Had an affair with a guy who is 32 and I am 48 years old.?
356599
If you have childern think about them, and about your husband. If he is blowing you off, and then you should say it is over. Guys like them, will call when they need someone to screw with. Or may be i am wrong. But guy who is keep ignoring you meaning that he just want to stay away from you. Just talk to him and tell him the suitation in which we are is just not working, say everything openly. If he does not still give you solid answer, say good bye to him and go back to your husband. If you have childern, then you have to just stop thinking about him\nBest of luck
394284
Yes it is. I was very much in love with this guy and almost married him. But found him cheating on me. Needless to say his butt went to the curb. Then I met another man and married him. Been together for 16 years now.
73793
Sounds like lust honey.  Stay 100 miles away from this guy.  It's NOT worth breaking up a 20 year marriage over.
1101857
you're both consenting adults, and as long as you're both hot for each other, go for it! and if other people don't like it, too bad, you gotta live your life for you. \nand if this is from someone who is a friend or family member of either the 50 year old woman, or the 25 year old guy, that is the person they chose to be with, leave them alone. it might be just a fling, or it may be a deep meaningful relationship, either way only time will tell, and if they have found a happiness with each other, no matter how long that time period may be, let them be happy. happiness is a rare thing these days.\ngood luck to you
1038009
Yes.\nWhat is the affair you are talking about in your case?
951091
You're 22 and he is 24? Seriously?  Are you really sure you're not in middle school? Your description of the situation is BEYOND juvenile! Stop worrying about this guy, worry about yourself and stop calling Psychics! not PHYCHIC.
1012631
You are a 22 year old whore...You need to know the damage you are causing with his family and perhaps children. He's married, he belongs to another woman for one. And two. he's married. And three this man is old enough to be your dad. I'm surprise he hasn't gave you worms..I hope he does and that would teach your azz a lesson.\n\nGrow the hell up, get your azz a job and your own MAN!\nBy the way, that particular age group risk for HIV is high as well. I hope he gives it to you!
1186494
i had an affair with a married man for 18 years. i ended it last october.\nbest years of my life wasted.
961752
THAT'S PURE B.S. AND IS NOT NORMAL, MAYBE HE'S SEEING SOMEONE ELSE OR IS NOT SATISFIED WITH YOU.\nNO OFFENCE... I WON'T GIVE MY AGE BUT I'M AS ACTIVE AND LIVELY AS EVER.. FOR A MAN WHO'S 28 GOING ON 29,\nHE SHOULD BE RAMBONING IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!!!\nMAYBE HE NEEDS CIALIS, OR IS HE SEEING ALICE ON THE SIDE?????
237620
I am telling you this from experience and from my heart. Go with an older man. I am 34 and dating a man who is 20 years my senior. I have never been happier in my life than I am right now. The maturity factor trumps everthing else. They know how to treat a woman like a woman and not a girl. There is respect present in their personalities that isn't there in younger men. And the sex is incredible. Trust me, I wouldn't tell you this if it were not true. If you have your eye on an older man, go for it.
915608
because you were betrayed, and even though it's been a year it's still going to bother at certain times. epsecially since you said it was around this time last year you found out about the affair. it's normal, just don't let it ruin what it is that you's have rebuilt since then.\n good luck!!
1043224
This happened to me with my husband of 21 years, a little over two years ago.  I thought I would die.  Amazing how God knows what is best for us.  Be thankful that someone else can take the bum off your hands.  I know it seems like the end of the world, but it isn't.  You deserve better.  Cheaters SUCK!  Get counseling, go have fun.  And remember, what goes around, comes around.  Move on!
385349
First of all, I don't see what the big deal is.  What is the difference between 30 and 37 really?  Does it matter to you?  If it is the fact that he lied that is bothering you tell him that, just confront him about it.  If the age thing doesn't bother you and you still love, or at least like, him then just let him know that and tell him you just don't appreciate being lied to and not to let it happen again.  If the age difference bothers you even still after being in a relationship with him...it's probably time to just move on.
1029469
God, whatever type of flirting is that, it is still UNETHICAL\n\nconsidering his AGE and PROFESSION.\n\nyou are NOT attracted to him, you just like the ATTENTION he is giving to you! \n\ngo find another doctor, it's not too late.
116781
Wow, I'm so sorry about that.  I think you should consider your feelings for him carefully.  If it were me, I think I would call off the wedding if you were planning on getting married soon.  You definitely should confront him on this but before you do, I would try to find out if he's done something like this before and if he has indeed cheated.  You can try going through his email and his cellphone/pda/dayplanner, etc. to look for numbers that don't look familiar.  It's a shame that you have to go snooping through his personal things but if he's cheating, he could be gambling with his and your life because of STDs etc.  Best wishes to you.  Your mind and heart will help you do the right thing.
942350
Wow how old are you?\n\nThis guys a sleaze for taking advantage of you, he spent all the time with you? He just doesn't have to charm anyone else when your already there, thats all.\nThe oldest trick in the book , he wants a long term relationship?\n\nHoney, he's using you, ok, and you fell for it, im sorry.
816675
how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more