someone help need real advice bad?
356938
If he's such a good friend of yours why hadn't you met his wife before the party? I don't know that I,d tell him right away I,d ask her first if the baby is yours. But before you are all set to be babies daddy you better request a blood test to make sure its yours. Chances are you and her husband might not be the only  ones who could have fathered her baby if shes that fast to have sex with someone shes never met with her husband that close by.
530930
Go to Legal aid or the courthouse and ask for advice.
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
659981
Keep talking about it. Don't linger on the bad moods. If you focus on bad things only then all the good things are crap. When you argue don't use the word YOU. Bring up that the situation is wrong and not the person you are talking to. You spent all the money= NO. The situation of being penniless upsets me. Let's figure out ways to save some money=YES.
220319
don't put yourself in such a situation ok make him a big firend you might take advice from him
783516
you need to talk to the right people, not here\nb
176797
Question: Why are you asking complete strangers to answer this question for you?\n\nBuy whatever you like better & what you can afford. Ask close friends for more advice if you need it.
572240
The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
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You should stop and think, that's what you should do for openers.\n\nNow, what is it that is so bad about your life?  It can't be literally everything, so what's the worst thing?  OK, now you have a focus for change.  What sort of help do you need to change that one thing?  Who would be the sort of person who can help you, or where would you find the information you need?\n\nMany problems get summed up in a few: money, for example.  If I only had more money, dozens of my current problems would be alleviated. OK, so I go on a rational quest for ways to improve my financial situation.\n\nLoneliness, for another example: many of my current problems would improve if I had someone to talk them over with, someone who cared.  OK, then take the time to figure what sort of person that would be, where you might meet such a person, or who you might get in touch with that you used to know, but lost track of somehow?\n\nYou see, bringing your mind to bear on the problem is the most important thing you can do.  If there are professionals you need to consult, there's a yellow pages on the back of your phone book.  If there are books you need to read, or web sites you need to study, etc.  Put your MIND to it, and stop making it all emotionally overwhelming.  Remember that you can control your responses to events with your mind.  You can decide to be calm, rational and in control of your behavior.\n\nGood luck and God bless!
186277
stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.
619747
Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
258638
Go to the doctor for advice
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This is all the money in the world to you and you are seeking anonymous free-advice!?!   Find a professional that you trust.\nGeez...
133953
focus on somebody else. you dont want to wreck a happy home and have a bad karma afterwards right?
926488
Uh, learn some manners?\n\nWe don't owe you "good" advice.  You post on the internet, you get what you get.  I don't even understand your post.  What does the first girl having sex have to do with this second girl?  \n\nIf you want good advice, write a question that is understandable.
229248
Practice makes perfect.  You need to keep on talking.  You are realizing your mistakes by hearing them, so I would say keep on talking.  It will get better.
206871
You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.