HELP! Boyfriend.. weird?
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
883914
Are you sure your not being too clingy? Are you giving him some space? He might not be joking but not admitting it. Of course I cant judge it because I dont know how you are but you should ask him to be  bluntly honest with you so you can deal with it if it is a problem.
638347
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you've realized you are not ready to jump into a relationship. We all miss-judge and make mistakes, he should understand that you were confused. I think he would appreciate your sincerity.
938920
Your boyfriend is so under the thumb, it's a wonder you don't suffocate him.  Just lighten up, if he is Mr Right then you won't have a need to be so paranoid.
626925
ask your'e boyfriend how he feels about it...if he says that hes uncomfortable with it, then respect his wishes.
1032928
Can't you tell him the truth?  Think about what you like when you are on the computer (games? chat? surfing the web?) and try to tell him why you like that.\nIt sounds like he's feeling left out.   Is there something you could do together on the computer?  Is the computer more important than your relationship with your boyfriend?\nOnly you can figure those things out.
1176933
wait, let him tell you first.  the person who says it first looses control in the relationship.  plus it freaks guys out, he will start acting wierd
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
304167
im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
96262
Sounds like your boyfriend has less imagination than he thought he did. Or, he took it slow since it was your first time together. I would hope for the latter.
1013837
Sounds to me like hes embarassed about his feelings towards you. He probably wants to keep what you two have in private, which isn't such a bad thing..believe me. It's alot easier to have a real relationship without everyone's prying eyes all in your buisiness.
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
475625
If you love him, then you should be with him. Confront him with this. He might have just gotten used to the relationship. If he just nods you off, he is not serious about the relationship.
862410
he's a professional who trained at making ladies feel comfortable. Sounds like a bit of an unhealthy infatuation. Maybe your next boyfriend should be made aware of your needs, to be treated with dignity and respect.
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
976878
Hmm....sounds like it was too much all at once....perhaps he is having a freak out. Just treat him normal and tell him you care abotu him, you think he's hot and whatever he wants is fine....the more chill you are about it...the more he will realx and his true desires will come out.