what is it that guys REALLY want from girls?
153026
care, love, motivation.
35278
I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
68259
Dpends on the age of the guy and girl.  Highschool, the girl wants a guy who looks good, and status items like a nice car, bike, bling.  College, girls want good looking guys with lots of money, or who are entering a career field that will make lots of money.  Over 30, looks are less important, girls now want men with MONEY and are good at sex.  Look at yourself as a commodity, as in "What can a girl get from me / use me for"  If you have anything of value to a woman, wich could be humor, personality etc.. ,then you will get one
658986
I need a girl that laughs at my jokes. I need a girl that I can be proud of. She needs to respect me, but have a life of her own. More important than looks, she needs to be intelligent. Her body is fairly important to me. Most off all, I need to feel comfortable around her.
134847
Guys look for a girl that can be down to earth but not snooty and prissy. A girl that is too "high maintnence" is not going to be a good girlfriend. A nice personallity and a nice look is always good.
1127726
I want a girl who's quite, cute, shy, but can be all hot and crazy when she's going all out. And that's the girl next door when I'm in 7th grade. Lol\n\nAnd I know she wants a fun, advanturous, interesting a guy who can lead her, give her good feelings and emotions that she can never find in nice guys, she wants a guy who knows what he's doing; not a wuss, he's not afraid to express his anger at the right moment, also knows the moment to be sweet and loving... etc. \n\nKisses slowly and cuddle with her in the living room, making her feel safe and comforable\nKisses passionatly and violently in the bedroom, making her feel like a total sexual being...\n\nthere are million things more...\n\n\nP.S. \nThank you for your post to my question, these days are important to me for that I'm realizing the most important concept where my family, friends, everybody around me, life have failed me. Your post really cheered me up, now, good luck to you stranger!
1036231
Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
563524
To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
39500
A lot will make guys happy. Silly things also makes them happy. If the dream comes true they feel happy. \n\nGuys always like to be happy when girls are around. if you(girl) praise them about their bueaty and physique they get a lot ....
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I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
732135
I've seen this question so many times on Yahoo Answers. It always surprises me that girls don't realize the influence they have on men. You girls have these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested in us without necessarily coming on like a cheap whore. Things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, a quick glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of the hand (especially on my bicep, chest or abs) these things send all the right signals to a guy while still allowing a girl to maintaining her lady like dignity. But the bottom line is, a girl that has the confidence to know what she likes and how to get it can be especially alluring!!! \n\nTry it. I am sure you will be pleased with the results.\n\nBest of luck!
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
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As a guy, I'd like to apologize for posting here, but I have to call BS about looks not being all that important.  See that gorgeous girl in the mall?  Who's she with?  An average guy? Nope.  She's with a muscular macho guy.  I'm not generalizing here.  Sit in the mall and count the attractive women.  Attractive women only because beauty is what men choose.  Desirable women really do get desirable looking men.\n\nFrom my experience girls want\n#1 Fun\n#2 Personality\n#3 Looks\n#4 And a bunch of other superficial things. (Yes, anything that isn't necessary for survival is superficial)\nAnd finally security.\n\nAnd to answer the guy above me, girls want a guy who deserves her.  Of course no guy deserves any woman, but she doesn't want to short change herself by being with a loser.  A guy who eats, sleeps, and dreams about this girl gives the impression that he doesn't deserve her.  She feels like she's with a loser.  Later on in the relationship, that's when you shower her with affection and love.  But don't get too clingy too soon.
996525
No, I think most guys want to have it all.. they like smart, witty, intelligent, independent girls and the good looks to go with all of it.
614666
I look for honesty and a person that has a good heart! I want to be able to laugh and have a good time anywhere we might be! I want a girl to be neat in appearence and clean looks isnt everything but I do want them to smell good and enjoy sex as much as I do when It comes to that point in our relationship!
523109
because they want the guy to like them
895232
Everybody wants what they can't have.  You need to find a girl of your own and stop pining over her.  She isn't worth it.  And yes, women do want the stable, caring guy.  Sadly, girls want the playa, so you may have to wait a few years for them to catch up.  Hang in there.