Does sex feel good for the first time? Does it also feel good with a condum?
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My understanding is that for most girls, sex hurts the first time. There are things you can do to help though. You can use your fingers to stretch some, letting yourself get used to something being inside and holding it open. Toys are a good option that allow you to control what is good for you and what you're ready for. \n\nRegarding the condom - Yes, sex feels good with a condom. I agree with another poster, that sex feels even better without one too. Just make sure that if you're going without that you're prepared for any of the side effects pregnancy or disease. I wouldn't recommend going without until you know you're going to be with the person for the long haul.
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Not necessarily, I know it took me like over 10 times before it started feeling good. People are different though, it depends on you and who you are with. But I can promise you that after a while it feels damn good, one of the best feelings in the world.
85237
I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
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it all depends on who your having sex with..i have decided to wait because every time i do have sex!! IT HURTS!! so im just gonna wait until i find someone thats right for me(u know marrige) then maybe i will like it...(so dont just go around experimenting make sure you know what your doing and you love somone then maybe sex will feel GREAT!!!
1075249
The first few times one has sex should be rather uncomfortable or painful.It shouldnt hurt after a bit.
146014
Every girl is different. My friend told me hell yes, but in a good way. I say no, it didn't hurt. Sex is amazing, just be careful who your experiencing it with.
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Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
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It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
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well, i think that everyone has their first time, some people have it with the right one and some dont. i dont think that you have to be counting days to figure out when to have sex, just, deep in youre heart youll know, and if you have any doubts, then think it over.
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If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
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I'm not a guy, but I have to speak up here.  I think that down the road, you will regret having sex for the first time with someone who means nothing to you.  However, I suspect you don't believe that now.  My advice, if you go through with it, is use a CONDOM!
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Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
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YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
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It all depends on who it was with and how did you feel after the deed was done. Did you feel good, more mature, or just plain lousy
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It may hurt the first time but after that it shouldn't.  It is possible that you have a strong hymen that needs to be releasd by a surgical procedure.  Or you might be anticipating pain and not able to relax and lubricate well.  Try a longer foreplay and a lubricant like KY or something similar.  Take it slow so there is no tensing.  Good luck.
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for some it does for others not. If your having sex with a girl for the first time, the most important thing to do is take your time entering her. Also make sure her pu$$y is really wet. cuz if it's not it may hurt you too.