Am I wrong for not going to school today? It has bad mental and physical health.?
358018
no i dont think its bad for you to miss school in a situtation like that .. they need to do something so the better students that wont to learn dont punish for the other ones
341029
I think Megan's answer is appalling.  I don't know how old you are, but if you have left school, as I had, you could enrol on a college course, something like psychology or counselling, the have much smaller classes and what I found was that the other people on the course already had a base interest in issues related to mental health and depression, and so it was a bit of an ice breaker.  I mean obviously I didn't announce to the class that I had depression but the setting I was in, the topic wasn't taboo and when it did arise no-one reacted negatively.
872580
My heart goes out to you and, I must say I am surprised by the lack of support you got from the school. I certainly wouldn't let this matter drop - ask for another appointment with the Head and tell them your grave concerns; then, if nothing happens, contact the Local Authority and speak to the Attendance Officer.\n(All these unauthorised absences are not going to cast a very favourable light on the school!)\nFinally please don't give up on the idea of custordy - speak to Social Services (it would help if you had an accurate log of absences and lateness - this the school is obliged to give you) to see if they can support your claim for this child.\nGood luck.
731836
The same type of thing happened to me my senior year.  I was an honor roll student with many AP classes.  I suffered from anxiety/depression problems which made it impossible for me to ever get to school on time.  My school's policy was that you were issued a detention every 3rd time you were marked late.  I had dozens of them.  Being late all the time was embarrassing and it added to the anxiety. I stayed home a lot to avoid more embarrassment and being "punished" for my lateness with even more detentions. \n\nOver the course of the year, I had accumulated over 30 absences (limit was 20) and many were unexcused.  No one had said anything to me about it until we were a few weeks away from graduation.  I was then told I would not be able to graduate and that if I wanted to, I needed to file some sort of appeal for a review board.  I threw a fit, threatened my guidance counselor that I would drop out (not recommended) and put in for the appeal.  The board accepted my appeal based on my good grades and the fact that I participated in many activities. I'm not saying that it's a solution, just that you should be able to appeal any decision that is made to hold you back or take away credit if it comes to that. You may not be as lucky as I was.  \n\nI would think that being able to provide a doctor's note should excuse some absences but that's usually only good for days that you have an actual doctor's appointment.  You may even want to look into getting some sort of letter from a doctor that explains the situation and what you're doing about it.  Also, see if you can set up a meeting with a guidance counselor involving your mom to try to work something out before it's too late.  The guidance counselor may know how to get around this if you have a medical/mental health problem that's keeping you from getting to school, especially if your grades are still good.  Do it as soon as possible.\n\nI don't know the story behind your nervousness problem but it sounds like you are either not taking any medication or else it's not working the way it should.  I'm not saying you have an anxiety disorder, just that it sounds like one.  This is a problem that may follow you for years if you don't do something about it soon.  I suggest you find professional help that works for you.  Breathing exercises are great IF THEY WORK and it sounds like this isn't really working well for you right now.  My mother did not want to believe that I needed anti-anxiety meds so I was never seen by a doctor.  The result was that I almost dropped out of high school, I did drop out of college and I've had a hard time keeping a steady job because of lateness or being "absent".  I am only seeking help now (I'm 28) and I wish I had been able to deal with this earlier because my life would have been a lot easier!
1014426
You certainly shouldn't bump yourself off. School is important, but your life is much more important than that.\n\nYou should take a step back and consider whether school is the place you should be. If you are failing all of your classes, then either you don't want to do the necessary work, or you aren't able to do the necessary work. It's possible that you could turn things around and start doing well - but it seems clear you'll need to re-evaluate what you are doing in school and how you do your work.\n\nIt seems more likely that there is some other path you should be following - whether that is work or family or something entirely different is something you'll have to explore on your own.\n\nBest of luck to you, and God bless.
570793
If you were wearing a helmet, then you should be fine.  But if you still feel bad tomorrow, then I would go to a doctor.\n\nIf you weren't wearing a helmet, then I would go to the ER ASAP.
748141
I am sorry your weekend was bad, but if you are not better by monday then you better take a day off and rest...all day!\nSounds like you need it anyway!
222046
I'm sorry about your brother. You can make it but you may need a little help. Your current or future school may have a free counselor you can talk to about your concerns (which by the way just about every 1st year student has). Exercise. Taking long walks is good for your body and your mind. Try Yoga or mediating. It will calm you for free. Good luck.
248706
you should ask your doctor and if it's not right you should take day off of workand ask someone to take care of you.
368991
You should not be fired because you are ill. The District has some type of grounds for days ill - teacher personal says.. I know that they either do or should .. anyways. If you get fired because you are ill, then bring it to the media and I will support you to the fullest.
11680
thats so cute! I remember the 5th grade it can be really stressfull and relaxing can be tough after a long day at school. The key is to start your day right and then end it right-have breakfast, be sure to bring your homework home because if you leave it at school you'll sress all night about that big fat ZERO the next day, and study up on the subjects your taking. Other than that listen to music, watch t.v., call a friend but no gossip until relaxation, or go for a walk or bike ride. Good Tips: join an athletic sport such as cheering, softball, soccer, etc. you may find this as a nitch, something you like doing and it would relax you.
602906
you need a "mental" health day.\n\nyour boss wouldnt want you going crazy now would he!?
892151
Is it the schoolwork or the people at school who are making you depressed? I've had periods of feeling really low and lousy at school because of both. Just try to take things in your stride. I know it's easier said than done though. Talk to someone who loves you and cares about you and see if you can sort out your problems at school. If it's schoolwork which is getting you down, maybe getting a tutor or some help from a teacher would be good. And don't worry too much about school because in the larger perspective of things and life, school and all its accompanying headaches won't last forever. Most things end up alright in the end.
156948
You could talk to yourself about your studies!  This is actually a good learning strategy.\n\nSeriously, if you think that you're doing something that really interrupts your quality of life, why not find a mental health professional to help you with it?
685148
To to a counsler if you are still in school if not... Take her to a mental health department quick... It helped me..
625058
Trying to skip school today?
823343
I had this exact same problem in 7th grade.  Before the year was over I just stopped going to school and starting homeschooling.  Your are way ahead of me, though.  It took me years to get up the courage to go to the doctor to get on some medication.  I've been on meds for a couple years now and I still think about returning to high school for my senior year.... but I just don't think I could handle it.  Go back to the doctor and have him check your dosage, it took awhile to get mine correct.  Maybe you just need a touch more medication every day to help.  This probably did help much, but I just wanted to let you know that you are far from the only one out there having this problem. : )