I'm afraid, that the first time i have sex, i wont know what to do. How do you position youself?
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When the time comes, things just happen naturally. Don't worry somehow you will just know!!!! I am not trying to be funny...it is just true...There is a song from an Operetta called "Doin' What Comes Naturally".(Annie Get Your Gun)...that's what you do....what comes naturally!
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plz don't listen to the ppl who tell u to rush into things and just "have fun". sex isn't supposed to be "just" that. it's supposed to mean something. \n\nu r a stand-up guy and r very special. not many (if any at all) men ur age (or any age for that matter) think the way u do. any girl would be lucky to have u and i'm sure they won't care at all about ur lack of experience in the field. everyone has a first time and believe me, it doesn't require practice to be good. the quality isn't by any means analogus towards the quantity!! sex is pleasurable when u really mean it and give it a cause. when u want to actually give to the person u love a part of your soul. that is when u give it all u got and believe me..it does come naturally. \n\nalthough, just so u don't stress urself out too much, take the previous answerer's advice and watch an educational video (note: NOT PORN - that'll give u completely the wrong idea!!) and read a few books. that will help u get ur self-confidence up.\n\nbest of luck!!!
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Like others have said, it's not going to be comfortable at all the first time.  TV and the media have made things out to be that your first time is going to be this magical time and you'll orgasm.  The truth is that most girls don't orgasm during sex for the first few times.  Don't be discouraged though, because as you get to know each others bodies and what feels good to both of you, you will get better at it.  I admire what you guys did.  Good luck!!!
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do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
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After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
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Act like you don't know what's really going on, and be sure to "prep" yourself for several minutes prior.  If you're with an experienced woman, she won't expect you to perform for long.  Really though, its all about what you do and don't know in bed, so as long as you act clumsy and shy, you should be fine.
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When you are on top, you are in control. \nFeel yourself with your fingers and then as you straddle him take his penis and ease just the tip inside you, then gently go down on it. A womans vagina doesn't go straight up, so as he enters you, lean forward slightly so his penis is pointing towards your back. If it feels uncomfortable at first just move your hips slightly and it will ease in nicely.\n\nIf this doesn't help, try rolling over with him inside you. it is a bit tricky at first but can be mastered with practice.
527143
well, are you married? b/c you shouldn't have sex until you're married. also you sound doubtful. and if you don't know if you're ready to have sex, you're not.
548995
Go to library and get the book "Sex For Dummies".  Watch porn will help you with different positions.  Go to the adult store and buy some sex toys.
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nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
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I'm not a guy, but I have to speak up here.  I think that down the road, you will regret having sex for the first time with someone who means nothing to you.  However, I suspect you don't believe that now.  My advice, if you go through with it, is use a CONDOM!
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Before you find your first top, try things to learn to relax your anal muscles and see if you enjoy the sensation -- some don't.  Start with fingering and lots of lube to loosen yourself.  Work more fingers in, concentrating on relaxing. \n\nWhen you've learned to do that, work up to sex toys so that you can discover the sensations and get more penetration.\n\nThen, find an experienced top.  Let him know that you're used to topping, but want to bottom for the first time.  It will feel completely different, but you will have gained the skills to use.\n\nAnd be safe.
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Sometimes it isn't always the position.  Why don't you try changing the location.  The act of having sex somewhere where you are not supposed to can add tons of excitement to even the most boring of sex lives.  Make sure it is somewhere that you can't be easily seen.  good luck and enjoy
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If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
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Please dont do that the first time you have sex with her... That will scare her especially if she doesn't have a lot of sexual experience. Find out how much sexual experience she has had.  Ask questions and snoop (kinda) "what the kinkiest thing you have done" or "whats the freakiest thing you would do or want to do" or  when your out at the mall somewhere and pat her but and see how she reacts... If she says OOOOOhhhh and kisses you then maybe its a good idea if you do it and she says what are doing and gives you a crazy look.... Please don't spank her...\n\nHope this helps
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Wait until married...  Funny girl :)  and most of the time totally unrealistic (6000 years that some are trying to control sex life of other people... just wake up, it just doesn't work !!)\n\nIf you feel it, you're ready to begin to consider it.  But wait until you feel comfort, take your time, change of partner if you feel pressure, first times can be really important for the way you'll consider sex and love for the rest of your life.  And most of the time, the first time isn't really enjoyable for the girl, she has to learn how to relax and first time are most of the time not really relax :)\n\nSo, look for comfort and respect.  It means also good place, good timing, good guy/girl, love or something near it, and respect.  And to not fear AIDS or a too soon baby, be prepared.  \n\nYour doctor can give you good advice for those last things, but sometimes for the rest too.  Follow your feelings :)  and when you feel ready, enjoy the ride !
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Don't stress it. Everyone has sex eventually. For the most part the first time sucks!\n\nWhat you want to do is find someone you trust and care about, develop a meaningful relationship with them. Talk openly about what it's going to be like and what to expect and whether the both of you are ready, BUY PROTECTION AND KNOW HOW TO USE IT, then when the time is right do it.\n\nThen keep doing it, alot. Do it anyway that you can work it and you feel safe. It's not a performance, it's a very serious joining of two people. It easier the more you do it. And you will get better and better. But ALWAYS BE SAFE! Always.