Okay, you are not yet married, but have you had sex as on date?
152768
What you believe trumps what others believe.  It's your body.  Respect yourself and do what's right for you.
194887
yes. maybe your asexual.
355254
no...actually its not always abt sex...there are other things too...cheers
34830
I don't think so - if the date went well and they seem like a great person than go for it! As far as sex - I say no but kissing is harmless. Go for it if they seem like a keeper!
63700
Many years ago, I dated this one girl.  On the first date, she backed away from my advances. She said she wanted it to be special.\n\nI said OK - that's cool.\n\nI took her out on a second date, and I brought her flowers.  I took her out to a fancy restaurant, then we went out dancing.\n\nOnce again, she pushed me away.  This time, she got a little angry with me.  She said "When I want to have sex, I'll let you know."\n\nI said OK.\n\nThe next four months, we went out a lot.  I bought her jewelry, and I took her to shows.  I treated her  like she was a princess.\n\nShe started asking a lot of questions one night.  Honestly, I felt like I was being interrogated, but I must have answered all the questions correctly, because she said "Make love to me."\n\nAnd so I did.\n\nThen I dumped her @ss.
33475
Are you old enough to have sex?, No I don't think so
1120550
You can date if you are not in the same chain of command.
607587
sex with someone who is not ur husband/wife. i.e. the partners r not married to each other
1139489
I would not judge someones character based on fulfilling sexual needs on a 2nd or third date, but I would think tha having sex that soon, you might be thought of as a bit on the loose side.  I think I may be old fashionned, but I would think that maybe some kissing, or heavy petting (yah, how corny is that?!) could happen on the 2nd or 3rd date, but I'm not thinking sex at that point.  Well, I might be thinking it, but I don't think I would want to do it.\n\nBut it could also be that you spent alot of time using other mediums ... e-mail, IM, text messaging, telephone, etc, and that can shorten the timeframe quite a bit ... hopefully there is a good amount of honesty in those conversations.  I think that if there is alot of that, exceptions could be made where kissing could occur on the first date, as long as it's OK with both people.
538975
Did you have sex?\n\nThen you are NOT a virgin anymore.\n\nNext stupid question, please.
677091
I kiss on the first date.\nBut I don't go farther than that.\nUnless I just want a hook-up.
320128
Probably would not call that a date. A date ends in a kiss goodnight and a promise to call. If it ends in the sack on the first encounter I think you are needing to apply the term hook-up.
1086433
11 to date Not necessarily you have to have sex to date. When I had my first boyfriend I was not 11 of course it was a serious relationship. Of course, I didn't have sex or anything else it was just like holding hands, kiss in the check that was all. NO more than that probably it was more like a friend to me. But still at that age you really consider them your boyfriend.
780913
uhmm i was in a position where i was in a awkward spot. i didn't have sex with more than one guy at a time..but they would have been game had i said yes. we were up watching a movie..and one of them kissed me and stuff..and then of course the other thought it was time for him to join in. \nwe didn't go all out and have sex, but i guess you could say there was some intimate contact..
28664
No way. A date is between people who are hooking-up with the intentions of taking it to another level. Not saying sex--but the motive behind it is the fact that you both have some sort of feelings for one another & intend to explore them. A date is more official than going out.\n\n'Going out' is the opposite. In my opinion going out is just like chilling with a few friends. Your motive then is to enjoy yourself instead of trying to hook-up.
139848
Nothing wrong with dating. How else do you find out what your options are? As stated, you are not a s1ut unless you are having sex with everyone you date. I do not reccomend this practice. Too many STD's out there. If you are having sex, please use a condom.
1071860
sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married