is there any way to stop thinking about some one u love?
139556
Don't try to forget, try to remember on a way that doesn't hurt your heart...
395142
i know its difficult to get someone out of ur mind once you start liking them...or say loving them.you get so attached and so involved that they become an integral part of ur emotions, dreams, life. but guess  they never were worth our love and trust. so move on..live ur life.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
1064736
honestly, you can't... love is exactly that- love... there's no stopping it.... just don't hurt anyone by doing something you'll regret.... hope i helped! :P
303616
You're going to think of them, there is no stopping that.  Something that helps me?  \n\nIn a psych class I took once, the teacher explained that the reason we think about our ex's so much is because when you care for a person a particular neural path is made in the brain.  From time to time, your brain needs to test that path to make sure it is still working.  This is why you might remember an old gf/bf seemingly out of the blue sometimes years after the break up.  However, if you do nothing about it (resist the urge to call them or look them up) then that path eventually fades out because it no longer gets a response.\n\nResist the urge to dwell on the memory, let it happen and let it pass, and the hurt does go away.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
1095403
when he cant stop thinking about her...
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
230757
best and quickest way is to force yourself to think of someone else ....in other words, get busy with someone else...
263700
One of the few things that you can do to stop thinking about an ex, is to find someone new that you can go out and date (hence: rebound)
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
134914
WHN U KNOW THE FACT THT U REALLY CANT B WITH HER THN TRY ACCEPTING THIS FACT\nI KNOW IT REALLY HURTS BT THERE IS NO OTHER WAY OUT THERE\nIT WILL SURELY TAKE TIME BT AS TIME WILL PASS U WILL FORGET HER\n\n\nONE MORE THING LIFE NEVER STARTS AND ENDS WITH ONE PERSON IT WILL GO ON AND ON AND ON \nDNT U THINK THT IT IS POSSIBLE THT MAY B UMEET A PERSON WITH WHOM U WILL REALLY FALL IN LUV\n\n\nDNT LOSE HOPE AND B JOLLY TRY TO B WITH UR FRNDS AND START FORGETTIGN ABT THT THING WHCH CAN NEVER B URS
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
123228
if you think its best to forget him, then you need to get busy, and stay busy. the best way to get your mind off of something is to put your mind on something else. although i dont believe you will "forget." forgetting is something we rarely achieve.
338201
I think the best course of action is to have no contact with her if possible.  It's hard when your heart still pulls you towards someone even though you know there is nothing but heartache there.  Do your best to stay occupied, filling your time with other friends, hobbies, work, etc so that eventually not thinking of her becomes more of a habit.  OR...as my 77 yr.old grandmother told me during a breakup..."the best way to get over one...is to get under one!" ;-)  Good luck!
63790
That's my problem too, usually I just try to keep busy...keep my mind occupied on anything that doesn't remind me of the person. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. What's really awesome is when you find out that the person had been having a hard time trying not to think about you as well.