I was dating a married man but he wouldn't leave his wife till I agreed to move in with him, he lied to me.
155711
Married means OFF LIMITS. Why would you even conisider looking in the direction of a married man. He is just as wrong as you are, and I am sorry for "attacking" you, but I don't see a question posted here by him, so you get the blunt of it. It's women like you and men like him that make people on this earth greedy, deceitful, egocentric, and Jerry Springer rich!! Become a nun and call it quits. REPENT!!! REPENT!!! REPENT!!!
114311
He might have liked you too much for it to be a friendly thing and decided on his own that for the sake of your marriage he had better not complicate your life.
428958
Please reiterate your question . . . to . . . I called it quits this morning?  Because he want to try to make it work . . . and you are trying to decide yes or no.\n\nI have a few questions about this . . . \n\nWhy did he cheat on you . . . . ?  There is always a reason.  Did you two marry too young?  Did you change?  Did he change?\n\nIf you feel that you can not trust him . . . then end it . . . and tell him why.  He may still love you . . . but the thing is . . . he might have felt that you kept pushing him away . . . and he felt lonely.  And guys has needs . . . so instead of bothering you about them (because he felt that you possibly didn't care) he went elsewhere.\n\nThe most basic reason why some people cheat . . . is because they felt pushed away.  I know that is not a good reason . . . \n\nPlus if you stay married for at least 10 years . . . he will have to pay you alimony for the rest of your life or until you remarry.
565454
the question is are willing to stay with him or not... i mean if your not ready to handle a little drama with him then maybe he isnt the one.
322075
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
39884
Almost never.  And besides, if he leaves his wife for you, what makes you think he won't do it to you (leave you for another)?  Not the best footing for a new relationship..
929401
If he left his wife for you, your chances that he won't cheat on your are extremely slim. Good luck. You'll need it!
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
452176
I don't.  A committed relationship means just that.  Seems like this guy isn't committed, and he lied to you about it.  Wow, what a catch...
384555
I have been with my husband for almost 3 years and had an affair 6 mos ago.  I told him and he admitted to his shortcomings that led me to seek love elsewhere.  Now he says he will never leave me because I am the only woman he has ever been with that was that honest with him about something like that.
1119567
hi.that's what a lot of married men say.if you love him,you should let him go.tell him you don't want to cause there marriage to brake up.you should say to him you don't want to see him anymore. stand back and see if he leaves his wife anyway.if he doesn't leave his wife,then you'll know he wasn't genuine about the things hes been saying.
984899
I wouldn't believe him, men will tell you "anything" just for you to fall again for their lies. But...at the end is your decision if you want to continue the relationship and try again.
367004
my fiance' was married when i met him at work.his wife and him had been having issues with her cheating and she did not want kids and he did.he told me about 2 weeks after we met that he did not love his wife anymore.i never thought about getting involved with him until right before he seperated from his wife(a month and 1/2 after we met)he told me he loved me.i felt the same for him but i did not want to get in the middle of his marriage.he convinced me to be with him and i'm glad i did,he is the love of my life and says i am his
537651
She has to neglect you because she did not make a commitment to you, she made it to her husband. \n\nI suggest moving on. It is morally irresponsible to expect a married women to be totally commited to you.
293973
You had (have) marriage vows with HIM, not her. Wanting to press charges on her is your pathetic way of taking the focus off of the fact that he (at least for a while) chose HER over YOU.\nI don't mean to be mean...but it isn't her fault he chose to abandon his vows to you.  It is his fault.
266374
Woah.  Did he marry you first or the other woman first?  You might want to check with a lawyer on this one.
310230
I've said it once and I'll say it again, \n\n"DON'T MESS WITH MARRIED MEN"!!!!!! \n\nWe can't continue this vicious cycle of yolking up ino other peoples committments. No matter how unhappy he/she may be, if it were true they would have already left, filed for divorce and independent.\n\nDon't be fooled girl, you can never, never, never be her! When he gets to the point with you like he did with her, he's going back home b/c he realizes it was him all along or he'll move on to the next victim.\n\nWise up!!!!