What do i say to get my dad to let me have a g/f???
150716
Try to talk him into it slowly. Ask him about his 1st gf and try to compare yourself to him. Tell him that now a days a gf is like a best friend. OR  Get a gf and dont tell him if he asks just tell him that is is one of your friends. Go out on GROUP dates. Parents love them.\n         Hope im a help!
680502
Here's a thought. Maybe you and your boyfriend should each put into words in your own hand writing all the things you just said that you and he each have agreed to in this promise to one another. \n\nTell your dad that you would like for just you and him to go for dinner somewhere because you have some important things you want to talk to him about regarding your future but you don't need to be specific. At dinner, after you've ordered and gotten your cold drinks or coffee then hand him a copy of each of your letter's to one another in an envelope with the promise ring inside. When you're dad is finished reading your letters to one another then you can tell him that yes, you're boyfriend and you did already go and buy the promise rings but you won't put it on yet until you have your fathers blessing.
436543
I don't know how old you are. You didn't say, but, you need to talk to your dad and if he doesn't want you to "date", then you need to do as he says, but, you talk about church. Talk to your dad about being able to do things as a church group(functions)with the boy you like. Or going for burgers with other friends included. See what he says
722655
This might not be the best advice, but it might work. Try to find out what your girl's other man did wrong that makes her father not wanting her to date. Try to find out as much about her father as you can. Try to relate to him, be a friend. Make him like you. Since it isn't a girls heart that you have to win here, its his. Father's are very protective of their little girls, just because of the way us guys think. So pretty much, just find the right way to prove yourself worthy to her father that you deserve to  \nbe with his daughter. If that don't work, then try to have your girl influence him by informing him on how you guys feel for eachother.
906850
Well your dad obviously is one of those men who moves around a lot in life...you are right to expect more, but you may find yourself disappointed over and over in life...because now this new chick in his life will want him all to herself and she will want to be his priority.  So you are going to be in a difficult situation.\n\nYou are lucky you had this time together.  Hopefully you will have more time together.  Talk to you dad when she's not around and tell him how you feel.  Really have a heart to heart with him about your feelings...in the past and now...and what your fears are.  This way he will be aware and will sense when you are feeling this way...and hopefully find a way to smooth it all out so you can all be happy.  Don't be surprised though if this girl may sway him away from you.  She isn't much older than you and probably you are as mature if not more than she is...what's with that dad of yours anyhow!  Sheesh.  Nothing you can do about it if it he ends up with this woman but you shouldn't become enemies with her or it will be very hard and your dad may have to choose and hey...men don't always think with thier heads.  Good luck to you.
203399
How old are you? If you're old enough to make decisions about your life, then this one has to be your decision, too.\n\nParents have a habit of not thinking anyone is good enough for their little girl, and there's a good chance you'll never meet anyone that meets up to their expectations - or if you do, he won't be right for you and you are the one that has to put up with him, right?\n\nAs long as a guy is good to you and not abusive or doing anything illegal, then your parents - as difficult as it may be - will just simply have to accept whoever you decide to love because it is your life, not theirs.
926529
it's not what YOU should do... it's what your DAD should do.. if he really loved u he will accept that ur bi. so its best to put up a brave front and not be scared
1079055
my mom doesnt allow me to meet up with girls !! \nseriously \nstill havent met !!
1073269
dad never had a be time for her? should be 9pm.\nlet her outside and play with neighbor kids.\ngo to grandparents house.\ndad never told her that those words: please.thank you, or excuse are  for polite children\ndad needs to be a PARENT!!!!! AND  NOT HER FRIEND\nher parents never taught her anything else.\ntime to get dad to get her interested in something she likes,\ntake her to the local ymca, and meet friends there.\n\nthey usually are interested in talking to the friends. play video games, or sports.\nmy 16yr loves video games,
384658
okay... i understand where you are coming from and good on you for saying something to your mum. JUST remember that mothers want what is best for their kids..and saying that i can tell you that you mum is prolly wanting the married life for you with a guy and one day have kids but you are on a different level that she does not understand. I think at this point in time you need to sit down and explain to your mum that you are a adult and she cant go on making decisions for you the rest of your life. You are in love and for that matter she should be happy that you have someone to love you in return! That is not to say that you wont have kids or wont do things in life that she thinks you can do with a guy. Also if you really really love this girl i would not take her home to be blamed from your mother on " YOU MADE MY DAUGHTER LIKE THIS" been there done that... you dont want to make your girl feel like your family will never come to terms with her being in YOUR life! As long as it takes to break that ice with your mum keep working at it, but dont bring your girl in the middle of it and you live to regret it because you mum might say some nasty things that will end up hurting the one you love. I hope this works out and if you ever want to chat about anything please drop me a line!
1072136
WHAT'S YOUR PLAN.\nFINDING ONE ID; MAIL TO HIM/HER ; GROWING FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE ; MARRYING HIM? HER.\nISN'T IT?\n\nBUT THAT IS NOT LOGICALLY POSSIBLE.\nCOZ, MANY MORE GIRLS/ BOYS TRYING TO DO SO.\n\nYOU WILL BE IN A QUEUE.\n\nDO SOMETHING USEFUL AND MAKE YOUR PARENTS.PROUD.
400818
honey you can't please both sets of parents. the big Question is " What do you want?" You have to set your mom down and tell her how you feel and what you want to do. That goes the same for your dad. Plus you need to tell your dad that it really hurts you when your stepmom makes those comments. You give me the impression that you feel like you have to please both parents and be perfect. You don't though. Sweetie be yourself and they'll love you. But you have to start by pleasing yourself first. GOOD LUCK
1853
If she is not married, Find her a boyfriend, A great sex life would get her mind of the life of others (soap Operas), If she is married, talk to your dad.... thats gonna be awkward... LOL
1039302
that is wrong.  they need to realize that you are their daughter. no matter what you did do and what you did to him, you are the one they should love and choose over any one else. i would personally let my dad know how i feel and then leave him to think about it and if your parents really care about you they will get their head out of their ass and realize what they are doing.
1074219
The main thing is that you want to be accepted by his family.\nNow that would not be hard for you I can tell you are a nice girl.\n1. Show a lot of respect for the father. \n2. The mother is the main one you need to win over smile at her when she looks at you .Tell her you are nervous . That will make her go easy on you. Say something nice about her. ( hair, eyes, dress, what ever you like but find something. Just her not the father.)\n3. As for boyfriend just show lots of respect for him like I'm sure you do everyone. \n4. If they ask; Do you love their son say yes if you do, they will like that .\n5. Talk to boyfriend about subjects that would cause problems beforehand.\n6. Nothing to low cut.\n7. Don't worry so much, conversations, money is not up to you you are the guess, they will pay. \nSlow down and you won't spill thing OK.\n\nGood luck I think they will love you.
823751
Feel him out first about what he thinks about you turning him down.  Is he angry about that?  If so then leave him alone.  Is he still interested in you?  If so then let him know that you like him too.  \n\nYou feel him out by asking what he thinks about dating, who he would like to date and what he thinks about girls who turn him down.  It's okay if you get tongue tied.  He probably does too.  If you are really scared that you will trip all over yourself then ask your dad to do it or a friend to ask him those questions.  It is not weak to lean on others for this.
592370
i don't really think there is a whole lot you can do. Just be there for her and continue doing what you are doing. Try to talk to her and explain that things did not work out with you and her dad but you still love her as much as before and that you are both there for her. Don't put him down to her. Even if he is turning her against you, she will eventually see thru that. Good luck to you. It will work out. It just takes time.