Is it better to wait until you are at least 16 for your first kiss to make it special?
146620
I would say wait, wait for a really special person.  People tend to say they kiss younger than when they do, and may get embarassed due too the pressure everyone seems to put one the issue...You will be more satisfied the longer you wait.
1013571
you should wait until your 18
740113
Well  with u  only  being  13 ya i would  say  just  start with a  kiss  but  to tell u the  truth  a  kiss  leads  to  more than  just a  kiss  i know me and  my  boyfriend  were dating  for  like  2 months and  then  he  came down and  the next time e came down we  took the  chance with our  first kiss  it wasnt the  best  but  then we  worked on it  almost  all nigh tafter  that  and  it  got  better and then he  started to  lead us to  more like  grinding  stuff  like that and  so ya  it  does  lead to more thant just  kissing but  if  u want  ur  first  kiss  at  ur  age  than  go for it  a  girl can  make the  fist  move  its not  just a  guy thing  some girls  take the  first  move  i didnt  but thats me  but  if u  do  then  dont  go to  fast when u go in for the  first  kiss  b/c he  might  just  push u away  and  if  he does it  means he isnt  ready  for it but if he dont  push u away then it  means  he is  ready  for it and  then  go for it  there is  nothing wrong  with wanting ur  first kiss  from the  boy that  ur  with and if u really like and  stuff  then  stay with him as long as u can  keep  him but  liek i said  go for  it  if he  push u away than  back off  dont  try to  go for it until u  know he is  ready but  good  luck  and  hope my  advice  helps  u
484742
The best thing to remember when starting to kiss is to keep things simple. There is really no need to get carried away with strange and exotic techniques, nibbling, biting, groping, etc. etc. etc., especially when you're just starting out. A kiss is generally great no matter how basic, and everything else just adds things that can go wrong. Of course, everything else definitely has its place (and how!)... but it's really best to START SIMPLE.\n\nDO gently caress your partner's face.\nDON'T octopus your hands all over their body.\n\nDO use your tongue to stimulate.\nDON'T use your tongue like a jackhammer.\n\nDO notice how your partner reacts to your kisses.\nDON'T notice how cute the girl at the next table is.\n\nDO communicate with your partner.\nDON'T communicate the kiss to everyone in the locker room.\n\nDO be confident in yourself\nDON'T be confident you'll never be kissed.
585358
Well if you want to be noticed then that's a whole nuther subject and you can email me about that. but for the  kissing....I wouldn't rush anything.  And you shouldn't be pessured by anything or anyone. Because if you're not kissing someone YOU like and someone YOU want to then beleive me it doesn't help at all and it's not all that great.  I'm 15 and have way too much experience than I should. But I'm using it now to help.
1007413
My first love...gosh..this question brings back memories. His name is Derek. I was 15 years old when I met him. I had never kissed or even held hands with anybody before. I remember the first time we kissed. We were at a mutual friend's house and we walked outside together. I knew what was going to happen and I was so nervous. I started rambling on and on avoiding eye contact. Then I pointed up to a star that was shining really bright and I go "Hey, Look at---" and before I could finish my sentence he turned my face to his and kissed me. It was so sweet, so innocent. I will never forget that first kiss for the rest of my life. Derek and I were together for a year, but of course we are young and we came to a point that we were ready to experience being with other people. I still talk to him from time to time, just to see how he is doing. Even though we aren't together anymore, he will always hold a special place in my heart.
1064688
trust me you're not the only one in the 5th grade that hasn't been kissed. i didn't get my first kiss until i was 14. there is nothing wrong with you or your friends. in fact, it is perfectly normal. you want your first kiss to be special, so don't rush it.
881525
U really should wait until you're a bit older, maybe till you're a teenager before you have a boyfriend.\n\n:-)
1127829
do you know who you remind me of? ... me! when i was fourteen... i had just the same fears as you, and acted under peer pressure. want to be cool and appreciated, so i did things i regret now. \n\n wait, that's the only thing i can advice you to do. your first kiss should be something for you to remember all your whole entire life. and so should be your first sexual act. guys just want to experience, so don't rush, you might get hurt. but i know you are not really  gonna listen to all those blabla. the only you wanna hear is "do whatever you feel like"  if you choose to do so, ensure that if you get in trouble, you would have someone to lean on. you're 14, and you might get pregnant. isit what you really want? \n\n so yeah, go for your first kiss, but for the sexual things, please please, wait... there's no need to rsh...
884916
when i had my first 'real' kiss i was told that i was a good kisser. you will never know until you just go for it. If u are so afraid then i suggest you take it slow, start with a friendly kiss. just a tip...don't think so much about whether it'll be a bad kiss or a good one just go slowly til you're comfortable, don't think about it too much. If he is a decent guy he'll take it slowly with you or even lead by example. hope that helps :-)
852736
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
947229
you my dear are going through the process of growing up. after being a child you have suddenly found the world outside is big and everyone has problems of one sort or another, if your parents won't believe how you are feeling have you another relative you can confide in?as for your first kiss I was 17 when I had mine, and we were married 2 years later which lasted for 35 yrs. till he passed away. you are a very worthwhile person in this world, you seem a very kind and caring person, good luck.
1110146
First kiss wasn't a french kiss.  It was a very sweet innocent on the lips kiss with tons of chemistry at the tender age of 9.  I guess you can call him my first bf.  He used to take me to the pizza parlor after school.  It was very cute.  First real french kiss was 13 playing spin the bottle.
931814
no. wait until you are 23 and then ask yourself how you feel.
117677
I got my first when I was 14, but didn't kiss him back. I wasn't interested in him. I gave my first kiss a guy that I really had feelings for.
1117544
Why 16 or seventeen? I think it's silly. You should start dating when you feel like you're ready for a serious relationship. It's not age dependent, but it's rather your what and how you feel about initiating such a relationship. Remember, it's not a game, not an experiment. It's not fair to experiment with people's feelings, but if you feel like you're ready for a relationship, go ahead. I'm 22, but I still don't feel mature and brave enough to initiate a romantic relationship. (plus I don't have the confidence to do that, but that's another story)
440776
It is ENTIRELY up to you. You can kiss him when you no long feel awkward and uncomfortable. It is ok to go with your gut feeling especially if it's just a kiss.