Should i dump my girlfriend >??
364893
well i think that she is very interested in you anymore like u guys used to be but if u really like her and she realy likes u then u guys should be able to talk about this..call her on the phone one nite and ask her if their is anything wrong then if she says noo or something not really saying anything be like yea u have been acting very werid lately and i dont realy see any changes in our relationship so im osrry but if u cant talk to me about anything then i dont realy want to be in this relatioship anymore i want to go out and meet new ppl i hope ur not mad or upset or anything and then be like i hope we still can be friends or just say something like this or idotn know...but w.e happens i hope for the best=)
860028
If you keep pestering her, I should say she should tell your gf to break up with you.\n\nFor the meantime she should walk away and so should you.\n\nGood luck
623382
Leave her... If she loves you she must give you trust\nYou deserve to get someone better
18037
Nope.. I would dump him. Using the reason, " I made a mistake" is like his 'get out of jail free card'.  Does that mean that you can " make a mistake", also?  I agree with the answer that there are probably things in the relationship that would make someone feel the need for something new and exciting.. maybe a little dangerous.  If you do decide to stay together, I would definitely work on communication skills between the both of you.  Don't look to us for answers... you have to find the answer in your heart and do what it tells you to do.  Will you trust him ever again? Will it cause stress down the line when you question his every move? Will you end up with ulcers?!?!  I hope things work out for you either way.
117433
Judging by your grammar I would say you wouldn't be able to do any better than her, so stick with her until she dumps you.\n\nSorry to be the bearer of brutally blunt news.
816897
sounds like you were right on the nymphomaniac part...dump her
602894
Are you sure that your girlfriend knows about it? and is she "the one"? I am pretty sure she isn't otherwise you would've thought twice before you cheated on her. So if she's not the one, then I guess you could just let it go, I am not saying it's easy. And don't beat yourself, you made a mistake and you should recognize it in front of her, and you can also talk to her. But don't say to her that she cheated on you first; because that's not how you solve a problem, you would just put salt in the wound. Instead, just talk about it to her and tell her how you feel, if you want to be with her forever, than you should definitely clear this up now, if you're just having a fling that's another story. But whatever you do be honest, because once some one loses trust in you, it is extermely hard to come back and trust you. \nAs far as your friend...Well, if he REALLY was your true friend than he should've never been so cheap and told on you, a friend like this is worthless. If i were you, I would dump the friend before dumping my girlfriend, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings and is selfish.\nGood luck, and whatever it is, know that sooner or later this will fix itself and it'll be a lough years down the road, you sound pretty young and believe me even if you thought that your current gf is the "perfect" woman, God has ways to amazed you later in life. But one last thing, cheating is never good. And i am sure that you don't feel so good about it youself, so try not to do it again; you'll regret.
441876
Well you can't get dumped unless you actually have her as a girlfriend.  Since she's around you as a friend - keep it that way... That's how things turn into something better.  Don't ruin your friendship with her by professing your undying love for her until you can at least get some hint that maybe she's ready to see you that way.  Time is on your side.  Use it.  Good luck! :)
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
633272
Well if you really like this girl then why do you have to call it quits? But If you don't like her anymore then don't waste more time and end it ASAP then move on.\nIt's just a matter if what you feel for her is enough for you to hold on to the relationship or is it enough for you to let go. You will still be the one to answer your own question in the long run.
278289
if she is getting light that she dosn't deserve, yea dump her!!
1122894
Dump her now.  Not because she is bad for you, but becuase you are bad for HER.  If you are so shallow that you can't get past her waist size, then get away from her.  If she has no self respect because of her weight, she won't have the guts to leave first, you do it.
694614
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.
684129
Let her go... u'll find out... i say let her go because if she likes u wants to be with you... she'll stick around... and if she doesn't and you try to force that relationship that will just make her well mad and hate you... atleast if you let her go she could still stick around like a friend or something you know... and its better to dump then be dumped so let her go i'll end with a famous quote "if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it was urs, if it doesn't well u'll never know"
532784
If you don't think the relationship is going anywere and you don't love the girl than you shouldn't be with her anymore, however if there is somehting there then just stay with her and see where things get you
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
704173
dump him. I wouldnt really waste time on a guy that is doing stuff behind my back.