Why does girls fight and hold a gruge and boys just hit each other and then they are friends again why is this
142118
Because boys are less complicated than girls.  Girls use words to try to settle matters, not brute strength, and since words genuinely hurt, resentments and grudges build up.  With boys, a bruise will heal after, and they have an understanding that once they slug it out, the matter is settled.
327345
Maybe you've spent too much time together and you need a break from each other. This happens to any kid of relationship... kids fight with parents, siblings fight with each other, spouses fight with each other, friends fight with each other... all because they've spent so much time together that they know almost everything about each other, good AND bad. That's why.
704562
not really, its the classic way every person starts flirting, little boys in grade school always hit and pick on the girls they like, that just must be your way of flirting, i would try to think about it when you are around them and you are trying to flirt not to get into a heated arguement but saying something kinda sly or something unexpected
131710
I have only been in two physical fights and both were in grade school. This girl followed me home and hit me in the head with her bookbag. Not much of a fight I suppose. The second was with a girl who constantly followed me around telling me my ass was grass (very inmature) Finaly one day I turned around and said. "What the hell is your problem!" "You don't even know me but, if you want to hit me so bad than go for it." I stepped towards her and when she swung I grabed her arm and pulled her into the side of the building. She popped her nose into the brick and fell down bleeding. She started crying and asked me to help her. "I told her I was sorry but that she had asked for it and she could just help herself. I didn't have any problems from her again.
928261
Because the male chauvenists like to put down the good guys in front of the ladies so the chauvenists can have the girls for themselves.  But it's not all the good guys.  Most of the good guys know when to fight back.  I love the good guys. :]
824854
People in general are really sensitive. It's not  just girls. girls just tend to show it more. If you haven't noticed, your male budies have a hard time taking it they just dont' show it. if you dish it they might get quiet for a miute then eiher let it slide or say something back to you. that quiet moment they are PROCESSING how they are going to deal with it. obviously a girl doen't operate that way. a some guys will shoot off at the lip. and I may be wrong about tha and I'm totally willing to admit it. but I'm totally right aobut the fact that guys are sensitive but they DO process it. it's their reaction. watch it the next tiem you start name calling your buddies. watch what they do and say. then call a girl a name and notice the difference in how she reacts and take in to account her age and life experience. a 29 year old girl will take it better than a 15 year old boy and a 29 year old man will take it better than a 15 year old girl and  a 29 year old woman will take it about the same as a 29 year old man. but 2 15 year olds, one boy and one girl will react COMPLETLEY different! I dont' suggest you experiment on your friends, just watch what happens when your buddies start ripping on each other and see what happens when they do it to the girls and see how litte the girls think of them. the girls won't be coming around them anymore. the more respect you give a girl the more succss you'll have with her.
602501
I think it's because you constantly see girl on girl action in commercials, shows and videos. When you see it, it's also supposed to be okay.  Most people dont see boy on boy often and when it is visible it's usually making fun of the males involved.
574265
People make assumptions about girls and boys.  In my classes the girls naturally gravitate toward sitting together and so do the boys.  It's an odd situation when student behave like that, because they group and girls chat, they get pushed to the side.  Boys take the chance to participate more often.  They get more attention.  So, I try to pay close attention to spending quality tiome with the girls if the boys lead a discussion.
97411
cause your playing little girl games wit a boy that is obviously equally immature to even put up with your self dramatizing childish games. do you know why i say this?
73891
fights can happen with a lot of people. even your best friends. sometimes when two friends are fighting they forget that they're friends and they turn their backs on eachother.whatever the situation is you must learn to forgive and forget\nlosing a friend is very hard and regretful.
909644
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
1157346
Because they are afraid of loosing the guy to an other girl.
1075360
I think that your friends should stop fighting, this guy is not worth it. Let them know how important thier friendship is to you and that you dont want to lose any of them because of a stupid boy. If you dont want to be caught in the middle of this fight for ever I suggest that you tell your friends to lose the guy and continue with their friendship. After all little fights like these strengthen friendships. Good Luck
616161
Because Girls are always are in competition with eachother. I dont know why because it is bad. I have been known to do it. Girls shouldnt do that though.
161534
it's not one side game.both boys and girls love playing with eachother.a girl-boy breaks your heart,so u make the next girl-boy pay for it.and it goes on and on...so do not trust anybody and don't believe his-her stories.just act like u believe,but be sure to keep something in advance if things go wrong so u won't be the only one being played.
948784
Some girls are just seriously mean.  You are the victim of not only assault, but sexual batter and harassment as well.  Bring the matter to your Principal, and better yet, file criminal charges on her.  She could have done serious and permanent damage to your parts.  The girls have the evidence on their phones. \n\nAs a mom, I would persue the matter for my son.
176343
Because instead of the girl getting hurt first like normal they do something to hurt the guy before the guy gets a chance to hurt the girl.