What should I do to make my girlfriend love me like she use 2?How can I prove 2 her that i've changed??
365330
If she loved you once, there is still something in her that make her still think of you. If she was serious about being in love with you, she will always have feelings or you. She won't even remember why she loved you, but she will.\n\nProving that you've changed will take a LOT of time. You can't just expect her to assume that you changed just in the course of couple of months. It will take at least a couple of months, and may even take years.
92825
you can't make someone love you...be yourself and if she loves you good if not find someone who will love you for the way you are...if  you love her and want her to love you..treat her good...make her feel special and things will go from there
559004
Sounds like you need to break up with your girlfriend first before you do anything else. If you didn't break up with her, it wouldn't be fair to your current girlfriend, the girl you love, and yourself. Once you do that, you can explain to the girlfriend that you like her and want to be with her. Good luck!
432996
The best way you can do is be yourself.If you know her hobby/interest you can try with that,give her a poem, flower,cokelat,or food favorite.Bring her in Romantic Restaurant so you can tell her if you Love her so much.If you can play a guitar you can sing it in front of your girlfriend and tell her that you love her so much
190222
You should force her to be your girlfriend whether she likes it or not. I mean, she owes it to you, right? Or, maybe you could beg, cry, change everything about yourself to make her happy. That almost always worked for all the pitiful guys I ever dumped!\nSERIOUSLY- MOVE ON.
1158197
Well first off you should explain to her the whole situation again.  After that I would be stearn.  Meaning, you need to explain to her that you are telling her the truth and the only person you think it could be is that girl.  Offer to your girlfriend that you two change your number, then in that case they can't call anymore and just be sure you don't try to call them for the money after that either, because then they could get your new number.  Explain to your girlfriend that changing the number to prove that you have no need to get in contact with whoever this girl is and explain to her another thing you could do is call the phone company and have them trace the calls, explain to her that if it was someone you were seeing you don't think you would have the calls traced to have the person out in the open if you wanted to hide anything from her.  But on the other had let me tell you something.  Don't do all of this just to prove something to your girl, do it because you want this chick to stop also.  Because you really don't have to prove anything to your girl, because you also haven't proven you have done something wrong.  Trust is key in a relaitonship and if she can't trust your word, then there is a bigger problem then some girl bothering you two.  Good Luck!  Hope all goes well with you!
956797
You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
640385
Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
728493
congrads... \n\njust make sure that u act like ur self... we hate when guys act different around their friends and then us... don't worry about the kissing thing (who said you have to kiss if you have a girlfriend lol jk) just make sure that u are always ur self and try never ever to yell at her.. she will dump you w/out a doubt. :) remember if you want things to work you must build a relationship and that takes time. be ready to talk things out and BE HONEST! if you tell her a little lie you will be more likely to tell a bigger lie. don't rush into anything physical because that will hurts your changes of working things out by talking. so remember be yourself, talk, and be honest.
1039348
Been through that my friend. There is no simple answer coz it's done. Tell her very politely that your relationship cannot live in the past and since you cannot change it, if she is so concerned she must have her freedom. Not simple, but that is how it should be. You cannot erase your past, only GOD can. I agree it has no relevance to your present circumstances. If it happened before you met her, she should love you for what you are. I hope she is an angel!!!
1003037
you need to talk to her and try to make an effort to spend more time together. find out why she doesn't trust you and try to change. If you really love someone you will be able to talk and work it out..
1013611
dont force her, ask her and if she says yes, ask her if you 2 can simulate forcing, but never really force, you sadist
159714
If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.
281730
go for it..\n\n\nflirt and be friends with her get her alone then do it... tell her..how you feel she will finally realize that you have changed and maybe change her mind.\n\njust listen to me i kno this kind of stuff i am a pro at relationships. and i kno boiis.\nlisten to me and do it.
180688
first of all, picture yourself in her place, predict her next step, and know what to do..\nthen, get to know some of her closest friends, and tell them that you love that girl and be honest,, i'm telling ya if u are not honest, you'll fail.., then, tell those friends, the first time you saw that girl (the one u love)\nand how u felt about her, and how u still feeling and that her love is growing each second in u...\n\nwhen u be with the girl u love,, 1) be cute , (2) be funny (but dont make fun of her at first,, this comes later when she loves u), (3) be generous, (4) be clean, and neat\n5) she have to love your personality (be a man), (6) dont let her make the decisions for you always ( for example dont always say: as u wish, or as u like, ( make your own decisions)..\nat the end, keep connecting with her friends and tell them love stories about you and your girl...\n\nand i hope she will eventually fall in love with you..
701674
how about be yourself? when the perfect girl comes along, she's not gonna want you to change yourself just to be with her...trust me, it'll screw the relationship to pieces.Just wear, SOMETHING and don't act like an arrogant jerk, she'll love you for you, it makes you feel a lot better and really improves your chances of making it work. and don't be so desperate that you get a stupid girl...go for personality over popularity, and love her for herself just like you want to be loved!
357237
Selfish people never see their own selfishness.  And that's a basic truth with all of us.  We never see our own faults most of the time unless someone else points them out.  You should hold a mirror up to your girlfriend's face and tell her exactly what she does that makes her a selfish person.  And I know this is difficult for most men to do but, tell her how her actions make you feel.  And remember to point out to her that you love her and that's the reason why you are pointing these things out to her.  You aren't trying to change her, you are trying to make her quality of life (and your relationship) better.