My husband used to have sexual intercourse with me twice or thrice a week. Since two months, he is changed.?
150300
depends on whats happened with you two in the relationship,his work,if hes depressed ,if he had something happen in the pass two months
369112
Sexual activities as you describe here are an addiction when they harm your social life. It depends on how much time and energy (!) your friends put into it.\n\nIf it harms your relation with you, give him a set time. (e.g.6 weeks?) Reduce the time he spends on his addiction gradually. Go out a lot and do refreshing things like jogging an walking. Reduce the use of coffee and alcohol and fast foods. Explain that sex and love are not the same. If there is no significant change (minimum reduced to 70%) leave him.
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I have decided after two marriages that there are different kinds of love, you do what makes YOU feel the best.  You won't be able to change your husband, and I know from experience, they may try to change, but it rarely works out, and if so only temporarily.\nIt ends up not being fair to either one of you.  Don't take a chance on losing your new love...........
726820
He probably has changed, and you have changed too even if yo don't realize it. People change, you just have to change with each other and adjust to the changes as a couple.
1073754
He is taking to much. I found that it energized my sex life
1186364
Thats not a problem. Do you rather have him cheat on you and go with other women? It helps a marrage to have change once in a while. Do you keep the same curtains up, year after year? Good luck and have fun with the changes! ;)
1130673
Well, hon, unfortunately you are trapped in a self created mess and you will have to face the consequences of your actions when they are revealed. Do I think your husband knows? Of course he knows! He may not know about it in concrete, factual terms, but he knows something is going on based on your actions, behavior and the subtle clues you've left behind. Unfortunately, when we are thrust into the throes of lust and passion, even though we tend to think we are being secretive and subtle about it, we aren't. In fact, we are screaming it across a loudspeaker. How? By the way we dress, act, and so forth. According to a private investigator I know, 98% of the partners of people that are having affairs KNOW that this is what is going on because they have "intuited" it. Thus, your hubby is asking probing questions to verify what he senses in you. It is possible however, and you need to be aware of this, that others have seen you with your lover, and may have reported it back to your husband. Again, as subtle and as cool as we think we are, we aren't. People watch.\n\nDo I think you should confess? Yes I do. This is risky because he may become so hurt and betrayed by your actions he may file for divorce, but this is a chance you have to take. Remember, as an adult you have to be responsible for your actions in life, and you have to sometimes pay the consequences for your actions. He may want to divorce you, or maybe he won't. In fact, he may want you to go for marriage counseling together to work it through. But you won't know this for sure until you carefully and sensitively discuss this with him. \n\nChances are he is going to want to know why you did this and you are going to have to look deep within yourself to find the root causes of your actions. You absolutely must take ownership of your actions, and apologize accordingly. You can't change the past now, but you can remedy it by acknowledging what you did and taking action to resolve the problem, build trust again with your partner, and forgive yourself. Look within. On the surface many of us venture into affairs because we want a different kind of attention from another man than what we are getting at home. Sometimes, we are drawn to someone because they possess something that our partner doesn't and we find it captivating. Sometimes we want to spice up our lives and have a bit of adventure, just as you said. But usually the root cause of our actions, beneath the excitement and forbidden nature of it all, is that we feel unappreciated, unloved, and undervalued by our partners and think - hope really -that someone else will give that to us. What we want, in effect, is a boost to our low self esteem, which is something we can garner from within ourselves rather than having to get it from outside sources.\n\nThe bottom line is simple: You are going to have to face the music, hon. I know you are scared of this, but maintaining a secret will create a larger wedge between you. This is far more damaging to a relationship because relationships must be built on honesty and trust, and without that, you have nothing. Relationships with secrets are doomed to fail because secrets always have a way of coming to the surface. And finally, unresolved issues between the two of you will affect not only your marriage, but your kids as well, and that isn't fair to them.\n\nI wish you good luck.
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I used to have sex ... then I got married
804250
If he is doing these things I would say he has acted on them, thinking about it, or is going to...I am sorry.  This could end your marriage, it needs to be thoroughly discussed.
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yeah that's true but you can't get sick of someone in two weeks unless you can't fu*k or your doing the same thing over and over again and if your having sex everyday all day he was only into sex and that's it and he got what he want so it was time to move on and yes sex does get boring when you do the same thing all the time
1065216
You are a lucky man. If you were married to me,  we would only be having sex 4 times a month. LOL
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Well I don't know exactly what to say cause I'm male. But your body is changing (As you well know) Your reproductive organs are getting ready to shut down ( Sorry your baby mak'in years are about over) Hormones that once made you want to reproduce.Are in ever decreasing amounts by your body..Causing your mind alittle stress..Hot flash's , Mood swings, Sudden crying, are all affects but there are also others,, A loss of the desire for intimate contact, facial hair and gaining weight are others. This loss of wanting to have sex is very normal..If you're husband Loves you he will understand...Not that any of us guys are able to understand it anyway..If you go to the Doctor he may recommend hormone replacement therapy.or maybe some Smiley pills to make you feel better....My wife has gone thru this for about 3 years <So it is a long process, Sit down with your Husband and tell him you have to have a talk.....Explain to him what is going on...He should be understanding........Almost all married men have to experience it ( I laughingly call my wife Mrs Jackal and Hyde........
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Don't ask us, ask your husband.  He was a dumb azz for landing himself in jail, and thus not being able to take care of you.  I think he should give his permission for you to have a sex partner, but under the undrestanding that once he is out, that it will end.
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If you hadn't said you haven't married for a long I would have probably known. I think you don't "know" your husband yet. I personally don't agree with such kind of behaviours but I think this unusual thing you see stems from somewhere else. This can be a "sign" to you which shows your husband has some sort of psycological problem which should be cured. You can eventually find the root of this if you continue your marrage. Time will show this to you and it cannot be hidden of course if you don't get divorced. Its your decision. If you continue your marrage and live with him you might as well be able to help him. If you just tell him not to do this action and even if he doesn't, you haven't solved anything, you have just covered the problem. But of course don't go up to him and say ' you have psycological problem' he might get upset !
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Sex a week ago, oral 2 nights ago.
930164
looks like you know whats going on. the question is, what are you going to do about it? your husband is playin you, and you need to confront him, dont let him feed you those obvious lies. he should respect you and his unborn child enough to at least be honest with you. if he doesnt want to be with you, he needs to make that known.
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4 years damn, well put on a sexy nighty and meet him at the door, if that doesn't work, talk to him about couples therapy or sex therapy.ohh another thought, if you aren't getting any from him most likely someone else is. ask him and tell him you would like to see some changes. maybe he wants you to show some initiative