Is there any drug for my wife to attract her for intercourse? because I am hot but her not.?
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I sell sex toys for a living and there is cologne with scents that attract the opposite sex to one another (meaning it gets you horny.) I wear it all the time. Go to a "toy" store and ask. I don't know where you are from but you can find them anywhere or go to passion parties on the Internet and order from their web site. I promise they have what you need and believe it or not they sell pills and gel called pure satisfaction. I love the gel.
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try a supplement called horny goat weed,you can get it in health shops,its  herbal tablets and can be taken by guys or girls,you can take them everyday about an hour before sexual activity.\nget your partner(if you have one) to dress up and look sexy.\nhave you ever tryed kamagra?(generic viagra),you can get it of the internet, it works wonders and keeps you up for hours,but you have to be sexuly excited.some guys say they dont need it,but ask yourself this can you have sucessfull sex for aleast 3 hours+\nwithout losing your erection?? if u havent already tryed these get of your computer and get out there and stock up
731924
Any girl would melt with that sort of thing.  Thanks I'm going to use that on my wife and get me some action - Haha!!
578762
It all falls back to the old saying... the grass is greener on the other side. It is human nature to always strive for what you cannot have, and once you have attained the one that you have lusted after, your eye starts to wander to others... As long as you realise that there will always be someone out there that will tempt you and that your wife will probably find someone that gets her temperature soaring as well! But it comes down to respect and love for your partner. You are together for a reason, and while you will continue to appreciate the scenery, the person you have chosen has the whole package! After all, that's what attracted you in the first place!
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alot of women lose interest in sex, it's completely normal, and there are prescriptions for that. a friend of mine uses a cream her doctor gave her, and she swears that she is always interested in sex since using the meds. maybe you could suggest other things though, like toys and such. \n\nbest thing is to try to arouse her without being obvious. when sitting on the couch together, start by rubbing her feet, then her calves non-chalantly working up to her inner thighs, and then just stop so she doesn't automatically think that's what's on your mind. massaging the inner thighs usually does the trick
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Dear Omar,\nAm sorry to hear about your wife. It must really be tuff to hold out like you have. In my opinion, I dont think she would damn you for taking on a female friend. I realize it gets lonely especially for a guy. I empathize with you.  You know, I understand you want to stay faithful and probably have thought, what if it was me. Well, my friend, you ARE being faithful, as far as I know. Only God is the judge of what you do. And God knows your heart, whether you are being malicious or not. I don't believe he wants you to be with out companionship. Now sex is another story. You will be taking on alot of guilt because you are not free of your wife in your mind or heart.And suppose you get so involved you fall in love with this person. Then what? Do you chuck your wife and go with her? It is such a fine line as to what to do in this case. I mean what do the docs say about your wife? Is she brain dead? Is she losing body mass by laying? Is she deteriating, What? I say, just be careful not to add additional problems to your life that you may not be able to handle. Choose someone that clearly understands the situation and keep it plotonic(yeah right, huh?). Its nice to know you have someone to talk to and go to dinner and have conversation with, right? To go for walks and the movies. I know what you are talking about. So really you have to make that call and when you do make sure you have a clear conscience.
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It sounds like you wife needs to see a Doctor first. She could have a medical condition that needs to be addressed. If that doesn't work then take her to a Psychologist for help with your sex life. Good luck
1029762
there are sooo many things to do to increase your sexual drive... if that's the question... \n\ngo to a sex shop. they have fun games (not necessarily vibrators), and lotions... and things that tast good, and warm up that you can put on her body... find out what her needs are, or what she wants that you dont do for some reason... try something new... and make her body feel like the sexiest and beautifullest body you have ever seen or touched.
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Nothing wrong with it.  Enjoy it while it lasts cause you will have times like that and times you won't want it.  Me and my wife are that way.  Sometimes I am the horny one then her and sometimes both at same time then sex daily is awesome thing.  Maybe try spicing things up with sexy lingerie and stuff.  Nothign is wrong with you just your body tell you it is in heat and wants to have sex
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I think "kevinporter79761" nailed it, but you can add a flaming bag of crap on her doorstep. Heck, smear it on her door, her car, or her!\n\nMaybe buy her a box of Pampers, and then find yourself a hot young chick.
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The best thing for your wife to do is to go to her gynocologist and ask him or her. The pill is nothing but extra hormones for women and have different effects on every woman. A gynocologist can answer your question and hopefully get your wife's sex drive back. This is a very common thing in most women, and sometimes getting back on the pill will help, but again, every woman is different and reacts to these hormones differently. I know that this isn't exactly the answer you were looking for, but I hoped I helped a little!
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Only in the bedroom? Then have it in other rooms :))\n\nIf she does not have interest in sex at all, there is no way to compel her. May be find out the root cause.. It may be due to some psychological factor... Take her to a sex therapist - which might help but she should be at least open for that. no forceful tactics here. Goof luck.
