if a guy is straight,but experience a physical sexual relationship with the same sex,could he become gay?
153254
that's what you call a trysexual, will try anything.
600188
He can't change his sexuality.  He is what he is.  Gay men are attractive sometimes because they are just more in touch with their feminine side (sometimes) and also because they understand the frustration of dealing with men in love relationships so they make great "sob sisters".
1016243
the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
532072
You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.
41842
How can we possibly know? \n\nHave you ever had sexual intercourse? Was it with the same or the opposite gender? Did you enjoy it?\n\nIf you've never had sex, are you attracted to the same gender or the opposite gender?\n\nThere is a growing number of young people who choose not to label themselves as gay or straight, but rather bi. According to the sexual studies of Dr. Kinsey there is a wide range of sexual attraction in humans, ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, with most people falling somewhere in between. If asked, a lot of people will admit to at least one same-gender experience, and yet they do not self-identify as gay.\n\nAbout the only advice I can give is to follow your heart. If you're unsure or uneasy, stop.
636838
Gay and Straight are very limiting labels.  I tend to think of things on more of a continuum.  If you tend to be attracted ONLY to men romantically for lasting relationships.  Then I would consider you mostly Homosexual.  \n\nIf you are attracted ONLY to females romantically for lasting relationships I would consider you mainly Heterosexual.  \n\nAnything else,  liking to be physically sexual with men or women, being mildly attracted to men or women, somewhere in the middle.  I think most people are bisexual to a certain degree.  People just tend to lean more to the hetero or the homosexual side.
1025711
I played with GI Joe when I was growing up but so did my best friend and He is as straight as an arrow . Nothing can make you gay you are born gay . Sexual orientation is determined before birth and no one  can choose to be gay or straight . Nothing can make them gay or straight .  A straight man can't decide he is gay and change his attraction for women and a gay man can't decide he is straight and  change his attraction for men .
475623
A homosexual is defined as someone who is romantically and sexually attracted to the same gender.\n\nThe key words there are "romantically" and "sexually". If a straight guy has sex with someone of the same gender, the action may be a homosexual action, but that doesn't necessarily change the persons orientation. They may only do it once and never again and there may have been circumstances (like alcohol or drugs, etc) to explain the otherwise odd behavior. The rest of the time the guy always has sex with the opposite sex and persues romantic relationships with the opposite sex. That makes him heterosexual. If he prefers to engage in both sex and romantic relationships with both genders that would make him bisexual and depending on the degree of his bisexuality would determine which gender he prefered to seek out most (man or woman). If a homosexual man decides not to engage in any sexual action, that doesn't mean the desire to has gone away. Nor does that mean that the man's desire to be romantic with another man has gone away either (and oddly the Bible and other sacred texts often used to condemn homosexuality only talk about the sexual act, but not the romantic act...apparently it's okay to be romantic with your own gender). \n\nThat is why it is odd when people say things like "hate the sin, but love the sinner" and then call homosexuality a sin. They simplify homosexuality often down to the action of sex with the same gender.....yet, these same people who say that this is the sin will then continue to condemn the person for simply having the homosexual desires still even if they are not engaging in sexual acts. \n\nThe basic thing that most people miss is that being homosexual isn't just about wanting to just have sex with someone of the same gender. It is about being romantically attracted to the same gender, too. Falling in love with the same gender. Sex may never actually enter into the picture of some homosexuals who are in romantic and loving relationships....yet they are condemned and told they are going to hell because it is assumed that they are having sex or assumed that just by them sharing love with each other that this is wrong (yet, do we not love our friends and family, too...and yet loving friends and family of the same gender is not wrong, why is it wrong when we find a romantic companion whom we may not even engage in sexual acts with?)\n\n\nI see a lot of hypocrisy with the issue and being a homosexual myself, I decided to stop caring about what other people think and focus my life on God without them and their opinions (because if hypocrisy exists in their opinions, then it cannot be from God). I'm a Hindu now, a religion that is very diverse and ranges on its views. When it comes to homosexuality, any condemnation that some Hindu sects have of it isn't based upon religious belief, it is usually about defending tradition or other reasons.
113834
being gay is not something that someone chooses for themselves they are or they are not.  You can change a behavior, such as not having relationships with a same sex partner, but no matter what if you are gay, you are gay
364943
no.  You shouldn't "become" gay or lesbian- you should already be and definitely know it if you are.  A natural desire should push you one way or the other.  Don't fight nature- she's stronger than you.
88644
Whether you are gay, straight, or bi, if you choose to be with either a man or a woman, since you are bisexual, you have to be able to commit.  Will you be able to supress your feelings towards men and deny them, so that you will be able to be true to this woman? The same if you were with a man. If you are with a man, will you be able to be faithful to him, and deny your feelings for women (not to mention other men too).  Being in a relationship is all about commitment and monogomy, not about who you are attracted to.  You will always see other people who are attractive to you, but you must remain faithful if you are in a relationship.  As far as finding her, be honest and let her know about your sexuality.  If you keep it a secret, it will eventually come out, and can potentially destroy your relationship for lying in the first place. Hope this helps.
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
672718
All gays are males only.Biologically they are active and potent and can reproduce normally. It is the brain chemisty that determins their rientation. Certain amount of gayness exist in all. I feel you are from India and a south Indian.Most of us had some experience at least in the school days. We hav an affection towards certain actors, sport persons etc. when that admiration exceeds there will develop a love bond. That is all.\nIf you wish how u can chk a person hav more gay orientation. it soo simple stare at him. Observe him closely with a certain love in your eyes. the feelings can be communicated easily and automatically. So you can find whether he really likes u and wants U.\nIt is your past experience and fantacies makes you gay noot biological. Anybody can be a gay provided the situation is sutable. But later it will make certain changes in the human brain which can be considered like making a wall. Each brick of fantacy or a fondiling memory or experience will increase the wall height which seperate from desire for a female. Actually sex is nothing but a pure mind game. Physical part is only 10% that is purely biological. Even the secreation of different hormones upto your performane ... It is truely a mind game.
547599
If you are into it and willing to risk getting AIDS or STD that is your choice. I have friends who are gay but it is not a sexual relationship...it is a friendship. In a partner I would feel just as deceived as if they cheated on me with a member of the oposite sex and end the relationship that never was.
1137590
Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?\n\nThe answers are the same for either orientation.
640009
no. He can live a straight life, but underneath still have the same feelings and desires. dont fight it , just enjoy it.
477296
Yes. If you're not sure if someone is gay or not - they're gay. Me, you'd know right away I'm no homo. When you dump him get yourself checked out to make sure he didn't give you some homo disease (like AIDS) and if you're clean give me a call (seems like you're pretty easy and I like that in a chick).