my girl love me but she is also still in love with someoneelse what should i do please help?
143798
Thats not a good situation,shes putting you in limbo with the other guy,thats not true love,she is comparing the both of you,she loves only one of you but cannot make up her mind which one.Be very careful with your heart,if she cant let go of that other guy,you could end up getting very hurt.Have a serious discussion with her,and tell her your not going to be held in limbo,if she truly loves you,she will forget the other guy,if not you just might have to move on.
1126393
First of all, make sure that you're actually in love with her or not.  A lot of people aren't mature enough to even know what love feels like, I even struggle with it myself sometimes.  Be patient, but if a long period of time passes by and she still doesn't answer you, put some pressure on her to make a decision because sometimes that's the only way.
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
310491
you know the answer, turn them both down. one doesnt love you, you don't love the other, find someone who loves you and that you love
108510
Accept the fact that it takes two people who both love eather other to have a relationship and as much as you wish that was with this person it isn't.  You deserve to let yourself move on and find someone who will want your love and give you their love back in return.
307998
You love who you love.  If you think you are in love with her, see if she is into you and then go from there.
257113
tell her how much you feel for her, if she doesn't feel the same, move on man! You have done and said what you are supposed to.
92377
The question you should ask is " Am i the only one in love in this relationship?"  if she's going out with "her friend" all the time there is something wrong there. She's cheating on your in front of your eyes. Sweetie!! you need someone that want to be with you and willing to be there for you no matter what and still give you some room but be respectful to you and the relationship. Good luck!! !I hope you make the right choice..
649280
You can't make somebody love you.  It's something you feel in your heart.  Don't rush her into anything or she may resent you later on down the line.  If you truly love her you will wait until she's ready.
422097
hmmm... this is tough.. when my guy told me this.. i believed him because he treats me right..\ni know you've been a good b/f to her! because only someone who is really in love would ask for other ppl's help because they want to know what's best for their girl... i think you should take her somewhere nice.. then tell her :)\nbut take it slow, so she knows that you truly care\nhope this helps
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
1162117
i know it is hard to let someone go  when your in love but sometimes its the best thing to do. She knows that you in love with her and she thinks your never going anywhere so she is playing with your emotions. as long as you let her walk over you she is going to do if she love you so much and want to marry you  she would do anything in her power to make your realtionship work. but believe me she going do what she wants to . you need to show her your strong and you deserve someone that will respect and love not some on thats wants her cake and eat it to. believe she come around and when she does it will be to late because you moved  on the old saying goes you never miss a good thing untill its gone. i hope you are strong enough to let her go . i wish you the  best of luck keep me updated
567709
she do love u and words for the love she have for u is unexplainable.. sometimes ppl say words cant xplain the love they have for someone.. that can be true
493581
dear jeeyaa, u still have a chance to love someone younger than her.. i prefer u to forget her.. find a new girl.. u cant support her.. she's too old for u..
349582
you can do nuthing if a girl has given her heart to someone else but wait for her to change her decision on her own. in teh mean time what you could do is to be nice to her, be a good friend and in your own way take care of her not infringing upon her space or privacy. be true to her, and for god's sake dont build up things to break her away from teh guy she loves or matter may get worse. be a good person that i believe you are, and all shall be good. even then if she does'nt turn around to you, trust me, someone far better than her is awaiting you in her life.\n\nP.S. just look around yourself and see to it that you are not treating someone as you are being treated by this girl?
1063997
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
235672
Sorry to hear about your pain, but there is absolutely nothing that you can do about now except for learn your lesson and move on.  Now, perhaps when you find a special girl that you fall in love with again, you won't wait to let her know!!\n\nPlease, do NOT tell her now - it would do no good and only stress her out.  That's not fair to either of you.