does my friends knows I am gay?
152198
Your close friends might not know that you are gay, but they might not be surprised when you come out of the closet to them.   \n\nHow do you know someone is gay?  You see them sleep with people of the same gender.  \n\nAre you in high school?  That is a hard time to be different in any way shape or form.  You should join a support group of some sort and make some gay friends, it might make things a bit easier for you.
1046624
I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
511923
OK, all these people who say you are going through a phase, that's just them trying to "save" you. Every gay person I've ever talked to believes that people are born gay, which means you could probably tell at your age. Also, I've heard of people knowing that they were attracted to people of the same sex when they were even younger then you. People are coming out younger and younger now, this is due to growing acceptance, if you come from a place that does not accept gays, then i am guessing you are pretty sure. I probably don't need to tell you all this. Back to you question, do you know any other gay people? They can give you advice and understanding, also don't underestimate your close friends, and i hate to say it but you might find girls are more accepting then guys.
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.
570741
Sounds like you just did come out of the closet. By posting your question, you announced to the whole world that you're gay. :)
16045
it takes a gay to know gay
915400
If all your friends are saying it maybe he is..or maybe they are all bi tches and you would be better off without them..say to them wheres your proof??
996947
i have straight friends that do that. if he just acts gay around your friends, its most likely to make them laugh. you said he doesn't act like that all the time, so he is most likely not gay. but whatever he is, as long as he is a great person then he should be worthy of friendship.
265627
ask them!  if they are a friend they will tell you
326987
ur gay for asking that ?
325475
r u a dude? is your friend a dude? just see if he does gay things like iggle or compliment a girls outfit and if he gets this offer from a very hot grl and doesnt accept it then man he must be gay. Most of the time ppl just find out on thier own.
792349
Well, chances are that most people who love you already know, you just haven't confirmed it yet.  Stay calm and think good thoughts.  Being gay is not terrible, but some people may need time to accept it.  Try setting aside time, free from distractions, and tell the person.  If it is a friend and they react poorly, don't push it, let them figure it out.  Continue to be a good friend, but if they choose to not be  good friend, consider yourself lucky to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff so easily.  Your family will love and accept you- you are family.  It is better to be honest and true, living your life fully as a good person, that force yourself to live in fear, lying.
312875
there is no easy way to tell them. If you know for sure that your parents will accept that you're bi, then it should be a problem telling them. They probably already know and just waiting on you to say something.
173833
Yes, I have known and had many friends who were gay.  Two of my wife and my best friends in this town are gay.  I am disgusted by their lifestyle and hate what they do, but they are some of the nicest people I know and we laugh all the time with them.
1182254
I have told friends personal info over the years.  Nothing like "I was rapped as a small boy" type things.  More along the lines of "wow your mom is banging dude!"  They took it pretty well, and after a few days the swelling on my face went down, so everyone was happy :)  Hope that helped you.  But if you are looking into something like "I'm gay" just go ahead and tell them.  What's the worst that can happen?  He won't like you anymore?  Well, if he is a homophobic and you are gay, well them he wasn't a good friend anyway and you are better off without him.  Have I helped yet?  I hope so.
665845
kind of a dumb question. how would you know they're gay? would someone say, "help, i've fallen and i'm gay!"\n\nunless you just pushed them over because you just found out they were gay, then I guess you would not help them and they'd get up themselves. hopefully, the "gay" would punch your lights out then.
478905
First, you have to be ready for others to know you are gay.  You have to know it in your own heart.  Then, take your time and be selective about who you come out to.  It's not necessary for everyone you know your business.  As your personal life comes up with friends, YOU decide if you want to share this with them.  OR, it can be great fun when you are in love with a great guy (gal) to discuss it with your new love and introduce them to your friend or brother, sister, whomever.\n\nJust be honest and be yourself.  Your true friends will still love you and deal with it sooner or later.  Some people need some time (especially family) to get used to the idea.  Good luck.