why should people date if they dont like each other or love?
375369
For a free diner or a free movie
954410
When it's obvious that one is into you, but doesn't make a move. Personally, I'd rather be unapproachable. It's so much more fun to shoot guys down than date them.
83378
Cause if they break up later on, it doesn't necessarilly mean that they never loved each other. They might even love each other after the break up, but things don't always work out. Circumstances might be against them, the timing could be wrong, and tons of other reasons could be the cause of a break up.
669258
No it is not. The thing is that people fail to realise that dating someone and living with them istwo different ball games. WHen u're just dating someone you see them occasionally not the majority of your day.. u dont have to put up with wierd quirks, bad habits or things like that which you wont be aware of unless u live with them. You're also able to test how well u can put up with this person for a long peroid of time. Alot of couples get married without knowing things before hand like their parthner is a slob or he becomes really annoying after a point.. u need to do these things and its best experienced when u do live with them for a while before marriage
1103557
a friendly date?Sure why not,nothing wrong with friends hanging out.If you are interested in one of them and you have other things in mind and you ask them both out ,You could ruin your chances with either of them so be careful.You can only love one of them or else you are considered a jerk.
857730
because they have issues, they cant condemn you for doing the same thing that their doing, people are  free to choose to date who they want as well as love who want regardless of the color, don't worry about ignorant people, you're not going to make everyone happy, its your life that's what matters so as long as you're happy with your choices then who cares about what others think....
899626
Okay I have noticed a lot of people don't understand the meaning of dating.  Here is the meaning of dating\n\nWhen two people begin to date, it is usually considered to be a casual relationship, even if neither person is dating anyone else. Dating is about having fun and becoming intimate without any real commitment. Kissing, holding hands, and even sexual acts are almost always included in the act of dating. Satisfying these kinds of physical desires usually takes precedence over truly getting to know a person. A couple who is only dating is usually not marriage-minded, although they are intimacy-minded.\n\nNow when you are dating it is okay to see other people if you both are opened to a casual relationship.  Dating is the time when you get to know each other and determine if you are interested in something more with one or the other.  Dating is the easy way to start if you in search for something particular.\n\nI hope my answer helps you.  Dating is not cheating... when you see others.  \n\nFrom your question it appears you are serious... and on that note it is not okay to see both.  You need to determine if you want to chance it or not.  Remember all relationships have their ups and downs which means a new relationship starts off great as did your prior but they all lead to some boredom, perhaps problems etc.  It is normal for somethings to transpire.  We just have to learn to be opened minded and accept the natural things which may happen.  Cheating is not!
735228
Why not? Of course love can happen. People are people, we all have things in common wether you guys are in different circles. Anyway, we need to look at people as people, as individuals and not define them by groups or cliques or circles.
286384
word to the wise, don't even try.  If you come between two men you will cause problems and one or both of them will eventually resent or hate you.\n\nMake it easy for them date both of them at the same time.
967462
Isn't that the reason to date someone?
594278
hi when 2 people have feelings for each other ,but both have a life and want to persue it about the only thing you can do is date or rather go out with each other whentime will permit,get your carrer running and the rest will meet you someday when you least look for it,,,david
211796
Short answer: Because life isn't fair.\n\nLong answer: Lots of things. It takes many people a long time to figure out what it is they want in a partner. For many, the traits that originally attract them to a person are those that bother them later. For instance, being spontaneous and fun becomes being unfocused and unreliable. Sometimes people are just unlucky in who they meet. Sometimes people just aren't ready for a real relationship. Sometime people have standards that are too high.\n\nJust keep trying.
781832
because if people stopped loving eachother, there is no hope for humanity. \n     humans are created out of love, so it is paradoxical if we do not love in return\n     loving people rather than hating them can make you live longer.\n     Maybe if serial killers and rapists were loved when they were younger, they wouldnt have become such evil people, who knows? Everyone deserves a chance\n     Humans were created in God's image, and God loves everyone, so we should too
366013
I believe people have a natural need to be with someone who loves them.  I think people take it way to far though and that is how they get into bad relationships.  They are just so desperate not to be alone that they will take the first person who comes along.  \n\nSo I think people like to have someone they love, but they don't need it as much as they think.
431955
because everyone likes to feel desire the one there with. so if they start feeling that the person they are with doesn't desire them no more they will go out and find someone that will desire them they way they like. which breaks up couples
1101502
FIRST OFF, PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE BECAUSE OF MUTUAL ATTRACTION, SOME OF THE SAME WAYS AND ALSO DIFFERENCES.  SECOND, NO AFFAIR IS JUSTIFIED.  IT'S AWFUL AND IT WRECKS LIVES.
994981
if you both have the same feelings for each other then go for the next step cause in some cases its better to date someone that you are friends with first.