should i be a bad kid in school and just get the whippings from my mom?
364401
No.  And call child protective services- nobody has the right to whip you.
826398
You could call Child Protective Services in she's violent.  It sounds, however, that you've caused some of your own problems with bad behavior.\nOf course, her bad behavior isn't proper either.\nEmancipated?  Nope.  You have to be older, and able to support yourself and exist in an adult world.\nStay in school, graduate, move away, whatever, but graduate.  There are too many stupid people in the world now.
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Well, you can, but you'd just be sending out more negativity into the world...and it WILL come back to you threefold.  Ultimately, you will be more hurt than the bullies will.  And, you will only be lowering yourself to their standard.  \n\nSo, you have to ask yourself, is petty revenge in the short term worth getting all that bad stuff sent back to you in the long term?\n\nBelieve me, I know the temptation.  I know what it's like to be bullied.  Rather than misuse magick in this way, a better thing to do would be to ask the Goddess for strength to deal with this, for wisdom to think of better solutions, for compassion for those who are teasing you.  Have you tried talking with a school counsellor?  Or the principal? If it is really out of hand, then they need to be stopped, but it is far better to do this through the proper channels.\n\nI urge you to make the right decision in this matter.  You may contact me if you wish.  Like I said, I know a bit about what you are going through.\n\n25 year old Wiccan
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HELLO! I AM A MOTHER OF FOUR/ THREE BOYS ONE GIRL! I KNOW IT IS HARD TO DEAL WITH LIFE ISSUES SOMETIME! NORMAL- WE JUST HAVE TO DO THE BEST WE CAN! I HATE YOU ARE HAVING PROBLEMS. I HAVE HAD SAME HAPPEN WITH MY 14 YEAR OLD SON!PARENTS ARE NOT PERFECT AND WE DONT ALWAYS HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS! JUST KNOW WE DO TRY TO DO ALL WE CAN- THESE OTHER FOLKS ON HERE TELLING YOU TO CUSS YOUR PARENTS- SO WRONG! GOD SAYS TO HONOR YOUR PARENTS! DO YOU PRAY? ARE YOU SAVED/ARE YOUR PARENTS SAVED? I WILL PRAY FOR YOU TO DO BETTER IN SCHOOL! ARE YOU DOING YOUR BEST? tHEN THAT IS ALL A PARENT CAN ASK! IF NOT, WILL YOU TRY HARDER? I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT! RELAX TOO- WHEN YOUR PARENTS FUSS TRY TO THINK OF SOMETHING ELSE= WALK OUTSIDE IF YOU CAN-LEAVE THE ROOM! STAY CALM! THEN YOU CAN THINK BETTER! I FEEL YOUR PAIN! YOU WIL BE IN MY PRAYERS-EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT -MY HUSBAND IS A PREACHER-WE WILL HELP YOU ANY WAY WE CAN-GOOD LUCK!
702577
man o man i agree with you. I mean im almost 15 and i agree that your mom shouldn't get in trouble. I have an abusive brother and they told my mom and dad that they were only aloud to restrain him, but it sounds like its only your mom doing it and its even hard for just my dad to restrain my bro so i couldnt really see how your mom could do that to your sis. and people who dress gothic and crap just look like fricken retards. they need to get over themselves and get a fricken life! they wonder why nobody likes them and its b./c of all that nasty crap they put on themselves. i know its a way to express yourself but come on find a different way to do it!!!!! also there has been many time that my bro has tried to kill my mom and i think yall should try getting her tested for ADHD and also maybe get her a councilor
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a lazy teacher / parent would rationalize/project "freedom". Pay attention to the little lad/lassy. Love em.Stop looking for excuses to give them only as much attention as you got. They'll only be better than you if you act better than your folks. You can't change what your folks did..only what your kids folks do.
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I am a pesky parent. my 21yr old lives any from home and goes to college and I still talk to her about her grades.She knows that I only want the best for her and that I am concerned and love about her.If I didn't pester her,she would think I didn't care.She says she loves me for doing it[even tho sometimes I am a pesky parent]She wouldn't have it any other way!!!p.s.I hope the answer you got from brnbrn3 was a joke even tho it was not funny. Ihave a 17yr old grand daughter who ran away on nov 21 2005,we haven't heard from her yet!!! An update incase you were wondering or praying for us.They found my 17yr old grand daughter on Monday Jan 9 2006.She is fine other than the fact that she has really messed up her life.She had big plans to go to college now she has missed so much school this year ,she can't even graduate.She was a straight A student  Senior year.She now sits in detention awaiting her day in court to see what the judge is going to do with her.So don't run away,and someday when you are sucessful, you will love your pesky parent as much as my daughter loves me.and someday hopfully my granddaugher will ,too!!!
