Girls, what would you do to let a guy down easy?
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Obviously if she is nonresponsive, she is not that interested. Why would someone not respond to someone they had interest in? I've done that before...just tried to ignore a guy. Use a little common sense.
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Just be yourself... talk about the same crap as you would with your guy friends.  Don't try to be anything you aren't.  If that doesn't work, you don't want to take her out anywhere anyways.
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Drop her cold for like two weeks (or as long as it takes to get her to call you). The only thing all girls really dislike is a guy who is really needed, you need to show her that you are independent and when you call her you are doing her a favor.
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Just say no. He'll respect you more, and poss. consider you more of a gfriend material later on, if thats your goal. girls who put out to easily aren't gfriend material, they're just somthin' on the side.
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Be nice to him but don't crowd him.  Don't pressure him to do something with you the first time he talks to you.  Let him get comfortable with you.\n\nA guy will usually like a girl who laughs at his jokes. It shows she is atuned to him. Kind of thinks the same way he does.  It kind of validates his attitude or way of thinking.  It is kind of like you saying to him, "that is very smart" without coming right out and saying it.  Of course, only if he said something funny!\n\nAsk him for his opinion, once in a while.  Things like "what do YOU think?" or "which one do YOU prefer?" are good questions.  They are easy for him to answer if you are asking about something that is in the front of his mind at the moment.\n\nQuestions like "what are you THINKING?" are almost always hard for guys to answer, on the other hand.  They may not be thinking much of anything, but if they say that, they sound kind of stupid.  Or they might be thinking about something boring. If they tell you what it is, you will think they are boring. \n\nTry not to put them on the spot like that, at least not until you are at the flirting stage. At that point, you can sort of hint what they should be thinking.  In other words, a question can be a little bit like taking a test.  If you are going to give them one, make sure it is an easy one.\n\nDress nice, of course.  But do not worry about if your clothes or accessories are really expensive.  Know why?\n\nGuys have no idea how much girls' clothes cost. They might not even know how much their own clothes cost.\n\nLots of boys when they are taken clothing shopping just want to get in and get out of that store.\n\nThey might really care about a jacket, true. Shoes, possibly - like if they are into sports and need a good shoe for their sport or running. But pants, socks, belts, shirts - probably just wearing them because they have to.  Jackets and coats are a little different.\n\nIf you want to catch a guy's eye, do some color-coordindation.  For example, if you have a sweater or shirt with some lavendar in it, wearing earings or a hair clip that is exactly the same color will look really neat.  He will think you are a sharp dresser.\n\nThe same thing goes for your eyes.  If you wear a shirt that has some of the same color as your eyes, that might catch his eyes.  Up to ten percent of all guys are slightly color blind though. Details vary, but some guys cannot even tell red from green.  So if doing that color matching thing does not work, do not take it too hard.  Or, try matching two things of a different color than the first one you tried.\n\nI guess if varies from guy to guy but usually a nice hairstyle catches my eye.  If your hair looks nice, he might notice that.\n\nLooking straight into his eyes when you are talking to him.  That might get you noticed more too.\n\nBeing fit, in good shape helps.  You don't have to be super skinny or super strong.  You don't really have to be super anything.  Just be healthy.\n\nAlso, if you are happy and smile a lot, guys like that.  Talking with other guys or girls is good too.  It shows you are social, you make friends easily, and you have friends.  That makes you more interesting, probably.\n\nIf you go overboard trying to do something to make him like you, it could backfire a little.  If you laugh at his jokes when you really don't think they are funny at all, he might sense from your tone or your expression that you are being kind of phony.\n\nSometimes you can be a little sarcastic, kind of dig at him a little with a comment, just to get his attention.  But don't start putting him down or calling him stupid or weak.  That will just get him mad or hurt.  And, even if it doesn't, it will put his friends off toward you. They could start to feel like they need to protect him from you, maybe suggest he find a different girlfriend.\n\nYou could also get him a gift.  It does not have to be something expe
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since im a guy heres what u hav to do: u hav to hang out with him 4 a bit then when ur not flirting ask do u like me and this  time i mean it u dont hav to be nice and lie to me  now plz tell me the truth \n~bob
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I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
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Take back control of your own life,do not get into situations where you allow yourself to be jerked around.\n\nAlso it helps to not right away fall for the things you speak of,if you are easy gotten by them ,they think they have ya so they need to do no more to woo you.\n\nThe guys you speak of are without a doubt players,and mind f*cks,don't waste your time.\n\nChin up and put you 1st. :)
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Its sad but true that the only way to get even is to pick yourself up, swallow your pride and accept you made an error of judgement in going out with this guy. If he sees you out there enjoying yourself and looking good, that is the best revenge. Don't stoop to his level and think of nasty tricks, you will get a bad reputation and he will realise he did the right thing by dumping you.
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Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
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Make it easy for him. Let him know that you don't expect anything from him whatsoever. Guys feel a lot of pressure to perform and to give you pleasure. I would practically die if I could have a relationship like that.
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There is one thing very common in guys.Jealousy.....\nIf you have some good assets, then try to make him jealous.\n\nDo a little flirting to other guys infront of him.I said i little.Do not land up somewhere which you may regret later.\n\nLooks like he hurt you, Ms. Diya.Anyways....\n\nAll the Best....
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Talk to him and apologise for whatever you did. If he feels that you let him down, suggest taking him out for a coffee or something to make up to him.\n\nThen, once you've apologised, don't keep bringing it up again.
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Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect
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Assume she is being a typical woman by saying the opposite of what she is thinking. Take her out, be a gentleman and then play it by ear. Chances are she will cave in if she really is interested.\n\nShe is after all, only wishing not to appear to be "easy".
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Just sit him down and be truthfull say you do like him but arent ready to go to that step.  Let the pieces fall where they may.  At least he will respect your honest and truthfull approach.
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pretending.\n\ni dont like to get guys hopes up. it isnt fair on them and i told a guy that he was good looking and he thought i liked him and followed me around the nightclub for the reast of the night. it ruined my night and his when i turned round and told him the truth.\n\nits best to be honest from the start.