how  can u tell if ur man really wants to be with  you and really love you like he say he does.?
138352
If he really did, you would know. He would fill you with such self assurance and confidence and pride just with one hug and look into your eyes that you wouldn't have to question.
296801
Honestly...if he loves you he will do something for you even if he really doesn't want to.  And he'll stick with you through thick and thin.  If he loves you he will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings sometimes.
1029201
If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
990260
you have to ask yourself if its really love first... its hard to tell sometimes\n\nyou need to tell him straight out because guys don't understand the subtle hints.  but don't get crazy because that would suck if he doesn't love you back.  keep it simple.
625565
When he holds you and touches you, gentle and lovingly. When he does everything he can to make you feel comfort and joy. When he drops everything to make sure you are safe. Telling you he loves you is not enough, showing you is the best way that you can know for sure.
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Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
424925
Talk to him about it. Say something like you know I want to marry you but I'm getting worried that it may never happen because...\nHe may not even realize that it's that important to you and that's way he's putting it off. Or he may be doing it on purpose. But if he cares about you and wants to be with you i bet after he knows how important it is to you he will get on the ball. Either way talking about is the only way you will know for sure.
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
471460
You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
252424
Usually that's the kind of thing guys say when they are thinking of you in the long term. Maybe he wants to marry you or thinks your relationship could go that way.  It really depends on the context of when he said it to you what it actually means. If it was me I would ask him.
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he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
1038933
maybe he does he just doesnt like to show it. give it time, things take time, maybe you'll even find you dont love him as much as you think, or maybe he loves you more than you know.\njust remember: you cant force love.
382054
when he goes out of his way just to be with you and just to please you...when he compliments you in a sincere manner about your personality...when he is constantly present in every important occassion or activity in your life...when he cares for you, your family and even your pet..lastly, when he treats you like a princess..\n\n(3 or more of these scenario should be enough for you to know that he's serious...lucky girl!)
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ask him why he loves or what he loves about you... or say "I want a divorce", "I'm seeing someone else", or (my fav. since my "abduction") "I screwed a chicked", if he has a "sudden" and radical action... yeah he, more than likely, love you.
191673
He probably feels like he does. The question is do u love him?
197231
ask him if he really likes you
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.