Is my girlfriend to be trusted?
375244
If you have to ask, then you don't trust her.  \n\nAnd there you go.
1020061
trust her if she says she was then she was or the guy that did it with her before she dont care much about
1074158
you can only trust someone as well as you know them. some you can know in a little time, some take a lifetime. sorta depends on how much is shared, how much is hidden,how much is lied about & how much is in denial. \npay attention to your intuition & to what your eyes see. do not fool yourself with unreal expectations. not everyone lies, but a majority do. look for the exception, not the rule. quality in all things & experiences!
256282
If you don't trust her things aren't going to get any better between the two of you.  My ex lied to me about something HUGE and when he was caught he apologized and I took him back but I NEVER trusted him again and it led to me breaking up with him again.  You deserve to be with someone that you can trust and that respects you.  The best thing that you can do is end this now and stop dragging it out.  The longer that you drag this out the harder that it is going to be on both of you.
563612
Sorry, but if she doesn't trust you, there is no basis for a relationship!  You have no choice in the matter but to move on!
338729
If she tells you about it, it's pretty innocent.  I think you should be glad she's good enough to do that for someone who needs help.  Maybe one day you'll need help and you know she'll be willing to do it for you.\n\nWe need to encourage good people to do good things, not discourage them.\n\nIf she's your girlfriend, you better learn to trust her - or move on.
665231
By not making a big deal out of it when she does leave the house. Give her a kiss and hug, let her know you love her, and that's about it. If she is truly an untrustworthy person than you'll find out eventully so there's no need to worry or get possessive. Let your love do the talking.
1107497
Talk to her make sure you know the situation. Don't jump to conclusions, but at the same time women do the same things to guys as far as looking in your phone so, you're not wrong and trust your instics they are there for a reason. If she lies to you, don't scream, don't yell just walk away from the relationship.  I'd treat her like a stranger I walked past on the street, with no familiarity, and be done with it. There had to be some other things that you've been noticing before now if she is cheating. That is the Ulitimate disrespect, and no one deserves it. I hate to accuse casue I don't know her but sounds like your trust in her is already damaged.
280974
well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you
444807
First of all Thank you for serving our country! If you want to save this relationship you will have to work on the trust issue. But I would be concerned about her cheating again. Follow your heart.
695311
If I say No you will not listen. And you know why... First off, 2 months, too fast. how well do you know her. How well does she know you. 4 times a week to visit or for sex... I recommend thinking this one through.  Are you willing to spend the rest of your life for this person. I don't think so. How much do you trust her. Relationships are built on trust. Shacking up saves gas... Great. Now what. You say that you are more mature than your past relationship. Read your question. you sound like a infatuated 19 year old. Trust me man... Think it through.
395080
Trust is what keeps relationship rolling!\nU may start wondering, DO U TRUST HIM? DO U TRUST YoURSELF? DO U STILL BELIVE THAT u 2 CAN WORKOUT TOGETHER???? And only than, if U belive, \nask him a qestion, look him strait in the eyes, and U'll see, TRUTH or LIE, but U'll just know...
309171
The only way to trust her is if she earns it, she lost it with all those lies. \n\nI would not trust you or the "best friends". \n \nYou are all talking s^%& about your girl. \n\nSo what?  True or false, you are being just as immature. \n\n(sorry I have issues with any man that would call someone his sig. other then talk about her behind her back to other people NO MATTER WHAT. Are you talking to girls???? Her 'best' friends are telling you her buisness???? \nWhy should'nt she lie to all of you. \nnone of you deserve the truth or obvoiusly can not handle it)
530742
you answered your own question. if you are that insecure, you should just leave her alone. you say she trusts you, so why don't you trust her?
143102
If your fear of losing "her" exists, you need to ask yourself whether or not this fear has been generated by your thoughts and insecurities, or whether these thoughts have been generated in response to her behavior.  If she has given you reason to believe that you must be fearful of her one day leaving you, or worse, than you need to talk about this problem. There is no healthy relationship between two people where one person threatens the other by leaving.  \nIf you think that this fear is an innate thought, than you need to deal with this problem in a self help way.  Realize that "she" would have left you already if she felt that that was what she wanted.  Clearly she has not, therefore she wants to be with you. As long as you dont let this fear overtake your relationship, you should inevitably get over it. By overtaking I mean becoming over paranoid of cheating, whereabouts, lying, etc.  Ask yourself why you feel this way? Is there a reason? Do you not fully understand her feelings for you? Ask her, talk to her. If you trust her, she will trust you, and there will be no fear of anything ad happening.  And if something does happen, you will know at least tht it is not your fault, and that you will be satisfied in your fufilling your goals of being a good partner.
130455
Trust is something that is earned and can be destroyed so easily.  She has to understand that you have done nothing to make here distrust you and  even though she is hurting, you are there to listen. Sometimes just being a listner will truly show your intentions more than trying to convince otherwise. Actions speak louder than words and she will know this once the heart heals. Right now she is hurting and that will cloud her thoughts, just give it time as time heals most.  Be there when she needs you but dont crowd her.  \nIt is a shame that people today forget what trust is and what commitment is about. So often men and woment run to the next thing that may look better than the person we are with, but you have to stop and ask-- is this worth losing what I got now for something I know nothing about...
793468
ur girl's crazy. i know im a jealous gf so i know wheres shes coming form. BUT if you let her do that kinda stuff like spend the night at a guys bed. then she should trust you. but if i was you i would dump her!!!\n\n\nGood luck with the crazy gf!