Is it wrong to be in a relationship with the same sex? I am a Christian. I love this woman.?
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Being a Christian I'm sure you hear a lot of stuff that says it is against gods will.  However they think about religion is that you have to look more at its roots and realize that while it has a good base, it has been misconstrude over the years to fit what people want it to say.  At its roots it says that you should love everyone.  If it was against gods will for you to love someone of the same sex would he allow you to feel that way?  Wouldn't he make it so there was some dire consequence like death?  All religions preach love as being one of the most important things there is.  If you love another person of the same sex, that is simply who you are and who you have found love with.  There is nothing wrong with love.
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hi, \n It is a hard thing to be married to someone who does not share ur beliefs.... the Bible states that when a man and a woman r joined together in marriage they r not to separate.... 1 Cor 7:12-16 gives a firm direction from the apostle Paul for the very situation u r in and why he feels this way....\nGod bless and be with u in this time\nShaz\nx x x x x x
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It is perfectly natural. Im happily married to my lovely wife and beautiful twin boys but these people have different lifestyles. If God says eceryone is equal why does he constanly victimise Gays and Blacks. It is about time the church got with the times and learned not everyone has to be hetrosexual and must have children.
1087185
No its not wrong... unless you have a wife who's telling ya its wrong.... lol
271593
This depends on what religion you are talking about.  As a (conservative) Christian myself, I would say that one cannot necessarily help their feelings, but they must learn to control them.  To ACT on your love for this married woman would be a sin.  The basis of this is that God created one man and one woman to be together forever; they screwed it up when they fell into sin, so no one can have the perfect marriage anymore, thus divorce exists.  But we also hold the belief that God has a plan for everyone, and this is also true for you, so if you are meant to be with this woman it will happen, but not right now.  Just be patient.
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Sin yes, something wrong no. Your showing concern which shows that it means something to you, so I would not feel to guilty. As far as your future wife, it should probably be something that she knows, and if you tell her and express your concern, more likely than not she will be forgiving. Don't beat yourself up over it man, 4 girls, no less ones you actually knew is not to bad these days. And I know this has nothing to do with the question, but its nice to see that some people still have a conscience these days. Best of luck figuring it all out!
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Have you ever been with a female before?  I don't think you're a lesbian because you have admitted that you want to marry your boyfriend and have children with him.  I think you're just curious about being with a woman.  If it's only for the sexual aspect of it, why not let your boyfriend watch?  That should please all parties involved.  :O)
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Its important to have a wonderful union, true but if you consider it this way; \nmarriage is sacred and within the boundaries of marriage physical intimacy can be expressed to the HIGHEST degree while at the same time be respecting God's principle of abstinance which is always followed by His blessing of a rewarding relationship as long as you both shall live.\n\nThe fact that you have cheated (yes I am being blunt and it hurts)and have had physical intimacy prior to marriage with other woman makes you a bigger loser than a winner. Why???? you ask?\n\nWell if you would never have had physical intimacy with another woman prior to a life-long commitment within the boundaries of marriage you wouldn't know how to compare her to another woman would you? Am I right or am I right?\n\nHow can you compare something to nothing? How can you say she is good if you don't know any other way? So realistically she IS be the best because she is the only one. Anything and everything she does is the best because it is her and you love her and have dedicated your life to her and love her unconditionally not on the basis of if she measures up to your standards. None of this if..., but..., or expect..., that is the poorest love you can give; conditional love that is.\n\nNow given that this picture has been flawed yet you choose to do what is best by her, yourself and God, I commend you for this, it shows that you would like to have a new start. In Jesus' Name you will!\n\nIf you have a new start how about you renew your mind to a mind that originally knew nothing of physical intimacy? Why compare her if you are giving her the chance to correct her past and likewise you want to forget your past? What have you got that other men don't have? What can't she do that other women can do? \n\nTrue love will naturally allow you to have a wonderful fulfilled life of physical intimacy where both the heart, mind, soul and body are connected and involved. Now this is true climax, but in terms of only physical satisfaction I would think you are missing out on the best because as soon as you add the other elements, your satisfaction grows exponentially.\n\nDon't tell me you are truely pleased when your heart is not there and don't tell me that even if you trick your heart in believing its real, after reality kicks in, you're not left with a sour taste that far outweighs and outlast the sweetness of the original deceitful lie.\n\nAbstinance is not a means of torture but a means of long term gain and success. If you cannot abstain for much longer get married sooner.
