is it possible that you have no one in ur life who u think u can't live without. it worries me!?
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Yes, it is possible, and I understand you worry. However, some people have to be alone to realize their purpose is not human company, they might need to learn more about themselves and without the dsitraction of significant people, one is more likely to concentrate on self awareness.\nIt is alright to be worried, the important thing is your conclusions from this worry, what you do with. If you decide to learn from not having anyone indispensable, you will make it an advantage instead of a problem it seems to be.
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no you dont need anyone but yourself to go through life but it is nice to have someone to share it with.
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I thought i was the only one who felt so. I guess there are some things to keep to yourself, some moments you have to be alone....Better find an e-pal for youself, takes some time, but works out.\ntake care,\nbest wishes
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no you need a life.  anyone who thinks they "need" someone first needs to find themself!
182359
A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.
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Can't you find someone else....like in real life??
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YES!!!!!!!IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY ALONE,BUT WOULDN'T LIFE BE ALOT SWEETER IF U HAD SOMEONE?
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It is possible, it happened to me last September when I married the man I looked for all my life.  You can't look for them, you can't be anxious, it happens when it is suppose to.  I thought I loved before till I met my husband, now I know the others were not love.  He is my world, I couldn't picture my life without him, he treats me like the most important person in the world. I hope everyone finds the one of their dreams.
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I met my husband in 10th grade in highschool and we have been together 22 years now!  We have one 15 year old son.  He is not only my husband and lover he is my best friend in life!  We do absolutely everything together!  Shop, cook, mall. EVERYTHING!  Its just no fun without him!!!!!!  Alot of people think we're crazy cuz alot of married people cannot wait to get away from each other and we r counting the seconds until we CAN be together!  I cannot even sleep at night unless some part of his body is touching mine.  Even if its just his toe touching my toe- I can sleep!  Otherwise I feel as if a part of me is misssing.  We do go out once a week by ourselves to do many different things.  Dinner out, movies, bowling, window shopping, we have not missed date night for atleast 10 years!  Its so important to us and our marriage that we do make time for alone time!  Every night as Im falling asleep he will hold me close and stroke my hair until I fall asleep.  Im not sure why that makes me feel so safe but it does!!!!!  I think I would surely die without this man in my life!!!
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Oh yeah. A family is one of the things you have that others unfortunately don't, so cherish it. You never know, you might need them someday.
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IDKY But it seems i have the same problem right now. I can't get my boy friend out of my mind, and he too lives in a different state...LOL...Hmmm. imagine that. weird.
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yes i do...i believe everybody has one other person there supposed to be with.  They're "one and only". I believe this other person will never be truly happy with anyone else because its not there "one and only." Some people are lucky to find that one person, others are not.
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You are the only one that you can really rely on. People will always fail your expectations because we have faults. Its ok to cherish and admire another person, but realize that they too have faults and that they are not perfect. When you get right down to it, you are the one that you must cherish and admire most. When you hurt or dissapoint yourself its easier to live with because you cant abandon yourself. Its good to be open to others, just dont expect that they will always have your back.
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Oh yes. I have always felt different from everyone around me. There has never been anyone who truly "gets" me. I have friends, I have family, but still even when I am with them I feel alone.\nAnd yes left out of things. I've been in situations where it seems I was forgotten. Hearing friends talk about the great time they had doing this or that, and wondering why I wasn't invited.\nI don't know what you wish to know but remember the truly great have always stood alone from the crowd.\nDon't change to fit in, be yourself. Someone will "get" you.
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Maybe you have not lived on your own enough to know yourself. One must learn to know & love themselves before they can love others. \nI do not like being alone all the time, but I like my own company enough to know that I would rather be alone than with someone that is not right for me or that is going to treat me badly.
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You do not really know anyone until you live with them. You are trying to mesh two lifestyles. Sometimes it is just too different to work out. I think it is  GOOD IDEA TO LIVE TOGETHER.
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I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.