Do u think that a man that has sexual desires for kids and adults is a pedophile?
370569
What is there to think about, just use a dictionary.
511041
Who told you that? i guess priest of your church . Keep away from him since most of them are child molesters.
552012
No. a guy that age is no more a baby... his interests are more of girls, music, sports, or any 'in' things young men do like to do. Many would prefer to act like mature adults, not overgrown babies! And mature men dont play with stuff like that, unless he is abnormal.  Dont ever give him that, else he will surely be offended from your innocent and unintended innuendos that he is still immature.
1089677
I think yes, chldren do have the urge to look after their own interests. They want what they want. And it seems perfectly natural to them to protect what they want. Some children are, though, naturally giving to those that they care about. Just as that selfish streak is inherent, I think unconditional love is also something inherent in children.
135920
Yes, it is weird. At best it shows he lacks maturity. At worst, it makes him a dangerous sexual predator. The exclusion of his girlfriend *probably* indicates the latter.
293961
If you find out what the man actually did, it might put your mind at ease. He is not necessarily a pedophile. \n\nDo some research. If he is on probation, call his officer. Find out if he is someone you really need to worry about before you get all paranoid.
135364
Yes, I agree. It's like some people are true perverts and pedophiles. I watch the places my daughter goes when she's online. Someone has to be able to protect her!
1075422
I did not know about this issue in the Netherland or the NVD... \n\nCan I add a comment/ question to this- I know there is a group here in the US called Gay Man Boy Love or something like that.  I first heard of it on South Park and I thought it was a joke but then found it was for real.  \n\nFrom what I understand, they feel that pedophilia can be natural and is acceptable, like the NVD does.  I don't know if they are currently taking actions to legalize it or lower and eventually eliminate age of consent.  \n\nBut I wonder- how can the existence of these groups even be allowed?  Not to be crude, but I am sure there is some sharing of graphic pictures and websites- I doubt they can have many intellectual conversations on the topic.  \n\nJust an extra thought- albeit somewhat meandering and unfocused- I wanted to add to your question... hope you don't mind.
721210
Absolutely, also a pedofile, some of his wives were under 10 years of age.  One was 8 years old.  He advocated a rein of terror.  Mostly towards women.
562567
What you describe is three different things: sexual orientation, a fetish and a paraphilias. Theres nothing wrong with his sexual orientation. His foot fetish is only a problem if it gets in the way of everything else. However, his interest in little boys is a problem.\n\nDepending on where your friend is, getting help for pedophillic urges can be difficult (as in some places, the therapist is required by law to notify the authorities). Get your friend to read the following link (which also helps people who have other deviant fantasies)....
507739
He has a fetish an unusual one at that.  Probably had his first orgasm eavesdropping on his parents who screamed out each other's names.  Ask him.
855064
Homosexuals are sexually attracted to adults of the same sex, heterosexuals are sexually attracted to adults of the opposite sex, and pedophiles are sexually attracted to children. Adults are able to consent to sexual relations and children are not. Homosexuals and heterosexuals seek consenting relationships, pedophiles seek abusive relationships. Nobody is hurt in adult homosexual or heterosexual relationships, and a child is hurt in pedophilia. Homosexual and heterosexual people should both be free to engage in adult relationships, and pedophiles should be in psychiatric counseling and jail.
853662
Not too many men admit to being a pedophile.....
214272
I agree. To me they are even scarier than rapists and murderers. That might sound extreme, but anyone who has children can probably relate to that sick feeling in their stomach they get when thinking about what sick things pedophiles out there are doing to children.
732723
Of course not! Men are not all paedophile perverts! What has society come to when someone asks a ridiculous question like this? Men are not inherently or more likely to be evil, just as women are not all naturally good, kind and inherantly trustworthy. Why shouldn't men want to be teachers? Why shouldn't men be nursery nurses if they want to be? Is it any wonder that the number of men suffering from depression is so high, with attitudes like that being the accepted norm nowadays??! Some men are actually caring, sensitive and nurturing, and don't just want to help people so they can get them into bed. Men and women are both good and bad, in basically equal measure, so stop demonizing men, and generalising on the basis of gender. That's called SEXISM, and is worse than the type of sexism women used to suffer, because men nowadays are treated as though they're the lowest of the low, all personally responsible for the ills of the world, past and present, and basically treated as though they're money-making, purchasing machines, not individual people.
117709
First of all, I am not sure why people confuse the words pedophile with Sex offender. A pedophile is someone with a sexual desire for a child, usually one that had not developed yet. \n\nIt has been found that many pedophiles cannot control their sexual urges. But altering their body is not exaclty constitutional. They are required to go to treatment and if there is reason to believe they are very disturbed, they are placed in a special home. \n\nBut there are many other people on the sex offender list that are not pedophiles. Some people on the list were caught urinating off the side of a boat when another boat passed by. Some were 22 year olds that dated a 16 year old with her parents permission but after a nasty breakup, someone called the cops. Some are 23 year old Frat boys that hook up at a keg party only to find out the girl is not in college yet. Are these people pedophiles? I would have to say no, not necessarily. Do they deserve to be nuetered? \n\nI think the public needs to be better educated on this subject before casting their opinions.  Otherwise, rights of all people will be taken away one by one and we will live in the society of An Eye for an Eye like in Acient times.
341765
Only if he is a good person to be around the kids.  Any jerk off the street could financially support someone, but that doesn't mean he's a good role model.