I had a fight with a good friend (girl) of mine. What to do now?
156525
Don't ask her what kind of sex she likes that for sure!!!
417408
first of all, pretty stupid move. but whats done is done, right? u should try telling her that u never meant to hurt her and that u were just kidding around.
701494
Tell her that you feel both of you said harsh things to each other, that you are hurting and imagine that she is too.  Apologize for hurting her and see what she says.
997483
I think you should start by keeping your distance a bit.  I think you should make other friends and spend time with them.  Just try to get out of it little by little.  Less calls, less get togethers, maybe even take a class dancing or in something else that she will not join you in.  \n\nThat way the distance will become more and more, until the day you guys don't' get to hang out very much.  \n\nIf she confronts you in a very angry or whatever tone, just be calm, nice & friendly.  Tell her that you guys have drifted apart and maybe you don't have much in common anymore.  But you still like her and consider her a friend.  This may still bite you in the butt, if she decides to spread gossip there's not much you can do but just ride it out, hang out with new friends, whatever.\n\nWhatever damage she could do, you're so much better off without her being around you, you will be happy and it will be worth it, just be strong.  You deserve good, positive, supporting friends in your life.\n\nTake care.  If you need a good defense to fight rumors, or whatever she throws your way, you can always contact me, or post another question, just be ready.
78370
Step up to the plate.  Approach your friend and admit to your own resposibility in the fight and then tell that person what you do/don't like about what happened.\n\nWhenever you have a fight with a true friend - always be sincere about your own participation and contribution to the fight.\n\nGood luck.
743406
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
107075
it all depends on what the conflict was about.If it is something that realy bothers you then the best thing is to resolve it.If she is a good friend to you then she will be willing to resolve.But the best thing i can say is put in gods hands
564740
Its a small fight- all friends have them every once and a while.\nTell her your sorry for what happened, and that you want to put it behind you because your friendship is to important to think about stupid little stuff.\nListen to what she tells you and how she feels.
1129447
Physical violence does not equal friendship in my book.  This friend isn't a friend, but a bully.  You have another friend. Go hang out with her.  Obviously you know that what your supposed friend is doing is wrong because you are writing about it here.  Stand up for yourself against this girl: tell her to leave you alone, tell her to stop hitting you - and mean it! Tell an adult who can help you with this situation.  Friends don't hit/kick/bite/slap/spit or commit other forms of violence against friends.
640106
im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
741831
Well none of it is your fault. He really shouldn't have got with her friend and her friend is just as much to blame. However tell him this girl is not worth being anxious about because she is completely over reacting. If the abuse continues then you need to report it. The girl is obviously extermely insecure if the abuse has carried on and she needs help! Tell your friend he needs to talk to the girl and tell her that her behaviour is unacceptable and that he didnt realise that she wanted to get serious and that if they cant just be friends to leave him alone
704713
you should have a heart to heart talk with her. you have every right to get upset with her after all she didn't honour your request. but you could have handled it better. \n\ncall her and ask her to meet with you. apologize for reacting the way you did but not for the reason. it was your life she was discussing with her friend and you have every right to choose who knows about it. but don't let your friendship end because of it. if she cares enough she'll understand where your coming from. \n\ngood luck!
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
851332
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
677395
You obviously hurt her badly and it is taking her some time to get over that. Don't push her, try writing her a letter explaining the tough time you were having (I am sure she knows but tell her anyway) and apologise for what you did.  Tell her what your friendship meant to you, explain how you have changed and grown as a person and see what she says.  She may be too deeply hurt in which case you must let her go but at least you have told her why you behaved the way you did and she may come to understand that in time.
1051924
Two years before we had a hot spot and fought but as both were stubborn we remained the same for a week. Later while playing a game before tests(whole class played yaar) we were in oppostie teams and then in same teams that time we could not avoid speaking to each other.Our anger melted and once again buddies forever. \nNow for some advice,listen to me. If you can rate your friend please see if he/she is worth of your friendship. If they are then apologise and don't fight again. If not then shut your mouth and go find some worthy and truthful friend. Ok good luck.