how can i make my husband loveme?
144734
you can't make somebody love you, maybe you should revalute why you are still married?? If he does not love you , why stay with him. You have to make your own happiness.
654919
spent time with him, let him know you enjoy being with him. Go for walks in special places., parks,trails,beach,or your neighborhood. let him know that time spent with him bonding YOU really LOVE, and that it will strengthen your relationship. Tell your partner that it does not take much to make you happy. \ncook at home let him know that you love doing this for him and that the satisfaction of him liking you food is all you need to know that you're doing something right for your relationship.\nclean the house while he's at work and go out and rent a movie you know he'd liked and tell him it's gonna be a block-buster nite. make some popcorn and sodas, ice cream. \nbecome domestic but let him know it's how you always wanted it to be ., ever thing else WILL fall in place. make youself look pretty for him.\n\nGOOD QUESTION> life is about caring, giving and sharing.
110400
- Think you are beauty.\n- Refine your thoughts.\n- Express love to him.\n- Attract him with your care and let him know how great love you have upon him.\n- Have a simple and neat look and smile often.\n- Hope you can achieve as what you think and do and have my heartiest wishes.
537162
Hmmm...well, since you married him he probably (or atleast should) already know that you love him.  However, it's better late than never, so find a nice, quiet time where it's just the 2 of you, and all of his attention is focused on you, and then just say it!  Good luck! ;)
539428
You've heard about how you 'can lead a horse to water'.... You can't 'make' your husband do something he doesn't want to do, no matter HOW much you love him. I do like the idea of the quiet time together with him. If things are to the point of being serious (you said you had been talking about splitting up) then I don't know that being overly affectionate when he comes home is the answer. Nor, is the trechcoat dessert idea (although I DO like that, just not THIS time). I would say go out and get him a card. (not to 'plug' anyone, but I have found some at Hallmark that say almost exactly what I want to express.) Pulling out pictures may be a little unfair.... Give him the card, let him read it, let him tell you (by his words AND expressions)what he thinks and how he feels. If he DOES want to make things work, tell him how much you love him and discuss what it's going to take to make things work. Once that is decided, then work everyday to make those things happen. \n\nGood luck.
145611
Same way you tell any man you love him. Just do it... Like the Nike commercials.. *giggle* Don't be shy.. just go for it.
604631
I think that the best way to show a man that you love him is to do something really special.  Like make him his favorite meal & if you don't know it....ask his friends or family what it is.  OR treat him to a "salon" day.  Most men nowadays love being pampered just like us women do.  Other than that, you'll have to just really think on your own.
316780
Marry a man with a small p*nnis
674023
make him feel the love (emotionally!)
1031554
Sometimes action speaks louder than words. So try leaving little love notes for him in his pockets or under his pillow. Cook a nice dinner for him. Tell him that you will always be there 4 him. But, Never forget to tell him you love him.
799566
when he gets in greet him at the door in sussies! and go on the pretence that your hubby is due home and you really shouldn't, try and do it in every room in the house, when you get to the kitchen get the cream and choc sauce out-maybe strawberries whatever take your/his fancy.\ni have been married 13 years and we play the just met game and it really turns us on keeps our sex life going anyway-doesn't hurt anyone else all good fun\nhave fun ><
930575
Hi Miss_Perfect,\n\nThe best way to a man's heart is through his stomach so I'd say make him his favorite dinner, favorite dessert, candles & favorite music playing. This works always because you took the time to make him happy.  If you make his lunches you can always put little love notes in especially for him. And why not surprise him with a big red bow tied around your nake body!!
112509
Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
627401
You really want to know?\n\nTreat him like you did when you were trying to get him to ask you to marry him.\nOnly compliment.\nOnly praise.\nOnly .... laugh at the bad jokes. When he does anything right praise him. Compliment how he looks, acts, touches, kisses. \nMake sure you do everything you did to get his attention. Did you wear things when you where with him that would draw his attention?\nDid you do stupid things to make him laugh? Did you act childish? \n\nHave you told him lately to grow up. Have you told him that he did something wrong, why did he not do something else. Oh wait those are things that he never heard from you before you were married.\n\nI have a lot of other stuff that I've seen happen after the ring went on if you need more examples.\nI also have a TON of stuff that happy couples do.
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Definitely you are a great wife… One that any man World appreciate.\n\nSometimes everyday issues really get to our heads, and men, we get stressed up  easily.\n\nMy suggestion: Make him horny (over the phone, emails, offer him a nice welcome back home early morning) .\n\nJust act like the girlfriend.\n\nYou see? If you act like the wife, he’ll act like the old-daddy. Nevertheless, if you are the high school-type girlfriend. That will send him back a couple of years, and motivate him a bit more. \n\nWhen you have finally trapped him in your castle of love. Act horny, I mean, enjoy it and let him know you are enjoying it: he’ll feel like “superman” inside that room and will always want to be near, and repeat. Work his ego, his macho ego. \n\nInclude, always, a bit of wine and nice dinner (gourmet food).\n\nSend me a line if you need recepies.
469249
Try getting some adult movies,mags, clothes. Surprise him one day when he isnt expecting it with some skimpy lingerie. Just keep it spiced up or changing the routine. I \nalways love my wife to surprise me with things like that.
496702
Just give him lots of attention and spend time with him doing what he likes once in a while... Trust me he will start paying more attention to you then! Just dont nag him and bug him alot.... Also if this does not work seek marriage counseling!