Your gyrlfriends lover has an STD,would you tell her even if it meant losing your job?
156523
wow i know thats hard for you but if your friends lover have the friend must have it also so so please don't loose your job she might be ashame more then anyhing knowing that some else know besides her ... good luck
312104
I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
823847
Oh please!  You are messed up!!  As if you'd have the balls to compliment a good looking woman in front of her husband!  Once he's left the room maybe, but I'm sure you'd be running for cover then minute he came back. \n\nBy satisfy do you mean infect with your what multiple stds?  \n\nI'd like to add beggars can't be choosers!
206855
No. No. No.  Eventually it will affect your work, the relationship with other co-workers.  And in the end, if you get fired, you can only think...  If you start dating, sex cannot be far behind.\n\nBased on your question, it can be said you do like your boss and you do have feelings for them, even though you say you have none - but it's in the air.  There's also sexual tension coming from your boss.\n\nAnd the answer is still NO!
892889
Seriously, why not just tell her the truth?  Just say something like 'lucky for you I don't have a girlfriend.... yet.  Maybe you can help me out *wink*'  Im the type of girl that likes to flirt but if I know a guy has a girlfriend I won't even think about dating him.  If I know he's single maybe I'll get lucky...
1077229
I agree with pjchik. Getting an std that can be treated and cured vs. losing a leg... I'd pick the std, unless it's the HIV virus. In that case, I'd lose the leg and keep my life, and not be infectious.
1057675
well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
99283
No it isn't, at least not to find one who truly cares for you.  I speak from personal experience.  If you are honest and open, and that person truly loves/wants to be with you it won't matter. Even if it is a bit tougher if that person is worth it they will take you as is. I was very nervous about telling my current boyfriend (he was he first one after i was diagnosed with g/h) but he handled it fine. It is alot to take in at first, but we have a very happy & healthy relationship & an AMAZING sex life.  Don't let this hold you back.  It has actually made us closer that he accepted me & my condition. He is the love of my life.  I wish you the best
1161262
If she is your good friend, I would tell her the other co-workers have seen them and are talking. I wouldn't say anything beyond this. She wouldn't stop seeing him just because you ask her too anyway. You will only make her mad. Just be supportive and try\nto stay in the back ground as much as possible. When the wife finds out, and she will, it will get ugly. Maybe they will stop seeing each other before that happens. Sex is just a matter of time and when they do cross that line, there is no going back. Good luck!
552914
Dumo Him and move on. Tell him of the STD and HPV. and leave. I am a believer that once a cheater, always a cheater. he is/was very sexually active it sounds like. be careful if you stay with him. It may not have been his first, and not his last. If he does not choose to change is activity, he wont.\nAlso kick him in the nuts. (as Cartman would say...haha) jk
332296
tell them your gay. or tell them you got your gf pregnant.
140125
Well, she was honest, but is she apologetic? If she is sorry and promises to never be unfaithful again, you can probably work it out. But I would make her quit her job, and find another, so the "Temptation" of her boss is not a problem.
1130533
Tell her.  Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?
447892
It sounds like she was fired for insubordination. Regardless of whether your manager is mean, you are asking to get fired if you start cursing at them. The boyfriend had no business being on the property. They are trying to run a business, you know? She won't get re-hired for those reasons, not because her boyfriend, who shouldn't have been there in the first place, stepped in. And her chances of collecting unemployment are also poor should her employer dispute the application. If you mouth off at people you suffer the consequences.
28710
I would not throw stones at her but assuming I found out before a considerable amount of time had been invested in the relationship, I would have to say no way, outright and break it off quick, not my type of girl.  Not the type of girl to start a family with at all.  \n\nThat said if I found out after a year and she had moved accross the country to make a new start and truely seemed to be the right kind of girl now.  Well then Perhaps..., especially since you probably both need to be tested for a suite of diseases.
330157
It was wrong for you to pass the information for these reasons :\n\n1. what someone tells you about themselves should be kept confidential by you....it is a trust\n2. you have no first-hand knowledge of the validity of J's assertion. She could have just made the story up.\n\nThe correct thing for you to have done would have been to confront J about endangering/infecting another person, because that is a selfish, vile thing for her to do. If she doesn't take heed to your advice, you can inform her that a civil suit could be brought against her. \nSecondly, you should have told K to ask J herself. You should not have been asked to be put in the middle.\n\nAs for J, there is no cure for her STD. K is not the only person who will be caught in this snare. You will not be able to warn all of your friends who will be at risk in the future. Casual sex has serious consequences, because some people (like J) are unidisciplined, indiscrimnate and conscienceless.
424526
Tell her you have gonorrhea.  You won't hear a peep out of her ever again.