I slept with my boyfriend on our first date. Is that normal ?
362983
thats fine i guess...I met someone over the internet as well and we slept together after seeing eachother twice! I was a bit messede up after that, but things are going ok...we are not together though, but things are slowly moving to the next level...Dnt feel bad about being attractive to someone...as long as you used protection tten i dnt see what the big deal is...I asked a similar question not too long ago. And see...you guys are still together... And dnt take what Khalidnm2003 said to heart...When guys do it it's great...But as soon as a woman enjoys her sexual self we are referred to as $luts! You dnt need people bring you down...Plus you are a grown woman so why the heck not...Power to you sister!!!
42291
mi boyfriend took me to the beach..right by the water line was a table set up 4 two... it was soooooo romantic. he kissed me. but it was gentle like it was apropreate for that night. it was beautiful :)
422450
I think that im the right person to talk to you.\nI have always belived in complete abstenance, you know, no kissing,and defenatly no sex.\nMy 1st date was when I was 25, i actually waited that long, i met this great gentleman at church, i knew he was the man for me. he actually invited me to go out at this nice restaurant, and i accepted the invitation.\nthis s my fist date, im 25 and not really know what exacly im doing in this restaurant with this guy, He stars telling me about his life, we really had a great time that night, the next day he calls me at work and he sais that he really wants to see me again, i agree to go out again, he told me that he knew that i was the woman he has been waiting for, He actually ask me if He could kiss me, I told him that i had didnt know how to kiss. He got so quiet, he touched my face, then he kissed my forehead, then my nose then my chik, i could not breathe i felt like i was inside a cloud, and then he kissed me, there was i giving my fist kiss, and when i kiss him i always remember how sweet and delicate he was to me. I married him, and we are happily married our anniversary its comming up 3 years already, and we are praying for a baby. there is so much happiness, when you save your self for the right person, the key is not to worrie about it, God will send you the right person, just like he did to me.
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
836851
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43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
239397
Did you have sex with your first girlfriend...\n\nI was like "WHAT?!"
497882
If you are ok with it, then no. I think it is a little wrong because with it being a week, it isn't like you have really gotten the chance to get to know each other in a romantic sense. You know each other as friends, but not as romantic partners.\n\nIf you are ok with jumping into the sack with a guy after barely dating him a week, or even just without a dating relationship, it is up to you.
275188
Absolutely it was rape. Taking something that was not offered is wrong, he stole something from you that you did not want to give. He went ahead although you told him no and tried to push him off you. He knew it was wrong. He raped you, absolutely. The fact that you were dating does not mean he has any rights over you, he certainly did not have the right to force himself on you when you did not want to have sex with him. No means no. x
912298
sometimes and sometimes not. some look down on it, but if you both get that feeling and you both see it as okay, why not? as long as you both want to sure. but don't over do it. i wouldn't making out, all over each other w/ groping. that's just a little too much for a first date. a simple little goodnight kiss can be a perfect ending.
76950
Sometimes it's good for the girl to make the first move.  My boyfriend charmed me into making the first move, and I'm not sorry.  (Actually I'm really really happy!)  And I'm an old-fashioned kind of a girl, too!
111727
Not really. I married the guy i had sex with on the first date and we are still married.
645278
Of course you are! So was I when I went on my first date with a girl (and then all over again with a boy).\n\nRelax, treat it like any other date.  If you're so wound up you'll be too preoccupied to enjoy the person you're with (for worrying about everyone else looking and talking about you OHMAGAWD!).  \n\nIf it helps, start out by thinking of her as an old schoolfriend, let her know you're a little anxious and ease yourself into flirt mode.\n\nHave a great night!
905699
Don't do anything you don't want to do!!! But it is good. Your boyfriend is completely normal, but don't feel pressured.
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...
725121
It's okay. We can't be all lovey dovey every single time we are with our boyfriend. It's only natural... especially if you've been with him for a long time. EVENTUALLY it's gonna happen.\n\nJust yesterday, I met my boyfriend for lunch and we were hardly talking. LOL. I guess we were just too tired.\n\nEH.. it happens. Nothing to worry about.
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it lasted two seconds (i realize this now because i can compare it to other kisses i've enjoyed) but i literally lost ALL sense of time and space. she was (and still is) my dream date; after we pulled away the first words i said were, "that did not just happen." because it was TRULY UNBELIEVABLE. It happened when, where, and with who I wanted. SPECTACTULAR! We're still dating, and that even was a while ago.\n\nYou'll never forget it, especially if the conditions are JUST RIGHT!\n\nwhee! now i'm feeling all romantic!\nhappy valentine's!