4 guyz proposed to me,  all are my very close friends, out of which 1 promises to marry  but i dont love him?
371209
I'm sure you're making this up.\n\n4 guys proposed to you?  Who are you? Pamela Anderson?
347046
Do you love him? If so you are going to want to stay together and try to make the relatinship work. I suppose if you don't know if you could love him ask yourself this: Could you see yourself marrying this guy? No? Then maybe it is time to move on. Break the news to him as gently as possible and maybe you can retain the relationship by just being friends.
633065
get to know me and i can spin your head completely around. Introduce you to some of my friends and then you can go and add some more people to your "i love them" list.\nI don't think you really love any of them. You're experimenting, and that's all right. Just make sure that you're honest to the guys and don't brake other peoples hearts. Because if you do, Carma will come back and the one guy you truly love will hurt you. So, be honest and upfront to all of them. And the go and enjoy, learn and move on!
288868
hi\nwell it depends on that what kind of relation betwin 3 of u\nand it especialy depends on u that yuo decide to marry to him or only a simple frindship.in case 1 u should let him to decide to choise .becouse life and future cannot extend with force and obligation. there shoud be love.
874258
First of all its your mistake that you are loving 2 girls and spoiling 2 girls at a time. Loving 2 girls is fine, but 1st girl wants to marry you or not, if she is going to marry you, its your mistake again you got engaged with 2nd girl. Those girls knows each other.?.\n\nForget about love, get marry with 2nd girl and enjoy with 1st one if she comes to you some time later, but make sure that no conflict happens.\n\nMail me on mkkittu@yahoo.com
580203
Well i love someone but i will get married with someone i dont love. This is a big sacrifice for me, but i dont want to make sacrifice but i ma helpless, i cant do anything.\nThis is my life.... full of sacrifices...\n\nIs this same with you... tell me something more about your life.. email me on sam_kel2004@yahoo.com
522484
i truly understand how you feel, because at one point in my life ive been so terribly inlove with a guy and we are together for more than two years. like you i promised to stick with him, and we almost got to the part of commiting a secret marriage, and like you, he take me forgranted at times but often tells me that he loves me dearly. and just like you again, my parents want me to leave him. and then when i refused, they are the one who do it for me. and now i realized, he doesnt deserve me. i thought at first ill never get ovwer him and not think of any other man other than him, but you know? i did, and now i realized, when the relationship is already hurting you and breaking your morale and self-estemm and youre crying more than being happy, then friend its time to go. and i when it comes to money, he will just be reliant to you. if right now, he already rely to you to help him on those things, fact is after you two get married, youre the one to get married and he will just rely to you. there are plenty other men in the world. believe me, ive been ther, done that, i managed to move on. and tell your family to help you. you need them badly, they love you, they know he is notthe right one.
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dont listen of all of them are u going to run to this man tell him marry me as my parents are forcing me to get married?haha hes going to be a man dont do that.during this time dont be in touch with this guy tell ur parents i wont get married now go off get a new job move to a new place then date man u love if not find a nice guy get married settle down marriage should be based on love and marriage shouldnt be for any other reason then two people themselves wanting to spend their life together not parents.
348985
it's time to move on.if your freinds let him flirt with them they aren't your real freinds anyway. i think you know the answer just by asking. good luck!!!
266511
I would seriously evaluate the love of my life idea. Then take a good look at how good of a friend you have.  Most friends are gonna stick wit ya for a long time.  Men see one thing wrong and hit the door.
215026
Living my life, huh?  I hated it...had the most gorgeous girls around me....asking for advice, crying on my shoulder, spilling their hearts.  I wanted to grab them and shake em and say...I"M HERE!!!!!  The things that make you attractive to these girls, as friends, will serve you well in the future.  Let the world call you gay, you be yourself!  Who cares if the furthest you've ever gone with a girl is holding hands?  (besides yourself, i'm sure)  One day...may be next week, year, 5 years...whatever...there will be someone who appreciates all those qualities in you.  They will appreciate your purity, your ability to listen, etc.  A marriage is a partnership, a friendship, it's love.  You can't force it my friend, it happens.  Most often, in my life anyways, when I least wanted it or expected it.  Sometimes, it even became feast or famine.  That was when my integrity, my loyalty, my trueness to myself had to come through.  I haven't always made the right choices, but am very happily married now to my life mate, my partner and the only woman who could ever love me for exactly who I am.  It will happen for you too.  You may need to be hurt as you seek that person, they may reject you as a partner for them, but that is good.  You want someone to love, accept and respect you for who you are....nothing less will do.  Hang in there Bud and be true to yourself and who you are.  It will get better.  Hope this helps a bit.
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umm you said hes getting married. now unless the person hes marrying is you, then im gonna have to say he doesnt relaly like, maybe as a friend, but nothing less n nothin more. im sorry to break it to you. find another guy theres PLENTY of guys, plenty of SINGLE guys.
367233
ya, u might b in confusion...coz i hav some frds who r attracted to more then two guyz so u can handle it. so be careful coz u really hav to look well to both of them and ask urself which one is made foryou or wait till who propose u first...have fun
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Who the heck uses the word suitors? If you really don't want to hurt him you should be with him that's the only thing that will work. But if you don't want to be with him just go with someone else and he'll get the picture. If he's really your friend he'll want you to be happy, even if it means his own misery.
905069
Oh tough one. No wonder you are in a state of confusion.  If he is a close friend of yours anyway have you thought about suggesting outings and activities that are just for the 2 of you rather than with a group of friends. Spending more time alone with him should help you to gauge how he feels. He could be feeling exactly the same as you are and equally scared to say anything. Be patient. If you are meant to be together it will happen in the end but don't expect him to pick up on hints. In my experience men are remarkable dim in that department.\n\nGood luck.
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As him how he feels about other people that have friendships that take it to the next level.\n\nIf he is ok with others then ask him if he ever thought of it with your friendship.\n\nIf you dont take a risk then you can never live life to the fullest.\n\nYou may loose, but if you win, you win big!!!!!!!!!
822274
It sounds fishy!  Go with your gut instinct and trust yourself.  You definitely need to find out more about this guy.  How can you love him if you don't even know him.  It sounds like an infatuation to me.  I wouldn't marry someone I'm not sure I love, or someone who I don't think loves me.\n\nTrust is the basis of any relationship and if you ask yourself, I think you'll find that there isn't any trust here..for a good reason.\n\nDon't do it!