I have four boys that want to go out with me. whish one should i go out with i like them all but ican't pick.
362137
i think you should spend some one on one with each of them. don't be in a very big hurry to choose or you could choose the wrong one. if they don't understand that you need to make the right decision they should understand and give you the space you need.  good luck and, god bless you!!!!
122185
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
361790
Don't date either of them if you want to remain friends with them.  If you don't care, pick one and STICK WITH IT.  Don't play them against each other.  It's not a good idea!
994542
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
841300
theres someone out there for everybody just be patient. dont go w/ the first guy that has interest in u either. u want a boy who makes u feel good when ur around him...the perfect guy. theres someone out there for u!
1021975
Well, for one, I wish I had your problem. Two...you should know which one you like the best.  I don't think it's something you have to think about, you'll know it when it's time to pick one.  He will stand out from all the others.
917455
As a former high school boy my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes.  All three boys are attracted to you.  Case 1 is clearly asking you to say you want to go out with him without risking asking you out himself and having you say no.  Case 2 may want to be more than a friend, but also does not want to risk the friendship.  I remember a similar case when I was in high school.  A girl that was my friend, took me aside and tried to tell me she wanted to go out with me.  I was so dense I still didn't get it so she finally just blurted out "It's you I'm talking about.  Would you be interested in going out with me."  I thought she was beautiful and brilliant and funny and out of my league.  That last part has more to do with my self esteem at the time than it had to do with her, but anyway I was so nervous around her that going out was out of the question.  Anyway we stayed friends, but there was always a little uncomfortable quiet between us that was never there before.  You sound like a nice friendly outgoing girl that boys find it easy to be around.  Good for you.\nNow as a father of a young girl:\nBe careful of case 1.  He is bold yet cautious.  He has "dumped a girl" recently and may be more interested in conquest than in relationship.  My advice to my daughter would be to stay quiet and make him risk more by coming out with  a request for a date.  Then be cautious.  Case 2 I would tell my daughter to ask herself if she could see her friend as a boyfriend, afterall the best relationships are based on friendship.  Only you can answer for yourself if there is a chance of more.  If not, leave it alone.  If you think maybe there is a chance, this boy may prove to be a better bet.  Case 3.  (laughter)  Please do something to put the poor guy at ease around you.  Either tell him you want to be friends, or ask him out, or tell him to leave you alone.  This poor guy is obviously suffering from an intense crush on you.  Good luck.  Enjoy your high school years because they wont come back.  Try not to get roped into a too confining relationship.  Emotions run high, but youth should be a time of discovery.  I do not know of one single relationship that started when the two were in highschool that has lasted the many years since I was in high school.  For instance I dated several different girls in high school and had a wonderful time.  My wife (whom I was not in high school with) on the other hand dated only one boy throughout her high school years.  She regrets that now.  She looks back on those years as being a hostage when she should have been enjoying her youth.  Too bad.
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
890669
U just like those guys to hang out with. I would date either one of them. Because once ya'll start dating,things are going to change, rather you like it or not and you might not want that to happen. But if you want to date one you have to sleep on it for a long time. Jusst think of whats going to happen. or see which one is more important. Maybe you shouldnt date him.
585861
absolutely not!!! You ask a boy out for what is inside not what is on the outside. I mean come on if you go out with someone for looks you really don't like them. hope i helped!!
178662
Honestly you CAN like 3 people at once but there is always ONE that you like the MOST. So go for the one you ca see yourself with. Having fun together, etc. The one that you know will like you back as much as you like him. But you are in LUST with 2 and like one. make up your mind before they all lose inteest and do NOT play mind games. Good luck ;)
1028403
Well you can pick and choose. They all like you so which ever one you pick will be happy to date you.
631910
Thats not a bad thing. You have the right to make an informed decision on who you want to date. BUT, be honest with the guys. And try not to make them feel like  they're being played.
778436
let them think what they want - and you should do the same - be your own person and do what ever the hell you want to do. if the guy you do end up going out with is a good-guy he should stick up for you and defend your honour (excuse the clich'es). basicly you need to not care what others think, feel, or do. you are in it for yourself so you are the only person you should be worrying about.
433096
If they are not around the same age as you then no you shouldn't, if they are adults then they just want to use you.\n\nIf they are in your age group only go out with one at a time and only if you really like him.
143854
first date? well actually my opinion will be diff then others!! I would want to hang out with him his freinds and my friends just because id want to get to know him!(the real him)so i know hed be comfortable around the boys and me with the girls ya know!!! it might sound weird but if ya think about it it makes sense!! That way nobody is nervous and everyone gets to know each other and you can have fun at the same time!!
418078
there's nothing wrong with that .you just don't like any of them. take your time, when you find the one you like, it will be diffirent and worth it.