what should i do if the girl that i love her refused my offer?
139508
It is hard when someone rejects you.  Take some time and be sad.  When you are ready, you'll find someone else and hopefully she will reciprocate.
596905
suck it up, have no fear, be confident. try to tell ur self that u have already won her heart and go for it tell her how u feel if she rejects take it like a man and move on, if she feels the same way ask her out..and yall can be together.
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
487395
Follow your heart. Do not give it more than she is giving it. Always give it your best from your heart, but not wind-up building castles in the air that she will not move into with you.
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
446543
get over it already and call her. if she says no what have you lost? and if she says yes, well good for you!\nevery man dies, but not every man lives. live a little
949040
Will you dump her already? Move on..she doesn't care about you and lol you think by saying no to her she's going to listen? You're not her father so let her live her life, if you control her, she's going to hate you if she ends up regreting. She knows there is are better things to see and do then to go home to be with you, it hurts but find another girlfriend...don't waste your years waiting!
402735
Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
1118136
You can't change her mind forcefully, just remind her that you're a good guy that she'd like to go out with. Don't pressure her, and give her plenty of time and space, and she might come around. Don't rest all your hopes on her, though. You'll just be setting yourself up for disappointment.\n\nGood luck!
331550
Just ask her.  she's no better than you are.  If she says no, at least you can move on.
533906
tell her how you feel. If worse comes to worse she'll reject you and you'll go to colledge and pick up another girl who loves you and won't be afraid to tell you. or she'll confess that she loves you too. \n\nbest of luck!
401909
Don't change a thing....keep talking to her as normal....when you know shes ready to be told you love her than go for that too....but just keep chill and stay the same
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
389113
Unfortunately..not until she is gone. We all make that mistake. If you really love her and she still loves you...GO GET HER. You can work it out. The main thing is YOU LOVE EACH OTHER...everything else is 'details'...and details CAN be worked out. Just be glad you realized it now and may have a chance to fix things. What's the worse thing that could happen? She could say 'no'. I think it's a chance you have to take. Be honest with her...and yourself.
478584
Well i guess you should wait for somemore time and get to know her better.By the way are you in love with her???\nIf yes its better you tell her that you love her.People sometimes lose their love cause they never tell that they are in love just because they are afraid of rejection.Well if you dont tell hr now that you love her you might regret it later.If she says no atleast you will know that she doesn't want to have a relationship with you.Atleast you will not have to guess all your life.
968138
Why does this situation have to be more complicated than it really is? If you want to know the truth, just ask her....ask her out to dinner or something, see what she says. If she says "no" then it wasn't meant to be, but you could be missing out on a beautiful thing....