Why the vaginal wall pains when penis is inserted?
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no experiense, still virgin, i want also 2 know the answer
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no it doesn't hurt, because it's not like if you get swelling from an injury - that causes pain because there isn't any room for expansion and the swelling stimulates stretch receptors in the skin, causing pain. But in the penis there is room for the extra blood flow, so it doesn't hurt.
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Does your partner have an excessively large penis?  Could be he is hitting your uterus with his penis and it is taking that long to calm it down.  Do you have any kind of discharge?  I've known of partners passing yeast infection back & forth.  Tame the sex down to a gentle roar & see if that helps.
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1. you most likely did not use lubrication\n2. you shoved it in instrad of easing it in\n3. you did not give her time to relax and stretch out.\n if someone shoved their penis in your nose you'd probably bleed too. it's a hole that is not used to having foreign objects ramed into it... you gotta be carful bro...be conscious about the health and wellbeing of your partner. if that something you 2 want to continue doing...then give her time to heal and don't be so rough next time. start by inserting a finger...then move up to two in order for her to get comfortable with having something in that area. if she wasn't ready for it it most likely hurt her alor....especially if you did it without asking her. don't force her to do it if she doesn't ever want it done again....gotta respect her limits...you might not understand...or even care....no offense but i don't know you so i can't make assumptions....but if you had something jammed in your anus and it bled and hurt you would probably not want to ever do it again. hope i helped bro. just be careful and gentle with her.
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The part responsible for this is a long mass inside the penis, it looks rather like a sponge, with lots of space inside. These little caves can fill with blood and as a result, the penis thickens, grows in length and all the rest of it.
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A vagina can be either relaxed or aroused. When it is relaxed the walls are collapsed against each other and the cervix lays closer to the front. When it is aroused the cervix pulls up and the vagina walls open apart. This makes the vagina longer and wider.\n\nWhether relaxed or aroused, the vagina walls are very elastic and can stretch enormously in length and in width. The difference is that stretching them while relaxed will cause discomfort or pain whereas stretching them during arousal causes pleasure (until a certain limit, after which pain dominates).\n\nThe average length (depth) of the vagina is as follows:\n\nRelaxed --> 3.5 to 4 inches (with a diameter < 1 inch)\nAroused (tented) --> 5 to 6 inches (with a diameter of 1.5 to 2.5 inches; the vagina is narrowest at the opening).\nStretched --> 8 to 9 inches (with a diameter of 2.5 to 3 inches, and more during childbirth).\n\nNote that the bottom wall of the vagina is longer than the top wall and the cervix protrudes which gives the impression that the vagina is shorter than it is.\n\nVaginas vary in sizes just like penises do, although less extreme. Deeper vaginas usually dilate more than the shorter ones.\n\nThe vaginal depth can be varied from 2-6 inches, depending on each individual and the elastic strength of the uterine support-ligaments.\n\nA woman can also experience a change of her vaginal depth in response to her menstrual cycle. The deepest vagina occurs around the ovulation days when the daily testosterone and DHEA levels reach their maximum of the menstrual cycle. These are the most comfortable times for sex and sexual orgasm.
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A woman will tell you size means very little (no pun intended). Technique and foreplay, also loving tenderness, mean everything.\n\n"Dear Alice,\nI was wondering about the depth of the vagina. I've read statistics that say that the average vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep. This seems way too small to me, since the average penis is considerably longer than that. Wouldn't that mean that most penises would crash into the cervix repeatedly during intercourse? Since this obviously doesn't happen, my question is this: does the vagina actually elongate during intercourse to accommodate the entire length of the average penis? \n \n\nDear Reader,\n\nYes, just as the vagina has the capacity to expand, allowing for the passage of a baby during childbirth, the vagina also has the ability to elongate during intercourse to accommodate a penis. As you mentioned, for some women, the depth from the vaginal opening to the tip of the cervix is 3 to 4 inches when they are not sexually aroused. Other women may have a vaginal depth of five to seven inches. Regardless, during arousal, blood flows to the genital area, and sexual excitement causes the upper two-thirds of the vagina to lengthen by forcing the cervix and uterus to ascend. The vagina also lubricates to help ease penetration. \nSome people think that the vaginal canal is a continuously open space. However, this is a misperception. Think of the vaginal canal as if it were a balloon that is not filled with any air. The walls, which have the potential to expand and elongate, gently touch one another. When something is placed inside, they mold around the width and accommodate the length of a penis, tampon, finger(s), or sex toy.\n\nSometimes during penetration, a penis or other object inserted in a vagina does hit the cervix. This may be an indication that the woman is not physiologically aroused enough; when she is more aroused, her vagina will elongate and her cervix, the neck of the uterus, will lift up and move out of the way. Other times, contact with the cervix can happen if a penis is larger than average or if the thrusting is too deep. Communicating with a partner about the discomfort — "Ouch, that's a little too deep" — and changing sexual positions may be helpful.
