Do more ladies prefer a "strong" spoken, "authoritive" man or "soft" spoken, demure man
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I like strong and ended up with a soft spoken. I wish sometimes that he wasn't
505710
I think so, but i tend to like men who are shy over an agressive man. I think shy is sexy.
973719
I like guys to be sensitive but not wimpy!!\nI also like guys to be tough and not cry at chick flicks!!\n\nGood enuff answer!!
633295
The amount varies with the woman. Most women love that a man can be skilled at good conversation, and love that a man can be poetic. However, that alone is usually not all that a woman wants in a man. Women generally want a man who can do that, and be a "man" besides. By that I mean he can be strong, physically and/or emotionally, one that can take care of himself, and her and her children. One that can be trusted, depended upon for support, both financial and emotional. One that can be kind, generous, wise and fit. But to find a man that can be all that, and that has good communication skills, and a poetic nature? Wow! That is an awesome combination. That is the kind of guy a woman could see sitting down with their daughter, playing barbies, and being happy doing so. But he could also go play football with their son, or talk with her about the world situation, the neighbors problems, or the beauty in just a single leaf or rain drop. That, in other words, is the best kind of man. A well rounded, intelligent, strong, independent, kind, fun man. So, generally speaking, women are quite highly enamored of men with those abilities.
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Well since we have both, I'm not sure why you are asking girls this question.  Now I like a nice (edited for content) on a man, and a nice set of (edited for content) on a women.
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Some guys do, but most of them appreciate when you tell them how you feel in words.\n\nPersonally I think that's because most men don't like to read and also written words can be interpreted other ways. Spoke words can give a feel to what you are trying to say!\n\nThat's what I think, but I may be right....
828374
Stronger, I am a very strong personality. If I have a weak man, I would run all over him. God bless*
103633
YES, as a man we do like bold take charge women. and he may be asking himself the same question.
687327
I don't know why so many men think that resorting to physical force or violence makes them appear more of a man.  In reality, a woman wants a man who has the ability to control himself.  Men who have to use physical force to get what they want are ultimately insecure.
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Both. And if they say they're more interested in personality than physical appearance they are lying.  I do believe the physical appearance will attract them first but the personality may keep them there. I certainly know many men that are with a woman because of her personality and still long for and want the woman that is beautiful.  They marry one kind and want the other.
961166
not always.  I prefer men that aren't as attractive.  They are all-around much better boyfriends.
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Because it is one of the primary choices for guys, we each pick one of the following\n\nA) creepy\nB) wimpy\nC) macho\nD) sensitive (see B)\nE) athletic (see C)\nF) intelligent (who are you kidding)\n\nWell, its just easier to pick A)
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The one which is best is "both". What I mean is that a nice sweet girl who can have attitude is cool........but control and knowing when and where to be either sweet or full of attitude is the key......Men like when who know themselves and what they want....They like the sweet girl....and they like the attitude of a strong challenging woman.....if combined right and used in concert with other qualities you can hook just about any man
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Asking is sometimes nice but to have a man read my body language is excellent.... Woman are so obvious sometimes.. Our body language and conversation and facial expressions can tell you exactlly what we want... You just have to be able to read and listen for the signs...
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WOMEN ARE MORE OPEN TO EXPRESSING THEMSELVES THAN MEN
812845
Goodness no.  I think that sometimes men DON'T WANT women to be as smart as they are - but I'm not going to act stupid for anybody.  I WILL acknowledge when my man does or says something smart - but I won't pretend to be less intelligent than I am.  That would be too hard.
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I prefer average. I like a man to just be nice and regular and sweet.