how do i know id i really love this guy that i am with?
373955
Honestly, if you have doubts then I doubt you really love him.
56578
Listen very carefully...\n\nShow him what you just asked us...\n\nAnd then ask him what he would like...\n\nBut I have a pretty good feeling he already knows how much you love him and doesn't need a reminder...
1044893
you identify first on what is really your feeling towards him.. if you like him then go on..regarding his actuations some guys  would make fool on you if they like you or do things that would make you feel jealous..in that way also they will discover they're feelings for you.
434663
ask him why he loves or what he loves about you... or say "I want a divorce", "I'm seeing someone else", or (my fav. since my "abduction") "I screwed a chicked", if he has a "sudden" and radical action... yeah he, more than likely, love you.
1037427
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
1021636
u can tell if he's all u think about and if u walk in a room full of guys with him hes the only guy u see. I u smile everytime u think about him if u can't go a day without hearing his voice. if just seeing him everyday makes ur day. I can relate to u because im in love with my bf and its hard to explain its like u just know that ur in love. Good luck with u and the guy ur in love with. Only u will know if ur truly in love can't nobody tell u if ur in love
989739
Well consider the amount of time that you've gotten to know him. Have you been friends long enough to see his true colors?  All that matters is how comfortable you are with him and how much you trust him. If you have a connection that feels like its something special and just cant hold your feelings back then I say go for it!
147852
How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.
54898
just ask him directly and look into his eyes...actually if you really feel love for this person, you will right away see it thru his eyes if he's lying...
1164397
It means you were able to see yourself with him! You realized that this was the man you are in love with! It's a wonderful feeling!If he loves you the way you love him you will have this feeling forever! Enjoy it.
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
217249
tough 1! Well if u feel u lov him u must b pretty close. Who knows, mayb he is thinking the same thing but doesnt know what youll think. my sugestion is if you luv him enough then u should tell him. Im sure he'll feel the same way!;)
576544
Don't listen to all the narrow minded answers you received.\nLike many relationship issues, there are few black and white answers.\nYou have to consider many things, do you love him, does he love you, is he truly sorry, are you two happy together.\nYou never know, this could just strengthen your relationship.
246870
i think that you sould ask him bout what he think and if he can't anwer you then you sould know if he in love with you.take your time in your relationship
866600
Wait until you really feel it and know for a fact that you love him.
276908
You will know when you're both in love. There will be a feeling like you can't get enough of that person.  Like you belong together. You will feel completed and happy with your life.
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!