If you can enjoy yourself, why can’t you enjoy anyone else?
148299
That is a very odd question. I'd say make everyone else happy and you'll enjoy yourself, but that doesn't quite fit. Enjoying other people is a matter of choice. You are not obligated to like or dislike someone. All you have to do is relax, and find what's worth getting to know someone in those you do not enjoy.
1132
Relationships with others enrich one's own life.  While living for one's self can be rewarding in a more immediate sense, helping others give a sense of gratification that can't be matched by egoistic tendencies.
462221
Most often people feel lonely because they haven't learned to love themselves very much. Often it's because they spend so much time trying to please others or to be all things to all people that they don't take the time to learn what THEY need themselves. It's hard, but you need to learn to be happy with yourself, about yourself, and by yourself. If you can do this, then you will not find yourself lonely, or needy. In turn, others won't be turned off by you because you seem lonely, and sad, and needy. You will suddenly appear more interesting and desirable to someone else. It may sound contradictory, but I think you will find many people will agree with me.
144325
I used to be just like that. You have to realize that you have to please yourself before you can really please anyone else. Don't go through your life regreting what you did not do and resenting someone else because of the choices that you yourself made. Try it slowly at first and see how it works for you. You will be surpised at how much better you will feel. Take baby steps. The world was not made in a day.
115185
Because it is fun.  Nothing gives a person a better feeling than to do that.
1187929
It's possible to be with one person and never HAVE anyone else.  I very much doubt that one would never WANT anyone else. \n\nVariety is the spice of life.
175860
Not just anybody.  It takes someone special such as myself.
1006159
Sure can in more ways than you could ever imagine when young.  Age is not the cause of people not having fun.  Health can but most of the time it is their attitudes.  I am not so far from that age and have no intention of giving up having a hell of a good time the rest of my life.
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thats funny!! but its b/c ur own hands cant please or mess with ur senses silly. i think, i dunno. cuz u can scratch ur own itch and massage ur self i dunno maybe u can but it just aint as funny like if u PLEASE ur self it is ok but it feels better when somebody else does it. yeah  thats it
181487
We can only try - but to understand ourselves, we need to be absolutely honest with ourselves.\nOnce we truly understand ourselves, then perhaps we can know what we want from ourselves and others.\nBeing honest with others would help in this process, methinks....
190188
Nor again is there anyone who loves or pursues or desires to obtain pain of itself, because it is pain, but because occasionally circumstances occur in which toil and pain can procure him some great pleasure. To take a trivial example, which of us ever undertakes laborious physical exercise, except to obtain some advantage from it? But who has any right to find fault with a man who chooses to enjoy a pleasure that has no annoying consequences, or one who avoids a pain that produces no resultant pleasure?"\n\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
190229
Other people can't make you happy. Your happiness is dependent on how you choose to react to the world and the people around you.
1169113
there is no right or wrong\n\nits your sexuality to enjoy \n\ndont seek or accept others judgment
674160
Yes, in a way, you can. That is, if you equate loneliness with boredom. Exciting people are never bored. If you focus on your interests and spend time doing things you feel a passion for, you will love yourself and have less need for others to validate your existence. Then again, I suppose you might come around to wishing you had someone to share your passions with...
730293
You can't by yourself.
933091
If you try to mirror others, you'll eventually lose all sense of yourself. AND, besides, it is just not possible to be all things to all people.\nIn short, "to thine own self be true." In the long (and short) run, you'll be a lot happier and certainly more satisfied.
989246
Have fun with yourself.