How to be a succes man but I have low self confident and how to make it good?
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Find someone who is closest to what you consider as a "succes man", and ask that person to be your mentor, or to give you suggestions to your situation, or give you names of people who may be able to provide you guidance in building self confidence and be a "succes man".\n\nMany people have succeeded in attaining their goal with the help of mentor(s) in their lives.
342999
You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
410209
you have a very low self-esteem... but the good thing is, you KNOW you have potential, you'll just have to have faith in yourself... why don't you try something that would make you use your talents/potentials... for example, if you can act, then go and do an audition to a play or something... or if you're good at school, try applying for a scholarship program... in that way, when you get to achieve a certain goal of yours, your selfesteem will be increased... love what you are doing, love yourself... take risks... its part of living... sometimes, we have to fall in order for our body and heart to be prepared and be strong...;o)
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This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
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You should psych yourself by relaxing, giving yourself a "confidence boosting talk", you know, you can do this, you KNOW this, etc. and just walk into it with assurance. Good luck!
636888
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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Mr. Nobody.....\n\nFirst of all, your name suggest a feeling of facelessness....so what I think you need is some confidence.  Believe me dude, you are not faceless.  In fact, hold your face up and look forward.  There is definitely a chick for you out there, as long as you find your groove and ride it out to some lovin'.\n\nSo confidence is number one, tied with having a quality attitude.  Now, people tell you that...but they don't tell you the flip side, which is being turned down.  It will happen, so learn to suck it up, TAKE MENTAL NOTES (very crucial) on what worked and didn't work, and keep truckin'.  Love, like anything else good, never comes easy.\n\nTwo, is finding girls with similar interests as you.  Having things in common is the number one way to maintain a long lasting relationship.  \n\nLet's say you like.....collecting exotic candy from Guam.  You know you have a convention coming up, or weekly get-togethers at TGI Fridays.  Take advantage.  Check out those chicks, because some of them might be hotter than Jennifer Lopez eating homegrown habeneros in the Sahara.  Or at least pretty.  In any case, use your hobby or your job as tools in your search.  Join a club, or actually go out somewhere these things you like are applicable.  You like to paint or history, go to a museum or take an art class.  You like comics, go to a convention.  You like cars....hit up the car show chicks.  Etc, etc, etc.\n\nOne note - do not go to the club or bar on Saturady night and think you will come away with the woman of your dreams.  \n\nThere are more things I could tell you, be this should get you jump started.  Make sure you're clean, breathe is fresh, hair looks decent.......check your clothes and make sure they are at least clean and they reflect how cool you are, or can be.  Don't be a poseur.  \n\nOh...when you are actually talking to someone who might be interested.....speak up and look into her eyes.  Have your spit together.\n\nGood Luck, buddy.
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look after yourself, your teeth and hair. Keep your clothes clean and tidy. Be confident, smile a lot, try not to be depressed all the time, people like to be around people who are happy and confident.\nIt doesnt matter what you look like, if you make the best of what you have by keeping groomed and clean and being happy and confident people will feel drawn to you.
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You have to think of Yourself First. Forget about how men see you. Start thinking to make youself a better person.\n\nExecise, lose weight...if you are in shape get some interest like a hobby or some good reading...build some "new you" but not because you have to boost confidence with men, do it because you must boost confidence "in Yourself". You look in the mirror and you think.."I like you now.."\nWhen you have reached this point you will see strange things happening to you...Men will be attracted to you as ever before, even if you were ugly..Why? Because your  self-confidence send out a message, like a scent, telling men that you are OK you are the woman they are looking for, and all of this because you spent time building that confidence\nFOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON. DO IT FOR YOU::
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You need to gain confidence in yourself, for one. Learn to be alone, and not lonely. If you can appreciate yourself as company, others will as well. Go places where you will meet people with similar interests, and you'll meet women who will be interested in you.
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Confidence is attractive, cockiness is not. Just be humble!
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You need to work on the inner you!!! You need to work on self confidence, self esteem. Once you feel you are the best person you can be on the inside it will seep to the outside and everyone will take notice!!!  Don't ever try to better yourself for others do it all for you! And you are right to be picky...your Mr Right will come and it will take time...
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I think you just need to be yourself - don't be anything you're not and don't try too hard. Be confident in who YOU really are.
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Hi Nikki,\n\nFirst, be yourself and work on developing yourself as an individual. Then, one day you will know what a good guy is to know what he is looking for.\n\nProbably most of the response you will get, here, are superficial and shallow responses by us, hormone-driven men. But a good guy will look beyond that.
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Think about what assertive and confident look and sound like, then look and sound like that.\n\nSome details that come to mind...\nstand or sit tall\nmake eye contact\nspeak a little slower than usual\nspeak a little lower (no high squeaky voice) than usual\n\n\nBest of all, know your stuff inside out. That way you should actually be confident.
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Hmmmm... I think that you might want to seek professional help with this problem.  See the thing is confidence isn't something that you can teach.  A professional might be able to help you unwrap why you are not confident to begin with, but I am not sure anybody is going to have a magic pill for you.  Well here goes something.  Dude, the key to sexual prosperity, is rejection.  I know that sounds dumb but listen, every time your faced with an attractive woman, you get tense and lock up why? because you're afraid of being rejected and feeling like a loser right?  Well just decide not to feel that way (easier said than done but it doesn't have to be hard).  Try this exercise, go to a bar, and identify 5 women that you are attracted to, and go and introduce yourself, i promise at least 1 will want to at least TALK to you, and then when you feel a bit more confident with talking you can start romancing.  See love, and dating and courtship is a numbers game, and every time you hear a no that is one less you have to hear till you INEVITABLY get a yes.  There are like a billion people in India right? 500,000,000 women, trust me at least 100,000 will want to talk to you or go out on a date with you.  So never take anything a woman says personally, and welcome rejection, as one less hurdle to your inevitable GUARANTEED success, and you may find that you can talk to women after-all.  Good luck bro, and I hope this helps.  I know it sounds crazy but trust me it works.
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Look confident, and hustle. Act like you belong, know what you do best and try to take advantage of your strengths, whether its dribbling, passing, jumping or shooting the rock. By all means don't try to be something you are not, you will just look stupid, play within yourself and you will be alright...Good Luck.