Jealous? Insecure? or Both??
371891
I can talk from experience about jealousy, being insecure. It's both. Men like this who get mad because you're wanting to feel good about yourself, is and can be a problem. It's a form of control. These type of men, will not change. I know, talking 12 years of it here. It starts out with them accusing you of flirting, or being too nice to the next guy, spending too much time with friends or family and that isn't always the case. Men like these are so insecure about themselves, they don't want you looking nice or feeling good about yourself because they don't feel good about themselves. Next thing you know, you're being blamed for their insecurity. I know, it happened to me. You can try to talk to him and tell him how that makes you feel when he's accusing you of trying to impress other men at your job but if he isn't listening to you or tries on work on that jealousy or insecurity, then you may need to re-think on your relationship. Men like these don't want you to feel good about yourself and for whatever reason, they want to control everything in your life. Don't let him do that or you'll end up like me, miserable and unhappy. My husband and I are divorcing now but it doesn't take away all the pain of him being jealous of everything or everyone I knew. He should be complimenting on your new looks or your new hairdo, whatever the case may be and get over his insecurity and jealousy because if he doesn't, it will drive you away. I know. Hope this helps!
112736
He's probably very insecure and by making you jealous he's assuring himself that you care-it really sucks doesnt it? My question is: Why be jealous of his EX girlfriends-they are EXS for a reason!!
269789
ya ... jealous ?? lol
440064
Not sure about her,but I can tell you any guy who tries to make me jealous ends up losing me immediately lol\n\nI figure if he wants her he can have her I will move on to a man who knows what he has :)\n\nSo only do if you are ready to lose any chance with her.
757883
It's quite possible he is jealous... For some reason we are that way (think it's an ego thing)... We may not want her but we don't want her to be with anyone else either..\nYes I know, it doesn't make sense to me either... It is real however.
910429
she has ALL those things?? why would she want someone insecure about themselves like you???
744687
In every case that I have saw, both men and women are jealous of each other because they are very insecure. Both should reassure the other that they do love the other. That they are not interested in anyone BUT them and MEAN it. Show them that they really do mean a lot to them. A relationship is a two way street, it is all about give and take. You don't treat the other good part of the time, you do it all the time, every chance you get. Sad but true, some people just don't ever understand how they should act toward their partner.They think just because you show them some affection here and there that is enough, wrong, show it to them all the time. Stay honest with your partner at all times, don't try to hide anything from them. You go hiding anything from them, they are going to start to wonder what else you are hiding. Jealousy is really all about being insecure.
694368
insecurities.   were you cheating?
536961
Jealousy (in my opinion) is a sign of self insecurities. I would be concerned if it shows signs of becoming violent or controlling.\n\nIf you love her you will work her through this and find why she feels she has this jealousy otherwise, I'd suggest advising help and getting out of the situation.\n\nBased on what you said it almost sounds like bi-polar or multiple personalities being triggered by emotional stress. (Wild guess not meant to diagnose just give you an idea of what you could look up to see descriptions of)
304117
hmmm... go ahead. If you dont care about your boyfriend being jealous.
666439
when a person has a jealousy it will be forever and cannot be removed. He keeps on doing it and u both keep on getting into some troubles. So its better to discuss the problem of ur relation and solve it as soon as possible. Thank You.
1071015
wow. i think she's beyond jealous. first question, i understood it. second question...i wondered...this, being the third question...i'm starting to worry about you.
143479
Leave the jealous guy! Do you not want a life? A jealous man is insecure. Jealousy and possessiveness are not redeemable qualities.\n\nA real man that loves you will give you freedom, not take it! He is a person that is secure in himself and his abilities.\n\nYou will enjoy life better without the burden of being guarded and watched all the time. Even have friends! Wow!\n\nYour call now.
1135921
Jealousy is usually a sign of insecurity, apparently you're boyfriend doesn't suffer from it. Be glad, because there's an old Chinese proverb that says; \n" Those who mistrust most, should be trusted least"
1045666
If you're jealous, there's probably a good reason for it.  This guy has already broken your trust once and hasn't built it back yet.  I'd talk to him and tell him that the things he's donig are making you uncomfortable and until you feel you can trust him fully he needs to back off the other girls for awhile.  If he's not willing to help you trust him, he's not worth your trust.  And usually your gut instinct is right.  9 out of 10 times, once a cheater, always a cheater!
522044
insecure.. no confidence in self.. maybe, i'm one of them.. =)
642041
I don't get mad. I kid him about it but, I don't actually get angry about it. She sounds a little jealous. Are you paying enough attention to her? Are you telling her how beautiful she is?