how do u get over a first love?
137995
you can never get over your first love. thats why they call it your first love. but you can learn from him and learn to love another guy.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
171487
You'll have to get over the heart break before you can move on. You have to be sure that you are emotionally prepared before you go out dating again.
1108381
it hurts the most because its the first person you've have that deep connection with and you do eventually get over that person but it takes some time
339419
You need to move on. You can't get over your ex because you keep listening to the love songs that you listened to when you were with him. You need to realize that it is over and tell yourself that you will never be with him again. Listen to some different music. Music that sings about a women getting out of a bad relationship and moving on with their lives. It won't be easy. It will take some time but, eventually you will get over him and find someone else to love. Maybe when you are over him, you can become friends and that spark might rekindle and you will get him back. But, for now except that it is over. Allow yourself to get over him.
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
956200
If you were really in love with them, and you cared for them deeply, I don't think you ever "GET OVER" them.  What a lot of people don't do is to take time out for themselves.  When you break-up with someone after being in a long-term relationship, you really need to take time to heal before you move on to another person because you can't give your whole heart to him/her fully because that other person is holding a part of it.  How long it takes....Well that depends on you.  You have to ask yourself "How long am I going to allow this person to hold my heart?"  Take time, Heal, enjoy being single, and when you feel no presence of the other person then you are over them.  Of course when you see them with some one else for a split second, you will go back there but if you do and when you are able to say, well good for them then you are definitely over them.  I hope this helped because I've been where you are and that is what I did.  Take care and be HAPPY!!!
637827
i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
633750
You will get over it.It takes time.Try to do something to help yourself get on with life.You will never love the same way again.Each time will be different.But you will find another wonderful person to fill that void.If you two broke up I am sure that you can find someone who will be the girl friend of your dreams.It all takes time.
286057
Love hurts and you will get over her. Time heals all wounds. Everyone who has loved has felt what you are feeling, you are not alone. It is just how it is. It sucks, but just remember:  It is better to have loved, than to have not loved at all!
1169665
When people break up it is hard not to think about each other and many things bring up memories.  It takes time to get over someone. You will know though when you hear your favorite song and you are ok listening to it without crying.  Sometimes it is hard to let go of something that we can't have.  So what you have to do is take one day at a time, smile, be confident and know that you are better than crying over him and then when your knight in shining armour comes along he will sweep you off your feet and you will wonder why you ever cried a tear.
108310
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
658202
The best way to get over it, is to move on. Get a new love in your life, and devote 110% of your time and attention to him. You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be "over him'. Good Luck.....
989721
it'll take time to get over someone. let time heal your wounds and go out and have fun with your friends. that always helps. if you have pics of her hanging on your wall,....take em down. put it in a box and just move on. you'll find a much better love as you move on and you may think back on this one day and think "what was i thinkning?".
114388
You can get over the pain of them hurting you,but its alot harder to get over actually loving them if it was true love!(Its been 3 years for me and i've forgave them for hurting me,but i can't stop loving them even through the other guys i've seen)
241382
The fact that you are happy that she is happy I would say your first love.  You obviously aren't "in love" with her now, but the feelings are still there.  Crushes fade with time, loves don't.\n\nYou always love your first, even if you "get over them"