Should you boyfriend tell you/check-in if he changes his plans?
150037
Calm down....Just cause your bf change his plans and does something else dosent mean he cheating. How can you sound more untrusting. I doubt he goes outta town without tellin you,im sure youknow why he goes. alot of times its a persons own thoughts that trigger insecure thoughts that causes striff and tension in relationships.  I have this same problem with my girl, she always thinks im cheating or doing something specfically to harm our relationship,like i wanna argue about things like that. Its ridiculous, I dont know if she wanna wardenize me or not, Itry to please her by telling her stuff but she complains I told her too late. Its not a problem cause I really like her and its not a big deal(as much) Sometimes you gotta choose your battles and deal with the good and the bad if you really like him/her if you generally know he not cheating. TRUST HIM ladylocks!!
404207
If this has been the same guy for 10 months I would say that it's time. In my opinion you have every right and he should expect you to want to clarify your relationship.\nI can understand, to use your term, "going with the flow" but you have gone with the flow and have some questions you want answered.\nDoes he just want to play around; a couple weeks here and a couple weeks there, or dies he have future plans?
423904
Make sure he knows.  Tell him!:)
8115
Ok, first of all, your bf/gf isn't your husband or wife, so he or she has no obligation to tell you something like that unless you guys live together. IF you a courtesy note would have being nice on his/her part to let you know where he when so you wouldn't be worried. \n\nAnd if he or she didn't tell you, well. Get over it, he/she has a life, and independent life. You are just part of that life. \n\nNow, the question is are you mad because he didn't tell you? or were you pisst because you didn't go? what ever your reason is. Get over it, something like that would be a good enough cause for a break up. \n\nThats just me, i like to be independent and have my space and time respected by anybody. You should respect his time alone or with his friends
6720
it depends on how long you have been with this guy and  ask yourself if he's worth it. the ? is would he change something about himself. what he's doing exc.. if he says yes then go ahead and switch.just make sure he knows he owes you one
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
516209
if he is in your country then have one of his friends that you can trust not to tell him you are coming home, and have him take you boyfriend out some where, like a restaurant, just to "HANG OUT WITH HIM" and then you "RUN IN TO THEM" at the place. but if you are leaving him to go back to your country then that sucks.
220346
Although I admire the fact that you are trying to plan ahead and submit with a little creativity on your own, I say stop planning.  Go with your gut reaction and answer in the moment.  Even if you know that the question is coming, I'm sure he still wants that element of surprise.  If you have your answer in tow already engraved on a plate, that seems a little too planned out to me.  It seems like that may take the romance right out of his gesture.
393255
Maybe your boyfriend wants to get his word in whenever he wants.  Perhaps he's prideful.
195316
No I totally care about alot of ppl (especially my fiance) and I show it in different ways,  but sometimes I am horrible w/ b-days and he knows I care even if I forget to tell him and I always make up for it.  Just take into account any of the other ways he shows you he cares.  If there aren't any then its time to consider leaving him.
761709
It sounds like you need to clarify the relationship. If you are happy with the way things are then go with it. If you want change then do it. Who knows how he feels about you, he may be interested in a relationship but hasn't brought it up or thinks you are happy with the way things are. If you don't at least try you may never find out what could be. Good luck
601759
IF he knows You, he should know your not always right in the head..but if it would make you feel better...it's best to tell him...come to think of it, you should tell him..he has a right to know..if he doesn't already...
479709
well first make sure its true and if it is say i not gonna change for u u suppose to be there for me but u ain't so let bf go on with life cause it fair for u to be con- stately worry for the well being of your bf if they are not doing the same
1129495
Do what you think is best if at some stage boyfriends come up just mention it to her
339459
man, good question.\nsay yes.. and you´ll find out what will happen. \nif he´s gonna start makin´ plans.. telling ppl about it he should mean it right?!\n\nif he was playin´ you he would not tell everyone .. cos then ppl would say he´s an a*s*s*h*o*l*e.\n\nGood luck.. follow your heart. If you are sure you wanna be with him go for it! God leads us to all kind of ppl. \nNow it´s up to you to find out if he is the right one of if this is just one of many experience god wants you to make.\n\nGood luck dear. You will find out. I just found my man, who is heaven send. Darlin ´ you´d feel if he is the right one.\n\n\nTTYL
771044
whatever he is doing he is doing....trust your instincts and your feeling regarding the relationship
712041
A guy wants it straight forward if you don't tell him you will be sorry. Just go up to him and tell him while no one is around. Trust me i gave this advice to many girls before. Don't wait until the last minute when it's too late.