I'm gay and my boyfriend and I want to get married.....?
360660
First Congratulations\n\nFind out everywhere it is legal\nAsk your friends who have got married where they were married\nIf you have no married friends then try your local gay association, they are bound to have a list of places where it is nice and where you will be treated nicely
115279
Just wait for the future and see if you two will gonna be married. If you do, he's really the one.
494933
I think legal marriage is just a peice of paper. Being married is really in your heart.  whats stopping you from throwing a big party, exchanging vows and rings accompanied by your family and close friends? i believe there are churches geared toward the gay and lesbian community that can give you guidance. Either way. congratulations on finding that special someone in your life.
953458
You normally have to have been living with your partner for 2 years. If you are not living together or haven't been living together very long, there are other options. Are you planning on getting married, because he could always get a Fiance Visa and then you have to marry within 6 months. That's what I did, because although I had been with my partner for over a couple of years, we had only been living together for 6 months. Good luck : )
129719
You are young yet, so I would wait until you reach the age of 18.  Are there any specific reasons why you would want to get married now?  Or do you both feel its the only way you can have any freedoms that your parents wont allow.
317864
I would say depends on how long you know each other. I would not use marriage just to show that you are together. You might consider just living together for a while/years and if the mood strikes you and both really WANT to get married then do so. It should be your choice, not the choice of people around you. Good luck!
111835
no one can answer this question but you...and your boyfriend.  Dont be in a rush...get married for the right reasons. Education is far more important than marriage....in my opinion. get your education then get married.
410741
There is nothing that you can do to make your boyfriend marry you. You have to decide if you want to continue to date someone who is not interested in marriage at this time. Take this time to decide on what you want to do to prepare yourself for marriage. Talk with boyfriend, find out his feelings. I wish you the best.
1014485
This is how I feel about "getting" a man to marry you... I would be insulted if I felt as though a guy was marrying me out of pressure or because he feels obligated. Best thing to do is talk about what you want and go for it with someone that wants the same things.\n\nYou are young, and you have plenty of time. If you are sure that this is a guy you can spend your life with and you believe that he really does want the same things you want - stick around for a while, stop the pressuring, and see where things go. \n\nIf things don't work out, then next time, make sure that you have someone that wants the same out of life as you do, and within the same genera time frame, before you get too involved.
967934
Your talking about being with this person for the rest of your life.You both need to get everything out in the open.Talk about what you want to do in the future,and what both your interests are.Ask them what do they like and want and work towards those things together.Some things they want and like,you may not want or like,but if you too really love each other you will adjust and work it out.Compromising is a key ingredient in marriage.
25276
If you just met him, first you have to pray and ask God if He is the right one and you have to get married then you can let him move with you since you are more established. remember you are not a cat or a dog you can't just move in with a man and start having babies. come on you can do better than that.
585052
This is about the couple that are getting married. It is their special day to plan and enjoy however they wish. It's unfortunate your partner was invited but you were not. It is not unusual for straight folks to feel uncomfortable around gay folks. Perhaps the couple getting married are uncomfortable having a gay couple at their wedding. If so, the hangup is their problem not yours. This is the type of things that gays often face. It may not be fair but it is reality. What would be a real tragedy though would be to let a decision made by a couple that you and your partner hardly know cause a rift between you two. I really hope you and your partner can talk this out and put in behind you.\nGood Luck
757030
I think that as long as 2 people love each other and are happy together then why not get married. Theirs lots of man / women marrieges that suck and fail ( and Im shure theirs gay ones to ) so who cares who the 2 people are as long as it works
416194
Why do you think ,you want to marry this man?is it love, security , lust or proving a point.\n\nI did the same thing and it absolutely ruined my life.\n\nIt should be possible to find another alternative, I only wish that i had tasted the water before.\n\nwhatever you decide it, try to make the best ,rational solution that your young mind can give you.
1084764
Why get married now u have the rest of you life together. if ur meant to be no paper will prove it, only time. I think that you shouldn't do it. Good Luck.
551910
Well its not really "marriage" is it.\n\nMarriage is recognised by God as a man and a woman.\n\nI think if two people want to spend the rest of their lives together, and they are gay.  Feel free, but its not natural so dont parade it around in front of others.
733456
I think you need to get over yourself.  You can still get married and do the things you want to do.  But make sure you are being fair to him.  Figure out what priority is first and make sure he knows it and if he is truly worth your time and hand in marriage he will help you keep that priority at the top.  What is important to you is important to him...that kind of thing.