what if you have a girlfriend, but this other girl that is really your type wants you?
146579
If you are having this kind of a delimma, you may not be ready to be in an involved relationship.  You need to find someone you can date and have fun with but not be seriously involved with.  It is hardly fair to the person you are allegedly committed to for you to be considering a hookup.
574683
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
516293
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
81900
try be-friend them both and discover who suit to be your girlfriend better and go for the one, the other one will just have to stays friend. Give your self time, you need time to know their individual character.
255991
I would say not the first one because she is willing to sleep with others until you decide you want to have sex with her. I wouldn't choose the second either because you said it she has emotional issues, you would just be taking advantage of her if you did date her. The third nothing really wrong with her unless you have a problem with long distance relationships. So if I were you I would choose the sorority girl but not because of her looks.
948047
Show her that you have feelings for her. Make the other chick get the stepping.
1139237
Hm, a girl who likes you and probably wants to get with you told you something about your girlfriend.\n\nSo.. that you guys would fight and maybe you would break up with her and be single (and possibly date the new girl).\n\nWell, who do you think has a motive to be lying?
233318
This is too confusing.  Why did you say "she might already like you"? If she was your girlfriend already, isn't she supposed to like you - even more than like you? Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend anyway?
436459
I've kind of had a similar problem (although vice versa cause I'm a girl) in the past..First you need to to figure out your feelings for each girl, and decide who you want to be with. If you choose your girlfriend, you need to be honest with your friend, and tell her that she had her chance, and now you have a girlfriend, and she needs to respect that. And she doesn't have to like her, but for the sake of friendship she needs to tolerate her.. And then tell your girlfriend, that YOU chose her, you chose to be w/ her.. and she needs to respect your friendship with someone else, and its not fair of her to tell you who your friends can and cannot be.. \nIF, however you choose the friend, you have to be honest with your girlfriend, and tell her that you need to explore whatever the connection to your friend is.. and that you're sorry..\nThe thing is, even though there is a connection with your friend, It sounds as though she likes the chase, because she could had you at one time and she chose not to.. and NOW that you're taken she wants you.. just because there's a connection, doesn't mean she isn't playing a game, even if she doesn't know shes playing a game.. she is..
292627
There is the girl your comfortable with and know that you can depend on then there is the girl that's hot and true challenge to you, which is why you like her I bet.  I guess the answer to your question depends on what you want from these girls.  You can choose reliable or you can choose fun and adventerous yet a challenge.  Depends on what your looking for from these women.
301205
Yes.It is a way to tell you that she does not want to be your girlfriend. I am guessing that the girl in question is trying not to hurt your feelings by blowing you off completely,or she really wants to keep you as a friend but would rather date another person
1129243
i think it sounds like she has someone else hitting up on her and she wants to be with you but finds something interesting about the other one.
1077699
That is not fair 2 the girls. u need 2 dump 1, but stick with the other 1. u should keep the 1 that is ok with u havin 2 girls. she seems loyal & obviously ♥ u....a lot.\nDon't keep these relationships up, or ur gonna loose both the girls.\nHave a great Day!! :-)
152156
SO WHAT!?! You have a right to date whomever you choose. You can't go wrong with your heart, and she's YOUR girlfriend. It's what you prefer. Tell who ever dislikes you girl's looks to stop looking then! Listen, which is more important-- 15 min of fame or someone you care for, maybe even love. Eventually, the fame will die or get boring. Do what you think is right, though.If she's just another girl, who you might break up w/ at any moment, you might want to consider this. Not for popularity points, but for the obvious, not to give her the wrong message.\n Good luck, And be true to yourself!
745200
if she likes someone else, you need to find someone intrested in yourself...otherwise you are wasting time..
159418
All girls have different preferences....  You'll have to check with the particular girl your concerned with.
322509
Tell her that you are not interested in her and you already have a GF.