What dose it really mean when a guy  says its not you its me?
155753
he means it is you...he just doesnt have the balls to say it.
149849
not sure. maybe he has an interest in you but because of his conflicting feelings with the other person he probably doesnt want to hurt you until he gets things straightened out.
387041
no its clear he is not talking about u but wana know about u. and is flirting with u. If u r hot so made him clear that I am hot and wat if I am shorty_lamy
714498
I think it means that he's trying to tell you that you love him more than he loves you and that you need to find someone else
1016216
He's not your boyfriend, he's someone elses boyfriend that talks to you every once in a while.
885652
He basically means he's not interested in YOU. \nTrust me, if he was, he would jump at the opportunity and hook up with you before someone else does. But he said it clearly, he's just not into you.
980421
They're trying to get the info for the guy. He obviously likes you but is afraid to talk to you himself, so he's sending his friends to find out more about you.
140830
It means that you (or him) are not ready yet, or one of you has not found the one for you (them).
1185884
he is not my relative\nhow would i know\nand if really someone knows y woulh he or she will give you u r not his relative
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
1057790
I don't think it means he hates you, just that he hass given up on going out of his way to say hi to you and everything b/c u just ignored him!
1047926
Yes I too have been told this at times and I too am the most down to earth person I know.\nIt is a very slight put down.\nIt is saying that you are odd, strange, out of the ordinary, different, peculiar.\nI would take it as a put down.\nI would from that point on assume that the person who said it was not really my friend and tuck it away in my mind.\n\nAlways listen to your feelings.\nThe fact that you asked that here means that you are bothered by it. And if you are bothered by it, it means that your inner voice is telling you that this person insulted you. The inner voice will never lie to you. Always trust your feelings. If it feels wrong, it IS wrong.
261432
(nothin wrong with you)(not being rude)may be he's ashamed of you. or he wants to make u jelous. its got to be one of 'em. Or Last: may be he found a new one?
871010
sounds like he does like you. usually if someone is asking that and they are not your friend yet then that means they are interested...\n\nor they are finding out for someone else but that rarely happens with guys
695650
That means this particular guy is a total loser. PLEASE make a better choice in guys. Use this guy as the example of a guy not to get involved with. A real man will be honest, respectful, caring, and considerate of your feelings.
890066
No. it means he likes me not you. But do me a favor and tell him I'm not gay, it will save us both some embarassment.
976423
It sounds like he suspects, but is not sure and that's why he is joking with you about going out (hints) and he might also have a crush on you and is trying to see how you react to his jokes.