I used to burn myself....?
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yeah i understand but there is so many things you still want to be able to acomplish and you need to be strong to do those goals you have in mind you know?....and well nothing should get on your way NOTIHNG!you are verry valubel and important so look at the better and bigger things in life thats what i do when i feel down.
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what were the actions that lead up the the abuse? Were you having problems for awhile. Remember when you are fighting and hurt you will say things that you dont mean in the heat of the moment...........
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Hi !  Alan here.  Red-Head ....\n\nI've spent half of my summers as a kid torched like a lit match.  Ruined both Carribean cruises that my parents brought me along on (heck I was like 12 and 14 at the time and would really rather have gone when I was 20-something).\n\nThere have since, as an adult, been innumerable float trips in shiny silver canoes ... you get burned from the top and the bottom.\n\nWell, it wasn't the threat of skin cancer or anything like that.  It was honestly, just the pain. Period.\n\nYeppers ... I wear sun screen now and put in on the kids whenever we go out for extended time in the summer sun.\n\nI hate rubbing that stuff on me or anyone else (I actually eat popcorn with chop-sticks so as to not get my finger greasy ... I know, major-weird) ... still, it's made for whole lot more enjoyable vacations for the past 10 years or so !
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i used to be like that but i started harming myself... i dont say go buy a razor and slash your wrist i am informing you that crying over little things is better then giving yourself a reason to cry... just talk to people and blink back tears thats all i know..
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hahah you have male friends don't you? I had friends who stick Ice and salt in their buttcracks just got really bad burns.... try A&D ointment,you can get it at any drug store, it smells kinda funny but it will help...and next time make someone else do it first so you know what the out come is!
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OH CAN IT EVER. It's call blue-flaming or torqing. You lay on you back and throw your legs back over your head as far as you can. Hold a lighter (not a match) near the butt-opening. If you get too close you create some risk. Build up a doozy and let 'er rip while the lighter is going. You have to exhaust the whole thing, or else you risk bringing some of the fire back inside of you while your butt-opening is still, well, open. So push it all out. Some of the flames can get huge. Just watch out for the "banana torq". It wraps around and burns bad things.
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I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hope you'll get better really soon. Thank you for taking your time to tell us a little bit about yourself. I just wish there was something more I could do to help you through this.\n\nGod bless you and keep you safe.\nTake care and have a nice day :)
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believe it or not if the burn is a small and not blistered.....you can use mustard!!!  I used to work at a corn dog place and I used to burn myself ALL the time!!!  Just make sure that the mustard is cold!!!  And also that it isn't serious if it is go to the Dr.!!!
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lol u hurted yourself\nit will heal but u may need to apply some sports cream or aching muscle cream/gel that you will be able to get from your chemist/drug store
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Funny you should ask because I saw an old flame of mine and got so nervous I spilled my juice all over the lady behind me and knoced over her lunch tray. ( I was trying to avoid him )lol So don't feel bad I make an ass outta my self daily!! Lucky I found A man that sees me for me!
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I actually did one better. When I was a child, my parents had a very old oven that you had to light with a match. When I was about 14 years old, I opened the door of the oven and struck a match. I got blown half-way across the kitchen. I burned my face and hands as well as having my eyelashes, eyebrows, and bangs torched off.
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I'm not a cutter but I think the best thing for you, is to maybe try talking to someone about this. You say you do that to feel normal, but just because a lot of people do that, doesn't mean it's normal. If you don't want to talk to anyone about that, try just stopping cold turkey. Throw away all your razors, don't resort to any other means of self harm. Find a hobby and be constructive!
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Sounds to me like you brought this upon yourself...Lick your wounds and carry on....Yuke
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I am not a parent of a child that self-harms..but if it is any consilation ..I used to be a child who did the "self-harming" ...if I can be of any help just let me know....
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i totally sympathise with you and know how you feel...at the age of 14 i was diagnosed with aneroxia, depression and i sef-harmed (i still have some scars now...3 years later)- i was in denial about all these things but then one day i cracked and realised i needed help....i sat down with my parents and explained EVERYTHING....about what i was doing to my body....how i was feeling inside....and how i came close to taking a overdose.....i was referred to a psychiatrist and was admitted in to a psychiatric hospital for 6 months...im not trying to scare you and tell you thats where your going to end up because mine weren't just about the self-harming but what i will say is that you need to sit down with your parents..tell them not to speak because there is something you need to get of your chest and just get them to listen.....as for you saying that your mum was angry when she saw your cuts...it isnt an anger for example....if you damaged someones property....but an anger that is brought on by being worried, scared, feel like they cant help e.t.c...and probably why you never went to them for help...once your parents get an idea (i wont so understand because no one can ever understand unless they are going through it or has been through it) of what your feeling then get them to take the right steps forward to getting you psychiatric help and counselling....but DONT keep this to yourself.....im not saying its a 2 minute job to fix because even after i came out of hospital after being in there for 6 months i carried on self-harming but i still got to see a cousellor and psychiatrist twice a week.....now 3 years later i no longer self-harm but carry the scars with me.....i wish you much luck
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i stopped being the only one. ask for some help it won't hurt you, and don't forget to relax, a little indulgence is not considered a sin you owe it to yourself
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about a week ago I had ashes on my face.