is their a problem with being in love with sex ???? for a girl???
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I think it is a bigger problem to be against sex !!  I mean, most of the problems in our society come from censorship and sexual repression.  I say, as long as you are safe and like it, more power to you, and the lucky man you are with !!\n\nJB
826311
Do you mean sex?  I think it's silly to put a number on how often you want it.  I think it shoud be a mutual thing.  There are people with really high sex drives, and people with really low sex drives.  If two people with conflicting levels get together, there will likely be problems in the relationship (although I think they can be worked out if both people make an effort).  I don't think there is a standard to live up to.  Both people need to decide what is right for their relationship.  Of course non-sexual contact should also be considered.  If you truly connect with someone intellectually and emotionally, you might feel that you are better able to compromise with the physical part.
194066
it's your life, and you should feel fine doing whatever you feel like doing. it's noones buisiness what you do in your sex life. good luck!
723725
i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
518529
It is as normal as possible. If u dont think about sex at this age then it is a problem. Think about sex, learn new things about sex and know more about the opposite sex. imagine to have sex in new positions. that will make you experience more thrill and satisfaction in bed to you and your partner. \nAll the best and hope u enjoy your married life.
664540
yeah, love isnt all about sex. if that is all your relationship is then you need to find someone who will love you for you and not how you act in bed. someone out there will love you for you.
503886
Any time there is a controversy in a sexual relationship, it is normal to think that one or both partners need help. The fact of the matter is that most of the times, disagreements are not serious when you disagree of what type of sexual method you would want to practice, or where, or if you would want to experience situations perceived as out-of-the-ordinary...The issue that stir problems is almost always the quantity of sex between the partners. When one partner does not show as much willingness and desire to "do it", the inevitable rejection issues arise, the misunderstanding, the lack of communication, the feeling sorry for one self, etc. I believe two good partners are those who share the same sexual drive and/or are both willing to experience new things together. There is nothing wrong with being a nympho. Nothing wrong with being a prude or having minimal sexual drive. The clue is to find a match that can correspond with your genetic sexual instinct. Most mistakes we make take place when we fall in love. In fact, when we fall in love we act sexually like we don't do all the time. We become more active and show a superman and superwoman image. Once the falling in love period is over, our sexual drive goes back to our natural status. That is when you need to see if you are compatible with your partner, or make a decision if you are willing to be in love with a partner who may have sexual stimuli way different than yours (be they more frequent or less frequent). Overall, I believe in our life, sooner or later we all reach a point when we think we may need help for our sexual behavior, but most of the times the answers are within ourselves. It's not bad talking it over with good friends, though. Therapist like to get your money. Just think, and make a choice you can live with!
880810
My gf is kinda like this. She's more into sex than I am. I'm usually up for it once a day, given I'm not really tired or depressed. Her sexual appetite worries me only in that I worry about what kind of trouble it may get her into when I'm not around, but I try to satisfy her needs whenever we're together. And no, I'm not tired of her--I love her more than she loves me, and she admits this herself. Don't be ashamed of yourself, though. I'm glad that she's really into me, and that she's open and honest.
690542
Aww come on dude, a woman needs to feel loved (love not sex)I am always there for my wife, I talk to her, I listen, sometimes she only wants to talk out a problem and does not want me to provide the answer. I take my share of cleaning the house (I work full time to provide the best for her as well).\nShe says she feels warm and contented when with me. I spend as much time as possible with her.\n\nI know what you are worried about, if you get everything else right, then sex will never be a problem, for me it is awesome.
567948
not always.  Love and sex are nice combinations but that's not all there is to love.  Or sex.
931296
There is nothing wrong with you. Actually, if the world were more like you, there might be less drama. I don't think you should change that. You seem to have a moralistic outlook on things, and when it comes to sex and love. If you are married, then you will have no problem staying faithful...which is a good thing. You take the words "making love" literally...so don't change because the rest of the world doesn't value it. :)
1153450
oh, love but definitely... I detest sex... I know, I'm the only freak around, right? Every time I have sex (married, unmarried..) I get shafted (eh, not how that sounds.) But love?! I'm in love with love! I desire it above anything else on the planet.. I dwell on it.. I dream it.. I desire it.. I want someone to WANT me.. to be wanted?! the epitome.. (sigh) Sex is for animals.. love? love is for man.
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Love doesn't usually go with sex. BUt most of the time a deeply shared intimacy with those 2 people is ometimes more than enough. Most women ... do need some kid of assurance that they are doing something this intimate with somebody that actually cares about them. Sex shouldn't be something that happens to 2 people just because it happens...usually 2 people have a certain chemistry towards each other,sometimes it's something they both admire in each other.I'm not really an advocate of just have sex if you feel like it...if it's going to happen,it has to be because I would like to share that wonderful experience with that person because I feel that he is someone special but necessarily someone I'm inlove with...I think love would follow but you never know.
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Probably not 'most people' but certainly quite a few . \nI would say the problem is not very often due to physical weakness, but mainly can be put down to upbringing, some may have been taught that sex is only for 'true lovers' or it's not a very nice thing to do or even shouldn't be discussed.\nSome people may have had a very 'off putting' sexual experience!\nSo mainly it's all in the mind and having a really good chat with someone you trust could sort it out!!
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
278947
Yes of course. Why would you ever want to have sex with someone you didn't love? I have loved every woman I have ever been with. I think love without sex is much much better then sex without love. Hope you find what you are looking for either way.
253011
It can be both.Try not to be anxious before the act.What do you think Sex is?An act of love or a means of burning passion.Your definition might be your problem