how do I know my girlfriend is telling the truth when she says she loves me?
140843
Act as if the statement was true. You have nothing to lose. If it is true then you are trusting her and goodness will follow. If it is not true you still trusted her and the truth will come out in the end. If you don't accept its true and it is true then you will blow an incredible opportunity to be loved.
979141
That's a tough question.  I would say that honesty is the best policy.  Hovever, you need to be certain that you are being honest with yourself first.  Are you sure that she is playing?  Has she done anything that would tell you she is just playing?\n\nIf you find that you just can't trust her, perhaps you could tell her that you are just not able to maintain a relationship at the level that she deserves.  Tell her you wish her the best, but it is time for you to move on.  Break ups almost always hurt.  You can't make the pain go away completely, but it's nice to try to cause the least amount of damage possible.
1160682
if ur lien 2 ur gurl n yet she doesnt care, that means that she really cares 'bout u.n that a lil wyte lie aint gonna mess up ur relationship...although thats not gonna last 4eva. so start tellin her dah truth, its better than havin a hole in ur relationship...
1153024
By being honest and stubborn and even if that hasn't worked yet, it will. I'm sure she knows you care for her and wants to be with you, but there are probably tons of reasons why she just can't let herself trust you. Oh and don't ever threaten to leave her unless you really plan on going through with it completely and NOTHING she can say will change that. Especially if that is something that she fears.
1040453
You can't know for sure.Only time will tell.There is no way to be 100% sure someone loves you.You will just have to trust that it is love or leave it alone.Love is something that cannot be defined;it is something that can only be felt.I wish you all the best.
108366
well chances are, she IS lying to you.  It may not be that big of a deal, and there may be some good reasons for it (although I dont think theres ever good reasons to lie)\n\neither way, I am sure she has her reasons, if you cant bear with it, leave her.
646011
Tell her how much you love her and how you feel her
865042
If you really mean it, and come off as sincere, then she will believe it. Don't use it as a pick up line. Its perfect at some romantic moment, look into her eyes, and let her know. Its even better if its followed by an "i love you,", but if you don't feel that way yet, don't say it.. \n\nBut, anyhow, that is very sweet.
776789
Hey! i think that if your worried and your sure that you love the girl that you should just ask her FACE TO FACE because over a phone isnt better and that way you can tell if she lies to you but if she loves you back or likes you for that matter she should tell you the right and serious answer to your question Believe me if that doesnt work i would assume and if it continues i would just have to say that you would have to end the relationship unless your ready to deal with something that could lead to serious problems!!\nGood Luck!
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
305199
You can lie if you want ... but ask yourself if you want her to lie to you too?  Because once you LIE you wonder if your partner is too.  \n\nIf it is something BIG I would not lie because BIG things have a way of coming out to haunt us later.  A little thing "yeah, I like your outfit" that is called keeping peace in the relationship and is OK.
885280
When she tells me.\n\nOf course, actions speak louder than words.  She could tell me she loves me, but if she doesn't act like it, I wouldn't believe her.\n\nBut it's nothing specific.  "Act like it" means she seeks to spend time with me.  She notices my little foibles, but forgives me for them.  She shows at least mild interest in the things I do and seeks to find common interests we can share.\n\nIf you're wondering how to show your man you love him, you're going about it the wrong way.  If you love him, tell him.  Do it when your arms are around him, right before you kiss him.  Don't make it a joke.\n\nAs for taking you for granted... That's one you need to talk to him about.  Don't make it judgmental.  Subtle is good.  Men don't usually get subtle.  If you're subtle enough, he won't think you're accusing him of taking you for granted.  But don't be too subtle or he won't understand that you don't want any guy to take you for granted.\n\nIf that doesn't work, well, communication is the key.  Just always remember that you love him and you don't want to hurt him.  You can say, "I think you're starting to take me for granted, but probably haven't even thought about it."  You're not judging him, you're doing the same as telling him, "Those pants and shirt don't match."
146860
Dude, she is your fiancee and ur not sure if she loves you? You should of known this before she became your fiancee. Look into her eyes when you say I love you and if they glisten or if has that affectionate look when she says it back, then yeah she loves you or atleast thinks she does. Only time will tell. What makes you uncertain though is what I am wondering.
1158888
she is a liar. she may not know the difference between the truth and lies.  or she might just lie to make herself look better and others look bad. you need to think abot if you love her enough to tolerate the constant lying or do you think you deserve better.  good luck.
103930
Just ask her.She should tell you. If she talks to you a lot and likes being around you then yea shes happy. If you ask her then she'll most likely will say yes. Do you just want to see her and wonder that forever. If you love her that much ask her its not that heard. Show you love her.
8823
Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
127944
If she talks to you, would willingly do things for you whenever you ask.\nif she flirts with you and genuinely enjoy your company and your sense of humor no matter what it is.\nThen she has strong feeling for you.\nI would not define it as love yet, but very strong feelings.\nTime will tell, because you will never truly know until she says it out loud.