Do you belive in soul mates?
152849
i didnt untill i met him...when i looked into his eyes for the first time it was as if i knew him my whole life ....married for 3 years and counting
180725
A "soulmate" isn't necessarily the person you have sex with, or are even attracted to, physically.  It means you bond on a spiritual level.  \n\nIt's ideal if your spouse is also your soulmate...but your soulmate can be a best friend, too!
747294
yeah i believe everyone has a soul mate what i don't believe is that soul mate has to be a lover or husband wife i think when you find that one person you just cant live without that's your soul mate
1152940
Yeah, you can love someone and not get real love in return. That is not real love though. But  I think there is a soulmate for everyone and when you find that person you will find true love. Its easy into getting confused that you have felt love in the relationships you have been in, but that depends on how you define love. I think when you finally meet your soulmate, you will understand what true love means, because it will be deeper than anything you have felt before...
851907
You can't, because there is no such thing as a soulmate. Humans are soulless; we're all bags of meat in a pressurised skin.\n\nHope this helps!
1088595
Persons with whom we have closely shared strife and happiness in previous lives return to us again and again. Soul mates are gifts we give ourselves.
503040
I truly believe there is NO WAY to find them.  A soul mate appears when it is the right time like my husband did.  I searched all my life to find him and I didn't till I was 48 and we are married now, have a new home, pets, kids, grandkids and a great life.  He is my world.  There are soul mates for everyone I believe, but they find you when it is the right time for both of you.  I truly believe God meant for my husband and I to meet.  What I am lacking, he has an abundance of and visa versa.  We are opposites in lots of ways, but neither has ever loved like we do now.
94138
There's no such thing as a soulmate.  Relationships work when two people MAKE IT work by cooperating, giving each other the benefit of the doubt, being forgiving, etc.\n\nExpecting someone to just understand you is a recipe for disaster.
520383
I don't believe in a soulmate, but maybe that is because I have not met mine yet. I suppose the best way to tell if you are ment for someone and that same someone is ment for you is if you both feel the same about one another and are each others other half. Can they be whole without you? Can you be whole without them?
309655
Do you belive in love at first sight.. or do i need to walk by again? ha
124959
Yes i did and I think everyone has one, now i dont mean the sickening..sappy..lovey dovey crap...but the one that knows you. knows your soul, that 1 person that you let completely in...the one you can tell anything & everything too...regardless of how embarrassing or stupid it is...the one that knows your feelings & moods from a single look or word and can change it all by a single look or word...the one person that has the power to hurt you no matter what you may tell yourself...the one person that you love and hate as much as you love and hate yourself..the one that you would gladly give your life up for if it meant that the other would have one moment of true happiness & peace. \nThats what a soul mate is to me. It doesnt have to be a lover or the person your in love with. It can be your mother, a sibling, the person that lives down the street, the person that lives a million miles away or the person you've known for years and cant get rid of. If your lucky and your paying attention you'll find that person and recognize them for who they are. I did and yes it was online and no we are not "in" love.
899790
I think there is someone for everyone and we as humans seldom find that one for us. We're fooled, though sometimes, and believe we have... I think that's the worst thing that can happen. When you do find your soul mate.... you'll come together magically... it wont be a simple thing... It will be a twist of fate... \n\nWe never have to make do... You should never stop looking either, because when you do... that's when they'll show up.
952818
I Believe in soul mates they are different than Twin Flames or split aparts.  A soul mate is simply someone you have lived a past life with.  Your whole family probably consists of soul mates, even those we don't like can be a soul mate.   \n\nBut twin flame is special and its not always ideal.  My husband and I are twin flames.  We were both born under the same sign but there are more things than just that.  Little things that let me know he was my twin flame.  My reaction when I first met him was oh Gods not him not now Im not doing that again.  <grins>  Im a pain in the butt to live with but the male version of me is even worse.   He lacks 9 days being a year older than me.  My intitials before we married were JRC  His are FRC  Im still JRC.  It happened to my grandparents as well.  Grandpa lacked 9 days being 4 years older than my grandmother.  His initiles were RCC hers before they got married were MCC.  She died before he did but he died on the 4th aniversary of her passing.  Little things like that have always been significant to me.  But, how do I know hes my twin flame?   Here in about two hours I will get up and walk to the end of the driveway.  As I get to the end of the driveway he will come over the hill and be home for the night.  Hes never home at the same time.  I don't do it by the clock I do it by the feeling I get when he gets close to the house.  I know if hes hurt before he calls. I know if hes going to be late before he calls.  I know because when I close my eyes I can hear his heartbeating in time with my own.  our souls are one and always have been.  I dreamed about him as a child.  He has always been with me to protect me and make me laugh even when driving me completely insane.  Its not an easy path or even the best one.  Most people would be better off pick a soul mate to marry and be with forever.  Not everyone can survive the struggle of trying to share the same soul in such close proximity.  Seperate but not seperate is harder than people think.
421458
I don't believe theres one single person but I do believe there are people out there who you connect with better than others, I guess that could be described as soulmates because they know you better than anyone else.
894835
You have a very good basis for your relationship - your friendship, and evidently there are some strong bonds, as both of you are there for each other. \n\nWhen you have found your soulmate, you will know inside your heart, without a doubt. Sometimes it takes losing someone or not having them around for a period of time before you realise you cannot really live without them. Then you would also know if he is your soulmate.
252459
I believe that there is the possibility of finding someone who is a soulmate. There has to be something about a person that just feels "right," almost like you consider each other equal. In some instances, you may even feel a slight pull to this person, like the couple is 100% compatible in all aspects. This does't rule out fighting, of course. What relationship doesn't have fights? But, in the long run, if there is a person you would consider a soulmate, the fights wouldn't matter.
942690
I used to ... then I came to realize that all relationships are karmic.  It's only "unfinished business" between you and the other person from a previous lifetime.  This is one of the reasons you have such a strong attraction to one whom you think is your soul mate.  You are attracted to them because you've known them in another lifetime, and there is unfinished business that must be attended to.  It was a bit unsettling (and oh so unromantic) when the premise was first presented, but after a period of time, it became abundantly clear that it was true.  I now believe your true soul mate is God.  All of the yearning we experience is "separation anxiety" from our only true love .... GOD.