how best to top myself? can't get work and no future?
370459
you sound depressed which is a natural reaction to unemployment. Best to see your doctor and visit the job centre who may be helpful in finding you work related courses. Keep the faith, there is always a future
867800
Your number one, and that should always come first!  Friendships can take a turn in either direction at any given time. Job opportunties aren't easily available and when opportunity knocks, open the door!
352011
first you'll have to start from entry level job. try to get job in big and good orgnaziation..then it's totally depend on your skills, your attitude towards your job, your commitment and your ambitiousness how much ambitious you're so wish you good luck...
153824
Since you won't be able to get a real job, do odd jobs for other people. For exmaple, you could babysit or mow lawns if you live in suberbia. But if you live in a city like me, you're way better off working illegally at a store where your friends already work at, doing jobs lke sweeping or something, and they'd pay you themsleves. Or, if you're really pathetic (also like me) grab a guitar, head to the nearest bus/train station and play your heart out.
273112
first of all be honest about it ..second explain to them that this is in your past and that you are trying to turn your life around ..and that all you need is one person to believe you so that you can get started with this by getting a job
884765
Please think rationally and calmly. This will work out. Even if you did not get the job, there are plenty of others out there to suit you.
1131717
think positive, think u r the best(but dont be over confident), be optimistic. and live ur life. hard work pays\nbelieve in yourself.\nGOOD LUCK
327980
You have to start small and work your way up.Your credentials alone may move you up the ladder a little quicker.Most top executives had to start in the "cube".
718992
First: Don't let it get you down.  Don't let anybody get you down.  I know it sounds easy but, it would take 2 years for  me to tell you how much experience I have with this issue.\n\nSecond: Don't waste too much time analyzing your pain.  Rather than investing too much time trying to figure out what went wrong, spend more time figuring out where you need to go.  Then, put all your available energy into going there.\n\nThird: Use your imagination.  Go to Google or Yahoo and search for "Arabic Jobs", "Arabic Employment, New York", or some combination of words you know belong to your beautiful culture.  THINK POSITIVE, my man!  And don't let yourself get tired until it's time for your head to hit the pillow at night.\n\nFourth: Finally, if you have a little extra money, consider hiring a job coach to help you navigate this issue.\n\nHere's wishing you the best of success in your job search.
757542
Well aren't you a challenge??Let's not get depressed yet.You are at the best part of your life.Have you heard of eons.com? Try there for a community uplift.Age 50 is now like 35 was in the fifties.First of all what are your passions?I mean besides the previous jobs that have failed you??Why not give yourself some time to find that passion.I typed in, "printing jobs" on yahoo several came up.Monster.com has some.I mean for now.Lift up  your head and shout "I'm not going to take this anymore" real loud.It will make you feel better.Find a 45 year old and hang out have a Starbucks coffee.Ask whats going on in your business world.Find a common link with society give back,while you mentor someone younger. Get your eyes off of yourself, help some else.Opportunity comes when you help others.
242383
No - get a job and support yourself instead of trying to be a parasite on society
729412
Get a reason to get up. Usually means getting a job, so find something to get involved in. I have this issue-er no job however I solved it by doing other things instead. Firstly I hate "jobs" such as 9-5 do as your told and get with the program, yet I like work. Strange ain't it.\n\nFirstly people are key. My solution was finding someone who I can go casually work for and end up involved in all sorts of problems. I care about his business and want to see it succeed. Not bothered about being paid as I'm enjoying the involvement. Freeing myself from the wage slave part of it answered my core value of freedom. As a result I would be there often 14 hrs a day easily, and be willing to do difficult, dirty and awkward jobs. Something I won't do for a conventional "have to" job. \n\nMy answer here being find something, and someone(s) outside of you to care about. Volunteer, get involved with people. If you don't go for charity (like me) find some business you can get involved with.  Without a purpose in life you will drift into some kind of malaise and depression. \n\nDrugs and alcohol are not inevitable but can be a danger in this scenario. If you can't answer the question of "what do I want?" then go make something up. I used to be an IT consultant but now I work casually in a commercial garage just hanging out doing various jobs that I can figure out or being taught how to do others. I had enough of computers as a career.\n\nOf course this boiled down to "get a life" but that kind of unhelpful answer won't give you much to chew on. I would say that those giving this advice be more productive if you are going to bother setting hands to keys. \n\nFind some purpose or just go out and see what you can find. Walk, bus, drive, give yourself lots of chances. I'm talking from experience. Network with people, learn to strike up conversations with ANYBODY<--This is the most vital trick of all->Learn to be very interested in other people, get interested in others. Trust me, if you are sincere and real, you will attract people and this is what you need.
842884
First of all keep your head up. You've got to believe in yourself. Get a basic low paying job to start. Find a true friend who can put you up temporarily and work your way up. Your drive and desire will pull you through. God bless you.
837599
Go in looking nice and ask for an application.  You can see if you can get a job first.  Interviewing is good practice.
426024
Try to run at a lower level and see where that goes first.  If you do well than you can prove yourself at a higher position.
572240
The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
132315
NONE UR BS IS WORTH NOTHING HERE U HAVE TO START ALL OVER HERE, SO I ADVISE YOU TO GET A JOB THERE AND WORK YOUR WAY OVER HERE