If you found out your girlfriend was in a porno would you still want to be with her?
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Here is a girls honest opinion.There is nothing wrong w/ porn .However some porn has no condom or controseptive involved,my worry for a man finding out his girlfriend did porn would be this...How many people will you be sleeping with by staying with her?What diseases would you be sharing every time you show her your love?So I think you should stick to watching it not sleeping with it.
661761
Who would want to watch their bf or gf have sex with another? not me. She is just saying that if you and her was dating only person you would have sex with is her.
145332
No you should not because your girlfriend doesn't have any fantasies the only fantasy she has ever had was to be with you and she has that.  Trust me I no her!!!!!!!
54781
I would have to say if I was cheated on by a girlfriend/fiancee/wife...
731062
we jsut pretend to hide it so when you find we can be all " omg what are you doing looking through that stuff! my friend sent it to me" in reality we just dont care. want your man to stop looking at porn? then supply him with enough pics and videos of you wearing, doing, saying all kinds of kinky stuff. chances are we will still look at porn though.
933875
Umm, I'd say probably.\nWhy don't you suggest watching it with her ON your honeymoon.  Maybe naked and in bed?
1171093
When your girlfriend walks in and catches you looking at Internet Porn.
292423
well is it a dating site too i would be pissed off but if it is just a porn site enjoy do it with him  but if that is all he wants to do i would evaluate your relationship because i would consider that cheating and you are worth alot more than that respect yourself and ask him what is going on if he doesnt seem to care dump him and find someone that will love you for you i dont think though that there is any thing wrong having fun with porn and fantisizing but it can go to far im sure jyou will figure it out
4586
I dont really have the expertise to answer this question, but from listening to many many wonderful chastity speeches, I know that the way that it will affect your relationship the most is the same way it will if you watch porn. Men who take part in these things are proned to a dissatisfication that develops in their relationship because there are these women or photographs of women who will pleasure you whenever you want, no strings attached. It may create restlessness in you where even though you promise to be loyal to her, your old habits will die hard.
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I think you need to ask yourself if she is the type of person who would do that. Then determine if your sex life with her has changed. Is it less frequent? Is it not as satisfying? If she is the type that would cheat or has in the past, then chances are she has or will. If she isn't and there is significant change in your sex life, then you need to discuss your reason for asking this question with her. Like other have stated, her eyes will tell you the answer.
167253
Put on a porn film just while having sex with your wife!\nShe could be agree and consequentially you could lose interest in it.
290139
If my girlfriend was doing that I would drop her in a heartbeat!
538429
Yes.  But don't think of it as jealousy, think of it as disgust.  Why ARE you looking at porn anyway? It's perverted. Your girlfriend has every right to be disgusted by it, and if you keep it up, it's not going to get any better.  Read "Every Man's Battle" by Arterburn & Stoeker.\n\nIt talks about porn and other male "issues" .  My friend read it, he said it was good even though he dosen't struggle with porn... he thinks porn is nasty too...
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As long as you're both comfortable with watching it, I would say no. It can spice up your sex life and possibly introduce you to new ideas, although porn sex isn't usually that realistic, especially as far as women are portrayed. If you both have no moral or religious reason not to, why not? After watching some, you can check in with each other to make sure that you're both still comfortable and not jealous or anything like that.
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It's not wrong that you feel that way.  Anyone in your shoes would need relief.  But it would be wrong if you actually did it. Talking to your gf about it would be a great idea, but do it in an open honest, nonthreatening way. It would be a compliment to her to know that you miss her (and want her) but you are being faithful to her anyway, and that you love her enough to be honest with her. (Not to mention she is having a hard time with this too just like you, and hearing you talk about it would also encourage her)  \n\nAlso you do have my props for doing the right thing so far. Again anyone in you situation who would claim not to "need relief" would be lying. It is a hard thing to go through and I commend you for being honest. I also commend you for being faithful up to this point. Just hang in there. You might consider this a test in your relatinship. If you do remain faithful, trust me when she gets back you will reap benefits (in every way) far greater than what you have had before. Trust me I've been there.  It's hard, but as hard as it  is it's well worth it! On the other hand, if you do have an affair, (at this point) it will only be out of weakness and not love or even desire, and you will hate yourself and be miserable for doing it, so spare yourself the misery and don't. \n\nAlso in the meantime, the best way you can deal with the struggle is to pray about it. If that sounds creepy to you, try porn (if you must, though you'll feel bad later for it). In all honesty, I've tried both and prayer actually works alot better (God even takes away feelings of guilt and frustration, whereas porn adds them)But that's just my experience. If you don't believe me try for yourself.
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damn jeff, that question sounds a little 'brokeback mountain' if you know what i mean.\n\nnext time preface the question with "my girlfriend wants to know.........
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My view of it: lying is not OK. Looking at porno - it is up to a couple, whatever they agree upon - is the rule they set for themselves. Apparently, you guys agreed (or was it just you?) that he won't be looking at it. Now he is looking at it and lying about it. He apparently doesn't know how to TALK and re-negotiate the arrangement that doesn't work for him or the promise he cannot keep. \n\nI don't like when my husbant looks at porno. He knows it very well and he doesn't do it in my presence. I know that he didn't agree to stop looking at it, so I don't go after him. But I don't care about too much so I don't make a big fuss about it. I'm not saying this is the right thing to do. I'm just sharing what I do.