If you went out with someone for the first time and they asked you up for coffee *wink wink*. Would you go up?
373688
Personaly I woulden't coz I'm waiting until I'm married before I have coffee and wink wink.  If you really must then providing you are both over the age of consent (which is 16 in England) then go for it, but you must wear a condom.  The only other problem there is why is she asking for wink wink when it's your first date, could it be that she only wants you for your body?  one more thing..make sure it's decaffenated coffee!
252481
Yes you should...I missed my chance with the boy of my dreams...Because I was afraid to ask him...He even wanted me too...Who would have thought...Go For It...
819299
well, since he didn't ask you out I'd say no.  He was doing his job.  Having you bring in your computer to be fixed so they could charge you.  How about if you are interested you call him up and ask him out.
1041418
I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
826025
because you have probably never asked. Most of us would love the attention, just walk up to the girl of your choice and say: "Would you like to go out with me to _______"
904762
ask him.DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT?
677091
I kiss on the first date.\nBut I don't go farther than that.\nUnless I just want a hook-up.
525413
I think its really cute...love indeed is sweeter the second time around. Perhaps you can start talking to each other like ordinary acquaintances and then just ask him/her if she/he wants to go for some cup of coffee or tea. You can gauge by then your next moves...maybe a movie or dinner. Have fun and i hope everything goes well with you. Cheers!
394469
Ask her if she wants to get a drink or a cup of coffee. Make it casual.
24686
I tell ya, when I was younger, I wish the girls would have been a little more bold, and asked me out. I was shy and couldn't do it half the time. Well, we grow up, but had that happened, who knows how things would be different...\n\nI say yes, go for it.. you might blow his mind...
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
327289
say  hey how are u doing? i might sound kind of stupid but i was just wondering by any chance would you like to go out some time?
1175762
If a women gives it up on the first date, i would not see her again. If she says no I will respect her and want it even more and ask her if I can see her again.
50831
Do what the guys do, ask him out for coffee.  Guys tend to answer yes or no to this depend on wheither or not they like you.  And if he says no, it's no big deal -- it's just coffee, so it's not embarrising.
348026
haha, I would initially say yes.  BUT, no one is perfect and expecting someone to say yes is just dumb.  Everyone judges it is just how things are.  Even if you do not mean to.  Mostly what I find, in my case, is that someone can be unnatractive to me and I can have no interest, but the more I get to know the person (if they have a good personality) you learn that you can over-look it.  But, on first glance, you will still judge.  So, yes...and no.  d=
998114
I found out after I met my wife that she has liked me for a long time.  If I had just had the guts to ask her out I could have been this happy along time ago.  GO FOR IT!!
958412
I suppose it would depend where the date was.  As long as he was dressed appropriately to the venue I really wouldn't mind.  If it was somewhere special and he hadn't made an effort (particularly if it was a first date) then yes I would feel upset.  All the additional information is really besides the point.  I mean great that you have done well for yourself but that has nothing to do with what you wear to meet me.  \n\nAlso it would depend if he did it to test/trick me because he doesn't trust people to like him for him and not his wealth.  Though I can understand that I would no longer be interested in him.  You are either honest from the start or don't bother.\n\nThe taking a bus part has no impact at all.  I really wouldn't care which mode of transport he takes to meet me as long as he is punctual or at least calls if he is running late.\n\nI like laid back people so that element would not be a problem either.  The alternative being someone who is uptight I will always go for a laid back guy.\n\nHope that answers your question, for me at least.  Can't answer for all the ladies out there but then that would make life far to easy for all the men! ;-)