How do you know when it is ok to put your hand under a girl's top ?
147008
If you are kissing her, slip your hand under her shirt so you are touching her BACK.  If there are no objections, proceed slowly...
297236
Aw, this question is sweet.\n\nWhen it feels right. You'll notice that she is also "shaping up" for it also. If she turns her face up to yours, moves closer, then it's probably time.\n\nDon't rush and don't try to eat her face or stick your tongue right down her throat would be my advice too. Just be soft at first - practice makes perfect.
75761
Physical is usually a good indicator. If she's right up against you or making some motion while talking dirty, or whatever she does, may be it. Try a small touch like start kissing her, as she permits, touch her on her lower back, caress her cheek (face cheek!!!), if she responds well, maybe try a little further. Just don't up the ante too much.
321700
keep it slow.. if you like her you now whens its the right time to kiss her and stuff just keep it slow so.. she knows ur respctful.  you can hold her hand girls love it when there comforted by their guy lol
409123
Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.
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Nah, you don't have a problem. Guys are supposed to do this. Unless you actually go up to them and try to touch them, then you are fine. Also don't get caught staring at them. We find that offensive.
232050
i think you need to ask or have her make the first move. it totally pisses me off and makes me not like a guy when he just assumes that it is ok. dont do that unless you want to come off like a jerk, and then you wont get any. its not cool to be making out with a guy and to constantly have to pull his hand off your zipper cause its only the first date or whatever.
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You will notice her touching your hands more, touching her hair more, and just getting a little closer to you.\n\nOnce she gets into your personal space, that is usually a good indication that she is okay with kissing.
891177
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
687426
If you're a chick the best technique is to use a guy's fingers. If you're at least 18, my fingers are available.
377570
When your hanging out alone with her,lightly touch her hand,but make it brief.Just leave it there for a few seconds,long enough for her to notice,but not to long to make her think about it.Then over time,make it a little longer and a little longer.If she dosen't like it,she'll let you know right off.But then,you can just say you just brushing it as you got something.
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I agree with Bad Yellow.. I love my best friend to death!! But I don't kiss her or hold her hand.. Even if people didn't care, we still wouldn't do those things. It's okay if you love her in a lezbian way though. Even though I'm not one, I think it's okay to love someone no  matter what sex. But if u wanna go further with ur best friend than just friendship, that's ur choice. But people are gonna think what looks real to them, and kissing her in public and holding her hand looks like ur more than friends. See what I'm trying to say? Good luck.
112866
Depends on her. Ask her if she wants it. Not many feel comfortable because that is a dirty area.
707052
touch her Legs and boobs. You'll know when shes Horny.
811061
place hands above her hips, in this way your girl will feel secured and warm
762319
dont force it.....you gotta be smooth, try and grab her hand...but make it look like an accident, not too obvious of an accident, but say it was accident if she pulls away, if she doesnt, hold her hand and look her in the eyes, only try this once......you dont want her to think your desperate
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Think of what you would like and think of what might freak you out, mostly if someone comes on too strong.  Have fun, do girl things, do things that get you in contact with each other, put your arm through hers as you walk down the street as a friendly having a good time gesture but don't let her go.  Holding hands in public might be too much right off.  Keep it subtle and easygoing.  If you enjoy yourself then she should enjoy herself and then maybe you can enjoy each other.  Good luck.