I Still love him, my ex-bf? Although he left me.?
144511
It is hard, but you need to accept the fact that it is over.  The easiest way to start the process is to delete his number out of your cell.  Yep delete it.  You can't stare at it for hours if you don't have his number anymore.  You can't call him/text him and make a fool out of yourself.  \n\nListen to sappy melodramatic cds (early Sarah McLaughlin is a favorite), cry, be bummed.  Eating lots of fattening foods.  Talk your friends ear off.  Put all the stuff he ever gave you (including pictures of you two) in a shoe box and shove it under your bed.  Watch depressing movies.  \n\nIt sucks, but it is a process and you need to just go through it.  It's how we learn and grow.  Over time, it will hurt less and less until years later, you take out that shoebox and go "what a loser!  what was I thinking!?!"
1103268
Stick to your new b/f, as going back with your ex wont work as there must have been something which made yous fall out. stay with the new guy as you never know he could be your soul mate, if you leave your new b/f and go back to old one he could leave you again so do you want that. stay where you are and be happy there's no point looking back just look forward and be happy. good luck
1053662
Why did you break up in the first place? How long have you known each other? How long has it been since you broke up?  Do you want him back?  These are all questions you should be asking yourself.  Then perhaps you'll know if it's right for you to pursue him again or to just forget him and move on. :)
1171190
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
1102780
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you can't be 100% into your current bf.  You need to figure out if you want to go back with your ex and try to make the relationship work - or if you want to start fresh with your new bf.  \nKeep in mind that the problems you had with your ex are still going to be there.  Whatever the reason was why you broke up with him will still be there - you will basically be going back into your old relationship and be faced with a lot of the same problems and issue.  If you think you can work things out and it will work this time then you should give it a shot.  However, if you know you can't work things out, then you should give your current relationship a try and stay with your new bf.
1123093
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
218642
U r asking what u should do... ?? U know that right..and u r the only person who knows that.. \n    If u love ur ex, then what on earth r u doing with ur present bf.. fooling him? What for.. For gaining the attention of ur ex?(which I think u have gained considering he wants to marry u).. So congratulations miss, u r successful.. But tell me one thing? Will u b happy with this lad  proposing u? I have most often come across ppl who go back to old lost loves and end up being even more hurt.. U have got to set ur priorities right!! Although thinking from the heart is what u would do, but making a little use of the head too is advisable!
822139
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
254168
Assess your emotions first, who do you love more? Who treats you better? Do you really think your ex still loves you or does he just want someone to help him with his baby? \n\nAnd before you do anything with your ex, talk with your current boyfriend.\n\nDon't just follow your heart, use your head as well.
809684
Sounds like the bf has some real issues.  He really did you wrong.  If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to prove himself.   I'd take anything REALLY slow.  Keep your eyes open, see if you can trust him again.
863982
girl sorry but you are confused and you need to get your priorities straight in the love department just really look inside your heart and talk to your  ex it sounds like you need sometime for yourself also try that if you can maybe it will work and clear your mind good luck
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
362206
Remember this: it's his loss. if he can just leave you like that then he is so not worth it! It's a really hard thing to hear, especially from someone you don't know, but trust me, I've been through it my self. You need to move on.
476530
Think by yourself, don't lie to yourself and see if you still love him or not. Maybe you miss him only because you used to see him often and now you lack something. This is definitely different from having feelings for him. Time will resolve the problem.