I practice safe sex except for oral, sucking a condom makes a baloon, how at risk am I to swallow cum?
357120
One of the infections that is on the sharpest increase is oral STD's--gonnorrhea and chlamydia especially. If you're are a monogomist and he is as well, and you both are free, then you don't have to worry. Other than that I would stick to the flavoured condoms.
1146389
No it is not safe...\nAnal sex is penetration of the anus by a penis (or finger or other stuff). There are a lot of nerve endings in and around the anus and many people find the stimulation of this area pleasurable. It can also be very painful - the anus is not as elastic as the vagina, and the anal sphincter responds to initial penetration by contracting. It is important to go slowly and wait until you are relaxed. You should also use lubrication such as saliva, vaginal secretions or a water based lube (water based will not deteriorate a latex condom). If your partner tries to penetrate you before you are ready, you risk tearing the anal tissue and bleeding which makes disease transmission more likely.\n\nIf you and your partner are going to engage in anal sex you should be aware that anal bacteria can cause serious vaginal infections and cystitis. It is imperative that your partner wears a condom and replaces the condom and/or washes his fingers thoroughly before he enters your vagina after anal intercourse. Also, if you use your tongue, cover the area with a dental dam or some kitchen plastic wrap or you run the risk of a stomach infection or a sexually transmitted disease (STD).\n\nAnal sex is considered a high-risk behavior for HIV and other STD transmission.\n\nThe delicate tissue in the rectum is prone to small tears that make entryway for the AIDS virus. Latex barriers (condoms, gloves) and lots of water-based lube, to ensure the condom does not break, are essential.
1093916
You CAN get pregnant by french kissing ... unless one of the participants wears a condom on their tongue.
65937
Get a v*brator... and save yourself from the "real thing" at least for now. You shouldn't have sex if you dont have more than 1 way to protect yourself. Are you on birth control? If you aren't... you better hope you have good luck, because you will end up pregnant. It isn't worth it, plus that "silver bullet" can do alot more than that eighth grade "horn dog".
428465
I would never risk it. Wear a condom. There are plenty of flavored condoms out there that are made just for oral sex.These condoms are different than regular condoms and dont have the nasty condom taste. You can get regular condoms that are flavored but I would recommend for oral sex using the ones made for it.  \n\nAlso why do you think they invented the dental dam for men to use while performing oral sex on women. Because that risk is there. So always protect your self.
688764
I get it.  You're gay so my answer probably wouldn't be very helpful because it is from a hetero point of view.  If your partner is a gay male, then there most likely wouldn't be any problem with a kiss immediately after.\n\n------------------------------------------------\n\nI don't.  Some men do.  I have no problems kissing after if she will brush her teeth or rinse and gargle.  I would do the same after fellatio, unless the girl doesn't seem to mind.  \nAlso, I love going down on a girl before sex, but not after.  The thought of those little spermy's in my mouth makes me gag, even if they're mine.\nI'd suggest you don't make a big deal about offering to rinse and gargle immediately afterwards, and see what the guy says.  Some guys don't mind, others do.  The guy would really appreciate having a choice and not feeling like a heel if he wants you to.  He'll definitely ask you back, either way.\nIf it is a big deal to you that you kiss immediately after, then you won't have any problem finding a guy who doesn't mind, so be patient.\n\nPS - It would probably be a good idea to rinse afterwards from a strictly hygienic point of view.
450355
Condoms are a safe bet, but there's always a risk.  Still, better to use one than not!
610023
I see a lot of different answers, some a common theme.\n\nHIV is caught primarily through the blood of an infected person with the HIV virus going directly into the bloodstream of a person who is not infected. Therefore, oral sex.... minimal risk. I say minimal because the virus is destroyed if it goes into the stomach however if there are open cuts/sores/ulcers in the mouth and there is blood contact, there is a small chance. SMALL.\n\nRegarding the condom breaking - again there needs to be direct fluid transfer into the bloodstream. Depending on how rough the sex is, there could be abrasions/ raw areas in either the vagina or anal area that may act as a transmission area. \n\nAll the transmission rates are dependent on the person who has HIV though. If their viral load ( the amount of virus in their bloodstream) is low... then again, risk is SMALL. Note please that I do not use the words... NO RISK
624525
Definitely, I know of someone right now that contracted HIV from oral sex. Condom is the only safer way to go.
375610
What do you mean? Oral? Always use protection! Just be safe
887646
No you shouldn't. It could cause you to have blood clots in your system and that's never a good thing. Discuss this with your doctor and please don't self medicate yourself. If  you want to be doubly sure of not getting pregnant or avoiding STDs then just use condoms.
961823
Flavors for condoms is to make oral sex more pleasurable.  It's considered "safe sex" or take s the place of a dental dam when giving a male oral sex.  However, another option to try is have the male slip on the flavored condom over his penis -- insert in your vagina then have him perform oral sex on you -- makes it pleasurable for both.
547796
Yes, there are risks involved, as with any sexual act where blood, semen, or vaginal secretions have the potential to enter your bloodstream.  Everyone has minute fisures on their gums where there can be transferrance of these fluids into your blood stream.  Oral sex is considered to have a much lower risk factor than vaginal or anal sex without protection.  If you want to lessen this risk, don't brush your teeth for at least six hours prior to doing this act.  But don't bet on getting a second date...\n\nI'm sure that many will find this hard to believe (see supporting documentation below) but your risk lessens if you swallow quickly rather than letting it remain in your mouth or spitting it out where it passes past your gums again.
721098
first you should see a doctor if you havent done so yet and ask your doctor can u pass it to him and honey you shouldnt be having sex without a condom it just not safe cause he might have something. so just use protection so you dont get yourself into anymore trouble be safe.
358640
Buy some anal lube.  The worst thing that can happen is a gang bang without lubrication.  I mean, 10 or 12 dry humps can really trash your rectum.\n\nOh, and no jay-walking.
92556
The risk of becoming infected with HIV through unprotected (without a condom) oral sex is lower than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex. However, a lower-risk activity will increase in risk when it is done often enough. The Options Project found that 7.8% (8 of 102) of recently infected men who have sex with men in San Francisco were probably infected through oral sex. Nearly half (3 of 8) of these cases reported oral problems, including occasional bleeding gums. Almost all (7 of 8) of these men reported to have had oral contact with pre-semen or semen.\n\nThe risk of oral sex transmission (8%) in this study is higher than many researchers had previously thought or found in other studies. More media attention appeared to be placed on this particular study, probably because of the higher number of study participants. There appears to be evidence that higher-risk activities (anal sex) among men who have sex with men is decreasing while lower-risk activities (oral sex) among these men is increasing. Oral sex has always been considered a lower-risk activity but is certainly not risk free.
857753
You must take precautions when you go down on anything!  Have fun! :)