how do you get a girlfriend?
153106
Girls should be the last thing you should worry about. They'll come to you if you are 'good enough'.
345076
Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
389092
Get a girlfriend and ask her or put an ad in the personals asking for fun and experimentation
100515
Desperation is a major turn-off.  Desperate people also get used.  So I recommend you turn your attention on yourself and build up your confidence.  Find yourself -- figure out what your values and priorities and interests are in life.  Get involoved in activities related to these things, and you will make friends with whom you have something in common.  Some of those friends will be females, and the friendship might develop into something more...\n\nYou have a better chance of a successful relationship if you really know yourself and have confidence enough to not "NEED" a girlfriend.  And it helps if the girl has similar values and interests, and if the relationship is based on a mutually respectful friendship.
456992
Its hard to say why girls are not attracted to you. It could be anything. Don't try so hard. Stop looking for a girlfriend. Try finding someone that has the same interests as you. Looking for women in bars and clubs doesn't always work. Try the internet, chats, clubs...etc.  Let them get a chance to know you as a person. Then see if can develop into something else.
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
144260
Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
248905
So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
290390
Just be nice. Tell her you have a girlfriend or think she is really nice, but this isnt a good time for you to go out with people right now.\n\nDont be mean to her!!
46067
well,it's not that complicated.......u just have to know what kind of gf you're looking for..........girls are all around you, you just have to give them a chance and one of them can become a true girlfriend for you.....:)
1043816
Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
518227
So just ask out the girls you think are interesting. The worst thing that can happen is they can say no. Eventually though, someone will say yes. Then take it slow and really get to know them. If you rush things you will freak them out and scare them away. Stay cool and you will have a gf in no time.
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First of all, you shouldn't just go after any girl just because youre single or eyeryone else has a girlfriend except you. Wait till you actually find someone you're interested it.\n\nAnd when you actually find you're girl, just be yourself. Most girls usually hate boys who act like huge show off's in front of them. \n\nFlirting is not really hard. Imagine a scene where youre talking to the girl you like. Just keep eye contact while you're talking to her, but dont stare into her eyes [it makes girls feel uncomfortable]. Then while youre talking to her, just touch her somewhere, like hold her hand [but not for too long]..and or rest your hand on her shoulder. But remove it if she starts looking at your hand [which is on her] uncomfortably.\n\nYou could also try to throw in a few compliments here and there. Girls like beng told that they looks nice or they have pretty eyes or they have a wonderful smile.\nAnd if you want to ask her out on a first date, just ask her out for a movie or dinner. And if you are rejected, don't worry. There is probably some girl out there who has fallen for you're smile. You just have to find her.\n\nWish you luck,\nkiller_queen
809636
You mentioned "your wanted girlfriend". So you want to ask her to be your girlfriend? If so, then it depends on how much you already know her. If you don't know her all that well, then ask her about herself. Ask her what her likes and dislikes are and her hobbies. If you already know her pretty well, then don't make it a too long of conversation (that might get to boring for both of you).  Just ask her about school and then see if you want to ask her out on a date. Good luck.....SAM
677655
not by sitting on your computer that is for sure...you have to get a girlfriend if you want it regularly or if you are good with the women go to the clubs they are the best place to pick them up i used to go all the time and i had a date every week...but now i have a girlfriend and i get it regularly
224075
Dude, I used to be in the same exact boat as you. I never thought I'd get a girlfriend...So I stopped trying. A few days later, I actually got a girlfriend. One year later we are still together and are both very happy. So, just stop trying to get a girlfriend...Go hang around with friends and stuff, you'll most likely meet a girl, and just be yourself. Also, be very confident. If you don't like yourself...who else will?