how do i get rid of fear to failure?
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Try new things that you think you are capable of doing and stay clear of things you feel are out of your reach...
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failure. oddly enough, i must admit i have failed in a lot of things already, still doesnt keep me from fearing it though.
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You should be asking yourself that question and not us.\n\nBut for your sake, I'll try and answer it.\n\nThe most basic answer I can come up with is fear or something. What exactly you are afraid of--I have no idea. You could be afraid of failing in a relationship (meaning you can't have a relationship that goes right--even if it isn't your fault). You could be afraid of being alone too. Or any other various reasons.\n\nYou just need to find what you are afraid of and overcome it--or realize that what you are worrying over is just plain silly, or something you will need to work on.\n\nYou will get through this. The most important thing you need to do is realize that you don't need to be with someone to survive or be happy--even though it may seem that way at times.\n\nYou need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Best wishes!
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You Can Improve your confidence by believeing in yourself. That works alot, And when you want to do something that you fear, just go along with it and say i can do this! Another way is to watch what you fear most, watching other people do your fear, or face your fear might make you get more confidence that way.
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Don't consciously mess up anything or anyone.\n(I have failed at this many times.)
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went through the same thing...I tried using that to my advantage...make that your main motivation....you have not failed unless you have decided not to get back up and try again...try and think of it as..."failure is not an option" and will never be...\n  you will over come your obsticals trust me...you can and will be someone
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ya ur fears r true, just concentrate on petty works
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Start with this quote by Eleanor Roosevelt-You gain strength, confidence, and courage every time you stop to really look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.\n\nThis quote has inspired me to quit smoking, lose weight, race a 26 mile running race, and confront some painful family history....
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To get over your fears you need to face your fears.\ngo to a high place( a safe place where your not going to fall) and look down untill you feel comfertable
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Every success needs some failurs too.. so don't be sad for your failurs in any steps.. just keep in mind that you failed in some places and how you failed learn them.. \n\nkeep patients, increase your confidence, think positive, forget about what people says about you, just make sure you are not wrong in your tasks and you are determined. Keep faith on what you are doing..  \n\nThen, Success will be running after you.. you don't need to run for your success.. \n\nYou must get your success even before you Die!
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Be bold, be clear in your concepts,and plunge.My son was alsohaving similar fears.He is also a doctor like you.Hence shed your reluctance.Good luck.
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I don't know if this works for everyone, but for me it is facing the fear.  \n\nI force myself to do/see/be whatever it is I am afraid of.  \n\nA good deal of meditation/prayer helps as well.  \n\nOh, and last, but certainly not least...education.  The more you know about what it is you are afraid of...the harder it is to fear it.
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Why don't you go to a career counseling service, or something like Workforce, which is free, and do a survey which will show you areas you have strengths in, and what area of work you would best fit in. Make a list of all the things you would really like to do. \nAlso, why are you afraid of failing? Who in your life makes you feel fear if you DO fail? \nI went through this as well...turned out, after some soul searching, i realized that I needed my mother to validate my life choices. When i realized that, while i value her opinion, my choices are ultimately that, MY choices, and that each time you make a major life change people are going to give you crap, initially, and while you can respect and value their opinion, you certainly don't need it to make you feel like a whole person. Good luck to you!
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Well, first of all, look at what you're scared of. Are you scared of the change? Friends? The teachers? The homework? Then ask yourself why you are scared, make a list of the things that scare you about them. Once you have that down on paper, it will seem like less of a challenge, and now you have a list of things you can work on to overcome. Dropping out is the easy thing to do, and really, no one gets far in this life without hard work. I know, last thing you want to hear, but you will not regret futhering your education. If you can absolutely not stand your classmates, talk to a counselor or a teacher and see if there is any way you can do independent studies/online/Saturday classes. There is always a solution to everything.
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You just do it. It's the only way to start overcoming your fear. I fear the same sometimes, eventhough I had trouble doing it, but I still did it (at school). Most people who don't have this fear are very confident. Not that you're not confident, just a little shy. So, again, just do it and afterwards you'll be "what was I afraid of?" Then you are more relaxed and proud that you did it. Good Luck.
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The only way to get rid of fear is to face it. Make up your mind to face them.BE BRAVE!!!!
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ITS ALL ABOUT FACING YOUR FEARS!! THE MORE YOU DO IT THE MORE YOU WILL GET OVER IT. Just remember NO ONE is perfect.