do i need him as a friend or more then a boyfriend?
143565
If he treats you right you have a good guy. If you really like him you will learn to accept the fact that you don't get to see eah other very much. Maybe later on you maybe seeing each other a lot more. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder.
687820
Well now, first you need to figure out what exactly you want out of this thing.  Do you want a friend, or do you want a boyfriend? You know what I mean? I think once you make up your mind, you'll know just how to handle it! \nGood Luck!
410565
being friends is always better.  don't even mess with dating until you are old enough to marry a guy.  really get to know each other, just have fun.  there's plenty of time for relationships.  they are a lot of work.  and there is always heartbreak involved.  going out w/ this guy, break up, then going out w/ the next guy and breaking up, and so on!!!  just keep it light.  it sounds like the friend thing would really be better for you especially since you are so concerned about things so early.  be true to yourself and your feelings.  you know yourself and whether you are ready for a relationship like this or not.  Make sure to stand up for how you really feel.  (:  take care!
727054
frist off, stay in your books and stop worrying about dating.  second, keep him as your friend.
1111397
I think all good relationships are first built on friendship! But if he doesn't feel the same way you do still be his friend but let him know that you can only be just that....FRIENDS!
516986
Be steady with one guy, other you will loose both of them. friend is friend & boy friend is something more than the friend. So think carefully and decide.
681756
Just let him know that for now you just want to be friends.  take it slow...and by that i mean don't rush into a relationship. so many girls think they have to be going with someone all the time...in any relationship you should be friends first....give it a few months...it it's meant to be, it's meant to be...you'll know...just take it slow..
422281
listen, if u value the friendship with this person, u dont make it a relationship. bc friends argue, but when it becomes a relationship u could argue and break up, then theres no more friend or boyfriend/girlfriend. so think about it before u ask.
76489
try to be friends first, and the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you can figure out if he likes guys, too. and then if he does, your relationship will be all the more stable because you are already friends.
127682
Do you want to be friends with him?  Can you stand seeing him on a regular basis without officially being bf/gf?  If so, then go ahead and see him all you want.  If not, you should spend less time with him.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
371149
I think you should just stay as friends and see what progresses from there.  If you and he were meant to be a couple, it will happen, but hopefully not for another few years!  In the meantime, have fun, talk about stuff, confide in each other and get a great friendship going.  You will always have that!
617488
Single is good for awhile. My guy friend reminded me of the concept of "dating". You are going back out into the social scene and just meeting new people. Forming a friendship is the most healthy way to building a romantic relationship. Your giving yourself and your friend, time to really honestly, get to know each other inside and out. Jumping in is never healthy. If your jumping in for the wrong reasons (lonliness, a "need" for a mate), then you will soon find your relationship ending in a firey crash and burn. Practice patience with your new friend. It's ok to be attracted to him/her but keep a level head and don't let your emotions rule your decisions. I am experiencing this very phenomena about building a friendship first. Together, we are keeping level heads, (even though he is just so dang hot), and it is much more fulfilling and healthy, than any relationship I've had before. The communication is great, we understand and accept where we stand with each other, and we're keeping the door open for the possibility of a wonderful, romantic, relationship to develop. I admit, it's not easy. I am still learning the whole patience thing myself. But this is so good, and healthy. I wish you luck, and hope that you will not jump in to something out of desparation. Be positive, be patient, and ask God to help. God Bless you friend.
323109
If he has just come out of a long relationship, don't push this too hard.  Just be there as a friend to start with, and let him know you are there for him.  When he's ready for a relationship, he'll let you know.
1129987
Well, first of all I think that you should follow your heart but being friends can develop whatever it is that you had in a relationship. Sometimes they are right when they say if you love something so much you have to let it go but if it was meant to be it will come right back and this is one of those instances. So be patient and be a good Friend and you never know but don't put all your eggs in one basket, meaning if it's not meant to be , be prepared to move on and you should anyway. He is young and he want to be single for a while and I must say I have to respect him because he could have done what the typical man do and cheat.
848475
You need a new boy friend. This one is not a keeper. Sorry but you regret it if you stay with this guy.
416256
Go for it.  Life is to short to sit around womdering what might have been.  Ask him out on a date.  Maybe he doesn't see you as more than a friend because he doesn't want to lose your friendship.