how will i know if my boyfriend is sincere to me??
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love grows dear, give it time. 2 months is too young.\nlove is a verb, too. it needs to be shown not just said. you see how he treats you and deals with you. sincerity is more than promising the stars & all. and don't you think you are still young to be thinking of getting married? \n\nnow about his past. it's the past. unless the past has got something to do with killing & stuff then you should be afraid. if it involves having so many girlfriends at a time, then you should be careful. if it involves kids or children, you should be prepared.\n\nbut i'd say, love and observe your relationship. it's too young to say that he's sincere and it's too young to say he's a jerk. but it could only be between the 2.\n\npray that you'll have peace of mind soon. don't worry, just in case, marami pa dyan!
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You don't, and you never will; unless you learn a very simple rule.\n\nSaying, "I love you," is easy.\n\nLiving it is hard.\n\nIf he shows you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof then believe him.\n\nIf he doesn't show you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof, but SAYS he loves you - don't believe him.\n\nIt's really quite simple.\n\nActions speak louder than words!
489153
it all depend on how you see your self and it sounds to me like ur pretty happy \n\nthanks for the advice on my question and good luck with ur whole boyfriend thing
395080
Trust is what keeps relationship rolling!\nU may start wondering, DO U TRUST HIM? DO U TRUST YoURSELF? DO U STILL BELIVE THAT u 2 CAN WORKOUT TOGETHER???? And only than, if U belive, \nask him a qestion, look him strait in the eyes, and U'll see, TRUTH or LIE, but U'll just know...
201591
It's simple.. If he truly loves you, you're happiness will mean the most to him. Making you smile will be his main goal. "Someone worth crying over, won't make you cry."
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test his loyalty by asking him bluntly if he likes you and what he plans on doing about it
1058005
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
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If he is caring and loving. This is the key in the relationship.\n\nThen do not leave him for that. \n\nIt is very cultural and very family oriented. It is a taboo to some but if you must need this particular assurance then, ask him what is the reason he does not acknowledge, at least by saying "me too" when you say to him "I love you".\n\nThen see if he acknowledges, in few days test him, if he does not say some thing close to it then you decide what is more important to you, him caring and loving or just the words.
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You will know a guy loves you when his actions line up with his words: if he says he loves you and does things to show you this (like treat you with respect, take care of you, etc.), then he loves you.
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Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
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You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
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Don't listen to all the narrow minded answers you received.\nLike many relationship issues, there are few black and white answers.\nYou have to consider many things, do you love him, does he love you, is he truly sorry, are you two happy together.\nYou never know, this could just strengthen your relationship.
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You are what you are and if he truly loves you, he will definitely respect your feelings. Dont do anything that you feel uncomfortable with now... make things clear now- its better than repenting later. Understanding, mutual respect and honesty are the very basics of any relationship. If he cant compromise and make adjustments now, it doesnt bode well for the future too, does it? So speak out whats in your mind- let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you come from a conservative background and that you dont feel comfortable with the relationship getting physical so soon. DONT DO ANYTHING THAT U FEEL IS NOT RIGHT!
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By all the things he does for you, the look in his eyes, his kiss, the way he holds you, the way he says your name, the way he comes to you when he has a problem, the way he trusts you with his secrets...there's a million different ways he could be showing you that he loves you. Sometimes actions speak louder. Look closely. :o)
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See other people.  It will keep you from making mistakes and possibly hurting someone unnecessarily.  And you're right you may never know if you are truly happy with him unless you see what's out there.  He should know too.  It may hurt him, but he may thank you later.  And ya never know if it's meant to be it'll happen.
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its just something that you will figure out, make up a list of tests, thats what my boyfriend did.\n1) when you shake their hand..if its a firm grip, then its a good person, if its weak..then they are not a strong person.\n2) when you are with them...do they stare at you, and do you see "love" in their eyes? \n3) watch their expressions when you talk to them, are they direct...does he focus all his attention on you?\nyou need to ask yourself all of these questions, and figure out for yourself.
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Some people are more sincere than others. Before you trust their sincerity, you should take the time to get to know the person and understand their way of life before deciding what their level of sincerity might be. Be careful in venues such as this. Deception can run rampant. Likewise, there are wonderful people here that will be honest, helpful and sincere! Good luck........just be cautious while curious.