If you don't trust someone do you try to overcome that feeling or do you heed your instincts?
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Your instincts are there to protect you from danger, trust is one of the most important feelings in our arsenal of protective attributes. A women has intuition and that is of great value also if intuition tells you whoa I don't trust this then by all means FOLLOW IT!
360237
its tough..i wouldnt be able to trust..i'd be tempted to but i think we would just end up moving around in circles..and i've learnt this from experience..although i always tried my best still i ended up with the wrong end of the stick..you end up givin it a try cause u will be blinded by the memories but the facts wud be extremely different.. if they cheated on you, or hurt you once then you dont deserve them..cause they might if given the opportunity do it again and again.. just look ahead and move on you will find a person that will honestly love you someday..
835441
Betray your trust if you can't trust your brothers,your sisters or mom or dad than whom can you trust?
534493
Its better not to trust anyone beyond a point. The only person you could trust is your own self and be not too greedy to expect total trust from someone. If they can not deliver what they promise in some occasions its not that they are not trust worthy... But there must be some compelling reasons to fail. And trust is not something that can be asked or demanded and sought in return. You need to trust someone consciously or subconsciously with your own discretion watching from a safe distance
1000760
you will never fully trust someone unless you'll be over with the hurt. you need to surrender yourself to self-analysis and think continually about what has been and what will be...\nyou need to ask yourself if you're willing to open your heart to a new stage without locking yourself and putting a barrier because of the hurt. and sometimes the idea of getting hurt once again would limit your trust to a certain level...\nwe know that loving someone is giving one's self totally and that hurt is part of the process of trying to build up a relationship. trust doesn't mean that you'd never be hurt...
375244
If you have to ask, then you don't trust her.  \n\nAnd there you go.
703384
some times you might have friends who told you man cannot be trusted but the reallt thing is you have try 1st before you jump to conclution.\n\naeeyo1314@yahoo.com
691233
If you don't have trust in a relstionship it's not going anywhere.  Follow your heart.
270723
That's a hard one. I am sure you know that trust is something that has to be earned and built up during the course of a relationship. If you are worried that someone is going to hurt you and let you down like your husband did when he committed suicide, then that is something that you have to learn to deal with. At the end of the day - your husband could have died of natural causes and you could still feel he left you and be hurt.None of us want to be alone, or hurt or have someone make us feel like it was our fault they left because we didn't help them or something like that. I think that what you should do is get out there with your friends for a good few girlie nights out to get yourself back on the scene and having fun - then you can start casually dating here and there, and when you find someone who you have a connection with and you think you could have a future with them, explain your fears to them, and explain that you need someone you can trust not to cut and run, and unless they can be totally honest with you and confide in you when things are tough and trust you enough to be able to help them in their darkest moments, then you can't be with them because you have been through enough!\nI hope that helps!
479409
it's a subconscious reaction to being treated poorly. I'm guilty of it too, however men and women do this. I dated a guy that REFUSED to trust me because he'd had an ex cheat on him. Every time I was out later than expected or didn't answer the phone, he'd throw a fit. Women do the exact same thing. When past experiences were out of your control, you do a complete 180 and try to control everything. If you are dating someone who will not trust you no matter what, it can also be a sign that they're not trustworthy. You have to go with gut instinct about things like that. If it doesn't feel right, and you're more upset than not around the person, you may want to get out of the situation. Of course I would suggest having a real conversation about it a few times before throwing her to the curb.
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I trust people to act in the way that they show me they do.  I learned I can't trust anyone to act the way I want them to.  But why should I be able to, they're not me and they have different goals, and different reasoning than I do.  But I can usually trust them to act in the ways that I have observed them acting in the past.   And I take a while to get to know someone before I decide what I think of them.\nSo I only trust myself in one respect, but I trust everyone in another.
658507
well i think if you get hurt bad enough it just takes time you have to take risks and trust someone again and again until it becomes easier you may get burned here and there but you have to get past it. It just isn't fair for everyone around you to be judged by your fears of being hurt - sometimes you can push people to do what you are afraid they'll do by insinuating it or you will miss out on a lot of good times because you are afraid to get too close You are damaging your life by being unable to trust Just get over the past and trust little by little . . .good luck I AM STILL WORKING THROUGH THE SAME ISSUES but i have learned that you can hurt the people you love by not giving them your full trust you just have to learn to risk it . .
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Take a deep look at yourself.  What has caused you to mistrust others?  What happened when you were young that caused you to realize that other people don't follow through?\n\nMost of the time when there are trust issues, it isn't because of the current situation we are in...it is because something is not balanced within us.  \n\nOne thing I have learned is that the energy you put out, you end up creating.  Have you ever worried badly about something and then it ended up happening??  Chances are that you helped in creating it!!  Give people the benefit of the doubt until they actually slip up and prove that they can't be trusted.
638092
If you don't trust your wife/husband to be, really sure you want to get married?
925596
Trust your instinct,intuition and logic.And if you make a mistake,try again.
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
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First you must understand the person or put yourself in his shoes.  Forgive the fault but be on guard that it might happen again.  This is what you do to deal with mistrust.\n\nIf you find people not trustworthy, just deal with them in tasks you believe that both of you can come along with naturally.  Do not totally close your doors to them.  You may be an instrument to help them be trustworthy people.\n\nIf the person fails in a certain situation, definitely he has a strength or asset in other aspects to overpower the mistrust.  If the person borrows money but fails to pay his debts, thus do not deal with him in money matters.  Let us say he is great in assembling/repairing computers and/or cooking.  Then put your trust in computer and/or cooking related things.\n\nOnce you develop trust in some tasks, go back to the task he has weakness on.  Do test him in a small task.  If he ask to borrow say 100 dollars, lend him say 10 dollars (reason out that it is the only amount you can lend). See how he will respond.  Maturity grows over time.