Do you think its wrong to have multiple "boyfriends"?
368074
make sure their all in different AREA CODES!!!! then it doesnt matter!! hehe just call all of them "BABE" so you dont get their names mixed up. haha!!!
948752
Okay; I'm gonna put this plain and simple.\n\nBreak up with your boyfriend, but not to go out with the other guy. Don't go out with either one of them. If you're having thoughts or feelings of attraction for someone other than your companion, you're not ready for a committed relationship. Sure; it's fine to go on dates with both of them occasionally, but don't steady-date either of them for now. Wait until your feelings remain constant for one individual; then if you think it's the right time, see if you can progress that relationship further. That's my opinion. Hope it helped.
996517
Exactly I am in the same situation, I feel as long as we restrict our relation to platonic, then there is no problem...Its like having some one more than a friend, Its a special relation...THERE IS NO WRONG IN IT... Go ahead....
76408
well you don't see like a guy  who is ready to settle down with just one lady, if you have 7 at the same time i will be sorry for each and one of them.\ni hope they see this and  leave you all alone cos you don't deserve to be with a woman, you can't respect a woman \nsorry
86409
NO ITS NOT OK! THATS LIKE CHEATING ON THE OTHER PEOPLE, AND YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH SOMEONE, EVEN ONLY FOR SEX, IF THEY ALREADY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE. WHAT IF SOMEDAY YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, BUT LIKE REALLY FALL IN LOVE, AND U FIND OUT THEY ARE HAVING SEX WITH THEIR BEST FRIEND, YOU WOULD NOT LIKE THAT. AND EVEN WORSE IF YOU DONT EVEN KNOW. YOU EITHER DONT LOVE THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH, OR YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOUR BEST FRIEND AND DONT KNOW IT. YOU HAVE TO THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES, IT MIGHT BE GOOD TO DO IT NOW, BUT IT CAN COME WITH A HIGH PRICE IN THE END. THINK ABOUT IT. HOPEFULLY MY OPINION HELPS.
447369
Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
6654
It may not be wrong.  It may be socially acceptable.  You are the one who made the marriage vow.  The real question might be why did you go looking for another man before you terminated your relationship with your husband?  You are the one who must live with your choices.
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
716102
Do you have more than one girlfriend?
1022768
honey, its ok to love as many people as you want... but to love someone (as in a relationship) is to be true to only them. if you feel torn between the two, the truth is you probably dont LOVE either of them enough to be with one... does that make sence?\n If you truly love someone, inside and out, you'll only want to be with that one person... I hope this helps
1086457
It is wrong because one of them would not be his wife. I am not the type to castigate you for what you believe in and want to do, but i think a man should only do it with his wife.
51329
I think no one should be having a 3 some with anyone married unless it is okay with both the married partners. I dont think you should be friends anymore because your not a friend and you just broke that trust and bond that you had.
731807
I definitely think it's possible to have strong feelings for more than one person.  We're only human.  But I think when that happens we have to make a concious decision about who we want to be with, and then move on.  Like, weigh their good and bad qualities, and see how you really feel about them deep down inside.  When you've made your decision, after considering every single aspect of it, then move on.  Don't what if, don't wonder how it would have been.  You CAN develop feelings for more than one person, but I don't think it's fair to keep dwelling on that if you're with someone.  Attraction happens, lust happens, feelings happen, but that doesn't mean we have to act on it if we're in a solid relationship.  Good luck! :o)
384015
I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.
1146074
Well, I'm straight. And if 1 on 1 means that you only have one partner/boyfriend at a time, that's me also!
540036
Okay, I recognize this problem. You are a poly person. You have the capacity to love more than one person. There are many just like you engaging in the poly lifestyle. It doesn't get played up very often, in fact American popular culture likes to pretend that monogamy is the only reasonable way to be. Not to me. I love my girlfriend completely and wish for her every joy. I don't feel some need to qualify my love, or allow my love to be tainted by the negativity of jealousy. Just the fact that you're trying to decide which one you should have a RELATIONSHIP with, instead of simply dating multiple people is because of our society's support of relationships as a form of serial monogamy. If you're not ready to commit, then there's no point in committing.\n\nBut I could be wrong. This is just my own point of view.