on a general basis, what qualities in girls turn on guys?
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For some guys all it takes are large breasts, but those guys are worthles.\n\nIf you are looking for a good guy, they appreciate intelligenc, a sense of humor, a girl that is spotaaneous and adventurous.  Also it's nice when the woman takes charge.  Some women like the man to make all the decisions, but some men, like myself, hope that the woman will take the initiative once in a while.
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Ok, First of all a guys taste in women is just as definitive as his finger print. Me and my friends all have different tastes. And then it gets even more distinct when it comes down to what turns a specific guy on.\n\nI am attracted to innocent and classy looking girls. Quite, shy, introspective girls that are not dumb and don’t have too many hang-ups. Also the have to be some what good looking to me. I like them shorter than me. And smart so I can have a conversation and she can see where I coming from. A flat stomach is a must have. I don’t like tan girls. I don’t like them so pale I can see through them. Every other guy I know doesn’t have this skin tone thing that I do. But I have been with girls from all races. I can’t stand if a girl has an accent any kind. Now when I’m talking about shy girls I don’t mean nuns. I mean girls that are just more reserved on the average. And I like it when they are in to me. If they are sexually aggressive that’s fine that’s a turn on but not domineering. For the most part I’m a very passive guy. The girls that get with me are the girls that seek me out. But sleeping with these girls doesn’t mean there is any kind of relationship. I have also stopped seeing girls that I don’t intend to be serious with, just because I am looking for a relationship right now.\n\nWhy am I attracted or turned off by certain things? I have no Idea. I guess it is in our DNA what we like and don’t like.\n\nMy point is that just because a guy sleeps with you doesn’t mean he likes you. So only sleep with a guy if you want to but don’t do it to start a relationship with the guy. A lot of girls have done this with me and didn’t tell me. So they ended up getting burned.\n\nFinding the right person is very hard. We all as people are so very different in our likes and dislikes in all areas of our lives.  But people know when they don’t like someone. So move on after that.\n\nIf you are having trouble with a guy and getting him to like you then I think there is something else missing.\n\nYou should never have to work to get a guy to like you. I think the main problem where people get all tangled up is with communication. People have to tell each other what they like and don’t like. You shouldn’t be guessing.\n\nBut as far as guys? A lot of guys are not at that point in their lives where they are looking for relationships. I used to be one of those guys. \n\nSo you are asking what you should do to get guys to like you. I’m assuming. It is as simple as this… There is nothing you can do to get a guy to like you but if you like him and show him you like him. Then he might like you back. With most people it is about acceptance. If they realize that you accept them then that is the biggest turn on and quality that I could ever see a girl to have. also considering how worried we all are about ourselves when some one come along and is cool with us. Then I can't help but be cool back.\n\nPressuring guys to be in relationsips is also a turn off but this is where girls get messed over. Girls are with a guy they like but don't learn till is it too late. That the guy doesn't wan't to commit or be in a relationship. \n\nThe best things to do is let the guy know Right off the bat that you wanna be serious. Then he knows and there is know pressure because it is a one way street. It either is or it isn't. The pressure comes from being in the middle of some sort of relationship and then wanting to be serious.  the change is where the crash happens. if it is one way from the begining then there is no change to worry about later.\n\nI don’t know. I could be totally wrong. I hope this helps you though. It’s just my two cents. Laters 8)
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Ok, to be perfectly honest, no matter what guys say, the first thing that catches our eye is a girl's face or body.  It's not that we're insensitive pigs, its natural.  But personally after I first notice a girl, she usually hooks me if she is smart, and espeically if she has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.  Also, I like a girl who is not afraid to take initiative in a relationship, like slightly dominant.
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Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
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Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)
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Not every guy of any/every age mas turbates. Probably 90-something percent of all males over 13 mas turbate.\n\nAnd 5 things guys like about girls: personally, I like the lips, legs, hair, of course personality, and the boobs don't have to be big but there should be some curves :) Most guys will just say "boobs, a[ss, boobs, boobs, a[ss" for all 5. Not all guys are like that, though.
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Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
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well, the attitide is important, they should not be super shy or super hateful\n\nbut, I think i know what ur friend said. Looks are  most important usually. Most guys like nice boobs and a nice a**.\nSorry, that is the truth lol\n\nbut personality is very imporant, and opinions on that vary from guy to guy
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Eye contact, self confidence, a great smile, sense of humor and cleanliness do it for me.\n\nIf a guy is acting like a conceited moron...I want nothing to do with him.\n\nCheesy pick up lines are major turn offs too unless it's said jokingly as a conversation starter.
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For me there has to be a mix of chemistry and personality the two need to go hand in hand together.  I suppose what ever attracts a girl to a guy is similar to what attracts a guy to a girl.
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#1- Women think their man is the sexiest when he just comes home from work and is all stinky and hairy.\n#2- We swear, smoke and drink just as much as they do\n#3- When we're with our friends we talk worse or if not more crude then men\n#4- Girls DO NOT have pillow fights in their Nighties. SORRY GUYS!\n#5- Even if girls tell you they don't like getting flowers. They really do!\n#6- Ladies love just a little compliment everyday- eg. You look hot today, Those jeans make your ass look good, etc.\n#7- If a man wants to get some all they have to do is pick up your girlfriend or wife and just throw her into bed. Girls like their man to be aggressive
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1)They're Creepy\n2)THey makeout with other guys in public\n3)They have a girly tone\n4)They act like girls\n5)They rub a guy's head when kissing them
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Well first of all it should come naturally if she's nice and cute and not dirty or slutty I don't think she would have a problem attracting them.\n\nShe just can't act like one of those girls that try so hard and make them selves look stupid in front of boys.\n\n\n:)\n\n\nI hope this helped.
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I've seen this question so many times on Yahoo Answers. It always surprises me that girls don't realize the influence they have on men. You girls have these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested in us without necessarily coming on like a cheap whore. Things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, a quick glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of the hand (especially on my bicep, chest or abs) these things send all the right signals to a guy while still allowing a girl to maintaining her lady like dignity. But the bottom line is, a girl that has the confidence to know what she likes and how to get it can be especially alluring!!! \n\nTry it. I am sure you will be pleased with the results.\n\nBest of luck!
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Cute, Funny, Sweet with a personality! Not just a Flashy Doll!\nAs for general appearance Girls generally take more care than Most blokes.\nGIRLS THINK that Big Breast's are very important. I REALLY LIKE SMALL Breast's!!! As do a lot of blokes.\n\nNOT LIKED ARE!\nJealousy! Eager to change YOU! Divide you from Friends & Family!
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Someone who has a natural sex appeal. On the physical side of it..someone who takes care of their body, smells good, and turns me on with every little thing they do. Also, someone who doesnt have to pack down the makeup on their face just to look good. Their attitude makes them sexy also, there are lots of pretty girls out there that are bi'otches and to me that makes them ugly and undesirable. So a good combo of natural sex appeal, and attitude. even some girls that are not all that attractive can be really sexy..
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It's a little bit of both with normally personality leading.  Normally a guy won't like a girl that he can't stand no matter how good she looks (note I said normally, there are exceptions out there).  Guys will also sacrifice looks if a girl's personality is awesome (to an extent).  So all in all, guys will lean a little more towards personality.