My girlfriend is trying to push me away but she knows that I LOVE HER with all my heart and soul what can I do
368947
Just try to be her best friend EVER and try to make her happy by completing all of her wishes. BEST OF LUCK DUDE!!!!!!!
749248
thats awsome!  ofcourse its important, but if she really loves ya, she will stay with you.  explain to her that your not like the other guys who can't control themselves, and you have a brain that controls your body, not the other way around.  I have respect for you.
329786
well she has to have some feelings for you or she wouldn't go out with you all I can say is ask her and talk to her maybe if you sit down and let her emotions out then she can move on and she might love you more for showing that you care and that you have a sensitive type as well.
686023
first of if u been workin so hard for this 2 work than u just dont give up like dat .. tell her dat u cant help but b romantic wit her n u like sayin sweet things n dat it bothers u wen she just brushes it out the way as if ur feelings didnt matter 2 her .. explain 2 her dat the same way its been hard 4 her its also been hard 4 u to make this work n dat even tho u feel like u just want 2 give up u still dont cause u love her .. ask her how she really feels 4 u n get her opinion on wether she thinks ya should keep tryin r not after talkin things out wit her only u would know wether 2 leave her r not .. i know its hard 2 make a relationship work specially wen it involves parents but if u both want it ya can make it happen .. good luck talk 2 her hope it turns out good 4 the both of ya
60019
let her have her time and be there if she needs you..she will get out there and probably realize that you are what she wants...don't pressure her that will only drive her away
409313
I will be happy to, but my gf wont let me
1173447
This is a classic abusive relationship.  You have got to get away from this person before things get worse.  I know you love her, but you cannot allow someone to treat you that way.  Look at it this way, if the situation was reversed, and you treated her that way, would you expect her to stay with you?
809958
My advice to you is ,I would just leave her alone for a while even though you love her and belive her give her time to just be without you, Then she will see what she wants and if its truly you you'll know, it might be hard to leave her alone but just tell her you dont want to be like everyone else, tell her you love and care about her and you want happiness in her life, and you dont want to be a part of stressing her out or dragging her down, Tell her you want her to have some time to herself and that you will be there for her when she is ready, and try very hard to stay away for a little while no matter what!! TRUST ME!!! THIS WILL WORK!! if she really knows what she wants and isnt just playing back and forth this will work for you, you cant keep being the one she runs to and get  you no gaurantee in all of this its right for your heart. Best Wishes & Good Luck
489333
She is just insecure about love...If she sees that you trully love her and your not going anywhere....She will know that it is TRUE love....Good Luck!!
245674
If you love her so much you shouldn't be asking this question you should already know the answer love is abou ,LOVE, TRUST , RESPCT ADN PATIENCE. If she don't wanna give it up right now wait for her but i do also know that you are a dude and you get that eurge so if you gone do that at least tell her you need space first or brake up with her because that ain't right.
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
485885
How about for now just let her have her space,you cannot force a girl to love you,but you could be kind to her,be there for her when she needs you and then she will slowly start to relize how she feels,also,don't just stick with her,there may be someone else for you,you never know,for now just keep in touch with her and tell her she will be in your mind while you are in London,hopefully she will feel the same way for you in the future,good luck.^^
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
649280
You can't make somebody love you.  It's something you feel in your heart.  Don't rush her into anything or she may resent you later on down the line.  If you truly love her you will wait until she's ready.
447415
You can't exactly make anyone yours, if they are truly meant to be with you then it will come with time (naturally).  The fact is you can't make someone love you because then it's not really love, real love is reciprocated, not a one way street.  If she's confused, then give her some space and time to sort out her feelings, don't force her to make a decision because then it might push her further away from you.  Believe me, when the time comes, you'll know whether or not she belongs with you.
833881
if you love her that much then you need to tell her how you feel about it all and that you dont want her to go and that you enjoy seeing her and being with her and that she makes your world whole if thats the way it is sometime people mess up good luck and hope it all  works out
418762
There is no way around this if this girl loves you then she is going to have her heart broke. you can not expect her not to be affected emotionally...the time is now to end this, do not prolong this relationship it will only make it more difficult for her. It's almost sweet that you care enough to not want her to be hurt but it's time to realize that there is nothing you can do except tell her it's over and give her time to heal...we've all been there!