She lost her hymen. For her culture is realy huge and big problem! any advice how  can she restore it! Help!?
367757
The only way to restore the Hymen would be surgical methods.  And, truly, there would not be virginty unless the hymen was displaced because of exercise, horse back riding etc.\n\nBut surgery is the ONLY way.
416064
Then focus on her first and make sure she is totally satisfied before doing what satisifies you. If all else fails theres numbing lotions and rings to help. Good luck!
881534
Sounds like spotting from her period to me. \n\nIf you were dry humping and have had no real intercourse then it's impossible that she became pregnant. The vagina is such a hostile environment that the chances of sperm making it past your underware, past hers, past the labia, and on and up is freaking impossible on levels I simply cannot verbalize. \n\nThe spot of blood *could* have been the breaking of her hymen if you guys were too rough, similar to what can occur when a virgin rides a horse. \n\nGiven no other extreme circumstances, and the assumption that you are not hiding anything (i mean why ask such a question and hide something unless you're a moron), then I am certain that she was spotting from her period. \n\nKeep in mind that spotting can occur many days before or after a period. If she has a fibroid (unlikely at her age but hey you never know) she could very well spot at any time during the month.\n\nSo yeah...not pregnant.
860063
Maybe you just wasn't any good and now she is free to find a man to satisfy her in bed.  Poor cow - fancy dumping her cos of that?? I mean did you talk to her about it , maybe she works hard and is really knackered.  If thats the only reason you dumped her and you did love her then I'd say Yes bad move.
426170
I suppose this is a joke. A virgin is a person who has never had intercourse. IF you want to fool someone in the future with a replaced hymen, go to a plastic surgeon. I question your ethics! You do not need to see a surgeon, go to a shrink instead.
350886
Probably not, the hymen could break itself from a fall or exercises. Unless she had really rough sex then maybe there could be scaring, but it is very unlikely.
222074
I have her problem and its not a problem at all some days its really bad and I have to wear a pad is all to keep from having to change my clothes but its normal since she is a virgin she don't have anything so tell her to wear a pad ever so often and let that area breath a bit as well that will help her dry up a bit sometimes. I wish you luck in your life together.
854903
If she has started taking any type of new meds recently, that could be the cause of it.  Someone said an infection, which possibly could be true. She may have a pelvic infection otherwise known as PID which can be caused by douching. She also may have changed her douche. Sometimes, it can be the little things that we never even think about that can change body so dramatically. Best of luck to the both of you! And, by the way I think its great that you 2 meant that you dedicated yourselves to each other. Not many people do that these days! Once again, good luck!
552167
1. you most likely did not use lubrication\n2. you shoved it in instrad of easing it in\n3. you did not give her time to relax and stretch out.\n if someone shoved their penis in your nose you'd probably bleed too. it's a hole that is not used to having foreign objects ramed into it... you gotta be carful bro...be conscious about the health and wellbeing of your partner. if that something you 2 want to continue doing...then give her time to heal and don't be so rough next time. start by inserting a finger...then move up to two in order for her to get comfortable with having something in that area. if she wasn't ready for it it most likely hurt her alor....especially if you did it without asking her. don't force her to do it if she doesn't ever want it done again....gotta respect her limits...you might not understand...or even care....no offense but i don't know you so i can't make assumptions....but if you had something jammed in your anus and it bled and hurt you would probably not want to ever do it again. hope i helped bro. just be careful and gentle with her.
482852
Well it sounds like they both need some help its not good to be having sex at such a young age even though kids these days seem to be sexually mature so young. She needs some real help. Does she have any parent that isn't unstable is the person she is staying with stable? She needs some counciling maybe even needs to see a sycatrist and work out some problems. This is highly serious and imediate action needs to take place.
575990
Comfortably get her to watch porn movies that are for newbies.  Then you try new things with her and get her to feel comfortable with her body enough to try new things with you. You know her background, so be patient and slowly introduce to the life she has never known. She needs to feel sexy enough about herself to let out the kinky in her.  Buy her lingerie, sexy massage fruit oils.  Tell her you want to try new things and experiment with her in the heat of the moment.  Sometime a little loss of inhibition does a woman well.  Don't get her drunk..just where she feels sexy enough to try what you want.
529704
There is going to be some pain, that is unavoidable. The key is to really listen and gage her reactions on when to move more and when you have broken her hymen. Let her tell you when it is ok to go in more. Don't allow her to be uncomfortable about letting you know what feels good and what doesn't. Make sure that you both are as relaxed as possible, and that doesn't mean that you have to drink to achieve this. Take a bath together, massage her back and shoulders, take time with foreplay as it will always make entering her less painful. Enjoyable? Not so sure, every woman has had different experiences with that part of loosing her virginity. Myself, I did enjoy it. But I wasn't tense, and was very ready for the act even though I didn't have any idea what i was doing. I had a very patient man who was willing to work with me and lead me gently and was willing to listen to me a gage my reactions from what he was doing. Hope that you too have a wonderful experience together and congratulations on waiting!! :)
751889
Do what feels comfortable to you and him.  Take your time and work up to it.  He should spend time with foreplay so you will be wet and lubricated and/or use a lubricating jelly such as KY Jelly.  He should work in slowly the first time.  It may or may not seem a little uncomfortable, but if you relax your muscles in that area, it will be easier.\n\nIf your hymen has not broken, since you are a virgin, there is likely to be a little blood.  Do not worry about that.  It's normal for a virgin because of the hymen breaking.  Sometimes it is broken anyway because of sports, etc. and you won't bleed.\n\nAnother young gal once asked me what it would be like.  I told her that I had seen how her intended looked at her and he adored her. I knew that he would be gentle and loving and she would be just fine.  When she came back from the honeymoon, we had a little reception for them.  She took me aside and said, "You know that little conversation we had?"  I said, "Yes...."   And she gave me the hand gesture that meant everything was wonderful, with a big smile on her face and a wink.\n\nIf your intended loves you, it will be just fine.  Relax and enjoy becoming one.\n\nBest Wishes for your future as man and wife.  God Bless!\n\nSue
205818
The hymen can be torn for other reasons besides sex- sports, tampon usage, etc  so some women may have it torn already, sometimes this happens during subsequent sexual experiences, other times not at all.
352174
Only in the bedroom? Then have it in other rooms :))\n\nIf she does not have interest in sex at all, there is no way to compel her. May be find out the root cause.. It may be due to some psychological factor... Take her to a sex therapist - which might help but she should be at least open for that. no forceful tactics here. Goof luck.
66475
Only if the hymen is broken. Not everyone has a hymen, lots of things can break it. (exercise, tampons, medical exams)
761286
A vaginal tear that won't heal?  That's a bunch of baloney!  Something traumatic must've happened to her in the past for her to not want sex.