any heart broke person please share ur pain?
360036
One girl I dated long distance for about 7 months, moved to Cal to be together, she left me for someone she met through her job.  Hurt like nothing else I ever felt.  Good thing is I met someone else who is like none other...Pain goes away a little at a time, then all at once.
560372
Yes I have.  It broke my heart.
995365
dear lost soul,\nfirst let me tell you i am sorry for what you are going through for i know exactly how you feel for i have not only had that done to me once but twice. once by a guy that i was engaged to and had with for over 3 years. i had moved from another state to be with him and left all my family behind so when we broke up i was stuck in a state where i knew  no one and had 3 children of my own on top of that. so it was hard. the second man i was with was for almost a year and i first found him cheating online with other woman and thought well he never did take it to that other level and gave him another chance but only to my dimay i got smart and put spyware on my computer and found out a year into the relationship that not only was he lying to me and telling me he was working and not...he was actually doing drug runs for an old buddy of his who i forbid him to be around and i found out he was not talking to woman anymore online but had started talking to men and was actually meeting the men. i was devastated. i finally had enough and called my mother and father and they came and got me and the kids . yeah i need help in the begining being a single mom and being on disability but i made it through it. i went through the dating things online and i came through alot of jerks but i vowed this time i was not going out with anyone that would not accept me for who i was and my children always came first no matter what. for 6 months i struggled paying bills and wondering if i would have food on the table and when the lord seen me at my lowest and down on my knees that is when he picked me up and carried me to my angel. that is the man whom i am engaged to today. see i never told you the first part of my story. over 16 years ago i was married once and over 13 years ago i watched in horror as my husband took a 357 magnum to his head and kill himself.  never until now have i ever found love like that and the love i have now is stronger than i ever had with him. even though you hurt now it is only a trial and it is something that god is putting you through to only make you stronger. i have learned that all my 36 years. i was 17 when married and 21 when widowed and raising 2 baby boys. then 5 years later i dealt with a man who abused me so bad he beat while i was pregnant with my 11 year old daughter now. i am a stronger woman than i would have been . good things happen to those that wait .....that is a good motto to live by.  i hope things go well for you and may god bless you
390927
It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful
1013722
Probably you, but for different reasons.\nKnow this, that you can overcome this pain. It does not seem it now, but there is nothing that you can't handle. Get out in the sun, keep your life going, as any parent would want this. talk to your dad, tell him how happy you were today, but you can still tell him that your sad about his condition. If I were in your shoes, I might tell my dad that I am going to accept what has happened, as there is nothing I can do about it, and I am going to make the best of the situation by being happy,for his sake and your's,  and talking with him. Life through us a curve-ball, but I am throwing it back and showing my strength. My dad would be proud of me for that, and your's will, too. Keep talking to him, and show him that you can make the best of this that you possibly can.
666850
i am also truely heart broke.and i agree with everything you said\nlong live gracie ju-jit-su
518702
I am in the same boat as you.  Trying to figure it out.  What cannot be cured must be endured.  Keep strong.  Looking at your life without that other person there feels so empty and cold.
578260
i am very sad right now
322147
I know very well what you mean ! i think that the worst is to know that you found your second half , your soulmate but because of the circumstances you have to separate . it happened to me 6 years ago , and even thou its not that painfull as it was at the start i still spend a lot of thoughts on him and on the time we shared . will i get ever over it ? i dont know , i just know that yes , time heals a lot of pain , i dont feel pain anymore but i still think !!!! you will learn not to compare with time and besides its a bad thing to do . of course i know that its not easy at all not to but even this time will teach . ok , in the bottom of ur heart ................but i am sure that you will manage . think that there are a lot of people on this universe which felt the same!!! i wish u luck and all the best !!!!
788310
i'm not heartbroken, but i am disappointed right now. i was gonna attend a piss out with my mate who promised to give me a lift. i was waiting for him since half six, and it was already quarter to eight pm. and some of my mates already in the party were trying to ring me to see if i was still going, but i was already pissed off i didn't feel like going there.\n\nnow, i'm watching my favourite flicks, while answering questions here. makes me feel a lot better. i should be fine tomorrow.\n\ni hope you'll be fine by tomorrow as well. isnt it a comforting thought that youre not alone? we're both feeling disappointed right now, so ye.
86140
Okay first breath...It hurts but you will grow so much more then you will ever know once you move pass this...Where were you on Saturday...My heart was so broke...I was told today to hang my head high and walk with pride and no matter what always know that you are better then that and you will hurt for a while and then you will see day light...Its not a matter of loveing to much or not enough its a matter of selfishness on the other persons part...Or just know that life moves and breaking up is part of that move and it hurst yes but time will heal all...Good luck
36297
yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
690059
2 months a go when my boyfriend held my friend and both fell\nbut then 3 weeks later he dumped me :(
1143065
Yes.  We do get heart-broken.  It happened to me 28 years ago.  I never dreamed it would still bother me after all this time, but, it does.  Guys sometimes act like nothing bothers us but it does.  We feel.  We love.  We hurt.
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Although I don't have the answer you want ... I can relate with your feelings. I don't know if just knowing that you are not alone in this helps or not. I went through almost the same exact situation about 6 months ago and it brought back all kinds of feelings of lose and sadness. I am sorry that you are having these feelings and hope you can learn to cope in some way. I still just push all of my hurt to the back of my mind...some days I am kinda ok and other days I cry at the drop of a hat--I guess its just something you have to carry with you for the rest of your life. Once again i am sorry and wish you the best. I am 31 years old myself with no other children-but hang in there and hopefully things will look up for us both.    :)
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you have to talk to someone... that's odd...\nI'm sorry about your loss... and I know it's a really hard thing to go through and deal with... but you have to hang in there and get some help...
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its normal to feel the pain because you have truely loved him. i suggest you go out w/ your friends, get a hobby, keep yourself busy so you dont have time to think about him. \ni hope sonner you'll get over him