If her husband has died, would she date another guy? Why or why not?
370173
I am sure that most people would need a recovery period emotionally before dating after a spouses death.\n\nMy mom didn't date for several years after my dad died when she was 39.  She remarried in 1995, 8 years after my dad died.
488302
i think i would go on dating other people... but i'd keep my eyes on him! Until i find someone better or until he likes me too.
906318
If working on your marriage is out of the question then set her free.  She made her choice.  I know u don't want her to get hurt by the other guy but it looks like she will just have to find out the hard way.  What more can u do?  Like I said, she made her choice.
587135
If she's been living with this guy for more than 7 years than by state law, he is her husband although they are not legally married.  He would get everything unless a will is drafted.  But even wills can be contested, she needs a "living trust" which is undisputable.
820405
If you mean that her husband just died, rather than that she had him killed ...\nThere is a wonderful brochure for you to share with her:\n\nWhen Someone You Love Dies :\n - "It Can't Be True!"\n - Is It Normal to Feel This Way?\n - How Can I Live With My Grief?\n - How Can Others Help?\n - A Sure Hope for the Dead\n - Some Practical Suggestions\n - Helping Children Deal With Death\n - Texts That Comfort\nhttp://watchtower.org/e/we/index.htm\n\nit's available : on-line, in print, and as audio.
730222
If they're married, she's not his girlfriend, so the answer has to be "no."
376265
I think that you should pass on this friend.  I know you love her and that you will miss her, but she is headed in a different direction than you.  You have yourself and your future hubby to think of - don't let guilt feelings make you invite her when you think she might bring that guy and ruin your wedding day.  It sounds to me like you are better off without her.  You can enjoy the memories of the friend she used to be.
790381
The fact that she is continuing to see this other guy makes it clear to me that she is not interested in working on the marriage.  If she was truly sorry, she would have immediately ceased all contact with her lover.  Sorry to say, but I think you should move on.  I know it seems that people today take their vows too lightly and divorce is easy, but in your case, I don't think this woman is worth waiting or fighting for.  Whether or not you are to blame for her falling out of love with you, she betrayed your trust and continues to do so.  Find a woman who is worthy of your love and devotion and let your wife screw up someone elses life.
34337
i think it would be the right thing to do just in case anything was to happen. so she can know all of the family. it really depends on how he is. but you should still let her see him.
85743
I understand how you feel. But most people won't. They don't get it possibly because they didn't experience this level of love. I think that when they insist on your dating again, they are merely trying to bring you to their own level. If they make you date, they will feel less guilty about their readiness to date when their own partner dies.\nSo it's not really about you, but about their selfish interests. Which is why it is hard for you to change their minds. Sorry.
931898
An old woman died. She left a very specific will that says she wanted all her pallbearers( the one who will carry her coffin)  to be all  women. \nWhy?? She said because if no man want to take her out when she was alive why would they carry her when she is already dead. ha!!\nha!! LOL!!!
76799
No.  I would not date someone that is married because:\n\n#1 they aren't REALLY my date, they belong to someone else #2 because they wouldn't REALLY be my man, because he'd belong to someone else and \n#3 He WOULD really hurt my feelings when he left because:  HE IS STILL MARRIED to someonelse.\n\nWhen a person is seperated they are STILL married and there is still a chance the couple can and will work things out.  If they were through...didnt want to be with each other any more, they would be DIVORCED and NOT married, so dating someone that is married IF you are looking for a relationship is risky and in my opinion dumb.  If you are looking for a cheap fling or a one night stand then hey, that's probably about all you were gonna get any way...Why?  Because he/she doesnt belong to you ('cause they are married to someone else)  :)
998569
I think if they had a choice they would not have been married again also.\nthey were married to someone they loved so much,that they remained faithful to his memory through the years.\n\nwill you pick me for the best answer this time to show people how yahoo answer is going to ?\nanyway I forgive you for what you've said.
695017
I would just cause it did not work out for them does not mean it wont work out for us, plus I would date him a little longer then he was married the first and second etc times.
272331
That's funny....sorry.\nWas her cause of death questionable?.....He may simply be implying that there is no need for one or maybe it was listed in her will or some ID or something....\n\nSorry about our loss
632210
oh, better don't. just imagine how would you feel if a girl dates your husband. aha... that's how his wife would feel. be considerate, PLEASE!
520441
In heaven, we aren't married or given in marriage anymore.  So, neither of you would be "with" her in the sense of being married to her.  That's one reason why, in marriage vows, we say "till death do us part".  Death severs that relationship permanently.  You'll still know and love each other when you get to heaven, but not in a romantic or sexual way anymore.  No one will.