why is it so hard to understand women??
372414
we rule by emotion and guys usually rule by brains. its definitely true that men are from mars and women are from venus. a good example is: women have sex with the men that they love while men love the women that they have sex with. get it?
456726
Same reason women can't understand men (although they often think they can).  The ways of the two gender's minds are seriously different.  There are any number of ways to prove that; it's just true.  So if you are in the habit of understanding someone by imagining what you would think or feel in a similar situation, it won't work across gender lines.  Too many differences, and the differences too hard to imagine.
517698
Sì! Women are able to understand other women easily! It's just the men who have difficulty! With women, you must look at her question or statement from a different angle sometimes! For instance (this is a generalization), if a woman asks, totally out of the blue, if you are hungry, or if you want to stop for coffee or a drink, then what do you think that means? That she is worried about your current state of hunger? NO! She is hungry/thirsty or whatever! You must think outside the box when speaking to women sometimes--that's why men think that we are mysterious and women usually don't! \n\nÈ molto facile!
108706
Because women truly don't know what they want, except to drive men crazy, and then ask their friends "why"?\nWhat did I do?
72868
It's part of the wonderful mystery of life!\n\nIt's virtually impossible for anyone to fully understand anyone else (except, perhaps, for identical twins). Then, when you add the extra layer of difference between the sexes, you've got a real challenge on your hands.\n\nDon't worry about understanding. While you might never achieve it competely, you'll come as close as  possible when you meet the right person (and if you work at it). Meanwhile, enjoy the ride.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
1120592
I don't know, why are men so confusing?
203654
You need to talk. Women are more emotional, we wanted to be a big part of your life. Not only in your everyday life but most specially during the decision making time. You might think that she's just your girlfriend and just a flower on the wall, or someone to show to your friends. Women wanted to feel special, like we are a big part of your life. Someone you can talk to and discuss with when you have to make a decision.
387565
Y COULDN'T SOME WOMEN JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION, IT'S SIMPLE AND SOME OF THEM MADE IT COMPLICATED TLKING ABOUT FEELINGS AND STUFF, THOSE R THE WOMEN WHO DON'T GET THE GOOD STUFF
164721
I don't understand women either....I can't deny that physical attraction is very important, but I just want a girl who can be honest with me in all situations and willing to communicate.
296803
Men are very visual people, way different from women. And unfortunately a lot of men don't take the time to find out what the inside of the women is all about.
669420
yeah, you pretty much described every woman. but beside what you said, every woman has her little evil persons inside her head, which give her her personality and makes her different from other women. but what you said, sums up pretty much every woman. \nHURRAY, SOMEONE FINALLY GOT US!!
623991
all women are different...\nu have to look in different places...\nlike me... (well not really... i dont look around)\nif ur religous, then look around that area...
691664
Because gals are soooo difficult.\n\nA bunch of older guys were sitting around talking.  A younger man walked up and muttered, "I believe I've figured out women."  The older guys laughed hysterically, and walked away.
288586
Why do say MORE difficult?? Have you ever tried forgetting a woman? Let me put aside the idea that you're bisexual...\n\nMen are hard to forget simply because they are different from woman (obviously, i know) and once we've captured them in our hearts, we are hooked.\n\nMost women who have a strong relationship will feel wanted and needed by their lovers. And unfortunately, women crave and hunger for that type of attention. And once we have it, we're trapped.. and most of the time, blinded. That's why it's tough to forget and let it go.
903721
Shouldn't a man also appear to be "hard to get"\nThis shows either you are a "Thinker" or there is a girl in your life who is making you feel weak for her. Well men and women are the same, both have feelings.. there is no need to make it difficult to get but it apprears so because females don wanna be friendly with all males. They think about their security. Men feel safe so they take the first step in a relation
634820
Because she is woman,she just want their partner to listen when they are having problems rather than telling them the solution.That way she will feel his understanding,surporting,caring and loving,she probably has already had solution.Just listen to her and show her you cares for her.If you would read the book <Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus>,you will understand this.
112653
They think the same about us...there is a major communication barrier.  Men and women communicate in totally different ways and therefore messages get misread.