i really like this guy i dated for 4 mos. We broke up.he still calls me. does he miss me and want me back?
372440
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
694277
I think that if you to broke up, it is a good idea to see why.. I went threw this before. You should avoid all contact with him for a few weeks no matter how hard it will be. Then in two weeks if you feel the same way then talk to him about it. Usually when he is writing or texting to you it is his way of checking on you. of Course he does not want to see you with anyone else or being happy without him. It is normal to MISS someone you spent alot of time with but take a few weeks for your self. You will be happy you did.
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.
583685
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
283105
wow i'm sort of in that situation now. not quite as far tho. well, didn't you two split for a reason? i think you should consider those reasons again and see how it might be different if you were to get back together again. another thing, he "bumped" into you. he didn't call you. could it be that he's trying to find an exit to his current unhappy relationship and he knows it's easy to get back with someone familiar? i would think hard before even allowing him back into your love life. to be on the safe side, it never hurts just to be friends. and don't ever seem too available. if he really wants you back, make him work for it! good luck.
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
795511
He does like you and it is probably "comfortable" to be affectionate with you.  Does that mean he is wanting you back-who knows, he might not even know for sure.maybe  he was testing the waters to see how you would respond.  Don't confess all yet (I love you so much), give it some time and see if you get any more feelings or if he continues spending this kind of time with you.  You'll know soon if you two need to talk or if its going no where.  Remember, the was a reason you broke up.  Don't jump in heart over head.  Only you can tell yourself what to do.  Good luck
1154646
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
872237
Does it really matter?  At this point, does it really matter if he wants to call you back or not?  Sounds like you two aren't exactly 'meant to be'.  Or.. I dunno'.  I could be wrong.  Maybe you're perfect for one another.  (Btw, that wasn't supposed to be an insult.  Well.. for the most part it wasn't..)  \nTo answer your question though:  Don't hold your breath.
231205
Have you told him you want him back? Also, I think it would be a good idea if you told him you can't stop thinking about him. Make sure to say your sorry and that you were confused. Tell him that you will not hurt him if he gives you a second chance.\nGood Luck Girl!
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
822139
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
878367
Of course he loves you. If you want things to work out, then leave him alone. He's asking you to so respect that. As much as you want to be with him, if you don't leave him alone now, he will think your annoying and not want to get back with you. I know that it hurts, but really if you give him space and time to think and gather himself, he will come back.\n\nFirst thing you have to do, is stop calling him. I know its tough, but trust me. Stop calling him. He's going to wonder why you haven't and start calling you to hang out with you and find out why you've been so busy. Second thing, STOP CRYING. You want a man to be with you b/c he loves you not because he pitys you. Don't you want a man who wants to be with you for you and not because he feels bad for you? Of course. Third thing, get busy. You have to make sure your are constantly busy. Hang out with the girls. Go live your life for a little bit.\n\nIf you have him wondering about you, he'll realize that he made a mistake. You can't go trying to beg him to take you back, when you really didn't do anything. You have to let him see that. He broke up with you, let him be the one that comes chasing you back. Make sure you look extra cute when he comes around or you know you are going to see him, even if you are going to sleep, LOOK YOUR BEST. Last but not least, KINDNESS KILLS. Always look happy and be extra kind. \n\nYou will get him back.
812941
you should've never called him back. he should be the one chasing you, not the other way around.\n\nanyway, no worries... do it now... don't call him anymore. sever all forms of communication. he's just wasting your time and causing unnecessary stress. if he does call you, tell him it's over. the reason being he's an a--hole. to disregard your feelings is crossing the line. if he doesn't call you, you needn't call him to tell him it's over. just keep that thought in your mind and try to move on. call some friends, seek comfort from them, try to keep yourself preoccupied so that you wouldn't have him on your mind.\n\nthen if it's finally official, you can go on dating other guys. you deserve someone better.
389873
First of all, stop sitting around waiting on him to want you again.  He is trying to control you.  Whether you are over him or not, you can still "move on."  Don't wait on him.  When he finally decides to call, reverse those rolls.  Tell him that you got a date, but when you need one, you will call him.
1081223
Despite what he said, it doesn't sound like he is ready to get back together with you.  It doesn't sound like he can put in the time he would need for you to have a meaningful relationship.\n\nI would forget him and move on.