just curious, how many people here are divorced or planing to get one?
374749
Never, I took my vows seriously, unfortunately not too many people do anymore, divorce is a cop out..
1120060
I am male, 55, and I think it's a great idea. There are a lot of singles on here, both male and female. Most of them are wonderful people too. Some send you e-mails telling you they appreciate the advice, and are almost like family. Great place to make new friends, and possibly more. Who knows?
323156
Been married 7 1/2 years and have had 2 kids. Still got it goin' on! Takes more of an effort than before the kids though!
666855
I don't know if that's true...it's more of a case by case basis.  For example, I remarried shortly after divorcing, and my ex is still single 12 years later.  It is harder for women who have children to find men who are willing to accept them as package deals, though.
59035
Your best bet is to talk to an Atty. I also think there is a default time limit to contest the divorce. An atty. can give you better direction then I could.
1020386
I will have to call my ex-wife and see how she did it and i will get back to you. I kind of suspect that marriage will do it in most cases though.
219686
I lived with mine for 13 years before marriage. Been happily married since. :o)
824852
Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.
727792
Add me to the list! They will be divorced in 2 years anyway!
1038088
i think ur kidding... and y is this in the marriage and divorce section anyway? ok then....15
781525
No, but I would be interested in getting one.\nb
728243
I was watching a top divorce lawyer on the wright stuff this morning!!!\n\nWell a woman called in and she asked,"would she be entitled to anything, she lived with her partner for "9 YEARS" and had a young child with him and the answer to that was "NO"\n\nYou will have to pay for the child of course.
1002425
Different strokes for different folks. My guy and I are as opposite as they come. We been married 13 years with four children. I hope you are as  lucky hun
464203
Hey, you know, I am kind of in the same boat as you are, except for I have pretty much gone through having to hear my ex-husband cry to me every single time that I spoke with him to let me know how much is missed me.  I have two young boys with him, and believe me, it has been really hard, but thanks to my dear boyfriend who I now love a lot I have made it through.  I have been thinking about living with my boyfriend too, as my divorce will be in June, but it seems like I can't wait that long.  I don't know, but I just know that women seem to want things done much quicker and we don't like to wait to get what we want.  I would say to do what your heart tells you to do.
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I guess it depends on the stage of one's life.  I am having a hard time accepting that my husband wants to seperate and probably divorce and I think I need him more.  It is pretty obvious to me that he does not need me otherwise he would not be able to ask for this.
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I am. my wife is also.
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I was divorced & remarried after 3 years. \nI have now been remarried for 26 happy years. \nA marriage has to be worked at. \nThere are always going to be bad times but the trick is to work through them together & to support each other.