I basically told my best friend I hated him, but I said it in anger. How do I make it better now?
359719
Write him a letter, or just keep on saying that you are sorry.
545498
That's a hard one. It's really going to take a while for your friends to forgive you. What I think you should do is give them some space, then do something HUGE that says "I'm sorry and I've learned my lesson. I won't lie to you anymore." That might work pretty good. Good luck and I hope I helped you! :)\n\nPS. I'm sorry can work magic in situations like this.
901441
Hello! Well here is my advice because I went through the same thing twice. Now I'll be HONEST and go straight to the point.\n\nIF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM LIKE HE DOES SORRY YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS BUT IF YOU HAVE THE SAME FILLINGS THAN HE DOES CALL HIM AND TELL HIMS SO...BUT YOU HAVE TO LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENED => \n\nBest of luck,\n\nGaby
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
1170995
Move on forward, don't waste strength on focusing on that anger. Surely you'll find a better one, TRUST ME.
1097926
you should'nt forced yourself to be friend with someone you don't liked. Your bestfriend would understand if he care for u.
649579
1. Admit you were wrong. Be humble.\n2. Say that you shouldn't have accused him.\n3. Admit you were out of line.\n4. You understand his reaction and can't blame him. \n5. What you're going to do going forward to avoid this.\nFinally, ask him to please accept what you're saying as an apoligy. You acted out of emotion and that wasn't right.
905333
Be honest with him if he gets mad at least at the end he can respect the fact that you were upfront and honest. Just explain to him how you feel and tell him that you don't really want a relationship right now but you still want to be friends with him.
1169959
If he annoys you, the problem is in you. Deal with it. As a former friend, you should at least treat him with civility. Use "politeness" - do not backbite and gossip. Do not attempt to change his life for your convenience. That is not nice, much less "Christian."\nDeal with him as though he were a mildly amusing stranger. Evidently (since you used to be friends) you once found something attractive about his personality.
279976
well did u do something to make him mad? u should DEFINTALY talk to him! good luck! =)
152533
6 years ago - what you're friend said to you was very insensitive.  It sounds as if she finally realized what she's done wrong, but if she acted as if nothing's happened and can't seem to recall the hurtful things she's said to you years before, mayB U need to remind her that what she said to you (when you were in a state a mourning) was very hurtful and let her know that her remark had placed a damper on your friendship.  Honestly, we're all human and we all do make mistakes with the things we say or do.  I'd say give your friend another chance, but be clear on the reasons why you haven't kept in touch with her all those years and be honest with how you really felt.\n\nAt least this is my opinion.  I've also learned from past mistakes and I've lost some valuable friendships, because I've never expressed to them how I really felt about certain issues.
1111884
You broke it....you buy it!  It is you who's supposed to apologize to him, not him to you.  He just acted defensively against you, cause I can imagine what kind of things you said to him.  \n\nYou go to him to reconcile, and he will say "sorry" to you too for hitting you back.  Just don't expect too much from him...cause is you who made the damage....not him...he just tried to cover himself.  If he doesn't forgive you...move on.\n\nNext time...watch out for what you say.
375854
girl don't bother about what they say.just go to his house and apologize about what happened and he may forgive you.and another note whatever that girl say just tell her that she's hating and that you wish that you had him and stop drinking that haterrade
628313
Well what I would do is first of all, tell my friend the truth.  Tell her that I only said it because I was jealous of the time she was spending with the other person.  If you don't really dislike the other person, go to them personally and apologize and try to make amends.  Let them know you were jealous of the attention they were getting and maybe you guys can work it out.
455532
If you are embarassed by what you have said call him on the phone. You could also write him a letter and hand deliver it or mail it. Writing him a letter will get all your feelings out and you won't feel the need to hold anything back. If not, talk to him when you two are alone, no need for anyone else to be in your business. Talk openly and explain how bad you feel for hurting his feelings.
1051924
Two years before we had a hot spot and fought but as both were stubborn we remained the same for a week. Later while playing a game before tests(whole class played yaar) we were in oppostie teams and then in same teams that time we could not avoid speaking to each other.Our anger melted and once again buddies forever. \nNow for some advice,listen to me. If you can rate your friend please see if he/she is worth of your friendship. If they are then apologise and don't fight again. If not then shut your mouth and go find some worthy and truthful friend. Ok good luck.
220576
think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.