I'm addicted to sex, is this good?  Give me professional advice please?
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Check out some tantric tequniques, '"it will stop the focus being on whos doing what,and wondering for how long  can he keep up with you"it also enables you to enjoy some absolutley mindblowing sex for very long periods of time ,check it out on the web, there are also heaps of great books on the subject.
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I think anything can be an addiction if you let it consume your thoughts and actions.   The way to cure an addiction like that would be to change your thought pattern by finding other things to think about - like reading a NON SEXUAL magazine or running/walking.  Also, identify life's priorities and work towards your goals.  I don't think sex is HIGH on the 'must get done to live good life list'!
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Try to find things other than sex to work on...put your mind off sex. While you're obviously still going to have a high sex drive, it will help if you don't constantly think about it.
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You have a big problem, get help. Any addiction and you called it an addiction first is bad. If you love your wife talk to her show her you care more about her then the smut. She is having your kid and studies show that one of the most common times men cheat is when the significant other is pregnant. Good luck bro.
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hi mahe \nmy dear young boy, u r very intellegent, brilliant science bio. student having more than 80 percentage marks in XIIth standard, what u have asked earlier, i have seen all and what u have replied, i also seen all those. u should not worry about your anxieties regarding sex and sexual activities, it is very commen at your 20th age. masturbation is also not bad, but if u can control it, then it is better, even if u can't control it, don't worry, it is alright. i will also suggest to do masturbation to get rid of tension, whenever u feel. so don't worry all about this.\nfurther, i will advice u to prepare yourself for your cpmt, aiims etc. exams, so u can reach your goal to becoming a doctor, when u will be a doctor, u will answer to others about these things.\nwith best of luck for your enterence exams towards MBBS
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Go for it babe. And while you're at it bring one home to me! Seriously though, I see nothing wrong with it. Just be careful. There's a lot you could learn from a pro. You probably don't need to pay for sex but think of the interesting things you could learn. Hmmm. Wish I had a ticket to Amsterdam!
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Uhmmm... I think you mean "figuratively"... I am assuming your legs still work (which would be what's necessary  to use the word "literally")? You are wanting to regain interest in sex, right?\n\nNot trying to be a smarta$$.\n\nYou need to go to therapy. It may take a few tries finding the right therapist, but you need to find one, and talk your way thru your feelings. It, **literally**, is the only way you will open up to the possibility of having pleasureable sex again.\n\nI wish the best for you!
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Sounds like you have a serious addiction. \n\nKind of like the guy that went to his psych and the psych shows him pictures, A car a house, a tree, a bird , and a dog\nEverytime he showed the guy a picture he would ask him what he thought about when he saw the picture the guy said sex. The psych told the guy he was addicted to sex, the guy said "I am not you are the one showing me the dirty pictures. " :)\n\nSo get evaluated. LOL!! j/k
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is sex your only road to happiness. That would make sense as to why you have blown it so far out of proportion.\n\nDo you binge drink? I'd start with changing that. Imulsive people are easier lays though. But why do you think demoralizing christians is sexually good? Rape is a power strugle, and the endorphine release of sex reinforces what ever kind of sex you try. While sex as an expression of love makes it an unselfish act. Yet, sex outside of love is only limited by what you try.
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Nothing to be ashamed of. Every individual has his own habits and appetite.  Some crave for sex all the time and some don't.  It's just that you have a bigger appetite for sex that makes you think more and more about it.  It is not wrong until it does not effect your work and other activities.
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You know you're addicted when you think of all the things that can possibly please you, and sex is always the one that comes out on top.  When you stop seeing someone because he/she won't put out, you're hooked.  When all you want to do is look at porn on the internet, it's way past addiction.  It's a problem.  That's probably why my dick is full of all this naughty stuff.
