My boy friend is busy for work and I have no friend,work or study?
139132
it isn't your boyfriend's fault that you are unmotivated and he shouldn't be expected to entertain you all the time. You need to get a job. Most people meet friends outside of the home, which is where you stand a better chance of meeting them too. If you have agoraphobia (fear of going out into public) then you should get some help with it.
297771
Try to talk to him. Tell him he has to work.
207514
tell your friend about the issue. And if he doesn't mind, ask him if he could be dull for the evening.
489299
You're feeling sad because he is neglecting you and not meeting your needs for love. If he wants to be in a relationship with you then he needs to make a commitment. He can't sleep in the office because he needs to balance his work and family life. You need to talk to him and tell him that you are not happy about it. If he doesn't care, then do the "tough love" thing. A relationship goes both ways. He looks out for your needs, you look out for his needs.
446206
maybe he is atually really busy.. give him some time....
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
346954
i totally agree with the fact that u should be appreciated..BUT being away from him isnt solving anything. trust me GO BACK and figure it out. time off doesnt work. the guy gets bored and moves on.. trust me. work with him
119848
maybe he is busy and doesn't have time to talk
927239
First chill out, dont start biting his head off just for not cleaning up or being a little late.  GENTLY ask him or talk to him about whats been going on in his life lately or how his days have been, could be work related, could be not feeling well, we all can't have days where we're up and about getting everything we want, done and on time............so just talk to him, its no reason to start giving him the cold shoulder unless he's out partying or "elsewhere" and coming home late.  He shouldn't be mad if you're just asking curiously about why his actions have been changing and he's not cleaning up, etc etc.  You should be just fine.  Good luck.  :)
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
392466
tell your friends to give you some space and time with this boy alone...if they're good friends, they'll understand.
346668
It sounds as if he is displeased with the state of your life together.  You are both working way too much in my opinion.  You should both cut back.  Then he'll have plenty of time to sleep and you'll have more time to spend together.
600842
Approach him and find out if he's doing anything after work. You dont' need to be classy about it just don't be the opposite.
491969
I THINK HE IS JUST BUSY AND YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH IT LIKE I DID (AND STILL ARE) WITH MY BOYFRIEND. IT IS NORMAL, DON'T WORRY
978842
Either move back home where you have family and friends, or find some new friends who can keep you company while he is away.  Depending on the type and closeness of the friendship, all your needs could be well satisfied.  :)  Enjoy!
1067582
Sounds like your boyfriend is not doing his job then. Go out and join a sports team and make some more friends.
276181
If you can stop at work and get a little talk just to see whats up, with out causing trouble with his employer, if not just send a text message to him saying your thinking about him and missing him. Or you can sit and wait. If he is that much on the fence on which way to go then let it push him one way or the other. It will be for the best what ever way it goes. It just the enviable.