Marriage? Affairs of the heart?
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Some people are addicted to the initial hormonal rush that comes from falling in love.  It only lasts for about a year, and after it wears off, they start detoxing and looking for a new love to get the hormones going again.  For this reason, some people shouldn't get married.
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Hey, you have my name!  J/K, glad to see another believer has my name at least.  My thoughts and prayers for you are that you truly seek God's face during this time.  Getting married will not solve your fiance's situation.  In fact, it might compound it with the newness of marriage and everything sexual involved with it.  I commend him for his want to overcome his situation, and I truly believe he needs to seek Godly counseling through the pastor or another strong believer with experience in these areas.  You, also, should attend counseling.  Don't let co-dependency conform you to "accepting" his addiction because your love is all powerful.  It can happen and that I believe is not God's will.  We should love God first, and our spouse second.  In this be on your face seeking God's will for your life.  Another thing for your fiance to keep in mind is that he doesn't have to prove anything to God, God knows every hair on our heads, I would think he knows what is in the depths of each of our hearts too.  He really has to live a different life daily and dissociate himself from everything to date that has caused his situation.  Counseling, support and accountability are what he needs big time.  Prayers and love =)
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ya. mine's is a love marriage and we are going great. it's not always succes. lets hope for the best to happen in others life too. it is not always a bed of roses. u have to face lot obstacles. if ur completely in love with each other then nothing can stop u to become one and can lead a very happy life. dont take love for granted, it's really a god's gift which all cannot enjoy. there is a lot of difference between love and infatuation. so dont mistook between love and infatuation. i wish u all the best if ur in love with someone and wants to marry. go for it and enjoy  a happy life.
201620
No offense, but if you have to ask, niether relationship is probably a good one. When you truely love somone, there is no doubt in your mind as to what decision to make in this type of situation.
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Yes, if not a physical affair, then an emotional one.  When a married man is sharing his time w/a single woman, he is sharing intimacies with her that should be reserved for his wife.
2550
Relationship in marriage is not like a cage. It is sharing of various issues - feelings, emotions, togetherness, oneness, sex and many more. Afterall both are life partner. Pls don't make it a cage. Feeling free after being single is not the right solution. Happiness & freeness can be felt/ realised even being together also.
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Love does not always end in marriage.  Sometimes love continues on in the heart separately from a committed union.  Sometimes love does lead to marriage & it can often last a lifetime, though many times it dies for lack of nurturing & circumstance.\n\nI think of love as not just an emotion, but a choice & a committment.  It requires work and effort, but it is always worth the price of admission, no matter where you wind up.
979982
your relationship sounds like true love. some people never find that. yes they get married and live together but thats nothing if like you said, your not honest and trusting. it does seem simple. but somethings are worth fighting for.
733014
Ignore the bashers of love in here, most of them wouldn't know love even if it slapped them in the face. My wife and I are the same as you two are, we think the same, act the same, like most of the same things, had very similar dramatic life experiences thats shaped who we are, and we married each other because we saw the bond we clearly had. More importantly, we both knew who we were as individuals, and knew what we wanted. You can't know if your meant to be with someone unless you know yourself well enough to know what feels right for you and know what you want.
425721
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
1144764
Maybe. If they love each other or if thier marriage is arranged with each other.
608396
Marriage.  Sadly, even that isn't 100% secure for some.
75002
Think of all the ways you romanced your wife before you was married. Did you buy her flowers? Take her on night strolls? Did you shower with her or run her bath when she comes home from work? At times we tend to forget that the men/women that we marry still need to be romanced and catered to. Its a beautiful thing that happens for two people and they feel appreciated. This is what I think your wife is telling you.
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Wow. that is a tough one. It depends on your morals and beliefs. Is the marriage strong enough to handle the consequences? I once watched Dr. Phil and he said that is never a good idea. no matter who wants it or how long you've been married. What do you want? sometimes you have to stay true to yourself.
713791
Yes, sometimes it does feel like it but other times it also feels like a blessing.  Obviously there's no such thing as a perfect marriage and like anything else, marriage takes a lot of work from both partners.
1013331
It would hurt, immensely.  One of the things that attracted me to my husband was his love for God.  I would try to find out what brought on such a change.  Try reasoning with him.  In the end, if I could not change him, I would try to make our marriage work if he was still willing to be married to me.
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Marriage is a great experience. However, i would strongly suggest that you are prepared for it. It's a lot of work and compromise, but if you're truely dedicated it's so worth it.