my ex still says he love me and dat he misses me and he want to trust me again but he don't want to be with me
363932
just tell him how u realy feel and just come out with all of your feelsings so he knows i dont if this well help
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
168465
He desn't still love you if he did he would tell you where he moved to. Just try to move on. If he does love you and just hasn't realized it, it will be so much better if when he comes back looking for you, you have moved on he will realize how special you are. If not then you have moved on and you don't need him anymore anyway.
372440
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
281811
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
583932
you have to face the fact that "love" isnt the only thing that makes a relationship...trust is a big issue,along with communication you cant make anyone trust you. ask yourself what you did, for him to not want to get hurt by you again. then think about what you can do to not do it twice. stop asking him to trust you...instead show him that he can still trust you. remember actions speak louder than words. also let him know that the best teacher in life are mistakes and that if you made a mistake you've learned from it. that you now know the consequences for your actions.
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü
361459
Honey, I hate to burst your bubble, but it sounds like he's trying to avoid you. When guys do that, that's usually bad news.  Maybe he's not the right one for you.  If he really loves you, it will all work itself out. If not, let him go and move on, it's for your best. Can't force love.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
1177808
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
328889
I know how it feel to be broke up but want your ex back, it hurts badly, just see it like this, if it's meant for you to be together, he will come back on his on, if it's not, he won't...even if he does, if it's not meant to last, he will leave again, but if it is, eventually he will be there with you forever.....although nothing last forever, he will be with you until one of you die, so just hold on and see what happens, but remember, although you love him, if he doesn't come back, there are plenty others out ther that will be there, I had to make myself realize that, I thought that no-one else out there can make me feel like he did...A LIE!!! when there's something good there's always something better!!!! good luck!!
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.
923217
u need to be strong, and never go back to this guy, u are still in love with the ex, and it is hard when he calls. sometimes we can still love someone but they aren't good for us, sometimes it is hard to move on, but we got to, for our own well being, when we truly know that person will hurt us. just be strong, when he calls again, hang up, don't let him suck u in again into his world.
529702
Sweetheart, it's going to be tough... but you're going to have to give him his space and somehow prove to him that he can trust you again.\n\nSorry.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
837490
He wouldn't take you anywhere if he still doesn't have feelings for you.  In fact, he would probably be thinking of other things to do after being away that long instead of planning a surprise for you when he gets back.  So, don't think too hard about it.  The worse thing that can happen is that you find out on Dec. 19 if your ex still has feelings for you.  And, if he doesn't think of it as a start to moving on with your life.