Why can't I find a nice guy? help me?????????????????
361014
its all about the attitude.\ngurl, the best thing to do is if you think things are not working for you because you cant find a nice guy then maybe it means you need to change somethings about yourself.\nI dont mean to offend you but you might want to think of what you think is the reason why guys you preffer dont come knocking at your door.\nHow about a makeover?\nhope this helps..
67819
perhaps u are so desperate that with every woman you look at there is a sign popping over their heads saying "girlfriend material" or "not girlfriend material". Have you looked at yourself lately? Perhaps when girls look at you, there is no sign over your head saying "not boyfriend material".  \nWhy don't u try to play up your SINCERELY POSITIVE SIDE and not dwell on why u don't have any girlfriend. If you are a nice guy, even if you are not that good looking, perhaps there is still hope for you. Good luck!\n\nP.S. Try not to let your desperation show. You have to start with being friends first.
296088
Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
409064
You want a boyfriend, but are apprehensive about the change in your life!\n\nRemember, the most constant thing in life is change. \n\ndont look for a boyfriend, but if you come across a nice guy, dont stop yourself.
704201
try meeting people through other friends... online is hit and miss. or heck try meeting someone somewhere other than a club or bar! If you see a nice person..go talk to them!
527031
my best advice would be to just go out on a date...it doesn't have to be with someone you're attracted to if that's easier...maybe a male friend...someone you know will me nice to you...so you can see how it should be.  Maybe meeting someone someplace like church would help...or a group in your area for people who've had abuse in their lives.
800769
I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
173958
You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
1034185
Are you being serious??\n\nYes, when u find a decent guy
855921
First off, if you are the one that has to approach him, maybe your looking in the wrong group of men.  If he is too stupid, or too lazy to notice you, try someone else!\nSecondly, ever notice when you are NOT looking for something, it's always around, like the car keys, or cell phone.  As soon as you are looking for it, it's lost, where the #@%# did I put that.  \n\nStop looking and it will find you!\n\nBe yourself and the right one will approach you when he is ready.\n\nBest wishes and good luck....hang in there kiddo, it will all work out for the best soon.
1105542
no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
486617
find another guy here, there are plenty of nice guys in this country, unless you are a big drama queen that likes the feeling of suffering long distance/impossible love. move on you are missing out on a real boyfriend.
721855
hi.. im a nice girl inside and out.. well, its up to you, you can have more nice friends as many as you want you just have to choose someone who is sincere.. good luck!
1141212
your not too young.\n\nbut if you need to ask how to get one, there must not really be a guy that you have on your mind yet. \n\npretty much just be yourself. dont push yourself to be easy.  to try to get a guy, because then hell tell all his friends that your easy and youll just be used... you have to look for a nice guy who will respect you and youll be happy with. find a guy that shares some intrests with you.\n\nalso dont act like a ditz. youll just down grade yourself into looking like an idiot.\n\ngood luck.
1063885
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
306618
Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!