Relationship issue: How can you help me to find many ways to keep my Fiance to stay interested in me?
138167
heyya! its me lebanese dude again :P by the way how did u find out am lebo! u checked out my site? anywayz as for ur question...\n\nseems u got a pretty fine relationship where ur guy is acting UNLIKE most guys .. in a way tht makes u feel lucky to have him i mean the whole surprises and all means hes either head over heals for u OR hes done something bad tht hes trying to make it up for u/cover it anywayz when ur with some1 tht does these sepcial lil things without u ASKING em to... means hes realy into u so dont think theres anything more to do to than wht u allready doin i guess hes just into you cos ur YOU every1 is special the way they are and seems ur lucky to have met some1 tht appuciate u for who u are inside out so my advice! ACT AS U ALWAYS DID and things would work out fine! never change who u are he obviously liked u the way u normaly are u dont have to OVer think these things :) but anyway heres a few tips :) u said hes working late when a guy is tired and he comes back home he would b expecting everything to go smoothly as possible and to do things tht would make him forget all the tension hes having through out hes work hours find wht he likes best and try providing it to him by this i dont mean b a slave for hes wishes but in a way try givin him wht he wants in a way tht he would appuciate it and NOT takin it for granted eventualy.. good luck babe hope everything works out for u 2 and like we lebo say "mabrouk salaf" :) \nps: ask ur lebo friends they will tell ya wht it means
320460
Your choices will always interest him. Learn to know whether his interest is a matter of not losing you or whether its real. You can learn this through checking his attention throughout whenever you go out on a date.
479910
I think your fiance has a lot of issues that you guys need to work out before you get married. But hold out on him and he will initiate sex soon enough, trust me, you can hold out longer than him.
1130432
In order to keep your relationship going strong, you must first realize and accept that there are going to be some differences between you no matter how similiar you thought the two of you are. You need to pick and choose your battles and let go of everything else. Also, communication really is key, both in and out of the bedroom. Ask what he or she likes in bed; if they are shy to answer, try a little experimentation. Also, find ways to tell the person what it is that you like in bed too. As far as communication goes for outside of the bedroom, talk talk talk talk! You can find out so much about a person from a few conversations. If you hit a rough patch, talk about things then and there rather than letting it fester and blow up in someone's face later. This way, so much drama is avoided. If you are dealing with a person who will not open up when you try and talk to them, writing a letter expressing your feelings might be a better option because this would create another way for that person to come to you. I hope this helps and good luck!
352292
You cannot force love, but it may be that her refusals are either a security thing (she doesn't know your sincerity) or its the whole hard-to-get thing.\n\nMy fiance asked me so many times and I simply wasn't sure, but the more I got to know him, the more I fell in love with him. Looks are not essential, especially to a woman; its a man's personality, devotion, sincerity, selflessness that will touch a woman's heart. Having said that, you cannot force her to feel a certain way. Some people are simply not compatible and maybe its her intuition that is telling her this. \n\nMy advice is to persist but without ramming it down her throat that you're not going to give up. She wants a man who'll be her best friend, so be there for her. Show her that you're not in this for what you can get out of it, but what you can offer her; show her that you'll be there and love her whatever happens, even if she was to fall for someone else. Its all about being genuine.\n\nGood luck. Don't expect results, love isn't a cooking recipe. Be genuine.
737050
Well first of all way to go getting a younger guy! Pretty big feat! \nBut you really need to think about the fiance. He may have no respect for her, but maybe you should. You didn't mention love, so it shouldn't be that difficult to end. Think of all the other single 25 year olds out there yet to conquer!
306126
I'm with you on this one - my husband is the same way. I had to take five years of CONSTANTly telling him how hot he is - make sure he KNOWS how attracted to him you are...jump him...frequently..let him know you only have eyes for him. I mean sadly repetitiveness is the key...it's just like, he can hear it 10000 times, but until HE believe it, it's not going to work.
