how do i position my self  to  be prepaired  to meet ,date and  get married?
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Stop wasting time on the internet looking for girls go out and meet some
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take it slow and REAAAAAAAAAAAAALLY get to know the person.  If you really feel you've met them then you have nothing but time right?  Always be honest and upfront and real.  Don't pretend to be something/someone other than YOU.  Know them through at least all 4 seasons of the year before anything permanent.....eg. marriage.  \nCommunication is KEY.  Do ALOT of that....communicating that is. \ngood luck!
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First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
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i have a totally awesome one, try the "WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED" position!  courtesy of your mama
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First, be specific about your idea of Mr. Right.  If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.  Once you know what kind of man you want, start going to places where men like that can be found.  If you want a "life of the party" type, you probably won't meet him at the library or the art museum -- but if you want a shy, artistic type, a football game is a bad bet.\n\nSecond, be realistic in your demands (as in, don't ask for more than you have to offer).  If you don't have movie star looks, insisting that he does -- and having nothing to do with any man who doesn't -- is not realistic (that's just one example).\n\nThird, know the difference between what you _want_ and what you _need_.  Have nothing to do with any man who can't offer everything that you need and at least some of what you want.  Caveat: some of your emotional needs are supposed to be met by your friendships with other women, not by your relationship with a man.  Don't ask him for things that he's not supposed to give you.\n\nFourth and last: relax.  You shouldn't play hard to get, nor should you project desperation.  Just have a life.  Go out with friends.  Get a hobby.  Attend events that interest you (which will bring you into contact with men who share your interests, btw).  The man you want is out there, you just have to be where he can find you.  Just keep living -- as opposed to surviving -- and he will come.
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There is no way that you can do that With out preparing your self. Here what I look for if i was looking at you. How do you dress. How do you treat others. How do you talk with some. Basically this will draw of your personalty. So Dress and groom well. treat others with respect, and When you talk to some one be polity and don't get mad. Just keep it cool. I hope this will help.
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First, burn all those Christian "courting" books, they can really mess you up in the head.  Here are the a few pearls of wisdom from a young married woman (who is probably certifiably crazy, so take with a grain of salt)  \n\n\nBe honest to the point of pain, tell them on the first date or before what you are looking for.  If they run when you say you want to wait, thank the Lord you didn't waste your time.\n\nDon't assume just because you met in Church the man is a Christian. Also don't assume Christian men won't want or won't push for sex - the earthly church is made up entirely of sinners.  That said, the "women are the gatekeepers" theory is idiotic.  Why would God put the main responsibility for that in the hands of the physically weaker party? You have to work those feelings and temptations out together.\n\nRemember once you start dating you will either break-up or get married.  The difference between dating and engagement in the Christian community is mostly immaginary.\n\nMost Christians "fall" into dating from a short friendship.  Which stinks for girls because we are not supposed to make any moves until we are actually "dating".  Good News - there is nothing in the Bible that says that. (Read about Abigail in 1st Samuel 25 and see if women are supposed to wait for men to act.)\n\nChosing to be married is like chosing to be a Monk, it has privilages but mostly it is about working out your faith through tedious tasks.  Be sure you want that, or you won't be happy with anybody.  That said, you are never "ready".\n\nHere is the worst news.  Because of all the bad info out there, there really isn't an accepted system for Christians to meet each other.  Any form of dating is considered at least mildly scandalous (no-one will admit to this but it is a culturally ingrained thing).  Be prepared for somebody if not everybody to disapprove at some level or another until you are engaged.  It stinks, but, like I said, the church is made up of sinners.  The good news is, this encourages quick engagements.
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I would not worry at all.  When you meet the right person, you will know when it is time. And if you seriously want to be married you must get out and meet people. You don't have to be a player, there are plenty of places to meet nice women. You are still young. Get adventurous!
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Your dreams may come true if luck favors you Being honest you should try matrimony services here we are all friends sharing and finding our solutions isn't it? Believe me someone is waiting for you and you will meet her soon....... Good luck
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First be careful, do not leave with him/her.\n\nSecond, be yourself and get to know them.\n\nThird, take your time, do not rush the relationship.\n\nOnline dating can work, I married mine!
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Im surprised of what the other people are putting.I say you are aloud to date whenever you feel ready!
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Look at your profile of questions asked, I think you need to decide if 4 months has been enough? Are you looking for a relationship that will one day result in marriage, looking for a relationship so you're not alone, or are you looking for sexually adventure?\n\nI don't think you'll find your future lifetime husband at a bar or club. And you really won't find a one-night stand at church.\n\nMaintain an active lifestyle. If you go workout at the gym, make yourself available to be asked out by guys there. You'll have something already in common.
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lol you r freaking me out..you don't POSITION urself, it just happenes when the right person comes along. A few more prayers may do the trick though...lol
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youre going to make it, dont stress out over the little things, youre the one thats going to end up on top so just enjoy life.\n\noh, and go ahead and dont do your hair that way and DONT date that one guy...
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Usually a man is ready to get married when they grow up.  They have a career.  They have a house, not a dorm, or apt, or Shack in the woods. And know how to treat a woman right.  I'm not ready for marriage I can admit to that.  I'm only 21, I do have a career as a Paramedic, but I don't feel physically, mentally, or financially ready.  Besides I have to have a GF first.
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Exude confidence.  I think that is the best way to celebrate being single.  Do things by yourself that may normally be for couples like going out to a nice restaurant, see a movie or show up to outings by yourself and meet everyone there.  It might sound silly, but it takes a strong person to show others you are comfortable being single within a dating scene.  \nBe proud too, that you can find your life fulfilling when your main goal isn't finding a good man, getting married and settling down.  There is NOTHING wrong with having that as your goal, but it still is not for everyone!!  There is a lot to be said about a completely independent woman with a healthy life, active career and great friends...so show it off!
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Look around.  You shouldn't have to put your life on hold just because he needs to get his in order.  If you are meant to be you will reconnect.  You're a free woman...get out and date!