Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy?
362432
It's not hard, but it seems to me from my experiences that women say they want one thing then actually go after another....\nI'm yet to meet a woman who would go for a genuine nice guy over an asshole who treats them like crap, maybe they just need something to complain about to the nice guys they just want to be "friends" with...
260875
You are looking for the most rare of breed of man.\nI you are looking for the 'same' sort of man you were going out with then you might need 'clouser' on your last relationship, this happens to everyone, you have an inprint of that relationship, sounds odd i know, (been there, t-shirt worn).\nyou are going to have to start on level 1 again, you cant go in to a new relationships with a battleplan, you may not know that you are doing this but its clear to others.\nas for A REAL person and a REAL relationship, there is two things you can do, first, keep trying as hard as you can, push rush looking for that right man, or enjoy who you might find, take it as it comes, you might not get anther chance.\nO and for all the guys who stood you up, I'll have a word, shame on them!\nhope this helps.\n\n - Mr Right (answer)
1063885
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
114699
"when i do find that guy that has all those qualities it either scares me or i dont believe the guy"\n\nYou HAVE to go for it when you meet someone like you just described!  He may be the wrong one.....  BUT!  He might be the right guy!  You HAVE to give him a try or you'll never find the perfect guy. \n\n...and don't be scared.  Just be yourself.  Then you'll know if he IS the guy, and he will know if you're the right girl.
1089680
Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment.  Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
247400
because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
369534
maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you
307219
because when we go into a relationship, we really put ourselves out there, and give it 110% expecting the same in return, as whole heartedly as we can be, its really hard to find sincere people these days, but don't dont worry you'll find someone that will care and love you the way you really deserve, and put all their effort into the relationship, the same as your doing.
1058786
there are tons of guys like that, you just have to find them. (we are all over the place) ;)
567410
I AGREE WITH YOU IAM 25 AND A SINGLE MOTHER AND LOOKING FOR A MAN TO BE WITH ME THE REST OF MY LIFE BUT I TOO SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM I BELIEVE THE BEST THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
221733
The right person is out there for everyone...\nSometimes it takes time to find them...\nYou have to be patient...\nTry out some others along the way so you don't cut yourself off from society, and finding the right one can only be found by looking and experimenting with others...\nJust do a little "fishing" in the people pool for a while and your special "fish" may well swim up to you...
495885
Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
189874
Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
627586
No, they do exist. Keep looking....they may not be the most flamboyant or even the best looking, but to find the nice guy, get passed the wrapper...
1034185
Are you being serious??\n\nYes, when u find a decent guy