Why is it that men only want to be friends with women if they can get sex out of it?
138121
It sounds like maybe you're not being completely up front with them from the beginning about the 'being married' part. Maybe they're getting some kind of vibe from you that you're looking for someone to have an affair with. Are you going out of your way to get men friends? If so, why when you're married?
580772
NO.  Guys dont want to be friends right way with someone that they shared a lot with.
755437
I think friendship of the oposite sex is sometimes the best as long as both partys understand that it is friendship only and dont complicate things by trying to have a relationship.
447330
I think so, yes.  For most women, their sexual desires come from the warm feelings they have towards their partners.  The friendship bonds between women can be quite strong, often emotionally stronger than the relationships they have with their husbands.  It's only natural to let all that warmth, friendship, love, and safety flow into curiosity about lovemaking.  Every woman has thought about it, and if a woman says she hasn't, she's lying.  The more defensive and angry a woman gets when asked this question, the more she's thought about being with another woman.
286680
BECAUSE YOU WANT ATTENTION FROM YOUR FRIENDS. . YOU WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING . . THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME AND THAT IF YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND GURLFRIENDS THEN YOUR SCARED THAT THEY WONT HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE
948079
As a woman, I cannot have casual sex.  I'm just not wired that way.  I've finally learned that men really are different than women and it's easier for them to have a sexual encounter with no strings attached.  Unfortunately, when men get the milk for free, sometimes they don't want to buy the cow.
430594
I think because us men have testostrone which gives us an urge to compete; we can not fullfill this natural urge with out a fellow man which causes us to have friends to full fill this.  We have a hard time full filling this with a women because we need to dominate or conquer and win against the other men.\n\nWhoa\n\nWomens natural chemistry is to produce in which they can not do with a fellow women so your guys chemistry does not involve each other. Of course a women can be powerfull and successfull but you cannot fight the chemistry / biological clock fore ever its ticking. \n\nLet me know if this helps a tiny bit.   Sorry for the spelling im tired and sleepy.
394712
i think there are guys and girls out there that are just friends...but there will always be that air of sexual attraction between them.  most of the girls i've been friends w/ have ended up in bed w/ me. =?
148906
It is a very real fact that men and women can be friends.  If the 2 people are satisfied with themselves (meaning that they don't have to continuously try to prove something or have hang-ups about if they are "cool" enough) they will be able to interact on a friendly basis.
437609
different guys want different things.  Some want relationships and all the things associated with it and some guys want to hit it and quit it.  But what they all want is to have fun and are geared more towards sex.
975979
To put it plainly guy's don't want Girls as friends they want girlfriends, he wouldn't bother with you if he didn't feel someit. So chance it definitely darlin', its better to have tried and failed than to never have tried.
38735
It is possible, but not very...  Most men and women that become friends usually end up sleeping together or developing feelings for one another in the long run.  I would recommend against it...
997920
Its a man thing, it carries on from childhood. Not every male does it, but most. There's just a manly Ora that you have to have with ur friends,  now is this the smartest thing to do, no, because our friends are not going to sex us up like our woman would, but we dont think that far down the line..hence the kissing of the posterior when the friends leave.
170408
It's possible...anything is but it doesn't happen often. It seems one is always cultivating the relationship in hopes of at least one episode of pity sex. Not that its always the case, just that it gives rise to other issues. It takes two very dumb or two very smart members of the oposite sex to really just be friends.
699193
Be prepared for the possible outcomes of this relationship.  Women often say that intimacy/sex with a friend can be a good thing, that they can handle it.  Most often, and I mean a LARGE number of these women will develop romantic feelings for their friend (women intrepret intimacy with sensuality to love), which leads to jealousy of friend's girlfriends.  This usually leads to the end of the friendship.  Think about this before getting sensual with him.  When he learns that you want something else (other than no-strings-attached sex), he will probably get nervous, after all this wasn't part of the plan.  When men tell you they want you for sex, and not a relationship - they mean it!  He will get uncomfortable with this relationship.  I don't think this is something you should consider doing, and I wonder - why don't you find a boyfriend to share intimacy/sensuality with?  That would be much healthier..
74925
As a man once told me: NO!  If you are an attractive woman it is hard for a man to see you as just a friend.
109697
Why not be totally honest and tell them you want friendship only?  No sex.