Some guy I met at church keeps wanting to take me to the movies and he's stalking me, what do I do?
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I would openly talk to him and point out that you do not appreciate his attention when you two are surrounded by fellow church members.\n\nBy letting him know (in the presence of others) that you do NOT want him to continue what he's doing, you will later have other people to back you up that you DID tell him to bug off.\n\nAnother thing you could do (before telling him in front of that group of people) is to tell some of the church members what he's been doing and that you feel very, very uncomfortable about his actions.  .....I would also ask that they talk to him if possible.\n\nBest of everything!
862407
Talk to your Mom about this, she will know what to do, but do it now you wont be in any trouble and have done nothing wrong, but this guy sounds kind of creepy and you need to make sure you are safe
1078085
Ignore the rumors - if someone asks you about it you say "you listen to that guy?  that is simply not true."\n\nFor the stalking - if it is truly physical stalking you need to call the police.
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If he's stalking you, get a restraining order. The laws of domestic/dating violence apply to everyone! \nTo get out of the convention, though...I would simply put it about that you and your partner are going on a romantic mini-vacation that weekend....spur of the moment, super romantic trip to the shore...whatever you two would be most likely to do. Or you could say that you have the flu. But I would opt for the romantic vacation version. Hope this helps!
511041
Who told you that? i guess priest of your church . Keep away from him since most of them are child molesters.
634555
Get video/photo evidence of the person stalking you. Then take it to the police. Then you can get a restraining order out on the person so they can't come near you.
62675
I would just say - try and talk to this guy more and do little filrty things, like smile and laugh at things he says, try getting real close to him when you talk, and let him see that you are going out of your way to talk to him! And if you do get the guts to asking him to the movies just sound sure of yourself. Good luck, and smile alot, but most important, just be who you are!
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Men do this for the thrill. It makes him feel powerful without taking any risks. If you were single, you might expect a commitment. If you are married, and you respond to his advances, he knows up front that you don't care about your commitments, so why would you care about his? \nAs for the stalker, Next time drive to the police station or call a cop from you cell and have the creep arrested. If he does this to you, he probably does it to other women too.\nIf this is a recurring problem at the gym, talk to the management or change gym's.\nIf this is a recurring problem for you personally, you might want to examine your own behavior and see if you are doing anything to encourage them. It is important to take responsibility for your own behavior too.  :)
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Alright, calm down.\nFirst, ask yourself this. "Who asked who to the movies? And who accepted?" Look, I'll make this simple, if he went to the movies with you he probab;y 'likes' you as teenagers put it.
1106613
If he thinks your stalking him, he is obviously not romantically interested in you.  Try to find someone who shares your feelings and returns your affection or your just asking for disappointment.
602456
Get rid of the CREEP!!! Sounds like he is just using you till something better comes along!! Run while you still can!!
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...or maybe he is stalking you
516602
Because god will contact you in his time~not yours, you have to be patient with him as he is with you!! Just keep talking with him, your day will come!! :)
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start by not following him everywhere.if they ask you before goin out if you wanna tag along just say no thanks and don't call to check in on him
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if u dont even know him, say flat out no. He could be some kind of pervert trying to get to you.
366117
Your boyfriend sounds like he has a lot of evil in him.You should take him to your pastor so that he can rebuke the demons out him.It won't be easy though.You could also try to have your pastor come over to your place so he & a few other church members can pray over you both & your place.They need to use annoiting oil over every opening in your house.I will pray for you sweetie.You should try to stay over night or a few nights with someone as well.Be Blessed!
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Man this is sad!  A pastor, what is the world coming to when you can't even trust a pastor?  Tell your boyfriend, tell him!  He needs to know.  DO NOT avoid the situation, and please don't answer the phone for this jerk!  How did he get your phone number in the first place?  Ok, his dirt needs to be exposed.  You should let him leave a message on your voice mail, and record the fact that he even calls you.  Let your boyfriend listen.  This guy needs to be stopped.  You are probably not the first girl he's tried to nail, but he has probably gotten away with it.  That is why you won't be the one to let him get away with it any more!  Praying for you!  Expose the offender!