do u think premarital sex is necessary?
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
525305
Sex before marriage is NOT allowed before marriage if you are a Christian.(which I am) and people that are not following Gods no sex before marriage rule are not real Christians. God does NOT force us not to have sex before marriage. You CAN do what ever you want. But if you are a real Christian you will follow Gods rules. But God IS NOT forcing you to do it. but if you do you are not a real Christian. just because someone or everyone does something bad does not mean you should. hope this helps and I hope you make the right decision and follow Jesus.
1172318
Yes!!! Sex was designed to express the love between a man and his wife. That is why the honeymoon is supposed to be special. If you have sex before marriage, then your honeymoon will become obsolete. Also, if you sleep around before you get married, at least give your spouse a list of names in case a few "old flames" come acalling.
815272
Trial marriage? Like shacking up? The only reason I can see that you'd need a trial marriage is if you're not sure about the person you're contemplating marrying. And if that's so, you shouldn't be contemplating marriage anyway. There is no need to shack up before marriage.
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
16412
I believe so. It's in the bible. Fornication (sex before marriage) should not be committed. Share that special something with that special someone.
681706
I think that there are spiritual elements to sexuality that make virginity important to marriage. Not essential, but still important.
1092473
Never. Unless they are married. God gave us sex as an intimate expression of love between husband and wife and for procreation. Sex solidifies the bond between husband and wife. It's not supposed to be a casual thing between unmarried people.
117461
I dont think it has anything to do with maturity but i think that sex before marriage is good. If your mate cant please you in the bed it may cause problems in the marriage.so you should find out before
197908
i think it's good your still a virgin. I'm 25 and still one. I'm one who still believes you need to be married to have sex.
16474
Sex in marriage is sweet but it isn't truly the point! It matters little how frequent or little. What matters is the heart and soul of the relationship and what it is founded upon. I agree sex is a need in marriage, but other issues and aspects are far more important and over the years sex becomes less and less important next to the other far more important areas involved in a marriage. yes sex is important and desperatly needed but at times. Only you can answer this between yourself and your spouce.
145791
When you're ready to have sex you are ready to have sex.  If it's before marriage, cool.  If you're not ready until marriage, that's cool too.\nI think sexy before marriage is a good thing.  People speak of how it's more special when you save it.  But honestly if you wait until you're married you're going to suck at it.  Not being able to please your spouse on your honeymooon (a very special occasion) would be a shame.  On the other hand, if both partners are inexperieced they'll at least have a chance to grow and learn about sex together.\nHowever, I think it would be foolish to marry a person you've never slept with.  Sex is a very big part of relationships and if you marry a person without knowing  whether or not they can please you sexually you may find yourself in a very dissatisfied marriage.\nJust think about this:  Would you buy a new car without ever giving it a test drive?
152993
no  dear  it  is  not  necessary  .but  it  is  true  to  whom you  love  from  heart  will  come  to  you  one  day .really\nbut  it  should  be  true love
369566
Having sex before marriage!
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
1013995
OMG! You need to be married of right now! \n\nor\n\nIt's natural, everyone does it, if they don't they are lying or in denial. Not to mention it makes you feel better, and it's safer than having sex at this day and age, with all the STDs and pregnancies.