Went on a date w/ a guy about 4-5 years older than me..doesnt call the next day..what can it mean?
365711
Well, I like dating older girls...or at least I prefer older girls, never really dated many but I guess the simplest answer is, maybe he wasn't all that interested. I mean, no offence but it does happen. Although, I don't give much credit to him for pulling out of it THAT way.
868408
He is not as into you as you are into him.  In fact, if you didn't call, I wonder if he would ever call you.  He may not be interested, but doesn't want to hurt you when  you call him.  As for not answering questions, that is a bad sign.  He may be seeing someone else.\n\nI'm sorry... but that's how I see it.  As for what to do.... don't call him anymore.  If he wants a relationship with you, he will call you.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
969460
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.
278643
It doesn't mean anything.  A lot of people, especially guys like to date younger people.  You just have to decide if your interested in older people.
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
657167
that is a tough question. i ask myself the same thing all the time. but the thing is, do guys actually wait til a certain time before they call? or do they just call whenever they want beacause they are so nonchalant?\n\ni suppose it varies from guy to guy. coz i know one guy who called me like the nite before we were supossed to go out, and then the nite of the day we went out...but then there's another guy who NEVER calls wen he says he will - EVER. i guess that just means that it varies from guy to guy.\n\nhope ur guy calls u soon - i know that waiting for 'the call' can be so nerve-wracking! haha.
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
320367
When you go out with a guy or give him your phone number....the "rule" is...he shouldn't/won't call you for 3 days.  I guess this is to avoid looking desperate.\n\nThere is also the "3 date rule" which is:  the guy expects to get laid on the 3rd date/the girl shouldn't give it up until the 3rd date.\n\nPretty dumb if you ask me.
45379
dont interfeer if he is still interested hell let you know in some way!good luck
810663
#1...Gotta play hard to get.  Men love a challenge.  Do not make yourself so readily available.  DONT call him...Make him call you.  No "last minute dates".  \n\n#2.....If you do have another date with this man...watch for signs he might be married...something fishy about this one...I am willing to bet he is attached somehow....(sorry, you might not want to hear that)...just keep this in the back of your mind hon...\n\nGood luck
785678
He is extreeeeemely busy... if you are "dating" and he hasnt contacted you... eh... well.. he is a man.... and welcome to the game of "love"
815193
You might have missed an opportunity.  It sounds like you asked him on a specific date, which was bad timing for him.  You should've mentioned that you could get with him another time when he wasn't busy.  Try asking him again.
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
1145226
If he doesn't call you by Tuesday, it means he either met someone he's interested in already or he doesn't care enough to call you.
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
542184
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
242905
Well,boys usually make contact if they are genuinly interested,girls can do that too anyways.So its either that he is waiting for a reaction from u which he couldnt pick on ur prev date or he doesnt wanna date u again.