My question is datingare some people doomed to walk this earth alone for ever?
156886
It's how you look at it.  Like yourself and screw everyone else.  It's "all about you".  Don't let others make you feel like your less than them,   "they are doomed to walk the earth without you", too.  I used to be married and that was the worst doom in my life.  Now I love being single and would have a hard time giving it up.  Our culture puts to much emphasis on that stupid word "dating"-------just be friendly and don't push relationships too fast, if at all.
121713
Unfortunately society is killing them off.\n\nHow many times have you turned around and said or thought "creep", how many times has someone who is extremely interested in someone been labelled "stalker".\n\nSadly this is the way it will continue. There are a few of us out here who are kind of like that, but we are labelled as being "emotionaly crippled" or whatever other metaphors you wish to use.\n\nKeep looking, there are plenty of us misfits left but we are a dieing breed in todays world ;O)
146544
Yes, it is possible, and I understand you worry. However, some people have to be alone to realize their purpose is not human company, they might need to learn more about themselves and without the dsitraction of significant people, one is more likely to concentrate on self awareness.\nIt is alright to be worried, the important thing is your conclusions from this worry, what you do with. If you decide to learn from not having anyone indispensable, you will make it an advantage instead of a problem it seems to be.
710953
Things are tough all over. I have been looking for a long time and no luck. So don't feel like the Lone Ranger. Maybe you are still looking for that knight in shining armor to come and sweep you off your feet. Good luck' There is no such thing.
591842
Yes, I do.  I work, but its difficult for me.  All of my time after that is alone.  I dont go out to social gatherings at all.  Last time I did I went to a movie by myself, but dont think I'd do that again.  People seem to like me, dont really no why or care.  Most of time I am disgusted with people, just there presence alone.  It is my destiny to be alone, there is no way I could ever go on a date.  No way.  As soon as I was with the person, I would want to go home.\n\nI did live with someone who was a recluse for 3 years, and he was pretty good for me. He never went out, had no friends, stayed home on the computer or listened to music.  Only problem, he wouldnt work, at first I didnt mind but it really got annoying laying out cash for every thing.  Needless to say we are not together, but both still totally alone.
503040
I truly believe there is NO WAY to find them.  A soul mate appears when it is the right time like my husband did.  I searched all my life to find him and I didn't till I was 48 and we are married now, have a new home, pets, kids, grandkids and a great life.  He is my world.  There are soul mates for everyone I believe, but they find you when it is the right time for both of you.  I truly believe God meant for my husband and I to meet.  What I am lacking, he has an abundance of and visa versa.  We are opposites in lots of ways, but neither has ever loved like we do now.
430948
Maybe you are afraid of commitment or maybe you just don't know yourself.  I suggest you take a break from dating and do some soul searching---how do I know because I am doing it right now--I have been so dependent on having someone there for me.  You need to start making yourself happy first (I am on a quest to do so as we speak).
1157950
yes i do...i believe everybody has one other person there supposed to be with.  They're "one and only". I believe this other person will never be truly happy with anyone else because its not there "one and only." Some people are lucky to find that one person, others are not.
748460
Of coarse!  It's a hoot!! especially when you want to be alone with someone in particular, just say to everyone to hide in couples and you (couple) will seek, then don't look for anyone, just do whatever in the hiding place of your choice. It's funny how long some will wait and not take advantage of the time alone!!?! Man, that was in the 70's, isn't it still going on? or am I still seeking and everyone has gone home!
1115422
I've never been in a relation either and I'm 19. And I don't date, I'm not looking for love but rather letting love find me. As of yet no such luck, you just can't rush these things. Being patient is the key. For every man there is a woman and vice versa.
16344
That's really difficult.  It's not good to be alone, and there's nothing pathetic about that.  It's hard to meet quality people. Loneliness is very tough -- it's true for everyone.  Just people don't like to admit it.  And the best people can end up single for a long time.  If you are over 18, I suggest you explore online dating.  It really has lost all its stigma.  Many "non-loser" people use online dating as a way to meet matches that share their interests, faith, goals, etc.  This is better than what you'll get limiting yourself to people at work or trying to pick someone up in a bar.  Don't be scared to try online dating -- just make the first date very casual, and in a public space.  Also, have a friend call you 30 minutes into the date so that you can claim an emergency if you know right off the bat that this person is too creepy for you or just not a good fit.
256885
That depends. There are those that no matter what they never find love. I doubt your one of them. Most likely you just didn't find the one yet. All there is to it is to wait and see. Now waiting isn't easy and I can tell you how it is killing me, but that is for another time.
197170
Truthfully no one is normal because everyone is weird to someone, everyone is unique so therefore no it's impossible for anyone to find someone normal.But for the person to be normal in your eyes well that depends on what you consider to be normal. It's just a very dependent question
824852
Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.
1187929
It's possible to be with one person and never HAVE anyone else.  I very much doubt that one would never WANT anyone else. \n\nVariety is the spice of life.
748693
If you are meant to be, no matter what, love will find a way to lead you to each other.. i don't know how and when, but it happened to some people, who separated for  a long time, had their own families, grandchildren and become all alone again, unexpectedly they found each other again. Keep on praying and believing but keep on living, God has a way, just wait..
137874
i met someone on blackplanet and met them and it started off great but it ended up in heartbreak, but hey that can happen with someone down the street. its pretty much the same as meeting people in person. there will still be freaks and crazy people but there seems to be more bisexuals and freaks. i wouldn't recommend long distance though cause they have secret lives.