is it ok for 2 friends to like the same guy?
361519
not realy cause it migt hurt the other friends feelns or i might mak them jealous
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
49485
You have to follow your heart. I can understand you not wanting to hurt a friend's feelings, but you have to make the decision for yourself. If you know which person you're more intersted in, go for that. If you're not sure, then you must first take steps towards deciding who is best for you. It can be hard with all of you being friends but, atleast you'll be up front with them. And lastly, don't lead either of them on. Oh and another thing, don't put yourself out there for a guy who is not interested in you. Make sure the feelings are mutual or you'll just end up looking dumb.
717229
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend and he being another guy. Or are you saying you want to be in a relationship with him? If that is the case then...Is you guy friend gay? You need to decide if your friendship is strong enough to handle that kind of question. If you two are best friends you should know what his sexual orientation is. If you are "best friends" you should be able to tell him anything right...
192150
YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU
160383
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
367233
ya, u might b in confusion...coz i hav some frds who r attracted to more then two guyz so u can handle it. so be careful coz u really hav to look well to both of them and ask urself which one is made foryou or wait till who propose u first...have fun
469745
not unless you think it will work between the two of you. if you care and he's your friend wouldn't you feel awful for leading him on and hurting him? maybe you just think of him like a brother or something.
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
632611
No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
610507
They can. I have a guy and girl b/f's. The guy and I have been friend for almost 8 years. He's my friend. And that's all he is. I love him, but not like that.
536814
Well after working with many individuals like yourself I think I have the best answer for you. Yes you can have "crushes" for two "guys." Everything depends on which guy is greater. You say yourself that they are both great.. however what qualities and what personalities make them great. Start by writing out a Venn Diagram and fill in the circle for similarities and then differences. The harder one to fill in will be the one that is less greater than the first. After you do that..write another post and I'll be happy to respond.. God bless and good luck!
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
922244
I am a junior in High school, There are three girls that I really like, but whichever one, becomes my girlfriend(if any), then I will still like the other ones, but I won't do anything about those feelings.  It is OK to like another guy, just stay faithful to the one your with.  Be content with the guy you have, and if things don't work out, then try the other one.  but, just try to devote yourself to the one your with, and he should do the same, give it your all, and enjoy it.  then no matter what you are happy.  Best of luck!\n\nSavage
788535
About the guy that you liked since the 2nd grade. You feel that you think you don't like him, is because you might feel uncertain about your feelings for him because of the other guy you said was cute. Talk to both of them and get to know them before you choose one. So that way more than likely you won't get hurt. Take it from a pro, girl!! I've been there before!!
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody