What medical condition could cause a man to have problems reaching an orgasm?
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Circulation problems such as vascular disease. Heart problems. Diabetes. Many mental biological disturbances. Hormonal imbalances.
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It's not an uncommon problem but it would be best to seek  professional help. Check with your doctor or there are  men's health centres that specialise in these areas.
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What causes erectile dysfunction (ED)?\nSince an erection requires a precise sequence of events, ED can occur when any of the events is disrupted. The sequence includes nerve impulses in the brain, spinal column, and area around the penis, and response in muscles, fibrous tissues, veins, and arteries in and near the corpora cavernosa.\n\nDamage to nerves, arteries, smooth muscles, and fibrous tissues, often as a result of disease, is the most common cause of ED. Diseases—such as diabetes, kidney disease, chronic alcoholism, multiple sclerosis, atherosclerosis, vascular disease, and neurologic disease—account for about 70 percent of ED cases. Between 35 and 50 percent of men with diabetes experience ED.\n\nLifestyle choices that contribute to heart disease and vascular problems also raise the risk of erectile dysfunction. Smoking, being overweight, and avoiding exercise are possible causes of ED.\n\nAlso, surgery (especially radical prostate and bladder surgery for cancer) can injure nerves and arteries near the penis, causing ED. Injury to the penis, spinal cord, prostate, bladder, and pelvis can lead to ED by harming nerves, smooth muscles, arteries, and fibrous tissues of the corpora cavernosa.\n\nIn addition, many common medicines—blood pressure drugs, antihistamines, antidepressants, tranquilizers, appetite suppressants, and cimetidine (an ulcer drug)—can produce ED as a side effect.\n\nExperts believe that psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem, and fear of sexual failure cause 10 to 20 percent of ED cases. Men with a physical cause for ED frequently experience the same sort of psychological reactions (stress, anxiety, guilt, depression). Other possible causes are smoking, which affects blood flow in veins and arteries, and hormonal abnormalities, such as not enough testosterone
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Let's start with a scientific fact.\n\nYour friend is NOT sexually weak or unresponsive because of excessive masturbation.  Extensive (one could almost say excessive) research over the last several decades has clearly shown that masturbation improves sexual capability, and certainly does not damage it (fertility increases in males who frequently masturbate, sperm count goes up, and erections can be maintained longer, giving greater pleasure to partners  -- furthermore frequent masturbation prevents Prostatis and appears to also significantly cut the possibility of Prostate cancer though that last hasn't been replicated enough times in research to be proven yet).\n\nThe best thing you can do to help your friend is to start by disabusing him of the notion that his masturbation is hurting him, it isn't.  That is just a stupid, reactionary, left-over hyper-religious myth.  So get him over it.\n\nThen start exploring the reason for his impotence.  It could be psychological (depression causes impotence frequently, for example).  It could be mild diabetes.  Etc.  It also could be psychological.  Fear and anxiety alone can cause such problems.  It is also possible that he simply has no interest in functioning with women.  He may feel he has to have such interest due to societal pressures, but not have the natural desire.  He may be asexual (almost 1% of males prefer to be) or he may be homosexual.  In neither case is there a problem at all -- it just is what he is, if you are truly his friend, you can also help him get past the societal trash on those issues -- if indeed by happenstance those are the issues.\n\nDo not hesitate to contact me by direct email, or have him contact me by direct email.  I would be glad to listen, to talk, and perhaps to help, if I can.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
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well in my experience I can become aroused and quickly finish , but if I hold back at the plateau point and steady myself I can maintain arousal indefinetly and now in fact I sometimes can't orgasm ..so that is frustrating..I have faked orgasms before soley because I was tired from pumping..anyway I would say average guy yes and the more inexperience the shorter the time he will last..good luck with that..you can learn techniques that you can use to help him..
