is it bad for a guy not to know how to have sex when hes eight teen?
360797
Well it is a natural thing so it is built into a human to know how. but it probably gets easier as you go along. im 17 and i don't even have a gf yet\neveryone says no. but this is your question so i will take my problems somehwere else
240194
They are telling you this because they have learned the hard way.  There are so many issues that accompany having sex and is so much better to wait until you are mature enough to handle these issues.  PLEASE WAIT!!
792500
It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
209405
its depandes  on ur age...not not realy bad but if u dont care of ur dight it will b ...bad for u.i thought its good and bad.\n''1''good .......its good if u have some feeling u can express these like that,in that case u can b fress without using any other person that can give u problems......if u have some feeling like that  and u  r press them its not good  for ur body and mind...so its good .\n''2'' bad.........its bad coz if u r doing it to much so u can loss ur ''duration of sex''...stemna of sex..........and every one knows it not r natural way so it will b gives somes problems to u but do u know'' ? u cant amegine these problems by coz of '' masterbation'' realy......may b it will coz of ...stress....headach......stomache.........pain in body..pain in bones......may b so it iz bad.
285694
by "hook up" do you mean sex? if so , you may not be ready for all that yet. if you mean dating ya'll should got to the movies, or something. walk the mall whatever it is that yall young teens do. just dont have sex yet, you're just in middle school and it's only been a month. i mean I ant ya moms so i can tell you what to do, but respect your body.  kissing and all that aint so bad, but let him know what the deal is before he jumps to conclusions.
146287
Yes!  Sometimes even at very young ages.  What isn't healthy is for a parent or an adult to tell a young one that it IS wrong...or he/she'll go blind etc.  At thirteen, the child should have had some sex ed in school and "the" talk with his/her parent and masturbating should be a part of that talk....Along with the explanation of sex and masturbation, should be a talk about the need to do so in privacy if/when it is done....and if it is a male...to clean up his mess...himself!
742826
Peer pressure plays an important role especially when girls want to keep their boyfriend or keep him happy.  You should not be pressured by anyone into doing anything you don't want to do especially having sex.  Society (videos, tv, music, fashion) also promote sex, and I think it encourages people to have sex when most of the time they aren't ready.  Look and listen really carefully to what is being said in the media and what kind of clothes the role models of these teens are wearing such as Beyonce, Christina Aguliera, and Lindsey Lohan.    When you're that age, a lot of teens tend to let their hormones do the thinking for them.  It's sad, but it's true.  This is the world we live in, but we don't have to give into all of this.
1039997
Do Sex  eh .. Ok i will go for it, hhhmmmm , Well if you have to ask , then you never was with a real man!, and by reading this question and the way its typed,,,,i would say.... YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR   DO SEX!
962407
I am indeed sorry to tell you but in seeing the level of maturity you are at you can expect it to be awhile before boys catch up.\n\nSome never do. But the ones worth your time will not truly be mature enough to handle you until well after high school.\n\nNow let me say this. You are only in the 8th grade. You have a long time ahead of you before this really should even be something you worry about. I know you have now discovered boys. And some have discovered girls at your age but there is so much to know about relationships that it will take time.\n\nNever ever jump into any relationship because your lonely. I know....easy to say hard to do.....but it is very true.\nThere is a saying that best describes what I am saying.\n\n"How bad do you want it....the worse you want it the worse you will get it."\n\nTruer words were never spoken.\nYou sound like a intelligent girl. You know what is right and what is wrong. \n\nOnce you are in high school you may find guys are almost reasonable. But you have to watch out. The jerks are a bit harder to spot until it's too late. \n\nJust hang in there. There will be dates in your future and you will be glad you are as smart as you are.
1016863
i think so . he don look like he evn know how to have sex. but i kud teach em. lol
344165
I agree with above. I mean how old are you? If we had more info we could probably help you more. Like if you were lets say 17 but a virgin an dnervous that would be different then a 13 year old that just plain don't know what you could be getting into. If your the young 13 year old just don't do it. Wait!! So many things could go wrong. Give it time so you can understand and enjoy it better.
690062
very normal .. all guys do dat .. n if hes 13 yrs old then dat means u r young aswell .. so is better for him 2 masturbate than for ya 2 b havin sex n may b having an unplanned pregnancy ..
987645
You are only like 11 or 12 years old you are like so young live your life and have fun don't  let ''havin' a guy in your life '' wait a while . please don't do what i did so please wait to do any of that stupid stuff... have fun and if you  do make a decision to have sex please use protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
945413
No it is not wrong, all parents get stricted especially when it comes to their little girl dating, they get abit edgy on this subject cause they think you might have sex and also think a guy might force you to have it and all sorts of things.\n\nIf your dating that just fine just remeber dont have sex til like 18! and remeber have it with someone who you love and at the right time, hope this helps.
640318
I was raped when I was in the 8th grade and sexually molested at home and I was unable to have sex with my boyfriends.  When I met this guy named paul I was 18 and he was 25, I was able to have sex with him and now we are happily married and have a beautiful 8 month old daughter.  Like they say patience is a vertue.  Hang in there and the right one will come around.  Because if you only have sex with your partener then you won't feel the need to do it with other people because that is something special between the two of you.  But on the other hand I don't disagree with premarrital sex but that is your decision just take your time and decide what is going to be the best for you before you act upon your body feelings.  be careful and use birth control and protect your self from stds by having yourself and your partner checked frequently.
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
610721
First of all......if your not ready for careing for another human being or mentally ready you should NOT be having sex at all OR use alot of conterceptives. Teenagers and young adults have NO idea what kind of responsability children intale. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up you'll get there.