This is a personal  problem my man can have sex and not come is there something wrong with me?
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No, probably just his plumbing.
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well have you had sex before and now its stopped if so maybe he wants to wait till you get married or maybe hes cheating or maybe he doesnt think you enjoy it just talk to him ask him why he doesnt want to
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You need to sit him down and have a talk w/ him find out if he doesn't feel there's enough romance there to have sex. Some men have to have romance just like some women do to have sex. You could ask him about going to see a sex therapist.  Sometimes men just lose their sex drive slightly b/c they already have you and sex just isn't as important b/c when your married other things take the place of sex for some. I wish you all the best of luck. If this doesn't work talk to him about seeing a doctor about whether he's experiening problems w/ his sex drive. If not see about a sex therapist. Good Luck!
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I have the same issue sometimes and the more you do it the more frustrated you get and so you keep trying...its a never ending cycle. It could be that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, it could be that he is too fast, slow, small, etc. Positions seem to be something that you can vary to see what works best. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking so much about it, relax. If its not a normal issue for you then there isn't anything wrong with you physically. Try some different things and don't be too hard on yourself. http://www.allsexguide.com
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i really dont know whats wrong..but my advice to u is to go take sex therapy sessions..im sure u will overcome this with a little help from proffesionals...\ngood luck!!
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Wow, is it possible he is gay? Maybe you are unattractive to him and he doesn't have the heart? Also you need to find out if he is cheating on you and doesn't have the energy when he comes home. And lastly, maybe he is having a sexual problem such as unable to get erection or an STD... and is trying to hide it from you
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It sounds as if you might be heading into menapause. If not being interested in sex bothers you, see your physician. There are a number of treatments available which can help you with this.
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Perhaps something is bothering him, or he doesn't feel well. Try wearing something revealing or surprise him by posing provocatively on the bed when you suspect he will be going in the bedroom. Try having "encounters" at different hours than usual, or in diff places. Avoid ruts. Talk dirty to him.\n\nHe sounds like a lucky guy.\n\ngood luck ;-)
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Yes. I've heard from personal stories. Everybody's different. He may be one with low sex drive, or yours higher. Could even be psycological issues, though I don't think that is usually the case. Happy bed time!
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I think your looking for an excuse to not have sex. J/K Don't let a little laughter spoil a good time. You know your are completely comfortable w/ someone else when you are able to laugh at each other's imperfections and not be offended. Relax I've been laughed at in bed many many times.
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make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...
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You need to discuss this with him.  There could be a myriad of reasons for his lack of desire.  It is possible that he has fantasies that he is embarrassed about sharing with you.  Come up with some fantasies of your own so that he may feel more at ease about discussing such topics.  If you are able to get past the taboo nature of the sex topic, you will see a much more rewarding sex life.
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Well im in the same situation but my man tells me im a sex maniac,,,,that might be true but i have needs to when i want it i should be able to get it.  He says because we live together he doesnt want to do it all the time because things will get old fast. Well i dont agree...if he tried to change things up....which i would love to try new things there wouldnt be an issue. Im tired of initiating sex all the time,,,im 5 yrs older than him,,so whats his problem?? He cant keep up with me,,it gets very frusturating,,,i know exactly how you feel. All i can say is back off him for awhile and see how he likes it,,he will start to think somethings wrong then wont he??? Dont pay it any mind for awhile....take care of yourself until he gets the hint. Me being a very sexual person it really aggravates me. And no hes not cheating because we are always together when we arent working. We love eachothers company,,,but he says our relationship isnt all about the sex....grrr i know that but dam give me what i want.
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Nothing wrong with it.  Enjoy it while it lasts cause you will have times like that and times you won't want it.  Me and my wife are that way.  Sometimes I am the horny one then her and sometimes both at same time then sex daily is awesome thing.  Maybe try spicing things up with sexy lingerie and stuff.  Nothign is wrong with you just your body tell you it is in heat and wants to have sex
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It's got to be psychological response I'd say.  Apparently you don't like it or there's something about it that bothers you.  Perhaps your conscience or a fear of getting pregnant.  Ever hear the phrase "psyching yourself out".  Perhaps it's a clue that you shouldn't be having sex with him.
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he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.
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Yes, something is wrong.  It doesn't matter how often you actually have sex- every day, every week, every month- as long as both of you feel contented. You are unhappy enough about it to be asking this question, so something is going on that isn't quite right.\n\nI've been in a low sex marriage (sex less than once a month, sometimes no sex for six months + at a time) for years and years and believe me, it isn't going to get better over time.  You'll end up being the "pursuer" sexually and emotionally, as I am with my husband.  Seek outside assistance now, while your relationship is still fresh enough for you both to invest in addressing this issue.  Otherwise you'll end up like me- wondering if you chose the wrong mate, wondering if it's still possible to fix it, wondering if platonic friendship is going to be enough for the next 40 years.