what if your friend is going out with the guy u like and he asked her to kiss him! what should i do i want him
140755
You might want him but he wants your friend.  If you are really into this guy, tell your friend, she should understand.  If it's just a simple crush, let your friend have him. He's not the last guy in the world.
741859
For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
838525
what is the question here? you liked him, you had your friend ask him out, he said no. Seems pretty open and shut. Move on
63025
give him a kiss. chances are if your friends he might like you too
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
638302
Go for it.Your friend didnt want him.She is just jealous.Go have fun and tell your friend that you like the guy if she cant accept it tell to back off its your life.
54101
what's worth more to you, your friend, or that boy? but, could you be able to be happy or at least neutral if you know your friend is going out with the guy you like? but, if you tell her that you like him, and then if she thinks your flirting with him, how mad will she get?\nif it was me, it'd just leave him for my friend because to me, my friends come before a possible boyfriend. if i can't be happy seeing them together, i'd just find some way to avoid them when they're together. but, the one thing i wouldn't do is to admit i like him, that'll probably make it harder on her and then i'd feel guilty.\nbut the choice is really up to you, whatever comes first in your heart and can you bear it to see them together? and telling your friend, decide if it's better to tell her or not to depending on how she'll react to it
1139969
He likes you.  Obviously not your friend (no offence to her)  even if you dont go out with him, hes not going to go out with your friend.  He likes you for a reason.  So, you like him, he likes you.  And I'm sure your friend will find another guy.  I mean, if she gets sad about it, thats her problem .  Not tryingto be mean, but she cant force thi guy to go out with her.  You don't have to force anything, so I say go for it while your still young!!
72433
Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
967354
ask her. do not tell her that you like him when you ask though. kinda get a feeling for what she feels for him. If she likes him, than you might want to cool off a little bit. in HS my friend and i liked the same guy. he asked me out and i accepted. That really did hurt my friend. I decide not to go out with him because she met more to me.
590507
Well if I liked him and she knew I liked him i'd really see no problem in going to prom with him. Its just prom right? Nothing official? Anyways I think my Best friend would understand. I don't know what type of relationship you guys have, but is he the risk? I mean are you willing to lose a friend over him? Do you want a friend who would stop being your friend because of a guy? How would you feel if she went out with him? Does she even have a chance? I mean its difficult. I would probably go out with him, but that's me and my best friend would never stop being meing my friend because of a guy. Unless you know he cheated on her with me but that's understandable. So yeah I really think you should evaluate your relationships. I mean if she truly is your friend she wouldn't dump you because he chose you. Then again if you are truly her friend you wouldn't go out with him. ....at least not with out telling her....or giving her some heads up of what's going on. You could always say no and not tell her...but if she found out...well ...there might be a dilema.
152991
How old are you girl? friendswoods full of guy for you to kiss. \nYou just do it. \nYes I have, but not by you yet...
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
377632
oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you
323219
I'm not sure I understand your question?  Don't do anything.  If your friend likes this guy, and he likes her (or him) back, then be happy for them.  You never know, he might be really nice once you get to know him better.
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
130713
Well it depends, does your friend know you have a crush on that guy? If she does, that's fucked up what she's doing. Well if she doesn't know then tell her and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him. Also ask her if she likes him. If she does, don't ever let a guy come in between you and your friend,cuz friendship is more valuable than a guy, I can guarantee you that!!!\n\nGood Luck