WHY MEN ARE SUCH CHEATERS? I don't understand why they can't commit to 1 girl? Can any men answer that?
145027
Whoa, calm down kid! I am a woman, and I find it rather unfair and immature to assume all men are cheaters. Women cheat on men too. Ever wonder about that? Not all men are bad. Not all women are bad. Just accept the fact that some people are jerks, and some aren't. Then move on with your life.
339189
I think two timing boyfriends are Yerkes, and don't deserve any women's time of day. Once you find out a guy cheated move on and don't look back believe me it's hard to change a cheating dog.  I learned the hard way.
575062
i hate to say it but men are selfish...i think they will always continue to cheat because they just cant control themselves if another woman happens to show interest. if he cheated once yeah he prob will cheat again but its not ur fault he just doesnt respect himself how could he respect you?
810262
I reckon he has cheated, or at least he's trying to convince you that cheating is normal and happens more than you think. As one of the other answerers is hinting at, this guy is possibly a player. I'm not going to pass judgement on the chap and you have to allow for the possibility that this thought may just have occurred to him in the course of a conversation. If you question him and he says that that is what happened then give him the benefit of the doubt. (Something similar happened to me once, and my gf didn't take me at my word - very annoying, end of relationship)\n\nBut, to be honest, as a player, if I was asking a girl how she knows that her past lovers never cheated, it would be to sow the seeds of doubt in her mind for either of the following reasons: a) to convince a girl with a bf that he is cheating on her and so she should cheat on him with me (evil, I know - I've never done it, but I'd say it'd work); or b) to convince a girl I was seeing that cheating is normal, and happens all the time and people should be open about it: basically grooming her for an open relationship.\nI think the latter is most likely in your scenario. Find out a bit more about him and see if he has a little black book! Ask him what he thinks of open relationships. \nIf that wouldn't suit you then get the hell out as the cheating will hurt you, even if the sex is amazing.
776226
Not all men are unfaithful, it's an equally viable point that BOTH parties of sex, male and female at some point have tendencies to CHEAT...yet are ALL people....not just men...not just women..do all PEOPLE cheat? NO.  I sure as hell don't cheat...never have and never will.  My grandparents never cheated on each other, my best friend never cheated on his woman...my mother never cheated on my father...so far i know a lot of people who haven't cheated on each other.  So NO....not all freakin PEOPLE are unfaitfhul. Unfortunately you just got caught up with one of the weak losers that just can't keep it in one spot.  You know you should thank the fact that some people even TRY to be faithful...if you lived as different animal, say monkey, mouse,  bird, you would've been cheated on  right in your face and it would've been ACCEPTED as a natural order of things.... we are all a 'species' here...apparently animal instincts aren't too far from our own.  \nBUT thankfully we don't live by such a promiscuous code...least not all of us.....so fortunately for you, there ARE people who believe in one and only one for life.  Now your problem is just getting involved with those people, but then that becomes a problem when most women are attracted to scum, cheaters, and assholes....and all the decent men are either considered gay, weak, not their type, or  a woman more sensible or more inteligent then the majority of women got him first....survival of the fittest eh?
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.
139664
If they can put in the effort and have the determination to settle down with that special someone then sure. Most players/cheaters can do this, others are just fixated in their own realities of having more than one girlfriend/boyfriend. It all just depends I guess; but, I think that if they strived to be with just one person and not stray from their relationship, then yes I think they can.
621017
i think that many men that cheat, don't cheat for the love, it is sex,or being bored with their current, g/f o. wife..ect, They don't do it like women. Women cheat for feelings, unless they are just horney, and are not getting what they want from their man/partner. Women seem to want the relationship and the feelings to be deeper than a man wants. Not that men do not have deep feelings....many men love very much, but it seems that many women cheat much more than men these days? women seem to be cheating quite a bit..the big stereotype of only men cheating has totally turned!
117319
man what is it with women ?do you girls love being crapped on cuz if a guy figures out that you will stick with him threw all the crap and cheating he does 2 U ,he will keep doing it so just a quick bit of advice i am sorry 4 the shit i put my wife threw but she should have left me B4 we got married cuz if i was her there is no way in h-ll i wood have put up with me but i also learned from her how 2 treat a women better some guys will never learn that for the most part leave him cuz if he wants you he will prove that you r the women he wants "I DID 2 MY WIFE" good luck
600835
When you find out where to find them let me know!  I work with a lot of police officers from different agencies so I'm around men all the time.  It seems they all want crazy women.  I'm strong and independent, almost to a fault... so I know what you are talking about.  Just know that it isn't anything that you do or don't do that make them wander.  Some men just cheat.  Some cheat because of reasons they think justify it.  I think there is no justification. period.  I have a lot of male friends and I could tell ya some stories!  (probably a lot of the reasons I'm single)  Don't get me wrong, MOST of the ones married don't cheat and are great guys.  But to some, it is a sport.  Feel free to email if you want to talk about it more.
550555
There is no one answer as to why men are unfaithful.  Some men cheat when things start getting too serious in a relationship.  Some men cheat because they are just true dogs and think they can get away with it.  Some men cheat because their woman lets them get away with it.  Some men allow themselved to get caught up in emotions with another woman and things go too far.  But please know, that not all men cheat.  There are some good ones out there, sometimes it's just hard to find them.
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
85859
i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world
302144
Why would a man want a women that was in love with 2 men? It seems you have a need that is not met yet... Faithfullness and honesty.
485882
Any ladies out their that suspect their guy is cheating on them is because they are feeling insecure and they dont trust their men. So for you ladies out their let me tell u trust your men and try to stop feeling so insecure. If your men leaves you for some other chick this might mean he wasnt for you. take care to all.
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
601760
not all men are unfaithful.\n\nwhy do women think that that all men play away, women are jsut as  likely as well.\n\nsaying that is a sexist generalisation of men.\nmany men are extremely loyal to there partners