Is is important marry with a virgin girl ?
156050
yes it is the best one to marry
828542
does it really matter if there a virgin or not isnt marraige about love ????
1165377
I think each person should make that decision based on their beliefs.  Personally I didn't wait till I was married and I don't regret that decision.  But I did wait till I was with someone I loved and trusted, which made it special all the same.  I also thought about the pro's and con's and made a considered decision, not just jump straight into bed with the first guy that asked.\n\nI realise that it must be hard for you sometimes when everyone around you is doing it, but if this is your belief then I think that is very important, and your future wife will love and respect you even more for that decision.\n\nPlease don't just marry a girlfriend because you want to have sex sooner.  My sister has a group of friends of the same belief as you and a lot of them got married soon after they met, and are now breaking up.  Take plenty of time to get to know the girl and go through some tough things together first to be sure that you really can spend the rest of your lives together.  \n\nMaybe you should keep quiet about being a virgin so that people around you don't try to pressure you.\n\nGOOD LUCK
639942
I think it should be the same for both men and women.  She should be able to communicate to you with honesty, integrity and openness.  She should be faithful, that is why it is best to marry a virgin and be one yourself.  She should respect you and love you for who you are and not want to change you.  She should be a good helper for you, it is good if she has qualities that you don't have so that, between you two, you can accomplish more things.  It is best if she has the same religious, political and familial views as yourself...that will eliminate many fights and problems in the marriage.  As I said at the beginning, these are qualities for both men and women.
1072631
Y u put this staff under pressure. Remember that you are treasured and loved. \n\nDon go down with those pervert.\n\nIf u did already lose it, who care!? Live for your real happiness, not for your virgin. When someone love u, they hardly ask about your virginity.\n\nLady is the most treasure in this world. Retain your value and quality of life. Good luck!
577796
you need to take an English class before you marry.  It's important to know how to speak to a girl.
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
1094292
Hallelujah, God does work in mysterious ways. I say that this guy is a God send and should keep his virginity until he is married. God will provide with the right woman in God's time.
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
63177
You shouldnt have sex until you are ready to deal with the consequences of sex. Pregnancy, STD's, guilt (if its your first time and the person dumps you directly after). Those are just to name a few. Being a virgin is rare and prized. Keep it, cause you'll never get it back. If the person professes to love you, they will understand your commitment to being a chaste person (virginal)
298217
I'm not sure why I should care if she's a virgin.  Let the past be the past.  My wife will be my future.
638613
I think it depends on the guy. If that is what his morals and values are... then yes... he would respect a virgin more than someone who is not. But, not everyone has those beliefs. Personally... I would rather try the milk before buying the cow, and I'm a woman. I haven't experienced any disrespect because I am not a virgin. I feel that as long as you are not screwing any and every one... and that you are actually being selective in who you give your body to. That is what gains respect.
1054992
True love waits, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we intend to till we are married, so go for it girl!
725313
Virginity was important once upon a time when there were no protection from getting kids after sex. Hence all the religions and  all the cultures advocated virginity to prevent the birth of unwanted children. Today the science has changed everything and people could safely have sex and still not get children and therefore virginity has more or less lost its relevance. However one thing should not be missed by us that in olden days due to the virginity there were early marriages and this resulted in the family culture which brought peace of mind and stability to the people. Nowadays due to advancement of science we see many a relationships before the actual marriage which may take place sometime after 40 years of age and since there are no elders to look after the children they are put into child care centres and this results in children losing the love for parents and also divorce rates have increased because of late marriage and there is not peace of mind to most of the couples.
158777
Sex is never necessary--period.  Sex can lead down all the wrong roads either through an unwanted pregnancy or through an uncurable STD that will be with you as long as you breathe.  Don't rush into anything.  Your virginity is something you can NEVER recapture, and you should place some value on it.  I'm not saying wait for marriage, but wait for the right person and the right time.
828614
well virginity should not really be a big issue, but of course it would only be an additional blessings for you to found a girl whose virgin.
667336
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.