if your spouse has lost trust in you is there still a relationship?
146127
Yes.. relation is there for rest of the world.. but you people know from inner core of heart that.. once TRUST is gone.. it is tough again to build up a relation. In that case I would try my level best to bring it back.. if I love that person and make her beleive that she is wrong.
1002091
Your best bet would be to talk to him and ask him if he is still happy in this relationship. If you are supicious of his behaviors there is some serious problems between the two of you. I understand how difficult it is to not have trust in your partner. However, as difficult as it is, life is too short to spend it unhappy, with somebody who you do not trust nor have respect for. It is difficult to leave somebody who you are use to, but after the difficult part is over, (leaving and healing) you will be much more likely to find a partner who you deserve, somebody who will treat you with the love and honor you deserve. Good luck.
24224
They can if they want to. Unfortunately, if they do it once, they'll do it again. It shows a character flaw that they alone need to work out. The only way you can help him overcome his tendancy to stray is to let him know you'll not put up with it in your relationship. It's a deal-breaker of the first kind. Without trust, it's really hard having any kind of meaningful relationship. Not impossible, just difficult. It can be worked through, but both people have to want to work through it, with the cheating spouse working hard to restore trust in their relationship. <*)))><
374584
You need to back off and give your partner some space. He/she may decide that it is definitely over but it is their choice not yours you had the affair. You can't rebuild trust by playing games or taking quizzes on the internet. Try to be the best parent you can to your kids.
176078
I don't know what you have done to loose their trust, but only time will heal this.  Once you've lost trust in someone it is very hard to get back.  Just keep on showing them that you are trustworthy and in time they will trust you again.  Sorry I couldn't give you an easy answer to solve this for you.  Good Luck
1067570
If he doesn't trust you,you shouldn't be with him.A relationship with out trust is doomed from the get go.
638092
If you don't trust your wife/husband to be, really sure you want to get married?
14876
Yes its still adultery/cheating/lying as long at that person is a spouse, even when legally separated.
529702
Sweetheart, it's going to be tough... but you're going to have to give him his space and somehow prove to him that he can trust you again.\n\nSorry.
510912
I hate to say it, but I honestly feel that your relationship may be doomed for a number of reasons. First, you began by saying you have trust issues with your husband because of past issues. Of course! But, it's in the past, and you haven't let it go. I imagine you may even still throw this in his face during a heated arguement? Second, I'm not suggesting you're right or wrong by checking his cell phone, but instead of trying to catch him doing something, which only drives the wedge further between the two of you, you could have approached things in a different manner. Yes, he was wrong... But so were you for checking! I understand your suspicions, though I think there may have been a better way to approach the situation. Talk with him, build better communication with him. I'm not suggesting throw caution to the wind, forget about everything in the past, but something between the two of you needs to change or you'll continue to keep getting the same results!\n\nI sense some insecurities on your part, and whether they're called for or not is irrelevant. Bottom line is that they need to be dealt with. There's something deeper than all the information you've offered. Take a step back and evaluate your relationship together. Is your husband a good catch? Are you a good catch? Why or why not, for BOTH of you? Maybe it would be a good excercise for the two of you to make lists (the whys and why nots), of yourselves, and each other, and share this information openly with each other in a non-threatening conversation.\n\nI'm sharing this with you in a point blank manner, because there were trust issues in my own failed marriage. Sometimes I wish I had only listened to my own advice! It's too late for me now, but hopefully you'll take something from my suggestions here and dig deeper into your own relationship.
158768
If you can't forgive him or move on, then marriage counseling probably won't help. Love isn't all a marriage needs. It's built on trust, and when the trust is broken there isn't much left. You will probably never trust him again. You will always be thinking in the back of your mind whether or not he is cheating if you stay together. Counseling may not help, but if you do love each other maybe you should at least try it.  If that doesn't work your choice is pretty obvious. \nGood Luck
1152031
no trust is a big issue......... is hard to explain but even after cheating even if you see your husband is truly sorry and he even makes effort to prove his changed and you see no evidence of him ever doing anything else..... trust is just something you can never regain once is lost is gone... you will always wonder about something..... but hey  there is so many of us in that boat,one can never feel lonely in something like this...... but the answer to this question is nope trust is the one thing that cant be recover in any case.good luck.
1027468
lose my temper and doubt my spouse
552738
Once you loose the trust of a person it is not so easy to regain it, if at all!
221000
It depends: do you have faith in him? You need to consider what happened with your last relationship. Was it something he did? Was it something you did? Try to figure that out first. That way, if you do choose to start over, you can fix it.\n\nNext, decide if your relationship can be salvaged at all at this point. Has too much gone wrong between you? If so, then make a clean break. Or can you be together without getting too awkward? Do you think there's too much pain, or do you think you can be together without having what went wrong throbbing in your heart each day? If so, then you may be able to save your relationship.\n\nAnd finally, do you want to start over as friends? So far, your husband's intentions and attempt seem genuine; it seems that he really wants to save your relationship by going back to the beginning and fixing the things that went wrong the first time around. Are you willing to go back to square one? And are you ready for if it doesn't work out?\n\nIf you choose to do this, then I think he's right when he says to take it slow. It would be hard, and expecting everything to fix itself quickly would make it harder; it's expecting too much. Chances are, it might even take longer than the first time around because last time, there wasn't the awkwardness or discomfort of a marriage gone down. It's risky, and it won't be easy.\n\nWhatever you choose, good luck and I wish you the very best.
1165746
I don't think so, I trust my husband and he trust me but why put yourself in the situation where something can happen.\n\nWe all know that when your out drinking sometimes you can get carried away, don't let the stress of parting separately ruin your relationship
1157114
If there is no trust in a relationship then there should be no relationship so either u two gotta trust each other or u just split