i need help i love two people!?
359210
Ok well first of all I wouldn't want to be anyone's sloppy seconds so I would ditch your current guy thats crazy.And second of all if the other guy loves you and you love him and you're the oonly one he loves go 4 it!
513191
just wait. when the time is right you will both know it.  Dont rush you both could be heading into trouble.
994835
Why not if u r both in love everything is posibble... Let love flow thrught the air and take all people(exept me-but sombody has to suffer, anyway...!!!
143798
Thats not a good situation,shes putting you in limbo with the other guy,thats not true love,she is comparing the both of you,she loves only one of you but cannot make up her mind which one.Be very careful with your heart,if she cant let go of that other guy,you could end up getting very hurt.Have a serious discussion with her,and tell her your not going to be held in limbo,if she truly loves you,she will forget the other guy,if not you just might have to move on.
257688
look u just sort it out by keeping them away frm each other and tell both of them that u cannot break the friend ship with any one and devote equal time to both of them and dont mix up or mess it up live ur life
380326
I think you can really really like 2 people at the same time, but you cannot love them both at the same time. You either like one of them very much and love the other, or just like then both very much. Sometimes it could be confusing but I think if you ask yourself, and be honest with yourself which one you'd choose if you could be with only one of them, then you'll know who you love. Take into account which one of them makes you feel more comfortable being yourself, and he'll be the right to pick, even if you think you like the other best. Don't confused an explosive physical attraction with love. Good Luck !!!
53761
Well, I dont know the full situation but, if they truley love each other then they have 2 be patient with each other. After all, love does take time and LOTZ OF HARD WORK. But,(there's always a but), you also have to think about what would make BOTH of you happy. After all, you say these people love each other, they must want whats best 4 each other. Dont they?
21788
Keep your chin up, and understand that will be a lot of time apart from each other. But if you really love the person, don't give up, no matter what. It is not easy, if there is not an official commitment to each other, but just keep the love in your heart no matter what happens.
978765
you love two girls........it's not wrong in doing so.............but you have to find out that both of them love you.........I am sure that the possibilities would be that one among the two might love you or else both of them will love you or else neither of them will love you..............I know finding an answer to these possibilities would be very tough as you are in 10th standard and all of you will be concentrating on studies........\n\nSo you have to wait till the exams get over and try out these possibilities by yourself.............look for long lasting relationship which will end up in marriage and will continue into the future....\n\nRemember love is mutual and it has to be from both sides........you cannot force the other one to love you\n\nI hope my suggestion will help you to choose the one from the two........or some other girl in future......\n\nAll the best
314822
It is so nice to see/hear two people in love.\nBut you need to be up front and foward with him, if you talk to him that much I am sure he will understand that EVERY woman needs time to herself. And if he doesn't now, he will later!\n\nGOOD LUCK!!
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
529862
Communication & patience. Always be open about how you feel and be willing to work out the problems that come along, because there will always be problems, no matter who you're with. But if you're both on the same page about what you want and are willing to give what the other needs, you will be able to conquer anything. Love is not enough, it takes work! :)
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
128603
If you keep both of them that leaves you with 2 choices. \n\n1) Keep them as far away from each other as possible. or\n\n2) Get them together to resolve their differences. \n\nThis is very risky because in the process you might make things worse. I suggest you first find out what the problem is before you make a decision.
543674
Stay honest, if both partners know what you're doing you may be suprised by their acceptance.  If they don't want that kind of relationship then you've lost very little.  It's much easier to live guilt free, no matter what you like to do. Just be honest with everyone you come in contact with.
688628
Time to get rid of them both, its not fair to either of them.  You need to get your head screwed on straight before getting into a boyfriend-girlfriend situation.  You can't love both, one is just lust.
307085
Is there a COMMITMENT? More importantly,is there a mutual LOVE/RESPECT between you/them?...Do you both go out of your way to please the other over your own neeeds?--if not,you will not be happy...love is a "self-LESS" concern for the other.It's the only real source of happiness...I wish you nothing but love!!.......Phantom of the Love