even if you have a great marriage should you let your spouse act conrolling sometimes?
366863
Marriage is a partnership....if there are things he's better/smarter at let him take the lead...If there are things that are your strong point you should take the lead...but this should be openly discussed so there is no resentment...which can fester & grow & become an even bigger problem.
343870
The only thing that you can do is wor on becoming the best you that you can be. You made some big mistakes in your marriage. Work on becoming a better person and learn to accept yourself for the changes that you have made and are still working on. You cannot and will not change the way she thinks..........until you change you.
418874
Its possible that both of you are trying to fill the roles of wife and husband. What I mean is not seeing each other as people,not dealing with things as they are but trying to do things as you think they should be dealt with. Maybe he thinks he should be in charge, telling you what to do what to spend. I think its time you 2 have a good long talk and find out how each of you really feels clear the air. Oh one other thing to think about your at that stage in a relationship where your past the first glow of love and seeing him as he really is, time to work at the relationship build it up or see if it can be worked out.
804266
well you best talk to your spouse and let the in laws hang because they are on the outside and the important one at this point is the one your with. but explain what happen and that you meant no harm.
215697
They SHOULD go hand in hand... but it doesn;t always happen that way. Some people use marriage as a refuge against lonliness and are willing to make the necessary compromises for it.
200688
pay attention to his behavior; he might act different to his wife either nicer to her to make up for it; or be a complete different person sometimes.
1014025
I like the one before me but that does not always work if this is something that is really important for his life. then if you have kids ask him does he plan on being around when the get out of school or when they have kids I wish I had pushed harder on my husband he might be a live today if I had pushed  a little bit more.better yet show him this and let him read the answers
228099
Support him instead of complaining and and it might not tear your marriage apart....K
964364
Uhm sorry to have to tell you this but as long as you are living in here house, she can say and act anyway she wants.  You and your husband need to move out asap if you want to keep your sanity.  Good luck
524551
It seems when things get tense we always imagine the worst will happen to our marriage.  It doesn't have to just because someone else did it.  We can always get past a tough point.  Maybe you just need more time together.
682150
I think a husband should be open and honest with his wife.  If he disagrees with something, he should say so.  It doesn't make for a healthy relationship if you bottle it all up and pretend to go along with things all the time.  She needs to know you have thoughts and feelings too, and she needs to be prepared to face them.  It doesn't have to be a blazing row, either.  Civil discussions can be had...
726078
No, and it shouldn't. Honesty and communication are the only way a marriage will last. And those two lead into trust as well. Little white lies, that are non-damaging to the marriage, are natural. But to lie to someone to save feelings or yourself, they can lead to bigger problems and build up, until it explodes and makes the situation worse. Whether you have good intentions or not. Honesty is the best policy. So, I think you answered your own question. :)
489139
I would attempt to handle this as early as possible in any relationship so that it does not become a problem later on. Also, it provides for a great topic of conversation for both parties whether they have been married or not.
147041
If your spouse is lying to you, there is obviouisly a problem. If the lies are taking this much of a toll on your marriage consider possibly getting marriage counsling. Is there a reason they feel they need to lie. Are they hiding somethin. Communicate, tell him or her this is unacceptable in your book,and you will not stand for it. If you do tell them that stand your ground. A liar is as bad as a cheater.
146028
Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
303124
There is a risk that he stops being nice when he has this done.\nBut if you love him, enjoy him. But dont destroy his marriage. All you risk is that you have to change this job later.\nLove is a mess. Do not blame yourself. \nJust do not hurt anyone.
672642
when you r married it is bound to happen sometimes it is a natual thing