Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and we always said that we were going to wait until we?
142033
Gonna be honest with you I have been there but i didnt back off. Kinda wish I did though. My gf tells me she never wanted it to happen and neither did I but when it came down to it we did anyway. I am not saying we were wrong I mean I did enjoy it  I cant speak for her but I reckon if you can wait it is best but if you care about each other and you are careful then go fo it
644112
If something is telling you to wait, then wait. If he really wants to marry you-he'll wait too. Trust your gut.
1065599
I hear you sister!  I really do.  Although his desire to wait is admirable, he has to understand that waiting for too long brings more health risks to you.  Your drive is so strong, and he needs to understand that.\n\nI've said it before, if you wait until you're ready, you will never be ready.  Sometimes you just have to jump in with both feet, and take a chance.\n\nYou may not yet own your own house, but so long as you're in a stable and loving home, with space enough to accomidate an infant for a time, then you'll be fine!  You don't need a big house with a big back yard until your kids are old enough to enjoy the yard, and until you have enough children you'll be too crowded in a small home.\n\nBeyond that, if he still continues to block your suggestions, then I would have to assume that he's simply not ready for children.  He could be afraid of what it could do to the two of you financially, and how it's going to affect your relationship ('cause it will!)  Perhaps he has just a little more growing up to do.\n\nThe best I can suggest is to talk out a contingency plan.  Set VERY specific goals, such as, in B amount of time we will start looking for a house, in C amount of time we will buy a house, in D amount of time we will start trying to have a baby, and if B and C don't pan out within E amount of time, then we move ahead with plan D anyways.\n\nAll the best!
620665
What you're doing is correct...  Marriage before sex.  It has been 4 years with this man...  If you are ready for marriage, I would sit down with him and ask him what and where this relationship is going..  \n\nIf both of you love each other, I don't see what you are waiting for....\n\nGod Bless!
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
917898
If your really that in love you could try and wait for a little while. I would not spend a great deal of time waiting though. Is his relationship about to end? is there no end in sight? these are all things that need to be answered.>
213991
Gosh. I totally understand everything you are saying.. just give it a little time.. you know what you want.. but your just waiting on him, right? ok... just wait. Love will always wait.. remember...love is love
1054992
True love waits, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we intend to till we are married, so go for it girl!
847110
nope , we are NOT supposed to wait forever.\n\nWe ARE supposed to see if its real though , before moving on to somebody else, or else we regret it, wonder about it, kick ourselves for what might have been, etc.\n\nAsk somebody out if you like him or her, I figure 3 times, then wait and see if maybe they ask you out. I don't like to nag people.
927362
why does he have to wait longer?...is there something that he must wait for??? hes just not ready for commitment! hes scared! that's why he keeps putting it off! dont wait around forever if you see he isn't making any progress to try to marry you then you should kick him to the curb!
719510
If it were me, I would go on with my life when he leaves. If the two of you were meant to be together, then it WILL happen. If not, then you shouldn't want it to happen anyway. Two years is a long time to wait, and a lot happens in two years.....leave your options open. If it's meant to be it will!
1144796
all you have to do is wait coz i too have this problem we are even 5 yrs ++...we both wanted to settle down but you should also cosider some things and make sure u are ready for it. maybe ur bf has still other priorities this time and maybe he is just preparing himself for the future..
85973
NO,NOT AT ALL. I WISH THAT I WOULD HAVE WAITED BEFORE I DID **. I THINK THAT IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE WORLD THAT ANYONE CAN DO. 1ST THING IS THAT HE WAITED FOR YOU NO RUSHING AND 2ND THING IS THAT YOU WERE EACH OTHERS 1ST. THAT IS WONDERFULLY AMAZING. IF I HAD A MAN LIKE THAT I THINK I WOULD LOVE HIM FROM HEAD TO TOE. FOREVER!!
291528
You should talk to him about it. Ask if he sees himself marrying you in the future. Time doesn't matter always. I've been with my boyfriend for almost six years and we're in school and life is happening so we're waiting. Besides, the longer you date the more you learn about each other before you get married!
809240
sounds that youre in a hurry..\nIf you love him that much then sure you can wait.\nmaybe you two can discuss your own question\nso you can settle it.You dont need to have a big amount of money its how you both love each other.
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.