How do u treat people who say rascist things?
147241
The best thing to do is to ignore them because they are usually wanting to get attention by saying these things anyway. If it is someone you know well, perhaps you could sit them down and try to get them to look at other races in a different light by explaining that we're all God's children and God loves wonderous variety. I would tell them to educate themselves about the cultures they are putting down and tell them that they only look ignorant and arrogant when they do this and realize that these people have feelings just as we do. :)
50819
That’s a tough one. Of course, everyone will probably say, "Ignore them, it doesn't matter what people think", and that's true but that doesn't stop things from hurting. What exactly do they say? Is it because of your clothes and shoes or more like your race or culture? I ask this because sometimes certain are out of hand and sometimes they’re not. I know of some cases where people have talked about someone who did absolutely nothing when it came to personal hygiene. This person wore no deodorant, never brushed his hair and always smelled bad. When confronted, he said it was because he didn’t care about how he smelled, not because he didn’t have the money to take care of himself. If people are talking about you and it something that you know is true then maybe you should decide what to do to make it better. However, if the bastards are being plain rude, obnoxious and disrespectful, stand up for yourself. Confront and let them know that their approval is neither desired nor required.
123350
sounds like one that the guys in my family would enjoy but at the same time, one that would make me want to hit my boyfriend for saying!  A little too racist for me, so you would definetly want to be careful who you tell it to!
516394
if they're being racists
312792
Opt out of racism.\nNo one can challenge you.
484799
The last thing, i think you should do is do the same thing. They are going to think they can keep doing it. When someone tries to pass it off as a joke, you calmly and directly say, Why are you insulting me? They will say "I am only kidding." That is when you say and not in a sarcastic tone, or pissed tone, in a calm and direct way, look them in the eyes and say,\nI find that insulting and not funny. In the future i would appreciate you not speaking to me that way." and smile. \nWhen you approach people in this way you are setting the tone on how you want to be treated. If you respond to them in the same way they spoke to you you will never really solve anything because they will know they can do it again.  When you respond in a direct, assertive way there is no grey area, they will know they shouldn't talk to you that way. If they do it again, resume the same non aggressive, direct approach, calmly and politely say, Did you forget what I told you earlier? Please don't speak to me that way. Don't worry about what they will think about what you have said to them if they were kinder people they wouldn't treat you like this in the first place. You are doing this for yourself so you don't have to think over and over afterward what should i have said that would have been better.  I use this approach and it works for me.
752072
I'm black (don't get fooled by my avatar) It depends on whose saying it and how they are saying it. If someone says it to me and really means I'll assume they're rasist. If it seems to be all in fun then I take it as a joke.
97437
Just say "That wasn't nice." when they say something harsh. Maybe they don't realize it.\n\nOtherwise, get new friends.
758319
I think that if I was trying to hurt a white person's feelings, I would ask them how things are down at the trailer park and when their cousins are going to marry each other again.  I would accuse them of being a racist, a slave master/owner, or a member of some white supremist group. I would also rant about how much they hate black history month, afrocentric holidays, and how their ancestors stole land from the indians. Furthermore, I would stereotype them with television shows like "Leave it to Beaver" and "Father Knows Best".
222801
Ask them why they all look like Nazis.  Then spray them with a hose.
17779
the best way to deal with a person is to figure out whether or not you actually like them, despite how they think.  are they a good person at heart?\n\na person sometimes cannot help their ignorances.  i grew up in a small, conservative, and nasT racist town.  therefore, after i moved to a nice mixed community, i sometimes come across as insensitive to those who aren't like me.  it's not that i harbor any resentment WHATSOEVER of anyone based on anything save for how they treat me!  it's just that i never learned when i was a child of the things that are appropriate to discuss.  if the person in question is open to new ideas, then you should remain around them, and not look down upon them.  help them see other points of view, if it's within your capacity.. and if not, direct them to those who can.  \n\nlooking down on a person just because you THINK they're of lower consciousness than you is borderline prejuduice.
651935
dont insult people that are retarded like that
177850
Appearing politically correct to others.
65094
Ignore, Ignore, Ignore.  People like that feed off of seeing your reactions to what they say.  Once they realize that it doesn't bother you or that they can't get a reaction from you, they will stop what they are doing!
592536
well this is kind of yahoo answers, in order to evaluate a situation some judging has to come into play. i don't judge too harshly though but the most important thing is you. i've had people call me some pretty ragged names over the years and quess what? doesn't matter. i have in fact become proud of the traits that most judgmental people hate. i masterbate several times a day if i can find the time and i love it. people tell me i'm a loser for it and thats their opinion but if it really bothered me i'd stop. freedom of speech means everyone from the kkk to the black panthers is allowed to speak their minds freely without worrying about consequences. i personally would rather racist people be open about it so we know they are idiots and can ignore them. rather than have them hide it from us so we don't judge them. so yeah, don't judge people, but if people do judge, who cares, no biggie, ignore them.
647689
Depends on the situation and what they say. I will take so much and then use a very quick response of the palm to the chin. When they look up from the ground, I tell them; "You as about as stupid as they come, you have no respect for me!!! I have no respect for you!!! Would you like to see more of my Disrespect or shut your Fu*king mouth and leave me alone. I have done NOTHING to you"!!!!!\nUsually, they seem to stay quite as people giggle. I call it; Acting in self defense! Usually when a person realize you will knock the crap out of them they WILL leave you alone. But, most of society now believes Verbal Abuse is OK.
583986
nothing i mean to each his own cause if you hate racists are you not being in your own way a racist yeah dude chew on that >:)