soooooo confused please help!!!?
141869
say she likes him... it's called honesty!!!
118364
I'd say...he's confused.  Chances are he's gay/bi and not wanting to admit it to himself yet.  You are a guilty pleasure to him that he doesn't want to admit or confess to.  In his heart, he's hoping the feelings will just go away, but when you are together, he can't stop them.  Go slow and give him time and space.  Let him figure things out on his own.  And protect your own heart too.  Don't get hurt in all of this if you can help it.
125853
Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
1051737
ummmmmmmm...... no idea?!?!?
442146
ladies you are a riddle wrapped in an enigma. \nWanna cut through the confusion? Say what you mean and stick by it, lose the whole womans right to change her mind at the drop of a hat shtick! you're driving us fellas crazy with that.
754911
Huh?? Omg I'm so confused......\n\n\n\n\nOw.
719107
Your confusion is a sign that you physical attraction is messing with your ability to make good decisions.  If this relationship is a mistake, then break it off.  Apologize to the boy, tell him you're sorry that you let things get out of hand, that you should have known better.\n\nThen be careful - this kind of thing is a message to you that you aren't ready for relationships like this yet.  Find a boy that you are friends with.  If you can talk to him normal for a few months, you might have a future boyfriend.  But no kiss/hold hands/saying I love you.  That's making a promise you're not ready to keep.\n\nAnd, since you are thinking about it, no sex until you have enough $$$ to have a baby.  When you have a plan as to what you would do if you were pregnant, then you are ready for sex.
341416
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
307589
Bit confused, the question.
774948
seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
507921
I am confused....what is happening?
1113680
Well ask yourself why you feel weird around him. When and if you figure it out, acutally sit down and tell him how you feel. It may just be a simple misunderstanding and things can be normal again.
242465
Confusion is not good. :) I can tell you that now, it's not good. You have to know for sure or not know. \n\nThis one is a hard one. All i can say is if he says that he loves you and if you really love him, you will trust him. Trust is a very very important key in a binding relationship.  I am thinking that he has told you about his past because he wanted to be honest with you which is very noble. It sounds like you have a little bit of jealousy going on your behalf. Be careful with that because that can cause problems in a relationship. You have to buckle down and learn to trust your boyfriend. If it really troubles you talk to him about it, if he loves you and if you are really good friends, then he will listen with understanding and love. If he gets angry with you then you know that there is a real problem\n\nI hope this helps. Good luck to you
278938
there are a lot of different answers but girls can be really weird sometimes and throw alot of us guys on a spin of confused emotions and thoughts, but youd probably get a better answer from a girl.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
566419
WTF? Read your question, it does not make sense sweetie
1111320
Yes!  I feel confused and befuddled!  And you?