Is my guy telling the truth?
142260
yes you should be mad for not telling you, think about it. if he didnt tell you that thing being so small and simple and something that he didnt even initiate then image what hes NOT telling you! keep asking and be persistant
222611
If it seems like he's making it up to you, then he probably is.  Here's a few questions to ask him if you're IM'ing him.  If he answers wrong or takes way to long, then he's full of it.\n\n-Ask what his MOS number is (four digits, first two are the field, last two are the specialty)\n-Ask where he went to MOS school (you can verify this info later)\n-Ask what he got on his last PFT (Physical fitness test), and when he took it.  If he says he took it recently while he was deployed, then he's probably bs'ing you.  Deployed Marines hardly ever take PFT's.\n-Ask what unit he's in, then find out later if they're really stationed there.\n\nOr you can find out his name and rank, tell me, and I'll tell you if he really is a Marine and where he is stationed if he is.\n\nAlso, just make sure that you ask these questions in  a "roundabout" way.  Don't sound like you're interrogating him!
917744
It is in the details.  Guys lie in color.  They give you details you didn't ask for, want or are not part of the conversation.  If you pay attention they will slip up in some manner.  They always do and the truth comes out.  Be patient and you will find out soon enough.
879018
you could always take the risk and tell the truth ... well, i know what ur trying to say here and personally what I can say... if ur both nuts about each other, there is a big possibility that the girl already knows about that little secret of yours and she is just waiting for you to admit about that lie you made...
1099608
Has your man always been up front and honest with you?  What reason would he have for lying to you and keeping you hanging on?  How often do you talk?  My cousin is going through a similar problem (though not married) and I asked her what she would do to move on if he was lying - though with this particular guy it would be a shock.  She replied that she would go out with her friends and socializing soooooo. . . going out with friends and meeting new people is not cheating.  If you meet some other guy you like more in the process then it was meant to be.  \nIf this girl knew about you why would SHE still be with him?  Sounds like she may be trying to start problems so she can have a shot.  Then again, why is he friendly with this "crazy liar"?  You should know his nature well enough to answer these questions yourself, but I understand it never hurts to get a second opinion.  \nBest of luck with everything.
1186210
just tell him the truth, if you think he's not much of a jerk. if he is a jerk, come up with some female problems, most guys dont wanna know about that kind of stuff :)
1031622
NO!! girl, be happy ur man was honest enough to tell you the truth... most men would have said "don't worry bout it" or "she's my homegirl". this guy must really care for you if he didn't go thru with it, i mean seriously for a guy to back out of something like that takes alot of will-power and he even told you the truth. honestly, something like this shows me that not all men are the same and this guy really does love you, hold onto him...
27408
I suggest you ask him and explain why you are asking him , has he given you reason to think he is ? Or do you have trust issues ? Your best bet is to talk to him and be honest seeing as though that is what you would want from him right ?
704166
They don't all lie.  There are lots of guys who are honest.  \n\nJust me, but I figure if it's a little thing, then there's no point in lying about it unless the liar is looking for control, amusement, self-aggrandizement, or is just a compulsive liar.  If it's any of those things, how does anyone possibly trust him?  Without trust what kind of real relationship can you have?  Not much of one, for sure.\n\nIf it's a big thing he's lying about, the fact that it's a big thing is all the more reason to tell the truth!\n\nThe issue is much deeper than lying and it's not something you can fix.\n\nThere ARE guys out there who are honest.  As long as women continue to date liars, they'll continue to lie.
110077
Is he your "guy" or just a friend? Ask him, he may see things differantly or have a logical explanation.
20906
I'd go with your gut instinct on this one - if you honestly feel that he is playing around with you, and he won't commit, then chances are he's either afraid to commit or never took it seriously in the first place. If you feel that you're up to the challenge, direct confrontation may be the best thing. Tell him that you want the honest truth, but be prepared to live with an answer that you may not like.
652327
when you are asking this question, he probably is! Ditch him. you shouldn't be asking this if you felt secure!
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
984899
I wouldn't believe him, men will tell you "anything" just for you to fall again for their lies. But...at the end is your decision if you want to continue the relationship and try again.
1178726
its up to you babes, if you feel he is being true to you and you are being true to him then why not there is no reason for it not to work. everyone says he could be lying to you but that does work both ways is he hiding anything from you? or are you hiding things from him?\ngood luck honey\n\ndoesnt matter now tho does it!!!
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
779088
yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!