i am 14 and 3 months pregnant what should i do?
372211
Give the baby up for adoption. you will be suprised to find out how many woen cant have kids and would love you child very well. You might be able to find financial aid in the process or establish an open adoption where you are involved as well!
738033
I have to try to help u, will go to the abortion issue later, 1st about the getting married, I also got married at 18, we were together all thru high school, I did just what u r going to do, but that is many yrs. ago wish I was 18 again!! Please dont make my mistake, I ended up staying married to him for 18yrs. I was so unhappy, that is a long story, but the bottom line is I did finally get a divorce, why look back now. What I ask u to do is ask yourself and be honest to yourself, why r u wanting to get married so fast? Please when u read this understand this is no judgement against your boyfriend, I want u to just sit by yourself and really give this thought, it took me yrs. to be honest with myself, I was finnally honest and my answer was I wanted to leave home, my father was a alcholic, I wanted also to be taken care of, even though I worked, I  just had to show everyone how grown up I was, needless to say he was not the same after we married, and as the yrs. went on seemed he was still thinking and treating me as if I were still a teenager! Please u and your boyfriend talk and ask each other if its real love why not just wait, your together anyway, but r u so sure or would just a 6 month wait help u both to be sure, I just want u both to be happy, wish I had been given advice, even if u dont wait at least I hope u r sure, remember I was 18 at one time to, hell never even thought or knew how fast time goes by! Whatever you and him decide I wish u both the best and my blessing, as for the abortion u cannot look back now, and believe me no one has the right to judge u, my situation was different but I had to have a abortion, my 2nd husband and I have been married 13 yrs now,happy yrs. and I became pregnant our 1st yr. but come to find out I had a tumor that made having a baby dangerous, I know what a abortion is, scary and of course sad no matter what the circumstance, I also have a friend since 7th grade and her parents made her have a abortion so in a way I know how u must feel, if its anything like my friend, she was a mess, and bitter with her parents, I can only imagine how scary it must be to be in a abortion clinic at such a young age,and against your will! It makes me sad to think of it, you went thru hell and o thers dont have a clue, unless they have been there! But dont worry u just like my dear friend will when its the right time have a beautiful healthy baby, and I just know u will be the best mom! By the way that friend I told u about was only 14 at the time, she stayed with her boyfriend and they were married at the age of 20 and this yr will be their 30th anniversary!! See were old now!!! Big 50!!LOL, and they have 2 wonderful sons, and now a grandbaby!!! All will go well for u just make sure u r doing what is right for u!! If u do get married now, please take at least a yr.before having your baby, that way u have time to enjoy each other, and be more stable. Once u have a baby believe me its a whole new life, dont take this wrong I loved having my daughter, the feeling was like oh what a miracle!!! But u have so many changes remember u and your husband will be responsible for a new life!!! Now thats amazing when u look at it that way! You will want more for your child than u had we as good parents do, remember the most precious gift u will ever give your child no matter how old he or she is will always be your love,time, and support,and beyond even that make sure your child can always come to u and talk, I wish I could have with my parents, but I never could! My daughter always could and still does and I cant believe she is 30 see what I mean how fast time goes by!!! I have a grandson so I have been blessed again! Bless u and do whats in your heart, but give my words some thought, wish u the best in life!!
618446
First of all - you need to get a job.  You are about to have a baby and diapers/formula cost money.  After get a job work on getting a place to live, etc.\nIn the meantime, be there as much as you can for the baby's mom, be supportive of her and try to go to doctor's appointments.  Be a part of the pregnancy and do as much as you can to make her comfortable.
621544
DON'T do a paper round!! it nearly killed me when i did that....i quit after 6 months!!!yeah try babysitting but i bet thats hard work too, and you need to be very responsible and trustworthy to have parents allow your to care for their baby. Stick to pocket money is my advice...sowwi.
993687
you know most children born at 30 weeks survive are perfectly healthy. do NOT do it, the complications you will have morally, ethically and mentally will never go away. the complication you could have medically, to your body arent worth the risk. not to mention how could you just kill the baby that you feel moving inside you, responding to your movements and sound. his/hers heart already beating for many many months now. turn to Jesus for help, much better than any person or online advice you can get. please dont go the abortion route, it is unchangeable. and a lifetime of regret. also there is always family's who cant have children that would love to adopt. ill be praying for you.
558487
It's not always exactly every 30 days.  It could be 33 or 35, especially at first.  Don't worry unless you think you're pregnant.  Talk to your mom about it or sister or older friend.
605117
wait 2 weeks to see if it comes and then retest for pregnancy.You should be fine if not pregnant just a little irregular which you could take birth control pills to help regulate.
603663
I would take the baby and run and get rich off of a future telling 3 month old that can talk clearly.  That way you wouldn't have to ponder weather it's a truth telling baby or a lying baby!
1154493
tell her that 14 is way to young and it is a big choice to make tell her of all the negatives that can come pregnancy std's and make sure u watch him a 16 yr old boy i a walking hormone
502293
I agree with the other poster.  Most women begin to feel less sick after the 3rd month.\n\nIf your doctor's not worried about it, you probably shouldn't be either.  Your baby isn't going to starve.  He's going to get the nutrition he needs whether you do or not.  And your doctor won't let you starve, either.  \n\nLike the other poster said, try to avoid situations that aggravated your nausea and try not to worry.
955481
if you're 7 months pregnant shouldnt you be on jobleave?\nmaybe u should get a chair or try finding a dif job or get a stool, a high one bc being on ur fett all day should not be very good for ur baby
1014481
You may be mature, but you are still at an age where you could get babysat yourself. Wait a few years, like 2, just so you can be more responsible with little kids.
42466
It all depends how healthy your pregnancy is and if your doctor foresees any complications.  So definitley ask your doctor about it.  When I was 8 months pregnant with my daughter I went to puerto rico and back to new york.
397225
you are a practicing doctor. You should know the answer yourself...\nGet your baby born first. Then, think of exercise.\nyour question doesnt relate to your explaination. Idont know which to answer. Does your pregnancy has something to do with "how long what kaind of sudies you have to do"?
467903
Personally, I think marriage is a bad idea for you. Right now your focus should be your children. Most of them won't fully accept him because he is "replacement dad." Also, he is taking their mom away from them and your attention will be on the new marriage, the new babies, not the kids you already have. Your 14 year old is acting up because of what I assume is the divorce from their father and now the new guy. Focus on your current children, they are needing you more now then ever.\n\nAlso, at 35 the risk of many birth defects increases signifigantly, along with just having a harder time to conceive children. You can still have healthy children, but you are risking a lot.
741170
go to your Dr and deal with what comes out of it best do that sooner rather than later.l.At this point you would be worrying   too much and maybe unnecessarily,using up energy you could be using with your new baby and life and yep use contraception if you don't want another baby just yet.Every girls body is different. Good luck
565851
Are you talking about sex? Okay, we have restrictions so young people don't go and get pregnant at 14 and throw away the rest of their life taking care of a baby. So they can find out about the dangers of STD's and have an opportunity to finish school before they destroy their future with an unplanned baby while in High School.\n\nBut if you want to do it go ahead and be like most kids these days.(I'm not advising you either way, your probably grown up enough)