i am a hindu boy iwant to marry with a muslim girl how can i do it?
356349
Dont do it. You will hurt ur parents and she will hurt hers. N u will have lots of prob coping wz each others religion. \nFind som1 ur own religion n get married without breaking any1's heart
211222
Well it depends if she wants to get married in a mosque then yes you are going to have to convert.  The Islamic faith forbids outsiders from taking an Islamic women into his life.  In fact the outcome for her is not good, and you are going to have to realize this.  This is considered a taboo, and the minimum that could happen to her is that she will be shunned in her faith.  The worst that could happen to her is her family could turn their backs on her.  You have picked a really tough faith to marry into, and if you love her with all of your heart I would be open to the idea of converting.  Make it easy on her, and her family if they are really devout in their faith.  If they are liberal with their faith you may be in the clear, but I would talk to her more about how serious is the faith of Islam is in her life. \n\n                 good luck on this one you're gonna need it!
296064
Yes only if you convert into Islam.Don't pretend that you are Muslim if you don't mean it and don't become a Muslim just because you want to marry a Muslim girl. You should embrace Islam only when you are ready and I truly hope that you do that with honesty.\n\nDon't marry your girlfriend if you are not a true Muslim yet. You will get a lot of troubles then. I hope your heart will open one day to accept and practise the real Islam before you marry a Muslim girl. May God bless you.
263492
As a person married to a spouse of a very different religion, I can say that anyone who offers an "easy answer" has probably not been in that position.  Make no mistake, it can be difficult.  That said, this is decision time for your daughter and prospective son-in-law.  \n\nIf they are ready to be with each other, they are going to have to get used to navigating religious and cultural differences.  And this is an opportunity to decide whether they wish to cleave to each other or to their respective families of origin, to the extent there is some conflict between those two loyalties.  If they cannot prioritize being together over parental approval, the marriage is better off not starting, for its future is not good.  On the other hand, if they establish that their love for each other is something they wish to put at the center of their lives, learning that now can create a valuable opportunity to build a foundation for a future marriage.\n\nI would encourage them to:\n(1)  Engage his family's rabbi (or another rabbi, if his family's rabbi refuses to participate) in the dialogue;\n(2)  Talk about mixed-religion marriages with others in similar marriages, particularly Christian-Jewish pairings;\n(3)  Pray to their shared God/G-d in their two very different ways for guidance and help for their relationship.\n\nBtw, even in Orthodox Judaism conversion for purposes of marriage, and marriage to converts, is acceptable.  Try the Book of Ruth.  Possibly this is actually about cultural, rather than religious differences.\n\nImho, despite the challenges of interfaith marriages, they may play a very important role in moving our world from the present mutual hostility of all the world's faiths towards greater mutual understanding and peace.  And that is certainly a noble pursuit.\n\nMy blessings and my wishes for good luck to them and to both your families, which may yet become one family.
119693
marrying a protestant is easy.  he/she just has to have been baptized and promise to raise the children in the Catholic faith.  Then it's just a matter of signing a paper.\n\nMarrying a Muslim may be more challenging.  I'm not really sure, but I think they may spend more time counseling to make sure you have really addressed where each of you are spiritually.
