my 16 yr old son  sneak out at night nd comes back b4  dawn.i already talked 2 him but still do it any advise?
370206
You know what... just sit down with them and ask them how the evening out was... and just be interested in what they have been up to... not to find out what rules they have broken... but to understand what they actually like... trust me, in most cases they would have been up to harmless fun and talking to you will make them comfortable... next time they will tell you where they are going... the trick is to evolve into a frined when children grow up... hope this helps!
1111333
No! You do not have to let a child under 3 go overnight any where with the father or any one else. Why would you stop doing what is right and healthy for your child for a man who chose to abandon him and now wants to show him off as a treasure? Do you love your son?
267982
Is he really that scared?  If you don't make a big deal about it, chances are he won't either.  Kids usually take a que from their parents, and then act on it.
716651
pretty interesting. I know that they will follow people from one place to another. If you want him to leave, you may want to try telling him that he is not wanted there, that he needs to go back to his house, or even encourage him to head for the light.  there are people that could help you find out what he wants. check with a medium for what to do...\nI know some people think this is crazy, but they piss-on stuff they do not understand, because they have tiny little closed minds!
57082
Wait a while.  When he's gone (out of the house)you'll end up with a lot more freedom as your parents relax.  Plus there'll be more allowance money for you!\nDon't hate on your older brother.  Be responsible and always come home on time.  Have responsible friends, then your parents will feel more comfortable and maybe extend your curfew.  Remeber, you won't be a kid forever, don't screw up your relationship with your parents by trying to act older than you are.
805751
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
998796
How old are the kids? If they are old enough to talk to and understand you are busy and need them to stay at home then by all means talk to them. If not then the parents need to control them better. If this isn't working then I would suggest you talk to the kids and explain that maybe if they don't bother you for a while then they could come to visit for a hour. The kids must like you to want to come over so much so this may work if they think you will pay attention to them for an hour. If this doesn't work then make sure your doors are always locked.. Good Luck
249779
get him on some medication. make sure that you or neone else is never around him alone. and get him some counceling. if no one believes you then secretely video tape him doing these things......oh and there is always dr phil
171939
do have a wndow in yur rom, if so make sure u make seem lik usally in yur rm then when u know their doing wateve before their asleep then go out the window, this could take until the time is rite.
105293
My son in 12. He still has to go to bed at 9. I have him set his own alarm. He has to get up and actually go across the room to get up and shut it off. Works well in my house.
688615
take them to a room and lock it.. threathen them not to follow you..this is a very good plan..lol
416159
Write him as often you can and say a prayer for him everynight.  I can guarantee you that he is over there thinking of you, and knows that what he is doing is going to protect you and your family in the long run.  Don't worry he'll be home safe.  God Bless.
478951
He is your son...call the cops and child protection services,unless you have something to hide?
364047
Maybe now that he has you he doesn't feel like he has to keep trying as much. You should tell him it bugs you, that you like talking to him. You could call him at night to talk, but definatly tell him that you'd like for you two to talk more.
314172
You leave your boy friend right now and never return...\n\nHe got you and still talks about 16 year old and his own daughters girl friends..this guy is out of his mind and disgusting. \n\nIf you continue with him you will not only put your own future on stake but also, yours if any born daughters teenage life..Think seriously you are young you deserve much better than this leave him now before its too late.
374774
Tell him to STAY out the next time he leaves...  that way you can have a more stable life for yourself & your kids.
968551
Sweetheart, that's a rotten way to live and millions do it everyday..if it is just a question of you liking quiet time in the morning (like me) then ignore the questions and comments and they will get the hint..\ngive off the right vibe and you'll get through. (picture yourself as a skunk or something unapproachable...nobody messes with THEM until they  wanna be messed with)\nIf it runs deeper than that, move out or make him move out, you have to feel safe and comfortable in your shelter or it's not shelter anymore.\nGood Luck