Was i wrong in waiting for him?
364952
Send him a wedding gift....Civil Service for Child Support.
1082146
what are u waiting 4, ask 2 him
815193
You might have missed an opportunity.  It sounds like you asked him on a specific date, which was bad timing for him.  You should've mentioned that you could get with him another time when he wasn't busy.  Try asking him again.
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Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
1042601
i think you should wait til something comes to you, maybe when your alone with him. be patient, something will come to you that will be perfect. and it will be more special, because you thought of it yourself.
216807
Although it may be unusual, it's not wrong.  You can't get STDs and no one can break your heart.  It could be that you haven't met "the one" yet.  Don't worry, he'll be worth the wait.
885272
don't feel bad... it's ok.  if he really wanted to work it out, he would've tried. don't blame urself..... he said himself he wasn't trying at all.  it's possible that u answered him later than he was expecting, but love is fickle.. timing is really important.. and love can quickly turn sour when u don't cultivate it.\n\njust try concentrating on school, studies, exercise, friends, family and everything else. make everything Positive, Healthy, and Happy in ur life, so u have a lot to offer to any guy...and u will know when someone is taking care of u the "right" way, not ignoring u... u know?  :)  ur not even saying u wouldn't take him back, ur  just saying that he wasn't giving u any attention. that's a valid reason to be upset, and he needs to listen. if he doesn't do his part to make u feel Secure, then it's partly his fault too!\n\ntake some time out and ignore... be nice, but don't beg him or cry or anything.. life is too short to worry about "shoulda woulda coulda".... if he wants to, he will respond. good luck
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i think that he may have possibly overreacted. however, if you only waited like 5 minutes, you're probably not giving him enough space. if you waited a few hours though, there may have been something more. talk to him about it and let him know how you felt when he said that to you. also. listen to him and geta reason for why he said that. a realtionship is about listening and being able to talk to your dating partner about everything andbeing able to compromise when you make a mistake.
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No, it's not wrong. We all get to this level differently.I would just be honest with him. He won't have a problem waiting longer if he's truly into you. It's called communication and if you can't discuss these small things what's going to happen when you run into the really big ones?
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have you talked to him? if not you should b4 its tooooo  late and you regret it. talking to him would be you best bet!!
130027
God is always there waiting for you to ask him into your heart all you have to do is give him a chance.  You will always be able to find him.  God Bless!!
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wait until he feels he is ready
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Asking him was the best thing you could do.\nBut dont you think its best to satisfy yourself before him?\nI mean do not wait for him, if he doesn't make a move then simply move on to someone who will.\nIts all about self satisfaction, or you'll be stressed forever!!!!\nGOOD LUCK
390322
:} Well maybe you have and you should know, after all who is G-d anyway to think you should wait. you want an answer and should have it.\nWhy don't you pray and tell Him so!
213991
Gosh. I totally understand everything you are saying.. just give it a little time.. you know what you want.. but your just waiting on him, right? ok... just wait. Love will always wait.. remember...love is love
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honey you have to understand u LEFT...what do you want him to do while you were out of the picture.. not knowing if you'll be back??? stay lifeless?????\n\nsometimes we act on certain needs..she(his co-worker) was there and willing ..so y not take whats in front of you???? its was just an act of being HUMAN with NEEDS!!!!\n\ni suggest you give him another chance like how GOD gave you another chance with LIFE!!!!!
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unfortunately, it seems that you just haven't found the right guy. i know it's frustrating, but it's not like you can meet a person that can be your life partner that easily. when you find him, you'll say "it was worth the wait."\n\nbut as far as what's going on otherwise, in most of the cases it was just infatuation. he was infatuated with you. a couple months pass, and the infatuation wears off. end of relationship. maybe they weren't ready for a relationship. or they were immature. or both.\n\ndon't assume it's a problem with you. it's a problem with compatibility. you need to and you will find that guy who wants to share each other's lives, who will work as much as you at putting into the relationship to make it grow better and stronger. mutual love, respect, honesty, trust, and willingness to compromise and communicate openly about thoughts and feelings... that guy is going through as much bs as you are now, and he can't wait to find you.