will i ever get a boyfriend and be skinny and pretty?
144483
Well... whenever you decide so. Are you overweight? go on a diet, exercise, watch your health... You think you're not pretty? treat your skin with the best products in the market, change your hair style, your outfit...Just do the best you can to improve your look (if you really, really, really want it)... Then, go out and look at all available men in your surroundings ... you'll be surprised at how many men will approach you. Come on! Start right now! You can do it!
59332
It depends. If you are ugly, but you have a great heart.. I think some guys will love it! If you are beautiful, and have a terrible heart.. i don't think anyone will love it. Not even girls.
897146
Sometimes being "fine, slim and tall" is not enough.  You have to have a nice personality, and a good sense of humor.  Or at the very least find someone that likes your personality, sense of humor, etc.  It's that whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing.\n\nSomething else to consider is, maybe you are not the problem, chances are there's nothing wrong with you... maybe the guys in your town just don't have good taste when it comes to women. \n\nBe patient and open-minded... finding someone special is always worth the wait.\n\nGood luck!
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
921907
if u dont feel comforatable in ur body then change it...but thats not the right way...trust me...cut back on sugar and start running...maybe if u got to like 115 or something that might look ok but i dont know im a little younger than u...but remember when nicole richie lost all the weight she was 5''1 and weighed 90lbs and she looked horrible...ur 2 inches taller u would look even worse...guys will like u better if u have a body...plus ull have boobs...guys like that
682161
Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!
719574
I'm going on 38 next month but beleive me, i know how you feel, i have been heavy my whole life, i never felt liked, endured cruel jokes and felt i would never have a boyfriend. Girls and women are expected to look like everyone else on TV, its always the thin models that get the main roles in movies and chubby women are shoved to the backburner. We need to realize and believe that looks dont mean ANYTHING AT ALL, if guys are only going to like you because you have a nice body then that tells me what kind of person they really are, a JERK. You have so much to offer in this world, dont let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a special and unique person. Please just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, it takes all shapes and sizes in our world. Please enjoy yourself while you can and put a smile on your face, thats what will trully draw the right ones to you. For me i choose swimming to keep myself as healthy as possible, its easier on your body and burns more calories than any exercise you do out of water ( i was told this by a swim instructer ) and best of all its FUN. I know its hard, i dont mean to go on and on but i just want you to know your not alone. God Bless you.
414248
Depends on what is wrong with you. But if you don't have some kind of a big defect, you can be handsome only if you believe it. You must feel beautiful and then girls will see that in you. It's all about self confidence! And of course buying the right clothes. But I first look at the face and hair of the boys. So make sure you are clean! And smile a lot. That's all I can say, for starters.
860060
Honey, you have all the time in the world.  Please do worry about it.  \n\nThe less it bothers you, the more confident and attractive you'll be to guys.
428225
The exact same way a pretty girl would tell him.\nYou need to know that beauty is only skin deep & it will fade in time. However, kindness...compassion...humor...sensitivity...creativity...a good head; these are all traits that make a person appealing, as well. Don't see yourself short. Be confident in who you are & what you've got to offer.
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
324051
Hey girl, not all guys are looking for the skinny model type. Just be happy with yourself and care about yourself. Have confidence and don't worry about being short and shy. Short doesn't matter to most guys, shy isn't so bad, just smile at the guys and try to be knowledgeable about current events or something so you have something to talk about. I'm sure you are a great girl and some guy is going to be lucky to find you.
155856
Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
1042672
Yes!!! that's the perfect boyfriend! with that u won't even need to worry about good looks (but they are nice). go for it girl!
673812
Be yourself, if you are fake, guys will know!\n\nAnother point of fact is, you don't need a boyfriend, you are whole as you are, so stop being desperate.\n\nWinning something has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend, you can be pretty on the outside, and seriously ugly on the inside, are you ugly on the inside?
469969
ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
102322
Beauty comes from within. Looks are merely skin deep. From your question I'd imagine you are already a beautiful woman. If nature figured you needed to be skinny, then you will be skinny. That's genetics. Work with what you have and be happy with that.