{READ ALL FIRST} Are porn movies a good thing or a bad thing?Please give explanation with your answer.?
365916
I personally do not like porn just for the fact that I think it's gross and unrealistic. Too many people really believe that women should not only look like that, but they think that what is happening on the screen should happen in their bedroom. Unfortunately, too many men think that they got a raw deal when their woman doesn't look or act like those trashy women they see in the movies. Thumbs down!!
163395
You can define porn for everybody, because what you think is a porn might be not a porn for others. So, I think let those porn movies decide porn on their version, which I might think not porn at all...
326786
Well...it's not really something I enjoy as such (although I have seen some very beautifully filmed sex scenes in the past).  I recently got around to watching Rome last week, which was notorious for its sex and nudity.  In the context of the story, though, it was all appropriate...in fact, quite restrained given the historical period.
311892
I don't mind. My bf goes onto porn sites, but he doesn't ALL the time and he doesn't let it rule all his time when he's off work. He doesn't get too into it. I actually watch a little my self, sometimes. It just depends on the TYPE of porn he watches, as long as it doesn't get too wild and perverted, and he doesn't watch it all the time...I'm cool with it.
827367
I think if you laugh about embarrassing things they become less embarrassing like when you trip and fall or lay out a huge fart in the middle of class. Porn raise the arousal level of both males and females and a comedy, and horror films also raise arousal level. Plus Porno's has such cheesy scripts it's actually funny. You think with how much money is in the porn industry they could make a good porno that would really make you think. If they added a little sophistication to porn it might be less embarrassing to own one if it got academy awards for best story line. You know
723823
yes they are good\nany porn is good
769271
One thing you can talk about is the dangers of "girl porn."  No, this is not x-rated female pornography, that still fits under the category of "guy porn."  Girl porn consists of romance novels and "chick flicks" or any other media that focus on a woman or the "perfect" relationship.\n\nHow is this porn?  Look at guy porn for a moment.  The appeal of guy porn is firstly, visual.  Men are visual creatures and pornography feeds that need of visual stimulation.  But a bunch of nude women doing nothing is very rare among pornographic media.  You can see that at any art museum.  On the contrary, what's more appealing about pornography is that guys can fantasize that the woman (or women) want nothing but to please the man.  The women in porn movies are usually very vocal, submissive and willing to please no matter what.  It makes it all about the guy.  Even adult magazines have women in exotic locations and poses with the woman staring wantonly in the camera.  It's the same idea of "I want you" that makes it so attractive to men.  Basically, for the viewer of pornography, it's a form of idolatry or self-worship.  They enjoy the idea of being the god of, so to speak, the subject of the porn. \n\nNow, women have their own version of porn called "girl porn" or the romance novel or chick flick.  While romance novels can get pretty steamy and I don't feel they need be addressed too much, most chick flicks are PG, so how can they be called porn?   Unlike the predominantly visual man, women tend to be more emotionally intuitive.  So, the romance novel and chick flick satisfy this emotional part, but that's not what's danerous about them.  Because they satisfy the same desire men have in women, this desire to be admired and worshiped above all things by a man.  This satisfies the same desire guy porn does for the women.  Like guy porn, girl porn allows women to fantasize that the guy is willing to do anything and everything for his lady.  He loves her more than life itself.  He worships her.  She is his goddess, so to speak.  Just as guy porn makes it all about satisfying the all thedesires of the man, girl porn is all about satisfying all the the desires of the woman.  Similar go guy porn, which doesn't show the consequences after the movie (broken relationships, guilt, possible std's or pregnancy, etc.), girl porn is supposedly "happily ever after" as well.  They fall in love and everything goes swimmingly from then on, which is just as unrealistic as two beautiful women being attracted to Ron Jeremy.  \n\nWhat's so bad about being wanted?  Let me answer with another question.  Where does God fit into the traditional chick flick?  The biblical idea of a relationship between man and women are not two people face to face, focused on eachother, it is a man and woman hand in hand, side by side, focused on God.   The chick flick takes God out of the picture and guarantees to satisfy desires that can only be satisfied by a loving relationship with God.
