How do i make my vigina feel more like a virgin again???
356454
try flexing your inner vagina muscles, the more you do this the stronger they'll get and when your having sex you flex them and your feel as tight as you were the first time.  if you don't know how to work out those muscles...when your peeing try and stop the urination it you can those are the muscles...just flex them all throughout the day and you should be good!
1187770
Unless you are living in place where woman are tortured or killed for having sex before marriage, fess up to your husband.  You never know, he might like the fact that you are experienced!  If the guy knows anything about the female body and virgins, he may expect you to bleed a bit the first time having sex so if you didn't/don't then he might question it but if you need to lie (for the above reason) just reassure him that not all women have hymens so perhaps yours was broken by a tampon, trauma or injury, or some other reason.  \nYou have to do what ever makes you feel safe.  You really shouldn't lie to your husband but like I said there are cultures out there that would do horrible things to a woman if she was found to not be a virgin after her wedding.\nAll the best.
603470
sorry... for me... still a virgin...
688421
1)open the box\n2)remove a tampon from its bag thingy\n3)grip it on the gripper thingy...where the two parts meet (best w/ ur thumb and middle fingers)\n4)slide it in until your fingers touch you\n5)push on the end until it is all the way in\n6)throw away the other part\n note: if you masturbate or have had sex, it prob wont hurt. if you dont, it may hurt the 1st few times...start w/ slender sized.
379159
Don't feel bad, hey. It's not the most appealing thing as a girl wants to feel like she has someone who knows what they are doing. What you need to do then, is spend all your time making it good for her and be willing and you will be fine. I slept with a guy who was a virgin and he was 24. I got over the fact he was a virgin cos I thought he was the most hottest guy I had ever been with and I loved his personality. What killed it a bit though, is he was pretty nervous which is understandable, but he wanted me to do everything. Just act confident, and if the chick knows you are a virgin she will understand it will get better and better. If you have casual sex, lie and say you aren't a virgin. Be confident, and she'll be none the wiser. Be honest if you are actually going out with someone. Don't worry matey, it wouldn't turn me off you.
9655
YES!!!. You ARE still considered a virgin...That's like saying "I wear tampons, & my hymen broke, so I'm no longer a virgin"....Until you have actual sexual intercourse, you're still a virgin!! :)
271197
oh dear....no it wont "de-virginize" you...:)  you wont bleed any more when you put it in, as you are when you NEED to put it in.  Any girl can wear a tampon, just make sure you put it in all the way, or else it wont be at all comfortable...anymore ?s about it you can email me or add on to your question above.
929567
go to the adult toy store where you bought the "vagina"\n\nthere is "toy cleaner" that you can buy. "toy cleaner" comes in different solutions for different materials (latex, vinyl, plastic, etc.)\n\nhave fun!
569107
Try not having sex with anyone until you feel better about your body.  Use lotion made for stretch marks.
745356
I assume you're having trouble inserting it properly.  I had similar problems when I was young.  I'm not entirely sure if it was my hymen (it's possible) or the position I was using when I was inserting it.  The position for insertion that finally worked was squatting.  I had been sitting down, and found that kind of squashed things down a bit.  Try squatting and relaxing your muscles by breathing into your lower back.  If you're using a plastic applicator tampon (probably the best for beginners, but terrible for the environment) wet the end to get things started, or use some KY jelly.  No vaseline, that's bad stuff.
85294
Your male partner is obviously doing it wrong.  Virgins have a layer of skin that protects the vagina called the heimin.  The pain and pressure you are feeling is from the penis pushing on it.  One of the resons it hurts so much is that you are not relaxed enough... and because you are not ready to give away your virginity.  Another reason is you may not be wet enough and the penis is just ripping you inside.  You should just wait to be married first, this way you know it is right for you and you will be able to concentrate on the act of making love.  Oh, and the heimin will be much thinner due to the fact your body will have produced the proper fluids to help disolve it.
751889
Do what feels comfortable to you and him.  Take your time and work up to it.  He should spend time with foreplay so you will be wet and lubricated and/or use a lubricating jelly such as KY Jelly.  He should work in slowly the first time.  It may or may not seem a little uncomfortable, but if you relax your muscles in that area, it will be easier.\n\nIf your hymen has not broken, since you are a virgin, there is likely to be a little blood.  Do not worry about that.  It's normal for a virgin because of the hymen breaking.  Sometimes it is broken anyway because of sports, etc. and you won't bleed.\n\nAnother young gal once asked me what it would be like.  I told her that I had seen how her intended looked at her and he adored her. I knew that he would be gentle and loving and she would be just fine.  When she came back from the honeymoon, we had a little reception for them.  She took me aside and said, "You know that little conversation we had?"  I said, "Yes...."   And she gave me the hand gesture that meant everything was wonderful, with a big smile on her face and a wink.\n\nIf your intended loves you, it will be just fine.  Relax and enjoy becoming one.\n\nBest Wishes for your future as man and wife.  God Bless!\n\nSue
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
118007
Do anything that feels good, whether a dildo, vibrator, finger or whatever.  Being a virgin is not having sex with a male. The revered hymen that is talked about seldom remains after 18 due to sports or other activities. Self pleasure does not mean you are no longer a virgin.
743562
You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
241711
I am still a virgin but hope for the lucky lady
1001685
get urself realy worked up like to the point were u would hump a table leg insert ur middle finger in ur vagina about  3 quarters of an inch u should feel a spongy spot that feels like the soft spot on the roof of ur mouth thats ur g spot rub that for a while and that should do the trick