I really Like my friend, but he likes my non-blood sister Allie, what should I do?
361718
Aww, Babygirl.. You kno I love you, and I would never do anything to hurt you! its ohkay my love, dont cry over RJ! hes just a boy, sissie, I'll love you more than anything, and I would never ever ever ever do anything to hurt you! and you know that! ;) <3
551556
hmm.. scary situation! do you like here?  if you do, better make it clear to your dad and your mom that you like her.  If you don't like your step sister, then better tell her to back off.  Having a sexual relationship with her won't do all of you anything good.  Plenty of girls out there... Get out of your house!  Bring other girls back! Date! Date! Date! Take your mind off her! Get out before it's too late! She's not worth it! Plenty of fishes in the ocean!
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
1020832
It is normal to have differences.... this is call sibling rivalry.\nI know my sister and I have gone though times that we haven't spoken to each other also. I have learnt over the years to accept where the other person is at and let them own it. It is their experience not yours so you really don't have to agree. Just realizing that you can still like or love someone with different opinions is ok. It doesn't mean you have to agree with them or even change their mind. I believe if you are going thourgh different experiences that's ok. You still have your fond memories of your sister and no one can take that a way from you ,not even your sister. I hope all works out well!!
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)
559854
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
287223
stop trying to convince yourself, ok you did what you did before but still that is your sister. if you want to give him booty go ahead. cause you probably will anyway. you are still sprung girl you gotta shake it off. he is only a man or boy. spend time with yourself get your mind right .go out meet new people.
495535
you should tell him maybe he feels the same way too. I told my guy friend i liked him and now i am marreid with twins on the way. you never know unless you tell him who knows maybe he is your destiny and keeping this from him can change your faith.
578814
It doesn't matter.  Tell you sister, "Damn, I can believe she's actually going out with him (your friend).  I didn't think it would bother me, but I guess I do like her more than I thought.  Think you can help me out with her sis?"\n\nEven if your sister tells everyone, at least she'll know you like her.  On the other hand, your sister might actually help you.  Girls like to hook up their friends, it's like their version of frequent flyer miles, when they get older they cash in the points for favors.\n\nAnyway, if you don't go this route, wait until you friend has his date with her, if it goes well, you're screwed, but if it doesn't then next time you talk to her tell her, "Hey, I heard the date didn't go so well.  I don't wanna sound rude, but I'm actually kind of happy about it."  She'll ask why and then you say, "Well, because I think my sister might have a brother who really likes you."\n\nAfter she laughs and you two make out, give her her bra back and ask her out on a date.  Now make sure your sister makes new friends that are hot and you'll never run out of dates!
228926
well i think you should honor your friendship and not go out with him because she probably think that the only reason you come over is because of her brother and friendship is more important so you shouldn't try anything unlesss you want to lose your friend.
386878
i am all for the "find a better guy and make him jealous" thing, but it puts you in a pickle with him being your brothers friend, and if you do anything to upset this guy your brother might get ticked off at you.(because that is how men are) i suggest talking to your brother and finding out what the deal is whether or not this dude is in to you or if he is slow-playin. then i would tell him (brother) that this dude really upset you because of the way he treated you. and if your lucky your brother just might have one of those "rules for dating my sister" talks with the dude.
923779
Peace in the home is so important.  Try to find a way to get along with them.  Perhaps use a counselor.  Maybe, if you give it a chance, you can actually become close and enjoy a relationship with them as sisters.  Good luck.  I'm sure there's a lot more to this story than is presented here.
1014827
I wouldn't try to hurt her by giving her two choices but I'm afraid that's how it would have to be. She can either be with your brother or your cousin. If she stills wants both as yoou caring for you brother its your job to protect him and not let a girl hurt him in anyway so you will come to a hard decision and sacrifice because it might be your friendship vs. your brothers trust and love. If you don't like that way just let your friend find out the hard way whatever game you may play will always be used on you the other way.
559955
She is JUST your step-sister.  It sounds like you're both consenting ADULTS.  Sheesh, these idiots who say/think you're blood related or it is against the law, OMG!!!  There is NO blood relation in step-sister/step-brother.  Two people who aren't related get married and their kids are step-brother/sister.  What fools!!!  I say go for it!!  Life is short!!  You might regret it later if you don't!!  Good luck.
611733
Ask your friend if he's OK with you dating his sister, then ask her out (if he is OK with it - otherwise I don't know).
1102068
if ure boy friend dosen't pay most attention to u and does to ure sister.  like if he does stuuf like help her or do stuff for her then u maybe he is into her.  it will be pretty obvious though.  but if he does like ure sister don't go between them b/c stuff always happen when people do that.
574353
i think it is a very bad idea to go after her bf because she is your sister and that could ruin your relationship with her. but say something like how are u 2 how do u feel about eachother see if u can somehow get thru to her that shes not treating him well