My boss is always flirting with me, so what does that mean?
147315
I think before you jump into anything with your boss, you should make sure you aren't pregnant..\nAre you just trying to self-destruct, or what?
759747
my boss was a dork he used to chat up everything in a skirt. i used to wind him up all  the time but he loved it. thing is are you sure he does not mind and more importantly if not why not. even if he doesn't mind now it will come back and haunt you one day. in my case he liked it cos he thought we had a chemistry!!!!! untill i had a dispute with my contract and he tried to back me up. result i left and he got fired but is normally the other way round. so beware.
584919
Most men will deny such behavior, especially when they have no defense. I wouldn't worried about it, but I would keep my eyes open. Married men flirting, especially in the work place where both of you work is disrespectful to you as a wife and the marriage.
1071270
Get one of those voice activated recorders and when he confronts you, make sure it's on.  Then take the recording to your boss - if she/he doesn't do anything about it, you may be out of luck.  Worse comes to worse see an attorney- this could sexual  harassment and that's illegal!
223415
she sounds like she is hoping to catch someone doing something wrong.\nShe sounds creepy.\nJust ignore it and mention it to her supervisor if you can do it casually. Just laugh and say it's funny that Ms. so and so is always watching you whatever you do, like you are just mentionign it, not really accusing her of anything.\nbut otherwise just try to ignore it.
532150
My boss trying to explain something to me!
27053
Maybe he's going through something that he doesn't want you to know.  If you are truly worried about him you would ask him.  He may say it's nothing, heriditary or something, that means it's none of your business.  If it's something serious the last person you'd want to know is your boss.  So, just let it be, but keep an eye out for him.
906774
Could be flirting or could just be teasing you both happen all the time\n\nIf she is really evil should might be doing so you think shes flirting hoping that you come up and crack on to her so she can sue for sexual harassment
172664
Here's the problem - you are co-workers, so getting intimate with you may be an ethics violation.  He probably got a vibe that the other women were friendly without being too serious, so he was OK with this mock flirting.  However, if you displayed a serious, shy work-type demeanor, he probably didn't want to 'provoke' you by being too familiar.  you may not understand this, but every time a guy goes to be with a girl, there is a question in the back of his head that is saying, 'will I be sued?'  An honorable guy will not try to get too intimate with a co-worker, so if you want him to flirt with you, you will have to act like you will be his friend and not mind the intimacy that a co-worker should avoid.  In today's work environment, it's very easy for a guy to be victimized, so you will have to go all out to show him that you will be OK with a little display of affecdtion without taking him to court or getting him fired.
191731
It means to flirt with
700932
Dating and working. Working & playing. Sounds contradictory, right? \n\nWrong.\n\nYou can no more control your heart than you can stop breathing. \nBut ask yourself if what you are feeling is LOVE or LUST.\n\nDating a co-worker (to your EMPLOYER) means you have been slacking off on his time-clock; something that may cause problems between you and the co-worker in the future. By merely posing the question, you indicate your fear of on-the-job-involvement. You are attracted to him/her, but you are afraid to commit.\n\nThink about what that means. You are not SURE about this co-worker, are not prepared for a failed relationship among your peers, and are reluctant to completely give of yourself before you know answers.\n\nI have learned that "when in doubt, DON'T." \n\nYou have made a valid point. If things don't work out between you, more than likely, EVERYONE at the job will know about it. \n\nBesides being "awkward," you risk losing your job, your reputation and your appeal to perhaps, a more suitable partner.\n\nBUT - on the other hand...\n\nLove (true love, that is) has NO Address. This means it is entirely possible for you to meet your soulmate while dating a co-worker. \n\nTherefore, my advice is for you to: \n1. GO SLOW (don't rush into anything)\n2. GO PUBLIC (get to know him/her initally in the company of other co-workers at a restaurant, snack bar, etc.)\n3. GO AWARE (learn about his/her past relationships. You just may be another conquest or victim #___ on their playa's list)\n\nEnjoy the attention but always be aware of the RISKS. And if true love prevails, welcome it. \n\nI wish you well, my friend. Thanks for posting your question.
637703
If she has a boyfriend then she's out of bounds, some people don't mind harmless flirting, but she's training you, so it would be like going out with the boss who has a boyfriend. Plus if your paying her as your fitness trainer then she doesn't want to tell you to leave her alone! Nope, steer clear of anything oother than trainer/learner!!
795598
When i first started reading, I had a feeling your performance is not up to expectations and he trying to motivate you, but now I think he has a personal ego problem. Why dont u try and tell him that u have several urgent tasks and look busy? I know it is annoying, but leaving is not the solution. You will probably end up with a boss that has a bad temper or personality flaw. \n\nWhy dont u try and send him an annonmous note telling him that everybody hates his ways, but make sure he will never find out.
990329
In this day and age I would say no but it really depends on what this person means by it.  I've had female co-workers call me that and I wasn't offended because I know they aren't flirting with me. I think of it as sort of a term of endearment.  But if a this guy is trying to get a date or just in your pants then I'd have to say no.
943194
First of all I would say that the guys are probable picking on you because they do like you. I would say that the one that is married is a messed up guy and I promise you that there is a possibility that that guy could try to cheat on his wife with you. Also another thing would be with all the guys messing with you is just because you are a girl and they are guys and it is easy to pick on girls. I would say that the ones that you do not like I would say that you need to let them know how you feel and if they will not stop and you feel very uncomfortable then you might want to report it to your manager.  The other guy that thinks that you are beautiful then I would say (keep it going girl) He sounds like a good one. Keep hold of him.\nCathy
772995
she probably is interested in you but does not want to cross the boss/ employee boundry or she is debating whether she should or not. Dunno, sounds like she digs you though.
270420
whoa, if he's flirting with every girl, you might want to stop and ask yourself if he's really the kind of guy you want to be with.  chances are, you don't especially because guys like that are more prone to bad behaviors.  try finding a nice guy that will flirt with you and only you.  and just remember to be yourself.  any guy will like you for who you are, you can't get a guy to like you for who you aren't.