if your freind tells u that ur girlfreind is cheating on u and u ask her and she says no.who do u believe?
365253
I would question the motivations of the friend for telling me that information.
207989
All I can say is\n\nIf she cheated WITH you, she'll cheat ON you (same goes for you...)\n\nGrow up a little and then pursue a relationship....
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
477231
Who do you trust more? And who is more likely to tell the truth?\nAsk your best friend to tell you the whole story and repeat the whole story to your boyfriend. If he really is cheating, chances are he'll get flustered and deny it like crazy.\nIf your friend has a history of making stuff up, you should probably trust your boyfriend.\nReally, you know who is more reliable of the two. You have to decide who's telling the truth.
602894
Are you sure that your girlfriend knows about it? and is she "the one"? I am pretty sure she isn't otherwise you would've thought twice before you cheated on her. So if she's not the one, then I guess you could just let it go, I am not saying it's easy. And don't beat yourself, you made a mistake and you should recognize it in front of her, and you can also talk to her. But don't say to her that she cheated on you first; because that's not how you solve a problem, you would just put salt in the wound. Instead, just talk about it to her and tell her how you feel, if you want to be with her forever, than you should definitely clear this up now, if you're just having a fling that's another story. But whatever you do be honest, because once some one loses trust in you, it is extermely hard to come back and trust you. \nAs far as your friend...Well, if he REALLY was your true friend than he should've never been so cheap and told on you, a friend like this is worthless. If i were you, I would dump the friend before dumping my girlfriend, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings and is selfish.\nGood luck, and whatever it is, know that sooner or later this will fix itself and it'll be a lough years down the road, you sound pretty young and believe me even if you thought that your current gf is the "perfect" woman, God has ways to amazed you later in life. But one last thing, cheating is never good. And i am sure that you don't feel so good about it youself, so try not to do it again; you'll regret.
276102
screw them both!! If she was your "friend" she wouldn't have had done that, and if your boyfriend was really my "boyfriend" then he wouldn't have slept with her either... I hope you don't talk to them anymore... step up for yourself!
785728
If you really love your girlfriend you would have never cheated on her in the first place. So ask yourself this... do you REALLY love her? You already broke her heart when she found out about you and your friend. You seem to be confused, what you need to do is hurry up and make up your mind. If your gonna leave her then hurry up and do it so you don't keep on continuing to hurt her(since you say you dont want to hurt her) Losing someone in a relationship hurts so she needs to do it only once, not over and over again. Let her start her healing process. And if you do want to stay with her, then are you ever going to cheat on her again? You need to ask yourself this. Yes she may have messed around before but you still chose to stay with her.....and two wrongs don't make a right. Have you really forgiven her for cheating on you? Ask yourself that as well. You start with yourself, be alone for awhile somewhere away from both women to think about you and what you want. If you second guessing a relationship your in then it's obvious that your not truely happy.  Good luck!
1159930
It's understandable that you are afraid to tell your friend because she can get mad at you for accusing her bf of cheating but you still need to tell her. Don't say it in a factual way like you for a fact that he is cheating on her but say it like you think but you aren't sure. That way, she will probably be a little more aware and pay attention to what he does.
1143736
all you have to do is tell her you haven't cheated if she don't believe you ask her why she believing other people and not you is she guilty she just don't know a good man when she got one DUMP HER
160625
Who's fool are you?  Yes it is possible that they can just be friends but seems to me the seed of doubt is already there. Where there is no trust there is no relationship, and it sounds like you don't trust her. Get out while you can and don't be the fool.
75423
Do you believe her?  If so, try to work things out.  If you don't believe her or trust her, then there is no way that you could work it out.
315689
I'd let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you can't let him go make him stand on the sidewalk by a busy road holding a sign that says "This is my punishment for cheating on my girlfriend". I saw a guy on the news who did that to try to win his girlfriend back.
845357
No i dont think that your being cheated on. Your friend was just joking around.If he starts to get to close to your girlfriend then be watchful.But it sounded like a joke.
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!
290456
if you have reason to believe he is youare probably right. i can't think of a time i thought someone was cheatin and i was proven wrong. a womens intuition is never wrong
583663
Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.
1139237
Hm, a girl who likes you and probably wants to get with you told you something about your girlfriend.\n\nSo.. that you guys would fight and maybe you would break up with her and be single (and possibly date the new girl).\n\nWell, who do you think has a motive to be lying?