is having a firend who is 16 and likes girls from the age of 9 bad and what can i do to help him?
152988
Well, honestly, the best way to help is to go to his parents, or to the parents of the young girls he is talking to. He needs help, or someone will get hurt. It is your obligation since you knoe to step up and do what is needed
915784
Find a nice fella around your own age.  Don't know anything about this young male but he must be pretty immature to be hanging around kids your age.  There are lots of fish in the sea, and lots more around your age.
467970
are you interested in him? If you are, then tell him, but remember that if you are younger than him, he can go to jail, for going out with a younger girl...also, make sure that he cares and have the same feeling than you.  If you just want to talk with him, than just talk to him and get a friend to help you out.
317571
You need to go hang out with your girlfriends for a while, do something you like without him. Or you will seem needy. Besides you are 14 and there are so many opportunities out there for you yet. Don't go crash-in on any guy at your age, enjoy the time with him but go out and hang with your girls. They will always be there.
687674
When I was 14, I had a boyfriend who was 19. He was a really sweet guy, and respectful. The thing her parents will hate you for is if you rush her into sexual experiences. If you truly care, DON'T. If you can really be mature about this issue (for the both of you) then you will be happy together.
571165
Well, first understand that you chose to date someone 9 years younger so SHE IS JUST BEING HER.   Why do we all make choices in life and then question them afterwards as if we were surprised.  She's 9 years younger, she's going to be immature.  Maturity is experience, life situations.  You can't do anything, it's not right to talk to her about something that is natural for her.  It's unfair.  You will make her self conscious and that is just wrong.  If you can't deal, move on to an older girl, despite the fact that you get along.
972384
Girls never are attacted to good guys.  They like the bad boys and then try and make them into good guys that they end up not wanting.   How about you save yourself a little grief and just tell him to let the bad boy come out in the bedroom a little.  That way you can have the best of both worlds.
95318
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
350660
Like Got Nothing To Do With How Old U Maybe... The Only Thing That U Have to Be Concerned Now is to Get to Know Him Better And In A Way He Will Know U Better Too..\n\nHey if it dun turn out well.. Its No Harm Right.. U Still Made A Fren..
1029673
There is NO WAY ON EARTH that a 14 year old should be going out with an 18 year old.  It is not "against the law" to date, but anything sexual with him is a crime (for him, not for you).
502769
It sounds as if he likes you but he should wait until you are 16.
1136566
When someone is 24 and her crush is 22, the age difference isn't so much of a deal. If you're younger, though, it can be a big contrast. Think about how much a girl changes from ages 11 to 13. Since guys mature slower, it's possible your crush might not be up to your level. That said, it'd be a shame to pass on a guy who's interesting, smart and cute just because of a number. There's certainly nothing wrong with liking a younger dude, just be sure he doesn't think all girls have cooties! :)
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
295904
I have a 15 year old son and asked him this for you.  He is very very smart-honor roll and very cute also.  He is on basketball team as well as trak.  He is not what you would call HOT but very cute.  He says ALL the guys go for the pretty girl with a great bod.  They r teenagers afterall!  BUT once they realize she is in love with herself- once she opens her mouth- HE doesnt want her anymore!  lol  They may look at this girl and want her just on the physical.  And that DOES NOTCHANGE AS THEY GET OLDER EITHER!  lol  BUT the great news is- most of them realize rather fast that she is just some girl.  My son says when you have a certain boy in mind- find out thru your friends or his the things he likes to do and make that YOUR new hobbie!  Ask his advice on it.  Learn to play his favorite video game and ask for help on it.  If he goes skating every weekend GO SKATING!  Laugh and have fun.  Be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  And before u know it YOU WILL have a boyfriend!  Good luck to u!
100766
First of all... old men that like young people are sick losers and should be in prison.\n\nSecond... 14 year olds should be at home after 9pm.\n\nThird... I think 16 year olds can date 14 year olds but make sure that just bc you're a little older you don't put pressure on the sex issue.  Wait a few years PLEASE.
696117
Well he is a lot older but I don't think that's a problem. It's sad about your parents and you but if they were with you maybe you could ask them. I don't think there are any laws or anything like that against your situation. I mean why in the world should you stop liking someone\nor dating someone or something like that just because of their age?
183333
It's not good, it's not bad.  Age doesn't really matter so long as you two like eachother.  Another way to think about it is that it's better that the girl be older than the guy than vise versa because if the guy is older it can look like he's rocking the cradle.  While if a girl's older then nothing outta hand is gonna happen. (Can't deny the double standard)