what should i do on my wedding night i am scared of sex coz i never experienced it?.?
362621
If you are a woman, it will hurt the first time...  (bleeding is natural)  But the more you do it, the better it gets...  If you are a man, it will be extremely tight the first time...  (your penis might hurt)  Dont have trouble finding the woman;s hole, study before hand...  Watch a porn movie, or get a biology book..
330016
What pain??  I mean if I was celibate for that long all I would know is pleasure, pleasure, pleasure baby!  An experienced man will know how to get you ready for a wonderful nite.  Don't worry about it - but I might suggest you discuss the foreplay if the subject comes up before hand.  That is if you can handle that kind of conversation before your wedding nite;)\n\nIf you want to be sure tho pack some KY for lube, we use it often now that I am pre-meno.  It's great for getting things going.\n\nHave fun and congratulations on your nuptials and waiting to make it some much more special.  The best we did was wait one week.  It was nice but not as special I'm sure as what your nite will be.  Have a great one!
1021475
Yes I have and nothing happened. I was nervous for a while. I will probably never do it again because it wasn't worth the nervousness that followed. Someone told me this once and maybe it'll help answer the question of whether you should or not, " Before you have sex with someone, ask yourself if you would be willing to have a kid with them and have them as a part of the rest of your life". If you can answer yes to that, then don;t worry about it....
393929
If you're a virgin, you will experience some pain.  Hopefully, you will stay a virgin till your wedding night and let this intiment event take place during the special time it was meant for.  Never feel pressured to lose your virginity.  Be proud of it and be different.  Once you lose it, it's gone forever.
266093
I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.
500908
Sleep. After the huge wedding and reception and the big stress relief you will feel when it is all over, all you will do that night is sleep. However the next night will hopefully be a different story. =)
419392
I think you'll be fine. You've just built it up in your mind a bit too much (which is only natural whatever your age).\n\nI also think that you have a lot of stress in your life right now. Even good things like buying a house and getting married cause stress because they are big, life-changing events. Look at the facts:\n\n1- getting married\n2- buying a house\n3- having sex for the first time\n4- Losing your religious faith\n\nAnd probably more things that you haven't mentioned. You have a lot going on right now and it's only natural to be nervous. you are not messed up you are just under pressure. \n\nNobody is forcing you to have sex on your wedding night. This is YOUR marriage, YOUR wedding, YOUR life and YOUR rules. You and your partner are the ones who make the rules and when you are ready for the next step it will come naturally. Just try not to put pressure on yourselves. Relax and go easy on yourselves. You two make the rules here.
1093520
dont have it so often.  then it will be more specail.  try foreplay but then no sex.  then carry all that sexual tension for a week and have a blast one night.  try new positions or techniques.
751321
Please dont do that the first time you have sex with her... That will scare her especially if she doesn't have a lot of sexual experience. Find out how much sexual experience she has had.  Ask questions and snoop (kinda) "what the kinkiest thing you have done" or "whats the freakiest thing you would do or want to do" or  when your out at the mall somewhere and pat her but and see how she reacts... If she says OOOOOhhhh and kisses you then maybe its a good idea if you do it and she says what are doing and gives you a crazy look.... Please don't spank her...\n\nHope this helps
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
1044336
Dude don't wait until your wedding night you might have a heart attack go have sex right now with your future wife that way you'll see if this sex thing means a whole lot to her or not. By the rate you're going you'll be divorce within a week if you can't satisfy your wife.
1049623
what scares you is who you don't know who you are. accept yourself & that the unknown if full of fear. sounds like you're letting it paralyze you. don't. \nsexuality cannot ruin your life unless you let it. be resposible. get aware. find the information that will allow you to make the right, nurturing, healing choices for you.
131866
I perfectly understand, and it is not a matter of the year we live on. I know for experience that this can be really hard to manage but you have to realize that the reason why you are not going to have sex is by choice, not prohibition, if you think you are missing something or have such a hurry but dont want to get "punished" or loose privelegies, you have to sit and make a self exam where you can settle the reason. M********* i dont recommend, you'll feel guilty, do some work, exercise, read, get out of bed when you feel like doing it, find out the facts that make you urge... hope this helps
1131039
SWEETIE WHEN U START HAVING SEX THATS WHEN U SHOULD START---TAKE ADVICE FROM A NURSE--SO DONT START SEX AND U DONT HAVE WORRIES
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
533363
That's no reason to NOT get married but I can see why she is afraid of sex.  She should seek counseling with her fiance and soon to be husband before getting married. Perhaps she will discover that now isn't the right time to get married and on the other side, she could discover that she loves her fiance enough to no longer be scared...
70821
Don't tend to 'til my wedding night! \n\n;)