My ex-boyfriend likes me again?
361970
steer clear of your ex you've been there done that and you know it wont work out. Of course you want to be back with him because its easier to look back and remember the good stuff but once you get back together with him the bad stuff will come flooding back.\n\nAs for his friend if its a close friend of his might want to steer clear as could cause trouble both for you and his friend as well as heart ache that could be avoided.
995901
Yes, Its that the ex is still in love with you, So unconsciously he's going out with you again. My ex has done that twice. (I am the mother of his son) It is kind of freaky. Just look at it like this. " You Know You Still Got It."
410024
why is he your ex. think about why you broke up in the first place evidently it was bad enough for you to part. once a zebra always a zebra. it is better to go forward than backwards
649725
Sounds like you've been doing what men usually do:  assuming that the actual status of the relationship was closer to your expectations than to all the physical evidence.  Sorry to break it to ya, but if he broke up with you for the 2nd time a few months ago, then he hasn't been your bf for a few months now.\n\nYou can't make him love you, no matter how much you love him.  Maybe if you had addressed the reasons he broke up with you twice, he may have given it another chance.  But, maybe not.\n\nStop beating yourself up about it.  Love is a choice; and unfortunately, you've been reinforcing the 'habit' of loving him without much hope for reciprocation.  If you must, re-examine the reasons he broke up with you; but DON'T think that changine this late in the game is likely to win him back.  Think of it as self-improvement that will make you a better person, and more attractive to someone who will appreciate you more.\n\nMy heart goes out to you; I have a little experience in that area, too.
1086445
Ask yourself this baby girl, why are you even talking/messing around with  your ex?  You two obviously broke up for some reason.  Let it go.  As far as your ex, he's just trying to get some from you.  You're worth being treated better than that.  As far as your current boyfriend, i'm sure he would'nt say you were'nt cheating if he were there while you and your ex were fooling around.  And I don't think your current boyfriend has a clear definition as to what cheating is\nLeave the ex alone hun.  This situation has bad written all over it and i'd hate for anything unpleasant to go down.  Good Luck.
828902
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
967831
IF HE WAS YOURE EX THERES A RESON WHY HE MAINTAIN THAT TITLE. IF HE WASNT THEN HE WOULD BE A PRESENT. REALIZE WHAT YOURE HEART WANTS. IF YOU BROKE UP ONCE WHAT ARE THE CHANCES THAT YOU WANT BREAK UP AGAIN. ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONE THAT GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE REACTION. .....GOOD LUCK
1172042
well i think that the guy likes you but doenst want your ex to know he likes you i guess he dont want his friend ship with the guy to end over a girl and if i was you i woulndt talk to the guy after he tryed you the first time an because they will label you for messing with your boyfriends home boy
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
987091
time...or you can start flirting with him, and just start over, if he really likes you, he'll understand and give you a second chance, if he does, dont fuck up again! (im assuming its a he)
939339
You can tell your ex that you still have feelings for him....BUT it is completely up to him.  Considering the time you have been apart....he will have to be the one to decide if you two should get back together.  It is really out of your control, if he has moved on then there is NOTHING that you can do.  This is the toughest part about breakups!!!!!
201549
obviously it sounds like the guy you like is after sex if he is likes your ex but wants a threesome with you...so i would forget about that relationship---and if your ex still likes you think exactly why you broke up and if ts not a big deal and you still like him its possible to give him another chance but don;t rush into anything---No one can tell you exactly what to do..it's all up to and how you are willing to portray yourself to both of them and to others b/c you know it'll all eventually get around
355697
Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
967454
It depends on how long you were going out with the person.  If a long term, I would say no, even if there are no feelings any longer it's still just confusing.  You liked that person once and it could happen again.  That's what usually happens after u break up with someon you forget why u did it.  Then you want to get back together again.  For most cases I would say it's a bad idea to be friends with ur ex.  Too many feelings there!!
15698
Ok 1st... I take it you mean the two of you used to be together and now your not. He was being a jerk when you broke up with him, and now that your NOT with him your attracted to him again?\n\n2nd thing - Take some time and just make sure that your not into him again beacuse your not with him, you could easily hook back up and then find that he is still the jerk. In the end if he is the right BOY you two will know it and hook back up.\n\n#3 Relaize that if he is still your friend and talkin to you he must still think your special the getting back with him should not be all that hard, unless of course he is a player and only still being your friend in hopes of gettin something he did not get the 1st time...\n\nBe Carefull..
93558
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü