mr husband wants to have threesome,is that ok?i havent experience it yet?
357216
Whether its ok or not, depends solely on you. \nSome people find it ok and others find it gross. As long as you feel you want to do it, what other think have no importance.\nAsk yourself and you will get the answer
1100219
My first suggestion to you is to really think about that request. It can cause alot of damage to your relatioship if you and your man aren't on the same page about what you expect to happen from this. You both have to know that it is what it is and when it's over it's really over. You need to find a person who won't want to take it any farther than the threesome. A rational person who understands the nature of sex. My second suggestion would be to contact me. I'm down.
550310
OMG He looks just like my boyfriend. I would love to have a threesome with him and my boyfriend.
410997
Forget it. Surprise him by NOT doing a threesome. He doesn't care one way or the other. So why would you even consider it??
915831
I suggest marriage counseling. Your husband sounds like an immature 20 something that should not be married. Having a three-some is  one of the BIGGEST relationship killers and definitely does not belong in a marriage if one partner is not completely open to it. He sounds like because he is not getting his way he is punishing you the only way he knows how.\nSex is supposed to play an important role in committed relationships because of the intimacy level. Sex is supposed to be something beautiful that two people who love each other share.... not something to invite others to participate in. (I feel there is a time and place for experimentation, however a marriage USUALLY isn't one of those places).\nI think his porn addiction is also a bit of a problem and he could be using a threesome as a way to deflect your attention from his real problem...his addiction to porn.\nIn my opinion, if you think your sex life is as big of a problem as it seems to me, and you want to work on your marriage, I think seeing a sex therapist with your husband (or at the very least a marriage counselor) would be your best course.\n\nDONT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER!!!!
463788
I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
75426
No way should you do this.  You two are a family with a child.  There is no reason to bring a 3rd person into your sex life.
449460
I have been with 2 men at the same time but would love to be with a women and another man.
263182
Because it is the ultimate male fantasy:a threesome with two women...and what better chance to have that then with a bisexual/bicurious gf?I guess it's because guys a very visual,they get turned on not only by what they feel,but also by what they see...and seeing two women get it on is appaerantly a sight not to be missed...
614854
Hey, as long as you guys are communicating openly and honestly about it, and you are both comfortable with the situation, then go for it.  Nothing wrong with it at all.  Just make sure that you both talk over everything and that you still both trust and respect each other when it is done.  Set up boundaries and rules before hand and let him know a head of time what is on and off limits so there are no awkward situations.  If this is your first time, map out the way the night is going to go with the third person from start to finish.  Who is going to do what, touch what, where at, what position and so on so that nothing is in the way and no one is left out.  Tell him what you want out of this and have him tell you what he wants out of this. Maybe even talking about what you are planning on doing will lead to some hot discussions and lead to a great night of sex before you ever even invite someone into the bedroom!   Good luck with this!   Love, Angela
82041
Its normal.... Most guys want this.... I have tried it and have enjoyed it. You should pick somone you are comfortable with. I am straight also but have had a 3sum twice both with 2 of my best friends. Its just exploration and should be fun. It doesnt mean he isnt dedicated to you he is just curious. and its good he came to you about it and explained his fantasy. Just try and find someone you can both agree on that you dont find threatening. Ask him if he has any ideas but make sure you stay in control ;) its better that way
935315
Well, its normal for someone to be curious about memebers of the same sex.  You might want to have a sit down with your husband- just remember that while he might get excited about seeing you with another woman, he'll be angry if theres another penis involved ok?\n\nBy the way, every married couple I've met who've been "swingers" have gotten divorce.  This is serious, so be carefull what you do- someones gonna get hurt emotionally.  Good Luck
161999
This is something you should speak to your husband about. My wife had a similar problem. She married me at 18 and I was her first. She expressed her desire to be with another man for the experience, and assured me that in no way was she interested in leaving me for another. Since I love her with all my heart, I wanted to do anything possible for her. Through our discussions we have decided that we will pursue that in the future if the situation arises. I am working through some issues over it, but as I said, I love her and will do anything for her. If she needs to fulfill this, then I will allow it to happen. We may bring another guy into the mix with us or it might happen with her and him alone, we haven't decided that yet, but we will discuss everything and both of us must be comfortable with the situation in order to proceed. Communication is the key. I'm quite sure that your husband has some fantasies of his own that he hasn't shared with you yet. This could possibly be an opportunity for you both to discover new things in your relationship. Have a conversation with your husband. If your husband loves you as much as I love my wife then he will at least ponder the thought. Good luck.
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Hello Prissy, it sounds like the two of you are world's apart on your desire. You do love him though and he loves you.\nCan you talk to each other and reach some sort of compromise?\nI take it that he is good about pleasuring you or does he?\nThat could be a part of it also. I would suggest that you two sit down somewhere comfortable and have a honest and open talk about this. I wanted sex more than my wife did for many years.\nOne of the things we have done is one night each week,  I give her a complete body rub using oil or cream. After this she is so relaxed that she is ready for anything, including me!\nIt's not 3 times a day but he is going to have to lower his expectations a bit here and find ways to get you interested too!\nJust talk, stay positive and know that you love each other.\nGood luck!
316332
For a minute there I thought I wrote this.Or maybe we've married the same man.lol.Why do they expect us to get all....excuse the saying...hot and horny from boob groping.I really cant answer u but please let me know what people suggest.The only suggestion i have is grab him roughly (u know where) when he least expects it.Let's see his arousement then!!!! lol.
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why dont you and your wife do threesomes? that way you are both involved. it might strengthen your marriage. \nif you dont want to strengthen it and want to be with others alone...why do you even want to be married???