My boyfriend that I am living with, met online and I havent told my family that. How should I tell them?
151213
Does it really matter at this point? If they like him enough to accept you living with him, I doubt they'll care how you met. I really see no need in telling them...but if it really bothers you just say " I'm sorry I didn't tell you about how I met so and so....we really met online but as you can tell we're really happy together so I hope you still accept him."
443367
Honey if they are rich....make up a story about how you met him if they are going to freak over the "meeting him on the internet" issue.....you don't want to be cut out of the will now!!!!! :)  Good luck!!!!
993673
The only reason I could think of why a relationship is secret is that one party is already married.  A real relationship should be celebrated and shared among family and friends.  So if he is, then tell him you don't have a relationship at all.  If he insists, talk to your parents or friends about it.  Cut clean.  But you have to tell someone because sometimes it gets ugly and we don't want anything to happen to you.  Stay close to family & friends and refrain from going out of the house alone until you feel you have severed ties with him safely.
112951
If you feel weird about it don't do it.  I think it would be better if you keep your independence and don't rely upon them.  It is great to be close to your bf's family but there also should be some distance so you can be you without having to worry that they may be watching every thing you do.
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
702600
Since you say that mom would probably kick you out of the house, do you really need to tell her? Coming out does not have to be something that is done in a single week. You told your boyfriend, and that is what is important. You should tell people about your sexuality that you are sexually involved with. For your family, it is only when you are comfortable telling them and aren't in a position of being dependent on them. If you think your friends won't accept it, are they really your friends? If they don't accept you, find better friends who are more supportive.
205823
Well, the best advice i can give you is to talk to him about it.  You need to explain to him that that's not the way to talk to your family and he needs to explain his differences with your family differently and more respectfully.  Include that you will not put up with his crap and that he needs to get his act together or you don't need to associate with him any more.
640589
if you feel confortable, get each others phone numbers. \nYou can talk to him and see what he is really about. \nI personally met my boyfriend of so far 2 years online, we talked online for 2 months, and things have been going perfectly by now. \nIf you decide to meet him, make sure you know enought of him and feel comfortable. Bring a friend along for safety
184430
I have been in the same situation as you.  My father wouldn't give me any information so I asked other family members what they knew especially the last name and where he lived.  I contacted him and he was glad to finally meet me. Talking will be awkward at first like meeting any new person but take your time and a bond will be formed.  Good Luck
1105505
dont tell your parents, keep it secret. my step-sis kept a bf secret for 3 months one time, i'm sure u can do it for that long or longer.
873852
trust me, it sounds like a bad idea to even talk to him because you will get even more confused, if he actually tried ruining your life then i dont think he deserves shit from you except maybe a black eye. hun, dont let yourself get hurt, and dont hurt your new boyfriend, just dont answer the phone and hope he gets the hint, if he doesnt... then answer and tell him straight up.
133472
Answer them truthfully like you aren't doing anything wrong... cause your not! And your mom just wants to be a part of your life and make sure your not with a dirt bag!  If your mom had a new boyfriend wouldn't you want to know about him?
648539
Hey girl i think its not ok and it is ok. Because there is a lot of cons/procons of having them online. Here is my answer i think its ok to have one but if you wanted to meet them i think you should first find out alot of info first on them like if there are who there say thereand if they have any criminal record ect ect. Any ways i found my boyfriend online and we live together now so hey. So it really depends on what you think.
922851
Maybe his family likes you and he doesnt want them to know what he's been doing to you. thinking that if he acts the part then the negative attention from you will die down and he can get on with business as usual. What you need is to prove to yourself that he has cheated on you. then you have a choice breaking up before or after each has it's own merrits. do it before and I think it might make you look heartless unless you can show good evidence. wait and do it after to look like you are kind and caring but as long before christmas as possible so that you give yourself some time to get back on your feet so to speak before the next holiday. good luck
928068
You really don't know anything about this man...it's not a good idea...people can say anything over the net....slow down....meet him first..then decide...but definately do not marry him
455996
I think you are already worried or you wouldn't have asked the question on here. I do not think this is appropriate at all. Your husband should tell them, I'm married now and I don't think it is a good idea to "keep in touch". NO WAY are you being childish, your being smart.
1162464
i met my boyfriend online...