my exgirlfriend came back after filling a restraining order?
357468
no. bad idea dude. restraining order and relationships are a disaster. let her go. \n\n\nSeriously, if there is a restraining order on you by her.  Even if she comes to you... you can get in some MAJOR trouble if caught.  Even if it's her lie verses your truth, the courts will normally go to her side since she's the one who filed the restraining order to begin with.
505757
Sounds like she was the one that need the restraining order and the judge had no right to order her to move! Sounds like this guy is the one that did all this to your friend and needs chanrges brought agianst him! He was after her one way or another! And sounds like the judge was payed to give him the restraining order agianst her! Somethign is deffently not right!
164371
Ok first off lets put things in perspective. Your ex is getting out of PRISON. That sentance alone should tell you who you should stay with, however, sometimes good people do bad things. So with that said, lets take another look. You are afraid that your ex will come back and take you away from this new guy that you really care about right? Well youve got to remember that this is your EX and hes called that for a reason. Whats your reason for calling him your ex and try to imagine being with him or with the new guy. If you truly feel you are happier with the new guy, then stay with him and tell the ex to leave you alone. If that doesnt work theres always restraining orders......
1009335
well if she just got the order it probaly an emergency order. he should recieve his day in court in about a week.however these usually are civil matter which means she may have got the judge to grant her this on emotional abuse sounds like he doesn't need her anyway .However make sure he does not contact her in any way she can prove. in ohio the first time you violate it you can recieve 180 days second time it turns into a felony. so what state do you live in ?e-mail me if you like I actually have a cpo against someone and know a little bit about this stuff. What she has done is really cruel and ultimately makes it harder for people who really needs protection.
422796
I have been by an ex.  Restraining order didn't work, he broke it.  Moved didn't work, he found me.  I still don't know where he is and that is the scariest part of all!  They still haven't caught him so that means he could be anywhere.  It's not fun or a joke let me tell you!
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
420676
Depends on the situation...where you fighting?  I've accidentally called my ex-bf by my dog's name during a fight.  If it was in bed...i've known people who have done that, and i think the reason for that is because they're just not in the right frame of mind during that time.  Whatever the reason, obviously she wasn't thinking straight.  I don't think it means she wants her ex back.  I don't think she apologized because she was embarrassed/upset and didn't want to make a big deal about it.  If i were you, i'd let it go this time.
226717
Well, you need to consider a few things first.  Did your ex read the emails?  What were your emails about?  Was there anything that would make your girl think that you were trying to get back with your ex?  Were you lying to your girl?  Did you tell her about the emails or did she catch you "red handed"?\n\nThe best thing you can do is to be honest.  Tell her the situation...the whole truth.  It may take a while for her to trust you, but she may be willing to work with you.  If she does not want to listen or does not want to forgive you, you may just have to let her go.  If she can't trust you (when you tell her the truth), then the relationship can not work.  If you've ever lied to her, you will have to rebuild that trust.  Good Luck.
37605
My ex-girlfriend. Her name was Amie. I posted a Christian ad at the personals and she responded telling me everything I wanted to hear.  I looked at her profile and it looked as if she wrote it specifically to match everything I was looking for.  She posed as a Christians girl but after months of her lies being exposed, I found out she was a prostitute (luckily I wasnt having sex with her) which would explain why she was always getting drunk and grabbing at my "member".  I can honestly say I know how it feels for women to be sexually harrassed and "man-handled" all the time- this woman never stopped! Anyways after months of her trying we quit hanging out after some serious arguments- she called me 3-4 times a day to argue with me and hung up on me as soon as she got me angry- it was very hard to remain a Christian with her and even worse when we split up. I got tired of her calls and insults so the last time she hung up on me I called her and left a message and emailed her to tell her what a worthless piece of crap I thought she was- 2 days later I got served with a restraining order and ended up going to court in front of a judge she knew personally (probably a client) and he did not let me say one thing in my defense- so I have a restraining order on my record because someone who wouldnt leave ME alone, got mad when I responded to her insults. I NEVER went to her house or called her to harrass her, she did it to me! Needless to say I am not too happy with our legal system when an innocent person can be victimized so easily by a lunatic with the courts help. The story is much longer but I tried to shorten it up - but this was something I asked for, but found out later it was bad for me- Although, maybe what I was asking for would have been ok, if she wouldnt have been an imposter!?
818135
They can get a restraining order against her if she threatens them.  They don't need to waste money on a lawyer.  They just go to the police station and fill out a form, and if she threatens them again the police come out and arrest her.
670185
no you dont have to pay to file a restraining order. You need to show just cause for filing, and thats it. Contact your local police and they can help
493508
Court order or restraining order has worked for many people.  Ask your lawyer.
670178
Your best bet is to go down to your sheriffs office or police department and have a restraining order placed against her.  This will not keep her from you, but if she does make another appearance, you can have her arrested.  Again this will not physically keep her from you, but it will provide you with some legal documentation.  The restraining order will also end her little "cry wolf" problem of filing false police reports. That is another thing!  She should be facing some kinda charges for filing false police reports.  Of course where I'm from, we do things a little different.  We don't play in Ga, you mess with us enough and they'll find you dead on one of these back roads.  There is one thing in life you don't mess with and that is someones family.  You go to messing with family and you liable to end up dead.
836228
I would request a money order or cert. check.. Im suere the loser isnt an honest person if you have a restraining order
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
312696
you can get a restraining order to keep her from doing it
798582
Restraining orders are almost always exclusive to personal relationships. If you had a stalker or a history of problems with an individual that was documented, it may constitute as a relatonship and then be considered for a restraining order.  it is a bit twisted but, there are anti stalker laws and stay-away orders to prevent people from evading your personal well being.  You can't just get an order if something is aggrivating you because they exist.  You have to be personally in danger or I doubt a judge will grant any of the orders. We are very particular about limiting peoples freedom in this country....First Amendment...free speech all that stuff we enjoy so freely in this wonderful nation.  People could start a protest in front of your home and in order to stop it you would have to convince a judge that your being hurt by it or they could camp out peacefully and picket all day long forever.  Gottaluvit...Jenn