Why do guys seem  to lose their interest in me after an initial period of showing interest?
372687
Maybe your showing him that your too available too quickly, sit back for a bit don't be too quick to re-act they like to do the chasing or at least think they are..
871519
he changed for you, didn't he? i think he likes you, but he's just too shy to say it. make a move before he looses his interest in you. i really think it's sweet that he changed for you. i wish someone did that for me...anyway, make a move, before someone else does.
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
74517
It's all about the chase. Cut them down to their basest instincts and years of darwinism, Men are the predators and women are the prey because we have something (I won't get specific, I'll let you draw your own conclusions)that they greatly desire. If they are eluded, it makes the desire to attain the unattainable even greater. To keep a man interested, always keep them guessing and never be too available. When they are convinced that the chase is over, they become disinterested and look for something else to pursue.This is just an explanation of the instinct. Not all guys get bored and move on.
544083
you can't you have to listen to your heart\n\nbut a good way to tell is by his reactions whether he seems truly interested with the things you do and if he has changed on the inside.\n\nit sounds like he's avoiding you but he really could just be fishing maybe he feels like you're not really interested guys can be sentimental
998130
If you let a guy know you like them and they do nothing then they are either not interested or too shy to do you much good anyway.  He's a guy, if he's interested all it takes is the hint your interested and he should be on it. If you really really like this guy talk to his friends to find out whats going on. If you hound him you might chase him off. So best bet is just ask one of his friends if he's at all interested. If he is then just let him do the rest. \n\nGood luck.
745325
maybe he's not looking because he feels exactly the way you do. stop the staring contest and talk to him. guys do like personality
578562
It seems like something is bugging him. Whether it be someone else (hopefully not), or he's just not interested anymore, make sure you find out the truth. It somewhat seems like you're not interested either. Talk to him and his friends. Maybe it's just not going to work out. But good luck with whatever happens!
574718
Well.. Ask him out, but you seem overly eager, and that could make the guy lose interest in you.. Try not to come off on him so strong, and try to keep it slow until he sais hes ready for more..  Do not go out with him if its just because of his looks..  Try to realize that guys lose interest when girls want real commitment in the early stages of a relationship, so keep your distance, play hard to get, and good luck.. I hope he finds you interesting/attractive and treats you right
744145
try looking at the positive then negative traits of the guys, chances r you know non of them well enough when they fail to impress you initially. & if that doesn't help then look elsewhere, get involved in new activity to make new friends. Lower your expectation a little to give more space to possible chances.
235737
Guys are shy when it comes to feelings and the like.  Also they don't like to open up unless they are almost positive the feeling is returned, they don't like to be hurt.  Sometimes you just have to coax it out of them.
29712
Too much attention from some guy(s) is not what it is all cracked up to be.\nConcern yourself with your overall betterment and you will meet someone who shares your interests.\n\n\nDon't give yourself away.
95127
I normally don't even notice if I am attracted to a guy until after I get to know him. Also, how he looks to me changes as I get to know him.
760091
It"s true they do get annoyed when you repeat yourself over and over again and they just tune you out. But if he remembers the little things then thats a plus because it means he does have an interest in you.  Guys are not big on remembering the big stuff. why I don't know. but if they remember the little stuff then thats a plus. Don't get frustrated with him just go with the flow unless something really really important gets forgotten I wouldn't worry about it.\nGood luck.
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
228146
Try meeting for lunch or dinner every couple days or even just a drink,that will at least give you time to check on eachother and make sure there is still interest. Call him when u get a minute of free time just to say hi. I dont care what any guy says, they like that.
77625
Oh, it can be hard to tell sometimes. Some guys are very shy and afraid of rejection. They can be so afraid to let their feelings show. \n\nIf they get kinda tongue-tied and quiet around you, that might be a sign. If they keep calling and asking you to do things with them, that's a pretty big sign.  If they give you gifts and remember your birthday, valentine's day, etc.... well, he's yours! Even married guys forget that stuff.\n\nSeriously, if you think he likes you, and you like him back, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM! If he isn't into you, he'll let you know. But don't wait for him to ask you... some guys are so shy it may never happen!