how can i find the suitable guy, and get married?
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
1018830
There are a lot of "good guys" around. It's just that half the time women aren't looking for a "good guy" and we're forced to turn into something we really don't want to be in order to have a girl around, or we're married and, being the nice guys we are, we're not about to cheat on or leave the women we made a vow to on that wedding day for any reason. I'm lucky. I haven't had to change, despite the fact that it is extremely hard for me to get a girlfriend when I am single. My advice to you: don't go looking for a good guy, you won't find him; let him find you. And don't rush into a relationship head-first (though you know that one I'm sure, I just want to state it anyways). Get to know them really well before you decide to take a chance and get into a relationship with them. As you know pretty well by now, not all of us guys are exactly what we show ourselves to be. Hope that helps you out some.
19759
You must first find out what man is suitable for the kind of woman you are. Which means what kind of man you want?Just list something things you would love to have in a man.After you finish that ,ask the question about "Is there a man out there for you?"In order for you to have a husband, you must first find a man!
146818
First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
1115943
I would not worry at all.  When you meet the right person, you will know when it is time. And if you seriously want to be married you must get out and meet people. You don't have to be a player, there are plenty of places to meet nice women. You are still young. Get adventurous!
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
639000
I really need someone who is trustworthy,funny, someone who can help me when everything is bad or good in my life and someone who loves me just like i will love him...with all my soul..!Looks doesn't matter for me...because if u just wait to find a handsome husband or a beautifully wife...you will be looking for many years to find someone with a good heart..
544547
When you are looking for a man to be in your life, observe him for a long time, and see what he is like. Date him, get to know him, and if red flags come up, you know he's not the one. I, myself, have a problem with choosing women because you and I are natured alike, and I tend to pick losers...so I proceed slowly now, and hope for the best. By the way, don't put yourself down.....I'll bet you're a very pretty lady....and good natured too. You will make some man an excellent wife. Good Luck!!
426835
Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.
309007
I met my husband through match.com so anything is possible. Been married for 2 years now and still running strong. Good luck with it!
602649
Haha, that made me laugh. Well you have to go through a lot of wrong guys to find the right one. Trust me, you'll find him but it takes sometime. Just be yourself and you'll find one eventually.
111562
No sweetie, it takes time to find the real one, don't worry you'll find him, but maybe he will find you first. Remember the more friends you have the better. in the end you will have plenty of time to find the right person. Usually we meet the right person in school, but we have to wait to finish and be independent, to get married.
296088
Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
146341
Instead of looking for a good guy, let him find you. Do this through volunteering for a local charity or a political campaign. This way you can find someone with similar interests and philosophies. You can also try the internet where you can chat until you feel comfortable enough for a face to face meeting. You can also only answer or ask what you are comfortable asking or answering. That is how I met my fiancee and I wasn't even looking for a relationship at the time.
558977
I met my fiancee at a laundry mat.  He held the door open and we just got to talking.  There is no "best" place to meet a guy.  Just keep your eyes open mr right could come along in one of your classes, in line behind you at a store, at a gas station or walking down the street.  Be friendly and upbeat have confidence in yourself and you wont have to look for a guy they will flock to you.
132375
Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
437306
Only get married when your ready.  It could take 5 months or 5 years.  Don't rush it because you'll regret it if its not the right person.