any men have a wife / girl friend that is bi?
358747
I thought it would. But I left my wife in the hands of her girlfriend whom I thought I trusted when I went to Iraq. I come back, and my wife is now hers. (divorce should eb final in about a month)
1050088
Well, your wife is probably jealous because you are cheating on her.  Being bisexual does not mean that you get to have one lover of each sex...  Either end things with your lwfe so you can live the alternative lifestyle you want (multiple partners, that is) or ditch the boyfriend...and please practice safe sex.
966400
No offense but I really just do not like the idea of relations with other people while you are in a monogamous relationship. Being bi isn't an excuse to cheat and I really don't understand how he can be okay with it. Are you sure he's okay with you being with other people or that he's just okay with you being bi, there is a big difference. Then again it's not my place to judge so good luck.
1093822
No he is no gay he has a gf but thay say he is bi for mor info go to Channing -Tatum.com  and go to he myspace pag
371520
No, but I did know a guy once that after I had sort of fooled around with him (we didn't do very much) that we were talking and in the middle of some conversation he mentioned that he had a girlfriend and that he was bisexual. I think he actually thought that if he came clean and said he was bisexual that somehow that made it okay, but when I asked if his girlfriend knew he said no he didn't know how to tell her. And I remember being a bit sarcastic and saying something like "You just say, hey I love you very much, but I want you to know that I'm bi." I think he just laughed and said it wasn't that easy. I asked him if he loved her, he said yes. Then I asked why he was out having sex with guys then (since earlier he had told me that he had met this guy and they did this or he met this guy and did this, etc). He said because he liked having sex with guys. I remember kinda scorning him a bit about not being faithful to his girlfriend to which he simply replied "But I'm bisexual". I remember saying very clearly "That doesn't mean that this isn't cheating. If she doesn't know and she hasn't said it's okay for you to sleep with guys or even to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, then as far as I'm concerned this is cheating." Ironically he had the nerve to contact me a few years later to tell me he was going to marry her. I asked him if he was still having sex with guys, etc. He told me he wasn't. Then I talked to one of my gay friends who was talking about a guy that sounded familiar that he had sex with a few nights before. I asked his name and sure enough it was him. I went to his work and confronted him about it and he admitted that he had had sex with my friend and then casually mentioned a few other guys I also know. I told him he better tell his fiance, since he still hadn't, or not marry her if he didn't want to do that and that if he didn't tell her and was still going to marry her that my friends and I were going to tell her. I guess that was enough because he broke off the engagement and eventually a few years later did tell her that he was bisexual. To which she calmly replied "Oh neat!" And from conversations with her about it she said that it wouldn't have bothered her if he had wanted a boyfriend, too, so long as the boyfriend was bisexual and it was okay for her to sleep with that guy, too. (to each their own I guess) The point was that he was scared to tell her and in the end she would've been fine with it. Last I checked, he hasn't even dated or been with a girl in a long time and is actually now in a long term relationship with a guy.\n\nAs for me, I'm in a committed relationship myself. I don't know too many guys that have been with girls and slept with guys. I have met atleast one or two straight guys that occasionally like to get a bj from a guy (I know because they often went to some of my gay friends to get them....which at first shocked me, but once they explained that it was better than masturbating and that really it would be better if they could just find a girlfriend but that you take what you can get....oddly many of them are now married and they met those girls through us gay men who with our help usually introduced them and everytime I see them they seem very happy, one that I know even has three kids already...and according to the girl, who was a friend, they have a very healthy sex life)
271751
that is a hard one to detect as far as gay or bi. You can be bi most likely. I think of it this way.......if you are attracted to another woman then as long as you don't act on it then it is fine. If you do act on it then your husband needs to know the truth. If you see yourself with him and only dreaming of another woman then tell him that too. Don't cheat on him whether it be emotion or otherwise because then your relationship is a lie. I don't think you are gay. BI-CURIOUS yes you are..........good luck to you!
208324
Lies! All lies! I'm bi and every man that I know say it's one of there biggest fantasies! To see two women making out! When my girlfriend and I go out, the men go nuts, watching us dance and kiss. I haven't met a man yet who doesn't find it a turn on!
610507
They can. I have a guy and girl b/f's. The guy and I have been friend for almost 8 years. He's my friend. And that's all he is. I love him, but not like that.
904742
Well to be quite honest, you could be bi. I personally do not see anything wrong with that, and quite frankly many women are bi. I am not sure of the psychology behind, it but it is definitely more accepted than men w/other men. I would not freak out if I were you, take things as they come and you will know in time. After all it may just be that the idea is attractive to you, but if the opportunity to be with a woman arose you may find yourself not wanting to pursue it.
1183410
I've been married 15 years and have two kids. I did have one encounter with a guy friend years ago -I was 20 - im now 40. I do live a  str8 life - but I think about sex with guys lots more in my older age. Been bi curiose since i was ten years old. I am attracted to guys - but i will also keep my wedding vowes intact. I hope this helps you.
66494
Chances are you know some already, but you just do not know it. I would also suggest a local club or bar that has a lady's night, and look for the single women, that is what men do to find women, why should in not work for women as well. It is my understanding that lesbians do not like bisexual women, so going to gay bars probably are not the right choice for that. I could be wrong about that, though.\n\nThe bisexual women that I know, my wife included, generally stick to the heterosexual thing because it is easier in society, so spotting them can be a little difficult, but there are a good deal of them around.
364474
well hun its who u are u cant just shut it off believe me i tried. talk to your hubby see if he would be willing to let u see a girl. be honest with him. \n\ncongrats on being bi and admitting it.
166379
The bisexual women that I know, my wife included, generally stick to the heterosexual thing because it is easier in society, so spotting them can be a little difficult, but there are a good deal of them around.\n\nIn a sense, bisexuals "coming out" to other people is kind like elementary school relationships. It is not as socially acceptable, so it is hidden, like it is with 8 or 9 year olds. I know this sounds insulting, but actually the stakes are greater. In elementary school, all that is at stake is a little embarassment, in the adult world, your livelihood could be at stake.\n\nThey are out there. Who knows, they might be your best friend and only a drink or two away.
1114904
I'm bi too, so of course I'm perfectly ok with it. LOL. Love is Love, whether between man and women or man and man or woman and woman. As long as they are of age and human and not related to you LOL go for it.
834039
I do have gay Friends and bi sexual. No they are not much diffrent in my oppion i this gay and bisexuals are just like everyone else. I also believe they they are great and considerate people and I love my gay friends even though i am straight.
1065684
Im curious bi- Im Curious on how i can get two Bi females and we can pull of a three some. Now thats curiosity.
1014542
I understand your problem, my best friend is completly straight and I am bi, when i say he is straight he is. But like you I have  a crush on him and still do,we have and still do go place with each other but I try not to let my self get to close to him. Just be there for her when she needs you but don't cross the line again unless she cross first.