Is pushing your fiance off on your friend wrong?
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
658722
I think that if you love your friend but still kinda love the guy you are with then first off you should consider telling the guy you are with or not get married to him because if you still have feelings for your friend then it wont be fair to you soon to be husband and it probably wont work out..so if you both love each other then i think that you should find away so that it will work out and it probably will so what i am saying is you should probably go just call of the engagement and go live in IL or something and get together with your friend that is probably how it is meant to be..good luck!
1166244
I wouldn't have done that.  I just don't think that's a good enough reason to end a friendship.  If you don't agree with something your friend does then you should be able to ask them not to do it around you.  And if they are a real friend then they won't.\n\nThat goes for everything.  Cussing, drinking, talking about politics, or whatever.  Friends respect each other's boundaries.\n\nSounds like she needs a friend right now too with her legal troubles.
883513
Yes. After I broke up with my fiancee, I set her up with my friend. I even DJayed the wedding.  They just had a baby, two days after ours, and we all hang out with no funky vibes.  Just be mature.
764685
This happens sometimes.  It may not be right, but sometimes it is what just happens.  I would say leave him alone if you wish to keep your friend.  Maybe they will break up, and things will work out, but don't make it happen, or you will loose your friend.  You must ask yourself, is it worth loosing my friend over?  If not, then back off... Way off.  Hope this helps.  Good Luck!!!
683338
I have a really really best guy friend ( woman here), been friends for 5 yrs now. He has been w/ me thru everything. I am married now but b4 now, he wanted to be more than friends. Told him I didn't see it that way, it would ruin our friendship I thought. That if he didn't see it same way, we coulndt even be friends no more. Still friends today!..Some things are better left alone!
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
1032209
I think its wrong. but if your bestfriend know about the issue and if she's fine with it, then go for it. but if she doesn't know please don't keep it a secret from her. It'll hurt like H3ll when she fines outs
1082122
shes victimizing you... she shouldnt be putting you in the middle of her problems and that makes her a poor excuse for a friend... what im trying to say is, do you want to be the one who conspires and allows her to cheat on her husband or do god knows what? Think of the husbands feelings in this situation... While you dont want to be the cause of them splitting up you have to know that if you told you wouldnt and couldnt be held responsible, your friend decided to do this to her husband and she should have to face the reprocussions. Do you care about this girl enough to actually lie on her behalf over something that could split them apart? I think its the husbands right to know whats going on, in my case I think I would not tell the husband where she is but if you know his friends or family tip one of them off and possibly they will tell them... its complicated but you cant be incriminated because you didnt tell her husband where she was, you tipped someone off and they told, but i think its the right thing to do in letting the husband know in one form or another that his wife is lying to him and may be doing more... hes a human being and has feelings to, and she is digging her own grave... It was wrong of her to ask for you to lie about her because she is putting you in the middle of their problems and asking you to conceal the fact that she is destroying her marriage. If I was you I would tip someone off and then let them tell the husband,  either way theres nothing you can do to come out of the situation without getting hurt because if the husband figures out that you have been lying to him about something that is ruining his marriage then  hes going to hold you partially responsible... and think would you want to be in that sort of situation as well. would you want your husband to secretely be doing god knows what and you to be completely oblivious to it and how would you feel about it if he asked a friend to lie to you for him? you have to put yourself in the victims shoes, and honestly you both are the victim to her lying ways
534346
I don't think your feelings are wrong at all.  I would be a little hurt i guess if i was the one responsible for getting two people together and then not being part of the wedding party.  But think of this, when you are in someone's wedding party you are standing up for them.  You are saying (not verbally) that you agree with this union and you don't do u?  You can't tell this man that she is only after him for his money.  You have to let him make his own mistake and learn the hard way.  I know that it will be hard but they don't say love is blind for anything. Eventually, if she is really after him just for his money he will figure it out for himself. It will be a hard thing for him but maybe in the end he will be smart enough next time. Good luck!!!
805743
I  don't think  it's  so much about what YOU do,  as about what  this  friend of yours  is  doing,  and what  your boyfriend is doing.    If she is openly enticing him, and he is not making any  attempt to  hide the fact that he's responding to it,  I'd suggest   that neither one of  them cares about you as much as you thought they did, in which  case  the smart thing might be to let them have each other and good riddance.     Better to know now if your boyfriend has a roving eye,  than find it  out after he has become your husband.  And better to find out now  that  your "friend"  is disloyal,  so you can dump her and get one who is.
376265
I think that you should pass on this friend.  I know you love her and that you will miss her, but she is headed in a different direction than you.  You have yourself and your future hubby to think of - don't let guilt feelings make you invite her when you think she might bring that guy and ruin your wedding day.  It sounds to me like you are better off without her.  You can enjoy the memories of the friend she used to be.
444846
No, your not wrong.  A guy deserves to have his friends, and your not going to like a lot of them, but he needs to also respect you and how you feel.  It seems to me that since you work on weekends there is obviously time for him and his friend to hang out, and that it shouldn't be a big deal to send the friend home once you get off work so that the two of you can spend time together.  A marriage is about compromise and committing to what is important.  In this case what is important should be you and the compromise should be a little less time spend hanging out with his friend.  Doesn't seem like a lot to ask keep the marriage going.
20608
I agree, it's wrong. But if this person is really your best friend, then you should talk to them about it. If they have no good excuse, then obviously they aren't a very good friend, now are they?
1013343
listen to your heart.\nmy now fiance cheated and got her prgnant and we are getting married and i know how twisted that sounds without going into detail but i di a lot of soul searching so to speak and i just couldnt give up on us. yes you have every right to be angry and you will forgive him in time if you so choose to but take it slow and figure out what it is you want. sounds to me like you really love him and dont want to give up but i don't want to go into  to much detail about my life but i do know what you are going through and you can e-mail me at crazybearnluv69@aol.com if you want and i can better explain.
470645
Well my fiance has always told me this and its so true, the person you marry should be your best friend. When everything starts to go wrong, with bills and work and all the stress of life, your best friend will be there. My fiance is my best friend, I can open up to him about anything, he knows every aspect of my life, past and presently. Marry the person that is your very best friend, I promise you it's going to make for a  better relationship.
532284
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!