My bf enjoys sex topic but I'm shy to react and share my thoughts because he might misinterpret me for being a
363227
You don't seem comfortable with your bf. If you are still shy with him, ask yourself why? Why can't you open up with him? Better know yourself before you proceed. \nCommunication will be a good way to let him know how you feel, if this is just your nature even with intimate partner. If he can understand your apprehension, he make try to change his conversation with you.\nBest for you two will be to be comfortable with each other, where there is no barrier too what you both can do. Remove any possible misunderstanding in your relation and talk.
907906
People aren't mind readers, you should talk with him to let him know what you were feeling. Try to look at the situation from his point of view: you had sex with him, so that must mean things were cool between you, and then you storm out. he's probably confused at those two very mixed signals you gave him.\n\nIf you care about him talk to him, and tell him the ways you thought he was "acting funny". If you want to break it off with him.. at least do him the courtesy of telling him why
230806
Slow the process down.  I dunno, but it sounds to me like you're trying to rush the process.  Add talking to sex.  Have him describe in the dirtiest of details what he's doing to you as he has sex with you.  It's a known fact that guys have a dirty mind.  Use it.
23545
tell your b/f your fantasy, If he is not up for it, then tell him you need to experience that and let him know you plan to do just that! If he is up for it, then explain he is not invited, that there is something in the idea that you want to experience for yourself and go do it! Talk to him afterwards and see what comes out of it from there. Do not tell him the details, for it is none of his business, Just ponder the fun within yourself and find out if he is the one......or if she is the one. Good luck!
1185359
ask hem if he would like to try same thing new in your sex life but if he doesn't than ask why but don't get hem mad make hem feel comfortable and allow hem to express himself just don't get mad because this is what you ask for if he says no than he feels insecure of this relationship and whats it only to be between you two because he doesn't what to lose you
276699
Sit him down and tell him seriously.  Don't listen to these clowns and make it sound like you're on the bi bandwagon and cheap and sleazy.  Chances are he'll be into it, but if you tell him gently there'll be less a chance of him being shocked and feeling slighted.  AFTER you've told him gently and the two of you have talked about it like mature adults then y'all can have fun.  Good luck!
1150413
Girl i know what your talking about i feel that way sometimes too. Maybe you need to just talk to him about it.
462147
There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
232254
Hello;\n  The best advice I can give is to explain to him how much you care and tell him all the things you admire about him. Then explain that you would like more out of your relationship than just sex. Then see how he reacts. If he is agreeable, then you can relax and enjoy new avenues of your relationship. If he still insists on having sex as his main concern, then you need to look at yourself and decide if you want to be used in that way.
153334
The real answer comes as a question. If your boyfriend is secure in your relationship with him, he probably won't mind. On the other hand, if it really bothers him, then he is responding to an offhand remark as if it is a threat to your relationship. In this case, it may still be alright to others, but if you're smart, you won't continue to do it if you know it upsets him. Here's the real big question you  need to answer, and only you can. If your boyfriend is getting really bent out of shape over an innocent remark because he's that insecure, do you really want to invest more of your time on him in the first place? \n\nNot to tell you what to do, but my experience has taught me that jealousy and insecurity are symptoms of greater emotional problems. The person with the problems needs to first acknowledge them, before he can ever get the help he needs to overcome them. As long as he thinks you'll put up with it, he never will admit he has a problem. Don't deceive yourself, as many young women have done, into thinking that you can change him. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. Better for you to just move on. This may sound cold, but it's probably the best for him and certainly would be for you.\n  Hope this helps you.
103052
sexual preferences are as individual as the people involved.  If you are unsure if you would like it and care a great deal about your boyfriend then you may want to give it a go with the understanding that if you do not like it you will not do it again.  If, however, you already know that this is not for you there is nothing wrong with saying "no thanx, nothing personal, it is just not for me"  \nNot everyone likes the same things in the bedroom and being open and honest about what you do and do not like is the key to ultimate sexual delight.  Enjoy!
998064
yes lol this reminds me of my boyfriend if you both are comfortable with one another then ask him/her for a second time as long as you are not taking advantage and let him/her decide without pressure then i think there is nothing wrong with mentioning it well good luck and remember use a condom!
379881
it's just one of those things...don't over think it or you will convince your self that you don't love him when you do. if you really feel uncomfortable saying it then maybe your not, but if sometimes you just feel moved to tell him all sorts of warm mushy things, then you probably are.
881479
well have you talked with your companion about how you are feeling about the sex life? ya never know they just might feel the same way that you do and just cannot find the words to say something about it for prolly the same reasons you wont because of feelings involved.  maybe it is something that you can help them overcome explain the things that you are wanting to do and ya never know. sex isnt always everything yes it is something but NOT everything. and if that doesnt work than you need to weigh it all and see if you can accept if they do find out and you could possibily loose them forever. it is a hard thing but i think you should look inside of your heart first and see which is more important\ngood luck
440740
uuuggghhh dont u hate that... mine does that too.\nif it is an opportunity that affects me greater, i tell him my opinion, and after him not showing interest, i proceed as i think i should, if it affects him more, i give him my opinion but don't get too involved. He thinks I'm his secretary or something, like i can make all the desicions on my own, even dinner (E V E R Y night)\nGOOD LUCK GIRL!