i m in lov he lov me so much that he want to marry me but my parents will not readywhat v should do?
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How old are you and what religion
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I am in my current life wanting to marry the love of my life, but m scared bcz my father is not ready for our marriage... he has his reasons though but...
194276
Sometimes parents don't understand ur feelings and they are only pertecting you I say go for it because if you really like this guy you should follow ur heart and date him tell ur parents you love him and tell them to get over it, nicely of course.
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First of all, religious differences are a major concern. If his religion forbids marrying out, you won't have a happy marriage as far as his parents go... Take that into SERIOUS consideration.\n\nNow the way he treats you, I mean, I know you love him but he really doesn't seem that interested in you. Why would he want to wait for five years? He thinks his parents will somehow approve of you in five years and now they just can't see the situation clearly?\n\nSend me a private message if you want to discuss this further. Just give this some really serious thought, marriage is forever and the last thing you need is a divorce a few months after getting married AFTER waiting years and years!
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how do u know he loves u ,guys say a lot of things and dont mean it i think u should listen to your parents ,sometimes they see what we cant and u are young  wait on time dont rush into anything or let anyone brain wash u telling u what they will and wont do.
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What? The parents are not ready juz bcoz of their horoscope didn't match? wooow...what a reason.\n\nwell...if they both are in love and ready to take any responsibility and risk by getting marry, then do it.\n\nit is true, they'll end up with 2 question only, get marry or be gone.\n\nthey are mature enough to do it by them selves, sooner or later, parents will understand and starting to accept it step by step.\n\njust pursue what you both think is the best.\n\none of the reason why they don;t get  marry it's bcoz it is not the time yet.\n\nencourage your self to dare to take the decision, don't thibk too much by thinking only.
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hi!\nits simple! \nfight for your love.\nif you really love him,then go to him,\neven your parents don't like him.\ni know that your parents will understand you.\njust follow your HEART
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You don't. While it is admirable that you wish to honor your parents by doing their wishes, you need to lead your own life.  There no sence in getting into a relationship where you know you won't be happy.  It's time to break the cycle and make your own decisions.  I understand your parents would be disappointed and possibly disown you,and I mean no disrespect towards them, but,in my opinion your child's happiness should come first even if it means not marrying the person you feel they should.
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We have no way of knowing. It sounds like this is an arranged marriage.  Why don't you talk to your parents?  If that doesn't work talk to your Fiance.
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don't do it, he is scared he is losing you and that is the only reason he is ready of the commitment.  you need to find someone who really loves you and will marry you for the right reason, not just because they don't want to be alone.
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respect ur parents and tell him u cant
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dont listen of all of them are u going to run to this man tell him marry me as my parents are forcing me to get married?haha hes going to be a man dont do that.during this time dont be in touch with this guy tell ur parents i wont get married now go off get a new job move to a new place then date man u love if not find a nice guy get married settle down marriage should be based on love and marriage shouldnt be for any other reason then two people themselves wanting to spend their life together not parents.
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girl f.. his parents if ya love each other thats all that counts..dont leave him for no one show his parents that no matter what their son loves you and they gotta deal with it..
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i truly understand how you feel, because at one point in my life ive been so terribly inlove with a guy and we are together for more than two years. like you i promised to stick with him, and we almost got to the part of commiting a secret marriage, and like you, he take me forgranted at times but often tells me that he loves me dearly. and just like you again, my parents want me to leave him. and then when i refused, they are the one who do it for me. and now i realized, he doesnt deserve me. i thought at first ill never get ovwer him and not think of any other man other than him, but you know? i did, and now i realized, when the relationship is already hurting you and breaking your morale and self-estemm and youre crying more than being happy, then friend its time to go. and i when it comes to money, he will just be reliant to you. if right now, he already rely to you to help him on those things, fact is after you two get married, youre the one to get married and he will just rely to you. there are plenty other men in the world. believe me, ive been ther, done that, i managed to move on. and tell your family to help you. you need them badly, they love you, they know he is notthe right one.
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What the f*** has it got to do with your parents?! You're marrying him not them. If you pay for your own wedding you can arrange it how you want and that includes choice of groom.
408696
He wants a baby. You don't feel ready. Ask him for a wedding first. Kids need two parents, and they need the legal protection of having their parents be married. And BOTH parents should be ready. Having a baby is a LOT of work. It isn't all baby powder and bassinettes. They cry at night, they get sick, they need a lot of attention, they need potty training, they need schooling, they need good role models, etc. Your kids are there forever. If he can handle all that responsibility, then go for it. But get married first. If he can't commit to you first,then he's not going to commit to a kid.
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My parents wrote me a letter once where they told me how much they loved me had planned for me and how much they pray for me, I also went on a retreat. They told me they were proud of my achievements and that I deserved evrything the world has to offer. As far as being assertive its going to be very difficult b/c he is still a teenager and at that age you want to belong to something, but keep talking to him, tell him not to be afraid to stand his ground on what he believes is right.