I have a problem talking to people especially girls i will like to know what i can do about it?
142353
You are probably trying too hard to impress.  Be yourself and your true personality will show.  Ultimately, you want to be with people that accept you for who you are, otherwise you will need to "put on an act" everytime you are around them.\n\nOne way to take the edge off your personality, is to join a group like toastmasters or take a night class that deals with public speaking or even "acting", improv, or similar.  You'll be amazed to find that when you are around others who are relaxed, it rubs off.  \n\nIn the end...relax, be yourself and don't be so hard on yourself.  Everyone is human.
743473
Communication is the foundation of any relationship.  You have to break free from your shyness and start talking to these girls that you are interested in.  Do your best to have idle chit chat and you should be able to overcome it pretty easily.  Good Luck!
664573
take some grammar classes then try to talk with someone, they might understand you a lil better
691752
Practice makes perfect. Try little subjects to start conversations with co-workers or the like and build up from there. Be kind, patient, and apologetic. Most girls, with a heart anyway, will understand you are shy and help you along. Don't be afraid of rejection either, you will go through a lot if it before you find a nice person who you can call a friend.
702461
trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen
403000
Do something and increase your self confidence.When talking don't too fast take your time and let the words come out.Those who laugh at you aren't worthy of being called friends.I know I had this problem too,still have it but not so evident.Hope this helps.
147607
Anything that isn't normal.\n\nDon't talk about work, past relationships, school, whatever.\n\nIf you're into some interesting hobbies (not like collecting cards or playing Dungeons and Dragons) things that are actually interesting to a girl, then talk about them, but don't do it bragging.\n\nJust try and be as natural as you can...be yourself and don't really worry about what you're talking about.
982354
just start talking and then you will become more relaxed.  i am shy too and once you start talking it will come to you and you will be fine.  it does not matter what you say to start it just start talking.
416955
well... girl talk to them  don't shy,i experience that so you know what i did i talk to them,now what is worst i just be honest to my own...go......
1060293
i bet people don't hate you..maybe you are not putting yourself out there enough...i know a lot of nice girls who are shy, so they would never talk to people, but once they started to open up they were awesome and we all hung out...way to be nice..that's the best thing ever, because girls these days, well, they are something...and keep up the hard work at school...try to be more social maybe? good luck
646203
If they make fun of you then they aren't your friends.  You seem to have fun with the girls and later in life, the other boys will envy your ability to get along well with girls...when they are having trouble talking to girls, you will have plenty of girls at your side.  Think of the future..and oh what a future!!!
937842
Hi maybe join group who do things that you are interested in, that way you will meet and become more outgoing as time passes.\n\nI'm sure there are social groups nearby who hold meetings regularly same thing as you get to know ppl then anxieties will slowly fade.\n\nYou are not alone believe me, many others feels same, it's hard to go up and talk but with alittle practice it will become 2nd nature.\nPpl love talking about themselves so that is a good ice breaker to ask what they like to do in general.\nThen it is easier each time plus you meet plenty of different ppl ,but remember you have to give info also, as is not one way street..best of luck cheers..
763624
Maybe the way you talk or express is not attractive or did you use your words carefully? Perhaps the topics is not what others like. Try to talk sensible with care, and do not offense others. See what interests others before talking. And never interrupt. Hope it helps.
148068
TRY NOT TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE TALKING. GIVE OTHER PEOPLE A CHANCE TO SAY SOMETHING. LISTEN TO WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING, CAREFULLY THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU R GOING TO SAY BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING THAT COULD REALLY HURT SOMEONE'S FEELINGS, OR CAUSE AN HONEST MISUNDERSTANDING. BUT THE KEY TO GOOD COMMUNICATION IS GOOD UNDERSTANDING. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS NEW PIECE OF ADVICE.
787050
you never COMPLETELY get rid of it but you OVERCOME it by FORCING yourself out of your thoughts and VERBALIZING with females.\n\nStart NOW, practice a LOT and gradually proceed with prettier and more "popular" girls.\n\nGoogle "conversational skills" and find a guide that makes sense to you. This is a SKILL that can be learned-so get to it.
349991
its a gift! but u can improve urs!\n\nsimple method!\n\nface the mirror and try to look at ur eyes! then try to talk as long as possible without breaking the eye contact!\n\ntis surely helped me!
238033
There is probably nothing wrong with you. How old are you anyway??? Maybe you need to be a little more open, but just being yourself and trying to be nice and friendly to people, might help...