For you women.. Do you prfer to be chased or what?
372938
i would wait for u to call... and big time these a days NO chasing!!! girls are into shopping not running and getting sweaty!!!\n\nbut i unlike other girls also LOVE shopping but i also LOVE sports... im a sport-o-holic and a shop-o-holic and most of all a choc-o-holic!!!
995817
I agree. Some people foolishly follow just one or the other. I think most women follow their heart and let their brain watch from a few miles off.... (no offense to any of you women).\nGuys tend to think their in love when they see blonde hair and great T&A across the parking lot. Their heart rarely gets involved in the preliminary stages of things unless they're a virgin....but I won't get into that. LOL.
74517
It's all about the chase. Cut them down to their basest instincts and years of darwinism, Men are the predators and women are the prey because we have something (I won't get specific, I'll let you draw your own conclusions)that they greatly desire. If they are eluded, it makes the desire to attain the unattainable even greater. To keep a man interested, always keep them guessing and never be too available. When they are convinced that the chase is over, they become disinterested and look for something else to pursue.This is just an explanation of the instinct. Not all guys get bored and move on.
492148
I'm not a guy, but I can guarantee you - he prefers YOU doing the chase!  There are just some men who are laid back and the 'turn on' to them is the female chase. There is nothing wrong with that, but based on the information you provided, it seems he is most comfortable with YOU taking this lead. You are not 'hearing him"...you say he ADMITS he is shy about taking the lead. Listen to him. He 'ain't gonna change that much'. You guys really need to talk about this openly and honestly.
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duh, YES! \n\nthat's why men AND women go to clubs, bars, etc.\n\nthey EXPECT to get approached even if they AREN'T looking.\n\nalways try for a bit more than you think you can get- then you'll KNOW.
232528
Why? Are you trying to stalk them?
507986
You are correct, women shouldn't chase men.  One thing that you have to do is be confident and positive, and remember that we don't need a man. Don't get me wrong, it's a wonderful feeling to be with a man, to have someone to love you, to hold you, to make you smile, and so on but you're friends can give you lots of that and even more.  They generally don't break your heart as much as a man does either.\n\nI'm not sure of your age, but go out (age appropriate places) have fun, be confiendent, and it will happen.  It may take time, but you know it's been my experience that the best men are those that come to you when you are least expecting, when you think that you'll be alone forever, then out of the blue you meet this wonderful man that sweeps you off your feet before you can even catch you breath.\n\nGood Luck.
998654
Men do this for the thrill. It makes him feel powerful without taking any risks. If you were single, you might expect a commitment. If you are married, and you respond to his advances, he knows up front that you don't care about your commitments, so why would you care about his? \nAs for the stalker, Next time drive to the police station or call a cop from you cell and have the creep arrested. If he does this to you, he probably does it to other women too.\nIf this is a recurring problem at the gym, talk to the management or change gym's.\nIf this is a recurring problem for you personally, you might want to examine your own behavior and see if you are doing anything to encourage them. It is important to take responsibility for your own behavior too.  :)
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I am guilty of that, the reason I give myself is that when I feel like they are going to leave me I'd rather cut it off to save myself the humiliation of being dumped. Perhaps its the biological chasing game...men seem to be a bit more okay with being rejected than a woman is since men are the ones chasing. I would never want to feel like the fool who needs to be told in her face that she isn't wanted, perhaps women know there are other options readily avaliable and she wouldn't have to start all over cos there'll always be some other man wanting to get in her panties.
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Do u think u'll go fast? if you don't, then follow ur heart. but are u ready to fight for it.
152679
First of all, are you leading her on in any way?  If she is stalking confront her.  Tell her she's freaking you out.
1082588
I'd move out of the way and see what they're running from before I started running myself.  To be more philosophical . . . you can run against the grain, but you might be run over.
513011
not really, i think all men like the chase but want to know that they have a chance at catching you. he needs to know your interested but if he has to chase to hard he will just say F it. the game can get to be a pain in the a$$ so make the game fun
45319
From my view sence I am a guy yes. I like a challange if I am attracted to a woman. But don't like it when they play too hard to get it turns me away. It's like the Trill of the chase. Be playfull about it because when your playfull about it it's like putting a candy bar on the table and telling them not to eat it. But you want to get them settle hints. I love it when a Woman is playfull about then finaly gives in.
495378
Depends on the guy. Some guys do not care. But there are other guys who are old fashioned and want to be the ones to do the courting. Also in some guys mind if you chase them you are desperate and they do not want to have anything to do with girls that seem desperate.
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It's the thrill of the Hunt that drives most men.\n\nIt's like that feeling you get at the beginning of a relationship where everything is new and undiscovered. There's no bigger rush.\n\nIt's a shame men feel they have to lie though. A lot of lasses I know would happily go along with a fun night out and a bit of 'pash' at the end of it. Perhaps it's their fragile egos.
990784
No comment! \nWell, OK, your legs talked me into it! \nI just like a person for who they are in their heart. Women not need to do anything un-natural to their bodies to gain my interest. I just want a person who is real and not lie to me. BUT, I also respect what a person wants for themselves, so, if it what a woman want to do who am I to put her down. I will encourage her and be there as a friend/whatever.\nDavid makes a good point. From his perspective it is a gift from God for those who need it!