Our first and last love is  ..... self love?
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we are told by those in the know that we have to love ourselves before we can love anyone else, so maybe
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My boyfriend thinks his first love is his true love..but you never end up with them.  But..you can also have a deep love for another maybe even deeper..and your first love can still be your true love.  I don't know...I think there's something special about the first person you ever loved..it's a new experience, a new feeling, and I think maybe part of it's falling in love w/the feeling.  It's like experiencing anything for the first time..then the more you do it, you get used to it and it's not as exciting you already know those feelings.
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My friends and I were just talking about this last night...We have came to the conclusion that Love is a very strong word.  So many people today believe that they are in love, but love is to give unconditionally... love is putting someone elses needs before your own.  I have thought I was in love 2 times, I am now divorced with three kids and I can honestly say I have never loved anyone the way I love my children... If you can honestly say to your self that I would die for them  I mean being truthful to yourself and saying I would die for you... that's love... and I have never felt that way before.... and you don't have to be in love to be with someone...if you enjoy the company why say it's over... just enjoy your life  you only have one.
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There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
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Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
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I don't think you will ever totally be over your first love.  If it was love, then there will always be that special spot.  My first love died of cancer, so he always holds a special place.  I've moved on many many years since, and in love with another.  But never have forgotten, not replacing that love, just a new love.
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We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
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The song is possibly about a first love, and about the end of relationship between lovers.Great song,by the way!
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I believe your first love is like your virgin heart going out into the world for the first time.\nYour first real love you have NO walls up, No Barriers, or lines that can't be crossed you are totally open to that person... You feel like it will last forever/\nThat is why it is so hard, you had never had your heartbroken before so you don't know how to prepare for it when it gets here!! You have nothing to base the love on! \nAnd your first love is usually the person you loose your virginity too.. ANd that is hard in itself\nBut in life you win some you loose some\nYou just have to take the past lessons and apply them to your new relationship!! But not with the baggage for example just because your ex cheated doesn't mean that your next partner will!!\nGood Luck
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your first love is a big step in your life. like your first job. or passing your driving test. your first love is someone who tought you how to feel. and probably tought you or shared the learning experience of love in a relationship.
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It is, but it's hard to balance the love between them. Make sure they love you back and all should be fine. Don't do like I did and take love from one and give it all to the other, the other was a loser and did not know how to handle love. Thankfully, my first love forgave me and I learned my lesson.
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Love comes first..\nthen sex is the last..\nafter many things before.
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no only as for long as its meant to be, some love starts from just a look while others take time to grow. Both are  very vulnerable the slightest breeze could destroy  even the strongest love. Love's is to unpredictable to say any thing definitive about it . LOVE IS THE CAUSE OF HAPPINESS AND SADNESS. Love is ever thing it last as long as beauty exists
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Well to me, Love is a feeling, so yes I believe we could really define love as a feeling... I mean when I fell in love with this one person, this person made me feel things that I could not explain... Like I would always wake up happy, and proud everyday... I would do things that I would never do, why because the feeling of love gave me something to live for... To be loved or to love, is the greatest thing that God has ever given us... It's a feeling inside that no one can bare to describe... I really don't know how to put this, but to me it's just the bestest feeling in the world... I guess in order to actually understand it, you have to feel it within you... Saying you love someone in a way is a different story and in another it does relates to how a person feels... I mean you can say you love them,  but in reality, just like them... But than again if you feel that you love them, and you know that he/she is the one that you love, and that keeps you living than that's love... So yes you can...
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True love will get you through just about anything.  First love is usually just a beautiful memory.  Those we love truly have a way of impacting our lives on many different levels and are therefore the most important.
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Truly loves you?  I wonder if that really exists with out you truly loving the other first.  If you wait for someone to truly love you it may never happen.  All you can do and all you can control is you.  You and your own feelings.  I would think that if you are asking about this then you are probably in love with someone and unsure of the others feelings.  Well of course you could ask...but really try this...open your heart and show it.  If the other person loves you then this will only create a space that will allow the other person to respond with love.  For you there also needs to be thought of what you need in life.  Things like helping you with issues you need handled or doing something for someone you love...but all of that is the easy stuff. I was involved with someone for three years and he did everthing for me...but he neer loved me nor I him.  Now I am ivolved with a man that I do not lean on for anything but his heart is mine.  Only after I opened mine and took a chance.
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look rohan love is all about trust, feelin secure,,sharin,living life to its fullness wether you get this at first or second.one must have that feelin from inside.there is absolutely no diff.no dout we remember our 1st luv for lif but second luv came 'coz our relationship demands something more.