what should i tell him?
362988
just quit responding to his emails and ignore his IMs.
302035
just tell him what you want
932267
Just tell him that you know whats happening, nothing heavy, and tell him if he needs someone to talk to or anything else then you're there for him.\nDont be surprised if he doesnt want to talk about it - guys like to bury their heads in the sand about such things, but as long as he knows you're there for him that will at least know he has someone there should he need someone
758750
Tell him what you just told us and if he is willing to change then maybe try and work it out, but if he isn't then dump him.
670958
tell him...be honest with him...that is the best way!
1020942
I'd tell him I like him then ask how his wife is.  Seriously though, ask him why he's lying about himself on the internet.  Saying he is married and looking is not going to get him anywhere.  Or hey it could have been a mistake!
1158709
Just be honest and talk to him about the things you said and how you were feeling at the time. That way if she says anything, he has already heard it from you. Good luck.
458482
Tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy.\nBetter he hears it from a friend than an enemy.
763615
well, for starters...open your mouth and practice the art of communication! What you said here is perfect for letting him know!\n\nGood luck!
252975
tell him how you feel
868356
Just tell him you like him.  Being honest is the best thing and will get you far.
449661
you should tell him ALL about yourself..everything\nevery last detail..even the smallest stuff..because I bet he would be very interested in learning about you and your life and what you have been through...\n\nplus tell him what you are looking for in the near future as well are the FUTURE..\nhe may also be interested in that too.\n\nand to keep things going.. tell him what you like to talk\nabout and maybe what you do not.....\n\nmaybe give him a detailed explanation of YOU..your looks..and so forth..\nI bet he loves to talk to you too.\nbut do not do it all in one email\ndo not overwhelm him..\neven though I bet he loves to ask questions I bet he loves to listen too...\nmaybe this guy is a real nice guy..for sure...\n\nand what am I doing  tonight...just watching TV and reading my emails and looking around the Internet......talking to new friend....\nGood luck\nand God Bless\nsmile
88213
Is it necessary to tell him?\n\nIf you tell him, realize that it is for him, not you.  Also realize that it may help him, and may just as easily hurt him.\n\nAll you need to do to for yourself is keep busy doing positive things with your life.  There is no reason for you to have time for him.  Enroll in some courses to learn new things and meet new people.  Get caller ID.
786472
let him tell you first
779589
Just be honest with him. Tell him it's not working out and that you can't see it going any further. Just don't use the lines, "it's not you it's me", "lets just be friends", or "lets start seeing other people". That will be devestating. Just tell him the truth about why it isn't working and answer his questions honestly and don't press the issue on him and give him space.
547674
you could tell him. if you tell him be nice about it.\nor you could do what i did and ignore the guy.
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel