Which is better-love after marriage or marrige after love?
361104
both......love after marriage is different, you can tell......marriage after love gets you to the love after marriage, so its all good!
582017
I was very opposed to the idea of marriage for a long time.  But I'm now on my second marriage!  For one thing, a marriage is public statement of your relationship.  Its also a very official statement of commitment to each other.  For me, i was surprised that i actually felt more secure and serious about the relationships after I married.  People treat you differently, and many people just are more comfortable with married couples than living together couples.  Sure, marriage doesn't guarantee a forever relationship, but it makes the relationship 'official', both to the couple and the people around them.\n\nOf course, it also gives you legal rights.  For the most part, only married couples can share health insurance, have rights when the other is incapacitated, get alimony, adopt a child together.
875936
Love changes as a relationship matures. We can't be in puppy love forever. Infact its probably a good idea to get out of that faze of the love before the marriage even begins so you know your marrying the person not the concept of that person. That being said, Marriage is a social contract, love is really just a bonus if your lucky.
409491
I can understand whrer you are coming from.  My wife and I did it beore we got hitched but we made the decision not to do it again after we were married.\n\nIf you take your vows at church under the witness of God then you shouldnt do it.
1049565
Dating and marraige are the two different sides of the real world. A dating couple sees each other at their beautiful best in the brightest ever sides of their personalities.Marriage on the other hand brings out the worst in life- crumpled hair and bad breadth , unpaid bills and everything else,
11901
A marriage can be very important if you want to be with them for life. Studies show that live-in relationships on average don't last as long as marriages do. However, do not jump into marraige just because you want to live with someone. Learn as much about the person before you make a serious commitment of marriage or moving in.
126082
I guess so.  Depends on what you call love.  Married love is different from infatuation love.\nMarried love has something to do with attraction, common interests, respect, compromise, teamwork, silliness, and dedication to this union that is bigger than you.\n\nIf you are wondering if you should wander from your marriage to this other person I would say no.  Give your marriage a chance.  Getting through rough times together is part of what will make your union stronger and lasting.\n\nHow would you feel if your position was reversed with your spouse?  Would you want your mate's eye to wander?  \n\nThink before you act and give yourself a chance to make sure that whatever decision you make, you can live with the consequences.
1088474
I have decided after two marriages that there are different kinds of love, you do what makes YOU feel the best.  You won't be able to change your husband, and I know from experience, they may try to change, but it rarely works out, and if so only temporarily.\nIt ends up not being fair to either one of you.  Don't take a chance on losing your new love...........
453041
I think anything has time and sex is good after marriage... it make you more secure and has more meaning into it.\nmarriage as a "fortress for well-being", the normal and healthy state for adults, where sexual feelings can be safely expressed in a spirit of love. ... are expected to be completely chaste before marriage and totally faithful within marriage
380505
not important untill MARRAIGE
273101
I think that you should know that there is ties after sex - you should enter that part once your married and you know who and what you want for the rest of your life.
1171389
i would say love marriage. because you get to know the person before you actually fall in love and then married them. \nArranged marriage you are stuck getting married to someone that you dont even know.
119935
See there is no guarantee in love and marriege.Nothing last foverer. Yes is possible that you can get marry . But one thing you have to face, one important fact before that happen: there´s too much people involved which will suffer with your decision.  So you have to slow down and do the things in steps.In others words: Divorce, after let the time goes for both sides to recover and then make public the relationship and after get married. if the love that you have to each other is pure, will survive and stand all the process.
220928
Sex in marriage is a must, before that, NO!\n\nOut of marriage, sex is just an instinct full get together used to fulfill your passions or desires. You just do the body thing, get filled up, and that's all. Sex should not take place before marriage.\n\nIn marriege, sex complements the relation, helps the couple to get deeper feelings, respect, and all those kind of stuff.
596371
I think there is a difference between being in love and loving someone. Loving someone is more enduring and is a better basis for a marriage since most couples find that after years of marriage they need to have a good partner and friend. Since you have had an attraction to this partner and were in love at one point, I think you have a good chance to have a solid marriage. However, you really should look at your own feelings about marriage in general and ask yourself if you are ready to commit. Otherwise it won't work. Don't worry about not feeling the same a little less romantic feeling is normal over time and to keep a more romantic outlook requires more work. \nGood luck.
899294
love marriage nothing beats love
996476
same could be said why sex is so important to you people after marriage...whats the difference? ok, obviously no one wants to be with a "whore" but then again i think that people would want to be with someone that is experienced, i know i would. Cause lets face it, peoples sex lives play a very important role in marriage today, 73% of marriages fail due to this and/or they are deeply troubled because spouses are not faithful and loyal to their signifficant other due to inexperience or unfullfillment in that department. I for one, would like to know that my souse can not only satisfy me spiritually, emotionally but also physically. now, with that said, there are those that feel this way, and then there are those who are extremely active. to each his own but thats where i stand. Hopefully my answer has shed some light on the opposite side of you acusations.