Have you ever given a guy your number without him asking?
360326
YES. WHEN I FIRST MET MY HUSBAND. HE WAS STARING AT ME SO HARD I ALMOST FELL. SO I WALKED TO HIM AND ASKED WHY WAS HE STARING, HE TOLD ME BECAUSE I WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFULEST GIRL HE'D EVER SAW. I FELT IT WAS GAME AT THE TIME BUT I SEE IT WASN'T CAUSE HE TELLS ME EVERY DAY HE SEE'S ME AND WE BEEN MARRIED 21/2 YRS GOING 0N 3 .BUT ANYWAY I GAVE HIM MY NUMBER AND WE TALKED AND DATED FOR A 1YR AND THEN GOT MARRIED. SO IT'S NOTHING WRONG WITH GIVING A GUY A NUMBER AS LONG AS HE'S GIVING YOU A REASON TO OR HE'S INTO YOU ALSO.
561040
well that has happened to me b4! before he moves give him your number and tell him when he moves to call you!
668232
if he didn't give u his number u shouldn't call. just grip yourself together and don't call. u might try another way of approaching him and maybe he will give u his number himself. but it is rreally really low for a girl to call a guy if he didn't give her his phone number
874562
NO AUTHORITY- Can I get your number
219943
Be direct!!!  Believe me guys would love more women to simply ask them out for a change.  Call him up, say you met where ever and you want to know if he's involved. If he isn't ask him out. Easy isn't it?
578076
No.. and don't let him assume either.\n\nDepending on how much you like him... I would mention you were asked out by another guy ( don't say who )  and dont say you accepted.\n\nMaybe let him overhear you telling a gf..\n\nJust see how he reacts...  that might give you a clue how much he likes you or not.\n\ngood luck\nstef
380524
I would say that there's different reasons toward not wanting to give out your number to a guy. But I would say that the following are good comments to say to anyone-"sorry, but not looking for anything new now. Maybe if we meet again sometime in the future." Or "Sorry, but not interested in getting involved with anything now." (excuses-to busy with work, leaving on a trip & won't be back for a while, just not looking, etc.) \n\nI'm also one who, doesn't like to lie...But when it comes to a guy I don't really like for whatever the reason, then I just tell them the truth, w/a little white (true, but with some lie mixed in). \n\nBut I would definitely say, that the truth is the best, even if you have to tweek it just a tad. Stay strong, & don't "break". Especially if you don't like him. \n\nIf it doesn't work, then do what others have said, give them a fake number, or change it around some...hell maybe even give him a number of some business (hehehe...oops)
545094
first of all have you ever even talked to him? Because often times guys in different social ranks have no clue who you are other than the girl in his math class.
750687
I did that a few times while dating.. Called the guy by the wrong name. He didn't seem to matter. He said that I was with him not the other guy!!!!!
808753
I don't see why she'd give him her phone number for getting a compliment on her shoes...... So, I'd say no.. this is a bad pick-up. I can't give advice on how to pick up someone because I'm a girl and I just don't do that kinda stuff. :P\n\nIf that was the case and I gave out numbers to everyone who complimented me, my number would be famous. LOL.
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
624352
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
711548
Heck no.  In this day and age women DO ask out men they are interested in. Also, if you don't let a man know that you are interested he may be too shy to ask you out.  Let him know how you feel - ask him out. But you have to understand that in asking a man out you may face disappointment if he says no.  If that happens just accept it and move on.
868408
He is not as into you as you are into him.  In fact, if you didn't call, I wonder if he would ever call you.  He may not be interested, but doesn't want to hurt you when  you call him.  As for not answering questions, that is a bad sign.  He may be seeing someone else.\n\nI'm sorry... but that's how I see it.  As for what to do.... don't call him anymore.  If he wants a relationship with you, he will call you.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
389688
no\nlook in phone book
653318
Not sure. Your guy seems like an extra careful person, since you never told him straight and he never told you either.
405935
Of course. Not necessarily my number (just kidding)