How to get over someone treating you very badly?
368159
The first thing you need to do is either divorce him or get a legal separation.  You don't have to know where he is... you might even be able to get the marriage.  An attorney will help you with this and it's not expensive, most even have payment plans now.\n\nAs far as the way he treated you..... the best thing to do is treat yourself really well.  Realize that you made a mistake, but you were smart enough to get out of it.  It happens.  \n\nRemember that the hurtful things were not really about you at all... they were about him feeling inadequate.  Bad men do these things to try and control women.  He needed to put you down so that he felt better about himself.  Be aware of the way you got to where you are and don't let it become a pattern.  Heal yourself before you get into another relationship or you'll end up with the same kind of guy.\n\nBad things really can happen to good people sweetie, don't blame yourself, head up, heart strong, and move on.
618534
talk to this person and tell them how you feel. if that doesnt work, then try to stay clear of them as best you can. people like that can make your life miserable.
27507
it is so hard to forgive people who are like that. It's so easy to say just get over it and find someone else but it's not easy to do I know.  Only time will help you forgive. It won't happen over night. It's part of being in love and investing so much of your time into someone. It sucks and it hurts to let someone go you care so much about but if the feeling isn't mutual it's not meant to be.  When I've been in that situation I've just tried to keep myself busy. Nothing is worse then sitting at home with nothing to do but think about that person. Get out and do something, anything, with anyone and just try to keep yourself occupied for a while. \nSorry she did that to you. If people only knew how they were affecting the ones around them....
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling
643038
You are so young.  If he treats you badly now, it will only get worse.  How can you think that you're afraid to be alone for the rest of your life? Get some self respect and you decide if he's good enough for you.  Good Luck with that, eh?
152257
Why bother to lower yourself to his level?  I would think that you would want to forget the bad times and start making good times.  Use your energy to find another partner/mate/pal or whatever you call him and develop some great new memories to blot out the sour of the old.  Remember this, ugly harbors ugly.
695144
Dont hang around that person anymore.  They have no respect for you.
33538
To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
469539
Instead of thinking about how bad you feel, because she don't like you the sameway, you should think about how happy you make her when you are there for her and how much she may need you to be there for her. Believe me I is good to have someone to talk to when you have alot on your mind. Just try that and then if that doesn't help let her know how you feel and see where it goes from there.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
586894
its definetly not okay for people to treat you like that. I've been in the same boat. Start crying while you're sitting by yourself one day, and you'll have instant friends. Not just because they feel sorry for you, but because they'll see the error of their ways.
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
276586
it's hard to let someone go that you really like especially when you know they're doing you wrong. but my advice is the only way you'll have peace of mind is to let him go. maybe not so soon but you have to get it in your mind that you deserve better. once you do that you'll feel better, but when you do make that choice be prepared to get over your choice it might be hard depending on how much you liked him.