everytime me & my boyfriend disagree about somethin he always breaks up wid me. what should i do?
372837
You need to walk away for good. He is putting you on a horrible emotional roller coaster and is playing with your emotions. For your own health and sanity, walk away for good. Tell him you are not going to take this constant on-off situation and feel it is better that you go your separate ways.
156312
you need to have a heart to heart talk with him. dont critize him but tell him what the problem is. tell him that you want to stay together and work it out. lay down some grounds that you wont cross to get him upset and tell him your boundaries. you got to tell him what you want out of this relationship.
380301
Yeah, unfortunately, some people thrive on fighting. Or look at your relationship, how long have you been together?? Is he trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy?? Did you do something he hasn't forgiven you for?? If he always has to fight with you then I'm guessing he's not the type to talk about it. Are you?? What do YOU want?? Are you happy like this?? Try talking to him
677945
Don't be hard about it. You don't need to end it by telling him all that is wrong with him. Just tell him that you are looking for different things in a relationship and you need to just back off and regroup. Take some time to really search your feelings so that you are sure about what you want. If he wants to argue about it be kind but firm.
844038
There is a lot of energy that goes toward a conflict with any person. \n\nStep out of the conflict, busy yourself with other constructive things and out of respect, give your BF some time and space. If you have been dating for five months, you can step back a little. \n\nTry not to figure it out… things will work out as they should. I know this kind of thing is hard and stressful and especially when you have invested emotion with someone. But you sound like a smart woman and if you play this right, he will be back.\n\nIn all relationships there is a process where one person is either moving forward and the other one is moving back. This is a natural dance… so don’t force it.  Guys really don’t like pressure.\n\nHang in there!
368184
He is insecure.  Do you have a lot of guy friends?  I would recommend cutting down the time you spend with them.  If he doesn't calm down, then I would recommend ending the relationship.  You will not be able to change him.  Women like to try to change men because it is a challenge for them.  He has to change onm his own.  Maybe if he loses you he will change his jealous ways...It worked for me when my girlfriend dumped me!  I got the message!
791252
um, try to talk to him and ask what his problem is, if he continues to act like this than break up with him, remember, dating at your age dosn't last that long!
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
1035500
Well..in my opinion, u should let him go coz if anything is to happen between them, be thankful that u are only at the beginning stage of your relationship..that shows that this chap is indecisive and if he can hurt you like this...what more?
956009
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
392810
pick and choose your battles. life is too short to bicker over ridiculous sh*t. when he is being an a** kill him with kindness or act like you can't be bothered with his silly commentary. problem is you all are around each other 24/7 and you'll drive each other nuts no matter how compatible. if you can be be apart for several hours out of the day or go stay at your mom's over nite it'll make you all miss each other and realize the good things about each other. but seriously you need to get some wheels and get your independence back! that'll make a huge difference!good luck!
694614
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
512698
BUT NOTHING! There's no sense and no reason to go through life arguing and unhappy! Gurl, life is too short! You need to figure out WHY you two argue so much! Figure that out then find out how to eliminate it. Second, no one ever accomplished anything arguing. As women we know men know how to push buttons (and visa verse), but we make a mistake, by giving them what they want a retaliation against them, they win! Next, time you two get into it, if it person walk off on the phone say you know what I'm going to talk to you later and hang up. If you still continue to argue after taking this advice. I don't know what to say except maybe it's best to split. Some ppl just can't be together. Communication is essential and discovering out the root cause of the problem and eliminating it is key. Good Luck to you both!
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
1070630
Get some guts! Act like you don't give a crap and start spending some time with your girl and guy friends, if he doesn't snap out of it, dump him. The pain of breaking up is only temporary, the joy of getting even is lifelong.