i need help....i cant get my GF out of my mind...?
368337
IDKY But it seems i have the same problem right now. I can't get my boy friend out of my mind, and he too lives in a different state...LOL...Hmmm. imagine that. weird.
314318
Maybe it is not that kind of love.  Find a way to spend more time with her and make sure before you just lay it on her and completely blow her mind.
625204
hey firstly gals  are always unpredictible n show her  that u care  for her n do  it  in  every possible way flatter her a lil and  suddenly stop all thus  make  her  realise  tht  u have  started  avoidin her  n u know  wat i mean.when  she  will  find  u changing she  will b more thn eager to know the reason.if  u both go to college together thn tell her  someday  tht  u will not b  comin tommorow  but when  she will find  tht u came to the   college  next wothout companing her  she  will thnk  about it n  repeat it for two or  three days start callin her but do hang up on her after a  lil conversation n try this man  it really works ..........gud luk .....peace
108226
just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
412328
sorry to hear that.. I am going through the same issue..Your gf deserves to have ur trust, and u hers...Well, you should talk to her.. and explain your reasons.. That is wat I had to do too..I love him so much too and I really do not want to let him go..Talk to her and tell her the yelling thing doesn't work...teach her some other strategies to express herself..I wish everything works out for ya..
631252
I highly suggest that you break up with her already since you sound serious about cheating on her. You should not heart her if in your mind it's already over just let her go without hurting her any more than you have to. If you ever really cared about her don't do something that you know is gonna cause her more pain even if the relationship is in a bad place.
1054250
whoa...how old are you? there is so much wasted energy here. can't you talk to your girlfriend? why don't you take control and ask her how she feels, what is going on, and why you can't get a single date with her without her cousin tailing you guys.  if you want to be an honourable man, choose between your gf and her cousin and don't mess around...
887974
I think that you should ask her what is wrong first to see if she will open up to you.Then if she doesn't then ask her if you can take her out sometime to get her mind off of whatever is bothering her. But DON'T avoid and ignore her. You never know she might be feeling the same feelings towards you!
250218
If you really care for your girl tell her.  But be gentle about it because you know how woman tend to think other wise when it comes to certain thinks.  I know cause I'm guilty of it too.  Let her know you care about her and you are not saying this to hurt her, you just fell that she should know so maybe she can talk to her roommate.
709927
You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
123228
if you think its best to forget him, then you need to get busy, and stay busy. the best way to get your mind off of something is to put your mind on something else. although i dont believe you will "forget." forgetting is something we rarely achieve.
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
1105156
big big mistake,,never never invite them over for the nite if u dont want her,,maybe for a few hours but not  more then that ,,,us women can get the wrong ideal about love,,,,,,be honest with her sounds like shes  infatuated with you..and if she is thats all your fault..it will hurt her in the long run but let her know before the weekend,,,dont string her along
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
128669
have a long talk with her.  i was going to say spy on her, but then if she catches you that proves that you dont trust her.  you have to trust your girlfriend.  talk to her first.  if you won't talk to her, and you have a very strong feeling she really is cheating on you, then prepare yourself for the truth.
120552
The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.