ask you know i am and a new relationship but i still want to be with my ex what should i do about this?
147968
How in love with your ex could you be after only being with him for a month? If he did you wrong after just being together for a month, then get rid of him altogether. You've been apart longer than what your relationship lasted, give it up and give the new guy a real chance or let him go to find a woman who knows what she wants.
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.
52963
Why is he an ex?  If it's a good reason, try to get over those residual feelings...know it's for the best that you aren't together.  I say, if you still have feelings, swallow your pride and let him know but also be prepared, just in case he says he doesn't feel the same.
784547
You need to think about your status right now. How do you feel about your ex boyfriend? Why did you  leave him? And then ask yourself why exactly it is you want to see the guy you met, and why exactly  it is that you  like him. \n\nReflect on this before making a decision. It's never a good idea to start something new while on the "rebound" because you might make wrong decisions and someone could end up getting hurt.\n\nThe one thing I've always had problems with while being on the 'rebound' is hurting the  'new guy'. I would talk about my ex and say i was mad at him all the time, but what it meant was I was still thinking about him. \n\nIf you find yourself constantly talking about your ex; either negatively or positively, i would definitely steer clear of starting something new until I was confident that I was ready.\n\nBest of luck!\n-Mick
956722
dont play with your current boyfriend... and yes you are toying with him, break it off with him until you have either fallen out of love with your Ex or you are ready to move on from your Ex.... It sounds Harsh but trust me you'll thank me in the end :)\n\nboy that's mature Wolfchat
619136
You're ex is an ex for a reason. Don't live in the past. Face the future and all its possibilities.
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
445010
You are falling into a typical relationship trap.  People always find it easy to fall back in with an old relationship because you share certain memories and events from your past with them that you don't have with your current relationship.  Plus you tend to usually blank out all the bad stuff from that previous relationship and the good stuff is almost magnified.  The thing is that in reality you two are no longer the same two people you were back then.  If you have an actual relationship together it will not be the same as it was.  Right now your in a good relationship but you've probably been in it long enough now that it has lost a little bit of its excitement as all long term relationships tend to do.  Your ex is back and right now it is exciting and new and gives you a rush but remember, that won't last.  You need to look at your life and what you want in your future.  Are you willing to give up this current relationship to have a relationship with your ex that may or may not work out?  Which person and relationship is really best for you in the long term?  Remember, new relationships are always exciting at first but the difficult thing is finding someone for the long haul.
881226
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
939339
You can tell your ex that you still have feelings for him....BUT it is completely up to him.  Considering the time you have been apart....he will have to be the one to decide if you two should get back together.  It is really out of your control, if he has moved on then there is NOTHING that you can do.  This is the toughest part about breakups!!!!!
862660
First answer these questions. \n\nWhy didn't the relationship work? If you get back together, will things change for the better? If it didn't work back then, what gives you the guarantee that it will work this time? Resolve conflicts first and learn from past mistakes.\n\nIt is clear that you still have feelings for your ex. But are these feelings enough to make the relationship work?\n\nIf you can't answer with a resounding YES, then getting back with your ex is not a good idea.
1102780
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you can't be 100% into your current bf.  You need to figure out if you want to go back with your ex and try to make the relationship work - or if you want to start fresh with your new bf.  \nKeep in mind that the problems you had with your ex are still going to be there.  Whatever the reason was why you broke up with him will still be there - you will basically be going back into your old relationship and be faced with a lot of the same problems and issue.  If you think you can work things out and it will work this time then you should give it a shot.  However, if you know you can't work things out, then you should give your current relationship a try and stay with your new bf.
1172068
No one can answer that question for you.  Only you know whether you are emotionally ready to commit to someone else yet.  I would be suspicious, however, if it was less than six months or a year after a relationship as important as the one you describe.  But people vary, and maybe you just lucked out and found the right guy.\n\nHowever, ask youself these questions:  \n1) Are you sure that you are not just looking for *anyone* to love you, after the hurt and rejection of your breakup?  Would you love the new guy if you had met him first?  IIn other words, be sure you are not grabbing for validation.rather truly in love.\n2) Is there any chance that you are attracted to the new guy because he is the opposite of the old one?  This is trickier, because you certainly don't want to end up with another guy who is just like the one you broke up with.  But some people swing too far in the other direction when they are on the rebound, and you need to watch out for that.  Obviously, there were *some* things about the ex that you found good, or you would not have been together for so long.  So decide whether the new guy is a real improvement over the old one, or just very different.\n\nGood luck!
303762
Leave your ex alone. He is your ex for a reason, girl. You guys broke up for a reason (hopefully a legitimate one) so you need to leave it that way. You need to give your full attention to your current boyfriend. You chose him for a reason and you need to get to know him and build your relationship. Get your ex out of your head!
617397
its such a bad thing to move on and get into another relationship=said who? dont listen to that idea, if you please all, you please none. follow your heart and mind, it has always the right answer then believe what you have decided and choose to be happy :)
681935
whats with him and ex's?  Youre an ex he's back with, now you're concerned about another ex.  Alarms went off when I read this. You need to be sure you're who he wants before you get hurt.  Give him a chance to be certain what he wants before you invest your heart into this once failed relationship.