how do i deal with this hell of a problem?
360029
WOW, that must be something to have 5 people fighting over you, what you need to do is decide if you want to be with any of them, you pick one, and then tell the rest that they need to back off, as nice as possible with getting your point across.  If you don't like any of them in that way then you need to do the right thing and let them know that you are not interested in a relationship with them other than friendship.
454291
If u can tolerate the unpleasantness, stay on. Who knows, one day the both of u may get on well. Meanwhile, save whatever u can n try looking for a suitable job just in case the situation becomes unbearable.
58315
I would just be upfront about it and spit it out. Find a non-uptight moment and sit down and explain the problem. Decide on what would be best to fix the problem and do it. Just talk it out with them.
415654
Back off.\n\nThere are some major unresolved issues in their life and they are lashing out as everyone.\n\nLet it run its course and when some degree of sanity returns, then return to help.
939843
this question is very very serious trouble.
1076492
just try to remain calm and stay away from it as much as possible, if certain people are doing things that you find frustrating tell them about it, they may not know and it may do some good to get how you feel about it out in the open so that they can correct what is frustrating you so much...
445954
count to 10. while you're counting, using a very calm, rational voice inside your head, ask yourself, "In 6 months, will this still be an issue? Or will I even remember it at all?" if the answer is no, then finish the deep breathing and get on with your life...if you're still angry, get away from that person/people and do something to distract yourself--go outside, etc.
744485
pretty big mess!!!!,\nBut there is nothing talking can help.............\nJust call him, talk to Him, It'll solve a lot Of problems..............\nBest of luck :-)
85167
Call the police! Handling it yourself can just lead to someone else calling the police on you and then you are the bad guy. Take the high road and you will get justice.
762441
You don't have to deal with it, report it.  Try to get a witness
988597
Just respect their opinion. If you are butting heads use an empathic approach. Put the ball in their court and allow them to problem-solve.
2453
Lend your problems over to God i am and i am in the same predicament but i have given my problems over to God and He is working in my life.\nSo your answer is Prayer. Even if your not close to Him try it if He anwsers then look into Him and get close with Him.
12801
Brainstorm.  Don't throw out any ideas, no matter how outrageous they sound.  Eventually, one solution will solve your problem.
164358
talk to my neigbour and discuss what should we do about this situation
508241
THE ONLY SOLUTION I CAN COME UP WITH IS TO PRAY. WHEN YOU FEEL THAT THERE IS TO MUCH YOU CAN'T CONTROL, JUST GET ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY, AS LONG AS YOU BELIEVE IN HIM EVERYTHING WILL ALWAYS WORK OUT FOR THE BEST!!
808331
Relax. Every once in a while say 'What the hell you mean".\n\nJust kidding.Do not say that.\n\nJust relax and listen to the questions. GOOD LUCK !
552155
Unfortunately never. You think one thing has been resolved or is coming to an end and something else comes a long. It will never end. You might as well just go with the flow and learn to cope with it