i am scared to tell people about my secret!!?
366348
I really don't see where it is necessary to proclaim your sexual orientation to your school. I have never felt the need to let everybody I meet know that I am heterosexual. I think that information is something that you share with the people that you are interested in having a relationship. It isn't actually a secret, it is just your personal information and you don't have to share it with everybody. \n\n@--->---
721470
maybe your scared that they will know all of your secrets.\ni only say that because i have a cousin that has the same problem. she is so scared to look into peoples eyes. she is scared that if she does , then they will know everything about her.
735023
if i have a problem i need to share it with a friend or i die. but after that i am worry that they tell my secret or they use it to make me feel worse. i don't trust human beings but i know i can't live alone...so ...
857576
why the hell do people even bother answering this question with "a secret is meant to be kept" or some dumb sh!t like that?!\n\nIf you dont want to tell your secret, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT QUESTION\n\nhaving that said...\nmy secret for now is... I steal money out of the coffee fund at work. Almost every day.\n\nI also steal office supplies and cleaning products from work.\n\nI keyed a girls car, and acted surprised when she told me about it.\n\nmy only real reason for getting married was to get the hell away from my psycho mom.
315875
Yes, but its a secret... don't tell anyone!
674497
nobody is gonna publicize that. You gotta knock on some doors and sell yourself. Be convincing. Be honest about your past. Be sure they know how you will proceed in the future. Keep at it. It could be discouraging.
247081
wow thats tough. i think you should tell him yourself because if people find out then rumors will start.. and if its a good reaction or not .. at least you let him know u still love him & hopefully da reaction is good!
664446
yes you should. when you suppress what you feel, and not way to vent, your only hurting yourself. if you are scared, record yourself in a room and upload it online and see what people think. the most important thing though is how you feel about yourself. know who you are and then the confidence will shine through.
335571
Don't. Simply don't tell them anything you don't want them to know and don't share any info you don't want getting out with anybody or it will get out sooner or later.
685632
If he trusts you or not he has no right entering into your private accounts. You need to stop bein a wuss and tell him yourself. Its a form of controll that you need to address. If you cant tell him then why should we. Hes the one whom you have to see and it should be you to tell him that he sucks azz for invading your privacy...Unless your scared and that my dear is a whole nnother problem...
86868
well they already spread around. so it is good if you hold your head up high. as long as you know that it is not true. then you shouldn't even buy in to all of that. if somebody asks you is it true, then tell them no. if they start all these questions like well she/he said that you did this or you did that then just ignore them. just try to lift your head above the clouds. but, not too high as if you are conceited. before you know it you will no longer be in their conversation. there would be no more rumors about you and you will be able to go on. then you will be able to go on in life and not have to worry about them anymore. just be patient it will happen and you will be ok!!!!!!!!!
253080
No, I can't. I was sworn to secrecy!
240483
Its not what your saying hun....It`s who your saying it too!Some people cant keep secrets and those are the ones you talk to obviously,sorry but its true...:(
1113400
You already said you know telling the truth is right, what you're scared about is what will happen when you do. Odds are, your mum and teacher will each lecture you on how important it is to tell the truth, and there may be a punishment of some kind from your mum.  But what you should be more scared of is what happens if you don't tell the truth. Teacher gets after the other girls for being nasty, they deny it, they get in trouble, Teacher gets after you because of what your mum told her and now she has reason to suspect it's untrue, you get in trouble with teacher, Teacher tells mum, you get in trouble with mum for being a liar, the other girls probably find out and you get in trouble with them.  Lots more drama then if you suck it up and go tell your mum right now, and then tell your teacher. maybe mum will go with you to tell her. I know it's hard, but you can do it. best of luck!!
112595
Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
61443
this happened to a friend of mine.   keep ur mouth shut and if u talk to her, talk to her about keeping her mouth shut too and let her know the consequences for if the secret does come out.  also remind her that it takes 2 to  tango
924082
Saying that openly on here is a start.  Find a counselor (many are free) in a gender you'd feel safest with, and try starting with small steps.  Tell them you don't feel comfortable opening up.  They know how to help you.