how to trust people more?
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Well first you need to trust yourself. If you doubt something in you then that is just going to have you not trusting anyone ever again.
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my trust that people have in me
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Get to know them.  Try trusting them with little secrets, that if the information got out, you would not be embarrased.  Then wait and see if other friends find out what you shared with your new friend.  If they pass several of the small tests, try telling them something more important.  PLus, ask them questions you can verify.  If they tell you the truth, it is more likely they can be trusted.\n\nProceed slowly, trust must be earned!
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you can only know that you trust someone unless you feel it in your heart if you know for a fact that they havent broken a promis or lied to you then you should be able to trust them but watch your back cuz ppl do change and i believe that ppl do deserve a second chance cuz everyone makes mistakes and they learn from them "sometimes" but after they break there second chance then they are no good and you dont deserve to trust them watch and listen for bullcrap lies if someone is telling you something and you dont really feel it in your heart and if something is telling you that something isnt right then usually its a lie so just be carefull and listen to your heart dont let anyone fool you and dont let your mind interfear with your heart and LOOK OUT FOR LIES!!!! and you sould be fine\n\nhope this helps\ngood luck
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Well, if you honestly evaluate everything from their point of view, have you given them reason to distrust you?  If so, you'll have to work at being as honest and open about what you think, feel, and are doing.  Trust usually needs to be earned.  \n\nIf you can truly not figure out why they distrust you, perhaps you are dealing with irrational people.  Family counseling may be the way to go.
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You trust quickly and give in to the moment.  Think matters through.  Don't be to trusting from now on.  Put your guard up.
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Basically in life, everyone lies. If not they aren't homosapiens. To trust someone is a very difficult thing to do. Before you can start trusting someone, ask yourself this question, "Do I trust anyone in the first place?" You must sacrifice something in order to gain something. You are afraid that someone lied to to you. Is the matter a big one or a small one or it's just your feeling? The best way is to ask the person directly in a gentle manner. People lie but you must never keep that anger/worry in you. Learn how to forgive and forget as it could be the best remedie in living a happier life!
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Treat others how you'd like to be treated. Everyone is human. Everyone has feelings (cliche) but it's true. If you're nicer to others you'll feel better within yourself. Obviously being nasty to others won't have a positive impact on you.  \n\nHaving more respect for others will allow you and others to have more respect for yourself. Everyone is on this earth for a reason (an unknown one at that). Life is hard enough as it is without people being twats to each other, that's commonly human nature though. At the end of the day, it's only you and your conscience that will enable you to be a nicer person to others. You just need to be more considerate to others, even if they aren't considerate back, you can rest knowing you've done the right thing. Directly that person may not appreciate it, but you'll notice others will (and they will)\n\nI hope this has helped.
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If u want to know people,just speak to them.Be friendly with them.Most importantly trust them and also also make them beleive that u r a trustworthy fellow.
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Do what you heart tells you to do. but first,and fore most take care of your needs, and don't be afraid to talk to  them about what is going on. I do not agree with the above answer, you should never be sneaky, because you can not be sneaky without be dishonest with yourself, and the ones involved
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Just be yourself.You should be the person who love at all times.Think of others as much as you think of yourself.Be honest.don't speak behind their backs.Be jovial and friendly if you can.Know when to give an advice and when not to.Know if something is funny and when it is not.(there are always serious times when friends just expects you to understand).\n\nBe open minded and speak your feelings. In other words trust will come when you trust others with your feelings.\n\nI just have to be me. Being myself and they just love me for me.One thing though you will have good times and bad times this is when your friendship will be tested by time.Will your friendship survive the test of time?It all depends on what it is made up of:Trust,Love,Honesty,repect.\nIMPORTANTLY FORGIVENESS AND LOYALTY IS KEY.
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Trust is earned, never freely given.\n\nBeing burned a few times myself has made me very cautious about who I trust, but relationships are built on trust.  So, what does one do?\n\nWell, it is a kind of process, I have found.  One only metes out trust a little at a time, starting at "friendly."  From there on, it is a gradual process where one observes what they say and do to see if the two match.  After a while, one learns to trust the other when it is shown that they are trustworthy.\n\nBe friendly, mete out your trust a little at a time, and always be observant and pay attention to any "red flags" about the guys behavior.\n\nOne admonition: the road goes two ways.  Be a person who is fair, honest, and trustworthy yourself.  He'll probably be watching you as well!\n\nGood luck!
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SOMETIMES IT IS NOT GOOD TO TRUST SOMEONE BLINDLY
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Meeting new people and new surroundings and which people you can trust and which people are Problems for everyone..\nStay away from them!!
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Some people are more sincere than others. Before you trust their sincerity, you should take the time to get to know the person and understand their way of life before deciding what their level of sincerity might be. Be careful in venues such as this. Deception can run rampant. Likewise, there are wonderful people here that will be honest, helpful and sincere! Good luck........just be cautious while curious.
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This is sad.  Typically, people don't know until the very last minute that they've been betrayed.  But to find out really whether this person had been true to you as well as to him/herself, you'll need to be observant, ask questions (but not too much), listen to what others say and make investigations (not assumptions), last, but not least, be sensitive to your inner self (we all have it_intuition).  \n\nBeing used does not mean it's very bad it depends on your perspective of the whole situation.  At least you had something that the other person needed and could not get it any place else..etc.  Can you be specific of the second question?\n\nAs for how and why people use others, that's a good question.  Some people use others for personal gain or for the gain of others through manipulation.
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I am probably the wrong person to answer this, but I wish it was like it used to be, (not that im an old man, but actually it has gotten bad in such a short amount of time)I have always trusted people, and believed in people, I have been screwed over so many times and lost alot of things in my life by trusting, but I feel like I am a better person because the times I have not been screwed over, it was so worth it. I would say go with your gut feeling!