Why is it that every women I'm attracted to or have feelings for turns out to have a significant other?
375633
hummmmmmmmm....women are devious creatures that play games.......sorry
702845
We all have those feelings at one time or another.  We call it lust!  It fades with time...sometimes a lot of time.............-LOL  she must be something!
1063000
You know, it is funny that you mention this because a friend of mine was telling me the same thing the other day.  I think in her case that it was just a really strong attraction, which really isn't a big thing.  You just cannot act of those feelings being married as you are.  It is normal to find other people attractive and think that they are awesome to be around.  You are married, sweetie, not dead!
249906
Yes. This is a phenomenon that happens to alot of women when they live or work closely together. I am a bi-sexual woman and my partner and I are on the same schedule.
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
1079983
Maybe you are turing off the "desirable women" because you don't want more children and do not have a religous preference. Most attractive ladies like to be loved for their mind too, instead of just their bodies..After all eventually beauty fades...Then you either love a lady for her eternal beauty that she has forever, or you leave her for the next beauty until you see a better "eye candy" to latch on too. Maybe it is not your looks...it could just be you....
424512
I don't think so, maybe attraction is, you can be attracted to more people than you end up loving.  Love is different than attraction but it can certainly include attraction and usually starts off as attraction.
222730
I am very attracted to other women, they are sensual and passionate.  Being with another woman sexually is an incredible experience.  I have only been with one woman but the passion and the emotion that was involved in sex was incredible.  I have never been with a guy that I have felt that way with
483985
It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
463559
coz you feel attraction...then you get interested...
46024
I live with two incredibly gorgeous and endearing women, and not to toot my own horn, but I'm a fairly attractive guy.  We've been friends for the better part of ten years.  Although I admit I fantasize about them every now and again, that doesn't really make them any different than any other attractive females.  I know I'd never want to complicate what we have as friends.
953632
Could be a few things. The obvious answer, as someone so *groan* "eloquently" put it above, is lust. But I'm assuming that, like most humans, you're likely familiar with this feeling, and probably would have recognized it as such.\n\nHaving said that, it could be a deeper attraction. Unless you know the woman well, I hesitate to say that it could be love, but I fell in love with my current girlfriend of 5 months a matter of days after I met her, so these things are certainly possible.
695913
In this life you will meet many women and they will all be very different. \n\nYou will fall in love with a few and be hurt by a few and you may even hurt a few. All women are not the same and this one you are still in love with is not the one for you. \n\nYou will find a woman who will feel the same way as you and this woman will be forgotten. Take comfort in this and keep your eyes open for a better person.
256143
Because ur attracted to the type of woman who is conservative and has future plans.  Try dating outside your comfort zone.  Ask women out that you don't think you'd be attracted to at first.
784282
I think of women all the time. I have this crush on a dear friend with whom I have been friends since we were in school. We never had a relationship but have been there for eachother through many tough times. We had moved apart and after a span of 4 years reconnected at this time things fell into our close selves despite our new lives and situations. We feel a sexual charge when we are together wether it's with company or alone. We both sense it and it kinda shows. We still have never done anything towards or with eachother, although I think that it could and how I would love for it to, I treasure her true friendship more. I do think of her often. We 've had some very intimate situations but were able to keep ourselves in check.
782229
My top fantasy, believe it or not, is just to find a close friend and a hot lover in the same person. For whatever reason everyone I fall for turns out to be only one or the other....
889221
You are attracted to who you are attracte to, you can't force yourself to like someone.  It just happens.  Go with your feelings and date someone because you like the way they look and you like them as a person.