i have a g/f she is love me so much but i can't feel her what i do?
145929
Then let her go...she deserves to have her love shared with someone who loves her back! And you should keep searching for your 'love' instead of pretending to be a 'player' ! Peaceout !!!
213321
Write her love letters, call her sometimes, keep things light and simple. It's hard when people can't show each other their feelings, but physical aspects of a relationship aren't everything. If you know you're around people you trust to keep it quiet, do little things like hold hands. I know it will be hard, but if you love her like you say you do, it's worth it :) good luck!
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
423814
It's always like that at first ... you have to get used to her ... you know get comfortable being around her first so the both of you can loosen up a little ... It just takes time... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS with your new found love!!!
1119694
I don't think she loves you, and I praise her maturity in not saying it when she doesn't mean it. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings and see that maybe you are just infatuated with her.
807661
You really have the patience and you do care for her a lot. But i feel that she does not deserve someone like u. Find someone else.\nI know that it will hurt. But reality sucks and you have to accept it. I am really sorry dude.\nBut them again, if you really love her. Give her one more trial. None of us are prefect and we commit mistakes. Just conside this as a foolish mistake by her and give her one more chance.\nForgive & forget. As long as it does not hurt u.
315531
dude your in a tough spot, if you really Love her then you should tell her and see what happens. But if your afraid she's gonna leave you try this; let her know your going to take her out on a nice, fancy, romantic dinner or whatever. Do a whole bunch of romantic things for her the whole night and see how she responds to them, if she's "loving" all the things you are doing and how intament your being then at the end of the night  slow down, look deep in her eyes, and tell her you Love, and try to be as expressive as you can when you do it.
1067929
Maybe she just honestly doesnt like the feel of your fingers in her. Relax and please her any other way she will allow you to.
219450
LET HER GO..WISH HER WELL...IF YOU LOVE HER THEN YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT HER HAPPINESS..YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU..
228565
first of all, you both sound too young to "know" this is the love of your life. but if that's how it feels right now, then you have a responsibility to yourself to fight for it.\nhere's my advice. sit down with her and have a heart to heart. tell her, you love her and want to marry her. tell her you understand she has issues with physical contact, and with her own body, as well as presumably she might with yours, and you will try very hard to not push her beyond her limits. and then ask her if she is willing to meet you half way. this is the critical point.\nbe gentle and make sure she enjoys her walks on the wild side, when she feel bold enough to take them, but be patient when she isn't up to it. you can get over reluctance, and work to resolve issues if she works with you - maybe even professional therapy might help. if she is not willing to try for you, then if you marry her, you will be sorry. that's the one thing you don't want to do to yourself or to her. stick around if you feel you must and maybe she will change her mind. but don't marry her unless she's willing to work with you to solve her issues.
374242
I think you have to talk to her. I'm sure it sounds about as much fun as getting teeth pulled, but I think you really must  do it. You can never know how people really feel about you until they tell you themselves. Some people just don't show how they truely feel and maybe she doesn't know how you really feel. If you really love her, you should take the risk and find out for sure. And if worst comes to worst and she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you at least you will know and will be able to move on without always wondering .
262326
It's not what she says, it's what she does and how she makes you feel. Don't pressure her. I've found in my experiences to just go with the flow. In the past I have always thought in order to have a great loving relationship with someone, you had to work hard to please them, NOT the case. I have recently found the woman that I will be with for the rest of my life. Its easy for us to communicate with each other and that's the key. If you are having doubts about how your girlfriend feels about you then you should be able to talk to her about it. Here is a good question to ask her. "If I was in an accident and became paralyzed would you wipe my ass for me?" It sounds funny but let me tell you if you can wipe someones ass THAT'S REAL LOVE.\nGood Luck
812072
OMG.....This is so not about a gift here. You need to ask her why she would feel that you don't feel the same love for her as before. And then explain because you don't. If anything, you love her more then ever! That the past 2 years have been the most wonderful experience a man could have. And to loose that now would be total and utter disaster. As the years of ones relationship pass like sand through the hour glass, so does expensive gifts and crap. Take her to the beautiful island of Hawaii. Please? And lay in the sand and have a Margarita for me.....
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
1107888
I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
676158
I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
1001964
Move on. \nYou may love her but she doesn't reciprocate your feelings. No matter what you do or say, she is the only one responsible for her feelings. So you cannot change them. You are the one who will end up getting hurt in the end.\nThere is someone out there for each of us. So, instead of getting caught up in the time-wasting efforts of trying to convince her that she can't live without you (when quite obviously she can), let her go. Mourn the loss of your relationship and live your life.\nLove will find you. Whether she comes back and turns out to be the true love of your life or whether it's someone you haven't even met yet. Love has an annoying way of showing up when you least expect it.  \nYou'll be fine. Just let go.