im going out wit this guy and hes goin 2 fast for our age how do i slow him down??
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Tell him that you aren't comfortable and to slow down. If he is genuine, he will respect your wishes. If he isn't genuine he won't - then dump him. \nLove and romance isn't a race. You should form a partnership and agree a speed to develop the relationship. Anyone who isn't willing to wait for you is just using you - get out and don't look back.
1025939
Just be patient, and show him your different that your always there and won't break his heart. Or follow your heart age doesn't matter love is.
59284
Ok, so, the biggest thing is that every guy is, even if he seems really macho and cool, terrified. He, like me, is scared that if he moves too fast, then you might get scared off, and then he'll be left flying solo again. Just get him in some sort of romantic situation and put your head on his shoulder and say I love you. If he is still scared, he ain't worth it.
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!
16535
1st, you hafta be open with him.  if you want to move a little faster, mention it to him.  hes not a mind reader.  2nd, he might actually respect you, like most guys dont, and doesnt wanna ruin a good thing.  be patient and help him along.  3rd, he might be shy of public affection.\n\nthe only way to figure out anything is to talk to him.  relationships fizzle without communication.  \n\n7
152124
Show him by actions and not words, plus make sure it is a two way street...C
766647
just relax. dont call him tonitte. make him think you are busy yourself..even if u arent.
985711
Well it's only been 3 weeks and he has made it quite clear that he wants to go slow, and he's explained why.  If this is not good enough for you then forget the relationship.  Otherwise just relax and let things take their course.
884758
Tease him by telling him if yall go out, there will be super wild hot sex after
103687
i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
991646
Sometime in the next day or 2 when you think you can devote enough time to this, just walk up to him and start kissing him all over while stripping down and pretty much jump his bones. If he feels like it's going too fast, he should tell you. If he goes along with it, your problem, is solved. If he does tell you that it is too fast, you may need to consider whether this guy is the right guy for you.
904347
Tell him flat out, I like you but I am not going to have sex with you. Or hypothetically ask him what's the longest he's ever talked to a girl b4 sex, then drop the bomb on him. All the best. Don't give it up, you said you stopped talking once b4 because he was going to fast, so don't let him rush you this time. For some reason guys feel that they earn the privilege of having sex with a girl because they put in "time on the phone" Don't be a sucker for a quick witted man with a smooth tongue. All the best.
1030847
just be calm and relax and if anything just tella  couple of your friends to go where your going adn watch and make sure he doesnt try to do anything
1093084
ask him . but try 2 keep it cool.
147269
ask him out,e-mail, letter, post a sign in his yard..lol and if he pressures you to anything you don't want to do..forgettabouhim!..If he's really pushy slap his ar$e into next zipcode!
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I would just take it slow.  He still has time to grow and learn about life.  Maybe he really would like to do that with you.  Some guys are more ready than others. Just take it slow so u dont get crushed.   The age thing is not a huge deal.  Really you are not that much older than he is.  He could be serious.  Just realize that he is not established yet.  If you are and are comfortable with that, then go for it!!!!