What do you do if theres a guy that has liked you for sooo long, but you dont like him back?
372954
be his friend even though you don't want him as he does you I know he will be your best friend if you let him know up front i cant have this relationship with you but I would love to have you in my life. Men are persistent but if you give them a boundary they will push on it but stay where they should. you can always use a friend.
1098070
keep him on the back burner dont cut him off completely but deal wit him on your terms
448676
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
209368
You won't accomplish anything by ingnoring him. In fact, if he wants to get back with you, this will worsen his condition, and will look for you even more. But if you are asking us what you should do, then for sure you still like him. Because otherwise you would just have disappeared from his life.
90428
do you like him back? if not just ignore him he'll figure it out eventually. you could date someone else then he'll probly say something!
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
359842
Tell him you're flattered but that you don't think of him in that way.\nTell him that you've known him for so long now that you just can't see him in that way.\nBe nice about it & don't give him any hope that you may change your mind in the future, just be nice to him about it.\nIt takes a lot of nerve to tell someone you like them, respect that he probably worked up the courage to tell you for ages & don't hurt his feelings.
1154424
Tell him!\n Five years is a long time. He either likes you back, or not. Either way you have to move on.\nremember that we all tend to exaggerate our personal appearances.
479701
There is a round about method to get out of this.  Treat him like a friend and confide to him that you like someone else.  He will realize your interested in someone and not him and yet you won't have brought his feelings for you into the open and will have given him a way out.
839497
believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
979501
who gives a shit if he dosnt like you anymore, get over it, you cant get him back, so get off your sad sorry for yourself ass and do something w/ your life...find someone else, there are plenty more guys out there, stop worrying about this one, its not worth it.
917696
Ask him, and if he doesn't like you, then move on, it is the best thing to do.
367410
Well if he likes someone else, then forget him. He's busy. Go find someone who is crazy about you.
141358
Do you like him back? If you don't then you ahve nothing to worry about. If you like him, then discuss this with your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
224207
ummmmm... be nice but firm. lay the hammer down\n if u don't like him say no.\n if u like him say yes. the worst thing u can do is tell him u like him when u don't. ok
1109792
I'm not a "boi" but if you really like a "boi" then don't give up on trying to date him. If he REALLy doesn't like you at all, it's time to move on. There's a fish in the sea for everyone!
482623
try the whole 'hard to get' thing..if he 'knows' you like him, but u somehow prove him wrong, he'll prolly like you right back, in whihc case u can let him know u DO like him