can one love her bestfriend (a lady) more than a man?
148820
Yes ofcouse it depends upon the person
219758
No. But I'm not really attracted to my best friend's wife. If she was a supreme hottie, then maybe. If she was hotter than my fiancee, the probably. But that's on the opposite side of possibility.
1121732
There is no limit to love someone . Its all between the single or two hearts . I feel the way how to live with her . There is no ful stop to given for love . I LOVE YOU its an word to live in this world to happy and also make the life happy .
1034943
Love for the person of the same sex.
269467
Some of us can. I have a girlfriend I am completely happy with. The ONLY interest I have in any other women is as a friend. As for those who can't, they're probably wondering why you can't just accept that they don't want to just be friends. If you just want to be friends, and a guy wants to be more than friends, don't bother with him. You have different ideas about where your relationship should be headed. Or if you do choose to spend time with a guy like that, make it very clear that you're only interested in being friends, that you're not comfortable with him trying to be anything more, and if he makes any advances on you, don't tolerate it.\n\nAdded:\nIf you don't hear from them after you've made it clear that you only want to be friends, the only interest they had in you was as more than a friend. They weren't willing to settle for less, and they have as much right to make that decision as you do to decide that you just want to be friends. Simple as that. What you wanted wasn't enough for them, what they wanted was too much for you. Best to go your separate ways.
569068
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
1144304
depends on how the relationship is.  it can be vice versa.  if the man is really happy with his woman then he wouldn't be able to think of anyone else same for the woman
388655
I don't think it is possible to love two people (romantically). If you lust someone else, you probably don't love your wife at all.
150450
Yes, if she truly loved him to begin with. Love is more than sex.
702576
To love is also to know that you may not be the best for each other.  If you both can't let go of your egos then there is no chance for the relationship no matter how much you love each other.  I would suggest you become your own best friend before you take on another relationship.
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
526581
Although it is possible to love two or more people at the same time, I do not believe that this is the case.  I think that the romance has gone out of your marriage and you find it easier to be romantic with another woman than to rekindle the romance in you marriage.\n\nFor a married man to have a romantic relationship with another woman is folly.  It is thinking with the "little head."  Either divorce your wife to pursue another woman, or go to counseling with your wife to correct your martial problems.  Do one or the other before someone gets hurt.
518913
It depends in what context. Love of a friend, probably not. More than that, most definately.
665567
You can only love someone as much as you love yourself.\nI beleive that this statement is true.
380361
Loving her as a woman (by a man-like heart/feelings) is a sin yes. But now that you finally loved her as a friend or rather as bestfriend, I think both of you should know the limitations of your relationship by now. It is possible that, during your adjustment, you find yourself doing things that you used to do while you were lovers. Try to be watchful of your actions. I'm not advising you to avoid her but I do advise you to avoid being off guard just to caught yourself doing your old ways again. If its hard to control, its about time for the two of you to take a week off not seeing each other.
763424
Yes. You can love another person in a non-physical manner.
595077
It sounds like you desperately look for a woman.\nMaybe the way you treat a lady that keep the lady around you dont want to make you as their boyfriend.\nI have ever experience this.\nI have 1 closest friend. He is so handsome, I cant believe it why I dont fall in love with him. He said that he love me but I say "No thanks, I dont want to loose a best friend like you". It is because he is so nice, he was always there when I need a shoulder to cry on or to lean on. He knows how to treat a lady. He then finally get married, And I got the feeling that "I am so dumb"... why he marry someone else? Why not me?\n\nThen.... I think, you are just like my friend\nYou are too perfect to be a husband!! and better to have you as a friend\n\nSorry if my answer is too long