Why is it that guys tell you he likes you but then when you call him he doesn't answer?
154112
Well, you must remember most guys are lazy when it comes to phone conversations. They like to talk in person. It seems to be a good feeling to have the girl present when conversating. Now, if you keep calling and he doesn't answer, then it means he was "playing" you girl. Though you must consider the fact that he's probably afraid of losing a wonderful girl like you and he wants to take things a little slow.  Give him some time.  Set a time to meet again and hang out a little more or have him plan things out with you.  He will eventually warm up to you and then you won't have to worry about phone calls because he'll be there by your side to conversate with you in person. Just remember that men are a bit slow. LOL. Be a little patient if he's worth the time. Sometimes, you might have to get to know the guy a little more to find his sweet self.
321098
yes!!! if he likes u, he would've called by now. hes probably playing mind games with u. he's stringing u along.  move on!! lots of guys out there who would actually call.
923325
I think he's trying to tell you he likes you.  I would say have a talk with him and tell what he is to you
627469
yea sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is waiting for yout o nmake the first move.
218595
not neccesarily, he might think that he would come across as needy if he called sooner. They are pressured by other guys not to show their feelings. give him a few more chances to see how he really feels
459098
well he probably doesn't know you know that he likes that is why he acts like a total jerk so why don't you just go up to him and ask him if he likes you or not if he says no well find a better guy who will say yes when you asks him out.
103130
more than likely that he is interested in you, guys don't always come out and say that they like you. just like women have there was of saying it with out saying it. if you are inerested in him then let him keep doing what he is doing, and if you are still not sure what he is doing, that just ask him.
421069
Guys (People) tend to tell you things they think you want to hear.. I believe usually in cases like you described he was only after one thing.. and when he didn't get it he lost interest or didn't think it was worth the effort.. in any case he's not worth the effort, be happy you don't hear from him anymore.
381976
he probably does like you he just does not want to tell you. cause the same thing happened to me this guy kept asking me if i was to this dance we where having then he finally asked me to go it was really awesome.
959470
I think he likes you, \nbut just doesn't know it and doesn't want to admit it, even to himself. This stuff happens. Don't worry, you'll find out in time.
265506
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
37499
Well maybe this guy that won't tell you he loves you is scared of rejection or maybe he thinks you won't love him. Don't lead your boyfriend on if he's not it. Maybe you don't wanna hurt him but leadin him on would crush him... Think bout it...
514965
he's probably ignoring you a. he doesn't think he has a chance b. he likes you c. he knows your secret
77625
Oh, it can be hard to tell sometimes. Some guys are very shy and afraid of rejection. They can be so afraid to let their feelings show. \n\nIf they get kinda tongue-tied and quiet around you, that might be a sign. If they keep calling and asking you to do things with them, that's a pretty big sign.  If they give you gifts and remember your birthday, valentine's day, etc.... well, he's yours! Even married guys forget that stuff.\n\nSeriously, if you think he likes you, and you like him back, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM! If he isn't into you, he'll let you know. But don't wait for him to ask you... some guys are so shy it may never happen!
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
559310
you should probably call him. maybe he's waiting for you to call him. you never know. waiting might cause misunderstanding.
93190
Maybe he doesn't kno how u feel bout him. give him time, he might like you more if you keep it going slow instead of jumping right in. relax. he maybe is too shy to express his feelinge to you. maybe he likes you deep down but he cant tell u. well, however it goes, good luck!!!