My boy friend just broke up with me and I still love him. What sould I do?
370964
try to find out reason for such thing\nif d boy want sex then u can move forward within limits.\nif he is bored with u , then try doing new things in ur life.\ntry to attract him by ur clothes.\n\nfirstly main thing thing is to know the actual reason of his leaving.\nhe might have left because he felt that this relation wont work in future. check wheather he ever loved u or not\nbest of luck
113431
The only way you will know rather or not he still like is by you asking how does he feel about you? If he said that he still like or love you is a good thing. Maybe you guys need time apart to really see if things can work out by taking one step at a time. If he say that he doesn't care for you anymore, then you should move on.  It's not fair to you, to keep putting your heart out there and he's being happy with someone new. Love hurts but you have to keep it moving for your sake. I know how it is to be in love by yourself.
615843
get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
395757
hey this happened to me....i dumped him as fast as i could say listen i cant be played like that....then he hung up on me and we havent realli talked since....you juss have to realize there will be someone else....get over the fact that you love him it doesnt matter....he cheated on YOU....dont let him get away with it especially twice...and before you do anything make sure you are positive he cheated on you and dont go by what friends say go by what you see with your own eyes....be strong cuz it does take a lot and it hurts so0o much when you find out something like that you just have to do what you think is best for yourself dont let urslef get hurt......YOUR supposed to be happy not just him....
1170655
Do you feel ok abt this situation? If not, break up with him. If you still like him..then ask him straight.
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
848475
You need a new boy friend. This one is not a keeper. Sorry but you regret it if you stay with this guy.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
369146
You need to let him down lightly. Don't lead him on anymore than you already have. Just gently tell him that you love him, but only as a friend. Don't do it over the phone or through e-mail. It has to be done straight to him. After you break up, then continue, or at least try to continue, being his friend and being there for him. He probably will be hurt, and I understand that's something that will be hard to deal with. Just tell him you still love him, just not in that way.
370463
Be friends with him but tell him you have a boyfriend.  If he's as sweet as you say then he'll back off. Stay w/ the person that's treating you right. If you dump your boyfriend for your crush then you wouldn't be right. What if your boyfriend was in your situation...what would u want him to do? Whatever you do, don't think of only yourself.
187017
that is not love. how can he love you when he's out touching someone else.you shouldn't even have to ask that question. love is all about being their for one another, love is charishing your every minute together. love is kindness and respect, and what your boy friend did is none of the above. so personaly i thik you need to break up with him
321434
I would have to say that this guy isnt worth investing any more time into.  He breaks up with you because he knows you'll be there when he comes back.  \nYou need to break it off with him and work on your self esteem because Im sure you are a great girl and can do alot better.
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
102936
oh please think about what you want to do.  Read you statement for yourself. everything that you are telling us about this man is all the reason to leave him.  I have been though it and i thought the same thing you did. (I love him). but it only gets worse. please belive me shy away why you still can. You don't need to stay with this boy, please put yourself in our shoes and read what you have wrote like you are reading a friends letters and see the sings. you might be in love with him now, but as time goes on and it might take years! you will see that this is not for you and that you can not take it anymore.
1020502
Sorry hon, time to get yourself another boy, and forget him.\nIf you lose a pet, as sad as that can be, you get another pet.\nWith a new boyfriend, you will soon have the old one, out of your mind.
944095
to play it safe. you should just be his best friend right now. show him that you can listen and help him cope with his feelings. show him that you can be there when youre needed. show him that youre willing to spend the time and dedicate yourself to him. take on important conversations to learn new things about each other. let him feel comfortable with you and he'll learn to like the real you.\n\nbut you must honest and true to yourself. dont be the girl who broke the relationship up just to have the guy. that's pretty low. dont worry about what your ex will say. only you know you and only you know you like him!
771096
try your best to get over it . do NOT sit around listening to sad love songs. It does not help. it actually makes things worse. hang out with ur friends. Keep urself ocupied. dont let ur mind wander to him. plus u cant get him bak if hes the one who broke up wit u.