wat does it mean when a boy does not call u after a date?
139920
Relax.  If he doesn't call, he doesn't like you all that much.  And if he's not interested, it will be hard work getting him interested. Is he worth it?  Think about it.
1080871
Don't worry. Boys aren't very precise with their timings to begin with. He may be having dinner with his family (yeah, at 10 PM) or taking a shower. If he doesn't call within an hour, call him back. But next time he's late like that, don't even bother.
885652
He basically means he's not interested in YOU. \nTrust me, if he was, he would jump at the opportunity and hook up with you before someone else does. But he said it clearly, he's just not into you.
800027
The right sign is when he comes up to you and asks you out for your phone number or a date.  Until then he doesn't exist and DO NOT approach him!
374513
Seems to me that his not interested and he probably waiting for you too stop calling. Why dont you stop calling him and see what happens
829869
If you have feelings for him then don't be a **** buddy.\n\nIf he is not contacting you then let it go.\n\nIf you want something more, let him know what you want and see if he will step up.  Of course if he is not calling you, he is giving you a pretty clear message that he is just not that into you.
437649
Does he talk to you when you call him?  Does he have a lot of afterschool activities?  Maybe he's just busy.  Ask him why he doesn't call you more.
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
989802
because he doesn't have your number
665588
You can't make a person do something if they don't want to do it.  Maybe he is ready for a casual relationship, and not something serious. The not calling thing is probably his way of saying, I want to take it slower.  I would just ease up on calling him, and just leave a casual message every now and then, and see what happens from there.  If he doesn't change in an appropriate amount of time, I would move on.
337722
No I don't think thats a good excuse...\nThere's a whole chapter in "He's just not that into you" called "He's just not that into you if he's not calling you"\nBasically it says that if a guy really liked you, he would want to call you because you would brighten up his day.  Be a break in his busy hectic day.  That with speed dialing and cellphones he should have at least 3 minutes in his day to return your call, even if its just to let you know "Hey, sorry I've been busy, I've been meaning to get back to you, can we talk more [state a time when he will set aside for you]"\nI say don't call him, see what he does.
728389
What happens when you don't suggest hanging out? Believe me, if a guy wants to be with a girl, nothing is going to get in his way: not war, flood, poverty and certainly not pride. Back off a bit and give him space. If he doesn't call you - find someone new who will.
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
1009925
I agree with "sad girl".... just be yourself and he'll come around.  If he doesn't want you, then he wouldn't be calling.
17505
Well the first approach is simple.....ASK\n\nBut if you are afraid of rejection, you can observe his actions after the date.  If he calls, he likes you. If not, he is not intrested and you should move on.  If your not sure, you can call him and pursue the relationship and see how he reacts.  If you get alot of excuses, he moree than likely is not intrested.\n\nGood luck and keep your chin up!
103927
They don't want to look like they like you. Guys never call right after the first day so they can act aloof. And although in theory yes women can accomplish anything in this day and age, calling a guy after the first date should NOT and I repeat NOT be something they do. If you like this guy let him call. If he likes you he will call I promise. But you will look clingy if you call. Plus it feels so great when they call. Guys are lazy in this day and age so they always say why don't you call us? I am old-fashioned in this area and I have always done it that way and it usually worked out for the best when I did it that way. Good luck!
829546
cause it was his birthday. or maybe he regretted saying no to you, and hes trying to get u back. dont give it too much thought. just see what his next actions will be nd judge from there