do you think that it is good for your girlfriends ex to call all the time and it's not about there child?
366646
He is trying to keep her as her lover... it ain't right
1032014
Depends on what she wants...\nIf she's not looking for a new daddy for her kids and is o.k. to have some one to just distract her from her daily chores, it's fine.\nIf she is, you better get it straight before some one gets hurt..\nSo find out..
561707
To a certain exstint it is. Considering that he is moving anyways. She deserve someone to treat her better than she is getting. No woman needs the drama in their lives. But on the other hand how does the ex feel about the situation? Is he ok with it? Is he willing to let her go? If so, then i say girl just be happy, and i wish you the very best of your new relationship.
85653
You need to decide if your in this relationship for the long haul.  If you are then his kid is a major part of his life and should be in yours.  While I know you can't be on call all the time you can help him make arrangements for getting around.  He is also going to have to adjust his life for a few months and realize that there may be times when he simply can't be some where.  However, he should always be there for his kid and if your committed to this relationship so should you.
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
1175791
he feels a sense of duty to the family he has created with his ex and he has the child's best interests in mind. it would hurt him every time the girl leaves him but he does know what to expect from her. that could give him a sense of security where as a new girlfriend creates new possibilities some good, some bad and he does not know what these new possibilities could bring, in turn making him fear what he doesn't know
606589
I think it can be your enemy depending on how you handle the break up. If you are able to do stuff throughout the day, months etc that occupy your time you could be alright. If you spend all your time worrying about the break up then time can be an issue. Time does heal and time does give us chances we may never have had otherwise.
998196
obviously you are an evil angel if your going to be so closed minded about something like that...your going to break up with a guy because of the kid or because of the ex wife?...if its the kid then thats f*cked up...but if cause of the ex....your only going on speculation...not fact...
421996
Nope you're not a bad person.  I had a similiar thing happen, my ex calls me all the time too, we cannot be more than just social friends and I honestly don't feel pain or sympathy when he breaks up or fights with his new girlfriend.  I listen and say I'm sorry for him but I don't feel alot of sympathy.   When people hurt you like that by breaking up, you learn and grow and we've grown past our feelings for them and moved on.
493403
Yes, I think she is or at least was. Any girl would be jealous of her ex dating someone right after a break up. You always thought they could only love you. A sad & cruel joke....
178120
My ex bf who i thought was now my best friend, is scum. and lying to me, who now has a gf who has a child and he forgot to mention this to me, and i had to hear it from a guy on the internet. \n\nnot everything you learn each day is good.
494091
Bad. Real bad... Many times, affairs never really stop! Communication is the key to a rekindle, and if there is either a proximity or an open communication line, some nasty piss off would most certainly arise for you. She'll most probably get a way with him oftentimes than once...\n\nAnd another thing, MOST EXes are also called Schemers. They must only be upto something, even when they are not aware, whether her break-up was in agreement or in acrimony. Whatever she is doing with your future in laws... BUY NEW BOOTS, GET READY TO KICK-BUTT SOONER THAN LATER!
1095505
A ex is a ex..  that is why they are called ex's.  There is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex.  I am friends with an ex.  We talk on the phone about evey 4-6 months.  He calls at Christmas and that is about it  We ask about the kids and how each other are doing.  End of conversation.  \nSo, I say she is not comfortable with you.  It is truly hard to be in love with someone whom you have only known for 6 months.  Not imposbbilbe, so she is has a greater bond with the ex.  But then my question would be why did they break up if she feels it necessary to text and talk to him all the time?\nJust because her family is good to you is no reason to be treated like the thrid wheel in your relationship.  \nShe is selfish and wants the best of both worlds.  As for the sex issue, you didn't seem stressed over that.  But meds can have something to do with it and I would sugggest she contacts her Dr and lets him know the side affect and he might be able to give her something else. If you truly love her and I mean in love with her you will and can work through this if not.\nYou have only invested 4 months so move on and someone out there will appriciate your for you.  You will not have to prove yourself and should not have to prove yourself to anyone who loves you,  Nor should you be lied to or feel there is no trust level when love someone and as I said truly love someone.
392541
depends on the situation. do the two of them have children together? if so then yes, but only if the call concerns the children. if they do not have children they don't have a permanent link to each other so there is no reason for her to be calling your husband, he's moved on and so should she.
863657
Yes, you should definitely call her. It's not completely over unless she states so. Probably she's holding onto the same ego that you are by not calling her.
508203
It really depends on your girlfriend and the work situation. If it is ok for her to receive your calls, without her getting into trouble, and she doesn't mind that you call everyday, then there really wouldn't be a problem.  However, if she is getting annoyed, or in trouble, she might just dump you for being creepy and obsessive.
229612
Unfortunately you have no control over what someone else does.  If your baby's father cares about your feelings, he will ask that girl to stop calling him.  Otherwise, you probably need to look for a new man in your life.