How come guys never make moves on me or flirt with me, when there all over my friend?
360800
u know im going thru the same...some people find me better looking, others find her better but we both as well have the same personalities and still she gets much more attention than i do...u know something, if she is competitive with you, she could be harmful even in the slightest way like i feel my friend brings harm to me by making my self confidence and self esteem go lower since she gets all the attention and i dont when im with her...but lately, i have tried keeping some space from her, even though i love spending time with her, i feel its always best to giv yourself some quality time...go shopping alone at times and ull get all the attention..it will definitely boost your confidence which is beautiful...in short...spend a little less time with her and you will see how it will work for u.. \n\nworking really well for me...
904265
well, number one, DO NOT get a friend to ask, it messes things up...so i would just flirt with him, and be really nice and sweet, you'll sense it if he likes you.
322913
Always be yourself thats why he should like you. The chances are he might be turned on by your friend but he probably has more respect for you. Let your bff know how you feel about him and after that start flirting, start to get into what he likes and talk about it with him.
338265
becoz they are boys..not a men as yet\nthey can do anything to get what they want, and will just leave you once they get bored (for those flirters)\nthey are just enjoying thier time without realising that they are hurting other people
1155742
maybe you're just too shy and you don't flirt...\n\ni know that's why no guy has ever asked me.
498480
just go for it you only live one time and if you flirt all the time you both must just be scared to take the next move, but dont worry if he is a goood friend then he will let you know if that is all he wants (friends) or he will let you know if he wants to be more.good luck!
431963
You probably come off as unapproachable. or even cold.\nIf guys are hitting on you, it would seem that you are attractive to men.\nCheck your body language, maybe you give the impression, that you don't care for them.\nSurely there is some guy, who has flirted with you, that you may like to see more. If it happens again, be more open, and perhaps suggest you both go for a coffee or something. Then just be yourself.\nAll it takes is practice, you won't hit a home run every time, but at least you will out there trying.
641349
does he touch you a lot? like on the arm... on the hand... etc. in other words, does he flirt with you!?!! then he likes you. if you are friends with him, then just come out and ask him.\n\nif you like him back, then you have to choose if taking a chance at a relationship is worth the possible loss of your friendship.\n\nif you don't like him and he's flirting with you, let him know that it makes you uncomfortable and that you're not interested in him that way. if he continues, you may have to end the friendship.
1048456
When you're out, like at a club or party have a friend of yours, one that he's flirted with before (or even better one that he doesn't know and doesn't know that you know) hit on him and see what he does, if he does nothing, then you know he's just a flirt, if he takes the bait, then you know it's time to move on!
793132
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
481843
guys are basically stupid. my gf told me that I flirted with her all time  before we were together and I had no clue. I guess I  wasn't trying so I didn't think I was.
833316
man...this is a toughy....he sux man why in the world would he do that n e way..and in fornt of you..HE HAS THE NERVE!!!!!\n\n\nyeah but i think you SHOULD flirt with a certain someone...rite in front of HIM....if that doesnt work....then see what his problem is ,...
805914
I have the same problem but my friend is quite forward and she is rubbing off on me. If you know the person may be interested in you then make the move. No one likes rejection but you just have to be confident in YOURSELF, thats the first thing to work on.
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
1042469
A lot of guys wont make the first move. So this may be something you'll be waiting for for quite a while. Usually a guy joking around is a good way to tell, joking around as in picking on ya, etc.
402630
You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...
266371
OK i have that problem with a lot if guys so if like they do stuff 4 u or they ask u out etc. U email them, call them,etc. and tell them that u don`t like them the way that they like you and that to just be friends!