How can a girl slow down at the beginning of a relationship?
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Talk to your man about it. Communicate, understand, accept.
1083573
You don't need assistance... you need patience. You're having amazing moments, she likes you, she shows affection for you in public, what's not to like? Give her some breathing space. Why are you in such a hurry? If you pressure her you'll lose her. If you lose her, then someone with patience and who knows how to show appreciation for what he has (someone like me) will get her. So if you don't want me to steal her heart away from you, learn to be patient.
249851
If you want a long-term relationship, I strongly recommend not going to bed on the first date. This sends a big message to guys that you do this with all guys you date, and many guys don't want to get serious with a girl who has been around the block with everyone. If the date goes well, give him a long kiss goodnight. He'll get the message and come back for more. Then take it from there.
218365
you can tell her that you are still in the revocery stage and don't want to rush into a relationship now..
324892
Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
646734
Start off by letting her know that you aren't looking to be tied down.  That you want a casual relationship for now.
1014881
First, remember it isn't all about that- the atmosphere must be right to start with. It should be someplace private and comfortable. Maybe in her own house or room, and have some candles and really nice music. Don't be in a hurry! Take plenty of time for kissing/ etc.- it really counts! If you act impatient, you can just forget it, she won't get there. Make sure you listen to her if she tells you what feels best. It's really not that hard to do. Good luck!
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dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
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You need time. A relationship is like a tree. When it dies you have to figure out what went wrong. Then you have to fill in the hole where the tree was, before you can plant another tree. In short, take some time to contemplate your old relationship. Where did it go right? Where did it go wrong? Only after you are whole again should you start  dating. Otherwise that girl you want to date is just a transitional relationship and that isn't fair to her.
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Stop seeing her more often.  Let the relationship die by distancing yourself.
99858
We start breathing heavier!  Move to kiss her neck, if she goes for it, she's in.  She's go with the flow.  DON"T ASK, that's way to immature, just go with the flow.
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THAT'S the problem with guys they just don't get it! you rush into situations too soon! you never have good timing for anything!\n\nOK! I'LL try and help you out!\nhere's the plan!   the most importqant thing is you have a girlfriend right!\nnow if you want to get intimate with her, you can't really tell her that you want whetever it is you want with her!\nin other words you are making your girlfriend feel stupid ina way!\nYOU have to be everything to her, meaning good manners, sweet,loving, caring, sharing conversations and enjoying good times wih her!\nthere are certain things you can do for her to get your attention, eg, asking questions on how was your day, a walk on the beach in the moonlight when no one's there, dinner for the two, try cooking dinner for her, doing something extremely romantic for a, buy her roses so that she can be suprised and tell her that you love her but not all the hours she will get sick of it!\ncome on do something lovely, eg. buying her a gift or something that she really wants.\nthen you will get all the love you need!  you have to look for the signs! \njust be really romantic to her and in turn she would do the same!
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Respect him and go at his own pace...be happy that he wants to take it slow! That means he is serious and wants things to be done right. Talk to him about it, share your feelings and have him share his. It will all work out, just don't push him into anything, some people take longer than others.
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If you are not ready, or everything is going too fast, sit down with them and explain how you feel. If this is too hard to do, then you are not with the right person. If the person loves you he/she will understand and wait or slow down. If an argument starts, then you are not with the right person.
702507
I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.
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Since it's your FIRST date..... how about you just try to get to know each other before you take a "first step"\n\nEveryone is always in a hurry to zip around the bases..... they seldom really care who the other person REALLY is before they start "stepping".\n\nFinding out if this person is REALLY the person you want to "run the bases" with. It's a much better way to start a relationship.\n\nLasting relationships require communication and compatability..... \n\nPressuring or convincing someone into the "first step" is childish and serves no purpose except physical gratification.\n\nBut if you are the type that is concerned with physical gratification, more than emotional.... then follow the advice of these other people who will give you all kinds of wonderful ideas :(
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Try letting her be on top more or control the pace. If she is in control, that shouldn't happen and when you want to be in control, just try to be receptive to her and not go in so far. I have this problem when I try to go hard and fast, but not so much when we use a position that isn't traditional and I can't get in so far. That way when I want to go hard and fast and can't get in so far because of the position. Anyway, there are ways you just have to be a little creative.