How do I earn my families trust back?
366864
if they are true christians they should accept u for who u are now and never give up on loving u...on ur part u should not blame them and forgive u right away but u must prove to urself and to them ur on the right path that all u need is their support to make ur journey successful!
901294
Only with courage and time. Hopefully with help from your family.
13815
Be thankful someone in the family had the respect to raise you and keep you close.
814080
Do I no how you feel!! Welcome to the Black sheep of the family club :0)\n\nMove out of the house. You are the strong hold of the family. This is how I rationalized my situation. Now that I have been out for quite a while I get phone calls for help from my family. What should I do, or this is what mom is doing how can I....\nAs far as not being able to release the same way they do to you what I did is find others outside of the family....Parents are supposed to be there for there kids but in todays world this is not always the case.\nGood luck it will not be long before you are out on your own...
616776
Be genuine to them! Don't over show about anything.Be down to earth..Show your belief in the family institution before them.And one more imp thing......try to make them laugh!
613579
You just have to prove it.  Perhaps you have slighted his trust in the past, and he is having a tough time trusting you now.  Anyway, perhaps when you are a tad older the trust will come back.\n\nGood luck.
669782
no...you have to trust again at some point.  just be careful at first, and give yourself plenty of time to heal from the wounds others have given you.  you can't go through life not trusting anyone.  just be careful about who you trust, and don't do it right away.  make them earn your trust.
32127
You may need just strait counselling .  I don't think your going to find any better help for that than a one on one w/ a doc and later you get your family in on it to.  This sounds like its going to take some time and work from you and your family
226796
Learn to love her, because you should never hate your family. Be glad your sister is around. Someone decided to kill my sister. I would give almost anything to have her back here with us. Be glad you have her there! Hope this helped you!
176977
You don't have to do anything.  Just being home with your family will be enough.  As much as you want to be back with them and get back to life at home, they want the same.  Just get home and love them like never before:)  Welcome home!
176078
I don't know what you have done to loose their trust, but only time will heal this.  Once you've lost trust in someone it is very hard to get back.  Just keep on showing them that you are trustworthy and in time they will trust you again.  Sorry I couldn't give you an easy answer to solve this for you.  Good Luck
780033
Being that I have a sister that does the EXACT same thing I can honestly answer "yes" you/me have been used.  All the things you've explained are very familiar sounding.  The problem lies in them being spoiled rotten and getting everything given and done for them.  Do what I did and put your foot down, enough is enough eventually he'll realize what is going on and the shoe will be on the other foot.  It got to the point where my sister was monopolizing all of my time and resources that my own family was going without, and that wasn't happening anymore.  It's called tough love and unfortunately it has to be done.  Good luck and I'll be thinking of you because I know how painful it's going to be.  But to answer your question...yes of course your brother loves you.
322162
Keep talking to your brother,he seems to be the only person in your family acting like a grown-up!You are entitled to your beliefs and he is your brother,losing him would be like losing an arm,so keepthe lines of communication open and hopefully your parents and sister will come round,good luck,stay strong.
866903
Go to the library and ask them for a book of trusts which award money.  You will probably have to go to your Central Library and then look in the reference section.  My sister did this and managed to get help with school fees for her daughter. There are a lot of very old and obscure trusts that offer money to people because they have worked in a shop, of live in particular areas etc.  It will take some time but it could be worth it.
227001
sorry to hear of your problems!  Lots of people get caught up in this mess.  A company I know and trust is owned by a friend of mine named Dave Ramsey.  While his company normally charges for many services, I'm sure they can give you an idea of the best way to get started in a breif call or e-mail. Dave also has a call in radio show weekdays where he answers questions without any charge and has an 800 number to reach him there. You can find more information about the show on his website.  Here's some contact info for you below. Even if your not in TN they can help. Dave has people nationwide.\n\nCounselor: Dave's Team (The Lampo Group/Dave Ramsey's Office)\nAddress: 1749 Mallory Lane, Suite 100\nBrentwood,TN 37027\nPhone: 1-888-22-PEACE\nEmail: counseling@daveramsey.com\nWeb: www.daveramsey.com\n\nI really hope this helps you!!  Please give them a call!!
400708
Rekindle ANY previous relationship with friends or relatives that just kind of fell by the wayside... it's important to establish and/or maintain contact with others that you can or will feel comfortable with.\nIf all else fails, spend a LOT of time right here and ask for all the help you can handle- this is a great lace for real, true and helpful advice.
484918
Sounds like a parent, I could be wrong. Trust is something that is very hard to regain.If you still love love them let them know it. If its validation, or approval you want, no one can please you as much as yourself.If you know you are doing the right and are happy. That is all thet matters.If it is guilt, they should feel guilty.Don't always trust your feelings in these matters, Nobody likes to be hurt deeply twice. Especialy by the same person.