Do you believe your first love is the only REAL love?
151955
If it was "real" love, you would still be in relationship.  I think first love is usually an infatuation.
342806
YES, I do. My husband and I were highschool sweethearts and were eachother's firsts love, first EVERYTHING. We were together for a couple of years and had a baby. About 3 years ago we almost got a divorce, I mean I moved back home with our son and everything.  We were seperated for a hole entire year, we actually had already filed for the divorce...it was in the process. Then one week he came home to visit some family and Ihe and I happened to be in the same place at the same time and we looked at eachother with such pain, but still true infinite love, we got together and talked all night about everything, I mean everything> The people who came between us, the hurt it caused, eveything. And when you find out that your first is no longer the only, it HURTS! Anyway we took things slowly, but we ended our divorce, and moved back together and we are better now than ever. T
1136751
Well , i thought that i had met the one the first time . Of course , i was the only one of us that felt that way .I have been fool enough to let him break my heart over and over again since then. I think , that there might have been a time when he really cared about me. Maybe he still does care , but now i realize that we just are'nt meant to be together in that way. It's really sad though , because even now--> he's the only man that i would want to have been the 1!
799159
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you
830339
Must be your first love? It's going to happen more in your life so get used to it. Everything passes in time.>
207674
I think it is mistaken to assume that all of us have One True Love.  I think there are many people with whom people can fall in love.  To think there is just ONE person that you would be head-over-heels in love with for the rest of your lives, leads to a lot of other mistaken notions....:\n\nWhat if I never run into that person?\nWhat if they die or we divorce, I'm destined for a life without my ONE-TRUE-LOVE.\nThere's something wrong with this person, we argue sometimes, they must not be my one-true-love.
153694
i do believe in love at first sight.
972082
I think that love is real...but it is proven that there are chemical reactions within the brain that wane down after a couple of years...so the one you love becomes more of a trusted companion as opposed to a lover...but i think that love is real, and that there is someone meant for everyone(...i just wish i could find that someone...)
918502
I don't believe there is love at first sight.  I believe there is lust at first sight (initial physical attraction) then love can come later.
1044206
Because it was probably your first love and no other boyfriend is going to feel like that ever again.
1114085
that's only natural.. they were the first one to steal ur heart and the first one u expierenced those feelings with, it doesnt mean they are ur true love just ur first love they will always hold a special place in ur heart..memories are a beautiful thing they are to be treasured not buried...
491862
Generally speaking, first love is the true love that a person gave his/her lover. Why? because it's pure.\n\nWhere can you find it? It will come quietly, don't ever try to find it.
130227
I married my first and only love.  We were together for four years before we got married.  We were high school sweethearts.  We got married right out of high school and I would't have changed anything in the world.
1148567
What makes you think that there is only one person you will love??  If you love someone enough that you would never do anything to hurt them...Then you don't.
887546
I think your first love is the stepping stone for a good second relationship .All the mistakes were made the first time and hopefully you learned from them .
861340
I believe that true love exist. I think that there is more than one person out there that can make you experience it. No one will ever be just perfect for you that is way you get to have possibilities. If there were only one person out there that is right for you then it will be nearly impossible to find them.
887955
I think it's possible, though I've only experienced love once, and it wasn't that kind. I've always held onto hopes of finding a love like that, and I've seen some friends who appear to have that type, though in the end, everything seems to end.