is it wrong to be inlove with a fellow girl?
157093
It depends on what your beliefs are. You're girlfriend may be alright with it, but it sounds like you're having a problem being with her. If you're not sure of what to do, then don't get involved with her until you are absolutely sure that there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. If you believe that it's wrong then it's wrong to you. Everyone is not going to have the same beliefs, so you can only go on what your gut feelings are concerning this homosexual relationship.
85538
I think it's fine. Sure, there are risks, but it is possible. One of my friends fell in love w/ a guy she never met but fell in love with him anyways. Then, of course, they actually met and have plans to move in with each other very soon. It just depends
665370
Wait for the right girl.  Not worth it if you don't love the person.  You're normal.  Nothing wrong with desire.  How you act upon that desire will show your true character.  If you'd like to live in a world that's more free, move to a new country.  But I'd suggest, fall in love.  Being with the person you love will give you the right experience and the best memories to cherish.  At least, that's what most of my friends tell me.  Goodluck! =)
477701
are you sure you're inlove? Maybe it's infatuation... but yes, a person can love 2 females at the same time...
1148573
NO it is not wrong to make a move.  Even if she has a boyfriend.  You should be honest with her and let her know how you feel about her.  It really wouldn't be a move, but letting her know that you have feelings.  If she doesn't like you the same way, she will let you know and you won't have to wonder anymore if it will ever happen.
1091596
It's good to fall in love with your good friend and there is no problem in it.  Just go ahead, what a better love than to love ones good friend.\nI actually fall in love all the time and never regret it. Go ahead and enjoy.
73370
gooo...im a girl so i can relate my feelings to theirs...it would hurt if you'll tell your gf that you love somebody else...but if you'll let girl b wait for you,she might look fo another guy to be wiht her... so you have to choose one....if i were you,i would choose the girl who loves me most..
482759
From a guys view..... we do like girls for who they are and their integrity... however a guy like any other person will start to take disadvantage of anyone that seems to be easy and i know we can use our mouths to get anything we want.... what your doing wrong is that your always falling for the "I LOVE YOU" crap and he is just using that as a password to access the promiss land.... if i may say that... what you need to do is to start to set standards for yourself and hey maybe he will respect you more and cut the crap... check the logics, if he loved and cared for you, yall will be together and most of all he would use u as a booty call...\n   Sorry for sounding so harsh but yall seem to always fall for the same thing.. like my sister... but your more than that and love should not be a hoke up.. there is more to love and living the joys love should be one....\n\nSort out your feelings for him and see if that what you want to do!!! or would you prefer to be with someone that loves you equally and respect you for you and not just what they can get..... \n  i would recommend that you start to avoid places where yall will become alon as that will cause you to do thing you dont want to do and secondly, just try to find someone else that can make you happy....... tell me if it works!!
368806
I wouldnt because they were your friends before you met this girl plus if your friend says luv ya that is different than say i love you.Plus if your g/f really likes she would understand
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
312560
No, I don't think so. I'm a girl, and honestly feel 2 things, 1) if it's "small" and he knows how to make it enjoyable for both, then it definately doesn't matter the size, and 2), to big can hurt, but the right kind of big is great, and there's nothing wrong with liking it, or prefering it, even if you would except the same person with a smaller one. Be glad she likes you the way you are though! Just make sure you don't go TO deep!
570880
Don't worry. It is not wrong.\n\nYou can be in love with a person, and likes (and be liked by) several peoples too.\n\nIt can be not so good if you try to get more from this other people.\n\nDefinitely it is wrong if you cheat your loved one if a relationship exists.
801313
we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
4380
Truely speaking some one loving you or not is very personal to them. We cannot change ones decision of loving or not unless it happens from the opposite side.\n\nYou can still try to be dignified and stay in touch as a friend and try to impress. But if you know for sure the opposite person is not at all interested then its cheating on friendship. You can put certain tests. As a girl you can try to keep away from him and if he tries to come in touch, believe me, chances are that he loves you.\n\nIts would be the same for girls, don't you believe?
217225
You obviously love her.  Most people love their friends.  But whether you're "in love" with her... well, you'll know when you are, it will be obvious.  If you don't know, then you probably aren't in love.  But, the thing is, it's really easy to fall in love with someone that's already a friend.  So if you're willing and you want to see if she's willing, to move to "another stage of love," then just go for it.  How you go for it is up to you though.
703089
Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
615491
Its ok to love people but if you mean you're "IN LOVE" with your cousin then its wrong.  You should only be friends.