How can I make sure I do what is right and keep this love developing into a marrage that lasts forever?
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Marriage only get's worse when the people involved stop doing the things they did to build the relationship. \nFor instance if a relationship is based on Lust. how long to you think it will last when you both stop being creative in bed. \nNow if it's based on communication the same thing applies. \nhow long will it last when money is tight and your both working to pay the bills, then have a child or 3 and they demand your attention due to the care they require. How often do you think you will have those long heart to heart talks? It's the loss of each person "5 basic needs" that triggers things like affairs, marrital abuse and the empting of your love bank.\n\nRead a few of the books I listed below. They can really help BUT you need constant work in a marriage. just because you said I DO does not mean it will get easier. in fact that is when the real work begins.
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Your talking about being with this person for the rest of your life.You both need to get everything out in the open.Talk about what you want to do in the future,and what both your interests are.Ask them what do they like and want and work towards those things together.Some things they want and like,you may not want or like,but if you too really love each other you will adjust and work it out.Compromising is a key ingredient in marriage.
921747
make sure you do things the right way, be good for awhile and eventually do the same thing to her
410601
marriege was a gift from God. If you really luv that person, trust me, you'll want to be with them for the rest of your life!
1047839
Don't you realize that marriage is supposed to last forever..?
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Keep the communication lines open.  I know it's difficult maintaining a long distance relationship.  My first long distance relationship didn't work.  My second one did.  I married the second one and 3 years later, we're still very much in love and happy.  Don't forget to pray.  Put God first in your lives.  The rest will follow.  God Bless!  I hope your relationship will last forever.
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use your female creativity with values.  you will know if he desires to do so also.  but you want to keep control....if it is just kiss!!!!!!  and he should be special ---if it is just a kiss!!!!
385607
Give your true love, trust her, give her a true impression that you do care about her and be ready to sacrifice for her. GIVE true love, get TRUE love
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There isn't some magic formula to mix together to make love occur.  It is developed over time, with lots of conversation, lots of time and plenty of caring.  Some would say if you have to ask, it isn't love...I'm not sure I agree with that.  I would ask questions like; \nDo you think you could live without them?  \nWould you lay down your life for them?  \nWhat would you picture your life being like without them?  How do you feel when you are apart?  \nWould you trust the other person with your life and secrets?\nWhere do you picture yourself in 10 years?\nDo you truly feel you know the other person deeply?\nDo the faults in the other person bother you too much?\n\nThere are other questions, but these answers should go sort of like, though not exactly like, this;\nno, yes, empty/lost, empty/lost/missing part of myself, yes (cause you will be), with the person...maybe children and a home, yes (you need to know the person very deeply, otherwise, how can you know if you really love all of them?), and No...they have no faults LOL (jk), but you should be able to overlook their faults and dwell on their positive attributes.\n\nGood luck.
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First of all you have to love each other...Honesty should be there..  VEry important is open communication, . Trust and respect one another.Accept him as what he is and vice versa, yet if there is something to be changed for the good of relationship is very willing to do it. Put God between you or making the Creator the center of relationship. There are lot os important things to do but so far thats the most.
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First of all,Comunication is the KEY to anything.Always keep talking to her, and LISTENING to her.You have to be willing to sacrifice for each other.Ohh,and keep GOD in your relationship so it will never end!Good luck to you,and may God bless you both.
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What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
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you made the vows to god, so you should do what you can to keep them. its like making vows to a spouse. how can you make it ok to break them? you cant.
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Love can last for ever you just need to wait for the right one....let her come to you......\n            from allie_tugman@yahoo.com
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Alteast wait until your in love -marriage can be so over-rated -wait until you have found that one perfect person - than you will know what to do - either follow your feelings and go for it or wait until you get married - what ever feels right to you
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Seriously, the only real solution is to make plans to be together at some point if you want it to last.  Otherwise, it's just bound to get difficult to keep the flame alive.  So, as long as their is hope of being together in real time at some point, then you can keep it rolling.  Otherwise, it will fizzle in time.  \n\nMeanwhile...e-mails, phone calls, video chats....to keep the love alive.
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that is great!!! When someone vows to save that for YOU for marriage you should cling to that as a sign that she REALLY loves you!! Respect her is what you do.... be there for her b/c she can't stop doing those things on her own... I promise you will be SOOO much happier in the long run if you HELP her work this through!