What should you do to a friend whom you trusted and love so much but has betrayed you?
363536
forgive your friend for what he/she has done. and if you want to stay away from him/her for a while, it's normal. if both of you want to make it up again, please do it, because he/she is your friend and you love your friend so much. but it takes both of you to gain your friendship again, not one.
681456
Sit down with her,at a table. Privately. Put all the cards(sorta speak) on the table. REFRESH your FRIENDSHIP. Just like the computer REFRESH. Start over even with introductions. (this will stir a giggle or smile) Shake hands. Apologize to each other...hug.Vow to each other ..never to take the dishonest road again. True friends hold no secrets, if somebody wants to share a "SECRET" shun it. Remember the burns from the last time.\nBlessings to you .
184736
Walk away...eventually they will be left standing in their dirt!  \n\nDont waste your valuable time on worrying about those who use you for there is nothing you can do to change them but you can change how you relate to them.  Do you always want to have a "victim" for a friend?
176078
I don't know what you have done to loose their trust, but only time will heal this.  Once you've lost trust in someone it is very hard to get back.  Just keep on showing them that you are trustworthy and in time they will trust you again.  Sorry I couldn't give you an easy answer to solve this for you.  Good Luck
232437
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
486983
Go to his home. Knock on his door, and tell him how you feel.\n\nIf that's too bold, then send him a light note... an invitation to coffee.  Maybe send him a note in the mail and inside a starbucks card... inside a note say "Let's meet for coffee... my treat"\n\nTell him that you have a confession.  You never knew that the answer was in front of your face, and hope that its not too late for a 2nd chance.  You don't want to lose a dear friend, and want him to forgive you.\n\nI would say that its now in his court. If hes willing to forgive,then you will meet him more than halfway.... and wililng to mend the hurt.
318077
I hear you. We have just been discussing this, but its crazy cause you dont want to be the bearer of bad news, but then again what kind of friend would just allow their friend to be hurt (no matter how). You say this guy is your friend, well, your a man, lift your chest up and confront him. If he doesn't come clean to his wife, you could always give him the ultimatum  that if he doesn't you will.  It will hurt her, yes it will whoever tells her, but truth hurts sometimes...\n\nIt is also very true that other people's love life, you most stay, way out of. So, I cant tell you what to decide...\nbest wishes
658975
"Will they ever accept me like the once did?" - No, you have broken their trust and hurt their friend. He has feelings for you and may forgive you, however you will have broken his trust as well. While you may be able to have a relationship with him, it will never be "like it was".
46150
You need to let this friendship go. Most likely she's going to do it again, but this time it'll be worst. Trust me. She'll loose your trust. People change as they grow older, and it's not always for the better. At least you've realized she's not the person you thought she was and if you continue to be her best friend then you're putting yourself in a situation where you'll probably get hurt in the end. Move on.
445576
I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
352762
If you are absolutely positively sure that they have lied to you about everything then choose to end this friendship.If your not sure then ask them to tell you something that you already know the truth about to see if they lie.If they do then tell them how it makes you feel and why do they want to lie all time.Maybe they do not know they are lying and maybe they just don't care about telling the truth.Do you lie to anyone?If no then maybe you should find a new friend.
1103233
For now, just let her be.  She's really smart to isolate herself after getting such evidence that she is too trusting, and has poor judgment in who to trust.  Let her take her time, get close to people slowly, and find her "comfort zone."  If you are her friend, then she will probably trust you more than others, even if she is cautious even about you.  She's afraid to be hurt because she's been fooled before.  That's not irrational, after all.  She just needs time.
459462
hey pal..even i hav been betrayed by my frendz and i knw how it feels,ive got over it wid a lot of difficulty.but U GOT TO HAVE FRENDZ IN UR LIFE!they r the ones who will b wid u till the end of ur life n guide u n support u.but be careful in choosin frendz the next time as u dont want the same thing 2 happen wid u again.i hope n pray tht u will get a frend who will b understandin n will b wid u alwayz.hope this helped.
482544
All you can do is continue to be a good friend by listening. None of this is your fault, and you are not responsible for resolving the situation. Just make sure you are always there for your friend, as a good listener.
80055
confront her in private 2 get the whole story.tell her if she can't be trustworthy !loyal 2 u az a "best"friendthan she most take ya friendship 4 granted.if she keeps taking advantage of ur friendship & bad mouthin u then its time 4 u 2 drop th person az a friend.u don't have time 4 that drama!!!!
641981
yeppers, a promise is a promise... but this isnt enough to end your friendship... forgive her