Why would a man keep coming back after he is told I don't Love you Go Away.?
143858
well, he must like you or is in love with you. the pain of not going back to you hurts and of try to be with you is not so bad. He will move on...
168465
He desn't still love you if he did he would tell you where he moved to. Just try to move on. If he does love you and just hasn't realized it, it will be so much better if when he comes back looking for you, you have moved on he will realize how special you are. If not then you have moved on and you don't need him anymore anyway.
100038
He keeps cheating because he can, because he KNOWS you will always go back no matter what he does. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It would be best to get away from him. Get rid of him, he's not worth your time and love.
488915
Guys can tend to get clostrophobic in situations like this. Love having you there but only when they want you there. I'm not sure on his thinking after such a long relationship but it would seem to me that he is distancing himself because he does want out but can't face the fact that he will be alone and probably doesn't want to be alone therefore still calling you.He definately loves you but doesn't know the best way to address the issue, therefore keeps up the pretence that everything is fine by calling you, wanting you etc..\nOn the other hand i could be wrong, i'm no expert
212505
he seems to be one of those who will not make up their minds for a life time.\nhe calls you back because he is lonely,\nthe next minute, he might be gone.\nkeep on the good work by keeping away form him.\nhe can easily hurt feelings.
1068919
It`s a con.He`s having problems with his current relationship or in between women and is trying to fill the gap. Do what you must but be wary,out of the blue,huh? Hope the best for you. There are some decent men out there and I would bet you are a nice person so don`t settle for a drifter.(user)
940789
He keeps being persistant because you give in to easily. He keeps screwing up because he knows you will take him back eventually. Pull your head out of your behind and stand up for yourself! Tell him to F$&# off for good! You can do much better than him and you know it!
372837
You need to walk away for good. He is putting you on a horrible emotional roller coaster and is playing with your emotions. For your own health and sanity, walk away for good. Tell him you are not going to take this constant on-off situation and feel it is better that you go your separate ways.
747736
Parkfield, I'm talking to you from the guy's perspectives. The first and the greatest sign is that he deliberately won't like to communicate with you anymore - in all ramifications of the word. Then, you need to act fast if you want to have him back to yourself. Cheers!!!
459201
u sure have many ppl after u dont u ? if the guy ur in love with comes back for u each time that means that he still loves u and u should stick with him. if he was never meant to be he would never come back. this is telling u something. u might have find ur true love.
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
759041
You need to stay as far away from him as possible...okay when a guy says he loves you but hes not in love with you...its like a brother saying they love you,...its not going anywhere...you going back to each other means that he proably doesnt have anything better to do...and your just love struck and yall two are aech others comfort zones...you really need to let him go...as hard as it may be.....goodluck sweetie...remember time heals everything
907341
he is a selfish man he does not want you back he wants to put you in stand by you know for later
125705
stop and take it slow it sounds like you are trying to trap him he is a man and i don't think bieng swiss has any thing to do with it if he loves you it will become quite clear in his actions if he don't he is either getting to that point or is using you. its all give and take. if your not getting what you need to be happy move on or he will.
76333
I would say that he is probably experiencing some issues in his current relationship...and because of your connection, he is going to find it easiest to "run" back to you.  I have heard of men continuing to do this for years and keeping their first love confused and suseptable to continuously getting hurt as they himhaw around and can't make up their minds where they really want to be.  The question to ask yourself is do you really need him?  What caused your relationship not to work out in the first place?  Are there going to be trust issues if he did come back?  Could whatever caused the relationship not to work happen again?\nIf he really loves you and did make a mistake and should be with you...it will happen.  But I say, tread lightly...the heart can only take so much.
560331
Give it a few days, he might just be following some silly rule about not getting back to you right away.\n\nOr he just changed his mind :(
753770
you really need to take what he is saying at face value.  if he's telling you that he needs some time away then he needs some time away.  \n\nstop bothering him in anyway, give him a chance to see if he will miss you and give him a chance to explore his feelings which include his feelings towards you.\n\nthere's not much else you can do that won't work against you.  \n\nshow him what a strong and mature person you are so he has something to desire and to miss.  and if he doesn't come back then he doesn't really want to be with you and you have to accept that.\n\nI know it's hard.  been there done that...and I'm giving you the advice I followed myself.\n\ngood luck.