Would like to get married in June cant fine husband to divorce him I'm in pittsburg he is in TX what can i do?
372489
Go to the Courthouse nearest to you, in the Clerk of Court's office ask for a Divorce packet. You can fill it out by your self and with the help of a computer. It's what I did, anyways get it notarized and all that and go back to the court house and file for divorce. They give you the copies that has to be sent to your husband. You call the Sheriff's office in Dallas Texas and explain to them your situation and that you will be faxing them the divorce papers to be delivered to your husband. You will need to keep a check on calling that Sheriffs Office back every couple days to see when they have been delivered. You then will get a "conformation" in your mail and you take that card back to the court house for a court date. It takes 30 days to get a court date ONCE you have received that postcard in the mail.
174128
I am in the same boat. My b/f is currently going through a divorce and if we wanted to marry, we wont be able to until his divorce is final.
791754
have you considered marriage counseling? even if he wont go with you...you still need to go.....you have only been married a few months and sometimes(trust me i know) the first year is the ABSOLUTE hardest...if you want to make your marriage work it will take time and patience....but if deep inside you ..you feel there is no way it is gonna work and you are 100% sure about it then do not be guilted into staying in a marriage you are unhappy in...do whats best for you and fix this BEFORE kids get involved...good luck sweet pea
299677
He lives in a different place and he won't let you spend the night there???\n\nWell, that's your first, last and only clue that you need.\n\nTime to call a divorce lawyer and take him for all he has.
464045
All you need to do is petition the court (also called "suing for divorce").  Unless he has a valid reason to continue to delay it, the judge can compell him to sign it.
771788
My husband and I renewed our vows at our church, as we were originally married at the court house 5 yrs before and we too could not dance. Unfortunately that seems to be the norm for that.  All we could do was fellowship basically. You can always dance when you get home :-) Congrats on your upcoming nuptials
280920
depends if y'all want the marriage to be legally binding or not. check with your county clerk's office or whatever local office issues marriage licenses.
542780
Get a new attorney and a restraining order or order of protection against your husband. It just takes longer to get a divorce if he is contesting the divorce. Some states make you take marriage counseling first. Good Luck.
220746
Call a lawer and ask if you can get the divorce on the grounds of abandonment. He doesn't have to be there if you can do that.
1167238
You weren't very serious about your marriage vows, were you? Five months married, and you are ready to ditch the minute some has been rings you. Divorce your husband. He doesn't deserve to be married to you.
686106
Check with The Dept Of Social Services. But why are you not married? And why do you want to leave good O'l California? \nJust how fit to be a parent and how responsible, are you really?
246344
you can get a divorce. however you husband can argue that your child that you are pregnant is his. See if you are married and are pregnant, your husband is the legal father regardless if you cheated on him or you live separately. more than likely he would not contest that, but in Texas you only have to be married to have legal parental rights.
1137521
i'm sure that he wants to marry you. that's just your own worry. you may want to talk to him about setting a more firm date, because you guys aren't getting any younger. and try not to worry about the two divorces, it was just bad circumstances. the third time is a charm, so they say.\n\nsurround yourself with great music and good books.
177106
Go get yourself a divorce, and file for custody and child support. The courts are usually behind a woman who wants the best for her child. If he's a truck driver and on the road a lot, I have a feeling everything will go in your favor. Just remember, get yourself a decent lawyer, one who works in your county and knows the judges in the courthouse. Most importantly, do not slander your soon to be ex- husband, be calm, cool and act intelligently. Sounds like he has an anger management problem... you will not have to tell anyone but your own lawyer, chances are he will become angry in court and he'll be his own worst enemy.
715068
DO NOT MARRY this man. I hope you have confidence and the boldness to get up and leave now.\n\nYou should try getting some counselling from a Pastor at a Christian church. They are very helpful and free of charge.\n\nI Pray the best for you & your children.\n\nGod Bless!
326328
Get in contact with a lawyer, have them advertise in the paper in the Legal section (like 30 or 90 days) they will tell you, if your husband doesnt respond or put up a fight you will automatically be granted your divorce.
720743
dont get married then...you will just end up in divorce court...and you may bring a little kid into all that