how can i forget some1 i like? i see him once every 2 weeks and i think he wants me just for sex. :(?
144385
first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
424621
Take no notice of him.\nDo you forget things easily.
925756
This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
1090763
say like hey there sexy would ya like to have sex again?I'm sure he would know then ya liked him and if he said yes well you know he likes you and you get sex for the bonus ....awesome!good luck!
788565
I wouldn't sleep with him yet. 1 month isn't long enough to be able to judge what his true motives are. Make him sweat a bit longer. If he likes you, he'll wait. If he waits, you know he's with you because he likes you, not just because he wants to get it on.
705030
Don't bring it up. If he is saying yes he wants to see you again then go for it. But just make sure that he wants to see you for the right reasons.Go slow, because when you move slow, you make him RESPECT you. Go to a movie or go to a coffee house, just make sure that he does not want you for sex. If he does, your feelings will be so hurt because you like him. If you had sex with him. then you will again, don;t bring it up,it will just happen naturally. (If he moans during sex, then you know you job is done! He's satisfied!) Use protection.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
98996
try to forget him , I know it is hard , but you will make it :-)
303095
My husband has been away for 3 years.  I see him 2 weeks every other month.  You need to occupie your mind.  Find something to do on your spare time.  So your not thinking so much about them.  You all ways have good days and bad.
1077237
If you feel right about having sex with him then go ahead. But it would be best to wait a while. If he keeps asking you constantly then dont do it. I've been use also for sex. I thought he really liked me but he didnt. He ended dumping me in a few days. Just take your time on sex. Dont rush it. Enjoy both of your company.
155559
thats hard i know im in the same situation! remind him why he loves you! dont let him forget!
365639
tell him you want to wait until having sex. he will ask "for how long?" and you will say "i don't know, until I'm ready" if he doesn't leave in a month he's not addicted. if he doesn't leave in 2, he likes you.
495484
when you really like someone such thoughts dont come in your head. They are away, on vacantion, you head is bisy with Him and next meeting with him. \nHeart beating is nothing, it is only time result. If you want check just come at home and try to spend around 1 week without him and try dont think about him. date with someone other or just meet with friends, and then you'll see, what he really means for you.
422100
Well, if your looking for a guy for more than sex than don't give him any until you get to know him.  You'll see his intentions if you hold out for a while. Then when you think this man is true to you, then you may want to proceed to another level.  \n\nAs women, we usually have good insticts about these things so if it feels like a guy just wants to use you for sex...DON"T DO IT!!!  YOU HAVE A SAY IN IT TOO!!!  \n\nDon't use sex as a tool to keep a man....if he want's to be w/ you he will stick around.
189532
If you've been intimate with him, have your blood tested for peace of mind. So sorry you fell into infatuation with a player... I did the same thing for 1 and a half years before I learned my lesson. Here's what you do... try to get your mind off of him through happy fun girlfriends who make great coffee and make you laugh :) ~blessssssss
1032177
i think u shud forget bout him cause my superticious is saying that he is not a good person because he wan to see unude but u r shy thats good because u r a good character thefact i m trying to tell u that he may also see som another girl too, who may be porn. i think its good 4 u 2 loose him. n i think he also not interrested in love. pls don mind. srry to say u that.