how do i tell this guy that is barely my friend that i like him and i wanna hook up ?
148759
you have to look at the hole situation come on now your barely friends right so put your self out there see where is goes you only live once so live it up and get your groove on...if that dont work brush your shoulder off and move on...
1148521
You should probably let him know you dont care for him like that.Its wrong to lead people on if you have absolutley no inttention on getting with them.Just tell him you can see him as more of a friend then a boyfriend.Plus when you tell him make sure he completly understands or maybe give him a chance that way it could work out and you be happy or it wouldnt work and you could at least say you gave him a chance theres no wrong way out unless you tease him by leading him on then crushing him by hooking up with someone else oh and if you have an eye on some one else let him know before hand so he doesnt hate you for leading him on as long as you already have
85326
just continue offering a pure friendship. just be a true person to him by showing who you are without telling what you feel towards him. wait for the right time. it will come without saying any words. just wait and try to have fun with your other friends. then you will learn what exactly you feel for him. but if that special feeling remain, then you can take the risk. \n\ntelling him will be a big gamble to you, you may just simply loose him, or if he have a "feeling" for you, you will not find his sincerity for you will always think that he just "love" you for not offending you or hurting your feelings.\n\nthat's the hardest part of being a girl-you have to wait for the person you like to "approach" you but sad to say those people approaching you are just "ordinary people" for you. \n\nbut then you felt that bursting feeling can't be hold for awhile then - - tell him without putting down yourself.\n\nmake it simple on telling him, like, :i don't understand myself, "friend" but this thing is new to me - why i always  think of you, and sometimes i want to have more time from you... then smile and wait to his reaction.\n\nkeep your cool.
500643
well what i would do is i wouldn't tell him sraight up that i like him but get to know him hangout with him be good friends tease around with him don't get all stiff in front of him be your self that is the key to opening up to spmebody!!! goodluck and be yourself!!1
416554
i would get to know him! become his friend look in his eyes when you talk and smile whenever he walks in the room! that gives him a huge hint!\n\ndont break them up because that is just wrong. but once you become his friend be around him alot call him be his buddy then when you know him well enough pull him to the side and tell him how you feel. im sure you will get a good responce\n\nLove ~*Chloe*~
310010
HES YOUR FRIEND so its OK. just ask. If he blows you off just say that you had no one 2 go with and he was da closest thing to a date you can find -and laugh it off. Use flattery and be jokey. Than ask him if he knows anyone you can go with to change the subject this way you can still be friends if he gives you the crunch- GOOD LUCK
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
238169
go really slow.  find out where his head is at as far as dating in general, find out as much as you can on the friend card, and if all works out...you get to tell him.
200188
Hmm well if your friends and you hang out alot then maybe you should tell him that you like him if you drop the "Love" bomb on him he won't know what to do or say that is unless he likes you too or feels that way. this is from a guys prespective so maybe listen a lil to my advice
1158764
immediately begin giving subtle hints to send the impression that you like him that way, and start with the smallest kind of hints you can think of. gradually increase the frequency and obviousness of your hints over the next 2 - 3 months, till he either sends you a clear signal he's not interested, or allows your advances to continue into a relationship. If he reciprocates your advances with advances of his own, it is very likely that a strong bond will develop, and you can accelerate your advances.\n\nHaving said that, some people prefer that others just come right out and say it clearly and unmistakenly, but this forces a judgemental decision that often turns bad. If he asks you a direct question, such as "do you like me that way?" answer directly, truthfully and thoughtfully, making your intentions as clear as possible. He will probably respect you for your honesty, and if he is not interested in that way your friendship will flourish as a result of such honesty.
685688
Flirt. \nThat will always work. Do it in subtle ways, NOT to the point you look trashy.\nIf you like him, then the really best thing to do is just tell him. Once he KNOWS you like him, it'll defiantly make him see you in a different/good light.
214119
Make a move.  Put yourself in a situation where the two of you are alone by yourselves.  Then just pull out all of your typical female tricks, touching of the arm, giggling like a fool and maybe leaning in a little too close to his face.  If he likes you he'll take this opportunity and lay one on ya.  This way your not making a fool of yourself by talking to him and finding out he doesn't feel the same way you do.  Talk is over-rated.  Oh and if he's spending this much time with you my bet is that he's hot for you too.  Guys don't have friends that are girls, they just hang around long enough to get in their pants.  GO FOR IT!!!
496160
If you don't want to hurt his feelings .. try to come up with something other then "I like you as a friend, I like you like a brother, I think we should just be friends " line.  \n\nMaybe tell him you're not looking for a relationship at this time & you think your friendship is very important to you and you would never want to ruien what you have now with him .. and he means a lot to you !
50414
you have to talk to him yourself and tell him you like him!\n And then see how he feels about you!\n     Then if he feels the same way about you ask him if he would like to hang out sometime!
1020664
Well you need to start flirting and acting different around him. Compliment throw your arm over his shoulder when the time is right. Or you could plan this with your friends what you do is have a friend tell this guy but whichever friend whom you choose to say it has to tell him as if it where a secret he couldn't speak of she needs to tell him you like him and she needs to say something lik  "don't tell her i told you k" this way he'll think it over\n and wonder if he likes you to. but continue to act as if you didn't know your friend told him.\n\nhey if you need help i'm here email me at hitches_help@yahoo.com
540275
just come out and tell him that you like him or get a friend to do it!!!
361666
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.