My friend hooked-me up w/ a guy that i really like! and now she told me that he wanted 2 break up w/ me!?
369496
oh I'm so sorry.\nAsk your girlfriend why and expect her to be honest with you. If it's a valid reason - don't take it personally - work on the problem. Maybe you are just not 'his type' but please don't fret - you WILL find someone - this one just wasn't meant to be. :)
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
952288
That guy is TOTALLY a rebound and after seeing what else is out there, she probably wants you back. Only small caution I'd say is that she could be using you as a "back up" because she wants to have you as an option just in case. \n\nMost likely, she just wants you back though and realizes that you are what she wants.
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
674102
I think she was trying to tell you something...You should have said something like,"well, you have a boyfriend, aren't you happy with him?" Ask her some time what she meant. Maybe she will dump her bf if she really likes you and maybe she thinks you will dump your gf to be with her. You'll never know unless you ask her.
1175232
ur friend is a player !! She doesn't deserve him!! But still wait 'til they break up. tHEN ASK HER IF IT'S OK.
859809
I'd label a guy that did this as a 'drama king'.  Hopefully you obtained the desired 'shock effect' you were looking for and can now brag about what you did on the internet.  You could have been more straightforward and broke things off in a more civilized manner.  But it wouldn't have been as much fun for you, now would it?  Do you think you did the right thing in this situation?  And if hundreds of people told you that you did the right thing, would you believe them?  I hope you are satisified with hurting this girl--it sounds like her only sin was wanting to be with you.  I'm glad you let her know what kind of guy you actually are, so she can get pass this and maybe find a decent guy.  You set things up so that you could break her down.  What a guy?!!
185871
No, You're too good for her actually. She probably flirted with both of you at the same time, but waited for her preferred option. She just lost you!
559023
I think you're going to have to let this guy call the shots unfortunately. The person who did the breaking up is the person who really has to decide whether or not they see something they didn't see before or just want to give it another try. If you really want to be with him then you might want to bring the subject up in a serious way and let him know that no matter what he says or feels it doesn't have to change anything between you. You could just say something like "You know we've been friends so long and really still get along so well, I've thought about whether we should try again. What do you think?" If he says he's not interested then just back off and continue the friendship. It's more important to keep that in tact especially since you have been friends this long.
768454
Did you talk to him and find out what his motives are and where does he see this relationship/situation going in the future?  If he is think you guys are friends and its just that, then I think you should move on. Its not fair to you if you want a relationship.  So talk to him and see whats on his mind.  Then you will have a definite answer and know what the next step is.
277725
you're right , and your  friend will end up getting hurt because this guy is just using her, if you tell someone she will end up hating you .  i think you will have   to wait and see what happens . good luck
820576
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
539592
that just means yo friend likes you cuz he tryin to fuck up yo shit you know? so now you pick is yo " friend " worth losin yo man for if so.....keep em if not cut it loose trust babe i been there before it aint worth it im sure let it go!
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
306054
Forget about her!!! I've had the same situation with this guy, until I finally said to myself, Hey! What am I doing here? He doesn't deserve me and I'm not going to wait forever! I shoudn't be running after him he should be running after me! And if he's gonna want me back, it's too late for that! And guess what? He wantd me back. And I didn't. That's what you should do. Have some dignity MAN!
892128
From experience....a friend "is" what she is looking for.\nShe obviously has not had enough time to get over, settle in, or even realize and let what has happened sink in. \nIf you get involved with her at this point...you are asking for a heartache. Sorry.  It will comfort her, but she will move on or go back.  You will be left in the cold.  I believe that you did the right thing and if and when she gets her head on straight, she will call the one who "let" her go.  Her friend.  If she doesn't; she was not worth having!