how can you know someone loves you or not?
375440
that's something that we can never know for sure...but sometimes we have to trust in our heart and hope for the best...yes you could ask, but people lie everyday...so who are we to think nobody would ever lie to us...so the best thing to do is to follow your heart...because we're the only ones that know how we feel...
85428
some people show love in different ways. alot of men and women dont express it the way others would like. and there is a difference in love and "being in love". ask this person if they are "in love" with you. just because they dont seem sincere doesnt mean they arent. like i stated before some people just dont know how to show feelings or they do it in different ways we dont understand. if you have serious doubts about how this person feels then ask.
595748
His actions will tell you.  Love is a verb and requires action.  Does he keep his word and promises. Have you met his parents, friends, co-workers.  Do you spend quality time with you and does he call you frequently.   \n\nWhat are his actions like outside the bed room.  This is how you can tell if he loves you.  If he is only attentive during sex....don't count on it being love.
88135
thats a hard question cause you will think she loves y ou but maybe she doesnt its confusion to explan but if u like her u will know cause the felling u get when u with them and if they dont feel the same ways well then she really doesnt like you!!!
114346
Judge his love by his actions,not so much by his words. Does he kiss you tenderly and tell you he loves you often?\nDoes he introduce you to others with great zeal?Does he ask you often if there is anything he can do to make you happy?\nDoes he bring you little gifts often to show that you are constantly on his mind and heart? Do you have great communications between your and your mate? Does he ask you if there is anything you need? Use what I have said as a guideline. Good luck.
678412
1:DO YOU TRUST HIM AND DOES HE TRUST YOU.\n2:DOES HE MAKE YOU LAUGH AND DO MAKE HIM LAUGH\n3:DOES HE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM.\n4:HAVE YOU TOLD HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM\nLOOK BABY GIRL THE ONLY WAY TO REALLY KNOW IS TO ASK BECAUSE A CLOSE MOUTH NEVER GETS FED, BUT WHEN IT COMES TO TRUE LOVE BELIEVE ME YOU WILL KNOW BECAUSE IT WILL BE HARD AS HELL TO SEPARATE THE BOTH OF YOU. GOOD LUCK
23069
Most people never know if they are loved or if they love someone.  It is not like humans turn colors if they love someone else.  Love is a force which attracts or binds beings together.  People can be attracted to each other without ever being consciously aware of what is going on.  This guy could love you passionately and never even know it (and this is the case more often than not).\n\nLove is also an emotion.  An empath can feel the emotions of others and would know that this person is feeling love for someone.  Most people have some empathic ability (those strange hunches that have no basis in objective reality).  It could be that you are confuse because you feel that he is attracted to you, and he may even act like it, but he does not verbalize it.\n\nIt is possible that he feels this consciously but it is a new emotion and he does not recognize what it is.  It could be that he knows how he feels but cannot communicate it to you (for whatever reason).  Have you tried to tell him that you are confused and that you have feelings for him?  It takes two to form a relationship.  It might only take one to start one.
377138
If she said that she doesn't know, it means she's not sure. If she's not sure, she didn't even love you in the first place. When you love someone, you think about them everyday, you talk to them, try to make them happy, and you definately say "I love you". \n\nI feel real bad for you because I know what it's like to love and adore someone that doesn't love you back. I wish I had a more positive answer but it's better to face reality before it faces you.
417880
By the way she acts around you and the way that she treats you. I have also all ways heard that you can tell if a person loves you but the way they treat you when you are alone, Not just in front of others.
536380
You never will.\n\nWe never truly know if anyone loves us, hates us or exactly how they feel.  We only know what they tell us (which can be a lie) or how they act (which can also be manipulation).\n\nHowever, a good start is when they hang out with you a lot and don't do things to hurt you.  That would probably be an indication they like you.  As to how to know when they love you...the former answer is correct...when they say they do.  But you can never truly know, sadly.
1094817
When you are sure you love someone you know it. You are not sure now, trust your instincts. They are always right.
652966
See if the one you love can love you\nand\nsee if you can love the person who loves you..
438143
If you're not sure, you probably don't. I mean, you might like his company and have a comfort level with him that you could confuse with love. But when you're in love with someone, you know. It's not something you have to sit around and think about.\nSo, basically, no one can tell if you love your boyfriend, only your heart.
193455
Love can't be explained. It has to be felt, and not just with your heart, you must feel it with your whole body and soul. There is no question about whether you love someone or not. You just know it. You can feel it. You want to go the extra mile just to tell them that you love them. Love comes when you least expect it. So don't think about, and you will find it.
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
281795
if you are an expert, an eye contact will do it. if you are an amateur when it comes to love issues you will never know... what i am saying that it depends on you and him/her. my answer is to pull yourself together and ask her/him. there is nothing to lose if your not in Love.. but if you are, try as hard as you can to win the heart of whom you love whether s/he loves you are not.... it really depends on you and you only.\n\nnote: when it comes to love matters i recommend asking your own heart instead of hundreds of people in the net.. cause only there u will have the true answer...lool
430665
one thing about love is that you will NEVER know that someone loves you.... however, time will reveal itself in how the person treats you.  Do they respect you and make you feel good about yourself?  Are you happy when you're with that person? Do you feel you can open up to the person and be consoled?  Is the person faithfully consistent with you?  Love is a constant....and love develops and grow with time. You cannot prove someone loves you....they SHOW IT!!!