a 16 yr old boy and 14 yr girl sex is safe or not ?
154714
I suggest you look into the legal regulations wherever you live and find out the terms and conditions for being charged with something called "statutory rape."
1029673
There is NO WAY ON EARTH that a 14 year old should be going out with an 18 year old.  It is not "against the law" to date, but anything sexual with him is a crime (for him, not for you).
222023
I think you're mother is right. What do kids at 13 and 16 know about love let alone sex? Let yourself grow up and then worry about bf's and gf's!
602676
As long as both are underage, it's perfectly fine.\nI wouldn't personally advise it, though...
997332
14 year olds should not be having sex!! You have barely passed out of the concrete thinking mode, and have no idea what you are getting into, or what the consequences, both long and short term, of having a child. It almost dooms you to a life of poverty. And as a child, you certainly don't have what even most adults lack: Parenting skills!\n\nA 14 year old isn't looking for anything long term, just about 15 minutes is all they are looking for.!!
926246
It depends on the laws of your state.  Generally speaking, when both people are under 18 and just dating there are no laws being broken.  Some states have laws regarding youth under the age of 14.  But as long as the two aren't having sex, there's nothing to worry about.  In some states it is illegal for two people under 18 to have sex.  And of course it's not legal for anyone 18 and older to have sex with a minor.
598182
When I was like 20 or something. Honestly. Holy crap that seems old. \n\nAs far as the 10 yr old goes, anythings possible. The only concern I would have would be that she would want real sex if she`s already thinking about those things. Her mom should talk to about it without making her feel ashamed about it.
221559
It really doesn't matter whether you live in the same house or not. What matter is the protection of the girl. If you people are married and want to have a babyor the girl is willing to take contraceptives then its ok not to use condom , otherwise, they are a must
429126
keep your thoughts to yourself.  They are under age!\n14 yr. olds should not be encouraged to be overly sexy and hot.  Leads to trouble.
714784
No, that's statutory rape. Legally, a minor is not old enough to consent.
649304
Im not sure what peoples concern is with "proper" anything. As long as the male and female are consenting adults I think you should be more concerned with compatibility than with age difference.
116104
Some teens are turned on by the sex with an older man thing. They don't understand (or care) that you can get in serious trouble if their parents find out. You could even be accused of statutory rate. Maybe it's all a thrill for them.\n It's good to hear you have better morals that R. Kelly!!
1103209
Of course it's OK. Everything is OK as long as all participants have the pleasure and do it on free will - and they are old enough to take sexual decisions (see the law of your area).\n\nWhy worry about any kind of weird moral?\n\nBut, of course, be responsible and use preservatives or - if it's a regular partner - reliable birth control.
315977
3 years apart is not bad, but the fact that the girl is underage by American Standards then its illegal.\nnot immoral.
967609
Speaking as a Dad with a daughter about your age I have to tell you that I would worry about it... Boys his age have very strong sexual urges... If your mom finds out that you have had sex with him after he turns age 18 then he will get arrested for statutory rape and will go to jail.  That will most likely ruin any chances of him ever having a normal life with a good paying job... \n\nAlso, there is a big difference in mental age between 14 and 17... He may already be driving and is starting to find his way in the world... If he goes to college you can be sure that he will find a college girl because there is so much freedom to do what you want on a college campus and more social situations will come up... Do you think that he will want to show off his 15 year old girlfriend to his college buddies?  Don't bet on it!\n\nHave patience.. Stick to someone your own age (or no boyfriend at all... just friends who happen to be boys).... when you are in college a 3 year difference in age won't seem that bad but at 14 there is a world of difference.\n\nYou may not like my answer but you did say that anyone with an opinion can answer...  Good Luck!
464634
Don't mess with your boy girl. It can be bad for your heath.
376399
it's prefectly legal if not a bit strange. the maturity levels between a 15 year old and a 12 year old are pretty different. the only legal problem that could arise is if after 3 years if they are still dating and the 18 yr old and 15 yr old have sex and are caught, that would be statutory rape.