Do I stay with my boyfriend or dump him??
361692
Make sure its his first, get a paternity test. I wouldnt give up your plans for him, go to medical school, he can travel back and forth to see his child. You can always move closer when you're done. Dont give up your dreams because of his mistake. Make him get tested for STDs too, he obviously had unprotected sex. Sorry this happened
264752
No leave him. He's not worth it.\nIf he left you then he didn't care about you. \nHe still doesn't care about you.\nLeave him there are plenty of other guys you can go out with who will not cheat on you. You just have to wait.\nPray to god for a man or be independent
791318
Just leave him.  He is not worth your time or drama
877148
Sorry, but the writing is on the wall if you pause to read it: Abandon ship.  Better to accept you've made a mistake now, then try to ignore the rather obvious flaws in your relationship with your guy and get married, only to get a divorce later on.\n\nWhile I am mindful of the fact that only your side of the dispute has been presented here, your boyfriend embarrassing you publicly by ditching you at some sort of gathering, and apparently being un-repentant for that immature display is double trouble.\n\nThe immediate next move is an ultimatum - either treat you with respect, even when you are in disagreement (it is possible to do), or don't let the door slap him in the butt on the way out for the last time. \n\nStand up for yourself.  NEVER, and that means NOT EVER do you allow ANYONE on the face of the earth to demean you.  And even worse, to do so publicly.  That is a cardinal sin in a relationship, and if you can't come to terms with your guy on that issue, you will save yourself much greater grief down the road by dumping the little boy now.\n\nGood luck.\n \nOh, and, if you dump him, keep the rock.......
662345
leave him, you dont want to be with some1 who does not feel truely for u. he is not worth it.
234956
Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
340661
Dump him and find someone better who will really love you.
471700
STAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, GIRL!!!!  You should totally stay with a guy that you know is good.  You don't know this other guy, and just because kissing him felt good, that doesn't mean that it was right.  What if you end up dumping your BF, and going with this guy and finding out that he's not the right guy?  I mean, all this is up to you, but I would definitely stay with your first man.  Just try to forget the new guy.  Spend more time with your current BF.  You might regret dumping him, so forget the new guy.  Stay with the old.
989153
This is your life.  You are the one who decides whether you stay in a relationship or not.  Still, you might ask yourself what the reasons are "everyone" wants you to dump him.  Does he mistreat you?  If that's the case, then maybe they're right... but you have to be the one to call it quits.  They can't make the decision for you, and they can't do it for you.  Good luck.
653961
If you are that unhappy about it either leave him or cheat on him...lol but seriously, if it's a big problem you need to tell him about it and if he doesn't want to listen than maybe it's time for you to move on
507888
Well, if you really feel like you're not into him and the relationship isn't going anywhere, what's the point in staying with him? Go find someone that you acutally like and let him find someone that actually likes him. I wasn't very into my last boyfriend, so I let him go after a couple of months. Why drag things out for no reason?
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
817226
IF YOURE NOT SURE THEN DONT DO IT. YOU WILL REGRET IT INTHE END. IF HE KEEPS TRYING TO PRESSURE YOU THEN DUMP HIM FOR SOMEONE THAT WILL RESPECT YOUR WISHES. HES JUST TRYING TO GET HIS D*** WET.
18037
Nope.. I would dump him. Using the reason, " I made a mistake" is like his 'get out of jail free card'.  Does that mean that you can " make a mistake", also?  I agree with the answer that there are probably things in the relationship that would make someone feel the need for something new and exciting.. maybe a little dangerous.  If you do decide to stay together, I would definitely work on communication skills between the both of you.  Don't look to us for answers... you have to find the answer in your heart and do what it tells you to do.  Will you trust him ever again? Will it cause stress down the line when you question his every move? Will you end up with ulcers?!?!  I hope things work out for you either way.
94088
well if you love him tell him. If he would rather stay with his girlfriend then he is just using you. Sorry to say it but it's true. Although the guy may beg to differ.
379995
try "leaving him" for 2-3 weeks and see how he reacts; sometimes WE get so busy, we sometimes forget what's important in our lives.... try giving him this "reality" check and see what happens. If he loves you, then he will see the errors of his ways and WILL change. If not, then you did the right thing.... dump him!
904269
seriously? i know, you know what you should do...but alright...i'll push you some more..\n\nyou have to break it with him otherwise your relationship will all be based on lies which is not good...one of the many purpose of having a boyfriend is to make you happy and not to make you miserable!...so think about it..