how do i become more atractive to guys?
150985
brush your teeth and hair... take a bath... wear nice perfume... dress nice but not trashy... (but sometimes trashy works too- depends on what the guy likes)... smile... say hi!... etc
35167
show him you're fun and you have a sense of humor and that you enjoy being around him. guys are much more impressed by a glowing personality than just a pretty face and no substance.
1007640
The same way you talk to a not so gorgeous guy.  Just be yourself.
293576
Have a little more confidence.And take it slowly.I'm a guy so can only tell you what I like.
218819
be yourself act attractive and talk to him
906421
girl you gotta break outta that shell your in. you gotta be more out going,loud,noticeable!you gotta make him WANT to know who you are.hook an outfit up,fitten you just right,get with a group of loud friends and make sure he sees YOU.and neva say your not pretty,there is not one ugly female on gods green earth,he made every female unique,you just need to bring your uniqueness to full blast for this guy.make HIM drop to his knees,I'm sure you can do it.just remember one thing:he likes you and he just don't know it so show it to him.\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
313394
You have to think of Yourself First. Forget about how men see you. Start thinking to make youself a better person.\n\nExecise, lose weight...if you are in shape get some interest like a hobby or some good reading...build some "new you" but not because you have to boost confidence with men, do it because you must boost confidence "in Yourself". You look in the mirror and you think.."I like you now.."\nWhen you have reached this point you will see strange things happening to you...Men will be attracted to you as ever before, even if you were ugly..Why? Because your  self-confidence send out a message, like a scent, telling men that you are OK you are the woman they are looking for, and all of this because you spent time building that confidence\nFOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON. DO IT FOR YOU::
365658
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself. Put the past behind you, concentrate on the future which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation.  Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.
937263
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
27301
You are beautiful no matter how you look. You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of yourself. I'm sure a right guy will come to you. \n\nI used to think I'm unattractive, and nobody asked me out. But when I say "F*ck this, I don't care what people think about me" and be myself, then my true love (now) just come right to me and say hi. See, ZI think guys got attracted by the woman's confidence, not their look. \n\nDon't rush. Congratulate yourself that you're still single. Don't you see us women who have bf always have to struggle and be hurt?
845666
u are looking at the wrong guys. you are attracted to the guys that have tendencies to act this way. change what you are looking for, and your results will change!
664734
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
474854
Your personality and character. Be nice to guys, and have a lot of friends. Most of all, be yourself!
771294
Ok be yourself. Become guys friends then if you get to know them and you like them flirt with them. It doesnt have to be any major flirting just a smile, a hello, and pay attention to what there saying. Dont try changing yourself for a guy... they are not worth it if you have to change. Oh and dont become a slut! People may tell you to wear low-cut shirts and stuff like that... dont listen... it doesnt help.... GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1140019
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
838293
Many unattractive men get beautiful women... I KNOW LOTS. Its all about attitude. I know this guy... who is chubby, balding and HILARIOUS! He has HOTT GIRLS all over him all the time. Its about confidence. He can walk up to ANY GIRL... even really REALLY hott ones and talk to them, and they LOVE IT... You'd be surprised how INFREQUENTLY hott girls get hit on. Its not very common because most men are a little timid around very beautiful people. So just have some guts, walk right up and introduce yourself. Good luck
873569
Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.