how do i get a boy to like me?
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At 10 years old you shouldnt be worrying about boys! They have cooties remember?? LOL Seriously... God made everyone beautiful in their own special way. Everyone has beauty, inner and outer! My dear baby girl, give it time. Dont fall for the wrong boy. In due time, the right one will come along and swoop you off your feet I promise you!
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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Why do you really like him? If its because you just find him hot and he seems really cool, well its best you find out what he is really like before you take any steps forward. Hang out with hi, see how he talks to other people..this way you can see if he treats you more special or any different. Be confident and present yourself as you, now who he might like..that way you know he likes you for who you are, not who he imagines you to be..keep in mind boys are verry verrry simple, its us girls that complicate things :)\n\nhow do you tell him? hang around him more. listen intently when he talks, make physical contact but not too directly (touch his shoulder, lean on him) and always make eye contact. if you want to tell him directly don't do it in a situation where there are a lot of people. If he doesn't like you he may react and you don't want to be embarassed :) good luck girl!
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Don't just "like" someone because they are "hot".  remember, he is a person just like you. He looks good?\nSo?  And you think you don't?  Then so will he.  Show him you have a good personality, and maybe he will take notice of you.  OR>>>>  maybe when you least expect it, another boy will show you interest!  \n\nRemember...Like someone because they have a good personality, and they are kind, and good to all people.  That way, you will know he will probably treat you good too.
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First and formost you must be yourself becuase afterall, you want him to like YOU. if you act a different way from the way you normally act then it kind of defeats the purpose. I know I would want a girl who was confident in herself and her appearance. Approach him happy with a smile on your face. Not too big because as you stated before, you do not want to look desperate. Me being a guy, I can tell you that if he likes you he will probably just come out and tell you. You won't have to look too deep inside his soul to find out. Good luck with that and I hope all goes well!
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You can't get him like you... However there are certain things you can do to show him that you like him. And you might discover that he likes you too :)
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To get a guy to like you that is right for you just be yourself.
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A) Maybe You are intimidating. Make the first move on the guy you like. Young or shy guys have a big fear of rejection.\n\nB) Be more friendly. Hint on the guys you like. Flirt a little.
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Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
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it`s not much important,trust me.just show her that you are a special.TALK-if you know how to talk and what to tell every girl will likes you.every boy can make a girl to like him,if he knows what to tell and how to talk.
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Don't be anything but yourself. Try starting a conversation with a simple "hello" or compliment. If he doesn't seem interested then move on to someone else. You can't make someone like you. There's someone out there for you and only you.\n\n♥Rachel
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you are to young for love . but if a boy likes you he will do any thing that is in your best interest for you. he will go out of his way for you. take your time i had about 200 boy friends since 5th grade
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In seventh grade, I have the same problem( but with a girl, and I'm a boy). Don't come on really strong, but maybe sit by him, get him to like you, and then you can show him your true self, when he likes you and you can tell.\n\nHope it helps
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Im guessing youre a young girl.\n\nFlirt with him like, find some way to touch his arm or something. or like, tell him he is funny. Boys love that.\nAlso , smile at him a lot. Look at him - hold his gaze for a second or two,look away..then look back and smile.\nif hes still looking, thats how you know he likes you back.\n\nI could help you more if I knew your age. Im sorry..\n\nBest of luck!
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be yourself...your going to be nervious...it happens...everyones nervous around guys they like...spark up a conversation....so that this way you can try to find out what you have in common with him...good luck sweetie and remember to be yourself
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Get his attention.  You cannot force anyone to like you.  However, if you are not visible he will not know you exist.\n\nSit in the front, be showered and well groomed, and get good grades.  The GOOD ones will notice!
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idk how do you get a guy to like you?