How does an extemely shy woman make the first move on a man?
357422
you could bake some of his favorite pasta ex. lasagna (make sure that it really taste good), give it to him and start a sweet conversation...
129699
talk with her...she might just feel shy about initiating it...
552058
You're not a shy guy, but you're not outgoing, either. Okay. I see where you are coming from. You're a "stuck in the middle" kind of guy. Normally, you are probably not nervous, and when a gal starts talking to you, you do not always get sweaty and start ststststuttering. But, you lack the confidence and machismo to just go right up to her and say, "Wow, you're the only good-looking girl that I have seen all day. I'm So-and-So. Mind if I get your number?" and hand over a pen and paper.\n\nYou DO have the right idea, though. It is a clever strategy and worthwhile goal to try to get the women to come up to you, rather than vice versa. But...unless they are practically drooling over you for some reason, like your disarmingly good looks and manly charm, that is not realistically going to happen - am I right?\n\nDepending on the location and situation, there are many different ways to start up the Attraction Game. Building attraction is definitely the most important part of getting anywhere with any woman. You cannot just stroll up to them and say, "Hey, you are like, so totally hot, and I like, like you, you know?" Unless, of course, you can pull it off in a particularly humourous way and get her laughing.\n\nThat's what you need to aim for. Laughter. Do not come across as being outright goofy - just playful. Even the more serious-minded women out there will appreciate a fine sense of humour.\n\nNext time that you see a lovely girl standing around, and you want to talk to her...look at her for a while. People, as you have probably noticed, tend to have a "sixth sense" that just lets them know when they're being watched. She'll probably at least glance over at you. Don't drop your gaze in a panic, though. Instead, smile cheerfully, and - slowly - move your gaze away from her. Don't stop smiling, either. Then glance back at her quickly, and look away again.\n\nWhat's the point of that little exercise? It builds attraction. A lot of our communication as humans is completely nonverbal - it's body language. By looking at her but not freaking out when she looks back, but rather slowly looking away, you're effectively saying: "I'm not a creep, because I am not staring at you. But I AM admiring you."\n\nShe'll probably smile back, or at least her eyes will shine with some degree of recognition. There's your chance. Look at her again - about the same way, just focus on her eyes (always, always, always look into a woman's eyes when greeting or talking with her!) - and stroll right on up to her. Sure - this takes courage. And sure, you are probably worried about being rejected. But don't be. Repeat this mantra through your head: There's no reward without risk.\n\nYou might even become so smooth at this whole thing that she ends up coming over to YOU, wanting to know what is going on. I love it when this happens; it shows me that the lady has some confidence and fire in herself. :)\n\nOnce you get there, say something spontaneous. This could be amusing and playfully-arrogant, like what I mentioned in the beginning of this post. Or, it could be simple and direct: "Hi there. My name is So-and-So. You are?" It sounds crazy, but this is honestly all you have to do. It's that easy. What you have to watch out for here is turning into a wimp - blurting out words randomly without thought, or thinking TOO hard about what to say and therefore saying nothing at all - but remember. You are already there. You've already initiated the conversation, simple as that might have been. Now all that you need to do is keep it up!\n\nAnd just go on from there. Keep a few things in mind if you ask for her number and go on a date:\n\n1. BE CHARMING, but do not become a "girlie-man." *laughs* I mean, don't let her walk all over you or get you sweating and stuttering. Be confident.\n\n2. BE FUNNY, but be mature, t
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really a tough question for we the shy people. try to catch her attention, but don't over do it. keep in touch, get to know her little by little and it might work. there are no instant remedies of magical formulas, but it kinda work. the most important: keep your eyes open and your mouth shut if you ain't sure of what to do.
896107
Some times I think it is down to being shy, have you told this lucky guy that you like him, and would like to date him?\nIf not, make that first move and ask him! x\nHope you get the answer that you desire.\nLove n light xx x
1004092
No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.
714864
someone has to make the first move if you still want to be her friend.  Send a card to her or something....or make a new friend.
980103
You can always make the first move by approaching him and just introducing yourself. I know this might sound cheesy, but how else are you going to know if he's interested in you unless one of you makes the first move? Hope this helps and good luck :)
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
555934
try and read the situation, if u think there is a mutual attraction then make a move as he might me too shy to make the first move! if he pulls away then its obvious u have read the situation wrong! you never know until you give it a go! it could turn out the be the best move u ever made!!
612326
Since it might be the first time for the both of you you have to be very careful and take it one step at the time. Kiss and touch each other until you are ready. Being a women it should not be difficult to initiate. Take his hand, kiss him softly and slowly touch his back. That should be it for starters. Take it easy form there and it will be a memorable experience.
325508
If the guy like's you but is not sure what your thoughts are about him. If he is like me then it not hard to get just shy, it's rare for me to talk to a girl I don't know. Most of the time I date women I work with Because I with them and get to know them and they get to know me. But for awail it's pretty quiet.Till someone make's that frist move, just wink at him let him know something. You could bring him to life. Like me I am really funny when I have been around someone awail. Keep you laughting. just let him know.... Blow him a kiss.
38223
Make the first move, its always worked for me. Talk to them. Let them know you are interested, because sometimes the other person could be shy or something. Another way is putting your panties in their pocket...um, that works also
931412
Assume she is being a typical woman by saying the opposite of what she is thinking. Take her out, be a gentleman and then play it by ear. Chances are she will cave in if she really is interested.\n\nShe is after all, only wishing not to appear to be "easy".
766693
He does but he's afraid.\nMaybe you should try asking him out on a date.\nYou have spent enough time waiting for him to make the first move, so try it yourself.
12230
to me if a guy is shy a note showing intrist would be a good way to start. also you could send her flowers and put your # in side the card,asking her to call you.if she is interested she will.if not there are other fish in the sea.
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YES!\n\nSome guys are shy, and the location, such as at work, might also stop him from making the first move.