can u love me?...i really need a true love...im 20, girl, mba in finance.. a person who loves me not my body..
358554
The first thing is sight. If you are looking for companionship the other person is going to make an assessment based upon what one sees. Are you worth the time that it takes to say Hello? You must first cross the line of sight obstacles. Love has to start somewhere even if it is in cyberspace. You paint a picture based upon what you read and hear. Love comes very slowly, lust is spontaneous and friendship can be awkward and treacherous. Do not cut yourself in half between the Body and the Soul.
469969
ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
131963
True love my friend. Be thankfull. You'll always have space for yourself, just in a different way, away from your "Soul Mate". Would you really want it the other way?... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
254633
There are two things you need to consider.  Do you love your self? Honestly. Then look at your possible candidates, do they love themselves?\nI dont mean shallow, but I mean this.\nIf you truly understand your self, you will understand others.\nIf you truly value your self, you will value others.\nIf you truly love your self,  only then will you be ble to love others.\nIf your future partner is not taking care of himself, he will certainly not take care of you.  Even if you think he will, when he realizes that he needs to take care of himself he will leave you. Trust me im a guy and i have hurt people like this in the past.
518284
Go for it and ignore your friends who seem to be a lil shallow. This man is more capable of loving you more than any man can ever love you in more ways than one. For instance, he has to literally explore your body as he make love to you and it becomes like second nature to him he knows your body even better than you. He can sense your mood and he will love you always for who you are and not what you look like ,act like etc. Most important he will never judge you because his love is true
58319
There is truthfully a one in a million chance that he actually loves you. Just cause of your age. Don't let your lonliness blind you. Just be careful! I hope it does work out though. True love isn't something to can find everyday!
637539
lol chart was good... hmm for the first girl people are just used to talk this way on the internet.. so you believe love is all about feeling?? where's thinking among it? Unless you want someone really dumb to date you.. not age? would you go for a woman who's 50 years old??? Common man, think before you talk..
881234
truly and honeslty.  Yes. i could love with myself.... can I have two??
162426
Honey if you have to make someone love you they are not worth it.  You first need to love yourself and be comfortable with that.  Then boost your self confindence up and men will be following you where ever you go. wouldnt it be fun to have a gaggle of drooling men to pick from who would be ready to do your every whim
60797
yes ur beautiful \nEMAIL ME BACK PLEASE!!!\n\nneed some luv
573893
body size has been one of those topics that have been a round talbe discussion for a long time.  but the decison only lies with you.  no one can tell you who to love, no matter how much of him there is.  people have a tendency to judge way before they know a fraction of the person.  and the funny thing about it once that bigger guy finds the girl that wants him, society looks a little differently at it, the right way.  that love was all that mattered.  not size not looks not money not power......just love.  if he makes you happy, if he believes in you, if he worships you as the woman you are and deserved to be then this question is obsolete.
856417
My friend you answered your own question. He wont love you because he loves himself too much. You are an acessory to him as oppose to his woman. Now you could knock him upside the head to get some sense into him but it will ultimately depend on his level of maturity. good luck!
656752
The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
160230
You are not a loser.\nyou just didn't find your true love.\nyou will find soon.
156080
I don't believe you can love someone too much but you can be so attentive that a person can feel smothered. It would depend on what he considers too much and the actual circumstance. If you are devoting 100 percent to him, then its too much. If you are not taking care of yourself and spending time focusing on self then it is way to much. Sometimes what your giving is great but sometimes it is not received like that. I would spend time really looking at the situation, maybe sharing your thoughts with family and friends who know you both and see what their assessment is as well.
429569
Try loving yourself first of all, dear! If you love yourself, no matter what your physical appearance may be, others will love you just the way you are!
874947
Hey dude, your still a baby! Go find your soul mate-good luck.  Me?   Old enough to know how you feel!