How should i show to my new friends that he's not the one to be in a couple with me?
153642
Tell him I'm never going to date you ever, find another girl, I'll help you.  Then help him, for real. Talk him up wiht your friends and try to get him a date.  That's a very nice thing to do.  If you won't help him get a date, then you are not really friends with him and should never talk to him again.  Friendship means helping people.
361666
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
248732
I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
240430
If he's "just a friend", it's fine for them to get together once in a while, but I would say not on a regular basis.  Why not have you go along?  Cab't you be friends with him also?
908106
Go out for the first time with a group of friends.  If he wants to be with only you, he'll let you know by sticking close to you.  If not, there will be no embarrassment!
52785
tell him that you are not interested dating him but rather being his friend. or you could just flat out tell him that you like his bestfriend.
582694
go out and about meet new people--develop new friendships-- he is getting married so you have 2 move on and realize that there are many more men out there
231697
If he is avoiding you then I would call him and see if her just wanted to meet you in a public place for a nice dinner before he leaves.  also invite his new girlfriend - that would show him u really do just want to be friends ya know?  I agree- i do not think it would be very easy to just be friends once you sleep with someone?  Hard to go back on that one!  But yea- invite him and his new FRIEND to dinner at a public restaraunt.  That way he does not think you are trying to get back with him.  If u are trying to get back with him by all means invite him to a cozy home cooked meal and get ya sum before he leaves for good!  Good Luck
322533
Here are some options:\n\n1.  Just tell him how you feel.\n2.  Casually tell him you have a boyfriend\n3.  When you are in a group setting where he can overhear, tell someone else casually that you have a boyfriend, and hopefully he will overhear\n4.  If all else fails just toally ignore him.  Don't smile, talk to him, pretend if possible that you didnt hear him try to talk to you, or if he does try to talk to you just give him a curt answer and find some way to escape the conversation.  Men are dumb, but even the dumbest will get the point eventually.
32400
I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
694489
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
478826
find a nice way to tell het that s what friends are for
83122
Assuming you want to go to the dance with him but also let him know that you're only going as friends, say yes, and then add something like: "I love how we're such good friends that we can go to the dance together without it being weird.  With other guys I would feel so worried about how I look or if he really likes me."  See how he responds, and try to figure it out from there.  Try to convey to him that you really like him as a friend, and that you're not looking for anything more from him.  Good luck!
214963
First go to the friend that you like and tell him how you feel without coming off as needy.   He may just appear to be nicer to your friend because, simply that, she's your friend.   He may feel he's being nice to you by treating your friend well.   You could see if he prefers to be with just her by bowing out the next time something is planned with the three of you.   Then, if he seems to enjoy that and doesn't put up a fuss, maybe you should start thinking that maybe there isn't too much between you two other than just friendship.    Much more goes into this such as the age of the parties and what you do when you're together, but basically I would just be open and honest and not make this a criticism.   Just a simple question such as, "Gosh, it looks like you and so-and-so are really hitting it off and I sure hope I am not becoming an undesireable third wheel here."
1034110
Tell him you want to meet the brother and his girlfriend first, maybe at a dinner. Or better make some plans that would have you and your boyfriend around them  most of the day on a Saturday.  That way you can get to know them better and hopefully tell if you would feel comfortable with them out of town.  But just going  away with people you don't know, sounds like trouble.
71745
i have one advice. make him notice you before he falls for some other chick... even if seems a little too blatant.
139491
Be good to him.Don't go with friends over 2 nites a week.Listen to the guys probs and have a conversation.