I need an idea for a wedding shower gift????
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a locket with pictures of the bridal party in it
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Honestly, he is already leaving the wedding with the best present he could ever ask for, you!  At least that is how I feel about my upcoming wedding (5 days from today :D:D:D ).  As far as gifts, get him something that will show him just exactly how you feel about him.  Although guys do nto often show it, we like the little romantic gestures every once in a while too.  For me though, all my fiance has to give me is those two words at the alter and I am happy.  After all, the gift I am gettign that way will last for a lifetime, anything els that you give will be temporary.  I would suggest though, if you are going to give him a gift, make it kind of a combination of things.\n\n1) Write him a little not telling him that you love him and teasing him for the night after the wedding (you knwo what I mean)\n\n2) give him a serious gift, maybe a nice watch or something like that that you know he will appreciate.  Just pick something you know that hw is into, or maybe something he can use for the wedding.\n\n3) give him a not so serious gift like something in there with a note telling him to look forward to you modeling it for him, or (even funnier) put a bag in there with nothing in it and a note on the outside saying that you are going to model in what is in that bag, he will get the idea.\n\nTo me, things like that that will both show how much you love him, care for him, and respect him along with things taht show how much you really do look forward to being with him for the rest of your life will be a wonderful gift to give on your wedding day.  Just be a little creative.  The joke things will lighten the mood and maybe ward off some of the pre-wedding jitters and the serious stuff will show him how you feel about him.  Hope this helps.
400607
Congrats! You can by rose petals at the flower shop, but I would only put them around the tub not in it.  Go to bath and body shop.  They have great ideas. Good luck, but I am sure you both will be happy with being married.
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I have a long list! But mostly I want something that shows that the giver thought about what I would like personally. Anyone can give generic bath gel or a gift card.
349933
A bridesmaid/groomsman gift that I've seen and thought was cool was pocket bartender from Sharper Image.  I've seen them other places too.  Would fit the laid back and alcohol aspects.
90600
Try these websites for candle fragrance ideas--and I agree with the post below, but I personally don't know where you can customize your own candles unless you do it yourself, but that doesn't mean there aren't places where you can do it.\n\nYour wedding colors sound pretty.\n\nhttp://www.rootcandles.com/index.cfm\nhttp://www.yankeecandle.com/cgi-bin/ycbvp/retail.jsp
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You could make your own gift basket to be the same theme as her wedding.  Shower gels, lotion, candles, magazines, candies, champagne, picture frame.  Go to Wal-Mart, Target, Hobby Lobby, Kohls, etc. they should have all of the items listed above and more.
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A fun game - \n\n\nI threw a bridal shower once and we played a game where we split into a bunch of groups and one person in the group was designated as the "bride" and each group got a roll of toilet paper and had to dress the bride for her wedding. It was hilarious to see my friend's grandma dressed up in toilet paper - we still laugh about that.
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Many couples give each other wedding gifts.  It's sort of a little "cute" thing to do, special between the bride and groom.  \n\nIt's hard to make direct suggestions based on what you said in your question.  I would probably suggest something personal.  Something between just the 2 of you.  Maybe a framed scrapbook page with small keepsakes and pictures of your favorite time together. Or maybe research where you are going on your honeymoon and get a gift card or make a home-made coupon for a store he would like to visit (like cigars or a museum) while honeymooning.  Give it to him before the wedding and tell him you wanted him to have something special from your future together.  \n\nThere are lots of options.  You could do so many things.  If buying is easier for you (because being a bride to be is very consuming) try www.redenvelope.com, or www.uncommongoods.com.  Both are very fun and very swanky!  Easy to find for the hard to buy for!
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http://marriage.about.com/od/anniversaries/index.htm\nThis link list gifts by year. to get an idea, just type your question into your search bar...U will get lots of great ideas, then narrow it down, by cost and location.. Happy hunting.
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something tasteful and personal, but not too personal. Lik a gift basket or something. Don't give the female bath products. Try tea and cookies instead. For the guy, some small tech thing is usually welcomed. you can get nice stuff of this nature without spending too much, too. www.gifts.com can help, too
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There is something called ecofetti that dissolves instantly with water - it is fairly cheap and you can mix it with flower petals like lavender and it smells so good!!\n\nYou can blow whistles - that was fun - loud but fun!\n\nI have also seen paper airplanes being thrown AROUND the bride and groom.  That was cool as well.
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I would say you, but then again you already know this and wouldn't be asking right? \nI did three things for my fiance (husband on Saturday) I made him a scrapbook of us and things that have happened since we met, I got him a bride/groom ornament, and I made him a love letter that explains to him how I feel about him.\nYou could get him a watch, or a bracelet. You could buy him a beer mug engraved, you could get him a picture frame. Here are some websites that you could try out fo some ideas.\nhttp://www.poetrygift.com/bridegroom.html\nhttp://www.findgift.com/Occasions/Wedding/Bride-to-Groom\nCongratulations!!!
331004
I like the exchange collars idea.  Serve alcohol to the wedding guests.  Have someone creative make a ferret shaped cake to serve at the reception.
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How about presenting the bouquet to someone special at your wedding reception...Your grandma, your best friend for helping make your day special etc.\n\nA friend of mine presented her bouquet to her aunt who was there that just had overcome cancer and was doing well. It was a tearful memorable moment.
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I guess not go. Since the idea of the shower is to collect gifts, shower being short for  "shower the bride with gifts". It might end up hurting your feelings if you showed up empty handed.\nIs there not something you could do, like promising a favor, dog sit for a vacation, wash her car, mow their yard, something you could give that costs little or nothing? Is there someone close to the bride you would feel comfortable talking it over with her? Does the bride know about your financial status?  Find out if she intends to open gifts at the shower, if not, go, and slip a card with your promise to help out to her at the end of the party.
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Photo albums engraved with their last name or initials on the cover, those are nice.  Or how about some nice silver photo frames in 5 x 7 and 8 x 10 sizes?  My other idea is to think of something that they both enjoy doing together (for example, camping, tennis, etc) and get them something that involves that.  If they both like the outdoors you could get them a BBQ grill set.