Can you give your bf another chance for having sex with another girl as long as he say he'll never do it again
373682
if u love him & he loves u then yeah try it  (good luck)
448335
NO! If my bf would think about his ex I would have to break up with him. When your in a relationship you have to give you love and care and respect to that other person. Otherwise you might as well break up with her and get back with your ex. That is if you care about this new girl and you don't want to hurt her.
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.
763436
i think you shouldn't have sex with a guy unless you've been with him for like over 6 years or your married (even though some ppl think thats too long) but if you really want to be with him again why don't you ask him out again. and if he's with someone try being friends with  him and if/when he breaks up with the girl he's with now you could be there with him and then you guys could/might get back together.! hope it works out and hope you pick my advice! ^_^
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
640877
if he did talk to another girl, then your stupid..because that only leads to the bedroom.\n\nif he got caught trying to talk to another girl, then i guess it isnt too big of an offense, but punish him and make him remember what he could loose if he does go that way....\n\nbut if you really cant forget and trust him...its over... there is no relationship without trust
438009
If my bf f*cks someone else, it's cheating. If it's just kissing, fine.It's still me he's coming home to.
920276
You still have feelings for him, so better get him another chance and see and review your relationship on the basis of his attitude.
200914
I gave one guy a second chance and he did it again.  Proceed with caution.  If you're faithful you absolutely have the right to expect the same from return. He's accusing you because he'll feel better if you both did it.
25099
I can imagine how you feel. But, it's not worth murder. I'm glad my friends, family & I have a rule: "Can't touch what 1 of us has already had." Besides if he was a bad boyfriend she'll find out for herself. Time will tell the tale.\n\nSeriously get over it though.
995043
yeah like thats going to work! if my little sis's bf tried to have sex with me, i'd slap him dirty little face and tell my sis.\n\nyou dont know if the girls sis will tell her. she might, even if she DID want to have sex. girls are naughty. cant really trust 'em unless you really know 'em.
524214
That's really bad, but maybe he learned his lesson.  Maybe you should give him one more chance.  Make sure he knows that you will leave him if it happens again.
1001036
I say there should never have been a 2nd time.  ever heard the saying. "Fool me once-shame on you, fool me twice-shame on me"  Stand your ground and don't let it happen another time. Because it's getting easier and easier for him to do it knowing that he has done it this many times already and your still there to go through it.  Let him know what he's lost and don't budge. If you stay in this relationship your pretty much begging him to do it again. Sorry but thats a true answer.  Good luck in the choices you make.
259079
You both may have love for each other, but if he still has major issues,the relationship won't last.  You'll have the same problems you had last time.  If all he is telling you is that "no one freaks him better", then he doesn't want to work on the relationship, he just wants the booty. That's cool if you are interested in just casual sex,  but don't think that he wants you back.
423830
If he really really cared he wouldn't have been out sleeping with other girls.  I don't know him but I have known many in your situation and everyone that took the guy back ended up being cheated on time and time again. You don't need the drama of boyfriend with a child from another girl, that girl will more then likely be in his life until the child is 18.
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.
725782
Wow, If I were you I would sit him down and express how I felt about that situation and tell him that it can't happen again. Don't be to aggressive with him though, you don't want to push him away.  Explain to him that when he does stuff like that then it makes you feel like he isn't proud that your his girlfriend. Just let him know how you feel, otherwise he might not know he's doing something wrong. Remember communication is the key to everything.