What do I do about my best friend?
146064
Look her in the eye, be resolute. Then you should shout at her, "Get thee behind me, Satan. I rebuke thee." Then with Christian love , explain the foolishness of her ways. If she fails to repent, walk away from her and cast the dust off the bottom of your shoes as a witness against her.
413035
Be really sweet about it. Let him know that you really value them and their friendship, but you don't reciprocate their feelings. Expect them to be upset, but eventually he will get over it. Also, make sure not to send any mixed signals and be as honest and kind as possible.
785079
find a new best friend
397035
just simply tell him that u dont think it is right anymore and u just wanna be friends and still talk? but tell him the reason is b/c u dont wanna hurt ur best friend?
1120194
Your best friend doesn't have to care as long as she is a good listerner. That is the main thing. Alot of times you just need to talk. If she is atleast listening....then that is really what you needed aways. Does she help you when you really need it. Can you call her anytime to just talk? Can she call you anytime to just talk. Is it just one sided. Are you there for her every-time she needs something? Does she ever need you and you don't help? Good friends will help you kill someone...Best friends will help you bury them..LOL (only joking) Really ask yourself why you are asking this question,,. It may be because this friendship is one sided. Or  it may be because she has other friends that you are jealous of. I know that doesn't sound good. But, hey it happens..I had what I thought was a best friend. She would help me with anything. Then she moved on...I was hurt and jealous. .She is still a friend. but, I found out she could only have one real best friend at a time..She moves on about every 4 years. She has been through about 6 now. We hardly ever see each other now days.  (Almost Forgotten)
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
158831
First evaluate the relationship and see if is worth fighting for, then talk to your best friend and ask him/her why the fighting and the distance.  Try to spend time and be patient and hopefully you will be able to save your friendship. good luck
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
865489
Tell one of your best friend to talk to him about you and tell your best friend to ask him question about who he feels about you and if he says nothing but good things about you have ur friend tell him how you feel about him but, if he ain't feelin' u or just ain't lookin' for a g-friend right now tell ur friend not to tell him anything about the way u feel.
753818
both of you just need to completely forget about him. NEVER LET A GUY GET IN THE WAY OF YOU AND YOUR BEST FRIEND!!! it will/would be hard to do that, but you must. unless she is willing to just look and not touch, both of you need to forget about him. what you should do [instead of] is just go up and talk to him. if you cant have him, he might have some hot friends or brothers or something.\n\nLuv Ya,\nTAY
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
1025371
Try to spend time with both of them separately. You can't make them like each other and you can't make them be friends. learn how you can balance your time between the two of them so you can keep both friends. I am in a similar situation with my best friend and his new girlfriend. She and I don't get along so he makes sure that he spends time with both of us. Just manage your time well and things will  be OK. Good luck!
661387
If he is flirting with your best friend, it is time to let him go. Be the one to take action
199717
I stopped talking to my best friend for the first 18 years of my life becaue her emotional problems were getting so bad I coulnd't deal with it anymore. She wasn't fun anymore. Yet I miss her sometimes terribly.\nI moved out of town and we stopped talking. When I went back to my hometown 20 years later and drove past her house there she was going inside and I just kept driving. We considered ourselves sisters.\nSometimes you just have to make the break.\nYou need to tell her you need some time to yourself.\nAnd not feel guilty.\nTell her you can't keep driving her around and if she won't get her license you can't help her anymore. You will be doing her a big favor. \nTell her she needs to be independent from you. Tell her your tired and worn out and can't help her any more. It won't stop until you tell her.\nEither that or just move to another town.
46150
You need to let this friendship go. Most likely she's going to do it again, but this time it'll be worst. Trust me. She'll loose your trust. People change as they grow older, and it's not always for the better. At least you've realized she's not the person you thought she was and if you continue to be her best friend then you're putting yourself in a situation where you'll probably get hurt in the end. Move on.