a girlfriend said i am a sex addict and wants me to slow down? how much is to much? is this normal?
139188
hmmm thats hard to say, maybe shes like a lot of women and doesnt really have a strong sex drive, or flat out just doesnt enjoy it.  I on the other hand could have sex on a daily basis.. well depending on wether or not there was compatability... good luck
375897
It depends on what she considers addicted. Maybe you just had a stronger libido than her. \n\nIf you were cheating on her, in the only reason you were with her for sex, if all you wanted from her was sex then maybe it's your addicted. Find a therapist or talk to your doctor, they'll be more capable of telling if you are addicted or not.
1096476
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
280127
Hell no. Women seem to think they have no steak in being overly sexual or sexually expressive. As if it's 1920 and you're not supposed to need to come. Orgasms are awesome. Enjoyt em as much as you can. Involve items or aids, oils or lubes! Make a day of it! Just don't think it's "abnormal". That's like having sexual/emotional constapation. it's natural, everyone's appetites are different in intensity and regularity. If you libido is way up, then I applaud you and indulge.
748036
Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
722761
In Psychiatry the amount of sex is only an issue if:\n\na) it interferes with your daily living,\nb) it's very promiscuous, or\nc) it's causing a health problem  \n\nIn other words, if you're having sex with a stable partner(s) and you're not having this sex out of compulsion and it's not causing you pain, bleeding, strong irritation, lacerations, etc.... and YOU AND YOUR COUPLE ARE HAPPY... then you're not having too much sex. \n\nHow do you know if it's a compulsion?  \n\na) If you're in your job and all you can think about is having sex (this has happened to all of us 1 or 2 times, especially in a new relationship) then you may be having a compulsion.  Also if...\nb) the idea of sex is more important than the actual act of sex\nc) every time you feel very anxious, like you NEED to have it or you're going to collapse... and when it's over you feel very relieved or guilty... and then the cycle starts all over.\n\nIf you're asking, though, it's pretty safe to assume it's healthy.\n\nHope this helps, \n\nGood luck!
290818
I know what you mean when you said you are addicted to this site... me, i cant stop answering peoples questions either. Anyway, you can contact me if you need to talk about your problems with your boyfriend. Have a nice day.
695311
If I say No you will not listen. And you know why... First off, 2 months, too fast. how well do you know her. How well does she know you. 4 times a week to visit or for sex... I recommend thinking this one through.  Are you willing to spend the rest of your life for this person. I don't think so. How much do you trust her. Relationships are built on trust. Shacking up saves gas... Great. Now what. You say that you are more mature than your past relationship. Read your question. you sound like a infatuated 19 year old. Trust me man... Think it through.
163836
sweetie you are not a nympho...you are perfectly normal and so is he...a males sex drive goes downhill as they get older and a females sexdrive just keeps going and going and going...no matter what age you get hun you're gonna wanna do it all the time...thats just you...he just dont wanna admit that he cant handle your sexual appetite
498831
Think seriously, note whether he care for you or not, there are some guys who are like this, they will slide where ever there is down slope!They flirt with addiction.\nBut that does not mean they are bad.\nIt's up to you, if you can adjust fine...because your strong actions will only suppress his habit, it will not be removed from his system...Patience is the key here!\nTry slowly and see whether he likes to spend time with you or not...it's very important!
1087091
Funny you should ask..lol...that's an issue I'm trying to work out with my boyfriend right now.  He says I want it too much (I want it every day!)  When he makes jokes that my sex drive is too high, it kind of makes me feel bad, like he doesn't want to have sex with me as much as I want to with him.  Some days I want it two or three times, but he says he's tired :(  We're both the same age, so I don't know what the problem is!
369112
Sexual activities as you describe here are an addiction when they harm your social life. It depends on how much time and energy (!) your friends put into it.\n\nIf it harms your relation with you, give him a set time. (e.g.6 weeks?) Reduce the time he spends on his addiction gradually. Go out a lot and do refreshing things like jogging an walking. Reduce the use of coffee and alcohol and fast foods. Explain that sex and love are not the same. If there is no significant change (minimum reduced to 70%) leave him.
901507
It's possible that it's his attitude that's depressing what sex drive you do have to zero. All that pressure ... it's a BIG turnoff. About your age, I had lived with a guy who was really demanding for like seven years and I was virtually frigid by then. Broke up with the guy (we weren't married), turned thirty and whoopee I'm a sex maniac.... don't lose hope.\n\nI recommend you study your own psyche with respect to your sexuality and the relationship. How do you feel when he pressures you, and why exactly? Books, counseling. Do you remember ever feeling somewhat excited, when you first got together? Don't you enjoy erotica or masturbation? If you don't, you're either kidding yourself to avoid confronting the issues in your marriage relationship, or you might as well learn to fake it.\n\nOf course, I could be totally wrong ... please forgive me if you know that to be so. Just basing this on my own experience.
858821
My sex drive goes down when I'm stressed as well. But my girlfriend is quite creative in making me feel relaxed enough to have a go with her. Do what she does to me. She gives me a light massage, just to rouse me enough. I tend to give in in no time at all. G'luck!
1088424
there is nothing wrong with getting addicted to legs jst as long as you don't do anything that may upset the woman. in fact you can feed your addiction to legs by going to webdatedotcom.. i know a lot of girls there and they all look great in their minis..
120657
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
575607
stay away from that stuff. It is degrading and addicting. If you can't stop -- you need professional help. It will destroy any relationships you have or hope to have.