Is it OK to beat your woman if she hits you first?
355968
hahaha..honestly this is so funny...okay..for whatever the reason is you cannot beat your woman..her power not even half yours..but i can understand in the minute she hits you, you cant think because of the pain and the normal reaction is to hit back, cuz it's all about reflects. but here's what you can do in time of phisycal fighting instead of beating her as a revenge, grab both of her arm so she cant move, and watch her legs cuz she will try to kick your hip and below. the safest position is hold her from the back, so that she cant move and you're not doing her any harm...
350361
A woman can be punished by custodial sentence in the exact same way a man can although it will depend entirely on the circumstances leading up to the alleged assault. If it can be proved that the woman was abused prior to the attack than this would provide justifiable motive the problem is you need witness's to verify they saw the "abuse" take place, and remember also that the man must provide two points of law i.e.witness testimony, camera evidence, DNA evidence, in order to secure a conviction. failure on his part to provide such evidence will allow for "reasonable doubt" to be placed on the original case go and see a decent Criminal Solicitor and he will explain it better to you as he will be able to check witness statements and prepare you better for the impending court date Good luck.
1100475
hit is when you use power on her, to have self defence you only contain her, if she try to beat you , well you are a man enough to know what to do but to use violence against a woman is not right.\nNow if you try to defend somebody from a woman who try to use a gun  you can use physical power and disarm that person but not hit her  totally.
77923
No, it is not ok to punch someone's teeth out. BUT, this was self-defense. She had no business pushing you around. Her actions caused a re-action. Your punch was justified....in the eyes of the law. If your conscious is bothering you, write her a letter of apology. \n\nThis is not a boy vs girl issue. This is a human nature reaction that the most gentle and honest type of human would do....if backed into a corner... or had just been thrown to the ground by an Amazon!
702601
I would beat her off. I know karate. If she kicked him in the junk, I'd just get someone to give him an ice bag. I'd only allow a guy to hit a girl (and vice versa) if she hit him first or was physically threatening him, so I'd be pretty annoyed that he wasn't doing anything about it.
295236
I suppose you could, but would you want to hurt 3 women when they find out you're doing the others. You've heard of a woman scorned, what happens when its 3?
188554
ya gotta go to sleep sometime dude! some women put up with that but only 4 a short while and then you ll be the one gettin an asswhippin eventually shell tire of it and you and hell hath no fury like a woman when she is pi$$ed and she will be pi$$ed and you will pay and on top of it you now have a rep as a woman beater which means your a pu$$y the only reason to hit a woman is because you know a man will kick your piece of sh1t a$$ and you know that's the only way to win to pick on someone weaker then you. you yellow, Lilly livered, trailer park trash, beer guzzlin,pot smokin womanizing piece of donkey sh1t
989539
I think 1 of your reason for fighting is because your angry that your getting blamed for something you didn't do.  She so needs to screw off cause it's not right to hit someone for no aparent reason!  What an idiot!
417006
Avoid her if at all possible but if that is not possible then I would try to not say anything to her.  Let her hit you first.  Your parents will totally understand if you are just defending yourself.  They would not want you to get beat up would they?
1129447
Physical violence does not equal friendship in my book.  This friend isn't a friend, but a bully.  You have another friend. Go hang out with her.  Obviously you know that what your supposed friend is doing is wrong because you are writing about it here.  Stand up for yourself against this girl: tell her to leave you alone, tell her to stop hitting you - and mean it! Tell an adult who can help you with this situation.  Friends don't hit/kick/bite/slap/spit or commit other forms of violence against friends.
746401
There is NO EXCUSE for a husband who hits his wife.  No matter how much his mother upset him, he had no right to beat you.\n\nA typical wife-beater will go through phases.  He will beat you, then he will be very sorry and promise to make it up to you, and tell you how wonderful you are.  You'll forgive him and decide to stick by him, then just when you think everything is wonderful, he'll start beating you again.   Until you start threatening to leave, then he'll start making up to you again.\n\nIf this describes what has been happening to you, then I'm sorry, but he is never likely to change.  He is only being nice to you, to stop you leaving him.  Once he thinks you have relaxed and given up the idea of leaving, he will go back to his old ways.\n\nOn the other hand, if this doesn't describe his behaviour, then perhaps he really is genuine.  Be patient with yourself, as it's unlikely you will rediscover your desire for him until you've rediscovered your trust in him.  A marriage counsellor does sound like a good idea.
1134541
I don't believe in abuse of women or anybody unless it is in self-defense.  HOWEVER, I have playfully slapped female friends when they were getting a little annoying, but the slaps were playful and painless.  I have punched guys, though, and got into lots of fights with guys when I was younger.\n\nDon't hit girls unless it's playful and harmless, and the girls know that it is just for fun.  Otherwise, it is abuse.  If your sanity is in jeopardy, stop hanging around with those girls for a while and cool off.
1071974
yes. especially if it bothers her. I truly have to be "in the zone" when I WANT it to happen......it is wrong when you don't care if it hurt her or not.
960792
your boyfriend has no right to hit you. dump him immediately if you have any hope for a sane future. if he hits you now, what do you think it will be like if you get married?
191849
READ THIS NOW AND BELIEVE IT LATER, LOVE HAS NOTHING THATS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEATING OR MISTREATINGS. The I Love You is bull, it's just bait for a beating.If he beat you before he will do it again and again and again. RUN get away form the guy you are just a target.
355374
Punch the b|tch in her mouth.  Or if you don't agree with hitting woman have a female friend do it.  Or pay a really big dike to do it instead.
376246
DIVORCE, so just b/c she does wrong you will too, word of advice, 1. two wrongs don't make a right and 2. Your going to bring yourself down to her level and I garuntee she will beat you with experience. You wanna-be PIG.