What is a great first line to give to a woman to start a conversation in a bar? Serious answers only....?
151938
women love a sense of humour,so trying being a LITTLE funny.try this line..."DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? OR SHOULD I WALK BY AGAIN?" Be serious when you say it,then depending on her response,you can take it from there.Its sweet & funny at the same time.it worked with my brothers.
169734
I'm not a player, but I've done well in my day with the ladies.  The best thing to do is just go up to her and say "hi".  Maybe give her a compliment on her hair or shoes.  After that, keep it moving.  Don't gawk or look desperate.  She will get the idea and if she is at all interested, she will let you know in some way shape or form.
1048193
I am basically your male counterpart...so, I will tell you where you would find us.\n\nI am sickened by the thought of the bar thing too...so meet people and just do things..let it develop organically!\n\nWhat things do you like to do?  I mean the things you do that get you around other people.  Do them and be open, approachable.\n\nIf nothing comes up, then take a class...go to talks, events that you enjoy...(I met a woman "like you" a 7 years ago taking Aikido.)\n\nDO THE THINGS YOU LIKE..someone like you will be out there doing them too!\n\nIf you liked literature, we would meet at a reading from Edith Wharton...we might discuss the richness of the simple gestures she writes about...and there you are.\n\nI have always met people everywhere I have lived.\n\nI must confess, where I am living right now (a temporary situation in a small town), I have not succeeded in meeting anyone that I would be interested in spending time with.  \n\nHowever, I have not been out much around here...there is not much other than outdoors stuff that interests me here.  \n\nWhenever I travel I meet the most spectacular people...that drives me mad!\n\nI will be moving soon...so maybe when I get to a real town!\n\nDon't be afraid.
1044360
I always think the straight forward approach is attractive - it shows you have some balls, yet not in the typically pseudo-masculine obnoxious way.  Ask her if she like to grab a drink sometime, or if you are not yet 21, to grab some coffee.
87852
First off, never use regular pickup lines...always follow the +/+/- rule.\n\nGive her two original compliments on something like her name, her smile, or her sense of fashion (be creative, but be honest).  Then tease her about something else but don't be entirely personal.  Such as "hey, I love how your shoes match the outfit...but what are those furry yellow rat things dangling from them?"\n\nTo re-cap, that is two complements followed by a "negative hit".  This keeps her interest firmly locked on you while you bag the phone number.
335176
Just try to be yourself. I've found that women like honesty and are not impressed with pick up lines. Most women just want to talk to a genuine guy who is not looking to get laid right away. Stay away from really good looking women. They are messed up. Remeber ths song "If you want to be happy for the rest of your live, never make a pretty woman your wife". Go out to social scenes like hikes, bike trials, etc. The bars are for losers.
549343
From the sound of it you already know, what is the first thing you say to your friends?   HELLO  that would be a good start, and if the girl you are talking to is not just a stuck-up you know what, the conversation will flow, if you are at a movie for example why not talk about the best thing that was in the movie, there are a lot of ways you could talk to females if you are not just shy or scared of girls, If there is a certain girl that you really like try to find out what type of things she like and try to be in the places that she be in, that might help some in your quest.
26924
Say "Hey... Hey girl I've noticed you noticing me and I wanted to let you know I think your a fine woman inside and out and if you feel the same maybe we could catch a movie... my treat"\nor\n"Hey... I Like you and I wanna get to know you a little better how about we go out to dinner, then if you want you can call your crew, I can call my crew and we can rondevu. How 'bout you?"\nno no no like this\n"Hey... When I first saw you in math class I was runnin numbers all over town to find your stats I herd you were single, and I'd like to change that by addin me" \n\nSee I had that math thing goin in the last one? In all seriousness just be confident!
334069
just say something\nif she is interested she will respond\npositive or nagative,\nbut you have to say something first.
964871
Well if you are at a club or bar or place like that with a social atmosphere, approach her and say "Hi, I kept noticing how beautiful you are and I finally got the guts to come over here and introduce myself" A guy said that to me and it totally worked..good luck!
853175
"Hey.  I know you're about to move but I've had my eye on you and I wanted to know if you would like to get together after work for some drinks and maybe dinner?"  I would love for a woman to be that straight forward with me instead of beating around the bush with stupid signals like staring and laughing.  That stuff is garbage, ladies.  Men want you to say what's on your mind.
316567
Introduce yourself and just ask.  Women (some) like a go-getter.  Plus, if you never ask, you'll never know what the possibilities are.  :)
705789
just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.
1180553
hey man just wait until her cocktails kick in...then you'll know her intentions. just hang out with her, if she wants you...she'll let you know, for sure man.
145677
A very simple Hi....how are you?.....with a big smile will do just fine. Or how about "where have you been all my life"? Or even....."You are so pretty". Maybe even a classic..."Have I seen you before?"....but act as if you really seen her before. Good luck. I hope these work to at least break the ice.
185443
from a woman of color.\n\ndont think of us and yourself and others as a color when talking to someone. simply say hello.\n\ni find it easier for me to start off by saying a wisecracking joke that is not offensive to anyone around me. but for others a simple hello is fine.
476514
Man and Woman in a bar..\nMan:"can I buy you a drink?"\nWoman:"No thank you,alcohol is bad for my legs"\nMan:"Sorry to hear that...do they swell?"\nWoman:"No,they open."