Why is it that I fall in love so fast?!!?!?!?
374607
Maybe you fall in love with the idea of love.  You're probably an optimist (like me) and can recognize something lovable in a person in a short period of time. However, what time and experience will give you is the discernment to determine what kind of love it is or to what degree you love the person... whether it's an infatuation, a crush, a sexual attraction, a deep commitment.  My advise is to find out what you want out of a romantic love relationship first. Be clear on this and when the right person/right kind of love stares you in the face, you will recognize it.
311515
You just fall in love without knowing.. the person. and then once you get to know the person very well... you regret... :S
286872
You fall in love because of pheromones, it is initially just lust. It hurts then when you try and make your relationship work after the lust has worn off and one or both of the people involved aren't big enough to stick it out through the bad times to enjoy the good.  There are always good, but people seem to like to focus on the bad!  You just have to be brave and hope that you can find someone who will be willing to be a team player with you so you can enjoy and remember those good times together, cause over time the lust does come back for you and your partner.
1114594
If you've fallen into it, it's not love!  (Will resist elaborating on that!!)  :D\n\nLove is something you GROW into.  So, when you grow into it, it is as real as any other course of action you choose.  If you aren't sure whether it's real, it is probably lust or just some form of attraction.  Not that those are bad things!  They can make it much easier to grow into love.  \n\nThe important thing is to make sure the other person also understands love and is capable of choosing love.  (That was where I got burned!)  Ideally, you would know someone well enough to start choosing to love them and getting to know them even better after a couple/few months.  Unfortunately, there are lots of less-than-ideal people out there, so I wouldn't recommend making a REAL loving commitment to someone until you've known them for a couple years.  Sounds like a long time, does it?  Well, heartbreak can last even longer!  And (if you're old enough for this to be a factor,) a child binds you to the other forever, no matter what else happens between the two of you!\n\nSo, don't be in a hurry to 'fall in love!'
334249
same here...love comes when u least expect it!!!
643274
I've fallen in love only once. Yesterday we broke up, I did it only because it was the right thing to do, yes, I got very hurt. Now I wanna fall out of live with him, if that's even possible. The problem is that love makes me always see all his good qualities, never the bad ones. I hope it's true what they say that time heals, 'cause I'm as sad as my avatar looks. As far as advices go, i don't really have any, love is a different experience for each person. Just enjoy it, take chances and live at 100%, you might get hurt, but otherwise, you might feel like you never lived in the first place. Thanks for letting me share, I know it's quite long. Good luck ;)
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because its something thats never happened before thats gives u this extraordinary feeling, spec. if its with the one you love =)youre so glad ur in this moment with this person n ur so happy that its happened but at the same time ur so scared its all goin to fade away.. aww u made me think of my first kiss with my first love who i am still with after 5 years now yayyy lol :)
605065
you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
612835
I think Im falling for you!
378348
It sounds like you are infatuated.  You don't know him well enough to love him yet.
489452
When I Fall In Love ^_^
1132667
Most of the time you have fallen in love with love as it relates to some individual and you think this person is perfect with out fl awes, even if that really is not the case. It may just seem like it to you...\nhope this helps some
438547
YOU ARE LUCKY..\nNOBODY WILL SHARE YOUR LOVE.!!!!!!!!
118881
no, there's nothing rational about why you fall in love.  it's an impulsive and emotional thing, always has been, so if you see somebody who 'seems to be' just what you're looking for at that time, you definitely could fall in love.\n\nmy advice is to not worry about looking foolish in the future.  keep your eyes open and learn about him for sure, but don't be so jaded as to worry whether he is the right one forever.  as long as he is the right one for right now, enjoy each other!\n\n'love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence'.\n                                      -h l mencken
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FALL INTO REAL LOVE ON LINE???  Hmmmmm Im not much of a believer in that- although Im sure it has happenned.  I think you r more falling in love with IDEA of being in love!  U do not know this person REALLY, and you do not see him on a daily basis and therefor he is perfect, and it makes it so much easier to feel love towards a person who says the right things.  BUT you do not know his daily habits, his temperment, and all the little things that make up a true re;ationship.  This person also farts and scratches his butt in public!  lol  Just like allll the other men we know and love so well!  So I think Im saying- NO I think its more THEY ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF FALLING IN LOVE with their perfect man.
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no..what you felt was an intense attraction that we mistakenly took as love because the sensation is the same..ask yourself, how can you love someone you don't even know? he or she might turn out to be totally different from what you imagine...or if it's the other way, lucky you!\n\nlove is a serious matter...it's not just the rapid heartbeat or the sense of abrupt happiness...love is knowing that person and learning to accept him or her..
319405
Well yeah! Just keep doing sweet things for him and he will fall for you very soon!