How do I let myself give in to a relationship?
368220
That sounds more like a personal problem to me.
334975
lol, chill out, you'll find better love, i just went through something kinda like that, and it hurt at first, but you will gain confidence by saying no.
735678
You should have the willingness to make a meaning out of any relationship. In this case you should be willing to commit in a love relationship for life-time without hassels any day of your life for any reason.
1047794
Marriage takes work.  You have to decide to work on this relationship and actually communicate your needs as well as find out the needs of your mate.  Don't assume you know what the needs are.  Actually go somewhere and talk.  Talk about desires, hopes and dreams again.  You can do it as you did it in the beginning.  I think people just give up on a marriage because they don't want to try anymore.
799779
giving up is not the solution.. what happened to you should serve as a lesson and a challenge as well, but not as a reason for giving up.. d problem with u is that you're committing the same mistake coz it seems like you're not learning from it.. if u're starting to like a person, just tell them right away.. don't hesitate.. just do it, okay?
715885
Two steps:\n\n1. Believe in yourself\n2. Resort to more of foreplay
201676
Thats kinda the point... to give yourself over to love is to ask the other personal to guarentee you certain things, that they wil stay with you and faithful and not hurt you because now you love them, they're the only one who can hurt you. Giving someone that power over you is how you show them you love them, letting yourself be vunerable is what underlines how important it is to you. weird, huh?
750564
keep urself occupied, get a job, go to college or something, try make the most of you're life... in time it ur feelings will lapse, and you'll move on, i won't advise going to date someone else to try and get ur mind off it, not a very wise thing to do......................... word!
511386
JUST BE YOURSELF AND LET IT BE.\n\nWISH FOR THE BEST TO HAPPEND WITHOUT TRYING TO "MANIPULATE" THINGS...\n\nAND ENJOY!! :)
468910
I agree with the others, keep reminding yourself of that (great goal by the way), get moral support from family and/or friends.  Most importantly make it clear from the beginning with any prospective suitors that is the way it will be and don't put yourself in a position where you have to say no.......never even let it get to a point where it may be an issue......you can do it I have faith!!! :) Good luck!!!!
408762
dont give in to him..... if you're not ready, you're not ready. If he doesnt understand that, hes being selfish and is only thinking about himself. the first person you should be taking care of is you and not anyone else. Make yourself happy  before anyone and everyone will be happier seeing you happy. If you ask me any guy that has to pressure you in doing something you dont wanna do isnt worth your time. its better this way in the long run. Dont lower your standards for anyone or else you are just disapointing yourself. If that was me i would let him know how i feel and if he is still pressuring me, i would drop him cause right off the bat he is thinking "me me me" and not "us"  and it takes 2 to tango. last time i checked it was called being a couple. Hope this is helpful. Much love
487407
Stop being a pu**y about it.  If you are feeling that you are attracted to one guy and want to be in an exclusive relationship with him, then you should cut loose the others.  It is not the most pleasant thing to do, but letting it drag on will only make it harder on both of you.  Just stop lying about what you are doing when AL calls and asks what you are up to.  Tell him you are going out on a date or whatever it is that you are doing.  He might not like it, but life sucks like that sometimes.  If he is an adult he will be able to handle it.  If he can't handle it, then he is still a little immature and needs to grow up.\n\nBy the way, this is exactly why guys end up turning into what women call jerks.  You ladies wonder why we will not commit to relationships and why we lose interest as soon as we get into your pants.  Mostly it is because they are afraid of getting hurt, so for many men it is easier to not let themselves get all that close in a relationship.  It sucks, but I think that everyone has to get their heart broken at least once before they are ready to love someone else.
836874
don't give in you will regret it later trust me i know!!!!!!!!! if you don't feel comfortable make sure you are never alone with him...... he will get what he wants and dump you i was 15 and i wish i would have waited till i got married!!!
422809
It helps to have other hobbies and passions, and be full of life so that you don't feel like you're missing out on what you're choosing to hold off on.  It is hard to wait otherwise.  Plus, 19 out of 20 guys will try to push the envelop even when you're very clear with them, so you have to be willing to push back when the respect isn't there.  That's the hardest part.  But really, it all should work out if you take a chance and stand up for yourself until you finally end up with the right guy (the one who puts on the brakes instead of making you do it!).  Let me stress the ONLY reason I abstain is that God told us to and I want to do it the right way.  I think it is the hardest thing in the world though.
174555
When you begin to love yourself, and accept others for who they are, you will begin to learn what love is, and love will come for you like a silent breeze.\n\nThe more anxious you are in finding someone, the less likely you will be to make a wise decision, based on your urgency.  Don't compromise who you will love, compromise with your loved one instead.\n\nGood Luck and Prosper...;*!*;...
665111
Trust me if you don't feel it it's not there. Go with your gut. you'll know when you've hit the jackpot. You can't force yourself to be into someone trust me I've tried and it never works.
852920
So what is stopping you? If you get into the heat of things, then just let go a little bit and let the hands wonder. It will come to you. You are right about not wanting it to hold your relationship up, so just relax some and let things happen. Be sure to make sure you want it though. Good luck and relax. That is the important part.....SAM