do ladies think the samething as men think when they see a good looking man?
147267
nope! We usually wonder how much money is in the bank first!
1043294
I am honestly not believing some of these answers. lmao. Yes men are men and no not every does it. and don't believe for a minute that its because he finds you lacking and them not. what the heck ppl!! my honest belief. I think you have people that just simply enjoy people. I watch people all day long, men and women. It dont make me a bad person, nor a lesbian. I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I like how a woman can carry herself, and how she may or may not use her hands to talk. The way she tries to act like she dont realize she is being looked at. A smile. on either a woman or mans face, is a wonderous thing. Just so on how their lips lift slighty at the edges. Its either an amused smile, or a happy smile. Come on.. It does not have to be a bad thing. If you can't beat um join um. I point out women for my husband to look at. To show him, I too can recongnize a looker, but it also lets him know. I am aware of what and who he is looking at, without causing offense. Good luck hon:)
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I personally know a lot of men who appreciate beauty. But men do like to look at things that catch their attention from time to time. Even women look at attractive things. Its just human nature. \n\nMen do want pretty wives. Some men could have problems later on in their marital life. This problem stems from the insecurities that a man might have. I know of a few cases where the guy was so overly possessive because his wife's really good looking and he thinks that every other guy is ogling her.  Personally speaking, I never judge a person by their looks. It's just plain wrong to do so and downright nasty. \n\nAnd by the way, i do not think that you look ugly. I believe that no one has the moral right to belittle anyone because they do not look like models. What do looks prove anyway?? Absolutely nothing!! If i wanted to know a person, I'd be concentrating on their personality rather than on their looks.
856088
You really think women are interested in what men have to say?  I don't think so!  We just do a better job of making you think we are!!  Believe me, I'm looking at my watch just as often as you!!!
301286
no. i think it is a coplement cause as a guy i look for personality and if they look good it's a bonus. I don't mean that as an insult though. If you had said that to me i would have been even more in love( if that was the case).
612025
How unfortunate that women think that way, yes.  But I don't abide by that whatsoever.  I wanted a good guy from the very beginning.  The only thing that made me go for teh bad boy instead was the lame reasoning, "you're too good for me".  Of course, the same generalization can be said for men too.  "All they want are women that put out". \nBottom line, I think good guys are wonderful; and I'm sure many women would agree with me.  So they're not flashy like corvettes, and are more like honda Civics.  ^^ Get a beautiful honda, you'll be so glad you did.
388892
The two are not mutually exclusive.  There are other attributes in women men appreciate such as kindness, intelect, talent, humor, poise, the list continues....
939327
it depends on the man.  but don't dwell over it men like women that are confident about who they are. be happy. :)
92535
you'll know it when u meet someone and it kinda strikes u.. then you'll that she's ideal for u... No such thing as an ideal woman for a guy.. like the saying goes 'Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder'
380046
Well first off, I'm checking out your pic, just to let ya know.  Same way guys check women but not so obviously, we look, do a double take and smile if you look our way.  Or if we are outgoing, we might approach you and talk.  Watch our eyes, we like same stuff men do, nice bodies.  I love nice big arms and hard firm pecs.
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Yes, in fact i think you will find that most men who after seeing an average looking womens personallity shine they begin to really see her as more physically attractive. I know i do.\n\nSo yes, i hope so that is becuase i am average looking at best so i hope this standard works both ways.
128819
When a guy sees an attractive girl, there's an instant "blip" in his head of whether or not she's cute.  It's not even a thought, really, it happens faster than a thought, it's only like a quarter second, and no words go through a guy's mind in that first blip.\n\nBut after the first quarter second is where guys start to respond differently.\n\nSome guys stare.  Some guys let it pass out of their minds without much thought.  Some guys make obscene comments.  Some guys have sex thoughts.  Some guys think of it like God's art.\n\nI'm single right now, so after that initial blip, sometimes nothing happens, sometimes it's just eye contact, or maybe I'll look for an obvious conversation or say hi if I can.\n\nBut when I'm in a relationship, I let the moment go without giving it much thought.\n\nMaybe in five years, maybe after he's been dumped a few times, he'll realize he needs to adjust his m.o.  : )
522941
Men have short attention spans.  They know they are with you and love you but then OH LOOK! SHINY! And then it's back to you.  Nothing to worry about - we're just checking out the latest fashion designs ;-)\n\nSeriously, it's nothing to worry about.  We just like looking at good looking women and it's nothing more or deeper than that.
558100
It depends on the person who calls them beautiful.  Even within the television "beauties" people's opinions differ on who is beautiful and who is not.  When I've let myself get beyond the surface (upon meeting a nice guy), I've noticed that his character overshadows his looks.  I hope that is true for women.
623310
confidence, sense of humour, is genuinely a nice person. also, when a man is "less good looking" than a man, the woman might feel she has more power. also, she might have been cheated on in the past, and with a fat man, she might think he wouldn't do that.
792049
Like many of the above experts said, I often look for some part of me in a woman. I really didn't know how to explain it before , but thanks to those experts above, now I know what I look for in woman---- me. I am often attracted to women who tend to behave and act like me. So if you think the man you are looking for has many similiarities to you , you bet he is gonna like you.
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wadda ya think?\nthey may like your "looks" good looks do attract, and/or who you are as a person!