what do i do when i get a part in the school play but my bff doesn't?
141400
You are a kind person if you feel bad for your friend, but you should enjoy your part in the play and hope your friend has better luck next time.  Get her to help you learn your part and tell her that you'll do the same for her when she gets her chance.  That way, she'll feel that she has contributed to your success and the success of the play. More importantly, you and your friend will be doing it together.
84423
Try persuading the ones in charge of your sports to allow girls to play "boy sports". If that fails, go to another school.
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
752570
ask some classmates to teem up and do a short play :) employ some symbolical costumes and scenes.. that would be fun\n\n\nedited.. oops! spiegy200 came up faster with the same idea! :)
713265
mayb shez gt some prob u don't know abt. don't shout at her or scold her. just b cool n ask her what was wrong at school when she feels better to tell u. be a gr8 frnd not one jus who wants frnds 2 njoy with u n not know their probs....BOL gal.
771805
Well, Im sorry to hear you are going through all this drama. However, i suspect a hint of jealousy among the other teachers. Since you are there for the kids then you should try to push this out of your mind because in any situation if you try to make yourself appear better to others you usually will always appear desperate for attention or worse. So take pride in your work, know that eventually things will pan out for you because you deserve it. Who knows, maybe fate has something planned for you through all this.
62271
May the best friend win!  But if he picks her, still be friends with her!\n\nAnd if he picks YOU, have him select one of his friends to introduce her to.
750620
It can be two things...\n1- Maybe she is just not into you or 2 - She might not be ready for a relationship especially if she is concentrating in school?  You know her better.  One thing is for sure if she does not like you that way dont push yourself on her because you will loose the friendship.
1041152
Get your guidance cousellor or a friend. Someting to help you. Sorry about your teacher.
341792
In order to survive the socialness of school, there are two options:\n\n1.) Don't invite the kid. If he later learns of the party, tell him only a certain number of kids could be invited, and that you're sorry you couldn't include him.\n\nor\n\n2.) Invite him anyway! If he thinks your his friend, why not be nice? I don't think people will remember who was invited to your party a few months after it's over, so why not? You could see a new side to this kid and become the best of friends. You never know until you try!
525006
Find a reson for you to exist. Perhpas you need to help in the local school Maybe you can join a local drama club.
872580
My heart goes out to you and, I must say I am surprised by the lack of support you got from the school. I certainly wouldn't let this matter drop - ask for another appointment with the Head and tell them your grave concerns; then, if nothing happens, contact the Local Authority and speak to the Attendance Officer.\n(All these unauthorised absences are not going to cast a very favourable light on the school!)\nFinally please don't give up on the idea of custordy - speak to Social Services (it would help if you had an accurate log of absences and lateness - this the school is obliged to give you) to see if they can support your claim for this child.\nGood luck.
501708
Tell someone else. Someone care and doesn't want you to fail. Go in after school one day. if she doesn't help you...tell your principal,\nany teacher like that doesnt deserve to be teaching\n\n~Brendon\nhope this helped...if you need more...\nschweermo@yahoo.com
36649
Maybe she is depressed or doesnt feel confident about going 2 school dont pressure her just see first what the root of the problem may be... and remind her how much u love her and believe in her... and set a good example in things u do by making good choices... u never know she might just need some time to get herself together... some people just cant do the school thing but have her check with school officials there are other options... in our school district we have an alternative school... more relaxed atmosphere and no homework... they do all their work 2gether in a smaller classroom group... we also have a high school supported program where they can get their GED and still walk across the stage with peers... just be a friend that is all u can do... good luck
1023729
You are in a difficult position as you are their instructor. You cant get included unless you form a casual relationship of friendship first, by chatting etc. As you build up trust, then you can mention that you are interested in going along to join their activities, or even ask what activities you could get into from them. Maybe better for you to look outside of the school, join social activities like evening classes. Less complications with relationships with "students " etc.
1047377
You should encourage your daughter to tell Kathrine that if Henry wants to join them in their play it is OK.  I would also speak to the teacher about it.  Sometimes they are unaware of these types of problems since they don't seem to be acting disruptive.  Speaking to Kathrine's mom could be a big mistake.  You never know how she will interpret your input.  Also, at 4 kids see things differently.  Any chance you could spend some time at the school during recess and watch as things take place?  Hopefully you could intercede and help all the children to get along together.  Hooray for you and your communication with your child.  You should continue your open lines of communication because it will help as your child grows.  Especially in the teenage years!
655989
Are you sitting back and waiting to be included?  Try participating more, be a little more vocal and participate their conversations.  Ask them what classes they are taking and how they like those teachers.  Get to know them and let them get to know you.