why can't you ever forget your first love??
369585
your first love is a big step in your life. like your first job. or passing your driving test. your first love is someone who tought you how to feel. and probably tought you or shared the learning experience of love in a relationship.
672087
It is a lot harder than that, You cannot just walk away and pretend someone is from the past because that past once was the present ( if you catch my drift). Someone that you once love will always be a scar in your heart and if you loved her dearly, the space that she filled will never be filled by someone else, however that person is!\n\nTake my example, I onced had a very very strong crush on someone but I never told her, it's been more than 5 years now but I still wish it had turned out better than it had!\n\nSorry man but there are things you can't do in life and this is most definitely one of them!
942317
maybe you didn't have closure with the ex.  I know that's the reason my ex still haunts me after 5 years.  fortunately i've got the greatest gf in the world, and i can talk to her about this.  I LOVE NIKI!!!
812900
wow... sorry but your 1st will always be your 1st and you'll never forget her... and slowly you'll forgive her for what shes done... but were only human and things happened for a reason maybe not good ones but it still happened...
594274
uhm... hard to say... but the first love is always the one
296478
Its never easy to just forget,love is an ever-fixed mark that is never shaken...OK i know this sounds googly but really love is inexplainable...undefinable...love is not just love..love can last till the end of doom...you just have to know if your love is true!!
1022731
Because you loved her once. Sometimes the good memories block out the bad ones. I do this with my ex all the time and then start missing her badly. Next thing, I remember the hurt and confusion and I start to remember why we broke up.\n\nThere's no harm in still feeling for her man. That's a natrual thing when you've loved someone a lot. You don't want to remember the hurt, only the love.
502156
the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
50250
first love is , your first love . and you will never forget this person , because they will have been the one to show you that yes people do fall in love . and teach you first hand what love is , how love feels , and ignite feelings of devotion in you that you never knew where there .\n\nand in most cases of first love , the last lesson that they will help you to learn is , the loss of it , and how to cope and move on with new knowledge for the rest of your life .
654748
it's normal not to forget about your first love.. no one does.... but your ex knows the past you and who you were in high school.. but your husband knows to present you and will stick with you in the future... let the past stay behind and enjoy the future
379828
Because you never ever forget your first love. It will always be special no matter how many relationships you have. In fact, you can't really forget anyone you've been in love with. Love is a feeling you can't just switch off or leave behind. When you have been that intimate with someone and that close, no matter how badly the relationship ended, the good times will always be remembered and looked upon fondly. What you do instead is move on in life and focus on other things and other relationships. Go out, do things you enjoy, surround yourself with friends and realise that love can and will come again. However, if you believe that this girl was more than your first love, maybe you think she was "the one" then why not get in contact with her again? See how she is and see if your feelings are still there.
108310
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
315012
What you're really asking is, 'how can you forget?'  You can never forget. It's part of life.  What you can do is face it, look forward, not back.  What you need to realize is it's ok to remember, because you just will... But, put it where it belongs and move on...
484954
Harder to leave!  Because whether your conscious of it or not, you've already started questioning the worth of staying or not.  You may love him, but you can't make him love you because you hurt or your miserable.  You got played, so swallow the lump in your throat, and go on with life.  There will come a time again in your life that you will find love.\nIf he was your first love, I'm sorry for you, believe me, I understand!! Unfortunately, you won't forget him, but try not to; make a conscious effort not to judge other men by his actions/mistakes.  They really aren't all monsters.
47123
Boy thats a tough one! I had a similar problem with my first love. If I were you I would try and think about why he was with you in the first place... what made him need you. Possibly show him that you two were good for each other that you brought out great qualities in one another. But sometimes people just lose touch and intrest sad as it may seem. Just be careful not to put yourself out there too far, you have to respect yourself before anyone else will.\n\nIf your ruthless a good dose of jealousy might work too ; D
376550
Krissy, a first love is special and memorable. Very few people marry their first love, but most remember it fondly. It always hurts when love fails, and often affects how you approach your future relationships. Time, as fireman said, should heal the hurt. Eventually you will fall in love again, and the experience of your first love will enhance your new love. Take it slow... the feelings, the care, the romance, the new beginnings... it will all come back.
143925
I DONT BELIEVE IT.\nYour first love, if its still in you, is because, you have not found any other, lets say cute boys/girls.\nThe thing you need to do is try to meet for people. \nFate is what you need. oh, sorry, its already in you.\nJUST LISTEN TO YOUR HEART WHEN YOU MEET ANYONE.