How do I tell someone 20 years younger than my that I love her?
140376
if shes 20n years older then you forget it because even if she loves you she would get arested for date razpe if she dated you.
464275
Age doesn't matter, as long as there is love.\nI'm dating a girl 19 years younger than myself now.\n\nHe will stay loyal to you if you both are really in love.
153828
Yes, you can. When the difference is only one or two years, it's basically the same age bracket. I am married to a woman who is two years older and we feel like we are the same age.\nThe only problem you might expect is when you are, say 11, and the girl is 12. Then it is obvious that the love is more likely to be infatuation rather than love, and the age difference might mean the two people go in completely opposite directions.\nOther than that, you are probably fine.You are of the same generation, with the same cultural values, so it can be definitely alright between you.\nGood Luck.
1018419
I would say that be prepared on really showing to your family that you do really love this women. Personally the age gap doesn't seem like a problem at all. Her having a child- be prepared for your family to question if she wants your money and get ready to defend her. But I say kudos for not throwing away your love over the fear of what your family is going to say :)
136504
THE FIRST THING YOU'LL DO @ THIS POINT IS TELL HER THAT U R INTERESTED IN HER. HELLO ITS 3 YEARS, DUDE JUST LET HER KNOW AND THEN YOU TAKE IT FROM THERE. UNTIL U KNOW HER RESPOND UR NEVER GOING TO KNOW ANYTHING. THE BEST APPROACH IS THE STRAIGHT FORWARD APPROACH & GET IT OVER WITH ALREADY. HAVE U EVER HEARD THE EXPRESSION," LIFE'S TO SHORT?" OKAY THEN. GO 4 IT. GOOD LUCK
105705
im 22 & my hubby is 32...i was 19 when we met & he was definitely insecure about his age but we just joke about it now. be proud of your age & experience & let her know you're willing to play "teacher" to her "school girl"!! hahaha!! & if she's got an age issue you dont want some immature little snot like that anyway, she'd just hold you back from a more fulfilling relationship elsewhere...  good luck to you!
1072610
Open the lines of communication with her. Start by listening to her more (not talking more). \n\nAsk her about her hopes and dreams, about what she thought her life would be like when she was your age, ask what she thinks her best qualities are and what she thinks your best qualities are, ask her about family traditions and stories. \n\nShow her that you love her, that you are invested in your relationship with her, that you take her/her words seriously, and that you're capable of thinking for yourself but can appreciate her wisdom. \n\nAfter a couple of weeks, hopefully she will begin to be more open with you and will start asking you questions in return, and then you can tell her about choices you've made, your feelings about those choices, and how you think they may impact your dreams/plans for the future. \n\nAlso, be willing to consider asking her for help in quitting smoking. There are few things that will make your adult life more difficult than being a smoker (tobacco costs are rising, few public places allow smoking, the smells associated with smoking are considered especially unattractive for women, the money you spend on tobacco supports corrupt politicians that make major decisions that hurt your life, it's harder/more expensive to get health and life insurance as a smoker, smoking increases your medical bills as it makes you more prone to upper respitory infections in winter and cancer in middle age, etc.)
1371
TELL HER. What is the worst that can happen? If you don't, you will regret it the rest of your life. I will always regret not telling Susan that I love her. I haven't seen her for five years, and I still love her.
762020
Sounds to me like you are 13 years old... give or take 1 year. Don't tell him you love him, that will only scare him, especially if he doesn't really know you.
76458
send her flowers and tell her you love her.
314276
It isn't really about giving her something romantic per say, but about expressing what is in your heart to her.  One of the best things you can do to show you care and you concern for her 'drifting' is write a letter.  Express yourself in this letter and let her know exactly what you feel.  \n\nHighlight some of the great areas in your relationship from the beginning until now and tell her how your love for her has continued to grow over time.  \n\nAnother thing you can do is a few weeks before your anniversay, tell her that you want to treat her to a special day because it means a lot to you.  Let HER plan the events for the day.  Or, ask her for some ideas of the things she'd like to do that day and then plan the day based on what she tells  you.\n\nOne hot thing to do is go back to a restaurant or place that was in the beginning of your relationship when it was just getting started. \n\nAnd, then your typical stuff: roses, jewelry, etc.\n\nHope your anniversary is the best!
787073
tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
180429
Just tell them that you do. It is sometimes a difficult thing to tell someone that you love them, but the fear of doing it is much worse. Plus, life is way to short to not let someone know that you love them....and chances are, they probably WOULD LOVE TO HKNOW THAT YOU LOVE THEM!!!! Go for it! Good luck
493581
dear jeeyaa, u still have a chance to love someone younger than her.. i prefer u to forget her.. find a new girl.. u cant support her.. she's too old for u..
717520
True love doesn't recognize age.....but 20 isn't too far out of the question, I had a g grandfather that was 30 years older than my g grandmother...they lived a long happy life together
11339
jus mail me and tell how old r u and old is the other person . but i think just when both of you and her r alone write on a paper that what personalities do u except form ur future husband and ask to to write the answer on the paper .then u tell 'i like u more than a friend ,u know what i mean , i love u .would u except my proposal ?'
1065330
old enough to be your gramma likely!\nYou then tell her straight out.  why beat around the bush,  honesty is ALWAYS the best.