Please help me understand, why do people really like "dirty sex"?
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There really isn't a single answer to that question. Ingesting either type of human waste, whether urine or feces is very dangerous. Feces with the greatest danger of hepatitis. A very bad infection which scars and hardens the liver. Earlier years it lead to death. Now, there are a series of vacinations, one can get to, possibly, get through the disease. Stimulation, anally, of both men and women increases sexual pleasure. Anal stimulation of the male at the time of orgasm can double the amount of semen, ejaculated, there by, doubling the pleasure. One of the curious things about sex is one's bounderies are generally, easied, during sex. Part of that is from one's early messages about the body, organs & waste. A rebelliousness can appear in sex as "anything goes" with some people. Sweat, body odors including feces, feeling, groping, kissing all lead to a somewhat natural "High." That's when the boundries one may think they have are "thrown to the Wind." That is when people do stupid things & forget about precautions. AIDS is perfect example of the result of dropping all precautions during that natural High. People do get bored and look for new ways of doing the "same old thing." It is OK to experiment but, precautions must always be taken. These days, swallowing a male's semen is an absolute no, no. Anal stimulation can be done with finger condoms. They can be found at your local drugstore in the First Aid Dept. Their called "Finger Protectors" w/ 30 per box. Their used for inserting suppositories, applying hemorrhoidal creams or applying medication to open wounds. \nThe renown book, Joy Of Sex gives a full summary of many sexual techniques including those above. There's another entitled, Joy of Gay Sex, also, filled with many techniques. But, urinating or defecating on another is far, from healthy. Or, as one stated, here, masterbating with pooh. Fecal bacteria are very powerful and a skin infection, very hard to get rid of, plus being painful. Ingested, possibly, fatal. Precautions are the #1 rule in today's society.
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It gives people a carnal thrill or a high - almost like a drug-enduced high. They are the center of attention, it feels good, it's exciting, it's sexy, and it takes up time where they may otherwise be bored. But in the end, it's stupid and silly and embarrassing and addictive and sometimes dangerous.They may even end up all over the Internet, naked for all to see - without their knowledge or approval. Internet sex lowers a decent human to the stage of self-entertaining porno star. How can that be satisfying?
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It's not shocking at all.  It only means you have better morals and more dignity and self respect than to have sex with everyone you come in contact with.  People who sleep around with any and everyone are abusing the most wonderful gift a man or woman can give their life partner.  It's demeaning and people's attitude about it today is really sad.
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Uh, we like doing it porno style.  We like girls that are well behaved in public and dirty girls in the bedroom.  Actually we are mentally "filming" a dirty movie when we are having sex with women, but that's not a bad thing because we might actually think about you the next time we masterbate.\n\nYou asked.
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They like it because there is no commitment.  They are doing something exciting and wrong so the get a thrill from it plus there is nothing to tie them down.  They get sex and what ever else from the relationship and that is all.
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Some people don't hold sex in very high esteem, and think it is just a bit of fun. Why deny yourself a bit of (free!) fun?\nBy the time most people are mature enough to realise how special sex is, it is usually too late.
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It depends on the relationship.  It depends on how close you are with your partner, and what they like, and of course, what you like.  If it feels comfortable, and it turns you and your partner on to talk dirty, the go for it.  If it makes you self-conscious, then I would keep it to just telling your man how sexy he looks and how you love to make love to him (assuming that is comfortable).  If that stuff is comfortable to you but it turns your man off, then probably you two are seriously mismatched to begin with.  \n\nNorth American culture has severely repressed sexuality to the point where we don't know what is normal and natural.  I think that in our modern society, whether or not to talk dirty is something to be decided by the couple.  If it feels natural to do it, go ahead.
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Sex is not just an activity. Sex is "supposed" to be a special bonding shared between married people. That is if you believe in God. Otherwise, sex is at the discretion of the two consenting adults as to what it means to them. If you have a blanket that keeps you warm and is very comfortable and feels good, you get attached to it right? Why wouldn't you get attached to some good sex???
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Safe sex is just so important, Why people cant see that i dont Know, good to see some decent ppl on here that think before that jump into bed with a stranger who may be on a 1 person mission to inflict the same suffering as they are going through.\n\nI will get down of my soapbox no promise
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I think noone of those who answered noticed that the key question is not WHY DO WE ADORE SEX?! it's why do we discard the partner after getting our fix of it.\n\nI would say it's coz most people take the easy way, they want to eat the cake but not help bake it!\n\nSad...
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I think that people that save sex are to be highly respected.  I myself am waiting until marriage.  Sex, when thrown around too much, becomes stagnant, and it takes more and more to please the person, just like a drug.  Studies have proven that those people that have only had one or two partners in their lives, no matter how active they are together, are much less likely to get bored with each other.  He takes sleeping with someone seriously, and we all should.  We're talking about an act that God made so that two people in love, who are intimate on every other level, ie mind, personality, spiritually, can now consumate and become fully one in each other.  Its so beautiful when done as its supposed to be.  Sex just for sex ends up being shallow.
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well guy guess what???? doing the dirty deed is not that at all, dirty... Like most everyone here says, you are normal and don't worry , do it and do it often...if it helps you relax, and it feels good too, go for it...here is to you and your friend, the one with out the brain...lololol....
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I see that the majority of you, not all, prefer inanimate objects.  Is this for the fact the you cannot get the real deal?  Or are you not sexual enough to have the real deal satisfy you? \n\nYeah, a sex machine is so up close and personal.  HA.  What a lonely life you lead.
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I enjoy it.  But I use to be like you, I thought it was the most disgusting thing ever.  Until I found someone I really loved.  Then it became such a turn on to me.  Because I know I'm pleasing my man.  But he have to satisfy me also.  Make sure you make that a point if you ever do it.
1086347
All of the above really. It's not for everyone, but some people just love it. Don't quit if you don't like it the first time, give it a couple tries as every guy is different. Hygiene is a must though!
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Sex is a beautiful, and creative thing and is only considered dirty or sinful by those who 1. wish to control others 2. those who have guilt, fear or psycological difficulties. Sex is part of life and as long as it is between concenting adults...is no sin!
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It figures that "The Guy" would say that it is "overrated". The whole theory of "skinny-dippping" is erotic is because it is out of the norm. Most people in this country are taught that nudity is wrong... When it is actually " au natural".