Is it ok to have thoughts of incest? yes or no?
360764
Rocky, \nAs you can see by the answers there is a social stigma against this sort of thing.\nMy answer is that it is natural to have these thoughts, but that due to the social responce they are usually suppressed and kept secret. So it is natural, but not normal in todays society.\nSo don't think your sick due to the thoughts, but do not act on them for then you ARE crossing the line.
18959
You sound little sick.  What shoould I say?  Incest just sounds good in stories.  Stories even show relationsips with mothers.  but is that pratical? ask yourself.  Lets be humans.  There are many girls out.  Just have a look.
337861
Theres nothing WRONG with it as such but it would hint at a deeper emotional complexity.It originates from something.\n\nI was once reading adult stories on adultfan.net.amoung the features are stories about the 7th heaven kids(Simon&Lucy).I began to explore further and found many more incest stories about many fictional characters.Soon I found myself using the search engine esepecially for "incest".From there I began fanticizing about my own siblings.\n\nTell your friend not to worry.Try fanticising about other things.Even look up your favourite books/movies on adultfan.net.It may help to explore other physical relationships.Shes not hurting anyone so thats a positive.
194421
are talking incest here because...that belongs in fantasy.
1051117
that is fine... you are not related, and many people wind up doing that, there may be people who don't think it is fine and will ridicule you, but as long as you are ready for that- Good Luck!!!
290824
Biologically it's wrong, since if your father were to have sex with your sister and they were to produce a child, that child could have all the heritable traits from that family times two, and in that case it weakens the species, as you can see in royal, insestuous families who eventually died out because of heritable traits that became heightened because of the lack of genetic diversity. Imagine those people procreating with others outside of their family after such an incestuous line, it could weaken an entire gene pool! \n\nPeople are born with a general sexual aversion to their parents (although Freud would argue with me) and as we grow older and spend all our shildhood days knowing and respecting our parents, siblings, and grandparents (etc.) we absolutely block inscetuous thoughts from our minds. It's become a taboo within many cultures, but I think from the legal standpoint, it is illegal perhaps mostly because of the biological reason I mentioned above.
351995
I'm not really a religious person but this thought has crossed my mind as well.  If the bible is true it is stating we are all related.  I don't think incest would have been a thought in God's mind.  Incest is a term used by society and all objections people have to it were created by society.
660599
I always wonder this, too.\nSomehow, my sister and I are very close... so close that some people thought that we're doing incest(!)\n\nI think people consider that as sin, that's why they're bad-mouthing me and my sister in our back...
73179
I am not catholic but I can understand absolutely no reason why you can't LIKE your second cousin,,,, if you are talking about taking it into a loving relationship that may be another thing and it is not necessarily wrong but it could prove to be bad for children born (inbreeding).. I am assuming you are young and have a crush which can be normal, but it is probably best to leave love relationships outside of your family line.
632723
yes it is wrong!!!! They SHOULD truly love each other because they are siblings.WHEN will the Madness end!!!!????? Where are their parents.......probably just as sick.I would NEVER consider entering an intimate relationship with a family member,that's just INSANE!! But considering where the world is headed,I don't know why I am so shocked.There are NO limits to what people will do these days,and it is bone-chilling to think what will happen next.
1091662
its not incest but its nasty and you might get pregnant! what will you tell your child "Honey this is your daddy but he is also your step uncle." Grow up and find someone else to mess around with.
46380
Sexual fantasies are within most if not in everyone, some express it as a dream, others dont want to think about it. Is it bad?? Well depends what you think is bad. If sexual fantasies u have occur of at least legal age people or not into harming the other party, then most probably you are fine. If you have some kinky stuff in mind so long as the other party whether same or opposite sex agree on (meaning u dont fight into getting it) then it is also fine. The rest of stuff you decide if it is good or not good, but remember that what you fantacise, you would mostly one day want to make it true.
700108
Actually, you are both right.  She is right when she says that she feels hurt because you two are not close.  Who are you to deny her what she feels to be true?  Feelings are not based on facts and truths of historical circumstances.   They are feelings.  Don't look to deny others their feelings.  You are right, too, when you state that you have a different life or different lifestyle than your sister.  You are two different individuals so naturally you will do things differently, and with differences conflict is inevitable.  You can resolve whatever conflict exists between you and your sister by talking to her more often.  Communication doesn't by itself solve all the problems of the world but it certainly smooths out the bumps in the road.
646519
Both, I think! I find incest a perfectly acceptable way of life, and I'm sure lots of boys are desperate to have sex with their mothers, sisters, aunts or other female relatives. (Not necessarily full penetration and spray, but there are plenty of alternatives.)  Lots of people do seem to get exercised about the very idea of incest, so it still seems to be taboo. \n\nI often think that I would be a better woman now if I had offered my father the use of my lower body when he was alone after my mother died. He loved me dearly and he didn't dare ask to express his love for me physically. Knowing that, I should have offered him what I had.
517471
The first thing about taboos is that they are created by people who can't mind their own business. Now, here's the reality of your situation....\n\nIncest is only incest if you are related, by blood, to your partner. In this case, there is no incest. There are no health problems associated with a step-sibling relationship because there is no blood relationship. Nor should there be any saocial stigma, because it sounds like you have never regarded eachother as brother and sister.\n\nIf somebody has a problem that you are dating the daughter of your mother's fiance/husband, then they are the ones with the problem. They need to get enough action in their lives so they won't be jealous of yours.\n\nTo my knowledge there is nothing illegal about such a relationship--if say your mother and her father get married, then the two of you decide to--but I'm no lawyer. If that is illegal in your area, and you truly love the girl, then fight it like Hell.\n\nBest of luck, and tell her I said hi!
734662
if u don't fatasize about ur own family members i don't think it is that wrong. i think it is pretty normal and i guess a lot of people go through stages like that and just don't want to admit it. i think you'll eventually grow out of this notion and look back and be like omg wut was i thinking. i hope i helped...\n:)
1143978
i think you can think whatever you want. If it gives you purpose and meaning, and helps you choose the right path in life, go for it. \n\nI think you have a strong line of men in your family.