what do i do when my best friend is mad at me?
366376
Uhm ogviously he likes  you...or he mihgt be mad because he doesnt want you to like have a boyfriend cuz then you wont hang out wit him that mcuh as you will with u boyfriend.
463995
first of all, i know people are going to answer MUCH differently than me, but I've been through this (more than once) with friends.\na BEST or REALLY GOOD friend, would keep the secret.  thats right.  dont blab.  if it bothers you, you need to talk to her.  ask her if you can help.  most people just do it for attention, others truly NEED the pain to stop thinking of what bothers them every day.  Some people think that theyre 'rebelling'\nAnd yes, she will hate you for telling.  Even if she does want attention, she'll still hate you.  kiss the friendship byebye. \nConfront her.  tell her it bugs you.  it scares you.  just tell her how you feel.  say that you knew that it would be better to talk to her about it than someone else.  they'll like to hear that.  it shows that they can trust you.  believe it or not, they smiled (inside) even if just for a split second.  \nDont get mad.  Don't say 'If you dont stop, i cant/wont be your friend!'  this, is also a good way to throw away a friendship.  \nDont push it.  If they say they dont want to talk about it.  Dont ask anymore.  drop it.  completely.  BUT...make sure to say that THEY can talk to YOU whenever they feel the need.  this shows trust.\n\nI hope i've helped.  But truly, don't tell.  Even if it doesnt ruin a friendship, it makes it very very awkward.  You wont be 'best' friends anymore.\n\nSORRY IF I WAS TOO BLUNT! :)
232127
how about trying to apologize to her for your actions and then tell her that you didnt mean to make her mad at you becuz u like her. tell her bro!
4905
I'd say talk to your friend at a time when your emotions aren't stirred up, and let her know that some of her behavior is bothering you.  She might not realize that you are so upset about it.
632759
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
1094510
I'm afraid the only way you are going to stop this is to just be brutally blunt with her. It sounds cruel, but people like her usually don't the get the message if you beat around the bush.  She obviously wants ALL your attention. She throws a tantrum when you say something to her to put a guilt trip on you. She obviously lost a lot of friends because she acts this way. She is suffocating and I give you credit for dealing with it, but I see you are at a breaking point and before this goes further, put a complete stop to it. \n\nI would air out all of your feelings to her emphasizing that you can no longer tolerate her behavior. Tell her unless she backs off and gives you some space you want nothing to do with her at all. She will be upset of course, throw her tantrum, but eventually she will get over it. It might prompt her to take a look at herself, the way  she acts and why she can't make friends and she might even thank you one day.\n\nI do emphasize be brutally blunt, if you aren't this problem will persist.
1158743
Just tell her you can't be friends with someone like that, but you would be happy to help her turn her life around. If she is truly your best friend, she will change
682395
First ask him what made the most mad and then if you feel it was your fault then you should apologize
153447
There is no guarantee that he won't get mad at you because he is the one who gets to choose how he reacts. I would confront him anyway, because YOU wouldn't be a real friend if you didn't... and if he gets mad, the best thing to do is hope that he matures, realizes what he was doing was wrong, you WERE doing what's right by telling him and he'll get over it... and THANK you!\nI know it's a tough situation to be in, but doing what's right despite the other person's reaction (no matter how much you love and care for them) shows good character and integrity.
1150051
Be as nasty as possible if that dont work talk to the police. Show no care or feelings for the person just hate and be very nasty that s the only way to get through to them may sound harsh but thats how its done. oh or intreduce her to you best friend lol
111634
Condolences.\n\nJust continue doing what you're doing right now. Just be there for him. If he gets mad, try to understand him because you know what he's going through right now. And don't forget to pray for him.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
499050
I think you need to tell her. I think you should also make it very clear to her husband that he is in the wrong and you will not tolerate it. Your best friend maybe angry at you for a while, but it won't be toward you. It is the situation that she will be angry at at, but take it out on you. Hang in there with her....give her space....but never go to far and be there when she returns. She will need you then, especially if she told him where to get off!!!
638632
try being friends with him/her for a while and if you guys still fight just break if off and dont start off trying to bestfriends right away
375433
prove that your friendship was true to you and do not seek revenge.  That is just stupid.  We all think about it, but be the better person.  Maybe just let him or her know though, that you are pissed and hurt, but not stupid.
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
888165
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same