my best friend is ackting like she is my leader what should i do?
142755
Give her space.\n\nGood luck.
463611
You cannot clap with one hand. Friendship can't be single sided. I 2 hv gone thru this same exp. Believe me, it's not you who must apologize but your friend must, if she is your true friend and practical girl, she would hv taken this in a challenging way rather than make you feel mizerable. You 2 are good competitors, she is angry with you, you know what does this prove...She always underestimates you, and when you hv got more than her she can't bear this fact. In this world of cut throat competition, don't go for always making your friends happy, rather think abt yourself n your career. That's my advice.\n\nThe Ques is why don't u wanna score higher than her, You must always try to be excellent. And 1 more thing, r ur other classmates fools, don't they hv their own power of judgement, their own brains, they may get influenced by ur so-called friend for some days, but as truth prevails, they will surely realize u and ur abilities. So don't worry abt it. \n\nI used this policy and today I m more popular than my previous so-called friend.
536106
you should kick her a-s-s!!! you know what you should call your so call "best friend" a b-i-t-c-h, s-l-u-t, h-o-e, and a h-o-r-e!!!
1112267
Go for it... if your best friend is really a friend, she will understand and get over it.
430297
I think the best thing that you can do is continue to be a friend. Talk with her and let her know about the vibes that you are getting from her. Tell her that don't want anything to come in between the great friendship that you have. The best that you can offer her is your hand in friendship. She will respect and appreciate your honesty.
749780
believe her and find someone who will appreciate you...she is playing too many games....friendship only" is the kiss of death..
384959
if she doesn't wanna hurt you then she is your best friend but ask her to be more honest with you next time ask her to give you her real opinion next time .you she she didn't say because she didn't wanna hurt you because she wants what is best for you .cause if she did tell you might get upset with her
457383
well every best friend have a unique quality to them. i have a best friend shes always enjoying her self and don't always take thing seriously, me on the other hand i always take things serious ly yes I'm the boring one but i got her to make every thing exciting and me to calm things down at a certain time. best friend are not suppose to be the same.\n\n\nyou can tell her just make sure if you really enjoy your friendship with her it wont mess things up.
267683
she is your friend but aparently she cares tooo much about herself..so much that any little thing u say she takes it as an insult ffrom you to her...when she says somethin like that u shoud quickly tell her, " i wasnt talking bout you, your make up looks cool and ur my best friends if u looked bad i would tell you" and tell her u were just giving an opinion ...but dont let her bit*h at you...because if thats what she does you may consider getting a New BEst frieNd
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
548116
How about asking your best friend to play with you and your new friends, so she may be able to make new friends too.  Don't turn your back on your friend, you may need her some day.  I have been best friends with mine for over 12 years now, and she is the greatest friend I have ever had, she is more like my sister than a friend, and I wouldn't trade her for the world.
1158743
Just tell her you can't be friends with someone like that, but you would be happy to help her turn her life around. If she is truly your best friend, she will change
733579
you are in a very good situition right now. What u can do is to be her best friend. Let her know that she can tell u anything and u will always be there to listen. Then one day she may have a fight with her bf and break up with him so u can tell her that you have been waiting for so long to tell her that you really like her.
982640
IDK, tell her u have other friends that you wanna hang out with, tell her she's NOT ur only friend. tell her how u really feel.
285748
I have had this happen to me before and I simply said look I love you as a friend and I am not into that its fine for you to be like that but thats just not for me. Be sure to explain that you won't judge her or look at her any differently and that it will not come between yall friendship. Just tell her in a nice way so that she don't feel like a jackass for telling you because you know its got to take some guts to tell your best friend something like that. I hope that I have helped.!!!!
616925
Just tell her its a toxic friendship and you are tired of the way she treats you and that you don't think that your friendship is making you into the type of person you'd want to be. Be honest and either it will stop or you weren't meant to be freinds.
660575
tell homegirl that shit aint cool.. and if she acts like a rip-nut then u cant be friends... beat  her ass she sounds like a hoe