what can you do if you are not satisfied when having sex with your man?
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Be honest, but sensitive to his feeling; try to bring up the subject when you are not about to have sex or after you've had sex.  Give him hints as to what turns you on.  Find out what he really likes and offer to do it, if he does wha you like.
51668
Relax, Relax, Relax. Tell him what feels good. When he does it, tell him not to stop. Repeat as necessary for proper results...
820879
If you really want to stay with this guy then you can work around the sexual problem.  There are many ways to gain your pleasure if you just play around a bit.  Step outside the box and do things a bit differently.  Always remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side.  Sounds like you have found a great guy.  We all have faults.  No one is perfect.  Good Luck!
157749
Sometimes a guy needs something a lil different be what he wants but only during sex , you may be surprised at how good your sex life will get . Just try it once youwill see . Talk to him during intercourse make sure he is also gettin satisfied .Intercourse is very awesome if both are into it .
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Most women are EMOTION driven. Getting turned on and "feeling satisfied" are usually a result of emotions as opposed to physical sensations. For some women it helps to be talked to passionately and caressed lovingly far before getting intimate. \n\nTry lighting some candles, burning some incense...something to make the mood romantic. \nCuddle and make out with your man before getting sexual. When you and your man are having intercourse, think romantic thoughts, like how much you love him and love him being a part of you.\n\nI generally think like a man and am a nymph, but the passion behind the love making ALWAYS makes it better ;) Hope my answer helped some! Oh AND thinking or worrying about it DOESNT help. If it happens, great, if not, no big deal. Just enjoy the experience!
347093
Well the best to fuck your man's brain out is to just ride em like a bull, move those hips !  also a good blowjob that will take his eyes to the back of his head.  You are just good in bed or you are not.  Asking this is not a good sign...unless you are a teen and well thats that.
494459
Do what feels good.  Do what your partner responds to favourbaly and dont do what they respond to badly.
358540
Talk to your man about it. Communicate, understand, accept.
459294
Listen,my man does me the same way,but I don't play with myself,I'm just a Bitch for the rest of the evening..This maybe hard for you,but it works for me..Next time he wants it turn him down a few times and show him how it feels then maybe he'll give it up to you more when you want it..Don't cheat on him,that's the worst thing you could do..Since your into playing with yourself just get your own little toy and use it..Or just quit playing with yourself and be the biggest bitch to him and let him know how you feel..Tell him hay your not giving me want I want and need so I'm about to cheat on you..Life ain't nothing without making love..Just give turning him down a try without playing with yourself and see how it will make him feel..If you do that I hope it works..
993189
You should tell him your needs.How is he suppose to know what you want if he doesn't know what you want.Maybe when your in bed you should guide him while your having sex and if things don't change after that then I don't know what to tell you other then leave.Good Luck
502689
Hold him off and caress him, talk to him and tell him about your concern. Dont just lie there when he enjoys himself and you dont.
1096476
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
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If you're normally more aggressive and he's more go with the flow...\nStart out by massaging his back, then work your way around his entire body.\nRoll him over and ride him. Very slowly at first and let him dictate the tempo.\n\nIf it's normally the other way around then talk him into reversing what I said above... Except when he rolls you over, you get up on your knees and let the chips fall where they may.\n\nAs far as being happier. One thing I always try to do is act clumsy now and then well before either of us gets too aroused. It eases the pressure on performance for both people. Be silly and laugh together (but not at each other.) Sliding off the edge of the bed is a huge trick that makes for some really good laughs. Then get in there and have your way with him.\n\nIf that doesn't work then corner him somewhere in your house and start undressing him.\n\nAs far as sexual activities, read up on how to do specific things you like, ask him what he likes or wants more, read up on that and go for it.\n\nGood luck!
1114122
if u don't feel comfortable for what ever reason doing it on him, thats fine, but find another way to make ur man happy and enjoy ur experience... ;)
333975
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
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The truth is this, there is no way to satisfy your girlfriend, or anyone, for that matter.  Men and women, it seems, have this belief that they can "please" each other or "make" each other happy.  It is a nice thought, but it doesn't really happen that way.  Think about this, you are upset and your friend tells you a joke that makes you feel better...right?  Wrong.  You chose to feel better by seeing the humor in the joke and allowed yourself to open up enough to be influenced by the humor, losing your grip on those negative thoughts and feelings you had previously.  It is the same with women, in this case, your girlfriend.  \n\nYou can't satisfy her, but there is something you can do to improve the situation.  First start with you, being the best person you can be...to yourself, to others, and to her.  Be confident, be yourself, be all the things you want to be when fear and self-consiousness set in, and be true to who you are.  Then be selfless, helpful, caring, compassionate, diligent, and patient with those around you.  As for your girlfriend, you should follow your heart, care for her, give her yourself, be WITH her when you are around her, share, be thoughtful and kind, and show her that you care.  Although you cannot "force" or "make" her do anything, you can still be the best person possible, making each day you live worth living, making yourself a person of value, and creating a certain magic in your life.  All of these things will not only draw better people to you in your life, but your girlfriend will be more "open" to your influenc and "willing" to share whatever you wish with you.  \n\nA last note.  Women "feel" rather than "think" their ways into better relationships.  Men are mostly the other way.  If you love her and care for her, you should take the risk and tell her what is in your heart as often as you can, show her what you feel without the "act", and do for her what you would want done for yourself.  The best advice in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself, is this: "If you don't want people to treat you like an @ssho!e, then don't act like one".....in your case it would sound more like this "If you want to satisfy her, then let her satisfy you".  Do all the things to her that you want her to do to you (or have done to you, if you are content in the relationship).  Relationships are a balance, and if yours needs some adjustment, then make those adjustments.  Don't worry if you think you are working too hard, when she realizes what you are doing, she will be more than willing to do her part as well (if she is right for you, that is....and doing this will give you a good indicator if she is or isn't "the one"....)\n\nI hope this helped.  Good luck!
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You need to sit down and have a talk with your partner.  DO NOT make it an accusatory conversation!  Tell her that you are satisfied with her sexually, but want to try new things.  Give her some idea of what you're looking for, examples, whatever.  Ask her if she has any ideas, also.  Throughout the conversation, reinforce that you are very pleased with her, you just want to experience new things with her.