Is it considered bad manners to ask a janitor out on a date?
372821
It depends where he's a janitor at.  If you're a kid and he's a janitor at school...then don't ask. That's just wrong for legal reasons.  If it is at a work place than be sure you know company policy before going out with co workers.  If he is just a janitor (as an occupation) then go ahead and ask.  Janitor's need love too :)
494760
No, but common courtesy would say that's a question reserved for when you know someone better.\n\nAlso, you should be sure that this "girl" is an adult.
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
508474
dont go.  You will be thouroughly embassed if you go through all the trouble of getting ready and having a date only to be told you cant come in  but your date can.
160235
There is nothing wrong with it, what makes it bad are immature men who are really boys, that like to talk crap and degrade women so the sterotypical thing to do is wait but you can tell on the date if he is a genuine good guy and if the chenistry is there then go for it.
808753
I don't see why she'd give him her phone number for getting a compliment on her shoes...... So, I'd say no.. this is a bad pick-up. I can't give advice on how to pick up someone because I'm a girl and I just don't do that kinda stuff. :P\n\nIf that was the case and I gave out numbers to everyone who complimented me, my number would be famous. LOL.
191305
If this is a first date... no, it will not lead to other dates.  Only your wit and humor will lead to 2nd dates.  What you have planned is a way for her to get free stuff.  Have her meet you for lunch, show up a few minutes late and let her order her own.  Why spend your hard earned dough especially if she earns her own.  All that says is "I am willing to pay you for your time"!!!  Lay on the cocky/funny... bust on her 1970s shoes/bag, if she can't take a joke... forget her.
501240
wouldn't asking you out on a date be trying to spend time with you. Silly if you like the person go on the date otherwise forget about it and him/her
148592
Hygiene is always important. If a guy is nasty, I won't give him the time of day.
832949
I am old fashion...He pays for the date, always.  I refuse to accept his role in the relationship.  I think the problem with most men is that we as working, independent women feel the need to display our equality.  I don't.  I am equal but you will open my door.  I am equal, but you will pay for the date.  I am equal but if you see me carrying heavy bags or see something in my house that needs repair, you will offer your services.  And in return, I cook my butt off, never say no and make each intimate moment an adventure.  Also, leave that tired clown alone, he's not a real man and will never make you happy.
897706
It depends on the manners.\nBut mainly if yes if you want to keep your dignity.
532762
No, not at all, if that type of behavior turns your float, floats your shipyard, dismantles your  lock, stock and barrel, then ask him out. And if anyone has a great idea for a first date send them in. Let's help this woman out.\n\n\nGreat question by the way and I'll do the cooking.
417501
This isn't a chat or dating service..... (flushing toilet noise\n)! - Thanks for playing the not-on-this-board game of dating a chatting and you have lost....\n\nTry http://www.MATCH.com
604683
Sure, the polite thing to do is return the favor. It's only back washing, right? Why is that so perverted?
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
503709
your very right.  people dont respect manners any more.  i held the door for one woman one day and she gave me this dirty look and walked out ..what has this world came to ...jp ... i just dont know anymore...
424991
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.