What would you do if  your lover threatens you over someone else?
141828
If this idiot is threatening to go out with someone else, then that's not love...it's not even caring. It's manipulation!\n\nIt doesn't belong in any relationship, and it should not be tolerated.\n\nI'd happily tell them to flake off and then go find someone who will be good to you!
558147
I'd be punching the s h i t out of him if he ever screamed someone elses name while he was inside of me....no no no!  He wouldn't be with me after that...how else are you supposed to react?  LAUGH???!!!!  HA!  I'd be laughing while I was kickin' some a s s!
849160
Either one is a possibility, but if he's willing to go around behind his present girlfriend's back, then it's 99% certain that he will do the same to you.  Stay Away from this guy.  He's trouble.
714668
You kinda scared him. If it was me I would back off. If he changes his mind, all good-- otherwise leave him alone.
623681
Well I guess I would have to say something - oh sorry wrong room so hed be sure he saw me.  I would leave with my head held high and never speak or acknowledge him again.  If he tried to talk to me or even act like he knew me - I would respond with i think you have me mistaken with someone else - never give him the satifaction of thinking you ever knew him at all because obviously - you didn't.  People that cheat also lie and steal.  Who needs that in there life.  I am sure it hurt like haties.  At least that is what i think i would do - good luck to you - that was a tuff one
189277
Ditch BOTH of them as fast as you can : or, they will simply be using u as a convenient front for their  own 'relationship' !
181429
Ignore is the only way. Any response from you even the worst imaginable insult would only result in her harrasing you more.\n\nOne sided lovers, in this case a stalker, often have 'ways to think' in which they will take every action from you in a positive manner - they will interpret whatever you do as 'your love for them'.\n\nIgnore is therefore the only way that you can use.
1160257
i would be plotting revenge....just remember, in a marriage.......WHAT'S HIS IS YOURS, AND WHAT'S YOURS IS YOURS. \ngood luck.
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
642264
Be firm in your convictions. If he continues to threaten you get an order of protection or restraining order against him. \n\nThis guy obviously has issues and should seek counseling or attend anger management classes.
306934
when he throws the its over card he is trying to control the situation and you.  you need to tell him to stop the threats or you are going to end it your self he wants leverage and that is what he gets when he threatens you, you get scared or worried that he may end it and its just a mind game if he was going to leave you than he would have already done it but its not a healthy relationship if that is what he does every time you argue its like a 2 yr old who doesn't get his way and threatens to hold his breath until he dies so he can get his way its childish and immature there are plenty of other guys out there so don't stress over one childish boy
608936
call the police.\ncome on are you telling us that you still love that ***.\nIf he knows that you still love him then it's blackmail,\nIf he feels that you hate hime then it's rape.\nIf none of the two then he's a psycho.\nbe rational and don't let emotions prevail your brain.\nIt seems that you're a very kind woman, and you deserve better than this freak guy.
1084631
Say bicth i don't like u i have boyfriend that will kill u.
502290
WHY?  Only you can answer that... is he better is he worse?  Why do you keep going back to him?  \n\nMy only guess is that maybe since it's supposedly so bad and not allowed the "danger" is what's attracting you (may not even be the sex itself).  Did you think about that?
211705
leave him alone  youre out to hurt someone because you got  hurt
128480
It's time for you to call her bluff.  Tell her you're uncomfortable with the situation as-is & get some distance from her.  If she ends it with her current BF, go-for-it...otherwise, get away from her.\n\nSHE has got a choice to make.
903472
I don't know what you would do to him but be careful of what he might do to you!