how do u stop calling a guy when u are nuts about him help!!!!?
360553
Delete his number from your speed dial.\nChose three activities (ie: 20 situps, check the mail, write a letter) whatever suites you best.\nComplete those activities. If you still want to call him and talk to him call him. (make sure you have something to talk about.)\nIf he has asked you to stop calling him... do everything you can to stop.. my guess is that if you are really nuts about him you would respect his wishes.
968985
I think he's trying to mess with your head. So just ignore it.♥
1051872
Quit following the "RULES" who's the expert you or some handbook of rules that everyone goes by? If you like the guy call him if not then don't call him...If I were him and I gave you my number and you called me weeks or months later I wouldn't bother to pick up because if it took you that long to call that means you were not interested...Get what I'm saying....Make your own rules!!
387506
Rule # ONE... never call HIM\nRule # TWO... if he calls, don't answer his calls\nRule # THREE. Tell the world that you are over him\n#4... Date as many guys as you can right away\n#5... Go out with your friends as much as possible and be with people who loves you... like your family or best friends\n#6... Bear in mind that everything happenes for a reason and accept the fact that it is over.  Life is too short to spend being miserable because of a relationship that is no longer there.\nGoodluck and smile alot!!!
183337
Find him. Talk to him. Tell him your feelings. Don't hold anything. Ask a friend of his for his number, or to get him to call you. You have an infinite amount of possibilities.
727652
Well if he's not calling you back then I would stop calling him. Just keep up the emails if you feel like it. Maybe if you stop calling him he will start to wonder why and he will think to call you. But I doubt he thinks your needy...he probably is just busy and since you are out of sight you are out of mind. Ya know? No biggie though. Just find a man in your area, because most people aren't into long distance relationships. gooooood luck.
626004
Stop hanging out with him all the time.  Sounds like he's rebounding and you don't want that.
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.
735540
Just stop. Stop the calling to say you can't talk, and stop emailing and wondering and asking and being hurt and expecting friendships and things. Your friends are right. Don't even try to talk to him. Wait, and call in in 6 months if you must.
877975
Do NOT call him. You have already done too much. Distract yourself and let him come to you.
59959
Put the ball in his court, Try to call him and if he does not answer than leave a message. Than you wait for him to call you back and if he doesn't than take your bucket of worms and go fish in another pond. Do not do as feather_john says that will make you look needy as well as desperate.
19155
This is tough because of what you said...you're still in love with him (how long were you guys dating?).  You need to find ways to distance yourself from him, and to do other activities which will take your mind off him.  Hang out with other friends, go take a class on something, do something fun and exciting.  If he calls you as much as you may want to talk to him you need to not answer the phone...in time you'll feel comfortable being separate and may have a chance at being friends then, but if he's playing games with you you need to avoid the situation as much as possible.
874315
girl, this is an easy one.  the best way to get over the one you are hooked on is to get another one!  don't you know men come a dime a dozen just as they say we do.  trust me baby move on to something bigger and better and you will soon forget about that jerk.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
1100620
Seriously?  Quit calling him.  It's one of two situations.  Either he's super busy and will get back to you when he can or he's blowing you off.  Either way, calling him non-stop won't make the situation any better.
55358
Stop calling him and he might start calling you, otherwise most guys like to play hard to get...N
500699
Yeah...it sounds familiar ...I have an ex who tried the same...basically you have to set boundaries as it's not appropriate for him to visit you given his feelings and the fact that you're committed to another man. Tell him to use the phone or mail to communicate but don't expect him to go away -it's been 18 years since my ex has been doing this but as he's basically harmless I haven't really cared. The important thing is -is your ex harmless? Or is he someone who may act on his obsession? Finally I want to say -be sure you're not sending mixed signals...I've seen too many women not be clear about their wishes only to whine or press charges later when it's their fault for not being direct in the first place! Be honest with him and tell him to scram! There's my advice...I hope you take it! Edit~ I got your mail....If you hate him as you say AND HE HAS 'HURT YOU SO BAD' then why are you putting up with him then? Get a restraining order! Call the police and file a complaint and ask them to tell him to stay away! I thought maybe you still liked him on some level but since that's not the case you need to be pro active! Don't sit here on yahoo talking about it-do something about it -and I mean right now-today! Make sure you don't regret not doing anything!!!!!!!!! Everyday you let this go on-you encourage him more, and give him hope and he will become more relentless! You have been warned!