How do I go about telling my family about his age. Me being 18 and him 32?
372772
Just tell them, and if you love him, it doesnt matter.
380678
tell him you're really a 40yr old man
205823
Well, the best advice i can give you is to talk to him about it.  You need to explain to him that that's not the way to talk to your family and he needs to explain his differences with your family differently and more respectfully.  Include that you will not put up with his crap and that he needs to get his act together or you don't need to associate with him any more.
555824
I have the same problem with my family.  It got to the point where I wasn't even talking to my own mother.  You need to tell them that this is what makes YOU happy.  Maybe you can slowly start bringing him around (for dinners, b-days, etc).  This will show them what type of guy he is.  Most importantly, they need to see that he is a real person, not just a "black male."  Have him send your mom flowers or something-- just to show her how sweet he can be.  Don't sacrifice your love for their ignorance.  Good luck!
661949
No, no my darling - you are better off without him.  You tell your family that he hurt you and left you and they will love and feel your pain.  Do it as soon as possible - and he can go to the devil if he changes his mind.  You deserve more than that.  For goodness sakes, there are plenty of 40 year old men who would gladly give their right arm for the love of a sweet 25 year old - let alone men closer to your age who are able to handle a loving, caring relationship.  Please turn your back on this person and face the future knowing that you have passed this test and that your life will be all the more wonderful for the courage you show.\n\nPeace!
437424
It would be helpful to know how old you are if your 15 or 16 I say sit down and talk to him calmly  If you are 17 18 or older I say get off your dead butt and get busy
1065330
old enough to be your gramma likely!\nYou then tell her straight out.  why beat around the bush,  honesty is ALWAYS the best.
747702
It would have helped if you would have stated your age and his....but any older younger relationship in the teen years is bad news....sorry.  \n\nThey are your parents they have your best interest at heart.  They don't want you pregnant (surely not in the best interest of you or the baby), the don't want you pressured for sex by an older guy (who has more than likely been sexually active and more than likely wants sex from you), they don't want you getting std's.\n\nYou may not be silly, you may not be naive, but dating an older guy is never a good idea.  If he is out of high school, you just aren't in the same place in life.  If you are in 9th grade and he is in 12th....he is probably just after sex. \n\nTwo people have to be in the same place in life for a relationship to work.  My hubby is older than me, but we were older when we met and married, both done with college, both in good jobs, both living life on our own....we were in the same place.  \n\nSorry you had to change your plans, but you live in their house, it is their rules.
321371
It really depends on how old you are. If you are say, 22, and he is older than you are then, no, I don't think that the age difference is that big of a deal. If he is the younger one you should be at least 32 for the age differencet to be okay. One question, do his and your parents know the age difference? Are they okay with it? If not, find their reasons behind thinking that way. But, if the reasons are unreasonable based then don't worry about it. Overall, as long as you aren't illegal, I'd say that it is alright.
999286
that's OK  family  OK   dad OK  grandparents  OK  they luv you .....only 23  still young   you still babe  ...just go with the flow  ... wish  I had  sunshine 24 hrs   ...good luck...
466878
First you just gotta get ovet the superficial appearances, etc., and ask yourself if you really love him?  If yes, then get over the little things.  My parents have the same age gap and have been together for 30 years.  It can work, as long as the age thing doesn't get to you.  Forget numbers and focus on people.
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
138452
by the tone of your question, he is taking too long for you, so with the age difference he probably won't try to approach you.  If you are sure you want him..... then just tell him....you only live once!
307878
uhhhh im 13 and i have a bf...i never really made a point to tell my mom, it just sorta came up in conversation i guess...I did tell my grandma cause me and her talk about EVERYTHING shes like my really old best friend lol but neway, she sorta brought it up and my mom dint really care, it freaked out my dad a bit but he got over it lol. of course, my bf is 13 too, so ur parents may be a bit more shocked if they find out that ur goin out with someone way older than u lol
705614
I too have a preference for older men and have been there. First off don't be offended when your family starts in with the what does he want someone so young for. Most occasions when an older man is interested in someone so young it is because there is something wrong with him. That being said there are some relationships that do work out becuase both are really in love and only time will tell this. I suggest that you tell your parents that you know that there is high percentage of varying age difference relationship problems and the two of you love each other and discuss the topic often and want to do your best to work through that and feel it is worth it. More than likely you will get oposition concerning this but don't get angry. There is reasons for their concern and respect that. There does have to be a point though after your family has met him and he has proven time again that he does love you that you need to take a stand and say that's enough he has proven that he loves me regardless of my age and his only negative aspects are normal and I can live with them so I suggest everybody else to just accept my relationship and get over their expectations of me finding someone your own age because it's not going to happen.\n\nOn the other hand if their fears eventually get confirmed then don't be so hard on yourself. We never see it for ourselves until it is too late and going through what ever you may go through could have ended up being a wonderful relationship but you wouldn't have known unless you tried.
34962
Incredible simple - BY TELLING HIM!\n\nMy wife and i, we met on the internet and where friends for 6 month, that she asked when do we get married?? :)))\n\nSo, just be straight and tell him.
1175327
See sweety, the difference between you and the Dr. is way too much to have a kind of relation. I agree that the age doesent matter in such cases but what matters here is ur personal life.It is not going to be easy to be with a person who is twice your age and also manage to be social with your friends and your associates. You also havent mentioned about his life and his family. You just know him for a few months and you should not judge the person based on your association with him of a few months. You should give some time for this kind of advances and control yourself of giving off to his flirts. If it is limited to flirts thats ok but for other advances u need to think it over and give some time..........\nAll the best to you