Why are guys so obsessed w/ porn?
147842
some guys may be addicted like drugs but their is a point to where you need to lay it down what your thinking cause to be real with you no VCR will do it the whole fantasy thing should be done while were asleep and your their when we wake up. just my opinion
1048669
So....you  like to watch porn before sex and you have the idea that your boyfriend will think it's weird?  Umm...that's highly doubtful.  He is more likely to jump in the air and be all happy.  Though there is a Chance you might have that 1% of guys that don't like porn, chances are you have the other type of guy....who will say 'yes, my Gf likes porn'
1165459
I'd get pissed at my guy definitely for watching porn. Luckily my guy doesn't watch it. But I totally agree with you. Of course some men are like why is it a big deal. They just have a hard time seeing it from our point of view because they just thinks its the manly thing to do. MEN!
54253
Looking at sites like that is a sign of low self-esteem and a problem with impulse controls. People that do should get some rational-emotive theraphy counseling to determine what in their life has happened to them to put them in this kind situation. \n\nJust looking at these sites doesn't mean that they're addicted ,but it is fulfilling some sort of emotional void that exists in the person's life. Viewing pornography stimulates the person's brain in a way that would usually be stimulated in other ways i.e.; healthy relationships, an appreciation of arts, participation in sports or fellowship in a place of worship.
430230
I think it is very degrading to women.  I do not know why they do this and it is a question that enters my mind when I talk to a friend of mine who is into porn.  He is obsessed with this and it actually is running his entire life.  Has affairs with numerous women and has porn all over his computer.  Of course I do not respect him or the fact that he doesn't respect women, nor himself.  I feel there needs to be laws on this.  What a person does in private is his/her personal business.  But what satisfaction does a man get looking at magazines, internet, porn flicks, etc?  I honestly feel it is his real sense of inadequacy and definitely does not feel good about himself.\nWhen it comes to the sick-o man who preys on children is another sickening story which makes me ill thinking about it.  \nIf a man reads this...let us know why you need these degrading things.  You cannot be fully satisfied, otherwise you wouldn't be looking at these things.
337876
If you have been reading some of the Q & A's here then you would know, apparently is just porn, sex and big boobs. I think the hormons are bothering a few people. There is alot that can make a guy happy, best way to find out is to ask him!
769271
One thing you can talk about is the dangers of "girl porn."  No, this is not x-rated female pornography, that still fits under the category of "guy porn."  Girl porn consists of romance novels and "chick flicks" or any other media that focus on a woman or the "perfect" relationship.\n\nHow is this porn?  Look at guy porn for a moment.  The appeal of guy porn is firstly, visual.  Men are visual creatures and pornography feeds that need of visual stimulation.  But a bunch of nude women doing nothing is very rare among pornographic media.  You can see that at any art museum.  On the contrary, what's more appealing about pornography is that guys can fantasize that the woman (or women) want nothing but to please the man.  The women in porn movies are usually very vocal, submissive and willing to please no matter what.  It makes it all about the guy.  Even adult magazines have women in exotic locations and poses with the woman staring wantonly in the camera.  It's the same idea of "I want you" that makes it so attractive to men.  Basically, for the viewer of pornography, it's a form of idolatry or self-worship.  They enjoy the idea of being the god of, so to speak, the subject of the porn. \n\nNow, women have their own version of porn called "girl porn" or the romance novel or chick flick.  While romance novels can get pretty steamy and I don't feel they need be addressed too much, most chick flicks are PG, so how can they be called porn?   Unlike the predominantly visual man, women tend to be more emotionally intuitive.  So, the romance novel and chick flick satisfy this emotional part, but that's not what's danerous about them.  Because they satisfy the same desire men have in women, this desire to be admired and worshiped above all things by a man.  This satisfies the same desire guy porn does for the women.  Like guy porn, girl porn allows women to fantasize that the guy is willing to do anything and everything for his lady.  He loves her more than life itself.  He worships her.  She is his goddess, so to speak.  Just as guy porn makes it all about satisfying the all thedesires of the man, girl porn is all about satisfying all the the desires of the woman.  Similar go guy porn, which doesn't show the consequences after the movie (broken relationships, guilt, possible std's or pregnancy, etc.), girl porn is supposedly "happily ever after" as well.  They fall in love and everything goes swimmingly from then on, which is just as unrealistic as two beautiful women being attracted to Ron Jeremy.  \n\nWhat's so bad about being wanted?  Let me answer with another question.  Where does God fit into the traditional chick flick?  The biblical idea of a relationship between man and women are not two people face to face, focused on eachother, it is a man and woman hand in hand, side by side, focused on God.   The chick flick takes God out of the picture and guarantees to satisfy desires that can only be satisfied by a loving relationship with God.
