Do anybody believe in having sex after marriage?
157359
No I do not believe in sex before marriage. I got married when I was 24 (a little more than a year ago) and that's when I lost my virginity, and I am damn proud of it.. no regrets, extremely happy about :o) People should try it out, it's not like they're NEVER going to have sex... besides, it's more special.
1131640
i had sex before i was married, i lost my virginity young and did not care to stop did not think of the fact that god did not like that , that it was a sin. i finaly stopped at 21 years of age, and repented for my many years of sin of having sex befor mariage and did not have sex till  i turned 25 when i got married. so yes i believe i was forgiven, but i still wish i had not had sex till marriage.
439618
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
364610
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
267503
No!\nMy wife and I have been together for 8 years and I think we can safely say that we are more in love than ever. Most people find, however, that over a period of roughly 4 to 7 years of marriage, the intensity or sense of romantic passion fades and is replaced by a sense of comfortable security that can sometimes seem somewhat uninspiring. Security in love can make people “lazy” in certain way. Relationship therapists can suggest various ways to liven things up and put the “spark” back into married life, but I’m not sure how successful these strategies are in the long run. A related issue is that a lot of people find that marriage ruins their sex life. Personally, I think this is pretty much natural for long-term monogamous relationships. I suppose you can always come up with some examples of a couple who has been married for 40 years and still have a hot monogamous sex life, but at the risk of sounding pessimistic, I think this is incredibly rare, and I think that a lot of people unnecessarily beat themselves up over their inability to stay sexually interested in their spouse. I think the high rates of cheating and divorce provide good statistical support for everything I’ve said so far.\n\nMy wife and I have a lifestyle that works well for us (tho I don’t claim it will work for everyone!) We have an open marriage. This has several amazing effects. For one thing, I think it keeps us both “younger” in some sense. We can openly explore erotic and/or loving relationships, and this means that life can be periodically charged with what is sometimes call “new relationship energy” (NRE). This is that energetic feeling of “walking on air” and everything seems bright and beautiful in the world. Most married people are afraid of this sort of thing, and of course for some people it can lead to jealousy, but in our case it is good for BOTH of us. I find that my freedom to love others increases my love, appreciation, and erotic attraction for my wife.\n\nOf course a lot of people put us down and claim that their love is better than ours because we are missing something or whatever, but they don’t know us, nor do they have any deeper clues than we do about the true nature of love, meaning of life, etc., so I don’t let this bother me – although I do sometimes (like now) get on a soapbox because I think more people need to realize that healthy, happy people can explore alternatives to the standard monogamous marriage script.\n\nIn any case, I don’t see marriage ever killing our love-life.
261415
Definitely. I do it, and I'm very happily married!! lol Yeah I still have a partner, and I'm very happy sexually, but I still it's very important to still know how your body works, and what turns you on. Things are always changing, so it's almost necessary to keep in tune with your own body.
25661
Obviouly as I am a virgin. It would be great feeling to break the virginity with his love.\nBut in these days  there are quiet few people so we may ask her to be with only husband after marriage and also the it hold for men too.
361104
both......love after marriage is different, you can tell......marriage after love gets you to the love after marriage, so its all good!
438517
If a couple want to wait untill they are married before having that sort of contact, it is their choice.\n\nReligion is about control (note I said religion and not faith), so religion's will attempt to interfere with society to gain power.\nSocieties tend to go through phases where they are more and then less permissive with regards to sex. Maybe we are becoming less permissive overall at the moment.\n\nUlimately I believe it should be the choice of the people what they do, not some kind of coercion or guilt trip from a religion.
144932
If you're asking this question then you definitley are NOT ready to have sex with him. When you are ready you will feel it in your heart and you won't think twice or have to ask someone's opinion, so probably after your married would be best.
165163
Yes, it can survive.If you went into a marriage just thinking  about sex, you have a problem. You can't have sex 24/7.  They are other things to life and if you and your spouse can't share other common interests, you are bound to failure in everything includind your sex life.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
615428
yes their is no wrong with it but sex after marriage will let u enjoy more
125452
AFTER you get married.  Life gets way too complicated if you do it before marriage.  It saves you from a lot of heart ache too.  You and your spouse will be glad you waited, then you won't have to worry about diseases, pre marital pregnancy, past lovers, etc.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
505211
Well are you a christian couple that does not believe in sex before marriage? If so it will be hard. Many people say you should know a person very well before you get married. However studies have shown that people who shack up usually end up not getting married or divorcing when they do. DR. Laura has shacking up as one of the "ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives". But if you feel it need to be done do it. That feeling is coming from god.(or the devil)You should know.Let the relationship progress step by step. It's in the Bible, II Peter 1:6-7, TLB. "Next, learn to put aside your own desires so that you will become patient and godly, gladly letting God have his way with you. This will make possible the next step, which is for you to enjoy other people and to like them, and finally you will grow to love them deeply."
211612
Yes, of course I do. I don't particularly agree with marriage so it would make no sense for me to disagree with premarital sex.\nWhatever floats your boat.