If I am shy around girls how am I supposed to become friends with more girls?
142463
Hang out where the shy girls hang out.  They will be glad to know you, too.  Quiet places, coffee shops, book shops, the corner of the cafeteria.  Good luck
84857
first start doing your homework.  then maybe go out for some sports.  then mabey you should start trying to make more girl friends.
694017
oh trust me, they notice, its actually a turn on to act shy around a guy, so just start talking to one of them, and act shy, when girls act shy around me i just give them a hug, its really fun, they seem to like it alot, its just so sudden, and then they start blushing...oh sorry i was daydreaming, see, i like shy girls, theyre nice, and cute...so just sell your shyness, its a gift
591615
Work on your CONFIDENCE!  Girls like different things, but all girls like a guy who is confident.  Not cocky... but just feel good about yourself.  If you do, you will find it easy to strike up conversations with girls about things during the course of your day.  Hopefully you are involved in some kind of sports or activity that helps to build your confidence and the rest will come naturally!
116205
Try one way, and another, and another; until you learn how to get to know a girl without making an idiot out of yourself. But certainly, you should first lose the fear of making a fool out of yourself, and that's 50% of the battle won. The rest is practice.
701748
Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.
771907
dont worry you dont have to belong to any particular group and is best if you dont like that you avoid getting caught up in the middle of groups you choose who you want to be friends w/ ohhh and stop being shy make new friends find something of similar interest and talk talk talk
549343
From the sound of it you already know, what is the first thing you say to your friends?   HELLO  that would be a good start, and if the girl you are talking to is not just a stuck-up you know what, the conversation will flow, if you are at a movie for example why not talk about the best thing that was in the movie, there are a lot of ways you could talk to females if you are not just shy or scared of girls, If there is a certain girl that you really like try to find out what type of things she like and try to be in the places that she be in, that might help some in your quest.
447529
Get involved in a group that contains both guys and girls. This way you can be comfortable around your male counterparts, and also get to observe girls up-close. If you play your cards right, you'll be seen as "that shy guy"... which most girls find rather intriguing. Take your time, get to know a girl and realize that she's not a being entirely different than your guy friends. Sure she might be wearing make-up and a skirt... but guys have their own things too.\n\nPerhaps some of your guy friends from engineering know some girls and would be willing to introduce you to them and hang around so you still have someone familiar around.\n\nMainly, just relax, take a deep breath and let what a great guy you are shine through.
378233
Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
352957
you no what ,, dont let those girls get you down bc they are jealous of you.. and a friend wouldent do you like that in the first place, there more important things in life than a bunch of girls hanging out trying to find someone to make fun of and talk about...put god back in your life he will never turn his back on you and he will allways be your friend...you need to find a girl at your school that no one else wonts to be friends with and try to be her friend the lest popular girls make the best friends ,,the more popular girls are the girls that are allways putting someone else down..and making fun of everyone else bc they think they are better than everyone else...good luck....
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
460914
Its hard to get confidence enough to girls.  Take it in small steps. \nFirst find something about yourself that you like and are proud of.  You don't need anyone to know about your achievements and they probably don't care, but they aren't good at what you are good at and that makes you unique different in your own right.  Knowing that in the back of your head can give you the pride and confidence you seek in yourself.  When you can see that in yourself others will and those others will be girls.  \nWhy would someone want something when it’s thrown at them. Value comes when there ain't enough to go around. So let them take interest in you for you, instead of you trying to convince them that your worth it let them see it before you give them the chance. That’s a rookie mistake.\nNext up, start with a "Hi". Say "Hi" when appropriate to one girl you know each day. Start with ones you know then get used to making eye contact with and saying "Hi" to girls your don't talk to. Don’t go stalker there. Just a normal “Hi”\nThis will help you get used to talking with women.  The next up is talking to women.  The best is to talk to women your not into, just as people.  Then work your way up to women who are decent and finally to women who seem out of your league for now.  A good starter is “Hey do you know what the time is?” (Don’t be wearing a watch or have a phone on you.\nOnce your talking with women they will see you as a decent guy and not a serial killer.  By the way have guy friends. Other wise you might end up a yip dog boy. The guy friend to all the girls that doesn’t get laid and isn’t gay.\nThe next step is showing interest and asking them out for coffee. Start slow and keep moving. Soon you will be gaining the confidence that will enable you to have the "Game" you desire.\nOnce date around have some experience under your belt, you will be strait pimping.  Then it’s to the next level of women.  The right girls for now girls.  Then to the last level the right girl.\n\nIt all starts and ends with you.  Remember it’s all about you, until you meet a cool chick that you dig a lot and then guess what. It's all about you.  When she starts being not worth the time and doing you wrong.  You are back on the scene.  Master the game my friend, it will pay off.
381295
Girls pick up subtleness.  Say something like, "I am sooo glad that I count on your friendship."  Or talk about some other girl that you are interested in, and she will get the message.
619033
Always be yourself around her. Just confront her about it. If you're sure that she likes you as well, then there shouldnt be anything to be shy about. Just go up to her casually, if you dont want to ask her around your friends or her friends, then politely pull her aside and ask her! Good luck!
141859
If you really want to begin a friendship with a girl you like, you have to muster the courge to talk to her. Only you can do this.Even the most casual of relationships begin with communications.Begin with small talk, like saying hello. Talk about school lessons, tv shows, or whatever you think she might be interested in talking about.Good luck.
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yo welcome to my world. Forget bout shyness. heres what to do. say hi to her everyday like really loud and smile at her after. wave at her when u c her in the hallway. Make fun of someone else to make her laugh. then make fun of the teacher. look at her always when u have class. dont make it look like ur staring though. Since shes letting u make the move, get one of ur freinds to say something like u 2 should go out together. then u should say may b we should. then say something u wanna see a movie friday. see if she says yes or no.. Good luck bro. pe@ce