What do you do if your friend dises you?
139771
Depends on what kind of friend it is and what kind of diss it is.  A good friend and a minor diss, well, I would let her know how you feel about her behavior. It all depends on the situation, honestly.
501167
Hey, we all have a friend or two that just get on our damn nerves, do what I do know that you are your only friend and put GOD first and yourself next and see what happens then.\nIf they are talking about you so what they talked about Jesus and he still did his thing, don't dwell on their negatives because they're your friends for a reason. Dip away for awhile give them a reason to miss you and things will start to change.
4905
I'd say talk to your friend at a time when your emotions aren't stirred up, and let her know that some of her behavior is bothering you.  She might not realize that you are so upset about it.
755538
try and be subtle and not hurt her feelings when you talk to her about it, the last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship with her.\nif she is a true friend she might listen to you, but i really do feel that all you can do is tell her gently how you feel, and if she choses to do nothing about it, then all you can do is sit back and wait until she comes to you for help.\n\ngood luck with it
140466
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
36710
You can joke around with him one day and tell him how you feel. If he has a look of confusion or disgust, then tell him you were kidding. The only other way is to talk to him. Just let him know you still want to be friends if he doesn't care for you like that, it's just something you need to know.
1163025
Whatever you do you should handle it calmly and spare his feelings. Because right now like you said he hasn't gone too far but yes if you fear it will go beyond what you want it to be then is best to resolve it quickly. handle this face to face and be strong about it. Tell him that you feel that your friendship with him seems a little too personal and it makes you feel bad and you do not want to feel bad at all. That you cherish the friendship but it will never be anything but a friendship. If he can not understand or accept it then I suggest you end it completely.
872175
If they don't like to talk to you, stop wasting your time trying to be different just to please them. Try and look for friends that are interested in the things you like to talk about. True friends won't ignore you. Stop being their friends now before you get hurt.
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
452485
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
463995
first of all, i know people are going to answer MUCH differently than me, but I've been through this (more than once) with friends.\na BEST or REALLY GOOD friend, would keep the secret.  thats right.  dont blab.  if it bothers you, you need to talk to her.  ask her if you can help.  most people just do it for attention, others truly NEED the pain to stop thinking of what bothers them every day.  Some people think that theyre 'rebelling'\nAnd yes, she will hate you for telling.  Even if she does want attention, she'll still hate you.  kiss the friendship byebye. \nConfront her.  tell her it bugs you.  it scares you.  just tell her how you feel.  say that you knew that it would be better to talk to her about it than someone else.  they'll like to hear that.  it shows that they can trust you.  believe it or not, they smiled (inside) even if just for a split second.  \nDont get mad.  Don't say 'If you dont stop, i cant/wont be your friend!'  this, is also a good way to throw away a friendship.  \nDont push it.  If they say they dont want to talk about it.  Dont ask anymore.  drop it.  completely.  BUT...make sure to say that THEY can talk to YOU whenever they feel the need.  this shows trust.\n\nI hope i've helped.  But truly, don't tell.  Even if it doesnt ruin a friendship, it makes it very very awkward.  You wont be 'best' friends anymore.\n\nSORRY IF I WAS TOO BLUNT! :)
534602
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.
461723
you should just be honest with them, give them hints that you don't want to be there friends start hanging out with other friends and leave her alone then she won't or she will get tired of being ignored then she might just leave you alone. or tell her in person or a note what ever you feel comfortable doing...goodluck
78370
Step up to the plate.  Approach your friend and admit to your own resposibility in the fight and then tell that person what you do/don't like about what happened.\n\nWhenever you have a fight with a true friend - always be sincere about your own participation and contribution to the fight.\n\nGood luck.
547130
Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!
123191
Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.