ive hav an affair wd a mrried man for 4 yrs and in a year we only meet 4 times and make love in short time..?
369191
Girl are you blind? He is not in love with you and he has never been. If i were you, i would have already packed my bags and gone. Dont you have a little respect for yourself? Besides, there is some nice young man out there who will worship the ground you walk so fucken move out of that rat hole. You have been used for 4 years but you can still start anew. Married men that want girldriends are all stupid. They are forgeting that they made a commitment and must stick to it. If i had my way, i would want all such men to be locked up in prison. You aint a prostitute to offer sex at anytime he wants. Keep your degnity as a woman. Do it for all the women. i know and believe you can.
262146
Hey, me n my wife r 8 years apart. It is no biggie. If you are younger than 18 , then yes its a problem. If you are, then i suggest you wait. If not, then go with your heart and enjoy someone who loves you.
452042
youre married. right, email him why not? you missed your ten years then rebond again but talk to him. make sure he respect you as a fren and only a fren. youre married remember that. and be happy for him if he has a soulmate already
564784
Well, my finace and I have seen each other 3 times in the last year... It can be difficult at times, but if what you have is truly love, then it will work out in the end and this time you are going through will only bring you closer together. If, however, your relationship does not withstand these hard times, then it would not withstand the harder times that are sure to come throughout life.
446407
4 years damn, well put on a sexy nighty and meet him at the door, if that doesn't work, talk to him about couples therapy or sex therapy.ohh another thought, if you aren't getting any from him most likely someone else is. ask him and tell him you would like to see some changes. maybe he wants you to show some initiative
439274
Be honest with him about your age.I think he's too old for you - a four year age gap is a lot at your age as you are both likely to have different interests and intentions.Find a guy whose 13 or 14
967041
Whoa ! Sorry I missed the previous question. But as far as any guy missing such an important date as an anniversary to have an affair with someone else sounds like a first class loser to me. I think you should dump this guy faster than a hot potato.
644567
Maybe he's at a lost point in his life \n\nI think the best that you can really do is just let him go\n\non the plus side 4 and 1/2 years and he loves you \nHe'll be back..Don't worry to much. Just keeep close friends around
256475
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
602974
Dont Wait. Continue On with Your Life. You seem to be a Sweet Person. You will Make a Man Honored and Happy to be with You.
1127193
Sorry, but I don't think you love your man.  Look, deep, deep into yourself  please.  Why are you with your husband; same interests; why did you marry in the first place?\n\nThere are always lots of interesting guys out there, but, but, not to play with.  If you don't want your relationship, don't hurt him.  Get out now and move on and be very careful and date and date, and don't marry again until you know this is the guy.  \n\nI know.  I have been married 2 times -- and, well, what more can I say.  Think, ponder and get on one way or another with your life.  Don't hurt anyone....he doesn't deserve this ...\nluv Ava
810709
4 years is quite a long time.....but it wasnt spent together so umm i dont know....but you guys managed to do something which for some people is almost impossible,4 years and you are still together.....i dont think a guy would ask a girl to marry him if he didnt mean it though so it should be a good sign.if you love him,then dont think about it twice and do it.marry him and be happy.if you are not sure about his feelings for you,,then give it some time to think about it,or talk to him to clear your doubts.\nonly you can find the answer to what you need to know,only you can make a decision.\nall the best.
220038
Yes, find someone that wants to share and create memories with you.  If you are important then he will create time. Now you are just entertainment
875941
Ok- you may not like what I am going to tell you but this \nrelationship isn't really what you want because if it was, you wouldn't have all these doubts.\n\nSweetie, you need to value yourself, your life, and your time.  You can't be this man's rescuer.  After 5 years you've got to recognize that if you plan to live a fulfilling life, stop doing what doesn't work.
620665
What you're doing is correct...  Marriage before sex.  It has been 4 years with this man...  If you are ready for marriage, I would sit down with him and ask him what and where this relationship is going..  \n\nIf both of you love each other, I don't see what you are waiting for....\n\nGod Bless!
561757
Now I got your problem- Sweetie... You have to move on your life.. for all you know he might have been married all the time you had chatted with him.. And you dont love him... this is not love... love is when you actually let go of the person whom you say you love and when that person comes back to you... you can say its love. Right now its nothing more of an attraction. Get out and meet new people.. try n get over him... if he doesnt want have a relationship with you stop pusuing him...!!!
667065
You are 23.Slow down, what does he want? You got 3 already! Arre you setting records!!!! Try something different where the focus is not on copulation.