why do people cheat on people when all they have to do is break up with them?
371696
the old saying  " I can have my cake and eat it to " For example::::: You are dating this guy, whom you love very much, and he cheats on you with another girl, he has you and this other chic to.... And even when you find out he has cheated, you say oh if my man ever cheated on me i would be gone I would leave him in a heart bear.... ya alot easier said than done...Most people cheat and when you say cheat,you mean sex.... because it is sex... they have sex with someone else, but they know they have more than that at home, they have a relationship...people cheat for sex, when they leave it cause they either dont love you anymore, or they have found something new
844148
Why don't you just leave your girlfriend so you don't have to cheat on her
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
947077
Cheaters get mad because they have been caught!  Simple as that.  They probably feel ashamed of themselves when in reality they should feel ashamed of what they have done to the one they cheated on.\n\nMy ex attempted to make me feel like it was my fault when I was walking out the door for the last time.  I think it was because he knew he f**ked up and he knew there was nothing he could do at that point to get me to stay so, why not try to hurt me on the way out.\n\nSome people still haven't evolved.
36465
Cheating on your boyfriend because he cheated only you only takes you to his level. You probably should have left him no matter how much you feel you "loved" him.\n\nWhen a person cheats, they are disrespecting their significant other and disrespecting themselves. Cheating is dishonorable. So if someone cheats on you, why would you want to stoop to their level? Instead, take the high road and become a better and stronger person.
482525
Cheating is a very bad thing. It is a deception of your girl friend/boy friend or spouse. People cheat because they find someone they are sexually attracted to or are not getting what they want from there significant other.
830345
once a cheater always a cheater, why try to make it work?
502715
by coming right out and telling him then show him the door. once a cheat always a cheat.  Yes it hurts to break up but its better than staying with someone who cheats on up and can end up giving you STDs. There are great guys out there dumb the loser and finding one will be easy.
722851
Usually it's the jealous person who is having thoughts of doing whatever it is that they are blaming others for.  Sooooo if you are thinking about cheating then you are going to start to think that your boyfriend is thinking about it too.
507110
People cheat because they have a lack of self control.  If you know that something is wrong, and you do it anyway, then you are showing an amazing lack of self control, and your immaturity is showing as well.  It takes strength realize the truth.  A person does not have to cheat.  You simply tell your significant other "I don't love you enough to respect your feelings, or care if I hurt you."  Then leave them.  Because that is the exact message you are telling them when you cheat.  You are just too chicken to tell them to their face.
145638
That would depend on if the relationship that I was currently in was going sour. I wouldn't cheat on them if it was I'd just break it off.
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
112931
I could forgive but I wouldn't stay with someone who had cheated on me. A good relationship has to be based on trust and love. Without the strong foundation of trust, the relationship will crumble. After someone has cheated you would always have to wonder and worry. Each time they were late, or didn't call, or acted differently you would wonder if they were cheating again. You can't have a good, loving, trusting relationship under those circumstances. I would also strongly doubt their love for me if they cheated. If someone truly loves you, then they wouldn't want to cheat on you. In their mind there would be noone better than you and they wouldn't risk the relationship with you for something as superficial as sex with someone they aren't in love with.
969452
Some girls are really evil. They will tell the girlfriend anything to get her to break up with a guy just because they want a shot at the guy.  It happens more than you would think with younger girls but not as much with the older women because we are more willing to get at the truth and make things work.\n\nI did cheat once and got told on when I was 16(just kissing and heavy petting). I denied it but he broke up with me anyway. Haven't done it since.
457689
NONE, Its a crapy feeling when someone cheats on you.  Not to mention, if you really care about a person to have a commitment, then there shouldnt be anyone else.  If there is anyone else, then they shouldnt be committed.
424649
Different reasons. Depends on the guy, the girl, the situation... same as when girls cheat I supposed. Sometimes it's just because they are selfish and thoughtless and don't actually care about who they are with.
349439
It's an immature 'power' thing, they think it makes them more attractive if they can take him away from his girlfriend.  The truth is if one girl could get between them, then any girl could.  You learn that no-one can 'take away' a person you're with, because you can't own anyone, and that it needed the other person's 'cooperation' for the 'theft' to be successful