the clever way to make a very long distance relationship become stronger?
138700
I have a very simple but effective solution. Faith & trust that this relationship will work !!!! if u r possitive & dont crib about silly lil stuff, it will become stronger .... i agree that distance kills BUT distance also craves for more !!!!!!!!!!! have faith in some1 u luv n trust God n u will soon be in his / her arms !! Cheers ... God bless
200297
Make a vow to never stop calling each other, NEVER stop being best friends, and NEVER stop writing/emailing.\n\nI grew up in a military family so we moved constantly.  But I still remember when I was seven, moving away from my neighborhood and best friend Laura in Las Vegas.  Twenty years later we still have each other's phone numbers and emails.  So what ever you do, don't slack off on the writing and phone calling.  I am saving up for a trip from my neighborhood in upstate New York to see her in Las Vegas again.  Soon ....
297938
Well, if you really trust this person, you can always convince yourself that it will work. However, the sad truth is that even the best of relationships have been ruined by long-distance problems. Don't break off too soon, play it by ear. But if you do so, just remember that you may be hurt. Good luck and be strong! =)
648664
Long distance relationships CAN work!\nMy cousin's friend met her husband while she was touring in Europe and they emailed each other and spoke on the phone for another two years before they saw each other again.\n8 hours distance really isn't that much in comparison and I think perhaps he's just being a little pessimistic and lazy.\nSpeak to him, and if he's agreeable, set a time where you see each other maybe twice a month... find a place that is halfway between your houses and spend a nice weekend at a motel or something.  If it is true love it will work out eventually where you both are in the same place at the same time.\nGood luck! :)
188877
First, there is no need to prove love. If there is love, there is love. No need to prove love to anybody. That is pretty much like faith, you know.\n\nAnyway, since you are in a long distance relationship, a little reminder of your love every now and then surely wouldn't hurt. Communication is very important for any relationship. So, that's the key word. Occassional visits would certainly be welcome, if that's workable. If not, try communicating frequently using letters, emails or phone calls (SMS or MMS are ok, too). For me, letters are extra special cuz it means you are actually taking the time to share with that someone special what your everyday life is like. That's important -- to share both the big and small things that happen to you.
448008
To make a long distance relationship work there has to be a lot of trust - if you don't see each other all week or sometimes for a few weeks you have to be certain the other is serious about the relationship.  It is also good to have very regular contact.  One good thing about not seeing each other so often is that it keeps the relationship alive and you always have separate interests and therefore loads to talk about when you do see each other.  However, this type of relationship can take a long while to get off the ground - much longer than a normal one and there has to be a lot of feelings to keep it going.
412635
Write a list of all the pro's and the Con's,and decide if you can do this long distance thing! It's not for everyone!!! It can be hard when you feel lonely,ect..... If it hurts you more being in the relationship than not,then get out of it.
151981
long distance relationship - it seldom works and succeed. but if both of you would give trust for each other, just be honest - then probably would. but distance is not the only reason why relationship failed, a lot of factors why it didnt work out.
1161024
I know how that is...my boyfriend lives 9 hours away from me! \nThe most important thing is staying i contact, call each other as much as possible, say little cute things all the time, send each other things in the mail, little surprises to let each other know your thinking about them. I send my boyfriend cookies and letters all the time, the little things truely make all the difference.
587727
Tell him! Most long distance relationships don't work out anyway.
414475
of course it can work. it just depends on the commitment and love and trust, just like any in-person relationship. in a way, the long-distance has the benefit of not having to deal with the daily in-person details that sometimes weight relationships down.\n\nmy husband and i maintained a long-distance relationship for more than two years before our situations allowed us to be together.\n\ntalk about it.
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My husband & I lived apart for a while and may have to do so again soon.  \n\nWe tried the following:\nPhone calls\nEmails\nDedicating a song at a local radio station to the other\nSending "local" things to each other\nVisiting as often as possible\nSnail mail with cologne and perfume on it to remind each other\nMaking each other CD's to listen to\n\nWe always knew where the other was (but went out with friends, etc- jealousy was not an issue), and kept up on the "little details" that you miss so much of when you're away.  We even had Thanksgiving dinner (made the same homestyle box meal w/ turkey in it at the same time) over the phone. We would rent the same movies, watch them the same night, then talk about it after. \n\nGood luck, and hang in there if he's worth it.
610654
Usually long distance relationships are best kept long distance.  If you decide to move closer, kept it an hour or two apart to see if the relationship can handled it.  And if it last a year, then move to the same city.
674597
Start communicating with her send her a "Thinking of you" card first, see if she response back then just let the ball role I had a long distance relationship I loved it when he sent me unexpected cards and gifts
1161473
If there's a "Glamor Shots" in your area, get a really nice, sexy picture of you and a personal article of clothing that you've warn that smells nice. (not trying to be nasty here).  If you can get ahold of a camcorder of some sort, tape you singing "I Honestly Love You" (ha) Or, you get a small box and pick up little things that mean something in your relationship and remind you of good times you've had.  You could write a poem, kiss it with lipstick on and spray a little perfume on it and mail it to him.  Sorry that you have a long distance relationship.  Must be hard!!!
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will long distance relationships work?
157611
Ok, realise that there are BENEFITS to  having a long distance relationships such as the honeymoon effect... Now send her a daily email, chat with her cam2cam,send her letters/cards via snail mail----- communicate when you are apart... Good Luck...