im scared of black people :( i dont know why .help ?
370088
first let me tell you that alot of blacks are scared of black people too...it's not a bad thing like you think the only thing that you need to do is stop listening to all the negative things those around you have to say and take the time to get to know some black people...just a few at a time in a mixed crowd...before to long you'll begin to realize that we are people just like you, and just like all races, there are good ones and there are bad ones...just give me a holla if you ever have any more questions...
526046
Some people think scaring someone wokrs, but it doesnt really(at least not for me), and they say to drink water..but that does not help either. You need to hold your breath as long as you can(dont pass yourself out) and as many times as possible, and it should go away. : )
767570
i agree with you...to a point, but, rather, I believe it is the black people who HATE the white people; I'm a very nice, welcoming, happy person who likes EVERYONE...unless they give me a reason not to. And most often, i find the majority of black people doNOT like white people; they don't smile back--they glare. Or they just look at a white person with hatred on their face. This happens every week, at the least. It also bothers me that I live in a white upper middle class neighborhood and...suddenly, a few black people have moverd around there...i always smile at them, especially because the most often put their heads down, like they don't want to be noticed, or anyone to, i dunno, burn a cross on their lawn...i say people are people, i don't care whWHAT color you are!
726818
=sounds to me like she is trying to put others down to get ahead.  Sh tattles on others, EXCEPT her boyfriend. \nGuess she lives by her own rules.  Be wary of this one.  I think she thinks cause you are black you are an easy target as well. You are probably a nice guy and I feel bad for you.  God bless.
540395
Cuz christians are scared of people like us... ;-)
726509
I see your view! But it is mighty funny how we see every other race trying to be like us. It seems as if almost everybody wants to be black so bad but yet they put us down. But I know why it's because we are unique we have our own style that some will never understand. Don't trip off of what others think about us just be proud that we have so many haters. We must keep on doing things to make them hate on us and continue to move on. But I also see the points of others some black people give off that vibe and make that reputation for us. But I don't because I know that I am not the stereotypical black person I am aobve others expectations of  what black people are.
816185
Sounds like someone pissed you off "alittle".I dont think like that and would never say any of those things-if you have a loud mouth then you just have a loud mouth isnt because your black thats ignorant!Whoever has got you feeling like this has accomplished their goal of pissin you off.And these type of questions actually promote more racism and problems ,you win by not letting it bother you in life(hard to do ,but once you do it you will never feel like this again because you are sure of yourself)By gettin upset and going off you are letting whoever is doing the hatin WIN!They want you to get upset ,mad and then hate and pass it on,and it goes on and on.Stop lettin them win ,and love no matter what and you are always going to com out on top.
1095192
You shouldn't be scared... although it's no small matter. Just try to live your life to it's fullest, and make sure you tell loved ones what they mean to you.\ntruthfully, probably everyone has a mental disorder, diagnosed or not. we're in a pretty screwed up world, and we're pretty screwed up people.
513157
I'm black. I respect all, white, indians even martians (if they are there), because they are human beings. I wouldn't mind making friends with any of them. To me its fun, coz I'm exposed to lots of different ideas. Like once, my indian friend told me they throw away chipped cups. Ok, we don't keep loads of em, but to us its not an issue. All that and may more. We're all human beings. Try living with an a black person, especialy where I live (Tanzania - East Africa), you'll know how EXTREMELY GREAT, blacks are! They may not speak english fluently, but they will surely give you a great treat!!!! LETS RESPECT EACH OTHER
478996
I don't know if your racist, but I think some people have really pissed you off.  I'm white and have never been a brown noiser if you know what I mean.  It got me the title of anti-social.  No, I just refused to kiss butt.  After a hard day at work, I want to go home and see my family and kids not kiss butt for several more hours with people who make me sick to my stomach with all of there back stabbing and lies and attempts to kiss the Mans behind.  I feel like you should judge me on my merits and my hard work not by my social hours with the boss.  My job is important to me, but so is my family and my sense of reality.  Dude, by the way I know Black people who are the same way as Fat Boy Whitie.  Wait till you met them....Good luck on your future.  But people like this come in all colors of the rainbow.
1168772
They were born with all the phobia's and 'ism's.\n\nActually it is just a tool they use to put down people so they can sleep at night after they screw them. They have been doing it to the poor and the blacks for years!\n\nIt is called Rationalization!
423609
Stay away from pastors & well meaning friends who tell you to get over it. They are true phobias, each with it own name. A good psychistrist can diagnoise & medicate these problems - it may need help from phychologist. Good luck. My spiders, people esp. crowds, & water are managable. Go Wolfpack- I'm back at games & sailed all weekend.
66252
do you mean you are scared so bad that it MAKES you stink or that you fear that you smell? either way, there is a phobia for everything from spiders to water to smells.\nwith that, there is always a way to overcome that fear. see a doctor, they can help. in the meantime, just shower a couple times a day. you will smell fine! =)
677317
Based on the lack of information you've provided, it's impossible to offer you any insight into why life is so hard for you. As for taking insults and mockery from both your white and black friends, this is driven by their own insecurities in who they are and possibly even they're jealousy of who you are. You should just be yourself with respect to that. As for making life not so hard, I would be better able to give you advice and suggestion if I knew more about your circumstances at present.
113871
You are not alone! Try to not let your self esteem be your worst enemy. You remind me of me. I have to force myself to not isolate. Have you considered you may be depressed? I started taking medication in '01 and life has become better. I'm not so "scared" of people. It's hard to change but it can be done. I found a wonderful man who accepts me for who I am and he loves me so much. You are a unique individual and believe it or not, no matter what people say or how they treat you, you have something unique to share with this world. Hope this helps. :-)
244772
Marge aphobia...Try soaking your hands in Palmolive..and pretending you are on Fear Factor.   Then reward yourself when you are done
975389
I will try and explain my feelings from the other side of the race card and hope it helps. When I was growing up race was a topic of better then they are, they are different and do bad things, and so on and so on to the point that I almost believed that black was almost evil. One day while working in a little Taco store in southwest Los Angeles when I was 16 years old I had 3 black men come up to the counter and rob me one hit me in the nose another held a gun to my face and he had no life in his eyes and his hand and gun was shaking, to say I was scared is a severe understatement. While the two guys got the car the other stood there with the gun in my face and me thinking I am dying that day with blood dripping on the counter wondering if I would hear the shot that would kill me. My partner that day at the taco stand was a black man we had a nice disagreement about 15 minutes before this took place on whose turn it was to sweep the lot that day and he lost. When he saw what was going on he came around the corner and hit the man in the face with the long handle heavy sweeper he was sweeping trash into and the guy dropped the gun and stumbled to the car his buddies were waiting in and they sped off with the money and me still alive. I asked my fellow worker afterward why he had done that, because honestly I don't think that I would have if the situation was reversed, and he told me he was not thinking he just knew he had to do it. \nI take a man or woman now and since that long ago day one at a time and honestly the color of his/her skin never comes into my mind, I think that is the greatest gift that one person can give to another and it was a black man who gave me a white man that gift. I wish I could give it to everyone.\nDon't fall into the race blame game there are good and bad in all races the only thing that makes a difference is what kind of person you are because really that is all you can control.