how can i know if my suitor is sincere to me and love me?
140112
YOU CANT...\n\nMen will always lie no matter what... I am a guy and yes I would lie to a girl that I like to make her mine...\n\nYou can only know who he really is after being together for a long time...
221396
You'll just have a deep inner peace.  You won't have to second guess whether or not he is honest, sincere, and faithful.  If you have to guess at any of those then your internal/spirit man is telling you something isn't right.  Sometimes we have to take a big step back to really see someone.  Good luck to you!
437016
My dear lovely Bubbles.  YOu are truely a sexual and enlightend lady of the 21st century and any man will be blessed to have you in his life.  \n\nLet there be nothing less but sunshine, warm brezees, smiles, hugs, and love in your life. The man you finally choose to let in will be lucky to have you and know great happiness.
1108225
u will know when he makes u laugh & makes u look at life in a positive & good manner.  he will never raise his hands on u, truly loves u, respects, values yr opinion & be there for u.  he will communicate with u even when u guys have had a quarrel. remember it works both ways. u have to do the same not only him.  relationship is a two way thing.  hope this helps & all the best =)
272113
u don't. if it is right and real u will know. if you have second thoughts then why not wait a while until u r sure he is for u. why waste time money and feelings over a legal document?
629150
Maybe if you ask him his name. If he answers "love me", then you'll knew.\n\nGood answer notyou311.
1066457
You don't, and you never will; unless you learn a very simple rule.\n\nSaying, "I love you," is easy.\n\nLiving it is hard.\n\nIf he shows you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof then believe him.\n\nIf he doesn't show you his love in ways that you can accept as sincere proof, but SAYS he loves you - don't believe him.\n\nIt's really quite simple.\n\nActions speak louder than words!
855667
He will try to get to know you inside and out and make sure he keeps you happy. His effort would be clearly visible. Ask yourself honestly does this really know me? does he even listens to what you have to say? does he know the small things about you, what you like or dislike? or does he not care or is it usually just about him? is he loving, open, honest, and calm with you? I think these are some of the important things to notice because if they don't exist now then they will probably not exist in future also.
255761
Somone who treats you with the respect and the love that you deserve , and someone who puts a smile on your face without him/her not even doing anything..!\nYou will know when you have met the right person..! Trust me you can't miss it..!
193497
Take it slow.  Unfortunately there's no magic way to tell if someone is "in love" with you and you can't exactly ask him because well he'll say "yes".  Just enjoy his company and the fact that he tries hard to make you happy and the fact that you ARE happy.  You ARE young so enjoy your life and try not to worry about him.  Remain firm with your values and morals and if he turns out to be a weirdo freak well at least you didn't do anything that you regret. \n\nLife is just a series of learning experiences.  Best of luck with this one!
159899
Only you can determine that.  Does he take you out, call you often?  Does he remember days that are special to you? Does he compliment you? Does he give you lots of attention?  You can tell how he feels about you by how he treats you.  Pay attention.
34020
I think if he loves you, it's not hard to motivate him. You yourself, and your relationship should be a great motivation to him.  \n\nThis could be a good test to find out how much he loves you ...\n\nTry to let him know that you don't appreciate he's not doing much. Ask him about his plans for career and future life. \nTell him that you care and will support him in his decisions. \n\nIf he shows zero interest in these things, he probably isn't  falling for you much, and it's up to you to consider whether to stay with him, or whether it's time to say goodbye.
113001
You cannot know for certain that he loves you but after all there is nothing in life you can be certain about so you just have to settle with trying to find out if he does trully care for you and if he wants to spent his whole life time with you.If he's by your side when u feel bad and he's there to wipe your tears,if he holds your hand,looks into your eyes and then..then you know he loves you...It's not a matter of saying he foes...it's about the bonds between you,the feeling and the emotions that never lie.
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
539123
If he is the one for you, you dont have to do anything but be yourself. He will see you for you as you are as a whole. He will appreciate your positives and negatives, your flaws and perfections. try to appreciate his and he will love you and go no where.
52432
When they put u before themselves then they love u... even in the small things.. u will know ...good luck
1092135
Sit back and ask urself if ure really ready fot the next level. Do u really love him or just his personality? What if the personality was taken tomorrow from him what else? "NO BODY KNOW´S TOMORROW" Since ure not sure,Dont withdraw, or dont give him a withdrawing move if not he might get another person that of course u know wont be difficult due to his personality.If ure really convinced that he loves u and not liking u as a sex object, Ride on. Find out why he loves u. Ask him these questions: His definition of beauty? Sexy(Not sex) Love and what he expects from his ideal woman. If he talks about physical  chemistry then I think its ur vagina he wants not  the woman in u.Bear in mind that not all that glitters are gold. Be very careful, Look before u leap.\n  If u wanna marry him for his personality then divorce later, it´s all good but remember  that No naughty act goes unpunnished.\n\nUse ur Initiative. Good Luck!!!