thx for answering guys! why do you think girls do fall for bad boys? culture? media? (otherendof) feminism?...
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well for me i love the excitement of it, the rush of being unpredictable, and the thought that everyone is scared or respects him. i also love the fact of being controlled. i hate weakness, i like a man who can stick up for himself and protect me. its a confidence and protection thing i think, not really anything more meaning full than that.
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Girls like guys with personalities similar to them.  We love compliments and guys that can make us laugh at any given point in time.  Guys with a sense of humor is a huge turn on for us.  Another thing we like is when guys will shop or watch chick flicks with us.  It sounds really girly, but some guys I've dated actually like to do both of those.  It makes dating them so much more fun.  If you are willing to do things we like with us, we would be glad to do stuff you like with you(like sporting events or something).  We mainly just want guys with awesome personalities, confidence, and guys who love to have fun!\n\n:)
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I agree with you. First, lets start with your idea of romance. Is it walks on the beach? Bike rides across the Golden Gate? Or, Friday/Saturday nites clubbing and getting hammered? My point is, women have as many definitions of romance as they do shoes. That's why some girls don't recognize your brand of romance. It's like a cold sales call, you need to read that girl and adjust your game accordingly. There isn't a wrong or right way to romance.
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as a guy we listen to girls cause we think its what you want. Also if you want him to talk learn a little something about a sport that happened recently and talk about that.
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as kids we play outdoor games..we or at least in my hood we played street football, baseball, basketball,and street hockey in the winter..it is in a man's nature..not all but most..so it stands to reason that we watch what we like or grew up with..would you really want a man that watched fashion shows??? no offense to those that do but do you want a masculine man or a feminine man??
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I am a girl but I still wonder that often. I am guessing it is because they live in the fantacy that they can change the man for the better...just a thought though.
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I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
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You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
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yes the so called bad boys love the socalled good girls. the bad guys see the good girls as a way out, and the gg well its there excuse to be bad
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Bad boys are exciting ... unpredicatable ... girls love to be teased ( whether they admit it or not ) ... to explain this even further is David DeAngelo who has really got a finger on the pulse of exactly why this is .... Personally, I don't get it, but it seems to work for too many guys and I have bared witness to women being treated horribly and yet they LOVE the man they are with ... it has something to do with attraction and blah ... blah ... blah ... seriously ... check out David and his Double Your Dating series and then e-mail me to let me know why me, as a nice guy, really do finish last in this arena ....
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It's not really being a "bad boy". It's more in the confidence of the guy. It's how he presents himself to other people -- if he's unsure of himself, it comes off as more desperate than anything else. Where as if he's confident -- it makes him that much sexier.
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i think that it has something to do with opposites attract.. and just maybe there is something more in the "good" girl and that the "bad" boy allows her to express these feelings!
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As a girl myself, the best answer I can come up with is a feeling of excitement (and attention. Guys whistling, staring, etc..) Something about "bad boys" attracts some women. Just the feeling of going crazy, living life on the wild side turns them on. It's stupid and they're blind if guys treat them like dirt, but the thrill keeps them clinging on.
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That was really sweet of you to put this on here. You are right, it was a relief to read! I hope some of the cute little girls on this site who are always asking about what does a boy like in a girl, or should a girl ask out a boy, or other self-esteem questions, I hope some of them read this too. \n\nThanks so much. You must be one of the loving women who is this beautiful.
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i liked your question. most girls want such a boyfriend that she can show em off in front of her friends u see some sort of sexy hunk.but those boys are always bad so thats the reason girls prefer bad guys over good guys...by the way i dont prefer bad over good
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bad boys are exhilarating!!!    i like to be kept on my toes!!;-)\n\nreally though i like to find guys who are caring, etc. after you get to know them.  but in the beginning i'm into the a**holes.  its a rush to be overpowered and out of control once in a while!!\n\n;-)
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this is a very good question and I am very interested in see all the answers.\nI wish girls could see past this problem and see the guys who adore them\ngood luck\nsmile