what can i do if i cant see my boyfriend all the time and i really want to see him?
374397
you obviously have a computer\nso get a webcam and tell him to get one too
152283
Trust and Understand.  Know that it is hard to not see each other all the time.  Trust that he isn't lieing to you. Communication is needed.  You have to be able to listen and talk to each other.  And of course love.
414745
If you really love your bf and you are willing to make the effort to make this relationship work, I would suggest that you go on holiday with them.  Get to know him and his little girl and spend time with them, you would be able to see if he is truly the man for you.  I always thought that long distance relationships never work, until I found myself in the same position.  If you feel that you are going crazy and that your loosing your patience, go for a walk on your own and cool down.  You and only you can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy or not.
783959
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
791731
he is so not worth going after.. he probably doesnt have any money with him to take you out... but still that is no excuse for not showing up to see you... a nice guy who really loves you will take you out and meet you anywhere *food or no food* and he will love you until the world ends... you will be treated like a queen put on the highest pedestal... next time you see the guy who didnt meet up with you... tell him next time he wants to meet up with you , you will have another guy on your arm... (like the guy i described above...
672989
all you can do is persist that he goes for a check up. you cant make him go but tell him how much you love him and this would ease both your minds that all is well.
332627
Let him know how you feel and tell him if now is not a good time to go visit to tell you the truth because you don't have much money but on the other hand you are going there to see him .... so ... if now is not a good time go another time and spend the whole day with him...  but if he wants to see you then go and see him when he gets outa work or after he goes with his friends....  \nQUESTION::: WHY CAN'T YOU STAY AT HIS HOUSE>?
127682
Do you want to be friends with him?  Can you stand seeing him on a regular basis without officially being bf/gf?  If so, then go ahead and see him all you want.  If not, you should spend less time with him.
49681
yes, but instead of wonderign you have to open ypur mouth and ask him what the deal is girl ...u shouldn't have to be there when he wants you to..u can find somebody that wants you around them ...just ask and if his answer is bs then let him go and find u a real man thaty is willing to spend time with you and not trip...
1145286
Well if you guys basically never talk or see each other its not a real relationship so you might as well put the brakes on your current relationship with him!!
684085
it won't work and usually doesn't.  you will miss each other too much being away from one another OR you will turn into vacation mode couple and  it will be like a vacation when you do get together so when you are in the same area it will be akward to see each other all the time and deal with normal day to day stuff.  they just don't work, there are lots of people where you live, check them out.
390151
well u can tell him to meet somewhere, without c ing u, check on him & decide leave or stay. and go with someone else!its safer & u ll have more fun. just keep in mind that the world is full of psychos.
139132
it isn't your boyfriend's fault that you are unmotivated and he shouldn't be expected to entertain you all the time. You need to get a job. Most people meet friends outside of the home, which is where you stand a better chance of meeting them too. If you have agoraphobia (fear of going out into public) then you should get some help with it.
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
521703
u can try doing 1 of these 2 things, 1 is try going away 4 da weekend, somewhere different, rent a hotel just da 2 of u, go somewhere far where u can leave all your troubles behind u, trips r always good 4 a rocky relationship, or 2 do the complete opposite, stay away from eachother 4 about a week,, if he really loves u than i can almost gurantee that he will change after that week he's without u, still talk 2 him maybe once a day but don't see him, i'm sure he will c what he really has and know that he doesn't want 2 lose it, if he still doesn't change then it means he doesn't feel that love 4 u anymore, goodluck.
274463
What does your boyfriend do to make you so scared of seeing him?  I mean, if you love him and trust him, like you should do in a relationship, you wouldn't be scared.  If you are talking nervous scared, that's natural....just don't be afraid to go around him.  The more time you spend with him, the more comfortable you will get with him....if he loves you back, it won't matter if you say something crazy or do something that might embarrass you....just give him a chance and things will work out fine.
517191
I bet that if once you see him and tell him how much you miss him, and give him a nice hug, he will get some idea that you like him.\n\nWhile he is around, see if you can spend a lot of time with him and suggest things that you can do together - and see if he wants to do these things with you.\n\nJust relax and let things flow - if it is meant to be that you are together, then it will happen.\n\nGood Luck!