Why did my husband die?
143331
Sorry I now how it feals. My father died in 1999. Take care of yourself a keep busy all the time don't have any free time so you don't think about it and stay with friends.
869211
yes, my dad died at home with all of us with him. it is horrible to know that every second that goes by, is a second closer to losing someone you love, forever.
433055
oh my is he dead?!??!? Lol!\nwoa sorry for the misfortune
1121444
Check with his Dr  before using the answers for medical advice.  Nobody here really knows your husbands condition
401764
This is real..  My husband does not believe in the supernatural although I think this incident really had an impact on him.  On going to work he saw one of his workmates as usual pedaling to work as he always did on the side track adjacent to the road.  Soon afterwards he mentioned something about the man only to be told that that could not be possible as he had recently passed away and his funeral was that afternoon..  My husband swears to me he saw him and that he was rattled for the rest of the day..
632844
You need to talk to him.  Let him know how you're feeling.  Sometimes our spouses don't read our minds even when we think they should.  It doesn't make them insensitive just not perfect.  He may not realize your depression or the level of it.  If you're able to tell us you're depressed then TELL HIM.  Men and women have a different makeup and we don't understand each other most of the time.  Sometimes communication helps in understanding.  Just try to tell him how you're feeling.  ((((HUGS))))  Sorry for you loss.
1103438
I tell my husband as often as I can, you never no where death lies and at least they'll know how much we love them. Keep telling your husband how much you love & care for him, he should feel like the only man on earth with the only sweetest woman on earth. You will have a long and happy marriage.
768629
No, it wasn't God. I am truly sorry for your losses and pain. I would definitely be angry at him too. But it wasn't the work of the devil either. You and your family were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. It was nothing personal. If he wanted your family dead, he would strike them all dead. Most accidents have a cause, and what makes it an accident is lack of intent. As for your house, that kinda stuff happens everyday. You cannot predict that either. Have faith that there are bigger, better things for you. Do not wallow in your grief. Stand strong and everything will be okay.
307695
Your late husband will ALWAYS know what is going on with you and his boys.  He still loves you, and wants you all to be happy.  If (and when) you meet another man, know that he understands.  He is gone, but you still have a life to continue with.  I can not say I know how you feel.  If I lost my husband, I would have a VERY hard time going on without him.  You have 2 sons to live for and help thru this awful time.  God love you all.
120938
He died of heart failure.
671168
Dont! It is not your fault. You husband has always liked Men and because he was such a coward. He was afraid of what people would think of him. Do not beat yourself up about. Im sure you love him. Just pray that he gets delivered from what ever it is he's going through and move on.
821907
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband.  You must be feeling terrified right now.  I'll pray for you, your husband, the doctors and your children.  I'll pray that you are surrounded by strength and that you will absolutely feel comforted and supported.  And I'll pray that whatever happens you will all be well.
625623
He died on the toilet from a heart attack.  The drugs were an indirect cause.
604962
He died of a gunshot. Most people think it was suicide, but others believe it was murder. Take a look at the source.
35883
My husband found the email address for a man that I once had a relationship with. (I had told my hubby about Chris before we got married so it was no secret or anything.) My husband gave me the email addy and said just email and say hello. It turned out to be my ex boyfriend. Six months later, my ex boyfriend had heart bypass surgery. He died a week after that. I have got to say the BEST thing that ever happened to me is my husband coming into my life! He is very understanding and laid back! He is my happiness!
709958
My husband thought he hurt his back at work. Went to hospital was told he had pneumonia and a cracked rib it got worse went back again. He was diagnised March 20th passed June 6th.  He went thru radiation chemo gamma knife procedure and took the drug tarceva. I miss himm so bad I cannot stand it. We threw barbeques for friends and family had parties went where ever he wanted to go ate what he wanted to eatwe even got up at midnight and played pool til 4 am. The hardest part was watching him disappear before my very eyes. And of course losing him. We do have children and thats the only reason I am still here. But it hurts so bad my heart is broken in a million pieces.I am still mad scared and empty. Yes do stay strong and let her know you love her and that she is important to you. So very sorry. Good luck
144105
I can't give you any medical answers; and even if I could, at that age it is very difficult to say that such and such is the problem since there are usually so many problems.  One possibility if nothing appears to be physically wrong could be just her will.  Many psychologists have noted that when people "give up", its not long afterwards that the body dies as well, which is the reason why so many spouses die soon after their marriage partner passes away (the kids are grown up, and they have lost their sense of purpose).  I know this may not be helpful, but, as I said, it is a consideration at that age especially if no physical symptoms can be detected.