My boyfriend loses and regains his erection several times before ejaculating. What causes this? Is this common
150166
he is tired and maybe you are too demanding
695300
There can be many causes for soft or weak erections, or problems maintaining an erection.  These causes include age (usually after 30), vascular problems, penis injury, such as damage to veins and arteries inside the penis, a hormonal imbalance, excessive stress and anxiety, diabetes, chronic smoking/drinking, drugs, over-masturbation and sexual exhaustion, or surgery.  If left untreated, weak erections can lead to permanent sexual dysfunction!
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This happens cause hormone levels are highest in early AM - the perfect time for the guys to lean over and take that morning wood and make love to their girlfriends with it.  What a way to start each day !!!!\n\nduring the night - guys get hard-ons cause their body is programmed to send blood into the penis - to give it oxygen so the tissues will not atrophy.  these night erections are not due to dreams of sex,  arousal or anything voluntary.   It is programmed by God to send oxygen-rich blood to vitalize those tissues.
1148124
ok  premature ejaculations  can  be  phyysiologic or pathologic well but in most  common cases its because hes new to it so by time he will hold it longer  there are so  excersise you both can do to  make the impovement  faster like prolonging the foreplay and like u masterbating for him and befor he feels like  ejaculating u should  stop give it a  30 sec  rest  then start again ,,,,,........
204549
that's the same thing why the organ of a male get's harder and erected during sex...
1140851
Lack of control--it is not a common condition esp younger men and should be looked into by a family doctor. Could also be that the man is only concerned with himself( not true premature ejaculation) and not bothering to wait if woman or partner being satisfied.  Although some men may balk at seeing a doctor concerning this for feel embarrassed to admit this problem necessary to rule out it being related to a physical ailment that can easily be remedied but if my man had this problem my understanding would be limited and I'd insist he seek help for there is definite real help for this condition for not a permanent condition or else... .
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that's caused by sexual deprivation for too long after sexual fulfillment. He couldnt possible have it all the time, since it is about a 1-2 day experience after not having been sexually fulfilled for a while, and it doesnt come back untill a while after you have orgasmed again.  Tell him to suck it up and let it pass and it wont come back until after he has another orgasm and then doesnt have one for a while.  If he cant handle the pain, tell him to masturbate.  And tell him to stop complaining, because even tho it seriosly hurts, noone wants to hear about it.
101329
This is common with men who do not have much sexual experience.  Just do it with him more often and he will have more stamina to hold it and engage in pleasure more before the actual release.
439456
Is he under pressures lately? Stress can make guys not being able to do so. As for keeping it, are you meaning that he can't stay like this for long or he come too fast? If it's the first one, ask a doctor. Second, get more practices. :P
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Talk to his doctor , his diabetic meds can be changed if you tall him the problem you have been having . As for as his erection do you help him ? You can give him oral or hand to get his penis hard enough to penetrate you . A man doesn't have to have a full erection to ejaculate . Can your husband get an erection through masturbation ? My advice is to please work with him , you sound like you care very much , talk to his doctor first . Good luck there is help , Patrick
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It could be diabetes.  Check out http://www.diabetes.org/diabetes-symptoms.jsp\n\nDepression: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/depressionmenu.cfm\n\nHigh Blood Pressure:  http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=2114\n\nand any of those things can lead to erectile dysfunction:  http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/impotence/\n\nIt may be an affair, or that he's not as invested as he should be, but it could be a signal that something medical is amiss and needs to be checked out.  Of course, you must be sensitive in how you approach the subject.  He could very well be avoiding you because he's embarrassed about it.\n\nUnresolved anger or repressed anger may be an issue.  How well do you communicate with each other?  Would he be open to counseling?\n\nI hope you find the cause and have a resolution soon.  For the sake of his health, try to find a discreet way of getting him to the doctor, just in case.  It could be a sign of a serious health concern.
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Premature ejaculation. He needs to learn some self-control.
929290
What kind of stress is happening in his life? A 19 year old is at his prime and if he can 't get off masturbating something isn't right. I would find out what stress is going on. If there is not anything important enough to to suffer through ED (erectile dysfunction), there might be a prostate problem or something to do with the urinary tract.\n\nAlso, one thing can lead to another. If there is emotional problems it could affect his sexual performance. If it is medical, and can't or won't talk to about it, it might cause a psychological problem. One problem might beget another.\n\nI wish you guys the best of luck! This should be one of the happiest time of your life!
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I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.
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a quick fix: giving him multiple oppotunities to come will give you longer peiods of stimulaiton. Give him head before initiating sex. On his second time around, he shouldn't be so fast to finish. Ditto for a third go, etc.\n\nFor long term and more satisfying result, it's really up to him to have some self-control. My man is also uncircumsized; I have the good luck of having a guy who even in his adolescence liked to experiment and try to make himself last longer; he knows how to pull himself back form the edge. It's something a guy needs to learn how to do, through practice. Work with him on it, too. Help him practice by giving him head but holding off at the last second when he's going to come, let him come back down before starting again, etc. (Play with it. Help him explore his body and his responses to different stimuli. Hopefully, this is something you can both enjoy.)\n\nAlternatively, you could introduce him to Kegels for guys; they allow a guy to come without ejaculating, allowing for multiple orgasms (hopefully for both of you) before he's spent. (Check the source below for info.)\n\nAnd generally be supportive, not accusing. This can be a fun project for both of you, leading to better sex and more intense orgasms (agian, hopefully for both of you.) It will certianly bring you closer together if you treat it with fun and adventure.
752729
Due to the loss of body heat. I think every man has this at times
1029739
Yes, it is a form of ED. Some men can't get an erection at all and some men can't maintain one. A friend of mine told me once that her husband used a ring at the base of his penis that helped him maintain his erections. I don't know the nice term for it, but the rude one is a *ock ring