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Most guys know that their genitals, particularly their testicles, are quite sensitive to touch. Lots of nerves, you know.\n\nAlso, males tend to have weaker muscles in the groin area than females.\n\nThere is no guaranteed way of stopping the pain, but a lot of guys just use ice or a cold pack wrapped in a towel.
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Didnt you ever hear of blue balls? Yes it hurts as they swell to build up. It is a physical mandatory for men to release pressure as it slowly poisons the prostrate.
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Even though there are no actual bones in a boner, it is possible to break one's penis. To understand how this incredibly rare and painful event can occur, we first need to review a little (or not so little) penile anatomy. The shaft of the penis is comprised of two chambers of spongy tissue, the corpora cavernosa, which run along the inside length of the penis. Erections occur when, in response to physical and/or mental triggers, the nerves of the penis signal the surrounding muscles to relax, allowing blood to pour into the corpora cavernosa. A thick membrane surrounding the corpora cavernosa, the tunica albuginea, keeps the blood that is being pumped into those spongy chambers from being able to escape. The result — a stiffer, larger, and more rigid rod. Although your erect penis may feel rock-hard, it is still flesh and blood.\n\nPenile fractures occur when an erect penis is thrust against a harder, less flexible object. This could happen if someone enthusiastically plunges and pumps his penis into a partner, or a pillow let's say, and misses or "over-runs" the intended opening and instead hits a pubic bone, headboard, or other hard surface. If the object is hard enough, and the erect penis is thrust with enough force, that thick membrane surrounding the corpora cavernosa can tear, causing an audible "cracking" sound, abrupt loss of erection, severe pain and bruising, and a penis that is typically "bent" to one side or the other.\n\nPenile fractures are a medical emergency and must be evaluated and treated immediately. In severe cases, it is possible to damage the urethra, interfering with urination. Treatment for penile fractures consists of immediate evaluation, and, most often, surgical intervention to repair the tunica albuginea and restore or preserve erectile function and the ability to pass urine. Similar to other fractures, the sooner the broken part is "set," the less likely permanent damage and misshapenness will result.\n\nEven though many penile fractures can be fixed, it's probably safer and more pleasurable to focus on finesse rather than force when working and playing with an erection.\n\nAgain, broken penises are really hard to come by, so try not to let stories about this highly unlikely occurrence stand in the way of the happiness that your erect penis might bring to you and others.
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It sounds like you need to use a little bit more lubrication while having sex.  The vein on your penis becomes irritated when it is exposed to too much friction.  Use a lubricated condom and try some KY Jelly.  Don't use Vaseline or petroleum jelly with condoms.  Petroleum-based lubricants can cause a condom to break, so only use water-based lubricants like KY Jelly or Astroglide.
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The veins coming out of the penis constrict and keeps more blood in the actual penis than would normally be there.  This causes the penis to become erect.  Also, hormones begin to cause pupils to dilate (believed to allow more image to be taken into the body), the heart begins to beat faster and breathing increases.  I'm sure there's more, but this is all I can remember at the time being.
