why do some men wait for u to show intrest in them?
148824
I agree with landoflook........fear of rejection. They are content, intrigued, but not enough to go out on a limb and complicate things. I think I'll just wait myself........these men may really be on to something.
536660
Guess he's getting cold feet. Tell him it's fine that he wants to wait because you'd like to spend more time getting to know him too.
134838
Some guys like the "Art of Flirtation".  They literally practice on you just to get it right.  And they LOVE that you respond to it.  \n\nOther guys are just too shy to go up and say they are interested in you, yet forward enough to actually flirt. If this is the case, you might have to ask him out.
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
379033
It often takes time.  It's not uncommon for us to be friendly first and become really interested after we get to know you better.  You know, kind of like you do with guys, right?
458032
I believe they do it for many different reasons depending on the guy. Some guys get more excited to watch you getting excited.Some get satisfying pleasure from knowing that they are pleasing you.Some may love everything about you and want to watch you every expression.And some are conceited and think when watching get satisfied is another notch in their belt.
563524
To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
488032
Yes, I get the jest of your post and there is nothing wrong with you waiting.  I am proud of you and wish I would have done the same when I was younger. If he does not want to wait for you, but all means break it off.   If he is truly interested in you and you say no he will wait for you.\n\nLove does wait.
592081
the like a beautiful girl as they want to show her off to all there friends. some guys will just go for looks and nothing else.\nyeah some guys are a bit sex obsessed!
250621
Its because they are fascinated by them...the things they do, the clothes they wear, their style etc. So they want more and thats what makes them so interested in their personal lives. Man is always hungry for more.
700683
Most women with class and self respect have a time limit to when they will have sex with you, even though she is sending sexy signals , the signals are to let you know that when she is ready she will have sex with you but until then they will play coy and flirt with you like crazy. for me  i have 4 month rule.  and the reason for the 4 month rule is to make sure that the guy is all he says he is. and i will tell them from the beginning that i have a 4 month rule right away it weeds out the get em and hit em guys. and for me and my experiences not many guys last but the true man really do and for those who have waited the wait is well worth it . and that's when i know that i have a pretty decent guy lol
224424
I hear ya. They all say they don't but they do. I was talking to a female friend because I've been having trouble in the dating department and she told me the same thing. Don't rush things but make sure you show her you're interested when I asked her how I was supposed to do that she only told me to shut up. \n\nI think if you find someone who that kind of crap doesn't matter when the both of you can just be into each other and not worry about whether you're calling to soon or if you should wait that's when you've got something. \n\nGenerally women want what they think they can't have... that's why if you act slightly disinterested they are more intrigued then if you just come out and say the stuff that's on your mind. \n\nGirls aren't the only ones who do it guys do it to. It sucks but that's just  the way it is.
39698
Maybe you're consenting to sex too soon.\nMaybe they sense that you are "falling in love" and their not looking for that type of relationship at this point in their lives, just dating.
263166
No not all men are like that, that would be like saying all women are or do the same.  Take it from a guy, take as long as you need to know them before getting physical, cause if they really like you they will wait.
458067
that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
209121
Nice guys finish last because they are smarter. A good thing is always worth waiting for. They usually are more humble than most and have no need for the 'glory'of being first. Trust me humility makes you a better man and a better lover.
777574
Duh...because they want sex. \n\nJust make them wait...if they "love" you now, they will "love" you in a few months.\n\nGiving them sex right away just lets them know that they can get that anywhere, and doesn't make them really look for the right person.  Don't be one of "those" girls.