How do i make my love stroger between me and my husband?
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Always show him he matters a hug, a note,sex\nAlways have date night even if it is a movie or a talk\nAlways ask him how his day is at work\nAlways tell him you love him and you are blessed to have him in your life.
438176
if you really love him, just say it, it might be hard to start but when you say the first word, you won`t be able to stop, besides it feels good, and he will feel good as well. good luck!! make sure you say it not over the phone;)
140861
B"H\nHmmm... try taking two weeks off from sex every month.  Show him that during that time you are STILL head over heels in love with him.\n\nThis is actually advice many marriage councelors give out to help people who've lost the spice get it back into their marriage.  While you may not have this trouble, this definately helps develop the intellectual and emotional aspects of a relationship as well.  \n\nLoads of ancient cultures practiced this (usually abstaining from physical relations during the woman's menstruation) and it has proven itself time and again to keep marriages in a prolonged "honeymoon phase".
801843
How about writing him a long surprise email...telling him how u felt from the first time u laid eyes on him till this very day...how the 2 of u have grown together and how important he is to u. Attach a song to the email...a song that reflects how u feel....a song that will hit them right in the heart :)
277007
Go to a local marriage counselor.  Do it before the marriage is really in trouble.  Or there may be psychological problems that can not be fixed.  It is great you know he loves you.  Good luck
184424
It's a never ending battle to keep things exciting, isn't it? I am a firm believer that doing things together and doing things for each other (like making a nice dinner, buying a small gift, etc.) are keys too keeping a fun and loving relationship. Doing things you both can enjoy like: a hike, rock climbing, going to a concert/theater...whatever your interests are. Find something for both of you to do..I personally like playing sports or doing something active with my husband because it helps improve our "team work", and if you can work together while playing sports or something that requires a sort of team like atmosphere, then working on your relationship will be easier.\nEven something like doing yard work or cooking together can create a bond.\nGood luck, I hope this helps.
299659
Well first off let me say a HUGE congratulations to you, I do not know you, but I do wish you the very best and hope that he turns out to be a majority of what you want and all of what you need. As far as the most wonderful thing a woman can do, well I have been married twice now, so, first and most important, never hold your true feelings from him, if he doesw something wonderful and surprising in your eyes, then tell him so. If you have a moment when out with him, let him share in it as well. Always communicate, that was the biggest mistake in my first, she stopped talking, then caring, then everything else stopped. Dont get in the mindset of " he knows I love him, or he knows how much he means to me".. TELL HIM. Second, and this is also VERY important and it goes for him as well as you, yet is so simplistic many forget it... If you SAY it, then SHOW it.. nuff said. Dont wait for big days, birthdays, anniversary, christmas, whatever, to show or do something special or spontaneous. BTW, this pretty goes for him as well, not just you, you know him, his likes, dislikes, dreams, etc, so you know how to surprise him, you know how to make his heart skip a beat, KEEP DOING IT. If you have an argument, or god forbid a fight, dont wait till the next morning, or next evening to try to bridge the gap, think about what the fight or argument was about, then talk to him and him to her about what was meant, and be upfront and apologize for any misunderstanding, harsh words,and such. WORDS are the cruelest cut, they not only hurt on the surface, but they go so much deeper, down to the pysche and the soul. Final thing, dont wantt o sound like I am writing a book..LOL, the most special thing about loving someone, is that you arent tied down with specific things for specific events or times. Love is all encompassing, it involves all the senses, and causes an enormous reaction in the brain, and the body and every system in the body, so how do you use that to your advantage?? easy.. IMAGINATION, use it, think up anything you want, do anything you want, or try anything you want, love, true love is endless, it has no boundaries, just like your ability to imagine. Like I said, you know abit about him now, and you are constantly learning more and more, so as you learn, your ability to utilize your imagination into special times, events, or things are just as boundless. Finally, be YOURSELF, or more importantly, STAY yourself. Many, many people are fooled later on in a relationship, or marriage when they realize that they do not really know the person they are with, and that is a cruel thing to find out. If you are being your true self now, then KEEP BEING that way, and him as well. It is WAY to easy to be a different person, to fool somebody in the early goings of a relationship, but if the person is presenting a different persona then they really are, it will eventually come out. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, AND TO HIM, AND ACCEPT NOTHING LESS FROM HIM. Every day, every moment, every second in the right relationship is special, and memorable, share the time, excitement and feelings with him, and you both will go far and deeper into your love of yourself, and each other.\n\nGood luck and I wish you nothing but the very best
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Talk to your hubby and tell him how you feel.  It's natural for couples to "woo" eachother when dating - doing things the other person likes and what not, thats natural, it's compromise.  What you can both do now is communicate and find things to do together.  Find a hobby you both like and go for it.  You can also both compromise from time to time and do something that your spouse really enjoys but maybe you don't like so much.\nThe key is communication - let him know how you feel and that you miss doing things together.
