How old do you think you should be when you first have sex???
370876
Old enough that you are of a legal age. Getting done for statory rape can screw up your life. Obviously maturity plays a big part too, as does being comfortable with yourself and the person you are intending to sleep with.\nI don't feel that one needs to be married to have sex. Why some people think that the government needs to acknowledge you exist as a couple before you have sex, is beyond me.\nI also don't se the logic in waiting to have sex when you are ready to be a parent. Many people never want to be parents, myself included. I am not going to refrain from sex to appease the morals of other people.
691086
I think that its o.k and you should wait cuz you are too young. I am not telling you what to do , but be wise and smart. If you choose to have sex, be safe and think about it first. Dont do it cuz others are doing it or eer pressure. I am in the 8th grade going to the 9th grade and trust me I understand. Everyday I see girls at my school that just dont care and regret doing it. I am a virgen and I make wise choices. Also think about your consequences.
1091084
The most appropriate age for sex depends on one individual person. When you are emotionally ready for the reponsibility and the consiquences that you face with sex. Then and only then, is the APPROPRIATE time and age for sex.
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
1157703
I am not going to say it is right or wrong, I lost mine when I was 15 my lil sis 18 it all depends on the person and if they feel ready. Don't do it because you think the guy will like you better, or you don't want to be the only one not doing it. Because trust me you're not, alot of people aren't. But I see it this way if you feel ready, you are about this person,love, then okay, but if you are not ready then he or she will wait on you and if they don't then they never loved you anyway. Just be care-full there is so much out there right now that you never know. For me though I see it this way you never know what is out there until you test the waters, but i will tell you something, my husband was number 3 and I wish he was number 1. Sex though is as enjoyable as the person makes it. I love sex, not for the feeling but for the creativity. When you love someone enough to spend the rest of your life with, then it can never get boring unless you let it.
435093
The age when you don't have to ask someone what is the right age to have sex
249164
12, and I regret it, but I got over it.\n\nKids shouldn't have sex until they're mentally and physically prepared for it. I don't care if you THINK you are or not at 12, you're just not.
517796
I will be 51 this year,theres nothing wrong with sex in your fiftys,sixtys or seventys if your with the right man and you still enjoy it.go for it your never to old to try anything
634812
I'm 17. Still virgin & proud.\nLet's wait for our hubbies :]
122994
intercourse.. I was 21, just after I got married.\n\njack 0ff... I was 12
403671
NO! Listen mate, 15 is definitely too young. I definitely don't think you two should have sex. What would your parents say? If you truly do love each other, then waiting until you're older won't hurt your relationship. I strongly think that you should wait. Don't rush into sex- make sure you've explored all the other levels completely. Experiment. Ever tried finding out how many different ways you can kiss? There are lots of other intimate things you can do, but don't actually have sex right now. I mean, there's so much teenage pregnancy and stuff happening right now, and it creates a lot of problems... If you have sex now, both of you may end up regretting it. I say wait- and that will make it even more special when the time comes.
277483
no no no. you SHOULD be a virgin at the age of 17. i'm 16 and i'm still a virgin, planning on saving myself for until after i get married. sex is a symbol of love between a husband and a wife. it's not something you give to just anyone. be proud of such a thing and try to keep it until AFTER you're married. i think that when you do finally get with that right person, it'll make it much more of a special moment than if you do it before.
474643
I waited until I was married (when I was 27) - and wow was it worth it!\n\nBut unfortunately (in my opinion) too many people are engaging in sexual activity at a younger age - I'd be surprised (by hey I am old) if it was lower than 14.\n\nThis has been linked to the rise of sexual transmitted diseases, abortions and loss of fertility (due to chlamydia).  I also believe (from friends who work in counselling) that it has a knock-on effect on people's self-esteem.  But I'm sure people will rubbish me.\n\nThe real question isn't "is this the norm" but "what is the best".
174272
you should have sex when you know you are ready and you know that you will not reget it in the future! If you do feel right having sex or you are jus doin it cuz every1 else is you should not do it\nGotta love me :\nNina
930369
As someone who was very sexually active at a young age.....PLEASE, PLEASE wait. Your time will come. Please be a kid for a while longer. Sex will come, I'm not saying wait until your married or anything like that. Just wait a couple more years. I wish I were more articulate and could get my thoughts out on this better, just please wait....
244745
Preferably around 18, no younger than 15 or 16.  It's more about the maturity of the person and how responsible they are in practicing safe sex and prepared for any "accidents" and consequences.  I was around 16, and was ready and responsible enough and had a steady partner I loved.
309021
sweetie if you're not thinking about sex at the age of 15 that is probably wrong :)