how can i get a bodybuilder man to be my boyfriend?
361504
It sounds like your only requirement is that he's a bodybuilder.  Very shallow.  Relationships based on physical attraction rarely last forever.
689758
Get a very good looking muscled male to pick you up after work one day.Or just tell him one day you have deformed breasts & have a real complex about them
228394
Well any person (girl or a boy) will curl back into their "shell" (unless they are an extrovert) if you walk up to him and say "Be my Boyfriend?"\n\nWhat you can do is make sure you are with him all the time and hang out with him. Find out where he goes for weekends and "be in the neighbourhood" (But dont make it obvious). Then you can increase the intimacy and take it to the next level and before you know you will be his GF. \n\n.:Fishie:.\n\nP.S: First confirm if he already has one. You dont want to find yourself in a Cat fight, do you?
478378
best way is to have a new bf and let him tackle this situation. guys are bulls, they fight and they decide once for all. i m ready to pretend to be ur bf, just let me know......i will kick his....
1022978
I want to see this guy Josh but I don't know if he likes me or if we could even work out...I am also going to modeling school and a baby shower.  I hope you and your bf will have fun you sound like a fun person to be around and talk to.
1138808
Well, i had a friend with your very deliema. Basically, you relize something, and thats the guys who are going to notice you for your personality aren't going to notice your body nearly as much. More or less, you have to speak up more, seem smart, get involved in common little debates that make you seem smart, and get the word around you exist. Sooner or later someone will come along, but remember, theres going to be more body lovers than personilty
469969
ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
509561
be yourself the ppl that like you for you are always worth it and just ask him practice infront of a mirror or ask one of your guy mates to help you out like practice on him and stuff and ask for ideas
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
1184735
be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
165156
be yourself!don't try to win his attention and of course let him come to u...just be u and he'll fell in love with u ...let him think that he's the man and that he's has the control that way he'll want to protect u and u'll feel good.....
47689
My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
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Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
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im 30 pounds heavier for my body built, my bf still loves me like you love your gf, but he's a bit harsh and mean when he tells me those things, so good thing ya aint putting her down, i agree with the others, join the gym together and eat healthy, if you buy her a nice excercising outfit, she might be inspired to join the gym. that's what my bf did! he bought me one whole outfit from nike, and now i go to the gym 4 days a week.
327858
Tell him this. "Why be a kid when you can be a Man? Real Man don't cry to others on and on for solution. Real Man solve their own problems. And this is probably why you're having so much trouble with your current gf.. she can't see any Man in you at all" \nthis guy's probably gonna hate you after but at least he won't be annoying you anymore. Or hopefully he'll grow up.\nBut if you're into him.. you'll have to listen and comfort him. good luck.
280035
wow!!!!!\nIt seems so complicated.........\ntell him that you love him so much.....\ntry be more feminine......maybe he will love you more.....\nabout his brother, he'll soon manage to cope with this kind of matter............he need times...........
1146847
Become a whole and complete person.\n\nGet a hobby or two, or six. Learn new things, travel to new places, spend time meeting and hanging out with new people. Do all of this for you, not to get a boyfriend.\n\nInevitably, one of the many new people you meet will be a boy whom you find attractive, and who finds you attractive. Since you'll have these hobbies, and you will have been travelling, you'll be a very interesting person as well. This will interest him, and he will ask you out.\n\nOr, you'll learn how to be bold enough to ask him out. Either way.\n\nOh, one more thing: for the love of all that is holy, stop using the word "like" in the middle of sentences. I guarantee that at least a couple of boys who would have asked you out decided not to do so because of that annoying habit, just like if they saw you biting your nails.\n\n"I want a boyfriend, because my friends are going away. What do I do?" is the proper way to say it, and that'll attract a far better class of boy.