should i get rid of my mom?
358474
You do need to break all ties, at least for a while.  She needs to know that this is serious. \n\nConsider forgiving her but no more money, and be smart about your financial information. \n\nI am so sorry you are going through this.
900209
She is already living the example that was given to her by her mother. You may not be able to disuade her from many bad decisions, they are after all, her choices. The very best you could do for this young lady is be a very caring and available adult. Trying to control her at this point will more than likely drive her away. Talk to her openly, but without judgement. Make your conversations thought provoking, encourage her to answer and solve her own issues with you.
714128
How old is she for starters?? If she is that desrespectful to you--please try to talk to her calmly and let her know. You can get a small tape recorder and secretly tape her when her when she does this to you, then play it back to her and let her listen to how she treats you. If that does not work--give her a choice--either to straighten up and be respectful you and your home or to please find another place to live that you have had enough of it. Don't feel guilty by doing what you have to do and making a good solid decision. You do not have to put up with that at all. Take care and blessings.
720371
My mom hates me and I don't care for her\nMy dad died years ago\nSO NO
1017228
Live your lives and stop worrying about" ma" . Time to grow up. She will come around after a while. You two are giving her the power to control your lives. Stop it.
367521
Sorry, about your mom. You must help her, but not only that you must be with her all the time and she must know that she can rely on you. Tell her that you love her - that is the most important, she must know you still care about her, and can be a good stimul for her to quit!
1027195
WOW!!!  Well, the sad thing about the son is that at 24, he's already been affected by her craziness.  Children begin getting affected by these neuroic behaviors at around age 2!!!  The fact that he still lives at home suggests she's been very controlling and he just doesn't have the confidence to move out and be on his own.  First and foremost, get him to move out ASAP.  He needs to see what life is like with normal, healthy people.\n\nCan you have her commited?  You should but you can't.  Unless she's harming people physically.\n\nThis is very frustrating though , I sympathize with you.   I would not answer  your phone anytime the caller ID doesn't come out,  If they want to talk to you, they'll leave a message.  Just do this for a while and she will get tired of getting your VM, she'll get sick of calling.  She is obviously beyond desparate for attention.  \n\nWow, I'm curioius as to what your parents are like and how you ended up with such a loony toone for a sister!!!!! You seem very grounded~
1078620
First I would open communications with mom to find out what she doesn't like about them.  Consider her opinions and maybe take a closer look how you act when you are with them.  It may be how you act when you are with your friends that she doesn't care for.
824850
oooh what a nasty old sow....she's jealous of you coz your young and beautiful ans she's an old clapped out boiler...i know what i woud say to her if i was in your situation..but i could'nt type it in here...ignore the old boot....she has no right slagging your mother off, she does not even know her...she sounds bitter an twisted to me...kick her in the fanny and tell her to shut her gob...
457224
get rid of her and find someone that will appreciate you for what you do
587461
just slow the relationship down some. Cause your only going so fast to spate your mother
595101
If it were my Mother, and if it were possible, I would CALL her. She won't be around forever, and then, most likely, you will regret it if you don't. Call her! Good Luck!!
636283
i think you should hust give up on her and if she walks by petend  you can't even see her. tell uour mom.
844675
You are Family it is your obligation to take care of her , take it from some who has no grandparents , or parents or siblings. Some day you might be in this situation would you want to be abandoned ? To answer your question you dont get rid of her you love her , and let her know how important she is to you . If the BABES dont like your grandmother then they are not worth having anyway .
193622
You dont.... You should stop and take a look at what they offer you.\nYou wouldn't be here if it weren't for them.\nThey feed you and put a roof over your head. SO, whatever little petty reason you want to "get rid of them" you'd better rethink it. \n\nI can tell you from experience that times can be tough. And I am sure that everyone can tell you that when they were younger they at least once hated their parents. However, now that we're older and can look back at that... We realize why things happened the way they  did. As a child we like to think that we know what's best for us. Feel as if your partents are holding you back, when in fact, they are saving you from the worlds nasty people and truth... It's not easy in the real world. Enjoy your parents for as long as you can. They wont be here forever and then you will have no one to turn to. Charish every day that your parents are still with us on earth. Dont let a day end without telling them how much you love 'em. If you do... Someday, you'll be sorry...
892738
From living in a similar experience, I know that you need to break away from your mom, both physically and emotionally, but especially emotionally.\n\nWhat she did is legal if you were threatening her, abusing her, or doing anything that affected her physical or emotional well-being, so as you can guess a lot of actions can be part of that definition.\n\nI know this is harder to do than to say, but I'll say it anyway: Just start living your own life.\n\nWhat doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, I know from experiences that almost killed me.\n\nPray to God that He will show you the path you need to take to become happy and at peace with yourself.
963180
i think your mom is winding you up!