how do i let him know that i realy like him without ruinig the frendship?
139418
Just tell him u like him and see wht he thinks because he might be thinking the same thing as you and just dont wnat make things feel uncomforable between to 2 of u.
747339
Ask him out!  If you guys are friends, he probably already knows you like him.  If he's been cool with you so far, I don't think it's unwise to take the next step.  I don't know whether that makes you feel any better, but i hope this helps.
13189
Tell him.  That is the best way.  If you are nice and don't tell him, it could be misinterpreted that you like them and are shy.
75709
why do you need to tell him that you like him "as a friend and a person"? just say hey.. you are cool
40465
"How do I let a good friend know..."\n\nIf he's interested romantically, he's not a good friend but a suitor, and however you tell him or don't tell him, when he's finally convinced there's no hope, the relationship you have now will change.\n\nBy the way, if you don't like him, then you don't like him.  Don't let others tell you who you should like.  It's not them under him in that bed till death do you apart.
115977
If you guys have been friends for so long no wonder you are start to have feelings for him cause as you get to know him you become more attracted and want to be with him longer so go for it if you really like him I am sure that he will understand just tell him striaght up that you like him don't be ashammed of your feelings
702132
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
233931
You have to let it out, tell your friends you like him, I'm sure they have ideas to let him notice you, that way, your positive he likes you.\n\nP.S from what I've read from books, I suggest you be yourself.
1100383
♥ I think you should do the note.  Totally.  (Just make sure it falls into the right hands!)  If he likes you as a friend but not as a heart-felt loved one, it's okay, you're still comrades.  If he does like you, jubilation!!!  Or you can ask him for his e-mail, adress, phone, all that stuff, and gather your courage for the time when you feel ready to tell him if you don't think you're prepared just now.  Good luck..!
500919
Be nice and carefull but tell him how you feel and what you do to correct his little short skirted freind.
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
210795
I have the same dilema and the easiest way to do it is write a simple note and slip it into a place whaere you know he will get it.  A good place is a locker and on the note ask him to send back he note saying whether he likes you or not!  Good Luck!
954450
It's hard to say what the signs are, but here's a good tip: don't reveal anything until you're sure you want to tell him.  When you finally know you want to tell him, use an analogy to bring it up casually.  In other words, pretend your friend likes some guy and you need him to tell you advice on how to get them together.  He should practically give you the answer of what he wants.\n\nGood luck!
739730
just tell him that you really liked him and that you would want to keep in touch with him.  is he coming back?  just wait and keep in touch with him.  as time goes by your hearts will began to grow fonder of one another and if it is meant to be it will happen.  as for now if you just want to get some lovin, I would say don't do that because it will ruin everything even the friendship.  just call him once a week or bi-weekly when he leaves and make sure the conversations are good.  Also every now and then just say that you met this guy and you went to a movie or something to make him a little jealous but when you do this make sure he knows that you two are just friends but don't over do the friend part.  you know what to do.  or that's an idea take him to a dinner and a movie for a going away gift and just when he thinks he's going to get some be strong and leave!!!!
404869
Simply tell him. If he does like you he will be pleased that you told him. It's unlikely that he will make you feel bad.
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
1037080
first of all just be yourself and tell him that u wanna be more than friendz thatz the honest thang to do