I love him but my friends tell me to break up wit him... what do i do?
362243
SCREW THAT UGLY CHICK \nignore her
19155
This is tough because of what you said...you're still in love with him (how long were you guys dating?).  You need to find ways to distance yourself from him, and to do other activities which will take your mind off him.  Hang out with other friends, go take a class on something, do something fun and exciting.  If he calls you as much as you may want to talk to him you need to not answer the phone...in time you'll feel comfortable being separate and may have a chance at being friends then, but if he's playing games with you you need to avoid the situation as much as possible.
549208
while breaking up with him wasn't the best thing to do, most of us whould have done the exact same thing.  Have a talk with him. Ask him if he's intrested in giving you a secind shot and explain why you broke up in the first place.  If he isn't all you wanted-he's out of your system and you might cry a little.  the decision is yours but i know what it's like to like someone that much.  give it a shot. who knows- maybe he was dumping them because they wern't like you.  Only he and his friends know. Carpe Diem. Seize the day and take a chance-sorry if this is corny. I'm watching a walk to remember
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This isn't a situation of boyfriend advice. It's full out relationship common sense that's on the table here.\n\nFrom your description, your boyfriend wants your attention exclusively. Which is why you're great when alone together. He's not comfortable sharing you with others for whatever reason. Maybe he feels they'll convince you to leave him, or maybe it's that he doesn't like your friends. I don't know, but there is a reason. Whatever the reason, it needs to be discussed between you two and sorted out.\nIf you don't sort it out and you stay together it means only two choices. Either you're the fighting couple or you'll be your own company and not have other social activities.\n\nWhat this comes down to is what you want for your life. Remember, this is a relationship, a two-way street. If you want to still have your friends and he doesn't that is his choice, just as it was his choice to stop having his friends. Yes, you made the same choices, but you want to turn those around and have your friends as well as have him.\n\nTalk with him. Find out why he's so jealous. If it's something that can be worked out, then great. If it's not, then you have to take a look at the direction the relationship is going and what you want for your life. Decisions will have to be made and they won't be easy ones.\n\nI wish you the best and I hope I helped in some way.\n\nUpdate:\nI just saw your update and wanted to add this.\nYou've had these talks and from your description they're not moving anywhere.\nFrankly, it's time to make a decision for yourself. You can't hold back your life waiting for something to become resolved. Take action and make a decision. I think you should lay it on the line and tell him that either it's got to change or it's over. From all you're saying that seems to be the choices that are out there. Don't be afraid to put it on the line and make the hard decision.\nIt will all work out. I'm sure of that.
772870
You have to get your priorities straight.  Do you want to be with him or the other guys.  If you want to go out with someone else, it's better to break it off than to string him along and hurt him.  If you just want him, tell the others to leave you alone.
230678
If you don't like him, it is not fair to him to be with you. Break up with him and tell him how you feel.
1026084
if u love him dont leave him... if u dont .. then kick him\n\nbut believe wat u see..........only !!!
1083648
FORGET him. He's just using you, love. Trust me, you need to cut him out of your life. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you MUCH better.
340661
Dump him and find someone better who will really love you.
366708
He isn't worth your time. It sounds like he is too immature for you. And I am sure you can replace him. You go girl.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
665216
Don't break up with him. Just because he doesn't love you now doesn't mean he won't in time. Plus you might have wanted to say it privately in person, it's much more personal, and he might have been embarressed to say it in front of his friend. I know its annoying, but boys will be boys. Try again later, when it just the two of you. If he still doesn't say it back then give him some time. Not all people fall in love at the same rate.
1169547
Maybe you should call him and talk it out.  I doubt he wants to break up with you. Why would he do an idiotic thing like that??
190632
Well it might just be a faze and it sounds to me that if you really say that you like him the way the you say that you do then no. I don't think that it is that serious that you have to break up with him. Try to work it out.
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
964623
If he did love you he wouldn't have been "messing with some other girls"! You're right in that you can't or shouldn't allow your friends tell you what to do. However, if they are true and good friends, you should at least heed what they say. They have your best interest at heart and may be able to look objectively at the situation whereas you may be blinded by your feelings of love. Bottom line is.....if he was messing around, that's the type of person he is and it would likely happen again (just maybe he's get smarter about it and you wouldn't catch him)! Thank your lucky stars you found out now. It may hurt but it's probably best in the long run. You're prince charming is probably still out there somewhere. Keep looking. Good Luck.
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that is not love. how can he love you when he's out touching someone else.you shouldn't even have to ask that question. love is all about being their for one another, love is charishing your every minute together. love is kindness and respect, and what your boy friend did is none of the above. so personaly i thik you need to break up with him