where is the best place to find a normal guy to date in pennsylvania?
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Is there such a thing as a normal guy?\n\nDefine normal . . . because we are all unique in different ways.
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its not rare to meet a person at random places like that, but listen to your gut. I once met a guy at starbucks, and i went out with him a few times, but something just didnt feel right about the guy, my gut was telling me that something was just off. So i stopped seeing him. If you do decided to go out on a date with this guy make sure you go somewhere public where there will be alot of people. Also make sure your friends and parents know where you are. You should have someone call you to check up about mid way through the date, and casually mention that you told your parents where you were going, this way he knows someone knows where you are and is waiting for you to come home. Better safe then sorry, he might end up being a super nice guy, but you can never be too carefull.
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Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
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depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
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Ok sounds silly but match.com.  i met my man and guess what he lived in my state, but in a different city but worked in the city where I live. Only 10 minutes away from me.  Really weird how things work. I have been in this area for 10 years and it took match.com for me to actually meet him and find out what a wonderful guy I have been missing. \nFind profiles that talk about a man's personality not about his physical appearance or sex preferences. \nOn the internet there are never enough ways to be careful. Always correspond first through the site, then if you are feeling comfortable either talk on the phone or meet in person but always in a public place.
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how to find a good boy friend?I've always wondered
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passion.com   yahoo.personals    meetup.com  match.com  american singles,  cupid.com  \n\npost a positive profile and decent head shot of yourself and good luck !!!!!1
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Why don't you go instead to a supermarket at dinner time when a lot of nice men are out there buying their meals? Its a good way to meet guys that are not fake.\n\nI would forget of dating sites if I were you.\nLots of dangerous men and people out there.\nThey will tell you the world, the best that is not them and then once you are all into "mmm i found a good guy" you will only find the truth. \nHe lied, he cheated, he does not even look like the pictures online.\n\nI dont say all people online dating are bad, but a vast majority can be and it's difficult to tell unless you have known a person for a long time and you re met online by coincidence.\n\nSearch online there is an article about how online dating is now having huge problems with the divorce rates now showing up for those who were matched by online dating organizations or associations whateer you call them.\n\nALL OF THOSE ONLINE DATING SITES ARE NOT THERE TO GIVE YOU SUPERMAN FOR A HUSBAND! OR SUPERWOMAN FOR WIFE! They are out there to make money and they dont care what happens personally to you.\n\nThere is not one site that is infallible to sexual predators, perverted or dishonest people (there's tons ande no offense but if you have good health and two feet and a heart and eyes and all working right GO FOR THE REAL THING! OUTSIDE THE INTERNET!\n\ngO to a park (lots of dad's or mom's and many may be also looking for a good person to date and even marry).\n\nPersonally I would not spend a dime on online dating. And beware!! People from other countries may want your money and promise you chivalry and never ending love until they get your money and then fly out elsewhere and not even meet you. That happend to someboyd I knew. Russian ladies online can lie real good.\nBeware of distance if you decide to go online to find yr mate.\nIt doesnt work specially if you meet online, to be in different continents or countries and even States. \n\nIt is very rare that a person finds a good mate if they have not met each other and know each other for quite a while, reasoned about things together, experienced things together. \n\nJust writing online can harm serious people lookig for love. Because most people online can get away with murder and lies.\n\nDo you work? anybody there that may be better for you? school? \n\nWhy don't you volunteer into a positive cause and organization ? most likely good people will be there to meet you and will be REAL.
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I'm looking for one in NJ ...
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Try match.com or yahoo match.  I know they exist.  Don't waste time with the bums.  Also, you should tell them you're a woman and not a wemon.
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There is no guaranteed way; you shouldn't try to manipulate him into it or attempt to mislead him into believing you're something you're not. Why not try a gothic or emo dating site, so you can meet someone with similar interests?
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yeah there are lots......... just move to a small town in the middle of the country...... j/k there r many gurls that want a white/hispanic/asian guy u just need to look 4 her
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NOT in a bar, any more than heterosexuals looking for LTRs. You aren't that different from the rest of us. Bars are for one-night stands.\n\nTry one of the three churches that won't stone you to death for being "possesed by the devil" - MCC, Congregationalsist, Unitarian-Universalists.\n\nWork on a gay rights political committee.\n\nWork for a straight politician with the balls to admit you guys are human and stand up against the right-wing crazies.\n\nTake it slow, obviously. It's harder for you than for the straights; all anyone in a gym, sierra club hike, book group or night class who asks a lady for lunch risks is a turn-down. You can spoil a casual friendship fast by asking someone out if they don't play in your league.
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You can meet guys anywhere! but if you want to meet guys with the same interest and hobbies as you then that is what you should do. Volunteer at the marathons.\nbut you can meet guys at the coffee shops, grocery store, bookstore, clothing store, shoe store, clubs, sport events, bars, and the Internet.
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Try  tgpersonals.com or craigslist.org personals under misc romance\n\nGood Luck
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OK, this is a GOOD QUESTION. \n\nThe best place to find good MEN is a gym. \n\nAlso, many cities and towns have groups of single parents that meet other single parents. \n\nAnd, join an association, a club, etc. There you will find a lot of good MEN.\n\nThe only guys you will find in bars are BOYS! And immature ones, at that.\n\nNever a good idea to date someone from work. Always causes gossip. And you do not need those mind games!!
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Yeah, I'm dating one! The best place to find one is a rodeo. Depending on where you live, there should be one close to you! However, I don't think I know any that young! Usually you need to be a little older to get a good one.