i like to have sex about 5 times a week with my gf and she dont i dont like use condoms and she do?
374681
get a girl you love and marry her and stop this nonsense if you dont love her dont use her.
1125636
Hey stef hold on, there is more time for you don't rush!As the other girls i will agree that condom is safe but before you do something go to the gynecologist.
631457
First, NEVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT WEARING A CONDOM ! There are std's that don't have as noticeable affects in women as what it will in men. Considering this girl is already on birth control pills is a sure indication she has been sexually active already.Since she allowed you to have sex with her not wearing a condom ,safe bet others have had the same priveledge. How do you know she for sure she has not got hiv? You didn't think at the time you had sex that you would be worried about a std right now either did you? People lie, especially when it comes to sex . Don't you think if everybody told the truth about std's and hiv/aids that this problem would be well under control,if not completely extent? Next time wear a condom!! Not for her benefit but for your own safety. As to do you have a STD. Only a doctor will be able TO ANSWER THAT 100% , you should have been there 3 weeks ago. Some std's can make you sterile. If you are to embarrassed to go to the Dr. then call your local health department and see if they can't see you. If you are really worried then call the er at your local hospital and tell them your symptoms without giving your name. Hopefully all you have is a kidney infection. Next time you start to have sex make sure you use a condom! No matter what she may tell you. If your gonna do it be responsible. Good luck!!
702064
He doesn't want you getting pregnant... He doesn't know if you are clean... He might enjoy the de-sensitivity of using a condom to help him last longer... Respect him his choice and give him head!!! And carry some condoms in future... :D
162883
use a condom so that she doesn't see that you didn't come, and simulate you are spasming throsting your pelvis ina quick uncontrolled fashion...
1099185
The reason she likes anal sex it is safer than vaginal no babies and if she is into oral sex with you let her keep going. Dude she is a keeper. Now doggy style is good for some women and oral sex some women like as well only when they want to.
998064
yes lol this reminds me of my boyfriend if you both are comfortable with one another then ask him/her for a second time as long as you are not taking advantage and let him/her decide without pressure then i think there is nothing wrong with mentioning it well good luck and remember use a condom!
717736
Ask her to see a gynocologist to see if there is any infections and if not then talk to her about her possible fear of sex if there is any. But do not pressure her. She'll prolly come around eventually just give her time.
451339
Listen up, the sooner you learn this the better.  When to have sex has and will always be her choice.  The best you can hope for is that she feels the same way about you.
276267
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
1064301
if u r planning a family consult ur doctor on this. u can avoid ur partner from getting pregnant is by taking the birth control pills.ofcourse there are some disadvantages like she may gain some extra weight. also she can go for intra uterine device to stop from being pregnant. but the safest way is use a condom and u can have sex without condom after her 5day to 12 day and also after 18 day to till she gets her cycle. this should be done only if her periods are regular.
193503
as long as there is no sex involved its all good.  it may piss you off but tell her that it does if she continues to do it, break up with her. trust is # 1 in a relationship
276688
lol your a goody girl arent you? but a condom is what guys use for safe sex, they put it on there penis so sperm wont go into the girls vagina and make her pregnant
409273
Nothing to do about your penis, but maybe wear something that doesn't expose it, and see how she feels then. if all ehse fails, get another gf.
361914
Random! Schedules would take all of the fun and love out of it. You don't want sex to be a job do you? Well...that might be cool but you don't want her to feel like it is a task more importantly! Whenever the time is right...thats when sex should happen otherwise you won't always be up for it on a schedule and if you procede anyways, that could make sex unenjoyable fot the two of you. Random is best! Good luck!
498890
It is not a big deal.  Say oops, I left something behind, continue with playing with her mound and slowly go in and take out the condom.  If she is enjoying the feel of you there keep on so she can enjoy another big o. (be aware if she is enjoying your touch or not, some women do not wish to continue with further intimacy other than being held after having intercourse).
472511
I prefer no condom... its a much more intense sensation, but regardless... if you don't want babies... GET OVER IT, Condoms are cheaper than babies and medical bills for STD's (so I hear) $ex is still great with condom!! To anawer your question, she could just really not like the feeling of a condom... I am sure if she just didn't want him to wear it she could have said so, especially if she has no problem telling him it doesn't feel good to her...