Whats wrong when someone is gay???. Thats who i they are.. why discriminate.a girl's best friend. at most?
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it is wronge. the bible says it is wronge but it is also wronge to judge and treat people bad. the bible says go and be shepards of men and treat others as you wont to be treated meaning that i am supposed to let a gay person know if i get the chance so as not to offend them that God says its wronge but i am also to respect them and treat them like humans which they still are. does this answer your question.
586463
I don't hate homosexuals. My best friend since seventh grade is gay and I love her just as I did way back then!!! However, many people just have problems accepting what's different...what they really know nothing about. Be happy!! That's what really matters.
493253
not all people are gay.\nmost of the guys like beautiful girls too
699581
There is nothing wrong with being gay-friendly.  Most of my friends are str8 men, but that doesn't make me a heterosexual.  Also, I think some of my str8 friends 'act' more gay than I do.  Leave your friend's husband alone to be however he wants.
966698
When I was dating during high school the girl I took to the prom (my first dating experience) told me that her first boyfriend turned out to be gay.  I was devastated to hear this as I could never tell her the truth about me (still hoping not to be gay) in fear of hurting her again.  \n\nI am sure its because she is attractive and safe (being kind and thoughtful) and a little bit of dumb luck that she dated homosexuals.  She actually fulfills their desire of the woman they would like to be with if they had natural attraction.\n\nTell her to be flattered and say thank you.  Then wish them well in their future relationships.
589297
I went through this same dilemma. I came out during my sophmore year of highschool. And there was the most drop dead gorgeous guy there. His name was Gary. Let me tell you. Anyways, I wanted to be with him very badly, but did not know how he felt. So I befriended him. We started hanging out, and stuff like that. Well two years went by and still nothing. Well in December of our senior year a bunch of us were out at a  party. His girlfriend was there and everything. (He had this girl for 3 years now) Well I went outside for a smoke, and he followed me outside and complimented me on my new glasses. Ok no big deal. Well we sat there and talked, smoked a few cigs and went back in. My best friend and I decided to get into the hottub. We had been sitting there for about a half hour or so when Gary came in. My best friend got out and went to go get a beer. I mentioned that my shoulder was buggin me from a fall I had taken earlier that week. So he reaches over and starts to rub it. Then we kissed, and ended up ditching the party and ****ed all night long lol. The next day he dumped his girl and him and I have been in a relationship ever since. So even the most straight acting guys may be gay. You just never know!
402385
maybe she's not sure if she's gay or not. or it could be that she really just isn't sure what sort of a guy she wants. or it could mean she doesn't know what she wants from life in general.
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Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
615828
If there is no sex involved, why does it have to be gay?  Why can't you be friends with any gender/orientation?
234321
It's tough on your friend, being gay.  He feels outcast, different, and under a microscope.  He doesn't want anyone to know most likely because he feels that he will be picked on, made fun of, or worse.  He's probably not comfortable with his orientation, either.  He may not have the acceptance at home from his family.  If you're his 'only' friend, then you have a big responsibility.  It would be good to get him into a group of others that don't care about sexual orientation or whatever else.  It's all part of growing up and being more accepting of those around you - you seem to have it mastered.  As far as your bf is concerned.  You need to be truthful with him and not raise any doubts in his mind.  If you care enough about him, then be honest.  Keep the conversation confidential, and be honest with your friend, too.  If you're honest with him as well, he'll trust you more.  Good luck, and God bless.  Be safe and study hard...  :-)
480395
You're gay when you look at members of the same sex as sexual objects. For example, a confused teen like yourself is walking down the street, and can help himself from staring at a cute guy's butt. Gay!
323059
As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with being gay.I have a couple close friends who just happen to prefer the same gender, and I wouldn't change them for the world! I think it's a huge compliment for a woman to tell me she'd like to sleep with me,even though I'm straight.The bible says homosexuality is an abomination in the Old Testament.I'll get back to you on the specific verses.
268990
I think this is wrong. People shouldnt be singled out because of their race or sexuallity. We are all different and yet the same! We should all be open minded.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
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it's worst to be many others (i.e, heartbreaker, liar, etc)\nbeing lesbian is being with another girl, loving her, committing to her, just like another healthy relationship.\njust be who you are, as long as you promote love, not sex or hatred!
827227
i certainly don't know about every gay guy, but i went through that and so did some of my gay guy friends. the thing is that gay men feel a special bond with straight girls and there is the whole thing of wanting to be "normal". almost every gay guy goes through a phase in their lives where they are just sick and tired of being tormented and ridiculed for being gay and they just would like to be "normal", whatever that is. so don't be hard on him. it does hurt the girls sometimes and that is not good but the gay guy is hurting too.TTFN.
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Because people see them as different and a lot of people can't accept people for who they are.. People were raised to think that they were better than others. and that dating someone of the same sex is not acceptable.