Taking advantage of a friend.?
373734
let me get this stright this guy has an apartment of his own but has no furinture att all, no couch no nothing! how weird! he can sleep on the floor in his, apartment! you can get a single bed for about $100.00 or less! this guy is a freeloader and gives us gays a bad name! i would kick him out or tell him to start paying some bills!! what a looser!!!
599089
You gently remind them. If they make an excuse to not pay you then and there, get them to commit to a date (I'll have it all for you next Friday) or a payment plan (I'll pay you $10 every Monday). \n\nIf your 'friend' still evadess his/her responsibility, just banish this person from your life. $100 or so is CHEAP to get a person like this out of your life forever and ever.\n\nNext time you loan a friend money, get something for collateral. That way, if there is some reason your friend can't pay you back, you can sell the item and get your money that way. So no matter what happens, the two of you can still be friends. If your friend both intends to repay you and values your friendship, your friend will readily see the wisom of this plan.\n\nWhen you loan money to a friend without getting collateral, you often lose both your money and your friend.
739189
F U C K  her \n\ndamn a good friend would trust you all the way.
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
127771
Well think about it if she/he is reallly a good friend they'll come around! & how many times has she done it? You just need to take the facts into consideration!\nGood Luck!
176735
Take her to the cinema, or out for a meal, as friends of course. Little things like that can lead to bigger and better things.
840604
Well you and your friend put your foot into your mouths,shame on you ha ha ha ha,but it is fix able......Offer her a gift,take it over to her house and say your sorry,suck it up! \n\nA nice gift to offer her,given she tried to explain her problem,would be a gift of rock salt deoderant,it's amazing for just this type of problem,you can buy them at any health food store,and they are only a couple dollars. She will think you actually took the time to think about her,and the problem she tried explaining to you when you made fun of her.
224980
You've fallen into the friendship trap, and she's using you. Seriously, girls like that are no good for a "nice guy" because they only respond to abuse. You will never get romantically involved with this girl, so stop paying for anything and tell her you're not interested in just being friends.
839954
ask a friend  to drop you off..
263976
Get this in your head everyone lies. Until you and your "friend" could have a level of trust that is sincere then you're in business. And know how to tell nice people from bad people, dont be naive. If your like under 21 then grow up some more.
253185
Have a friend of a friend ..ask her.Or better yet ask her yourself.
68237
Sounds like a mooch...maybe dont do anything with this friend where money is involved.  or bring it up and tell them that you can't keep footing the bill, if they keep wanting to, maybe they are in the friendship more for the free stuff then you.
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
587428
Having a friend with benefits sounds like a splendid idea; however, why would you want to be "special friends" with someone who most likely has the same kind of "relationship" with someone else?  I would rather have "benefits" with just one person I trust will only have "benefits" with me.\n\nThis "special friend" is most likely loving this "relationship" you two have going on right now--he's a guy!  It doesn't sound like either one of you have feelings for each other, so it would not hurt either one of you to end it.  On the other hand, if you would like to explore an actual relationship with this person, then you should probably cut the secret stuff.
572922
ask her to share feelings as well as money
425182
i will not consider this till my pocket allows. I will like to give him/her the best, i can. \n\nThe money can be earned again and again, but friends can't be. Whether they are there for you, otherwise not. No other option.
446162
What your friend is doing is black mailing you, just to try to hook up with you. But if you let your guard down and go out with your friend it won't be based on true love, it will be based on dishonesty and you won't be very happy. I say forget about your friend because if he is willing to try to blackmail you into being his lover then he is not a true friend.