if you are casually dating someone/hanging out, should you expect something for valentines day?
141997
Yes.  Otherwise he's probably thinking of someone else.
441420
Not neccessarily.  It means he wants to see you plain and simple.  He could care about you or he could just be trying to get something from you.
53465
yea i think its a day to show someone u love them anyone a friend a boyfriend girlfriend.  and both should get gifts or think of something but it's not all about the guy giving gifts i think it should be both ways.  now if the guy doesn't want u to get him something still get something.  i say it's wrong when girls just expect gifts and don't wanna give..  thats just a real bitch.
115076
From a man's point of view, from what I'm seeing these day's with the guy's, "I'm still wondering myself".\nPersonally, I expect an eye to eye relationship with my other. I expect truth and honesty. I expect to give all my love and expect in return. I expect a 50 50 relationship, and when thing's are down like a illness or something like bad time's, I expect we take care of each other and kill that 50 50 until thing's get back to normal. I expect a give and take situation whenever time's change. I expect open heartedness both way's. What I really expect out of all that, I expect to live with my "Soul Mate" till death do us part. That's what I expect... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
340040
not really. giving and sharing can b done on any day you want. doesn't have to b only on Valentine's day and who knows your bf might b thinking of some surprises or greater things for you tomorrow or the next day or the day after and so on.......
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
691798
I'm having the same problem myself. The way I decided to solve my problem, was to be great friends, but casual daters. If you value your relationship (as friends and lovers) talk about it...over chinese food or pizza or something. Really talk about if you think the relationship will last more than a month and what would really change once you 'officially' started dating. would there really be a difference in how you act around each other other than physically (i.e. hand-holding, kissing, etc.)?
691548
No, but speaking from the man's side of things, if you had a nice time and think you might want to see him again, I'd find a way to end the date on a nice note.  Squeeze his hand, or even give him a hug or a kiss on the cheek, so that you leave him feeling good about you.
477507
if you guys are dating, sure. the girl won't be surprise if you guys are dating, or bg and gf.
727572
I believe its essential to spend some time with a prospective partner whether you want to term it dating or anything else. What a couple needs is some time together in private to get to know each other better. There is no guarantee that the one you are meeting would show his/her true self & not go out of the way to impress. But there are always subtle, unintented gestures, words that would give you a fair insight of the personality if you keenly observe. I'm not a ardent supporter of arranged marraiges, but if thats the choice you have, atleast date a few times & check for some chemistry inbetween. Else you would feel compromised at a later stage!
18810
Actually I think it is sweet. But my instincts tell me that he doesn't need you to spend money on him. Some fun and romantic gesture would be that much more meaningful. One time I did a really fun thing for a guy I was dating at the time. I wrote about thirty little things on pieces of paper and folded them up and put them in a jar I decorated. That whole weekend we kept pulling out little slips of paper and doing whatever they said. Some were real spontaneous involving jumping in the car and going somewhere. Others were more intimate. :D Others still were fun loving and silly and goofy but great fun. Think of things you know he likes to do. (Hockey, baseball, reading, writing) and center some of the activities around that. Still again center some around things you like to do. Its a great way to get to know one another at the same time you are having a blast! Good luck and I so hope you see this two months later!!!
928971
It depends what stage of the relationship you are in, if you just started dating, then you can show your love by just being ontime for your dates and showing that you are genuinely interested in her...listed to everything she is saying and respond in a respectful manner. Plus, dont forget her birthday or anniversarys, you may even get her a small gift for a one month anniversary! But, NEVER Overgift someone! it makes them feel guilty and makes you look desparite!
938831
As with anyone, you should not feel pressured into anything.  You will know when the time is right.  If you feel "awkward", with the idea of a physical relationship, it does not sound like you are ready.
439705
It depends on who you're with and how you feel.  If you deeply care,  it will be awesome!
172984
Everyday is a good day to show Love, so a simple gesture like a heart shaped candy/chocolate, and a note/card...maybe dinner...in or out it depends on what would be more appreciated by your partner.  Happy Valentines Day Everyone!
1046748
relationships are not about getting stuff. If i got a kiss on my b-day that be enough for me. People just don't know how special they really are until the fact you get their love and you feel happy for that.\n\nEdit: Is your relationship bad with him other than that?
182811
Absolutely! If there's a spark, what's the harm in dating. I mean, it's nice to know the person isn't a psycho, but assuming they didn't appear to be when you met them, going out after that would be fine. Attraction is key in the long run so if it starts out that way, it at least has potential.