What do u do about a daughter that is mean to her parents an she an her boyfriend wont let u c ur grandson?
146966
There's got to be more to this story.  I don't know the circumstances but you have a right to see your grandson.\nWhy in the world won't whe let you see him?  Get yourself a good lawyer and sue her.  That'll make her love you even more.
849931
If she doesn't want to be with you, there is not much you can do.. Call her and express your sympathy for her father and tell her if she needs anything to give you a call.  After that, if she calls, then be patient and see what happens.  If she doesn't, let her be.
962508
Well first I will comend you for taking care  of your grandchildren. It's not your place but you are good for doing it. Not to be harsh but it really sounds like your daughter is craving the wrong kind of attention from men. She needs a hard dose of reality that men like that are no good and often are the ones who are crazy. As for you and the children in your care i would seriously consider moving. However you can pretty much find anyone on the internet. It's a terrible situation you daughter has put you in. I dont believe the police will do anything unless he makes threats or actually harms you. The thing that sucks is the same basic rights protecting you are the same rights he has even though he is an abuser. IN ANY CASE if are afraid for your life or your loved ones I would still call the police and see what they can do. Because state laws vary i may not be accuate on what the police can or can not do. I'll say a prayer for you and I hope everything works out ok for yoy.
86474
Talk to parents.  I know it's hard but try to ignore her by not being around her.  Sounds like she is very unhappy and becoming a bully.  Try to talk to her about how you feel too, but definitely let parents know of her abuse.
880584
The Grandmother was out of line.\n\nIt was not her decision to make at all, let alone in defiance of the wishes of the parents.\n\nShe has shown herself to be an irresponsible custodian, lacking in judgement and therefore if I were the parent I'd be making it clear to her that she will not be left in charge of the child in future, and why.\n\nAfter that has been settled calmly and rationally, the parents should stick to their guns, but shouldn't hold it over the grandmother's head.
704274
Stay out of their business.  They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on.  You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
204344
Honestly the only thing that can be done is to stay away from her, and if it becomes a real problem then someone should let her parents know, that is a really huge problem and that girl is going to end up really hurting herself in the long run, that needs to be put to a stop know.
584669
Explain to your daughter why you are doing it.  It's a rough lesson to learn, a life lesson for her and you, but if you are strong in your beliefs then don't back down.  Return the gifts to them, be nice about it, let them know that you monitor the things that come into your house and this isn't acceptable.\n\nIf they are hurt and then continue to give the gifts, that's their hurt, not yours.  The pain your daughter feels now is not your fault either, but theirs, for continuing to give her gifts they know she will not be allowed to keep.  That's just plain rude.
787782
Might try a restraining order.  Little drastic but would work.  Refuse to take calls from him and his friend.  If it is really bad parental intervention is always good.
417877
If it was an older man and younger woman no one would bat an eye.  I say if your both happy, enjoy it and ignore everyone.  Life is too short.  Tell her if she doesn't let you see the grandson, the courts DO give visitation to grandparents.  Good luck to you.
146721
Talk to your gf.\n\nIt sounds as though her mother can't cope with the fact that she's got a grown-up daughter.  \n\nExplain to your gf that it's hurting you when you're constantly being ignored because her mother still wants to control her life.  Tell your gf how much it's hurting your relationship.  Be honest with her, and ask her to think about doing something about it.
1350
First thing I'd suggest is knowing your opponent .. in laymens terms .. ask your girlfriend as much about your parents as you can such as culter attitude and so on .. and past experiences with her last boyfriends that have had the in some cases unfortunante opportunity of meeting them. Once you know what type of people you'll be dealing with you'll be more at ease knowing you can handle what difficulties may come from them.
722655
This might not be the best advice, but it might work. Try to find out what your girl's other man did wrong that makes her father not wanting her to date. Try to find out as much about her father as you can. Try to relate to him, be a friend. Make him like you. Since it isn't a girls heart that you have to win here, its his. Father's are very protective of their little girls, just because of the way us guys think. So pretty much, just find the right way to prove yourself worthy to her father that you deserve to  \nbe with his daughter. If that don't work, then try to have your girl influence him by informing him on how you guys feel for eachother.
345682
i dont give bout my parents if dey dont like my gf **** dem.\nnd ye try makin his parent tak 2 ur parents
64596
WEll first off your granfather is prabably just being protective, I would know my dad is like that. Anyways just plain straight out tell him. Write him a letter e-mail,anything. If you do do that make sure to have some good reasons and keep poping up the question why can't you just let me be with him? make him understand you truely love this guy.
303799
i think it is going to be really hard for you but you should just try to sit your daughter down explain to her the things of life what you are&#92;were going through.tell her its not the person but the heart.tell her ,her father was not a bad person but the things that were suppose to be between you and him were just not happening and you have now found it in this person. tell her to try to see your lady as a person you love and that loves you and not a female.
788040
Hi, \nI'm sorry to hear that your daughter is not thinking of you & just doing what her boyfriend wants. This really sounds like my daughters boyfriend. I would not cater to him or her. Just be polite & don't try to please him. I'm sure that you told her how you feel. If not then I would do that before the holidays. No matter how he is she is the one going along with spending the holidays with him & his family. So, even though he seems like a jerk, she is being insensitive to you & your husband. Tell her how you feel & if she still keeps doing that then don't invite her. Make you own plans without her. On top of this don't let him come into your home & show any disrespect either. I hope that this can help in some way. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving & holidays with or without her attending.