how do i got boyfriend or a girlfriend?
373302
don't try to hard because they won't respect you and don't do anything that you wouldn't normally do and i don't think that it's cool to press them babygurl yo time will come and don't worry
369969
just listen to ur heart or listen to me:\n1: tell her how you feel\n2: get her a bf b4 she gets u a gf
124997
Dont ever find yourself in a boyfriend. Love urself first. Get to know urself and I highly suggest God, Jehovah.
870483
Ok, I wont say you're too young to have a boyfriend, I am going to say you're too young to have A boyfriend... You're still so young, go out and have fun..  date around first. Don't try to get serious so young.. You'll end up heartbroken, married, and with child like me... Anyway, just live life, don't worry about some boy. Besides, it sounds like he wants to do that same thing... explore! It's only natural. Don't know what you're missing till you get it.
1037112
There is no rush for a boyfriend...enjoy your friendships first and you will know when you are ready for one!
340616
Nah, you don't need one.  Have as much fun as you can without one.  Enjoy your free time and not stressing about it.  One will come along eventually.\n\nRemember, it's better to not have a boyfriend than to have a boyfriend who is a jerk or a loser.
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The best way to get a good boyfriend is to just be yourself.\nDo not put on airs. Do not try to attract guys. Always remember, some where there is My Right for you.\nMost boys do not like girls that fuss about them or giggle all the time.. JUST BE YOURSELF.
20966
You're still so young!\n\nDon't worry about trying to get a girlfriend. Just have fun.
556610
You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
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Here are some options:\n\n1.  Just tell him how you feel.\n2.  Casually tell him you have a boyfriend\n3.  When you are in a group setting where he can overhear, tell someone else casually that you have a boyfriend, and hopefully he will overhear\n4.  If all else fails just toally ignore him.  Don't smile, talk to him, pretend if possible that you didnt hear him try to talk to you, or if he does try to talk to you just give him a curt answer and find some way to escape the conversation.  Men are dumb, but even the dumbest will get the point eventually.
446436
go outside!! it's a lot better to find a gf/bf when you actually MEET!! good luck!
245439
Be yourself a lovely boyfriend (like honest, loyal, etc.) AND you can easily find a lovely gf
924933
I think the best time to get a boyfriend or girfriend is.. at least when you're in highschool. you're learning more about yourself.
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You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
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Be yourself. Go places you enjoy. Chances are you'll meet someone you like. Don't be shy (at least too shy).\n\nI know one place you may not find your b/f...in chat rooms.\n\nGet out and be active.\n\n= )
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You already answered your question. You don't want a boyfriend. What you do want is a social companion so you won't feel awkward with your friends.  If you can find a guy to be this kind of friend then more power to you....but don't go and get a "boyfriend" just to fit in.  Besides if your fiends make you feel awkward, then maybe it's time to get new friends.
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You don't need a boyfriend until you are done with school and living on your and are ready to start a life. Just live a little and go to Church and find a male friend there. Eventually, he might become the man you want.