What would u do if your family is doing something morally wrong and they are rejecting u for not cooperating?
363767
Its hard to see people you love make these mistakes. However unfortunately everyone has to live their own lives and make their own mistakes. \nYou can give your opinion but that is all you can do. You can not change them no matter how hard you try.\nAll you can do is distance yourself no matter how hard it is and do better for yourself and prove that you are stronger then the evils that are holding them back.\nGood luck!
965496
you should ask them for thier blessing and if they refuse then that is something that u will have to deal with if u love your fiance and she loves you then thats all u need talk to your family and let them know that it bothers u and your fiance and that they need to fiqure out how to control that and if they dont have anything nice to say then not to say anything at all and whether they like it or not u love her and she loves u and u to are getting married and u will not come around if they are going to keep treating her that way and u really dont want that because they are your family and u love them too. i hope this helps u.
93567
the phrase "actions speak louder than words" comes to mind, I was once told that sometimes your own family can be your worst enemy, their are some mistakes that you will make in life that will be so bad that you can't fix them, all you can do is make amends, set things right as best you can and muddle your way on through, and that's life!!
1044238
You should let your family know that you are simply under the weather but you want them to go and to enjoy themselves.  You are simply not meant to make this trip today but you will rest up and another time, when you are well, you will make the trip with them.\nIf they insist that they won't go because you are not well - then don't fight them - let them stay home if they choose to do that instead of going.
412093
You seriously need to make some serious changes. You have to create boundaries. It sounds like the requests you have made are falling on deaf hears. It seems to me you are trying to make everyone happy except yourself. Tell them if you are going to live in my house these are the rules if they don't like them they can leave. When your mom came back you could of asked her why are you here? When she said why do i have to tell them to pay the electric bill, it was because she is the one who invited them to stay. The things you are going to have to do will be uncomfortable. Your family will not like the new assertive you. Your mom is dependent on you and you are her co dependent. When she threatened you by saying she was going to leave and you said fine go ahead she was testing you. She did leave but she came back and you let her stay. So now what you say and what she says and your actions don't match. It's like when a parent tells his child no but then lets them have what they want. You have to back up what you say with actions and stick to them. You have fallen into the role of parent. You are not the parent you are the child but now your mom is acting like the child and now you are her parent. I think she should help you more. Do you want your brothers there? You did nothing wrong what i think you possibly feel is guilt because it is your mother and you feel obligated but your not obligated. No one should be taken advantage of.
174639
You can't really do much except let it roll off your back.  She's family and she'll get treated differently probably until she screws up.  As unfair as that is.  You can't say much because that'll make you the bad guy.  If it's really bothering you, you should look for another job.
608921
rumors are nasty, the more u deny what they are saying, the more they say about u, just be yourself, and let your family know, at least they should accept your word.
940688
Your problem is that you are keeping all of your troubles bottled up inside.  If your family is treating you unfairly, you should tell them.  "Look mom or grandpa or aunt, I'm a responsible 19 year old who has a job, is very hardworking, and can look after herself.  I should be rewarded and not punished by having a midnight curfew.  I should be able to stay out to 2 or 3 in the morning.  Movies after midnight are very awesome.  You only live life once, you want to let go and enjoy sometimes especially when you have worked really hard everyday.  The nightime experiences are not as wondrous when you are older."   It think something along those lines should be good.  If perhaps they still don't listen, look them in they say and tell them that all these restrictions make you very depressed and unhappy, especially since you believe that you are a good kid.  Also, tell them that kids with strict parents are more likely to exhibit bad behavior than reasonable but fair parents.  I think that I should also note that some parents are strict because they are afraid that their child could get hurt, make bad choices...so they are trying to protect them.  If this is the case with your family, let them know that they are selfish, because through their fears they making you feel untrustworthy even though you are a good kid, and preventing you from living life and being happy.  They KNOW you are responsible and smart enough to make wise decisions.  Just remember to consider their feelings if you decide you tell them.  Be honest, but not rude.
807792
Your family seem like they are trying, but seriously you should tell them this- that there support means a whole lot to you and you love and respect them and you just want the same and deserve the same like any human being does.\nIf it concerns you why dont you sit with them alone and bring the subject up and you can all have your say. \nI really hope it works out for you and everyone else concerned.
827083
Be strong and do not show emotion if they try to make you back down.  You have to live with this man, so its your decision and you have to live with it.  I am sure that your family only wants you to be happy.
882066
Ignore them. Your family is more important.
818918
Sounds like there is alot more to the problem then u r saying but i can understand u not wanting to go into it. I have a problem with trust and i tend only to befriend my family i have no friends either but choose not to cause down the track they will only stab u in the back. Good luck.
296656
kill her with kindness... when you act upset and she causes turmoil in your family, she is getting what she wants.  As hard as it sounds. ignore her!!
1133482
try to strike a balance. your family loves you.\nmine did the same for me and i was glad i could help however i could.\nbut, remind them that your time is limited and set boundaries for yourself with them. good luck
342952
Nobody with a family should answer this.  You should be compassionate towards the feelings of family members.
799992
No, I have some family members that are just the lowest forms of live ever. They have stolen from other family members and lied so much none of us believe a word they say, in fact they are not even invited to any events at all.\nBeing family has no bearing on how they treated others and you can't excuse someone just because they are related.
1149645
This is so wrong.Talk to her and tell her it was an awful mistake,and it must never be spoken about again.Think of the consequences of your actions.your whole family could end up fighting,you could be disowned over getting you leg over.stop it now.