My boyfriend is in jail, what about me?
366564
No person is worth waiting around for who is in jail.  They will only bring you down or get you in trouble later.  There are a ton of people out there who will love you all the same that aren't in jail and won't get you arrested later.
921178
Depends on what he is in prison for and how much you love each other.If you love him and he is truely wanting to change his ways and loves you then stick with it.Love is worth waiting for but also worth changing for
653384
To tell you the truth you may want to wait till he is in prison.That way you can hold hands hug kiss and have a Little more family and friends there.You will have to wait till he gets out of coratien but i think you both would be happier.Good luck.
573931
they will serve him with divorce papers while he is in prison...divorce is the same no matter if you are locked up or not. be careful though...im sure being in prison is depressing enough..once he gets served divorce papers he may become suicidal...you may want to consider discussing it in detail with him before you just have him served. I knew a guy that found out his baby's mom left him while he was locked up and she was with another  man...he tried to kil himself..talk to him in person and explain first.
424426
Your fiance was in prison and he still hasn't learned not to try to circumvent the law? sounds to me like he is lucky to be out in the first place.
40367
I think you need to leave your boyfriend, get an education, and make something out of yourself.\nWhy are you dating a criminal?  Don't you have any more respect for yourself than that?
382547
He's CRAZY you cant expect him to be logical.  Hes in jail and cant do anything about it, but still has the right to be upset you did something you didnt want him to do.  Get the rest of the $$ and be more responsible next time.
1098712
I pray that he will change his prejudiced ways, mature in every way and that you really think about yourself and why you want a convicted felon in your life. You can't change him. You can't help him unless he helps himself first!  You both will probably be very different people by then anyway.
497091
nope leave him alone he is sa jailbird and u are 2 nice lookin for that go get somebody thats gonna be there 4 you when calls its not gonna be collect okay u can do better than that okay (good luck )
33142
LMAO at the previous answer!\n\nSeriously, if you are into a mess like that, I think you should get your stoned butt off the computer and on the the phone with a lawyer and on the phone with a rehab place or something.  \n\nBut in regards to your boyfriend, honey I am sure you can do a lot better with someone that WON'T have a criminal record and doesn't do that crap.\n\n\n*I mean YOU as a general term.
969650
First of all, I think you're putting yourself in a dangerous situation. Second of all, I'd let the authorities know.  If he has been convicted before and is engaging in this type of behavior, he'll go right back to jail. If he hasn't been convicted then he needs to be. Either way you need to make the authorities aware of the situation.
1161004
I would'nt go see him. His behavior proves that he's not truly the man you see on the outside. People like this are good at putting on the mask that'll work to get them what they want out of you. I'm sad to have to say it, but it's the truth.  Especially if he's locked up, you'll become an outlet for his manipulative personality. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're wrestling with feelings for him. It'll only stroke his ego. Winning him back would only result in an unhealthy co-dependant relationshiip. This type of user psychology need to be desired and needed by others to floati it's ego. You'd likely convince yourself that you DO need him. And you don't honestly. Being happy with yourself is critical before one can be truly happy with another.
223135
Oh, Honey...I feel ya! I don't know your jailbird, so I can't make any comment about whether or not he's worth waiting for, but I can tell you this, with absolute certainty: Loving an inmate is a VERY HARD ROAD....it's about slogging through endless paperwork, it's trying to keep up with rules that seem to change every week, it's waiting for incredibly expensive collect phone calls that might or might not come and when he doesn't call, praying with all your heart that the phones in the day room are just either too busy or broken and that he's not hurt or on lockdown, it's becoming obsessive about checking your mail and the heartsick feeling that comes over you when the letter you want so badly isn't there,it's about getting writers cramp and spending $20 a week on stamps and stationary, it's about dealing with either keeping it secret or dealing with disapproval of the relationship everywhere you turn and mostly it means living in a future you can't be sure of and that really does take a toll.\nIf I had a choice, I wouldn't do it, but I've loved the guy for over 20 years and I can't quit now.\nIf you want more input from people who won't immediately say "Ewwwww, he's a criminal! Drop it." check out http://www.prisontalk.com\nIt's a wonderful online community for the friends and loved ones of inmates.
696577
They there bubby! I gave you an answer last month regarding your BF who is in jail and demanding you send him money... I thought by now you would have left him because it sounds like he's having an extra marital affair in there, or he's paying for his drug habit... Quit sending him money now... E-mail me personally and lets talk...Been there and done that scene many times with my significant other and eventually caught him cheating on me so I left him after our 14 year relationship... He kept bothering me and wouldn't find a job and expected me to support him and finance his drug habit, so I went home clear across the State of Alaska, and you now how big our state is... Since then, I've got my life back, a new job and making more money and saving and planning on going on a vacation to meet this guy I met on the internet and hopefully take him home and start my life over again..... I occassionaly miss him and think about him but life goes on.... So I weigh the pros and cons of our past relationship and stop thinking about him and pat myself in the back for taking my life back towards the positive side and don't plan on returning to him... I used to go to the library to use a computer to check my e-mail, but since then I have been able to buy my own computer and alot of other things that I couldn't buy when I was with him..... I look forward to hearing from you Tracer and think positive and things will work out for you.... Otherwise do you have IM/chat so we can talk without having to wait for each others reply? So let's chat and come up with some alternatives to ease your pain.... I have yahoo messenger...
696780
Get a life!!  Stop letting your feelings run your life.  \n\nIf he has been in prison, you couldn't possibly have a relationship.  What you have is a big crush on a guy that right now couldn't possibly be the man of your dreams.\n\nThink about it. Why do you have a bf?  Presumably to find that special person you will spend the rest of your life with.  \n\nWell honey, he ain't it.  He is telling you so!! Not verbally, but with his actions.  \n\nWhat characteristics do you want in the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with?  Now match them to the guy who just got out of prison............\n\nYou are obviously not ready do date yet. listen to the advice of your friends and those who you respect before you make an even bigger mistake.
1183088
If you are saying what I think your saying I would get away from that dude. It's only been 5 weeks. If he is doing things he shouldn't be doing and you are hanging around him you are going to get in trouble, or get hurt. I knew a girl once who had a boyfriend who was involved in that crap and she is dead now. Just think this way too, that dude is going to be in prison soon so you won't see him anyways. And that's the truth.
244464
Try talking to him. I am sure he knows you are concerned and will like the opportunity to tell you his side of the story and hopefully put your mind at ease. \n\nYou can't judge from the site. They give the charge but it doesn't give any details. \n\nIf the site says they are still on probation, then you can call your local Department of Corrections Probation office and speak to their supervising officer.