How  does desire (human personal desire) get what it wants.?
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by bringing you flesh (desires) under control and shaping them into what God desires for you.  Then you get your desires.
266907
Well it boils down to this...\n\nThey have what men want, and they will do what they want, and we'll like it or we won't get any booty.
58832
put your own wants and desired in 2nd place behind thier wants and desires and you should be all set to go. (that's the easy answer)
528378
People who support pornography are enslaved to lust and to money.  They can never make enough money.  They will use lust or any other human shortcoming to get people to pay them.  People who thrive on lust can never get enough of it to be satisfied.  Therefore their entire lives are ruled by the two notorious vices:  lust and money.  They are never satisfied and in the end, will destroy the lives of those who follow after them.
637428
Human nature is an enigma. STOP LOOKING so hard and what you need and desire will find you.
127872
I don't think anybody gets ever everything they want. Life is a big turmoil full of dreams and chances. maybe your wants are too high,maybe you want too much, or you don't want them enough.
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when they want it, they just want it
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desires grows with age. \nmarriage is the only solution for good girls. \nand 4 bad gals do finguring, use toys etc
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Some women do not know what they really want.  Much of human relationships comes from the unconscious mind.  Many women have no idea of what is driving them to do what they do because it is coming from their own unconscious.\nOnce stuff starts to surface, then it is a whole ‘nudder ball game.  Now the conscious mind can directly see what is happening.
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because they want what they cant have .compotison/the ones that love them are no compation .easy so they go after what they cant get
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Age old question. It's just like why do good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Your reward will come in time. You can bet if someone gets it easy it was either their time to get it, or they gave up something very valuable to get it. Sometimes giving up things you value most just to get what you want right when YOU want it is never an option.  Patience will always remain a virtue.
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Ok this will be short:)\n\nHappiness is the basis, if the basis contains holes we try to fill them with pleasure.\n\nI curious abt what book it was that you mentioned...
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It is lust, or as someone said, desire. Love isn't a feeling, it is a choice. You choose to love someone.
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It is also impossible for "you" to stop desiring.  All of life is full of desire, and existance is impossible without it.  There are no living beings who are presently without desire, though they may have been for the brief moment of their enlightenment.\n\nBefore this, they were filled with desire, growing, changing, focussing more and more on being free, being one with God, contacting the Gods, whatever their focus. The desire builds until they have given up all other desires in their one pursuit, all others being slaved to this one goal.\n\nFinally, in the end, they realize they can never achieve their goal, have tried every way possible to get there, and have no way to retreat nor do they wish to.  They surrender to forever being between their final desire and God/nirvana/etc. with no way to finish the journey.  They do not feel sorrow for this lose, they have accepted their impossible situation without games, without excuses.\n\nAt that moment, enlightenment comes.  It cannot be reached through short cuts, and it is always full of desire until there is nothing left of "you".\n\nThe fight for peace is like the desire for enlightening.\n\nFighting will continue, any time there are limited resources, until such time as we have matter replication and easy space travel.  Until then, there will be war, followed by intervals of peace.\n\nWhen the fight is for peace, for stopping those who would war for war's sake, for conquest, then wars become harder and harder to wage, until all are standing, waiting for the other to make the first move, like gunfighters in the Old West of the U.S.A., each waiting for the other, but in this case, neither wanting to fight unless the other does.\n\nTwo white hats.  No black hats.  After a while, the absurdity of the situation becomes obvious, and they release their tension.  New allies have been formed in the fight for peace.  They look around.  When they can no longer see any black hats, any conquerors, they hang up their guns and hats, and live.\n\nWhen the fight for peace ends, and conquerors still exist, the conquerors win, and peace will not be reached.\n\nWhen the desire for enlightenment ends, but not all other desires for other things have been extinguished, then the desires will dominate, and enlightenment will not be reached.\n\nThe fruitless posturing attempted to achieve enlightenment, a state that is reached only through the burning away of all that is not real is the single greatest obsticle to the searcher.  While they sit, trying to end their desires by force of will, they find only obsticles and enemies to their desire for desirelessness.\n\nEven war must be loved to love everything.
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This is a nurture vs nature issue. Some desires we are born with others we learn from society. Put them together and you have your own personal sexual desires.
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Lust is looking to gratify yourself.  Love is sacrifice.
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its a natural instinct to want to love/lust someone and since there are so many people that you have to use your hearts judgment ,and as you said, test the waters a bit seeking that one of your preference.