what are some good tricks for performing head on a guy?
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The very first thing, and the very biggest thing, is to be into it.  Enjoy what you are doing, and be excited about it.  Everyone wants to think that the things that turn them on turn other people on too.  If you give the guy the idea that you don’t like to do it, then he feels like it is bad, or dirty, and no one likes that kind of judgment.\n\nAs for specific tips... every guy is different, but there are some things almost all guys like. \n\nForget everything you have read in Cosmo about how going down is somehow empowering, or that you are in control of his pleasure – that is just feminist political garbage, and it is SO not about that – going down on a guy is about giving pleasure, not taking control.\n\nJust before you start, put on a fresh coat of lipstick, let your guy watch you do this.\n\nGet down on your knees in front of him, whether he is standing or sitting – unless you are in a car or something that would prevent that.  Guys LOVE seeing their girl on her knees for them.  \n\nGet him warmed up by rubbing him over and between your boobs, while you tell him how excited you are to be doing what you are doing and how much you are looking forward to what is coming next.  You can also use your hair brushed lightly over him.\n\nPay some attention to his balls.  Softly run your nails over them.  Lick them, and suck one and then the other into your mouth and flick your tongue over it... once when you are getting started, and then later when you need to take a bit of a break from the “main event;” be gentle...  Keep them cupped in your hand after you have moved on to other things, and softly kneed them, be gentle, and don’t tug.  \n\n\nIt should go without saying that you should do everything you can to keep your teeth out of the equation.  I doubt much else could be as unpleasant as teeth on a genital.  It should also go without saying that you want to use your tongue – a lot.  I am sure that a soft tongue feels wonderful on a genital.  Lick up and down, particularly the underside, and top of the tip... get everything nice and wet before it even goes inside your mouth.\n\nWhen you are ready to take it inside the first time, close your lips softly, and push them against him so that he pushes your lips open around him as he slides inside.\n\nAs you get started on the main event, ask him to hold your hair out of your face.  This serves two purposes – first it keeps your hair out of your face, and mouth (always a good thing) and it gives him permission to put his hands on your head and provide you with some guidance (which most guys are unfortunately too timid to provide without permission).  Be prepared that he will start to guide your head with his hands – and that is a good thing, he knows what he likes best – and that as he becomes more and more excited, he will provide more and more guidance... follow his lead unless it gets painful for you.  TRUST me – guys – all guys, even the ones who don’t want to, LOVE that.\n\nIf you can take him deep, do it, guys LOVE it.  It is actually quite easy once you learn how to do it, but it does take a bit of practice.  The trick is to open your throat, and relax all of the muscles at the same time.  But you HAVE to be careful about your gag reflex – you don’t want to puke.  I recommend practicing on a toy until you have it down.  \n\nTry to keep eye contact with your guy.  It won’t be possible all of the time, but look up at him as much as is convenient for you.\n\nAnd of course swallow... It is in your mouth already, it might as well slip down your throat.  Personally that is my favorite part, it feels so sexy, warm, and so yummy – and guys LOVE it.  Of course – they sometimes like to go other places as well – so be prepared for that, on your face, or boobs – but wherever it ends up smile, giggle and enjoy it.  Remember to at least act like it is as exciting to you as it is for him.  Nothing will ruin a good buzz like judgment, so don’t ruin i
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I've done this to both of the boyfriends I have had as well as numerous male friends. My strategy is to stand back to back with him, link arms and then bend at the waist. It's the easiest way. I've always done it as a joke - just something funny to do to show them that I am strong too!
