im an 18 year old female, why do other girls hate me...they dont even know me so what is the problem?
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unfortunitly we live in a society where people judge before they get to know anything about a person. Depending on your looks you might get stared at,.. I know the feeling,.. i am Latin,.. thus i have a certain look that makes me seem tough,.. i am the nicest person you can come accross,but because of that i come accross to people as someone with an attitude... I have learned to just brush it off,.. although when people always assume you have an attitude its hard to just brush it off,.. \n\ni dont know what to tell you,.. all i can say is that i know how you are feeling,.. just ignore it,..
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hey dude, where are those girls, send me some addresses.!!!! i coudl use them...\n\nthe truth is that you aint mean dude!..you are just a nobody who thinks women are smiling at you...NO MAN, wisen up, that is how they snarl!!!....\n\nyou want them to hate you??? give them a kitchen and ask them to have dinner ready by 8 pm!!...ha!..
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You have low self-esteem and no self-respect.  If you don't like yourself, it doesn't matter how someone else treats you.  \n\nFigure out what's worthwhile in yourself - and there is lots - and when you do, you won't let dirtbags take advantage of you anymore.
932664
I feel you pal! But not everybody hates you. It just seems like that. Look around you, there are certain to be other kids who also feel they are hated. Make friends with them. Rejects never reject rejects. I say this as a former high school reject...
294159
I think you are insecure and you are easily hurt, you can be mean because nobody seems to see things your way. I think you want people to think you are younger than you really are to protect yourself from people reading you as being dumb, and the answer you are looking here is more what you want to hear to your liking and not necessarily the real you. I think you had a rough childhood maybe parents who broke up when you were younger and you feel neglected and unapreciated. Hey, I could be completely wrong, I ain't no expert at this.
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you obviously have self-esteem issues. i don't know your age, but this is normal for a teen. if you're older, you may want to consider therapy to get over your issue, unless there's a reason you subconsciously want to avoid women (fear of intimacy, think you're not good enough, overweight, etc...) I recognize the city you are in (near pv mall), nice to talk to a phoenician!
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Try going to a support group in your area for these type issues. Being with people in situations similar to yours might help, b/c they can identify with you better than most. I can understand where you're coming from. I bet alot of us girls can.\nHope this helps...&& Good luck\nCarolyn
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'Everybody' does not hate you.  I am sorry if you are going through a time when it feels as though you are not appreciated or supported, not having fun, feeling left out...\n\nMaybe changing your circle of friends might help? Finding a new hobby or interest?\n\nDon't fall into the trap of believing that every person you meet hates you.  Give them a chance to see the real you and also, when you feel a bit more confident, show interest in others - people tend to like that, if you are being genuine :-)\n\nI do hope you have someone you trust that you can talk to about this.
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are u ugly? that could be it, plus alot of crazy ppl think they are normal... do u have any friends or have they disowned u too? if u have no friends, i think ur just a weirdo probably, and that is why, if u have friends, ur probably ugly and they are embarrassed of u
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it could be that its not other people, the problem could be you... if you have a positive attitude, then you will get a positive responds from other people..always be able to back up what you say... the old saying is you must like yourself before others can like you...
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Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
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yea hun i understand your pain.. im a cheerleader to0 but im also number 8 in my class and am very successfull in other sports.  Im not a bitch to you unless your a bitch to me and if your nice to me i'll be nice to you.  Im also not a slut, i dont date from guy to guy, and am a virgin. I dont think it's fair when people say stuff like that but just dust it of, tell them to grow up, and stop carring what others think about you b/c once your out of highschool, you'll probably never see 99% of thoes people again.
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Sounds like you are young and you think everyone is out there to get you.  It is not true, you are just paying more attention to the negatives than the positives.  To solve your problem, ask those why they always respond in a negative way.  They may not notice that they are doing it until you bring it to their attention.  Keep your head up, not everyone is ot there to make your life a living hell.
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There is probably nothing wrong with you. How old are you anyway??? Maybe you need to be a little more open, but just being yourself and trying to be nice and friendly to people, might help...
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well ummmmm maybe you should take a good look at yourself and see what you could do different to make them notice you. i'd say it's your personality. by this question you sound a little whiny to me and most girls only like wine with dinner. lol
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Don't make to big of a deal about it. They are just trying to get a reaction out of you and distract people from whatever they think is wrong with themselves. Just be yourself and don't over compensate by trying to hard with girls it will just give them something else to pick on you about. Just lay low they will move on to harrassing someone else if you aren't any fun and don't react to their childish stupidity.
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hey there, i went through this too....  me being a girl can put myself in her shoes and imagine the situation!!\nso, i think you must go & talk to her &ask her if shes interested in you!!\n    if shes not, DONT go behind her she will hate you more\nyou could also talk to her friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..........