i love my boyfriend, but how do i really know?
362892
If this is even a question ..... you're with the wrong one
464328
Ask them. It's that simple. I mean, you should probably just ask how they really feel about you, don't straight out ask them if they love you. Also, let them know how you feel about them. But never just assume that they do because all people have different ways of showing their feelings towards another. Good luck. I hope it turns out the way you want.
906560
well guys are like puzzles you got to figure them out. Like my boyfriend to him awhile for him to say he loves me. You see it's best to know them first as friends so you know all about'em likes and dislikes but girl don't tell him you have fallen in love in with him. If you're not sure wait awhile or maybe ask him how he feels about you?! What type of feelings he have for you then you would know what to do. OR listen to what your heart says not head.
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
630234
you know, when you are ready you will know. i swear, you love for that guy deepens and you know that he is willing to wait for you.. it is a funny thing, but you will know. but the best thing is to give it time and when you know this guy really loves you, then go for it. just give time..\ngood luck
1134471
u can tell if ur bf really loves u when hes willing to change bad habits that u dont like and if he goes out of his way to plan romantic things for u not just an ordinary date and most of all when he does simple things for u like fix u something to eat when ur hungry and u didnt ask him to do or just tell u that u look beautifil everyday and if he trys to cheer u up or make u feel better when ur not well....thats true love thats how u know because he will go through trouble just to keep a smile on ur face
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Well, how long you've been in the relationship has a big factor in telling if he loves you. Also, go on our feelings, but don't let them take over. I myself have an extremely active imagination...\n\nBut sweetie, you also have to trust him. If he hasn't done anything in the past to betray your trust, that you know of anyway, then chances are he won't and is a genuinely good guy. And also, does he tell you he loves you a lot? Is he affectionate to you? How much time do you spend together, etc. If he rarely sees you, it would make a little more sense if you get a little worried, not that it has to mean anything. Just talk to him. If he does really love you, and respect you and your feelings, tell him you love him so much you don't want to be hurt by him, and want to really know his feelings for you. If he really loves you you will know it. Just don't ask him too many times because if he is true in his intentions, it will upset him to be questioned so much. Good luck!
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First, open ur bible and read 1Corinthians 13:4-8 and if he/she resembles a bit of all or most of these qualities, then he loves u. The best way to know, is if he/she puts ur feelings, thoughts, emotions, ideas...ect, before his/hers. Lastely if they respect u. I hope this answers ur question. \nGood luv'n.
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there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
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I love you. That took about 1.7 seconds. But he just won't say it, huh. He may say it tomorrow or he may never say it, that isn't exactly the strongest sign that he honestly loves you. There are many factors at work and it will be up to you to muddle your way through it all. Let me see if I can help you do that.\n\nYou will find as you age that Love will take on many faces. \n\nAt times, Love will make you feel like the happiest girl in the world. You will be so filled with It that Love will spill over and get on everyone around you. The whole mood of a room will change when you walk through the door.\n\nOther times, It will take your heart and stomp it into the ground. Just when you think it is done, it will turn and spit on you.\n\nLove will be the thing that defines different periods of your life. Love is better as a group activity but that doesn't mean you can't be alone in your feelings of Love also.\n\nWhat you have to look at here is your boyfriends comfortable zone. In some families the word love is used in everyday language. The children and the parents are quick to assure each other of Its existance. \n\nIn other families, It is said only at times when someone feels a strong need to assure another that they do indeed feel love for them.\n\nThen there are those families where speaking the Word is a bit uncomfortable and is almost or totally absent from their interactions. So...\n\nWhich of these fits your boyfriend's experience. Is the word so common to him that he might find it easy to say even if he feels only a little bit of it towards you? Is he someone that understands his feelings enough to say it only if he is sure of it? Or could he feel an overwhelming Love for you but still not vocalize it? \n\nHere is the defination of "what love is" as given in the Bible. It's not a definition of being in love. It gives a definition that defines what will be present if love is present. Even if the word Love is never said, this is how you will recocnize it.\n\n"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,  \nit does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. \n\nIt bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails... So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."\n\nDon't try to force the Word from him. Don't think that hearing him say the Word is the definitive event that proves It's existance. Actions speak so much louder than words ever will. Instead, look for the signs of Love. Now you know what those signs are.
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ok my question I asked is semi related, but this is what I think. Ok you can love him, you can like the way he smells (cologen) you like like the way he smiles, or how rhythmic his heartbeats when he sleeps, you can love the way when he acts foolish, or when he's being serious or if you know he has a twinkle in his eye, Every song on the radio can make you think of him, and your considered in love, but even though you in love he might not be and that might be why your previous was hell. Here is the thing though if you feel happy and he makes you happy then there is love, now don't knock him on the head and drag him to the justice of the peace because you think you love him, love has many ways of being expressed you can love someone forever and him not be the one that is right for marriage so I mean really you sound like your in love but is that really the question your looking for. I hope I've been help take care\nand good luck in your answers
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live your moment with him but don't give up your heart for him until you are sure that he loves you more than anything else. you will be sure by putting him in a test or situation that shows you how much he loves you.
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definitely, in true love! & there's someone out there for everyone. you just have to believe. i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and everyday, my love for him keeps growing. this is my second boyfriend. my first boyfriend was a jerk.
1137100
Just relax and think about how much you care for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should make you feel like loving him too
8823
Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
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You don't, and you never will; unless you learn a very simple rule.\n\nSaying, "I love you," is easy.\n\nLiving it is hard.\n\nIf he shows you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof then believe him.\n\nIf he doesn't show you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof, but SAYS he loves you - don't believe him.\n\nIt's really quite simple.\n\nActions speak louder than words!
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well just let him know how you feel  and if he really loves you thn he will understand