My bf gets mad and says I flirt too much and he thinks that I am cheating..?
364284
IF HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH THE WAY YOU DRESS THEN YOU DONT NEED TO BE WITH HIM...TELL HIM IT ALL DOSE NOT MATTER WITH WHAT'S ON THE OUTSIDE BUT WHAT IS ON THE INSIDE ALSO...TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT FLIRTING AND THAT HE NEEDS TO CHILL
272819
You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
428265
Yep, it means he doesn't want you to think he's playing games with you and your heart, that he's serious about you. Or, he may have said this to throw you off and he really is cheating. Maybe I have some serious trust issues, but I wouldn't put it past any man (or woman) to say some stuff like that to trick you while they're doing wrong behind your back..... But until you have proof, I wouldn't worry about it.
601073
maybe he wants you to be just jealous or be mad. but u should take this problem seriously maybe he is not the right guy for u or maybe he like someone else. just go and tell the problem to him.everythings going to be allright. good luck
35734
listen sweetie...\n\ni don't want to upset you or anything, but i've had experience with this issue.  what you're talking about is not really fighting.  it's called jealous and controlling.\n\nyou and your boyfriend aren't really fighting.  he is getting very angry and accusing you of things that he has made up in his head.  you are trying to cool the situation down while trying to defend yourself, all while trying to make sure that he knows that you love him.\n\ni don't know how long you've been going out with him and i don't know how angry he gets.  but on the real, you should tell him straight out that he has to stop and you won't take it if he continues.  if he does continue, you should leave him.  i know it sounds harsh, but trust me, however bad it is now... it will get worse... and worse... and worse.
58199
To tell the truth, I really just think that he is judt flirting with you. Is he really likes you he should be more open with you.
951575
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
782246
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
579106
He probably expects you to go out and cheat on him, you need to sit down with him and tell him that you cannot be happy if everything you do will make him wonder. If he loves you he will get over his insecurities and make the relationship work out. Tell him that by doing what he is doing is not very fair to you. You trust him don't you? Than if you have never done anything wrong he needs to get over it and if not than I do believe that it is time to get on with your life. You should not be miserable b/c of problems that only exsist in his way of thinking.
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
397561
just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
1175945
Perhaps he thought when you said your the "bad guy" meant that you have done some naughty things as well which made him upset. Your revelation might have brought confusion in his mind. Doubts might have stepped in.\nSo, you must reassure him that its not because of it (like you cheated or what). Just make him know that its about an attitude issue. Ask for space and time to rebuild yourself and tell him that your doing it for him, and your relationship. If he doesnt agree of asking for time, then why not make him a part of your rebuilding process. Ask fof his help and guidance. In this way, he will feel appreciated and that you trully want him to be a part of your life. :-D
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
243831
Your best bet it to dump him before he hurts you because of his jealously. No one should control you like that. Also he could have a guilty conplex for something he is doing behind your back.
297196
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
732687
ONLINE? If this is your only option then ask him a question and poke fun at him about his answer. This requires some wit. Be funny not mean. Guys like to laugh and if you make him feel insecure, he will defend himself....Its a way of flirting if you do it right