this is a question for all the men. do you  women who are thick,  slim, medium , lg?
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Scientific studies have shown that men are most attracted to women with body shapes that have a hip to waist ratio approaching 1.7 (hip size divided by waist size measurement).  Personally, as long as she laughs at my stupid jokes, has a good soul and loves herself, I'm attracted.
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My only suggestion is running or walking. General exercise should slim you down. But a lot of men are known to like more curvy women.
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lean and toned. i find that most lean and toned men ( even if they aren't that toned) totally over-power me physically (i really am not that wimpy, tall, not strong like bull, but tall and pretty wimpy. i can't really help it. i'd have to weigh way more to be strong.) big and muscular men would scare, i love my lean and toned guys. i love being over powered but big muscular guys would scare me a little.
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skinny women are supposedly ideal ... which is why those who do not reach that "ideal state" talk badly abt them ... skinny men on the other hand, are not particularly "ideal", and as such, no one really cares if a guy is skinny or not ... :)
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its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
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i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
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men prefer skinny woman due to what society thinks. I think a lot of men prefer skinny woman because they are embarrassed to be with BBW's. They think that there friends will laugh at them or make fun of them or whatever. whilst I have a bbw for a wife, I wouldnt mind seeing her loose the weight..now I dont wish that she was like a size 5 or anything that skinny but I would like to see her be somewhere around a 12. She has told me she wants to be a size 12. I would also like to see her loose some of the weight due to health problems and her annoying snoring! Remember Norma Jean (AKA Marylin Monroe)?? does anyone know what size she was?? no she wasnt a 5 or 7 or anything that skinny. she was around a size 12. people back in her hay day especially the guys, liked woman who had some meat on them. not too excessively fat but not stick skinny either. I think that hollywood is responsible for the change in peoples attitudes regarding the size of woman. I also think that society today is slowly changing its attitudes to be more favorable to bigger woman. But it will be a awhile before society and hollywood will totaly be acceptive of big woman.
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most men i talk to (depending on how big they are them selves) say that a woman is fat, truley fat when her belly hangs low or over her pants.. whe she has boobs that wrap all the way around her body, or she can't put her arms down to her sides... and by bellie hanging i mean kicking it when you walk hanging not the lil pudge u have over your belt line...
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Truthfully speaking, I believe most men are attracted to women with curves, but they are afraid to admit it, as if it were illegal to do so. You see society predicates what is beautiful, and honey we aint it!, and that's a shame, because the average woman is a size 14.\n\nSociety needs to reconfigure its idea of beauty, and realize that "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES" not every man wants a twiggy. Society views a woman with curves to be overweight, and she may not be, there is nothing wrong with being healthy and having some junk in your trunk too. Most men dont want a bone, most men want meat on their bones, you know what I mean!\n\nI wish that us thick girls could get some love too, just like our thinner counterparts. I guess guys are afraid of what others will think, as a matter of fact I have a male friend that is attracted to thick women, and all his friends tell him he's a chubby chaser, now that is just not fair, but he doesnt care, he tells them they dont know what their missing, but you can see where I'm going with this, his friends are the equivilent of how society views us thick girls, and that is just so sad, because we are the majority not the minority!\n\nHowever I am feeling confident that slowly but surely societies ideals of us is changing, thanks to people like Mo'Nique and Toccara, they are starting to break down some barriers.\n\nI hope my answer, as long as it is, was helpful to you. Keep your head up sistah, we gonna get in there....\n\nI hope I was able to help you out!!!
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i hate when guys ask that!  it is like the male version of "do i look fat in this outfit?"  ... neither of us really wants the truthful answer to the question, so we should probably all stop asking lol
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I like to go inbetween little thick tigh not the skinny ones..\nand when she is on the top, thicker once are better I think
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I like thick women myself - but to be honest... if thick women were promoted more in magazines.... than most people, on average, would care even less about their weight and only become fatter. Skinny chicks also tend to be bitchier than other women... so I guess they get more of what they want anyways.
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Some women do.  For me a fat man would have to make up for it in other ways- nice features, tall, athletic, strong, intelligent, well-spoken, confident, rich
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Sure, You still need to excersize and eat right...just tone up what you have..I know lots of girls that are "thick" but they are still sexy.
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It shouldnt be down to the size, it should be what you feel about that person, You and many other males in this world bang on about big women, stating that they are easy lays and that they are up for anything that goes, but how many women do you hear making remarks about a blokes size, whether it be in their pants or just general body size, not many, so why not the male gender take a leaf out of the ladies book and stop being so cruel to women with uncalled for remarks and start being a bit more respectful,
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I to am a plus sized woman, And I understand where your coming from.  All the guys wants to be my friend or think of me as one of the guys. Where they get that vibe at I am not sure.   But I think that guys ,like women, are self conscious I think some men really like bigger women but they are afraid of what other ppl men especially would think of them with a larger woman in hand.  And that's there problem and they miss out on wonder full women that way.  Also I think its magazines and the media, culture what ever you wanna say puts this idea of what a woman should be. And there are us few that just don't fit the mold but I would rather be fat and unique than skinny and be just a carbon copy of what other ppl have a idea of.  Lots of times I think women of size have to have a out going personality or maybe a in your face type one and some men are threatened by that. I know there are some men in my life that are by my personality. But they know i don't take any thing from them either. I hope I helped. But just know your not the only one that feels that way.  As a child i was practically tortured by the other kids. And as an adult its not much better but I feel sorry for them because normally if someone is saying bad things thinking bad things about you then they have a problem or are insecure about them self so ultimately they are the ones with the problem. I hope I have helped with my ramballing.
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Black guys like the thickness of a women and can appricate it and white men just like skinny boney women!!!! But you'll be okay Duckie!!!!\n\n                              Love, Turtle