How do you talk to someone who's really shy?
369514
Shy people like to feel comfortable by talking to you about things they know a lot about.  Overhear him, check out what he is reading on....figure out something he is the master of and I guarantee that shell will fall off.  Common personality trait that people don't always understand is shyness and the ease shy people feel with their comfortable subjects.  I always try to talk to them about their job, their dog, something personal - not Cambodia, either...I would not talk to him about that...more about his career, sports, something he really digs...just my advice!  Always works on boys or girls for me!
152483
I have the same problem...I usually tend to be very normal with the people I know....but when it comes to new people or strangers I shy out...so just pretend that you know the person...not literly though
162344
Everyone feels shy sometimes, but being too shy can hamper many aspects of your life.\n \n \nSteps:\n1.  Determine why you're shy in the first place. For example, are you scared of what someone might say about your physical appearance? Remember, there's an underlying reason for how you react in situations.\n \n2.  Act as if you're not shy. In private, behave as if you're oozing confidence. Hold your chin up, stick your chest out, add a swagger to your walk and speak firmly. It may seem ridiculous, but you will see results when you're out in public.\n \n3.  Practice making eye contact and smiling in your interactions with others. Strike up casual conversations with strangers about weather or current events.\n \n4.  Look your best. One way to improve self-consciousness is to always look good and limit ways you can be self-critical.\n \n5.  Lower your fear of rejection by imagining the worst possible outcome. If you approach someone, they may say "no" or they may just walk away. Absolutely everybody has been rejected at some point, but no one has to dwell on it.\n \n6.  Look and learn. Watching friends or even strangers who aren't shy is a good way to learn some tips first-hand.\n \n7.  Feel positive about yourself, don't get frustrated and have fun. Remember, the real goal is to find someone who will like you for who you are.
986722
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
280252
go somewhere u have something on common with other ppl and say hi i know ur shy but trust me i used to b shy till i made it though college and got tired of it surprisingly ppl dont mind you talking to them as long as u have something in common \n\n\noh there is some pill for it too (imagine that) but seriously its for ppl with social anxiety disorder
269009
I'm very shy always have been.\n\nFunny thing is people think I'm outgoing, yet I often struggle as a quiet 3rd wheel in many interactions.\n\nHe should take a public speaking course.  (Check the Internet for a Toastmasters Chapter).  Although I've never been a part of that group, I understand it to be an excellent way to build even a little self-confidence, and to meet a few people.\n\nIn social situations, he can begin with a firm handshake.  A common interest item should be used for an ice breaker.  \n\nAt work, or school, he should enter the NCAA bracket contests.  Even if he is not a fan, it is an opportunity to talk about SOMETHING with people.  Events like that break social and sexual lines.\n\nHe needs to start small.  Build confidence, thick skin (not a thick head, though), and maintain a sense of humor.\n\nGood luck
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
804711
sorry but that is the answer, you have to fight that shyness and be bold.  it doesn't have to come out as forceful.  Maybe your hints were too subtle.  Just casually mention, 'i really like you,' and just go on with the conversation. it doesn't have to focus on that issue. just be calm.
84608
For the shy male, start with the internet. This type of forum lends itself greatly to those who lack social skill. True personality decides how the relationship works. The level of safety depends on what you are willing to reveal about yourself. If someone is interested in you, you may have major keyboard time ahead of you. \n\nRelax and be yourself. People can sense when you have bad intentions or if you're not being genuine. Start off with friendly conversation. Don't force your way into someone's personal life. If they want to talk about it with you, they will.\n\nThink about what you have to offer in a relationship. People who can make people feel good about themselves have a better chance of maintaining a relationship.
814110
i no it sounds stupid but it worked for me try practicing talking in the mirror or get some tips from his friends wat to talk about wat hes in to hopefully then when you go shy you can talk a bout things and not freez if this still doesn't work just think as him as a brother  or one of your best Friends.  \n        x  good luck  x
644349
may be is shy person!
982354
just start talking and then you will become more relaxed.  i am shy too and once you start talking it will come to you and you will be fine.  it does not matter what you say to start it just start talking.
1094408
just do it  i know how it is to be a little shy because i am to but it is best just to tell him how you feel and be yourself \n\nGood Luck!
779826
haha yes, there's another guy out there like me! Yeah, he shows that he's interested. The thing with shy types are that a lot of the time, they won't start the conversation as readily, so you'll have to start it, but once they get more comfortable with you, it will get easier :)
192750
Talk about movies, TV, anything you have in common. You could find out if he like videogames, cars, etc. and talk about that. It just sounds like he is really shy so you'll have to make the first move.
92248
Learn to talk to people.  I think many people are painfully shy when it comes to talking to all but their closest friends.  I think that shyness stems from a lack of confidence and the idea that no one wants to look foolish in the eyes of others.\n\nYou must realize that everyone has the same concerns, even if it seems that they don't.  When you are in a group of people, pick out someone who also seems to be in the same boat as you, and start a conversation.  Share your interests and you will be amazed at how quickly you will make friends.  \n\nBest wishes.
1150761
if yr to shy you wont get the guys you like. the only way yr going to know if anything could or would happen is by talking to him