why is that when u break up with ur man for ur own personal reason u still dont want him to be with anyone els
367565
Your own personal reason may be the result of "following your head" whereas you not wanting him to be with anyone is "following your heart"....catch 22
335094
Why did you guys break up in the first place.  Why not take him back.  For a man to swallow his pride and come begging is a lot of guts.
583417
He still has feelings for you and it hurts him to see you with someone else, he is jealous and trying to run this guy off because he wants to be with you.
193358
It is going to be the hardest thing you do right now. At least it is for me. im going through the exact same thing right now.You should let that person go,because you dont even want to try to be with someone who does not want you.
171455
Well you can't control other people's feelings and to try to do something to break the relationship up is not being a friend to either of them. The only thing you can do is go on with your life and meet other people.
885813
if she broke up with you let her go people come and go in our lifes for a reason   shes not the one for you there are plently of other fish in the sea one that is meant for you
270277
he asked me if my best friend was dating anyone and when we broke up would I be mad if he went out with her. I told him that she was seeing someone (for 5 months) because she was and then i broke up with him because there are so many other guys out there i can be with that wont say that to me!!!!!
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
380466
Depends, are you the girlfriend or the wife?  There are many reasons that people get involved with others. The number one reason is because they are dissatisfied or unhappy with their relationship.  No matter if your the girlfriend or the wife, make a decision to move forward with your man or not.  And then talk to him about your decision.  It will work out better if your both completely honest.
569048
well, i think the most obvious reason is that your not being satisfied like you should be. But sometimes ppl just want something different that one time.\n i just broke up with my guy cuz he lived so far away and i wasnt gettin none. i fixxed that problem right up ;D so sometimes distance can be the problem, too.
1131716
It could quite possibly be that someone else is sticking their jealous nose into the relationship and trying to break the two people up by pointing out that person's faults.  It happened to one of my friends they were "madly in love" and he started to get very irritated with his girlfriend because everyone else didn't like her I wasn't fond of her either but thats was no reason to try and break them up...I really hate when people who really know nothing about a relationship find ways to break people up.  Honnestly tho if it is that someone is influencing someones views of their partner that much it wasn't meant to be...they have a brain of their own and can make their own decisions. \n\nI dunno I could just be going out on a tangent here.
409090
Because he isn;t trust worthy.  Say this to him "_______ you told me if i couldn't trust you then we need to break up.  Well i can;t trust you because of the way you're acting and if you're not willing to help me to trust you by not acting that way then guess what, goodbye"  dump him before he cheats and really breaks ur heart.
756545
the fact that ur just thinking bout breaking up with your boyfriend should b a sign....
697115
Get over him.  If he is just making excuses not to be with you then he doesn't want to be with you at all.
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
228478
So, basically they want the benefits of being in a relationship with you but not actually having to make a committment to you?  If this person is not even willing to give you the respect to call you teir significant other formally then you should run like hell and be glad they broke things off.  They are trying to USE you and don't care enough about you  to give you a proper title.  You deserve so much better than that.
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.