what should u do if you make plans with a girl and the never show or call ?
373558
If they stand you up, move along. Flighty and irresponsible. If grown ups are late or can't make it, they call and let you know. Only immature folks leave the waiting party hanging. Now if she calls in a week or two and tells you an immediate family member died, maybe give her a break. Other than that, your boots are made for walking, not standing around. ;)
543929
Try to hold off reacting until you get a chance to see them a little better.\n\nNever make a decision the same day.  Always sleep on it.
166701
i say go with it and just tell her, i mean dont wait for a tommorrow that may not be there. trust me, im a soldier ive seen tommorrow fail to arrive
125129
go ahead and ask her out.  she might have already had plans for v-day and that's why she said no.  if she says no a 2nd time, don't ask her again.
389256
quick, call him and ask him to go to a fun movie with you. Make the first move, and have fun. That way if you do go and its fun- might want to hang out again. And those lies will dissolve. If he's a bore- you know right off the track. And you don't have to talk about him ever again.
1083876
As far as I can see, she is really confused! She hasn't come to a conclusion yet if she wants for a friend or something more. Instead of waiting her when she will decide, MAKE YOUR MOVE! What I mean by that? MAKE HER JEALOUS! Invite her going out with a girl you like and ask her to help you!!! Imagine her face! Ha! Get your revenge now and SHE WILL BE YOURS!!! By ignoring her, you make her to decide faster because she will fear that may lose you!!!
811664
talk to your girlfriend if she isnt hoonest then shes using u as her rebound
641569
talk with him and hang out with him. I mean if you have his phone number trying calling at 8pm and talk for an hour. if he is busy, you can hear what kind of reason he is giving. Mainily "oh i got another phone call, can i call you back or talk later" just do this for a few nights. If he keep stoping the talk at 9pm every night, then he has a girl that he is calling or the girl is calling him.
218116
The next day. If you met her in the evening, call her the next afternoon. As someone above said, don't call her after 9pm, & don't call before noon in case she likes to sleep in. =)
149880
Let her have her space. If she wants to be with you, she will come and get you. Most woman do not want a lost puppy tagging along or to feel like they are being sufficated. Stand back as hard as it might be fight the urge to see her. She will call you if she wants you. If she doesn't call then move on with your life. Don't play the part of the fool even if you are one.
766530
Well thats kind of a difficult question to answer - it all depends on your situation! Did you call her first? Sometimes girls just wait for the guy to call them....
802572
Don't show up at her job. Try to wait for her outside of the school, when he is out of her job. Don't forget the flowers. That wouldn't be creepy. I'd call it a nice surprise. If she says no I don't want to see you and you still show up again - yeah, that would be creepy.
216452
if they are not dating you dont have a problem but tell her before she finds out from someone else!because that can cause problems
845334
If you text her you plan to say something tomorrow. She would know that it must be about your feelings for her. There are always two sides in a coin. She might hide from you if she does not like your persona or she may see you if she would be willing to give you a chance. Why not just surprise her? Anyway, what is 5 minutes of her time? Why not talk to her now? Better yet, just call her on her cellular phone.
501018
Don't just call up to ask her out. Call to talk. Tell her that you miss her. See what she says. \n\nIf she agrees then great, ask her out! \n\nIf she says she is dating someone, then give her some time to deal with the current situation and if she wants to see you she can call. \n\nIf she says that she doesn't miss you, then you know the answer. \n\nYou can't just take her power away. It is her decision. Just tell her you miss her and want to see her. Then she can decide where and when. \n\nIf you have to decide, then think back. What is her favorite thing to do? That is what you should do. If you can't think of anything, then make her a kid again. Take her skating or for a picnic in the park. Be creative. I have no clue where you live to give you specific tips and there isn't a definite that I would know of anything specific. \n\nGood luck!
1124331
do it on the first date and get it over with. If she still wants to see you --great.\nif not---it wasn't meant to be.
471949
maybe she doesnt answer it because your being to clingy.  Perhaps not calling her, will actually get her to call you.