if your spouse has a secret about money is that a sign he/she is cheating?
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
282232
Of course not.\n\nLet me put it in a way that you might be able to understand better:\n\nIf you cheat on your taxes and the IRS doesn't find out, is it still considered cheating? See? \n\nHere's another example:  Every time your friend gets up to pee during a marathon game of Monopoly you grab six or seven $500 bills out of the bank. Somehow he uses his railroads to win! Was that cheating? Of course not.\n\nThe only way any of this is cheating is if you are caught. Otherwise it's just creatively interpreting the rules.
863756
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
476832
you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
1146778
if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
485117
Of course. But if I told you, they wouldn't be secrets. Sometimes small secrets are really for the partner's benefit, like keeping a gift from them until it's time to give it to them. Others are bigger secrets. I find that I have to have some of these, just as I know she keeps some things secret from me. I'd never have a secret that I thought would  harm my partner.
514916
Unfortunately...yes.  Somethings are better left undisturbed and kept private.  Granted doing so might tear things a part but in situations like unto that letting out the secret would probably have done the same anyway.  In reality everyone has secrets.  You can only hope that you can develop a deep enough relationship with your spouse to where the content of them matters less then the keeping and thereby renders secrets moot.
1021113
I don't think you have to lay out every single secret that comes down the pike.  Some things you shouldn't have to share with anyone else. Generally, if it's important to the marriage, then go ahead and share it with your spouse.  But above all be sure there is trust between the two of you and never do anything that would threaten that trust.
240952
If it were me (which it's not) I would keep my mouth shut.  But you just have to think about what you would do if you were in her shoes.  Would you want someone to tell you or what?  Women generally have a "gut feeling" when their man has been cheating, so it's possible that she already knows and just doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Talking to him is definantly a good idea.  But why would he cheat and then ask her to move with him.  Maybe you can plant a guilt trip on him and he'll tell her.  But I think it's his place to spill the beans!  Good Luck!
662528
It might be in his will.  You should check on that.  If she thinks she is getting all of it, it might be in his will.
427729
If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won't get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they'll think you're on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don't give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
176510
It is possible, yes. I doubt that he will say anything about it even if he does suspect that you are not. Did you not notice anything when you lost yours? Why would you not tell him? You should not start your marriage on a lie. Marrige is hards enough on its own, much less when you built it upon sand. Tell him. Build you marrige on a rock.
147041
If your spouse is lying to you, there is obviouisly a problem. If the lies are taking this much of a toll on your marriage consider possibly getting marriage counsling. Is there a reason they feel they need to lie. Are they hiding somethin. Communicate, tell him or her this is unacceptable in your book,and you will not stand for it. If you do tell them that stand your ground. A liar is as bad as a cheater.
946233
No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
567359
OFcause you must tell your finance`. You love her and therefore cant start your marriage on a lie.\n\nLove is a very strong thing and you can suggest to her that you both can go together and see a doctor and see what he says.\n\nYou should know your finance`. dont you think she would be upset if you cant even trust her with something like this?\n\nGod Bless you\nTammy
221390
well i think if a married man cheat on his wife  he will cheat in his business he will steal, be bribed  and do them all. why? because if he cheated for sex (his pleasure)  he will cheat for money (pleasure too)do u like to have relation with a thief,,or criminal?\ni had a business partner once and i knew that he is cheating on his wife,,i broke the partnership as i could not trust him , if he does this to his family  why not to me and i am a stranger for him...\nBesides a woman who has relation withsomeone who is not hers, like a woman who grab a dress from a shopand does not pay for it  (because she does not afford it  or too lazy to work to afford it  , r u that kind  sorry)