Yo why are guy always saying they're busy when their not why not just tell the truth?
367706
because you can't handle the truth!!!!!
142889
I think that guys feel that they have to lie because they dont feel to comfortable about themselves and they want to impress the girl. It's like if their with their friends and they want to make a cool impression without changing the guy stereotype which is to a bunch of women that all men are dogs which is'nt true. Yes some guys are ass holes but I mean a woman can be a bitch. It's like the stereotype for women that their all manipulative which is also not true. Their not all after your money. Hell cant a woman just like you. But.. back to the origional thing why guys lie; guys seem to lie more and more to impress they dont want to let the girl down and sure lying isnt the best way to make a good impression and I'm not even going to try and back that up but hey were not all perfect. If you feel like the guys lying to you confront him, I know it's not always the easy thing to do but you want someone nice and it's not "nice" to lie so their you have it. If he admits to lying the best thing to do is give a second chance. If he does it again you have every right to kick his but right out that door just tell him "Watch your step on the way out of my life." and leave him.
348993
any one that says they dont do it is a liar whether they are in a relationship or not(unless of course its physically impossible for them!!)so i wouldnt worry mate people have needs they need to cater 4 if it makes you happy why stop.
704166
They don't all lie.  There are lots of guys who are honest.  \n\nJust me, but I figure if it's a little thing, then there's no point in lying about it unless the liar is looking for control, amusement, self-aggrandizement, or is just a compulsive liar.  If it's any of those things, how does anyone possibly trust him?  Without trust what kind of real relationship can you have?  Not much of one, for sure.\n\nIf it's a big thing he's lying about, the fact that it's a big thing is all the more reason to tell the truth!\n\nThe issue is much deeper than lying and it's not something you can fix.\n\nThere ARE guys out there who are honest.  As long as women continue to date liars, they'll continue to lie.
1156476
Laziness...maybe they need to say something because silence is awkward...possibly they really don't pay attention to detail...
302255
possibility that he is. do you have more than just his lies to back up your question? Did he say anything, not say anything, or lie about something big? Ask him what is going on. he might just b honest with you. good luck!
226413
Lying is not just not a guy problem as I know many women that lie as well. I personally do not get why anyone has to lie, I am one of those people that will tell you the truth even if it gets me in trouble. I hate liars, I would rather live with a thief than a liar. The relationship that I am in now, lying is a big problem and I am ready to throw it all away because it is hard to regain the trust back that was lost because of lying.
684293
This dude might work for some bussiness that is in the so-called private sector....no it's not normal to not talk of your job...tons of guys love talking of thier work with out you asking.
99278
ask me believe me i will know, one is always too busy and something always coming up
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
207021
Cause he doesn't want to say the truth!!
782946
You mean like men do all the time-they are yappin into their cell phones, lying about all the girls they "supposedly" laid that weekend.  \nYou're so full of crap!  \n\nDo you have anything else contructive to say?
253473
Guys tend to do that , they don't like to talk about their day specially if they are facing problems in their job or something, because they feel that if they tell you the problem they might sound like they are asking for help and they don't like that, read "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" it explains it all.
366443
Dont believe everything you are told.  If you're speaking from experience, than I would say, it's to make your life interesting and challenging.  Or to put it simply....to keep men always aware and on their toes.  :)
1032205
I think you answered your own question.\n\nBut as to why some men lie about their occupation, there are several reasons:\n\n1. They have an embarrassing job.\n2. They have a menial, low-paying job.\n3. They have no job.\n4. They are trying to keep their job a secret for security reasons.\n5. They don't want you to know how to find them or their employer.
67646
Don't stress...some guys just assume now you should know, so they don't say it as often.  He still means it, but is probably hoping you are secure enough in the relationship to know that without him saying it as often.
775087
someone made up some story about you. they probabely told him that you dont like him or something. Or said that you told him that he is a pain or some ridiculous thing like that. and if you ask him he will just say, "you know exactly why im not talking to you" right??