conversations r running dry. how do i keep her attention towards me?
356390
Dear Fade ....\n\nYou are concentrating on keeping her attention on you, when it might work better if you keep your attention more on her.\n\nAsk her more about her life.\nAsk her more about what she loves.\n\nFind ways to play together.\nIt's really OK to be playful and like kids sometimes.\n\nIf none of this works, she might not be the girl for you.
869004
you need to bust out of your shell. go up to her and say hi and the conversation will pick up. when you get comfortable enough and the conversation is going well just ask her and go with the flow.
355855
Please listen to me carefully.... Talk to her about it because from experience it hurts when one thinks that you are interested and you blow them off with your disinterest. Just tell her how you feel.
230793
The more you talk to her, the easier it will get. Just try not to freak out, and you'll see it will get easier with time. You have nothing to worry about.
419632
Just keep being who you are and do NOT act like a player. If she is truely interested, she'll keep corresponding with you. Good-Luck!!
1112684
I have to agree good friendship evolves when there is a lot of communication. Maybe you or her don't know how to carry on a long conversation. Maybe you can talk about other things than just yourselves and jump to other things going on. Keep title after title. And make it humorous so it can be funny and serious at the same time. Also ask her about anything new she's heard or seen. Make compliments about certain things and certain things that don't sound right explain to her that it's unexpected and when she asks why explain because of the type of person she seems but that should be the time to make it into a compliment and make it interesting. But it has to be face to face. Ask her if she would like to go somewhere for a meal where you can enjoy a conversation. I think through that you can land a good friendship. Hope I was helpful.
800664
i just act casually, eventhough inside i am already giggling to death LOL...\n\ni usually keep the conversation short and simple...if you're both working, then how's work, the weather is good blah blah...if still studying, talk about something in your school, sportsfests, school activities blah blah...\n\nso many things to talk about which doesn't involve personal feelings and will not show that you're really that interested...LOL\n\ngood luck!
385795
Hi! I think you should spend 1 fun day with this follower\nand tell her you need to talk to her and then say you like having friends, but not ones who follow you around all the time.and then tell her that you would like to be friends with her,but she should give you some space.
243501
really a tough question for we the shy people. try to catch her attention, but don't over do it. keep in touch, get to know her little by little and it might work. there are no instant remedies of magical formulas, but it kinda work. the most important: keep your eyes open and your mouth shut if you ain't sure of what to do.
816794
so easy talk as you like at night and when you see her ask her \n"HOW ARE YOU?" she will ans fine then you say to her " I DIDN'T MEAN HOW ARE YOU TO TELL ME FINE I WANT TO KNOW HOW ARE -HER NAME- FEELS WHAT ARE YOU THINK ABOUT NOW HOW CAN YOU FEEL NOW?\nthen you paused and let her talk and talk but you may get bored after 2 months good luck friend
725405
this is a hard one\ngirls are really hard to read n u havent given much information\ni would say that she is probaly being nice\ndo you like her, or would you llik to get to kno her better.\nif this is true then i would advice u to start talking to her start a friendship get close. then you can make your move at a more suitable time
665640
Talk to her like anyone else.  It's her problem if she mis-interrupts something.  As long as your upfront, honest and tactful (no staring at the boobs man); you're in the clear.  Good luck
1066298
Yo man don't get so worked up. if she says shes busy she is. if you really feel un sure just talk to her or maybe call her. Do not make such a big deal. She is als probaley just nervous.. stay  calm and just relax love is a game but don't go bein a player when she could still dig you.
738630
Let her read this, then have a little chat with her.  If anything is to happene between you, you'll have to have a real conversation sooner or later.
999990
Walk up to her and try talking to her. If she's interested in what you have to say she will talk back. But if you've already tried to get her attention and she won't give you the time of day, take is ats a hint. She's not interested in you. If that's the case you should stop trying.
208124
Give her some time. You talk to her casually.. If you really lover her then you have to wait for her +ve response... You be friendly with her...Don't bother if she is not interested...
379811
Well I'm a female, and I'll be the first to admit that women can and do send mixed signals.  Sorry!  I personally find that  tYpe liKe ThIs to be extremely annoying, but then again, maybe  she thinks it's playful.  Sounds like you are on her mind right now, who knows why.  If you want it to be more (again) then respond.  If you are over her, then be polite but don't get engaged in it.