this guy will not leave me alone! wat do i do?!?
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I won't tell you to slap him, because that would be wrong. ;)\n\nMaybe yelling at him as loud as you can when he's bothering you?
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Say this to him " If you keep bothering me I WILL GO THE THE PRINCIPLE'S OFFICE AND REPORT YOU AND I WILL NOT HESITATE TO THE POLICE DEPT AND FILE SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND STALKING CHARGES AGAINST AND HAVE YOU ARRESTED !!!!!HAVE A FRIEND OR TWO AROUND AS WITNESS TO WHAT YOU SAID. And if he doesn't heed this warning follow through with what I said. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU
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Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
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Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
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If ignoring doesn't work, or he creeps you out too much:\nTell him FIRMLY that if he continues to follow you around, that you will begin contacting authorities (police, the principal, etcetera- I don't know your situation). \n\nI once had a problem with someone like that, and he called my bluff. I actually called the nonemergency police line. To hear me talking with someone in Authority scared him and he never bothered me again.\n\nCarry your cell phone with you at all times and have alternate routes/emergency plans in your head.\n\nBe safe.
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He can't be trusted you should move on Good Luck!!
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Block him, ignore him. Get help. This guy is disgusting. Hitting on underage? Pervert alert. Geesh. He's stalking you online. For all you know, this guy could be a 52 bald man with no life and stalks a lot of other girls just like you. Ask for help from pros. Call for help. Don't meet this man and stop talkign to him. Get help. Maybe even from your parents, teachers, or friends. GET HELP!
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Do not let him!! It is something that you will remember forever so make sure that you love the guy and will never regret it. If he keeps pushing you, dump him cos he doesn't respect you. Take care
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Can't you just block him?? so he can't send you messeges. Don't send him any messeges ok? the person like him , can turn into murder or abuser. Stay away from him, and make sure change ur cell phone number and stuff. You are not cheat girl, you were just dancing witha guy right? I don't know maybe he might contact you again, but don't send any messeges or respond to him, because it'll only make him happy. Try not to see him. Thats all I can tell you. If it get any worse, you should go to the police or something.
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this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
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Listen to your gut instincts and explain in short to him that you have no interest in him as anything other then maybe a friend if he won't except that then you may need to get some help from your friends and family if you feel like he is stalking you Good Luck and Be Careful
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Get rid of the CREEP!!! Sounds like he is just using you till something better comes along!! Run while you still can!!
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Tell him to keep his hands to himself! Touching can lead to other things you should not do!
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Try to ignore him.  Don't give him any attention, especially when he's trying hard to annoy you, act like you're unbothered.  Eventually he'll get tired of trying and leave you alone.  If he gets physical with you, take action.  Be serious and look him in the eye and tell him not to touch you again.  If it continues, report him to the police (or your parents/principle, depending on how old you are).
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Get rid of him.  If he won't let you be your own person he's not worth it.  Also if he doesn't trust you then you have to ask yourself if you can trust him.  Believe me you can do better!
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Oh girl I am in the same situation, except it is my sister's HUSBAND!!!  Personally, I would put him in his place.  Tell him you are not interested in him like that.  If he continues then you will have to be a little more forceful and start avoiding him whenever possible.  Never be alone with him.  Everything he does to you try to document it.  Save his emails, voicemails, and text messages, because when your friend does find out guess who she is going to believe....not you.  Cover yourself.  Also, try to get him to hit on a third party friend and show your friend what an idiot he really is.
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i have that same problem all you do is try to stay as far away as possible from thet person soon they will get the pic!! if not lay it out tell them to leave you alone nicely though or you could lose a friend maybe