I am very attractive and intelligent, so why do people who have nothing going on 4 themselves approach me?
365824
Perhaps they think of themselves in the same way as you think of yourself?\n\nDo those who really do have something going on for themselves also approach you?
1837
It's a matter of having confidence in yourself.\n     Let me help you out. Your scecial,a really good person, who wouldn't be interested in you?\n     Just do it, and if by some crazy chance they aren't as interested as you would have hoped, well that's just their LOSS, RIGHT?\n\n                 NOW GO AHEAD,AND GOOD LUCK!
892909
You are probably attracted to these guys because they are safe, they don't pose a challenge to you, they don't make you want to become a better person. You deserve better, but you don't believe it. Set some goals for your life, challenge yourself to learn new things, to meet people you would not normally associate with because you "think" they are better than you. Go out and help other people, volunteer at a retirement center, work at a youth center, when you are helping others, you will feel better about yourself and also you will learn that you are capable and Worth something. Live your life like you only have one life to live.
978528
maybe its just not the right time for you to meet the right person yet!\n\ntry being more happy about your self and stop looking for the right one!\npeople notice when you are happy and enjoy life and they are naturally attracted to that! if they see that u look miserable they might be frightend off from approaching you!\nif you have any hobbies or interests that you enjoy try getting into that more often, \n\ngoodluck, remember keep your head up and be happy with yourselfand let it show, you will soon find that people are following you everywhere ...
988438
You sound like an intelligent person and fun to be with... but it would be wise if you get to know someone in person first BEFORE you open up an invitation to have a date with you, don't you agree??\n\nGuess it just goes to show that I'm from the 'old' school... Good luck in your search though!
633696
If that doesn't happen so why don't you just go and ask them by yourself =D\n\nthey might be shy, you know.
917883
They always want what they can't have.....human nature. You are more attractive to them once you have left their sorry butts in the dust. Keep moving until you find the one that appreciates you right here and right now.
157912
I don't know.  Maybe they're intimidated by your syntax and spelling, but as you never have a chance to meet them except over the Internet, you haven't yet had an opportunity to show them what an eloquent and thoughtful guy you really are.
939868
b/c they are trying to be nice \n\nbut really have no interest in you ♠
530718
Perhaps your personality is not all that outgoing and you lack the social skills to get or maintain conversation.  Join something that you have to interact with other people and do other things to ease into the swing of things.  \nYour looks are the book cover, you want women to stop and read the rest of your book.
533005
Let others see your sense of humor and realize that you are the only "you". You have talents and abilities that others would give their right kidney for. You have worth and value. There is no need to be shy. You are interesting and mysterious and beautiful. You are!!! YES!!!!\n\nThe world needs to meet you so they can see what they could have been like if they had been paying attention. Do you see where I'm going here?\nBelieve you have something to offer because you do. Don't be rude or arrogant. No, you wouldn't be anyway. Just get comfortable with being yourself, that's all the world is waiting for. We need you out here. Come on out and play!\nOh, but play on YOUR terms! And welcome to Answers!
1112243
why would they stare at u for?? r u naked? do u have 2 heads? do u talk from your belly?? \njust ignore them and have self confidence
865793
It takes a special sort of intelligence to attract me to be honest...\n\nEmotional Intelligence is a wonderful thing that gravel-tates me\n\nPlus, being clever enough to get away with being absolutely retarded is a thing that I love too...me and my buds are very good at this!!
935218
Perhaps the fact that you are lonely and the fact that it is more-so the physcological traits that attract you to women, are related in some way?\nMaybe it's not that you aren't normal, it's just that you are looking to be appreciated or loved, and perhaps want more solid, sound advice and love than crazy teenage junk. \nPersonally, if that's the case, i think that's sort of admirable.
703868
Why wouldn't they?\n\nJust smile at eveyone and make eye contact - u will soon be flooded with people who wanna talk to you
333388
You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
514408
You need to find a way to build your confidence.  No offense, but you don't sound like you have much.  Having low self esteem in the dating world is like smearing cheese whiz all over yourself: rats will be chasing you.  Try to build a fun life for yourself that doesn't depend on having male company.  When men see that you're alone and having fun, and you're NOT needy, they'll want to spend more time with you.  Get a life, and men will want to share it with you.\n\nRemember:  being alone is WAY better than being stuck with a loser!