i have two guy that i want to date but one wants sex and the other wants a relationship what should i do?
147772
Your to young for both.
974024
Don't be a jackass, dump the guy you want for sex and go with the guy you think of alot.
1114210
sounds more like lust or infatuation..he wants u but not in a committed relationship.. he wants you and whoever else comes along.. doesnt sound like what u r looking for.. careful ur gonna get hurt.. u two are in two different places...
286384
word to the wise, don't even try.  If you come between two men you will cause problems and one or both of them will eventually resent or hate you.\n\nMake it easy for them date both of them at the same time.
870773
You have to have two to have a relationship...It seems more like an arrangement. Are you happy? Then break it off and go find someone that will treat you as you deserve. BTW...If David told you that you are too nice and he's trying to get you to think about your "relationship"...I'll bet money (if he's single) that he's just waiting for you to make up your mind.
1086678
Keep dating both of them...  As long as you're not exclusive with someone, you're allowed to date anyone you want.  Once you decide who you want, then commit to them..... that's how it works.
1178806
That makes sense to me. Spend some time with him. See what it is or isn't turning into. If he really really likes you, it wouldn't be JUST for sex. Make sure thats the case. Its natural for BOTH man and women to want sex. Also, I think why lose respect for people for wanting good healthy sex. Either way. Your caution makes a lot of sense to me considering that it sounds like maybe you dated some jerks. Maybe too many.
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
313046
Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
518455
If the guy likes you he'll stay. Me and my girlfriend started having sex early too and she was having the same problem you're having now. She chose to tell me all her problems and she told me she thought that I lost respect for her giving it to me so easily. She also told me she wanted a real relationship; something more than sex. I love that girl and we've been together for a year a three months now and we're going strong. If he really wants a relationship, then he'll want the same thing. I know from experience.
229356
he is wanting sex.mabye a freindship also.but definatly SEX no matter how u try to justify him.u should have nothing to do with him.
421127
just flip a coin, and ask one person.\n\nyou'll be able to tell if that particular guy is into you as well.  and then it won't even matter about the other guy.\n\nas a bonus though, the other guy might get super jealous.  which is a bad thing.  but if the first guy seems kinda plain (which means there's no spark) and the other guy kinda seems jealous, but doesn't want to say anything because he just wants you to be happy, then go with the other guy
321627
Take a long look at the relationship that you have worked to develop with your boyfriend. If everything is good there, then forget about the other guy and spend more time having sex with your boyfriend. He won't know what hit him, and you can "work out" some of the urges you are having. Try something new in bed (or in chair, or on dining room table) to spice it up a bit. The new guy is just that , someone new. And the fact that he wants to "hook up" with someone who is already in a relationship tells you all you need to know about his character.
150531
Find someone better. Relationships can't be based on sex and sex alone. Find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
1114035
I dont think that you want to have sex with someone that SIMPLY wants to have sex with you.  Plus you dont want to be insulted and called fat.  You want what it is that you want, including someone that cares about you and wants to further something with you.  You can get sex anywhere.
635233
Depends on the guy.  Some want wild, passionate, frantic sex.  Others want a comfortable home life and someone to share it with.  Still, others want both and others, even still, get both with the same guy.\n\nYou're a "Nice" guy, Ashley (by your own admission) - Don't despair.
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more