i need some advice!!!!!?
146778
If you both love and trust eachother it will be fine. Talk a lot or email a lot, and see eachother whenever possible. Good Luck!!
229939
NOBODY DESERVES TO BE IN THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WITH TRUST ISSUES. IF YOU GUYS REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THEN YOU TWO HAVE TO STAY STRONG AND DON'T GIVE UP ON EACH OTHER. TELL HIM EVERYTHING THAT IS ON YOUR MIND AND JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT IT WILL BE OVER IF YOU HAVE TO ACCUSE HIM FOR DOING SOMETHING. TELL HIM TO BE HONEST AND IF HE WANTS TO LEAVE GIRL YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO BE STRONG AND LET GO . YOU DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM IF HE IS GOING TO TREAT YOU LIKE 2ND'S YOU NEED TO BE FIRST . SO GOOD LUCK AND STAY A STRONG WOMAN
77075
be nice,dont be mean.say i love you every time you get off of the phone.sit by them.talk to them(duh)now,you can do it!:)
1066105
Try being yourself. Don't listen to your friends when they disrespect your girlfriends. If you like someone, tell them, but don't be suprised or sad when the answer is no.
820765
just be there for him. maybe he thinks that it's just best to stay with the  g/f that treats him poorly (we, as guys, aren't all that bright sometimes). seems that there aren't a lot of good women out there these days. show him that you are one. DON'T ask him out yet. wait and see what happens with the relationship. if it DOES end, then there's your oppertunity. if it doesn't, then he probably lost out on a pretty good thing..............
104398
You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
943444
When you purposely go out of your way to avoid somebody, that's when you run into them. Just be yourself, if he speaks to you, just speak back and leave it at that. Trust me, he's going to recognize you, so don't even think that he won't. If you know he's coming to your school, you know he knows, that you go there. Whatever you do, don't bad mouth him to anybody, it'll only cause a feud between you two, nobody wants or needs unnecessary drama. If people find out that you used to date or like him, just tell them he's a thing of the past and it's not necessary to discuss him.
268856
Don't listen to them. Go straight to your boyfriend and ask him. Rumors are just that, and can mess things up.
668883
You obviously have more than a few issues…..Are you that desperate for attention?  You seem pretty young, so here is some advice for you:  No, you should not sleep with your best friend’s boyfriend.  She’s your BEST friend right?  I doubt the guy is your soul mate or anything; he’s just a guy who is paying you some attention.  That may make you feel good now, maybe even good enough to make you do it, but afterwards, you will (or should) feel dirty, and he will most likely treat you like you’re dirty too.  He will never respect you.  Do you really want to be involved with a guy who you have to share?  He won’t be your boyfriend. (You will be alone on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, your birthday, etc.)  You will only have him when your friend is too busy for him. Your friend may or may not find out, but you will know what you did, and that will always weigh on you.  The guy is obviously a cheater, and has probably been around the block a few times.  What if he gives you a disease, like Herpes?  You will have it for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.   If you think that you like sex now, wait a few years.  It gets a whole lot better.  You don’t want something dumb that you do right now ruining it for you for the rest of your life.  Have some respect for yourself.  Save sex for someone that you love and trust, someone who is concerned with your best interests. I promise you that you will never regret in the long run.  However, if you choose to sleep with him you will regret it, at some point.  Be a good person, stay away from the guy, and tell your friend that she is with a loser, before she gets hurt or catches something from him that ruins her life.  Since you don’t seen to have a whole lot of confidence, you should just concentrate on you for a while.  Stay in school; find out what makes you happy (not what you think makes other people like you), and just try to be a good person.  If you do, you will eventually be truly confident, comfortable, and happy with the person that you are.  You won’t want a loser like this guy anywhere near you, and you will most likely be pursued by some really great guys, because confidence is the most attractive quality that a person can have.
710949
Ouch. That is a bummer. My recommendation would be to sit down and have a heart felt talk with her about it. Ask her if she is more into him than you and if she is to just tell you so that you don't get even more hurt than you will be. If she tells you that she isn't in to him, just ask her to not talk to him so much or come up with other arrangements that work out for both of you. Best of luck.
405255
Enjoy being 12.  Don't be a follower be a leader.  Not because your 12 year old friends have boyfriends means that you have to do the same.  They are a little to young to be involved with boys anyway, so don't feel bad, take your time.  Get your education, in a few years when you are a successful professional in whatever field of study you choose, they would probably have a few kids, a few baby daddies and no real job.  So don't allow yourself to be influenced and led astray, stay true to what you know is right.  Make yourself proud by doing the right thing and just have fun being a kid.
47150
Talk up a storm. Start sharing so much about you with them. They realize you trust them and perhaps they will realize perhaps they should trust you equally so. Don't be disturbed when it takes a while. Let your friend find his/her comfort zone. Rest assured if he/she does.......you might have the best friendship you've ever had. :)
619747
Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
321205
just tell her. talk to her about it. it works the best!
14981
Be yourself.  It's the oldest and best advice.  She may still not like you, but that's the risk, and you keep your manliness and dignity.  Never, never forget this.
115689
Talk to him. You will never know until you try. Don't think of it as being forward, just being honest!