how to set limits for others without being offinsive or rude??
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You can not control how others will react or feel by what you say. If someone is crossing your boundry line,it is up to you to say so, they can't read your mind. Choose your words carefully, say it kindly and all is done. If someone thinks that you are rude and you have been as kind as possible then that is their problem not yours.\n I need to do this quite often. So many people are touchers to even complete strangers and I suffer from chronic pain where sometimes even the lightest breeze can cause pain I would wish on no one. I just have to tell people straight out, or my husband does, to be gentle with me. I won't break, but I will suffer pain. And you know what there are people who are then offended and think I am rude for not wanting to be punched on arm or bear hugged, some people just have no thought for anyone but themselves
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honestly this question will vary by person to person. one person will say none at all,never where pink no way not me some will say a little bitt maybe in the shoes or the shirt. others will say maybe a little more like a shirt that is all pink and others will probable say that there is no limit. so my advice to you is to set  your own limit and where what and how much you want.
89008
straight up tell them and at the right moment.not whn there is a bunch of ppl around
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ACT FRIENDLY.  Don't remind them of their visciousness.\n\nBut don't trust them about anything.
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Tell you host/hostess or server that you'd like to move to a quieter table. You wouldn't "straighten out" your fellow guests if this were a private event, you'd bring the matter to the attention of the person hosting the event and let them handle it. \n\nThe same principle applies to public accomodations, except you can be a little demanding since you are a PAYING guest in that case. You want to eat in peace. Leave it up to managment if and how they accomodate you. If they don't handle the problem well, then you know never to go back there. \n\nDon't "punish" your server by omitting a tip. If you think the affair was really "over the top", send a letter to the owner or the parent corporation.
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Everyone is uptight because they are trying to cram too much into too little time. It's stress, and I doubt it is going to get any better. That doesn't mean they can't be nicer, because pretty much everyone is in the same boat. The only thing you can do is try to set an example. Maybe if you are kind and patient it will make someone's day easier, and because of that, they will be a little nicer to soemeone else.
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tell her to f**k off and what you want to do with your body is your bussiness. there always going to be people who are going to be jelous and in most cases you should ignore them but telling her off might make you feel better and put her in her place at the same time just dont be so loud or let it escalate into a fight or you might get fired
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Know your limitations!!!
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be open and honest with them, sometimes being polite is not the right thing to do, just tell them that you dont want to talk to them and if its really that bad say you dont want to talk to them now or ever again.
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Honesty is your best tool. I was on sales once and I hated people that gave me an appointment just because he/she was shy to tell me "no" on the phone. They make me waste my time and I make them waste theirs. So a polite "no thanks" (because he/she is only trying to bring food to the table) is more than enough.
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Ignore them and find something in life to take your attention from them. Like the saying of a vampire you have to invite them in so don't do that.
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be the bigger person.  Just say hi.  If you don't have to talk to her, don't say anything at all, just avoid the situation.  If she says something rude, just say something nice back, or say something like 'if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all'.  Or, say something like, 'gee, thanks for your opinions.  I'll take that into consideration' (it's a good way to just end conversations without being rude).  In the end, just remember that you'll be the happier person in the end, becuase you can talk to people without being rude/opinionated/starting a fight.,\nGood luck!
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A good tact would be to talk about sacrifices you or others make to help others.  Also, think of things people don't necessarily want to do, but do anyway because they know it's the right thing.
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U cant force people 2 like people sry :)
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* Always be the better person\n* Be respectful of other people (no matter how rude they can be)\n* Work harder... no, hardest!\n* Watch your back
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Be nice to them..Treat them with respect and let them know that they matter..
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well, those things i dont think you can really control without offending someone. i think the most you can do is try to encourage everyone to dress nicely. and remind them that how they look reflects how much they care about their job and the business they work for.