How do you get back with someone you have just broken up with?
370760
Well first you go back to her... then you beg plead and do anything you can to get her forgiveness...  and last of all. endure many years of having it thrown in your face that you can't be without her and watch her do whatever she feels like becuase she knows you will always take her back...  hmmmm maybe I'm a bit bitter!
881357
depends on the circumstance of your breakup, if it was very painful, or if it were mutual. know that some o f the same problems could arise again if not discussed before. if it was a pleasant time, and all was well, take him back, but if it was a long hard bumpy road, than work out the issues before u take him back.
1032939
there is a reason why you two broke up--it didn't work out.  don't be weak and get back with him just because you're lonely now.  it usually takes at least a few months before you get over someone...so stick it out and start casually dating (not meaning sex) in the mean time.
653811
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.
1098915
Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
73669
I'm so sorry that u had a bad breakup. I'm physic so i no. Well they break up because they have minor differences and disagreements and have no intention of compromise. But what u can do is try to get over him. If he is not coming back, then let him go. They say wen u love someone, there comes a time wen u must let them go, so try to get over him. Start seeing new people and pretty soon, it'll be a thing in the past.
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
325859
Tell him how you feel. Ask him what you think may have gone wrong. Try and make it up to him in small steps. Make it look like you'll do absolutely ANYTHING to get him back. That way, he will know that you love him and he might just get back with ya.
232306
Oh baby.. Ask ur heart.. Is it really possible for u or the other person to b 'friends' after having broken up? U'll find the answer if u ask this to urself honestly..\nI believe that just to make matters uncomplicated and simple u can 'say' him/her that u'll remain friends just so as to console her at the moment.. but i m sure u wont be able to take this friendship to far..as u r aware..a broken heart stings!
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
331346
First analyze what made you break up.  Has enough time passedc for both of you to realize what each of you have done to damage this relationship and make changes to yourselves?  \n\nMaybe she is not aware that you want her back.  Once you have thought long and hard about it, sit her down and tell her how you feel.  Let her know that you repect her dating someone else, but you know you two will be together again and you will wait patiently for her.  This will not only flatter her but also instill doubt in her mind about the person she is with.\n\nAfter that, just be patient and kind to her and treat her with respect and consideration.  Be her friend and listen to her.  Be there for her.  Don't let he take advantage of you, but be the one she can turn to.  Sooner or later she will realize that she loves you still, also.
367246
Tell him you miss him & want him back and you would like to forget the past and move forward with someone you love.
32950
The most important - DON'T PUSH HIM. If you are still in touch, recall from time to time some nice or funny moments you had together, do the things he used to like. Be aware of the reasons why did you break up and try to overcome it. Let him feel that you both can handle it, but be honest and really do that. Good luck!
602550
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....