im want to know why does love hurt every time at the end of the relationship?
372869
Well it hurts soo bad because u lose the one u are emotionally ATTACHED to..u feel like u dont wanna be with anyone else..because they made u feel soo great..but think of it this way..there was a reason why u and the one u "loved" didnt make it...its just not meant to be..dating is to meet the right person for u..almsot like experimenting..so good luck! and i hope everythingz k :) keep ur head up!
1096268
Because love = Insanity. Love is the one emotion that a person can have that can make you go crazy.  It can make you do some strange things. Its just as bad as Drugs. When Love is over you cant eat, you cant sleep, you cant think. And the sad part about it is there is nothing you can do to stop the hurt.  They say time heals all wounds. But one thing they dont tell you is it cant remove the scars.
1013916
its normal to feel the pain because you have truely loved him. i suggest you go out w/ your friends, get a hobby, keep yourself busy so you dont have time to think about him. \ni hope sonner you'll get over him
182057
The hurt never goes away... sometimes if your lucky it will ease.. but there will always be a song, a voice, a scent..etc.. that will remind you of your lost love... the wounds may ease but the scars upon ones heart never heals.
255091
in most cases yes. this is because the first time you're in love you are unaware of how much a break up can actually hurt and the long term damage it can do.(after all it would be your first time experiencing any of those feelings)
1141417
well, part of it, even if he/she hurts you like hell, then the feeling still stays, but if you two get back together, then he/she hurts u again, then trust me the feeling will go away.
608681
Because you probably loved her an awful lot, and any breakup or end to a relationship is a loss.  \n\nHugs.
22730
Your used to someone, used to having fun with them, used to loving them and used to just generally having them around.  When you get your heart broken, its unlikely you can remain friends with someone you've had such a deep understand with and thus its more then like that you've got to start from scratch.  Mainly, its the fear that you'll never have that again and never be happy again.  The best way to get over a break-up is to tell yourself that "she/he wasn't worth my time and that some other lucky person will be worth it in the future".
1062773
i can understand what you mean as there was something similar that happened between me & my boyfriend but cuz of different reasons...but it was my boyfriend who was in your position & i was on the receiving end...its very tough when someone you love says that they can no longer be with you for whatever reasons...just because we love each other so much, we try to understand & do what the other wants even when thats not something we really want...our mind accepts the situations & tries to adjust but our heart just doesnt wants to let go...you imagine all the things that can go wrong & also how tough your life would be without that person...this feeling of insecurity & depression is terrible...you also began to question that whether that person really loves you, cuz if yes than how can that person take such a harsh & insensitive decision...all this is just a matter of your emotions & you imagine everything thats positive or negatve...when this happens you try to take yourself away from that person & try to act tough cuz you dont want that other person to know that after saying that you understand, you have so many questions going on in your mind...this happened with me & though i really love my boyfriend i was still hurt tremendously by his decision to break up even when i agreed & understood his reasons...i think your boyfriend also is really hurt by whatever happened...its good that you plan to go back to him...i would suggest that you talk to him & try to get out all the pain he is carrying in his heart cuz of what happened...you'll have to shower unconditional love to make him feel secure with you again...treat him nicely, spend time with him & appreciate his presence in your life...just let him know that you belong only to him & there's no one who can love & understand you the way he does...i am sure you'll be able to do that cuz you truely love him...Goodluck!!
61190
i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
1163901
There is a time after a breakup where the pain of parting is greater than the need for someone new. The more you cared for them, the longer it takes. The trick is knowing when to move on.
152478
omg i hate this ? it upsets me cause for most people this ? is true love and have n everthing u ever could of asked for and then to lose the love and have lost everything u ever worked hardd for i know how it feels to be hurt real bad because of love and it falling apart but one day u will find that person who will love u for all ur life time but i think that even tho going through so much and love n it and then losing it and the feeling of death cause of the feeling of the broken hart it all gets better it just takes sometime and the right person will show up for u so i would love and end with a broken hart cause for every end there is a new start for somthing else
622282
Love is a blessing. Even if it ends, the time that you had together is a blessing. The good memories, you get to keep and treasure forever. The bad memories, you get to learn from and make future relationships better.\n\nLove makes you feel happy. It's the other stuff that makes you unhappy.
6604
Unfortunately love can be painful as well as joyous.  Remember that just because we care or love someone else does not necessarily mean that person feels the same way toward us.  Its a tough situation when you love someone who cannot return the feelings.  But, its better to find that out now rather then later.  Best of luck to you.
348891
Love isn't supposed to hurt!! It's not supposed to be easy!! You will be hurt many times in your life you just have to decide who is worth the pain!!
564422
If it doesn't hurt its not love.what hurts u makes u stronger.love is life an life is love.
206232
Ending a relationship hurts.  Just take time for yourself.  Do the things you didn't get to do as often when you were with her.  Try something new.  But definitly don't rush into a new relationship.  It's only been a day, like you said.  It will get better, I promise!