is it weird for a girl to ask a guy out?
142187
not as long as you were born a girl and havnt undrgone any operations
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
600861
You wouldn't have to ask him if you get one of your friends to ask for you. Let's put it this way, If a guy likes you he will let you know buy asking you out or he will show signs that he does. You don't ever ask them.
515162
Yes, they're scared! Girls say yes or no and have that power. But, girls must wait to be asked. What suspense! That's scary, isn't it. Ther's a trick, if you can do it.  Why not (gulp) just quiet and confidently approach the guy when he's alone and tell him directly you'd like to go out sometime and it's OK if he isn't interested... and mean it. Just say that. No babeling. Courage is impressive, to me.
505049
guys love it when girls ask us out.  I'm sure he notices you, he just doesn't show it.  If you are pretty good friends then he will listen to what you have to say and regardless of how he acts.. he will consider it.  Let him think about it for a day and DON'T ACT OBSESSED.  That will freak him out.  Act cool about it.  I've had girls ask me out like this and even if i didn't really think of them like that before i gave the relationship a try.  a lot of times it worked out decently well.
866761
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?
217336
Id go for it. The guy dosent always have to ask the girl out. Ask him, and if he says no, then at least you tried.
289421
I know I'm being a little traditional here, but no, I don't think you should ask him out. That's his job and all you have to do is give him some hints and maybe talk to his friends so he can get the courage to ask you out. Nobody likes rejection, but in life everyone has to learn to overcome it.
261061
not necesarily but you should throw some hints if you like him and maybe it will push him over the edge and he will ask you out of just leave alone if he thinks your kind of weird for doing that-lol
792879
Uh well the real ? is does he notice you? Have y'all sat down and talked to each other? Or does he like you a little more than a friend? I normally believe you should wait for a guy to ask the girl but if you want to take a risk and lose him or feel uncomfortably around him then go ahead because if he says no you might just not feel very comfortable around him.
878675
That all depends how you have been expressing yourself to him. A lot of guys can not pick up signals or they misinterperted signals from girls.\n\nMost people (espically guys) are afriad of rejection. If you know that he has feelings for you and you feel the same way for him and he's too chicken to ask you out, then you should make the first move or you both would be waiting for nothing to happen.....
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
1124238
I don't mind if a girl asks me out. Before you ask someone out you must be aware of one thing that all men know. When you ask someone out, they might say no.
119724
Yes girls like when guys ask them out. Even if their answer is no...still know that they are flattered that you asked them. Every girl loves to feel special...and thats how it would make her feel.
970273
personally i dont like it when girls ask guys out so i would just tell you to drop hints about your feelings and try to get close to him and tell him nice things
809160
When I was dating, the guys usually asked at the end of the first date.  If he didn't, I would ask.  I would say something like, "I had a nice time and I was wondering if we could get together again".  I always got a good response of yes, but there were a few no's.\nThese days a guy doesn't mind if a girl asks him out.\n\nHere's a tip:\nIf the guy says he'll call you and acts fidgety, take it with a grain of salt because he won't.\nTry to ask him first as I said above to ease your mind.
895546
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.