I need a new girl. Just got heartbroken. Not a psycho for doing this am I?
139019
A guy like you shouldn't be looking for a girl. Girls should be looking for someone like you!! (Too bad you are not into guys)
5412
wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
338408
Its definitely psychological, so don't loose heart. Consult a psychologist and get professional help. Meanwhile try to abstain from girls for sometime.
608277
You sound like a really good boyfriend.  But if she left you, she's probably not coming back.  Take awhile to get over her and when you're ready find another girl to spoil.  There are probably a lot of girls out there who would appreciate a good boyfriend.
514136
My guess is she is rather immature and trying to play head games with you. Do you really need this kind of girl in your life?  You could IM her, but then she'll know that she can manipulate you. I think you'd be better off looking for a girl that will treat you honestly and not play games.
351981
This may not be possible.  How hurt was she?\nIf you are serious, look for her.  Try to talk to her in person.  Make sure she understands that you are not a player and that you really do feel sorry for any grief you may have caused.\nLet her know that you want quality time, not just a casual encounter.  Spill you guts.  Confess to your stupidity and lack of sensitivity.  Beg if necessary.\nOf if you don't feel that strongly about her, forget it.  It was never meant to be.
318201
Drop them both and find yourself a new girlfriend. \n\nONLY ONE GIRL though
928121
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick.  She's clearly using you, and you're letting her.  I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other.  Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you.  I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave.  Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
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I, like you, was hurt by rejection or having to go separate ways from a relationship that would have been more taxing for myself and the girl to keep going with.  This caused me to be reclusive and not wanting to meet new girls.  I had a wall of sorts up for quite some time that kept me secretive and guarded -- with no entertainment at all of the notion of sharing myself with another.  In time, somehow, you will have the confidence to take the chance and try again with someone that encourages you to let out all your good qualities to show what a good person you can be.  Somehow, you will know when you meet that person.  I can't tell you how you will know when that happens -- that's the stuff no one can easily explain, I'm afraid.
585960
You don't need a girl like this,move on find someone that is willing to return the love that you are giving.Don't spend time with someone who is putting you second.
427211
Tell me, why are you whith this girl? You must be a masochist or you don't love yourself very much. Probably both. And remember, dead is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
404039
find another girl dude!
937135
Mate,take it from a girl,dont dive in there,she needs some space and time, since she just got dumped,shes probably not interested getting herself in another relationship,just yet.\nBe there for her as much as you can, but at the same time dont crowd her too much.\nAs they say, you cant swim until youve learned how to float steadily.
234162
Find another girlfriend.  There are too many girls in the world and I am sure you can find another girlfriend.  Don't get depressed and think stupid stuff like suicide.
77541
dump her and find your self a new girl!
376881
I m the one you are looking for.\n\nA nice pure broken hearted girl..just looking for a good true right one like you (maybe).\n\nsend me mail: anahita3740@hotmail.com\n\nmaybe we can understand each other
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No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.