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If you're practicing just to try it out before you do the deed, try a dildo if you have it. Bananas do work, though make sure you peel them, then freeze them. Licking a banana with the peel on it is disgusting. \n\nCucumbers work too, and you can get creative and peel them so there's a head and shaft. Just use the skinny ones..I think they're called english cucumbers. Normal cucumbers are huge and if you cut them to size, you'll be sucking on seeds. \n\nReally anything that's a descent size is suitable for practicing. If you're brave and not dating anyone, ask a guy friend to let you practice on him. A good one will give you an honest opinion and even some pointers without the embarrassment of telling everyone he knows. If you happen to have a gay best male friend, he's even better. Not only has he been on the giving end, but the receiving end too. He can generally give you the best advice you could get. (Look at me stereotyping those young gay men..I should be ashamed.)\n\nJust a few pointers: When you are finally read to give your guy a blow job remember not to forget the testicles. Be gentle, don't pull them off. And I'd suggest that he wear a condom for safety reasons plus you can get flavored ones and they keep you from getting that unexpected shot to the mouth...That's never fun the first time it happens.
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Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!
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If you're normally more aggressive and he's more go with the flow...\nStart out by massaging his back, then work your way around his entire body.\nRoll him over and ride him. Very slowly at first and let him dictate the tempo.\n\nIf it's normally the other way around then talk him into reversing what I said above... Except when he rolls you over, you get up on your knees and let the chips fall where they may.\n\nAs far as being happier. One thing I always try to do is act clumsy now and then well before either of us gets too aroused. It eases the pressure on performance for both people. Be silly and laugh together (but not at each other.) Sliding off the edge of the bed is a huge trick that makes for some really good laughs. Then get in there and have your way with him.\n\nIf that doesn't work then corner him somewhere in your house and start undressing him.\n\nAs far as sexual activities, read up on how to do specific things you like, ask him what he likes or wants more, read up on that and go for it.\n\nGood luck!
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Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" \nSo, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. \n\n\nBe specific. Don't go for the blanket statement "you're sexy." It's too easy. Think about how you'd feel if that was the best he could come up with when you're standing there nekkid. So, pick something out -- "your arms are so strong. I love to watch the muscles move when you take your shirt off." Or..."You have an incredible (butt/chest/etc.). I just wanna grab you!" See what I mean? \n\nStare. You know how to do it. The same way those construction workers watch you walk by. The same way that guy at work looks at you when you're wearing a plunging neckline. Look him up and down. Undress him with your eyes. And let him know you're doing it, like when he's walking in front of you, climbing up a ladder, or just stepping out of the shower. Heck, even lick your lips and wolf-whistle if you feel like it. \n\nTouch. We men don't have the market cornered on groping. You see something you want, you grab it. There's not a much better compliment than: "Sorry, I just couldn't keep my hands to myself!" Run your hand up his thigh. Down the back of his neck. You know how to do it. \n\nSurprise him. Call in the middle of the day, and tell him you're already thinking about tonight. Or, that you're still in a daze from last night. Catch him at the right time and he won't be able to think of anything but you for the rest of the day. And night. \n\nCompare. Even when you're watching TV or reading magazines, point out to him all the guys he's better looking/smarter/taller than (in your opinion, of course). What guy doesn't want to hear: "I don't see what the big deal is with Brad Pitt. You're way hotter than he is. WAY hotter." \n\nLingerie. No, not for you. Get him a pair of silk boxers (or boxer-briefs, if he prefers), and ask him to model them for you. Then, go back to #1 and get very specific about what you find so sexy about him in his undies. Don't laugh. It works on you women every time. \n\nExclusivity. Nobody can touch your body the way he does. NObody else could ever make you feel that good. Nobody has ever turned you on as much as him. Get the idea? He knows he's the only man in your world. Now let him know why. \n\nJump him. Plain and simple. This accomplishes everything you're asking for, no words necessary. Drag him into the bedroom (or the kitchen table, on the floor, or over to the couch). Throw him down. And have at him as if he were your last meal. You're just so turned on by him that you can't even control yourself. Sounds like a compliment to me! \n\nWrite to him. An e-mail. A letter. A poem. Pour your feelings out on paper and give them to him. Love letters have worked on women for hundreds of years. Maybe it's time the tables were turned. \n\nRepeat as necessary. Find what works for you and him. Go with it. Or, mix it up a little. Keep him on his toes. He'll never know where the next compliment is coming from. Basically, all you need to do is try new ways to stroke him (and his ego), and you're good to go. \n\n\nHide the Honey\n\nThis game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) \n\nWhat's Your
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get some fruit and whip cream. \n\nMake yourself into a human sunday for him and make him lick it allllllllll off. \n\nBy then he could hit a dime from a mile,\n\nbut, make him wait and have him rubb message oil allllll over you, flavored stuff works great,\n\nhe could penetrate steel by now,\n\nhope you have fun
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Just keep practicing and remember that you're stimulating him and his imagination via what he hears from you.  So describe what you'd like to do to him, give him feedback when he's describing what he's doing to you and make lots and lots of satisfied sounds!
