iam 23 year old boy and iam getting married but i didnt know what i do in my first night please give some tips
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Read Yahoo Guidelines.........   Go buy a book on that subject.
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hey, that's cool that you're old fashioned.. hard to find. Just, care about him. ..um, if you know he's leaving, get his stuff together for him. Don't be so shy that you're trying to act like nothing's there.. but, don't push things, give it time. The most powerful and long lasting marriages, usually take quite a bit a time in the making. They don't just come over night. The whole "love at first sight" only takes place in fairy tales, because how could you love the person, if you don't know them yet? Give it time. Just be there for him. Don't be afraid to be friends first.. if it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. if it does.. aren't you glad you didn't rush into things? Hope this helps you some. take care. :)
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With Christmas coming up.. make mention of a ring some how. Even by making small talk in bed before sleep, bring it up somehow. He deserves to know how you feel and what you want! And if he doesn't want that yet or what not.. understand! Don't be in a hurry.. live life, have fun, and if things are meant to me between you two, a ring and a kid or more will happen!! It just takes time. Trust me, live life and have fun while you can, before you know it you'll be changing stinky diapers!. Enjoy your freedom of going out when ever you can, and not have to worry about finding a baby sitter or telling your friends you have to stay home with the kid. Plus.. a wedding and a kid shortly after is EXPENSIVE. Save up your money. Because once you have a kid.. you have responsibilities for the rest of your life.. enjoy life while you have the chance girl!!!
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As long as your excited about being married you have nothing to worry about. Try focusing on your wedding as a party instead of a "wedding." Think of it as a great time that you get to spend with friends and family, dancing, eating and having fun. That way, the actual "wedding" won't seem as tedious to you.
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Keep it simple. \n\nThe Venue - you can have this outdoors with a markee or hire out one of your favourite cafes. \n\nThe dress - find a dress you love and get a dress maker to copy it. You can buy the material yourself to even reduce the costs. \n\nThe food & drinks - you buy the alcohol and pick a nice red and white wine with champagnes for toasting. Pick two beers for the boys make one a light. Finger food is a great option do you know a friend or take away/cafe that maybe able to help out.\n\nFlowers - get them from the market fresh the day before and put a relo in charge or helping arrange. Don't ask them for a gift just tell them their help is enough!\n\nCake - surely one of your relo's makes a great fruit cake. If so you can get a cake shop to put icing on top to match your dress material. \n\nCars - you only need two cars, see what resources you have a use two cars in the family. Otherwise hire two cars for the day this is so much cheaper than wedding car hire.   \n\nPool all your resources together, people are so willing to help. Just say to them not to buy a gift in return for their help this will be appreciated and you will find that they will still want to give you a token.
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be confident and smile.  be yourself, and learn to have a good conversation.  groom!  look in her eyes - she will melt!  have fun and get out of the house!
1005892
when me and him get married ill teach him english, dont worry
1024798
I'm so happy for the two of you! Congratulations and I hope everything will work out for the best :)\n\nBefore you'll get into anything more serious and take it even further, may I you to do one thing? PLEASE wait until you turn 18 years old (in 3 years). I know it's a lot to ask, but to be on the safe side and for him not to get into jail on the charges of raping you. I know, both of you are all ready to start your lives together. You can use these 3 years to plan out where you'll live, work, how you'll take care of your kids, whether or not you'll need anyone else support at any time. As well as both of you can plan your wedding together, too :) Planning it step by step makes it that much perfect when the time comes and in the long run.
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Depends on what you want really!\nI am planning mine at the moment, so we can learn together! I am having it at a register office. I had to call to book an appointment with the superintendant registrar. They asked me when I wanted to get married and booked it over the phone! Next week we have to take our passports and proof of address to the register office to prove we haven't been married before.\nWe are having the reception at a local pub owned by a friend, and the flowers I am doing. I am buying silk flowers I can keep forever. My friends are making food so we can have a big huge buffet!\nGood luck with your wedding, get in touch with your wedding date if you need any more help!!
