how can i get my boyfriends attention and make him love me more as we are in a distance relationship?
144668
You can't make someone love you.  They either do or don't.  You can't change someone either.  They have to want to change.  You can tell him of the situation, what you want then hope he listens and changes.\nGood luck!
111494
By just showing him that you care. Pay attention to him. Really know what he likes or doesn't like. Make him feel like he is the only man in the room. SHOW HIM YOU LOVE HIM!! By doing this, he will already know that you love him and when it is time to say it out loud, he will already know how you feel which will make saying it a whole lot easier.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
398798
You can not make a man love you. If you could would you really want to have the power to say love me more and he does. How would that benefit your emotional needs, because you would never know the degree to which he loves you. Everyone progresses differently. Are you sure you love him more, or are you being dominating and he cannot express himself.
983564
Gat him something to gain his confidence and know that your serious about having soemthing forever.  Give him a gift that will last a while and is from the heart.  Tell him you would like to exchange commitment rings and also go away to have a special weekend and rekindle things and also go take professional pictures together to have.  That should help you get things together in your relationship and will be special.
57969
it depends on how both of you feel, and if you really want to make it work it will work. my bf and i have a more than 3 year relationship now, the first 8 months was together in college, the rest was spent in diff continents. i go home to vacation every year to see him. im sure how i feel about him and he says he's sure and i believe him though somethimes i get paranoid and i grill him with questions and sometimes he is patient sometimes he gets irritated. communication is very important. we try to talk everyday even if it's just to say hello. trust each other, if you don't trust each other there's no use having the long distance relationship. don't hold back each other in terms of friendships, your goals, etc. in my case if i'm excited happy sad angry ... he's the person i always want to "report" to. we're each other's "go-to" person even if it's just on the phone. i told him that in case someone new comes along i asked him to just tell me right away and i'm hoping if it ever happens he'll care enough and just be honest. long distance relationships are not easy but if you feel that it's what you want and your bf feels the same way then it will be worth the time and effort. i hope i've been some of help.
265848
if he loves you why worry about him loving you more.  You cant make anyone love you , but you can make him appreciate you more by doing the littel things he wants done and making sure hes taken care of in every manner  ;)
720457
talk to him - i told my bf that i love him and see our futures as being together - try it :-)
492132
problem is him. Don't push it. Relationship is about trust. Letting him get to trust you little by little, in the little things then it will grow. Also just be yourself so he can trust the you he sees. Lastly, not everybody gets to say 'I love U' the same way. Maybe his may be different
387031
well it is not waisting your time, but you must be careful not to spoil him too much. at least try to keep a balance. is he giving you same attention? if so, go ahead. otherwise, stop. he will be bored. sure they love to be spoiled, they love cute things, but first you must assure he loves you enough.\ngood luck
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
801843
How about writing him a long surprise email...telling him how u felt from the first time u laid eyes on him till this very day...how the 2 of u have grown together and how important he is to u. Attach a song to the email...a song that reflects how u feel....a song that will hit them right in the heart :)
380582
just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
188877
First, there is no need to prove love. If there is love, there is love. No need to prove love to anybody. That is pretty much like faith, you know.\n\nAnyway, since you are in a long distance relationship, a little reminder of your love every now and then surely wouldn't hurt. Communication is very important for any relationship. So, that's the key word. Occassional visits would certainly be welcome, if that's workable. If not, try communicating frequently using letters, emails or phone calls (SMS or MMS are ok, too). For me, letters are extra special cuz it means you are actually taking the time to share with that someone special what your everyday life is like. That's important -- to share both the big and small things that happen to you.
339963
Distance can put a severe strain on a relationship.  It's hard to say for certain.  I'd look to more clues in the relationship between you and your intimacy, emotional and physical relationship.  The time you do spend.  Part of the reason distance relationships aren't as successful is because of the lack of time spent.  Confront him, but knowing that he loves you, I'd take his word.
989002
distance either makes the heart grow fonder...or makes the heart wander...it would be hard not having him around, but try love conquers all boundaries, including distance..this is your challenge to know if this is meant to be..hang in there and have faith in his love for you. Whatever happens happens for a reason. \n\nGood Luck
766492
if you two are really meant for each other, love will overcome any obstacle, but for now you just have to know him  better, with the technology today i dont think thats a problem anymore, we now have video calls, and there is the internet, there are a lot of ways to communicate with another person while he is away from you, its just a matter of how much you wanted it. . .  after all its really up to the both of you, how much you really want to push through thus so called relationship of yours. if you desperately want him then go for it, he would be worth it in the end, and he would be a big regret for you if in case you wont try anything to pursue this. . .  goodluck  to you and GODBLESS!!!