how do i stop vaginal secretion.how can i control my anger?
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i dont get the joke or riddle here could it be that you are lost and need directions to the proper category??...i think so
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take martial arts like judo and karate and aikido.\nyou will learn to control yourself and your response to situations.\ntruly this is the key. \nothers recommend talk therapy, which might help,\nbut i think you also need to involve your body.\nthere's also something called bioenergetics that helps\nrelease a lot of anger.  you could try it.  kind of expensive.
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There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
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I didn't learn how to control this until I read a book called Sexual Solutions by Michael Castelman. He spends 30 pages on it.  Do Kegels, learn to control your breathing, move slower.\n\nAnd go. .d.o.w.n. .on her first, before you even start doing any penetrating.  Make sure she has lots of orgasms before you even start.
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Let all that pressure and pain out another way. Try to find the courage to tell someone what you are doing. This doesn't have to be an adult. A close friend is good. If you cannot bring yourself to instigate this 'confession', turn the tables. If you are asked, admit it. And be honest to yourself about the reasons why you are doing it. Trust me - it will be a relief and only after admitting it will you be able to find other outlets and a way to mend the pain that is causing you to feel the need to self-mutilate.\n\nA great outlet is acknowledgeing how you feel and sharing this with someone else. Just having someone else understand is a huge release. Also knowing you are not the only one doing this.  And the feeling of being unburdened...\n\nYou are not mad so do not worry about what others might think. Find someone to confide in - it really will help.
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No, there's no way to stop it, I'm afraid, other than to stop enjoying sex or stop getting aroused. \n\nHe should be more understanding. Would he prefer you to be as dry as sand?
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No joke - I had a friend who went to anger management classes and I went with him for support one night and the instructor told the class that the best way to curb your anger streak is to have plenty of sex - She claimed the release of endorphines keeps a person from being angry - the more sex you have the more peaceful you become she said - needless to say my friend tried to use this as a means to get laid - I did not oblige him - and not getting laid only made him angrier and we stopped being friends so I dont know if plenty of sex really works to fend of anger but its worth a shot as long as you wont loose a friend over it!!!
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Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
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ok lift your labia majora upwards and try aiming in a tub or something. it works for me!
1123013
Quit having unprotected sex...simple as that. It is rarely transmitted in other ways any more.
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I've struggled with these. Here's what's worked: regular (twice daily for a week), long, hot sitz baths, avoidance of alcohol and greasy foods when acute symptoms present. Regular ejaculations may or may not help. What doesn't work real well for me is a long course of antibiotics. I would also try to get a chlamydia culture.  The little buggers are hard to culture, but if they do, you might have an over abundance and consider a drug intervention against them.  Good luck. Don't give up. I used to get flair ups every year or so but haven't had a bad one in several years.
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Play games and release my anger! RAUUGH!
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I agree...use your hand, it will relieve the tension and you won't be frustrated.\np.s., if your looking at porn, it will only make it worse, you know?
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Learn to control your mind.  You are currently giving it control over your actions.  If you cannot stop this, then turn your mind to a different subject.\nPhysical activity usually helps.  Yoga is even better.
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Yes please! I have some pent up anger that needs releasing ;)
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Talk to your brother. Tell him he picked a whore. Expect a mad brother, but a wiser one. Make sure he doesn't go back to her. It's guaranteed you're not the only one who was dipping his wick. \n\nStep away. Cut off all contact from the woman. \n\nYou might think of getting tested for VD if you didn't use a condom.
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Congratulations. Take it slow, communicate your actions, use K-Y jelly. Use birthcontrol if your not ready to begin having children. Enjoy the night.