what do i do if my girlfriend is goin over to her ex's and i haven't seen her in person in 2 months?
138333
You haven't seen her in 2 months?!  DUDE, she is NOT your girlfriend!
248324
Sometimes people just grow apart for no apparent reason.  Distance is hard on any kind of relationship.  Now that you've moved back and you found out that she has broken up with her boyfriend, you two might be able to have that same closeness again.  Just call, email or message her and let her know that you are there for her any time she needs to talk or have a shoulder to cry on.  If she doesn't respond then it's time for you to move on.  There's no sense in wasting your time on someone how doesn't have time for you.
548900
what's the big deal if he is her ex? couldn't have been her mom instead? do u think this is cheating? probably she is just playing cards with him or they're playing "mom and dad". \nyou definitively shouldn't be so worried about this. it's just a trip, in europe.\nnow, without joking, when she comes back give her the slippers. she probably have lost the other ones in europe and will need them.
895688
the first thing that i have to say is that a long distance relationship is hard to do and you have to make sure you are faithful. you shouldve never talked to your ex. make her see that you are the right man for her!
305962
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
96482
If she is your EX, then she isn't cheating on you.  And if she is an EX, why would you care what she thinks?  Obviously, you are better off with this woman being your EX, leave it alone and move on, you are better off without all this mess!
964660
What I would do,  -and what I think you should do-, is take it very slow with the new girl involved. Honestly, it probably wasn't the best idea for you to get involved with her, but I wouldn't say to completely break it off now - that isn't realistic, and it would just hurt her because she would get your feelings twisted. \nYou have baggage. You can't make genuine transitions from person to person while carrying baggage; it'll hinder you. You'll always carry what was left from the old relationship into the new one, so forth, and so forth, and it isn't fair to the present person involved that your own issues are unsolved. It isn't a problem that you still think of your ex; it's actually very normal. You've completed an important step by acknowledging that your last relationship couldn't work, so now just prove to yourself why you deserve to move on. \nEver heard the song 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu?......that one goes out to you, lol.... Good Luck and God Bless.
645918
Breaking up is hard to do.I say that if /when she comes back to you . Don't give yourself to her so easily or she will try to leave you hanging when she feels like doing her own thing. I would keep a journal when you feel like calling her or see her out and want to talk. Some feelings are wasted on people that don't appreciate them. It takes a long time to get over someone you really care about There really isn't any straight answers. Except you gotta watch out for more than your heart. Remember your self-respect, your pride, and your future. Don't let a bad romance delay you from doing the things that you are interested in. Go on a trip- even if it's a short one. Go to the closest city, get a hotel, see the sights, see a concert -take a buddy - get your mind clear. Don't ever let anyone that hurts you see you when you're vulnerable, even if there's a chance things will work out. She has to earn her way back in to see your true emotions. \nKeep your head up  Stay busy  It will get better no matter what the out come is.
723361
I'd say if you two have been together for a year and she's STILL not over him, there are some major issues here.  It shouldn't take somebody that long to get over an ex, especially when they're suppossed to be with somebody else.  Confront her about it.  Tell her how much it hurts you that she's not over him, and that if she doesn't clean up her act...you will have to end the relationship.  To tell you the truth she doesn't seem very mature or stable, so you're probably better off without her anyway.  At the age of 29, you need somebody who is at your same maturity level and stage in life, and is ready to commit.
672245
I think it is dependent. My boyfriend is still good friends with his ex's and a couple of them I have to admit are better looking than me. At first I was suspicious of being just the flavor of the month for a while, but the key thing is to talk to them. Tell her that if bothers her that she does this on her own. If she is going out with an ex that you would like to go with her for your own peace of mind. I did that and I can tell that there is nothing left of that previous relationship, and have moved on. Now he'll spend hours studying with them sometimes and I don't care...then again we've almost been together for two years.
412656
i would tell you boyfriend how you feel about his ex wife. tell him that you really don't feel right her staying there. she is worried that you are taking what she had first but how i see it she was the one that let go of him and she thinks that he is going to wait around for her to come back around a crap. i would tell him everything that you don't like about her, what you think about her. just tell it how it is girl. because that is just going to hurt you guys in the long run because she might try to say something to him or something that will mess everything up. or try to start crap.
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
595755
Your GF was wrong, but she is upset because she thinks that the ex is trying to get you back, or that you want the ex back. It can be very hard on the GF when the ex starts calling. \n\nYou were kind to talk to your ex when she was upset. But if you want to move on with another woman you need to talk to her (ex) when she is not upset and tell her that she has to find someone else for emotional support, then you have to follow through and not talk to her. Next, even though you were not wrong to listen to someone in distress, you do need to apologize to your GF. Try to explain that you don't want this other woman bac and that you are sorry that your GF was hurt.
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
244905
No. You need to let your girl handle it. Tell her you support her and that she is more than welcome to ask your help if she feels she needs it. My question to you though is what is your girl telling her ex? Is she making it known that she is seeing someone else and is happy in that relationship? Let your girl know that you have no problem stepping in to take care of the situation if her ex won't listen to her.
732138
she is obviously missing the ex and isnt completely over him...there maybe something missing in her new relationship or maybe she started the new relationship too soon and is still on the rebound from the old one...either way she dosent seem satisfied with her new boyfriend
1130854
She's on the other side of the world!. What are the possibilities of you and her seeing each other?. I may be wrong for saying this,but I think you should find someone closer to home. I don't think she wants to hang on to the relationship,she wants to keep you from seeing someone else,and who's to say she is'nt involved in another relationship right now?. I would 'nt wait 6 months to see a so-called boyfriend,and he's not going to wait for me!. Both of you should move on. Pick cherries in your own back yard.