what would you do if you find out your bf is bisexual?
155926
I thought my ex-boyfriend was Bi because I googled search his e-mail address and found that he was on a site called hornygays.com!! Lmao.. the site is no longer up and he swears he is not Bi. I try to believe what he tells me though. Maybe a jealous pssied ex-girlfriend signed him up for it, who knows. If I were you I wouldn't believe anything until you see it with your own eyes!!!
253304
That seems normal. Be happy you have a good friend who can be so honest with you, he knows he's not going to ever have a chance with your bf - who is obviously straight. That is why he told you - he is good friends with you and is comfortable telling you anything.
123947
Um... this works the same way as the heterosexual relationships I guess: you confront him, you ask him why he did that, you slap him and leave him. Nobody deserves a second chance when they cheat on you, regardless of what their sexual orientation is. You deserve better. Leave him.
597942
signs baby, its all about it.  What kind of hint is she giving you, what messages are you sending to her.. dont be so shy, im in the same boat. i am bisexual, i do not flaunt it nor hide it. just be comfortable with yourself, oppportunity will arise.
1000969
sounds like he is in denial.  he is trying to make himself enjoy sex with a woman which incidentally doesn't reflect anything about you.  you need to quit having sex with him because you are just setting yourself up for a fall.  he is at the very least bisexual.  trust me most heterosexual men would cringe at the thought of a woman doing what he asked you to do.  tell him you love him (as a friend) will support him 100% if he wants to try to come to grips with the reality that he is at the very least bisexual.  You can't make that decision for him he has to do it on his own however you can protect your own feelings and the best way to do that is to end the sexual aspect of your relationship.
118364
I'd say...he's confused.  Chances are he's gay/bi and not wanting to admit it to himself yet.  You are a guilty pleasure to him that he doesn't want to admit or confess to.  In his heart, he's hoping the feelings will just go away, but when you are together, he can't stop them.  Go slow and give him time and space.  Let him figure things out on his own.  And protect your own heart too.  Don't get hurt in all of this if you can help it.
734897
HELL NO! Most guys think it is awesome if a girl is bisexual. He is just wondering if he might get included in one of  these "crazy summers". Don't worry about it. If you want to do it again, I'm sure he will  be game. He's lucky to have you.
51615
PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!
1164761
My boyfriend says the same thing.  What he doesn't understand is that I am attracted to both sexes.  He thinks it's because I'm with him now that I am only attracted to men.  Doesn't work like that buddy
1014109
Well Larry, if your boyfriend kissed a girl, then he's bisexual and not 100% gay.
244310
Elaborate on the facts please.  Are you bi or really gay. Or do you mean boyfriend in platonic sense?  Or are you just putting some BS into the mix because you are bored?
1081165
he's bi, its that simple, no shame in that\n\nbi is fun, that many more choices in who you date,
913378
If you're attracted to both males an females then you're bi.  Just don't think if you get in a relationship with female it will be any better, some girls are just as bad as guys...\n\nOk now with that out of the way I am bi, I hate telling straight guys that I am because then all think can think about is "Yes! Threesome!" if you and your boyfriend are already shakey its not the best thing to tell him, all he'll do is make things worse by pressuring you try with a girl and to make sure he's involved.\n\nEither way you deserve to be in a good, healthy relationship and whether you decide you want to be alone for a while, try being with a woman or just sticking to guys, I think you need to lose the one your with now.  Everyone deserves the right to be happy.\n\nIf you ever need help on coming out and don't know who to talk to you can always email me if you need some advice or someone to talk to :)  good luck with everything...
184666
do you love him? or are you angry?..Was he gay to begin with of just in the closet?.. None of that matters really of course. If you like the friendship, but can't handle "gay" part (I'm guessing he's bi) Then you have some options. One you need to dtermine what kind of sexual behavior he exibits. Destructive? Thats when he'll do anything with anyone anywhere. If this is the case I'd get out, get checked and walk away. If he has a regular long term lover then you may be able to keep the relationship if you can deal with that side of him.. Personaly (as a bisexual) I will NEVER understand why people who are bi (and they know it going in) are not honest about it. I don't keep secrets with lovers. It's amazing how many women are just fine with that.. You can even find a permanant relationships where every one knows everything. But where I live there are litterally tens of thousands of married men who are bisexual living secret lives, destructive lives at that. They put everything they suppossedly car about at risk and thats not right.\n  Now youhave to decide weatehr or not you want to keep on going with this person or not. My own situation is BiPoly. bisexual+polyamorus (I'll wait while you look that up)..Everything is like a marriage of sorts between like minded people. Maybe thats for you if he's mongamous with his male lover and monogamous with you. Guess that would be duomonogamy. But you get my drift. For gay and bisexual males its rare to have these types of relationships. Socienty has forced them into the alleys and closets so its been a catch as catch can situation. By forcing it into the blue area it has gaurenteed anonamous stranger sex is a given. . But this is changing and more things are out in the open. It would be nice if everyone could just be open and honest with out fear of retribution, but that is not how it has been. Being suppressed is like slavory. you do what you have to do to be free wen you can be.
478971
OMG, i had that same problem, but mine escilated to a much more intense factor.  What i would tell you would do, that is doesn't matter what other people think about you, as long as your BF knows that you like like him (i wont say love because that might be to deep) then it doesnt matter.  I know noone whats to hear that because from my own experiance just believing that wont help and that is probally what you dont want to hear.  what i would do is spread rumors that is she/he is a lieing bi*ch and then more people would like to beleive you than her because if they think she is a lier then they would believe you...well i hope i helped!  Oh and one other thing.  Dont become her freind again!  i made that mistake, move on, that is what i found out too late
58670
why should you have to?  Sounds like your bf has some issues. Do you expect him to prove to you that he isn't speaking with girls? Please drop this nut and find yourself a healthy relationship, and possibly some counseling so you can realise just how unhealthy your question is.
276699
Sit him down and tell him seriously.  Don't listen to these clowns and make it sound like you're on the bi bandwagon and cheap and sleazy.  Chances are he'll be into it, but if you tell him gently there'll be less a chance of him being shocked and feeling slighted.  AFTER you've told him gently and the two of you have talked about it like mature adults then y'all can have fun.  Good luck!