my bf e-mails other woman from work. should i trust  him.?
358774
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
978282
Understand that he will never trust you.  I was home with two kids and pregnant and being accused of having an affair.  Pleeeeaaaassssseeeee!  He probably doesn't trust you because he is guilty or because someone before you ruined him.  Personally, If this was me, I would take the out he has given me.  I wonder if he trusted you to begin with.\n\nI would leave, get pro-active, pilates, buy a new dress and get a new man!  One who isnt' abusive and a cheater!
104698
Pay attention to what he does and not what he says. Of course, there are two sides to a story. I would say he was being polite showing your friend around work. He might be telling your friend what SHE wants to hear and not necessarily what he will do. If he does not respond to email, try calling him. I believe IF a man is interested in a woman, HE will persue her. Maybe it is time for your friend to move on. If he is really interested he would email, he would call, etc.
243074
I had a boyfriend that went away for a job one time, I was concerned because I never completly built my trust with him. So one day I went on his laptop and found that he was chatting and meeting with other girls on his buisness trip. So I confronted him on it, he denied it, but when I brought up the fact that I had evidence he confessed to it all... I say if there is a gut feeling then you need to go with that. If you are always insecure then you just need to start over with someone else. Just confront him and ask him....
817640
Unless this is something he's always done then yes, u should be suspicious.  Why don't u ask him and see how legit his answers are.  U can always follow him when he supposedly leaves for work.
728392
You can see if he's online if he has his settings for that.  You can't see who he's chatting with.  Why would you want to invade his privacy like that?  If you're romantically interested in him and you're afraid he's chatting with other women, then you need to move on.  Suspicion is no way to start a relationship, or even a friendship for that matter.
928204
Very proud of people like you! If i were that girl i would be so happy for someone to let me know before i ruin my life even more. there needs to be more people like you. I would for sure get the message to her asap. But do it without him knowing of course, because your going to want to keep your job. You need to make a new email address and make a new name and everything nothing that has to do with who you are. And find out her email address. Use this "fake" email to send to her letting her know what is going on, and explain how you know for sure what he is doing. Dont give out that you work with him and that hes your boss, that too much information. Just tell her what you know about him cheating. And see what she does. Thats all you really can do. Send this email at home not at work. And dont give your real name, use the one you use at for your fake email. And just use that email for typing her that message and only for her. You dont want to send anyone any emails besides her, or someone will figure out its you. After wait for a week to see if she responds to you, if not write her once again, this time just asking her if she got the email and to write back letting you know if she got it or not so you will stop writting her. After she writes you back, thats all you can do, its up to her to make her descion you did all you can do. Than just delete everything and earse that email, and never use it again.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
670042
i would ask my man nicely to ask this female friend not to contact him. this is not normal. by staying silent u re provoking him cheating. this woman definitely wants a piece of your man
368271
could it be that you have another problem that leads to your distrust of him? Guess we need more details and facts to determines if he's cheating. I mean just talking on the phone doesn't prove anything. you should look for unaccounted time (working late, times he can't tell you about things he's done) before fighting with him about it. \n\nif you're going to ask questions. be smart about it and make it casual. don't push.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
196490
i hope you are able to just confrunt him and tell him that it bothers you and that you do not trust him anymore. i wish i would have done the same with my bfriend. he was txtmessiging with his two exs and two other women he met at work and all that while we were living together- actually he also brought one of his ex home and slept with her in our bed.\nbut well, i did not have the courage and we finally broke up. he did...\nso go for it! you deserve more than a cheating bfriend\ngood luck!
47381
Communication is the key...if you trust him then you wouldn't think twice about the rumor...If he gets defensive then it could be that he's guilty...follow your heart and don't do anything that you'll regret...and keep in mind that rumors aren't always true!..Good Luck :)
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....
494992
We don't have cell phones, but I check his mail. It is not to be nosy, I just take care of all things financial. Now.... once there was this letter in a chick's handwriting when we were first married, no return address... Oh yeah I opened it, I was so angry. Turned out to be a thank you card from his friend's wife for being the best man in their wedding, he never got that card. I didn't want him to know that I snooped that much. That being said personal should be just that, personal and private, but sometimes you just can't resist the urge.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
929390
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.