why do women seem to only notice guys with money and good looks?
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You're 16. Still young.. I bet most of the girls you are interested in are your age or younger.. Girls that age usually don't know better (I'm not saying all, some young girls ARE mature).. What appeals to them then, they grab and hunt it down... \n\nAs the ladies get older we see more to whom the man really is and at the end of the day,it's the guy that treats them right that wins... :) Hang in there.. you'll be fine..
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Be yourself, not everyone goes on good looks.  If you are yourself around someone they really appreciate it and they can also feel comfortable too.  No matter how someone looks it's what's inside that counts.  If that person doesn't like you because you're not as good looking as them then they are really shallow and you're better off without them.  Money doesn't always get good lookers ppl!
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No.  I know a LOT of women Do though.\nThey use it as a measuring device to try to determine how much money the guy has.\nThat doesn't necessarily mean they are gold diggers. Most women, I know, will either look at the guys shoes or car to give them some insight as to how successful the guy is.\n\nDon't lie to yourself though.  I think everybody is intrigued by a financially successful person but that DOES NOT MEAN that women only want rich guys.\n\nNo way.  I have been proposed to, twice by 2 millionaiares and I said no.\n\nI wasn't in love with either one of them.\nI've heard of cases where women married men for their money but they are just cheesy. End of story.\n\nIf you're worried when you see a woman looking at your watch, don't jump to conclusions.  If she's like me, she's just trying to read the time.  I rarely wear a watch except at work.  Too much bling when I'm wearing a bracelet already.\n\nI've seen you a lot on here.  You always ask the most interesting social questions.  You sound worried.\nWell, STOP IT!  I like you!  AND I have no idea how financially stable you are and I don't care!\n\nThere are lot's of women out there just like me.  Give them a chance.
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I think you'll find guys like looking at attractive women but want pretty girlfriends.\nA male judges a females looks by a nice figure.\nA woman judges another woman's looks by how much make-up she wears.\nWe live in a very visual world.\nTall girls? No man wants a woman towering over her.\nMind you, people like Sylvester Stallone/Tom Cruise don't have much of a choice in the matter.
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They are drawn to this type of women by their external appearance and maybe because they have been influenced by the media or the movies. That have lead them to think that a woman like that is hot or is able to fulfill his fantasies.\nBut hey, if you are a happy medium between conservative and unconservative like I am (although more conservative than not most of the time), don't worry. Men will like you not only because you can look good, but because you have a lot more things to offer other than just "looks." What is going to make a guy attached to you is what's on the inside finally.
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Because they don't really know what they want. They know guys will check them out, and then they act stuck up or uninterested so they don't seem like whores. They really just want their ego stroked. It's that simple.
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TYPICAL WOMAN \nONLY LOOKS FOR THE MONEY OR MATERIAL POSSESSIONS THAT A GUY HAS
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looks don't really matter man, there are some great women out there that are not very pretty, but would sell their soul for their man.\n\nMyself, I'll take a not so good looking girl that loves me over being lonely with a hot chick any day.
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Well it all depends on values.  Because if someone only values only looks and money, then they are not going to be happy no matter how rich or beautiful they themselves are.  Case in point, I have a friend who is very beautiful.  In her youth she had many men after her, and she picked a wealthy businessman to marry. I thought with money and looks she'd be happy, but she still focuses on imperfections in her life.  She has a rich husband, but she wishes he were richer, she is beautiful and sought after, but she's not a model.  She has money and looks, but she's the most unhappy and bitter person I know.  People should be jealous of her, instead she is the jealous one.  But with valuing money and looks above everything else, you can't see what is inside, or what lacks inside.
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Science has proven that women are attracted to both. When it comes to having sex they prefer looks because at biological and instinctual level good looks indicate virility, health and good genes for the offsprings. However, good-looking guys are not necessarily best suited to raise their children. Here they look for someone with brains, stability and money. The prefect scenario in woman’s world is to get impregnated by the most handsome guy regardless of financial status and have the richest and most stable man pay to raise her children and keep her comfortable. So if you are handsome, you get sex. If you are stable and financially independent you get marriage.  Many women will not admit this, but it is also proven that they have these preferences and act on them subconsciously. Read the book: Blink by Malcolm Gladwell.\nIf you are like most other guys, you don’t have it all. In this case you do the best with what you got. Focus on you strength!
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umm, where in the world does it state that all girls aren't after money?  Some girls just are, the high maintenance ones who always want expensive things.  Rich guys also only want beautiful woman on their arms to show off and when you got enough money ur sure to get her. For some girls its all about what she has and how much of it.
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Some women love to be worshipped (especially the shallow gorgeous ones.) Some prefer more of a partnership with their man. Depends who you get.
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1) Some woman like their man to look good, they want a handsome guy - that is the superficial type.\n\n2) Some women are more sexual than others, it is most important for them the guy to be strong and potent in a sexual way - this is another superficial but playful type.\n\n3) Some women want a provider, a husband, a father for their unborn children, I don't think they are as concerned about the first two points. These are the women who innately feel obligated to continue the human race, and that is good.\n\n4) Some women can't handle if the man is not smart, they don’t care about looks or material fortune, they need someone to understand them - idealistic, intellectual type.\n\n5) Some women think someone else's money could bring them happiness and a better life, they need a man with money, or someone they think would be able to make money - this is the unhappy type, I don't know if they really exist, haven't met a woman like that. \n\nAnd so on
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Hate to tell you honey, but not all of us beautiful women crave attention, we just get it...When I was younger (16-25) it got so bad, I stayed at home a lot.  It was just too overwhelming..  My girlfriends wouldn't even go out on the town with me, because it drove them crazy too.  I'm older now, have had a few babies, married 17 years, but even still if I go to the grocery store in sweat pants and a ball cap, I get more attention than I like.  The real question should be, Why do Men think all attractive women are looking for sex?
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What else do you expect? Girls are attracted towards intellectual conversationalists and humor. And money is a magnet that attracts everyone.
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Maybe you have beautiful eyes ;)\nJust maybe they see genuine kindness which you don't see in most guys(or peoples) eyes.
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Dpends on the age of the guy and girl.  Highschool, the girl wants a guy who looks good, and status items like a nice car, bike, bling.  College, girls want good looking guys with lots of money, or who are entering a career field that will make lots of money.  Over 30, looks are less important, girls now want men with MONEY and are good at sex.  Look at yourself as a commodity, as in "What can a girl get from me / use me for"  If you have anything of value to a woman, wich could be humor, personality etc.. ,then you will get one