I'm a girl. My good friend knows I like girls. she's only had boys. how can I ask her out on valentine's?
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Don't just kiss her.  That is terrible advice.  \n\nYou can't just ask a straight person out on a gay date cold.  There in lies rejection.  Start simple.  Start giving her compliments or floating little comments about how hot some female movie star is.  Be really attentive to relationships (past or present) and plant little seeds like "you really deserve someone who would treat you better/appreciate you".  Find ways to bump hands and linger just a second longer then you need to.  Tell her she is beautiful - A lot.  Make sure that she knows you will appreciate and respect her.\n\nThen once you have planted these seeds (and if she hasn't freaked out yet), take her aside one day and tell her that you really like her and think she is so wonderful/beautiful and would like to take your friendship to another level.  And have a plan.  Say you would love to go out to dinner/mini golf/opera/whatever and see if she feels any sparks.  That is about the best you can do.\n\nHowever you have to respect her wishes if she says no.  No one likes that creepy stalker that can't accept that you don't have feelings for them.  Don't be that person.  And for heavens sake, don't push her if you think she is bi or lesbian and she does not.  Even if you are right, it will take time. If she says no, just say that is ok and give her a compliment, like I just really think you are a beautiful wonderful person etc.\n\nAlso be prepared for some estrangement if she does not say yes.  She might feel a little weird around you at first.
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ask her don't be shy I totally love it when boys come up 2 me and tell me themselves.Trust me u don't want your friends to tell her friends to tell her u like her .DRAMA!!!!!!Just take a deep breath and talk to her but be yourself because we totaly can tell when ur trying to show off.Good luck.When u ask her come back and tell us how it went
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At this point, I think you need a spot test.\n\nYou need to start a conversation with her, and steer it towards a gay topic.... Did you see Brokeback Mountain? or Can you believe that gay people in this country can't get married?\n\nWatch her response.  If she seems uncomfortable with the homo content, then back off.  Either she is gay and not ok with it, or straight.\n\nBut if she engages you in a conversation, at least then you'll know that your sexual orientation doesn't repulse her.  Thats a good start. \n\nIf she responded positively, then you need to start sending some signals back.  Compliments compliments compliments.  Even straight people love compliments.  Tell her she is pretty.  In many different ways.  Again, keep an eye on your response.  If you see signs of panic or irritation, back off.  \n\nSuggest you two should hang out some time, go to a movie or something.  Incorporate small ammounts of touching, graze you hand against hers "accidentally" or if you're watching a  video, sit next to her on the couch and lean in a little.  And keep an eye on the responses.  You have to learn to be keen to things like voice intonation, eye movements, tensing up or smiles.  \n\nAfter you've hung out a couple times, hopefully you'll have a chance to bring up stuff about boyfriends and girlfriends.  Its a good time to come out to her as bi, and see what happens.  If she reacts favorabley, give her a couple days, then say you really like her and would like to take your friendship to a different place.  Ask her out on a very well planned date.  Have a resturant or a movie in mind.  And take it from there.... \n\nGood luck!
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I think its nice that u really like this girl. Do u think she might like u? It might be best to ask a few people who know her to see what they think. The last thing u want to happen for the 1st time asking out a girl is the chance she may say no. That will hurt. A good way to ask her out is maybe to say "i wondered if your seeing anyone at the moment because if not id like to take you out for a drink". Make it casual, smile as you speak. If you dont try you will never know. Good luck!
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U THINK OR U KNOW?\nIF U THINK THEN ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT U!\nIF SHE LIKES U THEN ASK HER IN A VERY NICE WAY.\nLIKE TAKE HER OUT TO THE PARK,TO GO EAT, OR SOMETHING THEN ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS.\n\nIF U KNOW THEN ASK HER OUT. BUT WHEN U DO MAKE IT IN A ROMANCE. MAKE HER FEEL VERY SPECIAL TO U.\nI KNOW SHE WILL LIKE THAT CUZ I WOULD!\nDON'T EVER ASK A GIRL OUT THRUOGH THE PHONE BAD CHOICE\nCUZ SHE WILL WANT TO SEE UR FACE WHEN U ASK HER. AND BESIDES IT'S MORE ROMANCE TO HER!