203417
I understand your position very well. Where I come from, the society finds it hard to accept inter-tribal marriages into the mainstream - surprisingly even if both of you are Muslims.\nIt is very hard to convince Muslim parents to accept an 'non-believing' daughter-in-law, mother of their grandchildren etc. In your case, one can say it is justifiable (Islam only allows Men to marry PIOUS Christian and Jewish Women). Conversion to Islam, may help soften their (Your Man's Parents') hard position; I don't know about your's. \nOne thing worthy of consideration is that, contrary to modern secular opinion, in deeply traditional societies like yours (and mine), one marries into a whole family, not just a member of that family. So, by marrying him, you are kind of, inducted to his entire brethren (and sisteren :P) and vice-versa. Although both of you are educated and having jobs of your own, you will be surprised to find out later after your wedding how deeply rooted in tradition both of you can be. You may end up judging one another according your individual religious/cultural standards, and THAT can be a problem ("ALL THIS TIME I THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME JUST THE WAY I AM; PERHAPS I MADE A MISTAKE!!!). This spell trouble with capital T! especially from the Man's point of view.\nI know you are seeking some 'constructive' ideas, but I can't help but be selfish. I'll want to advice for you to convert to Islam (with sincerity on your part and lots of help, patience and perseverance from your Man), get married with HIS parents blessings, move to another area (possibly another country - to lessen friction between families) and settle there.\nI hope this helps...\n(A-K-B)
118176
I'm afraid that I do not know the proper name for a Muslim celergyman, please forgive my ignorance about that, but you could go to a Cleric in your Mosque, tell him that you feel ready for marriage and seek his advice about how to meet girls with a suitable background. He would know which families in your area have daughters of marriagable age and probably would be the person best able to judge which of the young women you might be compatable with for marriage.\nGood luck.
1125686
She is not, I am Muslim and I can say that. maybe she really loves you but your relationship seems impossible. in our book male Muslim can marry Christian,Muslim and Jew woman, but female Muslim can't marry but Muslim man. so she is probably if she told her family they would prevent her from seeing you at all. so she keeps finding excuses to be with you as long as possible. talk to her outright and tell her what I just wrote and she can't deny! good luck.
694730
Well, there are lots of factors to consider.  Do you both follow your chosen religions very very faithfully?.... like, to the exact letter of the "law"?\n\nDo you have any idea if the other person's beliefs are compatable with what your house of worship teaches?\n\nHow will your family accept or reject this person?  How about your larger social circle.... friends and business colleagues (for when you are older ok).\n\nSit down and talk to your Priest, pastor, rabbi, Mullah or whatever person leads your faith, and ask their insights.
571763
yOU HAVE TO CHECK YOUR LOCAL MUSLIM PERSONAL LAW. tHE PERSONAL LAW BOARD LOOKS AFTER THIS. THE HINDU SUCCESSION ACT DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU IF YOU ARE IN INDIA.
966557
Muslims don't tell  the uglier side of Islam to  \nwomen . She is a second class citizen\nin her own home. She must obey, without question, her husband's orders, agree, without voicing her opinion,\nhis opinions and criticisms, even criticism of her with\nno allowance for appeal. It is accepted within Muslim culture\nfor him to beat her to keep her in line. And he may marry\nmore than one wife.  \n   Your sons will be become targets for Muslim clerics who\nbrainwash boys to become martyrs for Allah.
169712
No....the man has to accept woman's religeon first then they can get marry....this is islamic rule....
662009
Of course you can! But first you have to meet one that appeals of you, get to know them, real well.See if there's some good chemistry between the two of you and if they are the marrying type then there you are! As easy as that! They have to want to marry you two! Or else you'd have to kidnap one and marry them at gun-point, but I guess you don't wanna do that!
1139089
Yes your children can be raised any religion that you choose. Theproblem will be that this is going to cause conflict in everyones lives. You need to decide how important religion is in your life, and ask yourself if she and you can still maintain a healthy relationship due to the difference of opinion with the religion issue.
457020
Marriage isn't compulsory for anyone - Indian or not. You only get married if you both want to get married.
991086
You can marry her ,before that ask her that is she loves to live in India . As the both countrys are not in a very good relatinshipthe people or the government may not be pleased in bringing a pakistani girl .You have better to stay in any another Country.
590655
first of all u r a muslime as i am \nsecond let me say do u read quran \nosman  had collected holy quran if u dont know\ni love ali and my huspand love him too\nhe speaks like you and says the same u say and this is our proplem i have an advice for u when u marry marry a girl whom is shya like you\nanother thing i ask u plz just be if u can be like ali radhi allah anh\nnothing more and stop talking about dead people whome r better thousand mellion than u r \nbest regards\nanswer my question plz