Why cant love seem to defeat hate?
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Love and Hate are the same coin\nLove can turn to hate very easely\nGiven time & patience,love can\nconquer hate,but it takes work
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Love is love, there are no two people who can be kept apart if love becomes them.  Wether your multi colored or plain Jane, if you feel for that person, dont let anyone stop you.  The greatest love are the those that share the common knowledge that they fought true and close for the companionship they share together, Racists are arrogant sons of bitchez, they see nothing but failure!
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Honestly, I really want to help but I don't think I know the answer to your question. Sorry.\n\ngood luck\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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hate is as old as the ages.some people say education is a partial cure,   but it  is not a total cure.  a great deal of it comes from within . how you were raised. a great deal  of it   comes from your environment. some of it comes from your own ideology or political leanings.  some of it comes from  religion.  i cant make someone like me if they hate me. but I can always strive to look at myself and try to get past it  and denounce it.
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Love is difficult for the reason is that you might not understand clearly deep inside your heart. You have to understand by searching the answer deep inside your heart where you as the only person can only understand the whole circumstances. Love isn't difficult, but some part it is like forgive your enemy or other peoples and give loves not sex with great support. Love could be meant in many way that can or can't be fully express.
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Sometimes its worth it to give kindness to your enemies. They wont expect it and going against their expectations is a way to keep them off balance and you out of their traps. Perhaps being sweet to your enemy could turn the situation around and they might be less impassioned about harming you. They is really only so much that hatred, anger, and meanness can accomplish. If your enemy is starting to be sweet to you it could mean that they actually respect you, they might want to lessen the conflict, or they could be trying to trick you. Respond in kind and wait and see. It depends on whether it is sarcastically sweet or whether there is genuine warmth and/or affection there. Even if they are deciding to be nice to you now, they have a ways to go to earn your trust. You can be nice to someone and not trust them, you know.
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That is an interesting question.\nI think that it is directly related to love, but not a form of love.\nI think about it this way: Hating someone takes so much time and energy that I cannot imagine putting that much effort toward someone I didn't care deeply for or even love. The average person who bugs me just isn't worth that much effort from me. \nI think that hate is the only emotion stronger than love, but that you can only truly and passionately hate someone that you love. (Romantically or Familially)\nLoathing someone is different. To loathe someone you don't have to love them, it's a bit more mild than actual hatred.
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No, it does not mean that they don't love you. You can dislike someones behavior or what they say and still love them.  As you give no explanation as to why others are afraid of you, its difficult to make any suggestions as how you may alter this to have better quality relationships.  In the past, I had the impression that people were afraid of me.  I have a strong character and often speak whats on my mind, in a tone that one would of thought that what I was saying was "the only way".  In the past, I was more negative and angry, as well.  Over time I have learned to be more diplomatic in my approach to other people and tone down the way I express myself.  Also, I am much more positive then in the past; I guess it radiates through.
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I cannot hate people, but I do hate some of things people do..especially to each other.  It is so much easier to love.  Hate burns a lot of energy.
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Its impossible to make someone love you, more or less. The only thing you can do is just be yourself. If this person loves you they love you if not there isn't alot that you can do. I know it doesn't seem fair and is frustrating all you can do is hope and not allow your love to become anger. I wish you the best and good luck!
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People love to hate.  And nothing will bring more people from different backgrounds together than hate, it makes people feel good to be able to look down on others and feel better about themselves.  It is very sad and I believe what goes around comes around for all of us.
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Most people don't mean it when they say "hate."  They might dislike something about the other, they might not like what the other did, they might have said something they regret...\n\nRemember, "There's a thin line between love and hate."
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I see all people as connected, and I think that everyone has good in them. Sometimes you are not allowed access to the good, but that doesn't mean it's not there. Hating and anger only destroys you, and does nothing to help the other person's good come out. \n\nWhen a child misbehaves, you still love them the same, even though you may dislike or even hate what they did. That's the basic concept. You don't have to feel the same for others as you do for your children, but you recognize that you have also made enemies in your own life by your wrong actions and you understand that those actions don't define you as a person. In realizing that, you realize the same is true for other people. Instead of hating because of the intolerance, you pity them for the things that must have led to them having such hate and anger inside them. \n\nIt doesn't mean that you have to put up with it or be silent about it. In fact, sometimes, confronting a hateful person is the only way to deal with them.\n\nIt just means that you try to harbor no hate, and hold no grudges (at least not for long). You won't always succeed, but you can occasionally examine whether you have any hate in your heart, and try to turn it into sympathy.
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Bonny, some people are just mean. Love yourself first of all, then you will not be left feeling so empty; regardless of their actions (or lack of action). This world and the people in it will bleed every drop of love right out of you and hate you while they do it. Shield yourself from these emotional vampires; live for the joy of loving regardless of the payback. Pity those that are so ignorant and empty, dry and mean.
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Love and hate are inseparable. You can't have one without the other.
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First of all we have to rid OURSELVES of hatred, and that is a major task in itself. You want to punish the perpetrators of hate crimes. Why? For their betterment or because you hate them. You want them to feel worthless and small. But they already do, that is why they commit hate crimes. They pick a scape goat to take their own feelings of inadequacy out on. The key to ending hatred is love. As Marvin Gaye once so eloquently stated in his song "What's Going On", only love can conquer hate. Are you ready to love? Even to love those who would hate you? That and that alone will end hatred.\n\nSeven has a very good point about religion. Notice that AK did not say anything about hatred he only defended his religion by attacking seven which illustrates sevens point.
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nope, coz deep down...the reason a person who says they hate love... want to be loved. And mark that i said - \n"who says"....coz they want to hate love (for the negative things that happened in life (coz of misjuding love...real love doesnt hurt) ...but love is too powerful positive force to hate.