I'm a gay pisces male dating a gemini guy..1.5 years and his unattached ways are sometimes hurtful. How do I
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You're not selfish.  He does not share your feelings.  Love is not hard or hurtful.  Sounds like you are trying to hard to be someone you are not.  Embrace who you are and start searching for someone who will appreciate you.  It's not hard.  It does not matter your sexual orientation.  If you try to change, you will be no better than your current "lover".  Look for a new outlets where you can contribute to society.  Do volunteer work.  Check the newspaper for clubs that might sound interesting.  You may not meet someone, but you may make new friends that have connections.
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Great question for me. My husband is a pisces and I am a libra.\n\nWe get along great. I have read this is a hard match, unless you were brought together by another force, such as a blind date. My husband and I were set up by mutual friends. \n\nWe have been together sinec 95 so over 10 years, and married since 98.\n\nYou will find, being the Libra, that their(the pisces) indecisiveness and temper will get you super frustrated. \n\nMy husband just cannot get over the fact that people are crappy drivers, and every time we go out he gets pissed driving. I have fixed that by always being the driver. \n\nAs the Libra, i tend to be controlling, which most pisces dont mind as they can be a bit lazy.\n\nWe have a ton of fun together, we are both silly and we both have the same views on almost everything. He puts up with my vain nature and my rare but high temper, and I put up with his crankyness and indecisiveness.\n\nIts a great match for us. Good luck!
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Ok you gotta do 3 things first is love...always love him always talk to him in a soft voice always make him realise that you love him...because if he will realise that you love him he wont throw as many tantrums....2nd is compromise...you gotta compromise living with a bi-polar person whenever he do faults just ignore it dont get mad at him or yell at him cuz if you will do that it will be a massive tantrum...THE biggest thing is attension stay there for him always spend time with him make sure that he knows that he have enough attension from you...in this way living a life with a bi-polar person can be lot easier..
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How can you say that he is not abusive!?! Wake-up girl and stop trying to fix this jerk!!! He is not Bi-polar he is an a** and you picked him and kept him for quite some time. Worry about you and figure out why you chose a guy like him so you don't end up with the same guy in a different pair of pants!
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You don't want to try that.  If he is the jealous type you may unleash a phycho.  You want a man that is secure.
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Hate to break it to ya, but sometimes two people just aren't gonna feel the same about each other, even if they love each other.  But, just to get them to like you is easy enough...try being yourself.  If you have something in common with the "dude" then you should try having conversations about it...but nothing lame where you agree to everything.  I mean have a deep conversation about it.  Once last thing, treat him as you'd like to be treated, that goes the same for every living being.  That should at least get your foot in the door.
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its kinda like he's the sun and youre the sunburn at this fragile moment. i say treat each other with the most respect and care take care of one another listen, compromise, and believe in the relationship
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my god....\nwhy dont u clearly talk to him.\nask him to stop jumping around. he isnt loving u but taking advantage of ur love just keeping u as backup for bad time of his. \nu r a person, u love him, u too get hurted. u too have value. make him realize this. have a serious talk on this.\n\nif he dont love u, then dont let him messup wth u again n again. be clear, it will hurt u but its better than being victim. tell him either he can be wth u totally loyal or just stay away from u. he is confused in his life, he dont know what love n whats value of it. good serious talk can make him undertand this, n if he is really a good person them he will value u or wont hurt u more. otherwise he is crook.\nlove is from both sides, both have to give n take. i can understand u doing him for pure love, but have value for urself. i guess u r treating him very softly n freedom, u r letting him do any thing he wants. he has to realize that u love him so he cant jump around. when its love then its wth just wth 1 person.\n\ni understand u love him, ur heart melts for him n it makes u accept him again n again though he is doing crap. u cant do it forever, talk n decide what he actually want u or anyother.  if he REALLY dont love u then bear wth some pain n keep him away. just give him a option that he come to u only when he is very serious n forever.\nkeep ur door open to him, but dont let him just taking ur advantage. be strict n let him come to u wth a condition that he wont leave u again. be strict, be lil over emotions u can accept him any time becoz u really love him, be proud of it. but be strict to value urself as person. u r not just a thing to play. be strict so it will save u from emotional n mental damage.\n\nwhen he comes to u agian, make sure he got everything clear n he is loyal, he has his mind set on u tatally then accept him.....be happy that u got ur love forever.
