how come chicks never ask the guy out??
358561
Actually, the only don't ask out the ugly ones.
114240
It could be he is too shy about it or he has a gf that he never told you about. I know it sounds cruel but a lot of people have done it. You should sit down and talk with him and just ask him why he doesn't ask you out.
163829
Yes, it's okay!  Somebody's gotta get the ball rolling and sometimes that somebody just happens to be a chick.  If you want to ask a guy out, go for it. :)  Best of luck!
586881
THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
508596
isn't it terrifying? guess what, THATS WHAT YOU EXPECT US TO DO!!!!!! thats why women made it up that guys are suposed to ask you out because you chics are way too fragile to deal with the rejection. tough crap sweety. ask the dude out and if he says no then take the hit and move on like any guy would do. it's a huge blow to our ego to be rejected but we cope. so if he says no simply say "thats cool." and keep on with the conversation. wow thats tough isn't it?
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
217368
With some women, it's because they're scared. Also it could be because the girl isn't sure the guy is interested in that way. So if a guy is into a girl, let them know.
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
1101731
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)
478586
The way many girls seem to have trouble just being honest & upfront with men.  I've seen questions on here like "how do I get a guy to ask me out without letting him know I'm interested in him".  Wouldn't it be so much easier to walk up to the guy & ask him if he was single & might like to go out?  We do it all the time, & appreciate when a woman will ask us out instead.  I personally find this approach from a woman a refreshing & mature change of pace that will quickly earn a woman my respect.
392688
I am a guy and they try too hard to impress the girl is that he wants to date her but the only way that he could try to date he is by trying hard. They want to be with that girl. Instead of asking her out he would just try hard and if that did not work then he would try even harder. I know this from experience. I have been there and done that. Good Luck. Heres a good question. Why do girls try to hard to get the man of her dreams or want to date him?
915591
So then how old are you?... B/c it's the guys who usually ask the girls out....
711548
Heck no.  In this day and age women DO ask out men they are interested in. Also, if you don't let a man know that you are interested he may be too shy to ask you out.  Let him know how you feel - ask him out. But you have to understand that in asking a man out you may face disappointment if he says no.  If that happens just accept it and move on.
76230
Yes, actually it is quite normal and very common. In society today, the pressure has been placed mostly on the male to spark up a new relationship. Don't get me wrong, though, there are those groups of girls who are bold and outgoing enough to ask the guy out themselves, but they are too few and far apart.\n\nNo, you need nothing to worry about. Find your center of courage, be yourself, and believe that you are the best thing that has happened to her all day. If she shoots you down, then remember the old cliche, "There are many other fish in the sea." Oh, but if she says yes.....
963512
Same with guys.A guy I worked with flirted like hell with me,then I asked him if you would like to go out with me sometime and he didn't even answer me,after that he wouldn't say one word to me or even look at me.But I am very glad he didn't say yes because I might be with that p*ssy,instead of with my boyfriend that I love.So things work out for a reason.
13340
He could be trying to say no in a nice way.  (Sorry!!!)  I had the same thing happen to me.  I asked a guy out and he said we would...sometime.  Next thing I know, he's "kinda got a girlfriend".\nGuys are jerks when they try to be nice.