I have a little brother at home and he is 8 and is always hitting me what should i do?
361737
honey i have a little brother who is 6 and he is always hitting me well you should ignore it and it will because it will be old to him. getting a reaction out of u is what he craves!!  Or if it is getting worse aet an adult like ur mom or pop or who ever you live with so they can give hi dissplanary action riight away!
20821
You should absolutely go to the police.  Whether he's been a good friend to you or not, he is hurting children and he will not stop until someone stops him.
323681
JUST IGNORE HIM! TELL HIM HE WAS ADOPTED ALSO, OR JUST LEAVE IT ALONE HE SOUNDS LIKE A STUPID KID. BE THE SMART KID AND WALK AWAY, BECAUSE IF YOU FIGHT HIM YOU MIGHT GET IN TROUBLE AND IT'LL BE WORST FOR YOU. JUST WALK AWAY! SO WHAT IF HE SAY'S YOUR SCARED.
1148407
He is your brother, everything else doesn't matter. Where is he being picked? Can you report that behavior to some one on authority? Bee careful, people who act that way are generally cowards and capable of doing anything. Specially if they are in a group. Good luck.
57082
Wait a while.  When he's gone (out of the house)you'll end up with a lot more freedom as your parents relax.  Plus there'll be more allowance money for you!\nDon't hate on your older brother.  Be responsible and always come home on time.  Have responsible friends, then your parents will feel more comfortable and maybe extend your curfew.  Remeber, you won't be a kid forever, don't screw up your relationship with your parents by trying to act older than you are.
272237
I hope this is not the same "friend" of 8 months that is yelling at your son!!! Stop that shyt!! Don't allow any man or woman to abuse you son. You are his first everything\n---his 1st teacher\n---his 1st ADVOCATE\n---his 1st experience with life\nStop putting these men in front of your happiness and your son's well-being. If that muthaf*$@#ka was yelli\nng at my 19 month old I'd catch a case. You better stand up for your son. I understand you want adult male companionship and you deserve "me" time. Taking care of a child is not easy, but he must be number one in your life. And stop having him around the dude you are f@#$kin'.  You wouldn't want your son to grow up to abuse women or worse get abused by women b/c he saw you being abused and your self-esteem get whittled away to nothing. I can only offer this advice b/c I've been there. My son is 13 and has only seen me with 3 men. Granted there have been more in my life, but I refuse to bring all of them around my man-child. Children WATCH more than they LISTEN> Even though your son is only 19 months he can still feel you, just like he did when he was in your stomach. The bond between you and your son is stronger than any bond you can make with a man. That baby is the closet thing to heaven you can get on earth. Cherish him and these years. He's exploring and should not be made to feel that his learning process is less important than some man.
145402
I am the oldest of two children.  So I AM THE ANNOYING OLDER BROTHER!  growing up I did torment my little brother Daniel a lot.  But all he had to do was ask me to stop, and I did.  A brother has to be good. he has to show compassion and understanding.  An older brother also has to be a role model too.
1051590
Ok, I am a gay man. I have no kids of my own, but I have lived with a partner who had children. My partner worked long hours and I took up the role of being the main parent. His children referred to me as their other daddy. I was proud to be this to them. Here is what I advised them.\n\nFirst, any type of fighting or physically violence is wrong. If at all possible teach yourself and your brother to walk away from the fight. If certain bullies persist tell your principles. They have to act upon it. If they do nothing your parents can go to the school board and have it acted upon. If the school board does nothing then you can have the school board, and the parents and the kid in courts. You need to be brave and stand up for you and your brother and your fathers. Be proud of them and who you are. A family.\n\nThey other thing you need to do is continue to talk to your fathers and tell them about your fears. They will listen. If the situation is bad enough, one or both of them will take some sort of action to help you and protect you. If it comes down to moving away then so be it. But running away from a problem has never solved the problem. Be strong, and God will be on your side, for you are in the right here.
322162
Keep talking to your brother,he seems to be the only person in your family acting like a grown-up!You are entitled to your beliefs and he is your brother,losing him would be like losing an arm,so keepthe lines of communication open and hopefully your parents and sister will come round,good luck,stay strong.
