How do you break up with someone that has done nothing wrong...Serious Only Plz?
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
29792
You have every right to break up with them, and are making the right choice in ending it before you get married. Just tell the person that you can't marry her. There really is no easy way to say it, but you are saving both of you a huge pain by cutting it off before it starts. Good job. Most people in your situation get married, and then regret it for the rest of thier lives.
1074876
There is no easy way to do this. I wonder though, if you love him so much, why break up? Consider your reasons and then be straight and honest with him. Then go your own way. Good luck with this.
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
407294
break up find someone else
317288
You can't accidentally break up with someone.\n\nIf she really feels like it was an accident, maybe she should try to explain herself to him.
4813
I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
865831
You should give him the same exact respect you would want him to give you...but I have a feeling you have already gone beyond where that line is with you.\nSit down with him.  Tell him how much he has meant to you, but that you have changed and he doesn't mean that anymore.  Be honest, the worst thing you can do to yourself is lie.\nI would caution you on one thing though-the new relationship is always going to seem exciting-at first.  Then it becomes just another relationship.  Don't keep the current guy hanging on while you find that out.  Since you betrayed his feelings, it is better for him if you move out now and be honest with him.\nI am not judging you harsly, it just sounds that way.  I have been on  BOTH sides of this arguement so I know what you are feeling and I know what he is going to go through.  \nJust be a good person about it, as good as you can anyway.
567629
No it isn't wrong. If you dont wanna be around someone who does that then break up with him and find someone who is clean.
391617
Tell her what you just wrote.\nTell her to meet you at a familiar romantic spot that the two of you used to go to, while sitting next to each other gently reach your hand up to the side of her face where it meets her jaw, turn her face towards you without speaking, so that her eyes meet your gaze and then say sweetly and softly "I know that I hurt you and I will never forgive myself for that. Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. I was scared because I had such strong feelings for you. It's embarassing for me to admit this but... I have never felt this way about a girl before. But I'm just not ready to let you go. I love you and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me, I really want to give us another chance." \n***Then kiss her softly on her mouth just as she's about to respond***\n\nAfter the shock of the kiss coupled with your heartfelt although cliche confession, I guarantee that she will be putty in your hands! Trust Me!!
1127746
do what you did with every other guy in the past..or just pretend you are cheating on him
189016
You sound like your having break-up remorse. First of all could you forgive him for what he did if he did do it? Lets just say he did, do you love him enoughf to let it go? You have to have relationships with trust, trust is the most important part in a relationship. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Also remember that there are alot of potential people out there. Everytime I broke up with a girl I dreaded it and wanted her back, then when I took her back, I really wish I didn't because all I thought about was why I broke up with her in the first place.
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
1070630
Get some guts! Act like you don't give a crap and start spending some time with your girl and guy friends, if he doesn't snap out of it, dump him. The pain of breaking up is only temporary, the joy of getting even is lifelong.
767092
break up with him and go with me
322973
Meet him at a public place, like the food-court at a mall. Bring one or two friends with you. And tell him face-to-face. Thats the mature way to do it. You owe it to him to give him this chance to ask you, directly, what went wrong and why you are breaking up with him. Doing it with notes or email doesnt let both you and he say what needs to be said.