What should i do if i like my best friend?
375673
Wow!! this is a tough one, you have to ask yourself is the friendship worth loosing? because that is possible if you don't see eye to eye in a relationship. I'd just think.. " is he a friend that i can live without?" you may not even have to live without him if it works. If all goes well then you'll be glad you did it right? i think it's a chioce only you can make :) good luck!!
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
1131122
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
660034
I would SHOW her how you feel. Like the first guy said, ask her out. Also, if she has a best friend talk to her, see if the girl you like,likes you back. Learn more about her.
88296
Well, unfortunately you really cant MAKE anyone love you. If she is your best friend, then thats a great start! She already likes you and is comfortable with you, now you just have to see if she feels that way about you too.\nIf you feel comfortable doing so, you might ask her if she has ever seen you as being more than a friend. This is a tough thing to do, so wait until you are more comfortable doing so.\nJust make sure and remember: don't be too pushy. Nothing will scare her away faster.
1088243
Tell him right away...trust me that is the best thing to do....if you continue to hang on it will be very difficult...a Friend you like is not your friend anymore so the best thing to do is just go up to him and tell him...worst case you get rejected but trust me if your friendship is strong enough it will be ok and i don't have to tell you the best case..SO GO FOR IT.
461256
Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
874435
Chances are he likes you, either that or you dress funny.  And so what if your best friend and him are always fighting if you like him go for it, your best friend will have to deal with it.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
597284
Well then, it depends on your point of view about how precious the friendship between both of you. If you have your ups and downs and you're sure that he can be trusted and befriended for the rest of your days, then go ahead tell him. Whatever happened with your relationship, a best friend will never go away. If bad things happened, then you can always returned to the first stage. And make sure that you tell him that...\n\nDespite that, I would strongly advice you to at least give him hints first that you liked him. Don't go forward first, and let the man do the job (honestly a man will feel greater if he moved on first). At least gave him hints, one or two that you can and have liked him more than a friend.  \n\nSlipped in some sneaky talks about relationship when you're talking to each other. The word, "What if we're..." can be a good trick to use. I'm sure if you managed to pull this one of, he'll realized your feeling towards him and move ahead to do what his heart says. \n\nA best friend is someone worth having, worth caring and worth fighting. Who knows, he can actually be your 'best friend' for the rest of your life. Good luck!
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.