Do all guys ask for a kiss or just go for it on the first date?
361575
asking is a little awkward. i would say just go for it.
219908
That is usually up to the girl (you). However if you think about it .... is the guy worth it if he wants in your pants the first date?\n\nAsk yourself this question .... Do I know this guy well enough to sleep with him and exposing myself to everybody he has been with before?\n\nI am all for free sex and friends with benefits, but then if that is the case it's not called a "date" now is it?\n\nAll my advice on this is assuming...\n- your old enough to date\n- He has a home of his own to go to\n- you old enough to have sex\n- you know what protection to use if you do\n- you are ready for any responsibility that may come of it
336245
The same way as a first and third and hundredth time. Or more likely, a better way that you didn't know the first time (because you've never successfully asked someone to go on a date with you?).\n\nSo the answer is in a straight-forward manner: "Do you want to go out on a date with me?"
884916
when i had my first 'real' kiss i was told that i was a good kisser. you will never know until you just go for it. If u are so afraid then i suggest you take it slow, start with a friendly kiss. just a tip...don't think so much about whether it'll be a bad kiss or a good one just go slowly til you're comfortable, don't think about it too much. If he is a decent guy he'll take it slowly with you or even lead by example. hope that helps :-)
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
453773
Because he is shy and u are waiting for HIM to make the move.  Thank goodness we live in 2006 and IT IS OK for u to make the first move!  He may be worried that you will slap him, or not want to kiss him back.  So if I were you just jump right in there and lay a lip lock on him that he will never forget!!!!!
532313
Well, it doesn't actually matter but usually it is the guy who makes the first move because it's the guy who has to do the chasing ! if ya know what I mean ! LoL\nBut if you really like somone then go out somwhere with them, be yourself, and show them your intersted but DONT MAKE IT TOO OBVIOUS!! IF HE LIKES YOU...then he might move in for a kiss etc....But if he doesn't do it straight away...it might not be that he doesn't fancy you, it might be that he wants to show you that he's not one-track minded (sex) and respects you. REMEMBER...there are more ways to tell if he likes you other than kissing you etc.... HAVE FUN and GOOD LUCK! if it makes u feel any better I'm in the same boat! LoL x x
887439
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
232050
i think you need to ask or have her make the first move. it totally pisses me off and makes me not like a guy when he just assumes that it is ok. dont do that unless you want to come off like a jerk, and then you wont get any. its not cool to be making out with a guy and to constantly have to pull his hand off your zipper cause its only the first date or whatever.
904048
Is he asking for your first kiss or are you just gonna jump to him and kiss him?....ok if you are going out or if you like him and he is acting all weird that means he is having mixed feelings. I wait to have my boyfriend kiss me i dont kiss him til he kisses me first. If your gonna jump just give it time tell him you like him and if he likes you back go out for a bit then kiss him if your close. And if he doesnt like you back... well tell him he is missing out and kiss him and then say...told you! \n                                            ~LillyÜ\nGood Luck
650586
Either ones fine.  Heres a few lines from Friends\n\nRachel: Well do guys like it when a girl ask them out?\n\nJoey: Oh yeah, its such a turn on.\n\nRachel:  But doesn't it seem desperate?\n\nJoey: Thats the turn on.  \n\nDon't worry about it though.  Either or is fine.
652794
I think so. You don't really know him. You know nothing about him. You are attracted to each other because you are both good looking, unless he or you were drunk. You shouldn't kiss the entire first date!
331869
depends on wat kinda guys u r talkin' about. guys who r lukin' 4 serious relatiohship may lose interests in u rite away if u do cuz they don't want their future soul mate 2 b 2 open. nevermind them cuz if then can't accept ur openness, ur relationship won't go any furher anyway. guys who r lookin' 4 short term relationship would love it if you make the first move cuz that indicates u r willing to have sex with them as soon as after the 1st date.  if u think that guy likes u but he's a little shy, single him that u r interested and willing to accept a date initiated by him. if he's still chiken, then u'll have to make the first move. but make sure that u make him feel comfortable around u. don't make him feel pushed cuz he may run away. after all, come on! b a woman! it's 2006!
46777
If you're his first girlfriend maybe he wants to make his first kiss special... if you really like him just be patient.
658624
Yes!!! I am a guy and I just love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Alot of guys love it because we are SOOOO afraid of asking someone becuase we are afraid of rejection. DO IT!!!
293974
Usually, when a woman, wants a kiss, she has ways of letting you know. (long stares) (that come hiter look)  The important thing is to be in tune as to where the date is going.  And if you like this girl, don't be turned off if she won't kiss you on the first date.  Many women won't, unless they feel the same way about you.
471188
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.