when some one wants to play bodybuilding does it mean that he have a promblem with his selfconfidence?
141015
naw, it means he wants to be the best person he can be, push his limits and his mental capacity for pain to the top
65933
I am a female bodybuilder...what do you mean by "session"?? I strive for perfection in business as well as pleasure...
48023
Just because somebody wants to compete with you doesn't mean that you need to compete back.  Perhaps this person just wants a little praise: "You did a great job on your reading in class."  The fact that this person selected you to compete with is a compliment and demonstrates that he/she secretly looks up to you.  Remember that people often use competition as a way to feel better about themselves if they don't have a good sense of self-worth.  Hopefully that will help you to have a little more compassion about the situation.
954098
you just lose your self confidence, i think you;re not really bad inside , because you think you are ugly ,you try to hurt people  i think you experienced that when you're not good looking people dont care about ur inner side ..so you want to act like this to take advantage on people ...am i right?
475195
this Q made me think.u r right.. confidence is something when u can be happy of what u have done in ur life till date.. and ur parents are proud of it. it doesnt mean always to win.. but also includes helping someone who needs it.. u see. there r many ways in which an individual can be considered confident..\n\nas u mentioned, that surgeon is confident , as i think. he seems to be mature. he doesnt show off to the world. he is contented with his life and is glad with what he has done with his life..he just concentrates on his work and is to-the point..\n\nalthough, confidence is very subjective.. it depends on how everyone is brought up, thinking (attitude) and their lifestyle.. etc.\n\n:-)
212112
Confidence is key! Women love men who have confidence in themselves, it makes us think that you hold the world in your hands. Also play hard to get, don't over-do it though.
347959
IT IS WHEN A PERSON DOES NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE BEING THEM SELVES.THEY ARE NOT SURE OR CERTAIN OF THEMSELVES.VERY DOUBTFUL OF WHAT THEY CAN DO AND A LOT OF TIMES THEY PUT OTHERS DOWN TO MAKE THEM SELVES FEEL BETTER.
679314
I think you're simply nervous. This is common with most sports men and women. To overcome it, you need to practice more and make sure you participate in more tournaments. That will help to make you more confident and erase nervousness.
61487
It's the challenge of being better than him to steal you away, proving he is more worthy, for some guys it's ALWAYS about competition, I don't know why they don't measure themselves in public with as much as they compete.
580339
You have attracted him.\nHe likes your confidence.\nHowever, it seems he'd like your confidence in a toned-eown body.\nDo you want that too?\nHow much do you want that?\nHis 'hints' should come across as a blaring loud speaker.\nOtherwise, the road may go a few blocks but its still a dead end.\nOne advantage is he won't charge you ...money, that is.
1011317
This is actually pretty common. A lot of people do this. It's not so much you're self-destructive, you're afraid of not meeting expectations. You need to be more in touch with yourself, see yourself as more than you do right now. Once you get that self-confidence up, you'll see you really do deserve a guy who worships you and adores you :)
61875
hey i had the same problem when i was younger i just started to go to the gym and either ran or lifted weights but be careful don't over do it, it will come in time. And if there is a guy that you are trying to impress don't try to be something your not. if he doesn't like your body it's his fault he didn't get to know you first, do it for yourself not for the guy.\n\nsome guys like sporty but some don't. some don't like sporty girls because they don't want you to be better than them.
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Depends on who the bodybuilder is. I've dealt with a few that are really great guys, willing to share things with you, offer tips and insights. Maybe it's because I'm 5'11" and 185#, trim and not bulked up. (Read: not seen as competition.)\n\nBut I've also met more than a few at the gym who have only one focus; themselves. They're crass, inconsiderate, impatient, and think they own that particular time and place. \n\nLike anything else in life, you get back what you give.
26261
More than practice, you need realistic practice.  I would play games against myself.  What that means is that, while by myself, I would rack and break just like normal.  Then play a game against yourself, alternating taking shots as stripes until a miss, then as solids until a miss.  It really, really helps to have a pool table in the house.  I can now walk into any bar in town and win games for hours.
1062268
oh please, this is a man talking more crap...does it mean you'll be together forever, no of course not, it doesn't mean that he doesn't have good intentions at the time he's saying it but you can't possibly be this naive?? can you? there is no way to ensure that you won't be hurt in any relationship, you just have to have confidence that you can handle it, if you don't your insecurities will definitely drive the relationship right into a deep ditch. its likely that is where you are headed if you are obsessing to this extent over something he said....what was the situation when he said it  (you weren't by any chance having sex were you?) i think you need to focus on finding some inner strength in yourself and a life of your own, a relationship should be a pleasant addition to the life you are building...not the entire thing, you will always lose if thats what you are doing. never invest more than you have to lose. if you get your life together and are able to support yourself and develop some confidence in yourself then you will know that you'll be ok whether he actually stays around or not.
518182
man have a problem competing with women and losing.they feel their particular sport is their own escape and have a hard time accepting women in their sport.
401353
It's just nervous adrenaline.  Try not to think of it as a problem.  Be glad that you have the energy you need to compete.