do men feel dirty after they cheat?
374414
I doubt there is any difference between men and women.  Normally, they would feel guilty, afraid of being caught, happy they have a lover, sneakily satisfied they are getting away with it, self-loathing because of what they are doing...all mixed in a way depending upon the person.  Just because a person doesnt bat an eyelash doesnt mean the emotions are not swirling underneath-you cant always read a person's guilt.  And, having a lover doesnt mean they no longer love their wife, and it sure doesnt have an effect on their relationship with their kids, so its not as if they are pretending to love the family.\nI'm not excusing the behaviour-they made a vow and broke it, and there are consequences to that-Im just trying to answer the question asked so maybe you can get some understanding.
480818
You know the the differences when a man is cheating; when they feel they have to hide what they are doing when something is wrong.  At the same time what are you going to do. Guys always do what they want; they have control cause we let them. If you love him to the best of your ability; then you should have no regrets if you want to leave. It about control, build your support group around you. It all stops with you. Its going to be a time when you feel like you have nothing to lose - if he's already gone. IT don't have to be that way, life is what you make it. Besides its the begining of spring time; the parties are jumping
255507
Guys are just like this, makes them feel macho if they tell the guys they've had sex,  all  you can really do is tell people no you didn't and ignore it...something else will come up and they'll forget all about it...
277364
Personally my gut instinct serves me well. If it sounds like SH**. smells like SH**, and looks like SH**  I do not have to taste it to know what it is!! Although some men are accomplished liars, the majority have tells that give away their lie. I think men get away with it so much because women WANT to believe it (who wants to know their man is cheating?)and ignore obvious signs.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
309509
First off, you should have never been a S--T! What do you expect the guy to do? Once you cheat on somebody they will never forget and it will always come up in the future. For him to talk to you, he must still feel a little bit of something for you but probably not much until you fix you problem. He probably wants you to come over to get free buns because he probably lost respect for you that he had before you cheated(no matter what the act was)! The only way that you can possibly get over this is if you both sit down and you tell him EVERYTHING! I don't care if you had sex with that person but you have to tell him everything and then you sit back and let him dicide if he wants anything to do with you. Then if he decides that you get another chance, don't think its going to be easy after that. If you get back together, its just the begining of a HARD road! Becase he will never trust/respect you again and he will always be on your case but hey, don't bame him, after all he wasen't the one that cheated on you. So, you eaither go the other way or try to get back with him but it will never be the same EVER! But if you don't care about the hard road ahead, then good luck and good streinght to you because you are going to need it! Good luck and don't screw up again, trust me!
997496
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
1115270
You may want to stop though I know it's not that simple. It takes a lot of self control. Try thinking about other things or do exercises when you get those kinds of feelings. God's word says your body is a temple and that you should honor God with your body(1 Corithians 6:18). this may be the reason you feel so dirty after the act. Pray for stength and just keep buisy with other things to occupy your mind :)
378175
Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
169650
Yes I have, quiet a few times.  But I got cheated on in my last relationship.  It was a slap in the face, I had never been cheated on before.  So my karma came back around and taught me a lesson.  I will never cheat again, I can't imagine causing someone that kind of pain.
766409
Negative on that roger. Once a cheater, always a cheater. For men or women.
664824
Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!
76446
The only way to know for sure is if he admits it or if you catch him in the act, but here are some helpful indicators...\n\n1. Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will \ndiminish as the affair continues. \n2. Your mate begins buying you gifts -- lots of gifts. These are "Guilt Gifts" purchased because your partner feels guilty about betraying you and showering you with presents makes him or her feel better. \n3. Your mate's behavior is causing a gut feeling in you that something isn't right. If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change. \n4. Your mate frequently picks fights with you. Doing this gives him reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you. \n5. Your mate constantly talks about your relationship ending when you fight or argue. She says things like, "What would you do if our relationship ended?" or "If anything ever happened to us, I would always love you like a friend." In general, she seems very negative about your relationship. Your mate makes these statements because she has a lover to fall back on if your relationship ends. If your partner repeats these kinds of statements often, be suspicious.
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
723348
don't really know, never cheated on anyone, don't understand the need to cheat.  i figure if you feel like cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.  but maybe him being in a relationship with you is just a way of him boosting his own confidence up a little for personal braggin rights such as "yea, i got a girlfriend".  either way just dump him and move on
815379
Feeling like crap is one of the consequences lying cheaters face. Sorry, but feeling guilty, worried and confused is what she deserves.
284563
It is a piss off thing to be dumped, but in the absense sometimes the true feelings are allowed to surface, that is life and ready for a great bit of poetry or even a hit song.  It is fantastic if a guy feels anything after a good dump.  So, be pleased he is feeling, be pleased he is acting on those deep feelings.  Be honest with yourself and him.  Ask him to talk to you before dumping you again.  See if there is something you can both do something about before resorting to the gilatine.  take time to break up with thought and dignity, learn to treat loves with love and respect.  Try it.  Go get him, right now.  Sometime a man after dumping you, you realize when he comes crawling back that you do not want him.  Than he is a sick pupply, feeling sorry for the pup is not tough love, you have to be glad he is "crawling across cut glass to make a deal".  I do hate it when you have to have to learn how you feel about someone because they cause your heart pain, rather than that they cause you pleasure.  If our deepest feelings about our fathers and mothers are of pain rather than love, we will have sub conscious chemistry that will attract relationships that make us feel whole by bringing up these deep feelings. Sick I Know, but that is chemistry, don't rely on pure chemistry to find love and a satisfying life.. good luck, don't worry it is tough.