how many of you have ever gotton there heart broken a while ago and still cant get over that person?
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It is a every day process,really you get over that person with time and begin around good friends and family that keep you motivated and active. Keep your head !!!!
113176
Yes, love does hurt..once its gone...Have you ever broken up with someone? ...
61190
i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
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All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
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i know whats the feeling of it coz ive also experience that in my past relationship.its not easy,youve been together for how many years.shared memories, sweet thoughts and all the problems you both encountered is not easy to forget.the only thing you can do is to move on,its in the way that little by little.jaz put in your mind the the world is beautiful to live w/.go on w/ life move on coz thats the best solution you can do to mend ur broken heart....Goodluck.......
665958
i know its very difficult bcoz i'm going thru a similar situation... but believe me, if u dont let go then its only u who'll suffer.. at this point of time my life is just like hell... but i knw one thing only u can do this, no other person can help u... so the best thing would b to stop thinking bout him n put yr mind in other things... make yrself so busy that u dont get the time to think bout him... n stop doing things that would remind u of him... if u dont make yrself strong, u'll not b able to get on with with yr life... so u gotta accept the situation n move on...
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yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
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ive been with my partner for 21 years now and i still wonder about the one that got away and what he is upto now and who he is with,i dont think you ever get over certain men.he will always have that place in your heart and thats o.k
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took me a while to get over being hurt but when i found myself day dreaming daily about her...and then still getting butterflies when i talked to her
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I think the best course of action is to have no contact with her if possible.  It's hard when your heart still pulls you towards someone even though you know there is nothing but heartache there.  Do your best to stay occupied, filling your time with other friends, hobbies, work, etc so that eventually not thinking of her becomes more of a habit.  OR...as my 77 yr.old grandmother told me during a breakup..."the best way to get over one...is to get under one!" ;-)  Good luck!
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i can undeerstand, i was wit a guy i KNEW wasnt rite for me for 4 years....i was crazy abt him and d mere thought of losing him made me sick...after 4 years he dumped me coz he had another girl he liked more..i hurt so bad....but i survived, but i know it wud have been much better for my self respect if i had listened to my head and dumped him earlier,....hurt u will b, but better tht u take d initiative now then later, tht will hurt more..
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I think its different for each person and it all depends on what steps you take to get over that person..\n\nI think this may be ridiculous, but I've heard that it takes you roughly half the time you were with (or in love with) the person to get over them... not sure how valid that theory is though
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NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
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Sorry mate you can't - especially if you truly loved that person. It does get better with time but you still have your bad days and good days.I lost my soul-mate 2 years ago and I still miss him to this day even though I'm with someone else now.I know I will never love anyone like I loved him - I just don't think its possible.If you ever need to talk plse feel free to contact me thru my e-mail
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I guess you are beginnning to have feelings again for that person. Wouldn't you like to contact him somehow ? just to know how that person is doing ?
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if you really can't get over him, then i guess you'll have to learn the hard way and hear it cold from him. call him and hear his rejection and that should make you get over him. if it doesn't work the first time, keep dfoing that until you are over him and have moved on.
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I fell in love with a girl when I was 21, in college. She was 18. It was fabulous. She had some problems and I helped her work them out, and after that things were even better.\n\nThen when I graduated from college I went overseas for a while and she broke up with me. I thought about her every day for over three years. After about 7 years I stopped remembering the anniversary of the breakup. Then 10 years later we met at a mutual friend's wedding. She was married by then and just as lovely as I remembered her. \n\nI went back overseas and haven't seen her since, but we keep in touch by email every year or so. Now I'm married but I think of her warmly every few months or so. I don't know why, since I've seen her only once in the last 21 years. I will never forget her. Sometimes I imagine that when we're very old we'll somehow end up together.