what if i think everything in Socity is meaningless and repetitive?
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I understand but whatever you do and wherever you live you will need money.
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"Wishfull thinking" may make you feel better, but based \non falsehoods. Try to be a realist or you may hurt yourself\nor others in the long run.\n\n                    Uncle Johnny
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You´ll always find dissatisfaction in life, one way or another. The key is to learn to be happy at all times no matter what. That should be my answer
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The whole idea about life is to be happy and only if the outcome has a benefit you shuld consider changing your plans. Remember it does not matter what people call your or what they think of you, all you should focus is in your self fullfielment and that also does not mean that you have to be a winner or the fastest racer. Look around you there are plenty of great things to be worry about. I always recomend traveling and looking for role model that can influence and inspire your life. Good luck to you and don't hide your feelings deep down you know what to do and is called natural wisdom and we all have it.\nA friend.\nCar
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First ...who's "everyone"?\n\nSecond ...If the most people that you know think like that ...you must to do an autocheck of yourself, probably they got some reason and you'll need to start to understand that in this life ...there are more people than you babe!\n\nGood luck!
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You have to learn to accept the fact that it takes all kinds of people to make a world.Even people like you.Not everyone will like you,just as you don't like everyone.Learn to accept you uniqueness,and revel in it.You are a part of this world and you have a place in it as well as anyone else.Keep your place!!!!! It doesn't matter what others are thinking,they have brains too.Do you think they care what you are thinking about them?......NO!!!! So don't waste brain energy on what they think either.
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I'm never really sure I do exist. I wake up and live my life and I do the same thing everyday and I wonder if it's all just a dream and I'm going to wake up and do it again. In my honest opinion, life is not truly worth living in the sense that we are all going to die anyways. Think about it. So we know the wonderful things about physics and we understand gravity, but does it really matter? Not really. It's because we all die in the end. I'm probably just using up the air. But I'll tell you, I'm having a good time of it. I don't know if there is something after this or if when I die I die. And not knowing is scary. I'd rather just live and enjoy because this may be all I get. Whoever I am. Below is something I wrote that more clearly explains my opinion. Or maybe it is just more confusing.
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create a list of things you want to accomplish in your life or places you want to go and the next time you're bored go get some of them done. just random stuff, it doesn't have to be anything big. you only have one life to live and it's a shame to sit around wasting it!!or do something creative..draw, paint, make something, take pics, read. watch a really good movie; a classic, and to make it better, invite a friend over to watch it with you. download google earth and go "sightseeing". trust me, it'll occupy you for hours. blast your favorite music and sing and dance like nothing else matters!
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Life will only ever have the meaning you give it.  That's why nihilism is so stupid.  Try beileving in something, and this question will resolve itself.
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Life is what you make it! Its boring because you are making it so....make chioces that excite and interest you...you life will be more interesting for you!
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What people mean when they say that is that.... you are not enguaged in the depth of social interplay that many people feel is a key part of of life.  \n\n    Sure you can have your own thoughts about different matters, but without the ability to take in and....think about....the views of others, your brain simply does not get the rich kind of activity that comes as a result of dealing back and forth with the thoughts, views, and emotions of others.\n\n  Also, you get valuable feedback about yourself, and your own sense of  things as a result of having friends to talk with.  You can test out your feelings about your "life experience"  as well, as a part of that kind of "give and take".\n\n  So while you may indeed have a rich and rewarding inner life of your own, at the same time you miss out on the mental challenge... and some would say spiritual rewards...that comes with the interplay of stepping outside of your own inner world. \n\n On top of all that....there is the important spirtual issue of "connection".  Feeling truely connected to others in a safe and trusting manner is a very important aspect of being human.\n\n   So.....relationships, and what they both give and demand of us,  has something to do with experiencing the full complexity of what we are capable of as humans, I think.\n\n   Relationships have the potential to just make our life......much richer.\n\n      And even just one trusted friend can make all the difference.\n\n    Bob J.
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Things will go a lot easier for you when you stop worrying about what everyone else thinks.  Concentrate on your own beliefs and others will will have their own journies to travel.
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Loneliness will give you the opportunity to see things in a different perspective. Seeing yourself in solitude will surely tell you that "No Man is an Island". For the absence of the things we think do not matter will make us realize that they are afterall important.
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realize that nobody cares about you.  it sounds harsh, but no one is wondering about you or judging your every move--only you are doing that.  Get over yourself, you aren't that interesting.  this should let you then go out and enjoy life a little more.
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i live in a small town as well, and i think that happens in every town. what i have done is i just dont care what people have to say anymore, because it is all the same no matter what everyone has an opinion and most people feel inclined to give it just ignore them all. and be careful who you make friends with and how much info you divulge
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it sounds to me that you are very lonely, depressed, isolated, unhappy and don't have any confidence.  Is there anything positive in your life.  Do you work, have friends, family, can you do volunteer work.  First of all you're not stupid, you know the english language, you know how to type, can use a computer and have the insight into yourself to even ask this question.  YOU ARE NOT STUPID!  I need more info about you to help you, but it sounds like you need something positive in your life or someone to talk to.
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nothing - it is meaningless.