How do you tell your friend to stop sleeping around?
373957
Her confidence is probably already destroyed. This is the reason a lot of women sleep around. They need love and affection, as everyone does, but they've never gotten it and are still not getting it. They believe this is the only way they will get it. She may seem happy and proud of her sex life but that is not always the case. The only thing you can do for her is let her know that you care and you are worried. Tell her why you care about her and why you're worried about her. Then, continue to be her friend. If she can not or does not want to change, she is still the same person you've been friends with. Good luck. :^)
626004
Stop hanging out with him all the time.  Sounds like he's rebounding and you don't want that.
860551
Ok..you need to talk to them. Ask them why they have such a problem w/ you. Tell them that youre not talking to the devil & thats crazy anyways. Tell them that you have asthama & would never encourage your friend to do something that would hurt them in the long run. Tell them that youre actually trying to make her stop. Theres nothing you can do if they dont listen then. Even have your friend be there to help discuss so she can back you up on it. Good luck hun.
387711
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
642739
First things first, you have to find out the truth about what happened. Then you make them feel guilty by saying something like "Why would you lie to me about that?" or "How could you not trust me with the real truth?" (That one might work better... lol). Then you don't talk to them for a while and let him/her sweat it out a little bit, and when they ask you why you aren't talking to them simply say "I'm sorry, but I cannot be friends with someone who is going to lie to me." Then when they apologize, say to them "It's ok, but it's going to take me a while to trust you again". That will make them feel really guilty and they won't want to lie to you again... but that's only if they care about you a lot. Good luck... I hope you and your friend make up soon. :)
328448
Tell her how you feel this way you dont have to lie tell her your peace time is between ( example ) 4:00pm till bedtime surely she is grown up enough to understand this. Plus this could give her time to find another friend.
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
818828
I, too have drifted away from friends I know since childhood. The best thing to do is have a peer mediation. Sounds totally, dorky, right?  Talk to her privately, so no one get embarrassed and tell her your honest feelings. i know it may be hard at first, but trust me, once you get going, it'll be easier. Set up some rules, like no interruptions, and let her talk. Tell her she's been hurting you, and that she's too bossy! don't raise your voice or tell her you hate her though. =P LET HER TALK TOO! Maybe she's been going through something. when my friends and I did this, I let them talk also. WE all ended on the floor bawling, but it was GOOD. I felt...RELIEVED. My friends and I are A LOT happier, and now, we know to talk BEFORE we blow up. Let her say what she needs too, but IF SHE starts getting aggressive, or rude-WALK AWAY. You don't deserve that. Maybe your friendship can be salvaged, most likely no, but at least you won't end the friendship on bad terms. Tell her that this is what's best for both of you, and you know longer desire her he company. Be the better person and walk away if things get ugly.\nGod bless, hun!
223662
Understand that it's awkward for everybody involved.\nThen let your friend know that you prefer not to discuss their relationship or the relationship you had been in.\n\nJust hang out doing other things together if possible but if he or she wants some space, be cool with it and build your life with things you like to do.
383679
True friends don't do that. You should tell her to stop and\nstop being her friend if she keeps it up. It's nothing more than a form of emotional abuse and you shouldn't let her do it.
464520
Tell him to accept your decision not to join and if he doesn't stop bothering you about, you can't be friends with him anymore. He's trying to change you into something you don't want to be, and if he wants to change you he obviously doesn't respect who you are as a person.
672009
It depends do you want her as a friend. If you do, you might just want to let sleeping dogs lie until she realises how wrong she was. No point in winning an argument and losing a friend.
917496
The best way to solve this is by being honest with that person. Maybe you can talk to your friend and let him/her know how you feel about this. Just stay calm and talk to your friend. If you don't say a word to your friend about this..then that behavior might continue because he/she thinks it's ok with you. Good luck.
748555
You cant be honest with someone who cant be awake to what her actions have caused!!\n\nAll actions have consequences is one u can say!! She isnt a child, she needs to face up to what she has done.. you sugar coating it wont help hun!!\nA true friend will tell her how it is then be there for her regardless of how things go down!!\nFriends have to beable to be honest!! If she cant handle it then she is a bigger idiot than i first thought!~!\n\nGood luck!
262060
Just talk to her, tell her what bothers you and if she keeps on doing it or gets mad, well that would mean she is not a good friend
1032066
when they quit having sex with your friends
697694
Tell him that you need some time apart.  Tell him the reasons exactly like you did here.  You can tell him in person, but it might be better over the phone or email.  Dumping someone via email in general is NOT cool, but a) it's only been 5 weeks and b) you're concerned enough about his temper to be worried.\n\nBe kind but firm.  Start out the converstation by telling him you've been thinking about things and that the two of you need to talk.  Tell him you feel uncomfortable with the some ways things have been going.  Tell him you don't appreciate his dictating your time and criticising your apparence.  Inform him you know he's been rude to friends you've had for years, and that that's intolerable.  Finally, just tell him you don't really think the two of you are compatible and that it's probably best to tone it down for a while (that's break-up speak for have a nice life).  If you want, tell him that you're very busy with plans that were made several weeks ago, and that your time is limited.\n\nI know all about this because I've heard the talk - several times.  I've even given it a few.  It is hard, no way around it, especially if you've slept together.  Such is life.  Hopefully he'll learn from the experience, like I did; and eventually find someone fantastic who can teach him and grow with him - like I did.