why is it so hard for us girls to get a boy ?
138035
Perhaps because many boys of ages 11 to 15 don't know what to do with a girl if she got them.\nWhat is your rush.  Afraid that you are missing something?
130940
Not to say that it's right, but a lot of parents want a son or daughter, or maybe the other gender if they already have one. \n\nIt might would prevent them from "trying" many times for the "wanted" gender. For some men, a son is important to "carry on the family name"
136515
Maybe you are not mature enough to be thinking about boys. Get your education first and then think about starting a relationship. They are not gonna support you, but a good job will, and without an education, you won't have a good job or a man. Been there done that.
88445
Most people wants things that are hard to get.  It is a challenge for them.  It makes them feel more attractive and wanted than your current beau.
552857
Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
135047
There are many reasons why girls are "difficult", one is..that lovely "period", another is you cant figure out something that changes everyday and we are just as difficult as boys...haha\n\nok heres the real facts:\nGirls when they want something they ususally tend to want consensus or approval from you. For example, she wants to eat at a specific restraunt, lets say Applebees. She ususally wont say, "I want to eat at Applebees!" She'll say," hey you heard about that restraunt Applebees, alot of people say its good..." You see she is seeking your approval or opinion without telling you directly what she wants or "what she means". So try to see what she is really saying by telling your opinion and THEN asking for hers. Then be flexible at that point ask her," you wanna eat there sumtime?" bla bla bla. Also, listen to how many times she may bring a certain subject up..that probably means she wants it even more. well I hope this helped!
583110
Because society says that girls who ask out boys are easy. It's hard to get past those feelings. Girls will always give clues about their intentions. Just pay attention - what catches your attention about girls is exactly what girls want you to catch.
562012
same reason girls are shy about asking a boy out - fear of rejection or embarrassment.
401542
I think it has to do with reproduction and development.  Girls need to mature faster both mentally and physically in order to be viable birthing chambers at a sooner age. While boys are expendable and worthless in the scheme of things so nature has given them more time to develop viable social skills so they can contribute to survival of the women.
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
166192
We DO get attracted to boys.  We're just better at not showing it.  If ya'll thought we were easy to 'get', you wouldn't be nearly as interested, now wouldja?
430235
i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.
604688
What I admire about girls is that they're able to get guys. I can't ever get guys... it sucks... but girls can, and don't even have to think about it. v.v' *sigh* \nAloha,\nDavid
601298
because girls think that they can change a bad boy into a good boy. Bullshit. It never works. GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!!
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
1062440
Cause they can't get a girl.
74417
because you can't get a girl