how can i make up with my wife?
356644
So you had a comparison. I use to be a graphic artist. My job required alot of creativity, long hours, bringing my work home  with me, Deadlines were important. I was juggling work, children, home, and my marriage. \n\nI spent time with my children when I had the day off and after work. I wanted to make sure that they were getting time with me. I was so exausted, that I would not pay attention to my husband, which at the time was working part time after his stint in the military until he found a full-time decent job. \n\nWe would argue about things, I would get forgetful and figured he should cut me some slack. I marriage was not doing well at the time. We had pulled away from each other and the only thing we would do is argue over little things. \n\nI think you have done what I did. get absorbed into your work. Your response is exactly the way I responded to him. I never got credit at home for working the long hours and bring in the money. I then figured out the reason why I didnt get the credit is because I ignored him and how he was doing. \n\nWe had issues, big ones. We finally sat down and talked about them. We agreed to start dating again, once a month we would get a sitter and go out, if we couldnt go out we would rent a movie. We'd talk not about work, but ourselves what we wanted, fun things. \n\nI think that you should tell her that you didnt mean to neglect her, that you have been trying to to what was best and have a decent job, that you didnt see that it was interfering with your marriage so much and that you would like to make things better. Offer a night together and some talking. \n\nThat is the only good advice I can give you.
973112
screw american law.  You don't need a peice of paper from anyone to prove to you YOU are married and want a lifetime commiment from the person you love the most, just tell her she's your wife and hold a ceremony somewhere the both of you find attractive and and share your thoughts on the future and express your love for one another.  And don't forget to continue this thinking in every day for the rest of your life.  Cause thats what it is all about.
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Yes but follow these rules:\n\n1. Check her teeth. Teeth are a dead give away.\n\n2. Ask if she worked in any hard labor. Hard labor takes its toll and sooner or later you end up having dead wife in your hands. Not cool.\n\n3. Make sure you get a guarantee and a receipt of purchase. If they sell you the wife "as is" ask them why. Accept no half truths. Remember you're having a wife, not a car or something.\n\n4. Make sure you get a test run, check the exhaust and the intake for flaws. Make sure you check both! It's very important. If you can not check it, I can help you with that.\n\n5. Always, always always make sure your wife knows how to cook. Most of the American wives come defected, they don't know how to cook. You shouldn't be the one to teach them.\n\n6. Don't get a wife from Utah. Utah is notorious for its second hand wife market. A lot of people have more than one wives in Utah, so they don't really look after their wives. However some are less used, come with few wear and tear. Don't miss out on those opportunities. Almost all of them will come with a stuppid religion but no problem. The religion is pretty weak, they can be easily brainwashed out of it.  \n\n7. Hymen Rollback. Many people thing hymens can't be rolled back. This is far from truth, hymens can and are rolledbacked even as we're speaking right now. Ask your future wife whether you're his first. If she says "You're my second" pass on that one.\n\n8. Salvaged Wives. Wives who have been in previous ownership with a divorce report on them are called salvage wives. Don't count on them since they carry the traces of those divorces. They tend to look exceptionally polished to hide the fact, make sure you investigate on that. They are known to create the most problems. Of course some salvaged wives get such a wonderful makeover that they may be better than new. But these are rare.\n\nAlso consider asking these questions to the seller:\n\nCall the seller, ask lots of questions\nThere's a lot of data you need before you can properly negotiate the price of the wife, so when you call the seller, ask these basic questions if you don't want to print out our full list of questions mentioned above:\n\n1) Why are you selling the wife? Put them in a defensive position and they must answer quick. If they hesitate, they have something to hide. Why do most people sell their wives? Maybe they lost their job, or there's too many things wrong with it and they don't want to fix it, they'd rather sell it to you. Maybe they bought a better new wife and are selling it themselves. If you have a wife that you love, you're not going to sell it.\n\n2) How many men were on it? The moment of truth for most sellers. This can really reduce the selling price if there's too much men. The standard is 12 men per year. If they have more than that, the pricing sites shown above have charts that deduct off the market value of the wife.\n\n3) Do they have all the maintenance records (facelifts etc), proof of tune ups (recent vacations, shopping receipts), and oil change receipts (liposuction)? You just nailed them with 3 defensive questions in a row. I'll bet no one will have this. I preach it to no end that everyone should. I had it for my previous wife, and I sold it to the first person that came to look at it. The seller might say "No one keeps that woman". Your reply will be "I do, everyone I know does", and without it, I have no validation that you properly maintained the your wife, and now you want me to pay all this money for it?" Tell them no one does their lipo changes on time. How many people change the lipo every 3-6 months?\n\n4) Have them describe the condition of the interior, the breasts, make sure the batty hole is not cracked, find out about the amount of face paint, belly, daily allowence, ask if her attitude runs cool. Is there any other known issues or ne
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Everyone answering your question is absolutely correct. However, I hear your plea and understand your plight so I have a suggestion for you that I take from experience. Your wife can also be your mistress and this adds excitement and eroticism to your relationship without cheating or leaving your vows of commitment.\nHere's how we did it. My wife would leave the house on a Friday evening shortly before me, dressed as if she were out for a singles night, and we had a planned 'meeting' place where she would go and I would find her there. For this 'meeting' we used different names, ones that each of us picked for the other. Upon arriving at the place of choice she would appear to be single and possibly there would already be someone attempting to make flirtatious conversation with her which only added to the drama of the plan. It was my place to search her out as if she was an available single female and show my prowess in gaining her attentions and affections. I won't go into the night of details as I'm sure you can fill in the blanks yourself but I am sure you can see how this could be very stimulating to your relationship without the need for a total stranger to satisfy your fantasy's.
