My partner feel pain while doing intercourse, we havent done it yet!what to do?
369714
If you have'nt done it yet how do you know it hurts her? If you mean she has had pain before with other men then that does'nt mean she'd have the same problem with you necessarily. Lots of foreplay, rubbing touching etc, and lots of lube and take it slow.
693936
happens to me too.. it might be to rough.. if so tell him to take it slow... it could cause irritation. uhhh... you dont have to say hes good in bed... he might not be.. being to rough is not always good sex if it hurts its not right. there most likely isent anything wrong with you... im with the same guy it feels great its not rough and i love every second of it... i love the feeling if it gets rough but i know when it gets too rough and it needs to slow down.. make sure communication is very clear between the two of you.... most girls bleed... and the first time you have sex you dont always pop your cherry. you finally poped your cherry and if you dont have sex for long periods of time your vagina goes back to place making you tight all over again.
430204
This is going to sound weird but... when you are having sex do the scissors. Trust me I am gay. Also, it helps if you do the frog position. He lies down and you do squats on top of him. Make sure he doesn't stick it in your butt. It hurts.
249160
really i think that you should ask your sex partner. and  since ya'll are already haveing sex then you and your partner should be close enoght to decuss it without being embrassed about it. just talk about it ask each other questions see what you can do to emprove
610106
Do you not have any imagination? \nDo what comes natural to you and your partner. \nIf it feels good and does not hurt anyone do it...You both have to be willing.\nYou can buy books and CD's on this subject...
281285
See a gyno about. Also, has this probably always been there w/ your husband? Everyone's body is different and unique, and responds differently to certain stimulations. So, perhaps your husband just isn't doing it as your body needs. For myself, if climax is right there but not achieved, due to a change of rythm or whatever, it does start to become painful. I tried KY once, and it burned, so your not alone on that one. My advice, see the gyno and if you get a clean bill of health, then plan a romantic day with your husband in the bedroom. Rediscover each other's bodies. Offer suggestions and be open to suggestions. It'll be fun...and I'm sure he'll enjoy it too!
769887
I have been there; \n\nThe reason it is hurting is because you are dry before he inserts his penis; and likely he is too young to know that he should first get you to the point that you are excited and your vagina is secreting for lubrication for the penis.  If you are not wet or not feeling really good before he puts his penis in you; than you need to perform more foreplay.\n\nAnd if it still hurts even when you are lubricated, then it is probably an infection in your cervix.  If it is a "burning sensation" when he puts it in, or even when you stop and it still burns then you have an infection of some sort and should see a doctor.
408836
You need to go to a doctor.  Your problem could be mental or physical.  I don't mean to be rude, but it seems that if your boyfriend respected you, he wouldn't want to hurt you.  He should want to help you get help and be there for you.  I read that the way your partner makes you feel can result in painful sex.  That aside, it could also be an infection, urinary tract problems, abnormalities of the uterus or ovaries, or a condition called vaginismus.  I hope this helps.
390346
nope.\n\n1. If you need relief then he's doing it all wrong.\n\n2. How would it be cool?  It's coming from a hotter than normal body temp area engorged with blood.\n\n3. If you're not using any kind of STD protection then you need to BOTH be tested and have complete trust in each others fidelity.\n\n4. Contraception, contraception, contraception.\n\n5. Great sex is much better than just sex.  For me this means love, trust, and many, many fun times practising.\n\nAfter all of the above in place and or not and issue, then the matter of male ejaculation inside the vagina is not such a big thing.  The women can feel the guy thrusting harder and more forcefully (which feels great when you're already coming), but rarely (if at all) can she feel the sperm leave  him.  What you do feel is a distinct increase in warm/hot fluids inside.  You hopefully would have been thoroughly soaked in your own excretions before he even entered you. \nThe overall feeling is fantastic.  \nTake your time and get to know want you and one another like.
797032
Why do you want to have this for a longer time ? Only pain in your hands and body ache will be the result.  what it the wrong if you get it reasonably in short time. Don't wast time, and burn your calories unnecessarily. finish it in the usual time and if you feel do it again after some time, if you can.\n\nYou should show your capacity for  extended longer period only when you have sex with your partner. It will satisfy both of you-.
442380
try using some lubricant like KY Jelly, also have him only insert it a little at a time until you get used to it. Sometimes it takes a little stretching on your part. Once you have sex several times then you should be able to handle it, and it should not hurt any more. Good luck!
1031858
From insertion to orgasm, the average time is roughly five minutes.  That, however, should not be the period of time you should look at.\n\nIf you're trying to figure out if you're a good lover or not, examine (and learn from) the entire experience ... not just those few minutes of actual intercourse.\n\nIf the question has come up because your partner has complained, it could be because you're not spending enough time on the foreplay ... the activities that precede intercourse.\n\nTake your time!  Don't be afraid to ask your partner what she likes and how she likes it.  Let her teach you how to please her.\n\nGood sex is not measured by how long it takes the guy to get off ... it is measured by the quality of pleasure BOTH parties get from the encounter.
1157635
Tell him how you feel about the pressure.Then, you both need to make an argreement that that's NOT the reason you are having sex.You are having sex to feel closer to each other, to show your love, and enjoy each other.Don't concentrate on the orgasm.If it happens, it happens, if it dosent it dosent.Take your time.Maybe have one nite of just cuddling.One night just oral.ETC,ETC.Enjoy each other, not what you get out of it, then it will come.Also, you need to let the past stay in the past.If you dont, your ex is getting even more satisfication that it is messing up your new relationship.Most people do NOt have orgasms through sex.That's a proven fact.But the fact you had it many times before during sex, is a problem now.Let yourself relax and get rid of the past!!
103934
Wow this is a tough one but I know you need help so here's my advise:\nHave sex,but be very cautous about what you're doing because remember that it can bring a child into the world. I STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT YOU REALLY THINK THESE QUESTIONS OVER. DO YOU LOVE HIM? ARE YOU WILLING TO RAISE A CHILD WITH HIM? AND POSSIBLY EVEN GET MARRIED JUST IN CASE SOMETHING GOES WRONG?\nWell I think you're gonna have a lot of thinking to do, but please do remember that something may go wrong and you will have to take responsibility for it sooner or later!!!
60124
Wait a day or so, and if you're still uncomfortable, then contact a doctor or a clinic. You could also go to the library and read a medical book...they usually have chapters on sorenesses, etc. caused by sex.\n\nhope you feel better.
680677
it is obvious that you want to please your husband and you should feel confidant that her cares if you hurt or not during this time of expressing\nthere are many things to consider\n   *his weight vs. your body size\n   *the quality of the bed you may be using\n   *the position of your arms\n   *the intensity of his thrust\nNever the less Let Him help you Get comfortable\nHe will feel special that you are sharing this with him and going to Him for help...if no relief is found check with your doctor - it could be serious
1156111
Try foreplay! Too many times you guys are in too much of a hurry...the ladies like it slow and easy...give her time....and try the new KY Jelly with the little "tingle"... its a warming massage.