what about dating out side of your race?
154190
It's just like dating inside of your race.  The only difference is there are some short-sighted, uptight people that have a rediculous notion that race matters in who you spend time with.  That might become annoying.  But those people are not worth your time.  If you find someone that you enjoy hanging out with and are attracted to, then date!  Have fun!\n\nAnd as a bonus, if people of two different races go on to make babies, they have the most beautiful children!
585028
Maybe it's a culture thing her parents may not approve of her dating outside of her race. Find out first before you take it personally. Good luck.
654574
it depend on the person, ive seen some hot black guys, ive seen some ugly black guys. ive seen some hot white guys, ive seen some ugly white guys- you just cant group the entire race together in one general subject. you may just have a preference which nothing is worng with that, i prefer dating black guys over white guys cuz thats my preference but i do date white guys, if they are cute, i date them- thats my theory lol
1097878
A personal observation: I have notes more so lately than ever that there a quite a few Black women out there with men not of the black race. Interracial dating is happing at both the high class and lower class levels, of black women. So I think that as black women we are “expanding our horizons” but unlike some others we are not forgetting our “past view.”
920098
There is nothing wrong with you.  We can not help who we are attracted to - that just happens on it's own.  If you found yourself attracted to a man of another race I am sure you would (as you already have) given it a try to see where a relationship might lead.  You haven't had luck so far and maybe you never will - or maybe you will in the end.  There is no way of knowing - just be open to love and it will find you.\n\nxoxo!\nPeace!
739417
Most people feel more comfortable with people they can relate to. and skin color is the most easily recognisable bond anyone can have. \nThings like similar interests and upbringing are often determined by racial backgrounds. Although it does not have to be the rule. I'm white and I would have had no problem with marrying a man of a different race. I try to look for qualities that I admire. I just happened to find them in a white guy, which was a fairly good probablility, considering I live in an area where there isn't a huge mix of races.
419360
compromise with your dad, meet someone that is mixed (half white and half black)
780371
I think interracial dating is terrific. The sooner the races are all mixed together, the better. That will give everyone one thing less to find fault with in others.\n\nI think the reason people object is their ignorance and fear of others who SEEM different from them. \n\nBTW, did you know that humans are ALL 99% the same genetically?
612594
OK, I'm not addressed (white guy here) but I'd date/marry any color woman if we clicked. It'll be interesting to see what sincere black males contribute here.
947020
"...I just don't think it's proper for a person to date out of his/her race."\n\nbtw, I never said this..."but" cancels out whatever was said before it.  If I were racist, I'd come out and say it.  The above statment was said by many of my family members when my brother (who is white) announced he was dating a Korean girl.  It was also said about me when I was dating a half-Chinese guy.
857620
I think its fine. But to be honest I would much rather prefer to date/marry in my race not because of skin color or nothing like that but because If I date someone of a differenace race  I know it will always be a issue and if we ever got in a fight He might call me some racist terms  and ya know how it goes... and someone in my race can't do that
140906
if you see him for his ethnicity, there is a very low probability a relationship would work. try seeing him as a person not a race.
53438
It is perfectly fine. My father is engaged to an Asian. And me, I like girls of differnt "races", sexy can come in any color (your own "race" and others).\n\nI know where I live almost all the teens/college students date people outside there "race". Where you live that might be unaceptable, but it's perfectly accepctaply for someone to date outside there "race."\n\nBesides "race" is thing man has devisied, as far as I'm concerned there is the Human race.
888850
I don't think you need to see it as a problem. I think you are open minded like I am. Society always tells you to limit yourself to your own race, but you refuse to folow your own preference.\nWell I am a black guy, foregin black guy, and my parents are actually open when it comes race. For them we all bleed red.\nBut again the society I lived in doesn't even accept dating/marriage within diferent ethnic groups. Being from Africa, there are around 84 ethnic groups in my country alone. \nAnd society doesn't accpet it with open hand the marriage of ethic group A to ethnic group B, and mind you we all look alike, dark brown, light brown or black. yet just because you speak additional languages you are considered unfit to date other ethnic groups...Let alone a white or a major different racial group.\nBut guess what I am interested in white girls. well I had my conflict within me as to I had to remain within my country girls.\nWell I came here and all I see are the wonderful white americans, why settle for something else I really am not interested deep inside. I mean it is not about race or anything, I just find myslef attracted to certain types of white girls.\nAnd let me tell you this I have never followed the norm of society.\nSo girl go for your choice, don't feel like you have to date what society expect you to date. After all it is your own love life....right?
665877
Date a man who isn't from Wisconsin?
1053324
Honey, it is just what you like. :) And prolly you grew up in an area where there are no Filipinas.  \n\nI grew up on South Central Los Angeles, CA.  All there was really there were African Americans and small population of Latinos prom. Mexican at the time.  I am HIspanic, and I only date White men.  I'm not a racist either, it's just I got so used to African Americans and Latinos that I am just not attracted to them because of the familiaraty.  weird huh>\n\nYou're not weird, just what you're into sweetie. :) \n\nAnd you're freaking 25, go pimp yourself out and get some dates ;) goodluck.
515585
Australian, um Australia - I would date anyone if I liked their personality etc.  I think there has to be some mutual respect for each other, and respect for difference of opinion.  If we can love, accept and respect each other, and get along most of the time, then I would date anyone from any race, there's none that I would exclude totally, as everyone even within small regions is different!  I take people totally on a one to one basis rather than making a decision based on external traits - therefore, I would date black, white, asian, pink with purple polka dots, fat, thin, ugly, attractive... the list goes on!