how can we find gay and homosexuals? did u ever wit them?
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yes on my street there are a gay and homo living there
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Look for a gay club or a gay support group
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Try gaydar..there's thousands of them. Try the Scots, Welsh and Irish, too
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There are some break through research that homophobes would like to keep under wraps.  It,s looking like homosexuality is more in genetics and brain chemistry.  People can't really turn gay, or at least not for the right reasons.  You can't choose who you are attracted to.
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gays are not humans. they are animals which f..ucking themselves without a result.
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I sort of agree with the second responder here, but I'd elaborate.  Homosexuals didn't exist partly because the word didn't exist, but also people didn't think about sexuality in those terms.  These days, we call someone a homosexual and we refer to it as if it is an innate part of their personality.  Among the Romans (and Greeks, and lots of other places in the world), sexual activity of one kind or another wasn't attached to people as an innate quality but just as something people did.  \n\nThink of it this way: lots of people play soccer.  For the most part, we just think of it as something people do, not who they are (unless they are professionals, but I'm talking generally).  But, some time in the future, we might decide that playing soccer is a really important indicator of who a person is, so we'll come up with a name for *anyone* who plays soccer - not just the professionals.  That's what happened with "homosexual" - same-sex sexuality used to be an activity.  Now it's an identity.
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the line between homosexuality and heterosexuality is not a point a to b thing. its a continuum, and yes, id oes  change over time.\nSome people really are not attracted to the same sex, even with all the booze in the world. But I would say that as a species we are curious, so it is in our nature to experiment.\nI live in a same sex union and i was previously married to a man, before i came to terms with my orientation. I was in denial. Like many are who will likely blast you for asking this question ;)
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I think most people (not just gays, though we certainly do have less of a chance of actually finding someone) have this problem. It'll be okay though! Just keep up good spirits and you'll find someone sooner or later.\n\nAnd I'm always free to chat through YIM at SpookySickness or at bluesylvia@hotmail.com
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I am a lesbian. where the hell are you meeting the gay people you know  Help us out  lol...bye
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How can you find someone?\nI dunno.
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go to www.gay.com   and go to the chat rooms
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What a great question! This is something that gays and lesbians wonder all the time. Can someone tell if you are gay or not? Some people believe there is such a thing as "gaydar." Gaydar is a sixth sense that gays and lesbians have to distinguish gay or bisexual people from heterosexual people. \n\nIs gaydar for real? Some people will swear it is. Personally I think that we gays, lesbians and bisexuals develop gaydar as a type of survival intuition. We need to be able to suss out who is and who isn't gay because hitting on the wrong person could be big trouble for us! \n\nYou will find some people who are convinced they just can't tell who is and isn't gay--even ones who are gay themselves. And then there are those people who fool everyone--even the ones who think they can tell. \n\nTo answer your question: Can people tell if you are gay or not? My guess is that they just sense that there is something about you that seems open. Maybe they are just hoping you're gay. You may even be giving off signals that you are not even aware of because now you ARE open to such kind of flirtation.
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The same places straight people meet - in bars, at work, in supermarkets, out walking dogs....\n\nHave a look at http://www.gaydar.co.uk or http://www.gaydargirls.co.uk \n\nWhile those sites tend to be mainly for people looking for sex, you can get chatting to people online in your area and find out where the good places are to meet people socially. There are many online forums you might find useful too.\n\nGood luck.
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still asking this question?? there is NO SUCH thing as being "born gay"...and no concrete scientific proof, either. just another lie and excuse people like to use to explain why they do what they want to do! people do experiment with same sex, and get hooked. known people who've told me this, and now they're "full blown" homosexuals.
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Ummm, why are you asking this in the gay and lesbian section?  Are you BI?
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There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.
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You can find them in Chicago! I know my best freinds gay and he has gone to this gay pride parade every year in Chicago and he saids the cutest ones are there.Oh use a condom,theres a lot of gay men affected with the AIDS virus.I don't harley hear about Lesbians.