how do you get a boy to like you and think your skinny?
141066
First thing you should do is love yourself for who you are.  If you are a size 7 then just make sure you are happy with that.  Boys who only date girls who are a certian way are superficial and will miss out on a lot in their lives.\n\nSecond, If you are not happy with yourself then do things that are healthy and will improve you.  You(like all of us) are a work in progress.  It is always a good thing to impove what you have.\n\nYour date will come.  Not everything that looks good is good for you.  If you are not happy how you are then even if he did date you, then you would be worried that he would want to leave.  If you are happy with yourself then the right guy will see that you are confident and that will be attractive all by itself.
672608
Well...first of all...get to know him. Know his personality and let him know yours. I'm sure you both will have sumthing in common. Another thing you could try is making yourself stand out. Like wearing make-up and see if he notices and then possibly he'll comment on you. If he does...go to the clothes. Put sumthin sexy on or w/e or sumthin pretty. Don't try to look like a $lut...just a little sumthing different. Too much can rele affect you and your personality and looks. Just be sure to smile and try your hardest. Don't change too much for him because then your friends won't like wat's changed of you. They like you becuz of you and that boy should think the same. Just try to do this every now and again but not constantly because you shouldn't have to change just for him. Ya gotta be yourself!
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
845681
ok, bake him some goodies that he likes. give him a friendly hug when you see him. be honest and tell him how you feel. if he is the person you say, he will be flattered.
41415
are you super shy? coz if your not, just go up to him and say\n"if i say you have a nice body, would you hold it against me?" \nhe will laugh. and you can take it from there.\nhey, if man use corny lines why cant we.\n\nbut seriously now, stop planning. just go up to him and talk to the guy. treat him like your friend.\nand be confident. you got this in the bag!
594774
compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
79260
I would like to say that I disagree with Wonderboy, but the truth is there are many shallow people out there that DO base how they think they feel about a person on how that person looks. But looks can be very deceiving!\nJust be yourself. If the boy you like is going to like you, he needs to like you for who/what you are. If you have to do something (pretendig to like things you don't or acting differently than you normally would) to get him to like you, then it is not really a good start. He won't be liking you for yourself, but for who or what he THINKS you are.
921828
Don't be anything but yourself. Try starting a conversation with a simple "hello" or compliment. If he doesn't seem interested then move on to someone else. You can't make someone like you. There's someone out there for you and only you.\n\n♥Rachel
429995
One good way is to have a conversation with him and find out what he likes to do. Basically be interested in him. Pull him in slowly by adding bits of yourself into the conversation. Give him the eye and hook if he bits than he knows for sure your interested.
263315
To get a guy to like you that is right for you just be yourself.
268672
Sweetheart, you want to be confident, but vulnerable.  compliment him and laugh at his jokes.  make eye contact for 3 consecutive seconds.  most importantly be yourself!!!
12790
Get his s/n....and send him messages every once in a while. Also become his friend. Brush by his side accidentally but on purpose, it will definatly get him to start thinking about you. P.S.~ the bushing past your crush should take less than 10 sec. HOPE IT WORKS!!!!!!!
498088
Just be your sweet self and you will find a guy who will like you for you. Don't ever try to be what he wants you to be... be who you are. If he cannot like you for you, then you don't need him. That's great that you have lost the weight, now you just need to find your self esteem. Join clubs, go out with your friends, volunteer - just get out there and meet new people and don't worry about finding The One. It always happens when you don't look.
709885
Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
233735
just give him clues but dont tell him directly that u like him.  And start a conversation with youre friends and talk about how hes not to shaby looking, dont tell them compliments about him just tell them how he is a good guy to have around theyll soon start to look at difrent aspects of him and then they might think difrently about him
146540
you cant actually make someone like you . most of the time girls try to make themselves someone there not dont do that. if you really want a guy to like be yourself. if this guy has sisters or something try to befriend them theyll sort of introduce you to him and then you might want to dress yourself up a little, dont overdo it, and be the sweet kind person you are.\nDont throw yourself at him either because then hell think your easy and he'll just want to get in your pants.
685688
Flirt. \nThat will always work. Do it in subtle ways, NOT to the point you look trashy.\nIf you like him, then the really best thing to do is just tell him. Once he KNOWS you like him, it'll defiantly make him see you in a different/good light.