should i tell him the truth?
141868
Y'know a similar thing happened to me when I was still in high school between my best female friend and I.  One of us had feelings for the other but it wasn't reciprocated.  Years later, we're still great friends, and both of us have moved on to find our own special people.  In my experience, if you two are close enough and you don't dwell too much on it, it would be a good thing to tell him how you feel. It's nice not to have to hold anything back from them, and even if the feelings aren't reciprocated, you get a fresh start ^_^  You know your relationship best though, good luck! =D
446490
Just be straight with him.I've been in a similar situation before and my b/f was just happy that I was honest with him.He didn't get mad about the lie at all.Honesty is the best policy,no matter the consequences!
20906
I'd go with your gut instinct on this one - if you honestly feel that he is playing around with you, and he won't commit, then chances are he's either afraid to commit or never took it seriously in the first place. If you feel that you're up to the challenge, direct confrontation may be the best thing. Tell him that you want the honest truth, but be prepared to live with an answer that you may not like.
289814
I would ask him straight out whether it is true or not.  Rumours have a nasty habit of being either completely false or only tell one side of the story.  Asking one of his close friends may be a good option, but bear in mind if it is one of HIS good friends their first loyalty is to him not you and they may not want to tell you the truth if they think it will cause problems for him later.  Also remember that maybe it is true but it may not be a black and white story.  Work out what you are prepared to accept and don't make any decisions on the spot.  Let him know upfront you will have to consider the situation before you give him an answer.\n\nGood luck!
273002
Just be honest with him.  If you can't tell him the truth then you will never be anything to one another, not friends, and not anything more than that either.
424893
This is a very delicate quiestion. So please be vary careful in saying it, meanwhile it is only fare if you tell him about it! He deserves to know it...
255418
tell him exactly what you wrote here! I think it's very clear. \n\nThere is no really nice way to end a reationship but if you tell them the truth, it makes it easier for everyone. Question is, do you really want to end it?
22639
No. Telling him will only make you feel better and\nmake him feel betrayed. Keep your mouth shut and if\nyou love him, never never never do anything like that again. If you don't love him enough to be true\nleave him and let him find someone who does. Life is\nshort. There is no time to waste with people who do\nnot care about you.
962858
You should just tell him.  I know it sounds simple, but it's the easiest and the best way.
521146
Confront him about it. The truth will set you free:)
601759
IF he knows You, he should know your not always right in the head..but if it would make you feel better...it's best to tell him...come to think of it, you should tell him..he has a right to know..if he doesn't already...
370435
It really depends upon what he lied to you about and if he has always been someone that can't be truthful. How long have you known this man?  Everyone tells some type of lie, it is not just a man thing.
271126
Some people, believe that a white lie to avoid hurting the people they love is OK. So how serious was the lie. If he is hiding something he may find its to hard to talk to you about. Maybe worried that you would think less of him, or you would loose respect. You need a heart to heart and tell him the way you feel and you can't afford to lose trust.
1048267
Tell him i think he deserves to know what you have done.May be when every thing is out in the open you guys can work it out. good luck
605855
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
1107418
Ya most of the time the truth does come out,the only thing you can do is day your sorry. Balls in his court then. Me personally depending on what you said. I'd probably dump ya.
420855
Always tell the truth. The truth shall set you free. Honesty is the best. People that lies will get cought sooner or later. They only get by with it for a while.