Help! I don't know who to belive!?
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don't believe nobody; even the people who answer your question here. Make your own judge. Good Luck!
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God is always here. he is walking right beside you. even though you may not be able to see him he is there. it is called faith and when you have it you have the capacity to believe in something that is not tangible. he created the universe, but he is still here. when we die true believers will go to heaven and worship Him forever. he will always be there forever and ever. i would suggest that you explain the truth to your friend in a nice and understanding way. he obviously needs help and guidance and you seem like just the person to do it. good luck with that and i will pray for you. \n\nnsrunner16@yahoo.com\n\nnsrunner16@yahoo.com
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Jesus!\n\nJesus is the answer to all your problems!\n\nRepent and follow Jesus!
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I truly believe we should all make our own decisions on what we believe.  Take all the information and come to your own conclusion.  Keep researching and learning.  No one has all the answers or there won't be questions.  If something feels right to you - it is right to you - and that is most important.  The bottomline, regardless of all the extra fluff people add, is love God, love one another.  If we all practiced this the world would be a better place.  Good luck finding you peace!  Take Care and always ask!
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You can either believe him or not. If all the signs are there and he still denies it then you can get a private investigator to watch him. But it might be your own insecurities that are taking hold of you. My mother was like this. She was certain that my father was cheating on her and would invent things in her mind that she was sure was indicting him. She would never take his word for it. You need to step back and look at all the facts. Present them to a non-biased party like your pastor and see if he feels there is merit to the siruation. If so then take steps to leave, if not then you need to look at yourself.
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Even the answer is not clear!
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I think you're one confused girl. First, it's important to reassess your feelings first. Who do you really care about? What do you want to happen with your life? Who do you really want to stay with? Who do you think will make you happy? Who do you think you can make happy? After clearing out your thoughts, then go for the one who you think is best for you. You even might end up considering that no one is right for you at the moment, and even that is fine. But yeah, just think about everything carefully first before moving into any further decision.
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I'm not sure! Good question!
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It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
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As long as you know in your heart it isn't true then God knows it isn't true either. The Bible teaches us "Judge not lest you be judged", sorry I don't remember exactly where to find it. If they are lieing about you then it is them that are casting judgement. That is their problem, not yours. Anyone interested in the truth will ask you about it. It's harder to be an individual than to go with the flow. Lies die but the truth always stands tall. I personally would let them know you know they are the one's spreading the lies and and they can't hurt you with untruths. It's important to forgive them for their mis-speakings then leave the rest in God's hands. He'll take care of them and give them what they deserve in the end. He handles all.\n\nGod has blessed you enabling you to reach out for help. Hold on to that - God's Got It and His victory is so much more sweet!
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The answer to this is trust in your Savior. God sometimes hides himself to test your faith. If you truly love Him, continue to follow Him and seek Him out and you will find the peace and comfort you so long for. Satan may try to turn you away (which I don't know everything, but it seems to me like He is) but just remain faithful to God.
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Bless you!\nIt sounds like your in a tough situation, and all you can do is pray to God for guidance.I will pray for you too.\n\nIf he was a 'true beleiver' at one point, and if he did accept Christ back then, than he might be a little lost at the moment.I beleive that once you are saved, you are always saved.\n\n"And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand."\n(John 10:28)\n\nIt is true that we can become lost, and he may be lost. Pray for him to return to the Lord Jesus Christ. I can totally relate to you. I am in a relationship with a saved Christian, who I feel is 'falling' out of his strong relationship with Jesus. I pray for him. Thats all you can do. You have to keep in mind that God wants you to be happy, and I dont think God wants you to be chasing this guy forever, if it just means your going to be unhappy. You can pray forever, but ultimately, the decision is his. You can be a Christian, and not live a fruitful Christian life.\nIf he decides that he wants to live a sinful life again, it may be better that you are not part of it.\n\nTruthfully, it sounds like this guy isnt for you, at least at this point in your lives. It sounds like if he feels like you were 'ruening his life' that he's being selfish, and only thinks about himself and his far fetched dreams. Dreams are important, dont get me wrong, but blaming someone for 'ruening your life' over nothing, is immiture. People change, and sometimes you have to accept that. Open your heart to the Lord, pray, and listen to what God has to say. Read your bible. Sometimes, the answer, will reveal itself to you. \nThe Lord will speak to you in the way that you will best understand. Sometimes, it could be through a thought, a verse in the bible, even advice on the internet, a sign on a park bench, a hymn, a psalm, advice from a counceller or a pastor or a trusted friend. \n\nYou could also try listening to some Christian music, that will inspire you and fill you with the Holy Spirit. I recomend "Holy is the Lord" By  Chris Tomlin If you dont have it contact me, if you have MSN, I can send it to you.
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This a matter where the heart and the mind have 2 agree. One can not over power the other. i say this because if one over powers the other then there will still be doubts, but if the heart and the mind agrees then there willbe no doubts and everything will be all good. This is also a situation that cant really be answered by humans. Spirituallity takes a strong part of this because this is the only way you really know if the person is the one. Have a moment with faith not fate ask this question whole heartedly to who you most believe in. The answer will come in a way that is sure enough clear to see. Best Wishes
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i am very tollerant of other peoples religion on the condition that they don`t try and shove it down my throat! my beleifs can`t really be put into a neat little box. maybe i could say i beleive in Katherineism?! (my name is Katherine) i beleive everything happens for a reason, we will meet all our departed loved ones when we die, there is some higher power or force up there, i`m just not sure if it`s god? Also, the spirits of departed loved ones show themselves in the form of birds.  i`m going to keep checking your answers, because i`m also interested in other people spiritual beleifs.
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You have to find someone who belives in you!
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This is an honest reply although I doubt you will believe me.\n\nLife will teach you everything you need to know.\n\nMe, I am the final say in what I choose to believe and don't be fooled, every belief is a choice.
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I think your observation is excellent. Keep up the good work. Right now it's pretty much a theory, but tomorrow it maybe common knowledge. Flesh it out, do more research, look for flaws and answer the questions they raise. Never be afraid to look where no man has looked before. EXCELLENT! God is very pleased by your faith. It takes faith like that for mankind to move forward. Faith is when you step out into the unknown trusting that God will meet you there. When you pray ask God to show you the crux of the matter concerning (a. b.c. etc....) He is faithful to fill your cup. He will fill your cup with new understanding far beyond anything you can imagine. Even to the point you will have to ask Him to "please hold" while you digest. Good luck, Wow, what an awesome vision.