i am not beautiful as others can i still hv a bf in life.i hd 1 long time ago?
363420
i am not beautiful either, maybe we would make a perfect match.
200513
you have to love yourself before someone else can love you, you need to have better self esteem before trying to get someone to love you. the world is made up of all kinds of people so don't feel like your ugly that is not what counts, you may want to talk to someone about how u feel about urself better ur slef esteem better the chance that someone will luv u
455655
Listen to me and I will say this with no doubt in my mind, there is always going to be people that are better than you, thats just life. The thing that makes you better than them though is accepting the fact there is no number one beautiful girl, or gorgeous guy, it is whatever you make it. One of your problems is exactly that when you start realizing your fighting a battle none of us can ever win and I mean nobody, you will calm down with that a little bit, your perfect in your own way, everyone is. \n\n As far as a boyfriend you will definetley find one but dont just settle with the first guy that asks you, you have the right to look around. The best thing to do is to force small talk, even if your not popular who cares! Those are highschool BS stereotypes and I know you say its different when your there, but I have been there. Talk to people be sociable, but most importantly dont change anything about you. As a matter of fact the chances are there is a certain someone that may like you and you just dont know it yet. Keep your head up. It will come.
860060
Honey, you have all the time in the world.  Please do worry about it.  \n\nThe less it bothers you, the more confident and attractive you'll be to guys.
723839
I would have to say dont worry about his past girls friends those were in the past even if he brags that they were pretty you are with him now so that makes you the better one.I have once thought in my life that i was not pretty when i really was but my self esteem was so low. But I said you know what i was made this way and iam going to be happy with it. so just be happy with who you are you are beautiful in your own way.
11762
Is looks the only important thing?  I know a lot of people who are not the prettiest / most handsome, but are great people.  Think about what is important to you, then make your decision. If you dump him, be honest why.
1068185
No matter what you do to improve yourself, or what you try to do to look better, there will always be someone out there who's prettier, smarter, darker, and more muscled. Take comfort from the fact that this is so for even this other chick. She's not perfect. She has flaws. There is someone out there who's prettier and tanner than her. The way girl's are nowadays she probably feels the same way about someone else. She probably looks at herself and sees something that she doesn't like. Have fun with your bf and don't let her ruin your vacation.
633346
well my 27 year old bf is the same as you and he is totally normal...hehe in fact that would prove to you that your not behind in your growth and you have much more to go, good for you!
20328
Think about what you have that is positive in your life.  There will always be someone who is smarter, better looking, funnier, more talented or whatever you are measuring.  You will find yourself much happier if you "compete with yourself", rather than some ideal standard.  \n\nIt is big of you to try to be happy for the person you are jealous of and you should do that as much as possible.
509344
you know I'm not good looking but almost of my bf is bad and not good looking ones, because i felt in love with that man. based on my experience and from my friends usually bad boys are rely lovable or "chick boy", many girls love them because they are bad... :-)
719574
I'm going on 38 next month but beleive me, i know how you feel, i have been heavy my whole life, i never felt liked, endured cruel jokes and felt i would never have a boyfriend. Girls and women are expected to look like everyone else on TV, its always the thin models that get the main roles in movies and chubby women are shoved to the backburner. We need to realize and believe that looks dont mean ANYTHING AT ALL, if guys are only going to like you because you have a nice body then that tells me what kind of person they really are, a JERK. You have so much to offer in this world, dont let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a special and unique person. Please just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, it takes all shapes and sizes in our world. Please enjoy yourself while you can and put a smile on your face, thats what will trully draw the right ones to you. For me i choose swimming to keep myself as healthy as possible, its easier on your body and burns more calories than any exercise you do out of water ( i was told this by a swim instructer ) and best of all its FUN. I know its hard, i dont mean to go on and on but i just want you to know your not alone. God Bless you.
332665
okay honey.......first of all you need to get over looking like someone else.  We are all built different.  I'm not sure of your age, but sounds like from some of your other questions you've posted that you have some self perception issues you need to address.  Look at why you are wanting to look like that?  I really think that you need to one respect what God (and your parents) gave you as far as looks; and two do some soul searching and learn to be happy with what you have.  Looks fade; shapes alter as we get older and what do we have left if we don't have what's in our hearts and the self respect we deserve.  I think you need to really think about that and stop obsessing about what you look like.  Maybe consider focusing some of that energy into helping people who are not as fortunate as you?  I'm not trying to lecture you at all.....just trying to get you to look at things from a different perspective.  Good luck and good health (physical and emotional)
105131
I would suggest counseling. It sounds like you have some deep rooted issues that need to be worked out. This is something more complex than a self esteem problem.\n\nLove yourself, you are beautiful and deserve to be happy!
567666
I would like to be called beautiful not because i look like a celeb because i m beautiful
15361
ioono but i kno i dont want no unattractive(ugly) boyfreind
446620
i am not skinny myself and i have been with a very good looking faithfull man for the past 4 years so it will happen for you.  i think it is very important to feel comfortable with your weight though because if you are not comfortable with the way you look then a man is not going to approach you for fear of rejection the way you are rejecting your body.  if you are not comfortable in your skin try to do something about it.  see a dr. if you have tried and nothing worked.  but most importanly you have to love yourself before any one other than family will fall in love with you.  we all have a beauty of our own,  combine your physical beauty with your inner beauty and your man will come but dont rush it.  the right ,man will come along  probably when you arent looking for it.  and there are men with a prefrence for larger women.  good luck and god bless
1141191
i can't see the picture very well. but trust me, you ain't ugly! don't worry about your looks. the men i've fallen in love with aren't necessarily good-lookin!