When dating, how soon to have sex when you're in your 50s and 60s?
356501
whenever YOU feel ready to have sex is the right time-  regardless of your age = )
419561
I'm only a few years older than you but I would never have sex on the first date.  You need time to know each other and see if the relationship has possibilities before jumping into bed.  Even at 50, you can get a reputation as a sl*t.  How do you know that this guy would keep his mouth shut?  You don't know something like that until you know the person.  Definitely not what I would do but to each their own.
475892
I find older men very sexy  I am 25 and I would consider going out with someone thats up to 40.  It just seems they have a presence to them and they are more sexually appealling
845381
You say it is someone you think you are going to have sex with and not someone that you love. Relationships with age differences can work, but they are more difficult to make work and require a loving relationship. Since you didn't mention love, I don't think he is too old, I think you are too young.
1181015
Age has nothing to do with having sex, enjoying it or even wanting it.  Finding sex might be different but not difficult.  Most hook up happen at church, senior socials, and through mutual friends and family.  \n\nSome men and women also feel that once their partner left (for whatever reason), they don't want to participate with anyone else.\n\nI know a 86 year old woman who still enjoys sex but for the lack of a sex partner has invested in sex toys for her pleasure.  Would she take a man if one becomes available, probably not.\n\nKeep looking and good luck!
944676
After twenty-five, but definitely before forty.\n\nAlso wait at least two years after you get married to have the kids.That way you and your spouse have time to have some fun before hunkering down.
266049
i have PERSONAL experince dude.  listen to this. i met a woman when i was 24, and she was 34.  the sex was amazing, she was very experience. but thats the only thing that was good.  her mentality was more mature than i was and we didnt have any common intrest, im not saying that it wont work out for you. you just have to see how you feel about her,  there are couples out there who are that big of an age difference and they are happy with it.  but most of the time it wont work out. when you reach 20 she will be 30. etc.  are you willing to be with an old woman when you are 40 and she is 50.  thats the question you need to ask yourself.  but in the mean time, enjoy each other and see waht happens, just enjoy the moments, thats the best advice i can give you
377979
Just Sex??? Any age!\nRelationship is different.
1142732
Well, you put alot of thought into your question.  The 60's ended December 31, 1969.  Unless you've got a time machine, the 60's can't help you.  Most VD could be cured by antbiotics.  AIDS changed all that.  So, yes the 60's (and most of the 70's and some of the 80's and when you think about it the 90's too and then there was last week....) was the only time to do this.  And the last time I checked, massages did not spead disease.\n\nAnd you don't sound like someone who's actually HAD a disease or you wouldn't have glossed over it so easily.  You also sound like someone who hasn't had a bad experience with one night stands.  The rejection that occurs from getting attached to someone who wants nothing further to do with you can be devastating.  Add to that the poossiblity that your pick-up could be a killer psycho, and sex with strangers loses some of its appeal.  \n\nHey, women want good sex just as much as men, but let's face it, most men are pretty easy to please.  All a woman has to do is show up and men are happy.  Men need a few times to "get it right" and so need to offer something more than just sex.  Witty conversation and manners, for example.  If a woman is bolting out of bed after sex, then something's wrong. \n\nAnd society encourages promiscuity, so no blame there either.  Even have a song about it.\n\nWhy limit yourself to strangers exclusively, though?  I find that most intruiging.  It seems you only find strangers appealing.  You could get much more sex in a monogamous situation, so I wonder why that route wasn't even considered in your question.  No diseases, no brutal murders, and mutual satsfaction.....and passion.  \n\nI understand the appeal of the one night stand; the mystery, the unpredictability, the variety.  But in the cold hard light of day, you know they're just not someone you'd like to hang with.  And once again comes the lonliness, the emptiness and the boredom.\n\nLet's face it...sex with strangers is common, the status quo...it's love that's rare these days.
26451
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
238702
Oh, God, yes, I am 41 and totally gone over a 53 year old.  His experience is what I need most.  After the immature last one the older man is so hot!
917392
It depends on the guy!!!!  For example an intellectual like me I would say much younger - say 18.  Maybe those with low intelligence just want sex.  So, maybe more older.\n\nSo in general I would say 4 or 5 years older than the girl.\n\nWomen are IN GENERAL more mature!
642277
I am 40 and the last guy I dated was 28 but he was very mature for his age. Ordinarily I don't date guys quite this young (my cut off point is usually mid-thirties) but there was something about him... Our relationship lasted 6 months but it turned out that he was immature in some ways after all (he used to cross-examine me about my previous relationships, for one and got ridiculously jealous) and I am too old to put up with that sh!t. So I ended it.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with wanting to date older women but be aware - some of them will want more from you than you might be prepared to give. You also have to be able to hold their interest outside the bedroom. In my experience, most guys in their 20s can't do this because they simply don't have enough life experience/exposure to relationships.\n\nIt is also true that there will be some older women out there who want nothing more than a bunk up. I wish you luck finding them.
370284
Hmmm, just be careful. I can tell you one thing, he is probably in his 2nd sexual prime at about 40. He might not be as active as you either... LOL. I am 45... Hmmm, where are the rest of the 27 year olds? (Todd)
473452
If you've waited until your 30's to have sex, then yes, I'd say to wait until marriage.\n\nI didn't lose my virginity until 31, and I have a few regrets.  I waited until I found a woman I loved and had the intention of marrying.  She had a few partners before she met me, and got scared at the level of commitment I was asking for.  That meant I lost my virginity to a woman who left me -- and then started sleeping with someone else not even a week later.\n\nEven though I've only been with one woman now, I want to wait until I get married.  I realize I can always have sex with anyone, but I want to wait until I can make love to someone.  I find I can't be incredibly passionate unless I know the person I'm with can truly appreciate the intensity of those emotions.
778456
Whenever you are ready, trully in love, and mature enough. My hubby and I knew each other since we were little kids. We got married when I was 22 and he was 20. We've always been very mature for our age and we knew what we wanted. We've both graduated from college, we have our own home, have a wonderful dog, and we have been married 4.5 years. We're now trying for our first child. We were in love and we didn't want to spend another day apart. We also waited until marriage to have sex, btw. :)
631734
Perfectly normal....Women dont typically hit their sexual peak until their thirties.  Men unfortunatley are at their peak in the early 20's.  How much does that suck??!!