I sometimes have thoughts of other guys, even though i have a boyfriend, is it normal to have those thoughts?
372233
This is OK, every one is allowed the space to fantasise.\nIt's what you do about your thinking that's the main issue, and if you don't cheat then it's all good.\nIn a way it is even a good thing, it can reassure you that you have made the right choice by being with your boyfriend.
534330
So he thinks you're weird. That's one guy out of how many? Don't be bummed out about it. And don't go chaning yourself over some guy that you used to like! Someday someone will love you for who you are. Don't get upset over what some crush from the past has to say! They're in the past. Leave them there and move on! : )
80466
I have the same problem with my new guy. . . i think its the anxiousness of weathere or not hes thinking about u, wondering waht hes doing, wondering if youll ever be an item, wondering SO MANY THINGS about him, spend time with him and try to get to know him better then u no for sure about everything he does u WONT HAVE TO WORRY OR FEEL TOTALLY WEIRD
173649
Yes it is normal. I really don't think it is a sin to think other men are attractive.  There are some really attractive guys out there.  But the thing is you care about your boyfriend.  You love your boyfriend, and you will never cheat on your boyfriend... Everyone looks at other people, it is called human nature- My advice is look- just don't lust or derive.
1183210
There must be  some guys out ther eint he world like that, I mean i'm stronger than my boyfriend and as afr as I know and I hope lol he loves me and a few of his friends have crushes on me, i don't think it matters what yewr both interested in aslong a syew rintrested in each but some guys may see yewr strength as a threat to their egos but don't let it get in the way :)
150230
Maybe you're not ready to be in a one-on-one relationship with just one guy. It could be because your bf is not everything u r looking 4 so u find urself attracted to other guys. Maybe u should try the single game 4 a while and see if u meet the guy that makes u forget about the others and what they have to offer.
231319
Well, of course he does.  We all have someone that "might have been".  And if he's asking your friends about you, then yes, he's thinks about you...maybe not everyday but there may be things that pop-up in life that remind him of you and I'm sure there are things that come up that make you think about him.  But remember everything happens for a reason and you are where you are suppose to be in life and he is where he is suppose to be.
620078
I don't think its all wrong for you to give your all when your in love, but that has to be both of you doing that.  I wonder why you are having these feelings of him looking at other girls, and stuff because if you were truly happy there wouldn't be thought like this!  I will tell you that its normal for a guy to look at other girls.  Its in a guys nature to do that, but cheating isn't.  Looking is one thing cheating is another.  I would just watch how much of yourself your putting forth and how much of himself he is putting forth.  I would hate to see you get hurt because you put to much of yourself into him!
619700
When you think about him, what is it that you think about? Trust your instincts, and try to figure out WHY he's staying in your mind. Then, find a way to introduce that aspect of him into your current relationship.
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
631163
It is okay for you to think about and be curious about your previous girlfriend/s. They were a part of your life. \n\nIt is better for you to not share these thoughts with your current partner. \n\nHowever, you must have a balanced mind and clear understanding that you are not interested in a relationship with your previous gf/s anymore. \n\nIt is healthy and sweet to be concerned and curious about people you have loved in your life.\n\nBut harmony of life must be maintained at all times.
611901
i think it would be better if u confess to the other guy that u are in a relationship. it is quite possible to fall for other people while u are in a relationship. its natural so dont worry ok? just take your time to know this guy.. it might just be a crush since u say that u love ur boyfriend. may be after sometime u will realize this new guy is just not ur kind. tell him the truth about u being into a relaionship. dont lie. it could harm ur relationship with ur boyfriend in future. and about telling your boyfriend..i think u should just tell him u have made a new friend nothing else.. tht is it.... dont worry. hope it was of some help.
753684
heck yeah.. especially when im thinking about the fabulous Johnny Depp or my best friend [male friend] im a baddd girl !!\n"WINK WINK !!!"   [my mind always has to stand in the corner a lot !!!]
672766
Well if i were you i would be looking carefully at the relationship you have with your boyfriend and maybe make a  list about what is good/bad about him and the relationship. If there are more good things than bad things then perhaps you should stay with your boyfriend, on the other hand if you are having second thoughts about the relationship give it a go with the other guy you are attracted to. But really think about it carefully, you could end up losing both guys and have nothing.
602530
Id say youd be weird if you were worrying about havin a boyfriend instead of thinking about finishing school. Youll have plenty of time to worry about boys
135091
i do not think you should because it is possible that when you DO except them,those boys may think you are boyfriendless. thats just my thoughts though.
992463
my guess is that you may be in lust or love, depending on how long he's been your boyfriend. especially at the beginning of the relationship you will be thinking about him a lot because you are dealing with a lot of new emotions. and it could be the beginning of love. don't worry. if he wasn't your boyfriend then it would be a concern. have fun. this feeling doesn't always last that long. in a month, when things get boring and routine, you'll miss the days when you waited for his phone call.