How do I keep my mind off her?
366315
Buddy!!! 'Drugs' and 'getting your girlfriend pregnant' have been two big mistakes you've made in life. (My apologies if you were not the one to get her pregnant). \n\nMistakes need correction. You're doing good with staying away from drugs.\n\nNow, Whether or not you were the one to get your girlfriend pregnant, you need to be with and around her. If you call her a friend, remember - A friend in need is a friend indeed. She probably needs your support, while you're trying to get her off your mind. I hope you're going to do the right thing here too.\n\nI wish well for the both of you.
665958
i know its very difficult bcoz i'm going thru a similar situation... but believe me, if u dont let go then its only u who'll suffer.. at this point of time my life is just like hell... but i knw one thing only u can do this, no other person can help u... so the best thing would b to stop thinking bout him n put yr mind in other things... make yrself so busy that u dont get the time to think bout him... n stop doing things that would remind u of him... if u dont make yrself strong, u'll not b able to get on with with yr life... so u gotta accept the situation n move on...
785385
I feel your pain!!!  Keep busy and hang with close friends. Honestly the best way to get her out of your head is to find another. Plenty of us females out here that would love to be on there guys mind 24/7. Just keep looking.
469539
Instead of thinking about how bad you feel, because she don't like you the sameway, you should think about how happy you make her when you are there for her and how much she may need you to be there for her. Believe me I is good to have someone to talk to when you have alot on your mind. Just try that and then if that doesn't help let her know how you feel and see where it goes from there.
63790
That's my problem too, usually I just try to keep busy...keep my mind occupied on anything that doesn't remind me of the person. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. What's really awesome is when you find out that the person had been having a hard time trying not to think about you as well.
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
191990
you don't want to know what she thinks of you just move on
418262
Don't feel guilty... she's the one leaving you remember... Just move on, if she really loves you or even likes you she will come to you. And find someone else to love or to hang out with, not someone that goes in and out of your life like nothing.
618542
dont hound her, give her space, let her think, jus tell her your feelings and bide your time
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
284076
Keep her company, go shopping at the mall so you can guy look too.  Whatever you do don't talk about him bad or good and when she brings him up try to change the subject, gotta get her mind off him.
1092336
Just be there for her and try to take her mind off him by having other conversations.  If that is difficult, then try to let her know that everything happens for a GOOD.
742883
I will tell you what i usually do,may be it will help. Get time and meet her,find something to talk about,but dont tell her thet you are into her. spend some time chatting and trust me,if you are critical and observant,im sure u will find something about her that u dont like or irritates you,by the time you are through with that,your obssession will reduce slowly by slowly. That works for me,why not you! otherwise,goodluck.
355855
Please listen to me carefully.... Talk to her about it because from experience it hurts when one thinks that you are interested and you blow them off with your disinterest. Just tell her how you feel.
277173
Ignore her. She will self-destruct sooner or later.  The more that she sees that you are bothered or vexed, the more she will continue to do it.  She's trying to get your attention and if she finally realizes that it's not working, she will stop.
1160927
Ignore her.  Don't hang out with her.\n\nIf you can't do that, just be nice to her and pretend that whatever she does doesn't bother you.  She is probably one of those people who likes the reactions she gets from you.  If you stop giving those reactions, then maybe she will stop doing whatever it is that bothers you.
168527
Throw away anything he has of hers that is a memory for him. Tell him you are with him now & she shouldn't be on his mind so much anymore.