why we have to fall in love?
138162
We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
233489
Because there are too many slips. So everyone should fall in love carefully so that he/she can maintain the relationship for long.
15914
sometimes it is love at first sight,but i believe you need to make sure you two can communicate good before saying i love you,and make sure you become friends first.If you can`t communicate there is no sense of falling in love because that love will be gone from one end before you know it.
237354
i believe people can fall in love wirh anyone and anything. So i do beleive that someday humans and robots wit high ai will fall in love.
1096506
There is no such thing (to me) as falling in love.  You are first attracted to a person but you need to take the time to get to know them from the inside out. That takes time. Years even.  A lot of time when people are building a relationship based on some foundations of trust, loyalty, honesty, likenesses, etc. love follows.  When you say you love someone, if you truly know the meaning - Read ! Corinthians 13.  It explains love like nothing else.
586537
There is probably more wisdom in this question than in any answer you'll get!\n\nI think you hit it with your last thought:  Real love, instead of infatuation.\n\nPeople who 'fall in love' are not in control, they are at the mercies of their infatuation/attraction/etc.  REAL love is something that a person must CHOOSE, like choosing to dive into a pool.  Once you start, you're committed; and even if you change your mind, you're gonna get wet before you get back out.  Most people make this choice without realizing that they were in control, because usually they are allowing their desires to drive their choice; they willingly follow their desires to the edge, knowing what is at the end but unaware that they could just stop allowing themselves to be led around so.  Still, the choice was made.  If more people recognized it, there would be fewer people 'falling out of love,' because they would not have walked into it so blindly.\n\nRise in love!  That's wonderful!  And a much better analogy for the power true love has, anyway.
101975
Getting to know each other is one way to find out a lot about each other. I believe from that you can fall in love. It's best to be friends at first anyway, to truely know that person.
271225
Falling in love because there is so much that can happen when your falling in love, the sky is the limit.  To be in love means you have gone through the motions and now you are stable in the love you have made.
1052176
To fall in love is a magical thing. It involves two person to be connected through physical,mental & psychological attractions. So...it is never too soon but the best time is when you're sure of it. Nothing beats a good relationship with a impressive foundation. The foundation is what you form during your dates or outings together.
459944
Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.
672431
i believe we fall in love with people who make us feel good about our selves.. or compliment what we believe. it is joined by the word attraction.. liking looks ,smell ...conversation or mannerisms of someone. love is putting your needs before  my own. what i mean by that is not being used by you.. but an example would be like a mom not eating so the kids can have something in their stomachs.  a person in love sacrifices.. some things so the one the love can have a need fulfilled. hurting when the person you love hurts. if his or her feelings are hurt..or loses a job..etc. wanting the best for somone even if the best means it will happen without you. too many people get the attraction and the feeling good part and call it love. but when the looks change(person gains weight) or the person gives contructive criticism(you drink too much or you need to do more around the house) they call it quits and say i dont love u anymore. in actuality they never did love. love is not turned off like a faucet. people get lust ..infactuation and sexual attraction confused with love. love does not see wrinkles ..love doesnt compete.. or abuse.
30304
people should know if they are in love, because that moves us. it makes up all of our emotion. we feel glad, sad, restless and all those stuff. and we should know that we are in love because its a great feeling.
723999
It’s that feeling of gazing into each other’s eyes with excitement and interest, discovering that you love each other, and it’s better than you ever imagined it would be. It’s being able to love unencumbered.\n\nIt's easy to fall in love -- much harder to maintain it over time. People who are in love with being in love would do anything to keep a relationship together, even when the love is long gone. \n\nBreaking out of the habit of loving being in love so much that you don't see the truth isn't easy. It takes clarity as well as will at the beginning of a relationship. This means knowing and communicating your needs and hearing your partner's at all steps of the way. \n\nIt also means that when you're ready to take the plunge, you know what you're committing to and understand what that commitment means.
879494
I think sometimes that we meet people who just seem so right for us.  I believe that we can fall in love quite quickly\nThis may or may not last but just enjoy the wonderful feeling it brings.
1130551
Sometimes things don't turn out the way we want and the person we love doesn't love us back. Is funny how people don't seem to match up in love. Every human being has his own likes and dislikes, everybody has the picture of the perfect love (boy or girl) in his head but most of the times it seems this only makes us suffer. Unfortunately it isn't a system who would make us fall in love with the person who loves us, we must just try and take our chance. If it works, we are happy, if it doesn't we get disappointed. \n   That's life, untill the science will come up with a special formula against heart break we must just live with this soul error of falling in love with the wrong person.\n   Trust yourself and keep on searching for the girl who will love you as much as you love her. Life has a good taste only if your heart is always opened.
769010
Why the sky is blue I can explain. Why stars twinkle at night I can explain. Why civilisations rise and fall I can explain. But Love cannot be defined so easily.......we dont know why we fall in love, what causes it, stirs it and sends us crazy with it but we dont question it.    It simply is....love, in all its beauty, glory and magic. But before looks, personality, and ragging hormones comes 'chemistry'. If there is no chemistry, there cannot be true love. The chemistry that holds two people so tightly together in each others arms, lives and hearts is the greatest mystery man cannot explain. If and when it happens to you....thank your angels and enjoy what they have brought you. There truly is no greater gift to man...or woman.
639643
cause we don't choose who we fall in love with our heart does.