How can i stop my GF's callers from calling & stalking her even though they know we're a couple.?
369581
Hire her a bodyguard! If you can't be with her 24/7, find someone who can. Just make sure, you trust your men enough that they wont sleep with her!\n\nBut i I were you're GF, i won't do anything stupid. I'll ditch my phone and stay inside the house with you -- ALWAYS!\n\n..Lol!..
947097
right first of all. Ditch her! nah only joking!!!\ntell her to stop ringing and texting you and she'll get the message lol
176273
Ignore it. She sounds like a trouble-maker and not a reliable source. You can also call her back and ask her to stop harrassing you.
193277
She sound very jealous and also one sided. If she can't talk about it, then she is very selfish and not willing to make it work. She is not worth hanging on to. You really have no control over who phones you.
346387
stop calling her she wants control and wants you to run her down when she sees that you dont chase her shes going to worry and change shes behaving how you have allowed her to. Dont text her or ring for over a week try hard not to she will worry trust me and start chasing you. You wont lose her.
974307
Lets not think about why, because it doesn't matter.  Lets work on how to make the phone calls stop.\n\nPick up the phone and say, "Hello."  She will then start in with her mess of problems she wants to talk about.  Interrupt her in a very calm and firm voice.  Say, "(her name), I don't want to talk to you.  I don't want you to call here ever again. We are finished, and I want nothing to do with you.  If you wish to communicate with me you may write to me via certified mail only, at (PO Box).  I'm going to hang up now, goodbye."\n\nOkay the reason why we want her to write to you is for documentation purposes.  You didn't say if you were married, even so you have a house together and to get her name off the paperwork you must be in some sort of contact with her.  All mail must be certified, its the documentation you need in court.  If she sends it regular send it right back unopened.  If she calls after that pick up and then hang up immediately. If you know you are one day going to end up in court, keep a little booklet that documents how often she calls (time/date).  This can be harassment, and in court will show her obsessiveness.\n\ngood luck.
1154566
There is no other way except the direct way. Tell her in no uncertain terms that she should not come over uninvited, nor call you anymore, as this is an invasion of privacy. What I am saying is harsh , but this woman has to be told the truth in words she can understand. It seems like etiquette isn't bgetting you any results in resolving this matter. Good luck.
624845
Don't cut off your booty call.  Give her a call every other day or so to keep her online.  Peace.
958786
There's no easy way.  You need to be really honest with her for a long time.  Make sure it doesn't seem like your hiding anything.  Make your life and your schedule an open book.  Make sure you can be contacted at any time, and tell her exactly what you're doing whenever she asks.  Don't delete the records on your caller id or cell phone.  Don't hide emails or IMs from  her.\n\nIf she didn't break up with you, then she's willing to try to trust you again.  You just have to be very open for a long time.
1078085
Ignore the rumors - if someone asks you about it you say "you listen to that guy?  that is simply not true."\n\nFor the stalking - if it is truly physical stalking you need to call the police.
181367
I have the same problem, ive been hurt by friends and family and i STILL think up conspiracy theories. Talking with him will help some, but the change has to be WITHIN you, the only thing he can do is make his life a little more open for you. I try to be as open and honest with my GF as possible, that way she can trust me more, also i tell her where ive been and she even knows my E mail password. She knows who is on my buddy list and who ive called. I do all of this so that there WONT be trust issues in our relationship. BUT she could still be paranoid, so she has to just admit to herself, that if im cheating on her, then it DOESENT MATTER, she will just break up with me and move on, or if i truly repent then fix the problem and continue the relationship. But you HAVE to let it go, go out on a limb and put yourself out there. once you say it doesent matter, and you have "let that person go" then that takes away any walls that were in your relationship before.
845323
Careful\nDont start stalking.
443484
He needs to change his numbers. And you need to confront this girl.  Tell her that he is your HUSBAND and you both agree that you want to work out your marriage, and that your plans do not include her.  If she keeps harrassing you, call the police.  There are all kinds of charges (Harrassment, unlawful use of telephone) she can be slapped with
506355
stop stalking her and get some counseling\n\n\nstop stalking us and get off YA with your stupid scenario.
370251
Girl, you have every right to be peeved!  First of all your man shouldn't have friends that are girls, specially these ones you are describing!  Nip that right in the bud.  This is your house, and your relationship!  Don't be anyones door mat..and yes start answering the phone!  Identify yourself too for example say something like this"hello who is this?"and whether they answer back right away say"this is his girlfriend, whats up"  Respect and love yourself first!
803670
The only thing you can do is cut them off. Don't answer the phone, don't answer their emails, don't play their mind games anymore. If they insist on bringing you into their drama, tell them to take a hike for your own good. Just do it or they will continue to drive you nuts.
824932
You have an order against her - that was the first step. Now she is violating it. You need to call the police and inform them of this. If there is any way that you can record these calls, or if they are messages, save them. The State's Attorney will be able to use them as evidence possibly. Harrassing phone calls is a serious crime with an order or not. She can be broiught to court and serve jail time. You just have to be persistant and make sure that you never initiate contact.