my boyfriend we love each other alot but sometimes he gets to..kinky,and  i say no he gets mad.What do u think
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Well, if you don't want to break up the only suggestion I have is talk to him about it. If he is in love or even if he just cares about you he'll understand what your needs are and be more considerate of you.
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He may feel rejected but if you have talked about how you feel them i'm sure he won't.  Sometimes he may get frustrated with you...trust me I was in the same situation.  And each time he gets upset just remember that he is in a different situation.  Men tend to think of sex as a was of expressing their love.  One thing I did was to find other ways to express my love for him. I wrote tons of love notes and made cookies with his name on them.  This made my ex-boyfriend feel like I truly loved him.  You just need to have good communication and I am sure he will not be upset in any way. Good luck and if you need any advice just send me an email
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it depends if it is your boyfriend he will get mad if not he will maybe try harder if he really likes you.
1064553
Well if you guys keep having the same discussion and aren't resolving anything or are not willing to resolve anything than maybe it is time to part ways. Especially if they are things that are important to each of you and you are not willing to compromise. But if you can't grow from this than maybe you have reached the end of your relationship. \n\nBut if you want the relationship you two need to compromise. You are going to have intiatie sex more often or be willing to have sex. If you don't want to have sex think about why? Is it not pleasureable? Are you bored with it? If you are bored think of ways to spice it up. He'll have to compromise by trying to let you in on his thoughts. He needs to understand why he can't share or why he can't trust you with his thoughts? \n\nIf you are both truly willing to make your relationship work and compromise you can get over it. But if either or you don't want to than you need to end it.\n\nMy boyfriend of over two years had this issue about six months ago. It took of month of me growing up a bit and him to work out whatever issues he had and we are still together stronger than ever.
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You don't mention what the arguments are about.  It sounds like he's trying to control you.  You're getting all tied into knots trying to figure out how to please him.  What is he doing to please you?  He gets things all wrong on purpose dear.  He is making you unsure of yourself, and he's with holding his affection from you.  I don't think I'm wrong about this.  Dump this jerk while you still have some self esteem left.
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Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
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You are a good couple..Some problems can be but you are very happy, especially your boyfriend is very happy with u I think..
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apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
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I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
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i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not
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Do you like it when he does it hard? Excuse me Bonnie, dont let a man control sex? Since when do men just beat up a womans body if they control sex. I am sure that happens, but I think that is a pretty stereotypical comment.\nI think it is important to have a mutual relationship and equal control giving and taking... I think that you just need to tell him what feels right to you and if its hurting after the sex and its bothering you cause of that, then tell him so. He should respect you and you should be able to be open about that. It probably is some minor irritation or bruising if he is doing it too hard and nothing to be alarmed about otherwise. If it starts happening other times then consult a doctor. Just know that its your body and you need to take control as in being open about it with your partner
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These types of questions make me angry, lol.  Just teasing.  What makes me angry, is when my bf gets way to possessive, and asks me to tell him in detail what I was doing.  Grr that makes me so mad because we are both 2 close 2 each other for that type of insecurity
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I'm into brutal truth BUT some people can't handle that kind of truth. it would depend on the man. Can he handle it? If something can come back and bite you in the butt later, it's best to just get it out and deal with it. I'm sure your partner would rather hear it from you then someone else.
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He needs to get more comfortable with you. try talkin to him. Better yet, when you are together just kiss him or massage his ego a bit by telling him how sexy he is.
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hmm 2 questions at once ok. Well 1st off the sex ? it's a big deal when made a big deal. It when wanted brings to ppl together in a special way. There's bonding there. If you dont want to do it then dont. 2nd ? you asked no do not go along with that relationship you dont seem to care about him so why worry about it. Let it go just let him know that you 2 aren't together in any sort of way.
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If you loose him because you have a flirting problem then your relationship dosen't have a sturdy foundation. Plus talk to him and explain to him your problem and see if he is okay with it. If not try to work out a deal with him.
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Most likely, he thinks that you are using your toys because he's not satisfying you. Simply explain to him that it is not the case (unless it is the case...).