just found out my hubby is cheating on me he found her on the internet what should i do broke my heart,?
141416
i just got out of a similar relashonship. i live in louisiana. and he started chatting with this girl online and they ended up hookin up - he cheated on me with her - and she lives in texas. i told him to pick me or her. he decided that me and him should get back together and that it was over between him and her. then i i couldnt find him one day and when i talked to his cousin she gave me a phone number that he had called her from. so i called the number and it was the girl in texas - HE CAN K*SS MY A** - u should really find someone who respects u and will cherish his time with you. DONT B PLAYED FOR A FOOL
379904
I would be pretty upset if I found out my husband had “secret female friends,” I'm sorry I mean “private friends.” It sounds fishy. I would be suspicious. You need to ask more questions...If it is so harmless then why would he hide it from you for so long? Why are all of his private friends female? I wouldn't accuse him of cheating entail there was prove. But you should defiantly keep a close eye on this situation.
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....
590089
hey sweetie, if she cheated it just wasnt meant to be. You deserve better and remember if you take her back, you'll never have have that trust you had. Hang in there, it'll get better. My husband cheated on me and for all I know he still is. Just be glad you and her dont have kids yet.
901375
My opnion is I think you should tell her. What if she doesn't know...what if she doesn't think her husband is a cheat? I mean, I didn't. I had no idea until he told me. I'm glad I found out.\nYou have to follow your heart and choose what you feel is right.\nBut remember if this was you and your husband had a side dish, would you want to know?
276867
You dont report her. Your hubby gets what he deserves.More importantly, why is he still your hubby if he had an affair with a student from singapore? What goes around comes around. You'll see her again, when she comes back to study and your hubby has another encounter with her. Too bad, so sad.
229837
sweetheart, it hurts alot. i've been there. you are right in not being able to trust him. it's not always the case that there always a cheater, but it's almost foolproof. if he's done it before, why won't he do it again when he finds someone else that's more attractive to him? all you can do is wait out the pain. it hurts and it sucks, but try and move on. go out, have fun, meet new guys. you don't have to get married or anything, just go out and have fun. i hope this helps you sweetie, at least a little. if you'd like to talk to someone that's been there, you can email me. poetic_disturbulance@yahoo.com
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
1167906
I would say move on.. not only does he have no respect for other women, but you as his wife, you should be getting the most.\n\nHe thought nothing of your feelings when he was doing it.. and now that it is out in the open.. how does he feel??? \n\nI would say if he shows no remorse.. don't even bother... move on.. life is too short.. and us women are settling for jerks!!
319411
I understand how you are feeling. Not that it has happened to me but I can imagine how it would make you feel. I am married and if my wife were conversing with another man over the internet, I would be concerned. But if she went to all the trouble to wipe out the conversation logs. I would be doubly concerned. Yea, he may give you some reason as a matter of security, but he should have no problem in letting you see those logs before he deletes them. \n\nSome time ago, I was talking to another woman over the internet but as a rule, I would never say nothing negative about my wife. Of course you should not anyway. But we all get mad. And if we start talking to another woman or man about how we are unhappy about our spouses, we are opening the door for an internet affair. Another thing is I would try to get my wife to read the logs because I would let her know I talked to an online woman and I wanted her to be secure. \n\nTalk to your husband about it. Tell him you need to feel more secure about this. People are leaving spouses all the time and flying across the country for people they never seen. And tell him it would protect him too because you love him so much
662836
Get over him. He obviously has no respect for women or himself. He strung you along while he was out looking for something more convenient. Now he's with a married woman, he does not want a commitment.
1013877
I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
1056700
My first question is , if you felt you could Never trust him 100% why did you marry this man? Was it convenience? Get out, tell him its over your moving on blah blah blah.. I know its not that easy, trust me I know.. You know the old saying "been there, done that". Right now he's abusing your relationship, playing on your emotions, he knows how to get at you. Don't allow him, stand your ground. Your not happy there is no reason to continue this with him. Ask your friends for help or family.If that's not possible look into your local women's help shelter, there is help out there to get out of situations like this. If your unhappy there is NO reason to stay Hun.
417518
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
243001
forget it all together - you don't need the headaches. If he cheated and she cheated most likely they will cheat again. Unless you want to live a soap opera - move on to a different crowd of people.
972448
he sounds like bad news. having someone cheat on you is heartbreaking and you should concentrate on your baby instead of his drama.  you deserve better.