why is it that women can cum several times, and men can only do it once?
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Greetings,\n\nMen can.  The reason most men can't is simply because they are either too eager to please themselves, or don't have enough practice.\n\nAfter a man ejaculates he will begin to lose erection, however with stimulus and practice, he can regain his erection and go again.\n\nThe good news is practicing is fun.\n\n-matt
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Right. Most females have orgasms that do not involve shooting or spraying any liquid, but some do.  Both situations are normal.  The liquid being ejaculated is chemically similar to proatate fluid in a man.
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Some women can ejaculate. They are called squirters!!! I'm not a pro at this; because i'm a woman & i've never been with a woman, but I believe with the right stimulation to the g-spot and enough pressure the woman will ejaculate. Only a handful of women can do this and one reason is because a lot of women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. I hope this helped you a little bit :)
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All women are different.  Some women orgasm in a few minutes and there are some who have never had an orgasm.  About the guy finishing first ... that depends on what you do.  some guys like to get the girl off before they finish off.  Others get the guy off first and then work on the girl.  But do whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with, relax, and have a good time!
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Actually, it's pretty rare. They peg it at less than 5% of the female population. It's just that pornographic films like to show women who can ejaculate, and that's where way too many people learn about sex. As a result, people have this warped view of how common (or uncommon) female ejac. really is. If you can, that's great. if you can't that's great, too. Having one or the other is not better or worse in any way. Sexual partners have their own preferences about it as well.
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part of the reason for a woman to have an orgasm has to do with her own ability to turn herself on...in addition when the woman is being touched by the guy and she feels how much this guy desires her...that also makes her feel very femenine thus contributing to her potential to have multiple orgasms (5 to 8) in a lapse 1 hour.I mean there are many things in play here. to desire and to be desired, to love and to feel loved,romance(not for everyone),foreplay, fellatio,cunnilingus, touching, teasing each other...etc,etc.(if a woman is not in touch with her femenine animalistic drives that makes it a bit difficult for her) but there are also guys who really dont know how to please women so you get what we have here with you. Reciprocal attraction, sexual communication are very important to a healthy sexual and orgasmic relationship. then there is also that idea that to some women matters. meaning that some women girls...you know what I'm talking about (Size)...so I don't know how the shoe fits on you...good lick...i mean luck...I hope that you areable to get many orgasms.practice with yourself.
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Masters and Johnson (1966), while conceding that male and female orgasm were usually pretty comparable, noted two important differences. The first is well known: women can have multiple orgasms without having to rest in between, as men do. This occurs in 10 to 15 percent of women regardless of age. Young men can have multiple orgasms within ten minutes or so, but this ability drops off sharply after age 30.\n\nThe second difference has been less publicized: women are capable of sustained orgasm, called status orgasmus. These orgasms may start with a 2-to-4-second "spastic contraction" and last 20 to 60 seconds all told--and if that isn't nine times the pleasure, it's definitely in the ballpark. Masters and Johnson published the chart for one woman who experienced a 43-second orgasm in which one can count at least 22 successive contractions.
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well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
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Actually women can ejaculate, well not the same as guys (with seminal fluid and sperm) but there's supposedly some other fluid that comes out of the urethra besides urine. I've heard that it has something to do with the stimulation of the g-spot. Hope this helps. Search under female ejaculation.
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That is when you ejaculate before you are in the women.  it can happen if you are nervous or inexperienced.
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women have more sex drive.they can reach an orgasm six times in a minute.\nmen have to take a break and reach orgasm very fast
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These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it.\n\nSome doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media.\n\nAll that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.\n\nWhat is a female orgasm?\n\nWe're writing this explanation in the assumption that you - the reader - are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too.\n\nWhat happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.\n\nMen are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women.\n\nA few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.\n\nMultiple orgasm\n\nThe other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.\n\nThis ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.\n\nBringing women to a climax\n\nFor men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men.\n\nYou see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.\n\nAlthough females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:\n\n    * a romantic atmosphere\n\n    * pleasant, comfortable surroundings\n\n    * a partner who they really like\n\n    * a feeling of being wanted and appreciated\n\n    * a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore\n\n    * a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.\n\nUnless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.\n\nPlease bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.\n\nWhat to do\n\nIn summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:\n\n    * don't be in a rush.\n\n    * don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.\n\n    * talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.\n\n    * always create a romantic atmosphere.\n\n    * make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.\n\n
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Your very lucky!!! Some women when Orgasam, shoot streams of water from their "Kittys" Only a few women are can do this. Just call it a special "womens ejaculation" All you have to know that it's normal for some women to "squrt" having sex. So go and have great sex, you LuckyDog!!!
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use sparingly...some women get used to them and cant climax any other way
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Almost always.\n\nHowever, if you do not, I would point out that there is an evolutionary reason for this.\n\nWhen a man ejaculates, his ejaculate forms a pool at the base of the vagina, a woman's orgasm forces the mouth of her cervix into that pool to improve chances of impregnation.\n\nTherefore nature designed it so that men orgasm first.\n\nIf you want to achieve a simultaneous orgasm with your mate, you can do so by practicing, pay close attention to the signs that orgasm is approaching for both of you, and practice making small changes until you are able to achieve it.\n\nIf your wife requires extra stimulation, you may want to introduce the use of a toy into your lovemaking so that she can receive extra clitoral stimulation during the act.
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Well, if you are a girl that can only finish once, and you do that during foreplay, then you aren't going to finish during intercourse. It could also be that when you are having intercourse, he isn't stimulating you in a way that works. Goof around and try different things to see what he can do to get you off during intercourse. Then teach him to do that everytime.
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Because women, just like men, have a built-in, primordial cumpulsion to have sex with multiple partners.\n\nBy now, there are a bunch of women out there screaming that I'm wrong, but really...read a study, it's true.  We women may have a better ability to ignore this trait than men do, but it's still there in the background.\n\nThere is a need for us to mix up our DNA.  It's not healthy for any species to limit its breeding patterns.  Therefore, in order to keep things mixed up, humans have a tendency to look for new partners.  In women, this often connects to their menstrual cycle.\n\nYou'll also notice that women subconsiously dress in a more suggestive manner than normal, as they approach their fertile time of the month.