my friend let me borrow some money .i feel like he uses me for sex,should i pay the money back?
367078
I think it depends on a few things.If you feel like he's useing you for sex, don't give it up. Now if you enjoy the sex with him, take his money and his sex. let him be gone.
1115798
No your not doing the right thing. Think about this, it's like he's paying for your services. HHHHMMM
765112
well i think that he is just looking for sex dont go back to him cause he's just goin to use you as the same thing happened to my mate. so dont give into him get a new number!!
96103
Sounds like he's getting the best of both worlds. He gets to keep you (at a distance, with NO strings attached), and he also gets to do whatever else he wants. I think you are being taken advantage of. What you decide to do about it is your deal. Good luck.
47854
They're putting up a front hon. To be mild mannered and courteous is seen as almost effeminite (sp?) in this day and age.\n\nSounds as if you have a particular grievance... maybe if you clarified this most recent thing that's bothering you, you might get some constructive help from the male answerers.\n\nGood Luck, take a deep breath and realize it probably has nothing to do with you personally.\n\n1.20.06 2:30EST Hon, I'm sorry. That bites. I still say it has nothing to do with you or your personality. There's nothing wrong with being generous and wanting to help others.\nThe problem is very obviously him. Why he'd think it was okay to ask you for the money, I can't imagine and it's none or our business. \nThe old adage goes, "Loan money to friends when you can afford never to see it again." But then there's also the idea that if you give all you can, you'll be given back twice or thrice as much.\nIt's never pathetic to lend a hand, even if it winds being that you tried to help a jerk. Maybe the fact is he just has more growing up to do. He may be mad now, but I'm sure even this "jerk" will remember that you TRIED, and in hindsight will realize you were a great friend and one he should have made efforts to keep.\nKnow that you did the kind thing, and in the end that makes it the right thing. Have peace within your self, let the poison of this incident wash away.\n\nBe well, J
490670
If at the beginning of the relationship the guy starts asking for money.  I can barely support myself, I don't need someone else asking for money!!
845039
I think you should stop him. because if he does ask you out, and you say no....man, he's going to be pissed and I'm might ask for the money back.
224980
You've fallen into the friendship trap, and she's using you. Seriously, girls like that are no good for a "nice guy" because they only respond to abuse. You will never get romantically involved with this girl, so stop paying for anything and tell her you're not interested in just being friends.
541094
Heck no!!! take full advantage of you situation. ha ha just kidding. Its really up to you.
195579
Than honey you have a messed up man who just uses women for money. I would take more pride and leave his sorry butt..Nicky
113473
Well, waiting for him to offer money first would be your best bet.  If you ask before he offers, he might think you are a gold digger.  Hint to him you are broke and you need a jump start until you can get on your feet.  Or maybe borrowing the money would make you look more responsible.
982632
If I were you I would delve a little deeper into the money withdrawal thing. Could be he got all confrontational to throw you off the scent. Find out if that's the case then if you want to forgive him be prayerful and patient and God will help you forgive him. But remember this... Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.
592084
May be you must have borrowed some money from him....:-j\nDont ever generalise...
537977
You are in breach of contract and costs will start running up for your liability, until he gets his property back. You will not make any friends.\nMaster.
437152
Yes, it's probably true.  Stop making him feel like crap by asking him to take you out.  Find things you can enjoy that don't cost a lot or crack open your own wallet to pay for the 2 of you.  Men arent' just meal tickets.
30408
So what if he has money?  Aren't you being prejustice by thinking he is a "certain type of person" just because he has more money than you?  He obviously doesn't have a problem with it if he is clearly interested in getting with you.  Go on a date and find out what he is all about, besides cash.
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My mother-in-law has never borrowed money from me, but has actually lent my husband money.  She and my father-in-law allowed us to repay the money with no interest.  They are a gift from God, even though we don't see eye to eye on everything.  If she ever did ask me for money, I would give it as that would mean she really needed it.  Also I could trust her to repay me.\n\nEach situation is different and as long as she pays you back, you shouldn't feel awkward.  If you cannot lend her money, then you need to tell her so.