the one who is supposed to be my best frien ever left me for good how can i get revenge?
375433
prove that your friendship was true to you and do not seek revenge.  That is just stupid.  We all think about it, but be the better person.  Maybe just let him or her know though, that you are pissed and hurt, but not stupid.
1151629
Life is too short to hold a grudge against a person.  I lost one of my best friends to a car accident a few days ago.  A friend can be there one day and gone the next without you even thinking it's possible.  Think about it.  Tell her why you are mad and make up.\n\nGood luck hun.
531119
Try to find it in your heart to see this person as just a sad someone who will never be as fabulous as you are.  Cultivate compassion and forgiveness for him or her, and be happy that you are nothing like him or her.\nDo not forget this person though, or the harm he or she has done to you, and recognise the lessons that this person has taught you about your own feelings.  \n\n"Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do".\n\nLove is always the stronger force, and hate leads to your own personal destruction.  Let go of the anger and find the peace and you will be all the more a better person for it.
772404
Revenge is empty and it won't make you feel better, it will make you feel worse. Don't do it. You just have to find a way to move on and realize that there are other people in the world that are better :).
459462
hey pal..even i hav been betrayed by my frendz and i knw how it feels,ive got over it wid a lot of difficulty.but U GOT TO HAVE FRENDZ IN UR LIFE!they r the ones who will b wid u till the end of ur life n guide u n support u.but be careful in choosin frendz the next time as u dont want the same thing 2 happen wid u again.i hope n pray tht u will get a frend who will b understandin n will b wid u alwayz.hope this helped.
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.
186484
I am so very sorry for your lose. But as the saying goes, Time heals all wounds. And No, I am not trying to be funny. It will take time and as that time passes, keep in mind that your bestfirend is in a far better place and holding a seat for you when your time comes. When you can sit down and have a conversation with your friend. You'd be amazed at how well this works at times. I truly believe that your conversation will be heard. It will also help if you sit down with another friend who also knew this bestfriend. Maybe not as well or as close as you were, but someone who knew your bestfriend. It does help to bring closer.
923393
how could you have a bestfriend that doesn't like you?
1012216
Dude trust me and give her time and just stay in touch with her and start at the friendship level again and see where it will go if you presist on calling her or showing up where she is you will just piss her off more and push her away
1150051
Be as nasty as possible if that dont work talk to the police. Show no care or feelings for the person just hate and be very nasty that s the only way to get through to them may sound harsh but thats how its done. oh or intreduce her to you best friend lol
426623
You might consider getting right back on the horse as they say.  Find another boyfriend, (hopefully one with some fidelity and honor).  I don't think revenge is the answer, and I don't think that you could get revenge anyway.  Just dump him and move on (which is hard i know) but honestly sweetie, there is sombody out there who will love you for you.  Just hang in there.
839248
The biggest punishment you can give him is to forget about him completely and let Karma do the rest - it will come and bite him on the butt without you having to waste any of your precious time even thinking about him.\n\nIf he's sleeping around like you say, then sooner or later that is going to catch up with him. It sounds like you had a lucky escape - count your blessings and move on!\n\nHe's obviously not worth a moment of your time or a shred of your brain space. You're worth more than that and to try and exact revenge would diminish you as the better person in all of this.\n\nWhat goes around comes around - you won't have to do a thing!\n\nEnjoy your new found freedom!
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
120103
If your best friend left you then you don't have to be friends with her, however if she just left you to go hang out with someone else for awhile then I wouldn't ditch her just yet. Just ask her if she's still your friend and have a couple of your friends watch out for her behind your back in case she insn't what you think she is.
732594
get other friends. then forgive your ex-friend and be happy again.
995277
revenge is for the weak.  Move on, learn from it, and look for something to make you happy again.
584458
The best revenge for an ex is to move on with your life!!! The new girl is always gonna be super protective and act like she is just the s*** because thats how spiteful women are. I think you should listen to\n\nHe wasn't man enough for me\n\nBy Toni Braxton...lol\n\nForget him...Find a guy who would never let anyone talk to you like that! Stupid biotch!