Worth keeping annoying friend?
359945
I think, stay friends for a while.  Just don't always hang around him and make some space between you guys.  If your other friends feel the same way, tell him, or just stop constantly hanging around with him, he should get the picture.    Sometimes, people'll change if you give it time.
1184125
BACK OFF UNLESS YOU WANT TO LOSS YOUR FRIEND !!!
756372
Try to ignore them as much as possible...even if it is a friend.  They are just jealous of your happiness.  You know that you deserve to be happy and no one should come in the way of that.
432654
Ask 1 of ur pals to distract the friend!
934238
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
1053175
Life is too short to dwell on a petty persons actions isn't it? \nYou know the rumors are not true, and so would a friend, so anyone who can be turned against you so easily, sadly wouldn't have been a true friend.\nI am sorry she is being so bothersome, it can really disrupt someones life to have that happen to them, and I hope things settle down soon for you.\nAs you've already said, about her actions not speaking of intelligence, it sounds very true.\nShe may have a lot going on in her life, but it is not fair of her to play such childish games.\nLive your life, and don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know it bothers you, she just wants to get your goat. \nIn fact, just brushing it off completely, and being happy that you are not the one being so impish would even be better!
220700
well get all of your other friends together, talk about it, see how they feel, if they're all for not talking to her again then you ALL go and say something to her.  If your friends still wanna talk to her, just ask why in the hell they still wanna be friends with such an annoying person.  Or just tell your friends "hey, im not talking to her anymore, but she will try and turn you guys against me, so don't let that happen"
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
47060
Sure she does! She tells you these things bc she feels safe with you. Now if that's all she does is tell you all the bad stuff about her life and takes no interest in yours, then you are a crutch to her. It is up to you if you want to hear about her other friends taking a crap on her or whatnot. If you want to be the crutch, I suggest selective hearing. It can be a downer to hear about her crap friends, and keep suggesting that she gets rid of them and the negativity they bring. Hang in there, it may be a phase and she'll realise what a friend you are and drop the losers and hang out with you... someone who cares...
27760
You must be very careful if you choose to keep this type of friendship. I had a friend like this and because of her need for attention she did things like always try to cause confusion even between my sister and I.  She even lied about having cancer one time for attention! She is a middle age woman I finally decided that for my piece of mind she was not a asset to me but a liability and I ended the friendship.
858225
I definitly know what you're gong through! I hate all the drama!!! This friend is not your friend. You can still talk to her, but I wouldn't ask her over again.I have this one friend who I asked over like 3 times, but each time she is"Busy". I figured out she blew me off, and talked about how boring her weekend was on Monday... I was so ticked! I finally figured she would never be there for me so I just backed off.\nJust make sure you don't be the friend who makes all the effort.
354189
no u should have a enemy to because they say keep your freinds closest to u. and your friends most of the time are worse than your enemy's because they know everything about u.
387711
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
68004
You should let her know. Dishonesty will not solve the problem. You might even want to let her know what it is that is so annoying about her. However, don't expect this will mean she will automatically disappear out of your life.\n\nI know a few people who are very annoying and know (because they have been told by more than one person) they are annoying. Yet it doesn't stop them from being around the people they annoy AND there is one of them that just knows he is so loved by the people he annoys, in spite of himself. More than one of these people say they are friends for life. There's really nothing more that can be done about that except take deep breaths every once in awhile and have a healthy sense of humor.\n\nGood luck.
183376
The best thing you can do is keep out of it: they'll sort it out eventually. You don't have to put up with their nonsense, though, especially if it makes you unhappy, and you should let them know. Don't make a big drama out of it, or you'll be pandering to their feelings that this fight is a huge big thing and probably help spin it out even longer. Just say to them firmly "none of that crap around me, please. You two can take your arguments elsewhere or be quiet." If one of them is with you and tries to make you avoid the other one, just say "don't be stupid, just act like an adult, can't you?!" As they no doubt care about you, after a while they'll settle down. If one of your friends decides not to be friends with you any more because you won't take sides, then they're not really a true friend, and you're better off spending your time doing other things.
1115421
If you want to keep them both as friends then you need to tell them that when you talk to them you don't want to hear about the other one.  Just be honest and tell them that you don't want to be the middle person and you have no interest in their dispute.  If they can't keep from talking about eachother to you, then stop talking to them/ignore them.  They will figure it out soon enough that you really don't wanna hear all their trash talk about eachother.\nThe other option is to pick one friend and ditch the other, but the odds are that in time they may be able to work things out.  Try to see if theres any way to work things out - if not then be both their friends but let them know you aren't going to deal with any of their trash talking crap.
803785
Yes, and that just means they are not worth your time. The ones who stick around are the best and you need to stick with them!\n:)