I want to meet a new guy .that will treat me right always. pleasse give me some advice please?
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Because you aren't attracted to 'sensitive' guys - you look at them as 'nice guys' or 'friends' but not relationship material.\n\nYou are probably attracted to the dangerous, bad boy types who couldn't care less about women's feelings and this is why you keep getting hurt.\n\nWhat you need to find is a 'strong, sensitive' type man however I get the impression that these are hard to find. But I am one, of course.. :)
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Church, start praying that God will bring a decent man into your life... If you are religious try a relegious online dating service, that way you don't have to go through the shinadigans of other sites... Good luck in finding him......
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sure why not. just wait for the time to come.\n\ndont go after every guy you meet. just wait for a perfect guy
980011
You can meet guys anywhere! but if you want to meet guys with the same interest and hobbies as you then that is what you should do. Volunteer at the marathons.\nbut you can meet guys at the coffee shops, grocery store, bookstore, clothing store, shoe store, clubs, sport events, bars, and the Internet.
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Get a hobbie. Make new friends. Do what you did before you met him. Don't waste so much time on him. By all means, move on. Who's to say that you might not meet someone better tomorrow?
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My advice is Look for the right one in places/activities that you enjoy. That way you can at least be sure that you'll have one thing in common. \nI found "my" guy through an internet forum about books!
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First, be specific about your idea of Mr. Right.  If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.  Once you know what kind of man you want, start going to places where men like that can be found.  If you want a "life of the party" type, you probably won't meet him at the library or the art museum -- but if you want a shy, artistic type, a football game is a bad bet.\n\nSecond, be realistic in your demands (as in, don't ask for more than you have to offer).  If you don't have movie star looks, insisting that he does -- and having nothing to do with any man who doesn't -- is not realistic (that's just one example).\n\nThird, know the difference between what you _want_ and what you _need_.  Have nothing to do with any man who can't offer everything that you need and at least some of what you want.  Caveat: some of your emotional needs are supposed to be met by your friendships with other women, not by your relationship with a man.  Don't ask him for things that he's not supposed to give you.\n\nFourth and last: relax.  You shouldn't play hard to get, nor should you project desperation.  Just have a life.  Go out with friends.  Get a hobby.  Attend events that interest you (which will bring you into contact with men who share your interests, btw).  The man you want is out there, you just have to be where he can find you.  Just keep living -- as opposed to surviving -- and he will come.
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stop looking and he will come to you \n\n               or\n\nLook in a new place for a new type of man.
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Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
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i really want a nice guy
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You will find the man of your dreams because you still believing he is in somewhere waiting for you. Good luck!!!!!!
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One place for you to meet a guy(and take it from me b/c im a guy) is church or even the gym. You have nice men that go there. But the main thing you must know is not to rush it. Don't act desperate for a man,because if you act desperate then that would send out the wrong man radar and then you'll find yourself dating a rapists or something. Your priorty is your children first, but if you want guarentee great men, church. Or maybe even at your job. But dont be in a rush to get a man... the right man would come to you.. and there is a right man for you somewhere.. Just dont go out on dates by yourself.. go in like groups first.
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Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
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I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
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I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
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First get to know yourself and realize that you are a great catch for any man. The reason you do this first is, if you don't you will only find Mr. Wrong.\n\nAfter this step is completed it is time for the hunt. This might sound crazy, but it's the best way to find a good man. When you go hunting do not hunt for a boyfriend, but instead hunt for friends. Again same motto anybody would be lucky to be my friend. After you have some really good friends the rest will just happen. Whether it be with one of your new friends or one of thier friends.\n\nThere is actually other ways I can tell you, but my time is running short, so you can find other of my answers by looking at my answers to previous questions exactly like this one.
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try joining sumthing new such as volunteer work or something else your interesterd in that way u can meet guys who u have sumthing in common w/