Why is it so hard to tell the man you love that you love him?
146683
It is hard when you are not ready to accept a negative response. Afraid of being rejected. But it is in trying to find out the truth behind your question if he love you. But if you truly love him, just tell him that you love him. You might be surprised of his rewarding reply, than not telling the words and regret later on. Just say "I LOVE YOU".
219962
I am going through the same deal, except I am no where close to the love part yet. It is difficult to lay yourself out on a line when your not certain they feel the same. I am beginning to understand you just have to take that plunge if you care enough that it worries you and your ready to express it. I need to take my own advice.
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
122088
He probably means it if he treats you right and looks into your eyes when he says he loves you. If you have to say it first thats not really a big deal, he might just have a hard time showing his emotions.
771470
just give him time....... some men can be very sensitive just keep assuring him that u love him and u know he loves u, things will come good.
376016
hahahaha!! we got exactly the same problem... well, i guess he really loves you but just can't express it the right way. Talk it to him.. tell him what you feel. I guess i have no doubt for his love but maybe he just don't know how to take care of you. so talk it to him so that he will know what you feel. I did that and my fiance is making progress.. i can see that he is doing his best to show his love to me and to attend also to my needs.. just give him a time don't pressure him..
437860
hahaha.. hard question. even if a guy were to tell u thousands or millions times that he loves you in a day, you can't be sure..
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
438176
if you really love him, just say it, it might be hard to start but when you say the first word, you won`t be able to stop, besides it feels good, and he will feel good as well. good luck!! make sure you say it not over the phone;)
1156675
I tend to tell them that they are beautiful and ambitious. Yes, a woman can tell her man that he is a beautiful man!!! I tell him that he is indeed wonderful and I love to feel his touch or just his presence brings me such an amazing joy that no one or nothing else has ever done.
242363
perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
410911
It's probably a good sign if a guy has a hard time saying "I love you."  It could mean that he puts a lot of importance in those words.  To me, saying that means that I'm starting to permanently commit myself.  Plus, words are kind of cheap, and sometimes a simple "I love you" doesn't feel like it says it all.
103679
I think the first thing is to tell him. Boys or men, we can really be funny and unexplainable. Sometimes we, as men need to know from you how you want to be loved. Is it holding hands while walking, is it flowers weekly, tell you how beautiful you are. \nFor some of us, we really do love you, we just don't know what loving you is to you.
629203
I feel like dating that long without saying I love you is trouble. Do you not want to say it? What's holding you back? You never know what kind of insecurities, fears and past experiences inhibit a person from doing what they really want, like moving in with you, having your child, or saying I love you. But if you take away fear, insecurity, and break the chains, and you still can't say it? Well....then you might need to look in your heart and ask yourself if you really love this person.
795402
I have gone through the same problem as you, my boyfriend sometimes sweet talks to me and other times he doesn't, but i'm the same to him. In this way i feel that when we do tell each other that we love each other it is always special. I don't know but it makes the relationship more exciting. I just love my boyfriend and he loves me, sometimes we don't need to say "I love you"  to now that we love each other, just by the looking into our eyes, or the things that we do for each other, we know that we do. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel.  Good luck!
910511
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..
1031554
Sometimes action speaks louder than words. So try leaving little love notes for him in his pockets or under his pillow. Cook a nice dinner for him. Tell him that you will always be there 4 him. But, Never forget to tell him you love him.