if you love aman (woman)  and heloves u alsobut you found your best friendlove himhow r u g oing to tell her??
358566
honestly and quickly!!
108946
answer to ur original question-no it's not bad n it doesn't make u abad person..UR HUMAN!!\nif i was u ....i wuld tel her,but also at the same time make sure that she understands that ur not trying to pressure her to fall in love with u too just cos she's ur bestfriend.u really shouldn't b expecting her to feel the same way if she doesn't...U SHUD JUST TELL HER FOR THE SIMPLE REASON THAT U CULD B CONTENT AFTERWARDS AS SHE WULD KNOW HOW U REALLY FEEL FOR HER...good luck!!
744634
the best relationships always start out as friendships...tell her uve started to have certain feelings towards her and u want to know if she feels the same way  best of luck luv ya mwa
1027671
yes.....become friends first...if you love her wait to see if she loves you...go from there...
59299
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
338482
Yes, I have told b/fs about the bd things bout me, if you don't let him know, and he finds out later, to me that's like lieing, in order to love and be loved, you have to let the bad things out as well.  Your partner is suppose to your best friend in all the world, if this is true, then you should be able to tell them anything and everything.
853516
god! she  is where i was a yr ago. My best fren told me that he loves me, i said 'no lets be only frens'. but u know what a month later i realized that i love him. she would realize it too. the way he made me confess was- he stopped saying directly, but kept dropping hints that he loves me... like how lucky the guy who marries me will be... and how cute i am. \nn then he stopped talking to me for a while, then i mailed him that i really love him. try it. good luck.
445586
Loving your "best friend" is not a bad start.  Does he love you back.\nAnd stop playing with the word "LOVE"!
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
439683
Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
615327
AHAAAAAAAAAAAAAN to be very honest with people are making sense in their own way but if you think you dont love your best friend then you dont but since you said your confussed now that tells me right away you do since you know from six years and your always talking about him to this guy who you suppose to be dating so if i would be you i wont let get to my head but yes i would think about it a little plus just wait time will tell everyone and everything so good luck.
172723
you know your in love when you and your "friend" feel sum thing special in side \n\np.s give it time yoo'll know
722553
well maybe yes \n\nbut dont blow your friendship \n\nyou may lose your friendship should you say i love you to her now
1036169
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
69778
If you love him your friend should understand that. If she is a good friend she will find her own man and let you be happy. Say yes to the man, you might ever find another good man like that. Oh, congrats!!
569068
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
380361
Loving her as a woman (by a man-like heart/feelings) is a sin yes. But now that you finally loved her as a friend or rather as bestfriend, I think both of you should know the limitations of your relationship by now. It is possible that, during your adjustment, you find yourself doing things that you used to do while you were lovers. Try to be watchful of your actions. I'm not advising you to avoid her but I do advise you to avoid being off guard just to caught yourself doing your old ways again. If its hard to control, its about time for the two of you to take a week off not seeing each other.