when you have a one night stand with a friend is there room for love later on if it was passionate sex.?
363425
Of course, but don;t wait too long. You were friends already and the trust you built is the foundation to build on. The feeling have probably already been incubating for awhile, time to let them out to grow.
65324
if you stick with one partner, and use protection, then it's not bad, it's good. But if you do a whole bunch of one night stands in a row, then it'll be bad, morally, and bad things will happen, unwanted pregnancy, STD, etc.
365643
I suppose a one night stand is ok as long as both people understand the situation.
1030238
Let me tell you what I think.....  I am also separated with a divorce around the corner.  Divorce never ends well, and no matter what the details are people are hurt.  Often your pride, self worth, finances, and ability to trust/believe in another person will suffer.  I highly recommend the whole "friends with benefits" concept.  I enjoy sex, and the intimacy associated with it.....(not a one night stand sort of girl).  My friend is amazing, not only does he look out for me, and help with some of the guy things.....  He makes me laugh, feel desirable, and has taken me to a whole new level of multi orgasms!  Personally I'm not ready for another serious relationship.....still repairing the damage from the last.  But, having a good friend who I know and trust is extremely valuable to me.....not to mention the hot sex benefit.  By foregoing the "relationship", you often give each other the freedom to desire, request, explore and experiment with things you may not ask a "partner".  No fear of rejection, ridicule......a total win/win situation.  Although I will caution you......if you marriage was especially bad, it would be easy for a lot of woman to rebound into their friend.  Thus a potential to get hurt....again.  Not all woman can have a sexual relationship without developing feeling that want more.  Friends with benefits is just that.....friendship....sex....NSA.   For me, right now.....perfect!  For you.....think it thru and decide whats best for you.....good luck.\nAnd yes, your "friend" respects you and enjoys the arrangement.  Other people??  Some will judge, others will cheer....be discreet if you need to.
683598
HELL NO.\nWhy? I dont believe in casual sex but meaningful relationships and being with somebody just for a day or night for sex or cuddling time is just a waste of time, emotions and effort in the long run.
170408
It's possible...anything is but it doesn't happen often. It seems one is always cultivating the relationship in hopes of at least one episode of pity sex. Not that its always the case, just that it gives rise to other issues. It takes two very dumb or two very smart members of the oposite sex to really just be friends.
418677
One night stand.  Your a rebound, not in love
516253
Of course it's ok!\nas long as you are comfortable with it and take protection.\nIf you both are consenting adults, why not?\n\nBe careful though... sometimes those one night stands can develop feelings for one of the participants.  \nThat can make things ackward.
689694
You CAN love someone and have desires for another, you just aren't IN LOVE with that person and not ready to make a committment, there is a big difference. I totally understand where you R coming from. You are not ready to settle down to one person but can feel love towards more than one person, I think that is within reason,as long as \nyou didn't tell anyone that you were madly in love with them and they were your "one and only" and are up front with them, you are ok. Then it becomes their problem. I have alot of friends that I love and I tell them, a couple of the guys I sleep with sometimes, but I know where we stand. Make sure! Safe sex!!! You are ok!!!!!
537026
Although it is rather common having sex among friends in this era, do not ever assume that because this guy has a sexual relationship with you that he will end up having intimate feelings for you. It is interesting how you think that he is "a good friend," when in reality, this guy might not have concern about you as a person, other than just a friend, or how his behavior is going to affect you later.\n\nYou have to be able to involve yourself in a real relationship with someone who is actually to have true feelings for you, to see you as someone to spend the rest of his life with. This is not a good situation for you and it certainly will not turn out the way you would want if you had sex with your so-called good friend.\n\nThe only way to see in this situation is your friend gets in for the sake of having sex with you, and chances are never become emotionally involved. You can have fun for a while, but the novelty of having a "sexual buddy" starts to wear thin. You may begin to get upset after you and he get physical, because he may not be able to give you the emotional part of sex that you deserve. \n\nI would suggest to hold on to your urge of having sex with your friend, rather than heading for an unknown disaster in the future. You should cherish your friendship and not salvage it for sex.
967464
Sometimes the best sex is had in this type of a situation.  He needs something other than the norm, you have it and want it.  Done deal.  As long as you have no ties to the family or friends that you could lose then cool.
278029
Sex you can have with anyone and is sometimes meaningless -for example, one night stands are purely just SEX. Love making usually (or should) invlove deeper feelings like LOVE. When you "make love" it is an intimate and special expereince with more emotions involved. When you just have SEX, it's usually wham bam thank you ma'me.
680701
It is not necessary to love someone to have sex with them, in my opinion.  Sex is something physical and love goes deeper than that.  It all depends on the type of person you are.  It's like dating someone.  If you get a sexual urge you may want that to happen between you and you may not be in love with that person.  Do you follow?
937955
you're friends with benefits, and that's okay. the emotional stuff will come later or maybe not come at all.  have fun as long as you're careful. if you enjoy each other's company then that's a plus. the only disadvantage is if either one of you wants to get serious, and if one of you finds someone else.
1179964
OK... a Soul mate and and a Friend does that not sound dreamy?\n\nIf all around intimacy occurs you may not have to choose. Relax let life run its course!
558442
If it's a one night thing then most likely.  Mostly women want more than just sex.  And plus there is STD out there so you don't want so many multiple partners because you don't know if that person has it (they aren't really going to admit to having something).  But I do know there are some women that go for that one night stand either they were drunk, have low self-esteem, or they think the way you do.  But it's not just women there are also men out there that won't just sleep with any woman.
559587
sure booty calls could end up with two people falling in love sex is the most intimate thing you can share with someone at first i'd just let the kids think your just FRIENDS let them get to know each other and see how things progress from there.