If raped should she be counted as a non virgin?
138461
Virginity is not a matter of mind. It is a physical condition. \n\nLets say a young girl is forced to prostituion (could be any reason which is out of her control). Then is she still a virgin? If that is so, then all most all prostitues would call themselves virgins. But lets not undermine a rape victim with a prostitute. This is just an analogy.\n\nMind my being so blunt and disagreeing with your point of view.
440058
well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
926372
Yes honey, virgin means you haven't had vaginal sex.
188685
First you have to see what kind of virgin she is.  Is she a virgin because of beliefs or just out of circumstance.  If she's a virgin by beliefs your friend needs to understand that and respect her limits.\n\nIf she's a virgin out of circumstance (not the right guy, not the right relationship, not the right time) it's a different story.  Then it's a question of whether she's a virginal virgin or not.  From the description she's pretty virginal.\n\nPart of being a virgin out of circumstance is trust.  Is your friend trustworthy?  Is he ready to be someone's first?  Is he worthy?  Does she think he's worthy?  \n\nNow if he doesn't actually want to have intercourse with her, but help her get intouch with her sexuality there are alot of things he can do.  Most of it is 1-reasuring her that she doesn't HAVE to have sex.  2-Spend time touching and caressing, finding out what she likes.  But this is going to require sometime and commitment.  Is your friend ready for it?
636288
No, it wouldn't bother if she wasn't. A woman that is a virgin would probably piss me off due to her "inexperience"\nI would rather be with a woman that knows what she wants out of a man in the bedroom, not a "little girl" who doesn't know how to be sensual or demanding. When it's time to "do da nasty" I want to be pleased in every, not play "teacher"
1165895
consent is required in order for it not to be rape. If u can determine that at first she did not consent but later in the act she consented by virtue of enjoying it then it's not rape. However a person's reaction to rape is not necessarily an indication that the person is consenting, once it is clear form the person's action that they are not consenting then it's rape. The person need not say no once it clear from their action that they are not consenting,\n\nThose principles only apply when the person being involved in the sexual act is an adult of course if it's a minor then consent is not a requirement as you can be charged with statutory rape.
1090992
N O... or do u mean if u put it in her @ss, is she still a virgin? if THAT's your real question then yes, she is... technically
670341
Hopefully this person will seek help.  Rape is a very traumatic experience and requires counseling to avoid huge emotional scarring in the future.  The sooner that this person reports the rape, the more likely that the rapist will be caught.
798120
virgin or not rape still hurts...physically and emotionally
604574
If the female is willing to be tied up and is willing to have sex then it isn't considered rape it's considered Bondage. If at anytime the female tells you to stop and untie her and you refuse then it could become rape and you could/can be charge and possibly convicted of rape.
1016285
the only way to really identify if she is a virgin is visualizing a hymen (small membrane over the vagina) but that is only a positive partially.  I the hymen  was torn by some accident she still could be a virgin.  if her hymen is not intact then the only one that knows for sure is the girl.
1060908
IF the man actually raped her, then I would tell her to go to the Police with this information!\n\nNow, if she doesnt, then I wouldnt put too much stock in her being raped, and that she was just unfaithful, and that any time you two dissagree, she may turn to this man, (and thats why he calls, to see if she is available again), for comfort, and that being in a sexual nature.\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
23648
nope not a virgin, Not being a virgin is classified as penatration process. If it goes "in" your not a virgin anymore.
566392
God looks on the heart. A women who is raped is not an adulterer so in this situation it would also depend on the heart attitude.
409455
Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.