Have you ever told another of a past occurence??
362961
Yes , I told myself i wouldn do it but it happened anyway. I like to share but not when it is used against you in the future.
54925
Well for one thing be honest and upfront about it. Say something! I was in the same situation once before.  I just told them how I felt them and that made them feel comfortable enough to let me know that they were feeling the same. Just don't hide it.  I will come back to haunt in the future.  Believe me when I say it.
920237
Yes! \n\nIf you want to know what happened, I will tell all!
571953
I have not, however it always comes to say 'what goes around comes around'--- The past is something that will always come back to you in one way or another!! People need to be more careful in what they do in the spur of the moment, it may not find you today, tomorrow, or next year, however, it will come back for you in one way or another!! God will never forget anything that you have done, and keeps track of EVERYTHING!!! Good Luck for what found you!!
522048
well i have a horrible past! and i built up walls to it. but i have recently found out that to move on from it---i had to break them down and deal with it---now i can move on from it! if you have never had a bad past, you can never fully understand how it effects your present! agree???? well life for me is better! but i have such a tendency to look for trouble and heartache...i guess it is still in me to live a troubled life......
818588
Yes, I have, they were friends of mine, and still are.\n\nI decided to be direct, and not react defensively; so I said, "that's your story, and I've got mine."  then walked away with confident attitude.
762367
Obviously Its Not That Big Of A Deal If They Haven't Brought It Up Again.\n\nProbably Just Was A Passing Conversation To See If You Would Be Interested.
377506
What's done is done. You can't change the past, so don't dwell on it, you only waste your own time and energy. Take it as a leason in life to not expect soo much from other people. Deal with her as you have been before the incident, just be a bit more cautious.
355488
yeahhhh, have told but...when it comes to practice those stories become fairy tales only. &#92;\n\nHowever my husband-to-be has not told such, but we are a happy & loving couple. I know he will only love me until he'll die.
351194
It has happened to me today at work :)\n\nI was ill-speaking of someone, when I found him at my back listening to every SINGLE word of what I said.\n\nOMG, this has been so embarrasing and I looked red like a tomato :)
705643
I didn't cheat but my ex-husband did. I guess that tells you how it ended. When we went to my parents house to spend weekends he was sneaking out with my younger sister after I fell asleep. My sister confided in my brother and my brother confided in me in return. So my loss was my jerk of a husband(no big loss) and the love of my sister(big loss). We do talk (now) but we will never be best friends as sisters should be. I did forgive her but I will never trust her again but she did open my eyes to what was going on behind my back not only with her but with several other girls where we lived I came to find out later.
1145890
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
1122602
it happens. if it happened to you, tell someone
739617
i think eventually we can learn to DEAL with it, but we never forget.  but yes, focusing on another issue does help cover up the pain from a previous event...it's just our way of dealing with stuff...but at least we aren't always dwelling on the past...
721734
No, not really\nY? Has it happened 2 u? \nDon't worry it's ok, u just have to tell ur mom
1155409
Well , I think I might have had one once, but it wasn't meant to be that way.. My brother had hit his head and split it open to where you could see the bone blood was everywhere. We where running to my parents to tell them but the weird thing is that I dont remember it from running behind him I remember it from looking down on him from above the trees. I still dont know how or why I would remember it like that till this day..
96039
Why did you have to bring that up?  I'm having flashbacks now and I have to go throw up.\n\nNo, no long term scars.