What do you do when your married and have a baby and your in love with another man??
360518
Start by leaving your husband and your child.  You can always have another child by this other man and your husband surely will raise this child with love, understanding, compassion and loyalty.  Something you should have had when you married him and spoke your feeble vows.  No wonder men think so many women are disgraceful creatures!
263386
I'm sorry your going through this... I've been in your situation before... Well it all depends on hope much pain you want to go through. He loves you yeah but he loves someone else. give me a break. there is a reason why they call our ex's, ex's. If he's not man enough to handle his business and know that yeah he has a baby with another women he should provide for that child but now he's going to have a baby with you. It was hard but I left the man I was with I started over scared but I couldnt take not knowing where was all the time or him telling me he still has feelings for his ex... If he can't decide you have to look out for you and your child... Get out girl....
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.
305440
Tell your husband and make sure he's okay with it. and then tell the other guy that you can only be friends and make sure he knows that because if a guy doesn't know that he will probably try to get you to like him.
322429
I feel for you...\nIf she is marrying someone else then there's nothin you can do except to let go of your guilt feelings and your love for her.  You don't have a choice but to move on or be miserable for the rest of your life.
856384
let me ask you this, how did you get into this position? how did you let this other man maneuver his way into your heart?...\n\ndo you beleive in the sanctity of marriage? if so, do what you can to get this other guy out of your life...\n\ndoes this guy know you're married? if not, that you're fault...if so, would you want to marry a guy who doesn't have respect for a married couple?...\n\nplease do the right thing and be more responsible with who you get close to...
115841
you already chose!! Keep hubby
1146924
Forget the other guy.  The grass is always greener...until you divorce this man and marry the new one.  Then you will find yourself feeling this way again in 15 years.  Marriage is about commitment to one person.  A partnership.  You don't trade a good husband in for a new model, like you do a car.  You may learn the hard way if you leave just how hard good men are to find.  And trust me, someone will be more than happy to take your place if you leave.  I know a woman who is crying herself to sleep every night because she cheated on her husband of (ironically enough) 15 years.  He divorced her and she went off to live her "dream life".  Now she is miserable and realizes she made a mistake, but guess what?  He met someone new and is in love with her now (me).  I will never leave him, he is a dream come true!
880094
I think that you should leave him and look for somebody who will love you in return  before you leave him tell him that he can see the baby anytime he wants.  Tell him you deserve to be loved and that you need somebody that you can trust not to hide anything if he really cares about you and the baby he'll try to work out things between the two of you.  If not then you might as well start looking for somebody else.
425721
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
1152644
Iam not married to one, but my hubby likes to do the same crap.\nIt's him not having his way, doing his fits is so childish like. Tell him how it makes you feel, get some therpy for it. \nI use to stand there, while he has his fit and stuff. Then when he had one, I had one right along with him. Two can play at that game. Tell him, you want to be married to the man you fell in love with. \nNot raising a child.
907490
Honey, he ain't gonna walk down the aisle.  You were not very wise to get into this, having babies together, knowing that he wasn't completely committed.  You are right to want it, but you should have seen the warning signs a long time ago.
209688
Talk to your husband about it. Tell him how you feel about the situation and reassure him he's the only one for you.
394219
If he does not have feelings for you then leave it alone. You can't make someone like you or for that matter love you. Now it you have a bad marriage and if the problems can be solved than try and work them out. And u are not saying its a bad marriage just because you like this other guy are you? Move on and God Bless.
912434
Get married, or have a baby.  It worked wonders for my wife.
1082057
every day just remember how much you love your husband and his child. that helps alot
922407
You are just hungry for that "perfect family".  Unfortunately, you didn't choose the perfect man.  He left you when you were pregnant.  That's not a real man.\n\nFocus on your baby and yourself, leave the man out of the picture.  And don't jump into any relationships with anyone.  Make your child your priority.  It's had doing it on your own, but you can do it if you just remember what's important.