my friends think that i am a very nice person, but other People think that i am way to nice?
368713
No such thing as too nice.  What you're doing is amazing.  If only more people in the world were like you.  You just keep doing what you need to make yourself and others happy.  Screw what others think.
452023
Relax, a lot of us have been in the same situation.  I was never one to have many friends and because I was one of the smallest in my class a lot of people often tried to pick on me.  I learned that the best thing to do is simply not care about what other people think or say.  I learned to accept who I was and the fact that a lot of people are just mean or idiots.  In the end I had a few good friends and people left me alone because they found out they didn't matter to me and the things they said and did didn't bother me.  If they know what they do affects you then they keep doing it just because they get a reaction out of you.
862251
Obviously your more intelligent than most people. That's not taking a stab at ya. Some are more receptive to their world than others. You see what many are blind to. But it may be rude to correct people all the time. Gentle aknowledge their veiw and show them yours without any judgement. Don't be sorry ....just be yourself yourallright and on track.
503014
Don't stop being a kind and generous person.  Do stop being a doormat.  I am the voice of experience.  Just be sure that what you do is not out of your way or an inconvenience to you.  Ensure you are not being so generous and kind to try to bring friendship to yourself.  That would mean you have an ulterior motive in being generous and that's not what it's about. Don't do things to have people like you, do things for people who have already demonstrated they will do things for you too.  Good luck with it.
893946
I think that you are a warm and beautiful person inside and out and I am lucky to count you as my friend.\n\nSomebody is obviously having a bad day giving all the thumbs down when were being so nice!
100960
YES!!!  I am one of them and most of my friends are!  I think nice people can be hard to find but if you look and you're nice too, you can find them!  : )  Being nice is the only way to be...I have bad days but still try to be nice!
258450
well being friendly is a wonderful characteristic, not everyone is like that! but making friends also depends in how their character is.
1023958
I think you are lovely looking.Wouldn't answer if I didn't think so.(what possible reason could I have for "just being nice" to a stranger?)\nWhy are you asking though? Are you depressed, do you think?Is there something underlying? It sounds like maybe....\nHope you work through it, if only the bit about accepting that you're really quite lovely.\nGood luck.
469965
Maybe you are just hanging with the wrong sort of people who don't appreciate you! I am sure, if you are nice and friendly, then people will like you.
792338
What? Of course its not wrong to be kind/honest/friendly/caring! Its part of being human to do this. If you don't ever, you are a psycho. If you do it all the time, you are Ghandi or something and people should build statues to you.Without those four things, society would fall apart. Horrible and ugly? I hope your friends are just kidding. Besides, no one should tell someone else how to live their life. You are you. If that you is a good person, so much the better. Too bad your current friends are so weird and mean.\n\nSomeone who merely talked about those four things might get boring after a while. Someone who acts on them never will. Keep it up!
213734
Maybe you're just a little more mature than others your age.  There's nothing wrong with being nice, but that's not enough.  You need to add some flare, like humor, or be like Napolean Dynamite and use a skill. haha.  But you get the idea, nice is just nice, you need to express more than that in your personality because the nicest guy in the world could be very boring or very exciting, it just depends on what else there is besides being nice.
547948
Aren't you proud of yourself?  Are you self-proclaimed or did someone poll the whole state to determine you are the best?  Do me a favor kid, and don't start tooting your own horn until you've done something worthwhile.  And then you would be much better off letting someone else tell everyone how good you are.  Modesty actually is a good quality, regardless of what others may tell you.
10531
Actually, they think they are better than YOU.  Which you should have written "ME".  Maybe they wouldn't think that if you learned to use better grammar.  Good Luck...  And don't worry about other folks' opinion too much, just be right and know that you are a good person, others will believe you are as long as you KNOW you are!
936379
You may have to choose whether to be a real person or continue to "fake it to impress."  If these people don't like the real you, then they aren't really friends anyway.  I know you know that already which is the reason for the " " marks.  In my own life, I have found that having a few really good best friends is much more valuable than having some "friends" who don't value the real me. You deserve to be respected and liked for yourself, not for what someone else wants you to be.
889728
my friend, you are d most kind hearted person I had d pleasure of reading about. What you did was very noble and good. However, you should not be downcast because people have been to call you names. You should not be worried about that but be happy that you have done the right thing and that posterity will vindicate you. Also, ask yourself this question, which great man was never badmouthed or critisced?  None. Everyone of them was vilified, cursed and some even killed. But dont be perturbed about what people say (because will always talk even if you dont do anything) but be happy that you did what was in your heart to do and you did the right thing. \nAlso, remember that you are unique and different because we live in a time where most people are selfish and selfcentered but you showed that you are not, but you didnt think about the money you will be wasting but the benefit it will have to the community. And dont you forget than even in the whole community were everyone is critisizing you that there is someone(one person) that is happy with what you did and that is what really matters. Cheers
511783
Don't worry , u are going just right. The more people feel jealous of u and the more they talk about u, it indicates that u make them feel inferior and that's because u are superior to them. In this world of 6.5 billion people even if you are reasonably good looking and intelligent, there would be at least 3-4 billion people inferior to u and they all will have some opinion about you ( mostly negative) so one has to live with it if one wants to progress in life. Be immune to such duds
513284
I'm sorry but you sound nice so don't let them get you down I never rely on people for self esteem .