why didnt she just admit her feelings?
367702
I feel u i really do , hav jus cum out of a 7 mth relationship 2 wks ago iluved him but he had feelings 4 me but not luv. It hurts and only wen u accept it will u move on.I have now accepted this and dispite still being deaply hurt i am gettin on wi my life , do not contact this girl u will make a fool of yourself like i did, 1 day u will meet some1 who is right 4 u and so will i.Rejection knoks any1 down but u hav 2 get bk u GOOD LUCK STAY STRONG
852479
I think it may be that she is (or was) lonely and her actions were due to that fact. She may have realised she needed attention, moreso than wanting you and was afraid or embarassed to admit that to you and so simply rebuffed your "moves" later. I think she cares about your feelings & enjoys your company but did not want to hurt you because she realises she doesnt beleive a relationship cld work between the 2 of you.\n\nI doubt she likes to make you suffer, though it may seem that way, shes just trying to spare your feelings and does not, most likely realise that she is hurting you in another way all the same.
51995
Well if you have to find out from someone else how she feels about you, it was never there.\n\nShe's a friend, move on
763978
sounds like she has some serious issues.\n\nand she let herself get fooled - by herself.\n\nthere are people of any gender, any preference, any background like that.
560042
Sorry to hear that. My guess to that question would be that she liked/loved you but could not get over the race issue. She couldn't be at ease with it and maybe family/friends/society  had issues with it too and she was more on their side. She sounds like she was confused and let others make her decision for her. Maybe in time she can accept it and if u still care for her u 2 can work it out. Good Luck!
780840
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
684319
Some feelings never go away..\n\nBut if she loves him i could not this you can tell by the way she acts.
827412
Ouch : ( Are you sure she is straight? she could of been hurt from you rejecting her. You need to tell her that you did have feelings for her when she came out to you, but you weren't mentally ready to deal with these feelings/emotions yet. You need to emphasise that you understand it may have been a phase for her, and just showing her the decency of telling her how you actually feel. By you already telling her i am sure she has started to think back when she did like you and what attracted her to you. I don't think she has lost her forever, you never will you to are good friends. But you need to also understand she will be emotionally and mentally a mess, because she had strong feelings for you and you burned her so she properly has compressed those feelings until how you told her how you feel. And i am pretty sure she would be questioning her sexuality again. So please be patient with her and don't give up. \nBest of luck : )
770043
She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
867564
She was only worried because she didn't want to hurt her friend. If you really liked her, you would be more considerate of her feelings.
253157
Yes, or you would've never had closure! You would have been miserable, and wondered, and wondered,... what could have been if you could have just told her. Now, you both know and its up to her do something about it. Good Luck! God Bless You!
529902
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.
556276
She could have been in a relationship or just getting over one without lying.  If she was even close to him any she might need a breather before making an attempt to another one.  However, from what you're saying, she's definitely interested in you.  I would hang in there and keep on trying if you're really interested in her.
365571
If you can't tell her how you really feel...then why are you still with her...communication is key
90856
Maybe she is shy. Ask her to write her feelings down for you. Some people do better with expressing how they feel on paper than face to face. Try it and see if it works. If not, then she is just playing games with your heart and emotions, and you don't need anyone putting you on an emotional roller coaster...been there..not fun!
177376
I'm sorry that happened to you but maybe she finally realized what she felt for you and that it wasn't enough to take it into the future.  You also don't know if she found somebody else and this could be a possibility.  Please try to move on and consider this a blessing in disguise.  It's better that you found out sooner than later.
748584
Sometimes, when you need to be... but you should express how you feel, some people cant handle the truth... its always a soft spot, just let em have it easy...