i like this female she is very smart but she is older than me  what should i do?
366715
if you are under age and she is over 19 you should not aproch her you could gert her in trouble if not just say id like to have lunch some time maby a picknic there you could dicuss things in privet good lluck flaim
1146747
by ur looks i don't think u need to be dating the older women.... go with someone more ur age if ur looking for a serious relationship
456808
what is the age difference i mean you dont want to destroy friendships, \n\ntalk to her see if she feels the same, unfortunately it sounds like there is a few years age difference maybe you should just leave it. i could be wrong and sound like a b***h and id be very sorry \n\nthen again depending i always say age doesn't matter as long as your in love but i do mean that t an extent
248765
You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
1074156
Go for it! Life is short....be happy. She may be they one. Follow your heart, and you can't go wrong. If you don't , you may always wonder "what if?"....Good luck!
211779
# 1 show her you are mature for your age, an older woman  might indeed be interested in a younger guy if he seems mature enough, #2 most women are impressed with romantic gestures, flowers etc... and genuine flattery/ compliments .. key word is genuine !show her that you  are on her intellectual level, and share some of her interests/ hobbies etc..try being friends with her first and feel out weather she would be interested in a date... even a casual one to start with..   and move in from there, good luck !
740611
well it depends on how old we're talknig here, because theres a thin line between when 1-2 years can make a world of difference and when it can be insignificant, \n\nand its my personal opinion that if its just a 'serious crush' then its probably not all that serious in ways that yeild results, but,\nregardless, if he wants to do something he should just try befriending her first. talk to her. go from there.
710360
haha. I agree with Soulful_kris. Girls do like older guys. But we're not here to shake your confidence. In fact, that's your most powerful asset. Be confident. Girls hate guys that can't look them in the eye.Try really hard not to stutter and keep it casual. Ask her to lunch or if she wants to talk. Tell her how beautiful she is and that she lights up your day. Don't tell her stuff like, she's your world and you love her and whatnot. That's just too much for a first impression. Good luck.
571165
Well, first understand that you chose to date someone 9 years younger so SHE IS JUST BEING HER.   Why do we all make choices in life and then question them afterwards as if we were surprised.  She's 9 years younger, she's going to be immature.  Maturity is experience, life situations.  You can't do anything, it's not right to talk to her about something that is natural for her.  It's unfair.  You will make her self conscious and that is just wrong.  If you can't deal, move on to an older girl, despite the fact that you get along.
880630
Spend more time with her, and if the chemsitry is right, then you'll both make the right moves!\n\n-Ryan
283636
dont worry about and give her sometime to cool down and then try and talk to her again maybe a couple of weeks.The smartest thing you could do whatever she says or does just be nice to her and that will kill her.  But just dont get into mind games because bottom line at that age she will be a heck of alot better than you.
1147713
AS I said before be more mature than she is and tell her no. NO means no. If she really likes you she will understand otherwise she is just trying to use you. You will have more self respect for yourself by refraining from giving in to her. In a few years you will be glad you didn't when she is caring for a baby at age 16 or younger
39715
well ,you must treat her like a person more than of her age.. \nyou must also consider her opinions....
129109
you dont 'show' her...we are not animals....just tell her your feelings are growing rather quickly...but for god sakes, man, dont scare her away...maybe shes a late bloomer...she'll come around if your sincere...peaceout !
419812
get to know her better.then u will know when the time is right!!
748275
you should try to go on with your life and maybe later on she will develope feelings for her and if you still love her, then you can try it out.  you are too young to get caught up about one person, you need to date and see what else is out there before you are sure you really love her.
169309
well if u really like her tell her how u feel b4 its 2 late coz u've mentioned that both of u are in diff colleges now rt and anything can happen