i am in the the habit of falling in love with ma girlfriends boyfriends what do i do?
363293
Don't worry, every girl goes through that. you may think you are falling in love but you are probably falling in like with them because your friends have probably talked about their boyfriends in front of you so you may fell like you want to be with him from what your friends say but you may not know the real him.
942661
Don't try to force it.  If she is going to love you then you should not have to do anything out of the ordinary.  Will you love yourself if you change yourself just to please someone else?\n\nSometimes people are not always on the same page.  The hardest thing in the world is acceptance.  You have to accept the situation for what it is.  That doesn't mean you stop loving her.  Just be patient. You don't want he to fall in love with a made up you stay the way you are.  Money and gifts can't buy love.  \n\nKnow your heart....
570283
dont feel guilty.\nits none of their monkey business\nface this one of a kind challenge in your life\nlet the people know how much you love your boyfriend\ndefend your relationship.
644808
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
419685
I dont believe that you can fall in and out of love with someone, I feel that if you are really inlove with someone, your never going to want to leave them. your not going to love them today, and not tomorrow. so I say dont say anything to her, move on. Its not fair to put her though it over, and over again.
577710
It's infatuation. HOWEVER, infatuation is just the first step towards love. In this stage you're in, you wanna be with them all the time. You can't stop thinking about them, etc, etc.\n\nAfter a few months of being in a relationship, this feeling wears down a bit. In 6 months to a year, if you still want to be with them, it's probably love.\n\nBut to keep the relationship moving in that direction, you have to create a strong base of MUTUAL honesty, trust, compromise, communication of thoughts/feelings, and respect.
413058
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
119692
Falling in love with someone and only been in the realtionship less then a month. SLOW DOWN! One day at a time, get to know each other before the I love you's come out. I mean I believe in love at first sight, but i also believe in moving to fast. Just be careful. You'll know if hes the one after time passes
179468
you know what? u come to know the love between u n ur lover only wen u r apart. this feeling fires up so much that its hard to resist to see ur love. just try to be in touch with him more.make him n urself believe that u both will be together n love each other more than u used to earlier.this is going to be a boost to ur relationship.u will c that ur love for him is increasing everyday.
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
284789
i think about my girlfriend
381403
Well you should never let your guard down if your able to keep it up at all. Its messed up when ur in a relationship and u have to watch ur back. Maybe you have luggage from a past relationship or something. I say be in the relationship and be a strong enough person so that if u find it wont last or if they are cheating on u, you can move on stress free sucker free and dirt on your shoulder free. Otherwise you aint supposed to be in a relationship. U ccould be in a relationship for a long time and BAM!! They cheated on u and u didnt even know. Cause u and them were so good for so long and they know how to mimic themself when they're being faithful. So although they just cheated, no one can tell the difference. Never let ur gaurd down.
459944
Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.
927829
happens all the time in long term relationships.....some times your in love..... other times you know you love them, although they're being a pain in the ass,,,...if when you wake up in the morning and the first thing you want to do is roll over and hug them then your in love......
1046446
Temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  It's okay to have a little crush on this "other guy" for now, but just weigh what you and your boyfriend have and what you and this "other guy" have.  It sounds like you and your boyfriend are strong, moving past a problem like cheating, but obviously, you like your boyfriend MORE than this other guy.  That's why you're with him...YOu LOVE him, right?  If it is as you say, then you definitely don't want to give that up.  You tried the other guy 4 months into your relationship with your boyfriend, and you didn't decide to run off with him, but you stayed with your boyfriend instead, meaning that you want your relationship to work out with him, and he seems like he is prepared to stick it out with you as well.  If you truly love him, then you won't leave him for this other guy, even if it may seem more exciting or if you still have left over feelings for him.  The goal is to leave feelings from the past, in the past.  Since you have a commitment with your boyfriend now and you love him more than anything, the other guy is merely a temptation.  Like I said in the beginning, temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  We're all human...we all have hormones, adrenaline, sexual feelings... ;) ...Even happily married couples have temptations, but it doesn't mean they drop whoever they're with and move in with the other person.  Theres that self control and rationally weighing what you could lose if you go either way.  Now ask yourself, is the other guy worth losing your boyfriend over?  As time goes on, and you realize how much you have and don't want to lose, the temptation will subside.  If however, you realize you don't have much after all (and you don't actually love your boyfriend), then you should look further.  Don't make a decision until you are absolutely sure, because you may not be able to turn back.
310211
well, give the guy some time, may be hadn't realized yet , that u love him.well, u can't stop lovin' a person just like that,even if u leave him, u'll atleast once in  a while think of him.have patience. if u truely love him ,  no matter how much  ever late he is , u'll wait.but if the relationship isn't workin' , better to part .have trust in ur relationship.if u trust him, relax  nicely., there's no problem at all.\nor it might lead to a misunderstandin'.sum times it either takes   a person too long to realize or just takes a minute to realize sumthin'. so have patience.i suggest u better have a chat with  him to clear the  mess, so that u don't regret ur decision later.gud luck !
222584
Ha ha ha, it's seems like I know u. Well I have the same situation, my BF always tells me that he loves me and I tell him "i like u and trust u, but i dont' love u yet". U know why i say so, i say it cuz I want to be sure in him, i love him but i don't want him to know that. Also I don't want to loose my best friend him. So that's my situation and I am sure that ur GF feels the same. JUst letting u to know she really loves u and know that she will be ur 4ever. but lemme give ya an advice: take care of her and be patient, don't loose her. Like I always say " love doesn't last 4ever, it becomes to be a trust" And in ur situation u already got the trust which is love as well!!!!