I'm a girl wanting to know what is the best way to make yourself cum while mastrubating?
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i just put i can of tuna up there and let the cats get at it
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I have already readed it, it's very usefull.\n"\nA Bigger Better Orgasm \n\nBoth men and woman can use the following techniques to make orgasms longer, stronger, more intense and, ultimately, more healthful. \n\n1. GAIN PELVIC MUSCLE CONTROL The pubococcygeal (PC) muscle group, which supports the pelvic floor, is the one that spasms when you have an orgasm. If it's in good shape, more blood will flow to the pelvic area during arousal and the PC will contract more strongly, making orgasms last longer and feel more intense. To paraphrase a statement about scientific discovery, "Orgasm favors the prepared body." Kegel exercises are a simple way to strengthen PC muscles. To do them, squeeze the muscle you use to voluntarily hold back your urine. Hold for two seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day. \n\n2. CONTROL VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS IN SEX You may already realize that some of the phenomena happening to your body during sex are under your control. While you cannot voluntarily increase and decrease your heart rate, you can take charge of various voluntary activities and thereby improve your sexual sensations. \n\nAs you approach orgasm, try speeding up your breathing and alternately tensing and relaxing your arm or leg muscles. During another session of lovemaking, practice squeezing or fluttering your PC muscle. The main behavioral principle is to choose one physical aspect of orgasm that you can control and overpractice it. Soon you will have trained your body so that all of these responses will work together effortlessly and occur spontaneously during future orgasms. \n\n3. MONITOR YOUR AROUSAL LEVELS As you make love, note your arousal levels on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm. As you reach each level, briefly stop and allow your arousal to subside so that rather than shooting straight for the moon, your arousal rises in a wave-like pattern. This technique, known as peaking, results in intense orgasms, possibly because it optimizes endorphin release. \n\nIn a related exercise, plateauing, squeeze your PC muscle, change your breathing, change your focus or change your speed in order to stay at high arousal levels for a long time prior to orgasm. Learning peaking and plateauing with a partner helps you develop a shared language of arousal and orgasm. "
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Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!
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The best way to do this is to allow yourself to nearly go to the point of ejaculation, then stop what you are doing. To keep your lady satisfied you can go back to a bit of for play, kiss her, go down on her, caress her body with you lips and tongue, then start again.  repeat for as many times as you can - would suggest a minimum of three.  When you finally allow yourself to go all the way, the ejaculation is more and harder than on other occasions.  Also as you have been so attentive to your lady, her appreciation of you might go up as well! \n\nGood luck
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I know you did not want links, but Yahoo will not let me describe the techniques I know in here without the filter going crazy.  Easiest is this link:\nhttp://www.masturbation-techniques.net/\nand\nhttp://advancedmasturbation.com/ for later
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
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The guy above me is an idiot.\n\nIf you need more tips on masturbation, check out www.jackinworld.com.\n\nOr just talk to your guy friends, they might know something you don't.
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Masturbate, of course.\nIt's the natural and logical thing to do.\nIf you're asking this question, it means you're probably fairly young so I certainly don't recommend going out and messing around with guys. \n\nTry theclitoris.com for information on masturbation.
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I am not a man, so the best thing I can tell you is this.  If you want to go longer without using some gadget to help you.  When you feel that orgasim coming on, pull out better yet make love for just a little bit then stop.  Notice her breast and neck?  pay close attention to it. Kiss her neck and suck on her breast. Do this over and over until she tells you that she is ready for you to come back inside. When both of you are in the heat of the moment, more than likely you will both come at the same time and pleasure will be for you both.
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just masturbate although i do not really know whether it really works...i do it everyday and have a length close to 20cm....
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Sit in your computer chair with pants on and use vibrator, rock back and forth while looking at smut. mmm good. or open your drapes a hair and lay on your back and envision someone peeking through watching. Voyerism. Or use, a dildo and spread legs doggie style and put vibrator on floor and ride it up and down. Or use your imagination and i bet you can make yourself cum.
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ok so if you have nothing but your fingers and nothing to get you there-- This is what i would do--\nThink about that hot looking mail man or ups man or some hot guy you know--concintrate on that while gently touch your oun clit--rub nice and slow and then add a little more motion--if it helps play soft music and pretent hes there with you doing the work.Continue this till you... you know.. How long it takes to cum varies from person to person..
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If your talking about not ejaculating too soon or sooner then you'd like here's what I've found...  Start with practicing the "edging" technique when your pleasuring yourself.  Work yourself up until you reach the point of cuming then back off.  Do this over and over each time until you absolutely feel like you have to go or bust.  Enough practice at this... and you should be the master between the sheets with your significant other.\n\nRod.
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do a google search for masturbation,you will be surprised at peoples different methods.I tried one i saw,wasnt bad.You vaseline the old fella,stick it in a small plastic bag.Then stick it between your mattress and a pillow(and pump away)no hands,just like sex,except your pumping a bed(get naked while doing,much more fun)would be hard to explain yourself,if you got caught in the act though.Be defenite of privacy,doing this way
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
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Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.\n\nHowever, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.\n\nYou will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons.  Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly.  When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them.  Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience.  Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.\n\nOnce you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips.  You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina.  You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is.  If you have done the tease right, she will be.  While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris.  Be through.\n\nYou will want to focus your attention on her clitoris.  Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it.   You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream.  If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.  \n\nPay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like.  Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like.  Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.  \n\nOnce the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her.  Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing.  Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.\n\nOnce she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit.  Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.\n\nThat is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.\n\nSome additional things to keep in mind:\n\nGirls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something.  If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”\n\nGirls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked.  An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town.  This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
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if your haveing multiple orgasms tell him to finger you till you cant cum then get on top of him and reward him! Thumb's up, The more a woman cum's the better sex partner she is beleive me when she mounts up then roll over and take it babe