I just can't say  " NO " ? what do i need to do ?
144325
I used to be just like that. You have to realize that you have to please yourself before you can really please anyone else. Don't go through your life regreting what you did not do and resenting someone else because of the choices that you yourself made. Try it slowly at first and see how it works for you. You will be surpised at how much better you will feel. Take baby steps. The world was not made in a day.
707387
Unless you know the reasons for not responding, you cannot come to the conclusion. You have to wait for some time. Have patience.
4560
Just say no.  It hurts more if you tell them yes and stiff them.  The thing is in life there are hurts and you can't shield people from them.  The only person your responsible to is yourself.
448014
I can't say that on here can I?
84601
Just say, "Okay!"\n\nAfter you hate yourself enough you will learn to say no.\n\n...or you could just say it.
360977
Maybe your not the easiest person to say no to.  Maybe when they try to say they're busy you insist on talking.  Or maybe they secretly have a problem with you.  Try asking them about it and see what they say, it can't hurt.
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
11408
If all else fails, ask. \n\nIn which case you might say yes or no. If he says yes, you know. If he says no, he might be lying or he might have never thought about it. In which case, give it time...and you'll find out.
637604
Saying no is never bad if you say it nicely. If you think he was hert by it try talking to him. Explane why you said no. If he dosn't exept the fact that you said no, then it's a good ting you did.
116358
Refuse to partake in whatever it was they didn't include you in the decision of. No matter what it is, just say,\n"No, Honey, you decided that. I have other plans. Next time I hope you respect me enough to ask my opinion."\n  It might take a few times but they'll catch on, 'include you in the decision or go or do it alone.'\n    It's what I did, and it worked. Good Luck.
919153
i cannot ...\n\n\n\nsaludos!
63845
Express your interest in him. The worst that can happen is that you'll hear no! Trust me, it won't be the first or last time that you hear that word. Don't beat around the bush, say whats on your mind!
3403
Get online and do the research about contacts. (How much they cost, etc.) Then ask them again, but know what your talking about. If they still say no you will have to respect that.
115512
Instead of asking here, you should be asking him directly. If he says yes, then get a firm commitment (date, etc.). If he says no, you need to accept it and move on. If you try to change the mind of someone whose mind is set, it can be a bad outcome.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskils.com
688263
I believe all you have to do is call them and ask them.  If the say no (which is unlikely) tell them you will go somewhere else.  The DON'T want you to go anywhere else.  Give it a shot.  Good Luck : )
694832
There's a difference between wont talk, and afraid to talk.\nFigure out which it is.\nThink of it this way, if she's going to like you then you really can't say the wrong thing,  if she isn't then nothing you say will change that.  What do you have to lose?
886354
I am reluctant to do this.