should you really "love" someone you aren't that attracted to?
375046
If you're going to love someone, you just will. You can't make a decision that you will or won't and expect it to change the feeling.
209018
you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
515450
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  I cannot date someone I'm not attracted to.  But I might be attracted to someone someone else finds ugly.
1082039
If you REALLY love someone,\nlooks aren't all that important.
1036459
Yes, we all can be in love with many aspects of a person and not lust for them...it is an unsatisfying affair, at best. Your "friend" is looking for someone to take care of him, not a whole lot more. Relationships are built on less, I suppose. Not for me, not my diea of an affair...to each his own.
1005451
It's not love them sweetie.\n\nIts just lust/ or attraction\n\nIf you love someone, theres nobody else for you, and that one person is whom your for.
993024
No, its personal preference\n\nP.S.  You can't help who you fall in love with. Love may suprise you one day... Best Wishes.
637442
1. no you might not be a pig head physical attraction is important but the person inside is much more important.\n2. no, it is very important to some people, you don't want to be do in it with just some ugly chick, but people might not like to hear that you do look for partners on looks. lie a little.
519922
Maybe like but not quite love yet, otherwise he's just a freak. So, make sure of his intentions and be careful.
656594
If you are not liking the person there is not point in continuing your relation with him/her
870059
No it's not bad.  You can like, love or be crazy about someone without liking, loving or beign to crazy about all of the things that person does!
587512
No. If you dont know them then you cant be in love with "them".
86926
You don't know if you have feelings for them or not? Well don't see them, either one of them, for a couple of days. If you miss one of them, then you have feelings for him, but that doesn't necessarily mean you love him.
1034944
NOPE! Thats how you know someone really loves YOU. Your personality is the catcher unless someone is shallow.
731022
if  you  are  attracted  to  your  superior or  anybody   of your  officemate or  coworker and  that  he   or  she  do not  show  interest  on you,  better   for  you  to avoided   your  being  attracted to  her  or  him. , until  you will  catch or  capture  his or  her  attention in  which  case  he will come  to  you and  approach  you   to  tell you  something  ab out  his  feelings  but  be  sure  he   or  she  is  single and  still available  for  you
417658
No. You can love someone dearly, but not be in love with them. When you are "in love" then no one else matters. She/he is your world. You connect on so many different levels that its impossible to share that same feeling with another person @ the same time. No way.
470359
Yes! I believe that you can still love a person and not be in love with them anymore. I've been there and its hard, but its very possible.