i love my boyfriend a lot, earlier he used to say he loves me too, nw i'm clueless he luves me or not plz help
139785
Please try the following: \n(1) asking him about the relation and what its gonna be in the future\n(2) Try to avoid him a little ..just give him a little from your time...and see how he act..(Now if he act liek a lover wants to spent time with you ...then he loves you indeed....If Not; then dont waste time and try to find another boyfriend to you..)\n(3) Good luck to you and start to think well, and be practical in your life..\n\nAny help: Please E-mail me on Bronzi_1980@yahoo.com
727158
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
317086
try talking to him again, on how he feels about love. ask him when he think its a good time for a couple to say those words. \n\ni know how your feeling, I've been their. with the boyfriend i am with now. i wasn't for sure when to tell him i loved him too. we live in different countries so he wasn't sure if we would even work. \n\nits been a year now and where stronger then ever, even going to move in together. the moment i told him i loved it was about last fall or winter. he eventually saw how great and wonderful of a person i was and with him. he couldn't help but say those words back to me. \n\nyou pretty much just have to guess when to say it. you can't ignore your feelings, no matter if they get hurt or not. if you love him, tell him and then tell him why you love him. show him how you make him feel, by your words. \n\nif he can't appreciated that, then he's a loser lol. you've been together long enough to start talking about love. if you were to tell me you just been together for a week or two, then i would say no and wait more.
158437
If he doesnt say it all on his own then maybe you should stop saying it for a couple of days just to see if he does say it to see if he even misses you saying it at all. Or you could just ask him if he really does love you and if he says yes then you should be able to ask him if he was just saying it back b/c you said it to him. Don't argue it out of him just tell him that it hurt you and that the whole time you had to sit back and literally question if he really loved you or not. Your in a relationship talk to him.\nGOOD LUCK MA MA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
215704
It seems that you two don't see your relationship on the same level. You're looking for some sort of attachment, or commitment maybe, and he's just looking for...fun. \nMy advice is to talk to him and try to get him on the same level, or at least let him know that you aren't on the same levels.\nBecause as of now, it seems to me that he's using you when he doesn't feel like going to other girls. \nUnless you really want to take that, I suggest you talk to him and tell him how you feel about him for one, and tell him how you feel about him going to other girls when you love him and he loves you.\nBest of luck.\nCommunication is the key.
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
281462
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
492132
problem is him. Don't push it. Relationship is about trust. Letting him get to trust you little by little, in the little things then it will grow. Also just be yourself so he can trust the you he sees. Lastly, not everybody gets to say 'I love U' the same way. Maybe his may be different
178636
2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
1134165
He is telling you that he loves you... so he is probably frustrated that you keep asking him to reassure you of this fact.  Why, coz he did not say it lovy-dovy enough... please... if he didn't love you he'd leave you and your baby.\n\nThe fact that he is doing his obligations is the best way he knows how to say I love you... asking him to show it like a woman shows it would be like him asking you to show your love by giving him a bl@w j#b every day....\n\nAppreciate what you have, and if you need a little tenderness just ask him for it... but don't expect if all of the time... it's not fun or easy for most guys.
330490
only you know what is like and if things are not normal then you need to sit down and talk to him. ask him does he still love you and why has he stopped saying it to you. it sounds like he may be losing interest in you but just cant say it to you. tell him you need to honestly know if the relationship is to go any further. dont let him use you.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
692062
If your boyfriend really loves you, he should understand.  Don't let him possess you and dictate who your friends can be.
382398
hi dear, be sure of what u are about to say carefully search yourself very well. if u have than all that then check this one out. just try to get closer to him each day let him know that u are lucky to have found him and that u thought luv was beyond your reach and ever since u met him his made u feel so complete. girl if u really do luv him then, then i see nothing wrong with u saying these words. because if u guys are together and u don't express yourself very well i tell u he will get board and can dump u.