What should I do to get my husband give me a massage?
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As mates most man massage for one reason only - to get some punani - if you really need a massage - pay for it at a spa - get your husband one too - he'll enjoy that.\n\nIt's not easy and some man don't know - I love giving massage and I took lessons just because it was a sure way to get laid.\nJust being honest and being a guy
1147617
Well if you want to help him feel relaxed then just take him to a Masseuse or tell him to take a vacation off work you know something like that will help anyone.
676326
Tell them YOU will pay THEM and they MIGHT come in.\n\nIt is almost impossible to find a guy that gives massages to women who does not do SOMETHING creepy.\nEven my yoga instructor, a really nice guy, who give massages very cheap to women who take his classes, sticks his fingers in the women's ears I am told. This is NOT part of a real massage. I do not want any man sticking his fingers in my ears or any other part of my body.\n\nMen just cannot be trusted in a situation like this, sadly.\nIt's too bad because men have much stronger hands and a good massage by a man would be wonderful, but I don't trust ANY of them.
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There are some great answers here. I thought maybe a gift certificate for a spa day-you two could go together. You know-a manicure, pedicure, massage, facial, etc.. I think it would be fun and relaxing for both of you.
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I am having the same problem...What i came up with is I am making him a coupon book on my computer.  The coupons say things like...1 hour massage at your request, another one says dinner of your choice just how you like it, and a 4 hour coupon to go out with buddies, and there are some other ones but they are kind of personal (if your know what I mean)...I think It will be a great personal fun gift to give him.  Good luck
786407
Massage for starters!
316546
All the answers so far are very nice, make sure you let her know she is your pride and joy.  Most women want to hear it, along with you showing her.  The one thing I would want for my birthday from my husband, is his undivided attention.  Also, he has written me beautiful love letters, some very open where you see his soul, telling me why he loves me, some very sexy.  \n\nThe one thing not to do, would be giving her something very sentimental if you are not sure you will be together forever.  She will put more meaning on it than you do, and she will have to either look at it after your thru, or get rid of it- either way it ends up being painful.\n\nLast of all, the massage idea is great, especially if you are the one giving it!  Your affection and physical touch, will mean so much.  Make sure it lasts for at least a half hour, putting real effort and thought into it.  Look up how to give a massage, so it shows in the act of giving it.  \n\nBless you, and with the thought you are already putting into it, you will be sure to have a lasting impression.
764254
Have a guy give you a body massage.
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Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
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You should try something creative. Something that you can't just go out and buy and that tons of other people have. Get him something to realize like a day at the spa. Alot of guys are doing that these days and then you two can go together. They offer a lot of great services for men now a days. Also  try something creative like M and Ms have personalized M & Ms where you can put anything you want on them. Ideas like this are sweet and thoughtful.
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Make a special dinner for him.....candlelight, favorite foods, and make it somewhere unusal and secret. \n\nYou could kidnap him away for a special overnight trip, to a bed and breakfast, or nice hotel in another city.\n\nOffer to do his laundry for him.  Give him a body massage.  Wash his hair for him and style it.  All of these things are not expensive, and they are personal and they say that you care enough to be that personal and loving......
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If he is active and a person who takes care of himself I would recommend a massage treatment. My wife talked me into it and I would have to say it was fantastic. It could also be a great date together.
71979
You should go to a massage therapist.
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you know your body better than anyone.  Teach him how to please you and then you won't have to be upset afterwards..They can be taught how do you think they know as much as they do before they get to you.
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In my experience, massages of any kind are a good indication of romantic interest. I'd say don't accept that sort of thing more than once unless you can return his interest.
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it is obvious that you want to please your husband and you should feel confidant that her cares if you hurt or not during this time of expressing\nthere are many things to consider\n   *his weight vs. your body size\n   *the quality of the bed you may be using\n   *the position of your arms\n   *the intensity of his thrust\nNever the less Let Him help you Get comfortable\nHe will feel special that you are sharing this with him and going to Him for help...if no relief is found check with your doctor - it could be serious
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three things:   Don't tickle, massage very very slowly.  Also, lick just behind the balls while stroking the member.  Also.....give me, er him a hot bath only washing my hair and making sure it's full of bubbles.  good luck.