i was going to little whiskers for a few drinks but i heard a dude got really beat up there is it safe to go?
151210
Any place that sells alcohol has the potential to be unsafe.
1102273
I know for a fact that not all guys in a bar are scum. I was a stripper for 4 years. I recently quit due to back problems, but I still keep in touch with alot of my regulars because we became real good friends. I am married, so nothing nasty. \nYou just have to be careful because there are some scumbags out there.
647993
It's good to be skeptic. How do they "promise". DO they have a guarantee? Even if they do have a "guarantee", read it. It might be so watered down that it's worthless.\n\nVisit a few local bars and ask the bartenders there. They'll know better than anyone else. Better yet, visit ALL the local bars in your area....
1097304
It sounds like maybe he bruised it...it could be from too much sex...or maybe some girl got ticked at him and kicked him in the crotch!! Either way...if it doesnt get better...he needs to see a doctor.
263754
You should never beat on him.  But, honestly, tell him if it is making you uncomfortable, or if you are interested. :)
1015039
It's funny because I've been there before at night and found it to be perfectly safe, but who knows? There are obviously people who disagree with me, so just be smart and safe. If something looks sketchy, get out of the area. It just takes some common sense and you should be fine.
958846
Wow. Tricky situation. I feel for you. \n\nAre you able to find out about previous similar incidents at the school at what happened to the people involved? Or other schools, to work out what the precedent is in these cases.\n\nI wonder if the Citizen's advice bureau might be able to offer\nsome advice? \n\nYour point that you haven't been trained to deal with situations is a good one. At the end of the day, you only swore, no one got hurt. Sounds as if this is the first time you've been involved in anything like this, and, if you've put up with all the knocks and bangs from before you must be pretty devoted to the job. I hope they'll be lenient. \n\nGood luck.
1155229
Its okay. Everyone has probally done that at least once. Have fun and be safe.
804987
may be for sex. better be careful with him
83981
yes and kill him even \n\nyou can do so much damage with physical violence and a little fight could land you in jail for life...just don't do it
808871
The question that you should ask is....Is his life worth a job?  He should've just called off and taken the consequences for it.  Businesses will always expect you there but the personal choice is ultimately up to you.  I hope he makes it home safe and sound!
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.
897920
Ummmm....you were "all over each other" in front of his friends....and yet what bothered you was kissing him in front of his friends?  Sounds a little odd to me.  And it might have been odd for him, too.  The fact that you were drinking, and I am assuming he was, too...also has a lot to do with the awkward morning after.  Amazing what people do after knocking a few back.  I would say, give him a call when you are STONE SOBER and see what's up.  If you were all over each other as you say, surely you can talk to this guy.  Find out if he wants to hook up for lunch or dinner or any other activity where alchol will not be a contributing factor to your actions.  You will know then if he is still interested, or if you blew it at the strip club by letting him ???
253128
Well if he hits you. you shouldn't even need to ask this question you should have respect for yourself and leave him, I know its hard for you but its not healthy for you. Once you get away you will be better off
1177859
He is probably going through a bad patch of some kind. Have you spoken to him about it (I don't mean confronted). Often just a little gentle reminder of the dangers of drink will be enough to calm him down again. If it doesn't you have to make a choice.\nBeing with a drunk is never a good thing and often leads to violence. Even if it happens once get out of there and don't look back.
879287
Yes, if i were you i would just leave the issue alone.  As long as you know what happened, dont worry what the rest of the town says.  That is life in a small town for you.  Everyone yaps but no one knows the truth.  Sometimes in order to be the bigger man its best to stay silent.   :)
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.