what do you do when friends get in fights?
139095
Let it ride out and don't take sides. Your maturity may rub off on them.
516556
find out what the problem is, talking to each of them,\nand try and mediate. even if they don't talk to one another, maybe as their friend they will be willing to work it out with you in mind.
424688
Well this is going to sound really cliche, but if they are hurting your feelings then they probably aren't true friends.  But I bet you they don't have many other friends either, and they don't want to lose you as a friend.  \n\nIt's hard to know exactly what to say without knowing specifically what the problem is, but you might try saying "could you please stop" then explain why what they are doing is making you upset.  Here comes another cliche: if they don't stop hurting your feelings then you need to find new friends.
1075360
I think that your friends should stop fighting, this guy is not worth it. Let them know how important thier friendship is to you and that you dont want to lose any of them because of a stupid boy. If you dont want to be caught in the middle of this fight for ever I suggest that you tell your friends to lose the guy and continue with their friendship. After all little fights like these strengthen friendships. Good Luck
664340
This sounds like something that'll pass. Sometimes what you need to do is just not react to eiher of them. not pass their notes, nothing. Just let them fight and sooner or later it'll pass. Also getting them in the same place where there's a lot of fun being had also works, because when they;re having fun they're interacting without thinking about it so they don;t theink about the fight they're in.
638632
try being friends with him/her for a while and if you guys still fight just break if off and dont start off trying to bestfriends right away
566738
You're contradicting yourself... you have a friend but you can't talk to that person because you're not friends? You had war... ahh! It's human nature to fight. Just wait it out a little. Let the anger pass. Later when you both are calm, talk about it, say sorry if need be. Friends are treasures.
1156366
how do u start a bum fight?
518818
unfortunately nothing.  this is something he has to want to do and the more you guys bug him about it the more he is going to fight you.  go to the party and have a good time if he comes on later and asks you how was it tell him he should have been there...
468175
nothing. be a good friend and respect what they have between each other. don't try to be with someone that is already with someone else. there are a lot of people out there, why fight over someone especially if your friend is dating him?
91336
If it bothers u that much get new friends!! Or u could beat them at their own game.
55670
Punch them before they know what happens! Then tell them when they stand up that you thought they were someone else!
1171540
When you say "snaps at you a lot", did that happen alot in one time you were together?  or does it happen often?  Either way, if that person truly is a friend - talk to them when they are calm and let them know how you feel. "When you do ______, it makes me feel ________." Tell them that you won't stick around if it keeps happening and let them do what they need to do.  Don't be a "punching bag".... follow through if they continue to snap at you.
353421
Just listen, don't say much unless you REALLY need to defend yourself. Wait till they cool down and THEN discuss your opinion. I've found this is the best way to handle this situation. Because after you let them cool down they are MUCH more likely to agree with you.
628027
Let the idiots fight it out. No place for a girl to get in the middle.  As nice as it may seem. Leave, fighting doesn't prove anything. Now if one of them stops to come after you because he notices that you left. Then he is obviously the winner.
588034
I've never been so proud of one of my friends as I was the day one of my girl-friends decided not to fight a girl who was after her. The girl came up and picked a fight, to which my friend did not want, and thus decided not to get involved. The girl punched her in the face three times, spliting open her eye brow, but my friend just took it and didn't lift a finger. The girl gave up, walked away, and my friend went to the police station. My friend had a restraining order put on the girl and she was on probation for quite some time. The girl never bothered her again.\nI suggest you walk away. There's nothing good about violence, so it's better to just not get involved.
330484
ask them whats going on... if they ditch you again, get new friends!