I have an Aunt who I love more then my mom, I told her last night That My husband and I are moving to Vegas?
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She knows but she needs time to soak up all that information,and  she needs time to figure out how to tell you how much you will be missed.And she needs time to figure out how to apologize to you, then on top of all that she will then have to figure out how to let you go and grow up without it breaking her heart. Give her a break you just gave her a lot to think about and probably in a short amount of time. but alas i think things will work out sooner than you know, you have a very special Aunt. count your blessings.
702899
The best I can think of is too make sure you tell her how much you are looking forward to being a family with her.  Give her an idea of how you picture the future with her and you together with you two against the world.  You'll want to be more specific and personal then that, but the idea is to make sure she know that you want her to be with you and why for the rest of your life.
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If you really need to be together get the hotel room. But, I think it would be a GREAT gesture on your part to stay with your future mom in-law and abide by her rules. It would show her that you respect her and her rules. Plus it would only be for a few days. You can do it =)
425564
Sometimes with families you have the 'sponge' one that always relies on others to support them etc.  I didn't say that to be mean just pointing out an observation. I think your mother is looking out for you, she doesn't want you to have to give up what you have worked hard for to support somebodies elses decision she may consider wrong.  I don't know the history of your family, is this your aunts 5 baby or first?  Does she act responsible and is just caught in a bad situation at the time?  IF you give your aunt everything where are you going to be-what if tomorrow you find out you have a family after you have given your money away?  IS THE MONEY GOING TO HELP THE SITUATION OR PROLONG A PROBLEM???  if you give money how is it going to affect your relationship with your mother?\n\nBest of luck in your decision
865556
Mom in Law is experiencing a new life and as everyone else goes thru it, it'll come as being routine in time as well.  Things will settle down and she'll see the light again.  Give her a chance to live a little..... life's too short.  You sound a bit selfish, sorry to say. Most people WANT their inlaws out of their business. What's wrong with the brother fixing up her house? Nothing. Not to be critical but you remember how it is when you feel so alive when you first start dating someone? Well?  It's your mom in law!  She is feeling alive and beautiful.  She loves your children I'm sure and in a couple of months when the newness wears off she'll be back. :))))  Take care!
928664
I have been in a situation similar to yours, and I've found that the best remedy for this is to go on an adventure.  Being busy in a new city will help keep the depression away.  My vote is for Vegas, unless you are close with your cousin and you are sure you'll have a good time.\n\nI'm sorry about your daughter.  She obviously wants her parents to get back together and doesn't understand that that can't happen, so I think you should let her stay with her dad, and tell her she has your blessing to do so.  I'm not voting for staying home with your parents because it sounds like you're certain you'll feel uncomfortable.\n\nSo get away, and make the best of it.  Trust me, Christmas will be better next year, and even better the next.  Take care of yourself.
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I agree with the others who have responded i think you are over reacting.\nYou are probably right she wanted to spend her 18th with just family or at least as much of the day as possible.\n\nPull yourself together and go talk to her take her out for a fancy meal make it sorry for the fight before her birthday meal. appologise for the argument and ask her why you were not invited to the cake cutting etc.\nTell her you love her and think you are "in love with her" never confuse the TWO. love just means like when you say to your mom or gran i love you. but "I'm in love with you" means a whole lot more it means i love every little thing about you and I don't want to lose you out of my life.\nif you feel hurt then yes you are right to feel hurt, tell her that she hurt you she may not realise she did hurt you.\nthe only time feelings are wrong is never. how you feel is how you feel you have a right to those feelings. just talk to her.\n\ngood luck i hope it all works out for you.
772887
Damn, my man. Like you said, kudos to her for being honest enough to say something, but at the end of the day you gotta get away! If she said she has AIDS, would you be like 'well she told me the truth, I respect her honesty, so I'm going to stay with her'? Hell no!! My Aunt and Uncle had Hep, it damaged thier liver and they eventually died from health complications. No good. \n\nBest wishes, I know thats gotta be a difficult decision to have.
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for the 1st time i was but no for the 2nd and the 3rd so please wish me luck for the 4th and years after that...\n\nfor your case, i think you are very lucky, it means your mate's family is the nice one (like mine =) ) good luck then...
911302
im not sure about my family (aunts, uncles, exy) but my mom loves me. and i love her. my dad and mom broke up before i was born so all we had was each other.
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yikes.  what did she say that was so awful?\nmaybe it's okay to move and take some time.  she's family; you can always reconnect later.\nhaving an open conversation about what's going on, though, is far better than her just moving quickly and no one talkign about it.  try to stay friends!
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nothing much. just let her know that while you understand that she's the adult and is probably making the decision she thinks is best for everyone, you would appreciate it if she would listen to why you want to stay where you are and that you are really upset about this move. \nyou just have to be respectful or she won't listen at all. and if it doesn't work, i've heard colorado is really nice and moving is kinda fun and u can completly start over and be a diff. person if u want to. \ngood luck, and im sure ur mum is only trying to do the best thing.
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I have all my life especially if some one in my family is heart,My sister in law was in a coma in N.Y and I was in Missouri,I didn't have the funds to go there,and they told me she was not going to come out of the coma and the doctors said she was going to die,So I lay ed down and thought very hard about being with her and talking to her ,She woke up from her coma and asked my brother were I was? Because she was just talking to me and he said you have been in a coma and my brother is in Missouri.Till this day she swearers I helped her live.Of cause I also have been to alot of places just to look around I saw were we where going to live before we moved here and I described all of it though I had never been here with my body I love to fly.thats the best part.
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Tell her; and stand firm in your resolve to wait until you are married.  It is too bad that you had to learn the hard way that alcohol and casual sex are not all they are cracked up to be.  It sounds like you are basically a good girl.  Tell your mom, she will help you get through this.
774790
Are you speaking about being wed to a close relative? If so you will have to stay in the state you are in, please.
538360
pretty simple move with your husband and leave in-laws there!! why would in-laws go with you any way?? are you married to them also, or what- that was the weirdest question I've seen in a long time!!
501097
First, Im sorry that you are going through such a horrific experience. However, Your are comforting your mother in the best way possible. Telling her the truth helps her prepare and say and do the things she needs to before leaving this place. Your honesty will let her lay in peace and your love will keep her alive longer warm and happy!\n\nMy thoughts are are with you and your family! xoxox