How can i get a 20 yrs old American to marry, ?
145834
Why would they wish to marry you?  Do you not have any girlfriends in your country?  What makes you think you and an American woman would enjoy being married to each other? I suggest you look around you and find someone you know and care about if you want to get married.  There are no catalogues from which to select 20-year-old Witneys and Mariahs in America, whether they're stars or not.
218945
I don't think age matters.  If you're in the US on a valid visa of any sort now, just get married and apply for a change of status.  If you're not in the US, you should apply for a fiance visa to come over, then get married and apply for the change of status.
642320
Man, 23 is too young to get married.  If she loves you, she'd stay in relationship with you.  If you want to prove yourself to her dad, then be patient and wait until your 30 to get married.
631023
With so many failed marriages out there it's hard to say. Maturity plays a major part, here. When you find someone who knows what they want & are willing to sacrifice for it ( the marriage ) that may be the one to marry regardless of age.
180009
If it was like 40 years difference that probably wouldn't work. I don't see any problems with a 30 year old and a 20 year old. It could turn out to be a beautiful relationship.
217392
i don't think it has anything to do with age i think it has to do with maturity level. if you are ready and mature enough at 18 and know what you are getting into and want to do it i say go for it. because it doesn't matter what the age its how mature you are. because i know several younger people who have gotten married and the more mature ones made it out fine but the ones who weren't quite ready only lasted a year or two, if that. although if you are not ready and don't know what to expect i would say wait.
853401
I'm 20 and my fiance is 21.. weird... same ages.. we've been together for 3 years and engaged 1.. we will have been engaged for 2 and together 4 when we get married next September. I don't think age is an issue.. you have to do whats right for you when you're ready, you can't put a time frame on love  :) if you and your boyfriend want to be engaged 20 years and have a 10 year honeymoon, by all means.. do it ... do whatever makes you happy.. life is too short to worry about what other people think =)  good luck
1107079
go  ahead,  do  what  ever  you   want  to,  all  the  rest  of   you  do.and  nobody  can  seem  to   do   any  thing   about   it.or  they   wont.so   eat   drink   and   be   merry,  sell    drugs,  rape   ,  steal,  this  is   america,  our   goverment  will   protect you,  and   our   laws   only  apply  to  us   tax   payers.get  married  on  a  green   card  an   orange   card,  pick   your   color.  what  the   hell,   who   cares.and  if  you   want  to   marry  someone   thats   your   same   sex,  go  ahead,  that  law probably  is   for   americans  only   too.
587530
Get married.  You had to file a compliant on him for money or file for welfare for the government for support to get involved.
508240
Girlfriend your way to young to be considering marraiage unless your sure you want to pass on your dreams. \n\nThe book Smart Love by Dr, Phil McGraw might be a good way to start. \n\nMy plan was to date until I was 25 then get married. and i'm happy to say I'm glad I did. The person I dated at 19 and 20 absolutely drove me nutz and I moved on to find a more mature person and we have been married now going on 15 years\n\nget through college first THEN once you have some life experience to work with. make some decisions about what you want to do with your life. \n\nGod Bless
1088620
another thiing is that you are well educated and  I bet there are many women who will wnat to marry you.  Moist women look for security.  Henc e  get a  beautiful American gal, fall on love, get married   and  enjoy your life.
355316
I have been with my fiance for almost 8 years now, and he also spoke about wanting to marry me for such a long time. We are also from different backgrounds/countries and we have a ten year age difference (he is older). \n\nNow that I am ready for it and am continuing my education (law school), he somehow does not even want to approach the topic. I guess it is like our mother's would tell us: why buy the milk when you can get the cow for free. lol Or something to that effect. \n\nIf we love our men and our patient, we will get what we want. If they are lucky, we may still want them then! :o) Men have insecurities just as women do, and maybe the money issue is something relevant for the two of you. Just like my fiance is insecure about me becoming a lawyer and he is just a "regular person". Oh well, we will just wait and see. Good luck though!
33176
I met my wife at 22.  but I told her I wasnt getting married till I was 30.  she broke me at 28.  I knew I wanted to get married and I new she was the one, so there was no need to wait any longer.  But I have to admit, I wasnt ready one day before I came to that realization.  My best advice to you, would be to express to him in a loving way, how much it means to you.  Ya know, subtle hints...and lots of um.  \nNo nagging, No whining.  He will either get sick of you talking about it and give in, or he will get sick of you talking about it and leave you.  Either way it just depends on what you want out of life.
648682
If you love someone a job does not stay in the way of your marriage.*\n\nStay and give him this option of now or never.\n\nThe older we get the less desirable we get so getting or soul-mates young are better than being older three years your 28 and if he puts it off again.\n\nYou could be in your 30's and than what.\n\nMay dad told me this when is was around your age.\n\n( Of course he was playing telling me if i waited till i was 50 than i would be looking for a wife around 50 years old also ). \nSomehow dad had a why of putting things that made sense but he went way around the bush to get there.\n\nThat's because he did not like making my choices but he let me know in away he was there to show me a direction of my choice.
534471
marry an american or get born-again there
85792
Maybe try going to a courthouse or a church.  If you have to ask that question, I don't think you're old enough to get married.
342062
Ugh...that is terrible. I hope no woman is as desperate to marry you as you are for money. I have never heard of a place or agency that will PAY men to marry someone. Try getting a job...that might be a good start to financial stability.