Can it work with my guy if he's 21 and I'm 32?
360675
Sometimes it's true that women's maturity level progresses faster than younger men's. In your case you might be feeling a bit uncertain because that statement does not apply to you. \nRemember: Age is only a number. So is salary.\n\nIf you can love him no matter what and want to work things out with him, no matter what, then he is the one for you.\n\nEveryone has differences in taste, his is 80's music and an early bed time.. so what? At least he isn't a drug addict and abuser. Take it for what it's worth... if he treats you well, is financially stable and willing to work on your relationship, you've got a winner!\n\nGood luck, and look out for yourself--
562636
Love at first sight is very possible, age does matter though, I think. I am 25 and I was dating a 21 year old and he was way too immature for me. I also dated a 37 year old and I was way too energetic for him. You need to be with someone that likes most of the same things you do. Men don't have a brain until they are in their late 30's anyway.
657921
Not as long as he's not a minor.  If he's an adult, go for it.  Although it's kinda silly, men mature slower, so you are really just setting yourself up for a relationship that's unbalanced from the beginning.
180598
As long as you are both of leagal age. There is no problem with it!
764544
well dear , i think you are still too young , he is already 13 years older than you even though the age doesn't matter SOMETIMES, but you both can not be like each other much , because he is nearly grown man and your so young . And its very soon for you to start relationship with a man , am sure when you get older ; your ideals will be changed , and may be you will regret for choosing him and may be not as well. As you know relationship in young ppl would be ended very soon, because its not strong love , and no enough reason , most of them are sensitive decisions. And  i think its better you fall in love slowly but sensibly \n, if you do that your Love will grow by age and your relationship would not be finished so quickly and nothing can disturb this.\n\nGood Luck darling
1166685
If you do he is a lucky man.  Age isn't a huge factor in every relationship.  The question is really is this the right guy and the right relationship for you?  A age difference like this will always present some problems but nothing that you can't deal with or predict if your honest with yourselves.  Think it through and don't worry about what others think, do what is right for you.
627593
well it depends...if your 18 it should be fine..but if he's 21 and your not, he may not want to date you cause he can't take you out..some guys are weird like that!! if none of those are the case then he's an idiot so you should move on and not waste your time waiting for him!!
147936
You may be compatible. But sounds to me he needs some working on. Older men tend to get set in there ways. At the\nbeginning all is going smooth, but things start changing when it gets late in the relationship. It's not you. It's them. At times they have to remind themselves they have a\nlady and they need to tend to her needs. Some have been\nby theirselves for so long til they forgot what it's like to\nbe in a relationship. I had a friend who did the same thing to me. Sit him down and talk to him. Tell him what's on your mind. Tell him how you are feeling about some things. \nthen go grom there.
619792
Age should not make a difference. I should know, I am dating a younger man. So as long as the age is legal I see no harm in it. But, honestly, what do you think you have in common with a 20 y/o?
610451
YOU age is not bad for him\nYOU NEED TO MAKE HIM PAY SOMETHING FOR YOU\nbohong1987@yahoo.com
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
1077794
There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.
375642
There is NO problem. The ONLY problem there would be is if you and your hubby had the problem.As long as you both are fine with it then all is well. It's your guy's life not there's. I'm 31 and my hubby is 38 and we make an awsome couple. As long as you both are cool with it then it's NO ONE Else's business...
317222
that is fine. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 36. This August will be our 2 year aniversary. YAY. We love each other very much. He is a wonderful man. So if u think it will work and u both like each go for it. Age is nuthin but a number.
629057
The older the man is the better for you because women tend to look older than men especially after giving birth. So dont worry about that guy being 3 years older, in fact up to 10 years older, it still ok but not more than that. Meanwhile, let him make the first move, inviting you out for a first date. Then you see how things will work out. You both have yet to know about each other better than to just plunge deeply into a relationship. You should try and know about his past. He may have certain weaknessess you may not know off. So just go slow and takes things slowly. If hes willed to be with you, he will be, otherwise you just like chasing in the wind. May God Bless you with the will to decide wisely to pursue the relationship with him.
409184
Heck yeah!!!  All that matters is if the two people are compatable.  Age is just a number.
1182083
Dude, I am 16 yrs older than my husband and we have a very healthy relationship. He keeps me happy and I allso keep him happy. Of course there are some differences,but communication is the best way to keep your relationship Strong and fulfilled.