i want to be able to pleasure my partner any good ideas i would be most greatfull i mean in a sexualiy way?
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Sexually, everyone is different. I would suggest you ask what uyour partner likes and if this is too emabressing for you, simply go by trial and error. Experiment a little and see what gives your partner pleasure by facial expressions etc. Some people prefer calm and relaxing intercourse others like it much more risque. Experiemnt, and good luck!
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Everyone has different likes and different moods.  Sometimes I like intimate and romantic other times I like wild and kinky.  Just have to learn what your partner enjoys and hopefully you like the same thing.
820879
If you really want to stay with this guy then you can work around the sexual problem.  There are many ways to gain your pleasure if you just play around a bit.  Step outside the box and do things a bit differently.  Always remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side.  Sounds like you have found a great guy.  We all have faults.  No one is perfect.  Good Luck!
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give full attention to pleasure of your partner.
302540
first time sex is challenging (esp if both of you are doing it the first time)...  and it depends on to both of you.  try to please your partner in your way... he may appreciate the effort, just don't overdo it.  better yet, read magazines and browse through some websites.... and read also on stuffs on "how to please your partner"... \n\nalso, try it the naughty and teasy way.... try experimenting on how you'll start it off the sweetest way (how about putting some chocolate syrup on your partners body and lick them off until it's gone).... remember to take it slowly (but surely) play with it (fore play... but not too long huh!)...
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i think that maybe you should start off slowly, do things that arouse you mate, kiss and touch and explore make her feel good and i promise that it will come naturally, PLAN B\nwatch a good porn.
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be gentle, use alot of tongue, and try different moves, ask him what feels good, while your doing it.
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Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
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Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
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your perfect obidience in every way. if that is already given then maybe a new impliment. new clothing. a nice new muzzle gag. im sure if you think hard enough you can figure out a way to please your DOM.
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WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
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sometimes for a woman - the sexual enjoyment starts more with a mental stimulation then moves to the physical side. You need to learn to clear your mind, relax and turn your mind to sexual pleasure. I don't mean think about what to do to your man to please him - I mean think about what pleases you - what are your fantasies - what little thing that you or your lover does that just sends you over the top. Work this little thing into your mental fantasy - hopefully this will put your mind in the right mood - believe me if your mind is into it - your body will do just fine. Good luck and happy "O"'s to you!
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If the two of you are intimate, then I would suggest that you learn all about Kegel techniques and then practice them until you've perfected them. When accomplished, exercise those PC muscles daily. Believe me, you'll end up being the best toy he's ever had or ever dreamed about!\nGood luck!
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well, that all depends... but here are a few that work well for me.\n\ngirl on top, lean up a little so your clit rubs against his skin and grind into him (just like manual stimulation!)\n\ndoggie style and have him rub your clit, or you rub it, or use a vibrator.\n\ngirl on top.. face his feet and squat. lean forward enough that your clit rubs against his balls.\n\nlay down on your stomach. have him come in from behind like doggie style, but laying on top of you. this way, you can grind your clit into the bed/pillow/a vibrator\n\ndon't be afraid to experiment with positions or ask him to rub your clit.. better yet.. just put his hand there.. don't be afraid to touch yourself.. and don't be afraid to use toys.  when you find things/positions that help you get off... make sure you let your man know!
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You should do something to her orally.  Try letting her sit on your face.  Lick her and play with her at the same time, guaranteed amazing orgasm that she won't soon forget.
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Well I believe it is very important to please your partner...For me,   oral is one of the most satisfying ways...as long as the you communicate to the person what you like....
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Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!