i  met agirl in club and i feelt so conected with here.we didnt have sex and i didnt get here number what shol
143289
About the only thing you can do is go back to the club and hope you run into her. You could go so far as to hire a private detective to find her, but goodnesstat would be pretty costly and verging on crazy.\n\nTry to run into her again and see what happens.\n\nGood luck!
743562
You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
1016219
go with what you feel is best. take a break and try the fling. the fling may end up just being a good time and may make you feel good all over again.
766725
Did your friend bail because she wanted your company throughout the night, needed someone there?  Or because she wanted sex from you?  If it is the latter, I'd say.. find a new friend.
979656
Sounds like you're maturing!  They say men mature around the age of 25....... I think it is possible to find someone for a meaningful relationship in a nightclub....but you should find someone that you are interested in talking to instead of just taking home for a quickie!
739443
wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
739628
there were obviously problems with your marriage and he left but he misses you. there is sex sex and there is making love sex, after so long he , even though he may not admit it would find it difficult not to have making love sex with you. it all could lead to nothing but it is an intimate bond between you and it may lead to a fuller relationship, if and only if the other issues that caused you to separate are solved.\nat the end of the day your not a 16 years old virgin and being on your own without sex sucks, you dont owe anyone anything about an explanation, you know this may lead to nothing, but your an adult, there is nothing of certainty in the world. it makes you feel good now, if it doesn't then stop, have more sex if you can, the world isn't a very nice place and we have to get what little enjoyment from it that we can.\n\nmost of all the one you dint get tonight is the one you never get\n\nhave fun, we all know where the journey leads so you better enjoy getting there
693013
You will feel better with time; and you are not the only one who experienced this. So, move on and know life will get better. Also, you will have a better idea of what to look for in your next relationship..
207944
Take it slow.  You've just been through a very traumatic event, and is it any wonder that you have no sex drive?  You are probably feeling hurt and abandoned, and maybe just a little down on yourself.  Start dating, don't rush into anything, and something good will come along.\n\nBest wishes to you.
883255
u need to talk with her, make it so its not akward around the house. i dont understand why she was on your bed? and this might sound wierd (but really its not , with more and more girls i really talk with) she might of wanted you to find her, if she didn't know if you are into that or not.
245552
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
822415
It is messed up! But the only thing I see messed up is that YOU were "whatever i need to get home." \n\nHow old are you?! \n\nYou need to find new guy friends. Also- next time you make sure you have a ride- and not with a guy who will want something in return.\n\nBE CAREFUL. Too many young girls think they are invincible. Put yourself around people who actually give a damn about you. \n\nSmarten up!
133858
ha ha ha ... you just a dream boy :) ,, if you want meet sexy girl,, hang out and go to clubbing dude, not just stay in front of your computer and waiting message from someone with nice ID he he he\n\nLol
576997
that u r doing with someone u care about and u feel that connection and that it doesn't feel just like sex but like u and that person has entered on a whole new level that u and no one else has ever been on
616465
i dont think we understand each other,i slept with other girl,i dont feel ur love,i dont think were meant for each other,i think im in love with someone,my mom said ur a devil in disguise,ur a freak,im not ready to move next level..etc etc..
675289
I know exactly how you feel, I moved to another state across the country. I had a really difficult time because I wasn't open and I was too shy. Be really open to new experiences and always be friendly. You should try to join clubs and such. Don't be afraid because there's nothing to lose!
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.