hi to all..... do guys find girls with attitude repulsive?
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it depends on the attitude. i like a woman to have a confident attitude but not a cocky one. any woman or person who thinks they're better then others is a major turn off.
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It's even sweeeeter the second time posted. Since it is well known that all men have dirty minds it goes without saying that opposites attract. But I really am taking \npleasure in you stating the fact that women change their minds so often.....Thanks APG.
416677
i agree with you, most guys need to get some things straight.  although i disagree with you on the decent guys being taken.  i have quite a few friends who are decent guys and they are upset that all the decent girls are with these pathetic guys that you mention.  guys nowadays think it's perfectly fine to treat other people like crap.  they care only for themselves, so if a girl dumps them for being rude or unkind, they shrug it off and try to find someone else.
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First, I haven't been able to find many red headed men that appeal to me. \nSecond, I don't know enough redheaded men to judge whether they are cocky and controlling in nature. I only know one and he is fairly mild mannered.\nThird, as to the question about you being shallow and ignorant, I can see how this statement might make you shallow but you seem fairly well educated so I would have to say, "no" to ignorant.
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Im innocent..and guys always say, "Oh, so you're a good girl" I hate that phrase, it makes me want to do something 'bad' but then they say, "there's nothing wrong with it" so I dunno. But in a guy, I think it's cute, especially if he treats the women in his life right.
227573
Grow up fool...do you think females are just recepticles for your p*ss now...
269327
Women do. Immature girls with a penchant for suffering or with hopes of "changing" a bad boy don't. And the sad part, I know immature girls that are in their thyrties and even their forties. \nAnd yes, being a wussy is not being a nice guy. Be nice but don't take sh*t from anybody.
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Ok, First of all a guys taste in women is just as definitive as his finger print. Me and my friends all have different tastes. And then it gets even more distinct when it comes down to what turns a specific guy on.\n\nI am attracted to innocent and classy looking girls. Quite, shy, introspective girls that are not dumb and don’t have too many hang-ups. Also the have to be some what good looking to me. I like them shorter than me. And smart so I can have a conversation and she can see where I coming from. A flat stomach is a must have. I don’t like tan girls. I don’t like them so pale I can see through them. Every other guy I know doesn’t have this skin tone thing that I do. But I have been with girls from all races. I can’t stand if a girl has an accent any kind. Now when I’m talking about shy girls I don’t mean nuns. I mean girls that are just more reserved on the average. And I like it when they are in to me. If they are sexually aggressive that’s fine that’s a turn on but not domineering. For the most part I’m a very passive guy. The girls that get with me are the girls that seek me out. But sleeping with these girls doesn’t mean there is any kind of relationship. I have also stopped seeing girls that I don’t intend to be serious with, just because I am looking for a relationship right now.\n\nWhy am I attracted or turned off by certain things? I have no Idea. I guess it is in our DNA what we like and don’t like.\n\nMy point is that just because a guy sleeps with you doesn’t mean he likes you. So only sleep with a guy if you want to but don’t do it to start a relationship with the guy. A lot of girls have done this with me and didn’t tell me. So they ended up getting burned.\n\nFinding the right person is very hard. We all as people are so very different in our likes and dislikes in all areas of our lives.  But people know when they don’t like someone. So move on after that.\n\nIf you are having trouble with a guy and getting him to like you then I think there is something else missing.\n\nYou should never have to work to get a guy to like you. I think the main problem where people get all tangled up is with communication. People have to tell each other what they like and don’t like. You shouldn’t be guessing.\n\nBut as far as guys? A lot of guys are not at that point in their lives where they are looking for relationships. I used to be one of those guys. \n\nSo you are asking what you should do to get guys to like you. I’m assuming. It is as simple as this… There is nothing you can do to get a guy to like you but if you like him and show him you like him. Then he might like you back. With most people it is about acceptance. If they realize that you accept them then that is the biggest turn on and quality that I could ever see a girl to have. also considering how worried we all are about ourselves when some one come along and is cool with us. Then I can't help but be cool back.\n\nPressuring guys to be in relationsips is also a turn off but this is where girls get messed over. Girls are with a guy they like but don't learn till is it too late. That the guy doesn't wan't to commit or be in a relationship. \n\nThe best things to do is let the guy know Right off the bat that you wanna be serious. Then he knows and there is know pressure because it is a one way street. It either is or it isn't. The pressure comes from being in the middle of some sort of relationship and then wanting to be serious.  the change is where the crash happens. if it is one way from the begining then there is no change to worry about later.\n\nI don’t know. I could be totally wrong. I hope this helps you though. It’s just my two cents. Laters 8)
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Even if I'm not interested in going out with the girl, I'm still extremely complimented by her asking. Do women feel the same way... or are they generally just annoyed that someone they're not interested in is bothering them??
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oh yes :D mostly beacouse of jealousy ... girls hate girls and probably boys hate boys aswell
496005
I am a girl of 22 years old and have had a lot of experience with guys. I am not shy and will ask a guy face to face what he looks for in a gal... from what i have been told guys look for "normal" girls. most hate it when a girl cakes her face in makeup and trys too hard to look "nice" what guys want is for a girl to have personallity rather than looks. thats the honest truth. They dont want a really ugly girl when theyre young coz they dont wana lose in front of their mate.... so be yourself and be confident and whatever you don DONT change the way you look or act to impress anybody be proud of you and be confident with yourself and youll have the guys flooding at you...promise. xx
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Nope. Skinny, rail-thin skeletons of girls turn me off. I'm afraid that I'm going to break them if I hug them too strongly. Beyond that, size matters very little to me. I'm much more attracted to a girl who is on the heavier side but that can carry on an intelligent conversation and who has a sense of humor than a beauty queen who can barely spell her name.
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yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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I think guys are overly nice (or 'smarmy') to girls they fancy.  But they can be just normally nice to girls they just see as other human beings, if they are a nice person, and in a good mood (!)
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Yeah, me too. I know you said boys only, but I mean come on. Some of them actually do CARE about personality, and looks don't hurt....\nMost guys will say.. well what they're saying, but not all guys are like that. I know for a fact.
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Girls do like nice guys. I had a bad boy phase myself, but after I got sick of their games and lies, a nice guy was the one who won my heart afterall. Sometimes it is hard for a girl to see that a guy they are dating isn't nice at first. Alot of jerks act super nice to get into bed with them, and even abusers have been known to act really sweet to the girl to gain their trust and then ruin their self confidence bit by bit, but the whole time, the girl may not see it, they see the "nice" guy they fell in love with. They sometimes never realize it was an act all along. Outsiders realize that this guy is a jerk, but the girl is so naive, they think that he really is nice, deep down. Some girls also feel they do not deserve someone nice. I felt this way for awhile after a mentally abusive relationship. I thought noone decent would love me. But I was wrong, and the girls who only date jerks are too. Just hard to make them see it. Find a girl who is ready for a nice guy, they are out there, justhard to find nowadays ;)