whats is mean when your with ur boyfriend and he glances at girls that arent even that cute?
155575
u should not be preoccupied with this, it's not because he does not love u or want to hurt u. while my father was learning to become medical doctor, the've had old wise lecturer, who was teaching sexology and he liked to say, that women should be happy since their men gaze at other women at the streets and public places, cause it shows that everything is quite good with men's sexual system. and if men is not interested in women at all, how he can be interested in u as woman.\n\nso just take it easy
1085108
My boyfriend always flirts and looks at other girls, but we are older (mid 30s-ish).  We know that our base relationship is rock solid and we are both comfortable that flirting is just fun and that we would never act on it.\n\nIt depends on your relationship with him.  It's hard to tell with younger guys though.  They sometimes are real pains-in-the-rears.
527349
hanging out with a girl you love but doesn't look the best...looks aren't everything...it's what you see on the inside....
288878
Men are very visual creatures. If they see something they like, they look. Hell, women, look, too! There is no shame in that. The most important point of the matter is that even if he is looking at other women, he's going home with you!
412602
it means that they think that u r a superficial person. which is when someone only looks at another person by their physical appearance, n that physical apperance defines who they r in the inside. shallow ppl r gay ppl...n i dont mean it by homosexuals, theyre cool...if ure shallow, god help ur sould
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
1102227
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
162619
Your boyfriend is insecure and undeserving of you. Find a new boyfriend.
455921
I think the guy you hate is Ugly! JK, You love your boyfriend so much and he loves you so much. So I think that No one can break you guys up. You guys are always there for each other and When I see you guys not together it will feel strange to me because you guys have been dating 4 so long. Go with the heart and not with the head.
67425
your girl is not attractive enough
1045046
Man... So many people are looking at what he did the wrong way.  Look at it like this, if your boyfriend liked some girl better than he did you, would you want him to keep wasting your time?  Of course not.  If you think he really likes you and doesn't just want to go out with you for some shallow reason like you're hotter, then go out with him.  You just have to make sure that you make him like you for something deeper than looks cause that way he won't just leave you for the next hot girl.
1017308
don't over react - Some people need to hear nice things and some people do not mind telling them so they feel good about themselves. have you ever told a guy that they were cute or handsome? has anyone told you that your cute or pretty? I bet yes on all of the above. We all do this but never pay attention that we do. we only notice when someone else says it to another. I think you should think that your boyfriend is soooooo polite and be proud he isn't a jerk. If you love him and feel he loves you then maybe a show of trust is needed. Would it not feel better than getting in his face all mad and giving him the third degree all because your have assumed the worse?
1097507
sometimes guys just look at other woman but it doesnt mean that he would rather be with her...  I dont think that your boyfriend is lying to you. alhough he might not be able to stop he really cares about you
567947
This is true. When you are with someone you think they are cute because of how they act or how they are with you. Or basically because you are stupid. When you break up you look at them and think what the heck was I thinking? Its normal ha but it sure does suck
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PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
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That doesn't mean he is cheating. He can loOK just not touch. Men DO like to look at females. It's their nature. It's how they are wired. it's OK as long as he's with you and wants only you. Don't you find other men attractive? I'm sure you do. It's ok too. The men you look at is of no threat to your man, right? So don't be so insecure. make a joke out of it. Let it go. Be a strong woman. Men don't want to constantly reassure their women they love and care for them.