My fiancee had a cyst on her breasts. Can I marry her? Is there any possibility that it transfers to new born?
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Whether or not she will be able to produce children for you should not be a reason to marry her- or not.  If you love her and want to spend the your life with her should be the reasons you want to get married.  It's understandable that you are concerned with wanting to have kids, but there's always adoption.\n\nI don't know what kind of cysts she has, but most likely they won't make her infertile, or be passed on to an unborn child.  My mother had them, and went on to have me and my sister!
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
63451
No, I won't advise any surgeries. I don't even agree with your opinion that nobody will marry you because of your breast size. I understand many men are crazy about boobs. But someone who is in love with you will accept you the way you are. To be honest with you, though I have big boobs, I won't marry any men who wants me because of them. I want someone who wants me not my boobs. Do you really want a man who will marry your boobs, not you? Come on, you deserve a better man. Forget about the idea to enlarge your breast and let your other beauties shine. Good luck.
820251
It is possible to have another child if the doctor thinks it is wise.\n\nI have worked in a clinic for women.  A lot of women have fibroids usually they give you heavier periods and rarely become cancerous.  \n\nI had an ovarian cyst myself but it disappeared after my son was born.   Sometimes they do that but a lot of times they require surgery.\n\nHere are some links\n\nhttp://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/uterinefibroids.html\nhttp://www.4woman.gov/faq/ovarian_cysts.htm\n\nhttp://www.gynalternatives.com/fibroids.htm
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"Congenital" means "with the genes".  Genes pass on information about YOU to your kids.  Short answer is yes it can be passed on.  That's how you got it.\nDo a little research into your family's traits in this area.  If it's a recessive trait, your bride will have to also pass this gene on for it to emerge in any children.  The particular sperm that "wins the race" may not have that gene, either.\nIf this dysplasia is evident in a number of your family members, it probably raised the likelihood of you passing it on.\nI am NOT a geneticist, human or otherwise.  Someone like that would be the best source for guesstimating the odds of passing it on.
1136098
Doctors can do this for you!!!\n\nThey can pop it, so when a bride is getting married on her wedding night, it won't be painful or messy.
688549
Depends how strongly you want to have your own blood related child and also on how much you really love her. It is a very difficult situation but if you truly love her then you will have to think about other ways of having children e.g. adoption or fostering. Maybe she would even be willing to use a surrogate mother? You really need to speak to her about this before you rush into a marriage. You gotta remember that you only get one shot at this life so if you are gonna sacrifice your own needs just make sure that you give it a lot of thought and that you really are doing the right thing. I am truly sorry for you and your partner but would your love be strong enough to keep ignoring what u want and if answer to that is no then i cant see relationship working anyhow.\nBest of luck.\nMichelle xxxxxxxxxxx.
753362
Is there anybody else in the family that could be a match? That's always a good place to look first. You have my prayers too hun. Try to find friends who may be a match too. Keep searching dear, you're right, God has a plan for you, and believe it's a new kidney. Good luck on your search
83562
Your taking a big chance on having a deformed child.  Identical blood imprenating doesn't normally work. That's why a blood test is required before getting married. The only shrude answer I can give you if you two are so in love with each other is to have her tubes tied and adopt if you want to make a complete family.  I'm really sorry I said that, but love has no boundaries and other's might comdeme me for saying this. I'm just being a realist to try to help your situation out... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
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With any medical procedure there can be risks. But as long as she is under the care of a specialist that deals with invetro fertilization she should be ok. Talk to her doctor yourself and ask questions. It cant hurt to ask and be informed. Maybe you can get pamplets and literature about the fertilization. Good luck.
888805
When I was in high school, a girl accidentally elbowed me very hard in one of my breasts (I was passing behind her as she was digging in her backpack, she wasn't aware). I've had two ultrasounds done on my breasts, and no damage or lump was found from the impact. In fact, when it happened, no temporary lump (or goose egg) appeared. But I wouldn't be surprised if a temporary swelling/knot does form. If a lump grows from the impact, simply go to your doctor. He/she will give you a breast exam and, if deemed necessary, will schedule you for a quick ultrasound or mamography. If the impact was extreme, then by all means bypass the doctor and go to the hospital. But don't worry :) And I don't think it would be anything permanant.
570052
of course. as long as you was born here. she would have to geta  spouse visa and they WILL ask alot of personal problems but contact their website and ask them your self. i doubt they wont let her
696679
Be as honest with yourself and others as soon as possible... I know it is awful to be where you are at right now, but telling someone in your family or hers that you have the best relationship with is going to be your best bet long term.  You need support.  Since you are both minors, it is unfortunant that you have this in front of you, but I don't think it is a crime... If one of you were an adult that would be a problem.  Be as strong as you can.  This will get better.  There are other choices.  There are many families out there that wish to adopt a child.  But still at least be there as her friend and make sure she gets the proper medical care and emotional support.  Please don't wait any longer to tell an adult... Time will make matters harder to deal with.  I suggest not to break up with someone because of her medical condition.  She's got to be emotional too right now.  If you have other problems than the pregnancy, consider doing so because of that.... But you should really be there for each other since you both created the dilema.
897902
Hey you both are cousins so ya its going to be a problem but this problem is totally family problem.  If you could convience your family members about you both then i don't think there should be any serious problem. \n\nIf you are living in the US than you will not be able to get married to your cousin as its against the law.  Americans and their legal system are phobic about first-cousin marriage.  \n\nAs far as babies are concerned - Children of non-related couples have a 2-3% risk of birth defects, as opposed to first cousins having a 4-6% risk. Genetic counseling is available for those couples that may be at a special risk for birth defects (e.g. You have a defect that runs in your family) In plain terms first cousins have at a 94 percent + chance of having healthy children. Check the links section for more information on genetic counselors. The National Society of Genetic Counselors estimated the increased risk for first cousins is between 1.7 to 2.8 percent, or about the same a any woman over 40 years of age. \n\nSo here you are go ahead and all the best ... good luck and god bless.\nHope all works well.
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What I know is that it is a hereditary condition, with clusters of cysts forming on the kidneys. I believe that eventually most patients need dialysis and then a kidney transplant. Your best bet is to talk with a nephrologist.
223982
You sound like you want to leave your country and want to marry a foreign passport.. so why the hell you're making a condition that she must be beautiful!! And with a moustache like yours, at best you can get a baboon in a Canadian Zoo.
234695
If you have been to a doctor, and had medical imaging tests, and there are no doubts that you have a cyst in your breast, you leave it alone.  Cysts come and go (usually with your menstrual period) and they NEVER become cancers.  Cysts are just fluid filled spaces.  If you have them drained with a needle, over half will return.  We only drain cysts if they appear atypical (therefore, we cannot be sure they are just cysts), or if they get so large that they are painful.  If you have a problem with cysts, try reducing your caffeine intake (soda, coffee, teas).  Caffeine increases breast cysts and tenderness in many women.