I have a huge life changing dilema!?
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If you think your good enough to change and stand out for scouts, then yeah go, if your going to be just another name on the roster do you really want to to risk it for a high school championship? Choose the one that will take you farther, high school is only the begining!!!
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Nothing has happened like I had thought it would happen, further proving that what I thought I wanted and needed wasn't really what I needed.\n\nExample: in my dreams I would graduate, become a famous journalist, marry the man of my dreams, and move to NYC. \n\nWhat really happened: I graduated from college in 3.5 years after having a baby, being hospitalized, transferring schools, planning a wedding oh and losing three family members. I married a man who is BEYOND the man of my dreams, I don't live in NYC, and I'm not a journalist. I'm a full time mom.\n\nBut you know what? I'm not upset. Things are working out just as they are supposed to.
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Please find a qualified therapist/counselor and get professional guidance.  They can help you understand how you got to where you are and therefore, how to move forward to change it.  \n\nI would also like to suggest a book that may be very helpful to you called: "Count Your Blessings", by Dr. John Demartini.  It is published in the U.S. (available at Amazon.com), but it may also be available in your country because Dr. Demartini now resides there part-time.  It is a wonderful book and can help you balance your perceptions about what happened to you.  \n\nOften we only see the negatives and fail to understand that even in the worst of circumstances, there are always positives that help balance things.  When we do manage to see the balance, that can help us to move forward and overcome the negatives - even terrible negatives.\n\nBest wishes and good luck!
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Stop and take some time to meditate. Think of your past and what it is you would like to change. That should give you an insight into what you are looking for in your future and build from there. Good luck.:)
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Go buy a book called, Fearfully and Wonderfully Made by Phillip Yancy. When you read the book you will be inspired, the digestive tract is amazing , read and find an awe inspiring answer that is sure to amaze you, your family who will give you lots of hugs, your teacher who will know how brilliant you are and most importantly, God, He will appreciate that you know how much of a Miracle you are!\nGod Bless
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Way more than I should!
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You'll probably need to change your entire surroundings.  The big three, you know?  Work, Girlfriend/Boyfriend, and Living Situation.  That way you can focus on adopting a new situation.
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Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
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You have become an "individual" with whomever you are with....you left the nest and are beginning a life of your own...enjoy the freedom :) Your parents had this experience.. now it's your's :)\nLove Life :)
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Yes I have and I played the role like everything was fine out in public and behind closed doors I was a mess. I cried for no reason and stopped taking phone calls from friends and never left my house nor let any one in. I can say that I'm finally coming out it and realizing that you can't do it alone. You really do need positive people in your life and you need prayer. When yo surround your self with positive prayful people who truley have your best interest at heart that tends to bring you out of your funk. I'm thankful everyday for my life and for God giving us Jesus. Be thankul for you life and for having this moment to make a difference. I think if you actually find soemthing to make your life meaningful whether it's voluteering in a food bank or just giving back to the community in some way; it should make you feel happy and blessed and hopefully help you realize that your life is great. You're alive you have access to a computer, you can read as well as write. Just that right there makes you better off than a whole lot of people. Love yourself and love your life right now because you never know when it may end; so give them something to talk about.  I love you in Christ and I wish you healing and blessings.
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Take this test, and you will see if your under satins control. Change the entire life's concept. In reality and sincerely change your heart from your now state of mind, Start to believe in Jesus Christ ask forgiveness of all your wrong doings. Start tell those you deal with how Jesus will change their lives. Than see if all hell in your life changes for the worst. This is a fax that will rear it's tear able head and you will know if he has your control. Then if you want switch back to satin to watch how all the thing change for the good. Be fare warned.
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I don't know if you believe in higher power or not but if you do, pray every day. Do things that you love to do and that bring you peace. Exercising is a good way to start, you will start to fell better internally. Stop worrying and stressing and accept all things that you cannot change. View all things in your life, good or bad, as a blessing you will be the happiest person you can be!
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Wow that would be one life altering experience! LOL!
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at the moment , I am in a state of confusion !
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Treat yourself to a day out, discover your talents and use them everyday to have fun and to the best of your abilities.\nRealize that you are who you are no matter what, and you serve a purpose on this earth, if you didn't you wouldn't have been placed on this earth in place of billions of others. God chose you and he loves you. No one else is like you and u are one of a kind, you've made it this far and will further!
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WOW!!!! Mine did the same thing after 16 years of marriage. \nWell, later I found out he was seeing someone else and trust me I made like an 18 wheeler, pulled off slowly, got my speed and been trucking every since.\n\nIt is doable, just be determined to live your best life now!!!! Now's your chance to shine. Get a new attitude and celebrate yourself.
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You have to honestly want to make changes in yourself, not just pay the changes lip service. Sounds like you've worn out your welcome with pretty much everyone. Some good soul searching would be in order as well as some counseling.