Ive got friends.we already together 2 years but her boyfriends will come so what should I do?
372424
Hi! Simple treat them as your friends... Why you have a fear in mind? If she knows you & your strengths... she will treat her friends as just good friends... and will remain forever for you.... in whichever way... you wish to continue the relation....\n\nJust in case... the situation changes... and your other girl friends comes to see you.... what you expect yr current friend to do?\n\nPut the ball in your court & address.... you will only find HAPPINESS...\n\nEnjoy your relation.
113498
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.
942421
You guys need to grow up, if he is going out with her then don't bother them.  But you can still be friends with her.
751971
wow girl you have some problems.. those guys are going out with your friends, if you do make your move on them you'll prove to them exactly how loyal you are. and you just can't do that shyt to a friend, if you really do think of them as your friends. \n\nand if they ever do break up you should talk to your friend first before making your move on her ex. \n\nit's just a unwritten rule that you don't go out with your friends' boyfriends/exes. unless you really do want the drama.
702284
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.\nI think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
840608
is this boyfriend by chance jealous of your friendship with her ? it is possible he may have made something up so he could have her to himself...\nI would let her know that best friends are there even when boyfriends come and go, tell her you care about her and how important it is to trust each other.\nLet her also know you have no interest in hanging out with her boyfriend and u would be even more happy to just meet her in town at the mall or coffee shop.\nI too have recently suffered the same fate with my best friend too.\nFortunately we have made it through stronger than ever she has been dealing with a very possessive boyfriend that she is getting ready to leave now.\ngood luck..
401094
Make her learn her lesson, friends are for life and they wouldn't lie to you so she should've listened to you. If you go back she is going to run to you everytime something goes wrong and when a new guy comes into the scene bye,bye to you. You are just setting yourself up to get hurt and seriously used.
70666
aww how seet you sound like you have a good heart, but if she has a boyfriend then i'm sorry to say but u probably need to let her go, i know it hurts now and it will hurt for a while, but u never know they might have a problem and decide to break up, but for right now it doesn't look like it's going to happen u have a life to live live it to the fullest each day and u and her could be friends.. if u can't have her as a girlfriend u  can atleast have her as a good friend.. other girls will be out there, they may not be like her but i know they will like u and learn to love the person u are...
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
53809
Be angry with her.  I would consider her "not a friend" now.  Does she know you're dating this guy?  She can't find a nice man for herself?
663347
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
674719
Ha...well, there's no such thing as "kinda going out" with someone, she either is or isn't going out with them (but you knew that). \n\nAnyways, since you're good friends, you don't want to ruin the relatioship by putting her in an uncomfortable situation and make her choose between you and her boyfriend, so don't. Either wait for her boyfriend and her to break up, or move on. \n\nAnd please remember, don't make your move too quickly after the breakup, or it'll look like you're taking advantage of her vulnerability, which is most definitely NOT good for your chances with her.
206979
you have tons of time, just stay friend with her and make a move when they break up!
1038344
I don't think she'll wait on you....college is one big party, and it's a time in your life for self discovery and adventure, and you two are so young anyway, you should both just go your seperate ways for now, and if it's mean to be, it will be, just stay in touch and stay "friends" and it will all work out in the end if it's suppose to. Who know's you may find someone else you're more interested in after two years!
220964
She should take to him as a friend, just hang out see his view of the relationship first and how it progress and if the 2 of your are really compatible and get along.Just breeze and it'll come to you.
658694
Are you raving MAD???????? Give me one reason why she would like you as a BOYfriend man! Wake up! She has girl friends to do all this stuff! And maybe a brother too! You are being 'Sweet'! Thats what girlfriends of either sex do! I am not saying dont do all these things or that be a 'Bad' boy. But, what you are trying to do is, buy her with gifts and help. You should try to be yourself with her. Dont try too hard to make her like you. Give her some space to like you. People realise they have fallen in love when they know they are missing someone. You need to give her time and space to miss you. Be more like a boyfriend than a friend who is a boy... Best of luck dear!:)
358723
aren't you supposed to like your friends?\nnow if you were thinking of as a girlfriend - tell her you have guy friends already