i need some help on asking someone out do i go to him or do he come to me?
371709
Ask him if he'll come with you to get a cup of coffee, chat on the way, if he's worth it ask him out on a real date
1029706
Become friends with him if you haven't already. Find out what he's interested in. For example, if you both want to see this movie, be like "Would you like to come with me?" If he says no, then just be like "Whatever, I'll just ask one of my other friends." If he says yes, then it may be the start of something great. (:
351929
i would just say to ask him out....if he says no, then oh well, but if he says yes...well, he says yes! or maybe he'll say maybe and ask you the next day like my boyfriend did!
448409
wait for him to  ask you out
801429
1) probably\n\n2) go out with him. All is fair in love and war. Why wait for him to ask you out? Ask him out!\n\ngood luck!
351050
You don't...it is up to him to make the next move.  You had a great time...if he asks you out again, then you know that he did too!
559600
i would say 1st get his phone number, then go in for the ask out
981798
well i would just flirt with him and get him to ask you out, if he doesnt in like a week, then ask him out, by talking to him and not making it like a proposal.  relax! GOOD LUCK:)!!
895415
I have the same problem but I would go up to that person and ask them out. I mean I get nervous when I do that. So be confident and go ask him out. Be yourself
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
471188
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.
604330
I would suggest that you go out with someone who invited you out...meaning he's the one that is much interested to get to know u! even if you wanted to go out with this guy that you are crushing( as a girl i can say that)...it's actually advisable to go for someone who's more interested in us that us to them.  Maybe it's a blessing in disguise, just when you are thinking of asking a guy out this guy asked you for a date, maybe it's one way of saving you from the possible heartache that you might experience once you will be rejected!  it's really difficult when we do the first move because we might get hurt....or if you will succeed the first time, that's not even a guarantee that there will be 2nd or 3rd now, will you be happy asking a guy out forever!  Just date this guy who invited you out...try to get to know him...who knows you might end up liking him in the end!
420277
Just say to him, "Do you want to hang out sometime?"  This way, you'll get to spend time together but it won't be an official date.  You can be flirty with him and see how he responds.  And if he likes you after hanging out a few times as friends, then he'll probably ask you out on a date!\nAnd don't ask him around his birthday, he'll probably be busy.\nDon't listen to people who say that you should never ask a guy out...there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.  People who say that are old fashioned, or afraid of rejection.
898094
go for it girl. Talk to him nd then who nowws. But go for it.
843642
ok first off take a deep breath.  yes its ok 2 ask him out. wat u do first is talk 2 him 4 a lil bit. then casually bring up the subject. if he says yes thats great if he says no then at least u no and can move on.\n\ngood luck
1085309
well if you know that he likes you and that you like him alot then i guess that its safe to say that you may consider asking him out again! and umm.. you should probably just talk to him about getting back together and then if he says that its not the same then well thats a no and talk to him that why is it different and that should maybe work!