my girlfriend chats on line alot? what should i do?
358737
is that when you're around or when you're not around? if its when you're not around, get over it, she's got friends. waht should she think if u call your friends? nothing right? if she's on the phone all the time when you are around it means u bore her -take her out for a nice meal, make her feel special. or get a movie out so the two of u can order in pizza and watch a movie together. get her interested in you again.
128669
have a long talk with her.  i was going to say spy on her, but then if she catches you that proves that you dont trust her.  you have to trust your girlfriend.  talk to her first.  if you won't talk to her, and you have a very strong feeling she really is cheating on you, then prepare yourself for the truth.
941677
Just ask her if there is something wrong.  She just may have something going on that she needs to figure out for herself. If she tells you than great you can talk and if she won't than just back off a bit. It is no fun being around a person that might not want you around. She may come around later.
1174002
She must enjoy your company,or she wouldnt call you,and if you think your going over and calling on her too much,just ask her.She sounds like a nice person.Tell her if your bothering her too much,she can tell you,but i dont think this is the case
410568
I'm 26 and in a long distance relationship as well.  We live 2.5 hours away from each other and I always return her phone calls.  It pisses me off if other people don't return mine, so I always return theirs.  Point to remember, guys don't like to talk on the phone.  I have trouble talking on the phone for more than five minutes.  I love her, but it seems like more of a job than a pleasure.  I can talk your ear off in person, but not on the phone.  Sounds like your boyfriend is forgetful or too busy.
366966
She is using you, she has a boyfriend that she will marry if you don't stop talking to her now your going to get hurt even more. C'mon you are a doctor you can have anybody you don't need to limit yourself.
466374
Confront her. If she really is cheating, dump her. I'm sure you deserve someone much better than her. She's not worth your time. You deserve someone who will support you when you're away and not be talking to other guys. \n\nP.S. Thank You for serving our country. :)
953145
This is NOT good. Your girlfriend needs her friends. Very badly. But its better to be late than never. Remind her that she doesn't have to be with you constantly in order for your relationship to stay strong. Try to help her rekindle her old friendships by encouraging her to go up and talk to them. Although you are very important to her, having other friends is also very important.
193277
She sound very jealous and also one sided. If she can't talk about it, then she is very selfish and not willing to make it work. She is not worth hanging on to. You really have no control over who phones you.
478413
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
97253
Talk with her, let her know how you feel and ask her to stop doing it. Word it in a way that doesn't sound critical and she'll be more apt to listen.
629162
You should talk to her about it. Keep in mind that it is important to keep in touch with other friends and have activities outside a relationship. Otherwise you get sick of eachother quick. But if she's spending NO time with you, then yeah. talk to her about it
1146453
There's a program called KeyLogger or something that is supposed to track conversations. I don't know how to use it though.\n\nBest bet is to confront her about it though! Don't try and be sneaky because if she HASN'T been cheating and you make it look like you don't believe her, she's going to be really hurt.
646032
It is very possible that it was a bit too much too fast for her.  She may have just wanted to chat more and get to know you online....meeting in person is very scary for some.....I suggest you try telling her you will take it slower if that is better for her...no rush
329911
Talking dirty to someone over the internet does not constitute being boyfriend/girlfriend.  Maybe she grew tired of it, perhaps you should grow out of it too.
947818
You should not meet just yet.  You  need t spend atleast a week talking on the phone.  You need to make sure that the other person is who they say they are and, apart from physically meeting them, this is the best way.  It's easier to make up answers and stories through email.  This will also help her feel more comfortable as well.   Please get to know each other on the phone first.
940287
well, maybe you should talk to her and see what she is mad about.. and see what she dont like about you.. no one can be perfect.... but maybe if you guys can communicate on the phone or in person it would be better