If a guy really loves you, what will he do if you just disappear?
141562
call your phone, visit your home, if he still can't find, you he'll do every posible things to find you
98528
I hate to say this, but if he really loved you then he wouldn't want to be with someone else.\n\nJust let him go.  If he comes back, then you know he's yours.
424530
If he was really changing, his behavior would not be so sporadic.  He would make a genuine committment to be that same wonderful guy instead of turning back into an ogre.  Most people need something bad to happen to them before they realize the hurt that they've done to others, and change their own lives.  If you stay, you are only telling him that you easily fall for his mind games, and that it doesn't take much to placate you.  But if you go, and I mean seriously go (no threats or promises), you will show him that you are genuinely tired of your life with him that way that it is.  And if he misses you enough (and you should always make them miss you), he will realize his many errors and make a concerted effort to change his life and ways to get you back.  And if he doesn't decide to change to get you to come back, then he wasn't meant for you anyway and was just a bump on your road of finding true happiness.
474285
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
481492
I was in the same situation once. My ex told me he still loved me and told me this and that. And yeah maybe he did. But guys just do that to have you in the palm of there hand. Cuz they know that youll be there for them. If he wont talk to you is because hes making it easier for him to let you go. So my advice do the same, dont talk to him. Itll be easier for you as well. Yeah its tough because alot of thing are unsaid or undone but that something you have to deal with.
754646
Depends...\nWhy have they stopped talking to you?\nIf it's something you've done, then eat humble pie, appologise and tell them you love them.\n\nIf you haven't done anything wrong (and you are REALLY sure you haven't) then tell them you love them and you will be here for them if they need you. Then you give them space.\n\nIf they still don't talk to you, then you have to accept that the relationship is over and move on with your life.
330720
You don't love him and he doesn't love you.\n\nIf you loved him, you wouldn't be frightened by the thought of him being away.\n\nIf he loved you he wouldn't lie to you.
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!
101352
Perhaps he likes you, but something prevent his feelings to be revealed. Actually, I've faced sth similer to what happen to you. I decided to leave and to start my life away of him. And I'm sure if he interested in me, he'll try at least to call and say hello!!!
638988
Show him how much you missed him. Don't think about it so much. Just do what comes natural. He'll love you no matter what you do.
624022
Remember the saying, "You don't know what you have until it's gone"?\n\nWell, when you were with him, he took you for granted.\nAnd now that you're gone, he knows how important and valuable you really are.\n\nHis lost, not yours.\n\n\nIf you go back with him, look up this word,\nRecividism...
1103547
if it is true love u  will feel something in ur heart and something suprising would surely happen . Either the person is missing u will call or u'll call the person
693302
I would not count on it.  Unless he tells you he loves you and you feel that it's genuine, then he really does love you.
554919
Start pulling away gradually.  Start doing things with your other friends but don't completely desert this guy either.  If he thinks he's in love with you, it would hurt a lot for you to suddenly ignore him.  Just spend less time with him and have shorter phone conversations, etc.  He will begin to see something is happenng in a short time and will be ready for a break.  Be kind just as you would want someone to be kind if they were breaking it off with you.
1004180
They always say if it is true love then he will come back to you, just let loose and be yourself don't go out finding mr. right, let mr. right come to you, i know sometimes we get inpatient but it is better to wait then to date a loser and just settle for just anyone that comes our way, trust me in a couple of months he will feel it and you might just here from him again and he will want you back, only if it is true love
896538
you have to confront him and ask him honestly if he loves you and thinks you have a future together.  Only then will you know the truth, even by his reaction.
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.