Hello I am a guy, could anyone tell me tips in how to get a girlfriend?
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be yourself treat her with respect and always let her know how you feel about her.
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Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
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The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
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Start with a simple "Hi". Make yourself available, in other words, be outside often enough that she will see you out there and hopefully will see that as the time to go out to see if you will talk to her. A lot of girls will wait until the guy starts a conversation, don't be shy, you may miss out on your opportunity if you are shy. \n\nI will give you some advice: If you seem like a nice guy, girls do no like to come straight out and say they are not interrested. They drop hints, or drop in their boyfriend's name into a seemingly innocent conversation to give you the hint that they are not interested.
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1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.
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well not by posting your number and this question.\n\nIf u want a girlfriend, go to girl you like and well, just talk with them. women love to just talk. and if u keep te conversation going something might bloom up. dont lose confidence if the first on (or ten) doenst seem to want you as boyfriend. there are manny fish in the ocean!\n\nand i believe there are more "The true one" `s for everyone so.......
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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time to find a girlfriend
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maybe its just bad luck.how about starting out slow.go up to a girl and see if she doesnt have a guy around first,and say hi.just start a conversation,ask her name and compliment her.after u two talk for awhile then ask her if she would maybe like to go out to a movie or dinner sometime.if she says yes then get her #.ur not always gonna get a yes,but maybe it will just take some time.plus like u said u have no experience.think of it this way.its practice.but good luck and hope my advise works out for u and i also hope u find that special one.u seem like a real nice guy.
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Dont' try so hard, guys can see how desperate some girls are. The best way is to have a large group of friends and have some of your friends pair you with someone that would be good for you. It'll take a little bit of time but if you want something, go and get it, don't expect everything to be handed down to you. Good luck
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You're still so young!\n\nDon't worry about trying to get a girlfriend. Just have fun.
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Just be yourself and ask a girl out. So what if they treat you like a friend at least they talk to you and all right? Don't worry, she* will come along!\n\n\n\n*That perfect someone
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practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become.  Guys look for confidence in a girl, one who can express them self.  You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to him, dont worry though, shyness wears off, its like you are a Caterpillar becoming a butterfly
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dont smoke.\ni wouldnt go around looking for a girlfriend, either.\nif you search for something like that, you usually dont find it. and if you do, it is not something you will be happy with for long.\ni suggest trying to focus on something else and let her come to you. or if you see someone approachable, ask her out.\nwait for the right moment.\ngo ahead and go to a bar but bring a buddy with you.\nto get the first date you must first find a girl and start a conversation.\nthis is my advice.
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Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
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Dude, I used to be in the same exact boat as you. I never thought I'd get a girlfriend...So I stopped trying. A few days later, I actually got a girlfriend. One year later we are still together and are both very happy. So, just stop trying to get a girlfriend...Go hang around with friends and stuff, you'll most likely meet a girl, and just be yourself. Also, be very confident. If you don't like yourself...who else will?