how can i get this girl to realize that i am right for her but she thinks i am just a friend?
375724
Just because you think you are right for her, doesn't mean that you can make her think that.  You can't control someone's feelings you know.\n\nGive it some time, if she doesn't have feelings for you, just go on with your life and find someone else.
165355
it depends on what you did, give her a lil time...if it isent sucha HUGE deal she'l come around ..after all you are her friend.......but what could help is if your going out with a couple a freidns make sure to msg or call her inviting her to come....it will riminder her that you still want her as a friend and you want her company
32061
Maybe you are.  You could be the best friend she has without her being the best friend you have.  \nWhy would you want to tell her you're not?  It would be horribly mean, and besides, it's a nice compliment to you that she likes you so much.
186582
a woman knows from the time she first sets eyes on you whether or not she would or would not be with you so if it's there it's there if it's not it's not so just go for it talk to her and try to get some hints to see how she feels if she gives no hints just let her know how you feel and be sweet and let her know that you don't want it to affect your friendship and she should respect dat
973555
ya it really sound like she likes you. .ye seem to get on great and it seems she enjoys spending time with you. also friendship is the start to the best relationships.. so go for it and good luck
233156
If it was meant to be than you just need to be yourself, show respect and self-respect and treat her as you would want to be treated.  If she cares any for you than you will know and if it's suppose to happen it will.  If it doesn't than move on and don't look back, always forward.
523256
yes u do have an advantage as shes been ur friend 4 so long. as u defnitely  know her  try 2 judge the way she wants things to be\n it is true many girls don't accept it when their bstfrnds fall for them, but if u give them time they will probably realise the way they feel.give them the time to think and don't rush into it. also respect their feelings and try to look at it from their point of view. \n but do start showing her Slowly that u care 4 hr more than a friend. she might get shocked if u suddenly say that.remember 2 gv hr time.\ni hope u gt hr. May God bless you
520228
Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
316408
Well first of all. Talk to her, make it so your friends first or something. Try not be so weird around her, save that for your friends. But don't change completely who you are for her. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth your time
749780
believe her and find someone who will appreciate you...she is playing too many games....friendship only" is the kiss of death..
577013
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
1125467
How about just coming out and asking her?  If she says no she is either lying and you don't want a liar back or she really doesn't want you back and feels you are better a friends rather than a couple.  OR she says yes and you have decisions of your own to make.
29177
But you are not me.  You are you.\nTalk with her.  Get to know her and allow her to get to know you.  Be honest, play it straight.  No games.\nListening is important.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
453884
You are right it wouldn't be fair to take her knowing what you now know. Tell her you are sorry but you just don't think of her 'like that' but she as has been such a good friend it is only fair to say it right out. \nOff course you could end up dateless then what will you do?
1022757
The mature thing to do is to stop trying to impress her. Right now she sees you like a little puppy begging for treats, not as an independent man. Tell her sorry you didn't have a nice time, maybe we can still be friends and then move on. 7 out of 10 times a girl will start to drop her guard down after that and look at you as more then a puppy and start looking at you as boyfriend material, and even if she doesn't the other girls around you will see that and pick up on it too.
527064
i have one for you.just tell her that you dont feel the same for her as she does for you and that you would like to remain friends