Why does my girlfriend find it a turn on to be cruel..?
370213
It's that my ex-stepmother? Sounds like it. Here's the problem: manipulative, controlling, possessive, and selfish.\nEvery good man needs a good woman. Not a headache. Time to\npull yourself out the relationship and move on. She has no\nfeelings for you at all. Real love is pure and genuine. you\nneed a real woman. A virtuous woman. One who knows how to \nlove a man. One who will support you and stand by your side.
525436
Do you understand that if you do this cruel thing to her that she will associate her birthday with it every year?  How can you be so mean?  Every year she will remember the horrible thing you did to her. Grow up and break up with the poor girl now so she has half a chance to enjoy her birthday. You have no right to ruin anyone's birthday. You wouldn't want it done to you so have some respect and don't do it to her!!!!
346866
many people are into dom and sub play, even if just as mild as swatting her behind. if you care about her, try it! it could be fun, and you could discover you like it more than you ever would have dreamed of. she trusted you enough to tell you what turns her on. that's worth something, right? sexual behavior is so deeply personal and should really be about pleasing your partner, or so i would hope.\n\ntalk to her about it!
142462
THERE CAN BE TWO REASONS FOR THIS. 1 EITHER YOU SUCKED IN BED, AND SHE IS BITCHING CAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX W/ YOU ANYMORE, BUT DOESN'T WANT TO COME OUT AND TELL YOU, OR 2 SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, AND IS AFRAID THAT YOU MAY GIVE THE GOODS AWAY TO SOMEONE ELSE, WHICH MAY CAUSE HER TO GET JEALOUS, AND BEHAVE THAT WAY.  TO FIND OUT IF IT'S #1, THE NEXT TIME YOU GUYS ARE ALONE, AND GETTING ALONG SLOWLY APPROACH HER, CARESS HER, STOKE HER HAIR, GIVE HER A KISS ON THE FOREHEAD, THEN ON THE TIP OF HER NOSE, THEN HER MOUTH, THEN MAKE YOUR FINAL MOVE!!  IF SHE PULLS AWAY FROM ALL THAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOUR MOVES IN BED.  WHAT WOMAN WOULD TURN AWAY FROM THAT???  I KNOW THAT GETS ME IN THE MOOD FOR SURE.  GOOD LUCK
975639
Beats me but here's what works...guarenteed. The more you pretend to not like sex the more she'll want to have sex. See if you give her the impression  that you don't want to have sex with her she'll think she's undesirable and there's something wrong with her. So she'll need to prove to herself that she's desirable. Got it?
206886
Trust me if you are having those urges she senses something isnt right. So you need to tell her. If it ruins the relationship then so be it. But you can't try to shutdown those urges and try to be someone you are not. Its just not fair to anyone. Plus don't you think she deserves to know the truth? Respect her enough to tell her the truth.
1140222
Normal.  He'd probably appreciate it if you guys explored the possiblities.  But very very normal. It's an opportunity to strenghten your relationship, and it doesn't have to be a bum bum fest.  But if you judge him and think it's sadistic, you are a very very bad woman.
1067929
Maybe she just honestly doesnt like the feel of your fingers in her. Relax and please her any other way she will allow you to.
524603
You are so nasty.  Keep trying and she will tell you what she likes.  I hope you can follow directions well.
908462
People can really be cruel .\nIt makes them think they are special .
259670
tell her tough tittie...it dont feel nice now do it? you backstabbing slut...then laugh in her face ; )
705057
sounds anorexic...... try looking at her insides...... they can all get fat or ugly.....otherwise no its fine, you prefer the the skinny reeds, others prefer blondes, i like to be spanked. its all a matter of preference......dont miss that special one though because shes 5'5 and 115....youll be sorry
178376
I think she is demanding. All the girls sometimes do it. Though she has your picture and sends cute messages, I am warning you not to have high hopes. Try to ignore. But I am sorry if you really love her. Time will solve the problems. I will pray for you. Be good.
329864
HAHAHAHA Thats mine too. I mean dam. Sometimes I see she wants to ask but I aint asking whats wrong man. And then there is the point where she is complaining that I am beating it up and that she is tender and that she wont be able to do it until the end of the week. Its messed up for me man.
788386
This must be a problem for you, hence you have posted this here. If you were willing you would have right away told her go for it, but looks like you are not for it. You are aware of some of the bad things that happen,and you love your girlfriend, and you really dont want her to do it. Love is possissive and in your case it is cute! Talk to her and be honest to her and express your concerns. There is nothing wrong in expressing your feelings. Let her know that you are not against modelling but you dont trust the people in this profession. Love is being honest, Love is expressing concerns, and love is bold. YOu are a good boyfriend, and you really love her i can tell. Tell her she can still make a choice of taking it up and that you will not be offended. All that you want is she is not taken for a ride and that you care about her. Best wishes!
737458
She should tell you that she was offended.  She shouldn't pout, except momentarily, to be cute.  Also, she should only spank you if you would like it.  ;o)
301926
she wants you to get her something YOU would like her to wear. She wants you to have to think about her in each outfit you look at and decide which thought turned you on most. Women don't always just know what turns a man on, you have to help a little bit....GL;)