my friend is having problems!?
362798
It is not your fault that she was ignoring her boyfriend and going out with you to trap guys.  Odds are he probably thought that she was trying to get another one for herself.\n\nShe should be taking care of business at home instead of carousing about . . . trolling for some men.  If she is upset . . . you look for another guy for her . . . and your new bf would get jealous and leave you . . . and repeat and wash.
427134
If this person is giving you a hard time dont let it bother you. Go there for you. The woman sounds like she is the one with the problem. All your trying to do is make your confirmation, right?
996490
Give him one chance to prove he is a friend.  In private, tell him how his behavior is hurting you and ask him to stop.  If he does it again, he's not really your friend.
1036636
By your description, it sounds to me as your friend doesn't believe he has a problem.  If this is the case, there isn't much you or anyone can do.  The choice is up to him, and him alone.  My best suggestion to you and your friends, is to be his sounding board and listen to him when he wants to talk.  Tell him many times that you care about him and want him to know how important he is to your life and the life of your friends.\n\nEvery once in awhile, ask him if he would reconsider about going for counseling.  But don't force this down his throat.  Be kind towards him and sympathetic to his needs and or desires.\n\nGood luck to you and your friends with him!  I hope I was some what helpful to you!
506120
dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
1187801
This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
617553
maybe ur friend is confussed or is trying to get some space of her own w/ someone new? u should talk to her about ur concerns. is her man upset by her talking w/ him the classmate?
57130
You should talk with your friend about the situation...if you aren't doing anything to provoke the situation then you shouldn't worry but I would definitely encourage you to talk with your friend.
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
337243
I can't believe the answers some of these people gave you! How heartless!\nYou can't really know what he meant by it, trust me I know, the best you can do is wait for word from him and know that he is trained to handle the situation over there. When you do hear from him again, ask him what happened and maybe talk about if he ever has to get offline quickly again, how to word it so as not to worry you so much. I hope everything is ok and I wish you and your friend the best.
548055
Maybe just try talking to her first and see if she'll let you know what's going on, and if she's really depressed, maybe suggest your friend to talk to a psychologist...someone who will LISTEN and not JUDGE them for anything they say.  That could help them get to the root of some of the feelings they're having.  Good luck and I hope for the best for your friend! =)
1147004
Wait for some time and never do anything drastic.\nThis problem will be solved on its own.
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
471101
Talk to her about the problem
371989
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
955185
Try to talk to her. My best friend is having a problem like this right now, and the best thing to do is try and talk it out. If she won't talk to you, get a new friend.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.