There is a girl at school who I really like but I'm shy.  Any ideas how I can talk to her and maybe ask herout
141806
Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
142463
Hang out where the shy girls hang out.  They will be glad to know you, too.  Quiet places, coffee shops, book shops, the corner of the cafeteria.  Good luck
565928
Sounds like she's shy too.  Ask her if she'll like to hear a story about something funny you did (as a child perhaps)then tell her.  \n\nOr talk about a scene in a funny movie you've seen or one of those Freddy teenage movies.   \n\nOr you can be honest and upfront and say to her - I'm normally talkative, but when I'm around you I feel shy, she'll open up as well.  \n\nYou'll be surprised to learn most people think they are inadequate in front of people they like and they feel more comfortable if you tell them you do too.
667510
It's probably always a nerve racking experience to approach a girl, especially when you're shy.\n\nDon't write a note or anything like that, that's pretty lame.  If I was you, I would think about what you want to say first, so you don't get all tongue tied when the big moment comes.  Make sure she's not surrounded by a bunch of her friends, that's gonna be pressure!\n\nMaybe you could give her a flower (maybe not a rose, that's a bit too romantic initially) and tell her that you admire her and ask her if she'd like to go on a date sometime.  Don't make her answer on the spot - give her a piece of paper with your ph number written on it and invite her to give you a call if she would like to go out.\n\nGood luck - and remember to smile and act confident, even if you feel like the ground is swallowing you up.\n\nPS  Girls like shy guys (the right ones for you anyway)
509758
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
298456
Do not be afraid to talk to him even if you are shy.\nHe will like you regardless of your shyness if you just talk to him.
736689
Just have a simple conversation with her. While talking make your eyes as compatonate as posible. After you're done, smile at her and just walk away. You're telling her that you like her but also telling her that you're not afraid to make a move.
521698
try something simple telling from your avatar you seem very caring and nice guy so just act yourself go up to her and say "I'm sry to bother you I just couldn't stop staring at your smile and your eyes....."\nIf thats too complicated to say at first heres something easier " Omg I can't believe what happened today in class" if she has a class similar to you this will work great or even if you have to bring up something in general that everyone seen. for instince a fight..... you could say and then just keep a steady converstation and tell her that maybe she'd like to see a movie nothing to drastic at first and go from there ..... Good Luck
920245
Ok, then give her some time to warm up to u, for now, just wave to her in the halls, and say hi. When she feels more comfortable, then go ahead and start talking. \n\nGood luck.
955747
Talk to her or some other person you trust about it. It depends on the person for what you should do. If you think that the girl you like would talk about it with you, I'd recommend talking to her rather than to another person you trust.
186660
Shy girls like men who are partially shy but able to make the first move on them (on the girls.). Well, you could try talking to her about starting and running your own business.\nBut you have to know what kind of business.
82232
Do a little research and find out when she finishes her classes for the day and try to catch her at that time, that way you guys have more time to talk.  When you catch her during that time, start a conversation by maybe asking her a question about school or a particular class.  After a few minutes ask her if you guys can continue the conversation over lunch or coffee.  You can even ask her if she wants to get together for a group study if you guys have the same classes.  You have to start off by having a conversation about something you have in common (such as your classes).  From there it should be easy to transition the converstation from school-related subjects to something more like hobbies and what she likes to do on weekends.  Find out if you have hobbies or interests in common.  If you're too shy to ask her out on a one-to-one date, then you might want to ask her to join you and some friends for a group activity outside of school.  Just remember to be yourself and not try so hard to impress her.  Be confident, friendly and courteous.  Have fun!
442691
Ask a girl out. Just cause you're shy doesn't mean you can't ask her out. It just means you'll be a little nervous doing so. That's just fine.
446703
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
748883
One of the things that u can do is just simply start up a conversation with  her, you really do not have nothing to loose! If you say you sit by her in one of your classes, then just mention something about the class, borrow a pen, ask for notes, start up something, make a joke, or else you will always be asking yourself what if>
868081
ehh, i had the some problem. just dont think what u r doing and ask the girl u like her. after that, apologize to her and say ur sorry u nvr noticed her until now
185453
she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.