I dont like my sisters boyfriend, am I jealous?
156386
...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)
496288
I know how you feel. My boyfriends parents don't hate me, but they tend to always bring up the worst about me. Is he very attached to his brother? My experience has told me that when people are attached theyll do anything to keep them around, even say bad things about the ones they love. With me, any arguments, anything wrong ive said gets brought up over and over again by his mother, and him sometimes and everyonce in awhile they convince him of what theyre saying, usually when hes mad or tired. Anyway, you should care what his family thinks, and the best thing to do is try and get to know them all better and talk to your boyfriend about the situation. I;ve found that getting closer with my BF's family has helped and his sister even defends me now. They're just afraid of losing him, ecspecially since youve been together a long time ( for me its been a year and three months)\n\nI wish you the best of luck.
1005350
it takes two to tango...I think your sister is defiantely at fault too. You need to ask your sister why she would make out with him, especially if she knew you like him. Did he know you liked him and wanted to be in a relationship with him?
186190
why not if no stringed attached anymore between the guy and your sister i think its not bad and its okey,but well you must tell it to your sister as a respect.Tell her the truth about what you feel and maybe she will give you some advices.
995577
He probably doesn't hate you.  He also may be a little jealous, that is his brother and chances are before you came along they probably spent more time hanging out and more time confiding in one another.  I doubt he hates you, however lay off of him a little bit.  Not everyone likes to deal with an annoying little girl.  Learn to calm yourself around his brother and learn that you have to respect his brother, chances are he has made it clear why you annoy him, and as far as that, the easiest way to avoid miscommunication or problems with your bf and his family, is to lay off and give his brother his respect and space.  Good Luck!
830016
It appears you are madly in love with your bf, but try sitting down with your sister and listen to the pros and cons of her dissatisfaction. Your sister is family and whatever she says maybe for your own good and not for the benefit of your boyfriend. So don't jump to conclusions as you will end up in none-speaking terms with your sister.
1033975
How do you feel about it? Does it bother you that she is mean to him? If it does the best thing you can do is talk to her about it.  Tell her not to say a word to him.  There is a probability that she is jealous and mad at the fact that he chose you or the fact that you guys are together.  But one thing I can tell you is dont choose a man over family.  It is never worth it.......
551931
spend some time with the boyfriend..even if you can't stand him. by you spending time with him and getting in his good graces, he'll feel less intimidated about you spending time with his girlfriend. be open with thim that you're not looking to cause trouble..he may respect you for that.
474479
Sharing is caring... just kidding.\n\nWell, if you are really in love with him, as in you both been dating him I guess its up to the man to decide.  But if you both are just attracted and really like him let him decide but explain you both can't see him, or be the good sister and back off.  Tell your sister if she loses interest or something like that it is fair game.
656166
no one likes a jealous person
1052061
Pay attention to how attentive he is lately towards you. If he is acting like you are his sister...beware.
763768
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
961934
Hey ya!\nDon't worry , maybe you can ask your sister about it ,maybe she knows it!\nBut I have brother too and a lot of my friends like him more than just my brother , so If I knew that someone from my friends loves him I won't tell him about it,cause it's something like sisters jealousy.\nIf your sister "don't know it ,but she can ask her" so then you must tell her that it's OK and you'll ask her.\nIt's time to move on ,keep on fun kin and be yourself! :)
1019812
honestly. my family is the same way. its not so much that noone dates, its just that to my parents its taboo, and my sister well, shes an idiot. best advice i can give you. she doesnt need to know. believe me. ive been there, and ive done that. she might not get mad... but she might treat you like an idiot or something. there really is no reason she has to know. unless you are dating this boy... she doesnt need to know. even if you were dating him, dont tell her till its serious. but if you feel the need you MUST tell her. just drop it casually, dont make it a big deal, cuz then she will.ask her how her day was... then just say "oh hey, i like this boy", or "oh, guess what? turns out i have a boyfriend now." something casual. if she blows upp, and gets mad, then your gunna have to deal wiht it. because thats what girls do.. they date. and if your sister cant deal wiht that.. then she has some problems. best of luck. hope i helped.
557224
You need to really sit your sister down and have a long talk with her...  Why does she do that to you?  Jealousy?\n\nYou need to tell her that you love her, but that you don't appreciate and are very hurt by what she is doing...  Give her an ultimatum..  If she doesn't stop, you are going to cut her off of your life...  It's mean, but maybe she will learn her lesson, if she loves you, she will stop....
1050422
Wow what a whore! Unfortunately sweetie when your that much of a whore  (Which she clearly is) you don't care what people say or do to you. She's a low life, and a loser. I feel bad for your sister but her man doesn't deserve her. She's way too good for him. My idea is this, just gather all the ladies who's man cheated on them because of the whore and just tell them who's at fault once they find out one person is the cause of there problem then all hell will break loose.
408735
Yes. It is normal and should be a rule never to date any of your sisters ex boyfriends. For that reason. Once you were ever involved with someone..that should always be yours and sisters should never tress pass onto your territory. Even though you are not involved with him any more..it is your memories not to be shared with a sister in that way. If my sister was to get with any of my ex's..that would be to uncomfortable,with good reason.