My Ex dumped me and i guess he needed space and now he got dumped by her and now he's calling back.?
372825
Uh, if he needed space, why was he in a position to be dumped by someone else. Sounds to me like he just wanted to be with someone else, since he can't be with her, you're better than being along. Don't waste your time with him.
142161
If you had reason to dump him ... he needs to stay dumped. Do him a favor and move on so he can.
780444
Don't call him, just don't. There is no reason for it, HE broke up with YOU. YOU are a wonderful person and HE was too stupid to realize it so there is no reason for you to go calling this moron. You deserve better than that and you never need to grovel to any man. No woman needs to grovel to a man ever.
127730
you know the same thing happened to me and my ex girlfriend wanted me back ,but she never said anything to me about it.if she would have said something bout it sooner i would have patched it up with her a long time ago..if you really want him back and you think it can happen act now
298177
guy sounds like he just wants to move on.  she will get over him eventually, eveyone gets over a boyfriend/girlfriend eventually.
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
582915
maybe he just needs some space to sort through his life and when he is okay with everything he will contact you all again. Let him know that you are there for him but don't push ...
967887
she's your ex\ndeal with it\nyou cant demand anything from her at this point, as she doesn't play a vital role in your life anymore.\ngive her time, she may come around.\ngive her some space, about a week.\nthen try again with the calling.\ngood luck with hearing her voice
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
709099
OK, perhaps he sees it this way: He likes you still and on some level feels guilty about dumping you. Even if he believes that breaking up was the right thing to do. But he still would like to see you and perhaps hang out with you, but he doesn't want to how do I put this, insist upon seeing you since that could lead to an awkward moment with you telling him no or not saying no but implying it. So he left it up to you to decide if you want to hang out with him or not. This allows you to politely say no without the awkwardness of saying no. You just don't give him a shout out. You're "too busy" or it slipped your mind or something like that.\n\nOf course, he could also be doing it as a means to get back together, but he could also just miss hanging out with you. \n\nAnd yes, I have hung out with exes before. See how they were doing and all that. Sometimes you miss a part of your life, even if you have moved on.
741334
Well, since you already told him how sorry you are and everything... it is up to HIM to decide what to do next. You have to give him space so he can figure this out. If you keep trying to talk to him to fix it, it'll just push him away even more. Just give him time.\n\nIf it doesn't work out, it will be alright.\nGod has a plan for you. He will give you the one in His time.\n\nAll you can really do is learn from this experience and use it to build the future.\n\n\n\nWell.. if you think he may have been using you, don't you think you're better off WITHOUT him?
768375
I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION AND IT BROKE MY HEART AND WHEN I CALLED HIM AND HE SAID DON'T CALL BACK OR I'M CALLING THE POLICE SO MAYBE YOULL HAVE BETTER LUCK.....AND HE ONLY SAID THAT BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT HIS EX TO FIND OUT.....
671999
i don't really understand the question, but if your bf broke up with you JUST BECAUSE you got mad after he called his ex... that's really stupid.\nand that is all i have to say. that's stupid.\n(unless of course the phonecall was nothing big and you greatly overreacted and started screaming like a maniac.. then its understandable..)
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.
805628
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.