20 yr old confusing male!?
365481
Keep him.  He is one of the rare men who has a lot of respect for you and doesn't want the relationship to be intimate until he knows you well enough to have feelings for you.  He is interested in you for who you are, not just for how close he can get to your body.  \n\nHe is more comfortable with his friends because he knows them and knows what is acceptable and what is not in his friendships with them.  He is nervous around you because he is afraid he will screw up and you won't be interested anymore, or worse that you will turn him down flat and humiliate him.\n\nGive the guy a chance, and he will warm up to you.  The fact that he isn't acting like all the other guys, clawing all over you, doesn't mean there is something wrong with the situation; it means that there is something right about him.
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
1144187
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
304167
im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
993374
He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
665694
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
1078660
sorry im not a guy but generally it could be one of wo thingseither he wants you and is to scare to say guys are like bug puppy dogs they need nurturing...or he wants you to set him up...aski him if he wants you toi set him up and if he says no you know he probably means he wants you...worth a try babe x
504223
sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.
1099607
He sounds like he likes to play games.......I myself didnt like mixed signals growing up.  Honestly , you should move on and let him grow up a little
793745
god forgive me for stereotyping but I only have limited info for going on! from what you say, there is only one adult in the relationship and it's not him!!!\nok, he sounds like a typical man, wanting to have his cake and eat it too - basically he feels it's a bit wrong to be with you, but he wants you to make it ok.\nso he's being cautious and flaky so that most of the hard work comes from you and you end up saying all the stuff people usually don't want to be the first to say (ie tell me how you feel/why are you sending out mixed signals - making you look needy)- don't fall into that trap. as much as you want some clarity, pull back and let him do the hard work. it is obvious he likes you despite the age diff (dirty old man - just kidding) so he will try to engineer the opportunity to kiss you again- at which point, i think you should play a bit hard to get so he has to SAY those things he is obviously avoiding saying  in case it all goes tits up, i presume. \nanyway, only my opinion, so let me know if i was totally wrong - and good luck!!!
1087721
Never trust your interpretation of a guys "signs"-Just ask him what's up and go with what he says
947825
God, you must be really annoying in real life.  Men aren't complicated, don't go look for hidden meanings in everything.  I think he has said what he has said and it means what he said.  Duh!
749068
your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
951091
You're 22 and he is 24? Seriously?  Are you really sure you're not in middle school? Your description of the situation is BEYOND juvenile! Stop worrying about this guy, worry about yourself and stop calling Psychics! not PHYCHIC.
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??