I have feelings 4 my m8 that i dont want she a girl im a girl how could i get over her HELP!?
366356
Sorry, I'm not an expert in that area of human mischief.
36421
Just tell her you appreciate her feelings but unfortunately you do not feel the same way.  Treat her like you would want to be treated if the roles were reversed
105357
She must feel strongly about it. Sorry. My advice is, accept her decision and start looking in a different direction. The more time you are wasting on her, the more time it will take you to find the right girl. So, stop now, and somebody who is better for you would come along.\nHope that helps.
981516
sorry 2 be the one to break u the bad news but honestly dont get 2 attached to a girl w/ a b/f..he mite find out n ur gonna end up in bigger confusion then u are already in now...
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
65544
hey girl if ur are her best friend she don't want this from u it dosn't matter if she has boy and u don't the thing is try give more time to ur friend ship talk to ur girl hang with her like always and try to find some thing u can do not to be lonly when she is not around i been there honey and i think the problem start when they don't have time for ur frindship so try to make time for each other
524580
hey there, i went through this too....  me being a girl can put myself in her shoes and imagine the situation!!\nso, i think you must go & talk to her &ask her if shes interested in you!!\n    if shes not, DONT go behind her she will hate you more\nyou could also talk to her friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..........
1114158
well i dont really now whats going on with this whole story but i know that feeling and my advice is that if its not completly over call her! but if it is go see one of your friends and make shure they feel like talking... good luck!!
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
1074389
Tell him pranctly ur feeling for u ... Just my suggestions \nOr maybe by coming close to him .. And observe what is his attitudes towards a girl .
994504
ooooooo bad problem you got there. i would just forget the woman and pretend you arn't gay. nah sorry that isn't very good advice. but the thing is do not get into a relation ship with the woman or any woman. if you really are gay and you are not happy in your relationship with your partner then i would let him down gently that you do not love him any more and you might think that you are gay. you never know he might be able to help you. no.....actually he might take it the wrong way. i seriously do not know. i am only 15 so don't listen to me. maby if you have family around you you could maby get some advice of them. they should be supportive to you. i really hope you work things out in time. best wishes and good luck. x
742282
just go up to her and say hey i think you're cool and i would like to get to know you better would you like to go out some time.\nthe worst she can do is say no and then at least you will know how she feels and you will be able to get over it.\n\nor if that doesn't work for you, then you can invite her out in a group situation that will take some of the preassure off of you.\ngood luck
666249
Go for what you feel...Don't be stuck with what if, and when you are at college, I bet you will still think of her.  That tends to ruin how you view other girls.  I think you will gain the knowledge of what she feels, and that is powerful knowledge.  Good luck, and never give up!
392509
Just tell her that.  Tell her that you really care about her and that you're afraid that he will hurt her because you have a bad feeling about the guy.  You could make up something too... like, say that he talks trash about girls after he sleeps with them or something. Good luck.
631498
heyy buddy!\n\nyou need to have some confidence! Whatever your'e feeling let it loose.\nTell her you think shes an awesome girl and that you would love to hang out sometime. Dont be toooo straight forward cuz at 13 she might get a little scared but make her feel comfortable.
489671
Honestly I am a female and i will give u advice. The thing tthat u should do is relax, take a deep breath and think over.Just by looking her u feel good but also u have words that wont come out the right way. when u see her face again u should stop her and get to know her first. find out what she likes to do and you'll find your way in, meaning your time will come so u can express your feeling or any special thing u feek for her. just give it a try but one thing never rush a female.take nice and slow and easy. if u need advice talk to me i will help u cuz i am a girl that been through experience like that and i didnt know what to do until i found my way. try!!
1095466
If she only calls you every now and then, you might try to understand what a BOY TOY is. Unfortunately there are people in the world that can not be honest. If you have spent a lot of time with this person and they won't be honest about their feelings. Your waiting for a crash course in having your feelings hurt......\nShe may not feel the same way. You can only respect her for that. If she isn't WOMAN enough to communicate her feelings to you, you might want to consider reevaluating why you are spending time with this person.\nYour emotions are to valuable to have someone take advantage of them.\nDon't you want to be friends with someone you can trust to be honest with you and not waste your TIME?