What can i do to more relaxed when i'm around him?
140667
Just take a few deep breaths and realize he is probably just as nervous as you are.  He is just another person, no one to really be afraid of.  And remember, if you say somehting wrong/silly around him, he will probably just chuckle and forget about it and that's all you can do too
536893
start focusing on the good things he does - let him know what would make you feel appreciated - you telling him you are going to leave him is now an empty threat - try to talk to him to let him know how what he is doing makes you feel (or how what he is not doing makes you feel)
295124
get comfortable, wear loose clothes, have a soothing warm light around, try not having some kind of wokstation near where you sleep..it is pretty important to have a stress free zone with a neat, uncluttered set-up. lie down, read a little if you want to, close your eyes, and try and absorb the calm...appreciate yourself and your qualities, hoping to begin the comin day with all the positivity you can
892884
Relax.  Breath.  Breath again.\n\nOk, now that you're calmer, think about the situation.  If you and this guy really like the same stuff, chances are you're pretty good friends.  (Or at least there is the potential for you to be good friends.)\n\nStart there.  Be his friend.  Not too pushy, just a friend.  Then, if things move on from there, great.  But if not, at least you have a good friend.\n\nGood luck!  And keep breathing.
76340
go for a walk after it is dark, its proven talkin in the night makes a person more relaxed and more open, beacuse of the atmosphere, \nmake the person feel relaxed, talk bout some deep stuff like, planz for future, family, marriage, or whatever the hell it is the person is in2, \nand when you're standin/sittin close to each other,\nstart lowerin your voice to a whisper, which will make you feel more intimate and ummmmmmmmmmmmmm.... start whisperin stuff in his/her ear and go for the kill!!!!!\n\nbut make sure, whatever u do, make sure to ask him/her whether they would ever consider bein in a relationship with a friend.............or the consequences can be brutal......\nbut trust me, dont be nervous/shy cause 9/10 it will work out.....\nthe person i'm with, like, we were friends for like, forever, but one day i jus kissed her and she kissed me back, we then realised we was actually thinkin bout it from day one, but both of us were jus to scared to make the first move\nanyway, good luck with whatever u do
13327
Maybe you should give tiny hints and get to know him a little better and get comfortable around him so that you don't lose your breath. I've been in that situation many times.
107998
Fix him a nice dinner. Lower the lights, and light candles. After you eat or while you are eating, tell him how much you have enjoyed the time spent with him. Then ask him to play for you and sang some songs if he sangs. Make him feel real special.
216404
Just relax and breathe...tell him your nervous and he will probably admit to the same.  Just both of you knowing that will probably help and be a conversation starter also.
414907
You should probably see a psychologist he can perscribe something to you to calm you down so you can relax and not stress!
51668
Relax, Relax, Relax. Tell him what feels good. When he does it, tell him not to stop. Repeat as necessary for proper results...
858758
Talk to him, smile a lot , be friendly to him. Once he feels comfortable around you he'll open up
33633
Try mixing up your physical contact when you go out to quick rubs on his shoulders--in public, no less!, or flirtily play with his fingertips just for a minute. When walking side by side, barely touch arms. Make every touch full of energy and anticipation like when you were new (it's good to limit your touches to only meaningful ones. holding hands just to hold hands loses impact. drop his hand, and just wrap your wrist around the inside of his arm instead.) Even tickle HIM, just for a second. He'll look at you inquisitively, no doubt... to which, you just smile, bat your eyelashes, and maybe even giggle. Even if you are not the "bat the eyelashes" type, smile coyly, coy is equal to flirtatiousness. \nGood luck!
775822
It sounds like your guy is putting entirely too much pressure on you which will automatically make you tense and that makes it harder on anyone!! My husband and I had this problem early on in our relationship and we fixed it by communicating!! He was so desperate to make me happy and I was desperate to make him feel like he could that it put too much stress on us. We decided we needed to just relax so we started doing things that would relax us instead of putting all the emphasis on me finishing! Take a hot bath together, if you are of legal drinking age have a glass of wine!! But just remember to relax!!
1097950
Posture is important.  Don't be slumped over and lazy.  Look as if you could live without him.  Be confident in yourself and it will shine through.
794496
just hang with him some more...once you get used to his company and being around him lots, you will feel more comfortable to ask him..
133175
invite him for coffee, for tea, for lunch.  show more care about him.  if he was more away. that means he doesn't deserve you.  otherwise, it means he likes you.  yes not necessarily so you have to take care and be always in the middle. hold the head of the robe.
506575
It will be awkward for a while, but he seems worth it. Just go see a movie together or something, it will give you time to spend together without having to say anything, and then a topic after. It will also calm you down a little. Good luck.