i think im still in love with my ex girlfriend should i ask her out or should i forget about it?
370799
You have nothing to lose so go for it, if you dont act on it right now you will then say...if only i had told her...so just give it a try.  If it doesnt work you can just move on like you did when you first left her...
1152575
I honestly think that you might need some distance in order to move on with your feelings. It is going to be hard to forget her if you are still close as friends.  How will you feel knowing that you are no longer together and being in the same room as her? You would feel like crap and distance will minimise that feeling.\n\nUltimately it will take time to move on.  Love hurts like hell when you break up and it takes time to get over that 'worst part' pain. If you keep your distance and keep contact  minimal, plus keep going on with your own life, you will eventually find that the pain will subside.\n\nI hope you make it through this emotional roller-coaster we call  relationships.
610723
you don't do nothing, case closed, if you have moved on, and you have no feelings for your ex, leave it alone. you can't help who likes you in your lifetime, just don't do nothing to act on anything that will mess up your current relationship.
994690
1st it depends on how long you were with her, you need to give yourself time adjust after this. Because its just a process you have to go through 2 feel good about yourself again. It will take as long as it needs 2. you will know yourself when you r ready to get the ball rolling again! There is no point on going out on the rebound as you will still have feelings for her. You will just end up getting hurt or hurting someone else its not a good idea to rush, it took me along time b4 i let anyone else in my life after my break up! She messed my head up so much it. i don't know your situation but all i can say and i think a lot of guys would say the same take it easy nice and slow you have all the time in the world. \n\nbut if you want to go out and meet someone do the same as you would have b4. Have a good time talk to them n ask them out there is only two answers you will get!!!!!!!!!
307926
First, you need to make sure that she is not under the impression that there is any chance you guys could get back together. Remember you broke up for a reason and if it was a stupid one than maybe you should reconsider the relationship. Another thing you need to be careful of is that fact that she may be very unstable if after 2 yrs she is still crying over your separation. By now she should of moved on at least a little bit. I'm not saying that she should be with someone and madly in love. I am saying that she should of by now, come to the realization that there is nothing more there. Another problem may be if she hasn't seen you move on, this may fuel the flame sort of speak. If she sees the fact that you are single and not looking she may think that you are just waiting for the right time to get back together with her. Hopefully this helps......
223503
HELLO, this is serious you broke up with her for a reason. Now you are living in a fantasy forged by all of the "good times" and as time goes on you have her built up to be someone that she could never live up to being. You may want to be with her again because you are plagued with wondering what might have been. I am aware of the incredible pain. You can move on if you want (ask us for help with that) If you are already invested in the drama and choose to seek her out. Do not waste another moment of your precious life and know when to run.
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
859617
you did the right thing. dont feel bad honestly. if you kept dating her then youw ould have made things a whole lot worse because later on, she might have fallen in love with you. leave things the way it is. tell her to call you once she is okay enough to accept things with how they are and you just want to be friends. that you will always be there for her even though you arent with her.
1005379
No, neither. You're just holding onto the past. Obviously, you still have feelings for your ex. Time to let go, push her and any feelings away. Be with your sweetie, show her how much you love her. Because if you hold onto those feelings, they will get in the way of the relationship down the road. Set the past free.
1104265
Ask your friend. I know you said ex-bestfriend but you r still friends right? If you arent then I would think you can go ahead and pursue her but if you are still friends then talk to your friend and find out how he feels about it first. Remember, friends sometimes last a lot longer than gf/bf relationships.
274798
I would go for it if you dont have any ties to your ex.  If your completly over him, and your ex's bf understands what hes getting into, then go for it.\n\nYou shouldnt not be happy because your concerned about what your ex think.
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
367632
Okay, here it is: You and your girlfriend got to be close to each other while you were together, I'm sure you know a lot more about her now than most people and she knows much about you. You had fun with her and you enjoy her company. If so, then yes, by all means, stay friends with her. If you don't enjoy her company and actually dislike her, then no, avoid her but still be nice to her. Just figure out her as a friend, not just as an ex.
833387
Sure, just keep yourself as busy as possible while looking for a replacement. You will probably never really be able to forget her, but you don't want to. Use her to learn from so you don't repeat your mistakes. But, eventually, you WILL GET OVER her--guaranteed. Be patient but keep yourself occupied with positive things.
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
619377
almost a year since we broke up, but i still think of her every day since then. i cant seem to get her off my mind. may be becasue i am still single. i had the best time ever with her in my life, but i moved away (over seas). over all, i remember good memoreis. she always wishes that i would come back to her, but it wont happen which sucks so bad.
324993
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.