Will you rather be with someone that lies or cheat?
372757
Really neither.......but if i had to choose i would have to lies because i at least wouldnt be getting anyhing bad.
666498
Honesty is the best policy,  Sometimes the truth might hurt, but a lie is going to kill all the trust!!!!!! Treat the person your falling in love with exactly the same was you except to be treated.
99903
Lie and cheat...\nThat destroys most relationships real quick...
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
145638
That would depend on if the relationship that I was currently in was going sour. I wouldn't cheat on them if it was I'd just break it off.
514477
It doesn't matter if someone cheats on you or not.  Why would you lower yourself to their level.  You have to go through life liking yourself.  You have to look in the mirror and like who you are.  If someone cheated then the relationship is going to take a lot of work to be able to work in general.  If the other person cheats out of revenge then neither of you should be in the relationship to begin with.
1068917
I couldn't and wouldn't.  I love the man I'm married to. If you love the other person...how can you betray them?  He/She may never find out...but.........you would always know. Can you look them in the eye after betraying them?  Could you live with yourself?  Would you feel the guilt?  Then maybe one day...the guilt builds up, you feel your mate deserves better than what you've given. There goes the relationship.  Besides..........."How can you REALLY be SURE you can get away with it?"    If it ruins your relationship, you didn't get away with it.  Think about it.   The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And you usually find a lot of weeds.    If the person you want to have an affair with is willing to do this knowing you're cheating....how can they trust you not to cheat on them if it were to lead to more than an affair?   Cheating is never the answer.   Be true to your man/woman.  And....be true to yourself.
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
526328
doesnt coutn as cheating..but you obviously still have feelings for your ex though..so you have to decide which one?
264425
drop him once a cheat always a cheat..unless your ok with him cheating on you.
494537
Why I think a lot of men and women lie to get what they want is because it's easier to lie..to go sneaking around cheating..or doing things behind their partners back. I think that when a person does this..it just shows that their cowards because usually people do it so they don't get caught or are afraid of getting caught...just be honest and deal with the consequences...
788891
If that is the most important thing to you, it may be best to find someone who would meet that need better because you may end up cheating on the person who doesnt.
71791
I believe people can change. Once a cheat always a cheat is very judgmental. Anyway, to spend your life with someone, you need to trust him. If you don't think he can be trusted, don't let him back just because he begged. Only you yourself can decide, please also take your baby into consideration. Wish you the best.
57694
This is going to end badly for everybody.\n\nIf the person with whom you're cheating also knows you're cheating he probably is going to be very happy about seeing you re-commit yourself to your boyfriend, especially after having been with him for four months.  On the other hand, if the boyfriend finds out (does the other guy know him?  if so, he may tell your boyfriend about your illicit relationship)from someone other than you THAT is going to be really ugly.\n\nSo, if you want to stay with the boyfriend then tell him what's been going on, and then break it off with guy #2.
96449
We perpetuate the myth that men cheat more than women but this is obviously untrue; who are they cheating with? If by "better" you mean more successful at getting away with it then women I suppose. I'm not sure being more readily deceitful is something to be proud of though. Lying may involve some skill but so does stealing a car.
1084968
Neither, I ain't cheating on my wife, plus I'd get arrested for dating either one of ya.\n\n2 pts.
1014667
Hell to NO!!! its just this simple bad character no matter how you put it. And if you're going to cheat you're going to cheat no matter what. But the question is how long will it be before they decide to cheat?? And people think that they really love the person that they're in a relationship with, but yet and still they decide to cheat and also lack of will power, they're a lot of reasons why people cheat. Now I do believe that if you really love someone that no one can seduce you into cheating with them no matter what.