Should I date some one who is live over 3 hours away from me?
361149
If he's worth it, do it. My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we're only able to see eachother once a month (maybe twice). If I didn't like him as much as I do, it wouldn't be worth it. I won't lie, it's hard. But I feel like our relationship is strong enough to get through the times we can't see each other. It also depends on how old you are. If you're too young to be able to drive yourselves to see each other, it's probably not the best idea since it'll make it harder. But if you really like this guy and you think it's worth having someone 3 hours away, rather than 3 minutes, do it. Sometimes long distance relationships help you to get to know each other better. When you're not together, you can only talk to each other. You don't have the physical stuff (even if that stuff is fun) to distract you. You have this opportunity to get to know each other very well.
459927
well to develop a relationship with the person who is just 2 1/2 hour far is not a difficult thing.u can make relatioship by chatting daily or whenever u like on phone or on internet chat,and then u may meet several times.\nwell if u like each other u can make from any far end than ur distance is not too much.
1050799
i have a long distance boyfriend. and when i plan on going to see him. i plan on cooking for him. something like a 5 course meal, then just sitting at home and just spending some quality time together. rent some movies or something and just stay in each others arms for as long as possible. the night will just get  better from there
775811
Well, it depends on why you're saving it. I recently saved it for 7 months because I really like a guy that lives out of town. I've had a crush on this guy forever. He came here a few times and for various reasons it just didn't happen. The last time he visited, we did it and it was lovely. I don't regret it at all. Are you waiting because you're not attracted to anyone in particular? Are you looking for something special? I think you should do whatever feels right inside. Definitely go with your gut. If you meet someone and you think you wouldn't beat yourself up after giving it up to them, then do it. If there is someone special that you have your eye on, I say wait. The passion that will be unleashed in that one night will be worth it for you both. Best of luck...
760190
unless one of you will be moving in the future to either the usa or uk then no.\n\nwhat would be the point in even starting as you would have to visit each other regularly for this to work\n\nnot to mention the calls / emails etc etc\n\nthink long and hard over this as i would say you may fall for him and the distance comes between you as neither of you wants to move.\n\n\nits a long way to move only to find out he lives like a pig or is a neat freak or goes to bed really early or not at all etc etc....\n\nyou may think you know them from the visits but to a certain extent you will only see 'best behaviour'\n\ngood luck
420808
Is there any chance of you actually meeting? Why dont you meet in person first and see how it goes from there? 3 years is no big deal. Girls are usually more mature anyway   :)
876803
from 3000 miles away sounds like a long shot.  on the other hand relationships that are formed when we are young have less of life's baggage attached and are not so judgmental.  \n\ncontinue to talk an stuff and let it happen naturally\n\ni hope it works for you
1129389
I know what u mean....my BF lives in Houston.....where I am in College Station....TX.....it is almost 2 hrs away....BUT....we talk on the phone EVERYDAY......send emails everyday.....& he just drove up here today....out of the blue to see me.....of course we only got to spend 4 hrs with each other...it was amazing.....I have had long distance relationships before.....but this one kind of grows.....every time we see each other....we grow "fonder"....they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.....I really like my BF too.....it is hard for us because of the distance...as well as our work schedules....but we make it happen......what I like about him....HE comes to me, more then I go to him.......Just be patient.....like one other person said....let him figure out a way to come to u.....if it was meant to be....something will work out.....GOOD LUCK!...
203004
well i moved in with my boyfriend after knowing him for 2 weeks. But the bad thing is that i moved 100 miles away from my family. But we are still together and been dating for 2 years!  So you are the only one that can make that decision. It could work, but then again living together so soon could cause problems. I say take a chance and go for it. Oh yea and I was 17 when i moved out!
1066398
My boyfriend lives 3,000 miles away.  It only works if you both really want it to work.  But eventually someone has to move.
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
108329
Sounds like you want to hurt. Unless you have no doubt--forget him politely if he lives too far away.
144537
Go with Maria, she knows you best and as for beingin love in 3 days, cant happen. Stick with Maria, it's your safest and most intelligent choice.
836299
Too busy moving for three months??? Not a single email...im...message on your phone...nothing???  I think maybe you need to give the girl you are currently dating a chance...dream girl sounds too good to be true.  If she tried im'ing you wouldn't you have received an offline message???  \n\nDon't you think it's unfair to the girl you've been dating to just all the sudden say oops sorry found the other girl I was talking with three months ago so see ya later?  I mean you must be attracted to the girl you are currently with or you wouldn't be dating her...if dream girl is the one for you and it's meant to be you will find each other when the time is right.  \n\nHow serious are things with your current girlfriend?  Have you moved past the just getting to know you stage where you are both still seeing other people or have you made some sort of commitment?  You now have a third party in the picture and need to consider her feelings as well.  I hope you think long and hard before making a final decision...you know the grass is not always greener on the other side.  Also have you thought maybe of just having a friendship with dream girl first...if there is one thing I have learned it is that friendship first makes a huge difference in how a relationship will progress.  Exploring a friendship while dating someone else may give all of you a chance to see what the future holds without hurting someone's feelings.  Who knows maybe you and the girl you are currently dating will decide that you are just better off as friends...there are lots of possibilities...try being honest with your current girlfriend and get her advice...you may be surprised.
1057029
Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
35589
That 100+ miles is roughly only a 2-hour drive. It's not like you can't spend weekends together and chat regularly by phone, email, IM, etc. Of course, if you have conflicting schedules that keep you from getting together physically (and I'm not just talking about sex), then there may be a problem. You need time to be intimate, too, and to touch each other. One of you may need to move closer to the other.
398332
NOpe. I don't think that could be an issue. Since you both also have separate personal lives. One thing I could advice though is to keep an open communication. Even if you don't see each other everyday, a call on the phone, a text message, a special delivery, an email could perk up the relationship. You could also think of other ways to keep it spicy. Sometimes being with each other every single day gets kinda boring and infact this will have a deeper negative impact in your relationship rather than giving each other enough personal space with the 3 days a week dates. :-) Hoep everything works well with you and your boyfriend. If you not having a car of your own repells him from you, then that means you don't deserve him. You are far more valuable than a car. If he loves you and you love him, you both will always find a way to see or even just communicate with each otehr everyday. Distance could also make you miss the person, and missing the person makes the times when your together sweeter coz you'll both cherish every moment. :_)