i am going through a very diff phase, i am to choose betwn my future and my fiance both important 2 me, advice
142567
been there, done that.  your asking for a lot of grief.  just the age situation with the children is a burdon, not to mention the difference between your "going to be" and you.  you yourself said your not mature enough to make a decision...let that alone be a guide for you.  first time marrages are tough enough these days, let alone the second time around ones.  i have had experiance with taking on "the others" kids and it is very difficult to relate to them, win them over, have commonalities with them and just simply get close to them.  and if they are close to you in age i'd think there would be little for them to look up to.  kids are hard to win over when your trying to "replace" their mom or pop.  I'd think hard on this one before I jumped into the fire.  good luck.
283597
have more self respect. Love yourself before you love another. and Don't waist your time on someone who won't make you is top priority.
143320
make a decision... u have to choose one or loosing both...
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
689320
Maybe you should take your mind off boys and relationships for the moment.\n\nHave you given thoughts to your own career? Set your own priorities right.\n\nLet me share what someone told me when I parted with my first love (so many years ago)\n\n"If you love something, let it go.\nIf it comes back, then it is yours to keep.\nIf it did not come back, it was never yours in the first place"\n\nThink about it. Good luck. :)
578537
if iu was you i would, but that is totaly up to you. you are your own person and part of love is making the right choices. if your ready for that then go for it...if not then dont im sure he'll understand
834053
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
608088
baby keep them both..y decide when u can have it all!
595115
take your time day by day dont settle for second best and remember that there is always someone out there who will love you good luck
531257
I say follow your heart.  I am actually in the same exact situation at the moment.  But it is her ex fiance.  I am going to give her the benefit of the doubt and hope I do not get screwed over.  Each situation is different follow your gut feeling and see what happens.  Good luck.
520843
Good luck with that one.  Try talking with a counsellor at the school you are planning on attending.
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
614828
just follow what your heart tells you.  and if i were you, i would choose who would make me happy. it doesnt matter how long you've been together. what matter is being happy. everything will just fall into place. good luck hope you choose the right decision. :)
627622
Go out w both till you know who you like better. its not like they are asking you to marry them or something....
43299
Choose which ever one you like better and could see yourself with in the future. Don’t let looks control everything, other wise you could end up with a total air head. Do whatever you think is the best for you and makes you happy!
625332
just listen your heart. you will be very comfortable with every way.Good luck
895274
Honey, I don't know how old you are, but I am 18 years old and engaged... my fiance is in the marines, and we are away from each other a lot! I know that it is extremely hard and he's all I think about also.  We plan on our wedding being in october of 2007, because I need to finish my first year of college so I can transfer to a college where we will be living until his enlistment is over (which will be in about 3 years.)and he's also going through additional training in the marine corps, so we both have to wait until next fall. I know that it is hard, but if you love him then you need to tell yourself to do good in school and not fall behind, so you can have a good future with him.  It's hard not to day dream, and it's fun to do it sometimes, just don't allow yourself to do it all of the time. Everything will work out and that year will be over before you know it, so just hang in there.