Can i sleep with another woman(a friend) since my wife is staying with another man?
357799
why not just get divorced that way no one gets hurt ?
135045
Friends - yes\n\nlovers - no \n\n\nBUT - if you have to hide that friend from your spouse, then something is wrong.... any friendship whether it be with a male or female should not be something you need to hide or feel guilty about (because you aren't doing anything wrong!)
489085
nope.....don't do it, specially if she is a good friend, you can f*** up your friendship, if she wants a threesome let her look somewhere else, so you won't have anything to do with her and her husband in the future, when they'll star having  problems because of this. don't do it.
1052622
your doin it because you can  and you want someone to give you the attention your husband isn't giving you but having sex with them if find that very wrong why don't you have one of them buy you a vibrator.so what im sayin is if you really loved your husband you wouldn't be sleepin with other men. commitment is what you lack that or you have no self control.
1088826
Don't it is not your place.  That priviledge belongs to her husband.  You can however, get some concrete proof, pull him aside and let him know you know and that he needs to do what is right.  Guilt will play the biggest role, next to fear you will say something.  \nThis is between two married people, not three.  Of course your going to say , "there is three", but not in their marriage.  This is something that  they have to work out between them.  \nThe best role you can be is when he does tell her, and she needs a shoulder it should be you.  You should not let her know that you know, at least not until the two of them handle this in whatever way they need to.  \nIt is going to be very difficult for her and hard for you to remain silent with the information that you have.  \nPeople cheat for many reasons and the reason they cheat has many sides, or variables.  One thing that remains a constant with infidelity in a marriage:\nTwo people make it, two people break it.\nSomething is lacking in their relationship from both sides and in order for them to find out what that is and make a decision to work on it or not, they both have to acknowledge responsibility for the good and the bad.  \nStay out of this, be there for your friend when she needs you.  \nI assure you, once he knows that you have evidence and that you, as her friend know about the affair, he will come clean.  That doesn't mean the marriage is over, or will recover, but it will certainly allow them the chance to fix whatever is wrong between them. \nYou may be a "best friend" but you do not share "pillow talk" and you certainly are not priviy to their personal intimate conversations that husbands and wives have.  \nDo the right thing stay out of this.\nAs with Bill and Hillary Clinton, this is a maritial problem, not for the cover of your local gossip column.  \nIf they love each other enough, things will work out for the best, no matter what that turns out to be.
937664
LET GO.  She is never going to leave him.  Why leave if she can have you both?  There's obviously something in you that she is missing from the other man (and vice versa) which is why she keeps you both around.  Aside from this, if she does leave him, how can you ever trust that she won't cheat on you when she gets "bored" with you?  I think you deserve much more than this.  Get out now and find a quality woman with more respect for herself (and for you) than to sleep with 2 men and deceive them both.  If you thought more of yourself, you would certainly not put up with this for another day.  You should demand more than to be "the number 2 choice" to anyone.
918934
yes\n\nhe is sleeping with 3 other women
773556
yes i have with another girl and a guy and with two guys. Thing was i was not dating either of these people. It can really mess with the relationship so if its something you do agree on do not have a mutual friend join you it can make things very awkward between you two as well the two of you and your friend. Also talk about what the boundaries are for you both. What shes okay with you doing to the other woman, what shes comfortable doing with the other woman, and what is going to far. Having a bit of sexual play is good for a relationship, but if its a relationship you want to keep make sure you respect each others feeling on the matter.
302493
I don't think you can acces 1 woman fron the other. We are all as different as day and night but we will ban together when the need arises.
258711
no, leave other peoples man alone there are plenty out there. and you don't want this one either because if he is doing this to his wife now, then u wont b the last. he is one big loser for cheating on his wife now.  and if you married this guy what kind of friend would u b called?? put yourself in the other person shoes, IT HURTS AND NOBODY SHOULD GO THRU THIS THAT WAS WRONG OF BOTH OF U. REAL FRIENDS DON'T TOUCH.
648007
If I had to sleep with a woman I would cut my downstairs off and, um, oh shoot, I couldn't do that!I guess I would force myself to sleep with this woman I met the other day.She was really attractive......From BEHIND!!!lol
492944
I've been married for almost 18 years and I get into bed every single night of my life and thank God for whoever came up with the notion of sharing a bed with the one you love! It's one of the most intimate and trusting things you can do with another person - and yes, I'm still talking about just sharing the bed! If I can't sleep it's never because my husband is in the bed with me. If anything, having him there helps me to relax. Or maybe that's just because I'm still so in love with him :0)
507084
The choice is all yours. If you feel you can trust your wife than go for it if not than tell her she done screwed up. She's returning for a reason maybe she knows your involved with another woman and that made her jealous or maybe her parter that she left you for left her and she feels alone. Let her know you will remain her friend but thats about it. Either way just remember she cheated once she may do it again. Good Luck.
60472
I think it is possible to have friends of opposite sex, but what concernes me about your story is that he  is not open with you about this friendship. He should have no problem with you being present during his conversations with her. Another thing is after you get married, friends fade away a little and your spouse becomes a focus of your life, so it is unnatural to spend that much time even with your closest friend. If you have concerns about her, tell him about it, and if I was in this situation, I would insist that he only talks to her when I am around at least for a while so you could see for yourself that there is nothing more to the story. If she is just a friend as he claims she is, he won't have a problem with you being around while he is talking to her. But make sure you keep track of all the conversations you are aware of and see if those are the only ones that appear on the phone bill, but do it without him knowing that you are keeping track for two reasons: you won't come across as insecure and controlling and if he is doing something wrong it will be easier to catch him. I hope I'm making sense. Try not to accuse him of anything right away, just tell him that his relationship with that woman makes you unconfortable and you want to work out a situation that will work for both of you.
409455
Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
458071
how do u know this friend will not cheat on u ?\ndo u trust her as much as ur wife ?\nAnswer these questions then follow ur heart.\n\nbut my opinion talk to ur wife. she loves u and will do anything to make u happy.\nTrust Me!
938077
Sorry to say this but if your husband is having sex with other men he is either gay or bi and he will probably do it again.  I would be furious because he lied from the very start.  A heterosexual man is not going to sleep with another man so therefore he is gay.