I have everything in my house that i need,why I cant just stay home?
374826
That's b'coz ur not satisfied with what you have. you are bored with it and you are searching for the interesting one
636196
I have everything I need but not necessarily everything I want.
430260
Have you done any volunteer work or helped at school? If so this will help. \n\nAlso try part time first or take some refresher courses. It can be done. Put down you were home with your children and now it is time to go back to work, well you want to. And that your kids are in school full time. \n\nMake it clear you are there to stay. I take it you are not having any more kids? So you want to work outside the home now. \n\nI stayed home with my daughter too.
529634
dont stay on the roads that much and try to get everything u need before goin home
616390
If you are living at home, you do not have the right to privacy!  You likely are not providing the home, the utilities, the groceries, the upkeep and maintenance or anything else associated with the home.  Further, your parents are probably purchasing most, if not all, of your clothing, make up, accessories and on and on.  Do you drive yet?  If so, did you provide your own car or did your parents provide you with one?\n\nResponsible parents KNOW that their children don't tell them everything ~ they were teens once, too.  They also know that it is a very different world than the one we grew up in and kids need a lot more protection.\n\nSure, there were dangers in the world when we were teens, but there were no internet predators, there wasn't near as much kidnapping of children and teenagers, children and teenagers, regardless of gender, being sold into sex slavery and any of the other things that teenagers think will "never happen to me." \n\nThe truth is that none of the ones in your age group that HAVE had it happen to them ever thought it would happen to them, either, but it did.\n\nSo what if he read an email about a guy you liked.  Don't you think he knows you are going to like guys?  You're making a big issue out of something that is no issue at all and, frankly, you're acting like a spoiled little princess about the issue, too.  Sorry, but truth is truth.\n\nAgain, you do not have the right to privacy as long as you are living in your parents' home.  I agree with all the other people who have said they wish more Dad's were like your Dad.\n\nInstead of being overly defensive, demanding "rights," and whining about something as trivial as this, why don't you be grateful that you have parents who are able to provide you with a computer, who are able to keep a roof over your head and food on the table, who love you enough to say "tough cookies" to you and "invade your privacy."\n\nYou want privacy?  Get a job, move out, be completely self-supportive and ask no one for anything.  Then, and only then, do you have the right to privacy.\n\nAs far as the answers on here that say what your Dad is doing is illegal?  Chances are they, too, are teenagers who think they are owed anything they want.\n\nNone of you are "owed" a darned thing!  What you have is by the grace of your parents or other family members providing it to you.  YOU, on the other hand, owe respect to those who provide for you.\n\nIf you were mine and threw a fit about me looking into your computer (which I definately would do) or looking through your bedroom (which I would do), then I would make life very easy for you by removing the computer.  Complain enough, and I would remove your bedroom door.  Continue to complain, and I would remove all extras, such as make up, hair styling equipment and supplies, one by one until you got the message.\n\nHere's the message:  Go to your Dad.  Apologize for overreacting to his CARE and LOVE for you.  Tell him you understand that what he is doing is done out of love for you.  Start respecting and stop demanding.\n\nLastly, you wouldn't be so upset if you weren't hiding something.  You know, I know it, and you can be very assured your Dad knows it.  Teenagers think they are so clever; but, as parents, we see right through you.  Sometimes we stop your behaviors if we think you can be seriously harmed by them.  Other times, we just sit back and feed you enough rope to hang yourselves so that you can learn a lesson the hard way.\n\nADD ON:  See?  My point proven exactly.  No sooner is my answer posted than I see you shouting (using all caps) at people, telling them to give you reasonable answers.\n\nMost of the answers ARE reasonable.  YOU are the one being unreasonable, sweetie.  You are a 13 year old **CHILD** and you are screaming at adults who are trying to help you understand?\n\nOf course you cannot go out and obtain a job and a car .
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It sounds like you are really ahead of the game being so dedicated in school and also owning your own home already at so young an age.  If you remember this and focus on what your long term goals are and what rewards will be reaped from your hard work, you will make it!  Can you try taking in a roomate to share your house?  That might help with bills.
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I think you should move out even if your not sure you can do the things suggested by the previous posted. Don't go far enough that you can't get help if you really need it and so people who care about you can keep an eye on how your doing, but also pride yourself on your new found independence and don't run to them for simple things. Get roommates if you can, it lowers your rent and helps you get a better feel for things - roommates usually don't operate like a family, they operate like independent individuals living under the same roof, and they can teach you a lot if you need to learn.
675336
Come over to my house
966191
hang in there its only till January right around the corner and I know your thankful for having a roof over your head and that your inlaws have opened there house to you. I'm sure there feeling confined and missing there privacy too. Try to continue working this will help be away from the house as much as possible and when you are home try to find a quiet place where you can read a book or even soak in a tub for a bit its only a couple more months in the mean time you enjoy planning and having parties. why not get a pad and pen out and start planning this wonderful party your going to have once you get your new home. take this time to prepare and jot down ideas of what you want with this new house warming party. this should carry you through till January. good luck
436702
Sell your truck and use the money to pay your house loan.\n\nI suggest you to sell everything you own (Including your bed) and pay your house loan before you are kick out of your house and you end up homeless.\n\nPlease let me know how much debt exactly do you have in your house loan and how much is your house worth so I can find you a buyer for your house before your house becomes property of the bank.
463575
My House w/furniture, My Family and Food.
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What types of things do you need?  Since I do not know I am just going to list things I bought when I moved out on my own.\n\nFurniture\nDishes\nBath Towels & Washclothes\nDish Towels & Washclothes\nVacume Cleaner\nStorage Items\nCleaning Supplies\nBathroom Accessorys\nKitchen Accessories\nJust go room by room and think of what type of items you still need for those rooms.\nPut these items on your gift registry.\nHope this helps.  Congrats!
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THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! IM 29 AND RECENTLY MOVED BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS CAUSE I HAD A STRING OF BAD LUCK AND FINANCIALLY COULDNT DO IT ANYMORE,I ALSO HAVE A GOOD PAYING JOB BUT THATS NOT THE POINT YOU NEED A LITTLE BREATHING ROOM TO FIGURE YOURSELF OUT THATS WHAT IM DOING I WONT BE HOME FOREVER BUT UNTIL THEN IM MAKING A NEW BEGINNING FOR MYSELF WITH A CLEAN SLATE
969246
Most houses don't have everything you want and sometimes need, my house would be improved alot if i had a pool(then elaborate)\n\njust be lucky you have a prompt like this last year for an sol we had to write a paper on what we'd do if we didn't have tv
986423
First get your act together. Talk to the people you owe oney to and ask for some grace. Is unemployment an option till you can get a job. Do you have freinds and family that can watch your kids till you get on your feet. \n\nIs there someone you can stay eith till your able to move out on your own?\nYou can do it!
739247
You don't say anything about your homelife.  You have to have a very good reason for it.  If you could get a job w/in walking distance, I think they consider that reasonable.  I put up with a lot of physical and mental abuse until I was old enough to leave home .... and I still recommend staying at home as long as you can.  If it is your homelife that is the problem, get Social Services involved.
881299
yes im staying home\nthey want to see me they have to come to my house