Are women only looking for money and materialistical items in their relationships?
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im afraid to say some are! (as there are some guys looking for only trophy girls)...but there are ones out there looking for something more....honesty, able to communicate, similar interests...perhaps look in diff places...one just needs to be still and let love discover them...if yar interests are say celtic then go to a irish,scottish group..or renn fair...etc...try something new...be urself..good luck
52066
Some women do not know what they really want.  Much of human relationships comes from the unconscious mind.  Many women have no idea of what is driving them to do what they do because it is coming from their own unconscious.\nOnce stuff starts to surface, then it is a whole ‘nudder ball game.  Now the conscious mind can directly see what is happening.
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I would prefer having the love of your life because money is relative. There are tons of poor people who seem to more happy than people with loads of personal possessions. It seems like they found love and somehow they survive relying on the strength of each other.
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I go to a trendy bar, not to met men but because i can afford to. i don't care what a man does for a living i just care if they treat me right. not all woman are gold diggers we are successful in our own right
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Obviously there are exceptions, but generally yes.\n\nWomen are far more likely to seek out the "Bigger-Better Deal" than men.  Men are more likely to "Yep, that'll do."
82366
I don't see why they would. Some guys still have issues about being the breadwinner but a modern woman with her own home wouldn't want one of them anyway. I think that to most guys it will be a positive. It's a sign of stability and maturity. To the rest is will be a non-issue for a while at least.
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Sorry to intrude (I'm a guy) but I think you need to be more specific about what sort of women you have in mind.  I have a bit of experience with women, and I can tell you they each look for different things.  Young women tend to be more idealistic (speak about things like "honest, caring, sensitive, handsome, ...") while some more mature women are looking for stability ("commitment, financial stability, supportive, ...").  Only one answer mentions "money" but I think it's naive to not stress that.  Most women are looking for a successful, confident guy, who will be able to take care of them (I have never met a woman who didn't love a nice gift).  I almost forgot "smart/capable" - woman seem to really like that too.
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Heh of course it is. When I met my boyfriend he didn't have much money. It's not the most important thing by far. If the girl likes you she will be happy with a walk in the park instead of a fancy dinner.Show her things that she has never seen before in your own special point of view. Try opening up and talking to a girl in a personal way, writing poetry, singing songs, making her gifts those things all mean a lot to the right girl. That is the trick though finding a female who isn't into money.
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it's usually the men, women tend to be satisfied emotionally and physically by just one man if in love or married, it's their nature and that's how they are made, a woman just wants one man to love, take care of and be faithful to... men just never have enough and always looking for more with greed , like beasts...(it's also how they were created....)
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I think money is great when it comes to buying the essentials such as a home, and food, ect., but when it comes to material items I think we should learn to live without it. Some people try to buy other people's love or friendship...and that isn't right.
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I want honesty and no games from a man. I care about what is inside of the person a whole lot more then what is on the outside. I recently got back on the dating scene since my husband died. It is different and the men I meet are definately carrying around a lot of baggage.
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Actually i dont care how much she will make, her money is her property and she is free with it. What is not manly is asking one's wife about her income . Men to spend money on their wives, not receive from them. I'm not being gender biased, but I believe it is more decent for a man to spend rather than receive money.
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You've been meeting the wrong kind of women--materialistic bimbos. Not all of us are like that. I hope you find the right one. Good luck.
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A woman is more worried about home matters than a man. We worry about the bills, food on the table, how to send the kids to school etc.. (all of these things take money)\n \nIn comparison men worry about sex.\n\nThat is why women seem more materialistic.
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I am a guy, and I feel that a girlfriend is more desirable than a mobile phone, since it is something you can buy with money. Love is soemthing you cannot buy.
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No.  I know a LOT of women Do though.\nThey use it as a measuring device to try to determine how much money the guy has.\nThat doesn't necessarily mean they are gold diggers. Most women, I know, will either look at the guys shoes or car to give them some insight as to how successful the guy is.\n\nDon't lie to yourself though.  I think everybody is intrigued by a financially successful person but that DOES NOT MEAN that women only want rich guys.\n\nNo way.  I have been proposed to, twice by 2 millionaiares and I said no.\n\nI wasn't in love with either one of them.\nI've heard of cases where women married men for their money but they are just cheesy. End of story.\n\nIf you're worried when you see a woman looking at your watch, don't jump to conclusions.  If she's like me, she's just trying to read the time.  I rarely wear a watch except at work.  Too much bling when I'm wearing a bracelet already.\n\nI've seen you a lot on here.  You always ask the most interesting social questions.  You sound worried.\nWell, STOP IT!  I like you!  AND I have no idea how financially stable you are and I don't care!\n\nThere are lot's of women out there just like me.  Give them a chance.
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Hey, Man: \nTake it easy .....you are asking for a money not for a wife...Please if you want to find a women then you dont need to find an answer from other people ....Try to find your soulmate in Yahoo Personnal...Good Luck in your life