How does a guy with superior genetics date ordinary women without making them feel inferior?
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1) stop using the term "superior genetics". Honestly. It makes you sound snobbish and arrogant beyond belief.\n2) Don't describe women as ordinary.\n3) Compliment them on their good qualities frequently.\n4) Be willing to make jokes about yourself. I don't care if you're Adonis, Einstein, Michael Jordan and Paul McCarteny all rolled into one, you DO have some flaws, and acknowledging them will make you seem much more approachable.
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Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
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It's part of the wonderful mystery of life!\n\nIt's virtually impossible for anyone to fully understand anyone else (except, perhaps, for identical twins). Then, when you add the extra layer of difference between the sexes, you've got a real challenge on your hands.\n\nDon't worry about understanding. While you might never achieve it competely, you'll come as close as  possible when you meet the right person (and if you work at it). Meanwhile, enjoy the ride.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
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Hey I'm physically challenged and have dated many a woman.  Just because a person is unable to do some things that you consider as routine does not make them any less of a person.  And yes if I was single and was to meet a woman who did not have any vision or wasn't able to communicate verbally I would not think twice about going out with them if we connected.
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Oh good grieF!\n\nIf he's single and you are even half decent looking you got yourself a date.\n\nWhy do girls think that guys are girls.  The one advantage you have is that nature made guys VERY OPEN to any decent girl.
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it's hard doing that. \ncoz most guys just goes for the "great looks & no brain" look with girls......lol\nif he doesnt see you for the great person you are, he is not worthy of you.
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I am going to give the old adage, BE YOURSELF!  Don't try to impress him, don't try to bullshit him, and DO NOT give in to any of his B.S.  Get to know him as a person.\n\nTo be totally honest I have the same problem around women.  I say the most ignorant things and usually look like a goof.  But, I try to use the same advice I just gave you.
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= ) I'm back.  To make a girl feel special, you have to get to know her, and pretty much ask her.  Every one is different.  But, tell her she's beautiful, not hot, look her in the eyes when you talk to her, and are telling her something of importance.  And I am a firm believer in making them laugh.  It breaks the weirdness, be yourself.  As far as meeting girls, ya got me there, I'm a homebody. Pretty boring.
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Run. Run as fast as you can, and don't look back. \n\nI am going to tell you the same thing I tell my close friends when they date a loser : \n\nPlease don't. You only lower the bar for the rest of us women. If women left loser men like that alone, we would certainly have a much better selection of men out there. As long as women like you enable men like him, he will never change. Please don't date a loser. Big boy need to grow up now, move out of the car, get a job, and treat women with class.\n\nDon't accept anything less, sister.
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Me too. Once you fly them to Paris in the old Lear jet and take them to a three-star restaurant, they just fall in love with you. I toss them like used Kleenex. Most of them become nuns or kill themselves. Tough luck for them, and lesser men who might have been able to love them. Of couse, after me, no one would be higher than 10th place in any woman's list of 10 best lovers, but the lower classes have to find their comfort where they can.\n\nA post-em note on the bathroom mirror - "Sorry" - is usually enough, unless they are in your penthouse. Be a gentleman about it; spend the night with them, in their shabby little 14-room co-op without a view, then put the little yellow sticker of doom on the mirror.\n\nYou write like a boy whose sex life is best described as "ambidextrous".
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Here's the BEST advice you'll ever get. The most POPULAR people, both male and female, are NOT always the BEST ones PERIOD, or the best for YOU. Sometimes they ARE, but don't count on it. Don't wish for things too hard, you might GET them.\n\nOther than that, just be yourself, try to stay well-groomed, literate, well informed,  be nice, smile and let things happen as they WILL. If HE's interested and has ANY brains at all,  he will let you know. If he's SMART, he will soon recognize that you ARE being yourself instead of just being 'popular', that you are literate, and that you take care of yourself, stay informed, and seem to be  nice and pleasant.\nGet it?
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you can't. A physical attraction to someone is not something you can control,it's in your brain chemistry. The best thing to do is find someone who doesn't make you compete with their past. You are better than that and I don't even have to know you to say that. No woman deserves to be treated this way.
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Well HELLO Mister P! "Dated beneath you" maybe you are more conceited than you think, or just a lazy typer.  Assuming that you are honest to the best of your ability, any woman who gives you a chance will see the real you.
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Not like? Nothing. A man is a man. If he is nice to me then what does it matter. He may look shorter than me because I just love my heels, but if that was a problem he would not have chatted me up in the first place. There could be advantages. If we were dancing and he was really shorter than me his face might be almost in my cleavage. Nice for both of us. And anyway if the date goes well we could maybe end up horizontal so the problem would go away. Being a bit selfish I would not take off my heels whatever else gets taken off. Just one of my little ways. I suppose what all this means is we chose our partners, dates and friends by what and who they are, not stature or appearance only. I notice in the newspapers some really tall lovely girls with very, very short guys. Just coincidence but the short guys all appear to be millionaires, so maybe I am wrong after all, but it works for me. Joan.
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First of all, you need to realize that each woman wants or needs something a little different in her man...we don't all want or need the same things. You must also know that the qualities we are looking for in a man must be genuine, and not there just to impress us...which means that you can't read an answer on this list, and conform yourself to that answer in order to impress a woman..but you can look for suggestions, and work on certian aspects of your personality in order to improve yourself as a human being.\nMy perfect man would be dependable...and truely interested in me.  He would be the type who actually takes the tree down from the attic when he said he would...a man who does what he says he will do.  My man would call me often to tell me that he can't wait until we are together again.  My man would be touchy feely...not afraid to hold hands, hug, or kiss in public.  He would look up from across the room and give me that smile meant for only me.  He would walk in at the end of the day and say...this was the worst day at work ever...and I've never been so tierd...but it's worth it now because I'm here with you.  He would have a sense of humor as well as a positive attitude.  He'd be willing to learn new things with me, and he's also going to want to be with his own friends from time to time.  He will know that he can trust me with his life, and I will know that I can trust him with mine.  Of course there are a few other things here and there, but when all of this comes together, then the romance is there....and obviously the personality is there and the looks just won't mean as much as some people think they do.
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In terms of better than me, yes I like someone who is out of my league. Some guys like to be the dominant ones. For example, some want to make more money, have the better job, be taller, be older, and a lot of other things compared to girls. Others may be intimidated or just scared of rejection. I fall in that  category. I would say, personally, that so long as your personalities fit, that is all that matters. Good luck.\n\nYou also asked what shall I do. What you can do past being yourself and not flirting, is oging up and confessing. Direct way to find out if there is a possibility or not.
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Realize that you can't be outstanding in all areas. The prettiest girl may be poor at math, the richest girl may have uncorrectable teeth; the athletic girl may not be any fun at a formal dance party.\n\nEvaluate yourself honestly. You have some good features and some good talents, even if you wish you had more, or other ones. What are they? \n\nDevelop friendships with those who appreciate your good qualities. befriend those who are lacking in those qualities, or who have talents that are 'complementary'-- that is, theirs fill in for ones you don't have, and vice versa.\n\nGet into the habit of thankfullness. Everything goes better when we are thankful for what we have. This, more than anything else, will keep us from looking back in later years and saying "I wasted my life."\n\nGive credit where credit is due. God made you. He is not finished with you yet! Let Him work, and He will turn you into a trophy of grace, a shining example of His craftsmanship. As you fulfil the role He intends for you, you will experience fulfillment you cannot yet imagine!!!