Know any ways to make her feel more comfortable talking freeley more around me.?
372517
Talk to her about things you know you have in common. Try asking her out for pizza, let her know up front that it's a "just to get to know you better" type thing. Let the conversation lead itself. Ask her questions about what interests her.
1008016
really what she feels inside or what she shares with someone else is really her personal business and you should respect her space. when she is ready to talk she will.
283636
dont worry about and give her sometime to cool down and then try and talk to her again maybe a couple of weeks.The smartest thing you could do whatever she says or does just be nice to her and that will kill her.  But just dont get into mind games because bottom line at that age she will be a heck of alot better than you.
952764
A HAMMER NEAR HER HEAD\nLOL J/K\nJUST EXPLAIN TO HER IN FLOWERY TONES THAT YOU NEED TO GO TO EXPERIENCE NEW LIFE AND GET COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR FRIENDS IN COZY WARM CABIN AND THE DRINKING OF LIQUOR THAT WILL LOOSEN YALL UP AND HAVE YOU REMOVE SWEATERS TO EXPOSE MUSCULAR...\nANYWAY\nJUST TALK LIKE  A GIRL..AND WHINE...THE BIG OX WILL LISTEN! LOL!
827768
She obviously already dissed you.  What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion.  From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped.  Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group.  Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on.  Give this friendship some space.  If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there.  But, don't ask.  Let it be.  Do your own thing for a little bit.  I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him.  If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you.  Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.
423814
It's always like that at first ... you have to get used to her ... you know get comfortable being around her first so the both of you can loosen up a little ... It just takes time... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS with your new found love!!!
266879
How about inviting her for a nice walk or asking if she'd like to go play a game of ball with you. Make her feel like you want to do something (active) with her. And that way she won't feel bad.
1183101
well open up to ger talk more openly with her
712803
i would try and give her hints but try and keep it real too. and if it comes down to it act like your not really into her anymore (but you really are) and she'll come crawling to you!
151860
You're too nervous around her.  Stop trying too hard to impress and you will look more genuine, witty and funny.\n\nPlay it cool...
351983
just go slow and teach her.  be kind with your words tho.  good luck
828419
being careful of what you say to her and just listening out for the things that she says to you. let her come to you now not the other way around. you have already expressed yourself and now knows how you feel. now she needs a little time to think about the moves that she is going to make. act par when you are around her and keep par conversations so that she feels comfortable all most as if nothing was ever said. \n\nbasically when she brings it up than you can bring it up if nothing is said than do not say anything at all.
405909
this seems to always be the case..i guess you just have to try and be yourself..since you both probably hang out with each other a lot..try to be more outgoing than her and change it up a little bit..however..dont try too hard they may start to notice
738630
Let her read this, then have a little chat with her.  If anything is to happene between you, you'll have to have a real conversation sooner or later.
579594
when you two have a moment alone tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel and to please stop.  be gentle since she sounds like she might be kinda sensitive.  if she doesn't understand what the big deal is tell her maybe it's best y'all spend a little less time together.  if that doesn't work and she's still hanging all over you maybe you should tell an adult.  i mean, it would suck to make a big deal out of it but if she's dense and isn't getting the message...what else can you do?  no one wants to feel uncomfortable around someone who is supposed to be a friend.  and if she were a real friend she would've gotten the message already.  ya know?  good luck.
578286
Well, it's ambiguous if you've tried talking to her about it, when you say "She seems to think ...".  Have you just come out and asked "Why are you so tense?"  You're not instigating the response by a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am, are you?\n\nSetting the mood, as previous answers suggest, with a bath, a massage, cuddling would certainly help.  Try new positions that would get her to move.  Honestly talk about what feels good and what is awkward during.  It could only lead to more enjoyable situations.
273700
Be Polite. Say something like. ' you are a gret friend but sometimes you get on my neres can you try not to" I think after she realizes she will try her best not to get on your nerves