What would you do if you have fallen for a person with the same sex?
155290
Hopefully for you the other person has similar feelings. Otherwise, it is another broken heart, maybe hidden, while a good friendship can continue.
826394
this is how I felt for a while but i have a girlfriend now ( I'm bisexual) It's like you don't know if you are in love or not. I would just do what you think is best for you if that helps any
411848
It's always normal to feel things about the same sex... but if the feelings continue you should explore them some more... and maybe talk to someone about it. \n\nI guess I need more information.. but i hope this helps.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
418000
You should be sure they are into that before asking.\nIf you blurt your heart out to a hetero-sexual, you may alienate yourself from that person.\n\nLook for signs about the person such as:\ndo they like ballads, dancing, have they been single for a while, have they not had a relationship with a woman in a while.\n\nYou want to be totally sure before doing something like this.
134163
As long as you like this person for who they are on the inside it shouldn't make a difference what their sexual prefference is.  If they happen to be the same sex as you are don't worry, they usually know what team you are playing on.
1125357
If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
372995
Oooo, you are in a tough spot.  I think you should not pursue anything and wait for him.  He might just be really comfortable with his sexuality.  Wait and see if they break up. He might like you too but not be sure about what to do next.\n\nI wouldn't want to make a move on one of my girl friends and insult them or scare them away, you know?\nGood luck, just be smart.
185925
If you ask me, it would be the same as straight couples marrying. Who am I to say who or what a person is? As long as someone is happy, that is all that matters. And if marrying someone of the same sex makes that person happy, then by all means, go for it.
827412
Ouch : ( Are you sure she is straight? she could of been hurt from you rejecting her. You need to tell her that you did have feelings for her when she came out to you, but you weren't mentally ready to deal with these feelings/emotions yet. You need to emphasise that you understand it may have been a phase for her, and just showing her the decency of telling her how you actually feel. By you already telling her i am sure she has started to think back when she did like you and what attracted her to you. I don't think she has lost her forever, you never will you to are good friends. But you need to also understand she will be emotionally and mentally a mess, because she had strong feelings for you and you burned her so she properly has compressed those feelings until how you told her how you feel. And i am pretty sure she would be questioning her sexuality again. So please be patient with her and don't give up. \nBest of luck : )
645961
I would just be that person that he feel in love with at the beginning, I would not try to change nothing about our relationship, because I have to remember what he feel in love with from the beginning.  So, I will just continue treating him like the king he is...
620309
You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
141302
you don't.  you will know when its happen and there will be no doubts. you love this person for who they are not what they have, who they are or what they look like. they will love you as much and as the same.
282396
it really all depends on the person. has the person had feelings for the same sex before the sexual abuse. a person will be with someone because on how they will feel towards that person. I have friends that are in same sex relationships and has never been sexually abused. I myself had been sexually abused and I still feel for the opposite sex and not changing my sexual preference
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
83643
You're asking a really complex question.  \n\nYes, you should love your best friend.  You should love her like a sister.\n\nIf you're feeling something more like romantic love, then you're going to have to face up the fact that you might be a little gay or at least bi.  There is nothing wrong with that, plenty of happy and well adjusted people have the gay (me included!).  You'll have to make a decision at some point about it; you can remain friends and still in love with her or you can tell her about your feelings.  Each path has it's pro's and cons, and that is a choice only you can make.  But don't rush yourself, if you think you're bi curious, then take some time to think about that and reconcile that with your current identity before jumping into anything.