Ladies Only, gimme some help here?
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she's playing the game... give it some time, be there and just let her know you'll be there as a friend(for now! but don't tell her that part) then after a couple months tell her if she does not take to the next level you have to stop seeing her as a friend, "it's to hard" she'll come running right to you! promise! i played the same game and that's how my husband got me, 10 yrs ago!
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talk to her a lot. build her trust, ask her to hang out with you, platonically, then build up to a for-real date. I mean, I've never done it that way, usually through other ways, but I'm sure it works. It's similar. plus I think we need more specific than just "a place" and whether it's the only time you'll see her.
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Being a female myself. Try not thinking so much. If she loves you she will appreciate whatever you do. i personally like the little things, getting flowers at work, him calling just to say I love you, He once covered one of my walls in my room with post it sticky notes (each one with something he liked about me written on it) not sure if she'd likeany of those but they might help. GOod luck. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to talk. w061204@yahoo.com
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Always be there for your girl.\nStand up for her honor.\nAlways open doors for any girl.\nAlways be polite.\nShow her that shivery isn't dead.\nLet her know your feelings, we can't read your mind.\nLook in her eyes when you talk to her, and she to you.\nBe a shoulder to lean on.\nHave open arms to hold and cuddle her.\nBe her friend to talk openly.\n(Just listen. No answers required)\nWhen you kiss, kiss from your heart.\n(not from any other part of your body)\nLet her lead you to anything more physical.\nBe honest in all things.  If you're faithful in the small things you'll be faithful in all things.\nWe want someone to love and trust too.\nRemember not to smother us.  But be attentive to our desires as we try to take care of yours.  Good Luck!\nIt's not the gifts or the money spent, But the attitude and gift of your heart that makes us love you.
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I'm in the same boat as you... just use this time to re-center yourself.  Go out and just sit and have a beer by yourself.  Just sit and think.  A similar soul might approach you and share in your misery for a while.  Eventually, it will pass.  If you want a shortcut (which I'm not recommending); playing on a girl in a weak situation will make you feel powerful if a little guilty.  I am NOT advocating date rape of ANY SORT!  However, alot of guys are too nice for their own good and don't realize that a 24 year old woman is completely in control of her situation.  Smooth talking and being a player does not necessarily mean you are taking advantage of someone.  Girls like sex just as much as guys, and almost every girl worth her salt has some douchebag at home that they are on the rocks with.  In other words, go hook up with someone hot, by any means necessary short of physical force or breaking up a marriage.  It will boost your confidence in the short run, but don't forget the "re-centering your self" part.  It's the only way you will find true happiness.
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I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.
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You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
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Good idea trytaking her shirt off while kissing if she doesn't resist go ahead and get her to bed !hope it will be the best sex you've ever had !!!!!\n\nKeep me posted
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One day you oughta suprise her while she's out...with an elegant dinner which you will prepare(more personal that way)...you know...romantic & all.Later,take her in the tub with you and massage as you bathe her...I'm pretty sure you can take it from there.That may not be expensive but the moment can be priceless.\nAn ex g/f from 8 yrs.ago calls from time to time to remind me of that...\n\ndo me a favor-try not to think of my avatar if you go with this advice okay matey!!?
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Have fun! Knock yourself out!  I always told my fiancee that if I ever caught him doing it, first don't stretch out my stuff and second, don't expect me not to laugh (he would NOT look good in female things, a bit too hairy hehehe).
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try it on yourself with a cucumber , then you will know how it feels....ask her again later ;-)
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Girls/Guys I'd Like to *uck
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Just try to be yourself, and have confidence. I don't know any girl who doesn't like a man with confidence, but don't be cocky about it. Slip it in casually and don't make to much of a big deal about it. Something like "hey hows it goin? If you're free tonight did you want to (insert whatever you're asking her to)?" Whatever she says stay calm and say ok that's cool. And don't linger around for to long after, that makes things weird.. Good luck. =)
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I suggest go for something romatic. Like a poem showing how you feel about her. I know it may sound really soppy, but girls love that sort of thing. Show your feelings, and she'll appreciate it immensly, I am sure.
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Yes I can help!!\n\nForget getting them. Find a nice girl and settle down.
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hold her face with both hands while you're making out, then slowly move them down, first to her neck and then (if she allows you to) to her breasts. or try placing your hands around her waist, and as your making out move them to her thighs and caress them. Is it getting hot in here or is it just me?
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girls are way more self concious than guys. Try starting off with a romantic shower for two, if she feels clean, maybe she'll be less self concious.