Husb & I R seperated;he's living with Mama now & in his 40s.?
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I think you're right, it's all about him and that's not fair to you.  Not sure what to think about him having an anxiety attack while on the phone with you, sounds kinda weak and shows that he's not very capable of coping.  Go get you someone with a spine.  Don't beat yourself up too much either, it sucks and it's all screwed up, but sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  So, hope for the best but prepare for the worst.  Good luck.
1080740
Oh MY GOSH!! That really makes my skin crawl, a son gives his mother his paycheck to pay her bills and SHE ACTUALLY TOOK IT!!! You need to be mad at both of them!!! And you need to remind him that HE has a family to provide for and that even though it is important for him to be there for his mom---THE KIDS AND YOU COME FIRST!! Whats NEXT?? Is he gonna let her come and live with you or will you be moving in with her because you got evicted because of this? Message me if you want to vent...I feel your pain.
245677
GIRL THAT IS YOUR APT... YOUR BROTHER DONT NEED TO LIVE WITH YOU FOR "FREE" HOW OLD IS THIS BROTHER? PLEASE SAY HE IS YOUNGER...LIKE HE IS 5-13 YRS OLD...\nIF YOUR BROTHER WANTS TO LIVE SOME WHERE FOR FREE LET HIM LIVE WITH HIS "MAMA"!!! :)
161469
is his mom dying or are they going thru a family crisis? if so, then it'll b ok. if not, he's giving u a MAJOR hint and so please don't b blind.
635402
No he is divorced, thankfully!!! He has 4 children in cuba and 2 in spain that makes a total of 6 children! Hope thats what you need!!!
484401
Gosh my mother in law moved in with us last year and was here for 9 months 10 days. The day she moved out was awesome. I like the lady but can not live with her.. Get out and get your own place.
421609
I'm with you in the same boat, maybe worse!  My ex's bimbo is set to the fact that their was NO life before her and HER kids - my ex and I had a son, who is now 8, and she won't allow him into THEIR house, and he allows her to treat him like that.  They do things with HER kids, and neglect our son.  She's a B**** in CAPS
900467
I'm divorced, with 2 kids of my own, that live with me, and I'll tell ya, until HE is right with himself, there is NOTHING you can do.  He has to figure out what the deal is himself.  And you may need to find an alternative.
771968
Honey\n\nYou and your hubby need to move out!\n\nEven if you have to live in a small dump, its better than putting up with the stress!!\n\nMove out soon!
908483
You calling them stooges may give an indication of why they keep their distance.  From my own experience I'd say you had mama during the good times, and now these are the bad times.  You probably need to put mama in a care facility before you end up in one yourself.\n\nForget forcing the brothers into anything, they are adults and have made their decision.  There are usually reasons for decisions like that also, so I won't judge them.
595874
it depends on his relationship with his mom.
562885
You are so selfish. It's all about money to you. It would be such a convenience to you if could just move in with him, no regard for how he or your kids feel. Maybe he knows this and that is why he is not moving the relationship forward. You need to give the poor guy a break and move away, learn how to deal with life on your own, and then try to get into a healthy relationship...
87011
I think he's going back to his wife and small children, and she realized that she's not ready to be a "mommy" and give up her freedom. US weekly has a article on it, I have yet to read it.\n\nWhat do you think?
807966
Sounds like he's pretty much over you.  I'd move out and move on with my life.  Sorry.
464203
Hey, you know, I am kind of in the same boat as you are, except for I have pretty much gone through having to hear my ex-husband cry to me every single time that I spoke with him to let me know how much is missed me.  I have two young boys with him, and believe me, it has been really hard, but thanks to my dear boyfriend who I now love a lot I have made it through.  I have been thinking about living with my boyfriend too, as my divorce will be in June, but it seems like I can't wait that long.  I don't know, but I just know that women seem to want things done much quicker and we don't like to wait to get what we want.  I would say to do what your heart tells you to do.
992598
ric should be getting mircle ear,  social security and living in an old folks home.  retire!!!!!
1021185
Could be he just wants to feel independant...and not thought of as a "mama's boy"...or perhaps things at home aren't going as well as he wants you to believe...and has withdrawn because of it. I prefer being alone myself quite often...and have been known to shut out family members at times...without thinking of how it may make them feel. I don't really have any suggestions except to continue being there for him...and hope that eventually he'll open up to you about what the true reason is for his distancing himself. Good luck! :)