My boyfriend does not call me as often as he use to, we don't see eachother as much either is it over?
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
1057145
im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
347519
Tell your boyfriend that it feels like things have changed and you would like to see whats its like without a boyfriend you could also add things don't seem like they did  and it would be better if you just remained friends if that can happen!
891210
Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
627710
Well girl sounds like "to little to late" thing to me .Now that you let go of those love feeling , he wants to change!Tell him bye bye,sounds like hes just saying whatever he thinks you might want to hear to keep the relationship.Buy him a 10.00 dollar phone card and tell him to "call someone who gives a shit" Good Luck
1104709
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
941925
If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
1037520
YES....make him wait!!! When he misses you he will call. WE tend to call more often and not give thema chance. Let him take the initiative every now and then. I'm not saying don't call at all, just don't call as much!
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.
594541
You may be drifting apart or his work is tiring him out and he de stresses at the Gym. You could go to the Gym with him? If he is not interested in this idea then ask him what else you two can do together, if he has no suggestions then you suggest something,  he may be phoning nightly as he could think you are no longer interested, you could also try the direct approach and ask him what his feelings are. if he still says he loves you then tell him that you feel neglected and what to spend more time with him
742362
maybe he had a change of heart? or he is seriously wondering if your the right one for him. don't contact him. he has your number if he never calls again then your better off. do you want someone to be with you if they don't want to? if, he calls then continue your relationship. in the meantime don't sit around waiting on this man. get out and mingle with friends who knows maybe he is not the one. sorry but i don't want to lie and make you think he will call.
713051
I can relate to your situation. I too had a relationship to where we were so "in love" in the first part of our 8 month relationship. It usually is happy during the first couple of months because of the excitement and the part of getting to know each other. Then for some it continues over because of good communication/trust and relating to each other. For some it ends up the opposite way. Insecurities play a major role in this. That's the reason for the fights. Ask yourself are you fighting over things that are small that somehow leads to big fights? Or does the fight continue like a broken record. There are issues revolving around the person that brings them up. Also ask yourself this. Do you miss his old self or do you miss the fights? If he doesn't make an attempt to return any of your calls, give him some time to heal or maybe it's time to move on. The problem could be him not being mature enough to handle a break up. I hope this help. Take care of yourself. you'll eventually meet someone who can be both your friend and your boyfriend.