how can oral sex be RAPE?
372984
I assume you're referring to oral penetratiion. This is classed as rape. The victim probably didn't fight back for the same reasons victims in other rape cases dont fight back - fear, panic, confusion. The standard of proof of intent in rape cases is not just that the man must know the victim does not consent, but also if he is reckless as to consnet  - that is he eitehr doesn't care if sbe consents or not or fails to check if she consnts. So if he forced her to do something, and she didn't want to do it, and he didn't check this .... thats rape.
1098117
No. Neither is oral sex
996223
Seriously- Sexually. In all honesty, Oral sex.THe art of seduction.
879356
Depends on how the law is written, and it should be in the law!! There is no reason for anyone to automatically think that a man can't get raped, even if they have an erection while drunk! That is an autonomous response for the most part. Men usually have erections at night while asleep. It doesn't mean they want to be raped!
240203
Yes, it is absolutely possible.  Don't do it thinking it is a safe alternative to intercourse.
890968
Rape is Rape.  It doesn't matter if your married.  If you force a woman to perform a sexual act (even your wife) it is rape.  Just because a woman marries does not mean she gives up her right to say no.  This is the law in all 50 states.
1016986
Yes it is.  If one partner says no at any point, the other should stop.  Any time that you say you do not want to do a sexual activity and the other person does it to you anyway, it's rape.
426336
Wrong section to ask this Q.  But, yes, she can, and yes, it is still rape.  "Getting wet" is about as voluntary as getting and erection; sometimes you want to but can't, sometimes you don't want to but can't help it.  But if a girl says no and the man continues to force her to have sex (regardless of whether she is wet/drunk/a stripper/passed out/etc.) then it is still rape.
1064073
Verbally Raped you? I'm gonna need an explaination on that\n\nAnd maybe you like to be mistreated, knew a girl like that.
1020518
i bet you already know the answer to this question. because you said "and how is it done." that implies that you know that foreplay can be done somehow. thats like asking 'what is an apple and how does it taste." doesnt that tell you that i know youre suppose to eat an apple? anyway, maybe you should just go ride your bike or something.
508024
NO, it is not. It is there desition, no one else. It is there chioce, so if they make the wrong one, they will learn from there mistakes. I am a 16 yearold my self. It is no form of rape if they agreed to do it.
271239
As the other answerers said, rape means penetration, vaginal, oral or a-nal. Assault is touching breasts and genitals. There can be verbal assault as well, if someone tells you precisely what kind of sexual activity he/she imagines having with you, or even telling very obscene jokes.
390348
Yes, many women have orgasms when they are raped.  It makes it psychologically much worse.  It causes a huge amount of guilt because they think there's something wrong with them.  It is not uncommon, in fact, there are a lot of women who report having had their first orgasm when they were raped... for those who don't believe me check out any rape counseling web site.\n\nSo many of the answerers are spouting jibberish with no actual knowledge of the subject.  An orgasm is a physiological response, which some women DO have while being raped.  It doesn't mean that they enjoyed the experience, it does in fact make it much worse.  The women (men can get erections and orgasms while being raped as well) are much more traumatized because they can't explain how they could have had an orgasm in such a painful and disgusting experience.  Yes, this occurs is violent rapes as well as less violent ones.  I'm sorry for those of you who see this as an impossibility, but it is accepted fact.  I would very much like for an actual rape counselor to answer here, but it probably won't happen.
142685
you can go to prision for that \nit's called rape..\nreally if you knowing take advantage of someone for sex you could end up in deep *hit..
547939
"Is that a. . . .way of saying 'oral sex?'"\n\n-No. . .but we should start saying that!
597358
well during oral sex u can do everything using ur mouth. like licking the penis or the vagina. putting ur tongue inside her and feeling her clitoris.
367137
Can I get HIV from oral sex? \nYes, it is possible for either partner to become infected with HIV through performing or receiving oral sex. There have been a few cases of HIV transmission from performing oral sex on a person infected with HIV. While no one knows exactly what the degree of risk is, evidence suggests that the risk is less than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex. \n\nIf the person performing oral sex has HIV, blood from their mouth may enter the body of the person receiving oral sex through \n\nthe lining of the urethra (the opening at the tip of the penis); \nthe lining of the vagina or cervix; \nthe lining of the anus; or \ndirectly into the body through small cuts or open sores. \nIf the person receiving oral sex has HIV, their blood, semen (cum), pre-seminal fluid (pre-cum), or vaginal fluid may contain the virus. Cells lining the mouth of the person performing oral sex may allow HIV to enter their body. \n\nThe risk of HIV transmission increases \n\nif the person performing oral sex has cuts or sores around or in their mouth or throat; \nif the person receiving oral sex ejaculates in the mouth of the person performing oral sex; or \nif the person receiving oral sex has another sexually transmitted disease (STD). \nNot having (abstaining from) sex is the most effective way to avoid HIV. \n\nIf you choose to perform oral sex, and your partner is male, \n\nuse a latex condom on the penis; or \nif you or your partner is allergic to latex, plastic (polyurethane) condoms can be used. \nStudies have shown that latex condoms are very effective, though not perfect, in preventing HIV transmission when used correctly and consistently. If either partner is allergic to latex, plastic (polyurethane) condoms for either the male or female can be used. For more information about latex condoms, see "Male Latex Condoms and Sexually Transmitted Diseases." \n\nIf you choose to have oral sex, and your partner is female, \n\nuse a latex barrier (such as a natural rubber latex sheet, a dental dam or a cut-open condom that makes a square) between your mouth and the vagina. A latex barrier such as a dental dam reduces the risk of blood or vaginal fluids entering your mouth. Plastic food wrap also can be used as a barrier. \nIf you choose to perform oral sex with either a male or female partner and this sex includes oral contact with your partners anus (analingus or rimming), \n\nuse a latex barrier (such as a natural rubber latex sheet, a dental dam or a cut-open condom that makes a square) between your mouth and the anus. Plastic food wrap also can be used as a barrier. \nIf you choose to share sex toys with your partner, such as dildos or vibrators, \n\neach partner should use a new condom on the sex toy; and \nbe sure to clean sex toys between each use. \nIf you would like more information or have personal concerns, call CDC-INFO 24 Hours/Day at 1-800-CDC-INFO (232-4636), 1-888-232-6348 (TTY), in English, en Espaٌol. \n\nBut on the other hand reports say it is very minimal:\nhttp://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn1156