my boyfriend doesnt cum.....?
368333
he needs  to get checked out...if he's overweight that could be part of it, could also be stress or something out...get him to go see a doctor
1004440
Not really.  He could come alot because of the fact that he is really excited to be able to be with you.  I know that my boyfriend, since I know what makes him tick, can cum alot when I put in the works while at other times when I don't put in all the stops he doesn't come so much.  But, I also know through experience that a man coming alot could also because he hasn't had sex in a while.
951138
Maybe his sex drive isn't as active as yours is.  Instead of bugging him for sex a lot then wait until he's actually horny and have him go to you.
83636
Maybe he isn't stimulating you enough anymore maybe your body is used to him. Try different postions. Trust me the one we did the other day I did org.
53471
Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
1129915
Okay first use lots of lube and have him finger you first with one finger than with two to get you use to it or you could use a butt plug put it while you are having s*x than switch to an*l have him go real slow and just try to be really relaxed if you do it right it feels great. Good Luck and P.S. always try to be opened minded when it comes to s*x you never know what you just may like.
156142
He needs to concentrate more on you.  It's not all about him finishing it's more about the intimacy between the two of you.  Be sure your needs are met before it's his turn.  Concentration is the key...
874300
I don't know that I quite understand all of your question.  What are you saying about your boyfriend masturbating?  Are you worried that because he masturbates, he's not horny enough to have more sex with you?  Believe me, masturbation doesn't change your sex drive; it merely takes care of it.  If he has enough desire to masturbate, he's got enough to have sex with you.\n\nAs for oral . . . no, not all men like to do it.  Some dislike the smell/taste, some find it difficult to do (I've heard things like complaints of tongue cramping, believe it or not), some feel it's beneath them (that a 'real man' can satisfy his woman through penetration alone), some merely don't care about her orgasm and won't do the work for it, some are nervous or feel inexperienced and don't want to do it because they're scared of failing (they don't know how to locate the clitoris; and some women are slightly hard to get off).  Or it's just not really their thing.  A lot of guys love to do it, but a lot don't, too.\n\nI can't say if your boyfriend's gay; you'll have to decide that.  But, if it's worth anything, there are straight males out there who masturbate often, don't like to perform oral sex on women, and don't have sex as often enough as their wives/girlfriends would like.\n\nHope that helps.
500728
you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck
571454
My boyfriend does not watch porn, but maybe most guys are not grown enough!
1177281
Is he a young man?\n\nSounds like it... I suggest working with him to increase his "ride" time.   The grab method... or some "detain" cream... or perhaps wearing a condom sometimes helps.\n\nYou must have some "sugar walls" there babe!!!  hehehe\n\nbut seriously... if this is a problem for you... as it seems it should be... work with him.   You both will enjoy it more!
96886
just by being in bed with him is an amazing start. Listen...its not hard. Please him! You know? i mean...come on.  Please him is simple. There a so many thing you cna do to please him. Here is your hint : His Penis\n\n\nThats all you need to know. \n\n\n\nWhat something that will really get him happy and horny as all hell. Lay in bed with him and wisper in his ear. "tell me what you want me to do to you...."  he'll get a hard on right there and then, just those words. Most guys anyway. Good luck.
624236
Well, if he comes in your mouth, you've done a good job.  Actually, I would have to say don't use teeth at any point in time, especially like raking teeth up & down.  OUCH!!!  Also, always communicate.  See what your guy wants.  Don't concentrate too much on the head, as he may not be able to come from being overstimulated.  Also, let him know ahead of time if you want to take his load.  Nothing ruins a good one better than a girl pulling her head up when a guy is about to come if he doesn't expect it.  That's a messy clean-up job.  Finally, if you want to impress him, swallow.  If you have to spit, don't let him see you make a yuck face.  Just tell him it was too thick, & you didn't want to take the time to chew.  That should get a laugh out of him, & not make him think it tasted badly.  One of my former girlfriends actually told me this one night, & I was laughing so hard, I almost forgot I had my pants unzipped!
832664
So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
284009
I wouldn't be so quick to say move on.  Especially if you love him.  Their are lots of ways to add to your sex life.  First he should use his toungue.  I want a guy to use his tongue even if he does have a nice package.  Also, introduce the idea of toys.  Most guys find that erotic anyway and believe me you wont complain! ;)  You can teach him to bring you to the point of orgasm and then let him get his reward for doing so.
503726
Maybe it's not that he doesn't LIKE it, maybe he CAN'T have sex that often.  Some men can't, it could be a medical condition.  Just talk to him about it.  Let him know that you have needs.  If he can't have sex maybe he would be willing to stimulate and pleasure you some other way.  Communication is very important though.  Let him know how much you desire him and wanna be with him.  Sometimes guys gotta hear that stuff too!
844949
I don't think its because you had a baby two yrs ago, but I don't know I'm not a doctor. maybe you should ask your doctor. but before doing that lets ask you this. when your having sex do you get on top most women that do have orgasms by riding him? or when hes on top most men do it the 'norm" in and out what most guys don't do is side to side moving there hips to the right to the left they just go back in forth in and out. tell him to move his hips side to side to right then to the left when a man does it like that it gives most women the best orgasms. and if that don't work try playing with yourself and buy some k-y jelly you can buy that at targets, Wall-marts its usually were they sell KO-TeX to let papers,powders etc...if still nothing ask your doctor it could be Hermon's