I got rejected by someone I work with. How am I supposed to act toward him now when I still like him?
146496
he's probably stil feeling his ex, and hasn't let go...let him deal with all that, act like it never happened and everything is all good, then let him come to you, and think twice about dating someone u work with, it gets complicated when it's over
68050
Could be the one for you.  Somewhere outside of work, you should let that person know the way you feel.  He/she may feel the same.  But be prepared for the worst, and if that is the case, you have to move on and forget about it.  If you don't think you will be able to do that, forget about it and move on because you two will have to work together.
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
854594
Guys will not answer this question as honestly as the girls.  Well some might, but they tend to be too brutal.\n\nHe isn't interested anymore.  He's trying to let you down easy, but only because you're a co-worker and he probably doesn't want a scene at work.  Are you sure he isn't married?\n\nThe sad part is that you didn't see it coming.  Forget this jerk.  The only explanation I can give you that doesn't involve him being a total jerk is that perhaps your company has a policy against fraternization and his boss found out and warned him off.\n\nEither way he doesn't want you, accept it and move on.
82916
if you're afraid of rejection, you're not ready.  Be casual.  Offer coffe or lunch or something, or invite him along to this or that place under the pretense that you're bored and/or lonely (but not pathetic).  You buy.  Get to be friends.  Maybe he'll look at you a little differently once he gets to know you a bit  :-)
116908
Hi ... He isn't married is he? If not married, do you know if he feels the same way about you? If you don't know if he feels the same way, maybe you can invite him out to dinner, a movie or the park with you. \n\nI say this because as someone else said he might be shy, he might feel the same way about you but is afraid to ask you out or let you know how he feels. \n\nIf there is something you know you both have in common, strike up a conversation about it and see where it goes. If you find he does feel the same way about you and he doesn't ask, then I would say, just blurt it out and just ask him if he would like to go out with you sometime. (sometimes guys need a little nudge .. lol)\n\nDoes the company where you work have rules about co-workers dating one another? If so this might be a problem. If not let your hair down and go for it !!!\n\nI wish you all the best life has to offer ... take care, buh bye.
1086191
How can I say this...um....GO GET YOUR MAN!  You need to track him down, tell him why you screwed up and hope for the best.\nRemember...you weren't ready then and you have to accept the fact that he might not be ready now. Rejection cuts deep.  Another point is you need to work out your own issues about why you wouldn't except that kind of love.  I mean if it's the kind that spells true committment, are you ready for that now?  And if you are not, leave that man alone. Don't drag him into a dead end situation. I mean let's face it...it takes two to make it work not one giving it all and the other hardly giving.
664199
I think you're basically in this boat: you either like him or you do not want to hurt him.  Just be sttraightforward, tell him you know that he likes you and if you like him ask him out.  And if you don't tell him that you do not feel the same way. He'll be hurt, but its better than stringing him along.
538749
Definitely wait until the job is finished... if he asks you out, be honest and say you are attracted to him and explain it is best that wait until the job is over.\n\nEnjoy!:)
783959
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
27406
remain friendly but find someone else to 'like'\n\nif he doesn't like you back, accept it.
1067998
Well if you like him to maybe you should give it a whirl. Don't reject him though. If your not interested tell him.
780194
There is no easy answer.  I felt like I spent the better half two years basically throwing myself at this guy I use to work with.  I never got any where.  We just remained good friends and now we just seemed to have gone down different paths and never see each other anymore.  Don't take it too hard if this happens.  It just means that you weren't meant to be together and you'll find the right guy down the road.
321734
He obviously likes you...thats for sure....just tell him what happened of course. Tell him you are having a problem with your account but that you did contact him and you'd like to get together....no biggy. :-) He looks sad but he'll get over it when he realizes what happened...its not like you rejected him...computers fault!
244018
Just sit him down and be truthfull say you do like him but arent ready to go to that step.  Let the pieces fall where they may.  At least he will respect your honest and truthfull approach.
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.