how can i ask a girl out without getting shy?
149377
honestly the best thing you can do is just to take a deep breath, man up and go ask her...\nthere's a guy that i know likes me but he's too shy to ask me out, although i've given him more than enough signals to show that i like him...Sometimes girls (aka myself) just dont feel comfortable asking a guy out themselves, unfortunately.  So if you dont want to miss out on something you better go ask her.
882169
express an interest in her.  most girls are too shy to make the first move and wish the guys would do it.  dont take things to fast tho..but dont be too hard to get  GOOD LUCK
48304
well, ask her out; ya never know unti lyou try.  Or if ou are 2 nervous see if you guys could play some 1 on 1 sometime.  Or you could talk to her more, like get to know her better that way she will get to know you. Good Luck!
749262
Just try to be yourself. Ask her out sometime and do not be shy about that, it's so natural. I mean, if you want someone open the door to you, you at least(!), have to knack in it...\nHow more simple can it be?
656299
I think if you want to ask her out, you should first become more confident in your self. Girls can sense insecurity, and it's a total turn off. Then you need to just ask, like "I was going to go to go see... on friday, wanna come?"\nthen at least you can play it off like you just wanted to chill, but if it works in your favor GREAT!!!!
185453
she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
1150587
just walk up to her and ask, be assertive and confident.  girls dig that
756624
1) start with a compliment tell her you like her shoes or something\n\n2) make small talk, but dont look too desperate\n\n3) Have a conversation and build a friendship\n\n4) after a while, when you think both of you are ready, ask her out.\n\nThis shouldnt all happen in one day...this could take a long period of time\n\nDONT RUSH THINGS!!
845078
Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
505518
Real easy. Tell her you are interested and ask her to dinner. If she's not game, she's probably not interested. If you're direct and assertive her shyness won't get in the way. Don't ask her to come out with you and your friends, either.  You want to make yourself clear that you want a romantic dinner.\n\nDon't worry so much about rejection.  It happens.
228376
be yourself and just ask her thats not going to be that hard
878362
Just ask her out, plain and simple, but have a plan, when you do it, have a place you would like to take her, don't walk up to her and say hey do you wanna go out? you will feel awkward, walk up to her, and say, hey would you like to go out this Friday night night and see a movie, ******* is playing at 7:30? have a plan.
556067
well be respectful, flirty, and honest with girls. and also try to be mature.then, just ask the girl that you like out. don't feel shy, because most girls hate when guys are shy. thats also means you are not confident.
164000
Don't be nervous, chances are if she likes you she's probably more nervous than you are. ;)\n\nIf you guys don't usually hang out…Get a group of friends together and tell her that a bunch of friends are going to go ___________ and tell her it'd be awesome if she came with. That way you have a group date, and there won't be any awkward silences, but you’ll still get to know her.
329573
I am a shy person too, and most shy people want u to take it slow with them and don't push thing to far. Talk to her\nas a friend first and see what she enjoy. You might have something in comment with her and you may hit it off. Don't rush nothing
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
453363
Just make sure that shez not a mean girl so that she doesn't turn you down, but depending on the type of girl she is, try to find someplace she'll like and tell her if she wants to go with you. If she likes the place so much, most likely she'll say yes. DOn't try to impress her so much, but be talkative, and nice. Don't move too fast either, unless shez that type of girl. But shez prolly not, rite??