is is wise to get married at 55?
144440
no problem whatsoever, just so long as you are not trying to start a new family, it would be real unfair to the kids you could have, if this is part of your master plan.
1009408
We are supposed to enjoy and live our life normally and never think of how old are we and when are we going to die. Nobody knows how long he is going to live to tailor his life accordingly. Some people married after the age of 70 or 80 and they begot children and lived happily. Others died on their wedding days or some years earlier. The general rule is that a woman could be considered old if she cannot have children any more if you need them! . For the man it is the ability to practice job and sex and do whatever appropriate with to age.
104422
VERY Married 28 years Don't be in a rush You will changes so much mentally and emotionally by the time your ready to marry. My husband was 29 and I was 24 when we married.
617381
It is not about the number.  Idealy you should have become all you can and know who you are and are ready to share a life without worrying and asking "what about me" all the time,  It is being ready to make a life that will include children or at least that is the hope.  You do not have to have children right away but when you marry you should be ready to have them.\n\nIf you insist upon a number then I would say no to marry bofore 25.  you are done with your education and have had a few years to live a life of your own that is just for you and have had time to know what you want in life and then to choose a partner wisely with an eye to the future and not just the night
1165495
About 25, at that age you are still young enough to enjoy them and run around in the yard.  When people have children really late in life I always think about how they are lessening their chances of seeing their grandchildren.  I am 32 and I have a 71/2 y/o son.  I'm divorced now.  If I remarried I would consider having additional children if my mate wanted them, however, I really don't think that another marriage or other kids are in the cards for me.  When you become a parent the focus is not on you and your needs anymore, Its all about what is best for the child.  To me anything above 3 kids is too many.  I would not want to have so many kids that we couldn't ride in a regular car.  I know families who have big vans just to fit all their kids, that would suck.\n\nGood luck and think hard before having kids, you can't go back! ;)
599898
Being married increases your lifespan by about 15 years.
1064268
If you are to marry an 84 year old lady just think that when you are married to her she will die soon  and then you might be rich boy in the end I would do it just for the money if I were you Good Luck
545195
fourty one is definetly not too old for anything. better to do it soonerthan later if you wish to enjoy recreation activities with your children. life only really begins when doing for kids. you will become at expert at all sorts of activities, many which at this stage you may never have tried. men can sire children well into their sixties, but as i said , if you want quality time with your children , just go for it, it is never too late\nbest of luck
218260
i dont see why not, especially if its true love. \n\nmy aunt recently tuned 50 and this summer her 2nd husband will be turning 75. \n\nage isnt anything its just a number
1040527
If you are too young to marry on your own, you are too young to marry, period, even with your parents' approval.  And if you are legally old enough to marry on your own but not yet developmentally individuated enough to choose your own life-path without parental approval, you are again too young to marry, period.\n\nYou should chill out on the marriage thoughts right now.  Consider premarital sex (with condoms *every* time!) if necessary, but marriage is best reserved for those 30 and up.
372097
Yes. Not to youngsters though. If older married and well settled then yes.
185389
not whats on the outside that counts. only you know if you are mature enough to handle a committment like marriage. chances are, if you have to ask, then you're probably not ready. long as you're over 21, age really doesn't have a determining factor as to when one is ready to marry. you'll know when it's time. be happy and rush into nothing. :)
260957
24, recently married.  I feel that you should be over 20, also have some direction in life before you drag someone else into it.  But if it is true love you will know with out any doubts.
583408
i would say it depends on WHY your getting married. My first two marrages were for medical benifits and for extra cash. i dont recommend getting married for those reasons but if it is becasue you are happy then go for it and i wish you all the best. i am only 23 and i am getting married because i want to..... and because i am happy and i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with the man i love. so yes i think 22 is early enough but quite a few ppl in here have some good answers. have you gone over your finances? and your goals in life, and i dont mean just talking about it in general but how your going to do it together and what you can do for each other to accomplish it. marrage is hard and takes a lot to make it work but it can be worth it. good luck!
472648
Why not... With God all things are possible.  It is not easy going into marriage but I think the best part of life is being with the person you love for the rest of your life.  It is a good thing to see each other at the older age .. say like 70 to 75 years and still love each other.
576460
Love at 35 or 55 for that matter isn't any different than love at 25.  If you are in love, you'll know it.  If it's infatuation, back off for awhile...it'll fade.
54257
5 years after marriage. or 8, if you're not married.