is it true about when a person it's drunk they'll say the truth????? Especially when it's a drunk guy?????
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I used to hear that  drunk people speak the truth...and then I had to deal with a parent who sadly struggled with alcoholism (and has since conquered) for many years, and I can say that it's difficult for a person to even speak coherently when drunk, much less speak the "truth". And, since I have unfortunately been drunk on a few occasions in my life, I can say that when drunk, it feels like having the flu. Speaking eloquently is not easily done when lying on a cold bathroom floor, hanging onto a toilet. Drinking a bit with a very trusted friend "on occasion" can indeed be fun, just as having the freedom to open your heart and soul to a much-loved friend can be almost a spiritual experience. The selection and appreciation of fine wines and liquors can be an art and one of the more enjoyable pleasures in our earthly lives...it enhances fine food and can make a dining experience even more memorable. But drunkenness is most miserable, indeed. For everyone. \n\nI feel I've already answered the question, but just to be perfectly clear: Being drunk does not enhance the communication of truth. To be truthful requires a clear head. It is my experience that being drunk can make a person quite cruel, emotionally or physically abusive, and downright ugly. It can distort a person's appearance as well as their thinking. It's a destructive force upon a person's physical, mental, spiritual and emotional health and can destroy the best of families.\n\nAs far as the gender of the person in question, that is a ludicrous statement and another example of a sad generalization....of which there are many.
418053
William Shakespeare said it a lot better than I can: "And this above all, to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night, the day, thou canst not then be false to any man". Just be honest and tell the truth. Not mean , or ugly, but with tact and compassion.......the honest truth. That's all people want.....truth.
421206
pretty much... so people can act like idiots then forget what they did or else blame it on "being drunk"
876451
Partly true ...but friends may not have all the answer to your questions/ or they might water it down and not tell you completely what you need to hear. As with coming here you get multiple view points and don't have to worry about people biting their tongue or sugar coating the true.... they give you the truth in it's 100% purest form.
342386
This is true. People are more comfortable expressing their feelings if they are drunk or a little tipsy. It takes the edge off. Usually when people are drunk, they tend to tell the truth.
839291
In my experience alcohol can definitely assist people in doing things they wouldn't normally do without alcohol in their system.  I don't think you would do anything stupid because of the fact that you are aware of this fear you have of acting innapropriate.  It's the chance we all take when hanging out with friends who are drinking, that they may do something they wouldn't normally do.  If she is a true friend she will laught with you and tell you to stop your just being drunk.  If your obnoxious when you get drunk however she may not want to hang out with you anymore.  Maybe you should just be honest with her and get it out in the open so that you both may enjoy the evening and you already know how she would react.  She may surprise you and tell you that she would be delighted to make out with you.  '-)
1120123
that's just the way drunks are. don't worry about all the people saying that he thinks this about you and he want's to do that. he was drunk, and if someone is drunk, they are not in their usual state of mind. only worry about such things if that is how they are sober.
1024058
when people are drinking they tend to become confused and sentimental.\n\ni wouldn't trust anyone to be a better driver, or a better mathematician, when they were legless.\n\nwhy should i expect them to be any more honest?
518882
Don't confront drunks.  It gets you no where.  Wait until they are sobber.  Also, don't throw a drunk out of your house unless you know they have a ride.\nAs far as the bf/gf goes, maybe their trying to send you a message.  Still, wait until they are sobber before asking.
1115581
They don't.  It's just that when they are drunk they think everything is funny, even when they hurt other people with what they say or do or murder them while driving drunk.
809533
i don't know..it just might be because you're stinking drunk !
641358
He sounds like he's really possessive, insecure and a loser.  Drop him now before your relationship goes on much longer.  The truth always comes out when a person is drunk.  It may take several more months before his true personality comes out.  But you got a good preview while he was drunk....)(
1063625
Alcohol tends to let down ones perception and inhibitions so yes its usually true that people will talk freely without fear of retribution when liquored up.
956664
how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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No. Some are pathetic, abused women who put up with the likes of YOU, when they're drunk, which is worse.\n\nIt's not a matter of gender (that means what sex you are). It's personality. Someone who's generally happy will be a "happy" drunk. Someone who's got resentment and anger will have it exacerbated (made more pronounced) by drinking, male or female. \n\nBy and large, women tend to be more VERBALLY abusive when drunk, whereas men are more PHYSICALLY abusive then...due to brain chemistry, size and social conditioning. \n\nIf you ever came across ME while drunk, your stupid question about women and your negative attitude (depending on whether you made nice w/me or not) would probably cause me to clock you! So...it's back in your court, Bubba!\n\nWhat are you like when YOU've had a few too many? I find that those who "cast stones" are usually on the receiving end themselves, more often than not. Have a few "skeletons" in our closet, do we?\n\nBTW, Resh Galuta; is there something you want to SHARE with the rest of us?
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There is a Latin phrase, "In vino veritas", meaning, "in wine there is truth." The idea is that alchohol tends to remove inhibitions and loosen the tongue a bit. People under the influence will say things, and express feelings and opinions they normally would keep to themselves.
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You can not make anyone tell you what you want to hear, even if you feel you "deserve" it.  This situation seems to be controlling you.  I'd suggest you back off and find something more constructive to use your time on.  A person who takes drugs and drinks may not even know what the "truth" is and what he/she knows or remembers may not be the same as what you know or remember.  Why do you need to hear this from this person?  It almost sounds like you know what the truth is already and you just want to hear it from his/her mouth.  If this person can not be trusted, then distance yourself from him/her and move on with your life.