What do I do if im in love with my best friends little brother? (1 year younger)?
144365
no one can stop you from this but i dont think its love thats a little dramatic... more like liking him. i mean im shure he would enjoy dating someone older than him for social reasons but how would your best friend feel? what if she/he went out with one of YOUR younger siblings? you would be p!ssed and u would think how gross it is. so imagine wat your friends would say and remember there are plenty of other fishes in the sea.Think about the people around you not just you
217249
tough 1! Well if u feel u lov him u must b pretty close. Who knows, mayb he is thinking the same thing but doesnt know what youll think. my sugestion is if you luv him enough then u should tell him. Im sure he'll feel the same way!;)
150273
Treat him like a little brother.  If your friends tease you, get new friends!  If they have no compassion for a person who is slow through no fault of his own, they are pretty cruel.
525408
If you weren't in REALLY love then tell him and tell him his brother can get over it and not to interfere with your life
497063
Wow, that's a tough situation.\n\nI would probably just lay off the guy and be true to my sister.  Your sister will *always* be in your life, and you don't want to hurt her. How would you feel if the situation was reversed?\n\n12-year-old girls are senstive and fickle.  Maybe she will start liking someone else soon.  Once she does, then you could tell her that you like the bfs brother and make your move.
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
53716
theres really no way around just go ahead and talk to him let him know you value his friendship, but  and you go from there, but try to do this as soon as possible because you dont want to keep anything from him the longer you wait the more complicated it will be.
587199
Look, like some of them said, forgive him, and i don't know if you loved him or not, but any boy that will do something with your BESTFRIEND is not a good man. you have all of your life to find that right one, and if he wants to be with her let him be with her. hell she mite not be the only one that he has messed with anyway.
827834
Hey, enjoy the attention. Obviously he is attracted to you and some day he will have the courage to do something about it. If you don't want to take the initiative yourself, then - for the time being - just quietly encourage him by looking back, a smile, etc.\nIt is totally unimportant that he is one year younger.
402876
put it this way, you amy be in love with him alas he not with you..\nThe fact that you do not bat for the same team should help your decision!\nHe is your best mate...\nIs it really worth it to have a go and ruin the friendship forever???\nI suggest you go and have alot of random sex and get him off your mind..\nfriendship are forever
935011
me and my brother are 2 years apart and let me tell you it sucks when all of your friends end up dating your brother! it doesn't matter how many times the friends would say to me i promise it wont come between our friendship it always did,your friend needs to think about her friendship before she does any thing,at least talk to her friend first and see how she feels about her dating her brother if she really doesn't have a problem with it then go ahead but I'm telling you i have lost more friends because of my brother than any thing else..he would cheat on them and then break up with them and then they wouldn't want to be around me anymore because of him!
136716
Pros & Cons:  List the good things about being with him and the negative things.  Which list is longer?  If the bad list is longer, then you've answered your own question: you need to move on.  If the good list is longer, you guys need to have a long, serious, open & honest convo soon.  See where he is and why its not you he loves.  You deserve to be loved honey.  Maybe youre not meant to be with him.  I know its easier said than done, but you need to take a step back from this situation and take a deeper look.  Imagine if your best friend were in this same situation:  What advice would you give her?
1110288
Be yourself, be honest.  Tell him how u really feel cuz if u dont u may regret it.  dont let this be one of those times where u ask urself what if..... if its the family- be an adult, be the bigger person and talk about the situation. if u luv him that much and hes worth it, suck up ur pride and apologise to his sis.  could be a reason why theres tension stewing
1169624
You should tell your brother as well as you best friend. What the nerve
108808
You can't have both boys. (well, I suppose you could, but it wouldn't work) \n\nI'd say, since you're with his best friend, your chances are slim to none in getting him back.
511127
it depends how much u like him if you love him sometimes you have to do what is right for you but if you dont love him you probably should think about the saying friends before boy friends (or in this case your almost boy friend) but believe me if he starts going out with your friend it is ok i know how it feels the guy i liked all year asked my best friend out but what hurts even worse is that she knew i liked him but still said yes. anyways this is about u well good luck remember do the right thing.
339234
Forget about it, be his/her best friend instead. Gay is gay, you will never be really loved in return and it only leads to unhappiness.\nGo out and find someone else - it sounds trivial, but in time it works.