How long should you be in a relationship before you have sex?
369466
when you feel like you can trust each other!when you really like each and can't live without each other
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
185620
It would be best to wait until you are married.  Then you will have that perfect connection with the man you love and who loves you.  The man who truly loves you would be willing to wait.  Also a man's feelings develop deeper before having sex.  So waiting until you are married gives the man time to develop stronger feelings for you.  Finally, you want to have a spouse who you can do more than have sex with, so waiting until you are married will be a good way to make sure that you and your spouse connect in more than the physical.
80852
foreplay is a must. i'm not saying you have to do it for an hour but i think atleast 2-3 minutes is needed
717840
It depends on the woman.  Personally, I've been with my bfriend for 5 years (it'll be 5 years on May 15th) and our sex lives are the same like it was when we first started dating.
764993
It depends on how much later.\n\nThe couple should be married in the Church before enjoying conjugal bliss (having sex).\n\nWith love in Christ.
250162
Time will tell.  You could be with someone for one day and think you know them.  Try to be with them for a year or two and you'll get a better sense of that person.  If this has something to do with fornicating, I believe you should at least wait a few months from when you started dating to see if he meets your expectations.\n\nHere's a thing about sex and timing - you could be with the perfect person but if you have sex too soon, you might ruin what could be there.  Trust me, it happens.
660520
depends how long you have been dating, how old, is there lots of sex, etc.  \nIf out of high school more often, if dating for awhile more often.  2-4 for first couple months 5-7 after a few months
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
1100082
Depends on how long we've been together. But personally, I won't be in a relationship where we are not intimate. I'm not saying that she has to sleep with me right away, but if we do get into a relationship and consider ourselves monogamous and are boyfriend/girlfriend I want to be intimate with the one I'm with. But the difference here is that I am old enough to be in that kind of relationship. I don't know how old you are, but based on most of the posts here, the majority of people are under aged and should not be worrying about having sex with their partner. Wait til you are old enough to make wiser decisions before involving yourself in a intimate relationships.
185048
Yes 15 is to young to have sex, if you don't have the believe that marriage comes before sex then you should at least wait until you are really really ready and know about all the consequences and how to protect yourself, and most importantly wait till you are in love with the one you are with.
1136866
Its whenever you are comfortable enough to do so, and where your values stand.  My now fiance and I moved in with eachother after only two months of dating.  Some people think that you should not live with eachother until you get married...I disagree...
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
4578
you should wait until you are married if that is what you want. chances are if a guy has sex with you now he probably might only want sex. If a guy really loves you and repects you he will also wait until you are married.
1131921
it's probably very normal at the beginning of a relationship, but I think after a time you need to do other things.  Every relationship needs stimulation, you have to have things to talk about, outings and events, activites outside of the bedroom to build a foundation for a varied and interesting relationship because sooner or later the sex will become less and less and then what are you left with?
767561
I think that people should be in love before they have sex. It is a way to express how you feel about the other person.  Sex without love is just empty. I was in a loveless marriage for years, even though the physical aspect was good, it was not fulfilling emotionally.