do u think 2 months is long enough since u broke up with some1 to go out wit some1 new?
153899
Yes, but it also begs the question why did you wait so long?\nLife is short with many turns and you never know when you are at the last turn,I wouldnt waste it "Monking" because of some lost born again porn star, Carry on.
349883
i know how u feel...it sux putting in that much time and winding up where u were before u met her....my best advice is to go out and meet new people...go to the mall, bar, library, or even a grocery store...but whatever u do dont jump into another relationship just to fill the void u have now...
466555
I would give him two months, this gives you time to make some phone calls and connections and will give both of you plenty of time to decide if this is truly what you want.
29492
YES, GIVE IT A COUPLE OF MONTHS.  GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.......BE FREE!!!!!
1005668
that's understandable... 3 weeks of break-up, you would surely miss him. 3 weeks is really not that long. check out first, why you broke up in the first place.\nthen, try to make a thorough study of you situation and your options. yes you miss him, but is he an asshle? then, think twice or even thrice before you go back. if he is a nice guy with a few imperfections that is very tolerable... don't think twice! GO BACK AND STOP MISSING HIM!!
881226
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
738885
Let's be reasonable here. You dated for 60 days. Can you really expect loyalty from someone who hardly knows you? If you fee like seeing her again when you get home, call her and start fresh. But don't expect devoted loyalty from a person you only spent 60 days with. Just don't expect it.
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
79758
No!!  Its never rite to go out with a friend's boyfriend (or girlfriend) even after they break up.  I don't know the extent of u guy's argument, but if u are really good friends, u will 4get that u even fought and be backl to normal.  But if u go out with her boyfriend, i don't think ur relationship will heal as fast if at all.  "Lovers come and go, but friendships are 4ever."
65773
if u are ment to be, he/she will come back to you. if not, then it wasnt ment to be...treasuer the time u had together, and make ur way to move on...
287215
You have come this far, try and stick it out, for only another two months.. You will not regret it..Good Luck..
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
624591
I really believe that just when you think things cannot get any worse, they get a whole lot better. Two months is a young relationship. Love is a strong word. I'm not undermining your feelings, but if it is true love, it'll be there even after the worst of things. So, if you don't get the same feelings back from her, ask yourself, do you like to feel bad?
604266
i think you should wait til you have been with him for at least 2 months!! good luck babe!!
421388
I would go out. I had a serious boyfriend for 3 years from ages 16-19. I was really happy but I felt the same way. I took the leap to go out and I'm glad I did. Now, my ex and I are best friends. Even though we didn't get back together, dating other guys let me realize how much happier I am that my ex and I are just friends now. I didn't realize how much happier I could be until I had some more experience. Plus, I have overcome the fear of wondering how it is to date others. And you never know, you might date around and realize what a great guy you had. He seems like he would be willing to get back together after some time. This would let you know just how happy you are with him, and you will never wonder again.
676503
yea..i met my ex online, then i saw him and we dated for 2 years
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.