why do people say they like each other but then 1 day totally ignore them r talk bout them behind their back?
367675
Its hard to say but I thinks its because the person thats doing it or person's are two faced.
204473
It seems they both trust you. I think you should perform the following:\n\n1. Keep yourself in the same position being a good listener but try molding the direction of conversation from personal to general\n2. Either do not convey one's bad feelings towards the other or make it as mild as possible\n2. Occasionaly lie about one's good feeling about the other - if these lies could bring two distant hearts together, they'd be more beautiful than any truth.\n\nGood Luck.
61204
I use to have the same problem. If you reallyu actually like him ignore others comments. If you are too bothered about their comments to ignore them tell him about it. Trust me if he really likes you he'll understand.
702356
Some people are just weird, maybe he needed some time away from people. If he doesn't seem to be the reclusive type then I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Friends shouldn't be like that and if it happens again casually bring it up. Another thing is how close are you guys? New friends, old friends, etc...\nThe talking like normal might be a cover b/c ppl don't like fessing up to screwing up
65094
Ignore, Ignore, Ignore.  People like that feed off of seeing your reactions to what they say.  Once they realize that it doesn't bother you or that they can't get a reaction from you, they will stop what they are doing!
727863
The reason they do it is that they expect a strong reaction from you, even a denial, so they can have cheap fun. So, if you just say "So what?" to whoever brings it up, it would probably make them lose interest, and leave you alone. Be more careful in your choice of friends.
919657
Are you crazy? If you both like each other why are you listening to your friends? Sure your friends mean well but they cant control you.
674733
He's trying to get a reaction from you. When he says gross or disrespectful things, tell him, "I don't appreciate you talking to me like that~~you don't even know me" and then ignore him. If he likes you, and that's why, he'll change his tactics. If its just to be annoying, he'll go away.
88282
its real simple, if they get along with you real well most of the time but when you bring up love or any commitment thing like that if they get all defensive and push you away but then always come wandering back to you then they love you.  if they push you away and dont come back, then they just dont love you.
638214
Sounds to me like you suffer from low self esteem.  You don't think you're good enough for other people to like you, so you are worried that they won't.  You are so obsessed with what they think of you, that you aren't even paying attention to them.  So, they probably won't like you...no one likes to be ignored when they are talking, which will only make your problem worse.\n\nIf you want to get comfortable with someone, you have to get to know them.  The best way to do this is to get them talking about themselves.   Listen to what they say.  Respond to them.\n\nNerves can be bad, but there is no magic pill that will fix what your problem is.  Only practice can help.  Don't worry about what the other person thinks about you. The worse that can happen is they won't be interested and you move on.  Try not to pressure yourself and try to relax and be yourself.  Girls aren't looking for un-nervous guys, we're looking for guys that pay attention to us.
405732
guys r really complicated ppl. they dont all react the same to everything. it could be that he is preocupied on something eles. a lot of guys will get something stuck in their mind and it might be there for the rest of the day. now if you hang out with him everyday usually, and he will ignore you one day and then the other, hes got a gf. or soething along the lines of that, or maybe somethings going on at home that he dosent wont you to know about. and it could be that he just needs his space.. or he likes you.
334691
hm this is a very hard question...well ask them why are you doing this and see their face if they dont answer or didd not say the turth  and show your feeling to them and if they still never tell you said to them that you dont want to talk to them... well  this happen to me too i did that.. and sorry about this :( i dint mean to said this but good luck!
231134
I think its just pure jealousy. If you really love each other deeply then to hell with them just ignore them and enjoy the wonderful relationship you have.
517790
Well... The hot ones usualy like it when u come to them. \nIf they're quiet it's wierd cuz u just act like u dont like them then they like you. That jus tprobably me though.
754718
It's a side effect of having individuality.  The same differences that we find intriguing in one person can be annoying in another.  :)  The best way to deal with this situation is to deal with the person in a professional manner when required, and attempt to minimize contact with them when you can.
876466
Guys take that as you are not interested in them. It makes it hard to talk to you if you appear standoffish, and some might think you snobbish.
644871
They don't hate each other to start out with, it just builds over time. When you first meet a person, you don't know anything about them, and once you get to know more about them, you either like them or you dont.