What is a gril to do about her husband ?
144349
in my opion he is no man get away from him this is nothing but abuse in my eyes i am a man a man dont tell or call his wife that keep me posted om this this is my real user name ?
1050961
thats just ridiculous, let her have him they deserve each other and when her husband wakes up and joins the real world and realizes that they are treating him like the chump he is, let him stay at your house!
868537
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
778090
sound like the twin of my ex mother in law. I am assuming her hubby isn't around to torture anymore. Hubby feels like she is protecting his interest. He needs to be reminded of who his interests really are. Ultimatum time. Don't let this unhappy person get you down to her level, where she will be more comfortable with you. Move away. Find her a Hobie, like "find your way home"
914623
they are behind the husband and don't let him breath, try to get involve in common things. if you don't like his stuff, that's the answer of your question\n\n:> peace\n.
1132761
Just let her know that you are happy with the husband you have and it is necessary for her to tell you anything about him unless you ask.  Let her know that you don't believe that telling gossip about one anothers husbands is productive or strengthening for each others relationships with your husbands and is detrimental to establishing a friendship between each other.  If she is has morals she should be able to recognize this and hopefully refrain from those activities.
502091
There is nothing you can do.  You have to just be there to pick up the peices when she realizes what he is doing to her.  I say this because I have been in this situation many times, and she will eventually realize that he is just using her.  She needs you to be supportive of her decisions, and not to critical or she won't come to you when she needs to talk to someone. \nTrust me when I say she will truly realize that you only want the best for her, but you need to let her make her own mistakes.\nGood Luck!
906579
She needs to confront him, although he most likely will deny it. Then she should either kick him out or move out.
382602
I can't think of anything good about it.  Being controlled by someone else is very unsatisfying and can ruin a marriage very quickly.  Tell him that they both need to get some therapy.  Only because she has a problem and he does also because he lets her control things.
607208
Let her be with the man she really loves.  \n\nGive them some time alone.
668977
call his wife and ask her if it is ok with her.
948376
There ain't a nice way. She should not see him alone. If he bothers or threatens her, she should file a restraining order.
572150
Send a buddy you have in you're town to have a little "chat" with him and have him tell him when you come back, you'll be "visiting" him too. Maybe your wife can file a complaint somewhere, so they get rid of him, or she can go somewhere else then. that stuff pisses me off! I don't even know you, but Id go there for you at a drop of a hat! Take care over there, watch each others back and come home safe.
767131
Bend over and take it up the A$$ just like you made her. After your butt has been split wide open like hers was, go to a marriage counselor and see if there's any thing left in your marriage.
946183
Wait till she goes out and pack up and go. I did that to my ex hubby.
394522
you should not do anything!! if she truly loves you, and only you..meaning she is completly done with her husband than she will leave him. but if you interfere before she takes any action..that means she isn't giving up on her marriage and maybe you should take a hint. but if shes willing to divorce him, than maybe you have a shot, but either way,you broke up a marriage(i know it takes two but you are an outsider coming into the situation) marriage is suppose to be sacred and you seeing her isn't fair to her husband, or their children if they have any. i hope you have morals and would stand back if she chooses to stay with her husband.
579997
Stay away from the married woman. If she cant be Faithful to her husband what makes you think she would be faithful to you.