Is it right for my girlfriend to complain about my short comings?
366143
I was unaware that our third eye had anything to do with "Depth Perception"....\nIt is more like a cane for the sight-impared.\nHowever, in your case, I would turn her into an orc, or put her on the wrack for insolence.\n\nYour eye is all seeing, oh Lord of Darkness.\nUse the Pilantir... it will add a second dimention.
170121
Yes, you probably have the right to be dissappointed.  Yes, she should have caaled to tell you what was happenng.  Yes, you should do your best to find a new partner for future projects.  No, you should not go around school venting your feelings.
495858
Sounds like a communication problem.  If you want this relationship to survive and grow you two need to sit down and come up with a plan to deal with these issue and any others you have.  Some times people who argue and complain a lot just need to have a set way to communicate those things in a helpful manner instead of the current method which is destructive.
492454
I work in a small office as well sounds to me that she doesn't look at the possitve side of things negativity and whining can spread like wildfire. Just say oh that is too bad and say something cheery. All problems should be unloaded at the front door. Work is work and to perform up to your best ability you have to do that and pick up the problems again at the end of the day. Don't ask how are you just say hi move the convo to t.v or a joke you heard. Isn't a pretty day so forth good luck.
623885
Tell her you'll see her later tonight. IDK, it's not that big a deal. Unless she's super-controlling or something. Don't sweat the small stuff, buddy.
770000
its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
756001
I think you really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your "significant other" on this issue. This may be the time to sort things out before it is too late. She is used to visiting any time she likes and as you know, old habits die hard. You have to be patient and accommodating.
596825
I think maybe you are spoiling her too much and she is taking advantage of it. Set some rules just to see what happens.and if anything maybe you should consider leaving.\nGOOD LUCK!!!
1150650
It's best for you to be a little honest and ask for what you want...you might be ok with it now...but if it keeps up you might get a bit resentful about it. And if you don't tell her, she might not even know! She might think that you are fine the way things are cause you're not saying anything...most important thing I've learned about relationships...gotta ask for what you want...your partner is not a mind reader!
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
330990
Sounds like she want you to take her slack.  She needs to work the overtime.  You did right!!!  She sounds jealous of you.  Just ignore her and keep up the good work!
1132541
I don't think it is too much to ask. If that is where your problems stem from then she will just have to give it up. If she is serious about working things out, she shouldn't mind doing so.
1111642
D*mn,  your girlfriend should be happy! Don't doubt yourself, I wish my boyfriend could endure for so long!! :)
989525
This happened when me and my boyfriend first moved in together.  No one is to blame, you are just getting used to seeing sides of eachother you hadn't before.(you are prob both driving each ohter a little crazy, right? ) And now that you living together its not like you come over for a few hrs and she devotes all her attention to you and then you go home.  You both have to get used to not always being in the center of each others attention.  As for the sex, if you see each other everyday she doesn't have to  worry about the next time she is going to get it.. so it becomes less of a priority....  It will get better in time ..give it a month or 2..... if it doesn't I'd definately bring it up to her.. just dont place any blame... good luck and I hope it works out for you :)
260539
I think if she is that upset over a stupid pair of pants, she's paying more in daily meds for her mental condition! The thing is, clothes get torn, worn, stained, stretched, and faded! Don't let her tell YOU what to do. Tell her that this is not your fault and she should find a way to get over her petty clothes. I have a feeling that this person you speak of maybe a money-poor person and clings to possesions as a way to make own networth greater.
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
1160682
if ur lien 2 ur gurl n yet she doesnt care, that means that she really cares 'bout u.n that a lil wyte lie aint gonna mess up ur relationship...although thats not gonna last 4eva. so start tellin her dah truth, its better than havin a hole in ur relationship...