why do men think its okay to go out with there friends and do what ever?
373367
how do u make his day    lets see if your going to be alone when he gets back surprise him by jumping on him when he walks in the door if you 2 are sexually active  shit that would make my day everyday I'm sure it would make every Male's day if the girlfriend/wife did that all the time lol
529355
guys come and go, friends are forever.\n\n;)
366250
it'a not good when you do that to men, because you come across the wrong way. You can't do that, all your doing it leading them one and that not right!!! Ask yourself if you would like that if a guy did that to you??
676731
Go out and have a good time with your friends.
623796
The same reasons women do.  \n\nthe "game"...is all about having your cake and eating it too.\n\nAlot of people play mind games, such as leading someone on when they know they are not going to be faithful or to get something out of the relationship they would not have initially gotten.\n\nNo one really wants to be alone and men in general are more commitment-phobic then women so they are more likely to have a couple girls stung along until they find "something better."
1128756
Find activities that you enjoy where men are involved... sports, book readings, whatever.  Group activities are the best way to meet people with similar interests and thus to base a relationship from.
984414
Guys sometimes go with girls who are nasty because they are easy... so he won't have to work too hard to get her and he doesn't have to date her or anything, so it's just like easy and free sex. \n\nI don't know why they go with your best friends... maybe your friends are slutty or the guy really likes them because they are great girls.
444846
No, your not wrong.  A guy deserves to have his friends, and your not going to like a lot of them, but he needs to also respect you and how you feel.  It seems to me that since you work on weekends there is obviously time for him and his friend to hang out, and that it shouldn't be a big deal to send the friend home once you get off work so that the two of you can spend time together.  A marriage is about compromise and committing to what is important.  In this case what is important should be you and the compromise should be a little less time spend hanging out with his friend.  Doesn't seem like a lot to ask keep the marriage going.
941493
Your hurt is very understandable.You can't allways know what the other person is doing in a relationship and this is where trust comes in.We all want to trust someone and not have to think about what may happen if they do go astray.Not all men are this way.Some of us would love to meet someone that feels the same way and would respect a bond between 2 people.Maybe you are attracting this type of person.Look at where you have met these men and see if there is any connection as to the locations.I'm not suggesting that you hang out in the wrong places but maybe the men you meet are there for the purpose of finding women.Just a thought.
897927
guys always think that its impossible to be friends w. out sex..i mean hello..women are able to just be friends
148486
been there done that, yes, no matter what u do, men still have their own mind set, if u think this guy isnt right for u just move on, even if u want to be friends he wouldnt want it to b friends he would always want more, that's what happened to me, so i just ended it all!!
428801
By "girl friends" I assume you mean friendship & not dating. That being said, I ask you why they shouldn't? Some of my best friends are of the opposite sex. If those friendships are open enough, it can be invaluable to get answers from a woman concerning questions about what a woman really meant by this or how she might feel about that.\n\nThere's no reason for people to only be friends with other people of their own gender.
1007052
Guys know that if they just say they want to hang out and have fun, that most girls will not have sex with them. They don't want to get serious so, they pretend that they care and know they don't. Honesty is not something most guys can handle themselves.
287087
yall should go out. But not if you're not suppose to have a boyfriend or you already have a boyfriend or he already has a girlfriend. Just make sure both of yall are available to do what ever without any problems!
774871
there is nothing wrong or bad with being company by boys. Most of my friends are boys too but as long as you guys don't do anything wrong or bad then everything is fined!
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
183919
if you ask me its better that they do that.. that way you have your own time, being together to much can cause them to push themselves away, getting the feeling they are controled or smuthered.. him wanting to hang out with his friends sometimes just makes him have his time to think and be a guy, cause seriously what guy like sitting around watching chick flixs and going shopping and all the stuff that we do 24/7?? besides gay men, i cant really think of any. it doesnt mean that he dont like/love you any less just means he needs is space sometimes, so take advantage of it and get some girl time in with your friends!