what do u do if u discover that u had married an illetrate woman?
357497
It would appear you are evenly matched if this question is any indication of your own literacy level.
49901
You'll have to be patient, she was married when you met her so you had to have expected the baggage.  But you're involved the way you are so just help her out if you can and stick with her and hope for the best. It's more complicated the way you're doing it but every situation is different.  If she wanted out of her marriage and started up another relationship make sure it wasn't just something to boost her ego or something before devoting your life to her though.
1160198
Say...BYE  BYE.......Shes gone........Maybe during you're " confusing emotions about you're marriage, and  " figuring out what to do", You should have done them.......at home, with the actual person....You-re wife, The solution was between you and you're wife, not some other woman. Just be glad you don't have any kids dragged in.
877553
forget about her and the ring , u r a married man now so act like it , put the past in the past
535432
Just do it. If she's already telling you this stuff then her marrige isn't worth the paper she signed on the license.\n\nJust don't fall in love with a worthless weakling like her.  Do it, do it good and then say bye-bye.\n\nSplooch!
484445
yes you should, YOU broke your vows, YOU threw your marriage away like it was so much trash for a cheap piece of tail so why should you reap the rewards of something you obviously cared so little about? i mean the marriage didn't mean anything to you so why should the things associated mean anything to you. i'd say you made your bed(s) so lie in it!
158736
These are really hard shoes you are asking us to put ourselves in....I don't think any of us could say for sure what we would do unless we were actually in this postiton. Try to take time to think about the information you have learned, what were the circumstances in you marriage at the time. Determine how your relationship has been since then. Was the affairs with different women or one? How did you find out, by mistake or did he tell you? Why did he tell you after all these years? Is he looking for a way out or has he been consued with guilt all these years and wanted the truth to be told? You have alot of questions to sort through in your mind, and in your heart. The best advise I can give you, is to listen to your heart. Give yourself a little bit of time to digest everything, right now the hurt, humiliation, betrayl, and disgust are fresh wounds, and might cause you to lash out and do something you really don't want to do just to hurt him. I am sorry you have to go through this hurt, I wish you luck love and happiness.
190858
find a rich 2nd wife.
228085
she should have noticed the wedding ring, if you are wearing it. hint at her how much you love your wife and that you feel its wrong to cheat on your mate.
872968
if you are quiet serious for marriage with her then plz go a head and take very good care of her self.\nregards
482923
go to him and say sorry .. what if later on he shows up the same way u did and does the same to ur wife ?
896672
find out y? If it is something you did and you really love her then straighten yourself up and ask for another chance.
319485
Let's see...you married a man who had failed at 5 marriages before you, right? And I assume it was always the woman's fault that the marriage went south, right? I suggest that you have learned, hopefully, a very expensive lesson...people do not change, regardless of how much you want them to. I am sorry, but where were you when all this money was disappearing? Where were you when he was living high on your expense account. Your were "smitten??" I think the proper word for it is, "you lost your mind." NOw, pay your bills and go one with life. Not much else you can do. But I would hope that your are much wiser in the "from now on" than you have been in the "way back then."
723099
Holy Crap! You married a saint. How did you find a girl to take all that crap. Well, if she doesn't leave you man you owe her big. Good luck.
266374
Woah.  Did he marry you first or the other woman first?  You might want to check with a lawyer on this one.
1183051
please give some more details.how you lost her?was she your wife?any old contact number etc of her?
1013877
I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)