what if your husband tells you he loves you but can also be happy without you in his life is this true luv?
149188
Let me translate this for you.  He is saying, "I love you, but you are a pain in the tail."  Quit being a pain in his tail.
565163
no, if you can't tell him to his face that you love him then you actually don't love him. Loving someone means you have to feel comfortable around him. If he can't take you seriously, then he don't have alot of trust in you. Just try it and see what happens. Whatever you do, please don't write it
882276
Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
560747
yes baby this is true love the love which can last for life time  .......i think u must express him ur love gooo on my dear dnt miss this ur ture love is near u knw express it before he goes far away
507942
To me it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you.  But I'm telling you listen to your mind not just your heart.  Your heart is going to tell you what makes you feel good but your mind may tell you what is best for you. Because I was with a man for about 5 years and he was always with other females and lying to me.  I loved him I truly did, and I probably always will.  I just wish that I had left him sooner. So you do this for me ask yourself this would you rather be alone and happy free from him cheating on you or with him and hurting. Also remember that if a man cheats and lies to you it doesn't make him a bad man, because a woman can have someone who is faithful to her and honest yet he might come home and beat on her everyday.  Just because you love him don't just go by that.  Most people will say you are a fool for staying with him eventhough he cheats, but I say you aren't a fool you are just in love or you think you are in love.  So just look out for yourself and if he's done more to you than for you and you've felt more pain than happiness you know what to do.  I know your question was if he loves you but I felt like I wanted to tell you all of this because I hate to see a woman who really loves a man and take him back or stay with him eventhough he's hurting her.  I wish you the best
340658
YES HE LOVES U HE JUS HAS ISSUES WITHIN HIMSELF HE NEEDS TO DEAL WITH TAKE TIME AND LET HIM SEE AND FEEL WHAT HES MISSING......
737808
No. Whether he knows it or not, you will know it. Unless you are a very shallow or self obsessed person, it will change the way you feel about yourself and possibly your husband. Keep your relationship special by keeping it just between the two of you.
1047025
Nope. I married someone that loves me and cares for me so deeply. I did love him once, but he killed my love....now that I am married I realized that I hate myself for not following my heart. Its not fair to try to make someone happy and living a fake life that you may not feel. Trust me. I can't get out of it, and each day gets harder and harder.
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Not because I could live with him, but because I couldn't live without him.  There's some intangible thing that just makes us 'click'.  Peas and carrots, PB&J, Sonny & Cher (ok, bad example).  We're best friends with benefits.  My marriage has been the best and hardest thing I've ever done.  I have found happiness but it wasn't the cakewalk I thought it would be.  We lost the rose colored glasses in year three.  Being married includes birthdays and funerals.   And we've learned it's better to be happy than to be right all the time.
174985
If he really loves you, you wouldn't have to ask!
646872
it is so sweet, means he in love or really care about u.
38080
I don't think everyone is capable of really loving someone, totally selfless, when the other person's happiness is the most important thing, and not yours.\n\nSo, unfortunetly, i would say no...
683283
He might be right but only you will know how you truly feel about it. It's possible to love and care for someone and not be able to live with them or have a relationship where both people are really happy and neither is suffering to make the other happy. \nPeople aren't right or wrong for eachother, it is what you make it. It's normal to miss someone you love but not be able to tolerate them. \nEver have your bestfriend stay at your house for a week or two? It's the same concept. Just because you miss him doesn't mean your decision to leave was wrong, you tried to get back together and things still were not right. Now you feel the same way again but even your husband see's how this won't work. It could be he is just that disheartened after all the ups and downs but unless he outright says that then what he says is really how he feels and you two finally agree on something. I say you should stay apart till you can think outside of your emotions. You can still talk and it's not like one of you has died although I know there is a feeling of loss. Remember that nothing undoes your past together the good times or bad. If you decide you want this to work, really want it. then be grateful that you have him and remember how miserable you are when he's gone and keep that in mind when your thinking about digging a shallow unmarked grave for him in the backyard after a disagreement. I'm joking but the point stands. I would think if he is willing to make another attempt that this really will be the last try and you have to make it count. So it all comes down to you and your willingness to live with him when you take into account everything that IS him. he's not just the things you miss. Again I'm not pushing toward divorce just to think this through logically.
19053
i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not
870025
You are an amazing wife, he'll be happy either way you give it to him
723161
No, it doesn't mean you don't really love him. Some of the things my husband does embarasses me. If I think he could be a 'better' person, then I suggest to him about changing. Sometimes I just live with it. :-)
1121556
most likely he is in love with you , and wants to know how you feel befor he tells you i love you