How do i try to figure out if my boyfriend cheated on me?
141568
Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
26731
if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
252673
If you suspect cheating, it is probably happening. Try and contact them unexpectedly, see if they can meet at the spur of the moment. Cell phone activity can be a good clue, emails or text messages. Sooner or later they slip. If you have a friend who is supposed to be at the same place, ask for verification. Check the car, receipts in the glove box, different color hair, smell, etc. Good luck.
222775
If you think that he is cheating, then he probably is.  Ask him.  Don't "spy" on him like people are telling you to.  If you have to spy, there is already a trust issue and that is hard to build up a relationship when there is no trust.  Plus, running around and checking up on him is just a waste of your time, and he aint worth it girl!  Take your extra time and find a decent guy that will spend his weekends with YOU!  Good Luck!!!
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
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I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
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Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
852813
Have you been cheatin?\nDo you trust him?\nWhy not?
540159
If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.
404843
Think of it the other way around.  Say that he is wondering the same thing.  If he was honest enough to tell you about it, what would YOU say and do?!  Your boyfriend deserves your honesty: at the very least, have the courtesy and the courage to let him know how you are feeling.  And be prepared to crush his feelings.  If you play the cheating game, YOU KNOW it will eventually come around to bite you on the ass!  Whether it's your guilty conscience, or the inevitability of his finding out some time anyway, he WILL find out!  Do you know the difference between right and wrong?  Of course you do!  Are you willing to risk your relationship with your boyfriend?  If you are, you have no business being his girlfriend, and he's much better off without you!  Like you girls say about us, think with your big head (you know what I mean!).
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If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?