Guys- Would your reply to a msg  from a woman clearly expressing her attraction to you or feel uncomfortable?
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It seems to me that he likes you but not as intensly as you like him. I think you've freaked him a bit but he's curious to see how much he likes you.\n\nYou've given it your best shot (a scary one too!) and now the ball's in his court. He seems interested. Good luck
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I want a girl to be subtle enough to make me think, but blatant enough that I know for sure I am not hearing her wrong.. I.E. don't use the old "is that a sausage in your pocket" line, but if I am carrying a box and she says "nice package" that would be cool.. Just sexual enough without going overboard.
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I personally wouldn't ask a question like that, but I might ask "Do you like my new dress?" or something I expect an affirmative answer to.\n\nIn the example you gave, I suppose women ask these questions for reassurance. The way the guy answers depends on (1) whether the woman looks fat in the dress or not (2) whether the guy can think of a tactful but honest way to answer the question (which is probably not the case), and (3) whether he's a jerk or not.\n\nIn the example I gave, I (and other women) ask questions of that kind because I know the guy I'm seeing has difficulty expressing his feelings and won't usually say something nice unless he's prompted to. After much discussion, he has admitted that his communication skills are something that he needs to - and wants to - work on, and I'm fine with that. But in the meantime, I'm not willing to be completely taken for granted until he solves the whole issue. After all that could take years, so I see no harm in occasionally fishing for compliments until he gets his act straight.\n\nLuckily, the answer is almost always the affirmative one I anticipated, along with a little extra detail about what he likes specifically if I'm lucky. Oh, and yes, I certainly do reciprocate. I wouldn't expect him to tell me what he likes about me if I can't turn around and do the same!
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I'm going to take your question as a man wanting some advice so he can lift up his girlfriend and make her feel good VS a man just wanting to get tingly and turned on by some nasty answers.       Okay?\n\nYou could whisperstuff like:\n\nYou are so beautiful.\nYou really turn me on.\nYou mean everything to me.\nYou feel soooo good. \nI really want you.\nI love you so much.\nWill you marry me?\nI need you.\nIt feels sooooooooooo  good to be with you.\nI love when we are this close.\n\nJust to name a few.
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I expressed attraction for a guy who didn't bother to respond.  It hurts, but I am not sorry I did it.  We had been very flirty so I know he was attracted but for whatever reason my asking him freaked him out.  Maybe he'll come around but probably not.  I wish it could have worked out, but it didn't.  I'm not sorry I asked though, at least I know and I'm not wondering.
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I suppose it would depend where the date was.  As long as he was dressed appropriately to the venue I really wouldn't mind.  If it was somewhere special and he hadn't made an effort (particularly if it was a first date) then yes I would feel upset.  All the additional information is really besides the point.  I mean great that you have done well for yourself but that has nothing to do with what you wear to meet me.  \n\nAlso it would depend if he did it to test/trick me because he doesn't trust people to like him for him and not his wealth.  Though I can understand that I would no longer be interested in him.  You are either honest from the start or don't bother.\n\nThe taking a bus part has no impact at all.  I really wouldn't care which mode of transport he takes to meet me as long as he is punctual or at least calls if he is running late.\n\nI like laid back people so that element would not be a problem either.  The alternative being someone who is uptight I will always go for a laid back guy.\n\nHope that answers your question, for me at least.  Can't answer for all the ladies out there but then that would make life far to easy for all the men! ;-)
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Even if I'm not interested in going out with the girl, I'm still extremely complimented by her asking. Do women feel the same way... or are they generally just annoyed that someone they're not interested in is bothering them??
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if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
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Yes, up to a point but just don't get to aggressive. It can get weird if a woman becomes too pushy. But yes it does fell nice when a woman does show that she is interested enough in you to make some moves of her own.
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It's not bad, but I would alter it a little.  \n\nsay instead:\n   "I couldn't help but notice how beautiful your eyes are"\n   "hi, I'm _______ "\n and then she will say hers if she is interested\n\n  then start the convo from there or just get the number.
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Sheesh!  Can't you take a great big hint???\nShe wants to seduce you.  Either take the bait or drop the line in the water.  You said she was hot.....maybe too hot for you?
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Not rude.  I'd be flattered if a guy asked.
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Exactly what you just did. Find a nice way to say it. Like maybe I am interested in someone else. And do not elaborate on it.You walk with your dignity as well as her keeping hers. Good luck. Post script. Question for you. What are you looking for on here? Be honest not only with yourself but to your friends online.
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Believe me, you could say just about anything. It is so rare for a woman to ask, even though there is supposed to be equal rights, that I know I would be flattered. And let me add, it takes the pressure off the man.
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I agree somewhat with Katrina, that men can be intimiated by independent and strong women.  But, as a guy, I would say "put off," not exactly intimidated.  For example, I recently dated a gal who I was very attracted to, although she wasn't stunning- she just "did it" for me.  But, she spent too much time telling me about her degrees from MIT, how she worked for Steve Jobs, etc..  Relationships are about humanness to me- life's little problems, emotionality, sensuality.  I talk shop all day at work, and want something deeper in a relationship.  It just got to a point where I didn't want to hold a conversation with her, since we just couldn't connect.  I guess the point is maybe revisit the guys you like with a deeply human approach, and see how that works.  I agree with the rest of the posters-  it's hard to meet someone you like.  It's true for me, too.  I live in the middle of nowhere.
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thank you,i have had this happen so many times,it's nice to hear from a stranger, if it's done right. it usually happens in a grocery store. and i always say back, thank you , your very kind. have a great day. and thats all there is too it.   every women likes to hear that, if its done in the right way. ladies have you ever done it to a man? how wonder full you smell, i must get that for my husband, yes they do tell you what sent they are wearing.  lets give the guys some credit also.
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Hey, that dress is becoming on you . . . of course, if I was on you I'd be coming too!\n\nIf you make it hard on me, I may hold it against you.\n\nIf I said you have a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?\n\nYou look really hot tonite, in fact, the drunker I get, the hotter you look.\n\nF*ck me if I'm wrong, but isn't your name Penelope (don't say this to someone named Penelope).\n\nGood luck