My friend refuses to forgive me.. What can I do?
368175
This was what I experience in my last date. I tried all i can to make him forgive but he refuses. So my dear friend don't stress yourself much on apologizing to someone that don't have a forgiving heart. Love is forgiveness in advance. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't wait for you to say am sorry before forgiving you. I will advice you to stop pleading and give him some time to refresh his memory and see if he wouldn't come to you and ask for his own forgiveness.
363536
forgive your friend for what he/she has done. and if you want to stay away from him/her for a while, it's normal. if both of you want to make it up again, please do it, because he/she is your friend and you love your friend so much. but it takes both of you to gain your friendship again, not one.
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
124026
I think that you cannot do more that what you have done. I think that you had talk with him about it in a clean, fact oriented, friendly way, so...  There is nothing that you can do to make someone to change his/her mind. I think that you might get "disconnected" from this relationship and ask your friend to not tell you anymore about it.
748451
Okay, I can see why she is upset at the lie.  But if she's your friend she should forgive right?  Sometimes women just tend to freak out no over the act but over the underlying betrayal.  I say you invite her for coffee to clear the air.  Tell exactly what you did and why you did it, just like you did here.  Then it's on HER as to whether or not she accepts it.  If she doesn't want to meet  you or won't accept your apology, then she's immature and needs to get over herself.  But you might be suprised!  Good luck and God Bless!
1127211
You can't do much if they won't forgive you and let it go.  You can apologize to them from the bottom of your heart and tell them how sorry you are - thats your part to do.  Their part is to forgive you and really mean it and move on.
18085
Do not stoop to her level. It is sad that she betrayed you, but do you still call her a friend? Does she know how much she hurt you? Just remember you will have been the better person, Karma can be a drag sometimes so just know hers will be catching up with her at some point.
258382
okay...first of all let her be...its hard at first but you will get through it...if you ignore her maybe she will realize what she lost...and if she doesn't then that's her lost ..it hurts but dont bring yourself down ...if you tried to mend things and she didn't then you know she was really not a good Friend....;)
33762
When in doubt, PRACTICE!\n\nInstead of rushing in without a plan, write down the main points that you want to cover with your friend. Next, practice various approaches until one feels comfortable to you.\n\nYou should also consider your friend's possible responses and be prepared for how you will handle them. Because she is in denial, she may become angry at you. Have a plan for how you will deal with that and what the worst-case scenario might be. Could she possibly end your friendship over it? If so, you need to be prepared.\n\nIf she refuses to accept what you say, don't argue. Just let her know that it's your viewpoint and that you felt it was important to share it. Emphasize that if she ever needs someone to talk to, you will be there for her. Even though she may be in denial now, someday she may need you if she's forced by circumstances to face the truth.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
389015
Disconnect from her. She isn't healthy to be around. Some people are like a fungus and grow from the damp rank odors of drama and hurt feelings.\n\nPlease don't make yourself a victim of stupidity and high school drama. Tell her you have things to do and that you might consider being her friend again, but you need time to think.\n\nLet her know that you mean business. If she messes up again, there will BE NO TALKING. Forgiveness can go as far as you want it to - reconstruction of a relationship: Well, that is a whole 'nother story.
674798
Just ask her if it was an accident, or what the deal was. You can read her face when she answers you. Remember accidents do happen. If you don't believe her just simply avoid her and move on you don't have to be rude or if you cherish her friend ship forgive her and don't believe everything she says that way you don't get hurt again. Just accept the fact she lies. It all depends  how valuable your friendship is. I had a friend like that once, she called 5 times a day, I mean I really didn't have time for all that, it got on my nerves so bad I unplugged my phone for 3 months. I finally got it out of my system and now we aren't that close, I avoid her most of the time cause I don't want to get her started again.
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
286604
You don't say what you did to make her mad. If the perceived offense was 'bad' enough she may never forgive you.\n\nTry being as nice as you can to her. (but don't go overboard and be annoying) Try to make up for what you did. Eventually she'll forgive you or you'll get tired of trying.\n\nYou can't make anyone forgive you, unfortunately. You may just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. And don't repeat the mistake with someone else. Learn from it!
738335
I guess u meant "betray" . Well.........in the beginning i'll not be able to control myself- human nature, dear. But, then ofcourse I think that the person is not worth ur friendship. But before it i'll just ask this question " Why did you do this to me?"
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
833665
It takes a bigger person to forgive than to be mad. Express your feelings to her and forgive her it sounds like she cares or she would have not told you at all.
677395
You obviously hurt her badly and it is taking her some time to get over that. Don't push her, try writing her a letter explaining the tough time you were having (I am sure she knows but tell her anyway) and apologise for what you did.  Tell her what your friendship meant to you, explain how you have changed and grown as a person and see what she says.  She may be too deeply hurt in which case you must let her go but at least you have told her why you behaved the way you did and she may come to understand that in time.