What is to early to say "i love you " ? 1 month and counting I do love him, is it to early ?
152622
of course it's not too early.  you just told the world on here.  the least you could do is clue him into it.
233152
Tell HIM/HER I love you.
903677
with out saying a word at all you can show someone you love them. gentle touches...long gazes into thier eyes. holding them...chest to chest so you can feel each others hearts beat. beyond that just show them that they are number one in your life. put them first in what you do.
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
1010048
Hey Jack, expressing love infront of somebody whom you love very much is not at all hard....just go....take long breath...and tell her that, " I LOVE YOU". that's it.....best luck!!!
173499
NOW! if you truly love someone it should'nt matter the time or place just tell them you will feel a BIG,BIG,weight lift off your shoulder's! It's easy  take a deep breath and just say it!Look i can say it to you:I LOVE YOU!(Smile) Good Luck!
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Hi,\nhen I wanted to tell my bf the first time how I felt, It has to be the right moment, my moment was walking through a fair holding hands and then I just looked at him and it came clear this was the time to tell him, so all I said was, 'you know what...I love you'\nand then it was just fine after that, he picked me up in his arms and twirled me and then said I love you too.\nIt was great, but like I said it has to be the right time.\njust say it like you mean it, ok?\nGood luck! (^_^)\n\nCowgirl In Need~
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ahmmm..I've always thought this to be kinda weird...awkard and bordering too close to psycho behaviour..I find it's very risky to divulge such feelings right away....when u just meet someone, I don't think that's something that needs to be said right away, even though that is how the person is feeling. Didn't u feel a bit overwhelmed, like if you should be compelled to say 'I love you too' even though u don't? I know how it feels to have such strong feelings for someone that it almost feels like instant love...but still u should give things a chance, I mean no need to potentially scare the person off b4 anything really evolves.  I think this could be early signs of a guy who might be a little too needy of you..but hey if u like that kinda guy why not..at least it shows he's sensitive which isn't all that common these days... :-S
409778
u love him and he loves u ....then it comes to express ur love...if he expresses first it's ur turn to express the feeling u have.....love is very odd thing and ofcourse before taking any action u have to think about the future..i hope u make a good decision
678195
5 months is still young so its hard to say what his intentions are ....good thing is that usually if they are just after s?x then once they are put down a couple of times they will go off and try elsewhere unless they feel theres a good chance they can talk you into it fairly quickly.  I think he probally cares for you and just pouts cause its something he wants and your not giving it to him...us guys are funny like that sometimes especially if we feel we are truly in love with that person.  Don't do anything your not ready for and if he loves you he will wait and respect you.  Just tell him that you love him and know he wants you to go further but explain that your just not ready yet and when you are he will be the first to know but ask him to lighten up on the guilt trip cause its making you feel bad and pressured.
242363
perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
343693
Say "I love you". There, not so hard huh?
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
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when it comes to things like love ther are no time limits to be put on it if you are in love with him really in love and not just overly infatuated or in lust tell him stop thinking in terms of first or second he might be scaredto say it also i have to say it doesnt sound like you are really in love with him yet because if you were first wouldnt matter just knowing that he knows you love him would be all you thought about so think long anfd hard about if this is love and ask him where the relationship is going if you really want to know
254694
If you love him just say yes. A simple yes is suitable for the moment. If he loves you, you don't have to try to impress him. He loves you for who you are. He's seen what you can do b/c he's been there through the rough and the good times.
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Falling in love with someone and only been in the realtionship less then a month. SLOW DOWN! One day at a time, get to know each other before the I love you's come out. I mean I believe in love at first sight, but i also believe in moving to fast. Just be careful. You'll know if hes the one after time passes
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First, when you ask questions like this and you want some sincere advice or opinions, you need to be more specific. Like how long you've been together for instance. When you say boyfriend, you could have been together for a week or two when he said it, or it could have been years. That really helps when you're asking someone a question that you want help with.\n\nPutting the lecture aside, this is my opinion when it comes to saying "I Love You" to someone. First, never say I love you to anyone unless you really mean it. People seem to let this word come out of their mouths as if they were saying, gee, what a nice day. Other guys have hurt you? Hmm, well, don't feel like you're the only one that's been hurt. We've all gone through this, but we move on. Obviously, he hasn't made you feel comfortable enough for you to not worry about being hurt, as you have in the past, or you have not opened up enough to accept his love for you. You say you're falling for him, but you keep the walls up. That's never a good thing in a relationship. If you feel you need to protect yourself, then you're not ready for a serious relationship. When the time is right, you will know and feel comfortable about saying it. Until then, don't say it, unless you mean it. It does no one any good to hear those words when the heart isn't behind hit. Good luck and may you some day, find a way to break the walls down and enjoy a happy and healthy, loving relationship with someone who makes you feel loved.