If a man cheats should you give him a second chance ?
148621
it depends on the level of love u have for him, guys cheats all the time. If u're sure he loves u,then give him a second chance but this time be very careful, u can watch him sometimes but don't let him know u're doing it. Good luck
446669
Ummmmmm wait a sec - do I have this straight?\n\nHe cheated on you - you forgave him and gave him a 2nd chance?  \n\nYou later cheated and he won't give YOU a 2nd chance?\n\nWell that about says it all if I have that straight.. he doesn't want to give you that 2nd chance because this is HIS way of getting out and 'blaming you for it'.  I bet he has another 'side'.... I'm so sorry, and realize that you have already punished yourself enough, and that you TRIED to be honorable and tell him the truth, and if you could forgive him and he won't you, he's being a JERK!  I'm sorry /comf!
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
760256
Well, if he didn't cheat on you physically, I think you are ok, but if this isn't the first time hes done it, dump his @$$.  Take him back for now, keep him on "probation" and see what happens.
657495
give the man a chance ok?
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
207337
I was dating my ex for a year and a half, i found out he cheated on me in begining...we were engaged when he told me. After that i found out he had cheated on me a couple more times and i called of the wedding.I didn't like the fact that i forgave him the first time and he still did it again. I think you should breakup with him and someone who loves you and won't cheat on you. If they cheat once they will do it again
246160
you cheated?\n\nif so, he needs time. he may not forgive.
426736
Fisrt its better if u answer to this Q:why u cheated her ,even not once,but twice???????????
968483
I think you can trust him to cheat again......
859871
Well for one you cheated not him, does it even matter if he's cheating anymore, you already ruined the relationship, move on.
664824
Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!
15151
First, you have my sympathy. Betrayal always hurt. I am sure that you are torn up inside. However, let me point out several thing. Isn't better to know his character now-- otuside of marriage, if that is where you were hoping the relationship would go-- rather than after marriage?  Second, recognize that people rarely change their stripes, if he comes back and wants a second chance... I would encourage you to firmly let him know that "betraying for five years does not deserve asecond chance. You have no intention to give him the chance to hurt you again."\nFinally, remember that women cheat on men too! So your questions can be better phrased, why do people cheat when they are in a love relationship?
84750
i think it is possible for a man to cheat and then not  do it again. the only problem is that you will never forget what happened. and no matter how much he says to try to convince you that he will never do it again, it possible that in your mind he will always be a cheater, therefore you may not be able to trust him.\n\nyou have to make a promise to yourself that if you forgive him, you also have to forget.\n\nalso, if you do forgive him for cheating, it shows him that that is something that you are willing to forgive. because you show that cheating is forgivable, he may do it again.\n\ngood luck with your decision - it is a hard one.
514399
Take a break.....if it happened once it could happen again.  They say once a cheater always a cheater.  What were the circumstances surrounding the "moment" alcohol, stress, anger etc....and will this set it off in the future??  It could just be a never ending spiral.  And at some point if it does happen again, you may feel you need to do the same thing just to get back at him.  He needs to prove himself worthy of you.  And it will always sit in the back of your mind.  First thing you should do is talk about it again and show him how you are feeling, if your reaction was nothing, he may not think it's a big deal!  Good luck....  And remember there is someone out there that is perfect for you, so if you ahve to let this one go, it might be b/c someone better is waiting!! :)
884575
he has a guilty conscience, dump him, forget him and move on to someone more deserving of you. Once a cheater always a cheater
775325
i think u should consider it again....think about it carefully...ur fate will depend on ur decision...give him the last chance... if he do it again, dont hesitate to leave him...im sure there's someone better than him..good luck!