i live in maui with my fiancee, and he wants to go to a nude beach...help!?
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If you were naked on the beach when everyone else was clothed, that might cause some embarrasment, but if everyone else is naked, then pretty soon, you'll notice, but not very much. And if you're used to wearing a bikini, that highlights your physical attributes even more than being naked, by breaking up the natural visual line of the body with signs that say 'there are breasts here', for example. So, going naked at a naked beach is actually more modest, in a strange and wonderful way. Thinking of it that way should resolve some of your embarrasment issues.
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NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
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The seedy parts of Thailand are oriented to tourists who want to have cheap meaningless sex. It's a sad thing to witness, but an essential part of the human condition. It's rarely love that people find in those places, though the Thais are predominately Buddhist and often very generous in spirit and for people who are missing love in their lives it can be very attractive. If he's a decent guy and relatively evolved he should be pretty immune to the scene. It's really gross to see the kind of people who go there.\n\nAs far as trusting your boyfriend, focus on your own relationships, with yourself and him.\n\nTrust and honesty are essential in a relationship. When you let go freely you'll be surprised at what comes back. You know, the "love is a rose, but you better not pick it" sort of thing. Tell him to have a great time, your confidence, affection and trust are what he'll look forward to returning home to. The older you get the more you realize how great it is to really love and trust another being who you are sharing your life with. What more precious thing do we have then our own lives?\n\nOne thing he shouldn't miss is true Thai massage, it's non-sexual and incredibly invigorating to the body and soul. Like doing 3 years of yoga in the span of one hour. It would be a way to experience the sensual pleasures of Thai spirit without being a creepy guy!
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i dont live on maui i live on oahu but i would think you would go when its about 2-4 feet waves i think. i mean i dont go long boarding i surf on a 5'4 board.
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hallo bitchy bitch,\n                    quite a musterbating question. buy ur husband a camera phone and stand before him naked and let him take photoes wher from he pleases. he takes ur bubs pic or vagina pi , he can lich it always anytime he fucks the mobil. and if u are not satisfied with her penis , write to me and i will please and pis  ur vagina.\nmy e-mail id ___ laughfing_buddha@yahoo.co.in
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Some men go to porno sites and some buy magazines with nude girls. Of course, some women do the same. It is one of those things where they honestly cannot help themselves. Just make sure the ones he is admiring are not children, if that should happen cut his dingy off. \nIt is natural. Hurtful to you. He is sorry and loves you much. Pray, pray, pray.
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I have a similar fantasy. But my hubby is not for it. If u permit, I will go with your hubby to revierside or seashore on a full moon day to fulfill the fantasy of both and enjoy for full night.\nbe glad that your hubby wants such things.
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I'm all for it.  In fact, for the past four years I've only gone to nude beaches here on Long Island, and being naked is so much better than simply going topless.\n\nIt's not an exhibitionism thing, at least not for most of us.  It's simply more enjoyable and appropriate to enjoy the beach naked, as long as it's a legal nude beach where nobody's going to be uptight and offended by the sight of simple bare skin.\n\nAll over tans look great also, and it's a lot more fun to swim, sunbathe, jog or just walk along the beach naked than being bundled up in some wet pieces of cloth.\n\nIt's time we lightened up about simple nudity...it never hurt anyone!
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1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
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Look I live in Orlando,and have been to Miami many times. Don't get all upset! Yes, there is sex everywhere, that is because it is "hot" vacation spot! It's all fake just like Vegas. But if you do not trust your boyfrend that is another question. Yes..he proberly had a couple of lap dances and yes he saw a few really sexy woman on the beach.. but he came home  to you! So you need to figure out what id more important, a "real relationship" or a fantasy that your guy may or may have not had om Miami.
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Hey there Nashville! I live there too!\n\nHow about a Hawaiin Luau?  It's fun for all ages and can be done on a low budget.  You can get little tiki straws, hula skirts, etc.  Make it a Luau on the "beach" too.  If your parents will allow it, crank the heat WAY up to make it hot hot hot and have a small wading pool and beach balls. (FYI, I attended a party like this when I was 16, complete with sunglasses and summer gear, and it was one of the funnest parties I ever went to!)
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I live in Hawaii. It kind of goes with the territory. It is a workout and a rush. Nothing but good times, it can be dangerous too. The ocean is a living thing, and doesn't slow down for you. I recommend it but don't go alone and make sure you bring your A game that day. Good luck.
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Where the heck is Torrance? ok I looked it up and I think you want Torrance CA which is in Los Angeles County CA.  \n\nSeveral years ago, public nudity was made illegal in LA County, and there is no such thing as a Los Angeles County nude beach. Anyone found nude here is cited. Punishment includes a stiff fine and court appearance. Read the nudity laws. http://gocalifornia.about.com/cs/clothingoptional/a/nudebeachlalaw.htm\n\nSan Diego has nude beaches though.\nhttp://gocalifornia.about.com/cs/clothingoptional/l/bl_nb_ctysd.htm
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Here's a suggestion: For the honeymoon, go out and buy something sexy, something he'd never think you'd wear( get the shoes, stockings, etc)> Go to the bathroom at the hotel your staying at for the honeymoon and tell him to sit and wait! Get into the outfit, do your makeup and hair, then call out to him to maybe light a few candles and turn on some music(I suggest a cd with a pre-practiced song) and then come out dancing for him, tease him...Men love that stuuf, talk about spicy!!\n\nWorked for me!!
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Destination weddings are great for small intimate affairs, but if you want something big this isnt the way to go (the resorts generally limit your attendee count).\nCall the resorts right away and tell them of your interests (you can get SOME of the info at their sites  http://www.beaches.com/general/wedding.cfm\nhttp://www.sandals.com/general/wedding.cfm\nThey are from the same resort family... beaches is family oriented while sandals is adults and couples mostly)\n\nYou should send the save-the-date-cards about 6 months in advance if possible, this way the guests have time to make arrangements at work if needed, save money for it, get good rates on airfare and accomodations, etc.
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You by your question know what is right. I am here to back you up in your decision. You are in control of your own body.He is not. You have made the right decision already in your heart. How dare someone tell a girl like you to go and rent porno movies. If your boyfriend is in that frame of mind tell him to take the matter into his own HANDS, as the milk is not free unless you buy the cow.
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Whats wrong with moving to Hawaii?  I live here!!!  \n\nFirst of all, how long have you 2 being dating?  Depending on that, would tell me whether or not you should even bother to tell him.  Obviously he is moving due to some serious reason, whether it be a job, or school or just a new place to start fresh.