Will there be a backlash if I tell my Girlfriend How I really Feel?The Communication between us has Broken?
365571
If you can't tell her how you really feel...then why are you still with her...communication is key
161486
you should tell her how you feel b/c if she really does love you then she would stop for you. seriouly she would that could find out if she really loves you. dont go to heard on her but let her think about it. just keep getting in her head that its bad.
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.
412081
communication is one of the most important things in any relationship.  You just have to be upfront and let her know what you would like.  Complementing her while doing so wouldn't hurt any.
628378
Well you have stated you have talked about your feelings.  I think the main thing would be to keep the channels of communication open...talk about how you feel, let things just flow from there.
1064054
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
221096
Boy this is a hard one.  Don't you think she might aready suspect it anyway?  I don't know.  Just sit her down and tell her how you feel.  After the shock she will be spuportive, I am sure.  Are you sure you want to tell her?
1109376
Do you have any form of communication?  Can you give her a call and tell her how you feel?\n\nJust tell her she may be happy about it
424617
Well it all depends on what it is you want to talk to her about. Give us more details. One thing that won't fail, make sure she is happy, ex. give her a gift, then break the news. She might be mad (if you did something wrong) but she will get over it when she sees her gift. Seriously though, just tell her what you want to tell her. She is your gf for a reason. I'm sure she will understand whatever it is you have to say
18448
No one can answer that except her. You need to sit and communicate your feelings to her and the expectations you have of your relationship. Maybe she feels the same way but there is something else going on in her life that you do not know about. Or maybe, she is no longer interested in you and is trying to find a way to end things without hurting your feelings. Either way, it is best that you both find out where you each stand.
230367
go with your gut feeling, trust that you will be better off in the long run and also listen really carefully to the context of her conversation to see if she shares anything intimate about her feelings about different things she may have done or things that she would never do. If you don't tell your boyfriend how you feel how is he supposed to know unless he is a mind reader.It takes two to play games.
1068495
Yeah, tell her the truth. The truth will set you free, as they say. Tell her exactly what you said here, that you love her so much that you don't want to involve her. If you can't bring yourself to tell her what it is that happened, just tell her she will be at risk if you did. Wow, I feel for you, best of luck, I hope your problems will be solved soon.
67504
Without knowing why she makes you sad, have you tried talking about it with her. Communication is the main ingredient of any relationship.
1123
I'm generally a quiet person, and I was very quiet around my now-girlfriend when I first met her. I think that likely drove her crazy... because she couldn't tell how I felt about her. After we hooked up and started seeing each other more often, my feelings just came through. I couldn't hold them to myself. There was a need to share them with her that I just couldn't imagine keeping inside.\n\nBut that's me - and not everyone is the same. Some people are emotionally sheltered and prefer to keep their feelings hidden away. Body language, gestures, and general mood and disposition toward you can give you clues as to how your significant other really feels. The question you need to ask, when you're finding yourself actively looking for attention like this, is whether or not you can be happy in the long term under these circumstances.\n\nPeople are tough to change, and if this is something you need, and your significant other is having a hard time dealing with that... you may need to re-evaluate your situation, or have a long and frank discussion with them regarding this.
105980
well I have good news and bad news. If she is angry chances are she still loves you. YOu dont really get upset with people you have no feelings for. The bad news is that nothing can make the pain go away, and if you really love her you always will. But as time passes so will the pain. The two of you can never have a healthy relationship because you have too much history now. So chalk this as a learning experience because maybe thats what it was meant to be.
374242
I think you have to talk to her. I'm sure it sounds about as much fun as getting teeth pulled, but I think you really must  do it. You can never know how people really feel about you until they tell you themselves. Some people just don't show how they truely feel and maybe she doesn't know how you really feel. If you really love her, you should take the risk and find out for sure. And if worst comes to worst and she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you at least you will know and will be able to move on without always wondering .
952676
just tell her how you feel, it never hurts to be honest  and in the end you will know how she feels. sure the whole thing could blow up in your face and then again it may not