I love this guy but he is older than me I love him but i  to scared to tell him should i?
373405
Hey, it depends. how much older is he? and is he mature? or is he a looser? honestly i say go with your feelings, telll him that you love him because u can't hold inside forever or you'll burst.  Maybe he'll say he likes you to and maybe not.  Whatever happens happens. just go for it girl! i did. and i've got the love of my life now. he's only 4 years older than me, but we're in hs so its pretty big difference, and we're getting made fun of and lied about. but it dosn't matter. he's so amazing.
735421
well im the same age and i do all that stuff with my bf.. and no one thinks that it is weird.. and ppl dont say that we're too young. and just tell him you love him randomly when he makes you laugh or something.. it will be hard at first but after you get used to hugging and holding hands, u wil be doing it alot! trust me!
845381
You say it is someone you think you are going to have sex with and not someone that you love. Relationships with age differences can work, but they are more difficult to make work and require a loving relationship. Since you didn't mention love, I don't think he is too old, I think you are too young.
862211
Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck
1080030
you are to young for this man you need to wait\nIt is also illegal\nplease dont put him in jeopardy if you love him wait\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
471395
Life is so short and we have such little time.  If you dont tell him how you feel you will always wonder what might have been.  You will kick yourself in the butt forever over it.  Take the chance on love!  ALWAYS TAKE THE CHANCE ON LOVE!  Its so well worth it once you do find it!  Hang on tight!!!!!!  Go to him and tell him how u feel!  He may still feel the same way about you but just as terrified to say it!  Good luck to u!
347613
I will never say that you dont love him. He might truly mean the world to you. But you have to look out for your best interest. You are 13 years old and have a lot of great experiences and 'firsts' ahead of you--homecomings, proms, driving, more dates, making captain of a school team-- i wouldn't limit yourself to one guy who is past all these life changing events. I also dont think that it is healthy that he is in jail already. He might bring you down with him one day.  My only suggestion is to be his friend.  That way you can still care about him as much as you want, but you also have the ability to go out and do what you want. There are going to be so many guys in your life throughout high school.  I am sure that you are ready to handle an adult relationship, but I would have as much fun until you absolutely have too. I was tied up with one long relationship after another. And now I am 23 looking back and wishing that I had given myself the chance to go off and have fun.  So, be his friend, and if later on in life, you are still in love with him, then make the commitment to each other.
169753
Yes, if you like him and are interested in him you should ask him out. Remember, age does'nt matter when you like someone. Anyways, it's not like he's 4 years younger than you.Also remember that there is no age in likeing someone or when you fall in love.
392592
I would just take it slow.  He still has time to grow and learn about life.  Maybe he really would like to do that with you.  Some guys are more ready than others. Just take it slow so u dont get crushed.   The age thing is not a huge deal.  Really you are not that much older than he is.  He could be serious.  Just realize that he is not established yet.  If you are and are comfortable with that, then go for it!!!!
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
682461
Yes!  if u really love this guy then tell him u love him.  U never know what will happen unless u tell him.  I hope you two will be happy together.  That is if u decide to get together.
349561
There is nothing to do. Don't make the mistake and tell him that you love him if you don't. You might not love him now but, whose to say that you won't love him in the future? You might not love him but, you obviously have feelings for him because you are with him. Give it time love doesn't always happen instantly, it takes time. Don't force yourself to feel something that is not there.
787076
Don't rush right out and tell him your in love with him.  If he don't feel the same why he may get scared and run.  Just think how you would feel then.
58319
There is truthfully a one in a million chance that he actually loves you. Just cause of your age. Don't let your lonliness blind you. Just be careful! I hope it does work out though. True love isn't something to can find everyday!
1037427
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
719485
Well, if you love him back, you should start a relationship. If not, just tell him you don't want things to get weird.
960824
age is nothing but a number and your family should love you know matter what. If that's the man that you love then go for it. explain how you really fell about him and if all else fells just go for it you always have to follow your heart