how do I attract a gurl.?
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Be yourself. Dont mislead them, make sure they know the real you. No girl wants to find out that they guy she likes lied to her to get her to date them. Find  a girl that has things incomin with you. That way you have things to talk about. Also find things to talk about. Find out what the girl likes. Is it something that you can get into too?
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well thats an easy question, most girls give you signals that they like, for example the way they look at you or if they hey in a special way. most women give lots of signals dude you just have to open your eyes to them and dont be shy just play to your strenghts, another thing that works with girls is just be cocky and funny trust me it always work and don't let them know that your interested in them, so anyway good luck bro if you do the right thing you wont be able to get them of you. good luck.
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Pick someone out and walk up to her and start talking, but never use a pickup line.  Something like, "That's a huge purse! do you keep fi fi in there or something?" will get you much better results, try it! Be yourself and don't act like everyone else that hangs around her like hungry hounds hoping to win her over.  These kind of women put up with this stuff all day long.  If you start a conversation with a fine girl and she detects that your are really nervous, then it's game over man.... Next!  Women generally like confidence, never come off as wimpy or needy. For all she knows, you don't "need" anybody.  Good humor is a great way to show that you're fun and interesting.  These are what sparks attraction. Most guys meet a girl and act as if she's already his potential wife.  Just relax and have fun. Kid with her then walk away.  Come back later, chat, and kid around a little more, then walk away.  come back & get her number.Chances are, you'll get it. She'll see you as someone different from the average guy who thinks he has to try to impress her with money, flowers, perfect looks, etc to win her approval.  ;-)
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1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
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Man this is the worst idea for attracting girls.\nyou look so desprate!!!\nnext time try something like: "girls wanna chat??" it works better!!
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just act relaxed and at ease with her, she'll get the vibe and do the same. go talk to her, and keep smiling. keep eye contact, and she'll open up\n\ngood luck ;)
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you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
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to some girls yes but if the gurl your talking about is nice and care about people and their insides then its no problem. just tell this gurl how you feel about her. make her a note, take her in a quiet place and tell her or you can have a friend tell her. your choice. your move. if your afraid how she feeels about you like she wont like u back, have a friend ask this gurl what her opinion is about you. that makes it a whole lot easier. you can also like talk to one of her friends and see what she likes like a teddy bar or you know what gurls like you can get that gift put it in her desk or locker have your name signed in it and inside tell her how u feel. Good luck dude. hope everything works out for you!!!!!! for more questions email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com
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Be polite and gentle. Invite her with Love and care.\n\nHi It would be really great if you can be my gf. Please.
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Find other women in personals possibly or try pheromones that will attract women. Good luck! And have fun!
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depends on the girl, obvoiously. if you want a girl who's hot, then you have to be hot (sterotypically speaking). if you want a more..deep thinker type, be a bit more smart/sophisticated. be a gentleman. girls like compliments, but be careful not to mix them up with pick up lines. "nice a$$" just doesnt work. try not to give them attitude, and if youre annoyed by something they do, talk to them about it instead of dumping them. thats about all i can tell you.. oh and be yourself (its cliche, yes, but true)
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the best way to let others you are interested is to make eye contact and smile . You can also try dating sites and post a profile . Use the same skills you use to let a girl know your are interested .
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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this will DEFINETELY help! :\nGUYS.....HOW TO TREAT A GURL....\n*1. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot, fine or sexy. \n*2. Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second. \n*3. Kiss her on the forehead. \n*4. Leave her voicemessages to wake up to. \n*5. Always tell you love her at all times. \n*6. When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you. \n*7. Recognize the small things...they usually mean the most. \n*8. Sing to her no matter how horrable your voice is.\n*9. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. \n*10. Write her notes. (she loves them)\n*11. Introduce her to your family and friends as your girlfriend. \n*12. play with her hair. \n*13. Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her. \n*14. Sit in the park and just talk to her. \n*15. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes. \n*16. Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her. \n*17. Let her fall asleep in your arms. \n*18. When shes in her joggers say to your friends THATS HER! \n*19. If shes mad at you kiss her. \n*20. Give her piggyback rides. \n*21. Bring her flowers just because. \n*22. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. \n*23. look her in the eyes and smile. \n*24. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants. \n*25. Slow dance with her, even if there isnt any music playing. \n*26. Kiss her in the rain.\n*27. Let her listen to your voice down the phone \n*28. If your in love with her...Tell her.
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
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show her that you find her interesting. when you see her ask her how she is. but dont go on her nerves.\nif you are shy then put nice (dont overdo it)flowers on her footstep and a little card. write that these are of you, that you like her and would like to invite her for a drink or a dinner. you can also tell her that you are too shy to ask her directly. Women like when men show that there not always the ''hard ones''.After that give her time to come to you and start to talk. If she doesnt come it means she wont go out with you or she is also too shy to talk to you. just watch her reaction you will figure it out.  hope that helps you
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1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.