how arousing is a hug to a guy?
374845
It really depends on who the hug is coming from and if you have any interest in the girl giving the hug.
616748
Sometimes people are just friendly. Its possible he may be interested in you romantically. But its likely too that he just likes you as a friend and likes to hug people. I know I'm a hug person. I like hugging people and I like being hugged. It rarely has anything to do with romantic interest.\n\nAnd there is always the possiblity that the dude is just weird.
551793
Nah, you don't have a problem. Guys are supposed to do this. Unless you actually go up to them and try to touch them, then you are fine. Also don't get caught staring at them. We find that offensive.
885906
I want a hug, pick me!
897977
Lol.  Being a guy myself, girl, I can tell you.  If you are ready and comfortable with your guy, there is NO way to go wrong.  Unzip, unbutton, whatever.  Try over his pants or shorts first if you don't wanna seem too eager.
1148598
a hug is a gesture of trust. it closes the gap of personal space between two people.  it creates a feeling of well being and over all safety.\n\nit is taught to humans at a young age to be a symbol of goodness, and love.  It makes you feel safe, and it creates a bond.
1047791
It's perfectly okay. Touch and explore. It feels nice. It's all part of being a being on this earth. Some people have more desire than others to touch. As long as they are yours do whatever you like with them.
267239
well it depends on the guy and if u r doing it with someone you like or not. it depends on how he makes u feel.
964066
I like hugging, if it's a close friend, or family, or a lover, and also if someone's upset and needs comfort. But other than those situations, I think it's unnecessary and a bit false - like those Hollywood types who kiss each other on the cheek when they barely know each other.\nA hug should mean something - it should mean I like you, or I care about you. If it means nothing, it's ridiculous - we should all have our personal space!
909525
It's rediculous to censor your hug for other people.  It's also rediculous to measure how close to someone you are when you hug them and how much of them you touch.  If you want to hug someone, just do it.
541764
i answered a similiar kind of question earlier. guys and romance, depends all on the guys mood and time and place. but, what u can do is, back off totally from the romance. no holding hands, no touchin eachother, less make out sessions, basically just show him a dry spell :P and then just to amplify the dry spell, touch him in an erotic way, let him brush against u, and then just back off completely. dont do things, that u would normally do, in a romantic mood. this will make him take a romantic approach, and i think this should do it.
114859
here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
735576
All you need to do is next time you two run into each other instead of just stopping and talking out stretch your arms, wrap them around the other persons back with a little not too tight squeeze and go for it. If they don't want to be hugged they'll take a step or two back away from you. The hug should be (because it's the first time and your unsure if they want really want it) short and sweet. Sometimes people will let you hug them to keep from hurting your feelings so next time you see them and want to hug try and read their body language. If they back or or become frigid you know that's not what they want.
738090
hugs, be nice to him and flirt.
38353
When I like a guy I sometimes call him for no reason.  Just to see what he is up to.  I touch and hug more often.  (touch arms, shoulders, legs, etc.)  Hang out with him more than usual.
898764
lol aww you're cute.  YES do hug him.  He might be thinking the same thing as you are, and wants to hug you too... hehe so cute
282308
Look don't come onto him. If he's a good guy he won't want you to kiss him or have sex. All you need to do is sometimes hold his hand when you sit together and give him a quick hug every one in a while. Trust me. I'm a guy and that is great.