Why is it guys cheat?why dont you just dump the girl.?
148635
Most men enjoy cheating...they enjoy the thrill. As well as they may still like the girl that they are with but want another girl as well. Instead of leaving the girl they hope that the girl they are cheating on is a forgiving one as some girls are. That way they get the best of both worlds.
261630
Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!
401028
Nope.  Never would either.  It's just immature and silly. Really there's no excuse EVER for it.  If things aren't going well you work on them, and if it's not gonna work out, the mature thing to do is end the relationship first, then move on.  Another thing - when you're committed to someone you don't even get into situations where cheating "just happened".  That's just b.s.
13938
Men cheat but women do to....honestly it's human nature we want what we cant have......and yeah guys get caught more because men don't have the brains....lol
182356
I was cheated on once in my life and it wasn't a fun experience. I believe women and men cheat for different reasons - guys usually cheat for sex or different sex then what they are getting, and women usually need more of an emotional attachment. This is totally my opinion and not necessarily true in every situation.  I also believe that once somebody cheats and a trust is broken, it is very hard to remain in that relationship and be happy.
716899
Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
420606
I know everyone has told you dump him but your best thing to do is find out why he did it so it wont happened again with an other guy.\nTake a guys point of view we cheat only cause there is something missing ,could be attention or too much of it could be he wants to know if you are the one unless you're like 15 you both have probably had other partners so take it like yeah he cheated but what was the reason and learn from it you may find that you agree with his reason .Then maybe he is just an ass and don't deserve you as for your ex friend she has to be knocked in the head and told the #1 rule in friendship never with your friends boyfriend or girlfriend and never with your friends sister.LOL i know that one from experience.OK take it light and I hope it works out for you .
317551
Is it okay for guys to cheat??  Is it okay for your girlfriend to cheat??  Why not?  You are doing it.  Actually I hope she already knows what you are doing and decided she is going to do the same thing.  Hats off to her!!!\nAnd remember...ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!!
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
717480
He has someone already so leave well enough alone. If he would cheat on her with you, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you? If his relationship is on the rocks it's only a matter of time before it ends so sit it out & wait, don't let you be the reason for their split.
493983
#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
580164
the desire to find a guy that fills it up instead of beating around the bush. Cheating on you is no more sex, no time for you, total daily routine change for time with new man and none for you, dressing diferent, different perfume, attitude, and kum stains on underwear not arent yours.
602250
I think its just as hard for a man to end a relationship as it is for a girl. Depending on the reasons behind the break up. If it was that easy for him to move on, maybe it was something he already had planned. Look into it.
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.