wat do i say 2 some guy tat asked me out online and i dont even know him, wat do i tell him, he insist?
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if u dont even know him, say flat out no. He could be some kind of pervert trying to get to you.
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Next time he's alone (again when he's alone) go up introduce yourself and ask if he's seeing anyone. If he's not ask him out.  Please don't try that pathetic flirt/hint crap that most women use. Most guys don't pick up on that subtle crapola!
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make it so that it is a very casual thing when you are asking him.  You are writing as if you are nervous.  Tell him you just got an extra ticket and you need a date and you picked him.  He might just surprise you.
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You know I see so many of these types of questions on here. Many people are saying, "Just tell him" or something to that fact. Well, I am sure you already thought about that. But nerves or other things are stopping that from happening. Let me offer another approach. I'm not saying its better or anything. Its just another way of telling someone, "Hey look at me" or as they say in Great Britain, "I fancy you."\n\nBasically, try to spend sometime with him doing anything. In fact, just spending time with him will either tell YOU its more then just a crush or he's not right for you in other ways.\n\nSo how do you go about doing this? Well, lucky for you, men like to do things. Find out what they are, tell him your interested in learning that certain activity and get him to teach you. Men love teaching women how to do stuff especially stuff we like to do. Even offer to pay him for his time. He will more then likely reject your offer for payment. First sign of a good guy. Another idea is find out his schedule and "run" into him a few times. Then one day carry a bunch of stuff and run into him again. He will ask to help you carry them and you can start from there. Again, another sign of a good guy.\n\nSeems elaborate isn't it. Well, you can always just go and tell him.\n\nBest answer, here I come!   :-)\n\nGood luck.
655808
Don't ask him out...just w8 a little bit and he will ask u if he realy means what he says.
196159
u just said u barely know him so what's ur problem...? \n...get to know him first before u say whether there is a problem? truth is ur just over-excited :)
1144187
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
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you can write him a note saying," im open" or " Im not taken...yet".  Those notes would sum up what you want to say to him. You are saying, i like you, do you like me, if so ask me out. Good luck
139003
just say it to his face\n\ntry to get him alone, but u dont have 2\n\nmore importantly, don't try it in a note...
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Tell him what you are feeling looking at his eyes. Otherwise, he would think that you might just want to go out with anybody, and that's when you sound desperate and akward.
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if you met him on myspace then just ask him if he would like to do something sometime. if he says yes then you are golden but if he says no then you will probably have the same relationship with myspace. so pretty much you just have an online relationship that you can find pretty much anywhere on the internet or you could have a relationship with a guy you like in real life. give up the online relationship if you have to and just ask him out. you have the saftey blanket of being online so you wont get too nervous in person to tell him.
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tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
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just wait (whoever he is) he will come up to u and ask u mabey. if they dont then u ask someomne to ask them 4 u.kk?\nps ur not gonna find a date on yahoo answers
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I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
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tell the truth, just not in a harsh way.\n\nsay one of these if you feel like on of these\n\n1)you already have a boyfreind but if you didn't you would say yes\n\n2)he is really nice/cute/smart (whatever) but i just dont feel that "spark"\n\nalso tell him that you are flattered, that helped when i got rejected.
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why must he pursue you?  Most likely if he is communicating with you online, he is probably someone who is also shy or something.  I say you should show you are interested, if you try to contact him, he will probably reply. Maybe he is thinking the same thing you are.  \n\nI like to use a little rule called 2 to 1.  If you try to contact him twice, and he dont respond- dont try again, let him contact you next- if he dont, hes not interested.
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People prefer honesty!  Tell him, he is a noice guy, but that he is not your type.  You are not attracted to him.  If you know of another girl that has some interest in him, maybe you can set them up.\n\nJust do this in a supportive, way, but stand firm.\n\nA man hates rejection, but when it is dome honestly is usually appreciated.