13f step brother hid cam in my room caught me and best friend masterbating wants sex or tell what should I do?
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There is nothing wrong in masturbating....embarassing though it may be, tell your mom....\n\nIf you give in now he will hold it over you forever.
512215
What's more important to u the friendship of the guy, or being able to feel guilty, since your mom has been though what she has, she should understand, how bad would it be if she found out, would u be in more trouble then not telling her. I don't mean to be mean to u but really that is just selfish, & your mom should respect u for telling her the truth. It's understandable what happened under the circumstanes. It depends on how open minded your mom is. good luck, i would talk to her, i'm sure u feel bad about your friend, also i would tell your princple, that boy will have that on his record. do the right thing.
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If you feel things were going too fast, they were.  Be careful putting yourself in these situations, though.  If you go to a guy's house when his parents aren't home, he expects to get laid, especially if you start fooling around with him.  If you unwisely put yourself in this situation again before you're ready, tell him no first if you didn't this time.  Oh, & don't give him a sexual moaning no, as this won't get his attention.  Give him a blunt, firm, commanding no.  If you lash out violently right off the bat, he may reciprocate.  This is another reason it's wise not to go somewhere alone with him until you are ready for this possibility.  He could have felt like you led him on, & were being a tease, & then gotten enraged when you slapped him.  You're lucky, because this could have resulted in an asault or a date rape.  From now on, I hope you'll be wiser in your decisions, as this could have ended up being potentially dangerous.
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OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
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i just answer the same quistion,[excpt the brother already found out]ok. i would applogize and be ashamed of my self for doing so and stop having the affair.
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I'm older, and my children are older than you.  I can tell you as a parent, I'd want to know.\nIf your sister won't take steps to protect herself, then you should give your parents the opportunity.\nThe guy sounds like predator and your sister is likely attracted to the attention he give her.\nThis is incredibly unsafe for her, and could get him a host of trouble also.\nI hope you have the courage to do the right thing for your sister.
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Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
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If they were on the bed and not naked then just ask.\n\nIf they were in the bed naked and doing naughty things, then you should confront them.
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talk to your sister and tell her how you feel...and if that doesnt work then tell him that your sister still pees the bed and is afraid of the monkey in her closet
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He's a boy, but probably not a genuine friend.  It sounds as if he is hiding something under the guise of selective privacy.  You are right to be suspicious.  If I where  you, I wouldn't snoop.  Rather, I'd just dial the relationship back to a less serious level.  Take control and put him in a position, where he can't take your relationship for granted.  If you are living together, I'd move out, regain your full independence and just date.  This process will prompt him to either want to commit or continue to play the field.  In any event, he's got to come clean for you to ever be able to fully trust him.
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First of all I'd say that he isn't your best friend. A best friend would NEVER rape their friend!\n\nYou need to ditch him, get him out of your life. Tell him flat out that you are not comfortable with what he did. He needs to know that if he tries anything like that again, or comes around you that you'll report him to the police.
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Porn?  Oh, god.  Say you're kidding!  That makes him the worst kind of perv ever!  When I read your question, I was thinking pedophilia or bestiality or hookers or something like that, but never in my worst nightmares would I have imagined that a grown man might be watching porn.  I think you should report him the the sex offender office of the FBI.  The number is (202) 324-3000.  That is the headquarters in DC.  They will probably refer you to the local field office so they can arrest your dad.  Hope your stepdad turns out to be a nice Christian like the President.
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if you are a girl and this is your brother it would be in your best interest not to say anything to this kid. it is just going to make your brother look like a sissy. he has to stick up for himself. he might be really embarressed if you stick up for him. if you are a guy then do what most big brothers would do... kick his you know what
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Tough situation.  It's her step-brother, even if he's not blood, it's still "wrong"  She can't help it if she got turned on, that just happens (unless she actually likes it and wants more) but she should tell her parents or tell him to leave her alone.
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You asked this question before and I told you to check yourself into jail, go get theraphy or tell your friends or family.\nNow  I think you are the one seducing your poor nephew.  Poor child he doesn't know you are a sexual deviant. \n\nI'm reporting you to the authorities
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It's not as big of a deal as you think, I'm sure of it. This is probably what happened: You're a curious 13-year-old girl, who like any girl your age, is curious about your developing body. I'm sure your friend is too and that's why this event occurred in the first place. It seems like harmless, non-sexual touching between two kids. After you had time to think about what happened you felt guilty because of the religious beliefs your mom probably raised you with. You immediately became fearful because you realized how shocked your mom would be if she learned you had touched another girl's breasts. That's why your mind is now racing with thoughts of getting caught and scolded. Fear always puts things out of perspective and I'm sure that's what's happening here. Think of it like this... Does your friend want her mom to find out either? Most likely not. So why would she tell on you? My advice is to relax and not worry yourself so much. You did not sin, you were simply acting like a 13-year-old girl. I did a lot of silly things when I was 13 too. If it still bothers you try talking the situation out with your friend. She could be just as freaked out about the same stuff as you are! Maybe you can both agree to forget the incident(s) and move on. Above all, don't feel guilty.
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Hi Sweetheart, I'm Tina (Mom). You answered my question about the "Ask Mom" column I want to start, so it looks like you might be my first asker, even though I don't have the column yet. Okay, I went through what you did when I was your age. I too had had sex and my parents found out about it and off to the Doctor we were going to go but my Mom backed out when I admitted the truth. The best way to handle this is to realize that they will find out one way or another. Either by a Doctor or if you tell them the truth. There's nothing to be afraid of. It's not a death sentence, just something that's very hard to admit. I would sit down with her and say "Yes, I've been sexually active and I don't want to lie to you about it." If you've lied already, then apologize and take responsibility for it and try to assure her that it won't happen again. Remember, it will only last moments and you will get beyond it and things will return to normal again. The cat's pretty much out of the bag so you may as well lay it on the table. You may get punished but that's part of taking responsibility for it. You're going to be just fine, Honey. Your Mom loves you and you both will get through this. Good luck. Tina (Mom)