I think my roommate is gay.  I am scared.  What should I do?
371815
I am your roommate you jerk and I AM NOT GAY
777808
Confirm your sexuality w/ him. People understand when preferences don't coincide.\nThen, I would steer clear of this person. Use an answering machine and/or caller ID to avoid communicating. Get a security eye or camera for your front door to insure you know who's  there before you respond. Eventually this person should move on.
845373
Feel the situation out.  Do you know how he feels about gay people?  In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt.  If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it.  Many straight people have gay friends.
655396
DON'T ASK HIM. - he needs to find the right time to tell you. If you ask him he will be offended and he WILL dislike you. Turst me on this one. I'm bi and people use to ask me occasionally if I was gay, I wasn't and I hadn't come out and it used to really piss me off, even friends said it and I would hate them for saying it.
804820
I'm not sure what the actual question is here... is it a bad thing that he might be gay? What would you do if he was straight? If you feel like you need to act, just make sure that he knows that you love and support him no matter what. If he is gay, it will be extremely difficult for him to admit it to you and your family. The next time you're talking to him you could bring up one of your gay friends in passing (or make one up if you don't have any) so that he knows that you are okay with homosexuality (assuming he is gay and assuming you're okay with homosexuality).  However, just because he doesn't share his personal life with you doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. My brother is straight but doesn't particularly like to divulge information about his personal life to any of us.
785169
Hmmmm....well I suppose he could be gay. But trust me if you keep staring at him and stalking him, whether he's gay or not, he's gonna be creeped out by you.\n\nRelax and slow down. What's your hurry? He knows you're there...and if you quit bothering him (pretend like he's not there) that'll probably peek his interest and bring him to you.\n\nTake it nice & slow.
1181820
That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.
1106511
Girl is you crazy? Don't convience no other women of anything about your husband! If they want to think he is gay let them think it! This way you don't have to worry about them hitting on him! However keep your eyes peeled. Not all of those friends really think he is gay and they are trying to throw you off their trail of secretly liking your husband. \nAnd whatever you do, do continue to watch sex and the city and bond with your husband. And whatever you don't do, don't make him feel bad because your so called friends haves you thinking he's gay. I mean because you may watch a ball game or action movie with your husband does't make you gay. So why such it make him gay for watching a drama with you. But this is are secret remember! Do not tell your girlfriends!  Good Luck to you and your husband!
877675
I'm going thru this right now, the guy is straight; we always talked at work to pass time, but now that I quit my job, he's the only one that calls me to small talk and to make him a cd. He knows Im gay and I know he's straight, but my feelings for him is there, and I dont dare to do anything cuz I will lose him as a friend. He tells jokes at me that Im like his big brother/sister. I showed him a different side of gay people, that not every homosexual is a flamoyantly Fag and respects me, so I remind myself that he's a good friend that asks for my help if he needs it, its rare to turn a straight guy to a gay guy. Since I know he would never read this forum I would like to say, "I love you very much Robert, I'll be there for you." How can I ignore feelings?
652453
ok, first of all, just because you are gay, and he is gay..doesn't mean you get to have sex together!!!  i'm straight and my room mate is straight...and it means nothing..wtf!!!  if you had a mole on your ass, and i had a mole on my ass, do you think i'd want you to tell me about it?
471017
Kindly tell him that you're not gay and therefore not interested. He should understand. And it's up to the both of you to make sure it doesn't get weird and you remain friends.
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
610136
Bring the matter up gently, at a time when you two are alone so she won't feel uncomfortable speaking candidly.  Let her know from the beginning that no matter how she lives her life, you value her friendship and are not going to abandon her (as I HOPE you won't), but if it turns out that she is gay and has been making some advances, you need to tell her that, while you support her in what she thinks is the right way to live her life, you do not think that's the right choice for you.  Good luck, and remember friendships are REALLY important!
868625
You say that you are not physically attracted to him so I would leave it alone. If you mess around with him and he wants something more, is that when you tell him you aren't attracted to him? Since he says he is gay, he most likely is and since you live together things could get really awkward.
790617
Introduce him as your slave.  That should pull the wool over their eyes.\n\nSeriously, why hide who you are?  Are you ashamed of being gay?  [If you still live at home, you get a "bye" about telling your parents until you can support yourself.]\n\nGood luck!
51615
PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!