There is a guy ....he is well just a friend how do I take things furthur without being obvious..?
370771
why would you like to not be obvious about it? If you want to go further past a friendship, you need to be straight up with him and talk about how you feel for him ... drawback is, that if he doesnt feel same way for you, he might take a step back.\n\n\n...but you could get him REALLY REALLY drunk and take advantage of him. :p
957619
Treat him as a casual acquaintance. Do not expect to give out any 'extras' at this point.
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
310010
HES YOUR FRIEND so its OK. just ask. If he blows you off just say that you had no one 2 go with and he was da closest thing to a date you can find -and laugh it off. Use flattery and be jokey. Than ask him if he knows anyone you can go with to change the subject this way you can still be friends if he gives you the crunch- GOOD LUCK
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
326803
well if you don't know him well, start talking to his friends maybe, find his AIM name, or(this may be an awkward situation) you can just talk tohim one day and just start talking, if you want to right away you could ask if he wanted to go out for a movie or dinner. get things started
919488
you don't have to make a big move... just start talking to him more and see if he maybe wants to hang out some time... if you never take the next step you will never know what could happen
40418
Just be his friend.  If things don't work out with his current gf, then be his shoulder.  You might be next...
481714
Tell him camly. Don't rush through it. But first tell him how you want to be friends no matter what. Then try and be relaxed and just tell him straight forward. It's risky b/c you might lose your friend but that's a chance you've got to take.Good luck
125505
tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
961097
His true intentions have been revealed.  Why do you want to be friends with such an immature person?  \n\nCut contact with him.
512679
If this guy is your freind and u think that you know him well, then you should know what his reaction is going to be so you should do what you think is best. Follow ur heart. I know that sounds cheeesy but it's good advice.
528721
don't be rude, but try not to be overly friendly with him.. if he keeps insisiting on doing "friend things" then tell him how you really feel, because you don't want him to lead him on, or have him get the impression that you want to be friends with him..
357599
The best thing you can do is be honest. tell him that he's a really good guy but not your type. Say ''is it OK if we can still be friends''? If he Say's no just say you understand and move on. It's not like it's the end of the world or anything.
360411
Let him know just how you truly feel but be ready for the consequences like him saying he wants to be "just friends" Maybe he doesn't think he knows you well enough to jump into it right now but stick by his side if you do care thats what good frineds are for, still letting him know how you feel just by being there for him.
577181
Give him a chance to be you friend, your not talking marriage, just friendship.
1156364
Just go and approach him and be frank. That looks diificult but trust me it is extremely easy.