How do i get him to ask me out seriously?
373457
You pretty much rejected him in his eyes.\n\nNow you are wondering why he is shy and does not ask you out again? I mean cmon. It is your turn to make the move, otherwise he will be gone.\n\nGuys are not just commodities that you can use whenever you have nothing else to do. We do notice.
938695
Well just be more of a flirt than what you are being to him and to see if he wants to ask you out he starts to fiddle with his fingers or some object then from there it just takes patience and wait until he thinks the time is right. Also he will stare into your eyes sometimes when he is talking to you.
350620
well just be  upfront with him  let him know that  u think  hes cute and that u would like to  go out with him and  then go from there maybe he likes u to but  is afraid  to ask as well  so  just be yourself adn ask  him  out yourself
752139
It sounds like you just need to be more assertive in a productive way. Do not start playing mind games!!!\n\nSimply let him know that you'd like to hang out with him (just him). Invite him to the movies or to play a game of basketball (boys like it when you show interest in things they like). If he declines, do not get upset or show any anger/frustration. He may just want to ask you out on his own terms. So give him time if he doesn't accept your invitation.
31330
Quit beating yourself up and GO ASK HIM OUT!!!  He will either be flattered and accept or will say no ... either way ... you have saved yourself a lot of time and wondering
47784
i just go ahead and ask him out
369325
Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
1048554
I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it's to late or drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her out!
114591
This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
86439
that's the hard one.. unless of course you can influence his mind but that i guess you wouldn't have asked. try talking around.. give hime very now and than smile and cute look and look how does he reacts to it. i don't know how well do you know him.. but in any case i don't think you will look desperate if you let him know. just don't rush take your time to get to know him well, and when the timing is right,e.g. after a nice walk or something say something like -you are really something you know... but be sure that you know exactly what do you feel for him before doing anything.. good luck
28418
just be yourself, if he doesnt like you for who you are then that's his problem and he's probably missing out on someone great ^_^ if you wanna know how to talk to a serious person, then talk seriously, and act like you might be interested, but be casual about it at the same time.
494241
Ask him questions or ask for help with something he knows a lot about.  Act interested in him and what he says.\n\nDon't be pushy!  Don't flatter him.  Don't ask for a date.  Just be friendly, and if it should develop further it will.
474130
go up to him and say something like, "i really really like you! do you want to go out sometime?" if he says no then at least you tried. if he sayses, congrats! \ngood luck!!!!♥
820418
ask your frend do go up to him and casually say.. what would you say if (your name) asked you out?\n\nThen she can tell u his answer, if he says yes go for it and u no u wont be rejected\n\nIf he says no, to save ur embarresment, the girl can say.. mm i am just joking by the way
1144339
Ask him straight up but, have fun with it, make it so that it's not too serious. What ever you do, do not pressure him. You can also try paying close attention to him, he might give out little signs and hints.
721408
Talk to him damn it.  And don't wait for him to initiate all conversation.  If you are interested show him.  If he thinks he is fighting a losing battle most of the time he will find a different one.  The best way to show him encouragement without all out asking him out is to ask if he is available.