My girlfriend and I just broke up. We're still friends, but I can't move on. I still love her. What do I do?
372499
Tell her that you value her friendship but you're finding it difficult at the moment and you need some time to sort yourself out. If she values you as much as you value her then she'll understand and give you the time and space until your comfortable with the situation. Also you need to get out and make some new friends, so that your not so reliant on this one girl for friendship. If you get out there you'll probably meet someone new, and you won't have damaged your great friendship with this girl.
206232
Ending a relationship hurts.  Just take time for yourself.  Do the things you didn't get to do as often when you were with her.  Try something new.  But definitly don't rush into a new relationship.  It's only been a day, like you said.  It will get better, I promise!
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
915427
I'm not gonna lie to you, that is a pretty tough thing to deal with at any age.  Just remember that you two broke up for a reason, and that you are better off without her.  But to be perfectly honest, the hurt probably won't go away until you find someone new, so start looking.
524771
Sad to say, if she doesn't want to go back to you, there is nothing you can do - it just isn't meant to be.\n\nTry to remember the happy times you had together, and when you are ready, go find someone who will want to be with you.\n\nshe is offering friendship, so if it won't hurt your feelings too much, why not try to be her friend.  There are no guarantees, but maybe in the future, if you remain friends, and if you still want to be with her, it might happen - but see how things go.\n\nGood Luck!
689618
Be happy for her. You'll make new friends too. You need to let go a little and move on.
524824
The first thing I wonder is why did you break up?\n\nI don't have that information but from your question I can tell she is mad at you, and dude, when that is the case, let it go because it is a no hoper.\n\nWant to know something?\n\nRight now, it hurts bad, I can tell, but that is good, because it means you two once had something good and you are simply replaying all those moments in your head. It's natural.\n\nWant to know something else?\n\nLook around...there are attractive, smart, fun, great girls everywhere. Your town, this world, a biggggggg place. You are going to find a new girl, and once you establish some kind of wonderful with her, you will be fine.\n\nAccept your pain, but keep your eyes open and your CONFIDENCE up, for the next great girl.
852622
Well, if she is a friend and she really likes you mabey you should just tell her you arnt ready for another girlfriend!!! If she really likes you she will understand and wait for you!!! And if you still love your ex-girlfriend go over why you guys broke up in the first place!!! Mabey you and your ex-girlfriend can still be friends and mabey you might get back together!!! If you love her the least you can do is try and if the other girl really likes you she will let you go and just be your friend!!!!!!!
369146
You need to let him down lightly. Don't lead him on anymore than you already have. Just gently tell him that you love him, but only as a friend. Don't do it over the phone or through e-mail. It has to be done straight to him. After you break up, then continue, or at least try to continue, being his friend and being there for him. He probably will be hurt, and I understand that's something that will be hard to deal with. Just tell him you still love him, just not in that way.
205508
stop thinking this ............you will loos eyour best friend as well as the girl friend .........keep your emotion for time being withing and wenever they broke off ......propose her
471204
Let me tell you something.  After you break up, it hurts.  Give yourself time and move on.  Someone is out there that is better than that girl.  You may not be able to say that now, but you will.\n\nI met my ex-gf after I met a girl I was very happy with.  I ask how she was doing and she just said ok.  I said I was happy and I met a girl who really likes me and I like being with.  After that, she asked if I wanted to get together and do something.  I just said I was going out with my new girl and maybe some other time.
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
1123093
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
19905
No, you shouldn't especially if you had strong feelings for her.  I recently broke up with a guy I've been dating for almost 3 months.  He wants to continue the friendship but I told him no, not this time.  I said maybe later when I'm completely over him, and it will all sort of happen by itself if we're meant to be friends.  Good luck.
494212
Get over him. Since you broke up with him you should try to stick to your decision. Don't feel like he is the last guy on Earth.
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
1177570
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.