How can I get over the fear of talking to my boyfriend?
361171
its sad that you have a fear of talkin to him. if you want to be in a relationship you have to talk to. just open up and tell him whatever you want to. that is part of having a good heathly relationship.
486505
afraid of wht? is ur bf a monster ? lol
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
794334
ok, what you need to do is just try and start a conversation with him. i have a friend that has a real fear of talking to guys she really likes. i tell her the same thing just start a random conversation. i am the type of person who can just start talking to any one without being scared.
865751
hey i guess i'm not the only one going through this!! i'm in high school and i just got enough courage to talk myself into asking him to our winter formal, but i still have to do it and my nerves are driving me insane because i am deathly afraid of him saying no because i absolutely love him. so in your case just start talking to him like in a more flirtatious way and (this is what i did) if you know at least one of his friends ask them to mention something about you and see what he says. this is something my mom just recently told me. i have always been terrified of roller coasters and a few months ago for our graduation we took a trip to 6flags and was convinced into going on one even though i nearly had a panic attack. but once it was all over i had enjoyed it immensely and i now look forward to any school break since we bought season passes, but i cant believe it took me 14 years to get over my fear, anyways. she said that like the roller coaster situation you just gotta hold your head up high and do it or else you will never know and it may turn out that he will say yes and it will be such a huge relief. but if he does say no, realize that it isn't the end of the world and that there are so many other guys out there for you. i wish you the best of luck and hopefully you will wish me luck too!
118389
Talk to him about your fears. Let your relationship play out and just go with the flow. Whatever happens will happen. You fall in love. You can't make yourself. Enjoy what you have.
877963
Honey, you are way too young to have a boyfriend.  And you are way too young to be discussing with another boy if you are going to have HIS kids.  I would break it off with him gently and say you are way too young to be in a relationship with someone.  That is the truth.  If he is scaring you and makes you feel uncomfortable then you should stay away from him.
932361
I answered a similar question two days ago. Remember I told you that it was a mistake to stop talking to him because of your bf, but I thought u said u could never date him? U were not truly honest were u? Just beg and implore him to forgive you, if he likes u he might. Good luck, I mean that.
1181908
Do not talk to him online. Do not hurt yourself. Take it easy. Relax. Do something that you really like to do. Avoid places where he might show up, like internet/chat. \nI found that sport is the best way to get did of stress and get out of any bad moral situation. Get membership in the locdal gym and do a lot of exersize. 2 things will happend: 1 - you will concenrate on exersize and will think less of him, and 2 - you will look better!!!\nGet yourself mp3 player and music will calm you down as well (while exersize)!
322011
First, let go of the fear and trust him.  He will pick up on it and begin to think that you do not trust him.\n   The most important part to any relationship is communication.  It is extremely important for both of you to feel you can go to your partner with any problem, issue or desire, and have an open mind listen to you.  Many relationship fail because there is a lack of communication between partners.  They do not express if they are feeling lonely, unloved, sexually unsatisfied, etc.  If you can communicate these things with each other, talk out and compromise your differences and needs, then that is a huge step to keeping your relationship alive and healthy.\n   Always remember to keep your individualism, while at the same time knowing that you can depend on your partner to be there when you need them.  Don't be afraid though to rely on your partner to help you if you need it.\n   Enjoy each other each and every day as if it might be your last, because in this fragile thing we call life, it could be.  Love each other every day as much as you can.  \n   Most importantly, trust him and your love.  If he truly loves you he will not do anything like that to you.\n\nPeace, luck and love
206802
Well if you are scared then that means that you are not ready and you need to wait for the time when you are ready for it. Also try talking to him about it and see how he feels about it and maybe he feels the same way you do. Then again he might not just let him know who you feel. You never know how it might turn out!
76810
I was in your shoes a few years ago and it was very frustruating. Its really just a matter of diving in though. Just practice at it, and it will come. Keep things lite and try things out on people you already know until you get comfortable, then start conversations with the guy at the gas station, then the cutie at starbucks. Take it all one step at a time. \n\nSometimes you can have long conversations without having to say much at all.  Just listen to your partner and keep asking questions. This way you are very much engaged in the conversation but don't have pressure yourself to express your yourself.  Generally, people love to talk about themselves, so let them do your socializing for you.\n\nYou might also keep a mental list ready of good things to talk about. You can get ideas from the news, or popular tv shows, (there are tons of people out there who can talk American Idol for hours).  Keep a few lines handy as standard ice breakers, ("So what do you do for a living?" "What are you studying in school?" or my favorite "Hi my name is Jeff.")\n\nIf you really feel like you have a problem, therapy is totally good for this too.  Don't be afraid to seek help.
27761
If it is shaky, then do not make it better.  Make it real.\nTalk.  Talk a lot.\nIf talking does not improve the relationship, then so be it.\nIf talking does improve what is happening then find out what else you need to talk about.\nIf there are areas that the two of you avoid talking about, those are your problem areas.  Either find out how to talk about them or find someone else.
1040620
Konichiwa!\n\nFirst off. Some guys are defintly over jealous. Sit down and talk with him. I think what he is afraid of is you cheating on him, reassure him that you are not going to. And that you deserve the freedom to talk to anyone that you wish. This is not the old days where slavery and Housewives were kept behind locked doors. This is the 20th century.
448007
don't stress about it.  You should never sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Go out and do something for yourself.  Go shopping or to a movie and get your mind of this.  Interact with people you haven't hung out with in awhile because of him.  When he's ready to talk he'll call.  Don't let your whole world be around him.  If he needs to find himself, let him.  Be there for him when he's ready to talk.  Take this time yourself to think about your relationship, have things ready to talk about when he's ready.
958381
find something that you both have in common and that you know you can talk about for long periods of time w/ out being/ sounding weird. start a conversation and work your way up. it all takes time. once you think that youre ready, take things to the next level with him all you have to do is pre- think things through before you talk to him and youre confidence will boost up.
669168
It's always hard to change your feelings. That part just takes time and strength. As for confronting him. Be civil and calm. If he still won't talk to you about it, make sure he knows how you feel. If he can't talk he can listen. It will make you feel better to get that out and off of your chest. If he won't listen, send him a letter and then leave it be. Don't talk to him, don't be around him, and don't let yourself think about him. If a thought comes in your head. Push it out and make yourself do something to distract you. Also, they say the best way to forget someone is to get somebody new. It works for me. You can try it. :^) I wish you the best and if you need anymore advice or support feel free to contact me. :^)