here in Iran virginity is so important but i wanted to know is it the same in US and do the girls save that?
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not all girls do. in fact, i would go out on a limb and say MOST dont save sex for marriage. But there are some of us who do. I'm a Christian, and thats part of my beliefs.\nim not talking about saving it for someone special, that just proves my point that women in the US dont value themselves.
233336
Each woman values her virginity differently.  There are those who never really cared anything about their virginity and to this day it doesnt matter but then again, there are a lot of women who today will tell you that had they been able to keep their virginity longer they would have been much happier.\n\nOnce you give it away, you can't ever take it back.  It is something in this day and age that young women should hold onto as sex isn't exactly as safe as it used to be so many years ago...
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dear mohammad i don't know where do you live,i guess you are in west,but your name says that you are muslim .i am muslim girl .in islam girl shouldn't have sex before marriage.of course we feel love and romance but our religion and traditions protects us from falling.it's a great protection for the girl and for her husband in the future who will be happy to be the first man touching her and will feel happy that this woman will bring up his children.and believe me this is not only in islam but also in christianity.the christ and the holy bible order people to stay away from sex without marriage but these morals have changed in the west due to ideas of liberity.liberity is very important for everybody but it doesn't mean making sins.God bless you daer friend and your future wife and protect your children from her.
662815
Do girls appreciate guys who are virgins? \n\nYES, YES, YES, YES, and YES!!!!!\n\nMore than ever and more than anything, YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
495807
About male there's no similar system as girl to verify that.\nThus, a virgin man only is a way to point people who never had sex. Therefore, as the first real act occurs, then generally the guy affirms to have lost (virtually) his virginity. Underlining that there is no way to demonstrate or negate it!
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Virginity was important once upon a time when there were no protection from getting kids after sex. Hence all the religions and  all the cultures advocated virginity to prevent the birth of unwanted children. Today the science has changed everything and people could safely have sex and still not get children and therefore virginity has more or less lost its relevance. However one thing should not be missed by us that in olden days due to the virginity there were early marriages and this resulted in the family culture which brought peace of mind and stability to the people. Nowadays due to advancement of science we see many a relationships before the actual marriage which may take place sometime after 40 years of age and since there are no elders to look after the children they are put into child care centres and this results in children losing the love for parents and also divorce rates have increased because of late marriage and there is not peace of mind to most of the couples.
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Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
955171
It's called oral sex so no I wouldn't say that once you have had oral you are still a virgin.  Being a virgin means you haven't done anything sexually.
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Imagine asking a thousand boys about Doing It. We'd get three sets of answers on the subject of virgins... \n\n1. The "Thank God she's a virgin" answers:\n\n- She's never felt this way about anyone else. How special am I..?\n\n- If I'm rubbish in bed, she won't know the difference. There's no comparison.\n\n- I'll always be her Number One. Like her first day at school. She'll never forget.\n\n- I'm an explorer in unchartered territory - wa-hey!\n\n2. The "Thank God she's not a virgin" answers:\n\n- I can do without being The One - it's too much pressure.\n\n- Don't virgins bleed? Doesn't it hurt first time? I don't want to do that to anyone.\n\n- If she's not a virgin, she won't care that I'm not either. \n\n- She'll know what she's doing - wa-hey!\n\nBut I'd bet large sums of money on this: The biggest set of answers (by far) would be:\n\n3. The "Chuffed to bits whichever way" answers:\n\n- You? In bed? Bring it on! \n\nWhichever way, the past is ancient history. You stick to your guns. \n\nSo judging by the artical above either way a girl is either sexy or unsexy get me?
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If you give away something special then your virginity is lost. Virginity is more than penetration.
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My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.
711158
This whole virgin thing makes me sick. I wish people would accept the fact that virginity is a guilt trip created by so-called religious doctrine that is actually a control with fear tool in order to prevent young members of so-called society from exploring their natural human sexuality at the time they experience it... Thus I could care less whether or not a female member of our so-called society has had sexual intercourse or not, for that is solely her business, and it DOES NOT make her anything other than human.
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It's not that important but there are different aspects of both.\nA virgin or inexperienced girl would be able to learn alot and I like to be a teacher.  Plus being a guy, we all have a virgin fetish.  I don't know why but there's just something about being the first lover for a girl.\nOn the flip side, the virgin might have alot of pre-conceived notions about sex that only experience can eliminate or bolster.  And depending on the girl, there will be a learning curve so you have to be patient.\nAn experienced girl will bring all the tricks and techniques she's learned to the table.  Some you like some you don't but at least she's got a bag of tricks herself.\nAnd there's the opposite of that virgin fetish where you don't want a girl who's been too slutty.  Her carnal might intimidate some guys.\nMe, I like a girl who is experienced but is still willing to learn and mysterious.  Don't have to do everything you know everynight, let's both try something new together.
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.....well, to state the obvious, losing your virginity involves a giving and receiving between two people, not a person and their appendage. Also, once you do lose your virginity, you will see that using your hand and being with a partner are more different than you think..trust, it doesn't count.
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i think both are equally important. in my own honest opinion a person should lose his / her virginity only to the most special person for him / her.
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Lol, who knows? I come from the UK and sex ed is compulsary here but still we seem to have the highest teen pregnancy's in the whole of Western Europe. Sex ed's important though, because it teaches about protection against pregnancy and STD's....I find it quite important that high school kids must know it.
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Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.