best friend or dream girl ?
375118
ask urself first. do u have any feeling for her? if no feeling for her., just be best friends.
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
922686
Your best friend will never judge you, take advantage of you or treat you badly.  She/he will not talk about you behind your back, they would drop everything if you needed them.  They will be the one sitting next to you when you get in trouble to lend you their shoulder to cry on.  You have tons of fun together and you share many great memories.  You trust one another, you would never choose a boyfriend/girlfriend over your best friends.  Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but best friends are for life.
675557
My best friend is female, Im male, but here are my 3:\n\n1.  Her beautiful blue eyes.\n2.  She makes me laugh whenever we are together.\n3.  She is there whenever I need her (dependable)\n\nList could be longer, but you only asked for 3, lol.
1139071
Interesting question. I would pick...the boyfriend because he'd always be there for me no matter what, and it's really hard to find your dream boyfriend. Money wouldn't matter as long as he makes me happy.
499946
WELL THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LOOK OVER THE OTHER GURL AND STILL TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND NEVER MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE SHE IS TALKIN TO ANOTHER GURL MORE THAN YOU GIVE HER SOME SPACE AND YOU TALK TO SOME ONE ELSE THINGS MIGHT WORK OUT BETTER THAT WAY CUZ YOU TWO WILL START TO MISS EACH OTHER AND YOU TWO WILL BECOME BEST FRIENDS AGAIN.
374757
You should ask your best friend about it first. Girlfriends may come and go but friendships last forever.
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
562442
Go for the one you want.  Sometimes you have to hurt in this life, there's no way around it.  Or, make the true move of love and give them both away at her expense and be an independent girl.  They say we should make everybody happy, but it seems more logical to start with ourselves, doesn't it?  If you can't be happy by making your own friends happy, perhaps you should get new friends.
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
867361
Wrong?  That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.\n\nShe needs your friendship.  If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect.  Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.\n\nIf the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.\n\nIf you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.\n\nJust something to consider.  Good luck!
986158
Well, that person obviously doesn't think that your their best friend. A best friend should be there for you always. And you should be able to talk to them about nearly anything and everything. \n\nIt sounds to me like your friend is just that...a friend, but you shouldn't be wasting your energy on someone who isn't going to respect you. Still, I would search out a new best friend. \n\nOr you could tell that person how you feel. Have a good long talk over coffee. It'll bring you two closer.
925495
i agree, i dont think u really want to have them in your life anymore...find someone else that you will love even more than her! your best friend is going out with a girl you love. a true friend wouldnt do that...so think about it like that. you will find someone that is perfect for u so dont worry about it! \n<3
462245
Well how do you feel about her?  Do you like her a lot?\nDo you have fun together?  Do you confide in each other?  \nThese are some of the things that equal a best friend.  And if you want her to be your best friend, than you need to be her best friend as well. Then to be sure, you can just ask her...and she will tell you the truth!   :)
475199
to be honest with you my best friend is a girl..... we live in one apt.... and we do most of the things that you do.... we even walk naked infront of each other but the thing is that everything is very clear with our relationship..... we love each other to death but we know that we cant be more than just friends.... however.. yours can be the same understanding as mine.... at times we tend to forget why we can be so comfortable with friends.... and that there is nothing more.... no malice..... in this instance .... your feeling towards her is that you want more to be friends.... however you are not certain if she does feel the same way however her actions doesnt speak for it... what you have to consider is that .... are you willing to take the risk of loosing a friend should it happen that its only a one way street???? hence.... if your feelings are really strong you need to do it as gently and as fast as possible..... ask her for a casual date and ask her these questions.....\n\n1. what is your ideal guy.....? with this you can decern if it is close to being someone like you...\n2. have you found him??\n3. what makes him different? this will solidify your search....\n4. if all of it fits you then...\n\ntell her that you are ending this friendship ... i want more out of our friendship.. i want to take you out as my date not as my friend......\n\n5. if you seem that there is a different one tell her that you are happy for her.... but then again you just have to be honest... tell her everything......but before that... make a pact before you reveal you intimate feelings you will still be her best friend....
412058
Go for the one you like the best. But do not lead the other one on. You do not want to cause friction between the two friends.
378081
your best friend.  girl friends come and go, best friends are forever.