How many times a week is normal to have sex?
145686
There is no right or wrong answer on this. It's what feels right for you both.
281140
my lover maybe 2 to 4 times a week...but my bed buddy is every day....some times twice if we work together
486696
well im 40 something and my wife and i make love almost every night. at least 5 times a week.
111331
Yes it is very healthy to have sex every day-multple times at that!!  It gives great relief to everyone involved!!
26451
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
136732
As many as you can. my bf and i have sex about 10 times a week.
322307
it is said to be healthy once a week ... thats what professionals say
516283
so you only want it once a night?\n\nseems  reasonable to me at your ages!\n\nmaybe have one night a week where you both try NOT to have it - thats a sure fired way to want it the other 6!!!
1169953
Hello Bella, the first year of our marriage we made love about 6 days out of each week. Once our Daughter was born it dropped off quite a bit. Now after 11 years of marriage we still make love 2-3 times per week on average. Sometimes more, sometimes less. It doesn't matter how many times you do it. As long as you BOTH are happy, in love and please each other, everything will be wonderful!\nGood luck
795225
There is no normal amount of sex per person or couples.  Everyone is different.   Sex is a very important part of marriage and those who think not are those that end in divorce or unhappy.   I have been married for 22 years and our sex life has increased if anything.   We cant keep our hands off each other.  We play head games and flirt all the time.  By the time we are alone we are all over each other.   As my wife says sex is 24 hours a day.  Phone calls, emails text messages and flirting  never stops.   \n\nStart flirting with your husband, Grab his butt when he goes by and just smile.  When you walk by him rub up against him slow and sexually.  Just smile.   Give him a kiss for no other reason than because you want to.   Say something about wanting him to yourself really bad.\n\nIf you want a sex life then you both need to live it.   Do your part and I am sure he will start doing the same.
977793
I am a therapist and I know exactly what you are going through. I have treated many couples with this problem. Fifteen to twenty times a week is a bit excessive and that places you guys in the top 5% statistically. It is 100% humanly possible and normal to have sex many times a week as you describe. Now, what is not normal is that by doing so you submit your body to great discomfort. Sex is meant to be an enjoyable experience. If 15 to 20 times a week is not enough for your husband then that reveals that he definitely has a problem that needs to be addressed. If he is not taking any stimulating substance to increase his libido, which he obviously does not need, he is currently going through a chemical imbalance. He may or may not require medical treatment at the organic level. From what you described about him, I don't think he requires any psychological evaluation. Prepare a nice dinner for the two of you. Talk this out with him. Explain to him how you feel and how your current sexual activities are interfering with your body and your ability to function normally in daily life. Ask him if he has taken any substance that may have caused this change in behavior. Also mention to him that you would love to have sex with him at the rate of 15 to 20 times weekly that you are comfortable with. I am sure that he will understand.
294841
I think I read the average is three or four times a week for couples married 10 years or more and slightly higher for the ones married less time ...how they come up with that one is beyond me I never had a call asking how often we were doing it. Quality is more important than quantity though. I also read that married people have it more often than singles.
986230
Let's see... We have been married for 4 years and we have two children and do it 1-2 times a week. I think that is normal for most couples. Since you have no children I would aim for 2-3 times a week. But the question is not how often should we but how often do we WANT to have sex.
1151770
You can have sex anytime and how often you want.  Sex is healthy for you, unless you get pregnant, especially since you said you were underweight.
612097
When I was in my teens - every chance I got! Oh to be young again.\n\nNow that I'm in my 40's and happily "married", probably about once a week.\n\nI think you grow out of it over the years, but it could also depend on your libido.
499758
Ouch!  sorry, but that's not very often.  All couples are different, but compatibility extends to the bedroom too.  when I'm in a relationship, I like to at least three times a week.  I think that you should talk to him, and find out either why he doesn't want to have sex more often, or if he's willing to step it up a bit...
452336
there's nothing wrong with having sex multi-times a day it goes to show you that you do have a very healthy active sex life. its normal but than again we are all different some like it less than others visversa.