suppose u are excellent in everything in school and a lot of people are jealous of u ,then what do u do?
156969
dont rub it in, be modest. then you can truely be perfect
374587
Nobody ever feels like they're good enough for anything. Even the top students at my school don't feel like they're good enough. The important thing is to study.  "What you do is always more important than what you should be doing" -forgot the author's name. Don't worry. Life always works out somehow.
547948
Aren't you proud of yourself?  Are you self-proclaimed or did someone poll the whole state to determine you are the best?  Do me a favor kid, and don't start tooting your own horn until you've done something worthwhile.  And then you would be much better off letting someone else tell everyone how good you are.  Modesty actually is a good quality, regardless of what others may tell you.
17864
Listen to your parents advice, get good grades in school and do something good for the community or society that will make you feel good and satisfied........With all these qualities oozing from you girls will die for you.....I bet.
368143
They might be jealous of you. People like to mess with people and hurt their feelings. When I was in school they always called mr names. You might be a cool person to be around. Be yourself and don't think what others think of you. You're just as good as anyone else.
623569
Don't worry about what others think of you. Be your self it is after all who you are.\n\nI do not worry about wether someone hates me or not. Face it we can not please everyone so quit trying so hard to do so. By trying to please everyone, people will see you as a push over and will in the end will take advantage of you.\n\nBe yourself and do what ever it is that makes you you. As long as you are not breaking laws or hurting people, be you.
1134860
Go anyways. So what if your not that good. Its a learning experience and it builds character. In order to survive in this world anymore your self-esteem has to be so high that nothing phases you. Who cares what other people think.
452023
Relax, a lot of us have been in the same situation.  I was never one to have many friends and because I was one of the smallest in my class a lot of people often tried to pick on me.  I learned that the best thing to do is simply not care about what other people think or say.  I learned to accept who I was and the fact that a lot of people are just mean or idiots.  In the end I had a few good friends and people left me alone because they found out they didn't matter to me and the things they said and did didn't bother me.  If they know what they do affects you then they keep doing it just because they get a reaction out of you.
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the higher you go in grade level, the more is expected of you. not saying this to scare you, but is a fact of life. keep all your old friends and also make some new ones. don't give in to peer pressure or become someone you're not. might want to consider some extra-curricular activities for social and academic reasons. just have fun and relax.
1003352
You are an "over-achiever", and no matter what you do, or how good it is, it's never good enough to please you. Now that you know you have that particular problem, when you achieve things, praise yourself, and be proud of what you've accomplished. Do some things that are rather difficult to do, and when you do them, pat yourself on the back ,and say "Well Done!"
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Just learn how to ask people about themselves and when they answer be a very good listener and show interest in what they are saying.  People will think you are a great friend and a great person.  It's amazing what will happen.  You will become the most popular person in the group.
926050
believe in yourself.  When you leave highschool most of these people you will probably never see again. There is a WHOLE huge world out there you know?  And it really doesn't matter what they think. LOVE YOURSELF .. you are the one that has to live with you
273328
You don't. That's just the way they are. Unless you want to be ugly and unliked. Maybe it will die down once you get out of school. Maybe.
1044674
you can't-- as the old saying goes-- you can't please everyone/ no matter what you do, or how you act... there will always be people who appreciate your qualities... and also "haters"  either they are jealous, or just miserable people... but!  you cannot let other peoples' opinion of you dictate the way you view yourself-- or let others' opinions change you in a negative way, otherwise you will be in a perpetual state of trying to please others.. and you cannot win that battle, without losing others.
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i know its hard baby girl..but you have got to get a backbone and love you for you...YOU MUST ignore everyone else and be happy with yourself..i've been in your shoes before ..wondering why everyone is popular except me...or what made me "lame"........or how come couldn't be like everyone else....but I had to learn that everyone is DIFFERENT your supposed to be DIFFERENT.....\n\nTrust me NOBODY is going to give two shits what those popular kids did when they were in high school, once you leave that little world you know as middle school and high school you will see that there is FAR MORE in this world to worry about ..(trust me).....IF YOU TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE ELSE IN THIS WORLD..THEN YOU WILL END UP HATING YOURSELF...WHY?...BECAUSE YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD......one way or another someone is going to have something to say about you...and you have just got to learn how to keep your head up and tell them that hey..if they dont like YOU FOR YOU..they can just buzz off......\n\nDONT EVER TRY TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY..BECAUSE IN THE END YOU ONLY NEED TO PLEASE YOU....IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF,AND  HAVE DIGNITY, AND DON'T TAKE ANY BULL SH** FROM ANYONE..THEN PEOPLE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO RESPECT YOU OR LEAVE YOU ALONE......\n\nyou want to be so "perfect" in everybody else's eyes...but have you ever tried to be "perfect" in your own eyes first?.....please you, be happy with you FIRST....YOU COME FIRST,,,,,so pick up your backbone put it back in your BACK and walk like you have some pride young lady.........YOU are UNIQUE ..\n\nthink like this..YOU DONT NEED TO PLEASE ANYONE, THEY NEED TO PLEASE YOU!.....
388755
Growing up I attended 3 different junior high schools.  Each had a rewarding experience.  The first one, I had all my friends...and because of it, I clowned around to much and got poor grades.  The second school, I was lost, had no friends...but my grades were awesome!  By the time I got to the 3rd school...I learned how to be popular again by coming in contact with so many new faces each year...I really opened up and had a blast...and my grades stayed above average.\n\nGo to the new school.  Each new experience makes us a stronger individual.
422798
PPl are jealous that u have things? then that is their problem. dont let it bother u.  This is their problem