why does it always seem like guys are only thinking about sex?
367822
Cause this is where their hearts are. That is how they express love.
430125
Most guys want sex and only sex. I've met one of these. Don't worry, I have several male friends, and female friends who varify, that there ARE guys out there who care about you being satisfied. Some of them make sure you are before they are themselves. It may take some...a lot...of looking around, but they are out there.
77929
Everyone says that men think about sex more, they like it more, they need it more, etc... but I've never had a lover who could keep up with me!  I think men are all talk, and the scientists doing the studies are all men and won't tell the truth, and in reality it's women who need the sex more.  Maybe men use up all of their sexual energy just thinking about it.
1118227
Everyone has different sex drives. \nIt's a bit of a myth that guys want sex all the time and girls are more reserved. \nThere are lots of girls who hacve higher sex drives than thier boyfriends (I know of a few friends who do). It's not unusual at all, just the product of a myth that society has created. \nI'd suggest a bit of solo sex, it makes you appreciate it better when its a mutual thing.
593462
Of course...some guys will only engage in sex chat if the female gives off vibes as such or flat out asks nasty questions.But then again,alot of guys are just horny at that time and looking for dirty chat!
562868
That is a nice story and you know it is untrue. Our bodies are healthy and normal and for the most part we all function about the same. Your testicles simply need time to recoup and produce. So all of us guys know that there is a lot of variety in the number of times, daily, every other day or so, weekly or whatever.\n\nTruth represents things the way they really are. We are not made for sex. Sex is made for us.\n\nNothing as natural as this is harmful in any way whatsoever. Us guys right after this, though, lose interest almost immediately and like to relax. That is not the same as feeling weak. We simply have worked out and then want to take it easy for a bit.\n\nSo this has nothing to do with weight.  The little energy it really takes makes us stronger.
782665
Its kind of out of the locker room with men.  Alot of people think its a competition to get as many girls as they can.  Get alittle deeper on the topic and what it is, is ALOT of men dont want to commit.  They "bounce" because they want to keep living in the past so to speak.  They also tend to use women as confidence boosts for themselves.  When their feeling alittle down about themselves they will go out and flirt with women who they think are desperate, or just women in general.  But remember not all men are like this.\n\nIve tried to answer this for along time and this is the best I can do.  I see it from a males side aswell, why do so many women accept this aswell? (but not as many as men)\n\nBut personally I would prefer quality over quantity.  Kind of hard to make love to someone you just met that night.  Sex without love just dosnt rank all to high with me.  And anyone who says it does, really hasnt done much with their lives :(
1105164
Well, all the guys I have ever known dont think about it nearly as much as I do. So I think girls think about it more.
337712
if you think of sex all the time, it's normal.  However, looking at porn isn't going to help.  That'll just increase your thinking about sex, and you might do it to a girl.
1013860
I'm not a female, and never have been, but I do understand them well. Guys have sex on the mind because they think it is neccessary to get off as often as the body demands biochemically. Females do not have the same biochemical demands from their body, so they don't feel desparate to copulate, therefore they appreciate the experience more when they do. The guy is so focused on getting off that he forgets to enjoy the act as much as he could have, and the girl is free from such needs so feels the moment is enjoyable.
545971
Simple. It is sex, always sex, always will be sex. If you are lonely you can join a club, take classes do thousands of things where you are interacting with people. Most people here with "Am I in love" questions etc. Are not doing so to get rich. A girl will want be boned down by a pretty boy, or thuggish clod, even if he is as broke as the flea that rode in on the church mouse. People desire and crave falling in love because they are delusional and don't want to seem solely in it for the sex. But what do they do when the sex is bad? Flee the relationship. They don't desire physical contact in the form of wrestling or boxing. they want copulation. If there were no sex between men and women, 82% of the male/female couples you would never see.
209093
Boy, you hit that nail on the head. Once a guy gets that feeling he will go for it as often as possible. It has been said that a woman needs a reason to have sex, a guy just needs a place. You are going to have to get over him. Get to know yourself better and get the most out of life. Sex is the one percent of life. This guy is making the one percent into the ninety-nine percent, ultimately it will get him into trouble. You don't want to be a part of that.
558442
If it's a one night thing then most likely.  Mostly women want more than just sex.  And plus there is STD out there so you don't want so many multiple partners because you don't know if that person has it (they aren't really going to admit to having something).  But I do know there are some women that go for that one night stand either they were drunk, have low self-esteem, or they think the way you do.  But it's not just women there are also men out there that won't just sleep with any woman.
369433
most men do seem to prefer sex to love, and dont hesitate to cheat (in my experience).  there are some good guys out there, who want to love, but they are VERY hard to find.
240448
Most girls do not think about anything but the actual task at hand... mainly guys think about girls body parts where as girls tend to only see a man as a whole
31284
There are some nice guys.  One of my friends has turned down sex from girls because he thought they were moving too fast, and he wanted a long term relationship with a nice girl.  The problem is that these guys are not normally the "popular" ones.  Even though they can be very cute they are probably also quite shy.  Also, never let anyone pressure you into sex.  If the guy really cares about you, then he will wait.
714893
umm sex isn't everything you guys can work on that there is plenty of things that can change that.. but if your thinking about other guys during sex you don't need to be with him ...and if your thinking about your ex with your current bf you dont need him either! take a break and figure things out on your own