tell him?  or move on?
371959
I would just tell him and get it off of your chest. Explain to him that your very sorry and that's the only tings you have ever kept from him.
798957
I guess I would sit him down and tell him to either confess that he still has feelings or to knock it off. If this continues, you are just going to be thinking about what's going on with him and will never know until you ask him. If there really isn't any more feelings there, then he's just being a jerk by leading you on since he knows you still have feelings for him.
422390
yes definitely you should tell him. Let me share my story with you. I have this best guy friend when I was 20; and we went our own separate ways and found each other again after 10 years and confessed our love for each other. If you tell him now; you wouldnt have to go thru wat I have gone thru. Now, we are happily planning our wedding day. :D Good luck!
1048267
Tell him i think he deserves to know what you have done.May be when every thing is out in the open you guys can work it out. good luck
876617
its a good idea  to let him know, but you need to do it your self, dont let your friends do it for you. he will appreciate it more if you tell him yourself.
236817
Yes, you should tell your current guy.  Other wise, there will be secrets, and questions, and a chance he will think you didn't tell him because you wanted your ex.  Don't get caught up in all the games and hassle just be open about what is going on.
270846
I'd tell him. He knows I still love him and we like teasing each other, but it's different with each couple.
238169
go really slow.  find out where his head is at as far as dating in general, find out as much as you can on the friend card, and if all works out...you get to tell him.
850818
Why do you have to tell him? Why not just be his friend to see how he responds to you that way? Then if it goes well you can slowly work into being more. Why does it have to be a hurry up deal? This way is a lot less scarier and you wont be risking making a fool of yourself.
905852
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
508576
Hmmmm..Tell him.\n\n Pretty simple.
1183
Tell him how you feel and see if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIf he feels the same...GREAT.\n\nIf not, it is time to move on with your life.
767932
It would be better to tell him.  He probably has a bit of an idea that you did, but may not know for sure.  Or maybe someone told him and he won't admit to you he knows.\n\nHe will definitely not be happy when you tell him.  But if he forgives you, then he will talk to you again.  But it might be some time, so you have to back off while he sorts it out in his own mind.\n\nBest is to tell him in person.  Say you want to tell him something, and tell him how you feel about telling him and keeping it from him.  Tell him what you said here, that you are scared of his reaction, which is why it has taken you this long to tell him.  And say that you don't expect any reaction from him, you just want to tell him, to set things right, so that he knows what went on.\n\nIt is up to him how he reacts, so don't expect any type of reaction from him. If he talks to you at that time, then listen to what he says and answer his questions.\nHe might not even talk, and just walk away.
249161
He's still carrying a lot of baggage from the relationship with him. Some guys just need to vent it out. If it goes on for longer than, say, 2 weeks, then it is time to tell him to get over it and talk about something else.
505380
talk to him--again lol tell him tho wht really happened even if it was somethin he doesn't wanna know--so he knows the whole truth and if he don't like it move on....
123009
dump him . . . he probably already dumped you . . . and don't want to tell you . . . .
425847
you just gotta tell him, trust me. it might not ave worked b4, but theres nuffin 2 say that its not gonna work now. go 4 it,  ull regret it later if u dont. wot ave u got to lose??