I really like these 2 guys @ work, but don't know if I should ask them out?
374361
There's nothing wrong with going out on a date with both of them to find out which one would be the best match for you to invest time into.  And it may take more than one date to figure that out.  It isn't like you are in a committed relationship so there's nothing wrong with dating both of them.  As long as you are honest about it and don't play games, you should be okay.  Have fun!
538749
Definitely wait until the job is finished... if he asks you out, be honest and say you are attracted to him and explain it is best that wait until the job is over.\n\nEnjoy!:)
512679
If this guy is your freind and u think that you know him well, then you should know what his reaction is going to be so you should do what you think is best. Follow ur heart. I know that sounds cheeesy but it's good advice.
103686
OF COURSE you should ask him out! This is 2006. Don't let someone else's chauvinistic idea keep you from doing what you want. If you like someone, let him know. He'll be flattered - whether he likes you or not. And you'll be taking responsibility for your own life, instead of waiting for a man to take control of it for you.
991476
I read an article once that work was the #1 place to meet your mate. \n\nBut that aside, I would say you should both agree that if it looks at all like this isn't going to work out, you back off quickly and agree to remain friends.  \n\nOr, get your resume polished off.  But if you really feel like he is not just a guy to date, but someone you could have a future with, go for it.  There are other jobs.
914720
Explain to him that you're flattered, but you don't date your coworkers.  If it doesn't work out, it could be rough...and if it does it could be even worse....
312502
ask him anyway! gather all your courage...and just ask! as you said, u both told that u liked each other! LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING CHANCES!!!!!
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
693208
Well, you have to make the opportunity to talk to them. Ask them out for a drink or a coffee. If you don't want to be that bold, then maybe you can get a group of co-workers to go to dinner/lunch together one day. Make sure you sit near him and talk it up.
752063
well ur getting mixed signs so i would go with it and ask him out
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
14776
You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
1043060
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
683036
ask the guy out. you might regret later if you don't
889740
You said the guy is attracted to you. Do you think you are attracted to him? Then approach him and introduce yourself and ask him about his favourate sports. I think you are both attracted to each other. Move ahead..................
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
332495
Well, it all depends if he finds you attractive and if his best friend is also.  There would be a great chance for the both of you two to work.