my x wasnt married when we were togather?
148765
You stay out of it until he is divorced so you don't get caught in the middle of it.  Tell him you will be his friend but until he gets a divorce you can't be anything more.
489056
Hi, My X use to do the same exact things! I know exactly what it feels like, unfortunately the last few lies I found out were from my children. He was hangin around with a white trash piece of shit that was his sisters friend. He swore up and down they were just friends, come to find out he had been seeing her off and on for about 12 years! I was married to this asshole for 17 of them! Please please... Listen to your heart, especially with his track record.. make sure for yourself and I hope its not true, but that there isn't another woman! I don't know how I didn't find out sooner. I guess the kids were younger..not sure.. But the things you were saying is just how it was with us.. and he didn't even care when we didn't talk I think he actually enjoyed it because there was less to cover up if I wasn't asking him questions! But please keep your eyes and ears open, and I hope you find nothing but just in case hun.. take it from someone who has been there. Take care good luck and if anything changes please keep me informed or if u need another woman to talk to email or im me anytime! Good luck & be strong! Kim
258225
negative, I wasn't married!
801651
Yes, look at the county records where he lives or would have gotten married. clerk of courts
86543
Well in my own experience one of my ex became ex because he never realize that, hahahah!!!!. And another ex became ex because he realize that too soon that he scared me. So I don´t think a point of when to realize if he want to marry exist. I belive that when if you realize and he doesn´t, or viceversa, runnnnnnn!!!!!. It has to be mutally.
966601
Before April 2003, if you're not married, and you haven't applied for him to have joint parental responsibility, then yes, you have full parental responsibility.  It wouldn't be granted in court, the only things the courts can decide is visitation and financial support.
653934
Do my ex girlfrineds count?
1039348
Been through that my friend. There is no simple answer coz it's done. Tell her very politely that your relationship cannot live in the past and since you cannot change it, if she is so concerned she must have her freedom. Not simple, but that is how it should be. You cannot erase your past, only GOD can. I agree it has no relevance to your present circumstances. If it happened before you met her, she should love you for what you are. I hope she is an angel!!!
91976
He married you. That is a pretty strong commitment. If he thought there was any hope of getting back with his ex he wouldn't have taken that step with you.
882227
No, my parents were divorced.  My sister has been happily married for 7 yrs, I've been happily married for 3.  You sometimes learn from others mistakes, or at least we did.
521656
maybe she was maybe she wasnt..try to find out about that before u even think about calling her or for that matter anyone a liar..
609962
im sorry\nthe same thing happened to me w/my x. He would move out anywhere from couple days - month. \nwell eventually i had enough we are not together. \nleaving for while wil not solve any problems at all either.\nwell good  luck to you i hope things work out for you!!!
240320
Hello, i think he is not telling u about his past life, because you are the only one he wants, and do not worry if he does not tell u, your the girl he wants, so don't worry
34316
That way when he cheats on you he can say you werent together then.
1131342
You can look at it two ways.  Before you were married is before you made a commitment to each other or if he did it once he will do it again.  Not to make you feel worse than you already do, I have been where you are and thought it was before and dosn't count  believe me a leopard doesn't change his stripes and the first time is the hardest.  If it happened once it will happen again.  Learned it the hard way  D
1086653
Well, if he isn't legally divorced, then she isn't legally married to him nor has she ever been.\n\n  \nShe needs to contact an immigration lawyer ASAP.
110349
sounds like hes not over her or he likes the way his x does things better.. it could be a more familer thing to him.. or could be hes just a butt...