WOMAN, how do you think a man THINKS about us?
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i think they see titties and a**,lol i dont' think they think that much at less not til they look past the outside and get to no the personality
755828
Just go with it and quit worrying about whether she's thinking or not...she could just be sizing up the location of your jugular and getting ready to turn you into a vampire....\n\nSeriously, guys will never be able to read a woman's mind...so give up and enjoy!!!!
842283
Is he touching her? Is it physical? \nDid you flirt in frount of him previously with another guy? \nIs he just joking around and having fun do you think or is he serious with these women?
538919
Listen to what he says instead of trying to read into 'non-verbal communication.'  I've found that women tend to think of themselves as very intuitive (women's intuition), but more often than not, they are wrong about what they perceive.  I think this is largely because the other person isn't saying what they want to hear so they look for other 'signals' that they interpret as being a way of communicating what they wanted to hear in the first place.
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you cant really "make him think of you as a wife" he must feel it in his heart. you could try talking to him giving him ideas about what kind of a wife u'd like to be and how much ur gonna work on being a mother or being a great wife...just talk to him about it thats what u could do, other than that, the rest is really up to him.\n\nGood luck :) hope this helped. God bless you
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Men for the most part are telling you the truth about how they feel about you.  What you have to distinguish as a woman is...if he is just trying to get in your pants.  If you have feelings for him trust your gut.  I'm sure he is being completely honest.  Don't forget, men like to hear how you feel about them too!
856088
You really think women are interested in what men have to say?  I don't think so!  We just do a better job of making you think we are!!  Believe me, I'm looking at my watch just as often as you!!!
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A wise man one asked me, 'what is the perfect woman's body shape?' I didn't know of course, so he replied, 'the shape of the woman whom he loves'.\n\nPeople can be easily influenced by what their friends think, men as well as women. It seems to me that men want their friends to think highly of them, perhaps even jealous of them. One of the ways of doing this is to have a 'desirable' girlfriend. Unfortunately, (especially in the US it seems) men are very fixated on having a 'hot' woman, I suppose to make themselves to be seen as successful, or more desirable-\n\nIt's a pity that people can be so shallow, life is not about looks it's about having fun!\n\nSo, it sounds like this guy probably did like you, but then was influenced by others, and instead of being strong about it he succumbed to his own feelings of inadequacy.
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Honestly, guys don't plan this... they just have a different level of thinking about what is important.\n\nI'm not saying your concerns aren't important to your man, but his thoughts and logic are somewhere else unconnected to these issues.
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body language.\nWhy do you want this man who doesn't seem to notice you?\nWHY?\nOh, wait, you said "my man" and notice me 'more'.  Hmm... \nSo you have a man and want more sex than he is currently providing?  \n\nOr maybe it's not sex at all, for you said "want me more", which is womanspeak for _________.  Maybe a greater degree of commitment?  Maybe you intent to land this fish but he's not taking the bait?  \n\nPlease be more clear as to exactly what is the problem or question.  Us guys can't deal with the vagueness of your question. Thanks\n\nAnd what's wrong with saying something???  You are playing games and not taking responsibility as an adult should for your decisions and wants.\n\nSpeak the truth.  You are not a child anymore, adults vote.  Grow up and lay it all out plainly.
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Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
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That depends on the man, and the situations in his life.  Just off the question as it's written, I can't anser any more specific than that.  (I'm sure my answer would have been the same if your question was "What goes on inside a woman's mind?").
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As a black man my first thoughts are: Strong, Powerful, sexual, capable of making a woman happy (Emotionally, Physically, Financially) Best friend, confidant, and though not percieved by society in this way but very intelligent.
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I have to defend the men on this one even though I am a women.  Men look at other woman.   We will never change that.  Why should we even bother trying or waste our energy ranting about it.  \n\nGuys have to put up with our constant "does my bum look big", "Do you love me really".  Changing their hair, their looks, making them girlie, rearranging their flat/house. Moaning at forgotten, 2 1/2 month anniversaries etc.  Crying to win arguments etc etc.  I could go on.   \n\nYes it is annoying that men look at other women.  At the end of the day the guy has chosen you. You are the best of the bunch according to this guy so although he may look and fantasise about other women, you are the one he has chosen to spend his hard earned money on!
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When you think about him, what is it that you think about? Trust your instincts, and try to figure out WHY he's staying in your mind. Then, find a way to introduce that aspect of him into your current relationship.
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"Hey.  I know you're about to move but I've had my eye on you and I wanted to know if you would like to get together after work for some drinks and maybe dinner?"  I would love for a woman to be that straight forward with me instead of beating around the bush with stupid signals like staring and laughing.  That stuff is garbage, ladies.  Men want you to say what's on your mind.
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We don't only think of your private parts. We enjoy spending time with you. We think about your eyes, your hair, your feet, everything. Why do women complicate things. We would love to go shopping with you or take walks or do the dishes, etc. You spoil it by thinking we are hard headed or complicated. Men are not complicated, they like to eat and scroo. Do that for them and they will do anything for you.