Why would a girl that I invite out, give me her phone number pretent she was interested, then when I call her?
362255
She doesn't know how to just say no. she didn't know how to tell you she really didn't want to go out so she led you on....b*t*h!!! She should grow up and just be real.
951866
Forget about it after 3days.  Yea, the guy asked for your number but it could have been because he thought it was what he was supposed to do after you two where hanging out that night or because he wanted to look cool to his friends for getting a girls number at some party. What ever his motives are, this guy is a loser and you should totally forget about him!
131449
She's not interested. If she didn't ask for your number but you gave it to her, and she didn't call, she probably never had any intention of calling.
594045
well i don't really think that you should call her, maybe try to "bump into" her again, then ask her number. or ask the person that gave you her number for her email address then email and ask her if you can call her. \nthat's just my opinion, but it's a little bit stalkingish to find out her number and call her with out her permission.
778681
Well my man...you could not have handled this any worse. She talks to you and asks if you would like to study together. You assume from that it must mean she wants to be your girl. Girls do not want to be responsible for directly hurting guys. So by not calling back she was telling you she wasn't interested . But in your hot  pursuit you did not get that.\n\nBy calling all the time you made it clear to her you were desperate. No girl wants or needs a desperate boy and not much will chase them off sooner. And man you were desperate.\n\nFrom the beginning you blew it. You had her number. You were going to study together. \nMan what more could you ask for huh? Well you wanted her as a girl friend in the worse way so you really pushed yourself on her.\nThis not only turns a girl off she runs from it. You have to get her interested before you can be her boyfriend. And you must know how to do that.\n\nSo what should you have done. Took the number. Called only when it was time to study. While studying, while you were together, you get to know each other. You begin to develop some social value with her and when and if, only if, the time is right you could make your move.\n\nHave you ever heard of this phrase? The worse you want it the worse you will get it.  Guess what....you are living proof that this phrase is correct.\n\nBack off.....find another girl to study with and this time do it right.
601268
yes, ask for her number! but do it saying something of the nature of "it was very very nice to meet you too, youre a cool girl, maybe we can talk later or even go out or something? can i have your number?" dont make it seem as tho u only want to date her
654572
How many is a couple?  Like two or three?  This isn't enough for her to put her whole social life on hold just yet.  It's possible that she's just not that into you, but it may be that she's just busy.  Lots of us have a lot going on.  If she's calling you withint a couple of days then I wouldn't worry about it.
1038193
THE QUESTION IS this?  DO YOU like HER.?you MUST WANT SOMETHING TO HAPPEN YOU ALLOW HER TO  CALL YOU 10 TIMES A DAY. Plus  you  get  on  here and  talk  about  her  calling  you.  Whats with  that?Someone really  likes  her.Of  coarse she likes  you.OR  maybe  her  girl  friend  is  paying  her  to  call you.
521261
You shouldn't of gave it until she asked. First, become friends, and then share contact information.
624352
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
1174002
She must enjoy your company,or she wouldnt call you,and if you think your going over and calling on her too much,just ask her.She sounds like a nice person.Tell her if your bothering her too much,she can tell you,but i dont think this is the case
1064443
Say "Hi, my name is...."\n\nAnd I assume that you think that this girl is hot, or else you wouldn't be wanting to talk to her.  So, ask for her phone number and ask if she would like to go out to dinner sometime (or lunch, or whatever).  The point is, get to the point, be assertive, let her know why the hell you are talking to her (because you'd like to take her out).  Then get her digits and ask when would be a good time to call her.  \n\nBe witty if you can.  Girls love humor, but don't be a doofus.
270832
i think this is the start of friendship..and maybe she is doing job or something like this..so when she busy she dosnt accept your call because she wants to talk to u easily not in a front of anyone...she wants to talk to u alone ON PHONE...when u called her and she dosnt reply..it means that she remove herself to somewhere so she can talk to u easily..well there r alot of reasons too, i dont know the rest of all, i know only this reasion because sometimes u know girl/guy dont like to talk in a front of people on phone..i had this problem too but not now...
1186790
girls will give you there number and never answer. It's normal for some of them.because they don't want to seem like jerks by telling you "no you cant have my number". find one that likes you for real and she will answer the phone.
1072443
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.
92454
May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.
1062648
hey ur first conersation itself cud be "May i know ur number please".....u get to know at that moment itself if the lady is interested in u or else goto the next..