Should I tell my husband's mistresses husband that she is cheating on him?
365392
yes!dear because no one wants to be made a fool of! and thats selfish of them both. i mean sometimes people are not ment to be but lets be adults about it. and he is bogus treating you while you are pregnant! my dude did that and it hurts like hell.my daughter is 7 and it still hurts.but just remember that everything in the dark shall come to light but its up to you to crack the blind.
106529
Depends on what you want to tell him. What part of your past? I read in a advise column in the newspaper about this husband who after many years of a wonderful and loving marriage found out from someone else his wife had an affair with a married man before marrying him. He went nuts and now thinks of her as dirty, not good enough for him. Watch what you want to share with him. If you have had previous lovers or such, I 'd say no.
1161262
If she is your good friend, I would tell her the other co-workers have seen them and are talking. I wouldn't say anything beyond this. She wouldn't stop seeing him just because you ask her too anyway. You will only make her mad. Just be supportive and try\nto stay in the back ground as much as possible. When the wife finds out, and she will, it will get ugly. Maybe they will stop seeing each other before that happens. Sex is just a matter of time and when they do cross that line, there is no going back. Good luck!
539656
My Husband never cheated, but if a husband was going to cheat I'd rather know. If its over its over,he should be honest enough to tell you.Two things to be done after that , either forgive him and NEVER bring it up again. Anyone can make a mistake once, only a fool does it twice.And personally I would not stay married to a fool.
890663
No,I would not be ok with it at all.Do you trust you husband will never cheat on you?I had the same situation with my husband and it turned out this women he was such good friends with was trying to get him to bed and away from me.Your husbands friend may not be this way but look for signs!
1103718
depends on the type of person you are...me, personally, i would keep it to myself...but others may feel the need to express it in order to deal with it...if my wife did cheat on me, yahoo would be the last place you'ld see me discussing it
386064
Do what you want to do since it seems like you're already there. Maybe there's a reason why your wife wants you to go. So then she reassured that your away from the other woman in your life. Or maybe she has a lover that she wants to spend time with. Your mistress probably doesn't want you to go cause you'll have time to think about your relationship with her and make a choice of either her or your wife, or she's scared that you'll cheat on her like you do your wife. You know how the saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Either way ......
174335
This will probably be the hardest thing that your friend has to do, but she has little choice in having to face her boyfriend and tell him what has happened. Either way he is more than likely going to find out, and it would be easier if she told him right away instead of waiting, letting the tension and suspicion build, and then slamming him hard with it in the end. If he leaves her...well, I am sorry, but she was the one that decided to cheat on him in the first place. If she had been faithful to him, this would be another matter. She cannot blame him for being angry or hurt, or maybe deciding that he wants another girlfriend - one who will be loyal to him. \n\nAgain, I send my sympathies, but there is really little you can do about the situation. Just remember, the sooner she tells him, the better. Don't make this any harder than it has to be...and, I won't lie, this will probably be very hard.
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
879508
Face it, she's porking your so-called friend. Normally if a woman cheats on a man it's because he's a jerk. Clean up your act. Take responsibility for your own faults and work on them. Assuming there are no children in the mix, move on. If there are children, fight for your marriage and kids.
934167
I know you don't want to hurt him, and he would probably never want to know that his mother is cheating on him, but it would probably be the worst if he finds out that you knew and never told him.  Especially since the friend told you everything, and is aware that you know of the affair.
427729
If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won't get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they'll think you're on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don't give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.
849214
Tell him the truth NOW, this is going downhill fast...\n\nThey are not talking about you or testing you, they are both trying to figure out what's going on and your man suspects something. It's only a matter of time before he finds out. Tell him now!
1069843
If all parties know about it and they're fine with it, I don't see a problem with it...\nBut I can't imagine the wife being okay with the fact that you were the woman her husband had an affair with... so I'm assuming she doesn't know...\nIn that case, if you two can play it off like there was nothing between you two, I guess you'll be okay....\nBut WATCH OUT, because people talk.... and sooner or later they ALL find out...
399985
I would seriously question if she is indeed your FRIEND at all.\n\nFriends do not advise us to do things that would be hurtful to ourselves or to our families.\n\nAs to would it be adultery YES it would being with someone other than your Husband is cheating.\n\nYou need to take a closer look at this so called friend.
173628
Well Sandra either it is your husband or your boyfriend? which is it? By all means tell him and get it out in the open. he will find out sooner or later im sure from someone and then you will be in deep shit. So tell him and blame him for leaving you alone if you want maybe that will help his attitude when he hears what you did.
1174431
You should speak to your significant other to see what they believe is too much.  Some people have different views of what is cheating and what is not. If nothing else just ask yourself "Would I be ashamed or afraid to tell my other half what I am about to do?" Trust your gut instinct.