is it a good thing to feel stressed and unwanted all the time?
153569
Alot depends on how old you are...the good thing about all this is when you are able to finally leave unlike their other children you will know how to take care of yourself and others and will have matured into a dependable adult which is a very valuble thing...instead of stress see it as a blessing for the above reasons...their other kids will most likly strugle through life and marry out of need and be unhappy most of their lives.....take this time to find out what it is God is preparing you for and do the best you can while asking God for strength, wisdom and percerverance....Hang in there kid life goes by quickly this is only for a short time....\n\nAs to the adoption part we are all God's adopted children if we accept salvation through Jesus Christ .....if its good enough for God it should be good enough for you and God makes no mistakes about where and when we are born it is all a part of His plan...You were no mistake so run with it and one day the whimpy kids you took care of will look to you for help and wisdom...\n\nOne last thought Christ Himself said that he came to serve not to be served...Sounds to me like you have a Godly life ahead of you.
766525
I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.
12740
You can always say I think we should test our waters for a little bit. Or I'm just not feeling it right now..I'm having a lot of stressful things going on and I need some alone time. Why would you want to be in something that you don't like anyways. And if you love something you always go back. You can just be friends with benefits.
78541
I feel where you are coming from. The only way to calm you down is to either find something to keep you busy or Play with your self daily and either one can keep you satisfied.
1140904
We're all placed in stressful situations sometimes that are difficult to cope with. My best advice to you is to look at the positive side of things. The fact that you have a job and an income is a good thing. The fact that you are using a computer to access the Internet is a great privilege (believe me it's a privilege). The fact that you were raised in this great nation is an opportunity. You sound young and you entire life is ahead of you. This is only a chapter in your life. A chapter is bound to end when another begins. Have patience and faith in yourself and in your ability to change your perception of your situation. Thank God for the moments that you have. Remember, this is life, not a dress rehearsal. Make everyday count. And finally, I have personally found that I feel a lot better when I stop focusing on my own problems and try to offer help to someone else. We get so focused on self sometimes that we forget that there are people out there who are in a much worst situation than us. Try to lend a helping hand to someone, and you will see how blessed you will become.
40617
Lots of people with many responsibilites feel the way you do. It's normal to feel stressed out when you have so much going on, and untreated stress can escalate into panic attacks (sounds like that may be happened to you, since shortness of breath is one of the symptoms).\n\nNow is the time to take steps so your stress won't progress any further. If possible, talk to a therapist who can help you. At the very least, you need to list and sort the priorities in your life and make a sensible plan for carrying them out. You also need to schedule time for yourself; make an appointment for "you time," and KEEP IT!\n\nThere is no easy way out of your situation, but if you can prioritize your life and break down your tasks into managable chunks and work in some time for yourself, it should help tremendously.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
664446
yes you should. when you suppress what you feel, and not way to vent, your only hurting yourself. if you are scared, record yourself in a room and upload it online and see what people think. the most important thing though is how you feel about yourself. know who you are and then the confidence will shine through.
999294
You should stay the way you are. It isn't good for you to hold in what you are feeling. You are just fine.
192802
dear friend there's nothing wrong with you...you are absolutely fine.....its just in your head that you are not well & unmotivated....... you just need someone to cheer you up & take care of you as you might be feeling lonely.....so just think positively & refresh yourself.........\nhave a nice day & live well..
720196
Not really... i am not really sure why... i feel very empty all the time.. as though there is something better, bigger waiting for me... and until i find it i wont be truly happy!!! And i have no idea what it is....
755726
Well, although your job seemed to be "stressful", it sounds like you enjoyed it. You probably felt very useful; maybe even essential for the smooth functioning of the office. Now, because of your injury, you can't seem to do the same things you used to, so you feel a bit depressed, because you may not feel as though you're playing a useful role.\n\nPerhaps, if your condition allows it, you could have your own business being an "organizer" -- you know, like, organizing people's closets, or their own home-office files, or other things that need organizing, but you won't have to do a lot of physical work that may strain your back / neck. Use your mind! \n\nIronically, some people feel "less stressed", when they're working at something useful and productive, even if it is "fast-paced". Some stress is caused, when we feel life is passing us by....\n\nYou have more emotional strength than you probably realize. You are a thoughtful and caring person -- try to brainstorm, and think about how you might use your talents!
70314
Yes!!!\n\nThere are only two types of things people stress over.\n1) Things they cannot control\n\n2) Things they can control\n\n1) The things you can control, you should not stress over, because you can do something to control it.  You just need to take action.\n\n2) The things you cannot control, there is no use to stress over because you cannot do anything about them.  You just need to work on your next course of action.  Focus on what to do next and you will not stress.  You won't have time.
974488
not a 'mental case' hunny but you sound stressed - try to take time out to chill - slow down - enjoy
1141456
People may say - others are worse off - that may be true - but you are living your life and they need to walk a 'mile in your shoes' before they can say that.   Everybody has different stress levels and different coping mechanisms.  If you feel stressed then it is real - try and read a book like 'shift happens' by Robert Holden.......or go to the www.happiness.co.uk website.  \nand try to take time to relax........................
141498
Yes, you should. It's your right.\nJust make sure your ready for the stress again. If you had some mental problems, talk to your doctor to see if you should stress yourself.
249375
No I hate to be stressed.
955916
It could be a big lack of fulfillment of your needs, feeling worthless, or very disappointed, perhaps someone did something to you and you haven't been able to come to terms with it and give closure to a situation. \n\nAsk yourself what it is, who made you feel so bad? There could be depression, a lack of assurance and feeling less, you'll have to take control of this and these deadly emotions. You have certain issues that if you search deep inside you'll be able to deal with it.