I know I am in love with a married man-will he leave his wife for me?
154669
if he leaves his wife for you he will also leave you for someone
718828
Get the hell away from him... He's bad news... He either likes to flirt or wants to seduce you into an affair... He probably has no intention of leaving his wife... You need to find yourself a nice UNATTACHED man... This loser is not worth your time...\n\nRemember, if you do get into a relationship with this man and he leaves his wife for you, whats to stop him from doing it to you??? Once a cheater, always a cheater...
742150
I can understand that what u r facing now, and it is very typical 4 you I know. But now what i am going to say is too much typical for u. The fact is that he is a married man, and u have 2 accept this typical fact of ur life.\nU have no other option.\nI don't know anything about u and ur boyfriend. And i can't guess that how much he is loyal about ur love. But if he is not loyal to his wife and cheating her. then how he will remain loyal to ur love in future. Think!!!!!\n\nThe another fact that, he may be want to use u for his sexual requirements. But there is lots of chances. And its a fact.\n\nWell dont think just about ur self. Think about ur family. Think about ur boyfriend's family. Think what happens when u take a wrong decision.\n\nJust concentrate on ur future and carrier. What u have to do next.\n\nDon't listen romantic and sad songs, and try 2 listen spritual songs if u have faith in God.\n\nWell if u want 2 really overcome from this problem and want 2 concentrate then I have some tips which I can't disclose here. U may contact me at manojatindia@yahoo.com\nI am not giving answers for 2 points, i really want to help peoples.\n\nBye
883546
sounds like self sabotage to me. Have you asked yourself, why you do not want to be alone? \n\nSounds like you and your husband need to make changes together. It isn't right that you arbitrarily made a decision for him, by stepping out on him. Would you like it done to you? \n\nAnother thing, have you asked yourself why you chose a married man? You know that he isn't going to leave his wife, or should. He has no business being with you, as you have no business being with him. It isn't fair to you or the other people... such as your husband, and his wife. If the roles were reversed and you didn't know... how would you feel  once you found out... and now say you and the husband who is going to leave his wife, get together, live together, get married. Can you be certain since his history ( with you) has shown that he isn't imune to cheating since you were the other woman. Whos to say he wouldn't cheat on you with someone else? \nYou need to stop setting yourself up for train wrecks waiting to happen and fix the situation you are already in. Break it off with the married man, and leave him alone. Talk to your husband if you want to make this work, open up the lines of communication and seek marriage councilling! Don't be mean and blurt out that you are having an affair because he is ignoring you and is not the sexual life of the party in the bedroom. This isn't all his fault and you need to realize that you both have needs that are not getting met, it takes two to make a marriage work and putting blame on him is not going to heal you. You need to figure out what your needs and wants are, and talking to someone to try to discover the part of you that is lost will help you in this relationship or any HEALTHY relationship you get into in the future!
340825
What makes you think you are the only one he is screwing around with?  He is a cheater!!  Even if he did leave his wife, chances are he would repeat the process with you.  Haven't you ever heard the expression "if you love someone, let them go?"  Let his ass go...you can do it. He obviously doesn't love you enough to leave his wife. But we both know this isn't what you want to hear. You are looking for ways to make him leave her...and if anyone on here has a conscience, they won't even offer that up. This isn't love, it is an obsession.
651676
STOP LIKING THEM:). I mean look, if you are wanting to get involved with someone, don't get involved with a married man. It is not fair to you or his family. Maybe you are a type of person who looks for the thrill of a chase and not a commitment...lots of people who are attracted to married men are like that. I think what you should do is try to find someone who is unattached who you can be with and give them everything you can give them. It is much better for you in the long run, you will not feel guilty about having a man leave his wife or children, and you will feel better about yourself in the end as well! GOOD LUCK and success!
643814
if it is true love you will know it in your heart. You wont be able to get enough of him being around you and the annoying things he does will be 'cute' (until you have been married for about 5 years lol) He will be all you think about, dream about, and talk about.
160000
i agree- once a cheater....  if he cheated on his wife and is willing to leave her, is this really the type of person you want to be with!?!?!  seems like a set up for heartbreak!
1140324
Dodger, let me ask you what do you think this new woman will be like after you leave your wife? Will she actually be the woman you have always dreamed about? She is willing to see a married man so she is not a God fearing woman to be able to do that. If a woman will do this she isn't much of a woman. Now if she and you are not seeing each other that might be different but if she is willing to see you knowing full well you are married whether happy in the marriage or not...then give this more serious thought. Will she do the same to you when she grows tired of you and how do you know she is your soul mate if you two have not been together talking and showing affection? I would really wonder about a man or woman who would see someone who is married. Try spending the extra time your thinking about this soul mate and you just might be amazed what it can do for your marriage..
563234
Yes, you are right! If he loves you as much as he says he does then he must sort out his own problems with his wife. If they decide a divorce is the best way then that's on them. Question is do you really love him? If you both are just friends (nothing sexual) then that's okay. It may seem or feel questionable but as long as you both are friends it's okay. If you do really and truly love him my dear I would tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way about you then he must divorce her before he moves on with you. Sounds as if you are stuck in the middle here. That's no fun! Regardless, as friends, stand behind him in whatever he chooses to do. Good Luck!
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
513911
i don't know if u married him or not but i think u must find one suitable for u , i am single and i Love my life i am not die if i am not have a woman but i don't go love and  married woman older than me by 18 years i think i will be her son yes he can gave u many thing but after little time u will know the fact u need to be with one can understand u u say u not in love with him anymore then what u feel now just emotion because i think u r single and alone if u need anther help contact with me have a nice time and good luck
254374
If he is your friend that mean he must understand you plus your benefit he loves you that mean he really really understand you.so if he loves you he cares for you and if he cares for you he wouldn't try to spoil your married life right.However what i see here it's not love it's a guy wants something from you (in the name of Love) and beleive me once he has a piece of it you will be left with nothing as your so called lover will tell you bye and ur husband |I don't know how u gonna face him. So tc do what u think is best it's your call.It's easy to fall in love it's hard to get married to a right person you see.
293081
I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
306746
First figure out what feelings these are you have and how strong.Second imagine yourself without the person who at one time (and probably still do)you loved with all your heart,(loved enough to make her your wife). If imagining her gone and with another man doesn't bother you, then I'd say "its over",but if it does BOTHER you-Then stay away from whatevers tempting you,and focus on yourself and your wife.
1119567
hi.that's what a lot of married men say.if you love him,you should let him go.tell him you don't want to cause there marriage to brake up.you should say to him you don't want to see him anymore. stand back and see if he leaves his wife anyway.if he doesn't leave his wife,then you'll know he wasn't genuine about the things hes been saying.
671507
Yes a married woman can still be in love with her husband even though he has not been faithful. My husband has done it. And yes right now we do not live together but everyday that he is gone the more I miss him and the more I relize just how much I truely love him. That's why they add in the for better or worse in the vows...