What shud i say on a first date?
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Anything that isn't normal.\n\nDon't talk about work, past relationships, school, whatever.\n\nIf you're into some interesting hobbies (not like collecting cards or playing Dungeons and Dragons) things that are actually interesting to a girl, then talk about them, but don't do it bragging.\n\nJust try and be as natural as you can...be yourself and don't really worry about what you're talking about.
456759
He asked you on a date, obviously he digs you already. Give it some time and see how it develops. \n\nA southern accent, if you can do one, couldn't hurt ;-)
1021189
A guy should be gentle, nice, and keep his hands to himself.\n\nHe should be respectful to the girl(this is a 24/7 deal but especially on the first date.)
601471
Just be yourself! Laugh , have fun. And if you want to do something extra special, find out what she likes and maybe get her flowers or take her somewhere she would love. Does she love animals? How bout the zoo? Does she like Outdoors? maybe go fishing, hiking, something. Dress comfortably for the date and say appropriate things. And be humorous. Dont try too hard to impress her, or embarrass yourself, cuz I'm sure you are going to be nervous. Just remember, she wants to know the real you!
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Okay, do-says and don't-says...\n\nDo-says:\n\n"Hi, I'm _______, a friend of ________."\n\n"I'd like to get to know you, if that's all right with you."\n\n"If you don't want to, I understand, but from what _______ told me, you sound like a pretty cool girl." (or something like that)\n\n"So, you got a name?" (if she hasn't told you)\n\n"So, is there a time that would be good to get together?"\n\n"Well, I look forward to getting to know you! Do you like _____? How about meeting me there?"\n\n"Yeah, and don't worry, if we hate each other, you can just boot me out the door okay?" (say it in a joking way, of course)\n\nDon't says:\n\nDon't say anything about any past relationships that you've had. That's private stuff that will come later, if the relationship between you guys works out, and it will probably make her feel uncomfortable if that's one of the first things that you start talking about.\n\nDon't start immediately blabbing on about you and your life. Leave some room for her too! If you're talking about your favorite sport, keep it short (don't go into the entire game record of your favorite team), and then ask her if she has a favorite sport. Keep her talking, and that will give her the impression that you really do want to get to know her.\n\nDon't lean too heavily on the fact that your friend referred you. In fact, keep from talking about that as much as possible, or it'll sound like you're just doing this because your friend said so, and that would be VERY offensive to her.\n\nBut other than that, be yourself, and have fun! Let her get to know you for who you really are, be friendly and open, and be mindful of everything she says, even if the conversation doesn't last very long. Make it a conversation to remember, but don't try to hard to make it that way, or it will turn out disasterously. Once you get it going, I think you'll be surprised at how natural the words will start coming to you. Especially if she is a nice girl! So just think it over, maybe jot down a few ideas for what to say on a piece of paper, and call her up. Good luck!
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Will you go out with me? Would you like to go out? Would you like to catch a movie? Do you want to go out? Do you want to go steady? We should go out to eat sometime. Would you like to go out to eat? I enjoy spending time with you, wanna catch a movie? I like you, would you be my boyfriend? Do you wanna date? Lets Date!?! \n\nI wasn't sure if you meant out on a date or out "dating" (b/f and g/f...etc) Hope this helped and good luck! Knock him dead!
1105980
Always have something to say when you are around them. It doesnt have to be the most refined statements that you have to make, but anything simple will start a conversation. If not sure, ask every day questions and you will get an answer. That may lead you to asking another question and you get another answer. Probably then you too will be asked and you answer back. By and by, you will realise that you are warm with this person or persons and the shyness will become history.   :-)
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nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
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Go slow... Plan the first three or four things you want to say. Practice them over and over alone like.\n\nHey, hows it goin? Great/Bad weather. Love Hot/cold day\nLove Rain/Sun.\n\njust be yourself relax there are no right or wrongs
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
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If this is a first date, what mood is desired if not sexual? Sensuality is just as important as sexuality.\nAsking general not personal questions of her on a first date is ok. Be a good listener and flirt. Watch your language as some women are offended by blunt none of your business questions on a first date\nNever talk about your ex's and braggarts are boring.\nHold hands, be a gentleman,compliment her sincerely and above all, pay attention to subtle little gestures she may make to show she's interested in more than just holding hands, but don't be pushy. Honesty is always the best policy, but you don't have to feel obligated to tell her your whole life story. Be a little mysterious. Women are attracted to men who have good manners too, so don't pick your nose when you think she's not looking (only kidding)
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
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Go up to her, if you know her, good.  If not, introduce yourself.  Then compliment her.  "I couldn't help but notice your skirt, its very nice." Then if she talks back and seems interested,  ask her to go to coffee, dinner, movie, find something you both like, and do it. When your on the date, pay attention to what she has to say, ask her questions about what she says.  AND try to make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, your in like flynn.  Also when you pick her up for the date, tell her how nice/buetiful she looks.  Dont be to sappy though.  And wait till the second date to get a kiss on the lips.  I always go for a kiss on the cheek on the first date.  Well good luck and remember all I said and you should be alright.
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the absolute best thing you can tell her is what you just asked.  tell her you like her a lot, and that you don't know what to say because you don't want to sound lame.  tell her you're nervous because you haven't had a lot of girlfriends.  she'll appreciate your honesty, and she will probably say that she doesn't know what to say either, and you can laugh about it together, and it will bring you closer.
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Keep it casual or cute...\n\nCASUAL:\nHey (after school), ya doing anything cool this weekend? (if the answer is no, say something like...) me neither. Wanna go see a movie? (afterwards, she might kiss you or vice versa, usually thats what happens)\n\nCUTE:\nThis is what girls usually do, but guys can do it too I guess... write a note saying 'want to go out this weekend?' and put to check boxes saying yes or no. Write your number on the back or something, locker number or I dunno... whatever!\n\nOr burn her a CD with some nice songs that she hasn't heard of named something like ' I really like you' , 'can you feel the love tonight' etc. and make sure you write down these songs on the back of the cd case. When she reads it, she'll get the message.\n\nWHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT FORGET TO SAY 'ITS A DATE!' AS SOON AS YOU RUSH OFF TO TELL YOUR FRIENDS OR WHATEVER GUYS DO AFTER THEY GET A DATE WITH THE GIRL THEY LIKE
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Take her to the place where you guys had a first date, assuming it is somewhere romantic. Tell her you love her in about 10 different languages and get on one knee and let your feelings out. If she loves attention, and only if you think she will like this take her to a ball game, football, basketball whatever and in front of a million people tell her you love her and ask her to marry you. If someone did that, I think I'd pass right out! :) Good luck, and best of wishes to you!
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The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!