My girlfriend for the past 4 yrs told me this weekend that she has made out with her boss. What do i do?
140125
Well, she was honest, but is she apologetic? If she is sorry and promises to never be unfaithful again, you can probably work it out. But I would make her quit her job, and find another, so the "Temptation" of her boss is not a problem.
561547
He's got one of those jobs that you can't leave unless releaved by someone, just part of being a officer, but he could have at least called or something.  Think I would wait and see what the reason was before I jumped the gun too much.  If you tell her what you want her to do, and he's got a really good reason, you will be the bad girl.  Wait and see, don't do anything while you all are under so much stress.  It's not like family, she's a gf, so he's at the mercy of his boss.
246121
It appears you do not have a problem getting in her pants after another man has already been there . ooh now that should really make you feel like a man.Sloppy seconds.So what makes you any better than her you up tight jerk.Oh boo hoo someone else has touched her now I feel awful. That is until you really got to touch her yourself .You were not so dissatisfied with her while she was playing with Mr Happy down there were you??? Get over your self for You are now used goods your self and are worse than her because you have a problem with her doing exactly what you yourself did to her. Grow up loser.Harsh words for a preacher yet if you are going to judge her for what you are doing pay back is hard to swallow sometimes.
845082
Well first ask your self are you doing anything to make her think your doing something rong??? If so you need to stop.. \n\nWoman are usually right with that gut feeling .. but if you are not doing anything rong then tell her .. hey i care about you but this is not going any were if you dont trust me.. so i need you to quit or leave if your not happy.. usually that works :)
840939
Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
373999
In my opinion I think that you should never get involved with a coworker.T here are many complications starting from this. What if you breakup afterwards? How will you be able to go to work? Not the mention that everybody is going to start talking and you will have a lot of rumours on your head, most of them not true.If she gets a promotion,they will think that she did "something special" to earn that. But if you really like her, she could switch jobs, if that is an option.And are you sure she's no trying to get somewhere with this romance? Maybe she's trying to obtain something. The stakes are too high. it's better not to complicate your life like that. But hey,it's just my opinion.
260388
Darlin, you are in the big middle of a no win scenario. You know without asking that you shouldn't have an affair with a married woman, but that aside, she is your boss and that is never, never EVER a good idea.  No matter what you decide to do, start polishing up your resume'.
250493
Bad idea!!!!  In most situations, your job will outlast the relationship.  Do you really want to work next to women who you used to date?  I don't know whether you've noticed it or not, but women like to gossip in the workplace.  They will shred your reputation and make life pretty unpleasant for you if they decide that they don't like or trust you.  It's hard to stay on good terms with an ex-girlfriend.  Don't do it!!!
686739
Never dip your pen in the company ink. Yes, you made a mistake about being open to your coworker. He might take this as a hint. Keep work ...work and sex related things in another place. That is if you want to keep your job.
962825
If you really love her, and plan on telling her, get a new job first.  Trust me, you don't want to still be working there if you tell her and she rejects you. Good luck.
482125
Well, it seems she is comfortable talking about the subject.\n\nI would suggest you ask her if she'd like to have lunch, or coffee, or some other casual/private get together.  NO PRESSURE. Then, you can feel your way through the situation.  See how comfortable you are with her, get to know her better... TAKE IT SLOW.\n\nIt sounds like you may be younger, and (obviously) don't have experience in this area, so I would advise caution... you don't want to get your heart trampled on, or feel ashamed or embarrassed at work.\n\nI wish you much luck, and keep in mind that you don't have to be 100% one or the other... love who you want to love, and who loves you back.\n\nALWAYS BE SAFE ABOUT IT!
1169166
Go, get her drunk, start making out with her, and take pictures.\nIf she still wants to fire you,show the pics to her boss. He's gonna fire her!
1074250
The fact that she is a manager where you work should not be an excuse for her to be able to almost blackmail you into fathering a child you are not ready for.  If it was the other way around and she was the male in this situation then it would be almost sexual harassment and there are avenues you can go down to get it stopped.\n17 is way too young to be thinking of having a child.  You will change so much in the next few years, and who you are now is not going to be who you are when you reach 24.  technically you are not even recognised as an adult, whereas she is 24 and has a child already.\n  I think you need to be honest, tell her this is freaking you out.  That you don't want to bring a child into the relationship when you have a lot of growing to do yourself, first.  Depending on how strong her urge to have another child is, she will either be reasonable and understand, or she will be out there finding another potential father.
837116
Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
542200
I'm going to say YES!!! I think his boss feels like she & work should be his first priority. She is jealous of you.If it continues or escalates to sexual harrasment your husband should report her or put in a transfer request.Be Blessed!! Monica
339247
You sound like you have some trust issues with her.  It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work.  Some people adjust seats and leave them that way.  I am sure he is not getting too comfortable.  I am sure it is no big deal.\n\nIf you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not.  How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?\n\nYou really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her.  Why are you concerned with this?  Do you think she would cheat?  Do you think she would lie?  What has she done in the past to make her think that she would?  Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.\n\nGood Luck!
693284
Just confront her with the fact you know.  If she's doing a good job otherwise, let it go, but tell her you can't tolerate any more situations like that.\n\nYou can't mix "business with pleasure".  How would you feel if it were any other employee?  What would you do if it were any other employee?