im gointg to see my friend that i have feelings for should i tell him or keep it inside?
154985
YES TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  You never know, he might feel the same.  And if he doesn't, oh well!
628136
Figure which is more important, the friendship you have or the special feeling you feel about her. If friendship, you best keep it inside you(although it's really hard) It might be better for you to find out whether you're really straight or not.
206552
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
702132
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
614960
No, don't start something that can't last. If you think it can last after you move then give it a try. I think the guy needs to tell your friend that he has feelings for you. If your relationship will ruin your friendship with your friend then don't do it.
599879
just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...
1088243
Tell him right away...trust me that is the best thing to do....if you continue to hang on it will be very difficult...a Friend you like is not your friend anymore so the best thing to do is just go up to him and tell him...worst case you get rejected but trust me if your friendship is strong enough it will be ok and i don't have to tell you the best case..SO GO FOR IT.
992840
what you say is that you dont feel for him the way he feels for you and that you think it would be better if you remained friends and nothing more as your not ready for anything serious right now. he will probably be upset but its best to tell him now then later on when he can be hurt more. good luck.
338746
dont keep them to yourself you might miss out on a great relationship....if you guys already know how to be friends thats a good start on having a relationship...the only bad thing is that if it dont work out you guys will probably loose your friendship...but you have to decide that one on your own...is it worth it...can you actually see yourself being with this person and it actually working...or is it to far fetched for you two to be togther..at least you will still have him there for you as a friend in the end..talk to him about it...the worst he could say is no i dont want to ruin our friendship...but atleast you dont have to hide your feelings for him and he'll know...whatever you decide i wish you the best...good luck
636896
i think that it is imoportant for you to tell him how you feel.you never know, he might like you too.but what you really should do is to do what you feel is right in your heart =)
286508
I would say carry on as you are cause what would you rather prefer him as a friend and seeing him or not at all? Who knows what will happen in the future,you can be his shoulder to cry on when he becomes single again.Sneaky but your stil there for him
522654
i think you should tell her how you feel and why. it is also fair for her to know how he acts towards her friends as she might want to know that. and then go on to tell her that it doesnt change how you feel about your friendship but you would be more comfortable to meet up with her without him. ;)
876617
its a good idea  to let him know, but you need to do it your self, dont let your friends do it for you. he will appreciate it more if you tell him yourself.
471610
Go for it!!!!! You'll never know what will happen until you tell him how you feel.He could be debating the same thing right now if he likes you too.In my opinion, its better to have told him and he said no, then to have not said anything and have never found out the truth. So, I say go for it. I mean, you only live once; and besides, love waits for no one.
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
405606
ok, coming from a guy, i say just tell him how u feel and if you are friends at all, he wopnt be uncomfortable with it, it will make him happy even if he does not show it
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.