how do you know if someone really likes you and is not such a player?
373289
As shady as it sounds, you're going to have to do some detective work.  Is he honest with you?  Have you seen or heard of him with other girls?  If he has websites or pictures, use those to form your decision.  But above all, make clear the fact that you WILL leave players behind.
403421
well there are a couple of ways to find out. Be direct and tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. Sometimes the other person is just as afraid to admit they like you, for fear of getting hurt. So just jump out there and be honest.If he doesnt like you yes you will be hurt, but you will be able to move on, instead of just waiting.
341339
You can always tell by a person actions, if there smiling at you or even the way they may talk to you. But look...they may even say something that you weren't even exspecting them to say. I know it's kind of difficult! Hey..try to show signs to her that your interested and see what happens. Like talking nice, or doing something for her that she wasn't exspecting you to do.
854234
If you meet someone and spend a fair amount of time with them. If during that time they make you laugh and after you leave them you are thinking about what a good time you had. If they are courteous and respectful towards you. If they are listening to you instead of just merely waiting to talk. \nI don't know, someone who treats you well and is fun to be around is a good bet for a relationship. I've found it never works to go searching around for someone though, sometimes they just crash right into you.
879262
you never know for sure unless you date for a long time, even if he sais he likes you, he could still be using you, so it is very hard to tell if he likes you
1147897
That's easy he or she will tell you they do, and prove it, or at least not make you feel like crap. In any case you will believe or not, regardless if is true or not some will believer other just because they attractive it would be best to go by actual knowledge of the individual who said it by that i mean how often is that person honest, kind and so on.
927264
ask her in person,and that will put her on the spot to see if she really likes you or is just playing around.
1097054
Listen to what he is telling you and look at the way he is treating you. What does his actions say. Does he give you any reason to believe that he is not serious about you?
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
746900
Sweety, just talk to the guy you rejected before this Jonthan geek, tell him what you told me now, and see what he says. If he still likes you you will know by his reaction.
50038
try to get to know him before you take the plunge of expressing yourself too much. after (or if, for you pessimists out there) you find he is still what you are looking for then maybe attend a b-ball game and note what position he plays and what he did in the game and you'd really impress him by mentioning you noticed his playing and throwing it out there a little, just not too much, cause then it is a little stalkerish
349660
u decide what he is like. don't get majorly attached and stay out of bed with him. if he is really so sweet to u, then maybe he really likes u. find a couple of his x's and find out what he was acting like to them and how long the relationships lasted. after the average amount of time is over, you will be able to tell.   playa or not
835567
Say thanks and maybe compliment him back on what he's playing. He's probably flirting with you and might even like you. So if you have an interest in him flirt back and give him the same kind of compliments. Who knows where it might lead.....
460269
if there are hints that she likes you go ahead and tell her. If she pretends that she doesn't know you exist or is always mean to you, that is the first sign of her liking you. But before you do anything you should probably show some signs you like her BUT MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE NOT OBVIOUS!
642071
When someone likes you, he asks you a lot of polite questions, usually about your interests.  What he is doing is actually see if there is something similar to what he is interested in.  If there is, he has a point to begin with to know you better.  Perhaps, from there both of you will come to know each other.  Like attracts like.  Whether a relationship will blossom depends on your ABC as well as his. A - Attitude, B- Behavior and C- Character.
730417
u should look for someone who likes u,\nas well as u like him...\nthese 2 guys r not suitable for u...\n\nwell,\nif u r a playgirl type,\ngo for the sec 4 guy..\n\nif u love challenging,\ngo for the sec 3 one....\n\nbut plz..\ndon go on with someone when u r unsure about ur feeling for him,\nwhen u don rili like him tat much,\ndon go for it...\nit hurts alot...
248705
its just something that you will figure out, make up a list of tests, thats what my boyfriend did.\n1) when you shake their hand..if its a firm grip, then its a good person, if its weak..then they are not a strong person.\n2) when you are with them...do they stare at you, and do you see "love" in their eyes? \n3) watch their expressions when you talk to them, are they direct...does he focus all his attention on you?\nyou need to ask yourself all of these questions, and figure out for yourself.