To win her back, after I dump her. How?
365993
I suggest that you two should just be friends. If you really loved her you wouldn't have dumped her
1013122
hello\nim really sorry for break up\ni dont think you can dump her anymore but you can move on and find some else who cares about you.remember when one door closes another opens!!!\ngood luck
102833
You say that you want to know how to get her back, and you know that she is making a mistake....well my friend I think that you need to give it time.  She needs to be able to come to the conclusion on her own that she made a mistake, and that this other guy is not the one for her it simply is not something you can coerce her into.  If you try, you will do nothing more than to drive a larger wedge into your already shattered relationship.  Give her space and time to miss you, and if she doesn't then you have your answer but she can't miss you if you continue to cling to her.\n\nAlso, I think something that you might need to consider as well is would you ever be able to move past her betrayal of you trust?  After all she did start another relationship before ending the one with you first.  \n\nOne other thing to consider is that perhaps your lives are just taking two different paths at the moment.  Maybe she felt that she wanted someone more inline with her own personal goals and aspirations.
779211
Earning trust back is hard; it takes time.  But start of small, show her that you care and that you are indeed there for her.  Try to take her out, even if it's just as friends.  Don't try to get ANYTHING from her.  Make sure you don't hurt her again and make sure she knows that you won't.  Get her something special that will show that you are putting thought into her and how you really feel.  Take the time to call her daily, talk to her.  Even if it's just texting her to say "Hey, I just wanted to make sure you were okay."  It's okay to still tell her that you love her [if you do] But don't try to move onto her too fast.  Give her some time and let her realize what she wants.  But just make sure that she knows you care.
455516
If she left you because of this new boyfriend, then theres no point your pursuing her again beacuse she may not want you back after dumping you for him. If she loves him more than you, you are going to be disappointed in this one-sided love. Go out and mix around with friends and get them introduce you to other girls and start a new life without your ex. You both wont be happy in future knowing she had a past later on. So why waste your time and brood for her? Enjoy your yourself, man. She's not the only fish in the sea!
766848
She wanted to test the waters and now she's seen that what she had was better so she wants you back. You have to let her know that you aren't the "fall-back-on" guy. You have your own life and to be able to fully live that life, you need for her to leave you alone, you aren't interested.
776709
dont jump the gun...  she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants...   if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said  oh baby i miss you you were the best..\n  as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her...  you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...\n    it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention...  so she will want  while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you.. \n   not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid shit with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in...  yup... dont be stupid like me man....  if  you think shes sincere then do it...    if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
709822
Tell her you want to have a "trial period" just go out do things etc. without being back together so that way she can see that you have changed and tell her that you are willing to make the changes to make her happy. Just let her know how you really feel about her and how it makes you feel to be without her.
43267
stay single for at least six months, clear your head, learn to love yourself again and don't blame youself for this. she obviously wasnt worth her weight in beans. time heals all wounds. hard to believe right now, but it's true. write a song about it!
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
407111
well...just think of it this way...if you love her...just let her go...if she loves you back...she'll come back to you and you guys would be meant to be...give it time...if she doesnt take you back and just get with sum1 else...move on and hold your head up high because you deserve better...
1815
It kind of depends on what you were not able to compromise on and if you are willing to give it a try her way.  As far as try to get her back start doing little things for her.  It sounds like you still talk and you must have some idea what kind of things she like.  Surprise her make her feel like she is the best part of your life.  Good luck...
442901
u have to try to be strong...think about why she broke up with u if u dont know ask her. try to stay on her good side and fight to get her back but dont allow her to see how hard u r tryin if she is takin u for granted cuz she will never take u back she will keep playin with your emotions but if she needs to see how hard u r tryin to get her back let her see. if there is no way u can get her back then seek help from a pro. meanwhile talk to someone about it cry if u have to and make sure u think about the good times and not the bad cuz that will make u feel worst. if u really love her then i think u should put up a fight its better than not tryin at all. as time passes u will start feelin better u will not see it now bcuz she just broke up with u but as time passes u will see things gettin easier. its not gonna happen over night at all this is a healing process. if u wanna talk further about it ill be there for u. email me at jbhola87@yahoo.com...till then feel better. PRAY!
258616
be patient and dont push her too hard\njust be there for her (even only via email)\nstop telling her how you feel for now, it may be quite irritating for someone's out of a bad relationship\ntell her your feeling once again when she's opened up a bit\n\nhope she'll loosened up =)
944893
sit her down & tell her in the kindest way you know how, getting your point across, but keeping her dignity intact.  the point is to tell her to her face, don't email or text her, don't start misbehaving so she'll dump  you, just be honest and in the long run she can at least walk away knowing you were honest with her - at least you're taking the right first step by asking how to do it - also if you were being dumped how would you like to be told?
619722
tell her just that. if she still loves you she'll take you back.
390745
Let it go and be a friend.  Afterall, that sounds like what she needs anyway.  Later on down the road when she sees you have changed she may be willing to let you back in.