Why cant i find a nice normal good looking man, that will treat me the way i need to be treated can you tell I
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Same reason why there isn't a good nice, smokin woman that knows how to cook and clean.  Sorry just a galatic fact.
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Sexual pleasure is not everything. Having someone that treats you the way you should be treated is the more important thing.
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I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
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Let me say this way. u r very sweet coz u r the way u r & u recognize that fact. ugly .. beautiful etc r all relative words ...if a guy is fancy u ... u r blessed ... its immaterial how he looks like .i m happy u hv faith in urself ...... God bless
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We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
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Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
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You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
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Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
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Maybe you seem to come off as too perinoid. Maybe if you stop being so concerned with the way you look then you might be able to get a guy alittle faster. Hell, be yourself.
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I understand totally. I have the same problem. Only the other way. I can't find a good man who appreciates a great woman.
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Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
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doesn't sound like you have a very high opinion of yourself so that's going to be your first problem in finding true love.\nbeyond that, i don't think very many handsome guys are looking for ugly guys but i am sure there are some...keeping hoping
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Quality men are hard to find nowadays.  Most men are either gay, taken, or like one lady said here, too brainwashed by the women they see on tv and in magazines they don't realize that most women don't look like that.  Women have realized that they don't need to rely on a man to take care of them, so they take care of themselves and in doing that they don't settle for any crappy man that comes along.
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You sound like a great guy to me! We can appreciate a good man but the problem is we may not have good men around us, so unless you live anywhere around any of us we will still go around saying that we can't find a good man.
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I want my man to treat me with respect and courtesy.  I want my man to love and care about me the way the I would care and love him.  I want my man to do for me all the things that I would do for him and I would just want to have a 50/50 relationship for give and take.  No relationship is perfect and no man or woman is perfect but I would expect my man to take me with all my flaws and all my good things as I would do the same.
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I wanna guy who can treat me with respect and knows how to treat a lady on a night of romance.
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Good looking is on the outside.  I'd rather go for a guy who is easy to talk to, so we can talk for the rest of our lives.  It's what's on the inside that's important.  As long as you can look at him at the breakfast table, that's enough