How do i get a girlfriend?
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If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend. \n \n   \n \n  \n  Steps:  \n1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.  \n  \n  \n  Tips:  \n Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.  \n  \n  \n  Warnings:  \n Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.
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Well, not sure what you want to know. First you should just work on getting a girl friend
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Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
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Try to make new and different friends... hang out with new people, and then when you meet their friends, thats where you will probably find a new girlfriend...
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Don't use the internet.   Go out and do things that you enjoy doing.   It can be anything from Bowling to Church to hanging out at a local club.   Socialize and make friends in the area that you live.   Meeting a girlfriend through a friend or work is the most common way people meet people.  Be yourself and just enjoy making friends.   The rest will fall into place.
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Well just try your best to go out more...hang out with your guy friends...Don't worry about finding a g-f so bad if you try too hard to look for a girlfriend you might rush into things...they will turn out all bad and then you will be back at square one...When its your time the right girl will come to you...If you got somewhere and then mentioned your ex...maybe you still have feelings for her...do you? How long has it been...do you NEED a girlfriend right now? I think you should focus on yourself and have fun. Are you still young? Do you like to party?  Go out and have fun,..\n--I'd like to hear from you.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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How about making friends first? If you want a "real" girlfriend, you both need to get to know each other first. Increase your friend circle and take it from there.\n\nAnd I do agree with "knowsalot". Please do grow up... go out into the real world.
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
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u have to be subtle maybe ask her out somewhere as a friend then spend more time together and let her get to know the real you then eventually ask her out on a date but only if you feel shes ready to go on a date and likes you back then come out and say u look really nice and keep complimenting her but not too much and if she compliments back then ask her to be your girlfriend
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just listen to ur heart or listen to me:\n1: tell her how you feel\n2: get her a bf b4 she gets u a gf
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Get a girlfriend.  Then it isn't illegal!
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If you want a relationship with a girl then just ask her out. If she won't go out with you then suggest that the two of you get together with each others' friends and hang out. Once you get to know each other she just might say yes. And one more tip, be yourself ALWAYS!!! We want the truth from the get go. Females don't want a lie.
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Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
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I'd say first develop a really good friendship with the person and their friends.  That's how I got my girlfriend.  That makes asking her out easier for you and her because you both know each other well enough to date.\n\nIf you can't wait too long, as in you have an upcoming dance with her, just ask her if you want to hang out sometime.  May I suggest seeing a movie?  You won't be talking as much, but it can help develop a friendship as well.  Going out to eat, such as Applebee's, also helps out.\n\nDating with friends helps everything!\n\n[troy]
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Then get a girl first................................
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time to find a girlfriend