is it wrong to mess with some one with a girl friend but the guy is only with her so he can live in her house?
371274
please i fell for this too same excuse everthing, i fell in love with him, now this will either turn out two ways, he will one leave you cause you get too attached to him and he cant jeopardize his relationship with his girl cause he cant live no where else, or he was just lying to you and never plans on leaving her so he is just stringing you along till he gets tired of you, another option will be he decides to leave her and move in with you and freeload off of you honey i say leave his ass now he is no good for you and this will only end in heartbreak ,trust me i been there done that bought the t shirt my heart got stomped on cause he left her to live with me then left me to live with someoone else ,any man who will cheat on his girl is not a man you want, im telling you to save you some trouble run now faster please you wont regret letting him go but you will regret holdin on to him
212816
firsty your gf room mate has no right to say or imply sthing like that its considered blackmail you could go about it in so many ways 1.  you can tell room mate to hold onto to it and fantasise as much as she likes coz ure not prepared to jeprodize your relationship with ur gf.  (the novelty could wear off and she ends up giving it back) 2.  you and gf could engage in sexual activity with room mate it would be the start of "swinging" but the question that u need to ask urself would be r the two of you secure enough in ur relationship to engage in something like sharing each other if ur gf is in anyway bi it could be an experience for the both of u the key to a couple making a decision to engage in that would have to start with communication between the two of you  3.  the room mate would have to understand that it would just be sex and cannot be considered making love making love is shared between two people that love each other 4.  in your situation is evedently clear that your gf room mate does not respect you or your gf your gf should drop her and find a new friend GOOD LUCK
690259
That's bad karma. If you don't think they're right for each other - and i assume that's because you want to be with her?? - then let it be. If you're meant to be with her then it will happen.
577026
it's her choice if she is uncomfortable with strangers in the house, I don't blame her. If they help while you are there with them then yeah it's fine but she shouldn't have to be there with strangers when you're not there. You may think you know these people but they may be thieves or rapist you can never be 100% sure, especially if they are desperate enough for money that they will do chores for you.
809768
There is nothing wrong with it. Just remember that moving in together creates certain joint financial obligations; so make sure she is ready to commit financially and ethically/
153949
If you are stiil messin around with that person and the other person has a girlfriend then that is called cheating.. \nand that is just wrong\n\nYes you may have feelings for him\nbut he has someone else
420436
I can see your concern.  I am assuming that since she is your girlfriend that her "moving in with a guy" is not for a romantic or sexual relationship, but you are afraid that it might lead to that.  If that is not even your concern, you are concerned by how it may appear to others.\n\nYet the Bible doesn't speak directly about sharing an apartment with someone of the opposite sex.  In fact, it goes on to say that people who judge by external appearances are making a mistake (Jn.7:24,Gal.2:6,Col.2:23) so I think you are off-base appealing to her on appearances.  You would be better off telling her why it bothers you that it might lead to a romantic or sexual relationship.  Hopefully she will either reassure you , she may respect how you feel and look for a better living situation.\n\nThis sounds like the first test of trust between two who are going to have a difficult time keeping a relationship that is long distance.
174796
I hope this is a troll and not a serious question.\n\nYES it's wrong.  Trust is a big part of any serious relationship, and by doing this, a woman would be violating one of the most serious trusts she possible could, aside from cheating.
224000
No.. It ain't wrong at all...!!! See, maybe U just passed through this experience because U were confussed, maybe when U started going out with other man U didn't know what U wanted, and U had the opportunity and then U didn't give yourself the chance to get to know a girl to see if it can work out.\nThe only inconvenient I see here, is that U could hurt this girl if she likes U so much or she loves U, maybe if U talk to her about your problem she will accept to see if things can work between U.\nBut try to establish first what U want, and then... try to find out if U can change your preferences and have a straight life.
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
85538
I think it's fine. Sure, there are risks, but it is possible. One of my friends fell in love w/ a guy she never met but fell in love with him anyways. Then, of course, they actually met and have plans to move in with each other very soon. It just depends
893161
yup, i'm in the same position except i'm the girl and my guy friend is just like you. \n\nso...it's not reciprocated? well, i suggest you get out and meet other girls. that's what i want my guy friend to do but he seems to be into me much more. and i know it's not good for him-i love him as a friend, only. \n\nit sounds harsh, but you might have to spend some tim,e away from her...get out into the dating scene. clubs bars etc if you're into that kind of thing. if she has any heart she will encourage you to do the same.
1148573
NO it is not wrong to make a move.  Even if she has a boyfriend.  You should be honest with her and let her know how you feel about her.  It really wouldn't be a move, but letting her know that you have feelings.  If she doesn't like you the same way, she will let you know and you won't have to wonder anymore if it will ever happen.
246346
No i don't think it's wrong as long as it's not ur girl friend and he really like her that's all that matters.\np.s. i'm a female and i'm about to be 15 in may.
611276
You are not her friend if you are trying to steal her man! There is no way that you can still be friends with her and take her man.  And you call yourself her best friend......that's wrong on so many levels.  I hope she whoop yo a*s*s
411076
DO YOU REALLY NEED TO ASK?OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT THE BEST IDEA.IT MIGHT BE FUN AT FIRST BUT I GUARANTEE THERE WILL BE COMPLICATIONS.FOR EXAMPLE DO YOU WANNA MAYBE END UP WITH HER?WHAT IF YOU DO END UP TOGETHER AND SHE DOES THE SAME TO YOU?AND EVEN IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH HER SOMEONE ELSE DOES AND THATS JUST MEAN TO DO TO HIM.
644948
Thats not right I would confront them both and kick them both to the curb if they are messing with eachother cuz they are both losers that is no kind of friend or boyfriend to have.They obviously dont care about your feelings if they were even risking to get caught by you in the back of your house I mean come one well atleast you know what kind of friend and boyfriend you got