Why girls don't pick the nice guys?
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That's not true, but in certain social situations when a girl meets two guys she is likely to go for the one who is mysterious the one who she can't figure out or the one she thinks she can reform from the bar. Those kind of girls are desperate, don't worry about them. A real woman wants a man that has some of the qualities that you possess. You will soon find a woman who values a real man. When you meet girls be the mysterious nice guy. \n\nAnother thing, some girls may think like this: Don't lay it all out that your this super nice guy, girls only want you to be nice to them,like their special if your nice all the time it you may be sending the messagethat your not different from any other gal, Good luck!
283177
As a girl I want to tell you that you are right. Most girls don't want to date a nice guy because they are not exciting. If they treat you like your not that important to them it makes them a challenge. Girls have a fixing complex. It makes us feel good when we have the power to change the way a guy feels or acts. You need to find a girl that has learned that lesson and has matured a little.
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u r looking for the wrong girls...\nand just be yourself rather than trying to be someone else\nand remember that all girls are different, but that doesn't mean you change for them..\ni found this somewhere, i didnt write it but i can highly relate to it, and so can many of the girls you are looking for....\n\nTo the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and time again fake up and make up and screw up the guys in their lives without saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from "there are plenty of fish in the sea," to "time heals all wounds." This is to honor those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they are, who know that they deserve better, who are seeking to find it.\n\nThis is for the girls who have never been in love, but know that it's an experience that they don't want to miss out on. For the girls who have sought a night with friends and been greeted by a night of catcalling, rude comments and explicit invitations that they'd rather not have experienced. This is for the girls who have spent their weekends sitting on the sidelines of a beer pong tournament or a case race, or playing Florence Nightingale for a vomiting guy friend or a comatose crush, who have received a drunk phone call just before dawn from someone who doesn't care enough to invite them over but is still willing to pass out in their bed. This is for the girls who have left sad song lyrics in their away messages, who have tried to make someone understand through a subliminally appealing profile, who have time and time again dropped their male friend hint after hint after hint only to watch him chase after the first blonde girl in a skirt. This is for the girls who have been told that they're too good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given compliments as a way of breaking off a relationship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.\n\nThis one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across th
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"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"\n\n'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?\n\nIf so, does that make you just as shallow?\n\nYou need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends").  Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.\n\nMake sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.\n\nMight take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.
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Because they are not BORING. Nice boys are boring. Be interesting, and the girls will come.
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FYI some girls really like nice guys...I know I do. So don't give up hope NICE GUYS!
1106466
no, girls dont like that, we prefer guys that can be both, bad and sweet, not too much of anything
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Because nine times out of ten the jerk has the nerve to go up to the girl and talk to her. Or that's been my experiance from tlaking to girls. They want the nice guy, but they want the nice guy to go and ask them out not just be-friend them and beat around the bush.
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there is lots of women that like nice guys. the bad guys usually get the attention because they make a move first. go ahead and be nice, but not shy.
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You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.
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Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
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Well me being a nice boy am very nervous when asking girls out us nice boys often afraid of rejection. If you show us that you like us we will ask you out. Plus the not nice guys dont truly care but the nice ones do.
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The debate of "nice guys vs. bad boys" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the "bad boy", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.\n\nIt doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "bad boys" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "bad boys" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.
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well shouldn't the guy choose the girl
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Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
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First of all a nice guy will want to know a girl for who she really is  and he wont be so fast to date her really quick unless he really knows that she is a nice girl also. Second of all dont make him chase you. A nice guy with his own personality will see this as a game and he will quickly lose interest. See how he treats all people whether he needs anything from them or not, a nice guy will be nice even to a homless beggar. The most important thing to know if a guy is nice or not is if he really can communicate and share his heart with you. If he can and you wont also then he will leave u. Also dont expect to meet him at nightclubs as mostly scumbag men that are players and partiers are there.
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because they not nice and mature or either they want the bad girl type.  you will find someone that is nice.  just keep looking but not in the wrong places