why is she acting this way towards me, we used to be best friends?
356002
it is obvious that she liked you!  So when she found out that you were taken it made her nervous.  She must have thought that you guys had a attraction toward each other especially if you talked for 4 to 5 hours a night.  So when she found out that you didn't feel the same way toward her it made her embarrassed.  She will get over it i think.  Just give her some time.  When you do talk to her, just act as if nothing is wrong or different hopefully this will give her the message that she shouldn't be embarrassed because you thought nothing of it.  I would not ask her why she stoped talking to you though because this will only discourage her to not talk to you since it will make her more embarrassed.
396095
sounds like she is a bit jealous. she probably likes you.
864204
She seems just as confused about you as you are about her. It seems as if she's almost trying to push you out of her life. Give her a taste of her own medicine; don't contact her as often as usual, and give the cold shoulder when she tries to joke around. If she really likes you, she'll keep trying to get to you. If she doesn't, nothing will change, and you'll find that your life without her is much easier.
642760
Maybe she was having a bad day.... Is she like this often. \nMaybe you should have asked her what was wrong? \n\nAlot of girls whether they realize it or not start ditching their friends for boys and maybe your friend feels threatened.\n\nMaybe shes on the monthly and had a headache....  \n\nBE A GOOD FRIEND AND            ASK HER\n\nIf shes still being rude without an explanation then she may be sending you a signal that your not as graet of friends as you thought.... \n\nJust try to bear with it, if shes your best friend...... but dont let yourself get hurt by this...
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
632759
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
486169
you need to be nicer, she loves ya to pieces! if u really dont want to be friends then talk to her very nicely!
955010
She's playing you like a fool. She is nothing but trouble and heartache. The only future with her is more misery. Run like hell and do not look back. Don't let her back into your life for ANY reason.
102646
She feels a little uncomfortable now, she thought you felt like she did (just hangin' buddies). She's trying to keep the friendship but not make you feel she's interested in a relationship. It's probably hard now for both of you to act like nothing ever happened. \n Someone must have really hurt her bad before for her to be afraid of a serious relationship. And it may be something she doesn't want to talk about yet, to anyone. Just call her and say, "Hey, Buddy, What cha' doing. Wanta hang out LIKE OLD TIMES??" (And just let the past be past about what you told her. Don't mention it.)  \n If you can't do this, just tell her you have to serious of feelings for her to just be friends and you think 'hanging out' would be too uncomfortable for both of you. If she does have serious feelings for you, she'll tell you. If not just let her go her way. \nGood Luck.
753557
She's just feeling uncomfortable,same as you. It will take awhile for you two to get back to the friendship you had-so take it slow and just let her know that you value her friendship,and will always be there for her.
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
347422
She sounds like a good friend and the best ex..because she has feelings for you and her innocent nice heart told her to send this letter for sharing common sense with you.\n\nMaybe she felt sorry for breaking your heart and leaving you alone..and my suggestion to you is that give her another chance,reply her e-mail very gently and friendly, \nmaybe if you two follow your heart,then you will get back to one another..\n\ngood luck
852245
She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
743406
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
1043682
It's probably not going to happen buddy.\n\nThis has made her uncomfortable, and now that she is aware of where you were at, she is being careful because she knows that doesn't fit in with her plans.\n\nYou can sit down and talk to her and see if you can still be "just friends" ... but my guess is, in practicality, the two of you will probably now go seperate ways.
1108607
Maybe she thought she was talking to you as a friend and then got a sense that you were interested in her for more than friendship.  If she wasn't interested in you in that way, perhaps she didn't want to lead you on and then decided to back off.  Just a guess.
930861
IF SHE USUALLY CALLS U AND EVERYTHING AND SHE JUS SEDDENLY KINDA STOPPED DOING THAT THEN THERE MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG BUT I DONT THINK SHE STOPPED LIKING YOU. ITS HAPPENED TO ME AND I KNO WHAT U MEAN