I want to know what to do about my boyfriend treating me differently!?
372524
I think you should leave him before he does. he sounds like the typical guy that doesn't want to be with his girl or that is cheating on her. You deserve better. Find someone that makes you happy and that shows you that he LOVES you. Talk to him and ask him whats up with him and if he acts like he doesn't care, LEAVE HIM. \n\nGood Luck
1180142
Well Babe, If he is doing everything that he is supposed to when he is with you, maybe you should take this opportunity to really let him know how much it is impacting you. If you have no plans of leaving him, and even if you do, you really need to let him know whats going on with you. Not Whining or Jealous but really heart-to-heart (like after sex..Funny but True) you need to approach him when you know that he is listening and you really need to express your concerns so that he can at least take them into consideration.\n\nAnd foremost Pray about all things Unceasingly and That God will hear you and answer you out of your distress.\n\nTake Care!
701446
forget the immature man. Move on and find someone else that won't treat you like a child.\n\nAnd he is NOT a gentleman is he treats you like that!!!!
142003
Don't take it any more.  You need to leave and get out of this relationship as fast as you can.  No one deserves to be treated like that.  You deserve to be in a real relationship where someone loves you and treats you with respect.
1187406
well give some detail like how is he no good? At least you figured it out in a quick amount of time you didn't waste years I would just tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore it's that's simple, you don't deserve to be treated badly... drop the jerk and find someone that will treat you right.
170911
I don't think that we can ever be too sure but I do think that the way the guy treats you means alot. There are many things that a man wont tell you because he doesn't want you to know his true feelings inside. If you feel comfortable enough around him just ask hinm how he feels about you. And let him take it from there. That should be the answer to your question. Just be prepared to be asked that same question in return. Just keep some of what you feel to yourself, you don't always tell them exactly what's in your heart that's when they learn how to munipulate. Just make sure that you two are close enough to share everything together..... GOOD LUCK with your relationship MAMA!!!!!!
920623
Your boyfriend can't fix you so quit trying to make him say things about you. All that will accomplish is driving him away. You need help but to expect him to fix you will only ruin your relationship. You need to get counseling so you can deal with your problem. Your boyfriend is not a counselor he is just a guy.\n\nTrust me I know this from personal experience, my girlfriend totally ruined our relationship with her constant neediness. When you act this way it ends up being all about you and his needs usually go unnoticed. Get out of yourself and into him.
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
688877
Sounds like your boyfriend is using YOU as his excuse for anything and everything!!\n\nMy opinion and advice?  Get rid of the boyfriend, find someone else who will value you more, and treat you like you're a human being, and not someone to use and abuse as an excuse because they're no good!
272578
my god....\nwhy dont u clearly talk to him.\nask him to stop jumping around. he isnt loving u but taking advantage of ur love just keeping u as backup for bad time of his. \nu r a person, u love him, u too get hurted. u too have value. make him realize this. have a serious talk on this.\n\nif he dont love u, then dont let him messup wth u again n again. be clear, it will hurt u but its better than being victim. tell him either he can be wth u totally loyal or just stay away from u. he is confused in his life, he dont know what love n whats value of it. good serious talk can make him undertand this, n if he is really a good person them he will value u or wont hurt u more. otherwise he is crook.\nlove is from both sides, both have to give n take. i can understand u doing him for pure love, but have value for urself. i guess u r treating him very softly n freedom, u r letting him do any thing he wants. he has to realize that u love him so he cant jump around. when its love then its wth just wth 1 person.\n\ni understand u love him, ur heart melts for him n it makes u accept him again n again though he is doing crap. u cant do it forever, talk n decide what he actually want u or anyother.  if he REALLY dont love u then bear wth some pain n keep him away. just give him a option that he come to u only when he is very serious n forever.\nkeep ur door open to him, but dont let him just taking ur advantage. be strict n let him come to u wth a condition that he wont leave u again. be strict, be lil over emotions u can accept him any time becoz u really love him, be proud of it. but be strict to value urself as person. u r not just a thing to play. be strict so it will save u from emotional n mental damage.\n\nwhen he comes to u agian, make sure he got everything clear n he is loyal, he has his mind set on u tatally then accept him.....be happy that u got ur love forever.
159086
I think you should have some self-respect and dump him, because he's clearly treating you poorly and taking you for granted.  You're better off solo than with someone who isn't treating you the way you deserve to be.
309186
Sorry to say this but it sounds like he is using you.  He doesn't deserve you!
237543
Tell him straight-out, give him an example or two. If he doesn't act like he cares or makes no changes in how he is treating you, and IF you are not married, perhaps you are wasting time with Mr. Wrong, that you could be spending with a Mr. Right somewhere along the line. You must value yourself as a person enough to do this; if you continue to allow him to act like you don't matter, then you are basically agreeing with him. You do matter, you do have a choice, and there are plenty of other guys that would likely find you captivating and enjoy acknowledging you and including you in their world.
1103588
sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
430928
Dump him.  hahahaha just kidding.\n\nMaybe a few nights out with the girls will get him to stop taking you for granted, which is what I think you are telling me is going on.  When he starts to notice, don't be stubborn, don't deny it, say plainly, "Why shouldn't I?  You are taking me for granted!"  You might even walk out of the room to drive your point home.  Stay gone.\n\nGet in touch with him the next day and apologize for your "tantrum".  (if this is unlike you, all the better).  Let him know that you care about him and let him know you still want to do "special" things for him, but you can't be expected to stick around if he doesn't demonstrate his appreciation.\n\nDon't make a habit of fighting like this.  If he gets it, he gets it.  If he doesn't... well, I'm single. =)
974146
Back off and get a grip of yourself.\n\nYou say nothing changed...and yet you say things got a little worse.  Obviously something changed...it just wasn't by your rules.  Things changed also in that you've shared something important about your feelings.\n\nJust be nice to him but don't expect him to react the way you want him to.  Respect that he'll react the way he needs to.
987988
Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.