Do u  ppl believe in KEEP UR MOUTH SHUT wen u have a kinda fight with ur close onez??
367860
Go back to grammar class.  You have failed.
184640
I tend to avoid conflict with the exception of my husband. I tell him what is on my mind and if he makes me mad.
976324
arguing can be healthy but also destructive. you need to know the right way to communiciate
894920
I have the same problem.  People always say "think b4 u talk", but that's fricking hard!  There are only a few seconds to which there is time alloted for you to think of an answer.  Then the person leaves you in the dust.  It's like a reflex...you defend yourself before anyone else has a chance to inflict another blow.  Next time, just relax yourself b4 a conversation and remind yourself not to lash out, no matter what.  Of course, you will forget to remind yourself after a while, but the next lash-out will bring you crashing back down to earth.  But for now...just apologize to the girl and explain that you didnt know what you were saying.  She should understand.  It is hard to deal with this stuff, but you will get over it.  Dont dwell on anything.
566738
You're contradicting yourself... you have a friend but you can't talk to that person because you're not friends? You had war... ahh! It's human nature to fight. Just wait it out a little. Let the anger pass. Later when you both are calm, talk about it, say sorry if need be. Friends are treasures.
487971
actually, it depends. usually i do and i'll tell them that they r dresd funi. i wouldnt want my frends to be embaresed , or embaress me.
1168460
mention it immediatly,,,but try to keep your cool !!!!!
25567
Question is not clear! However, you sould never need to fight with your friend, if you disagree on something or if he upset you then you can always sit down and have a civil talk with him.
936403
I have some aggressions but I'm keeping it to myself :)
187821
No, but you might want to keep some of your opinions to yourself, and not utter everything you have ever thought about...\nThat's what I have been told...
706459
Why do you fight? What do you fight over?\n\nPerhaps you should be the one to compromise first
421448
Its upto every individual whether they wanna keep their life like an open book or not. Some people dont like to come off with their secrets soon, coz they have to find their comfort zone first and then will slowly open up. Dont push... it will look like ur invading someones privacy. If u love him and believe in ur instincts... just relax and always stay open to watever he has to say. If u Shut down when he is saying something he finds important listen to it... he doesnt need ur opinions... just listen. This way he will be more comfortable talking about all those craziest things he finds important to him. DONT PUSH.... it takes time.
829519
civial as u can be or totally ignore, but i usually acknowlede then just avoid....and keep my loved ones as close aas i can or hope they at least listen to my opinion
140451
After a fight it is so hard to start talking again. { the stupid who gives in first ). The most important part is admitting guilt! Whichever party it is - be honest and open but talk..talk...talk.  Solving problems together creates the strongest unity.
938358
Sometimes, sometimes not.\nIf my friends and I have discussed a situation to a great extent, and it's obvious that we don't agree, we just stop mentioning it so we don't get on each other's nerves.\nUsually though, I am really open to my friends.  If I'm having doubts about whether to say something, I kind of bring the topic up, but not come right and say anything, to test the waters on whether it will be a confrontational topic.  \nAnd of course, it all depends on the friend.
603176
I would be both. Probably stew about it and keep asking myself why I didn't say this or say that. Perhaps in most cases it is better to not say what you wanted to say simply because it could cause more anomisity and hostility.
443832
It means do you want to contest what they say?....or even physically fight about it?!!!!