how to win people's confidence easily - a few tips ?
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The first issue is that you have good confidence in yourself.\nThen the outward reflection of what goes on within you ( good appearance, smile, warm handshake, listen attentively, be emphatic & be good!!!)
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PAy attention to what people are saying and show interest, so the conversation can flow. Ask questions, comment, make eye contact, and know what ur talking about. Don't fake like u know about something when u don't. NOBODY likes a liar!!! Be CONFIDENT
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try a few new things. as you bebecome sucessful at small tasks your confidence will grow
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Tips For "Shaking Your Shyness"\n\n1.Conversation topics-never leave home without them.\n2.Let people know you're shy.\n3.Reward effort not outcome!\n4.Make things easy for the other person.\n5.Pick one social skill to practice at a time\n6.Take classes \n\nConversation Topics-never leave home without them.    Good conversationalists are rarely at a loss for words because: 1) they do so many things and go so many places that they have lots to talk about or 2) they prepare.  Good conversationalists never leave home without something to say to the people they think they'll be seeing that day.  If they're going to a party, they brush up on topics of interest to the people they know will be attending.  Before returning to work on a Monday, they think about the activities their colleagues had planned for the weekend.  They brush up on current events, the weather and anything else that might be the small-talk they need to get a conversation going or to keep it going.  Never leave home without at least a half-dozen things to talk about.\n\n   2.\n\n      Let people know you're shy.  This is a controversial subject.  Some people recommend that you never tell people you're shy, because people will use that information to label you.  Then again, if you avoid people, look down instead of making eye contact, stammer and stutter or turn three shades of purple when you're uncomfortable in social situations, people are going to draw conclusions of their own and odds are they'll be less favorably impressed with you than if you just tell it like it is---that you're nervous or feeling shy.\n\n      I think the problem arises because there are two ways to be shy---the obvious way and the not so obvious way.  The obvious way to be shy is to blush, tremble, twitch or otherwise physically manifest your shyness.  The not so obvious way is to avoid eye contact with people, not have much to say or decline offers from others you'd like to accept, but that are too far outside of your comfort zone for you to feel comfortable attending. \n\n   3.\n\n      Reward effort not outcome!   Memorize this one, because it's absolutely critical for conquering your shyness---or anything else you want to master, for that matter.  The only thing we can control in our life is our self---and even that can be a stretch sometimes.  We can't control other people and we certainly can't control how other people react to us and the things we do.  Nevertheless, most of us define our successes and failures by the way other people relate to us.  If we smile and they smile back, well good.  But if we smile and they don't smile too, we see it as a failure.  WRONG!!!   You won't get very far that way. \n\nIn fact, at least  in my book, what you did was a smashing success.  You tried.  You made an effort and that's all you can be responsible for.  You can't control how other people respond to you.  Sure, you can look back on your effort and speculate about things you can do to improve your performance next time, but at that very moment--at the precise time that you smiled, you made an effort and it's your effort that needs to be rewarded.\n\n   4.\n\n      Make things easy for the other person.  This is a tuff one, because as shy people, most of us are too busy worrying about ourselves---about how we look, what we say and whether other people will like us--- to stop and think about what we can do for other people.  But really, that's what being social is about---the other person, not us.  Dale Carnegie knew that.  He built a career on teaching people how to make other people feel good.  In his book How to Win Friends and Influence People, he lists principle after principle for putting people at ease and helping them feel special.   \n\n5.Pick one social skill to practice at a time.  You don't need to become a social butterfly overnight--and it's unlikely you could if you tried.  What you can do
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People are most impressed in those situations by sincerity, letting yourself come through, if it is natural to you to use some humor then do so.  Don't try to be too clever, or too impressive, that usually comes across as false.  Be yourself, and emphasize what makes you unique, special, and interesting, your strengths.
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Be confident and don't talk alot...
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smile, say hi, and think to yourself "they aren't judging me, they are interested in me if they make eye contact, I shouldn't shut them out." it's all about confidence. be confident in yourself and think positively. i used to be very shy and would always have my head down. but i started feeling more confident as i started a new job, or a new class or met more new people. everyone is sorta thinking the same thing. you have nothing to lose!
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Have confidence!  You can fake it till you make it, but you should look as though you are comfortable in front of that crowd.  Now, how do you begin to gain that confidence?  PRACTICE - the better you know your stunts, cheers, dances, etc. the better you will do.  You should know the moves so well that they become second nature to you.  Then, when the moves are ingrained and easy, you can concentrate on your facials (smiling), voice control (loud and clear), and your attitude!  It is hard work, but VERY possible.  The better shape you are in, the better.  Practice in front of the mirror or video yourself to see what needs improvement and what you do well!  HAVE FUN!
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I think talking first to people he/she can trust and who will make her/him feel comfortable, or talking about easy things first. \nMay be first through jokes. \nTwo glasses of wine...\nIt could have a relation with confidence (either towards others , either toward oneself), so to build confidence?\nReally difficult to answer.\nVery interesting question !
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build up some confidence you little sh**
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I was much like you, but I have gained alot of confidence by working out at a gym, playing tennis, taking aerobics, karate, going for a run...Any physical activity is good, it releases chemicals from the brain that help releave stress and make you feel better. Also,in public you could try helping someone less fortunate and giving compliments to people.
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have confidence! and smile a lot!!
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be confident in who you are.dnt let the b@stards get you down.always try to be better than the next person.if you cant be better then be the same as them.
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Hi,\nIt's important that you understand what you're talking about - this will give you confidence. Also don't try to rush through it, give yourself time to breathe. A lot of help can be found on the site below, both on interviews and speaking in public in general.
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Of course! Everyone is attracted to confidence and when you take a leap and make a move, you exude confidence! Listen to that little voice inside and hurry up! Best of luck to you!
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First improve your body language. Sit up straight, always have a slight smile on your face even if you are not doing anything(this encourages people to be open to you and even ask what your thinking), look directly at the person so they will feel trust. Ask questions and really listen to the answers.
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Believe in yourself ie your thoughts, what you want to tell them , your dressing, your all - I mean just everything that makes you. That way you'll definitely be more confident infront of anybody.