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this is a common problem, the early ejaculation, there some exercises he can do to prevent that , and about the erection, i think he should see a doc., it might be nothing like stress or something or the doc. might give him some meds., is he taking any kind of medications, because sometimes blood pressure meds. can cause a weak erection. Good Luck
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Many Causes\nSome Physical....Others Physcological.\nWhat is Impotence?\nImpotence is defined as the consistent inability to achieve and maintain an erection sufficiently to permit satisfactory sexual intercourse. Many men experience erectile failure one or more times during their adult lives (usually due to anger, Stress or drinking) but this clears up quickly and no treatment is needed\n\nWhat is the difference between Impotence and erectile dysfunction?\nNothing except the more modern politically correct term is erectile dysfunction, especially in the US. The rest of the world, especially Europe and Asia still use the term Impotence to describe this condition.\n\nIs Impotence a disease?\nNo, it is usually more of a symptom or side effect of something else. That "something else" can be quite serious, even life threatening in some cases, so the cause of Impotence needs to be determined and corrected if possible. This obviously means you should let your family doctor know if you are one experiencing erectile problems. So even if you have tried some initial treatments without success, talk to your doctor about other treatment possibilities. This is often a good time for referral to an Impotence specialist, usually a urologist.\n\nIs Impotence treatable?\nYes, often the underlying cause can be determined with a few simple tests and in some cases corrected. Even if the cause is not correctable (i.e. high blood pressure, prostate cancer, atherosclerosis, diabetes, etc) nearly every man can have his erectile dysfunction treated and satisfactory erections restored.\n\nTreatments vary depending on the type of Impotence encountered. For patients with psychological Impotence (10-15% of total) the most common and successful treatment is sexual or psychological counselling. This is especially effective if the patient has a cooperative partner willing to attend counselling with him. In men with physical or medical Impotence(85-90%), the most common and successful treatment in order of popularity are oral drugs, penile injection, vacuum devices and penile implants.\n\nHow common is Impotence?\nUnfortunately, very common. A recent study done in Massachusetts showed that 52% of men between ages 40-70 had some degree of erectile difficulty. It is estimated that between 20 and 30 million men in the US have Impotence, only a small percentage of them have yet to seek or receive treatment.\n\nWhat about my partner?\nImpotence or erectile dysfunction is not just a man's problem. It's a "couple's disorder." Involving your partner and discussing how this is affecting both of you is very important and often leads to better communication and understanding between couples and certainly to easier solutions.\n\nIsn't most Impotence an emotional or psychological problem?\nNot really. While it is true that problems with erections can cause great psychological stress for the man and the partner of the man who has it, the underlying cause of the problem in up to 90% of cases is a physical or medical one, like diabetes, heart disease or high blood pressure.\n\nWhat kinds of medical problems cause Impotence?\nThings like hypertension or high blood pressure, coronary artery or heart disease, "hardening of the arteries" (arteriosclerosis), hyperlipidemia, elevated cholesterol levels, diabetes, stroke, neurologic problems like multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease and spinal cord injury, are the most common causes. Surgery or radiation to correct cancer on the pelvic area (colon, bladder, prostate) can cause Impotence. Also many medications, especially blood pressure medications and anti-psychotic drugs, can cause erectile dysfunction or Impotence as a side effect.\n\nWhat should I do if I want help or need information?\nTalk to your family doctor or specialist about your problem. You can also access valuable information on this website by emailing your questions to our Impotence expert- just follow the prompts.
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I would suggest a website such as Wikipedia for more information, as there are many causes and "cures" for it.\n\nIn brief, impotence is either physical or psychological. The way a penis becomes erect is a rush of blood to the organ, which then causes the penis to become rigid to aid during intercourse. Impotence is the condition when this blood does not stay in the penis for long enough, or the inability for any blood to get to the penis in the first place.\n\nPhysical\nIf the impotence is caused by a physical problem, then the cause can be disease or infection, a blockage of the veins, or some other restriction. The cure would be to provide medication or surgery to help the symptoms reverse.\n\nPsychological\nSometimes the problem is caused through the brain. Maybe the man does not feel up to it, is tired, or feels insecure. These and other similar reasons can impact on his ability to "perform". The way to cure this is to help the man through his emotional problems and allow him to feel safe and secure again.
