for guys! what does it mean for you to have sex with a virgin? do you feel somekind of responsibility?
142134
I only ever had sex with one virgin.  Married her 7 years later :)
777185
A virgin is a person who has never had sex. \n\nYou cannot tell if a woman is a virgin by looking at her. When a man has sex with a woman for the first time she usually bleeds just a little bit, and this is how you can tell she is a virgin. \n\nYou cannot tell if a man is a virgin or not, which is not very fair, as many men use this to their advantage.\n\nOn the whole it is the sexual habits of men that are responsible for spreading diseases in this way.
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This is how I feel about it ...\n\nYou should stay a virgin till you're married.\nGod intended it to be that way.\nBut many, MANY people abuse that.\nAnd God looks down on those people.\n\nYou don't just give your virginity to just anybody.\nIt is the best present you can give your future husband.\nIt is you... it is all of you.\n\nIf you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.\nYou'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.\nIt won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.\n\nSex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.\nIt takes two very mature people.\nYou do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.\nMost people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.\n\nI am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
973851
Sex is a beautiful thing and it's good to be a virgin.  \n\nTo make love with your love one and not to any others means you have loads of respect for her.\n\nAlso without having casual sex, you are preventing sexual diseases too.
1166791
Yes, losing your virginity means having sex with someone else.
691141
I personally think so. Because some crazy man might think that your a slut kinda and would want to take advantage of you to satisfy his sexual needs. So just hind the fact that your not a virgin okay.
192129
If there was no need for virginity, there would not be so many guys all excited about the possibility of conquest of one.\n\nVirginity is a must, theoretically virgin means untouched. Many things start out untouched or virginal. Examples: Virgin wool, virgin olive oil, virgin soil, etc...
118007
Do anything that feels good, whether a dildo, vibrator, finger or whatever.  Being a virgin is not having sex with a male. The revered hymen that is talked about seldom remains after 18 due to sports or other activities. Self pleasure does not mean you are no longer a virgin.
635967
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
430743
No she is not a Virgin. Technically we refer to Virginity as not having been 'penetrated'. However, in the modern sense, Being a Virgin implies that you have never engaged in sex with a partner. If you have had oral sex with another, then you have had sex...therefore you are no longer a Virgin. Point being, if you are asking this type of question, you are too young and your partner is WAY too young to be engaging in this type of activity. Wait a few years...it will be worth it...And when you are older you will understand that I am correct.
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I think it depends on the guy. If that is what his morals and values are... then yes... he would respect a virgin more than someone who is not. But, not everyone has those beliefs. Personally... I would rather try the milk before buying the cow, and I'm a woman. I haven't experienced any disrespect because I am not a virgin. I feel that as long as you are not screwing any and every one... and that you are actually being selective in who you give your body to. That is what gains respect.
926372
Yes honey, virgin means you haven't had vaginal sex.
129493
What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...
176762
I haven't waited, but if I met a guy, and he wanted to wait until we got married, I wouldn't have a problem with that.  Sometimes I wish I had waited, virginity can be seen as a special gift to the right guy.
495807
About male there's no similar system as girl to verify that.\nThus, a virgin man only is a way to point people who never had sex. Therefore, as the first real act occurs, then generally the guy affirms to have lost (virtually) his virginity. Underlining that there is no way to demonstrate or negate it!
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I am all for abstinence.\n\n\nThis is how I feel about it ...\n\nYou should stay a virgin till you're married.\nGod intended it to be that way.\nBut many, MANY people abuse that.\nAnd God looks down on those people.\n\nYou don't just give your virginity to just anybody.\nIt is the best present you can give your future husband.\nIt is you... it is all of you.\n\nIf you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.\nYou'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.\nIt won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.\n\nSex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.\nIt takes two very mature people.\nYou do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.\nMost people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.\n\nI am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of more than 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
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Ask yourself...do you love her as much as you think you do? cos if you do, you wouldn't bother to find out whether she's still a virgin. Does her virginity really matters that much to you?