Is it okay for an 18 year old to love n date an older man?
139110
it is okay, but people his age are filled with maturness and wisdom, so take care if he is playing with u or something. You can know about that by knowing if he is kind or not ( by kind, he should be kind and not pretending to be ).
183475
depends on how older he is than u???? Me personnaly i ahve well sorta "loved" guys 8 yrs older than me... so yeh... anyway.. age does not matter when u r in love...\n\nlol... hope dis helped huni...
967997
Even though many people say, "Love has no age difference" there is. Point blank. \n\nFirst of all, if you trust him 100% and you love him then don't worry about the women before you. Those were just mistakes that lead up to you. \n\nSecondly, yes he's older. But NEVER, EVER let him pressure you into doing something that you don't want to or most importantly, not ready for. Just because his ex's did such and such all the time or something, doesn't mean that you do to. Make him realize that. \n\nThirdly, I'd test the waters. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Just take it all in stride, chances are that this might not be your "one" but it's all a learning process. So what you don't date younger guys? The more you date, the more you learn the specifications of the type of man you want to be with in the future. Enjoy yourself, but don't lose yourself!
213182
It is not wrong. People say it's wrong because they follow a long established social construction that states that the man should always be the older one, because he should be the protector and the provider in the relationship. That's why no one ever judges an old man who is in a relationship with a young woman. People don't approve of an older woman and a younger man because that's not what they are used to see as normal. If you go on with this relationship you have to know that people will have objections about it, and that you as a couple will experience some disagreements because he's not as mature and experienced in life as you are. But on the good side you are both on your sexual prime (20 for the man and 40 for the woman). Every relationship is work, if you are willing to work for it, just do it!
276342
Sweetie, age has nothing to do with nothing okay.  If you like this guy then go for it.  You never know, this could be your true love.  Just remember, "It's better to have loved and lost, than to have no love at all."
995549
Well...I suppose it's relative to how mature he is.  \n\nWomen mature faster than men so I'm not sure it's wise to date a younger man. \n\nIf you were 40's I would say there's not a huge gap, but early 20's people are still figuring out life and who they are. \n\nI don't think there's anything 'wrong' with it as long as he's legal. I just don't think it's wise...(I make these remarks based on the facts as I'm given them).\n\nIf you must, date him years and years before you ever marry.
262146
Hey, me n my wife r 8 years apart. It is no biggie. If you are younger than 18 , then yes its a problem. If you are, then i suggest you wait. If not, then go with your heart and enjoy someone who loves you.
726273
It depends on the age difference and your maturity level. If you can handle whatever may come along with being involved with an older man and the baggage then do what makes you  happy.
1030864
My only answer 2 your question is only you can know if age is nothing but a number.\n\nWhen you are truly in love with him and the love is returned then why shouldn't it work many people are in relationships and are the same age and it doesn't work, i believe that when you are both truly in love age will not play a roll and don't let any1 judge you or tell you anything different.\n\nI wish you both happiness in your future.
435565
Yes its OK providing you are over the age of consent. There is nothing wrong with relationships between older men and younger women providing that both are old enough to consent to what they are doing. \n\nYou are probably not old enough to consent to a relationship so it cause problems. I would leave it until you are both old enough to enter a relationship legally. You or he may have found someone else and have moved on by then. If not, you might want to see how you feel about each other then.\n\nMy brother married a girl who was 13 years younger than him and they have three kids.\n\nBest wishes to you for the future.
221886
It can work if you guys have similiar ways of thinking and have fun together.  Sometimes older men/women have more experience in dating and can take advantage of you without you even realizing it.  Also, especially with men, you gotta make sure they're with you for the right reasons, not just to feel young again or prove something.  \n\nI asked a similiar question and got mixed responses.  Some people said age is nothing but a number or I'm married to an older man, but that kind of response doesn't really tell you anything.  Obviously age is important or else we wouldn't even be concerned about it.  \n\nI suggest that you spend some time with him and after some thought, decide if you really think he's right for you or if it is a phase or short-lived attraction.  I had a crush on an older guy before, but then I realized I just felt comforted and secure around him, but was not in love with him.\n\nGood luck, and follow your heart AND mind!\n\nP.S.  It also depends on your age.  If you're around 18, stick to guys around your age (3-4 years older) for experience reasons.  If you're 22 or older, five years difference is not neccessarily a big deal.  If you're under 18, be careful always!
476292
As long as you are really in love. I don't think love really knows age. Do you love the kid too? You gotta understand that there is a lot of baggage when it comes to a relationship like that and you have to be ready to deal with it (kid, ex, history, stuff like that). Have you always like older guys. You might be lookin for a father figure or someone to take care of ya. Sorry, it didn't say if it was a man or woman-you might also be lookin for a mother figure too. :) Good luck!
85131
Nothing wrong with dating someone twenty years older if it works for both of you.  And you are at least 18.
714086
I date and live with a man that is 10 yrs. younger than I am, and we have the most wonderful love and relationship you could imagine. I personally do not think age should matter at all as long as the two of you are happy.
315367
It depends on how far under age.  People who are 50 who "fall in love" with 8 year olds have problems.  However, if you are somewhat close in age that's fine.  You have to realize, though, that it would be inappropriate to act on it physically until the person is of age.  \n\nHowever, there are certain circumstances where I can see how it could happen.  For instance, if you are both young it is quite possible that the person has only a 3 year age difference.  Which is no big deal when you are older, people wouldn't even question it.  However, like I said, if you truly love the person, you will wait until the time is right.  That is the respectful, legal and appropriate thing to do.
1137947
why not!!! Age difference doesn't matter, once the two people get on great. All the best for the future! Love doesn't know any limits!!!!
239333
I don't think there's anything wrong with it.I have younger men interested in me and I just go with the flow. Age doesn't matter as long as you are both adults.