my face is extremely ugly, so is that why my boyfriend always stares at other females faces?
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One thing you've got to understand about men.. We will always look.  Touch? that's another story that depends on the man.   But look we will.\n\nI cant' speak for your man, because I don't know him.  But I know in my own personal experiance, that I love my wife to death.  But I still look around.  It's not a form of dis-resepect in my (or her) eyes.  It's a natural thing. \nand it's just LOOKING.  Like walking though the mall and looking in the clothing stores for shoes.  Doesn't mean you're going to buy.. your just looking.\n\nTo me, it sounds like you're upset about him looking because you are hung up on your own looks.  Respect yourself.  You're choices make up who you are.  Not your looks.  He thinks your hot,  He respects you enough to, at least, try to hide the fact that he's looking.
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Most guys do it, and some women do too (I admit to looking at hot guys).  It's normal.\n\nI'm going to see this from both point of views:\nYou don't like it when he checks out other girls.  He knows you're uncomfortable with him when he does it.  Yet, he continues to do it and hurts your feelings.  He shouldn't be hurting your feelings.  \nHe feels he's been attacked for looking at other girls when it's normal for him.  He's suddenly on the defensive and gets hurt by you because you don't trust him.  \nSo there's two hurt to every side.  Does he love you? Do you really trust him that he's only looking and not touching?  If you can't find a resolution and keep fighting about the same subject over and over and over again, then I would suggest breaking up.  Because if you can't find a resolution to your fight, then you'll never be able to settle other fights peacefully.
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Its a fact that men are visual creatures.  We look, even when we sometimes shouldn't.  It doesnt mean that shes hotter than you or that we'd rather be with the other girl.  it just a natural thing to look if you think someone or somthing appeals to you.  As long as you boy/man aint acting on these things, approaching other girls or just or stalking them aroung the local mall there nothing wrong with it.  It unrealistic to believe that just because you've entered into a relationship that you've gone blind. and be honest when you out with him, and see a guy you think is attractive don't you look?
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she probably thinks your cute \nI'm guilty of staring and thinking guys are cute and have a boyfriend I love at the same time.\nthis girl might be thinking of dumping her boyfriend, i dnt know. but if you're interested in her, i would still talk to her anyways so you can see.
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He's only making your low self esteem go lower. In my opinion, if he's called you ugly then that's reason enough to give him the boot. Who needs that? Verbal abuse will only get worse as the relationship gets older. To paraphrase Eleanor Roosevelt.."No one can make you feel inferior without your permission."
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There are over 3 billion male humans in this world. He is only one. Move on. If he thinks you are ugly, so be it. there are other guys out there.
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Your problems go deeper than just him wanting to look at other women.  This is not usually a serious problem as most men appreciate looking at women, even if they have no intention of doing anything with them.\n\nYour basic problem is your own insecurity.  If you had spent more time communication with you boyfriend instead of nagging at him, things might have taken a different path.  Communication is the key to a good relationship.\n\nIf you are ever going to be in a relationship, then you need to get help.  You obviously cannot deal with this problem on your own.  It will just keep getting worse until he gets fed up and then starts doing more than looking.\n\nYou say that you love him, but love is based upon trust.  You seem to be unbalanced by his "looking" because you do not trust him.  By nagging at him you are forcing him away.\n\nGet professional counseling.  Work on your self esteem.  When you know that you can form a long term relationship and trust the other partner then you will stop this destructive behavior.
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i don't know, but you're not wrong to be jealous, just don't go psycho on him! guys will always look at what catches their attention, just like women. i know i check guys out all the time but that doesn't mean i don't find my man attractive! it's natural to look, just don't stare. don't make it obvious that you're looking. same with him, if he's staring and drooling all over the place call him on it, if not let him look.
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no offense but do you think that you may be asking for the fights ??? people look at other people some times its because theres some thing they like about that person or they are reminded of some one else that was a good thing in there life , what ever the  reason if you bust his chops over it then he is going to get fed up with it , weather he and you split up over it depends on how hard you push this subject , its only human nature , and if this girl is real nice to him even if its just on a friendly side then you may even push him to her because you could breakup and he will look to her just to piss you off , I'm am sure you look at other men even if its an actor , sport personality , or some one your friends ask if you think he is hot , every one looks!!!! its if he isn't looking and touching that you have to worry about so dont give him a reason to feel that you being a bytch about it all and looking for a fight , i have been with the g/f for 5 years and i still look and have looked right along but i don't want to cheat on her i just look , and as far as how she looks beauty is in the eye of the beholder , maybe he likes fat chicks and he went with you because he saw something in you that made him like you , you may be the hottest chick to some one and a real dog to some one else , if she got 3 kids some one liked her enough to give her 3 kids !!!!!
