Can i get married young?
363793
Dont rush into anything forever is a long time. the romantic notion of marriage is great but the reality is often very different.
632710
Although it is already legal to get married at your age.  I don't think you're not emotionally ready.  If you really love one another, it doesnt matter even if you'll be separated for some time.  If you love someone, there is loyalty and committment.\n\nYou will start from scratch.  Considering that you have no money, you may have some financial issues.  \n\nDon't get married just out of your fears.  Get married when you know that he really is the man who you want to spend the rest of your life with, and be the father of your kids.
99565
why would you want to. i'm 26 now and i'm just now startin to even think i'm ready for marriage
58557
wats the need to get married so early?\n\ngive some time to urself..  enjoy life after u've become independent.. dont start thinkng of mariage as soon as u get ur first salary.. or may be u're still in the job-hunt or while studying in the worst case!\n\nideal age for marriage is 26-29  to be precise.. 27-28 yrs si just excellent. \n\nits always dvisable to get settled b4 u cross 30... but a lot of people overlook that.
1117390
Yes, those words can be true, but you need to set goals and make sure you stick to them as best you can. Love is a wonderful thing - but being married means you need to be able to work well with the person you love. They become your partner for life. I met mine when I was your age, and we married in our twenties, so I know it can work. We were good friends first, and then fell in love, and didn't move in together until we married, but we spent many, many hours working on projects and eventually working together in a store and learned that our personalities really meshed well - which rounded out the love we had for each other. My advice: \nFirst, both of you go to college (either 2 yr. or 4 yr. - depending on what you want to do for a living.) \nSecond, save as much money as you can if your folks are paying your way through college. \nThird, work while you are in college and also when you finish college and THEN start making wedding plans. Life is a lot about "getting your ducks in a row". In other words, make reasonable & wise plans, and act on them in the best possible order. If you throw caution to the wind and skip making life plans together and just get married without either of you having advanced training beyond high school, most likely you will live very poorly and will have lots of fights about money that you don't have to pay the bills. The biggest mistake people make is NOT making plans for the future and just "winging it". BIG, BIG, mistake. Best wishes to you!
202993
Say no. your too young for marriage. go out and enjoy life first, you'll have plenty of time to settle down.
568066
just because your older does not mean that you are grown up, when ever you are mature enough to take care of yourself as a responsible person then you can get married.
1066930
Life, they say, begins at 40. Hey, dont despair, your still young. My aunt got married when she was 45. And guess what, one of the most popular actresses here in our country remarried at 41 and had a child a year after. There are thousands, perhaps millions of people out there looking for you. The world is so wide, you just have to explore it. Believe and it will happen...\n\np.s. invite me when you get married. He he he
103779
Sure you can... but the legal date of your marriage will be that of your "first wedding". My husband and I were married by a justice of the peace, 4 years later we were married in the church. We even went through prekana(sp?) classes to do it. It was great to renew our vows and profess our love for one another again. Congrats & good luck:)
67073
Yes. The length of your relationship is not the basis to get married or not.\n\nBoth of you have be SURE you want to marry each other. You marry because you LOVE each other so much and you want to spend the rest of your lives together. You need to be matured enough to understand and deal with the problems and consequences you'll have to face when you get married. You need to be physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready about it. Make sure that you are ready to give up something (clubbing, you'll have less time with your friends, etc.) for your marriage.\n\nDon't rush, ok? Enjoy being young. You can still do and enjoy so many things. But marrying is not yet one of them. ^_^
639509
Well yes it is possible to love and have a happy marriage at 19.  I met my husband when I was 16 and we married when I was 19.  We have been happy togather nearly 10 yrs.  I caution you though,  It isnt easy and most people who get married young and have kids as young as I did get divorced and are miserable.  The odd's are against you.  \n\nI knew in my heart that I was making the right choice. I gave up a lot though.  I never finished school yet.  I never had a good job yet.  Money is not something that we really have any of.  If I had waited, I would have finished school and had money.  But I would have missed my chance to marry my husband.\n\nLife is a gamble, no one knows how things will work out.  I say think things through, search your heart and know in your heart that your making the right choice and go for it.  Dont let any one stop you.  And that applies to all things in life, not just kids and marriage.  You make your own decisions in life so start making em and never look back.  Just go for your hearts desire.
756049
Sure.  At 21, you're not ready for marriage or children, particularly, children.  Stay single, hon.  You ain't yet wife material.  That will come later.  It isn't an insult, it's just fact...... 21 is too young today, to get married....  Who you want at 21 isn't going to be the same guy you will want 5 years from now......
681845
Karina, is this you? Sorry, but this sounds too much like my son who is 19, and his fiance who is 25. Took me off guard! I think that you shouldn't jump into marriage right away. At 19, my son is SO not ready to get married right now. He's just not mature enough yet to deal with everything that comes with being married. Being engaged is one thing, being married is another. I say, go for a long engagement. Take time to really get to know each other.  Put more effort into thinking more of the marriage instead of just the "big wedding" every girl dreams of. You both are young and are still growing and maturing in so many ways. What both of you want from life right now may be different for both of you in a few years. Especially him. If you're really serious about this, my advice would be to wait a few more years.
285530
Marriage is a life time commitment and 18 is a bit young to know what you really want in your life.  At 18, you are still in the very beginning of your life and there are still many things for you to experience.  I understand that if you actually consider to marry this guy, you must really love each other.  Ask yourself this, will you be happy to spend the rest of your life with him?  If you are sure of that, maybe you should seriously consider marrying him(provided that he feels the same).  Some people actually got married at a very young age and have ever lasting marriages, it really depends on the couple.
339169
getting married first
604969
Why would you not get married its not like you are 65 years old. I no real hurry just wait for your real love to find you. You will see that every thing that you have done has been to prepare you for that real love.
219237
24 is still young!  Don't rush things:)  I am also 24, and unmarried.  I don't want to get married for a while still.  I want to do so many things before I settle down.  If you marry, it should be for true love.  Don't settle just so you won't be single anymore.  Enjoy your single time!  Love will come your way, most of the time when you least expect it!