My boyfriend has a problem with premature ejaculation.  How do I help?
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TRY A CREAM CALLED KUMASUTRA. IT WORKS REALLY GOOD.
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A great movie to watch that will be very helpful!\nhttp://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8271947477140788534&q=men%27s+health&hl=en\n\n\n\nOriginal Article:http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/premature-ejaculation/DS00578 \n \nPremature ejaculation\nIntroduction\nMany men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it's probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.\nPremature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.\nIn some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.\nNumerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation.\nSigns and symptoms\nThere's no medical standard for how long it should take a man to ejaculate. The primary sign of premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs before both partners wish in the majority of sexual encounters, causing distress for one or both partners. The problem can occur in all sexual situations, including masturbation, or may only occur during sexual encounters with another person.\nDoctors often classify premature ejaculation as either primary or secondary:\n·Primary premature ejaculation. You have primary premature ejaculation if you've experienced the problem for as long as you've been sexually active.\n·Secondary premature ejaculation. You have secondary premature ejaculation if you developed the condition after having had previous, satisfying sexual relationships without ejaculatory problems.\nCauses\nPremature ejaculation is considered a psychological problem in some cases. Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences, especially those in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered, may establish a lifelong pattern. If you grew up in a family that considered sex dirty or sinful, you may also have developed guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters.\nHowever, biological factors also may cause premature ejaculation. Some studies comparing men who experience premature ejaculation with those who don't have found differences between the two groups in certain hormone levels and in the sensitivity of their genitalia.\nRisk factors\nVarious factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:\n·Impotence. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently experience impotence. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to rush through sexual encounters.\n·Health problems. If you have a medical concern that causes you to feel anxious during sex, such as a heart problem, you may have an increased likelihood of hurrying to ejaculate.\n·Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.\n·Certain medications. Rarely, drugs that influence the action of chemical messengers in the brain (psychotropics) may cause premature ejaculation.\nWhen to seek medical advice\nTalk with your doctor if you ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish during most sexual encounters. The problem is common, and although you may feel you should be able to fix it on your own, you may need medical treatment to achieve and sustain a satisfying sex life.\nScreening and diagnosis\nDoctors diagnose premature ejaculation based on a detailed interview about your sexual history.
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play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
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The praecox ejaculation just is a PSYCHOLOGICAL problem. Besides, with that term is specified any ejaculation that occurs involuntarily during the sexual act and BEFORE the penetration can occur even. Any short time concerning the duration of the sexual act mustn’t confused with the premature ejaculation. In fact, medically the penetration and the ejaculation inside the vagina exclude the problem. Some drug could be taken, but ONLY with the consent of the doctor while for you problem there are some different method to use. It’s not the right place here to prolong and if you just has too shame to talk with the doctor I’ll advice you to buy some specific book.\nI guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our time (short or long) with our partner’s one!\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (you know) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stop frequently the penetration during the act (continuing to excite the partner anyway).\nThen, if you are able to have two acts consecutively, the most will already be done!
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Practice not ejaculating. There are books you can read to help you not ejaculate too fast. Leave your foreskin alone! Read some sex books. Foreskin is very sexy! No you will not last longer if you get your wang hacked.!\nOnly with practice and lots of it will you last longer! Also talk to your doctor to make sure nothings wrong!
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Premature Ejaculation is a very common and very serious problem suffer by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of premature ejaculation range from person to person and from psychological to physical. Men are frustrated of having ejaculation prior to female’s orgasm. The average time a male suffering from premature ejaculation is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate. \n\nWhat Should You Do?\nThe best solution is to strength your body and allow you to control yourself last longer. Try to delay ejaculation by practicing our highly effective and popular technique, “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique”. \n\nCome visit our Premature Ejaculation Resource Center for more information such as myths of PE, exercises, and herbs that can help. There you can find a technique we call the “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique” that will strengthen your body and allow you to control yourself to last longer.\n\nNatural Ejaculation Control Technique:\nhttp://www.herballove.com/library/resource/prematureejaculation/natural.asp
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There is nothing wrong with you! It it very common for the guy to climax before the woman. Try things to make it last longer don't let him quit till your done. Or  try more foreplay before sex or try doing whatever works for you when your alone. work it into the sex with your boyfriend. He'll like it too!! Good luck!!
