Would you consider it cheating??????
369754
While a lot of people believe that adultery is only defined by the physical aspect (i.e., intercourse), I tend to think that the root of all adultery stems from the emotional infidelity.  Regardless of whether the betrayal is of an intellectual, emotional, or physical nature, the most painful, to me, is that knowledge that my beloved one's feelings for another were as strong as or stronger than her feelings for me.  I don't really care what you do with the person, or whether you'll never do it again.  The pain of that betrayal will endure more than anything else.\n\nIt is up to you to decide if you can come to forgive him, and move past the pain of that feeling of betrayal.  The most important thing to remember, however, is that if something makes you feel a certain way, then you have a right to feel that way.  It doesn't matter if he didn't "do anything" with her.  If he hurt you, then you have a right to feel hurt, and to address that hurt with him.\n\nI say give him a chance to acknowledge the hurt that he caused, and to allow him the opportunity to try to make amends if he's truly serious.  If he betrays you again, or fails to understand the reason behind your hurt, then leave him.
549909
I don't cyber anymore after my computer caught me with the tv.\n\n1. I'm in a long distance relationship (but we know eachoter in real life) and it would be cheating, by heart and mind. I'm sure we both would agree.\n\n2. a very good friend of mine, he has an internet girlfriend who he has never met before, and to him, I think it would be cheating even if he cyber kissed someone else. \n\n3. I met a psycho (in real life) who asked me to have sex with him when he had a girlfriend, and he didnt consider that cheating since I said no. I think it was cheating.\n\nand no, it's not real sex.
723544
I don't think who one does it with is the issue here...the issue is CHEATING and cheating is wrong regardless of who one does it with.
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
121537
Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
608657
i agree... just keep seeing them both... if its not a serious thing yet, or an exclusive thing...then it isnt cheating...eventually you'll figure out which one is for you..\n\nGood Luck
890663
No,I would not be ok with it at all.Do you trust you husband will never cheat on you?I had the same situation with my husband and it turned out this women he was such good friends with was trying to get him to bed and away from me.Your husbands friend may not be this way but look for signs!
1056647
i wont listen to them. For what reason is he my boyfriend. Of course because he must have been loyal & sincere. But yes if some very close friend would have told me then my case would be different. I'll try to investigate about it.Then i'll ask my boyfriend myself if he has been cheating or not.Cheating is not a big issue till its just flirting but if he would be dating other girls then i would simply hug him n say go0d bye baby...
1133285
Yes, I do.  Any time you bring a third party into a relationship it is cheating.  Now if you have an open relationship and your partner doesn't mind then that is a different story.  If you are in a good healthy relationship why would you want to involve another person?
438220
Cheating isn't just a physical act.  If you think it might be wrong, it probably is.\n\nIt sounds corny, but if it's wrong in your heart-- that's what makes it cheating.  You can't avoid a wrongdoing like cheating on a technicality-- like, "Well, I didn't really touch anyone else."  You know?
264455
no, but......if your in a monogamous relationship, and your hiding it or lying about it, I think it's deceitful, and should be considered cheating (just because your getting your rocks off on another girl/guy behind your partners back).
475071
If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
177453
No, and I dont ever plan on it, cheating is the stupidest thing anyone could ever do, its completely pointless....why cheat...it just shows you dont want to be with the person you are with and/or your not happy with them...completely stupid!
989522
I would not consider it cheating but I definately would not like it. She should tell you. I think you have a right to know. But on the other had why is she flirting and dancing with someone else anyway when she has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1128904
Cheating is anything you wouldn't do in front of the person you're with. If they'd be fine with you cuddling with another person then it's not cheating, but if they would mind and you wouldn't do it in front of them, don't do it behind their back.
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
280407
Yes, he is cheating.\nIf he carries condoms everywhere then he is ready for sex everytime with every girl he meet.