what do u do when ur young & have options, yet r taken by some1 u do but don't want 2 b with?
143479
Leave the jealous guy! Do you not want a life? A jealous man is insecure. Jealousy and possessiveness are not redeemable qualities.\n\nA real man that loves you will give you freedom, not take it! He is a person that is secure in himself and his abilities.\n\nYou will enjoy life better without the burden of being guarded and watched all the time. Even have friends! Wow!\n\nYour call now.
744000
u r doing good, wait as long as u need to, u don't have to be tied down by what someone else thinks is a good age- u r u and u need 2 do wut is best for u and ur desires.
551394
Stay polite, but don't hang around them if you don't want to.  You have the right to say no.  If they say they want to do something, say you have a previous commitment.  (Even if it's to yourself!)
922558
Do what you want its your life!\nYou are still young dont limit yourself im sure you could be anything you wanted. Do somthing you enjoy doing.\nIm sure your parents just want you to be healthy and happy anyway.
674170
I've personally always known that I want my own business from being very young, which is why i'm in a crappy position at the moment after uni to decide what i want to do in the meantime to get the funds to set up my business...i want to be my own boss and not be told what to do and have to hold myself back.\n\nGood for you and good luck if that's what you decide to do.
570358
its not a choice, its just the way u are.
143320
make a decision... u have to choose one or loosing both...
1036378
You have an old soul. Chill! Enjoy things in life and take advantage of your age because you are only young once. You have the rest of your life to do grown up things which are stressful!
746727
Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.
71860
does anywone really like to be told what to do? no but its usually for the best of it. just wait till your at legal age and you can do what you want.
493818
As a kid myself, I see it from your side. However, make sure you realize that they just want you to realize that "lowering the expectations you have for yourself is not the right path to take." (My parents...rrr...)
603939
You definitely need to depart from that family and quick! You say that you're mature enough to make decisions, well here's a really good chance to exercise it.
464469
its not a smart thing to decide to do
559584
If u have tried n not sucessful in saying no.... next option is to avoid such people as they r not geninue in their relation they just using u and taking ur advantage... this is actually happen with me and i am telling u with my own experience... just have few friends rather have bulk who just take things for granted
14489
Yes end it now. Your still young and will find somebody\nthat will treat you the right way.
206744
Explain that you except that person for who they are but, you don't go that way.
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it is not up to anyone here to make that descision for you, however you need to ask yourself "Is this person going to get me where I want to be in life? or are they going to hinder me?" "Is this person going to be there for me when I need them? or are they going to leave me in the lurch?" "can I spend the rest of my life with this person?"\n\nif you can answer these all with yes then go for it but I think you already know the choice you need to make. and I think it is the right one.