If you felt a person was lying to you how would you approach them about it??
146080
It depends what the topic was and who it is... For example if its a good friend or coworker I am striaght up with them and ask them..\nIf its a girlfriend try asking questions about it from a different angle
648500
well for a start,a real friend would'nt lie...my belief is tell the truth and shame the devil..you get nowhere lying,and your in big troublewhen the truth comes out..i have a policy where my kids or friends get told,the worst thing anyone could do to me is lie...its a trust thing :o)
1081026
Talk to them about how you feel.  Tell them you want to hear the truth and are tired of them lying all the time.  The only way they are going to change is if they realize they have a problem and they make an effort to start telling the truth.
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
656181
good on you for telling her off.\nThey are probably continuing more discreetly.\nFace it, they both lied to you until you found them out.
288783
She is lying to you. Find someone else.
1035907
Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
645309
i believe your a liar. of course i would/wouldn't believe them. i mean, if i know them well, i could tell they're lieing, but if the person is telling the truth then the person wouldn't be a liar. if its a good liar then it's hard to say unless you really know them, but if it's a bad liar then u can tell they are lieing. if a liar sayed they were a liar then, she/he would be telling the truth, which wouldn't make them a liar at all. but if a truthful person said it, then they would be telling a lie, because they don't lie. so it would be called a ," triar" a person how both lies and says the truth. and if they werea triar and said it, then they would be saying a lith which is both the lie and the truth. what a random question.
231169
WELL~ ppl always say DONT YOU LIE TO ME. but we are now living in a world where lie is everywhere. I think whether you are going to tell the truth or not ,is depending on who you are dealing wiht. What do you tihnk of him. YOU lie coz, you think you are protecting from the bad so he wont get hurt, coz, you think you know better than he does, and you should decide his life? what kinda desicsion he iwll make? or you lie for yourself.\nI dont think lying is a big deal, ONLY IF its good for both of you.\nSo, i said, Lie, that means, you care and love him, When you found that you dont even worry about this lie thing, he/she means nothing to you. To lie is to care :D
892644
i would confront her and tell her how you feel anout what she says and stuff.
670470
i would ask him what he is afaid of -- if he tells you the truth?- tell him if its nothing to worry about he should tell you everything -- the only reason for a person to lie, is usually because they have something that they don;t want you to find out, for lots of reasons, to protect you, to make sure you don't get mad, for fear of you getting so mad that you would leave   i say confront him and if he cant tell you the truth-- he dosn;t trust you-- thats my personal opinion  i have dealt with this before and ultimatly i left him-- I never got the truth out of him unless we faught then he told me and as allways it was never anything big- tis jsut the fact that he never respected me enough to confide in me--- i think its  a power trip- so they feel like they have some sort of control
150695
There are often cues and signs that someone may be lying. There may also be understandable reasons for the lie.\n \n1.  Look for body language that might indicate someone is lying, such as not looking you in the eye when speaking to you, being fidgety, or acting nervous or uncomfortable.\n \n2.  Listen for inconsistencies in what the person tells you, such as different stories on different days, different time frames, mistakes in remembering details or mixing up details.\n \n3.  Notice if the person steadfastly resists answering any questions. Extreme defensiveness could mean that he or she is trying to hide something.\n \n4.  Notice if the person accuses you of lying or being deceitful when you really haven't been. This could reflect the other person's own underlying behavior, which he or she is projecting onto you rather than owning up to it.\n \n5.  Listen to your gut and intuition. You may just know someone is lying. If you are not sure, don't jump to conclusions. Try to get some evidence to back up your hunch.\n \n6.  Consider asking directly if the person has lied to you. Many people feel bad getting caught up in lies, and find it a relief to finally be honest.\n \n7.  Try to be understanding and listen to the person's reasons for lying. Was he trying not to hurt you? Was she afraid you would be angry, upset or disappointed?\n \n8.  Look at your possible role in having someone lie to you. Are you someone who gets so upset hearing the truth that others feel they can't be honest with you?
642739
First things first, you have to find out the truth about what happened. Then you make them feel guilty by saying something like "Why would you lie to me about that?" or "How could you not trust me with the real truth?" (That one might work better... lol). Then you don't talk to them for a while and let him/her sweat it out a little bit, and when they ask you why you aren't talking to them simply say "I'm sorry, but I cannot be friends with someone who is going to lie to me." Then when they apologize, say to them "It's ok, but it's going to take me a while to trust you again". That will make them feel really guilty and they won't want to lie to you again... but that's only if they care about you a lot. Good luck... I hope you and your friend make up soon. :)
196582
Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
1181659
Tell her to fess up to whatever she was untruthful about.  Its not good to deceive anyone especially someone you have feelings for.
71880
You should ask him directly something you know he will lie about and you have proofs about the lie. I dont think you necessarily should do it in front someone else, but tell the liar next time you catch him lying there you will tell relatives and friends about his behavour and spread all around that he is not reliable.