I just met someone and i feel so much for her already , could it be too much?
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Have you gone out with many girls since your separation?  If not, then you are probably moving too fast, thinking too far in advance.  Slow it down.  Stay with the girl you like, but BE SURE TO GIVE HER TIME TO HERSELF.  That means a day or 2 apart at a time (phone is OK).  Otherwise you will feel "clingy" to her and all women hate needy/clingy guys, which could cause her to dump you.  \n\nYou have to control your emotions yourself.  That sounds funny, but it's true.  You have to think about how you feel, how your life is, factor in the good and bad possibilities of what could happen based on your actions, then choose what you feel are the best actions.  Control your emotions or you will lose her.\n\nI've been separated from my ex for 16 months, officially divorced for 6.  I've felt what you're feeling.  I've been back in the dating scene.  Take it slow.
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Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
546642
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.
1067385
you have every right to feel that way...next door becareful...really...why did you move in knowing she was next door...too close for me....be careful and good luck....
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You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
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My lady manages to make me feel like that all the time. When we talk on the phone, when we visit in person, and even when we webcast with each other. She has capivated my heart with her kindness and caring  as well as her honesty and openness. I cant put my finger on any single thing, but more on all of the little things in conjunction with one another.
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Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
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I think it is possible.  When I first met my wife, I fell head over heels in love with her.  She is everything to me and I want nothing else and nobody else.  She is a treasure.  I'm sure that, at some point in your life, you will find someone you feel the same about and will feel that way about you.  Hang in there!
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hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
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you know what. i know it is possible. i have had that experience before. its jus something you feel and how u feel. jus the little bit u get to know bout them. u feel a good feeling.u can have feelings 4 someone u dont really know. cuz what u do know bout that person 2 give u hint of feelings would prob lead 2 more feelings and more knowing bout that person. i think ive answered ur qustion the bes i can. good question.
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My heart is full of love for someone special whom i love too much....and i am very eager to spend 14th evening with her....and make that evening memorable.....for life long...
695536
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
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I have reservations when you say you have "feelings" for this lady? I wonder are these feeling recipricated? Are you getting clear signs that she has feelings for you or are these feelings of yours entirely related to unmet needs of your own? This situation can go one of three ways.....\n(a) If she has feeling for you and is consciously sending out these signals then the relationship may develop into something more.\n(b) If these feeling you have are a result of unmet needs of your own then it is a very dangerous situation and your friendship may be doomed (should you try to take things further).\n(c) If (a) is the case then the relationship may develop but I doubt it will be a sincere and lasting parnership. Why? Because she has only recently committed to a life with someone else. If she is willing to sacrifice that relationship already then she is either selfish or very immature (probably both).\nSorry, just my thoughts.\nMichael
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Hello there!!=) \n\nWell, i think that you just might have come on too strong and she is shocked from what had happened..So i think that you should give her some time to think about how she feels about you. And she'll come around and let you know how she feels. Just give her few days and for now be cool dont push it...hope this is helpful! gud luck n take cares! =) oh and if she dont give you an answer after a few days then just go up to her and ask her watsup? but try to be cool kay! laterz
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Maybe. You can love how they were, get to know the person and fall even more in love with him or her.
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You should be feeling a Sense of Complete Acceptance by the Other person (And Vice Versa)
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It's will be a feeling you have never had with any other person before. Something inside will tell you not to let this one go!!!!! Listen to your self not anybody else. You are the only one that will feel it.