if a woman told you she had  many abortions what would you say or think?
153411
personally a person that has more than one abortion is stupid. using abortion as a method of birth control is very risky.
520521
Personally I would want someone to tell me. I mean really you could be saving someones life by telling them that. If they get an attitude just apologize and figure you probably won't see them again so who cares but I would definitely say something if I were in your shoes.
983151
Well, what do you think?? Didn't you just say you were pregnant??
616378
It depends on the circumstances - If the mother's life is in jeopardy then yes, they may suggest an abortion or if the fetus has some sort of disease (severe retardation) could be another instance
56037
She didn't ask for alternatives. She just asked for an answer however sad or wrong you may think it is it isn't for you  to judge. The third trimester is the \nlatest. Please know that any page describing it is graphic in the nature that the abortion is performed but if you feel this is the solution don't let it discourage your decision. Webmd is a good page to try. Good luck and please don't make this decision lightly.
937323
No.  He has no rights here in the U.S. either...Of course, if she is pregnant, the sensible thing for her to do would be discuss it with him and let him at least air his views on the whole abortion issue.  \n\nIt sounds like she isn't being entirely truthful about the whole thing though..and the question really should be..is she pregnant at all?  Sometimes women make up stuff like that for attention...it might be because it isn't his..and another reason could be that she plain doesn't want to bear a child right now..and that is her legal right.  If she was having an abortion, and it was his, she probably would have asked him to share the cost..abortions are expensive and are not generally covered by medical insurance.\n\nI would venture a guess that she isn't even pregnant...
416176
nothing.  it's a power that women have, not a right.  So make all the rules you want, women will still take care of business.  FYI if no one had an abortion, there'd be 25% more people.
300895
Sounds like a lot.  If it is life or death, what choice do you have.  Otherwise, it might be time to ask for a second opinion.
593000
I can't find where your question asks "what is your opinion of people who have had abortions"...It is uncomfortable, more so the farther along you are, I've had two. Do I regret it...having to make the decision yes...the procedure, no. I have three children and never had a problem getting pregnant. I worked in Social/Court Services and became so burned out seeing woman having baby after baby they didn't want and the effect it had on those children. In real life only a small percentage will give unselfishly through adoption, the majority give birth and spend the next 18 years screwing up innocent kids.
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if you really want an educated answer to your question, look up information on what an abortion does to the woman.  they are not as safe as the industry would like you to believe.  the Alan Gutmacher institute did research on planed parenthood and have come to the conclusion that 91% of all women undergoing an abortion will have complications some of which are physical, psychological problems and even death.  if you were to stand in front of a firing squad of 10 guns... 9 of them are loaded one is empty... they give you a choice to point to one shooter... you choose the shooter not knowing which one of them has the empty gun.  would you want that kind of odds?  this is what abortion is doing.  not only is it killing an innocent baby, but it is also killing innocent women. The concent form that a women signs at an abortion clinic says that she knows that there is a possibility she could die from the procedure.  this relieving the clinic from any and all liabillities.  the faster they get the women on and off the table the more money the doctor makes.  also think about this ... a doctor day after day killing innocent babies.  do you really think that same doctor would have a concince about the life of the mother?  another thing i would like you to think about is no abortion is done before 6 weeks into the pregnancy... 18 days after conception the heart of that baby is beating and by 21 days there are measurable brainwaves.  most women don't even know they are pregnant by this point. I as a woman don't believe it should be legal any place.  it is a degrading thing for any woman to experience.... in the case of rape, do you punish the baby? it's not the baby's fault that the mother was raped if the mother can not handle raising that child there are lots of people out there waiting to be parents that would love to adopt that innocent child and raise it as if they were the natural parents to that child showering it with love.  your mother didn't choose an abortion and you are here....think about it!!!
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Sorry, I just couldn't resist looking at your past questions and you didn't seem to want an abortion 3 weeks ago.  Can I ask what changed your mind and why you say you need one not want one?
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I agree--she can still get pregnant but could be more likely to have complications.  The abortion would have affected only the uterus, cervix--nothing above that.  So ovulation would occur as normal, but if there was any damage done to the uterine wall during the procedure, implantation and the rest of the pregnacy may be more troublesome.  \n\nI really don't think, though, that an abortion is all that more invasive than other procedures related to pregnancy--think if you'd had three kids, with possible amniocentesis, cesaerean, etc-- your uterus would have been through just as much.  \n\nIf you have had abortions in the past, you should probably just ask a doctor before trying to get pregnant.  He or she can check you out and set your mind at ease.  \n\nConsider carefully also whether you're really ready for pregnancy this time, since you haven't been in the past.  A full term pregnancy will probably bring up a lot of emotions related to your previous abortions, as well as just physical complications.  Take care of yourself and good luck.\n\nEdit-- I just read the other posts that you have received in the time it took me to type my answer.  I am really sorry for the judgmental comments you've received.  None of us know the details of why you would have chosen to have previous abortions, and to jump on a stranger like that is unforgivable.  You're clearly considering moving on from your past.  Sorry you've had to hear those remarks.\n\nThank goodness you can be there for your friend, instead of being like all these other people!  (I hope that her fiance knows about the past abortions--if she's considering whether it could have an effect on their baby, I believe he should know.)
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THAT WAS HER PAST.. LET IT BE.. DON'T DIG IT.. THERE MUST BE A REASON Y SHE GOT ABORTION W/ HER PAST RELATIONSHIP..
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I hope no body who has an abortion regrets - as that is one thing that can not be reversed - make up your mind before you do it - some are done for very good reasons - it should not be used as a birth control but if that's what it's come to than so be it- guys(mine) view
305444
So what your looking for is opinions and personal experiences on abortion. Right?
954392
I wouldn't tell you.\n\nI think abortion is a desecration of life.   I know from me that's kind of ..."WOW" but that's what I truly believe.\n I think abortion is just an excuse for people to have unprotected sex and not have to take on responsibility for their actions.  I also think it's sad that a baby don't get the chance to grow up and solve all the problems of that crappy country.\n\nI DO however think the men of those crappy countries should be "fixed" after fathering one child.   If you can't feed one and you can't control your pecker then.....
660220
Yes and No.. \nI know that I could have not handled another child. There is always a what-if...in the back of my mind. \nBut the experience was regretful.\n\nThe clinic sceduled all it's abortions twice a week.  There we were treated like cattle.  We were all put in a room together to sign our paper work and pop vicatin together.  Then 4 at a time we were called into seperate rooms, where we were put into stirrups.  The doctor popped from one room to the other.  The walls were paper thin, and I could hear the other girls, moaning in pain.  When he got to me, the pain killer had not kicked in, and when I yelped at the pain, I was lectured about how I had gotten to where I was (I was a married woman!).  The pain was excrutating, and my husband could hear my screams from the waiting room.\nI later found out that he had to be restrained by several staff members.  After the procedure, my self and the 3 other girls were escorted back into the "holding pen" until we were deemed fit to leave.  There we about 20 women in that room, and we could not offer support to each other.  I wanted to scream at them to get out.  But My pain killers had just kicked in, and I was so ashamed and embarassed at what I had done...that I said not a word, but I could read the fear in the eyes of the girls who had not been back there yet...\n\nWould I do it again.  No.  But is a choice I made, much as yourself.  And it is not a shameful one.  Have pride that you were smart enough to know that you weren't ready to be a mom @15. God bless.