So, I am in the 8th grade and need a boyfriend. What should I do to get one?
361674
you don't "NEED" one. \n\nJust be yourself and don't seek to find a boyfriend. When you look they are harder to find. Concentrate on your interests, school and meeting new people and I'm sure you will be fine.
340616
Nah, you don't need one.  Have as much fun as you can without one.  Enjoy your free time and not stressing about it.  One will come along eventually.\n\nRemember, it's better to not have a boyfriend than to have a boyfriend who is a jerk or a loser.
732622
Sweet heart, I do not think you should have a boyfriend, you do not need one. You are very very young and you should be having lot's of fun with your friends. Why would you want to have a boyfriend who is only going to give you headaches???! There is enough time for everything in life, when you get a little older you will have a boy friend! When you decide to have one then you will probably stop hanging out with your friends and you will not even get the chance to meet other guy's and become their friends until you actually find the one that is "Perfect" for you!!! HAVE FUN, DO NOT COPY EVERY ONE ELSE, DO NOT GET A BOYFRIEND, BELIEVE ME!!! Good Luck!!!!!
1141212
your not too young.\n\nbut if you need to ask how to get one, there must not really be a guy that you have on your mind yet. \n\npretty much just be yourself. dont push yourself to be easy.  to try to get a guy, because then hell tell all his friends that your easy and youll just be used... you have to look for a nice guy who will respect you and youll be happy with. find a guy that shares some intrests with you.\n\nalso dont act like a ditz. youll just down grade yourself into looking like an idiot.\n\ngood luck.
301332
I am 13.How old are you?I want a boyfriend.
1161823
You are 12 years old, 6th grade.  You should not be all obsessed about boys just yet.  You still have to get out of middle school.  If anything wait until high school to get a serious Boyfriend.  Two years should either not be a long time, or get some priorities straight.
42885
Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
949840
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
962225
Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
875546
I agree with the first post. Your only 13 yrs old. You have plenty of time to get boyfriends. Trust me you will be glad you waited.
544021
trust me when i tell you, you really don't need a guy!\ndon't feel pressured cause all the people around you have boyfriends, what good will you get if you have a boyfriend that is mean to you and treating you in a terrible way or one that knows that you want a boyfriend just to have one and gets advantage of you, trust you want none of that so wait take your time till you find someone that really cares about you and you care about him, then and only then its worth to have a boyfriend and not cause everyone else have one !!
1038596
Rather than to put your concentration on boys make sure you're keeping up your grades and putting important things on your plate.  Boys will be around forever don't be in such a rush. Wait till you're a little older. U may find yourself in a not too good position and not ready for the situations boyfriends may put you in. And at your age you don't have to do ANYTHING to get a boyfriend.  They're on the prowl hun, just be careful!
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
86976
go out more! go to parties, hang out with friends- they can hook you up with some guy who could be a potential boyfriend.
719267
The best way to get a good boyfriend is to just be yourself.\nDo not put on airs. Do not try to attract guys. Always remember, some where there is My Right for you.\nMost boys do not like girls that fuss about them or giggle all the time.. JUST BE YOURSELF.
397927
Look for a new group of people. Try and get a boyfirend also it helps.
559213
Look, buddy. You're in 7th/8th grade. Don't rush into trying to find girls to date. At your age, girls will come and go. Relationships aren't as serious or as important as you think they are. Concentrate on yourself. Be your own person, and don't bend over backwards for anyone.\n\nHang out with your boys and develop some good game to pickup girls later in life. Girls like guys with confidence and who can act like a jerk every once in a while. Don't look for a serious relationship until you're in college. Otherwise, chances are, it won't last long, and it'll leave you feeling worse than before you went in.