Why do some see 12 year and below as sex objects? They could married to pretty women.?
369207
most often times when a person is sexually or physically abused a fundamental level of psycological development is missed, not fully cycled through or a person simply stops developing at that point.  Leaving them not only emotionally damaged but psychologically damaged as well.  This damage leads to a damaged idea of self as well as not only an often jaded but confused view of the world around you.  For example if a person is abused when they are preteens then developmentally they can remain there and so when they are older their mind identifies with and is attracted to people of a similar developmental stage, hence preteens... and so on... it is amazingly sad how prevalent sexual abuse is.  I once took a self development class of 88 people and out of the whole room only three had not been sexually abused.  One thing that helped me was to sit and think about and look at the even from an outside point of view and see it for what it was, with out emotion and with out blame.  I came to realize that I knew, there were several points when I knew what was happening was wrong and that it was not what I wanted and that I continued putting myself in the situation out of the desire for affection and the relationship that led to my abuse.  I realized that I had such a hunger to be loved that I was willing to put myself in a bad situation in order to get it and that was where the blame came from, I blamed myself becuase I knew and I allowed it to happen anyway.  Once I was able to sit it for what it was for me, then it was different, but I had to learn, to accept and to move on after that.
492141
Not many young people do understand it perfectly my friend. Many children have a lot of stigma attached and as they grow up they consider girls good only for having sex with.
630383
I am a woman just over 50 and would really like to look like I did 30 years ago, but reality is reality, and I know men just don't tend to look at things that way.  But my hubby assures me that he loves me however I look, so maybe it is mostly single men who think that way, I don't know.  I just know that when he was younger, he and his best friend had alot to say about heavier women and that is where my insecurities come from.  Also, I do see single, older men wanting the younger, thin, sexier appearing women.  Maybe it is an ego thing.  Who kknows why guys think the way they do.  But you do have a good point.  Sometimes I think they just don't think.  They want.
353671
have you seen what they look like once they get fat and old and lose their teeth?\n\nSo sexy when young so the can breed before 25!!! (MOST HAVE 5-7 kids by that age...)\n\nthat's why if a girl is still a virgin at 15 in their culture they'll have a huge party for her
349532
It goes both ways... look at demi moore, cameron diaz,madonna and soooo many other actresses.they r all dating younger men.i think they do tht coz tht makes them feel younger. i dont think age matters in love.im specially attracted to really older guys they must be like 10, 11 yrs older than me. i  think they r really mature n sexy ;)
1131445
I think there's some kind of attraction...and curiosity...but why is it socially acceptable that 80 year old males go with 20 year old females and the other way round is still totally unacceptable?
200737
Because they are seen as sex objects and therefor get laid more often.
531074
Are you kidding? Before puberty? Are you insane? If you're not old enough to hold a job, you're not old enough to have sex and face the risks associated with it. Most 10 year olds think the very idea of sex is gross anyway, but are rather easily coerced. I highly doubt any healthy 10-year-old would consent without coersion which amounts to either rape or prostitution anyhow, so are we going to make these legal as well?
882259
Listen to the song "Miss Me Blind" for the full context.\nBasically, I think they are saying that some people get by on sexiness instead of brains.
465461
Men and women have stronger libidos at different stages in their lives. Ideally a woman in her thirties is a perfect match for a man between 18 and 25!
208225
Absolutely YES! One of my friend loves a women wo is 4 years older than him.\nHe is an independent man ( not mother complex type) and love with her.\nAnd she is not very beautiful, just an ordinary girl.\nIn my country there are 1 selebrity which very handsome married a women 12 years older than him and 9sorry) not pretty. Now they have 1 child and a happy life.\nMe, myself no problem with that or seeing man love older women.
316117
you got it. Its a cultural thing. Its a sin to indulge in pre marital sex. for 18 or more years they are told its wrong to have sex before marriage. You cannot convince them over a few months to change such an instilled value. Unless they agree on their own. And don't you dare go on forcing yourself on them because its not your right to do so.
885435
I don't think 10-12 years is a big deal.  You can look just as good or better then the woman his age, plus your smarter and wiser!  After that I would say time takes a toll!  If it's not the physical appearance your worried about, but maturity, well maturity comes in all ages.  I've seen 20 year olds more mature then 30 year olds and so on....just enjoy what you got!  Hardest part is finding someone you connect with, and you already accomplished that!  ps.It's the perfect age difference for a great sex life-so I heard! LOL
210016
oh good too complicated question...b'coz that is the age when they mature....its sex which makes them to love each other and secondly they want some one to care them between 17 and 25
938605
Maybe they are NOT happily married!\n\nMaybe they want something on the side\n\nMaybe they are curious and want to see if they they still got it.\n\nMay be they are perverts.\n\nThe list is endless.
1011248
I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
81043
seems like it's a fantasy u have. if u are looking for love i c no harm being with a woman 35-40. they are mature, knows what they want.