Why do I feel that my mate is cheating on me? He tells me he's not.?
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
536722
I have to agree, you will not find out he is cheating unless you catch him. Do you think that maybe that this group of people that are telling you things possibly don't like you? Maybe they are jealous of you and your man and don't want to see you guys together. Question yourself girl. I believe all people, whether or not they say they do not know their significant other is cheating, deep down they have suspicions, that maybe something is not right.  Did you ever suspect him of cheating before people have told you this? How was your relationship before all of this happened? I think you need to evaluate the way your relationship is going. Good luck.
394138
Oh my.  Are you sure he's not cheating on you?
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
485882
Any ladies out their that suspect their guy is cheating on them is because they are feeling insecure and they dont trust their men. So for you ladies out their let me tell u trust your men and try to stop feeling so insecure. If your men leaves you for some other chick this might mean he wasnt for you. take care to all.
680515
sounds like you have trust issues and if you do then this relationship is over. even if he isnt' cheating on  you if you are convinced that he is he might as well be. first thing in any relationship to survive is trust and communication. there are no for sure ways to see if he is cheating the only thing you can do is keep an eye open and make him feel wanted and loved. make him feel like a man, if he feels like one then he'll act like one.
1033896
You should just casually confront him about the situation and show him the evidence that you have to be suspecting that you believe he is cheating.  While you are confronting and he begins to get really upset for no reason that usually means he is lying.  Ask him to gently tell you the truth and that is all you want to hear.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
1165358
Nah, it sounds like he isn't being honest with you, and that is a major component in a distance relationship.  If he's lying to you now then it will only get worse as time goes by and he gets away with more.  Also, once a cheater always a cheater.  It sounds like you need to find someone a bit closer.
560140
I think he is cheating on u or hes about to...u r going 2 get hurt either way.
921984
Maybe he's trying to make you jealous.\nIn that case, go out, have fun, and act single. Start thinking of you, what you would like to do--hobbies, clubbing, exc. If he is really trying to make you feel jealous it'll bug him, espeically if you \nare seeing someone else too. From his reaction at least you can find out what he really feels. If he really cares or if he's just playing around.
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you