how do you cure a broken heart please tell me how?
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There isn't a way to "Cure" a broken heart.  Time is the only thing that mends it.  I've tried everything and I can tell you that ONLY time will work. \n\n However, there are things that you can do during this time that will make it mend stronger.  Get involved with your friends again.  I know that you left them behind to be with that girl.  So start going out with them.  Have some fun and go out to eat and then a movie.  Go on an adventure like rafting or go help a charity.  \n\nPutting other things higher on the list than that girl will help you mend stronger.  The more things that you have on your mind besides her, the better things will be.
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it depend on the nature of getting out.were u heartbroken? if yes then the best way to get over a broken heart is to get under another relationship. but if u were tired of the affair and thoughtfully decided 2 chicken out i will advice u to give urself time 2 rest b4 starting anode.remember not 2 compare ur next victim or guy 2 the previous 'cos guys are not thesame and while planing 2 start another, remember dat u also have a weak point, u might be responsible 4 ur broken relationship.be wise, think well and enjoy ur next encounter, u will not regret it!.
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cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
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begin the healing process. It will be hard and will take forever. keep yourself busy. Goodluck
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Put your happiness and sadness things from your heart. your daily things, your school, your friends and your dreaming.\n\nJoyce
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yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
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good day to you,\n\n I understand what you are facing now. but you have to start first by asking forgiveness to the Lord our God and let him rule your life rather than you rule your own life. everybody had a mistake. but it's up to you to fix it. Try to reach God and feel His love deep into your heart. Talk to Him and it's more easier to overcome your problem by crying out all your pains while praying. His always there beside you and and never leave you all alone. He loved you very much simply because He still let see the brighter color of your life, grab this chance that He gave you. Then one day a big surprise will happen. God already touched your heart so don't let him go again. Pray everyday and let Him lead your life. And if you  do all this things, God will do the rest by healing your family's broken hearted.
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I'm assuming that this is a gay relationship considering your choice of words.  Regardless, the best cure for a broken heart is a rebound mate!  \n\nSeriously, start going back to clubs.  Spend time with your Grandma, renew old relationships you gave up in order to spend more time with him.  Also, even though it will be hard not to bring HIM up in about every conversation, try not to talk about him very much to your family and friends.  That can get annoying after a while.  The more time you practice not talking or thinking about him, the more your mind and heart will ease the pain and humiliation.  One more important thing:  When and if he comes groveling back  DEMAND HE BE TESTED FOR HIV/AIDS & STD BEFORE ANY INTAMANCY takes place.  AND ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX...NO SEX UNTIL YOU SEE  CURRENT RESULTS TO AN AIDS TEST.
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As the saying goes " There's no easy way to break somebody's heart" There will always be heartaches and disagreements especially if one doesn't want to let go. What worked for me is remaining good friends with my EX. :-)
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marriage counsellor?\naccept that your marriage is over?\ndo somethinga about making your lover happy - get romantic working again?
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dear broken hearted,you have to understand the difference between a lie and actually physical harm.i know what physical harm is.i loved someone and because of this i trusted him.but i really found out the hard way.i was almost killed due to an accident he caused because i was letting him go for his lies.so be thankful you only have a broken heart to deal with.i forgave him but i can never be with him again .my life is worth more than that.so you will heal in time and find someone who will treat you good and you can trust.i have .so anything is possible.take care and move on.
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Be very kind to yourself.  Let yourself be sad about how things didn't work out, but after a reasonable amount of time, start to distract yourself from your sad feelings.  Be around friends that make you laugh, do nice things for yourself, take time getting to know yourself again and what you want out of life besides what you don't have, then start taking steps to make all of your dreams come true.  With time your heart will heal.
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start talking even if it is VERY broken.\nI came through that successfully.\n\nof course, you need somebody who will listen in the very beginning stage and will enjoy listening.\n\nhave fun.
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Yours?  Get involved in something else.  Do not dwell on the past.\nA friend?  Listen.  Help keep their mind on something else.  Hugs do wonders.\nStay away from tear-jerker movies, songs and book.  Go for the light hearted.\nHearts can be broken, but they do heal.
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If u just got out of a relationship then that's why your heart broken n u need time to heal.Just like when someone dies u need to morn the same goes for when u r in a relationship.
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Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
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write down how u feel on a blank white paper..be clear of how you are feeling. when u do this, u'll know what's really bothering you.\nWrite down what makes you sad, and what makes you happy, and then focus on the one's that make u happy. most of the time, its the past that's holding one back. always remember its your present that will determine you're future, and you have to make sure being alone does not come as something that is bad...lots of things can be achieve even as you are alone, and trust me..as you write down what makes you happy, u'll realize life is worth the while\na heart can be broken, but not your dreams. rediscover it