Why is my boyfriend not romantic? Does he not like me?
143738
being romantic isnt something you are born with, it is a learned skill. Maybe he hasnt had a chance to be romantic before and needs some ideas or encouragement. Dont worry, i dont think it has anything to do with not liking you, because obviously if he did not like you, he wouldnt be with you. \n\nI suggest dropping some hints, like tell him how the boyfriend of your friend did so and so and it was totally romantic etc. Give him clues as to how much you would love it if he did stuff like that once in a while. Voila, watch the guy change. \n\ngood luck
114995
You can't force someone to be romantic, either they are or they aren't.  Try and communicate your needs to him and he'll try and meet you half way.
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
510424
because he doesn't love you or his scared that his family might not like you. why don't you have a seious conversation with your boyfriend and find out what's the real reason why he doesn't want his family to know.
810655
You try to hard to please him, he takes you for granted, and he doesn't take you serously. He will come over when HE wants to come over, and you'll just end up following him around like you normally do, I do see the  next time will be alot more fun, he will be in a good mood. Try to get him to take you out, go to the movies, or visit friends. Go out on the town.\nHe is very nice and fun,but immature, he is not ready for a real relationship. If you want to be with him, just be yourself because he enjoys your company alot, he thinks your fun. Just have fun, but don't lose yourself in him. One day you will be swept off your feet by a good man who wants a commitment, and loves you with all his heart, you'll marry him and be very happy. Don't worry pleasing Tommy. What you really need to do right now is focus on your studies, and reach for your goals. You know what you need to do in your heart, and that is to take care of yourself. Take Care.
350654
Break up with him. It seems like he doesn't like you for you, but only to get in your pants. You don't know how he really feels about you, he may not love you. You should find someone who really likes you for you, and not because they want something from you. Best of wishes.
485883
Guys do things just to tense u..but never to avoid u...just note whether he behaves with some uniqueness with you..than wat he does with other girlfriends,whether he shares his personal feelings & other matters with you.Note that once you start respecting yur beloved he gives u lots of love & respect in return...
330655
Some families view physical affection in a very hostile light.  If you asked him if it was you, and he did secretly want to kiss you, then he would say what the problem was.  Is it just kissing?  Or will he not hug either?  Maybe he was conditioned against physical contact.  If that is the case you have to ask yourself if you want to be with a man who can't express love physically (and sex is NOT enough physical expression of love).
919738
Maybe he does and maybe he doesn't.. What's important is for you to lose your expectation of him liking you, because if it turns out he doesn't like you, you'll feel unhappy... be happy and content with what you have, without wanting more or less.. there a quote, "If you don't have problems, no worries, if you do have problems, why worry?"   hope this helps.. enjoy!
777493
Your boyfriend is picky.\nHe's upset when you bother him with your problems.\nHe doesn't acknowledge your improvements\nHe makes excuses to leave.\nHe gets annoyed if you question him.\nHe does nothing to reassure you\nHe says you ask for too much.\n\nGo. This sounds like it's over to me.
781523
I presume your boyfriend is about your age. Well, if he just sit there and doesnt communicate with you after you tell him what he wants to know, although some of it could be none of his business, then I guess he is just nosey or just wants to be in control but really doesnt have the character to talk to you like a human being. Maybe he just doesnt know how to communicate. Good luck.
363216
Most guys do that, but i think you should at least try to talk to hime about it. Maybe if you let him know how you feel he might try to change. If he doesn't care well then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
1084847
sounds like he's decided that you have all the qualifications that he needs in a woman and that he's testing the waters, so to speak, to see if you are also interested;however, he dosen't seem to be the romantic type. he seems to be looking at your relationship with his head and not his heart. my gf sez you should concider a few more dates to see what he really wants
453756
I guess there is something in him u realy don't like .I   was dating once with a hottie.What u mentioned was there between us  ,we split because we r not sure we realy love each other,,so hold ur horses..
507006
The question is---why is he your boyfriend if you have to worry about getting along with him?  It should come natural.
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
450436
It sounds as if you are a bit confused, Look at yourself, what this individual likes in you, what about you attracts him.when you find out then you can be the person he loves don't be pushy, give him space make suggestions, never dictate. Ask for his input in things you both do together. Be a lady not a woman, The times you both spend together should not necessary be quantity but quality, find out what turns him on be caring and loving but don't be too frivolous. Give him things to always think positive of you, Be honest in all you do and say