i have choosen to live without sex untill i am married, can i find a guy who shares thesame believe with me?
152131
yes..the guy that i am getting married to has that same belief
29217
If neither one of you is willling to make an effort then you've already lost this one, 50% of your married life is spent in the marital bed, more than any part of the household. If you cannot find sanctuary, salvation and more importantly fullfilment in the bedroom, then what else is there to hope for?
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No I would not..  Marriage is not based on just sex...  It is based on communication, honesty, trust, love, passion.\n\nYou should do things together. Like go to the movies, dinner, for a walk, sports etc.  \n\nYou should ask him why he doesn't spend any quality time with you..  Other than when you are having sex....   And let him know you feel about it...
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You can not tell me you really think your going to make a difference when you have a active sex life, and that God cares?\nGod gave a book to read, he gave us messages to obey, and dude, you have no clue, \nnone about what God wants, he is not flesh, nor blood, he could care less about sex, he has no sex parts.\nGet over yourself
1179177
I DONT KNOW GET MARRIED HAVE SEX AND STOP BEING HORNY? I DONT KNOW SEE A DOCTOR...GET A VIBRATOR LOL.. IT WILL HELP IF YOU DONT HAVE A BF OR ARENT MARRIED LOL..
415726
not at all.but thats what you belive in, some people belive in no sex til marriage, others dont.\n I would have died, or killed my toy if I had to wait til I got married to my hubby now...almost 2 yrs later? whoa! lol
67846
NO!! sex is something that you should wait until you get marry. and if you have to ask that just means you not ready. dont give it up just b/c this guy wants it. if he turely loves you tell him to wait and to keep his hands above the shoulders
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Are you religious, go to church? If not, sure there are some males that believe in saving yourself for marriage that are not religious ... I used to know a few that went to church on a regular basis that were naughty Monday thru Saturday though.\n\nI know there has to be some guys out there that want to save themselfs for the right girl ... I wish you luck in your search.
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Age is a important factor in your question. If you are very young maybe he signed one of the abstinence pledges, to not have sex until marriage. If you are older, you may want to talk to him and find out if he is serious about your relationship and if he thinks about marriage at all, find out where he is at, or you are wasting valuable time, where you could find someone who is serious about your relationship, don't be a filler for when he has nothing better to do.\nTake care of yourself. You deserve to be happy. Good Luck.
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sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married
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Yes and No.  If you save yourself for marriage, you won't have anything to compare it to, so sex will be great.  You also won't have to worry about getting pregnant and being some baby's mama.  And you'll also be at less risk of contracting an STD.
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While I'm not a guy... I had to respond on this one..\n\nWhile waiting to have sex until your married is a honorable decision, it doesn't make sense.  You have to be happy in all parts of your marriage.  Since you'll be with that person until 'death do you part', wouldn't you like to sample the wares before buying them?  I know that sounds crude, but waiting until you get married can cause a lot of problems in the marraige...\n\n-Doubts and daydreams over what it might have been like with another person.  Could it be better?  Could lead to cheating.\n\n-Sexual problems - this one can be open ended and limitless.\n\nSo while you shouldn't go sleep with any Tom, Dick, Harry, or Jane... you should probably consider having sex with your fiance/girlfriend/boyfriend before you get married...
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Hey i think i have heard this one before too... but I'm not sure where in the Bible, but the truth is that the Bible tells us that we should not have sex before marriage or outside the marriage so perhaps leaving with the Guy in the same room while you are not married means there's more temptation of you having sex so as to avoid the temptation, you should not be living together!x
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Maybe you have not yet met the man that God wants you to be with. You may someday be very comfortable with someone knowing that they are the one for you. Another possibility is that God has something very special planned for your life and needs to keep you pure to be used by Him. My wife has an Aunt in her sixties and she is still a virgin and has no regrets about it. There is no such thing as the norm in how peoples emotions work when it comes to relationships. Trust in God to lead you the right way.
945449
Try to get along with another guy. I respect your push toward chastity. That is the right thing to do until marriage. Now with your sadness, you can get joy. All you need to do is remember the good times that you had with him and think about how well you and he will do after this. If you need more help, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
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If you're really concerned about it, suggest to him that you spend a few weeks without it... to build the excitement.  Tell him while you're not having sex, you can get into other things in your relationship... whatever suits you guys.  You could just hang out and play games (cards, board games, etc) and talk/snuggle.  You could go to amusement parks or go hiking.  You could go to museums, go to church... just whatever it is that fits you guys.  If you all can make it through that comfortably, and you actually CAN fill your time without sex... then I think you might be alright.  =)
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I believe indefinitely, for a woman.  I lived at the hospital with my husband for 3 months, 9 yrs. ago.  The thought of sex was not there.  He did die.  When you don't think about sex, there is no problem.  I could go on indefinitely without sex.  And I don't need to masturbate.  Keep busy at all times.  Life is more interesting and fun that way, anyway.