I am 35 y.o., female, catholic, single and a registered nurse.  Why can't I find a potential husband?
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First, stop looking for potential husbands.  Nothing is scarier then desperation, especially that desperation to settle down.  Good relationships need to grow organically.  If it leads to marriage, great, but if you only want marriage, then you're going to have trouble finding anyone who is going to march to your drum and yours only.\n\nFirst, where do you hang out?  Do you go out?  If not, start.  Find a book club or knitting club or bowling club or something.  You can't meet anyone sitting on your couch. \n\nYou might want to try looking at your church (do they have a singles group?) but don't limit yourself.\n\nYou can always try online dating.  Its a mixed bag though, you never know if you're going to meet someone brilliant or someone legally insane.  \n\nAsk people you work with if they know any single guys that might gel with you.  The best way to meet anyone is through mutual friends.
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Well your research has been done very well.I do believe that a woman of that age is possible for you.I must say be ready to open your mind to other things .Most women of that age already have children and there are a quite a few who desire another child but,maybe past experiences has taught them to seek a better man with such qualities as yours whether it be social,or economic qualities.Whatever tha quality you have to offer I do believe you have a real good chance.I hope tha best for you.Be careful and wise on your search
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ive wonder the same thing myself. but you have to leave that up to God. im 29 well nearly and i havent had any one in over 3 years. im very lonely. everyone tells me go to Church maybe u will find ur soulmate there. and i beleive there is someone out there for everyone. maybe its not time for you yet. but yes u will find him one day. just pray about it
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I totally understand what you are going through. I've found that the best medicine is just get extremely busy doing what you like doing, spoil yourself, take more time for YOU. Deciding that you do not have to have a boyfriend, but keeping your heart open if a wonderful man just happens to walk into your life soon! I went through what you are going through a year ago, and now I am married to my best friend and the most wonderful mate I could ever have asked for, and we are truly in love!!! So never give up on your dreams to find the right mate, and meanwhile just enjoy life!!!                                                  You will find that the perfect mate was waiting around the corner for you. So just love yourself and love others and be the best person you can be right now. Have fun, life is what you make of it!
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Sounds like you are a great guy! Any woman would be happy to be with you. There are some christain dating sites out there. There are women out there that have children too and are having troubles finding a good guy. Hope you find what your'e looking for! Best of luck!
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it is kind of dangerous , isn't it for you to be looking HERE  for someone, you don't really know who or what you will be getting, please don't take a chance, could you not try one of your hospitals or ask around your friends. please be safe an good luck to you!!
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I don't think you are the only woman who doesn't want any children because I know many women who do and others who don't want children.  That's your choice and your right not to have children.  Unfortunately, I think I'm a little out of your league because I'm older than what you are looking for, but don't lose hope and don't give up.  I'm sure that what you are looking for is out there somewhere.  Good luck and take care.  My best wishes to you always.
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Not all women are like that. You just have to slow down and let God do his job and help you to find the right women. There is a women out there that is just right for you, you just have to quit rushing it to happen. I mean date all the women you want, just don't try to get committed to them right away. \nI've been married 9 yrs. I got married at 18 and I have 2 great kids. Now my sister is the same age and she still hasn't found Mr. right. I am telling you just like I tell her it will happen if you let God do his job. God Bless and Good Luck !!!!!
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Im pretty certain that there are women in their 40's looking for a male companion for love if you check out some of the dating sites on the internet, you will probably have a bigger field finding a lady on a dating site than what you may find here... good luck...\nthis isnt a love match site is it?
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Church, start praying that God will bring a decent man into your life... If you are religious try a relegious online dating service, that way you don't have to go through the shinadigans of other sites... Good luck in finding him......
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You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
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i cano often be found at church.  im only 22, but hey, age is just a number.  seriously though, we are a bit harder to find than an average guy.  usually (i know in my case) we are a bit shy.  we don't often hit on girls, we think it rude.  ergo, nice guys finish last.  some of us do respect women, personally i had no choice growing up, having 4 sisters, no brothers until i was 11, and a step dad that i really didnt get along with, it wasnt hard to learn.\n\n\n\nmaybe try lowes, or star nursery.  stay away from wal mart though.  unless you want a good deal on something.  \n\n\ni got you beat on how long its been since a date, too.  i know its not a contest and i probably get the loser award, but im working on 22 1/2 yrs.  also known as "never"
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Finding a decent guy isn't that easy. I'm speaking from experience here. I'm 25 and in less than a year will finally be finished with my Ph.D., and have found that most guys are untrustworthy. But I do know that there are a very few decent ones out there. Maybe try looking in different places, like museums, church, the theater, etc. If you ever want to chat about this or anything else feel free to drop me a line
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You are not messed up in the head, some people are great contributers to sociaty and have never been married. You gan fufill a wonderful life by haveing the opertunity to do many great accoplishments by not haveing someone distracting you from the causes that you feel important.This is some of the reasons why Catholic Priests and Nuns don't get married.It is alright to wait and eventualy find a special person to help you out of your shell,in the meantime find a cause that you are passionate abought and embrace it with all the energy and Zest that you can muster.
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eHarmony has a very nice site and asks you a slew of questions in order to find compatable matches, most of whom are also serious about finding someone as well. They do advertise that they have the highest percentage of marriages of all the dating websites. I actually happened to find my wife (coming up on one year in March!) on Yahoo! Personals. No lie! But I had to do more of the matching myself. You do have to ask yourself if I really want to find the right person for me, how much is that worth? People that have paid a bit to be on a site are more likely to be a bit more serious than someone posting somewhere free. Good luck! God's got someone out there for you!
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I'm in the same situation you're in i cant seem to find a good man but hey I'm praying and i stepping out on faith that GOD will bring someone good in my life so my advice to you is to pray and ask GOD for guidance.
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Fortunately, there is a major shortage in Nurses, so I think whatever you decide to do, you will find something. Your age may be a bonus because you are most likely experienced and the older you are, the more dependable they consider you. Good luck to you.