How long do you wait before you start to sleep with your new boyfriend?
361816
Until you both feel it's the right thing to do. Get to feel comfortable with each other. Kiss, pet and hug for some time before going right to bed: this will allow you to get to know each other, and what each of you likes before intercourse; and it will also make you value it a bit more when the times comes around. Don't rush things, and don't be impatient: enjoy the different stages of your relationship, and the different things they come with. When you both feel ready, it will also feel right. Good luck and congratulations on your new boyfriend.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
1082481
Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
1175702
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him.  Do things you like.  Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself.  Hope this helps.
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
829457
If you are scared of moving to fast just let this new guy know that you just got out of a relationship... you don't wanna move too fast... but you still would to possibly pursue a relationship with him. I would recommend taking the risk and just hookin up with him. I mean what if he is the one... but if you tell him this.. and he is ok with it.. then he might be worth trying to keep.. if he is like.. ahh crap she ain't gunna give it to me... and stops talking to you.. forget him.... \n\nas for the still sleeping with other boyfriend while broken up.. I wouldn't recommend doing it while he has a g-f.. but hey everyone needs good sexual satisfaction so if you need it... might as well get it from somone who you know how to please and hopefully after that long.. knows how to please you...
434310
It takes me at least five minutes, maybe less.  My boyfriend doesn't like me to do it to him for very long--he is always asking me if I am almost there.  Sometimes it goes longer, maybe 30 minutes, but I am very lucky if he lets me do it that long.  It takes me at least five minutes though to get to the point where I have the option to go or not.\n\nDang, you made me get hot thinking about it!  And, my boyfriend lives two hours away!
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...
125829
Wait until you are positive you have fully matured mentally and have made every effort to think through it, then wait a few months and seriously think about it again.  Then make up your mind if you are ready.\n\nSome things to consider:\nMake up your mind about what you do and do not want to allow to happen before being with someone.  Set a line and don't cross it just because it feels good.  You set the line for a reason.  Maybe set another line for if you get really passionate and want to go further.\nAre you thinking this through while calm and not horny or around the other person?\nDo you want to marry a virgin?  If so, you might think about being one too.\nDo you want to risk STDs, some being incurable or causing death?\nDo you want to risk pregnancy?\nDo you want to risk sex becoming a big issue when deciding your emotions toward a person or whether you should stay together?\nHow will you feel if you break up with this person after having sex?\n\nI'm not saying sex is bad or wrong (it can be a great thing), but it is a serious issue that must be thought about appropriately.  Don't think that you have to have sex as soon as possible, it will still be around when you get older.  You can only have your first time once.\n\nAlso, discuss any boundaries with your partner so that he or she is able to respect them and help you keep them.
1131003
I, being a good little girl, do not sleep with my boyfriend. I think that the best part is have someone there whenever you need them. Having someone to talk to or to to comfort you. I love to feel loved.
571586
Wait 2 hours. Making love ( not having sex ) it is not a competition. And if you were a good lover, once is more than  enough.
604266
i think you should wait til you have been with him for at least 2 months!! good luck babe!!
393164
Start slow.  Take time to get to know the next person you date before throwing your emotions into another relationship.  It takes time, I know.  Give yourself time to heal then start over again.  You don't have to rush but don't hide from dating or relationships for to long because after a while you might become too comfortable avoiding situations were your trust is tested.  Then your just alone.
1149632
It depends! Do you love him....want him back  - or do you love him.......want to sleep with him till you find someone to replace him? Well if you want him back  - STOP letting him come back. He is not secure with himself and needs someone that is secure with themselves. If he is coming back he needs a strong partner.\n\nIf you just want to sleep with him till you find someone new. Play the game till you get tired -  that is what he is doing. You will eventually get sick of it and move on. He will keep coming back as long as you let him he likes the familiarity.\n\nMight help.
43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
388528
THINGS LIKE THAT TAKE TIME DON'T RUSH HIM AND DON'T RUSH YOURSELF INTO A RELATIONSHIP MY BF AND I DATED AND SLEPT TOGETHER FOR OVER A YEAR BEFORE WE MADE IT OFFICIAL AND THERE WERE TIMES WHEN I THOUGHT WHY ISN'T HE TRYING TO MAKE ME HIS GIRL BUT THEN A WEEK LATER I WASN'T REALLY READY FOR IT AND OUR SCHEDULES CLASHED TOO, THATS WHY WE LET NATURE RUN IT'S COURSE. I DATED OTHER MEN WHILE I WAS DATING HIM THAT DOESN'T MEAN I SLEPT WITH THEM BUT PUT IT LIKE THIS HE WAS MY MAIN BUT I STILL DIDN'T PUT ALL MY EGGS IN ONE BASKET. I'M NOT SAYING WAIT FOR HIM BUT IF HE'S INTERESTED IT'S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME. STILL SEE HIM BUT DO YOUR OWN THING TO UNTIL IT BECOMES OFFICIAL. THEN IF FOR WHATEVER REASON IT DOESN'T WORK OUT YOU HAVE A BACK UP PLAN AND WHO KNOWS YOU MIGHT MEET SOMEONE EVEN BETTER. PEOPLE ALWAYS RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE THEY THINK THERE SO IN LOVE WHEN THINGS ARE RUSHED THEY NEVER WORK OUT PATIENTS IS A VIRTUE, MY GUY AND I TOOK IT EASY. NOW WE LIVE TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN WITH ONE ANOTHER FOR 4 YRS. \nTAKE YOUR TIME..\n\nGOOD LUCK !