my parents wont allw me a bf till 18. Im 13 and hav had 1 4 7 months and they found out...?
368507
i went there the same thing when my parents found out that i liked a 17 year old. all i can tell u is if u've gone on this long w/ your bf & they just found out dont change your mind bout him....try 2 get them 2 let u have him over 4 dinner or something so they can get 2 know him a little.  good luck
518724
Hey Me.... I am a mother and would feel very hurt if my child didn't tell me what was up and ran off with a 21 yr old. May I suggest that you sit down and talk with your parents. Yes they may be upset at first, but their your parents and will love you reguardless. Here is something else to think about. When I was your age I was head over hills for a man 7 yr older than me. I dated him for a year and realized that I wasn't in love with him, but liked his company because he listened to me when I thought my parents weren't. When it turn out they were. Then I met this cool guy my age and we dated all through highschool. So if you will take a suggestion from a mom..don't rush into anything take your time, because you never know a cool girl your age may come along that you relate to.
199221
i think that ur parents trust ur BF that's why... and good for both of u, 'coz it means that ur BF didn't waste the chance that was given to him by ur parents...
633327
a year and a half? Your parents can't be that upset, you both are mature young adults (I hope) and you shouldn't hide the fact that you care about someone.\n\nGood Luck
611427
It's called rebellion.  I had 3 teenage girls at the same time.  A teen feels they are old enough to make their own decisions and don't need their parents telling them what to do.  You don't realize that your parents were once teens also and they know and understand what is going on with you because they went through it to.  truth is, you are not old enough to know better.  You think you are, but you are not.  Parents only want what is best for their children no matter what age.  As hard as it may be, try listening to your parents.  Sit down and talk.  Ask them why they are being so forbidden on certain liberties that you want.  You will be surprised how understanding parents can really be.  Don't give up...it gets better, believe me.
284693
13 year old boyfriends aren't all that great.\nMy advice, wait till you are a little older to start looking for a boyfriend.
377922
Tell them now!!!!You had the courage to write this on the Internet ...go and confront them...!How old are you?I did a tragic mistake in my life and never told my parents....and then i was left without friends alone...i couldn't seek support from them cause they could have never trusted me again if i told them coz i lied for more than two years...tell them now!!!have courage..if you need to chat email me...,be strong this baby needs love
572356
you are only 19,just because he does'nt want you moving in does not mean that he is not in love.you have only been togeather for 8 months it's far to early,just carry on doing what you are doing and not tell your parents,and why do your parents not like him?.it can be done i was only with my partner for 8 months and 12 year on were still togeather,but im only one of the lucky few as not very often you hear relationships would survive that.
1019355
Well, it goes like this... it is very common for your family to dislike  your love choice... but it is all because they see you as their precious little girl and think that no one is good enough for you. Even if they are not good for you, if you approach your parents in a calm manner demanding that they respect your decision but you promise to be careful, perhaps they will learn to deal with it. When they see that you are determined about what you want, of course providing that you are old enough, they will eventually calm down. All they want is what's best for you... My parents used to be like that (okay, i had some wrong choices but still) and I tried hiding things from them and lying - it did not end up well... eventually they have learned to butt out of my business.... \nBest regards!
1023384
listen to your parents. You'll have plenty of time to date later when you are more independent.
1021943
hi..dts gud havin a boy friend..i do have one..c,just handle the situation carefully...tell your parents first,and make them understand the depth in love u have for ur guy..it always takes some time for ur parents to agree...bt,still u wait and wait...jus dont run away with him...bcoz that most of the couples do these days whn their parents are not allowin...tell dm that you really cant live with out him....and the main part is,you must have satisfied all your parents expectations..........let them know love these days is not a big thing to worry about...it vil take time,wait to hold the hands of ur guy forever,gud luck..........
572577
The two of you married in front of a judge in Feb.? You must be in a state that allows marriages around 17. I really don't see how you two got married without parents finding out. Seems you both are not serious about this marriage and was to young to start with since the way you put it that you might get back together. My advise is talk with your parents about this...
1027222
you should have waited for the right time.. but what has been done has been done...i just hope u never regreted it... and if u think it will help you to open that up to your parents,why not...just be ready for a 1 month ground...kiddin!
1088865
just do it behind their back. ur parents sound prettty strict. when you go out just meet up with guys. simple.
1030390
he is playing you for a fool and why does it even matter if your parents dont want you to date then it hsouldnt be a problem , right?\ngo with them, they really do know best and im sure that they have your best interests at heart\nnow if you are like 20 and still living at home or something then this choice really should be yours, and still he sounds like an immature player to me\njust keep it as friends
892207
When your a teenager you'll definitely do this. I know I did when I was a teenager. I only had one boyfriend my parents really didn't like, and I wish I would have listened to them when they were trying to warn me about him. He turned out to be a very abusive guy. Sometimes parents see what we don't see and are just looking out for you. At other times they just simply might not like the guy and he could really be a cool guy. Just make sure this guy is respecting you above anything else.
1117459
Nope.  Your in the wrong here, you are lying and disobeying your parents.  You probably aren't aloud to date because you aren't old enough.  Whether you believe it or not your parents make rules for a reason and you should respect them.