Does having a girlfriend or wife that is outgoing and funny when she's around other people get old?
372808
I don't think that being outgoing would be a problem if you are aware and no when enough is enough. You already said that you do, so don't worry about it. What about your man? Is he like you or is he more of a conservative? If he is you might have some issues there in the long run, but be yourself. You are only here for a short time and people have a good time around you then so be it.
869888
it depends on who your talkin to and when you say it if someone has said something funny then its laugh out loud if it is at the end of the convasation and its a close friend or relative or some one you love then it lots of love.
1128737
My sentiments exactly. I am in my sixties and I have laughed all my life. I find humor in a lot of things. I have had a ruff life but if I wasn't able to laugh at anything I would probably be dead by now because I would be worrying about what made my live so ruff. I learned to move on and leave the past in the past and be as happy as I can.
687733
Yes it is.  Some people enjoy their own company and thats fine.  Dont force yourself to be in a relationship because it seems it is the 'done thing.'
936455
Humor is way more important than looks.  I want a guy that will make me laugh, because when we get old those looks will be gone.  Humor never ages and I'll still be laughing.
268360
if you can have a laugh with them your there maybe have a couple of things in common but not everything its nice to have differences also and most importantly be yourself don't act like someone you are not!!!
323085
It is temporary, and has to do with her age.  The closeness will come back when she settles down into her job and life.
587147
Initially it's all the dumb things like humor and looks. But, when it comes down to a relationship between two mature people: a girl just wants to feel that you are a really good friend.
523846
She gets along better with guys then girls. I'm 24 in a serious relation ship and all my guy friends have gf, married and even have kids. There is nothing wrong with it. DEE DEE DEE!!!
859128
It is what you make of it......if you get boring she is gonna get bored with you. If you one of those people who gets stuck in a rut and likes routine,,,,,,,,,shes gonna get bored, If you never want to do new things etc........its gonna get awfully boring. I don't feel there is ever an excuse for being in a stale mate.
649125
Look B**** you nasty. No, for real. She just might laugh at you for saying it. Might want to hear it, sooooo it would be a good statement to judge whether she will change or not. Ive been there, they grow out of it in a while but probably not for 3-4 years. Depends on how long you are willing to contribute to her development...
569677
I wouldn't mind unless she involves you in their outings. If it's just for a hour or so I suppose it's okay, but more than that I would grow suspicious why they are spending much time together than with you.  Now, if it's a mixed crowd and most have good morals and if she's not the flirty type, then it's okay.  I'll be honest, when I'm single, I get much hotter than when I'm with someone.  If you are married, the possibility for variety can come to mind and it can be dangereous if her friend decides to make a pass.  The trust between two friends can be as strong as the love you have for each other.  I believe friends works best and can grow deep.  Not too be doubtful, just keep your eye out. I know because when I get the strange feeling in my stomach when I feel threatened, that's a signed that something is not right or that I'm being disrespected.  Talk to her about it and see if you can come along. \n\nYou will be the best judge if something is going on or not.  Trust to a limit, then you question... Boundaries can be broken so make sure she doesn't break them, that's why she's married to you.  Right? Hopefully for the right reasons.  \n\nPersonally, I enjoy being with my boyfriend.  I get along better with men but there are limits to how much I let them know because it's easy to flirt with guy friends.  Guy friends can let things happen and not worry about it because they know the other person is taken... It's a risk and a thrill for the women, but it's a BIG, BIG, NO, NO.  Not while you are married and devoted to someone.  I suggest to both of you go out, change your looks, and be the couple that can be lover, friend, and wife.  Spice up your life so she doesn't run off to get that kind of "attention"?... who knows. \n\nI'm a women and I've been single.  Now that I'm dating my boyfriend, he still wants to keep the single life active with some gals in a book club he met when he was single... I spoke to him and he decided to ended... I now have to trust him and it will be up to him to do the right thing.  \n\nSummarizing, if your wife invites you because she wants to, then go... keep her in your sight.\n\nGood luck sweatheart!
4713
The way they talk and treat others, their sense of humor, the way others speak them when they are not around.
793774
Of course!  I like lots of the regulars...  I like interesting questions and in a sense this is sort of like a family / friend thing where of course you would miss some of them, in a similar way you would miss a friend that moved away!  When someone makes you smile why would you want to lose them?  Life needs humor!
535122
Yes.  But as time grows, you will become more comfortable with each other and their imperfections.
177152
keep good relationship with old freinds no need of new one
834310
well... try being sympathetic for some reason or another, for example if she has a headache this will make you appear more serious than just someone to have a laugh with.