how would you handle a church-going girlfriend who won"t answer your emails for 4-5 days says she is busy?
357516
I'd assume she is busy and leave it be
358419
Wow. I don't think your being unreasonable with how you feel, but she did just start a new job. Lord willing, there will be more annaversaries, but she is probably very stressed right now from the change. Give her some time. If she doesn't want to party, ask what she wants. Find something that works for her and you. She will probably do better once things get easier.\n\nThis breaking up and getting back together thing concerns me though, and might have something to do with it all. Sounds like something hasn't been going right in your relationship. Perhaps something neither one of you is even aware of. You might want to get some councling on this.\n\nBut you should sit down with her and talk to her about the lack of attention she's giving you. I wouldn't expect her to e-mail you back every day on her cell, and she may feel smothered by too much attention. It may be that you aren't giving her enough space, and she's withdrawn. It may also be that she enjoys your e-mails, even if she doesn't respond all the time. Talk with her about how she feels about it all, and ask her if you could improve in any area.\n\nGive it some time and be patient, but she should do her best on this to let you know that she cares about you, and that even with the new job, she still loves you and more than intends to make time for you. This may not happen instantly, so don't be too pushy, but do be plainspoken and truthful. But, if she refuses to at least care about your feelings on this, and that not caring continues, you may want to look into finding a new girlfriend.
532096
Tell her to just pray and take it easy.\n\nSploocH!
1162364
You leave...and quickly.  Do not hesitate.  Don't feel pressured into giving any explanations or talking to anyone there about your decision...they will only be harrassing you or possibly attempt to cover up for this person they're calling "pastor".  If necessary, seek legal counsel.  Talk to someone outside of the situation so at least someone else is aware of what is going on.
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Give her some time to cool off. After a little while, confront her with your concerns. Tell her you feel like she's been ignoring you, and thet you are sorry for beign a few minutes late. Tell her you love ehr and you don;t like feeling like she's mad at you or that she doesn't trust you. Be calm and assertive, and get your point across. Good luck! :]
106638
the only was is to get her to listen to you and it seems that she is not ready for it. you might forgive her but may be she did not forgive herself. \nyou have to do anything you can to find her address and phone # she might not even check her emails....
149841
Focus on her needs and avoid using Yahoo Answers?
947814
Nothing serious, unless she was into barely seeing you. Im a really busy person too and I think that a full time boyfriend just wouldn't work for me. \n\nKeep in mind that you need a day of rest too, sometimes its nice to just relax and do nothing for a change one your one day of freedom from your hectic schedual.
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I would say that she should be happy he is going to church, and shouldn 't worry about it too much unless he starts harassing her or talking about getting back together.  \n\nAlthough the church is out of his way, maybe he just feels more comfortable there.\n\nIs this girl SURE that she's the reason he's going there?  If not, it's not fair to read more into it.\n\nWhy is it stressing her out?  If the relationship ended mututally and on good terms, there shouldn't be a problem.\n\nLet the boy go to church in peace unless he starts causing problems.
427134
If this person is giving you a hard time dont let it bother you. Go there for you. The woman sounds like she is the one with the problem. All your trying to do is make your confirmation, right?
1152232
Give her a week if you still can't get in touch with her best hang that one up and start over...If you call her or send her too many messages that's a turn off for her...She will think you a little too controlling give her some time and space..
702978
talk to her you dolt! ignoring them is never the way to go. ive been answering questions for an hour and i mus have said twentyfive times already BE HONEST WITH THEM AND YOURSELVES! its the key to romance im telling ya.
84684
By law the rings were gifts and are hers to do with as she pleases.  She should be having no contact with this man for any reason.  Have her block his emails and if that doesn't work she should get a new email address.
824945
Ask her out in a way that gives her the option of letting you down really, really nicely.  For example, send her an email suggesting that you go for drinks the next evening after work.  If she's so shy that she can't deal with rejecting you she can just not reply to the email.  You could also phone and leave a message on her machine at a time when you know she's not at home or at the office.  Then she can ignore your message if that's easier for her.  And then, be a gentleman and don't get pissed off if she doesn't get back to you.  As you said, she's really shy!
933209
Not respond back. It will drive her crazy not kowing how you felt when you recieved her e-mail. Or pick one of her friends to start dating.
75091
Leave her alone for a while, perhaps a few days.  Then try to contact her.
322012
If you are contrite in asking forgiveness (if you feel you need to), Jesus is merciful and ready to give it. I think the advice others have given of being patient is good. Perhaps flowers or a card, with a message letting her know that when and if she's ready to talk to you, you'll be happy to hear from her might be good. God loves us all, and if we stumble he's always there to help us up. Trust in Him, and pray for His will to be done. If it is meant to be, it will be. Some time will help you sort your feelings for her too. Good luck, hope all the responses help.