605242
Honestly, It needs to come from YOUR heart...not ours.  I'm sure if you take the time to really think about it, you will work it out.  My brother used to abuse me horribly...the best apology I ever got was the day he grew up and stopped.  Tell your brother you love him and that you will never do it again. You and your brother should have a beautiful bonding relationship....as I see in my two boys.
282901
Tell your parents, tell the principal, kick their ass..Do you have any brothers.
332847
He sure sounds like a spoiled brat to me. Have brother with the same problem.  Well, 1 thing is for sure: cuddling him like a baby will only reinforce his present behavior.  Forgive me for saying this but his attitude reflects the way he was being brought up.  You might want to explore a different approach than the 1 you guys are used to...probably a firmer approach? you can't be wishy-washy about your decision 'coz he won't take you seriously.  Be harsh if you have to be harsh...if you really love him, find the courage to hurt him for his own good. you can't be there for him forever...if you ask me, son or not at his age he should stop living a parasitic life and should be kicked out of the house. good luck.
1045526
If you were to call the police they would probably just talk to the other kids parents which would either solve the problem, but from the sound of it end up making it worse. If you're in an apartment complex I would just move away and maybe even save money by getting a move in special. If you're in a lease you could talk to the managers and see if they could let you break it with the circumstances. You might even try asking the property management what they could do. The best thing would be to just avoid having your child leave the apartment when those other kids are out or maybe even just asking them to stop doing it. Usually if you confront them and are nice about it they will stop. Most kids are good inside they just act tough in front of other kids. Try appealing to them as adults and not threatening them. The worst thing would be if they do something worse out of anger. You could also have your son take taekwondo lessons to help him defend himself and give him more self confidence. \n\nAs for whoever left you a message saying your son deserves to be hit and you're bad mother, they're probably the type to go around hitting kids. Ignore that, you're trying to fix the problem and that's more than most people do!\n\nHope that helps! \n\n-Derek
1060117
You need to acknowledge him.  Call your brother by name.  Tell him that you love him and miss him.  Let him know that you and everyone in the family is ok.  But let him know that when he makes noises it scares you.  Ask him to please stop scaring you and move on.  Let him know that it's ok for him to stay with you if he wants to, if it is, but that he has to stop freaking you out.
230212
Either hit him back . . . or use the great equalizer . . . \n\nI have you scratching your heads. . . don't I.\n\nLet me explain . . . my dad had two bigger brothers that picked on him . . . and beat him up.  One day his mother said . . . "Stop it or one day . . . he will pick up a great equalizer . . . and put it to use."\n\nOf course . . . you know kids . . . they don't listen.  One day . . . . my dad's brothers were yelling "Help, help . . . he's going to kill us."  My dad's mom walked outside . . . and saw my dad chasing his two brothers swinging a 2x4 . . . and she yelled out "Told you so"  walked back into the house laughing.  They never picked on him again.\n\n- - \n\nYour brother may be younger . . . but you may not have the physical strength . . . to teach him this lesson . . . if you need to . . . pick-up an equalizer . . . and print this out and give it to your parents . . . they may punish you . . . or after reading this . . . they will probably laugh their A** off.
223175
I have the same problem. My mother has been with a man for 7 months now who is intent on getting his mates to beat my younger brother up. Keep in mind this man is 41 and my brother is only 22. This man is also a druggy and a alcoholic who associates with nasty people. My mum does not see this man for what he is really like, a low life scum bag basically. What i suggest is you go below the belt and think of ways that would maybe scare him off. Involve your friends if you can, male or female. Dont do anything that would break the law of course, but devise a plan that wont back fire on you from your mother. Maybe prank phone calls to his mobile number prenteding to be his secret love affiar while he is with your mum in the nights ?? Belive me she will go nuts after constant calls night after night. It nearly worked for me. If you want to contact me for ideas i will greatly help as last year i near enough made it a no.1 priority to get rid of my mums b.friend as i hate him with a passion.
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the best part of having a sibling is, being able to fight !!! Come on man, u shud learn to enjoy those moments. well if u dont, i suggest u occupy urself doing something u enjoy doing and ur brother doesnt. That way, he is kept far from u while u r still with him.