i really thought i was in love but people started hurting my feelings do edward really love me?
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People can hurt the ones they love. It's often easier than hurting complete strangers.
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awww,,, did someone hurt your feelings.
329059
People do have a way of hurint those they love most!  Its not just you we have all done it!  it could be that u r terrified of being hurt and you figure u will hurt them before they hurt u.  You may not even be aware that u r doing this but its could be self protection that u r doing.  You could be doing this self conciously and not even know!!!!  Have u been hurt by someone u were close too in the past?????  This could be the reason u r protecting yourself.  Good luck to u!  Remember- the person who hurt u in the past is not the people in your life now so they deserve to be treated with kindness and not be hurt!!!  Just remind yourself of that daily if it helps you!!!
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Man, that's sad.  Guys just love to play games and many times what you thought you saw in his eyes wasn't what you now think or thought was love, it was lust.  This guy obviously is immature and a liar.\n  Chalk it up to experience and get on with your life.  don't put up a wall preventing future guys from loving you or your believing them.  My mother told me once that if you tried to analyze everything a person  sas to you, you'll end up going nuts.  So just figure that when he said he loved you and was nice to you and you trusted him, just figure it was true at "that moment"., and stuff happens , time goes on, things change and we will never have all the answers as to the why's .  It happened, you had a great time and now its time to move on to more life experiences.  don't be sad......................Take a bath, do your hair, be yourself, smile and move on...and up........good luck
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that's only natural.. they were the first one to steal ur heart and the first one u expierenced those feelings with, it doesnt mean they are ur true love just ur first love they will always hold a special place in ur heart..memories are a beautiful thing they are to be treasured not buried...
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I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
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well, it sounds like you may have committement issues. maybe you feel like you are unable to give someone your complete trust to. whatever the reason may be you may want to look into talking to a professional about this. You don't want to exit this earth and never truly knowing how to love someone unconditionally besides yourself that's not your blood kin. Good luck with this and I hope one day you open up and allow someone into your life.
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I knew I was really in love when the following happened:\nI cared what his honest opinion was, and I could talk about absolutely anything and everything.  When something bad happened, I wanted HIM to comfort me; when something funny happened, HE was the first person I wanted to share it with.  When I thought of the future, HE was in all the scenes.  It goes beyond butterflies and beating hearts, but sounds like you are on the right track.  Good luck!
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yes, I have and honestly unless if he shows some interest of being more than just your friends. If he dont leave it alone, you always fall in love more then once and men come a dime a dozen,,you will get over it.. I am sure that if he does not feel the same and he tells you , you are going to get hurt and ur friendship will never be the same and if you and him do something that may lead you to think that he loves and really he dont then you may mess up ur friendship, and im sure that you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all..just move on and find someone else. Trust me it really isnt that hard, though i am sure that you think it is. but i have been there b4 and i thought that i would never love again,,and boy was i oh so wrong.
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You have said it in the first line of your question here, that this problem seems to be based on your past. You seemed to have been wounded by something that has already happened before. Its best you sit and think. Go back to that part of your past and mentally think as to what you could have done to make things better. I know doing so will be painful but it is something that you must do in order to ease the pain. Continuous suspicions, mistrust issues are not to be looped over such a long period of time, especially when you have beautiful people around you who I am positive are caring and concerned more than you know. There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of and most of all there's nothing more frightening than fear itself. Another question here from my side is why is it that you are afraid to love? I am asking this because we all know that what you give is definitely what you get back in return. If you provide love and affection, it is guaranteed that it will come back to you too. If you have any further questions or need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. Remember, there are so many wonderful people around and you should give them a chance before you can think of anything else. Before that, please try and do what I've mentioned earlier about looking back and thinking for a moment. Until then, take care. :)
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Being lied by somebody that I care and love.
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You sound too young to be in love, you are probably experiencing "puppy love" cause if he really did love you he would not care about what your friends say.
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I do not believe so..I believe in true love and thats with "THE SPECIAL ONE"..When you love someONE, you love them & only them. Your true soulmate.. You do not want anyone else to or anyone's love but that one special person. Yes, people do cheat but to feel attention or affection...but that is NOT love. Love is a seperate issue. I thought I was in love for 12 years, but maybe I wasnt..Maybe I was...Who knows maybe someday I may love someone even more than him, even though for 12 years I did not think it was possible~but I also didnt think I could live without him.A quote that made me think alot during my relationship "JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE DOESNT LOVE YOU THE WAY U WANT TO BE LOVED;DOES NOT MEAN THEY DO NOT LOVE YOU WITH ALL THEY HAVE....:-) best wishes
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well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
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i think u should hold ur feelings back cuz its not normal at all..\nthink more about men.. take me as an example ;)
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This sounds sooooooo familiar.  My parents did not like my boyfriend for a very long time, but the longer we were together, the more they realized how much we cared for each other.  Now we are engaged and my parents are ecstatic.  Just think to yourself....................who's in love with him, me or my parents? when your in love, you shouldn't care what other people think, but since its your parents, i know its hard.  Just follow your heart!!\n\nGood luck and God bless!
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what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]