Should I continue to date someone who has cheated on me?
360046
NO because she/he has cheated on ur trust and faith if i were u i would forgive but not date with them any more
270439
you may want to start with making yourself available. respectable people don't date cheaters.
647431
Is it possible that you and your boyfriend have grown apart? People change and it sounds like you've both grown.. just maybe not in the same direction. The fact that you felt the need to mention that he cheated also says that you've not completely forgiven him for the offense. That you're attracted to someone else and thought about the relationship as more than just a possible friendship says that you're also ready to move on. So do yourself a favor and live life a little... on your own before making a decision about any man.
841252
Anyone who cheats doesnt deserve a second chance period...If ur with that person youre with them for a reason.....Their isnt any sense in getting a boyfriend or girlfriend if ur gonna cheat on them...its just wasting your time and theirs
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
481489
I have to much respect for myself to EVER stay with a man who cheated on me. Regardless if he begged for forgiveness or not. You should move on to someone who truly respects you.\n\n\nhttp://groups.myspace.com/closetednerd
427876
its not ok to cheat, if u know that the realationship is bad, GET OUT!!!\n\nyou cheat when you don't love the person and you don't care bout them anymore or else you wouldn't do it bc you how much pain this would cause the other person. also some cheat bc they don't see the realationship that they are havin w this person to be worth anythin. when you value somethin you apperciate and you take care of it, the last thing that you would want is to hurt it.\n\nits not ok to cheat, its tempting when your in a bad realtionship, but if it gets down to that, get out of the realationship and date,or sleep around if thats all you need....but don't hurt someones elses feelins!!!
751551
I agree with RaRa. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who needs to worry everytime you are not with him that he may be up to no good? Be with someone you can trust!
408553
Yep. It's worse that he still sees her...how did you find out that he cheated? Did he admit it to you or did you find out yourself? It's awfully hard to trust someone even if it was someone before you that they cheated on. Often the cheater expects and awaits being cheated on and the cycle continues.
448680
OK forget getting with someone else- the issue WILL resurface if you don't deal with it. First of all cut off all contact (for a while at least). It doesn't help to keep calling each other. If you have to see each other (like at school or work) then make a concerted effort to change the way you communicate with them. Second, yeah forgiveness- you have to go over all the bad stuff that happened but once you forgive them the burden is lifted and you're free-er. You will stop hurting a whole lot after you manage to let go and forgive, trust me. Next figure out what happened and make a decision that you will never be in that type of relationship again- if the person cheated you will feel like you have no control over that kind of situation and it could be true to an extent but it's important to realise that cheating is about them not knowing their worth or having self respect and know that as long as you do have self respect and know your worth you will never be hurt in quite the same way by a cheater (or anyone else). Get busy. Get a life that doesn't involve your ex or things you used to do together. Have fun, spend time with your friends again and find out what's important to you- minus your ex. Above all else- be totally healed before you consider getting with someone else and if you do meet someone and you're not ready then just let them know and if they like you enough they'll wait til your feeling better about the whole dating thing, if not forget them.
749057
It's never OK to cheat. \nIf you aren't as serious about the relationship as your boyfriend, then dump him and find someone new. Or have a long talk with him about possibly having an open relationship where you both can see other people. He'll get the hint that you aren't satisfied with the way things are. He'll either work with you to fix them, or give you your freedom to enjoy others. \nBut no matter what, honesty is always better than deceit. You would be betraying him if you cheated, and it would hurt him worse in the long run than if you just dumped him. In addition, it would be hard on you to keep your lies straight, and keep him from finding out. It's actually a lot of work to have an affair behind someones back, so it's not worth it.
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.
884575
he has a guilty conscience, dump him, forget him and move on to someone more deserving of you. Once a cheater always a cheater
104551
I was cheated on by someone who I thought I was going to marry.  Trust me, there's no doubt.  You may deny it to yourself, but there's no doubt.  And given time, the other person will become more bold about it, so it will show more and more.  \nOn the other hand, this could be your inner self shouting this person is not right for me, and you're looking for a reason to get out.  If you've given it time and the other person's not becoming more brash about cheating, then maybe it is you and then it's time to just go.
862863
If i were you, because this guy has cheated on his girlfriend he will also do the same to you and disregard your feelings in time to come by going off with someone else....best advice i can give you is to protect your heart.
514477
It doesn't matter if someone cheats on you or not.  Why would you lower yourself to their level.  You have to go through life liking yourself.  You have to look in the mirror and like who you are.  If someone cheated then the relationship is going to take a lot of work to be able to work in general.  If the other person cheats out of revenge then neither of you should be in the relationship to begin with.