a guy after 1wk. is says he loves u & doesn't care if u say it back he wants u 2 say it when you mean it?
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
383136
hey hun... i think saying i love you should be said when the person really loves u. ur friend gt her guy to say it in  6 weeeks.. i am sure he has said it loads of times after that.. but when ur boyfriend actually says it to u it would mean a whole lot more than it wld mean whenhe says it when u want him to. you need to do anything to make him say it. you just wait till hez comfortable enuf to say it. at least he is not mis-using the word love.
872146
Why should he say he loves you? He's getting sex after a matter of hours with a person he hardly even knows.  He's not an amazing guy, he's a user who doesn't love you and is using his "hurt in the past" thing as an excuse to 1-keep doing you and 2-not offer you any commitment. :\nLove isn't over-rated-- HE is.
1089697
You will know a guy loves you when his actions line up with his words: if he says he loves you and does things to show you this (like treat you with respect, take care of you, etc.), then he loves you.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
621830
if he cares about u it means he will take care of u and show his love. if he just says stuff and does exactly the opposite i don't know lady, but isn't it pretty obvious answer what's going on?
438630
Well, i guess what he's trying to say is that he cares for you and maybe always will (like how he loves his siblings maybe or someone in his family) but he isn't IN love with you. Like he doesn't see you as his gf or so.
158437
If he doesnt say it all on his own then maybe you should stop saying it for a couple of days just to see if he does say it to see if he even misses you saying it at all. Or you could just ask him if he really does love you and if he says yes then you should be able to ask him if he was just saying it back b/c you said it to him. Don't argue it out of him just tell him that it hurt you and that the whole time you had to sit back and literally question if he really loved you or not. Your in a relationship talk to him.\nGOOD LUCK MA MA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
890926
Depends on how long you have been dating. If you have been together for a week...i think it's too early to say I love you. If you feel enough time has passed though, just say it to him, and he will either respond or not. That's how my girlfriend asked me.\n\ncheers,\nMax
901421
Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
345574
I have been successful, but I've waited until I felt really right.  There is a differnce between LOVE and INFATUATION.  You might have said "I love you" to a guy, when really you were just still in the infatuation stage.  If you have been with your current boyfriend for almost 2 years, I think it is time for you to say it.  He might just be waiting for you to say it first.  Maybe he feels the same way as you do about saying I love you.  Either say it, or actually TALK to him about it.  Be like "I really feel like I love you, but I don't want to say it and make you uncomfortable.  How do you feel about it?"  Hope this works!
301045
If he never says "I love you", it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  Sadly, guys aren't great at expressing these things.  But if all he is asking for is sex then probably not.  Or if he's trying to buy your love (like through expensive stuff), I'd be questioning it.  \nYou could do some online love quizes.  I have a favourite site, I'd give you the address if I could remember it but it's called something like "your new romance".  Google it, and have fun!
170310
im sure most people would say that he really doesn't love you and move on or find someone new. but think about this: maybe he's just not very vocal about his feelings. there's a big possibility that he does love you he just prefers to express it in his own way. but if it really bothers you that much that he can't say it, it's probably best that you tell him how you feel.
958256
If he means it, he'll likely say it again. Just be patient...\n\nOn the other hand, if he was just a date and you two weren't serious to begin with...if it were me, I'd be a little scared..
1024556
He has emotions for you, not for her. So he is not worried about "saying the wrong things" to her. He does not want to make mistakes around you.  If he is waiting for, be patient, take time. Love sometimes comes slowly.
437860
hahaha.. hard question. even if a guy were to tell u thousands or millions times that he loves you in a day, you can't be sure..