if you love someone and you dont get positive response from that person what you should do?
147689
Move on, there's plenty of other people in the world and you can't make someone love you.
560190
First off, why do you say she probably doesn't believe you? Have you done something to make her think otherwise? The best bet in any situation when you love someone is to be completely honest with them. You obviously want to let her know how you feel about her. There is always a chance of rejection in any situation, you just have to take the chance. Otherwise, you will spend your entire life somewhat regretting it if you just let her go on by.
170922
When you commit yourself your person, you are saying you love them just the way they are.  You should support and encourage your partner in any attempt they make at personal growth, but the worst statement anyone has ever made is "I can change him/her" or "Oh he's/she's never had someone that loved them like me, they'll change" \nIf you don't love them as they are then move on.
502229
You choose to continue loving them.  The feelings of love (normally lust) will diminish and you are left with this person who is not what you thought they were now that you can see them without your blinders.  At this point, you choose to continue loving the person by over looking the annoying habits and doing things you know pleases them.  Find their (and your) love language.  It makes a huge difference!  Check out the love language book at your local library.
661646
You can start by showing appreciation from all the things he/her does for you.Give your support & unconditional love in return...and tell that person how you feel-especially during intimate moments.
544204
communication. you need to talk to her. see where her feelings are at. she probably doesn't know you love her.  the best thing to do is talk and find out what she is thinking.
491779
i have problems dealing with the same thing. it's like you are just waiting for the other shoe to drop or the bomb to go off.  i have had a lot of problems dealing with stuff in my past and still feel unworthy of love and good things sometimes. just know that you are a good person and worthy of every minute of happiness. keep telling yourself that and eventually you'll start believing it too. ;) eventually bad things will happen, just deal with them and get back to the happy times as quickly as possible. \n\nbtw for some of y'all up there, it's not always cause we are looking to dump someone. sometimes we just have our own issues to work through that have nothing to do with the other person. give her a break and if you can't give good advice don't give any. lol cause non-constructive criticism borders on abuse.
308831
Two schools of thought on that one\n\n1.Quit leading the poor fella on, either you love him or you don't. It sounds as if he definitly takes your feelings into consideration, why not do the same. \n\n2.Give him and love a real chance and you might surprise yourself finding out just how wonderful it can be to have someone in your life that puts your feelings first, there's not a lot of us guys out there like that.
53934
The words "I love you," work well. Honest as the feelings you hold. So just buck up and say it.
522470
If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
652966
See if the one you love can love you\nand\nsee if you can love the person who loves you..
188729
I know its hard but if he really loves u let him contact u or he'll know he has you in his hands. in less you did something wrong than you contact him.
708318
Call him and Congratulate him.\nThere's not much you can do, but if he is still in love with you he will end it and come back to you.\nDon't forget everything happens for a reason, you may not know the reason now but you will someday and look back at it.\n\nGOOD LUCK
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
932793
make sure you do first. as its not right to tell someone that you love them just for the sake of it.\nThen just tell them how you feel
789989
Sweetheart..you don't need anyone to tell you to do. I would strongly go with my heart. If you truely love him, you wouldn't be happy with anyone else. \nWe can tell you what we would do...but deep down...what would you do? Could you handle loving someone that is having problems walking? I would hang in there and not jump so fast to all the what ifs.
407398
What?\n\nDid you tell him you love him?  Have you expressed your love (bad emo poetry, gifts, erotic delights)?  \n\nOr is the problem he doesn't love you back?\n\nTry again when thigns are clearer.