do u think should we waste time on query /unsure love ?
142055
all new love is unsure until you know the person better.  i say it's worth it.
1108110
I am not sure.  Everyone needs friends, but if your friend crosses a certain level of intimacy, you should certainly evaluate that relationship during down time. In other words, only you can answer that question.
109983
Not necessarily. It depends how you formulate your question. Sometimes is better to give some harmless suggestions and let him to take the initiative. Anyway, you can demonstrate no deep feelings about him the first date so you’ll drive him nuts. See what happens!
700934
Well, it is better to know than to not know.  So, by asking him you know right away if he digs you or not.  If he doesn't, you aren't wasting a lot of time pining over him and you can move on.  Once you get over that hurdle and fear of rejection you will find you take chances in other areas of your life, too.  Life is about taking risks.
39126
sounds like you better stick w/ makin love to urself :-P
282340
Instead of agonizing over the situation, why don't you express your feelings to her?  That way you will know whether you are just wasting your time.
820434
if u really luv someone why go through all this hassle. just talk it out like adults are to do. stop all this madness of playing game's. life is to short. what could hurt if by talking all this out? this way u wont be wondering what of, could of, should of.
271867
For me, it helps me kill time.\n\nAnd we pose the questions to get answers.
710097
Yes. Asking to many questions can be daunting and make someone feel as though they are "on the witness stand". Some things are better being found out in time. \n\nRemember that people (women) don't come with instruction manuals and there is no way to figure it all out at once. It takes time. \n\nWe are more interested in someone taking time to get to know us rather than the person trying to figure it all out at once. Don't be in a hurry. It comes off as being pushy and nosy. It also can look as though you are just trying to rush to the finish line of getting in her pants. \n\nYou should take the time to enjoy the mystery of a woman. Otherwise, what will you be left with? \n\nMy final answer is, Yes, too many questions are a very bad thing. Only ask the "Need to knows". Number one, you need to know if you have a chance, you need to know what makes her tick, you need to know where she likes to go to dinner. The rest can be found out in time.
785136
It sounds like both yours and his priorities are noncommittal. Seeing each other when convenient should be enough for now. If this was love you would not have to ask this question.
207884
wow! if one is asking that question or concerned about that then they dont truly know the one they are loveing. If thats the case close shop and carry on.
505317
no if that person is not interested and knowing you than don't waste your time because it is you this person has to fall in love with not the mystery of who you are
287296
if u are in love then u are not wasting time.
709976
This is what you need to always remember and think about... If you hav to ask than more than likely you doubt something. If you have to ask about whether you are in love or not than you are not. If you are in love than no-one or nothing else matters but you and your mate. LL.
482693
at first I was thinking to reply YES to both questions, \n\nbut now that I think about it...\nto love mean ppl presents more of a challenge than loving nice ppl...I think mean ppl test your love and strengthen your character if you are able to love them and God does call us to love meanies.\n\nBut I guess that's kind of selfish, huh? ooh, I hope i'm not mean. :(
667825
Should we try it and see???
93357
First, be glad he's honest and not pulling a line.  Second, don't be hurt just because you don't like the answer to a question you posed.  Third, realize these things have to work on their own time; you can't mandate a schedule.  Fourth, at some point this indecision can just be a delaying tactic, but don't jump to that conclusion now.  If the relationship is badly stalled for months and you're not happy about it, then you have a real problem.  But you need to let some time pass before you declare it badly stalled.