If you have an affair...?
359011
I too have NO sex life due to a sick hubby right now and wish i was in your shoes on some days.  I guess - how much do you love hubby?  Enough to sacrifice your physical needs?  Could he ever recover and be the man you need?  If no to both, then leave hubby and get you some, girl!!!
405543
Technically and morally, you are a sinner and a criminal. Adultery is illegal all the way around.
55831
yes unless you are married
844333
Not necessarily......just being friends with someone who happens to be attractive does not mean they are having an affair.  It could be that after she spends time with him she realizes how lucky she is to have you, that explains why her sex drive is up.\n\nThis question is far to vague and asks more questions before an opinion can be formed.
110481
what is your question? Is the counseler trying to have an affair with you?
704309
HECK YEAH!\nnah i would just go up to my father & tell him to tell my mom cuz i wouldn`t wanna hide that from my mom & then if he doesn`t tell i would tell her but that would make things BAD between my father & i. but he was the one who had the affair.\nso i would : \ngive him time & if he doesn`t tell then i WOULD tell.
565592
Your amazing wife is dying of cancer and your having an affair with her best friend, how sorry can you get?
792426
Reverse the situation--what would you do if you found out your husband was cheating on you with your best friend?  \nIf your answer is "I'd join in", forget I answered your question.  \nBut if your answer is something like "I'd leave him", think about the consequences if your husband ever found about your indiscretions.
17670
Actually Im having a affair right now-Iam a Christian women who is a leader in my church and have been having a on an off again affair with the same man for almost 3yrs  It has come to the point that I am considering leaving my husband for this man.  Its a very confusing feeling.  My husband and I have been rocky for about 4yrs and I actually met this man when we were seperated and a I was going to another church.  This other man is now in jail and I am sooo considering being with him as DUMB as it sounds.  Dont be fooled my husband is not a innocent bystandered he has cheated on my on three occasionsw and its been about 2yrs and now he wants to put 100% into our relationship but Iam very tired of making it work and just want out. I have never been unfaithful before and I would of never considered having a affair before I feel in love with this other man
1103149
Stop!!!If you are the other woman....you have the power to stop the affair and stop your friend, who you say you care about,from hurting.If you care about her so much....why are you intentionally hurting her???And dont say your not, because if you werent, you wouldnt be the other woman>>>>
479055
Oh you are toooooo kind!\n\nI would not stop at just telling their spouse....*smile*. \n\nget a photograph of the fornicators together and mass produce it...slip it into the bulletin at church...not as much fun embarrassing a man as it would be for a woman i wouldn't think..but yeah..i would be irrational!\n\nyes..i would definitely tell the other spouse...she is at risk for a disease from a cheating spouse. and so are you...who says that this is the first affair either of them have had?\n\nget yourself checked for std's.
676351
DO FOR OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO FOR YOU......!!!\nI mean if you had a boy/girlfriend dear to you who's cheating behind your back,would you like your friends to keep it secretly from you ? Dont think so.\nFor me I would definitly more than just tell him/her the truth, I would kick that cheaters butt all the way to kingdom come......NO KIDDING
1117149
Well, yes a marriage can recover from an affair.  Many marriage have made it inspite of.  But you will need to communicate because obvious something was missing for him to cheat (because you did not say he was a bad guy).  But you might need to go to counselor to repair the damage.  I know from first hand experience, it does hurt when a spouse cheats on you.  But you can get past it.
1180863
My mother described suffering an affair like losing a loved one in death.   Really painful.  You have to morn and greive over the experience, but at some point (for your own sake) you have to let go or hatred and anger will eat you up inside and change you into a different person.  And no one, not even your husband of 9 years should have that kind of power over you.
903325
I prefer #6. Are you old enough to have an affair?
261478
take everything in it's context.no impulsive decision.....and of course you need to be honest with your wife,family,lover and yourself............
654803
When you are married and are having sex with someone else. Otherwise it is all just wishful thinking. \n\nDepends what you want....a fling or another relationship. If it is a fling enjoy it for want it is but don't expect it to last forever. Do you want to get caught? If so, it is better to tell your spouse and not get caught in the act. Believe it or not, infidelity also has ethics. Use a condon always. No calling home at night. Make your lies believeable. Do not let the 2nd relationship interfere with the 1st one. You have to give equal sex or as much to satisfy each one. And lastly, ask yourself why this happened- maybe it is time to end the marriage.\n\nIf you are the third in the triangle. Don't expect much, most people do not leave their spouse. Enjoy it for what it is and be discreet and generous. Realize that you are also to blame since you should not be involved with a married person so this says A LOT about your morals also. Also, ask yourself if you in turn will be capable of being faithful in a monogamous relationship. \n\nIf you are being cheated on. You can either get out or try to work it out with your spouse if they are willing to do so. Can you live wondering when it is going to happen again if ever? Do you want to try it? The door has being opened so you could. And finally,.....how did you contribute to this? Did you see it coming? Honestly. Did you enable it?\n\nUnfortunately nobody is innocent in this situation. It's more like a 33.33% assigned blame for everyone.