My fiance says he has a problem with looking at other women.?
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Men look at women.  That's how we are wired.  Get used to it, or become a lesbian.
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Every guy notices other women from time to time, we can't help it. But to make it so obvious that your girlfriend notices and is bothered by it, well, that shows a deplorable lack of class. Also, calling your girlfriend "ugly" is really beneath contempt.\n\nCall him on it. Make sure he knows how much he is hurting you.
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as long as he's just looking at the menu and not ordering, i think you'll be okay.  if it's really bothering you, tell him.  if he cares about you he'll keep those kinds of comments to himself.  however, whether he tells you or not, all guys look at other women, just as all girls look at other guys, that's just life.
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My BF looks and he is not subtle about it at all!!! It bothers me with him which is weird because it never bothered me with other guys. But I think it is because he is not subtle about it he cuts off in mid-sentence to look at some girl, I haven't figured a way around him looking or my jealousy over it. Sometimes I say outrageous things to get his attention but it hasn't worked so far. I think I will just buy him some dark sunglasses so at least  I won't notice as much.
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I can tell that this issue is really bothering you and hunny, you are tooooooo young for this. You actually sound mad, it was like you were on the phone with me venting while I was reading.\nWell, I am a strong believer in the word and I have read that where the mind is the body follows. Meaning your boyfriend wants to sleep with other women if he hasn't already done so. When he is looking and admiring all thoose other women he is lusting for them.  He shouldn't disrespect you like that and you need to leave.
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sometimes guys just look at other woman but it doesnt mean that he would rather be with her...  I dont think that your boyfriend is lying to you. alhough he might not be able to stop he really cares about you
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I have the same problem and this is what I do tell him and if he gets mad then tell him you need a man who respects you.  But like they say you have to worry when they stop looking because that probley mean that they are cheating on you.  Ask him why he stares and hits on other girls and ask him to stop.  If he gets mad or deosn't stop then he never respected you and you don't belong wasting your time on a guy that doesn't respect you.  Jamie
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yes, my husband looks at other women, sometimes when I'm there with him. I think it's disrespectful but he doesn't see it that way. I can't be bothered with this all the time so I just look the other way. If he wants to cheat with someone else, I'll give him his laundry and tell him to have her do it and tell him to $@%# off.
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Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
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I don't know, I think good husbands should just do their best to not let their thoughts about other women bother their wives.  I think it is sadly pretty ingrained into guy's minds that they should be checking out chicks for the rest of their life to prove their manhood or something.
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You're not gonna like this....but he's a guy.  Every guy likes to look at women, every guy likes to be looked at by women, the only differences are in how well we control/hide it.  If you've never had any reason to suspect him of infidelity, I would say it's no big deal.  It certainly doesn't indicate anything about him not liking/loving you.  However, you need to ask yourself what you want.  Do you need a guy that will only look at you, give you that constant self-esteem boost?  If your boyfriends not what you wnat, move on, but if he's really what you need, with one mildly bad habit, deal with it.
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Love isn't blind.  Of course he is going to think there are other girls that are "hot" (a rather derogatory term, but whatever.)  Just like you look around and think the same of other guys.  It is what you DO (or, more importantly DON'T do) with those thoughts.
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Yes, it is perfectly normal.  He should not be roving his eye when he's with you...that's just disrespectful.  Of course we all know men love to look....they just don't have to do it when they're with their woman....rude!!
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I have to defend the men on this one even though I am a women.  Men look at other woman.   We will never change that.  Why should we even bother trying or waste our energy ranting about it.  \n\nGuys have to put up with our constant "does my bum look big", "Do you love me really".  Changing their hair, their looks, making them girlie, rearranging their flat/house. Moaning at forgotten, 2 1/2 month anniversaries etc.  Crying to win arguments etc etc.  I could go on.   \n\nYes it is annoying that men look at other women.  At the end of the day the guy has chosen you. You are the best of the bunch according to this guy so although he may look and fantasise about other women, you are the one he has chosen to spend his hard earned money on!
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Yes lawd! It's a natural and healthy feeling. Just think, if you were with your ideal man...would every other man in the world be unnattractive to you. I'm not completely sure what your exact question is, but maybe you're asking more along the lines is "Is it acceptable for my bf to find other women attractive?". The way he reacts to the presence of another woman would answer that. If he responds in a way that is derogatory to you...then it's highly unacceptable. But if he finds a feature on her that attracted him to you..for instance...nice eyes. Then he is checking out other women, but paying you a compliment as well...not being rude and not lying or covering up his actions. And the way you react plays a part in it too. If his reaction is a positive one and you show the same...then I think it's okay, but if you cut him a wicked look (not in fun and play) then he'll be scared to react with other women present bc of you. It goes both ways thougth miss lady...if you see some eyecandy you like, be a woman...let it be known but still be classy and respectful to your man.\n\nHope this helps in some form or fashion.\nFlirting can be so dangerous these days if taken too seriously.
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I know how ya feel, I've had girlfriends who were the same-I got in trouble if I "looked" at a woman! To be honest, he loves you & is afraid of loosing you, It's what ya call "insecurity".
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You are right and I totally agree with you. Maybe you can tell him exactly whats on your mind. Tell him that you pay your bills and he shouldn't be down playing the hard work you have been doing for you to afford nice things. He should be proud of you and letting people know he is with a real woman instead of making it sound like you are materialistic and distorting the fact. On the other hand he is probably little jealous too and he doesn't want you to get all that attention so when people compliment you, he wants to sabotage it a little. Just talk to him and make him understand that its not really fair. Good luck!