will doing it your first time really hurt?
370630
Yes, most definitely. Basically, you'll feel like he's going to tear you in half and there's nothing that will stop him. The pain will go away after a couple of days, but you'll remember it for the rest of your life.
342265
Well, yes and no.  If you are properly prepared, then the pain shoud be minimal or nonexistent, but its ALWAYS gonna hurt the very first time.  Those sphincters are being stretched to a whole new extent.  Just think of how your body feels when you try a new exercise and hyperextend a muscle... its the same concept. There are ways to make it easier, though.  Experiment with various sizes of marital aids first and "work up" to the size that's right for you.
561976
It really depends on your pain threshold. I'm sure it hurts a little at first, but you get used to it over time and eventually it is no big deal.
498935
No No and No.\n\nAside from slight pain the first few times it harms nothing.\nUnless the rest of you have actually had anal sex, fuck off.\n\nIt wont harm a bit.
83681
No it's not really psychological.It was your first time,you were inexperienced,probably nervous,and you didn't completely trust the person you were with.Sounds pretty normal.You'll learn with time and experience,and it will get better.
1100156
No, but it will hurt a lot!
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
977918
yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
126199
Yes, it does hurt, but it is totally bearable and worth it, if you are ready and want it. Just make sure you are ready and there has been lots of foreplay and you are relaxed as possible (although you will be understandably nervous). Your body will tell you when you are ready. Make sure you care about the guy and he cares about you. Not trying to preach just want to make sure its is a happy memorable moment.  Oh and dont expect it to be perfect. Sex has awkward moments, especally if he is a virgin too. So good luck and be safe and have fun.
638750
my first time was completely painless.  why?  cause the guy was tiny, i'm talking pinky finger.  so it wasn't a problem for me.  good luck!
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
247331
no i dont think so but im not 100 percent sure...\nyou can try it..what will it hurt?
653042
Relax. Everybody goes through it and almost everyone is nervous, especially their first time.
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
923251
You will have the most pain you have ever known.\n\nCoach
320653
That is so sad to hear, but i dont think that it will hurt because it seem like this one night stand boy done already popped your cherry (not to sound nasty or nothing but the last boy done open you up) it  always hurt at first when they stick it in but then after a while the pain is going to go away
254596
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps