If a girl friend cuddles/kisses another but says it meant nothing, time to dump?
367647
I've had a few platonic female friends.  I've given some hugs and some backrubs.  I've never kissed them.  Your girlfriend crossed the line.  Why would she tell you that "his little thingy got hard"?!?  Definitely past the line.\n\nIt sounds like she is playing games and is at the least trying to make you feel jealous.  At the worst, she is shopping for another boyfriend and just wants to keep you on the line.\n\nIt's hard to convey all the intricacies of a relationship on these little questions.  But from the little you've revealed, I would dump her and cut off all contact.  Until she grows up, she is not worthy to date seriously.
520249
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...
360307
Being a girl who has had that happen twice I think maybe I can help.  Talk to her on your own with no other people around. Laugh and have fun as usual and then once your feeling comfortable tell her just what you said.  "I feel like we have some kind of connection with each other."  If she says she feels it too, then tell her you think maybe y'all should explore it by going out on a date. Then let things develope from there.  If she doesn't feel the same then just don't go any further and you can stay friends until she does
690259
That's bad karma. If you don't think they're right for each other - and i assume that's because you want to be with her?? - then let it be. If you're meant to be with her then it will happen.
995553
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
734275
well if you really like this girl and thinks she is worth the wait then do it. when a girl has had a rough time with relationships she tends to want to be left alone and it sounds like this girl might not be able to trust any one anymore so just console her make her feel better and be there for her....wait a lil while and see wat happens and if after you just get sick of waiting if she still hasnt decided she wants to be in a relationship then move on
516520
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
58704
If she fixes her hair/makeup a different way when she's going to be near this person, if she avoids talking about him, if she seems to show you less affection.  It's not the end of the world, it only seems like it.  I know from recent experience.
1053022
Dump them before they dump you or hurt you more than you already are hurt.\n\nBut if they were using me to cheat on their girlfriend....I would dumo them before they knew what happened and tell their girlfriend.
1025659
well, no. like they say, it takes 2 to tango. So if he made a conscious decision to kiss you then his g/f should be mad at him. Don't lose too much sleep over it.  It happens :)
846853
You'll know..her feelings will be more natural..she will be more laid back, able to tell you anything.  I say wait it out a little longer..if she does not reciprocate..move on!
598716
Nothing. They are together. get your own date. No \n"should-ofs", Could-ofs:" Move on. There is someone for you, too.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
402735
Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
651202
She has already apologized and personally I don't feel an apology was necessary.  Her friend didn't date the other guy, or make out with him, in fact, she turned him down so there was no friendship rule broken.  The friend should have spoken up to your daughter and let her know she was just toying with the guy.  Hopefully the friend learned her lesson not to play games with people cus it could blow up in your face; as it did.  Also, your daughter shouldn't be soo quick to make out with anyone. This friend doesn't seem or sound like a friend to me anyway.  Tell your daughter to move on.
1029411
OK pal, technically it's not really cheating, but it is a cause for consern when your chick kisses another man that's not related to them. If my girl hugs another guy I start to feel a little...well, uncomfortable. Good question.
326238
they need to sit down & have a serious talk about their relationship, where it is going etc.... then they both will know if they want the same thing or if they are wasting each others time.... if one gets serious & the other doesn't feelings are going to get hurt & no one wants that...hope it works out for your friend.