Should I be mad that my boyfriend has female friends and I don't have male friends?
374545
It doesn't matter if they are male or female, gay or straight...if they are good friends and have been since before he met you, people most often would choose friends over "lovers" if given the ultimatum. After all, who knows them better and who has been there for them. If she is gay then you shoudl have nothing to worry about.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
400096
If your boyfriend was mature, he would not have gotten jealous. What he has to understand is that everyone has a past: Past relationships, old friends, etc. It's all about maturity, not jealousy.\nMy boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We're both understanding about each others past. Maybe you need to seat down and talk to him about unresolved issues
130332
Your boyfriend is arguing about this with you because he wants you to have more experiences with girls so he can call you a bisexual and brag about it to all his stupid friends.  Then, when they ask in disbelief, "Nu uh, how many girls has she been with?"  He can actually give them a number that is higher than one.  Don't you get it?  Jeez.
688016
I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
384015
I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.
1178125
Don't get mad just hold your head up and smile cause he is yours. Don't let them know they are getting to you cause then they will continue. Just lean over and give him a kiss or do little fun flirty things that he enjoy. Don't entertain them other girls by getting mad. Then your man will feel insecure if you do entertain those jealous females.
770000
its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
1017381
uh, why do either of you need your own friends of the opposite sex? Any friends me and Hubby have, are both our friends, (usually other cpls) but we never have over friends of the opposite sex that we are both not friends with. He is 'friends' with everyone @ his work, (male and female) but never hangs with them other than at lunch, or the 1-2 times a yr their is a work party, or Christmas party, both of which I go to with him. One chick tried to get some alone time with him, but he told her no. (this was a few yrs back) I know what she was trying to do and it made me mad as heck, but he thinks she meant nothing by it. Wrong! Guys are very naive sometimes. Sounds to me like she's trying to wedge herself in there. I wouldn't suggest you getting a 'friend' too, I would suggest counciling to figure out why either of you feels the need for seperate friends. I can totally relate though, cause men always assume if you talk about another guy, (like oh so and so did this) or whatever, even when it's nothing, just you mentioning another guy's name, even in telling a story, makes them think you want the guy. But yet they can't see that when a woman hangs on to their every word (like she appears to be) or tries to spend time with a married man, that she is up to no good. A good councelor may be able to help him see that. Make sure you go to one that believes in manogomy though, because I know there are some strange councelors out there that swing and all that though, (saw one on Montel) so be careful where you go. I would definitely put an end to it, though.now.
235697
Nope doesnt make any since to me eithier why he'd want female friends. thats why you are there,  I believe there is the word friend in GIRLFRIEND. what can another female friend offer him that you can't give him. I'd say that if you let him have these female friends his obligations to hurt you are at great risk. And what will he do if and when one of these so called female friends start liking him. I'd say that you talk with him and find out what does he feel he's missing out on by not having female friends when he e's already got you.
786301
What's the problem, I don't understand.  You could make a friend as well.  Do you not like your partner to have female friends.  Who cares if they have a past, it obviously is not an issue now.  Why are you hurt?\n\nEDIT - You said it yourself, you are insecure.  I'm afraid this is not his problem, it is yours and you are going to drive him away.  Would it honestly make you feel good if he gave up his life long friends because of your paranoia?  You need to stand tall and embrace his friends unless they give you good cause not to.  Like, I said, you may like them and you may get some close friends yourself out of it.  My partners ex girlfriend and I are tremendous friends.  I am thanful to have her in my life and not once have I felt that their past is an influence on me, nor do I compare myself to her in anyway.\n\nI think you may be a bit over sensitive - after all 3 days ago you were freaking because your boyfriend's family ate dinner without you.  Lighten up, girlfriend, it's not all about you.  \n\nPlease allow yourself to gain some self esteem for the sake of your relationship - good luck to you too, hopeit all works out 8-)
69487
Okay, I am a girl, but don't count that against me for this.  I wouldn't get upset, because I, though I don't have a boyfriend, have plenty of guys that are friends, and I would not suddenly not be their friend and never talk to them again if I had a boyfriend.  So, if your girlfriend talking to her guys friends makes you uncomfortable, just ask her about it!  DON'T be accusing, just say what your feeling - NICELY - and basically, ask her to reassure you that this guy pal isn't more than that.  Just be sure to be nice about it, and should take it fine.
8115
Ok, first of all, your bf/gf isn't your husband or wife, so he or she has no obligation to tell you something like that unless you guys live together. IF you a courtesy note would have being nice on his/her part to let you know where he when so you wouldn't be worried. \n\nAnd if he or she didn't tell you, well. Get over it, he/she has a life, and independent life. You are just part of that life. \n\nNow, the question is are you mad because he didn't tell you? or were you pisst because you didn't go? what ever your reason is. Get over it, something like that would be a good enough cause for a break up. \n\nThats just me, i like to be independent and have my space and time respected by anybody. You should respect his time alone or with his friends
781406
Well, that depends on if my "friend" was a male or female.  I'm a bi sexual woman, and my boyfriend doesn't have any issues with me hooking up with girls while he's gone, but he does have some issues with men.  \nThe bottom line is this:  I would never do anything to hurt my boyfriend or betray his trust.  If you're in an honest, open, mature, loving relationship, you have no reason to stray.
368184
He is insecure.  Do you have a lot of guy friends?  I would recommend cutting down the time you spend with them.  If he doesn't calm down, then I would recommend ending the relationship.  You will not be able to change him.  Women like to try to change men because it is a challenge for them.  He has to change onm his own.  Maybe if he loses you he will change his jealous ways...It worked for me when my girlfriend dumped me!  I got the message!
118850
That would make anyone feel insecure.When you get involved in a relationship its very difficult to maintain friendships with people of the same sex because it causes allot of tension even amongst friends.If you feel uncomfortable about it,try talking with him,if he is serious about you he will probably scale back on contacting them or involve you in the friendship.Listen to your inner gut.