if we argue i say to make up make love what do you think?
155764
that happens in marriages alot...its more of a tension breaker to get things out in the open and get closer.
263719
Either you like to argue or you have some issues between you that affect how you communicate to each other in a positive way.  If you really love her then talk to her about the effect the arguing is having on you and your relationship with her.  Long term relationships are not easy and I say that from experience...but they also can be the blessing of your lifetime too.
220570
Let's make it simple, "I love you and I'm in love with you, what do you think that." when wait for your friend's answer.
968032
Do you want to be in a relationship where you always argue or just argue occasionally?\n\nIf you're not happy and fighting all the time just move on.\n\nIf you can do better you should.
918133
Look at me, what do you think I would say.
363452
nice question!\nI'd try to make them argue. You can poison the girl\nor the boy with your ideas, make them think that one\nof that is cheating...
652764
We take turns I think...\nI say we join forces and teach the world how to love yes?
815050
If anyone ever tells you that they do not fight in a relationship...do not believe them.  As long as your communication is there and you work through the arguements - you will be fine.  Just do your best to not bring up the past, no name calling, no physical abuse, no destroying property.  It's OK to argue just do it constructively.  You both need to listen to what the other is saying.  You will be fine.  Good Luck!
819148
One person can't argue by himself. Friends and lovers argue most when they're trying to change each other. If you love this guy with all your heart, accept him as the imperfect and frustrating person he is, and cherish him in spite of his faults. Don't try to change him. And refuse to be pulled in arguments. Let him argue by himself if he wants. You can rise above it if you try. Try to see the petty stuff for what it is: a waste of time to bother with.
685599
Agree. Arguments can be healthy for a relationship sometimes too. Means your not just giving in to keep the peace, but can stay yourself.
57778
The relationship should not end\nThen again coz both of them are stubborn , no one wants to be the first to "make up", so the relationship remains strained.\nIt should not be so , but it is.\nMost of the time it is due to selfishness.
175788
it's ok to disagree. i prefer to verbally challange each other on topics, so that you can gain some insights that you have never thought of. you can understand your partner better. \nbut i think listening & respect are more important. it makes maturity.
432341
That's a good ? because there is a upside to this as well as a down side. The upside is, it can be the best sex you could ever experience. With all the emotions from whatever you were arguing or disagreeing about being thrust together in such sudden elevation of exctasy.\nThe down side is most of the time you never resolve the issue at hand. Usually when you have make up sex either party initiates it to prevent from adressing the situation that was before them. More than likely that situation is going to come up soon or later and what are you going to do have sex each and everytime.
19053
i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not
991811
When you've had an argument or a fight\nwhether it is big or small...\nWhen you're not talking to each other much\nmaybe not at all...\nWhen you want everything to be fine,\nyou want to kiss and make up...\nAll it takes is for one of you\nto use the Forgiveness Cup.\nReach for it, fill it up\npresent it as a token.\nYour love will know what it means,\nno words need to be spoken.\nIf your love drinks from the cup,\nthings are on the mend.\nShare this way to forgiveness\nfor true love that never ends.
615411
If you are making love at the time, tell her how much you want her, tell her how she makes you feel.  Tell her what you want to do to her and her to you.  If you're not making love, whisper you love her, tell her how much you need her in your life and how important she is to you.
508339
First off, if you care for this man, you should also care for his point of view and his opinions. Arguments are an interchange of ideas, a way at arriving at some final truth. You seem to use them as a way to dominate the man you supposedly "love".\n\nIt sounds as though, during an argument, if you don't win the fight, you withhold sex, thereby "punishing" BOTH of you! Who wins then?  If you feel sex is something you can use to bludgeon your partner into giving in everytime you two argue, I predict a long, lonely life for you. I hope you'll grow up and realize that's not love, that's a power trip. Love is a state of mind where you're only happy if the person you love is happy. I cannot believe either of you is happy after you finish an argument.