good,ways to get a girl friend and does it matter about being fat?
151311
well, someone will be there for you no matter how big you are........just be honest and kind and you'll find your soulmate soon!
431805
first learn to love yourself you need to be able to feel good about you \ndress well and try tone up extra pounds look good if they are muscle but not too much muscle it looks bad \ngo to places where you will meet alot of people club , pub ect when a girl comes over to you be nice dont give tacky 1 liners and be your self good luck
166407
The best way is to have a hobbie and the next best thing is to fine a good girl friend that doesn't have a boyfriend and hang out....if non of that works get a new boy friend...but never go back to the old one
3421
Its all about trial and error. I don't think there a particular way to find a "good girlfriend" And it also depends on what qualities you are looking for in a woman. \nI wouldn't suggest bar or night clubs. Rather try meeting people through activities that interest you, for example, if your into reading or books, you could join a book club, or if you enjoy fitness you can take a class. This way you are more likely to meet someone with similar interest as yours.
381295
Girls pick up subtleness.  Say something like, "I am sooo glad that I count on your friendship."  Or talk about some other girl that you are interested in, and she will get the message.
427905
If you aren't that comforatble around girls, get with a shy one so it can seem like you are more brave... =) But if you want to break out of your shell, get with a girl that isn't shy and will always have something to talk about, so you wont have to think about what to talk about.Don't try to get a GF rite now, you should talk to a lot of good girls and get comfortable first, then get a GF.
41557
the best way to get a girl.. be orginal, be funny, and most important of all be confident. if she says no just like it doesn't bother you.
547349
You can't just sit here waiting to fish a girl. It'd be a miracle for a girl to come to you. Spring into action if you haven't already! There are girls waiting for you to meet them, so find one and start to make friends with her in the hope to develop a further relationship.\n\nAs for a good girl or bad, you have to learn from socializing and dating a girl to be a good judge of character.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
1086604
First this is not a problem at all. Take this junk out of ur mind. Making friends with girls is not a problem provided u appear nice, good , trustworthy, compatible and so on and so forth. just look for tht secret charm within urself that makes u different from other men and make sure u look confident and positive when u talk to girls. dont try try to b a casanova and also dont try to ape somebody. be natural and urself. thats the trait any person loves in another person------something 'different'\n\n(gimme 10 points if it works)
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well i actually have a friend, shes a girl, and well she defenetly wanted me to get a new gf just after my ex broke up wit me, man do i thank her for that!!!! anyway the first thing ya do is act like ya not be like an arrogant guy. than ya gotta find a really cool girl that would make a good gf. also make sure she doesn't have a bf. im not sure but i think my ex already had a bf when i first asked her out. result she broke up wit me 1 mounth exactly, i count days lol you shouldn't. than well get friends wit her. i didn't actually become friends wit my ex and so that is why she broke up wit me so dont forget that. also my ex was kindda shy its best if you don't get somebody that is shy but if you like her alot its ok if she is. well thats pretty much it. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
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That depends entirely on the particular gal. Most gals would prefer a slender, guy and not obese. You are seen in public with her.. and with her friends. If you are much overweight, it tends to work adversely on the friends of the girl.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
1069507
Well that depends on your approach to girls. If you take to long you end up as a friend.\nI think that with patience you could end up with someone who was your friend first. This takes longer but it's worth the wait.\nGood luck!
909461
Outter appearence does matter.......its not the only thing, its only one small part of having a good relationship, but it does matter.  You arent shallow.  If you arent attracted to her sexually from her being heavy, then thats how you are.  If she is a friend, then keep her as a friend.  Nothing says you have to be attracted to everyone no matter what they look like which is why we all have different tastes.  Theyre probably 1000s of guys who wouldnt have a problem with her wieght because they like women who are like that...its all about your tastes.
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1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.