how do you get a divorce from a bigomist & you're not sure where they are now?
373556
If he was still married when he "married" you, your marriage may be invalid and you won't need a divorce. See a lawyer- laws vary by state.
304077
There are several organizations that might sponser you, start with your church and look online.  A good class to take is Perspectives.  It is about world missions, but they introduce a lot of organizations that sponser people, and maybe you could network.  Also volunteer and play at other churches and organizations, and sell them on your idea.  You never know who will be in the audience.\n\nAs far as your wife, call her and ask her why she left.  Maybe she is going through a difficult time.  Try to be there for her, as well as have a clear vision for where you are going in life.  You could get support in a divorce support group (divorcecare is good) and they usually have trained specialists to help you through that stuff.  But as far as taking her back, that's up to you and God.
1047807
I was in a very simialar situation with my ex  and sought advice from my divorce attorney. He recommended that the only way to legally stop him is to take out a warrant for slander and difimation of character at the local magistrate offfice.  Her divorce attorney can advise her on the best way to proceed from there, if she can prove everything that he has been saying is a lie and she has plenty of emotional support for her through this, I didnt but  i would do it all over again.
817904
get a lawyer, sadly its the answer to most questions. there are experts in family law and they will know the answers. pick up a phone book and find a divorce lawyer would be a good place to start they would know where to start or who to talk to if you cant find anyone else
308556
divorce and break up!!
1164454
call your local court house for info each state is different\nget the name of the person you speak with in case they give you mis-information\nwrite the time and date too( it proves you did call and frees you from any liability on that part\nalso were they evicted?\narrested?\nabandoned thing also have different guidelines
985436
Depending on how much the fines and penalties are, you need to go to small claims or superior court in the city where the fines were incurred.  \n\nBefore you do that:  \n\n1--Get a copy of all the documents related to the fines, the car, the EZ-pass account under your name, etc.  \n\n--You also need to get your sister to show up in court with you and/or sign a notarized affadavit that she was threatened (better if she appears in court with you).  \n\n--Also bring info./docs showing that you were not in the country during this period.  Ask the EZ-pass people if they have video recordings of the car when he was using the pass.  \n\n--Contact the EZ-pass people about what their policy is for fines received when you are not the driver of the car, are not in possession or ownership of the car, etc.  \n\nAbout the ring and car:  You may be out of luck on these if you signed off on the divorce instead of pressing the issue for their return at the time that you divorced.  But, ask for it anyway in your civil suit along with the fine money.    \n\nWhen you go to the city (New York City?), definitely call the local law schools.  The schools often have programs where law students will look at your case and give advice on your rights and how to proceed with your case if you want to pursue it.  (Also check with the local library--sometimes they sponsor such programs of having lawyers to meet with the public to give advice.)
184930
My new husband had that problem, it's rather simple... Get the attorney to get the papers going, he"ll list it in the news paper that he is being looked for and if there is no answer, well, your papers go through and you are divorced after a short time, weather he answers the attorney thing or not. it's  not all that hard, just get youself a good attorney honey..
573235
I suspect that the two of you were not telling the same story, although you think you are. But this is immaterial. Why listen to advice from other people? If you have both decided that divorce is the best way forward, then this is what you should do. Forget other people's opinions. These just muddy the water. Just be thankful that the two of you have made this decision and can still be friendly towards each other.
213507
check out your divorce papers \nmaybe your custody papers \nif there isn't either you need to file a custody suit
432614
You can divorce him - ask several lawyers for fees. You can require that all communication be directed to you attorney. Let the lawyer know, up front, that you want minimal contact with him. I divorced a woman who left town. I went months without her seeing me or the kids. Years later, we lived next door to one another!
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You have to file for a divorce in the county where you live.  If the divorce is final, then you might be able to change where the county if you have moved.  It depends on how long you have lived there.  You should contact the court directly and talk to the workers there about a change in venue.  If both parties agree and if you live somewhere different it might be easy.\n\nSee website http://divorcenet.com \n\nmight be of some general help
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You can look for his phone or ask the government's help to find your husband's phone number, you can call him to come back and if he says no, you can tell him that you see him in the court. You can find a lawyer, tell him/her your problem and later on the court, you just have to tell the story again. Or another quicker way is that you can seek government's help. If you really can't reach him, the only thing that you can do is to really sit and wait for him.
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you HAVE to answer to the papers that were served to you.  if you do not, all odds are against you, because it will appear to the judge that you simply do not care.  this requires filing a response with the county clerk, which usually costs a fee - call and find out how much in your county.  if you have kids and are interested in keeping them, you should really use an attorney - the courthouse sometimes has referrals that will go on a sliding scale based on how much you earn, or maybe they will have a payment plan since you are unemployed.  \n\nat this point, assume everything is not in your favor.  everything depends on your particular situation.  was he abusive?  were you?  who has been the primary caretaker of the children, etc.?  judges are mean - they will laugh in your face sometimes if you appear pro se, but i think it's worth it, especially if you win.  also, is there material involved, i.e., houses, cars, etc.?  who wants what?  i would attempt to talk to him if possible and find out what he really wants, i.e., kids - joint custody, or weekends only; house, etc.?
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One (or both) of them may be leaving the door open for a future reconciliation. The person doing this may not even know that this is the case. When I left my first husband, he said he wasn't going to file since I left him, I was the one with the problem, and there were financial issues as well. This went on for several years. At one stage, I did go back to him, and he dumped his girlfriend like garbage. I am not proud of this, she was a nice girl, but I think I did her a favor since he went on to drugs & crime. After going back & finding out for sure he was wrong for me, I did file for divorce.\n\nThis is NOT to say that this is the case with you. But it could be possible. Maybe she thinks in the back of her mind that he will come back. Financial complications are easily resolved by lawyers, ask him to see one. A married man is a married man, whether he lives with her or not. Neither the law nor time is on your side. Good luck.
470411
CONTACT THE COURTHOUSE AND ASK FOR A TRANSCRIPT OF THE DIVORCE---IT MAY HAVE A SMALL FEE CONNECTED TO THE DOCUMENT.
648957
Divorce them both. They saw you when you caught them in bed together? Go home and kick them both out of the house. They feel guilty (hopefully) in the US you could just tell them to leave. I can't say for your country. You know how things are there better than I.\n\nHave you noticed you have a guy's avatar?