is it wrong for an american girl to love a mexican?
374044
I don't really understand the question, as I can't see a problem with falling in love with a Mexican, or anyone regardless of their race.  If you say someone is hot and your mum says "oh he's Mexican" say "so what?  I like the dark, handsome, latin look"!  \n\nIf he's nice and you like him, then go for him, and don't take notice of any racists who say anything: they're just ignorant, and probably jealous that you bagged yourself a hottie!
940450
It's not a matter of for or against. An individual has a right to decide who s/he chooses to date. Some like blondes, some brunettes, some redheads. \n\nAnd there are others who prefer to date outside their race. It's just a matter of personal preference. However it is preferable for both to understand the culture of each other. Otherwise friction can occur in the relationship. \n\nMy women have been African, Caribbean and Latin American, by the way. And the woman I am going to marry has a bit of all three!
459306
Love just happens, but you have to remember that people can grow to love each other.  I know of countries that still have arranged marriages.  I think that in these instances the two involved are less fortunate than Americans who get the opportunity to find love on their own.  But, this has been going on for many many years.  I don't believe that Americans should set up two people with the intent for them to be happy.  As an American we know that happiness comes from the heart and has to be aceived on our own.
998094
it shoudn't matter the race or ethnic bachground she comes from. i think it's great u r willing to date outside of your race. just know that there are ignorant people in the world who are going to challenge u on this issue. stand strong!
979690
That's half of the men i've been with and I was just very up front that I was going to love all people and they could be how they wanted to be but it wasn't gonna change the way I am.. He obviously can't be that racist if he's dating you and I wouldn't worry about that. People who are racist are scared of the unknown and brain washed... go for it and maybe you'll rub off on him alittle bit that the color of a persons skin doesn't mean that the person is any less of a person and that were all human beings that deserve to be loved..
1164492
Yes, this is a yahoo war because I am totally against illegals right to work in the United States and every AMERICAN, it does not matter what race, should feel the same.\n\n But, however I do like tequila!! And usually end up on the floor!!\n\nBOOBOOLUBEAR, THAT HAPPENS IN OTHER COUNTRIES TOO!!!DUH!!! AMERICANS CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT TO BECAUSE WE PAY FOR THAT RIGHT TO BEAR CHILDREN AND I BELIEVE WE SHOULD SUPPORT OUR CHILDREN. THE MEXICAN GOVT DOES NOT SUPPORT OUR CHILDREN AND FAMILY!!!!!
498485
You shouldn't generalize like that.  Just because your Latino man is like that doesn't mean they all are.  On the other hand, people of a Latin heritage tend to be more sensual by nature, so you may be reading more into it than it really is.
134460
Just curious: Why do you want to date an American? Why pick a specific place? Why not find a girl you fall in love with, no matter where she's from?
1148442
It's not wrong...and people should not look down on you for doing so. Unfortunately some people in the world are not as open minded to the idea. Love can come in all forms, sizes, and color. You should not look at so much the outside as what is on the inside of someone because it is what counts the most. If black women are your thing go with it...
236275
All Americans are different.  This American thinks that any two people who want to have a relationship with one another should do so.
866187
I think the real question is:\nhow do you feel about Mexican men...\nthere is bad and good in every nationality's so, follow your judgments and intuitions.\nGood luck and dont forget to have fun
406312
Nope not at all.  As long as the couple is good together and happy w/ each other it shouldn't matter what colour their skin tone is.  I'm completely happy with my other half and he is black/ puerto rican.  If I would have stuck to 'my own kind' as people have phrased it I wouldn't have gotten with and fell in love with my bf.  And that would have been my loss.  When you limit yourself to just your own race you risk potentionally missing out on alot of good people and possibly love too.
423127
if you both really love each other and trust each other than stay with him, i like someone in mexico and she hasn't cheated on me or anything we promised we'll see each other again. soo if you really like him you'll stay with him stay updated with him till one day you'll be able to marry and stay with each other!
340424
I AM MEXICAN AND SORRY TO SAY IT BUT YES...
715814
Love finds itself in strange and unusual ways for many. Interracial dating is fine for me, but it depends on the relationship. Some people are against it, others aren't. It depends on the relationship.
230185
OK, first of all obviously you're already attached to him because you said that he's the one.  Is it a guarantee that he will be going back to Mexico?  And if he is, does he want the relationship to end?  Do you really want the relationship to end? Are there any underlying issues of concern that you're not mentioning? Are you willing to move to Mexico?  You have to weigh all your options sweety, and what sacrifices you are willing to make for this guy you claim to love so much.  It seems as if it doesn't matter which way you go once he leaves you'll be broken hearted anyway.  If it is a guarantee that he will be leaving for Mexico for good and you feel you don't want to go through the heartache later on, I think you can answer the question on your own.  Just let everything flow, what's to be will be.  Follow your heart.
406916
No, but you may be more curious in the future. I'm not Mexican, but LOVE the culture. Enjoy being an American.