Should I leave my friend?
154236
Let me ask you this and it is coming from a loving place.  Do you have a life outside of your friendship with Sue?  Do you have a man?  Are there feelings of jealousy?  \n\nI ask this because based on your questions you appear upset because Sue is spending more time with her man and not the girls.  You are prepared to cut someone you call a friend out of your life because you are not getting what you want i.e.  "I don't get to talk to Sue as much as I want to. My other friend and I don't like it that's she is treating us like a spare tire"\n\nWhile friendship is important and can sometimes be the spice of life, intimacy is also very important to life.  New relationships take time to develop.  \n\nNot only that, but if she allows you to dictate the terms of her relationship now when will it stop.  Where does she draw the line?  Why do you get to dictate how much is too much time to spend with her boyfriend?\n\nIf you love your friend, don't be so selfish and stop actiling like a spoiled little child.  Is it wise or mature on your part to get mad when you don't get what you want.  If you start cutting your friends loose now because you can't have your way, when will you stop.  Hopefully it won't be when you are alone and have no friends to talk to.  \n\nAre you really a friend or someone trying to fulfill your wants and desires through someone else.\n\nFrom my personal experience, going one day without talking has never killed any of my friendships.  Heck, I have life long friends that I have not talked to in months, but that is not enough to destroy our friendship.  We all have too many other things going on in our lives than to worry about who is doing what and why has't she called me today.  \n\nThe best advice I could give you is to grow up and get a life of your own.  I can guarantee if you were out participating in just a fraction of what life has to offer you won't have the time to wonder why Sue has not called you.  In fact, you may find you are enjoying life so much that weeks have gone by and you have not called Sue.
389253
Well then the only thing to do is just be there for you friend even if she doesn't want to listen to you. She's going to get hurt, and she's going to regret not listening to you. Your already a good friend by worrying and trying to tell her to leave him, but be there for her anyway. Be there because she's going to need you, once she  opens her eyes. So just be there for her.
332411
You can't listen to your friend. She may be trying to help, but you have to tell her no. It is your decision...it is your CHOICE. Do what you want. \n\n   To me, your choice sounds very correct. It sounds like you are taking your responsibility. Good job. Go for what you want, not what other want or think.
680157
I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
202528
It's not that an uncommon thing.  Friendship is voluntary and not necessarily permanent.  Tell her that you no longer enjoy her company and why.  Tell her that as a result, you won't be able to spend very much time with her in the future.  But don't burn bridges.  You never know what the future brings.  And maybe she will change and become a better friend in the future.
280936
if u dont want a friend anymore thn plz tell her directly..... dont hurt her from ur any sort of rude behavior..... remember its always good whn any relationship ends peacefully....... u took her as ur frd once so just be direct n tell her wht u feel...
1187801
This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
309061
find some1 else....duh...leave him b or u will lose ur friend....duh
506289
Let it go....and leave him alone. If it continues into something more serious, it could be detrimental to your friendship. Not to mention, it could cause legal issues for him if word gets out...
380081
He wants his cake and eat it too. My suggestion: back away, take some time for yourself and then find someone who's ready to give you what you want and need. I'm sure your friend is nice, but if he was ready to commit, he would have done so by now. And finally, you don't need him even as a friend in your life, cuz he'll always be there to play mind game with you. Do you need all that drama?
941724
i suggest you keep that secert and just stay distant from that friend , because she might be mad enough to hurt you
485400
If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
520943
Yes you should. Also, if your afraid by telling that you will lose his friendship, and just don't want to, then consider talking to you counselor and explaining the situation. They are trained to handle situations like this.
925515
Get rid of the one that went out with your friend, because it will only get worse.  Stay with the one you realy love, because he may give love back to you, which will make you feel good outside and in.
228926
well i think you should honor your friendship and not go out with him because she probably think that the only reason you come over is because of her brother and friendship is more important so you shouldn't try anything unlesss you want to lose your friend.
228663
dont be her friend anymore. if she has not reason for being a Bitch to you. then ditch her.
649412
man yo friend is selfish, i know cuz im sorta the same way but i dont mess with my friend relationship because i know that he is happy with her and thatall that matters. but im saying if the giel do him wrong then she would have to answer to me. juss tell yo friend if she that close to you to let u go, cuz she is doing the same thing. if she like that tell her you wont talk to her ne more till she understands that u not with her and that u need your freedom. there is a nice way to tell her(not in those words) but the rection is gone be the same, feel me?