Is it normal that I never reached orgasm with my boyfriend during sex?
357908
Most women do not have the capability to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. You should try to play with your clitoris or let him do it during sex. Many women fake an orgasm to make their boyfriend happy and its perfectly normal but you will reach a time when you don't want to fake it anymore and want to really have one. Try a position where your boyfriend can reach around with his hand and rub ur clitoris while having intercourse. Try doggie style.
874300
I don't know that I quite understand all of your question.  What are you saying about your boyfriend masturbating?  Are you worried that because he masturbates, he's not horny enough to have more sex with you?  Believe me, masturbation doesn't change your sex drive; it merely takes care of it.  If he has enough desire to masturbate, he's got enough to have sex with you.\n\nAs for oral . . . no, not all men like to do it.  Some dislike the smell/taste, some find it difficult to do (I've heard things like complaints of tongue cramping, believe it or not), some feel it's beneath them (that a 'real man' can satisfy his woman through penetration alone), some merely don't care about her orgasm and won't do the work for it, some are nervous or feel inexperienced and don't want to do it because they're scared of failing (they don't know how to locate the clitoris; and some women are slightly hard to get off).  Or it's just not really their thing.  A lot of guys love to do it, but a lot don't, too.\n\nI can't say if your boyfriend's gay; you'll have to decide that.  But, if it's worth anything, there are straight males out there who masturbate often, don't like to perform oral sex on women, and don't have sex as often enough as their wives/girlfriends would like.\n\nHope that helps.
426888
No. Not every person feels the same during orgasm. I don't know how you feel during orgasm... but I feel different at different times. It is always pleasent... but sometimes it is Great... and sometimes it is Greater... Thankfully I have hit the Greatest many times.  The person you are having an orgasm with plays an important part in just how Great you feel!!!
592669
...When I was with my boyfriend I'd play with my clit while we were in action. It took me 4 years to cum with him. Get totally immersed in what your doing. Body, mind, soul, with an environment to match your deepest fantacies. Maybe do a little yoga to get your mind off of every day life. Watch a porn before you go at it. Have a little chocolate or, better yet all three! If you're having sex just to get an orgasm, it won't come. A little trick I've learned... when he's on top of you, move your hips up and in towards him so he's totally inside you. Keep moving your hips wherever feels best, play with your clit while your at it, stare at his body and into his eyes and keep telling yourself how sexy he is and how much you want him. Use a vibrator while your at it. If all else fails, get a book to better educate yourself or even call a sex therapist. Life is too short to have limited O's.
596573
all your energies are focused tooo!!!!!! much on da orgasm... creating too much anxeity...and too much expectation... which creates a block... Next time you have sexs dont be in a hurry...and dont search for orgasm somewhere in your brain or any other part... just realx and have sexes as if orgasm never existed...just wait and watch...it will come as surprise guest!!! all da best...
421394
I am 33 years old and I have only had one vaginal orgasm. This is very common and you are not alone. It takes a lot to get there. A lot of passion and romance. Then again a lot of women never get to experience that..My hubby and I use toys and we can still orgasm together. This is a great thing....I hope this helps, Good Luck..
303703
My girlfriend had the same problem,,,she finally had an orgasm after buying herself a vib***** and she was 25!  Poor thing!  She was sexually abused as a child and taught that sex was "dirty" and "bad"....If this sounds like you, buy a vib***** and consider going to counseling if you think you need it....And remember that trying to have an orgasm will make it harder to have one....relax, open your mind, and you will get there!  Good luck
317835
Most women will not be able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Generally a woman will require clitoral stimulation before they can orgasm. Try oral and have him focus on your clit, or go and buy yourself a vibrator.
413843
Be honest with your partner. You're only fooling yourself. Not every woman can have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. There are many other ways to help orgasm. If it's harder for you to reach orgasm, you and your partner should spend more time on you before penetration. And here's a thought, masturbate WITH him. Guarantee you'll have one that way. If not, you'll sure have fun trying.\n Betcha he won't mind either. Come clean now before it gets too deep.
54894
First, you have to experiment with yourself.  Figure out what you like.  Read about different ways to reach orgasm.  After you've figured that part out, teach it to your boyfriend/husband.  My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we've just now got it right!  It can and will happen someday! Don't give up!!
1122272
No, you're not alone -- although I was over 30 years old before I even had one with a partner.  I average about 10 orgasms for every one my partner has -- and I'm only counting the really good ones -- not just the little ripples.  Count your blessings, it took me a long time to find a man who could get me there each and every time.  ENJOY IT.  For me, it took a great deal of love, affection, trust and communication but it's the best sex I've ever had.
265287
there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm...all orgasm is stimulated by the clitoris.....find a position that either stimulates the clitoris or do it yourself during sex...that will do it.
275524
By ---- processes, I am guessing that you mean the act of loving. There is nothing to worry about. A lot of women are not able to orgasm during the act. Like me.  ; )  Because my clitoris is not as exposed, I need more stimulation.\n\nYou may have the same problem. You will need to discover where exactly is your 'hot spot', by yourself or with your bf. Then, you can have him love you with his hand either before or during the act, your choice.\n\nJust remember, be comfortable, don't force it, and don't be shy to tell him what he needs to do, or to guide him, because this is an act of love and pleasure for the two of you, not just one. Or it would just be called m----bation, not making love.
825376
everyone is different.Some women never orgasm at all.Some women only orgasm through external stimulation some only through penetration.You just got lucky. Wish it was that easy for me
604512
I hope women don't have organisms when having sex with there partners. Orgasms on the other hand are nice to have but am not sure of an honest answer as it really depends on the woman and her partner. Some women may have multiple orgasms during sex and some may not, but I don't beleive that having orgasms are that important as just being with that person and enjoying the moment. Life is prescious and short so enjoy yourself and be carefull, if you are looking to have an orgasm I'm sure that you will eventually but don't think that there is anything wrong with you or your relationship if you don't. Good luck, have a good and safe time.
1035000
Its possible she doesnt even know if shes had one, i dont know her age or experience. Its hard to tell with some people but the muscles of the vagina should clench and let go a few times and she should release some fluid, though it may only be about a quarter of a teaspoon full. So many women never experience an actual orgasm and its largely because its harder for us to do so and no one teaches us, its not like a guy whacking off and getting off every time. so find someone to teach you how to really make a woman climax  then lay one on her that she will never forget.
587747
Yes having an orgasm is normal... And usually is the object of the game.