i often think that really bad things will happen to my family or loved ones,what is this and how can i stop it
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dont worry unless you hav psychic abilities i wouldn worry bout it .sometimes this is just a reminder of how much u care for your family and dont want anything to hapen to them .
302371
Awww, you poor thing... I suggest you have it talked with your family members. They say depressions sometimes makes people dream of these stuffs, or is something bothering you?\nOr do you say your prayers at night?\nIt helps sweetie.\n\nGoodluck!
513410
I had a nightmare that my grandmother was dying at 400am,and I woke up to call her house but my exhusband knew what a violent psycho she was and he stopped me,he disabled our phone system server until it was acceptable time to call her without getting beat up,and by coincidence she was dying and she was in the hospital at the time ,we were fighting over the phone,I don't think it was a vision or anything,death and destruction are comon place events in our world and your feeling of impending doom could have come from all the horrible things we see and hear evryday and you were able to let go of it after it was validated,but that is just my opinion and it may be right for me and wrong for you,but there it is.
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If this is more than ordinary uncertainty...or "spooking yourself" it will get progressively worse...Have you recently engaged in any questionable occult activities or met people that are such? This is no small thing....things just start falling apart...Fear rises and fuels more things.. Get away... If you have ever known Jesus Christ in a personal way turn back to Him now...If not, He is the only One that has more authority than these destructive forces of darkness in this earthly domain. Call on His Name Now. He will respond as a Deliverer and Savior. He is brave and able. He cares. Call on Him....right now.
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You are using a coping mechanism right now...by reaching out to others. We cannot say the right words to you to make everything all right. You need time to process your loss and allow yourself to greive. Things will never be the same but in time it will get easier. \nAlthough this is hard for you, believe that God had a bigger plan for your relatives. I believe everyone has a plan in life and God decided that it was time for your relatives to come home. However, that is not to say you will never see them again. They will be waiting patiently for you when it is your time. \nHang in there!
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You may say family, friends etc. but subconciously, every being gives top priority to itself. Your very first instinct (no matter how you try to supress it) is to try and think about yourself. Its quite rare that people think about others first, especially in emergencies.
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Glad you aren't related to me! Yikes!  But, really though you do sound like you have some problems you need help with before you do something you will regret.  Call a mental help line or your doctor or if you really think you might hurt somebody just call the police & they will take you to a place where you can get help.  Please call them BEFORE you hurt or kill anybody ok?
105454
Stop blameing bad things that happen on your fantasies and imagination.  When are you going to take responsibility for your own life?
275944
I go through the same thing. It is a mixture of you having the gift of sight, and your mind telling you things wiil turn out for the worse because of traumatic experiences that happened to you(it seems when you're happy, things always change for the worse.) My advice to turn off this anxiety is to say this affirmation when feeling it "My life only changes for the better, my loved ones and I are safe".\nIt helped me out tremendously. The mind is a powerful thing if you see something bad coming, say the affirmation to change it.
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some time it could happen but check your families history for this
1027076
That is so true!\nSome people always seem to have good things happen to them and  they always seem happy.  Try this, start your day on a great note and when something negative happens, put it aside and worry about it later, bad things ALWAYS wait.  Just keep track of the good things each day and soon your list will get longer and longer.  Your bad vibes will soon get smothered and you won't need to even think about them!  Maybe that is how some people seem to be happy all the time.  I think I'm gonna take my own advice, starting today.
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Bad stuff happens all the time.  Bad stuff will happen tomorrow, just as much as it will in April.  I believe people can be psychic, but what good does it do to just "get a bad feeling"?  In order to make changes, alter your future or prevent something bad from happening, you need to know WHERE and HOW to focus that energy.  Try meditating on it and asking where this bad feeling comes from and what its trying to tell you.
718859
Think about the problems you may have with your family and friends. Your mind is trying to solve these problems through your dreams. You can think about what the dream symbolizes literally, for example, you are being pinned down and tickled. Do you feel that your family is restricting you from doing something? Or maybe they poke fun of you whenever you want to do something you want to do? Hence the tickling. It just sounds like either your friends or family are taunting you when you talk about something you'd like to do in life. What you can do is just be honest with them and let them know that it's what you want to do, and that you are hurt when they do not accept it.\n\nNow this might be totally off, but the truth is, dreams really do reflect your reality and what problems are currently occurring in your life. Think about it carefully and try to tie the emotions you feel in the dream together with emotions you may have experienced in reality. Then you can come to a conclusion as to what exactly the problem may be.
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I think a family can bring the bad luck gene to you based on karma or good luck. Take a look at the Kennedy family. enuf said...  Balance life and create your own or let life create it for you. There is no answer Grasshopper. Happy Trails my new friend!
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It's like deja vu or being clairvoyant....Everyone has some sort of psychic ability - some are stronger than others, and some learn to harness this ability. It means that your have a strong connection with the people in your life and are on similar requencies as them (like radio waves). The reason it may occur when something bad is going to or has happened is because trauma and disruption of some sort are involved with elevated feelings and emotions...high levels of pain anger sadness etc....so these are the events that you would feel most strongly.
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First of all one should try to THINK POSITIVE. Expect good things happening to you, cause there is something called self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe in something possible strong enough, you will be able to reach it. But also I think, we shouldn't put our hopes too high. Not everything in life works out perfectly, so if we don't expect too much in all categories, then we can't get disappointed. And basically, it doesn't matter what happens to you in life, ALWAYS try to find something positive about everything - even really bad things! I'm aware of the fact that people won't find tragedies of their lives great and say "Oh yes, there is something really good about this!", but I know that there are certain ways and possibilities to look at situations a bit later on and find something to learn from for your future life at least - and that would be something positive already.\nThere is something else I have realized:\nHuman beings are such idiots ... they always want to have things others have. They are never happy with what they have reached or what they have got. It is good and necessary to have targets in life, but it's really dumb that people don't give themselves the time to reach them. People tend to look at the "neighbour's house" and think, "Their house is much nicer than ours!" So they are just jealous and some even try to do something bad to others who have more, instead of putting their energy into learning more, working more .... so actually DOING something to get that other something they are so jealous about! I think, basically they don't necessarily want to own those things, they are only jealous of others who have had the power and energy to get those things in life. Whatever that might be ... something valuable, a relationship, a family, good friends, a good job ... WHATEVER.\nSo do try to gain more in life, but also be happy with what you've got!
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Probably some deep level of personaly violation such as rape, infidelity of a partner or loss of all material assets. Although all are possible to recover from to some degree.\n\nDepending on your outlook I would surmise that perhaps the worst thing that could happen to you is to suffer a very long, and painful terminal illness and feel the distress of knowing that it is crushing your loved ones  as you get progressively worse.