my two bestest friends hate eachother wat shud i do?
372404
this is a very hard situation to be in believe me i know how you feel! my two best friends hate eachother too! one is a cheerleader and the other is a music buff and hates cheerleaders! i tell them both that i don't want in the middle of their little cat fights and they actually don't put me in that situation. if you're really their best friend, they won't make you sit through that kind of stuff. mine actually don't have a problem with eachother if i'm around with them both. every now and then i get into conflicts with one saying i'm paying more attention to the other but i just ignore that fact. what can i do, i have more classes with the cheerleader than i do with the music buff. just make sure they know you don't want anything to do with their little fights and they should let you out of their fights. it may take a little while, especially if they get into a huge argument! they might expect you to choose sides, but don't do it. stay strong and stick up for yourself! let them know who's boss in your life lol! i hope this helps and wish you luck!
148639
Stay away from the both of them, find a new friend, or just pick one of them.
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
655944
Don't pick a side.  Fights are little glitches in friendships and in time they work themselves out.  Real friends will not ask or make you to choose sides.  And as for the friends that are mad at you.  It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for something you are not.  They will get over it too.
190573
just start hating these (supposed to be) best Friends and try to get a really good best friend.
598905
First ask your bff if it okay and if you don't like him talk to her. if you do like him decide which is more important, him or your bff.
472523
I am in that exact situation now.  I have 2 groups of close friends that hate each other and are constantly bitching about each other to me, who's stuck in the middle.  I deal with it by telling them I get on with all of them and I won't listen to them bitching about each other cos it is seriously annoying.  It's a hard spot to be in but if you get on with them all you have to stay on the fence.
822425
i don't pick sides, just tell them that they are both your friend, and you are staying out of this argument... so just stay out of it... thats the best advice, don't choose.
768141
I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.
78218
YOu should try and get both of your friends together to try and talk about the problem they have with each other like try being a peer mediator.  And if they refuse to do so then just simply tell them i friends with both of you i refuse to take either side and say you don't want to get involved
628687
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.
664189
you do not have to choose. If you care about them both, it would be unfair to dump either of them just to make the other one happy. They both deserve better than that. Also, it would be wrong for them to make you choose, since that would not be being a good friend to you. Don't dump either and if one gives you an ultimatum, tell them that if they are a true friend, they would care about your feelings and not try to force you to take sides. Which ever person can't handle that wasn't a very good friend to begin with and at least you will know. Good Luck.
1025231
well obviously something had happened between them, all you can do is never favor one over the other. maybe you can try to talk to them and come up with a way to resolve the situation.
270506
okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.
1136488
Set the both of them up to meet you somewhere like the park or mall or somewhere and set them down and tell them that you cannot do this anymore. You are not going to be the go between for them anymore. You love them both but they are ruining what could be a good friendship. If they care anything about you they will either find a way to get along or atleast lay off of you. \n\nYou cannot make your friends like each other but you can make them respect that you consider both of them your friends and do not want to lose them but you will walk if something doesnt change.
239256
i wouldnt hate anyone. just wait for your time. on the other hand you could try to break them up... your choice!