Ladies, how far will you let a guy get on the first date?
150908
to the questions about each other, and maybe--Just MAYBE-- a kiss goodnight.
621844
I would tell him that I would have to get to know him before we went on a date. It looks like you do know him so just say no if you don't want to go!
870977
I would be very flattered, however, don't get upset if the guy has trouble answering.  Don't close in on him, let him know that you would like to talk.  Keep that personal space distance until he decides to open up.  And if it doesn't work out, you haven't lost anything by trying.  Good Luck.
988571
Well it depends on where your going as far as how you should dress and how well you click as to the hand holding etc.\n\nIf your going to dinner and a movie I would just dress casually. A theater a little dressier and so on. Perfume is nice no matter where your going as long as it's not to heavy. Guys usually like a girl that smells nice.\n\nAs far as that big decision at the end of the night should I let him kiss me or not...hmmm... well... nah!!!!  Turn that cheek... leave him with wanting another date with you... but also let him know you are interested with that million dollar smile and a tad of shyness.  Assuming you like him that is. If not make sure you put your hand out first. \n\nIf he expects you to pay your share... dump him tonight sweetie!\n\nGood luck and have fun tonight.
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
709911
Generally men usually have to make the first move so it's nice when a women takes initiative. Think two steps forward one step back, make it fun and interesting.  And let him chase you from time to time.
1176586
Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
653100
Tell him Yes!  Dinner is an easy first date.  You can go and see how things happen and if it isn't so great then you can leave after.  But if it is great, then who knows.  I say go and give it a try - what are you waiting for?
374844
Honey you have to allow the guys to make the first move. Don't be scared you will know what to do when the time comes, it's natural.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
219908
That is usually up to the girl (you). However if you think about it .... is the guy worth it if he wants in your pants the first date?\n\nAsk yourself this question .... Do I know this guy well enough to sleep with him and exposing myself to everybody he has been with before?\n\nI am all for free sex and friends with benefits, but then if that is the case it's not called a "date" now is it?\n\nAll my advice on this is assuming...\n- your old enough to date\n- He has a home of his own to go to\n- you old enough to have sex\n- you know what protection to use if you do\n- you are ready for any responsibility that may come of it
677091
I kiss on the first date.\nBut I don't go farther than that.\nUnless I just want a hook-up.
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
333252
Take her somewhere fun.  Minature golfing, a zoo, an amusement park...some thing you can both enjoy and be yourselves at.  On the first date you want to get to know the person, not sleep with them right off the bat.  Well, okay, maybe you want to sleep with them right off the bat...but getting to know the person in a relaxing atmosphere is sometimes easier than some stuffy restaurant.
562726
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
1135607
No need to tell him anything, just say hello and get to know him better, ask if he'd like to go out some time, and see a movie.\nGo fro there, it's not rocket science, just two people going out on a date. Be prepared for rejection, in case he doesn't feel the same way about you. That's the only risk, and we men do that all the time.