How do I make this Blondie meanie in my school stop making me feel bad.?
361263
don't let her bother you. what grade are you in? eventually everybody matures, and for those that don't, the rest of the kids will realize what a bitc* she is. Just ignore her completely, fly under her radar, but don't do anything that will make her feel like she's controlling you. \n\nJust take it with a grain of salt. Eventually she'll get her commuppins, and you'll be all the better for it. \n\nThis is probably the answer you don't want to hear because it's not easy to do, but the harder things are the more they're worth doing. Good luck.
206121
Talk to someone at your school, like a counsellor, who can put forward to the teachers that you feel this way.\n\nAs a teacher I appreciate knowing about my students and try to find ways around the hurdles put up to stop them learning.
1144011
why you will think like this?i also a staff kid too,same like you i also get special treatment at my school but i didn't care anything they do with me because they are idiot.so you never feel sad or unglad.
988262
I understand and know exactly what your niece is going through. I was teased from 1st grade all the way to 8th. yeah...I know, lol. Let her know that, those kids doing that stuff to her are seriously jealous of her and that it eventually will catch up to them. Also i suggest that she find a teacher or principle in the school, she can talk to about this. Preferably a teacher because they give advice and they are easier to talk to. If they speak spanish, tell her to say, " Cayette(kie-a-tay) which means shut up! lol. No seriously, I would suggest that she stand up for herself as well. Look them in the eye at all times that she has something to say. Also, tell her not to be a push over. Kids who pick on others, always ask to borrow things and use things from the kids they tease. Tell your niece to say no, but do it politely. Everything will be ok.  Im sure she has friends she can rely on as well, so it should be fine. But one thing you as the adult can do, is call up to the school and let an adult there know whats going on and see if anything can be worked out like a mediation thing or something. Hope I helped, and tell your niece to keep strong!
879189
first, make sure your teacher tells them that it was her who reported it, and not you. Second, get yourself a posse who will stick with you in case of another run-in, because if these numb-skulls are like any others, they won't care either way. try to avoid them.
531290
First and foremost, I must say that I applaud you for standing up for someone who you feel is being wronged. So what if she's " kinda big?" If God wanted everyone to be alike, then he would have made us that way. I also want to tell you that I had some hard times attending high school myself because no matter what you do, people are going to be just people. I was known as the "goody two-shoes" girl, but at least I wasn't bullying anybody, and I was able to get good grades. Grades that have put me where I am today. If you do as some people on here has suggested, and be a "goody-two shoes", then people will hate you for being good, and if you're stuck up and snobbish, then they will hate you for that also. Just be YOURSELF!! As long as when you get up in the morning and can still face yourself in the mirror, then you know that you are doing something right. And, I hate to say it, but this is just a growing process that we all must go through at some point in our lives. It sucks, I know, but in the end, at least you'll feel better for going through it, and being the victor!!
1167358
I think the saddest part of the story is your only really sorry that you cried in front of every one at school and probably don't even care about his feelings even now. Let's see, you said he's quiet, no one likes him, only has one friend, is dumb,and is from another country.But that doesn't mean you don't like him? Who are you kidding.I think the teacher did "HIM" a favor by not forcing him to sit next to a shallow,stuck up little crybaby.Take your medicine and apologize and try being nice next time.
186861
Don't worry too much about it. If you work on it by starting out, just saying hi to a girl in your class at school. (Don't let yourself get upset if you meet a few girls who are jerks--they probably don't realize it and they will get over it).\nRemember that you're not the only one who has a difficulty with this. Keep happy, even though it might be difficult sometimes.\n1--Say hi to a girl at school\n2--If she's friendly, ask her about one of her classes. (Just try not to get on her nerves, cuz, remember she's not used to your talking to her.)\n3--If, one day, you notice that she's sad, say, "Hey ______ (whatever her name is), I noticed you look sad. Is there anything I can do to help?"\n\nHope this helps :)
1160927
Ignore her.  Don't hang out with her.\n\nIf you can't do that, just be nice to her and pretend that whatever she does doesn't bother you.  She is probably one of those people who likes the reactions she gets from you.  If you stop giving those reactions, then maybe she will stop doing whatever it is that bothers you.
