I'm gay and I like a guy, what do I do?
372995
Oooo, you are in a tough spot.  I think you should not pursue anything and wait for him.  He might just be really comfortable with his sexuality.  Wait and see if they break up. He might like you too but not be sure about what to do next.\n\nI wouldn't want to make a move on one of my girl friends and insult them or scare them away, you know?\nGood luck, just be smart.
200425
well if you like the guy you should try talking to him first. start off simple, you know small talk.see how he acts around you. than it will be much easier to ask him if he likes you.
379687
it's really hard to tell someone's sexual preference these days, as i'm sure you know. i've never had to deal with this kind of situation before so my advice might be a lil spotty. i think you should just try and be friends with him for awhile at first and see if you can tell by just talkin to him. if that doesn't work and you feel comfortable enough then you should ask him. just be patient and see what happens. it could just turn out that he'll be a really good friend but not gay. you never know
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
135978
yeah, im a guy so this might help. Flirt a little, and maybe try to be the boy(s) u like friend. Then gradually overtime maybe the boy will ask you out, unless hes gay, or has a girlfriend.\n\nOh yeah, if anyone needs some more advice mail me or chat with me.its cody_22407
828520
First of all, ask yourself why do you want to be with him.   Is it just because he's hot, or more than that. \nNext, make sure he's gay or willing to be gay.\nYour approach often depends on the situation.   If you are in a bar, or a situation where alcohol or another substance is being consumed by you and others, you could stand to be a little bit more forward, such as asking him if he would like to stop by your place.\nHowever, if you're approaching him in a non mind-altering substance situation, you might want to try a more subtle approach.   You could go on an outing together, a trip, or maybe invite him over for dinner.\nUsually, if you answer the first 2 questions mentioned above, it should be relatively easy to "be with him".\n\nGood luck.
76489
try to be friends first, and the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you can figure out if he likes guys, too. and then if he does, your relationship will be all the more stable because you are already friends.
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
579134
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
977949
He might be gay, but he might also be a nice straight guy, or a gay guy who hasn't come out yet.\n\nJust start small talk with him, and see if he responds, and don't be in a hurry to find out if he is gay or not.  If there is anything there it will reveal itself to you soon enough.\n\nDating and find gay guys in high school is hard, i know i just graduated last spring.\n\nLast thing, if he is straight, then its not bad to have straight guys just as friends too, be open to that too.
1064602
Is he gay? If so, be yourself. Ask him if he's interested. If not, there are other fish in the sea.
579498
tell her that u r GAY!!......\njoking\n\nok so tell her clearly u like someone else but u care for her lot so dont want her to be hurt\n\nand tell her that u ll be a gr8 and loyal fren always to help her............dude girls want someone that cares for them......so she ll be fine i guess!!
860196
i assume this guy is gay too else i wouldnt waste yur time.\n\nif he is the same rules apply regarding attraction as in straight relationships. the main difference being that i would imagine is, at thirteen this guy may not want to be public in any kind of way.\n\nso firstly you need to establish if he would be prepared to consider a same sex relationship with anyone.  then if he is attracted to you in anyway.  this could be hard cos he may like you but have no desire to "come out" or whatev3r.\n\ni dont envy you
704317
Don't make this more complex than it has to be. HE likes you. YOU like him. Tell him you want to move your friendship to the next level and start dating. This is a GREAT thing !!! I am happy for you two.
747339
Ask him out!  If you guys are friends, he probably already knows you like him.  If he's been cool with you so far, I don't think it's unwise to take the next step.  I don't know whether that makes you feel any better, but i hope this helps.
920505
No honey do not ask him out for coffee.  Start up a friendship.  You definitely need a more clear cut sign to his being gay or not.  He could just be friendly so keep it casual.  Anything else could sabotage it before it starts.  Keep your head over your emotions, you must protect yourself.  You innocently could have scoped out the most homo phobic guy in school.  Learn chin ups.  Ask around about him, very cautiously.  Be careful.
1117632
How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.