what to do if you give a man back his ring and he throws it but now you are not mad and you want him back?
144820
u messed up!anyway u have to agree that u were on the wrong.and tell him how u feel,(truly feel) the truth matters now.and if u dont say what u feel u will regreat.so in other words just say the truth,what comes out from ur heart then let him take it the way he wants to take it.but u messed up and do u think if u were done for  the some thing u would want that person back to ur life.i dont think so coz the person will repect the same thing or in a different way.dont have ur hopes up.pray and let it be.
200914
I gave one guy a second chance and he did it again.  Proceed with caution.  If you're faithful you absolutely have the right to expect the same from return. He's accusing you because he'll feel better if you both did it.
396190
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
54368
Get the ring before you give it up. They'll stay a little longer, then  :)
10746
Dump the loser. He doesn't care about you.
992423
You can find your answers by testing his intentions. Do not give in to desire. tell him you are not willing to rush another shot. that if he is honest then he will understand. He had a chance and he threw it away and now he wants it back and this should not be given freely. make him earn your trust make him work and build a relationship. Do not allow passion until you know for sure. All men have sex on the mind it is part of our design. if he can accept your terms meaning that until your ready to trust him fully that no sex is happening and he is willing to work at it then I say this is the only way your going to know.\npersonally if I were a woman I tell him sorry you had your chance and I am so over you and walk away. but I am not you so I will wish for you the best and hope all turns out for you and you find your happiness.
420050
It's over forget about It. If he dosn't  apologize and admit what you did is stupid. I mean, why would you throw rocks in the first place?
626096
No she does not. An engagement ring is kind of like a trade or a deposit or something. When the man gives it to a woman, she is to marry him. If they don't marry, she has to give it back.\n\nAn engagement ring isn't a gift. It must be returned. Plus, those things cost an arm and a leg.
50846
Oh, Honey, how awful! I hope the original ring turns up but until then, here's what I would do...replace the ring and tell him AFTER he gets home...no reason to have him upset while he's deployed, but when he gets back you two can do something special, maybe recreate the proposal, with the new ring... I hope that your "real" ring turns up...it probably will, the day the jeweler is done resizing the new one....most of all,I hope his homecoming is swift and safe
41733
When my husband and i were planning our wedding, we went to purchase him a wedding ring. we went to a ma and pop jewelery store in the town that we live in(keep it in the community). He found one he liked and it had an Opal mount in it. Well we do construction for a living and neither one of us wear our rings to work. but we do at home and we do alot around our house. Over the first year his ring got bent all to hell. It was a very thin ring. So for our anniversary i wanted to have it remade. I had a bunch of scrap gold to put torwords the construction of the new ring to make it thicker. So I decided to take it back to the store we purchased it from.I explained the situation to the lady. NOT that the situation mattered.I just wanted to pay to make a new ring. She told me that I was lieing about him wearing the ring to work.In my own rage I argued it with her knowing the situation did not matter.I just Knew That bhe didnt.But she just knew that he did. I ended up taking the ring to a locl pawn shop and a jeweler there remade a Georgous replica of the origional and alot more durable
869381
Don't react.  And certainly don't OVERreact!\n\nAnswers to your questions:\n1.  He hopes that what he's doing is going to get you to react.  Any reaction from you will be interpreted as "caring".\n\n2.  Any sort of reaction.  Again, if you react you're feeding his ego.\n\n3.  No.  Altho it was stupid of him to violate the RO, there's really no real damage/injury.  On a single instance like this, NO court is going to hammer him (further feeding his ego with your reaction and lack of court action).  Ignoring it will be your best course of action since it was by phone (in person is totally different).\n\n4.  Men AND WOMEN really can be that dumb.\n\nYour best action is to be as calm, indifferent and COLD as you can.  The lack of reaction will hurt his effort.\n\nBest wishes.
17529
Hun, I'm so sorry. I think you have to let go. I know you don't want to hear this. But he has to make his own mistakes. Stay strong......keep your dignity. If he comes back.....you will feel that you did the right thing and he will need to prove himself again. Just be strong and don't stop being you.
447588
try to get him back dear
28120
YES, YES, YES!! It is more than worth the wait. It's better to wait, than not to wait and regret it. What you have is very precious. You can only give it away once. Let it be to your husband. He will appreciate that you guarded something just for him. It's the most loving thing you can do for your future. There's just so many reasons to guard what you have. Many will tell you it's no big deal...because they already gave theirs away. It IS a big deal. Take it from one who gave it away at 18 and regretted it very much later. Even though my hubby forgave me for the loose life I had led before we got married, I still have all those memories of wasting myself on jerks and idiots. All they wanted was a good time. All I wanted was someone to love me. The guy I married? He's the only one who didn't want to use me like that. He wanted more than a one night stand. Don't think that passing up those guys was a mistake, especially if they didn't want to get to know you as a person without getting the perks first. You just continue guarding what you have. I'm sure there's a guy out there who will appreciate it very much...with a wedding ring. <*)))><
104377
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
282391
#1 Sorry you are upset and that your relationship ended badly.\n\n#2 NEVER give away something that was in your family to anyone. He can consider it a gift and choose not to return it. \n\n#3 Write him a letter and send it certified mail, restricted delivery, return receipt requested. Explain why the bracelet is important to you and ask fot it back without mentioning anything about breaking up or your hurt. Make the letter only about the bracelet. Enclose a self addressed, stamped envelope in the letter so he can mail it back to you without confrontation. By it being restricted delivery, his parents cannot sign for the letter nor can they refuse delivery. It has to be taken care of by him. Make sure that you fill out the envelope that you want him to return it in also as a certified letter etc. and keep a copy of the tracking # that is on there. That way he cannot say he sent it when he did not, because then you can track it online. Good Luck!
632593
Confront him and Break your engagement, his not worth it, you deserve better. Dont let him sweet talk you, he did it once, he'll probably try again if you give him a second chance