whats up with me wanting someone that i cant have?
139447
Everyone want something they can have . . . it is part of human nature . . . \n\nThat is why women play hard to get with men . . . and men play the unavailable card (busy) with women.\n\nMakes us more desireable.
1107778
Obviously if you have two then your not ready for a real relationship....when you really like someone then you want to be only with them......i mean how would you like it if you were being played........thats not fair and people do have feelings and get hurt.....rememeber "karma".....so be careful what you do.....
1160368
Hon, what you have to do is search 'em out, and take matters into your own hands. BUT---once they have agreed to go on a date with you...remember to revert back to "you're the one who wants ME" role. At least until you get the results you're looking for.  Hope I was a little help to ya....good luck!:)
592220
same thing happened to me recently. Maybe we should hook up ;)\n\nForget him, even though its hard. just take your mind off or them, it does get better with time.
188873
Sorry but im taken..ha ha j/k.You have to find her...the girl thats right for you. you cant let someone pick her out for you.
162145
I think because they have got what they want from me.so they r looking 4 new ones.I've decided not to allow any body to play me again.Another thing I think that I'm not beautiful.
539353
Sometimes it is better that way.  Sometimes you only want them because it seems that you can't have them.  It is part of our nature to always want something that is just out of reach.  Know that if you lived close to each other and were both single you probably wouldn't want each other for very long.
1025922
Well its kind of messed up being with someone while you like someone else.......if your confused about it then you should take time to think about what you really want and then take action...dont just be with someone cause they like you .......follow your heart.....do whats right for you not carin what anyone else thinks!!!
643741
It sometimes gets discouraging doesn't it?I completely understand what you are saying.\nFor me it has taken realizing that the right person for me is not in my town and most likely not in my state.Opening up to the possibility of the right person being in another state widened the potential matches.\nI guess that is not for everyone,but I did not want to miss out on the right person just because I was stuck on thinking they are near by.\nI wish I had the answers but I don't all I know is sometimes we do need a break to just "be" as the search can be exhausting on soo many levels.\nI know many people will tell you to stop looking and the right person will find you,but what if everyone just sits back and stops looking??LOL I am not sure how that would work then lol\nBottomline you have to do what feels right for you :)
727120
you need to take a deep breath and think about the reasons you care about these two people, then figure out what qualities you are looking for in someone you want to date...sort out your priorities and choose who you care about more..in the end you will make the right decision for yourself good luck =]
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Have u had a relationship at all, platonic or physical, so that u can't stop thinking about this person?  How do u know the other doesn't like u, have they expressed it verbally or thru body language? Perhaps u should send some signal and see where it'll lead you. Maybe the other person is just waiting 4 u to show some signs, who knows maybe they can't stop thinking about u 2. It could be a start of something good.
367052
Why would you want someone who doesn't want you, find someone who will love you back<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
425794
You've got a simple case of wanting what you can't have!  You don't really want him; you just want him to want you.  Once you realize that's your problem, you can move on and have a healthy relationship with someone worthy of you.
115382
Perhaps you are afraid to commit to someone. And you possibly keep passing these girls by cause you know deep down they arent right for you. When you find the right one, it'll all fall into place.
483384
Feel sorry for the other person, who is unwilling to return their feelings. for they must be egotistical and self-centered. BUT if you knew or know that this person is seeing someone else. then maybe you should look at the selfish mirror. it's true we want what someone else has and if you try to lure someone your way,. It's just as easy for someone to lure them away from you.\nlook for someone who is interest in YOU .
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
143503
We always want what we do not have.  If this girl is really interested in someone else, you need to get on with your own life.  There are many people in this world that are right for us.  Let yourself be open and look for them and stop punishing yourself over this one.