how we can have a late ejaculate during sex?
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don't think about it...
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This is  called premature ejaculation. If you are young, masturbate half an hour before you engage in sex with a woman.\n\nDuring intercourse, when you are about to ejaculate, divert your thoughts. Think of your business for instance. \n\nSqueezing your scrotum when you are about to ejaculate can also help.\n\nMind control is the best remedy. \n\nNote many a marriage is ruined because of man's premature ejaculation. It is very important to give satisfaction to your partner.\n\nEngage is long foreplay to arouse your partner so that she climaxes soon after penetration.\n\nHope this helps.
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Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
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I don't think they can... I mean once they (the males) reach a certian peak, it's kind of difficult to shut it off or try to contain it.\n\nMy hubby has experimented alot with these things. He has told me there's a way to help limit the aftermath (i.e. ejaculation) but it doesn't work 100% since it's not possible to prevent an ejaculation once it has begun. Well there are ways, yes, but it isn't easy. It takes concentration, dicipline, and effort, as well as time to experiment. \n\nBasically my hubby can try to reduce his already massively powerful ejaculations to something a little more "normal", although even his so-called "softer" orgasms, he ejaculates much more than all men I've ever seen (except some older Peter North p*rn when he was in his prime). \n\nSo unless a guy has found a way to actually control the amount and volume he ejaculates, I still think men do not have dirrect control over their ejaculations... At least not in terms of controlling the volume and quantity!
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yes there is a way to control ur premature ejaculation.the best way is take a hot bath and do some exercises which is when passing urine do not let it go at onetime make in parts.pee stop pee stop pee stop do this excercise when ever u go to pee.and another excercise is that masterbate but dont cum when comming to the climax divert ur mind to something else and control ur ejacualtion and this excercise u can do few times in a day b4 going to sleep or when taking a shower.it helps a lot.i had the same problem and i learnt it from one of the yahoo group answers  i think the id name as i remember desinyc26 he answerd this few months ago and i tried it and worked.best of luck
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yes performance anxiety can cause this.. you and her need to work together to delay ejaculation, many means available to do this.
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You can practice Stop and Start Technique.When you anticipate ejaculation press the glanse penis for few seconds few times daily for some days, till you get control on ejaculation.You can also advise your girl friend to do the same with you.You can take Floxetin orally daily with physician advice.
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wellll, ive heard that mast**bat!0n prior to sex will help you last longer cause the second time around guys always last longer.  Get that first nut out of the way and you should be able to go longer....
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ok,you can use a spray called ( lidocain) with low concentration to be applied on your( one)  few minutes before intercourse ,it is available in most countries
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30-40 min!!!!!!!!!!!!!1\nwho can do it??\nno ideal time but if you can ejaculation together this is the best way to injoy eatch other
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Control your premature ejacualtion
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if you are getting good erections you are lucky.  You can achieve 20 to 30 minutes happiness.  First  Reduce your anxiety, second use some condom like KS Long last.  It is thin and also contains an oil to delay ejaculation.   Use sprayers.  before intercourse on your erected penis spray.
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It takes some practice but it's not that difficult. You have to learn to go to the point where you feel the ejaculation is close and then take a short break...let the sensation subside...and then continue. It takes your partner's cooperation because she has to stop thrusting (moving) when you tell her to. Masturbation is a great way to practice when you are alone, probably the best way. You can also jack off a couple of hours before you have intercourse. That should definitely make the second ejaculation take longer!
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I already answered about this question.\nI guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of the women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our times (short or long) with our partner’s ones!\nAbout your question, you know that during the sexual act our mind has a relevant duty.\nThus, we have to fight against it mainly.\nSome therapist or psychologist has put some different method to follow, and about them, you should buy some books.\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (you know) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stop many times the penetration during the act (continuing to excite our partner anyway).\nThen if we are able to see out two acts consecutively, the most is already done!\nBy the way, Viagra is only good to give a stiff erection and not to reach longer time…..\nthen it can help us to see out another act, ONLY if there still is lust and wish
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Premature Ejaculation is a very common and very serious problem suffer by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of premature ejaculation range from person to person and from psychological to physical. Men are frustrated of having ejaculation prior to female’s orgasm. The average time a male suffering from premature ejaculation is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate. \n\nWhat Should You Do?\nThe best solution is to strength your body and allow you to control yourself last longer.  Try to delay ejaculation by practicing our highly effective and popular technique, “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique”. \n\nCome visit our Premature Ejaculation Resource Center for more information such as myths of PE, exercises, and herbs that can help. There you can find a technique we call the “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique” that will strengthen your body and allow you to control yourself to last longer.\n\nNatural Ejaculation Control Technique:\nhttp://www.herbolove.com/library/resource/prematureejaculation/natural.asp
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it depends , like if you are masturbating after few days you will reach climax soon. it is never fix for any person and also for same person it varies every time. It also depends on how much mentally u r aroused.\nFor just an advise if u want to elongate your ejaculation for long time use stop and go method i.e when u r about to reach climax , stop and continue again after few moments , tr this u will really enjoy ;)
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I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.