is he really scared of me?
365306
Nope.. but.. he likes you much.. he needs a space.. give'm space.. he still like you much..
146523
It seems to me that he likes you but not as intensly as you like him. I think you've freaked him a bit but he's curious to see how much he likes you.\n\nYou've given it your best shot (a scary one too!) and now the ball's in his court. He seems interested. Good luck
167556
when he tells U, and he seems always nervous when he talks to U
60568
Sounds to me like a maturity issue.  He probably attacked you at first because he was intimidated that you would reject him.  By first rejecting you, he feels powerful and in control, taking his focus off his own fears.\n\nTread lightly and try being friends with him and see what his true intentions are.\n\nGood luck
199049
he's afraid to get attached again
164072
EITHER HE IS SCARED OR HE DIDNT MEAN IT....THIS GUY I KNOW HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND I KNOW THAT HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH HE'S JUST NOT READY FOR THE COMMITMENT. SO I'M JUST GIVING HIM A BREAK UNTIL HE CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT HE WANTS...ANOTHER THING YOU SHOULD DO IS TALK TO HIM LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND FIND OUT HOW HE FEELS BECAUSE THERE IS NO SINCE FOR YOU TO KEEP WASTING YOUR TIME ON SOMEONE WHO CANT MAKE UP HIS MIND..JUST GET IT ALL OUT IN THE OPEN SO THAT YOU KNOW WHETHER TO MOVE ON OR NOT
369756
Sounds like he may be scared of your brother for whatever reason. Most brothers are protective of their sisters. I know I am. But, you had it worse: your brother was friends with your ex. So, maybe this guy was scared of a double beat down. Or, the other possibility is this: he may not have really liked you but was being polite when he cuddled with you or he freaked when you cuddled and didn't know what to do. Then, at the last minute he realized he made a mistake by leading you on and freaked out, like most idiot guys do. Instead of just talking to you about it, he ran to your brother to tell him nothing happened and in his own juvenile way, he saved himself the agony of having to tell you he lead you on and used your brother as an excuse!!
206802
Well if you are scared then that means that you are not ready and you need to wait for the time when you are ready for it. Also try talking to him about it and see how he feels about it and maybe he feels the same way you do. Then again he might not just let him know who you feel. You never know how it might turn out!
263116
you should try scaring him back
297958
i get what ur sayin i go thru the same thing and well u say this dudes really a wuss so just scare the shit out of him by just threatining him or if u can think of anything just show him that u can and will beat the crap out of him if nessecary just scare him a lil bit dont actually hurt him im sure he has a good heart like u
725101
he could or he is just messing with u
830608
this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
616610
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
396375
Maybe he is afraid of his own feelings for you, and protect himself,by \nsaying: "he doesn't like you". \nMaybe he is not ready yet, for a friendship, or ,relationship. \nIt sounds to me like an insecure reaction. \nLook out for someone who likes you! Things will fall in place when it is\nmeant to be......
326351
Sweetie if your that scared of something happening the last thing you need is a gun registered or not.Why not try living in a Suburb or surrounding town.I think your nerves might be able to handle that a little better.And he should be able to handle the trip to see you.Good luck....
371989
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.