I met my bf on line, am scared to tell poeple that thats where we met.I have told some they think am crazy.?
140569
If you two are happy together, who really cares what other's think???
259496
You should go with your instincts. You already have doubt and should. You have no idea if you are talking to a woman or man if you guys just e-mail each other. Why would you trek across the country to meet someone you really know nothing about. Continue with your studies and save your money.
364654
well, i wouldn`t advise you but you must try to meet both and get to know each other well..if he really loves you he would do all his best to meet you personally..i myself hav been chattig with a guy for the past 9months but not on the net.he`d taken my num and we`ve been chatting on the phone till now!you know am in the same situation as yours but still i have a hope.i dont know him,he dont know me but he`s coming to my country with his dad to meet me.the fact is that we dont hide anything from each other.watever hapened in the past he tells me and i tell him.am from mauritius and he`s from london!!!!so wat i can tell you is:best of luck!!but still try to get everything clear from him about his past etc..if he loves you he will not keep you in the dark am sure
89936
Depends on the details. Did you meet online? then its up to you as to how much you want to get involved with somone youve never met\n\nif you have met, then it depends on how much you care and trust the person\n\nif youve been together for awhile and one of you is moving over seas, then i would recommend giving it a try at least. the important thing is to be honest about EVERYTHING though. because distance makes lies harder to hide. and it makes ppl more anxious and jealous, so beware of that too.\n\nGood Luck!
64851
no i wouldn't approve of them becuz u have 2 meet that person cuz it could be some1 who lied about their age, personality and/or their whole profile. when u do meet him it has 2 be somewhere in the public so he won't do anything that's illegal 2 u {if he is the person he's not-u no if he lied 2 u just 2 get into your pants} but u just have 2 be careful of what u 2 talk bout don't give out any personal info-address, work/school,etc. u no there r\nother places where u can find a bf-work/school, mall, out-of-town,etc. Just think be4 u act!!!!!!!!!
495416
Well, sometimes things arent always what they seem. Some guy that your talking to u can say he's from Paris and that he is 16 or whatever but maybe you're really talking to some freak 40 year old who lives in his mothers house in The middle of nowhere.Its not safe, and I wouldn't encourage you to do it anymore.
296257
Been there before actually married the man I met on line that is a tuff question on line romance can be very deceiving Be careful,take your time and do some checking with people he knows which he will have no trouble introducing you to if he is all you hope he is If it's right it will work out
1133044
ok, why would he forget to change the details on it when he met you? is he not serious about you? why did he lie first when you confronted him if it was innocent?\n\nsame thing happened to me and i fell for every lie he told. you have to ask yourself these questions. something tells me you know the answer already.\n\nmy advice is, he is lying. he kept that web page and deliberately kept his profile without changing it because he was keeping his 'options open'. don't fall for any more of his lies. get out now before he really breaks your heart..................
492970
I met a guy online 6 years ago and fell in love with him that very night. We talked online daily and on the phone every Friday night and Sunday afternoon. 2 years later he flew here to meet me. I will never ever forget seeing him for the very first time.  My heart was pounding so hard I could hardly breathe. Words cannot express the love I felt at that very moment.\n\nRemember...\nIt takes time to know people.  To know if they are for real.\nAnd always meet in a public place for the first few times.  Trust your gut feeling, mine never lets me down.\n\nGood luck and be careful.
1069291
well it sounds like u guys keep finding each other. if u are sure he's comfortable with bein with a guy but i guess if u guys hooked up then he is :) i say go for it just tell him cuz he may be thinking the same thing as you but scared liek you..it cud be the best thing u ever did and its obvious that he means alot to you..i think your story is very sweet..good luck!
350579
Be careful when bringing someone into your life from a different country or for that matter who you have met off the internet. I am not saying this one will turn out that way, but don't lose all your money trying to get a guy here you have never met. Us women need to start thinking with our head instead of our hearts......................
1160663
Think about it first, girl. Do you really know him? I don't mean just.. his name, favorite color, occupation, etc. I mean really.. know him. If you don't, get to know him more. Ask him more questions. He shouldn't blame you, since you barely know him. I'm pretty sure he'd like to know you more too, since it's really hard to trust people over the internet these days. Take a while before you actually get to meet this guy. Actually know him.
649217
its definately scary out there sometimes and people have to be careful but ive met a lot of 'toads' in person too who lied and cheated and had gfs all over the place and led them all on. so its not just online and its been going on for ages and ages, it might just be easier now. \n\nthere are steps everyone should take in trying to make sure the person they are talking to is for real. seeing them on cam for one, so you know who you are talking to is really like the photos you have seen, being able to talk to them or call them whenever you want (might show they arent really married or living with someone), etc etc. \n\ni think the internet can be a good tool for getting to know more people. ive lived in my town for 17 years and i personally dont believe that i would just magically walk into 'the right guy' after all these years. instead i walked into one that lives 4000 miles away haha. if it wasnt for the internet we would not have been able to continue our relationship so closely. i think its a great tool for meeting friends, etc, but you definately have to be sensible and careful - just like meeting anyone in person!
533310
well clearly your not in love with the current boyfriend or you wouldnt be searching for someone online so i owuld suggest you end the current relationship as far as the man you have met online you really need to meet him before you go to overboard many times people are very different in person than they seem online. I have met many people online and it is rare when they are the way you imagined them...and the same works for him you do not know how he is going to like you until you meet so I would wait and see on this new love.
206752
I don't think you're overreacting at all. If he can easily lie about the small, stupid stuff, then it makes it that much easier for him to lie about big stuff like cheating. And if he's lying about going somewhere, then he probably didn't want you to know he was there and who he was with. I wouldn't trust him, which it doesn't sound like you do. Do you really want to be with someone you don't trust? Having to constantly worry that he's lying to you or cheating on you? Trust me it's not worth the effort. It'll just make you crazy! You deserve better!
478971
OMG, i had that same problem, but mine escilated to a much more intense factor.  What i would tell you would do, that is doesn't matter what other people think about you, as long as your BF knows that you like like him (i wont say love because that might be to deep) then it doesnt matter.  I know noone whats to hear that because from my own experiance just believing that wont help and that is probally what you dont want to hear.  what i would do is spread rumors that is she/he is a lieing bi*ch and then more people would like to beleive you than her because if they think she is a lier then they would believe you...well i hope i helped!  Oh and one other thing.  Dont become her freind again!  i made that mistake, move on, that is what i found out too late
151213
Does it really matter at this point? If they like him enough to accept you living with him, I doubt they'll care how you met. I really see no need in telling them...but if it really bothers you just say " I'm sorry I didn't tell you about how I met so and so....we really met online but as you can tell we're really happy together so I hope you still accept him."