Why do men say they love you and that they want u then cheat?
369360
Because in reality they DONT know what they want...  They're all just hormonal pigs who need to get smacked around every now and then to keep them in line.\n\nAlso, I found if you're not having sexual relations with the guy, he goes behind your back and finds it somewhere else.  Now that's no reason to start having sexual relations with him...  That's just a reason to get out of the relationship, because he's not worth the room he takes up in your life.\n\nThere are plenty of good guys out there that won't cheat or be as$h0les behind your back...  It's just a matter of time and searching before you find the right one.\n\nGood luck.  :]
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
423601
He is being nosy and wants to see if you found someone else.\n\nHe also may be doing it to torment you, some guys are sick that way.  They are hoping that you will beg him to come back.
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
419927
Guys get the impression that you are either a hoochie or a big flirt & think that you would cheat-period...regardless of what they say to your face...that's what they're thinking.If hoochie & big flirt sounds positive to you then be my guest...
932039
he is cheating on you.... he say he loves you because, he feels guilty.
783163
Most of the time men cheat for the same reasons that women do something is missing, they have picked the wrong mate, or maybe they just have a sex problem they can't control. However this never justifies breaking a persons heart or leading them on in hopes of a honest relation ship.
527984
never trust the person who cheats and i don't think so his over with drugs... to tell you honestly he just say that to win you back and to gain you trust again. if a person loves you he'll do everything for you just to make you happy eventhough it will be too hard on his part but that guy your dating with, his really a jerk better dump him and you will find someone that will truly make you happy.
600561
Men are biggest idiots. You give them what they ask for and the first opportunity they get they cheat on you. They like change and they like the attention. Sometimes they want to look cool in front of their friends and say stuff like, oh yeah I nailed her. They think they are funny, but they don't know how stupid that is. \nGuys like nasty girls. They use them for pleasure. They marry good girls b/c they can stay home and take care of the kids while they screw around. \nWhen guys are in a relationship or a marriage for a while, their wive don't pay attention to them like they use to at the beginning of their relationship. I think it is women fault that their men cheat on them. If they would pay attention just a little to their men everything would be different. \nThere are many different reasons why men cheat on women. We don't understand them and they don't understand us but we can't live without each other. :)
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4 some reason, they love 2 lie. \nthey think they r gettin over on women if they always lie. that's why they can't stop.\n\nthat's why they r always tellin us what we want 2 hear, they r lyin.\n\nif they truly tell us the truth;\n well then, we would'nt want 2 b with them.\n\nin a nutshell \n\nTHEY LIE 2 GET WHAT THEY WANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
393142
What makes you think he is not being faithful?  Maybe he respects you.  If he tells you he loves you, he does.
225049
A lot of men who cheat believe you will take them back because there are a lot of women who do. They use a womans lack of self esteem against her and it doesn't take much after that.   One of the first thoughts is to think she is responsible for his cheating which only makes her try that much harder to please him...and at the same time making herself vulnerable.
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Because he will act like it.  Love is an action, not just a feeling.\nIf he is telling you that he loves you, but is treating you like crap, he doesn't.
507110
People cheat because they have a lack of self control.  If you know that something is wrong, and you do it anyway, then you are showing an amazing lack of self control, and your immaturity is showing as well.  It takes strength realize the truth.  A person does not have to cheat.  You simply tell your significant other "I don't love you enough to respect your feelings, or care if I hurt you."  Then leave them.  Because that is the exact message you are telling them when you cheat.  You are just too chicken to tell them to their face.
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alot just say it to get you to sleep with them, but if a man has interests with you outside of sex and says it then its highly possible that he really loves you....