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Is this it?\n\nA Basket of Candles For (bride and groom’s names)\n\nA basket of candles that come in a pair in all different colors for you two to share. \n\nThe white ones burn first as you begin your new life at home together as husband and wife. \n\nBurn the green pair next and hope no one is thinner after serving the first guests you have over for dinner. \n\nThe dark blue candles are for after your first fight Use them to burn while making up all night. \n\nRed candles set the mood and pave the way for your first married Valentine’s Day. \n\nNow, when your first year of marriage is through, the cream anniversary pair will light for you two. \n\nAnd in time we hope, maybe, just maybe you can light the purple ones on the birth of your baby. \n\nCongratulations (bride and groom’s names) on the start of your forever. May the two of you always be happy together. \n\nAnd burn these candles just the way it is said, but please don’t forget…blow them out before bed!
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First off, don't go seeking comfort from anyone else.  Nothing can ruin a marriage quicker than you deciding your lonely and doing something you regret.  Instead focus on doing things around the house that you normally don't get around to so that you can surprise her when she gets home.
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Well, the little things really do count...things like picking your socks up and putting the seat down (if you're a guy) and letting your hair down and putting your feet up (if you're a girl).  \n\nSlow dancing in the kitchen while waiting for dinner to cook is fun.  Writing notes and tucking them into a pocket or purse to be found the next day is fun!  Baking a cake and frosting it together is awesome...just buy two things of frosting and only use one on the cake!  \n\nRemember to say "I love you" every day.  Focus on the things your mate does right.  Nobody wakes up in the morning saying "How can I make my spouse miserable today?"  If your loved one screws up, give them the benefit of the doubt.\n\nOh...and if you make Jesus the core of your marriage, everything else is even better!  There is never a time when I love my husband more than when we kneel down beside the bed, hold hands and pray together.  \n\nHave a long and happy marriage
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Okay. You never have enough time for anything that dayand feel so stressed and rushed. I recently got married and was 20 minutes late for my hair appointment which made me 20 minutes late for my own wedding. So first advice, plan plenty of time between your hair/makeup/dressing and the time you need to be at the chapel. plan for any snafus and traffic. make sure everyone has directions to the chapel(another thing that made me late). Bring a "fix-it" kit with you. Include white chalk which can cover up any stains like makeup,pack a  sewing kit, tissues,deodorant,perfume, and I would pack some mints. Maybe some extra batteries if your family will be taking pics. And most importantly remember to eat something that day. I know its supposed to be bad luck to see your fiance before the wedding but my whole family and my now-husband went out to a huge lunch before the wedding and it really calmed my nerves to see him before all the hustling began with my hair and makeup appointments. Have fun! Its the best day of your life and no matter what goes wrong \n(and something will go wrong) when you look back it will be perfect. I promise.
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Your wedding day is one of the most important events of your life.  Go formal no matter what time of the day it is.  Live it up, dress to kill. and have a great time.
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1st - DO NOT MAKE THIS DECISION WHILE HEAD OVER HEAL IN LUV!\n\n2nd - What is marriage to you?  What have you defined marriage to be?\n\nWhat will happen 1 year after you're married.  Do you want to be the provider and have her stay home? Do you want both of you to work so you'll have a great home? Do you want kids right away?\nWhat do you want in 5 years into the marriage? \nWhat do you want in 10 years into the marriage?\nWhat do you want in 20 years into the marriage? \nSit with yourself and ask these tough questions.  Then re-ask these questions in a week.  If you feel confident that you're honest with yourself, then approach your girl. If you're not quite satisfied with your internal question, keep asking and answering yourself untill your confident.\n\n3rd - When you're confident in what you want ... Ask these same questions to your girl friend.  BEWARE ... She'll freak and probably start crying thinking you're asking her out!!! Make it clear that this is a discusion only, and you're trying to figure out the "Next Step".  Then ask her several times after the first questions <Just like you did with you>. \n\nIf you've evaluated the situation and feel that for the two of you to form a union, you can then you can pre-pair that special occation with the ring, and the right setting to ask for her hand in marriage.\n\nBest wishes.
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mabey u will try this forget about geting married  it will happen when u leat expect it
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Dude don't wait until your wedding night you might have a heart attack go have sex right now with your future wife that way you'll see if this sex thing means a whole lot to her or not. By the rate you're going you'll be divorce within a week if you can't satisfy your wife.