How to get an ex-best friend to forgive you?
365324
What makes you so sure the friend miss understood? if you said exactly what you said in your question I don't see how she Miss understood! The first thing I would do is confront her and ask her why she did what she did. Whether she mis understood or not. Seems he likes to cause trouble. If he won't talk to you write him a letter explaining exactly what happened,(Don't ask him to forgive you because you did nothing wrong!)Ask him how the two of you can resolve the issue,you miss the friendship you once shared. Leave it at that,see if he comes around if not try your best to move on without his friendship. After 2 yrs of friendship and he really considered you a real friend he'd try to work it out.  Good Luck!!!
822176
If you have her number call her.\n\nIf you can't, just go to school tomorrow and talk to the guy and tell him that you wanna be his friend and take back the part about deciding not to be his friend. Ask him to forgive you and if you can be his friend again.\ndon't cry 'bout it.\n\n\nAll the best,\nStacie fan
18229
Chances are you are going to hurt them, so just accept that.  Best approach is quick, swift, straightforward, and make a clean break.  Tell them it's time for you to move on, and that you will always wish them the very best. Don't answer all their questions, just tell them it's not a love match for you, and leave it at that.  Do not try and stay friends, you will only hurt them more.  Just move on and cut off intimate contact.
1151629
Life is too short to hold a grudge against a person.  I lost one of my best friends to a car accident a few days ago.  A friend can be there one day and gone the next without you even thinking it's possible.  Think about it.  Tell her why you are mad and make up.\n\nGood luck hun.
228656
Oh wow, tough situation. It would help a little with these type of questions if people told how old they are. If you all are adutls though, just let her know how you feel. Also your best friend doesn't sound like too good of a friend if you even think he might say yes. But then again, maybe he doesn't know how you really feel about her? You should tell him. Real friends wouldn't do things to hurt others. Also, maybe you acted all cool or whatever when you broke up so she thinks you won't care? Honesty and straight-forward communication is always the best policy in every relationship. If she doesn't love you back that's rough but at least you can try to move on. It's a fact of life that at some point we will probably like someone who doesn't like us back and vice versa. It's not pleasant but it's also a good reminder to treat others how you want to be treated...karma can come back and bite you in the butt!
448680
OK forget getting with someone else- the issue WILL resurface if you don't deal with it. First of all cut off all contact (for a while at least). It doesn't help to keep calling each other. If you have to see each other (like at school or work) then make a concerted effort to change the way you communicate with them. Second, yeah forgiveness- you have to go over all the bad stuff that happened but once you forgive them the burden is lifted and you're free-er. You will stop hurting a whole lot after you manage to let go and forgive, trust me. Next figure out what happened and make a decision that you will never be in that type of relationship again- if the person cheated you will feel like you have no control over that kind of situation and it could be true to an extent but it's important to realise that cheating is about them not knowing their worth or having self respect and know that as long as you do have self respect and know your worth you will never be hurt in quite the same way by a cheater (or anyone else). Get busy. Get a life that doesn't involve your ex or things you used to do together. Have fun, spend time with your friends again and find out what's important to you- minus your ex. Above all else- be totally healed before you consider getting with someone else and if you do meet someone and you're not ready then just let them know and if they like you enough they'll wait til your feeling better about the whole dating thing, if not forget them.
796569
why not send him a card and in the card let me know how you feel - if you are truly sorry - and want him back in your life - tell him this - let him know that this was the very thing he had to do to you to make you grow up and respect him.  but, remember, you really have to mean these words, you just can go back to your old ways with him - because the NEXT time, (if he forgives you, and, i think he will) he may not change his mind.   you can just get so many chances - until the person you are hurting, gives up on you. so hold true to your word to him, if you go with this idea. i wish you well.
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
190378
Lies are always the worst course of action, ALWAYS.  So, what do you do?  You have to accept it.  You lied to her and there's no way to erase it.  Apologize to her.  Tell her you know that it was wrong to lie to her and that you're very sorry.  Try to explain to her why you lied.  Don't make it about how you were afraid of her reaction -- make it about how you were too cowardly to stand up and be honest.  She'll appreciate that more, but if she doesn't want to hear it don't force it on her.  Tell her that you understand why she needed to break off the relationship, but that you still love her and you will do everything you possibly can to rebuild the trust in your relationship, even if it is just to have the possibility of having a best friend in her because she is worth it.  Then DO it.  Let her vent to you about if she needs to... if she snaps and says something cruel and hard to take like, "It's too bad you're such a liar..."  Even though it makes you feel indignant and unfairly judged, don't react to it.  You broke her heart and to her heart, you are a liar...   Apologize if she does that, and tell her you never meant to hurt her, you were just afraid you weren't up to her standards... \n\nEtc, etc, etc...   Oh, and don't do any of this if you're not genuine (i.e. a liar).  She doesn't deserve any more heartbreak...
89237
DEAR \ngo and say sorry to them. Even if u r not wrong what bad a sorry will do instead u will get ur frenz back\nBEST OF LUCK
681456
Sit down with her,at a table. Privately. Put all the cards(sorta speak) on the table. REFRESH your FRIENDSHIP. Just like the computer REFRESH. Start over even with introductions. (this will stir a giggle or smile) Shake hands. Apologize to each other...hug.Vow to each other ..never to take the dishonest road again. True friends hold no secrets, if somebody wants to share a "SECRET" shun it. Remember the burns from the last time.\nBlessings to you .
1028307
Take her to the park or a quiet serene place and say: \n\nI'm sorry I hurt you - it has been on my mind since I did.  Please accept my deepest apology. I will never deliberately hurt you again.  Tell me how can I make it up to you?'.  \n\nSay this with all the sincerity you can muster and she would reconsider.
1127211
You can't do much if they won't forgive you and let it go.  You can apologize to them from the bottom of your heart and tell them how sorry you are - thats your part to do.  Their part is to forgive you and really mean it and move on.
869785
I think if she was truely your best friend, she would know you would never do that in any shape or form. Most young people act like this because they are immature and have some growing up to do.  The little brat was just trying to cause problems with you and your best friend and obviously it worked on your friend.  My point is your best friend will grow out of it and if she was truely your best friend she would forgive you.  If she doesn't forgive you then find other people to be friends with.  You are better off without her.  Hope it helps!!!!!!!!!!
37428
Depending on how long you've known each other, your best friend might have made the process easier by letting you down easy, instead of just giving you the silent treatment and the cold shoulder (yes, all of those evils in one). To make like you're trying hard to reconcile the friendship, you can take them out for a non-romantic, neutral activity, then talk as you would've talked before the "romantic relationship". If you ever start thinking about them on your own time, and your desired partner obviously has no interest, take it easy. If it won't happen, don't force it to. Doing so could risk your friendship.\n\nSome advice : Don't try to linger on the past, either to yourself, or to your friend. It might turn into an unhealthy obsession, one that if uncontrolled, could also risk your friendship. Remain, cool, calm, and collected.
264280
Ma'am, it's best you call....if you really mean to win back their trust and friendship, it's best you take the first step. Apologize for your behaviour...after all, Sorry sometimes is the hardest word to say sometimes...but it also has a powerful meaning,even more than love.If you apologize, they will understand and will not see it as a weakness, so go ahead.Do it.