Do I intimidate guys?
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This may be true. They(boys) may find you a bit intimidating because you are confident and probably because of your maturity they may think they don't stand a chance with you.  But don't change because they are too wimpy to approach you.  There are lots of guys that like a challenge and are not intimidated by talented, competitive, confident young ladies. They find this appealing.
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you could tell him. if you tell him be nice about it.\nor you could do what i did and ignore the guy.
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Now...I won't bore anyone with answering this question...plus there are some good answers already...on the topic...\nHowever, can't help noticing...YOU are a man (although not mine..:P)...YOU are telling me what to do...(*speak up*)\nAnd what that makes you?? The S...S (no intention to be offensive, just playing...:D)\n\nI might just feel rebellious and stubborn...and cross my arms in front of you and say nothing...for once...:P \n(isn't reverse psychology working or what..:P)
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uh no. go neways. just dont think ur the shit. cuz ur hot. and you'll be treated like shit if u act like ur THE shit. lol
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Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
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SLAP HIM!!! us guys have no right to do that. Even if i think a chick looks nasty as hell i dont say it. That is rude. wheres he live ill teach him manners, and scare him to death. Someone should kick his ass. Sorry for the laungage.\nJake s
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you may need to knee him in the groin area as you're telling him you're not interested. technically, it's not assault. it would be considered harrassment if you had already told him you're not interested before, therefore you would be defending yourself :O)
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Hey Confused, this is 2006. It is okay to talk to the guy. Tell him that you are really mad at manipulative people. And that you noticed him and want to know more about him.\n\nYou say you really like him. Well, you must know something about him, what he likes, etc. Ask him to tell you more about himself. Guys are suckers for that. Really. Sit there and listen. If he plays an instrument, read up on it. Ask him what his favorite band is. You know things like that. Ask his opinion about movies, team sports.  Find common interests.\n\nIf you want him to ask you out, he has to know who you are and find you approachable. When he finds out you are easy to talk with, guess what? He will feel better about asking you out. Play it cool. \n\nAnd killing yourself? Hey, that is forever. Never going to get that good looking guy that way. Hang around. Be interesting and interested. Develop yourself and your own interests. Being not as eager is also a good thing. Remember this, dogs and men chase what runs away.
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By "responding", do you mean not kicking the guy in the balls?\n\nBad pickup lines that guys have used:\n\n"Can I touch your hair?"\n"I had sex with an Ethiopian girl once" (I'm not even remotely Ethiopian, nor is anyone in my family)\n"Nice dress.  It would look really good on my bedroom floor in the morning"  (possibly kicked that guy in the balls...)\n"Can I smell your underwear?"\n"You may not want me now, but I'm drinking milk...."
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I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
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If the man wants to screw with you, don't give him an entry excuss.  Smile at him while under your breather do anything you like.
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Most guys would say, "oh, that's lame... you should shoot yourself for even asking it." but the smart guys >like myself< know that's something women would find cute. It might not be something to say on a first glimpse, but to a friend you are trying to up your relationship with, sure!  good line for that
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Well if you are in a social scene and a guy wants your phone number, a good rule of thumb to use is to tell them to give you their number instead. Tell them that you are busy tonight, but give me your number and I'll give you a call. This way noone is left with hurt feelings, and the dude will leave you alone.\n\nAs far as the situation the other day, I hate to say it, but since the guy wasn't getting the hint, you should have freaked out on him HARD. I would suggest sarcasm or just plain cruelty: "what the f**k is the matter with you? can't you take no for an answer or are you as stupid as you look?" Be sure to speak loudly if you do try this tactic, as he will be humiliated in front of his friends and is likely to quickly leave before he looks worse in front of them.\n\nYou may also want to consider getting some mace or pepper spray to carry when you are alone. Frankly, if some dude decides he's gonna accoust you, you better have something on hand to defend yourself with!
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I won’t say anything but surely I will slap that guy.\n\nThe answer for this question depends on the girl’s attitude.\nIt is not good going straight in this issue.
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If you are friends than go for it, let him know that the proper way is to cover the mouth and then apoligize.  If he is just a peer and  you are not his boss than my guess would be say nothing, why cause yourself heartburn over something that is not your problem.  I don't know that I would turn the guy in but maybe the boss could put out a newsletter that is addressed to everyone with a dress code plus manners in certain situations.  No one else would be the wiser and it could solve a problem without causing any hard feelings.  Good luck
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I suggest being less polite. Be a bit obnoxious. Women say they don't like that, but if that was really true, why do they always sleep with all of the bad boys? \n\nI used to be shy and polite in high school. I never got women. In the navy, I learned that you need to be a little big arrogant, a little bit obnoxious, and a little bit "in your face" about the fact you want to sleep with them. It works 70% of the time. :)
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I wouldn't wait until they commit the "offense". That's kinda rude and bitchy. Say the guy digs in his ear with his little finger. What do you say, "Oh, God, I hate when peole do that! I'm outta here." You have to get to know someone first before critizing them for their small personality quirks.