He left me.  Sometimes I feel like I want to die.  How do you mend a broken heart?
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You cant mend a broken heart. Go ahead and feel the pain, by not getting to angry and dont put to much blame in his direction.\nFeeling the hurt will make you much stronger...and make it go away much faster. \nYou feel like you want to die...but I promise, you wont. It is something we all go thru at some time in our life and it hurts real bad. but just hang in there....it will get better!!!
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Yeah that is hard. I'm very sorry that you haven't gotten over him yet and moved on with your life.\nAt least you realize that he doesn't want you anymore. I know it even hurts to read it and I'm sorry I'm not trying to be mean. You need to recognize how short life is and that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with a person that will feel the same way you feel about them. Do you know what you are worth? Well then, move on with your life you are not promised tomorrow right? the sooner you realize this you will have peace in your mind body and soul. Cause i know how it is to crave for a man that you can't have I've been there. \nGood Luck  to you Hun.
759583
Cry as much as you need too. Reach out to others. Believe you aren't going to die from a broken heart and when you are ready keep your heart open to receiving lots of love and good wishes from others.
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first thing is to tell yourself that it wasn't your fault. then get some counseling. honey it's hard when you lose someone you love but he had alot of issues that no-one  obliviously could get through to him. I tried committing suicide twice and the last time I signed myself into the hospital and I realized that I really did want to live afterall. my heart goes out to you. PLEASE get counseling or you'll get so depressed. good luck to you. also there are groups that can help check your phone book or local health dept.
69800
Be yourself, if you want cry- cry, if smile- smile. Remember that you need to forget person who broke you heart...)
86140
Okay first breath...It hurts but you will grow so much more then you will ever know once you move pass this...Where were you on Saturday...My heart was so broke...I was told today to hang my head high and walk with pride and no matter what always know that you are better then that and you will hurt for a while and then you will see day light...Its not a matter of loveing to much or not enough its a matter of selfishness on the other persons part...Or just know that life moves and breaking up is part of that move and it hurst yes but time will heal all...Good luck
1009582
Ok, look, I know this is hard. I mean, it sounds like you're truly suffering. BUT, it is true what they say, "Time heals all wounds." Give it time.\n\nBut, for immediate help. Try this.\n\nNO CONTACT FOR 30 DAYS. Do not call him. Do not write him. Do not email him. Do not drive by his place. Do not talk to his friends or relatives. Do not make any sort of contact with him for a FULL 30 DAYS.\n\nTrust me. This is what I do when I go through a break up. The 30 days is a goal. Once you make it through those 30 days you feel like you've made some sort of progress. It works.\n\nAs for the general heart ache and pain. You just have to go through it. Life hurts sometimes. We all have pain.\n\nGood luck.\n\nOh and before you do the 30 days thing, you might mention it to him. Hopefully he'll understand. If you guys both stick to it it'll be easier on both parties.\n\nSplooch!
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spend time with your friends, go out and enjoy yourself. before you know it you'll be having the time of your life and not thinking about the person who broke your heart, look after you and all will get better. promise!
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He wasn't ready for what ever reason to commit to you. Don't beat yourself up over this, there are people that will come and go in our lives, some for the good and some for the bad... it just makes us stronger people. Obviously you invested more in this relationship than he did, and it's going to hurt for a while trying to get over it. Grieve for a while, if you want to cry and feel sorry for yourself, do it.... it's all part of the process of loss. Just always remember your self worth, and that we are not the lessor of our selves, we are the sum of ALL of our parts, and that is something phenomenal. There may be more men like him in your future... and then again you may meet your soulmate tomorrow.... just don't let life get you down...it's too short to waste the energy on negative people. God bless you, good luck, Peace.
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Well first of all give yourself space from him. I know you dont want to but it is impossible to heal when the wound is constantly being reopened.\n\nDo things for yourself make yourself feel good. Long baths with nice music,shopping trips,good books,funny movies etc.\n\nAlso give it time. It will feel better!!!
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I suggest reading the book called "How to mend a broken heart, moving on and letting go" it's by Aleta Koman. I had and still have the same problem. It's goes away with time, then again there are times it comes back but not as bad. If you ever need someone to talk to look in my profile and contact me. I'm here if you need someone to talk to and try to help you the best way that I can.
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how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )
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cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
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Hope for what? You undoubtedly feel as if your life isn't worth living, but persist some how push on to keep living, feeling as if you should take up drinking and/or commiting suicide, but some how resist the temptation. I applaud you. I went through that, longer than you have. Depending on the circumstances, you should go back to the guy you split from.\nSee if he'll give you another chance, and agree to renew the relationship. Your only ohter option is to try to find someone else, which could take alot of  time.
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Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
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The key to this is to keep your focus on... you.\n\nI'm sorry he broke your heart.  It's tough. My fiance broke off our relationship three weeks before the wedding-- and we worked together.  Turns out he was involved with someone else and like your guy,  he was "on top of the world."  I was underneath it somewhere.\n\n But, if you keep the focus on you, you'll be working on your depression.\n\nI embrace spirituality... not religious... and when you see this guy, maybe you can just say to yourself, "I forgive you... and I release you to the universe"  \n\nYou concentrate on being the best person you can be.  The rest... will take care of itself.\n\nOh, and take the high road.  Never let him see you depressed.  (Therapists may not agree with this,  but ultimately, it made me feel better)\n\nGood luck.
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I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?