why is it so hard to find your true soulmate? Ive been hurt too many times by potentials......?
375408
It is true that you will be hurt because you thought you found someone.  But it will be a blessing when you find that person who wants you back the same way.  There isn't just one soulmate, I believe that there can be several.  I hope you can find one of them that can make you happy.  Everyone deserves to be loved the same way they love someone.
183187
Your soul mate will come to you unexpectedly.  Just relax.  Your time will come for love, dont push it.
643741
It sometimes gets discouraging doesn't it?I completely understand what you are saying.\nFor me it has taken realizing that the right person for me is not in my town and most likely not in my state.Opening up to the possibility of the right person being in another state widened the potential matches.\nI guess that is not for everyone,but I did not want to miss out on the right person just because I was stuck on thinking they are near by.\nI wish I had the answers but I don't all I know is sometimes we do need a break to just "be" as the search can be exhausting on soo many levels.\nI know many people will tell you to stop looking and the right person will find you,but what if everyone just sits back and stops looking??LOL I am not sure how that would work then lol\nBottomline you have to do what feels right for you :)
367843
Love is a tricky thing.  Some times it seems like it is never  around and as soon as it finds you then there is suddenly sometimes more than you can handle.  Have faith and stay true to who you are and don't give up.
63296
I have always believed there is a perfect soulmate for everyone.  However, I do think that there are often times that people do not realize this and completely overlook the person they are meant for.  So, some people go their entire lives not ever truly "finding" their perfect soulmate, even though they may have been right in their face the entire time.
17062
you can definitely feel it. but note there are three kinds of soulmate one is karmic which the two of you would only succeed if under such heavy circumstances meet both expectations, darmic, this is the hardest to be found, they are the one  who is with you, always to the rescue,lend a helping hand no matter what, and the last one is the twin flame soulmate from which you fall in the same interests, the same likes and dislikes, both have common things to share.there is no limit on how many soulmate that come to pass by in our lives. they're everywhere, you just have to identify which is which.
241775
love can hit you anytime anywhere... you dont have to meet the person to feel the love... I wud say yes, you can find a soulmate on net.. \ngood luck
307219
because when we go into a relationship, we really put ourselves out there, and give it 110% expecting the same in return, as whole heartedly as we can be, its really hard to find sincere people these days, but don't dont worry you'll find someone that will care and love you the way you really deserve, and put all their effort into the relationship, the same as your doing.
244701
You dont search for your soul mate, you find eachother. Soul mates are connected, even before you meet. You cant look at someone and say "thats my soul mate." It just doesnt work that way. Like they say, "you cant help who you love." best of luck.
1084362
that one person is rare and u really have to get hurt and heart broken many times before u meet them.\n\ngood luck.
899790
I think there is someone for everyone and we as humans seldom find that one for us. We're fooled, though sometimes, and believe we have... I think that's the worst thing that can happen. When you do find your soul mate.... you'll come together magically... it wont be a simple thing... It will be a twist of fate... \n\nWe never have to make do... You should never stop looking either, because when you do... that's when they'll show up.
551733
I think that every one does have a soul mate out there some where u just have to lokk for that someone!!
648644
Sometimes, if you just wait, you will be waiting for a long time.  You see, love is one thing that does not necessarily always come looking for you.  I am 18 and i have found love; i have found my one soulmate with whom i am destined to spend the rest of my life.  I almost did not find her, because i was just waiting for love to come into my life.  Only when i started looking and showing interest did she come into my life.  The key is not to look for love in the wrong places, rather, look for it where you'll meet someone who you could imagine spending the rest of your life might be.  Don't go being desperate for love, however.  This will cause you worse heartache than being lonely.  Patience: when it is time, love will come to you; you just might have to help it along a little.  I am sure things will work out for you.  Good luck in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
870584
i believe everybody has a soulmate.......  you will find yours when the time is right....
332556
I used to believe in soul mates.  I used to think my husband was "The One" for me.  Unfortunately, things didn't work out for us, and even though I don't think I could ever really be as close to someone else, I also know that no amount of love can keep two people together if they don't take care of their personal problems, and work hard on the relationship.  \n\nNow I'm starting to think that people don't have a "One" person out there for them, but they associate with people that they find comfortable, people with similar beliefs, and who treat them the way they are used to being treated.  The more someone treats you the way you are used to being treated, the more they seem like "The One".  Unfortunately, that means that if you're used to being abused and mistreated, you will most likely select someone who abuses and mistreats you as your significant other.  :(
161142
I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.
187481
Because there is so many road blocks out there that get in your way. It is not supposed to be easy to find your true love. If it was no one would suffer from heartache. You date other people so, you get an idea of what you want from a relationship and what qualities you want from that special one. When you find them, all the trouble will be worth it.