why is my ex acting like dis now after he told me he love me ?
367352
You have a tendency to punish him when he gives you what you want. That will make him close up and communication will be next to impossible. I'm sure you don't do it maliciously, but you should stop to think how what you say might be perceived.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
460029
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
980509
he still loves you,,wanting you,,using her,,she is the most stupid one in this game,, but he is stupid too,,coz he is expressing his love that way,,, but he wants you,, but you gave up,,you made him want to do anything to get you back or hurt you,, not coz he hates you,,but coz he still wants you\nGood Luck
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
747736
Parkfield, I'm talking to you from the guy's perspectives. The first and the greatest sign is that he deliberately won't like to communicate with you anymore - in all ramifications of the word. Then, you need to act fast if you want to have him back to yourself. Cheers!!!
852451
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
408007
AWW HE STILL LOVES YOU!\nHe wants you to get jealous and for you to run after him because he has to big of an ego to ask you.
142561
He probably feels reluctant about getting his feelings to involved, cause he thinks that you might patch things up with your ex,the best thing to do is let him know that you care and that you dont have time for silly games and that you want to to be in a meaningful realationship.
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
1167249
He sounds immature.  Ask yourself if you  are better off with him or without him.  Sounds to me like without would be the way to go.\n\nI just ended a 7 year relationship - so don't feel alone in this.  I feel sad at times but am getting my life back together without his head games and am feeling at peace\n\nGood luck
809120
it probably means that hes not happy, depressed, or just feels bad about the whole breaking up thing.... or he might just be shy around you now that you guys are broken up he might feel weird talking to you
235396
I think he's hurt because of the past. now he wants u to feel the same way and he's playin hard 2 get. I had the same thing and you now what ?? our little chasing game lasted 2 years! You can understand if he likes u or not by the way he acts around you . if he try to play cool he totally likes you!
879093
It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
837380
Hum... hard question... he might be sincere, but i REALLy don't like the fact that he broke up with you and then called to say how sorry we was.... sounds like one of those guys who slaps you in the face then begs your pardon.... why did he broke up with you? how did he do it? only you know what to do, but i'd think twice if i were you... good luck!
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.