courtship question...?
364386
"I don't know"...only means, that they are not sure at this point. "Chill"! Sounds like you have a smart suitor. They are taking the steps of this courtship seriously. That is what you want if your are looking for a lasting future, right?
582951
I would just do kiss him when the time seems right...It just doesnt seem right to ask...But a question like "would you feel comfortable kissing me" might be a good question or instead of saying me you could say "a girl you just met" or something like that...
767800
I would continue the crush from afar and consider a relationship in the future when you are no longer his student.  If you are so attracted to each other then you can wait until it is appropriate for you to date him.  And in the meantime, how about dating one of your peers -- a fellow student.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
114855
I'm just speculating on the range of possibible answers to this question that might help you. How about "Yes" - in which case, why did you get married in the first place? Or, "No", in which case why did you get married in the first place?\n\nAlternatively, you might only be able to properly answer this question if you were both of the same sex and living in Massachusetts, in which case the question would be redundant!!! So my question to you is...what is your question?
1094891
Hmmmmmm... now thats something you dont hear anymore...Courtship.\n\nIn the old days, courtship was a skill that had to be honed to a fine edge to be able to win the lady's hand. Today..if your just looking for a date....for dinner, a movie or whatever, you can pretty much just smile at the guy and he's yours to do with as you will.\n\nCourtship on the other hand, pretty much assumes that you have already picked the person that you want to fall in love with. Now, its up to you to find a way to woo the sweet lass and make her fall in love with you. \n\nNothing wins a womans heart like the written word. Not only do you need to be able to express yourself well, but what you write must have the ring of truth and sincerity in it. Flowers, courtesy, cleanliness and gentlemanly manners go a long way, but, it is always what you write that touches the heart.
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Neither.  Dating is the necessary prelude to courting.  Dating is where two people are learning about each other, exploring each others' personalities in order to determine if there can be something more.\n\nCourtship is after you've made that determination, and you're actively working to win each others' hearts.  If you do the courtship without the dating part, your chances of success are reduced because you don't know as much about each other.
381233
love is trully a strange thing....\ni'd say if its good let it be....\nAs for marriage, u'll know when the time is right.\ni m sure that they will meet face to face soon
846627
If you feel that it is the right time, then i say go for it. Just because the standard proposal is made by a man doesnt mean you have to abide by that. If you think the timing is right go for it. I wish you luck with whatever you do!
797236
You maintain your self and still be a nice person. Others will see that you are mature about it. You and he may want to date in the future but in the meantime you should start looking for another fellow. ○
535940
Sorry, the relationship is done.\n\nSilent is not the best way to finish a relation, but it works.
141242
Actually time is not really an issue.  I know pople who dated for 4 - 6 months and got married.  But there a re also people I know who have been dating since the beginning of time but they are still unmarried.  So obviously you are marriage oriented.  Bring up the marriage topic to him and see his reaction.  Positive or negative.  But you can also ask him directly to be sure  --  "do you plan on marrying me?" But be prepared for either getting really hurt or a pleasant surprise. In my opinion, if you are unsure then the answer is no or not yet.  Usually the guys will drop in a lot of hints on the fact that they want marriage early on in a relationship.  Does he talk alot about your future together?
47228
no!\nbut keep it slow and simple.\n\nhow else do you think people end up in a relationship
58806
DO'nt marry.\n\nYou'll repent that. It looks quite romantic first. But\nits your end surely!!!!\ngood luck!
479767
When it feels like it would be the logical next step.\nAsk yourself the following questions....\n\n1. Do we love, trust and respect each other?\n2. Do we share the same expectations of marriage? \n3. Do we share things in common that make us shout, cry and laugh? \n4. Do we agree on major life issues, such as children, family and friends, where we'll live and style of living? \n5. Do we have a way of managing conflict? \n6. Do we share the same views on infidelity and commitment to avoiding temptation? \n7. Do we love each other just the way we are today, without any hidden agenda to try to change the other?\nYou don't have to agree on everything. The important thing is that you and your partner have talked through these questions and both feel confident you can live and work together, knowing what the other believes
146620
I would say wait, wait for a really special person.  People tend to say they kiss younger than when they do, and may get embarassed due too the pressure everyone seems to put one the issue...You will be more satisfied the longer you wait.
151399
Shall you be such romantic dreamer? If it is not the first year, like my case, then I hear U;  tell me any clue of means of getting in touch with U & I promiss my diplomatic approacn.  By the way, how close r U?