His Parent's Don't Approve of Me!?
367511
Well you could write them a letter about how you feel and leave it at that! And then go on with your plans together. They will either learn to live with their son's decision or they won't.\n\nThe parents aren't the ones in this relationship and if you both love each other, do what you need to do to be together. DON'T NOT be  together because of them. they are not in this relationship you both are, and you two should be happy. They'll get over it, it may take years, but at least you won't have to worry about your mother-in-law butting into your business, right off the bat.
791480
Hes confused and lost my dear. Somthing is troubling him, most likely something from his childhood, maybe his parents beat him a little, it could be a number of things. If you love him then you dont hate him, you just hate the way that he is, talk with him, dig a little but take it slow. Find  out whats going on in that brain of his! Good luck, God bless
718505
Honey  ignore these people.  You know the truth and if you just go on with your life soon this will blow over.  Dont react to them becaues that is what they want to see, you getting all upset.  do not give them the satisfaction.  Carry youself like a lady and soon everyone will see this boy for the liar he is.  Never let them see you sweat darling,  good luck to you
1051102
Talk to his parents???
505235
well you didnt give your age, but either way, if your parents are against him, then they have their reasons, and they also know best ( i know i know, i never believed it either , but believe me its true ) find someone better, you can do it.. good luck
117821
Tell your parents that you think they should get to know him. \n\nIs he willing to go through some uncomfortable meetings for you?  If he loves you, he should. \n\nOnce your parents realize that he loves you and is good to you and is not going to be a negative influence in your life (gosh, do they think he is some gangbanger or all black people are criminals- come on!) they should work toward accepting him.  Try to find out why they feel this way.  \n\nTry to do this the right way- by being honest with your parents.  I can't imagine what you're going through, and you need to understand that they may NEVER come around.  \n\nGood luck, honey!
718559
i had the same problem and i couldn't speak to my parents 'cause i was afraid of them! this happened till this April, when i had a conflict with them, and my brother supported me! i stood up for myself and told them that i wanted to leave home 'cause they didn't understand me and wouldn't listen to me! Now, they recognise me (at last!) as a human being(!) and  i tell them whatever i want without fear! my brother supported me, didn't tell them my problems! i told them! so, both of you should go to your father and make known from the beginning that your brother will just say his own opinion! Good luck!!
892207
When your a teenager you'll definitely do this. I know I did when I was a teenager. I only had one boyfriend my parents really didn't like, and I wish I would have listened to them when they were trying to warn me about him. He turned out to be a very abusive guy. Sometimes parents see what we don't see and are just looking out for you. At other times they just simply might not like the guy and he could really be a cool guy. Just make sure this guy is respecting you above anything else.
14434
Your lifestyle may not be acceptable in his generation. Goth isn't a kind of person, it's an identity tool, and we need them (especially in our teen years) to help us seperate ourselves from our parents. I wouldn't bother trying to make him understand anything. He'll either get it or he won't. Fighting him on it will probably make things worse for you. Just act naturally, like yourself, and if you continue to be a good person and look however you want to look, he'll wise up and treat you like a person again.
422965
Your avatar does not look white to me, and it's cute.\n\nAfter all, they raised a son who would consider a black girlfriend.  And anyway, who says they don't like you, having never met you?\n\nDon't worry.  Be you.  You seem fine to me - you have introduced the guy to your folks and all that.  And your parents are right to wonder why you have not been introduced to his folks.  Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns, so he knows about that.  And let him know that it is time to meet them.\n\nThe son may fear that they have cultural/family issues and he doesn't want to confront that, or doesn't want to subject  you to that.  I now remember a line from a movie about this.  The mother says to the son, who is going to marry a black girl, "A fish may fall in love with a bird, but where are they going to make their nest?"  She meant she was fine with things, but was cautioning the son about the problems society would give them.\n\nWe have a lot less of that these days, thankfully.  And you seem like a fine person - a nice girl from a nice family, so remember that and you'll be fine.
172164
Kukm kum you donot say why your family donot accept him?\nIf they have a real reasons that is ok but thier reasons are silly go with your man
109205
Maybe they are not upset that you got married maybe they are upset at possibly your age that you got married at or maybe they got upset at it his race. There are a lot of different facots or maybe they thing he is preventing you from doing something in your life that you should be doing. Some more detail might help us give you some more advice. Help shed the light. But your best bet is to really sit down with you parents alone and really ask them what the problem is and what it really bothers them and ask them to give your husband a chance. And also make sure you husband show them who he really is and why he realy deserves you as a wife.
867003
he probably thinks you shouted and screamed at her, and maybe he would never do this to his parents as he may see it as disrespectful. \n\njust try to keep explaining that she didnt mind and you didnt say it in a horrible way. xXx
14150
First of all, how old are you? Second, same sex relationships are ungoldy, hence the non-approval from your folks. They know what's best. Respect them, and honor them.
506024
respect ur parents and tell him u cant
1118264
Okay....this mom is going to try to answer you.  I don't know anything about your family so it it hard to answer.  My suggestion would be...let your parents get to know him, not as your boyfriend, but just as a friend.  Then if you really start dating they will already know him.  Don't make a big deal about race, maybe they won't.\nIt is easy for people to say don't worry about your parents.  I don't agree.  First of all....you wouldn't be asking this question, if what your parent thought didn't matter.\nFamily is forever.... guys can come and go.  \nYou answered a question I had, In your answer to me, you saw my love for my son and you told me to let God handle it. I can tell you are a very insightful person and I would bet you have a pretty good head on your shoulders.  Let them meet him first, then later.....Talk to your parents, give them a chance...they might just surprise you.  If he is good to you and your family....they will see that over anything else.\nGood luck, I wish you the best!
1124288
i can tell you one thing, i have been in your shoes. when my husband and i first got together his mom and his sister hated me. and that was ok because the feeling was mutual. he basicaly looked at his mom and told her "hey this is the girl i want to be with, forever, and if you don't like it that to f** bad. " His mom wasn't very happy with this. he moved out of the house and moved in with me. She only saw him on holidays because he didn't want anything to do with her if she wasn't going to accept me. And yes i know it has to do with "taking away her baby boy" blah blah blah. His mom didn't like me until 2 yrs later when i gave birth to her granddaughter. Mind you, we were already married. So my advice to you is be kind, be nice and take it with a grain of salt. If he loves you then he will be the one to step up and say somethig to his family. He'll be a man about the situation and explain to everyone that you are the one for him and they need to accept you and respect you and the relationship that he has with you. Good Luck!