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yes that is normal for you not to be attracted to your wife she has now become a fat cow and that isn't what you married, just try and deal with the next two months, the 18 year old will get you into trouble because by the sounds of it you are a lot older and that normally spell trouble
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Have you tried a sensual massage? \n\nPlan a romantic night dinner, candles Oh and slip her a note 1 week in advance to have her book the apppointment. \nDont tell her any thing just make sure she will be there. \n\nKeep slipping hints all week long. leave a rose on her desk at work and don't let her see you do it. \nSend her an Email greeting card with naughty idea's \nsend her a blindfold the day before dinner. \n\nthat day leave some oil in her purse with a note. \n"DON"T LOOSE ME YOUR GOING TO NEED THIS" \nThe little hints all week long should have her wet in anticapation. \n\nThat night greet her at the door with a glass of wine. dress up really nice. wear a apron for visual effect " AND TO HIDE YOUR HARDON" have her come into the house and relax. ask her how her day was. maybe have her sit down and while your talking gently rub her feet. \nafter about 15 to 20 min. excuse your self and serve dinner. make it romantic. \nAfter dinner have her go sit down and you go clean up the mess in the kitchen. then go prepare the bedroom. I suggest puting padding on the floor and ALOT of candles around the room but it's up to you. \nNEXT fill the tub with a nice warm bubble bath. try using her fav if possible, if not visit the store and ask a female clerk. just about any thing would work. \nonce the bath is set. go back into the Living room and collect your wife.\n(( first blindfold her)) Then slowly start removing her clothes. DON"t let her help you. take your time and caress her skin, as you remove an item of clothing explore the area with your hands, lips or even use the hair on your head. place gentle kisses on it. After about 30 Min of caressing her lead her into the bathroom. and help her enter the tub. Try to leave the blindfold on if possible. \nNext use a laufa sponge and gently clense her body. make sure you rub it every where. Work on the legs and feet especially. And on her back, but and scalp. Hopefully the water will stay warm for about 30 min. Spend 15 min. washing her down. then let her relax for the next 15 min. in the mean time warm up the OIL. and prepare the room for the massage. make sure the tempature is above 80 degree's for her comfort. OH and have wash clothe handy siting in cool water.  \nnow go back to the bathroom and collect your wife. dry her off and leave the blindfold in place. or replace it with a dry one. =) Gide her into the room, and have her lay face down. warm your hands up and place them on her back for a moment and just pause. count to 50 slowly and just focus on the though of relaxation. \n\nNOW place some warm oil in your hands gently spread the oil to cover her back. work slowly and gentle into the muscles. Do not put any pressure on her spine this only hurts instead work the muscles next to the spine. and along the shoulder blades. The move to the feet and work up the legs. \nas you reach the hips. gentle caress her eroginious zones, then move back down and slide up slowly again. once you have worked the leg work on the Butt area of that leg. \nbe careful with the oil. around her vagin* but feel free to touch her around the *nus. GENTLY at this point "LISTEN" to seee if she is comfortable or does not like this. DO NOT insert your finger into the *nus just rub around it. Now move back to the other leg and repeat the same sequence. \n\nonce finished have her roll over.\nRemove the blindfold and place the cool clothe on her eyes\nnow work from the legs up. once you reach the "Y" stop and work the other leg. then move to arms into the breast. and finish with the stomach. and vagin* \nAllow her an orgams now and once she is finished move to her head and give a scalp massage. this will allow her to calm down. \n\nAfter this see what happens. \n\nGL mate\nGod Bless
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It sounds like having intercourse with your wife is more than just a sexual release for you. It is "the whole package" - the emotional bonding, as well as the physical response.\nStart slow. Make time for sitting together with your arm around her. Use that time to talk about what's happening in the every day events of your lives. "How do you think our kids are doing?" "How was work today?" "Are you interested in changing our routine (the foods we eat, who does the cooking, where we go for entertainment)?"\nThen discuss with her that you've been considering her recommendation, but think it would be unsatisfactory. She may be more understanding of your need for her touch.
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depends on her age, the older we get, you know, try being romatic dont say hey u want to bang....and start taking off ur clothes.. why not have wine candles and be sweet give her a back rub w/ scented oil and maybe have a small gift for her that may help
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Have you tried talking to her about this? Is she aware that things have changed?  You both may want to talk to her doctor to see if you have any options on a medical point of view.  You may have to make some changes as to the way your sex life used to be while she is going through this. Let her know how much you love her and how she makes you feel and let her know that even though you don't understand what she is going through you are there for her. I think it is wonderful how you described your feelings for her. You also may want to do some research on menopause. It doesn't effect every woman the same way. If she is having hot flashes she may want to try Remifemin, which is over the counter. Of course, she should ask her doctor about this first. If he says it is okay to try and she would have the need to use it you can go to their website and they will send her a free sample. I believe it is enough for at least 2 weeks. It really helped me.  Good Luck to both of you.