Is it wrong to ask God to help me with this?
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No, it's not a sin. In the Lord's prayer, "Give us this day our daily bread." which means "Give me food."\n\nIt's not a sin to ask for a guy as long as you don't an him sexually and for no other purpose. The bible speaks of how it's good to marry.\n\nI'm not an expect at this, though. I recommend asking your priest or pastor. But that's my two cents on it.
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I really wish you would seek some professional help.  If God did answer this prayer of yours, it was to show you how wrong you really are.  Why don't you listen to Him?  God Bless.
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I completely agree with you.  I have asked myself numerous times, " Am I doing this for God?"  Especially when I am doing something good for someone or whatever.  I want to be sure that I am doing it for God and not doing it for the purpose of being recognized.  It is way too easy to cross that line and say that you are doing it for God, but if you are already anticipating the attention or if you find that you relish the attention then you need to step back and evaluate things.
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dont sweat it sweethart, try being proactive in helping   those that want to be saved, remember free will, and leave the rest to God, He is better equipped to deal with this than you know, He wants YOU happy, not stressed, and not throwing pearls to swines. He understands all these dynamics.
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God wants you to ask Him for your daily wants. It's never wrong. Asking God, shows him that you are including him in your live and this is what he wants.
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u can do ur best 2 help them thru their issues. if it is related 2 religion, our association wid God is only supposed 2 fill us with empowerin understandin so somethin is up there an that needs 2 be sorted out (feel free 2 mail me 4 help if th@ is the issue)\n\nwhatever the issue is u can do ur best 2 help out, and if u try 2 help out, do so wid faith.\n\nif they decide they cannot help themselves and it is gettin u down, the healthiest thing 2 do is 2 leave them, @ least 4 a while.\n\nthroughout any of the choices u make in helpin them, u must keep as positive as possible and always have the INTENTION to help, not just actions. in this way, ur intention throughout was 2 help, and u would hav done so 2 the best of ur ability.
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I do not think you're doing anything wrong.  God knows everything; and he knows your heart... I truly believe when you pray and use his name, that he knows you're not disrespecting his son (Jesus)... personally, everything that I pray for I end "in Jesus name"; and I know that ONLY through God's son, I am granted all... very good question, but, don't beat yourself up over... God knows your heart!
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What would you be asking for? God to let you into heaven even though you don't care about what he wants (a pure life)? \nChange your prayer to..."Dear God, I know adultery is wrong, but I keep wanting to... I realize this is wrong. Will you please change me, so I'll want what you want. Thank you. Amen."\n\nThen, God will bless that prayer, and help you to do what's right AND enjoy doing it!
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Try praying to God a lot.  More than likely, He'll tell you the answer (although maybe not in the way you were expecting).  But ultimately, you have to do what seems right.
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Hi Mathias, think of the terrible price that Jesus paid for your salvation and the agony He endured for you in the garden of olives, think also of the rejection that He endured and still does to win you the grace to live by Christian standards, now if you can do this then surely it is enough to let you know that spilling the seed of life that God gave you is indeed sinful and is not what Jesus would have you do as if it was right.\nthink to of your Angel Guardian who is at your side and has to turn away from you whenever you resort to this, you are like the rest of us, weak so pray for the courage to stop this degrading act
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actually, God does whatever he pleases, so I think you can. \n\nIn fact, the Bible is plagued by "disturbing" episodes regarding people who ask for things that arent very honest. So I dont see a problem. God is god, he will do what he wants. And if you are religious, you will believe God has a higher plan, and "bending" the rules for you is part of that.
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The best way to handle this is to say, yes, I did this, yes it was wrong, if that's what you believe, which you must if you feel guilty, and then realize that people make mistakes. If you can apologize and rectify it, do so. If not, well, people are human. Only God is perfect.
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yes God exists for me... in times of need i asked Him lots of favors and He grants it... sometimes He doesn't because it was my fault as well i acknowledge... try... when you are in need pray and just wait for it to be answered... you cand ask him to talk to him directly....
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He's always listening, sweetheart! You might not be able to feel God in your life right now, but he's there, because you have asked him to be with your prayers. God hears all sincere prayers that are in line with his will, and has your best interests at heart. I am so very sorry for your pain, whatever is causing it! I know when I am in need of a shoulder and comfort from God, I read  in Psalms. You might try Psalm  4, 23, 25, 27, 34... all of these may bring you some relief from your feelings. Good luck, and you can get in touch via my 360 page if you need to 'talk'.
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Yes in a way, but God teaches we should not do good to get thanks or good in return. Hopefully a kindness to someone will encourage them to be kind too and that can only be good as long as it is not for a selfish reason!
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Your relationship with God is personal just like his is. Your actions might win him over just give it time and keep the communication between you open and honest.
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You should definitely pray about that. God wants to have a close relationship with us, so if you pray about it, He will give you an answer that Yahoo Answers cannot.