I need a date for the dance I don't know who to ask. You guys are my only hope. Pointers?
140716
Look for the girl with the lowest self esteem and go from there. Money is always an option
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
324472
Don't get tricked into asking him out.  If he likes you he'll ask you out.  You're good enough to be asked out.  "Just because you like to lead, doesn't mean he wants to dance." If he likes you he will make the effort.  If he doesn't like you, you'll just make an ass of yourself.
934453
You would ask a girl out politely. Do not assume that all blacks can dance. We are all from the human race. Perhaps you have more in common than your realize. That is the reason for dating. Just realize that if you have preconceived notions about someone doesn't always go over well. Keep and open mind and be yourself.
1093504
How about just approaching him and mentioning to him an event or activity you would like to go to and ask him if he would take you there?  For instance, ask him to take you out for ice cream, to a fireworks show (just the two of you), to eat, or something else you would both like to do.\n\nFrom there see where things lead.  If you feel you both had a good time then ask him if he would like to take you out again.  He will catch on.
703268
Hmmmm ... I don't recognize the song, but why don't you ask the dancer himself? Here's a link to his myspace page:
424991
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.
966728
Go on the BBC Website where you can watch the dances from Saturday and it gives you all the lowdown and gossip.\n\nwww.bbc.co.uk/strictlycomedancing
699020
Don't be shy.  Just ask, are you free on .... day?  Can I buy you a dinner or ticket for a show?  Easy man!!
664856
Well...make friends with him and somehow make him tell you that he likes you. Like, if there is a dance or a party coming up, ask him:\n"*sigh*Nobody has asked me out to the party (or dance) have you had any luck?" If he likes you, he might ask you if you would like to go with him and then get closer and closer \nOR\nyou could ask one of his friends to ask him if he like likes you...he can try not to make it obvious and then report back to you.
1129854
nope sorry but try looking for a web site that has info on dance routines, you nether know your look
1170388
What´s does this has anything to do with the "singles & Dating" section, anyway???\n(unless you´re planning to go out on that very day, but you didn´t mention it!)
364630
First of all, thank you for using spell check and forming complete sentences with actual words.  So many of the teenagers who ask questions write in such a way that the adults have no idea what it is they want.\n\nHave you ever spoken to this girl before?  If not, start NOW, before it is two days to the dance.  Find out some things about her.  If she thinks you are only asking her because she is beautiful, she'll think you're a jerk.  If you are genuinely interested in who she is and what she is about, you have a much better chance.  \n\nIf you already know a few things about her, use those in conversation.  Don't walk up to her and say "hey, would you go to the farewell dance with me" because you'll put her on the spot.  If she already has a date, she'll have to turn you down right then and there and make you feel bad.  Start a conversation with her.  Maybe tell her you like her outfit and that your sister's birthday is coming up and you'd like to get the same top for your sister, where'd she get it.  Or ask her for some suggestions for Mother's Day gifts.  Or if she has a dog, ask her about her dog.  People with dogs love to talk about them.  Start off with just a casual chat, like with one of your friends.  That will make it easier for both of you. Then once you're talking, you can ask her if she's going to the dance.  This way, if she already has a date, you will know it beforehand and save yourself the discomfort of asking and being told no.  \n\nGood luck.  I hope she says yes and that you have a great time.
636463
Adriana has given you excellent advice.  I agree.  Try talking to her in person.  You might bring her a rose on that meeting and tell her that you would be honored if she would be your date for the prom.  That should wow her.  Then talk to her about the fact that you believed she had a boyfriend.  Good luck!  (maybe you could let us all know if she accepted!)
675045
when you're at the dance and a song comes on and you think there's a feeling between the two of you that makes you want to dance with each other (i hope that's not confusing)just walk up to him, grab his hand and say "lets dance"... be spontaneous, have fun, he'll let you know if he likes it/if it was a good thing to do
402105
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
92978
I say study Carmen Electra's Strip Workout.  Practice.  On the day of the event get relaxed by drinking a bit and get into the part.  Then knock his socks off.  If you have Comcast you might want to look On Demand.  They have exotic dancing on there.  Good Luck! Oh, and you can buy a stripper pole at apolelotoffun.com.  They will come to your house if you want an instructional class for you and your friends.