What should I do when I get into fights with my best friend?
365396
Each of you should apologize and make up.
955185
Try to talk to her. My best friend is having a problem like this right now, and the best thing to do is try and talk it out. If she won't talk to you, get a new friend.
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.
499946
WELL THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LOOK OVER THE OTHER GURL AND STILL TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND NEVER MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE SHE IS TALKIN TO ANOTHER GURL MORE THAN YOU GIVE HER SOME SPACE AND YOU TALK TO SOME ONE ELSE THINGS MIGHT WORK OUT BETTER THAT WAY CUZ YOU TWO WILL START TO MISS EACH OTHER AND YOU TWO WILL BECOME BEST FRIENDS AGAIN.
158831
First evaluate the relationship and see if is worth fighting for, then talk to your best friend and ask him/her why the fighting and the distance.  Try to spend time and be patient and hopefully you will be able to save your friendship. good luck
338930
first try to get a quiet place where you and your friend can talk about every thing both of you have to realize that in every relationship people fight and argue also you have to be willing to whatever your friend is going to say whether good or bad also don't take it in a negative way and if she still doesn't want to talk just let it go maybe she was never your real friend anyway sorry hope all works out for you
372404
this is a very hard situation to be in believe me i know how you feel! my two best friends hate eachother too! one is a cheerleader and the other is a music buff and hates cheerleaders! i tell them both that i don't want in the middle of their little cat fights and they actually don't put me in that situation. if you're really their best friend, they won't make you sit through that kind of stuff. mine actually don't have a problem with eachother if i'm around with them both. every now and then i get into conflicts with one saying i'm paying more attention to the other but i just ignore that fact. what can i do, i have more classes with the cheerleader than i do with the music buff. just make sure they know you don't want anything to do with their little fights and they should let you out of their fights. it may take a little while, especially if they get into a huge argument! they might expect you to choose sides, but don't do it. stay strong and stick up for yourself! let them know who's boss in your life lol! i hope this helps and wish you luck!
472458
Stand up to them. Be willing to find new friends that won't treat you that way. Call them on the carpet, the next time they step out of line, hit them back, verbally. They will either respect you and lay off, or they'll stop being your friend, in which case you didn't need them anyway.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
123816
You can leave them with your loved one's and know everything is ok.\n\nThey are the one's defending you when you are not around.\n\nStart a fight and see who has your back.\n\nWhen you have a problem they are there to help you solve it.\n\nThe same goes vice versa or you are not a good friend.
566738
You're contradicting yourself... you have a friend but you can't talk to that person because you're not friends? You had war... ahh! It's human nature to fight. Just wait it out a little. Let the anger pass. Later when you both are calm, talk about it, say sorry if need be. Friends are treasures.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
18229
Chances are you are going to hurt them, so just accept that.  Best approach is quick, swift, straightforward, and make a clean break.  Tell them it's time for you to move on, and that you will always wish them the very best. Don't answer all their questions, just tell them it's not a love match for you, and leave it at that.  Do not try and stay friends, you will only hurt them more.  Just move on and cut off intimate contact.
227070
I've never wanted to hit anyone...I've never been in a fight in my life, no one has ever hit me and I have hit no one..I think the best thing to do when you get upset is to go somewhere away from them and cool off then go back and talk about it with them..friends can drive you crazy at times and make you want to shake them and say what the heck is wrong with you but just be thankful for friendships even in the hard annoying times...
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
57130
You should talk with your friend about the situation...if you aren't doing anything to provoke the situation then you shouldn't worry but I would definitely encourage you to talk with your friend.
1023868
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo