I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23 and he keeps wanting me to have sex with him? Should I?
369605
Don't do it until you're ready, girl. It's your temple. You're the bouncer. You have the keys. He's a hitchhiker. Don't pick him up until it's right. If he can't deal with that, leave him on the side of the road waitin' for the bus.
831043
Yes! For sure! Love knows no age limit. But if you are the 15 year old girl, you best be careful. Make sure that You are safe, and the guy is not using or abusing you. Only stay in the relationship and make the commitment if you think it is true love. And don't kid yourself if you know that the relationship isn't going anyway, or worse still, if it is abusive. \n\nJust make sure that you know what your doing. Don't have sex if you don't want to. Don't do it just to please him. Don't do things just because he forces you. And probably you should discuss it nicely with your parents too. Also, if your having sex with him, it better be protected sex and safe, unless you want to have a baby. And if you do want a baby, you better be sure that the both of you will be able to suport it. But I am getting a bit side tracked here aren't I?\n\nIf you are the 15 year old girl in the relationship, I wish you good luck!\n\nP/S: Here's a nice movie you might like to watch, it's so moving: Mum at 16
1129251
depends on how old you are,if you're below 16,I'd Say yes it's too early,if you're older then I'd say there are no real rules,what really matters is how do you feel about having sex with him? Do you trust & love him enough to take that next step?And more do you feel like having sex ,do you feel ready for it? According to me it's the only valuable question you should ask yourself,your feelings have got nothing to do with any schedule.
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Strongly tell him that it's out of the question.  If he persists, stop hanging around him.  You might need to get adults involved soon.  You don't want to ever give him the opportunity to hurt you.\n\nYou're TOO YOUNG to be having sex.  Find a trusted adult to talk with.
593639
I did it when I was 15, but I was with the guy for 4 years. I do wish that I had waited longer, but I wasn't pushed into it.\n\nDon't let people push you into things that you don't really want to do. If he keeps bothering you about it, then you need to tell someone. Like a counsellor or something. You don't have to tell them that you have already had sex. Just say this guy keeps pressuring me to have sex with him, I don't want to and he won't leave me alone about it. I know its easier said than done, but you should tell someone you trust who is older than you.
315691
Well I am 17,  can kinda see where you are coming from.  I think that maybe she sould wait just a little longer.  Cause it could end up being a relationship based on sex.  And sometimes those relationships don't last. Just tell her how you feel.
1130503
well if u r having sex with him u shud stop or if not den not do it at all becuz ur too young for dat n if u love jesus den don't. u have to be the one to notice whther he is only using u. seems like u really falling for him but not becuz you are falling it means he is to. observe him n if u feel comfortable enough have a conversation  with him..\n\ndat's all i can say now.i gotta pee! bye!
438891
not at all...i cant believe that u know him that well to see if you are ready and a question...do u think your ready?? and if not then why are you letting him talk you into this?...i didn't have sex wit my boyfriend until a good 6 months into it...but then again it may have been taken too slow..but 2 months is def. to fast...good luck
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
43633
leave him now or, find out the hard way.  He is taking advantage of you because you are young.  Be with someone your own age before you loose your self esteam and self confidence.
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
95318
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
449644
My advice to you is to ask him, think of it this way, you don't want to marry him later and find out that he just wants sex later.
1181304
My boyfriend is 43 and I am 25.  We have been together for 3 years now and it is the best relationship I have been in.  I couldn't imagine ever dating somebody my own age again.  They are so immature and in this relationship I feel like there is stability.  I think he will definitely stay with you because men like younger women and if you are good to him and he is good to you, it will work.
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Hi. I looked at your old emails and discovered that  you are 16. That is the age I was when I was involved with a 24 year old man. Boy was it a journey! I could write a novel answering this question...\n\nfirst of all this guy was WAY beyond where i was in my life. he had experienced so much more than me. everything we did wasn't that big of a deal to him but it was to me. I thought it was really cool that he'd take me out to dinner and we ordered wine, he had a really nice car, money and a cool appartment... i only wished i didn't live with my parents. of course all of this eventually led to sexual intimacy. and of course it meant more to me than him. and then that led to me having twins as a teenager. then becoming a single mom. i did all this sneaking around behind my parents back after they found out we were interested in eachother because my dad literally drug me away from him and forbid us to see eachother knowing that he was 24!\n\nthe other thing is that if he's 24 even if you consent it is called statutory rape. your parents can have him thrown in jail without your agreement and at any time they want to.\n\nmy suggestion??? don't get involved with a 24 year old. i know it sounds coooooll. and maybe it is but it's not worth it!!!!!!!! it took me 15 years after that to finally start dating one man my age. and when i did i finally felt at peace in dating and a relationship. the connection between someone your age is quite different. and well, i married that guy.  \n\nnext..... a 24 year old guy should know better! if he is interested in you he's doesn't have it all quite together up in the old noggin. or he is extremely selfish and not thinking about anyting except his selfish desires to be with a very young woman! run! you don't need a guy like this! \n\nif you are lonely or just looking for friends the best way to do it is to think of something that interests you or something you are willing to try and get involved in it. it's the easiest way to meet new people... there should be a teen center in your area check them out this summer and see waht kind of activities they have. or volunteer working with kids this summer or..... volunteer anywhere you'd like to learn something about...... get involved in a hiking group or sailing or tennis or art or film making or ????? if i knew what you were interested in i could help point you in the right direction... but get out there! hope this helps. if you want to talk more email me, k?
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Yes you should. Wait a few years and be very careful. Help him mature as well by doing non-sexual adult things.