I am in the mood for sex and i just broke up with my boyfriend.?
357886
Sex on the rebound is a disease waiting to happen, remember, women think with their heart, and sex without commitment is only going to lead to heartbreak... also, condoms advertise as safer sex not as safe sex... they can break, leak, fall off, and ALL of them have microscopic holes in them.  these microscopic holes are large enough for the aids virus to pass through, so like i said, Sex on the rebound is a disease waiting to happen.
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I don't know of anybody who didn't feel horrible after breaking up. A bond between two human beings is a valuable, special, particularly fragile link. Why not remember the good times you both had? Here's something else to keep in mind: there was probably a reason you both broke up. Was it something you needed to do? There may be a valid reason. And above all: these things take time. You can't expect to jump out of bed the next morning singing and dancing, but it's also equally unhealthy to obsess all the time your ex-boyfriend and your ended relationship. "If the problem persists, it may be necessary to seek professional help," we hear that all the time, but if the problem lasts longer than you think it should, it's probably a good idea to talk to a psychiatrist. ( A female psychiatrist would more likely have experienced what you're going through.)To occupy your time, you could go out with your friends, donate time to a charity, express your feelings through art or writing... however, and I am not trying to disrespect your feelings by any means, you seem a bit young to be dating. Enjoy life.  You'll have the rest of your life to worry about men and boyfriends. You're young, so why not not spend valuable time, instead of thinking of boys, learn to better yourself? Learn to speak German; learn Karate. You'll empower yourself and your self-esteem will rise. I personally wish you the best of luck.
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Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.\n\nThat is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide?  Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?\n\nMy guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.\n\nNow, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.\n\nOn the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time.  If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.\n\nOverall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
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I was with my ex for 8 years as well and after about six years into the relationship, the sex became less and less.  By the eighth year in our relationship, we realized our situation was getting old and both agreed to move on.  My advice to you is to try new things with him (positions, places, etc) and try to spice things up...maybe rekindle the sex you had when you first started going out.  I really wish I would have tried, instead of giving up.\nGood luck!
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
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Sounds like you are just very upset over the break up. Surround yourself with positive people and things. Do something nice for yourself to take your mind off it. \n\nThe boost or ensure is a good idea. I personally like smoothies when I can't eat. Easy on the system and you get good protien that your body needs. \n\nBest wishes and take care of yourself. hugs.
120657
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
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just tell him what you want \ntell him you need to connect on an emotional level \nif he splits then he wanted sex and thats it
280335
Oh my goodness I had this same problem, This is what I did. I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I CLEAR MY MIND AND BE FOCUSED WHAT I'M DOING.HAVE TO BE TURNED ON! YOU HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO PLEASE YOU!!!  I was w/ my ex for 5 yrs. I though I had plenty of organisms until I met my fiance SO that goes back to ya man has to know what he's doing!
440000
If you feel you're not ready, don't let the feelings of 'loss' cloud the way you actually feel. If you're being pressured to have sex when you're not ready for it, and he's leaving you because he disrespects your choice, he's not ready for someone like you! It might hurt now...but if having sex with you is the ONLY reason he wants to be with you, sorry, dear girl, but there's probably someone out there who will treat you with at least the same respect that you have for yourself.
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Sounds like you feel he doesn't love you and just using you for sex.  You may have that feeling because he is.  If you feel that way you can't be enjoying your time with him , so do something that you can get into with him. Just spend some time together going out to diner or movies you may need some quality time together and rekindle your relationship.
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If sex is important to you ( and that's about all of us) you got to either leave and find someone else, cheat and lose your self repect or get toys.  Leave and find someone else is better for you and in the long run him too.  Would at least try talking to him about it first thought, assuming you haven't.
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sex....Monday morning\nMasturbated...Monday evening\n\nYes, I miss it....Can't wait till my boyfriend gets home.
1129279
Go sleep on his doorstep!...haha just kidding (sorry) I'd say keep yourself busy. Especially if he's not trying to contact you. Hang out with your friends, rent movies (not romantic ones), pick up a hobby you used to have, etc. Or do like I do, go dye your hair and get it cut in a new style. It always makes me feel like a million bucks and it's my ritual after a break up. It literally turns you into "a new person" and you feel prepared to face the world.
915107
Well, neither of you truly knew where the relationship was going to end up.  If you start throwing sex into the mix then the feelings involve get very confusing.  I would say you are going to have to talk to him about it.  Let him know how you feel and don't let it carry on any longer.  The longer you go on with these feelings the more it is going to hurt him later.  Stop sleeping with him for sure.  He will decide if you are still going to be friends, if you were truly good friends he will probably come around and be friends with you again.  It might take some time though.  You might not want to date anyone else for awhile, especially don't introduce them if you do. Friends and sex usually don't end up with positives, but you might be lucky.
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i dont....i just want sex
1172928
Wow, you're in a tough spot! If pleasuring yourself is out then if you're going to do something, I'd break-up.