Once a cheater, always a cheater?!?
358366
i don't agree with it... i never been cheated and i never cheated on sumone... but i do bliv that finding the ONE for us is very hard... we may think that we already find him/her but there is a continuous entering of people who might be the right one... coincidentally, the time that they arrive sumtimes overlaps... we cannot judge a person by committing a single mistake... he/she might cheat but it's not for the purpose of cheating... (well... there are sum cases in which this does not apply... it depends on the person...) but... always see the goodness of a person before judging him/her.... one can always change for the best... ;p
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
679816
I was only married for 4 years, but my best girl friend is having her 11th wedding anniversary next month and I know she has never and would never think about cheating.... I carry the same belief, cheating is the meanest thing you can do to a person you apparently "love".  I also have good news he has never cheated on her either, He is my brother, and I know him better than he thinks, i am not going to turn him into a saint.  I have seen him googling other girls but when push comes to shove he respects the fact that he was lucky enough to find "the one" he wouldn't jeopardize that (coming from the horses mouth).... good people are out there, We just are waiting to find more of us
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
1099161
Forgiving my ex girlfriend for cheating. She then thought well, if he forgave me for that time he will forgive all the times to come. I will never forgive a cheater again!!!!
333771
I've been engaged 4 times in my life and each time it was the girl that cheated.As for all of the relationships,no not all only a few from time to time :)
766409
Negative on that roger. Once a cheater, always a cheater. For men or women.
839745
Nope.\n\nOnce a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater..............
810004
Yes, for some...probably more often than not...while some people who cheat may do so only once and find it's not for them...and some may simply desire to be monogamous and stop cheating for their own personal reasons...\n\n...it's also not uncommon for someone who cheats, to do it repeatedly...\n\nProceed with caution if you are considering getting involved with a known cheater...
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
1136997
I think there are certain types of people, she just happens to be a cheating type and you got caught in the middle.  Yes, she will do it again.
669226
It's your fault because You didn't say goodbye right then, past that, bs.  Once a cheater, always a cheater, find a new man sweetie.  \nAs a side note, i would look at the things he's saying I did to make him cheat to see if any part of it might be true or something I might want to change about myself.  Not saying he's right, because cheating is never a answer to anything, but people notice our faults better than we do and we rarely get to hear them.
514399
Take a break.....if it happened once it could happen again.  They say once a cheater always a cheater.  What were the circumstances surrounding the "moment" alcohol, stress, anger etc....and will this set it off in the future??  It could just be a never ending spiral.  And at some point if it does happen again, you may feel you need to do the same thing just to get back at him.  He needs to prove himself worthy of you.  And it will always sit in the back of your mind.  First thing you should do is talk about it again and show him how you are feeling, if your reaction was nothing, he may not think it's a big deal!  Good luck....  And remember there is someone out there that is perfect for you, so if you ahve to let this one go, it might be b/c someone better is waiting!! :)
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
301576
Honestly, cheaters are cheaters.  Even if these things did not mean anything, which they likely didn't sicne they are in cyber world, he would probably mess with  them if he had the chance.  If they live nearby, it is probably just a matter of time before he gets with them.> Sounds to me like he likes flirting with danger, and unfortunately, most times people get swept away by the games they play.
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
100038
He keeps cheating because he can, because he KNOWS you will always go back no matter what he does. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It would be best to get away from him. Get rid of him, he's not worth your time and love.