Other Than love, what other Factors should you consider before getting married?
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1) Do you share similar ideas about children?  Make sure you both want the same number and lifestyle for them\n\n2) Religion, do you share that or can you agree to disagree?  If so, what religion are the kids going to be raised in?  Both?  One or the other?  Know before you tie the knot.\n\n3) What do you both like in bed?  Divorces happen over sex and money, you can't always control money problems, but you can be a conciencious and informed lover.  Keep in mind, if you can't handle talking about things like orgasms, anatomy, fantasies, etc, you're not ready to get married.  You don't want to be in a situation where you only find out afterwards that your partner likes things you are uncomfortable with.\n\n4) Finances, they don't have to be perfect, but do you have a plan?  DO you have reasonable spending limits per month?  Do you have similar ideas on proper credit card use?  Do you have similar long term goals, like buying a house, boat, property, business, etc?  If not, can you live with the differences?\n\nThats all I can think of off the top of my head.... I'll edit this post if I think of more
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I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
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First love. Then marriage. Married life might turn out to be unhappy in the long run as the pot of love is half empty before marriage. \nHahahaha...don't worry its better than arranged marriages as you have a good idea of your would be spouse before you wed him/her.
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When it feels like it would be the logical next step.\nAsk yourself the following questions....\n\n1. Do we love, trust and respect each other?\n2. Do we share the same expectations of marriage? \n3. Do we share things in common that make us shout, cry and laugh? \n4. Do we agree on major life issues, such as children, family and friends, where we'll live and style of living? \n5. Do we have a way of managing conflict? \n6. Do we share the same views on infidelity and commitment to avoiding temptation? \n7. Do we love each other just the way we are today, without any hidden agenda to try to change the other?\nYou don't have to agree on everything. The important thing is that you and your partner have talked through these questions and both feel confident you can live and work together, knowing what the other believes
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No..No...and No!!\n\nDo not marry anyone under any kind of pressure.\n\nMarriage is about loving someone and wanting to spend the rest of your lives together not being forced down the aisle.\n\nGood luck.
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I think that love and kindness plays the most important role. \n\nThink of the little things- kind words and thoughtfulness on a daily basis and taking time to talk will hold your marriage together. Grand gestures, great sex and money are nice, but aren't the glue that holds it together. \n\nHope this helps.
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The biggest mistake you will make in your life is, rushing into marriage, especially if you have second thoughts.Take your time, be sure!!!!!!!
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to be honest with you, i dont think you can fully be ready for marriage! i am a newlywed 1.5 years married and i  thought i was ready. we both are saved and in church, we've been through premarital class. but i can honestly say that marriage is a challenge and requires a lot of personal growth. i say this because you have to deal with your own issues as well as your spouse's issues.... 2 sets of issues coming together can be a headache!  \ntake your time choosing your mate. dont ignore the warning signs (anger, trust, jealousy etc)   pray that God will lead you to the person for you, read books on being single and on the opposite sex. get ready to hang on and enjoy the ride!
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You'll know in your heart when the time is right.  The important thing is to have good communication with your potential spouse, and to discuss your future goals and your beliefs, both together and personal.  If you share similar goals, you're on the right track to tying the knot!  \n\nBig issues you really should discuss before getting hitched include:\n- How soon do you want kids?  Do you even want to have kids?\n- Will you want to move from your city or state during the coarse of the marriage?\n- How much debt do you have between the both of you?  This is very important to get out in the open, because many a chick has tied the knot and discovered their husband racked up $20,000+ on their AMEX.  If there is exisiting debt, discuss how you will tackle it with your joint incomes.\n\nBest of luck!
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If you are worried about men appearing to be really nice and then turning in to "not to nice" after marriage, you should wait a few years before getting married. A person can pretend to be nice for a short while but can not continue so for too long. At the same time, you need to look at yourself to and see whether what you do is making the man change.
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expect a lot of adjustments...stop thinking about yourself anymore....and remember...communication is a must!! in your lifetime together not just at the beginning...\n\nfrom what you said..you're lucky enough to know that you are marrying a wonderful man..\n\nbest wishes...cheers!!
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I'd never marry someone under a pre nump. That's saying you're expecting your marriage to fail. If you expect it to fail, you shouldn't get married at all.
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I would say depends on how long you know each other. I would not use marriage just to show that you are together. You might consider just living together for a while/years and if the mood strikes you and both really WANT to get married then do so. It should be your choice, not the choice of people around you. Good luck!
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No but it all is depending on how much you love your partner. The marriage is not all about babies but understanding and making others life (your partner) more comfortable,
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Can't see why there would be.  but be considerate and say something before the wedding if you feel strongly about it.
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You must know for sure that the one you have chosen to be your mate is the adequate soul for you and you to them.  This is a partnership with the extra perks such as love, support, kids and so many other great things.\n\nAbove all, marriage is not easy!  Keep that in mind so that you don't become discourage once you're married.
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sex is a very important part of a marriage. Without sex many marriages will end. Accidents or medical problems that causes the problem of not being able to preform will affect many in different ways. So I guess it will depend on how strong your love is.