How do I know if I am gay?
368730
Do you attracted to people of the same sex?  If so, you are probably gay.
955772
i dont think hes gay\nb
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
123920
That is such a stereotypical answer. Acts like a girl... Not every gay guy is feminine... For every type of straight guy, there is a gay guy. Gay guys like sports, drink beer, are outsdoorsmen too. Yes there are those who like theatre, are creative, but there are straight guys like that too....\n\nThere isn't a science to knowing if someone is gay. I would suggest if its someone you are close to, let them come to you with that information... You might want to give signals that you are okay with it. So they feel comfortable. It is a very scary thing, coming out!!!\n\n\n... just a FYI, if a guy likes to dress in womens clothing it means hes a cross dresser, not nessissarly gay. Those making these statements about gay guys acting like a girl, do you personally know a guy who is gay?????
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
1019982
I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.
827879
What makes you gay is enjoying a relationship of a sexual nature with the same sex.  What you have is called fetishism.  Maybe it will steer towards a gay lifestyle but alone it doesn't make you gay.
632605
How can a gay person know what it is like to be straight?
963127
I don't know I am homosexual but I do not identify as gay.
398653
If you find her attractive.....then no, you are not gay\n\nIf you like her music.....then yes, you are gay
3251
Well, if you catch them engaged in a sexual act with a person of their same gender then that would be a good sign. \nI almost cringe to even answer that question because I do want to perpetuate stereotypes of homosexual people and I do not want people to think that there are real "signs" of being gay as though gay people are so different. Bottom line, it's probably none of your business. If you are a family member or are concerned for a friend's emotional wellbeing then maybe you could ask them. But if they are not "out" then you should not tell. Sexuality is a very personal thing and having a sexuality that is different or considered "wrong" by  mainstream society or that person's family can be especially painful. Again if you are a family member or a concerned friend then offer a sympathetic ear and your ability to be sensitive and keep a secret. Otherwise, concern yourself with  more pressing matters.\n\nRemember when addressing this that any sexual prefernce is not chosen. People are born with it. And even if people believe it is a matter of environment and not a matter of biology then know that it is still out of that person's hands. Please remember to be kind and understanding of all people and their sexual orientations.
851388
You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.
560228
How would I know ????\n\nI am not a GIRL !!!!
511337
DO YOU LIKE BOYS, OR DO YOU LIKE GIRLS? YOU ARE NOT GAY IF YOU HAVE NOT HAD A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WITH A MALE YET. IF YOU HAVE HAD A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WITH A MALE YOU STILL MAY NOT BE GAY. TAKE IT EASY ON YOURSELF AND WAIT, YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER TO THE QUESTION AS SOON AS YOU GROW UP AND GET TRULY SEXUALLY ACTIVE. IF YOU HAVE BEEN CURIOUS FOR 2-1/2\nYEARS, YOU WERE TOO YOUNG TO EVEN BE WORRIED AT THAT AGE. TRY THINGS OUT WHEN YOU GET OLD ENOUGH AND MAKE YOUR OWN JUDGEMENTS. GAY PEOPLE ARE STILL PEOPLE AND HAVE GOOD AND HAPPY LIVES, SO EITHER WAY YOU CAN FIND HAPPINESS. STOP THE WORRYING.  GOOD LUCK, YOU ARE ONLY 13.
380412
from what you had said it's look that you like to be gay and simple. \nI will tell you what I believed.....you are what you has been born on so if you born a man be a man and if you born a woman be a woman, second inside you is telling you that what you are doing is wrong and it's drive you to the right way. be simple and Jonie the air force. there is nothing nice to be a gay. & fiend a nice girl and do what ever you like to do.\nI know gay people will HAIR me....
755068
Being a caring person doesn't mean you are gay. You are gay if you want to have sex with other guys. If you want to have sex with other guys but also want to have sex with girls you are bi.