How do you keep a boyfriend for more than a week?
141127
well with out knowing very much about you i would ask questions to your friends that know you to see what your good sides and bad sides are then work on them from there , but only change the things you feel need to be changed , at some ages people go threw a lot of mates trying to find what kind of person fits them best so weather you are 14 and havent dated many guys or your 55 and just divorced some times you have to try on how some one feels about you or you them before you make the right choises towards what is the best fit for you and knowing weather you will fit some one else
104662
well like you said you only meet like once a week, why don't you cook him something special this sunday (feb.12) and if you can surpise him after school on Valentines Day.  that is what i am planning to do.
281011
tell him you love him and ask him to compromise...one night you stay home and cuddle up with a movie, the next you go out for dinner, dancing and the third night you let him pick and try going back and forth.
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
479197
You need to set aside time that is just for the both of you. It may not be easy because he works, but you need to take control of the situation. \n\nTry and arrange a weekend away. It could even be at a hotel down the road, but the change of environment will do you both a lot of good. Arrange to go out for a meal, both of you dress up. Have the idea that it's a date in your head to make it more exciting.
884568
he can be loyal for the first 3 days..but how long can he be loyal with you.you never seen him.guys on net will say anything to get your attention.it can be just for fun.don't take it seriously.don't dig your own grave.have a balance in this relationship. i'm not being asking you to be negative,just be practical..its your life. don't let some guy on the net to play with it..
620237
If he'll be living close by, I'd suggest setting up a time once a week or something for you guys to spend time together, and don't let ANYTHING get in the way of it. Phone calls work too, but nothing beats actual physically being together.
970331
Well as long as you have some expectaions like my personal ones:\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nand you find yourself doing some of the following: How you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nThen mabye you should give it a try.  I don't think it's in your head, it's in your heart.  LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WON'T FAIL YOU. Good luck to you!~Alison~
628062
3 or 4 days--you don't want him to think you have nothing else to do.  This may be difficult for you, but you'll hook him harder!!
1042818
Make the time that you do spend together special by making sure its quality time. Dont spend it watching TV. Instead talk and go out and do things together. Believe that you will end up seeing each other every day eventually and use that belief to keep your relationship goin forward.
402247
Best way to keep your man is to beyourself, do not at like a bunnny boiler, let him do his own thing and don't act jealous,clingy, and do not tell him what he can and cannot do!
457766
Take ur time!! what's the rush to do any thing else? you've only been together 6 days!!
1115060
I would wait. Would you want him to wait on you? Six weeks isn't that long. Just while he's gone think about all the times you've had together, and what yall are gonna do when he gets back. Just hang around your girlfriends to make it a lil easier. Go shopping and do girl stuff. Think about him before you go to bed, and until you go to sleep..Do something extravagant before he leaves...Something you won't forget when he's gone, and that will remind you why you're with him. Oh! and he's gonna be around a lot of boyz anyway. believe me, when he gets back he's gonna WANT U! ha ha
180310
I don't think you could ever MAKE love last, but you could do things to help keep a relationship strong. You always should be 100% honest and truthful, no matter how hard that is. You should respect the other person and get respect back. Listen to one another and give advice. Don't ever try to control a person. If you feel like you have to control them to keep them from cheating on you or something, then you don't trust that person and without trust, you have nothing. Make that person smile as much as you can. Laugh with eachother and don't take little things too seriously. Just have fun and love eachother the best you can.
527178
be with someone you trust and make it a special occasion cause remember you can only lose it once so don't rush it
1090859
Look at what you have with your boyfriend!  11 months isn't something to just ignore.  Try doing something with your boyfriend that you haven't before.  Go some place romantic or exciting.  Something that will really add some excitement to your relationship, hopefully to make you not like this other guy so much.  Just because a guy flirts with you and likes you doesn't mean you have to return the favor.  Try to find some not-so-attractive things about him.  Give yourself a reason to make him not good enough for you.
959058
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.