km i like this guy but he is dateing do i cut in or mind my own bisnes and have a secret relatowith him insted
359359
NO don't do it. And remember it gonna come back on you.
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.
286508
I would say carry on as you are cause what would you rather prefer him as a friend and seeing him or not at all? Who knows what will happen in the future,you can be his shoulder to cry on when he becomes single again.Sneaky but your stil there for him
854641
first of all, i am so sorry you are in this position.  i was in a similar situation not too long ago.  i dont think it is a bad idea to date someone.  you just have to be sure you are honest with the guys so that they know what they are getting themselves into.  i dont think you should stop living because this guy was a creep to you.  asfor the trust issues, i think it takes a long time to feel safe again after you have been betrayed (believe me, i know) take your time and dontr rush into anything.  God bless you and you baby.
685632
If he trusts you or not he has no right entering into your private accounts. You need to stop bein a wuss and tell him yourself. Its a form of controll that you need to address. If you cant tell him then why should we. Hes the one whom you have to see and it should be you to tell him that he sucks azz for invading your privacy...Unless your scared and that my dear is a whole nnother problem...
407018
If you two are already somewhat friends then you should just ask him to go out to eat or maybe for a walk nothing serious at first. Once you take the first step you will feel more comfortable around each other and then you can see where the relationship lies. Good Luck!
846737
who cares if you're not hanging out and if you don't like him romantically. Enjoy your own comedic writer bringing you entertainment. \n\n\nJust chalk everything up to a lie and go with the flow.
347075
lol, well, i'm a very straight foward person, so i would wait until he asked me what i want, then tell him.... or... get one of your best girlfriends to drop the hint for ya. Just go with your instincts
748197
if u ever want to go out with him people will know that u like him. If u really think he likes u and that u two have shot then tell him. But if your not ready to tell people how u feel then do nothing. its your choice. good luck
139633
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
953293
Play it cool and he will probably come a calling. Sounds to me he likes you but does not want to admit it. Act like you dont care one way or another and see what happens.
220836
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
796310
OK, here it is..the guy is into you. Really he is. He has taken the time to listen to what you have to say even about your family and remembered that. So, if you really like him, what do you have to lose by telling him? Seriously, you only live once and you might as well take this one life that you have and live it to the fullest! I would almost bet money that this guy would be relieved that you made the first move b/c it sounds like he's too shy to do it.  He's probably thinking the same thing you are..wondering if you like him...no matter what you do, have fun doing it! And, it's a good  thing that you go for personality over looks..looks fade, what's inside stays!
814274
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x
937686
Call the date off, he sounds like someone you wouldnt want to be seen with. If you go out with him, dont be embarrased to say no. Because its better to like yourself then have him like you. And you can flirt with whoever you want.
771044
whatever he is doing he is doing....trust your instincts and your feeling regarding the relationship