can you keep two girlfriends at the same time, withot them knowing of each other ?
149788
You have two options:\n1) You could see them both without them knowing of each other and think you are the man, while secretly living in fear of one or both of them discovering the truth.\n2)  You could see them both and let each one know about the other and then you will KNOW you are the man.  There will be no fear about being found out and if you aren't interested in either of them long-term, then it should be no big deal if one of them doesn't want to be sharing time with your other girlfriend.  \nThere are plenty of girls who are fine with that arrangement and as long as you are safe, open and honest you will find your relationships to be more fulfilling.\nAnd if you are REALLY slick, you might be able to talk them into a group session but you'll never know until you try.  You just gotta decide if the juice is worth the squeeze.\n  \nIf you are scared of losing one of your girlfriends by telling her about the other, then maybe you shouldn't be messing around on her in the first place.
744606
you can kiss your girlfriend...but there are kisses and then there are kisses....if its a peck thats fine....but anything more than that i would too would wonder if you dont share more feelings for each other, other than friendship
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
574683
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
789580
Yeah, but you have to be sure to keep the relationships seperate. If they hurt one another you have to be able to be neutral amd not let either relationship suffer.
135352
It's possible, just most people don't have the mental capacity for it. If you don't have the mental capacity for it, you're going to think it's not possible. A good friend of mine has two girlfriends he loves beyond physical/sexual attraction, and they know and hang out with each other.
212198
if u have a girlfriend, meet with her friends u will find your friend.
770000
its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
163019
Well it all depends. Some people meet each other, are friends for a couple of months and one day they start feeling something else...they casually go out together, they kiss and they realize there´s some romance happening, the feelings are mutual and they don´t need to tell each other to become boyfriend-girlfriend because they already know they are. Some other people go on dates and then they go steady just like the other fella said. But some people are old fashioned...if you are and if she is maybe you´d like to ask her to be your girlfriend...It is up to you and the way both of you feel for each other
58932
If you are even considering another girl while you are with your current girlfriend - you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend.  Definitely, you need to get out of the relationship you are currently in.  It's for you to decide to take that risk if the other girl likes you or not though because I wouldn't tell her that you broke up for her or anything like that - I personally, wouldn't think that was cool.
1019011
yes because you know eachother so well and are comfertable around eachother and really like each other.
1025907
To be honest, I think its really healthy for both people in a relationship to be able to communicate with people of the opposite sex.  As long as you know they're going home with you or that you'll see them again tomorrow, the rest doesn't matter.  To me it is the mark of a great relationship when you can truly let each other have the space you need.
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
46024
I live with two incredibly gorgeous and endearing women, and not to toot my own horn, but I'm a fairly attractive guy.  We've been friends for the better part of ten years.  Although I admit I fantasize about them every now and again, that doesn't really make them any different than any other attractive females.  I know I'd never want to complicate what we have as friends.
666905
Yes. Just be her friend for now, but not too good of one or it will just help her stay with the other guy too because then she'll have the best of both worlds.  Let her know how you feel about her and that you are there for her, but that until she is free from other ties that you need to keep your distance.
56598
Trust your instincts. No one here can truly tell you yes or no because we don't know anything about you or your girlfriend personally.
871731
Additional phone=additional girlfriend.