alright, i have a little crush on a guy, but his ex is one of my friends and she hates him, what should i do?
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!
559854
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
609148
Well, I hope you're not friends with your best friend anymore because that's not what I call a true friend. She told you she would never go out with your ex because she loved you like a sister, but that's not the case. You should have never dated your ex-boyfriend's best friend either. If you like other guys such as your ex's best friend than you're not in love. You may really like your ex, but there are other guys out there. Your ex is not worth it. Not only is your friend doing you wrong he is to by being with her.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
656994
well for one you should not hate anyone that is the main problem in this world that is what we are killing each other over....but since you DISLIKE this girl be honest and if the reason you dislike her so is true then your friend should listen
250708
obviously he doesn't care about you!!!! dump him and move on!!!get some of your own self-esteem first before getting into another relationship...and don't hate the girl.
919020
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
800922
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
638302
Go for it.Your friend didnt want him.She is just jealous.Go have fun and tell your friend that you like the guy if she cant accept it tell to back off its your life.
593760
you should stay with him ok. im dating my bff's ex boyfriend. i like him and he likes me just because he's your bff's ex dont mean you cant like him
769610
you should go with him and if your friend gets mad at you then she is not a real friend.just because she does not like him does not mean she has to start being friends with him.but if you do go with him and yall are still friends just do things with him when she is not around.
404575
if you dont like him like that there isnt much u can do,\nive been in that situation and all you can do is wait for them to find someone else they like alot.\nits unfair to expect them to just deal with it
719781
You need to decide who's more important--your friend or his ex. I realize that you're friends with both of them, but I'm assuming you've known your guy friend longer. \n\nIn that case, he's more important, I'd say. Tell him what's going on with this girl. Forget about her feelings; clearly she has no regard for anyone else's feelings, so why should give a sh*t about her's?
886290
Girl, heres the situation.  You used to not like this boy so you told him that.  He moved on and now likes this other girl.  You got jealous and now you want him but he doesn't want you anymore.  All you have to do to get this boy back, is to pretend you like another guy.  Once he thinks you don't like him anymore he'll be trying to win you back.  Try it:)  If this doesn't work then just move on:)
889934
Whatever you do dont break the unspoken rule which is dont date your friends exboyfriends. Let it go if its a really good friend if not then wait til they break up. What I mean is dont worry so much about it, if it happens then it does if not then oh well. Date whom ever you'd like for now and if it were to work out that you were single at the same time only then pursue it if it wasnt a good friend.
592660
What a mess!  Tell your friend, she deserves to know.If you talked about your ex around your friend. She'll know to drop him, because she'll know what kind of guy he is. You won't lose a friend, but she'll need you to be there.
900190
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.