i have been married 3 times this last onw im in going on 6 years all start going bad at three years?
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Did it ever occur to you that it might not be the men but might be you?  Maybe you are expecting marriage to be something that it isn't so you give it three years and then give up.  If you don't want a third divorce under you belt, it might be time to see a marriage counselor as well as some psychological counseling to find out exactly what the issue is.  Maybe you can stop this cycle before you match Liz Taylor husband for husband.
870892
I know it's hard because I know how you feel sort of!  I haven't had the same problems but I got married quite young.  I'm an American so I didn't start parting till I was 21 and got married at 22.  I sometimes watch shows about Ibiza and so on and like why can't I go there?  Plus, I have problems in my head from High School and everytime I try to talk to my husband he is like "Your'll get over it!"  Still he knows when I need to talk and he'll listen.  So sent down with you husband and tell him what is going on before you get depressed!
81013
I've been married for 7 years.
720743
dont get married then...you will just end up in divorce court...and you may bring a little kid into all that
165753
Because he's a jerk, just like my ex! If he's doing it now, he'll never change! I lived through that for 12 years before I got the courage to finally cut my losses. (We were married for 4 1/2 years, and was together for another 8 years after that..if you want to call it "together") I'm better off now, because I have a very loving husband who would go to the ends of the earth for me!
214647
If you hadn't said you haven't married for a long I would have probably known. I think you don't "know" your husband yet. I personally don't agree with such kind of behaviours but I think this unusual thing you see stems from somewhere else. This can be a "sign" to you which shows your husband has some sort of psycological problem which should be cured. You can eventually find the root of this if you continue your marrage. Time will show this to you and it cannot be hidden of course if you don't get divorced. Its your decision. If you continue your marrage and live with him you might as well be able to help him. If you just tell him not to do this action and even if he doesn't, you haven't solved anything, you have just covered the problem. But of course don't go up to him and say ' you have psycological problem' he might get upset !
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Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
497588
What sort of limitation are you thinking of? Divorce can happen no matter how long since marriage.
420587
The only good point I can think of is that by the time you're 30 any children will be well on the way to being raised.  \n\nI married at age 17 and had 2 sisters who married at 14, 1 married at 15 and 1 married at 16. I divorced after 19 years of marriage and have not remarried.  All of my younger sisters have been married 3-4 times and none of their original marriages lasted more than 6 years.  One was actually trying to get a divorce after only being married 1 month!  She had only know him a few months and it turned out that he was an abuser. The older you are, the more mature and able to handle the frustrations of married life you will be.
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First of all, WE ALL HAVE OUR PROBLEMS...that is part of life and relationships, it is how you manage your problems and if you can come out holding hands that matter. I was married by the time I was 19 and I have been married for 11 years. I have never had any regrets. Just look to your heart for the answer.
678191
im very sorry for the trouble you have had and hope you can get it sorted out friend.  i myself have just  my second one put in   which is now  in for  8 years luckily i have had no trouble with it hugs rach .x..x.x
465126
When my husband and I started out on our relationship over 17 years ago we did not have a lot of things. We rented an apartment and several houses along the way, have had several vehicles that turned out to not be very reliable, and even had to stay with my parents a few times. We are still together and stronger then ever.We now have a house of our own { for 3 years now} and a reliable truck to get him back and forth to work.  So do I think that a relationship can last? Yes, definitely. As long as you truly love one another and really want it to work then nothing can stand in your way. I hope that I have answered your question and good luck. By the way, I was only 16 when I got married and we have been married for 17 years and together for 2 years before that. We made it and so can you!
335636
I had 3 and one of them I am married to now and have been for 16 years! Married at 17 am now 34, have 4 children, loving life
682726
Maybe your're in the "I'm 30 depression".  If you're not happy in your marriage, get out of it.
734787
marrying my first husband at 18. had no experiences before i got married. didn't last but 5 yrs. and we fought alot.
1081449
I WAS married for a long time and it took me a long time to get the strength to leave him. I should of done it sooner. If you are scared find some sort of support group or email me. \nOnce I was away from him, I realized how crazy things and it was way worse then I ever imagined. I believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. But, it can be broken if things are bad enough.  Find a friend who you can depend on to do what you must do. If you have exhausted all hope of improving things, then you need to gather your wits and be strong and do what you need to do. I stayed way to long and it really harmed my two youngest children. They paid a huge price.
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My husband and I have been married for 29 and one half years.  Some years were great some not so great.  But we hung in there and are more in love today than when we married.  Best wishes.