do those of you who say that what do sexually (gay or lesb.) is your identity as a person know it's a scam?
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If you want to paint your wee wee red and hang with others who paint their wee wee red, then by all means go ahead. And if you want to identify yourselves as redweewees, then go ahead. But that's completely a different argument.\n\nI'm gay not because I have sex with other guys, but because I am sexually and romantically attracted to guys and I just happen to be a guy. Certainly I identify with other people who are gay. That doesn't mean that I only identify myself as gay (and I'm sure you don't solely identify as just being a redweewees). There is a lot more to me than the fact that I'm gay. As for teaching it to children. I don't know any gays that are out teaching children about how to be gay (and I'm sure you are out teaching children how to paint their wee wees red). As for my employment. I WOULDN'T HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING IF I WOULDN'T BE FIRED WHEN SOMEONE FOUND OUT BECAUSE THEY CAN'T MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS. AND I WOULDN'T HAVE TO COME TOGETHER IN A GROUP THAT GOES ABOUT BRINGING RECOGNITION TO THE GROUP IF PEOPLE WOULDN'T ASK THE GOVERNMENT TO TREAT ME DIFFERENTLY OR TAKE RIGHTS AWAY FROM ME OR DENY ME RIGHTS JUST FOR BEING GAY. I mean, afterall if the government suddenly decided that it was okay to fire you from your job because someone found out that you paint your wee wee red, you'd probably be upset. And if then a group of people started saying how wrong it was that you paint your wee wee red and so now the government had to 'protect' others who don't paint their wee wee red from people like you who do, well then you'd start to wonder why they are turning on you when you're just trying to mind your own business and live peacefully. And if suddenly there were laws passed that took away your rights simply because you like to paint your wee wee red (laws saying that its okay to fire people that paint their wee wee red, laws that say insurance companies don't have to cover people because they paint their wee wees red, laws that say that a guy that paints his wee wee red can't legally marry and a woman for fear that they would produce children who want to paint their wee wees red, and so on and on and on and on). Well something tells me that you all would join together to stop the injustice. \n\nAnd just imagine the day when those who now use the label "gay" to represent themselves won't have to use it all because no one will care if you are heterosexual or homosexual. They'll see you as a person and they'll respect you for who you are as a person and they'll respect who you fall in love with and won't think anything about it. Wouldn't it be a wonderful world if we could do that with all labels?
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Aren't you just a drunken bloke with gay issues pretending to be a woman?\n"touches me in a fanny way" lol.\nLooking at your other questions you must be the most pathetic person ever to appear on Yahoo questions.
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That is definitely considered fraud.  And if you know about it, then you are an accessory to fraud.
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are you for real  or just having an illusion....lover boy?  \nbwahahahaha!
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I don't really have a new answer to your question..the other answers I read are good answers, but I would like to let you know that I share in your frustration.  As a gay male, I get tired of those questions/labels and the ever-persisting question of 'are you a top or a bottom'..Those kinds of labels really annoy me
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I see it as this. The users participating in e-fornification are probably unable to have sexual gratification in the real world, so they take their perversions into the online communities, and force us to watch them go "*oh baby oh baby*".\nPersonally, I want to puke in my soup when I see this. It's pointless, and proves nothing, other than SOME of them have some idea how to engage in sexual activities.
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I wouldn't say I'm proud to be gay(bi in my case), I'd say I'm proud of who I am.  Sexuality is only a part of that, not the whole.\n\nAlso, who told you it was a choice?  I was born bisexual, and I will always be bisexual.  It's the way I am.
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I have seen personal ads where both straight and gay people want to engage in this rape fantasy.\nPersonally, I simply don't understand it.
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Me and my partner are quite open about who we are, we don't advertise we just act as naturally as possible, if someone asks, we tell, if they don't obviously it's not that important. Just be yourself
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Not at all.  No more then everybody who has a rainbow sticker on their car is gay.  They may simply like rainbows.\n\nI know straight women that wear them, and I have never worn one (even though I am bisexual).\n\nThere is no secret code when it comes to lesbians or gay men.  We have no signs, no passwords or handshakes.  Overall, we are ordinary people just like everybody else.  We just choose partners who are the same sex as we are.
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They almost always lie... I worked out the probability of a guy telling the truth and its like 0.5 % of all the guys I know.. Dont lie... Go with the stats and call him a lyer! LOL! Please dont take this seriously! Heidi
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It's not like you are actually going to see some one having intercourse with some one else to be able to determine this.\n\nHere's an interesting website that gives other people's views on determining if some one is gay or not:\n\nhttp://www.ehow.com/how_17204_determine-someone-else.html
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Lying about your gender seems downright creepy.  I don't like to give out my age or other personal information to people I don't know and I don't visit chatrooms anymore as there weren't any interesting conversationalists anyway, just over the hill horny guys sending you skanky naked pics of themselves.   \n\nI think a lot of people do make up information about themselves when they go into chatrooms and they don't consider it lying because they don't ever intend on seeing the person face to face, or they consider it "trying on a new personality".    They don't realize that some people they are communicating with take them as being for real and may hurt a real person's feelings.  \n\nMy personal advice is if you visit a chatroom, look at it as a form of entertainment to pass your time, but don't really think you are going to meet a good friend or soulmate through that venue.  It is hard enough getting to really know someone face-to-face, let alone through an electronic medium.
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Serj, do you not detect a smidgen on gay hate in some of these answers?  I do.  I have never been harmed by gays, approached but never accosted.  I think all they want is to be recognized as equals as human beings.  This I grant them.
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Do they ask you for money or a ton of personal info?  If so it's a scam.
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You may get labeled but who cares, it is doing what you want that makes you who you are. \nMy opinion, if I have sex to early in a relationship, I find it hard to find other things in the relationship.  It takes away my want to get to know the person better.
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nO, of course no, you should only tell me. ( I promise I will not tell anyone else)\n\nSeriously, they do this because they are idiots. There are some people who get married for money to sell the USA citizenship and this is their brilliant plan to Catch them.\nI guess they do not realize that  people who are trying to do this for illegal reason would not think to lie. maybe they interview each person separately and see if they name the same times. HMMMM?\nso you have to get your stories straight if you are going to cheat and lie.\nWhat if you are sincere but just cannot rememeber when you banged your old lady or accidentally give a date that was with your mistress. OOPS\nI guess you have to keep notes or put notches on the bedpost.\nsome guys may brag and say ten times when it was only one. Oops.\nwhat a silly world we live in!