What can a person do if they can't control their actions?
153071
They can grow up and learn how to take responsibility for themselves .
153723
I have the same problem.  Someone told me I need to control it... but it isn't as easy as it sounds...
505972
Circumstances that are completely out of the realm of your control are uncontrollable.  Those over which you have no cause and can have no contribution whatsoever.\n\nFor example, it rains.  Rocks fall.  Now if the rock is on your property, and the rain has caused erosion, and this is something that can and should be known, then it becomes something (the falling rock and any damage that may ensue) become something over which you have control.  In other words you should have known or could have known the rock could fall because the rain has caused erosion.
483589
I think like you said you want to control your life, but the steps you are taking are not good for you, I think its time for you to see and speak to someone about what you are doing to yourself. When something bad happens to you try to make it worse to make you feel better I believe you explained very well of what your a feeling and doing to yourself.. please speak to someone you feel safe with and trust..please!!!!!
64895
you can't get a guy to break his habits if he doesn't want to.  you're not keeper so therefore you  can't make him stop.
508241
THE ONLY SOLUTION I CAN COME UP WITH IS TO PRAY. WHEN YOU FEEL THAT THERE IS TO MUCH YOU CAN'T CONTROL, JUST GET ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY, AS LONG AS YOU BELIEVE IN HIM EVERYTHING WILL ALWAYS WORK OUT FOR THE BEST!!
625056
even though you are under your mind won't really let you do anything you would not do awake....Like kill someone etc...\nAnd you do know whats going on but, its like your dreaming.
482549
You need to do WHATEVER the prisoner and his sister tell you to do, because they really OUGHT to be running your life.\n\nYou obviously lack the ability to control yourself, so let others control you.\n\nOr-- you could grow a backbone and put and end to it.
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Absolute Self Control
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Realise the power of your mind.  You can do anything.  You can let the boogyman bother you or you can explode him into non-existance with a blink of an eye if you choose.
365042
Pray and also pay attention to the things that lead you to think that way.  Like, maybe when you're with certain people or if you watch a certain TV program or if you start thinking about one thing it leads you to another.  It's all part of self-discipline.  \n\nTheoretically, some people think we should be able to do anything and still have control over our thoughts, but if that were the case we'd be perfect.  The most important thing is knowing what leads you to loftiness or to abasement.  If you know that, you can take much better care of yourself in every way.  \n\nAlso, relax and take time for yourself doing things just for fun and for no other reason.  Go to the lake or the park or go see a play with some friends.  Sometimes we get so tired of life because we let it run us ragged.  Take a break and enjoy it! :o) Good luck!
1111671
It's doing something that you have to do, but you don't want to do. It's also called doing something against your will.
383881
You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.
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You just require self control. Think about it: nobody but YOU has power over YOU. You do whatever it is that you want to do. NOBODY can stop your thoughts.\n\nYes, it is DEFINATELY the "I don't care" attitude that gets you in trouble. You have to strive to care even if you are angry. You can learn to direct the raw power you get from anger in constructive ways. \n\nThere are SO MANY people today that do exactly what you do (about caring), that it isn't funny. These really are the ones who go to prison. Why? They mess up at the wrong times. OR, they will get angry and hurt someone because they DON'T care. \n\nThis is the way I see it: Think of the failure to care as a weakness. Because, let's face it, NOT to care would be the EASY thing to do. You don't like weakness. FORCE yourself to care. Make it a point of strength. Understand that, when all the other people out there go to hurt you, sure, you could hurt them back, OR you could be in control. Have pride in the fact that they would be FORCED to be out of control if someone hurt them. You, however, would not. You would be strong. You would be in control.\n\nPeace,\nJon
244858
I know!  I can be that way even when I don't mean to be.  When I'm stressed not just about one thing but a lot of things that I can't control I grab onto whatever and whoever in my life and try to control everything.  Inside you feel lost and out of control so you will try and control anything you can.  I do it more with my house.  I keep it spic and span!  Mostly cause of bills and I can't control them.
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Yes because you can cause damage to your brain!!\n& its never good to not be in control of yourself\nhave a few drinks if you must but stop when you are  just merry happy tiddly or what ever you call it \nnever wipe yourself out \nits more fun when you know whats going on around you
851990
Women have great intuition, but they must be careful with it.  If there is something going on, there is nothing I believe you can do to prevent it.  I do not believe you can control other peoples' behavior, only your own.  You can control how you react to a situation.\n\nIf you were my family member, I would tell you what my mother told me.  Keep your mouth shut and your eyes open.  If he's playing tomcat with her, you will know soon enough.  Your not stupid in any way.