Is it harrassment for daughter to put letter warning of calling police in neighbor's mailbox after neighbor
142922
I think it's technically a federal offense because you're tampering with the postal service.  I'd stick it on a door if anything.  I think the better thing to do is confront the neighbor yourself rather than allowing your daughter to write the letter.  If she's already done it, you should go over to the neighbor and discuss it like adults.  Perhaps your daughter shouldn't have shoveled snow wherever, but you've raised your children a certain way and would appreciate it if they didn't use cusswords around her/towards her.  If the neighbor can't be reasoned with, just ignore them from now on.
1051361
what type of harassment is done ? in person ? on the phone ? there is not such order like that in texas. are you asking about a no court ordered no contact order or a restraining order ??? there has to be an assault or or some type of harm done before one is issued. you would have to have a police report made out and get a court ordered one . if the harassment is done by some one living next door to you. you would have to put up no trespassing sings or painted tree w/ purple paint at least 3 foot off the ground and no higher then 5 foot. run barbed wire around there or have a fence up w/ signs posted. then a CTW (criminal trespass warning) can be issued.
698797
if she calls again call the police //
14764
Report abuse, or what i would do is send them a threatening e-mail.\nOK I WOULDNT DO THAT.
701343
Seems like the daughter learned her bad-behavior at home.  Of course, you already knew this - they are your neighbors.\n\nYour original mistake, as you know, was accepting the invitation to the Big Event from your neighbor.  Failing that, your next mistake was having a party in view of your neighbor, without reciprocating.  This was correctly viewed as a slight.\n\nYour neighbor erred by a) crashing your party and b) involving your daughter.  She should have taken it up with you after the party was over.
730947
make sure you file complaints with the police in her town.  it can be done over the phone if that's the only way . even if it's something small, make sure you have it on record that you complained. now keep in mind. she can say anything she wants about you and long as she doesn't publish your name and address or post and phone numbers and email info.  if she does and you have proof eventually she can get herself banned from using a computer.  you can even take her to court and sue her for money.  that would pull the plug on her game.  in the meantime, try your best not to feed in to or let her antics get to you because if you do then she wins. it really sounds like she has no life.
914783
We do, I think we might have the worst kind of neighbor possible, she's unreal! She moved here about a year ago. She started off quiet, and then she started saying racial things to one of our neighbors. She'd watch them when they go in and out of their house, and not let them get into their cars. Then she left them alone.  She has started things with just about everyone on this street. She has even harassed the manager and screamed at him. She had bothered everone except us. Oi. We have been feeding a few stray kittens for years and no one has ever said anything; many people thought we were doing a great thing. She decides to make it a big deal and complain to the owners about it and gets pissed when they do nothing. Then at Halloween she said she didn't like our decorations because they were 'distracting' her. She started leaving her blinds wide open, but only the ones facing us. So my mother bought a piece of lattus to  use as a decoration and to block her view on our porch because she had started stalking us. There was a time when my mom was getting the newspaper and looked up and the neighbor jumped back from the window in surprise. Her windows are wide  open and she watches when we go in and out. This made her mad and she threatened to come over here and do something and take it down, while I was home alone. A few weeks ago, she came onto our porch at 1 in the morning and was shocked when someone saw her. Her dog barks for hours and hours everyday and she does it on purpose. Shes even gone as far as to put a stupid voodoo doll in her window facing our porch. A lot of us suspect she has either a mental problem or anger issues. Shes gone out in the middle of the night to scream at something with no importance. Shes also gone out and taken pictures of some guys car when he did nothing at all. Its getting to a point where we are afraid in our own home. I am home alone during the day, and she keeps saying she'll come over here and do something. We can't even go on vacation because we're afraid she'll do something to the house or to the cats we feed.  I'm afraid she hasn't stopped. But my mother has gotten everyone to sign a petition, put it in writing and get a restraining order to get her out of here. We're working with the police and the manager too. All we ca hope for is that if she violates her restraining order, she'll have charges pressed and one step closer to her getting gone. Wish us luck, heh.
1136783
send her a letter from the city or county prosecutors office telling her to keep a distance or face jail time as a stalker so theres a record then if shes following you call the police and shes gone to jail carry a copy of the letter ive been throough this before
205334
Frankly, you'd be much better off knocking on those 11 doors. It would earn you the respect you desire so badly. A letter is a poor excuse when you live in the same building.\n\nBut if you insist, I would be very blunt and forward in your letter. Something like, "I would like to apologize if I offended anyone by playing loud music the other night. It was totally unacceptable behavior and I will not do so again."\n\nAnything more is fluff.
571134
Hmmm... what if the neighbor posts them online?\n\nThis isn't your best idea yet.
970662
Call the police. Tell your neighbor what annoys you the most.
88757
You need to call your carrier first, they can look it up and see who it is.  You need to document every time she calls to show that there is  definitely a pattern of this harrassment say for about a period of two weeks.  Then you need to make a report to the police so they can press charges against this perosn.  This advise was given to me by a sheriff's deputy when my son was getting harrassing messaging on his cell.  Needless, to say, it stopped.
384620
Do you call the police to enforce the restraining order?
1018260
If it was on your property then you are. If it was on a neighbor's property and it hit your daughter while she was on your property, then your neighbor MIGHT be responsible. If you are looking to sue, don't. The government doesn't need more lawsuites that really arn't worth it. It was only minor brusies after all. Sorry for your daughter.
346395
Confront her... If he knows you have access to his mail, then he's not trying to hide it, so she is the one who is after him, face her with what you've seen, this may wake her up !!
1002095
Leave a note wherever the paper is delivered. like in your driveway whatever, oh ya sidewalk chalk would work and tell him/her to stop taking your paper and that your watching them
193652
The next time you hear a ruckus going on next door, call the police immediately. Even better check to see if there is a help line for kids to call in your area and use it to report the abuse NOW! Call your Social Services Office or Children's Aid Society and report it to them. They have to check out all reports of abuse. If you are not sure who to call, phone a school or hospital in your area and ask them for a number to use. You can remain anonymous and the woman next door will never know who reported her if you are worried about retaliation on her part. Do this. You'll be glad you did. These children need help.