How do i get a boy to notice me when he only pays attention to girls who act all bad?
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just be urself around him..dont be bad like those other chicks..if he still ignores u, then i would just move on..cause those kind of guys r usually bad news..
1140019
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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As a girl if you want to get attention from a guy, there are many efficient and fundamental ways to do so. Let's assume that you do not know very well the guy but would like to know him better or to date him. The most common ways to get his attention: \n\nSmiling politely at him; make sure that he sees it.\nSay "HI" to him whenever you see him in the hallway; a little hand wave is great as well.\nTry to share common interests. If he loves sports, perhaps join him in the same activity.\nTalk to one of his friend to learn more about him or to send the message.\nSend him a card on Valentine's Day. \n\n\nCommunication is very important. You might want to take the first step to talk to him; this can be as simple as "Hey, what's up." in the hallway. Don't forget to include a nice smile.
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ok. i 've got a plan. try to participate in a lot of activities at his school. although you are a 7th grader, there may be activities at his school still. you can become more easily known. like that, some time sooner or later, the boy will come up to you and say, "Hey, you are in the ...*whatever you participated in*" and you will say, "Yeah, I am." ANd then you can began a short introduction there. it won't take too many guts, because he approached you. If he doesn't approach you, then just appraoch him. With things like, "Hi! Do you want to join this club too?" Pretend to be advertising a club. ANd you can say,"This club is really cool becasue of *blank* if you ever want to join contact me I am *say ur name*." It's not that hard.
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Wow,okay first I'm going to start off saying this:Since he's the shy type dont make any conversation to personal or something you know  he can get embarrass or shy about,when you talk to him,compliment anything,his eyes,face,clothes,smile,etc. Anything you find attractive on him,you can be  extra nice,shy boys LOVE nice girls! Trust me,this will work! GoodLuck,hope this helps!!!! :)
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hey, i've always thought girls tend to be too needy. \nand.. ignoring always works, cliché i know. but.. put on ur best clothes, be sexy, flirt with every boy, be kind and smart and ignore him completly and he'll come back. just show him what he lost, what he saw in u the first time, maybe when u were friends or woteva s ur story u laughed a lot and then when u were dating u didn't coz u argued, then make him laugh again . that's my advise.
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Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
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Low self esteem; that's what I see. You think that since you don't have the qualities that other popular girls have, that you aren't noticed by the male gender. So deep down you want what the other girls have - attention. The way to acheive this is, to accept the fact that everyone has his or her assigned talents. May it be good looks, voice, dance, writing, music, singing, or whatever it is. So, you have to find what your best talent is and focus on improving it. But don't do it for attention! Do it, because, it's what you want to do! Then as time goes by your talents will show others who you really are - pay attention to yourself first; everything else will follow, eventually. -peace.
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try finding out some of his interests, start talking about things he likes, (even if you think they suck)  that will get his attention and then he can find out the real you.  if ya'll are already friends, either write him a note cuz i know people freeze up, or ask him if he wants to go to dinner, or a movie, or a club/bar pending on how old you are.  that way he can focus attention on you, and hopefully things will go your way, good luck girl!!
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In seventh grade, I have the same problem( but with a girl, and I'm a boy). Don't come on really strong, but maybe sit by him, get him to like you, and then you can show him your true self, when he likes you and you can tell.\n\nHope it helps
1111044
BE YOURSELF AND THEY WILL COME TO YOU!!! dont try to act cool!! cuz girls notice that kind of stuff!!!
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If they make fun of you then they aren't your friends.  You seem to have fun with the girls and later in life, the other boys will envy your ability to get along well with girls...when they are having trouble talking to girls, you will have plenty of girls at your side.  Think of the future..and oh what a future!!!
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This boy is doing exactly what you seem to want..he is noticing you but in a very clumsy way. He doesn't know how to go about getting a reaction from you so he is trying every angle, sometimes sweet, sometimes sneaky, but always for the same reason. I would say he is behaving in a typical adolescent boyish way.\nWhy don't you ask him for a date, that should put him out of his agony :-)
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I use to have the same problem. If you reallyu actually like him ignore others comments. If you are too bothered about their comments to ignore them tell him about it. Trust me if he really likes you he'll understand.
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Stop being a bully.  Guys don't like that, it doesn't show strength it shows insecurity and that shows weakness.  Be nice and accept that other people aren't perfect and BE NICE!  He'll see your sweetness and want to be around you.  Noone wants to be around a BIG MEANIE!
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Well...first of all...get to know him. Know his personality and let him know yours. I'm sure you both will have sumthing in common. Another thing you could try is making yourself stand out. Like wearing make-up and see if he notices and then possibly he'll comment on you. If he does...go to the clothes. Put sumthin sexy on or w/e or sumthin pretty. Don't try to look like a $lut...just a little sumthing different. Too much can rele affect you and your personality and looks. Just be sure to smile and try your hardest. Don't change too much for him because then your friends won't like wat's changed of you. They like you becuz of you and that boy should think the same. Just try to do this every now and again but not constantly because you shouldn't have to change just for him. Ya gotta be yourself!
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That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.