is it ok for your boyfriend to choose you over his best friend that hates me?
146585
u should feel proud with him cause he choose u over his best frenz...that mean that hes really2 love u...cherish him girl make him feel that what ever he does,he got the support from u
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
708476
no. your bf should of had the decency to keep you away from him without being asked to do so. im sure hes the type that thinks hes helping his friend or being loyal. but if it was my gf id of fucked my friend off a long time ago.
555496
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
1074895
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
285139
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
975215
you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
157506
If he really wants to be your boyfriend then he should be the one making his friends back off.  By doing that he would show that he cares and respects you.  By letting his friends get away with presuring you he is putting them before you.  Stick to your guns and don't do anything you don't want to, and if he won't do something about it then he isn't worthy of you.
242317
This isn't a situation of boyfriend advice. It's full out relationship common sense that's on the table here.\n\nFrom your description, your boyfriend wants your attention exclusively. Which is why you're great when alone together. He's not comfortable sharing you with others for whatever reason. Maybe he feels they'll convince you to leave him, or maybe it's that he doesn't like your friends. I don't know, but there is a reason. Whatever the reason, it needs to be discussed between you two and sorted out.\nIf you don't sort it out and you stay together it means only two choices. Either you're the fighting couple or you'll be your own company and not have other social activities.\n\nWhat this comes down to is what you want for your life. Remember, this is a relationship, a two-way street. If you want to still have your friends and he doesn't that is his choice, just as it was his choice to stop having his friends. Yes, you made the same choices, but you want to turn those around and have your friends as well as have him.\n\nTalk with him. Find out why he's so jealous. If it's something that can be worked out, then great. If it's not, then you have to take a look at the direction the relationship is going and what you want for your life. Decisions will have to be made and they won't be easy ones.\n\nI wish you the best and I hope I helped in some way.\n\nUpdate:\nI just saw your update and wanted to add this.\nYou've had these talks and from your description they're not moving anywhere.\nFrankly, it's time to make a decision for yourself. You can't hold back your life waiting for something to become resolved. Take action and make a decision. I think you should lay it on the line and tell him that either it's got to change or it's over. From all you're saying that seems to be the choices that are out there. Don't be afraid to put it on the line and make the hard decision.\nIt will all work out. I'm sure of that.
609148
Well, I hope you're not friends with your best friend anymore because that's not what I call a true friend. She told you she would never go out with your ex because she loved you like a sister, but that's not the case. You should have never dated your ex-boyfriend's best friend either. If you like other guys such as your ex's best friend than you're not in love. You may really like your ex, but there are other guys out there. Your ex is not worth it. Not only is your friend doing you wrong he is to by being with her.
87769
I would hope that if he's your boyfriend that he already knows that you like him. \n\nTo answer your question regarding how your boyfriend chooses and interacts with his friends, I have a few thoughts that I'd love to share. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, however, he needs to be guarded with how he interacts with you, and if he's serious about you, he needs to make sure that you're ok with his actions.\n\nThis next comment may be a little bit extreme, but it's good food for thought. One way to gauge one's actions is to consider everyone else as someone else's husband or wife. So a question he needs to ask himself could be 'Would I act this way with a married woman'. \n\nThe part that is most difficult with this is that you can't change how he acts. You should definately talk to him about it, and if it bothers you, then he needs to know that it does. If he's serious about his relationship with you, then his actions should change if he knows it bothers you.
526579
I would try to balance the two. Just remember, boyfriends come and go, friends are forever. No one should ask you to choose though. I always try to be fair on both sides. Nothing worse then when a friend ignores their friends to be totally with their boyfriend.
108747
Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
219083
Well..We don't want your boyfriend to get jealous...Who ever you have feelings for the most, go for...But know that you will probably damage their friendship...And ask yourself is it worth it...
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.