As a girl or a boy wat should better to do on his /her 1st wedding night in sex ?
143777
BOY; BE GENTLE\nGIRL; MAKE BOY USE LUBICATED CONDOM
402335
Light some candles play some soft slow music and dress up in some sexy lingerie.  Run him a hot bath and wait.  When he comes home, call him in the room, slowly undress him and walk him into the bath.  Wash him and kiss him and then get a towel and dry him off.  With champagne glasses waiting, bottle of champagne or sparkling cider for those who don't drink, walk over to the bed and pour two glasses.  Watch the sparks fly! Have great fun always!
196700
Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
1107158
Its good that you have waited, sex between two people that really care about each other is amazing. \n\nBe carefull, make him wear protection, choose a time when your not going to get disturbed, your both relaxed and you feel ready, for any female, it is usual to hurt at first, make him take it steady.\n\nYou will always remember you first time, make it special, take precautions and have fun
500908
Sleep. After the huge wedding and reception and the big stress relief you will feel when it is all over, all you will do that night is sleep. However the next night will hopefully be a different story. =)
70821
Don't tend to 'til my wedding night! \n\n;)
1115748
Remain a couple, get married and have sex every night. That is if you're adults.  I don't know how long ago 4th grade was for you. But either way, remain friends, at all costs and do whatever at all costs, and under all circumstances!
153967
Day should start with a lovely hot kiss.Then just go out and have some fun.watch romantic movies together,spend a few minute in the park ...talk about your present ..not past\nBut for everything you have to take money from your pocket.Dont let your boy to spend for everything...\nENJOY...
612749
not under any circumstance - you will ruin the kids life if they are not brought up in a  proper family environment and sex before marriage is immoral and well having sex the first time on your wedding night makes it special for both - I would hold back till then
817977
Sex.\nIf you want sex, go do it, if not tell him to poke it somewhere else - we like honesty because it's simple, like us.
1135796
Have an evening candlit ceremony back home with a dessert or hors d'ourves buffet at the reception instead of a full on meal.  When I got married I contemplated eloping, but realized I would regret not having my dad walk me down the aisle or having our dance....so, depending on what means the most to you, you should be able to decide what is best.  Congrats and good luck!
596263
Your first time should probably be on the bottom if you still have your hymen. After that, be on top, it allows you to control the action and frees his (or her) hands up to roam around your body.
947476
uh....... depends on what turnes you on more.\n\nbut i would say neither but then again, ask boy #1 if he would ever hurt you. and if he says no, then trust him, untill he dose, and boy #2 will just try to get in your pants (aka have sex with you) he may even rape you or force you agains your will to have sex with you. and whan he said you have to returne the favor he ment for you to have sex wit him\n\nmy fiance use to be kindof evil but never that bad he dont hit girls in the first place b/c hes a gentlman i would just say 4get those too just be friends with them and try to find someone else  and remeber this\nyou rather be safe...than sorry....
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anyway u will make love..\njust try to make it the best one by delaying it.\n\ndont jump into it.. be gradual and graceful.\n\nwear a red coloured dress..\nit should be big enough to cover the matter\nand short enough to create interest.\n\nstart with kissing.. try different postures..\nhav fun..
997791
Waiting until Marriage is the best choice because then your saving yourself for that one person that sees you as that special someone as well. Just be careful of the guys that just marry for the sex.
69043
Sex!\n\nALWAYS a good choice.
571589
if it's the very 1st time, then Man should take the 1st step. But if the couple are married for long now, the Woman can initiate too (it's her right to be sexually satisfied).