Is it always their fault. How many people have faults they don't acknowledge and always blame others?
356443
I think everyone has faults they do not acknowledge. No one wants to admit something is their fault. So many people use the victim stance. I.E. Addiction is not the addicts fault the drug dealers, bartenders, spouses, parents fault never theirs. Most times when someone gets arrested they usually blame everyone but themselves. In relationships it is always the partners fault.  It takes two pople to make or break a relationship. Even in my divorce I know there were so many things I did wrong. Things I had control over. Things I allowed to happen.
285954
Insecurity is a good guess. Many of those that try to make themselves seem better than others have real issues with themselves. They can not ever believe someone can do something better than them, make more money, etc. What they do is right and what everyone else does is wrong. Unfortunately I  know many many people like that. I have learned to tune them out of my life as much as possible and when I can't I do my best to keep my mouth shut. It really is a shame because I know some that are worse than those they are knocking and it makes me so ill at heart to see a loved one get hurt that way
1147089
No i havent, ive been screwed over by others.  \n\ni think its in someones personality. They have the idea that they deserve more than others, for no real good reason. And they dont feel they need to work for it either.  Alot of it stems from jealousy and ignorance. \n\nA jealous personality is very hard to deal with.  They are easily distracted from the truth of a situation when their jealousy kicks in. And they do anything to fullfil the needs they think they have. \n\nI actually feel bad for those people like that. It kinda pathetic. \n\nAnd as for how they feel. I dont think they feel bad. If they did they wouldnt do it.  They justify everything in their own mind as to why they do something. Whether that justification is true or unfounded, doesnt really matter. Its the idea that they THINK they deserve the outcome no matter how they get it...\n\n\nSAD ISNT IT
1017845
Not by people I consider idiots. I shrug it off pr if they carry on I tell them straight and go for the weak points.....because they just deserve it. Sometimes enough is enough.\nSeems those days I get offended more on other people behalfs' who are not able to defend themselves properly.
630653
Fair enough question. Cause we aren't perfect and despite good motives we get things wrong. I am sorry if we bruised you unfortunately we do get thing wrong sometimes.
629906
I think sometimes good people are good because bad stuff happens to them. I am one of those people. At times, I think I may be the unluckiest person in the world, however, I've learned some awesome lessons in every one of them. It doesn't get me down, I keep a positive attitude. Don't get me wrong though, it does suck.
807613
ALL people are selfish but to different extents\n\nif somebody let you down it doesn't mean you should completely stop trusting people - just be more careful who you trust next time
856313
hahahahaa... yeah\n\nI always ended up getting the blame anyways
328595
The other answers have hit it on the head. We all are experts in the blame game.\n\nWhat ever happened to sh*t happens. Bad things just sometimes happen.\n\nErvey one is very quick to claim the goodthings that just happen.\n\nIf it its good it's a miracle if it is bad it is someone else fault.
816437
Yeah.  Fortunately for me, I never lose sleep over folks like that...they usually tell on themselves over a bit of time.  People discover how mean they are and then drop them like a bad habit.  It's their problem, not yours, so don't worry about it.  Time has a way of righting all the wrongs.
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For some, admitting they're wrong makes them feel inferior.  If they only understood that admitting when they're  wrong indicates strong personal character they may view it differently.\n\nSome people just like to be right all of the time.  Again, it's a personal problem.  Insecure?  Feeling of inferiority?  Only that person can honestly answer that.  However, if they never admit they're wrong it's not likely they'll explain why.
515694
I'm an oldest child too. We do get blamed most of the time. Welcome to life. Anyway, remember the advantages we do have that the others behind us do not. And even though we have a bunch of extra responsibility, it's because our parents not only need us, but count on and rely on us. It's all in how you look at it. That is what I have learned now that I am grown, and have 3 kids of my own. This is what I tell my eldest daughter. I think she has actually come to understand. And as far as you always being blamed.....remember guilty until PROVEN innocent. Gather evidence next time and confront the issue with proof!
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its not just the mentally ill. people do that to everyone. my son had a heart defect, people tried to blame us. when kids are bad the parents get the blame. when kids are fat parents get the blame. when a kid steals a car someone is going to blame the parents. \n  people have the need to do that to take the focus off themselves. anything that makes them feel like their life really isnt so pathetic is an excuse to do something even if making the comment is wrong. no one should judge, its not our job. just smile and remember... those who do things like that have to answer to a higher authority eventually.
1002899
Exactly, we have become a nation of people who think everything is someone else's fault, especially if it gets us some money. Obviously not everyone falls into this category but far too many do. I think it started with the court system blaming "a bad childhood" for some 18 year old killing some poor dude minding his own business. People know what's right and wrong and they need to have guts enough to admit when they screw up. Okay off the soap box.
253255
Sure - anyone who says they've never done this is likely lying.  It's natural to gravitate toward what is familiar.  Some people obviously bring it a lot farther than others.  I can't really say I'm ashamed of it, but I try to stay aware of my responses to avoid offending others.  I judge people all the time, not just on race or nationality though; I make judgements about people by the way they look, act, speak, etc.
991992
NOPE..\nmorever it depends on your thinking.. people sometimes commit heinous crimes and inside their mind justify the act and never blame there self or conciousness.\nand there are some people who have made a small mistake spend their entire life worrying and fretting..\n\ni don't think that i have committed any serious mistake which has greatly hurt some one.. \namends can be made for all mistakes except rape and murder which are irreversible..
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I dont know it seems as though some people no matter who they are think of other people as something different.  No one seems to take the time anymore to think about how others live and I think thats what you are getting at?