I'm so depress right now,i need your advise guys.?
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I don't know of anybody who didn't feel horrible after breaking up. A bond between two human beings is a valuable, special, particularly fragile link. Why not remember the good times you both had? Here's something else to keep in mind: there was probably a reason you both broke up. Was it something you needed to do? There may be a valid reason. And above all: these things take time. You can't expect to jump out of bed the next morning singing and dancing, but it's also equally unhealthy to obsess all the time your ex-boyfriend and your ended relationship. "If the problem persists, it may be necessary to seek professional help," we hear that all the time, but if the problem lasts longer than you think it should, it's probably a good idea to talk to a psychiatrist. ( A female psychiatrist would more likely have experienced what you're going through.)To occupy your time, you could go out with your friends, donate time to a charity, express your feelings through art or writing... however, and I am not trying to disrespect your feelings by any means, you seem a bit young to be dating. Enjoy life.  You'll have the rest of your life to worry about men and boyfriends. You're young, so why not not spend valuable time, instead of thinking of boys, learn to better yourself? Learn to speak German; learn Karate. You'll empower yourself and your self-esteem will rise. I personally wish you the best of luck.
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i think u r in deep depression.\n\n be positive, disappointment is due to too much of expectations or lack of effort in the right direction.\n\n  just sit calm and assess ur situation, if u r targets r high, try to be realistic, and if they are realistic, change u r approach towards right direction.\n\n try to be happy with what u have. may people doesnot have atleast this much as u, go through this link.\n\nhttp://sonic200.com/others/tuongphan.ht\n\n    always be positive, have faith in GOD, seek medical help if necessary....\n\n all the best
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look in the mirror and realise you are heading for a loveless depressing future...lose weight stop eating you repulse most sane normal guys.do something about it now......
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Nah, don't worry. Did this plenty of times! Hope you feel better soon though
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Not a doctor by any means, but the first thing I would determine is why I was depressed.  The solution depends on that.  Not to be mean, but just because it's V-Day is not a really good answer.  I would think that it might be something deeper.  Just a thought.  In addition, I think that the worst thing you could probably do would be to be alone.  Call up some friends.  Go out and have a good time.  Don't sit at home and pity yourself.  I don't know if this is what you're doing, but if it is, STOP :)
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I would say try to focus on another goal....like exercise or school...just to take your mind off the loneliness.  I recently had my heartbroken...and it was HORRIBLE, I had school to keep me busy and tried to workout, but in the back of my mind I couldn't stop thinking about how much its sucked to be alone.\n\nSo look at yourself in the mirror and just think...GOD I AM GORGEOUS...and put a cute outfit that you have no business wearing..(like something usually reserved for a special occasion.)  Wear crazy earrings and your favorite perfume.  Keep your 23 suitors on hold, thats what guys do, they play the odds...your a woman, you take the pickens and don't settle.\n\nAll these jerks answering your quesiton are terds looking for points most likely....I genuinely hope that you feel better, just because I know how you feel.\n\nGood luck girl, just be confident and strut around like a supermodel...it will make you feel better.
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may be you had a bad day.  we all do sometimes.  do something to make yourself to feel better. listen to a sad song and sing along??  call up a friend and chat chat??   \nno matter what you do, i hope you feel better soon.
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i would just cry. go out somewhere though. have fun and you will soon forget about it.
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I am so sorry.It takes time to heal.Just try to take good care of yourself in the meantime.
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Pray......ask someone to pray with you.........i'll say a prayer for you!\n\nOtherwise.....get together with some positive and uplifting friends.....go do something fun......\n\ndo something good for someone else.......its odd how that will boost your spirits........\n\nsmile at someone!\n\nif it gets too bad.....see your doctor about a possible antidepressant to get you through a slump......or maybe a counselor to help you resolve whatever is making you so unhappy\n\nMay God bless you with His love and happiness!
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im really sorry. its ok to cry. talk to your gramma and make sure she knows you love her. and cry all you want. its natural to feel sad. tell a good friend how you feel, maybe get a pyscologist to help you. just remember that you aren't alone. after all im a total strangerand im helping you. yea and that dguey guy two up from me sucks, don't listen to him.
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If you can't get out of your depression, it may be time for therapy.  Maybe ask your doctor.  Your sadness will stop if you allow yourself to forget about that guy and start being happy with yourself.  Other guys will come along.
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If you feel depressed, talk to someone that you like and trust.  Don't hold it in and feel that you are alone and no one cares.  There are people that care and that person might just be looking to help someone like you.
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you need to sped more time with some of ur friends .. just hang out with them or talk to them\nand please dont listen to those love songs... they will make u feel down\ndo some activity... sports always help
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i'm not heartbroken, but i am disappointed right now. i was gonna attend a piss out with my mate who promised to give me a lift. i was waiting for him since half six, and it was already quarter to eight pm. and some of my mates already in the party were trying to ring me to see if i was still going, but i was already pissed off i didn't feel like going there.\n\nnow, i'm watching my favourite flicks, while answering questions here. makes me feel a lot better. i should be fine tomorrow.\n\ni hope you'll be fine by tomorrow as well. isnt it a comforting thought that youre not alone? we're both feeling disappointed right now, so ye.
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Hi Mitch,\nI'm sorry to hear you are having these feeling at your age. I'm a clinical therapist and work children/adults with many different disorders. I can only go on what you are telling so please bear with me. \nFirst I feel you really need to sit down with your gf and tell her what is going on. If you have plans to marry this women,you can't have any secrets.If you really love this women tell her you have not passed your courses.However, you will take some night classes or finsh online. Getting your education is going to be very important. If you want to be a stay at home dad you better let your gf know,you will have to know her feelings on this matter as well,be honest,open.\n\nYour parents what whats best for you, I'm sure if you tell them you have been overwhelmed and that you feel depressed. They might understand what is going on with you,and get you the help you need.\n\nLast but not least you need to go to see a Dr. to see why you are feeling down.Could be if you get on the right meds you will start to feel better and become your old self. \n\nAlso Mitch, drinking is not going to help you forget your problems,it will only numb it for a while. But tomorrow you will be facing the same thing.\n\nLike I told you sit down maybe take her out to dinner and tell her you have not been feeling well, you not sure why,but you think you should see a Dr. to see if her can help you get yourself together.I will be glad to help you..                                              email is lessnesmonster@yahoo.com\n\nHope to hear from you and God Bless
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I know how you feel, been there and done that. And still am feeling that way. I need friends pretty bad myself and I am a very depression person right now. But it is not worth killing your self over it, I promise you!!!  There are people out there that do love you and care about you. Some people are just really dumb when it comes to being involved with someone and the other person don't realize what they have. You really do need a friend to talk with when you are really down in the dumps. I'm here to listen if you need someone to talk to--who knows--we might be able to help out each other!!!