how to forgive if you are too much hurt?
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You will never be completely held unless you forgive. keeping in all that anger when your upset with someone will only result in hurting you mentally and eventually physically. Its very important that your able to look the person in the eye and say I forgive you, and genuinely mean it. I obviously don't know what the cause was, but we all face hardship in our life's; and if we're unable to move on then we are holding ourselves back by holding a grudge, we'll never experience the joys of life until that burden is released. Jesus can't forgive you, until you forgive your enemy.
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was abused by my father, but was able to forgive him. but if you are unwilling to try the best forgiveness ever given. then you will carry this pain for ever in you and it will suffacate you. please think about finding true forgiveness before this destroys your life. God helped me and my father threw axes, hoes, and tried to run me over. yet hold no grudge.
812219
Read "Power of a Praying Woman" by Stormie Omartian. Prayer is very powerful. It helped me tremendously.\n\nOnly God can heal your wounds.
258679
stop trying to fix it. you are not in control of the universe. try looking at what you have done to contribute to the problem, and apologize without expecting them to apologize too. true forgiveness is realizing there is nothing to forgive.
827727
Put your hand in God's Hand\n\n\nPrayer, Time and Forgiveness heals all wounds
1113286
i think you should try to talk to him in a nice way... be sincere and know effective ways on how to talk to him. its just a matter of right conversation. i believe that everyone of us is capable of committing mistakes so never give up on making him see that you're truly sorry for what you had done to him. i think you can do it...
568753
In order to get forgiveness as a christian you have to believe what you did was wrong.  You can just go willy nilly and ask to be forgiven if you're just going to do it all again in five minutes.
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I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.
651911
just say sorry in front of every one if u have really committed something wrong. and care for her/him every now and then so that he/she will develop a soft corner in their heart.
668018
good day to you,\n\n I understand what you are facing now. but you have to start first by asking forgiveness to the Lord our God and let him rule your life rather than you rule your own life. everybody had a mistake. but it's up to you to fix it. Try to reach God and feel His love deep into your heart. Talk to Him and it's more easier to overcome your problem by crying out all your pains while praying. His always there beside you and and never leave you all alone. He loved you very much simply because He still let see the brighter color of your life, grab this chance that He gave you. Then one day a big surprise will happen. God already touched your heart so don't let him go again. Pray everyday and let Him lead your life. And if you  do all this things, God will do the rest by healing your family's broken hearted.
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no.   If someone does something that hurts very much, it is absolutely possible to NOT forget or forgive for the rest of your life.  I'm living proof.  I have not forgiven my parents for something they did, and I have not spoken to them for 8 years.  Also, I do not forgive any one who has hurt me over the years.  If what someone does , hurts so much that you can not forget it... then you can't forgive it.  It is their problem... not yours.  Go on with your life and forget about them.. Why have someone in your life that hurts you ?
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time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
760251
I am very sad that you are hurting so much. Some wounds are very deep and take a long time to heal. You deserve to be loved and cared for! I can't even imagine how much it must hurt to have someone you care about so much do that to you. I don't know if you believe in God, but I do and I believe that he can heal us. I believe that forgiveness is the key to overcoming your hurt. I know it is extremely difficult, but if you can try to push angry feelings away and forgive him for what he has done, you will feel better. I do not believe that finding someone else is the right solution. It is a way to cover or bury your pain, but not heal it. Pray for strength, don't be ashamed to cry, and turn to good friends for support. I will keep you in my prayers as well.
457752
really look deep in your soul. take your most powerful feelings and write them down as you feel them. If there was ever a time you were hurt ........ write about it. A time you felt an ove abundance of joy......... write about it. do whatever You feel in your heart.
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You have to be willing to forgive anyone that has hurt you, you can't be judgmental, that is Jesus job, not ours. You can hate the sin, not the sinner. We all sin. You have to believe, first and foremost. If you believe, then Jesus will lead you the rest of the way. Good Luck!!!!
833665
It takes a bigger person to forgive than to be mad. Express your feelings to her and forgive her it sounds like she cares or she would have not told you at all.
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it's okay, but now you must forgive yourself, start by making amends to the person or people you have hurt, let yourself heal.