Am I really dating me boyfriend for his money or what?
364277
not to worry.  you wont be the first and you certainly wont be the last.  enjoy it
779088
yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
141698
i think you should pay for her sometimes. i mean its nice to have you boyfriend pay for you when you go out. but i dont think you need to pay for her all the time. tell her straight up that you dont have the money to pay for her all the time and that sometime she needs to pay for her own crap.
1115798
No your not doing the right thing. Think about this, it's like he's paying for your services. HHHHMMM
281755
They think that they are going to win you fast. Don't do it girl......... it might be one if his trick to get you to like him or they might do it for money or a bet. For the one that you are with know and you really love him  don't dump him keep on the relationship and for as far as you know you might end up together forever.
279657
if you work that should be a no brainer, but if he is the bread winner there still shouldn't a problem with u hav'n money in your pocket remember you are his wife, partner, equal not his child.\n\nI also think he does that b cuz he want to control you, sounds like underneath it all u r really the strong one and it scares him for u to have some control!!!
793539
maybe your the reason you guys are broke .. women have a shopping problem... maybe he is trying to save up some money for the holidays.. or something else like that... its to hard to tell... but what ever it is you should keep an eye out... see if he is spending it on other stuff. if he is confront him about it.. but if he isn't maybe he has a surprise for you..\n\nall in all i hope things work out for you.
20741
You shouldn't buy him anything. It doesn't sound like you're actually dating at all.
360969
He has been with you for two years, so this must mean something. He says he loves you and I am sure he does. Is he a generous and  thoughtful guy as this is an indication why he gives money to that girl. She is probably in a difficult situation and has no one else to turn to. Is he replying to a text rather than sending them which is a bit different. Give him a chance. Dont throw away the time you have been together. Play it by ear for now.
907899
hmmm.. you sure he is your boyfriend then???
565464
No no and hell no, just because you been with him for a year doesnt mean anything. You might wanna go FBI on this boy before you talk about jacking up your credit. I aint saying hes a bad guy but what if yall break up do you honestly think hell give you back the car? And lets say you sign a car for him, do you think you will see him? Its just a couple of questions to take into consideration, Messing up your credit aint worth no nygga!!!
571739
I totally agree with you, cheap guys are a big turn off!  it tells you a lot about them and about how they would be in a relationship... people that are cheap with money are often just as frugal with showing emotions, holiday gifts etc etc...its a big flaw and a red flag for me !if a guy values you he does not pinch pennies with you, or expect you to pay on dates etc...a guy like that   never gets a second date with a smart gal!!
836207
I think that if he's a doctor and makes more money than you that it's fine if he always pays.  I mean, don't suggest the most expensive restaurant and always order steak, but I think it's realistic in a serious relationship when someone makes more money than the other for one person to always pay.  Anyways, now he knows that you at least notice that he pays since you offered to.  My boyfriend always pays!
1092328
i have never ever asked any of my past men for $$, or and 'stuff' for that matter. maybe honesty and integrity. i haven't been in really long relationships.. but i'm thinking that isn't normal. you should find some women who are a little better at holding their own-at least while you're dating!
1050866
Maybe he's jealous, Your not with him and getting your hair done. men are weird, and have a strange way of thinking sometimes, but perhaps he thinks if your really saving to be with him then you wouldn't be throwing money around so loosely, (and he's not there so obviously you didn't get your hair done for him.) It's hard to save $, and not be able to splurge a Little, tell him to lighten up and assure him you needed a little pick me up 'cause you miss him so much.
836787
Does he really want you? Will he continue to shower you with affection after he has got you?\n\nIs the guy you are with asking for the things you are spending your money on or are you just buying them assumng that he wants them?\n\nThe fighting is another issue. Does he prefer saving money for the future? New car or house? If so, you cannot fault him for that.\n\nThe important thing to remember is that being spoiled rotten with gifts is not love and in the end will not make you completely happy. It seems like you need to do a little soul searching.
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.