Can you really love 2 people?
358787
You may but somewhere in bottom of your heart you love lil more to one than another.
511416
You can love both. There is no 'more or less' in true love. Either you love or you don't. There are no yardsticks to measure true love. Moreover true love is not exclusive. You can love one and many simultaneously.
976614
It is, but it's hard to balance the love between them. Make sure they love you back and all should be fine. Don't do like I did and take love from one and give it all to the other, the other was a loser and did not know how to handle love. Thankfully, my first love forgave me and I learned my lesson.
589582
Allways listen to your heart and gut but just because you love the one does he love you too! If so he would make time for you no matter what! But Me I dont thingit is posable to love 2 men at the same time You can love many people at the same time  but Not LOVE them! So really follow your heart but if your gut is telling you hey something is not right check in to it find out what is wrong! But If you really Loved either of them you wouldn't be so confussed you would know! Who do you think of all the time when you wake up? when you go to bed? Which one is always on your mind if some one was at your door right now who would you want it to be! Who's eyes do you look into and see a future with him! There are a number of questions you need to ask your self! And go with your HEART!
611610
You will know....its not like you will sit around and be like....i wonder if this is love. If your love is b/c the other person makes you feel good...its not real love. Real love is self sacrificing and takes a long time to develop. Months, years even, and you have to genuinely know the person. Its not an emotion.
683337
A loving relationship must be a 2-way street.  If you think you will eventually love the other person, the relationship is doomed.  After a while, you will grow further apart, perhaps even resentful.  Find someone you are truly in love with.  It will make your life much happier.
991791
their is a different type of love for the other person
973049
I don't think it's possible to ever love two people the same.  With different relationships, there is a different love involved.
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
113760
Truly loves you?  I wonder if that really exists with out you truly loving the other first.  If you wait for someone to truly love you it may never happen.  All you can do and all you can control is you.  You and your own feelings.  I would think that if you are asking about this then you are probably in love with someone and unsure of the others feelings.  Well of course you could ask...but really try this...open your heart and show it.  If the other person loves you then this will only create a space that will allow the other person to respond with love.  For you there also needs to be thought of what you need in life.  Things like helping you with issues you need handled or doing something for someone you love...but all of that is the easy stuff. I was involved with someone for three years and he did everthing for me...but he neer loved me nor I him.  Now I am ivolved with a man that I do not lean on for anything but his heart is mine.  Only after I opened mine and took a chance.
1155974
you can fall in love with anyone no matter what a third person sees as 'differences'. personally though,8+ years is to much.
1012969
Personally, I think that anything would be possible if two people were in love or really wanted to.. As long you both take your occassional trips together, I believe it would be healthy!! Having faith and trust and communication will play a huge part too..
95053
Yes it is possible.\n\nHappiness is not something you need to recieve from someone else..true happiness comes from within ourselves.\n\nSharing that happiness and much more with  another person is a choice but not a necessity.
562095
Absolutely not...you can only be lusting for two people at the same time.  Love is a true devotion to one individual.  If you have to wonder if you are in love with two people then you don't love either.
642206
It's possible, but you're making yourself sound like a cheater. If you love someone else while you're already in a relationship then that's bad. It's better to be in love with two people when you're not with one of them already. If you love someone else while in a relatonship then it means that you want the other person who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. \n\nTry asking yourself what you can get from this person 'on the side' that you're not getting from your significant other. If the reasons outweigh the reson to stay with the person you're currently with, then maybe it's time to end the relationship, hm?
161068
Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
460787
yes it is possible to like someone and even lust after someone if you are in love with someone else. the problem comes in how you deal with the lust.