my husband and i broke up 3 1/2 months ago he found someone already.. what should i do??
364354
If he has already moved on then you just have to accept it and reorganize your life..you cannot put your life on hold waiting for him to come back... Don't dwell on him, he left you and gave up on your marriage, he is not worth it, even if he comes back this time, believe me, he will do it again, so move on and concentrate on bringing up your kids and finding a man who deserves you...
654593
I would still care too but you do just have to move on he is just playin u while he is in another womans bed and that aint right you just got to give him that divorce and move on he is the one commiting adultry not u sweetie.. i knwo it will be hard but u have to do whats best for u all he is doing is hurting u but not letting u go.. its hurting ur soul and heart. I know how a hard it will be for u but it will be for the best
514133
I'm sorry your heart is broken.  Break up with him, and thank goodness that you found out now instead of later.  Your heart will heal with time.  Take that time to heal and move on.  You'll find somebody new.
1074737
I agree that you make a list of reasons you broke up and go back to read it when you need to. Just make sure he doesn't find it.\nGood luck.
778492
Give it a lil more time if u still fell that way and things r still not going well with your husband then u need 2 take some time 2 yourself. then if u feel free and up 2 it try and c if things will work between u and your ex, but b careful. \n\nGood Lcuk!!
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
891210
Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
97505
Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
138916
You probably will not be over him completely until you are involved with another man.  There is, as you know, a man-shaped space inside your . . . heart . . . that you need to fill.  Choose wisely this time, and you won't have to go through this again.
886569
leave him alone, and move on with your life, if you waste time with him, who left you for someone else, you will not have time tor the good man to come into your life. You have feelings for him and he knows this and wants to take advantage of this and have his cake and eat it to. He is a looser leave him where you left him and keep moving forward in your life. Concentrate on the positive in your life, he left you and probably did you a big favor, you will see this soon. good luck and God bless*****************
662836
Get over him. He obviously has no respect for women or himself. He strung you along while he was out looking for something more convenient. Now he's with a married woman, he does not want a commitment.
443691
Give him a chance.  If you think later that you dont think he is right, then breakup.  I wish the people I asked out would...
622239
I think you need to find another job.  He took advantage of you, and he is a user.  You need to move on and not think about him anymore.  He isn't available to you no matter what he says about him and his wife.  He hasn't left her and he isn't going to, that's what people like that do.
494212
Get over him. Since you broke up with him you should try to stick to your decision. Don't feel like he is the last guy on Earth.
56368
If this guy hasn't cam around in over two years he has no interest - best to work on what you can do for yourself and the baby.  You would have better odds finding someone new and better for your family life.
1027002
Find someonelse to get him out of your system. \nMen try to be polite and say sweet things to ease you but then women read this compassionate talk as false hope. Honey, it's all BS because is OVER and is been over since August last year.\n\nIf he wanted to be back he would already been back.\nFind some new friends, go to a divorce support group to be able to vent your pain and share experiences with people that have been thru the same. If you keep on holding on you will continue suffering. Realize once and for all that he is not coming back, come one. you are DIVORCED and you don;t have to keep on holding on the candles waiting for him to make his heroic return. Noone is going to give you a medal for being a marthyr...so go out and have fun, you are a newly single gal. He is out ther having fun, so why are you crying at home?\n\nLet go and move on\n\nGood luck.