I am abt to marry in week.dont want to get pregnant for 1 year.what precautions necessary from my side n hubby
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Get on the pill. You are supposed to start way beforehand, but a week is long enough if you have a backup method for a while. It won't hurt your chances of conceiving later, either and it has lots of benefits.
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I'm going to second the condom advice.  You can also use natural family planning but you have to be exact and have a partner who is willing to follow your lead.  You can get great information on Natural Family Planning from your library, a Midwife, and on the internet.\n\nCondoms have come so far.  My husband doesn't usually have issues with decreased sensitivity as the thought of a new baby waking us up every two hours takes care of that concern.
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there are many options but still have some side effects. you can also use iud, or natural family planning methods. you can ask your gyne for birth control that may suits you and your hubby.\n\nsee this site for more info: http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/index.htm\n\ncongrats!
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If in doubt - do without!! Especially in your first trimester...you may want to ask your Dr. to be sure.
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sure...you'll be fine...is thgere a rush?.....280 days  plus  or  minus  for  one  of the  most  remarkable  things  to  happen..a  baby\nif  you  both  get to  know  each  other  with  massage.reflexology...just  touching  and  cuddling...youll melt the  barrier.....if  yr  thinking  of  having  a  child  to  satisfy  someone  else  ..a  relative...or   to  satisfy...THAT  includes....some  authoritive  figure  who...isn't arround  but  left  you  with a  blockage...about  children  or  parenting  or  sex.....find  a  mid  wife  they're  remarkable  and  have  a  great  insite....   get  yr  partner  to  go  dancin  together...slow  couple  artistic  dancn...that  will bring  you  a  harmonious  co-ordination....ther's a lot  more  but  these are  fine  openers
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I would have your wife take a pregnancy test to find out for sure. Sometimes you cant plan your life. If she is pregnant then your plans will happen sooner than expected. You will find a way to make it work because everyone does. Bringing a child up into the world is the most rewarding thing you can do. Look at it as a good thing!
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My advice to you:\nAll you have to do hun, stay truthful, honest, and love your man. And hopefully he does the same for the rest of your lives. There are no precautions you can take to avoid divorce. Fate brought you 2 together, and your fate lies with you 2. Let it take its course. If youre unsure of this marriage, do you think you should or are ready to get married? Make sure that you guys are 100% ready for this. Get some pre-marriage couseling if you'd like. Like meeting w/ your pastors. Usually that is the first step b/4 getting married anyway. You cant avoid the unavoidable. If its meant to be, it'll last, if its not, it wont. But best wishes to you. And a lifetime of happiness and love!!
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Keep your legs closed! NO offense! But, if you feel the need...educate yourself first. Condoms and birthconrol. Make sure your doing IT for the right reasons!
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Ok. Since you dont want the wedding before the baby,  let me just say that it all depends. I think that your young (I am too) but. thats not the point. \n\nBuy a fertility monitor. It tells you when your ovulating and the best times for you to get pregnant. You could go see your doctor and get a routine exam. \n\nThere is no way to tell about how long it takes, some women it the first try, some it takes years. Tell your fiance to cool down. It could be his sperm count too! \n\nI would also wonder about his motives. Its is strange that a man (I am assuming your age) would want the financial and mental pressure a child brings to a relation ship. Can you privde your baby with everything you want it to have. Everything it needs. Do you have insurance?? Ask yourself these questions. \n\nMake sure its right for BOTH of you, not just him.  If he backs out at the last minute, your stuck.  Sorry sister, just want to make sure your aware.
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First, if it is with in your beliefs, go to your Ob/gyne and discuss birth control.  If you are on a reliable source at least a month before your wedding night, this will make things a bit less stressful than fumbling with condoms for beginners. (either if he is a virgin or has been tested)\n\nSecond, take it slow and know that you are sharing this experience with someone you have waited your whole life for.  Don't rush it, take it slow.  Have a little bottle of KY lubricant on hand, in case nerves cause you to be a bit dry...it can happen.  I reccommned missionary, guy on top, for your first time.  There  is a special closeness there, and you can also relax a bit more.   It may not prove to be painful at all, but in some cases it can be a bit.  It is not, by any means terrible or people would not bother!  Oh, as for the big "O"...relax and know that for you, it might not happen until you get a little more practice in. ;)\nCongratulations on your wedding!!
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talk to planned parenthood the will tell you when it is the right moment to inseminate (have sex) you wife. Its all timming, it helps increase the chances of a boy good luck!! about 80%!! :)
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It won't hurt your organs. It may be painful for her, but if you are tender and careful, this will be minimized. Choose a moment where you are both relaxed, and you have no worries, or other things to do. Remember to be careful and cautious always use a condom, unless you have both been tested for diseases and want to have a baby.
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Please don't do it. If you're contemplating doing this in order to prevent pregnancy then I would suggest a less drastic method. There are a myriad of long term complications that can result from such a procedure. Talk to your doctor and he can advise you of the risks.
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anytime you have sex with no protection you have a 100% chance of getting pregnant!! Wait to see if you miss your next cycle, most likely you will have a bun in the oven!!
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Angel , on 12June if u have conceived...sure u r in hurry and anxious to have a baby...but its not 1+1=2 its more then that...just doing it is doesn't make u conceive every time...just relax and leave it to god..don't get too optimistic it will only put pressure on u..which is not at all good to get pregnant. wishing u good luck
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Your in the "danger" sone nine days befor you period\n\nThat is if you don't whant to fall pregnant if you are trying then that is your perfect time to try
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My husband and I tried for about nine months, and now we're expecting in early September.  I think it was the pressure of trying that kept us from attaining our goal for so long.  As soon as I stopped worrying about it, it happened.  I will tell you some of the things I read about on the internet before we got lucky.  Several sites on infertility suggested missionary position, with hips elevated (like on a pillow or something), and not moving for about 30 minutes or longer afterwards.  There were suggestions that taking a teaspoon of robitussin (or any other cough medicine containing "guaifinessin") would produce favorable "cervical mucus."  Also, counting the days after your period so that timing the intercourse with the most fertile time of your cycle makes sense.  We almost bought a fertility predictor, but then I read that the predictor kits can only predict whether or not you have ovulated.  This can be helpful if you have irregular periods, so that you can plan for the following month's tries.  Also, take lots of folic acid (I bought a big bottle at the dollar store, the pills are very small).  Folic acid helps the fetus develop its spinal cord and brain, but it has to be in your body early on in embryonic development in order to do the best job.  A good prenatal or women's vitamin wouldn't hurt, even if you don't get pregnant right away!\n\nHonestly though, each time I've gotten pregnant (This is our third pregnancy, and hopefully second living child, our second was stillborn), I have had to completely give up hope of conception before getting pregnant, which leads me to believe that sometimes, if you don't have any physical problems, infirtility can be alleviated by letting go of the "I need a baby" worries.\n\nBelieve me, the worries really begin then!!  :)  But it's worth it--- like a million times over.  Good Luck, and hey!  don't forget that the funnest part of making a baby is making the baby!!!!