how do revive an old love?
156499
it's easy if your both single, just see if there's still that something from both of you, ask to go out with him or her, talk about those days, even your mistakes, so you both could straighten it out..it's that feeling to know if you could revive that 'love'
1079112
Start from the beginning from when you first started dating. Go back to the place you met. Revisit old past times together. Start doing the things you used to do before your life became busy. \n\nDon't forget to look back and find out what that person really means to you. Spice things up a little, do something that you would not ordinarily do. You may have become to predictable with your day in and day out routine. Do some new things.\n\nPray about it as well. It'll work, you have nothing to worry about.
885307
Magic in the stick if is not a dead branch.   There are pills thet can bring the old dead stick back to life.   Knowing what you are to do with it is more important.
994239
damn son!! you can write. that's the problem about love from 1 side only. nothing good could come out from it. i guess you'd heard about time will heal all wounds. in your case it will take longer than usual. keep yourself busy. join an activity. trow away any things that reminds you of her. have a good cry. and try not to stay @ the same place as you both once shared. and why do you still consider her as a saint. she's a ho. face it and call her that. you'll feel better.
815704
Remember how you acted when you first met the other person?  Remember the special little things you did?  Holding hands, sneaking a kiss and an hug?  Walks on the beaches, a quiet dinner out...\n\nGo back to that time and get the feeling back.
286455
You two need to go back in time and remember the special things you liked about eachother in the beginning and start to rebuild your relationship.  Sometimes couples take eachother for granted and after a while they stop doing and saying those little things that made each other feel special and they lose sight of the qualities they fell in love with in the first place.
556137
What you really want is the REAL thing, not any cheap substitutes for the intimacy that you once had. If you've been together for a long time, you focus on your careers and other things that need to get done and in that time both of you have grown as individuals. You are not on the exact same level that you used to be on when you once met because you have both gained new wisdom, new dreams, new experiences, etc. I think what you need to do is meet each other on the level that you are on now. In other words REDISCOVER each other. There is something deeper in your husband and in you that wasn't there before and you need to get in touch with each other. Talking is the number one key for intimacy. Maybe you could change the scenery and talk in a totally different place to spark some enthusiasm. Make it special and really dig into each other's worlds. Talking about the past can bring back good memories, but don't wish that your husband is now what he was then because he is all that and even more. Love him now and get to know him all over again. Do something special for him and create an atmosphere where you can talk and fall in love all over again.
56811
Show her the new you, show her what she has been missing for those two years!! \nCharm her\nAnd BE YOU!!!
638221
Start from scratch.  Do not resume this relationship where you left off.  That would be the mistake.  People change.  If you are interested in getting back together.  Do not date for six months.  Let your old love mourn the loss of the marriage.  This will allow your old love to clear his mind first.  Start dating and take it slowly to find out how the marriage has affected him and why his marriage failed.
187184
cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
320029
if someone took their love away i'm sure it would be very painful. but you must realize that its their loss and not yours. and yes, you can love again. you just have to keep your heart open to new possibilities. who knows you may ultimately come across the woman you have been looking for.
832676
you know her better than anyone. go get her, but your powerless if she has stopped loving you. :-(. what a sad situation for you, i hope it is all a mid life crisis and hope she comes to her senses and realises how much you miss her! good luck! if you know where she is write her a letter
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
615687
Don't know your circumstances but I will tell you what worked (eventually) for me. \n1. Pretend your ex has died. Sounds severe but forces you to forget about "getting back together".\n2. Make yourself absolutely un-available to the ex. Take comfort in knowing they will miss you. Be a mystery.\n3. Rid yourself (or at least attempt to) of your worst personal defect. Are you overweight? Any addictions? Unemployed? In debt? Pick one and do what it takes to fix it.\n4. Don't take heartbreak or the break-up too personal. I personally think testosterone (and estrogen)cause insanity.\n5. Remember this: You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them. Go to link below for more like this.\n6. Above all, do something positive, for you.
689185
show them you care. that you want them back. if they really did like you in the past it's hard to totally get over that so there's probably some feeling still there. \n\nGood Luck!
1048244
Well, unfortunately you can't erase the memories of past relationships. There is always going to be something that reminds you of that person. A good way to bypass the baggage is not to use it against the new love.  They don't deserve to be compared to or treated as if they are going to be the same way. Not everyone is the same way. Have a positive outlook on any new relationship and learn from the previous ones.
52940
If the fold is from you try and work it out \nexpecialy if you love him faigt back.\nBut if it is him give him some time he will \ncome back after he realise what hi miss.