No talks when with friends and talks when alone????
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Maybe she has not yet matured to the level in which she feel comfortable with a boyfriend in the presence of her friends. Maybe she feels they will make fun of the way she interacts on an intemate level with a man. It could be as simple as that.\n\nPS I am a brutal critic of women and do not trust them as far as i can throw them but in all fairness i do not think she is up to anything out of the ordinary here so just remain calm.
608991
well, this is a good start. you asked a normal question, instead of those freaky ones...develop confidence in yourself and you won't need your friends around....just relax and enjoy yourself..\nremember that in social settings, no one is really thinking about anyone but THEMSELVES....so think about you and enjoy yourself.
105389
Be yourself! {Please dont lie} Good grief! Think of someting funny to talk about! I dont know _Maybe you need new friends dude! Relax , be that person down deep just wanting to get out ! You have your entire life ahead of you ! Slow Down! BE real! RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
897067
I am NOT chatting, how many times do I have to say this?
155379
WELL THE PEOPLE YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE A FRIEND WOULDNT USE YOU FOR PERSONAL GAIN. IF YOU DONT HAVE EMOTIONAL BONDS WITH THEM YOU CAN FEEL ALONE IN ROOM WITH A THOUSAND PEOPLE IN IT. JOIN CLUBS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR INTERESTS AND TRY TO START CONVERSATION WITH POEPLE WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS. AND I WOULD DITCH THOSE LOSER FRIENDS TO START
585141
It could just mean that your shy, or it could mean you have Social Anxiety - the fear of being around a crowd of people, being nervous and feeling paranoid of the people around you.  I have that also.  You want to join in on convo and talk but you get so nervous thinking about what you're going to say that you can't think of anything to say.  You can't be yourself....there is medication for it but I'm not on it.   I try to get over it myself, and so far it's been ok.
580845
i use to have the same problem. just a few months ago i had to change my way of thinking about myself. i started inviting people over to play cards or have a cookout. i went out and would just say anthing that was on my mind. i listened to people so much, that is all they do, they just say whatever is on their mind. i also would tell them stuff that happeded to me, either funny or embarr. and one more thing, sometimes you have to be a friend first. if you are a girl, when you go to another girls house, do her dishes, or fix her something she has never tired before.if you are a guy, then go hunting or fishing together, wash cars together, or see who can pick up a chick first. hope this helps.
2417
me as a people person i would go up to the friends thats being bad and talk to them if you listen and try to hammer in that you are listining people will talk they may have some bad pent up feelings that just came out that way. so talk is all i can say.
540885
Lots of people talk.  Learn to ask intelligent questions and listen and you will find friends pretty fast.  And after they are your friends your shyness about talking will start to fade as you get to know them.
69694
You can't meet people if you don't go out.  Talking on the internet isn't even talking or meeting.  Try phone conversations to get used to someones voice and maybe this will build trust.
403000
Do something and increase your self confidence.When talking don't too fast take your time and let the words come out.Those who laugh at you aren't worthy of being called friends.I know I had this problem too,still have it but not so evident.Hope this helps.
702443
Communicate!!!Don't be introvert =]
69357
Hi LittleLisa,\n  Being shy is a good thing, but if your too shy and have difficulties making friends, may I suggest you take a acting, speaking or singing class, either at school or afterschool. It will be a little hard at first, but as each day goes by you will become less and less shy. Before you know it you will be chatting up a storm with everyone and anyone. Hopefully not to the point where people are saying, "Oh shut up Lisa." Go get'em Lisa.
1124677
Sleep, talk, Do nothing..... LOL
163267
I have that same problem.Just don't thick about something to say.Just relax and before you know it you will find yourself in a great conversation,unless he's quiet.Quiet people are really hard to talk to.Maybe you should go out for a drink.People loosen up when they drink.
813412
Urs is a typical problem. If u dont mind, Il suggest u 1 thing. Consult a Psychiartist and get solution to ur problem. It will definitely help u. If u dont like the above suggestion, then I can suggest u a few things. First of all observe all types of conversations around u and get an idea how the people are talking (If they are ur friends or relatives, its better). Just start interacting with people by saying hi, how r u? How is ur work going on? For the people whom u dont have any conversation, just smile and say how r u? It forms a good impression to that person on u. At the same time dont talk unnecessary matters and dont make kidding. Just ask abt their future plans and a best one is u can adopt flattery also, but in a decent way. Be positive & appear positive in every word u speak. Ur postures and gestures should be good while ur speaking and u should be bold and confident enough. I think this would definitely help out u.\n\nIf u also think like that vote me as best. All the Best.
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honestly just talk about anything and everything that pops into your mind \ni always call people and have nothing to say and i end up on the phone with them for about four or five hours at a time \ni just laugh and talk and we make fun of each other and just talk about nonsene try that next time but don't call for a while now just wait a few weeks then try again later