My best friend think she is taking advantage of me,is she?
363275
yes she probably is but she might still be ur best friend even if u werent bailling her out all the time try it and find out u might be surprised
532565
Tell her face to face that as her friend you feel it is important that she listen to you, then tell her exactly how you are interpreting the situation and warn her that you are worried that all he is out to do it take advantage of her.
1117281
It seems as if people are taking ur kindness for a weakness. She is probably using u too. so stop calling her and ignore her and she will get the picture trust its easy to make friends just dont let them use u
541051
you might consider her your friend but you need to look at if she considers you a close friend, after all, she is using you to get back at him.  Look closely, is this something friends do to each other.
382145
I've seen it before so many times and I sympathize.  I personally would re-assert the boundaries of your friendship with her in a nice way, emphasizing how that kind of behaviour could jeapordize your friendship with her and that you'd hate to lose her as the great friend she is over something like that.  Best of luck.
882005
Did it occur to you that your friend may have her own things going on and her own problems to deal with? She may want to be there for you, but have to deal with her own stuff too.\nIf you ask me she does care about you a great deal and it hurts her to see you hurting so much and that is why she is telling you that you need time apart.
826205
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
206249
She's probably jealous of you, if I were you I would confront her. If she's a backstabber you have no friendship to lose. She's already ruined it.
749261
You should believe ur best friend if you've known him for a long time and if you trust him more. Analyze on who told more lies. I think she's just a jealous girl who wants to ruin what you have but don't let her do that. Soo I hope I helped.
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
903099
Accept your part in the situation she can only take over if you let her. Friend talk thing out they don't  just dump on another. Maybe she has confidence problem and being in charge make her feel good about herself ,express your feelings, what you feel is important and should not be ignored
309171
The only way to trust her is if she earns it, she lost it with all those lies. \n\nI would not trust you or the "best friends". \n \nYou are all talking s^%& about your girl. \n\nSo what?  True or false, you are being just as immature. \n\n(sorry I have issues with any man that would call someone his sig. other then talk about her behind her back to other people NO MATTER WHAT. Are you talking to girls???? Her 'best' friends are telling you her buisness???? \nWhy should'nt she lie to all of you. \nnone of you deserve the truth or obvoiusly can not handle it)
695463
is she really your friend? because if she is, then she would not have left you there alone by yourself. she could have introduced you to everybody and made sure that you had a great time.  i also think that she is not your friend cuz she does not enjoy your company. the fact that she embarrassed you to her guests and asked you to leave is not in any way a gesture of friendship. so, why do you have to be bothered if this friendship goes down the drain. in fact, it has been in the drain already.  you will be better off without her because she does not care for you and don't waste your time on such a person. it is you who is a real friend becoz no matter what she did, you still want to save this friendship. look around for someone who deserves your kind of friendship and i am sure that when you do find that someone, she will be a lucky person to have you.
79061
If he's doing this behind your best friend's back what make you think he won't do the exact same thing to you IF you 2 were to hook up? When you say "stop" are you really saying it like you mean it--Or are you being playful with it?\n\nI think if you really express to her how much it bothers you & withdraw being around her soo much she'll get the picture. Why be around something that you know isn't right? I'm pretty sure after she sees how much this irks your nerves she'll stop being so foolish. Just watch your back.
36111
i agree with SEMAJ.  if she is really a good friend then she'll listen to you.  tell her that in your opinion, her bf is trying to control her and you can see that.  and ask her if she wants to be controlled by him.  tell her that you dont have any intention to ruin her relationship but you are just trying to warn her and you are being a good friend.  you dont want her to get hurt someday so the if the bf is controlling her and its just ok for her dont feel bad.  she'll realize it and tell her no matter what you'll be there for her.
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.