should I abandon ship or try to stay afloat?
369914
It's so hard when a child is involved,you are always going to be second best to her baby(it's the same with single dads,I know from experience),but if you truly love this lady and you want to make it work,then tell her how you feel,share your thoughts on children and suggest that you and her son should spend some lads time together,this way you score brownie points and give him a little male input as well.Don't ever change who you are for someone else and if she insists that her son is the ONLY  man in her life,let her go.\nGood luck
151881
suck it up, and stay where you are.  enjoy the money, and look for another job in the meantime.
393493
Don't do it! you are just heading for more heartbreak and will end up making yourself feel stupid and desperate.Is it really worth it? Let him go and find another fish in the sea.xxx
684251
Think positive, have faith, move on.\n\nRemember that living is NOT an option, but it is a blessing. \n\n\n"For us to have complete satisfaction and contentment in life is not counting what we have, but knowing what we can lose if we let go..."
50712
I think you should stay, because you might miss something. Also, if you leave, you will be hurting those who love you, there is always someone out there that loves us but we don't know it. Maybe, sometime later in life you will be able to help someone else and just that, will make you feel so much better. Helping people who are worse than me and then seeing them at least smile makes me feel so much better. Just the thought that I can actually make others smile helps me stay and survive this life. Don't give up!!! ;0)
412988
Stay patient. She will come eventually. If you look for her, a lot of times you will not find her. My two mottos: Go With The Flow and It's Not Woth Winning If You Don't Have To Fight For It. The last one doesn't really matter in this, but the first one is very important.
835628
you have to come on here for an answer??? Leave the relationship behind if it isn't what you want anymore. Move on.
282934
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
816440
stay clam and do your best. Good luck.
746980
Don't give up yet, and be patient.  You probably have nothing to worry about I'm sure.  Good luck.
661006
If it has become more than you can handle, then the choice is made.  Yeah, I know everyone wants you to do the noble thing and suffer a lifetime of misery, plus if you leave, you'll be the bad guy.  Hey, it's your life.  Just be true about your feelings and do what you've got to do.  Life is short for us all, so find your way to happiness either in this relationship or out, but don't just keep on keep'n on for no purpose.
740689
move on and meet some new people. good luck
4053
Because you never had someone that loved you enough to want to talk to you at length and want to know how you feel and resolve the issue. This is not something everyone has. Go with you're heart, if its telling you to leave then leave if its telling you to stay then stay and work it out.
605761
Then you need to step up to the plate do you want her to stay or go? Because it is your life too! If you dont want her around then let it go but if you do then you need to try to resolve things!
852899
I would go and repeat what you have stated here and present your case anyways . By now you know how painfully slow the act on anything . It's worth a try in spite of your situation , I would go.
904736
Not necessarily. Keep going with your case. Talk to your lawyer.
625307
well if u don't want to leave anyone then continue with this relation as long it lasts.\n\nhave fun!!