girls, do it bother u when ur bf/man looks at other women walking by in mini skirt?
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It doesn't bother me. The main reason is because \n1.)I know my man is faithful to me\n2.) I think the girl is pretty hott too
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I think every woman can look at another woman thinking wow she looks nice. ( I like her hair, body, bootie, whatever.) I have no problem saying to my husband damn that girl is cute. Although I know when it comes to intimacy I want to be with a man. \nSo just ask yourself if you are just admiring other woman? Or do you think you would prefer to be intimate with one rather than a man? In your heart you should know... Be proud of who you are! :)
365647
some women don't realize that short skirts may get them attention but the wrong kind... others wear short skirts to get men's attention and then hope their personality will do the rest.
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I do too. It annoys the hell out of me. What I usually do when I'm walking with someone I know who does that is that I tell him/her in a nice way that I'm not comfortable with it so he/she won't do it again whenever we're together or even when he/she is alone. And if someone whom I don't know does that, I would just give them the kind of look that says "what you're doing grosses me", I'm not sure if it works... hopefully it does... Ü
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You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
1080644
Most guys do it, and some women do too (I admit to looking at hot guys).  It's normal.\n\nI'm going to see this from both point of views:\nYou don't like it when he checks out other girls.  He knows you're uncomfortable with him when he does it.  Yet, he continues to do it and hurts your feelings.  He shouldn't be hurting your feelings.  \nHe feels he's been attacked for looking at other girls when it's normal for him.  He's suddenly on the defensive and gets hurt by you because you don't trust him.  \nSo there's two hurt to every side.  Does he love you? Do you really trust him that he's only looking and not touching?  If you can't find a resolution and keep fighting about the same subject over and over and over again, then I would suggest breaking up.  Because if you can't find a resolution to your fight, then you'll never be able to settle other fights peacefully.
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This is normal male behavior.  Be honest, you looked and noticed she was "hot" too.  We all look at other people.  Don't make a big deal out of nothing.  If he's doing more than looking, or looking online and in magazines then, I might move on.  If he's not happy looking at you, the real thing, then you don't need to stay in his sights.
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My BF looks and he is not subtle about it at all!!! It bothers me with him which is weird because it never bothered me with other guys. But I think it is because he is not subtle about it he cuts off in mid-sentence to look at some girl, I haven't figured a way around him looking or my jealousy over it. Sometimes I say outrageous things to get his attention but it hasn't worked so far. I think I will just buy him some dark sunglasses so at least  I won't notice as much.
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no it's not wrong to think another guy is cute, u just dont compare him with your bf that can cause a problem.
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Yes.  As a man when I look at another women I'm checking her up and down and if I see she is looking I quickly look away.  If the woman saw that and came up to me and started talking I'd lay on the moves and try and get her somewhere private.\nAll men with exceptions of course will try and think and do the same.
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My husband looking at other women.
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It's not normal to check out other girls all the time in front of your girlfriend. It's disrespectful.
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I think they all do it.  If you don't approve of it, tell him.  He might stop.  \nI told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.  \nAs far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
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It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
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I know some guys think that'd be cool, so they can say Look who I'm dating ... but I wouldn't want other guys watching my girl naked lol
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Yes--I would be upset because it messes with your self-esteem, But.. Hes a Guy! Guys do that ! NO matter how much you dont want to believe it, they look, when they are with you or without you.. THey peek.. They Glance.. It happens!Its not about disrespecting you.. GIrls peek too, I mean.. we dont really look for butts, but we look for cute faces, and it doesn't hurt to sneak a peek. It doesnt mean you WAnt that person, and It doesnt mean your boyfriend wants to be with her, hes just looking. If he loves you, then he loves you and no one can take your place. So, yes, Its understandable to be upset, but.. dont argue with him about it.. Unless Hes Gawking, Staring, Drool slipping out.. Lol.
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Sometimes.  If it's something unique, or really highlights her best qualities, then yes.  But ordinarily, no.\n\nIt's the girl who makes the clothes, not the other way around.  We don't care about your clothes, and frankly, we would prefer that you weren't in them much of the time.  Only when you make your clothes look really good should you expect a guy to take notice.