im laidback, so i'm not a jerk, how do i pick up chicks if i'm laidback?
368726
Maybe you're TOO laidback that you actually miss the chance to get the girls. Snap out there and do it! Be confident! Being too laidback might give the impression that you aren't looking...
373443
play hard to get, but in a flirtatious way. like say something to make them smile, and keep them guessing your motives. it works because they stay up at night talking to their girlfriends,and playing with the thought of a possible hook up.
95045
well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
401212
well theres two types of girls. if shes the nice honest type she probably notices that you look at her alot and dont talk to her much so she figures you just want sex. if shes the slutty type then you better just avoid her completely. i guarantee she will start coming on to you. and if youre smart you will still avoid her. trust me man, dont mess with the slutty chicks no matter how hot they look. they will just use you and throw you away. its whats on the inside that counts. let me put it this way, you can walk out into a cow pasture with a box and fill it with cow patties. then you can wrap it up so it looks just beautiful. but what do you have. its still just a box of ....  good luck.
811916
You need a self confidence make over, my friend.  Unfortunately the less confidence you have with women the more they will reject you. They are like rabid dogs. They smell fear a mile away and will track you down in packs - swarm in for the kill.  I think step one for you is getting over past rejection. It is in the past - it's done.  Throw it in the garbage and don't think of it again. Don't use it as mental fodder to beat yourself up.  If you don't like you - chances are others won't like you much either.  Have you examined looking for women in different places?  I don't know where you have contact with them but if you are trying to pick up stuck up chicks in bars you are going to get a lot of rejection.  Keep in mind that hot women are overrated.  They are people too - but you have put them on this huge pedestal.  Once you get a girl you'll go "All that for this?"  The fact that you have women on the brain 24/7 is part of the problem.  The moment you stop caring about what they think of you is when some bubblicious honey will strut right into your life. Good luck.  Keep your chin up with the babes.
639308
my advice would be to call a cab. cab drivers always know the best girls and how to get you what you want without getting you arrested in the process. ;)
19280
Pickup lines are lame. What you have to do is have an excuse to make someone talk to you.\n\nHere's what you have to do:  Walk into the room with your hands full of 4 drinks (they have to be closed bottles of beer or malt beverages so that you don't look like some creepy guy trying to give some shady drink).  With your hands full, announce to the room:  "Who needs a drink?"\n\nPass out one or two of the drinks to guys nearby to the girl that you want to pick up.  Then, hand the girl a drink, even if she already has one in her hand, say "here, have another."  If she's at all interested, she'll keep the drink, saying thanks or explaining why she likes another brand of beer better, etc. and you can start a conversation.  Open your drink and start chatting.  If she's not interested at all, pass out the last drink that you have in your hand to another person in the room, then "realize" that you have to go get yourself a drink.  It's a great exit strategy if you've made an ass of yourself, non-threatening to the girl, and instead of a cheesy pickup line you have an excuse to start talking to her.
409084
just relax and do what comes natural. no pun intended. dont worry about how you sound or what you look like. have you ever seen a guys face when he gets off.
1107630
ahh... finally a chance for me to share all the wisdoms i have learned by bein "one of the guys", and literally, this is ALL the wisdom... if ya wanna get laid, wait outside the bar after close. the girls who were there lookin for some dick are all gonna be standin outside, hopin to get snagged up in the last sweep the guys make on the way to their cars.
1173611
You sound like a cop, matey! Whats this picking up a girl for?\nA girl is a human being, come on, and  the questions depend on your intentions for 'picking up'!\nIf you want mindless sex, get a inflatable doll.\nIf you want a friend, come on... you know she is a special creation designed by  God, just like you... so follow the Golden rule...Do unto others as you would have them do unto you [or your sister]
858700
BE YOUR CONSIDERATE SELF. YOU SEEM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS. I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS. DON'T BE ALL TO SUAVE & OVER SEXY. SOME GUYS WILL LOOK AT THIS APPROACH, AS A ONE NIGHT GET DOWN
61758
First off, most girls do NOT like being referred to as Chicks.Other than that, meeting women involves risk and alot of trial and error. Get out more! Go to where girls/women are likely to be and always ask your friends if they know female friends who would like to meet someone.Saying Hi to a random girl is a good way to start a conversation. Avoid pickup lines, fancy outfits, and bar scenes and just be yourself. Being confident about yourself and curious about other people is very appealing to most women(at least in my experience). Don't see rejection for a date as failure, simply move on and accept advice from your rejector if she gives you any.
923026
I have 3 words for you. Flirt, flirt, flirt.  You have to come on to a woman for her to respond to you.  Think up some lines.  Think up some comebacks.  Like - when I say "Oh, I've lost a few pounds", you say "hey don't loose too much I like my women to have something to hold on to".. See how clever yet flirtatious..
1035128
I'm pretty much a loser around women and even I managed to get a few dates on Yahoo personals.  That or just go places and do the things that you enjoy to do...maybe you'll find someone who enjoys the same things.
367899
Seen those Nike ads?  JUST DO IT!  It will get easier and easier every time.  And guess what, you will get rejected more often than not, but you gotta shake it off!  Its possible you're catching her at the wrong time, she's a lesbian, she's in a relationship, she's too busy, or she's just not attracted to you.  Who cares though!  There are a zillion other Chicky's out there!  Keep on trucking!
427988
Play it safe. If girls keep doing that to you, why not ask a few of them what they're up to? That will either get them to blurt out the truth right then and there, or turn around in alarm and walk right away...probably never planning to bother you again. Depending on the girls, these ladies may either be after some guy to throw themselves on, or you might just be really popular. You just need to know how to deal with it...and maybe keep your eyes open for the one girl that might look like she is truly interested in you and not just going all flirty and crazy. Do you already have a girlfriend? If you do, tell the girls! They're bound to back-off if they realize you're already taken. You may get tired of saying this after a while, but if you say it for long enough, you might just start to notice that the swarm of girls has decreased to just a few random, hopeful wanderers. \n\nTruthfully, in all other respects I would just say run for the hills whenever they're coming toward you, and hide yourself whenver they're chasing you...but I'm betting you think that probably wouldn't work just as much I do. You have to deal with them. Stand up and ask them what they're doing, or tell them straight out that you're not interested. Or maybe you are? It all depends on what you want, and what they're really after. Think it over, and watch them carefully. Maybe you'll be able to pick up on why they're chasing you just from getting to know some of them a little bit better...\n\nI wish you luck. <:)
225425
Well - Maybe.\n             It depends on how heavy the women are. Any form of exercise that helps strengthen you would make it easier to pick up women - but if you're serious I'd recommend lifting weights. That'll build your strength much faster than guitar playing.