I like this guy but I think he likes my best friend?
138093
So fix him up and move on... if you can't do that you don't like him enough anyway.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
1078887
Let him know how you feel.... He may not realize you have those kind of feelings for him.  But you need to realize that if you start to actually date him, you may lose him as your best friend if you break up.  Will that be worth it?
70510
well if ur best friends goes out with the guy u like u should either look for another boy or man or watever or say something to ur best friend and say something about it......\npeace out\nmanny
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
30931
so you think you're in love with your best friend, huh?  well, a lot depends on how old you are, how long you've know him, etc.  is he in a realationship right now?  could it be that you are jealous that someone is taking his time away from you?  there are a lot of things to consider here.  the best is to be honest.  if he is really your best friend, then hopefully he will listen to what you have to say and take you seriously.  who knows, maybe he loves you back.  telling someone you love them is something that cannot be taken lightly.  and if you end up dating him, you can never go back to being 'just friends.'
776043
If your best friend knows that you like him, she's not being a good friend is she? When she's not there, flirt with this guy but not too much to the point where it annoys him. Next time you like a guy, don't tell her.
389954
well if they like your best friend first... if your friend knows it then leave the situation alone becuase you dont wnat any drama, second... if this person knows you like them but arent giving you enought to go with they are playing games with your head. third... never go after someone who dosent want you initially becuasr they can be getting close to you but thinking about your frined! or stay close to you until they can get your friend.  think about it this can go several ways
129263
If he loves you then why would he date your Best Friend? And if she is your best friend, why is she dating the guy you love? Sounds like they have a sensitivity chip missing...get away from both of them
485905
I think he likes you... but peer pressure from his buds is getting him down.\n\nArrange to be alone with him... you can both be honest when there is only the two of you there.
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
398934
i think he likes you, talk to him as a friend first.
602357
this is very difficult coz u hurt someone dear to you-your bestfriend. i don't think you'd choose this guy over your bestfriend.get away w/ that feeling before it gets worse.there are a lot of guys out there who are not committed.why not entertain them instead of entertaining your feelings for your bestfriend's guy.
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.