ok there this guy i like and he likes me but only on his own time so what can i do to win him back!?
145815
Let him go.  If he only wants you on his own time that should tell you something.  Move on.  There is someone better for you.
648165
Be fun to be with and the guy you date will want to try to win you...sort of like playing hard to get but being someone he would want to get.  And give him a chance...go out with him for a few months to see if something develops within you for him.
540015
forget about him and move on. If he's not into u he's not. Have fun, be yourself, and be patient. Just remember u are fabulous!
391990
Find something else to do with your time so you arent thinking about him all the time. Hopefully when you are engaged in other activities you will also meet someone who does like you
866469
Dont give him no time because look its your time that is getting wasted....go up to him and ask him what is he going to do...stick with you or go to that other gurl.....i mean its not fare to you that you have to wait for him to decide what gurl he wants.....Look if he really likes you like he says he does then there is no reason to even have to think about who he wants......he has to think that, that other gurl stoped calling him not him to her...why is he even going to think about giving her another chance when he now has a good ass gurl? Think about it gurl. Dont go wasting your time....Remember life is short.
471016
win him over with ur personality.. looks arent everything... if he dosent like you because of that then hes just a shallow jerk who doesnt deserve u anyway.
479243
Ask him, but what does it matter if he likes you or not, you already said that he doesn't want to get back together so why do you care if he still likes you? GET OVER HIM!!!
633795
MOVE ON if he really liked you he would of found a way too stay in touch. Better yet, still do what you do and wait to see if he will come around.That way you do not look crazy or desperate.
389873
First of all, stop sitting around waiting on him to want you again.  He is trying to control you.  Whether you are over him or not, you can still "move on."  Don't wait on him.  When he finally decides to call, reverse those rolls.  Tell him that you got a date, but when you need one, you will call him.
408952
don't kid your self love\nand forget he as he dose not like you if he's going to hurt you.\npick your self up and dust your self off and keep looking for an other bloke who likes you for who you are and not for who you try and be\nstay true to your self and\ngood luck
206506
Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
482623
try the whole 'hard to get' thing..if he 'knows' you like him, but u somehow prove him wrong, he'll prolly like you right back, in whihc case u can let him know u DO like him
311413
just stay friend with him. if he ain't interested, there ain't much u can do about it anyway. just enjoy his complany. if he likes u even the least bit, it'll come out sometime during ur friendship. trust me. guys never hold back about these things!
783959
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
1077683
lets just say that im Mr Right\nyou'll have to do quite a bit to get me back\ntheres a small chance that you will get him back......\nif you were wrong he might of thought he was wrong and he might of changed his mind already\n\nJUST GO FOR HIM!!!!
981476
Two ways: if he sticks by you the whole time, tries to get into your life or sometimes when he ignores you most of the time. Try asking him to do something for you, if he will do it fast then he likes you, if he escuses himself or does  it in a boring style than he doesnt really care about you.
612724
trying to get back at some one doesn't help anything. Be the bigger person and go on with your life. Obviously if he doesn't think highly enough about you to be honest, he's no worth it. Be the bigger person and show him whats he's missing.