why do men cheat in a relationship in at some point in time?
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
322389
Because most men find younger women more attractive, and so are less likely to ruin their marriage by cheating on an older woman. As to why men cheat in the first place, it's usually because they are putting their own desires above that of their wife.
575062
i hate to say it but men are selfish...i think they will always continue to cheat because they just cant control themselves if another woman happens to show interest. if he cheated once yeah he prob will cheat again but its not ur fault he just doesnt respect himself how could he respect you?
900084
Some guys do not appreciate what they have until they've lost it.  If he's cheating now, he'll cheat for the rest of his life.  Dump him!  You can do better with someone who does appreciate a good thing when he finds it.
371696
the old saying  " I can have my cake and eat it to " For example::::: You are dating this guy, whom you love very much, and he cheats on you with another girl, he has you and this other chic to.... And even when you find out he has cheated, you say oh if my man ever cheated on me i would be gone I would leave him in a heart bear.... ya alot easier said than done...Most people cheat and when you say cheat,you mean sex.... because it is sex... they have sex with someone else, but they know they have more than that at home, they have a relationship...people cheat for sex, when they leave it cause they either dont love you anymore, or they have found something new
401028
Nope.  Never would either.  It's just immature and silly. Really there's no excuse EVER for it.  If things aren't going well you work on them, and if it's not gonna work out, the mature thing to do is end the relationship first, then move on.  Another thing - when you're committed to someone you don't even get into situations where cheating "just happened".  That's just b.s.
1024974
NO! WRONG!! Men don't cheat if they're already in love......they cheat because they're NOT in love!  A person in love will NEVER cheat!
317928
Different people cheat for different reasons.  Some men aren't getting what they need from their significant others, and other men just enjoy the thrill of it. Of course some just enjoy the change of pace so to speak.  And what you've suggested doing to either prevent it, or allow it to happen, is going to have a different reaction on different people.  If you leave it open a lot of men will take advantage of it, and some will not.  \n\nTo answer your topic question yes I believe there is casual sex.  I believe most men have the capacity to love somebody and have sex with another and tie no emotions to it.  This may not be comforting to most women, but it's often times the case.  What happens when that casual relationship turns into something more is because the man allowed it to, but if that happens there was something wrong with the relationship to begin with.  I'm not saying it's the woman's fault, by cheating you've opened up the risk of that happening.  And contrary to popular belief it takes two to tango.  No amount of being drunk or the skill of the seductress can be used for an excuse.  But if the man is open to it, maybe there is something wrong with the relationship to make him seek sex from another person?
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
299629
Because they seem to like the challenge.Because some women allow them to cheat.My father use to say that sometimes a man will marry the woman that will let him get away with the most crap.Whorish men get married too.Some men are in the practice of saying whatever it takes to get what they want or to get you off of their backs.Never let him know that you are totally satisfied with him or your relationship,because to do so is to give up the fight.Have you ever seen a dog chase a car?If the car stops moving he turns and goes the other way.He doesn't really want to catch it,he just enjoys the chase.Always keep your man chasing you.Even if he has you,don't convince him that he does.Otherwise he will look for some other person to chase.
85859
i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world
1100883
because they arent really in love.\nIf they actually loved the woman they were with and she fulfilled him he wouldnt cheat.
994435
because men is habitual in lying than female. what sex always cheats on its partner? most often is male. They always say men are polygamous in nature, especially when caught.
140851
It's not men or women it's people.  People cheat...always have always will.  Same as lying, stealing etc.  You just need to find someone who doesn't.  That's the hard part. If someone cheats on you, most likely you were not meant to be together in the first place.
860518
Not all of us do. You just made a very sexist comment. I have not and have been married for nearly 18 years. You question should have asked\n\n"Why is it that when some men are in a relationship they always end up cheating when they say the love you?"\n\nMy answer to that is they are dogs!\n\nGet the difference?