How do I tell her without hurting her?
153631
I don't think you can not hurt her. Be honest. Listen to what she has to say. Offer her support. Be there for her. Do not patronize her and not get to the point though. There is nothing that can ease the blow of losing a loved one.
240325
tell her your fellings
579834
Too bad we can't tell her just how much you don't deserve her. For all you know she could be the most loving person you ever met. If she isn't your type, just say so. Don't slur her, it isn't called for.
577013
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
187425
The easiest way is to tell her.  Those are 3 powerful words!\n\nDo little things for her.  Leave her notes in random places so she finds them throughout the day (in her jacket pocket, on the bathroom mirror, on her pillow, on the steering wheel).  Send her flowers at work.  Cook her favorite meal (or order it in).  I find the little things to speak the loudest:)
824099
it doesnt hurt to tell her. she might feel the same way
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
1019705
If you are going to tell a girl that you love her or that you really feel for her you should just tell her, make sure she's single and that she is close to you, not too close.  If she isn't dating that is the best way to do it...you don't want to confuse her...then she will get upset. Sit her down and tell her, ask her out, PLEASE don't get someone else to do it...that will embarrass you and her, it says you don't care enough to tell her and makes you look like a wuss.\nGood Luck i hope you get your girl
293582
tell her how you feel, best way out, always
396885
come onn.. tell her.. its the 3 hardest words to say... but u can do it
575690
You can`t ... If you don`t want to be friends you should be honest. But you will hurt her feelings.. good luck..\nGod bless <><
1095623
be confident go up to her and tell her
470442
assure her you are sorry and tell her your feelings, then u just have to wait. it takes time. worst thing you can do is push her too much
1187200
be as honest  with her as you have been with us...\nit may hurt for a moment..but in the end you discover a great friendship blooming out of your truthfulness...\n\nnot telling her, and avoiding her, will only lead to hurt for her and you.\nher, because she will always wonder why?\nand you, because you are carrying a secret, that would cause no harm to share...{guilt}
888693
Tell her the truth, otherwise you are going to get hurt like there is no tomorrow. A woman hates liars, especially ones who make a habit of it. So for your own safety, tell her the truth.
586309
Try to tell him without freaking him out.
1050807
If you're asking for a way to say that without hurting her, unfortunately there isn't one. Do it like pulling a band-aid. Anything you tell her will break her heart. Say it soon, so you aren't leading her on, and be ready for the question "Why not?", because it usually comes up. If you don't have a reason why not, are you sure it isn't worth a shot? Good luck with that, it's a hard situation for a nice guy to find himself in.\n\nIf you're not such a nice guy, just ask her if she can wait for six weeks because you're having a "flare-up". That'll do it!