Is my attraction to woman still there?
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It is a good question but I don't think there are any hard and proved answers.  There is a grid called the "Klein Sexual Orientation Grid"  Alfred Kinsey along with a few others don't think that sexual orientations are eternally fixed.\n\nI am in somewhat a similar situation.  I was mad about girls just girl crazy as a teen etc.  I have also been interested in certain aspects of males too.  My interest is more than it was before in males.  Thinking more about males has not been my choice it just happens. I don't think that sexual orientation is in anyway a choice.  I think it has something to do with perhaps chemical changes in the brain.\n\nGo with the flow and accept yourself for who you are now.  Can you regain your attraction to women if you nurture it? I really really doubt it (it is not a choice). I wonder the same thing for myself too. \n\nIt may have something to do with androgen's or the Hypothalamus in the brain.\n\nI have included a helpful Wikpedia link about Biology and sexual orientation.  Have a look under Studies of brain structure.
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Only a woman knows what a woman wants so they say. Seems you have been hurt by the male gender and have'nt we all, perhaps someone has personaility traits that you were attracted to and that is natural it so does not mean that given the opportunity you would carry out your fantasy. Fantasy is fun and we get pleasure from it but if you are concerned about it seek advise form a professional. Give yourself space and let it work itself out, there is nothing wrong with what ever your choice sexually.
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princess we all go through these feelings. You are probably just as pretty Just as attractive as ever you were. Unfortunately a lot of guys assume that women who are very attractive are taken especially since they are slightly older than the silly little girls they used to chase. You are simply more confident more assertive than you once were, that doesn't mean you are any less desirable than the younger more slender ( in my opinion less seductive ) females you are comparing yourself to. They are girls Hun You are a beautiful seductive woman, not a silly kid anymore. personally i like the fuller more rounded and curvy body of a woman as opposed to the awkward skinny angular body of a girl. I assure you, you are every bit as desirable as you ever were and in my opinion probably more so, to men that is not boys.
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Its not you its me....\nI love you but Im not IN love with you.....\nI dont want to lose you as a friend but......\nI just discovered Im attracted to women........
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I'm not bi but you are attracted to woman but you don't want to be you a relationship with woman. Woman can't give that security that you need. And I'm sorry but woman can't do what a man can do. I think that that you're bi cause it's in right now to be bi, and the guys love woman that's bi.
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I am a straight married male but I think your question is a good one for all people, so I hope you won't mind my input.\n\nI met my wife on the internet - It was her mental stimulation/intelligence that first caught my attention.  Mostly it was her aggressive sense of humor.  I love that about her! Her character is very important and I'd say physical attraction is at the bottom of the list.  Since I couldn't 'see' her on the internet, it was obviously her character and personality that attracted me to her.  This worked out beautifully, because if had I passed her on the street, I may never have noticed her.  Isn't it unfortunate that the "hotties" probably distract us from the more fullfilling relationships that we could be having?  I'm glad that this time my eyes had nothing to do with the girl I fell in love with.  Anyway, here's how I break it down:\n\n50% character\n40% mentally stimulating\n10% physical attraction\n\nThanks! Your question was stimulating.  Good luck in whatever relationship you choose!  (If you are gay/lesbian please see my apology in that section of this site or click my picture to find it.)
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i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
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Find other women in personals possibly or try pheromones that will attract women. Good luck! And have fun!
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If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
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You are normal, give woman out there some hope, when it is right you dont get bored. Go on sista
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Hormones, dude ! When a healthy male sees an attractive female, his hormones immediately activate. HOORAY ! Take all those wonderful hormones home to your wife. I hope she appreciates them . Good luck !
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Sounds like you need to explore and learn more about yourself to satisfy your curiosity.  I believe two females can please each other quite well...just as well as a man.  If you like her more than being with a man, then fine.  Who's to say what your preferences are supposed to be?  Like the rest of us, you are just human.  It's for you to decide.  You don't need to label yourself as gay or anything.  You are just you.  Cheating is a matter of personal beliefs, but some might see it that way.  My feeling is that if you are truly wanting to try, then find an equally curious friend and just enjoy each others company and see where it goes.  You can just take one day at a time.  Relax & enjoy!\n\nBecause you are unsure of your feelings about all this right now.  I'd just keep it to yourself until you have a better sense of how your really feel.  Even after your additional details, I don't recommend bringing him into the mix right now.  Like you mentioned, too many things can go wrong.  No need to stir the pot right now.  Better to keep this a private matter for now.  If things progress, there will be plenty of time to tell him your thoughts and feelings if need be.
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thats normal, i get turned on by women making out....but i dont wanna go out and make love to a woman.....no youre not gay or  subconsciensly bisexual or anything.....youre normal, having normal feelings
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Dude, she's attracted. Ask her out! Don't let that attraction get cooled off.
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everyone sees beauty in a different way,  you are far from crazy, from what I see, I think its very odd that you like older woman, but I have my own attractions to woman that other guys think is verry odd.  Don't beat yourself up over this.  You know what your like,  Heck your 40, so why try to change that, stay with what you like.  Don't go with the stereotypical society, they are all mostly immature people that are trying to impress everyone anyways
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im straight, because i like women
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Let's deal with this first. You need to understand that for a man, having a woman, even loving that woman, does not make all other women undesirable. GOT IT? Think about that for a second. A man does not cease being attracted to women in general because he loves one woman in particular. Digest it. Meditate over it. LIVE WITH IT. I dig where you are coming from on an emotional level because i had to enlighten my GF on this issue. I had to make her understand that my love is not suddenly questionable because i got a lap dance. u may not be ready for this type of reality. but print out this response. read it every so often and eventually u will come to the realization that not only am i right, but that you, just like my GF, are being irrational and immature.\np.s. HOW IN THE HELL IS WATCHING PORN COMPARABLE TO ASSOCIATION WITH "FRIENDS" OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. NEWS FLASH! IF U LOOK LIKE ANYTHING, ALL THOSE MALE "FRIENDS" WANNA SCREW U. IF I WERE HIM I WOULDN'T BE TRYNA HERE THAT SH!T EITHER!!!