I have not been able 2 get back in the dating scene. How can I?
373946
dress nice, make yourself look good and dont make it seem like your desperate! go out to the club or to a party! just have some fun and then out of nowhere someone will have their eye on you and you wouldnt even have known it!
361514
Keep being her friend for a while and find out what went wrong with the relationship. Once you find out what went wrong then fix that little at a time just wait for her to ask you out because she might think that you are despert and that you want her back. You might also want to try to talk to her and wait for her and not date anyone else for a while just be her friend and be honest and trust her. Good luck.
369534
maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you
128251
Takes time. Could take years. Just wait, and it may happen for you. Look on yahoo dates site, look up all kinds of dating websites, and sign up for one, but if that don't work then go to a club, a nice one, not trashy one, but loook for someone there.
1102974
Dating is really more challenging than it sounds. We are trained for every other social setting, but like having your first baby, there's no manual than can really prepare you. Most of us flounder and make mistakes and learn from them, and it sounds like you're in that state. Give yourself permission to not be perfect at something you're learning to do, and let what has happened in the past become a tool to take you where you want to go. Here's a site with some tips and ideas: http://www.vitaminsdiary.com/dating/\n. If you keep trying, the man you're looking for will come. \n\nRegards,\n~Tia~\nLive from the big, purple brain\nhttp://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html\nASK YOUR QUESTIONS, CALL THE BRAIN - 212-382-3592
939101
Join a few online dating sites, that are strickly for single people.\nApproach men, hopefully the ones you approach will be single, just keep looking, when the time is right you will find someone.
319236
Trust yourself, you are skilled at this because it was no accident that you had a good marriage the 1st time.  You are obviously good at picking a guy who would make a good husband, and are good at the give-and-take of marriage.  You have just been out of the game for awhile, but you have all the skills you need.  It is just a fact that you will have to meet a few dozen, or few hundred, wrong people before you find the right one, hence all your encounters with guys who only want sex.  Keep dating casually, circulating as much as possible, not sleeping with anybody.  You may need to vary where you are looking, like go to church functions or take classes that interest you instead of looking in singles bars and other 'meat markets'.  Keep being critical and rejecting the majority, and it's only a matter of time before you meet someone nice.  Remember, you are good at relationships and have all the skills you need so stay confident and trust your own judgement.
332249
Maybe online dating.Good luck!!
74993
You have to give urself time 2 heal...dont jump into another relationship...try to see what went wrong and why u couldnt stop it...then...began 2 grow as a person...and once u have healed then u can began 2 work towards having better..longer and more successful relationships...\n\nGood Luck..SMoOoCHez!!!
209530
You have to let go of your past experiences that went bad. Your bad feelings will only chase away any future girlfriends. Know that not every woman is alike and not all woman are out to hurt guys, you will find that just like you a lot of women are looking for someone that they can also trust.
782466
I haven't had ANY luck with any online anything as far as dating goes. Not sure why. Meet somebody in person who lives near you I think. Maybe who shares a hobby or two with you. Women should try fishing. Men should do ballet. You would be in a 50 to 1 situation.
1089820
The same reason that I haven't been able to find a girlfriend recently.\nIt will happen again....
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
318156
Just give it time, you'll meet someone eventually. Until then, go out and have fun. Go to places where you can meet people and just open to anything. Maybe have one of your friend's boyfriends set you up on a blind date.
43397
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
521176
dont jump into another relationship too quick but try and find another girl to have fun w/. get on an Inet dating service and dont talk about your ex when you go on dates AT ALL. you will want to but DONT. Also when online make sure you spell correct. I could care less but Ive seen plenty of women get turned off by one misspelled word.
176200
I hate the date scene now. I have been in a realationship for two years, I would hate to go back out there and try again. Seems like everyones a player. Not all, but some.