We having distance relationship.?
362297
you are truely astonishing! \n\ni mean 12 yrs being into a relationship without the committment of marriage is quite a patience thing! \n\ni think your guy needs some expert counselling, try taking him with you to some expert just a casual meet maybe and discuss it with him... i dont see any other problem with him! \n\nbut i truely appreciate your love for him ! wish every guy gets a partner like you ...
648664
Long distance relationships CAN work!\nMy cousin's friend met her husband while she was touring in Europe and they emailed each other and spoke on the phone for another two years before they saw each other again.\n8 hours distance really isn't that much in comparison and I think perhaps he's just being a little pessimistic and lazy.\nSpeak to him, and if he's agreeable, set a time where you see each other maybe twice a month... find a place that is halfway between your houses and spend a nice weekend at a motel or something.  If it is true love it will work out eventually where you both are in the same place at the same time.\nGood luck! :)
868796
My dear, i am in the same situation as you. my BF is 600km away. we are still studying and only meet once every 4 to 5 months. we keep our relationship more like a best friend relationship rather then a love relationship. The most importand of all is the word TRUST. with it you will be sucessful. We have been in a long distance relationship for more then 3 years now and we will be getting married end of next year. \n\nMy dear, I really want you to suceed. many people around you will discourage you saying that because he is not by your side,you will break up soon. dont believe it.  if i can make it. you can too. just trust him. do more emails to him. sms him more. call him more. send you pictuers to him via MMS or email. let him know how much you love him.\n\nI wish you all the best.
78264
Long distance relationships are VERY difficult. You have to be able to trust the other person without question. I'm speaking from experience! To make it work you have to get to know each other first, and make the effort to see each other as often as possible. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but in some instances it forgets. Just be careful.
989002
distance either makes the heart grow fonder...or makes the heart wander...it would be hard not having him around, but try love conquers all boundaries, including distance..this is your challenge to know if this is meant to be..hang in there and have faith in his love for you. Whatever happens happens for a reason. \n\nGood Luck
1158565
I was in a long distance relationship for more than two years - we lived an hour apart - & at first we talked all day too & were together whenever we could be - but the last 9 months or so he stopped callin - it tapered off to once a day, then only once a week & we didn't spend so much time together - well, he ended the relationship a month ago with no explanation, just an e-mail. \nSo it sounds like even tho ya'll love each other, you are starting to drift as we did - it happens & it's hard to keep it from going south unless one of you can change to spend more time together. I was the only one making the effort there, too, for a long time - I drove to see him, never the other way around. I don't know - you may have to let this one go & move along. It bites, I know. Good luck.
282287
Keep the communication lines open.  I know it's difficult maintaining a long distance relationship.  My first long distance relationship didn't work.  My second one did.  I married the second one and 3 years later, we're still very much in love and happy.  Don't forget to pray.  Put God first in your lives.  The rest will follow.  God Bless!  I hope your relationship will last forever.
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
877329
the only way for this to work out if you go see her and you tell her how you feel..then promise to trust her. Lond distance online relationship is hard considering you only talk over the phone and chat online. since your the guy, you have to initiate the next move to solidify your relationship. Trust her..
134348
Long distance relationships are a challenge....but if both want the relationship...then it can work...until you both come together in the same city eventually! \n\nAre you having second thoughts about him as a person, or is it just the distance factor? Analyze the reason behind why you want to break up. If it is just the distance, then u can overcome it, by talking to him, and mutually deciding to also focus on other areas of your life. See if he also feels that you both need to focus on your pursuits? The only way you will know is when you talk to him openly. Love also involves discipline. So, see what he has to say about this? Does he seem contented? Does he have similar worries? Talk to him. Are there plans of moving closer anytime soon? \n\nIf you have really thought this through, and want to end it, then you should break it gently, lovingly, calmly, and give him some explanations. \n\nMy advise right now is to talk to him about the "issues" before talking about "ending things". Who knows, maybe you can resolve those issues together, and don't need to break up.\n\nGoodluck!
187196
What do you want out of this relationship?\nIt's long distance so it's goiing to be hard to maintain it.\nDo you just want someone to talk to privately or what?
935881
Since you don't want to keep the relationship going..\nYou should say..\n\n"IThere's something you should know.  \nLong distance don't work for me  and cheaters are so not welcomed in my world.  You are one of them.\nSo goodbye."
550422
You think a 3 hour drive is a long distance relationship? Try being 10,000+ miles apart... My finacee' is in Hanoi, Vietnam while I'm here in California. \n\nIt is VERY tough to have a long distance relationship. It requires tremendous amount of commitment to each other. You are your girl will be tested every day on how strong your bond is. \n\nThere's an old saying that basically says to let her go and see if she comes back to you. That should be the first thing you do to see if your long distance relationship will work. \n\nGood luck to you!
779458
yes me and my boyfriend started our relationship long distance. we faught all the time, if i was ever home and doing nothing i'd be so mad that he wasnt calling not even thinking that he might be busy. we would spend hours on the phione and always fight. i dotn even know why. then when he moved back everyhting was just so beautiful. i think long distance is really hard and the fact that you cant see the perosn makes you mad and you take it out on them . i also think that phone conversations are hard. me and my boyfriend only fight on the phone now, cos when i see him in person he can hug me and i'll feel better on the phone its so less personal.\nso you guys have to realize what the problem is and then talk about it and try to make it work. try to see each other as much as possible\ngood luck
339963
Distance can put a severe strain on a relationship.  It's hard to say for certain.  I'd look to more clues in the relationship between you and your intimacy, emotional and physical relationship.  The time you do spend.  Part of the reason distance relationships aren't as successful is because of the lack of time spent.  Confront him, but knowing that he loves you, I'd take his word.
855048
just enjoy the long distance relationship, dont take it to seriously
431909
Ask yourself if you really love her. Long distance relationships are really hard. If you can't keep it together because she is so far away, then end it. Love requires sacrifice