Is it wrong to recomend a fashion style i saw on unknown woman to my wife?please help cos my wife is mad at me
361613
Yes it is wrong. Your wife will take it as a criticism to her own sense of style. As her husband it is your job to love her just the way she is and not to try to change her fashion style or anything about her. What are you doing checking out unknown women anyway? no wonder she's mad at you.
577752
It probably will offend her.  I would suggest saying something like.....Wow, If I didn't know any better I would think I was in my own home.  We are gonna have to go shopping together so we quit buying the same things.
250387
Yes.  Don't listen to people stuck up on fashion.  If it fits you, and you're confortable then fine.
930242
You are right in that the right clothes can make someone look much better and impressive.  The way you dress isn't everything though.  \n\nI would go on a second date and don't worry what other hot chicks think.  You probably won't see them again anyway.  \n\nYou may try telling her you are taking her to a place and it is a semi-formal affair.  She might then ask what to wear and you could casually say what you think would be appropriate, and also\nmention what you may be wearing.\n\nOther than that, I'd say you should try not to be shallow.
474951
Very hard answer.New or used clothes? Is this a friend, neighbor, or great aunt Tilly? Would they be hurt? If they wouldn't be hurt just be honest (kind of); tell them that the clothes are great, but not the style that flatters your body type. If it is aunt Tilly who would be broken hearted then suck it up and wear SOMETHING that she gave you whenever she visits- at least around the house. If you must go out with Tilly in a hideous blouse then cover it up as much as possible with layers or a sweater.\n\nRemember; a good heart is more important than good fashion.
101751
There is not much you can do here. It's good that she has high self-esteem to wear something that a lot of women under 150 lbs. would not even date to wear. But, it's not good that she doesn't recognize that it is not becoming. I had a friend like that who insisted on wearing mini skirts that rode up in the back, showing her almost 300 lb. backside, but there was nothing I could do. To tell her, even tackfully, would hurt her feelings. So, I left it up to someone else, preferably a relative of her's to tell you. \nThe best thing is to just let her go on as she is. Maybe she will take it more seriously when someone other than a friend or relative tells her how she looks. Sometimes, a neutral comment is what it takes.
525537
Thank you very much for informing me.  I honestly did not have a clu as to why Indians wore them.  I assumed it meant that you were married, but you have given me knowledge into a deeper aspect of it.  I will respect it more now, when I see someone with that.  I appreciate your elaboration and information provided.  I think people ask a lot because they honestly don't know why.  Especially if they are not Indian, because mostly all cultures don't ever do that.
954271
I’m a guy and I think that you are wrong and that your MIL has a right to be mad. She could’ve handled it with a little more decorum, but she still has the right to be upset with you.\n\n If it was just you and her in the house, your MIL might have had an issue with it still, but she may not have said anything to you about it. But because her husband and son were there, she felt like she needed to get this under control. I am sure you know very well that most men are stimulated by what we see. Whether or not you think the FIL and BIL don’t “have” to look, doesn’t mean that they CAN’T look. Again, for many guys, that look can stimulate (especially in the younger brother), which is something you DO NOT want to do to them, because 1) you are a married woman, and 2) you are married to their son/brother.\n\nNow, just for kicks, imagine that you have a sister, older or younger, who is just as attractive and appealing as you.  She comes to stay with you and your husband for a year. She wears things around the house that are exactly like what you described yourself wearing at you MIL’s house. Now, how comfortable would you be if you had to start working nightshift or had to be away for an extended period of time, say four weeks, and they were left there alone? If you say very comfortable because they wouldn’t do anything, consider this. Even if they don’t do anything together, your husband may still take a sideways glance if it’s constantly available for him to see, especially if you are not around to catch him. So with that in mind, would you say something to her about her pink and see-through nighties? Do you think that your husband, in order to protect himself from lusting after his SIL, would ask her to cover up, in HIS own house? \n\nThis comes down to respect for not only your MIL, but also to your FIL, your BIL, and their home. You and your MIL might have been the best of friends, but you can’t blame her for making sure there are no nearly-nude chicks in her hen-house (excuse the pun). And oh yeah, it doesn’t matter that your husband bought you nighty. Your husband bought it most likely for you to wear for or around him, and that’s the way it should stay.
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
327272
It looks to me that your wife is playing with you.The way she acts towards you doesn't show that she loves you..ore respects you for that matter!I'd talk to her,tell her what you think and feel..that you need to her to change her ways,because this isn't working out for you.If she refuses,ask yourself if this is how you want to go on....clearly this is making you very unhappy,you shouldn't accept this!
630219
Maybe you could help her find her own style since you have an eye for fashion.  She may not know who she is yet and is intrigued by someone who is so secure in who they are.   Take her shopping one day and make suggestions on what outfits would suit her best.
431406
I think you have wrong idea about women in Islam, I'm a Muslim girl , and im wearing Hejab , i dont have to wear a very very wide dresses and so , i wear trousers , jeans , shirt and so, just my clothes are not tight and not describing my body, so they practical and in the same time , respectful and Islamic. \n\nAnd dont you think that by wearing Hejab you are giving an advantage to your fiance, as when he becomes Ur husband he is going to be the only one who got the right to see your beauty? \n\nHere's some sites to know more about Women in islam:\nhttp://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_roles_ideals.htm\nhttp://www.uga.edu/islam/Islamwomen.html\nhttp://www.answering-christianity.com/womensrights.htm\n\n Wish you good luck in ur marriage :)
97160
I have tried and tried to stop dressing but its not just a matter of quiting like quiting smoking. I wish I had the clothes and shoes I have thrown away not to mention the makeup and such. anyway I assume you are straight so I suggest to find a woman that will accept your alter ego and live with it
422727
Check her out from head to toe....and if between her hair do, clothes, accessories and shoes look like they total half of your rent or more (assuming you have your own place) you may want to leave that one alone.  On the other hand if your looking to find a good women look for simplicity, a women who's not afraid to go out with no make up, a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with some nikie's.  Someone who can laugh at herself.  Oh and if she asks you to buy her something on your first time out or to borrow money...RUN....YOU'VE JUST ENCOUNTERED A GOLD DIGGER.
646398
Personally, I wouldn't want my hubby to do that. \nHowever, talk to your wife about it first to see if she's okay with it. Even if you disguise her face people will still link it back to being her. So, if your wife is okay with it, then I don't see any harm to it.
482948
Hi Pookie,\nI think that it's less a question of colour and more a question of style: have you discussed with your friend what kind of outfit she would like to get married in? What style would suit her most? What would make her feel comfortable and gorgeous? You might even consider going for a makeover together and ask advice about the colours that flatter her. \n\nI have a friend of 48 whose first marriage was very unhappy and ended in divorce after five years - then, when she was 42, she met the love of her life - and yes, she married in white: loose trousers, a wonderful long coat with tiny buttons, and an outrageous hat with tiny veil attached - and I've never seen her look more lovely and radiant!
459372
I don't think its appropriate to do anything in this case. Its not likely that she is unaware of this, as she might be if she had a tag showing or toilet paper on her shoe. Its in very poor taste, of course, but I think that a Miss Manners answer would be to turn your head and go about your shopping. \n\nAnd stop looking so hard to see if she has panties on :o)