im a little shy, so im wondering, is it possible for girls to ask guys out? or start speaking to me?
374841
Guys like confident girls, and girls like confident guys. Bottom line is you wont know until you ask her. If you are rejected dont let it get you down for long. You are young, i know the old saying is there are plenty of fish in the sea, but trust me when i say, if you ask her with true sincerity, and she rejects you, then it was not meant to be. Given time and practise you will find the right person for you. Who knows it might be her, but until you ask her you will never know.
703466
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
1178197
I assume you are pretty young.\n\nFirst, don't worry about being shy with girls.  Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship.  That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.\n\nDon't worry about the one that blew you off.\n\nMany girls are shy with guys.  There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about.  Friendship can always work.  Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
743356
Me personally, it wouldnt matter how he went about asking me out.  It shows he is interested no matter how he has done it.  I would think to myself if he sent me a text message or left a voice mail that he was a shyer type guy, but if I liked him, then I would certainly reply.    I think the main thing is that his interest in me is obvious no matter how he did it, and if you are interested, then contact him...hes made the first move regardless of how hes done it.\n\nJust do what you feel comfortable in doing and see what happens.  Dont worry so much about protocol, just be happy that he is interested....Maybe hes shy.....shy is not wimpy.
866761
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?
461734
A good looking girl asking you out is a very good way to boost a mans confidence, and help him get over his shyness.And if you are paying for it,I'm sure he'll jump at the chance.(He might even offer to pay.) Good Luck!
95045
well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
943634
Just ask! Most girls like a guy who can just ask even if they are shy. You being shy and asking just shows how much you like her.\nThis is just my opinion. Maybe if you can't get the words out try-a a letter?!
186660
Shy girls like men who are partially shy but able to make the first move on them (on the girls.). Well, you could try talking to her about starting and running your own business.\nBut you have to know what kind of business.
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
118477
No one is out of anyones league. I personally think it is great that a guy has the courage to come up to any girl and ask them out. I know I couldn't. Maybe she really likes you and doesn't know how to tell you. But maybe she has no idea you like her, and she might give you a chance just because you had the guts to ask her out. I say go for it. The worst that can happen is a no, and I am sure that for every no, there is a yes out there. Just keep trying.
951696
Most certainly is not.  We are in the new millennium now not back in the 1600's, so anything is pretty doable today.  Actually a lot of guys nowadays are too shy or feel awkward to ask young ladies out because they are just as afraid of rejection as the young lasses.  So my advice is for you to go for it.
61933
say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
31253
Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
1041418
I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
554186
Sounds like you are kinda shy. Some girls find that quality endearing. Just ask. What can happen? She will say yes or no. Nothing earthshattering. If she says yes then have a nice dinner.  If she says no then ask someone else. You might be surprised. She might be shy too and just hoping you will ask her out.