why do guys always act tough around girls?
366828
Its an evoluntairy throw back. Way back when, the big and though males would have the highest chance of survival. And therefor those males got more sex. Even though that has now changed the behavioral pattern of trying to impress the female by showing how though, strong and damn good their genes are has not changed.
186930
Rough and tough guys offer them a challenge, whereas the nice guys make it too easy and give them exactly what they want, which, ironically, is what they DON'T want. They want a challenge, and someone unpredictable.
1009781
because guys are jerks and they always have choices. gals do have choices but we dont keep changing our bfs as we are happy with one.
758543
Guys mature more slowly than girls do.  It is possible for an irresponsible man to become responsible.  The only way to lead him is by example.  If you say too much to him, you'll be frustrated and he'll be resentful.
38882
Isn't it some kind of prejudice? \nI mean, you cannot say that every girl is mean to every loser that hit on them. In fact, how could the girl know that he is a looser? \nMaybe a girl who is mean to a boy - because of any cause - then she is the looser cause she didnt give it the chance to know who is really this guy.\nAnd that boy should know that everyone could have been in that position but it doesn't make HIM a looser, he would become a looser if he allows that to make him feel bad.\nYou know, is like when you look for a job, maybe that is not the rigth job for you, or maybe it is their loss!!!!!
474260
its your attitude. are you stuck up or do you show off in front of other guys? girls hate that crap.
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
255561
because that is who they are.  why do girls go after bad boys and ignore nice guys?
321534
Vanity, Pride, Jealousy, Animosity..\nHave you ever seen a gal who was fine with you immensely praising andr girl in front of her??\nThey may not admit it but somewhere deep down therz this inane sense of competition among them that can only be overcome with the strongest bonds of friendship and love..\nGirls are also quite sensitive and do not forgive, forget and move on as fast as guys do.. They get hurt often and don't forget it anytime soon. Plus they think and analuse much more than any guy would. So they do tend to get into alot of fights.
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
384927
Because nine times out of ten the jerk has the nerve to go up to the girl and talk to her. Or that's been my experiance from tlaking to girls. They want the nice guy, but they want the nice guy to go and ask them out not just be-friend them and beat around the bush.
905989
It is because they do not want to sound like a romantic in front of there big tough buddies. It all boils down to peer pressure.  Just think about it.  Someone does something embarrasing and you feel sorry for them but everybody else is laughing, you know you gonna laugh too...to be in the crowd.  That is the way guys are.  They got to be tough.  They cannot let that guard down.
538501
Sometimes guys don't like to show girls how they feel about them.
376551
because women like them better than someone who treats them decent. i guess they see it as weakness. i cant make myself be abusive so i dont get the girl. dont bother sticking up for her either, they somehow get offended by that.
251873
Army guys, if movies have taught me anything, tend to be tough, testosterone-laden assholes, so you can expect a lot of verbal abuse, as well as a lot of grab-assing.  Deal with it by showing them you're just as tough as they think they are right away.  The sooner you gain their respect, the sooner you'll be treated as one of the guys, and not some cu te girl.
582671
its one thing that us girls are good at we like to play hard ball to get what we want men are to soft and so easy to walk over just love the bitchy attatude some women give we can get away with it as well just blame it on our periods lol
903721
Shouldn't a man also appear to be "hard to get"\nThis shows either you are a "Thinker" or there is a girl in your life who is making you feel weak for her. Well men and women are the same, both have feelings.. there is no need to make it difficult to get but it apprears so because females don wanna be friendly with all males. They think about their security. Men feel safe so they take the first step in a relation