i think my mom wanted a girl and has been dressing me as a girl for 6 months now and i think i like it?
150405
ok guy, you are not alone, my mother wanted a girl also,i have been dressing  as a woman for several yrs now and if you do not try to work something out you will form a female side which will get stronger the more you dress. myself,i have learned to deal with it and i do enjoy it. you have to control the female side or it will take control of you.as far as wearing heels it gets easy as you wear them. wearing a skirt with hose is ok.note, if you are wearing a bra your breast will form to the bra, so be careful unless you want to form breast.you are young enough to deal with it now, do something or you be a crosdressed as  i am. if dicide to keep dressing up for your mother you will lose to your female side and turn out as me. be smart,it turns into hell at times, you are the only one who can control your body, the other girls are right,make a choice now.within a year if your still dressing you will be hooked as i am. good luck again
657271
you should thank her for being your mom and giving u the love she is giving you all this time. and thank her for everything she has being through with you. an tell her how much you love her
384658
okay... i understand where you are coming from and good on you for saying something to your mum. JUST remember that mothers want what is best for their kids..and saying that i can tell you that you mum is prolly wanting the married life for you with a guy and one day have kids but you are on a different level that she does not understand. I think at this point in time you need to sit down and explain to your mum that you are a adult and she cant go on making decisions for you the rest of your life. You are in love and for that matter she should be happy that you have someone to love you in return! That is not to say that you wont have kids or wont do things in life that she thinks you can do with a guy. Also if you really really love this girl i would not take her home to be blamed from your mother on " YOU MADE MY DAUGHTER LIKE THIS" been there done that... you dont want to make your girl feel like your family will never come to terms with her being in YOUR life! As long as it takes to break that ice with your mum keep working at it, but dont bring your girl in the middle of it and you live to regret it because you mum might say some nasty things that will end up hurting the one you love. I hope this works out and if you ever want to chat about anything please drop me a line!
612356
Just Pray to your God who ever you believe in Your mom just say these thing because she doesn't want to loose you. She needs you around just move it's that age your mom will miss you alot for the first few months but she will get over it. You are her baby the only one that she has now so she don't want to see you go so whatever she is saying to you she doesn't mean she loves you and need you but she knows deep in her heart that it's time to let you go and live your life. So don't worry just move and start your new life.
547262
You have great character. You should be telling your mother everything at this age. Your mom has great influence on you. Now once you are married tell your mother NOTHING!\n\nKeep your dignity and respect, you are on the right track and your mother is doing a great job with you. Tell her how much you love her!
991532
Nope. She wants to look like me.
13742
What you need to know is that this just tells you a lot about your mother and nothing about you. This is a personality defect of your mothers, not yours. It can be very painful waiting for a mothers approval that you may never receive. Learn that the only opinion about yourself that counts is yours!
710331
Don't push it.  The fact that she said she did not like girls at first means that she is not sure.  She could just be curious and wanting to experiment.  But if she has religious convictions that are making her have second thoughts or even if she is just afraid of upsetting her mother, you should let it go and let her make her own decisions.  If you try to convince her to go against what she believes, it will only confuse her more and she will probably pull away from you.  If she is actually interested in more than a friendly relationship with you, it will happen.  But you will have to let it happen naturally.  Don't try to force it.
643136
Just enjoy that!!! Just hope that to continue to age slowly...because when she gets older and looks younger she will really be happy!!\n\nIt is in your genes,  there is nothing you can do about it, try dressing less trendy when sisuations where she may need to be taking as an adult..
425968
because shes your mom, hello.. she cares about you and this is your whole life your talking about here. she raised you up and gave you everything of course she would be strict letting u go to a man right. understand a lil bit, look at it in her point of view ok.. goodluck to you!
737127
You are a dirty minded baby...your mom must be so proud. lol
1072733
You really can't.  I've been asked throughout my life if I was because I don't dress very feminine, but it's how I was raised.  To just be comfortable in whatever.  I'm bi, with a VERY strong preference for men, but people wonder... Just have to ask her.
857036
My mom did it to me and now I'm a size 1.\nTry throwing it back at her and pick at her flaws.
40740
Honey your mom is going through a lot of stress right now and so are you. I can assure that she loves you and while she might be angry ( hell even PISSED) at you for sneaking out she will respect you being grown up enough to tell her what you did and why. Tell her how you are feeling and what you did. It is a fact of life that you have to accept the punshiment that goes with the "crime" so step up and maybe this conversation will help the two of you understand each other a little better in the long run.
547827
I'd probably just say "oh, ok then" cos that's just me. I would probably feel really special though, she must really trust you and see you as a good enough friend to tell you this. If she has never given away any "maleness" then she is a woman, that's why she "used" to be a man. She thinks like a woman, behaves like a woman, wants to be a woman, she just happens to have been born with a penis she didn't want!
863659
The only way i would want to come back as a straight person is if i were to come back as a girl.Why? because i am a crossdresser who has wished i was a girl all my life,I would rather dress and act feminine ,and will be so much happier
147209
Show her that you are mature enough to know what you are doing fashion-wise.  Do not argue with her on the topic.  Learn to discuss items without arguing.  Leave you friends out of this.  If your mother’s attitude is that you are too young to be showing off what you have, listen carefully and ask if age is the issue or the level of maturity the issue.