how can i get my best friend who has a boyfriend to have sex with me.?
148766
Believe me, she won't be your best friend anymore if you do have sex with her.  Things between you will change and your relationship will not be the same.  What's wrong with the way things are now?  Sometimes it's just better to leave things the way they are.
613077
This was on Oprah today... Even tho they were married, but anyway...\n\nYes, your friend was not your friend.. A true, BEST friend would NEVER even consider it.  Give the "friend" and the "boyfriend" up and find new ones. You are better than that, and there are so many more people to meet! You are worth it!  Don't lower your standards for people who don't care about you and how you feel.  Never settle.  Good luck honey!
813399
If she was truly your best friend, she wouldn't even think about your boyfriend.  And if he showed her the slightest hint of attention, he is not worth it.  Tell her this, and if she does not back off, dump her.  If he flirts or contacts her in anyway, dump him.  Either way, choose your friends better.
349475
If you value her friendship, then you need to put her needs ahead of your own desires. If she has a boyfriend, then you need to let her figure out what a jackass he is on her own. Interfering with her existing relationship to get her for yourself would be selfish, and something of a betrayal of her trust on your part. Besides, when she does figure it out... and she will... then she will be able to appreciate your friendship all the more for the support you are able to offer her when the times comes for that. The best relationships grow out of the best friendships.
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!
249545
If your best friend does not want to date you, then chances are that he does think your boyfriend is not good enough for you.  Think about it.  How many time have you seen the nice girl dating the bad guy?  We've all seen it.  Some think the bad boy is fun or really a sweety underneath.  Is this you?  If it is then your best friend is a good guy.  He is trying to protect you.  The fact is that it is your decision.  You'll have to tell him you need to "agree to disagree."\n\nIf your best friend does want to date you, then that is a whole different story.  You may need to choose.\n\nGood luck!
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
573496
To really give you good advice it would be nice to know your age.  It sounds like you are very young.  To want sex from your best friend all the time sounds disturbed at best.  Why do you want it?  Are you using protection?  How old is he?  Many young women have sex to fullfil a loss or absent father.  There is really too much info missing to help you.\n\nGeorgi....
658670
For starters, why were you laying on the couch with your boyfriend's best friend??\n\nDon't hurt your boyfriend. You own this situation, not him. I would ask his friend WHY he tried to kiss you? Were you sending him mixed signals by laying on the couch? You should have confronted him with it when it happened. \n\nDon't put yourself in that position again. Sorry, I can't get over the fact you were laying on the couch with him?!
599036
Your best friend is'nt dating your boyfriend so why does it matter.  You would have a problem if your best friend fancied your boyfriend.
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
967448
i can understand your boyfriend's insecurity.  MOST guys are friends with girls and would get in their knickers if the opportunity presents itself (not saying that your best friend is like that, but a lot of guys are) \n\nand your boyfriend is probably thinking, '... yeah, y'all friends now, but romance/lust/love/whatever-you-wanna-call-it has a way of creeping up on people' .. you've heard the phrase 'we were friends, before we were lovers..'? \n\nwith all of that in mind and possibly more, youre boyfriend probably thinks the less time you spend with the guy, the less chance romance/lust/love/whatever gets to creep in.\n\nso, right now, while you're still just friends and have ABSOLUTELY NO sexual/romantic feelings for your best friend, you have to make a conscious effort to keep things that way, and then turn to your boyfriend and give him plenty of re-assurance.  i know it sucks, but unfortunately, that's the way us humans are wired. insecurity needs reassurance. and reassurance could be in the form of while being with your best friend, speaking to your boyfriend on the phone, for example, and tell him how much you love him (vomit) in such a way that the best friend hears it and the boyfriend knows that the best friend knows and heard it. that make sense? its a bore but if you really love your boyfriend and you really have no sexual feelings/hopes for your best friend, you might have to do all that :(
275651
Best friends make the best lovers. Let him know how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same and doesn't want to give the relationship a try, then so be it. One day he will turn around. If you cant handle not being with him, take some time away from him so you can get over it.
863551
Remind her of all the good  things u  did together,and also  tell her  that your feelings are being hurt. If shes  a true  friend she will stop doing those rotten things to you. If not sleep with her boyfriend, just kidding. Good  luck !
564519
get a boyfriend or ask one of ur guy friends to have sex with you??? but i highly suggest u finding a boyfriend.. if ur too desperate then just think of other things. instead of worrying so much about it.