why is everbody so critical?
373664
Why are you so sensitive.  My guess is you have some self-esteem issues.
667966
everyone sweats. Fat asses might sweat more than everyone else.
343886
I hate stickly celebs. Heck I don't like anyone who has an unhealthy weight (skinny or fat). If your thin despite a well-balanced diet and exercise, then that's alright. Your Metabo is just fast. If your big and the same thing, then your Metabo is just slow. But if your force food down your mouth or eat fast food all the time or if your anorexic and stuff, you need help! Me and my fiancee' may not look like models (at least our stomachs don't) but we are happy with ourselves and don't fall into the whole thin/thick problems.
35121
I can't stand it when people say "ideal" weight.  that's what causes people to be anorexic!!  It's all based on frame size and whether you are fit or not.
1112220
You need to love yourself because you are being too critical. You seem depressed and pressured. Take time out for yourself for a while. Say bye-bye to those so called friends. Later on some new people will come into your life to help you stay stable and present constructive criticism to your inner soul.
982908
Definately weight and obesity. Man.. after your questions yesterday, it got me thinking on the subject and holy hell are people super sensitive about that subject! It doesn't matter what the question or statement is, it seems folk go straight on the defensive without even comprehending it properly. They instantly take it personally when it isn't and cry abuse if you so much as discuss it. Even though, it's a serious health problem, it seems that we can not mention the fact that someone is overweight! Oh and god help you if you use the word 'Fat'!
907354
No one is a nice person 100% of the time, so no one can say they are. Crazylegs is trying to be cool by writing a long answer that means nothing.
1075428
Why? Where to start, how about that everything is allready so F.U.B.A.R. that trying to change it is impossible, just a little fish fighting against the overwhelming current of ingnorance and distaste. Some people just don't think for themselves beleive it or not, like little robots, you input info and they never question anything for themselves.
1064120
Maybe its an inferiority complex!! 8o) LMAO Thanx
533827
Unfortunately, many people use outward appearances as the measure of a person, and fail to look for the inner strenghts and beauty.  Our society has become one that has the luxury and superficiality that places great emphasis on outward appearances - consider the number of people with eating disorders, the starvation diets of models, the trend toward believeing that size 2 is normal, the number of people who get cosmetic surgery, the people working out in gyms to a level far beyond anything necessary for health, etc.  \n\nWhy would anyone think it odd that many people judge books by their covers?  People judge books by their covers because our society encourages and supports and fosters and approves that philosophy.
895519
Hot and sweaty, as always...\n\nSummer is unbearable and sweaty by comparison
489456
I think that what is outside is not that important. you can have a slamming body but if you have a nasty attitude that messes up everything. The most important thing is to get to know someone for who they are not for what they look like.
500086
Fear! We all want to be accepted.this leads to wearing many faces until you understand that being yourself is your best option.
626394
What one or other is matter of prespective. Rarely everyone have same opinion about something. Again how good looking or sexy one is depend on where you are. For example in Africa you may be considered sexy if you are plum with big lips and eyes whereas in some other area you need to slim with big boobs whereas in still some other place you may have to have many grey cells in your head so that you can talk which make people think about. \n\nSecond thing whom do you ask. Like they say if you ask some one whom you  are easily accessible may say you are but may not think that person have easy access to you whereas some one else whom you have never met have different opinion as newness makes the difference.\n\nUltimately if you ask me I feel everyone is in one sense or other as we all are God's own children and He is one who created us so why He will create children who are not Top of Class.\n\nConclusion considering all above - YOU ARE!!!
444002
I think that what they say is true, everyone is their own worst critic.  We all want to look good and be as attractive as we can be, and perceive ourselves in maybe a different way than from what we think.  I might think that I look damn good one day, get a pic taken, and then totally think that I look like shit.  Some people are just not photogenic either.  I would not take it too hard though because we all just want to look good,and people have different tastes.  What looks good to one person, might not look good to another.  Thats why there are attractions, if we all had the same damn tastes and thought that one thing was attractive, then there would not be a lot of fun would there?
1114885
That sort of woman lives a life of self-induced misery.  \n\nYou know those "gossip rags" that feature unflattering photos of size 0-4 female celebs on their front pages, with arrows pointing to practically nonexistent "cellulite"?  --And the ones who have front-page headlines about how this celeb or that one is dangerously anorexic--complete with photos of bones sticking out all over the place  (nevermind that the same gal who has bones stuck out out on one part of her body might have microscopic "cellulite" on another part of her body)?  Well, those rags are designed specifically to appeal to the sort of woman who is obsessed with her own looks--and who assumes that the sort of minute scrutinization of females that these rags promote is, somehow, "normal" behavior!  The whole point of this sort of thing is to 1-sell stuff and 2-to keep us women in such a constant state of insecurity that we won't stop to think about the really important things in life.\n\nIn other words, if you buy into the way of thinking that these rags are selling, then \n1-you support the notion that women's value lies solely in their looks and sexuality\n2-you are obsessed with maximizing your own "value"\n3-you invest all of your time, energy, and money on improving your looks\n4-in order to feel "validated," every other woman must also be "competing" with you, and you must "best" them\n5-if you happen to spot some woman, somewhere, who looks as if she doesn't care about hair, nails, makeup, weight, body firmness, etc., then you get ALL INFURIATED with her for not even TRYING to compete in "the game," because in your mind, she is implicitly saying that she doesn't value the same things that you value...and this is an unforgiveable insult!\n\nSo, basically, when a woman scrutinizes another woman in this manner, one of two things is happening:  She may see the other woman as a competitor in "the game," and she's assessing the other woman's "value," as compared with her own.  If she figures that the other woman is not "as good as" she is, then she's pretty happy with herself.  If the other woman looks better in some ways, then she'll scrutinize her "competitor" closely, looking to find ANY teensy little "fault."  OTOH, the women who appear to be not "playing the game" at all are on the receiving end of blatant viciousness, because the other woman's non-conpliance with the "looksim" value system is perceived to be an insult...and insults "must" be met with counter-insults.  For example, there was an infamous incident in California, in which a fat woman was enjoying a piece of pie, and some skinny woman walked by her, literally slapped the fork out of the fat woman's hand, and screamed at her that she had no "right" to be eating pie, due to her weight.  But what the skinny shrew was really saying was that she was angry that the other woman obviously didn't care about how good SHE (the shrew) looked, given that she (the fat gal) didn't seem to care about her own looks.\n\nYep--all of those self-appointed "Queen Bees" need constant affirmations in order to feel like queens.  They require constant feedback from men-in-general (they actually seem to enjoy obscene comments being shouted at them in public--in their minds, it affirms their sexiness), and envy and admiration from all women.\n\nPretty sad, huh?
174983
Because it's still seen as acceptable to bash big people. Some people don't understand that judging people on appearances is wrong. Strangely enough, I've seen this from people who feel that they don't have a predjudicial bone in their body.