my superior always troubles me although if its not my mistake. should i fight back or just listen to him?
368437
listen, then politely explain that is was not your error
940789
He keeps being persistant because you give in to easily. He keeps screwing up because he knows you will take him back eventually. Pull your head out of your behind and stand up for yourself! Tell him to F$&# off for good! You can do much better than him and you know it!
825189
Whats done is done. You know better now.  So go and do better. Dont beat yourself up as long as you take the steps to do whats right. You know yourself and just know people make mistakes. You will be fine.
21757
Ditch him once when he has to make an important presentation to his boss. I have a similar situation in office..there's a guy who steals what I do and presents the same to the top management. Once when I was doing some research he asked enquiring I explained in the same style and taught him a few wrong concepts. He made a presentation and I was also part of it. I asked him a few queries and he looked like a fool in front of the crowd. \nOther was to do it is mark a bcc to the top management
851034
It is difficult to give you advice. Take control. Be a leader. Set with him reasonable rules. Let him tell you how to take correctional measures if he tresspasses. You are close to him tell him straight to the face what is acceptable to you and what is not. Do not nag him. The best leaders usually renders support and guidance. Please do not be a supersoft motherly type. Earn respect by being his leader logically, but reasonable. If nothing else help sen him back to mother. See it as a challenge not a burden. Good luck.
811904
I would make an effort to get along with him and if that didnt work meanings you had to stay there i would do everything the way that boss wants it done then pursue to look for another job because if you stay in a work place that makes you miserable makes it so you dont want to work there period...\nSo its always better to be happy than miseraable...\ntake my advice i have been there done that...
736695
It's time for you to go over your immediate bosses head to upper management.  Before you do, I would document and entire weeks worth of instances along with date, place and time the harassment takes place.  I really feel for you and I hope your situation improves soon - God bless!
377412
Go to his boss!!!  Having mental issues is not an excuse for his actions.  If he doesn't 'have a superior' ask to speak with a judge because they would know what to do and who can handle it.\n\nGood luck!
842370
I really wish you would seek some professional help.  If God did answer this prayer of yours, it was to show you how wrong you really are.  Why don't you listen to Him?  God Bless.
774294
GET OUT NOW!!\n\nYou don't owe this person ANYTHING!!\n\nFor a boss to say it's a 'personality clash' is diabolical!!\n\nWhat kind of management style is that? S**t - that's what!!\n\nYou SO deserve better.\n\nGO RIGHT THIS MINUTE AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
852899
I would go and repeat what you have stated here and present your case anyways . By now you know how painfully slow the act on anything . It's worth a try in spite of your situation , I would go.
39225
Since he's your "new" boss, I'd say take the high road and try to grin and bear it.\n\nGood luck!
795598
When i first started reading, I had a feeling your performance is not up to expectations and he trying to motivate you, but now I think he has a personal ego problem. Why dont u try and tell him that u have several urgent tasks and look busy? I know it is annoying, but leaving is not the solution. You will probably end up with a boss that has a bad temper or personality flaw. \n\nWhy dont u try and send him an annonmous note telling him that everybody hates his ways, but make sure he will never find out.
1013588
You should just ignor him don't drop what your doing and isolate yourself.  Ignor him.  If you can't concentrate just leave without saying a word.  If you listen it will bother you and make you want to yell back.  If you yell back he will be even more upset and that may lead to and awful fight.  Just tune him out.  I know my dad was a mean old man and blamed everything on me even though I was his little princess.  I tune him out and go about my business.
217125
Be patient and understanding for no one actually changes anyone. Keep talking to him and don't forceful about it, one day he will come around. If you're forceful he will do them behind your back
565361
Man, I was going through the samething with this really obnoxious girl once. I feel your pain. my plan of dealing with people like him is to stay clear of them. It might not be easy at first but once you keep avoiding and stay clear of him overtime he won't be a problem, and talk to your teacher about changing your seat, tell him/her that you have problems with this kid and that you don't get along with him that should help, and if that doesn't work well, you before taking things into your own hands try the plan first.
922667
You should always stand up for ur rights . Just because the wrong doer is ur Senior or is stronger than u doesn't mean u should bow down two him, just use a different strategy or game plan that expose them.