How do you overcome losers?
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What's your question exactly?\n\nJudo pinning is useful.
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To be successful you must learn to handle defeat.A lot of people who are perfectly fine when things are going their way become total basketcases when anything goes wrong.
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That's a tough one. Because we're such a competitive society in nearly everything we do, it's difficult to not get swept up in it. Kids start out taking the lead from their parents, so as long as you continue to act the same way whether they win or lose, that will help. \n\nThe other side of it is the inevitable peer pressure that comes from friends and teammates. This will be harder to affect, but as long as you're there to talk with him (or her) and let him know that while losing is never fun, that it represents a learning opportunity, on what to focus on to improve, that he can be the one to help motivate the team and be a leader by playing hard and giving his best no matter what the outcome.  If he does that, he'll always be a winner.\n\nOne final thing, let him know that everyone one loses at sometime in life, and the difference between a winner and a loser is that the winner didn't stop trying when he lost.
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never give up\ngo the extra mile\ndo what the other guy wont
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Just try to get out of the habit.  It could be a great first step to let them know you would like to do better too.  Stick with it keeping in mind that it will take some time to change yourself, and how others react to you.\nGood work, and good luck, I'm sure you will be happier.\n\nps Only those with limited life experience would ever confuse a nice person with a weak person.
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another thing to do is to say it, blog about it, tell everyone what you are doing, your accomplishments and your failures (which in the long run there are non)\n\nRemember it's a long journey.\n\nAnother thing that has helped me is finding a motivational buddy. Someone I can relate and talk to, and someone that can kick my ass when I'm not doing good.\nTry finding one, if not I can help you out.
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Make a new friend. Start a hobby. Volunteer. In other words, keep busy and make friends. You'll put these traitors in the past and feel better.
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be yourself and have self-confidence...don't think in advance as you can be failed or become a loser...everyone fails and we must admit that. be responsible enough being a human and always think that whoever person is in authority, he also gets failure because no one is perfect in this world even you and me.
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Good old fashion way,  Whip them.\n\nKidding aside, there are a lot of things that you can do.  One popular method is to establish a reward system.
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how about..moving around, get some exercise and eat right if you are uncomfortable with your weight.\n\nits a pain in the ass, but its the only way.\n\nunless you cheat and take drugs, which is worse than giving in, thats just giving up,
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try this site: www.how can i be more of a loser . com
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Tony Robbins says that pain either breaks us, or motivates us.  Try to find out why you were dumped, and do something to fix it.  Work on self improvement projects - look better, work out, get a good hair style, read self improvement books, etc.  Anything you can do to improve yourself.  It will make you feel better.  You will become more attractive to the opposite sex.  Don't focus on the problem.  This will not cause it to go away.  Force yourself to think positive.  Eventually you WILL be thinking positive.  Set goals.  Set a goal to go on a date with someone new in the next month.  Improve yourself everyday in some way.  Get OUT of your house and DO something.  I've been there myself, and it is tough.  You have to BREAK this pattern in radical way.
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1st, nice avatar!\n2nd, anyone who makes fun of another's appearance is a loser\n3rd, might try some neck-stretching type exercises\n4th, IF you are overweight - only IF - try losing a few lbs.
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You mean "lose"?  Only one way that always works:\n\nEat less.\nExercise more.
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First, stop caring. Yes, I know its hard but let it go. Remove yourself from negative influences that put you down like family and friends. Minimize your time with them and get rid of them. Smile, fake happiness until you feel it. Establish goals that aren't people related. Goals that are hard but ones that you are able to accomplish, a new career position, better physical conditioning, knowledge etc. Believe you are the greatest thing in the whole universe.
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Stay quiet and stay out of the way.  Witty comebacks and smart-assed remarks don't work because the bully is rarely smart enough to understand.  You can't win with a stupid person because they are too stupid to understand they've lost.  Just stay under the radar until you are out of school.  Then, when you're their boss, you will have the last laugh.
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With a little effort one can retrain their patterns but it takes(and develops) ones will power. Don't be too hard on yourself and reward your successes.