I need your opinions please!!!!?
155041
Personally, whatever a person decide is his/her sexual preference, that is their business. I don't impose my  preferences about anything  on them, and I expect them to respect my preferences. Live and let live.
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
817606
give it a change. we only live once. why pass this up? were all afarid of being hurt, thats just life. give him a chance. let your hair down have fun!
1158485
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
348947
you did good to ask this ..getting other people's advice will help you, in my opinion l think your b/f think you can agree with him on this lssue b'se he is your b/f and b'se this is his life style, when some people have this kind of thing going on in their lives  they think its just okay for every one else and just fine for any other person to do. and they try to make others feel like .."you know what everyone else does it but you..  feel free and lets enjoy our lives" like they expect others to agree with them no matter what , they want to make you think that this is absolutely normal and that there's nothing to worry about, but this is not true ,and not normal for every one.   what they don't know is that people actually need to follow their hearts in making decision's like this .its not bad to try new things but only when you are willing, and  without anyone pushing into it. talk to him and let him know that you are not comfortable with his ldea especially when it come to people near you. and tell him how sick it makes you just to think about it. if he loves you he will understand you and stop.good luck.
715212
Your question brought tears to my eyes.  Your life sounds like mine when I was 20.  My so called boyfriend and I are 5 years apart also and we have a child together.  Your fiance sounds just like mine years ago. The life you are living is a hard one, I can feel your pain.   I left my boyfriend several times because of his controlling crazy ways. My friends werent good enough, he didnt like me to go out, he was jealous of anything and everything.  And he accused me of sleeping with anybody and everybody (male, female, dog, cat, if I looked at it I was sleeping with it).  He couldnt hold down a job either.  He was a good father also.  Remember men like this make good fathers because they are CONTROLLING. I used to think is this all there is for me like you do but trust me its not.  You can take your child and raise it by yourself.  I raised 2 kids at your age by myself.  Trust me this man is only going to drag you down.  Here I am years 15 years later and I am STILL going back and forth with the same man.  Only difference is now he has changed he is no longer that controlling jerk he used to be.  But it took 15 years to get here. And that is only because he matured in some areas but in other areas he is still a jerk.  We dont live together so why am I holding on? I am working on myself now to figure that out.  My question to you is.  Do you want to wait 15 years like me for this man to finally treat you with the respect you deserve? I can see your like me, you need to save yourself from yourself.  I thought I was in love, funny thing is I still do, but I also know what is best for me.  Men like this never change.  Mine changed his controlling ways but only because he had no choice.  I have figured out through the years that guys like this are always going to find a way to hurt you.  The hurt never stops.  Don't say you made your bed so you should lie in it.  No one deserves the kind of treatment you receive.  I really think you will be able to make a good life for you and you child.  I did.  I am successful and have 2 great kids.  Funny thing is now "jerk" wants to settle down.  But the past is some thing you never forget.  Especially when he is still doing little stupid things that hurt me.  Like I said the hurt never stops.  I would love to give you strength and advice to help you through this because I can sense there is probally more to your story just like their is more to mine.  Dont think you are being selfish.  That was my problem years ago.  I put everyones happiness before my own.  Only sacrifice you need to make is for your child, remember that.  Your child needs to be raised in a loving argue free environment.  It is going to be hard.  Beause this guy has ahold of your mind, more than a hold on your heart.
606629
sounds like you are confused. think this out better then decide
547555
This guy is playing with your feelings. He's just keeping you on the line so that he's always got a soft place to fall. Make like a tree and leave. Two years is a long time to invest your feelings in someone who doesn't want a relationship. Tell him you don't have time to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind. I think he's already made up his mind and likes the way things are. You don't know how many other gals he's playing this sorry tune with either. He's got what he wants. I would suggest that you stop giving him what he wants and tell him you're not playing anymore. <*)))><
319221
If you love him enough, you should ask him out. Who cares what his friends think. The decision is up to you though.
234956
Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
978019
Your boyfriend is lying to you.  You have to either accept someone as a friend, or add them yourself.  I think you should just dump his loser butt and get rid of him.  You deserve better than some liar.
97988
This guy is toying around with you.  He's hot, then he's cold.  Sounds like you'd be better off without all the mind games and drama.  Looks will only get you so far.  Have to have the personality to match!  Don't call.  If he calls, and you still want to be with him, make it conditional.  Ask him to be honest re: what he feels and to stop acting like such a "drama queen."  If he blows up or acts immature again, then leave the relationship alone.  At least you gave him one final chance to prove himself.  You are much better off looking elsewhere.
1129393
You need to drop him why would you wait for someone to decide to pick you. That is so sad. You sound really young to be tossing the word love around. I suggest you talk to your friend and let her know that he's telling both of you the same thing. Both of you should move on, you deserve better than that.
578551
You are being unfair to your girl. Don't sell her short. You need to sit down and have a deep talk with her and tell you how you feel. Give her a chance to work it out before you do something bad. I know how it feels to be on the crappy end of a cheating relationship. Trust me, nothing good can come out of it. The girl you are cheating with knows that you don't value a relationship. It couldn't work anyways. It justy makes her feels special that you are considering her even though you are already involved. It won't last, trust me. Go with what you know.
828031
Come on guy!!!!...  Sounds to me like your mad and you have no idea what your talking about and you want to get some support for people you don't even know on this site.\n\nWhat has she told you...? If this is really true and not just in your head, why are you still there?  And don't tell me it's because you love her.  Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to put up with their crap and she just thinks of you as just a backup ****.  \n\nIf this is for real, leave.  Even if it isn't real, leave.  Your head is so screwed up you couldn't think straight abut her anyway.  Just leave.
253085
I'm in almost exactly the same situation -- probably worse.  Above all else, DON'T WASTE HIS TIME! Tell him how you feel, and either break it off or let him know you may need to explore things a bit (meaning date others) before you continue.  Don't go behind his back, and don't evade the issue, because it only gets worse over time.  Good luck!
752134
it's good that u value your body. remember that it is the most special GIFT  u can give. so don't give it to anyone who hasn't proven worth it. i don't think u should worry about what people think about u. if he does tell, then he wasn't a very good friend. get rid of him. if your other friends make a big deal of it, tell 'em to mind their f*ckin business. people will always talk. don't let their opinions of u rule how u feel about yourself.