how can she love me  ?, if i'm shy and don't speak much?
361789
You need to find a way to come out of your shell a little bit more so she can see the real you and get to know you and then love you.
685517
Just ask her.  She is probably jsut as shy as you are.
571473
well practice your answer. then maybe when you try to tell her you love her. then you could doing it without being shy about it. you just don't know what love is......
499349
She might talk to you or flirt with you, or if she's shy she might be too scared to do anyting and ignore you.\n\nIf you really like her, try talking to her and flirting with her and see how she reacts and take things from there.\n\nGood luck!
941674
Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
504360
If you've never spoken to her, then proposing marriage is going to make her run off. You need to start a bit more slowly than that - try saying "Hello" first. You can't proclaim your love for someone that soon or she'll get you busted for harassment or stalking. But if she doesn't "love" you in return, marriage is out of the question - right now, you have a crush. That's it.
661694
the absolute best thing you can tell her is what you just asked.  tell her you like her a lot, and that you don't know what to say because you don't want to sound lame.  tell her you're nervous because you haven't had a lot of girlfriends.  she'll appreciate your honesty, and she will probably say that she doesn't know what to say either, and you can laugh about it together, and it will bring you closer.
594308
Like the name!! If you read the Kama Sutra I'd be all over you. \n\nWrite her a letter if you're afraid to tell her face-to-face. I've found that shy men are the most amazing lovers !!!
185453
she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
156313
Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
135419
if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
201321
Communicate and then communicate more.  Different people have different ways of feeling secure and loved.  Which does she respond to best?  Gifts?  Doing a favor for her without being asked? Words of assurance and acceptance? \n\nHer way of having her "love tank" filled may be different than yours.  Find out what kind of fuel she needs and I suspect your sex life will improve too.
103287
I think its maybe. Maybe It s a reaction to love. First reaction. Or maybe she dont want u understand her emotions and hide them with this actin...cause she shys...\n\nI think this answer is to optimistical..
91395
How do you get a girl to love you??? Show her that you care without taking up all her space. Tell her how you feel without coming off too strong. Do LITTLE things for her and then she will do the same.
241947
she's a shy one. Where there is nothing wrong with that. Try surprising her more you know, with giving her roses, or even some touvhing love poems more frequently. Sometimes people hear action louder than words, I 'am sure when you give her something that really touches her heart and or bring tears to her eyes, she will begin to express herself to you. Don,t get me wrong talking helps too, so continue to talk to her.
449159
Do everything that u would want a person do to u, for u to feel their love. Do what ur love tells u to do to/for her, dont hold back, and deff. dont let ego stop u. Look in to her eyes,eyes speak louder than words, girls sense these things. Listen to what she saiz, the lil things matter. Do what no other person will ever do for her. ALL U HAVE TO DO IS ALWAYS SHOW AND SAY HOW MUCH U CARE. Girls need to be reassured all the time. Actions speak louder than words, BUT words are needed also.
646207
You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.