How do you tell a female you're trying to pursue that you are currently broke and can't afford to take her out
358052
First of all you have to tell her exactly your situation.  Women don't like men who take them out under false pretenses.  It will put them off you when they find out.  Not necessarily because you are broke (depends on the woman) but because you have kind of lied to them.xx
646734
Start off by letting her know that you aren't looking to be tied down.  That you want a casual relationship for now.
301586
Dont judge that person for having financial problems. Unless we were born rich, we all find ourselves in economical need at some point in our lives.\n\nIve seen cases where a guy finds a girl who really cares about him and makes him happy but some relative starts putting doubts on his head by telling him the girl is only interested in money and vice versa.\nOf course, you should always be careful. When you just met Someone its not a good idea to make them think they could benefit economically from you.\n\nIf you find your special someone who is in financial need,  give them your support. Don't make their lives harder than what it already is. they already have enough problems to think about.
549856
Smile sweetly and innocently and say, "But you are supposed to be spending all your money on me!"  Then leave.  \n\nSometimes you may have to go dutch on a date or if the bill was $12 and he had $10, supply a couple.  But if they are taking you out, THEY are taking you out.  Just try to help a little with the cost of taking you out a little, things like "The dinner was nice, but how about some ice cream?  My treat" or "Thanks for the movie ticket, I'll buy the popcorn."
748178
If you don't want to have to give her all of your things then you need to stand up for yourself and say no.  It is going to be hard to do it the first time but at some point you are going to have to.  The longer this pattern of her asking and you giving in goes on the harder it will be for you to say no.
813751
Depends on who's asking. If you are putting an ad in the dating columns and you want it to be known you have no money but are a nice person, then leave out the fact you are poor. Just say you're a nice romantic boy looking for  a nice girl for quiet nights at home or picnics in the park : ) (cheap stuff to do)
82766
Just tell her that she is really beautiful and she is exactly the kind of woman you'll pay for, make that as a joke but look fro her reaction. She'll get back to you on your next visit
115355
Make her feel special. Personally, I'm not one that wants money or material things - just do little things to make her know that you are thinking about her when  she least expects it. Good luck.
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
490670
If at the beginning of the relationship the guy starts asking for money.  I can barely support myself, I don't need someone else asking for money!!
468630
A) be sure they knew it was a loan. They might not be aware of it.\n\nB) Talk it over with your friend, in a "Hey, money is getting kind of tight for me right now, how are things for you guys? Would it be possible for you to say, start floating me 50 bucks a paycheck or something? It would really help me out."\n\nC) Remember, there is no way to not sound like a jerk. Because that depends entirely on what kind of people they are. Also, a good rule of thumb when loaning out money, is to never actually expect to see it again. Try, yeah. But don't be surprised when it never appears again.
747596
The people you love will understand if you can't afford to buy them what they want.  I'm sure they will understand your situation.  If you muct then go work in a bar for a few weekends and live as cheaply as possible.  Also make sure you weigh what you have to do for the money with why you need to buy things you can't already afford ex: I had a friend in college who became a stripper just so she could afford a lifestyle she was used to - then she got hooked on meth - from there her lifestyle and of course life took a dramatic downswing. Don't sell your soul and your life for material goods
762075
What you've got to do is wait till you see someone that looks as if they've got some money.  Then you throw your net at them.  While they struggle with the net, take their money.
141698
i think you should pay for her sometimes. i mean its nice to have you boyfriend pay for you when you go out. but i dont think you need to pay for her all the time. tell her straight up that you dont have the money to pay for her all the time and that sometime she needs to pay for her own crap.
936600
if she is a nice person, down to earth and really cares about others feelings then don't be afraid to ask her out. besides as you said you already talk to her from time to time so give it a go, the worst that can happen is she will deny you a date. and don't forget, it's not where you live or how much money you have that makes a likeable person, it's who they are on the inside. good luck
959963
Be yourself. Dont try and be someone your not. Be kind and polite too her. But dont go too far out of your way. Be the one to pay for any expenses. But dont brag. It makes you look like you can handle your money, and spoil her with it, but not overuse it and let it get too you. And just try too have as much fun as you can. If she seems unhappy, ask her why, Ask her how she thinks the date is going, Your main focus is on her. But yeah, basically, Be yourself, and savour the moments. Good luck.\n\nTimm.
439315
Heh of course it is. When I met my boyfriend he didn't have much money. It's not the most important thing by far. If the girl likes you she will be happy with a walk in the park instead of a fancy dinner.Show her things that she has never seen before in your own special point of view. Try opening up and talking to a girl in a personal way, writing poetry, singing songs, making her gifts those things all mean a lot to the right girl. That is the trick though finding a female who isn't into money.