How can i use reverse psychology on my boyfriend?
357589
Reverse psychology is doing what someone else does to get them to notice how foolish they are.\n\nTry acting tough on your boyfriend and refusing to show your emotions.  Just be subtle or he wont take it seriously.\n\nIt's not a bad thing to do, it just puts things into perspective that arent always easy to figure out.  If you dont let him see how your feeling he will get frustrated.  Dont finish up by saying "that's what it feels like to me" just.  Make it a gentle conversation.  Just remember his hard-boiled shell has been that way for a long long time.  Do not expect overnight huge changes.
569533
The only thing you can do is to trust him,and communicate with him. If you talk to him about things, then maybe he will be honest with you and communicate his feelings as well. If you can't be open with him about things, he is more likely to stray if he doesn't feel you are giving him what you need. If you try all these things, then maybe you two can be happy together. The one thing you do not want to do is try to control him, this will drive him away completely. Be his girlfriend, be loving, and caring and pay attention to him and definately COMMUNICATE! that is the key. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
928158
Trust me the silent treatment works the best you don't want to fight anyway, and when he asks you what is wrong just tell him he needs some miodol because he is having mood swings.
581111
there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
536893
start focusing on the good things he does - let him know what would make you feel appreciated - you telling him you are going to leave him is now an empty threat - try to talk to him to let him know how what he is doing makes you feel (or how what he is not doing makes you feel)
750512
don't contact him at all.\nit's not worth you giving him the satisfaction of having a good laugh at your bleating, you will only degrade yourself.\nget him battered,then arrange for yourself and a few mates to be there so you can sit back and have a good laugh at him picking his teeth off the floor,  then jump the bird, and move on.\nor, get all the details you can on her, address, email, contact number, and plaster them on every public toilet door saying "need a shag, call the slag, dirty hoe loves to blow"\n\nif you need more inspiration, what the lilly allen video to "smile"\nxx
184721
Play mind games with him.
739827
There is no guaranteed way; you shouldn't try to manipulate him into it or attempt to mislead him into believing you're something you're not. Why not try a gothic or emo dating site, so you can meet someone with similar interests?
640866
the best way to get even is to "ACT" psycho and obsessed.give him hell.make it your mission to find everything out about him his friends and family and his personal details and numbers and just give it to him.call him constantly,send him cards,be really sweet,sort of like the girl in how to loose a guy in 10 days.\n\nyes ive done this once and it satisfied me,i have REDEEMED MYSELF SISTA.he did change all his details and had to run and hide the torment worked well.THE ULTIMATE PAYBACK IS CLINGINESS THEY HATE IT.
19520
The best way is to simply ask him what pleases him. \nYou find out by communication. No one is a mind reader.
920623
Your boyfriend can't fix you so quit trying to make him say things about you. All that will accomplish is driving him away. You need help but to expect him to fix you will only ruin your relationship. You need to get counseling so you can deal with your problem. Your boyfriend is not a counselor he is just a guy.\n\nTrust me I know this from personal experience, my girlfriend totally ruined our relationship with her constant neediness. When you act this way it ends up being all about you and his needs usually go unnoticed. Get out of yourself and into him.
977944
yes. talk to your friends. they should be able to help you. or ask your boyfriend himself what he wants.
1161004
I would'nt go see him. His behavior proves that he's not truly the man you see on the outside. People like this are good at putting on the mask that'll work to get them what they want out of you. I'm sad to have to say it, but it's the truth.  Especially if he's locked up, you'll become an outlet for his manipulative personality. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're wrestling with feelings for him. It'll only stroke his ego. Winning him back would only result in an unhealthy co-dependant relationshiip. This type of user psychology need to be desired and needed by others to floati it's ego. You'd likely convince yourself that you DO need him. And you don't honestly. Being happy with yourself is critical before one can be truly happy with another.
142810
Show your boyfriend why you are better for him than she is. Be attentive to his needs, laugh at his jokes, be there for him and avoid places that the witch will be at.
77864
what do i do if my boyfriend don't believe? <--This sounds more sensible if we talk in the terms of "Controller of the Situation"...If u are the controller of d situation(happens only if ur boyfriend is pursuing U and u try to play hard to get) i bet u'll get over d situation smoothely..If U are attracted to ur boyfriend-> means ur in control of your boyfriend, and the process of making him beleive is goin to be much harder for U...Figure out ur position and ur standing level in the above relationship and act accordingly...\np.s:hey if both of u hav the right chemistry, no one ever beleives on other ppl's complaints on each other, unless caught red handed ;-)\ntake care...for more on tis mail me!!\nwith regards,\nSrinivas\nbuddysrivas@yahoo.com
1171033
you will have to show him that he can trust you and that sometimes people do things without thinking when they are angry.  Unfortunately, you can't always undo these hurts but, if he see's that even he makes mistakes at times and deserves forgiveness then perhaps he will forgive you and alow you to earn back his trust.  Build on that.\nGood luck
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.