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It's about average, in length.  Thickness matters more, in that a thick penis will stretch the vagina nicely, putting good pressure on the woman's G spot etc.  A really long penis can bump into the cervix, in deep thrusting, causing discomfort.\n\nA good site on male sexuality is;\n\nhttp://www.the-penis.com/\n\neg see:\n\nhttp://www.the-penis.com/size.html\n\nfor tables of statistics on penis size, plus discussion of related topics.\n\nI also recommend this site on female sexuality, as you will probably want to learn more about how we function:\n\nhttp://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/m_index.htm
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A condom is a form of birth control.  You mean does a girl have to take a birth control pill.  No, a girl does not necessarily have to go on birth control pill, but it does not hurt to do so.  It adds additional protection against pregnancy.  Condoms do often fail or leak or are improperly used, and each can result in an unplanned pregnancy.  Make sure that when he puts the condom on, he has about an inch of it off the end of his penis, and make sure that he squeezes the air out of it as he is putting it on........read the directions on the box and that will explain better what i mean.  Also, sometimes sex can hurt the girl, and sometimes it does not.  Usually, most pain for a virgin girl with a virgin guy is the result of two things....One is that the guy does not really know how to enter, from a lack of experience, and he rubs the walls of the vagina, causing additional friction and irritation.  The other is the fact that virgin girls have a small piece of skin known as a hymen that stretches across most of the vaginal opening, and as she loses her virginity, the hymen begins to stretch and break.  This results in some minor bleeding, and a slight amount of pain as well.  It may hurt, it may not.  most likely, you will feel something, but it should not hurt a great deal.  if it does, tell him to pull out.  I do not know of any links showing the difference between the vagina and the urethra, but it is hard to mistake the two.  Plus, i have never heard of someone's penis going into the urethra.  \nIn the pubic area, there are small flaps of skin (lips) known as the vulva.  They extend from the frontal pubic area almost to the area of the anus.  Going toward the rear, there is a hole (somewhat of a large hole, as well).  This area is where his penis will go.  Once the two of you get undressed, it will be correctly placed with just a little effort and some moving around.  You should have no worries about this.  Your main concern should be about birth control and using it correctly.
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this normally occurs due to the following reasons;\n1]u're not properly lubricated prior to penetration.\n2] you may have endometritis-in that case pls go to a gynae who'll ask u to go for an ultrasound to rule it out..\n3] urinary tract infection may be the cause.. see if you have any burning sensations or associated burning/itching sensations.\nbest is to go to a doctor-it may be something serious-though not always.. take care!!
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Presumably, you mean what is usually called the "G spot". It's named after a doctor named Graffenburg who was the first to publish a paper about it. \n\nAnyway, it's a small area (a spot, if you will) inside the vagina which, in some circumstances, can act as a trigger for female arousal or climax. It's usually said to be located about 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on the forward wall. It is usually said to feel slightly different than the surrounding area, and to, at the right point in female arousal, to make the female feel an urge to urinate (though usually without any), and, like most arousal points, to feel unfamiliar and uncomfortably intense when first encountered. \n\nWomen vary considerably in the configuration of their sexual apparatus (labia, clitoris, etc), and only a few years ago it was thought that the G spot was nor very common. Actually, it seems it's rather more common than that, and that, with some effort, can be found in many females. A little exploration, by you or your partner, may very well locate it, though it seems that it may be noticeable only at one or another stage in female arousal and not at others. A bit of a will 'o the wisp, as it can appear to appear or disappear at the whim of someone or something. \n\n======\nOrigins\n\nDevelopment in females has many parallels to development in males. For instance, males have nipples, if just a bit different than female ones, female hips are very similar to (though certainly not the same as) male hips, and so on. Many of the sexual organs in men have parallels in women (the clitoris to the glans at the end of the penis, the labia to the scrotum, the erectile regions on either side of the vagina to the erectile stalks within the penis, etc), and there has been some speculation about parallels between the G spot tissue and male anatomy. Since the G spot is connected with the urethra, this has centered on the prostate gland, which is a potent source of sexual stimulation in men (ie, the 'prostate massage' technique). Since females have no prostate gland, it appears possible that the mechanisms of what would have been the prostate (the nerve concentrations and such) are what makes the G spot. \n\n=======\nUse\n\nIn actual sexual practice, using the G apot (if you can find it) can be exciting or a dud. As with many other aspects of female sexuality, there is considerable variation and effective use of it will usually take some experimentation. Since many people are uncomfortable with such things, the G spot (and indeed much else) is often lost track of in actual sexual practice. Whether or not you have found it (or can find it again if you did once), if what you do is sexually satisfying, then there shouldn't be much distress over not using your G spot to "best effect". \n\nWhatever you do, worrying overmuch about it is certainly the wrong thing. Some folks never find theirs, perhaps because they didn't look seriously enough, or perhaps because theirs is one of the 'hidden' ones. Based on current knowledge, full sexuality isn't dependent on a G spot being readily findable. Don't fret, but experiment with it if you'd like.
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I'd definitely recommend it.  I haven't had any trouble with side effects, and I don't feel it at all as I'm going about my normal daily activities.  I sometimes notice it during sex, but it certainly doesn't diminish the pleasure.  It hasn't been a problem for me to insert, because there's no need for exact placement.  It can be a litle tricky to get a grip for removal, but it never takes more than a minute.