what should i do if i think my man is cheating.?
363826
I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
923075
Ask him upfront and openly. If he gets mad and leaves you for asking that question, he was cheating, so you saved yourself.
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.
536722
I have to agree, you will not find out he is cheating unless you catch him. Do you think that maybe that this group of people that are telling you things possibly don't like you? Maybe they are jealous of you and your man and don't want to see you guys together. Question yourself girl. I believe all people, whether or not they say they do not know their significant other is cheating, deep down they have suspicions, that maybe something is not right.  Did you ever suspect him of cheating before people have told you this? How was your relationship before all of this happened? I think you need to evaluate the way your relationship is going. Good luck.
204709
The first sign is doubt. If you question whether or not he's cheating most likely he is in fact unfaithful. Love is far more complicated to judge, if he does love you he will not cheat on you, because he would not want to hurt you. Here a few helpful hints 1. Spy on him. 2. Check his phone 4 new numbers. 3. Set him up, meaning send a sexy chica his way and see what he does when she tries to offer him a date.  Needless to say I'm no expert but I wouldn't give advice I haven't tried before, and trust me it works.    Good Luck
760256
Well, if he didn't cheat on you physically, I think you are ok, but if this isn't the first time hes done it, dump his @$$.  Take him back for now, keep him on "probation" and see what happens.
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
945260
i think you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk. ASk him if he is happy with you or tired of you. don't want to scare you but from experience, sounds like he is cheating on you.   Good luck and God bless
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
721903
leave him, theres no excuse for cheating, even if he regrets it, you need to find someone who respects you enough to be faithful. good luck (",)
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!