should i tell my best friend that i love her even though she is going off to college in about a month?
362229
Yes, You should tell her how you feel and do it in a romantic way! Take her out, tell her you just want to go out before she goes to college and make her think that she is just going on the date as a friend. Then you tell her your feelings!
1016416
if she acknowledges your friend before you, let her go. if she loved u, u would be the first thing she sees. she would make it her duty to acknowledge you from afar.
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
615327
AHAAAAAAAAAAAAAN to be very honest with people are making sense in their own way but if you think you dont love your best friend then you dont but since you said your confussed now that tells me right away you do since you know from six years and your always talking about him to this guy who you suppose to be dating so if i would be you i wont let get to my head but yes i would think about it a little plus just wait time will tell everyone and everything so good luck.
425686
Relax.  Your grades are not as important in college as you think.  Experience is going to get you where you need to go.  And as far as your girlfriend moving away, it happens.  I have personally gone though it.  But if you want it to work out, you have to work at it.  Stay in constant communication.  And if it is meant to happen, it will.  RELAX!  It wil be painful, but if it does last, and you see her again, it will mean all the more to you and her.
407350
If you are her true friend then you will tell her exactly what you told us.  You are not going to go back with her but want to remain friends.  Just be open and honest.  It is the best policy.  And honestly she may get hurt if she has that deep of feelings for you but at least you will not have the guilt of "leading her on".
657280
wow that's a tough one, i personally think she should b off limits, that's a real low thing 2 do your friend, especially your best friend, i think i would flip if that were 2 happen 2 me, i would never talk 2 either of u, but i guess if u both feel 4 eachother than u have 2 follw your heart, love is very powerful, think very hard b4 u make your decision, is she worth losing your best friend, there's a reason y u guys r best friends, that's because he can trust u, that's y he see's u as a brother, follow your heart man, it will lead u in the right direction.
733579
you are in a very good situition right now. What u can do is to be her best friend. Let her know that she can tell u anything and u will always be there to listen. Then one day she may have a fight with her bf and break up with him so u can tell her that you have been waiting for so long to tell her that you really like her.
636591
If you moved from Michigan to be with her because you love her, her going away to college shouldn't matter if your love is really. because no matter how far away you are from each other your love will always be their. you should be  proud of her and encouraging her for wanting to make a better life for the both of you. let her know that you are behind her 100% no matter what her decision is and that you will always love her and be there for her that is how strong your love is for her. if it's meant to be it will be no matter how far away you are, this is a test of your love.
548937
She'll go away to college and you'll forget all about her in a year. Don't make it harder on her. And look at it this way, do you want to deprive the girl you love of her education? Certainly not, so it's your duty to ensure she does what she wants?\n\nLive you lives and if it was meant to be, you'll be meeting again in the future and it will all work out somehow.
1105150
If you really love him, tell him. How could you live the rest of your life wondering what could have been. He might still go in the Air Force but he might come back to you. If you are as good of friends as you say you will not lose your friendship for being honest even if he does not feel the same about you, it might be awkward for a while but you will still be close friends. Good luck
934949
When we graduated, we didn't see each other every day.  We moved a part, heck, she even lives in another country now.  Yes, we've faded.  But she is still my best friend, and when we do see each other, which is 1 time a year, it's all back to what it use to be.  If you have a strong and wonderful friendship, nothing will break it, even distance.  So in a way, we are stronger, but just geographically farther.
1185740
That's sweet, your by her side and she knows that she can depend on you. It can be complicated sometimes, your not sure if you want to tell her because you don't want to break the relationship you have right now with her, but it's bothering you because you want her to know that you love her. You need to tell her, or else she might find another. I think that she likes you just by what you wrote. You sound like an awsome guy and I really think that you deserve her love.
722553
well maybe yes \n\nbut dont blow your friendship \n\nyou may lose your friendship should you say i love you to her now
1113355
Tricky ground. But then, whoever said life was fair?\n\nThere is no "right" things to do. Only different options with their own set of counter-actions and consequences. \n\nIf keeping your feelings bottled up inside you is going to hurt you more in the long run then it's best to release those feelings. But choose the way to do it wisely. Be tactful, don't make it an ultimatum. As for her reaction, if you've been gentle and polite and she really is your friend, she will hear you out and tell you how she feels. You can move from there. She might tell you that it's best to stay friends, but at least you will know. \n\nAnd don't think it will make things weird. Weird is what people make of it. You might even want to test the waters and tell her that you "care" for her. It's a nice way of letting someone know that you have some emotional interest without saying "I love you" too soon or under inappropriate circumstances. \n\nIn the end the choice rests with you. Remember, there is no right and wrong in this matter. Go with your feelings. \n\nBest Wishes to you.
941500
YES!!!\nI don't want to be the barer of bad news but you probably don't really love her. Real love takes time to develop. That being said two days is way too fast to tell someone you love them. You probably scared her away. Next time wait till she tells you that then at least you are only reaffirming her feelings.\nThe best thing to do to try to work things out again is to tell her that you said that because you thought that she wanted to hear it. Or you were mistaken about your feelings because of the history between you two overwhelmed you at first. Then invite her out for drinks or something AS FRIENDS ONLY. Work on your friendship and maybe it will have another chance to blossom. But even if it doesn't you can never have enough good friends.
592248
not unless you tell her how you feel. move it boy, before you lose her for good.