what would you do if you liked a married man and he is going to divorce his wife for you and because?
367004
my fiance' was married when i met him at work.his wife and him had been having issues with her cheating and she did not want kids and he did.he told me about 2 weeks after we met that he did not love his wife anymore.i never thought about getting involved with him until right before he seperated from his wife(a month and 1/2 after we met)he told me he loved me.i felt the same for him but i did not want to get in the middle of his marriage.he convinced me to be with him and i'm glad i did,he is the love of my life and says i am his
966228
As much as I'm against divorce it really seems to me that you should have never married the person you are with.  Did he ever make you happy?  Anyway\n\nThe truth is you are wondering if this considering the situation could grow into a real serious committed relationship.  Unfortunately it probably won't, the guy you are with will always know and remember that you met him while you were cheating on your husband.  He may like you enough to really think in his heart that it won't matter but deep down it always will it will come out later.  I'm really sorry.\n\nHonestly you need to do something about your current relationship before anything else. You need to either get a counselor (what i would recommend) or get a lawyer (what others may recommend).  As someone else said right now anybody looks better than your husband in his current state.
1127634
No...you shouldn't tell him, nor should you be involved or get involved with him. So long as he is married there is that chance no matter how slim that he could reconcile with his wife, and you shouldn't be there to make that impossible or harder for him to do. You are also only opening yourself up to hurt by being involved...best to stay away.
514681
how's about waiting till he's divorced!!!  holy coes he know u LOVE him  (OMG brutal) and if he wants you AND wants to stay married, you best be ready to remain #2 for as long as ur with him chick.......think about it!!!!
1160257
i would be plotting revenge....just remember, in a marriage.......WHAT'S HIS IS YOURS, AND WHAT'S YOURS IS YOURS. \ngood luck.
533807
I was in a similar situation one day and let me assure you... It will end in a heartbreak, and the broken heart will probably be yours, and you will only blame yourself because you were the one who decided to get in between a married couple. So get out of it while you can.
1043616
I'm afraid you don't have any option here. If he's married then you should let him be married and find yourself someone else. You can't expect your MARRIED friend to return your feelings. If you consider yourself his friend, you wouldn't even think of breaking his marriage and even if you do, just remember the consequences and what goes around comes around. So if I were you, I'd save my feelings for someone who's not taken.
856384
let me ask you this, how did you get into this position? how did you let this other man maneuver his way into your heart?...\n\ndo you beleive in the sanctity of marriage? if so, do what you can to get this other guy out of your life...\n\ndoes this guy know you're married? if not, that you're fault...if so, would you want to marry a guy who doesn't have respect for a married couple?...\n\nplease do the right thing and be more responsible with who you get close to...
418866
end it immediately! he's married and that means he loves the other woman and he's not faithful!
717754
If you try to break his marriage, it can result into a fight between u n ur friend.\n\nAll i can advice you is to leave the matter to the married couple. They are mature enough to handle it on their own.\n\nThou i understand you want to help your friend. But relationships are sensetive matters and wifes are often given priority than friends.\n\nFor your friends sake....Leave him alone :P
440039
emotionally dilemma for him..\n\nget a grip and don't rush things...let him settle his matters with his wife first...before you proceed with your relationship..
448374
u promise to make his life a living hell by nagging his fuckn ear off... u promise to fuck him till ur pregnant then give him none... then divorce him n take HALF n not let him see the kid!!, hows my aim??
99302
In all honesty, if he planned to stop, i'd tell you to keep it a secret because you could ruin their marriage...but since he's gunna keep doing it, you have to come clean to his wife.  He's being disrespectful to her and he's being an idiot.  If he loved her, he wouldn't need anyone else and he's probably not even worth being with her...tell her the truth and let them sort it out
810216
You should not even have gotten started with a married man...\nQuit whenever you get tired of it...
194744
A guy getting a divorce isn't probably looking to jump right into another relationship.  He likes you and having you as a friend with the potential for more at some point is good for his ego and is probably helping him feel better about being able to move forward with his life after this divorce.  If you really like him you will probably have to be patient and put up with the fact that he may need to explore other relationships before he is ready to settle on just one again.
117844
Probably not...He has no insentive to move on because he has you on the side and still gets to stay married to someone else.  If he is having problems with one of you then there is the other so why would he need to ever choose.  The longer this goes on though the more likely it is he will break it off with you and return to his wife.  In the end your the odd one out and the easiest to get rid of.
683645
You can't make anyone do anything and you should leave him he is married how will you live with yourself? And it he is cheating with you on his wife how can you ever trust he will never cheat on you with his wife I am sure they still make love because he loves her and just has you on the side because you are easy and a play toy for him! Dang why can't you girls leave the married guys alone! Stop f*cking the husbands and fines a sigle guy!