My gf and I just broke up and my friend wants to hook me up with someone else immediately. What do I do?
366286
well i was once in that situation . and it was hard i guess what I'm saying is....do what u think is best and if u feel that your going to think about your ex all  night if u go out with that other girl it wont be fun. and i hope u know that time heals everything. maybe going out with the new girl would be fun and maybe your heart wont be so broken. well good luck
772707
Your chances are low right now, I'm sorry.  You didn't give the circumstances surrounding the break up; but the fact is that when you feel lonely, even the people you trust most aren't going to be attracted to you.  That's human nature --- to shun the needy.  She isn't likely to view the potential of your relationship in the long run; more likely, she'll see you as a desperate man with no self respect.   \nYou use the word "ever", so if you get over her, find someone else (someone you are truly happier with), you probably will make her jealous.  Do NOT believe it if she says she would be happy if you found someone else!  That's, in fact, a bluff whether she knows it or not.
469639
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
685249
You need your friends right now more than ever.. The worst thing you could do is get involved with someone else right away..If this guy only wants to have a little fun, and so do you, why not? If your thinking it will turn into the next "love of your life". your making a huge mistake. Stay on your own for awhile!! Build your self-confidence! Enjoy your freedom!
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
492638
From what you wrote, DON'T go out with him or even tell him you like him or anything unless you want to say goodbye to your friendship with his girlfriend forever. Find another guy. They're easy to come by.\n\n(Just follow the golden rule: would you like it if your friends hormones stole YOUR boyfriend? You would think she was seeing him even before you decided to break up. Put yourself in her position.)
464182
sounds like the girl you want is the girl you broke up with . tell her how you feel and that no one else will do you want her and only her. if she loves you to she will feel the same . good luck i hopeit all works out.
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
1046727
Love sometimes hurts.  This is one of those times.  You must either break up with her or insist that she break up with him.  This type of situation can lead to devastating results.  What if he finds out you are having sex with her and goes crazy?\n\nIt sounds like your total breakup is only a matter of time.  That being the case, the sooner the better.   The longer you are involved, the more hurt you will feel and the deeper the pain will be.  If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.\n\nIf you get back together,  learn to be more considerate.  Better to bite your tongue off than to say things just to be hurtful.  Write your feeling down.  Read them back to yourself two days later.  Then you might want to edit what you wrote or even destroy it.\n\nI'm sure you know a lot of other girls.  Wait a while to heal and get to know some of them better.  You will be so much better off.\n\nGood luck.
526306
break it off and find someone new
934975
She's not being honest with you.  If she really thought you two had something SO special that would lead to you "being together for a long time" why would she want to waste another minute with anyone else?  \n\nThink about it:  If you met the woman of your dreams who blew your mind away, would you really ask them to just "hold on a second" while you continued to mess around with others?  HELL NO.  You'd want the rest of your lives together to begin right now.\n\nI know this sucks to hear because you guys obviously have something special.  But something inside is telling her there's someone better out there and she wants to continue searching to see if she can find it.  If she doesn't, she'll come back to you.  Now you have to ask yourself, do you really want to be her fall back plan?  Because the minute she does meet that #1 out there, you'll be left broken hearted.\n\nSorry to break this news.  Cut loose.  No contact.  Get her out of your system.  When you meet someone else who you can fall in love with, you might be able to try being friends again...
172602
i think you should wait a while because you say she JUST got dumped. It doesn't seem right if she got dumped one second and is dating another guy the next (unless she dos that all the time). As for the figuring out part i think you should ask her directly but play it cool and try to do it when she is alone because you might embarass yourself if it is in front of a lot of other people.
827466
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
324993
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.
975122
lol move on buddy.. no need to mess with her if shes already taken.... theres way too many single women out there lookin for guys!!    and how do you know u love her if shes not or never been your gf...??