At times, i wonder why does it seems somehow difficult 4 someone 2 express itself to whom he/she cares for.?
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It actually depends on the person.\nSome people do not want to be trapped. They love the single life.\nFear of rejection is a great reason. Rejection not only hurts but it is embarrassing and demeaning. It truly hurts your ego.\nFear of loosing oneself, aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, doesn't seem likely but is a possibality. Their upbringing has a lot to do with this problem. Insecurity is a great reason. For an abused person, it may be hard to believe that anyone could love them. soonandsoon\nI found that taking your time in a relationship may be what is needed. Most people cannot take an I love you with in the first year. Some want to hear those words two weeks after dating. You just have to wait for the other to give signs. Who knows for sure what those signs are for you? \nLike everything else in life, live one day at a time and the right answer will come. In other words, there are no right answers. Pray!
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That is a great question. But here's my thing...why can't two people just enjoy the silence? Isn't it good enough sometimes to just know the person you love/care about is on the other end of the line, spending time with you? Why are people so afraid of silence.... Maybe I'm just weird like that.
820430
Yes. And it is amazing that anyone can say that they have because it shows that they care about someone else. I hate to see someone in pain and those close to me, can share the pain with me.
41281
People have different ways of expressing their love, just because they don't openly show doesn't mean they don't.  Think about it really hard and you will find something that is gonna show a way that person has proven their love to you. Hint:  it might be something totally insignificant but meaningful all the same.
681210
I'm always working for others so they can learn the meaning of life and love,specially with people really close to me that need that help! don't think big things! a smile and a friendly word may be the thing they really need to start from the beginning!
739044
Sometimes you just have to swallow your differences to make others happy.  Especially is that other is your family. \n\nI don't think it's too much to ask to share in your family happiness.
797385
cause others arent as compassionate
1136846
Expressing feelings makes people feel vulnerable.  Even though that's not necessarily the case.  It's the way people feel.  I personally feel repressed if I can't tell people how I feel.  If I don't feel comfortable with a friend to be open and honest with them, they don't stay my friend very long.
1080008
Most people will help someone out if asked. What is hard is offering help to someone who may or may not want it.  Never be afraid to ask for help or support, it often does not come unless you let others know you need it.
1125722
Thinking of ones self will take you very far in life in some areas. It maybe a lonely ride to the top but it is a surefire way to get there. If you count out how much doing the right things for others has cost you or people around it almost makes it seem stupid to consider anyone other then yourself but if you can remember how you felt in lending a hand or sacrificing something it really does mean something. To each there own and however it helps you sleep at night being selfish or generous are up to the indivual and there needs at the time.
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I try so hard to be kind, giving and thoughtful to all. Sometimes it's really hard as people are not sincere in this society today. It seems like I've been let down by so many lately and these are people that have been a part of my life for many years. Just when I needed them most, they all let me down.I was there for them through thick and thin but I just can't do it anymore. There comes a time when even people like me who are sincere, honest and loving has had enough with being taken advantage of and taken for granted. I'm sorry about it but I'm honest.........:o)
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Even though you know its natural or normal or whatever they want to say, you still feel that they should be doing something with you rather than doing it with themselves.  I know that you should feel like it doesn't matter, but everyone still has that weird feeling like, why?
797383
Mmmm difficult.  Its good to be an individual but sometimes it pays to fit in with the crowd...;
513957
You sure do have the right idea.  Very few actually understand just who they are.  To do the most good for others then it is best to do the best you can for yourself.  Don't think you are selfish by taking care of you first.  In most cases if you don't no one else will.
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It's difficult for me to seperate feelings when dealing with my life and problems. But I try my best to take advice and see for myself which is the best solution or action.\nI try to be as intellectual as possible. Sometimes, it gets hard though. :)
831336
coz with our own we cannot share each and every thing with them clearly but other  like friends we can easily express our felling
748584
Sometimes, when you need to be... but you should express how you feel, some people cant handle the truth... its always a soft spot, just let em have it easy...