Should I pay for her?
141698
i think you should pay for her sometimes. i mean its nice to have you boyfriend pay for you when you go out. but i dont think you need to pay for her all the time. tell her straight up that you dont have the money to pay for her all the time and that sometime she needs to pay for her own crap.
1098031
will I get paid for it ?
1176334
This is not about payment is it?  Wow, I thought that it was about so much more.\n\nI figure it like this, don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed if she doesn't and you'll be pleasantly surprised if she does.  Just because you take it upon yourself to do that deed doesn't mean that it's "automatic" for her to return the favor...  If you want it done, ask for it... \n\nPayment?  Naaaah!
15940
Giving something to someone because everyone else is caught up in the game (X-mas in the USA) is really quite selfish if you stop and think about it.  Is it for them? or is it for YOU?  Doing it so you don't look cheap?  Then you can resent her for putting you in debt for the rest of the year?  I suggest you give her something that is meaningfull.  Think about it.  Your time on this blue marble is very limited and that makes your time your most valuable posession.  Think about it.
731122
I would be honest with her and tell her that she has not yet paid you back to 200.00 and therefore you are not able to give her any more money....she is treating more of a gift than a loan unfortunately.
122647
You already answered your own question. Sorry, but if she wants you to spend all of your money on her, what does that say about her? It IS your money. I'm not saying don't spend any money on her, just don't spend ALL your money on her.
824394
I would definately check into that.  Thats extortion in my book.  Also, see if u can get her a calling card or the number to one, for those calls out I guess.
598607
hi, she is just your gf. you don't know what might happen to your relationship with her in the future. don't give your money to her. she sound like she like to have your money and not paying back which is so unfair. i know you  love her but she has to control herself. and also, if you are going to loan money for her, let her sign an agreement to pay whatever amount you guys agreed to pay every month. think about yourself too not just hers. anyway, that's not your problem. yes, you can help but don't shoulder all of it. good luck!\n\n i am a woman with almost the same problem and my ex bf paid all my debt, unfortunately, we broke up  and there's no aggreement for me to pay him back every month and now he is suffering to pay for it. careful! i don't wanna do it again though and thinking i will pay him the whole amount at the end of this year but i will just surprise him. he don't know my plan of paying him the whole amount.
957630
Tell her it is not your fault she was wronged in the past and you should not have to pay for what others did.  Trust me or lose me stand firm!!!!!
413515
Of course she should but she won't!! I think she's a disgusting ligger and it's not the bloody Government she should be paying back it's us hard-working tax payers! We pay for the pathetic excuse of a Government and its just out of order.
790236
because if you dont the woman will make you pay
652306
You should sit down with her and your boyfriend and decide what you are going to do. Paying her something is right, but you need to know what for, how much and how often. If you can't afford it you and your boyfriend need to decide if he will help. If he can't you need to look for a good job or move. Your boyfriend has to make a decision on whether or not you're worth the extra effort. If not you need to find a mate for your future.\nNext time don't move in until he pays out.\nThis answer is from a man.
121044
If, then sue him ! The other woman will pay one day anyway.....
208097
i think it is something around you can afford and her monthly allowance. now, if she is realy close to you and she seems to like to buy something pricey and you feel generous, you might consider this. but if you feel you are giving her quite an amount, you can also consult your sibling (her parents) about the amount.
869261
Charge her.... if you are going to fix it then charge her. Yall are not friends and i dont think that she is worth your friendship. so if I were you dont get too close to her again or you will be in for another heart break.
752151
1st - If you'll fulfilling your husband then you should be okay.\n\n2nd - That's just a situation you have to be careful with because she could be just a kind and generous person who feels money is not an issue...but on the other hand watch out for her just to make sure, don't get to comfortable with the whole thing because if she see you kind of take the guard off that give her space to step in.
48037
give her a gift card or just listen to her and see if there is something she has been saying she would like that would fit your budget