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Don't take it personally.  It is NOT against you or have anything to to with YOU.  It is just a natural reaction.\n\n Don't you look at other women too?  I mean, aren't you interested in what they are wearing, how their hair style is, etc.?\n\nIt is natural to look at beauty and (like it or not) women are beautiful.  So don't be so hard on him, if he is a open type of guy ask him what he finds attractive about the person.  Maybe you'll learn more about him.  I am sure he loves you and is thinking he is happy to be with you.
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hm...well,i don't.but maybe guys these days like to show off their girls so that he will look cool among his friends, sorta like a trophy or something.in this case,beauty does not lie in the eye of the beholder,but in the eye of the beauty magazines!my second ex is the Barbie type,when we're on a date, it's like, she's spending time with her mirror than with me most of the time.and i don't enjoy myself coz the way guys look at her makes me feel uncomfortable.it only lasted for 2 weeks...2 weeks of hypocracy.i'd rather look for someone genuine and normal.
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Don't be mad at this following comment: but, you should find away to feel more secure about who you are. The less you care about this issue the happier you will be. Try to accept his behavior, and if you can dump him. However, check yourself fist: every one notices attractive people. Some people are just more socially tactful then other. Your boyfriend sounds like he is really bad at tact. But, can you really say that you never find other men attractive? How about movie stars, musicians or models? The problem doesn't begin with looking, it begins when people act on their desires.
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why are you so obsessed with his looks?\n\nsounds kinda selfish\n\ngo 'head, give me a poor rating i really don't care. I just pray you grow up one day and see that there is more to a person than their appearance. Especially someone you would call your "boyfriend"
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yeah....its indeed a true question asked by you, even i have seen many people staring at me, even while walking on the road, and thats a very ugly and an embarassing thing.\nGuess, maybe we look like Ms Universes....so they stare at us. See, we are so beautiful and total damsels, this is proved by their reactions....and yup it maybe an illusion of love in case if the person sees you again and again with a sweet smile on his/her face.
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Before you can address the issue with your boyfriend, you need to address your issues with your body image.  Instead of picking yourself apart, build yourself up.  If you feel you're "chubby", try losing weight if that will make you feel better about your body image.  If you feel you're "plain looking", try a little makeup or a new hair color to see what works for you.  \n\nIt's a cliche, but true beauty really does come from within.  If you don't love yourself, how can anyone love you?  Guys get bored with girls who trash themselves.  It's like saying to them everyday, "Why are you with an ugly girl with me when you could be with someone prettier?".  Basically, you're second-guessing his high opinion of you.  It's may be a matter of time before he starts to agree with your poor body image and moves elsewhere.  \n\nJust because you value meaningful things like art over binge drinking and freak dancing doesn't make you less of a person, or unattractive.  Intellectual pursuits are much sexier to the right kind of guy.\n\nAs for the jealousy thing, you either trust your boyfriend or you don't.  If you think he's actually going to make a move on these other girls, maybe you should reconsider dating him.  If he is geuinely uninterested in these other girls and your insecurities are driving this persistant jealousy, try and find your own sex appeal and work on building yourself up!\n\nDon't waste another minute hating yourself.  Life is too short, and one day you'll realize you had nothing to hate about yourself to begin with.
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You are probably very hot looking.\nThis is his way of inflating his ego by saying she is MINE.\nBoth men and women do this . I had a woman who always went crazy in public with me ,especially if another woman was paying attention to me.Just be happy he is proud to be with you.If he steps over the line and demands you not talk to your friends or any males at all RUN RUN RUN.\nThis is someone with insecurity issues and they can make your life HELL.
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To yourself, you may seem good looking and a nice guy. Maybe you are. But I know from personal experience and guy friends who talk to me that often, when a guy KNOWS or THINKS he's good looking and nice, he comes across arrogant. There is nothing a girl hates more than a boyfriend with a big head. Girls also look for attitude, brains, and humor---not just looks and kindess. Also, maybe you're not obvious enough! Don't go sleazy though. A girl will be repulsed. Also, quit the chatspeak, especially if the girl you're interested in talks to you online. It makes people seem unintelligent. \n\nI hope this isn't too harsh! Just trying to give you some advice...\n\nCheers and good luck\nKate