im a man too but im not a gay.he loves me he said that to me but he ended it up but i really love him...?
368112
Try complete sentances, and whole thoughts. Capitalization works well also. \n\nPeople love each other and they still break up. If your both men, and you love each other you may not be gay, but your atleast bi.
492637
Get him to define "I love you",\n\nnot everyone that say I love you means it\n\nnot every I love you means what you think it means\n\nYou might be speaking a different language using the same words so don't fall for it sister
366621
I have been in the situation before and it worked out for the best. I got the courage to sit down with the guy and talk to him about my feeling but i didnt sound despert to him i just told him that i think we are made for each other and that i still loved him a lot. I told him the truth and after i told him he got the courage to say what his feelings are and he said that he still loved me 2. I know its hard to step up and be the first to say what you feel like, but if you do it might just work out. Good luck
561814
He sounds like he isn't someone that you want to love, find someone else, his lost. good luck
1075861
k im not a guy...but this has happened to me too...with 2 guys...and it drove me crazy as well....and i hada choose who was right for me...who loved me back as much as i loved him....and i ended up with the right choice..so now im happy
1164761
My boyfriend says the same thing.  What he doesn't understand is that I am attracted to both sexes.  He thinks it's because I'm with him now that I am only attracted to men.  Doesn't work like that buddy
569916
Tell us your gay. That one is painless. \n\nAlso, most women can take the "I'm just not into you". \n\nI would rather know that a guy just isn't into me than for him to give me a whole bunch of crap like "It's not you it's me"\n\nNOW if you want to through in diamonds and things (axe the fur......fur is wrong) then go right ahead. Nothing says closure like a pricey shinny thing. :)
333056
my husband asked me that. i just expected him to say something snide or that I was doing something silly. and answering is like sharing a little part of yourself. i did show him my answer and now he is answering questions. he saw i wasn't being sneaky after all. In fact i was telling someone what it was like for me to fall in love with my husband. It actually made him a happy man.
362564
Well I hate to say it but if he truly loved you he would have crossed all barriers to make it work . You would be setting yourself up for all kinds of hurt if you let him sweettalk you into something you know in  your heart is wrong . Why do that to yourself and prolong the agony ? You have already made your feelings known now the ball is in his court ! How does the old saying go "If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you its yours and if it dont it never was" Just DO IT ! It could save you alot of heartache on down the road .
882931
talk to him about it- thats wat i did when i had the same issue.  he and i actually had a great conver about the possiblity of the two of us going out.  good times...
879780
um, what? If he says he loves you, he's probably just shortening "I'm in love with you" down to "I love you." What are you worried about?
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
976368
It sounds like he may be gay and almost ready to come out of the closet.  You are pretty there is nothing wrong with you it is him.  Dump his azz and get you a real man who has a big d*ck and can't keep his hands off of you.
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Man, that's sad.  Guys just love to play games and many times what you thought you saw in his eyes wasn't what you now think or thought was love, it was lust.  This guy obviously is immature and a liar.\n  Chalk it up to experience and get on with your life.  don't put up a wall preventing future guys from loving you or your believing them.  My mother told me once that if you tried to analyze everything a person  sas to you, you'll end up going nuts.  So just figure that when he said he loved you and was nice to you and you trusted him, just figure it was true at "that moment"., and stuff happens , time goes on, things change and we will never have all the answers as to the why's .  It happened, you had a great time and now its time to move on to more life experiences.  don't be sad......................Take a bath, do your hair, be yourself, smile and move on...and up........good luck
974400
I don't understand your question.  it sounds like he told you EXACTLY what the deal was from his end--he doesn't love you.  He told you that.  What is the part that isn't sinking in?
170890
he kind of told you you'd be together? Baby no it  isn't worth it to hold on to a kind of promise. Live your life the way you want to like if he wasn't in it chances are he won't be in it much longer if he can only make kind of promises.
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It (probably) means that it wasn't meant to be. You two have lived it up and have produced two lovely children. I'm sure the both of you love them more than life itself. But perhaps that's where it ends...It seems like you have tried everything. Hell, you even went to counseling. Good job on both of your parts. You two want it to work. Maybe you're going through a phase? Maybe you should spice things up a bit. Join a club together, join together in a new sport, go hiking, camping, maybe you could spend less time with each other. Mabe ALL you need is a BREAK. C'mon now...16 years together. THAT tells you something. It cannot just stop like that. Do not give up. There is a reason why the two of you are together. There is a reason why you met, why you got married, why you decided to create children. Reminisce together about the days when you were younger, the crazy things you guys did for each other, the first time you told each other 'I Love you', etc. Do not give up. If it's an attraction/physical thing, work it out (Literally). Get sexy, make him look at you like you're the hottest thing to have walked this earth. It's not over sweetie. I believe in you guys.