what if he says its his way to show how much he loves me?
367747
You can edit this into the other question you asked, but it is not his way to show you he loves you.  It is his way to show you how immature and how unable he is to deal with situations or problems.  You need to leave him, youa re already making excuses for him and that is not good.  He will only get worse and you do not deserve that.
294116
Unless you can feel what he feels you'll never truly know.  If you love him as much as you say then you should trust him to tell the truth when he says he loves you.  \n\nAsk him to describe what he feels for you.
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
1109955
ask him how he feels about the relationship and tell him your unsure about the limits of you love and c wat he says
34020
I think if he loves you, it's not hard to motivate him. You yourself, and your relationship should be a great motivation to him.  \n\nThis could be a good test to find out how much he loves you ...\n\nTry to let him know that you don't appreciate he's not doing much. Ask him about his plans for career and future life. \nTell him that you care and will support him in his decisions. \n\nIf he shows zero interest in these things, he probably isn't  falling for you much, and it's up to you to consider whether to stay with him, or whether it's time to say goodbye.
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
739806
Say that you love him
603222
If he really loves you, yes.\nJust tell him.\nHonesty is the best policy.\n:-)
41751
unless he understand that you are getting him something because you care for him as a person ( for example his feelings are platonic ( or not) but he knows for sure that yours are) then he will probably take it as a sign that you like him.
233152
Tell HIM/HER I love you.
890926
Depends on how long you have been dating. If you have been together for a week...i think it's too early to say I love you. If you feel enough time has passed though, just say it to him, and he will either respond or not. That's how my girlfriend asked me.\n\ncheers,\nMax
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
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a smile.  a back-rub.  a giggle.  a hand on his arm while driving.\n\nwomen don't know how much things like this mean... everything else is just material stuff.  Think about really why he chooses to be with you and go for his "love jugular".
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
460394
It'd be better if u let him do the favours... u'll know how much he likes u
412915
tell him you love him and you are very glad that he is honest with you