my boyfriend has cheated on me 5 times. wat do i do ?leave him or not?
370015
You already know the answer, you should have left the first time!!
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
1056299
I say you choose.  Either leave your boyfriend and be with the other man, or stop seeing the other man and be with your boyfriend.  It is not fair to either of you, especially him for you to go on having a sham of a relationship.\n   You have to grow up here and make a real choice.  You are treading in dangerous territory and you can only hurt yourself and your boyfriend continuing on the path you are on.\n   Ask yourself why you are cheating, and decide if it can be fixed so you no longer want to.  Or, is it just a selfish need to be with two different men?  Only you can decide, unless he finds out and dumps you because of your cheating ways.  \n   Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
577027
If I was you if he messed up one more time i would just leave him cause you want a guy that will always loves you not just off and on.. And if he really did cheat on you either he doesnt care or he was just rebounding from something else.. hope that answers your question
721903
leave him, theres no excuse for cheating, even if he regrets it, you need to find someone who respects you enough to be faithful. good luck (",)
616296
The most smart thing 2 do would prolly b 2 leave em cuz dat sayn "once a cheater alwayz a cheater" but errebody iz diffrent...But wen u love sumbody it ain't as easy as errebody say...But if u love him & wanna give it anotha try id say go 4 it cuz errebody deserve A 2nd chance but don lisin 2 nebody follow ya heart gurl do watchu feel iz rite!
737863
If they cheat on you 5 times they are not for you.
1181194
i think you should leave him. if he really cared about you and loved you he wouldn't have slept with someone else. he has hurt you and you could "never forget it". and i agree with you, it should've been OBVIOUS what to do if he's been with you for 6 years! if you forgive him and let him back into your life, he'll be even worse and go "play" with a whole bunch of other girls. he isnt worth your time . . . you should try to forget bout him and look for new people. \ni hope this helped (even though i dont really think it did)\nbut GOOD LUCK!\nhope everything works out for you = ]
836082
You really DO have to decide for yourself and what anyone on here says cant change that but if he was cheating on me i would break up with him, and plus if you never see him, than what is the point? I think you should find somebody better than that because you dont derserve that!\n\nGood Luck And Take Care!
641436
Ummm If u gave him 1 chance and 2 chance u alway give him a 3rd one Just try it.. And if it doesn't work try to find someone else better..Also that means he really loves u unless he has cheated\n\nGood Luck!
188994
my bf cheated on my more then once and i stayed with him because i love him  but I'll never trust him the way i did again and if he cheats again I'll leave his a** alone
1060552
i say forget about him. yeah, it'll be hard, but this guy obviously is not interested in a serious thing with you. i know it sucks hard core but if he's been cheating that long, and on top of that having other girls answer for him and lie to you he is just plain and simple not worth the effort. someone who loves you would A. not cheat on you, and B. not add insult to injury with flaunting other women (most likely ones he's hooked up with) in your face. this guys a loser, and if you continue to play his games and cater to his immaturity then you're no better off. best of luck, stay strong. oh and "chicanita, your friends a hoe.
1082820
If you don't think it will be the last time cheating on him then why bother sticking around?  You say he doesn't treat you right but you never explained on how he doesn't.  Tell him when you are able to stand on your own feet and then let him go.
57503
Focus on improving your own life. Avoid relying on him at all, and don't offer him anything. If you're staying together "for the kids", realize that they will be growing up around a negative influence anyway. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and cheating on him will only make you as low as he is. If he was not being his typical self when it happened, he will confess and apologize and won't do it again. But don't give him too many chances!
276672
You know, five years is a very long time...\nYou can't just dump him/her easily if you have invested so much time dating a girl/boy and found out he/she is cheating on you. The best way id to talk about it. I think it also depends on how long or how serious he/she has been cheating on you. If things won't work, well only then you can make a decision if your going to save the relationship or just throw it down the drain. \n\nGood Luck.
270867
Did you just find out that he was cheating?  You know what you have to do already!  If he has cheated on you the whole time he will not stop now.  It is up to you to get out of this relationship.  I know it is hard to leave someone that you have become so familiar with, but you are in an unhealthy situation in more ways than one.  You need to consider the fact that he is playing with your heart, emotions and also risking your life.  STD are real and some can kill you or make you barren.  Get out now.  Good luck!