Women HELP!!! How do I have an orgasm????
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I was 28 when I had my first one.  Maybe get a "toy" or something and experience on yourself what works or doesn't work.  Then don't be afraid to lead the guy into what is enjoyable to you. You'll be surprised of what you could find out.\nDon't focus so much on having one during the deed....but focus on the pleasure and when you hit that spot.. you'll know!
994279
Masturbating is simple for woman. There are several ways to do it. You can use your fingers or go to a sex store and buy little toy's like vibratores or dildows made specally for that. It all depends on what you are going to like.\nYou are basically masasing you private area. I hope I helped.
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no, try this, have lots of foreplay and make it about her for like 30 min. don't be stengey them get behind her and while you are making love to her (the nice way to put it) put your finger on the top of her clit and rub. i almost promise that will make her scream
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Dude - just relax when having sex, and don't get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it.  Concentrate on pleasing your partner!  Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don't allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!
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It is very common for young women to have difficulty achieving orgasm, particularly during intercourse. In fact, a significant percentage of women never have an orgasm during intercourse itself. Most women are able to figure out some means whereby they can reach orgasm, whether it is through oral stimulation or manual stimulation. \nA woman may not be able to have an orgasm during intercourse, but ultimately will be able to achieve some means to climax. Obviously, an important variable in achieving this is your partner's emotional support and awareness of your needs. You won't have control over this, but you should learn to express those needs.
825376
everyone is different.Some women never orgasm at all.Some women only orgasm through external stimulation some only through penetration.You just got lucky. Wish it was that easy for me
215213
Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
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Multiple orgasms are few and far between for most women. You can achieve them provided you have normal orgasms already. My favorite way is through oral sex, and you have to have a partner that knows how NOT to overstimulate you after your first orgasm. Tell him to kiss and rub AROUND your stuff, but not directly on it after your first Big O. Once "she" settles down (in a matter of minutes), he should be able to return to what he was doing that got you off the first time. Good luck.
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First, you have to experiment with yourself.  Figure out what you like.  Read about different ways to reach orgasm.  After you've figured that part out, teach it to your boyfriend/husband.  My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we've just now got it right!  It can and will happen someday! Don't give up!!
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Start with some gentle 4play and then... Turn that pu$$y OUT!! give it special attention, and get creative. You can start by using your hands while you kiss on her neck and lips, then if you REALLY wanna please her, you could try some oral. And finish her off with a good deep f^ck! \n\nWhen she can barely catch her breath and gets vocal with deep moans and soft screams, you hittin that spot. And if it gets really good to her, she might even call out your name. Not in that subtle fake way, i mean really scream your name out. Then you deffinately hittin it right.\n\nAnd when its all over, she'll be knocked out like a newborn baby. Then she'll wake up, and clean the house and make you somthin to eat. Congratualations, you handled that @ss like a pro!\n\n~Hope that helps! mwah*
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I have found that the best lovers I have been with knew what it takes to make themselves orgasm. It is something every woman should workout BEFORE having sex with anyone else. If she can't make herself come, how can she expect any other person to simpley show up with the magic combination to make it happen?\n\nSo the answer to your question is to just have her try everything she can to get herself off.... postions, techniques, the vast array of toys.... she has to do what she can to find that secret password that does what she needs. Once that's discoverred, then it'll be your job to step in and take it to new hieghts.
