does it hurt a girl when she loses her virginity? plz provide details?
156196
The only thing I can say is, make her feel special and pamper her, don't force over things, dont do it because you want to do it but do it coz you love her. Once you achive your peak point make her feel how special she is. and take my words she will forget all the pain she will go through, just express your true love and it will heal everything and will work like magic.
3523
when a girl is a virgin, there is a thin piece of skin inside the vaginal opening called a heimen. When the man inserts his penis the skin often breaks causing pain and sometimes bleeding. also the labia of the womans vagina is not used to the stretching that occurs during intercouse which can irritate that skin and cause discomfort.
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
721493
No. Apparently you've been watching too much bad porn. And by bad, I mean fake.\n\nOnce girls/young women have lost their virginity, sex is not painful unless she is forced to have intercourse without becoming properly lubricated first. In other words, as long as there is foreplay and the desire is mutual, sex is pleasant for women, not painful. However, there is a type of "pain" that is a "good pain" that is basically not much more than a bit of temporary pressure on excited nerve endings, and when a woman experiences this, she often responds with moans or screams of pleasure.\n\nIf a woman is screaming so loud it sounds like someone is killing her, there's either one of two problems: 1. She is in pain because she's either a virgin or her vagina isn't lubricated or expanded properly. 2. She's overacting. If it's the first case, by all means stop having sex immediately!!! If it's the second, you can either ask her to shut up or put a pillow over her mouth (but not so tightly as to smother her).
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
1004966
lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
126199
Yes, it does hurt, but it is totally bearable and worth it, if you are ready and want it. Just make sure you are ready and there has been lots of foreplay and you are relaxed as possible (although you will be understandably nervous). Your body will tell you when you are ready. Make sure you care about the guy and he cares about you. Not trying to preach just want to make sure its is a happy memorable moment.  Oh and dont expect it to be perfect. Sex has awkward moments, especally if he is a virgin too. So good luck and be safe and have fun.
548898
thats a good question...i wish someone answered that question for me when I lost mine... I can say that that sounds about right, regardless its gonna hurt and your bound to bleed, but i quess anything bigger would be worse.. trust me hun sex is not all its made out to be!!!! if i could go back in time.. i would still be a virgin (and im 24). Good LUck!!! and if your under the age of 18, WAIT!!!, TRUST ME YOUR NOT MISSING MUCH!!!
196047
Not necessarily. The hymen can be broken through everyday activities. The use of tampons can break the hymen also.  Most women do not bleed when virginity is lost.
1048174
This all depends on the individual, the first sexual encounter will differ from woman to woman, there could be pain and bleeding, but there might not be. Best idea is to take it nice and slow. It may still hurt many times afterwards, as it does take awhile for the body to get used to the act. There is also a high chance of getting a yeast infection or bladder infection after the first sexual encounter. I would say the best idea would be to go to the doctors after and get a physical done. She should not be embarassed about her age and her virginity. I myself lost it when I was 21, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Losing your virginity is a very serious thing, not to be taken lightly.
1077468
Ha..ha..ha..ha..ha!\nWhat a question Kim? I'm sorry to laugh, it's just that you don't usually ask questions like this one. Anyway, wherever your (not you exactly) desires drive you to, surely you'll find joy there. Anything will be painfull until you get used to it, and then pain becomes joy. Normal sexual intercourse is painful at or shortly after loosing virginity, but once you get used to it, nothing else matters in the world except sex. The same principle applies to anal sex. Those who engage in it will surely experience extreme pain first, but once they get used to it, they will completely forget if the vagina has ever existed.
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
250666
that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.
503218
It would depend on how it was used.  If it is not inserted into the vagina and only used on the outside, then no.  But if the object is inserted then it could pierce the hymen.  When it is torn you have lost your virginity.
1043003
Absolutely not!  The only physical sign of losing virginity is a broken hymen, which is just some skin at the opening of the vagina.  That won't affect her walk.\n\nIt could tell you if she's 8 months pregnant, though, because very pregnant women get a certain "waddle" in their walk (happens earlier for subsequent pregnancies).  :-)