guy problems....help!!?!?!?!?
361522
Yeah, act normal usnless you know for sure he likes you.  Otherwise you're just over reacting------ Unless you want him to like  you.
200762
Talk to him.  But if your friend likes him, then leave him alone.  Life is too short to chase after a guy who don't want you.  If he is not interested, then move on.
115302
Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.
742786
Ask him out... I am telling you if he likes you this will work.. if not then you can get over him and move on. Guys like attractive girls, funny, sexy, some like smart some like stupid, loyal, willing to please...
1140909
Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
772212
ask him out...he cant hang about for you until you make up your mind..so do it quick.
306403
go and ask him how he feels about u. guy will play dumb so u might have to explain to him. and do it when noone else is around. ppl act different when others are around.
441416
Well, first you have to answer whether you like him. If yes, then do some dramatic flirting to see where it goes. If no, show him your type by pointing out guys that look VERY opppsite from him. Hopefully he will get over it.
1676
tell him. most of the time shy guys like girls to make the first move. if he doesnt feel the same way about u he wont ignore u. it won ruin the friendship. go for it
102540
go strait up to him and ask if he likes u if he says no and is still being shy about it go out wit 1 of his friends that might get his attention i kno it would get my attention hope i helped
55996
Make a choice. Are you and guy #1 on a see each other only basis? If not no problem. If you are then you better decide or just leave it alone. You will lose what you have and might not like what you get!!
890245
OMG....you have the EXACT same problem as me!!!!!  I get told all that stuff 2.  Just talk 2 the guy..he might be shy or intimated by u!! That's what i did and now that dude is my boy friend!!!\n                                 GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
403816
Try asking him out. If you flirt as often as you say, and you suspect he DOES like you, go for it. You don't want to be asking yourself "What if?" later on
592887
Don't do anything! If he is interested to pursue you, HE would find a way. If he is trying to "taste the waters", then putting yourself out there may not help (not in the way you want anyway). From what I learned of cute guys, they want to make sure they have got the heart of all the girl around them .. so they'd have a place to fall back on when the girl they really want ditches them for a guy she really wants and or when they are lonely on saturday evenings and nobody on the phone book seems interested to hang out with them. So.. try to take "liking him" easy. Don't obsess with it. That would only make the problem worse and make you awkward around your friend. And ofcourse he'd soon realize what was amiss and either run for his life, try to take advantage of it or take you and your friendship for granted (which you do not want). So I repeat, if he's really interested, let him make the first move. That way you'd still have your "feminine" pride fulfilled (of having been pursued FIRST). OR you'd get over it and save a nice, cute friend that makes you laugh (which certainly would make you quite interesting to other guys/boys).
337177
tell him how you feel or maybe you could be friends then after a while tell him how you feel once you get to know him. whats the wost that could happen besides him saying no maybe yu guys could just be friends. good luck