Why does love hurt so much? And don't give the answer that is because it's too good!?
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THE REASON LOVE HURTS IS BECAUSE THE PERSON YOU ARE LOVING, YOU HAVE PUT ALL YOUR TRUST AND CONFINDENCE IN.  YOU THINK SINCE THEY KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, THEY SHOULDN'T DISAPPONT YOU AND WHEN THEY DO, IT HURTS. IT'S A SAYING "NO ONE CAN HURT YOU LIKE THE ONE YOU LOVE" REASON BEING IF YOU DON'T LOVE THE PERSON, YOU CAN BRUSH OFF WHAT THEY DO, BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXPECT MUCH OUT OF THEM.
551676
Yes love is an intense connection we feel with other people.  You can definately lose that connection for vatious reasons, and find love in another for again another varoius reasons.
546727
OOOOOO this sounds like unrequited love and that's not good especially when you're the one that's doing the caring! Look, if the feeling is not mutual then you need to stop before your feelings grow any more. The best thing for you to do is nip it in the bud.
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Cuz we get all this 'love' potion that really does blind us for a bit.. we need to be more CAREFUL in choosing and be more 'mindful' of past history when we choose.  It's really hard not to let the WONDERFUL feelings of 'love' intoxicate you, because it feels so good.. it's not worth the hurt in the end, if you can look back and go - DOH I should have SEEN that!  Good luck hun, heal quickly and date smarter :)
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The pain of rejection is temporary. You feel it now because the wound is fresh. But wounds always get better with time. However bad it has been losing this guy for you, you will surely get over it. Because, pain is always temporary.\nWhereas, the joy of true love, when you do find it, is permanent. It is an eternal paradise. You have already had a glimpse of it. Just imagine how wonderful it would be if such a joy lasted forever. So dont think the pain is not worth bearing. It is. Not just once or twice but as many times it takes. Never lose faith in true love. Just because one person struck hollow, doesnt mean every other guy will. The only way to be happy is to believe that there is good and happiness and it is attainable.\nThere is no way you can protect yourself from this sort of pain. It is a part of life. But so is the happiness. Someday it will be yours. All you have to do is hang in there, especially during the delicates moments like the ones you're going through now. Dont lose hope.. the world is a beautiful garden with many wonderful flowers.\nYou'll find your rose. Time is all it takes.
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You can't really explain how it feels to be in love because it feels different for everyone!  When I first fell in love, I felt happy and my other person, no matter how much I use to hate when someone did certain things, when he did them it wasn't that big of a deal.  He reminds me what it's like to be young again.
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Maybe because you are in so much pain that you can not see His love for you through the warm tears. Maybe because you do not feel like you are worthy of His love for you? \n\nAm I close to what you are seeking? I was once like that... just wondering.
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Well, Life is about chances and so is love...  Some people hurt us intentionally, but some don't..\n\nI think that the people we love hurt us, because they don't know how to appreciate it.  Take it for granted and take it as a vulnerability. (So they take advantage of us)\n\nBut don't give up on it..  We have to go through a few bad seeds, before we finally find the right one..  : )
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My friends and I were just talking about this last night...We have came to the conclusion that Love is a very strong word.  So many people today believe that they are in love, but love is to give unconditionally... love is putting someone elses needs before your own.  I have thought I was in love 2 times, I am now divorced with three kids and I can honestly say I have never loved anyone the way I love my children... If you can honestly say to your self that I would die for them  I mean being truthful to yourself and saying I would die for you... that's love... and I have never felt that way before.... and you don't have to be in love to be with someone...if you enjoy the company why say it's over... just enjoy your life  you only have one.
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Being hurt is always a possibility in any relationship. It is a natural fear but not one that should prevent a person from a worthwhile relationship. Life is about love and joy and yes, pain. Fear of pain should not keep us from love and joy.
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More harm than good? You know, it took me awhile to think about this one. Now that I have, I do see what my love has done. It is not something to be taken lightly. I feel that it took my all too long to realize that, but I finally have.
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Love is a pure emotion that isn't intended to hurt anyone who feels it. Its people that corrupt it ....therefore love will never let go...bcuz love isn't supposed to forgive u...u should forgive urself...
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If you really love someone you should feel happy that the person you love is happy, even if it's not with you! Sometimes if you really love someone you have to let them go, so they can be happy....Not always we can be with the person we love, but trust me the best proof of love someone can give is wishing the happiness of the person they love no matter who they're with! I hope I made sense! That's what love supposed to be!\n\nSome people say that love is fighting for the person you love....and doing anything to be with them....that is NOT true, because if the person you love is happy with someone else, why would you even try to separate them if you know that the person is happy? That isn't called love, that's called "being selfish"....
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maybe your sensitive and emotional.and im sure there is someone who can understand you.try to understand exactly how your heart feels that way it will be easier for you to tell people how you feel.so you wouldn't get hurt that easy.
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Chances are love will hurt.  But love is also a lot of other things.  Good Things.  Things that can't be brought into words because it wouldnt do the feeling justice.  You might hurt while in love but you will be suprised about how much you learned in the end.  It's worth it ;)
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I dont know why, but it's correct.... But when you realize how important and great that sth was, then you just can&#92;t stand the pain.....   \n\nIt is that people are never happy with what they have. They'll always ask for more coz they won't appreciate the beaty of what they have. In this way, we ruin beatuful relationships/friendships/and more, just  because we want sth better......
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Yes you can. You can hurt them by not loving them as much as they love you. You can hurt someone who loves you in many ways, but this is just one