Guys, preferably gentlemen; what do you consider a lady?
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intellect, grace, honesty and integity
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
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I personally like a guy who's funny and just fun to be around.  It's awesome if I can have a conversation with him.  In terms of looks, I'm not superficial, but I admire a warm, friendly smile.
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It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
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Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)
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a guy that is open minded, understanding, a great personality. a great smile, and one that knows how to please me...
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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what do you want to enjoy with a guy?  Whayever it is I am sure you will find someone to oblige.
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Depends on the guy. Everyone has different tastes. Generally?\n- Commitment\n- Affectionate, shared/mutual love\n- Most of the time, decent to good physical features\n- Intelligence\n- Genuine understanding\n- Open communication
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warm  and i'm a guy.  \n\n\n(i do have to say this is a good question,  very interesting.)
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A gentleman is a man who is courteous to a woman.  He will open car doors for her, other doors, take her coat or help her put it on, he will take her hand and help her step out of a car or step off of something.  When walking down the street together, he will walk closest to the street.  He makes her feel special and would not intentionally hurt her.  \n\nMaybe some guys would think this is "wimpy" behavior and some girls wouldn't like this.  I would prefer a gentleman any day!
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The perfect gentleman is the perfect man.  A gentleman is, first of all, gentle.  He is quiet, dignified but not stuffy, intelligent, amusing, strong, protective, generous, thoughtful, attentive, wise, patient, and just hates to say no to a lady.  He will normally only deny her that which is not good for her, and he will do so with the tenderest of apologies.\n\nIn the bedroom, he is all those things mentioned above, only more so.
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Personally, I like a girl who's not self-centered, takes care of herself, and has a great sense of humor.\n\nThe usual physical accoutrements are nice, too. :)
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it depends if the guy has a nice personality. =)
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well it would depend on what kind of character.... a guy or a gurl?\nso help us on what kind of character and i'll edit my answer to help you! promise..
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someone who is financially stable w/o being stuffy. someone who is kind w/o being a push over. someone is is caring w/o being controlling. someone who can be manly w/o being abusive. someone who can show lots of love w/o being wimpy.But with all of that aside...someone who inhances thier life and each person is different and looking for different things.Myself..I found that the best person for me doesnt make alot of money..I make more and that is ok. He is just very mild mannered and so am I and we just get along so well. Our personalities match each other so well. That is after being with the abusive type and now I appreciate the nice guy.