Why sexual relations with close ones are not regarded?
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I suspect what you're asking is why are sexual relations with close biological relatives proscribed.  From a health standpoint, the liklihood of birth defects from such union is quite a bit higher than if people only copulate with others who are not closely related.  That risk grows with each generation that accepts sex among closely-related people.  It's why it's illegal to marry your sister, your aunt, your niece or your first cousin.  The sorts of birth defects include both physical and mental shortcomings, and are often severe.
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Yes, it bothers me too!  My guess is because society thinks of sex as sensual, which it typically is, they've reversed the definition to say that sensuality is sexual, which it CAN be but doesn't HAVE to be.  \n\nGood question.  :)
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One reason, I believe, is that the appetite for sex seems so overwhelming in gay males.  (Have no idea what the lesbian focus on sex is.) If you are new to the scene, and are exploring and trying to figure things out, this inordinate focus on sex makes things extremely difficult.  Just regular socializing without the intent to "hook-up" is nearly impossible.  Everyone seems to have an angle ending in a sexual situation.  Sheesh.
57787
Some people aren't natually affectionate.  Everyone is different.\n\nWithout any more specifics, I can't help you.
295868
Its is common knowledge that when there is an object just beyond your reach you pine for it more than ever.Unfourtunately, humans are programmed to mate, although most of us are praticing monagamy, there are still those who are more in tune with their primal roots. Sexual attraction is a very strong feeling and some of us cannot tell the difference between Love and Lust.
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Personally, I think it's because most people are thinking with the wrong "head". There's too much emphasis on sex these days, not enough on the important things. I know what you mean though, I haven't found anyone myself that doesn't run at the mere idea of a commitment of any sort.
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one not involving sexual relations
855842
Being sexually attracted to someone just means that you just for them. It's like when you see a women from a distance, and it causes you to get a hard on with out her having to do anything to you or for you. It's kinda like you can imagine what she would be like in bed before you even get to the stages of her possibly rejecting you once you have approached her. It can be all that I just said that makes you want to approach her in the first place, and no this was not a stupid question.
853670
Maybe because some people do not think about nothing but sex all the time...
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What does their sexual orintation have to do with them as people?
22820
Sex is an important part of a relationship, but not of EVERY relationship. I have a loving relationship with my Grandma, but sex somehow hasn't entered into it.
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I think eventually one of the "friends" is going to develop stronger feelings if they haven't already and are just acting like they don't.  It is hard to be intimate with someone without romantic attachments....maybe not at first but in the end.
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That's not weird at all if you stop to think about it. Most of us have all experienced strong feelings for those that are in some way related to friends of our's. We can only hope that our friends sponsor our actions, and understand that love doesn't revolve around avoiding relatives of friends. So, like the cousin and let it be known that normal is related. lol  Good luck!!
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For some it is a sign that they wish they had a really loving relationship, as sex was meant to be shared in a special bond of mature intimacy. Don't go thro great guilt because of the fact you do, I am trying to answer your question truthfully and with sensitivity. It is a brave question. sc.
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You're probably clinging because people do that when they're stressed (I can certainly relate).  Also, you can feel in love with someone -- even in the romantic sense -- without being sexually attracted to them.  If you've never met this woman before, you can't know whether the two of you would have any sexual chemistry together -- you can't know that until you meet in person.
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Some people don't hold sex in very high esteem, and think it is just a bit of fun. Why deny yourself a bit of (free!) fun?\nBy the time most people are mature enough to realise how special sex is, it is usually too late.
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It's easy to make emotional connections with people you're close to, regardless of your usual sexual preferences.  If I were you, I'd enjoy the happiness that being with her brings, and try not to worry about it.