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Guess u must be a guy. Well since uall have been fiends its not be easy, two things ur either gonna get her or loose ur friendship prob. What kinda friends were yall. Does she know ur dirt. Do u know hers. Does she like you, treat u special or diff form her other male friends. If ur not absolutely sure that she likes u, then only tell her how u feel. If ur sure she likes u then make a move. I mean ask her out on a date and just ask her how she'd feel if you fancied her on the date noy at home. \nU sound like u had sex with her, and now u caught feelings. Why are u worried where she is, or doing. What do u mean by never really dated her.\nIf u had sex with her before, or still havin it with her then ur trouble dog. Does she worry about where u are. How often do you all talk on the phone, how often does she call you, when does she call you.\n\nLate calls could mean ur prob the only one she talks to, of cares about. If she always gets of the other calls she was on when u call her then she digs u dog. \nWhen u call her late( how late is it) does she care. if she doesnt mind then she digs u men for real. Girls a more direct than us guys.\nIf she really likes u she'll devote to you only, If they wanna break up with u they'll in a minute with no hesitation.\nAssess everything ive said don't make judgements to favor ur thinkin. be unbaised in accessin. test her on all these things and see if she's into u then make ur choice
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Ask her if she would like to hang out sometime, as friends. Then get to know her and remember to ask her LOTS of questions (so she knows you really do care about her and her life). Then see where it goes from there. If you feel she's into you, then ask her out on a date. Good luck and never give up--that's a key to getting any girl--show her the world and actually deliver it.
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I'd say first develop a really good friendship with the person and their friends.  That's how I got my girlfriend.  That makes asking her out easier for you and her because you both know each other well enough to date.\n\nIf you can't wait too long, as in you have an upcoming dance with her, just ask her if you want to hang out sometime.  May I suggest seeing a movie?  You won't be talking as much, but it can help develop a friendship as well.  Going out to eat, such as Applebee's, also helps out.\n\nDating with friends helps everything!\n\n[troy]
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yeah, im a guy so this might help. Flirt a little, and maybe try to be the boy(s) u like friend. Then gradually overtime maybe the boy will ask you out, unless hes gay, or has a girlfriend.\n\nOh yeah, if anyone needs some more advice mail me or chat with me.its cody_22407
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i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
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Just act like your gay or think of her as one of the guys(and don't try any funny business).  Just enjoy her company and point of view like (i assume) she enjoys yours.  I love having male friends it keeps me well rounded.
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honestly the best thing you can do is just to take a deep breath, man up and go ask her...\nthere's a guy that i know likes me but he's too shy to ask me out, although i've given him more than enough signals to show that i like him...Sometimes girls (aka myself) just dont feel comfortable asking a guy out themselves, unfortunately.  So if you dont want to miss out on something you better go ask her.
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You have to be friends with them first. Always show that you have an interest in them. Don't try to impress just be funny, or sporty, or whatever it is that you are good at that girls like. Have your own style, don't copy styles. Be yourself, because then you'll just blend i with the other boys. Then ask the girl out. ;)
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call her up & ask her if she would like to go out for a dance or a cuppa coffee .even if she has a boy friend you can still be good friends & maybe someday she might dump that cool guy for a shy guy like you.you can never know what's going on in a gals mind.\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
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umm maybe more then friends. ask her if she wants to go out sometime
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Walk up to her, hand her some flowers, and ask her out. Keep ot simple. Don't freak yourself out. Make sure the date is amazing and you'll be fine! If she says no, stay cool and get over it. There will be more girls! Trust me!
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Real easy. Tell her you are interested and ask her to dinner. If she's not game, she's probably not interested. If you're direct and assertive her shyness won't get in the way. Don't ask her to come out with you and your friends, either.  You want to make yourself clear that you want a romantic dinner.\n\nDon't worry so much about rejection.  It happens.