For guys only ! What is best finding a girl there looks or personility? Help me?
357039
personality. i would not date paris hilton, she has the IQ of an empty beer bottle, and there is no good in that except the recycle bin, so dont get recycled ladies!  ;-)
105895
I myself look for a girl that is almost always happy and smiling. I also look for looks that are at least decent and up. Most important though, is their smile.
894414
Yayeh! go for it. Body doesn't matter. It's nice to look your best-(it makes people feel good. And, it's easier to be kind to someone)- eventhough it's not SUPER important. Go out again, and see if you like her personality, the rest will fall into place. Best of Luck!!! :)
1037667
best way to get my attention to be yourself...no stupid pickup lines, and no games...be honest\n\nI value intelligence and a good sense of humour.  If you can carry a decent conversation and make me laugh...it's all good.\n\nnot date worthy...any guy who is overly cocky, and bad teeth is a total turnoff
498941
I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
172971
Are you desperate for a girlfriend because all your questions deal with what girls like in a guy or something similar to that. Anyways, ALl girls are different.Most girls love a guy with abs. We love guys that flirt a lot and know how to flirt well, guys who are funny, laugh a lot, are protective, can be serious sometimes, guys who have special talents (any talent)...its a definite turn on. GUys who are commit to that talent and stick with it. Guys who are a great kisser (turn on). We look for confidence, high self-esteem, non-perverted (not a pervert),good sense of humor, caring, helpful, protective kind of guys who are focused on just us. Like if you had a girlfriend, she would want you to not go around flirting with other girls and looking at every girl you see but to focus on her. Ok maybe all this stuff is what i look for in a guy but MOST girls would agree with me.
474854
Your personality and character. Be nice to guys, and have a lot of friends. Most of all, be yourself!
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
1036231
Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
399329
First of all, looks are the second thing a person should look for.  Personality is number one.  I find it makes a person more beautiful.  You may be looking at a "Trophy Girl" now, but down the road you may find she is ugly.\nOn the other hand, if you really like her...ask her out to lunch, dinner, or do something you both have in common.  Show her your true stars.\nYou cannot MAKE a person like you.  If you are worried about just her beauty, you will never get anywhere.  Be yourself.  Be interested in her likes and dislikes.  Start out very slow and it may end up the way you both would like.  It takes two!  Good Luck!
1133995
if you take away the physical appearance of the female, which is obviously very important to men, then there are three things to look for in a girl. The first thing is flexibility. there's an incredible attractiveness to a girl that can be flexible on a date and not a miss priss that has to have everything go perfect. The second is integrity. Being straight up and honest with a guy is pricleless. A woman with integrity is a woman that can be trusted when all the evidence points elsewhere. And trust is the most important thing in a relationship. The third thing for a woman to have is that she has to be giving. A woman who is all about herself is very annoying, and needs to be pushed to the curb. As far as what you should do to show guys you like us, that's easy.  Men and women are different is so many ways.  Unlike women we don't give a damn about all the mental mind game crap.  if you like a guy tell him you're interested.  If a guy doesn't like you then he won't ask you out.  if a guy does like you he'll be relieved that you came forward and initiated something.
420419
by being decent himself ; the way he approaches her, the way he talks to her, the way he offers his companionship, and his overall attitude with her and around her !!\nIn short, be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady !
1127726
I want a girl who's quite, cute, shy, but can be all hot and crazy when she's going all out. And that's the girl next door when I'm in 7th grade. Lol\n\nAnd I know she wants a fun, advanturous, interesting a guy who can lead her, give her good feelings and emotions that she can never find in nice guys, she wants a guy who knows what he's doing; not a wuss, he's not afraid to express his anger at the right moment, also knows the moment to be sweet and loving... etc. \n\nKisses slowly and cuddle with her in the living room, making her feel safe and comforable\nKisses passionatly and violently in the bedroom, making her feel like a total sexual being...\n\nthere are million things more...\n\n\nP.S. \nThank you for your post to my question, these days are important to me for that I'm realizing the most important concept where my family, friends, everybody around me, life have failed me. Your post really cheered me up, now, good luck to you stranger!
299467
depends on the girl, obvoiously. if you want a girl who's hot, then you have to be hot (sterotypically speaking). if you want a more..deep thinker type, be a bit more smart/sophisticated. be a gentleman. girls like compliments, but be careful not to mix them up with pick up lines. "nice a$$" just doesnt work. try not to give them attitude, and if youre annoyed by something they do, talk to them about it instead of dumping them. thats about all i can tell you.. oh and be yourself (its cliche, yes, but true)
448939
Be yourself and in time you'll find the right girl.
542685
Definitely a good personality.  Looks are always a plus but it's who the person is inside that makes them special and attractive to you.  Many girls can look hot, but only few can possess that certain personality a guy is searching for.  The beauty factor will naturally go up when it is followed by a glowing personality...something know as the halo effect.
139019
A guy like you shouldn't be looking for a girl. Girls should be looking for someone like you!! (Too bad you are not into guys)