what if ur close friend asked ur crush out for u and u have not gotten an answer yet?
368981
well give that person a answer and tell your friend to stop the next time you will ask that person
448409
wait for him to  ask you out
920176
If he knows you like him, and he asks other girls out other than you, then that means that he doesn't like you back as more than a friend.  \nIt's not comfortable to tell people who like you that the feeling isn't mutual, so he hasn't said anything.  He's hoping you'll "get the hint" and stop coming on to him.
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1. You are in a tough situation,because asking him directly could affect your friendship, especially if you misread him.\n\n2. Just keep hanging out with him or talking to him and keep bringing up opportunities for him to ask you out.  Tell him about a concert or a movie that you would like to see, but you don't have anyone to go with you.  Do this a few times and if he likes you, he will ask you out.  Believe me, you will know.
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
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that's tough to say, if u didn't tell ur friend that u liked this girl and then asked her out, then how do you think ur friend will react? u may lose ur freindship over this girl so ask yourself...is she worth it? if yes then by all means ask her out\nlet me say though there are a lot of girls out there and she won't be the only one you'll like but your friend is unlike any other and he may stick around for a long
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I just tell him how I feel and then ask him if maybe he'd like to go out and do something sometime.  Lifes to short to be beating around the bush..take a chance, whats the worst that could happen? He may say no, or laugh, and then you can just move on and never wonder "what if I just asked him out", he may say sure sounds great, you could have a wonderful romance or make a new best friend... You cant lose, just be yourself.
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will this turn out bad ..  Perhaps\n\nor good ..   Perhaps\n\ni cant tell...  And I look like a fortune teller?\n\nwas this a good idea or no? ..  Probably not the best approach, but it's done, so there's not much you can do about it now (read: don't' worry about it any more that you've done it, focus on the future)\n\nshould i have just done it on my own .. In my personal opinion, you should have done it on you own.  What is the worst thing that can happen?  She can say "no".  Which is the same worst case scenario that could happen by having a friend intervene.  It would most likely not be the last time in your life that you would be asking someone out, and you most likely don't want to go through your entire life having friends ask people out for you.  It probably won't go over so well when you're older.  Yes, there's a chance that she could say no, but there will be plenty of "no"s in your life, as well as plenty of "yes"s.  Now is a good time to practice having confidence and getting used to asking someone out that you like.\n\nIn the meantime, there's not much you can do about this except wait.  So, don't get caught up worrying about what "might" happen; you could end up being very surprised!  Just relax, and know that you will be able to handle whatever the outcome is.\n\nAnd having someone else see if she likes you isn't the best plan, either.  How does she act around you?  Does she talk to you, or ignore you?  Pay attention to you, or not?  Find reasons to make conversations with her, and based upon how you feel, then decide if there is a chance that she might be interested in you.  Then you could ask her out.  If she says no, that doesn't mean that she doesn't like you; just that she isn't interested in going out on a date with you.  That will not mean anything negative about you; it is simply a fact that she isn't interested in going out with you.  But, you will never know unless you ask!
615378
Guess what? If he is shy and u haven't gone out with each other yet, then he is scared of asking u out as well! Go for it!
680109
u should try asking her out because if u dont u will ask your self what if
1049153
dont wait, she'll probably be taken, just go for it and ask her out, she may give you the credit of not just asking a friend to then ask that friend to go then ask that friend, oy, yea just ask her out
1143506
you shouldnt ask people out all of the sudden. you might freak him out. first get to know him and become friends. then if he seems to like you and you still like him, go ahead and ask him out.
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well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
912571
Hell yes ask him out!  How are you going to know if you dont try?
643391
If the guy likes you he will ask you out. if he likes you and still doesnt ask you out then he is a wuss and you deserve better. remember there are 2 BILLION men on earth. if this guy doesnt have the strength to go after you then it wont take you long to find one that will.
67697
you got to be careful. He might just be shy and don't want to tell everybody that he likes you yet. Or he is playing with your heart. Or he might like your friend and want to ask her out also.
750466
he likes you, he just dus not know how act since he knows you like him. mabey try asking him out.