471874
Porn is addictive, and is very hard to break free of.  If you're worried about it now, don't let yourself be fooled by the idea that he'll stop soon.  If he's that into it, it'll take more than you fussing at him to make him stop.  The good news is that it does not necessarily mean that he does not find you attractive.  Guys have a way of separating fact from fiction in this way.  This is not a good thing, but it's probably the allure of the women in the pictures (ie, the fact that they're 'willing and ready to  go) more than the fact that they are thin or have huge, uh, body parts.  He needs an ultimatum.  Them or you.
904095
no.... it's just fantasy and not reality... that's all porn is, is he with you or them??? who does he lay down by every night and have sex with??? If you answered you to both questions- then stop thinking the porn is anything other then fantasy and yes all guys do it and yes it's normal... Instead of worry, join in it and tap into some of them fantasies he has....
576007
porno, well men usually want to watch pornos when they don't have a hot babe to be with.  \n\nif a guy does have a hot babe sometimes he is looking to "enhance" the relationship (like adding adult toys into the bedroom).  \n\nmy final thought is he is addicted to internet porn and replaced the hot babe waiting for him with the myriad of internet babes having sex with other guys, girls, themselves, etc., etc., etc.
670987
I agree with 'leadbelly'....the real issue here is the sending of porn... funny Internet pics, jokes, stories.. are one thing but sending actual porn...that's another...addiction to pornography is a real problem...it hinders peoples ability to enjoy the real thing...contrary to 'jessica rabbit''s comment...when porn addiction is present you CAN'T meet the fantasy no matter what you do..it's not good enough..(do your research next time) \n   Do some research into porn addiction and see if your man fits any of the other 'symptoms'...you may already know the answer..and if he does try to get help because it will destroy a relationship
1158996
I am sure more than half the women here are thinking you would be a great catch.\nI think its more some mens desperation for porn that is unattractive to women and its great to know you have a guy that is happy with the real thing.
1022687
I will answer this question honestly,\nYes, I watch porn and I love it. All my girl friends also watch it. and EVERY girl masterbates or has masterbated before, dont let them lie to you!
659127
dude, looks like you're obsessed with this jack off thing. I know its all human nature but... cool down and take it easy~!
639524
The men I know enjoy it because they don't have to keep it a secret. You two can learn and enjoy it together.(And they don't have to jack off cause they got you.)\n\nBut on the other hand some men dislike it because porn is there get away from you they can have it exact how they like it without your feeling being hurt.
454810
Because he is more interested in porn! SOunds like he has an addiction...which is not your fault. He needs help for his addiction. You need to drag him kicking and screaming into counseling if you want to help him. GOODLUCK
930878
Pornography is like cigarrettes: it's addictive, it's poisonous, and people who make it and use it like to act like it's no big deal.\n\nAll men do NOT watch porn on a regular basis. There are some men who watch it all the time, some men who watch it once in a while or perhaps watched a few when they were younger, and men who don't watch it at all. I can't tell you which category your boyfriend falls in.\n\nSign to watch out for: he keeps a bottle of lube near the computer, by the TV, or any other place that is so blatantly obvious to anyone who walks in the room.\n\nIf your boyfriend just REFUSES to talk to you about this, then you may try couples counseling or individual counseling. In the meantime, try to decide if his porn-watching is a deal-breaker for you, or if you are willing to be okay with it. If he's dismissing your feelings completely and just not listening to you anymore, it may be time to get out of an unhealthy situation.