What do you do about a guy who uses girls?
138029
well....u really need to tell him hes gonna get his ass kicked.if that happened to me i would get my girls.....take notes) and my new bf and beat the shit out of him....then if that happens others will FOLLOW.....!!
496747
If you really want to let the other women women know you can be straightforward and tell them, but it may not be worth your time.  Users tend to be good at finding people that can be blind to being used, and have a strong denial of it happening when someone tries to help them.\n\nGood for you for figuring it out and dropping the guy.  The best thing you can do is probably just move on and let someone else worry about him.
45688
Is he watching you at your house, if so call the cops and report him as a suspicious person(s). If he just follows you, oh say, everywhere else, call your girls and kick his sorry butt.
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
463943
I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
1186210
just tell him the truth, if you think he's not much of a jerk. if he is a jerk, come up with some female problems, most guys dont wanna know about that kind of stuff :)
99814
YOU shouldn't do anything!! It is up to him to deal with the situation. He should care enough about you to handle the problem. My advice would be to give him the opportunity to solve the problem, but if within a reasonable time (a week) if he hasn't dealt with the problem, then walk away from him. If he doesn't care for and respect you enough to deal with the problem, then he may be enjoying have to females on a string. Good Luck =-)
764975
I've been guilty of doing this same thing in the past.  He probably loves his girlfriend and wouldn't trade her for the world.  However, he wants to know that he can still get attention from other females.  So, he's flirty with you to satisfy the attention craving.  It's an ego thing. \n\nWhat I would do, if you are interested, is break his ego.  Tell him that he only flirts with you because he needs to know if he can get other girls.  If he really likes you and wants to be with you then he should break up with his girlfriend first before making a pass at you.\n\nI wouldn't tell his girlfriend about the situation.  You may cause problems in their relationship and trust me you won't get the rebound if they break up.  He will resent you.
688747
In most cases, it probably because he wants to keep a standby girl friend to use when ever needed. Becareful from him, he is just using you because you are letting him to.
365930
Stop messing with him especially if he has a girlfriend it just ain't right to do that to the other girl think about it this way, How would you feel?
35640
Depends on the guy. If he is used to women going after him, act laid back. If women don't go after him, be flirty - but if women don't go after him, I doubt you would either.
116312
He is using you. Many U.S. soldiers did that in Vietnam and left the women with children. Break up that seudo friendship and forget it!
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
342106
you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
348633
girl dump him there will be other ones. If you are worried that is a reason to dump him. Just be patient, or make him jelous.
326068
first off stop being a bitch to him. girls have it alot easier than guys do when it comes to relationships because women can be choosy. you just need to tell him the truth. tell him the honest truth that your not into it anymore, don't bullshit him it'll just make things worse.
690399
i think that she used him...he should not even waste his time with a girl like that...