Do you think he's cheating??
368073
I don't think he is cheating but if what you are expecting of him is not met - you have to gather up your courage and call it quits - sooner or later you have to realize that your being happy is the most important thing in life.\n\nThere are others who will jump hoops to be with you - if he wanted to get married - trust me, you would have his last name.\nHate to break this to you - dump that sorry AH and move on.
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
1040042
What makes you think he is cheating?  If you can't trust him, how can you have a good relationship?  A relationship that lasts has a lot of trust and honesty between the two people.  You have to ask yourself why do you think that he would be cheating?  Though, past experiences could cause you to think that way.  You should always give them the benefit of the doubt.  Plus, an hour away isn't too far. =)
362786
He's definitely cheating on you, dump him
237550
Whether or not he's cheating seems almost beside the point, because it looks like the relationship is failing regardless.  Focus on that fact.  Sadly, it seems like you aren't as high a priority for him anymore.  You've been together since you were 20 and he was 17?  Wow.  Maybe you should date someone closer to your own age and maturity level.
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
363826
I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
266588
you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
494046
Confront him with your insecurities. But don't go about it in an accusing manner. Rather, ask if everything is right between you two. Trust is everything in a relationship. If there are more signs that come up, then I would definitely look into it. But insecurities from your part needs to come to a resolution of if you do trust him or if you don't.  If there is real proof he is cheating on you then confront the issue. If not, let it be. Showing your lack of trust in him can be hurtful especially if he's been loyal to you all along.