How do you know if you are ready for a divorce? And how do you know if you are completly in love with someone?
356609
I knew I was ready for a divorce when I had a dream of my (no ex) husband getting killed right in front of me, was not upset at all in the dream, and when I woke up, my first thought was "Oh, I guess this means he's still here" and I felt no emotion from the dream.  I knew then that I did not love him at all anymore.
285934
look in his eyes , look pretty good and if ur heart beats really hard when you think that something wrong might happen to him , or if you think about him alot and whenever you remmember him you just find a beautiful smile over your face  ...\nif you are sure that you cant possibly love anyone anymore ...\nif u think u were ment to be ..\nif u cant emagine your life without him for one moment ..\nif u have fun being around him ...\nif he makes you smile and then gives you a great hug ..\nif for one time he looked at you with tears in his eyes and said "i love you ..."\nif he makes you feel so special ...\nif he cares that you are always happy no matter what ...\nif you see your children in his eyes ...\n\nTHAN YOU CAN KNOW ...
98541
First off, make sure your not being blinded by that early part of a relationship where everything is all roses and wine.  Take some time to be realistic about really look at the relationship closely.  Liveing together will give you some idea about what it would be like to be married to someone but it won't give you the whole picture.  If after all that your still feeling the same way, just start by mentioning little things about marriage to him to see if it will start a conversation that will reveal his thoughts.
162210
You think all the time for him/her. You cannot find even one bad characteristics in him/her... And you even ask yahoo! answers to find out are you in love :)
442944
My boyfriend and I got together and less than 2 weeks later we moved in together, and we were talking about marriage after 3 weeks, he is my soul mat e, my whole life, and my futurte husband, we have been together for 2 years and we have had our bad times, really bad times, but it doesnt make me love him, or us any less, so what Im trying to say is, if your ready and he is the one, you will just know, nobody else can tell you when you are ready except for your heart, dont listen to your head so much, i mean listen to it just follow your heaart, you know what is best for you...I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you...xxx
232932
i think that most people just know, and at the same time many people question it, they always wonder : can this be it, is it really going to work, and so forth. the way i look at it is: when you look at the person do you think of anyone else, do you see yourself with this person "forever", do you want to grow old with this person. no one else but you can determine if you are in love or not, this is your question to answer, not ours.
1151436
I know how hard it is when it is your first love.  I married my high school sweetheart and we have 3 kids. I can tell ya though we had rocky times and in between them i fell in love with a guy and was with him for 3 years he loved with me with all his heart and soul but my heart was with my first love.  If you are in love with someone now don't turn back to a man who is going through a divorce because it will only encumber you being hurt and dragged through all the mess that he is in.  Let him divorce and you be there but from a distance. Let him become whole again and then see what happens. While he is doing what he has to do you can evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend.
106361
only you can say when enough is enough because it really depends on the kind of guy you're with... you should give up on love if: \n- you feel like he's only using you to get what he wants\n- he seems distant & cold & won't talk about it no matter how hard you're reaching out.\n- he's draining you emotionally, financially, physically & socially.\n\nit must not be love if:\n- you can't talk about anything \n- you resolve conflicts by kissing, making out or having sex only\n- you argue about everything & can't compromise\n- you're cheating
384779
When your in love with some you will know.  Like when your with them nothing in the world seems to matter anymore.  You will be able to know when your in love and can tell its real cause you wont be thinking about other people in the same way.\n\nHoped this helped
521422
personally i would say no, you hardly know him after 3 months, trust me i speak from personal experience (yes i did end up divorced) you will still be in the infatuation stage of your relationship, wait a year or two then think about it for a while but rely on your own instincts not on anyone elses opinion. It is you that will have to live with the decision for the rest of your life (hopefully). Just for the record I have been married to my second wife for six years and we have two great kids and no regrets!
931942
To know the person enough that you would want to spend the rest of your life with them... and not want to give up when it gets rough. Knowing that divorce isn't possible and that you both agree to work on the relationship 110% is half the battle right there. Because if you both think one day, there's an "out", you both won't try to the degree that it takes to make it work.\n\nThat you're able to be the best wife/husband you can be - no matter what the other person says or does. To be able to love them unconditionally.\n\nIf you aren't ready to do those things - you aren't ready to have a successful marriage.
1056558
To your first question: it just happen we don't make it and when u fall in love, u just have to tell the person your true feelings for him and it's after that that u'll know if he share the same feelings for u.  Before jumping into a marriage, u must know him well and see if you wud be adapted to his character.  When u'll be sure enough then what will happen next will just happen all by itself.
310165
You are in love when you see the person at their absolute worst and you aren't turned off in the least bit. \n\nYou are in love when you know you would do anything to make them happy for life.
863823
When you ask that question that's a good sign that you have. When you are in love with someone you know it without a doubt in your heart whatsoever.
651015
IM BISEXUAL AND LOVE A MARRIED MAN. STRANGE RIGHT? I KNOW. NO SEX INVOLVED. THIS IS A STICKY SITUATION AND ONE THAT SHOULD NOT INVOLVE YOU. IM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HIM. HE NEEDS SPACE AND HE MADE THIS PART OF THE MESS AND PROBABLY DOESN'T WANT TO SUBJECT YOU TO THE FUCKING DRAMA.MY ADVISE IS TO LEAVE AND MOVE OUT. HE NEEDS TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS AND YOU LET HIM. IF HE LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE HIM THINGS WILL WORK THEMSELVES OUT. IF NOT, THEN YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE. EVER HEARD "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR"? I GUESS IT IS.YOU WALK OUT AND SAY GIVE IT A YEAR, CAUSE DIVORCE IS MESSY.AND IN THIS CASE IT DEFINITELY IS. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE LET THEM GO. IF THEY COME BACK TO YOU THEN....THEY ARE YOURS..{SMILE I KNOW YOU ARE SAD} . BE STRONG GIRL,LOL HOPE THIS HELPS.LOL MEXXXI
170980
Oh,this is vey difficult question!\nHow can i know that i am in love!?\nI hope u recieve ur answer & i see this too.\nTake care.
445246
Thanks for making that clear for me, I was going to ask you out.\n\nBut seriously folks, you have to understand that people do not plan on getting divorced when they get married.  I sure didn't.  When my wife left me, she left me with two children to raise.  Did I grow up and dream of being a single father, no, but it is the situation that I find myself in.  That being said, There is still a lot of love left inside my heart for another person.  And I don't feel that I am alone on this one.  To say that you would not go out with someone that is divorced is cutting your self short and loosing out on the opportunity of someone that has already been through heart ache and really understands what having a good relationship means.\n\nGood luck on your search for the pure ones on this planet, it will be a very long search.