it's soooo... stupid!!!!!!!! he broke up with me this time it was his 2nd chance...?
357159
yeah i think he's getting back at you from the last time. if you guys weren't even together long enough especially. \n\ni would just let him go and when he comes crawling back you'll have more fun laughing at him, cause you don't need to be pulled like that. the nerve of him to ask you to wait for him, is laughable. \n\njust go fine a better guy to date. someone more mature and wants to be in a relationship, everyone has their ups and downs, and he just doesn't know how to deal with them. it doesn't have to do with the age, just the person. \n\nyou'll probably feel a lot better when he's off your mind, and you let him go. might be hard at first, but this doesn't seem like it was a loving relationship to begin with. so don't waste it on him. or the thought you might have been in love with him.
1179732
O EM GEE! They broke up?!!! When?! What happened? I missed this. Please tell me. And I guess assuming that I didn't even know that, I sure as heck wouldn't know if he had a new one. I would say no. But that's just me. \n\nGod bless...
1031963
How about a bad break up story? \n\nI was waiting for my b/f to bring me my boom box to teach a dance class. He was supposed to be there by 8pm. We waited and waited for him. At 2am when the place closed, I walked out with my students and friends to find a note on my car. He said that he had waited for me but since I didn't come out (like I was supposed to know he was outside!), he had to leave a note. What it came down to was that he was a coward and couldn't break up face to face and in front of my friends. \n\nAnyway, after telling me that afternoon that he loved me, he told me in the note that it wasn't working out........what a loser! I am better off without him!
937822
Well I hope you don't let him fool you a third time.  My first love did this to me. Guys can be very tricky. He befriended me for a year before I decided to have sex with him. He was my best Friend.  After we had sex he dumped me.  Guys like the game especially as teenagers, so becareful.  I grieved the relationship for quite some time.  I got together with my girlfriends who let me cry. I concentrated on my work and having fun.  With time my heart healed and so will yours. Just be patient with yourself and don't keep in touch  with him. He is not a real friend.
1175798
YES the ending was stupid! I thought they would reunite again...=[
343906
Again...learn to spell, for crying out loud.  Maybe he dumped you because you don't have a brain.
641436
Ummm If u gave him 1 chance and 2 chance u alway give him a 3rd one Just try it.. And if it doesn't work try to find someone else better..Also that means he really loves u unless he has cheated\n\nGood Luck!
293649
Sorry Girl YES He WILL Cheat AGAIN!
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
930024
The relationship ended for a reason, and therefore you don't wanna have to make the same mistake twice.... if it was merely a small spat that never got resolved then obviously your communication skills never were up to par anyway.\n\n"fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" also applies to this because if only one really is showing they wanna be back together then obviously the other doesn't... so if they got together... one would already have the upper hand of power
1040579
well, think about it... if it didnt work out last time, how do you know it wont end up badly as the time before? if you go for it, you could risk getting hurt AND as well as wasting your time. you already gave your Ex a chance, dont you think this new guy should deserve a chance to to prove himself to you too? your ex had his chance and screwed it up. Besides, if you give this new guy a chance and it doesnt work out, you could always go back to your ex. I mean if he really did love you or like you, he would definately take you back. If he doesnt, then he doesnt like/love you ENOUGH and is obviously not the type of person you want to marry for "future reasons." \n\nI hope that helped you and good luck! =]
190293
the person who i loved with all my heart cheated on me after 2 years of relationship. it crushed me but i couldn't imagine my life without him and i tried to make things work. there were many promises from him, explanations, excuses, anything you can just think about. so i tried. all i got was another 3 years of misery, tears and broken heart. he did cheat again... and again... and again... so i just wasted years from my life and it ended in a break up anyway. it took me long time even after that to get over him but now i'm married and am the happiest woman on earth. i beg you girl, DON'T BELIEVE A CHEATER!!!!
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
971341
i guess that depends. did he intentionally break your heart? or did your heart got broken because of a situation he had no control over? if he did on purpose (say, he cheated on you), and if he did it twice, it doesn't matter how sorry he is, he's gonna do it again. and you'll be circling the same path over and over again, so then start changing course and don't look back again.
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Hey sweetie, Well, to answer ur question, I believe some people can change and I also believe dat if u give this person a chance and he prove that he made a mistake then he have learned his lesson, but if he still doing it after u gave him that second chance Leave him!!!
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Ok.  What do YOU think??  If a friend gave you this same information you just gave me......what would you tell her to do??\n\nYou know that he has cheated on you TWO TIMES......\ndo you REALLY think that he is worth getting hurt for a THIRD time??  \n\nHoney, I hope you're smarter than that.  I know it sucks and you hurt, but you have already invested THREE years of your life\nwith this guy.  Cut your losses and move on.  A guy who really loves you is not going to want to be with another woman.