if i was mean to my girlfriend and we are on the virge of breaking up what should i do?
155942
If you really feel bad for what you did apologize to her..but if you are just asking because you know what you did is wrong but do not feel bad about it then do nothing because you will hurt her again, eventually.Hope this help!
189374
Ask her - if you don't mind spending the rest of the day being shouted at for absolutely no reason.  \nLook at it this way- if she's mad at you and you don't realise or understand what you've done then you've got no chance.  \nBuy her something shiny.
876829
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
77693
You can't break up with someone and not hurt their feelings.  It comes with the territory.  Just take a deep breath and be as polite and as honest as possible.
1054527
Kick her to the curb. If she doesn't want you to be happy find someone who does.
232127
how about trying to apologize to her for your actions and then tell her that you didnt mean to make her mad at you becuz u like her. tell her bro!
79308
I guess when you realise that what you have now isn't the same as when it started and it isn't something you want anymore. Just break it to her honestly, but don't be brutal. And that public place thing? It really is a good rule of thumb if you just want to get out of there, but if you live with her or still want to be friends, sit down and talk it out (even though she might do most of the talking about mean stuff) good luck and I hope all goes well.
923205
First of all dont be worryed its not your fault and she should get over it if she keeps making fun of you you should brake up with her
908334
You can share your feedback with your girlfriend. Her reaction will tell you if she is receptive to feedback & whether she would be willing to change. If she is offended by your remarks or gets angry take a cue & move out.
52976
Brake things off with her on good terms.  don't do it in the middle of a heated argument or fight cuz then you'll be mad at each other.  I would just sit her down and tell her  need to talk to her, and explain that you don't feel like you two are meant to be, but you think she is an awesome person and you want to be friends still.  I had to do it to a guy I was dating for four years and we are still friends. But if she gets all mad and pissy after.  Then she will be missing out.
143682
just be your self, if she makes a nasty reply, then she's the one at fault, there is someone out there that will love you just as you are, dont get stuck on one person\ngood luck
1147592
I think you hurt her. The thing about this situation, is you messed with a girl who cared for you and now that you showed her your bad temper, it made her realize that she doesnt need that in her life. Men dont understand that half the reason why women leave them is because they have said something that offends their girlfriends. Girls have mixed emotions that get hurt easily. It seems like you hurt her feelings. Just keep calling, she may or may not answer. But next time you need to listen to her side of the situation first, unstead of jumping to conclusions and yelling at her before you even know why she didnt call back. Good Luck
170005
speak to your girlfriend, she will either confirm or deny - in the meantime brae yourself for the worst so that if she does want to break up you wont take it as bad.\n\nits better for you to confront her.
50417
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
130296
Dude grow the hell up, what kind of childish crap do you have to do to some one. If you don't want her anymore be a MAN and tell her. You are just a jerk.
291731
I hope no one hates me for completely disagreeing... Ask her first. If you really love her, you'd let her decide instead of putting her in an awkward posistion and making her regret her actions l8tr.
54738
Obviously there are some things you'd have to decide b4 proceeding,eg;how long you've been 2gether,how sensitive she is,what the reason(s)for the brk.-up eg,are they irrepairable.Breaking up is never an easy thing to do or experience.Be extremely sensitive,caring and try to do so with the possibility of friendship remaining.Think of how you'd like to be treated in this situation and treat like-wise.