look, if some one cheat on you and break your heart,can u be a lover again?
360237
its tough..i wouldnt be able to trust..i'd be tempted to but i think we would just end up moving around in circles..and i've learnt this from experience..although i always tried my best still i ended up with the wrong end of the stick..you end up givin it a try cause u will be blinded by the memories but the facts wud be extremely different.. if they cheated on you, or hurt you once then you dont deserve them..cause they might if given the opportunity do it again and again.. just look ahead and move on you will find a person that will honestly love you someday..
810004
Yes, for some...probably more often than not...while some people who cheat may do so only once and find it's not for them...and some may simply desire to be monogamous and stop cheating for their own personal reasons...\n\n...it's also not uncommon for someone who cheats, to do it repeatedly...\n\nProceed with caution if you are considering getting involved with a known cheater...
29744
That's what's hard. You can't ever be 100% sure because if a person can do it once, he can easily do it again. Some people might be able to regain that trust eventually, but I'm not sure that I could ever trust someone who did that to me.
425244
Of course, it is very possible to love again. Love makes the world go round and round and round. While it is true that you have to go through a process in grieving about your lost love, you will surely recover and then love again. But do not force it! Give yourself time to heal. First you are going to deny that you have already lost that love because of the break, then you become angry and hurting so much that you could be very mean and silly to other people, then comes acceptance. And when you accept that love is already gone, then it is time for healing. Do not believe that it will take you always a few months or even 1 or 2 years! Sometimes the loss of love could even expand to about 3 to 4 years, but take heart, you will be healed and will not hurt anymore, and then you will love again. Do not be too hard on yourself! Relax! Be with friends, enjoy life. Life is in the living, in the tissue of every day and hour, and so love again and do not be afraid to lose another love because love comes again a second, a third or a fourth time. \n\nGood luck and may God be with you always. I pray for your early recovery.
669782
no...you have to trust again at some point.  just be careful at first, and give yourself plenty of time to heal from the wounds others have given you.  you can't go through life not trusting anyone.  just be careful about who you trust, and don't do it right away.  make them earn your trust.
61479
Any repectful man or woman does not cheat. If you need to cheat, then you need to break up with the person you want to cheat on. Makes sense, huh?
664451
Yes because u can move on ...\nNo because u love them \nThe more u love them the more u can't love another
56702
I doubt it! Some people will cheat no matter what you do, other will if given a reason. Dont give your partner a reason!
1152033
If you truly love someone...I think it would be almost impossible. Anyone with any sort of conscience would get eaten alive by it with all the guilt they would feel. Haha, but I guess it depends on what you consider cheating.
841252
Anyone who cheats doesnt deserve a second chance period...If ur with that person youre with them for a reason.....Their isnt any sense in getting a boyfriend or girlfriend if ur gonna cheat on them...its just wasting your time and theirs
336122
Honestly, if you truly had a deep love for her, I don't think you would have cheated.  If the bond is weak enough that you both felt the need to stray, I'd have serious doubts about giving it another go...unless you both were willing to work hard to discover what caused these problems to begin with and were willing to work to resolve them.
619640
Thankfully the answer is "NO".  You will find that feeling of "true love" again.  I was raised to believe that there was only one person in the whole world that was right for you.  Every time a relationship broke up I worried, what if he was that one?  I can tell you from experience that you will fall in love again.
835429
Ask yourself if you can live with that person, can you ever trust them again? Can you forgive them? Otherwise you will live a life of always wondering, and checking in on that person. Make sure you are not just avoiding the obvious- to dodge the pain now. It may hurt to let go now, but later you will be grateful, when you meet the right person who wouldn't cheat on you.
460787
yes it is possible to like someone and even lust after someone if you are in love with someone else. the problem comes in how you deal with the lust.
160000
i agree- once a cheater....  if he cheated on his wife and is willing to leave her, is this really the type of person you want to be with!?!?!  seems like a set up for heartbreak!
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
281324
yes you can you can love a person an then you also have a person on the side that treats you better an thats what get you then out of know were they have your heart