How can you get a man to be more experienced in bed? How I can I get him to try knew things?
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Living Out the Top 3 Female Fantasies\nSex life feeling a bit stale? Well, there's one sexual organ most people neglect: the brain. And it's your passport back to Sexual Nirvana. Literally millions of us secretly use fantasies during masturbation, and some of us use them to achieve orgasm during sex. So why not own up to your favorites and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years? Just follow this step-by-step guide.\nFantasy #1: He's a virgin  - and you're Mrs. Robinson\nWhy it appeals to you: It's a power game and "forbidden" sex for both parties, which is always a guaranteed libido-lifter.\nWhat you'll need: A "sexy secretary"-type outfit works for this one: a long pencil skirt, shirt unbuttoned to show off a push-up bra, stockings and high heels.\nThe action plan:\nThe trick to this one is to move very slowly at first. You're seducing him, and he's struggling  - torn between ripping off your clothes and worrying about the consequences. (What will his mom say if she finds out? Is she really seducing him or is he reading too much into it?) Say you're going to fix a drink for each of you, then lead him into the lounge room with your drinks. He sits on the couch, you sit on a chair opposite, crossing your legs and hiking your skirt high. He's not sure where to look. Make general chit-chat (the sort of stuff you'd ask your son's friend, if you have/had a teenager), then take the conversation to another  - saucier  - level. Tell him you don't think your husband finds you attractive anymore. Ask him, Does he think you're attractive? What bits? Why? Let him squirm with embarrassment as he tries to be diplomatic  - and tries to hide his erection.\nAt that point you say, You seem a little uncomfortable and move from the chair to sit beside him on the couch. Loosen the first two buttons of his shirt and rub the back of your hand against his exposed chest saying, Such soft skin. So unlike my husband's. As he squirms, undo the top few buttons of your shirt, take his hand and place it on your breast. Ask him if he likes that.\nIn between your lurid requests and actions, keep making small talk. Ask him if he's ever made love to a woman before. He'll squeak out a no. Ask him if he'd like to make love to you, and tell him it's okay  - you won't tell. Ask him to take off your top and your bra. Tell him to touch your breasts and instruct him on how you like to be touched. Moan and sigh, but remember: You're still the grown-up  - so not too out of control. Ask him to stand up in front of you and unzip his pants. Admire his body, compliment it, say how hard it is, then give him exquisitely tortuous oral sex  - stopping just short of orgasm.\nUndress yourself theatrically while maintaining eye contact. Let his eyes caress your body, but don't let him touch you. Leave on your high heels and stockings. Pose provocatively and caress your curves. Ask him if he likes what he sees and if he wants to touch you. Then undress him, kissing each bit of his flesh as it becomes exposed. When you're both naked, lead him to the bed, then explain exactly how to make a woman scream in ecstasy. Each touch, kiss, fondle and thrust is his very first, remember. The fantasy ends when he completely loses control  - which should happen within about, ohhh, three minutes if you've played your part properly!\n\nFantasy #2: He's your sex slave\nWhy it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.\nWhy he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?\nWhat you'll need
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you have to talk and you have to hope he is mature about it and you have to be patient however i will tell you this a great time for a guy is at best a good time for a women he needs to pay more attention to what rocks your world and be willing to go further and it may still take adding sex toys \nhope you can get it to be better ..
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Practice, practice, practice, everytime you suck him off trying going a little deeper than the last time and a little deeper than after a while you will do it. this won't happen overnight though. more women should want to do that
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i would probably find a way to work through it.  watch a flick with him so that he could probably get some tips on how to do it right, or just show him what you like, or the two of you could have an open discussion on getting more fire in the bedroom...
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As for you, you can ask him to give you some more foreplay since you already know that you love it.  As for him, he's going to have a better idea about what he wants than any of us.  There's no need to get ideas from complete strangers on Yahoo answers when all men aren't equal and we don't know what's going to excite him.  Please ask him about what turns him on.  Perhaps he has an unfulfilled sexual desire like a fetish or a fantasy.  As long as it's reasonable, you could try to fulfill that fetish or fantasy.  If he's perfectly fine, then maybe he could add more foreplay for you.
