If your girlfriend/wife told you she had fibroid tumors and may have them remove would u stand by her?
374144
Wow..that was harsh!! He obviously wasn't ready for the long haul with you..(sorry if that sounds too terribly blunt) A lot of people have issues dating or marrying someone who they think cannot have kids. Everyone will deal with things in their own way but he couldn't have been the one for you if this has happened. Be glad you knew the outcome before you two got married. You see, what the doc said is only a possibility..not a fact. God gives miracles..keep your head up honey..everything will be fine.
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I would act normally around her concerning this self inflicted disease, she already is in a confused mental state so love and trust would be my sustenance for her.\nShe needs to see a doctor as soon as possible and the medical authourities will help her BUT she has to want to be helped.
157817
if she is that concerned about it, maybe she should talk to her doctor about the risks and alternatives. in the meantime, she should probably use pads.
447172
Why would you treat her differently? Just be there for her when she needs you.
934899
Unfortunately, yes. But I am also quick to fall out of love. In the past, when I decided it was over, I cut all ties with the stony coldness of a surgeon removing a tumor. Kinda scary, it's almost like I become another person and am looking at myself from outside screaming "How can you be so COLD??!!??"
859609
Brest cancer!!! Unless she recently had a baby but it doesn't sound like it from your description.
482221
You're disguisting and yes it's wrong! UGH SICK! You're taking away joy from a DYING WOMAN!! Her last few weeks/months aren't going to be as good b/c of you! How selfish are you!
276998
How about for guys?  Would you rather just get rid of it, or give it to one you love and will be with (assuming you're marrying for love)?  \n\nIt's up to her beliefs. As long as you can look back at the first and say "It was right." it's good.
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My girlfriend, ex girlfriend I should say, went to Indianapolis to see the Indianapolis 500 with another guy that had tickets every year. They were 'just' friends.....supposedly. Needless to say, she is NOT my girlfriend any longer. Not that I didn't trust her to go or believe what she told me upon returning, it was just the matter that she would put herself in the position to allow anything to happen regardless of if it did or didn't. I don't think she would be too fond of me taking off to Florida with another woman staying alone in a room with me and I would never do that to her. It just isn't right. You should never open the door to doubt. Hope I've helped.
1116778
i would bend over and suffer in silence for the woman that i love..lol
302114
if you really care about her, you wouldn't ask her for that, and understand how she feels. She doesn't live just to please you.
60197
Ask her about her problem if she has one.
668595
I would say not but your spouse may yes than you have a problem.
199256
All doctors say the same thing, so it is probably likely that they have done some research on the subject and that is the appropriate waiting and healing time.\nBesides, your wife just had a baby, and major abdominal surgery. The last thing on her mind right now is sex!\nBe a considerate husband and wait....Doctors orders, and consideration of your wife and what her body has just gone through.
353258
I would be mad and demand that she stop seeing him or I would file for divorce. That is one that would be a deal breaker for me. I would not put up with it............
66227
No ...in fact less in my case.\n\nI've allways thought that is better to care my body for he cares of me ...when I'm needs him...\n\n;)
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I have been there and done that.  I too had cancer on my back, and I waited to have it removed.  I guess I was waiting for it to go away or something.  I wish I had done something about it when it was still small, but on the other hand all cancers are not the bad kinds, but they do all grow and grow.  If left alone they will take over your body and that would be bad.  By the time I had it removed it ended up as a hole the size of a grapefruit in two places.  If I had waited any longer it would have grown around my spine and I would have been in real trouble.  I guess what I'm trying to tell you is; don't give it a chance to get a strong hold on you, and the longer you wait the worse it will be to get it all out.  They must cut, check, cut, check, and so on, until they have it all out.  This is a time consuming surgery, and it still could come back somewhere else even after you have it removed.  I just tank God I'm still alive, and I try to live each day as if it were my last day on earth.  Yeah, it made a different person out of me, but it is all for the better.  I now appreciate life, as I now know how fragile life is.  I hope this helps.  Good Luck!!!