Why would a man in his 40's have a 15 year old girl listed as a "friend"on myspace.com?
364191
Most 15 year olds do not have friends in their 40's, nor would any normal 40 year old even want to be friends with a 15 year old, as they should have absolutely nothing in common. I would take charge of that situation. Good luck to you.
1130653
I was 11 once, so I can tell you that crushing on a 15 year old guy is way normal. But to be honest with I don't think I would of be able to handle a real relationship with a 15 year old when I was 11. I don't know you and I and I don't know her, I do know that most people would that you where abnormal guy just try to get with a girl you figured was easy. I'm not saying you are; I’m just saying that's what most people will think.\n\nI think if you really cared for her that you would never ever make her do anything she wasn't ready for, that you might be ready for. You don't want her to have to cut her childhood short or that will send you to jail. And even if she says, she is ready, she's not no one is ready at 11, 12, 13, 14, or even 15 years old, she will be just trying to please you. So, as long as her parents are okay with this and you respect her and understand she shouldn’t be ready for anything more than kissing for years to come, than you're good. I think that a lot people forget that two people can love and care about each other for years with out having sex. And that two people can connect with each other and be different not just in age and still find common ground.\n\nI do recommend you to take things slow with her, to respect her, and to remember that she may seem older to you in a lot of ways, but she and you are both just children learning and growing, and change.  Be a friend to her first and a boyfriend second.  Also, remember that not everyone is going to approve of this relationship if it's more than friendship, that's going to be very hard even too much for you and her to deal with. You might want to think about being friends for now and more than friends when she’s older. If it’s meant to be it will be, waiting might suck but it also might me the best thing for you both.
483856
Eh, it's OK. I used it a lot when I transfered to a new college to meet some new friends there. It's good for messaging friends and stuff, but I don't think it's a good idea for young girls to be meeting older guys on there...but it's bound to happen since teen and preteen girls seem to have an inate desire to talk to older men. Maybe they feel flattered. I don't know.
1135823
She is a virgin. She hasn't had actuall sex yet. If she has a net bf and not interested in a real one then she has somethin to hide. She'll soon realize that having a net bf isn't worth her time. For all you kno he can be a sexual predator. My friend has a bf who is on myspace and its none of my business. But I don't want nothin to happen to her. But she has somethin wrong. She is still a virgin so don't worry any. Net sex is cheap and besides its not real.
1050339
Careful what you ask for here. How can you know for sure that the people who may want to be your "friend" are really your age? There are so many predators online just waiting for a chance to get in contact with a child. Please be careful as to what you say to anyone here or anywhere online for that matter. I swear you kids on here worry me. God bless and keep you safe.
1028355
i am a boy 15 years of age\nsee my profile for details
379018
How old are you?  That makes a difference.\n\nI met someone on a message board.  We are now living together :)  But then, I'm 37, not a teenager.
134237
I think that it is absolutely disguisting!!! As a matter of fact, I have a personal experience because of myspace involving my mom's friend's daughter, who is now 13. She met some guy off of there, thinking that he was a 15 year old little boy, and was sexually assaulted and raped because of it... That's sad, yes... We just finished court with that and he is now serving 2 life sentences for 2 different rapes and 200+ counts of child pornography, but I agree with some of the other people here... \n\nIt is definitely the parents' responsibility to watch and monitor their child's actions on the computer, but if they choose not to, they need to filter and put parental controls to ensure that their child does not have access to places that are not "age appropriate" for them. If a 13 year old can go to myspace and lie and say that she is 16, then someone is definitely not doing their job...\n\nPlease... please... PLEASE... don't let this happen to your children...
743508
who marked it private?  And what would be dangerous about the site?  My kid isn't allowed on there anymore.  I'd be interested in finding out how to see some of her friends sites because I hear one girl has some pretty bad stuff on her site (such as announcing shes not a virgin, etc).  I don't think her mother really cares though.  She's 13 and her mom lets her date guys that drive.  My daughter isn't friends with her anymore and says she can't access her myspace thing.
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you can only make your profile private if you are 14 or 15 years old. if you are, it is that way automatically. tom set this up now to protect the youngins. IF you make yourself 14 or 15 just to make ur site private and someone reports you, there are people who do that, just like they do with underage kids, anyway, if someone reports you on false age, myspace deals with it somehow, i think you will get your profile deleted, like the under ageRs. mygen put this up on their site, so it is true, they were warning others about setting their age as 14 or 15.\n\nps:  dont worry about murder and all that.  if you dont give much information out, OR add people you dont kno to ur friend list, you dont have to worry.
425371
That's a funny one.   It has always been okay for an older guy to date a younger girl,  but when the girl dates the younger guy, she is laughed at and jokes made.\nI wouldn't let it bother you.  I would proudly say, "And he's a year younger than me, hope I can still get a young one when I'm 80".  \nAge shouldn't matter, to answer your question.  All that matters is that you are right for each other for however long it lasts.  If you get along, then to heck with what your friends say or how loud they laugh.  if they are really your friends, they'll accept it and have compassion and understanding and not mock you or put you down.  To joke when you gals are alone, well jokes, alone, that's okay.  But to gossip or hurt your feelings, their not friends and never really were.\nGo with your heart and forget what others will say.  The true challenge is finding out in the long run if those friends you thought were friends really were to begin with.\nControl your own life, don't let others control you.\nMany a marriage has lasted eternally with a large age difference and that also includes dating relationships.  My girlfriend is married to a guy that is nearly 15 years younger than her.  They are and have been for over 17 years, a perfect coupld.\nGo for it.................
404180
40, teens and twenties use it for socializing and people in their thirties could use it for dating.  In most peoples 40s though, internet dating probably would not work
1129192
There is no such thing as "too old" to have a myspace. Anyone can have one. :)\nI'm older than 25, younger than 30 and I have a myspace.
297490
you can not make your myspace private anymore unless you are 14 or 15 years old. if you are, it is that way automatically. tom set this up now to protect the youngins. IF you make yourself 14 or 15 just to make ur site private and someone reports you, there are people who do that, just like they do with underage kids, anyway, if someone reports you on false age, myspace deals with it somehow, i think you will get your profile deleted, like the under ageRs. mygen put this up on their site, so it is true, they were warning others about setting their age as 14 or 15.
220034
I have myspace!!! and I don't mind if you bite! How old are you tho? I only accept friends over the age 18!!!
130828
That does kinda look bad since he is like double her age, it depends really if they are from USA it gonna be bad cause of the laws, but europe it would be fine cause its legal, does this 16 year old girl know what she getting herself into? he is at the age where he started a career and hopefully wants wife and children while her age still at school and has so many years left and hasnt started to know what she wants. I think she seriously needs to think about it and I don't want to sound mean or nothing but a 30 year old guy not gonna get serious with a 16 year old sorry!
162471
Be careful there are many creeps on myspace.com that try\nto abuse young people there.