Ladies only: Why do you think she hasn't called me back (after sex)?? Please read details before answering..
366651
She's freaked out that it's getting serious. She may be in the habit of keeping emotionally distant. Good at being intimate sexually, but when there's the possibility  to add a relationship into the mix, she may freak out and be distant. Her attempt to push you away to make sure doesn't get too serious.
934488
She definitely didn't mean what she said. Very bad you didn't get the message. Next time she said something like that, you do something sexy to her like hugging or kissing her deeply with some foundling and so forth - trust me, you'll be surprised to see another "her" in love action (lol).
776316
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
667900
i Think you should call the person and ask them politely but firmly why they haven't called you. if they say something like I've been busy or caught up with things, let it slide this once. if this is not the the first time they did this, you should ask them how come they couldn't give me a call at least to see how u were doing. it depends on how long you have been with the person, if its a serious, and other things like that.\n  in my opinion, i address thee problem with them after the 5th day i hadn't heard from them.
215213
Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
579945
The question you should be asking is WHY hasnt she wanted to have sex with you in 3 months ? Usually women dont want to have sex when they are being treated badly by their man.  Have you ever talked to her about it ? Start there rather than with your little head.
655513
Don't worry about what you did so much.  He flaked on you when he bailed on the road trip.  His phone had to be working, so He was blowing you off.  He hasn't been returning your calls until he finds out you slept with someone.  Being a guy and see this happen many times, I am almost certain that he has another girl on the side.  If a guy is into you, he can't wait for you to call.  he tries to figure out excuses to call you.  When his phone rings and he knows its you, he will immediately answer.  If he misses the call, he will call you back just as soon as possible.  It doesn't sound like your man does this, so you don't owe him anything.  If anything, he still owes you.  I wouldn't worry if he trusts you, you shouldn't be trusting him.  He isn't acting like a boyfriend, he is acting like he uses you for sex and when he ain't getting it elsewhere, he comes calling on you.  This all smells fishy to me.
463642
Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
276827
She is totally wacked and needs serious professional help, more than you can give her.  If I were you, I'd run like the wind and don't look back!  I've lost my virginity too, but what's that got to do with anything?  Forget about that BS.  The new chick, let's hope you've improved your selection, but she's bound to be an improvement.  Get a grip man.  This is an obvious...get out while the going's good before she decides to cut her name on your leg or worse, pulls a Bobick on your balls when she thinks you somehow crossed her.
243372
You're feeling lust.  But, it hasn't been that long ago since the two of you made love.  Give her some time to come around.  Don't call her until she calls you.  You have left enough messages so.  If she hasn't called in five days, move on.
502219
Have you called her to ask and make sure she isn't mad at you for some reason?  If she isn't, then maybe she has found a boyfriend, or another girlfriend, or maybe she is just kind of depressed.  People go through this kind of thing every once in a while.  Just give her some space, and if she really truly was a good friend, she'll come back after a while.
418309
I wanted to answer this only because I appreciated the answer you gave my question.\n\nSo, no one has actually given you a real answer yet. Have you noticed?\n\nYou feel obligated to commit for one reason only: more sex.\n\nHave you noticed almost all the answers you got came from girls, most of them not even mature enough to have any experience of a committed relationship.\n\nGirls say they want a commitment usually AFTER SEX!\n\nWhy is that?\n\ncontrol of you, buddy. She has her own agenda, just like you, two human beings finding out what this part of life is like. \n\nDon't know until you have the experience.\nNo one is wrong in this, she knew what she was getting into when she let you inside her. Otherwise all the responsibility is placed on your head.\nAre you her parent? Are you responsible for her feelings?\n\nMy experience is that only I am responsible for my feelings. I am also responsible for my actions.\nYou sound like you want to be accountable for yourself, so is she willing to be accountable for her actions, too.\n\nBoth of you didn't communicate very well, and that's what people do. We get to learn how to do this stuff the hard way, by doing it. You always have a second chance you do the right thing.\n\nNow, can you be honest with her about what YOU want?\nIs she ready to truely commit?\nWhat is it you want in a relationship?\n\nTry writing this stuff down and ask the men you trust about how to know what is important to you.\n\nGood job.
819655
she does not call you because she knows that you are going to call. I was that exact same way with my boyfriend i called him constantly and always wanted to talk and he never called me and didnt seem interested in talking well one day i finally stopped calling and what do you know guess who starts ALWAYS calling me and wanting to talk to me?!? Your rihgt!! He did!!! Give it a try i am almost positive it will work it may take a couple days to a week though! Good luck!
1147592
I think you hurt her. The thing about this situation, is you messed with a girl who cared for you and now that you showed her your bad temper, it made her realize that she doesnt need that in her life. Men dont understand that half the reason why women leave them is because they have said something that offends their girlfriends. Girls have mixed emotions that get hurt easily. It seems like you hurt her feelings. Just keep calling, she may or may not answer. But next time you need to listen to her side of the situation first, unstead of jumping to conclusions and yelling at her before you even know why she didnt call back. Good Luck
1059229
Let me give you a tip that I use all the time. If he said he was going to call you, then you wait for him to call you. Control your hand when you are thinking about reaching for the phone!! It's called self-control. I just used it 20 minutes ago. If you call him it will seem that you are desperate to talk to him. You will get used to this as you get older. A lot of guys say they will call you when they get home but guys get distracted easiliy. So my guy friend wants to help. He wants to know when you guys had sex? When were u guys sexually active  or has it been in the equastion the whole time? Did u guys have sex before or after he said I Love You?
700683
Most women with class and self respect have a time limit to when they will have sex with you, even though she is sending sexy signals , the signals are to let you know that when she is ready she will have sex with you but until then they will play coy and flirt with you like crazy. for me  i have 4 month rule.  and the reason for the 4 month rule is to make sure that the guy is all he says he is. and i will tell them from the beginning that i have a 4 month rule right away it weeds out the get em and hit em guys. and for me and my experiences not many guys last but the true man really do and for those who have waited the wait is well worth it . and that's when i know that i have a pretty decent guy lol