How does sexual urge emanate?
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When I let a little bit of it go free from either the valley in the front or back.  Can't let that all just build up, I'd explode!
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Dear Chocolate,\nAll joking aside...it seems to me you are very hungry for affection...which is translating into sexual desire due to societal influences.  Its true your hormones are part of the issue, but deep down its about finding sincere tenderness to satisfy your unmet need for affection.  A loving touch is what you need, not sexual contact.  Try showing sincere affection/tenderness to those close to you...then they might return the same...and you may find some peace.\n\nAll the best to you!
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aroused, horny, randy, ruttish, turned on
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While it is neither ideal nor average, it does occur. Some people are practically anorgasmic while others have diminished sex drives. This is not necesarily bad since ones pleasure response to sex is to further procreation, but on the other hand that´s one less cheap thrill you can count on. Have you looked for counceling? Most people are sexually turned on by SOMETHING, but its a matter of finding out what.
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Although not common, this is not unheard of.  It is important to differentiate between a desire to have sex, and the enjoyability of the act.  \n\nIf you find you have no desire AND you don't enjoy it, then you may suffer from an asexual disorder.  As mentioned by others, this can be caused by a number of things, from physiological (menopause, hormone imballance, etc), to psychological (stress, acute post tramautic stress disorder, etc).  However, there is a small number of people who just do not have a sexual drive.  Although the reason for this is yet unknown, it is beginning to be studied more and more.\n\nIf you find you have a desire, and just do not enjoy sex, then you would find yourself in a MUCH larger population.  Believe it or not, it is quite common for people to say they are incredibly dissatisfied with their sexual enjoyment, and this goes from men to women.  The causes can be the same as mentioned above, or they could just be due to an unfulfilling sexual partner.  In either case, if you wish to change it, there are a plethora of ways to go about it, starting with self-exploration (talking about looking inside yourself, lets not get gross in here).  There are many books wich can help with this.\n\nFinally, it is important to note that although not everyone feels this way, there is nothing inherently WRONG with you.  This does not make you a freak or anything.  This, like anything else in life, just means you are unique, and is an opportunity for you to explore your uniqueness.
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Your connection to Him will indicate whether your sexual practices are ok or if they are against His will.  Most deviant or sexual practices done in excess are against His will.  You will be firmly notified by extreme anguish and disconnection if your practices do not comply with what He allows you.\n\nA quote by my guidance counselor:\n\n"God also gave us our sexuality, knowing full well that it can get us into trouble. "\n\nBe wary , and be careful.  Focus more on serving Him through prayer and worship and serving Humanity by performing good deeds for those in need or volunteering your time.  You will no longer feel nasty or in a bad mood.  His glory is uplifting.\n\nYhwh bless you,\nCheryl
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A craving, especially sexual.
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There’s no firm number. \nAnybody acts according on own lust and need.\nEvidently you feel better mastu*bating 2-3 times in a day.\nThere’s no contraindication, however!\nOf course, I hope you’re a young people, otherwise, it means that you get some problem.
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it is normal trust me girls have urges to
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because sex is just sex. there's more to interaction than just thrusts. maybe you should seek out something more to an experience than just a primitive urge to spread yo sh*t. but i could be wrong.
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When I feel the 'urge' coming on, I sit down, at the table, grab and ice cold Water, and drink it slowly BEFORE YOU EAT. And think, do I really need this sweet junk? You know the answer. YOu dont have to totally cut it all out, just replace.\nfor example; quakers chocolate chip rice cakes instead of a choclate bar\n\nlow fat ice cream\n\npopsicles, smoothies, yoghurt, pretzels are sweet but healthy.\n\nIf urges are super-bad, swallow some vinegar.
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Love IS emotional, NOT SEXUAL, and something "indefinable" that you feel in your heart and soul for another person. It's so easy to feel alienated in this MATERIALISTIC, DIVORCE-RIDDEN CULTURE OF OURS, where people, especially celebrities, change partners as often as bedsheets (old saying).  LUST IS purely physical, what you feel when you masturbate alone in your bedroom, or LUSTFUL THOUGHTS WHEN you see someone walking down the street, etc. that REALLY AROUSES THE PHYSICAL DESIRES IN YOU !  We all do it, some DENY that they do it, but IT IS SIMPLY part of our human/animal nature (the urge to procreate, perhaps ?)  You couldn't marry someone you weren't at least SOMEWHAT "turned-on" by, could YOU ?  LOVE IS ALSO IN THE MIX, and that's THAT !!!!!!!
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While many today feel that there is nothing wrong or dangerous about feeding sexual fantasies, the Bible disagrees. It clearly explains that there is an intrinsic relationship between what we feed on mentally and how we act. "Each one is tried by being drawn out and enticed by his own desire," points out the Christian disciple James. "Then the desire, when it has become fertile, gives birth to sin." (James 1:14, 15) Jesus said: "Everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."—Matthew 5:28.\nAs James and Jesus both indicate, humans act on the impulse of internal desires. Those desires, when fed and nourished, can in time become powerful obsessions. Obsessions are very hard to resist and can eventually push a person into action. Thus, what we introduce into our minds can have a powerful effect on what we eventually do.\nSexual fantasies can directly interfere with our worship of God. That is why Paul wrote: "Deaden, therefore, your body members . . . as respects fornication, uncleanness, sexual appetite, hurtful desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry."—Colossians 3:5.\nPaul here links sexual appetite with covetousness, which is an inordinate desire for something that one does not have.* Covetousness is a form of idolatry. Why? Because the one coveting puts that desired thing before all else, including God. Pornography stimulates lust for something that one does not possess. "You want somebody else's sexual life. . . . You can have nothing in your mind but that appetite for what you lack. . . . What we lust for, we worship," says one religion writer.
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Information, education and counselling. Its a huge problem so it requires a huge response which is not forthcoming. But still many things are being done to imform people and i think a large proportion of ppl already knw how to save themselves from it. But since Sex is often hard to resist and condoms are difficult to arrange in the heat of the moment, temptation overrides the desire
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Being sexually attracted to someone just means that you just for them. It's like when you see a women from a distance, and it causes you to get a hard on with out her having to do anything to you or for you. It's kinda like you can imagine what she would be like in bed before you even get to the stages of her possibly rejecting you once you have approached her. It can be all that I just said that makes you want to approach her in the first place, and no this was not a stupid question.
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get aroused.lots of foreplay
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What gets you excited, what makes you hot? Do other guys turn you on more than he does, or is it just a matter of nobody turns you on? Do you enjoy sex, does it cause you discomfort, do you feel wrong doing it, do you feel healthy otherwise?  Been in a bad mood lately, if so, why? Lots of reasons for low libido, if it's been going on for a while, and you can't figure out a reason why, might be time to stop by the doctor's office...