i have been hearing rumors that my boy friend is cheating on me but i try 2 confront him and  he denys it ?
371722
Chase down the source of the rumor.  This is far more fun and productive than spying on your bf.  Besides...won't it be fun to beat the living **** out of the person who started it?
890245
OMG....you have the EXACT same problem as me!!!!!  I get told all that stuff 2.  Just talk 2 the guy..he might be shy or intimated by u!! That's what i did and now that dude is my boy friend!!!\n                                 GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
653244
If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be together.  E/one needs a part of them, all to themselves.  He's telling you stuff, so just accept what he tells ya.  But you need to see others as well.  Sneaky is not good.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
289814
I would ask him straight out whether it is true or not.  Rumours have a nasty habit of being either completely false or only tell one side of the story.  Asking one of his close friends may be a good option, but bear in mind if it is one of HIS good friends their first loyalty is to him not you and they may not want to tell you the truth if they think it will cause problems for him later.  Also remember that maybe it is true but it may not be a black and white story.  Work out what you are prepared to accept and don't make any decisions on the spot.  Let him know upfront you will have to consider the situation before you give him an answer.\n\nGood luck!
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
1130815
If there was absolute proof he was lying, i would confront him about it.... If there is one thing in a relationship I cannot stand is someone who is not honest...  No one deserves to be lied to.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
810093
Some people can be extremely convincing and have mastered the art of the mind game. However, these people are relatively easy to beat if you do your homework. What you need to do is make this woman come forward with some proof of this cheating and if she can't do it, then she has nothing to go by. Also, if your boyfriend is willing to accept the story from this woman and has completely disregarded what you've said, then either he's been likewise brainwashed by this woman or has some trust issues with you. Rumors are rumors and are always started by someone with interests...perhaps this woman is after YOUR boyfriend!
493983
#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
539739
Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
477231
Who do you trust more? And who is more likely to tell the truth?\nAsk your best friend to tell you the whole story and repeat the whole story to your boyfriend. If he really is cheating, chances are he'll get flustered and deny it like crazy.\nIf your friend has a history of making stuff up, you should probably trust your boyfriend.\nReally, you know who is more reliable of the two. You have to decide who's telling the truth.
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
129458
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??