Why is it when I dont pay attention to women they pay attention to me? and not vice versa? lol?
151314
I have the same problem with guys. I don't know why it happenes, but it really sucks. I know when i don't pay attention to some guys it's because i'm not attracted to them in that way. But when i am attracted to other guys, they just walk all over me and don't give me the time of day. I think the reason why the girls u dont want attention from is that you are really being yourself. I mean 110% urself. And the girls that u do want the attention from, ur not being urself. Maybe ur being shy or an a**. Idk... the only thing i can say is always be yourself...... no matter what.
460128
My guess is that you are a man & that is why.\nNot that women aren't but we don't fill every ounce of free space in our minds with those thoughts.
15300
I agree.  Women not only get more bold with you but they check your wife out a lot I suppose to see the competition.  These kind of women also seem to be the ones most likely to get jealous when their own boyfriends or husbands look at other women.  Maybe it's true that the jealous types are that way because they know what's really going through other peoples minds because it's the same as their own.
576284
In Women:\nIt bewilders me that women pay more attention to the physical aspect of women than men do, that and the expensive shoe obsession thing.\n\nIn Men:\nIt bewilders me that men can be so boring, when you see them at bar all talking - you think they must be talking about something really interesting, but when you get there and listen they are talking about their garage doors or something.
337787
Sometimes women like to get people to care about them. If you actually do things for them, they really appreciate it. If they don't you will have to let them know how you feel about it. You might say that men needs care too but women are more fragile in the sense that they're not as mature as some men even if I say so myself. Women is just hard to understand so you have to take time to get to know them better. That's just life.
676223
who cares why?  do they tip you better or does their man tip you better if you pay attention to the other woman?  work it girl!
1123443
because women are made to be admired! DUH!
17565
as a woman, i usually try to make conversation with guys that i am interested for future relationship, whatever it might be.\n\nso if the gurl that you are talking with is touchy with you; you know the touch in the arm or if you are in a club and she leans in really close to talk (lips ALMOST touching your ear) that means you have a shot with her. \n\nnow if she is just being polite and not interested in you. then the conversation that you are trying to have most likely going to be just one way, and that way is you. so if she is looking around the room instead of you. then move on. there are lots of women out there that will be interested in you.\n\nso dont waste your time on a woman, move on to another. good luck out there. hope i helped. =P
1013481
Why are you complaining? I'm in the same situation with regards to men but I don't complain. I love the attention. To me you seem to be bragging a little bit ah? Drawing more attention to you from the girls eh? You naughty boy!
333084
women are fickle.........females are one of the wonders of the world....don'tcha think?....i mean really...is there a single female on this earth you can predict her action?
177933
Even if I'm not interested in going out with the girl, I'm still extremely complimented by her asking. Do women feel the same way... or are they generally just annoyed that someone they're not interested in is bothering them??
812019
It's the differences between men and women that make us men and women and the obvious one on a woman is her breasts. They are there sticking out all the time screaming...do me...do me...do me...(in duplicate). You cant look at a woman without immediately noticing them no matter what their size is. Their breasts stare at us begging us to touch them, luring us, imploring us to have a taste. They are in our face.
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PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
725336
honey, if your having a hard time keeping your man's attention then you need to find a new man that is more interested in YOU.  but  while your still out with your man and you notice him paying more attention to the 'scenery' than you... you should look around yourself and as soon as you see someone else that looks good, keep your eyes on him even if your man starts to talk to you.. show him what it feels like not to have all of your undivided attention! ;)
371526
Yep. But I dont intentionally ignore them. Im just not a flirt. Most guys think that if a girl isn't flirting, then she's ignoring them. Thats so not true.
852445
You are obviously a very attractive young lady, and these men are acting way out of line and without respect. Just try to ignore them. They will probably never grow up. No women enjoys being talked to or at as if an animal. I would not allow it to bother me, they obviously have little respect for themselves or women in general.  Good luck and God bless****
390489
You are so funny! and so right!\nWomen are terrible...and there are heaps of us!\nFortunatly for me I am fantastic and talk none of that junk.\nYou are hanging around the wrong sort of women. These ones are either\na) shallow - interested in only appearances of herself and others\nb) self conscious - which is why they need to discuss others appearance\nc) uneducated - and have no knowlege of the world to actually have some sort of intellegent conversation.\n\nJust keep looking. And run away from these types.