why does it seem most guys i know have good luck with girls and i do not?
366248
They're probably lying
297812
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
898408
It's probably over-familiarity. You know they say familiarity breeds contempt - well, it's quite likely they just see you so often they don't notice you in that way. If you like a specific one, you have to make her notice you, maybe by asking her out, or if that seems too scary just talking to her. After all, you can always ask her out later when you know her better. \n\nOn the other hand, if you're just suffering from lack of female attention, then there's not much you can do about it other than accept it. It sounds like you have no shortage of girls outside your school flirting... so just bask in that glow, man! And keep up your confidence. Girls like confident guys who don't come across as arrogant - a difficult balance, but a true girl-magnet if you can pull it off! Trust me. I know. \n\nTigerwolf x \n(speaking as one who has been taken in by the same trick more than once!)
390164
This is only true when women don't really know what they want!  I have so many girlfriends that tell me how lucky I am to be married to such a sweet and sensitive guy, and how they want to be married and having a family.  But then, I witness them meet nice guys all the time, get bored, and then dump them!  I tell them, yes, I am lucky!  Lucky that I found a sweet and sensitive guy, and also lucky that I encountered enough A-holes before him to appreciate him!  They will appreciate and love the nice guy, once they've had their share of the bad, and are really ready to settle down!
56921
There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
7626
Because it's easier for a girl to get a new guy than for a guy to get a new girl.  Do what you gotta do to keep what you have!
375685
i dont think its the fact that they dont find you attractive it could many reasons\n1. They could be afraid of gettin hurt again-cuz a lot of guys are the same (cheaters, drunks, immature, players...) \n2. You havent found the right girl yet\n3. Maybe you shouldnt worry so much about lookin for a girl cuz when your not lookin thats when the good ones show up\nI was single for a couple of months and i was hatin it then i got with my boyfriend now and he treats me better than any other guy has and i dont want to get hurt again so maybe if you let her come to you she could be the one you marry you never know and about the lesbian thing that is just nasty if your a girl date guys if your a guy date girls but hey thats just my opinon
195578
Every girl has a fair chance. It depends on her confidence, it depends on how she acts, it depends on her attitude towards others. It might not happen when you want it to, but it will happen. It happens when you least expect it, it doesn't happen when you go out and look for it. :)
133614
I agree with the whole enjoy your life deal.. but I have to also say the best way to meet guys is RANDOMLY.. when a real man sees you living your life and enjoying yourself without having to have a man by your side you will draw the good men to you with your own self-confidence.. and it's not true that there are no good men out there.. don't fall for that crap.. the problem is that theres a lot less men than women.. so the percentage are even.. which means theres a lot more "scarlett women" who taint men too.. kinda makes me wonder..
371893
That's not true, but in certain social situations when a girl meets two guys she is likely to go for the one who is mysterious the one who she can't figure out or the one she thinks she can reform from the bar. Those kind of girls are desperate, don't worry about them. A real woman wants a man that has some of the qualities that you possess. You will soon find a woman who values a real man. When you meet girls be the mysterious nice guy. \n\nAnother thing, some girls may think like this: Don't lay it all out that your this super nice guy, girls only want you to be nice to them,like their special if your nice all the time it you may be sending the messagethat your not different from any other gal, Good luck!
842105
I am the opposite and had a friend like you say, some guys aren't picky and liked us both equally!
379033
It often takes time.  It's not uncommon for us to be friendly first and become really interested after we get to know you better.  You know, kind of like you do with guys, right?
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
604688
What I admire about girls is that they're able to get guys. I can't ever get guys... it sucks... but girls can, and don't even have to think about it. v.v' *sigh* \nAloha,\nDavid
180453
Because they were told long ago that if you get a good job and have financial stablity that you will be able to get any woman you want. It simply isn't true, but some guys seem to be convinced that it is. I would hope that personality and kindness were more important.
36549
Not all guys are... Just the ones you know...
60029
Because they make more of an effort to be charming and considerate.  They are usually interesting to talk to.  The good looking guys tend to be full of themselves.  There are exceptions, of course.