we havent seen each other past 3yrs but still we luv each a lots.can i make a plane for marrage?
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What kind of plane are going to make? If you haven't seen her in the past 3 years, I'm guessing the plane should be able to fly out to meet her.\n\nPlanes should be made by qualified engineers. If you do not have an engineering background, I wouldn't make one. I would never fly anything that I built myself without lots of expert help. You will never be able to get married if you build a plane and crash before you see her.
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What you really want is the REAL thing, not any cheap substitutes for the intimacy that you once had. If you've been together for a long time, you focus on your careers and other things that need to get done and in that time both of you have grown as individuals. You are not on the exact same level that you used to be on when you once met because you have both gained new wisdom, new dreams, new experiences, etc. I think what you need to do is meet each other on the level that you are on now. In other words REDISCOVER each other. There is something deeper in your husband and in you that wasn't there before and you need to get in touch with each other. Talking is the number one key for intimacy. Maybe you could change the scenery and talk in a totally different place to spark some enthusiasm. Make it special and really dig into each other's worlds. Talking about the past can bring back good memories, but don't wish that your husband is now what he was then because he is all that and even more. Love him now and get to know him all over again. Do something special for him and create an atmosphere where you can talk and fall in love all over again.
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Chalk it up as a life experience, and move on. Long distant relationships seldom work, especially, it would seem to me, ones between two different countries. It is possible, I suppose, but brothers and sisters seldom hold hands in America, that would be more of a European thing. Really, you two live so far apart, how is it going to work out anyway?
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In the short term they manage fairly well, then the separations, travelling and expenses become too much.\nIf it is a serious relationship or if it could become one I suggest one of you moving closer to the other.
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Yes, as long as you two still communicate to each other some kind of way. Letting you know that your still apart of each others lives is important. If you two plan to eventually be together it can work, I've been doing it for about two years, we still see each other on most weekends (2 hours away) and make time for family things, but I will be moving soon to where he is. If you decide to do it it will be good test to see if he is the one and if you two are meant to be together, the test of time. Best of luck.
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You should really try. I mean, you both are together now. You shouldn't be afraid. Love each other, don't aviod one another.
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Oh dear... My husband and I meet on yahoo chat... We both fell in love with each other, but were very busy with work and school... we were two stats away from each other... we didn't want to beak each-others hearts, so we decided to be friends... two years went by, and he ended up driving to meet me. It was suppose to only be for a week, but he ended up staying and moving in with me... \n\nYou are not being selfish. Long distant relationships are hard. A large part of being in love is the physical connection with each-other. It is only natural that you want to meet him, to hold his hand and to kiss him. His schooling is important to him, and it shows how much you care for him by understanding that.\n\nI say be friends... continue on with your life... if it is meant to be that you two are suppose to be more than friends one of you will end up with the opportunity to get on the plane so you two can meet.
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Stop worrying, you won't get anywhere like this. If it is going to work then it will and it sounds like your both enjoying each other so just relax.
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Enjoy the trip! Stop focusing on what CAN go wrong, believe me if you continue to worry about it, it will. Take it as it comes, if the two of you love each other and are willing to honestly try, there is no reason it can't work out. My husband and I were both in the Navy on constant back to back deployments when we were dating and made it through, though it was a struggle sometimes. Now, he's in Iraq and I only see him ever 4 months for 2 weeks per visit. It's still hard, but our faith in each other and our love for each other hasn't and won't change. You simply have to be willing to trust each other and let the small things slide. Be grateful for the time you have together and when you do see each other, focus on that.
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well \n\na good idea will be to create the scene like the time you to first met go to places where you to went and made love\n\nremind him of all the good times you had \n\nalso remind him that you two have been together for 8yrs thats sth
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Hi! This is not a "dream" but an out of body experience. Flying is a great high but next time, why don't you try landing,enter the nearest building and "know" /create a door.Open the door "knowing" and creating a flight of stairs behind it.Climb the stairs and at the top "know" /create several doors. Stand before one of the doors and "know"/ create someone whom you love, who has crossed over into the next dimension, is standing on the other side of that door and is anxious to see you again. Knock on the door and identify yourself then, enjoy the time you have w/your loved one! Good luck! E-mail me for further question or pointers, OK?
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Make a DVD with pics of you two together....burn some great music in the background, y'know, songs that have a special meaning to the both of you.\nIf you don't have enough pics of the two of you together, you could use pics from her childhood AND your childhood. Work from thos up to the present on the DVD.\nI think this would be tremendously sweet and should score you big points in the romance department!
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OK. For the ones of us that don't have the money to use a plane, here are some ideas.A candlelit bubble bath is always nice. You can cook a nice meal for her. Make her a list, or just tell her, all the things that you like about her, tell her what your future will be like, us girls like mushy things from our men but they still have to be able to be strong when its needed. Buy some roses and scatter the petals in a trail leading to somewhere. A bath, the bed, the table for dinner. As long as its from your heart she will love it.
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Memories are forever, you won't totally forget them. But I would try to keep busy, and be happy. After 3 yrs I don't think he's coming back anytime soon. Go out and mingle. Chances are you'll find someone else to think and talk about.
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Are either of you involved with or married to other people?  So the separate lives you mention, do they include other romantic partners?  If so, maybe she is already involved with someone? Perhaps she intends to keep the "friendship" (between the 2 of you) just a friendship, (only).  If both of you are unattached, then make arrangements to be in the same country, and declare  your feelings face to face!\n\nGood luck!
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LD relationships are really hard.  I have been in mine for 6 months now and he lives in another state (3 hrs flying) but we do everything we can to talk on the phone and cam-2-cam.  we are totally in love.  i think that if you love each other and it's mutual... you will wait for each other and it will happen naturally.  i think that anything can happen though.. but anything can happen (cheating, break-ups, etc) even if the person lives in your town!  it just depends on the 2 individuals to make it work.  good luck to you both!
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It depends...how long have you two known each other and who will be making the sacrifice to move away? Let me guess you'll be the one. What are you leaving behind and is moving really worth it? Have you two known each other long enough?