why did'nt boys ask me for a dating ?
156131
What kinda of question is that.... Losing weight isnt some thing that just happens....  You have to exercise and eat healthy...  and dont expect to slim down in days... you know it took time for you to put weight on and it will take time to take it off...
963690
"Then why don't you ask me out?"
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
1046300
I'm assuming you are talking about boys asking out girls your age. The younger you are the more timid boy seem to be.\n\nIt's lack of experience and fear of rejection. You girls can be awfully cruel and boys learn quick that it hurts to get shot down.\n\nThe good news- boys also learn that to "get" a girl they have to actually do more than wait for one to shove her tongue down their throat. They learn to overcome their shyness.\n\nIn the meantime learn the universal code: make eye contact and smile at a guy you want to know better. Compliment him, let him know you think he's attractive. Drop hints a MORON couldn't miss, " Gee I don't have ANY plans this weekend- hope I don't have to just sit around at home. What are YOU doing?"\n\nIt's just fear...hang in there, it gets better.
842674
when someone asks whether or not you are single, it probably means that they are interested in dating you..  \n\nbut their follow up comment doesn't sound very nice.. i hate when people make assumptions simply based on someone being single and/or based on their looks.
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
1063505
The same way a boy does it:  Go up to him and say, "Would you like to go out with me?"  But, be prepared to be rejected.  It's what boys suffer all the time.  Embarassed?  Why?  Aren't you being honest with him?  If he rejects you, that's HIS loss...not yours!\n\nIf he does reject you, you don't want him, or you THINK you want him, but it's for the WRONG reasons!  Just face the fact that you made a bad choice, and ask yourself, "WHY him?"  The answer will be you discovering your TRUE love.  (Obviously, you chose him because getting him would satisfy some inner shortage you fell about yourself.  That's NOT "love".  Love yourself FIRST, and Mr. Perfect will find YOU!)
597700
Maybe he is just shy that you wouldnt want to date him. OR he could be waiting for YOU to make the first move... You know, trying to play hard to get... But usually, guys wont do that, not that any I know anyway...
797231
Well it all depends I have the same problem and the boys literally told me that they aren't looking for wife material which they claim is what I am. They're looking for the dumb females who is willing to give it up right after they have met. They told me that I'm the only damn good looking girl who takes her education seriously and has things going for herself. So really it's a good thing because they see you as a respectful young lady and not a $2 whoe.
75510
Maybe he just liked your looks. If he did like you as I think your asking he would have approached you.
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
460371
thats because hes shy and hes scared of a rejection, make him feel confotable with u that way he will gain enough confidence to ask u out!!!
121072
You've never been single my friend. God has always been with you! :)\nbeside that there are 3 possible reasons for that:\n1 - You don't have the braveness to ask someone(if ur a boy), You don't have the diplomacy ;) (if ur a girl)\n2 - You dont' have enough money.\n3 - You are under 18.
975095
just wait (whoever he is) he will come up to u and ask u mabey. if they dont then u ask someomne to ask them 4 u.kk?\nps ur not gonna find a date on yahoo answers
586742
It sounds like he might have been bowing to peer pressure a bit. Perhaps his so-called friends were razzing him about wanting to date you for some inexplicable reason.\n\nHis final answer has been no. I would accept that and move on. Remember, it is HIS loss, not yours.