How should I ask a girl to be my Valentine?
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Say what you really feel for her. Give her a small gift to show how you feel. Add a small card that shows your feelings. Pick the right moment to give it to her. Timing is has to be perfect. You sould have a wonderful Valentine's Day.
75471
Make a big deal over the holiday.  Some way where she will see that you love & are extremely interested in her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your girlfriend back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your girlfriend guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money.  It challenges you to be more creative.  Hope this helps you. Have fun!
100509
Well if she knows you like her and she likes you there are many things...candy, flowers, a book, treat her to lunch. If she does not know then maybe a Valentine's Day card asking her to be your Valentine. Good luck :)
100192
Make a card urself... with ur own handwriting and draw the picture on urself... ur valentine will love it more than any branded cards !!!
159134
Make her something!  Something that you made with your own two hands, that will last forever, will be worth more than anything perishable, that you can just pick up in the store, by far.  Here is a list of ideas to get you started:\n\n1.  Make "coupons" for her.  An example would be one that says, "Good for one back rub."  She could cash these in at any time during the year and you can really get creative with the favors offered. :)\n\n2.  Make copies of excerpts of love letters (or emails) between the two of you and make a book out of it entitled "The Story of Us."  Mix pictures in with the letters, in between excerpts, of the two of you together.\n\n3.  Since you're sending her stuff, I'm assuming you won't be able to be together.  If that's the case, perhaps you could send her one wine glass, a mixed CD of romantic music, and a teddy bear wearing one of your shirts, that has your cologne sprayed on it.  Then, if you're able to talk on the phone, you can sip wine together, listen to the music together, and she can close her eyes, squeeze the teddy bear, and it will be almost like you are spending the evening together.\n\n4.  Send her a video-taped Valentine message.  Pour your heart out to her in the video and then, after you've finished talking, stop the camera.  Lay out some photos of the two of you.  Put a CD of "your song" in a portable CD player.  Set a pair of headphones so that they're directly over the microphone of the video camera.  Push play on both the CD and the video camera and pan across pictures of the two of you as your song plays in the background.  End the video by panning over a handwritten sign that says, "I love you.  Happy Valentine's Day."\n\nI hope this helps. :)  Best of luck!!
211951
Well let's see the first thing you can do is not try to impress her with how tough you are! A girl likes a man that can hold himself yet also be sweet! Don't be Clongy though! Try to suprise her with some flowers sometimes Roses aren't always the best way to go! Ask her though first what flower she likes and then suprise her and on a card just say because it's (that day) example her are some beautiful roses just for you and just because it's Thursday! see something like that! don't wait for a special occasion to do something! =) good luck
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that would depend on how things are going on your boyfriend's end. are you still at the casual stage?-send a text asking him to be your valentine, or send a card. are you semi-serious and already in an exclusive relationship?-you could invite him over for a homemade dinner or a decadent chocolate dessert. are you already completely immersed in each other?-wrap yourself up in a huge velvet ribbon....
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-ask her when no one is around. so you wont feel embarrassed or anything if she rejects you. \n- dont ask her right after playing sports. girls dontlike guys who stink.\n- ask her politely. but dont seem desperate.\n- say something like "i bet you 100 dollars that you're going to reject me" then she cant say no.\n- just ask her. dont start goingon and on about how much you like her. unless she asks you. and if she asks you why you want to date her and not someone else. tell her "because the alternatives are unthinkable" or just whatever.\n\ni hope i helped
1075725
just calm down...take a few breathers before you ask her. im in the same situation as you are. my friends are telling me to go for it and im just scared and im afraid that i will get toung tied too. just be yourself. act how you usually act around her. when you think its the right time, pull her over to the side, look her strait in the eyes and ask her. do NOT ramble on about how much you like her. that might creap her out alittle bit. just go for it and ask her strait forward if she wants to go out with you. good luck!!
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If you want her to know that you like her, the best way is face-to-face: "Hey, let's go out together to ... " Surprisingly enough the straightforward approach works best. It's just too bad that guys are too scared of the opposite sex to act in a straightforward fashion.\n\nSo, if you're a confirmed romantic, and yet still too afraid to face the girl of your dreams, here are some suggestions to get noticed, in a romantic way:\n\nIf you know she listens to the radio at a certain time, request a song for her (you can even create a radio internet broadcast with her favorite songs and include ads that have special messages for her) \n\nIf you share a bus ride, have the driver hand her a small gift from you that has a note in it with your name and a short romantic poem in it \n\nWhen she's at work, send a group of singers to her with romantic songs. You can usually find such groups in the yellow pages \n\nWrite a poem about how you think your life together would be and mail it to her, one line at a time, two days apart (email works too) \n\nSend her a rose with a special message inscribed on it \n\nSend her a message in a bottle that has a description of your first date, time and place, in it \n\nKeep in mind, you can be anonymous or have your name associated with each of these suggestions. But if you go to all of this trouble and don't reveal yourself at the same time you can be certain that someone else will take the credit .... and the girl!
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1)Around the girls birthday.\n2)Christmas\n3)Valentine's Day\n\n4) ...and if you have the money and the time (men), take your girl to a foreign country in time for some major festival/carnival and propose to her there. \n\n*Who says romance is dead?* Right, 10 points!
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bring her some flowers and ask her out
1113285
Oh that's so sweet! You don't want to overdue it, keep it simple. Tradition dictates that flowers are a must, but instead of roses try to find out what her favorite flowers are. That show how much you really care, you know something special about her. Find out her favorite desert, and make a moonlight or sunset picnic in a secluded spot.  That way you can talk without being interrupted. Make a mix cd to listen to, with all her favorite song, silly ones along with romantic ones. And most girls are goo-goo over stuff animals, but I think that would be overdoing it a bit. Those are just my suggestions.
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you have to figure out what it is that she likes first, after you do that, you have to make it PERSONAL!!!! girls love that, it could be a home made card, roses, teddy bears, it doesn't matter as long  as it is personal!  there is no wrong in writing a little love note with whatever you decide to get.  I guarentee this will work! hope it goes great for you!
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hi kamran\n\nu cant ask a girl to luv u\nbut u can make her luv u \nshow her tat u really care for her and have feelings for her\nmake friends wit her\nb her best friend\nconfide in her\nwhen the time is rite ask her out for a date gift her red roses,choclates....itz not 4 nothin that they say a girl iz expensive\n\nby this whole process u'll be giving yourself time to decide if shez the girl u want\n\nonce ur good friendz with her it'll b almost impossible for her to refuse\n\ngud luk\n\np.s. wats ur full name n where r u from
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I answered a question similar to this the other day -\n\nDistract yourself!\n\nDo you have other friends who will also be alone on Valentine's day? Plan a no-romance get-together. Rent funny movies (no romantic comedies!), get some snacks, and ban all talk of romance. \n\nAlternatively, send out as much love as you can!\n\nSome ideas from chiff.com:\n\n1. Send a heartfelt Valentine Card to someone who has really inspired you and tell them how much they mean to you.\n2. Make a homemade Valentine Card and send it to your favorite relative you haven’t seen in a while.\n3. Send flowers or candy to someone who doesn’t have a sweetheart, and sign it anonymous.\n4. Make a Valentine’s Basket and send it to a family that has gone through a difficult time and sign it, From Your Guardian Angel.\n5. Take your little niece, nephew, or cousin out for ice cream.\n\nHTH,\n\nJennyinJamaica
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be romantic. send her a time and date and set up a goregeous meal with car 2 pick her up from the door with flowers 1st and just knock her 4 six on the meal.. remind her of y she went out with u in the 1st place..