how do you tell whether a girl is straight or a lesbian?
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look at her in the eyes, like when a guy looks at you. (if you are a girl). see her reaction...
288000
Heck. I'd prefer a lesbian. Bi-girls are pretty great, too.\n\nBut there's always the opportunity to convert straight girls and win that toaster oven.
750546
Just repeat the following over and over: "If I'm not attracted to women, then I'm not a lesbian." Hopefully it'll sink in.
585794
OK SO YOU R NOT A LESBIAN RIGHT?\nWELL WHEN A GIRL LOOKS AT YOU TELL THEM YOU ARE NOT GAY AND DO NOT LIKE THEIR STARES.
1048141
I dont think you can ask her to become a lesbian.  Like "hey you wanna be a lesbian with me". If shes not a lesbian already shes not a lesbian.
1150696
A lesbian is a gay woman. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being lesbian. It sounds like you may well be lesbian. Everyone does NOT hate gay people. It's just popular to bash on them just now. Look for support - the straight/gay alliance in High Schools would be a good thing, and you should look on the net for lesbian/gay resources. Gay people have been on this planet forever. You're fine - try cybering with a lesbian once... it's more honest.
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The only way to find out is to take small steps toward experimenting.  Take some time and get to know some girls that you know are bi or lesbian.  Hang out with them see what happens.  If you are unsure about that then just go hang out online at a place like anywebcam.com and get to know some of the girls on there and see if it interests you.  There is no harm is looking or even trying.
398653
If you find her attractive.....then no, you are not gay\n\nIf you like her music.....then yes, you are gay
989399
Good question.  Theoretically you can be one from birth, but you wouldn't really know since you're not thinking of sex that young.  To know you're a lesbian (or straight, or bi, or into sheep, or whatever) would take a knowledge of love and/or sex at some level and the realization that you're interested in other women (again, or whatever).  I'd venture to say you might be able to figure it out before elementary school's over.  Then again you might not figure it out until you're in your golden years.
95920
Learn how to tell the difference between liking a girl and wanting to get in her pants.
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Test 1\n\nGive a guy a long look - if he starts back "What U lookin' at?" - he's straight.\n\nTest 2\n\nlook him up and down (making sure he sees you do it) and smile - if he smiles back at ya - he may be gay.
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Lol. Hi. I am lesbian, I must look good to guys because a lot of them keep hitting on me. So no, you can not tell, and in the end, it does not matter. If she is a lesbian and you approach her as a friend, she may be perfectly happy to be your friend. I have a lot of straight guy friends. But if you want more than that, she will just be flattered and let you know you are knocking at the wrong door. Either way, it is fine. After all, gay people and straight people are only people. :)
351365
TALK, thats always a good starting point. and if she is lesbian and you are a guy you have the wrong equipment and she might be friend but dont get too excited and wet your panties.
628136
Figure which is more important, the friendship you have or the special feeling you feel about her. If friendship, you best keep it inside you(although it's really hard) It might be better for you to find out whether you're really straight or not.
689502
Look in the dictionary for the word LESBIAN
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Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
580469
Being attractive does not depend on being lesbian or straight. I know pretty straight girls and pretty lesbians. The reason why you think there are more pretty straight girls is ecaue since, numerically, there are more straight girls, statistically, there are more pretty straight girls BUT there are more ugly straight girls than lesbians too. There are less ugly lesbians than ugly straights and less pretty lesbians than pretty straights just because there are less lesbians in the first place.\nDon't worry you'll find the pretty lesbians too...\nGod luck!;)