Why is it that the one person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you start?
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i think what  some  people say is right "you always hurt the one you love"... and we do it just seems to not fail. i think its true...
99608
Oh I cry for any reason at all! Even when I'm really angry I just cry. I think happy tears flow more easily because we LET them come. Tears for sorrow are reluctant tears.
307673
i don't know, i really don't, i guess, you know you love that person from the start, you just don't want to admit it, so when the person go, the feeling get strong, and you can't help it anymore, then you'll regret all the things, and question yourself why you ever let that person go in the first place,. then only you realize that that person have to go first then you'll realize you love him/her. i actually don't know myself,
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I had a friend just like him. My mother was diagnosed with cancer and was going through treatments. I was helping her as much as I could and my "friend" kept going on with drama stuff in her life. I got angry and told her to stop being so self centered and look what others are going through. She still did not get it and I finally wrote her a letter telling her that I could not take any more of her drama. It was stressing me out too much and I needed all my focus to be on my mom. To make a long story short, I ended up not calling her anymore and when she called me, I told her I could n't talk on the phone right now. I ended our friendship.......Do whats best for you, free your self from this drama. Theres nothing worse than having other people think YOU are a drama queen too because you hang around him.
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The best way to do this is to be yourself and move on with your life.  Guess what?  You are very important and valuable and if one person treats you badly, move on and live the most amazing life you can.  The person is a jerk for treating you badly.  He is so unhappy inside and is a thing not a person.  Don't let your anger eat you up inside.  Forget the person and move on, you deserve only the best!!!!
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are you going through some emotional issues right now? if so, you are most likely at a point of vunerability that may make it seem as if the world is out to get you. Don't worry, the sources of you crying are most likely not aiming to intentionally make you miserable. Only really evil people find joy at other's misery. If these people are really mean-spirited, you should question why you should even be interacting with them at all. You should find something that you derive joy from and have that be your focus for a while, and i promise it will take your mind off the things that make you cry!!  Feel Better! Tell yourself that YOU are better than that! :)
854063
Great question, I never though of that.I am going to have to say Jesus. I think He feels sadness when one of us goes astray. i think we will be to busy rejoicing otherwise.
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Why do you miss him if he did you wrong?  Do you like to be mistreated?\n\nFind someone else who plays right, trust me, it feels better.\n\nIf you do start talking to him again, then you asked for it and shouldn't be crying when he f*cks up again.
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To put yourself first and stop worry about the person that hurt you.  The only person that you have worry about is your feelings and making yourself whole again.  Everyone in life makes choices and you have to deal with them and realize that you can move on and be happy on your own.   And like momma always says LIFE is not fair. \n\nIt also take alot of time so don't think the pain will go away just stay focused on YOU! \nI wish you better days!
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I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
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from a counselling perspective, the time it takes for a person to overcome the stage of grief is diffrent for each person.\n\nfrom one person to another, grief seems like it will never stop it feels endless, but it will end, for me my greif lasted a year. it will stop, it just takes time to heal!,
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You need to talk to this person and discuss the issues that are making you cry.  If you love each other it is possible things can be worked out.  If not then you will have to end this relationship because I can't imagine spending all your time crying when you should be happy instead.
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someone who makes you happy
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people become complacent, stagnant, we take each other for granted and get into routines, we forget what it was like with out the other person...talk to him, tell him you are sad and depressed and want to reignite the flames that got you started to begin with...if he doesn't listen or take you seriously, you have to  make him listen, by leaving...that may wake him up
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think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.
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because sometimes u can't make that person loves u back which is a physically problem... sometimes u can't express ur self to the person u love... it's all about not giving up.. imagine that u want to reach the highest mountain, in the beginning u might be scared of how tall it's or that u might fall down.. so u take step back.. which is the same thing as when u scare to tell the person or express ur felling.. u must reach that mountain to reach ur goal
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I know how you feel. There is one fellow from a long time ago who was tormented as a child as I also was. One time, our collective tormentors goaded us into fighting one another, promising to end the torment of whichever one of us won.\n\nI have felt badly for years that the one I should have had the most empathy for was the one I ill treated, not our tormentors. \n\nBut does finding that person and apologizing make them feel better - or you? I asked myself that question, and realize that it would be of little benefit to the person I feel accountable to - it would only assuage my guilt. All I would be doing would be bringing up a long-past horror I know I don't care to remember. \n\nIf this person was ever going to forgive you, chances are they already have. Don't make them relive something simply for your benefit. Unless you were actually planning on reestablishing a relationship with  this person, take your lumps privately. It is the only decent thing to do.