Should I trust my significant other not to contact me for a week so he can get clarity of mind?
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Ask him to have the pastor call you.  Find out if the pastor really did say that.  If he says no, he won't have the pastor call you, or if the pastor says no, he didn't say that, then the guy is lying.\n\nYou really should get a different man and not wait around for this guy to get a divorce.  Men are dirty, disgusting creatures, very fickle and weird.  Get one that isn't married and you'll have fewer problems.\n\nThe other thing is if your mom hates him then get rid of him.  Men are such lying, miserable scum, why bother with one that is married?\n\nAlso if he loves Jesus, why would he be running around with you (I'm sure you are a nice person, don't get me wrong) BEFORE he's divorced from his wife?\n\nIf you aren't really ugly, hairy, or massively overweight, I would definitely try to get a man without so much baggage.\n\nHave you met his current wife?  That's a must, she might not know anything about this so-called-divorce.\n\nGood luck honey!
760685
It sounds like you both care about each other but need to toughen your skin so to speak.  It's hard not to take things personally, but it is a choice.  If he doesn't call you cack for 13 hours, you have a right to be upset, but if he says he was busy, you can either choose to believe him or not.  It is your call.\n\nAs for taking a step back, it sounds like it's part of the drama.  Most likely it's a move to get you to realize how much you are into the relationship.  Point blank: sit down and talk with each other.  Figure out first what you hope for each other and what you want out of your relationship and then weigh that against what you have now.  It may not be what you're looking for, but it may be exactly what you want and sometimes we can make things difficult when things seem too easy.
724592
No you shouldn't be concerned.  In a relationship both people are going to need their space once in a while.  It is wise not to rush into things you might regret later.  It will blow over.  Good luck, God Bless.
787416
If you know he loves you and you trust him, give him time. He might not be ready to talk to you today because he had a bad day at work? Or maybe he's surprising you with something? Keep your hopes up, i bet everything will be fine!\nGood luck!
390151
well u can tell him to meet somewhere, without c ing u, check on him & decide leave or stay. and go with someone else!its safer & u ll have more fun. just keep in mind that the world is full of psychos.
259559
Guys like to hear that you trust them. Tell him you trust him, but be very watchful of his behvavior. If anything suspicious occurs, then talk about it; if things get worse -DUMP HIM! BUT, often times, guys don't change over night, and no matter how pretty you are, they still won't change for you - so you could save yourself time, and get rid of him now - but, the choice is yours.
479967
Yes, you should definitely speak to him about this particular issue if it bothers you. If not, it'll build up your suspicions very quickly and it will rapidly turn your relationship sour. Get it out of your head and clear it up while it's still early.
186709
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
964142
That is a hard situation. I guess it really depends on what he did and how bad it hurt you and made you lose trust in him. If he loves you and cares for you then he will have to work to get your trust back. There really is no time limit on these things, the trust will slowly come back if he proves himself to be trustworthy. It might help to talk to him about it.
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It seems that after 6 months you should be comfortable enough with him to not be playing these games.\n\nInstead of wondering how many times you should call him, I would reevaluate the relationship. What are you concerned about? Do you still want to keep him guessing? Are you overly obsessed about him and feel that he is distant? Do you truly think you are on the same page as him, as far as your feelings for one another are concerned?
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
785136
It sounds like both yours and his priorities are noncommittal. Seeing each other when convenient should be enough for now. If this was love you would not have to ask this question.
653244
If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be together.  E/one needs a part of them, all to themselves.  He's telling you stuff, so just accept what he tells ya.  But you need to see others as well.  Sneaky is not good.
127056
firstly do you have a reason not to trust him?\n\nIf the answer is yes you need to talk to him and if the answer is no you'll just have to learn to become more trsuting - it may take time but you'll get there
519986
yes you can trust him. But do not always bother him about it. Just try be on his side for any help. He will turn. dont worry. He is normal
318891
you say you love him and trust him, but you also say you don't know what to do.  if you trust him, then there isn't anything you need to do.  if something is bothering you, then discuss it with him, and if whatever is bothering you isn't resolved, then move on.\n\nif he love&#92; you, he shouldn't be doing things that make you wonder.  if you trust him, there wouldn't be any doubt.
859806
You need to speak with him face to face about this - so he can see your body language as well as hear your words - so much can be easily misconstrued in a phone call - reassure him all is ok but that you really need your own space too.