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premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. It may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may contribute to the problem. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction and has probably affected every man at some point in his life
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There is no link between masturbation and premature ejaculation.  Who told you that, your mother?  If it's a big problem, maybe you should consult a professional.
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Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation\n\n\nWorried that you don't last long enough during sex? Feel like a “minute man”? Well, you’re not alone – not by a long shot. Premature ejaculation is the number one question we get here – more than penis size, more than pregnancy, more than STDs, more than anything. \n\nAn Army of Minute Men?\nOf course, you would never guess that premature ejaculation (PE) is so common, because nobody ever talks about it. Even if it’s really bugging them, most guys won’t even bring it up with their doctor. The truth is, almost every guy experiences this kind of tool trouble at least once or twice during his sexual career. And many, many more have an ongoing struggle with it. In fact, some statistics say 20 to 30% of all men experience PE. That’s around one in four. Way more guys have trouble with being too quick on the trigger than have a problem getting it up. That’s why we’re going to give you some straight answers on PE and what you can do about it. \n\nHow Long Should I Be Lasting? \nThe term “minute man” pretty much sums it up: if you shoot your wad in a minute or less after penetration, you probably have what would be called premature ejaculation. You might even come before you get it in. Technically, PE means you’re coming sooner than you want to or expect to during sex, you don’t have any control over it, and it’s stressing you out or making you feel bad. If you come in a couple of minutes, but you don’t mind and your girlfriend is cool with it, then there’s not really a problem. But if every sexual encounter climaxes with you saying to your date, “Oops, sorry,” then that qualifies as having a problem with PE. \n\nLet’s Get Real\nOf course, lots of guys have unrealistic expectations about how long they’re supposed to last while fucking, and even how long women want them to last. The guys in porn videos pound away for what looks like hours at a time, but that’s all staged. Like average penis size, stamina in bed is vastly overestimated. In real life, most men don’t really last all that long – some surveys put the average lasting time before ejaculation at about seven minutes, which means a lot of guys actually last less than that. If you’re young and amped up, three to four minutes is more like it. It’s simply not realistic to think that you should be able to fuck like a stallion for half an hour, then climax at will at the exact moment your expertly skilled thrusting brings your partner to a screaming orgasm. Believe us, it just doesn’t happen that way. And as far as what women want, the truth is, most women (60 to 70%) cannot come through fucking alone; even if you could go all night, they’d only get sore. So a few minutes of intercourse is probably enough as long as you can back it up with some other sexual skills like fingering and oral sex. \n\nWhat Causes Premature Ejaculation? \nIf you do have PE, there’s a small chance it’s being caused by a disease or a medication you’re taking, but this is rarely the case. Most of the time there is no clear reason for premature ejaculation, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes the majority of PE cases. Current theories focus on biochemical factors, such as how sensitive your nervous system is, or the role of the neurotransmitter serotonin. We can tell you for a fact what doesn’t cause PE. It is not caused by excessive masturbation, poor sexual technique, lack of willpower or control, or any personal inadequacy on your part. In other words, if you have PE, don’t blame yourself, and don’t worry too much about what’s causing it. Instead, focus on what you can do about it. \n\nProven Techniques for Lasting Longer\nProbably the most effective way of dealing with PE long term, and the treatment most commonly recommended by sexual experts, is using a method like the stop-start or pinch technique to slow down your reaction time once you get turned on. These methods have been devel
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Does my man have a disease if he can't cum?
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Talk to his doctor , his diabetic meds can be changed if you tall him the problem you have been having . As for as his erection do you help him ? You can give him oral or hand to get his penis hard enough to penetrate you . A man doesn't have to have a full erection to ejaculate . Can your husband get an erection through masturbation ? My advice is to please work with him , you sound like you care very much , talk to his doctor first . Good luck there is help , Patrick
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He is ejeculating at nights  when he sees wet dreams proves his "Johnny" is fine.\nThe problem might be somewhat psychological\nTry giving him good view of ur beautifull assets and give a good amount of foreplay, it might work.\nvikram_s_bhatt@yahoo.co.in
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Try to do workouts and more kegals..... Also talk with your doctor and see what they suggest. He also needs to make sure you are really lubed up and ready for him. He should try oral on you and let you climax and then use ky jelly and be gentle and slow and take his time so he does not hurt you. Have you tried being on top so that you can control things? Try buying a couples toy so that during intercourse you both are stimulated.... I hope this helps you some and i wish you the best.
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Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck