Would you tolerate this? He doesn't show up at all when we agreed to meet and doesn't even call me?
368579
nope and I'd further let him know that you value your time and are willing to include him in your plans but only if he shows up.  I'd make it clear and rock solid that if he does it again, the friendship is terminated out of a lack of respect for you on his part.  You don't have to be a doormat for this so-called friend.  The reason you may be the only friend he's got is because he chased off the other people who wanted to be his friend.  So.....you may be a friend to HIM but I don't see any parts of his being a friend to YOU.  Get ready to ditch this sadsack and meet nicer people.
218595
not neccesarily, he might think that he would come across as needy if he called sooner. They are pressured by other guys not to show their feelings. give him a few more chances to see how he really feels
1141199
might probably be! why dont you talk to him and discuss it?
450554
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
785678
He is extreeeeemely busy... if you are "dating" and he hasnt contacted you... eh... well.. he is a man.... and welcome to the game of "love"
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
969784
You teach people how to treat you. If you're ok with being asked out by email and never spoken to, then he's your man. If you think he's playing games or messed up, stop responding to him. I don't know why you'd even care to figure him out- I'd just ignore him.
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
635202
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
154922
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
112024
i wouldnt call if he doesnt answer it will just hurt u more how often do yall email each other? id just try to move on if your ment to be hell come back
759252
Very bad idea.  If he were very special, you would have called him first.  To show up at his place of employment without warning I something I wouldn't do to my husband, much less to someone I haven't seen in three years.  Under those circumstances, I wouldn't welcome you, I'd be pissed.\n\nYou don't even know if he'll remember you and are fearful of the meeting.\n\nHonestly?  This meeting isn't about him, it's about you.  It's very selfish and poor idea.  What is the REAL reason you're dropping in on him like this?\n\nDon't do it.
555840
If he knows that you want to work it out and you haven't heard from him, then just let him be and if he wants to reconcile, then it's in his court. You can't force him to feel a certain way. Meanwhile, focus on building other relationships in your life.
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
839465
he s a JerK.. and you are a S|_UT! you are both sick!! did you read the stupid silly question you typed here??\n "im plotting to meet some one and have a real affair with them not some fling im talking maybe fall in love with the other person"\n "now i just have to get out and find that other person"\nYou are SCUM!\nok..excuse.. im going to puke and will be back in a minute\np.s: poor kid
98102
Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
797565
If I were single and I received that email form a girl I was not interested in I would ignore her to avoid an uncomfortable situation. The sad truth is he is not interested. Sorry to break your heart.