Is it ok to go to a dance with a guy that haves a girlfriend?
140679
It's just a dance.  It's not like he's asking you for marriage.
1164949
It sounds like your boyfriend is one of those guys that wants to "teach" the girls how to dance while he dances.  You're right.  He should just dance with you just to have fun. I can see him wanting his dance partner to be perfect if he was going to compete, however it sounds like he's just social dancing.   Salsa dancing is not about being "right" all the time. Its about acting and reacting. My philsophy is, if the guy leads a move and the girl follows wrong or doesn't follow it, then the guy can just make that move into something else.  As my dance instructor would say..  its not the wrong move.. Its just a different one.\n\nYou shouldn't be jealous he is going with other girls because jealousy won't get you anywhere. You should just go out dancing too so that when you turn 21 you'll be a better dancer and he'll want to take you to clubs with him.
682258
You should not mess with him since he has a girlfriend. If he really cared about you that much he would have respect for the two of you and end his currrent relationship. Don't be the side chick and fall for his bulls***. It seems that this is just lust for him and not love. Though it could be a start for love. To be on the safe side just tell him you want to remain friends and see what happens.
617644
He sounds jealous, insecure, and controlling. If he gets angry now, it will probably get worse later.  As far as not wanting to go out dancing with you, if he doesn't like to do it you'd better be ready to give that up too.  He's not likely to agree to you going out dancing with girlfriends if he's that jealous. Sounds to me like he is happy having the convenience of a regular partner for sex; but I doubt his feelings for you are what I would call love.
417863
No way.\n  If a guy has a girlfriend, why would you flirt with him. If you had a boy friend you wouldn't like it if someone flirted with him knowing that you were his girlfriend. It is called common courtesy. It makes you look like a jerk and someone that is not trustworthy or with no morals.\nThere are so many guys out there. Why are you wasting your time flirting with one that is taken. It makes you look cheap.Or insecure.\n\nIf you flirt with this guy and he and his lady break up, he could blame it on you, or, if he does give you a try, he already knows that you are a shyster so he won't trust you.\nSo, find someone else.
520170
I dont think love is involved in this case. I believe there is a mutual attraction between the two of you. Before you decide to get involved or go any further with this guy, I suggest you confirm if he has a girlfriend or not. You dont want to get yourself involved if he does. That is trouble you dont need.
394454
Well if I am dancing with him then obviosuly there is some interest there,and it happens from time to time, and with the right guy it can be an extreme turn on and a form of foreplay :)
938181
If there is/was a dance or function...ask him if he went or is going. If he says no, ask  "Didn't your girlfriend want to go?"  Good luck...
968513
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
805647
You should talk to him about it before the dance. Or ask him if he wants to dance while your there. If he doesn't, tou should put on the flirty face and say please. But I think he'll say yes. So don't worry.
545706
My daughter goes to dances, as did I many moons ago.\nI'd say it wasn't as much of a date as you wanted it to be. It sounds more like it was a mutual "I'll be there, if you're there" kinda thing.\n He could also be the kind of guy who danced with all those other gals just to show you how lucky you are that, of all the girls he could have, he chose you. Are you sure you could compete with his ego in a relationship with him?\n Maybe it was your dancing. Ask your friends if you look OK dancing. My daughter's given her friends pointers, and vice-versa.\n Talk to him about it, but don't let him know you cried over him. That's giving him way too much control over you, and that's not healthy in any relationship.\nJust let him know you weren't happy how the whole thing turned out, and that you'll see him around. \n Hanging around & waiting for him won't get you noticed. Putting him off, will. Good luck.
500996
I am assuming  this 'dance' was a high school dance based on everything else you said so, no, I don't think it is a big deal. However, at the high school level, or pretty much anything under the age of 25, it is a big deal to those who see it. Be careful here though!! If you have a big crush on him and he only sees you 'as a friend' you will get your heart broken when he finally tells you as such. Keep it as  friends and enjoy the comfort of a good hug until he leads you to believe otherwise. Good luck!!
502833
Difficult to answer that one! \n1. You may not no whether he is a cheat by doing this!\n\n2. He may really like you, but I have my doubts if he kissed his girlfriend thinking you were not aware!\n\n3. If he does like you this way he should not of even danced with you being together with someone else\n\n4. If you were in her shoes, knowing now, it's not nice\n\nIf I were you I would not participate or do any kind of flirting but let him know your thoughts. If he is interested he will stop seeing the other person but keep at arms length to prevent yourself being hurt!\n\nTake it from me I'm a Guy!
396300
You know what it should not matter but it does. He doesn't like it and you guys need to talk about it. I personally like to dance with guys when i go out too. but if my boyfriend doesn't like i would stop it. it's not worth it.
1033653
Well....it really depends on how you feel for him. If you actually LOVE him then yes but if you can go without him and not worry about him being around or not. No don't create bad relationships. \n\nSincerely-Fudge
723103
Girlfriend, you are a doll.  If he's not interested he's nuts.  Try getting around him and being avaible for him to start up a conversation with, smile at him, look at his and when he looks at you, look embrassed and look away.  If you are pressed for time, just ask him who's he going to the dance with, that should more than enuff start the conversation, give him the chance to ask you who you are going with, and maybe yall hook up.  Good Luck.
434574
You dont have a chance of bieng his gf. get out in the world and meet some normal people.