a frn of mine loves her boyfriend dearly even he loves her equally but sometimes he get very angry on her?????
363667
Well, it's hard to not get angry. But being angry in such a way shows concern and caring. I mean, it depends on what he gets angry about.\n\nPS Penguins!!!
99236
If she has any feelings for you as a girlfriend or a friend for that matter she would respect your feelings.  My boyfriend is a terrible singer but I keep those things to myself because i know they would hurt his feelings.  She is not the right person for you! GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!
981481
Oh my gosh. That cheating little....!!! is how most people would react but be above that. Sit and talk with him and if he truly loves you then he will let HER  go to be with you. You are probably better than her anyway but keep level headed and you will most likely steer clear of trouble. Good luck and I wish you the best.
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
425770
Yes us men do get very jealous sometimes, this can be easily done to some men who are over protective for those men all it takes is a smile or a flirty lkk at another man. But yes if hes a guinuine boyfriend he will defend your honour no matter what he thinks you are doing.
548920
If she stays with him, she is not only hurting herself but him as well. He may be a great person but eventually she will come to resent him because he is not "the one". She is also keeping him from finding someone that really loves him and someone he has a spark with. I hope that she finds what she is looking for. I have also been one that picks the ones that don't want to commit. I wish her luck and hope whatever she decides to do it is the right choice for her!
1111515
she doesnt like it that you like that same guy she did!!!she would still date him weather or not she addmits it!!!!and the fact that you like him make her really mad!!!
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
725994
If by bitchy, you mean a girl who knows her own worth and will not allow anyone to run over her and will tell you when she thinks you have disrespected her, men like this kind of woman because she challenges him to be his best.  He knows that if he wants this better kind of woman, he must be thoughtful of her feelings, work hard for a living because she will not just accept any excuse for a man, have plans for his future (which will not necessarily include her if their plans do not match) and be a man not an excuse for 1.  If you mean a girl who is rude and crude for the heck of it, it is because he is stupid.    By the By, if you feel that you must always agree with your bf or risk losing him, I feel sorry for you
291037
They have a child together and it stands to reason that they are civil with each other to make sure that their child is secure.  I think you felt the way you did because you may have expected her to be not a nice person, but she was and you don't know how to react.  That is understandable.  You might also feel that if you like this person you might somehow be betraying your boyfriend.  I do not believe that would be the case if you have a heart to heart talk with him. \n\nI am sure you will work things out.  Good luck and email me if you want.
1046402
It sounds like your friend is jealous. Sometimes people do really mean things when they're jealous without having a reason.
1033975
How do you feel about it? Does it bother you that she is mean to him? If it does the best thing you can do is talk to her about it.  Tell her not to say a word to him.  There is a probability that she is jealous and mad at the fact that he chose you or the fact that you guys are together.  But one thing I can tell you is dont choose a man over family.  It is never worth it.......
1054581
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry
36111
i agree with SEMAJ.  if she is really a good friend then she'll listen to you.  tell her that in your opinion, her bf is trying to control her and you can see that.  and ask her if she wants to be controlled by him.  tell her that you dont have any intention to ruin her relationship but you are just trying to warn her and you are being a good friend.  you dont want her to get hurt someday so the if the bf is controlling her and its just ok for her dont feel bad.  she'll realize it and tell her no matter what you'll be there for her.
12145
You are not overreacting.  You're being quite understanding.  She's out of line and he should respect your feelings more.  If the tables were turned, I doubt he'd have this cool reaction.  You'll know when to leave, when you're tired of being tired.
458949
If your boyfriend says he loves you and not her, then you have nothing to worry about.  However, HE should be the one to tell her to leave him alone.  If that doesn't work, step in and let her know you won't stand for her drama.  Kick ass if necessary.
487459
if you ask me again,yes this person might be vey much inlove with you but has some violent attitude in him,which is very dangerious in a love relationship,and such an attitude hadly shows from the man not untill when such a situation arises,but yes this can also be love,so many  people have their own way of reaction inlove when it comes to seperation