i what can id about my boyfriend?he likes me but my bestfriend likes him.she lies about him all the time......
372216
you gota ask yourself what kinda friend tells your boyfriend she loves him,and what kinda guy is he to take her calls,relationships shud be fun,if this keeps up then walk away girl,you dont deserve to feel bad all the time.
813399
If she was truly your best friend, she wouldn't even think about your boyfriend.  And if he showed her the slightest hint of attention, he is not worth it.  Tell her this, and if she does not back off, dump her.  If he flirts or contacts her in anyway, dump him.  Either way, choose your friends better.
483833
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
1066733
you shouldnt tell your friend about anything you and boyfriend do.\nthat way you can keep your boyfriend and your best friend.
261217
what?? ur cousin?? is she saying bad things about u?? man... she should be on ur side.. she should be lying for u...\nmaybe this cousin likes ur bf and wants to steal him from u...\nwhat to do... talk to both ur cousin and boyfriend...find out why ur cuz's doing it and tell ur boyfriend she's lying...ur boyfriend should believe u more than ur cousin...if not, maybe he's brainwashed and has gotten a liking to ur cuz or that he simply doesn't trust u..either way, it shouldn't be...\n\ndon't worry... long as you hold the truth u'll never be in despair
613912
Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
235931
that's exactly the same problem with me!!!!! and seriously i don't know what to do. he tells me that it's not true, but he totally flirts with her. i've thought about breaking up with him, but u know it would ruin our friendship!
555496
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
205917
Girl u need to check your best friend. It may not be anything going on but just sit her down and ask her. My best friend is a boy and every girlfriend he get has a problem with our relationship. We hold hands and hug each other, we take each other out to eat all the time, i even spend a night or two at his house. But i don't mess around with him. So just ask your best friend  whats the deal. And if you trust your boyfriend and claims nothing is there then drop it.
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
850450
Your friend is being really stubborn. It seems to me that she has some deep-seated issues with criticism. (I should introduce her to my best friend — they sound like kindred spirits.) You need to get them both in the same place (don't tell them your plans until you get them together) so they can work out whatever beef she has with him. It's good that your boyfriend at least tried to make amends.
904886
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
818163
He obviously likes you, but he's more into your best friend - yes, even though she doesn't like him.  Guys love a challenge!  He's all intrigued now because he wants to find out WHY she doesn't like him, if he's playing hard to get, and to prove to himself that he can get her in the long run.  He flirts with you because you're fun and he feels comfortable with you, plus he's also trying to make her jealous.  Don't be concerned with his feelings for her right now, continue to be friends with him, but also be a little mysterious and not quite as flirtateous back.  At the least you will have a good friendship with him, and who knows, when he finally realizes that your friend isn't going to suddenly love him to bits, he'll see you in an entirely different light.  Good luck!
583663
Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.
1074895
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)