How do I get rid of my mom's boyfriend?
152100
Give him hell...examples..hair dye in his shampoo...gum IN his shoes...super glue on something he grabs often...stright pins in his seat...You get the pic. he will be gone in no time. Oh!!!.....Don't get caught (your mom will never let you live it down & the boyfriend will probably stick around just to spite you)
319783
You need to tell your mom, that you don't appreciate her violating your trust. If she keeps this up, you will be reluctant to tell her anymore of your life.\nI don't think your Mom would like that, that's a bond that shouldn't be broken, especially for some boyfriend, who may not be around that long.\nBoyfriends can come and go, but you will be Mother and Daughter for life. Ask your Mom, what is more important to her, your trust, or her trying to please her boyfriend.\nSurely there has to be some other subject, other that your private life that they can talk about.\nIf she merely tells him of some success you may have in school or on a project, that's fine, that's just a Mom's pride in her daughter.\nYour private life should be out of bounds. Ask her  how she would feel, if you did the same to her, by telling all your friends about her private life.
712341
I would go for satisfaction of telling the old s.o.b. off. Your mom knows how he is???? Why in the hell has she as the adult told that mean old man to lay off. My mom would have, i certainly would if anyone was to be mean or insulting to one of my kids. I would not care who it was. You should not have to put up with that cr*ap from no one, He must have realy self esteem issues to put you down. I would let him have it. There is no excuse for him.
1176443
get rid of your 10 year old bf
139620
Ask him to have the pastor call you.  Find out if the pastor really did say that.  If he says no, he won't have the pastor call you, or if the pastor says no, he didn't say that, then the guy is lying.\n\nYou really should get a different man and not wait around for this guy to get a divorce.  Men are dirty, disgusting creatures, very fickle and weird.  Get one that isn't married and you'll have fewer problems.\n\nThe other thing is if your mom hates him then get rid of him.  Men are such lying, miserable scum, why bother with one that is married?\n\nAlso if he loves Jesus, why would he be running around with you (I'm sure you are a nice person, don't get me wrong) BEFORE he's divorced from his wife?\n\nIf you aren't really ugly, hairy, or massively overweight, I would definitely try to get a man without so much baggage.\n\nHave you met his current wife?  That's a must, she might not know anything about this so-called-divorce.\n\nGood luck honey!
121431
Hide it, and tell him you dont have any!! Thats what my mom does and it works everytime!!!
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
613201
My mother never liked my boyfriend and unfortunately I do not speak to her now and she doesn't know that I am married to that boyfriend. I'm not suggesting that this will happen to you but I think that you should be firm and stick by your husband because your mother has to stop dictating your life when you reach a certain age.\nMothers always believe that they know best but I am very happy - my mother was proved wrong so you should have faith in your own feelings.
540845
First of all, you should always respect your mother, secondly, you being 14 should not be having a boyfriend to begin with. I am siding with your mother. but against it because you shouldnt have one. You should be no where near his house alone. Understad how she feels and abide by her rules. I know it may seem unfair now but you will understand when you get older. trust me. and let me tell you this, once you are alone with him, he is going to want to do something. DONT DO IT.
880381
Your poor mum...5 years is a long time. I hope she gets rid of him as its a real cheek if he says he can't stop seeing the other woman !!!
555824
I have the same problem with my family.  It got to the point where I wasn't even talking to my own mother.  You need to tell them that this is what makes YOU happy.  Maybe you can slowly start bringing him around (for dinners, b-days, etc).  This will show them what type of guy he is.  Most importantly, they need to see that he is a real person, not just a "black male."  Have him send your mom flowers or something-- just to show her how sweet he can be.  Don't sacrifice your love for their ignorance.  Good luck!
793923
Before you call maybe you should think long and hard about. Will you be able to handle the rejection if he says something hurtful or he admits to the fact that he doesn't want you in his life. Maybe your mom should call and speak with him first.
21004
speak up, the mother of the child still wants that control she thinks it is her kid and shell do want she wants. there will be lots of problems but always smile to the mom and but you must put your foot down and not let her control you and him. yes they have a child together and that is it. trust me i deal with it all the time. it is not the childs fault though. but you do need to speak up not bossy just say we want the things to stay here for when she is here. and dont invite her over. your going to have to let her go from your lives and let her have her own with the child her and your boyfriend are over and it sounds like she is just trying to hold on to something?...  good luck
334247
Let them see what he does for you.  Set down physical boundaries when you're around your parents i.e., no touching except hand-holding,no kissing, groping, making out, pinching, sneaking off, etc. let them see what a gentleman he is. In turn, show them you REALLY love him, and nothing will stand in the way of that.  But since you do want their blessing R-E-S-P-E-C-T.  You respect them (even if they say quit seeing him, respect their wishes, they'll see you're sad, if it came to that.  Just remember you can't hope for them to like him. He has to be a good guy, and work at it.  It may also just take time.
69166
Alright, I believe that's 2 questions. Pretty smart way to conserve on points. Well as for the 1st, I'd say that's it's probably time to find a new boyfriend. As for the other, Maybe mom would be happier if she did'nt see you waiting around the house for a week wondering what up with the boyfriend.
683862
If you love this man then by all means marry him. If you allow your mother to rule your love life you will be miserable for the rest of your life.\nMy mother hated my boyfriend. I met him when I was 13, we got married when I was 19 and have been married 10 years now and together 16! My mom still isn't too fond of him, but has learned that he isn't going anywhere and she just has to deal with it. \nGood Luck.. hopefully your mother will come around and see that he makes you happy.
536565
i feel sorry for you. i have a similar situation. my boyfriend's mother doesn't like me as well. we have been together for more than 4 years now.  what i suggest is you discuss this matter with your boy and try to win your future mother in law.  if you can't just fix your relationship with your man and just ignore her.  what's important is that you and your man are madly inlove with each other.