Wud you get back wud sum1 if they cheated on u and then promised they wudnt do it again???
138337
probably not because they cheated on u and u can never be sure if he wont cheat on u again
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
360237
its tough..i wouldnt be able to trust..i'd be tempted to but i think we would just end up moving around in circles..and i've learnt this from experience..although i always tried my best still i ended up with the wrong end of the stick..you end up givin it a try cause u will be blinded by the memories but the facts wud be extremely different.. if they cheated on you, or hurt you once then you dont deserve them..cause they might if given the opportunity do it again and again.. just look ahead and move on you will find a person that will honestly love you someday..
479768
I was cheated on before and it hurted like hell. I tried mostly everything to get back at him but the most sucessfull thing i did was to make myself into something that he would regret cheating. I made myself very popular with alot of guys. I glamoured myself to the point where I looked like a video chic. I felt good about myself i had alot of guys behind my tail. and it was only a matter of time till he would try to come back in my life but guess what guys like him dont deserve second chances. and he regrets leaving me because now he knows what he missed out on. Point is try to make him realize what he had was the best thing that ever happened to him. And make yourself feel good at the same time. It works trust me. I worked my butt off to buy the best clothes to have the hottest whip. and it all payed off. And now he wit a busted chic stuck now cuz he got a kid. Living that messed up life wishin that he would have stood wit me.
477092
no. have you ever been cheated on??? look at it from ur bf's perspective. plus if you want a meaningful relationship that if one or all of them find out that it is curtains for you. trust is the hardest thing to gain back.
956767
yes its quite true i think. everyone that i have talked to or have actually know to have been cheated on the same person has done it again after all the promises. they probably do love you but they cant help but try to see if they can still get the charm going to get someone else to. its hard to find someone that will be up front honest trusting and will never cheat. read tips on love and relationships to help you better on this site
542784
If you keep staying with her or taking her back after she cheats, do you really think she's going to stop?  Obviously, she didn't learn her lesson after the first time, if you caught her doing it again.  She thinks that you love her, and let her get away with it before, and because you love her, you'll keep forgiving her and taking her back.  Time heals, and you'll find someone who will treat you the way you should be treated.
1187030
If she really meant what she said about her promise then you should have no problem at getting her back. But if she doesn't want to get with you now just move on and forget her because that promise that you two made to each other probably didn't mean crap to her.
198520
Unless you want to get hurt again. You already know what he did and he knows it too. So why go through it again? Are you sure he won't remember what he did and not do it again, and again? If you go back to him, you are the only one to blame.
841252
Anyone who cheats doesnt deserve a second chance period...If ur with that person youre with them for a reason.....Their isnt any sense in getting a boyfriend or girlfriend if ur gonna cheat on them...its just wasting your time and theirs
985819
say NO. Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat. If he cheated then, how do you know he wont cheat now? If he lied then, how do you know he wont lie now? If you DO go back out with him you'll have to walk on eggshells the whole time because you'll be wondering in the back of your head "was he really where he told me he was, with the people he told me he was with, or was he somewhere else with somewhere else" Which saying those thigns to him or asking him alot will just lead to fights. A relationship is nothing without trust and it takes a long time to re-build trust after someone cheated/lied to you. Find someone out there who WONT do that to you, this guy sounds like a loser, and there are millions of guys out there that arent losers, so go find one! good luck!
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
657439
Do you think that you'll ever be able to trust him again?  Is he changed?  Is he sorry that he cheated on you?
29744
That's what's hard. You can't ever be 100% sure because if a person can do it once, he can easily do it again. Some people might be able to regain that trust eventually, but I'm not sure that I could ever trust someone who did that to me.
278419
Boy FIND SOMEONE else "once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater"  They may not think they are cheating now but they just cant help it.. They will never change!  Trust me Im a girl!!
863255
Yes, but it takes time and a huge commitment on both sides to make it happen!\n\nIf the person who cheated is willing to rebuild the trust they destroyed and the one cheated on is willing to work on forgiveness, than it is possible.  Difficult, but possible!
449676
NO! once a cheater always a cheater!