y are older men so hatd to deal with when it comes to dating?
149991
Love your spelling. When you say older, what do you mean? If a younger woman approached me, I would be skeptical of her motives. She would have to be an intellectual equal for me to consider her more than a booty call. What kind of dates would you both feel comfortable on? If he is seen out with you, what are others going to say? Is he married? Will people tell? There's some pressure here.
1123741
I think that so long as it doesn't bother either of you - go for it. When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 40 - there's nothing wrong with it so long as you have things in common and you don't let the age different impact the relationship.
650700
Depends a lot on how old the men are.  If they were in high school with you and recently graduated, okay.  But if they're just old guys looking for young girls, there's only one thing on their minds, because there isn't much they have in common except working body parts, if you know what I mean.
653985
Yes, I do! And I'm lucky enough to have a man like that! It's the younger women out there that put up with ' Mr. Wrong'. Most women over the age of 30 are tired of dealing with immature, ill-mannered men. They'll hold out for a decent man. Remember the saying..." young & stupid....."
329367
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
237057
you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
551012
THeres an age???  Are u serious???  I know someone thats in his 60s and still has no clue...then again he IS a man....do they ever know what they want????
612341
Not all men are clueless. Some get it and know how to treat a woman with respect.
190038
I dont know about older women having problems with younger men.  Im 34 and my BF is 24 and I have to say so far (we have been together for a little over a year) it has been the best relationship i have ever been in
1167580
As long as you don't act like an old fuddy duddy and have similar interests, why not.  I've been known to date older men and we got along fine.  As long as both of you know what is expected of each other then it should work out.
511625
There are two kind of 55-and-older single males:\n\n1.- Sean Connery, the old-fashioned gentleman, the image in the dictionary for the word "chivalry", he has the power and experience only possible with the years *drools* (Sorry, James Bond is my weak point hehe)\n\n2.- The rest of them who think they look attractive in their ferraris and hawaiian-style shirts, trying to pick up girls (half their ages) AND STILL THINK THEY'RE NOT AFTER THEIR WALLETS!!!!.... really, these fellas found the way to make a ferrary look like crap, its embarassing even to look at them.\n\nAnyway, 99.999% of really young women dating older men are after only one thing... money. I may sound old-fashioned, but look for a woman around your age, at your experience level, you deserve someone to share your life with, not to drain your bank account.
41446
Are you talking about younger men or older men?\n\nDo you really want an answer . . . \n\nLet me explain . . . when young men try to date girls their age . . . the majority of the time . . . they get shot down.  It isn't because they have no game . . . it is because the girls are looking for more than an immature male (in their mind).  Plus you young girls are looking for older men or men with potential . . . who can be your sugar daddy.\n\nSo . . . these guy look at older women . . . for stress relief (trying to be clean). . . and these women usually give it up easier because they (in their minds) think "boy . . . I still have it . . . these young boys chatting me up, telling me I look beautiful like girls his age."  Meanwhile these guys spend little or no money on them and get all the action they need . . . in some cases these ladies become sugar mommas . . . (Like you young girls who have sugar daddies).\n\nMeanwhile, these young guys . . . go to college. . . get their degree . . . and make six figures when they reach their mid 30's (the guys you are currently dating - who will eventually dump you) . . . and they will start dating girls approx. 10-12 years younger than them.\n\nI've been there . . . done that.
578211
For the most part it is the maturity level. We want to be able to relate on the same things. Older men are also established, worldly, experienced, and aren't out to play games. They know what they want and life is less of a struggle. Women find these things very attractive & interesting. They also have tradional qualities like pulling out a woman's chair, opening the car door, etc. We appreciate those things that are often overlooked by "young guys".  They invest more time in the relationship, take the time to listen, really care.  It's not all about the next party or who can make their car go faster.  They're all about what's really important.
507114
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I can help.  Where do you live? and do you like older men??????
660616
Ask him. If you're mature enough to be hanging around older men, you should be able to ask him if he's looking for a relationship or not.
909467
Yes, I truly believe in courting; yet we're living in a "I-want-it-now-society." Trust that there are still "old school people" who believes in those same morals, standards and values in dating. \nGod Bless You\nP.S. I haven't heard that term since my belated father, he would've been 82 years old today...that's where I got that from...
952640
If old, obnoxious guys turn you on - go for it!  Opposites attract, right?