Why is it that homosexual women appeal to society, but homosexual men do not?
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When we think of a woman we see something soft and sensual, as to when we think of men we see roughness, and masculinity. Now which is sexier?
154193
What the hell does AIDS have to do with homosexuals? A man can get it from a women just as easily, man. Homosexuals are still here because it is THEIR choice and it should be respected because they are people just like anyone else.
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Women are afraid that if they admit that they like sex they will be viewed as a tramp. If a man has a healthy sexual appetite, he is considered normal. This is just the way the world is, for better or worse. Probably another million years of evolution will remedy this.
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It's usually caused by a lack of affirmation in early childhood. It's ironic because the thing gay men seem to crave the most is masculinity.\n\nSame thing for butch women. Lack of affirmation as females in early childhood.
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It's not gay in any way.  It shows that you take an interest in your personal hygene and most women prefer that because they know that the person they are dealing with takes hygene seriously.  It also feels and looks better.
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Yeah, well culture and society doesnt allow THAT avenue of exploration, and most guys are told that they HAVE to like girls. Everything, almost, on movies, television, sports, books, and bar chats tell him that he is EXPECTED to want women. Later on, when he has time or space enough or open mindedness to really see what he is about without the expectations forcing him into a mold, he might discover that hes not really attracted to women. It takes being able to step out of the role that he has built his very life around. They may have honesty never even thought about it and it was only after living with a woman for a while that they realized they felt no sexual attraction towards her. I heard that the most violent homophobes are often themselves sexually frustrated and have gay feelings that they cannot accept about themselves so they turn their rage against gays who are happy with who they are. In the red heat of their anger they dont rationalize their feelings and figure out why they are mad.
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They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.\nOne time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."
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the reason people are against gays/lesbians are the fact that they do not fit the social norm and they are not hetero like everyone else on this plant or so they think and also they find the sexual acts disqusting mainly religion is a big factor in this because we are taught it is not natural....
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between a bunch of gays instead of women?
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I think it's one of the most natural, understandable things in the world. Women are beautiful and sensual - why wouldn't other women be attracted to them? Homosexual men... well that's just gross.
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Gay men prefer a man instead of a woman right? Therefore, they act feminine to attract other gay men. Gay women act masculine to attract other gay women. One of the gay persons must act opposite to attract the other gay person. In that way, they play out the role of one being a man and the other being a woman. In actuality, they both are of the same sex and may often reverse rolls.
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Maybe because men don't really try to work in that area and plus everyone is so into lesbians because it's popular.  And the fact that men are just seen for their personalities not for their bodies
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Because women are naturally attracted to men and vice versa. Lesbianism is a corruption of nature but they can only fight nature so much. As you said, in the end they end up looking for a substitute for a man.
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1st off....There is NOTHING wrong with gay or lesbian people! \n\n I think men just simply are more attracted to two women than two men therefore they accept it more.
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It's really not possible to give GAY a face. Gay people are as diverse in their appearance, mannerisms,and backgrounds as straight people. For every gay person you can spot in a crowd there are several you cannot. As a gay man I've realized that other than my sexuality, I have little or nothing in common with many gay people I've met. I don't fit the stereotype well at all. Society needs to realize that gay is not a culture, a look, nor a belief system. It is simply a condition, like being short or tall.
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i am attracted to both male and female bodies. it doesnt make you gay though. everyone has problems with their sexuality. it all depends on how you control it. some gay men think that since they like the way a man looks or is sexually attracted to them they should go gay. but if a very attractive woman came and did some thing i cant say to him then he would go right back to being straight. plus their is no problem with being attracted to your own body and the female assests. it just shows that you appreciate women and what we all have.
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Although your questions deals more with race than with sexuality, a brief observation is in order: heterosexual intercourse being exclusively the ordinary route to natural human procreation, lifelong homosexuality is understandably rare among persons.\n\nPerhaps as a consequence of this, most cultures seem to have adopted a 2-person form for romantic relationships -- and in some instances, homosexual relationships are sanctioned by the State.\n\nHaving so stated, and in answer to the particulars of your question, this is what I recall from my college studies:\n\nThe following sociological stereotypes were derived by scientists from years of observation, and apply only when the entire earth population of each group is considered: caucasoid males and negroid females tend to be assertive, caucasoid females and negroid males tend to be submissive.\n\nBecause race is a function of evolution, were it not for advances in travel, there would be virtually no interracial couples.  The ancient aphorism is "birds of a feather flock together."\n\nAssertive persons tend to affiliate themselves with others on the basis of ideological compatibility; submissive persons tend to affiliate themselves with others on aesthetic grounds.\n\nNote: ideological compatibility does not preclude selfish motives; in fact, hope to realize one or more selfish aims may be for each party in a couple a driving influence (or even the sole influence).\n\nBeauty is subjective, but within cultural groups exist parameters common to the definition of a standard.  When this observation is applied on a global basis, caucasian women are generally more attractive than negroid women.\n\nThat doesn't mean there aren't stunning "Nubian" women, anymore than it means that there aren't any buggly "white" women.  Rather, it simply acknowledges a general trend that is always going to be locally rebuttable.\n\nOrdinarily, opposites attract (think of the poles of a magnet): assertive men desire as domestic companions submissive women, and vice-versa; however, the value of the aesthetic cannot be simply dismissed.\n\nAesthetic appeal is not limited to the beauty of physical form -- shape, color, tone, vocalization, etc. -- but includes personality.\n\nWith the exacerbation of competitive demands throughout both the global economy and local economies, psychoemotional pressures will continue to increase against effective assertive personalities -- (thus making them increasingly likely to be jerks).\n\nBy contrast, submissive personalities tend either to regard fate as cyclical or inevitable, and cope with the demands of life in a much more carefree manner.  This can't be lost on the "white women" that seem to crave "black men," and vice-versa.