i like this boy and he flirts with me he told me when we were @ church and has a gf what do i do??
365930
Stop messing with him especially if he has a girlfriend it just ain't right to do that to the other girl think about it this way, How would you feel?
86060
Tell him you like him and see what he says. You can't know until you ask and why worry about something you don't know.
1025898
He's in another relationship. Don't mess with it. Wait!\n\nYour Father notified him of your feelings.\n\nIf his current relationship is so-so and he has feelings for you, he will break off the current relationship and approach you.\n\nIf his relationship is solid, you will have some idea from the lack of response by him to you, and you should move on.\n\nThe association that you had with him at camp last week may give him a better perspective of the type of girl you are, and he may act on HIS feelings. Wait, and see what develops.
589223
i don't think u should date him...\nu can have a crush on him but don't date him...\nhe almost raped your friend so what's the chance of him not doing the same to u...\nyeah its church but that means nothing...\nsome boys go to church just to check out girls and not really pay attention to all that religious stuff..\nso don't date him...
957526
You could ask your friend to ask him, choose a friend that is in the class that you and him are in also. Tell her/him to say if he likes you. If he asks why just tell him/her to say that he/she sees him flirting with you . \ngood luck!
1120269
You need to face your fear, or else your friend's going to get him. Where a skirt with a cute shirt. Look HOT and flirt with the boy. GO FOR IT!!! YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!
591920
simple just wear this cute outfit that you look hot in  sit next to him and flirt with him listen  what he is saying and don't try to hard or else he will see that you are dieing for him \n\nP.S. let the girl see you flirtling with the guy
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
232084
You have to go along how he interacts with other girls...If he flirts with every girl then thats what he does...But if he only flirts around you, It could be possible that he likes you.
340789
you should try to go out of your way to talk to him more and flirt with him. try to make it obvious that you like him and once he starts noticing. then lay off for a little. it should work.
814683
then he is just there to flirt...dont pursue it, especially if he has a gf...
965822
Good question!\n\nApostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians7:14-18, "Do not be yoked with nonbelievers." If God is speaking to you, telling you that this boy is not a Christian, then you should listen to Him, pray about it, and see what God leads you to do. In my opinion, if he was practicing witchcraft... then within 4 days-a month he probably did not accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Yes, DO ask him these questions, to his face-- have a sit-down talk. Is he attending church? Does he profess that Christ is his Savior who died for all his sins? If so, then he is a Christian and you should help him grow by having a Christ-centered relationship with him. Christian dating is focused on marriage. And marriage, the Bible says, must be with a believer. If it turns out that he is not a Christian, and you still feel like you should stay together, then ask God to help you help your boyfriend seek Christ in his life. Take him to bible studies and retreats and church. Let God do the rest. If you feel like your boyfriend is not a Christian, and has no desire to truly discover Jesus and eventually accept Him into his heart, then I say you should break up with this boy. He will not be good for your own spiritual walk, and he might even pull you down to his level. Make sure he doesn't "falsely" accept Christ just to make you feel better. Christ is not a dating instrument-- He is our Savior and Lord who died on the cross for us.\n\nPraise God for this strength that you have for seeking His heart! I wish you the best of luck through this, and pray that you'll find the man of God who will lead you spiritually in love and encouragement-- that is also the man of your dreams!
1121451
plan a group outing. stay safe and dont do it alone. for all you know he could be a creep, and hurt you.
942156
I think by flirting with you, means that he likes you, but maybe the only reason that he's dating this other chick is maybe because he just wanted a gf. You've probably been in those situations where someone has asked you out and you say yes because you think their cute and there may be someone you like, but your not sure if they like you back. I know I've been there. What I'm saying is that there is probably an unspoken "thing" going on between you two, and he said yes to this chick or asked her out, because neither one of you guys were making the first move. Make sense? And its possible he's trying to make you jealous to make you react and show him you like him. Like he KNOWS you like hi, but he wants you to SHOW him. good luck, and take whats yours! its not like the boys married, right? lol...
934856
i've often been in this situation! the best thing i have done is just kind of flirt around, if he feels threatened, stop, and either move on, or wait til they (prolly sometime) breakup, \n\nif he flirts alot back just tell him "listen i know you have a girlfriend, and i don't want to get between you 2, but i just waned you to know that i do like you"   then see what happens from there, if he's for it (to date you) don't do anything til he breaks up with his girl, you don't want to be that kind of 'girl' if he's not for it, MOVE ON!\n\n\n\n\n\n---if you need any more advice on this situation or any other one you have DON NOT hesitate to message me!!!----
1020857
i think that you should stop texting him cuz it does seem a little bit desperate but if you really like him then i think that you should talk more with him at church and try and get to know him more outside of church. If you want some tips on how to see him outside of church without it lookin like you want it to be a date den you could just go somewhere with a bunch of friends and invite him as well. If you want to just go for it and ask him for a date then you could just casually go up to him after church and just chill together. also jsut because he doesn't text you back it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. some people just dunt like doing that kind of stuff.
312502
ask him anyway! gather all your courage...and just ask! as you said, u both told that u liked each other! LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING CHANCES!!!!!