Why is it accepted for girls to be Lesbians but it's frowned upon when guys are Gay?
139836
It's not - neither are accepted in the real world for the most part - because many people are severely close minded.\n\nYou must be thinking of porn...  but those women are being paid, they're not really lesbian and the men watching them are using those movies/photos for fantasy.\n\n& FYI - women like gay male porn almost as much as guys like to see lesbian porn...  :P
209902
no offence buddy. i know we live in a society where we accept that. but truthfully, deep down we all know it's not right.\n\ndon't be gay, it's evil. (no offense)
67482
No. It is a matter of choice. A lesbian chose to be a lesbian. It is the sexual orientation of the person.
1150696
A lesbian is a gay woman. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being lesbian. It sounds like you may well be lesbian. Everyone does NOT hate gay people. It's just popular to bash on them just now. Look for support - the straight/gay alliance in High Schools would be a good thing, and you should look on the net for lesbian/gay resources. Gay people have been on this planet forever. You're fine - try cybering with a lesbian once... it's more honest.
43521
It's the media and the guys who make them look as if it was a moral thing to do. It wouldn't surprise me if they start teaching that at schools. And, it's not only bi girls who do it. It's also girls who are straight, but since a lot of guys think it's cool and a lot of girl's self-esteem is low, then they do it to attract guys. My bf hates girls kissing on each other. It's just ...not normal, specially if you are not "naturally" straight. Being gay isn't bad, but distortioning the concept IS
948684
I think its because a part of them wants to have the experience and are curious. But being that so many people say its wrong they don't come out and say it up front. I have straight friends that want to try it with a girl but dont know how to go about it and still remain "straight."
167551
Because of homosexuality.  Due to homosexuality, a man could be considered feminine by wearing womens clothes and be called gay names, plus womens clothes don't look right on a man, or don't fit right, where a woman can wear most mens clothes and not look strange.
1083883
Sorry girl, but my gay boys LOVE to flirt w/women.  It doesn't confuse me or make me question their sexuality, its just who they are but they will always love men.  So he may flirt w/you, but its just for fun.
1165328
I say to each their own.I don't think that they're nasty and there's nothing wrong with being gay.People at a young age are discovering their sexuality and some are straight while others are gay.I have had gay friends before and I treated them equally as I did with my straight friends.As long as they don't go into detail about their sex life,that's fine.Some people prefer their own sex instead of the opposite.
426795
Because its acceptable to society. Also it makes the girls popular.  Just because it maybe acceptable to society doesn't mean it's acceptable to one's judgment.
62838
it's worst to be many others (i.e, heartbreaker, liar, etc)\nbeing lesbian is being with another girl, loving her, committing to her, just like another healthy relationship.\njust be who you are, as long as you promote love, not sex or hatred!
1046779
The lesbian lifestyle is an affront to them because it denies them to the women who are removed from the dating pool \n~and~\nThe lesbian lifestyle is disruptive to their denial of their own repressed homosexuality
323059
As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with being gay.I have a couple close friends who just happen to prefer the same gender, and I wouldn't change them for the world! I think it's a huge compliment for a woman to tell me she'd like to sleep with me,even though I'm straight.The bible says homosexuality is an abomination in the Old Testament.I'll get back to you on the specific verses.
665985
Some think they're actually girls trapped in boys bodies.. others just like to be more feminine I guess nobody really knows why, its just the same with lesbians, "Butch" As I am one, It's just how we feel more comfortable and how we should feel.
716446
OK, you say you aren't a lesbian....you aren't asking a question primarily to gay men, right?\n\nThen why on earth did you post it TWICE in this section?
1084090
FIrst, you need to learn how to speak english and type it as well.  Your posting makes no sense! \n\nIf I read you right, it's not weird to not like gays but you shouldn't go around gay bashing and saying it's a sickness.  I actually think lesbians are hot :)  \n\nTwo men together is not my cup of tea but I don't have a problem with them likeing each other...i'm just not into it.  Open your mind a little.
373762
Yes, it is a double standard. But an understandable one, IMO. When seeing two guys together, you think of the sexual implications, and they generally aren't very pleasant. With women it is different. Women are by far the fairer sex, and the view of what they'd do together is much less "intense" so to speak. Just to clarify, I have no problem at all with someone being gay, bi, or lesbian. I can't afford to. ;P