If you have been with someone for 3 months, how long after the break-up does it take to get over that person?
359767
It depends on the individual.\n\nNot everyone gets over another person at the same speed.
281507
It depends on the guy on how long it takes. If it hurts you, it's not being done right.\nMy ex could take 3 minutes, and sometimes an hour. it all depends.
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!
890146
its  hard  i know  i  dated a  guy  fro  2 years and 3 months and  he  lived  2 hours  from me and  i end up finding out that he  cheated on me  for  8 months and that he was  heavy in drugs  and then  we  broke up  i dr y  but  that  dont matter  i took me  6 months to  get over the  fact that  we were  broke up and  that i t was time to  find someone else and u know what i found that  person i want to be with for the rest of my life but he  lives  300 miles from me and  we talk everynight and  everyday  so  i  know what he is  doing and  i know where he is  at  it  good to  have that  ablity  to  do that  b/c  most  guys  wont talk to their  girlfriends  everynight  or  everyday  if they  live that  far  but  ya  long distance relationships rnt  easy i know  b/c i  cry  everytime my  boyfriend lives  to go back home  when he come to visit for the  weekend  or whatever  but  we have been together  for a year and  8 months  now and  its  seeming to  work  out  good  but  hope  u  find someone  that  u can  be  with  for the rest of ur  life and  hopefully u  make a  good  desicion on that one  lol
1109882
well I know how u feel, coz I just got out of 3 years relationship, 6 months ago. He's still in my head, and I think about him sometimes. I tried to date but it doesn't work out, coz I'm not over my ex completely. Here's some suggestion, forget about your ex and move on. But if you can't then don't rush hooking up with some other guy coz it's not fair for ur new guy. Good luck sweetie!
216816
Depends on the reason you broke up.  Was it a bad break up?  Did one of you betray the other and/or the relationship?  Were there trust issues?  What will be different this time?  Do you love him/her?  Do you WANT to be in a relationship with him/her?  Was too little information for such a broad question.
608931
U have got to give urself time to get over him....u will soon..time is a great healer.
77634
You don't let go of love... love will let go of you.  When the time is right you move on & you won't even realize it until you see a picture or are reminded of them.. It may take months or years, but it will go faster if you don't try to hold onto it (don't think about them all the time, put up things that remind you of them)  .....  that is he best advice I have.. hope it helps you some.
201006
To me if the break-up was that bad, you wouldn't even be this close to getting the option of getting back together. Anything is possible and in almost 2 years people change a lot. What's so wrong with getting to know who you are now? Don't think of it as getting back together. If you didn't have a past with him, would you still want to get to know this guy right now?
1040629
HOW DO YOU GET OVER A BOYFRIEND DATE SOMEONE ESLE FOR A CHANGE.
1032939
there is a reason why you two broke up--it didn't work out.  don't be weak and get back with him just because you're lonely now.  it usually takes at least a few months before you get over someone...so stick it out and start casually dating (not meaning sex) in the mean time.
103685
well first of all find your weekness. and work on that and become strong.., good things come to those who wait. I was in a 2 yr relashionship.. and i healed. time does heal all things. Life does get better. tell you the truth.. you'll go with other relashionships.. you just wont last long.. because when that happens.., you start to not want long relashionships since.. the last one failed. Just find things that occupy your time.. and Think about someone that would actually be with you., and Not walk away.. without any feelings at all. you two just werent meant to be.. think of it that way.. that way got me.. keep searching for that one.. even if you dont right away.. I promice you all the same. youll find her. alot of times. if you dont look, she will find you. and i sense that she dumped you.., if she had any heart at all.. She wouldnt have done that. think about that Too. one day you will get over it. i did.
994690
1st it depends on how long you were with her, you need to give yourself time adjust after this. Because its just a process you have to go through 2 feel good about yourself again. It will take as long as it needs 2. you will know yourself when you r ready to get the ball rolling again! There is no point on going out on the rebound as you will still have feelings for her. You will just end up getting hurt or hurting someone else its not a good idea to rush, it took me along time b4 i let anyone else in my life after my break up! She messed my head up so much it. i don't know your situation but all i can say and i think a lot of guys would say the same take it easy nice and slow you have all the time in the world. \n\nbut if you want to go out and meet someone do the same as you would have b4. Have a good time talk to them n ask them out there is only two answers you will get!!!!!!!!!
506481
Damn, that sounds like me.  Gonna be tough starting up any type of relationship w/ anyone after breaking up w/ someone that you were w/ for the past 3 yrs.  I dunno how I would let down my guard.  Just be truthful and true.  Don't be fake, be sincere. I really don't know...
768932
I read this book on breaking up, and it said that if you want to remain friends with someone you should cut off all contact for 60 days. Get rid of anything that reminds you of them, and I mean everything then talk to them and all of what you feel right now will either be gone or manageable. If you don't do that you will never have things go back even remotely close to how they were. I am trying it, and I miss him like crazy you really have no idea, but it's now going on 3 weeks. I have been with a guy or two sexually and that has not even worked, but me not talking to him does get easier as more days go by. Good luck.
1121854
just because you have broken up with someone dosnt mean you have to automatically stop liking or loving them. it take time to get over this sort of thing.
610
3 months dude... pick someones answer already...