if u have a best friend and their mad at u would u leave it alone or try to work it out?
153554
let them cool off for a day best friends fight, thats common
941724
i suggest you keep that secert and just stay distant from that friend , because she might be mad enough to hurt you
292593
its actually betrayal to ur best friend, talk to the guy and then come to a decision and then tell your best friend and.... nooo she'll be mad..tell her that someone else did it with their friend and check her reaction then tell her what happened like after a week if she reacts alright.!!!!!! best of luck
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
672959
I would be extremely upset and want to hit them both. BUT I would think that they are both good for each other considering they put you in the middle of their little escapades. So think of it as just a loss and move on. If you don't hit them then you will be walking out of it in the end looking and feeling much better. It's all in good judgment.
1163003
I'd do nothing, and from the point i receive the news, both of them will be strangers to me from that point onwards.\n\nIt's better to let them be happy than to break up their relationship.\nWhat's the point if she's with me but her mind, heart and soul is with this so called best friend? \n\nThere's no point to fight over girls. There's plenty out there to choose from. More than plenty of girls.
80862
I'd just stay out of it, and when the other one tells you the plans - let them know this is cruel.\nThat is what friends do.
106369
It matters if you're going out because you love him, or for revenge. If for revenge, please dump him LIGHTLY. "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready" should do the trick. If because you love him, try to exaplain that to your best friend. But if you even once find yourself doing something with him for revenge to her, I suggest you let him go.\n\nGood luck!!! ^^
186277
stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.
450448
Well it depends on what your fighting over and how good of a friend she is, If she's a good friend then you should talk it over and she'll get over it because she's a good friend, if you don't care about then friendship at all then go a head and move on, if you value the friendship at all then talk.
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
98345
Depends on whether that person knew and did it anyway.  And what you did to stop that.\n\nIf the person did it knowingly, then I would speak to them.  Maybe they were trying to edge you on to do interact with the person.  If you didn't do anything except sulk then you should do a paradigm shift and think what you could have done.  For instance, you could have cut in.  Unless the person is a jerk, they would oblige.\n\nBut definitely talk (not argue or berate, at least at first) with your best friend.
120103
If your best friend left you then you don't have to be friends with her, however if she just left you to go hang out with someone else for awhile then I wouldn't ditch her just yet. Just ask her if she's still your friend and have a couple of your friends watch out for her behind your back in case she insn't what you think she is.
508672
They really should not get mad unless you are married. If you are married then leave the friend and stick by your wife. If you are dating and she is jealous that is a sign that she is not the girl for you. Move on!
41840
Very cool question.\n\nWhen a best friend hurts your feelings, it is like a brother or sister hurting your feelings.\n\nFirst you feel shocked, then betrayed, then anger, then sorrow, all at once, or maybe just a few, or one after another.\n\nIt can really make your head spin.\n\nIf your head is really spinning and you can, GET AWAY from this person and cool down.\n\nNow the big secret: WAIT, CONFIDE, WRITE, TELL\n\nWait minutes, or even days. Meanwhile confide in a super confidante like your Mom or Dad, not another friend -- they will blab. This will make you feel a tiny bit better. Write out your feelings on a piece of paper, not in emails or online. When you have all your feelings sorted out, tell the person in private. Finish by saying, I will feel better if you formally apologize to me. But be careful, they may not know that they offended you and may run all around telling everyone you are touchy and too sensitive.\n\nSorry this happened to you. \nHope you work it out.
89685
I would tell him that he hurt me whether he was joking or not and if he apologizes, accept it. People say a lot of things they don't mean when they're mad. If he is truly your friend, he'll apologize, if he doesn't then I'd say, "Ya know what? When you decide to apologize, I'll listen, until then, I would rather not be around you."
252897
i know your very upset and feel like u need revenge but it would be best to just leave him/her because when we do things in our anger we sometimes do things that we will regret and may not be able to take back whatever may happen.