myhubby+i split up hes comig back he says it wont work cuz he thinks i will be fakin my feelings?
152124
Show him by actions and not words, plus make sure it is a two way street...C
277418
he prolly just dont know how to break up with u in a nice way ......he doesn't want to be with u but then he doesn't want to hurt u ... its really bothering him ......... you might just wanna save him the trouble and tell him that ur just gonna give him his own space and to let u know when and if he's ever ready to come back around then all he has to do is call u.
698264
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
316693
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
1098915
Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
983798
I think he just wouldn't feel right and he isn't completely sure of...both of you... because obviously it didn't work out the first time.My advice is give him some more time.Make him believe,and I mean really believe,you guys can work out!I would feel bad if you guys didn't get back together because you didn't prove to him anything.
988670
Don't be concerned about how he feels.  It sounds like your conscience is trying to tell you something.  Listen to it.  Don't be a home wrecker.
671831
realize that because you are not longer together, his opinions and perspectives no longer have any real effect on you.  Be confident and happy with yourself and who you are.  Don't worry about what he thinks.
791004
I WOULD NOT  PLAY GAMES  WITH HIM.  WHEN HE COME\nHOME LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT\nTHIS. IF IT REALLY MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL. BUT DONT\nPLAY GAMES THAT NOT GOOD FOR ANY ONE. KEEP\nIT SIMPLE. BECAUSE HE THE ONE THAT BROKE UP  WITH\nYOU.
742654
same thing happned to me! the gus IS a jerk, and you need to dump him. stay away from him for a while and most likely he will come back to you. If not, dont you adre go back to him! atleast, not for a while. If he's embarrassed to say hes with you, he is NOT worth it.
416997
That is one of the great mysteries, my dear. A couple months ago, I would have said that break ups should remain broken up. However, now, that would be the pot calling the kettle 10 shades of black...I am in the same position. All I can say is go back into the relationship with no expectations. This way if you are disappointed again, the blow will be easier. I've also looked at this as a really good friendship instead of a romantic relationship to start off with for the second time. But they do have this saying: "hurt me once, shame on you...hurt me twice, shame on me." Be cautious and see what happens. You know whether it will work or not so enjoy his company and see what happens. Hope this helps.
968384
he's just trying to make you jealous.  i would tell him it's not working and that it is just making you doubt the relationship.  if he doesn't stop after that then move on.
741650
I wouldn't be his back up. That is what it sounds like. He keeps her incase you 2 dont work. I duno whats wrong with him. He sounds like a catch. Not. I feel bad for you. What an ass.