Depression. Death, DUI, in the military. I questioning if I need help; Any places in San Diego?
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The link below might help, but if you use your military insurance to pay for treatment, the military will know and may have access to the records.  Counseling of life issues typically doesn't destroy military careers, but destructive behaviour will.  \n\nGood for you for considering seeking help and I wish you nothing but success with it!
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Goth clubs. It's where I went when I was depressed and looking to hook up. Good people there. Real people for the most part. Hmm..where else? Support groups for the clinically dperessed. Maybe even a Sex Addixts Anonymous meeting. Good luck.
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im in NA . you can go to recoverychat.com they can help you there. call intergroup in the phonebook. call your police station they will know.you can also go to online meetings. na.com or  stepchat.com   good luck.if you need to talk my email is shydave01@yahoo.com.  also msn shydave01@hotmail.com  there are people out there that really want to help including me.
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That is Deep! I appreciate people taking the time to express their loss,their memories.I'm sorry for yours!At least you seem to have accepted the tragedy and found some peace.Life is so strange,it is 4 21am I have been up since 1 25 on this computer reading and trying to answer some things I know alittle about from life's experience.My boys are asleep,so is my dog.My wife died in my arms a month ago today,I could not help her with CPR nor could the rescue team,41 too young, but everyday I see her in my sons,it will take along time to recover, as they say!God Bless You too!
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I feel for you,  you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion.   Im glad you are seeing a counsellor.  hope you continue too.   I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this.  It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time.   I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle.   Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?\nCrying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either.  You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!\nI have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else.   Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final.  I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.       \nLife is Beautiful hon.   keep your head up and spirits higher.
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Have you tried Hertz car rental - sometimes if you've broken down or drunk too much they will send out a driver to take you home - can be quite expensive though - My advice would be to stay sober in future .
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There are MANY wonderful on line support groups that can be very helpful.  Medications can help, too.  \nI understand how you feel because therapy is not an option for me, either.\nBut my support group keeps me hanging in there and fighting my demons.  And I'm glad to be alive.... crazy or not!!
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I'm glad you're in good health. I wonder if you still have any rehab to go through. It took me a while to recover after a problem a few years back. MADD would probably be glad for you to briefly tell your story at one of their meetings. Maybe high school Driver's Ed. classes could use a word from you as well.
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This happened to me last December.  I wound up in ICU.  What to do about my disabled/non-driver husband, the house, getting around etc.  The Hospital I was in sent a Case Manager (an RN with Social Services training etc) to visit me in.  She really helped.  I could not believe the amount of available services in my area.  There are Catholic Charities, Jewish Chariles, Lutheran Charities,  none of whom care what (or if) your religion is.  There is a low/no fee medical or seniors transportation service.  The list went on and on.  If you have the $ or not, services are available.   Hopefully,  so are REAL friends!!
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Where to get help depends on a lot of things...\n- Finances (can you pay or do you need to find some free or low cost help)\n- What exactly is going on\n\nYou can try here: http://www.sfbacct.com/\n\nThey are really great!  I hope you feel better.  At the very least talk to a friend and get it all out.  Sometimes we feel that no one cares about us, but in reality thats not true.  It's just that we don't reach out to anyone and let them know that we need a friend. 8-)
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Talk to your chaplain. Your conversations with him are confidential. He will probably recommend that you speak to a doctor, becuase it really does sound like you are severely depressed. It's not something to be embarassed about. It is a medical condition, and it can be treated.\n\nMy husband just got out of the Marines a few months ago. We went through a lot of deployments and it was really hard on both of us. I was severely depressed and it only made things worse for both of us. I got on medication, and it has helped TREMENDOUSLY. \n\nTake Care
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Ok I have a few things you can try:\nResponse Line\n \nA "warm line" (not a crisis hot line) for anyone looking for resources, referrals, or just a chance to connect with others regarding dealing with mental disorders. Call the NAMI CCNS office (847) 724-1460 and leave a message. Messages are picked up three times a week by our response tearm members. \n \nI know that the Dane County line can help people find low cost treatment. \n\nhttp://www.ccfhchicago.org/INDEX_net.asp\n\nhttp://www.therapistfinder.net/hospitals/illinois/cook.html\n\nAll you have to do when you get the clinic or therapist name is to ask point blank if they offer a sliding fee? If not, they might know of someone who does.
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In today's climate 2 DUIs are definitely not good at all. Get a good lawyer to work with the DA and get into outpatient substance abuse counseling. You can probably get off with probation and continued counseling. I wish you luck whatever happens. One last word: If drinking is causing you problems, you might have a problem with drinking.
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Maybe you can get help at your local American Legion. They have people to help with these problems. And they'll be on your side.
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i know.. i was in desert storm.. i did the same thing for years and now get treatment for it..its called PTSD... look it up and i bet he is not so nice any more.. he can get free help at your local veterans office
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Maybe you should travel.  If you can't, try gong to the hospital or old folks home and volunteering your services.  Helping others always makes me feel better.
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First of all, I am very sorry for the loss of your friend. I know it feels like the whole world just got up and walked out of your life, doesn't it? It hasn't, just a part of it has, one that meant a great deal to you. Do you have anyone at this time that you can talk with on a regular basis? If not, then get one. It will help you grieve for your loss and be able to accept it and move on. A support group is absolutely your best option for now. Not only are you hurting inside but there are others there that are hurting just like you, as well. There are others at group therapy that know what your're going through and know of ways to offer support and help for you too.\nPlease go and seek out a support group in your area. You don't know how therapeutic talk therapy can be until you have gone to one of these meetings. It's free, and not only will you shed tears but others will be right there with you to help you and they too will shed tears. I am sure your friend would want you to move on and take care of yourself. You are also having I'm sure what is called situational depression and might need the help of a pyschiatrist right now. Call your doctor if you feel like your suicidal or if you feel like your gonna hurt yourself in anyway then call 911 and get help please. I wanna hear back from you to know your okay and gonna be alright. Think of all the good memories you had with this special person. I believe in the spirit world and I think those that have left before us are still with us just in a different way.\nTake care of you, and the best of luck to you my friend.