I have a big prob. i have a bf and i like another guy.?
144582
If your boyfreind were the greatest guy in the world to you , you would not be flirting with other guys, socializing maybe but certainly not thinking about being with them. OOPS, sounds like you got attached to soon. You really should not commit yourself unless you are ready to COMMIT. If you are not prepared to be faithful and serious about your current relationship, then end it, if the guy your with is that great let him go so he can find a girl who is worthy of him.
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
606261
leave him alone is what you should do. if he becomes available then go for it but for now go find yourself another boyfriend.
35047
If it was ME I would go with the new guy.  I mean look at how you phrased it "your ex or a boy you like".  You have your whole life for long-term relationships.  If one didn't work out move on and have some fun.  Think about what you want.
332241
If you truly love the one your with then stay away from Ben before something happens you will regret. When you find yourself over analyzing the bad bits of your relationship find at least one good bit to put beside each bad one you think of. I bet the good out way the bad. When you find yourself daydreaming of Ben put your boyfriend in his place. Reprogram your brain to think of your man and the good times you have. This other boy is only infatuation. It will pass once your boyfriend gets home.
1169964
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it
516008
Well who do you like more.. which one are you more compatible with and which do you see as a boyfriend?  They are not clones of each other, there has to be one you have more in common with or like more.  Break it down, girl.
739216
it's not wrong with u let go this guy.......do not pin down two guys at once as u'll hurt both of them........tell him the truth.......sometimes, love is unpredictable n' hopefully, he'll understand...good luck
50902
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
55996
Make a choice. Are you and guy #1 on a see each other only basis? If not no problem. If you are then you better decide or just leave it alone. You will lose what you have and might not like what you get!!
1025922
Well its kind of messed up being with someone while you like someone else.......if your confused about it then you should take time to think about what you really want and then take action...dont just be with someone cause they like you .......follow your heart.....do whats right for you not carin what anyone else thinks!!!
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
365381
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
160383
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
488758
I say listen to your heart. Be true to yourself. If that other guy really loves u then i wouldn't take my chances messing that up for this one that just wanna come around all the sudden.