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1)Well first off, don't be intimate wit a lot of girls. Dats nasty...\n\n2)Da tongue is not all you use but if you do...please use it well cuz a female will express dat if she doesn't like it. Sumtimes combine it with fingers if she likes dat. Stick your tongue in...Don't be scared of da pusssy and it's fluid cuz it will happen and all over your chin, nose and face.LOL!\n\n3)Must kiss lips and lick nipples and touch parts to stimulate her. BE GENTLE.\n\n4)Don't be afraid just beacuse you're new at it...doesn't mean you're gonna be bad. My first time was with an extra experienced girl and she neva knew she was my first.\n\n5)It also depends on your role. Are you butch? Is she butch? Sum butches don't like to be touched on their breasts and genital area. They are juss fine pleasing their girl. Also I am butch but I like to be touched. I juss don't like to be penetrated. Most feminine chicks do. I havent met one who hasn't. Strap not recommended unless requested by your lover. Just ask her what she likes and truss they'll tell you.\n\n6)Also grinding...what people don't realize is dat da female orgasm is achieved from da clitoris not da interior so basically a man without a penis is da perfect man during sex and dats pretty much a woman cuz you don't have one and you're right on da clitoris. I have made my girl cumm da hardest doin dat. Kiss her while you're doing dat. \n\nAlso you need to get a feel for your lover and what you feel comfortable doin together. My girl I feel made me better in bed and open to tryin new ways to pleasure her or recieve pleasure. \n\nIf you have anymore advice email me jusslisten@yahoo.com \nI don't mind giving you tips on here. I really need to know if you and your girl are butch or femme.\n\ngood luck and have fun\ndont be nervous.\n\n-m
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Not many people believe that the act of satisfying a woman orally could be considered an art. It’s hard to believe how many people still have no idea how intense that cunnilingus can be for a woman, and even harder to believe is the amount of men who think they are good at it when they are really lost.\n\nMost men like to jump right in and get started but unless the woman is already extremely turned on this can be very uncomfortable for her. To give a woman good head so to say, is to start off very slowly working your way to it. Kiss her softly on her lips nibble at her ear and the nap of her neck. When you get to her breasts take your time and enjoy them, gently caressing them teasing her.\n\nMost women love to be teased it’s an easy form of foreplay that will ensure she will be turned on when you get down to her most private of areas. An interesting fact: women are able to have multiple orgasms, everyone knows that right? Well did you know they are capable of having close to 60 an hour that’s an orgasm every minute! ;)\n\nThe best way to give a woman 60 orgasms an hour is with oral sex. Cunnilingus shouldn’t be considered a form of foreplay, no, not at all. Cunnilingus is sex for women without penetration! If you want to completely satisfy your woman don’t expect sex when you go down on her, tell her that you don’t expect sex to come out of what you are going to do to her. That will relieve any inhibitions she may have for wanting to hold back for intercourse, and allow her to enjoy the soft warm caress of your mouth.\n\nSome important things to keep in mind when you are going down on her: keep the area moist especially if you are using any fingers to help her along. There are a ton of nerve endings in her private area and when you try to insert a dry digit it will pull on her skin and be extremely uncomfortable for her. Pay special attention to her breathing and body movements. Not all women are the same and you need to learn what yours will do when she is having an orgasm. She may hold her breath, or gasp for air. She may lay extremely still, or heave about like a bucking bronco.\n\nOne of the key things you are going to be on the look out for is the all mighty command not to stop. When you hear this, what ever it is you are doing, keep doing it. It is very important to listen to your woman, when she tells you anything during oral sex, her likes and dislikes after all she is the recipient.\n\nWhen it comes to pleasing a woman, knowledge is power.   Mmmmmmmm\n\nGood luck!
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Give her 20 min. that would be 40 orgasms. Enough right? Then you can get down to your business, and she will be more than happy to do anything for you. After 40 orgasms, I would.
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if your haveing multiple orgasms tell him to finger you till you cant cum then get on top of him and reward him! Thumb's up, The more a woman cum's the better sex partner she is beleive me when she mounts up then roll over and take it babe
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I am not a man, so the best thing I can tell you is this.  If you want to go longer without using some gadget to help you.  When you feel that orgasim coming on, pull out better yet make love for just a little bit then stop.  Notice her breast and neck?  pay close attention to it. Kiss her neck and suck on her breast. Do this over and over until she tells you that she is ready for you to come back inside. When both of you are in the heat of the moment, more than likely you will both come at the same time and pleasure will be for you both.
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Try foreplay! Too many times you guys are in too much of a hurry...the ladies like it slow and easy...give her time....and try the new KY Jelly with the little "tingle"... its a warming massage.