666385
Don't be offended, but have you thought about taking anger management? Or maybe even a career as a collections agent? You seem to have a hair trigger, throwing things at somebody just because you don't like them? That is beyond rude, why not ignore them instead, because it sounds like you might end up in several fights once you're in the adult world, or at least very alone. Does the word *bully* ever get thrown your way? By-the-way, the teachers see how you treat people and that is why they can't stand you. I would say that maybe a reality check is or should be at the top of your to-do list. Good luck w/ your attitude adjustment.\nBrandy\n *added comment*\nI think you don't have a mom, because any mom would knock you to your a$$ for acting like that. TIME FOR BRAT CAMP IN THE MOST REMOTE CORNER OF THIS PLANET where nobody is subjected to being in the same state or country with you!
528883
i was a spoiled little sister, cant do much, youcan beat her kick her and all that others are saying. it wont get you anywhere b/c she will screamm bloody murder and get away with it. if my sister barely touched me i'd scream and yell and my dad would come running to punish her. i feel bad now that i am older.just try and deal with it for now , hopefully she'll change when older . good luck.
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I am a teacher.\n\nI will certainly give you the opportunity to do the work again.  I would not penalize you for the late work.  I think you've suffered enough.\n\nHowever, get your Mom / Dad to write a note to me.  There's no replacement for parental support.\n\nAnother consideration is this.  A student's track record in a class is golden.  Teachers, well I do, notice this, and I take it into account.
1096379
LOL that is the typical Asian mom. My mom wasn't overprotective, she was abusive. She would throw stuff and scream and poke me in the face with her finger. The only thing you can do is wait it out until you are 18, then leave and never look back. A lot of Asian kids forgive their mom for what she does, but I think they should start holding them to their deeds.
1008605
You're probably pretty young and not necessarily a bad person, you just need some help to deal with your anger. Talk to your school counselor, as soon as possible. Your'e obviously acting out in unhealthy ways and this could lead you to a life in prison or worse. It's not worth it, and you'll be sorry if you don't learn ways to stop this behavior now. :(
922367
Sounds like you're doing all you can. Taking away her things is a good punishment, and not letting her use the phone or watch t.v. or use the computer. There's plenty you can do as punishment that aren't abuse it's called discipline. Just make sure her mom and her dad are on board to back you up. It won't take long for her to realize she's not going to win this one and start behaving, for the most part. \nGood luck.
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It depends on what they are doing to you. If they are teasing you ignore them.  If they are physically hitting you tell your parents, tell your teacher tell everyone and fight back.  Tell your parents you want to take up karate and then make sure everyone around you knows that you know how to fight.  They will mess with you a lot less.\n\nEven if you can't do any of this just remember they are probably being bullies to you because you are probably a very good natured, sweet, kind girl and you are probably very sensitve too.  These are good traits to have, don't let anyone make you feel that they aren't.   \n\nWhen you grow up you'll probably do a lot better then those bullies.    \nI know it's really hard and it hurts, but just remember you aren't alone, let everyone know what is going on so that the bullies can be punished.  \n\nI went through it too growing up, and it's hard but try your best to not see it as them making fun of you, because they aren't, not really.  In reality it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They are the ones with the problems and they see that you have what they don't have, that makes them angry and they take out their problems on you.  Don't let their problems become your problems though.  \n\nThis will help you out though, it will make you stronger and wiser then they can ever be.  Trust me on that one.
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It is not possible to say that you have been a bad kid, especially because of the way you have expressed yourself here in your question. I think sometimes you should have been trying to help them out when they needed or asked for your help. That would make them happy. Just because you are not bound to do something does not mean that you can never do that. Of course you should try to make your parents and siblings happy. They were always hurt by you because each time they needed you beside them, you did not allow them to have you. That is why they got used to think about you in this way that you have had been a bad kid.\n\nDo not worry about the past! If you are willing to make everything alright now, you can do it by telling them all of your words those you explained to us. Try to make them feel your words, feel you heart and that will help to make the situation better.\n\nBest of luck!
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talk to your mom and have her speak to the teacher...this teacher may need some anger-management classes or something.\n\nor, you could write a friendly little letter to her and leave it in her mailbox...:\n\ndear ms. -----\n\ni understand that teaching must be a very hard job and i hope that i am not causing you any more stress or further problems.  i have to tell you that i am a bit concerned because you seem to scold me a great deal.  i am not even sure what i am doing wrong.  could we please sit down and talk to each other about what i am doing that might be bothering you?  i really don't want to bother you and it makes me upset when you scold me.\n\nthank you -
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No, it's not wrong if she's mean.  Maybe you can change it - tell your dad, a family member you trust or a counsellor at your school.  \n\nGod bless and good luck.