I am about to get married, how do I know he is the ONE, is it common for people to not be sure?
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It is pretty common to be a little unsure.  I think that even continues into the marriage sometimes.  You would be wise to ask yourself why you aren't sure though.  Make sure it isn't anything that goes against your personal values, morals and priorities.  If it doesn't, and you love him, commit to staying committed.  The most important thing to making a relationship work is that neither of you is willing to give up.
588826
dont put so much pressure on yourself! you will know when it is time, you wont be asking your self and others these questions you will just know that the person u are with is the one :) good luck!
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If you feel the person your married to is the One, your attraction to other people will not steer you away from your love and faithfulness to your spouse. You will always be attracted to other people, your human. But you will feel it's not worth it to be with someone else because you already have what you found at home...that is, if the one your married to IS the One. If you have any doubt in your marriage, then you made a mistake when you got married to that person, and it will be easier for you to make the decision to be with this other person because you feel they have something incredibly important that your spouse doesn't.\n\nSometimes you may simply be confused about your marriage because of your sudden and shocking new found attraction to someone else. In that case, re-evaluate the importance of your spouse and figure out and re-learn if your spouse really does make you feel great, and is important to the max in your life.
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He knows, you know, you both know that is going to happen. You just have to be patient and wait. He knows that you are the one for him and if you have already discussed marriage and children, then it's a clear indication that it's going to happen soon.\n\nMen that don't commit won't even mention the "m" word and will back off at the minimum indication of getting too close or too serious. He is not scared about discussing marriage with you because you are the one for him. \n\nDon't set deadlines or ultimatums or conditions for it to happen, they are NOT necesary. Accorduing to what you wrote, he is planning on doing it so don't spoil his plans by becoming frustrated and impatient.\n\nMost couples get engaged by their second anniversary, besides, Christmas, New years and Valentine's day are around the corner too, you might be in for a surprise.\n\nMy advice to you is to wait until your second anniversary before becoming anxious. It's not necesary for you to feel this way, you have the perfect man, ther perfect relationship, so don;t ruin it by becoming irritated. \n\nHe will ask you and there is no question about it, wait a little bit more... proposals are way more romantic when they are a surprise and men really love plan something special and having the perfect ring ... let him give you what you deserve ...let him surprise you and enjoy the relationship. \n\nHe is THE ONE sweetie... be patient.\n\nCongratulations and good luck!
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As to your question, "Will I get married?" ... I think yes, most certainly you will because that's what you want in life. About "Why can't I find him?" ... we all look for someone, just like you, so that means there's someone else out there looking for you. As for how do you find each other, you can only control you so my suggestion is ... be patient, see life with your eyes wide open and most important of all, be true to yourself and let others see you for who you really are. Sometimes the one searching for us can't see us because we're often trying to be someone we're not in the hopes a new image will help us find the one we seek.\nYour 'someone' is looking for you ... keep that smile you have and let them find you.
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If he is wanting a certainty that you will be together forever, there isn't any and there never is certaintly, especially in relationships, sometimes things work out great and sometimes they don't, its just how it works. \n\nSo, if he doesn't take the chance then he will never know.  He can't go through life fearing what might or might not happen...that isn't living. If he is unwilling to make the commitment or to take the chance, there may be other things going on that you aren't aware of. Communicate with him, try and find out what other feelings or fears he has around marriage.\n\nHope this helps
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Appearantly, no one can tell. It just happens, when you're not expecting it. \nOf course know what you're looking for, and be ready to sometimes compromise.
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You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.
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your marriage is what you make it. both of you bring honesty, trust, respect,love,communication, and commitment and you will be fine. good luck
196588
Fiance = Already been asked.  Am I missing something?
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Just wait for the future and see if you two will gonna be married. If you do, he's really the one.
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you should not have to know if someone loves you the same, you should trust that you both love eachother. trust comes naturally.
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Is it marriage or the wedding you are on about? If its marriage then you will know when you are ready. I was. Didn't have any doubts. I did live with my now husband before I got married. This made us realise what we were like all the time and we knew we could be together 24/7
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See if it seems mutual and if there is chemistry. this is not an unusual circumstance. many folks link up this way and get married, who knows
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when you are ready to settle for one - and he is too. Is hard to tell. Pray that God would give you a special sign.\n\nI was often inloved with different guys and a few times i even said. "this is the right one" and got dumped.\n\nWhen I had enough of this, I prayed: God, when the right one comes along don't let me fall in love I only want to love him and after we get married I want to be totally inloved with him.\n\nI myself thought it strange, when I met my husband I felt a deep love for him but I wasn't inloved. We are now married and I can't believe it how inloved I am with him. It is the most amazing feeling and incredible - because is no more insecurity in this, we are married!
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Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
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You can't ever tell that.  It is just complete speculation as to when you will meet the person you will marry.  It will happen when it happens and you can't change it.  If you are so worried now, you need to grow up and not be so desparate!  People can sense that a mile away, and I can sense it through the computer.  Just live your own life and you will eventually find the person you are to spend your life with.