I thing that am gay but i don't want to be gay i want to be normal, what will you do to be strait.?
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If you're gay, then that IS normal for you.  Without knowing which culture/country you are in, I can't advise on the rest of your question.
114221
As a gay person I can honestly say that I don't know. It just is the way I feel naturaly. Like being streight is natural for you. We don't ask to be this way and life would be much easier for us if we had a choice but we don't it is just our nature
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You're probably not as confused as you say you are.  Your body knows what it wants, even if your mind is unwilling to accept it.  \n\nI suggest that you avoid sexual relationships with everyone until you've had a chance to form some non-sexual relationships with people who identify as gay, in addition to the relationships you already have with people who identify as straight.\n\nOnce you get to know some gay people, and understand that they are just people, like everyone else, then you might be surprised how your feelings inside change about your own sexual identity.
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Well I am sorry it makes you sick.  Not everything or every one is the way we all would like.  Some what disappointing I know.  As for WHY would someone like to be gay? I will tell you something.  I am happy with my lifestyle now. I am happy with the woman I am with.  But there was a period where I wasn't so sure.  Why you wonder.  Because my mother disowned me because of it.  My father bought books to see if they had the answers, maybe he did something wrong.  Or my personal favorite what my high school finding out and my teacher telling me I shouldn't eat with the other kids because it bothers them. \nDoes this sound like something we CHOSE?  Does this sound like something we ASKED for?  \nWe are stronger for the things we go through, doesnt mean we ask for the turmoil along the way.
92093
Of course I'd accept you. Being gay doesn't make you any less of a person. I would treat you the same way as I would anyone else.
364943
no.  You shouldn't "become" gay or lesbian- you should already be and definitely know it if you are.  A natural desire should push you one way or the other.  Don't fight nature- she's stronger than you.
318797
You can't turn gay or straight. You are who you are. No "group" is going to change who you are attracted to. What is normal? Everyone has different opinions on what "normal" is. A believer in "god" may tell you it is wrong to be homosexual, while a non-believer or maybe even an open-minded believer will tell you it isn't wrong.\n\nYou need to decide for yourself how you really feel. It is possible to fall in love with a person regardless of their gender. It is possible to not have a sexual orientation. I don't feel that I do. I believe I fall in love with whom I fall in love.\n\nIf your country is willing to punish you for who you are, there is always a possibility of leaving.
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You can repress your natural urges, but this could cause problems psychologically.\n\nPeople are born gay or straight.  You just have to accept the way you were born.
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being straight, bisexual, or gay is normal!  pick a pattern for sexual behavior, stop worrying about the normalcy of your preference, and have a good time.  that's what sex is all about.
91834
With a question like that, I think at this time in your life, your starting to question whether you really want to be gay or not.  Maybe your finding out that your missing out in life something you want, and about having an affair to find out if you want to change, or not.  If your not happy, then, I guess, it might be something like changing job's. If your not happy as far as where your at in life, then your the only one that WILL make that decission...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
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change for a normal life, straight one\n\n:> peace\n.
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from what you had said it's look that you like to be gay and simple. \nI will tell you what I believed.....you are what you has been born on so if you born a man be a man and if you born a woman be a woman, second inside you is telling you that what you are doing is wrong and it's drive you to the right way. be simple and Jonie the air force. there is nothing nice to be a gay. & fiend a nice girl and do what ever you like to do.\nI know gay people will HAIR me....
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I dont think that there is a 100% accurate anwser to that question.  I share the same ?"fetish"? ... i dont really think that you can change it.  You would be suprised at how many men out there have the exact same fantasy as you.  to me it is almost the same as a gay man wanting to be straight.  for some reason that is what you desire and there is NOTHING wrong with that.  Who ever you end up with should accept you just the way you are.  my advice would be to embrace who you are and never be ashamed of yourself.
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being gay is not something that someone chooses for themselves they are or they are not.  You can change a behavior, such as not having relationships with a same sex partner, but no matter what if you are gay, you are gay
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Be who you are without regrets.\n\nDon't try to be something you are not.\n\nYou are going to live with YOURSELF until you are finished living, so become your own best friend, and live your lifetime well.\n\nAccept the fact that you like guys.  That doesn't require you to abandon your mind.  Keep your intelligence intact, and go for what's best for you and your happiness.\n\nThe notion of "going to hell" for being gay is morally depraved.  Don't lower the quality of your own thinking.
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just be yourself, what dyou mean by normal? do what u want to do, not because you want approval/ fame. find out what u value really and unleash the power within.
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Man, if wishes were horses, beggers would ride.  And incidentally I would crap gold coins to stave off my massive financial problems, world peace would reign, and everyone would live in a happy fluffy bunny butterfly utopia full of hugs and puppies.  \n\nWishes don't make the world go round.  Actions do.  You will live in secrecy forever if YOU choose to do so.  You'll be unhappy about being gay as long as you choose to be unhappy.  Oddly enough, getting your gay a$$ out of the closet and meeting some nice gay people, dating some nice gay men, and having the best mind-blowing gay gay gay gay sex of your life is going to go a long way towards making you happier.  Don't end up like these sad people:\n\nhttp://time.blogs.com/daily_dish/2006/05/an_exexgay.html  \n\nYou like dick man.  Learn it, live it, love it because it is not going to change.  Why are you gay?  I don't know and here is a thought, I don't care.  Why is blue blue?  Why isn't it purple?  Why do bird sing?  Why do we exist?  What is the meaning of life?  Hell if I know.  Do you really want to spend your life going crazy asking unanswerable questions?  Or do you want to live your life?