Is it bad to want to get back with your ex????????
364602
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
200256
Your ex is your ex for a reason.  Why ruin what you say is a great relationship by letting old feelings from your past interfere?  You have been moving forward without your ex just fine so why go back now?  It is normal to have feelings for your ex but you need to store them away and concentrate on what you have now.
1175349
OK I  just went through a situation where my boyfriend left me because his ex ccame back into his life..I feel so miserable without him and i feel sick to my stomach...You need to be careful about what youdo..It could really hurt your boyfriends feelings..There must of been a reason why you broke up with your ex..so why are you wanting to go back out with him? AND if your not sure you dont love your boyfriend then dont lead him on..you just reallly need to think
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!
388288
Whatever the reason for your ex being your ex. Put yourself in their shoes and think about the situation and what you would do. Be true about the considerations...it only help u know wether it's worth trying to get back together.
1178005
No, keeping in touch with your ex, unless you were really close before is not good.  I don't stay close to my ex because he told a friend of mine that we screwed when I never even saw him in the 8 days we went out.  Staying close to your ex is never going to help you get over that person.  HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
881357
depends on the circumstance of your breakup, if it was very painful, or if it were mutual. know that some o f the same problems could arise again if not discussed before. if it was a pleasant time, and all was well, take him back, but if it was a long hard bumpy road, than work out the issues before u take him back.
711191
yea its normal to feel this way..you just have to be careful not to get hurt..and its really hard...as far as taking her back..its a judgement call....do you think she'll do this again? do u still love her? think about and dont rush to a decision
669981
just see what happens on saturday. if you still feel like you want him back, take him back.. just don't jump into it real quick cuz you don't wanna get hurt again and he probably doesn't want to either. BUT if you go back out with him... PLEASE make sure he's the only one.. but anyways.. GOOD LUCK!!! ♥
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
540665
No you shouldn't go back with your ex. He is your ex for a reason and sometimes it's best to leave the past in the past and move on with your life.
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
938608
yea u are going back as a rebound for each other.. im doing it myself.. I miss mine like crazy, but we arent together for several reasons, but when we see each other we have sex and its always better everytime!!! Wish i could give u better advise,but i guess u can say i need the advice myself.. good luck to u
745438
Its tempting to go back to your ex for consolation.  Especially since he's known you so well.  But its not worth the hassles.  When i have such an urge, i like to sit back in my room and distinctly plan on how to solve my problem - in a constructive and POSITIVE manner.  Chart out practial steps to solve your problem and follow it step by step.  It is quite empowering.  Dont get frustrated between steps.  everything is a process.  If you do need someone to talk to, slowly take someone into confidence.  its hard to find one person that you like to tell everything to.  you could share some things iwth a friend and some things with another friend - whoever you think will understand.  But its important not to dwell in your problems cos it will just make it seem worse than it really is.  Remember that nothing is really as bad as it seems.  its really that simple.  understand that first.
778544
The pressures of a relationship are gone. Also, some women and men like what they can't have. So, enjoy your friendship. If you want to get back together with her, then you should take it slow. I am trying to get back with my ex girlfriend but I have to have patience and wait. Good things come to those that wait. If you just want her as a good friend, that's already done. Just have fun with her.
201006
To me if the break-up was that bad, you wouldn't even be this close to getting the option of getting back together. Anything is possible and in almost 2 years people change a lot. What's so wrong with getting to know who you are now? Don't think of it as getting back together. If you didn't have a past with him, would you still want to get to know this guy right now?