what are th emost appropriate and well approved tactics for winning a lady?
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How you win their affection is how you keep them. If you have to win her with a gimmick, that is the only way you are going to keep her. Sorry, but you need to find out what a woman really wants. This something that unfortunately we often find out too late. Like on our deathbed.\n\nBut, seriously, women want a trusted confidant, a provider, a listener, and a person ready to get his hands dirty doing tasks around the house. Often the best ability is dependability.
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- Tell your desire decently in a manner which should not make her angry.\n- Wait for the result.\n- All the best Wishes for you to be lucky.\n- enjoy....!\n------------------
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Just be yourself.  Practice good manners and etiquette too.\nDon't worry about impressing her with grand spending, or things like that.  Those things don't really matter.\n\nGentlemanly behaviour, good conversation, being who you are and letting her be who she is, that is what matters.\n\nDating is for discovering if the two of you "click".  If you don't, move on.
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Honesty, integrity, humor, and being a gentleman at all times.  Treat her like a lady.  When she says no she means no.\n\nYou will find girls will be more receptive to you when you be yourself and be respectful to their wishes.
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treat her like a lady
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be true, be loyal, be respectful, be a gentleman, be thinking of her feelings, be sweet, be there for her when it's tough, be fun! spontanious! laugh! smile! give her gifts 'jus because', tell her she's beautiful inside and out! good luck!
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lol i'm very happy for you.. just to start it off... but i have this blog on my myspace that says like "for guys to read and what not" so i think i'll just post it here.... i know it probably will just be a waste of space. but maybe it'll benefit just a tiny bit? i would say propose or what not but i dont think that it's appropriate just yet... wait a few more months or something till you're sure. I know i've thought i was in love a few times myself and everytime it's ended badly for me.... but anyway here ya go! hope it helps!!!\n\nthings guyz should know.... \nCurrent mood:  hopeful \nCategory: Romance and Relationships \n\n\n19 ways to win a girls heart\n\n1. Hugs from behind.\n2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.\n3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.\n4. Cuddle with her.\n5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.\n6. Write little notes.\n7. Compliment her and have it come from the heart.\n8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.\n9. Be super sweet to her.\n10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams or just to hear her voice.\n11. Comfort her when she cries.\n12. Wipe away her tears.\n13. Love her with all your heart.\n14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).\n15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).\n16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her\n17. Take her for a long walk at night!\n18. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep\n19. Bring her flowers just because its some day of the week. \n\n26 Ways To Make A Girl Smile....\n\n1. Tell her she is beautiful. not hot!\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n\n6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n7. If you're talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her....let her know she's yours and they arent.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.(except if she spent alot of time curling it)\n\n11. hold her and dont let her go.....\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesnt like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely where it to bed) and don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while.\n\n18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22.Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER\n\n\n25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just when ever, take it and tell her u love it.\n\n\n26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute.\n\n\nEvery Girls Dream---boys read this!! Its so true!!\n\n1. Getting kissed in the pouring rain\n2. Have that one hott kiss where your pressed against the wall\n3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world\n4. Have a guy that holds on as long as possible when giving hugs\n5. A guy that whispers he loves you in your ear\n6. Have that moment where you just ga
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Use a specially designed "woman attractor".\nAlso use good grammar and spelling.
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I agree. Everyone enjoys being flattered. Especially women, but don't overdo it. Personality helps. 'Hey, how are you? My name is_____ can I buy you a drink? Would you like to go out to lunch? You're very beautiful and I mean that very sincerely.' It's a lot of effort, but it gets you tons of points!
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As soon as you find out, let the rest of us know. I think the key is to act like an @sshole. I've always been polite and had lousy luck with women.
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Go to church, Bowling, grocery shopping, please don't stalk the ladies..  Sign with a dating service and place a nice profile.  Be nice and well groomed.   Good luck.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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Not to try too hard to impress her.  She will be impressed by your natural character, not by being fake.  You've got to have character in you man!
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Go for it. And may the best woman win!
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Okay, so i'm back ..hehe...i was so intrigued by the thoughfullness and sincerity of your last question I went to see if you had any others.  And you do...and some really sweet ones at that...\nSo heres my two cents:\n\n* CUDDLE!!!!!(issue addressed though...do it do it do it!!!)\nAlso plant sweet kisses on her...its especially sweet when she's sleeping...it implies so much....you think she's sleeping and unaware..but she is!\n\n* Introduce her to new things!  This will score big points and make a lasting impression...every time that event or occasion comes up you will be forever imprinted in her memory and associated with it.  (I was introduced to football!  of all things...and became a huge Steeler fan...cant look at football now w/o associating it w him.  Also shared my first Symphony w/ him, first baseball game, first game of mini golf....GO FOR THE FIRSTS!!!!\n\n*Be a gentlemen.....show her chivalry isnt dead.  Even someting so common as holding her elbow or hip when opening the door...or standing when she gets up from the table, warning her of puddles or cracks in the sidewalk, or standing on the side of her thats facing the street....just says so very much.  Girls like to feel like they are being taken care of...and that is SEXY!!!!!!!!!!\n\n*Make her dinner....may sound unoriginal or common, but if done right can be so very....sigh sweet!  Especially when you take it to her at work.  Presentation is key.  Throw in some fresh strawberrys and grapes for the desert and a box of chocolates......(writing this I can see Ive been spoiled)\n\n*Compliment her....don't over do it though....say it only when its warrented...that way she knows its genuine.\n\nOkay, so my two cents turned into a novel..but the above really has made a huge impression on me...and that says alot.  But good luck to you...sounds like you are already on your way to being pretty damn awesome.
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I'm not a player, but I've done well in my day with the ladies.  The best thing to do is just go up to her and say "hi".  Maybe give her a compliment on her hair or shoes.  After that, keep it moving.  Don't gawk or look desperate.  She will get the idea and if she is at all interested, she will let you know in some way shape or form.
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Oh yeah, write her a letter Shakespeare. Also make a photo montage of you and her along with an original poem and a hand knitted macrame pot holder.\n\nLesson #1. Never put it in writing. HR will love to fire you for it when it all goes south.\n\nLesson #2. Be cool. Chicks dig guys who are masculine and appear to have it together, dont blow it by acting like a wimp. If she tells you it wont work out, say, "that's cool, let me know if you change your mind, I'll be around." then walk away and do not look back.\n\nLesson #3. If you talk to her again, keep your inner child and feelings to yourself. One woman in the relationship is all you need. Get in and get out. Fast.