Friend troubles....ugh any help???
373118
Unfortunately you can't pick your friend's friends, and giving the ultimatum it is either her or me will most likely make you look like the bad guy.\n\nJust take the high road on this one.  Most girls say mean things because they are jealous or insecure. Don't bad mouth the other girl back, even though your feelings may be hurt.\nIt will just make her come up with more hurtful things to say.   \n\nJust arrange to spend time with your friend alone. Remember that she is free to be friends with whomever she likes.
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
816670
well by avoiding her you are being a jackass.... Talk to her... what is wrong with having another friend???
491117
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!
743157
it sound like your friends are jerks. just try talking to new people. the best way to get over your old friends is to get new ones.
547130
Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!
279183
Try to find out why this bugs her.  Then go from there.  You are her friend, and probably will know what to say.  One of my friends is on myspace, and I personally wish he wouldn't be on it because I think it is a bit dodgey.
1101047
You need to find another friend!\n☺
200981
Tell him or her they're annoying, if that don;t help dump them as ur friend.
27670
they arent your friends if they dont care about you enough to not make you feel bad. Dont stoop to their level and do it back, instead immediatly stop talking to them and keep your head high, once they see it doesnt bother you they will stop doing it. Who needs enemies with friends like that. Get some new friends that arent little brats.
650808
stick up fro urfriend and let the "hitter" loose!!!!! If u don't do anything, u might regret it someday when u never see ur friend anymore...
842519
dont be her friend... theres other better ppl out there. u dont need her.
960790
It is hard to deal with pressure from your "friends" believe me i've been there. my once "friend" talked about one of my other friends behind her back because she didnt have a BF so we made one up for her and it backfired in our faces and then they made fun of her even more. the best thing to do is tell your friend you are tired of her comments, and if she doesnt stop then try not talking to her or not getting upset when she says these things. usually people will stop joking if they know it doesnt bother you. The main thing is to NOT make up a BF it will backfire. \nHope i helped!
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
506120
dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
372404
this is a very hard situation to be in believe me i know how you feel! my two best friends hate eachother too! one is a cheerleader and the other is a music buff and hates cheerleaders! i tell them both that i don't want in the middle of their little cat fights and they actually don't put me in that situation. if you're really their best friend, they won't make you sit through that kind of stuff. mine actually don't have a problem with eachother if i'm around with them both. every now and then i get into conflicts with one saying i'm paying more attention to the other but i just ignore that fact. what can i do, i have more classes with the cheerleader than i do with the music buff. just make sure they know you don't want anything to do with their little fights and they should let you out of their fights. it may take a little while, especially if they get into a huge argument! they might expect you to choose sides, but don't do it. stay strong and stick up for yourself! let them know who's boss in your life lol! i hope this helps and wish you luck!
234000
If someone just stops talking to you for no reason then that person was never really a friend in the first place. then to often times we think we haven't offended a person when in fact we have. so to be in the clear ask your friend if he or she has been offended by you or something. that's a start. if that person still ignore you let it go there are more true friends in this world