how could a teen stay in love with her bf when hes moving away?
371618
u can message him call him.............send him love notes and cards and if ur in town visit him but that probly isn't likey!! he'll b like ur lover/penpal!!!
178132
i think this question needs more details.  i do believe there are many devoted people who can keep a relationship together it is definitely dependent on how strong the bond between the 2 of you is.  it probably also depends on how long youve been together before you leave.  good luck to you and remember everything happens for a reason.  if youre meant to be together you relationship will withstand the distance, time and separation.
883215
I think you are gonna have to talk to your family first...if you really wanna move in with him, you want to make sure that you are able to settle into a new town, but most importantly, you want to make sure that your family will be there for you, even if you live miles away....no matter where you live, your family will always be there for you when you get married and have children, and if they know ur bf well, then there really shouldn't be any problems.
987331
It's really difficult to make a long distance relationahip work. It takes a lot of time, effort, sacrifice and money. My friend was living in London, had a boy-friend in Canada and parents in SE Asia. She was constantly having to answer and make phone calls to all aspects of the globe at really odd times. She also had to deal with life in uni. It was really hard for her get much of anything done besides talk on the phone or send emails. Eventually though she decided to stick with the boyfriend and got transferred to an uni in Canada to be with him. She loved him too much to give him up. That's eventually what all long-term relationships come down to. If you really truely want to be together then you'll find some way to amke it work. If you are not that committed it's best to break it off before one of you inadvertantly does something to hurt the other.
1051540
I don't think that you can expect to "keep" your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.\nThe key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.\nRemember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.
28830
wow that has to be hard well all i can say is just pray for him and yourself and try to stay in touch with him as much as possible i know a person can't help who they fall in love with i hope it all works out. good luck.
428191
I don't think it's possible to make someone love you. Maybe you are infatuated with her and she doesn't feel the same way. Long distance relationships are hard, and maybe she will break up with her boyfriend. It's not up to you to help her do that. What you should do is start out as friends, and just offer her friendship. Then, if she does break up with him, you can ask her out!
922333
Hey ok well since ur only 13 (im 13 too! :)) the relationship with the boyfriend who just moved 2 paris probably wasnt that serious so keep in touch or whatever but dont feel bad about moving on! If u honestly think that this other guy likes u then spend more time with him and then most definitely things will start 2 take shape and u guys will either realize that u do like each other or u dont. but in the end everything will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
855871
here is my advice, advice from a friend who has been put thru a similar situation. my bf almost went to Michigan or TX State University and all i could do is break up and cry behind closed doors. look, in his eyes you have to be strong and if you love him you should be able to trust him and in your heart think that nothing bad will happen! if you keep on wondering what happens wherever he is and who he is with and if he is cheating on you you come out as really insecure and push him away after a while! you should be happy for him and for what what he is doing not sad! be a good gf and spend lots of time with him before time runs out, surprise him with a nice dinner or a picnic or something simple yet where you two spend quality time together!  here is what my mom told me and for me it came true because my bf went to the same university as me, but her words of wisdom are: if he loves you he will come back to you ! and yes i think he is coming back! it will be hard and difficult on both of you and him too but he will not show it,trust me! you have to go through this and let him go and grow and you grow as a person too and in the end he will come back to you! do not think  of the negative outcome but rather of the positive, be happy that he is happy  or for him, spend time with him, trust him, do not question him and remember that the Bible says that "....love never fails" in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8!
848222
This is an easy one.  Why not imagine that you had a daughter your age and that it was she not you, that was involved with your bf.  What advice would you tell her?  Simple isn't it?\n\nYou know what to do.  Love is not a competition.
692234
have respect for the girl and for her boyfriend. you can't change somebody's feelings. you can't make somebody like you. if you care about her, think about her feelings. respect her feelings and leave her alone. find another girl who is not attached.\n\nit's hard for two people to carry on a long distance relationship. it doesn't help when other people are trying to break it up either.\n\nyou'll find another girl that you're attracted to. i guarantee it, ok? if not, then the right girl will find you, so don't sweat it. but this girl is off limits.
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
1024498
Just let him know about how u feel about him moving away...if he decides to stay, great; but if not, don't "force" him to stay 'cause you might come off as being selfish\n\nGood Luck :)
669052
You can live without your BF. Get real!
569764
the truth is, it really depends on both parties, if they really love each other and that the FAITH is there, no matter how far they are from each other, it doesn't matter!! but in reality, it is so hard to keep a long distance relationship... There are lot of things that can happen when you're away from someone, its up to you if you really want to stay in your relationship or just goes on with the flow!!!
636591
If you moved from Michigan to be with her because you love her, her going away to college shouldn't matter if your love is really. because no matter how far away you are from each other your love will always be their. you should be  proud of her and encouraging her for wanting to make a better life for the both of you. let her know that you are behind her 100% no matter what her decision is and that you will always love her and be there for her that is how strong your love is for her. if it's meant to be it will be no matter how far away you are, this is a test of your love.
158224
Just show youre BF how much you love him, that you can't live without him and specially be honest and true to yourself