How is the best way for a young man to approach an older lady...?
146320
just watch "harold and maude" you will learn everything you need to know
689264
Now this is interesting- I think you should start with some great pick up lines.. not the usual ones but the unusual ones.. like "Is your dad a terrorist... coz you are a bombshell"... or " Is your watch working, for me the time stopped the moment I saw you"\n\nGood pick up lines and then get introduced to each other.. just dont rush into things otherwise it seems that the guy is desperate.\nAnd then when you end your first convo with her ask for her number and after talking to her once or twice ask her out.\n\nPs: Dont be blunt with any stranger coz that might just turn out to be a very wrong choice.
420419
by being decent himself ; the way he approaches her, the way he talks to her, the way he offers his companionship, and his overall attitude with her and around her !!\nIn short, be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady !
654923
First off, distance is a great & wonderful thing.  You don't want her to get the stalker impression.\n\nAside from that, man up & ask her out.  The deadbeat was able to do it, & you have to one-up him.
743671
first off you dont seem like you are of legal age. second, if you are over 18 it is alright to pursue him but be careful about setting up meetings. Go to public places and you could also invite people you know to come with you
948772
It's hard for someone young to understand about dating but its really simple.  I wish I would have known what I know now back then.  Simply just walk up to her and ask her is the most easiest thing to do.  Don't worry about the answer or work yourself up over it.  Just walk up and say hey "NAMEGOESHERE" I wanted to know if you wanted to go to the movies next weekend and wait for your answer.  I know at that age its very nerve racking to do but you just need to do it.  If she likes you in that way then she will say YES, if she wants to be friends then she will say NO, simple as that.  Don't worry about the movies being cliche, do what you want to do or ask her if she would like to go out sometime then if she says yes discuss it with her on your lunch break or after school etc.\nBest Wishes and hope you get up the nerve to just ask her!!!
232718
Dude,I wish I could stick my hand into the computer screen and give you a good one to head! You aren't supposed to do that man. I hope I'm right when I say man, coz you did what a kid in sixth grade would have done. You have to be the one she approaches. Got it? Be a man, be the dominant man. Now look, you've put the power in her hands, you're now waiting for her approval-in other words she's in control of the situation. Please find a dicionary and look up the word "indifference"-right now! It is simply reversing the stereotipical roles of the male in you're situation. It works like magic dude, I know. The scary thing is it works better on super hot or famous women, who are used to having men chasing after them.     \nHold you're applause mate, it's my pleasure to be of valuable assistance.
748791
You can be a gentleman at any age.  :)  The most respectful gentleman I have ever met is 16, and I hope he'll keep his respect for women until the day he dies.  First, don't judge people based on the outside alone.  Open doors for people, whether it be an old lady, a mother with kids, the girl you're crushing on.  Always say thank you and please.  Always help when you can, especially if it is something small like helping someone carry their grocery bags to their car, returning a cart for someone in the mall, helping a neighbor shovel their driveway or mow their lawn.  Giving up your seat in a crowded room or on the bus.  Lending someone shivering cold your jacket.  Helping the person in front of you pay for their purchases/orders or whatever if they find they are a couple dollars short.  Help a lady seat first when sitting or eating with her, pass food options to her before yourself.  Offer to run and grab an umbrella for her and walk her to her car when it's raining.  Offering to signal a cab for a lady, and sometimes, maybe even paying! ;) These things seem small, but they go so far to touch the lives of those around you.  :)
312166
you have to put your self in the path of a man in order to catch him.Remember you have one thing going for you right from the start most men like younger women.If its a guy you know already ask him out.
900725
go up to her n introduce urself..\n\nsaying Hi.. the rest will follow..
138965
I think that the best way to approach a woman is to do something nice by her a drink be confident about it though whatever sounds good to you but don't be too cocky about it. Some girls hate that. If that doesn't work I don't know what else to say.
60244
First: Don't approach a woman like you "THINK" your an attractive fit man doing her a favor. Second: Follow Carrie's ^ advice and you'll be fine.
14981
Be yourself.  It's the oldest and best advice.  She may still not like you, but that's the risk, and you keep your manliness and dignity.  Never, never forget this.
939632
Just be yourself everywhere you go. Don't be shy...say hello to everyone. Smile! If someone smiles back or talks to you, don't be afraid to strike up a conversation.\n\nYou can do this at church or at the store...anywhere at all!\n\nAnd just because your 65 doesn't mean you have to limit yourself to women in their 60s. There are women as young as 40 willing to date a man your age...for the maturity, freindship and security as well...\n\nGood Luck
329445
Be a tweener... I find its the best way to go...  And you catch the eye of even more lovely ladies.
162448
1) LOOK INTO HER EYES "TOO LONG"\n\nThis is simply holding eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you.\n\n2) MAKE DECISIONS EASILY\n\nIt’s important to make sure that you make decisions easily. Remember your outcome: romantic feelings, and moving the seduction along. This means that making a decision quickly is more important than choosing the perfect type of coffee, or taking the time to really think about whether you want cherry Danish or a plain one. By making decisions quickly, you show her that you are a decisive man who she won’t have to take care of.\n\n3) WINK AT HER\n\nYou can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.\n\n4) CHECK OUT HER BODY\n\nChecking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often — two times during a coffee date, for instance, is plenty.\n\n5) KEEP YOUR BODY POWERFUL\n\nWomen want to be with men who are engaged in their lives. You’ll appear even more engaged if you sit, stand and move like you are both fascinated and fascinating. As a bonus, moving as if you are totally engaged with and turned on by life will perk you up and give you more energy for the interaction.\n\n6) COMPLIMENT HER\n\nYou want to cultivate complimenting her as a potential lover, not as a tepid friend. Let’s talk briefly about the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, "You have a very nice briefcase." The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically, or that he notices anything romantic about her. Put another way, it’s a compliment another woman might give to her. If you give a woman a compliment that another woman might give her, you might as well be another woman, striking up a casual friendship.\n\nYou want to make it clear that you are a man who is noticing her as a woman, rather than an amorphous blob of undefined protoplasm who might as well be another woman talking to her. A man who is committed to being seen as a potential lover gives compliments that show that he notices her as a woman. Rather than saying, "You have a nice briefcase" he’ll say something like "You have beautiful eyes," or "Your smile is so beautiful, it lights up the room."\n\nAt first it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her, that is okay — keep going, keep taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you are risking rejection, but that’s good! Remember the rejection process, and remember to celebrate your victories!\n\n7) WHISPER TO HER / LEAN INTO HER SPACE\n\nWhispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get all the way up to her ear… it may be too early in your interaction with her to get that close. But you can lean into her space, and lower the volume of your voice, to share something with her.
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Aside from a BJ... hmm... or do you mean even before that? :)\n\nI'd say the age-old way is simply being flirty and take it as far as you're both willing.