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If she loved it and you enjoy her loving it nope nothing wrong there. If ou're trying to bring in some religious issues well that may be a whole nother story.
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It depends on what your beliefs are. You're girlfriend may be alright with it, but it sounds like you're having a problem being with her. If you're not sure of what to do, then don't get involved with her until you are absolutely sure that there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. If you believe that it's wrong then it's wrong to you. Everyone is not going to have the same beliefs, so you can only go on what your gut feelings are concerning this homosexual relationship.
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You are not a homosexual. You are a person who has homosexual tendencies. I am not being picky here. There is much more to being human than any one aspect of ourselves. You ARE a Catholic who has same-sex attractions and your Church is NOT AGAINST YOU.\n\nLike every other human being, you have been blessed with existence—not because you deserve it, but because God in His generosity has given it to you. It is such a basic gift, that most of us ordinarily don’t even think of it as such. But it is. If God wanted to take it back, He would not have to do anything. He would have to STOP doing something. It’s a gift that He keeps giving or we would simply cease to exist. There is no way that we could ever pay Him for this.\n\nSo from the start, we owe Him big time. Now besides this we all have many other gifts as well. Some of us can paint portraits or play the piano. None of us has every gift. Some of the greatest gifts He gives us are the individual crosses that He places in our lives that offer us the opportunity to grow in our love for Him. \n\nSome people carry the cross of not being able to hear or see, while others, the cross of not being able to marry for any number of reasons. One could rant and complain that such is not fair. If God has chosen to create us, then He owes us the basics. At least He owes us a healthy body and psyche! But as we have seen, He doesn’t owe us anything. We owe Him. Further, He has shown us that He really cares about us and loves us with a love that is infinite—it has no limit. This is difficult for us to get our minds around since everything we experience has limits. But on that first Good Friday as He hung on the cross, He gave us a glimpse of what unlimited love is. It is there that we can come to an understanding of the value of our own crosses. They give us the opportunity to respond to such love in a concrete way that is as totally unique as the individual crosses He has given us.\n\nYou have a very special place in the Church. You have been called to have no other partner in life than Him. The world does not understand this. It speaks as if Good Friday never happened. But by the gift of faith that you do have, you know that almighty God chose to favor you with the gift of Himself in a very intimate and unique way. Selfless love is not easy for us, but He is so worth it!\n\nI would suggest that you check out this website: http://couragerc.net/\n\nCheck this website out as well--should this cross of yours be only for a temporary period of time: http://www.narth.com/docs/repair.html\n\nYou are in my prayers.
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nothing wrong with it at all as long as u tell the woman and she understands what kind of relationship she is in with u
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you already answered your question when you said you love her, i mean you love another girl and engaged to another woman ,may be thats not fair to her or you ,you should think about that ,even if she is from another religion but it doesnt mean she is from another planet.
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That would make you unequally yolked, and I don't believe God intends for you to marry someone who isn't a Christian.\n\n*EDIT*\n\nIf you two are deeply in love, then if she is the one, she will get saved.  If not, then she's not the one for you, and you should ask God for help with moving on.
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right. love is love. if you love a person and are in a long term relationship and you want to be with that person forever, marry them\n\nif two people of the same gender, are in love and they marry then who can say that that is wrong? NO ONE
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Anyone who refuses to allow themselves to love someone because of their spiritual beliefs has some major issues.  DO you really think God would tell you that a person from a different church didn't deserve to be loved?  I've been on the "dumnped" end of that situation more than once, and I can tell you that it hurts pretty bad.  As long as you're honest with the person you love and respect their right to have their own beliefs, it shouldn't matter what those beliefs are.
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Did you ever talk to her about being gay? (in general) Maybe she could accept you as you are?! I'd say you're rather bi than gay, but that's a different problem.\nI was in the same situation. Now I left my wife and live with another woman, at least she knows about my sexual prefferences and has accepted me as I am.\nAre you bad? no, just sad...\n\nSucces si curaj! Dragos, Buc.