My brother married a woman he knew 35 years ago, but hadn't kept in touch with.?
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Lock the door and keep the key with you.
991171
Wow. That sounds a lot like my mother. She married my stepdad without telling me and they werent together that long either. My stepdad can be a real jerk and he seems to be real strict and uptight.\nHave you tried talking to your mother about how you feel and the things that have happened? You could tell your mother "Mom, I love you and I need to talk to you about how Im feeling towards (his name here)" Let her know what you've observed and how you feel. I know that it hurts a lot because here is a divorce and you had to adjust to that and everything else in your life and then your mom does this major thing like getting married without any preparation on your part and its hurtful because its a big change in your life and you are blind sided. If you need someone to talk to you can email me Ive been through this and Im still healing from it and it was almost 5 years ago. Hang in there!\nsweetieliz@gmail.com
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she is still in love with her ex...she can lie as much as she wants but she still does. it is possible that she loves your brother too... but if she is still wearing the ring she still loves her ex...just because the guy cheated on her, doesn't mean all the feelings she had for him left. make sure your brother is totally 100% sure he wants to be with someone who is still in love with someone else. i don't think that chick is ready to move on even though she has. maybe you should sit her down and have a lil 'talk' with her...good luck..:)
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I believe I have, and I still to this day think this women and I were married in a previous life.  I won't say who it is to protect her privacy.
109776
Your brother's mother-in-law isn't related to you in any way, so she's just...Mrs. (Last name here) to you. :)
448891
Is the brother in law your sister's husband or your husband's brother? This is so sick that not even the J e r r y  S p r i n g e r  S h o w  would touch. Ok maybe he would ... :-0 I can't believe you're asking our opinion on this!!! Isn't it obvious to you what you should do? If this is your sister's husband make sure to tell your sister..there are too many diseases out there. btw if you stay with this loser you will deserve all the heartache you will get! Be smart-get out now!!!
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Wow, I wish you the best of luck. The first love will always last in your mind forever. It's not your fault, you were too young to know any better then. Do you know anyone that knows him so you can ask them questions? An old email? Phone #? something... If not I hope the links below will help you (there may be a fee). But maybe he is married now. If it was meant to be then it would certainly have happened. Maybe you should let him go. The memories will remain but it's not time to move on dear.
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What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
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Not that I've ever heard of. That is very uncommon and very wrong. This woman needs some intense therapy and so does her brother. The problems do most likely stem from the abuse they observed and/or suffered as children. Think about it--when you see something going on as a kid, you don't know it's wrong; it just is what it is. You think that's the way it should be. Sounds like this woman and her brother are maybe stuck in that thought pattern, although one would think that by now they would see it thru adult eyes and realize it's not normal. But for whatever reason, they don't see it that way. They need some serious counseling to dig thru the mountain of misconceptions, guilt, and sexual and emotional dysfunctions. I hope they can get this soon.
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My brother and I both grew up knowing from the start that we were adopted.  Yes we are biological brother and sister.  I don't feel that it affected me at all rather than the void of not knowing where I came from.  I think that I keep people at more of a distance now that I have been reunited with my birthfamily (due to alot of deceit and unanswered questions).
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no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
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dont know where she is my brother lives there thought \nt
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Well do you know where she lives, if she married and when was the last time you seen her.  If you knew she married, the best bet is to look for newspapers in the county/city where she married and search for marriage announcements.  you can do this at most libraries.  If you don't know if she married, do you know any of her family so you can contact them to get in touch with her?
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i use to be in that position. but we didnt keep it a secret, my brother didnt really mind, but one day he got wasted n fought my bf. then they stopped talkin to each other, but we stil went out, for a yr, then in da middle, they started to talk to each other. i say tell your brother, he might understand, and he might respect you guys for telling him straight.
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My best advice is to take things slow.  It is very intimidating to meet someone new like that.  When I met my birthmom back in 2000, we decided to keep it just her and my half sisters rather than me meeting the entire family.  Just take it one day at a time and have fun.
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arent you just the best thing that ever happend to her, hmm do you have a brother???
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I would tell my brother how much I love him, how stupid I think he is acting AND that although I will not purposely hurt him by telling his secrets, neither will I lie if his wife asks me anything.  Good luck