My husband brought home a girl last night and I had to sleep on the couch...?
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It happens, It just happens
725138
That actually happened with me about 10 yrs ago with my first husband except she was not my best friend, she was a crank whore. I freaked out and tried like hell to hurt both of them. Another friend of mine was there and another friend of his was there and so they prevented me from doing too much damage at that moment. I don't recall a lot about that night. I just know that for like the following 3 months I cried myself to sleep everynight. That was one of the darkest times of my life. He ended up getting her pregnant. Our child was only a few months old at the time.\n...Anyway, I'm in a much better place now. Thank God.
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Don't take it to heart.. I don't have a website, but I am a mother of a 2 year old, and a 3 month old... Being a mother is HARD WORK...as I'm sure you know.. And feeling sexy is the last thing on one's mind. When she lay's her head on the pillow, I'm almost positive that she is asleep 2 minutes later.. Things will get easier, and she will go back to her sexual self, but until then, just let her be, because you if you put too much pressure on her, she will just treat it as a chore.. You may want to try to get a sitter for the evening, and take her out.. Dressing up is not so much fun either but once the clothes and makeup are on, she will feel much better. You don't have to spend any money, just go for make dinner and go the beach, or park or somewhere, even your back yard and eat together. Get a bottle of wine to help her relax, and just have fun. No talking about money, kids, work.. ect.. I promise, this is a sure thing!
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Well, it's only been 2 months. Unfortunately you can't just wake up out of your nightmare and wish it to be over.  For starts he can quit coming over and telling you that he had sex w/ other people and basically rubbing that in your face. He can also quit telling you he loves you. You obviously broke up for some refined reason (unknown).  If he loved you then he wouldn't be sleeping w/ someone else now would he? I think that you two should stay apart for awhile. There's nothing wrong w/ remaining friends, however, if your trying to move and maintain a healtly lifestyle then he needs to quit.  Simply speak to him and tell him that it's best if he quits coming around for awhile b/c your having a tough time dealing w/ this situation. That you don't feel it's right him coming over and telling you he loves you then hearing that he slept w/ someone else. If you loved me then you wouldn't be sleeping w/ other people. I think it's fine if we remain friends, but I need time. I wouldn't recommend burning or doing anything to the pictures. (memories of good times) the wedding dress yea, you could probably sell it. The ring ahh, well, if you have a daughter or have one in the furture you could always give it to her to wear. (or just pawn it) I wish you the ever most luck. As for strength from God to overcome such a hurtful relationship and for the strength and wisdom to know that "slicing body parts off is wrong" (see made you smile) Good Luck! Here if you need a friend.
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Lol, you're funny. I assume you are at the stage where you can't take her crying any longer right? you want to sleep.
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First off, don't go seeking comfort from anyone else.  Nothing can ruin a marriage quicker than you deciding your lonely and doing something you regret.  Instead focus on doing things around the house that you normally don't get around to so that you can surprise her when she gets home.
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well, i have a MUCH higher sex drive than my ex fiancee, so often times i used to just let her go to sleep after she didnt want to have sex.  Then i'd pull her nightie open so i could see her breasts, rear, and p*ssy and rake one out right there.  Usually, though, she'd wake up at odd hours of the night soaking wet down there and wake me up riding me.
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It could very well be that your daughter is sleeping with a man with her children around.\n\nA father thinks daughters should be angels.  Unfortunately we are not.  I think if you give it time, your hubby will come around.  I am sure he values his time with the grandchildren and will do nothing to alienate the daughter.\n\nJust give it time, and hubby space to deal with it.  And it is a bad idea for her to be sleeping with a man with her children's knowledge.  If the relationship does not work out, is she going to date another guy and let him sleep in home and get to know the children also?
