Why do people tend to find love when they least expect it?
372037
love will just come in ur life..u can never find it! it will just come unexpectedly! u cant just teach ur heart to love that girl..just let ur heart do his job! and im sure when the time comes that u find it,it`ll be the perfect love in ur life!
19343
Love isn't hard to find but a person who is worthy of your love is.
956452
There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
483712
you are not falling in love.   You are attracted to the familiar.   It is part of the human condition.   The same mechanisms that makes us able to adjust to our environment, no matter how trying or downright awful it may be, actually creates a pseudo-preference for that environment.  That mechanism is stronger in some people than others. it makes them adjust more easily. The people who most easily adjust, to new situations, most easily "fall in love" in their work environment.  It's where they spend the bulk of their time.\n  Whereas, people who are resistant to change rarely fall in love with their work environment.   \n\nGet a life! meet some new people.   Don't try to get your S__ and your check in the same place.
186816
It's better to love yourself first...\n\nPeople are always searching for their fulfillment, outside of themselves. The only way to really be in a loving relationship is to love yourself unconditionally and be self-sufficient and complete. \n\nOtherwise people enter into a relationship with the idea that the other person is going to complete them in some way - make them whole. This is why people get hurt in relationships. Because their happiness is dependent on the other person. People give up on love because they are looking for it outside of themselves and expecting that someone else is going to come along and give them what they are missing. Most never find someone that can meet their high expectations. When they are in a relationship they are trying to control or change the other person to make them more of what they expect... not realizing that what they are looking for can be found inside themselves.\n\nWhen you love yourself and are complete, then you can be with someone and allow them to be themselves, have their freedom, without feeling the need to control or change them. You will also be able to cope with a break up and move into a new relationship without dragging in all the old baggage.\n\nAlso... we never learn to walk until we are willing to fall. You cannot succeed unless you are willing to fail. You cannot receive love if you are too afraid to open your heart. \n\nKey to relationships:  \nThe Law of Attraction\nBE who you want... and you will attract them. You can only attract what you are.
791791
Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
10767
Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
687207
love is something, that you can't force to find. one day it will just find you. its a feeling, that nobody can really describe, your heart starts beating when you see the man, your hands get wet, when you see him and little butterflies are flying around in your stomach. you can't love a man, just because you must or want to. one day you will meet him and know, that's the one! and then you have to hope, that he has the same feelings for you. the magic to find love is to be patient. just when you don't expect it and don't look for it, it's there.\ni wish you good luck and lots of love in your life.
394308
its a natural instinct to want to love/lust someone and since there are so many people that you have to use your hearts judgment ,and as you said, test the waters a bit seeking that one of your preference.
749595
I would prefer having the love of your life because money is relative. There are tons of poor people who seem to more happy than people with loads of personal possessions. It seems like they found love and somehow they survive relying on the strength of each other.
242418
It happens when it is meant to be.  I am sure that you will find it, just be patient and it usually comes when you are least expected.  I am telling you all these from real life experience and I do have a true love in my life!
145441
because some people have someone and if you don't its a day to find someone you may like
603462
Because as humans, sir, we all want what we can't have.  Some of us look for love, not based on looks, but based on heart, intelligence, strength (of mind, not body), and honesty.  \n\nThose are real people, not ones who just want a trophy on their arms.  It's sad, but I think true love is going the way of the 8-track...history.
997201
I think most people love someone more then themselves. If they dontthen they are missing an important part of life.
647038
It may not necessarily be about insecurity, sometimes sex is withheld as a means to get more romance or love.
341170
I feel the same way sometimes and have an interest in know who you are but it is prudent not to rush love, it will come, and when it finds you you'd remain happy.\nNever be desperate for love, you'll sell yourself short.
595124
Yes you will find someone of your expectations. Do not be disenchanted about love, for it is as perenial as the grass.