my bf is away for the first time and i dont know wat to do!!!!?
367067
Whew! I pity your boyfriend if you are so needy and clingy that you can't deal with a single long weekend. You sound very high maintenance.
277638
I generally have to conclude that you are being CLINGY! Lean back, give him some space, and have a life of your own!
414745
If you really love your bf and you are willing to make the effort to make this relationship work, I would suggest that you go on holiday with them.  Get to know him and his little girl and spend time with them, you would be able to see if he is truly the man for you.  I always thought that long distance relationships never work, until I found myself in the same position.  If you feel that you are going crazy and that your loosing your patience, go for a walk on your own and cool down.  You and only you can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy or not.
616009
oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
418871
Well, to behonest with you, i'd suggest that you just sit back and relax. Who told you that you don't make your boyfriend happy, hm? Was it him? No..\nJust listen to your guts, not to your brains :) And, just in case you should ask yourself if your boyfried loves you or not: well, he's together with you, so why bothering yourself with this additional question :) Stay cool, relax, listen to your heart and never mind making him happy - you'll never know how, if you don't ask him directly :)\nAnd if you both want to 'spice up your life', I guess you don't need any advice, cuz men response directly to one thing - and you certainly know what I mean.\ntc, marifa5970 from Austria/Europe
1120216
WHERE IS HE GOING? COULD HE USE SOMETHING FOR HIS TRIP???\nANYWAY,...A GOING AWAY PARTY??? is HE MOVING???\nTAKE HIM OUT BOWLING WITH THE FIVE OF YOU AND HAVE A "homemade" CAKE BAKED FOR HIM......GUYS LIKE FOOD......AND WORK ON YOUR GOODBYE KISS SO HE REMEMBERS YOU FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER!!!!!!
566469
Be supportive and understanding. He's not on a vacation. Patience is key and there will be times you'll want to speak with him and maybe he won't be able to give you the time you desire.Make what time you do have to speak with him quality time and don't expect quantity time then when you get it, it's a pleasant suprise.Try not to worry him over things he can't control while away. Handle as much as possible on your own. Being with someone in the military is different than other relationships. You play a very important role. You hold down the fort while he has to be gone...I wish you both the best...
887186
talk to him a month isn't that long. the worst thing to do is sweep it under a rug. enjoy the time you will spend with him until then and then you will really enjoy when he comes home. look on the bright side, at least he is not being deployed into war. that would be even worse. take what you can.
1115060
I would wait. Would you want him to wait on you? Six weeks isn't that long. Just while he's gone think about all the times you've had together, and what yall are gonna do when he gets back. Just hang around your girlfriends to make it a lil easier. Go shopping and do girl stuff. Think about him before you go to bed, and until you go to sleep..Do something extravagant before he leaves...Something you won't forget when he's gone, and that will remind you why you're with him. Oh! and he's gonna be around a lot of boyz anyway. believe me, when he gets back he's gonna WANT U! ha ha
126953
Are you sure he is not with someone else? And how bad was the break up. Do you think you can save it?\n\n If you can go to his house let yourself in have the sexest outfit on that you have. Have a great dinner ready a nice fire in the fire place and blanket spead out in front of it. The besy=t back round music going when he shows up meet him with the best make up line you can think of give him the best kiss you have tell him how much he love him.\n\n But if your not sure about the frist questions be perpaired for biggest heart break going. \n\n Good luck
301568
Dont go.It makes it worse. If you dont want to be with him end it.If you go on holiday and you end up falling out its much worse as your alone in a foreign country
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
346954
i totally agree with the fact that u should be appreciated..BUT being away from him isnt solving anything. trust me GO BACK and figure it out. time off doesnt work. the guy gets bored and moves on.. trust me. work with him
390151
well u can tell him to meet somewhere, without c ing u, check on him & decide leave or stay. and go with someone else!its safer & u ll have more fun. just keep in mind that the world is full of psychos.
870101
That is very sad for you. You are grieving, mourning the loss of your boyfriend. It may be that he will only be inside for a short time, do you know this? If it's going to be a long time, you may have to get on with life without him. It's only natural that you feel so bad; you can't concentrate on normal life. your whole time is consumed with missing him . The plan of your lives together has been upset. Try writing to him; it will not only help to clarify things for you, but also might help him cope. Remember, he is probably scared and as lonely as hell too. Talk to someone you trust about it. sharing your loneliness often helps. Take care of yourself.
367360
Mast ur bate; explore you body and enjoy yourself.  Tell you boyfriend about it only when he comes home from the job and not over the phone.  Then you can show him just what you have learnt about your body while he has been away
127835
go hang with you boyfriend (if you have one) how old are you???\n\nif you dont have a boyfriend spend some quality time with your family