We want to get married but...?
357113
What is the rush? It sounds like you don't really know this guy and that is a risk. Don't you want to know who you are considering spending the rest of your life with. I would urge you to slow down and try and be more objective. Learn as much as you can about him. It sounds like you are caught up in a fantasy about romance. Fantasies and dreams are nice, but what we wind up with is the real world. Put you fantasies aside and look at what is in front of you.
1107031
Depends on what you want really!\nI am planning mine at the moment, so we can learn together! I am having it at a register office. I had to call to book an appointment with the superintendant registrar. They asked me when I wanted to get married and booked it over the phone! Next week we have to take our passports and proof of address to the register office to prove we haven't been married before.\nWe are having the reception at a local pub owned by a friend, and the flowers I am doing. I am buying silk flowers I can keep forever. My friends are making food so we can have a big huge buffet!\nGood luck with your wedding, get in touch with your wedding date if you need any more help!!
440051
Just sit him down and be totally honest, do it before the wedding plans get too far advanced, and might cause a financial conflict...GL;)
430379
you wanna get marriage?
61120
Marriage can be a very beautiful thing when its w/ the right person.  I can hardly wait to marry my fiance.  We live together now and its hard but great.  You have to work at it like everything else in life to make it wonderful.  You get out what you put into basically.
1154231
My husband proposed after we were together for 3 months and we got married a month after that.  We have been together for almost 5 now and happy as ever.\nIf you love him and he loves you (do you guys say you love each other) than I say go for it.\nLove is love and if you know it and you are happy you will make it work, love has no time limit, when it is true and pure the possibilities are endless.\nGood luck!
788395
The next time that he brings it up just tell him point blank you are not ready yet, and if he would just relax a little about it maybe you will feel more comfortable getting married in the future. Just be sure to let him know that you do not want to loose what the 2 of you have now.
995449
If you are Christian yes. But only if you love her , have been knowing her for at least a year or two and are compatible on the important things in life. Sometimes ppl think opposites attract, that relation does not last, because eventually opposites end up hating each other. \nHowever If you really wanted to get married you would not be asking here.\nTHINK OF IT MORE BEFORE YOU PROPOSE
539071
You'll just know. Besides, no one is quite READY for marriage, it's like having a baby--you have to know you want it and then plan for it. When that's in place it's trial by error, so to speak.
1013971
First thing is you sit down and talk to him about what you think marriage is and ask him what he thinks it means to him. Then you ask him if he want to still be married and if he says yes insist on going for counseling. If he says he doesn't want to be married then you have your answer.....you leave.
150566
probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
411246
NO.GO FOR IT! GET MARRIED! HAVE CHILDERN!BE HAPPY!
1184610
Stay strong in God's Word.  The very fact that you are concerned and asking about this is His sign to you that it is not right.  He will lead you to your heart's desire.  When you get married you will find that waiting was THE best thing to do and the RIGHT thing to do and you will have NO REGRETS.  Stay strong and stand firm and you will be blessed.
180480
That is entirely up to you and your partner! Personally, I am married because my hubby and I just wanted to make that commitment, that we 100% wanted to be with only each other for the rest of our lives. Just because we wanted to be does not give us or anyone else the right to stand in judgement and tell you that you have to. If you want to take that step, then by all means do! It's a beautiful feeling to say those words and know that your partner is saying them back to you. But if you feel in your heart that no vows or license is needed to complete your family, don't let society guilt you into doing it just because it's "the right thing to do". Either way, you are already blessed!
418796
It seems that the world is probably against you this day in age with quicky weddings and quicky divorces. Alot of the young couples I know get married really quick without thinking everything through. Call it the "want to be a bride" syndrome. Once you live together and share your lives together...things change. But if you really love each other,have talked everything through, and understand what hard work marriagetakes...you may be happy together forever. Good luck!
601587
Why would anyone ever propose to someone when they do not know if the other person loves them?\n\nThat is getting a bit ahead of the natural flow of things,and marriage is NOT dating so wait until you KNOW it is right.
161195
As of 2/9/06..(subject to change)..I plan to just go to the courts this August to get married that way we can be sure to have a honeymoon wherever we like. \n1. We are 22 & 24 years old. I am a senior in college and he was a victim of Katrinia so we don't have a lot of money to spend.\n2. Also our families are 12 hours away from each other so which ever state we would choose to wed one of our families presence will be limited.\nSo we have decided to have a reception or party after we are married in each state for our family.\n\nHe actually was the one who wanted a big wedding but it didn't matter to me. I rather prepare for our future then to go in to debt because of one day. Some of my family and friends will be upset once they hear this news but unless they are paying for most of it this is how its gonna be. Besides, I have enough student loans!!