Why women after 35 years don't give birth easily or sometimes never?
367295
see the doc. i have a family member that could'nt have kids until she was in her 30's or 40, somethiong like that, but anyway something about her overys, but she finnally had kids after being treat from a doc.
394442
We're in a very particular period at the moment. There have always been a lot of babies born, it's just that in the past an incredible amount of them would die. Now, as medicine improves, and less die, people in the developed world are starting to feel less need of children (plus as the welfare state expands they don't need children to support them in their old age, and women are having children later because of their careers).\n\nIn the developed world, for these reasons, the birth rate is dropping dramatically, but in the developing world, there is still the need for plenty of children to look after you in your old age, and for various reasons, including religion, birth control isn't always available (or used). This, combined with improved medical care, has caused a population explosion.\n\nTwo things though - one, it's not a new phenomenon, it's been happening since the industrial revolution started. And two, most people now predict that it won't carry on forever - it'll probably level off at about 8 or 9 billion people.
654998
Btw 30 & 40, most women's biological clocks are madly ticking.  That "perfect" man is the one who will likely provide for her and her kids.  (think caveman times and human instincts).  There are hormonal changes, worries about approaching menopause/ loss of ability to have kids... This is also the most likely age at which a woman may have affairs, maybe just for the instinct of childbearing, or even just wanting to feel as appealing as they did when they were younger/ more fertile.
9146
Sounds like the baby had some effect on you.  I'm not saying 35 is old, it was my favorite age, but having a baby takes an awful lot out of you (I'll bet you noticed that without me saying it).  Then you're not sleeping right and definitely not excercising like you should, and the extra weight.  All that can add up to some unusual problems for you.  If it's severe you ought to see a doctor who will take a good look at it and maybe try to rule out arthritis.  Not a doctor that likes to prescribe pain pills for everything, that'll cause more problems.
487151
Lasting 5 minutes when you are in your 40's doesn't seem to be a problem, but more of the natural way life goes.  I am 42 years old and I know what you mean here!
1053121
It can start as early as 8 years old, but that's very rare.  If it doesn't start by the time a girl is 16, she needs to see a doctor.  It continues until menopause, which causes the woman to stop getting her periods and can occur in her 40s or 50s.  It's extremely rare for menopause to happen in a womans 30s, but not impossible.\n\nYou're more likely to menstruate on about the same schedule as your mother.  Starting at around the same age (maybe a little earlier), going through menopause at around the same age, with a period that is like hers in terms of how often it happens, how long it lasts, how heavy it is, and whether you get cramps or other symptoms.
136566
In view of age,most women suffered from heart disease after menopause. they may tend to have other diseases like diabetes and high blood pressure. also, women have smaller vessels then men, so these make them run higher risk of mortality then men.and because women have higher pain tolerance, they don't seek for medical treatment when they have the symptoms of chest pain thus this delay their treatment for heart disease.
526635
It really depends on a lot of factors.  Whether it was a c-section or regular birth for one thing, c-sections take longer to recover from.  Also other things, like complications during pregnancy or delivery, size of the baby.  I know my spine and tail bone took a beating from my daughter's head, I had pain in my tail bone for about 6 months after she was born.  It wasn't until later that I found out that once in awhile a women's tail bone can get broken.  So it took me a long time, but my neighbor at the time was bopping around within a week of giving birth as if she'd never even gone through child birth.
203463
I would suggest that you talk her into seeing a Dr.; it could be her hormones, post pregnancy, etc.  There are medications that could possibly help, or she may just need to talk with a professional.  Please just be there for her, be supportive, and be patient.  As an older woman, I speak from experience here.......many times, a younger woman won't have as high of a sex drive, as she will later in life.  Stress can also play into how a woman feels sexually.  We have lots to do, and there is never enough time to get it all done in, so she may simply be too tired to enjoy sex.  You might try giving her a massage, give her a nice, long foot rub, run her a bubble bath, etc., with the sole intention  of relaxing her.  Don't make sex the main focus though, or it could backfire.  Just let her know that you want to help her relax.  It might also be helpful to just sit and talk with her, let her open up if she can, and support her the best way that you can.  I hope it all works out for both of you........good luck!!
1180116
I agree with most people in this forum ... you're never too old.   \n\nWomen are often cautioned, however, about planning to have children once they reach their late 30s and hit 40 since the chances of giving birth to a child with a genetic anomaly (ex. Down's Syndrome) increases quite dramatically.  You can still bear a child if you're willing to accept the risk or can adopt and, of course, you can marry at any age you feel like.
8464
Yes but they often dont with fertility issues and the knowledge they may not see their children grow.  ;) Childbirth and pregnancy can aggravate CF and kill the mother.
457679
Anxiety that it will all go well. You have been through it before, she hasn't, so you worry about how she will cope.\n\nYou are both identifying with her (empathising with her) as though you were her, and worrying about her, because she is not you, and you feel protective towards her, at the same time. These emotions tug in different directions.\n\nThe risk of giving birth to a Down's Syndrome baby starts to increase after 35. Is this at the back of your head?
632291
In my experience, the older I have become, the stronger my libido has become. A woman's sexual desire usually peaks in her thirties.
392019
Well, it's not to the level of giving birth, but there are a variety of male "pains." There's male-patterned baldness, prostate enlargement in old age (along with prostate cancer), a higher risk of kidney stones (which I have heard as the male equivalent of giving birth in terms of pain). Males are also more prone to mental and genetic disorders...fun for all. None of these though, would really match giving birth, that's one of the many reasons to respect women.
359002
I have the same problem.  I'm 31 with 2 kids, and my periods have never been right since.  The cycle is shorter and the periods last longer.  Bummer.
106860
because the old clock is ticking louder and louder the older women get, unfortunately women havea finite time to reproduce, too bad men don't have the same issue, if it were the case, men would be running around looking for wives and stalking girlfriends
882844
It not that they get sicker than women.  I think women in general are a little tougher when it comes to dealing with sickness.  I know that men are supposed to be "stronger", at least physically but women are tougher mentally.  And that's the same reason why women can give births.  Men don't.