How do I get rid of resiment toward someone that I love so much?
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Let go of the hurt...it's difficult to learn to accept something you don't want.. but sometimes we have to learn to do just that. Sometimes we have to be our own best friend-do what you need to do for you to help you get through the tough spots..what would you advise your best friend to do in a situation like this?...Keep in mind, all the while your guts are tied up in a knot..she has no idea-don't give her that kind of power over you and your life. The time we have to walk this world is so short-there's a woman out there who can love you the way you deserved to be loved..if you're so preoccupied by this other woman when the Right one comes around-you may not be able to see her...and That, my friend, would be a terrible thing..hang in there..
1150260
I don't believe it is possible to wake up and stop loving someone.  You can get over her one day at a time and it will take some time if you truly love her.  You probably will always have a special place in your heart for her.  Who knows yall may work things out.  I just know that you can get over her slow but sure and still have a love for her different from any one else.  I am sorry you are going through this. I KNOW it is tough.
752969
Stop seeing her more often.  Let the relationship die by distancing yourself.
56807
Keep thinking about something else.  Keep occupied.  Keep busy.  These feelings will go away with time.  Pray that these wanting to get revenge feelings will go away even faster.  I know it is hard but we are all human & had to go thru this.  Reflect to yourself remembering your good qualities and then compare them to what you don't want to be like in this other person.
993365
concentrating on these things too much can lead to obsessions so just relax and enjoy your life and your body. then one day when you are both ready a person will comeinto yourlife and share it with you. And they will truely love you for the you that you are.
1125169
I do the same thing.  Nothing is wrong with getting rid of the possesions that remind you of an ex-lover.  And if his feelings were hurt, TOO BAD!
671436
Well at times life puts you through a test and you need to make do with what you have and decide likewise.\n\nIf possible, you should decide on moving away from him.\n\nIf you are dependent on that person and / or tied with him for some reason which would not allow you to move away, then try to stress less on the darker side of your life. If it's just something that you can't really do anything about then at-least deviate your mind and attention away from that person as much as possible. Try occupying yourself with something that takes your mind away from him so you don't keep pondering on the fact and getting yourself more depressed.\n\nLast but not the least, I don't really know your relationship with this person or your history with him, though would still suggest to analyze your situation once again to see where the wrong lies. There may just be ways that you can salvage your relationship with this person. Depending on your situation, it may just be worth the try.\n\nHope you find a way out of your problem soon.\n\nAll the best.
308993
You're no longer close?  Then just leave them in the past, darlin.  You're trying to live better and clean up your act, DO NOT be around them, I can say they will try their damndest to drag you back down to their level.  Completely write them off, take them off your cell phone, email, ims, MySpace, whatever and however you talk to them.  Leave them and that life in the past and you will feel a 1,000 times better.
1077564
You probaly won't get over the feelings ever. To get over him, date him. Then you'll see how much of a jerk he really is. And then you wont like him anymore.
493623
Deep down you haven't really let him go \nTo forget about him you have to
427831
mmm...ur feelings are ordinary...it will take some time to forget him...u have to do some important things to make it a small period :\n1-never try to contact him even if u felt that u would die to hear his voice or see him, never even think of that.\n\n2-when u find ur self starting to think of him, start to remember the bad things he did to you as much as u can.\n\n3- never think that u miss his days and never dream of being with him again.\n\n4- try to think of another one if u can (that's a quick cure but it's not a good one).\n\n5- finally and the most important try not to have alot of free time, try to engage ur self in doing anything...and try not to stay alone for a long time...be with ur friends,relatives,or any other people.
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Often when a relationship is over the rose colored glasses come on and we only remember the best times. If this relationship is truly over with no chance for reconciliation do this; Think of all the things that annoyed you about the person, or the pet peeves you couldn't stand. Trust me, no one is perfect so dig down deep and write all those uglies down and keep them close by. When the ex creeps into your mind read those things about them and remember. You may always have a special place in your heart for them, but it doesn't mean you can not or should not MOVE on! Trust me, my son's father I thought I would not be able to BREATHE without him but I wrote down all the ugly things and never forgot them. We are now platonic friends, he is married and so am I and we will always be connected because of our son but I like the way it has all played out and honestly, If i could get back with him I Wouldn't. Good Luck. "Time Heals all wounds."
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
247910
just tell that person how u feel and never talk to them again just walk away
103407
Have enough self respect to remove that person from your life.  Kick it to the curb because deceipt DOES NOT enhance your life and if you believe it will not happen again.....then you're not being honest or truthful to yourself!!
122305
When you love someone, you don't want space.
923139
The best thing to do is distance yourself away from them. Don't call them or email them, and definitely don't see them. The more you stay away and keep out of contact with them, it will be easier to detach yourself from this person. This does not mean that you will ever forget about this person, but it will make it easier for you to go ahead with your life. This takes time for some people, and other people it doesn't. It all depends on the individual. This has always worked for me.