My girlfriend cheated on me over a year ago with her attorney in a divorce case.  He wont stop calling.?
149081
Tell him if he doesn't stop calling that you will turn him in to the law board.  His job and license to practice law are based upon certain rules of conduct and he has obviously crossed that line.  If he is turned in for what he did he wouldn't no longer be able to practice law.
841896
I went through something similiar to this and I put my foot down and told my boyfriend to either stop talking with her or I was history.  He stopped immediately and things are great now.  Sometimes you just have to lay down the law or they will keep doing stupid things because you allow them to get away with it.  Good Luck.
247795
If i was you id give her that second chance, but lay down the law and say 2 her that if she does it again, you r leavin her and defo not comin bak 2 her no more b/c she cant keep puttin u through what she is puttin u through, and also ask her 2 find another job if it gets 2 bad and if yous want it 2 work. The trust will come bak soon or later :)
870675
Legally yes. She should force this subject on him etc. Because if she doesn't do anything about it now. Let's say he leaves in 6 months the judge is going to ask why are you doing this now after the breakup. He will claim I paid it and now she is only doing this for revenge because I left. I can't tell you how many times I have seen senerio similar to this one. Tell him pay up or court we go.
587135
If she's been living with this guy for more than 7 years than by state law, he is her husband although they are not legally married.  He would get everything unless a will is drafted.  But even wills can be contested, she needs a "living trust" which is undisputable.
928671
CONTACT ATTORNEY AND DA.
1150972
Contact the attorney directly, but you may be out of luck.\n\nIf she was just a girlfriend, you were never married, spousal privelege doesn't attach. I'm assuming you were not her physician, so that is out.\n\nIf you are subpoenaed, they can compel you to testify. You can tell the judge no, but he can tell you "Go to jail go, directly to jail" and keep you there until you talk.
180620
Keep it real this person needs an attorney...Unless have access to Westlaaw and are familiar the the law...Lawyers are the best liars I know...
1101815
You won't convince him ,all you can do is file for divorce and let your lawyer know that he won't believe it's over ,once the divorce is in pipe line then aqnd only then mite he accept it really is over,i would suggest you keep contact to a minimum that way he will start to get the idea you ae not coming back,if you have been in contact on a regular basis he may feel he still stands a chance but you can't turn the clock back and if you don't love him you will only be even more unhappy if you return out of guilt because he is miserable without you,GOOD LUCK
1065913
I'm sorry that you are having such a bad time. You deserve better. You would be wise to visit a therapist to see why you are still with this fool. You should also visit an attorney to explore your options. In all likelihood you will be better off without him. Oh and as for God he's always listening. Just pray.
546027
next time get her to email or write her requests to him, than take this to his lawyer. \nOk not sure about where you live or the laws there but here they can do a divorce without one of the party even present. If they have been notified of the time and place for the final ruling thats all that needs to be done. Your BF could go and get it settled even if she refuses to go or agree to it.\n\nAnd yes he needs to think and know its time to back off from this woman she is not his anything anymore and if he pays her she will just keep wanting more forever!
417518
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
757747
Call your attorney, this is not acceptable.She is flagrently disregarding YOUR time with YOUR child.
388960
She needs to contact an attorney.
722838
I dont think you should be talking to your EX at all. And the fact that you are sneaking around makes me think you want something from her. There is a reason she is your EX. YOu should quit contacting her. And when your wife finds out I hope she kicks your scandalous a$$!
974307
Lets not think about why, because it doesn't matter.  Lets work on how to make the phone calls stop.\n\nPick up the phone and say, "Hello."  She will then start in with her mess of problems she wants to talk about.  Interrupt her in a very calm and firm voice.  Say, "(her name), I don't want to talk to you.  I don't want you to call here ever again. We are finished, and I want nothing to do with you.  If you wish to communicate with me you may write to me via certified mail only, at (PO Box).  I'm going to hang up now, goodbye."\n\nOkay the reason why we want her to write to you is for documentation purposes.  You didn't say if you were married, even so you have a house together and to get her name off the paperwork you must be in some sort of contact with her.  All mail must be certified, its the documentation you need in court.  If she sends it regular send it right back unopened.  If she calls after that pick up and then hang up immediately. If you know you are one day going to end up in court, keep a little booklet that documents how often she calls (time/date).  This can be harassment, and in court will show her obsessiveness.\n\ngood luck.
474911
You need a better lawyer. Get a female lawyer, they are meaner than heck and can do a lot better than a male. Might cost you more in the short term but should pay off in the long run.\n\nI hope that things work out better the second time around\n\nGod bless you and be with you in your time of need