Your opinions on my situation?
372371
wait a little while longer give ger some time instead of rushing her.  if you are good friends and you want to keep it that way(good).  if you ask her now it will pretty much be like a girl on the rebound.  easy for sex thats about it.
271380
I do not know your circumstances, but perhaps you need to apply for public assistance.  They may be able to help with with emergency assistance and then provide you with monthly assistance.  Other than this I really don't know what else to say.  If I knew more of your circumstances maybe I could help you better.  Stay sate.
1051009
Is she depending on your money? If not, you had no business telling her to get a job. If she was, then you should tell her you can't afford to support her anymore. Just stop giving her the cash. Do you mean you're living together and she wants to move out? Sounds like a good idea. You can still keep your relationship, and once things get smoother you can try again. Sounds like a good way to figure out if she loves you, or your money. Or do you mean she wants to move to another city? She could be bluffing so you beg her to stay. She just wants to feel wanted, instead of like a burden. Just have a business like conversation. Tell her if she get's a job, even a parttime one, you'll continue to help supporting her, but you will keep a tab, and she has to sign a letter of agreement that she will pay you back. That's fair. That way you can be there for her when she needs you, without being taken advantage of. Attitude very rarely changes. So if you can't live with her attitude, move on.
957168
It sounds like you've done everything possible to get your life straightened out. Good for you...I think you will get your kids back eventually. Now that there's a new case worker maybe things will change. Keep up the good work and keep praying. I hope things will work out for you.
696039
Dude. You said it best in your text. The big picture. If you're on the mend, count your lucky stars and don't be so superficial about hair. YOU'RE ALIVE.\nPriorities man, priorities.
1137279
your'e on the right track, thumbs up! sounds like you have really thought this thing out, and it sounds like you're really mature. i think it sounds great! good luck homeboy!
687048
depends on how long you've been in your new area. if it hasnt been that long i suggest seeing if things pan out. but if you stay for a long time and find that you're miserable and still cant call the place "home" then i'd get out.
783324
It's OK to worry sometimes, specially when it's about your future. But you are just starting, so go on with your plans and eventually you'll find your way, by that I mean your own way. It's a great career and opportunities will get to you, don't worry. Good luck
1042411
Well you could keep in touch with me. I am an electrician. My father told me to go to college. I hear it every morning my alarm goes off. I work my ass off for sub par pay. My pension sucks and I feel I have no real future. Also get the actual bill out. Look at it. See how much you are paying and figure how hard you should work to get your moneys worth. I hope you do well. And do what Fatsausage says and make it missgreeneyez.
1165246
you are making care-full moves i hope you carry with it. As you said it would be too early. I would also opine in the same tone but it seems you are making some irresistible haste which will be waste, if you do not use your own brains. My personal opinion being "look before you leap" suggesting you to be cautious. Some great people say that "your heart should not rule your head"  because they have succeeded in their life by making proper moves at right time. Your age from your profile does not give you freedom to make your own choice on major decision's of life, even though you are major. In this particular episode if you are going to make a long time relationship you should take advice of your parents too. anyway life is yours these are my personal opinion so that you do not fall in a ditch and repent after wards. Net friendship should not be taken seriously until everything is tested first on net itself through cam's, voice chat etc. anyway best of luck.
99085
right time to grow together.  many factors in your life may answer that better.  do you have $ saved? family supports? another income? then perhaps is the right time.
819794
Yes, most definitely. What concerns me now is that you ask "if GOING through something traumatic".......which indicates to me you are still in the middle of this traumatic event. i would strongly suggest talking to a professional to begin helping you while you are going through this. I have been through it and it is painful to be in the middle and to suffer. Please take good care of yourself.
612992
That might be your interpretation of the situation. You need some counseling from a professional to help you figure out what is going on.\n\nGood luck!
852899
I would go and repeat what you have stated here and present your case anyways . By now you know how painfully slow the act on anything . It's worth a try in spite of your situation , I would go.
1147905
I feel sorry for you. I hope you have a good job and provide for yourself with your own money, because that is what the court will look at. Would you have a place to stay for the next couple of years? If I were you, and this is very important for you to consider. You could call Children Services and talk to someone there. They will want to know all the info that you have shared here and all the info that you have not shared here. You have to tell the truth. Most likely the police will get involved and your parents may go to jail, depending on what they find when they come to your house. Children Services will take you and any siblings out of the house and put you in foster care. You may like the home you go to and you might not. If it is as bad as you say, don't hesitate to call them. If you need more advice you need to go to your school counsellor and they will get things rolling for you. I wish you the best of luck.
516480
Darlin', \nI have 3 boys, teens, as a single parent I have looked!  There is nowhere to go!  \nI am staying right here and working it through.. as soon as you pick up the family and move something else will happen in the economy and it will seem bleak again!  Stay where you are and Pray!
1012661
There are too many unknowns from what you have offered in your information to be able to offer you any opinions or suggestions. Things like your past relationships, if any, your age, your family history, etc. If you could offer more information it would be very helpful.