Will someone have a happy ending life if he decided to spend the rest of his life with his gay partner?
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Life is what you make of it & no one can predict how it will end. If you love him & want to commit the rest of your life to him, then Congratulations! Happily Ever After to you from me.
1015242
yes, but mine was more, I loved him for 15 years, only to find out after finding him again that he is gay. That hurts big time.
1124038
no because 'gay people' cant change the way they are (liking the same sex), but sibling marriage is something you CAN help (you can find yourself another mate). \neveryone deserves to be happy, but why would you want to marry your brother or sister anyway?\nand what a coincidence it would be that TWO SIBLINGS would turn out to BOTH be gay and BOTH fall in love with each other. homosexuality is not that common and the chances are of both siblings being gay (AND loving each other in that way) are very slim.\noh yea, and it IS just plain weird.\n\nps: no. WRONG. if youre gay, your sibling will NOT be gay, it is not excactly genetic, which is, of course, a topic we could argue about forever.\noh and pps: Yer Stupid!
825364
If you love God. and being Gay doesn't come between you and the spirit of God then you may go to heaven.I allow it. If you get there and they say no. no admittance, then you tell them to talk with me about it I will have a long talk with them OK?ands that reminds me.who came up with this Jumbo shrimp thing, that's like saying  military intelligence in one sentence, they don't go together. and if your gay and molest very  young children like a man did to me. then you should get a death sentence.as a straight person should also.Peace
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I wouldn't care if they got lucky and drew a wild card that said, "You are now GAY."\n\nLook at all that variety out there.  \n\nNothing short of insanity would drive anyone to believe that being gay is some sort of incorrect means of exploring, enjoying, and maximizing the pleasure of living in ones body.  Leave the brain engaged, explore, learn, and enjoy.\n\nThe puritanical variety sure do enjoy their own form of tightening up their a$$, demoralizing their minds, and sabotaging their brains.  Well!  That's their choice.  Let em live with it.
226204
If by some unrealistic chance it were to happen, it doesn't mean that life wouldn't continue.  I would imagine that lesbians and gays would find a way to procreate.  There would be a sort of barter system.  People would recognize the need for civilization to continue and would adapt.
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No. That's only considering yourself and some (probably temporary) emotions.\n\nAsk anyone who has had a successful relationship (>15 years) and they will tell you there were times when they were not satisfied with each other. When they worked through it and waited it out, they found it was just like a passing storm.\n\nIf you break or injure this relationship it will not get any easier for you. Even with the 'perfect' partner it will be almost unmanageably diffucult at times.\n\nBy bailing out each time it gets difficult you are dooming yourself to a life of constantly moving around and never being satisfied.\n\nThey will also tell you that any relationship requires both to actively work on building the relationship and that in the end it's worth it.
736618
I think you've answered your own question.  If you're interested in exploring your options you are not in the relationship that you want to be in.  Therefore, I recommend ending the relationship prior to exploring your options.  I hope you find happiness.
262945
Boy are you inviting grief asking that in this forum...  However, my heartfelt answer is: Where-ever you find love, why not be allowed to make that committment?\n\nI don't see how the government letting you marry the person you love in any way threatens me and my marriage and my family - I would still choose a heterosexual relationship whether or not gay marriage is legal - so my family life does not need defending from your legal status.  I truly believe that you would not chose this lifestyle if you had a choice.  \n\nGood luck to you.
990001
There is no way to say happy or unhappy.  It is both at times.  But I go t to admit convenience is a huge factor in staying with a partner.  No doubt about that.
787335
No, darling, I really don't think anything "made" me gay. I was rather sexually ambigous at the time when I met my partner. She was the soul I was waiting for and she just happened to be in the body of a woman. We've been together for 26 years and I adore her. \nI'm very sorry to hear that you and your friend. No, a person has to make their own choice about their sexuallity and nothing will make them *change* until they're ready. It's not you. He loves you for who you are but you're just not the right sex. My cousin fell in love with a gay man and unlike your gentleman, he treated her very badly so much so that she has chosen to live alone for the rest of her life. Be happy that you and he can love each other. Blessings on you both.
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Yes I can. I have a man I love and loves me in return, we have dreams and goals that we are working towards. Everything isn't perfect, but I have to say that I am fulfilled and very happy. If I were to die tonight my man would know I had been happy.
715629
If you mean the happy ending is something sexual, then, yes; but it depends on the situation and on the person giving the massage.
369008
Heterosexual relationships that last a lifetime often see the role of physical sex diminish over time anyway.  Lifelong relationships last more because the two people do a nice job of working to grow closer in all ways.\n\nIn the end, people want to be with someone who they like spending their time with and who helps them grow and feel more complete.\n\nSo to answer your question, it might be difficult for any relationship to last a lifetime in today's society - but homosexual relationships stand just as much of a chance as do heterosexual ones.
736731
NO, I say live and let live. I have a very busy and happy life...i just don't have the time to trouble myself with what other people do with their lives ...as long as they are not hurting me ...and how could a gay marriage hurt me or anyone?...I feel so sorry for the bored , suffering a miserable life pathetic people that have not one thing in the whole world ..their whole LIVES..better to do with the precious little time we have than to run around putting down gays or anybody for that matter...can you imagine having such a miserable life that you waste time and energy on what gays or anybody Else do with THEIR LIVES?? they try and make other peoples business their own ....what a sad sack lot they must be.I hope generations to come are not so unhappy in their lives ..and mostly i wish for .....\n\nPeace
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My mate completes me. She is what I have always wanted. She was my best friend for 6 years before we became involved and we will be married next summer.\nI dont think a mate is required to have a full life, but from my experiences I do believe being truely in love with someone who returns your love and respect does greatly enhance your level of happiness.
264350
Everything in life happens for a reason.  Even if you can't see it right now... one day, maybe years later, you will.  There is probably NOTHING anyone can say to you to make you feel better... believe me, we've ALL been through rough spots.  When I broke up with a boyfriend a few years ago, I didn't understand anything... but I pulled through, and actually, the person I'm seeing now makes me very happy.  Plus, the boyfriend I broke up with years ago turned out to be gay.  So, it was good that we didn't date, marry, have kids, and THEN have him turn out to be gay, right?  \nBut all I can say is, most likely, a year from now you'll look back and be happy that it happened, because your life is that much better.  And... weird lives are much more interesting anyhow.  If your life wasn't weird, it'd most likely be boring!\n\nGood luck!