will my boyfriend ever going to give me a valentine's day?
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This was in response to the other question that you removed:\n\nIt sounds like your parents have a lot of their own issues, and they may be taking them out on you.  You are just a kid -- IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.  Of course, if they ONLY yell and curse when you have done something against their rules, then you need to realize that they will get frustrated with you.  But they should NEVER threaten to hurt you.  If you really get scared for your safety or for someone else in the family, you have to tell someone.\n\nI would recommend talking to someone you can trust outside of your family (school counselor, priest/minister/rabbi, teacher, family friend or neighbor), who can help you learn to cope with what's going on.  In time, you'll want to find a way to approach your parents with your concerns; but that will take some preparation for you to think of a way to talk about it without setting them off.  Or maybe, in a moment of calm (riding in the car seems to be a good time for my son and I to talk) you could say that you are tired of fighting all the time, and suggest family counseling so you can learn better ways to communicate with each other.  \n\nRealize that you and they are humans, and we all make mistakes.  They probably do NOT WANT to hurt you, but they may have their own stress or pain inside of them that they haven't learned to deal with.  For now, try to behave within the rules and don't act out of rebellion (you won't like the result).  Hang in there and remember that with time and patience and love it can get better.
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well since i'm single probably cry my eyes out.  just kidding, i hope i don't do that.\n\ni hoping for the best and have faith that the man i like will take me out.  send me your bestest thoughts that this happens to me and i will send you my bestest thoughts that you get everything you want this valentines.
164521
If you want a memorable valentine that your bf will remember?  (just for this year) Try and act like as if you were the guy - the giving one.  Instead of asking for this and that you plan the whole date: activities, gifts, and so on.  Now, don't scare him by reading him the plan (don't read it at all or tell him how it's going to be) instead wait till your activities starts and start telling him your ideas- by doing this, it will make it spontaneous.  Believe me guys like that.  As for the event don't make it so cheesy (unless you guys just started dating) but do some guy stuff and present him his gift (any guys stuff would do).  Remember by doing it this way just for this year- you will be rewarded every year by your bf and he will think your cool.
45801
Well 1st of all Advance HAPPY VALENTINES to you and your hubby...\n\nWell it's like this we don't know who your hubby is and we don't know what he likes or things he likes and since we do not know it I would like to stay away from telling you what to give him but what the hell here is my list:\n\nStuffs...\n\n1.) GIRLS... Have you ever given your guy flowers? It sounds crazy but yes it is so sweet...\n\n2.) Have you ever tried giving him a large stuff toy? And yes again it is crazy but again it is so sweet...\n\n3.) How bout giving him a box of his fav chocolate? \n\nBottom line here is "YOU DON'T HAVE TO SPEND SO MUCH TO GIVE SOMETHING TO HIM" and "THOSES STUFFS ABOVE SEEMS SWEET IF A GUY GIVES IT TO A GIRL BUT IT IS MUCH SWEETER WHEN THE GIRLS GIVE IT TO THE GUYS" \n\nHope I was able to help
131810
that would depend on how things are going on your boyfriend's end. are you still at the casual stage?-send a text asking him to be your valentine, or send a card. are you semi-serious and already in an exclusive relationship?-you could invite him over for a homemade dinner or a decadent chocolate dessert. are you already completely immersed in each other?-wrap yourself up in a huge velvet ribbon....
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Dear sweaty, I am all yours.\n\nDont worry If this year, you didnt celebrate your Valentine. I am sure next year & the rest of years you will have it for sure...!  :)\n\nCome on ..and celebrate the valentine day with me ONLINE. \n\nAny Info Please E-mail me on Bronzi_1980@yahoo.com.\n\nGood Luck
841242
Well he hasn't yet but he told me that for christmas he was getting me roses, flowers, and a surprise which he won't tell me because apparently it will ruin the surprise. He also once firemen carried me to a park where we made out.
60096
why .. r u offering urself to be a valentine? .. \n:)\n\n\n(Email: bunjeez@yahoo.com)
771188
I wish very much, that my significant other would get a grip on life and make a commitment to me. If that doesn't happen then, I will have to make a commitment to myself and cut him loose. I want his heart for Christmas. That and world peace....Thanks for asking.
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You don't have to suggest anything to him. Isn't this season supposed to be about giving rather than recieving? I know, the dude has nothing to give for you....but if you don't have anything to suggest to him, then you have everything you could possibly want. Right? So basically, you can just tell him that you already have what you want, and that is your boyfriend. Of course, only say that if that is the truth. Don't lie to your boyfriend.
566031
I'm 23, married for 2 years and still waiting for that special Valentine's Day gift. Maybe next year..................
201859
hey,\nthe first question u should ask is do u love him. i do understand that sooner or later giving can b quite costly. what u could try and do is increase ur conversations wid him. it does happen when he is content with wat he is gettin n tends to forget to give or just does not knw wat to give u. try to lower ur expectations most importantly.\ni hope everythin goes well :)
501141
I'm more impatient than my boyfriend.  He won't get off his A$$ and propose!
103427
Tell him it is important to you to get romantic things like a valentines day gift. It may not be important to him and he may not realize it is important to you.
126980
No.  Get the guy some chocolate.  The way to a man's heart is through his stomach (and loins, but don't go there).  If it is a serious relationship, you might get him his favorite food.
42061
if i were the guy i would want something from the heart. you know? somthing that will make me realy remember this valentines day. it doesnt have to be something that costs a lot, just something that lets him know, u luv him.
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relationships are not about getting stuff. If i got a kiss on my b-day that be enough for me. People just don't know how special they really are until the fact you get their love and you feel happy for that.\n\nEdit: Is your relationship bad with him other than that?