why do people ask guys with high voices if they are gay?
360867
Just cuz people are rude.  He should tell them to grow up.
797781
I'm straight but I have alot of gay friends.  I like to answer questions in this category for three reasons:  1) the questions are usually more interesting than in alot of other categories, 2) to show my support and 3) I like to try to give helpful advice particularly to young gay people who are struggling.  I have a theory about these "heteros" who constantly bash, harass and make disparaging remarks about gay people.  To me the ones that scream the loudest in their opposition to homosexuality are either religious zealots or self-loathing, paranoid closet queens.  Most straight people, even ones uncomfortable with homosexuality, don't make such a big deal about it.
714516
this is in the gay section, so why are you asking if guys like looking?
821212
I think part of it may be to keep others from questioning their sexuality--in other words, it's their own insecurity about how others perceive them. To me it seems that heterosexual men are very concerned that they not be seen as gay, even by accident. Because two women together is often more accepted by heterosexual society (a popular heterosexual male fantasy), I think you won't hear women say this as often. Also, I think women are generally more gay tolerant. Perhaps that's another reason they don't feel the need to separate themselves verbally by the "I'm not" tag.
1079269
Of course they do.Most of them are gay themselves.Even my co-workers and bosses know I'm gay.Yet somehow it never has been a problem.I guess not everyone focuses on the whole "gay"  thing and instead focuses on who I am as a person.
509063
It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.  Thats a very sensitive place for men, maybe he just wants to see what if feels like.
762541
Because women think they're being really obvious about wanting a man and they're not.  Why was this question posted in the gay section?
883806
As a gay man who has worked in the music industry for over 20 years, I can say that the answer to your question is: there would be more than a few gay hip-hop and metal performers (as there are in any genre of music).  Most of the time, these musicians don't make public their sexual preference for one of two reasons:\n1. They don't want to alienate their fans (particularly true of metal and hip hop, I would suggest)\n2. They don't want their sexuality to be the focus of their artistry.  kd Lang and Melissa Etheridge have frequently said that while they are proud to be gay artists, they are not "poster children" for the gay movement.
123920
That is such a stereotypical answer. Acts like a girl... Not every gay guy is feminine... For every type of straight guy, there is a gay guy. Gay guys like sports, drink beer, are outsdoorsmen too. Yes there are those who like theatre, are creative, but there are straight guys like that too....\n\nThere isn't a science to knowing if someone is gay. I would suggest if its someone you are close to, let them come to you with that information... You might want to give signals that you are okay with it. So they feel comfortable. It is a very scary thing, coming out!!!\n\n\n... just a FYI, if a guy likes to dress in womens clothing it means hes a cross dresser, not nessissarly gay. Those making these statements about gay guys acting like a girl, do you personally know a guy who is gay?????
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
384867
It's just people observing people. Sometimes you start to notice certain cues over time that give you a sense of a person's sexual orientation. Some people are obvious. And some are ambiguous. But does it really matter? Unless you're trying to hit that person up and you're barking up the wrong tree.
435321
Same reason straight guys do.  To attract a mate, regardless of one's own personal preference.  I'm just glad that there are people out there who go for us geek types who don't have the chiseled and sculpted bodies.
305295
It makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.  I supposed it's possible that there is some sort of stigma against gay men because it is assumed that all gay men have anal sex.  Some straight people have a harder time with that image in their heads, than of women performing oral sex on each other.  \n\nWhatever the case is, it's a crazy thought.
491654
it shows that the ones who are the most vocally anti-gay are usually the biggest closet-case gays themselves.\n\nand gee!  tha's the way it is in real life, too, not just in the movies!
295991
Alot of men do that.  Not all of course but alot do.  And some will even act gay around other gays even though they themselves arent.  Just for the mere fact that they are comfortable around them.  A gay man is a curious one.   They can act flaming gay or as straight as a board.  It all depends on the man.
1078427
sounds kind of homoerotic if you ask me.
18498
ASK THEM !!! Most people that are gay but dont say anything about it do so because they think people will judge them . As long as you act mature about the persons answer (whether yes or no ) the question should soon be forgotten .