I want to marry Alpan and i think it is time she said she had been in love with me since the 8 th grade and I?
141527
Marriage isn't going to be a magic carpet ride. Wait on the vows. You are both too young. Maintain the relationship, pursue your goals, education whatnot,maybe even live together in a couple of years unless that goes against your beliefs. There is no rush. Besides somewhere between your middle twenties and early thirties your both going to change how you view things, trust me on this. It is better to wait and see if you are still compatible in several years rather than go through the heartbreak of a divorce and possibly have young children that would be dissappointed. It may in the end work out. I know of a couple that has been together since their preteens, now in thier fifties, and still happy. Believe it, it's true! But they only got married after they attended college and secured their positions in the work force.
567924
for sure you can, you will not marry her tomorrow, right? there will be more time till marriage, and remember, in old times 'my grandfathers' they were marrying ladies younger than them by more than 10 years, they believed in that, and they were happy and their marriages were so successful. In case you really believe she loves you 'loving is so different than impressed, remember, ladies in her age are impressed by your age, make sure she knows what love is, and that she really loves you', Go Ahead! Good Luck!
388931
22 years we have been together since my school days she has been so caring i am33
396225
Accept her decision if you sincerely care for her. If thet time is right things will happen for the two of you. I also think that you should really think this realtionship through! You say you have been together for three years yet you have only seen her for a total of six weeks thats not healthy in a realationship. Did you ever think that she might have someone in her country? Just think it over and if she is still the one ask her to marry you. Good Luck!
73063
You are off your rocker. She said she still "loves" you? Love means that when you take those wedding vows "I do", you are for one another. She broke those vows. Be a man, grow a spine, and tell her that if she wants that, get the eff out.  BTW, it sounds like it's easier for her to get some extra than for you to. You're in for a rough time.
356411
don't worry about it, if its meant to happen in time it will. Besides you are both still young and alot will change for you both in the near future.
389707
i married my first girlfiend at the start of the year we have been together for 6 years and have 2 kids i liked her at school she didnt like me we were best mates but now we are married so she was my sweetheart but i wasnt hers
696717
tell them that ur in the 7th grade and they r in the 6th grade, that its to soon to know wat love really is, and that u wanna play the feild untill ur really ready to settle down, and that might not be for a while.
304733
you sould go to her and tell that you love her since 5th grade and if she feels same way you feels about her she should break up her bf and be with you because you can't wait any longer for her
845958
dont be like me and wait for 7 years....ask her out!!!!!!!!!!!!!
377180
she's already married to me!!!
449424
if we will be basing it according to your age, it will be fine , however, you have the same blood as hers coz your in the  same family. besides, she's getting married in a few weeks so.. maybe she should wait til that time comes. and, if she wants you as her partner, tell her just to imagine u.
138531
Explain to her that you love her and if you could change the past, you would. Good luck!
1117071
dont ever Miss out on the huge endless possibilities..make a sacrifice on life..who knows..maybe clearing up your time for her might have been the best choice youve ever made in your life..doesnt hurt to try.good luck bro
482250
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
202091
Did you skip English in high school?  Are you even out of high school??  Sounds to me like you are to young to get married.  Just take your time.
1162117
i know it is hard to let someone go  when your in love but sometimes its the best thing to do. She knows that you in love with her and she thinks your never going anywhere so she is playing with your emotions. as long as you let her walk over you she is going to do if she love you so much and want to marry you  she would do anything in her power to make your realtionship work. but believe me she going do what she wants to . you need to show her your strong and you deserve someone that will respect and love not some on thats wants her cake and eat it to. believe she come around and when she does it will be to late because you moved  on the old saying goes you never miss a good thing untill its gone. i hope you are strong enough to let her go . i wish you the  best of luck keep me updated