What should she do? Is she gay?
366953
If she is love with her boyfriend then she is not gay.  At the most might be bi.\nChances are, this is a case (because of the bad breakup) that there are unresolved feelings.  No one likes to be rejected and everyone wants to know why.  She may get closure and she may just have to move on with her life.\nIf another person, male or female, doesnt want you, nothing will bring them back.
657672
take her to a doctor. He should know what to do.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
719694
If you are not gay, tell her. If you are, go for it.
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
658899
Hun, life is full of hard questions, If she is with someone  the best thing to do is be there emotionally for her and if she is straight why ruin a friendship or relationship, I would say the best thing to do is find a new love, that not already taken, I know its sometimes a hard thing to do but for there happiness or yours I would
298427
Actually I think she's gay.\nAnd she's straight too... and bi.\nShe has managed cleverly to be what ever she wanted and evolve through her career to be always in and succesful.\nNow she can sing anything... she can wear anything... she can be anything.
868618
ask a question..if she answers she's a female..if he answers he's male..am i right??..lol.
676055
You need to ask her about this.  Gently, not accusingly.  <---VERY important. No one here can tell you because no one knows what's going through her head right now.  Everyone's different.
1090152
that she likes queers???
657685
Give her time to breath and decide the next course of action. Sometimes we woman are polite about things and need to figure out what to say to a guy. She might be busy too. That's a good sign because she has her own life. Don't rush it.
639384
Drama!!! Let her be mad.  You know what you can do is flip the table on her; tell her that you are mad at her because she will not come out to see you.  Make it her issue!  Ahhh, young love! You guys have too much time on your hands. Enjoy this time!
884692
If you don't know what her reaction is going to be, or even if she homophopic or not, you'll have to come up with something so you can start a discussion with her to see where she stands as far as gay people go, i suggest this so you'll know what she thinks before you say something to her about being attracted to her.
642232
hey if she is gay then tell her but i mean if you are gay and someone was TRYING to make you like guys , do you think that is rights , do not force people to what you want , come on , all that you will get is to make someone give into hate , and become a homophobic because you try to force her , Do you think that is what the world needs ,\nRESPECT WHAT SHE TOLD YOU , DO NOT make assumptions just because you want them to be real ,all that you will gain is someone hating you , is that what you want  COME ON GAY PEOPLE ARE BETTER THAN THAT \nTHINK WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IF IT WAS POSSIBLE TO CHANGE SOMEONE WHY ARE YOU WITH A GUY  THEN
754494
dude. she's there.  it was a stupid move on your part but the longer you keep it up the more damaging it's going to be in the long run.  Suppose she decides to try and hook you up with one of her gay friends?\n\nCome clean, admit you didn't want her to feel threatened but you realized you weren't being very honest.\n\nYou don't have to tell her EVERYTHING.  (Leave the "I thought you were hot so I acted gay so you'd move in and I could bang you" part out. :-)  Just confess you were acting and decided enough was enough.  You thought she was cool.  Wanted to get to know her and figured if you tried to make yourself appear as harmless as possible that she wouldn't feel weird moving in with a guy.\n\nBecause you felt kind of weird with her moving in but you're trying to be an evolved man. :-)
547415
are u gay? thats what she deserves, so long as you let her call the shots. you force yourself on her thats rape.
402385
maybe she's not sure if she's gay or not. or it could be that she really just isn't sure what sort of a guy she wants. or it could mean she doesn't know what she wants from life in general.