i can't seem to figure out guys! can you help me?
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That is because the majority of them are out for one thing and if they don't get what they want, they move on.  Now I said majority!!  There are a number of men out there that are predictable and will be the man of your dreams!!
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
674168
Ok, the one thing - for me - was that he found what my interests and did whatever he could to find interest in them as well.  You have to have a connection - just like with your guy friends.  I know it sounds weird, but the person you wind up with should be your "best friend".  You should love everything about them, and see that they feel the same about you.  \n\nNow, my guy did what he could to make me happy - and I did the same in return - give and take!  Also, honesty and great communication helps as well!
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Are you asking "What do you need to do to get to know more she-males?"\nor are you asking "How can I tell if somebody is one?"\n\nIf it's the second one - well - sometimes it's not that easy to spot, while othertimes it's very obvious. \n\n\nIf you're looking for a romatic relation with this person, I recommend getting to know them first. (Whether you think they're transgender or not!) If you're still not sure and are really interested in dating, I suggest using a LOT of caution when asking because you could really hurt a girl's feelings if you ask her "hey ... are you really a guy??" \n\nBut if you're not interested in a romatic relation - what does it matter??
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WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
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Hi guys in away are not that much different than then the ladies, most are easy to make small talk. \n\nThe guys like compliments, IE i like your jacket, your shoes, maybe your paints exc. If you don't not get a conv. started either there not interested or bashful/ shy. I would say the latter.\n\nHave a great day. Don
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hi.i'm 17,Asian,Christian & i'm still in college.ok.i have a good friend who's a guy.i met him recently in my new college & even though we've only known each other for a few months up2 now.we have so much fun & he wants to take the same career path as mine.\n\nthe qualities i mostly look for in a guy for a great friendship are the ability to have fun & to joke around,ability to carry on a great conversation,respects me-THOSE ARE A MUST FOR ME!has to be outgoing,adventurous & should care abt me too(as a good friend)like,calls me when i'm down to cheer me up & helps me out in a situation.& something else is that i love it if a guy protects me(not overly-protective),like in a brotherly sort of way.should be somewhat of a gentleman,like open doors,offers you his seat..oh,they shouldn't also mind my bugging them,hehe(this applies only to some girls,lik me,lol)\n-my best guy-friend is exactly like that!\n\nanyway,hope i covered everything-cheers! :)
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I think that you have to ask yourself another question ... what types of males do you want. Visualize the person who you want to use this ... and talk to him.
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ah the often asked question. all guys show if they like you differently. some ignoe you and just stare some throw cheesy perverted jokes some are sweet and talk to you and someyou will never know. good luck to you.
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Tell him. Guys are hunters. Girls are hunted. Guys never think they'll get a girl. Girls.. well gee, there are so many of you and you're all so beautiful that we dont really know which one to go for. Most think we're shallow because a group of us will stare/drool over the most beautiful. Dont worry, thats just group mentality. Everybody has a favorite. And if you show an interest then you can... and should be his next favorite.\n\nBest of luck. :)
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First of all what i suggest is be clear, is he is one you are looking for?. Be clear what is that you are looking for in a guy. And hey don`t me a serious thinker. Go ahead with some boundries of you own and do not be very open very soon first try and understand what he is and what he is looking for in you. Chill.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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Thank you Born2bwild...Guys aren't the only ones to be the way you describe guys. You are playing the same tape over and over. Try dating someone you wouldn't normally date. You may be surprised at the difference. Try dating a guy several years older than you. An older man will be more mature.
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Guys are looking for girls all over the place.. And the older they are, the more places they can look...\n\nIf you like a guy, why shouldn't YOU ask HIM???\n\nGuys flirt in all sorts of ways... You'll know... :D
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It sounds like you have discovered WOMAN.   Nope, men will NEVER understand women.  About the time you think you have ONE  figured out, they reverse directions.\n\nAccept them as they are and do what you have to do.  You just have a typical specimen.\n\nGOOD LUCK.  Pops
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!