she was my first love?
362949
Don't forget.....Love does not mean possession.\n\nIf you really love this person then you would also want to see her happy in everything, even if it means a sacrifice to you.\n\nJust let her know that you care and want to see her happy. \n\nWish you well.
909654
Love is love. once it's there, it never dies.\n\nMe and my first girlfriend absoluetly despise eachother, but id still take a bullet for her.\n\nThat's love my friend.  ask him out.
399725
Your first everything is a hard fall! You were in love with  him being your first, not him.
188745
Not necessarily, she might not have been content in her first marriage, and that is why she did what she did.  Look at it like this, you are with her now and not her ex.  There was something missing in her relationship with her ex and she has now found what she was looking for in you.  Don't let your insecurities keep you from having a long lasting loving relationship.  Jealousy and not trust one another with break up any relationship.
308907
Yes, tell her how you feel,simply,without a word about not being able to live without her.Ask her how she feels about you. But if she does not feel the same way,remember that she is your first love(is she?),you are apparently a young man,and you have a whole life ahead of you. You may find that there will be someone later on who means just as much or more to you. Life is too wonderful to spend it longing for a lost love. You will never forget her,but you will find you CAN have a good and happy life even if she is not in it. If it is meant to be,you will be together,but if not,let yourself cry,grieve for a lost love,but remind yourself that life really does go on,and something new and wonderful is waiting for you.
843653
Dude, honestly, give her a chance.\nHas she given you a reason not to? Doesn't sound like it.\nPeople change, especially those crazy things they did at that age.\n\nBy the way, do you have the right to cast the first stone?
412297
Wow, I wish you the best of luck. The first love will always last in your mind forever. It's not your fault, you were too young to know any better then. Do you know anyone that knows him so you can ask them questions? An old email? Phone #? something... If not I hope the links below will help you (there may be a fee). But maybe he is married now. If it was meant to be then it would certainly have happened. Maybe you should let him go. The memories will remain but it's not time to move on dear.
753640
It's human nature to compare stuff with other stuff, or in this case, other girls with your first love. Your firstlove will always be special to you coz she was the first. But try not to compare people with one another, coz the human race is pretty diverse, and you'll find various different people with their own individual qualities. But before you go out again make sure you have actually gotten over your 1stlove. And, when you think you like another girl, ask her out coz you like who she is and not coz she's the same as your firstlove.
461162
love her and love her and love her but u msut in first road know she love u or not and go telher that short way and best \nand i hope love
369585
your first love is a big step in your life. like your first job. or passing your driving test. your first love is someone who tought you how to feel. and probably tought you or shared the learning experience of love in a relationship.
389707
i married my first girlfiend at the start of the year we have been together for 6 years and have 2 kids i liked her at school she didnt like me we were best mates but now we are married so she was my sweetheart but i wasnt hers
1162107
Here's the deal...\n\nShe could still want to date other guys, maybe even an ex. It doesn't sound like it, since she does call you her first love. But you never know. \n\nOr she could be forgetful and just still have their pics and maybe some trinkets they gave her.\n\nI'd talk to her and ask her about the pictures. Don't accuse her and say she's cheating, just ask her why she keeps the pictures. If she's evasive, then there's something going on. If she admits she just kept the stuff as momentos or for memories, maybe it's not so big. She could be sentimental. Sounds like she's a sensitive and loving person- maybe she keeps momentos of people who have been good to her in life, even those no longer active in hers. She wouldn't be the first person.\n\nSo talk to her. And if she's cheating on you or wants to, then she doesn't deserve you.
1136751
Well , i thought that i had met the one the first time . Of course , i was the only one of us that felt that way .I have been fool enough to let him break my heart over and over again since then. I think , that there might have been a time when he really cared about me. Maybe he still does care , but now i realize that we just are'nt meant to be together in that way. It's really sad though , because even now--> he's the only man that i would want to have been the 1!
1007413
My first love...gosh..this question brings back memories. His name is Derek. I was 15 years old when I met him. I had never kissed or even held hands with anybody before. I remember the first time we kissed. We were at a mutual friend's house and we walked outside together. I knew what was going to happen and I was so nervous. I started rambling on and on avoiding eye contact. Then I pointed up to a star that was shining really bright and I go "Hey, Look at---" and before I could finish my sentence he turned my face to his and kissed me. It was so sweet, so innocent. I will never forget that first kiss for the rest of my life. Derek and I were together for a year, but of course we are young and we came to a point that we were ready to experience being with other people. I still talk to him from time to time, just to see how he is doing. Even though we aren't together anymore, he will always hold a special place in my heart.
241382
The fact that you are happy that she is happy I would say your first love.  You obviously aren't "in love" with her now, but the feelings are still there.  Crushes fade with time, loves don't.\n\nYou always love your first, even if you "get over them"
767512
I have been broken up with my boyfirend for 9 years and i still miss him. If this was your first love you will never get over it. You never get over your first love.
660746
first love is that will touch to your heart and soul....fist love happein in seconds it doesnt requir time to happein if you see some one and you fell you r in love