should I let my mom dress me as a girl ?
358282
My name is tony and iam 10yo a year ago my mom put me into girls panties & a dress for punishment, but now i wear panties at night all the time i like them and they are soft.  its ok to wear them.
991532
Nope. She wants to look like me.
1077321
I'm thinking a pink leotard with a pink frilly tutu!\n\nAlways remember to accessorize!  Put your hair up w/ a matching pink ribbon and wear some lace up ballerina slippers!\n\nYou'll be the belle of the ball... to your parents chagrin!  :-)
903085
I would not go so far to say that she does not like anything about you.  She just wants the best for you even if it is just the way you dress.  My mom was the same way when i was a kid (not that long ago, i am only 25) and i wanted docs also.  I wore ripped up jeans that were baggy, long tee shirts, flannel shirts and boots. (the pearl jam grunge years) and my mom wanted me to wear cute skirts and dress more fashionable.  It is true that parents just don't understand, but they do love you.  As long as you are a teen living in her house you will but heads about your clothing, friends, music and everything else.  If you don't get anything from this answer i hope you get this.... The minute you move out of the house to college (you better go to college) you will miss your mom so much and she will be your best friend.  You will look back at your teen years and laugh about how you dressed and what you guys argued about.  All parents hate the way their kids dress and it is because they are parents and that is what they are supposed to do.  Don't take your mom's criticism so seriously and just do your own thing (when it comes to clothes). This will change as you get older.  When you are a teen, no one understands you, you don't even understand you and that is perfectly NORMAL (or what ever that is)  Just let it roll off your back and be yourself.  It is good that you don't want to be like everyone else, it shows that you are an independent thinker that doesn't follow the crowd.  The teen years are rough but just be happy that your clothing is all you have to worry about with your mom.  Trust me, so many kids have it much worse.  Your mom needs to understand that your clothing is not a reflection on her, but an expression of who you are and what you represent.  She may be scared that you are trying to represent that you are a druggie (i hope you are not) but sometimes that is parents fears.  You just have to be open with your mom and try to talk to her objectivly about what you wear and what you are doing and let her know that she should be thankful that you are only dressing like a druggie, heheheh, and not one.  I am a mom myself to a 9 month old little boy and i love dressing him like a preppy little man and dread the day when he says he hates the clothes i pick for him and he wants a pair of docs (even though docs are cool) because he will be showing how grown up he is and he is not my little boy anymore.  That is probably how your mom feels to.  Hang in there for a few more years and you will be suprised how different your relationship will be.
1125291
Just tell her that you are a cross dresser and probably gay too.
94359
this is something you have to make a choice about.you cant let your mother make it for you.thats wrong.but if u enjoy it go ahead.
98155
I would ask him to ask his mother what the dress is for the restaurant you're going to.  Not the father, as women in general seem to be better at dress codes.  \n\nOr, if you're not comfortable with this, get the name of the restaurant, then call them and ask what their typical dress is like.
538350
Sounds to me like your getting your period! welcome to the club! YOU ARE NOW BECOMING A WOMAN! Go have that uncomfortable yet short talk with your mom. Good Luck!
123711
I think that if you doubt being ready, then you should wait. You'll know when the time is right, and you and your mom will get along much better!
901485
I can put a skirt on and pretend to be a girl
841610
My Mother and I have very divergent ideas about how I dress.
659169
That is the wildest thing i ever heard! Once you start wearing sexy lingerie, you are hooked for life! You should find a skirt and blouse that fit you and get some of slippers . then wait for mom to get home and ask her to help you do your hair and make up. Enjoy being a Girl!
935785
ok well if you are having any blood from your vagina rather it be lite or kind of heavy yes its your period and you should just tell her you need to talk to her alone. and just tell her there is nothing to be embarrassed about.i know it can be alittle scary sence its new and all but the best person you can talk to is your mom.and there is nothing embarrassing about becoming a  woman
622249
its easy to say that 'she should change' but she should only change if she wants to, not because other people want her to.  why does she want to me a 'modern girl', is it for her own needs or for the needs of other people.  if she changes, she probably wont gain the respect from those who were commenting on her, quite the opposite, it might leave her open to more bullying because they may see her as weak.  she has one of two options, if she WANTS to change then change with the help of you because it sounds as though you are a good friend.  the second option is for her to stay herself, strong, and that in itself could gain her respect and stop people commening on her clothing.  GOD dont you hate todays society when people can be so mean as to judge and comment on poeple just because of their clothes and make up!! ARHHH
1116857
Well honestly I think you should be yourself. If you want to give her the letter then give it to her. But if you be yourself and let her see how you really are then maybe it might change the way she look at you. Dont let the boy you love run away because of his mother. If he is happy then the mother has no choice but to accept you.
1084041
I think your mother is wrong to make you decide this based solely on racial differences. If this guy treats you good and is a respectable then your mother should put her bigotry aside.
313660
Just be her. When she gets so involved with her feminine rituals, its a great turn on for me.  She is a teacher, so she is a very practical dresser, sho when I see she is putting on her "girl things" on, I just get a rush all over me.