how can i make my boyfriend to stop cheating on me with my friends?
153450
You can't. It's up to him.
889357
Stop cheating and if you're not cheating then tell him that without trust your relationship isn't going to work.
812177
I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.
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I say get rid of him...if he cant show u the affection around his friends just cuz he wants to appear single then he doesnt love you...if he did he would want to show u off. hes using u.  he wants his cake and wants to eat it to...looking single to the world but behind closed doors hes taken.\nto me that sounds like a reciepe for cheating.  get rid of him and find a guy that cant wait to show u off. u deserve better
657458
Tell your friends to shut the hell up. They can't tell you when you have matured or not and a boyfriend does not make you mature.
1180274
Glad you can admit you're no good to him or any other good guys out there.  Break up with him, coz you're obviously not in love with him and you don't truly appreciate him, and it'll be better for him in the long run.  As for you,  I 'm not sure if you could ever find true love only because you may cheat on the next guy you're with.  I can only assume that you need a lot of attention, and ONE guy can't fully satisfy you.  Do him a favor, leave him...he doesn't deserve you.  Give him a chance to find someone who will love him and appreciate him.  If you're having seconds thoughts about being a whore, then hopefully it will be the last time he will forgive you.  For him not to move on from all this suggests that he has some sort of low self-esteem, AND you sleeping around just adds more to that.  Stop making him miserable, he deserves more than you.  Stop making yourself miserable by "feeling guilt".  If you truly feel this, you wouldn't have cheated on him again and again and again.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.  Good luck on finding the right guy, coz the next guy may not be as a doormat like this current one.  OR the next one will cheat on you too.  So take your pick, karma's a b**ch.  And as you've heard it, what goes around, comes around.  Also, I hope you didn't transfer any STDs to your so-called boyfriend(don't tell me he's just a friend).  You only have yourself to blame.
582604
baby girl, 1. don't date ex's friend. 2. dump anyone one who cheated on you. 3. go out and have fun; don't worry about having boyfriend just yet.
21415
tell him everything but the "cheating with a friend" part
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
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Id say if your boyfriend doesn't like the fact that your Friends are the ones telling him of your problems then you need to open the communication lines at home and leave your Friends out of the mix!When your in a relationship there is only two people not two people there friends the neighbor the mailman the family and everyone Else just you two!Its obvious that the nosy Friends are causing a problem in your relationship and if its something that you want to save then you need to def work on leaving the friends opinions out! Just because he said he will never break up with you that doesn't mean anything  there are plenty of people who stand in a church b4 god and all of their family and Friends and say till death do us part and still end up divorcing 6 months down the road.Communication is a very important part of a relationship and its something you have to work on and constantly work at if you want things to work out there is no such thing as a perfect relationship they are give and take and that is the only way that one can last Both peoples feelings have to be considered hes told you how he feels now the balls in your court Show him that his feeling matter as well.The trust thing a whole other issue trust is earned and well I dont know that youve done anything to make him wonder otherwise but the smallest of things can hurt a persons trust for you and well unfortunatly you have to start over from square one and gain that trust all over again sucks i know Im going through the same thing and it blows but if you love him you do what it takes to make things work and if hes not worth it to ya then theres plenty of other fish in the sea and you move on to something better.. I hope that I was able to help you some I dont know how these things work but if you have access to my page feel free to message me if you need help again\n\nBrightest of Blessings to you\nWitchy
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My girlfriend and I were having similar arguments.  She thought that I chose parties over her.  We were dating for 5 years and took a break for a couple months and recently got back together.  It is easy for your friend to be influenced by his friends, and his friends (especially if they are single) would like nothing more than for him to break up with you so they could have their "buddy" back.  Your boyfriend needs to stand up for you in front of your friends, or else they are going to walk all over you in front of you and behind your back.  You need to talk to your boyfriend and see if he is willing to stand up for you.  If he is then definitely give him another chance.  If he doesn't want to hear it from you then you should probably look elsewhere.  Knowing he will stand up for you will make your relationship stronger, but if you think he is too easily influenced by friends you are in dangerous territory.  The best of luck to you.  \n\nKen Holmgren
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This is going to end badly for everybody.\n\nIf the person with whom you're cheating also knows you're cheating he probably is going to be very happy about seeing you re-commit yourself to your boyfriend, especially after having been with him for four months.  On the other hand, if the boyfriend finds out (does the other guy know him?  if so, he may tell your boyfriend about your illicit relationship)from someone other than you THAT is going to be really ugly.\n\nSo, if you want to stay with the boyfriend then tell him what's been going on, and then break it off with guy #2.
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Rather than looking for an Internet site, try this: call the number from a phone that your boyfriend can't link to you. For example, a payphone. \n\nAnd really, if you can't trust enough to let him have some privacy in his social life, you shouldn't be with him. All it's going to do is create havoc on your relationship. Watch the movie "Little Black Book." I speak from personal experience, jealousy can destroy a relationship.\n\n--\n\nAddition: I spent three years with someone who cheated on me in the first year. I could never fully trust him again, whether or not my fears were correct (and they never were after the first time - he never cheated on me again). I finally had to end it after freaking out when he left his phone at my house and I discovered several videos of another girl. After the break-up he broke the news that he wanted to marry me... but I knew I couldn't go through with such a big step in our relationship when every month or so I suspected him of cheating on me again.\n\nMy biggest suggestion to you is to think about what the impact of your suspiscions and fears will have on your relationship, and if you think it is strong enough to withstand it.
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Try exercising some self control. If he's cheating on you, he obviously doesn't deserve you. Break up with him, and maybe take a break from dating. There are more important things than guys you know.
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Do NOT tell all your friends to "stay away" from your boyfriend.  This is called possessiveness; it's both unattractive and disrespectful.\n\nTake it as a compliment that your guy is so attractive to your friends.  Now, if one of your friends takes her flirting too far, have a private talk with her.  If your boyfriend is truly loyal to you, his loyalty is what matters most.
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Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.