I am fat,but reasonably attractive i know i can look better, does anyone know a sure fire way of getting thin?
361033
the best way is really to eat healthy... replace everything that isnt good for u in ur diet with something that is. replace sodas with water. chips/candy and other similar snacks with a piece of fruit or veg. reduce the amount of food u eat at dinner... never eat anything heavy after 6pm... and of course theres excersize which for me is the worst, so i stay away from gyms and instead go for really long walks...
403114
good luck.  your genes determine all that according to one of the lastest medical journals.  we have to "trick" our genes into thinking we are thin.
463597
My only suggestion is running or walking. General exercise should slim you down. But a lot of men are known to like more curvy women.
855915
you are just fine..you may have to change your eating habits...eat more vegetables&fruits,drink water and exercise yourself...the point is to be healthy not skinny!
171874
I know how you can lose ten pounds of ugly fat instantly.\n\n\n\nCut your head off.
158564
The best way is with diet and exercise, and you should exercise. Your goal shouldn't be to lose weight it should be to get in the best possible health than you can be.
1170489
These are some points, which would help in increasing your weight:\n\nEating: The first important point to increase your weight is to eat well. Eat more than you burn calories. Eating food, which contains more fat is good for people who are thin. Drinking milk, cheese, chicken meat etc are some foods, which contain more fat.\n\nExercise: Most people think that thin people should not exercise, as they could get even thinner. But it is recommended that they exercise so that they feel hungrier and eat more. Taking nutritious food would help the body gain weight. Do not lift heavy weight dumbbells in a gym; instead opt for low weight and do more repetitions.\n\nThere are lots of weight gain supplements available in the market, but they are not recommended. Instead have good amount of protein-enriched foods, fruits and products, which contain more fat. Eating lots of protein and fat, as it is very helpful in increasing your weight. So why wait! Start NOW.
843773
there is no easy way.  if you adopt a training routine and stick with it, you'll not only loose the weight, but you'll feel better day to day and gain mental strength from it.  \n\nthere is no magic formula.  adjust your eating habits and begin exercising.  if you have the money, get a personal trainer.  it would be a good investment, as nothing feels better than being healthy.
996817
You and I are in the minority - I've always been skinny too.  The simplest way to gain is to eat more calories or do less exercise.  Of course, muscle weighs more than fat so working out can help you gain mass too.\n\nYou need to eat some foods that are higher in calories, but they don't have to be junkfood.  Drink whole milk, full fat cheeses, leave the skin on poultry, choose a rich sauce on pasta instead of a vegetable one, and so on.  Myself, I don't like sweets but can end a meal with a nice cheese plate.  Get a calorie counter and pick out the hi-cal choices.  Or just get used to being thin - millions of people wish they were!
121088
I agree with cuz - you look healthy and probably not too overweight.  Still, you (like all of us) need to do things to stay healthy, both exercise and right diet - it's easy for two jobs to do a number on you if you don't watch out.\n\nSpecific suggestions:\n1) Pack your own lunch, and make it the night before (or make a few on the weekend) - you'll control your intake, and your budget, much better than if you find yourself rushing to some food joint that either overfeeds you or turns it out fast.\n2) Take the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator whenever you have the chance.  If taking the bus or subway, get off a the next furthest stop and walk the extra 2 or 3 blocks.  If you drive and park, park at the far end of the lot (keeping your personal safety in mind, of course).\n3) Buy some very light (3 pounds or less) weights to have at home or at desk at work - do a few light stretches, curls, up-downs with them when you have the chance (and don't be self-conscious).\n4) Buy a body ball - one of those big inflated balls you see at a gym or in a physical therapists office - and a book on doing exercise with a body ball.  Keep it at home and do it while you watch TV before you go to bed.\n5) Take ONE class a week at your local gym - in either a purely aerobic class (step, spinning) or a yoga or tai chi.  This can be a very early morning or a weekend.\n6) Is there a walking club at either of your jobs?  A group of people who take a brisk 15-minute walk at lunch?  join them, or start one.\n\nThese suggestions won't take too much time or money, and you'll start to feel great and have more energy within a month.\n\nGood luck!
1091825
First, you need to improve your self esteem.  Not knowing whether you are chunk or athletic is not the way to go.  If you want to get leaner do some cardio.
196075
Eat well....and don't try to look like a skinny child-looking-Britney-Spears. You get the point. Hit the gym, but make sure you have a good diet to complement it. Otherwise you will look like a stick.
915351
Very smart, excellent plan.\n\n-Drink lots of water.\n-Try to get away from "three square meals" in favor of 4-6 smaller ones.\n-Substitute fruit for dessert.\n-Cut back on dressings, cheese, and/or substitute lower fat/calorie alternatives.\n-Do something you enjoy outdoors.  Go for walks, run, bike, swim, whatever.  Anything you will do at least 3 hours per week will help.\n-Cut back alcohol intake.\n-Treat yourself to a "cheat day" every week.  Don't go hog wild, but enjoy something you like to eat.\n\nYou don't have to exercise every day.  Go for walks at lunchtime when at work.  Walk the dog.  Be in motion.  Have fun.\n\nYou can do it.  Take it slow.  Be prepared for possible weight gain if you add muscle.  You will lose inches and feel better no matter what.
540390
Exercise. Eat healthy. It's not that complicated. What's hard is creating a new lifestyle for yourself, which you can keep doing and won't relapse into old habits.\n\nTake a walk every morning. (Or evening.) Drink water instead of soda or other beverages. Cut back on your portion size. Try going to a gym or getting some regular exercise.\n\nAnd be patient. You didn't get fat overnight. You aren't going to become thin overnight either.
896857
If you exercise you will gain muscle making you look muscularand not so skinny, also for your face, you can  do exercises to make your face more muscular is by silently shouting out A E I O U , everyday. This will make your face less skinny, also don't eat junk food to gain weight it is unhealthy. Gain muscle!\nGood Luck
445975
Well, Try some some high protein food and dont eat junk food cause that will make you fatter than you really want.
338380
Sure, You still need to excersize and eat right...just tone up what you have..I know lots of girls that are "thick" but they are still sexy.