How do I get out of the situation I am in?
145439
Dont answer the phone. And always be busy get out there and find stuff to do even if it just walking or driving around get out and enjoy yourself, get to know yourself and what you want. For goodness sakes girl you are a grown woman with a mind expand it.
606616
Girl, if I did it, you can too...you need to stop saying that you can't leave and say that you can.  If you want to get out, then GET OUT.  How in the hell does someone have that much power over you?  AND BLACKMAILING YOU?  WHAT ARE YOU, A POLITICIAN????  Leave child, because there isn't a man on these green planet that could hold me back from anything...and while you're at it, grow some backbone, cuz honey!!!!!!!!!!  Couldn't be ME!  \n\nSee, people like you who say they can't stand something and that it's hell and they want to get out usually want to stay.  If you really want to leave...let me give you the secret that has been passed down from generation to generation:\n\nGET THE F U C K OUT BEFORE HE KILLS YOU!  \nThen maybe you'll be satisfied!  Don't mean to be harsh on you, but you need someone to kick you in the behind...too many people in your life have rubbed your head and told you it's okay instead of telling it like it is!  Leave him if you really want to, or stay...it's your life...
814053
Don't worry about how you got there.  Just figure out how to get out.  First step is to get a job - any job, you are not making a lifetime commitment to the job so you can always change jobs when you find something better.  First concern is getting a paycheck and second is getting medical benefits.  Once you have a source of income. find a cheap place to live.  Get a small apartment, and keep expenses down.  You can eat cheaply by getting nothing ready-made.  Save whatever you can to give yourself some breathing space.  (The one luxury I recommend is pets, possibly two cats.  If you get two they can keep each other company and if you go to a rescue place you can get an older animal so you don't have to train a puppy or kitten.)  Improve your skills one at time so you can get better jobs or move up where you are. Sign up a community college and take one class at a time, or more if you can manage it.  (Besides improving yourself, that takes up time so you won't spend as much money doing other stuff.)  You are young, you don't need to have it all together at this point.  Just work on moving forward!
342692
you should never run away from your problems. that only makes them intensify and makes you look cowardly. the best thing to do would to confront your problems and learn to deal with them. that might not be the easy way but it's the right way. and you could learn alot this way to.
623365
The best way would be to not put yourself in a position where it would be hard for you to say no.  Go to public places, have other people around you - that way you are not tempted to do anything.  Keep yourself busy by doing other things that interest you.
573159
If they are really causing you this much trouble, you need to get out.  If they really are the reason you have lost jobs, you need to get away from them, or you will never be independent.  Get your own phone line.  While making the transition, avoid them as much as possible.  Go to potential job sites in person, and explain that you cannot be reached by phone at this time, or give a phone number for a friend who you can trust.  Do not tell your sister where you work.  Soon, you will have enough to get your own place, and get away from this.
61399
dont just sit and wait for someone to help you, ive been in that situation. call your local housing authority for help. they can help you find a place, and will covor alot of costs, until you recover enough to get permanent employment. the government HAS to help you. there are lots of ways to get help for this, and you just took a right step.
187576
will am sorry to here what ur going through is realy hard \n\nu must call ur dad and tell him about everything and am sure he will get u out of the house. \n\ncz in my opinion u need someone to help u out u must not stay without talking. u must find help go to police social advicer any one can help to improve ur life cz if u stay like this ur life will be affected in futuer.\n\ni dont know talk to ur mom tell her the truth be honest with her tell her whats bothering u maybe she will lisnt she must lisnt. and remmeber god with u pray to him and he will clear ur path.\n\ni hope every thing will fine.
431361
I think you should move out even if your not sure you can do the things suggested by the previous posted. Don't go far enough that you can't get help if you really need it and so people who care about you can keep an eye on how your doing, but also pride yourself on your new found independence and don't run to them for simple things. Get roommates if you can, it lowers your rent and helps you get a better feel for things - roommates usually don't operate like a family, they operate like independent individuals living under the same roof, and they can teach you a lot if you need to learn.
605726
pull yourself together.\nyou know you want to.
954157
Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
270473
Sorry for your situation.  Try a shelter temporarily and the shelter will probably have some additional resources for you for the long term.  I also like the idea of getting welfare until you can get yourself back on your feet.
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
735787
Your between Morro Rock and a hard spot! Move out and learn a big lesson. It's the only way to get a peaceful life back.
259362
Call 911 and get help.  If you are so bad off that, you are doing those things to yourself, the odds of you pulling yourself out of it are quite remote, but the help out there for you these days is just awesome.  \n\nIf you are in a situation that you have no health benefits that will pay for this kind of medical care, go out and find a job that has them, even if it means taking a step back financially, in the long-run you will be much better off financially as well as mentally.\n\nJohn B.
951854
You entered into a binding contract. The only way you can get out is to negotiate a settlement of some sort (i.e. pay half).
758220
You need to get going- get out and do something