What do you do when people talk bad about you in front of your face?
149741
I pretend I didn't hear them.  I would also try to act happy to prove that I don't care about what they say.  \nMe is Me.  I am high class and they are low class.
50961
bcuz if you say f--- this and f--- that people will thik poorly of you. they'll think you have nothing more intelligent to say. basically people think your a stupid bad mouth.
961287
for 1 if the person talks about others then they will talk about you.No I wouldn't join them I would actually say something like this.I'm sorry ,but i really don't want to here things about her or him.I know that person and if u have something you need to say then tell her because I don't like it when somone is talking about someone I know behind there back.Wheathere you know the person or not it's not nice to talk behind someones back.
571962
Same thing I do when someone stupid wants to talk to me. I smile and nod and every once in a while I say "I'm sorry" Most people feel better after they have vented. Even if your not paying one bit of attention to any words they are saying!
699187
They won't listen to you honestly.... sorry to say. SO wait it out, take their remarks and comments, and when they're through thinking your a perve, they'll come around.
582797
Depending on the comment. If someone is trying to 'constructively' provide you with some information to help you - I'd listen. Also be careful of the source. If someone is just mouthing off because they fear you, or don't like you, I'd shrug it off. You have to be strong in your own spirit to accept comments of any kind from people. As a singer, I heard them all. Even the praises can be misleading and misdirectional. People will do what they can do get what they can out of you. You must be alert and aware of the deceptions that take place. Ex. If a teacher told you something that appeared negative - it is probabaly something to help you. Listen to the way people tell you things. Their tone of voice can indicate if they really have your best interest at heart, or if they want to hurt you. Listen up.
755209
As honest as you can, or just avoid them. Rude people usually find out the hard way. People call me rude but I like to be honest. There is a difference. Never hurt someones feelings on purpose, but never lie to them either.
618807
Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
240797
Friends don't talk about you behind your back, haters do that. Friends confront you privately and it is up to you to let others know about what the friend has said.
471971
Well just keep in mind always, you only live once you should live it for you and be who you want to be. When it comes to speaking up it depends who your talking about speaking up too. I say usually speak your mind cause that helps define you and dont worry about what other people think of you because reguardless you'll get people who like you and people who dont. Just ignore the haters. BE YOU, its the easiest person you can be. You'll always be the best at it too cause only you know how to be you. Just think if he/she doesnt like what i have to say there will always be someone who does like what i'm saying. lol this doesnt mean speak up though in the sense of telling someone there ugly or such lol. When speaking up keep peoples feelings in mind and you'll be safe. Goodluck.
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
393507
Rise above it definately, well you should try to anyway. yet in this day and age that is not that easy.\nPeople who chat about others have such a low self esteem about themselves that all they do is comment on other people.\nI have never seen a content person slagging some one else off so the person who has been talking about you must be feeling bad about themselves. If you look at it like that you can see that you have already won the argument!!
563431
worry about what other people think
527354
you don't say anything to people like that. the best thing to do is ignore them and act like you did'nt even hear them. giving them a comment only let's them know they have got to you and encourages them to keep on.
1013905
Be who you are.  Learn to let it slide off you.  When someone insults you, either don't answer at all, or shrug like so what.  You don't have to make excuses for who you are, or feel bad about it.
435350
Someone that talks bad about you to others is not a friend! forget him and find true friends. Good luck!
560388
Ignore it. \nIf any one ask you about the rumor just say it is not true, and you don't have time for that kind of talk... ignore them... people who like rumors like to see people get mad and affected about what they've said... if you act like you don't care, they will eventually stop picking on you.