My B/F just broke up with me and it really hurts what can i do?
363555
Have you talked to him about it?Well just try to get your mind off of him.Hind things or throw things away that might bring back memories of you and him.Talk to other people because if he loves you he'll come back....
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
193145
The best way to mend a broken heart is to accept the fact you can never have him again and move on by making your days busy and by doing things that will make you happy. Be with your friends because they will really help you ease up the pain.
29416
Just politely tell him it's not working for you and let him know that it's over.  Don't be too critical as it's going to hurt bad enough for him.
762749
Just b/c your the one who broke things off doesn't make it any less painful for you.  You are still going to go through the "missing him" part...  Just make sure you don't go back and forth on your decision and get back together with him.  Stick to your guns.  You made your decision, now stick with it.
284735
hey well one sorry to hear that. two well the best thing i think you can do is go talk to her. find out exactly why she broke up with you. if the chemistry just wasn't there for her you will have to find a way to move on. if it was something else that can be fixed well than talk to her and maybe you can fix it. goodluck and i wish you all the best.
364248
It's gonna be WAY too HARD!! i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months and 15 days, and i still can't get over it! But i think you should try to take some time for yourself.. Try going to parties, hangouts, gatherings with more friends around or try to go to the gym.. What i'm trying to say is that you should keep busy! that's the only way that you might forget..\n\nGood Luck!!
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
777436
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
304567
U sould break up with the guy. but it is not your fault if u didn'i even no he was with someone else. Just be another b/f and every thing will be ok. Just try not to go out with someome like that.
90188
You need to cy and let all your anger go. You should not keep it to your self. Cry for him now but in the furure not. He doesn't deserve you to be crying for him. If he din't tell you why you two broke up then he doesn't deserve you.
201018
give him a chance to breathe and think on your relationship. if you want him in your life you have to be mature enough to let him decide if he wants to be with you; if you're bringing drama to the relationship and he broke up with you because of it, at this point you have to let him decide if he REALLY wants to be with you. I was in a relationship like yours and he decided to come back to me. I always have to be careful of his feelings due to our past but if your gut wants to be with you let him. if he doesn't let him go, it'll only help the both of you in the long run...
862428
nothing now.. just be there if she needs you after the big breakup.
771096
try your best to get over it . do NOT sit around listening to sad love songs. It does not help. it actually makes things worse. hang out with ur friends. Keep urself ocupied. dont let ur mind wander to him. plus u cant get him bak if hes the one who broke up wit u.
39062
WOW. I am sorry. It sounds like he had a hell of a time over seas and isn't quite home mentally yet. It really sucks that he broke up with you, but you don't live in a house with a swinging door. Tell him that you'd like to work on your relationship with him, but don't attack him. I'm sure he's had enough attacks on him over the last 6-18 months. BUT... also let him know that you can't just be around for sex. He needs time to heal his mind. The best thing you can do right now is to give him all the time he needs. Just don't get played. Don't have sex with him anymore whether he gets mad or not.