why people always gossiping me something that i didnt do?
156937
People gossip about others when they are feeling insecure about themselves and feel that they have to "belong" and to acheive that, they need to make up things about people who they think are perfect. As soon as you become one person's target, those others who are also insecure would also use you as a target, though not realising how stupid they all aare. Don't be upset because of what people say, because as long as you know that in you heart you didn't do it, then you are innocent.
640998
They are not your real friends if they aren't prepared to listen to your side of the story.  Tell them you succumbed in a moment of weakness.  You never know, they may have done the same thing but you haven't heard about it yet.
1011514
Light gossip is normal, no matter where you go. Those who have no life engage in it incessantly. Those who have a lot going on for themselves (who have a life) and are relatively stable and secure in themselves will hardly take notice of the gossip and rarely be affected by it.
363402
Did you do something that you should worry about?  \n\nIt's very hard to gauge people over the phone.  If you didn't do anything wrong then you shouldn't sweat it.  May be she was on the phone with a girlfriend gossiping and forgot about what she was going to tell you.
608921
rumors are nasty, the more u deny what they are saying, the more they say about u, just be yourself, and let your family know, at least they should accept your word.
823508
It's none of your business you nosey cow. Sounds like your a bit jealous. I run a company and would sack you on the spot for challenging someone over their private life.
224477
Gossip is an ugly habit.  Ask him not to do it again.  Give him another chance.  But just one more chance, and if he shows that he'd rather gossip than be your friend, drop him.
453088
just ignore them, those people are trying to make ur self esteem down, have confidence in urself. and don't allow anyone to degrade you.\nIf you had to answer then tell them:  Yes I am mad because I allowed myself to talk to someone silly and  shallow like you.
883862
I have a lot of sympathy with you. I am one of those BIG MOUTHS at work who will most probably aks : SO WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO?\n\nI do it, not because I am nosy, but simply because I am interested and would not mind other people knowing where I go. I do however understand that some people might (for very good reasons), not want me to know where I go.\n\nShould they therefor say: Well nowhere special, OR something similar, I will realise they do not want to discuss it and will move on. If I do not get the hint, I hope you will say to me: I would prefer not to discuss it.\n\nHope this helps. It is your choice what you share about your life.
650849
Unfortunately, those girls grow up to be women who are simply bitter with themselves.\n\nI've had numerous accounts where women gossip about me, say I am conceited, etc. WITHOUT knowing one thing about me. \n\nI've even had some incidences where women confess that they thought I thought I was on my high-horse to later realize I'm very nice and down-to-earth.\n\nI've now learned to accept all kinds of gossip. I now embrace it and figure that I must have something special about me for people to stare, wonder & talk, without knowing one thing about me. Plus, depending on their own lives, it really amounts to them not having anything going on with themselves.\n\nBe flattered. Some people go unnoticed in life, you should be glad you're noticed and then some.
1066181
Yes when weird things like that happen I keep walking too.  Some people make it a practice to learn everyone's name around them even when there is no good reason too.  Maybe they want to befriend you for strange reasons.
1047996
If they are not there for you and they talk behind your back---sweetie---they are not your friend.  You can be nice and sociable without considering them a friend.  And just so you know if they are talking about you behind your back--they are probably jealous of you   :)Good Luck!
240797
Friends don't talk about you behind your back, haters do that. Friends confront you privately and it is up to you to let others know about what the friend has said.
225128
If your breathing you have gossiped.Even when its the truth
488090
from personal experience: no matter what age, religion, education or how much money you have we all tend to do it at some point or another.  we all gossip about everyone from celebrities, friends, coworkers or even family member's. we may have different reason such as a form of complains about the other person, envy , and just plain bored.  i came to the conclusion that everyone those whether they believe or not . so i guess it's part of human nature. it might be wrong but that's life.  it seems that it becomes more that just a conversations when person "A" and "b" are talking about person "c" and then person "A" goes and tells persons "C" what person "B" said about her.  that's really when it becomes a problem  we should  just learn to take it as a conversation and that all it is
479413
I think gossip and rumors are the worse thing in the world, and they do hurt no matter how much you were taught when you were little "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me."  All I have to say is if these people are your friends, they aren't very good friends and you should just find new people to socialize with. But the best thing to do is try and ignore it, If someone confronts you about it just tell them they must of heard it wrong and you would apprieciate it if they no longer talked about it.  Good luck.
65414
yes. of course, everybody talks about everybody. so u don't expect they won't talk about u. but not the extent they will step on ur dignity or anything. Just trust them if they backstab u. they are not ur true friends. do u backstab them? so u r kinda suspicious? just asking. if u want them to treat u good, then treat them better!