How do you say goodbye and let go of the love of your life and your soulmate?
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It's always hard to say goodbye. \n\nIn all honesty you can't. You can't say goodbye to someone you love that much without having your heart torn out and crushed. \n\nDon't worry about saying goodbye, worry about putting yourself back together after it happens. \n\nRemember that there are always other people out there, there are other fish in the sea. You will find another "someone" that you will love just as much, if not more. \n\nYou will never stop loving this person, but don't let your pain stop you from loving again and don't let it stop you from having an even more beautiful relationship with another person. \n\nIf you have to say goodbye, chances are that they aren't the one for you. So pick up the pieces, stop binging on ice cream, and smile. Things always work out in the end. It will take some time and it will take some pain and it will take some effort, but it will work out. You will find someone else, you will love again, and you will move on. \n\nNot everything lasts forever, but when it does, don't let it go.
803205
Hmm...breaking up you mean?\nLet see...this one really tough (for some people) to decide, you know. Well, as for me...it is truly hard actually. You often will be in dilemma whether or not to let go the person that you love the most. No kidding.\nBut letting your loved one go and forgetting about him or her does not mean you do not have anymore love towards them. In fact, in certain circumstance, you may have to do so because of your love toward him or her. Meaning that you do so not for your own benefit or sake but in fact for both of you (which I do hope so). In order to do so, however, you need to explain this properly to him or her. Transparency is everything in order for you to do this breaking-up matter, my friend. And if he or she failed to understand the situation, then you can do nothing. Let him or her decide for himself or herself. As the saying goes, time heals everything though in some circumstance, it may otherwise.\nTherefore, my friend, I think the essence of your act doing this breaking-up matter must be honesty and what I called as 'transprancy' i.e. you have to explain and expose everything to justify anything that you think necessary.
23732
First off, give him a breather, get off his case.  then in a couple days (and don't sulk) tell him he is the love of your life and so you have a good long term relationship there are some things you both need to discuss together, not A question and answer , a discussion, start with saying that you have some concerns, don't be acussatory. No one listens well when they are being accused of something.  Waituntil he seems comfortable to discuss the things you are worried about.  If he is the love of your life/soulmate, it is worth putting some extraordinary effort on your part, then to let your relationship unravel over fear
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Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
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The best way to allow an unworkable relationship to end is with honesty and closure. With so much time, feeling, and emotions invested in trying to create or keep a bond going strong you both deserve a clean slate to let go, and move on clearly and without lingering or excess baggage. (Which can carry over into other aspects of your life and leave you wounded, empty, or unfulfilled.) Just have a moment to sit down and talk about everything and clear the air. It's very painful, and distasteful to end it with someone via e-mail, telephone, or anything other than in person (unless it's a concern for your safety which in case do it in the best manner possible.) It may hurt and of course it will take time to mend but in the long-run it's best if you live and let die.
1031051
let her go and move on.
1136
You just end it. It really doesn´t matter why, the point is: you don´t want it anymore and it´s enough. Break up with the person, cry and be sad the time you need and then, be happy again :-)
449808
There will one day be someone you will not want to end things with....and your heart will scream to let you know.  Keep sayin' goodbye until then.
123076
Just tell him you don't want to be together anymore.  Then leave and start your new relationship.  If you are married you need to file for divorse then move on.\nYou need to have time on your own it sounds like.  Make up your mind on what you want.  Then start thinking of who you want to be with.
29714
let go of your expections of your partner. or the things that couse conflict.                                           dont let go of your relationship and the things that make it work.
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When you really love someone, letting go is very hurting and difficult.  If the one you love is the one asking you to let her go, gently ask her for the reasons why.  If her answers are valid and for the good of both of you, you should let her go no matter how difficult it is.  Your feeling that you can't let her go is natural for someone who loves truly.  But letting go is better than keeping a relationship which is a one-sided love affair, meaning it is you who wants to keep the relationship when the other does not.  There will be lots of problems and heartaches along the way when you do that because you can never make someone happy who possibly does not love you anymore or who has reasons to say goodbye to you other than that.  Let her go if you must.  Time heals brokenhearts so they say.  Let time be your remedy in forgetting her if necessary.  Look around you and you will see so many faces who may catch your interest and give you hope for a better and lasting future relationship.
754646
Depends...\nWhy have they stopped talking to you?\nIf it's something you've done, then eat humble pie, appologise and tell them you love them.\n\nIf you haven't done anything wrong (and you are REALLY sure you haven't) then tell them you love them and you will be here for them if they need you. Then you give them space.\n\nIf they still don't talk to you, then you have to accept that the relationship is over and move on with your life.
449229
There is only one way to do that.. CLEAN! You need a completely clean break, no contact of any kind. If you are truly in love, but are going to end it (which, BTW, is the right thing to do if it is an extramarital affair), then you need to cease all communication and just try to move on.
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I am sorry that you no longer want to get married, I just got married last month and it really feels right, but that is for me, not everyone is ready, and with saying that I believe the best way is to just tell them face to face, because if you wait til you get to the altar and leave them hanging it will show that you are not considerate of others feeling, especially the feelings of the person you were planning to spend the rest of your life with.\nJust remember one thing:   What if the shoe was on the other foot?  How would you want to be told such a painful thing?\nWhatever you do decide to do, just remember that, "What goes around, comes around"  Treat that person like a person with feelings, and just may be you two will be able to remain friends if you do the right thing.\nGood Luck, I hope it all turns out okay for you both.
634376
first and foremost you need to sit and talk to your wife. you need to be very honest not only with yourself, but with her. you need to tell her how you feel and be sure to be very considerate and aware of her feelings about your new found life. its not fair for you to continue to put her off or lie to her. honesty is always the best policy. i'm sure that if the two of you cant work things out it will be easier to part ways because you were not only honest with her, but with yourself. good luck!
851907
You can't, because there is no such thing as a soulmate. Humans are soulless; we're all bags of meat in a pressurised skin.\n\nHope this helps!
451811
don't say goodbye.  He/she will always be with you in every word said, in every advice given, in every laughter and in every moment you two spent together. \nI lost both my parents and grandmother in a car crash a few years back and even though was very hard not seeing them again, they still live in me and in every person's life they touched. I still see my father's look in my son's eyes and can still listen to my mother's advices every time I'm in need of them.\nSo, they're not gone and certainly not forgotten, so don't say goodbye to your loved one. Just close your eyes and he/she will be at your side forever.