is there a way to see when someone else is talking to somebody else when i'm talking to that person?
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yes there is but your question is kind of confusing..
1063212
u can use rediffbol,msn messenger, or u can join any friends making website that can also help u for chatting with another
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if you are using yahoo messenger with voice, click the button that has the ! in a speak bubble, or double click on the persons name if they are in your buddy list.
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ask them!  if they are a friend they will tell you
1127841
It sounds like you've been chatting with the wrong people.
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Who are you talking to??  Yourself, again?
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Yes. Right click the persons name and select view message history or similar.
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Read the log generated by your Shoutcast DNAS server. You can see when someone attaches to your feed.
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You should know. You sound like you know. You just want to hear it from someone else, right?
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I don't believe it is possible with AIM. But a number of the third-party IM clients do let you display prior conversations.   Personally I use Trillian, but I hear there are other good ones, too.
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I can't say that it really matters, often I speak to the person who speaks to me first. If I speak first, I first smile and hallo the person on the right, then immediately the left, if he or she is not already engaged.
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Once in a while, then it goes away, after I talk to someone...who could that be?
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Not that I am aware of, but I'm sure it happens. I don't talk with people enough to be able to know when it is going on.
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I know GAIM tells you if the other person has you on their list..... but I don't think it can tell you everyone... unless you have added them as well.
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to send a pm, just click on the name of the person.. then you get a new conversation window, all what you talk there it's considered as private and cannot be seen by others rather than you and the person with who you're talking
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No; but when you edit, you can make reference to that person's name, so people know which other answer you're referring to...
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You can chat with multiple people using MSN. Here are teh steps\nStart a chat session with one. While you are in this chat window, click on "Actions" Menu and choose "Invite a contact to Join this conversation". You will see a list of your MSN messenger friends, whom you can invite to join the current conversation. \nHope this is what you are looking for.\nUnfortunately, the current version of MSN Messenger does not allow for VOICE conversation with multiple people. If this is what you are looking for, Yahoo Messenger offers such a service and the new Messenger may come out with this feature.