i find my lover girl dominating me is it wrong or right?
140494
IT IS WRONG FOR ANYONE TO DOMINATE ANYONE ELSE ...
1169968
it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
443496
Oh silly virgo, no worries, you are not weird. We all have our own sexual fantasies, you are brave enough to admit them in an open forum. It's good to be in touch with yourself. I would tell your man, but be very careful before you act on anything. Once the door is open on that sort of fantasy, it is very hard to shut. Jealousy is a hard thing to deal with, even if you were never to see her again.
90198
Yes, I think it's very wrong. If you really love someone and they love you, they want to please you in every way possible. If they are doing something that doesn't satisfy you, you need to have enough love and respect to tell them. I promise, they'll appreciate it in the end (and so will you). ;-)
744386
Yes it's very normal and you shouldn't leave it at that. Talk to your girlfriend about this, tell her how you feel. She has to be more giving in this respect.
925282
no , its not ok. listen to your friends , you need a woman not a little girl. find someone at least 21. good luck and move on buddy !
893564
your just enjoying yourself........your freedom,, you only live once dude.!! eventually the right girl will come along....& youll not want anyone else. so till that happens enjoy life...
470139
u should stop doing wht ur doing w/that new girll.. if u still wanna be with ur gf.. cuz its just not right!!imagine ur gf doing the same thing to u.. how would u feel??
560212
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
514136
My guess is she is rather immature and trying to play head games with you. Do you really need this kind of girl in your life?  You could IM her, but then she'll know that she can manipulate you. I think you'd be better off looking for a girl that will treat you honestly and not play games.
841525
Yes, it's wrong and if you continue in this relationship, you are a homewrecker. I'm sure you're a nice person but you need to find someone who has no baggage and can commit solely to you. You won't be happy in the long run otherwise. You deserve better.
971177
LOL,..I have been there.... she was abused as a kid.... if not outright sexually then by the culture's judgments and shaming of sex. Anyway it feels like she wants you to read her mind, right........ well, it does not matter what you do, you wont get it right,,,,,,it is how she wins.....if you force her she will be very angry, if you do not she will grow bored of you and treat you like you are weak.......but her fantasy is to be taken by force.......she does not want to feel responsible for the guilt invoked by her own pleasure. .. Her desire to be abused is probably driving her mad.
393006
If you are in a sexual relationship with her and she trusts you then it should be okay. Just make sure it is nothing raunchy and it is something you will actually do to her next time you see her. Good luck. :^)
816897
sounds like you were right on the nymphomaniac part...dump her
1052178
RIDE YOUR MOTORCYCLE ON SUNDAY AND DON'T FOR A MOMENT LET THAT GIRL DENY YOU YOUR TASTE OF FREEDOM!!!  Shame on her....do not, I mean DO NOT let her take this from you, and DO NOT feel guilty.
338729
If she tells you about it, it's pretty innocent.  I think you should be glad she's good enough to do that for someone who needs help.  Maybe one day you'll need help and you know she'll be willing to do it for you.\n\nWe need to encourage good people to do good things, not discourage them.\n\nIf she's your girlfriend, you better learn to trust her - or move on.
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.