How can I deal with this?
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Even though I despise the organization celticwoman is promoting (and I am willing to explain why, but first we have to deal with it). . . I think it is your best bet.\n\nListen to her . . . call them . . . take yourself and your daughter to the shelter.  Have them provide daycare for your child . . . at a different location . . . because your husband may snatch her from you though the daycare.  Talk with the couselers there . . . and have they assisted you in obtaining legal consultation.\n\nOdds are . . . this could be pro-bono work for them . . . and they will take care of everything for you . . . including your immigration status retained . . . and replacement Green Card and passport and Social Security Card, if necessary.\n\nNo one should be abused . . . man, woman, or child . . . and this should be a crime for all.  Unfortunately, most of this never get reported and in some cases . . . some abused have been turned away . . . by this same organization because they don't meet the gender requirement.\n\nMe . . . I am against violence . . . against everyone . . . don't matter what gender, age, or race.\n\nTake care of yourself and your child . . . call the 800 number that celticwoman provided . . . and get some help.  They will help you . . . because that is what they do . . . is help women.
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I faced this problem. The way to approach a solution is to think of whether the present uncomfortable situation will be remembered a year from now. If no (its mostly no), then please do yourself a great favour and go ahead and talk, because I personally guarantee you that EVERYONE likes to be spoken to. Ask some questions. Smile. And feel at ease, because you're already worth it, and you don't even need that person's approval.
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Keep on ignoring it. Dont let people see that them talking about it gets a reaction out of you, coz thats what they want. If they get no reaction, they get bored and shut up.
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Don't let it get to you. Don't worry so much about whats going to happen next.\n\nTake things one moment at a time and stop trying to control situations.\n\nLet it be and you'll be happy.
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Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
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Get professional help.  Learn to communicate.  Set boundaries.  Be honest.  Deal with the issues.  Good luck!
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The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
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Sorry, but you can't stop it. It's not your problem. It's theirs! Blow it off and live your life your way!
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ignore the person above me.\n\nthere is no cure, sorry
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Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
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i dont know what the problem is your having, but the only way your going to sort it out is to tell them whats going on. be up front with them. or its always going to be a problem.
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Pray. And don't stop praying.\n\nGod is the only one who knows who can help him. He might tell you what to do or it might take some time for you to see that something is happening, but pray that he will be protected above all else.
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talk to my neigbour and discuss what should we do about this situation
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Save yourself\n\n\nFollow your conscience
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you have to be strong and realize your problem and overcome it, i hope you can get over this. Just try to avoid them at first, then you need to give them a try and try to get over this. Good Luck!!
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My advice would be to try to find a way to deal with it because you probably cannot change it.  In this world we have to cope with all kinds of people.  No one is going to take those people away from your future work place for example.  The more skills you can develop to cope with the situation in which you find yourself in a productive and positive way, the better for you.  Use your energy to find ways to deal with it rather than putting energy into trying to change something you probably cannot change.  No matter what happens students will be assigned to this individual's class.\n\nGood luck with it.
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open up and listen. You have to understand yourself to understand others. Sometimes none of us make sense.