1090991
Porn is a form of entertainment, and like almost anything, it can be addictive for some people. Most sex researchers and therapists agree that for many people porn can be a healthy, normal aspect of erotic life. It is easy to make simplistic and judgmental statements about porn, and the people who enjoy it. Take buttercup’s response, for example. She says “it puts you in the gutter.” Notice that she in answering on behalf of the human race, but she has no actual knowledge of the issue. She does not know me, for example, so how does she know what effect porn has on me? We currently do not have reliable laws of psychology like we do for physics or chemistry. She talks as if the effects of porn are as predictable as the laws of gravity. She is simply wrong. Anyone with a background in science and even a little knowledge of psychology will tell you that statements of that sort belie blatant ignorance and deep prejudice. She cannot rationally say that porn makes me feel “dirty and sleazy” because she does not know me, and she cannot draw on any legitimate scientific theory or credible philosophical tradition to make such blanket claims.\n\nSorry, buttercup, I don’t mean to rag on you so intensely and I don’t really blame you for your beliefs – the majority of people would probably agree with you. But this same old song and dance is found ad nauseam in American culture and I think it takes a bit of drama to slap the majority out of their stupor. People need to start thinking for themselves rather than simply parroting majority views. Biological nature is fundamentally diverse. VARIATION is the law in biology. Different people are different and you cannot reasonably or ethically proclaim what is best for others in matters where there are no accepted scientific theories to guide us. Sex is a powerful drive, and is deeply entrenched in our emotional lives, so it is not surprising that porn can be addictive or compulsive for many people. And we all know that too much of anything can be problematic. Nevertheless, there is no reason to think that porn in moderation is necessarily harmful. I would even suspect that for some people, porn might be just what they need to find healthy mental and spiritual balance in their lives.\n\nIf you do a web search you will find plenty of sites warning us about the devastating effects of porn on individuals and society, but if you pay attention, you will notice that these pages are produced primarily by religious groups or anti-porn feminists. They do NOT represent the views of psychologists, sex researchers, or sex therapists. And, by the way, there are also a great many pro-sex feminists who disagree with the anti-porn folks. Christian-based groups in particular are flooding the media with anti-porn hype, but this is driven by religious doctrine, not logic, science, or even common sense. Below I offer a few links showing alternative views:
637801
You would find signs of it and by the way porn is usually hard on a computer, not sure why but very unhealthy computerwise.  There are ways to look at the history of where you computer has been and porn sites have cookie like things that they leave on a computer.  Someone with half a brain could find evidence of it if you need it.\nWhat if it is then?  I don't know who other is; but, it sounds like they should not viewing porn.  Well, it is hard to be more specific when one, I don't know your computer skills and two, others remains undefined.
1180461
Does life immitate art or does art immitate life? Either way I think movies are a great way to reflect upon a wide variety of topics in our society. I also think, that though there are more bad ones than good, every movie serves its purpose. I'm not saying I haven't been angry and dissapointed when a movie is awful, however sometimes even bad movies are worthwhile. My biggest running joke with a few close friends is about the worst movie ever made that we watched together. (It was called S.I.C.K. which stands for Serial Insane Clown Killer - only rent it if you're willing to put yourself through the torture). \nAnyway, watching movies is one of my favorite things to do, and I'm currently using Yahoo! movies to look up, rate, and create a list of every movie I've ever watched! It's worth a try if you want to keep track and also have recommendations customized to your likes.
576187
Sounds like a GREAT GUY! I've never seen porn but I have seen the effects it has on marriages, families and relationships. Porn is a disease that effect the mind..maybe your husband understands that and does NOT want to become a pervert..like some have
1056038
As long as you're both comfortable with watching it, I would say no. It can spice up your sex life and possibly introduce you to new ideas, although porn sex isn't usually that realistic, especially as far as women are portrayed. If you both have no moral or religious reason not to, why not? After watching some, you can check in with each other to make sure that you're both still comfortable and not jealous or anything like that.
618129
MONEY, FAME AND THE FEEL GOOD FACTOR. I DONT AGREE WITH PORN THOUGH!\n\nI NEVER READ THE SECOND PART. THAT IS DISCUSTING!
474684
Of course its not good. Otherwise it turns your audience off and your porn company will find new pornstars to replace you. \n\nYour question is really tricky and it reflects on your intelligence. Many ways to answer this question but i chose the above =).
536675
Fantasies and pornos are not interchangeable.  Fantasies are written by the one doing the fantasizing, so we have complete control over acting ability, casting and sound effects.  Oh, and stamina, heh heh.\n\nWith pornos, the acting is typically bad and the sound effects overdone.  And honestly, they're not always that attractive.\n\nPlus, I believe the porno industry is still dominated by men (insofar as behind the camera is concerned).  I hate to generalize, but I think the consensus is that women prefer their pornos to have a bit more plot.
481580
I wouldn't like it to be honest. I'm not against porn, but I would be very upset if my husband was turned on by other chicks, especially if he went to a strip joint. I only agree to porn and stuff if they just look, but don't get turned on by that person. I am happy to look at porn together. Your wife needs to show you some respect! I would never do that to my husband. I wouldn't even get the urge to do something like that. Not if I'm in love.
964381
No. I would watch it with them.  I personally love to watch porn myself.  I find it very normal for girls and guys to watch porn.  If they did not watch it I would wonder what is wrong with them.