i pjoned my gf and she said she wanted to talk to me but then a min later she said she didnt want to talk?
363402
Did you do something that you should worry about?  \n\nIt's very hard to gauge people over the phone.  If you didn't do anything wrong then you shouldn't sweat it.  May be she was on the phone with a girlfriend gossiping and forgot about what she was going to tell you.
1137840
It sounds like she is wanting to connect with someone, which leads me to believe that she doesn't feel that way with you. You should try to talk to her and let her know that if your communication isn't as it should be that you are more than willing to work to get it to what it needs to be. Most people who chat alot are people who feel isolated from other people. Make her feel loved and wanted by you and try to take her out and get her motivated.
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
1175613
you did do a selfish thing. she may not want to talk now but trust me she needs time to think. she will talk to you when she feels the time is right. people just cant forget many years in one minute. give her time.
294835
that's mean she's not interestd with you, she keep saying 'give me time' because she don't want to hurt your feeling.but don't give up pal,keep tryin.!wish you luck
909873
I think she is still upset about the breakup so she needs time to think about everything that has happened. Deep down even though she is being distant with you she really wants to open up to you but she is so hurt, but dont give up on her give her the time she needs even though it may be a little tough. When she is ready to talk she will trust me!
871390
It's possible, she may change her mind.  You need to give her some time to miss you.  In a couple of weeks, maybe you could invite her to lunch, and have a talk.  Sounds like she still cares, but perhaps is confused.
658490
if she's avoiding you then you either did something to piss her off or she found some1 else, i think u should take the "female" approach and really find out what's going on and what you could do to help, maybe she's stressing at work/school or she's "late" and doesn't want to say anything yet, but try to find what's up and if she doesn't want to talk then you tell her something nice and leave her alone for a while maybe she'll come around and then give herself 2 u
663004
Depends on your age not much you can do..... have you try asking her why she does this to you when you do for her, maybe she is having problems that she don't tell  you communication is important Good Luck
780840
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
842825
Think back, had she been acting weird for a while now? In this conversation she sounds like she's not at all interested in any aspect of your life. You should talk it over with her, and if nothing works, it means the friendship has to end
462222
Talk to her and ask why she is running away?  Maybe she doesnt want you for just one night - maybe she wants more
782797
First of all she is waiting for you to contact her, as she turned you down, she is probably wondering if you are still talking/friends with her. \nShe dosen't wanna change the relationship because the way it is feels safe, and she dosen't wanna change/risk that. By her saying that she dosen't deserve you shows she is maybe a bit insecure and has been hurt in the past, she feels she wouldn't live up to your expectations, Saying your easy means she would be worried that you wouldn't stay faith ful, or you would be off with the next bit of skirt that looked your way, is it that she has seen you cheat or heard how you talk even when your with someone?\nTrust her when she says she wouldn't lie, chill out, txt her saying your sorry if you put her in a difficult situation but it's was because how lovely you think she is, then go back to normal, go out like normal, don't put it off or you''ll both feel weird, just from now on make sure you don't chat up girls in front of her or talk about cheating etc, then you never know, maybe next time she'll be asking you, if it's meant to be you'll get together in time.
372931
She may just be really busy, honey.  Try to find a time when she's not doing something else.  Ask her if it's a good time to talk and remember to ask what she thinks and talk about what she's interested in, too.
1069875
Maybe she really does need to think about it...or she doesn't want to go out with you. Just wait and see what happens tomorrow. If she doesn't tell you anything, don't talk to her again.
203478
It sounds like after she got to know you a little bit she found you were not the typ of guy she was looking for,no offence you may be a realy great guy,just maybe for someone else.If you want to work it out sit down with her and explain to her how you feel.If she gets upset right away and doesnt want to talk about it,that is a sign that she may not love youlike you love her.
463642
Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.