Why are guys so mean?
147314
Don't call him, he made the joke, let him suffer a little and apologize, then take him back.
931580
Guys will do that to puff their pride up.\n\nRemember this rule:\n\n1. People only talk shit becuase they are still bitter and you still effect them. If you didnt effect them, they wouldnt even bother talking about you.\n\nI would ignore his loser ass and talk to other guys around him just to make him angry. Who cares what he thinks, right? He certainly is doing that to you.
1086821
Nice guys are normally gay.  What you need is a guy who is generaly not nice, but is nice to you.
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
731696
why is everyone being so mean? \n\nyour nice :)
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
76696
Some guys are just so unsecure with themselfs that they put up a front. Some are shy etc etc etc etc. Then again some are just jerks that have to put on a show for their "friends" so they do not lose face. If a guy really wants you to be around, he'll do just that no matter what his "friends" think or do.
274465
It depends upon who considers them to be mean.  Have you, yourself witnessed their meanness?  My experience with grouchy or even mean type (which I really try to avoid) is that they are usually kind to me.  I think part of this is because I treat everyone with respect, and I am considered sweet.  I have a certain look and even gruff folk think they need to be extra gentle with me (trust me they don't) could that be the case with you?
1134245
Remember, there a girls who can be very mean also. It's not a gender thing. It's an individual thing. Keep in mind too that it can be very confusing for men. Women like men to be strong, confident, funny, vulnerable, emotionally available, sensitive, "bad boy", "good guy", etc.. etc.. etc..  Many men just don't know what to be anymore, or how to act.
550218
men are like that cause they are big babies..  it's pathetic i know  but thats just the way it is.. love em or hate em..lol
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
912665
I've had experience with this.  Arrogant and rude guys do not like violent women.  All you have to do is talk about your "experience" the "other day" about a guy who you thought was cute, but then you decided not to respond to the pass he made at you and he made a rude remark.  Tell this brute that you went to college with that you had been thinking about how you've never really done anything about someone being rude in the past and blacked out, grabbed a nearby object/rock/tree branch - take your pick.  Tell him that you smashed the hell out of this guys face and how good you felt doing it.  This "bully" will leave you alone.  Guys like this only go after girls/women who they think will be submissive or in the least be uncomfortable about confronting them about their rude ways.  In the most, he can run around telling every guy he runs into how "crazy" you are, but on the flip side, the other guys will definitely reconsider before being rude with you themselves.  In the least, he'll think about the risks of being with you and I will bet an entire paycheck on it, he's gonna back down.  The key is that when you tell him this, you have to be emotionally charged, convincing, totally out of character, and non-chalant about it.  I've given other young women this advise and they've said it worked.  The other thing is that you can't show him any mercy when he calls you with his problems and wants your "sympathy".  You have to act like you're reading a book while he's talking (if you ever talk to him again), and chew on crunchy things in his ear when he calls.  DO NOT SAY SORRY WHEN HE COMPLAINS.  You say, "hold on ok".  You leave the phone there and you walk away.
315762
Yes, girls are sometimes mean. Men are sometimes mean, too. LOL.
38311
Because to them, you are like one of the guys or maybe like one of their sisters.  They might not see you as relationship material. \n\nOr they are just rude.\n\nTake your pick.
183806
People are mean because being mean to another person makes them feel good about themselves. Mean and rude people usually have a low self esteem and they have to put other people down so that they feel good. Pity them and ignore them! =-)
1034271
Because being a bad boy means you are a CHALLENGE baby! Nice "sweet" guys often come across as predictable and boring, and that is why even I am not a "nice" guy. \n\nTo sum up, dump those losers and come roll with me - but I'm picky! lol
1072702
Thats because the nice guys put too much out there...but in the end they always get what they want. Because over all a female is going to remember how she f@cked up her relationship with a nice guy to f@ck with an A$$hole.