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This is perfectly and normal . The stimulation of the prostate during sex is what caused the ejaculation , the prostate is what is known as the male clitoris and is the reason that you can reach orgasm at all . So enjoy .
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Anorgasmia can result from many causes including stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, worry, guilt, fear of painful intercourse, fear of pregnancy, the undesirability of a partner, the undesirability of a setting, and the use of alcohol, prescription or illicit drugs.
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Maybe you are masturbating to hard and too often, I would recommend you see a urologist about this.
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Lack of control--it is not a common condition esp younger men and should be looked into by a family doctor. Could also be that the man is only concerned with himself( not true premature ejaculation) and not bothering to wait if woman or partner being satisfied.  Although some men may balk at seeing a doctor concerning this for feel embarrassed to admit this problem necessary to rule out it being related to a physical ailment that can easily be remedied but if my man had this problem my understanding would be limited and I'd insist he seek help for there is definite real help for this condition for not a permanent condition or else... .
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A great movie to watch that will be very helpful!\nhttp://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8271947477140788534&q=men%27s+health&hl=en\n\n\n\nOriginal Article:http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/premature-ejaculation/DS00578 \n \nPremature ejaculation\nIntroduction\nMany men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it's probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.\nPremature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.\nIn some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.\nNumerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation.\nSigns and symptoms\nThere's no medical standard for how long it should take a man to ejaculate. The primary sign of premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs before both partners wish in the majority of sexual encounters, causing distress for one or both partners. The problem can occur in all sexual situations, including masturbation, or may only occur during sexual encounters with another person.\nDoctors often classify premature ejaculation as either primary or secondary:\n·Primary premature ejaculation. You have primary premature ejaculation if you've experienced the problem for as long as you've been sexually active.\n·Secondary premature ejaculation. You have secondary premature ejaculation if you developed the condition after having had previous, satisfying sexual relationships without ejaculatory problems.\nCauses\nPremature ejaculation is considered a psychological problem in some cases. Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences, especially those in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered, may establish a lifelong pattern. If you grew up in a family that considered sex dirty or sinful, you may also have developed guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters.\nHowever, biological factors also may cause premature ejaculation. Some studies comparing men who experience premature ejaculation with those who don't have found differences between the two groups in certain hormone levels and in the sensitivity of their genitalia.\nRisk factors\nVarious factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:\n·Impotence. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently experience impotence. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to rush through sexual encounters.\n·Health problems. If you have a medical concern that causes you to feel anxious during sex, such as a heart problem, you may have an increased likelihood of hurrying to ejaculate.\n·Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.\n·Certain medications. Rarely, drugs that influence the action of chemical messengers in the brain (psychotropics) may cause premature ejaculation.\nWhen to seek medical advice\nTalk with your doctor if you ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish during most sexual encounters. The problem is common, and although you may feel you should be able to fix it on your own, you may need medical treatment to achieve and sustain a satisfying sex life.\nScreening and diagnosis\nDoctors diagnose premature ejaculation based on a detailed interview about your sexual history.
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It's very possible.  Orgasms are due to firing of synapses in the brain and are usually caused by stimulation, but don't have to be.  It's very possible to have spontaneous orgasms, though it's rare.
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Sex will be a little harsher, and he may have trouble reaching a climax. But if he had to have it done and you love him, you'll get over it. Try not to let him know how much better it used to be, because he can't get it back, and it'll just make him feel awful. You'll get used to it after a while. \n\nOn the other hand, if he was uncomfortable before because of his medical problem, it should be better for both of you now. WARNING: You must avoid making him get erections until the area is completely healed - probably at least a month. Getting aroused will hurt terribly - so hands off for now!
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First it sounds like you are really stressed out about it. I think life would suck if I couldn't have an orgasm so I feel for you honey. I think if you want a drug, call your doctor and make an appointment. Try different positions, different lubricants, and different toys. Something else that might be causing your inability to orgasm without yourself involved is if you masturbate a lot. If you feel comfortable with it, google orgasm problems and read some articles about it. That might help you figure out what it is.
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Retarded or delayed ejaculation.\nAnd probably, a happy sexual partner.