what happens when you and your first true love break up. and you aren not over him a year later.?
370018
That is because you won't let go and live your own life.. you are dwelling on the past and that is a dead end, honey.  You said yourself that he has moved on..you need to just get on with your life.  You can grieve for just so long over a broken relationship, but after a while it just becomes pathetic.  Don't be pathetic.. be strong.. and be happy..  what do you think you are accomplishing by whining and crying over someone who is long gone from your life?  Grow up, dear.. this isn't the last time you will have this problem in your life, I promise.
509055
Me too. your first love is always going to be part of you. He was the first person who cared for you and the first you cared for. You will always think of him.
460295
If you love the guy, you will definitely get hurt. But I think it's a good thing that he broke up with you because you don't deserve someone who doesn't know how to love unconditionally. Find someone that will love and accept you for who you are.
1125130
depends on the reason u broke up in the first place.  People do change, but not much
1012872
I think you shouldn't wait for him and don't rush into a relationship when your not even over your ex. Don't cheat someone out of all of you. Don't go into a relationship half-ass in other words it's not fair to either of you. You can't take his hints as a sign that he might possibly want to get with you. You moved, things changed and they may never go back to what they used to be. Don't assume that you'll never love anyone as you did you EX because even if he was your first love you'll always have a place in your heart for him. But life moves on as did he and when you heart heals then you'll be able to fully commit yourself to someone else. Just give it time it will get better. Good luck gurly!
108310
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
138916
You probably will not be over him completely until you are involved with another man.  There is, as you know, a man-shaped space inside your . . . heart . . . that you need to fill.  Choose wisely this time, and you won't have to go through this again.
26448
Sure.  The girl I am with now broke up with me two years ago.  We are back together and getting married in October.
288017
You will know. There is no need to ask anyone else about your own feelings. However, if you are not in touch with your feelings, and don't really know if your in love or not, then just imagine yourself without him. If your in love, you won't be able to see yourself without him. Just ask yourself these kind of questions: How would I feel if he broke up with me? Would I try to get him back or would I just move on? Will I be sad and depressed after the breakup or just think of it as his loss?
249495
Jump ship and cut you loses.\n\nI was in a relationship that lasted for 4 years that went no where.\nI can only wish to get those 4 years back, but you know I can't.\nThe first year of a relationship should be a good guide to where it is heading.\n\nAfter only one year with my currently sweetheart, I already know she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.\n\nTo answer your question:\nYou already know what to do.\nJust make sure it's done with maturity.
633750
You will get over it.It takes time.Try to do something to help yourself get on with life.You will never love the same way again.Each time will be different.But you will find another wonderful person to fill that void.If you two broke up I am sure that you can find someone who will be the girl friend of your dreams.It all takes time.
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
322147
I know very well what you mean ! i think that the worst is to know that you found your second half , your soulmate but because of the circumstances you have to separate . it happened to me 6 years ago , and even thou its not that painfull as it was at the start i still spend a lot of thoughts on him and on the time we shared . will i get ever over it ? i dont know , i just know that yes , time heals a lot of pain , i dont feel pain anymore but i still think !!!! you will learn not to compare with time and besides its a bad thing to do . of course i know that its not easy at all not to but even this time will teach . ok , in the bottom of ur heart ................but i am sure that you will manage . think that there are a lot of people on this universe which felt the same!!! i wish u luck and all the best !!!!
407245
A year is a long time.  Now you make your decision.  Either go straight up to him and tell him how you feel, or move on.  You shouldn't dwindle on this any longer.
956200
If you were really in love with them, and you cared for them deeply, I don't think you ever "GET OVER" them.  What a lot of people don't do is to take time out for themselves.  When you break-up with someone after being in a long-term relationship, you really need to take time to heal before you move on to another person because you can't give your whole heart to him/her fully because that other person is holding a part of it.  How long it takes....Well that depends on you.  You have to ask yourself "How long am I going to allow this person to hold my heart?"  Take time, Heal, enjoy being single, and when you feel no presence of the other person then you are over them.  Of course when you see them with some one else for a split second, you will go back there but if you do and when you are able to say, well good for them then you are definitely over them.  I hope this helped because I've been where you are and that is what I did.  Take care and be HAPPY!!!
513666
no   he's  your ex  move on with your life.
98952
Forget him, If he is not over her after a year he never will be