im in love with sum1 i never met!!!!?
371825
of course not.  it's called fantasizing.  you could only say that if you met him and after some time invested in really getting to know him.  meantime, enjoy your fantasy!
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.
527647
I have never fallen in love so cannot help. But, as far as I listened from my friends the best way to get sure that one is in love is to check if u have similar feelings towards other guys like him and what life means to you without him ;)
529076
It is absolutely impossible to be in love with someone you have never met.  It's called 'infatuation'. \n\nIt's like thinking you're in love with an actor or someone on television.  You don't know them and you will never meet them, but you 'feel' you are in love with their character.
537115
never met him hope to one day!)
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
736374
I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
725181
Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!
102024
hey talk to him tell him how u feel and just wait and see what happens. far away romances can be so hard. believe it or not some people actually make it happen if they are true to one another.good luck and god bless
311515
You just fall in love without knowing.. the person. and then once you get to know the person very well... you regret... :S
596017
yes you can love somebody you never met...i fell in love with this girl 5 hours from me without meeting her...but i finally met her and she pretty
534878
i havent fallen in love ever but still i think that u should make the first move and ask him frankly..i know it can be tough and needs a lot of courage but instead of remaining in confusion ,,,get to know the real state directly!!!!!!as u said he is quite & inexpressive so he may take time in admitting that he really loves u so be patient ,calm,confident and positive..
919264
Don't make the same mistake twice.  There is a reason you have been friends for so long.  Do it and take the chance.  You have to think about it this way....You take chances with total strangers all the time without knowing them at all.  Why not give the same chance to someone you know you already LOVE!!!
981717
Hey have u ever heard the term opposites attract.... sounds vague isnt it because u enjoy with the like minded guy more... but someday it will get boring sharing similar  thoughts all the time because sometimes u just feel like getting out of your world into a new world. In your case i would suggest as a friend to play a waiting game for some more days. Your heart will surely give you an answer and it would not take more than a week. All the best.
265506
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
722890
I think part of you knows you are making a mistake.  If you didn't feel this way, you would want to share the good news with your family.  You wouldn't be worried about their reaction.  Slow down a little bit.  Get to know this guy better.  Finish school if you haven't already.  You have all the time in the world ahead of you.  One month is not enough time to get to know someone.  Marriage takes so much more than just the feeling of love.  Believe it or not, the infatuation you are feeling now will fade and when it does, you will find out if your love is deep enough to sustain  throughout life's challenges.  There's no way you can know that yet.