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just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
245356
It is true that you can't make somebody love you....But there is always the "game lovers play", in other words, YOU HAVE TO BE SMART ABOUT LOVE! If you show him too much interest, he will not have the desire to "chase after you" and remember that since the beginning of time men have been the "hunters", so what you have to do is find out what things he enjoys about a woman, and play with that information. Men like fun, sexy, loving girls that don't talk too much, are not crying their eyes out every minute of the day and that give them their space and are interested in THEM and in what they have to say, sometimes women have to create the environment so men will look at them with different eyes...Remember you gotta give and take away and that is how  you will keep a man interested and coming back for more!!! Hope this helps...it has worked for me every time! :-)
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.
925320
I would suggest you re-focus your energy on to yourself and your own life more and what you do in your life that gives you pleasure and enjoyment away from your boyfriend.  It might be that you have allowed him to take over your life too much and this may be causing him to loose interest in you a little bit.  For him to stay interested in you, you have to be interested in you and believe in yourself as a worthy and loveable person by doing things that are for your own pleasure and nothing to do with him. Therefore, to get this relationship back on track, suggest you get busy with your own projects, have him realise that he can be PART of your life but he is not the totality of your life, that you have a fulfilling and happy time whether he is there or not ... re-build your confidence by your own activities, e.g. with friends, hobbies etc.  Don't expect your boyfriend to reassure you and give you confidence, you have to get that by yourself.  I would say definitely don't ask him 'what's wrong', there is clearly something wrong and pushing him by asking him about it is likely just to push him further away and make your situation worse.  His behaviour is kind of indicating that it might not be so much fun being with you at the moment, but you can turn things around ... focus on making sure that when you are together you and he have good, positive interactions and lots of fun.  There is nothing more attractive to a man than a happy and confident woman who is good fun to be with.  Good luck.
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make a list of ALL those things which drew you two together, and a list of all those things which work between you. build from there, and perhaps gently talk about those things to your partner, have your partner try the same thing. It is a beginning place to start.  the key is, you have to find it for yourself,,,
829577
Do your research!  Find out all that you can about him.  Develop the same interests as him.  Find ways to share these same interests.  Also (without being obvious) impress upon him that you are in demand with the opposite sex.  Show no real interest in those demands, but if he offers "interest" be the" carrot in front of the horse", just out of reach-yet obtainable.  Once you know that you have him hooked, reel him in...he's yours.
195101
I think that relationships can get boring and predictable after a period of time... so I would suggest throwing in a few curve balls from time to time, catch them off guard and keep them guessing. Keep things interesting. But most importantly... stay faith full and never be afraid to show your feelings.
130403
There are 3 keys to staying married: 1. You need to be able to trust each other   2.  Always have good communication   3. You both need to be willing to do anything to make things work.
1018598
You know what? I don't think it is fair what some of the others have said..i think it is entirely possible to lose abit of that...and what you need to do is relive a lot of the past...remember a lot fo the romantic things you did for him and sneak those things back in to your repetoire...by that I mean...I sent my wife an Easter card when she went back to see her family in South America and she loved it..my wife and I started off by writing and emailing and while we've known each other for 11 years we've been married for 7.  I always try to do things, read old letters, look at pictures and read diaries of things we did together and I try to do them again...go to fine restaurants (tough with a child) but we do what we can.  I haven't fallen out of love with my wife but I think that it is necessary for you to start dating your husband on a weekly basis so that it doesn't happen again-FLIRT WITH HIM-go park..hehe whatever.....life is a long journey..sometimes it seems as though your priorities with children and work that sometimes you may lose the spark a bit..just light the pilot light again and do what you can to get his attention and it doesn't have to go back to the bed-especially if you are trying to see where his feelings lie with you...(no pun intended)...yeah that will get his attention in the short run..as it will in most men...BUT....it won't stand for the long run...so there has to be more.  maybe play hard to get a little..make him feel as though he has to give chase a bit...don't play the game too long...but...entice him..take him out for ice cream or even to a ball game EVEN if you HATE baseball or football...or a concert if he doesn't care for sports...\namusement park..you get the idea...do things that he LOVES to do that you would normally not care so much for because you CARE about doing stuff he is interested in...it is just an idea...surprise him...