In sex, is eating cheating? think about it?
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well if bill says oral isnt, i guess its not then
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yes it is cheating and you ought to be mad for if sheloves you sheought not to go down with anybody be it male or female
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I'm a 'giver' not a swallower, so my knowledge, experience and advice is, um, second hand.  However, having said that, I offer several thoughts.\n- I've understood diet can alter the taste of semen/sperm.  The healtier the food taken in by the man, the more 'delicious' the orgasmic product.  Take a look at what is consumed, then infer how the body 'acts' on that, and what the byproducts would be.  You can be sure that the better foods are better for you for good reasons.  Wow, another GOOD reason to be health-conscious.\n- Believe you CAN accept what he is giving you is GOOD for you.  there really is an exchange going on.... you are giving him a great deal of pleasure, you are into it, you are choosing to do this, you might even greatly desire to do it.... all to your credit.  Add your own belief, in yourself, to the mix.  Your belief brings satisfaction to what you are doing, and your belief that what HE is giving you in return (both his orgasm, and the product OF his orgasm) are gifts for you to cherish.\n- Deepthroating.  Seriously.  Said and meant without ANY intent to offend anyone.  Depending on his size/length, your persistance in practicing (yes PRACTICE!) and your own physical capability.... deepthroating (taking the head of the penis into your throat) especially during ejaculation can get your body to the point of avoiding the taste altogether (or GREATLY reduce it).  Um, he will kinda/sorta really like it when you do it this way too.  <hint>\n\nI believe someone mentioned 'spitting'.... and if you truly CANNOT stomach the taste, well, FIRST discuss things, let your partner know what you think, how you feel, what you are (and are not) willing to do and why.  I can tell you this though, a woman who spits is really depriving the guy of a hell of a lot of pleasure, if not intense completness, satisfaction, happiness, etc....  Everyone does have to make the choices that are best for them..... As a compromise, one possibility is to 'spit' for a while (an agreed-upon timeframe) to give you the chance to be going 'so-far' while you are getting comfortable and adjusting, while he's adjusting, etc....   Thus you've got a known point in time where it becomes real swallowing, or a total stopping of the activitiy.\n\nBest of luck, for I truely wish you well.
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Personally I think the main reason guys cheat is that they are looking for something they are not getting at the present.  It may not always be about sex but perhaps more along a more robust converstation or possibly just the personality altogether.  Many will not break up with the current gf until they have secured the next relationship.
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I certainly couldn't argue with your sexual prowess, having no personal experience with you from which to draw from. So I'll start by just believeing that it's at least close to being true.\n\nWhy does he cheat? You say you only do what he asks you to do. I find this statement somewhat odd and I am not sure exactly what you mean by it. Without more information it's hard to give you a "real" answer but, here are a few possibilites (I'm not implying that any of them or all of them are true.)... Maybe he feels neglected in other areas of the marriage? Maybe he married young and feels like he missed out on being single? Maybe he disagrees with your statement regarding "sexual prowess"? Maybe he is going through a mid-life crisis?\n\nIt's hard to give you a good answer without more information. Post more details or drop me an email, I'll help if I can.
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Um, to the technicality dude above, if you are in a relationship, whether married or dating, then it IS cheating.
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My boyfriend does a similar thing - but I am pleased he is honest with me. It's when they pretend they're not doing it - and become secretive that there is a problem. If he was to cheat - he would not make it so bloody obvious that was his intentions. Start doing it back to him - have a laugh. Me and my boyfriend used to work together and we both had top five's of the opposite sex in the office. It's made us close, maybe he feels like you're his friend - which means he feels comfortable saying 'Ooh, 9/10 she's hot!' You're obviously his 11/10 - so I wouldn't worry honey.
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So does my bf, i just eat it, I love it. It really turns me on that I turn him on that much.\n\nYou have nothing to worry about, he obviously fancies you very much!
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All of these women are right... it depends on the guys diet... But.. if you love your partner and want to please him then you do this for him anyway. It's a small consolation, most women really don't think about it to tell you the truth. Don't ponder this question my friend, just be glad that we (women) love you guys enough to do it. lol
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OH MOST DEFINITELY!! if he didnt want to cheat, he wouldnt have drunk. and he would not have put himself in that situation. the only way having sex with someone is not cheating is if it was rape.
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No, Never did I cheat or even think about it. It is wrong to think that way with your spouse. If your going to do that than leave...K
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Are you taking care of your man at home? Most men who have healthy sexual relationships at home do not cheat. When women withold sex from their partners they will seek what they want elsewhere. if you have no solid evidance of him cheating,  stop looking for him to cheat and make his time with you extra special.\n\nIf he offers it to you and you do not want it, he may give it to someone else.
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If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
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Actually the statements about cheaters is not necessarily true. \n\none question to consider is how much time do you spend with him? is your week so booked you see him only at night before bed or do you make a consious effor to share 15 hours per week alone together. \n\nlike it or not both side in a marriage have 5 basic "NEEDS" if the needs go unmet then one side feels {cheated.}\nwhile just about every one knows men want sex. ( yep it's high on the basic needs list) rarely do people understand the other 4 basic needs they have for emotional stability. \nif your not providing all 5 then a void is open for another person to step in and fill the responsibility that is rightfully yours. the same holds true for men and their wives. \n\nyou can also learn his unique (love language) this is how he interpets (your actions twords him) as love. if he has a quality time ( love language) buying him gifts is not going to convince him that you love him. only time together will do this, \n\nGod Bless
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I've always heard that if a guy buys new underwear that they are definitely cheating.\n\nI know it sounds weird.  I guess the biggest thing is how deep is your relationship?  If it is just based on sex what do you expect?  Of course he's gonna cheat because if you spend all your time on sex and not on actually developing a relationship, there will be nothing else to attach him.  He'll get bored.\n\nI guess, however, the best advice I could ever give is this: Just talk to him about your feelings.  This isn't a secret coded Cloak & Dagger, CSI game.  Geesh, I think sometimes we forget to just have fun and live life.  \n\nHope this gives you some help.
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Health-wise there is nothing wrong with this unless he is infected in which case you are probably already in trouble even if you didn't swallow.\n\nRelationship wise, many many men want this and many many women are reluctant to do it.  If you are willing to do this as an act of love, the way most guys think, it will only improve your relationship.
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Depends on how you look at it. If you consider only intercourse is cheating, then obviously NO. However, if you think that intimacy of any kind is cheating, then YES. If you feel bad about it you should probably not do it!