i love her but she dont wanna love me or any body else.but i still wants her..how can i make her wants me?
359452
you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
473087
You can never 'get' a girl to love you... she needs to want to offer you her love.  ASK HER to go out with you.... stop the guessing game
693589
u could keep her interested in u by letting her hear what she wants to hear, don't lie but make her feel comfortable around u, and whatever u do DO NOT dogg the other person she likes that would just make her less interested in u, also be her best friend even if she doesn't choose u buy her a rose everyday, or any flower ( her favorite flower...if u know)make her smile all the time dont upset her, let her be free u can't make someone like u they have to make that choice on their own, i hope this helps if u need anymore advice just IM me or email me syazell@yahoo.com good luck
190222
You should force her to be your girlfriend whether she likes it or not. I mean, she owes it to you, right? Or, maybe you could beg, cry, change everything about yourself to make her happy. That almost always worked for all the pitiful guys I ever dumped!\nSERIOUSLY- MOVE ON.
373889
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
291098
Dear Friend,  A woman is going to love you, ONLY if she feels it in her heart. You can impress her and make her have good feelings and thoughts about you, but you can't make another person love you. They have to feel that all on their own.
370742
What you need to do is LOVE yourself a bit more! Find someone who would really love you (that's the least you deserve) You know, someone who would always want to be with you etc.etc.etc. And don't feel upset when she says "no" to you because you already know that she doesn't love you, so there's no point. I would suggest (again) that you start thinking more about yourself...ask yourself "How happy am I in this relationship? Is this person that I'm with right now happy with me? Is there a chance that we can have a future together?" and if you answer no to 1 of the questions...then you need to find yourself another girlfriend...someone who will be there for u 100%.
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
459715
be yourself, if she loves you for who you are then she really loves you. if you aren't yourself and she loves you then she doesnt really love you for you she loves who you've pretended to be. now if she doesnt love you when you are being yourself, well theres nothing you can do sorry. either she will or she wont. good luck though.
329786
well she has to have some feelings for you or she wouldn't go out with you all I can say is ask her and talk to her maybe if you sit down and let her emotions out then she can move on and she might love you more for showing that you care and that you have a sensitive type as well.
538882
apparently she loves you!  not many people are left in this world that are willing to put aside their own emotions to spare anothers.  let her help you or just let her be there.  anymore love is hard to find, you have found someone who apparently will stick behind you through thick and thin don't let that go, you may regret it down the road.  she is on your side shes not against you, lean on her don't push her away
260008
First of all you cant make anyone love you, it has to come natural, and if you havent even talked to her yet , i would say , you really need to make a move, show her you like her try talking to her and see where it goes from there.
514496
It's very clear that she doesn't want u.. but u know, she feels great to have someone as nice as u to adore her.. that's what she wants.. no more than that.. so please move on..
189337
Impossible u can't 'make' another person 'love' you.  If you try...it will be a disaster at some point.  You have to just 'be' you around that person and express yourself to her.  Be completely honest with yourself too.  Sometimes we really think we want something or someone and then once we have them we lose interest.  Just do not try to manipulate a situation...let it either blossom or wither.
730711
know what? let her be.. look for someone who can accept your love. coz you're going to be miserable if would still be after her and you know that there id no chance for being the two of you together. Accept the fact that she does not want you. Set her free and when she comes back, she's yours! She would probably realize your worth once you're out of her life.. Try to give distance.. and if you see any changes on her, be then you would know what action to take or what move to make.
696659
hey dude, sorry to hear it, same happend to me. all we can do is respect the fact that she wants that. Continue to be there for her and she may come around to relize that she wants you.\nBest of luck man