What can I do to get my boyfriend to understand how I feel and try to save our relationship?
152353
you need to be honest with him. open up to him dont lead him on if the relatoinship is going down hill and u want to save it you need to tell him how you feel and what you want to work on. its better to tell the truth than to lie and lead him on, unless he knows its in a runt. anyways just open and be honest. remember communication is the key to a relationship, thats why so many people cheat on their loved ones cause they can up and front tell them they are happy anymore put yourself in his shoes, how would you want to be talked to bout this,, really think bout that good luck
1038823
I am in the same situation honey.  I would say to be completely honest with him, and be ready to compromise.  The best way to get through this is to talk with him about how you feel, and then try to find a solution together that suits both of you.  It may still be hard, but it will be easier if there are a few things you can both agree on.  The other thing you need to ask yourself is what is really bothering you?  Are you upset because you feel he is ignoring his resposibility to you, or do you think that you may be insecure about your relationship and worried that he's doing more?  Once you figure out exactly why you are upset, it will be easier to fix.
153977
you suck it up and find a constructive way to express your feelings/frusrations.  if you dont let him know how he is coming across, it will just build resentment and he possibly has no idea it is like this.  if he is aware, then throw up your hands and say to hell with it.
580014
If you've been together 2 1/2 years and you don't feel as though you're being heard, you need to tell him as plainly as you've told us how you feel. He may not realize how you feel or that perhaps he hasn't listened as well as he might have. In that case, you both have a chance to make a fresh start at better communication. However, if this is something that you've brought up with him before and nothing has changed, it's time to quit the fairytale dreaming of how beautiful it COULD be 'if only.....' and accept the fact that he doesn't respect or value you enough to actually hear or care. This scenario will NOT get better. How is a girl to choose? By knowing that what you feel and have to say to him is just as important as what he says to you. It boils down to respect...does he have respect for you?
1138297
I mean you need to tell him how you feel before things get any more serious than they are already are, do you understand? Than you will regret it. You are doing the right thing by telling him that you would like to get to know him a little better. I mean, if he takes it personal than he takes it personal not to be mean, but sometimes people have to understand if you don't want them than you don't want them. They should leave it to that. But I hope that you build up your guts and tell him how you feel before his feelings get any stronger.
297797
I've talked with girls who say they wish us guys came with a users manual. We can be hard to read sometimes. Try this. Look into his eyes. Do they lock onto you when you walk into the room, or do they dart around? Does he treat other girls like he does you? The greatest tool in knowing how someone feels is communicating with them. Find a quiet place where you're alone. Ask him what he's feeling about you. Give him time, and he'll open up if he's in love with you.
413483
My guess is you have already won his heart and that is why you are in a relationship with him already.  I'm sure he is feeling just as bad about the misunderstanding as you are.  Take the initiative and make the first contact to resolve the issue and talk it out, you'll both feel better.  Misunderstandings in relationships are for learning about each other.  Remember the best part, you get to kiss and make up later!  Good luck!
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
1137100
Just relax and think about how much you care for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should make you feel like loving him too
468739
Hi!,\nIt sounds like you would like your boyfriend to be more open and to communicate his thoughts more. If he does not open up and communicate what he is thinking, feeling or doing you would be left to think many things.\nMy first thought would be, has he always been of this particular nature, that is not open, or not very communicative? If so love him as he his.\nMy second thought is, you would like to have a partner that is open and communicative. Perhaps that is how you are (open and communicative), and you have that recipricating need. It would not be healthy heart trying to guess what another person is thinking. We are so often incorrect to try and guess what a person is thinking. What is, is, can be a simple thought. A person who thinks less could be more at peace, at least not so stressed. Try it. Try and be more like him, since you wish perhaps him to be more like yourself. Good Luck
474369
Show your real feelings to him. Tell him often that you care and love him so much. Do things that you think he likes. Always accompany him especially when he have problems, never leave him alone so i'm sure he would realize how much you really love him...
183482
Ask him what is it he feels low for. When he is explaining it to you, start kissing him madly. After that, tell him that you love him whatever happens!\n\nFollow it. It will work!
287168
First of all, try to indentify your problem. Why can you not tell him your feeling? What can you or he do to change it? Is it because you are so shy or he has something that makes you afraid to express yourself?\nThen you have to fix it.\nA guy can feel special in many ways. Sports, clothes, movies... find out what he likes and talk about it. Maybe you and him can go out and do stuff that he likes (of course you enjoy it, too).\nIt is very much up to you to make your boyfriend feel special. If you call him "boyfriend", then you should know him well enough, shouldn't you?
8823
Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
834327
In love and relationship's matters,you need to be honest and sincere and straight.Tell him directly what you think or what you are expecting from him;if you will have a relationship with him.Lack of communication is the cause, that many relationships end  in a completely  disaster.Good luck.
533101
Just be honest and tell him how you feel. Be alone with him and tell him that you really love him and don't want to loose him. Ask him to forgive you and to try to leave it all behind and start over but this time instead of fighting, you guys need to learn to communicate and take things slowly. Don't jump into conclusions because that just makes arguments. Remember communication and trust are the key things to a communication. Trust in him and be honest about how you feel. It will be okay. All couples go through this don't' take it to harsh.
492132
problem is him. Don't push it. Relationship is about trust. Letting him get to trust you little by little, in the little things then it will grow. Also just be yourself so he can trust the you he sees. Lastly, not everybody gets to say 'I love U' the same way. Maybe his may be different