how do I break my girlfriend's hymen(virginity) with her feeling minimum or less pain?
367923
You shouldn't be the one to break her hymen. That's the most painful thing ever (well not really but it's not comfortable that way.) Tell her to switch to tampons. LOL.
1089578
Many, many active girls have a "broken" hymen and never even noticed it.\n\nThe hymen is a "ring of tissue," not something that covers the vaginal opening. It has an opening (unless there is a problem) from birth.\n\nNo, neither a doctor nor a lover can tell if you're a virgin by your hymen.\n\nSex should not be painful whether your hymen is "broken" or not. (Perhaps just a little, the first few times.) A caring partner will gently  encourage relaxation, go slowly, and check with you to be sure you are not uncomfortable. Beginning to use tampons now or in the next few years will help gently stretch the tissue, and also help you become knowledgeable about that part of your anatomy.\n\nNow go ride those horses. It's not as wonderful as love, but it sure is fun!
375573
Give her vagina time to heal. The next time you have sex with her take it slow and be gentle.
1157892
no, try this, have lots of foreplay and make it about her for like 30 min. don't be stengey them get behind her and while you are making love to her (the nice way to put it) put your finger on the top of her clit and rub. i almost promise that will make her scream
352971
The average depth of a woman is between 3-4 inches.  Therefore, you can gauge how far you will go depending on your size.  But remember that tissue is extremely elastic and some women can handle larger men while other's can't.  Also, if she is a virgin, you will most likely encounter resistance at her "cherry" and if you keep going will tear her.  A hymen will be present in most virgins, but not all.  It can be broken by fingers or tampons and some girls never have one.  Her age will also be a factor.  The younger she is, the smaller she will be (relatively).  But you appear to be quite young in asking this question and I would hesitate to encourage you in this matter.  Life is more than just sex.  After all, you have two hands.  Don't get hung up on the matter.  When it is supposed to happen, everything will work just fine.  My advice, wait a little while until you are as emotionally and socially capable of handling this situation as your are physically.  It might be good now, but it will be out of this world great with the right person at the right time.
1051403
READ: www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm\n It isn't that bad. It only hurts for a little bit. Ever heard the term "hurts so good?" If you just go slow and give her a minute to get past the initual shock of the pain and then continue she will be feeling more pleasure than pain.The\ntrick is not to stop completely before giving her pleasure or she may not want to do it again for a long while!
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
503166
shes a VIRGIN! go slow on her i know and WE know you want to get there!lololollol but have patience
667821
A little bit, but it depends on how active you are.  I've heard horseback riding breaks the hymen, so that helps with the pain.\n\nIt's not much, and it gets less every time.  Just wait until your mind is ready.  Not being mentally ready hurts much worse.
350886
Probably not, the hymen could break itself from a fall or exercises. Unless she had really rough sex then maybe there could be scaring, but it is very unlikely.
395839
tell her you are a virgin and let her teach you
575978
try masterbating.   or have her hand do you.  or between her breast.  or better yet you should masterbate.  dude 5 times a day is bad for a girl when she doesnt want to. it hurts.  if she wants it then cool...and you should work on making her want you more.... by the way have you ever thought of waiting for a great big orgasm rather than small ones several times a day??...... get creative
540729
hey man it's very important that u b gentle. it takes some time to break it so be smooth, gentl, and patient and remember she'll be in a lot of pain if u thrust hard. I personally spread the enjoyment on 3 days!
478501
Tie the end of your penis to a brick, then heave it, it will hurt, but it will work. It may take several attempts, so I recommend a cinder block
1092952
if you have agreed on it then please do not just rush into penetration b4 she is ready. do some really good foreplay including oral sex so that she relax then get into her gently start it slowly and listen to her response. its better to break her virginity and climax her at the same time. trust me i know
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy