what should i do? my ex wants to get back with me.?
355883
he is a ex for a reason. keep him an ex and move on
88515
You don't.  She has made a choice that you need to respect.  The best thing you can do is move on and concentrate on you.  By making your life the best it can possibly be without her there is a slim chance she might realize what she lost.  The key is that you deserve to be happy and you can't be if all you do is focus on getting her back.  She doesn't want some guy who begs to get her back, she wants a guy who has his act together.
306054
Forget about her!!! I've had the same situation with this guy, until I finally said to myself, Hey! What am I doing here? He doesn't deserve me and I'm not going to wait forever! I shoudn't be running after him he should be running after me! And if he's gonna want me back, it's too late for that! And guess what? He wantd me back. And I didn't. That's what you should do. Have some dignity MAN!
1098915
Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
127730
you know the same thing happened to me and my ex girlfriend wanted me back ,but she never said anything to me about it.if she would have said something bout it sooner i would have patched it up with her a long time ago..if you really want him back and you think it can happen act now
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
951406
You 2 broke up for a reason if u get back together do u really think it will work if so go for it if not then dont try anything on him.
156221
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
826828
FIRST you need to STOP going back to him because he is only using you and you are allowing him to do so.  You dont have enough self esteem within yourself to not go back.  If you ever want to get ober the guy STOP GETTING BACK WITH HIM!  There is no reason you should even be in contact with him, he is a loser and if you continue to see him ...you will be one as well.
1023159
first ask yourself whether u really want him back or is it again "just attraction".think over watever happened whether it is bound to happen again to bring back the same situation.....find out whether he's also feeling the same burn as u r or did he royally ditch you for no reason?...dont get baffled  up by such situations..keep your cool.....u never know..might be.. he is really in need of you.
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
291616
First of all, why is your ex girlfriend talking to you? Is it just to talk? That's okay. Your girlfriend should understand.\n\nBut if she wants to fool around or get back with you, you should not talk to her unless you do want to fool around or get back with her. In that case, be upfront with your girlfriend about it.
919711
You need to decide what is best for you.  What are the reasons you two broke it off?  Are they mendable?  Will things change when you two get back together?  I've never gone back to an ex.  I've thought about it a few times but for me, if what we went through was enough to break us up in the first place, who's to say it won't just happen again?  Take a break from each other.  If a month goes by and you two still feel like you belong together, give it another shot!  \n\nJust don't stay with someone because you are afraid to get back out there and love again.  There will always be someone else.  You have a big enough heart to love again.  Good Luck with your decisions.  Only you can make the right decision for youself!