why does this girl i am seing keeps asking me if i am gay despite me saying no?
360297
Probably a joke! Maybe just her way of trying to flirt! Maybe next time say No i am not... ANd i will prove it to you! Then wink at her!!! IT works for me!
339325
If you ask her, she'll probably say no BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU!! Sounds like she's reeling you in slowly, showing interest in you, but then showing interest in thers to make you doubtful and keep you interested. Try being freinds for a while first, and let the relationship grow from there.
3175
yo Spiff...dude, why do you keep answering my questions that are out to girls!
1032469
If you're thinking of men when she uses it on you, then that's a good indication that you may be gay.  If you are thinking of her (or some other woman) while she is using it on you, then that is a good indication that you are not gay.  Even if it was your idea.
1172908
is this a gay thing? talk to her, i guess
6284
She seems insecure and to be avoiding the seriousness of your statement. Perhaps because she needs more time to discover her reply (whether she feels the same way about you).
78714
i think you should make a pass at her just to see her reaction. shes playing head games with you, fight back. you have every right to like whatever sex you like, thats not her choice...dont take that from her.
380433
I would probably agree with gay, he may be confused with his own sexuality. The only other explanation is he could be shy or a virgin and not really know what he is doing. The best thing to do is ask him. It seems strange.
781665
I agree with xovenusxo.\n\nThe girl is trying to let you know she likes you. She's probably been brought up to believe it's wrong and 'cheap' for a girl to approach a guy.\n\nIf you don't want a relationship with her continue to keep your distance. (This depends on how old you both are..I'm assuming you're both young teenagers.)
827412
Ouch : ( Are you sure she is straight? she could of been hurt from you rejecting her. You need to tell her that you did have feelings for her when she came out to you, but you weren't mentally ready to deal with these feelings/emotions yet. You need to emphasise that you understand it may have been a phase for her, and just showing her the decency of telling her how you actually feel. By you already telling her i am sure she has started to think back when she did like you and what attracted her to you. I don't think she has lost her forever, you never will you to are good friends. But you need to also understand she will be emotionally and mentally a mess, because she had strong feelings for you and you burned her so she properly has compressed those feelings until how you told her how you feel. And i am pretty sure she would be questioning her sexuality again. So please be patient with her and don't give up. \nBest of luck : )
465131
You may not be gay, but your actions have now opened a can of worms.  If your friend is a true friend, she wouldn't be spreading rumors.  The best thing you can do is to talk to her and try to straighten it out.  If that doesn't work and the rumors persist, there isn't much you can do except to ignore them.  Ever hear the phrase "The lady doth protest to much"?  The more you try to deny something, the more people will believe it's the truth.\n\nGood luck.
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
612700
You cannot force your sexuality onto someone else...they will resent it even though under other circumstances they might be amenable.  You have to discuss it with her, apologize for what you did, and, if she forgives you, than ask if she might be interested.
770043
She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
92454
May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.
884692
If you don't know what her reaction is going to be, or even if she homophopic or not, you'll have to come up with something so you can start a discussion with her to see where she stands as far as gay people go, i suggest this so you'll know what she thinks before you say something to her about being attracted to her.
353653
well u know her situation better than us then ab she is lying or not u r the only person who can find it out...do u know her well before u asked her to go out with u ?if its several times that u asked her and she didnt come 1-maybe she is right(buy all of us even if e are too busy have some free times for ourselves) 2-maybe she cant tell u she dont wanna be with u(she is shying or ....)3-maybe she want u but there is something there ,whenever she wanna come out ,it warned her then she didnt.....i dunno more reason...ask her directly cuz even if she wanna be with u and this situation almost always happen ur relation can stand