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359000
well being a guy my self, looks are really not that inportant to me, it is what is on the inside thats counts the most! thats is where you really shine, and look your best!
175957
Look at all the men out there.  This is only 1 guy.  Ask yourself if you can see the possibility of being with this guy for the rest of your life.  If not, then there is no point trying, right?  Why waste your time with him.  Of course, you are the only person that can answer that question.  You alone know better than any of us.  If you are not 100% sure, though, then it is time to move on.  Guys will come and go.  If he is not "MR. PERFECT", don't make him "MR. RIGHT NOW."  Don't settle for anything!
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
764875
You sound like high maintenance. He won't last if youre that demanding. A guy needs some space once in a while.
651231
This is not your fault. They probably had it planned! You and your friend should go on and find different guys!
400967
Take it slow- see how he acts with you around his friends, your friends. If you want to try for a long term thing, you should not base it on sex. Just watch yourself and don't get taken advantage of. Be safe and God Bless.
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
1139729
No. He just wnts some ass. Trust me. I'm a guy, and even though I don't act upon what my head says (not always a good thing) I know how other guys think. So do yourself a favor and just get someone else who'll be there for you. Not your puss...
57704
In reference to your reply to the question I posted,  it doesn't surprise me at all that a guy would cheat on you based on your attitude alone.  As you said in another one of your posts, "Be polite..."  Why don't you try exercising that advice.
947344
Plain and simple, guys don't open up really at all, it takes a lot to force it out of us.  Usually something huge that pushes them over the edge will make them break and open it all up.  But to go and expect that out of a guy after 3 or 4 weeks is asking a whole helluva lot.  But you're a woman, and you need that communication link in a relationship, which is why relationships are so hard.  But then you have to add the broken heart into the mix and it really could go either way.  Him talking about wanting to do things with you in the future could be a lot of things.  Everyone has a perception of what they are saying, and the person who's listening takes it in a different way.  Happens all the time.  I wouldn't take it to heart, sounds like he's running, especially if he made that call without really knowing you at all.  Sorry you're all broken up about it, but best of luck
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
104256
Hmmm, a little vague on the informastion giving.  First of all I'm assuming you are a girl.  How do you know you are not his type?  Do you really know what type of girl he goes for? Please, send me some more info if you need help ;-)
496248
It really depends on the guy. No one style works for everyone. All of the above can be incredibly hot on the right guy!
940609
The truth. When was the last time you knew a guy that had a best freind for a girl and that girl wasn't hott. I mean come on the average guy isn't going to waste his time getting to know a girl and spending time with her if he isn't find her at least somewhat attractive. Now does that mean he would ever act on it. Well thats a dfferent question.
647494
There is a good article about this topic at: http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/26_dating_tips.html
429064
Don't let it go that far, that fast. "It's easy" as my Dad used to say & he was right. It's like wearing revealing clothes. Don't sell yourself short, Honey. If the guy wants it, you need to make him work for it. If he's worth the time, he'll work for it. If he's not-he won't. Pretty easy. Also a really quick test to find out if he's really interested in you, or just a quick time. Either way, it's really good knowledge to have.
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!