should i tell him that iam a virgin?
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
867025
Okay, I'm not going to even go into asking why you weren't honest with him in the first place. . .but to your actual question, he CAN'T tell that you're not a virgin. Some girls don't bleed their first time, you know. Actually, it happens a lot. And if he loves you, it won't matter.
947375
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
673603
Yes some times physical and mental.  If you're a virgin than the first time it might hurt.  The guy should be attentive to this fact and go slow and easy.  And if u tell him it hurts he should stop.  But everything that is good will hurt some some time but not all the time.  U should be able to enjoy sex without hurt.  So girl if you're a virgin go easy.  And if not and u like it fast and hard I'm your man.  Either way I will help u.\nCHUCK\n:--# )
379159
Don't feel bad, hey. It's not the most appealing thing as a girl wants to feel like she has someone who knows what they are doing. What you need to do then, is spend all your time making it good for her and be willing and you will be fine. I slept with a guy who was a virgin and he was 24. I got over the fact he was a virgin cos I thought he was the most hottest guy I had ever been with and I loved his personality. What killed it a bit though, is he was pretty nervous which is understandable, but he wanted me to do everything. Just act confident, and if the chick knows you are a virgin she will understand it will get better and better. If you have casual sex, lie and say you aren't a virgin. Be confident, and she'll be none the wiser. Be honest if you are actually going out with someone. Don't worry matey, it wouldn't turn me off you.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
97644
I am 24, and a virgin.  I told my bf early on in the relationship.  I think the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be.  If you are waiting to have sex, it's definitly important to tell him.  He will know not to pressure you.  If you just haven't had sex yet and are willing, tell him that too.  Either way, it is best to just tell him.  It can be scary, but if he's a great guy, he won't care.
865375
Haha. Encouraging answers you've gotten so far, eh? The truth is that virginity is a very flexible concept. Some consider a virgin is someone with no sexual experience whatsoever... some say intercourse is the step that ends virginity. Some even think it a physical thing, with unbreached hymens belonging to virgins and only virgins (when in fact you don't need to have sex to break your hymen OR break your hymen to have sex).\n\nMy point is.. just tell him what you've done. Period. There's no need to decide whether your technically a virgin or half-virgin or whatever-- skip that step and let him decide for himself.\n\nThe website I've given isn't  my source, but rather a female sexual health site that might be interesting to you. It should answer all the questions you need answering as well as some you don't even know to ask. ;)
455092
No, it doesnt really matter..coz if she can accept the fact that im not a virgin, well so can I...
329082
well dear.i dont know wether am givign u the right guidance or not1 i feel there is no need to tell him! past is past1 if he is a real good guy....why do u wanan loose him by reveling your past....virginity ia ll bull shit.this is all what people created......just go ahed buddy! be cool!dont tell him.........he will never come to know about that in life! carry on the way ur.....just be loyal to him here after.........may god bless u with good fortune!
513285
sadly, thats about the going time for sex now. If she pretended to be a virgin, the whole thing was based on a lie. My advice would be to leave her alone. He was a virgin, and sadly, he'll always remember her. Just tell him that there are plenty more people out there who are better and just to wait for the right one next time.
1046175
no... you really can't. Sorry about your sitch, but that's... not even close to the truth. Even if it was only ONE guy, it still counts.\n\nOn the other hand, who cares? virginity ain't all it's cracked up to be anyway, and it's really nobody's business except for your next partner, and if you two really care about each other, it won't matter.\n\nBe honest. don't even try to fake this one.
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
172449
First of all, he is 17 and if you are too old (legally that is) then just say no. But if that's not an issue, then you have to deside what's more impotant to you:\nA) that you were there for a friend in his time of need\nor \nB) that you gave him his first time as a "pity f*ck"\n\nIt should be a gift of love, not from pity.\n\nLook, it's obvious by the sound of things that he already loves you but you don't sound like you're attracted to him in the same way. Otherwise you wouldn't have posed the question here.\n\nLet's face it, he's a nerdy 17yo virgin. There isn't much hope for him on his own. So maybe you can introduce him to some of your nerdy 17yo girlfriends and hopefully nature will take it's course if they meet. Maybe they'll date, fall in love, etc. But if he's got a problem meeting girls, then that might be where you can help most.
1114264
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
440058
well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!