the guy i hate most invites me out what will i say / do?
367992
just say no.... end of story......\nyou hate him... and chances are a no isn't going to break his heart
259508
for starters you should never really hate anyone.  try to determine why you dislike them - pull them aside and have a private conversation with that person and out line what it is that you do not like about them, once you have stated your points tell them very clearly that you prefer not to continue a relationship (friendship) with them for the previously stated reasons.  be prepared for surprise anger embarrassment as well as a lash back of defense.  stand your ground and move on - there will be more friends and more people that you dont like but atleast this one will know where the two of you stand
101339
Tell him u have another/a boyfriend and u don't like him much :)
1023440
There really is no way to say no nicely.  You need to look out for yourself in this area.  If no is what you want then no is what you need to go after.  If he doesn't want to be friends with you after you say no then it is a REALLY good thing you did say no.  Who needs people that are going to use you like that.  If you say no and he stays with you, maybe later, no will turn into yes.  Stay true to yourself and don't give into pressure.  That will just lead you to misery.
1000194
Stay away.  If you call him here is what he will hear:\n\n"Hi, I know we're all broken up like a million years ago, but I just want you to know that I'm pathetic and can't seem to get over you.\n\nNot minor league pathetic, like I got drunk one night and called you and then regreted it the next day, FULL BLOWN PATHETIC because I planned the whole call and weighed the pros and cons and still voted to trash my dignity".\n\nIn response he will either be rude to you on the phone, or be polite and you will get the totally wong idea just to embarrass yourself more later on.  \n\nNo matter how you feel or why you are calling him, this is what he will hear, then he will tell his girlfirend, and they both will have a good laugh at your expense.  \n\nI just don't think it's realistic to expect any different outcome.
668666
you should tell him the truth face to face but nicely dont just go up to him and say you are ugly leave me alone say some thing nice like im sorry i dont like you as more than a friend anymore but i hope we can be friends
6119
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
1132693
Honey chec him out and if U don't like him so ?
777160
Let him know of what behaviour you find annoying.  Go for a walk alone and/or take some time for just you.
674733
He's trying to get a reaction from you. When he says gross or disrespectful things, tell him, "I don't appreciate you talking to me like that~~you don't even know me" and then ignore him. If he likes you, and that's why, he'll change his tactics. If its just to be annoying, he'll go away.
497101
I don't think you hate him.  \n\nIf you did, you wouldn't give a rats bum about his feelings.\n\nBut - you do want to break up with him, and so you do it honestly.  Tell him, "I don't want to date you anymore.  You are a nice and loving friend however I want different things....."\n\nOr something like that.\n\nI hope it goes well, good luck.
16327
Personally, I'd want to slap him the next time I saw him(don't do that though,seriously), but instead you should make him say he's sorry. If he starts being a jerk, ask him why he went out with you if he thought you were ugly. By the way, I'm sorry he said that to you. That would hurt. I hope you cheer up.
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
181109
kick him in the nuts and ask him why he is ashamed to be seen with you, walk off pissed, don't talk to him for at least a day,( but not more than four), then let him make up to you!! he'll get the idea, break him in right!!
1052505
well the last thing you want to do is declare world war 3 with your neighbors. do you ever find yourself bored? if you do just go over there for a bit. try to get to know her a little better. it couldnt hurt.... and if anything youll find out if you really dislike her. if she is rude the next time you go over there then you need to have the guts to say "you hurt my feelings when you say vnd do things like that. i dont think this will work out unless you ever decide to be nicer to me." shell either get the picture, change, and yoll make a new pal, or she'll still be rude but wont invite you over again.
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
526988
TOTALLY IGNORE HIM!  That will absolutely do it.  He will be pissed at first and bombard you with messages, but DON'T CAVE IN and do NOT respond to him no matter what.  This works, trust me.