my husband can do intercourse on 3 minutes i am not satisfied please advise me what i can do?
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Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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get a pregnancy test, and next time have sex with someone who will last longer than a minute.  o and please use protection.
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just being straight up would be best.\n\ni have to read between the lines, not many details...\n\nit seems like there could be several causes... hang-ups, priorities, miscommunication, not being in the mood, fear of the unknown, performance anxiety, him not knowing your boundaries...\n\ntell your hubby how you feel, and let him know what you had in mind, and let him know you REALLY want it, there will be no pressure, no judgment, and let him know he can't screw it up... even if it doesn't work right the first time, you want to try something new for excitement.
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Gentle, slow, and a lot more lube next time.\n\nAnd next time, a lot more foreplay and he should lick you for like 20-30 minutes before he does any lubing and penetrating.
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Find a woman that will make you happy sexually too...Sorry there is nothing you can do if the guy is hitting it better then you, just find another..
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My advice to you is be honest and open with him, You can please yourself while he is making love to you. Communication is the key here. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.
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you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck
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can't blame you for getting frustrated...what you need is a break. meaning...go somewhere else with your husband, take a trip to a new place or a place where you've been to before and had a great time...\nsometimes it takes much more than "holding it" to ignite things... a change of environment once in a while is good for both of you.\ni think your husband feels stressed out, or something is really troubling him and doesnt want to tell you what...but that's another story...\n\nand about your question if its normal for him to not want to have sex, my answer would be yes. My husband is like that..sometimes...esp when he's tired, i realized my energy level is higher than his so i try my best to meet halfway...husbands are lazy when they are tired and sleepy even if as you put it...you are a hottie.\n\nGood luck to you and your hubby...
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Why do you want to have this for a longer time ? Only pain in your hands and body ache will be the result.  what it the wrong if you get it reasonably in short time. Don't wast time, and burn your calories unnecessarily. finish it in the usual time and if you feel do it again after some time, if you can.\n\nYou should show your capacity for  extended longer period only when you have sex with your partner. It will satisfy both of you-.
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Stay. There is sooo much you can do to improve sex. Maybe just talk to him, give him gentle hints. Maybe add some toys or videos. Maybe you both can learn alternate ways to please each other. Go on line, maybe Dr. Ruth has a website that can be helpful.
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You need to tell your husband what you just wrote...he should respect your wishes if it makes you feel this way, maybe you guys should go see a counselor together, make sure you get it out in the open before it gets to late!!!
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Ask him for more play time.  Perhaps he could perform oral on you and use a vibrator on you to help you reach orgasm.  The once he has helped you out, you can make love.
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Ask him what you should do.  He is the only one that can tell you what will please him.\n\nSorry, I did read it was for men, but the answer was so simple.
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im not a guy, but those answers made me sick so i can not resist to write smth. i had quite a number of men so NOONE LASTED MORE THEN 3 MIN if it was first time after a break of a week (i mean only intercourse, not counting foreplay, but foreplay wasn't too long either). those guys are lying or they have some problems with their dicks, because it is really abnormal to have 20 min intercourse when u didn't have a woman for weeks. those guys should see a doctor. and the one who can last for 1 hour. did he ever ask his woman isn't she bored to death by doing stuff for 1 hour? or is he just staying inside of her without frictions and waits when he finishes? so don't pay much attention to those guys. they re just boasting. ask women. they will tell u more truth about how long their men last.
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take charge.  try taking a shower together, if u have kids get a babysitter and then plan a sex night with u doing all the work.  use oral to get him going and then have him lay on his back and u mount him.  to often we men get tired of doing all the sex work and just want our women to let us lay back and enjoy, unfortunately most women are to lazy to do this.  if u want him to go down on u have him lay back and u sit on his face.  GET THE PICTURE.  for once let him enjoy sex instead of working his butt off for it
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Try new things!!!  Anything outside whatever.  Do spontaneous things men like that.  Such as giving him a BJ while he's driving or watching TV.  Just drop drawers whenever.  Thats how my wife keeps me going spontaneous acts of sex that come from nowhere.  Hope this helps.
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Hello Prissy, it sounds like the two of you are world's apart on your desire. You do love him though and he loves you.\nCan you talk to each other and reach some sort of compromise?\nI take it that he is good about pleasuring you or does he?\nThat could be a part of it also. I would suggest that you two sit down somewhere comfortable and have a honest and open talk about this. I wanted sex more than my wife did for many years.\nOne of the things we have done is one night each week,  I give her a complete body rub using oil or cream. After this she is so relaxed that she is ready for anything, including me!\nIt's not 3 times a day but he is going to have to lower his expectations a bit here and find ways to get you interested too!\nJust talk, stay positive and know that you love each other.\nGood luck!