I don't like my mom that much anymore.?
369342
Give her some time to cool off. After a little while, confront her with your concerns. Tell her you feel like she's been ignoring you, and thet you are sorry for beign a few minutes late. Tell her you love ehr and you don;t like feeling like she's mad at you or that she doesn't trust you. Be calm and assertive, and get your point across. Good luck! :]
1119990
just tell your mom that you need to talk to her. tell her in a mature way that you're going through certain changes and i'm sure she will listen to you and everything will be fine
612356
Just Pray to your God who ever you believe in Your mom just say these thing because she doesn't want to loose you. She needs you around just move it's that age your mom will miss you alot for the first few months but she will get over it. You are her baby the only one that she has now so she don't want to see you go so whatever she is saying to you she doesn't mean she loves you and need you but she knows deep in her heart that it's time to let you go and live your life. So don't worry just move and start your new life.
111838
Do the mature and right thing here...\n\nSit down with your mother ALONE and tell her that this is bothering you. Be specific what actions of his are bothering you and tell them why you don't like them.\n\nYour mother's primary responsibility is to you, not him. That does not put you in the driver's seat, but you MUST give her all of the information so that she knows what she should do for you.\n\nPerhaps he is just uncomfortable around kids, maybe he never had any - maybe he's trying to hard to make you like him. There are lots of ways that someone can act like a jerk and not really realize it.\n\nYou really didn't define what being a jerk was in this case. If it involves any violence toward you or your mother, let her know about it immediately. If you think that he is too controlling, point that out to her, it is sometimes difficult to see this when you are in the middle of a situation.\n\nIf you just act like a brat, you will get treated like a brat. You may get your way on this one, but in future she will still think you are a brat. Take the high road.\n\nGood luck!
714128
How old is she for starters?? If she is that desrespectful to you--please try to talk to her calmly and let her know. You can get a small tape recorder and secretly tape her when her when she does this to you, then play it back to her and let her listen to how she treats you. If that does not work--give her a choice--either to straighten up and be respectful you and your home or to please find another place to live that you have had enough of it. Don't feel guilty by doing what you have to do and making a good solid decision. You do not have to put up with that at all. Take care and blessings.
243600
No I don't, but that hasn't stopped her from sticking her nose into my business. Always listen to mom out of respect. You are an adult simply say Yes you are right or no that is just not me. Say I love you Mom thanks for the advice. And change the subject. (have one ready at all times)
774864
try to get along with her. i know it is difficult but your mom is always going to be your mom. unless your health and safety is in compromise work things out
975924
Well, if being more positive doesn't work, try to "outdo" her, until she realizes how silly she sounds.... Like, "oh yeah....sneaky-looking people...beady little eyes. I bet they sleep upside down in the closet..." or, something along those lines. \n\nOr, maybe, if you really feel like you can't say it directly to her, how much it bothers you, then try some reverse psychology, as in "Mom, I've noticed that you've been really down lately...is there something you want to talk about?" or, "Is something bothering you...it's not like you to be so negative!?" {even though you know that's not true...keep going on in that vein: "....it's not LIKE you to do xyz..."} "Normally, you're so cheerful and think the best of everyone...what's gotten into you?" If you can get another family member or close friend to help you, all the better.
503205
First, I am a mother.  You need to think about what you are going to say before you say it. Remember she is the only mother you will have.  Also, try to explain to your mom how you are feeling.  This may help take away some of the frustrations you have.  I was a teenager once, I did alot of aruging with my mom as a teenager and it was about how i felt she was treating my brother a lot better than me, ect, which by the way she did, and now admits.  I ended up moving in with my dad and step monster, oops step mother, and It was find for like 4 months, then she showed her real colors.  It might not seem like it now, but try and talk with your mom, explain that you are just frustrated, and you need to tell her how you feel. I actually thought I hated my mom for many years, but now that I am older, I realize that i didn't hate her, I just did not like her actions, and the decisions she made.
175553
maybe, but i dont like her that much
720371
My mom hates me and I don't care for her\nMy dad died years ago\nSO NO
249087
She can only interfere as much as you two let her. My wife and I had gone through this. My own mom is very controlling and self-centered. She never re-married after my dad left in 1973. Mom felt that my wife took me away from her. When we got married, early on I told mom that I have a wife to take care of now and that SHE is the focus of my attention and affections. I do have a 35 year old brother that still lives with her, but she would call for me to do work around her house. I told her that I have my own house to take care of. Sure, she got irritated, but she also began to realize that I was not at her beck and call anymore.
1043252
i hate being home to.  do whatever you can so you never have to live there and get yourself some good roomates.  when i used to have to move home for the summer i got a cat so that she was my little buddy and an escape for me. my mom's the same as yours as far as morals go.  just keep your mouth shut and deal with it because telling her what she doesn't want to hear will just cause conflict and make you more depressed.
1121860
I went through that stage too. I dont really know how to explain it lol. I just grew out of it. Sometimes she still gets on my nerves lol. Moms like to be nosey and ask random questions and I think sometimes I was just like seriously leave me alone lol. Try to be patient. She loves you!
903085
I would not go so far to say that she does not like anything about you.  She just wants the best for you even if it is just the way you dress.  My mom was the same way when i was a kid (not that long ago, i am only 25) and i wanted docs also.  I wore ripped up jeans that were baggy, long tee shirts, flannel shirts and boots. (the pearl jam grunge years) and my mom wanted me to wear cute skirts and dress more fashionable.  It is true that parents just don't understand, but they do love you.  As long as you are a teen living in her house you will but heads about your clothing, friends, music and everything else.  If you don't get anything from this answer i hope you get this.... The minute you move out of the house to college (you better go to college) you will miss your mom so much and she will be your best friend.  You will look back at your teen years and laugh about how you dressed and what you guys argued about.  All parents hate the way their kids dress and it is because they are parents and that is what they are supposed to do.  Don't take your mom's criticism so seriously and just do your own thing (when it comes to clothes). This will change as you get older.  When you are a teen, no one understands you, you don't even understand you and that is perfectly NORMAL (or what ever that is)  Just let it roll off your back and be yourself.  It is good that you don't want to be like everyone else, it shows that you are an independent thinker that doesn't follow the crowd.  The teen years are rough but just be happy that your clothing is all you have to worry about with your mom.  Trust me, so many kids have it much worse.  Your mom needs to understand that your clothing is not a reflection on her, but an expression of who you are and what you represent.  She may be scared that you are trying to represent that you are a druggie (i hope you are not) but sometimes that is parents fears.  You just have to be open with your mom and try to talk to her objectivly about what you wear and what you are doing and let her know that she should be thankful that you are only dressing like a druggie, heheheh, and not one.  I am a mom myself to a 9 month old little boy and i love dressing him like a preppy little man and dread the day when he says he hates the clothes i pick for him and he wants a pair of docs (even though docs are cool) because he will be showing how grown up he is and he is not my little boy anymore.  That is probably how your mom feels to.  Hang in there for a few more years and you will be suprised how different your relationship will be.
838247
Well I don't blame you for the way you feel. Let me tell you something, my parents are separated, they have been some time now. So I am living with my mom and only my mom, things have changed with my family, I have grown up more and have more responsibility and what I think of my mom has changed.\n\nI didn't like my father either, so i decided to live with my mom, and now my life is OK...
297862
first of all shes ur mom.. how long can she b angry with u. things wil cool down soon.. give her a good hug.. she wil surely calm down..say ur sorry.. even if ur not wrong.. it doesnt hurt to say sorry.. does it!!??