How should a girl tell an orthodox,studious boy ""that she loves him""?
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This is a difficult question.  Most studious teens tend to put their studies before dating and therefore may not really be interested in pursuing a relationship.\n\nIs there any way you can simply try to spend some time together?  Are you studious as well?  If so, can you study together?  Perhaps work on a science fair project, or play scrabble together.\n\nI think that's the only way you can get onto his "radar screen" so to speak.\n\nI think it would be risky just to tell him--perhaps his social skills are not finely developed and he'll feel threatened???
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That you support him and that if people are judging him they are not loving him. So long as he has such a caring friend he can confide in and trust then it sounds like he's going to be just fine. If he is religious and a Christian I recommend the book "What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality". He could also visit a gay church or gay-friendly church. If he is of another religion, there are lots of websites of gays and their religion. Hindus have GALVA108 and there are many, many more. www.temenos.net I believe has links to online groups and websites and the Human Rights Campaign Website has some as well.
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If this is for a wedding anniversary, you should talk about both people...how you know or have witnessed their love for each other...how their love inspires you.  Say something funny & somethings sincere.  \n\nIf it's for his anniversary at the church, you could point out what impact he's made on the church...what it was like at the church before him.\n\nThere are some samples here that you can see:\nhttp://www.weddingspeeches.us/?id_category=98&PHPSESSID=9f542fe8f233907789ba6d45f1229967
703077
you should tell him in private all you need to say is "I Love You"
200357
You should just tell her/him. IF (s)he knows you well, (she)he will understand.
403008
Just simply tell her, as easy as that. Write her a poem, maybe, expressing all your feelings and thoughts -- she'll like that, any girl loves poetry dedicated to her.
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ya i have.. all i have to say is that you have to approach him youself.. for this work you have to become your god yourself. he only gives the heart to love.. until and unless you tell him all your feelings no miracle gonna happen so don't worry about anything and dont hesitate just tell 'em everything and the perfect way to tell him is talk to him. don't take the help of letter it is not good way to express your love.. if you feel hesitation don't worry take the help of electronic media i.e. your mobile i wish best of luck for you, reply me to ramblingdesires@yahoo.com i am sure its really gonna help you.. BEST OF LUCK again
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Love is measured in time spent.  \n\nSpend time with her\nListen\nValidate her for who she is\nDon't analyze her\nBe very selective with criticism and with how you share it\nBut be honest and genuine\nTake a genuine interest in her interests\nBe open to experimenting with her world\nBut don’t sacrifice your own true self – that’s who she fell in love with\nBe her advocate\nGive a little more than you take\nMake sure (often) that she knows that she is not “number one” – she is THE ONLY ONE.\n\nOh, yeah, and chocolate!
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:}\nProvide her with good christian counsel\nPray for her \nSpeak with John regarding G-ds will for his life
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"TRUST, LOVE, AFFECTION and FAITH = LOVE"\nKnow this and watch him.........\nAll the best!
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Convince her that the christ returns from your seed.  That an angel came down upon you and spoke these truths.  "Impregnate your true love and a new christ shall be born."\n\nworked for me.\n\n\n.
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Talk to her and praise her beauty, innocence, intelligence, etc etc
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tell them how much you love their daugher. make sure you make it realllly good. cry if you can-lol!... make sure you make a refrence to them when you talk. tell them that she is beautiful, and you have no chance of ever breaking her heart (since thats what parents are the most afraid of). tell them you will always be there for her, and make a joke about "waking up at 6 in the morning to make her breakfast in bed"\n\nmake sure it comes from your heart
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Hold the bus!!  "love him for who he is" sounds like a nice, feel good statement, but let's anylize what that is really saying.  It is saying to forget God's command not to be unequally yoked, that denouncing Jesus as the Son of God is ok, and that "human love" can overcome God's knowledge of what is best for us!!  \n\nAbout marrying someone who isn't Christian: you are not going to have an easy road.  What church are you going to go to?  Is your husband going to want to tithe to a Christian church?  What are you going to teach your kids?  Who is right, Mom or Dad?  Are you going to teach them that any religion is ok- and then they are going to read that Jesus is the ONLY way to Heaven???  How are you going to explain that?  \n\nYou are choosing to become one flesh with a man that has not asked Jesus to pay for his sins.  There are consequences for that- like not spending eternity with God.  Since God is also Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and this man has said no to Jesus, then God isn't going to make him sing praises to Himself for eternity, and this man will go to Hell.  You will be sleeping with a man that you know is going to Hell.  That might not sit well with you.  \n\nGod has a specific plan for you.  This guy might be a part of this plan- just not until he surrenders his life to Christ.  I know how it is to be in love here on earth.  It is probably not easy to hear that this man isn't your Mr. Forever right now.  What can you do??  Talk very openly with this man about your convictions.  Chat with God daily about your feelings- He understands!!!  He just might have a plan that is bigger than you can see right now.  Ask God to start convivting this man and opening his eyes to the love of Christ.  You can give reasons for why the Bible is the ultimate authority if your boyfriend asks, but living a Christlike lifestyle is the biggest way to show others that you have let the Holy Spirit run your life.  Have a daily quiet time reading your Bible and praying with God.  I can see how this is possibly one of the biggest temptations you will face- should you marry the man that you love right now, or should you follow God's command even if you don't understand it right now???  I have already been praying for you.
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Well if he knows he;s a boy then he's not confused about his gender. As for his sexual orientation, you should probably let him find that out for himself. As long as he is confused or unhappy about it himself he will probably not be able to talk to you about it. I would let him know though, subtly as least, that you love him no matter what and that he has to be and do what makes him happy. Other people's opinions should not matter.
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Single-OK\nProtestant or non-denominational? Then...\n\nHave you told him your feelings for him? Remember, he is just a brother like any other brother. But make sure to keep in prayer so that you do not let your emotions run your life. Keep the Spirit on top at all times. Leave all outcomes to the Lord and pray for His will to be done. Can't go wrong.\n\nI would make one other suggestion. Try to keep your conversation in a public place. It does not have to be in earshod, but just somewhere public.
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ask her if she is involved in the church in any way, like choir or bible studies. most of the time if you ask a girl a very small question about themselves they will like to talk about themselves for a long time, and when she stops just ask her how she feels about something that she has revealed to you.