How can i find out if i m a lesbian or not ?
356453
Toss a coin, heads you are, tails you are not.
698544
I am a lesbian. where the hell are you meeting the gay people you know  Help us out  lol...bye
95720
Maybe you could find it more easily by search for 'lesbian' groups on the Yahoo! groups page. Just be sure to keep it clean, because Yahoo! will close out all groups which don't abide by their terms of service.
595729
There is no way to know if a girl is gay or not. All woman look and dress their own way. We all sorta look alike in our own ways.\nGirls may think your a nice person and friendly. Theres nothing wrong with that. If they are trying to pick you up .\nIn a nice way you need to let them know your really not in to that kind of thing. They will understand.
592920
Maybe you are bi-sexual?  Lesbians generally have no interest in men.  If you have feelings for both sexes, you are most likely bi.
1021754
I think it's to early to tell if your a lesbian or not. But I would encourage you to take time and really try to find yourself before you commit to any relationship. It's only fair to yourself as well as any person getting involved with you. Don't let anybody pressure you into a relationship, that's not healthy and probably won't work out in the long run. Good Luck
850219
Ummm, why are you asking this in the gay and lesbian section?  Are you BI?
605427
No -- I am not lesbian but I think that if I were lesbian I would regard transsexuals as a sort of man. There are a lot of men who go for transsexuals and some hetero women do, too.
994749
go to yahoo chat room, Underheading romance, click friends and then select Lesbian women lounge.......\n\ncu there
1121956
Best term to identify a Lesbian with is their name! Why should there sexuality define them?
894352
Well you should try to get to know her if you don't know her well already and gain her trust and then tell her about how you feel but make up some person and tell her your feeling about her. Then see what she says if she tells you your crazy then she ain't no lesbian and of she starts talking about a partner then you know she is taken. \nGood Luck!
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Since you don't like bars, I would say network with other lesbians through groups that might have meetings and get involved.  You can go to the bar's even if you're not "out"; big deal.  I would join a softball team or something athletic.  Go to a church for gays and lesbians.  You'll find a new girl when you least expect it.  God Bless.
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yes! me!(i'm a girl & gay means when people liking guys right?well,if i wasn't gay,then i'd be a lesbian!!!!!!!!lolz)ok.ok.just kidding,so are you a gay or a lesbian?(just kidding again hun!)cheers!
1095043
ask: am i a man or woman?
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How can we possibly know? \n\nHave you ever had sexual intercourse? Was it with the same or the opposite gender? Did you enjoy it?\n\nIf you've never had sex, are you attracted to the same gender or the opposite gender?\n\nThere is a growing number of young people who choose not to label themselves as gay or straight, but rather bi. According to the sexual studies of Dr. Kinsey there is a wide range of sexual attraction in humans, ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, with most people falling somewhere in between. If asked, a lot of people will admit to at least one same-gender experience, and yet they do not self-identify as gay.\n\nAbout the only advice I can give is to follow your heart. If you're unsure or uneasy, stop.
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
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so u're a lesbian? break up and find a straight relationship!