Can I expect my gf to accept that I'm working at the same company with my ex?
356911
I think u should expect for her to feel a little jealousy about it.  Just make sure u talk to her and let her know you absolutely have no feelings for your ex whatsoever!  Relationships are about trust, so let her know she can trust you!
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
1048124
Unfortunately, since you have a history together where she was a financial burden to you it may be difficult for you to act like it didnt happen and try to start over.  It's not like youd be dating someone new for the first time and willing to put up with a little more things to get to know someone.  You already know her and it sounds to me like you don't believe that the relationship will work, and if you start off thinking like that then it will not work.\nI have a tendency to date guys that sound like the way your ex used to be.  And, because I am not able to say no to them or because i feel like they have changed and deserve a second chance or because i did really care about them and they still care about me too..........whatever the reason was, I ended up in a pretty bad financial situation myself.   In 2003, I bought myself a brand new BMW 330ci, which I traded in a 1998 BMW 318i for. I now drive a 1997 Nissan Altima.  I completely understand where you are coming from.  \n\nMy Final Advice to you is: Just Don't Do It!\n(Although, if you're anything like me you probably will anyways)
662021
On the market at the moment,but i have a crazy ex who thinks we are still together!!
445092
You are going to be fine if you and your ex are on good terms.  Don't lose any sleep about it.  Dress nicely and bring a book and a snack because there will be a looooong wait.  But don't be afraid to say something if you feel something isn't quite right or fair.
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
508203
It really depends on your girlfriend and the work situation. If it is ok for her to receive your calls, without her getting into trouble, and she doesn't mind that you call everyday, then there really wouldn't be a problem.  However, if she is getting annoyed, or in trouble, she might just dump you for being creepy and obsessive.
244905
No. You need to let your girl handle it. Tell her you support her and that she is more than welcome to ask your help if she feels she needs it. My question to you though is what is your girl telling her ex? Is she making it known that she is seeing someone else and is happy in that relationship? Let your girl know that you have no problem stepping in to take care of the situation if her ex won't listen to her.
1054583
Let's see.  In work, you usually have to put up professional appearances.  So, I would say don't go there.  If your ex-boss cannot be professional with you at work..what makes you think he will be a nice guy outside of work?  \n\nWhat you just described..is a case of displacement..or kicking the dog once you get home.  He was frustrated..so he took it out on you..and you yourself said you couldn't take it.  I don't think this would bode well for a real relationship.  Think about it.\n\nAlso, I think you may just be feeling sorry for the guy..its true businesses can go bad...but thats life.  Many businesses fail..and he probably just hurt his business ...by treating you badly and hence..you leaving...\n\nLet go...and try to enjoy your new job.
409313
I will be happy to, but my gf wont let me
394293
It depends on the role you would be playing out...\nIf you are playing out the employee you rather don't.  It is never good to get job and personal relationship mixed.\n\nIf you get on well beyond the ties of work... you could find the way.  \n\n'A crush'= well, it seems you really like her but since you describe it precisely as 'a crush' it seem this wouldn't last at all.\n\nI wouldn't like my ex to be my boss... neither my employee to by my ex... If you think it worths the pain go on... but if this won't last you might set off your worker role as the prior...
199941
NO way. I would include my boyfriend and tell him what is going on to stress me out. If the relationship is a strong one then you should be able to lean on each other in the rough times. If the person is saying they want to leave someone because they are stressed at work I think that there is more going on, and they really aren't committed to the relationship if something as trivial as work is going to stress you out enough to leave. Maybe your better off, I mean would you want this person around if there was a tragedy or a sickness to deal with. Doesn't sound like a very strong person, and doesn't sound like someone that truly cares about you.
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
498703
It is proper to give you former employer a two week notice that you are leaving.  That means in order to start at the new job on June 12th, you must give your current employer notice today (Friday 5/26/06.)\n\nI think it sounds okay, the new boss is probably just a bit anxious to get you started.  Basically, you are his new purchase & he wants to show your stuff.  A quick phone call to the new boss explaining that you want to give ample time to your current employer will show your integrity and loyalty to a job.  I think the new boss will understand.  If he doesn't understand then he is someone you don't want to work for or with.  I would not say anything to your current job UNTIL you talk to the new boss.  If the new boss doesn't return your phone call today, then keep pushing the 2 weeks from the date you speak to the new boss.\n\nIt is always a bit scary when making a change.  Just trust your instincts, pray you are making correct decisions & don't burn any bridges, especially in the workforce.  Word gets around fast and if you burn a bridge you could get a bad reputation.  Employers in the same field get to know each other & talk.  \n\nPlus keep in mind that you do have a signed piece of paper stating the new job offer.  Save that paper, God forbid anything would happen, you can use it in your defense.
743437
is this just a temporary thing???\nyou have a responsibility - you ex - partner still needs to make ends meet??   More details please x
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
1047460
i've done it before.... and dont recommend it... i mean, everyone at your job will find out sooner or later, thats wat happened to me... :(\nthen our relationship was not going good... so we ended it... sucked 'cause i had to c him almost everyday.... it was just bothering so much.... i quit my job... :)