how can a ulgy guy get a hot girl?
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i have found that "ugly" guys after finding their heart and their humor can be princes while guys that think themselves to be gorgeous often end up fading from my mind.
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First: stop wasting time online!  Second, take a shower, lose (or gain) some weight, get a job or find something you are good are it. \nGirls dont like guys who pitty themselves. So if you dont have anything good to say about you: say nothing. Also get some descent clothes. they dont need to be expensive, just something that matches (look at a catalog and try matching the same colors/type of clothing)\nGet a descent haircut. decent, not gay. \nGet some fresh mints and use the Axe Phoenix body spray (its the most popular among hot girls) Use it, not overuse it!\nStep out the house and go downtown. Pretend to be lost and ask a cute girl for directions. Dont hit on her or stare at her rack, just ask for directions... like specific directions. This will serve as practice so you dont droll anytime you see a hot chick. \nGo to a starbucks with a cute barista (cashier) girl and ask from something complicated... as she take your order, just ask: how is your day going? ready for the weekend? How many hours you got left in your shift? If she is wearing something (necklace, hairpin, earring, nosering, etc) say it look really cute on her. Again, this is just for practice so DONT HIT ON HER you sick bastard! \nKeep doing this back and forth and soon you will lose your fear to speaking with hot girls and the chances of you looking lilke a freaking retard when you attempt a dialog will decrease to zero. \nGood luck! remember: even the hottest ones get turn down, so dont despair and DONT freaking rush or scare any girl who is dumb enough to be nice to you or whose trying to JUST be your friend.
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iMMA GIRL SO MAYBE O CAN HELP !! JUST A FEW WORDS CAN HELP U \n\n: BE URSELF .. NEVER DEPEND ON LOOKS BUT FOR WAT THE PEROSN IS REALLY R. \n\n\nwell think first if u and "the girl" matches and have fun together or if shes nice .. think first b4 u make any move !!
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by being decent himself ; the way he approaches her, the way he talks to her, the way he offers his companionship, and his overall attitude with her and around her !!\nIn short, be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady !
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You can't get someone if they don't want to be gotten. However you can let someone know how you feel about them and if they feel anything like you, nature will take care of itself from there.\n\nI think your question is: "How do I let a girl know that I am interested in her"\n\nTry having a conversation  with her for starts.
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man maybe she didn't like you?find the right girl and tell her beautiful instead of hot,tell her how much you live her ...but first make sure that she deserves it(means that she is the right one and she loves you too)\ngood luck
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1. Be at least somewhat attractive. Im not gunna lie, looks are important.\n\n2. Most guys arent so picky, but at least be able to carry some sort of conversation that doesnt make him bored.\n\nIf all else fails\n3. Give him about 5 or 6 shots worth of vodka and shove your boobs in his face.
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Get her?  Well, she's not something to be "got."  But rather, someone to care for, share life with, and love.  Assuming you are NOT referring to sex, I will answer:\n\nIf you are wanting to catch a girl's heart, make her laugh.  Don't fill her head with empty promises or boring compliments. Just allow her to be herself around you, and make her laugh.  \n\nAnd remember that girls like to talk...so listen, and pay attention!
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Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
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Here's how. Meet a girl somewhere and start talking, any girl, about anything. it's better if it's a girl you see everyday like at college. keep up the talkin, make her laugh, be a friend, but FEIGN A BIT OF DISINTREST, and sooner or later she'll open up those pants and let you touch really nice things. also, you could get a job where a lot of girls work.
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Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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Have a great personality and an awesome sense of humor. Be a good friend and show her the beauty that is inside you. Looks aren't everything. Its what's on the inside that really matters most. If you are a fun person to be around she will want to be around you!
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You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
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Chemistry? Ah yes,  that's how much money you have!  or maybe that's what makes you attractive and chemistry is how much are are willing to spend, ah yes that's it!\n\nNo, I am just picken but there is some truth to that.  To be attractive all you need to do is have a little bit of confidence in your self, easier said than done.  Start by holding your head up when you walk instead of staring at the ground.  Look at girls that you are attracted to square in the eye, smile, and don;t look away until she does, trust me on that one.  Finally, when you talk to a girl, or anyone really, speak with a resonant voice.  What I mean by this is: with you sing you have to put more air through your vocal cords to carry a sustained pitch or a ringing voice.  When you speak put a little more air through your vocal cords.  Practice when you are alone and when you go to speak to people you will sound much more confident and everyone loves someone that seems confident no matter what you look like and that is a fact!\n\nGirls dont care about looks as much as guys do.  Once your "in" (get a girl interested in you) all you need to do is talk about things that interest her.  Your goal is to get to know her as hers should be to get to know you.  If she feels like you are not going to judge her for her quirks and you let her know that you are interested in what she has to say and what she is interested in then she will like you.\n\n   Do this and if it doen't work out then she wan't the girl for you and don't sweat it.  Believe in your self and try to be a "good guy" and you will go far in love and life.  Also, remember that girls don't know what they want any more than guys do so just be cool, don't push things and see what happends.
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depends on the girl, obvoiously. if you want a girl who's hot, then you have to be hot (sterotypically speaking). if you want a more..deep thinker type, be a bit more smart/sophisticated. be a gentleman. girls like compliments, but be careful not to mix them up with pick up lines. "nice a$$" just doesnt work. try not to give them attitude, and if youre annoyed by something they do, talk to them about it instead of dumping them. thats about all i can tell you.. oh and be yourself (its cliche, yes, but true)
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the secret is to quit trying.\n\ninstead of looking for love, look for friendship.  you do this by talking to girls like they are human beings (just like your male friends).  most girls appreciate a guy that doesn't stalk them or talk to them like they're idiots and/or aliens.\n\nif you can't figure out what to say, here's some tips on how to get a conversation started with ANYBODY, ANYWHERE, and at ANYTIME:\n(1)  comment on something that just happened that you both witnessed.  ("did you freakin' see that?!")\n(2)  comment on something that you both were just involved in.  ("yawn!  were you as bored as i was?")\n\ntrust me- the physical stuff gets OLD if you don't genuinely like the person you're with.  so just talk to girls until you find one that has something interesting to say.  \n\nanother thing is wardrobe.  if you're going to class in a scruffy graphic tee (particularly the ones with stupid/crude jokes), hair sticking everywhichaway, have a 5 o'clock shadow at 8 a.m., haven't bathed in a few days, or you're wearing something that doesn't fit right, then you will get no booty.  No booty at all.\n\ninvest in a couple of solid color or striped polo tees,  get a haircut.  throw those banged up converses in the trash and get you some Timberlands (or a similar shoe).  if the jeans have big holes, are too loose or too tight, are too short or too long- then they need to go.  why?  because a cute butt does matter.  i don't care how many girls deny it, they have at some point in their life stared at some dude's behind.  medium to medium-dark stonewash jeans or light khakis work just fine.  if you have any piercings that are flattering, leave them in.  a good looking eyebrow or ear piercing can be an asset.       \n \ndon't worry about meeting someone.  you will.  and when you meet the right girl, you'll just know.