My mom doesnt let me have a boyfriend and i have 1 anyways wat should i do?
363921
Break up with him and listen to your mom.
64826
i guess u are pretty down now right? because of ur moms death... u sure feel very lost and need someone to be by ur side right... but finding a girlfriend wont solve ur problem ,it will only solve ur loneliness for a moment only , resposible will come over after that...try to find more friends and relatives, if u planned to get married, find someone that is resposible but not by the look , coz if its true love, it will lead to marriage and lead to responsible and also happiness! try to be ur self and find a partner that is understandable , have qualities , but dont base totally on the feelings cause as time pass , feelings will change but the qualities and characteristic will last. Therefore for in the long run relationship, find for someone that can communicate with u !and enjoy life!
319783
You need to tell your mom, that you don't appreciate her violating your trust. If she keeps this up, you will be reluctant to tell her anymore of your life.\nI don't think your Mom would like that, that's a bond that shouldn't be broken, especially for some boyfriend, who may not be around that long.\nBoyfriends can come and go, but you will be Mother and Daughter for life. Ask your Mom, what is more important to her, your trust, or her trying to please her boyfriend.\nSurely there has to be some other subject, other that your private life that they can talk about.\nIf she merely tells him of some success you may have in school or on a project, that's fine, that's just a Mom's pride in her daughter.\nYour private life should be out of bounds. Ask her  how she would feel, if you did the same to her, by telling all your friends about her private life.
306551
I would talk straight up to your mom and your boyfriend and if nothing comes out then all three of you sit down and discuss the situation because that is kinda strange. look your boyfirend straight in the eye and ask him.
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
340616
Nah, you don't need one.  Have as much fun as you can without one.  Enjoy your free time and not stressing about it.  One will come along eventually.\n\nRemember, it's better to not have a boyfriend than to have a boyfriend who is a jerk or a loser.
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
1044029
I have similer problems. Me and my girflriend love eachother but her mom doesnt want us to go out. Right now her mom doesnt even know that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I can only call her about once every week. What we decided to do was be boyfriend and girlfriend but start going on actual dates when we are 16 so that we can drive ourselves. Just ask your dad if he can come over or soemthing and see if that works
271951
First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
881525
U really should wait until you're a bit older, maybe till you're a teenager before you have a boyfriend.\n\n:-)
846653
Livi, I have a daughter, she's 21 now.  I would be heart broken to know that she was hurting and confused.  And if she doesn't even know you got your period, then honey I think you need to skip the boyfriends for awhile and get to know your Mom.\n\nI remember when I was in the seventh grade, you are going through a lot of emotional stuff right now.  A Mom you can talk too would be great.  Can't you see yourself sharing some of this with her.  Please try.\n\nNow, about this nineth grader.  If you really really like him, then talk to him.  Tell him up front you aren't going in for no kissing and no touching.  If he can't deal with that, then drop him.  If he's truly interested in you then he will give the chance to be comfortable with the idea of kissing him.  My daughter broke up with a boy because he started smoking again.  So, you be careful with young man.  I don't want to read on here later on that you went out with him and now you are pregnant.  \n\nKissing, touching, and even sex is fun stuff, I am not going to lie to you.  But with it comes other stuff that's not so fun.  You don't sound you are ready for this kind of relationship, and if you don't want to sound like a "baby" or not cool, then tell him you are grounded.  Or tell him the truth that you haven't gotten permission from your Mom, and she would ground you for life if you went out with him without her ok'ing it.\n\nLivi, please see if you can speak to your Mom.  Give her another chance.  We parents don't always don't know the right answers, but we do care.\n\nGod bless us all..........
179553
Tell your mom.  If you don't he may start forcing you to have sex with you.  This is not a safe thing for you.  If you can't talk to your mom about this, talk to someone else that you can trust.
834262
Sorry your only 12, way too young to be thinking about dateing. Your mom is a smart woman, listen to her. Her reasons are the only thing that matters. Ask her again when your lets say... 15? .. plus boys are morons at that age.. dont ruin your outlook on men at such a young age.. wait
513322
well how old are u, if your over sixteen i would try to talk with your parents about letting you date.  i just want to say there really isnt a rush it will all be there when your out on your own.  enjoy being young honey because before to long you will now that the real world can be a rough place.
683862
If you love this man then by all means marry him. If you allow your mother to rule your love life you will be miserable for the rest of your life.\nMy mother hated my boyfriend. I met him when I was 13, we got married when I was 19 and have been married 10 years now and together 16! My mom still isn't too fond of him, but has learned that he isn't going anywhere and she just has to deal with it. \nGood Luck.. hopefully your mother will come around and see that he makes you happy.
682749
The best thing you can do is go out and be around the general public. I know far too many woman who just stay at home all day and cry over why they don't have boyfriends. I keep telling them to go out to the mall, or a bar, or a club, or something, but they never do and the only people they can blame are themselves. So, basically, get out and go to fun places. You can meet a good significant other anywhere.