should i ask my ex back out?
358527
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
283073
No you shouldnt.  Thats just being ugly to her.  If you want her back you'll never get her like that because she will feel like you dont love her anymore and you are over her.  And besides you will just be using the other girl to make your ex jealous! Thats just horrible how ever you put it.  So dont do it.
523173
Soooooo depends on circumstances......\nIf you broke with him, chances are he DEFINITELY wants you back. Either he may still love or lust after you or he wants revenge in dumping you first this time around (especially if you break up a new relationship to get back with him).\nIf he broke with you, are you dating somebody? thinking about dating somebody? looking like you may be ready to date somebody (or has he split or had problems with his "new" partner?) - If so, he PROBABLY wants you back!\nIf you are both moving on (with or without new partners), it's UNLIKELY he wants you back (but he may fancy an "old times sake" bonk.\nIf he's nice to you but seems happy without you/ catching up with old mates/ about to get married/ hiding around corners as you go about your daily business of stalkimng him etc etc, then he DOESN'T want you back WHATSOEVER!\nLet's face it, you either need to ask him straight or get over it/him!
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
125010
Well the next step it seems to me, is to just come out and ask her.\n\nMy friend, if she is continuing to go out with you she may be feeling the same way or already know that you want her back. But you should still ask to be certain.\n\nWhat is the worst she can say? There can be only two answers to a question like that and one of them is the one you are longing to hear.\n\nSo suck in your pride and ask her.
881226
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
1040579
well, think about it... if it didnt work out last time, how do you know it wont end up badly as the time before? if you go for it, you could risk getting hurt AND as well as wasting your time. you already gave your Ex a chance, dont you think this new guy should deserve a chance to to prove himself to you too? your ex had his chance and screwed it up. Besides, if you give this new guy a chance and it doesnt work out, you could always go back to your ex. I mean if he really did love you or like you, he would definately take you back. If he doesnt, then he doesnt like/love you ENOUGH and is obviously not the type of person you want to marry for "future reasons." \n\nI hope that helped you and good luck! =]
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
243538
uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
857301
Sounds like he wants you two to get back together again but is too shy or too ashamed to ask, may be that he is afraid you will turn him down.  Hang loose awhile and see what the outcome will be.  If he still likes you, you will hear from him before very long.  Good luck kid.
943358
You mentioned that you were confused with your life. Perhaps you should try getting a better foothold with your own life before you do anything else. Getting back with her while you remain in a state of confusion isn't going to help the both of you. And if you really want to be with your ex girlfriend, I'd suggest you come clean about your feelings to her and your present girlfriend. A girl wouldn't want to patch if you're already seeing someone else. Don't give your ex the wrong impression that you are a 'two-timer'.
385036
i think you should ask her out. most likely she will say yes if she realalizes that your into her and she used to be into you or still is. i know that personally, if a guy i used tolike asked me out i would definately say yes because it's like making and old love young again, having a second chance.
1052964
You were with your ex for so long that now you feel like no one else can compare. You are so young, now is the time for you to find yourself. To find out what you really want out of life, and a guy. No way you can no that if you have no experiences to base your decision on. I say you move on and focus on you for a while. If its meant to be with you and your ex... you'll get back together again.
324993
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.
307462
When people break up, sometimes they forget why they broke up with the person.  They only remember the good things about them and none of the bad.  Once they get back together with them, they suddenly remember why they hated that other person.  Do all of the math in your head.  If this guy is still worth going for, ask him out again.  He might not feel the same way though, so you might get shot down.