I don't know what to do my wife as been cheating on me what do I do?
156919
1st make sure. If it is so, leave her.
954178
You need to break up. Its never going to be the way it was. There is no trust anymore, and she will always wonder in the back of her mind if your lying, if your cheating again, or if she can believe anything u tell her.  Its hard to trust a person who betrayed you when they were supposed to love u.  I dont think theres anything you can do to fix it except break up and move on.  And honestly .... how can u be mad, there are reactions for every reaction.  Did u really think she was going to be able to forgive u and forget... please.... no. Nobody every forgives and forgets for a cheater. They can forgive... but they can never forget!
556068
Holy crap you sound EXACTLY like me. Keep doing what you're doing. Sorry to all the wives out there, but you have no obligation to anyone except yourself. He's the married one, so he has to take responsibility for his actions if she finds out. Enjoy yourself. Life's short.
520603
You owe your wife the truth.  She has a right to know what kind of man she is married to. The longer you wait to own up to all of this with her, the more hurt and angry she is going to be. Try to be a man in all of this, tell her the truth and let her move on with her life. Your feelings are not the only ones at stake here.
55414
Why are you with her? Get out of that relationship. No one deserves to be cheated on. You deserve someone who will come home to you and only you. Please don't keep hurting yourself. They aren't worth losing your self-esteem and self respect. There is someone out there who can make you so much happier than the person you are with who insists on cheating on you. The only way to help you stop hurting is to get together with a bunch of friends after kicking her to the curb and keep the good times flowing. I am so sorry you have to go through this but once you're done with this relationship you are going to be so much happier. If you feel like she is remorseful about her cheating and says she can change give her one more chance. Lay down the law and say this is the last time you are putting up with it and if it happens again send her packing.
1066795
Well, what did you do to lose her trust?  Try listening to her more, don't wait until she tells you do to something like chores, do them before she has to ask.  Don't sneak around behind her back, be honest of your actions.
729422
You've done something pretty bad I take it, and here is your first problem in trying to get your wife to give you another chance- you keep calling whatever it is - a "mistake". Big no no.\n\nYour wife wants you to accept full responsibility for what you did. Say "I was wrong", etc. Calling it a mistake is minimizing your role in it. Like maybe you "accidently" had sex with another woman, or punched her, or gambled away your kids college fund, or whatever.\n\nI don't know what you did, but your approach to get her back is backfiring on you. I know from experience.
901375
My opnion is I think you should tell her. What if she doesn't know...what if she doesn't think her husband is a cheat? I mean, I didn't. I had no idea until he told me. I'm glad I found out.\nYou have to follow your heart and choose what you feel is right.\nBut remember if this was you and your husband had a side dish, would you want to know?
593507
I feel it was wrong for her not to tell you and now you feel trapped and lied to but the thing of the matter is ---which boils right down to you can you forgive her for lieing to you and if you are willing to continue to love her because if not then these problems will always exist in your relationship or marriage and I am a strong believer that you should not get married under false pretenses but if she has not shown any other signs of cheating or anything like that then you should give her the opportunity to prove herself to you and if you still want to wait to get married you dont have to rush into this you should want you marriage to be happy and joyous and loving=== dont get married because your families want you to get married because you love her yeah people make mistakes and I was also cheated on so I had to weigh my options of what would be best for me and  my children and I assume that you dont have any children so take your time and you talk to her about it a little more try to put yourself in her shoes try to understand what made her do it and why get a sense of understanding first and then you can make a rational decision on whether to leave or not \n\nhope things work out for you
255395
I've been there.I've been married three times.Why?Because I cheated on my husband(s)and felt guilty!Tell your wife and let her decide what you should do.She will probably divorce you then you can do what you want.If you cheat again you will start that vicious cycle all over. Don't cheat!
206271
1.She probably does love you, I'd have to have more details.\n2.You still might work things out. Don't give up just yet\n3.People cheat sometimes because of boredom, they feel neglected, their sex addicts, the excitement of doing something clandestine, they fall in love with someone else, revenge, it just happens, they are attracted to someone else whather they want to be or not or they're just plain stupid! Honey, if your wife cheated on you, it could be for any reason but you shouldn't blame yourself. She made the decision to do it. My husband cheated on me and I know how much it hurts. I can tell you this much; just because they cheat it doesn't mean that they don't love you anymore. Lots of people do it yet they still love their spouse. It doesn't make it right but we all make mistakes. If you love her and feel like you can put the past behind you and move forward as a couple, I say do it. It won't be easy but you can try counseling and if you can't do that then just talk to each other. Shower her with affection and make her feel really special. She married you so something is there. There is always, always hope for as long as you can hold on. Marriages have worked after cheating. Good luck\n4.I think the meaning of life is what you, yourself, make it mean. It's doing something to make a difference in this world. It's helping out your fellow man when he's down. It's what you want to be and how you go about getting there. Why does there even have to be a meaning to it all? Life is your chance to do, to be, to see, to learn and to teach. We're here to help one another, that's what I believe.\n5. I'm sorry but I'm not sure what the #5 question is but I can tell you however you ****, make sure you do it to the best of your ability and with everything ya got, Tiger! GRRRRRR! LOL. Good luck and try to keep your chin up. The pain will pass after a time. Just work through it and let yourself feel it so you can move on.
162999
Before me and my husband where married, he lwas doing the same and, i left. I told him he would be calling me and wanting me back in 6 months. Need less to say , 6 months later i find out she was cheating on him and he wanted me  back. now were married. Show him what he will be missing. Trust me he will miss you.  Then tell him to go be with her and see.
615166
maybe nothing did happen...but..sitting and thinking about it  .. guys are pigs women are bitches..so go with your gut cuz wondering about it will drive you mental.. and sometimes even worse than catching them in the act.. move on.. there is a trust issue as well.. you have to ask yourself .. 4 hours??? and if you did the same what would she say??? tell the wife she should know
147381
Yes bacause u  might of cheated on her but she didnt find out.But you need to forgive her because when she is gone she is gone for good.
1114386
TAKE HIM FOR HIS WORDS.\nThe only sign that a spouse is cheating is when he/she becomes cold and seems to be lying a lot.\n\nJUST BE A GOOD WIFE (sexy, presentable, decent, smart, skillful, etc.) and pray for your husband that God will protect him from being tempted by other ladies out their.\n\nI wish you a happy marriage.
706236
Trust is one of the hardest issues to address in any relationship.  She broke your trust and its going to take a lot of work for that to ever be right again.  I would honestly get into some marriage counseling for this reason alone.
309070
Most relationship decisions come down to one question; Can I handle it, or can I not? It's obvious she has no plans to stop cheating. What you have to decide is whether you love her enough to forgive her and stay with her, or if you can't. \n\nIf you decide you want to stay, you need to talk to her and try to figure out why she's being unfaithful. Once you have a reason, then maybe you can work through it. If you can't forgive her, or she won't stop, then you have to decide if you can handle being married to a woman who sleeps with other men, or leave her.\n\nMy personal opinion is that she does not love or respect you and you should respect yourself by leaving.