how can i get over him and movein my life?
153509
Knowing he will always be within your heart, he taught you bow to love. Now it is destined for you to go on with life experience different loves, there is always something to learn or to teach. This time you were learning, maybe now it is your turn to teach someone what you've learned from loving him. Consider this carefully...
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
552377
spend time with your friends, go out and enjoy yourself. before you know it you'll be having the time of your life and not thinking about the person who broke your heart, look after you and all will get better. promise!
237771
Its difficult and knowing that the feelings are not there for you by him is the first step to forgetting him. Move on and gradually your feeling will fade. Try not to let it control your life. Best of luck and remember you will find someone else.
506571
get over it and move on\nstop thinking about him\ndate other guys\ndo sports\ngo dancing\nknit\nstudy\nlearn another language\nwhat ever just stay busy and stay away from him!
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
759523
Please listen to me.  This dude is gone; you are lucky that he is.  You are likely a loving a sweet girl.  You will never be able to forget him or what happened to you. MOVE ON and use this pain to motivate yourself; find some fun, some other friends, stop complaining and thinkabout your future.\nIt is difficult but the kind of guy you want is not this one.  You want to come home to someone who adores you and thinks only of you like you do him.  He is out there, and you will find him.\nHow to find him?  DO NOT LOOK, just be yourself and a friend will become something more.  Do not be anxious.\nWhen pain crosses your mind, think about something else, distract yourself; look toward the future.  Sweet one, life is just starting for you, and this pain is part of it.  Fight it and do not give in to it.
438640
Move on with your life. Put him in your past and keep him there.
890317
if you really can't get over him, then i guess you'll have to learn the hard way and hear it cold from him. call him and hear his rejection and that should make you get over him. if it doesn't work the first time, keep dfoing that until you are over him and have moved on.
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
651699
Probably a subconscious thing. Even though you consciously have gotten over him, there is still some subconscious pain that you don't even realize. But if you just hang in there, you can get past even this. It may just take time.\n\nYou might try sleeping on your couch for a while, to prevent reinforcing that subconscious hurt anymore. Rearranging your room some might help too. But the more you push past it, the better it will get. Just be patient.
316303
The reason you can't get over him is because u can't let go.\n\nY do u want him back sweetie? I know it hurts that he's with someone else and if u don't let go and move on ur only hurting yourself.. He's not thinking  or worrying about you, so why waste time that could be spent getting yourself together  or dating other guys? U get the strength by \n\n1. Keeping busy\n\n2. get rid of anything that reminds u of him\n\n3. Stop worrying about what his doing or who he's with\n\n4.Get out there a date\n\n5.Know that he's not the ONLY guy and if he was worth it he never would have done this to you\n\nI hope you realize that in life people do breakup and it will hurt, but what don't kill ya makes you stronger.\n\nGo out meet other guys and enjoy it until you met the next guy who will not leave you for another\n\nHe's not worth your tears, next time u cry about a guy cry because your so happy with him
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
1068162
It is very easy to say that leave n forget your past & Move on with life but actually it is not easy.\nDo whatever your heart tells you to do .You need to give yourself sometime Cry if you want to cry , call that person who hurts you or is the reason for your tears .Do it till the time you can & one day you will feel that its enough & Now You want to move on with your life.Cos that person is not giving you importance at all .See all his things which makes you cry & make lots of friends.\n\nThen you will decide that I will let it go I want to move on in my life.