HELP, are we more than just friends?
371398
give her time. If you liek her flirt with her a little bit...\n\nbut her not sitting next to you when watching tv. could just be shyness, or should just might be thinking "friends"...and not want to hint stuff, that isnt true.\n\nif you cant feel her out...\nthen just work up the balls to talk to her about it. \n\neither ask her out. and if she says no, then smile, and say, okay, still friends then? and just get over it.\n\nbut if she says yes, then she probably liked you all along. \n\nat least, you are just eachothers good company :)\n\ngoodluck with everything!
416256
Go for it.  Life is to short to sit around womdering what might have been.  Ask him out on a date.  Maybe he doesn't see you as more than a friend because he doesn't want to lose your friendship.
664897
If you have been friends then keep the date on that level.... ask her to a movie and milk shake or something along those lines..... ease into the transition of being friends to the next step... the casual time will give her and you the time to see if it is even possibles to go from the friendship thing to the boy/girl friend thing...... with NO pressure ........ just to see if it will work out........ God bless
1119462
I think you should just be a friend for now and be there for him and it maybe hard because you like him.but as friends you guys will get to know each other and just maybe you will become more then friends..maybe not what you want to hear.
628716
take a look at your relationship: how long have you been friends, how has you understanding of eachother expanded, how is both of our love lives going, etc. you may want to start out with, "_____, how long have we been friends?" its a casual question, but then go deeper "do you ever wonder if this friendship will ever go anywhere than 'just friends'?" and you'll get a feel of how he reacts, and even though you may rehearse what you are going to say infront of the mirror, when you look at him , you'll know exactly the words to say...hopefully i've helped
921591
It sounds like she just wants to be friends with you right now. Maybe she was interested in you before, but now she seems to be more interested in your mate. If you like her a lot and you feel comfortable doing so - make a move....like bring her flowers or something to let her know you're interested in being more than friends.
357599
The best thing you can do is be honest. tell him that he's a really good guy but not your type. Say ''is it OK if we can still be friends''? If he Say's no just say you understand and move on. It's not like it's the end of the world or anything.
1041921
Hi, maybe it's best to be friends first before get down to dating. However if you keep getting the" just friends" routine too much you'll need to ask what's going on that you can't take it to the next level? Ask a guyfriend or girlfriend - maybe they can see somethig your not seeing.  Good luck...
518907
That's a difficult situation to judge. I don't think he would be spending that much time with you asking you here and there if he wasn't interested in something more than friendship. However I could be wrong, maybe he's gay!\nI would wait and see what happens. If he's really interested then things will progress in their own time. Maybe he is unsure of how you feel about him too. Try talking to him?
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
378339
It's hard when you want more than friendship from someone who isn't sure...and that is what this sounds like.  Just be patient...the best relationships start with friendship, don't push her...if it is meant to be, it'll happen!  If it isn't someone will come into your life when you least expect it and you will understand better why "this one" didn't work out!  Good Luck!!!
1172542
Starting from ideas of friendship:  friendship could be about sharing, truth, honesty and some form of emotional context that binds you.  Sharing feelings and emotions is a powerful moment and ability, but this can be weakened if the other person doesn't feel the same way you do.  Is this person in a realtionship already or seeking one?  What have your friends noticed or discussed with you regarding this issue?  The burning question I could ask is 'Why now do you feel you want a more than a friend relationship with this person?'  Has something changed for this idea to exist, if so what is it?\n\nUltimately you have the choice, if they are a true friend they will stay friends with you dispite what you ask or reveal.  You'll never know anything unless you ask!\n\nI wish you the best of luck, think about the questions above, they'll help you navigate through this and secure concrete ideas for your decision.
150815
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
589534
just be friends for now. if anythings meant to happen it will, in its own time!
33969
yes, it is possible. you've just got to watch out on which signals u might be sending these guys. you also need to make it very clear up front that u only want to be JUST friends and nothing more. hope this helps.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
698264
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.