Any information on swingers??
360018
Aside from the standard knee-jerk "eeewww" type reactions you received, there was some good advice given.\n\nI'll add my 2 cents.\n\nI doubt that your husband finds you boring in bed. My wife and I consider our swinging adventures to be extended foreplay, not a replacement or a "spicing up". By the way - 5 times a week! Your husband is my hero! :}\n\nThe very first thing you need to know is that just because you attend a swinger's event, there is NEVER any requirement that you participate in ANY type of sexual activity with ANYONE.\n\nThe golden rule in the swinger's world is that "No Means No", if you are asked to do anyuthing that makes you feel uncomfortable just say no, and almost everyone will thank you and drop it. If you get annoyed by someone who decides that if they pester you enough you will give in - immediately go to the host of th eparty and tell them - I'll guarantee that the annoyer will be warned to stay away from you and thrown out if he/she continues to annoy you.\n\nThe other thing you need to know about swinger's events is that you have to prepare yourself for sexually frank conversations - it is really quite ordinary for a near-total stranger to approach, engage you in conversation for a moment and then ask you what you like sexually. Don't be offended, they are simply trying to learn if your wants are compatible with theirs. \n\nIf you are uninterested, simply thank them and tell them you are not interested.\n\nNext. You and your husband need to have a LOT of discussion before and after the event. You need to develop code words and signals to let each other know that you are interested, that you are not interested, that you need to talk, and "HELP! GET ME OUT OF HERE!". As an example, one of the code phrases my wife and I use is "Hey I need a cigarette" - that means "I want to talk to you" and one of our rules is that when one of us uses that phrase - no matter what the other one is doing - we stop and go talk things over.\n\nYou will also need to develop non-verbal signals, you may be in a non-smoking environment for example, so "I need a cigarette" won't work, one of our non-verbal signals is a quick double squeeze which means "Let's talk".\n\nYou will need to include rule setting in your discussion.\n\nRules are CRITICAL for enjoyment and avoiding stress and jealousy.\n\nPlease review the articles on how to set and manage rules effectively located at:\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=1\n\nIf you cannot agree on rules, you are not ready to become swingers.\n\nGood luck, have fune and play safe!
1029505
I lived in Vegas for about 8 months, thats all i could stand.  I never found a guy that was into anything other than hooking up.  They were either married or just wanted a fling.  Im sure its possible to find them, but it is VERY hard.   \n\nWhat area of town are you in?  I was in Henderson at the corner of Boulder and Russell.
966252
do not let their judgment sway you, it is a good thing, try a swingers group, or pay for sites like adultfriendfinder... personally i like the big swinger parties that they have at hotels,(big cities) you get to meet hundreds of people and choose one or two or three....lol... and take them to your room,,,,, often these turn into friendships,,,,, that can be interesting,,,,,
271063
The best answer to this is a swingers site.\n\nMany couples prefer to play with single men for a variety of reasons - recovery time is one, the cuckold fantasy is another, and many women have a double-penetration fantasy as well - typically there is no male/male contact.\n\nIf you are interested in male/male contact, make sure you specify that in your ad, or response to an ad.\n\nThe advice about going to a swingers club was also good, make sure you call ahead to the club you plane to visit to be sure they allow single men, most do, but make sure before you go.\n\nSome sites you may want to try include:\nhttp://www.swappernet.com\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.swinglifestyle.com\n\nFor a listing of clubs in your area visit:\nhttp://www.theswingersource.com
372612
www.adultfriendfinder.com\n\nlook up people by your zip code
228506
You didn't really state what kind of group you are looking for. \n\nYour best bet would be to go to the adult groups section of yahoo and search there - I know there is a group for bi women in Indiana that has thousands of members.\n\nIf you are looking for actual hook-ups, try some swinger sites, most of them have the capability to creat and join specific groups.\n\nSome to try include:\nhttp://www.swappernet.com\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.swinglifestyle.com\n\nAll of them either have free memberships or free trial periods.
207261
Have been swinging for about 3 years now and love it.\n\nHave made some great friends who i mix with Socially not just for sex.\n\nAlot of ppl frown upon it but i guess they havent tried it !\n\nAnd yes it is safe as majority of swingers do use protection.
