Why women don't  look for multiple sex partners ,contrary to what men do?
362619
Anthropologically & Socialogically speaking Men want to impregnate many partners to spread their seed and perpetuate the species.  Men can produce many sprem quickly.  Women on the other hand produce eggs more slowly.  Women look for a high quality mate to insure the survival of their offspring.  It's overwhelmingly the same in the animal world.  That is not to say some men look for fewer partners, and some women may have multiple partners.  It doesn't mean anything is wrong with either of them.  It's just boils down to nature and our inate genetic programming.
971675
I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
848778
In this era of fast food, one night stands and relationships sans commitments; the boys who could lie, deceive and act like hell are going to have more girlfriends. \n\nIt is all about the ethics, morals and values. And you know like begets like. So, the kind of guys would always get unfaithful gals.\n\nIf you are really for the quality of the relationships; please do not try to add numbers.\n\nAnd always remember that the guys having more than one girl friend are not LUCKY.
4019
Why do Women cheat on Men?\n\nI do not believe that it has any thing to do with the gender of the person but the character of the individual.  If a person (male or female) is not committed to or satisfied with a relationship there is not much you can do to stop them from looking somewhere else.\n\nPeople suck and sh** on others all the time it is human nature.
261209
There is not a specific number that you would say that above it you had too many partners. In life we are all looking for the partner that we will share our life with and until we find that partner we get to know other people and create relationships. If what you mean though is the scenario of having more than one partner at the same time then i am saying that more than one partner is too many.
377566
They probably do get what they want sexually with girlfriend but they just want different women.  Men are pigs when it comes to sex, gotta have it with as many women as they can.  That is why men cheat.  Variety.
749081
I say that goes back to the guys line of pretty much spreading their seed as far and into many chicks as they can. Pretty much the same in the animal kingdom. Its very rare that any male of the species mates with any one female for life. And females just need that one provider and protector. They don't need to spread seed or anything else. They work off of connections rather than how many times and how many people they can have sex with.
308397
Some men can. But men have an innate urge to make as many offspring as possible (at least before contraceptive). Men are into quantity not quality unlike some women who are into quality. Another thing is that there aren't enough men to go around. So there is 3 women to 1 man.
59563
They feel they are too important to have to choose.We women know it is almost every guy's fantasy to have more than 1 woman AND for the women to be cool with it. It's basically an ego trip.
14624
Becaue even in the 2000's the double standard still exists.  If a man has sex with lots of women, he's a stud; if  woman does, she's a whore.  Also, men are very territorial, they don't want to think about 'their woman' being with another man.  They are very old-fashioned where females and sex are concerned (except when it comes down to 2 females being together) so women feel they have to lie to save their man's pride.
734
Because they don't love women..They love themselves...I love women and appreciate all types,sizes, ages and personalities. There is  a secret excitement to be found underneath the surface of every woman just as every woman has different experiences to share and has her own rythm that leads her to multiple O's..Taking the time to find those things make life an exceptional adventure....
76408
well you don't see like a guy  who is ready to settle down with just one lady, if you have 7 at the same time i will be sorry for each and one of them.\ni hope they see this and  leave you all alone cos you don't deserve to be with a woman, you can't respect a woman \nsorry
937587
I think it also has to do with the fact that WOMEN are now doing what men have been doing for centuries and using men for sex and ONLY sex. WHY WOULD you court someone you've already been with. I KNOW tons of girls who sleep with guys they just met... NOT ME! I have to hold out... I want to make SURE I have a possible future with a guy before sleeping with him. Like that song, Im gonna make you work for it.
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
931124
Julie, \n\nThis question is as relevant to women as it is to men as they cheat on their husbands too.  For example, Clara Harris ran over her husband "accidental" 3 times for cheating on her.  What did not come out in the media, is that she had cheated on him too...but he did not think she deserved to be pavement for his car.  \n\nMany women look for married men because they do not want the commitment \n\nDid you know that at least a third of the children men are paying for in child support are not their children as proven by DNA?   \n\nSeems that it is more then men that like to play but then, shouldn't everyone know that that person they are about to go to bed with is NOT "THEIR" husband or wife?\n\nWhy do they not stop to think that if they will do this before marriage, what makes them think they will only be faithful to each other after marriage?\n\nThere is always a hidden cost to all of this...check the link below to find out more.
1068690
A man should plan on having a wonderful woman he can have all his needs met with,and plan on spending the rest of his life with. Part of the problem is; there are so many young girls; women, willing to be immodest these days, and men see what's going on as a constant sex buffet. They should be satisfied with one woman, but our society does not reinforce being satisfied with one woman at all
61739
WHAT??  No they probably don't, because we don't!!  Gross!\nI'm all about "to each their own", but let's not throw around the word "women", when you should really be saying,\n"I, find two men....."