After 701 days of divorce I am a free man again! Which places can I have a date with a women?
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first of all congradulations on your divorce-i am divorced too-when it's not the right one it sure feels good to be free-get involved in your community-i feel this is the best way to meet decent people-community theatreor go to local chamber of commerce or city hall and check out their events calander-get involved in something you enjoy-not only will you meet people but you will be doing good things for the community too-
1035929
Sign up my ex-wife....
1092858
Ask friends or relatives if they have any single women friends. Try church. Join a club or sports team that's co-ed (golf league?). Visit the mall, library, grocery store, etc...
943881
hunni, where were you when i was single.....hmmm might have to look you up if i ever get divorced....lol
1036197
not usually a bar for a lastting relationship ..but in my case it lasted over 10 years and countting ....but maybe join some social clubs...perhaps volunteer for something .cafes work at times but sometimes the perso is already with someone at a cafe . lol
141921
Have you gone out with many girls since your separation?  If not, then you are probably moving too fast, thinking too far in advance.  Slow it down.  Stay with the girl you like, but BE SURE TO GIVE HER TIME TO HERSELF.  That means a day or 2 apart at a time (phone is OK).  Otherwise you will feel "clingy" to her and all women hate needy/clingy guys, which could cause her to dump you.  \n\nYou have to control your emotions yourself.  That sounds funny, but it's true.  You have to think about how you feel, how your life is, factor in the good and bad possibilities of what could happen based on your actions, then choose what you feel are the best actions.  Control your emotions or you will lose her.\n\nI've been separated from my ex for 16 months, officially divorced for 6.  I've felt what you're feeling.  I've been back in the dating scene.  Take it slow.
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Check Yahoo Personals and Match.com as well as many other websites for singles.  They offer you search options such as interests and also location.\n\nThe rich ones are in the stages of bankruptcy now as they thought they ended up with real women who then went on to spend their money and never gave a dime.
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I was divorced for seventeen. then happened upon a woman that I have been happy with for the past three.  there is no secret but I promise you if you start looking with the purpose of finding a relationship you will get hurt. Live life every day and don't avoid situations where there are people of the other sex.  Sooner or later someone will catch your eye. If not you're better off alone.
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I think a park would be a good place to meet a woman who has a child.  I would also consider a book store, just think of places that a woman is likely to be and may have her kid(s) with her.  If you go to church, they may have a singles or parents without partners Sunday school class.
114108
relax, catch a movie, go on a date.
736218
they will go back to the date of the divorce
289253
Go places where single people hang out.
664789
Dude, you sound just like me. My wife left me last July.  We had been together for 7 years.  We didn't have kids, do you?  I think that might make a difference.  Anyway, I turned 28 2 days after the divorce was final.\n\nYou have every right to feel scared.  Since we were kids whenever we hooked up with our exwives, we never really went through the dating scene that you are about to enter.  I see that some of the peeps are advising you not to enter in to a relationship, but you arent asking about a relationship, you are asking about dating, gotta keep that seperated.  If you are anything like me, your world has stopped spinning and you are all sorts of messed up in the head.  Don't let that part of you bring down the rest of you.  For me, it was real freaking important psychologically to know that I could still pull tail.  Let me tell you, it was not that hard.  Just so you know, I am nothing special.  I aint Mr. GQ.  I aint some gym rat either.  I tell you that because I always see dudes our age at the bars all GQ'd out looking like they live in the gym and I never thought I could compete with that, well don't.  You don't have to.  You don't want the bar flies that chase those dudes anyway.  \n\nFirst thing you gotta do is get your mind right.  You are a dude that was faithful to 1 girl from the time you were an irresponsible kid till now.  You havent been in bars chasing skeezers every night since you turned 21.  You are a good dude that is different than those type of guys.  You understand relationships and women.  You know the expectations of a woman and will naturally meet them.  Things like calling, being thoughtful, etc. are hard for dudes who have never been married, its natural for you and women love that.  Girls that are our age have the same concerns that we do.  Good girls are looking for good dudes and are willing to give you a chance if you can present an acceptable formula of traits.  You know you can.  \n\nI have dated 5 girls since my wife left me 9 months ago.  1 was a girl that I knew from highschool, (work that circuit).  3 were girls that I met via my job that worked for other companies, and the most recent one was an acquaintance of one of my friends wives.  If you are anything like me, your friends are all married and the wives know that you are a good dude, thus willing to set you up.  Keep your expectations real.  You know deep down the level of girl that you can pull.  Work all angles and dont listen to anyone who gives you a time table.  You need female companionship to get your esteem up.  Take it where you can get it.\n\nYou'll be alright.  It'll all work out for you my man.
1090216
The simple answer is trust.  You do not trust the opposite sex.  Weather the divorce was your fault or your spouses you blame them.  You could have been the lyingest, cheatingest, most absent spouse in the world, but you still look at it as there fault.  We as humans almost always want to play the victim.  Now if you were the one that was cheated on and/or abused or what have you, then you might want to look into some form of therapy.  Either way make sure that the new person you are dating is not just a rebound (yes, you can have many of them).  find someone who will make you truly happy in life, not just in bed.  Find a friend before you find a lover!  Later dater.
97283
The way to start dating is getting your self in the right frame of mind and haveing a desire to go out and have fun. Where is totally up to you, I personally do not go to bars or parties. I usually meet women in some the strangest places when I am not looking. Just be yourself and get out there (women don't like fakes). Try stores, museums, anyplace a women would go by herself or with girlfriends. Above all do not become deperate or obnoxious. Women deserve to be treated well.
928546
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1132391
Well, you divorced her, so you ARE no longer with her.  You will miss her for a while.  \n\nTry working on yourself for a while.  Persue some hobbies, relax, do whatever you feel.  Soon enough you will feel refreshed and will no longer miss her.