Seriously. Why can't I forget her?
374242
I think you have to talk to her. I'm sure it sounds about as much fun as getting teeth pulled, but I think you really must  do it. You can never know how people really feel about you until they tell you themselves. Some people just don't show how they truely feel and maybe she doesn't know how you really feel. If you really love her, you should take the risk and find out for sure. And if worst comes to worst and she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you at least you will know and will be able to move on without always wondering .
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
10844
As long as it takes for her to find somebody who'll pay attention to her. Then you're just a bad memory.
713109
You might never forget, i still think about someone from 15 years ago. Unless they were total a__holes why forget? Keep the good parts and look for someone that has those parts in them as you move forward. Relationships and friendships come and go, but you need to be able to talk it out with someone to at least start the healing. The mind and heart suck sometimes!
120552
The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.
94965
Wow, I dont think I could. Thats a Crazy thing to do.\n\nhowever you do need to remember she was not herself when she did it, she was drunk which impares judgment and all over common sense. Try talking to her about it, maybe she can explain to you that she doesnt remember or how sorry she is. Then put her butt to work to help build you a new one.
709226
you never forget your first love.  that doesn't mean it would work now, she's different, you're different.  why wouldn't she talk to you? you're not stalking her are you?  if she isn't talking to you give it up you can't make her talk to you or anything else for that matter.
985133
I know its very hard for you to forget that girl, because i m also passing through the same situation, maybe she likes someone else, just leave your girlfriend because after all its their life and let them do whatever they wanna do with their life, we cant stop or hold someone and love doesnt comes or stay that way so all i can advice you is "enjoy life, never trust any girl and never ever love any girl sincerely more than yourself"\n\njust try it and see it works...
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
612979
It's so hard because they are what you have longed for all your life... I have 'someone' in my mind in the exact same way!! I think about her constantly, I am consumed by her. I'm loving it, its the best feeling! I think about where she is and what she's doing all the time, I imagine her on her way to work - what she's decided to wear that day, which perfume she's wearing, did she remember to take her phone to work! (LOL) I imagine her reading my emails...I imagine her smile, the way she smooths her hair. I can see her rolling her eyes at some stupid joke I have made, but smiling after... I think about when I see her and the look on our faces and the butterflies in our stomachs...\n\nI cant get her out of my mind, to be honest I dont want to even try!\n\nIt's so hard because she is EVERYTHING I could wish for, and more...
523240
You can't just block him out of your memory...Learn from it and move on...He did....
1078847
Don´t listen to all these stupid people who answered this question before me ...\n\nAsk her (him?) whether you could have her address! Will she move FAR away? If yes, you can probably call her by phone - or does she have an e-mail address? If she won´t move far, you could perhaps meet somewhere for a coffee or something - or just visit her in her new school during the breaks!\n\nI´m sure she (he?) won´t forget about you!!
812900
wow... sorry but your 1st will always be your 1st and you'll never forget her... and slowly you'll forgive her for what shes done... but were only human and things happened for a reason maybe not good ones but it still happened...
98996
try to forget him , I know it is hard , but you will make it :-)
169731
Its called feelings. Once youve been with someone you develop them. Its sometimes hard to forget them because with those feelings come memories. It may take a while for you to get over them.
519015
How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
344525
This sound so familiar, just stop your self from being alone and don't look or touch anything that is connected with her, and do things you like ( sports, games, hanging out with friends ) You will not forget her but at least you will not think as much on her, trust me I've been there.