My male freind has a question on how to have a bigger harder orgasm.?
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tell him to stop masterbating, and to drink red bull to keep him going a lil longer
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play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
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Easy for some women but hard for others. You have to give them a G spot climax and the way to do this is, Use 2 or three fingers and gently rub or tap the soft area behind the clit, inside her 3 inches inside. You will find this area is like a pad and as you stimulate it, it will give, when it does so, apply more pressure, gently you fool!! At the same time as you are doing this your tounge should be repetitvly working on her go button. Some women find it hard to let go, they tense up and nothing happens. Some gush wildly, others pass out,  some are frightened by the vastness of their climax. "It's like the universe just passed throughmy entire being, it started at my toes and fingers and in my head, millions of stars tingled towards my secret place and then exploded out. I'm sorry Tony, did you get wet?"
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Masterbate more. Then you wont get so excited when the real thing is happening. Not as much build up.
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Okay first use lots of lube and have him finger you first with one finger than with two to get you use to it or you could use a butt plug put it while you are having s*x than switch to an*l have him go real slow and just try to be really relaxed if you do it right it feels great. Good Luck and P.S. always try to be opened minded when it comes to s*x you never know what you just may like.
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Hey it happens...men are pretty sexual beings and they are lucky to have the ability to have such immediate responses...sometimes. Try to get him to slow down...spend some more time focusing on you and your body..and giving you pleasure first...then take a minute before letting him do his thing. As a man he is really in tune with the sensation of about to reach climax...get him to realize this and he,,or you can stop it grasping him right behind his testicles and apply some pressure to that area until the sensation subsides. It will take some practice. You need to apply the pressure to the underside of the penis, pushing up and in where the testicles are up against his body. This is an ac-cue pressure point that relieves sexual tension. After trying this a few times in a session your partner should find that he can last longer, and won't loose his erection. Another trick that works, but not as practical is to have him masturbate about 20 min or so before sex then he should have better staying power. Good luck and have fun!!!
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As for you, you can ask him to give you some more foreplay since you already know that you love it.  As for him, he's going to have a better idea about what he wants than any of us.  There's no need to get ideas from complete strangers on Yahoo answers when all men aren't equal and we don't know what's going to excite him.  Please ask him about what turns him on.  Perhaps he has an unfulfilled sexual desire like a fetish or a fantasy.  As long as it's reasonable, you could try to fulfill that fetish or fantasy.  If he's perfectly fine, then maybe he could add more foreplay for you.
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well, that all depends... but here are a few that work well for me.\n\ngirl on top, lean up a little so your clit rubs against his skin and grind into him (just like manual stimulation!)\n\ndoggie style and have him rub your clit, or you rub it, or use a vibrator.\n\ngirl on top.. face his feet and squat. lean forward enough that your clit rubs against his balls.\n\nlay down on your stomach. have him come in from behind like doggie style, but laying on top of you. this way, you can grind your clit into the bed/pillow/a vibrator\n\ndon't be afraid to experiment with positions or ask him to rub your clit.. better yet.. just put his hand there.. don't be afraid to touch yourself.. and don't be afraid to use toys.  when you find things/positions that help you get off... make sure you let your man know!
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try showing your partner how to touch you, how you like! Sharing how to turn each other on even more makes the experience better AND the orgasms more regular!
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That's right.  Do not pull out.  The orgasm is still happening after you guys think it is over. Just hang in there until she lets you know you can leave.  Thanks for asking.\n\nFor the guy..you mean, pulling out after the guy's orgasm?  Don't pull out, you will very soon become ready to keep on going and have another orgasm or 2 or 3 or 4.....\n\nOne is never enough.
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First, get her very, very turned on. Whether orally or otherwise, the more she is excited and the higher her peak of excitement before intercourse, the greater likelihood she will have an orgasm. So don't skimp on foreplay. Being in a hurry here will get you nowhere in the end.\n\nAssuming you've done the above and you both want to assure that she has an excellent orgasm, teach her this little trick (I just hope you're old enough and mature enough to be learning all this). Regardless of the position you use, tell her that you want to touch herself, masturbate, while you are in her. Most women don't get stimulated where they need to be from most forms of male intercourse. The clitoris has to be given friction in some way for orgasm. If she manipulates herself and you do what you can, she will likely have the best orgasm she's every known.\n\nUnfortunately many men don't like to think that they can't make a woman orgasm just by themselves. Sometimes they can, but the way I describe above is almost guaranteed. Some women are too modest or are not used to self-manipulation, and they need to be assured that you want them to do this and will not think less of them for it.\n\nEnjoy. Please practice safe sex.
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Why can't you have an orgasm with him?  Is it something he is doing or not doing?  In that case tell him.  If not, maybe it is in your head.
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Well, if he loves surprises try this; my wife tried it and it works like a charm :)\n\nStart slowly the usual way as if this were just going to be the typical, garden variety style, you know? If it gets too slow, just do a little dirty talk so that you can buy some time........At the precise moment when he says the words "I'm gonna cum, etc. etc. ..just prior to climax.......scream out these words ver batim.."Chuck Norris ass-raped me in the Singapore Zoo panda cage!!! My tits are full of cream cheese and sausage!!!!  Midgets taste like lamb when you grill them on an open flame!! I am a convicted felon and I fuck the milkman when yu are at work!!!!!KILL ME! CHOKE ME!!!!!
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Change posistions. Try you on top so you can control how deep he goes in. If he is thrusting to hard you need to talk to him. Men would rather you tell them if you need something different then for you to avoid sex becuase they are hurting you.
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The guy above me is an idiot.\n\nIf you need more tips on masturbation, check out www.jackinworld.com.\n\nOr just talk to your guy friends, they might know something you don't.
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The more you moan harder, deeper the more we like it and saying oh baby please dont stop is music to our ears. Grab your guy by his ears and pull him where you want him. Drive him like a sports car he will enjoy the ride.
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I'm glad he knows from experience. Focus on your clit hun...shoving weird objects in you isn't the best...unless its a dildo and it moves and vibrates, but in the end it's my clit that has always been faithful.