any ideas to find a past love and him to come to you?
371139
try people searching him and accidentally run into him somewhere where he likes to hang out.
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
896414
I would try reunion.com. Even if you don't find who you are looking for, if they join then they will be notified that you were looking for them! Then you get connected ( an e-mail that they were found, etc.).
204684
Set him free to find someone who can return his love...K
653012
YOu will find him when you least expect it.  Be patient. Maybe change your Avatar so you don't look so old and depressed.
60600
Look these things happen but don't let it get to you. At the end you will find someone that is meant for you. Love comes around just make sure that it finds you okay. Good luck.
823957
Ask on friends reunited, you may get some via that...;
1164512
I would tell my past lover that I have found someone new
112729
I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
59232
bring him back to the place were you first met or do the things that you first did and ask him if he remembers\nthen ask if he still loves you the same as he did back then
970028
try going to the place where you met t hem at and maybe you will see them there again... good luck hope you find them
298586
Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
917867
My best advise is this... make your own choices and build your life. You can't plan for a man to come into your life, and when he does it will probably upset your apple cart a bit... that  is what love does. To meet a nice, good, and strong, man you should try looking in quieter places and not night spots. Bookstores, libraries, coffee houses... those are good places to just relax and attract a few fellas. Good luck!
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
93367
The best cure for an old love is a new love.  Get out there and try to meet a lot of new people, and hopefully you will find someone soon.
702132
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
176635
You will find the man of your dreams because you still believing he is in somewhere waiting for you. Good luck!!!!!!