I have never really had a boyfriend before so how would I get the experience and when i am older is it harder?
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Guess what! You don't need experience to have a boyfriend. \nIt's the same as having friends but just that it is a boy and you get a little closer. Thats all.And you have feeling inside you that you didn't with just friends. Does that make since? Just let it happen and you'll be fine.
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There is no rush for a boyfriend...enjoy your friendships first and you will know when you are ready for one!
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well go with ur gut 2 begin with and if u don't have cofindence in urself and don't ask any1 out how will u ever get experience.
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Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
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Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
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Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
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wow.. it depends on how well you know each other. if you just meet the guy and start.. he'll think you're easy. ..if you've been friends.. by flirting he might think you like him.. but at least he knows you're not easy. and.. if you ever need some practice..  ;)
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Well,\n\nI didnt have a bf for a long time and now I met a great person, even though we have our ups and downs.\n\nBest thing I can tell you is: Stay real and true to yourself until the right person crosses your path. Do things that interest you. More than likely, the right person will meet you among those interests. So take care of yourself first and dont worry too much about getting a man right away. Set a list of goals and follow your dreams, you will meet him in due time.\n\nD
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Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
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When you are dealing with loneliness..read a book, watch tv, listen to music, or watch movies. \nI know its hard being single, but you dont need a man to be happy! \nYou probably do have so much to give, but take your time you have a life ahead of you. Right now worry about yourself. Make life plans. Write out pros and cons of having a relationship, make out a list of what qualities you are looking for in a guy. But, don't rush into anything if you aren't ready for it. A relationship is a major thing, cause you have to deal with both your life and be in his life at the same time. Please take it from someone who knows, I finally found someone to be with and I'm happily engaged, it took 5 years, but I waited and I found the man of my dreams!
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 (yeah I know it's pretty pathetic).
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High school for me was a very memorable one. I just enjoy it. I don't study that "hard", but I study to have good grades. It's not a problem if you will have a boyfriend of not.  The thing is, you study so you will learn.  Having a boyfriend is part of growing up. It's just a matter of how you handle things especially your time.  \nJust remember, if you'll have a boyfriend soon, you must have the ability to handle things in balance. If you are reading your notes, have ur focus on it. After, then you can think of something else, boyfriend for forbriend, and friends. "You can't hit one bird with your gun if your looking in the other bird beside it"\nIf you will be able to handle it, then, you'll gonna make it to the end. God Bless.
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You don't need a boyfriend until you are done with school and living on your and are ready to start a life. Just live a little and go to Church and find a male friend there. Eventually, he might become the man you want.
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Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!
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You already answered your question. You don't want a boyfriend. What you do want is a social companion so you won't feel awkward with your friends.  If you can find a guy to be this kind of friend then more power to you....but don't go and get a "boyfriend" just to fit in.  Besides if your fiends make you feel awkward, then maybe it's time to get new friends.
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Everyone took my answers. Darn!\n\n\nThe best way I believe to get a boyfriend is to make friends, meet people, or just ask guys that you like and tell them something sweet. Most men are the same so whatever a woman tells them is usually the right thing.\n\nJust be sure not to give yourself away too easily.\n\nLook for personality first. Then looks. Don't be too controlling. But don't be too easy either.\n\nOr, don't look...and they will come to you.\n\nI think the question should be, "What is the reason for wanting a boyfriend?"
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I am also single and don't like it.  What type of help do you want?  Some advice?  Socialize, meet new people at school, in town, etc.  Build a social network, including clubs or hobbies you have, with people your own age, and the exposure will help you meet lots of new people.  Be open and relaxed (not desperate or needy) as you introduce yourself and take things slowly.  If you are in college that is a great place to start meeting people like yourself.\nBest of luck in love to you!