how do I get over this problem?
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she will get over it. if she is not willing to let you be happy then she is not a very good friend. just tell her that you really like him and if she wont allow you to be happy then she will have to find a new friend. she might be jealous that you have someone in your life that is taking some of your time. just tell her that you are going to stay with him and that she does not have to like him what is important is that you like him. good luck!!!!! take care
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I think the people who say get over it are after their 2 points and don't really care about how people are feeling. It shows their immaturity.\n\nYou're right. You can't just get over it. You can't just move on. You have to deal with the pain that the person you loved and trusted violated that trust in the worst possible way, by being with someone else. It is heartbreaking to see that you are in such pain. There is no easy way to get through it. It's going to take a lot of time and maybe some counseling.  \n\nYou also might consider praying for healing. Beliefnet.com has some prayers that, over time, may help you to heal. Here is one:\n\nPrayer for Healing   \n\nLord Jesus Christ, by your patience in suffering you hallowed earthly pain and gave us the example of obedience to your Father's will: Be near me in my time of weakness and pain; sustain me by your grace, that my strength and courage may not fail; heal me according to your will; and help me always to believe that what happens to me here is of little account if you hold me in eternal life, my Lord and my God. Amen. ~~ Source: Book of Common Prayer 1979\n\nI pray that eventually you will be able to put the pain of lost love and betrayal behind you. God Bless!
837686
get over it, and get in to it.
311070
Good decision. I'm glad to hear that you are getting this resolved. The stress you are going through over this,is not good for you. Try to relax and go for a walk or get involved in something fun until your appt.
286368
Well, i have no idea how you could possibly gegt over it  i meen he was your son and i dont think you'll ever get over it but i do have some ideas for you to get your mind off of it when you start thinking about it dont cry think of somthing cool  somthing that interest you..or go do somthing..take risk!...you know do something fun, sky diving! like stuff you would never do...get your mind off of it  or do somthing simple go skating...go on a shopping spree!  i hope these things help..im truely sorry and i dont know what to say..i hope these things work..im sorry to say it but..you loved your son and i dont think you'll ever get over it...\nHope i Helped!
196416
Here are some websites (Yahoo, MSN) that deal with your problem.  You may want to hunt around at these sites.
594314
wow, must be pretty rough. i mean, no one expects you to get over it. look, i had a friend and the same thing happened to her and im gonna give you the same advice i gave her. some might say that you should take up counseling or go to a group meeting, but the sad part is that those meetings dont focus on just you and yourproblem. you have to find someone who you trust and love, usually a mom, sister, or aunt, and tell that person about what happened to you, and who did it. the guy who did this to you obviously isnt very considerate. just open up to a loved one and let them know whats going on. im sure it will help and they will be able to focus on your problem and not everyone elses.
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sorry to hear that.. but as they say, it takes one to forget one. :) people may seem to think they will never get over it, but it is possible to. do the things you love to do such as ur hobbies. and hey, God maybe is calling you. and telling u something.  your problems are nothing when you are in His presence. Pray. Lift up all ur burdens to Him. :) Hope this could help. :)
1135416
decide that you can only change your feelings. mind over matter. just decide that you're going to forgive them and move on! you can pray for help too, it'll help you gain the peace you seek.
51846
You're a writer. The same thing relates to me. Don't try and do anything about it. It's who you are. If it really bothers you, try talking to some close friends. Practice makes perfect :D
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Try these links for possible solutions to your problems. Good luck
483139
Cry it out for a little while.  Then call your friends and hang out with them.  Keep busy.  Always remember, out of sight, out of mind.  You will get over it.  It's hard but you will.  There is no better cure than friends. Trust me!!
654140
i think u should talk and resolve the problem...and if it still doesn't work...then its probably time to move on...
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If you're not torn up about it, let it go. If you tell them "this person said you said this..." the situation may resolve itself.\n\n.
1182088
Get a grip... \nI mean read a book, go for a walk..... find another guy.. I know it may not be easy.. but that is the practical approach.
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Fren... Talk this with someone whom you know personally. Here you may get answers But the Solutions maybe somewhere closer to you.
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Express your grief and then move on.  Stop living in the past, you can not change that.  Become more aware of what is going on around you right now.