How do i get a guy that i see every weekend to not only see me as a friend, but more than that?
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
228146
Try meeting for lunch or dinner every couple days or even just a drink,that will at least give you time to check on eachother and make sure there is still interest. Call him when u get a minute of free time just to say hi. I dont care what any guy says, they like that.
805417
Try saying hi whenever you see him and make as much small talk as you can. Then, when you two know each other well enough, ask him if he wants to go watch a movie some time.
824311
Honey If You Like This Girl Dont Be Her Friend Just Come Rite Out And Asker If If She Would Like To Do Somethin This Weekend And That She Dont Have To Like You Just To Give You A Chance And If She Dont Iam Sure Shes Missin Out On Somethin Great ( ;
150815
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
631296
It actually depends on how you carry and respect yourself first.A guy will like you,would want to spend time with you and maybe want a relationship.However,you will know if this certain person is really into you if his friendship is unconditional!Taking time to get to know someone is not an overnight process,you can not obtain a true friend in a short period of time,be patient and if you want something more than just a friendship the opportunity will present itself...remember,you can't miss what you don't measure.Good luck!
735300
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after work, if he says yes than he is probably interested.  But that way if he says no then you didn't come out with your feelings so he won't act any differently.
193463
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
872625
I am sure if he is that popular that you can find a friend that has his # if not a friend someone who has a friend that knows a friend.... but call him or write him a note and see if he will meet you somewhere to talk. Just be careful he could be a jerk and just go with you to break your heart and make fun of you...Is he that kind of guy?
157768
From a guys view point. I am in the same situation with a lady whom I have been friends with for years. We were both always seeing someone or married now we aren't. I ask my self the same question and after a couple of months of being with her several times a week and talking daily I came to the conclusion that because we are such good friends and know each other good and bad faults that it would make it eaiser to become more than friends. If it doesn't work then you should be able to remain friends after all you started out that way. Lay down some ground rules like what happens if doesn't work. And enjoy yourself we only get the chance to be happy once this could be it for you. I know that I am glad I ask her out as more than a friend. As a good friend of mine told me "Tomorrow is never here and today is gone to quick" \nGOOD LUCK
584488
just chat casually with him, and once you get to know him ask him out. make up an excuse to talk to him. for instance is he plays a sport, say "i saw your game the other day you did really well' or something like that
989739
Well consider the amount of time that you've gotten to know him. Have you been friends long enough to see his true colors?  All that matters is how comfortable you are with him and how much you trust him. If you have a connection that feels like its something special and just cant hold your feelings back then I say go for it!
836627
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
185085
well. u can't really make assumptions based on how nice he is to you. he HAS to be nice since he's your coworker. and alsol being friends might be plenty good enough for him. but, perhaps you are right, let him make the first move. be nice, but don't overdo it.
413156
1.) Make him notice you and get to know him.\n2.) Get close to him so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with his hair, touch his hand, touch him casually in neutral places like his arm, leg, back, etc.\n3.) Tell him you like him.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell him that if he doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.
966243
well you mention two things,  calling every day, and plans ahead of time,,,,,,if he calls you a few times a week, he cares, like you said daily is a overkill,,,,,, also, calling daily doesnt reflect seriousness of emotion, or maturity,,, some who do the constant calling, want to see you every day, are actually less committed to you then others.... also, if you have seen each other a few dozen times in a month and a half, that sounds fine,,, as to making plans ahead of time, yes he should do that, also you can do that,  make plans for something on monday, for the weekend, or this week for next week.  while spur of the minute is ok sometimes, if  a guy cares, he will make plans more in advance..  and not leave it as catch as catch can
530525
tell ur friend that you are interested in him, and that you would like to get to know him better. See her response. but don't forget, men come and go, but friendship lasts.