what are the best ways to get attracted to a guy?or ,is it diffrent strokes for different folks?
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just be cool and casual, liking someone shouldn't have to be embarrassing, it's not a crime. use your woman power, make him want you! plus, guys like a good mystery, don't be totally obvious. but if you like him, go for the gold baby! (i used to be shy too, then i met one of my best friends who taught me that you just can't hold back in life, there's nothing to be afraid of because who gives a crap what other people think, all that matters is YOU like the way you are!) GOOD LUCK!
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Do you have anyone you want to attract? Or is this a general question about being more attractive?\n\nLet's start with some basics: To share a life, you must have a life. So what kind of life to you have? Start with yourself, and see if you know what you and how you are going to get it.\n\nHaving said that: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you are attracted to someone and they are not attracted to you, guess what. Move on.\n\nAppeal is a funny word, but if you think about it, what appeals to you may not appeal to someone else. When you add the sex to the term, you have moved to basic drives: We use food to survive and sex to propagate the race. Food and sex. Sex appeal maybe adding more spice, but the dish needs to be on the menu.\n\nSex appeal. Be yourself, relax, and be patience. Stop worrying about something you already have.
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you get him to notice you by just being yourself. never change who you are for someone. and if you do want to change yourself make sure its to benfit you and not someone else. you can introduce yourself to him know your interested.
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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I think that you have to ask yourself another question ... what types of males do you want. Visualize the person who you want to use this ... and talk to him.
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STEP 1\nThe first step is target the guy you want to like you.  There aren't any steps to just attract all guys to you so you have to target a specific group but more specifically a certain person.  \n\nSTEP 2\nAfter you have targeted the guy you like get to know him and make sure he knows you exist.  While you're getting to know him find out what he likes see if you have anything in common.\n\nSTEP 3\nIf you find out that the guy you were aiming for has nothing in common that is okay.  Like the old saying goes opposites attract.  If you do have stuff in common try to do those things together but don't show up everywhere he is because that will repel him.  And for having nothing in common try to do some of the things he likes anyway especially if you don't know whether you like it or not because you might end up with a new hobby.\n\nSTEP 4\nIf would be easy if he liked you back but if he doesn't or you don't know you have to look for the signs.  One sign is he will talk to you and by talk I mean he will actually be conversing.  One way to quickly end a conversation is to answer questions and not ask any or to give one word responses to everything.  If the guy is doing that it could mean that he is shy or that he is trying to not talk to you.  If he shy you'll be able to tell because he'll be kind of quiet and nervous.  Another sign that he likes you is he will try to contact you.  For example if you happen to see him somewhere he might come up to you and start talking instead of you starting the conversation or he might call you instead of vice versa.\n\nSTEP 5\nIf he does like and you like him and it obvious then ask him out.  Its been shown that most guys would like you to make the first move.  Don't be to forward or aggressive when you ask or you may intimidate him and scare him away.\n\nSTEP 6\nGo with the flow and let him like you.\n\nA general way to get most guys though is to be pretty but in a tasteful way.
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haha yes, there's another guy out there like me! Yeah, he shows that he's interested. The thing with shy types are that a lot of the time, they won't start the conversation as readily, so you'll have to start it, but once they get more comfortable with you, it will get easier :)
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U cn make a guy notice you by ur personality.\nFirst of all. make sure u always have a good appearance(dressing mode) when around him.\nTry to grt him to be friends with u ..by asking a question or something.\nHave a good sense of humor  and listen attentively wheen he talks.\nThose should be easy 4 anyone to do..
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you're a guy? DON'T walk different. you'll look stupid, trust me.\njust be confident. i've found that confidence is the most attractive thing in any person. even an ugly person will seem hot/cute/whatever if they've got confidence. just don't... change your walk... please.
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Every guy cares about looks -- that's just the way we are wired.  But not every guy has the same thing that turns him on -- some guys are into skinny women, some are into normal-sized women, and some are into large women.  If a particular guy isn't into you, don't sweat it -- you can't change a guy's preferences, so just find a guy who is attracted to you.  In the meantime, having a cool personality and a good attitude helps too.
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Most definitley, eye contact. You could start with eye contact from across a classroom. Of course, if your really brave you could get eye contact and smile at him, then look away. Most preferrabley down. Then he would know that you like him. Most of the time when someone finds out that you like him, he will notice you alot more than before, and could possibly like you back. \n\nWhen you talk to him, the most attractive is to bend you head and tilt it slightly toward him when HE is the one talking--to show that you are listening very intently.\n\nSmile! Smiling is one of the most attractive ways too. For starters at least.\n\ngood Luck! :)
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Dress nice and flirt with him, give him your attention.  If he is interested you will know.  Color and looks mean nothing when there is real chemistry, and relationships based on good looks and other meaningless things usually won't work out.
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Who knows?  You might brainwash yourself into a loving a guy that you would naturally regret.  A lot about genuine attraction is subconscious.  Smell is underrated.
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As a guy I know myself: Guys like girls who are creative. You can start by being a friend and showing intrest in him. You can subtley hint to him indicating your attraction to him. Give him a girly look that cant be mistaken. You have let him know somehow but be creative and be smart. Avoid silly games involving your friends; you alone have to win him over by yourself and without the involvement of his friends or yours. Please do not try too hard or be too aggressive; he'll run awayfrom you. Best Wishes
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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ATTRACTION.  The guys you know as friends are friends because they didn't make you "feel" attraction for them.  You may love them but it will never fill you with the excitement an unpredictable man does.\nI bet if you called any of these guys and asked them to come over they would drop everything and be by your side.  Try it!\nIs that what you want?  Just because a guy isn't "totally sweet" doesn't mean he is a mean hurtful jerk.\nWomen love a challenge as we men do.