would it be lesser for an asian gay men incomparison to a caucasion be accepted by his boyfriend's parents?
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Please don't mis-interpret this answer, I am not being a homophobe or anything!! To be honest, I think from your boyfriends parents point of view, your sexuality will over-ride any issues of race. For example, if they are fairly close minded and prejudiced, then they won't accept you on the grounds that you are gay, your race won't come into it. Similarly, if they do welcome you, this means that are open-minded people who won't have an issue with your race since they didn't have a problem with your sexuality. So in short, no I dont think it is harder for non-caucasions, but I imagine it is equally hard for all gay men
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Of course it will. If his parents are ethnic Eastern Armenians... chances are they're intolerant of their "little boy" dating out of his own ethnicity. But if they're tolerant... then yeah. You're good. It's not his family you have to impress. It's him. (I'm speaking metaphorically...)\n\nMy sis dated a Salvadorean guy. They worked out just fine. :-)\nMy parents are ethnic Eastern Armenians... but unlike many who are like them, they're fairly tolerant of others. A lot of Armenians are very, very Racist. Stereotypically, Eastern Armenians hate everyone. Western Armenians think they're better than everyone else. But for every hating person, there's a caring one, too. If his family is cool... you should be fine. If not, screw 'em. If this guy's really good... then you shouldn't care how his family is. More love for him, lol.
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Maybe you should call yourself FilipinaLolita ... seeing as you're a young Filipino, and you're dating a man with a son who you find sexually attractive ... So your boyfriend must be quite a bit older than you. I assume that you're young because you ask questions like "is it OK if my bf sees me naked?" and "What's making out, and is it ok to do it?"
513870
You are funny.. dun worry it too much about it.. Your parents only worry for you is whether your bf can support you for the rest of your life comfortably, loves their daughter for the rest of his life and makes her happy, respect elderly, no hot tempered. Your parents will definately accept your boyfriend provided that if your boyfriend has the criteria that they want for a son-in-law. Height to them is nothing and moreover is on 3 cms diference...come on, girl
629520
Where's the problem?  Do you parents or friends dislike you dating someone white?  Sounds like it's not a problem for you, as if you were against dating someone white then he wouldn't have made it to boyfriend status; keep loving him and let anyone who objects know your feelings.
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i have been in your situation and ill be honest and state that it enver worked out between us because of our familys different point of view, there was also a racial difference and my father found that very difficult to handle. but if ur mum and dad are in an age gap marriage then they should understand, id sit your mum down and just explain to her, possible have your boyfriend wth you at the time. that way then she may see that he is there to stand by you and does not want to hurt you\n\ngood luck.
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It is perfectly fine. My father is engaged to an Asian. And me, I like girls of differnt "races", sexy can come in any color (your own "race" and others).\n\nI know where I live almost all the teens/college students date people outside there "race". Where you live that might be unaceptable, but it's perfectly accepctaply for someone to date outside there "race."\n\nBesides "race" is thing man has devisied, as far as I'm concerned there is the Human race.
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race isnt important to me, if i like someone and they liked me back then of course i would date them , it doesnt matter who you are on the outside, it matters who you are on the inside. my parents wouldnt have a problem with it and if they did i would be totally ashamed of them. i think racism is dumb and people shouldnt judge someone by what ethnicity are , but by who they are as a person.
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Personally, I have no problem with it.  Many other people do though.  What do you think about it?  If you have any reason to hesitate and not date the person, you probably shouldn't.  I would also try to find out what your parents think about it, as well as the person you are thinking of dating's parents.  That can cause lots of problems too.  Ultimately though, it is your decision and your life.  You need to do what you think is best!   Interracial children are often beautiful.  Good luck!
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If his parents found out no it should not be a problem. Certainly not as far as Islam is concerned.\nA Muslim man may marry a Christian woman.\n\nYou will only have a problem if his parents don't personally agree with it. But as long as you are happy, respect each others religions then his parents should be happy.\n\nI am a Christian woman married to a Muslim man for 3 years now (we have been together for 5years). His family are wonderfull, they never had a problem.\n\nThe only thing that may be of concern to his parents (which I believe someone else mentioned in their answer) is the whole "dating" process. But this is something you should discuss with your boyfriend, he will know better than anyone how his parents will feel. Other than that, this is only of concern to your boyfriend.\n\nBut anyway, if your question was only out of concern of the Christian and Muslim situation then no, it is no problem.\nI hope this all makes sense?\nJanie x
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Kukm kum you donot say why your family donot accept him?\nIf they have a real reasons that is ok but thier reasons are silly go with your man
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As far as I'm concerned, I've got lots of guy friends who're Asian, and I did ask a few of them this online.\nMost of them are rather insecure about *certain things* (the whole size issue) and prefer to stick to the Asian girls.\nHowever, while many of them wouldn't mind dating other races, their parents would completely flip out seeing them bring home a black or a white girl (though whites are more acceptable, it's that double standard and it infuriates everyone, I know.) because most parents would just like their son to marry (they view dating as a process to marriage. Meaning, an automatic process) a "nice, Asian girl".\nThis is especially true for Indians and Chinese, though the Chinese families catch up fast (cept' the traditional ones) and if given enough reasons, they might just grudgingly accept the fact that you're the one their son/daughter wants, no substitutes.\nAnd yes, many Asian guys really dislike Asian girls to go out with other races. They view it as an insult to their manhood, something like how some blacks dislike their black girls to go out dating other races, especially whites.\nSome are pretty impartial to that, though.\n\nA few of my guy friends do want to date a black girl, and have friends who're interested in a black girl at school, but the problem is, they're a little intimidated by black girls.\nSome of them can be really aggressive and that scares some Asian men off. Also, they see it as 'surprising' that a black girl wouldn't mind dating them - most of them have the impression that it's the black girls who don't dig Asian guys.\nHope that helped.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
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not at all\nthere's not much of a difference\ngood luck\nmake sure her parents are ok with her going out with someone to start with\nonce the air is cleared about this, everything will go smoothly
146697
Tough one.  My first (gay) boyfriend was, and is, a serious and observant Roman Catholic; I went to Mass with him once and he goes every week.  So the two things are not totally incompatible.  I'm middle aged though so I didn't have parents to deal with.\n\nI'd suggest contacting PFLAG for support and advice.
707334
If your parents are okay with it, it shouldn't be a problem. Fair warning: older guys tend to be more experienced so if you're not willing to partake in things that are not of your liking, let them know first thing. Good luck...
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One doesn't really have anything to do with the other. Maybe instead of worrying about them appearing sweet to your parents, you should want a man who will be good to you. Good in bed can come with time (at least with a minimum amount of coordination and effort)
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You like him, he likes you. Go on, though some people might still be a bit skeptical about interracial relationships and not totally agree with them we're living in another era. But still.. if either of you is close to your parents take into consideration how they feel about it to be prepared for whatever may arise.\n\nBest of luck!