someone whom i dont love is after me i have to pay his debt money and he in return wants sex from mend i dont?
156387
get help. move if you have to...this is no way for a person to live. you should be cherished and respected..not blackmailed.\neven if the crime is steep...you will be free in the long run by telling police what he is blackmailing you for.\n\nyou will not rest peacefully until this is resolved. not only is he blackmailing your body--but also your mind
829226
Sue your Partner make him help you. take the tennant to court and get your money
851711
Ignore him.  Trust me, he's going to have to publicly admit to his wife that he spent the money on you in order to get it back, and he sounds like such a weasel that he's probably not willing to do that.  I'm assuming he threatened you with a lawsuit in order to recover the money.  Legally, he has no case, he freely spent the money on you, there was no agreement for repayment, etc.  Now, if he's threatening you physically, I have 2 words for you....\nRESTRAINING ORDER.  \n\nHopefully you've learned 2 things from this experience.\n#1, don't mess with married men, they're nothing but trouble for you!!\n#2, no one will give you anything without expecting something in return, don't accept gifts that you're not willing to pay back in some form or fashion.\n\nGood luck to you!
1178976
His problem is that he cannot be honest with you, he wants sex, if you don't give it to him he'll probably leave you.  After you give it to him, he'll probably leave you anyway, so unless YOU want to have sex with him, let him go.
495326
tell his selfish azz that u r on strike, you get what u receive and if he does not want to give then hes not gonna receive. he is u man and its his duty to pleasure you and if he is not then you should start looking else where. good luck girl.
11486
What does he get out of the deal? In return for all that attention are you going to take on the responsibility of looking after him financially? You don't want a man, you want a servant.
79840
This is a very tough situation and I think that you need to figure out on your own who you want. So are you IN love with this person who gives you everything or are you just with him for that reason? Can he buy your love? Now what about your ex? Does he make you happy minus the money? If that is true then I think you know who to be with!
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
40389
Agree to pay what you charged and tell her to keep telling him you did it with out her permission and wish them the best of luck. If you are charged, deny it and pay what you owe. Now that is not so hard...is it?
550193
yea, he owes me some money.
800258
there is no way this guy loved you for you. he's one of those guys that go from one girl to the next and don't care abount the previous' girl's feelings for him. he is a really big man-whore. he should get paid for what he does. he would make great money. His profession would be called "heartbreaker".
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
227317
It means he wants to screw you.
997372
Whatever you do don't have sex with him.  He might be trying to give you something that you might want.  Don't trust him.  He's up to something.
588833
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby
826392
It means the company is being asked by the State to explain their actions in this matter.  Unless you haven't told us the whole story (like maybe you co-signed for the loan) they should stop harassing you.\n\nYour deadbeat boyfriend is another matter entirely.  Why don't you tell him to pay his debts so you don't have to keep answering phone calls from his creditors?
544475
MY DEAR MAN HOW COME YOU HAVE MANAGED TO BECOME A DEBT-ER TO THE TUNE OF 5000$. IT IS REALLY A PITY TO HEAR THIS, UP TO THE AGE OF 53 YOU HAD MANAGED TO GET ONLY 5000 $ VERY POOR.\nNOW PEOPLE THREATENING YOU, MEANS THAT YOU HAVE TAKEN A HAND LOAN FROM WHOM SO EVER GIVING YOU, NATURALLY THE HARD EARNED MONEY MADE BY OTHERS ARE WASTED LIKE ANYTHING BY SOLES OF YOUR TYPE AND HOW DARE YOU ARE TO ACCUSE OTHERS IN TURN. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT LAW APPLIES IN YOUR PLACE TO COME OUT OF THAT.\nIN MY OPINION  YOU HAVE TO SURRENDER TO THE LAW AND TAKE PROTECTION. SECONDLY SELL ALL YOUR BELONGING AND REPAY AT-LEAST THE PRINCIPLE AMOUNT TO THAT PEOPLE FROM WHOM YOU HAVE TAKEN THIS MONEY.HEVE SOME UNDER STASNDING WITH THEM TO REPAY THIS AMOUNT OTHERWISE YOU HAVE TO MEET THE COSEQUENCES. NO ONE WILL COME FOR YOUR RESCUE EXCEPT ALLAH IN WHOM YOU BELIEVE. WISH YOU GOOD LUCK