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You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
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I use to think i was sick and asked my Dr. if i was normal to have such a strong drive that it drove me crazy and i seemed  to want more all the time. He said, it is a natural and normal feeling and some people have stronger drive than others. I started experimenting to try and learn how to control it better so not to drive me so batty. Don't be so concerned this is natural and your blessed to have orgasm's and a good strong healthy drive and desire for love. It's called life. Some people wish they could do what your able to accomplish. Masturbating is healthy and normal. The fact that you can help yourself while he's away keeps you out of trouble and satisfied. Learn to teach yourself and him how to turn you on more. Foreplay is a very wonderful way to teach and learn from each other. It will turn you both on to do this to one another and share idea's and curiosity's and fulfill each others fantasies and make some up as you go. I have personal experience and can tell you honestly that this really works as long as you are both willing and able to open up and share with each other. Good luck hope i helped
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The only way to quit sex is resistance. It should be like quiting drugs and other addictions. Find a substitute that you wouldn't find as horrifying as being addicted to sex.
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Maybe you have an addiction to being addicted to sex.  The problem isn't the sex, it's the ADDICTION.  Hahahahaha.....\n\nFornication and adultery are not really permitted.
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Some good ansers in here- some not so good. Here's my advice- (I had an addiction so bad that I would spend 5-6 hours a day downloading porn and acting out). \n\nBTW- Anyone who thinks they can answer this question in one message has never overcome a porn addiction. \n\nI want to introduce you to the idea of 1st order changes and 2nd order changes (yes psycobabble, but it's good).\n\n1st order canges are like bailing water out of the leaking boat, 2nd order changes are like plugging the hole. \n\nWith porn addiction some examples of 1st order changes are: Adding a porn filter or getting rid of the internet, not visiting adult bookstores, etc. \n\n2nd order changes involve getting real about why you are attracted to porn, addressing the issues in your life that make you vulnerable to the addiction, building relationships with people, learning how to view women (or men) as people and not sex objects, etc. \n\nIf you try to control a porn addiction by only addressing the 1st order changes- you will spend the rest of your life bailing water out of the boat and sometimes you will get tired and slip and then you will beat yourself up for not reaching your goal- then you will try to block out the guilty feelings and guess what- porn works great as a sedataive for your feelings (makes you numb). \n\nHowever, you cannot really get to the leak at the bottom of the boat until you start bailing out water. You have to start working hard on the first order changes- and then you can start to change the problems at the core. (You can't really learn to appreciate women in a new way if you are still feeding your brain lies about sex and women.) \n\nMy experience suggests that most people take a stab at some 1st order changes- get a few days or weeks of abstenance, and then go about business as usual and soon find themselves back in the trap.  \n\nMy advice is that there is no quick fix to this problem, you can't buy a software program and make your trouble go away. You need to get ready for a long term battle, a battle that will take you into new territory- but a battle that will help you become someone so much more than you can currently imagine. \n\nGet help from some people with experience- There are some great groups out there dedicated to this. There is power in getting help from people who have been there before. I was afraid of group therapy but I finally decided that going it alone wasn't working. I learned so much from people who had overcome it. Also- I suggest you find a thearpyst (someone who has lots of experience with porn addiction- not some generalist who doesn't understand it).\n\nGood luck- you can overcome- it takes hard work. God Bless!
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My dear, the way that I see it you seem like a "deprived" person in the area of self expression. SO you say, you have a great family and supportive friends. And that you are a social person. Have you ever behaved that way sexually when you were still in your teens?.. or even while you were in your early twenties?\n\nAs to the relationships that you had in the past,  Perhaps you have honestly loved at least one of them. I think that is not the issue. May be you're still in love with one, but something's pulling you back. Just a thought in your mind is quite different from actually doing it. You are not scared of the thought of commitment, but the actual practice of it, I am sorry to say that you still lack it. Who knows, you may have already found her but you just do not realize it?\n\nIt is hard to answer your questions outright because it needs details to be understood. But the way I see it, going for one-night stands is your way of dealing with your self expression. These women are strangers and you pay them for pleasure, so you get to "say" everything and that they will just have to follow. The way I see it, there are things that you want to be done your way and perhaps sometime in the past, things did not happen the way that you wanted them to happen that is why you vent your frustration on a "safe" avenue where you can easily get away with - your sexual activities with multiple women. So you say, it must feel really good. I am sure you are not scared of STDs and AIDS because you're just having fun, right? But what happens when pleasure is over? That, you have to deal with again, and the cycle continues. See, for as long as the root cause is not properly dealt with, this will go on and on and on with your life. This is not a normal guy thing. I suggest you seek professional help about it.\n\nYou've asked this question because you feel that something is not right somewhere. Congratulations, that is a good start.