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Don't worry. Just be comfortable while doing it. Just be careful not to scratch "it" with your teeth. Keep teeth away as far as you can. You can lick, suck, and bite lightly. Licking the shaft under the glans feels really good. A word of advice: don't let him hold your head when he is about to come or he might ram your face to his prick and choke you. It's also okay to swallow if you like!
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haha okay, my boyfriend taught me this...he said its what girls do when they want a guy to make a move...\n\nyour supposed to bite your lower lip and kind of look at him through slightly lowered lids, kind of the sexy smoldering look. tilt your head back and to the side too, and kind of give him a sideways glance, lol, but dont overdo it.
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Go to :\n\nhttp://www2.freedomacres.com/library/mspot.html\n\nIt's a swinger's site but they've got good tips for cunnilingus so it might be the same for blow-jobs
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At my best friends bachelorette's party we did the pretend  you're a guy thing - let me explain..... :)\n\nYou hold a can of silly string between your knees and using only one finger have to "pee" on a paper plate taped to the floor some distance in front of you....Makes for some hilarious pictures too.\n\nOr play "Weenie in a Bottle".  You tie one leg of a pr of pantyhose around your waist.  The other leg you put a hot dog in - get the picture?  Then you have to try and drop the weenie in a bottle, jar etc.......
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Make sure your tongue is underneath and hold his testicles with one hand.  From time to time lick it from the base to the tip while looking up at him.  \n\nMaxim once said that we as men want our women to "give head like it's the first meal they've had in days", so use that advice and pretend just performing that act is turning you on as well.
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So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
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Masturbation Techniques for your male partner\nPartner Masturbation (Hand jobs)  are a great way to pleasure your man. They can be used by themselves, or while performing oral sex on your partner. Below is a listing of hand job techniques. It is better to perform these using a lubricant. \n\nPressure\nWith one hand, pull the shaft's skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time. \nFire\nRub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil. \n\nGlans Head Massage\nHold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while. \n\nHealing Stroke\nWith the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis. \n\nTwist and Shout\nPull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip. \n\nAnvil Stroke\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat. \n\nBookends\nPlace both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down. \n\nDoorknob\nTurn the head of his penis like you're trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base. \n\nDouble Whammy\n\nBring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time. \n\nMilking\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat. \n\nPerpetual Penetration\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis "penetrate" into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous. \n\nRing\nMake a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom. \n\nShaft\nStroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it's bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration. \n\nShuttle Penis\nTake the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build. \n\nSpot Pinch\nLightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask
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-Strip to the Mighty Mouse theme song.\n-Ask me to perform oral.\n-Tell me to 'come here, you have something in your eye' and then grab my crouch.\n- Ask me to help her with something, and then rub against my crouch while doing whatever need to be done, as if it's unintentional.\n-Clean the TV without pants on.\n- Tell him that you need to add the clothes he has on with your wash, and when he is naked, start performing oral.\n-Use subliminal stuff. Kind of how Pavlov's dog salivated when he heard a bell ring, because he associated that with steak.  Pat him on top of the head or something else subtle before you have sex, and then when you do that, the person will automatically associate that to sex with you.
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A man's most sensitive area on his penis is around the base of the head. Most women never know this or take the time to find out because men come so quickly anyways. But using your hand around a guys shaft make keep it hard but I've never had an orgasm from it. On the other hand...using your hand and mouth around the base of his head will give you the desired response. Watch your eyes. And yes...it'll feel better for him if you pull the skin back and expose the head.