My boyfriend is away on a job, what can i do for sex without cheating on him?
367360
Mast ur bate; explore you body and enjoy yourself.  Tell you boyfriend about it only when he comes home from the job and not over the phone.  Then you can show him just what you have learnt about your body while he has been away
446140
1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
327930
That's impossible. The best you can hope for is you do not find out about his picking up some action.  Don't forget men like their play time and if his juices get to flowing to some female he'll be going.  Realize that it is natural but if you really have a strong tie to each other He will keep the encounters limited to getting relief.  You may also get horny while he is away and even if you satisfy yourself that can be considered cheating so do not ask more than you can tolerate.  Grow up and hopefully the two of you will stay together even with a little side action while apart.  Safe sex does not cause problems it is the committed stuff that messes things up.
1070626
You could try some fantasy role playing. Get a pair of cheap handcuffs and you could be the hooker and him the cop. You could take turns hand cuffing each other and having fun!\nAnother one is to get a plaid skirt, make it very short, put it on with your tallest heels, a blouse and then walk into the "principals office" and tell him you have been naughty and you want to find out how he is going to punish you! Just stay within the limits that you are comfortable with and have a great time!\nYou sound like a very loving wife and I'm sure he knows how lucky he is!
908401
As a general rule, the military has a no sexual activity policy in any communal living arrangement, regardless of it's location. The point being, you are here to be a soldier in a respectful working environment, not frolic in the land of sexual exploration. \n\nWith that said, we'd be foolish to expect that young soldiers (or older ones for that matter) are not interacting sexually. It happens every day even in places where it is not suppose to happen. You need to trust that your b/f is respecting your relationship and not push or question the subject now or ever. It's just not productive. If he is faithful, no questions are necessary. If he is not, you'll know eventually without pursuing the subject and make your choices then. \n\nHe could very well be questioning your fidelity as well, do you really want him doing that? Preoccupying his mind with whether you are faithful to him or not? Let this thought of yours go and not give it another thought. Do what you believe is right for yourself and have a little faith he will do what is right for himself. If that includes being faithful to one another, great! \n\nAnd when he calls home, be positive and supportive. He does need that more than anything else.
19623
You're not cheating, you're just outsourcing your orgasms. That's not horrible, it's just practical. If he wants you to be faithful, he should keep up with your needs.
27030
first go to the both of u guys favorite eatting spot,already have a room ready are the bedroom if home alone have candles lite soft music,some body oil nice new bedroom outfit whip cream a bowl of fruit like strawberries and grapes and u should no the rest
744396
Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!! \nGo in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off? \nSneak in the shower with him...\nGo dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...\nBe laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...\nWear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...\nWhile the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!\nTurn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...\nStart getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...\nAlso do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..\nLet him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...\nput on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)\nGet a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"\nOnce he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...\nPut on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...\n\nI have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...\n\nWhen my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....\n\nRember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.\n\nGood luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!
210303
Any man that has sex with you once a month, there's something wrong with HIM. I wish you had stated how old your boyfriend is.  You are a better woman than me because there is NO WAY that I would trust my man to work in a place like that.  All I can say is good luck and I hope you're wearing condoms EVERY time you have sex!
942063
Just use your nose, sniff him out, intimate contact with other females is difficult to completely wash off.  If it's a daily thing he'll get sloppy, check for stray female hairs, lipstick on the collar or elsewhere, and if all else fails, just follow him from work for a few days, or get somebody else to, maybe hire a detective?  But hey, the I love you thing is hard for most guys to do at work, especially with a big audience.  If you don't find anything, could it be that you're both a little overly mistrustful and paranoid?
88805
Unless you're just dying to be OSTRACIZED, BAREFOOT and PREGNANT, tell him to DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE! And don't buy into this "COMFORTABLE" crap. \n\nOral sex and "hand" work may not get you pregnant - but chances are excellent that they WILL get you a QUICK REPUTATION as a SL*T... Boys and girls have one thing in common: They LOVE to TALK/BRAG to their friends - and their friends just LOVE to TALK, PERIOD.
1096210
Maintain a proper diet, get plenty of regular exercise, maintain your appearance at all  times: you must even sleep pretty :)   Take the proper amount of supplements, stay sexy, and seductive, but not  to the point of annoyance, and  make sure you keep it spicy in the bedroom. **** his brains out :) The key here is to let your hands and mouth do all the initial work for you, so that when the time arrives he'll explode within minutes, rendering a job well done! Also you must not get stagnant outside the bedroom either. Are you a good cook? If not Grocery store's now a days cook a mean meal, just transfer them into your dishes , and properly discard all evidence of "Kroger's" :)  Go get him girl-lie! Dont make it look like work, and NEVER LET HIM SEE YOU SWEAT! Good luck.
370964
try to find out reason for such thing\nif d boy want sex then u can move forward within limits.\nif he is bored with u , then try doing new things in ur life.\ntry to attract him by ur clothes.\n\nfirstly main thing thing is to know the actual reason of his leaving.\nhe might have left because he felt that this relation wont work in future. check wheather he ever loved u or not\nbest of luck
1006769
I think you should go out and buy a sexy nighty and jump in front of the television so he won't want to watch it so much...That's just one thing, for starters. You need to be spontaneous and go out and do things. Find a hobby to do you both enjoy! Go out with other couples! As far as sex goes, do things with him you don't normally do, you know? But things you feel comfortable doing. Communication is the big thing. Find out from him what he wants, too. Good luck and have some fun!
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
254897
You need to let him know sex is not something to be ashamed of. It is an expression of the love you two are suppose to share. Try (not saying you don't) showering, feminine cleaning, lotioning, lightly perfuming, lighting candles before he gets home, fix a romantic table (in your room) with flowers & dinner & lying naked on the bed with soft stimulating music playing. If that doesn't work try getting some xxx rated movies to watch together. If that doesn't work then I'm sorry sweetie but it's time for you to move on. Oh ya I forgot to tell you to talk sexy to him & let him know you want to give him the best he's ever had. *ROCK HIS WORLD GIRL!!!!*
1147183
i could really, really, really use some of that. the boyfriend isn't delivering anymore. what can you do to entice me?