Should I forgive him?
367144
He never mentioned it to you even when you have been going out for five weeks with him. Did he tell you himself, or did you just had a chance to find out ? If he told you himself, probably he was scared that you would get to know or probably like you said he didnt want to lose you. If you found out by yourself, then he has other things he may not be telling you, like the baby's mother ? legal implications ? his commitments ? Either way, lets give him a benefit of doubt that....probably he does love u a lot and worried of losing you, but he cannot hide issues serious as this from you. It is better you confront him now and ask him all issues related to the baby, and any other facts that you should be knowing. I feel he would open up and tell you everything if he is sincere to you. And when he does that, I think he should be given a chance. Everyone goes through some issues in life or the other. Probably things didnt work out for him, and now he has you, so give him a chance..and accept him the way he is, ofcourse only after your heart tells you that once you know the issues yourself. But if he turns out to be a big bundle of lies..then you know what to do !!\n\ngood luck !
685455
Girl, if you care that much, give him another chance and another, and aother and another. While you're at it, help him over come the drinking problem, some how. I think he realizes what went wrong, and want to try again. I think he cares about you, and that if he suspected you of anything, he's likely forgiven you- or ready to forgive you. I agree with you, that it would be wrong at this point, to cut the string.
225793
It's hard to forgive because we like to dwell on things that happen in the past. If you would just take the time to see that God gives us hard times in order to learn from them, then I bet it would be much easier to forgive that person. Just remember that the past is in that past and theres nothing that you can do to change that. The future is what matters. You can mold your future by looking at your past. As far as punishing someone for their actions, I would leave that up to God to do. The best thing that you can do is to be nothing but nice and sypathectic towards them. When you do that , the other person tends to feel guilty about what they did, and even if they don't tell you that they are sorry, they will infact, constantly think about what they did to you, and hopefully they will at least, ask God to forgive them for what they did. One last thing; I would pray for that person. I would pray that this person realizes what he/she did, how he/she can make it right, and also if God will forgive that person and have mercy on him. If you do all of this, then God will be happy with you and dissapointed with the other person. If you don't forgive him/her or even punish this person, then God will saddened with you just as much as he will be with this other person. One last thing; try to remember the verse from the Lords Prayer, when someone does something that hurts you : Please forgive us are tresspasses as we forgive those who tresspass against us. I hope that this has helped you and I'll keep you in my prayers.
461375
NO YOU SHOULDN'T FORGIVE HER, WHAT IF YOU WOULD HAVE WALKED IN 30 MINS LATER, THEN WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE WALKED IN ON???\nYOU DESERVE BETTER
405366
If you know it is over and you want to move on, it really is very easy.  Your forgivness is NOT for his sake, but for yours.  By forgiving, you will leave the burden behind and open your heart for true love.  Not forgiving will be harder and hurt only you!  Forgive and move on!
1027114
Do you think he is sincere and really apologetic? If so, then yes; you should forgive him and go on with your lives. I think it was messed up that he would think about cheating on you, just simply because you had a miscarage and lost a job! That was the time he was needed and you were needed to be there for each other! Talk to him and be very open. Explain how you feel and see what he says. From there, you'll know if he's sincere and ready to start over. When you do start over, don't bring up the past and bring up all the negativity when you argue in the future because that's only gonna cause problems and more conflicts! Good luck and try to get some counseling for the both of yall. It helps usually.
173593
I think you should call and apologize.  Depending on the prank and how deeply he was embarrassed, he may not forgive you.  If he doesn't forgive you, move on.  If he does forgive you, then perhaps you shouldn't play practical jokes on him in the future.
1165758
Too bad he didn't think about all of that when he made the choice to cheat.  Sometimes it's too late to go back and try to fix what was broken. Forgive and move on.
404792
You just have to accept what happened and forgive him in your head. You'll probably never be able to forgive him in person though.
222946
ask yourself if you'll ever forgive him cause if you cant you wont be able to forget, trust has to be earned, can he earn yours back.
69751
You need to forgive him. Hating him is not going to change anything, it will only make it worse. Let it go, forgive him and move on with your life.
358384
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't go accusing him yet. If he does happen to cheat on you while in New Mexico, then he isn't worth your time. You can only forgive someone so much. When he gets back, talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't feel safe when he's around his ex. If he is the right guy he will understand.
183634
If it was God walking amoung us and you hurt Him. He would have forgiven you on the spot.\nI would tell Him your sorry.\nWhat else can you do?
224681
Depends on what kind of relationship you had. If I were the male and I intend to marry you, I would definitely forgive you. Afterall I am aware that it took the two of us to get you into that situation.\n\nIf we're just playing around, I will run away as fast as I can and never show up..
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
616766
if you feel you will be bitter then counselling will help but if you stay then you have to completely forgive him and not bring it up everytime you have an arguement...that means that you have not truly moved on....if you feel you cant get over this then you should leave...i know that if it were me it would be very hard for me to stay. so take your time to decide.  dont live with resentment!
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.