my bestfriend/sister stole parts of me journal and is showing them to everyone. what should i do?
363433
Wow, that was a really long question.\n\nAnyway, here's the bottom line. If she betrays your trust like that, she's not your friend. Real friends do not do hurtful things to one another, and stealing and gossiping about your private thoughts are hurtful. I would recommend confronting her, and telling her how you feel. Tell her that what she did was wrong and that it violated the trust you once shared. Don't yell, scream, get angry or violent, or upset in any way. From what I can tell, she did what she did to get revenge, and seeing you upset is what she will want. Other than that, you should probably find a new best friend, but maybe if you tell her how you feel, she'll realize that what she did hurt you, and if she really cares about you, she'll feel sorry and hopefully apologize. I've done stupid, unkind, impulsive things to my friends, and felt terrible afterwards. If she wants a second chance, give it to her, but keep in mind that in any case, trusting her completely is probably a bad move in the future. As for wanting to leave the state, I know how that feels, but if people tease you about the gossip this false friend spread, just laugh about it, ignore them... they're not real friends. Kids can be cruel, but the best thing to do is to avoid seeking revenge, go on with your life, and don't let it bring you down. I'm sure you're a sweet person who deserves better!
1081515
You need to get right to the heart of the matter and politely and sincerely ask your sister why she feels unable to respect your privacy. If there is a trust issue, it needs to come out into the light.
449703
write to her.  you can't lash out at a peice of paper.  tell her that you love her very much and that her behavior makes you worry.  tell her that what her friend did made you very sad as well but now your soul concern is her.  although you don;t think she would ever do the same thing, the way she is acting has you fearing for her personal safety and you love her too much to just look away.  if that doesn't work, and she really is staying in drunken hysterics, talk to your fellow family memebers- hve an intervention or have her committed.
70660
I think you should confide in a diary or journal or something like some previous answer told you to do. It really lifts the weight off your shoulders once you've written your feelings down. I mean, unless you dont keep your memories written down, then you should tell your 2nd best friend/a close friend who doesnt have any idea who your best friend is, so that the person you tell doesnt tell your best friend and screw up your friendship. Just like what some other person said. Or, if you do have a trusting friendship that'll be sure to last for a kachillion years (again, an idea from another answer), then you might just be able to tell your friend. That's why they call them best friends forever right? Nothing'll come between them
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
1015997
my journal... and whoever reads it... 3 can keep a secret if 2 are dead...
9728
Slander is a legal offense. So I would just keep a record of what she does do. Copy and download the exact website where she is posting your pictures (not just the link, because she can remove the content later) and stuff so you have actual physical evidence of her slandering you. Best advice is to keep tabs and records of everything so when you do report to legal authorities you have substance.
1184214
Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
253783
Well aren't you possessive, aren't they allowed to have friends?! And why are you lookin thru their phone anyway? My phone's like my diary- anyone looks thru it and they ain't with me no more!
348832
Relax, you didn't do anything wrong.  Sometimes life simply gets too busy to remember to share everything that goes on.  As long as she isn't mad then don't worry about it.
278235
suck it up, get her a present for her b-day (she is your friend , right!)and dont worry about what others are saying, what matters is she didnt say it and you didnt say it , so what if others did say it , as you mature you will find out that gossip and rumours are mostly jealousy actions.
643340
either contact the police or find out what school she went to, contact the school and have them send you the picture...make up some bogus story as to your a close friend and your doing a birthday project or something...
232337
Just try to find it I rember when i was 10 or 11 i lost a pices a paper that had all my usre names and paswords and it turned out that it got mix in my brothers folder.
820857
wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
539888
Normally, my advice would be to stay out of it BUT, this time, I would recommend that you say something...especially since it is your sister and she was in public not even being discreet!  Please do not confront her in front of someone though...do it  when you are alone together.  \n\nTell her that you saw her with a guy that was not _____ (her husband) and that you saw them holding hands and kissing.  Tell her that, since you stumbled upon them be accident, so can other people who know her.  \n\nDo not tell her that you saw her on someone's page...it will look like you are deliberately spying on her.  Do not include that information.\n\nYou would be not overstepping your bounds to ask her why she got married if she is going to hurt her husband and tell her truthfully that you don't want to see him hurt.  Good luck!
296359
tRY TO MAKE IT UP TO HER MAKE IT SO YOU DONT HAVE THE BLAME AND OH THANKS FOR MY ANSWER YOU WAS A BIG HELP AND IM CHOOSING YOU AS MY BEST ANSWER SO EMAIL ME bres_bff1994@yahoo.com okay
79625
Yes. I have a paper journal. I rather have a private one because I don't want anyone to read it, even in cyberspace. Journaling on paper could also allow you to pass it on to someone. Just imagine if your mom had given you hers or one about you growing up?? I know of a GREAT journal that you can find at www.callijai.com\nCheck it out.