What shall I do? I am in Job dilemma.?
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NEVER accept a job offer verbally. Always ask for the job offer in writing. Give yourself a day to think about it before deciding to accept/decline the offer.\n\nSorry you had to learn this the hard way. You have to look for another job. You didn't like this job anyway. Get a new one. Good luck!
418535
I think that you should wait for something better to come along. If you are not going to be happy with the job why take it? You may just have to bite the bullet and pay the high gas prices.
454291
If u can tolerate the unpleasantness, stay on. Who knows, one day the both of u may get on well. Meanwhile, save whatever u can n try looking for a suitable job just in case the situation becomes unbearable.
849620
I faced the same dilemma. You have to go with the money, for a good job doesn;t love you back
288312
it appears your close to your boss.  what i would do is have lunch with her, or just talk with her... and let her know your situation... tell her that you found another job.  then tell her what you like about that other job... then tell her why its hard leaving your current job... then tell her what you like about the job you currently have.  if you do this in order, it will put her in a positive mental frame of mind and you wont need to worry about upsetting or leaving people that you got to know.
954834
It is better to stay with the current job and look for a new one because there is no guarantee that you will get a job which is better than the old one once you leave your old job. Moreover who knows, the new boss may be more dumber.
815980
Somehow, people with a sense of loyalty have trouble changing jobs.  I am looking to quit a horrible job, but I am having pangs of guilt.  These people would fire me at the drop of a hat even though I have worked very hard for a few years,\n\nThink of what is best for you.  Nobody is irreplaceable and they will easily find someone else for your current position if you decide to move on.  You are not the first, nor will you be the last person to do what you are contemplating.  If it is better for you to make the move, don't lose the opportunity,  But be sure to secure the job before you let your current boss know what you are planning to do.
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When you no longer challenged or learning, or there is some other issue that outweighs the benefits of your job.\n\nThe first thing I would try is making changes with-in my current job, that will make it more fulfilling.  If making changes, like volunteering for new and challenging tasks, does not improve your outlook about your position it is time to move on.\n\nUnless your sanity is at stake or you have a large amount of savings, you should have something lined up when you leave your job.
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Sometimes you just have to suck it up and stick with it.  In the meantime, you could try to determine where you want to go next, and work towards that.  Don't let your current boss know that you might be looking for another job, though.
238814
Start shopping the job market, and I don't mean sit on the computer. Get out and go door to door. Companies like to see what type of person you are and how well you handle yourself. See what is out there. See if you get some job offers. If they look good, then I'd use that as leverage in your current job to advance or get a pay raise. If they aren't willing to do it, then go to the new job. Don't waste your time in a company that isn't going anywhere, or is not willing to treat their people well, when that is time you could be investing in an up and coming company with a better atmosphere, and promotion potential.
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Please keep on the company until they say,  Thank you but we have decided to go with another candidate.   The job is yours to lose.   Sometimes employers pick the candidate that is persistent enough to wade through conflicting schedules, changed meeting times.     Stay persistent.   The rewards are given to those that keep at it.
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You can't listen to your friend. She may be trying to help, but you have to tell her no. It is your decision...it is your CHOICE. Do what you want. \n\n   To me, your choice sounds very correct. It sounds like you are taking your responsibility. Good job. Go for what you want, not what other want or think.
250086
I would.  If your current job provides too much stress, what's more important is your health and well-being.  Even if it's difficult to make ends meet, "God will find a way".  And if you're not a religious person, "A way will be found".
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if you're not happy with your job. Then find one.\nif you want to resign. why not?\nas long as you go with your instincts,\nand you feel that everything will be okay,\nplus you know for yourself that you'll be happier with the decision.\n\nafter all, great risks leads to great success.
488194
Make a list of the pros and cons.  Could you find a similar flexibility with another job?  It never hurts to look for a job, but I wouldn't quit until you have a better situation lined up.
798028
I think that if you love both, then perhaps you should try to car pool before losing either one. If that doesn't work then it seems you'ld rather move then lose your job, so try that. You may end up finding another house you love! Keep your job, it's not as easy to find work you love!
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Get another job that you think you may like and stop doing the one you don't like. If the same happens do the same again.Think positive. You only get one go in life so don't waste it doing something that makes you unhappy.\nBest foot forward!