WHY DOES HE TREAT ME AND MY TWIN WAYYY different?!?
362426
Sounds like he just wants you to be a groupie of his. If you don't want to, then stick to your guns! Give him the cold shoulder, if you have to. You don't need him.
332847
He sure sounds like a spoiled brat to me. Have brother with the same problem.  Well, 1 thing is for sure: cuddling him like a baby will only reinforce his present behavior.  Forgive me for saying this but his attitude reflects the way he was being brought up.  You might want to explore a different approach than the 1 you guys are used to...probably a firmer approach? you can't be wishy-washy about your decision 'coz he won't take you seriously.  Be harsh if you have to be harsh...if you really love him, find the courage to hurt him for his own good. you can't be there for him forever...if you ask me, son or not at his age he should stop living a parasitic life and should be kicked out of the house. good luck.
229151
If he's doing these things purposely then it would be some sort of a jealous act, OR he feels that he is the outsider (I'm betting on the outsider). He's looking for attention and he'll take any kind of it negative or positive. Take your stepson out just the 2 of you.  Make it a fun day of shopping, either for the house or for him; take a walk in the park and do lots of talking and listening etc.  Let him know that your alright and your not the mean wicked stepmother.  Put up a chore list along with a rule list for the weekends and make it fair and fun to all the kids.  Don't try to be his mom he already has one, so be his friend and show him your not taking sides that he is excepted into your family.  By doing this your husband will have to look after the other kids for a day you have out with the one.  And he'll also see that your trying and hopefully follow you.
1044158
first off, why do you want to kill your twin? if there is something going on between the two of you, you both need to sit down and talk about it. remember that you two are going to be siblings for the rest of your life, and if you don't settle it now, then it could turn into a disastrous situation. don't sweat the small stuff, and i am sure you two can come up with a solution to your problem.
941200
It sounds like only one of you matured.  If he is going to treat you like a room mate, then why not return the favor.  Stop doing his laundry, stop cooking him supper, just you and the kids, stop making it easy for him.  Before you do that though, get the kids off to mom's or someplace they will be taken care of, take his keyboard, mouse and monitor and hide them and tell him he can have them back after the two of you talk.  Sit him down and tell him how you feel, let him know that you feel neglected and more like his live in maid than his wife and that you need more.  If he fails to respond, stop doing for him and when he asks why, you can let him know that since you are not having your needs met by him, that you do not find it necessary to meet his.  If you still can not get his attention, just set up a week vacation for you and the kids, don't say a word about it to him, just go to your mom and dad's or bothers or sisters for a week.  Let him come home to an empty house where he has to do everything for himself and take care of the dogs.  If he does not like it, let him know that if you do not get some of his attention, he will have it like that everyday of his life when you leave him for good.
288388
Wow!  Get out, This man is only going to bring you misery.  He is not going to change.  Are you willing to live like this.  Don't you want to be #1, and thought off as the only one he wants.  It's okay to fantasize, but not like he is doing.  He is totally disrespectful to you.  NO WOMAN DESERVES TREATMENT LIKE THIS.  You are a better person than this, and deserve someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
1047167
You said this just started and for no apparent reason. Maybe it is just that you have no clue to the reasoning behind it. I am not saying he is justified in treating you like crap or doing things in front of the children that he shouldn't but there has to be a reason for it. Have you tried asking him what is going on. Maybe something has happened and for what ever reason he can't or doesn't know how to share this with you so in turn his actions is a result of what ever is really bothering him. You have made it clear you won't put up with this so stress this to him again that if he can't share with you what is going on you can't try to help him with it but that he isn't going to take it out on you either. He needs to make the choice as to what to do and then you can choose what to do based on how he feels. I really feel for you hun as something happened to my ex husband and he thought he would become physical with me until I told him he would die before he hit me again and of course the final results was I left. I couldn't fix something that I had no clue as to what was going on and I was not going to be hit on or abused in any other way either. I hope he comes around before you leave him but do what is best for you and the children hun!!.
329967
Out of respect for his baby and his wife... leave him alone. You will always be number 3. He is using you and betraying you. How could you allow someone to treat you like that?
653874
Sometimes that happens with siblings. Maybe you should try to talk your differences out. Maybe they feel the same about you. Communication is the key.
645430
He doesn't sound sincere! It seems like he is only using you. He needs to decide wether he wants to be your man or mummy's boy the rest of his life. You need to put your foot down and give him an ultimatum, "be my man or be mumm's little boy the rest of your life"? Claim back your self esteem woman and your self worth and don't be taken for a fool!!!
885160
yes it sounds like he's just after the pretty face... he was a crush when you were young, just leave it at that.. he appears to only want you for the trophy.. stay clear of him, he'll only treat you well until he gets what he wants and deep down you already know that.. theres lots of nice boys out there that will treat you like you should be treated..but not this one... good luck..
587441
its psychological. talk to him about it a bit...it could be just a phase. we guys are wierd...all sorts of stuff affects us in all different ways. I would say just talk to him about it.
835119
I think it sounds like you are using him for all his "treats and gifts". This must make you feel good, but think what he must think if you don't feel the way he does.
490548
ugh he sounds really petty. I don't know his side though. You 2 should try counseling.
755910
Have you tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Just try holding his hand when walking either by yourselves or when his mates are around, tell him you enjoy it and maybe with time he will start to enjoy it too. Does he tell you he loves you ? Maybe he is just a little immature  or shy. He should always treat you with  respect  whether people are around or not. I suggest you try talking to him and tell him it upsets you that he treats you badly when others are around. Best of luck.
269089
there must be something disturbing him. try to find out. or maybe he is pretending to be nice to you but holds grudgesin his mind against you. worse still he could be seeing someone else or fed up. whichever way, confront him and make him tell you. its better that way
487565
He needs to grow up! why do you bother with him when he treats you like that? he has no respect for you and by the sounds of it, for no other female either! it's rich calling you weird when he's the one with the problem! you can do better than that!