How do you become less serious?
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Ohhh this is the same thing I used to do.  I think it begins with men being a huge priority in life.  Do more with your friends! I bet you don't hang out with friends when you're with a guy.  Do a Friday date, and Saturday with girls. Take up a hobby, take your mind off of men. \n\nMost times after I used to have a date, less than a day would pass before we talked again, and I just seemed to click so well with everyone, I moved from one serious relationship to another.  Have this new mantra: "I am only going out to have fun. I am not looking for anything but a nice evening tonight." Set yourself some rules; don't let yourself get too comfortable with them. Make sure not to tell them everything about you in the first couple dates, and let at least 3-4 days pass between dates.  Going to each other's house is also very personal, make the first couple weeks dates "out".  Don't get too comfortable, don't get too close.  Be more picky.
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You don't have to put up with things you don't want to put up with....\ndont turn the cheek, start kicking some assssesss
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Slow down.  Take life easier.
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Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
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make a person smile a couple of times, laugh a couple of times and you throw thier receptivity switch in thier personallity to the on position. with this done just deliver the question as if it was something that you needed thier personal advice on and most people will divulge almost anything. they may shoot it straight from the hip or the more shy will give it as a "third" person or "hyperthetical" scenario but we can all read between those lines lol ;o)
936615
to be polite, to make them seem less serious, or maybe its some kind of syndrome.
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Become more sociable and get out a little bit.
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Become more spiritual.. Have a personal relationship with God.. Love God.. Love yourself and then loving people will be easy..
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ok dude..u can just ask her out while u and her do ur usual banters and what not..initially just joke around and stuff..then at one point, after u say stuff like where u gonna take me or whatever or she say she's gonna take u somewhere, u just look at her in the eye and say, 'no, i'm serious'..of course u need that serious look when u do that..it's just a matter of timing..might or might not work, but it's worth a try..\n\ngo get her, boy!
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You cannot be serious....;
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Your Not Serious......
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I would like to be someone who had more serious and valid questions on their minds than this one.
101957
You can't change the kind of person you are.  Clearly your beliefs are strong to you, and it matters to you that others see things your way.  If you fee bad about blowing up at people, then try to talk slower, take deep breaths, and count to 10 when you start to feel it coming.  Sometimes you can catch more flies with honey you know.
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How can YOU improve OUR quality of life....\nLead by example  :-)  Use your manners, be socially acceptable, dress appropriately, act appropriately.  Choose your words carefully, apologize where apologies are due.  Turn the other cheek.  Be forgiving.  Learn from your mistakes.  Don't blow things out of proportion (ex.  Me, when something bad happens:  Well, that sucked.  What's next?).  Refuse to engage in conflict, especially petty conflict.  Express your opinion, but do it nicely.  Make your morals and values known, but only if they're not highly controversial.  Don't waste your time trying to change other people, because it's not your problem.  Don't waste your days away trying to fix their problems, because they're not yours to fix.\nEverything in moderation; this is not simply superficial  ;-)
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Be yourself! {Please dont lie} Good grief! Think of someting funny to talk about! I dont know _Maybe you need new friends dude! Relax , be that person down deep just wanting to get out ! You have your entire life ahead of you ! Slow Down! BE real! RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
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stop going in circles and get to the point
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I know what you mean.\n\nI do that too.\n\nBut I don't mean to.  Sometimes people go around with a mad look on their face and they dont even know it.\n\nso  smile more often when you talk to peep.\n\nThats a start. more smiley face