i want to know if since my car accident all i think about is sex, is that bad on my part?
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You sound normal to me.  I think that maybe the car accident has perhaps made you see things a bit differently about your love life.  The only way I can see thinking about sex all the time is if you were really dishonest with yourself and your partner about it.  I mean, if you want different partners and all, tell the one you're with that you're not looking to get involved.  And being honest with yourself about your intent will keep you from making sex something that it isn't and more about what it is.
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Take it slow.  You've just been through a very traumatic event, and is it any wonder that you have no sex drive?  You are probably feeling hurt and abandoned, and maybe just a little down on yourself.  Start dating, don't rush into anything, and something good will come along.\n\nBest wishes to you.
748412
hi mahe \nmy dear young boy, u r very intellegent, brilliant science bio. student having more than 80 percentage marks in XIIth standard, what u have asked earlier, i have seen all and what u have replied, i also seen all those. u should not worry about your anxieties regarding sex and sexual activities, it is very commen at your 20th age. masturbation is also not bad, but if u can control it, then it is better, even if u can't control it, don't worry, it is alright. i will also suggest to do masturbation to get rid of tension, whenever u feel. so don't worry all about this.\nfurther, i will advice u to prepare yourself for your cpmt, aiims etc. exams, so u can reach your goal to becoming a doctor, when u will be a doctor, u will answer to others about these things.\nwith best of luck for your enterence exams towards MBBS
865367
sex is a very important part of a marriage. Without sex many marriages will end. Accidents or medical problems that causes the problem of not being able to preform will affect many in different ways. So I guess it will depend on how strong your love is.
337712
if you think of sex all the time, it's normal.  However, looking at porn isn't going to help.  That'll just increase your thinking about sex, and you might do it to a girl.
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My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
389175
You might be thinking bout sex alot coz your not doing it enough and also coz you have a male hormone that increases sexdrive. Women actually have it too but not as much!
687672
The changes in him will depend on the area of damage & severity of it. I am a victim of such an accident & it changed me totally, but I survived it. As soon as possible u need to get counselling to prepare for the changes as it will place great strain on yr relationship with him. There are a lot of things that wont be obvious until he recovers some & the extent of injury is known. He will have amnesia but again how bad depends on the area of damage. If you want more info please email me privately as some things are private & shouldnt be public. I am happy to hook up on msn or yahoo with you
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Depends on how you look at it. If you consider only intercourse is cheating, then obviously NO. However, if you think that intimacy of any kind is cheating, then YES. If you feel bad about it you should probably not do it!
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yeah...i say talk to a doctor and see if there is anyway to "heal" it...and in the mean time, stop having rough sex, or any sex at all, you might be ruining your chances for kids at any time in the future
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i'm not sure how this will help you drive again...\n\nit wasn't the car accident i was in that was the worst. it was my friend's accident. well, her friend really. she was driving the car and my friend was in the passenger seat. a semi hit them and half their car split and went under the semi...which started on fire...and burnt the girls to death. \n\nshe was my BEST friend in the world. that happened in march.
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Not at all! Human beings pass through stages that are obviously not in our true sexual nature...It is only that:  fantasies and please do not act them out...that's when regrets and emotional problems start setting in...After all, if we acted out every fantasy that occurr during our lifetime, we would probably be in jail, right? We are curious by nature and it's natural to wonder what this fantasy would be like. However, keep yourself wondering. Do not pretend that you can resolve your fantasies through real- life situations. It will end up only hurting you. Good Luck.
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no it doesnt make u a bad person!! but um i read this question yesterday by someone else must be common!! but i have too many!Sex is 1 smoking is another, drinking is another, and yahoo answers hits up in the top 10!! I need a life!!
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No it is very bad. Sex must also be limited to only for making kids after marriage. May god bless you.
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If your talking about just sleeping, as in, falling asleep, theres no harm there. but if your talking about sex its another issue.\nSex is a wonderful thing.  However, is it worth it?  Sure some risks may be over hyped, but look at emotional things.  Is this the person that you'll be with forever?  How would someone you meet maybe in 4 or 5 years feel about that.  Or how would you feel about it?  Sex is the most intimate part of love and it can be worth wating for.  Besides, why waste it on something that might not even have passion in it or any real love.  But most importantly be responsible and be sensible.  If you know that your relationship won't last, then what's the point?  Having sex, just for the sake of having sex is not a good reason.
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whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
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You're going to hurt yourself for nothing. That's not the only tool in your arsenal (or it shouldn't be, anyway).Your biggest sexual organ is your brain...used properly, there's nothing you can't accomplish.