I've dated this guy for only for a month but I started to like his best friend what can I do about that.?
364892
Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
200557
I've been there and what i did was just start talking to him that way you don't feel so weird to be around him. we both are dating other people and we just talk as normal people b-cuz we realized we cant be as close Friends as we were before but we still hang out with the same people and its better to be talkin to each other than not talkin at all.
1072732
hmm..hey, theres nothing to worry abt.. i'd say the best thing wld be to..tell him how u really feel abt him.. u wldnt know..he might actually be interested in you too.. anyway,hes only dating that friend of urs.. see..how things turn out to be..;)..good luck..
1078735
The BEST thing you can do is go back out there and meet new men.  Date them, laugh with them, have fun.  You will discover that you're a much better catch than your "ex" made you feel.  It will take time, but you will get over him.  If you can force yourself into going on at LEAST three dates in the next month, you will help yourself far more than you may believe.  It's not about him anymore, it's all about YOU.  You're special, you're desirable, and the right man will KNOW it.
701636
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
31204
If you only feel like you are his friend you should keep it that way.  Don't date someone just for the heck of it.  You could totally break his heart... \n\nIf you care for him at all - you won't even think about hurting him like that.
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.
822702
First of all, your friend has the freedom to date anybody he wants without anybody's permission.  Dont get involved in his relationship.  Unless he talks to you about it and asks your advise.  You dont want to loose a good friendship over something like this.  This is what my bestfriend tells all his boyfriends, "You may not like my friends and I'm not trading my friends for you, they were my friends before I knew you and they will be with me should something happen to our relationship."  For now just go with the flow.  And be happy for him, cause that's all that matters is that he's happy!  Keep being the good friend you are.  Think positive!  Should he freak out if he doesn't already know then worry about it then.  Good luck! :o)
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
707753
It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
147968
How in love with your ex could you be after only being with him for a month? If he did you wrong after just being together for a month, then get rid of him altogether. You've been apart longer than what your relationship lasted, give it up and give the new guy a real chance or let him go to find a woman who knows what she wants.
674490
maybe he just got tired of waiting on you, so now he thinks that you may be playing games since you all have been hanging out for 5 months and now all of a sudden you want to be serious with him.  Find out if maybe he just found another girl and if he hasn't then just let him know how you feel about him
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
223471
Screw his best friend, and make sure you tell his friend he's got a bigger penis and is a better lover than your ex. That will pretty much put and end to your ex touching you and messing with your head. Then you can move on. Because he's just looking for no-strings-attached sex from you now.
555496
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
84558
I realize you were hoping for more with this guy than just friendship but friendship is the basis for your relationship with him.  Why do you want to throw that away or give up on it just because he is dating someone else?  Good friendships are just as hard to come by as good relationships.  You should continue to be his friend and support him.  This new relationship of his may or may not last but hopefully your friendship will.  And while you should lead your life as if nothing will ever come of this friendship other than what it is now, you just never know what the future holds.  Those bonds of friendship may grow over time and some day the timing for you two may be right for things to progress.
52785
tell him that you are not interested dating him but rather being his friend. or you could just flat out tell him that you like his bestfriend.