im trying to get my ex back for wat he did by playing the same game as him is dat bad ?
372345
uh no stop playing games don't stoop to his level.  cut him now.
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
932337
He's not trying to make you jealous.  You're already jealous.  It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend.  First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true.  I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him.  You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for.  So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it.  Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you.  When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend.  You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.\n\nMove on and find someone else.  This relationship is over.  Don't jump on his back  for rides it only makes you look easy.  He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy.  Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you.  I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
598580
step back. tell her that you don't want to play games, because that's what she's doing.\n\nif you are ex's, then the feelings you are having now may be just because you feel like you are getting a second chance at something that didn't work before. think about why it didn't work out before. maybe you don't want to be with her afterall.\n\nthink about what she's doing now. it sounds like she's trying to play you and her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. sounds like she wants it all. or the opposite, she doesn't know what she wants, and that's why you are getting mixed messages.\n\nbreak up with her for now, until she figures out what she wants and she can stick to it. if she wants to be with you, then she ought to cut ties completely with her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. don't let yourself be in this relationship as it is now, because it's not good for you.
487388
That is the price you pay sometimes for playing games.  The only thing you can do is tell him your sorry and move on.
735145
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
997839
it sounds like he is trying to be a player. I suggest you leave him in the past as an ex. The way he tells you he wants to be back with you, and then see's the other girls, is a strong indication that he is not going to be loyal to you, and will end up hurting you.
573677
You're just asking to be hurt...Honey...don't you think more of yourself?? This is not the one for you...you are HIS loss. Get  your self back in the game..
601123
Well if you had broken up, then its really none of his business what you get upto... behind his back, or right in front of him. Pity that he did actually want you back, you might have blown your chances here...\nSit down and have a chat with him, explain the situation to him, how you saw it, and listen as he tells you his side of the story... Good luck.
645224
I know it seems like playing hard to get or "games" so to speak is the right thing to do, but I've learned from past experiences (or should I say mistakes) that it isn't at all. If I could take back some of those things I did that I thought were right... I would be so much happier today! Trust me girl... you like him right? Then go! If things turn out differntly after, then it just wasn't meant to be. You'll find someone who's more worth your time.
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
526502
He shouldn't go there PERIOD!! It doesn't matter how bored you are! There are millions of places to play games on the net, if you're bored. Don't believe him...he's a cheater and a dog! If you let him get away with this...he will continue to do it and Lord knows what else behind your back! Put your foot down now! Tell him he's gone if you find that crap again, he has NO reason to go there if he's in a happy relationship...and tell him if he's not happy, he needs to get steppin'.
953279
He sounds like a jerk. Give it up. You know he's playing games with you, you just wanted to hear it from someone else. Yes- give it up.
494709
It's clear that your ex is very jealous or wants to revenge or something like that and wants to brake your relation with your actual girlfriend. The best weapon u have is YOUR GIRLFRIEND. If you really love each other speak all things you re feeling now about the situation and give her an example with the same situation but with the players inverted. If she really loves you she will understand and will stop your ex.
499719
tell him how you feel and if he is just playing games then give up. good luck
749208
YOU ARE WAY TO GULABLE YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS SOMEONE AND LET ME GUESS HE DONT WANT TO HURT ANYONE AND THATS WHY HE STILL HAS BOTH OF YOU.YOU NEED TO TELL HIM YOU AINT GOT TIME TO BE HIS BACK UP HE NEEDS TO GET RID OF HER OR YOUR OUTTA THERE.HES PLAYIN YOU BOTH AND YOU DONT RELIZE IT.IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME ITS UP TO YOU ON WHETHER YOU PUT UP WITH ITOR NOT. GOOD LUCK
862795
Sounds like you want to use the other guy to get back at your ex.\nWell here is what i think. You ex is going to think that you are crazy. He may think that you hooked up with the guy just so you could be close to him. Do what you think is best hun. I think that until things cool down you have to stay away from the ex. Even if you want him back you do not have to come off as looking desperate and crazy.