what if he is older, what should i do?
140236
Even though it may seem cool that he likes you Tell him to back off and wait till you are older.\nMost 18 year olds seek relationships with girls close to their own age. A boy who singles out a much younger girl often has serious problems. You might get pressured for sex, He might become possesive or abusive. My 17 year old daughter says you should call the cops.
41412
He is too old for you
915784
Find a nice fella around your own age.  Don't know anything about this young male but he must be pretty immature to be hanging around kids your age.  There are lots of fish in the sea, and lots more around your age.
929123
If you are below 20 years old, forget it. If not, he will see that your the good person you are.
782990
What would he do if you were going through some changes too.\n     I can tell you from what you have shared, hes wonderful.\n  \n  So I would hold him tight, understand what he is going through.\n Give him lost of water and just love him.\n\n   Let him have some outlets. Let him grow right now he needs it.\n   If he doesn't grow now when he is 55 he will anger and really \n   hate life, that is not what you want..   \n\n  And there is nothing wrong with being spoiled! Be proud of your life and hard work.
578154
Why not be there for him, and wait to see if he asks you out? Then you will be sure that he accepts you. Be careful though. Older guys are not always the gentlmen they should be. Keep your dignity. You have a whole life to live, and you want that life to be a happy one.
83925
Honey, as long as this guy is nice to you, understands about the difficulties such age differences mean, and is basically a good guy then date him, have fun, but don't let him press you to do things you don't want to. I married a man older then myself and have been very happy. It takes longer for men to mature then women so really he is basically your age right about now. So the real question is do you want to date some one who is the same age as you? lol
709700
Hi, I remember when I was your age I thought that a guy 1 year younger was a 'lot younger'. If he's a good person, { and especially if he's cute!}, defiantly go out with him.        ps. some advice for your future, 20 or even more years from now, when you meet a guy 20 years younger than you,  STILL GO FOR IT!!!        pss. Also remember this rule, "once a mistake, twice a habit", when any man shows signs of disrespect, or hurts you in any way, BOUNCE!!! Before you get to attached to him. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache!
1130639
please do not accept this.\nbecause when you will be in the age of 30 he could not do anything.
470959
do it you. can teach him the way you want any thing done you have more experience, you are 2 years older .good luck. and remember what every makes you happy. no one has walked in you shoes.so listen to yourself.
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.
98458
just dont go any further until you get alittle older. dont let him force you to go further.
1077794
There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.
127654
Im 29yrs old and speaking as someone older i have this advice for you. Leave age out of it. Your older than legal age so it is not of concern. How do YOU feel about him? Really. if you love him, see where it leads. make sure he treats you right!! I had a friend who was 19 at the time and married a guy 29. they just had there first child - still very much in love. it depends on the situation. one step at a time. see where it leads and make sure he treats you right.
87756
Look for others close to your age.Perhaps he doesn't want to get into trouble for dating someone really younger than him. If you get older it won't matter so much. However, now is not the right time.
163078
Not really, but understand that this will not be a permanent relationship.  An older guy should introduce you better things than a guy your age.  Nice restaurants, plays, concerts.  In exhange you are keeping him young.
841299
Well if hes nice and you can trust him and hes not too old for you then you should