i want to get back wit my ex girlfriend any suggestions i really like her?
361514
Keep being her friend for a while and find out what went wrong with the relationship. Once you find out what went wrong then fix that little at a time just wait for her to ask you out because she might think that you are despert and that you want her back. You might also want to try to talk to her and wait for her and not date anyone else for a while just be her friend and be honest and trust her. Good luck.
69411
She was going to cheat on you anyway, you did the right thing.  Take it from someone who went through a similar breakup with someone they thought was truly in love with them - move on.\nThe best thing you can do for yourself is to just move on.  Obviously you will still think about her, but you absolutely, positively cannot call her, write her, ask her friends about her, talk to her parents.  Nothing.  I had always held out hope I could get back together with my ex.  It was my friend who coached me on not having any contact with her.  Now, looking back on things, I realize how much added pain it saved me.  Like your ex, my ex did what she did and nothing could change that.  It was in her and it was in her head and it would have happened sooner or later.  And trying to get her back was not an option.  Not trying to get in touch with her was the best thing I could have done.  \nI just got back into the dating thing after a few weeks.  Sure, there may be a few "rebound" girlfriends, but sooner or later you get into another satisfying relationship and leave the bad memories behind.
834944
As long as you're  begging (and that's what it is - begging!) her to take you back, she knows she can do whatever she wants, and she'll still have you to go back to......  IF nothing else works out for her.  From what you've written, it sounds as though you're a very worthwhile guy - someone that lots of young women would just LOVE to have a relationship with - well, the smart ones, anyway.  Keep in mind, your ex is in high school, and very young.  (t's probably hard on her to not have a date on Friday night when all her friends do.)  Also, she might have a few "wild oats to sow" before she's ready to settle down with one guy....  But, know what?  You're young, too.  Why not take this "break-up" time as an opportunity to meet some other girls - maybe,someone in one of  your classes. (At least, you'll have something in common to talk about.) Get involved in some of the extra-cirricular activities around your campus.  You know, something that you're really interested in.  You' ll probably  find plenty of women who are interested in the same things. (Right now, you're building  your whole world around ONE person, which isn't wise in the long run.)  You might just find out that  you CAN live without your ex - or, if nothing else, you will learn a lot about how to handle yourself around women. (Begging them to come back to you is not the way, sweetie. It just makes you seem desperate.)  I know this is very, very difficult advise to take.  You might be homesick, and wishing things could be the way they used to be.  For many, the first year of college is hard to adapt to, but adapting is one of the most important lessons you can learn in life.  There's a big world out there - lot's of things to see, places to go, and people to meet.  It's sad if you choose to cling to the past  at such a young age.  And, you never know, your ex might just notice how mature and interesting you're becoming, and decide that those high school "boys" aren't  so "all-that" after all. That's when she might start begging you to take her back - that is, IF you'll still have her!  Think about it - and, best of luck to you.\n\nPEACE
943358
You mentioned that you were confused with your life. Perhaps you should try getting a better foothold with your own life before you do anything else. Getting back with her while you remain in a state of confusion isn't going to help the both of you. And if you really want to be with your ex girlfriend, I'd suggest you come clean about your feelings to her and your present girlfriend. A girl wouldn't want to patch if you're already seeing someone else. Don't give your ex the wrong impression that you are a 'two-timer'.
210513
Well she is already your ex so you have nothing to lose right?\nJust be up-front and honest, tell her how you feel, and maybe try a romantic gesture. \nShe may not feel the same way, but you won't be left wondering what if.
336737
I kinda` understand your girlfriend but the situation you`re caught in too...I think that the love chain brought the two of u back together everytime you two broke up.It`s hard to stick without your beloved.The fact of ignoring her love was not a good idea at all,even though i believe that u have done it just to satisfy you self-ego...and now you are the one who wants to get close to her again...After brokin up several times i think that it`s better to take it slow,show her that u care about her ,without pressuring her cause this will scare her away even though i`m sure that she still loves u...She`s hurt...and all u have to do it`s to gain her confidence again,dip a deeper place in her heart than u already have.By rushing her u will not receive anything.Do simple things for showing her how much she meens to u,that u can change and that the two of u together can work it out.It`s all about motivation and how much do u really want things to work out...and of course...u need love from both sides...\n I hope that my answer will help u in some way... :P
25153
i still am in love with my ex girlfriend and i told her that she is the one for me and someday she'll see it..i told her im not gonna give up on her ...so my addivse is ...win her back..lmao
852622
Well, if she is a friend and she really likes you mabey you should just tell her you arnt ready for another girlfriend!!! If she really likes you she will understand and wait for you!!! And if you still love your ex-girlfriend go over why you guys broke up in the first place!!! Mabey you and your ex-girlfriend can still be friends and mabey you might get back together!!! If you love her the least you can do is try and if the other girl really likes you she will let you go and just be your friend!!!!!!!
88515
You don't.  She has made a choice that you need to respect.  The best thing you can do is move on and concentrate on you.  By making your life the best it can possibly be without her there is a slim chance she might realize what she lost.  The key is that you deserve to be happy and you can't be if all you do is focus on getting her back.  She doesn't want some guy who begs to get her back, she wants a guy who has his act together.
587927
Damn that sucks. Caught in the act. Damn you really are in some serious S**t. Well I don't blame your first girlfriend for not wanting to talk with you after she caught you getting a bj from another girl. I mean I wouldn't if I was her. Well lets just say, you'd have to pull some serious s**t out of your a** to get her back cause I don't think so she'll settle for anything less than a "I'm sorry" statement. As of right now, you're on your own. But don't be surprised that she won't want you back. If she does take you back, you better take your relationship more seriously with her. But good luck. And hope things goes back to normal. Sorry, but this is a problem that you have to cure for your self. I don't think so no one can help you but your self right now.
713168
Truthfully, it depends on what you did.  But if you haven't already, try apologizing to her.  It may sound too simple, but girls have more respect for a guy who can admit he's wrong.  Just tell her that you know you were a jerk, but you are sorry and that you would really love another chance to try and work things out.  If you are genuinely apologetic, your sincerity will show and she might decide to give you a chance.   Just make sure that you continue the good behavior after you get back together!  And if the apology doesn't work, you might have to accept that the relationship isn't meant to be (at least for right now).   Good luck!
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
291616
First of all, why is your ex girlfriend talking to you? Is it just to talk? That's okay. Your girlfriend should understand.\n\nBut if she wants to fool around or get back with you, you should not talk to her unless you do want to fool around or get back with her. In that case, be upfront with your girlfriend about it.
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
344319
just tell her how you really feel and much you miss her, and that you didn't mean what you said, when you broke up with her.
480948
Get out and do things that won't remind you of the ex. Go with friends and have some fun and when you think of him or her think of the reason they are the ex...............