How can i prevent a person to keep coming back to our country so he won't abused another filipino like me?
150956
maybe i'm slow or something...but i can't seem to understand ur queston...can you be clear about it?
433936
I cannot stand when these people come to our country (USA) and then try to force THEIR culture on US.  If they are so proud of their heritage and their culture and way of life, they can JUST STAY WHERE THEY CAME FROM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
242774
don't stay out of America.
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
657345
Just turn off the site. You wont be able to do anything with out causing yourself a lot of problems. You don't even know if the person is from that region.
1055325
You have to do something.  You either have to put an end to it, which hopefully is possible, or you have to notify the authorities.  You can't let your one family get repeatedly stolen from.  And if this one family member will steal from another, who knows what they'll end up doing to you.
253979
Friend, I think you need an attorney. I am a private citizen who had read the papers for many years. My understanding of the laws of most nations is that asylum may be granted if the is objective proof that upon returning to a person's homeland, the person would be murdered , imprisoned or otherwise persecuted.By all means, find an attorney. If you have legitimate reason to fear for you life of those of family members, you probably have a case.
611326
Move away for a longer time (rent a place elsewhere or move in with a friend or family member) till he no longer knocks at your door. And change your handphone or house number to a private number and make sure you give number to trusted friends or family only.\n\nI used to know a guy who does this, I moved away and changed my phone number and become uncontactable to him.
36298
First, go back to your native country and apply for legal immigration. If you can't get it, you don't belong here in the first place.
647565
Try to avoid the person.
563180
Yes, Report them without hesitation.  If they are here they need to know that we do not accept that behavior.  We didn't have the women's right movement for nothing.  If is acceptable in Mexico and he wants to treat women without respect the guess what, our border is open to go back where he came from.  Tell him that in the US, it is acceptable for women to have charges drawn against them for harassment.  It is acceptable for a woman to spit in the face of any man who is obscene.  Remind him that if he is in our country he needs to abide by our rules and hold him accountable.  That is our problem, we need to stand up and demand respect.  After all, they want to be called "guest workers".  As a guest, weren't you told to show respect and gratitude to your host.  It is simple manners, so demand it.
821873
I should know this one off by heart but I have forgotten a lot of it. I think if I remember correctly that they must not have a major criminal record, you need to say that you will provide for them and make sure they have somewhere to stay, they dont extend their stay and they will conform to this countries laws etc.. I cant remember it all but like I have already told 2 other people asking similar thing why not just phone the embassy or if you are asian ask your leader of the your mosque, he will know. best wishes hope you sort things out.
739133
No he can not, But he can come to the USA and file for a divorce here and then after he is granted a divorce he may legaly remarry here in the USA and the Philippines government will accept his American divorce decree
1185826
Absolutely not. For one thing it is against the law. Not to mention he is a liar and cheat and he used you and your son. I for one don't want these kind of people in my country. But I don't mean people of his nationality, I mean  lying , cheating s.o.b.'s. Don't give him anything except a shove to get him headed back to his own country. Then, you won't have to acknowledge him as the father of your child. Don't get me wrong, your boy should absolutely know and understand his heritage. But he does not have to learn that it is a raciest one. I guess I don't understand these things clearly. Why do people who hate Americans so much go to such extremes to be one?
1127426
I have heard bits and pieces of the story about the ex president.  I think it is insane that things like this is allowed to go on in other parts of the world.  I live in the US and everything here isn't perfect but our ex president about got in alot of trouble for getting a B.J. from someone besides his wife.  They are things that go on in Africa I really don't understand.  I think they are wrong and will never travel to this part of the world because of lack of people being prosecuted for crime they commit.  I'm not telling you that you should leave, this is something you need to decide for your self.  If you don't fill safe you need to leave.  Safe should be you main concern.  It don't look like you are in a very safe place.
716051
Be strong and get out right away--but make sure you can do it safely and that he can't follow you.  Best to lose yourself in another place and, if he's really crazy, change your name as well.  Install security wherever you go and always, always leave at the first sign of abuse.  It is NOT you and you DO deserve better; keep telling yourself both of those things rather than "it will get better" or "I really love him" or "he's trying"--those are all self-deluding signs that land women in hospitals & morgues.  It will tkae time to get adjusted; you may need to get a guard dog/gun license (and practice on a range so you get really good!).  Just remember, any man who derives his power and sense of self-worth through abuse (esp. of people he supposedly loves) is sick and will hurt you and others again.  At least you've recognized the abuse and considered leaving before it's too late; some women can't bring themselves to leave.  Their lives are short, miserable ones filled with terror, even if to the "outside world" they seem fine.  Don't become a statistic!  There is always a way; there are free legal advice/churches/clinics that are willing to help.  It won't be easy, but it is best in the long run.  For one thing, it ensures there will BE a "long run"!
1168281
I think you shouldn't generalize like that. My mom is originally from Pakistan, although she came to America at 16 (in the 70s)and her brother, who lives there is an awesome person, who supports his wife and kids, so all men from there are not like that. And, you shouldn't lose respect "for all of them over there."\n\nIf he doesn't even buy you stuff, he's not worth keeping. Maybe if you bring him here, away from his sister, she'll leave ya'll alone. But, either way, he sounds like a twerp.