i recently found out my boyfriend likes transexual porn?
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So does mine. I think it's pretty funny.
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Well, I dated a guy for like 18 months who I didn't know at the time was a little bit of a cross dresser.  But he was all sorts of weird things!  The kinkiest it got when I was with him was that he liked a n a l and liked to fantasize about men...but then w/his next girlfriend he did a lot of crossdressing and planned to have a sex change.  But last I heard, he changed his mind about all that.   Guess it was just a phase?
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My boyfriend does not watch porn, but maybe most guys are not grown enough!
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Well if you two are using the toys TOGETHER, then he is at least paying attention to you sexually.  Does he do other things besides just penitration, like oral, fondling, kissing, etc?  If he works you up and then uses toys instead of his self on you, he may have some sort of Erectile Disfuction.  Its pretty common, and from how you phrased your question, it sounds like he is trying to keep you satisfied using everything but himself.  Have you talked to him about this, or asked him why he wont make love to you when you ask him to?  Most men if they are playing with toys on thier women, it is just to spice up the sex life they have, not replace it.  Is he getting off or masturbating when he is doing this?  Then you may have some sort of obsesive fettish on your hands and you will have to sit down with him and tell him that even though these games are fun, they can be monotinous and you would like to change it up a bit with some actual sex. Throw in a fantasy of yours that you would like to try out to get him interested in fulling for you.  Whether its something like sex in the park or movie theater, (outside or public sex can be thrilling), or web cam, poloroid or videod sex, or even a threesome.  Or maybe just let him know that even though this is fun, sometimes you just need a plain romantic skin on skin night for the two of you.  If this is the only problem...then he should understand if he loves you.  Just remember honest, open minded communication is key to working out any problems where sex is involved.  Sex can be such a touchy and delicate subject, and if handled correctly and openly then sex can be great for both people in a relationship.   Good luck with this!  Love, Angela
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Stepping outside of your comfort zone is all apart of life. I think it's great that your boyfriend feels comfortable sharing this with you. Try it, only you and him will ever know about it.
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lol datz funny...b4 i dated my boyfriend i heard a lot of things about him jacking all the time..like non stop...and sortta being a maniac too...but i am the ccomplete opposite :P ...then we started dating but i knew what i was putting myself into so i couldnt really blame anyone(i mean i knew the guy was a bad boy lol)..i just let him know that i know he is really "into it" but i am not that kind of a person, and if he had a prob with that we could remain as good friendz..he understood and now he doesn't rush me into anything ;) sooo.. if your friend/boyfriend is a smart boy he will understand just let him know.\nGoodluck\nTake care
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Dont let it bother you hun. you would be amazed @ how many men watch porn. one of my girlfriends didnt like it and said that it made her feel like she wasnt good enough or pretty enough if i had to watch that. i beleive allot of females feel that way but its not like that at all. let him watch it, he is just going to get sexualy frustrated and take it out on you any ways.
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ask your'e boyfriend how he feels about it...if he says that hes uncomfortable with it, then respect his wishes.
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Mormons are asked not to watch R-rated movies because of the inappropriate content in them.  That would be why your boyfriend wouldn't watch certain movies.  Nothing's 'up' it's their beliefs and if you don't like it, no one's forcing you to accept them.  Just live and let live, savvy?
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i think u should definitely watch porn together. me and my husband use to do and i can assure u it makes sex a lot more funny ;)
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Whatever is "normal" for you, is normal.  Some straight people like gay porn and some gay people like straight porn.  What's wrong with that?  Whatever makes you happy, dude.
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I don't mind. My bf goes onto porn sites, but he doesn't ALL the time and he doesn't let it rule all his time when he's off work. He doesn't get too into it. I actually watch a little my self, sometimes. It just depends on the TYPE of porn he watches, as long as it doesn't get too wild and perverted, and he doesn't watch it all the time...I'm cool with it.
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I hope you told him that it hurt your feelings. I think it is normal for guys to look at porn and naked pictures, but it is not ok to make a comment like that.\n\nMaybe you could look at them with him and ask him what about the picture turns him on. Then get him to tell you things about you that turn him on. You can get the focus off of the pics and where it should be....on you.
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Is there a way to do that?\nSome type of stimulant cream.\nFor your boyfriend--meaning you are not satisfied??????
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happyhere,\n\nThe fact he is going to a website doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  Speaking bluntly, he masturbates, he looks at other women, he picks his toenails, etc.  In short, he does all the normal "guy" stuff.\n\nI know it might be difficult to reconcile how he can be "so in love" with you and be involved in these "distractions" but it is very possible.  He might be curious, he might have decided that he wants a certain kind of relationship with you and he will get other devious needs fulfilled outside of your relationship.  It might also mean he secretly wants you to do some of that stuff, but he doesn't have the guts to ask.\n\nLong story short, if this bothers you, and it obvioulsy does to the point that you threatened to end the relationship over it, consider talking to him about this.  You don't have to tell him you caught him a second time, but you should ask him if he is really fulfilled - both emotionally and physically...or ask him on a scale of 1-10, or some other way that might get him to open up without feeling threatened - it won't be easy because this is a delicate subject.\n\nAnyway, good luck.\nC
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we jsut pretend to hide it so when you find we can be all " omg what are you doing looking through that stuff! my friend sent it to me" in reality we just dont care. want your man to stop looking at porn? then supply him with enough pics and videos of you wearing, doing, saying all kinds of kinky stuff. chances are we will still look at porn though.
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It's not wierd if you both enjoyed it!!!! (wink, big smile) It is normal to change things up sexually and will only become a fetish if you let it.