why we are not happy when you have everything how you get peace of mind?
156957
We are only happy if there is a possibilty to be sad. if we have everything, we have no reason to be sad, so we're not happy. but we forget that if we lose everything, we can be sad too. so be happy.
318601
WOW! you sure what a lot don't you? There is no way that a human being can always be happy, just like there is no way that you can always be sad. You can have a general good outlook on life and try to be happy with the situation that you are in. If you live a honest, decent life where you try your best you will find happiness.  If you help your fellow humans by volunteering of your time, talents and/ or money you will find happiness. Thinking of and helping others lets you know that your situation could be a lot worse.  In turn this makes you thankful for what you have.  If you try to always find happiness through materialistic things that you own, you are doomed to always be unhappy for the most part.  There is always something new and better around the corner. If you spend  some of your free time with family and friends ,you will find happiness.  You sound very young and unsure of yourself.  Be proud of what and who you are.  God bless you and Good luck!
1178466
In order to have happiness a person should have all the mind intact. I couldn't think of leaving a piece of mine behind.
635094
because we are now in a world were some of us don't know how to appreciate what we have. we always want more, or think we can get better. and you lose the person you care the most about because you never took the time to realize that, that person is everything you want and more
194871
To tell you the truth I don't know if you can be happy every day of your life. Certainly not every moment. \n Keeping a positive attitude, knowing that things will be better when they are bad, knowing things could be so much worse. Having a special someone in your life that you love and loves you back. Well those are the things that keep me happy most days. But I am not perfect and the world isn't perfect so I take what I can get and make the best of it.
264253
Nope, I think that feeling comes from not being happy with your current situation. Change the situation and you will feel fulfilled.
272069
Let me ask you this.  If you had a time machine and could change any event in your past, would that make you feel better about yourself today?  If it would then realize what it is about that event that is sabotaging you today.  If it is a past thing, often times we know intellectually that we are ok but our emotions are still tied to that past event.  Emotions stay the same no matter how old we get.  We cant stop the pain in life sometimes but we can increase the tools to deal with it.  When you dropped something as a young child you cried.  You can drop the same item now and it is ok, why?  You have information now that tells intellectually it is ok.  The emotions are the same but the tools to deal with that event are in place.  You have already experienced that event and it no longer shocks you.  So what is it about your life that is shocking you now?\n\nWhatever the issue is past, present, you need to see what is eating away at it.  It is ok to feel bad, it is the flipside of the coin to feeling happy.  The problem is if we become depressed about it, all life's issues become sensative and bigger problems than they are.\n\nYoung or old we all feel down at times.  Some just hide it better or keep themselves occupied to endure those moments.  Sometimes we feel like we are being taken somewhere and have no way to steer it.  The key is planning what you want to do.  Life is 90% how you react to it.  If you think you are successful and a good person, people will be convinced of it too.  Most reality comes from someone's perception.  They believed it and it became so.\n\nDepression is impression without expression.  Something gets you down, find a way to express it.\n\nIf you kind of hate yourself then you have not completely made full judgement on yourself yet.  If you hate yourself than you are having an expectation that you are not at yet.  Find out what that is and is it a valid expectation?\n\nGood luck to you!
901563
You´ll always find dissatisfaction in life, one way or another. The key is to learn to be happy at all times no matter what. That should be my answer
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Its funny how you can go through life so carefree and happy, until you fall in love..Then you feel what true happiness is like.  Then you lose that person and life can never go back to being the same, you're never complete, and life feels somewhat empty.\n\nI know it sucks now..but I want you to know that it gets better.  Life got much clearer one morning when I was late for work and I'm running around looking for my keys.  I searched everywhere...EVERYWHERE... eventually I just gave up.  I reached in my shirtpocket for gum and there are my keys.  Enlightenment reached.  Just lets it happen is the moral of the story, but remember chance favors a prepared mind.  Stay prepared cause life comes at you fast.
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Sometimes it is.  When you have nothing to lose, you become more liberated emotionally and spiritually.  We often create false dependencies on the things and people we think we possess.  If we knew what's truly important and what to let go of, I think we would live much richer lives.
998859
dont stress over things. fix things that you can fix, or if you can fix it let it slide off your back.
869488
In life we have all kinds of this happening to us that we do not understand.  Money is not what you make you happy.  Just about every one is going thru some type of financial problems.  If nothing else know that you are loved and not alone.  So what you don't have a lot money, think about this way, we people sleeping on the streets don't have money either, but you have a warm bed to sleep in every night.  I can say these things because I understand what you are feeling.  One thing that really helped me was I had to put myself on a very strict budget and not sway from it for anyone or anything, and guess what it is working out fine.  Look inside yourself and see that you have so much more than money.
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As they say, Ignorance is Bliss ... But you can't be truly happy if you avoid responsibility.  Handling responsibility helps us to grow and mature.  The feeling of accomplishing a difficult task is something that CAUSES happiness.
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you need to settle down during times of frustration and consider a long view of life, you need to concentrate on the good things you have in life, you need to stop thinking that everything should go your way all the time\n\nlife is not like that, most people do not get their way even 50% of the time\n\nthink about this:\n\nyou are not a starving child in the deserts of africa, it could be a lot worse\n\nyou probably have a decent job, air conditioning, a vehicle that can take you anyplace you want to go, at the least some sort of family or friend emotional support system, and you live in a country that is very rich
625959
No its not you should have your peace of mind and be happy talk to someone about this its not normal to be in depression but i know alot of people are and they dont even know about this.
816250
honey your stressed big time you have alot on your mind relax and take it easy everything will be fine for ya thats all you need and thats the only thing wrong with you!
108060
I'm calm and relaxed about most things, because NOTHING is the end of the world.. unless it actually is the end of the world..then I would be anxious and sad...\n\nI get excited often with my husband, for unspeakable reasons...\n And excited that I get another day with my family and friends to do whatever I want to make my day full.\n\nI am sad when my days seem to be the same for days at a time without any movement forward to better things.\n\nMost often I am content, with my surroundings, my life, my will to be more today than I was yesterday, and to silently move into my own realm of being me.