do you agree on extra marital relationships?
373680
It is something that everyone thinks about, I mean, humans are attracted to many others than just their spouse, it is natural, we are animals all in the same sense. So, as long as there is a mutual agreement, and one from the other couple/person then there should not be much trouble.
475427
I found my next door neighbor was my soul-mate.  We will be celebrating 9 years together in July, we've been married for 8 and have 2 beautiful kids together. We started out as "just friends".  We would just sit around, listen to music and talk.
490000
It seems reasonable to conclude you believe they wouldn't approve of this relationship.  You should at least respect them enough to be honest with them, if you don't respect them enough to honor their wishes.
507864
No. The big issues are what they always have been. What do you expect out of the marriage? Are you a good match? Do you love one another? Are you passionate together?  etc.
227003
Yes, I agree.\n\nGood relationships, whether personal or societal are an EXCHANGE of power.\n\nBad ones are when the exchange is unequal.
262539
I would not form an opinion of a couple based solely on this criteria, or on what is written here.  Nor solely on any other criteria.  That is downright narrow minded.  I dont like them because they eat oranges, or they have a foreign car, or they party too much.  \n\nCan the couple love each other?  \n\nAbsolutely yes they can.  That is not to say that there aren other issues that can come out of this type of alternative lifestyle.\n\n  \nExample:  A happily married couple, the wife is bisexual, she refuses to act on this by herself and so discusses it with her husband.  They set up a system of rules for behavior and limits which allows her to act on her needs and includes him in the process.  They have great experiences together, and their love (and trust) grows.  They start a family, priorities change, and they chill on the 3-somes.\n\nIt is a fine line, and honesty is key.  Likewise, when you play with fire, dont cry when you get burned.
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
635085
Yes, I believe in marriage. I married my husband because I was, and still am, in love with him. In the eyes of GOD, we share each other and are bonded to one another. We became one person on that day. That's not to say that we don't have individual thoughts, feelings and ideas but to say that we share feelings, thoughts and ideas with each other in a way unlike if we knew "there would be a way out" or "backdoor". He is half of me and I half of him. We have from that day on thought of each other and consulted each other before making decisions to be courteous and considerate of the other feelings. The one you marry would, rather should, love you through it all and truly mean the words he/she vows. For me, I know my husband does and as do I. It's hard but it's well worth all the effort. I hope that you can find this kind of love and one day decide to share this kind of bond with someone you will love for always. Best wishes. Take care.
57846
NO WAY!  My husband and I live 3 lives in our home.  My life, his life, and the life we share together.  We dont let those 3 collide.  He has his friends, I have mine and we have joint friends.
717616
I believe there are many people with whom you could make a "true love" relationship with.  The key is both partners makeing the effort toward a loveing relationship, and a commitment to the other person,
217382
Most of the ones I know are.  I've dated two (married one) and they were both true romantics.
313002
Nope, nor will I ever. \nI am dead serious about the vows I made to my Hubby. My marriage and family I have acquired through it mean the world to me. Why jeopardize that?
131691
Yes.  I believe that a trend that is emerging in the dating world is to take a cohabitating, married relationship on a test run before actually tying the knot.  Living together is an effective way to see if you are compatible after a long time of dating and not cohabitating.  However, don't be suckered in to living with someone who won't marry you, who is basically playing you on an "extended test run".  They can't have it both ways.
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
496798
I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.
579143
yes I would... Sometimes you just don't want the hassle of a "full-time" relationship... "No strings attached" is not such a bad concept
825910
I totally disagree!  I am married and in love.  The romance doesn't HAVE to leave just because you get married.