im a girl.. i get attracted to guys but i fall in love with women... i dont know why..?
357266
i think that it is okay. it is okay to be attracted and have feelings for anyone that you wish. what you need to do now is figure out what you want to do with your life. are you ready for committment, or do you want to explore a little? do be ashamed about your preference, but dont hurt, or lead anyone on in the process
113990
how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
1057374
I used to be bi, but then I realized I liked women so much more and being with guys just wasn't for me. Sometimes I still feel like I'm only 80% lesbian, though, lol.
2925
Well the thing that tipped me off was that I was attracted to both genders.  IF you want to make love to both genders that is a pretty big clue.  ;)\n\nOK, that isn't at all scientific but let's look at it this way...\nIf you were only attracted to one gender you would be the appropriate inclination that went with that.  Girls attracted to girls but not boys lesbian girls attacted to only boys hetero.  \nSO... If you are hot for both you are bi.  pretty simple actually.\n\nNow on top of all that.  Why fret over it?  All of these are just lables anyhow.  Lables are for cloths not people. Just enjoy people that you are attracted to & don't get all worked up about it.
1135881
It usually takes time to realize what gender ( or both) you are attracted too. Espically at a young age, it can be confusing, as you will probably be experimenting alot. Don't judge your sexual preferences on one occasion, as time goes by you'll see your true self come out.
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
1157158
i quite agree with what everyones saying. it's rlly quite natural to take interest in the same sex... u'ave perhaps just realised how wonderful u as a FEMALE are n hence the inclination towards the same sex...it cud also b tht all the relationships uave had with men during ur lifetime, hav in smeway or the other been incomplete or upsetting and so, u may now subconsciously want to try ur luck with the same sex... we often also feel that a person of the same sex is usually more understanding and sensitive to the issues we ourselves r going thro..and so again,ur prolly just looking to be in a relationship with sme1 who can understand u better and  complete u... i dono if this cud relate to u, but it does for me, n i do hope it helps u in sme way or the other!..
625965
Pink bear please don't say that.... Well... actually... nevermind that... Your not bisexual you feel you have a liking on "attractive" girls because of some problems with your relationship with a few people and sometimes want to change your life... Gambate Kudasai(Please hang in there)
180361
Maybe you are bi. There is no shame in that though. You have to follow your heart. Sometimes it leads us in directions that we would rather not go. But don't deprive yourself from something that you truley feel.
225132
Its not you its me....\nI love you but Im not IN love with you.....\nI dont want to lose you as a friend but......\nI just discovered Im attracted to women........
292272
i am not sure, i am a girl and i know i like guys but i like some girls too but i don't like as many girls as i do guys. hmmmmmmm is it possible to be just a little bit bisexual.........oh i don't care. why do you ask?
1137026
I think maybe you're bi, because maybe you like girls, but you have these feelings for your friend but no other guy.  Maybe not.  Maybe it's all just a big infatuation.  Who really knows?  But it sounds like you are either gay or bi.  Of course, you seem to be very close to your friend so maybe you've grown from friendship to being with him so often and sharing so much that you wanted more.
879831
I'd say just give it time. I felt the same towards a girl at my school and we spent a lot of time together but it was never going to happen. It sounds like you know that as well. Stay near her but don't cross that line.\n\nI never did with my friend and everything was good. It was still 5 years after that until I came out. I'm not saying that you are lesbian. I never had any sexual feelings for this friend - I just liked her more than others.\n\nLike you say - don't go obsessing over her. You will become more clear about what you want if she can keep a straight mind. It may just be a fantasty thing because you seem no way inclined to go lesbian. It may just be hormones and discovering who you are or you may just have a natural curiosity.
1162188
When u like the opposite sex. You tend to think about them more often, trust me I've had alot of girls I like. I started to think how I looked in front  of them. The way I acted in front of the opposite sex.\n                   Afterwhile you get this this funny feeling when you're around them. You feel like you need to impress them all the time. When you get to the point were you constantly think about them. To the point were you want  to be with them constantly. That's when you know you like the opposite sex.
421963
I had that problem before and some one told me that it is because there is something inside of me that makes me to mature for my age. I act older than what I am so therefore i attracted older men. I don't know what to tell you as far as how to change it but i hope you find happiness.
1006691
No clue maybe you like girls & guys??? This actually happend to me once also. What i did was focused on a guy I like, try to do everything you can to get him so now your mind is on him sexually. But since this happens to you before your period maybe you are a lesbian because during & before your period girls are more horny and you appear to be horny to the same sex. I would suggest thinking long & hard about girls sexually and than think about guys an find out wich appeal to you more. good luck with your journy to find yourself!
1050685
I was born heterosexual. I cannot help being attracted to women. Please do  not condemn me for that.