Can someobody give some advice about how to make good impression on boyfriend's parents at dinner??? Thanxxx ;
156762
Be polite, and address them as sir and ma'am, offer to help with making dinner and cleaning up afterwards. Don't forget to make good eye contact and don't worry too much about conversation starters they'll more than likely handle that. Be a good listener. Wear something nice and don't wear alot of perfume make sure it's very subtle if any. Good Luck!\n\nAdditional:\n\nYea learning some small words would be great like "hello" and "no thanks" and "thank you" and "They scare me" lol and "good food" and "good night" or "can I help?" stay away from the pets lol. Have your boyfriend help with interpretation. You'll do great you'll see!
771088
Get him out of the house and fast if his g/friends parents adore him so much he will have a bed to sleep in and tell him no coming back to live till he learns what respect is......organise  one night a week where he comes over for dinner,him only to start then eventually the girlfriend and if anything starts show him the door. He will eventually learn dont bite the hand that feeds you
609722
yeah, surprise him with dinner at a nice restaurant\n\na restaurant with plates \n\na restaurant where nothing on the menu can be 'supersized'\n\nthen, after a nice dinner, give him a nice backrub---guys are suckers for backrubs!  he'll be putty in your hands!
913501
Around here all I have to do is say "Dinner's ready!"  Sorry ... couldn't resist .... try these sites ... you may find them interesting but I don't know if they will teach you how to make a person appear magically.  Good luck with it.
273669
tell them how much you love their daugher. make sure you make it realllly good. cry if you can-lol!... make sure you make a refrence to them when you talk. tell them that she is beautiful, and you have no chance of ever breaking her heart (since thats what parents are the most afraid of). tell them you will always be there for her, and make a joke about "waking up at 6 in the morning to make her breakfast in bed"\n\nmake sure it comes from your heart
165735
Start by not making an assumption about your boyfriends mom.  She may just simply not be the type to get close to anyone that isn't yet family.  She is also going to be naturally worried that you might eventually hurt her little boy.  Just relax and be yourself, over time you will prove to her that you are worthy of her boys heart.  In the mean time try to talk to her and find out her interests.  If you show an interest in her as a person and not just his mom it will help.  Sometimes it just takes a comment about how you hope that some day you can get to know her better to get her to open up.
1350
First thing I'd suggest is knowing your opponent .. in laymens terms .. ask your girlfriend as much about your parents as you can such as culter attitude and so on .. and past experiences with her last boyfriends that have had the in some cases unfortunante opportunity of meeting them. Once you know what type of people you'll be dealing with you'll be more at ease knowing you can handle what difficulties may come from them.
1112680
What? You don't really go for this do you? \nFirst of all you are there to see your boyfriend..not the r.m.\nsecond..you are all three grown people...this is not college.\nand third what the hell does ur man say about this?? \nOk, I say you need to talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about it. He pays his share of the bills whether you are there or not so if you are buying what you eat his roommate needs to shut up. I don't think you should be told you are responsible for meals and chores if you are a guest. And thats what you are. You are the guest of your boyfriend so as far as I'm concerned the R.M. can go straight to hell. If you want to buy dinner thats your choice so don't let him tell u what u should do. He should be a grown a** man who cooks and cleans his own sh**! You didn't get a boyfriend to become a step parent to a grown man!!
661716
Make him never forget his 21st birthday. Cook a nice meal (the way to a mans heart is through his stomach) naked or with a apron on or even in sexy lingerie. I think he will appreciate it. Then how about you make the first move... when he is done eating still sitting at the table sit on his lap and you take it from there, try all things that yall havent tried before.AND I MEAN ALL...Good luck i hope this helped.
735785
What about having him over for Dinner with your Family to show him how grateful you are that he helped you so that you could be with your family? Maybe he was mean looking because nobody ever took the time to get to know him? Maybe he "looked mean and was not very talkative" due to how he was being treated by coworkers?
707021
i think that you should invite him for dinner or something.... make you mom chat with him..... if he is a good guy then she might really like him... if she doesn't... and if he appears to be a loser or a jerk that will just end up hurting her little daughter than she wont....usually moms are right.... they have more expericne... they are not trying to screw your life and they are not trying to prevent you from being happy... they are protecting you.... you should sppretiate it..............\n\nThis is coming from a 17year old....
913742
When I first started dating my boyfriend, I baked a tray of cookies for Thanksgiving and brought it over for dinner.  The tray was GONE by the end of the day and now it's become tradition for my cookies around the holidays.  But it's not always about buying things or doing things for someone.  Obviously do what your mom would tell you, be respectful, polite.  Engage in conversation, dress appropriately, and be yourself!  :)  Oh and ask if they'd like help in the kitchen, mothers really seem to like that.
680502
Here's a thought. Maybe you and your boyfriend should each put into words in your own hand writing all the things you just said that you and he each have agreed to in this promise to one another. \n\nTell your dad that you would like for just you and him to go for dinner somewhere because you have some important things you want to talk to him about regarding your future but you don't need to be specific. At dinner, after you've ordered and gotten your cold drinks or coffee then hand him a copy of each of your letter's to one another in an envelope with the promise ring inside. When you're dad is finished reading your letters to one another then you can tell him that yes, you're boyfriend and you did already go and buy the promise rings but you won't put it on yet until you have your fathers blessing.
793846
give them a gift certificate for a nice dinner out and don't forget a hand written thank you card.. not typed or emailed
910405
if you've known each other for 3 years then you must know something about her parents. you can even ask your gf. if you'll buy one gift for the both of them, maybe you can give them wine, some home decor or tool. if you know how to cook or make desserts, it would be nice too.
1074219
The main thing is that you want to be accepted by his family.\nNow that would not be hard for you I can tell you are a nice girl.\n1. Show a lot of respect for the father. \n2. The mother is the main one you need to win over smile at her when she looks at you .Tell her you are nervous . That will make her go easy on you. Say something nice about her. ( hair, eyes, dress, what ever you like but find something. Just her not the father.)\n3. As for boyfriend just show lots of respect for him like I'm sure you do everyone. \n4. If they ask; Do you love their son say yes if you do, they will like that .\n5. Talk to boyfriend about subjects that would cause problems beforehand.\n6. Nothing to low cut.\n7. Don't worry so much, conversations, money is not up to you you are the guess, they will pay. \nSlow down and you won't spill thing OK.\n\nGood luck I think they will love you.
71195
A home-cooked meal would be perfect!  Something he likes, it will seem special but won't make him feel empty-handed for not bringing his own gift.  Plus, if you tell him in advance he can always show up with something (like flowers or wine hopefully)!