i told my best friend i love him but then he didnt care so he got a gf what do i do?
371194
you move on.  He sounds really insensitive.  I think when someone shares their tender feelings of attraction that the least the person on the recieving end of it could be is nice.  It sucks when they don't care.
320560
he is still into you. be careful though because he may try to make his move on you even though you are with his best friend. guys can be stupid when it comes to women. actually, guys are always stupid when it comes to women
786737
Girl are you serious? For one, if he really cared for you, he would not have started dating someone that you call your best friend. If she was your friend, she would not have started dating someone that you were with and still have feelings for. If I were you, I would take the advice he gave you (which is telling you that he does not want you for a relationship, just something to fall back on) and date other people and just leave him the hell alone and her too. Do not put yourself in the position to be hurt, take control of your feelings, have pride and some respect for yourself. What makes you think a real man would want someone who is going to be their dummy, and wait for them to finish messing around with some other girl? He is making a fool of you, and it is time you get a back bone and swallow that so called love you have for him.\n\nI really do not think what you have is love any ways, I think you are just infatuated with him and its gotten stronger because now he has become a challenge since you can not have him when you want him. Girl it is so many other fine ass men out here and who could be better that what he is, that will love every step you take. Do not wait around for someone to approve you loving them and them loving you. He is not sorry for hurting you, he is just plan sorry!
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
1056626
Obviously you havent gotten over the fact that he doesnt want to date you. Maybe you should jump on the horse and go out on a date...not exactly get a boyfriend...just go out...have fun...spend time not thinking about him.\n\nIf you're best friends you dont want to lose that, I've been in that situation being in love with your best friend...it's horrible when you realize they dont feel the same...I got lucky...my best friend told me that I would find the man of my dreams and realize that it wasnt him...and he was right...but it took about a year before that happened. \n\nJust give it time and things will get better...if not easier. You just need time to cope.\n\nBest of luck
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
564310
just stay friends unless he is willing to break it off with his gf...by the way i like your name alot
121929
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
657175
i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell him how u feel about her. If you think they were really meant to be together than let it be, if u think u in her were meant to be together than GO GET YOUR GURL.
1074895
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
521752
THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
159969
Tell him it takes two to be in love, and that he shouldn't hurt a girl that he doesn't love by being engaged to her (what the heck was he thinking?) It also not-so-subtley hints at how you feel about him. And if he can't control his feelings for you perhaps you should distant yourself from him for a while and give him some space to get over this.\n\nPS: Do not feel guilty that you might be the reason they break up. He's the reason they don't work out. He's got some issues if he get engaged to someone he does not love. He might be your friend but this really isn't your problem.
470158
Yes, just start doing other things and realize that even though you have feelings for him, he obviously doesn't have them for you. He actually had to lie about having a girlfriend just so you would leave him alone.\nSo realize that you deserve someone who loves you back and cares about you back and that he is not the one. I know you think he is and that once he gets to know you, he will realize it, but sweetheart, that really isn't the case. You can't make someone care about you. As much as we like to think we can, we can't.\nSo hang out with friends, meet knew people and before you  know it, you will forget all about him. It won't happen overnight, but it will happen. It takes time.
627883
Well if the guy is your friend (real friend) ...either if he loves you that way or not ( bf/gf) ....he will still respect you and talk to you ... he might ned time or feel unconftable for the frist 2 weeks but he will get over it if hes not interested...\n\nThe best thing tell him alone ...so no one else can laugh or say stupid stuff ( your friends can be your friends but sometimes they lack brain cells in situations likes theses)\nTell the guy you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way as you its fine, that you dont want the fact that your feelings might hurt the friendship you all have ...that you will survive if hes not interested...that you will not try to make him unconftable...or stalk him ...but if the feeling and similar...it would make you happy...