my boyfriend tryes not to be obvious when he looks at girls, but when im away, HE TURNS HIS HEAD SO FAST 4THEM
152513
Do him like he does you- and make it obvious that your looking... (thats what I do)... I turn my head and be smiling.. my boyfriend acts like he don't see me, but he does, b/c he'll get all quiet... do him like he does you----  and the next time you catch his eyes wondering-- don't even give him a chance to deny it... tap him on his shoulder while hes' looking and ask him " Do you know her OR. if you wanna walk with her you can"  make him feel like-- he can walk off and leave you and you'll be just fine..... make him feel like you don't care--- I also tell mine---- " keep on looking at these other Bytches if you wanna--- while you looking at them- somebody else is looking at me........ Practice lil' smart,snappy remarks to get under his skin... walk with your head up like you don't give a shyt that hes' looking at other girls-- if you walk faster than him.. he'll be trying to catch up with you and won't have time to have that "wondering eye".......  And one more thing--- when you go out with him-- be looking Super Good... give another guy a reason to look at you--- (thats what I do) -- be looking so good that your guy will only have time to look at other dudes-- (it will be funny) b/c he'll start asking you--- Wow- do you know him- he was looking all in your face and smiling-  its kinda funny but it really does work---- you'll have him watching looking at other guys to see if they watching you in NO TIME....\nTrust me!
198147
I know this one because my boyfriend does it all the time. First of all he's nervous and second he's probably thinking to hard it makes his head hurt.
878940
If he is always looking at you, it can be a sign that he likes you. I know, as a guy, that I have a tendency to constantly look at girls that I like somewhat. So there's a good chance that he likes you. (Psst, guys will sorta stare at other girls even if they're going out. It's just our way, and it doesn't necessarily mean that the guy wants the girl he's staring at, so don't take it the wrong way. Just said there's a chance.)\n\nAnd if you don't know if the girl he is with is his girlfriend, it wouldn't hurt to ask someone that knows one of them. I mean, it *could* be his sister or an ex that he still hangs out with as a friend, or just a female friend.
909707
I'm straight...my boyfriend watches them sometimes...
537997
If he keeps getting these so called " fling-rings" or txts, then just forget about him. You might love him, but if he can't control himself around girls, then that's going to be a problem. He will be around girls everyday in his life, and then one day you gonna get hurt b/c he couldn't control himself. But, if he can stop, and you see him change completely then, stay with him and see what happens, test him, not to often to see if he just trying to trick you or if he really done changed.
663505
Ok, first your boyfriend looks at other females, it's normal a guy can't help but to look as long as it is looking instead of touching...If you love him, you wouldn't let him go......If he wanted to date someone else, he wouldn't be with you....Just ask him what does those other girls have that you don't.....What will it take for him to be proud of what he has.......Maybe he looks and thinks that you have them beat!!!  Who knows what runs in guys head!!  I caught my man nodding at another girl, talking to another girl, and looking at a girls butt......But he is still with me!!!  Just don't let it get to you......It will all work it course!!!
673025
just because your boyfriend doesnt talk much to your friends thats no big deal and i wouldnt talk to him about this friend of yours either if he has this type of problem with social situations its not his fault if hes smiling at people  then hes trying to be friendly in his own way and that seems to enough for most people,right, and what the other person said up the list aways if your boyfriend talks to other girls it doesnt mean hes gonna leave you for one of the other girls sounds like that girl has some jealousy problems or insecure.
85050
It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
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Most guys do it, and some women do too (I admit to looking at hot guys).  It's normal.\n\nI'm going to see this from both point of views:\nYou don't like it when he checks out other girls.  He knows you're uncomfortable with him when he does it.  Yet, he continues to do it and hurts your feelings.  He shouldn't be hurting your feelings.  \nHe feels he's been attacked for looking at other girls when it's normal for him.  He's suddenly on the defensive and gets hurt by you because you don't trust him.  \nSo there's two hurt to every side.  Does he love you? Do you really trust him that he's only looking and not touching?  If you can't find a resolution and keep fighting about the same subject over and over and over again, then I would suggest breaking up.  Because if you can't find a resolution to your fight, then you'll never be able to settle other fights peacefully.
90558
i had the same problem. I asked him about it. I finally got the truth when a sexy girl walked by and him and a friend's head turned to watch her walk away.\n\nso get a pretty friend to walk by or ask him staright.
180777
He probably doesn't want to give his new girlfriend the wrong impression about you and his relationship. Yeah, I know, it doesn't make sence, but when we find a girl that we really like, it makes us do things that aren't typically things we'd do. Plus, he's probably out more and simple has let it slip his mind. Don't take it personally, just guys showing interest in one thing at a time.
70461
Guys are scared about the issue girls. I know because I am one. He will not admit it but he is scared to face the truth. Confront him about it. Make tell you the truth about whether he likes you not. Just give time.
769126
Insecure is the word for it. He wants to talk to you but is not able to spit out the words. If you like him talk to him. If not ignore his stares. He will either stop or get the courage to talk with you. The other girl is just trying to control him and is doing a good job because he is afraid of what she might do if he stops giving her his attention.\nMikeypio
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
912275
Yes, it is perfectly normal.  He should not be roving his eye when he's with you...that's just disrespectful.  Of course we all know men love to look....they just don't have to do it when they're with their woman....rude!!
804507
just think differently and try to relax, he has been with other girls as well, so don't worry.\n\n:> peace\n.
872465
I would find some else because this person is not loyal to his own girlfriend,and he sounds like what we call "a two timer" which means he likes to see more than one girl, and if you do see him, a big chance he'll do the same behind your back, so don't fool yourself and get hurt later on....so find someone else who is himself not someone who wants to flirt and show off in front of other people to get your attention....thats being childish on his behalf....seek a guy who likes who you are as an person not what you are....the relationship will go a long way.....