How can I help my husband last long in bed or go more than once ?
149302
Thats just how most men are made.\nHowever, after the initial act. Believe it or not, men don't operate off of the "thought" of getting it anymore.\nWe need actual stimulation. Give him a few minutes to recover, and then begin with hand or oral stimulation. It works great for me, and I'm 40.
192692
Reaching orgasm in 3-10 seconds happens occasionally, but shouldn't be tolerated as normal in a husband/wife relationship. Your husband needs help. There are many books on this topic and, generally speaking, they teach the man to slow down the climax tendencies by learning ways to respond and back down. One easy thing to try is by having him wear a condom, which will cut down on the sensitivity. This whole process takes time, but your husband really should be willing to work on this with you and, possibly, a medical professional.
473280
Stay. There is sooo much you can do to improve sex. Maybe just talk to him, give him gentle hints. Maybe add some toys or videos. Maybe you both can learn alternate ways to please each other. Go on line, maybe Dr. Ruth has a website that can be helpful.
1057103
Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
883175
You said it in your question, he's stressed at work.  I know from personal expirience that stress can kill any sexual relations and about him not lasting long, that is an effect of stress also.\n\nSomething that you and your husband should do, is if you have kids, leave them with grandma & grandpa, for a few days and you and your husband even if it's in town, get a motel room, or just spend time together at home.  Have him take time off work so he can relax and spend time alone with you.  Help him take his mind off things and unwind from the stress.  Give him a bath, or if there is room for the 2 of you, take a bath together.  Also talk with him about your concerns.  Also let him know that he can sexually satisfy you in other ways than penetration.  \n\nI know from expirience, I was in a job where I was stressed out and for my wife and I, our lovelife took a major hit in the bedroom.  So I can understand where your coming from.  Hope that this helps you out.\n\nTake care and God Bless
368774
Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
447512
you might need to have more foreplay before the actual intercourse.  get your husband to play with you and spend more time turning you on so that your vagina losens up and gets more lubricated.  or you can just use some KY or some other lubricant and tell him to go slowly.
137144
you can buy condoms that are thicker, or he could wear two. Also there are excercizes that he can try, like masturbating himself and then stopping before he comes, and then starting again etc.
808887
Try some bondage or some role-playing.  Keeping it fresh is the hardest thing for me too (in a relationship for 7 years now).  When the feelings of passion wear off, we have to get creative.  Even if you are sexually active, it gets old for both parties.  Try going to an adult store for ideas or look at some adult couple websites.  I think most long-time couples would say that this is the hardest area to overcome and new ideas are always welcome.
181233
You can't. And I would imagine he's not very much fun in bed either. Tell him to go see a doctor.
611988
You need a lot of foreplay, then when it's time for actual sex, it won't take you long to get off.  You could also get on top when he gets tired, then he can just lay back and enjoy.
313622
Below is an answer I gave a woman who asked a similar question about her husband. I hope the advice will help you. Good luck!\n\nTry to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
832664
So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
309573
The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
543970
if your haveing multiple orgasms tell him to finger you till you cant cum then get on top of him and reward him! Thumb's up, The more a woman cum's the better sex partner she is beleive me when she mounts up then roll over and take it babe
146708
wellll, ive heard that mast**bat!0n prior to sex will help you last longer cause the second time around guys always last longer.  Get that first nut out of the way and you should be able to go longer....
363261
i myself use to have this problem with my girlfriend but i figured out what to do...tell him to masturbate at least 3-4 times a week using the stop and go technique...he masturbates till he almost cums then have him put his hands behind his back till he almost goes limp then start again do that for bout 5-6 times and also his orgasm will be very powerful to him when he does let himself cum thats always a plus :).....and also bout a hour before you guys have sex have him masturbate using that technique but only a few times like 2-3 then have him cum then make sure you guys have alot of foreplay so he can get hard again and get exited and just have slow sex and he would be able to last for a long time!!!.....also if you want to make your guy to really enjoy having sex with you and it would also be a plus for you while having sex have him do the technique but be careful after about the 2nd time he stops then starts again while having sex with you he will cum very fast and very powerful because he will be so excited\n\nguareenteed he will last for at least a hour or 2 if you have him do everything i told you