the girl i love has a bf and yet im dating her! am i doing something wrong??
359509
If she has not told anyone that she is exclusively dating only one person, then nobody is cheating anybody.\n\nThis is what dating is all about.  Anyone who assumes that just because they are dating someone that means an exclusive relationship does not understand the way of the world or has not been dating for very long.
160366
When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
524921
Ask a girl if she would go out with you. And assume that "going out" would mean being boyfriend/girlfriend. And when she says yes, you are in. But that means you have to act like a bf. My bf told me he loved me from the start, so it was never hard, but she might not be comfortable with that...! Then do really nice things for her, and someday...when the moment is right, kiss her and tell her she is beautiful! It will make her heart melt.
975122
lol move on buddy.. no need to mess with her if shes already taken.... theres way too many single women out there lookin for guys!!    and how do you know u love her if shes not or never been your gf...??
159192
It seems as you wasting your time ,4 years and you donot know if you are going to love her or not???Do you think that she have no bf now as you didnot date her for the last 6 months? Realy i doesnot think so....sorry for you
53106
If she has a boyfriend, and she's happy, then back off! If she starts messing around with you while she's dating him, then you don't want her anyway, because she'll do the same thing to you.
752354
Based on what you wrote, it seems like you don't want to miss out on her. So take a risk..tell her how you feel. If she is as beautiful inside as she is on the outside, she will not be mean to you. Just ask her if things are getting serious with her current boyfriend and take it from there. Get her talking about it and that will clue you in to what you should say next.
406765
you just wait till a gurl that you really like and that would respect you for who you are not what you have thats what i did for my BF and we have been together for 3 years it worked out perfectly dont always follow what everyone else does...hope it all works out :)
454809
aww, lol im so this is your girlfriend right? well if shes your girlfriend im geussing she likes u enough its just that maybe shes shy? im not sure though but trust me unless shes one of those girls who will go out with anyone i think she likes u lot of she is dating you, since idk her tho idk.. i think right now shes shy and you just have to try to let her open up to her, ask h er more about who she is
955604
Sounds like she liked another guy also and her friend betrayed her.  When you are dating and just starting dating, you have to talk to each other about what you feel about dating.  \n\nIf you only want to date only one person at a time, you have to let her know that.  There are many people who are dating and just dating with nothing serious in it, especially when you are just getting to know each other.  You should let her talk.  \n\nCommunication is the number one thing in any relationship.  At least she is being honest that she likes someone else.  If you don't want to talk to her because she likes someone else, tell her that.  Don't ignore her.  Tell her how you honestly feel.  I am like you.  I don't go for someone who likes someone else, but you have to tell her.  You might be good friends even if you don't make good boyfriend - girlfriend relationship.
985012
there is something wrong with you if you already don't know what to do. you need to ask yourself it you trust your bf or not and find out how happy he is with you and the relationship. if there are somethings that need to be worked on then do it. the two of you should confront her together and tell her to kick rocks.
722938
well, then u should wait till you knwo shes single. it might also help if u knew if she liked you. she kinda sounds like a playa. give it some time. but dont ask her out while shes dating someoen else, bad things happen
803988
You should just go for it. It sounds like this girl really does like you, but can't let go of her boyfriend. Show her that there are better guys out there, like you. Flirt away. and have fun.
700003
nope, apply common sense. Imagine that you were her bf & someone else was you. If he told her hat he loves her & she starts loving him and leaves you completely - you can imagine how immensely hurt and wounded you would feel.\n\nSo if you said this to her - you can understand how hurt and wounded her bf would feel. It is wrong, so get over it.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
945871
well, first of all, u need to be positive u are willing to take the consequences of dating this girl. if she says she has a past, u might wanna know what that means before ur relationship gets serious. if u r sure, then tell her that if anything, u dont deserve her. it sounds like u really care about her, and, being a girl, i know that girls want to feel special. tell her she is the only one for u, u love, and that if anything, u dont deserve her, not the other way around. but, remember, u cant force someone to fall in love with you. dont push her. she may really be in love with u but is just not ready to be with u. its not that she doesnt care, its that she isnt ready yet. if this is the case, give her time and dont push her cause nothing turns a girl off more than when her bf pushes her into something. good luck!