Is it ok to spy on my crush at school?
364165
yes but not obsesively
913868
if you think something is going on then you have every right to spy. however, getting caught if he isn't cheating or doing anything wrong can have some bad consequences. there is no reason that he shouldn't be able to have a phone conversation in front of you or be lying about how often he talks to her. something is going on. check it out.
38093
A girl's intuition is rarely ever wrong! If you think this boy just likes you for sex and if you're not interested in that, don't be afraid to let him know that upfront. As for his brother touching you, if you don't want him to, then next time he tries, make a scene, slap him...he has no right to touch you unless you want him too. If it's at school, then report him. It's better to have a reputation that you're a tattle-tale than a school s**t and that's what the other kids who heard the rumor is probably thinking about you.
294436
just like trogdor_rocks, i have a partial-crush on a girl (im not fully sure if i like her or not), only i am only 12 as well as trogdor_rocks, and i have a girlfriend who lives in ohio, while i am in NY and although our friendly relationship is fine, our long distance boyfriend-girlfriend relationship isnt the best idea, and i have known her (the first girl, not my current girlfriend)since i was born, only she just transfered to my academy from another school, so although we had a lot of catching up to do, she still thought she knew me too well, and i am afraid she might think i am an idiot if i ask her out, so what should i do?  anyway, back to your answer, they usually act kinda flirty to you, but usually just give you hot loox in the hall, also, anyone who sees this answer and answers one of my questions, plz tell me what i should do about the girl!
302254
if it's a big school that you two are going to, dont worry about it. you will have the option of having someone that you know and trust there, but wont necessarily have to see them everyday
889319
If you are concerned about someone who lives close to a school, have a word with the school's Child Protection Officer.  If there's any substance to your fears, the school probably already knows about him.
122758
hire a spy to see if he would cheat
474822
I would also say ask her.  There are ways of getting someones email address, but then she will think ur a stalker.
228313
Have a conversation with him instead. It's important he knows that you respect his privacy. If he found out you were "spying" on him, than all trust would be broken and he will work that much harder to keep things from you.\n\nTalk with him about these kinds of things. Make sure he understands how you feel and WHY you feel that way. Your hope for him is to have the same morals as you and your job for a parent is to guide him that way. In the end, the choice is his.
964042
Whatever you do, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT risk anything to get into any trouble. Instead, try to make arrangements to meet outside school. You two love each other, and want to be together. I really don't see anything wrong with that, and I don't know why anyone would. I hope my answer helps you.
859543
You'll still get caught. Do you think your School is that DUMB?\n\nAll you kids trying to get on myspace from school are the actual dummies.\n\nCase in point. Your School's IT department monitors ALL PC usage. What that means is that they see everything you type, click on or do on that computer at every moment of the day. Then at the end of the day or week, whatever the protocol is, they print out this handy little list of security violations. The exact time and Computer and person who was using it is known and the person responsible for violating School security policies will be in serious trouble.\n\nSo go ahead and try and find out.\n\nIs it worth getting on your precious little myspace page to see what this or that person said about this or that person??
822921
Ok, this is a sticky one.  Can you put your 'crush buzz' to the side and see the reality of 'what if it can work' set in? It will be national news, everything will blow up.  Can you honestly see her having feelings for you as well? Do you think moving in closer to her would work out for the both of you's or just you? remember she is married for a reason. Here's the good news, you have found someone that has shown you your 'ideal' partner.  What might have got you to have a crush on her is as a teacher it is their job to pay attention and help students reach there goals.  I know your not going to get that with a lot of girls at high school, hey they are young and still learning themselves, maybe you are more mature minded and that's great you have discovered your ideal partner which is a mature, funny, witty and with a great personality.  But as a teacher, not a good thing to do.  Just look at her and thank her in your mind for showing you an ideal partner =)
430847
It's just a crush and you will get over it. When I was in the 7th and 8th grades I had a huge crush on my science teacher and I made it soo obvious!! When I look back on it it is so embarrassing. I know that you like him but I truly hope that if he ever responds to your attentions that you will let someone know. Even though you like him it is against the law.
592340
You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!
915801
You'll still get caught. Do you think your School or workplace is that DUMB?\n\nAll you people trying to get on myspace and other blocked sites from school and work are the actual dummies.\n\nCase in point. Your School's or Work's IT department monitors ALL PC usage. What that means is that they see everything you type, click on or do on that computer at every moment of the day. Then at the end of the day or week, whatever the protocol is, they print out this handy little list of security violations. The exact time and Computer and person who was using it is known and the person responsible for violating School/Work security policies will be in serious trouble.\n\nSo go ahead and try and find out.\n\nIs it worth getting on your precious little myspace page to see what this or that person said about this or that person??
556461
Stalk them I guess!!!
514688
Spy on him.  That's the best way to find out.