I met a guy on a dating web-site. But  i found out he is still visiting this site. What should i think?
139633
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
1160663
Think about it first, girl. Do you really know him? I don't mean just.. his name, favorite color, occupation, etc. I mean really.. know him. If you don't, get to know him more. Ask him more questions. He shouldn't blame you, since you barely know him. I'm pretty sure he'd like to know you more too, since it's really hard to trust people over the internet these days. Take a while before you actually get to meet this guy. Actually know him.
1102547
well you can always check the history of the computer to see what sights she or he is visiting that will give you a good idea what they are doing online. or you could just ask them chances are if you think that they are they usually are! ask your gut what it feels and follow your heart
373289
As shady as it sounds, you're going to have to do some detective work.  Is he honest with you?  Have you seen or heard of him with other girls?  If he has websites or pictures, use those to form your decision.  But above all, make clear the fact that you WILL leave players behind.
29911
I just celebrated my 4th anniversary with someone I met on the internet.\n\nWhat bothers me here is, "just met".  I think that you need to be VERY CAREFUL!!!!\n\nThere are alot of crazies out there and you need to make sure that you protect yourself.\n\nWhen I "first met" my other half, we talked back and forth on the internet for a few months.  This gave a chance to see "who" each other really were, and "if" we were really interested in one another.  When we both felt good about that we proceeded to the telephone. This was the 1st step to being a bit more personal. We spoke to each other on the phone for another couple of weeks. It was not until we had done all of this, that we decided to meet, face to face for the 1st time.  We arrived in seperate cars, had dinner at Outback Steak House, (a VERY public place), and ended the evening in seperate cars. Our first few dates went very much the same way.  I always let someone else know where I was going to be and with who.\n\nMy suggestion is to take it very s l o w  and easy.
808184
I think you should just tell him that you are starting to dig him and see what he says.  Worst case scenario: he says he's sorry but he's not as into you.  At least he is just online and you won't be so embarrassed because you haven't actually met him and he can't turn you down to your face.  I'm sure if you have been chatting that much then he must have at least a little interest in you though.\n\nGood luck girl!!!!
1042258
I'm guessing you were trying to say you proposed to this guy you've never met? I think if he feels you are obviously obsessed, you will give in to him if you meet and trust me...there's crazy people out there who prey on your type every single day. Be cautious of what you're doing and saying via the internet.
786620
wel i speak from expierience. i'm engaged and very happy in my relationship. i have profiles on a few sites. i do it just out of curiosity to see what these sites see as matches for me. i have never done more then look at the supposed matches just for entertainment. but that is just me. he may be doing the same thing i am. you should talk to him about it and see what he says. for noone knows why they do something but themselves. i wish you the best of luck with this issue.
209296
Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
314871
Meeting someone online is very dangerous and I do not reccomend it.  When people are online they can be very deciving and it is hard to know fact from fiction.  But if you seriously trust this person then meet them in a very public place, like a mall, and don't go alone!
661812
He's not interested.  It all was a joke.  He found someone else. He's married.  He used you for sex.  Either one of these answers could apply.  Sorry.  You meant him on the Internet.  That's always a chance.  you took it and now this is the outcome.  Don't mean to sound harsh but, is it really a surprise?
478778
You need to meet this guy and see if he's really what you think he is!\nIf this is an internet friend, remember to be safe- meet him somewhere public, like a restaurant or coffee shop, and have a friend with you!
450554
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
674793
If he does, you are better off without him.  The websites are addicted like any drug.  He is getting a high from the sites.  If he wants his sites more than you, you don't want him anyway.  Remember, if those sites are more important that you a live and real person, he has major problems.  He could never be a true husband and a future father to anyone.
763703
It appears you have a lot of doubts and questions about this man. He is certainly sending up enough red flags. You need to love yourself enough to get out now and save yourself a lifetime of wondering.
843152
Maybe he didn't expect his ex to attempt to hack into his account?? Just a thought! Whether he goes on porn sites is no longer any of your business, and I doubt he still loves you with no contact... I don't wish to be cruel, but it's time you tried to move on.
506340
If you have know him for such a long time then he might have already have known it and you just confirmed it. He might have just kept talking to you because it wasn't anything he did expect from you. Even if he's not looking for a GF I would ask him how he feels about you and go from there, who knows maybe he's playing hard to get?