my Bf's ex girlfriend calls him about every 2 days. im so sick of it. i need help?!?
371838
You're right to feel like that. I would feel the same in this case. It would be better if you CLEARLY explain to your boyfriend that this REALLY BOTHERS you. Ask him how would he feel if he was in your shoes.Try to be persistent in what you are asking. Tell him that this is damaging your relationship and that you don't feel OK this way. If he REALLY LOVES YOU, he will cut off these phone calls. I hope it works!
193787
Be thankful.  He is doing what is right by his new girlfriend by not talking to you.  Plus now that he isn't talking to you, you can move on with your life and find a new love instead of talking to your ex all the time.
1168130
if it's really true and he has been seeing someone else, then just let him go.  if he's doing it to get your attention, then he's really immature so again, let him go.  just keep ignoring his calls and he'll go away.
172306
explain to him how disturbign and hurtful ti si to you.  its quite disrespectful.  teh only person you shoudl ever give up friendships woth ex's for is your spose.  I am only engaged and i wont speak to any of my ex;s out fo respect for my man.  Expalin to him how disrespectful it is and that you want him to stop...he wouldnt approve of you doing the same would he?
81639
that's a very bad situation. only advice i can give you is based on the experience i had last year. my situation started out like yours and ended with me stayin in a crack neighbor hood and my boyfriend tryin to kill himself cause of the ex. i think it's a bad situation and you need to take whatever steps you can to get her to stop. legal or illegal. if this situation is f*ckin with your head then you NEED to get out of it. don't put up with S*it like that, you don't deserve it. there are other ppl out there
1038050
Um i would say no thats not ok...tell her that she needs to set him straight that she is with u and he needs to stop calling. doesnt that make you feel sh*tty? tell her how u feel
1073526
thats a hard one okay i have been through it so many times and the urge to not pick up the phone is hard.what was the reason you and her broke up?she needed her space,3 years is along time but sometimes people grow apart it happens.this guy i was seeing we broke up and its been 8 months and i still want to call him its hard.i waited for him to call me but he did'nt.just wait and see if she calls you most of the time if you don't call she will wonder why and she will call you .just give it time.if she don't call move on it will take some time but you will get through it good luck
1181711
I guess you need to start drawing the line here and figuring out if you want a "friend" for life or a life partner.  Life is full of booty calls and people that just sleep together as a convienience.  Some guys are just better at getting their way in the way they speak to women is all.  I'm assuming your still single, or he would not be calling you every day?  If I were his girlfriend, I would be pissed off for him sidelining and callin his ex all the time.  Come on, wouldn't you if  you were on the other end of this?  Make him either poo or get off the pot....dump the other girl and date you exclusively or its time to close this chapter in your life.  Your hearts up for a buncha bruising otherwise girl.  He won't be with you bye the way because your not standing up for yourself and being a stand alone girl....get out there and start dating!!!
908726
There is absoulutely NO excuse to why she should be talking to her Ex on the phone. Who cares if she gets pissed that you are pissed about it! She should respect you enough NOT to talk to him....she's not with him anymore she is with you! If my fiancee talked to one of his ex's all the time there would be a HUGE problem for him! Speak your mind because personally I do not think you are in the wrong at all!! Good Luck!
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
147082
stop calling him.  YOU broke up with him
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
636790
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
566981
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
876303
I know how you feel. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because of ex. problems. However, you are married and don't let these two that apparently do not have a life of their own ruin this for you.\nThey are looking to create trouble, see what kind of reaction they can get and if you give it them, it will continue. The best thing is to totally ignore it. When someone approaches you with a rumor, tell them , that subject is no longer open for discussion. Don't feed into this B.S. Good luck
1099272
Tell him your sick of his annoying antics and he needs to get a life.  Tell your bf that you dont want him hanging around you anymore and if he loves you he should respect that. =)