Is chatting on-line w/ the opposite sex cheating on your partner??????
365009
They say the pen is mightier than the sword, and words have caused everything from religion to wars. YOU know the emotions tied to the words you type, and the words others type to you. If all that is going on is innocent chatting, then no. If you are feeling emotional attachments behind the communications, then there may well be reasons for concern, because you are going outside of your relationship for some kind of fulfillment. If the intentions of the communication are sexual, then I personally think it is not good.
1174982
yes it is. how would u feel if ur significant other was having cybersex w/ some1 else? that would hurt me. i think it's cheating b/c ur thinking about having sex w/ someone else & basically are just not physically.
1170867
Geez, I don't know.  I gave up chatting b/c i was so sick of the bs in every room. To much drama...booting and hacking.   Take my advise, don't start!
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
101699
Of course not, the chances aren't likely. Also this isn't a chat room. Try the personals or something else
422421
If it was my man then I would flip out...first of all it started off as work ?  blah...sit down have a talk with him tell him that you are on to his online cheating because it is cheating and that if he is not willing to quit being online then you will have to move on and move on...if he is looking for love online he  obviously does not love you.
303614
You mean cheating on your spouse ?  Yes it is I think...I think on - line relationships are in some form a way of being unfaithful infact its worse in a sense because you can get emotionaly attached because you start knowing the person well and thinking THINKING you are in love with that person...its a totally unrealistic thing unless you take it to the next level and meet.  But yup to me it is...think about it, what would you do if you saw your spouse doing that?  Id flip out, shove the puter up his azz break it on his head and then um well id take it from there heh.
677844
In yahoo chat room...romance 40..lol
553913
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
946233
No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.
319411
I understand how you are feeling. Not that it has happened to me but I can imagine how it would make you feel. I am married and if my wife were conversing with another man over the internet, I would be concerned. But if she went to all the trouble to wipe out the conversation logs. I would be doubly concerned. Yea, he may give you some reason as a matter of security, but he should have no problem in letting you see those logs before he deletes them. \n\nSome time ago, I was talking to another woman over the internet but as a rule, I would never say nothing negative about my wife. Of course you should not anyway. But we all get mad. And if we start talking to another woman or man about how we are unhappy about our spouses, we are opening the door for an internet affair. Another thing is I would try to get my wife to read the logs because I would let her know I talked to an online woman and I wanted her to be secure. \n\nTalk to your husband about it. Tell him you need to feel more secure about this. People are leaving spouses all the time and flying across the country for people they never seen. And tell him it would protect him too because you love him so much
1116297
there is nothing wrong in chatting with moer than one males.\ndont males chat with several women
414161
A disinterested person will say that nothing really happened. An online affair is just like chatting and does not mean a thing. But for the parties involved, it is a big blow to the relationship. Not because fo the affair but moreso the lies, and deception involved. Since communication seem to be the main issue, I strongly suggest that they get a marriage councellor to help them out as one party seems to be stubborn to all attempts to reconcile.
402165
My husband and I both think it is.  We feel that if you are seeking ANY form of intimacy outside of the relationship, things need to be evaluated...even if it is something as impersonal as the internet.
763522
Yep. \n\nYou're lusting over other women. If she did this to you with men, how would you feel? You would probably be a little jealous, a little angry, and being a guy you may want to retaliate by showing her you could "hook-up" with women online. And she doesn't know if the only thing you're doing is a "sex-chat". If she was alone in her room with the computer... on a webcam... in some lingerie or WHATEVER... you would want to know if she's doing something else besides talking dirty. You would probably wanna stay and make sure that's ALL she was doing. \n\nAnd she may feel the same way right now. She already knows you're a pervert. Do you want her to think you're a sex-addict too?! \n\nBut that might not be a bad idea... She might try to help you "work through your situation" and let you "chat" a little bit at a time until you're "cured". ?\n\nI think it would be best for your relationship if you just quit and tried to work things out with your wife. Who knows? You might find something else more "fun" to do together. Seriously. Just ask her.\n\nOh...\n\nYeah, you can be termed as deceitful and unfaithful.\n\nBrother DzL (AsP)\n"The Player's Lifestyle"
666615
Silly question but why dont you try having actuall sex with a woman? Or a guy for that matter! Would both be better than phone or cybersex mate!!