I have a problem w/my b/f. He gets mean alot.??????
142003
Don't take it any more.  You need to leave and get out of this relationship as fast as you can.  No one deserves to be treated like that.  You deserve to be in a real relationship where someone loves you and treats you with respect.
221661
So stop it already! Hurting your feelings with what??>....um,.. lemme guess, words? Are you certain that he is doing it intentionally, or do he think he is not. \n\nFeelings get hurt only when we allow ourselves to feel that way.  I strongly believe that you can also choose to not let whatever it is he says hurt you by ignoring him, not taking those times so seriously and tell yourself he is just messing with you, and blow it off- give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts. \n\nBottom line, you control emotions, get upset, feeling hurt,     are controlled by you. You decide what will piss you off and what hurts. Change the way you think and perceive things, don't take things so personally, remember freedom of speech?   \n\nYour bf probably gets a kick watching you get all upset. Dont let him see you hurt or upset, don't let it faze you, like you never heard him, I bet it will stop. \nMaybe you are just being a cry baby? Maybe blow his mind the next time he is hurting your feelings and just crack up laughing hysterically then stop, telling him he is so hilarious. Well, at least you will be laughing, that feels better than feeling hurt, or sad or upset. Is this making any sense at all?\nI hope you understand my point, and you find your way to toughen up your sensitivity.
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
201462
Not good.  First, he is taking you for granted.  He sees no consequences for his actions and treats you like the dog that gets kicked for no good reason.  He may have frustrations, but has failed to learn or remember who really cares for him above all others.  This is a sign of emotional immaturity.  He needs a wake up call and needs to grow up.  How would he feel if the shoe where on the other foot?  He probably wouldn't stand for it, so why should you?  Don't.  The next time he pulls this crap, I suggest you react in a calm, yet defiant manner by explaining that you care for him, while he seems to have forgotten what a healthy supportive relationship is.  If he wants someone to take out his anger on, then he's got the wrong woman.  End of story, so no more of this behavior against me...no hard feelings.
331877
Honey, DUMP that loser.  \n\nYou don't deserve that crap.  He thinks you'll just take it, but that's abuse.  If you're that bad, what is he doing with you?  \n\nHe just feels so insecure that he is putting you down.  This is NOT your problem.  Get rid of that dork!
1138553
I've read some of the answer to you question and i have to say "you guys are mean!!!" \n\ndon't let you worry of losing him interfere with you having an awesome summer. Chances are he feels the same way you do, so talk to him and let him know how you feel - you'll probably instill also comfort into each other hearts. i would write him a letter about what he means to you and put a picture of yourself with it. The last night you guys are going to see each other - give it to him.
637756
listen - dont always talk. be kind. take care of him, do little everyday things for him. kiss him whenever you can - on his forehead, his hand, his foot. hand him a towel when he gets out of the shower. give him space when he needs it. dont make him ask for space. if you get upset, think about what you are saying BEFORE you say it. always be nice, there is not need to be mean. if you fight, fight fair.
803721
Get rid, I don't think anybody should be controlled. Find somebody who loves you and is genuine. Just because he is sweet it does not mean he can't be nasty. He's shown his true colours. No women deserves to be manipulated and grounded. Good Luck
940789
He keeps being persistant because you give in to easily. He keeps screwing up because he knows you will take him back eventually. Pull your head out of your behind and stand up for yourself! Tell him to F$&# off for good! You can do much better than him and you know it!
943667
Sounds like he has big trust issues, you should talk to him about your concerns, if not I would walk away..... Jealously can lead to violence
37598
You might want to talk to him about it and let him know that it bothers you.  You and he can make an agreement about what he will do in future similar situations.  If he's not willing to do what you want, you'll have to decide how you feel about that.
622163
do it like this, you ass act crazy and let it be known who do bitch in this now over relationship. you better start stalkin him and waitin outside his door trust me it'll get rid of him.
1158430
Your man sounds like a bit of a bully. You sound like you have already started to blame yourself for his behaviour. Well hey, guess what, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.  He has no right to treat you so bad. YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG. Do not let him continue to bully you. Talk to him, he maybe feels insecure. Ask him to get help. If he is not prepared to try and change his attitude towards you then walk away. You deserve to be treated better.
1103588
sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
646678
Just listen to your heart. If he makes you happy constantly, that's a good thing, but does he make you mad for good reasons, or is it just terribly hard to get along with him? Talk to him about it. Try to figure out what's going on. Good luck!
564523
Your 'creature' is controlling you! This is NOT a good relationship, nor is it healthy for either one of you. Draw the line now! Speak to whomever you want. If he gets mad, tell him, "Goodbye." Short, swift, and mean what you say. Don't wishy wash on this, or you will be in for some serious problems from now on. It will escalate to beating, abuse, you name it. You are in a bad relationship that is not going to get better.
518384
leave him. no one should treat you like that. there is some one out there better for you. your worth more than he is. it seems like hes trying to not lesson to your problem and thats wrong. any one that cares for another person will here them out and be there for them, and at less try to understand and help them. plus i know what your going through, every girl needs afection or how ever you spell it. so go out there and find some one thats worth having you as a girlfreind!