How can you tell your partner is having sex with somebody else?
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A bit difficult to know .It is only trust .
833458
He's flat out plain using you. And don't expect him to tell you when hes sleeping with other women. You need to be tested for HIV by the way.\n\n\nJeez women are dumb.
340861
Sex with the person you love.
618127
For two spouses?  You sound surprised to learn that TWO people can engage in sex.  Geez, what's been going on in your life, pal?
1091685
It is not you that is having (or needs) the open relationship, it is your partner who is staying with another woman.  If that person and the woman have an open relationship, that's one thing, but if there is cheating going on, that is never okay.\n\nAlso, keep in mind that a person who is "open" with you may be similarly "open" with others.  What kind of sexual disease might be spread around that way.  And if you are hooking up, you are exposed to whatever all the other partners (and *their* other partners) might have.
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ok, first up, i'm a guy. I've actuall spoken about this to my friends and NONE of us have ever cheated with our partners. The general consensus is that if you want to sleep with someone else, you should leave your current partner. having said that, however, we ALL look at other women when we are with our partners. We just do. I dont stare and dribble or anything but if theres some girl in a short skirt with nice legs, I'll quite happily look. The rule that applies is that it's ok to look. It isn't ok to touch. You cant really expect your boyfriend to go to the beach, for example and just look at the sand, now can you?\nI think  however that this isnt the only issue you have with your boyfriend. if you do have a bunch of other s,aller issues with him but this is just the bigger, then you should talk to him about those too.\nGood luck and smooth sailing sister
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My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
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When you are married and are having sex with someone else. Otherwise it is all just wishful thinking. \n\nDepends what you want....a fling or another relationship. If it is a fling enjoy it for want it is but don't expect it to last forever. Do you want to get caught? If so, it is better to tell your spouse and not get caught in the act. Believe it or not, infidelity also has ethics. Use a condon always. No calling home at night. Make your lies believeable. Do not let the 2nd relationship interfere with the 1st one. You have to give equal sex or as much to satisfy each one. And lastly, ask yourself why this happened- maybe it is time to end the marriage.\n\nIf you are the third in the triangle. Don't expect much, most people do not leave their spouse. Enjoy it for what it is and be discreet and generous. Realize that you are also to blame since you should not be involved with a married person so this says A LOT about your morals also. Also, ask yourself if you in turn will be capable of being faithful in a monogamous relationship. \n\nIf you are being cheated on. You can either get out or try to work it out with your spouse if they are willing to do so. Can you live wondering when it is going to happen again if ever? Do you want to try it? The door has being opened so you could. And finally,.....how did you contribute to this? Did you see it coming? Honestly. Did you enable it?\n\nUnfortunately nobody is innocent in this situation. It's more like a 33.33% assigned blame for everyone.
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First of all you need to be "snooping" this is your health and welfare too!  If he is having sex with another woman and not using protection then it can be devastating to you both.\n\nNow, if he isn't cheating then he's getting ready to.  Simply ask him what is making him NOT happy with your relationship.  Then LISTEN to the answer.  Don't jump down his throat, talk about it.  If he wants to leave he will leave, nothing you do or say will change that.  But make sure you have a good lawyer (if your married) to make sure you get whats coming to you in the divorce and make sure he takes care of the child you have together.\n\nGood Luck.
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That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
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This is coming from girl who previously did cheat on her boyfriend.\n1)  She doesn't spend as much time with you as she used to.\n2)  She always seems to have something to do or somewhere to go that you can't join her.\n3)  When you ask questions, she gives you short and to the point answers and then changes the subject.\n4)  If you have asked her about being with someone else, she will probably switch the question around on you and ask you if you've been with anyone else.\n5)  You catch her in little lies.  Little lies cover up big ones.\n---All in all just remember to pay attention to the little things.  She may just need space or she may be involved with someone else.  Don't jump to conclusions.  Never accuse someone of something unless you have evidence to back it up.  Ask people close to her to let you know what's up with her.
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sex with someone who is not ur husband/wife. i.e. the partners r not married to each other
214779
No,not as long as he come home and we have sex,I would know that he's not out cheating.It may make the sex better.
674587
stop the sex and see if he stays around
551535
- try to find a more mature guy...\n\n- when person a accuses person b of having an affair, there's a good chance that person a is having an affair, regardless of whether person b is or not.\n\n- you need to be more careful with birth control if you and the person you're with have not made a conscious decision that you want to have a child together.\n\n- maybe he was trying to escape responsibility for the coming baby when you were pregnant... which means he's immature.\n\n- but regardless of who's zooming who, or who did what when... you need to straighten this kind of stuff out before you start having children.
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Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
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Yes some women does know if they are going to have sex with a person. It is all in the cemistry between people. If you have the right cemistry with a person  you will know.