My life is in mess!!What shall i DO TO FIX IT??
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Set your goals and proceed to meet them... pretty easy.
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Live it to the fullest. Life is meant to live not to eliminate! \n\nMax, your fun and Min your worries. (To be short!)\n\nWork on things that would be productive. You could even do really big things, or even really simple things. Its all upto you. \n\nMeet friends, spend time with them, exchange views and emotions. Be with them when they need you, they'll be with you when you need them!.\n\nGood Luck!
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Time Will Heal Everything...Just do something worthwhile that would keep yourself busy and occupied...you could also try going out at your peers, go out-of-town trip if you have the money...
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When things don't go MY WAY!!!
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at the moment , I am in a state of confusion !
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Yes, you need help.  You need a basic course in grammar and spelling, then learn to write in a clear, concise manner.  This will allow you to communicate your problems and get advice from the online community.\n\nAs far as your relationships go, I recommend counseling or joining a cult - you're in such a mess it will take extreme measures to clean you up.
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Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
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You just need to rid yourself & your environment of all things bad, drama causing, & disruptive  ie.. mooching roommates, overly controlling, alcoholic, drug addict boyfriends & any other riff raff that might be around. You will eventually get better in a calm collected loving home.\n\ngood luck you need it
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This will wear and tear on your esteem dear. If you feel that he's totally wrong and out of order, then you must let him know asap. Put a halt to this nonsense and start from there...you probably don't want to live your life like this for ever.
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how about cleaning up your bedroom that your mother has been asking you to do for the past year???..that should CHANGE YOUR WORLD...\n\nAs for the rest of the world, dont worry son, i have got it all in hand....
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Try to get in touch with yourself spiritually and take a time-out. Do something you enjoy and remove yourself from the tension. I know it's easier said than done but it's worth your sanity! **Sending you strength**
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I would pick something that you have done in your life mistake or not, that has some how changed you for the better. People relate well with situations they are familiar with. Try something along those lines
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What kind of help are you looking for? Do you have family, money, health problems?  The best I can do is pray for you and hope that whatever is happening in your life gets better. LOL
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Yes! I agree totally! Thank you for asking this. The best thing to do would be to do other things. Keep yourself busy!
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Seek professional help...good luck!
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focus on the good things in your life and think how you can make the negitive things better. Good luck!
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Please find a qualified therapist/counselor and get professional guidance.  They can help you understand how you got to where you are and therefore, how to move forward to change it.  \n\nI would also like to suggest a book that may be very helpful to you called: "Count Your Blessings", by Dr. John Demartini.  It is published in the U.S. (available at Amazon.com), but it may also be available in your country because Dr. Demartini now resides there part-time.  It is a wonderful book and can help you balance your perceptions about what happened to you.  \n\nOften we only see the negatives and fail to understand that even in the worst of circumstances, there are always positives that help balance things.  When we do manage to see the balance, that can help us to move forward and overcome the negatives - even terrible negatives.\n\nBest wishes and good luck!