THEY'RE ALL JUST FRIENDS HE SAYS...WHAT THE F***?? should i start answering the phone or calling them back??
370251
Girl, you have every right to be peeved!  First of all your man shouldn't have friends that are girls, specially these ones you are describing!  Nip that right in the bud.  This is your house, and your relationship!  Don't be anyones door mat..and yes start answering the phone!  Identify yourself too for example say something like this"hello who is this?"and whether they answer back right away say"this is his girlfriend, whats up"  Respect and love yourself first!
563851
Let me understand this...he is your "friend" and you don't know his last name? Huh? I know all of my friends last names! I think you should forget this so-called friend.
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
726771
Hey 'nanner'.\nIt's your best friend, you know, 'shayla'. Haha we're on the phone.\n\nWhat I think you should do....\nTalk to him and see what he says about the situation, and then try to decipher if hes lieing or not. Find out from someone you trust that's friends with him, and ask him what he's said. If you can't find anyone, maybe..... just maybe, you might have to move on. But for now, try to trust him to the best of your ability. We will get through this.
568311
they aren't real friends to save .. they you shouldn't save them as friends .. skip them and try to friend real best friends
890417
I wouldn't call him.  It sounds like he's changed his mind.  Move on.  If he does call, ask for an explanation.
64231
Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
737896
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
272403
I would say let him look for you.. I don't know the terms that you guys are in right now.. But if you guys are only friends and haven't been giving each other hopes then I don't see anything wrong if you call him first.. But you still don't want to look desperate, let some time pass.. Call him next day or if he gets there in the morning then call him at night..
277868
Yes you do.  Why in the world would he do this?  Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.
1136230
Damn, he should at least say hi.  What a dick.  As far as conversation goes you can keep it to a minimum, which is what I'm sure he wants.  I know it always pisses me off if some girl, regardless who she is, keeps giving me an IM when I'm trying to talk to someone else.  If you got something to talk about, then cool.  If things slow down then back off.\n\nHe should still say hi, unless you all just got off the phone or whatever.
506289
Let it go....and leave him alone. If it continues into something more serious, it could be detrimental to your friendship. Not to mention, it could cause legal issues for him if word gets out...
1117156
I would tell him that when he needed us we were right there for him, just the same as if he needed us now. It shouldn't be any different when the tables turn. Friends help friends out especially in their time of need, and if he feels that way after you talked to him just tell him that he burned his bridges and if he needs you again you will ignore his call for help. Because that's not fair to you guys.
785466
look there is no harm in being friends is there? B must be feeling quite down. come at least be his friend. tell him everything. better he hears it from you than from an outside source