Should i wait for the heart-broken guy i love even if he said he didn't believe in love any more?
145790
Dear Nanis,it would seem your friend is suffering from love lost in the past,or making an excuse to not get close to you.Love is an outgoing concern for the one loved GREATER than concern for self.And it is unfair of him to judge YOU as if you are going to hurt him too! In the meantime,still talk with him,be kind to him,and listen to him IF he returns the same thing.Otherwise it was not meant to be.I loved a girl once,and kept after her a whole year--but she simply did not love me.So decide with your HEAD what is best...the heart is a very deceptive emotional organ...you have to see 5 to 10 years down the road--guard your heart--YOU are worth loving,not being kept at arm's lentgh.
442420
Fate is cruel, Faith is inspiring... yet Love can be confusing. \n\nLive your life and in the course of living you find him again, great. But don't wait... Good things come to those that wait but better things come when you go get them for yourself. And the Best thing may just be around that corner.
649986
I think you should tell him how you feel about him once again and if he don't respond to you then maybe you should move on because if he can't get over this the truth is it would be hard to make a relationship work with him anyway there would be trust issues i believe speaking from experience. So tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If he don't respond then maybe you should try to find someone else and stop waiting for this guy.
1091889
it basically means not to hold out for him, but to just let it sit. give him time. let him breathe. let him figure himself out and when he does...you'll know. but keep yourself open. if you feel this guy "Might be the one but i'm not sure and i dont' want to wait"...then you don't really love him. let him go. but if you feel he's worth waiting on to figure out what he feels...tell him to let you know when he knows. and then wait. :)
296402
If he really loves you then your heart would instinctively know---at present you are doubtful----very natural---only time will reveal the truth----impatience is natural but worth to find true love---- best of luck
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
242085
YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM IF THERE IS ENOUGH LOVE THERE .  PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU ANSWERS ON WHAT TO DO ,BUT THEN YOU HAVE TO REALLY OPEN YOUR HEART SO YOU WILL HEAR THE ANSWER WHEN HE PUT IT IN YOUR HEART. good luck and may god bless you
121472
I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
138977
I say yes, if he likes you.Maybe you two are made to be together and you will find out only if you date him.\n\nSo what if he is crushed?You can do whatever you want, it`s your life and if he cheated on you that means he doesn`t care about you and your feelings and you two weren`t ment to be together.\nAny way he will accept the idea after a while (and he will not be crushed any more :) )\nDo whatever you wanna do.
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
1074691
I deeply reason with you girl but I strongly believe that you have not yet stumbled on the man for you. I think you should still open up your heart and be ready to love again, but this time do more of the study at the initial stage and promise you will find a man who will respect your principles as well as love you. Just open up your heart and real love will come your way.
940171
explain your feelings to him, i would not want to be with someone who did not love me. tell him the truth so you both can move on. love is so hard to deal with, but you have to be honest so one day you and he can both be happy.
213389
thats upto him to decide.... and you be confident!! rest if ur love is true then i think ur gonna be lucky
303227
If you have doubts about it, then that probably means that your not ready to find "the one", and if you don't think that this guy is the right one yet, then he probably won't be.  There are so many other men out there and you have your whole life to find "the one", don't rush into things, it's not worth it to get hurt in the end.  You have to know that you can trust someone, have awesome communication, and respect for each other.  If you feel that you have these and your still having doubts, then maybe he's not right for you and you need to keep looking.\n\nGood luck!
217880
If you and he have real feelings, wait until the timing is right. Good things are worth waiting for. And if neither of you can wait, then it isn't meant to be.
36536
Depends on if you trust him or not. If he's trustworthy then you should believe him...if you have that gut feeling that he just isn't telling you how he seriously feels..then you should try to find someone who WOULD give anything for you. Good Luck!
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!