how do u let ur ex no that her boy friend is only in it for sex w/out her thinking ur just jealous?
356219
Warn her before its too late, but if she doesn't listen, she will soon find out herself, and it will only make u appear more sincere. Go to her with some evidence, I'm sure she will consider it. Even is she says, "you're only jealous" it will still be in the back of her head, and she will test her new boyfriend.
1089342
The new girl isn't going to fill any voids - she might keep you preoccupied for a little while, but thats about it.  You need to let your feelings for your ex come out - and you need to deal with them in order to really move on.
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
173136
try to be strong , no matter what the situation might be, u shouldn't try to be with yr friend's ex, trust me it will definitely bring beef among u. forge ahead and u'll find someone else
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
376684
The best way is to look at the situation, look at what's logical and what's illogical.  Flip the script: put yourself in the other person's shoes.  Ask yourself if you have any real grounds for jealousy.  Is it necessary?  Is this a way of protecting yourself or are you just insecure?  If you can help it, please don't be jealous of whoever you're talking about.  That's the worst feeling in the world.
588364
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
827716
Romance her, but not too too much. She still has a bf. Wait until she has broken up. You don't want to be known as the homewrecker.
1065194
Be classy about it.  Do you trust your partner?  If yes, then you have nothing to worry about.  The ex can kick and scream and b**ch all she wants - but all it will succeed in doing is making her stand out as the immature fool that she is.\n\nDon't necessarily take crap - if she blatantly disrespects you a witty quip should quiet her, if not, give your partner a big 'ol kiss on the mouth, whilst hands are wandering over delectable buttocks.\n\nThe other part of my answer is less relevant to the question and more to do with your sanity.  If the ex is to remain a "friend" with your partner, and if your partner truly respects and cares about you, wouldn't you and your partner be well served if your partner firmly outlined boundaries with the ex?  I.e: not drunk dials, no sob stories, no jealousy b.s, etc.  This ex sounds obsessed and I don't know how you can be friends with someone who is still mad for you...and maintain your sanity.  It might be time for the rope to be cut and for you and your partner to move on and leave this head case in the dust.
507594
Haha, good question. I did that for quite a while with an exgirlfriend. It was awkward sometimes, but it was worth it at the end of the day. I think bottom line, if you still have the benefits she is still into you anyway. Pretend like you are dating, not in a relationship. That way you shouldnt get jealous and you should be in a situation that will leave things less likely to become awkward. If there are no benefits left and you feel like she is trying to make things awkward then move on and find new people to hang with, she is probably just trying to make you jealous in this case.
493403
Yes, I think she is or at least was. Any girl would be jealous of her ex dating someone right after a break up. You always thought they could only love you. A sad & cruel joke....
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
914083
sorry to say, but you should not interfere.\nyou can say 2x-3xtimes your opinion and give her advice but that is. \nwhy she bothers about those kind of guys ? maybe she likes them.\nare you sure you are not jealous of her ?
585094
whether you approve of it or not, it is her decision if she wants to be friends with him or not. telling her who she can be friends with or getting angry about her being friends with an ex is just going to make you look controlling or jealous. i think you should trust her and let her be friends with him. if she starts spending too much time with him let her know it makes you uncomforable but dont try to force her to do anything..its just going to turn out badly.
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)