What to do when your best friend has to hide to talk to you.?
147726
Just keep being there for her.  He is obviously controlling and sounds like he may be abusive.  She should seek some type of counselling to find out why she would stay with someone who controls everything she does.  In the meantime, she needs friends like you who are understanding and are there for her.  Keep seeing her and trying to get her to seek help.  You're a good friend.
865489
Tell one of your best friend to talk to him about you and tell your best friend to ask him question about who he feels about you and if he says nothing but good things about you have ur friend tell him how you feel about him but, if he ain't feelin' u or just ain't lookin' for a g-friend right now tell ur friend not to tell him anything about the way u feel.
647813
my best tip is: never tell your best friend all your secrets because if u fall out, they could become your worst enemy. plus, dont eat the yellow snow!
680786
If you told your friend you don't want to be close any more then don't worry about what they do. Don't let them get under your skin
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
245472
Are you one? A liar. All friends have problems but friendship is based on trust and forgiveness if she doesnt trust you and is into name calling/ talking behind your back then who needs a friend like that. Tell her she not being a good friend and discuss whatever it is that made her call you that. If that doesnt work, ignore her and find a new best friend.
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
166161
Be patiently available to him, and let him know that you would not be critical if he was willing to talk to you.  But don't pressure him.  Has it occurred to you that the problem may be ABOUT you?  That's one reason why he might not want to confide in you.  Also, remember that a secret once told cannot be un-told.  He may have considered discussing it with you, and concluded that he'd rather not risk your friendship, or take whatever other risks there might be in confiding.  Respect his right to work out his own problems by himself if that's what he wants to do.
591488
When she is ready to talk to you she will find you. Let her have her space or you will push her farther away. She has a right to her privacy and you need to let go.  Keep her SS # private or else you will make her madder.\n\nI am sorry it worked out that way.
68815
Depends on the reason. In most cases time not talking is the best way to go at it. You may see your friend on the streets and if you do give that person nod to let them know that you have no real hard feelings. But DO NOT tell her how you feel about it until you are sure it will not make thing worse or when your friend is willing to listen to you. Time is the best thing and it may take a bit of time but things normally work out between best friends
907726
You have to tell her. Its just what friends have to do. I know it's hard to tell her. But she'll think ur not a good friend. And probably will never trust you again. I know it's going to be hard but worth.
1154444
talk to both of them, not at the same time.  first try to work things out with the friend thats like a brother.  fix things there before its too late.  then go bacl to your so- called Best friend and talk to her. ask her why she betrayed you. try to work on it. you can still be friends. i just wouldnt trust her as much as you used to
547452
tell them that the people on your buddy list will only be your friends and you will only talk to them. Say that you will not talk  to any strangers and tell them that they can check on the things that you say. And tell them if they ever caught you at all misusing it that they could take it away.
909611
just hang around maybe he doesnt wanna talk about it with you coz he might be scared that if he opens up to u, u will refuse to talk to him and leave him what i mean is he feels that if he opens up to you b4he's ready,u might decide to endyour friendship with him\ndont push him to tell u anything maybe to him its not a problem just keep telling him that u aint going nowhere and that u will stand by him no matter what that way he will know that u really want to help him ok.DONT LEAVE HIM ALONE BE THERE FOR HIM
1001338
Begin distancing yourself from her...She's obviously not your best friend if all of this is going on.
499050
I think you need to tell her. I think you should also make it very clear to her husband that he is in the wrong and you will not tolerate it. Your best friend maybe angry at you for a while, but it won't be toward you. It is the situation that she will be angry at at, but take it out on you. Hang in there with her....give her space....but never go to far and be there when she returns. She will need you then, especially if she told him where to get off!!!
98345
Depends on whether that person knew and did it anyway.  And what you did to stop that.\n\nIf the person did it knowingly, then I would speak to them.  Maybe they were trying to edge you on to do interact with the person.  If you didn't do anything except sulk then you should do a paradigm shift and think what you could have done.  For instance, you could have cut in.  Unless the person is a jerk, they would oblige.\n\nBut definitely talk (not argue or berate, at least at first) with your best friend.