i am 25 and still a virgin, i want to stay that way until i am married but it keeps getting harder?
367884
virginity when you got it seems to be a burden that grows.\n\nbut when it is gone ,it will be a loss.\n\nit will suprise some girls ,but it will also blow their mind and somebody might just apreciate it no end and be so much the happier for it.\n\n\nif you got this far ,you could hang on a little longer,25 is a good time to get married any way \n\ndont blow 25 years of control on a cheap thrill.\nthat it keeps getting harder I can well imagine,probably every day.but try to keep it up.
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
1043471
u shouldnt have sex until u r married anyways and u need to wait until ur comfortable with it
1177408
Girl, whats the problem? You said you wanted to wait until your marriage, then wait. Why the fuss about feeling sad for your boyfriend, most guys don't want you to wait for your marriage day, or is he just saying that to still get in your pants, so he can get you to think that he's the "perfect" boyfriend in the world, you know boys pull those kinds of tricks. Be that special person and wait, and its gonna be worth while, when you do get married, it is a blessing to be a virgin.
738169
I married a 28-year-old virgin... and yes, she was still a virgin up until our wedding night.  Any woman who can hold onto her virtue that long in today's world deserves respect.
947375
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
464925
still a virgin at age 27
34946
It's you and that's a good thing. Your virginity is sacred and you don't want to give that to just anyone. Keep it for as long as YOU want to. Don't feel pressure to lose it and give it up because you think that's what everyone else is doing. Believe it or not, they aren't. Don't worry about still being a virgin. Just live your life and enjoy being a kid/teenager/adult (since I don't know your age). I hope this helps! :)
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
871819
Maybe the people who changed were not all that stable to begin with, sorta like they were searching for something or they didn't have a great self image, then they had sex and thought they had found the answer to their void.   It is also like taking that step into something you know you should not be doing, then once you do it, feel like, what the hay, I've already messed up, why stop now.  I admire you for staying a virgin. Save it for marriage, you will not regret it, but please don't marry just so you can have sex. (know what I mean?)
427929
Good for you for standing up to your beliefs. You have very strong character and it will serve you well in life. I waited until I was 17. I had a lot of boyfriends and PLENTY of opportunity to lose my virginity but I didn't want to give something so precious to a man I knew I wouldn't be with the rest of my life. You will know when you have met that special someone and only YOU will know when the time is right. It won't feel yucky or dirty and you shouldn't feel like he just wants you for sex. If he is THE ONE he will be respectful and you will feel a connection much deeper than just a physical attraction. Trust your gut. It is different for everyone. Men and Women are so different when it comes to their sexual needs. For men it is like a necessary physical urge. Much like hunger. They feel they need it and there brain tells them to fulfill that need. For women it is something much more emotional. Even girls who express a need for sex are feeling that need on an emotional level rather than physical. They feel a need for love or desire or just to feel wanted or attractive. Men just need the physical release. I wish I had waited until I was married because even though I loved my first and felt I would be with him for the rest of my life we got married but divorced 3 years later and have a daughter together. I'm glad I waited as long as I did but wished I had waited until we were married first.
214121
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
241711
I am still a virgin but hope for the lucky lady
886983
On the contrary, there are plenty of men who prefer an INexperienced woman. It's 50-50 really, just a matter of preference. 25 is a suitable age for a woman to lose her virginity, if that is your inclination. Personally I see it differently, but I will not judge you by my standards. You want to wait for awhile so it is something more special than it would be if you did it when you were younger. That takes a lot of discipline, especially with peer pressure. Stick with it, but it will be hard. A lot of men say mean things when they find out that they cannot get any from a girl. Real mean things, even when they were sweet as sugar before. Men can be such surpreme assholes to women sometimes, so be ready for it, and stick to your guns. There are few things as satisfying as sticking to something so extremely long term that you proclaimed you would stick to, and other people look up to that, even though they say degrading things about it just because they are jealous they don't have the resolve you do and may want you to fail to validate their own perspectives. Good luck.
110110
Hold on to your virginity. It's a real gift from God. You should be very thankful that He's preserved you. People nowadays brag and act as if fornication is the greatest thing and if you don't do it your considered wierd and unusual. \n\nRemember what St. Peter said about these type of people, "They think it's strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation, and they heap abuse on you. But they will have to give an account to Him (God) who is ready to judge the living and the dead." \n(1 Peter 4:4,5)\n\nStaying just the way that you are pleases God greatly. And who would you rather please? God or Man? The Lord will surely reward you for your patience. \n\nKEEP FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT AND ALWAYS PRAY!
805547
21 years, because i'm still a virgin and waiting for marriage first :)