My son is bi-sexual - he told me when he realised - I am proud of him. Can any1 say that is wrong?
361961
There is an old saying: \n"All that is needed for evil to triumph is for good men to keep silent."  \nFor which, read "good women" too.  \n\nThank you for posting your question.
253455
Don't do it all at once, ease them into it a bit at a time.  Sexuality shouldn't be construed as a taboo or dirty topic, even if you believe it is you should do what is best to educate your children to the facts.  Perhaps so they won't themselves be in your same situation...
838348
just because he may show his feminine side does not make him gay. i know a man raised by his grandmother who showed both sides and he was all man. don't never label your boy gay or guesstimate. you tell someone or somebody that long enough you can make them that way. make sure he mingles with both sexes. if, by chance down the road he is would that make you love him any less?? i hope not Kat
1132967
I want to say this before I go any further with my comment:\n"If I offend anyone it's not done on purpose, so I apologize now"\nNow with that out of my system, I have to agree with your boyfriend in a way, not completely, What I mean is that there is no such thing as "Bi-sexual" It's either you are straight or gay, Now if you have any form of sexual contact with the same sex you are gay period...What you are doing is just having sex with everybody male & female, I personally do not approve of that type of life style but, I am not with out sin so I will not cast the first stone sort ta say, What I do think is that you need to quit leading your boyfriend on the way you are if you want to be with females do that, and if you want to be with males do that but, not both, it's like the young adults of today do not know how to restrain themselves, there is no self respect, it's free love, In the end it's free STD's Like I said I do not want to offend but, I think it's time that the young should hear the truth, and they also need to be told NO!!!! sometimes.
902694
That is one of the worst written questions I have ever seen on here... congratulations.\n\nWell, you can 100% like ice cream, but do you like ice cream the way you like your boy? If not, then you had better separate the way you use those two words.
87485
I think you're secretly attracted to him and are using this question as a way of finding out if it's ok to be gay. If you want to be gay, be gay, just don't brag about it ok? fudge packer.........
1041809
I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.
829572
Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
759606
No. Maybe he's gay or a pedophile like Jackson. Be vigilant with your child. How is he interacting or "playing" with her?
389864
If we were in a perfect world and everyone was honest with themselves and others you would find your not alone. I firmly believe that all males at one time or another think of sex with another male. It's part of growing up and the experimenting process we all go through. \nNow acting on it is a different story. If you enjoyed your first bi-sexual experience and your still very much attracted to the opposite sex then there is a good chance that your bi. And there is nothing wrong with that.
344685
I think I owuld be slightly worried by that to be honest, he's either very unconfident about his body and manlyhood or is a closet homosexual.... talk to him about it!
1046624
I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
123683
I believe you are born with it.  My cousin is gay, and I swear by the time he was two years old you could tell he was going to be gay.  Before you say it was influence or whatever, let me tell you he was brought up in a perfectly average household, with a loving mom and dad, and a macho big brother.  We are born the way we are born.
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I am 33 and female. If my child were gay I would accept it . It is what is on the inside that counts. I would rather my son be gay and a loving human being, than straight and a jerk. Think about it this way. If anyone one loves their child, truly loves them, than you can accept them no matter what their lifestyle choice. If someone would say that they would not love their child anymore, than they never really had true love for them in the first place. I do have a son, so this is coming from a Mothers perspective. Understanding, trust, and Love are truly the most important things
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I think it's very sad that other kids are being cruel to your son, and I'm also disappointed and concerned that his father is unable to accept his son's orientation. On the other hand, I'm very happy to hear that your son has a supporting and understanding mother like yourself. He's going to need your support, and it sounds like you will be there to give it to him. \n\nI know, and I imagine a lot of us know, how it feels to be harrased in school because of being different than others. I didn't deal with it very well - I internalized everything, and I was too humiliated to tell my family what kids would call me in school. I wish I had had a supportive parent that understood how I felt, even if it was only one parent that understood, and not the other.\n\nI'm sure your child will be very successful and happy in the future - this is just going to be a rough time (possibly). Getting him into support groups for gay youth as soon as possible would probably be a great idea. When I was about 22 I started going to a support group, and I finally realized that what I am is completely and totally okay. \n\nI'm rooting for your son, and I hope he gets to grow up feeling good about himself! It will make such a difference in his life if he knows that, no matter what anyone says, he's awesome and valuable. As for your husband, what about family counseling with a gay friendly counselor? If not that, how about a conversation between you and your husband about setting new, realistic expectations for his son. He may not get the macho guy that he was hoping for, but if your husband can find the strength in himself (and this takes a real man) to be proud of and support his gay son, he will have done what so many men can't. He could also save himself a lot of hurt and disappointment down the road.\n\nHere's hoping for happiness, love and compassion for all of you!
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Firstly, why did you get married and you're bi? i mean you're not sure of sex you like more, i find that's its wrong more wrong than being homosexual just because its unfair to your wife and to "your best friend" choose one or none. Does your wife know you're bi-sexual? You need to be honest with yourself-as to what u like,if you don't know or can't choose then you need to be honest with your wife now before its too late... I've seen thing like this destroy families and i affects the children. Make your decision before it's too late.
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There is nothing wrong with being gay, but there is something wrong when it comes to wanting to abuse a child. I think that you need help. If you are an older guy then why dont you just find a freshly turned eighteen year old, that is the youngest by law that you can be with.