i just don't know how to approach to a girl can any one just tell me how to make a girl friend?
150623
First of all, it's important that you be yourself.  Don't make yourself into what you think she may want, it'll end in failure.  Girls like to be approached by nice guys who are real.  Be inviting and fun.  Make her laugh and show that you have a genuine interest in being more than friends.  Don't rush anything, or be too bold, but do be honest.  Good luck!
594387
take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
378233
Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
709505
Okay well you must know some girls right? Ask them if they'd like to go shopping with you on a certain day or start by just having a chat with them and see what they are like and after a while you'll notice that you have become friends with them. Now you don't have to get in with a whole group of girls maybe even just one. \nSee if you can find some common ground with them what they like and stuff you might find you like them as much as your guy friends. \n\nGood Luck ; )
303187
I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
61758
First off, most girls do NOT like being referred to as Chicks.Other than that, meeting women involves risk and alot of trial and error. Get out more! Go to where girls/women are likely to be and always ask your friends if they know female friends who would like to meet someone.Saying Hi to a random girl is a good way to start a conversation. Avoid pickup lines, fancy outfits, and bar scenes and just be yourself. Being confident about yourself and curious about other people is very appealing to most women(at least in my experience). Don't see rejection for a date as failure, simply move on and accept advice from your rejector if she gives you any.
95045
well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
402129
Don't we all?  I suggest you practice talking with every girl you know.  Eventually one of them should like you enough to go out with you.
1119394
Be a "Secret Admirer" girl's wonder who they are you sure to get some attention she will tell her girl friends and family and everyone will be waiting one day to meet you...\n\nDo this by sending a card with a special home made poem \nyour after her heart so you have to do thing's that they like.\n\nFlowers die cards last forever and you and her will if you approach her in the right ways. Good luck!
978948
Well, not sure what you want to know. First you should just work on getting a girl friend
1030418
best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
398614
it would be better to work on this in stages - first, casually run into her or introduce yourself.  Trying to strike up a conversation, or at least make a joke or some comment will mean that the next time you speak with her, it won't be creepy.  Once you've built up a base-line familiarity, you could give asking her out a shot.\n\nGood luck!
889522
Seems like she isn't interested right now, just try to be more casual and try to build on a friendship, because she might be one of those girls who can't really date someone until they've been friends, I know I like to know a guy a little before even considering dating them. Just talk to her more, and don't seem so desperate to get a date with her, most girls don't find that attractive, she might start to think you're a stalker or a weirdo, just act yourself and wait, if it's meant to be it will happen eventually.
687679
well i was always she when talking to girls. i chated with a good friend alot on IM and got to know her and others. if you are really shy like i was. start off talking to someone you already know or chat with someone on the computer it is a lot easyer then in person.
105626
I think the first thing you should do is to introduce yourself and start a conversation with her.  Try to get a feel for who she is, what she likes, her type of personality.  You'll never know any of the basics unless you even talk to the girl.  Once you know the basics, then that will help you make a decision to ask her out.
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.