what if ur really into a guy but ur parents are really strict nd u cant go anywhre how do u freakin cpe wt it?
143905
im not alowed 2 hav a bf and i've been w/him 4 almost 3 months. its really hard 2 avoid suspision. but we always usually sneek a kiss or something at scool. u guys dont hav 2 go out every weekend, u can just talk 2 each other on the phone or online. as long as ur communicating w/him
160996
I was in this situation before... my parents wouldn't allow me to date this guy. well, i dated him for 6 months behind their backs and when i graduated from high school, they said i could do whatever i wanted to do. so... i kept dating him. he then joined the army and we got married, had a 3 year marriage plus a little baby boy and well... to make a long story short... this guy was a complete bastard and had a very personal affair. ANYWAYS... I have learned one thing... it might sound stupid and nerdy but PARENTS USUALLY KNOW BEST!!! I'd listen to them. THEY HAVE THEIR REASONS!
810415
Thats actually not strict at all.\nHe basically wants to show you that he is an adult and you are a child... Even though you may not like it you must know you role, suck it up and be respectful and in return you will get respect back
880038
TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT YOU LOVE THEM VERY MUCH AND WILL NEVER GO AGAINST THEIR WISH AND ALSO TELL THEM YOU LOVE YOU BF VERY MUCH AND CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM....YOU WILL NOT MARRY ANYONE ELSE ,,,AND YOU WILL STAY UNMARRIED IF YOU HAVE TO FOR YOUR PARENTS.....TRY THIS IN THE END YOUR WISH WILL BE GRANTED..BEST OF LUCK...
667706
I say you follow your heart because some times your parent are wrong but if really love him keep on dating him. maybe your dad will see his otherside of him later on
697711
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be).  If she'll like him, introduce him.  If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason.  Dont date him anymore.  She has experience and knows and understands things you dont.  The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends.  Find someone you know she will like and approve of.  Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway.  The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing.  Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship.  That usually takes many months to determine.  He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.
658326
there is a reason why your parents don't like him. and ask the 1st guy what he thinks of the 2nd guy. guys are themselves around other guys so maybe the 1st guy knows something about him and if he is friends with you he can be completely honest with you and his feelings won't be hurt. ultimately its your decision.
488736
if you don't like the guy don't marry him, cause it's not your parents who are going to live with him the rest of their lives, but you. think about what you want and moreover about what you feel. \nGod says that two persons have to love each other to get married, otherwise they offend the holy union of marriage. \nprobably your parents want the best for you, but they cannot be sure of what is really best for you.\nand anyway they cannot force you to say yes before the priest. wait a while, if your parents really want the 'best' for you, they'll stop blackmailing and harming you.\nif they'll continue doing that, it proves that they have other interests with this marriage.\ndon't fight them, just tell them calmly that you won't marry that guy and that's all.
213915
First of all, figure out whether you like him or not regardless of your parents' opinions.  If you like him enough, then continue to go out with him and when the time is right, introduce him gradually to your parents by mentioning him casually then by actually introducing them to each other. Your parents need to be given an opportunity to know the guy otherwise they will just go on stereotypes. But if you don't like him really, then what's the point? Just decline if he asks you out on a date or make it clear to him that you're just hanging out with him as a friend.
879935
tell him that your parents don't want you dating until you are (whatever age or amount of time until you are able to) and be sure to say that you like him as more than a friend. he will probably understand that and probably become a very close friend while he waits
421049
talk to them, earn their trust. seem interested in whatever they might say. act like you have nothing to hide(which you might not), and smile. also act polite. meeting the parents is never easy, but it must be done eventually.
506024
respect ur parents and tell him u cant
1018993
just remember that your parents are scared and shocked and dealing with alot of things right now. you didn't say how old you are and that makes a huge difference so adding some details will help, let them come around on their own and be willing to talk to them about it. also make sure you are practicing safe sex EVERY SINGLE TIME!
9222
First, if you love him I don't see how you could even care about his looks at all. Second, if this is the sole reason that your parents won't let you see him ,it sounds rather shallow.\n\nIf you love him, explain the situation with your parents & then remain friends. Once you are 18, there is nothing your parents can do about it, so long as you live on your own. Granted, the full legal age is 21 but, if you are, let's say, away at college, how can they tell you whom you can & can not see?\n\nIn truth, how you handle this entire thing is up to you & your true devotion to this guy. If you've known him for nine years you can't be too young so I'm thinking it will just be a matter of time before you can be together.\n\nGood luck!
76582
I say you are now in a civilised country.. whilst parents are important the world over, you are the one that has to live with him, have sex with him, have children with him. Sounds to me that you need to marry your parents if you are so concerned
573329
Hi..\n\nif u really like her  then u can tell ur parents that u want to propuse to her and get engagged  if no body minds that and if u guys r old enough...\n\nif thats not possible then just try to keep away from her so u dont hurt her and not hurt urself.\n\ngoooood luck
21114
You don't.  This is one of those things that you have to decide.  If you like this guy, go out with him.  It won't be easy, especialy if you want to remain an active member of your Church Family.  Life ahead of you will be filled with choices that your parents don't want you to have to make.