i'm too shy to express my love?
365499
You can show your love in many ways, in your kindness and your actions.
1067983
i honestly do not think that you can. just cause you are so nerves around him. you make sure that each and everything that you do when he is near is done correctly. my ? is dose he know that you like him? if not that's a reason way you get that way you do. what i suggest you to do is when you are w/ him act like you are not into him. it might help a lil w/ the shyness. act like you have known him for sometime. get close but let him show you something befor you open up.
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Hey Rosy, Can I give you a tip? Write your questions in Microsoft "Word" first, run the spell checker and then cut and paste it to "Yahoo Answers". It will really help you with your grammar. Also, be sure to put your questions in the right category to get the most answers. This question should probably be asked in “Love and Romance” or “Society and Culture”. Just trying to help.\n\nI can’t explain shy, you can look it up in a dictionary, but a good example is when your in a group of close friends and you say nothing because your afraid, or if you don’t talk to casual friends because you can’t think of anything to say. \n\nHow do you get over it? I was very shy, and I just had to stop worrying about what other people thought of me. I had to stop caring if someone thought what I said was stupid and realize everyone makes mistakes and if I do, laugh it off and enjoy life. Don't be afraid to express yourself, your thoughts and feelings are valuable.
168705
I'm shy, so please write!
838154
you must get out of that shyness thing. it will get you no where in this world we live in.  "grow balls" so to speak.  good luck\nbesides the worst he could say is no.....right?
169920
I understand if you say you get nervous. But if you think you are shy, you aren't ready to propose her. You should be more comfortable talking to her whatever you want.
917313
I'm not gonna be a jerk and say go up to him and say I love you so I can get my 2 points. Anyways, a nice way to do it is to kiss him and tell you you love him... but if your shy (like me) you could do it on the phone when your saying bye... you dont gotta sound all serious you can be like LOVE YA!\ngood luck!!!
698860
i think you're the shy one...
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
1177635
i tell my boyfriend i love him as much as a possibly can and it still don't feel like i say it enough i love him more than i can say.
840457
Sometimes in life actions speak louder than words. I want you to ask yourself why is it you need to hear him say I love you, why do you want or need him to say that. surely you are aware of his feelings. Some guys cannot say that but they do feel it . It's not about him being the emotinal type or not. It's about your need to hear those words. We cannot make others do or say what we want them to.  love is not about  expecting things from our loved ones it's all about acceptance being aware of each others needs and healthy communication based on honesty etc. so maybe you two need to have a really open honest talk about what each others needs are and what you both can do for one another so that each of you feel loved and appreciated without feeling like you are being to pushy demading or emotional.\n\nBe honest with yourself about your feelings and when you both chat togehter do so without judging one another. enjoy the time you have together making the most of your time and energy and never for one minute take each other for granted. Good luck with everything in life.  Sometimes in life we need to allow ourselves to think differently to improve ourselves and our life in general.
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I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
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Stop being scared. You should just tell them. You will feel a lot better getting it off your chest. They might love you too and are scared to say anything as well. Then you both will be missing out. So go for it...You never know.
846491
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
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Sure, Email me at MyOddThoughtss@yahoo.com\n\nOh, and.. take it slow. Love will come and don't be at the ready with the "I love you" from the start. Take your time.
1156025
Well if you are both shy, then someone has to break the ice! Once the ice is broken and you like each other, then it will be history from there.  But sounds like your are going to have to get the nerve and go talk to him!  Just go up adn say Hi how ya doin or whatca up to?  Or find something that you need help with and ask him to help you.  That always makes a guy feel good when you NEED them!  But you have to break that ice or it will go no where!  But it sounds like you have a date coming on if you get the nerve!!!  Good luck and don't get cold feet!  Just do it!!  Or you might miss out and someone else is gonna sneak in and steal him away!
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If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?