Why IS MY GIRLFRIEND SO NEGATIVE?
143356
Face it, she's a B!TCH !!!!
1160592
Sounds like she is a selfish spoiled woman. Marriage is about giving too, and mean comments are horrible! I would never do that, you are suppose to support and love, not yell and smash. Thank god you don't have kids! Can you see her giving them what they need?? Do you want children someday?? You need to ask yourself what you want out of life and if that envolves leaving a wicked woman then do it! You deserve to be happy!..Goodluck
681357
there is obviously a strong and powerful subconscious message you're receiving but you haven't felt strong enough to deal with it.  \n\nthere are a few things going on here:  you feel that she is stronger in the relationship and you go along with what she wants and if she wants the relationship then so be it but anger and resentment is building.\n\nthere are traits that you don't like and you have not had the courage/strenght/assertiveness to speak up and ask for change\n\nyou are unaware of your thoughts and core values and as you're defining them for yourself, you're finding that your wife's aren't necessarily compatible with yours.
748160
sorry to say this, but your wife sounds trife! any woman who wont recognize a man thats willing to take care of you and you cant even make sure he comes home to a clean house? she sounds verrrry comfortable. like she knows she "got you". she probably talks shit about you to her girlfriends. do you go away alot? talk to her, if that doesnt work, tell her to kick rocks!! you dont sound happy with her, you should always be happy.
63758
Sounds like there's a communication problem going on.  She might be saying something that you're not understanding.  I'd try to do a lot of listenening, and ask her what she means by what she says.  But you need to be really patient and understanding.  Don't try to defend yourself.  Don't try telling her where she's wrong.  Just try to understand what she's feeling and what you can do about it.  That could be a good start.
6284
She seems insecure and to be avoiding the seriousness of your statement. Perhaps because she needs more time to discover her reply (whether she feels the same way about you).
394086
talk to her and find out why. maybe she has had a bad experience that she cant talk to you about. also, see if she will seek some couselling. unless she really doesnt like you, if she isnt willing to get some help then i dont see your relationship going much further. good luck.
596718
you have to think about why it is that you feel this way. why do you think you aren't good enough for her. once you figure this out you can start the healing process within yourself. it's okay to argue.. it's part of life. the tough part is how you are going to handle it and manning up to any mistakes you may have made. that is the true test of a relationship. this doesn't mean that you don't deserve her. if anything.. she's putting you on to things so you are aware how you are hurting her, yourself, and the relationship. if she says she loves you .. believe it. communication is the key. have a talk with her and try to sort out your feelings. if you really love her .. try and work it out. but you gotta trust her. live and let go.. easier said than done.. but you'll be happier in the long run with the one you love.. hope it helps..
135880
maybe she's feeliong underappreciated and is trying to make you jealous by reminding you she's been with other men.  If she's insecure in your feelings for her, she's probably looking to see how you react when she says this stuff.  It's childish, and will end up hurting the relationship if she continues.  I'd talk to her about it.  See how she reacts.  If she blows up over this, I'd say cut her loose and find someone else.  If she agrees to stop, give her a chance.
908334
You can share your feedback with your girlfriend. Her reaction will tell you if she is receptive to feedback & whether she would be willing to change. If she is offended by your remarks or gets angry take a cue & move out.
237666
My girlfriend is cold to me at work but alone she is totally opposite.  She says she's a private person (we\nare also practicing Christians) and does not like the \nattention she gets and says she does not like other people\nknowing her business.  She says that's just the way she\nis.
112807
she needs to ease off the haterade becuase she's hating on you for what ever reason.  Some you doing that she wish she can do or have.  And if this guys are really your boyfriends they would respect you for you and not sleep with a hoe.. YES a hater hoe.. You need to shake them all off because they are nothing to you if they are doing this.  Don't try to be friends with her either because that's not going to work for her to leave you alone.  You trying having 3 best friends sleep with your boyfriends.  I just throw the trash out with them all and start over.  Its hard but you have to because if not your going to be hurt.  Don't play her at her on game becuase god knows what she might have for sleeping around. your better then that and she knows it and that's why she's hating.. one thing you don't want to do is show her that your all booty hurt over this again because that's what she wants and your showning her that she won. Good luck!!!
1060128
It sounds like you guys need to talk. People show their affection in different ways, and maybe her style isn't your style. That doesn't necessarily mean she loves you any less.\n\nOn the other hand, maybe she is having second thoughts and is preparing to break up with you. Often, people distance themselves emotionally before dumping someone so that the pain is not as bad-- they've broken up mentally long before they say the words.\n\nMy suggestion is to sit down and tell her how you feel and be open to what she has to say. But don't stay in the relationship if the feelings aren't mutual. That would be a waste of time.
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
761291
Why do u think that u are not good enough for her?  If, she felt that way she would tell u, or is it u that wants to break up with her?  If, she is not giving u any indication that she is not interested, stop dwelling on it so much.  You must mean something to her, if she has not said anything to u.  You sound like u are a little insecure about your looks. Don't be!!! She loves U!! For who u are.  Don't sell yourself short.  Good Luck!!
1033069
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.