Me and some of my closest friends stopped talking, i need a way to forget about them and move, how can i?
364085
find some new friends that you get along very well.if you have older friend ( not old but people that you know for longer time) keep hanging out with them.it happened to me too and I found better friends and one day the other girls called and said they were sorry and they said that they envied me for having better and more friends,and they said they missed me.i stick with the better girls of course:)
685090
who ever forget about my friendship is not worth the try.\nI usually forget them.
1024873
try to talk to her/him as much as possible keep in touch with her/him\nlet them know you miss 'em
670001
thats not something someone can answer for you, you need to try to do things that make you happy, and be around your friends, eventually you will be able to let them go, just know they are always with you....
661468
You can't just forget your feelings you need to talk about them and get them out.  Talk to a freind and tell them how you feel aboout that person if you keep talking about it you will start to feel better.  If you try to forget them you will feel worse.
872175
If they don't like to talk to you, stop wasting your time trying to be different just to please them. Try and look for friends that are interested in the things you like to talk about. True friends won't ignore you. Stop being their friends now before you get hurt.
268057
well, can you get in touch? If not i would suggest taking a night to remember them and then just let go.
227086
maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then
252132
Casually call him up...say "Hey it's been forever, I miss ya, lets get together and do something" Get him out and talking and casually bring up what the other friend asked you. Get the conversation going and see how it leads. Best of luck.
1135800
If you've told them how you feel and they still insist on having people there that you don't really want, then there isn't much you can do.  You can try talking to them again and reminding them that this is your graduation party and you would appreciate it if they would respect your wishes - but that doesn't mean they will listen.\nIf you have to deal with the unwanted people then just do it - it will only be for the evening and it might not be so bad.  Maybe have a couple of your close friends sleep over that night that way you get some time to hang out with them alone.
192047
Maybe you should ask yourself what it is actually that makes you want to be friends with them AT THIS STAGE in life. Are you friends because you have always been or because they enrich your life?\n\nIt is no shame not to want to spend your time on doing things with them that really don't interest you anymore. You would be fooling yourself, not them if you continue.\n\nI know, it is hard. You don't want to break up friendships that you have had for a long time already. Just realize that youcan try to talk to them, tell them how you feel about it - since you have nothing to loose anyway, as it seems - but it remains their life, their choice and their time. Don't expect some major change just because you ask them to...\n\nGood luck!
258026
try being nice to them , have a social hour with them so they can have some fun memories with you and they will quit bein obnoxious
492229
tell them that you never forgot about them! That you have always thought and wondered how they were doing! But never had time to say hello before! But now want to keep in touch or something along those lines! Hope that helps! Good luck!
640130
you can't really do too much except respect the fact that they won't talk to you, if they are your friend then they will talk to you.  just leave them alone and carry on with  your business, they will come around soon and if they dont' then you don't need them
658378
find a quiet place for u 2 2 talk. when your there ... ake a move.\n\nKatie < : )
399060
It is hard as you and them do not see each other..you lost contact and they make new friends in time.\nyou have to learn to let go of them and start afresh and try to make friends with new people..You have to try to move on with life and make it fullest of it.\n\nThey were there for you before ,not now. You have to learn to let go and move on.\n\nTry it alright.\n\nTake care.
848074
You have to rely on your family members, for one thing, until you get a new set of friends.  You also have to put yourself out there, in places where you can meet people who have your same interests.  In other words, you have to begin replacing friends who had once been close confidant to you with other people.\n\nOne thing you might try is to keep a journal -- even a computerized version -- and write things down that you want to discuss with your friends if they were there for you.\n\nThose of us reading your post can empathize with you -- don't think that we do not.  Sometimes friends become so close that they almost become like brothers and sisters to us -- and when these friendships fade, it is like losing a family member.\n\nGood luck now.