Why do I feel jealousy? She,s only a school friend.?
138681
Your jealous because you love him and you are worried about anything happening. I never used to be jealous and now I catch myself getting that way when he talks about going to strip clubs and things like that. If there is trust then that is all you need besides love. If there is no trust to begin with then the relationship has nothing. Dont worry but show him you care.
376684
The best way is to look at the situation, look at what's logical and what's illogical.  Flip the script: put yourself in the other person's shoes.  Ask yourself if you have any real grounds for jealousy.  Is it necessary?  Is this a way of protecting yourself or are you just insecure?  If you can help it, please don't be jealous of whoever you're talking about.  That's the worst feeling in the world.
1046402
It sounds like your friend is jealous. Sometimes people do really mean things when they're jealous without having a reason.
168904
Maybe they are jealous of you. U R probably super cute, and to make themselves feel like they have control over you, they make you feel unworthy. Just move on, it's High School, and everyone fits in somewhere.
901279
You are the fun part........ he is the more like education part!!!! You think about him a lot lately!!!! :)\n\n@doober\nLOL I have no reason to be jealous.....
600638
It sounds as if she is jealous of you and putting you down in front of others (esp. men) makes her feel better about her self. Talk to her about how this makes you feel, if this doesn't work trying giving her a taste of her own medicine..maybe then she will see for herself how it feels. It it still becomes a problem, find a new friend. Good luck.
360800
u know im going thru the same...some people find me better looking, others find her better but we both as well have the same personalities and still she gets much more attention than i do...u know something, if she is competitive with you, she could be harmful even in the slightest way like i feel my friend brings harm to me by making my self confidence and self esteem go lower since she gets all the attention and i dont when im with her...but lately, i have tried keeping some space from her, even though i love spending time with her, i feel its always best to giv yourself some quality time...go shopping alone at times and ull get all the attention..it will definitely boost your confidence which is beautiful...in short...spend a little less time with her and you will see how it will work for u.. \n\nworking really well for me...
651282
Well, remind your friend all that you've shared. The past will always outweigh the present. The green eyed monster only emerges when one is worried or a little insecure. Be flattered that they care enough to worry, but flatter them back with reassurances that you are going no where other than to a place where you can grow closer to them. \n\nWe tend to think of jealousy as a bad thing. It is more of an indicator. Stop and step back and see what it is telling you. Give her what you she needs........and ask her to give you what you need. Awareness. That's what it's all about. :)
863050
Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
698479
You could be depressed.  It's nothing to be embarrassed about.  If you cry alot, and don't get joy from things you liked before, it could be.  Why do you think she is wrong?  \n\nLife is too short to feel so sad.  It might help you to be open minded about depression.  You have a computer - get more information, help yourself as much as you can.\n\nYour school counselor is probably concerned about you.  You can talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with that.  If you don't go do a teacher, friends mom, or other adult you can trust.  \n\nI have been depressed in my life, and it is so easily treated.  I should never have suffered as long as I did.  There's counselling, and or medications that can help tremendously.  Please don't give up.  \n\nI always remember life is too short, and I don't want to feel so sad.  Please help yourself so you can be a happy and content person.\n\nGod Bless
598148
well try to be polite with them and let compliment them or make them feel good about themselves...if they are jealous ...then it's THEIR self confidence..you shouldn't feel bad about that.
251986
jealousy!! girl u should bounce n make 'em feel worse wen u lookin good!!
55649
yeah its normal to feel jealous.as you are likely to feel like the outsider looking into the circle of family. try to find something in common with your step daughter it will ease your jealousy and also provide common ground to star with and help bonding.\nand give each other space and time to understand each other. bonding does not happen overnight.
748307
I think that you need more than a friend...I think that you need someone that you can talk to who can help with why you are feeling this way.  Best of Luck!
287814
That would depend on the circumstance of what she is jealous of and how she displays her jealousy. A good friend is happy for you and supportive when great things happen in your life. However sometimes even good friends become jealous perhaps because they are going through rough times or they have yet to acieve their own goals or they are lacking love at the moment, any number of reasons. In this instance if you have something they don't and they desire having the same,it is only human nature to be jealous. How the jealousy is displayed determines the depth of character/friendship. Is she laughing and smiling and screeching "I am so jealous, but good for you" or is she tense, a little distant, and crying or scowling. This is unhealthy jealousy, for she is jealous with an envious heart that may create problems for the friendship. If she is vindictive then in her jealousy she may try to bring about the downfall of your happiness. But if she jealous AND supportive, well cut her some slack and try to be empathic.
703089
Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
1071015
wow. i think she's beyond jealous. first question, i understood it. second question...i wondered...this, being the third question...i'm starting to worry about you.