what do u do when ur older sister is concieted?
154947
move on with your life and pray for her.
1075472
you can't force her to connect back to you... she's at this age where she's having identity crisis and probably wants you to leave her alone. it is true that teenagers are a little self-centered as if the whole world revolves around them -- im not saying this to degrade anybody, i WAS in this phase too! when you gain more experience as you grow older, that's the time when you learn to be selfless and humble. you start to think about other people. there is no specific age for this... these things you learn through hardships no matter what. i've dealt with a lot of things, so i learned quicker, and i kinda grew up a little too fast. my life passed me by though -- i didn't get to enjoy hanging out with friends or having boyfriends, but i have learned to be selfless. what matters to me now are the people i love... they matter more to me than myself. \nanyhow... there will come a time when your sister will mature as well, and you'll probably be matured at that time too... and i bet you will be as closest as you can possibly be. i have friend who fought with her brother constantly when they were younger, but they became so close when they got older when she finally moved out.. she would always tell me how much she misses her brother. so give it time... this time will come. (as long as you don't change and forget all about her)
381219
i have an 8 yr old sister
623414
Have same prob w/ my sis. Let them know you are here to talk and not lecture. When you try to give them advice, to them it is lecturing and you are not being supportive. We don't get it, but it is how they feel. Listen to them and make only one or two coments. Treat them like they don't have it. It is sooo hard.
850937
just go up and ask her for help. and dont be nervious around the senior. everybodys the same were all just people. accept jesus as lord and repent from your sins so you can be right with god and be saved eterally.
300848
Buy them things and give them money... let them have their way with your sister...
673951
I suggest biding your time. A little jealousy never hurt anyone. I say you sit ack and enjoy not being watched so much. \n\nEnjoy, what some would call, freedom :p\n\nYour sister has strugled to get to this graduation and so your family are being very supportive. After all, its guna hit her hard IF she DOES fail.\n\nAfter toorrow things should start to simmer down.\n\nSo if she passes tomorrow, wish her the heartiest congratulations and enjoy her day.\n\nAfter about a week, it'll be forgotten :)
264167
It is perfectly normal for the older sister to not get along with her younger sister.  I feel your pain.  My sis and I never got a long growing up.  But, now we are the best of friends and would do anything for each other.  Remember, they are younger and you know better.  So, ease up on them.., give them a chance to grow as well.  Be there for them and one day they will thank you for it.
137753
Don't blame her, she feels responsible for you... unfortunately she will always look at you as a kid. I'm 26 and i still look at my 22 year old sister as a kid, cause she IS!!
514293
Shes still your sister and its pretty nasty! but if it rocks your boat....more power to you! Like seriously think about it!
791876
tell ur partens ur feeling on this and then have ur sister to sit down with u and u ur partens and stringhen her out
191276
There's really nothing you, or your sister can do until your children turn 18.  I suggest you try to wait it out, and if all else fails, tell your sister how you feel.  Ask her to tell them where you are, so they know where to find you.  \n\nBe careful not to let them sneak out of the house they live in now though, to see you.  If you talk to them, urge them to ask their adoptive parents what they think.\n\nI'm very sorry this happend to you.  I couldn't possibly know what it was like to lose my children.  You're in my prayers.
460089
well just tell your $%$$##%%^ sister in law to go &&^%$#$@#@## and %%#$##$%^ and *((*%^##@@ ---that should do it!
290461
I think you should not worry about what your sister does and focus on your style and your life. Getting annoyed with her is a waste of energy.
966554
ughm... how old is your sister?
153038
I think you miss your mom and one way of dealing with that is to talk to her.  Your sister cares about you, and believes that it can be dangerous trying to talk to or communicate with someone who is dead.  I agree that can be dangerous, but laying in bed and telling your mom you miss her and you love her is a way to mourn.  The danger would come if you go overboard in trying to communicate with your mom, but sharing your feelings is normal and safe.
263501
Regardless of who does more, be mature about this and don't tell everyone or tease her about it.  I'm sure she is already humiliated and you don't need to permanently damage your relationship with your sister over it.