Why I haven't met a good boy like my former boyfriend?
363259
because you are obviously comparing everyone to your ex... you can't count on guys to be the same as each other...it just doesn't work that way...sorry.
216310
It sounds like you don't really like the guy that's been in jail enough to sit around and wait on him. That isn't necessarily a bad thing for you, though.Why is he an on and off again boyfriend? Is it because of jail? Is it because of the actual relationship? You need  someone that will be good to you. How do you feel about the other guy? Could be you have feelings for him or you might even be ready to move on and find someone completely new. Don't loose your self esteem during all this.You deserve someone that'll be good to you and be there for you. Don't take any crap from either one.I wish you the best of luck!
1009402
Well honestly you have to think about what you truly think the meaning is. Maybe you still have feelings for him or maybe the feelings you thought were gone are reserfacing. It can also be that you are lonely and maybe the love you are searching for was found in your previous relationship even though it's ended. It could be that you just are lonely and want someone. Think about it, the true answer lies within you it's not a bad thing it happens!
48011
Perhaps, it is not what you are ready for right now. If you have been with someone for a while and things are heating up, maybe this person is not the right one for you. If it is just that you are single and you're not finding anyone, just give it time. I broke up with a guy a few years ago and months went by with out me meeting any quality people. One day I said to myself that I wasn't going to look anymore and focus all of that attention somewhere else. two days later, I met my fiance.
93910
no one can make you forget the ex-boyfriend except new boy friend as he did.so ask your self did he thinking about you? if yes call him.. if no (and i think so cause you told that he have a new one) so live your life . he isn't the last man in the world. and ofcourse you are bretty. find the one who deserve you.
307119
i think u just have to look for another  guy out there because there are so many nice,caring and loving guys out there.u made the wrong decision befor by  choosing ur exboyfriend,so don,t make another by choosing  his friend because they may be thesame.
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.
689965
Maybe it's true that you haven't met the right guy yet.. but i always look for where i went wrong..is it the guys or me? if they were bad, u wouldn't have stayed that long with them.. so it's not entirely them.. U have to understand that there are steps to finding the right man for you...that's by knowing who u really are and what your looking for in a relationship.....most of us don't know it, but we want someone who's just like us in many aspects.\nNow lets go to the happy part.....huns i don't believe that anyone can make you happy if you're not happy yourself.. i always say that men are a source of happiness, but the main source should be me....if i didn't make my self happy, no one else will be able to make me happy.
866212
I READ YOUR PROFILE.  ONE OF YOUR QUESTION WAS ASKING ADVICE ON HOW CAN YOU DEAL WITH LOSING YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF YOUR BOYFRIEND!  YOU NEED TO SEEK HELP AND FIND OUT WHY YOU SEEK OUT BEING TREATED SO POORLY.  YOU HAVE TO WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM.  GOOD LUCK, PLEASE HEED THE ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING, IT SEEMS TO BE SOUND.
415835
I'd consider it wise to remove your e-mail address from this question - there are some dangerous people in the world.  Try Yahoo Personals or another online dating service to meet a nice boy.
1052872
You may have these feeling, because you are jealous . You broke up with him for a reason, and now he has another man. Hold your head up , and just go out with friends, and have FUN. do things to forget him. Don't "look" for another guy, rather, let them find you. that always seems to help me when i can't get over a guy.
1092456
there is hope i am a 27 year single mom who until a year and a half ago was  raising two boys by myself .then i met and fell for a guy who is the best thing to happen to me and my boys.in the last year and half he has treated my boys better then their own father.sometimes these guys are harder to find then most but don't give up. and never let anyone say your children are baggage they are bonuses to any relationship.some guys are just not mature enough to realize it.
126284
Keep your mind open to further possibilities. Don't compare the guy that you've date with your guy. I know it must be hard coz on 7 years of your life you only figure out him as your 'prince charming' in your mind. Open your heart to find the qualities that maybe you need on the guy you date with. Maybe you don't even realize that yet.  Don't close it the minute you meet someone wonderful. \nRelease your guilty feeling caused you date with other guys. It didnt mean you not love him anymore. Let your love to him be a part of your sweeties memory ever.  Don't stuck on it. Move on. Please believe that your guy doesn't want you feel sad and stuck on the past anymore. He must be want to see you happy again. So release it...
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
373131
i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.
789975
YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH. SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED TO TAKE SOME TIME APART FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND SO THAT YOU CAN FIGURE OUT YOUR FEELINGS. THIS HAPPENS ALOT IN LIFE. THE KEY IS TO WEIGH YOUR PROS AND CONS. IF YOUR YOUNGER THEN DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT BECAUSE LATER DONWN THE LINE YOU WON'T EVEN KNOW THESE BOYS LAST NAMES.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)