why is suicide so looked down upon?
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It would seem that what is meant by the term "looked down upon" would reflect the need of a proper angle into appraising such a question by the poser (addressing the question).\nSuicide is the taking of a life by the "self." \nIt seems that from a legal aspect the taking of any life is against the norm of explicit rule of law and this would be an action or inaction to prevent a murder, and thusly possible under our society's law. \nIt (the commission of the act itself) is also a terrible contingent upon the future of the surviving significant others.\nFrom another angle (spiritual) in many religions such an act is considered to be a crime (sin) against a creature of God; however not a condemnation.\nIn my opinion these views are not derogatory but on the contrary it is a reach by the 'social norm' to extend humane buttress unto an individual so inclined. Jose
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Suicide is frequently highly stigmatized, and those experiencing suicidal ideation struggle to be heard and understood. Suicidal ideation frequently results from the experience of pain outweighing the individual's coping strategies and resources for dealing with that pain.\n\nMedicine views suicide as a mental health issue. Severe suicidal thoughts are considered a medical emergency. Mental health practitioners consistently advise suicidal people to seek help. This is especially true if the means (weapons, drugs, or other methods) are available, or if a detailed plan is in place. Suicidal patients in mental hospitals may be temporarily bound, placed in padded rooms, or incapacitated with drugs to limit access to means of suicide.
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i think suicide is commitedby those who r a pessimist and do not havea stable mind
1147162
I dont know but I think people in general frown upon suicide because at one point we have all thought about it but we choose to fight instead.
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When it comes to helping people you have to learn to choose your battles. You can't expect to please everyone all of the time. \nAs for people who hate themselves etc.,...it is easier to deal with someone elses problems rather than your own. It is a classic form of denial.
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people who do it repeatedly, and without seriously wanting to kill themselves, are generally crying out for help, frustrated and are unable to express their self hatred. it does not generally mean they are suicidal. this is more common in feamles than males, and often the result of sexual abuse that leaves them feeling dirty, ashamed and full of self hatred, hence the desire to harm themselves.\n\nmany people who overdose are not intentionall overdosing, just not good at self mediacting, or plain greedy, and often become violent and abusive when ambulance staff revive them.
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Because no matter how well dressed we are or how high powered our job is - we all fall down the stairs like the wonderful fools that we are! \n\nI think its not laughing at thier pain, but at thier exposure as a vulnerable human being.
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Usually when someone tells you they are going to commit suicide, they are asking for help, not necessarily going to do it...plus one doesn't suddenly decide to kill themselves without showing signs of depression or unhappiness prior to it.  But you can't take the chance that they might, so I would let as many friends/family as you can know what their intentions are so they they can together as a group,show this person how much they love them and help to get them the help they so desperately need.....if they are as close to you as you say, you need to be there for him/her.....
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they really believe accidental....that being said, in most cases, when people have sank to that depth into drugs, they really aren't conscious of what they are doing, nor do they really care, hence, profound self destructiveness, just a bit more "passive" form of suicide.  Janis, though putting on an "party" facade before she died had been acting very inappropriately/bazaar & all that knew her could see it & knew she was really deeply despondent.♥
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Most ppl cut to redirect their attention to a pain that is perceived as less than what is really troubling them.  #1 reason is that they have been abused (usually sexually).  Without proper therapy things will worsen!!
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People are self centered. They may be insecure of themselves so they put one down to bring them up. There is positive criticism though, which is tough to take but may be healthy.
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I can understand that, but I hope it's just a passing thought. It really does always get better eventually & you wonder why you had that thought...until the next time.\n\nI think suicide is very selfish, though. The person who commits suicide doesn't think about the people they are leaving behind who sit around and go crazy blaming themselves for your selfish act.\n\nI had a male friend who committed suicide several years ago because his exgirlfriend didn't show up at a place he told her to meet him. The poor girl showed up about five minutes too late. I guess he thought she wasn't going to come. Now SHE is the one who has to blame herself forever and be scarred by that incident even though she responded to his call.\n\nAnyway, like I said, for you, I hope it's just a passing thought like I think everyone gets once in a while. If not seek help - not necessarily from a shrink - but a friend, family member - heck, even a pet. Write in a journal - there are many great ways to give yourself therapy without spending any money. Oh, and yes, I do think it is the ultimate sin - the ultimate selfish act.\n\nGood luck - I hope you find some cool ways to cope with life's injustices - you're not alone.
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She is just trying to attract the attention of her peers...She also has low self-esteem.  However, it would be prudent if someone from now and then watch her.  I heard one time about a girl like her, and she really committed suicide by hanging herself.  Her friends are still blaming that they never took her seriously....
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Suicide has been a very serious issue in Japan. There are many school kids (not many but some) committing suicide. It's usually because they were bullied by their friends, or they were under a great pressure for getting good grades by their parents. Also, there are many office workers in their middle age around 40 yrs old committing suicide. They are also usually very tired and stressed out under a great pressure at work. The trains in Tokyo often stop and delay because of the suicidal accidents. Workers commuting to work just get so depressed and there are ppl who just jump in to the rail while the train is coming. \nThere are more and more help lines that they can call for help and talk to counselars. Like in high school, the school provides students listing of help lines. Teachers are pretty concerned about bullying at school. \nSo Japaneses are very sensitive about suicide nowadays.
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Nope, it doesn't make you weak it makes you strong. Life sucks sometimes but don't take the coward's way out. Live with the hand you've been dealt. Other people will be effected by a selfish decision like suicide.
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Because depression is an illness that cant be seen. If someone had a broken leg or no legs at all they would have some kind of empathy for them but people who suffer from deep depression dont have physical symtoms that people can see. Unless someone has experienced severe depression they should consider themselves blessed. It is hell.
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in a way it is very ironic but I think that many people feel the same way. I know that I myself believe in the death penalty for extreme crimes but otherwise not at all. See the problem that I see with encouraging to kill themselves is that often times the people guilty of such crimes don't feel guilt for their crimes, so why would they kill themselves. I don't know guess i am rambling. Good Luck in deciding