i always hug  my friens, but this one time i hug my "guy" friend and after that he acted?
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i find that talking about it, even through that akwardness, is the most effective.
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you said he is a guy friend...so he is your friend.  \n\nit's like you are putting him in a situation which he does not want to be in.  it seems that you asked him that question because you want something more to come between you two.  do u? \n\ndon't embarass yourself to ask the same question over and over again.  once is enough....read between the lines.
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i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
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YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU
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It's sounds like for now that's all you guys can be is friends. You can't make someone like you, I know that's tough to swallow but it's so true. There is no magical voodoo spell that you can do, it's either there or it's not. I'm sorry that he doesn't feel the same way that you do but if you want to remain friends you are going to have to let it drop and just value the friendship. You never know what might happen down the road but if you've told him how you feel mulitple times and he has replied with the only friends thing there's not much more you can do without throwing the friendship out the window.\n\nGood luck with everything, I hope it all works out for the best!
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That was hurtful that he did not respond to you when you needed his comfort!  He sounds egocentric and such people drain energy from others.  Decide whether the energy drain is worth it to maintain your "friendship."  How important is it to you to be "needed"?
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It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
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When I like a guy I sometimes call him for no reason.  Just to see what he is up to.  I touch and hug more often.  (touch arms, shoulders, legs, etc.)  Hang out with him more than usual.
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Well, this seems to be a tricky situation. I have been in a similar, yet not so intimate situation, with another friend. Now let me tell you what I did to solve the situation. This answer may give you an idea as to what your next step should be. \nI didn't feel the same way because I thought it was forced. I love my friend in lots of ways but when it feels forced then it is hard to get past the idea that we are not friends. At that time I felt uncomfortable. He likes me still. But I told him that we could just be friends. Now we are still friends and we're glad for it. Sometimes the timing may not be right or she feels it is forced. At this moment cherish the fact that you guys are friends. When the time feels right she will automatically open up to you. At that time, it will not feel forced and you will not have lost a good friend. Remember people feel uncomfortable and forced in many different ways.\nSee, differences between individuals are evident in any relationship, but it is how one handles those differences within the relationship that matters. Are you willing to lose a good friend over your desire for it to be more than that? Decision is up to you.
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Chances are he's felt the same way at one time or another.\nYour timing's off.  You can still be friends, but you need to try to keep your feelings in check, because you could lose him as a friend.  If its meant to be it will happen \nyou cant rush it, and you may change your mind. Just support him like a friend should it will all turn out the way it should.
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Let him know just how you truly feel but be ready for the consequences like him saying he wants to be "just friends" Maybe he doesn't think he knows you well enough to jump into it right now but stick by his side if you do care thats what good frineds are for, still letting him know how you feel just by being there for him.
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WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
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Yes, it's fine, as long as you are just meaning it as a friend, i mean, i have MANY guy friends (i'm a tomboy), and i hug a lot of them, but not like i do to my boyfriend.
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He probably really does love you as a friend.  THAT is possible u know and he's the affectionate kind of guy who wanted you to know that u r loved and cared about and he wanted u to know!  Friends like that r hard to find so he was not trying to hurt you he was trying to just love you girl!!!!
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i did and i still do. i have never told him.it's so hard to tell whether you like your friend as just a friend or as something more because the line between friendship and lovers is very thin. i always liked him as more than a friend but i settled for friendship rather than nothing. when i am with him, it feels like its just the two of us and the way he looks at me.
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i am eleven also and i might would wait for him to hug you like the first time me and my ex hugged it was like out of the blue at his birthday party and he just liked in the middle of the party like i had been there an hour just hugged me and it was werid at the time becsase we were like 9 at the time but nevert the less you shouldn't  make you moves by your friends there is a time for everything and you can't push these things.
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yes, I have and honestly unless if he shows some interest of being more than just your friends. If he dont leave it alone, you always fall in love more then once and men come a dime a dozen,,you will get over it.. I am sure that if he does not feel the same and he tells you , you are going to get hurt and ur friendship will never be the same and if you and him do something that may lead you to think that he loves and really he dont then you may mess up ur friendship, and im sure that you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all..just move on and find someone else. Trust me it really isnt that hard, though i am sure that you think it is. but i have been there b4 and i thought that i would never love again,,and boy was i oh so wrong.