how do i get my bf to realize he loves me?
370011
Has he really said that he doesn't? If not, talk to him, he will understand and answer you properly.
1139282
I like the last answer, by DKlyde - it shows how wrong your thinking is.  Instead of asking how to get him to trust you, ask why the heck you want this guy to trust you.  The answer is that you "love him so much."  That is not a good answer, and you need to learn that now, rather than later.  Love is both a feeling and an act of the will - you decide to act in a loving way even when you don't feel like it.  He is NOT SHOWING YOU HE LOVES YOU.\n\nHere is what you NEED TO DO TO FIX things.  Find a third person you and your bf both respect, preferably an older friend or parent or counsellor or therapist or minister.  Talk with your bf with this person just listening at first, tell him that you don't like feeling "in the wrong no matter what."  If he agrees to try to change and trust you more and respect your privacy, THEN GIVE HIM A CHANCE.\n\nIf bf thinks he is perfectly right and has done nothing wrong, then you have to accept that he is wrong for you.  It will hurt because you have fallen in love with him, but you will be FAR BETTER OFF in the LONG RUN by taking care of yourself, than if you stick around hoping things will get better - THEY WON'T!
474369
Show your real feelings to him. Tell him often that you care and love him so much. Do things that you think he likes. Always accompany him especially when he have problems, never leave him alone so i'm sure he would realize how much you really love him...
840457
Sometimes in life actions speak louder than words. I want you to ask yourself why is it you need to hear him say I love you, why do you want or need him to say that. surely you are aware of his feelings. Some guys cannot say that but they do feel it . It's not about him being the emotinal type or not. It's about your need to hear those words. We cannot make others do or say what we want them to.  love is not about  expecting things from our loved ones it's all about acceptance being aware of each others needs and healthy communication based on honesty etc. so maybe you two need to have a really open honest talk about what each others needs are and what you both can do for one another so that each of you feel loved and appreciated without feeling like you are being to pushy demading or emotional.\n\nBe honest with yourself about your feelings and when you both chat togehter do so without judging one another. enjoy the time you have together making the most of your time and energy and never for one minute take each other for granted. Good luck with everything in life.  Sometimes in life we need to allow ourselves to think differently to improve ourselves and our life in general.
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I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
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Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
967305
Show him that you care for him and that you are there for him to help whenever he has a prob. Then you would see how he reacts differently. He will probably even get in touch with you more frequently because he will understand that you care for him. When you will get the feeling that he knows that you care for him, then try to start a conversation with him and try to give him some hints that you like him and want him to be your bf. Hopefully he will respond positively to your needs. Good luck and hope that this helps you.
136418
i guess ur bf is askin a lot from u now...tell him u dunt want it now, and wen its time u'll let him know!!!!
111494
By just showing him that you care. Pay attention to him. Really know what he likes or doesn't like. Make him feel like he is the only man in the room. SHOW HIM YOU LOVE HIM!! By doing this, he will already know that you love him and when it is time to say it out loud, he will already know how you feel which will make saying it a whole lot easier.
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If your bf or gf loves you then they will understand your predicament.\n\nPick what is the most important thing that will help you throughout your life and put that as a little ahead of the rest.\n\nset up a certain amount of time each day for your love life
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Maybe "hey" isn't the right way to get his attention.  Obviously, there is some kind of emotional disconnect between you and your bf regarding physical intimacy.  \n\nThis is one that you have to talk out with him.  Set aside some time and without being critical, ask him what was going on.  Try to get past the "it was the way that you said it" answer and find out why he was so distracted from your "moment".
646518
Whatever you're sending via text-message or giving to him should be a reflection of your relationship and your time together.  My bf and I have an inside joke which we send to each other all the time, not because of the actual text but because when I receive it I know he's thinking about me.\n\nIf you send a simple note that says 'just thought of you and it made me smile' that could make his day.\n\nGifts - same deal.  personal and thoughtful is the way to go.
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problem is him. Don't push it. Relationship is about trust. Letting him get to trust you little by little, in the little things then it will grow. Also just be yourself so he can trust the you he sees. Lastly, not everybody gets to say 'I love U' the same way. Maybe his may be different
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
796155
Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
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Nicole, be yourself sweetie. If he does not think that you love him well he has the problem. I have tried so many times to tell my partner how much I love him. He never takes me serious , so I have given up. I feel if he does not believe me, well that is his bad luck. This to me is a no trust thing in my book!!!!!!
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you can not make anyone to love you, it there is no hope that he will love you back... try to move on... but if you think he might love you or he loves you... do not beg him for anything... be a lady and show it to him. most guys love ladies not silly girls...