ok well mostly every1 knows im with this guy except 4 our parents?
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dont say nothin its really none of there business you are who you are im sure they already know my mom said shes known for a while your mom knows shes just scared to say anything dont tell them separate if you wanna tell tell your mom first then  have her sit down with you and your dad
335669
get his number call him and arrange a date...believe me your parents won't care if your just talking to him anyway....they have more things to worry about...it also depends how old you are??
307878
uhhhh im 13 and i have a bf...i never really made a point to tell my mom, it just sorta came up in conversation i guess...I did tell my grandma cause me and her talk about EVERYTHING shes like my really old best friend lol but neway, she sorta brought it up and my mom dint really care, it freaked out my dad a bit but he got over it lol. of course, my bf is 13 too, so ur parents may be a bit more shocked if they find out that ur goin out with someone way older than u lol
1136865
YEAH SORTA.. CUZ U BOTH COME OUT FRM THE SAME DAD..
15751
It depends on your partner's relationship with his/her parents. Because even if you don't think its necessary, it may be important for your partner-to-be, and he/she may not tell you.  Its hard, because if you want to keep it a surprise, you can't ask him/her directly. I would just probe indirectly, and see how he/she feels (or ask mutual friends to do the investigative work)
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that is wrong.  they need to realize that you are their daughter. no matter what you did do and what you did to him, you are the one they should love and choose over any one else. i would personally let my dad know how i feel and then leave him to think about it and if your parents really care about you they will get their head out of their ass and realize what they are doing.
108850
There is no possible way that you know EVERYTHING about him.   He has chosen to give you select information.  This one guy I consider my best friend and we talk about everything, yet I still don't know everything about him and neither does he about me.  We have selected to tell what we wanted each other to know.  There is always room to find out more information about him, since he is your boyfriend and your best friend, hopefully.
875520
ask him if you can go with him to his parents for the holidays... if he says im not ready then,,, i think its time to tell him the same..... if you was the same age, would he already introduced you to his friends and family???? my guess yes ..... if he wants to hind you from everyone then,  there is really something wrong,,,,,  i hope you find happiness but i dont think this is it ,,,,, good luck
1030390
he is playing you for a fool and why does it even matter if your parents dont want you to date then it hsouldnt be a problem , right?\ngo with them, they really do know best and im sure that they have your best interests at heart\nnow if you are like 20 and still living at home or something then this choice really should be yours, and still he sounds like an immature player to me\njust keep it as friends
360587
Sounds like it could work! Anytime his MOM asks about you, you gotta realize he must like you enough to talk about you at home.
199221
i think that ur parents trust ur BF that's why... and good for both of u, 'coz it means that ur BF didn't waste the chance that was given to him by ur parents...
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OK lizzie as long as you love each other you're parents are going to have to  deal with it, and you guys need to tell them that (in a respectful way of course) that is so gooooood that youre waiting til you get out of school. but any ways let youre and his parents know that you guys are willing to take youre relationship to the very top and youre going to need their support , if they love you guys which im sure they do their going to to be happy about this because it makes you two happy.\ncongradulations , i wish you guys the best
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Okay....this mom is going to try to answer you.  I don't know anything about your family so it it hard to answer.  My suggestion would be...let your parents get to know him, not as your boyfriend, but just as a friend.  Then if you really start dating they will already know him.  Don't make a big deal about race, maybe they won't.\nIt is easy for people to say don't worry about your parents.  I don't agree.  First of all....you wouldn't be asking this question, if what your parent thought didn't matter.\nFamily is forever.... guys can come and go.  \nYou answered a question I had, In your answer to me, you saw my love for my son and you told me to let God handle it. I can tell you are a very insightful person and I would bet you have a pretty good head on your shoulders.  Let them meet him first, then later.....Talk to your parents, give them a chance...they might just surprise you.  If he is good to you and your family....they will see that over anything else.\nGood luck, I wish you the best!
196134
Yeah, it's a bad thing. You should show the reasons for which you need to talk to your guy friends and ask for permission from your parents, if they agree then you may talk to your guy friend otherwise, I don't think it would be a good idea.
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Don't just invite him once. Invite him a lot. Have him come over and play cards, watch a video, anything. You will get to spend time with him. Your parents will get to see that he is a good person. And eventually you will be able to go out on dates and your parents will trust him. Answering questions would probably be really hard for the boy. He would be nervous. Plus, actions speak louder than words. When they see he is a good guy they will be more at ease.\nThey love you..............and that is a great thing. They just want you to be respected and don't ever want you to get hurt.
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start involving him more in the family get togethers.  On the other hand, I'm all for the family card and I'd be interested in hearing their side of the story.  Sometimes parents see what we can't because we are blinded by love:)
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nope.. just my parents...lol