How do YOU make up after a fight with your sweetie?
140451
After a fight it is so hard to start talking again. { the stupid who gives in first ). The most important part is admitting guilt! Whichever party it is - be honest and open but talk..talk...talk.  Solving problems together creates the strongest unity.
729778
Chick fight!.........just kidding........well your girl has to be commented for wanting to stick up for you, it shows how much she cares for you.......to get her lights knocked out.....as for the other girl maybe if you ignore she will go away........tell the bus driver to move you..........& your girl.......not to be a sticht but to save your girl...
606254
The key to any relationship is communication.  If you can't talk about how you feel then things are not going to get any better.  Be strong, find a moment during your conversation to just say I love you and I am tired of fighting lets figure out a way to get back on track.  Or something like that, you need to talk about it or it will just get worse.
764049
1st you have to evaluate why you argued.  Maybe it was his fault, maybe he should make it up to you.  Don't automatically think you always have to make it up to him.\n\nOf course if it is upon you than it really just depends on what happened.  It could just be you need to give him some time.  If he loves you he'll let you know when he's ready.  Don't push it
815050
If anyone ever tells you that they do not fight in a relationship...do not believe them.  As long as your communication is there and you work through the arguements - you will be fine.  Just do your best to not bring up the past, no name calling, no physical abuse, no destroying property.  It's OK to argue just do it constructively.  You both need to listen to what the other is saying.  You will be fine.  Good Luck!
680573
Apologize and don't do something that would require an apology again.\n\nIf she's not mad at you - Take her out on a picnic with her favorite foods and some good music.
1085250
Just kick and then say you're sorry you mistook him for your BF!\nAnd if its a girl then say you're sorry you mistook her for your BF's GF!
411907
sit down together and make a list of the things that you do not want to go wrong this time and give it to each other.  Have the communication lines open. You might consider counseling this time around.  Having a third party to hear both sides without taking sides is a start.  You might just go 1 x a month, then go out to dinner after or grab an ice cream to make sure that after things are said in counseling, you are still ok and still in love.  Be sure to say I love you every night before bed no matter what the day was like and tell her you are so glad that you are back together.  Good Luck!
266535
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You need to, sooner or later, bring up the problem to this other person, but if there's the risk for physical damage bring someone capable of dealing it out... who's on your side. A bodyguard of sorts, ne?\n\nIf physical damage isn't apparent, the best thing to do is face the music. I'm sorry I couldn't answer the way you probably would've like me to answer, but I've been in a slightly similar situation. Sure, the other party/person/whatever will probably be angry, but there's nothing you can do about that.\n\nI'll sum up:\n*Doesn't take out anger on you: Talk to them. Explain your problem as objectively as you can, with clear benevolent (good) intent.\n*Takes out anger on you: Bring a bodyguard.
320669
Ouch! Don't make it sound like a big deal if you bring it up with her.  Just say something like, "Hey, haha, at the airport, when you hugged me goodbye, sorry about that stomach-poking..."  And laugh while you're saying it, but make it sound like you don't find it completely funny like an immature idiot, but a bit embarrassed in a cute way.  Try to blush bit, if you can, and sound as sincere as you can while laughing.
1120218
OH MY GOD !!\nDeja Vu, You remind me of me and my ex girlfriend. \nWe were together for 3 plus years. We used to fight so regularly that in the beginning our friends used to be shocked by the anger and in the intensity. But we used to end up kissing and making up. But as we moved on, our fights became a forthnightly event, and our friends just ignored it like it was a 'normal thing'\nBut I used to do all the things, you mentioned in your Q. Go in front of her house, we used to give each other missed calls and sometimes prank calls, we used to have our friends call eachother and find out how the other person was doing, and so on a so forth.\nBut fights in a relationship are NEVER healthy and mind you, it will get old and you will sometimes cross that line of sensitivity, therefore inadvertantly hurting the other persons more than you thought you would.\nHe (like my gf) might be of the false impression that fights are 'normal and important' to keep the love in a relationship.\nTry and convince him that this is not normal, NEVER.\nYou should set some ground rules and learn not to overstep eachother.\nI understood we fought as often as we did, because we lacked trust and respect for the other.\nTake one day at a time. You will never go wrong.
796508
Never argue with a woman... you're only going to lose in the long run. And if you do win; then you'd best have a good apology for winning to give to her by sundown!
33538
To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
452369
After A Fight, Makeup sex is the best ever
348481
You need to tell them that you are sorry that you said that and you never really meaant that and you were just mad. You both just need to accept each other and make-up. Hope this helps. Follow your heart Love is Friendship on Fire.
1004232
she aint ever going to understand... my man and i are the same and he gets grumpy over the silliest things (including geting grumy at me for being upset with him about something he did), but i know he loves me because we never ever ever go to bed on a fight... he always calms down a bit (and so do i) then we talk it out... till we understand why the other person got upset in the first place... even if it is until 5 in the morning when i have to be up a 6 for work (aka last night)... \n\nif your getting upset about something dont get mad at her... tell her that blah blah is upsetting you and you want to talk to her about it before you end up in a fight... thats what were working on being able to do..\n\nand goodluck
894920
I have the same problem.  People always say "think b4 u talk", but that's fricking hard!  There are only a few seconds to which there is time alloted for you to think of an answer.  Then the person leaves you in the dust.  It's like a reflex...you defend yourself before anyone else has a chance to inflict another blow.  Next time, just relax yourself b4 a conversation and remind yourself not to lash out, no matter what.  Of course, you will forget to remind yourself after a while, but the next lash-out will bring you crashing back down to earth.  But for now...just apologize to the girl and explain that you didnt know what you were saying.  She should understand.  It is hard to deal with this stuff, but you will get over it.  Dont dwell on anything.