She loves me but can't do it with me?
150254
First off, don't presure her, reasure her. Take it slow, when you do eventually.....um do it. Condom, lots of lube, and ease it in. Don't ram it in and start pumping, just let her muscles relax around you. When she feels comfortable, then move, and just make sure to keep asking her if she's okay, and if it hurts her, stop, let her relax, and try again. Comunication is the key. It will hurt the first time, but that's a given, just try not to add to it. But let her know you'd like to try it, and tell her you'll be gentle. (and for the love of god, be gentle, a girls first time can be stressful and painful)
1107888
I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
508673
seems like you never let yourself move on...is she willing to move with you? does she want to begin a relationship? you need to speak with her and see where her head is at and make sure you both want to make this work
256538
Well it's not a good sign but you two can still make it work. The main question is do you both love each other...Lady
1083573
You don't need assistance... you need patience. You're having amazing moments, she likes you, she shows affection for you in public, what's not to like? Give her some breathing space. Why are you in such a hurry? If you pressure her you'll lose her. If you lose her, then someone with patience and who knows how to show appreciation for what he has (someone like me) will get her. So if you don't want me to steal her heart away from you, learn to be patient.
596718
you have to think about why it is that you feel this way. why do you think you aren't good enough for her. once you figure this out you can start the healing process within yourself. it's okay to argue.. it's part of life. the tough part is how you are going to handle it and manning up to any mistakes you may have made. that is the true test of a relationship. this doesn't mean that you don't deserve her. if anything.. she's putting you on to things so you are aware how you are hurting her, yourself, and the relationship. if she says she loves you .. believe it. communication is the key. have a talk with her and try to sort out your feelings. if you really love her .. try and work it out. but you gotta trust her. live and let go.. easier said than done.. but you'll be happier in the long run with the one you love.. hope it helps..
601404
You cannot force her to love you. Move on, find someone else who will love you too.
275382
Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
262326
It's not what she says, it's what she does and how she makes you feel. Don't pressure her. I've found in my experiences to just go with the flow. In the past I have always thought in order to have a great loving relationship with someone, you had to work hard to please them, NOT the case. I have recently found the woman that I will be with for the rest of my life. Its easy for us to communicate with each other and that's the key. If you are having doubts about how your girlfriend feels about you then you should be able to talk to her about it. Here is a good question to ask her. "If I was in an accident and became paralyzed would you wipe my ass for me?" It sounds funny but let me tell you if you can wipe someones ass THAT'S REAL LOVE.\nGood Luck
73063
You are off your rocker. She said she still "loves" you? Love means that when you take those wedding vows "I do", you are for one another. She broke those vows. Be a man, grow a spine, and tell her that if she wants that, get the eff out.  BTW, it sounds like it's easier for her to get some extra than for you to. You're in for a rough time.
1003037
you need to talk to her and try to make an effort to spend more time together. find out why she doesn't trust you and try to change. If you really love someone you will be able to talk and work it out..
229887
If she has to think about it then she is in doubt or she just doesn't wanna be with you. If she truly cared about you she would know how she feels. I think you should tell her how you feel and what you want from her and see what she says.., you might be surprised. Good Luck!!
327272
It looks to me that your wife is playing with you.The way she acts towards you doesn't show that she loves you..ore respects you for that matter!I'd talk to her,tell her what you think and feel..that you need to her to change her ways,because this isn't working out for you.If she refuses,ask yourself if this is how you want to go on....clearly this is making you very unhappy,you shouldn't accept this!
308253
its her loss if she cant see that you'd do anything for her. tell her that you wanna take her out? goodluck
595627
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
113811
if she doesnt love you there is nothing you can do to make her love you.sry, but thats the way love works.i wish it wasnt but you cant make people love ouy
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.