how do you know if the person you maried truly loves you and does not have a hidden agenda?
370207
you just have to wait and see what the person is all about, and from their behavior and personality will tell it all.
187273
It depends on what you feel against the other person..\nIf you long for him/her every second of your day and no one is against you, then probably thats true.\n\nAlso time can tell. Try to wait for a moment. If the feeling does'nt change, that a real love.
113001
You cannot know for certain that he loves you but after all there is nothing in life you can be certain about so you just have to settle with trying to find out if he does trully care for you and if he wants to spent his whole life time with you.If he's by your side when u feel bad and he's there to wipe your tears,if he holds your hand,looks into your eyes and then..then you know he loves you...It's not a matter of saying he foes...it's about the bonds between you,the feeling and the emotions that never lie.
1098114
Just be honest with him in a calm manner.  Let him know that you have a feeling that he might be in love with someone else - bring up the archives and the secret email address and just ask him to be honest about why he has these things now.
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
586438
You will know if you are truly in love.
47704
there is something about her that keeps u in love with her you may not be in love but in time that may change give it some time or tell her the truth and dont hurt her any more
922519
You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
320009
Trust.  You feel that you can share all your thoughts and feelings with that person.  You can talk about the evil things you did, your future dreams, and the things you are scared about.  You can trust that person with your deepest secrets.\n\nRespect.  You respect that person.  You care what they think because you value them and their opinions.\n\nYou enjoy spending time with them.  You are at ease and comfortable in their presence (that is... when there isn't a strong sexual tension ; )\n\nThere's probably a myriad of other factors... but that's what I think of when I think of love.
592401
Are you insecure? Do you feel worthy of love? Could be why you don't trust her. Or have you been hurt before. You know she loves you if you have good conversation, she listens to you and talks back. YOu have good communition and can tell each other anything. She is attentive and loving towards you, and intrested in you sexually (if you are having sex yet, you didn't say your ages). You have fun together ,and laugh together. When you are together, you feel like her mind is 100 per cent with you, and she's not distant. YOu feel important to her. She is reassuring if you need it. YOu feel totally happy in her company.
460638
Love does conquor all, but real love doesn't lie, cheat, or do things to hurt. Love is kind, selfless, and nurturing, not self-centered. But, if it is something he doesnt know he is doing, don't drop hints, TELL HIM. Your hints may not be obvious to him, and it's not fair to just beat around the bush and expect him to respond. Confront him if you believe he truely loves you, and if he does, it will turn out all right.\nBut, if by "things to hurt me" you mean abusive, purposeful things, then he doesn't love you, and you need to get out of there while you can.
666999
if it really the person loves you it will show but if a pretender you will know because when you are walking together or someone the behaviour it will be different just to pick other people attention. the love it like kissing each other on street holding hand just to be with each other so they era different things just be careful on whom you are dating not everybody will tell you the truth about themselves.
280974
well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you
417880
By the way she acts around you and the way that she treats you. I have also all ways heard that you can tell if a person loves you but the way they treat you when you are alone, Not just in front of others.
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
82510
Someone who loves you, cares about you.
428218
all people lie; but if you really love someone and feel totally comfortable with that person, you will be able to open up and share things with them that you don't with anybody else.  Evaluate your relationship and if you're letting him express himself without there being a sense of rejection or judgement, if you are creating a safe environment for him and he still lies, he probably will always lie to you and trust is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship.