My  girl friend is 45 years old....her need for sex is now once a week...is this normal and will it get worse?
369396
that's so little. how do you manage?
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
559731
you are just getting old. nothing wrong with that. Get surgery to get it tightened up, or stop having sex for a week or so to let it go back to normal. the very last thing you could do is get a new partener - one with a larger member. That will solve everything.
1068825
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
203463
I would suggest that you talk her into seeing a Dr.; it could be her hormones, post pregnancy, etc.  There are medications that could possibly help, or she may just need to talk with a professional.  Please just be there for her, be supportive, and be patient.  As an older woman, I speak from experience here.......many times, a younger woman won't have as high of a sex drive, as she will later in life.  Stress can also play into how a woman feels sexually.  We have lots to do, and there is never enough time to get it all done in, so she may simply be too tired to enjoy sex.  You might try giving her a massage, give her a nice, long foot rub, run her a bubble bath, etc., with the sole intention  of relaxing her.  Don't make sex the main focus though, or it could backfire.  Just let her know that you want to help her relax.  It might also be helpful to just sit and talk with her, let her open up if she can, and support her the best way that you can.  I hope it all works out for both of you........good luck!!
555951
Nope! I speak from experience! (I am 65). Actually guys reach their peak in their late teens...for gals it's usually about the mid 30's. This can vary with the individual of course...but for most of us it's true. There is a VERY slow decline after these peaks but most people can remain sexually active throughout their lives (yeah Viagra helps for many of us older guys!). Of course people can become more sexually active in later years just because the opportunity presents itself. An older dude can find a younger woman is attracted to him for instance (maybe because of his money, maybe something else!) and he could find himself do more f--ing than he did in his twenties. For myself, I needed sex release through intercourse, oral sex or (lots of!) masturbation  at least once a day in my teens and twenties, 4 or 5 times a week in my thirties and forties and still 2 or 3 times a week in my 60's. I still think about sex every day even if I don't jack off every day as I did as a teenager. What I am getting at is it is a VERY SLOW decrease in sexual desire over the years. Nothing to worry about at all!
517636
Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
34367
Your question answers itself.  It looks to me to have been a series of physical-only relationships--if you can call them that--that she either constantly mistook for love or worse yet, thought that it didn't matter.\n\nI'd guess that all those partners were a good deal older than her, and primarily interested only in hot sex with a teenager.  It's a wonder she could survive at all.\n\nI'd guess she needs a bunch of healing.  She likely figures it's pointless to care when it'll never come back to her.  As her friend, you need to get her to see that there's so much more to life than just meaningless sexual encounters.  You might be able to help, but if not she may need some counseling.\n\nBe her friend.  Help her feel again.  It'll do you both a lot of good.
988928
she is alone,thats why using you.\ntry to get out of house or have someone in house.\n\nshe may be feeling what woman feel at 30's as that the time they r in thir hype,but loneliness is making her towards u.\n\ntake care!!
690495
sounds like he`s not sexually conservative no more.hope she don`t have a mid-life baby-women can be very fertile at this age.
531951
Not normal to me and I've been with my husband for almost 20 years. To each their own though. I have a friend that only has sex when she wants to have a baby and thinks that this is the only time they need to have any intimate contact. Funny world sometimes.
90436
Women in their 40's often to experience a drop off in their sexual drives. They are often concerned about getting pregnant at a time when they are moving on past the childbearing years and concerned that if they get pregnant there will be a high risk of genetic defects. They are also experiencing a decline in physical energy compared to their younger years. Considering these factors, the lack of interest is probably not related to the relationship so much as her own body's aging. However, intimacy is much more than what happens in the marriage bed. It is what happens through the day. Improve that, and you will inevitably improve both emotional and physical closeness.\n\nYou need to consider your wife's personality. If you are not sure, research love languages. There is a book by that title if you cannot find any onformation on the net. Basically, some people feel best loved when given things. Others feel loved best through words spoken. The third type feel most loved by spending time with them. The last type feels loved through gifts of service.\n\nFor my type of personality and age (I am 42), a racy sex toy would not be a turn on. I would feel like the gift was a shout saying let's skip real intimacy and get to the sex part. Intimacy to me is based on an emotional relationship as first place. My love language is time. One on one time doing activities that are out of the ordinary to everyday life would draw me closer. A hand in hand walk through the neighborhood, a surprise candle-lit dinner, being beside me in the work of the day around the house, etc.\n\nIf you speak the language your wife needs, I am sure intimacy will increase. As conversation allows a natural discussion of it, communicate what language you like best. It will make her feel good to be filling your emotional love needs too.
247443
well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
626980
With the pics it does depend how recent they are, old ones don't worry about, new ones could be an issue. Being open about sex is not a sign of lack of commitment, but of comfort with it. Being open about sex and sexual interests is very freeing, and is only taboo because of the religious fundamentalists that run the world are a bunch of frigid nutters who think anything beyond missionary with the lights off on your wedding night is wrong. Chill let her be herself, unless she really crosses the line give her the benefit of the doubt.
682216
I think its normal for a man to want sex at any age...i don't think you libido ever dies it might slow down but it doesn't leave...so yes its very normal...we are human and humans have urges...enjoy
503509
Yeah I think it's normal in the broadest sense of the word. It also depends on the age of the guy as someone else mentioned. Most young dudes could use it several times a day...but that ever so gradually changes as we age. Also people are different in their sexual desire like they are different in all other areas. There are even some people (a small majority) that are asexual...they have little or no interest in sex at all. As long as he still has a reasonable interest in regular sex...yeah he is probably normal...in my usual most humble opinion!
1153612
I met my hubby when he was 35 and I was 23.We both had children from previous relationships. Now we have 3 kids between us and the sex has never been better...he turns 42 this year and I just tuned 30...I feel that men get better with age,like a fine wine. And the more sex they have when young...the more likely they want it and get it when they are older.