My ex keeps asking me if im going to give him my twix ( refering to sex) what should I do?
365769
Sounds like abuse to me, how do you feel?
1081884
Okay first of all since the break up nothing has changed so I'm assuming that you all are still intimate with one another and you're still arguing like lovers do.  The only thing that's bothering you right now is that you don't have that "TITLE" anymore as lovers which means that he can do what he wants and so can you.  So basically this dude is getting his cake and eating it too served on a silver platter with a platinum fork.  Do not allow him to question your where abouts every time especially if he's doing it in a "boyfriend" way.  I mean at this point he's looking at the situation and saying to himself " Why get back together when breaking up with her is just the same plus I get to mess around and not be faulted for it" Does it makes sense to you now!!! Lay down some rules and set boundaries within your relationship as friends and I guarantee you he'll miss that feeling as being your boyfriend and coming running back, it never fells.
15740
Most likely, he thinks that you are using your toys because he's not satisfying you. Simply explain to him that it is not the case (unless it is the case...).
327659
please do this and take my advice: do not get back with him. you seem like a really nice girl and you should be with someone who appreciates you. if he's being a jerk to you, for any reason, then do yourself a favor and give your time, your patience, your love, YOUR VIRGINITY, to someone who deserves it. you will come across many jerks in the world today, just please stand strong as a woman and don't give them the time of day. i know its hard considering you've known him for a year and a half but if he treats you like this now, then think about how it will be a year from now or 2 years from now. if you want to keep him around to "mess around", trust me sweetie, there will be thousands of guys that you will have the chance to have fun with. dont break your own heart and get attached to someone who will end up hurting you. if you give him even a little bit of you, then you will feel closer to him because you have shared an intimate feeling, from there, it will escalade and your feelings will become more attached to him and sooner or later, you will give in and then you'll regret it when he starts treating you badly or hurting you in other ways. keep your morals, be strong, and trust your instincts.
441681
Sounds to me like Bruce said "Sure I love you, baby - now take off your panties", and "I want to be your boyfriend" means "I want to have sex with you again". If you are 19, you are certainly better for him than "Ms. Right" or "Ms. Left", but he is probably not taking YOUR best interests into consideration - only his own pleasure.
823387
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
956722
dont play with your current boyfriend... and yes you are toying with him, break it off with him until you have either fallen out of love with your Ex or you are ready to move on from your Ex.... It sounds Harsh but trust me you'll thank me in the end :)\n\nboy that's mature Wolfchat
669
You are being used for booty and will never be anything more to him. I wish it didn't sound so harsh, but that's your truth. Either enjoy your "benefits" or move on. You may tell him you love him, but I bet your intuition has already told you the response to that and that is why you are scared. Actually I belive you should tell him, get it off your chest....and still move on.
533918
ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...
176732
you should not take him seriously he is obviously still sexually intersted in his ex and your isecurity has led you to snoop into his his personal email account because you do not trust him relationships do not grow and flourish on mistrust and insecurity and if you aren't dating others you need to start and move on or stay where you are and continue playing sneaky games
367078
I think it depends on a few things.If you feel like he's useing you for sex, don't give it up. Now if you enjoy the sex with him, take his money and his sex. let him be gone.
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
854410
Tell him you found out about his bet. Demand an explanation. He told you he loved you because he wanted to sleep with you. You don't have to "jump to conclusions"- the truth is right in front of your eyes. He wants to get in your pants- plain and simple. Tell him either he respects you and stops worrying about having sex or the relationship is over.
289915
its abuse, you said no.\n\nsex is between consenting adults, and did you consent that is the question you should ask?
180353
Talk to him. tell him how you feel, and if he understands and respects your descisions then thats great! if he doesnt then good ridance! he's not worth it, and he's an as*hole for using you!\n\nBut for things to work out you need to stop having sex with anyone, you have to start loving and respecting yourself, being introduced to sex at young age must have been traumatic for you. \n\nif you like reading books, i seggest you find this book: Title-your past doesnt determine your future\nAuthor: Bo Sanchez\n\nhe has the same problems on what you have, this book is very cheap and so worth it.\n\nif it's not available at your place, give me your address and i can mail it to you, dont give your address on-line.\n\nif you want to talk to me, this is my email: lovesoulmandy@yahoo.com\n\ni've been through, what you've been through. but i overcame them.
379750
Can you ask your ex if he has it?  Would he answer you truthfully?  Otherwise I think you are out of luck.