How do you stop following people?
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Try to lead more.  Perhaps you could organize a night out with your friends, but don't tell them where you are going.  That will make you lead and they will follow.  You could also have them over to your house with lots of fun things planned (movie, games, snacks, etc) that you could do.  Teach them something new.\n\nYou may also want to work on your self esteem and know that it's okay to fail and that it's okay to do things differently from your friends.
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Ask her why she is obsessing about you, and to stop stalking you.  People don't like to be called "stalkers".
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Try to avoid the person.
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ignore them.  you made certain choices in your life, as we all do, and as a result people perceive you in a certain way.  now you're living your life in a different way, and those that are open-minded (read:  worth your time) will shift their perceptions accordingly.  those who are clinging to your past mistakes will eventually be cycled out as you meet and form relationships with people that respect you enough to pay attention to who you are and what you're doing NOW.  \n\nyou can't control what other people think of things you've done in the past, and you can't control how fast they let go of it.  efforts to 'change their minds' will only bring more attention to the past by making it the focus of your actions in the future.  what you CAN control is who you surround yourself with.  choose carefully.
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a follower. i dont wanna be blamed.
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I don't think there is anything YOU can do to make THEM stop.  You can remove yourself from every situation when they start gossiping.  Or you could also state that you are not comfortable discussing people who are not here  to defend themselves. \n\nWish there were more people in this world like you.  You are setting a great example for others.
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Careful\nDont start stalking.
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Stand up to them. Be willing to find new friends that won't treat you that way. Call them on the carpet, the next time they step out of line, hit them back, verbally. They will either respect you and lay off, or they'll stop being your friend, in which case you didn't need them anyway.
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Tell them to worry about them selves you live your life not to please others do they feed you are pay your bill's.\n\nThere's a saying when someone talks about you all they doing is giving someone else a break.
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Just ignore them; they are just trying to get attention. Keep playing at your level.
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The people who decide to follow them.
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stop asking and answering questions and they'll leave you along
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How about stop listening to and talking to them.
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Just ignore them and keep walking
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Say pleas stop folowing me
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Dude stop watching me, how did you know?
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tell them that the people on your buddy list will only be your friends and you will only talk to them. Say that you will not talk  to any strangers and tell them that they can check on the things that you say. And tell them if they ever caught you at all misusing it that they could take it away.