What should I do??? I really need Advice?
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if your fiance really loves you hell believe you. if he doesnt theres plenty other fish in the sea!
834053
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
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Go back to your therapist. Also look for a single-mom support group near you or online, (email me if u want!) Trust me girl I know from the bottom of my heart. My ex husband ASKED me for a divorce while i was in school. But I pulled through, we struggle every day but I thank God for my true friends that have held me up. If you are suicidal you definitely need to talk to someone. Biggest thing you can do is make it an absolute priority to take time for yourself. Put the baby to bed a half hour earlier and go take a bath, turn on a workout video, chick-flick, whatever, have a glass of wine, paint your toenails...anything you want as long as its just for YOU. Remember a happy mom makes a happy kid...NOT the other way around.
220319
don't put yourself in such a situation ok make him a big firend you might take advice from him
771949
You don't know what to do?\n\nThat's painfully obvious if you're asking for advice here.\n\nDo the opposite of what most people here recommend and you might get out alive.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
222196
This is the wrong place...\n\nI honestly believe you need counselling.\nPlease seek professional help before you get hurt...\nYou life is going to depend on this, so please don't think about the cost.
647804
Tell them to mind their own business. Do what feels best for you. Don't pay attention to what everyone else thinks you should do.
1106463
you never should stay w/ someone who hurts you..talk to someone..you shouldn't stay in that relationship...!
395109
PRAY!!! I'm in the same situation...i'll pray for u, u do the same for me...good luck!!!
507750
Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
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not much you can do, except tell him how you feel. you can't control what other people do, i would suggest you move on though.
1025579
i think you need to ask yourself if the whole thing is really worth it, i mean if you think it is then you need to work with all your might to try and fix whats wrong, maybe you should just try counseling by yourself so that you can get yourself together. Maybe that will further help you to determine if this is really the woman for you.
971686
That is so terrible!! I would say just continue to do what you are already doing...be there for her! You are an awesome friend...good job...not too many of those left in the world.
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My advice would be to get away from this person as quickly as possible. There are enough things out there to agonize over, don't let another big one like this one tear you up anymore. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not destroyed. If there were kids, then that would be different. Run girl, like the wind. Good Luck
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Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
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stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.