i m going to be  married very soon..Plz help me..bcz it is for my whole future...?
355881
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this man knowing that you lied to him about being a virgin?? Do you really want to live with that guilt? I don't know how long you two have been together, but you have already gone this long lieing to him, why would you want to go the rest of your life continueing to lie to him? As some of the others had said it's true that not everyne bleeds the first time, but still this is the man that your going to spend the rest of your life with, if you lie to him about this, it's going to make it that much easier to lie to him about other things. Think about the decision that your making. Think about if the roles were reversed and put yourself in his shoes, if this was him and he wasn't a virgin wouldn't you want to know before you both make a life changing decision? I myself am about to get married and my fiance and I have the best communication ever, I have told him all about my past and he has told me about his and we still love each other regardless of the decisions that we made before we were together.  If he really loves you than he will accept the fact that you were honest enough to tell him.  If he doesn't accept your past then maybe he's not the right man for you.  But morally, honesty is the best policy.  Be honest with the man and see what happens, if he gets mad at you and breaks off the wedding, then at least you know where he stands. But don't lie to him, just to make life easier on you.\n\nGood luck
437306
Only get married when your ready.  It could take 5 months or 5 years.  Don't rush it because you'll regret it if its not the right person.
348580
It depends on what you want out of life. You will settle in life when you are ready. You will get married when you find the right person to live your life with. your life will be whatever you make it.
600536
you need to get married\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
936013
Everything is an illusion! No one can cast your future! However that's what makes it exciting to live and to learn!\nYou met a special person. Now follow after your heart! You can't go wrong from that! Don't let fear of the unknown to dictate your life... Live and live life to the fullest!\n\nI'M happy for you\nGood luck,
128310
first of all how old are u? are you even old enough to be thinking marriage?. I hope that you are at least in your mid twenties?
277348
I would like to get married. It would be my second marriage, but the first was such a strange one, I can barely remember it. (I didn't know that guy very well.) Here's my humble advice about marriage: Wait until it gets really "hot". And, along with that, don't marry someone because your parents think you should or because he has the right qualifications. Marry him because you can't live without him otherwise, because you simply "can't" imagine life without him. Good luck. I think it's a noble aspiration and a worthy goal in life.
755716
I am VERY serious about getting married someday...I want to save myself for my husband and have a family. I also want to be a doctor. I believe God has a plan for me and will work all this out.
144760
Your beggining to sound as if your full of yourself, you need to understand that life has its ups and downs and that not everyone is meant to get married when they want to. It will just happen you will find someone who trully loves you and sees everything that everyone else isnt.
327645
Wait!!!!!!!!! You're in your last year and it'll take a year to plan the perfect wedding anyway! Girl, finish your edu-ma-cation for the love of....! Sorry if I'm being overly dramatic, but I transfered to be with my bf in my sophomore year, and though I went to a great second school, I had too many credits that didn't transfer and it set me back a year! :-( (And we never got married).
413726
You can't ever tell that.  It is just complete speculation as to when you will meet the person you will marry.  It will happen when it happens and you can't change it.  If you are so worried now, you need to grow up and not be so desparate!  People can sense that a mile away, and I can sense it through the computer.  Just live your own life and you will eventually find the person you are to spend your life with.
539071
You'll just know. Besides, no one is quite READY for marriage, it's like having a baby--you have to know you want it and then plan for it. When that's in place it's trial by error, so to speak.
115889
You should have married before five years. I am the same you are only 9 month 10 days younger then me? I have married 3 years ago. What you are looking for? hurry up Sangeeta? If you want to marry with my friends I will tell them to contact you....? You be married once in a life..feel it and if you do not like it just do not go for it second time!
879590
You are to be admired but I woudnt. Your Wedding day is to be a happy meaniful time and should just be devoted to yourselves notice I put it both together you and your future partner .There will be ample times you can do charity work and because you have ab obvious decent character Im sure you will. For those reasons have a truly beautiful wedding and give it all you have got .luck
394356
Depending on how serious the future is for your relationship and how much you are willing to compromise and give up of yourself in order to make it work. \nIf you just aren't ready then you cant force yourself to be and you have to be honest about that. Its hard enough when you are in a marriage to make those kinds of sacrifices so you should definitely look at how sound your relationship is first.\nSecondly, how important are his dreams and goals to you and are you on the same page about where you want the relationship to go.\nThere's also the possibility too, that you could be honest and say you would try it for a while and see if you still feel the same about the city in an allotted time-frame. Enough to give your self time to adjust and then reassess if the city is really right for you.
523584
My high school sweetheart and I got married about 4 months ago. I gradutaed in 2001, so we waited so we could make sure that we did what we wanted in life and also make sure that we truly wanted to be together and spend a life together. People change when they get out of high school, and especially if they are going to college. I would wait until the college years are over, because you never know what the future holds, and if you both make it during these years and nothing tears you apart, then go for it, the wait is worth the anticipation. Good Luck, and I hope you the best.
360545
You would think you should start meeting people and getting ready.  Have faith, and don't be afraid to fall in love.  God's waiting for you both at the bottom.  You're joining together as one, working as one, creating as one a life, and a future that chances are, might hold a family.  It's perfectly okay to be married, as it is perfectly okay to be single.  God's timing is perfect, and His will is also.