me & my b/f broke up, i need to get over him so i ignore him!BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCHright or wrong?
153227
wrong or right is up to your real feelings ,problems happen in the relationship but if you feel that you love him so much go quickly to him before another girl take him far from you
323970
If there is absolutely no way you can keep the relationship going, then you are doing what's best for yourself. As for getting over him, keep yourself busy. Do NOT jump into a new relationship so quickly. Rebounds dont' usually work and if you did that, it would make people wonder why you went to another guy so quickly or if you really ever really did care for your former b/f. He'd think the same too.\nGo slowly..and enjoy life for a while before you commit yourself to someone new.
266959
Just do it and get it over with. Why do you want to break up if you love him so much?
249899
Hey, the world didn't make you break up with him.  That was your choice based upon what you felt was best for you.  There is no right or wrong in that, it is just what it is.  Life is what you make of it and if you choose to go around being mad at the world then that is your choice but as long as you do that, you will never be able to find the love that is out there awaiting you.
670499
Theoretically, the very fact that you broke up with him should release you from caring about whether he still loves you romantically or not...if indeed you are over him yourself.  The only way to really know anything is to inquire.  Go up to him and ask him, if you don't think he will be honest, then don't ask him.  You will at least know that you will never know.  If you are truly over him, then I'm sure you don't care that much anyway.  You think about him because he was a part of your life once, other than that, he is of no consequence to you...theoretically.  Good luck finding out the truth.
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
852199
If you love each other, then, um DUH! Yes, take him back. Maybe he really did need to "get himself together" and now he feels ready to have a relationship. There's nothing wrong with that if it's true. I think it's great if he wanted to work on himself so things don't get messed up anymore between the two of you. He worked, he's ready - go for it.\n\nWould you cut off your nose just to spite your face? (Translation: Would you give up love just to make your ex pay?)
699313
It doesn't sound like he was your everything if you were depressed even when you were around him. The best way to get over a guy is to let him go. Have one day where you cry and are depressed and eat cookie dough and let yoursself feel all the pain. He must not be your soul mate if he's treating you badly because your soul mate should never treat you badly. If you were constanly fighting, you weren't happy, and realtionships should make you happy. If sounds like you were simply codependant on this guy and you don't know what you're going to without him. It sounds like you need him and you need to realize that you don't. Hang out with your girl friends, reconnect with your family. Move on and stop sitting in your pity just because it's comfortable, you deserve to treat yourself better, and to find a person that will truly care for you.
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
940171
explain your feelings to him, i would not want to be with someone who did not love me. tell him the truth so you both can move on. love is so hard to deal with, but you have to be honest so one day you and he can both be happy.
90188
You need to cy and let all your anger go. You should not keep it to your self. Cry for him now but in the furure not. He doesn't deserve you to be crying for him. If he din't tell you why you two broke up then he doesn't deserve you.
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
163002
You broke it off 6 months ago.  You did the right thing.  Here's the deal - it's one thing if it were the other way around.  You should be asking why if he dumped you.  Since you dumped him, it's the other way around.  You left him on your terms, he still has things unresolved.  Don't waste your time trying, you might hurt yourself.
711398
Hell no!!!!! Leave him alone!\n\nIt will be tough for a while at first, but you will get over him maybe. If he placed the relationship on suspension, then cease all communications with him.
995747
Well why did you broke up with him in the first place. Why are you reconsidering going out with him donot make it be because you are bored and have nothing else to do that is not a good reason.
1032939
there is a reason why you two broke up--it didn't work out.  don't be weak and get back with him just because you're lonely now.  it usually takes at least a few months before you get over someone...so stick it out and start casually dating (not meaning sex) in the mean time.