My mother passed away 14 years ago today.?
145181
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom, but I think your response to honor her memory is awesome. Yes, it's quite normal, even after all the years have gone by. I just lost my Dad last month and I feel that he touched my life like nobody else ever could. I hope to feel that same way forever too. Memories are meant to cherish. Your Mom was lucky to have a devoted daughter like you. I think when we lose a parent it's a gap that no one else can ever fill. And it's important to pass along those memories and traditions to our children.
370231
my mother died when i was young and my sister was about 13 and she is just fine
348460
my mom just died recently and you think weird stuff about like this might be one of them for you. It unfourtanelty is just a coincidence i feel awful for you... having a birthday on the same day your mom passes away. I hope things work out for you
606080
I know mothers can be difficult, but appreciate her and what she has done while she is still here. Mine died 3 years ago at the age of 42 and I wish I had her here to meddle lol
512220
MY DAUGHTER WHO DIED 9YRS AGO.SHE WAS ONLY 18YRS OLD AND 2 WKS BEFORE SHE GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL.THERES NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT HER
197283
You know i have that same problem.  Don't know my DAd and my Mom passed 7 years ago.  Maybe someone in your family can help you out.  I wish you the best of luck.  Or maybe call the Maury Show.
871644
Two of my friends mothers have died it is a very sad time because you are without the most loyal, loving, caring, woman you will ever meet in your life. Lets start off with my neighbors. They have a boy my age who was ten at the time and a daughter who was only three when the aweful event occured. Their mother had been hopitalized for almost too months with a very serious cancer and she saddly died. There was a lot of mourning and nothing seemed to cheer either of them or their father up. We tried invited them over for dinner, taking them to the movies, playing whole family games outside like flash light tag, badmitten, soccer, basketball. Nothing seemed to work. I especially felt bad for their young girl who would have to go through puberty and such withouth her mother which I would not have been able to do with out my mother. About a year later it went back to normal and the mourning wasn't still going on even thought they were oviously still upset and probably thought about her everyday. About a month ago a classmate of mine lost her mother. She was at school bright and early the next day which seem odd. She didn't cry, frown, or seem at all upset. This girl and her mother did not have a good relationship. She was in my kindergarten class when her mother was put in to a mental institute and moved in with her grandmother. Her mother had tried to hurt her and hurt herself. I remeber he once telling me her mother had run over her own foot with a lawn mower. There were also many other little strange, gross stories. She never really seemed upset about any of these things happening and I think that is why she did not care much when her mother passed. I think the mourning period will last occording to how close you were to you mother. My neighbor was attached to his mother and was sad for a very long time. My classmate did not have a good relationship with her mother so she did not get very upset about her mothers death. If you friend was attached to her mother she will probably be sad and feel as though a part of her is missing for the rest of her life. For right now there isnt much you can do to make her feel better it isn't a subject that can easily slip your mind. Just try to be kind and wait until she feels better. Don't try too hard that its obvious that you are trying to make her feel better. Good Luck. I hope that you friend comes out okay. All the love too you.
687070
you don't say how old you are now, not that it matters.  However, I would suggest additional counseling for it seems to me that you still have unresolved grief.\n\nI am deeply sorry for your tremendous loss and hope that one day while you may never be able to forget, you can at least find peace.
569849
I feel for you. When my mother passed away after suffering a long time it was a blessing
263785
so sorry about your mom .was there an autopsy done on her?if you know the people she was with ask them what went on if you cant get a straight answer go to the police tell them you feel something isnt right about your moms death give names if you no who she was with .just keeping digging for answers sooner or later some one will let it out as to what happened.
733977
Sorry to hear it, you should try and find a way to tell your mother, it won't be east but she needs to know. You could try contacting a bereavement counselling service such as cruse or a similar organisation.\nA great site for finding people is B4USEARCH.COM you just put in the full name or even just the surname and the town or city and it shows you all the details you need, it's great for finding lost friends and relatives. Click the link. http://www.b4usearch.com/
678083
My da died when I was 15 and I wish I had know the information in the site below. It is to late for your mom but not for others. I have helped many since I have learned this info because nobody should have to live with the medical injustice going on today!
885102
Imagine never seeing your mother again.... thought about it? not good huh? My mother died when i was 7 and i wish for nothing more than 2 get a hug off her 1 more time. Imagine your world without the person that wil love you unconditionally. Trust me u would miss her
523286
This will bring some tears, thanks for the blessings , but of course when your lose someone you know has known you all your life and has loved you for all you done good and forgave or protected you as you didn't do the right thing at times.One of my sister is a drunk since our mom passed away , another calls and cries every mothers day and on what was our mom's birthday . One calls me and we will laugh at the times we had with our mom. I just take one call at a time and silently say Ilove you to her and say I miss you ! But painful yes, I remember all the pain she had with cancer and welcomed her death as she had . She said Dealth is something we all will face ,but she sure was going to miss all of you and I love you.She died years ago yet the pain is as it happened today . She was my freind as well as a great women and wonderful mom .She'll aways be loved and missed .
1026528
my mom passed away six years ago too. i have finally been able to put it behind me... instead of crying all the time and thinking of what i actually lost, i celebrate the life that she did have. i think about all the good times i had when she was alive. i'm not a religious person but i do believe that she is watching over me. \ntry talking to a counselor.. it helped me
459180
My father died 19 years ago this September. I was 14 year old. We talk about him often but only in fun stories. The 1st anniversary of his death my family including my mom's sisters and my cousins came into town. \nAfter that the years following they did not. I think it was they way my family does it. If that makes sense.\n\nIn answer to your question is I remember my friends and what they did. they called me to let me know they were thinking of me. They did not say I am here for you but just called to say hi like it was any normal day. If I wanted to talk about with them I did if not I didn't. I did it both ways.  but knowing my friends were thinking of me helped. Remember not to say oh how are you doing today. Just call them or if you feel comfortable go over and say hi stick around but also know when to leave. Ask your mother a lady always knows when to leave.\nThe ironic thing about my fathers death day was when I found out I was pregnant I told the doctor that there was one day he could not choose for my baby to be due and that was the day. we fibed to my family and friends and told them the baby was due the day before the anniversary of the day he died. my doctor remembered that I did not want my baby born on that day and he told me that he wanted to induce me so I did not have to be reminded. Isn't that neat that he remembered I did not even have to ask and he was a very bust doctor.\n\nGood Luck and I am sorry for your loss it does get better.
1163767
Yes..selfish.\nYou are feeling sorry for yourself and nothing seems to be going your way. \nGo to the funeral. One of your parents just lost their Mother. Think about what they are going through. You need to be supportive.\nYou said (95 years old) in parenthesis as though she should be dead by now ... and why should anybody be surprised or upset.\nYour parent LOVED their Mother ... maybe more so because she has always been there for so long...and they are really hurting right now.\nNothing will go your way with the attitude you have now... Things will look brighter soon.