How do guys feel about first-date sex?
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
61878
Usually a guy would make the first move if he's initially attracted to the girl.\n\nIn other cases, a guy would feel he's out of her league, and not even bother, unless she gives him buying signals (smiles, stares, etc).\n\nAlso, a guy wouldn't mind if the girl made the first move. If you're thinking about doing it, try it. The guy would be really flattered.
379159
Don't feel bad, hey. It's not the most appealing thing as a girl wants to feel like she has someone who knows what they are doing. What you need to do then, is spend all your time making it good for her and be willing and you will be fine. I slept with a guy who was a virgin and he was 24. I got over the fact he was a virgin cos I thought he was the most hottest guy I had ever been with and I loved his personality. What killed it a bit though, is he was pretty nervous which is understandable, but he wanted me to do everything. Just act confident, and if the chick knows you are a virgin she will understand it will get better and better. If you have casual sex, lie and say you aren't a virgin. Be confident, and she'll be none the wiser. Be honest if you are actually going out with someone. Don't worry matey, it wouldn't turn me off you.
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
534269
Don't think you should meet him for the very first time wondering whether or not to have sex with him.\nSee each other....get to know each other...see what developes...but running into a bed...shouldn't be in the agenda..\nHave a wonderful time....hope he is Mr Right!
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
412452
Free Ticket out of there...  woohoo!!!   lol\n\nIf you like each other, this is kind of a dumass question, of course it would raise some doubts and maybe cause hurtful feelings.\n\nIf you are a one night stand, not so much... But if you let him leave right away after the sex, you can bet the next time you hook up, he will be a sure thing...
1105306
It's a good thing, and not just for how your future husband may or may not feel about it. The fact that you also recognize the dignity aspect speaks well for you. There is also a trend in SOME females to become more cynical about sex when they have given their virginity too early. Instead of being able to enjoy and fully realize the true emotions of making love, for many it's just sex. Which is much the same as a banana split JUST being ice cream. There is so much more to making love than just sex... sad that for many those bonds aren't there..... Good luck!!
940471
Ok, this may shock you as I have different feelings about sex than you do but hear me out. Sex is not that big a deal. It is a natural thing that occurs everywhere all the time. Losing your virginity is NOT that big a deal either, it shows you the beginning to a world of natural instincts, however it has consequences so be careful from now on. Get it out the way (not from a young age mind you, I was 17 when I lost mine and that is a common age even though sometimes I feel the kids of today are starting to blossom earlier - I am going on now...). Nothing came from having unprotected sex did it? No babies on the way? No STD's or diseases? No? Then realise that you had a good time with no consquences of a physical nature and move on, not point dwelling on the past - you can't change it. Just learn from it. Don't be afraid to try new things either, its fun and you're not the first ever to try it ok.\n\nLife is not always that bad, not always great but not that bad either. Partying is always fun, but going to the extreme and partying all the time is bad for your health. I suggest you join a group or get a job (good luck with the interview by the way) and meet new people that way. Charity work is always rewarding and you meet new people too. As for your roomate, there are ways to live with people even if you don't like them. I work with guys I can't stand and as I am in the Army, its hard to get away from them, I learn to deal with it. It strengthens my character to be the bigger man and act like the mature adult I am rather than stoop to their lows. Just remember that there are others out there less fortunate than yourself and pick up your head. \n\nOn the God thing..... I am agnostic. If he exists, which in your case you believe he does, you must seek him, not the other way around. He won't come and say hey, pick your chin up and be better for it. You have to do it yourself, and thank Him for the realisation that the only thing you can do to help someone is to show them how to help themselves. \n\nSo remember, sex is great, join a social group, find a charity to work for or a paying job (school first though), live life with your head held high and proud, and look after yourself in a hard world. Good luck.
422450
I think that im the right person to talk to you.\nI have always belived in complete abstenance, you know, no kissing,and defenatly no sex.\nMy 1st date was when I was 25, i actually waited that long, i met this great gentleman at church, i knew he was the man for me. he actually invited me to go out at this nice restaurant, and i accepted the invitation.\nthis s my fist date, im 25 and not really know what exacly im doing in this restaurant with this guy, He stars telling me about his life, we really had a great time that night, the next day he calls me at work and he sais that he really wants to see me again, i agree to go out again, he told me that he knew that i was the woman he has been waiting for, He actually ask me if He could kiss me, I told him that i had didnt know how to kiss. He got so quiet, he touched my face, then he kissed my forehead, then my nose then my chik, i could not breathe i felt like i was inside a cloud, and then he kissed me, there was i giving my fist kiss, and when i kiss him i always remember how sweet and delicate he was to me. I married him, and we are happily married our anniversary its comming up 3 years already, and we are praying for a baby. there is so much happiness, when you save your self for the right person, the key is not to worrie about it, God will send you the right person, just like he did to me.
36180
Yes you can use that term refering to a male. Virgin is defined as happening for the first time. In this case it would be intercourse for the first time.
1166010
in my opinion any woman who wanted sex on the first date with me, regardless the age or reason. I would never sleep with nor date again. For the simple fact if she would want that and know so little about me. Would tell me she would sleep with anyone and I rather be with a woman who respected herself more and would get to know me before giving herself to me.
554236
Don't pay attention to the men.  That is all they think about. Sex is good but usually for the girl  the first time it is not the greatest thing in the world.  Takes time to get it right. If your dumped quickly after wards you'll probably feel used and dirty.  In fact you may feel that way even if your not dumped. I recommend waiting a long time at least till you in your 20's to have sex.
299670
First off..let's not act like guys are the only ones out for a piece of @$$!! "MC Rob Base" Said is best.."It takes two" Now, to answer your question...it depends on the mood I'm in. If I want a committment..then I'm cool with waiting. If I'm just trying to have a fling..then sometime in the first few weeks is cool. As for a first night kinda girl..well I've NEVER met one. I'm not the kind of guy women fawn over and want to go home with. I'm a committment guy..plain and simple even if that committment is a month.
109983
Not necessarily. It depends how you formulate your question. Sometimes is better to give some harmless suggestions and let him to take the initiative. Anyway, you can demonstrate no deep feelings about him the first date so you’ll drive him nuts. See what happens!
219908
That is usually up to the girl (you). However if you think about it .... is the guy worth it if he wants in your pants the first date?\n\nAsk yourself this question .... Do I know this guy well enough to sleep with him and exposing myself to everybody he has been with before?\n\nI am all for free sex and friends with benefits, but then if that is the case it's not called a "date" now is it?\n\nAll my advice on this is assuming...\n- your old enough to date\n- He has a home of his own to go to\n- you old enough to have sex\n- you know what protection to use if you do\n- you are ready for any responsibility that may come of it
271108
Come on people tell the truth. Girls also like to kiss on the first date. Because if that doesn't occur, they'll be sitting around all weekend wondering if you guys found them desirable.