how can i have good communication with people?
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TRY NOT TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE TALKING. GIVE OTHER PEOPLE A CHANCE TO SAY SOMETHING. LISTEN TO WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING, CAREFULLY THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU R GOING TO SAY BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING THAT COULD REALLY HURT SOMEONE'S FEELINGS, OR CAUSE AN HONEST MISUNDERSTANDING. BUT THE KEY TO GOOD COMMUNICATION IS GOOD UNDERSTANDING. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS NEW PIECE OF ADVICE.
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i think: communicate with other people in the world and make a big number of good friends like you.
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Learning to speak well and spell well would be a good start...\n\nLook over the many profiles on Yahoo!...\n\nLook for someone who has similar interests as you have, and write to them and tell them about yourself and try to make friends that way...\nLook for the Yahoo Member Directory...\nThat should help...
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*dont talk to much but just enough to make them want to know more about you.\n*present yourself respectfuly.\n*dont discuss politics or religion if you dont know enough about the person to know if your affending them.\n*dont show irritation.\n*try not to be very repetative about anything.\n\n    just my personal do's and don'ts!\n                 good luck!!
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Do self pep talks at home. Use a mirror. Say hi to people.\nSmile. break the ice by asking questions like do you have the time?or comment on something that you like about them-clothing,hair,eyes,etc... Make it a goal to greet/meet someone different everyday. You can do it!!!
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best way to be interesting to others is to ask them questions about themselves. People love talking about their interests - its like showing pictures of your kids to others. Goo book by John Maxwell titled "How to win with people" is pretty good to. Recommends giving out compliments like candy. People love to get a pat on the back but has to be sincere.
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it important to have good relationships period.\nbeing able to communicate well with people is one of the most\nvaluable skills you can posess.\nit allows you to communicate, your thoughts but also to intergrate within your environment.
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Depending on our situation meeting people to become friends with can be very easy or extremely difficult. Clubs, local organizations activities, schools, church, libraries, book stores, gyms, jogging, parks, beach, lakes, malls, etc. can all be places to meet new people. Once you’ve met them talking and keeping the person interested is probably the most important thing.\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. For other topics to talk about you can search the internet about things that you, or the people you will be talking with, are interested in. If you like games, perhaps search for the latest information about the x-box 360 games, pc games, ps3, revolution, etc. If you like tv-shows, movies, books, pets, etc. Jokes are also great and the internet has lots of them. Make sure to ask simple, friendly questions about the person.\n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful to
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Be a likable person & treat people the way you would want to be treated, be interesting and be a good listener, don't be a show off or know-it-all. Follow through with promises and call people back in a timely manner. Have manners and be courteous.
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If u want to know people,just speak to them.Be friendly with them.Most importantly trust them and also also make them beleive that u r a trustworthy fellow.
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Here are a few tips:\n\nTo speak clearly, use complete words, like "Yes," instead of "Yeah" or "Mmm-hmmm."\n\nRepeat a question before you answer it.  This helps to clarify that you understand a person's question before you answer the question.\n\nExample: \n\n**Other person says, "Do you have any clips?"\n\n**Then, you repeat their question to clarify, "Are you looking for paper clips?"\n\n**This will help them clarify, \n"Yes," \nor... \n"No, I'm looking for hair clips."\nor.. \n"No, I'm looking for CHIPS."\n\n\n\nUse phrases like "please" and "thank you."  This helps you to appear friendly and polite.\n\nIf you must put a person on hold, don't just say, "hold on," or "hang on," say:\n\n"May I put you on hold for a moment?" or\n"Can you hold, please?"\n\nSmile while you speak.  This can be heard in your voice, and people will be more patient with you if you sound happy.\n\nAllow the other person to stop speaking before you start speaking.  If you must interrupt, do so by saying, "Ma'am?" or "Sir?" before you start speaking over the other person.\n\nPractice a lot.  Speak on the phone as much as you can.  Also, when you have free time, try to listen to other people speaking on the phone, as long as they don't mind you doing so.  I've learned a lot about communication just by observing other people at work speaking with clients.\n\nIf you are still in need of better communication skills, I suggest taking a speech/communications class.  This can help in many situations, phone or otherwise.
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Ask lots of questions and take and show a true interest in the answers. Think of it as learning something from other's viewpoints! It can be about anything you want if you're asking the right questions. Is your future mom-in law a great cook? Ask her how she chooses vegetables at the market. Is she a great dancer? Ask her how she was introduced to music and if she thinks dancing is good for mental health, etc. Forget about what you have to say though, because talking to hear your own voice is NOT good communication, even in the small talk arena! The right and appropriate words will come to you when you listen! Just listen openly, and ask lots of question. You will be seen as very wise and kind in doing so and make a great impression. \n\nThe best conversationalist is the one who is the greatest listener. Very few words of your own are needed. :-) But in doing this, they'll want to know all about you! So you'll have your chance to talk --- but still focus mostly on listening...if you want to be a great small -- or big -- talker!
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Ask people questions about themselves.  Most people like to talk about themselves.  Ask about music, sports, books, etc.  If you ask people questions about themselves you will appear more friendly.  Also, listen attentively to the answers - that will make you seem more friendly.  The answers they give will be clues to more things to talk about.  Before you know it you will feel more comfortable with conversation.
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talk with an attitude.\ncreate a positive impact.\nhear before you speak !!
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Depending on our situation meeting people to become friends with can be very easy or extremely difficult. Clubs, local organizations activities, schools, church, libraries, book stores, gyms, jogging, parks, beach, lakes, malls, etc. can all be places to meet new people. Once you’ve met them talking and keeping the person interested is probably the most important thing.\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask simple friendly questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice.\n\nFor other topics to talk about you can search the internet about things that you, or the people you will be talking with, are interested in. If you like games, perhaps search for the latest information about the x-box 360 games, pc games, ps3, revolution, etc. If you like tv-shows, movies, books, pets, etc. A few jokes from time to time can also be a great ice breaker.\n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful today as it was when it was written.\n
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listen more,  develope your listening skills,  people don't usually want ideas or solutions... all they want is too be heard and know that someone heard them... which builds trust and support and you didn't even have to give any input... just listen... \n\nfollow up with something like... so you would like to improve your relationships skill?    How would a good relationship look to you?\n\nbasic stuff...
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talk to people in a friendly way\nget out into the community and make a presence\nbe positive in your talk and comments\n\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!