How do you tell someone that you don't like them to stalk you and look at all of your stuff without hurting?
142722
You have to say what you feel. Say to her without swearing or yelling that you don't appreciate her in your room getting into your things. If she puts up a fuss or her feelings get hurt that is her problem. You said it the best way you could and if her feelings are hurt that's too bad. You have to stand up for yourself.
653457
just tell him that you don't want anything with him.
355523
I cetainly wouldn't tolerate anyone going thru my things, I'd call her on that one, but as far as playing the big Sister role...she just may think because you are surrounded by brothers, you may want the "sisterly" advice...once you set her straight on the privacy issue, and she continues to "snoop", THEN tell your Bro, he wouldn't want your friends going thru his stuff either....as far as the "big sister" role goes, that probably won't last too long... and she may not either, chances are if she's annoying you this much already, she's probably annoying your other brothers in some way or another as well.....
68996
Ask them. It makes you come off less like a stalker than any other way!
714425
Confront him in a polite way and ask him why he follows you.  If he will not answer in a normal/respectful way, let him know he is causing you to become uncomfortable.  If he still persists, solicit advice from the school principal.  Good luck!
585563
stop stalking her and get some counseling
162489
this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.
1174643
Keep a journal of everythnig he is doing.  Also, check with your local victim/witness advocate's office to see if your state has "stalking notices" that can be served on individuals.
1076595
Yeah, follow them until they get in their car.\n\nOf course, bail gets expensive and the attorney fees to defend yourself from stalking charges are outrageous, but it's still free to find *out* the info.\n\nGet a hobby that doesn't involve other people's personal information...seriously.
1010191
I've never thought about that, but it sounds like a great idea!  Give them a taste of their own medicine and maybe they'll back off.  Because I think stalkers love to feel like they're intimidating the "stalkee", so if you do that to them in return they'll realize they're not succeeding.
857872
Oh girl I am in the same situation, except it is my sister's HUSBAND!!!  Personally, I would put him in his place.  Tell him you are not interested in him like that.  If he continues then you will have to be a little more forceful and start avoiding him whenever possible.  Never be alone with him.  Everything he does to you try to document it.  Save his emails, voicemails, and text messages, because when your friend does find out guess who she is going to believe....not you.  Cover yourself.  Also, try to get him to hit on a third party friend and show your friend what an idiot he really is.
704999
Tell him that you don't like.\n\nIf he's invading your space, you need to tell him. Tell him to back off.\n\nIf you don't tell him, he's going to continue annoying you and touching you in appropriate ways.
270027
tell her to respect your privacy
745850
Tell them that you will decide who you buy gifts for, and when you buy them.\n\nAnd that if they keep harassing you, and that you do see it as harassment,  you will report them to management.\n\nI had someone try this with me with our Unoin, in the dim and distant '80s, and only the threat of management getting involved stopped him
839631
Just kinda do the whole sorry I don't like you that way speech.\n\nIt's better to break it to him then to avoid it.\n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd if he stalks you get a restraining order.
1106613
If he thinks your stalking him, he is obviously not romantically interested in you.  Try to find someone who shares your feelings and returns your affection or your just asking for disappointment.
271304
Since Stalking can lead to worse things other than what's at hand, I honestly think that you should alert the Police and all of your immediate family members and always let someone know where you are and who you are with just in case the stalker gets crazier than he/she already is.