How can I convince my daughter she's dating the wrong and dishonest guy? Please give me a clue...?
359717
I am assuming here that your daughter is in her teens but even if she is older it is in everyone's hearts to show their parents that they are independent and capable of making decisions for themselves. Any efforts by you to tell them they are wrong can only drive them harder to prove they are right. I think it is time to let her ride this one through. No matter how much your heart aches to see her obviously making a mistake, you are going to have to bite your tongue and put some trust in the good things you have taught her. If you have done right by her and taught her well she will come to her senses...  Fighting her will only push her away.\nTough call I know, but again... have trust in the values you have taught her....
69654
Tell her that her boyfriend is a sleazeball...
1107497
Talk to her make sure you know the situation. Don't jump to conclusions, but at the same time women do the same things to guys as far as looking in your phone so, you're not wrong and trust your instics they are there for a reason. If she lies to you, don't scream, don't yell just walk away from the relationship.  I'd treat her like a stranger I walked past on the street, with no familiarity, and be done with it. There had to be some other things that you've been noticing before now if she is cheating. That is the Ulitimate disrespect, and no one deserves it. I hate to accuse casue I don't know her but sounds like your trust in her is already damaged.
568455
Yes, tell her it all.  Unfortunately, she may not believe you and it may cause a rift in your relationship with her, for awhile anyway.  You shouldn't have waited though.  It may sound like sour grapes at this point and your mom may think you are making this up because she is making fun of you.  I would tell her that she could believe you or not.  It is her choice, but to not be surprised to find out that your stepdad, has been cheating on her in the past, or will be cheating on her in the future.  Tell her that you are not saying this for any other reason than that she needs to know the truth.  I'd even tell her that you really thought that he was being a great guy by coming all that way to help you out and that you wouldn't say anything against him if it was not true.  Tell her that you do not want to cause any problem with her and your relationship with her.  I would also tell her that you do not want to be alone with him or have your daughter left alone with him.  It may make your point stronger.  Good luck!
785027
Tell your son that he has to be careful about the people he talks to and becomes friends with. Let him know that you don't think this particular female is the kind of person he should become friends with and you're only telling him this because you love him very much and don't want him to be hurt. Also, he needs to tell this girl to please stop sending him messages.\n\nUnfortunately I have a feeling this girl just wants somebody she can tease and embarrass. She is definitely not a classy lady.
471674
Don't try to use the kids against her. That's probably what she does, but if you do the same, it will only make things worse. On the other hand, you might have to fight dirty. Don't be dishonest, and don't ever show your anger, but the courts don't reward chivalrous conduct. If you have money, then hire a lawyer with a successfully pro-father track record. If you don't have money...well, I don't know what to tell you then. I hope I never have to face what you are going through.
1008439
A brick through her parents bedroom window with the message  "I wanna marry your daughter! From, the guy across the street" ought to do the trick. Good luck man, let us know how it goes.
581984
damn playa! you got some jerry springer shit going on. hahahaha\n\n1. you pay child support than you are entitled to see your daughter.. don't let her threaten you like that\n2. you date who you like and see who you like because she is doing the same\n3. she wants you to be a good father to your daughter but she is also using that to hold you down\n4. you already know she will be there for you always.. go do what you got to do man!
363452
nice question!\nI'd try to make them argue. You can poison the girl\nor the boy with your ideas, make them think that one\nof that is cheating...
66014
She is considered as an adult , so there's nothing you can do legally if she left with him willingly, the best thing you can do for your daughter is to just support her on her decision and when things don't work out, be there for her, let her know that NO MATTER WHAT you are there for her and that your love is unconditional, what you don't want is for her not to want anything to do with you and when things go wrong she'll be scared to come to you and end up in a worst situation.
275348
It sounds like you want to test her.  Try this:\n\nuse a freinds car and park across the street from her work.  Call a flower shop, and have them send her a dozen roses, with a card that sais " from you know who ", or something just as obtuse.  when the flower guy delivers the flowers to her job, call her before she has a chance to use her phone\n   If she brings up the flowers, then you can admit they are from you, and you know she is not cheating on you, and you look like a prince for being so romantic.\n   If she didnt mention the flowers, You know she didnt have time to call her boyfriend, and ask if HE sent them. Then you know she is cheating on you, and you never had to ask, she never had to lie, and it only cost you about fourty bucks instead of a soap opera of deception.\n\nGood luck.
1057385
This man is sick.  He has committed the ultimate infidelity to you and your daughter.  You MUST leave him or you will never have peace in your life.  It will hurt, but this must be done or you will die in your heart.  You are too good of a woman for that to happen.   Please leave him, for your own sake and the sake of your daughter.
744667
I'm a female.  But if I was in that man's shoes, I would not take that lightly.  How can she be such a con?! \n\nThen I would sue for custody of the child.  How do I know if she will look after the child being a liar that she is.  She is just a bad person all round. \n\nI would be ashamed to call her my friend if I were you.  There's nothing wrong with him not using protection.  He had the knowledge that she wouldn't fall pregnant.  He was just decieved.  Period.
53820
how sever was this touching?  what proof do you have?   notify DSS departmetn of social servce immediately. they will take the kids away and let your daughter marry who ever she wants but the kids will be safe.  obvioulsy the kids arent very importatn to her. \n\nwhy is she so stupid
40937
Wow, I have read all your questions and I feel for you.\nI think the most important thing are your 2 daughters that it seems like you both love. For their well being they need to have their father in their life.\n\nI think you really need to look inside and really think what is it that you want out of your life. I think you 2 are mature enough to not play games. If you do not have any reason to feel he is cheating, then I will not believe that he asked you that just to fish for information.\nI think that to have family dates on a weekly basis, should give you enough time to see if he is really changing, and to find out what are your true fillings for him. Also keep up the counselling together and each alone. I will stick to the dates and the counseling for now, until you are convinced that this time would be the last time.\nGood luck
908521
She probly won't believe you, so you have to show her.  Call the kid out for what he is and introduce her to the real deal.
1121230
well do this, i tried it and it helped. first because you have been so patient now its the pay back time for her, start asking her very personal questions e.g.. about her life, love life, how she loves to have s.e.x, how many men she has slept with and dated, how many kids she has, are they all from one father? has she ever cheated on her husband or boyfriend, is she poor?\nI mean just ask her all sorts of things and see how she responds, she will after some times realize that she has been very nosy and will eventually stop.