Why are men atracted to lesbians or by-sexual women ?
373222
I must admit its something that baffled me as a lesbian would obviously have no interest in the guy :0) I guess its more to do with it being more than one woman involved.
999357
yeah i think so because it just sort of seems that women are more understanding towards people being themselves. i dont think ive ever met a guy that doesnt have a problem with a gay man. of course most guys do like lesbians tho but thats mostly cuz they are pervs lol, j/k. i think it just creeps guys out because they cant see themselves doing things with another man, women on the other hand will get drunk and kiss a chick and not care a bit.
429646
i am straight with some lesbian tendencies... i strictly date men, but i do find some women attractive. but i would never have sex with a woman,
1015649
Yes, it is a simple question and yes, it's still badly worded.  Many guys don't like lesbians although many women do like gay men. Figure that one out. I adore gay men and straight men too. I see most of them as small children in large bodies; although a straight gentleman can't often help me with colour combinations for the living room.
465309
I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
1132232
Some girls are lesbian just because they hate males. So instead of dating a guy, whom they probably hate, they just date a girl, with a personality they like, with a guy look, so they get exactley what they want. I don't know, that's just what I heard from my heterosexual female friend. And I'm sure that's not the way for every lesbian. Btw, I wouldn't actually know: i'm not female or gay.
1031331
Yes, women are by nature, very sensual beings, and much more emotionally motivated than men. Mind you, I'm bi, not gay. I love the feel and scent of a man, the power he exudes, the masculinity. But ...the touch of another woman.... that sensual touch is like a flame that ignites you from the ground up. If your'e ever so lucky as to have the touch of a man and a woman at the same time...it's a feeling you'll never forget. Men have to work at learning a womans body, women are observant enough of their own bodies to know what needs to be touched, and how firmly, and what needs moisture or heat, or  a lighter touch, and most importantly, they recognize the body language of the female close to orgasm, and know how to finesse their way through it without stopping too soon and know not to stop abruptly once it subsides, but to bring you back down slowly....and they know better than to roll over and put their backs to you when its all over with!
1079341
Lesbians have more oppotunity to cheat - not just with other woman but also with men. Many lesbians are bi sexual.
1167886
YES LOTS OF WOMAN ENJOY THE COMPANY OF GAY MEN AS THEY DONT FEEL THREATEND BY THEM\nthere is also the woman who are bi-sexual and this lot would sleep with their own granny if there was no-one else available\nmy own feeling is live and let live but i think gay people do have some kind of hormon inbalance from birth and the choice of sexuality is made for them without there knowledge,,\nthe only gays that do my head in are the camp club who act like lost pussy cats and over dramatise everything
948020
LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
878446
Some gay men can be very melodramatic!  I worked with one and although I did not care that he was gay, he was the biggest back stabbing, gossipy person I had ever met.  However, my gay friend is nothing like the guy I worked with.  He is loving, smart and funny.  I have yet to meet a lesbian I didn't like.  They tend to be less stressed about things like looks and relationships unlike heterosexual females.
991038
In the past, two "spinster" or unmarried women would often keep house together. Cousins and sisters also could do the same. Also, the thought of lesbian women has the affect of "turning men on" rather than revolting them as gay men do. Funny, isn't it?
326487
they are just women who enjoy women more than men, not becoz men are no good. I mean, guys, do you like women becoz men are no good? it is the same for lesbians, they are straight men's best friends.
329462
Maybe because men don't really try to work in that area and plus everyone is so into lesbians because it's popular.  And the fact that men are just seen for their personalities not for their bodies
352801
I think, in general, men are more prone to express homophobia...\n\n... but, more men look at hard core porn- which would be "softcore" if it were just a chick alone!\n\nSo they're looking at other men, in sexual situations, and getting aroused.\n\nSame thing for guys who actually act it out (those in swinger type relationships or who like to watch their wives with other men). In some of those alternate relationships, the men interact with eachother to varying degrees, but still consider themselves heterosexual. This might also happen in some types of BDSM relationships. \n\nIn short, I think expressed homophobia is a social thing and a social label.
470238
That's their sexual preference, and guys are tempted by their behavior.
102650
I personally accept either one . But I know guys who sit there and think that lesbians are cool and drool at the thought of seeing two women go at it but mention gay males and they are practically throwing up and saying it is against gods way and all that. I say if these men think that gay males are against gods way then why dont they feel that lesbians are? Like I said at the top I have nothing aganist lesbians or gay males. To each his or her own is what I say.So I would have to answer question that lesbians are more accepted.