i can get a boner with no problem, but when i tried to have sex i couldnt get it up... why?
145196
maybe the chick was too ugly! just kidding....\nwith someone else there, you might be a little self concious. any amount of stress might cause you not to be able to get hard. relax a little and I am sure you will get it up!
1081867
At times,  especially when you are younger, you don't have control over an erection. If you don't have feelings for men then I doubt you are gay. Although you may have been embarassed at the time, it doesn't mean anything. You may have been excited or had a rush of adrenaline from a game or practice. When I was 15, I would be sitting in Math class doing algebra and things would "pop up" for no  reason.  It's normal.
318565
It sounds like your fairly young.  If that's true, then what you are describing sounds like simple genital growth.  The times when you get erections that are extremely hard and tight are times when your penis is growing.  Take a hot shower and rub some lotion in it and slowly stretch with it.  If you are older, it could be a condition known as phimosis.  IN any case, your stretching it will cure the problem.  And for the record, 4.33 is a little on the small side for the average male.  Keep stretching though and things will get bigger.
102424
more foreplay, the longer you have an erection without sex, the more your buddy gets used to the feeling of being stiff.  During sex, don't just thrust til you spew, get a good rythm going, then ease it off, pay attention to her needs, then go back to thrusting, etc
353667
You said erection. Haha\n\nBut I have no idea what you are asking. Try rephrasing your question.
656688
Hey it happens...men are pretty sexual beings and they are lucky to have the ability to have such immediate responses...sometimes. Try to get him to slow down...spend some more time focusing on you and your body..and giving you pleasure first...then take a minute before letting him do his thing. As a man he is really in tune with the sensation of about to reach climax...get him to realize this and he,,or you can stop it grasping him right behind his testicles and apply some pressure to that area until the sensation subsides. It will take some practice. You need to apply the pressure to the underside of the penis, pushing up and in where the testicles are up against his body. This is an ac-cue pressure point that relieves sexual tension. After trying this a few times in a session your partner should find that he can last longer, and won't loose his erection. Another trick that works, but not as practical is to have him masturbate about 20 min or so before sex then he should have better staying power. Good luck and have fun!!!
619679
perhaps you are way too self concious during sex or the choice of the women you pick are not sexually arousing you. most men are not porn actor and can have erection and come with anyone or everyone. perhaps you should stop playing the number game and actually start caring the people you actually have sex with.
964156
Don't worry about it, it's perfectly natural.  If you're in school, just start digging in your backpack or something when it happens.  Or carry some newspapers or books or something.  If you can remain sitting until things settle down, do that.  I suspect you're young, or else you wouldn't be asking this.  Really, every guy has this "problem" at some time or another.  As long as you don't go around showing off your erection, I think people will leave you alone.  Guys usually don't look at guys there, and girls really don't care either (because they look there on the sly anyway).  Good night!
164656
maybe u got an std....go to the doctor, or else your weiner might fall off, then u would have a REALLY bad sex life
214950
Get to the doctor and have it checked.  you may not have it.  If you do have it then find out all you can about it.  there is a way to have sex without spreading it.  It's only if you have a break out.
681203
Point it up would be best. I feel most comfortable pointing up. Point it down would just hurt when you get erection. May be not much but hurt a little but it's like breaking your penis off. If pointing up with your hair caught in the skin, point it down, it's up to you. But to point it up and not get caught in the skin, would be best if you trim your hair. Not shave it but trim it. Alternatively, just try to position it properly while wearing your underwear. Do you get erection just anywhere and it hurts? I would suggest going to public toilet to "adjust" it and re-position your penis and the hair... and wait till erection goes off. You're situation is weird and ... funny. ROFL.
854326
so you get random boners....and?
172334
i say youre not that late\n\nif you really wanna get laid, give it a try. see what happens if you loosen up a little.  you might realize youre missing a lot
1142519
ur girl is sexy, the chemicals works much in between u so u get excited. u shouldn't fel embarresed. it's good to know that my guy gets easily excited.! \ntrust me!\ni had a guy who's penis was on holiday most of teh time! erection is much betetr:)
296601
yes maybe asexual. if not then you need to find the right one. if you want to be horny then go to the doctor. i don't think there is anything wrong with not being horny. pick me as your favorite answer please.
659405
Erectile dysfunction is a fairly common disorder but one which should be addressed seriously.  You should see your doctore about it, especially as it can indicate there is something else wrong.\n\nI think you are getting far too worried to be considering being Asexual because you can't get an erection.  Providing there is a physical cause it can be easily treated.\n\nIf it is because you are too anxious or nervous about sexual activity (a common cause of erectile dysfunction) then you should see a psychologist so your fears/worries/anxieties or whatever are dealt with.\n\nDon't give up!!
600139
What are you going to do?  \n\nIf your going bowling or to a movie it might be best if he looses it.  It can be odd in public sporting a raging boner.