why am i so jelouse when he is so obviouse that he loves me so much?
359413
Don't worry.  The jealousy are natural.\n\nWhen you stop having jealousy it will be a problem.  That could mean that you have no more interest in him.  \n\nAccept them with a smile and when in jealousy, give a kiss to your man.
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You say in your profile that you are sexy....and intelligent.\nSo show some intelligence. He is not your soul mate - you are his sold -mate... bought and sold good and proper. \n\nWhat is this 'love'? A reaction to the way he is mis-treating you? Does it align with how you were treated in the past? \n\nIf this were true 'soul-love' there would be no question. He is clearly lacking in integrity... the girlfriend with kids are not being properly looked after, and neither are you. If he leaves them for you - how could you trust him. \n\nThere are plenty of other men around who would be so much better for you. Don't get so lost on the physical attraction, coz that's all this seems to be. Not love... love is reciprocated. This doesn't appear to be. \n\nOkay, so we're only getting a short bit of one side of this, but read all of the comments here, girl... we've all seen enough - on both sides of the gender divide - to know when you are being done over.\nAnd you are. \nLike a kipper.
655095
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
1153077
well if you continue acting insecure then he will leave you. He chose to be with you, enjoy his company, enjoy him, there must be something really special about you that he sees you just have to learn to see it too!  Be confident!
668784
It could mean that he like u a lot as a person and a friend but doesnt see any specific qualities he wants for him to fall in love with you..\nIt doesnt necessarily have to be shortcomings in you so dont be dissappointed and be his friend..\nWhat he wants maybe not in you but million great guys might be looking a girl just like you..
531709
Your partner's bahabiour is quite controlling and dominating,so it appears on the surface.Displaying affection is a good thing,but overly showing ur neediness to be with him all the time,without giving him breathing space sounds troublesome.Maybe ur behaviour is childish,SMSing calling just to say a hi, and hello every now n then.Maybe this is acting as a repellent.Grow up.The more u run after him,the more he would want to cut contacts with u.Men like to win their love through a hard way.Anything easily falling in their hands is not seen as a compliment.Further,do u want to be treated the way he does to u now?Has he declared his love for u verbally?U sure this isnt freindship?Also,his giving u lesser attention is drawing u to him closer.Are u sure u love him?
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
753393
i think thats the only way to take it. obviously he thinks hes too good for you. you sound very mature. i hes going to act like a child, then youre too good for him.
203238
If you have to ask if you love him, then its pretty safe to say that you dont. You probably had a good thing going with him and thats why you get jealous, but it doesn't sound like you're in love. And if it doesn't work out and your munky really is chunky you can always holla at me :)
1026615
i think you are definataly in love but i do think you should stop acting so shy around him cuz you need to be yourself around him so that he will learn to love you as much as you love him
90470
There can be many reasons, but what I beleive is this:\nMay be he loves you also but you are expecting too much of him.\nDo not try to measure the emotons betwen each other. Man loves a woman in different tone and reflects in many other ways which may be different from that of a woman.\nHave faith in him and speak to him. Thats the best I can advise you.
683160
it depends on the relationship you both have.. if he is the kind of a person who only love to kiss and give u a hug when he see u and that's all then he's just having fun with u.. if he care about you and opened his heart to you and at least share some thoughts with you then he might be loving you.. give some more details plz
1031410
i totally had that problem because i had low self esteem. it was like "how could someone that great love me? im crappy" but then i started trying to see myself through his eyes. like, i am pretty sweet and i treat him great cos i love him so much. so then i accepted it...it just took time to see what he meant. plus he stuck with me through a lot of crappy times and a lot of shit that i did.
1038933
maybe he does he just doesnt like to show it. give it time, things take time, maybe you'll even find you dont love him as much as you think, or maybe he loves you more than you know.\njust remember: you cant force love.
382054
when he goes out of his way just to be with you and just to please you...when he compliments you in a sincere manner about your personality...when he is constantly present in every important occassion or activity in your life...when he cares for you, your family and even your pet..lastly, when he treats you like a princess..\n\n(3 or more of these scenario should be enough for you to know that he's serious...lucky girl!)
485883
Guys do things just to tense u..but never to avoid u...just note whether he behaves with some uniqueness with you..than wat he does with other girlfriends,whether he shares his personal feelings & other matters with you.Note that once you start respecting yur beloved he gives u lots of love & respect in return...
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first of all.. its okay to be jelous..\n\n\n--  let your man know that your okay with it ONLY if you really are.\n\n- if NOT : talk to him .. let him know that you dont like what he is doing... there are always sarcafices in a relationship to be made.and tell him to put himself in your shoes...