If your husband had Tourettes (and well-hidden) and/or MS before you married him and didnt disclose this to?
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Wow that is heavy.  I would have expected to be told all known health related issues before marriage.  Not to mention the effect it would have on our children.\n\nHowever, if you truly love him, it will not matter.  You will love that person no matter what.  What was his reason?  Did he think you would not love him?  Or did he think you would never find out?  \n\nI hope that you can work it out.  Tourettes is not the end of the world (my son has this plus ADHD and OCD).  It's not that bad.  However, the older studies show that it may be hereditary.  I tend to disagree with this, as no one else in our family has this.  Some new studies differ as well.  Read/click on "Breakthrough Yields Clue To Tourettes" at the link below.
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Depends on what you want to tell him. What part of your past? I read in a advise column in the newspaper about this husband who after many years of a wonderful and loving marriage found out from someone else his wife had an affair with a married man before marrying him. He went nuts and now thinks of her as dirty, not good enough for him. Watch what you want to share with him. If you have had previous lovers or such, I 'd say no.
1098459
it doesn't matter if you have autism or not.  sometimes i tell my husband that "nothing" is wrong when there really is something wrong. i will finally "spill the beans" when I get ready to.  until then, he just takes my word for it, that i am ok, until i get ready to talk.
1055680
I guess the question is...did she know about this prior to marriage? If she knew of this and married you anyway, shame on her.  If you didn't disclose this until after you married, shame on you.  We should accept our spouses as is without wanting to change them.  If she cannot accept you and you want to live the way you are comfortable, then you should be fair to each other and separate.  If you want to stay married to her, then dress only when she is not around and respect her wishes.
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When it comes to infidelity, it's true, the spouse is typically the last to know.  Most likely, not only did your in-laws know, but a lot of other people probably knew or had their suspicions as well.  No one wants to be the person to tell, so many people both actively and passively try to prevent the truth from coming out.  If I had to guess, I'd assume that your in-laws behavior isn't all that atypical.  So, I'd treat them as I would treat anyone else who had hurt me.  I'd let them know exactly how I feel about what happened.
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Would you love him/her any less?  Probably not!  You'll love that little darling no matter what.  \n\nI'm not so sure that you will pass it on.  My son has Tourettes, ADHD and OCD.  No one else in our immediate family has this.  No one.  There was a recent breakthrough at Harvard that you should read about.  \n\nBlessings to you and I hope this helps.
1085143
My husband modiness and be upsetting at times but i get like that at times too. I cant really say anything makes me really mad at him as we work through all of our differences and we love and accept each other even with our imperfections!
188520
I lost sexual interest in a husband once because he started mistreating me....it did a number on my lobido...better do some soul searching, dude.
183469
He has some serious problems with control. I would think if this is the way I wanted to live. He has no right to tell you that you can't do something. He is your husband not anything else. K
1109100
I DIDNT HAVE AN ORGASM WITH ANYONE BEFORE MY HUSBAND MAYBE HE IS TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.
1176240
LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
894953
Not sure.  I'd feel pretty heartbroken, and probably would be very near to ending the marriage.  It depends on whether or not my husband was sorry.  Haven't had this happen to me, so I don't know.
891572
I think there is more to the issue than what has been shared and suggest that maybe going to a marriage counselor might help in discovering all the real underlying issues affecting both of your behaviors.  A lot of men say you can 'ask them anything' when you have concerns but often become defensive or unable to express themselves.  Perhaps a third person who is objective might be able to help find out what is really going on in the relationship.
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Was he that way before you married him? If so, why would you expect it to be different now?\n\nIf he wasn't, then--as said above--you've probably run rampant at home and he doesn't feel the need, or is trying to "balance" the situation. Could also be med/psych reasons too.
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I rolled my eyes at my boss about 10 minutes ago.\n\nHe is driving me mad - and he knows it, so I didn't need words to tell him - lol!\n\nI communicate a lot with my bf using my eyes, it can be a "naughty" look, or an "I'm really annoyed" look - he can read me quite well.\n\n;-)
454458
Wait, I thought I divorced him?????   \n\nHugs ~:)
712243
I've never heard of anything like this before......before we started that aspect of our relationship my (now) husband got blue balls and felt really sick and chills and such.....maybe you hold out so long that that happens to you.  I am so sorry to hear that!