how to deal with guys that are playing games without stooping to their level?
360593
The best way to deal with guys who play games is to toss him a deck of cards on your way out the door while waving byeeeeeeeee :)
403241
You are going to have to practice and get better that's the only way.  If you win by flirting with them you won't really feel like you accomplished anything.  Beating them because you played a better game is the only way.
301126
Well you sound like you are giving into peer pressure anyways. So just let him play.
969784
You teach people how to treat you. If you're ok with being asked out by email and never spoken to, then he's your man. If you think he's playing games or messed up, stop responding to him. I don't know why you'd even care to figure him out- I'd just ignore him.
886829
Some guys can be real jerks.
499719
tell him how you feel and if he is just playing games then give up. good luck
113963
be straight forward with him dont let him play games, if he likes you he likes you and he should express it with words.
782639
Just play it cool. You don't want to chase him and scare him off.
573015
some guys like that. In my case I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get..haha, some people are just shy or something.
471532
all the things you said sound good. as well as develop a mid range pull up that way once you beat your man, or have him off balance its easier to get that shot off and you can pull it before you get to the cup where the help is. Once you get a few of those down the defense will start to step u to stop that, THEN it makes it easier to get all the way to the basket. The key is dont always do the same thing keep the defense off balance. Take a few shots you know you can hit like a mid to short range jumper or pull up, then once you get them thinking jumper, drive. Also if you beat your man, and someone steps up to block your shot that means someone else is open. So on that same note, once you get them thinking okay he's a shooter, then start passing, or get them thinking he's gonna pass and then shoot. KEep them guessing. But first you have to take what they give you and use it against them. \nAnd all that being said do the little things play defense and rebound first. Mkae them work so hard on the other end that they are too frustrated to try and stop you.
907559
try to get involved maybe when he is not home practice playing those video games and when he comes home play with him if you beat him he will think that the game was weak so he will stop playing just so that you wont play. or you can like it and challenge eachother with new games.maybe some Sex games would be good. and if he goes out with his friends go along
590101
Just ignore them, it usually distracts them when they're trying to get your attention.\n\nFocus on what you're there to do; win.
488955
maybe he's broke or otherwise just stringing you along.think hard!or play the game too
196464
no they dont!\nsounds like your is in the retarted zone! if he dont wake up unplug his game, put it in the closet and tell him when he grows up and acts like a big boy he can have it back!
988597
Just respect their opinion. If you are butting heads use an empathic approach. Put the ball in their court and allow them to problem-solve.
758035
What you need is to tighten up your game.  He needs to tighten up his mouth and stop letting things like that come out of it.
1166374
I do not like playing games either, but I do not think that you should make yourself readily available to anyone. I mean most of us dodge our jobs and we KNOW that we are going to get paid for the time we put in. You do not know him well, you do not know where this is going. Slow down if he is what you think he is there will be plenty of time for the two of you to spend together. And on the contrary this is your world! Especially in this situation! All I can say is take your time if he is worth it saying well I kind of made other plans today is it OK if we reschedule this for (2 days later), will not turn him around. I think you are saying to yourself gotta get it while the getting is good. That's why you jump on it every time he calls. It seems that you would like to keep him around for some time so take some time. If you turning him down turns him away then that is just letting you know that he is not the person that you thought or hoped he was.