should i go out with him if I'm on the edge?(i want boy & girl opinions)?
357623
If you have to question it that many times, you don't like him. It sounds like you're playing with him a bit. You'll find someone else that you'll like for awhile..and won't have to go through an on and off thing.
30645
I just tell him how I feel and then ask him if maybe he'd like to go out and do something sometime.  Lifes to short to be beating around the bush..take a chance, whats the worst that could happen? He may say no, or laugh, and then you can just move on and never wonder "what if I just asked him out", he may say sure sounds great, you could have a wonderful romance or make a new best friend... You cant lose, just be yourself.
205669
Uh... yes you should go out with him. He seems like a pretty cool guy.\n\nAnd I'm curious about your answer to my question. Who said I didn't write it?
1098211
He seems to like you, but you better not play hard to get or any mindgames - sounds like he has other options.  If you want him, you'd better jump.
830608
this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
196693
if u sure u love him , then go for there is no point of losing true love  , but u must be sure that he is a nice boy and caring guy
284657
I think that you should go out with the boy that you think is the BEST for you, and who is the sweetest to you ect. I really like this one boy and I think im in love too! If I were you I would go out with the boy who was the sweetest to you and who really showed that they care about you, thats what really matters!
336040
baby girl, some time you need to stop flying so high. there's nothing wrong about asking a guy out. or a least give him a hint.
44191
Lilmommah, I think you know the answer to this question.  This guy is abviously confused about what he wants from life.  But he is sure that he can always have you as a standby and a fallback chick, when things aren't going so well for him. As soon as he gets himself together at your expense of course, he'll be gone again. Leaving your life an emotional wreck once again. Time passes quickly Lilmommah, don't waste a precious moment of it! Take yourself in hand, get control of those emotions and start seriously dating, there is someone out there who will see you and want you,for you and not just a safeharbor in his stormy little life. You deserve better than this. Now go find it.
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Hello sweetheart, you must be so confused, it certainly sounds like your fella is. Speaking from experience I would not even speak to him again let alone go out on a date. I think  on this one sweetheart you have to follow your heart, you are the only person who truly knows ho you feel about him. I really hope that you can make the decision that is the right one for you and your little girl. I bet you have the same response from family and friends as I did, everyone told me to dump him "you can do better than him". I made the decision to walk away and have some on our own time with my boy. I have never seen my ex since. He tried allsorts to get back home I stood strong and resisted the temptation. I have remarried and I adore my husband. You will be happy again  take care beauty and don't re rushed.
547859
Sounds a little over protective to me!!,If your questioning this sort of behaviour, why would you want to be with him??
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!
882931
talk to him about it- thats wat i did when i had the same issue.  he and i actually had a great conver about the possiblity of the two of us going out.  good times...
937686
Call the date off, he sounds like someone you wouldnt want to be seen with. If you go out with him, dont be embarrased to say no. Because its better to like yourself then have him like you. And you can flirt with whoever you want.
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
287087
yall should go out. But not if you're not suppose to have a boyfriend or you already have a boyfriend or he already has a girlfriend. Just make sure both of yall are available to do what ever without any problems!
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.