How do I tell her that I am not interested in a relationship?
369250
"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
698317
Tell her you want to remain single.  You are not the type who can settle with a marriage.  Tell her you may not be faithful to her so it is better to be friends.
86946
It's best not to reject anyone at all. Simply be honest with them. Let them know you are genuinely not interested in an intimate relationship with them, and that you respect them to much to play those types of games.  Any intelligent person can respond to this, without getting overly emotional.  If they do, better now than six months later when the feelings have become much more involved.
1174205
You need to move on, I don't think that the relationship you long for will ever be.  She obviously isn't interested in you.
104536
You have your answer, but don't want to admit it.  Save your dignity & move on.  If she's interested, she'll seek you out.
367557
dude an awfull story.well u can just do one think in that case that go to her and tell her that what she wants from u. r u not handsome .just tell her about ur feelings to her and then also she ignorrs u then just ignore her for a weak or a month.then sea the resalts
1098389
act like your not interested, play it cool, don't fawn over her, have other interests........\n\nit's a mix of not totally ignoring the person and not being overly nice either.
172578
First, don't act like a stalker, you will just scare her away.\n\nSecond, tell her how you feel.\n\nThird depends on whether she tells you she is not interested or accepts a date.
1135698
Have an honest talk with her, share your concerns, but don't be threatening.  If she isn't interested in anyone else, you have no problem. If she is, then I would try to end things.
72929
Pretending like your not interested.\n     I don't know why, but it works!!!\n             \n                  TRUST ME TRY IT.
685441
she told u that coz its another way of saying she don't want to date u again.....\n\nits an excuse not to further hurt ur feelings...
78788
There are no such "effective steps " over this issue. The thing is: either she likes you or not. So you just have to find it. Now she could be more willing to go out with you on a date if you treat her gentle and with respect. Tell her in the most nice way you can to hang out :)
420287
Ignore her if you don't want to tell her straight out. Works for me....
648910
Don't lead her on.  Don't have sex with her or flirt with her or act as if you want anything more than a friendship.  Be open and honest with her and don't send mixed messages.  Tell her you only want friendship and if she wants more and can't handle being friends, then you have to end the communication between you because it will only result in someone getting hurt.
1125467
How about just coming out and asking her?  If she says no she is either lying and you don't want a liar back or she really doesn't want you back and feels you are better a friends rather than a couple.  OR she says yes and you have decisions of your own to make.
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she's not attracted to you, shes being polite, but shes not in love with you\n\nlucky for you, attraction can grow. keep her as a friend. dont hound her or suffocate her by trying to be around her everywhere she goes. play her game. be "friendly". take her video game shopping. challenge her to a game of thumb wrestling. talk about sports and chicks and "guy topics" with her. treat her like a bratty lil sister. do things to rub it in her face that she's the one that wanted you guys to "just be friends". then she'll become attracted to you in the way you want her to be\n\ndont beg or supplicate. dont mope. be the guy that enjoys whatever life throws at him and makes the best of it. you'll get her if you dont chase her
341179
I suggest that you 'clear the air' straight away. First off say she looks great. Then tell her you enjoyed your fling but your not looking for a serious relationship right now. Then talk about some mutual interest to get normal conversation going. Good luck!