how do forget the one    that you  love?
356387
"love" is an over-used word. most people say they love someone, and really what they mean is they like them a lot or are sacked with unbridled lust. example: every six months or so, my best friend falls "in love" with someone new, and when the relationship falls apart, she is crushed until the next guy comes along. once, i thought i really really loved this guy - this went on for three years - and he did nothing but lie to me and play the field the entire time, and i was miserable and heartbroken constantly, and though i wanted desperately to be with him, i knew i was much better off forgetting the asshole was ever born. i deliberately stopped going places i knew he would be for a while (because the very sight of the person you are trying to get over can sometimes bring on bouts of self-pity and sorrow), and every time i started to think of him, i forced myself to stop and think of something that made me happy. no lies, it took a good while to forget about him, but i finally did, and now my life is SO much better.
706519
The best way to get an ex out of your head is to erase him.\n\nDelete his number from your contact on your phone.\n[so you don't think about him when you are scrolling through]\n\nDelete/destroy emails/letters he has sent you.\n[Reminiscing in the past is BAD]\n\nGet rid of photos\n[The less you see him the less you will think about him.]\n\nJust start over. Like life was before you met him.\n\nSoon you will think about him less and less. Then move on.\n\nIt is easy to hide your feeling from someone that doesn't exist to you anymore.
492834
LOVE SUCKS IF YOU"RE NOT ON ITS GOOD SIDE...so you want to forget it but you cant cuz its LOVE
1048244
Well, unfortunately you can't erase the memories of past relationships. There is always going to be something that reminds you of that person. A good way to bypass the baggage is not to use it against the new love.  They don't deserve to be compared to or treated as if they are going to be the same way. Not everyone is the same way. Have a positive outlook on any new relationship and learn from the previous ones.
168180
No one said that your heart had to forget him.  Love always keeps a place in our hearts.  The key is for you to accept it for what it was and to move forward.  You can't make someone love you who doesn't and you deserve to go on and be happy and find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
120948
Realistically, you can't completely forget someone you used to love. At least, I can't. Everyone I've ever loved will always be a part of who I am. They are part of the influences in my life who have made me a better person. Even if they were horrible people, I've become better by the lessons learned. Don't try to forget...just open your heart to yourself and your own strength...and allow your life to "absorb" the hurt. Then the moving on will happen naturally, without the effort...and you will be a finer person for your experiences. (if you choose to be)
329005
When you can quit thinking about them. When you know you can let them go without concern. Not that you won't always care but this that its different. You have to be able to tell yourself you can move on and your over them and know you mean it. This is the hardest thing in the world to do. Don't make the mistake of using another person to try to prove to yourself its over. Not fair to you or the other person.
1078858
You do not need to erase the memories of this girl. Only file them away as a beautiful time in your life. This girl was obviously under some pressure herself and that is not your fault. Remeber the times that you shared with her and carry them with you but do just that carry them. Go on with your life and make yourself happy. I truly believe that there is someone out there that will absolutely love your passion and heart. Go find her and have a life of your own. Iam not saying forget this other girl just find someone that can make you happy. Memories are just that memories. Move on.
809422
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone, or attempt to share it, it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, find someone new, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
218875
by seeing other people...make new friend... you'll forget about that person
371213
The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
502156
the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
1051670
Remember her. Best thing you can do.\n\nLosing anyone close to you is hard... Just remember them. They will live forever in your heart.\n\nIt will hurt a lot at first, when you think of her... but slowly, those hurts will subside, and the smiles will shine through... Remembering the good times you had together... Smile through it all.\n\nGood luck to you hun.\n\n~Becca
661468
You can't just forget your feelings you need to talk about them and get them out.  Talk to a freind and tell them how you feel aboout that person if you keep talking about it you will start to feel better.  If you try to forget them you will feel worse.
77862
Simply, stay out of contact from the person u love for about 3 or 4 days . . if u r in luv >>u will really know well ....