to stay or let it fly?
358439
the new guy is a dead beat and you will soon tire of him, love is not lust and you will not always feel euphoric. get therapy and save your marraige
116136
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck
660124
Live and let live. \n\nTolerance is the key.
553049
It is up to you. Do what you think is right. If you want to then go for it but if you dont want to then dont. It is up to you. Good Luck.
143502
I had one of those long distance things and I stuck it threw and I'm still with her today. I think it all depends on where you want your heart to be in at the end of the night. It takes alot of trust and it can get very fustrating at times but in the end it's all worth it.
28909
DO WHAT YOU FEEL! enjoy if you find yourself enjoying both what the hell the labels matter? i think also that your desire may change.. also both gives you different things another important thing:\nDo not make a decision based on someone else's opinion, this is  of the most intimate thing we got.
722209
I think it's great - stay with it!
240433
If I was you I would go for it.  Put it this way it might help your position in the company.  Things could not be better for you.  Do you realize how many people wish this would hapen to them.  I would not worry about it and have some fun. good luck
961012
heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
514972
A bunch of experts here I see many good answers. I think you should work to live and not live to work. When you stop having fun with your work, its time to move on.
596050
It depends on how serious it is.\n\nBecause if both people aren't seriously committed, then long-distance relationships often don't work out.\nIn which case, it's best to let them go.\n\nBut if you guys are serious about each other, then do what you can to make it work.
114365
there are two choices:\ndont let them influence you\nand the other one is drop them
1043991
Don't let it mess up the relationship. He is with you.  If you trust that he wont stray, let it go.  But if you don't trust him you should let the relationship go.
1125571
drive, or fly, which ever you perfer
679461
that is a very difficult question i think you need to do what is right and stop before u hurt someone including yourself. just either choose one or let both go it will be the best in the long run
1170733
There's a trade-off for everything. I moved a lot for career purposes and in my experience, you make new friends whenever you go somewhere. It really expands your mind because you get to know so many different kinds of people.  My family was a 6 hr flight away. The second move was a 12 hour flight. That was hard, but nowadays there are webcams with free voice, etc. Re the love of your life. If she really is the love of your life, marry her and take her along.  I also have a flat in my hometown that I have rented out. Today, I'm 45 and don't have to work anymore, whereas most people have to work until they're at least 65. That is the trade-off.  Whatever decision you make, consider this: Imagine you're 60 years old and looking in the mirror and asking yourself what your life was like. You don't want to be in a position where you'll say: oh, I wish I had done this and that, because then it'll be too late.