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We're both Capricorns and we just can't stand it when things are not right ! And this is NOT right.... I feel what you're saying and feeling, I'm sure you talked to him about it and he just comes up with "innocent" explanations ! Don't give up, keep at it and warn him that this will lead to a gap between you and eventually a break up... Even if he doesn't mean any harm, it will develop, and if not with this one then with another! Keep him away from the Internet as much as you can, keep him busy with you,give him a good time in his spare time, until this faze passes....Good Luck
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"Virgo + Pisces\n\nEarth + Water = Mud\n\nThere’s a contradiction between Virgo and Pisces. You are opposite signs: astrologically, this is usually considered a positive indicator for love and marriage. At the same time, you have very different approaches to life, and very different personalities. Because of this, it’s quite surprising that you’re even attracted to each other. But attracted you may be — don’t write it off.\nPisces is a water sign, and therefore sensitive and extremely intuitive. You, on the other hand, are rational and less emotional. The way you express yourselves, the way you see the world, and — most importantly — the way you want to engage in love is quite different. \nPisces is a dreamer, constantly imagining new possibilities in life and relying on their intuition. They live in a way that you find hard to understand, intellectually. You are a doer. You use reason and cold hard facts to make decisions. \nOne thing you have in common is that both of you are changeable and moody.\nThe important difference is that you’re driven to understand, categorise and solve each and every problem meticulously, where Pisces is happy to wait, and let emotional forces reveal the answers to them.\nYou may interpret their approach as laziness and attack them for it. This is a bad idea: you could damage the relationship irreparably. Just because Pisces doesn’t hit back, it doesn’t mean you haven’t hurt them. Water signs don’t get even straight away. They brood, and wait for the right moment to retaliate.\nAny sharp criticism will scar Pisces; in the long run it will scare them off. So pull back on the self-control reins and don’t ask for things that really mean you want them to be different. \nYour best combination is with a Piscean born between 19 February and 28/29 February. These Pisces will offer you a very stable life. There’s a chance you could build a fulfilling relationship with them and learn a lot about your own feelings in the process. \nPisces born between 1 March and 10 March will make great friends and admirers. They secretly wish for your intellectual greatness, but they won’t say so. They will be great supporters of anything you do. \nThere are some pluses if you team up with a Pisces born between 11 March and 20 March — they are great communicators. They may not be very open to your criticisms, though, so be gentle if you offer them self-improvement ideas. In fact, be prepared for a sharpish response; they’re not going to roll over and accept everything you say."
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Yes, it can work...My GF & I are both Pisces (and yes, I'm a female...lol)...We were best friends for about 4 yrs. before we decided to cross the line...been together going on 2 yrs now...working out just fine...\n\nGood luck.
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Aries/ Gemini\n\nGot your eye on a Twin? You've met your match! This winsome lover has charm to spare and is as mesmerizing as a dancing flame. You both need lots of excitement -- both of you get bored easily. You both juggle things exceedingly well, and together you'll be running a mile a minute. This is a match of two great communicators, with lots of activities and friends. You'll have impassioned debates and cook up grand schemes on a near-daily basis. One thing you will never run out of is new ideas, so put them to good use anywhere and anytime! Your Gemini will be an excellent "town crier" for you, for few signs get the word out as easily and as effectively as Gemini. At times you may feel you have your own proud personal PR agent. \n\nYou are the pioneer in the relationship and will want to get your way most of time. Luckily, Gemini is a mutable sign, and will be happy to let you have your way without complaint. Gemini have their own projects to pursue, so their ego rarely gets riled. If it does, there's no reason to fear. Gemini will let it out and be done with their complaint; they don't hold grudges. A Gemini's presence will seem like a breath of fresh air, and bless him or her for it. \n\nIn bed, you generate more heat and passion, but since Geminis mirror behavior so well, you'll soon bring your lover up to your level. Just be sure to slow down a little, Aries. You both are in a hurry, tumbling pell-mell toward the next great thing. When you make love, it might be a good idea to stop and savor your time together. \n\nSince both of you live in the moment, hopefully one of you will also do some serious planning for your future. Neither of you is ultra-practical, or good with detail. You might think about hiring an outside advisor to organize you -- but be sure you listen to them and act on the advice he or she gives! \n\nA life that sparkles like a diamond is what you two have in store. Hang on to your honey!
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you pisceans are very strange people..on one hand humourous, intelligent, restless,caring, doing favours, giving everything when it comes to love, not selfish.on the other hand,insecure, inrtovert, afraid to love sb in case you get hurt, wanting to take revenge, wanting to show yourselves, can get very selfish for no reason, may seem not trustworthy.i dont know one moment you are the cutest of the horoscope and the following the most stupid.some of you seem that you havent desided what or who you want and make the world arround you suffer.with your patience can make sb believe you are tha one and when that happens you just go hide into the sea again..or maybe my piscean was like that.
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you move on.  He sounds really insensitive.  I think when someone shares their tender feelings of attraction that the least the person on the recieving end of it could be is nice.  It sucks when they don't care.
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You're going to hurt him one way or the other.  Just be honest and tell him you're feelings have changed and you don't want to date him anymore.  He'll get over it after a while (unless he's psycho).
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I really don't want to be mean, but I've noticed several questions on this topic that you've posted.  I think at this point astrology is irrelevant, because he is with someone else.  Even if I told you that he was astrologically perfect for you and not her, does that really help? what will that change?  he is still with her.  You are still so young to be so obsessed with one person.  7 years is along time, especially at your age, I think that you should chalk this one up as your first great love and now move on and try to be more independant.  You have a choice, you can spend the next few months hating and desping them, living in bitterness and jealousy and hoping he will come back to you, or you can find comfort in your friends, go out, have fun, get some interests/hobbies and enjoy life.  By the way, which one of those types do you think guys will find more appealing?
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I am in a sex only relationship with Leo male I say it like that because he would like more but I cant handle him being so much more emotional than me.Clingy ,whines alot, cries just to girly maybe more girly than me BUT SEX IS GREAT  I just wish he could be more of a manlier man sometimes.great friend listener knows how to treat a woman right  just to mushy even for me a Pisces girl