What's it like (gay bois only)?
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For now, I must work and live in Atlanta 9.5 months a year away from my husband. I loving flying home to Manila to be with my husband.  We get to be together from the beginning of June together until the end of July, and, then, for the last 2 weeks of December.  We consider our time together our reward for being diligent the rest of the year.\n\nWe absolutely love each other in the deepest and strongest way.  We love being together.  We click.  We laugh.  \n\nWhile at movies, we cuddle.  When eating out, we eat off one another's plate, share a fork, drink out of the same straw.  At the mall, we hold hands, plant a spontaneous kiss on each other, stop and give each other a nurturing hug.\n\nAt home, we cook together, cuddle, sleep together, shower together.\n\nAll our friends and family know us as we are.  We've nothing to hide.  We're proud of the marriage we've made.\n\nWhen apart, we talk on the phone everyday.  We chat everyday.  We send cards to each other.  We send frequent texts via. mobile phone.\n\nIt's all a part of our romance.  We love it all.
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Sounds pretty gay to mee!
396509
Being gay, like life in general, isn't all daisys and sunny days. Usually, that's because there's a very big misconception that every gay (men at least) is tea-tottling, mincing, lisping, works at a hairdresser's, is a waiter, or is great at making floral arrangements. Let's dispel that myth with my VERY honest answer:\n\n\nThis probably will sound a little smarmy, but I really view my personal homosexuality just like the dictionary says. Although, it doesn't define me as a person, which is much more important.\n\nI live my life each day as I think most guys do. Wake up, jerk off, take a shower, get dressed, grab some coffee, head to work, work work work, brown paper bag lunch, come home, jerk off, order pizza, jerk off, watch TV or a movie, then go to sleep wearing my skivvies, and only one sock on. On the weekends I loathe my job, work on the car if it needs it, play rugby (if there's a match), mow the lawn, and do chores around the house.\n\nPersonally, I'm not a bars-and-parades kinda guy. I'm just me. Don't get me wrong, I've gone out to the bars, and have attended at least one parade in my life, but it's not my whole life.\n\nI don't see myself as different from any man, except for the act of sex itself. That, unless you're in my inner-circle, is really no ones business. So why should they worry about it when they really don't want to know about it, right? RIGHT? Hmmm...\n\nSo, what does being homosexual mean to me? It means I'm me. I'm myself. It means I'm not living up to anyone's standards but my own. It means that sex is the only difference between me and anyone else.\n\nI really don't get what all the fuss is about. I've got lots of str8 friends, who don't even care. I've met total strangers that have been cool with it. Regardless, I'm not worried about it. If I have to, I've even knocked down a str8 dude or two in my time... No worries here.\n\nGuess that's just me... you know... being homosexual...\n\n\nP.S. No need to send out prayers, particularly those who preach and pray to hear themselves talk. \n\nNONE of you are in ANY position to question the Will and Work of God!!! Who do you think you are?! \n\nOnly mankind would assign such high value of himself! Your sin is PRIDE!\n\nBLASPHEMERS! LIARS! FALSE PROPHETS!!\n\n\n.
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Well - Im affraid its complicated because I believe that I am Gay Man - I ve only had the occasional one night stand and d ont live with anyone. My earliest memories aged around 9 or 10 tend to suggest I preferred the Boys at school and have done ever since. I am a Christian that is a choice but my sexuality I d ont believe is. As for God he loves us as we are not for who we are.
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How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffe is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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gay guys /taken guys (most of them)- friend\n\nstraight guys - gf\n\n\n(and i am not being anti gay or anything but i mean a gay guy wouldnt look at a girl for a gf  duh)
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I had a HUGE crush on this guy named Gary. I'd use any excuse I could to talk to him...but of course I'd never actually admit to liking him. Somewhere in my diary is the sentence "I think about him all the time, but until he starts thinking about me all the time, we're not getting anywhere."\n\nWe had a tradition in my school called senior slave day, where students would bid actual real money to get the (non-X-rated) services of a senior that day. Of course I "bought" Gary. Poor guy. I made him dress up as a woman (and you know, his bulge showed up MUCH better in a dress *drools*) and carry my books around all day. Luckily he had a good sense of humor and took it all in stride.\n\nWe never did actually date or anything. I think he just put up with me following him around because he was a nice guy. Eventually I realized the obvious when he sat me down in the library and offered to give me a bag of clothes his family didn't need anymore. He eventually graduated and went into the navy, leaving me to spend the next year obsessing over this weird possibly suicidal guy for some odd reason.
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If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
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I went through this same dilemma. I came out during my sophmore year of highschool. And there was the most drop dead gorgeous guy there. His name was Gary. Let me tell you. Anyways, I wanted to be with him very badly, but did not know how he felt. So I befriended him. We started hanging out, and stuff like that. Well two years went by and still nothing. Well in December of our senior year a bunch of us were out at a  party. His girlfriend was there and everything. (He had this girl for 3 years now) Well I went outside for a smoke, and he followed me outside and complimented me on my new glasses. Ok no big deal. Well we sat there and talked, smoked a few cigs and went back in. My best friend and I decided to get into the hottub. We had been sitting there for about a half hour or so when Gary came in. My best friend got out and went to go get a beer. I mentioned that my shoulder was buggin me from a fall I had taken earlier that week. So he reaches over and starts to rub it. Then we kissed, and ended up ditching the party and ****ed all night long lol. The next day he dumped his girl and him and I have been in a relationship ever since. So even the most straight acting guys may be gay. You just never know!
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its a different kind of relationship...friendships are wonderful with gay men but it will never be the same as a boyfriend
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.
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my best friend in high school pretended to be gay for 4 years. i was naked in front of him, i kissed him on the lips, we massaged each other ( but nothing more) at graduation he told me that he was never gay and had a crush on me since freshman year! we are no longer friends.
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i'm here.....i'm a chick, 15, live in houston TX, straight, have lots of gay friends, i'm a virgin too, and hoping for a guy too...... charmed_kitty07@yahoo.com messenger: charmed_kitty07
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No. But I would have to start bracing myself for it - I may need to do it for a student movie... nothing much, just a short 3 sec kiss...\n\nAnd no, I don't think it's gay. Coz' gay is when you are physically attracted to someone of the same sex and would want to have a sexual relationship with him or her (depending on your sex).
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Gay, but in a masculine way.\nStraight, but in a feminine way.\n????????????????????????\nNah, he's a douchebag (gay).
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is that different from being gay? What do you mean by 'gay attitude'?
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First off are u gay???????????