Why don't guys my age like bigger girls? I'm a bigger girl,yes, but that doesnt mean that I don't want a bf!!!
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Sweety.....there IS someone for everyone. Your someone may not be at your school right now, he may not even come from your school. You may met him later. He may move there from somewhere else.\n\nYes, I'd probably agree with you that most men prefer women of thin build. Is that fair you may ask? It's not about what's fair. It's about personal tastes....likes and dislikes, that's all.\n\nFor example; the majority of people like football too....agreed? Well, some don't. It's just about personal taste, and some things seem to fit within what a majority of people  would tend to like.....like football, or a particular build of woman.\n\nIf you wish to lose weight, do it for you, and no one else. You really do have to be the person you are tho. Shy, not shy, heavy, thin, light hair, dark hair, short hair, long hair, long nails, no nails, whatever. Understand?\n\nYou have to learn who you are and what you're about. You have to be confident with yourself, and then.....someone will come along and like you for exactly who you are.\n\nI know it sounds like a mystery now, and it seem unfair. And that it is frustrating for you, but trust me. Think about yourself and work on being a good person. Develop the person inside because that is what shines thru when you meet people. \n\nIf some don't like you because of your looks....fine...so be it. It does and will happen. Don't take in 'inside' you.....those people have more problems that you do, and I'll bet that 99% of those people may look beautiful on the outside, but are empty, dark and of little substance on the inside. The only way they can feel good is to trash someone else. They are doing you a favor by showing you what they are made of. It makes things very clear-cut for you! You should pat them on the back and say, "Thanks for showing me what kind of as----le you are!"!  lol\n\nLike who you are......work on the person you are, because you are not defined by others, or a boyfriend. You're defined by who you are and how you behave towards others.\n\nYou'll be FINE......:)
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RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
221101
Being overweight is not attractive.  Lose weight (by eating fewer calories and exercising more) and then guys will be interested.
195528
Just my guess...But probably because: A) You are way to immature for ladies your own age. B) You are wicked nasty. Maybe around 450lbs, zitty and stinky. C) You were hurt badly by a woman your age or older. Either way, no worries as long as the girls are of age and willing. WILLING and OF AGE being the key words.
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I think most guys like average size. But I know some that like super skinny. I have always been thin sz 3 and got a lot of attention from guys but I noticed that when I put on weight after pregnancy I actually got more attention. I choose to lose weight though because I feel more comfortable thinner. \nBut it is also how you carry yourself. I've seen fat girls that guys flock to. Why? Because they are confident, friendly, dress nice, and take care of their appearance. Sometimes a guys first impression is negative for a fat girl but her personality draws them in.
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Just because a guy is shorter than you isn't a good reason not to be with him. You said your still in school, but you didn't mention how old you and this guy are. If you two are in middle school (5th - 8th grade) then you guys are just starting puberty and he's not necessarily going to be short and skinny forever, and there's a good chance he's going to get a lot taller and put on more weight and muscle. If you guys are in the beginning of high school (9th - 10th) that would put you roughly in the middle of puberty, he might grow a little taller and he still might put on a bit of muscle. If you guys are near the end of high school (11th - 12th) than you guys are nearing the end of puberty, in which case he's not going to get much taller (maybe a 1-4 inches if he has a late growth spurt) and he might stay skinny, but maybe he'll get into lifting weights and build up some muscle.\n\nYou mentioned that you're "tall and chubby"... did you ever think that maybe he's under the same pressure not to be with you because of the way YOU look? The fact that he likes you and asked you out means that he's more interested in hanging out with you and getting to know you, than being concerned about how you look. There's a good chance that his friends and other guys around him are going to give him crap (if they haven't already started) about liking you. \n\nChubby is a middle ground between "Average" Weight and "Fat", and most guys your age don't acknowledge this weight class. To them your either "Average" or "Fat", their is no middle ground. Right now this guy is interested in you, which means he thinks your nice and your "Average" weight, but the guys around him maybe saying, "Dude, she fat. How can you like her?" If you snub him because of his height, he's going to bail, and he's not going to like you as much as he did.\n\nIf you really want to be with this guy, then looks shouldn't matter. You have a chance to be in a happy relationship with someone that is interested in being with you. The fact that you said yes when he asked you out shows you like him, if his looks were such a problem you should have said no. \n\nHe's able to accept the fact that you don't look perfect, and is willing to be with you. Why can't you do the same?
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I don't think making mean comments about things which people cannot change is called for and agree that they are loosers.  For me personally I like bigger boobs but that doesn't mean I have anything against people who are not well endowed.  It's just the initial attraction thing, in the end it is personality that will determine if you will really like someone or not.
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gurl y r u asking dis ur not allow to have a bf u dumb B-I-T-C-H lol jk gurl but 4 real not allowed to have a bf lol lol lol             ur gurl     pinkrosese2005
789324
You just need to widen your circle honey that's all! \n\nAnd don't generalise what men like you might be surprised to learn that some men like big thighs and other guys like smaller boobs - it's a matter of preference!!!!!!
1032929
I don't mind a big guy at all -  I'm 44 - I've dated all shapes & sizes & it's the person that matters to me
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i want to see a pic.  I understand how you feel.  Everyone tells me i'm cute but they all don't want to date me. I don't understand either.  I'm single and girls i like date guys who lie to them and treat them bad, but don't want to date a nice guy.
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Why don't you just ask him out.  If he really likes you, he's not going to obsess about you being bigger.  At least I think you were trying to spell obese, I'm not sure.  I started to really develop an attraction to this one woman who is a little on the heavier side.  You know what I liked about her?  She has a lot of confidence and can charm the pants off of you.  It didn't work out, but it didn't have anything to do with her being a little overweight.  I could care less about that.  It didn't work out because she must not like me that much as I tried calling her and she never called me back.
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Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
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I don't know, but most of us seem to attract a particular type. In your case it's big girls, but it's not that bad is it? Some guys really like it.
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im 14. im from orange county. u sound cool. id date u if i knew you. there are never any good, true girls out there. and chances are, ur not chubby. everybody thinks they're fat. its hardly ever true. anyways, u sound great. im not into the whole internet dating thing though. ill email you if ud like. its up to you. im in all honors classes and am a very good guy. im kind of shy too and am good at basketball. i play guitar but am terrible at it. (not afraid to admit it) anyways, u sould like a great girl. u shouldn't have any problems getting a bf. u sould nice, sincere(how do u spell that). there are hardly any girls left like that. what ever you do, dont stop being the great person you sould like.
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I have a really close male friend who is really fit. He has a six pack, he's all muscle, and he's not fat at all (he has a BMI of...what, 17?). I on the other hand have a BMI of 20 or so and i'm considerably heavier and actually taller than he is. But, he doesn't mind at all. I don't think that a boyfriend should like his girlfriend for what she looks like (except if the looks were to the extreme of the scale) and nor should he judge by her weight. You seem fine. Plus, most guys want girls to ... look like a girl. With a chest and all. All of my guy friends think girls with abs is weird, lol. Just be happy with who you are! Be confident! Your boyfriend will still love you no matter what because you are who you are.
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First off, I would like to ask you why you want them to become bigger. If it's for a guy or you think guys will find you more attractive...then that's a really stupid reason. Any guy should like you for the way you are and if he doesn't then move on. Think about it, you won't have to worry about buying a DD, your odds of breast cancer are slim, and you can fit into your shirt just fine. Be happy with what God gave you. Don't worry about your breasts so much...it's pointless.