does wealthy matter to a relationship?
142342
Not even one bit. \nAnd if someone tells you it does, kick them out, fast.
394944
no way.... to me, love is the most important thing.... i could care less if a guy had alot of money or not...
716524
My psychology teacher had said that most happy people aren't wealthy. Money tends to make people selfish, greedy and mean.\nI wouldn't mind having some though!! \nSeriously, I'm poor, but I'm happy.
1163673
no its not all that matters in a relationship
925063
LOL!-I love what you did to her in the store & agree 100% you did the right thing! (yes there's alot of women out there who prefer "rich men".) -that's why I'm 36 & still single.
732357
If she were older i'd consider it..but you might as well leave out the rich part. It's mainly women who are attracted to money.
456785
she might not be the right person for you to marry if these things are going to bother you. she obviously has a different attitude about money then you do. if you truely love her then you wont let things like this worry you so much. all i can say is that you think hard about why you love her and want to marry her.
633131
It doesn't have to be an "either/or" type of thing, but many times the pursuit of wealth is all-encompassing, or at least gives one a very singular focus.  Oftentimes, a very successful person has to devote an inordinate amount of time to his or her profession to achieve that success, and therefore cannot spend that time tending to their personal lives and relationships.\n\nThe opting for love or money is a personal choice.  Would you want a partner that is available to you, that has time to devote to you, and that gives you a relationship ("love") that is 100% of what you desire - and you have modest financial means?  Or, would you rather have a partner that spends much of that time devoted to work, wealth, etc and can only give you a relationship that is 50% of what you desire - but you are wealthy?\n\nThe choice between love and money doesn't mean "any" money, it means a fair amount of wealth.  It's not middle-class money, it's upper-class money.  Without being patronizing or condescending, I'd gather you're fairly young.  As you get older, you'll see why people opt for love.  Despite what you may think, money can make your life easier but it can't make you happy.
487978
Content marriage for 15yrs. We both do all we can to please the other on a daily basis. Income has less than nothing to do with it if you and your partner are non-materialistic.
1035986
a rich man is the one who has many things, not only money, but qualities, knowledge etc, while a poor man might have money, but still feel he has nothing if his heart is empty.\nrichness is within our souls and no thief can take it away from us.
1037544
That is decided by each individual and what they value the most.  Some people do not consider lots of money to be wealth, but rather their family, friends, etc.  Some people only count sentimental possessions as wealth.  Some people count their talents.  As I said, this is a question that is decided by each individual person.
1744
the one that adores u. I agree with the young lady's answer money isn't everything and eventually having everything u want won't satisfy your need for companionship. So, it pays to have someone who loves u and cares deeply but with limited means than a loveless marriage that will only make u do two things, cheat, or leave.
592399
nope. find a better guy who's true to himself. \nyou never know... he's a double-faced guy...\nyou might have this chemistry...but relationship needs maturity and being truthful to oneself and your partner.\nand as i can see he doesn't have that.\n\nplus...\n\nif he likes your attention why does he have to pretend rich and wander dating a "divorced" woman???\n\nyou deserve more than him.\nyou will find someone far more better than him.\n\ngood luck!:D
404910
I don't think money should ever get in the way of a relationhip of any sort tho, times might be tight you should rember you always have each other. ( if the relationship was ment to be!)
660717
Unless you're making laods of cash dump her becasue she ain't gonna,love you without money. Sound like she's very amterialistic, bad choice. Pick a girl that'll love you rich as hell or poor as snot.
203835
Well everything needs money, and while dating and having a bf/gf doesn't require it, it certainly helps the situation.  I don't understand the concept of money either.  lol.
376414
Money does not buy happiness. If the man is good to you and you love him nothing else matters. You said it yourself he is perfect, what more could you ask for. I would stay in a one room apartment if that's all we could afford and the man is perfect. You can also work to help financially. No one knows what will come next, even a rich man can go bankrupt then what do you have if you were only in it for the money?