what if your boyfriend betrayed u?
153043
I'd say it's time for you to become a lesbian.
542972
It's difficult to trust again after being emotionally betrayed by someone you truly love. Talk to your boyfriend. Let him know how you feel. Ask yourself questions like: Do you still love him? Are you capable of ever being happy with the current relationship you share? Are you emotionally prepared to remain attached to your lover even after knowing he's been with another woman? If the answer to these questions are "no", you should probably say goodbye. On the other hand, if you care for your mate and really want to hold on to your union, try taking a few days away from him. Stay with a friend, a family member or take a mini vacation to somewhere that's peaceful enough to allow you to examine the situation clearly.\n\nIt's important to note that 4 months may be too short a time to make possibly permanent decisions about breaking up. At this point the wounds are still likely to be sore. Wait a while longer if you feel he's genuinely remorseful and you truly want to give the relationship another chance. If you find it difficult to do this, however, and don't see him committing wholly to the relationship, don't punish yourself...let him go.\n\nGood luck.
355567
trust maybe lost if someone you know quite well has let you down, or if something you werent happy about that happened to you, there are different levels of trust, depends which you lack, if perhaps your boyfriend two timed you, you would find it hard to trust again, if you were assaulted or similar, it would be hard to trust again after that.\n\nor perhaps someone has lied to you, that can also shatter trust, if you have some idea of which trust you lack perhaps someone can give you a more in depth answer.\n\nif something has happened to you, in which you dont trust many people, accept what has happened to you, and try and realise not everyone has or will act that way towards you again, if its boyfriend or friend issues or parent issues, they have to earn trust, best way is to tackle it, identify your specific need. perhaps you are just insecure and you feel everyone is lying to you.
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
297305
u shouldn't have told. it's a trust issue. now he knows that he can't trust u that's why he broke up with u.
1084631
Say bicth i don't like u i have boyfriend that will kill u.
475970
there are many people out there wholl do just the thing done to your boyfriend.no reasons,just for fun.explain to your boyfriend.then let him decide if he loves u trusts u he will believe if not he didnt love you.i believe anyone can brianwash anyone but if they know me well,trust me,know what type of person i am they wouldnt believe it so i also know when this happens if the other person was really a true friend or not.so this is the time youll find out if your bf loves you or not.i know it frustrates when something like this happens but we can do nothing just wait and ull know if he loves u or not
271761
The fact that he would break up with you based upon hearing that you were moving instead of asking you first hints that maybe this guy isn't right for you.  A real boyfriend doesn't believe rumors.
299230
It is`easy to say get rid of him, but then I would be a hypocrite. I`have so many reasons not to trust my man. I wish i would have went with my instincts from the beginning. If you can't trust him and you can let him go, buy all means do so. But if you are like me, you won't. Now i let it be known my distrust of him. He gets mad at me for it, but oh well. I figure he deserves it, and if he gets so aggravated maybe he will leave me. it would be easier to let him go that way. My advice is get out now if you can. there must be a reason you don't trust him, and chances are it will get worse.
1090883
You sound very young dear.. A true friend doesnt stab you in the back ..And if a so called boyfriend betrays you like that then you are better off without him anyways
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
396220
you have 2 consider your feelings and also your boyfriends. would u rather be wit that other guy or your boyfriend? would the boyfriend be hurt if u left him? who would u be happier with?
254591
it depends if it is your boyfriend he will get mad if not he will maybe try harder if he really likes you.
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
217250
depends....if she cheats on him with you, can you trust her in the future?
251494
Cheating is the worst way that you can betray the one you love. In my opinion you really don't love someone as much as you think you do if you can cheat on them. I know if my husband cheated on me,which thank God I do not have to worry about that, I would leave him because all the things that we shared and all the trust we built together would just be gone because of his infidelity. You have to understand that if you man doesn't stay with you because you cheated on him,you hurt him in one of the worst ways a person can be hurt, and thats a hard thing to forgive someone for. If he leaves you, there is nothing you can really do but understand why he left you. You man has to be really I mean REALLY compassionate to forgive you and stay with you after what you did to him. If you really want this man to stay with you all I can say is beg for mercy from him.Hope I helped!
940901
He wasnt your boyfriend was he? You both talked to him so why would you be mad you are not with him now.