how do i position my self  to  be prepaired  to meet ,date and  get married?
356165
I believe that you can meet people in church activities, gatherings that friends have, on the job, through school clubs and some decent public forums. Of course, you already have the best way ever and that is to let God and let go. You will certainly be on the right path when you sincerely trust in the Lord. God Bless.
188862
Open a calendar or diary and presto there's a date (it's all yours). LOL\n\nSeriously tho... just talk to people, if things are friendly between you and the talkee then sugest going somewhere (try just talking a few times before suggesting)
1102974
Dating is really more challenging than it sounds. We are trained for every other social setting, but like having your first baby, there's no manual than can really prepare you. Most of us flounder and make mistakes and learn from them, and it sounds like you're in that state. Give yourself permission to not be perfect at something you're learning to do, and let what has happened in the past become a tool to take you where you want to go. Here's a site with some tips and ideas: http://www.vitaminsdiary.com/dating/\n. If you keep trying, the man you're looking for will come. \n\nRegards,\n~Tia~\nLive from the big, purple brain\nhttp://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html\nASK YOUR QUESTIONS, CALL THE BRAIN - 212-382-3592
579168
get married and a job
1014843
Already founf my soul mate.  Engaged and set a date
123830
there is no secret place to meet someone. it can happen anywhere at any time in any circumstance. You have to put your best foot forward at any given moment and behave like that person of your dreams is around the corner. Take extra time in the things that you do and look around.Start calling in favors with friends and get set up on the infamous blind date as painful as it sounds. Join a gym, play bingo, get out there and hunt like your ancient ancestors did.
100028
Hey don't worry - do some lifestyle changes - you want to meet girls - join a gym/aerobics class/cooking class/take a night course etc\n\nIf you want to meet someone in your own faith - join a prayer group/study group/youth group\n\nIf you want to meet someone in your profession - attend seminars/go to profession barbeques etc\n\nIf you want to meet someone fun and adventurous - join a secular charity group - say Rotary\n\nIf you want to meet someone who has social consciousness at heart - do some volunteer work at the soup kitchen or at the local red cross etc\n\nbe comfortable with yourself, work out a bit so that your body is in good shape, read widely so that you have a lot of topics to draw upon when you meet that gal...oh yeah browsing for books and shopping is also a good place to meet girls...\n\nDon't gush too much when you meet someone, don't relate everything that has happened etc and especially leave out miserable stuff out....listen listen listen and listen to what makes her tick...and enjoy her company...actually the less you say about what you have done the better...\n\nhave fun
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First, be specific about your idea of Mr. Right.  If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.  Once you know what kind of man you want, start going to places where men like that can be found.  If you want a "life of the party" type, you probably won't meet him at the library or the art museum -- but if you want a shy, artistic type, a football game is a bad bet.\n\nSecond, be realistic in your demands (as in, don't ask for more than you have to offer).  If you don't have movie star looks, insisting that he does -- and having nothing to do with any man who doesn't -- is not realistic (that's just one example).\n\nThird, know the difference between what you _want_ and what you _need_.  Have nothing to do with any man who can't offer everything that you need and at least some of what you want.  Caveat: some of your emotional needs are supposed to be met by your friendships with other women, not by your relationship with a man.  Don't ask him for things that he's not supposed to give you.\n\nFourth and last: relax.  You shouldn't play hard to get, nor should you project desperation.  Just have a life.  Go out with friends.  Get a hobby.  Attend events that interest you (which will bring you into contact with men who share your interests, btw).  The man you want is out there, you just have to be where he can find you.  Just keep living -- as opposed to surviving -- and he will come.
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Not really, but assuming that you're an adult and not a kid: \n\nAfter several email chat exchanges, if you don't already have one get a photo. Then  move on to telephone. Talk at least a few times on the phone before agreeing to meet. First date should be in a well lit public place for a drink or coffee. Starbucks is a good example.
646148
Get one of those marriage planner books. They have checklists of everything you could imagine.
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Go to many many local events such as concerts etc, join a club such as line dancing if your into that or a bowling leag. Go to every event your friends may have, a wedding party etc. You can also place an ad in the paper or search for a singles dating place/party in your area online, we have them here in town and i need to go there since im single myself lol. Yahoo personals can be a lot of help too, you just need to be honest about youself and know what you want and be clear in your profile, dont leave anything out such as a picture of yourself, i wont click on any profile without a picture.\nMatch.com and Harmony.com are 2 very good places to place a personal as well, just make sure you fill everything in and it may get you somewhere, oh and keep it local because you dont want to travel thousands of miles to meet and then find there is no sparks. Before meeting her make sure you know A LOT about her, never jump into it and dont believe everything she may tell you and always reply to her e-mail, communication is the keyword when dating online.
417028
Are you nuts or just immature?  You need to meet someone to be "going with" them.  Marriage, you've never met!  Get a life!
319236
Trust yourself, you are skilled at this because it was no accident that you had a good marriage the 1st time.  You are obviously good at picking a guy who would make a good husband, and are good at the give-and-take of marriage.  You have just been out of the game for awhile, but you have all the skills you need.  It is just a fact that you will have to meet a few dozen, or few hundred, wrong people before you find the right one, hence all your encounters with guys who only want sex.  Keep dating casually, circulating as much as possible, not sleeping with anybody.  You may need to vary where you are looking, like go to church functions or take classes that interest you instead of looking in singles bars and other 'meat markets'.  Keep being critical and rejecting the majority, and it's only a matter of time before you meet someone nice.  Remember, you are good at relationships and have all the skills you need so stay confident and trust your own judgement.
297235
Be careful and meet in a public place... make sure you have immediate plans to BE in a public place for a few hours after you meet as well.  Like if he's picking you up from the airport.. make sure you to to 'dinner' or whatever after.  Make sure you have first name, last name, name of employer, phone, street address and that ALL of this is verified.  \n\nI have done it - it can be wonderful, but I wouldn't do it without being 'smart' about it :)  Make sure your best friend has all this info also :)  Good Luck and have a wonderful time!!!
194781
One place for you to meet a guy(and take it from me b/c im a guy) is church or even the gym. You have nice men that go there. But the main thing you must know is not to rush it. Don't act desperate for a man,because if you act desperate then that would send out the wrong man radar and then you'll find yourself dating a rapists or something. Your priorty is your children first, but if you want guarentee great men, church. Or maybe even at your job. But dont be in a rush to get a man... the right man would come to you.. and there is a right man for you somewhere.. Just dont go out on dates by yourself.. go in like groups first.
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God will let you know when the time is right or the person.  God does things on His time for us.  Not on our time.  Maybe God knows that you may get hurt so he wants you to wait a bit.  Maybe there is someone else God had in mind that will come along.  Maybe God wants you to be more financially secure before heading into a marriage.  Maybe God wants you do to other things before getting married.  There may be various of reasons but if God is not ready for you to get married, then by all means wait.  He has His reasons.  Be patient!
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I agree with the others, keep reminding yourself of that (great goal by the way), get moral support from family and/or friends.  Most importantly make it clear from the beginning with any prospective suitors that is the way it will be and don't put yourself in a position where you have to say no.......never even let it get to a point where it may be an issue......you can do it I have faith!!! :) Good luck!!!!