If your grandmother told you why she did something and you felt what she did was not nice. And she died.?
371763
Yes, it depends if your Grandmother told you in confidence, even though she has passed, would it make her turn over, if you did?  If she wanted you to tell her after the fact then that is different.\n\nIf your Grandmother did something, I'm sure your sister already knows deep inside why and maybe you should just let it lie.
1067363
this would have to be my granny!\n\nshe was such a inspiration in my life!!!\n\ni miss her dearly & wish she could be here to see my daughters, her great grandaughters!!!\n\nshe was always there for me when it seemed no one else was... she was THERE!!!!
189818
If you had reason to believe your grandmother was going to pass away, then that "reason" might have happened and your dream was just an expression of that fear.  I've had that happen before.\n  But then again, the dream may have been a premonition of the concept of your grandmother's death, and your mind just expressed it in a different manner.  It's darn near impossible for me to tell if it was a premonition or not.  Only you or a psychic could.\n  I think it was, though.
931898
An old woman died. She left a very specific will that says she wanted all her pallbearers( the one who will carry her coffin)  to be all  women. \nWhy?? She said because if no man want to take her out when she was alive why would they carry her when she is already dead. ha!!\nha!! LOL!!!
736345
When my grandmother died I took some of her ashes and poured some milk over it and ate it. That way she would always be a part of me. Well, till I shat her out, but you get the picture.
197248
what does your grandmother think? is she happier now.
523820
Think about your grandmother, not about you - I know it's a difficult time.\n\nShe has had a long life, she has known love, had a child, maybe more than one, she has what sounds like at least one grand child who's a good person (you). \n\nIt's time to let her go. If she's had a major stroke, she will be quite damaged if it happens again and they resusitate her. You wouldn't want to see her like that. Sign the DNR and go hold her hand. Do one last thing for her. I'm sorry for your troubles, truly.
239535
Um, this just seems cruel.  Why don't you ask your mother how she would feel about you planning on profiting after her death?  Who knows, maybe she will want to take this appraisal adventure with you as one last hoorahh.
1058443
Did you know the woman personally, or anything special about her (hobbies, collections, etc., especially ones you might share)?  If so, you might want to throw in a happy memory or something like that.  If not, his thought that YOU thought enough to send  condolences will probably serve.
345795
Great! You didn't say how she died.  Sounds like you may have killed her...)(
960232
So sorry to hear about your daughter, she was obviously very special to you, that is very spooky isn't it, lots of spooky things have happened to me, on the day of my moms funeral a lady who I have never met before came to speak to me outside the chapel of rest, she told me she remembered me when I was a little girl, she spoke really kindly of my mom too, later I asked my sister who that lady was and she said she hadn't seen her, I started asking other people and no one had seen this lady or knew who she was, I spoke to one of my aunts about this lady and said but someone must have seen her she had a really distinct hat on, but no one had, later that day some old photos were brought out and I spotted the lady I had spoken to outside the chapel of rest amongst those photos and she had the same distinct hat on, I was so glad and said to my aunt see there she is, that's the lady I spoke to, my aunt told me it was impossible as she was my grandmas sister who had actually died when I was 3 years old and coincidentally the date of her death was the same date of my moms funeral, that did spook me big time.
212548
Your still in shock, it has not hit you yet that she is truly gone and even if you don't cry don't let people tell you, you didn't love her. Everyone has their own way of handling pain. It will take a long time to get over the hurt and pain, my grandparents have been dead over 7yrs and I still cry sometimes, but it does get easier and you just hold on to the memories and precious time's. And if you believe in God than hold tight to him and ask for his peace.
701933
If I could turn back the hands off time I wouldn't even be here. My grandpa died that night when my mom was in the hospital giving birth to me. If She would have been at home taking care of him and not in the hospital with me he'd still be alive. I know she didn't get to say good bye and that hurts her, she doesn't show it when I'm around but I have seen her when she is alone. So If I could turn back the hands of time I would want my mom to have a miscarriage so she could see grandpa again. "I'd undo it all"\n\n\nBunny\n( &#92;_/ )\n(='.'=)\n('') ('')    Bunny
677705
My daughters friend told us her friends cousin was killed. After the funeral , the mother stay at her grave side crying and that..She started hearing her name very faintly..the mother went and told the bloke at the cemetary and he said it was the wind..the next day she still herd it but with cry's..She demanded the grave got dug up because she said her daughter was calling her..After another day they dug the coffin up and opened the lid..The girls had a horrifying look on her face and the lid had been scratched by the girls hands to get out..naails broken and blood ...
503339
my grandfather was the kindest sweetest man alive. he died 16 yrs ago and there will never be a man that will replce him. when i do bad i think hes turning in his grave and i feel horrible. my grandma is 92 and shes still as spunky as they come and shes a trip. she whacked my son with her puse recently!! love them both but gramps took us fishing gram took us shopping
49197
That is very sad. I'm sorry for your loss. I would assume that there were extenuating circumstances that caused them to take such action.  Ask them why they did that would be my suggestion.
386722
i think that the flowers should have all went to your gma - she was his widow so legally she shouldve been the one to have gotten the flowers etc then if she wanted to give them to some of the grandkids then thats her call.  you say she has alzheimers though so maybe did they leave one of the grandkids as power of attorney over everything, did the grandkids pay for the funeral?  was your gma upset about not getting any of the flowers?  was she crying or anything or does she have alzheimers so bad that she didnt realize?  if she didnt realize what was going on maybe you shouldve just said a silent prayer for the grandkids, usually bad things come back to people so if they were being ugly to your gma itll come back on them.  i think since you are a "step" though it may be better to just back out of it & let them handle it, theyll end up labeling you the bad person if you dont.  if shes got alzheimers really bad she may not know whats going on or even realize who her grandkids are, she may not be able to live on her own, im not sure of all the details but id let someone closer to her handle it, maybe send an "anonymous" letter to someone who "really cares for the old lady" and tell them whats being done to her & let them handle it, if you think shes being abused or treated unfairly maybe report it to your elder abuse hotline. i wouldnt apologize to them though, i dont think you did anything too wrong, if you did surely the funeral home wouldve stopped you before you got to the van, i hope it works out for you. you have a good heart & thats all that counts, your intentions were in the right place!