How does love fall apart?
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Pain. When you always fight or you're far away from each other. Most people think that love conquers the pain no matter how hard it is but the truth is, Pain takes away the Love no matter how great it is.
47835
Thinking has nothing to do with Love.  Thinking is what prevents Love.  Thinking is how humans end up with emotions like jealousy, envy, sadness,  grief or depression.  No one thinks themselves into Love.\nDo I feel one can really love?  Yep, been there, done that, got the T-shirt and wore it out (the T-shirt, not the love).\nTo what extent can it go?  There are no limits.  Love expands to fill as much as one allows.  Love inspires poems, stories, movies, relationships, the very fabric of society.  Love brings out the best, improves the worst and promotes tolerance and understanding.  Not just between two people, but humanity as a whole.  Lovers usually don’t have road rage, forget their biases and ignore the need for food, rest and often even sleep.\nAnd the strangest thing about love, is just when most give up and start to believe that Love will never touch them,  BLAM, that is when Love usually finds them.\nLove is the greatest mystery in a Universe of Unknowns and Unknowables.
138162
We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
230441
no only as for long as its meant to be, some love starts from just a look while others take time to grow. Both are  very vulnerable the slightest breeze could destroy  even the strongest love. Love's is to unpredictable to say any thing definitive about it . LOVE IS THE CAUSE OF HAPPINESS AND SADNESS. Love is ever thing it last as long as beauty exists
748922
hey try to know why it is falling apart........ ask ur frd .. show ur feelings so he/she can understand and you can also get answers for ur questions going in ur mind. speak out.. clarify it
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Hmm . . thats a good question \n\nThe answer is that the Love goes no way . . . Its just transformed . . . into hate most of the times. \n\nPeople or mates with broken hearts tend to keep that love in them for a certain period of time. Some take more time and some take less (YES i am talking about the Guys here) \n\nGals in most cases are devastated, thats if they didnt make a MAJOR SCREW (by that i mean like get drunk and sleep with a good frnd of his . . i mean cmmon . . who would belive that story if it has happened to u 2 or 3 times already) . . \n\nGuys, well not all of them forget so easily . . but most of them do. . others sit and analyze the situation . . (like myself) Tries to Make UP . . I mean if he or She Seriously Loves the Other . . \n\nAnyway . . you've got your Answer. . . \n\nAnd just so that u know . . (Im not female and im a Male) lol  . . (No Seriously I aint Kiddin. . I m a male)
644366
It's a fact of life that people who are 'in love' will eventually simply love one another. It's impossible for the raging fire that was once your feelings for each other to continue indefinitely. This is very normal. Eventually, you will feel the same and you will accept it and be happy that you have someone who loves you. There are people in this world who never have that.
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when you love someone its like if you are not making them happy but you know your heart is in there hands then love them enough to let them go and be happy. but then if you love them so much then you would both bend to compromise with each other so you are both happy. to me. NEVER let sum1 you love go. make it work first. the last solution is leaving. holla
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because their love died out and the passion had gone rotten like a dead mouse or summat.
863245
How does love works?\n\nFirst and foremost, nothing comes easy in life. From the moment we were born, it's not easy for our mothers and it is not easy for us as the baby. Then comes the growing part, it is never easy. Why? Because we experience new emotions, new things and we adapt to it, we complement ourselves to our conditions, we learn new things, we learn to give and take and in the process we finally learn that we actually love our parents, our brothers and sisters and our friends. We learn to interact with people and our environments (e.g. trees, parks, nature, the poor, the beggars, animals, pets...). Nothing is perfect. Even ourselves are not perfect. So why leave a girl or a guy just because there are no more sparks? (a situation of imperfection). I think it's all because they do not understand the reality of this world and this life.\n\nHere are the phases that we will go through in our lives:\nCouples will fall in love.\nCouples will fall out of love. (no more fantasy feelings)\nCouples will discover some ugly truths (e.g. their partner never brush their teeth)\nCouples give and take, and learn to complement each other's weakness.\nCouples get married.\nCouples are never perfect and again it is not easy.\nCouples again forgive and complement and strive to make things better because they are commited to the relationship.\nCouples have kids and live happily ever after.... (with all the struggle and communication and a little fights here and there but with lots of reconciliation...)\n\nThat's how things are...\n\nWell, then there are those who just cannot let go of the "fantasy phase" of courtship and that's where you find mistresses, guys cheating on girls, girls cheating on guys.... and all nonsense will happen all because people tend to believe that things are meant to be easy.\n\nIn the end....... whether we like it or not.....\n\nLife is never easy. \n\n\n(we have to adapt, we have to change and it is ours to make things happen.)
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People fall in love. Its almost like when you were little and you spun around in circles love is like that dizzy feeling but then u eventually fall...well that would be the end of the relationship cuz when you fall it hurts...now yes people will rise again, and they will move on to other things. But it will never be the same because if that person you "fell" for was really your first love then theres always going to be w/ you and you will always have some feeling for them but you will move on.
508509
Love happens without work.  You can fall in love and be incredibly happy with someone, but when you've been with them a certain amount of time, that persons flaws become more apparent to you and you accept that life must continue to function with TWO people instead of ONE.  This means that you have to work hard to help eachother, to remain obligated to eachother, each paying bills and working and taking care of kids.  It's hard work to find a middle ground or reach a compromise sometimes, but it's worth it.  All the hard work is worth love =)
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Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them.  They will always be there in your head.  Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them.  Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there.  \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God.  More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here.  Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience.  Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future.  Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad.  Best of luck in your hard times...
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I've fallen in love only once. Yesterday we broke up, I did it only because it was the right thing to do, yes, I got very hurt. Now I wanna fall out of live with him, if that's even possible. The problem is that love makes me always see all his good qualities, never the bad ones. I hope it's true what they say that time heals, 'cause I'm as sad as my avatar looks. As far as advices go, i don't really have any, love is a different experience for each person. Just enjoy it, take chances and live at 100%, you might get hurt, but otherwise, you might feel like you never lived in the first place. Thanks for letting me share, I know it's quite long. Good luck ;)
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There are pleanty of married people who are not in love (with each other) and there are pleanty of people who are in love but not married to each other.\n\nThere is nothing "final" about love.  It is eternal.  Physical bodies expire.  The love lives on forever.
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love does not fade away. the feeling of being in love is the one that fades away, coz like any other feelings, being in-love will not be a constant feeling. meaning it may be gone today, but may come back tomorrow. What makes a relationship last is the COMMITMENT to love each other even if at times the feeling of being in love is replaced with anger or sadness, etc. it will come back if you will try to remember all the things you've gone thru and all the good and bad times you've shared.
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No. I dont think there is such thing as falling out of LOVE. Like let's say..A wives husbands dies...she will always love him.\n\nIf someone says they fall out of love, it was never love.\n\nIt could be Lust, Infatuation, Crush, but Not Love. \n\nLove Never Fails...\n\n^thats what i go bY~^