what do I do when a guy I met several months does not act like he is into me?
374628
you check your grammer.
227555
Either he IS in a relationship or he ISN'T in a relationship.\nThere is no such thing as 'kinda in'.\nYou are infatuated because he is unavailable to you. Stay out of it. Please try again.
481078
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
648165
Be fun to be with and the guy you date will want to try to win you...sort of like playing hard to get but being someone he would want to get.  And give him a chance...go out with him for a few months to see if something develops within you for him.
829869
If you have feelings for him then don't be a **** buddy.\n\nIf he is not contacting you then let it go.\n\nIf you want something more, let him know what you want and see if he will step up.  Of course if he is not calling you, he is giving you a pretty clear message that he is just not that into you.
80813
Honey, I've always been a strong believer in actions speak louder than words.  If he tells you he likes you, but doesn't act like it, then he's just putting you on.  Forget about him and find a guy that will notice you.  Life's too short to waste on some dork that can't see past his own nose.
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
447158
dear,\nmove on he is not into you! There is someone out there for you i promise. And you can do better that him anyways by what it sounds like. Good luck I f you need any more help contact me esmerelda_sanchez@yahoo.com.
337013
You can't trully know about any serious intentions until you get to know him. I mean really get to know him. If he's popping serious questions now, he's kind of shallow,or he is totally going at it on a feeling.Feelings tend to change,or be heavily conditional. Which means those feeling are only there when the conditions are right. Proceed with caution.
1108410
Well, I think you should just explain to him that he is a nice guy but you just don't feel the spark. Explain that it's not him, it just is not there. Hopefully he will understand....
820493
It sounds like he does like you but isn't ready to make it more evident yet.  Relationships that are built on a solid foundation of friendship last longer than those that are just built on passion.  Invite him when you are going out and let things develop as they do.
946750
If you know him for a while, he wont think its werid at all. Sometimes the best thing to do is the answering machine cuz then you know for sure if he wants to hang out. If you talk occasionally he wont be think'n your bother'n him.
193463
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
108789
It doesn't sound like you invested too much time in this guy. The best thing to do is just move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there who would put more effort into getting to know you and having a meaningful relationship.
260395
one good clue is if he says so. if he doesn't then probably when he doesn't make a move after a couple outings.or you could just come out and ask him that usually works every time.
1165057
You probably really like the guy. In this case nothing you say would seem to be good enough. This is however normal and once you get more comfortable with the person this would go away.
444215
ok sweetie,.. so here it is,.. he is not into you,.. you are setting yourself up for failure and heart break,..\n\nthere is this book,.. you might of heard of it,.. it was on oprah,.. "he's just not that into you",.. buy it, read,.. learn from it,.. good luck