Why dont men show their love openly?
367459
men aren't as open with their feelings because we weren't created that way. in the 40's men weren't wearring diamond rings in their ears and pink shirts. some would sat because of the world has become more feminine and some would say people are freely expressing themselves. gay and bi people run the countries states so you do the math on that. when it comes to men expressing themselves it's alot of pressure from other men calling them weak and soft not to mention a bit*h azz *igga. most importantly men are afraid of being hurt more than women are but a humble mature true woman can help a man grow with her and into her which will aloow him to freely express himself without the fear of being hurt or taken for granted.
840477
some people don't know how to show love, mainly because of the way they were raised, but that doesn't mean they don't love.  The best thing to do is to talk to them about this it is always better to ask a question and get an answer, then to dwell on assumptions.  GL
872178
i believe men are weaker emotionally because women can "feel" what others are feeling and we aren't afraid of showing our feelings.....men think it is too feminine to show emotions.....i wish men could show them more cause it would make relationships alot easier sometimes!!!!!
323941
Think it's because boys have problems expressing themselves,to get a boy to tell you how their feeling or what they're thinking is quite hard really.If they just came out and said it straight away that would be better but they never do,they always seem to beat around the bush or brush it off...lads need to be more open and frank about how they truly feel...think that would help loads...
843364
It's true, guys have feelings too. We are just wired in a different way.  Our basic instinct after puberty is sex sex sex, but then when we find somebody special, then we  fall in love, and we look more towards companionship. Problem isthat some men give us all a bad name, and that it isn't really....accepted....in a traditional masculine way to show emotions. Kinda like how most men struggle to figure out what a woman wants.
303272
Because one must open oneself completely for love to occur. Very vulnerable state, which also requires honesty. It is very scary, even though exilirating. Sometimes it is too much. Sometimes, we are too scared to be honest with ourselves, or do not feel strong enough to risk the hurt.\n\nIt's like jumping out of an airplane, but you're not only not sure your parachute will open, you're not even sure you're wearing one.
16982
Men do have a sensitive feminine side and because of this feminine side they like to keep it hidden.  It's an ego thing they think that if they reveal it they are going to look gay or weak.
28784
Everyone can say just about anything, but showing it in actions is a whole new truth. Does he treat you as if he does? That is your own answer but mind you a mans way of showing things can be drastically different from a womans.How he treats others and how he respects and treats you
225458
Because society makes us as females feel like we are not suppose to express our sexuality, and when we do its considered inappropriate.  And its more acceptable for men to be "dogs," and they won't be judged. But me personally have never let that get in my way, i love sex and i tell whomever i'm dating that i love sex.  But that doesn't mean i'm going to give it up easy, no matter how hard it is.
36644
The reactions of the guys about how showing love are different exactly love is not only holding hands love is care love is not just aword maybe he is having some problems and he dont want to tell you about them Give him achance and good luck for you and him thanks
19997
We just seem to be, we really do care.  Assuming you are not with a jerk: the main problem is the difference in core values.  Men want and need respect.  Women want and need love.  THEY ARE NOT THE SAME.  Your man may be going out of his way to show you respect, but you don’t recognize his actions for what they are.  At the same time he may be ignoring your love, because he is only tuned into respect…\n\nOn the other hand, some of us just were not raised very well.
1115810
simply put because we're afraid. it's more then pride sometimes. sometimes it's your feelings we're concern about.but mostly it'd fear. lets say it's the infamous "i love you" here's what an average guy might think "I think i love her. should i tell her? i cant. what if she doesn't love me? or doesn't say it back, or once she knows she has the power to hurt me. or what if she does  hurt me? i better not say anything." we're dumb i know. but woman can be evil. I've always said for every bad guy there is a woman who created him.
235737
Guys are shy when it comes to feelings and the like.  Also they don't like to open up unless they are almost positive the feeling is returned, they don't like to be hurt.  Sometimes you just have to coax it out of them.
706937
That's such a wierd generalization.\n\nI think that men are perfectly capable at falling as deeply in love as a woman can.\n\nThere's no limit to love on account of gender or anything superficial like that.\n\nLove is love...
218936
BC men are warriors and built for battle, our bodies are not made to be cuddled and spoiled w/ affection... instead we are built to withstand physical abuse.\n\nWhereas women are softer and need reassurance that they are protected by the man.
433019
Men don't express emotions the same way women do. We say how we feel. Boys show it. If he did all that for you & the two of you had that great a time together, ask him. Odds are he's going to agree with the next date.
330891
Not enough love is being shown. Some are too emotionally frazzled to show love fearing of being emotionally hurt. It's so much easier to ask then to show. To show love takes effort.