how can a man love a cruel heartless woman who won"t even send him a birthday card?
151592
maybe he's in love wit her
924443
You let him be free,And the best way is to let him go,He is the one missing out on someone special,He is such a loser,i pity him.He lost someone who truely loves and cares about him,True love which is mightier than power,You lost someone who's a jerk.Cheer up girl.You deserve someone better who can give you all that love.
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You are crazy. This man could be a killer, have you thought about that? and how can you love someone you've never seen before, that's real stupid. He's playing you, all he want is a mother for those kids or he will make you suffer. Find someone you can see and love. That Internet love is deadly, leave this man alone and don't be stupid or you'll be dead.
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He is treating you this way because he is an ASS and because you are allowing him to.  Honey, drop this so called man faster than you would a rattle snake. He is feeding you a line of BS bigger than the Pacific ocean.  He is manipulative, uncaring, a liar, and a cheat.  One he is not divorced AND a married man. He is a married man. Two he has absolutely no real feelings for you to treat you the way he is treating you.  I do not mean to offend you but he is using you and your insecurities and the fact that you are a lonely person and he is demanding that you stay lonely by not wanting you to have other friends.  He can control you easier if he keeps you to himself exclusively. And mean, selfish, uncaring men in mid-life male menopause feel better about THEMSELVES if they can get a young girl to look up to them, fall in love with them, sleep with them, follow their every command.  This is a free world and as such you have the right, privilege and necessity to exercise your right to chose, say no, talk to whoever you chose and to fall in love with a nice man that will truly love you in return.
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Drop the Zero, and find yourself a HERO..\nface it sweets...he treated you like a piece of a**...a convienance...he is nothing but a dog...a loathsome cur..cut your ties to him...\nAny man--or woman for that matter....who treats another human in that manner is not worth your time and effort
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Firstly, you can learn why they are unlovable, what has life thrown at them to make them the way they are. You can imagine what they use to be like before this. \nIf you cant learn to love them, then you can at least start with empathy.
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Always remember...you can't "make" someone love you!!
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love cant be ever turn to friends
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You simply cannot make a person love you that has to come naturally, A persons feelings just don't turn on and off at a whim. Before anything happens you must get to know each other first before anything jumps off.\n\nIf he doensn't love you that is perhaps he doesn't know you yet and you haven't bothered to go and introduce yourself to him yet.\n\nMake a move and see what happens but remember you cannot make a person love you, and that I am being honest with you with.
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Faint heart never won fair lover.\n\nGet inthere and tell him yourslef, honest and direct
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Because you have very low self-esteem. Love does not hit, or use cruel words. Spend some time fulfilling yourself, learn to love yourself and others will love you too! And DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOOOOOOOT! Allow anyone to put their hands on you in a way that is demeaning or unpleasant. Only you have the power to change this!  Oh and the next time he tries to hit you ask him if he remembers Lorraina Bobbit?
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Wow this is serious...but from my point of view I think this woman does love him in some weird twisted way. I think she feels like he will change. If she really wanted to get out of the relationship she would report the abuse and get a restraining order. If he is an unfit parent she would definately win. But Honestly there is nothing you can do. she is not going to move on until she is completely over him. This is coming from someone who was in a similar situation...Minus the children!!! \n\nI hate to say it but you are simply he morale booster and a shoulder to cry on when she needs it. Alll you can do is show her that there is someone better out there and hopefully she will move on before it is too late...\n\nGood Luck!
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Write for him a poem and give it to him, when nobody will notice this.\n\ngood luck\n\nshowing love is not a crime
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He does not love you,nothing indeed.Find a a man, who will love you indeed.
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you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
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I don't think he is celebrating a birthday cause he is mending a broken heart!
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Dear Friend,  A woman is going to love you, ONLY if she feels it in her heart. You can impress her and make her have good feelings and thoughts about you, but you can't make another person love you. They have to feel that all on their own.