Help! What do I do?!?
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I understand my friend. It’s easy to say not to worry about it, but to you this is a real issue. It is difficult to relate to you on this issue because I come from a country where \nThe only color that we are interested in is the color of your money. [lol]\n\nHaving said that, I think that I have the solution to your issue on how to act in a multi- colored environment; stop acting and start living! You have a new start in life; don’t blow it with the old baggage of your past. You are there because you deserve to be there so stop acting and start living. You did not get the job because the company felt sorry for you; you got the job because they need you for what you can bring to the table, so bring it!\n\nYou are not defined by, your ethnicity, you skin color or language, you define who you are and it is a dynamic process. You are smarter than you give your self credit for after all you have begun a process of self renewal how many people you know have had the courage to do what you are doing?  Start loving yourself my friend you are ok.\n\nIn the office be as “wise as a serpent and as harmless as a lamb”, listen, observe, do your job, be pleasant. When conflict occur deal with it in a calm, but firm way. Meet your deadlines, that’s why they hired you remember?\n \nFriends will come but I beg you don’t become the newest member of the office’s bitching crew; no job is perfect, if it gets bad leave on a good note. \n\nSorry if this is too long but I felt that I had to get this to you. \n\nYou can live life or let life live you, I would rather live life. Stop acting and start living my friend.
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Talk up a storm. Start sharing so much about you with them. They realize you trust them and perhaps they will realize perhaps they should trust you equally so. Don't be disturbed when it takes a while. Let your friend find his/her comfort zone. Rest assured if he/she does.......you might have the best friendship you've ever had. :)
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talk to my neigbour and discuss what should we do about this situation
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I am so confused right now...what?!
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Listen to him.  Show that you care how he feels and what he is doing with his life.  Smile!!!!
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WELL YOU CAN DO WHAT EVERY ONE  IS  TELLING  YOU AND  ASK HIM ITS  FAST AND  PAINFUL. OR YOU CAN GET ANOTHER BOYFRIEND AND TAKE IT SLOW SEE WHAT HE THINKS  ABOUT YOUR NEW FRIEND THAT YOU BEEN HANGING AROUND AND WHEN HE  CALLS YOU OUT OF THE BLUES TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE BUSY AND YOU CALL HIM LATER. I KNOW  ITS A LITTLE CHILLNESS BUT YOU CAN ALWAYS GO WITH ASKING HIM...... GOOD LUCK
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Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.
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Dude! Im having the same problems! Somebody HELP US!!!
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Don't ever let anyone control your mind like this. He might just be busy. Let him chase you. Don't call or text him until he calls or texts you. Date other people. If he wants you he knows where to find you and how to make it known. Let him work for you! You're a queen aren't you?
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Forget about her!!! I've had the same situation with this guy, until I finally said to myself, Hey! What am I doing here? He doesn't deserve me and I'm not going to wait forever! I shoudn't be running after him he should be running after me! And if he's gonna want me back, it's too late for that! And guess what? He wantd me back. And I didn't. That's what you should do. Have some dignity MAN!
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Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
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Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
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you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
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It's always hard to change your feelings. That part just takes time and strength. As for confronting him. Be civil and calm. If he still won't talk to you about it, make sure he knows how you feel. If he can't talk he can listen. It will make you feel better to get that out and off of your chest. If he won't listen, send him a letter and then leave it be. Don't talk to him, don't be around him, and don't let yourself think about him. If a thought comes in your head. Push it out and make yourself do something to distract you. Also, they say the best way to forget someone is to get somebody new. It works for me. You can try it. :^) I wish you the best and if you need anymore advice or support feel free to contact me. :^)
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gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
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get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
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Meet with your x, have a long talk then afterwards decide what to do. If he really does like and care about you then he'll let you go(distant relationships never work out). Don't let anyone control you, it's your life, your feelings, you decide what to do.