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you are pretty selfish, i must say. let's pretend you're her and she's you, she's out drinking and doing whatever she wants, while you're at home all day long taking care of your daughter and worrying like mad? wouldn't you be kinda pissed too? \nshe's a human, you know? think about her too. her bf's drinking like hell outside not taking any responsibilities at all. raising a daughter all by herslf and she still has to worry about you. if you know that all you can take care of is yourself? you're a father now, will you act like one? gees, how can you have a daughter when you're still like an immature boy yourself? and then giving all this extra work to your gf? no wonder she's mad. and the answer to your question is YES! do you even need to ask?\ntelling her you love her is one thing but if thats it and you always cause her extra trouble, then of course the 3 words will start to lose its power. she's a woman. when she's tired, she needs a shoulder to lean her head on. when she feels lonely, she needs gentle yet strong arms to hug her and tell her you'll be by her side forever. when she needs comfort, she wants you to be by her side to comfort her. when she's about to fall, you should be there to catch her and help her stand back up. no matter how strong a woman is, there's a weak side to her. she needs to feel loved and cared for. these are ways to show her you love her. on the weekends, take her out to eat or stay at home and cook for her. let her rest for a while. then take her out to the movies or shopping. after dinner, take a stroll down the park. surprise her with her favorite flowers and chocolates or something that she likes every once in a while. let her go out with her friends while you stay at home taking care of your daughter and cleaning the house. it serously won't cost you that much but it'll make her realize that you do care about her. \ni recommend you first try to stop your addiction for alcohol. i'm not saying at once, little by little. if you want to show her you love her, start by stop drinking. its bad for your own body too. \ni hope these suggestions help. before she really loses faith in you and leaves you, win her back!
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go back to one of your houses and continue the party. Have a girls night out and just hang out and have fun. And that way if you ladies get too drunk you can fall asleep and not have to worry about driving home drunk and then you can get as wasted as you want and have no worries.
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wanting to go home and sleep with my girl..=P
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You should be more careful who you take to a bedroom. If she is pregnant, and your the father, you should take care of him/her.
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Wow... do you have a clone?   :)\n\nYes, helping around the house is something you should be doing anyway, and it keeps her from being overly tired and more likely to put out, so you get your 'reward' in the end.
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Funny you ask this, someone else asked me the same thing today.\nI guess I didn't but in my defense, my husband and I switched sides of the bed last night.  He said he liked my side better.  I'm not too sure about this.  I'll give it another shot tonight.  Ask me again tomorrow.
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your husband sounds like a loser\ni think you need to leave him for someone who will come home to you
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It may be depression.  I used to think my husband was lazy because all he did was sleep and lay on the couch.  He was depressed.  I didn't understand until I started going through a major depression about 10 months ago.  In my case anti-depressants has helped a lot.
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I read your question and it is EXACTLY what I went through when my husband was deployed just a WEEK after our son was born... and as I write this he is in the Mojave Desert training for the next deployment later this year. I know just how you feel... I was so exhausted from being the only one to care for my son (kudos to ANY single parent out there by the way) and I thought that I could get stuff done when he slept... But I was so tired that I also ended up watching tv or browsing on the computer... So, one day I just went out and bought a set of windsor pilates cause my back was killing me. I made a routine for myself: I got up at least an hour before my son's first morning feeding and did a workout from the pilates thing. I then took a timed shower and then tended to the baby for pretty much the rest of the day. I had a place on the dinner table and a smaller table in the living room where I'd have daily/ weekly checklists of what I wanted to do in that time period. (I even had to put "Eat breakfast and lunch" in there cause I'd forget to sometimes, because of the baby). Anyway, see what happens the first couple of days or so and the next week try to break the previous record. You'll still be caring for baby but you'll be keeping yourself busy when he's settled for a bit so you can manage your time better when you get a chance. I had lots of family around but they were always so busy and I felt guilty asking for help. Oh, so anyway, I'd make it a point to be in bed by 8:30pm but no later than 9:00pm. It's sounds lame but I used to do this in college and I felt awesome the next day, even though I woke up at 5am sharp. Sometimes I'd just lay there with my eyes open. Eventually, my body realized it needed rest and adjusted to the schedule. I was so refreshed the following morning and thanks to the mini workout I squeezed in the mornings, my aches and pains from stress and exhaustion were gone. It doesn't seem like much, but you definitely need to take care of yourself in any little way you can. Take up a small hobby, project, or indulge yourself a little and put it in your checklist. I hope my weird regimen doesn't seem too lame... lol... it worked for me and kept me "sane" while my husband was gone. I'm still on it for the most part, but now that our son is 19 months it's a little easier to get things done. Best wishes to you and your son and husband; Good Luck!!! ...now get some sleep woman!!!