how do i get all the boys in my class to like me for me and not for how i look?
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If you want to dress sexy, and thats you well then don't change yourself. Let them see how you "really" are.. personality wise and who knows.
233735
just give him clues but dont tell him directly that u like him.  And start a conversation with youre friends and talk about how hes not to shaby looking, dont tell them compliments about him just tell them how he is a good guy to have around theyll soon start to look at difrent aspects of him and then they might think difrently about him
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ofcourse why not make sure its just you and him talking dont tell him infront of his friends and make sure you ask him how he feels about you if he likes you dont ask him out straight out just say to him - i like you alot what do you think about me?? goodluck and remember if he says no its not the end of the world hun there will be plenty more boys for you goodluck
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Well there are two kinds of boys..u will find the ones who ignore u and..play hard to get..they will act mean to u and tease u constantly and act as if they dont want anything to do with u..they think that attracts us girlies LOL...\n\nTHEN~theres the boys who constantly stare at u and when u find them staring they just give u a lil smile :) and they compliment u on how great u look..or how smart ya are..u will find these ones checkin u out ALOT..
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Depends on what is wrong with you. But if you don't have some kind of a big defect, you can be handsome only if you believe it. You must feel beautiful and then girls will see that in you. It's all about self confidence! And of course buying the right clothes. But I first look at the face and hair of the boys. So make sure you are clean! And smile a lot. That's all I can say, for starters.
714195
Just be yourself. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.  You dont worry what other people think about you.
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
84664
It really depends.  Why do they all 'hate' you?  Is it something you've done to them?  Probably not as girls can be a vicious breed.  It makes life easier if everyone liked you, and wouldn't tease you, but I'd say if you don't put your concerns on whether they like you or not, and try your best to concentrate in class.. they'll probably get bored of you (if they're harassing you).  \n\nMore drastic choices would be talk to the teacher or principal... see if you can switch your classes.  And know if you can't, that this isn't a permanent (I hope not anyways) class.  This fall you'll get a whole new classroom of folks - hopefully not the same girls.\n\nBest wishes!
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Be a girl that's fun to be around.  Usually people start to like people they spend a lot of time with and, if you're the fun girl, people will want to be with you, and you'll soon have boys liking you!  Presto!  Good luck!
285438
I like you! I think it's too bad you have to worry about your face. People should like you any way you are. We all have imperfections, some are just hidden.
416539
This is tuff.  Believe it or not, guys like different things in girls.  Some guys like girls that are like sticks, some like girls with some meat on there bones.  Some guys like small boobs, some guys like big boobs.  The most important thing for you to ALWAYS remember it you need to like yourself.  If you don't like yourself it is hard for others to like you.  Any guy, and I do mean any, should like you for you.  Not because you have big boobs and are a stick.  They are not really worthy of you if they don't accept you for whom you are.  As far as that goes, you need to accept you for whom you are.  Don't worry, you are young.  In time you will find the right guy.  Don't place a large enfasist on trying to be with a guy now.  Hard to accept but you should worry about doing well in school.  This way when you are older, you will be smarter and make allot of money and then the guys will flock around because you are not poor.  Good luck.
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Well,\nWhat you don't know is that most young boys will fall head over heels for you if you just give them a long look in the eyes.\nGirls are usually so much more mature then boys.\nMost boys like any and all girls that give them a smile.\nThey are not as selective as girls.\nAt your age it might be better to just be friends with a large group of people that you are comfortable.\nYou will know when a boy likes you, perhaps, even before he does!\nGo slow. Have fun. Respect yourself. Learn who you are and what you want. Never settle.\nLook for a boy that puts you and your needs first.
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well forget them because if they dont like you because they think your ugly boy are they trippen because all that matters is whats on the inside and im pretty sure that theyre the ugly ones.Dont let a dumd comment like that bring you down
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luk i m a gal.let me tell u 1 thing.u cant force any1 to like u.if dey like u dey like u 4 wat u r.dont pretend to b sth u r not.it doesnt help in d long run.after all hw long can u keep wearing a mask n put up an act.JUST B URSELF.it helps.u c im fed of all d fakes arnd me.dey make me sick.so b a 1st rate urself dan a 2nd grade imitation of sm1 else.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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something you can do is make him notice you by sayin something smart in class, since he is intelligent, you might catch his eye and focuz on you a bit more. Ask him for something, a pen a paper, or some help in an assignement, even if you already know the answer. Also start a conversation about the class, and then introduce yourself and he will do likewise, just have a bit of courage, but let him do the work, just give him a little quick start on that, if he don't pick it up, sweetie he's not interested or he's playing hard to get, but i'm pretty sure that he will be interested in you. good luck, if you need more help, just e-mail me east_side_outlaw2003@yahoo.com
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Just ignore them. There's not a lot you can do about people like them. You could always insult them back, but you know that would be wrong. You could stay in a group of girlfriends (or guyfriends) that would help protect you. You could notify the schoolboard, but the likelyhood of them doing anything about it is very low. Oh! A really cool idea is to do something special to your jeans, or at least to one pair. You could draw on them, or tie them up specially (like capris) or you could just make up something! Maybe wear a cool belt and always make sure that you look and smell nice. You don't have to be "cool" per say, but if you have a nice, sleek style then you won't have to worry about them. This is great because it costs nothing! Other things you can do are: 1. wear inexpensive jewlery (just not something cheap looking) 2. Do something with you hair every day. It doesn't have to be fancy, just fun. A messy bun, curly, straight, pulled up in a pony tail, pig tails, crimped etc. Well, that's about all I can think of right now! Also, don't worry about what other people think of you. The main reason I listed all of those things above that you can do to yourself, was for your benefit, not theirs. If you feel good about how you look, then it doesn't matter how everybody else looks at you. \n\nP.S. I only have 3 pairs of jeans too! :D