What do you do when your friend told you not to tell her secret but you're tempted?
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Think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot!!  Definately DO NOT repeat what was told to you in confidence UNLESS it means danger to someone.  Be a good friend...Go with your gut!!
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Well if she said "No" to him and he can't respect that, then tell her not to see him anymore...  If she said "No" and he still did it, then you need to speak to your friend to report it....\n\nYou should not confront him or report it, because she told you in confidence.  When she is ready, she will do so...\n\nJust support your friend in any way that you can.  And try to keep persuading her to report it....
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Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
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Learn to keep it to yourself!  Try to think of it as spoiling someone else,s surprise if you blurt it out to them and this might make you feel guilty and help you to keep quiet!
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friends r ok to have them tell this person,but then it makes you look like ur afraid to talk to that person u dont want that do you\nlet the person see and know how much u like them\nflirt with them a lil bit and most of all TALK!!!
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It's hard to take that step back in a relationship.  If he/she is really your friend, I would tell them you just don't want to do that anymore and see how they react.  If they aren't into it, maybe you have to stop messing around all together.
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Tell her to fess up to whatever she was untruthful about.  Its not good to deceive anyone especially someone you have feelings for.
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Do you like her as well and you don't want your friends to know?\nWell if that is the case, you should think about yourself and your friends.  Why do you have to keep her a secret?  Your friends should accept you.\n\nor do you mean that she likes you and you do not like her and you don't want your friends to know?\nIf you don't want your friends to know, then just pull her aside and tell her that you don't like her.  Be nice about it.  If she is rejected she won't spread her failure.
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Don't tell and don't feel as though you have to.\n\nJust be up front with her and tell her that you don't want to get involved that you don't like her as anything more then a friend.\n\nIf you are scared and not ready to come out then don't come out.\n\nYou should not feel pressured to come out because a girl may like you.\n\nIf you think you would be a risk by coming out then don't do it.\n\nPeople have big mouths and gossip is a friend of many and an enemy of all. You owe her nothing nor anyone else anything especially an explanation of your sexual identity.\n\nYou are young and young people can be even more mean when they feel they were betrayed or here news as such.\n\nHang in there your ok you didn't do anything wrong and just ignore her advances if she continues after you.
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Don't tell her - SHOW her.
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You aren't goingto like my answer, but it is the truth. If you were told a secret then you are breaking the confidence that you share with the friend who told you the secret. Breaking the trust of your friend by telling the secret means that you can not be trusted, or so it seems.\n\nAll we have in this world is our word. Take care to keep yours clear.\n\nJust for future reference, if one friend starts talking negativly about another, tell them you don't want to hear it...they are your friend, too. Any friend should respect your being a good friend to your other  friends.
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this happened to a friend of mine.   keep ur mouth shut and if u talk to her, talk to her about keeping her mouth shut too and let her know the consequences for if the secret does come out.  also remind her that it takes 2 to  tango
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If you told your friend you don't want to be close any more then don't worry about what they do. Don't let them get under your skin
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Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
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Trust me if you are having those urges she senses something isnt right. So you need to tell her. If it ruins the relationship then so be it. But you can't try to shutdown those urges and try to be someone you are not. Its just not fair to anyone. Plus don't you think she deserves to know the truth? Respect her enough to tell her the truth.
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Don't tell her and hope you don't get caught.....
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you get your priotities in order. is this guy or your friend more important?\n\nyou think about how your friend would feel if you went out with the guy and you also think the other way around. you think about what would bug you most. \n\nultimately, if hiding things is not your thing, then you talk to your friend. you'll end up having a pact and both of you will have that urge to go after the guy and for as long as there is that pact, the urge will be there. that urge will be the downfall of both your personal lives. \n\nto sum up, tell your friend that you like the guy and whatever your friend's comments, go for the guy, but before you do that, make sure the guy is worth it.