When you have to find out if your bestfriend is fake by other people is that wrong to stop talking to them????
148812
Its not wrong. Its understandable. You are hurt in your friendship and embarrased because you feel like a fool in front of these other people.
191896
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
807377
I dont think youre wrong at all. Any real friends would not tolerate someone talking about you in that way. Because they didnt stand up for you, they might as well have agreed with the jerk. What a slap in the face! Im so sorry. But it looks to me like it may be time to move on and make some new friends. Thats probably not what you want to hear but you are too good for them!
208674
Its a breach of trust between you and your so-called friend. It is public unless you can get it removed. How do you stop people looking? Your friend needs a kick in the morals.
1066974
okay, I'm not the best person to ask but, i personally think you should do something that would let your friend(s) see what he is doing is bad. Or you could catch him doing something wrong, and if those are your real friends, tell them and they should believe you.
399630
Unfortunately the only way to know if someone is a true genuine friend is time, be protective of yourself, and keep private things to you and the ones you KNOW you can trust, Those who are less genuine are masters at deception and is why many get hurt by trusting too soon. So by knowing this maybe you can keep your self safe from this more often.
581422
Forget about meeting people on "chat" or via internet. It's all an illusion and you will only be disappointed when you find out who they really are.
762110
I would end the relationship, and always wonder what other things I did not know about this person. People who do these heinous things can never really be "friends" with anybody, lest their secrets somehow be discovered. I'm sorry for you if you were duped. It is a real betrayal. Don't blame yourself in any way for not knowing. These people are experts at deception and duplicity. Good riddance is about all you can say.
549025
Well, I think it was a good thing that you called her on the false story.  Her reaction is typical for someone who has been CAUGHT.  She may have seen it as her opportunity to end the friendship of many years.  People change and interests change.  This might be a blessing in disguise for you.  If she is a gossip queen and you could care less about that - this may be your opportunity to focus on people who share your values.  HUGS TO YOU.  It is hard to lose a friend for any reason.
395365
Smile..... If you know they (the rumors) are not true it truly doesn't matter.  You are who you know your are and that is that. If it is true... then change it... if it is not then LIVE.  You are not made by what other people think of you but of what you know you are.
503028
just wanted to let you now that if you clam this person is your best friend,  if he or she was truly your best friend then you would still be talking because a best friend never stops talking they get over any problem they might have. good luck because if your friend is truly a friend what ever happened should never stop a friendship.
786828
Yes, I feel ya. I've experienced this or I would say flakes.. in other words. \n\nIts hard to know if someone is real but you just learn from your mistakes, its life. People grow up or just be more immature to act this way. If you keep acting like a good friend, a good friend will come around sooner or later.
975215
you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
858093
If she is spreading rumors about you...and not being truthful to you, she is not your friend.  Good friends are hard to find hon, but when you find them, it is a treasure.  Good luck in your search for one.
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
98815
if you are sure that they talked behined your back then they are not true frinds i think that you should find other real friends
1169279
So what if they are just friends. Your a little jelious and way to suspicisous unless you have reason to believe there is something more going on. But seeing that you know about it she must have showed it to you or told you about it. So really whats the problem.