why can't a honest guy like myself find a honest woman that don't play head games ????????
148665
wish there was a simplistic answer i can give u, but there isnt.  if u really want to find one, u have to make urself available to meet new people.
1115422
I've never been in a relation either and I'm 19. And I don't date, I'm not looking for love but rather letting love find me. As of yet no such luck, you just can't rush these things. Being patient is the key. For every man there is a woman and vice versa.
543190
you know, I asked myself a similar question, never been able to find a woman who was the same person when I met her as she was 6 months later, I think there are a lot of us "both men and women" want to be with someone so badly, want to fit so badly, that when it isn't a match, the partner can just see right through it, even though we may sincerely be trying.  But what you have to find, is someone who is into YOU as a person, not necessarily like EVERYTHING about you, but as you said, someone who knows without even questioning, that whatever step you take, he takes the same step right beside you.  They are out there, its just hard to find, because as a womnderful individual as you may be, that person has to be of a certain unique quality that fits you.
164721
I don't understand women either....I can't deny that physical attraction is very important, but I just want a girl who can be honest with me in all situations and willing to communicate.
704166
They don't all lie.  There are lots of guys who are honest.  \n\nJust me, but I figure if it's a little thing, then there's no point in lying about it unless the liar is looking for control, amusement, self-aggrandizement, or is just a compulsive liar.  If it's any of those things, how does anyone possibly trust him?  Without trust what kind of real relationship can you have?  Not much of one, for sure.\n\nIf it's a big thing he's lying about, the fact that it's a big thing is all the more reason to tell the truth!\n\nThe issue is much deeper than lying and it's not something you can fix.\n\nThere ARE guys out there who are honest.  As long as women continue to date liars, they'll continue to lie.
792221
I like all women but I'm looking a for a woman who can fun loving and smart.  I usually look for a woman who seem to have the same interests as me.  I would look for a man at activities you enjoy and hopefully meet one.
666828
Dear I am a smart man of perfect personality and keenly need a sincere and fully discreet relationship with a woman of mature mind and body. Even I can predict that this relationship may also turn into marriage but after witnessing each other potential on bed and day to day life. Remember I am a serious person without any jokes. Also pl. keep in mind that I am not an expert on line chating. I will appreciate if you like to reply. I m of good body , fair complexion , educated with a personality which hopefully no woman may like to refuse but unfortunately I don't flirt so thats why no relationship. I even prefer if you may have one or two kids. Thats OK. Take Care.
337498
Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
1156599
Sounds like you are a great guy! Any woman would be happy to be with you. There are some christain dating sites out there. There are women out there that have children too and are having troubles finding a good guy. Hope you find what your'e looking for! Best of luck!
208380
Do you really want me to tell you the truth?  The whole answer?\n\nHere's the deal...  I am one of those sweet women who seems very innocent.  I've historically always gone for the bad boy...  Here's the secret...  Good girls want to "save" the bad boys.  Bad boys want to corrupt the good girls.  They also want to be saved... And believe it or not, good girls often want to be corrupted, even if it's just a little bit...\n\nWe eventually (hopefully) realize what's going on... We have an unhealthy cycle of picking the wrong types of people.  \n\nFor me, it took a lot of things happening to get me to be honest with myself about the bad choices I was making.\n\nI made a conscious change and started having higher standards.  I stopped dating the bad ones and started picking people who were better suited to me.\n\nFor those good guys out there:  Be patient and don't lose hope.  There are good girls out there that will see the light, sooner or later.  Keep your standards high and keep a smile on your face.  Above all, try to keep from becoming cynical and bitter.  You'll be happier and healthier for it...\n\nJust a little clue... Although I'm currently in a wonderful marriage, maybe it'll give you a little hope to know that I had two previous marriages (although one of them was so short that it hardly counts)... Perhaps your future wife is married right now, but is acquiring the knowledge that will help her to appreciate you more fully when she finally finds you. :)  Chin up, my friend!  Be optimistic!
528631
I'm not totally following where you are going with this...  You sound like a nice enough guy.  Confident.  Sucessful.  Maybe you aren't meeting the right women?
539730
Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
204788
I believe I know what you're talking about and it's sad that you and other people have to refer to love/romance/sex as "the game".  I don't like playing games when it comes to my heart and I refuse to play them.  That's why I don't follow specific rules when trying to meet people.  I don't waste my time on certain pick up lines.  I try to look good, but I'm not going to change how I like to appear for a woman.  I'm not going to try to act better to impress someone either.  If you are really looking for a relationship with someone, then why do all those stupid things?  Your true self is eventually going to reveal itself in the end anyway and a lot of break-ups happen because people find out months or even years later that they really don't like who the other person "really is".  So yes, I am 28 years old and I've been fed up with the game since I was a little kid.  I started observing B.S. things about relationships and how to start one very early in life.
92860
I agree somewhat with Katrina, that men can be intimiated by independent and strong women.  But, as a guy, I would say "put off," not exactly intimidated.  For example, I recently dated a gal who I was very attracted to, although she wasn't stunning- she just "did it" for me.  But, she spent too much time telling me about her degrees from MIT, how she worked for Steve Jobs, etc..  Relationships are about humanness to me- life's little problems, emotionality, sensuality.  I talk shop all day at work, and want something deeper in a relationship.  It just got to a point where I didn't want to hold a conversation with her, since we just couldn't connect.  I guess the point is maybe revisit the guys you like with a deeply human approach, and see how that works.  I agree with the rest of the posters-  it's hard to meet someone you like.  It's true for me, too.  I live in the middle of nowhere.
104030
As soon as you find out, let the rest of us know. I think the key is to act like an @sshole. I've always been polite and had lousy luck with women.
1063885
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
577185
honesty... I would love to really meet a man who is honest. It seems my life has been surrounded by lying men.