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This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.\n\nFinally, don’t feel bad – MOST girls can’t achieve orgasm from penetration alone, and need to have some direct clitoral stimulation in addition to whatever sort of other stimulation they are receiving.  Just let you guy know that.  Most guys – particularly young guys – are not aware of this.\n\nWhen it comes to putting something inside of you:\n\nFirst, you want to make sure that your guys fingers, like anything else that goes inside of you, are clean and soft, without any scratchy parts or roughness.  Get him to use lotion all the time, and make sure that he keeps his nails clipped and CLEAN.  Generally anything that would not feel OK on the inside of your cheek, will not feel ok inside you other places either.\n\nIf your guy gets very deep inside of you he can touch the opening of your uterus – it is actually a rather prominent feature inside of your vagina and it can be uncomfortable for some girls if it is not treated carefully.  You should consider slipping a finger or two inside of yourself and exploring until you find the opening of your uterus so that you know what it feels like when a guy plays with it (and they all will).  It is also not a bad idea to simply know your way around your own body.\n\nIf you are not producing enough lubrication, and you are not using an additional sexual lubricant, ANYTHING, including your own, or your boyfriends fingers will be uncomfortable.  Check to make sure that you are wet enough, and wait until you are, or use a lubricant if you are not.\n\nIf your guy is using too many fingers too quickly, then you may well experience some discomfort from the stretching associated with that as well.  Some girls, (many I think when it is done correctly) enjoy the stretching sensation of a large object inside of them, but it takes time, and it takes a lot of lubrication to do it in a way that is enjoyable and not painful.\n\nIf you have not had sex
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well first of all put on sum sexy lingerie,dim the lights, maybe cook up sumthin nice for him and just try and make everythin romanitc and when he comes in u can pounceon him and start givn him **** or just take it kinda slow at first but b sexay and kinda tease him.u can evn take the lead..my man luvs when i do that lol..then maybe try sumthin new,not just the same thing everytime it will get old!!! well i hope i helped u!! good luck sweetie
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He needs to get more comfortable with you. try talkin to him. Better yet, when you are together just kiss him or massage his ego a bit by telling him how sexy he is.
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You need to watch out for changes he may have made in his wardrobe, cologne, etc. Also is he wanting to try new things in bed. Keep an eye out.
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I don't know possible a good "tool" in action will be the great.Respect her during sex or maybe watch the porn movie before sex & learn some sex skill inside might can help.
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try something new. be open to more stuff. maybe a little oral... a little anal... a little s&m... a little roleplay... a few 3-ways... and trust me, he'll be happy, dont be afraid to be a freak.
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If he isn't satisfying you sexually then find someone who can. Trust me it will only get less and less. Try being around him nude more. Or maybe try something a bit more fun, http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962962813?v=glance\n\nIf you can't drum up his enthusiasim with seductions like the ones in 101 nights then maybe talk sex more often. Try keeping sex talk just talk, no pressure to preform. Talk about fantasies, ask him to tell you his fantasies that he thinks you might be offended by. Communication is the number one key to sexually satisfying relationship. If you can't discuss topics like preformance anxiety, jealousy, fantasy, or sexual expectations. then you will never have as healty a sex life as you can. Maybe suggest going to a strip club together
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You know how guys can  make their d*** move by flexing thier muscle down there? Have him practice moving it up and down like that, it will strengthen it and he will start to last longer.
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Just because he's more experienced, doesn't mean that he's had GOOD experience.  You may want to try coaching him verbally.  Or it might be a good idea to demonstrate how you'd LIKE to be kissed.  You can do this in a sneaky way, too.  Just tell him to relax, sit back, and let you kiss him without him kissing back (works best if you're sitting together rather than standing).  This can also be a BIG turn-on, though, so be prepared...  If he likes it, he'll probably pick up the technique.
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It is not that he is not good in bed.  The problem is that you are encouraging him to do the wrong thing by lying to him!\n\nGuys are most vulnerable when in bed, they are there to try to please you, and you just crushed him!  Say you are very, very sorry for lying then make it right!\n\nBe honest.  Let him know what he can do to get you to orgasm.  If you don't know yourself, buy a book on love making and start at page one, and figure it out.
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Don't struggle too much in taking the sex life to a higher level. Act naturally and you and your guy will grow together, experimenting and learning and understanding each other. There are no laid down shortcuts to "put you over the edge".
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you know your body better than anyone.  Teach him how to please you and then you won't have to be upset afterwards..They can be taught how do you think they know as much as they do before they get to you.