What does a child has effect on his/her mind after seeing his/her parents kissing or having sex?
360200
either courious and wanna know more about it so they do wat the parents r doing. or they get mentally scared
155932
I think the parents are the primary people responsible for raising the child. That being said, I do think that the "village", or people who affect the childs life definitely have a huge impact on how that child turns out, whether it's for the better or worse. People in general never realize the effect they have on others muchless a child and should do all they can to ensure the best outcome possible. \n\nI have helped many of my kids' friends out of sticky situations. Childen don't always go to their parents, especially since they're notorious for thinking if they tell their parents something they don't want to hear they'll be in trouble. Also, not being a family member and just being one of the "villagers" means you can talk to them in a way that family cant and that in itself can have a huge impact on their thoughts and actions.
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i think it's disrespectful. why don't we turn the tables around. how would you feel if you're parents were having hot sex on your room leaving their sweaty scent and perhaps  some semen on your bed. you would be upset right? so why do it to them. also, what's wrong with your bed or his bed anyways?
314619
lol one of ma friends told her parents after she was married ... lolz ... her parents beat the shit outta her but got her married in a real way within a week n said get outta my face ... after she had a child they started seeing her again n apologized n juss said they were scared for her future .....\n\nparents wont over-react if they see that the guy can take care of u n really likes u ....... they prolly wanna say stop givin him sex just to see if he will stick around long enuff
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I don't think it's much of their parents business unless they choose a partner of the same sex and they don't want to hide it from their parents... If that's the case I would say just be honest about it. Parents love you for you and even if they get upset at first, they will learn to except it.
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Masturbation is quite common in young children. In most cases, it is considered a natural, normal behavior in children of all ages. Children often begin masturbating at around eighteen months of age. Masturbation tends to peak when children are between the ages of three and five. It then declines in frequency until puberty.\n\nMany parents are surprised and/or shocked to find their children masturbating. Parents should keep in mind that masturbation generally causes no physical harm to their children. In most cases, problems result only when adults overreact.\n\nFor parents to deal with their children's masturbation they must know when it is normal and when it might indicate some underlying problem.\n\n\nWhy Children Masturbate :\n\n*Pleasure. Children learn very quickly that it feels good to masturbate.\n\n*Self-soothing. For many children, masturbation reduces tension. These children may masturbate when they are upset, tired, bored, or feeling stress.\n\n*Exploration. Many children will masturbate as part of the natural curiosity they have about their bodies.\n\n\nWhat Parents Can Do :\n\n*Ignore it. Masturbation is, after all, a normal behavior for most children. Parents can best handle it by treating it matter-of-factly. Parents shouldn't try to get their children to stop masturbating by punishing, threatening or scolding. If they do, they run the risk of giving their children the idea that their genitals are bad and/or dirty.\n\n*Remain calm. Parents should try not to overreact. They should also keep in mind that no physical harm will come to their children as a result of masturbation. If parents overreact, they may put fear into their children about their bodies.\n\n*Don't be surprised. Masturbation among young children is very common, and quite normal.\n\n\nWhen Children Masturbate in Public Places :\n\nMasturbation is something that should be done in private. Most young children, however, don't know the difference between public and private behaviors. In these cases, children must be taught. Parents should treat public masturbation as they would any other behavior that is not acceptable in public places, for example, nose picking. Here are some specific things that can be done to minimize masturbation in public places.\n\n*Explain. If parents discover their children masturbating in a public place, they should tell their children that is something that should be done only in private, for example, in the children's bedroom or the bathroom. Parents should use words like, "It's all right to do that in the bathroom or the bedroom, but not in the grocery store or when other people are around." Parents should try not to criticize, nag, or punish their children. They should treat the behavior matter-of-factly.\n\n*Offer alternatives. Parents should provide their children with something else to do with their hands while they are in public. They could also try to distract their children from masturbating by suggesting some other activity.\n\n*Be consistent. If children, for example, masturbate while they are at day care, parents should work out a solution with their children's day care provider. It is important that the behavior be treated in the same way by parents and by other care providers.\n\n\nWhen to Seek Help :\n\nOn rare occasions, children's masturbation habits may be an indicator of other problems. Parents should consult their children's health care provider if:\n\n*Children's masturbation interferes with their social interactions.\n\n*Techniques to eliminate public masturbation have failed.\n\n*Parents have any concerns about their children's well being.\n\n*Parents feel that their children are possibly not masturbating, but scratching or rubbing the genital area because of discomfort. It may be possible that such children have an infection or a rash.\n\n*Masturbation is constant.\n\nParents should keep in mind that in most cases, masturbation is a common, normal
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Depends on how they were brought up by their parents & surrounding.
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have u ever seen the show parental control on mtv. Its basically what it is. your parents control the things u watch, eat, hear etc.
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Why do kids have sex? I think it's because they have too much time on their hands. I think they should stay in school, and maybe lay off the X-box. Learning to spell would be another improvement, but that's just me.
230991
girl... divorce can do all kinds of things to the child... seein the parents lose it over evrything can hurt the child mentally n emotionally.. parents r supposed to b lovin and all.. n seein all this happen can jus warp her world.. turn it upside down... n if the child were to get into a relationship, this wld act as a stigma of wat may or may not happen.. the child will not have a gd outlook of relationship if it continues n noone sits n talks to the child...
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i cant think of any. when you have sex your brain releases chemicals that help you form attachments and like everything you can build a tolerence. when you develop that tolerence it is harder to attach yourself to another person and relationships become harder to form and to make them last.
671459
Your parents and close friends.  How your mother/father sees themselves.  Its all learning by example.
102503
Make sure she has a curfew, know her friend's parents and their rules, know who she is hanging out with and what they do.  Talk to her about sex and your concerns.  Parents who burry their heads in the sand are more likely to have children participating in risky behavior.  And when the time comes and she wants to have sex, let her know that while you don't approve of it, that you want her to be safe about it.
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you need to be more specific on the sleep with him part because that sounds real sick. if you mean sexual encounters you need to call the police and tell your mom and if you mean sleep in the same bed then you still need to tell your mom your uncomfortable and tell her why and if she dont care tella school counselor or call child protective services and tell them. you have rights to be protected from stuff like that.
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I think its because parents are so embarrassed about sex. I think the boy probably was cool with it until everybody started telling him it was bad. How would you like to tell everybody every little detail about your sex life?
267450
One doesn't really have anything to do with the other. Maybe instead of worrying about them appearing sweet to your parents, you should want a man who will be good to you. Good in bed can come with time (at least with a minimum amount of coordination and effort)
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I have heard (from radio therapists, etc.) that it is completely normal for children to be curious that way.  Even that siblings under the age of ten usually have some sort of sexual interaction. I remember messing with the girl across the street.  Does that help?