big relationship question?
145274
If you really love him then fight for him. Prove that you are the best girl in the world for him.
219336
I would bring it up with him. You are already living together which is a huge part of marriage and so what's the holdup?
738652
I have to agree with groovy.  Maybe his constant asking needed to be addressed.  Just apologize for the way you addressed it and talk it through.  Have a small gift from the heart that will answer that question from now on so that it never has to be said and your relationship can continue to move on.
550664
It's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes I make decisions, sometimes my boyfriend and soulmate Tony does. But we always help each other when we're in the process. We talk things over and come to a conclusion. Otherwise, we will always think about each other and the consequences and such before making a decision if the other isn't there to discuss the decision with. We love each other so we compromise or come to a conclusion.
371956
two people can feel they are right for each other when they first meet, definately. i had it happen to me, five months ago. we were together for a couple of weeks and then i had to go back home... its been 4 months and i still havent even thought of having a relationship with anyone else. we talk every day, the feeling Is still the same. so the point is, it can last, for sure! :)
70457
Are any of those 8 worth losing the one that you have in your life. you have to be honest with yourself. everything looks good from the outside looking in. if she believes in you and willing to stick with you, my man, it's a no brainer! put that attention you're putting into thinking about the 8 into your woman and you'll find out this is not even an issue
313046
Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
543674
Stay honest, if both partners know what you're doing you may be suprised by their acceptance.  If they don't want that kind of relationship then you've lost very little.  It's much easier to live guilt free, no matter what you like to do. Just be honest with everyone you come in contact with.
235968
Nothing. He's already showing you your future with him and how he is while in a relationship with someone. Men/women are creatures of habit.
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
476059
I think if you have a long relationship, most of the times it never works out. But if you both really love each other it can work out. (i hope it does in ur case). JUST HAVE TRUST IN EACH OTHER, and it will workout
141810
I think it's a personal question that has to be addressed individually. It depends on what is important to you. If you have an absolute need to know what the other person is like every day, all the time, then perhaps you should. Or if you believe in love and what a commitment to marriage means, then take the faith that you love this person no matter what their personal habits. You can get to know a person's character without living with them, but again, it's up to you and them. As for strengthening a relationship, more studies show that it doesn't, but everybody's different. You also have to think about your potential kids and what kind of an example would you want to set for them? Years down the road what are you going to want to be able to say to them about moving in with their partners? That usually will reflect what is in your own heart and you should listen to that.
420576
If you have to ask this question, the relationship is on it's way out, anyway.  Move on.  Why wait?\n\nGood luck.
304459
If both people are truly in love with each other and are able to effectively communicate with each other, then addressing this issue shouldn't cause any permanent hurt and could lead to a fun time of mutual exploration. Be honest with him and tell him what you like and let him know how much you like it when he does.
259747
What is a big relationship? Any relationship is a big deal to many people. As for whether a best friend should ok it. Well, if the friend is smart, they'll let their friend make her own decisions. That way, if things don't go well they won't have to take the blame.
530625
go with your heart but don't let it rule you 100% listen to both the good and bad fairies on your shoulders an dthink it all through i suggest you write a list of pros and cons for the relationship and once written the answer will be clear from that... good luck x
282178
No, it's not wrong. We all get to this level differently.I would just be honest with him. He won't have a problem waiting longer if he's truly into you. It's called communication and if you can't discuss these small things what's going to happen when you run into the really big ones?