whats a good way to get someone who let your son die?
365652
Forgiveness.\n\nWhat comes around, goes around and God DOES serve justice to those who hurt others.\n\nOne of my best friends died because the people who were with her did not get her help because they were afraid of getting in trouble as well.  It is something that I've struggled with for years.  The only thing you can really do is accept the reality of the situation and put God in control of your emotions.\n\nLetting go of hate is hard, and believe me, revenge seems like the best way to make those feelings go away.  Unfortunately, there's nothing you can possibly do that could hurt the person as much as they've hurt you.  Just take solace in the fact that this person has to live with the guilt of allowing someone to die because they were too scared about their own well-being than to help them.
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Oh Lord.  First of all, you make it NOT AN OPTION!!!\n\nHoney, you're a parent not an advisor.  You tell him that he is getting help, period.  I don't care whether he wants it or not.\n\nIf a casual approach is taken with children because parents either 1-are afraid to discipline 2-are afraid to parent and just want to be their kids friend, You're going to have problems.\n\nParents have to parent and no parent wants to hear it but I don't care, it's a parent's responsibility.\n\nNow step up and tell your son that he's getting help and make an apointment with someone right away, unless  you want to plan a funeral.
124705
I know it might be hard. Depending on the part he had played in her death. I am not saying let him be apart of his family. But did you ever think that he might be sorry for what he did? All I could say is give him sometime. You don't have to have him back right then and there.Not to get all religous on you but just remeber the saying "WWJD" What Would Jesus Do? He fogave the very same people who had killed him. Just try to keep that in mind.\n  I hope this all works out for you, and I am sorry for you mother's death.
6949
BE WITH HIM FOR ALLTHE TIME AND HELP HIM TO THE XTENT U CAN, THIS IS MOST HEARTY REVENGE U CAN TAKE, HE FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT HE DONE TO U
1116158
dont try 2 get ppl back b the adult and 4-get about him walk away and everthing will b good :)
396064
death is an easy way out for that.  they need to be put in a room with real parents and let use take care of them.  they would wish for death when i got done with them.
1079367
Call the police and turn yourself in, you're going to get caught, there's no way you can win! Your parent's will cry and wish you good-bye as you zoom through the gate of the prison, All you can do is hope that the lou is deep enough to drown yourself in! If that doesn't work, you'll surely find work, there is plenty of murder for hire. And if nothing works out, don't scream nor shout, just remember you burn in Hell's fire. Have a nice day.
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YOu don't have to be mean or you will scare them AWAY and may pushed to do more. Sit down and have a talk with him. Many people turns to drugs and alcohol when they are having trouble communicating their problems with family. They hang out with peers who are doing the same thing - drugs and some commit a crime or two. This is very sad but is true to most people. When you do the conversation, be sincere and firm. Offer help. They may need somebody to listen to. A shoulder to cry on. Make yourself available for your son and be his friend. The effect of such thing is only temporary but having self-respect last forever.\n\nI personally made someone QUIT smoking weed. He had done it since 13 yrs old, now he is in his 30's (but was 27 when he stopped). The sincerity of your  voice and being true to what you said to him is the key. When you say you will be there for him, be there for him. No need to yell, scream, ground or whatever punishment is there. COMMUNICATE with him!
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I say let the parents Kill him (or the child).  Their method of choice.\n\nMinimum, physical castration (penis and all).  He can use a catheter for the rest of his life, I don't care.  And NEVER let them into society again. \n\nIt would be cheaper to kill them than to house them...\n\nHere's what I would do if given the chance (continuously torture him until his body gives out. I call it Therapy.); \nLet Bubba have his 'way' with them first.  Then peel off all the guys skin, pour honey on him, and stake him over an ant hill....staple his eyes open too so they dry out. Starve him... Pull his fingernails off with pliers...the beat the SOB with a baseball bat (break some ribs, hit him in the kidneys).  Leave him to cook in the hot hot sun until he blisters...Poke his skinless body with a fondue fork...OH! Put salt and lemon juice on him....Break his nose and fingers...Snip his toes off with a pair of wire cutters...\n\n(I could go on and on. I really hate people who rape/molest women/children. It p*sses me off something fierce!)\n\nChildren that are victomized will never be the same again. It causes all sorts of life long problems that cannot be fixed.
50328
just say try to get away if that does not work and he try's to grab you hmm hit him and try to get away and ran as fats as you can to the nearst person that could help you and yell help.
467524
Do the honorable thing.  Apoligize and confess about lying, resign, then spend the remainder of his life making restitution to those whose lives and families he's destroyed with his self-serving irresponibility.
510973
just plop his carcass in a wooden coffin..then bury him in a potter's field..with a piece of wood as a marker
69003
Ask a local church for counseling and to be saved, that way, if he kills you, at least you'll have saved and can reload from the last checkpoint.\n\n\nSearch answers.google.com for the keyword "divorce". THis place is full of f*cking kids.
876797
kill him slowly and painfully. make the bastard suffer a million times the torture he inflicted to other people. hang him publucly and use him as a pinata.
238714
you would have to use the fathers parents or dig up the body. so i think the first one is ur best bet
190565
play along and catch him in the act,otherwise he will deny it till his dying days. they all do!! then confront him and leave him.
579953
You can't since you already plead guilty with a plea bargain. They wont listen to you anyway since he has violated probation. Your sons problem is that he looks more guilty by violating his probation. A violation to a judge is like telling him to go and screw himself. I suggest that you put him in a halfway house, and send him to treatment if you want any leniency at all. The people there can get the charges dropped, you can't as a parent. It is a conflict of interest to a court. The court could see you as part of the problem, and not a solution. That is the way the system works today, and there isn't any way around it.