im kinda nervous about my new GF, can anybody give me some tips so im not so "timid" anymore??
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Try the question game! You can play it anywhere, (provided you keep the questions clean) and you don't need any special equiptment. Ask her about her. The things she likes, the things she hates. Ask her about her friends, and her family, and her little dog too. And have her do the same thing to you. Take turns asking questions. If a question makes you or her uncomfortable, skip it. \n\nThe idea is to get to know each other really well. Once you remove all the unknown about her, you'll find that you understand her, and she's not a person you need to be timid about.\n\nHave fun, and good luck!
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My boyfriend told me something just a little while ago. Before we were going out, he didn't know that I liked him, he said i was sending him mixed messeges! I definatly didn't think I was...I liked him so much! But I liked him so much that I would get nervous when I was around him, because I didn't want to give him the wrong Idea, that is what it sounds like is going on. It sounds like the girl likes you, shes just shy. Don't be shy too!! Go for it!
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Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
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tht's becuz u luv her frm heart.. and u r just nervous wen she is arnd.. all u gotta do is wait for the girl to pick up the conversacion! jus give it time and tlk... gud luk!! :D
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just come straight out-honestly is the best policy and shell appreciate you being honest and that will build a healthy base for your new relationship. but be tactful a little dont shout it out in front of her friends! just bring up the subject of age maybe and ask her gently maybe!
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
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Yes sweetie, u need to be confident but also relax and try to be urself!
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I would say take it slow. Also, keep in mind a few things. She might be different then the person you remember, but that doesn't mean you still won't like her. Just make sure you get to know who she is now. Also, if you're feeling nervous, remember that she is as well. Make sure you're both comfortable with each other before you try going any further. Get to know her and HAVE FUN!
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It's always like that at first ... you have to get used to her ... you know get comfortable being around her first so the both of you can loosen up a little ... It just takes time... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS with your new found love!!!
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Make sure she is comfortable wid u first, and buddy she's right focus on ur life. Patience is wht u need at the moment.\n\nAll the best !
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Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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@sweetie "Let it all out before meeting them".. ;)\n\nShe/he is absolutely correct...\nI have tried myself. There will be no nervousness after that
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y get nervous...has she been hitting on u, she may order something expensive, wat u scared of your wit ur girl so thas all that matters
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its natural 2 b nervous....i met my online frend & was nervous 2.just b ur usual self.dont try 2 b sum1 u r not.same goes with ur dress.dont try 2 wear sumthing which is extraordinary but since u havent worn it b4 u r uncomfortable....tht will show in ur attitude.just b like u r & u'll do just fine.......best of luck
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It is ok to be nervous..It actually is real refreshing to see that a guy is real nervous coming to me. This shows that the girl is not just another peice of A** to him and that he really likes her. It shows that he must like her because if he gets soooo nervous just to talk with her, then he doesn't do this often. If the guys acts real easy and like hes a pro at this.....stay away ladies. Hes only interested in one thing. So hes not acting nervous cause he is already predicting a real good time with you and isn't planning on dating you . So go ahead be nervous it is OK. But if you want to be less nervous. Just let your words come out naturally.. If your nervous....tell her. She'll understand. She's most likely just as nervous as you are. If she seems irritated or compelled by your actions when your just being honest....don't go for it. She is too shallow and not worth your time. She may SEEM perfect. But shes not...ok.
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calm down :) its no big deal... wear what ull normally wear. make sure u feel comfortable and confident, thats all