clear my head with a good answer for me on love!!?
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Honesty is best.  Tell him that you are confused.  Ask what his intentions are for his keeping in touch.  Does he still have feelings for you?  Does he want to date you again?  Or is he keeping you close because he wants to be your friend?  Ask him straight up.  Then take it from there.
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True Love ....\n\nIt's as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. It is everything it's hyped about to be. It's worth taking every risk, it's worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don't risk all then you risk even more. Love is kind of an elixir that lures us out of reality and into the realm of fantasy. It's like a drug creating an altered state of consciousness.\n\nLove is the moment when an unfavorable act becomes favorable, when you make excuses for some one else's mistakes, when you learn to tolerate, when you learn acceptance, when sacrificing becomes the beauty of life. \n\nIt's the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe its unspeakable.\n\nIt's the time when seeing some one, being seen by some one and thinking about some one feels good, when you learn to find happiness in the smallest of moments.\n\nThat's love--when you learn to put down your ego and love some one more than that.\n\nLove is forgetting your self and remembering some one else. \n\nLove is choosing your partner exactly as he is, and supporting him in his choices. It's honoring your partner's truth and wanting best for him.\n\nIt's not controlling or possessing but rather respecting and trusting.\n\nIt does not mean owning some one, getting some one, rather it means being happy in your loved one's happiness.\n\nLove means living without judgments. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking him for granted. \n\nLove means being able to forgive and learning to give more then you get. It means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions.\n\nIt means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the hurts and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. \n\nFalling in love is like being enveloped in a magical cloud. The air feels fresher, the flowers smell sweeter, food tastes more delectable, and the stars shine more brightly at night. You feel light and lofty as though you are floating through life, and your problems and challenges suddenly seem insignificant and easily surmountable. Your body feels alive, your skin tingles and you awaken in the morning with a smile on your face. You are suspended in a state of supreme delight.\n\nLove is a feeling and an action that arises from the most primal place within us. Making a relationship however, is a process that is learned. A relationship is the vessel that carries the precious cargo of love through time.\n\nRelationships are like a precious antique lamp; it takes a little polish and some effort to restore it to its valuable condition. A relationships love and luster will only improve with age if you continually give it the care that keeps it beautiful. But once you uncover its essential beauty it will bring you joy for years to come.\n\nAfter having said all this I want to say that you have to make the decision on your own, on one hand love is magic, on the other it's time tested relationship worked hard and furiously at.
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Love means that you like  he/she to go into your life. Love is something that you felt good to have it. And love can create peace, happy and ect. If you do not felt good to have love that means you yourself do not know how to love yourself and you are not ready to love others also. Love is something that you cannot touch but you can fell, you can not hold but you can give, you can not see but is already  in your heart. So follow what you felt and go ahead to love. Giving out LOVE is not neccesarry to have back.
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its well somrthing i cant explain its its Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things. \n\noptimusprimedoom@yahoo.co.in
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Love is an unconditional feeling that shouldn't go away with a fight. Sure, you may disagree, but love is deeper than a petty argument and I think it's impossible to "lose love" over something small.
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most answers I give a great answer and it might be a long one but this one will be the shortest answer I have gave\n\nWHEN YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE IS\nNo one can tell you. You have to be In love to know what it is
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i think love is caring enough about someone to care more about their wellbeing than your own...and to keep working on keeping the relationship tight, because even the closest relationships will go down the tubes if you don't go out of your way to do/say nice things for each other!
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Love depends on the way you see it. Some confuse the lust they have to some person with love. Love is pure. It comes from within. Will stick to that person, no matter what. You will come to know when you are in love. Very tough to explain as to how you come to know.
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When you figure that out, let me know!  My friends always come to me for advice on life and love, but I'm always making mistakes when it comes to my own love life!  :)
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I will use a part of my earlier answer for your question....\n\nLove is something which will last forever. Its a feeling. Related to heart. A dedicated, pleasant experience. There will be sometimes in Love relationship you will get lot of pain. But still you will hang on, because you love.\n\nIf you didn't gain even a single person to truly love you, any case, then there is no point in Living.
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Dear Litejic: understnd what a loving relation ship is before you take other steps. I  suggest that you discuss this with him or her more. concentrate no tshe word love.and apply it Xs (2). work with this Situation this could be a learning experiance for you even though you might not approve. this helps you know and learn relationships that involve (LOVE).  contact me I can help you with this and put a complete understanding to your (?). use this address. for John. laretha.davis@sbcglobal.net.  be careful with this question or situation until you talk to me.
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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always”   1 Corinthians 13:4\n\nThat bible verse explains what love is.. so if youre relationship can relate to this then its really love.. If the guy doesnt hold your past against you, is not rude.. all those things.. you got it!\n\nYou'll really know when youre with the one youre supposed to be with! You will never have any doubt when youre with that person... You wont have any feelings for another person.. Youll just know, trust me!
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Love is more than just a feeling. Real love is based on principles. Whether you like the Bible or hate it, there is a great description of agape love(love based on principle). 1 Corinthians Chapter 13 I believe. This love is a way of life.  If you live this way, you will be able to find others that do the same. The rest pretty much just happens. But if you want the love to grow and to last, apply the principles of agape love in your life. I promise, it works.\n\nP.s. Please view my question if you have time
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He probably doesn't know the true meaning of LOVE.  But I bet he's got the infatuation thing down to a science.\n\nOK, let's face it, children (and I mean young persons under the age of 20) experience a rush of hormones.  These powerful chemicals drive us to do strange things and say things we don't have any understanding of.\n\nOK, so he said he loves you.  Take it with a grain of salt.  It may grow into a real love.  And if you are young like I think you are then take it slow, but fight for it if it is what you want.  The young loves are the most intense.  And if it does grow you may find yourself happy for a very long time.\n\nHowever, also keep in mind that he could be thinking with the little head. (hormones again)\n\nObsession?  Since you use that word, it makes me feel that this is NOT the right thing for you.  Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If this one gets away, there will be another.\n\nUse your head and not your heart.  I know they say to follow your heart, but that's not always good advice.  The heart can want things that are not good for it.  Just read some of the questions people are asking here.  You'll see that there is a lot of people suffering heartache because they made a mistake.  A mistake made by following their heart.
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sweety, I have no answer to this...no experienced answer, but isn't LOVE always-the-answer?  maybe taking the time to explain???  you don't say what their response is either, but if its positive try talking to them, maybe write them a letter telling them how you feel.  YOU DON'T HAVE TO SEND THE LETTER YA KNOW\n\nMy prayers and thoughts are with you, I really hope this helps,  :) :) :) :) \n\nroxann
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I don't think the word ( Know ) is the best in this place, I think if you " felt " this is the true love, then it is.\n\nDon't worry about it, it's much more clearer than what you think, it will glow on your face or simply give you a blow..\n\nI wish you all the best, AHH, one last thing, tune your heart well my friend
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Sure we can all tell you what love is, but I can tell you right now you will not get one same answer. Love means different things to different people. So the meaning of love to me will not be the same as your feelings.