Why do I feel so out place?
373743
just be yourself---dont let anyone pressure you into pretending like someone you are not.  If they are truly your friends--they will stick by you
1035737
its normal to feel sad a lot and feel extreme ups and downs when youre 13 because youre going through a lot of changes in your life and with your hormones. but if you feel like its getting out of control then you need to do something about it. if people are really your friends they wont look at you differently, they will want to be there to help you? if you really feel like you have no one to help you out they have a bunch of teen hotlines and websites where you can meet people to talk to you about your problems. you could even talk to me more if you need someone. you might also want to think about talking to your doctor or getting yourself into some therapy to see if they can help you out. its rought but try and keep your head up and see this through.
865079
some people are giving really scary answers to this question!\n\nyup feeling detached is a totally normal symptom of depression. although you shouldnt have to suffer like this - perhaps you could talk to your GP. they could maybe change your medication, in the hope that would help, or maybe refer you to a counsellor or something? just a thought.\n\nanyway, its totally normal - i experienced the same thing myself - so dont worry about it.
748750
it could be the base of depression...talk to someone about how your feeling before you start to feel worse, or it could just be that your exhausted from over doing things and just need a good sleep to give your body time to repair
878035
Well yes for once i do feel like you. And the week that passed i was in the eye of the storm, loosing my cat and watching my puppy die. Since i have no friends either in the country i live the last 3 years, i lost my 2 precious "babies" that kept me some company, altho im only 26 and not bad looking.\n\nIn previous summer i had a horrible incident of panic attack , i could not breathe. I went to Hospital but nothing was organically wrong with me, it was psychologicly caused from anxiety and feeling awful all the time.\n\nSince then, and becouse i hate having panic attacks i try to relax and never let anyone spoil my personal moments.\n\nIn this i want to to point out how much important it is to focus on your life in case you have been focusing on making other ppl's lifes better and neglecting your own. (just in case)\n\nAlso, friends are easily made if you make an effort. I grew up travelling around and i know how hard it is, im not good at it either. But i have learned in practise, if you are happy to make friends, you will at the end! It is natural.\n\nJust dont expect too much from ppl, and always be easy on yourself...especially if u feel bad...take your time, cry or be lazy, dont ponder and dont ask "about the future"\n\nEnjoy your ,even lonely, moments. You are definitaley, NOT ALONE in this.
573903
Now, now now, my son, it's normal to feel persecuted, but I'm certain if you sit back and have a nice cool glass of water and stay out of the sun you'll feel better in a little while. You must be a little muddle headed as you're not making much sense in your question's syntax. Sit down before you hurt yourself.
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it may be that you feel more vulnerable that way, i used to have problems similar to that, and i know i felt a lot more secure if i were on my side, somewhat in a fetal position, or on my stomach. but a doctor or phychiatrist can probably give you a better answer.
902407
It feels very uncomfortable to even think about for me , I think that is a very personal act . If I were at work or any other public place and had no choice I would have to . I usually stay home if I think I may have a problem though .
974895
What you are feeling is perfectly normal for a person of your age. There would be something a little wrong if you didn't feel that way. The time will come soon enough. finish school, or you will have a lifetime of regrets over leaving now. You have no idea how lucky you are. I wish I had that kind of set up when I was your age. some of us run out of the house years too early for reasons of our own.\n\nI think you need a wild vacation, but a safe one. You will come back with a new perspective. Treat yourself to something different.
1081529
Ya wanna hear something goofy? When I was a teenager, I felt just like you! I would wish to god I was a Siamese twin, just so I wouldn't feel so alone. It is hard to explain, I wasn't really lonely cause I had lots of friends and people who loved me, it's more a feeling that all of them and the whole human race belonged to this,(something) what ever it was except me! I could be in a room full of people yet feel all alone. Then one day I started asking myself: WHAT DO I WANT? As I lay in my dark bed   crying myself to sleep, I would ask: WHAT DO I WANT RIGHT NOW? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL AND FILL THE VOID IN ME? Perhaps something that would make me a part of something! Well I don't really know what to tell you except I volunteered for a suicide hot line, I served underprivileged children dinners, I  worked at a mission, helping the homeless, I sat with the elderly etc. and as time passed, the awful feeling of being alone gradually went away! That was quite a few years ago and I haven't felt that way since. I don't know what happened, but what ever it was, it sure worked for me. Maybe it will work for you too! Good Luck!
77534
Gain some space then learn to be comfortable , with your own campany by treating yourself right, and gradualy find new interested and explore new things. it sounds like you've cut youself off from the rest of the world... get out much? Don't put all your eggs in one basket....
1027586
maybe because you feel your prayers are not answered,\n\nmaybe you feel like your will alone will set your mind in motion.\n\nnow you are on the right track
861615
I usually feel insecure in front of people.  My ears droop, my tail hangs between my legs, and I crouch down.  Sometimes I even lay on my back with my feet in the air and whine.\nNow my dog is gregarious and sometimes aggressive when confronted by something strange.
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We are very open like that...and would totally understand and not expect you to do anything you didn't feel comfortable with.\n\nMost people who are that open are generally very laid back...so just talk to them and tell them how you feel...I am sure they will very cool with your feelings
1177014
anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
98396
Everyone i guess, always gets the feeling of being lonesome. It usually happens when you tend to act on your own and it seem that you don't wanna trust outside. You lock yourself in your own world. TRY TO OPEN UP TO LIFE; TO THE WORLD itself.Celebrate life at the moment, by seeing the presence of others. Once you do this , you will find people around you who accept you, recognizes you and loves you just the way you are.
147181
Not sure I understand question.  Are you claustrophobic or just a feeling of being lost and not sure where you are going in life?  Didn't say how old you are or if you have gone thru a traumatic event.  The purpose of life is what you want it to be.  Set goals for yourself (finish school, get a job, eat healthy, exercise, make friends, etc.)  You are on earth because you were born.  Good luck to you!