I need advise about my bf>?
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"if you don't know where to go, stay where you are." \nweigh your feelings. you and your bf have been together for four years... you love your bf... yes, you argue... don't all couples do? i think you're just bored. and it's understandable. it happens. for all you know your bf may be feeling the same way and just doesn't want to give up. \ndon't risk it.
38206
tell your bf but keep the number and call. check it out, maybe theres some things you two need to talk about.
333524
Just be honest with him, let him know how you feel...and he might feel the same way about you...the worst he could say is no...but theres alot of other fish in the sea and your still young..you'll have plenty of boyfriends ahead of you! dont stress over it!
715395
Maybe "hey" isn't the right way to get his attention.  Obviously, there is some kind of emotional disconnect between you and your bf regarding physical intimacy.  \n\nThis is one that you have to talk out with him.  Set aside some time and without being critical, ask him what was going on.  Try to get past the "it was the way that you said it" answer and find out why he was so distracted from your "moment".
697047
he is avoiding u b/c he is scared of what will happen if his gf finds out or if ur bf finds out.if i were u i would examine the sitiuation very closely, then pick either him or ur bf and make him decide also
304167
im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
508697
You've a lot of growing up to do dear...\n\nI think you should believe your bf, otherwise you shouldn't be with him
1178736
A good BF would support his GF in whatever her interests are.  His insecurities (not feeling good about himself) and control issues (wants to be in charge of you and all you do) are not healthy for a good relationship.  It will start with sports etc...then he won't want you going out with your friends, then tell you what to wear.  He is not worth the time of day.  Dump him fast.  Good luck to you and I hope you do well in your sports and whatever you wish to do.
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Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
771795
I make this short and sweet. If your bf can't and won't wait than maybe he's not the one for you. Find someone who can respect your morals and most of all someone who can respect your body.
1179415
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
855862
Give it time. Don't try too hard. DOn't worry bout it. You are not there to impress her. It doesn't matter. Just live your life with your bf, and talk to her if you have to. Don't be bitter. Just be friendly but not too nice.
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
104945
listen, tell this to ur bf and say tht u r hurt by his opinion and plz donot behaved rudely,just be kool and try to more attentive on him and when he will tell bad about ur bro just say if do this kind of things in future u will not able to continu this relationship,be strong and if he really love u then he will stop to say bad thing about ur bro,and if he donot care about ur feelings and understand tht he doesnot love u.i know this opinion is really harsh for u but it is true.
11120
get a better boyfriend. or call him.
788813
Give some subtle hints, create a pre-existing "boyfriend" if necessary. If unsuccessful, just tell him you don't think you are well suited. It will save you both some time.