I have a gf and my parents don't know about her.How can i tell them about her?
359992
That's not a girlfriend - that's a netfriend!
755159
Tell her sensitively and tell her what she deserves to know. Tell her that the relationship with her father did not work out, and that he was a naughty man. Tell her you love her, and you are lad you are here and that she is beautiful just the way she is, and that God wanted her to come into your life so much. Tell her she has a wonderful family, and that it may be better to not know her other half of her family, as you know nothing about them.
564433
Please tell your parents that you are going to the movies with a girl.  \n\nThere are a lot of BAD things happening to  kids these days.    \n\nHer parents need to know where both of you are going.  Tell your parents you met the girl IM'ing - her parents should also know met IM'ing. \n\nHow can you and a girl you met on the computer, like each other?  You only know each other's online personality.\n\nWhew!  Kids today.
421049
talk to them, earn their trust. seem interested in whatever they might say. act like you have nothing to hide(which you might not), and smile. also act polite. meeting the parents is never easy, but it must be done eventually.
896666
Be aware of your differences, ask BF to teach you about his culture, be respectful, open minded, and celebrate the differences. And teach him about yours.\nI know most parents would pick someone culturally similar to their child, but more and more, parents just want their child to be happy. Ask the BF how he thinks his parents will react to your dating. It will give you a little insight about how he feels about you, too.\nGood luck.
493775
You are 25.  You are old enough to make your own decisions.  It would be best if you talked to your parents about it than hide the relationship any longer.  They will understand. They are family.  If they do not understand, then make them understand.  But I highly doubt it would be a huge problem.  Let your family know how you feel about her and where you see this going, especially if you see this going towards marriage.  You dont just want to surprise them one day with something you think they might not take lightly.  But I dont think its something you really need to worry about.  Remember, communication is key to a great relationship.  Good luck! =)
1062034
I definitely think you should try, no matter how well you feel around her.  She is still your family, even though you are not blood related.  I'm sure your father would be very happy if you could connect with her.  Respect to parents and family no matter how close you are is a very important thing in life, well it definitely is in my culture.
314136
You could try asking her parents for their approval, it'll show you are man enough to take the responsibility because you really like their daughter. But you'll need to be super respectful and probably be a good idea to go with some answers cause you know they're going to grill you.  But if they say no, you should take it well.
801338
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
563926
Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
1162113
look..because i think i'm the only person here who actually knows the big picture, i will give u my advice, as a friend of both of u and as a person who has lived that kind of parental discrimination:\n\nif u r talking about maryam, don't worry about it just now, coz u two r like 5000miles apart at the moment. her folks can't do anything to stop her sending emails and chatting with u. u guys can just carry on as u did b4 and by the time u guys unite u will both be adults (theoretically when someone turns 18 they r considered an adult)... anyway... yeah. until then, her parents won't have any say in the matter. u can do whatever u want. plus u will be mature enough to confront them. u can meet them and show them what a greast person u are and how much u lover their daughter. parents can rarely say no to true love. they r probably just afraid at the moment because they haven't seen u and they see things on the news about asian/eastern races that they r afraid beause of the war. u know? just stake it out until u can actually do somethign about it.\n\nthen again, if u r not taling about maryam, then i am confused AND i need more details to answer this question. so email me.
231424
I think that if you really care for the girl and she really cares for you, and she is not the type to let people influence her judgement, then I think it doesn't matter. As long as you two are happy then you shouldn't let anyone stand in your way of happiness. I mean you are dating her, not her parents. I would just give it time and eventually the parents will warm up. I mean this is their daughter, and they will always look out for her no matter what. That is what parents do.
573329
Hi..\n\nif u really like her  then u can tell ur parents that u want to propuse to her and get engagged  if no body minds that and if u guys r old enough...\n\nif thats not possible then just try to keep away from her so u dont hurt her and not hurt urself.\n\ngoooood luck
128048
Open communication and hold back judgement as much as possible.  The more comfortable she is with you, the more she'll open up and tell you about her life.  \n\nMy mom and I really had problems when I was a teenager (I'm guessing that's how old your daughter is), but we started to understand each other when I went away to college.  Now she and I talk a few times a week or more.  Hang in there!  :)
54819
you dont want to tell them about your life (personal) just talk about gerneral things and see if you have anything in common if so it will be fine from there. Oh yeah the more you think about NOT saying something stupid YOU WILL! so dont think too hard.
1090117
If her parents are the ones getting in the way he should just try to be friends with her, and proove to her parents that he is a steady responsible boy.\n\nIf her parents are fine with her dating, but the girl is un-sure... well he should do basically the same, but perhaps he could broach the subject of dating a little sooner.\n\nBasically he should be respectful of her, and try to get to know her first, proove that he's in it for the long run, and that he really cares for her.
503252
Where are your parents? They need to know what a royal pain in the butt she's being. She has no right to treat you like that...unless you did something to tick her off first. If you did, own up to it. If not, then again--tell your parents.