How can I start an interesting coversation and make her my friend?
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Ask yourself is the possibility of getting this girl worth the effort of overcoming your insecurities and shyness? Is holding her, seeing her smile, laugh, waking up to see her face in the morning worth putting for effort to change?  You're the only one that can actually do that, though here is a little advice that may help you in talking to her:\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nAs for the no being able to relate to others because you don't drink of dance... You're not the only one, a lot of people don't enjoy the bar and club scenes, you'll find others that feel the same way. If the people you want to hang out with do goto these places you can go with them everyonce in a while. You really don't need experience to be with friends at most of them.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful tod
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ermm ... just slightly hint to her that you want to be friends and device a plan so she comes to see your question over here . make sure that she KNOWS that this question is about her .
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1.) Get to know her.\n2.) Get close to her so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with her hair, touch her hand, touch her casually in neutral places like her arm, back, etc.\n3.) Tell her you like her.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell her that if she doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.\n\nEasy as pie.
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why not? she can be your friend...
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Talk to her, tell her you would like to get to know her and be upfront that you would like to be friends. Honesty.
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first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
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spend time with her.. get to know her more.. there's lots of ways! and most of all.. be yourself..
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Be approachable, make her smile, and talk to her--maybe she'll start to like you too.
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Be her friend first then ask her out.
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You can't. At least, not until she knows you exist. So try to let her know who you are. Maybe ask her out for coffee or something. Go introduce yourself.
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Umm.. say hi introduce yourself! Go out there pick a topic and start chatting! Be his friend and if you play your cards right, youll be more than that!! In short MAKE HIM realize you exist!
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The best answer is to be there.  Let her know that you are interested, and that you are there for her as a friend at the very least.  You can't "make" anyone change their minds... but if you demonstrate your ability and sincerity, then they at least have the option.
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hey... ask her out dude... or simply give her a hint tht u like her... or tht ur interested in her.. else try talking 2 ur frnd... since u say he's ur best frnd... guess u shldnt really hide nething frm ur best frnd
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Hi! I think you should spend 1 fun day with this follower\nand tell her you need to talk to her and then say you like having friends, but not ones who follow you around all the time.and then tell her that you would like to be friends with her,but she should give you some space.
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Just start small, say hi in passing, and then eventually maybe you will be comfortable enough to actually start a convesation with her. Just relax and be yourself, its the best advice I can give you.
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First you need to get to know her as a friend and when yall become close to were you can tell her anything and everything and she doesn't tell anyone then i think that she's the girl for you!!!!!!!!!
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Well you could talk to her about a girl you're interested in that is not her. She might get the hint that way. You can still be friends because you're looking for her advice, but at the same time you're making it obvious that the friendship you two have is just that.... friendship, nothing more. \n\nAlways have something in your hands or wear a back pack on both shoulders that way she'll be less likely to hug you or hold your hand.