How can I stop worrying and stressing over girlfriend?
370742
What you need to do is LOVE yourself a bit more! Find someone who would really love you (that's the least you deserve) You know, someone who would always want to be with you etc.etc.etc. And don't feel upset when she says "no" to you because you already know that she doesn't love you, so there's no point. I would suggest (again) that you start thinking more about yourself...ask yourself "How happy am I in this relationship? Is this person that I'm with right now happy with me? Is there a chance that we can have a future together?" and if you answer no to 1 of the questions...then you need to find yourself another girlfriend...someone who will be there for u 100%.
456985
don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
139626
trust ur partner & u'l stop feeling jealous..
745253
aigghtt man u need to relax i was in ur shoes before and i was asking the very same question a few months ago\n\nif she doesnt want to talk that s fine\njust either email or text\njust saying  "hi"  act like u have move on\n(u r probably saying no i dont want to do that) well let me ask u everything that u have done till this day has it work,  NO, all ur caring has it gotten u closer  NO, because right now she doesnt want it,  she is fill with negative feeling and in order to rid of these feelings u need to stop pressuring her into a relationship\njust simply be cool  act like u r enjoying ur space\nand that everything is good around u \n\nbelieve me it will work and continue being ur self but dont pressure her soon she will allow those walls to drop\nbut do not once again pressure her or try to convince her to be with u
623700
hey,\nyou should not pose judgement just because of something you've seen...especially so soon. from what i gather, you don;t really know her that well. get to know her and talk more. eventually she'll open up to you and you will find out why she's so stressed and resulting to drugs (any substance that alters her mind state). If you like her that much, give her a chance...be the life-altering factor and most importantly, let her return to her "natural" self with you supporting her. Trust me, she'll respect you and love you for that. On the positive side of things, look at it this way, you already know her weaknesses and if y'all were to hook up, you have no need to worry about how she reacts when she's stressed:)\ni hope this helps you out bra'.\n\nR,\n\nPGLEX
28957
Pay more attention to your partner than to yourself.\nLearn control.
644808
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
213291
Should be no reason for her to have guys over if you two are involved in a true loving relationship, this is not a trust issue, it is an issue of hurting a person you supposedly are in a relationship with.  If she doesn't want to help you in this regard, get a new girlfriend.  You should not have to suffer constant anxiety because someone is not respecting your feelings.  Women want that from men all the time, but if they don't reciprocate, it's time to find one that does.
411289
Don't worry so much 1 will come along, and she'll be the beat thing that ever happend to you.\n\nDon't Worry I'm not a smart ass that is alreay in a relationship that is just pittying you cos your a lesser human being for not having a girlfriend. I'm in the same boat as you, plus I'm probably older than you and I haven't lost my mind yet, so don't worry there's still time.
988628
Just let it happen naturally.  The more you think about it the more you will stress and it probably won't be the right time if you over analyze it.  Relax.  Enjoy the relationship you have and let the words flow naturally.  Your soul will speak when the time is right, don't let your mind or heart rush too fast.  \nHappy for you that you found love.  :)
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
352595
Don't let it get to you. Don't worry so much about whats going to happen next.\n\nTake things one moment at a time and stop trying to control situations.\n\nLet it be and you'll be happy.
297247
set high goals, pamper urself, go out with friends and relax a lot. tear pictures of her (if there is any in ur room) burn anything which will remind u of her. shift ur thoughts to other things if her thoughts come along and finally always tell urself am better than that guy she will date.
53668
well.. good to c so many ladies.. good at managing stress!! \n\ni can only suggest a way to manage future..  /job/career related stress\n\n..well sleeping is certainly a good solution.. but u cant waste time "sleeping"\ni've tried this n it really works.. imagine urself in the worst possible situation... then think of where do u stand today.. then.. your goal... only after visualizing everything.. think practicaly whether the goal is achievable!!  u'll definately observe that it is.. n u feel much more relaxed n confident.. its important to plan out what is to be done in order to achieve.. the goal...  at the same time  ..\n\nit really works if u;re worried about ur long term goals..\ntry it n tell me if it helps!!
845082
Well first ask your self are you doing anything to make her think your doing something rong??? If so you need to stop.. \n\nWoman are usually right with that gut feeling .. but if you are not doing anything rong then tell her .. hey i care about you but this is not going any were if you dont trust me.. so i need you to quit or leave if your not happy.. usually that works :)
912487
Stop stressing over it and go have a good time. \n\nBe yourself and when the time comes just smile and be polite. If she sees you relaxed and happy and approachable she may start to wonder about what she heard and realise it was wrong. She could be nice really.
293561
well, I think that you think too much on something or you got stress......I suggest you to rest your mind for a couple of days and released your pressure by doing some activities or see someone that were really good handling this case and ask for some proffesional advice,ok!