Why married man cannot luv wife & girlfriend simaltanieously? If they both aggree??
370210
Those would be weak women who agree to that. Keep dreaming...
242239
Think to yourself...Is casual sex with my wife's best friend going to hurt or enhance my marriage? You must hate your wife to even consider doing something that would cause her nothing but heart-ache and embarrassment
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
402881
He might not have the right but he still might be hurt, people cheat for different reasons and you can't say that he dont love her.  His cheating is disrespective but you can't say he dont luv her.
757209
He probably just came to terms that you two will never be.  You are married, he is married...why continue and put other people's feelings at risk?
443607
He isn't truly happy if he's looking for something on the side. And if he was a decent person, he wouldn't be going behind his wife's back and taking a chance on getting caught and hurting her. If he truly loves his wife and family, he wouldn't be doing what he's doing. And not all men are like him, at least I hope not or I might as well give up now!!
930820
I would keep doing it.  You obviously have no respect for your wife, so why let her get in the way of your sleezy relationship?
217184
western men are so wierd (you are definitely one)....how can a man accept the fact that his wife cheats on him ? accept, feels sad and even tries to get her back...this is way beyond me !!!!! God.....
263500
You could have tried, but he may not have believed you.  Infidelity by a loved one usually is something that many people need to see for their own eyes to believe.  Especially, if the marriage seems fine to them on the outside.
671507
Yes a married woman can still be in love with her husband even though he has not been faithful. My husband has done it. And yes right now we do not live together but everyday that he is gone the more I miss him and the more I relize just how much I truely love him. That's why they add in the for better or worse in the vows...
161068
Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
274478
Yes, you have to know it takes two to make a marriage work it could have been something that happened on the wife's end. You can't just blame the man. It is however different because you can't bring the "baggage" with you. If you were burned don't let you insecurities ruin future relationships with girls. Be patient someone will come and take you just as you are. Yes i know it takes two to make a marriage work but sometimes things just can't be fixed.
425721
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
39025
This is absolutely wrong. He for one should respect his wife and her feelings, so he should either find a nice way to tell her of his friendship with other ladies and introduce them to his wife and try to find a way to convince her to accept him having female friends or just love her and respect her wishes and not have friends she does not approve of.
76953
Why can the two things not coexist?  Perhaps it depends upon your definitions of loving, supporting, and independent.  I don't see whereas a wife can not be independent while still being loving and supportive of her husband.
75002
Think of all the ways you romanced your wife before you was married. Did you buy her flowers? Take her on night strolls? Did you shower with her or run her bath when she comes home from work? At times we tend to forget that the men/women that we marry still need to be romanced and catered to. Its a beautiful thing that happens for two people and they feel appreciated. This is what I think your wife is telling you.