what should I do? a boy from my old school called me and said he loves me but I hate him?
359842
Tell him you're flattered but that you don't think of him in that way.\nTell him that you've known him for so long now that you just can't see him in that way.\nBe nice about it & don't give him any hope that you may change your mind in the future, just be nice to him about it.\nIt takes a lot of nerve to tell someone you like them, respect that he probably worked up the courage to tell you for ages & don't hurt his feelings.
267451
Stick with him, until you do find someone better. But eitehr way, be his friend and be open to eventually being more than friends with him. Except in high school, what grade one is in, is irrelevant to age.
947467
Drop the Zero, and find yourself a HERO..\nface it sweets...he treated you like a piece of a**...a convienance...he is nothing but a dog...a loathsome cur..cut your ties to him...\nAny man--or woman for that matter....who treats another human in that manner is not worth your time and effort
788426
run run as fast as you can in the other direction dont look back and have no contact with him.... move on.. let go... get over it... he will if you will
446960
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
262402
Are you certain he hates you?  No offense, but you do sound like a teenager, and if you are, you have to understand that most teenagers do not understand their hormones at all.  This boy may think you are just the best thing ever, but because he doesn't understand what feeling like that does to him, he could cover it up by being hateful.  Why don't you try putting it out there that you think he's the best thing since sliced bread and see what comeback you get.  If he's not interested, tough, because there really are plenty of fish in the sea, promise!
852394
stay away, and don't look at him if you happen to be near him. try to act as if he did not exist, if he come talk to you treat him with indifference
639419
First of all, why is he calling you?  Is he calling you to insult you and call you a nerd.  I think you should not lower yourself by talking to him..it will get your hopes up and he will just insult you.  \n\nFind a guy who will respect you and not insult you.  Looks are important, but being a respectful and nice is even more.  I do not think you should tell him you like him because he will probably say he doesn't like you (as evidenced by his insults).  You will just hurt more..so just forget about him.
340942
He sounds like he's acting like a spoiled brat to me! He needs a good butt whipping! He needs to act his age, not his IQ!! So what if you got a call from an old pal? So what?!? Its not like you were talking dirty or something. Sounds really controlling and jealous, so you better put an end to his mess now before it gets too bad. Put your foot down and MAKE him listen to you!! GL;)_
565168
you called him and didnt leave a message,now that is not good. leave a message. then he really wont have no excuse. if he dont get back to you, forget him. i know its hard when you like someone, but i know you would be saying the same thing to me if i had your prob. leave a message saying how great the other nite was and how you are looking forward to his cal. gud luck. x
1026713
if he's your friend he wont hate you for being honest. just talk to him and let him know you don't have the same feelings and it's not fair for him to love someone that don't love him back.
869841
well you gotta think about the reasons you don't want to like him any more if hes done you wrong once hell do you wrong every time.if he didn't do you wrong to your knowledge still he did because boys know when you like them if he didn't like you back he should have confronted you instead of leading you on in ways.soon you'll start to think of his flaws and move on.good luck
665452
He hates you? He likes little kids? Find a new guy!! You don't want to be in a realtionship with someone who hates you.  You can do better than that.
805129
give him the silent treatment, what he did was wrong, and you deserve to be treated better than that.  Maby change your phone number, and ignore him completely.  Then work on finding a guy who will treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Or if he straightens up, then try it again, I recommend, finding a better guy, though.  Good luck!\n\nSavage
237116
look rage this is what you do, you get your self a make over and some new gear, go back to school monday morn and ignore him act as if he not even there let him approach you and when he does brush him off like he was never there. give him a taste of his own medicine.
931757
Yah your right about the hate thing....he wouldn't have done it otherwise. You need to have a sit down with your brother.\nSounds like there are some unresolved issues there.\nYour brother could be hiding something, if they seem alright now maybe its just a front....\nSo talk to him about it.....see whats up??\nGood Luck to you....
552819
Sounds like he is jsut a bully,,,and probaly has low self esteem and just wants to act cool to boost his ego!! everyone needs to ignore him and i mena litterally dont look his way or aknowlage him  and see what happens