do you enjoy the spotlight in a date, or do you rather go to a place that is low key?
142819
I like low key place because it is mysterious, romantic, quiet and make one looks better (haha)...more privacy too
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
482069
Why do you care? You know you enjoy the romantic atmosphere
593087
Personally? I'd go on the date, but no-no to staying over. Sensible may be boring - but is best for long term! If he wants more than a hook-up, he'll wait a little while!
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
184467
You should be able to have a good time with ANY person you are attracted to.  If a person does not have money, it shouldn't be a deciding factor for you, if you truly enjoy being with him.  Go for walks , the movies, rent a movie, etc..  Being with the person who makes you happy is more important than where you are with that person.\n\nMoney doesn't make you a better person, and not having it doesn't either.  Unfortunately, it does make the practical side of things easier.  But it won't make you happy.\n\nI've spent as much as $300, on a date that included a pretty fabulous dinner, but that was a date with my girlfriend at the time, and so, I wasn't buying a "roll in the hay".  But, I have spent as little as $25 on a date and had the same good time with her.  It was her I wanted to be with, and the things we did together were really irrelavent.
1027025
No way. Why go to the whole guacamole if I am not interested in the first place. I'd just be wasting my time and that of the person I will be dating. :)
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
246768
umm to a nice bar or dinner
114108
relax, catch a movie, go on a date.
712783
A kiss on the check is a good idea if the date went well. If not you don't sense both of you had fun, better skip the kiss all together.
761394
going to a bookstore because i love to read and surround myself with books. nightclubs appeal to many people, but i don't like the whole concept of going out to drink and socialize with strangers.\nit turns me off.
28664
No way. A date is between people who are hooking-up with the intentions of taking it to another level. Not saying sex--but the motive behind it is the fact that you both have some sort of feelings for one another & intend to explore them. A date is more official than going out.\n\n'Going out' is the opposite. In my opinion going out is just like chilling with a few friends. Your motive then is to enjoy yourself instead of trying to hook-up.
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Quickie:\nAdd some romance to your day by taking yourself out on a date. Splurge a little!\n\nOverview:\nWhile current circumstances may not paint you in the most flattering light, you know that you'll be vindicated in the end. Let that foreknowledge influence your behavior now. Be compassionate and forgiving.
629405
Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
99674
why not make one a lunch date, and the other an evening date\nwhy same venue? you are better off proposing a diferent venue for one
376546
my idea of a perfect date would be able to spend time with the right man. so it doesn't matter if we stumble upon something that make either of us look silly... we can just laugh it off - it is more about enjoying ourselves