I like my co-worker,but he is asian how could I tell him?
140906
if you see him for his ethnicity, there is a very low probability a relationship would work. try seeing him as a person not a race.
200335
Write him an invitation to lunch on his bank receipt.\n\nMar.14, 11:15 pm. Well, you can't very well ask your co-workers to ask him if he likes you. You're older than that by now.
928170
Ask her if she would like to do something outside of the workplace with you.  You're obviously very impressed by her and if you told her (generally) what you said here, I'm sure she would be very flattered.  It sounds like she likes you, too, but that the work environment is not the time or place to find out.  If you both work at the same time, ask her if you could take her to get something to eat after work (or whatever), tell her how much you admire her work, her excellent grades and how friendly she is.  That opens the door for you both to get closer and to see if there's a relationship beyond work - I'm betting there is! :)
753538
I'm a Malay and currently having a  chinese girlfriend as well. Interacial relationships are very common now.The thing is, there are gonna be more obstacles than any relationships you can have with someone of your own race. Go for it man!!
939211
Take race out of the picture.  If you like him go out with him.  If you don't like him then don't and tell him you want to remain friends and not jeopardize the friendship by dating.  As for guys who won't date you because you dated outside your race, well, they are small minded and not worth dating to begin with.
294271
it doesn't matter what other people  think. Do what you're heart tells you. Tell him you like him and don't be afraid.
163637
Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
983983
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
314667
if you left your job on good terms with him, just send him an email to the workplace asking him how are things going? ask to meet him for lunch for some career advice and if he accepts, when you meet him, start neutral and play it by ear. you could dress a notch less casual than business when you meet, make sure you look good and smile a lot and do the eye contact thing, and see if he responds positively to that... You could also apply the subtle body language tactics by leaning into his personal space a bit, speaking with your hands a bit such that you sometimes touch him accidentally on his hand or forearm as you speak which subtly sends a signal without being really too obvious... let him ask you out! If that doesn't work, ask for a second meeting for more advice. If you meet regularly enough, he will like your company and you will have natural rapport to move to the next step...
891228
One should only worry when the other is out of there species.\n\nBut seriously, if you hide your feelings for him because he has different heritage/culture you are not really any better than the people that make fun of him.  It is so sweet to be liked back by someone that you also like.  There will always be an idiot making dumb comment or staring like a fool, but if you look into his eyes you two  will only see each other. Be strong girl.
100958
I'd say find your local Asian community. If your having trouble finding one use the internet or newspaper to find out where the nearest place can be found and try to get involved in some community activites. Meet people make friends and get the word out that your single and available. Although I do agree that there should be more to finding a mate than their race or culture I think it's ok to be attracted to someone because of it we're human and all have different desires. If you go to an online dating service you may end up with a long distance relationship, whatever is best for you I guess. Saying go to Asia is just offensive.
754692
Keep your cards close to your vest for now.  Why not make some flirtatious remarks that will likely endear you to him such as "I think I may have a bit of a crush on you...." but as to heavy duty "love", wait a bit.
414480
I guess I'm missing something. You want to tell him? You want to hang out with him? You just don't hang out with straight people? Or co-workers? You're 18 and a lot of your friends are going to come from work, school, neighbors or parties. It's a fact. If you consider him a co-worker with no friend potential, nothing to worry about. You two have a lot in common already with your work situation. If you have a chance at a freind, don't turn it down. Everybody can handle one more friend.
1014963
Why would you tell your bf it's not like you came on to your co-worker or he really hit on you inappropriately.. Just tell your co-workers youre' not interested and you have someone already.. What are you feeling guilty for and you haven't even did anything... And then to tell your bf and youre not guilty of anything will only open up a can of worms...Everytime you argue he'll have the right to accuse you of someone at the job... Shut your mouth and let the guys know youre taken and call it a day... You're making a big issue out of nothing
74705
This is where you ask him to chill with you first. Go out as friends first to get a feel for it. If it doesn't work out, nothing's lost.\n\nIf things do work out, then ask him out! =] (Unless there's a rule about not going out with co-workers.)
185085
well. u can't really make assumptions based on how nice he is to you. he HAS to be nice since he's your coworker. and alsol being friends might be plenty good enough for him. but, perhaps you are right, let him make the first move. be nice, but don't overdo it.
726008
SINCE HE IS WORKING AT THE SAME PLACE WHERE YOU ARE WORKING...(DONT BE SURPRISED) AND IF HE IS NERVOUS HE WILL TALK ABOUT WORK OR OTHER COLLEAGUES AND IF HE IS NERVOUS...THEN HE LIKES YOU...