What is the best technique not to ejaculate and transmute my sexual energy during sexual intercourse?
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do your times tables in your head. 2x2 is 4. 2x3 is 6.....
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the only way to be 100% sure is not to have sex. as this is impossible for a lot of people they resort to the methods you have stated, which are about 99% effective when used properly.
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Between the two solutions, sexing and abstinence, having sex is the best choice unless you haven’t decided to get a chastity vow. It’s medically demonstrated that sexual activity is healthy for whole body and for sexual system mainly in both sexes.  \nDr. R. W. Bernard in his essay entitled "Science discovers the physiological value of continence" states:\n"[I]t is clear that there is an important internal physiological relation between the secretions of the sex glands and the central nervous system, that the loss of these secretions, voluntarily or involuntarily, exercises a detrimental effect on the nutrition and vitality of the nerves and brain..... \nOne study suggests that frequent ejaculation may lead to a lower risk of prostate cancer. Indeed, there have been numerous studies indicating that excessive repression of the sexual instinct leads to an increase in the overall level of aggression in a given society.\nIt is necessary the balance. An absolute license is bad; an absolute abstinence —even though some by nature or circumstances are urgently called to adopt i t— is also bad. They are both alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs of any person.\nOKAY??
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Don't have sex prematurely
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You shouldn't.  Sex is a natural process.  Abstaining is unnatural.  The human sex-drive is second only to the hunger-drive.  Just use protection and don't knock her up!
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
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When you feel yourself coming, stop what you are doing, and don't move until the feeling goes away. Once it does, slowly go back to the motion. Once you feel yourself coming again, stop, and remain still until it goes away. Do this several times, every time you are making love to a woman or masturbating. In fact, you can get in plenty of practice from masturbating. No joke intended.\n\nWhat you are doing is plainly obvious. You are training your body and brain to hold off the orgasm for just a few seconds more. As time goes by, with you training yourself, you will find that you can last up to fifteen minutes of constant thrusting if you want. Although she wouldn't want it, because, again, most women's bodies can't produce enough fluid to keep their vaginas from drying out for that long. So you may not even want to shoot for fifteen minutes. It's not really necessary.\n\nWhen doing this technique with your lover, be in your most favorite position. You may have read from other sources that instruct you to do the opposite, because when you are in your favorite position, it will only make you come faster. Well, you want to be in your favorite position, because you WANT to train your brain and body. Why stay away from your favorite position?!\n\nIf you are VERY sensitive to being inside of a woman, to where you come to orgasm with juts a few minutes, you may want to buy a "Pocket P*ssy." This may sound strange to many of you, but a pocket p*ssy fells almost like the real thing. Using this sex toy to practice with works wonders. Don't laugh. It works.\n\nStart doing this training right now. In just a few weeks, maybe longer, you will find that you can hold your orgasms from happening longer. It's a surprisingly effective technique.
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all your energies are focused tooo!!!!!! much on da orgasm... creating too much anxeity...and too much expectation... which creates a block... Next time you have sexs dont be in a hurry...and dont search for orgasm somewhere in your brain or any other part... just realx and have sexes as if orgasm never existed...just wait and watch...it will come as surprise guest!!! all da best...
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well try meditating or a cold shower or pick up a bible that should help if not go to a sex therapist.
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Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
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dont have it so often.  then it will be more specail.  try foreplay but then no sex.  then carry all that sexual tension for a week and have a blast one night.  try new positions or techniques.
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Actually, the most effective treatments recommended do not include any sort of medications.  Techniques to learn when you are about to ejaculate are a way to start.  Upon knowing when that point is going to occur, one can stop the activity, just long enough to avoid an orgasm - then resume and repeat as needed.  It takes time, but most cases can be remedied in this manner.
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There are no drugs and using anything that numbs him will also numb his partner making sex dull for both. The key is to learn control. He has to learn when his orgasm is approaching and slow down or stop.\n\nA series of these maneuvers will eventually give him longer erections without ejaculation. He also has to learn to concentrate on what he is doing, not just the sensation.\n\nThere is also the squeeze method which is a physical way of slowing him down. When he feel orgasm approaching he withdraws and his partner squeeze the penis just below the head with an even pressure stopping ejaculation. Hold this position until his excitement level is back to normal then proceed.\n\nGood luck and have fun trying these methods, don't make it clinical.
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The flow of energy you are refereeing to is always there. It is all around us all the time.It is great with sex, but is also good just to have. You can tap into it anytime you want to,
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Try this.\n\nYa know that muscle at the base of your penis that can lift it up? Well seriously just practice that, while you're in the shower or whatever. \n\nAndn this one. While masterbating, when you're about to orgasm, that very first feeling, flex that muscle and stop soi you don't ejaculate, then repeat after a while you will be able to control it with that muscle, just try that.\n\n\nAlso, believe it or not a lot of it is mental, tell yourself you aren't gonna cum and you'll probably last longer.
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concentrate your energy on something else thats productive not reproductive.\n\njoin extreme sports camps
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use baby oil, it gives the wildest sensation, try cyber sex, it helps when someone is doing it with u