my mom has a new boyfriend?
365695
At one point in time if you asked me this question i would have said you aren't wrong, but after some life experiance i have to say now you are. I was very hurt and lost when my parents got divorced, my mother started dating her old high school sweetheart almost immediately, i was moved not only from the home i knew, but also from the state i'd lived in all my life. I was rude and hurtful to this man and in the long run he abandoned my mother. Now 13 years later, i often look back and wonder if it weren't for my actions would he still have left her? Even though we all want our parents to be together, sometimes it just isn't possible for two people to be together and be happy. No matter what both your mom and dad have the right to be happy, and if this new man in your mom's life makes her happy, then you should at least respect him for making a positive change in your mother's life. You don't have to like him, but think of how he feels in this situation. He is just trying to be with your mom and be happy, he isn't trying to replace your father, i hope, and if anything he just wants to be accepted as is. i also married a man who had been married once before with two children, at first i had some difficulty with the oldest child saying some very hurtful things, it was a very difficult situation to handle, but i knew from my experiance in the past he was going through a hard time and i gave him his space and things worked out. I have seen and lived in both situations, and what you are doing will not benefit anyone, including you. Happiness is like perfume, you can't spray it on yourself without getting a little on everyone else, so try to be happy for your mom, and as for your dad he will find happiness elsewhere it will just take some time.
697711
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be).  If she'll like him, introduce him.  If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason.  Dont date him anymore.  She has experience and knows and understands things you dont.  The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends.  Find someone you know she will like and approve of.  Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway.  The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing.  Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship.  That usually takes many months to determine.  He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.
504669
no dont do that..my mom didnt like my bf and i am engaged to him till this day..the have to accept who you like...but on another note figure out why the dont like him..see if it makes sense.
1130149
i was terrified when i met my boyfriends mom. but it didn't go all that badly. just don't cling to him or let him be all over you right in front of his mom. be nice and polite to her, make sure she know's that you really like her son, and don't do anything stupid. but honestly, be yourself too. don't be too nervous, and good luck!!
563087
yeah, he does have a girlfriend.  It's Your MOM!!!
740825
I think that you should ask your mother if you can go on a chaporoned date. Have her come along and meet the guy. She might change her mind on your being able to date.
427678
I'm very sorry to say, but telling her will only make her want it more.  Unfortunately, she needs to learn for herself.  I know first hand from experience (as the child, not a parent) that my mother telling me I didn't need a boyfriend and not to have one made me just sneak around and do even more stupid things than I think if she had just been  less demanding and more open about it (of course this is all retrospect and after I hit those bumps in the road that taught me to start missing potholes, so to speak).  Best of luck to you  and your family.
270066
She's going thru that stage in her life when she start's feeling diffrent about guys. Maybe she doesn't want to tell you because she doesn't feel comfortable talking about that with you maybe she does with her friends. When I was her age my mom wanted to know everything but I wanted some privacy.So try giving her some privacy.
299381
Well, if you Both are serious about each other...then you Both need to set down with your mom and just talk to each other and let your mom get to know this guy and see what see thinks...if he is sincere...it will show...if he isn't...it will show also...just be careful....
561747
well i am having a baby for my best friend brother and she just found out plus the parents did not know that we were dating. we did not know how they would react to him and i dating so i think if she has a boyfriend than your brother should stop being the fool and find him someone he can call his own.
864748
like this- hey mom I got a boyfriend
512215
What's more important to u the friendship of the guy, or being able to feel guilty, since your mom has been though what she has, she should understand, how bad would it be if she found out, would u be in more trouble then not telling her. I don't mean to be mean to u but really that is just selfish, & your mom should respect u for telling her the truth. It's understandable what happened under the circumstanes. It depends on how open minded your mom is. good luck, i would talk to her, i'm sure u feel bad about your friend, also i would tell your princple, that boy will have that on his record. do the right thing.
598211
bring your boyfriend to your home one time, and have your mom talk with him, I'm sure that your mom would let you go out with him if she has met him and thinks he is a nice guy. (of course let your mom know you're doing this, or she'll be even more furious)
58817
why doesnt your mom like this guy and his family? most likely she looking out for you. i know its how to see or understand that at time but its true. i had dated this one person once and my mom did like her b/c she was bi and she said keep on talk about how it couldnt work out b/c she woould want somting that i couldnt give her...while to make a long story short she was right. you family are always going to protect you from getting hurt by others.
165735
Start by not making an assumption about your boyfriends mom.  She may just simply not be the type to get close to anyone that isn't yet family.  She is also going to be naturally worried that you might eventually hurt her little boy.  Just relax and be yourself, over time you will prove to her that you are worthy of her boys heart.  In the mean time try to talk to her and find out her interests.  If you show an interest in her as a person and not just his mom it will help.  Sometimes it just takes a comment about how you hope that some day you can get to know her better to get her to open up.
536565
i feel sorry for you. i have a similar situation. my boyfriend's mother doesn't like me as well. we have been together for more than 4 years now.  what i suggest is you discuss this matter with your boy and try to win your future mother in law.  if you can't just fix your relationship with your man and just ignore her.  what's important is that you and your man are madly inlove with each other.
418995
I think if you are good friends with the mom you should ask her or if you and your bf are close and you don't think he would lie to you ask him. Look forward to hearing from you.