im with a man who loves me but he has not given me a reason to think he is cheating but i always feel he is a?
368271
could it be that you have another problem that leads to your distrust of him? Guess we need more details and facts to determines if he's cheating. I mean just talking on the phone doesn't prove anything. you should look for unaccounted time (working late, times he can't tell you about things he's done) before fighting with him about it. \n\nif you're going to ask questions. be smart about it and make it casual. don't push.
379400
No. I am in a great relationship and we both believe in exclusivity. I love him too much to cheat and I think he feels the same.
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
290456
if you have reason to believe he is youare probably right. i can't think of a time i thought someone was cheatin and i was proven wrong. a womens intuition is never wrong
953870
if youre not gettin any sorry im in the same situation.my husb.works all the time and thats his reason we dont.he says he loves me and would never cheat so i go on that bc i love him.so when it turns into months bf you get any i know how you feel
27408
I suggest you ask him and explain why you are asking him , has he given you reason to think he is ? Or do you have trust issues ? Your best bet is to talk to him and be honest seeing as though that is what you would want from him right ?
1150610
To be honest If you have to ask then there is definitely doubt somewhere in the back of your mind. You've heard of the saying once a player, Always a player... well Once a liar, always a liar. But some people do change.... I want you to know that if you do continue your relationship that your always going to have doubts... your always going to be thinking he's hiding something or lying about anything. Just take your time with this.... I wish you the best.
74346
no i dont think so,cuz if i know or find out he cheats on me that means i cant give him what he need..so aint no need for me 2 b with him anymore..he wanna cheat on me he should make sure im not gonna find out,but men always get busted somehow..and as a female u know when he cheats,u can feel it.
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
507942
To me it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you.  But I'm telling you listen to your mind not just your heart.  Your heart is going to tell you what makes you feel good but your mind may tell you what is best for you. Because I was with a man for about 5 years and he was always with other females and lying to me.  I loved him I truly did, and I probably always will.  I just wish that I had left him sooner. So you do this for me ask yourself this would you rather be alone and happy free from him cheating on you or with him and hurting. Also remember that if a man cheats and lies to you it doesn't make him a bad man, because a woman can have someone who is faithful to her and honest yet he might come home and beat on her everyday.  Just because you love him don't just go by that.  Most people will say you are a fool for staying with him eventhough he cheats, but I say you aren't a fool you are just in love or you think you are in love.  So just look out for yourself and if he's done more to you than for you and you've felt more pain than happiness you know what to do.  I know your question was if he loves you but I felt like I wanted to tell you all of this because I hate to see a woman who really loves a man and take him back or stay with him eventhough he's hurting her.  I wish you the best
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
853359
If you feel that he is... in your gut... then he probably is. I have learned through experience to trust myself, and I constantly tell girls all the time to TRUST THEMSELVES as well. You know yourself better than anyone.... Can you be with a guy you cant trust.. If the answer is yes, Then maybe you should get some councelling of your own. You cant be a doormat, you cant have love with out trust. Good luck
762902
HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.
222775
If you think that he is cheating, then he probably is.  Ask him.  Don't "spy" on him like people are telling you to.  If you have to spy, there is already a trust issue and that is hard to build up a relationship when there is no trust.  Plus, running around and checking up on him is just a waste of your time, and he aint worth it girl!  Take your extra time and find a decent guy that will spend his weekends with YOU!  Good Luck!!!
494046
Confront him with your insecurities. But don't go about it in an accusing manner. Rather, ask if everything is right between you two. Trust is everything in a relationship. If there are more signs that come up, then I would definitely look into it. But insecurities from your part needs to come to a resolution of if you do trust him or if you don't.  If there is real proof he is cheating on you then confront the issue. If not, let it be. Showing your lack of trust in him can be hurtful especially if he's been loyal to you all along.