576449
omg i have this problem too, i hate it also, wer're getting beter right now, cuz, i haven't seen her for a little bit. So see if you can say at a friends house for a night, or weekend, and chill w/ friends after school. Try to limit your time with her for about a week, that's what i did, and we're ok now  good luck
258026
try being nice to them , have a social hour with them so they can have some fun memories with you and they will quit bein obnoxious
358005
From personal experiences growing up, I know how much that can hurt; I'm very sorry you're going through this. \n\nMy best advice for you would be to ignore the cruel things she says and does to you. I know that it's very hard to turn a blind eye, but sometimes that's all you can do.\n\nI would also suggest that you not try and be friends with her. You should be courteous to her, but you do not need to be her best bud. If she is such a mean girl, do you really want to become her friend? Girls like that are very charming and manipulative. They can get you to do things you would never dream of doing. I once became good friends with the "mean girl" of my school (just so she wouldn't be mean to me), and she pulled me into the peer abuse with her. Before I knew it, she was having me say and do horribly mean things to the girl that had been my best friend since I was 4. I did horrible things to her, and I live with that guilt every single day of my life, even though now we're both grown women and she has told me that I am forgiven. It's a horrible feeling, let me tell you.\n\nSo, to sum up this short novel I've written: Don't pay attention when she does crap to you. When you try and fight back, you're just feeding the beast. Kill her with kindness, but do not try and become her pal. It will only hurt you in the long run.\n\nI truly hope your situation gets better real soon!
565361
Man, I was going through the samething with this really obnoxious girl once. I feel your pain. my plan of dealing with people like him is to stay clear of them. It might not be easy at first but once you keep avoiding and stay clear of him overtime he won't be a problem, and talk to your teacher about changing your seat, tell him/her that you have problems with this kid and that you don't get along with him that should help, and if that doesn't work well, you before taking things into your own hands try the plan first.
827863
In high school I tormented this girl who I thought was dorky and weird. I spread rumors about her, taunted her, threw food at her in the lunchroom, and basically acted like a total bitch.I got my posse of friends in on the whole thing, and we all know how kind kids can be. I never did anything like beat her up, but I made her life hell, I'm sure. By Senior year, the only person at school who would speak to her was the school janitor, and thats no joke. Now that I'm older, wiser, and not so insecure, I feel really awful and I wish I could find her and apologize.
1142490
i know its hard baby girl..but you have got to get a backbone and love you for you...YOU MUST ignore everyone else and be happy with yourself..i've been in your shoes before ..wondering why everyone is popular except me...or what made me "lame"........or how come couldn't be like everyone else....but I had to learn that everyone is DIFFERENT your supposed to be DIFFERENT.....\n\nTrust me NOBODY is going to give two shits what those popular kids did when they were in high school, once you leave that little world you know as middle school and high school you will see that there is FAR MORE in this world to worry about ..(trust me).....IF YOU TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE ELSE IN THIS WORLD..THEN YOU WILL END UP HATING YOURSELF...WHY?...BECAUSE YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD......one way or another someone is going to have something to say about you...and you have just got to learn how to keep your head up and tell them that hey..if they dont like YOU FOR YOU..they can just buzz off......\n\nDONT EVER TRY TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY..BECAUSE IN THE END YOU ONLY NEED TO PLEASE YOU....IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF,AND  HAVE DIGNITY, AND DON'T TAKE ANY BULL SH** FROM ANYONE..THEN PEOPLE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO RESPECT YOU OR LEAVE YOU ALONE......\n\nyou want to be so "perfect" in everybody else's eyes...but have you ever tried to be "perfect" in your own eyes first?.....please you, be happy with you FIRST....YOU COME FIRST,,,,,so pick up your backbone put it back in your BACK and walk like you have some pride young lady.........YOU are UNIQUE ..\n\nthink like this..YOU DONT NEED TO PLEASE ANYONE, THEY NEED TO PLEASE YOU!.....
507258
Talk to your guidance counselor and she or he can help you deal with it. She may suggest talking to the teacher, asking if there is an area you can improve on or something so that she thinks you're willing to work hard. Otherwise, maybe your guidance counselor can talk to her and find out if you did something or if there is something she is upset about so that it can be fixed and you can have a good year next year. \n\nAlso, it might be that you think she doesn't like you when the truth is she does and it's just her personality. No matter what happens, good luck!
851024
if she's REALLY good-natured,she wouldn't do nasty things like those you've mentioned. be careful, you might be her next victim (regarding the backstabbing stuff). better yet, stay away from her little by little. people might judge you because of her. remember the adage, "birds of the same feaher flock together." don't stick with people you can't stand.\n\nthere might be some hidden purposes behind her kindness. probabaly she's just showing off to her teacher.