how can i tell my bf that i'm breaking up with him?
371222
Tell him "Hey, I'm breaking up with you".  Simple enough.
525365
If he's super nice, why do you want to break up with him?  Make sure you're 100% sure.  After you're positive you want to break up with him, the best way would be to tell him straioght out.  he probably wouldn't appreciate games.  You might break his heart, but it's better than staying with him and being miserable while he tries frantically to find out what's wrong.
220719
Its so simple. Just tell him frankly & truthfully that u r not interested in him anymore and r inclined to continue ur relationship with ur x one. If ur present bf is sensible, he w'd surely get out of ur way.
391535
It is wrong not to let him know.  It is better to break up with him and experience life than to do things without letting him know.  It doesn't mean your a bad person, only that your human and have needs.
294084
There are no best ways to break up with a partner, specially when he's gonna suffer more than us, it will definetely hurt!\nBut I guess a good way to break up would be to be really honest, to say the truth in a polite way, not to try to make him think things that aren't really true, I mean, not telling him that U don't have someone else if U know that U have him, or not telling him that U still love him but want to be alone for a little while, if U know U don't love him anymore.\nSo... as hard as it is... THE TRUTH is just the best way to make it a little easier for both of U.
773546
me and my bf have broke up prolly 20 times in the last year. and we're still together. lol\n\n\nif your in lvoe work it out. i know we are\n\n\ngood luck
227768
How you break up with your boyfriend is entirely upto you.  You must realize that it has to be done.  Now, when you do should be done ASAP.  The longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt.
756545
the fact that ur just thinking bout breaking up with your boyfriend should b a sign....
653716
I think that just proving to him that he's the best guy for you and that you truly love him and want to be with him is good enough. Explain to him why you broke it off, meaning the truth, then tell him that you are happy to have him back because you love him. And leave it at that. You don't want to sound too giddy.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
147082
stop calling him.  YOU broke up with him
456826
Stop freaking. Wait at least 24 hours. Then call him with some drama. Then break up with him.
77693
You can't break up with someone and not hurt their feelings.  It comes with the territory.  Just take a deep breath and be as polite and as honest as possible.
103537
Just tell him that your relationship is not going anywhere an tell him that you and him should move on to other things and go your seperate ways.
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
460506
jUST TELL HIM STRAIGHT OUT, I GUESS.  ITS OK IF HE LAUGHS OR MAKES FUN OF YOU, IF THIS IS YOUR TRUE FEELINGS AND YOU DECIDED TO GIVE UP TOUR BF, JUST TELL HIM, HELL GET OVER IT AND YOU AND YOUR PITBULL CAN LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.