How to get rid of this bad luck thats with me since 2 years and feel really happy about what i have now?
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if you claim it you own it.be careful what you say.
948353
Yes, my past comes and bites me in the ass all the time...some days I wish I could have a "do over"..so I could make better choices...I know youre not feeling sorry for yourself, it's just so frustrating sometimes...like you want to scream"I'm Sorry, I'm trying my best, I'm not the same person !" Hang in there and keep making good choices and doing the right thing now...
780322
You can't dwell on the things you don't have or what your friends have that will drive you crazy. I know plenty of rich people that are unhappy, you need to find the things about your life you love and make you happy. If you don't have those thing you should work to find them. I'm one of the grouchiest people in the world but one look and my little girl, or her picture and I feel truly happy. You can as well.
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Spend time with your close friends and tell them whats on your mind.  They are guarenteed to be very supportive and do what they can to help you out.  Being with people you have laughs or a good time with will easily make you feel better than sitting in a dark room brooding.  Basically you need to be out and active, have exposure to the sun, start looking at other guys that may help.  And if that doesn't help time will.  Over time you're guarenteed to let it go and move on.  Just remember that this isn't the end of everything good and fun, something else or somebody else will run into you that will give you enough pleasure to be yourself again.
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That is a difficult thing to do.  Every time you feel yourself go back to the past, stop, tell yourself to let it go and maybe that will help.  If not, maybe talk to someone?  I hope you can work it out.  Don't be TOO hard on yourself.  Peace!
274727
well, since you have just had an ephiphany, and you are still around to exclaim that you've wasted your life, do something about it. whatever you did to waste your life, don't do it again. find something worth your time. something that will make you happy and you can continue to do for the remainder of the life that you have not wasted.
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Be very kind to yourself.  Let yourself be sad about how things didn't work out, but after a reasonable amount of time, start to distract yourself from your sad feelings.  Be around friends that make you laugh, do nice things for yourself, take time getting to know yourself again and what you want out of life besides what you don't have, then start taking steps to make all of your dreams come true.  With time your heart will heal.
560412
accept what you have and don't mess with nature.remember it is not what you've got it's how you use it.try to build up a little confidence in yourself
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Get a life coach to reinspire you to evaluate your good points to focus on instead of evaluating your own negativity.\n\nIdentify your good points and cross reference with suitable jobs. in the mean time volunteer toassist a charity favourable to your beleifs to get used to a working enviroment and by default will start feeling good about yourself with out the pressure.\n\nThrough the networks of the new relationships you will build by default will get new and fresh opportunities.
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Make a list of their bad habits or traits that irritated you so much...\nRemember all the bad things about them and be glad you have another chance at happiness in life...\nThis is a blessing in disguise...\nI have been there and done that...\nIt seems terrible at first, but later on, you look back and think, what was I worried about...\nAnd you find yourself in a better place than before...\nBest of luck...
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this may sound harsh but I do not mean it 2.get ur ass up stop worrying about the past n make a future 4 u n ur children.woman all over the world do it every day.dont look 4 others 2 do what u need 2 do 4 urself.if you have the will u will find the way.stop worrying about what busy bodies with no lives have 2 say n start getting ur act 2gether.if you cannot care 4 ur children by urself get state aid,councelors,training 2 become job ready.just take it one step at a time n by this time next year you will be suppirsed at how far u have come.do not give up hope,in our darkest hour,will come a great light.good luck
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Get a feeling sense of what you wish to accomplish.Think from it, as if you already have it. Do whatever it takes to feel as though you already have it. React to it as if you do. Write "I am so happy and grateful now that _________." and list what you want in your life, in every area, That has been especially powerful to my life. It adds subconscious divine universal help to your efforts to better your life. It helps you control your own luck. It helps your thinking. But thinking alone isn't enough. Truly believing it in your heart Will definitely control this power. You can tell the difference by Saying "the Sun exists" and feeling the truth of that, and compare that to saying, "We have two suns" When you know the difference between those two feelings, you'll know the feeling of real truth in comparison to something you make up. That way, you'll know when you truly believe what it is you're going to manifest as comparison to simply only thinking it. Always remain positive, look at the positive aspects of life, ignore the negatives. ALways think about what you wish to experience and never what you fear. What you think about most and feel will be, will be. So this makes sure what you're making to be, is going to be something that you like. How you feel about something, good or bad, will always tell you directly how you'll feel when you get there. So if something feels good, or makes you feel good, keep doing it, or if something makes you feel bad or afraid, don't do it or think about it. Always experience joy in your life and focus only on it. No matter what. When you feel down. Start singing or Do whatever it takes to keep your positive outlook, it doesn't matter how much like reality it feels like your avoiding or being out of touch, you create your own reality so when you remain happy no matter what, you will be happy and eventually incapable of becoming sad or discouraged. Be happy no matter what, and do this with conviction. A standard as though breathing is a standard for living. If you do not breathe you die, this is how you will think of this standard of remaining happy and positive, and truly your life will be one of legends. Biblical and Amazing. People will look at you and wonder how you have everything you want, what do you do different than me? And you'll be different because you live with a secret. A magic secret that gives you anything, ANYTHING, you want. If you'll let it.
