Question guys! Would you feel that your masculinity was threatened by dating a female chemical engineer?
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Honestly, I've never felt threatened by the thought of dating a smart or successful woman.  It's also my honest opinion that that particular line of thinking is a cop-out, an excuse women use to avoid admitting they are doing something wrong.  \n\nExcuse me as I go on a tangent here, and don't take this personally(afterall I don't know you), however, every reasonablely attractive woman without serious issues that I've ever known who claimed to have problems finding men had several guys around that would consider dating her.  Yet, the women claim "there are no guys" as if these men don't even exist.  It's a form of dishonesty.  Obviously, successful people would (justifiably) have higher standards, but your typical female standard is pretty high to begin with.  A lot of the self proclaimed successful women I've known really don't give average guys a chance, then wonder why they can't find someone.  Another form of high standards lies in not offering anything to the relationship.  For example, demanding a guy wait 56 years before considering going sexual, refusing to tolerate "whining", etc.  It's important to have confidence, but it can be taken too far.  Just being around isn't really enough to justify a serious relationship for a lot of guys.\n\nA second potential problem is availability.  If you spend a lot of time at work advancing that career, and little at leisure, there aren't many opportunities for guys to approach.\n\nAnd of course one final potential snag is the old negative attitude.  Some people are just unpleasant to be around, because they nag, whine, or are dismissive of other people's feelings.  People may not come right out and tell you what turns them off.  It's tempting to assume you "know" and it's because those people have some insecurity, but that won't help you in the long run.
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Yeah, of course. When you have a relationship with them and have had a lot of you know what. Then break up and she doesnt have anyone at the moment. And she needs it really bad being ra.ndy like a mad mare, even if we were still together i was like doing it myself sometimes just to see how she reacts and she was going all crazy, asking about me to even buy her a di.ldo if i dont have time :) and thats about it. They can be just as crazy as we men are, hahaha. They also need to fart and go to toilet and burp and eat. Just the same thing. Nasty, nasty hahaha.
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No. \nI value myself than more than some man's w****. Because that is what you are making yourself to be.  If the man could not respect me enough to be the one and only than he doesn't have much for me.  Of course he's gonna tell you that lie, but it's a lie.\n\nRespect yourself as a lady, not some mans sex toy or w****.\n\nAnd if that isn't enough think of the other female.  How do you think she feels? And how would you feel if your man was taking out of your mouth and giving it to another female.\n\nIt all boil down to:  RESPECT YOURSELF, BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Um, well if she were more manly, then you wouldn't be attracted to her would you?  She would be all smelly and hairy and stinky and gross.  Wooo I bet you would love snuggling up to a stinkbomb :)
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if when u talk to her she acts differently than with other guys\n\ni would no\n\ni am a chick\n\nlol\n\nand i told the guy i liked tht i liked him and he asked me out the next day fyi
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i'd believe it. i'm pretty traditional, myself. i think feminism is actually a sign of weakness, not strength. it shows that women feel threatened. do we, ladies? i do not. i like men. they're fun. and i can certainly hold my own.
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This is a funny guestion. \nMaybe not the most politically correct, but I thought it was a very 'guy' question. \nYou obviously like women, and we appreciate that in such a world as this.
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Some men are intimidated by a female who is very intelligent and/or beautiful.  They don't think they will add up.  Try not revealing everything about yourself all at once.  I know your proud of your degrees, but let these men know slowly about all of this.
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I am one of them but I have been working on it for a while now.  Girl you are probably a great person I would not worry much.  Take care.
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Hmmm. sounds interesting what would a guy have to do to\nbe kept in this matter.
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I think because us men have testostrone which gives us an urge to compete; we can not fullfill this natural urge with out a fellow man which causes us to have friends to full fill this.  We have a hard time full filling this with a women because we need to dominate or conquer and win against the other men.\n\nWhoa\n\nWomens natural chemistry is to produce in which they can not do with a fellow women so your guys chemistry does not involve each other. Of course a women can be powerfull and successfull but you cannot fight the chemistry / biological clock fore ever its ticking. \n\nLet me know if this helps a tiny bit.   Sorry for the spelling im tired and sleepy.
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Why do you think they hired you?  Because of your brain?  Beware of the devil's plan to seperate you from your soul mate.  Remember it's a man's world because women refuse to step up.  Notice your attitude.  You are considering prostituting(i don't mean sexually)yourself for the betterment of your career.  The freemason's plan.
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I'll tell you this, your job and your material posessions don't mean anything if you lack the personal qualities woman like to see in a man.\nAre you confident and natural?  Do you make women feel relaxed and safe?  Are you good at carrying on a conversation?  Can you pick up on the subtle cues of attraction?  If not, you're screwed.
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If you like her, and you are attracted to her, then sure.  There's nothing wrong with that.\n\nSo she "used" to be a male.  So what?  Now she looks like a woman, acts like a woman, identifies as a woman.  You know the old saying, "If it quacks like a duck...?"\n\nIf you are both happy, then nothing else matters.
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No.\n\nA woman makes an unconscious decision in a matter of seconds about whether or not she'd date you upon meeting you. \n\nIf you're in a position of constant contact, sometimes that opinion will change but most of the time I'm sure the woman would most likely think of you as a perv stalker loser before they think of you as dating material...\n\nUNLESS...  \n\nYou have A) LOOKS  B) MONEY  C) POWER\n\nIf you have B or C it doesn't matter WHAT you look like.\n\n\n-- EDIT --\n\nTo answer the chick below me -- Uh.. yeah it is.\n\nMaybe not in the podunk midwest areas or the south but in NY, LA, Miami, or any large metropolis, it is.  \n\nAnd, (even in the podunk areas), it's a sense of security that women seek - and money & power give a sense of security.  Does he have a farm?  A great tractor?  A few head of cattle that would provide food and money from the slaughter??  (hehee.. a little stereotypical, yeah.. but you get the point, right??) \n\nAnd as for looks -- well, when you're young you want someone hot.  It's just the way it is.\n\nTell me something - would you get together with a man living on the streets that smelled like p!ss and couldn't take care of himself, but had a great personality and treated you right?  \n\nYeah, I thought not.
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Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
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I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.