Do I date a guy who loves me but doenst have the same relationship goals?
356957
Well ask yourself do you think he loves you enough that you guys have a chance of getting married? Do you love him or do you love the whole idea of being married?? I believe that whatever happens later, will eventually happen. He can change his mind later on and so can you. I dont see why you guys should break up if you love him.
250264
If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
510426
I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.
164005
I know most people say that love is a feeling, but it's so much more than that.  Feelings are important, but our feelings can sometimes be deceiving and change.  Are you commited to this guy . . . through thick and thin?  Do you want him to be the one you work through all the hard stuff in life?  Do you have common goals and dreams to build your relationship on?  Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.  I hope you find your love . . . and he finds you.  Best wishes!
998951
no..but judging from what i've heard personally about your relationship...you deserve a lot better, ben. *hug* a LOT better. besides look at ya...heck, darn, man...get out there! but wait for the right one to get serious with.
1161937
well - it sounds like you are both coming at this from different angles.  I think you can have passion and romance with someone even if you are not serious or in love.  But other people don't look at it that way so you need to find someone to meet in the middle or find someone who looks at it the way you do
44436
I'm looking for a person to date who shares my values.  I'd like my relationship to be something that helps me out in my life and I'd like a partner who can complement my strengths and weaknesses.  If the guy that I'm dating and I aren't moving towards the same goal, I don't think I'm interested.  I'm sure you're a nice person, but I want somebody that I can grow with.\n\nAlso, if I'm dating someone and I really care about him, why wouldn't I want him to experience the happiness I feel from following the teachings of Jesus Christ?
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
99553
it is possible since you just met each other,but If you really like the guy,I used Word"Iike"b'cos it tkes time for LOVE to grow if only is INFACTUATION.You need to start talking,find something to say,B'cos COMMUNICATION is very impotant in Relationship.
906273
If it works for you then go for it I know for me I dated a person born the exact same day and exact same year as me and I just knew we were meant to be together but I was wrong. We are totally opposite of each other and I don't think that we were compatable at all. Just try it out and see
600248
Unfortunately, we cannot make someone feel the same way about us or want a long-term relationship.\nSounds like the men you have been involved with just are not ready for that kind of commitment. I would strongly take a look at the kind of men you are attracting and perhaps go out of your way ,and give a chance to, someone who isn't necessarily your type. Even if it means going slightly out fo your comfort zone i.e. perhaps the nice guy at the bookstore or checkout counter that you might have let slip by at first glance. By doing this you'll have opened up more doors to find someone who is on the same wavelength as you, and who shares the same relationship values.
785136
It sounds like both yours and his priorities are noncommittal. Seeing each other when convenient should be enough for now. If this was love you would not have to ask this question.
580174
may be u rush up? start thinking bout commitment wen u shud br tryin to get to kno him more? analys all ur previous relationships n find out wat was common.how did it start? who approached first? how long did u date him b4 u started thinkin it was forever...dont rush up in ur next relationship in fact take a breake n enjoy being single (grls night out etc)dont go out wid da intention t&#92;of hitting on guys. but just to have fun.den if u meet some one interestin do interact but dont think only in terms of posibilities. let da relationship grow on its own
485512
That all depends on your current relationship and wheter or not there is love and trust for eachother. Really the only ones to answer that are you and him.
621439
No, just because there are feelings between you doesn't mean that you are even still compatible. Those feelings are there b/c this person represents the first time you had strong passionate feelings in your life. Just discuss what you have been doing since the "old days" and move on.
109627
If the two of you have decided to have an "open relationship", it's not a problem, and you can "chase guys" if you want to, too. However, if what you are looking for is a committed relationship, then no, it's not all right, and why are you still with him?
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.