my boyfriend fooled me today by telling me that a girl came to his house and proposed to him.?
373759
Ok, while ur havin sex and he is inside you, hug him and start cryin and say u got AIDS...he will freak out and scream !
358774
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
923522
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
863977
He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
513434
First off if you hate the girl i'm pretty sure she know's it and hates you back. So I wouldn't really trust her on the hooking up thing. However if your still having doubts you could developing a trust issue with your boyfriend. As far as the money goes lieing about a money situation is a far cry from lieing about being with another woman. \nIf he's so into you he did the things he listed i'm pretty sure you should be in the clear. If you start racking your brain over it however its going to spill out. You can ask him general questions about the girl and judge his reaction, watch pupal size to see if it grows big and shrinks a lot while he talks this is a sign of lieing, also if you hold his hand so you can feel his pulse it can quicken if he's lieing however this can also happen if he's getting aroused so its not always accurate.\nThe bottom line is try and ask yourself if the girl had anything to gain by telling you what she did. If she made you miserable and you two arn't fond of eachother I wouldn't pay any mind to it. Usally you don't want to accuse someone of something unless you witness it yourself or there's evidence like private articles of her around the bedroom or something. It could be this girl is just trying to get you to break up with him so she can steal him from you. Be strong and don't let you get to you, other wise she wins, gets your guy, and your left. That would leave a bad taste in your mouth wouldn't it?\nHow to know if your boyfriend really loves you. I'd say the whole marrying thing should prove it. Most any guy will get scared talking about marriage with a girl unless he truly loves her, this guy jumped head first into the marriage pool for you. Trust in him, and put this girl out. Don't let her win.\n\nGood Luck ;)
588154
The problem isn't this other woman, the problem is your boyfriend.  A guy can only be manipulated by a woman if that is what he really wants.  If your boyfriend really loved you then he would end all contact with this other girl.  I think he is using her the same way you think she is using him.  Maybe they both deserve each other because you certainly deserve a man who can only be manipulated by you.
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
558490
Dont play with his feelings like that cause someone could get hurt. Just tell him and get it over with. Cause if you do that, he will think that you are full of games. And being dishonest is the worst way of starting a relationship.
258425
FEEL MESSED UP! BUT WHAT CAN YOU DO. just hope that she don't find out and please don't get serious with him, he going to cheat on you just like how he is cheating on her with you.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
749415
Yeah, sounds a bit fishy. Being a guy I would say he is hiding something, maybe he has another bird on the go. look most guys, trust me, if not all guys want one thing and not necessarily from one place. do some investigating, surprise him and see if you can find anything. sorry if it seems harsh but I know the signs\nI tell you what, if you have any suspicions like he's said something that sounds odd let me know and I'll interpret it based on personal experience.
827414
Be honest witn your boyfriend. It was very sweet of him to get you a promise ring, but accidents to happen. If he loves you, then he may be a little disappointed but it will be ok.\n\nMention to him that you found one just like it online and that you would like to get it. If he offers to get it for you, then let him. You can do something special for him in return. And if he's ok with the idea but doesn't offer to buy it for you, then go ahead and get it. \n\nHopefully it will eventually turn up somewhere. But if you try to secretly replace it and it turns up after that, you would have some explaining to do. - Just tell him what's going on.\n\nDo the two of you live together and use the same car? Could it have gotten lost at his place or in his car where you wouldn't have found it?
82127
Ouch this a hurtfull situation. But first you need to confront him and find out whats going on and dont let him play you for stupid. You next person to confront is her! She needs to know what she is dealing and find out what she is doing. He may think its harmless but you guys have 2 kids together and it sounds like he is pretty seriously committed to you. He should have no reason to call her and break up a happy home. You seriously might want to rethink the whole relationship. Maybe even give him a scare and say you are leaving him because you found out he was talking to "that girl" if he loves you he will stop and wont ever do it again. And seriously think about it he has already cheated on your with this girl and she is obbviously still on his mind. You should have cut it off when he first cheated.
1017075
Send him to a place around other girls. Have someone "spy" on him. See what he does. If he cares, he won't do anything. I know this sounds a bit "cheap", but it is sure-fire, trust me.\n\nI am a guy. I have seen it a gazillion times on reality shows and talk shows AND in real life. Any guy who is NOT serious will cheat. I've known lots of them (and I'm a good honest man!!!) \n\nJust don't tell him you had him "spied". You can wait several years before you do that  : )\n\nBlessings,\nJon
338087
proposed a guy thru a very romantic message\nand sent another 5 minutes later saying april fool!\n\nand he really believed it!!\n\n\nhe's my friend, so it's ok now....:))
720364
only if he said yes.  give him the benefit of the doubt.  I'd text the chick back though and let her know you are his girlfriend. Maybe she didn't know about you.