951141
Take your wife to eat close to the mall...then excuse yourself to the restroom...go to your car, put on your costume...entertain...say you'll be back shortly...run back to the restaurant...and just do this all night. I know it works 'cause I saw it on Mrs. Doubtfire!!!
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Take them out for a nice Italian dinner, then to a art muesuem. You might want to try the muesuem first, depending on what time they close.\nOn the way home, stop and get crayolas, or water color paints, for your daughter. When you arrive home, you can have quality time with wife, while daughter trys her hand at some art work, of her own.
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invite her over.\ndress sexy.\nspray a fragence like ax in your room or whereever youre gunna be.\nthen when its time. make your moved.\nbrush your hand against her arm and lean in for a good makeout session.\nand go from there.\n<3
524002
just make up at home.
1040716
Talk! Tell her that she looks pretty. A compliment does not cost a thing, but ladies love to hear them, even if it's a soft little wolf whistle (don't make a spectacle out of it). Ask her what she wants to do, and if it's a chick flick, go and try not to fall asleep.  Take her on a picnic to a pretty place that you know of near your home.  \n\nBefore you leave her, (make sure your breath is good for this one) lean close to her ear, and whisper softly, "I can't wait until I see you later."  I don't know about all women but I have heard a LOT of women say they love it when their man whispers sweet things in their ear.  Slip little love notes into her purse when she is not looking or bring her a flower once in awhile. \n\nGood luck, have fun and be creative!
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lets see if you just wanna make your husband adore you, you could try changing your look, or giving him a surprise, like a sexy evening! \nI draped some black sheets over our couch and over the TV set and lit a bunch of candles i also put out some champagne and and strawberry's on our coffee table, and i bought some very sexy lingerie! its a bold move but he seemed to really like it and from that day on he just looked at me differently! you should try it!!
1163595
put make up on... or rub it with a  spoon
880637
Both are new to each other, so firstly I suggest u to understand your wife, her likes and dislikes, tell her ur ambitions, goals, etc about your future plans how to lead ur life, so that u both would be leading a happy life in future without any divercifications of mind, be crystal clean in your talks now only.
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If you are asking this so you can cheat on your wife then the best way is to paint the area pink with nail polish for several weeks.  If you are asking this because you are divorced or getting divorced, not wearing it for awhile will do the trick.  It goes away like the marriage did.
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It's great that you want to make up with her.  That's half the battle already.  Here's some ideas.\n\n1.  Apoligize for what you did wrong:  Whatever you said or did, take responsability for it.  Be specific.  Don't apologize for "hurting her feelings," but apoligize for what you personally did or said.\n\n2.  Be positive and encouraging.  Don't blame her.\n\n3.  Forgive her whatever she did, whether she apologizes or not.\n\n4.  Do something fun together.  When a relationship has been damaged by a painful experience, something special is needed to heal the wound.\n\nHope these ideas are useful.
221141
have you tried to be penpals with your wife, maybe you could try making a game of it like you dont know each other, could be fun
351930
Always have open communication with her meaning, talk to her about any and everything! She should not only be your wife, and lover but your best friend! Just cause you say I do dont give either one of you the right to treat each other different! To keep the spark in the marriage always keep suprize in the relationship like with cards, flowers, sweet gifts like perfume (just because)! Then after ya'll start a family always make sure to keep a date once a week at least every two weeks just for you two to have some alone time that is much needed. When you introduce a family which is wonderful this, is when husband and wife tend to grow apart because they are just caught up in everyday life! I know that my husband and myself have just started date night two months ago because we never had anytime for us with three active children and it has worked like a charm. Lend a hand around the house too even, if she dont work keeping a house and tending to errands are a job among themselves! Also, remember when the good turns bad work through it together even the small stuff cause, like it or not there is no perfect marriage and things will happen just work through it together!! Always remember why you fell in love with you financee that made you want to spend the rest of your life with her and you two will be just fine! If you want to do something really special for her next week on your wedding day send her on a scavenger hunt the day before the wedding to different little stores where you have already went in and made a small purchase of you undying love for her also leave a nice card with the next clue to the next stop! Make the last card and the last stop be the day of the wedding where you leave her a card professing your undying love and a gift certificate in the card for the two of you to go and have a casual picture made for the new home! Its nice to know that these days guys are concerned when it comes to saying I DO!! Good Luck to you and your new bride and may yall have many good memories to come!Oh yeah LAST BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT always keep the good LORD in your relationship because he is the one that blessed us with life and forgives us of our sins!
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get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.