Why Cant I find my real soulmate? I am a single male 35, a Canadian of Pakistani origin from Toronto fairly de
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You aren't suppose to look. Just wait and if you fill like you need someone email me at powder_and_dust@yahoo.com   mallissa
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Yes, it exists!!!\n\nApparently you haven't come across someone who is a good match for you, who has the same goals, life views, world views, and idea of perfect relationship that you do.  \n\nWhat is it you are looking for?  Do you know?  What is your definition of "true love"?  It could be that so far you are dating people whose definition is different than yours.\n\nThe best match is someone who makes us laugh, whom we make laugh as well; someone with whom we have a lot in common, including short term and long term goals, and world view, someone whose habits and characteristics you can live wiht, and who can live with yours; and someone with whom you have mutual respect.\n\nSometimes it takes a while and meeting a lot of people to find a few that come close to what we are looking for.  Don't settle for less.  But do get to know yourself and re-examine your thoughts on what true love is, just to make sure you are being realistic.  You may be . only you can decide that.\n\nYour love is out there!
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Unfortunately your best option then is probably the internet.  It is can be a wonderful place to find someone but you have to fight your way through all the idiots out there to find the few people that are real.  Beyond that, try and get out more often if possible.  Just going to events around town or taking a class on some hobby that interests you will help in your search.
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ya know looking for a true love....u cant find it here but can find may friends......who can help u...
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i wished i could help i am in Australia . i  know how you feel i am searching for a old school mate i cannot find her . she is obv married and her parents have moved it is so hard \n . so i hope you find your friends and good luck to you.
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At only 40 years of age, you shouldnt be thinking only of a part-time companion, but a long term partner. You might have 40 - 50 years left in the tank(hopefully) so why not look for a soul mate, not just a friend.
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It sometimes gets discouraging doesn't it?I completely understand what you are saying.\nFor me it has taken realizing that the right person for me is not in my town and most likely not in my state.Opening up to the possibility of the right person being in another state widened the potential matches.\nI guess that is not for everyone,but I did not want to miss out on the right person just because I was stuck on thinking they are near by.\nI wish I had the answers but I don't all I know is sometimes we do need a break to just "be" as the search can be exhausting on soo many levels.\nI know many people will tell you to stop looking and the right person will find you,but what if everyone just sits back and stops looking??LOL I am not sure how that would work then lol\nBottomline you have to do what feels right for you :)
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this is tough. sometimes, when yuo see love around you, you seek to feel the way others do. to find that one special person and share your life with them. they say that there is a soulmate for every person in the world but sometimes they dont find each other in there lives. You can be patient and wait for your guy to come around for you, but he may be waiting for you.
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Yes I have  the same experience ...understand everything happens for a reason..ever thing, nothing happens by mistake...if it was meant to be ...then you would still be communicating with them...but just know obviously they aren't the one so don't give up your soul mate is out there...and he will find you...keep hope alive
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have a break girl.. think of other stuff, you love life while sort itself out.......cupid will turn up when you least expect it .... your soul mate is out there be patient.... hope you find some one really nice soon
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Just breathe :) If you're attractive, smart and nice then you should be swatting men away!!! As for true love, sometimes you have to wade through a mess of people before the right one stands out from the crowd. Are you looking for people who have similar interests? Maybe you should try looking for people who have completely different (translate into "new for you") interests.\nPerhaps the love of your life is someone you would never have considered because you do not, currently, share his views on...anything. Perhaps one of you will change before you meet. Perhaps after. Perhaps you'll never agree and life will be one long, interesting conversation.
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Why don't you try a personals site? Yahoo has one..Cupid....\nPost a profile with a picture and explain that you are looking for a wife/partner. \nGet to know her on-line and take it from there.
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All my friends are getting married too. And I haven't even found a soul mate. But it doesn't bother me. I think everything happens for a reason. Maybe is a good think you did not get married in August. Maybe your fiance wasn't right for you. A guy of your dreams might be closer than you think. There are too many maybes but no real answer. Right?\nI think you should meet new guys, go on dates, and have fun. You don't have to sleep with them. Guys who are interested in you just so they can get you in bed, those are wrong guys. See, you haven't find a guy of your dreams yet. And he is out there. It will happen when the time is right. \nDon't get depressed over this. It is not worth it. Why do we have to get devastated about guys? Why don't they get devastated about us? \nYour friends who got married they found their soul mates, but let me tell you, lot of them don't really tell you the way they feel. Not all of them are happy. And most of them are jealous of you b/c you are single. \nLive your life why you can and enjoy every single day of your single life. Do things. Go travel, visit  friends in different cities you haven't seen in a while. Go to places you haven't been to yet, you don't have to do that by yourself but go with a friend, sister or brother. Even taking vacation with your parents would be an option too.
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It is possible to find your "soulmate" anywhere.  There is no such thing, but there are people all over the world, just like you.  The secret to finding love lies in us, not in them.  When we are ready to drop our masks, reveal ourselves, and let that other person have the chance to say, "I see you," we give ourselves the chance to fall in love.\nThe biggest problem is that people on the internet often don't feel the need to tell people the truth, and often, that first lie or misrepresentation will make it impossible to feel safe enough to open up again to the person.  The opportunity dies.\n\nFind someone of integrity and ethics, share everything you have in common, and hide nothing.  See what happens.
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This is not a dating service. Try match.com thats where I met my true love. If they have it in egypt that is.
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NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
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Your wave length is what it is!!!  Most wave lengths are a personal thing and you will find your sole mate someday I guarantee it.\nGood luck :o))