Why do most women/men look ugly at home curls and all ,but they dress up when going out, should'nt it be the o
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thers 2 way of dressing up dear..at home we dress up for husband....but when out side we have to dress up for the other impression..i too dont want to look ugly when im outside.i like to feel sexy and good
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Ugly is a strong word. Guys seen the outside as being beautiful. A gentleman sees inner beauty and more importantly Ugly is something that is only seen by igorance and stupidity. No matter how people see themselves is how they feel and thats makes them beautiful and not ugly
626597
Yes, why would they have men in muscle magazines or men's style magazines. It is more of emulation than attraction.  I want to look like..., or I want to be like... are questions all guys ask. The ones that are afraid to admit are the ones that are not comfortable with themselves.
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two points I noticed from your statments:\n1st: I am curious as to how do you would define "better looking"? People have different perceptions on how well one looks.  \n2nd: people at an airport are one of the following type of people: holiday goers, busy business men, people who have a plan for something etc (otherwise they don't end up in the airport).\ni like to suggest that these people are more likely to be confident about themselves and their lifestyles. It is the confidence, body posture, movement pace, and the facial expressions of these people that make them better looking. \n\nWealthy people do tend be confident. sometimes a little excessively. Money helps building up these invaluable qualities which in turn make them "better looking" but i am not suggesting it is a must :)
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I'm not a man but I can tell you that men prefer women who are confident and strong and do not care what others think about their personal choices.....so if you want to colour your hair -go right ahead-it's your choice, isn't it? Just be sure to get it professionally done so it doesn't look uneven, brassy or weird. It's always best to look 'natural'.
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I think that part of the problem is our society. We have totally unrealistic ideas about how people - Women in particular - are supposed to look. It becomes difficult to be okay with who you are when you don't measure up to the models. (even the guys who are losing their hair have these issues.) It seems like we are becoming more and more superficial. I have even heard someone remark to someone else that they didn't think somebody else could have any problems because they were so pretty. Imagine that - all my problems could be solved - if only I were pretty enough .... .... usually is not a case. Recommend her Montignac lifestyle. it will change all her world
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Those are the same women who dress like that at work and then complain when a guy asks them out. They also are the ones who think their bodies will get them anything they want and get pissy when it doesn't work out like that. Now, I'm not saying that those women are "asking" for it or anything but seriously, ladies, what the f do you expect to get for attention when you dress like a hooker?\n\nBoredgal: I've gotta say, I find the women who dress like hookers a lot more offensive than men who leer and drool. 1) We expect men to act like pigs. 2) We know it is going to happen when we dress like sluts. 3) Just as it is your right to dress as you choose, it is also a man's right to LOOK where he chooses. If you don't want him leering down your dress, don't put it all out there.
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Well, when I was younger, I was once mistaken for a boy.  But it wasn't because I was trying to look masculine--it was because I had some androgynous features, my hair was mid-length (this was in the 70's so boys wore their hair longer like Shaun Cassidy) and my mom wouldn't let me wear makeup at the time.    If a woman intentionally wear men's clothing, has a men's haircut, wear no makeup or jewelry, they are either attempting to look masculine, or at the very least, not at all feminine so if they are mistaken for a guy, then they really can't be upset about it.
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That is way dependant on the girl its on. For the most part, long hair is far more attractive. However, there are some women that look really sexy in shorter hair styles. I think that it just makes you look older and a bit too serious most the time though.
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Because we are supposed to be the delicate-soft-pretty ones... and because society says so. My husband has horrible hair chest and I hate it but I have no word on this, in the opposite, I have to tear off hair from anywhere he gets to see... It's a beauty standard.
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Of course it is - in fact, for better or for worse (possibly worse) American society encourages us to be pretty. Like most things, there's nothing wrong with being pretty as long as it's not taken to extreme. If you're taking four hours to get dressed and made up before you can leave your house, then you're probably going overboard. We have to remember that the way we look isn't everything - that our other qualities have as much or more value than the way we look. But to answer your question in general - if you're pretty, go with it. There's nothing wrong with being pretty.
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i think that it's lame when adults who are going through their midlife crisis try to dress like teenagers.  for example, i was walking with my cousin (we're both 17) around the mall and we saw this lady who looked 40 wearing a mini-skirt, black boots, and a short shirt.  totally lame and tacky.  ugh, the worse parts are that she had ugly legs and was wearing ugly make-up. it looked like nasty play make-up that 10-year-olds wear.  sorry for you adults out there who dress like this, but try dressing more maturely please.  (i'm really not shallow, honestly.)  oh, and when adults think that their way of doing things is better than your way.  ahh, just adults trying to make everybody think that they are smarter than everybody else.  so dumb.
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men have always judge women by how they look instead of how they are as a person. No one should be judge by their looks, you can be the ugliest person in the world and be the nicest person going or be the most beautifulest person and be the biggest a**hole.
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simple. society put out the image of what the perfect woman should look like. So we go through shirt after shirt, pants, skirts, until we find something we feel we look good in. well, at least other females do. I work overnight and sleep during the day so i dont car as much about hat im wearing. its just gonna get messed up anyway. we like looking for things that fit us in certain ways. the accentuate our good parts and hide what we think are our bad ones. plus somedays when people are bloated they feel they look different. its all in the mind really. i know i look good in whatever i put on. i wouldnt have bought it in the first place if i didnt.
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Excellent point.  Probably just to make themselves appear better/different/not bad. Like adopting a logo.  Trying to present a better picture of themselves.
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I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.
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Believe me, leg hair isn't going to keep us any warmer, so we willl have to wear pants anyway.  It is a self-esteem, beauty issue.  I do it out of habit and I enjoy the result.