Is it a good or a bad thing to have a meaningless relationship?
154263
Neither really--it may sound cliche, but there is a time and place for meaningful relationships, and at other times you need the less complicated "meaningless" relationships.  I think what is more important is knowing what your needs are.  If you are not having the realationships you want, then things need to change.  If you are enjoying your life, whether in meaningful or meaningless relationships, then no change is required.  You should feel no guilt about NOT being in a really deep connection with someone.  It may not be the time for that in your life.
584625
that is very sad... I have a rule of thumb when it comes to dating... IF at any point you evaluate your relationship and you know it's never going to work THEN don't waste anymore of your time or hers.
364364
You know, sometimes you just have to understand the difference between a good friend and someone you feel romantic and passionate about.  The worst thing you could do to him and yourself is to be with him when you have no feelings for him.  There's nothing more painful than being with someone who does not love you in return.  It is bad for you too because in the end, you're more likely to feel boxed in a relationship.  Your values will be different than his and you won't be able to connect on a emotional/intimate level.  This will eventually cause problems in the future.\n\nI wish you the best...
735678
You should have the willingness to make a meaning out of any relationship. In this case you should be willing to commit in a love relationship for life-time without hassels any day of your life for any reason.
313326
hmm.. good question.. I'm glad at times that im alone for the sheer fact of all the drama that comes along with being in a relationship but there are times also of loneliness that i dont care for.. but if this is something that doesn't bother you then i don't see nothing wrong with it.
666770
It doesn't matter what we think, it matters what you think and how it makes you feel.  If it makes you feel uncomfortable, then you don't need other people to legitamize it for you.  You tell her how it makes you feel, and if she blows it off then you got to ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want to be with--one that trivializes your feelings.  In a relationship you have every right to state your boundaries--with an understanding of how far you're willing to bend.  Relationships are compromise, and if either party isn't willing to understand and/or adapt to the other's needs then that's when relationships should end.
310195
Whether you are using the word "sick" to mean something bad, or the slang term to say it's something good...this question is a bit confusing.  Are you just looking for someone to validate you one way or another?  If so, perhaps you should start examining your feelings on the relationship whichever way they lean.
703553
Just like other things. money, power, fame , sex...... everything is good. but your life should not be spoiled and lost because of these. you just utilize them in the right manner. must know that they are not the aims of yr life. that's all. not necessary to be good being without sex.
973335
as long as it is with the person you love... it is good and healthy, if it is all you think about, and you can't function without it all the time, that is a bit much...
932003
Stay and sort it out.  There is no such thing as a meaningful relationship that has not seen it's fair share of healthy conflict --WITH resolution.  It's build strength to a relationship.  It lets you know boundaries and it lets them know you care.
225494
Not at  all. But if, you begin to ponder this while dating some one perhaps, you should stay single. Monagamous relationships are not for everyone and just for those who are mature to hande it.
93271
Yep, doing that is a good way to show you that they love you or at least respect your feelings. If they aren't ready for a relationship they would stand a good chance of hurting you. That would suck for you. Respect them for being honest and telling you their feelings.
54763
A boyfriend can be a good thing. You won't feel lonley you'll always have him to hug u and kiss u and make u feel good all over. U always need somebody like that so u'll never feel u're not worthy.
1029730
No.  Sex is meaningless and can be done between any two people regardless of emotion.  It's when you have a deeper connection with someone that sex becomes meaningful.  Otherwise, it's really just scratching a physical itch.
1047032
Maybe you two are uncomfortable with the idea of labeling what you two have as a relationship. Some people feel as if the word relationship is the new four letter word. If it scares the two of you just think of it as you two having fun except you're only having fun with each other.
1035123
Yes you can.You can even have a relationship too.Most people don't think its right but if thats what you want and feel you can.You soldn't let anyone juge you.You also can even if it don't mean anything.
282517
Absolutely, a long as it is in a healthy way - you are not obsessing about it or use it as a replacement for a relationship. Just remember to be safe and dont go in for anything dodgy with people you dont know or dont trust implicitly.