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That is so true!\nSome people always seem to have good things happen to them and  they always seem happy.  Try this, start your day on a great note and when something negative happens, put it aside and worry about it later, bad things ALWAYS wait.  Just keep track of the good things each day and soon your list will get longer and longer.  Your bad vibes will soon get smothered and you won't need to even think about them!  Maybe that is how some people seem to be happy all the time.  I think I'm gonna take my own advice, starting today.
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Let me ask you this.  If you had a time machine and could change any event in your past, would that make you feel better about yourself today?  If it would then realize what it is about that event that is sabotaging you today.  If it is a past thing, often times we know intellectually that we are ok but our emotions are still tied to that past event.  Emotions stay the same no matter how old we get.  We cant stop the pain in life sometimes but we can increase the tools to deal with it.  When you dropped something as a young child you cried.  You can drop the same item now and it is ok, why?  You have information now that tells intellectually it is ok.  The emotions are the same but the tools to deal with that event are in place.  You have already experienced that event and it no longer shocks you.  So what is it about your life that is shocking you now?\n\nWhatever the issue is past, present, you need to see what is eating away at it.  It is ok to feel bad, it is the flipside of the coin to feeling happy.  The problem is if we become depressed about it, all life's issues become sensative and bigger problems than they are.\n\nYoung or old we all feel down at times.  Some just hide it better or keep themselves occupied to endure those moments.  Sometimes we feel like we are being taken somewhere and have no way to steer it.  The key is planning what you want to do.  Life is 90% how you react to it.  If you think you are successful and a good person, people will be convinced of it too.  Most reality comes from someone's perception.  They believed it and it became so.\n\nDepression is impression without expression.  Something gets you down, find a way to express it.\n\nIf you kind of hate yourself then you have not completely made full judgement on yourself yet.  If you hate yourself than you are having an expectation that you are not at yet.  Find out what that is and is it a valid expectation?\n\nGood luck to you!
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If you can really bring so much bad luck to someone, you better register yourself in the army and go to an enemy nation and bring them bad luck!\nNo dear, you cant bring someone bad luck like that. Yes, if it were problems like he started feeling depressed or got into a bad habit, it could be because of a person; but the kind of problems you mentioned, it cant be done by the luck of a person.\nAnyways, so many people are involved in an event. His mother died, what about her luck? His father's, siblings' luck? He lost his job, maybe because a better job is in store for him and while having this job, he wouldnt have searched for anything better? Maybe his car got hit in the parking lot, so that fate could avoid him and another vehicle, an accident which would have happened in case he didnt hit his car in the parking?\nIts all on how you percieve things. You might very well be bringing him good luck by making small bad things happen to him so that big bad things dont. All's well that end well and everything happens for the best. Believe in them and dont ever fret that you can be bad luck for someone.
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It could be a psychological sort of thing. Have you ever been face with a disaster? Or have ur loved ones around you ever suffered from one? I think you can break that thought by finding WHY you feel this way first. ONce you found out why, u can work on it. You can do things to forget about this fear, e,g exercise regularly, learning a new skill, volunteer work etc. As long as the activities are meaningful and make you feel happy, go ahead! Talking it out with friends or simply hanging out together by watching a movie or joking arouund will help. XD Hope you'll feel better soon!
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Find beauty in the tiniest things - the wood grain on your old desk, the flowers you walk by every day, the pretty displays in store windows. Do some community service - just trust me on this one. Spend a little more time with people who make you feel valued. Watch your favorite movie over and over and over again. Laugh at something, or at nothing. Smile more often - I think smiling is supposed to do something great like release endorphins and make you feel good. Good Luck!