I lost a girl who I love very much because of my stupid mistakes.  What should I do?
157221
First off ... don't give up hope.  Is there something you can do?  No, not really.  Try to talk to her, but also realize that people are sometimes not meant to be.  Don't waste your precious time worrying about the past.  There are a lot of women out there .... maybe by losing her, you can now go out and find "the One" ... Good Luck .... it sucks to get hurt, but that is all a part of the game called "love".  More than anything .... LEARN from your mistakes ..... Enjoy life and don't get down about it.  Love comes from all sides .... and usually when you least expect it :)
558503
Keep doing what you are doing. (I have been there too)\nThe truth is, time heals all wounds. It takes a long time to heal from loving someone. You may never truly forget her. You will love again. It wont be the same, BUT IT WONT BE ANY LESS.\nIt will keep hirting you if you keep taling to her, seeing her. You need to give youreslf time and space, away from her. \nIf she calls you again, tell her that. She should be willing to respect that.\nI'm sorry. I know you are hurting. Good luck.
284735
hey well one sorry to hear that. two well the best thing i think you can do is go talk to her. find out exactly why she broke up with you. if the chemistry just wasn't there for her you will have to find a way to move on. if it was something else that can be fixed well than talk to her and maybe you can fix it. goodluck and i wish you all the best.
92790
By taking it one day at a time. and working on the things you can control. \n\nWork on dating new people, and learning what you like in women. She has left you and is not comming back so you might as well move on also. \n\nIt's your choice you can pine over a lost love or work on making new memories with someone new. the choices are up to you. \n\nI would suggest reading the book\nWho moved my cheese it's small and oh so wonderful for helping you look at your life with a critical eye. \n\nThen I would suggest readong smart love. \n\nMay God Bless your life.
1174679
Admit you made a mistake - because anyone who does that never loved you anyway. correct your life - by taking out the trash (your mate). brush yourself off and get your head on straight and tell yourself he is not worth your tears. Learn from your mistakes and get on with your life. \n\nbest of luck.
137246
No matter what happened to cause this, it's up to you to get in touch with her and fix the problem.  You have to be willing to forgive and go forward.  You start out by letting her know that you love her and that are willing to have an open mind about whatever choices she had made in her life and go from there.  Now if she's not willing to talk right then and there, let her know that she can always call you no matter what.  One other thing, never pass judgment on her.  Give advice, but let her know that it's her choice.
369621
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
96277
Keep going with your ralationship with her, but keep your eyes open at the same time. Maybe she is with you because she needs something to fill the hole in her broken heart for the moment, but how can you be sure she is loving you because of who you are. Think about when you are about to drown, you would grab anything you can get with the hope it would help you not to sink in the water ... Don't soak yourself in the pain of what had happened, but try to understand why it happened, why and how she (and he) did that ... This will help you to realized better who they really are ...\nKeep the ralationship longer, and sooner or later you will find out if she truelly loves you, because of who you are, and is the right person for you, before you make your life's important decition.\nLook forward, be a man and good luck !
301600
I THINK every one learns from it's mistakes, so be cool and relax u should be thank full to your self that u commit ed a mistake that will learn you much in your life. if such situation arises in near future u will be well prepared for it.
236069
write her a love letter on folder paper with a crayong....go grade school again...and say that when you were young and stupid you didnt realize how lucky you had it, and ask her to give you another chance. \nthat would be quite cute.
382876
Look I know how is it,but the truth is love is only that matters.That's your first mistake. The second is- your rushing things-getting over takes time.Don't over analise things. If it's not too late- you can still be with her,but who knows - one day you might be rich and able to feel confident but in her heart to be just a bitter memory?! You never now
1035324
Hope you didn't give her any $$$. Cheer up, you'll forget about her eventually. She doesn't even deserve someone like you.
1109887
well talk to her in person and say i made a mistake \n\n               "boys are whatever and friends are forever"
33088
bigskullfan doesn't know what he's talking about. Consider yourself lucky to have gotten rid of those who've done you wrong and look some more. Remember love happens when you don't expect it b/c you're not trying too hard. Or try forgiving those who've done you wrong. Good luck!
465576
She must have been hurt beofore. Ask her and if yes take it easy with her. If you love her that much you will wait.
900910
just tell her you made a mistake, apologize, and ask if she can come back. What's the worst that could happen.\n\ngood luck
690098
Move on. There are lots of girls out there and at least you figured out that she didn't like you before majorly embarrassing yourself, so look at the bright side.