i told my friend that i like htis guy and a week later she went out with him?
142845
Honestly, do you really believe that she is your friend? If I were you, I would tell her how inconsiderate she is for actually dating someone she *KNEW* I had the hots for. I could see if she *didn't* kno, but she *DID*! That's so foul and disrespectful, and truly, I would re-evaluate this friendship with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me! If you allow your "friends" to continue to disregard your feelings, you're going to have a hard life ahead. Friends *DON'T* do things such as that. Guard your heart, hon. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
774811
It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
37586
That;s a hard blow!The only thing that you can do,is not tell your friend that  you like him.Or if she already knows, i am sure that she won't date him for  your sake.You got to remember, there are billions of guys out there.If they do date, just hang with other friends, and tell her that you just want time with her, the same as before, because you don't feel like being the 3rd wheel.It won't be long till another guy catches your attention, and than you can double date.Its not like you were intimate with this guy, so it will be fine,it will just take time to mend your heart after being rejected.Good luck!
804181
talk to her about it.  See if she wants to go out with you or if she likes things the way they are.
966054
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
824311
Honey If You Like This Girl Dont Be Her Friend Just Come Rite Out And Asker If If She Would Like To Do Somethin This Weekend And That She Dont Have To Like You Just To Give You A Chance And If She Dont Iam Sure Shes Missin Out On Somethin Great ( ;
966306
Good to cut it short --- but poor form on announcing to her friend that you liked her instead\n\nChances are the girl you were supposed to be on the date with found you pretty boring too!!
1163914
It's possible that she may sincerely like you.  It's possible that she may be hesitant or unsure.  And it's also possible that she may only be flirting and not looking for a committed relationship, which sounds the most likely from your description.  Her saying no to your invitation to go out but her actions and announcing she will be spending time with you this week-end can be confusing, I imagine.  Take your time to discover whether this is attention without intention, just a game to her, or more.  \nBut in the end, the real question is, do you like her?  And what do you want?  If your hope is a relationship and that isn't what she wants, it will not work.  If you both want the same thing and make that clear to each other, then it can.  Speak to her to learn more.\nBut just a little side note: It may be in good fun, but otherwise, her calling you her property doesn't seem very respectful.
716805
okay from wat i understand so far..this girl does not want to admit to your friends that u guys are going out?? are you two really goig out already?? whats ur question man???\nif she does not not want anyone to know than what does it take for you to go along with it? do you have a problem with it?? maybe you two should sit down and talk about it?? unless you have a specific reason..why not respest her wishes??thats what a relationship is all about...you understand her she understands you...
526804
He gave you a week to put out, since you didn't he didn't want to waste any more time with you.\n\nHe isn't worth your time.  Congratulations for keeping your senses and not giving in to him.  You now see his true colors.\n\nIt's hard to read a guy's intentions.  He probably isn't wanting in the girl department so, he wanted to move along to the next girl.  You will come across these every now and then.\n\nHopefully you'll get good at sniffing them out.
310154
Be honest with her and explain to her what happened.  And if your friend is such a great friend, maybe he wouldn't mind doing most of the explaining for you.  If you really like this girl then try your best and hopefully she can see the truth and not what seemed to be...
821565
truthfully, don't play games.  first of all if you like her, be leary if she is still kind of hung on her Ex, you don't want to be the rebound guy.  Secondly, when she introduces you as a friend, there isn't anything wrong with that, because technically you guys are friends even though you "hooked up" twice in a week that doesn't mean you are in a relationship. So, sit her down and look her in her eyes and ask her what it is that she wants.  If she wants to be friends, be exclusive or friends with benefits? Because confusion is not cool.....and whatever you do, do not be upset if she does not give you the answer that you want or expected. :)
495872
umm...this girl is not your friend. a friend is someone you can feel comfortable being around..someone you can trust. and obviously, this girl can't handle the fact that you like her. i think it was immature of her to say yes when you asked her out just because she "felt sorry for you," but to each their own. i don't think you need this girl as a friend or anything else.
1055185
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
416322
hi there!i was thinking to tell u something with ur topic:well its obvious something hapend between u and her something that probably didnt liked her to much odherwise why she did meet with u 3weeks and after no  answer no nothing?u must ask ur self what was wrong during this 3weeks time couse, if she didnt like u from the begining why she did  go on and meet with u 3weeks and not just 1time???think well and see if was something from ur side...and if not if u cant see u did something wrong then are many posibilitye:eidher she find out in this time that u arent what she is looking for and she is doing this to u now couse she is feeling shy to tell u in face  or maibe she find someone else who its more comatible with her or difrent reason as parents for examples....maibe someone like her friends say something bad about u and in her opinion her friends are to much importand. \nwell i think i made u more confuze but u must think what u can do to feel ok with all this and dont be afraid do whatever u feel to and need to after all its ur life and u are a man so act like one!!