Why am I attracted to men? I am a guy so this is wierd. I like girls but not that way. Can I change?
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Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
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A few years back I was in the exact same boat.  Now I'm openly bisexual.  \n\nI wouldn't worry about it dude.  If you're not finding any guys you want to jump, then just say you're straight.  If you find a guy you like, then go for it and see what happens.  Maybe you're bi, maybe its just a naughty fetish thing.  You're not going to know until you try it, so stop with the worrying and the drama and just see where life takes you.
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If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
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Are you truly attracted to him or do you just feel the need to have a man? I find it kind of odd that you do not wish to even physically kiss him (a sign of physical attraction) yet you feel the need to make love to him when he is not around. Maybe you need to look deeper and find what you truly seek.
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
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No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
1050685
I was born heterosexual. I cannot help being attracted to women. Please do  not condemn me for that.
550340
Who do you find yourself thinking about as you orgasm after j**king *ff, males or females?  Is it a male or a female?  Who arouses you if you let them (not if you force it and not if you try to prevent it -- if you just let it happen) males or females?  The person who makes butterflies appear in your stomach even though you don't want them to -- is it a male or a female?  \n\nIf you are a boi as I believe you are, and you answered "females" to all those questions you are straight.  If you are a boi and you (in your honest heart, not saying what you want, but what is true) said "males" then you are gay.  If you can honestly say "both" then you are bi.\n\nYou tell or don't tell as you want, its up to you.  \n\nPeace,\n\nReyn\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
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Think of it as a whole spectrum, not just 3 categories.  On one end of the spectrum, you have completely straight, on the other end, you have completely gay, but in between there are all sorts of levels of preference.  If you can be with a girl AND guy at all, you're bi, but you seem to prefer men; and that's fine.  I'm also bi but prefer men (and I married one).  By the way, once is "normal" for a guy, and anything more than that is impressive.  :)
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how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
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well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
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Define "normal". Normal is different for everyone. Theres a natural curiousity in this area and  I believe everyone has thought about it at least once whether they admit it or not. Does your friend know how you feel? It may be a phase for you and it may not, only you can decide that. You may be attracted to both males and females. You might benefit from talking to a trusted adult about this. Good luck, growing up is tough, Keep your chin up.
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Because you are attracted to men!
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I'm bi and its not from boredom.   I have a strong attraction to men just like most women, but I also have an equally strong attraction to women.   I see someone who turns me on and I react the same way you might with someone of the opposite sex, the difference is that for me the person can be but doesn't have to be of the opposite sex.   I hope that helps.
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Sounds like you want a transexual or a crossdresser!  You are attracted to men's penises but like the women's appeal of lingerie and undergarments.  I think that is what you desire.  Understand this though, being gay, bi, or straight is not what u do, but what u desire when u wanna do it.  When u r horny and in th ebed, ask yourself, if you can hav ethe ultimate fantasy right now and no one would ever know what would it be?  When u answer that, that is what u r .  No one ever really falls into th ecategory of completely straight or completely gay or completely bi, u just have phases in life sometimes.  A gay man can have sex with a million woemn and fantasize about men whil ebeing with those women.  Actions don't matter it's about what you desire when you want sex.  can you have a healthy sex life feeling thsi way?  yes but be real with yourself and what you want and it could be a lot healthier.  I'm straight, but understand I'm not judging you, but i study sexual psychology.  u might just lik etransexuals and crossdressers, try them and find out whta you think!
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He can't change his sexuality.  He is what he is.  Gay men are attractive sometimes because they are just more in touch with their feminine side (sometimes) and also because they understand the frustration of dealing with men in love relationships so they make great "sob sisters".
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Do you attracted to people of the same sex?  If so, you are probably gay.