both can't see him, or be the good sister and back off.  Tell your sister if she loses interest or something like that it is fair game.
810433
No your not being to drastic, if he would  make a pass at your sister then he will make a pass at anyone. once a cheater always a cheater. and even if he promises to change how can you ever trust him.
590421
if he treats you like no man before him has, when he loves spending time with you as much as you love spending time with him. When he has told you all his deepest secrets ( you know the ones that shock you) when you meet his family and or closest friends. When he can look you straight in the eye and can say I love you and you can truly feel it. ( passion in his eyes)
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Y being a better person online is probably a red flag.  Anyone can act good online.  Another red flag is hoping there is more to him, hoping he is better.  don't mold him to be someone he's not.  If its not there now, he might change for awhile, but the root of his personality will still be there.  Trust your brother's instincts.  Family is usually a good judge (they were right about my ex)!\n\nYou say you like X, but the conversations are short and dry, and you are doing all the talking.  It could be that he is just shy.  Try talking to ihm in person, and see if the conversations are the same way.  If so, he may not be into you, or there's just not the right chemistry there.
68055
it sounds like he is realy immature,or playing games, or looking for the best of both worlds... either way don't let yourself be treated like a basketball. have the self worth to say "i deserve better" and let him know. IF he really does love you he will follow his heart. all you have to do is tell him your not going to be some second place when he says he loves you and only likes her. \ni know this doesn't really answer your question, but sometimes the best answer is to a different question, that you havn't asked... good luck
524349
Go out on a limb and ask him how he feels about you.....Friend or more......What the heck right, you only once????Good Luck!!!!
113001
You cannot know for certain that he loves you but after all there is nothing in life you can be certain about so you just have to settle with trying to find out if he does trully care for you and if he wants to spent his whole life time with you.If he's by your side when u feel bad and he's there to wipe your tears,if he holds your hand,looks into your eyes and then..then you know he loves you...It's not a matter of saying he foes...it's about the bonds between you,the feeling and the emotions that never lie.
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Get him to define "I love you",\n\nnot everyone that say I love you means it\n\nnot every I love you means what you think it means\n\nYou might be speaking a different language using the same words so don't fall for it sister