How do i get my wife to fall in love with me again?
369662
Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.
453421
Not if you love your wife. If you are lacking romance in your marriage, or sex, then talk to your wife about it. Try to get her to understand your feelings about what you desire and see if the two of you can spice up your lives. There is a book called "The Everything Romance Book", it is a great, easy read and gives awesome suggestions on how to bring back romance to your life. Do you really want to ruin 33 years of memories and love with your wife to be with someone whom you are probably just attracted to because she is new?? I would talk to your wife and forget the other woman.
405557
if you love her and trust her let her be, she is who she is and thats why you married her so dont change what you fell in love with (big mistake men make) she'll stop if she thinks it hurts you - we all check men out beneath the waist, don't mean were gonna screw em - men check out women too - just life- have fun\nBTW - your wife must think you are a super hubby too if she can be herself comfortably in front of you than that says a whole lot about her awesome husband
612784
Just keep telling her that you love her, show her that you are attracted to her.  Women are very self-critical.
1095399
It comes from a fear of the same thing happening. The best way to alleviate that fear is to make sure you are being trustworthy. There might always be that "feeling in the back of her mind," because she really loves you, and it would crush her if it did happen. But show her that you are not her previous husband. If you already romance her up, then good. If not, then start. Make her feel like she is the most sublime creature that walks the Earth. Let her know that she is your Queen and you are her King, and there is NO other woman for you but her. Trust me, it's nice when a woman hears the words. You have to embed it in her mind. And keep it that way. Don't let the hard work fly out of the window.\n\nGood luck to you.
1004869
You need to use this time for reflection, love does not disappear that easy! Communication is the key, maybe she is afraid, the best thing you can do is show her that you support her and care. Take it slow and both of you need to rememer the things that brought you together in the first place. If after all this she still does not want to marry, LET GO...
1083465
Start making a good faith effort to make things go better between you. Then keep making that good faith effort day after day until it pays off. And then keep right on making that good faith effort day after day, or she will feel like you tricked her, and you will be worse off than before.\n\nIn short, there is nothing like a husband who tries hard to make the marriage a good marriage to make a wife feel friendly toward him.
812072
OMG.....This is so not about a gift here. You need to ask her why she would feel that you don't feel the same love for her as before. And then explain because you don't. If anything, you love her more then ever! That the past 2 years have been the most wonderful experience a man could have. And to loose that now would be total and utter disaster. As the years of ones relationship pass like sand through the hour glass, so does expensive gifts and crap. Take her to the beautiful island of Hawaii. Please? And lay in the sand and have a Margarita for me.....
1123061
I think you are more infatuated with her than you love her. You got separated and she went to another man, why wouldn't she do it again if she has a problem with you again? Wake up man, this is simple commonsense. She just wants you, she does not need you, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you are just wanted and not needed. Thats not love. You will be used.\n\nWhat you need is a woman of your own and not one you share with another man. She is that other guy's wife and your seeing her is tantamount to adultery and that is treading on dangerous ground.\n\nDivorce? Well, she can get that to be with youbut are you going to marry her and take in that guy's children as your own? And do you see any reason why she won't divorce you as well when she has a problem with you? Don't be naive, you are believing that she loves you because thats what you want to believe. Sorry old boy but you will be a fool if you lick back what you spat out.
1045014
either you start kissing again, cuddle, or tell her that you love her and have never felt anything like what you felt when you first laid eyes on her...basicall some stupid pick up line...it always works...well most of the time on me:)
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
678754
My wife already makes feel special.She loves me,and to prove this,I will list the following things she does that makes me feel loved.\n1.She is always telling me-I love you!(I always tell her the same thing!!!)\n2.She works hard at her job of 18 years to provide me with a home.\n3. She supports my decision to start an in-home computer repair service\n3.She is always concerned about my health and well being\n4.She goes the extra mile to provide me with the attention and words to make me feel comfortable in every thing \n5.She will fight -to the death-anybody that tries to hurt me-(We both are experienced martial artists)\n6.She lets me know when she is sad-mad-upset with someone,or just needs some loving.\n7.She lets the past mistakes I made, remain in the past and forgave me of them-(I never repeated them)\n8. We are still together after 21 years!!!!!!!!!!
1815
It kind of depends on what you were not able to compromise on and if you are willing to give it a try her way.  As far as try to get her back start doing little things for her.  It sounds like you still talk and you must have some idea what kind of things she like.  Surprise her make her feel like she is the best part of your life.  Good luck...
578451
Just tell her how you feel, before it's too late ,or you will never forget yourself. Even if she doesn't love you back, just move on and pretend that never happen. You'll find a beautiful woman who loves you for who you are.Good luck dear.
487805
Just show more emotions and love and caress and be truthful at all times.  Continue to do the things that had you guys to fall in love.  Reach out to her even when she is in her lowest state and be humble, that is a good quality of being a true man.  Be patient and keep no record of the bad things and do not get easily provoked.
183985
She's afraid to be hurt again, obviously you both had problems that led you both to separate. Have you both discussed these problems? Are you both willing to change whatever it was that led you to split up? Or maybe she is afraid to let go entirely, I know that is what happened to me. Sometimes it's better to be with someone than to be alone. You both need to sit down and discuss these issues. Have you tried any counseling--together or separate to try to figure all this stuff out, love and marriage are very complicated things and most times we need a third party to be objective. Good luck and God bless.
411907
sit down together and make a list of the things that you do not want to go wrong this time and give it to each other.  Have the communication lines open. You might consider counseling this time around.  Having a third party to hear both sides without taking sides is a start.  You might just go 1 x a month, then go out to dinner after or grab an ice cream to make sure that after things are said in counseling, you are still ok and still in love.  Be sure to say I love you every night before bed no matter what the day was like and tell her you are so glad that you are back together.  Good Luck!