When is the right time to move in together with the other half?
372655
Don't let anyone fool you with the married thing.  That is just stupid advice.  Getting married will not affect the success of your moving in together, it is just some prudish Victorian attitude that some people still have.\n\nThe fact is, once you move in you may split up.  In fact the odds are very high it won't work out for you.  But moving in now (if you both feel ready) and moving in two years from now probably won't affect how successful it is.  So if you are both ready to take the plunge why not find out sooner rather than later?\n\nMoving in together is exciting and fun.  You get to pick furniture, pick a place, decorate it, and experience the good and the bad of living with someone.  More than likely the first year will be a lot of fun.  Where it goes after that is a function of how compatible you are with each other and how real you were being with each other prior to moving in.\n\nHope it works out for you.
410890
As soon as you are ready.  I started dating the same month that my Ex moved out.  I never regreted it and I found a wonderful man.  Go for it.
234812
I like the answer above.  To add to it, maybe look for a roommate situation.  Sharing costs is definitely a great way to have a nice place, but pay less for it.
1019909
You two should have a serious conversation, and decide what are the pros of either of you moving. Example topics of conversation are: where is it more feasible, can either of you relocate your job, what place has more space, and comfort if your combining more than your two lives, who stands to lose the most upon the move, ie. family, friends, etc, and last, but not least, who better has the ability to start successfully over if they have to move.
99085
right time to grow together.  many factors in your life may answer that better.  do you have $ saved? family supports? another income? then perhaps is the right time.
687048
depends on how long you've been in your new area. if it hasnt been that long i suggest seeing if things pan out. but if you stay for a long time and find that you're miserable and still cant call the place "home" then i'd get out.
265704
Maybe you dont love him enough to move in with him. You dont have to tell him that you dont love him as much as you want too right now. But geez youve only seen him for 7 months. Explore your options, live your life and date him. But for god sake you do not have to move in with each other. Unless of course he is your night and shining armor and you want him to be around you 24/7!
1149062
You are both legally responsible for the house mortgage since, as you said, you bought it together.\nNow would be a good time to come to some agreement on the house and/or any other properties you acquired together and allow one to buy the other one out, or sell the house and split the profits.
622162
I think you just have to wait becuase the prson will come in its right time maybe they are trying to get there life together. Maybe its not the right time right now. Trust your mate will come on the right day and right time
506139
Depending on how long u have left i would say just put up. Otherwise just stay with freinds or family.
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
3797
at least 2yrs, and live together first
1035350
Do you want it before or after you move in?
60706
Laying out expectations and preferences before you move in together, or as soon as you do can help ease a lot of conflict.  \nIf we're talking college roommates, issues such as your sleep schedules, thoughts on overnight guests, level of comfort with alcohol or other substances being consumed in the space, and cleanliness may all come up.  \nBe honest.  Don't be afraid to bring something up if it bothers you, because the longer you let it go the more likely it'll blow up.
121163
DON'T MOVE IN WITH HIM!!!  I am working on becoming a social worker.  You don'w know how bad it is for a relationship when the couple lives together.  Only 5% of the couples that live together before marriage actually make it to the wedding day.  If you want a serious relationship, don't move in with her.
177224
If you are ready to take the next step and you feel it's right then it's the right time. I'm getting married in November and i know it's the right thing to do. I love him and there is no point in waiting, i'm 25 and my family and friends enjoy his company which made it easier for me to make my decision. If you don't have to change your life to involve the other person but gradually include them, then it's good. Don't think that maybe someone/something better will come along and you might miss out, that's wrong.
1104971
If you've talked and both feel it's right, make the move. Sounds like you could be starting a beautiful family together.