How can any one judge others on some action?
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No one can - that is why a jury has so many members.
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How right you are but hon, don't be too quick to judge . Here in America we are pretty quick to judge . we put someone we respect on a pedestal and are crushed when they can't live up to our expectations. Well maybe we better demand such perfection from ourselves before we expect it from them. And then when we are totally perfect in every way and only when we reach that level of perfection then we can judge them, but I know i make mistakes every day so I will never be totally perfect, thank god I wouldn't want to be the one to judge anyhow I am just not mean enought and I know how many times I didn't live up to my own expectations and I don't feel qualifyed to judge anyone, wouldn't it be a refreshing change if everyone was that forgiving.? oh well one can dream.
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I believe we, as humans, judge without knowing all the facts.  It may appear one way to us, but if we knew all the facts, we may see it another way.  I've had people judge me in a certain situation, but they didn't know what I had been through and they only saw the choice I made, not that I didn't have a choice.
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The judging Christians are not supposed to do deals with judging whether a person is righteous or a sinner, only God can judge that.\n\nHowever, we can judge how good one person's pie recipe is compared to another's, how accurate one person's exam questions are compared to the solution key, and how well we think a person would be suited for a particular job, such as public office.\n\nIf we took the admonition to not judge as seriously as you seem to suggest by your question, then we would have to become hermits and avoid all contact with other humans.
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don't blame nobody for nothing,remember that what you see today\nits a reflection results from yesterdays,in other words "every action have a reaction"
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Try to see the situation from the other person's point-of-view.  There may be valid reasons why they cannot see things the way you do.
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I'm only going to take the example of constructive and caring criticism in an attempt to view our own craziness regarding critics:\n \nIf the ego has a problem sometimes accepting our own faults, all the more reason to have a problem with other people pointing at them. \n\nAlso the fact that ALL mortals care about what people think about them...yes, in different levels but I would dare to say that even in the smallest degree, EVERYBODY cares about what other people think of them. One example: Have you noticed that even in the case in which a person is as free and careless as you can be, they make sure people know they don't care about their opinion? That's caring about what people think!!...(and "they should think and know that I don't care about them"). \n\nAnd finally, the fact that even if it comes from the best intentions and love, we may feel it in some way as invasive; we think that people don't notice our faults as much as we do, we know our selves better than anybody right? \nSo when they tell us our faults is a proof that they know us too, sometimes even better than ourselves because their opinions don't come loaded with defensive mechanisms, is just observation.\n\nI personally like constructive criticism, is an opportunity to grow and learn if we allow it to be....
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Look at their avatar.\n\nAsk yourself "Does that person seem honest?"\n\nOnly the avatar will tell.
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doing what others cannot do!
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they think they can tell how a person is by just looking at them. I've misjudged people many times only to find out that they're really good people. Eventually, I stopped doing that because judging someone usually ends up to be wrong.
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sometimes you can't tell..if they cover their tracks well enough. but i would say if they start acting out of the norm, check it out.
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Be willing to listen to someone Else's opinion.Treat others as you expect to be treated. Realize that sometimes you do have to give in on certain points even tho you may be "right".
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how can you ever understand another person, if all you do is surface judgments?
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Only God can judge someone. Never try to judge someone without taking a look at yourself cause everyone has at least one time made a mistake in there life no one is perfect.
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You take your chances. Short of being a mind reader it is impossible to tell what another is thinking.  You can see if they treat you with respect and digity.  See if they will do things that you want to do. Go places you would like to visit. Smile when you are happy.  Try to help when you are not happy.
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I used to judge people as well for different things, clothes and looks and the way they talk and all but i now know that it is not my place to judge anyone. \nI dont want anyone to judge me just because I am different. We all life different lives with our own likes and dislikes and faults and no one is just like ourselves. So no one should judge nor be judged by others. We all do what we do!!!  WHO ARE WE TO POINT OUR FINGERS AND JUDGE OTHERS
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You've heard of "making a good first impression"?\n\nWhen you meet someone for the first time, visual cues are all you have to evaluate each other.  This includes appearance and behavior.  Your manner of speaking is generally the next cue, followed by more subtle cues, such as smell.  At this point, any judgement made is only opinion and human nature.\n\nEveryone judges everyone else; a person who says otherwise isn't being honest. It has nothing to do with being shallow, being a sinner, etc.  Everyone does it!\n\nSome are able to overcome this initial prejudice and learn what's in another's heart; others can't, or won't.\n\nIf your behavior isn't outrageous, and you're generally a good person, don't worry about what others think.  Be yourself.