i need some advice guys plz help?
150184
its their own life.....let them do what they want.....the brother should be aware of his wifes whereabouts.....if u tell one the other might blame u for things.....and u'll be the center of the mess (and perhaps the divorces')
778696
try talking to him... let him know who you are... don't keep waiting    .........                                                                                                                                                                           by the way i'm a guy
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
1093766
Be yourself, don't follow the crowd. Most guys hate it. Trust me from expirence relationships work sooooo much better if both parties would go in as themselves and not as who they pretend to be. There prolly is a bunch of guys with their eye on you. Try sitting with some other friends for a few days and see how that changes. Also try walking with very few friends to and from class b/c the guys hate approaching a girl when they are in a huge group it really makes them nervous.
1186210
just tell him the truth, if you think he's not much of a jerk. if he is a jerk, come up with some female problems, most guys dont wanna know about that kind of stuff :)
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
556048
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
734627
I can sympathize because I fell for an amazing guy friend. The single caveat? He's got a girl friend. Since you guy is free then I would go for it. Touch his arm, try subtle flirting (should work b/c he knows you well enough to know that it's not the usual banter), if that doesn't get a response do the usual flirting routine, wear attractive clothes, a nice perfume, let him see that your into him. DO NOT DO anything different b/c you like him, like don't start acting like a ditz or all lalala bc guys get freaked out if ppl they have relied on start acting strange. Spend time with him alone and see how it goes.
953722
be honest, tell him the truth. Take some time off from the guys and think about what you really want. good luck
971962
First of all you should actually talk to him. That was not a very productive conversation. So you should give him a call when you are by yourself, in your room, and see what he has to say. Always rely on yourself though, not what other people say. If Zack said "Kinda" then you probably have a good chance. So like I said, call him when you are both alone, with no one else around or nearby and talk about whatever it is that you want to talk about. Remember it's always good not to talk about yourself all the time. Ask him questions, figure him out. Ask him have he likes to do on his spare time, what he likes/dislikes etc. (e.g. ask him about his day and what he plans to do the next day). It might be a good idea to invite him out for a movie or something if you really like this guy. Personally, If a girl that I like askes me to hang out or whatever I'd really like that, because guys have all the pressure to take the initiative and ask the girl out etc.; that really sucks; is not cool cause some guys are really shy. Very important: Be urself, dont try to be someone that ur not. However, it's ok to lie here and there but keep it minimal. Good luck girl!!!!
1067254
grow up\n\njust talk to they guy
858700
BE YOUR CONSIDERATE SELF. YOU SEEM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS. I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS. DON'T BE ALL TO SUAVE & OVER SEXY. SOME GUYS WILL LOOK AT THIS APPROACH, AS A ONE NIGHT GET DOWN
939441
Go with your instinct if you want to pick it up do it. Call him and tell him how you feel whether it's good or bad. Believe it or not guys do the same thing.
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
617388
I'm a guy, so trust me with this answer. Tell him how you really feel, but DON'T ignore him or act awkward when you're around him. This will only hurt him more. Establish the fact that you're JUST friends, but continue to give him attention and treat him like the best friend he is. Maybe even introduce him to another friend of yours to get his mind off you.
546636
Tell him not to rush into any kind of relationship with a guy, to give himself time to work and think things out.  Then just don't treat him any differently, keep being his friend and tell him that won't change.  It sounds like you are a good friend already, just keep at it.