i love someone having physical relations but he does not want to marry me?
375107
what about you?  what about what you want and need in the relationship.  Cut out the "physical relations", tell him what you need out of the relationship, and see how long he sticks around.  Then you'll have your answer
293020
No dont get so jumpy,That just means that hes showing you he loves you and wants to be with you,it doesnt mean that he wants to get married but it also doesnt mean he doesnt want to get married.I have better idea then listening to me.Go ask him what it means.
210022
Are you scared of the intimacy? Have you always had difficulty? Or are you trying too hard to be aroused? Visualize a fantasy with him, and set it up. Talk to him. Don't make him guess at what's going on. He loves you, if he didn't he wouldn't have married you. Intimacy involves the mind, body, soul and heart, let him romance every facet, taking his time. Communicate. Good luck and best wishes for you both.
1016755
i think the question here is, do you have someone who you think you may want to marry? never say no to anything that may bring you happiness. love is the best thing in life. if you find it, GRAB IT AND RUN!!! always be open to love. \n       best of luck hun......."E"
710371
he luvs u a lot, but i think 'coz of some family matters,he doesn't want ur realationship!!!!!!!\nbut dont worry he loves u a lot!!!!!!!!
574704
What you are feeling is natural, because you love him.  But think about it, he is putting the drug as his lover instead of you.  This is a big issue, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it because you guys have been dating for five years.  Should you be put second "NO", and do not put yourself in the situation.  I know that it's easier said then done. Think about what you want!  Good Luck!
710818
If the love that you have for him is real strong and he feel the same way then baby he's not going any where. Good luck.
974410
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
1053244
you aren't in love - you are infatuated. \nshe doesn't want you - give up, heal & move on... you can't find happiness with someone that you have to convince to like you.
553408
apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
496927
You sound confused. If you don't want to be with him ad want to break up, why wait. You are stringing him around, and at the same time you are holding on to him in case you don't like what you have got planned with the other person
959058
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
237848
I think your right.  I think you need to make a stand and force him to decide if he really wants a relationship with you or not.  You need to find out so you can move forward with your life and find happiness either with him or with out him.
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
204899
Tell him that you refuse to marry him until you both learn how to communicate better with each other!
187121
don't do it, he is scared he is losing you and that is the only reason he is ready of the commitment.  you need to find someone who really loves you and will marry you for the right reason, not just because they don't want to be alone.