825139
This is for the entire south bay area.  Hope this helps:\n\nClub NiteLife: San Jose, CA; (408) 292-0129; \nEmail: WLHJR@clubnitelife.Com; Web: www.clubnitelife.com A Private Social club for adults over 21, located in San Jose, California. Our members are hedonistic people like yourselves, known as "Swingers", and who share an appreciation for a cornucopia of pleasures. Our evenings begin with the tasting of fine Champagnes, Cognacs, Ports and Wines, which you, our guests, have selected and provided from your own personal cellars. Our buffet table offers gourmet hors d'oeuvres, such as Pate de foie gras, selections of fine aged cheeses, fresh fruit and vegetable platters, regional pasta dishes, chilled prawns, gourmet sandwiches, and festive international selections. We also provide soft drinks, spring water and ice. NASCA [2371]\n\n Blondie's Playground for Sensual Pleasure: Blondie/Vince, 92 & 880 Junction, Hayward, CA. 94544, (510) 847-8837, E-mail:blondie@blondiesplayground.com Web:http://www.blondiesplayground.com Blondie's Playground for sensual fun is a "non-smoking, on-premise" adult club. It is our belief that where a woman is comfortable exploring her sexual nature, men will be in grateful attendance. We provide an sensual spa-like atmosphere. Parties are by invitation only so please visit our website or e-mail us for your invitation. Couples, select single men and women are all welcome Parties are free, but membership is required. "If you are experienced or a newbie, you will feel right at home." Reservations required. NASCA [5237]\n\n\n Arena Swing Club: Ashton & Mike, East Bay Area; \n(510) 623-1354, E-mail: info@ArenaSwingClub.com \nWeb: http://www.ArenaSwingClub.com The *ARENA is an exclusive "on-premise" adult social club located in the East Bay. Our safe and pressure-free atmosphere offers consenting adults an exceptional environment to explore their fantasies. Our amenities include: A Cocktail Lounge w/fireplace, tables & couch seating, theme rooms, private & large group rooms, voyeur rooms, game room, dance floor, outside smoking area, special theme parties and events! We host parties for couples and select singles every Friday evening. On Saturdays, we feature couples and ladies only parties. Reservations required. Out of area NASCA affiliate membership cards honored. NASCA [3717]\n\n Explorations: Dot & "J" East San Francisco Bay Area CA. 95736, (408) 687-1833 \nE-mail: Play@ClubExplorations.com Web:http://www.ClubExplorations.com Explorations was designed by and is operated by a female for the comfortability of the 'Ladies' in mind. (All the while making sure the gentlemen REALLY enjoy the atmosphere also) The parties are a relaxed and comfortable upscale environment that is modern with music and events. Parties are by invitation only, visit our website or email us for your invitation. Parties are held in the finest suites in some of Northern California's most luxurious hotels every Saturday night from 9pm till ? Centrally located for the ease of access from San Francisco, Sacramento, San Jose and Stockton. Couples and select singles. The age of the people that attend ranges from early 20's to late 40's. We provide a food buffet, soft drinks, ice, cups etc. BYOB if you chose to drink. Join us for what will be the most pleasurable lifestyles party you can experience in Northern Ca. NASCA [5153]
684398
Head on over to http://www.craigslist.org and click on Milwaukee. You can take a look at what's going on under the personals section, and can find someone to hook up with. \n\nEnjoy!\n\n- Stuart
990902
Most that know my wife and I have no idea that we have been swingers for years.  The reason why most do not know is because of the closed-mindedness of most.  We love to get out a few weekends a month and hang out with other couples. We are definitely happy with each other and it makes our sex life when it is just us two even better.
784930
For what?  You might want to specify what you mean.\n\nI assume you want a personals site that lets you contact couples who are interested in becoming involved with a single individual or another couple.\n\nTry adultfriendfinder.com.  It's the best for that sort of thing.
1160233
huh????Need more info...
103442
Yeah ive hear d a lto about these parties.  From what I hear they are just getting really big on the east coast but starting to form on the west as well.  From what I know there is no sex allowed and no nake dbodies you must keep clothing on and some of them dont allow anything more than hugging/snuggling. Sounds like fun, if youre lonely and cant find anyone to do it with in private.  Not my cup of tea, but i wouldnt knock it!
987773
Try Adultfriendfinder.com... It's free to browse...You can set up a profile and send "winks" for free..then if someone contacts you you'll be able to email back...but hey if you like it,,it's under $20.00 for a month and you can link to othersites from it too.\n\nNoooo I'm not employed by them... I just really dig the site! lol
886444
Hey!  We really like a site called SLS.  It will allow you to do a search & show you many ppl are in your immediate area, as well as different listings of clubs & events like Meet & Greets in your area.  You can join for free, and it really serves as a great way to find others you may be interested in.  Good luck, and happy swinging :)
12011
I like the way you think! :-D\nFirst, not that *I* would know, but I have this friend (yeah- a FRIEND) and he said to stay away from the Adult Friend Finder website, as it's full of fake people just trying to make money. \nThere are many local clubs, he told me, around the country that are available to those interested in such things. Visit a local "book store" in your area and ask questions relating to such things-- the clerks who work in such stores usually have such knowledge, I've been told. Make sure your interests are real and not superficial; if you're really interested, then live your life as you see fit. If you're not quite sure, then don't waste any time on such things. There's a LOT to be said about monogamy, too-- especially in today's world. Good luck, whichever way you go.
1140307
Why are you into that sort of thing or are you just looking for firends to swing on swings with?