i am so stupid i ask out a boy i don't like now what?
149420
well you got the stupid part right...
663676
you shouldnt ask him out because then your gonna look so desprit.you dont need him anyway cause you can get another boyfriend and you known that.e-mail me back when you get this e-mail.
890174
Don't threaten to kill yourself to guilt a boy into liking you. That's immature and stupid. Stand back from the drama-quit creating it- and see what happens.
238464
Next time he asks you out, run with it.  Be like, "Yeah, let's go hang out on the beach and build sandcastles!"  If he says that's cool, great!  But if he gives you a weird look and says he was just kidding, you should pull a Napoleon Dynamite and say, "I KNOW you were kidding, IDIOT, GOSH!"  Then you will both get a good laugh about it and you'll know your answer, even though secretly you'll be slightly embarrassed.
777271
u can send an email to him if u dont like talking to him in person - if u like that person then it's worth the try. u will not look like an idiot but if u dont like him what's the point of asking him anyway.\n\nwould u rather live ur life thinking if he like u or not or get the guts to ask him and be happy and have peace of mind whatever his answer will be.
291787
Just have a talk with him and tell him the truth.  He would appreciate that instead of him thinking that you'd rejected him because you didn't like him.  Tell him that you have your own issues to deal with first.
1090990
go for the guy who likes you now!\n\nwhat does this idiot think--"i'm not into you now... BUT if this other girl i like says no maybe i'll come to you next..." whatever!!!! that idiot isn't worth your time or love!
177748
without making a joke out of it , use your sense of humor. be upbeat, be honest, and ask if he'd like to go on a date with you . something simple, something pleasant..... "boy" i wish i had it all to do over again..... dont pass up opportunities to act on your emotions, you'll regret it forever...life is too short , give it a shot  and live with it , better than living w/o trying...
114431
1) Independent of your decision on what to do with the boy who was expelled you should break up with your boyfriend.  It sounds like you just aren't that into him, and that should be your reason for breaking up, not because some other guy asked you out.\n2)  Steer clear of bachelor number two as well, for two reasons\n    1)  He is asking you out when he knows that you already have a boyfriend, which should tell you that \n           a) he doesn't respect relationships\n           b) he is the kind of guy who would impede on another man's happiness\n    2)  This guy has been expelled from high school, and I know that it's difficult to think of the future when you are at an age where the present seems so all-consuming.  But if you project his current actions and attitudes into the future, odds are this guy will be pumping gas / flipping burgers for the rest of his life if he isn't serving time.  \n\nSo to sum up:  \nDump your current boyfriend\nDitch your suitor\nFind a guy whom you like and likes you back.  There are over THREE BILLION guys out there, you can afford to be picky, you WILL find one who has whatever you are looking for.
255263
just ask him out what if he says no what are u goin to do about it just ask another ask out untill u get a ayes!
752139
It sounds like you just need to be more assertive in a productive way. Do not start playing mind games!!!\n\nSimply let him know that you'd like to hang out with him (just him). Invite him to the movies or to play a game of basketball (boys like it when you show interest in things they like). If he declines, do not get upset or show any anger/frustration. He may just want to ask you out on his own terms. So give him time if he doesn't accept your invitation.
1138252
hey I'm 16 and i used to have the same problem, i mean I'm single now but my advice worked on my ex. : Just Be Yourself. any girl would be stupid to not go out with someone just because they don't want to give them a chance. I give everyone a chance and the way i see it is if they don't like me for me then i need to move on to someone who will. Just try talking to her about things she and you have in common. It will work just give it time.
1001092
Forget about about that Kid, he's immature and undecided with his life, he doesn't know what he wants, you should soon find someone that cares  more about you. I hate those kind of guys, no one ever knows what they want, they're just so complicated, it's pathetic!
410777
Tell him you like him but don't go up to him and just say Hey I like you... that might catch him off gaurd and he might say something he'd regret, just walk up and ask him who he likes, and tell him you know someone who does and she wants you to ask him out for her and when he asks who say me. Than see his reaction if it's kinda mean it means you caght him off gaurd and he'll probably try to fix it later and you should let him.
969730
That shouldnt be embarassing but if it is then make up a different excuse. Tell him you like him but you dont want a boyfriend right now or be honest and tell him you would but you cant because your parents dont approve. Whatever your more compfortable with, good luck!!
1174287
Get used to it kid .And go look for another one to ask out.
284393
Ask someone out, remember most boys are shy. (;