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This is a seemingly growing problem. Years ago people were together more. Now it seems we barely get time to say hi and bye. Life has changed the dynamics of relationships these days. However, it doesn't mean it's impossible to reconnect on an intimate level with your hubby.\n    You asked can you fall out of love with your hubby after 5 years? And the answer is a simple, Yes. Can you also reconnect and fall back in love? Again a simple YES! \n  The first step was the realization that there is a problem. The next step and maybe the hardest step is to change the way things are. In order to make changes, (and I know I have said this before, but I think it's worth saying again) You have to do the exact opposite of what you are doing now. Which means stop doing what you are currently doing, it's not working! You mentioned you had no "us" time, and that is what I would start with first. MAKE COUPLE TIME! Put your child to bed and sit down and watch a movie together. Try to go to bed together and if nothing else, just cuddle. Talk about your day, and how you can make tomorrow better. You each need to talk about your dreams, goals, and what you want for the future. You each will have separate goals, but you will also need goals as a couple. \nI would also recommend counseling. You can use your pastor, (if you have one) A close family friend with whom you trust and can be neutral, or a professional counselor.\nOther things that you might want to try is a "date" night for you and hubby. Get a babysitter (one you trust) and go away for the weekend once every 3-6 months. Spend quality time together as a couple. it doesn't have to cost a fortune. All you need is a desire to want things to change and a creative mind. I wish you all of the best!
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my hubbie and i are married 9 years.  we've been there.  we both love each other deeply, we just forget how important it is to show it as well as say it.  it's easy to fall into your individual ruts, which in turn causes one big rut for the marriage.  get out of the rut!!!  your marriage needs a hero.  do not be afraid to be the one to decide that today is the day the romance comes back to your marriage.  it doesn't have to be grand....join him in the shower, make his favorite meal and serve it to him in bed, come to bed with nothing but the radio on... i am assuming, of course, that you are only missing passion and romance and that there isn't a bigger problem...if the latter is the case, and you need to save your marriage -- talk with a priest or counselor...they can help you see things the both of you may not be seeing...  good luck and have fun!!!
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Hmmm...well, since you married him he probably (or atleast should) already know that you love him.  However, it's better late than never, so find a nice, quiet time where it's just the 2 of you, and all of his attention is focused on you, and then just say it!  Good luck! ;)
869361
Open a bag of Doritoes.\nI guarentee it will spread love and joy.
331045
wow if you can afford it, try paying a pilot in a small jet plane to write it in the sky for you.  Or have it advertised on a flashing billboard. If money is a problem, a simple gesture of how much you adore him by saying so, and ask him to spend the rest of his life with you as your husband.
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This is one of the most difficult questions I have seen here. There are only a few ways to do this...do you have weekends together? Plan one weekend a month where mom (either, or alternating) agree to take care of the kid and GET OUT OF TOWN, at least get away to a Motel...sometime sleezy, sometimes nice. Leave the TV OFF. Concentrate on each other...talk, coo, pet, soothe, console, hold eachother, do things together that have NOTHING to do with the home...like sneaking out on a date, cram as much of eachother into this time as possible. During the week, a 10 minute quickie initiated by one or the other...always be responsive whether you feel like it or not..given the chance, even a tired body responds well, often better than an energetic one. And, it doesn't take sex to make for a passionate affair. And unexpected call, flowers for no reason, a kiss on the back of the neck. Show interest in each other's lives. Support eachother, avoid arguing ...takes work on both parts but it is well worth it. Love, romance, and union are not always about sex. He could watch the babies for an hour or so to let you take a long, relaxing bath by yourself ... alone time is necessary for a good relationship. Work, work, work is the only true way to make a relationship joyful and rewarding. Take when given, give when it will be taken...was all love to please our partner...show your partner that they please you, turn you on...leave nothing to guess on their part. Smile, laugh, and when you are so tired you cannot take another step, remember your other half is in the same boat. Be super considerate. YOu do not have time for fighting, for that takes time from positive, reinforcing love. Remember, the kids will grow faster than you can keep up with. Be united in your efforts to raise your children on a path that is nurturing, loving, with definate boundries you both agree on. A united front towards the kids provides no room for arguements. Pay the bills on time and no arguements will arise for the electricity being turned off. Phone, gas bills...someone has to pay them...make arrangements with your bank to pay these bills with online payment..takes very little time. Share duties for food  and prep whenever possible. The couple that works and plays together stays together..with common goals that are not obsessive. There must be time for play, as well as family duties. We all to often spend too much time in percieved duties at the expense of what really counts...the relationship. It would be greatly beneficial to have one of you get another job...one more conducive to more time together AND more time apart ... we all need personal space. Too often, in misguided romantic notions, we feel that we should be everything and all to our love...that never works. We both know that. With compromise and agreement, you will reach a great, healthy and workable balance in this life. Work for it after agreeing to it. Know that agreements will not always happen, but one or the other has to give now and then. We can only bend so much before we break. Do not let it come to that. I wish you the very best of love and luck in this. YOu deserve it and can keep it with firm resolve to put your lover's needs before yours...within reason. I do care.
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You want to really drive him wild?  Give him a peck on the cheek and save yourself for marriage.  He'll respect you.  That's much more important than being somebody's flavor of the week.
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listen.........here is the absolute answer that you need\n\nFOLLOW YOUR HEART! Do you feel that this will make or break your relationship? Don't be influenced by what other people have to say, they don't live your life and they're not in your marriage. If you and your husband feel that this is something you want to explore the F*** what everyone else says it's nobody's business but your own. \n\nJust make sure that you both are completely honest with one another and that you are both completely secure in yourselves and in your relationship. In the end whatever decision you make will be the best one. \n\nBe safe and enjoy whatever you decide!
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I think that you should initiate sex with your husband! Turn him on!...Then get on! And if that doesn't work than ask him straight out" Why don't you want to make love to me?"Good luck!