i am coming soon in sex  what do i do?
356906
beatoff  before sexual intercourse
800318
Way overdue. Have sex with him the next time you see him.\n\nDon't listen to the Bible-thumpers telling you to save it until marriage. God gave you a hoo-hoo and the ability to orgasm for a reason!
44781
the problem with most "couples" is that by the time the man is finishing, the woman just getting started. so start her off first.\nso, foreplay her.\nway before you get her into bed.\nlook at her, you dont have to say a word, just let her know with your eyes that you want HER. not sex, her.\nkiss her, feel her body against yours. you gonna wanna get it started, but dont.\nlay her down, focus on her.\nby the time you get to business, both of you will be really hot.\nshe may ask you why your style has changed, but tell her the truth, you have been trying to find ways to please her better. she may give YOU another hour of fun in the sheets.\nor, there are condoms that numb you a little so you last longer.\ngood luck
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You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*\n If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.\n\nSo either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!
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make sure she has been satsfied through foreplay first...then, if it's the first time with someone new, you can blame it on the fact that you were so turned on by her orgasm that you couldn't hold back, you tried, but you just couldn't help it, she turned you on so much!  That way she'll only be slightly disappointed rather than left wanting.\nSpeak to someone at a sex store for products that will help you last longer or desensitize you so you don't *** so early.  Also, slow it down buddy, good things are worth waiting for...so take your time, and once you feel it building....stop! and wait for your body to settle down again.  It might take a while to understand that the building point and the point of no return are two totally different things.\nAnyhow, rest easy knowing that many girls have experienced this and we're just fine, life does go on.  It's a learning process, so you'll have to study up and possibly get some new things from your trip to the toy store that'll help ya out.  Good luck, and have fun, slowly...remember it's not a race...but you should still let her fininsh first.
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try man on top and tell him to go slow! when it hurts, speak up. \n\ndo you use tampons? probably not. they hurt first couple times. Try using tampons on your next period. \ni know this is different but they are related. in the shower you may want to practice "that" feeling and insert your index finger as far in your tunnel as you can. it hurts but it will help you prepare better. \n\nrelax and go with the flow. when you tense up every muscle tenses up include down-there muscles. Always remember to speak up b/c good communication is essencial!!! :)\n\nI'm still a virgin but know alot about sex, wierd? dont worry- waiting until marriage.....
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Go on and get you some girl! Ain't no shame in that game baby girl! If the sex is doin you like that, but the other dude is taking care of you in some other way, why not get your cake and eat it too?!?! Just be careful, don't slip and get caught up in drama... Do the damn thing!! :0)~
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use condom, change position when you are close or try to please her with your other tools (hands or kisses.... depends on your preference)  this will give you time to slow down a bit.  don't wait til the last seconds to switch.
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practice by masturbating, when you are about to come, stop masturbating.\n\nwait until you do not feel the sensation anymore, then start masturbating again, stop, wait then masturbate again\n\nThe effect in the long run is that you will ejaculate longer than expected.  \n\ndo it with your gf too. while doing sex, stop when you are about to come, restart when it does not feel good anymore\n\nyou have to ask her to bear with you, she will understand it \n\npractice makes perfect...
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your getting to excited to quick. relax dont flex your muscles, especially your glutes( but muscle)and once you stick it in try to think think of things having nothing to do with the act, like a mental conundrum or try to remember  the names of the seven dwarves, or what are the 8 wonders of the world. dont go to far though you need to pay attention to your partner too
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Try foreplay! Too many times you guys are in too much of a hurry...the ladies like it slow and easy...give her time....and try the new KY Jelly with the little "tingle"... its a warming massage.
1123368
Even though your very young, and I honestly do not encourage you to have sex yet, the answer to your question is;\n\nYES, Always wear a condom.\n\nEven though you both claim to be monogamous, (With No Other Guys) Nowadays, You must be EXTREMELY Careful. Wear a condom, use alot of lube, and go slow, until your able to handle it. If your not ready, do not be afraid to Say So. \n\nHave fun babe, and be safe.
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no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.
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When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
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Your FIRST time??  You will last about 30 seconds or around a dozen thrusts.  You are in for something entirely different in your life.  Nothing like it.   The time will get longer tho.  You stay until she tells you "ok, I'm good"......but, of course you will know when that time comes.   Good luck.  Pops\n\nONE LAST TIDBIT:  While you are losing your virginity, just make SURE that you don't bring something home that you can't wash off, like AIDS, Syphilis, Clap and a host of other STDs.  They are out there and they are rampant!!!!   Pops
931411
What you do is...\n\nWhen having sex, Punch him as hard as you can in the face\n [That will deffinatly suprise him]    ;-]
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Both should be romantic, there should be foreplay atleast 30 minutes before actual start, this will help him maintain the coming time, convince use different positions, watch porn movies, moans n groans are necessary for maximum satisfaction atleast from the female, avoid being complete nude other than sex time, start wearing sexy clothes during night (lingerie etc), make sure u look and smell good always and good luck.