What do women like men who are arseholes?
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Sweetheart, please don't generalize it!\nYou are underestimating my intelligence.
490153
/agree with Mike.\n\nMy man is a good guy.  And he's confident as hell.  Loves his country, loves his family and makes me laugh.  \n\nInsecure women only think good guys aren't confident.
654152
As soon as you want to call us.  What women really like is a man who doesn't play by the rules or play stupid games.
1144738
Walk up to her, look her right in the eye and say, "I'm attracted to you" or "I like you".\n\nOnly wussies want deniability.  A real man is upfront with what he wants and goes after it without excusing himself.  A girlie man wants to be able to laugh things off as only kidding if a woman isn't interested in him.  A real man GAINS status if he approaches a woman who doesn't want him and then shrugs and moves on to someone else without it being a big deal.  Nine times out of ten, the woman who didn't want him, now wants him and approaches him later.  Real men are too rare to let get away.
1071159
i dont know about other women but what attracts me to man is his personality... if he is a funny, down to earth guy he's okay in my book
588574
True country boys, are honest, and are not afraid of a little hard work. They are polite, and know how to treat other people. There is something about men that can fend for themselves that attracts women. I think it's the security. I've been married to mine for 16 yrs. Grab you one before they are all gone!!!
851011
we love honest, caring, sweet guys with outgoing personalities. someone who can hold their own. He has to make us feel totally beautiful, even after work. Someone who is totally random and will suprise us with something we personally like, not just roses...like gummy bears or a poem or something. \n\nwe don't like stupid, sweaty, mean, liars. Someone who refuses to pay..someone who will physically or mentally abuse us. etc
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Women don't like jerks, they're just kind of biologically drawn to them...\n\nWomen love confidence.  Even when they're not confident, jerks are typically a bit cocky (which ironically, is a sign that one lacks confidence).  Cocky resembles confidence just enough to get the girl.  Being a domineering control freak is also an attribute that women commonly mistake for confidence, and as a result, such men often get the girl while the nice guy loses out.  Meek & indecisive are the two most effective female repellants out there!   \n\nWomen also love mystery.  Jerks are not open with their feelings, which makes them a bit mysterious.  Nice guys are frequently open with their feelings which kills the mystery.  While women CLAIM they want a man who's open with his feelings, deep down they much prefer a man who keeps some mystery about him.  \n\nIgnore what women SAY they want in a man; instead, pay attention to what they RESPOND to.  Generally, the key with women is to be "the man with a plan" (e.g. don't ask her where she wants to go on a date, just take her there) who's fun to be around (most important: make her laugh) but doesn't talk too much (don't tell her your life story right away, make her work for it), all without being a domineering a-hole.
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I like women that are smart, confident and secure with their sexuality. Its one thing to stand up for equal treatment and equal rights its completely another to go "Butch" over it. There is nothing more unattractive than a women with a big mouth blaming her failures on men. Its unfortunate that the women's movement is dominated by man haters and abortion fanatics describing themselves as feminist revolutionaries struggling for basic human rights for women.
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Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...
255476
Definitely ME! I like younger men.. not all of them, because some of them are jerks, but there are a few of them really smart, really mature and responsible.\nI like fresh meat... hahaha....
505707
Most importantly is how nice they are. If I am with a guy, I want him to appreciate my feelings and take care of me. I don't like someone who is mean or uses harsh language. I like men who are sensitive, considerate, and romantic. I also tend to go for men who have georgous eyes!:) My husband has nice blue ones that change colors with his emotions:). Also, trustworthiness is another big attractiveness....you need to be able to feel safe and secure around your guy.
690117
What men are you dating? Fags??
102487
I like a good guy that looks bad. I dont want a bad boy thats going to treat me like dirt, always getting lock up , slanging, or any of that nonsense. I just like the se*Y lil thug style.
939327
it depends on the man.  but don't dwell over it men like women that are confident about who they are. be happy. :)
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me? i like a guy who's not afraid to show his emotions. not too much. but a little cry when he's down would do alot of good. looks arnt that improtant, but a girl still has to be attracted to a guy to like him in the first place. and mussles. i think mussles are nice. but not too much, it would be horrbile to have an all mussle man, maybe  just a little mussle, to keep it from being or looking like flab. hope i awnsered ur question
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The guys I know like girls who can take a joke, and be a good sport about it.  I don't mean to say that you should put up with anything raunchy--but humor within limits.\n\nThey like girls who are good listeners, and girls who are not only thinking of themselves all the time.  They don't like gossipy females--those who have nothing nice to say about anyone.