what do you do when almost all your girlfriends decided to drop at the same tme without telling each other?
146160
Run fast !! There may be something they are not telling you.
361209
It's not good to tell your business OR hang with a lot of people. Miscommunication comes in to play, and the one to be blamed will be YOU. It's good to keep to yourself or if you are in a relationship, that person should be your best friend and the only one, other than family, that you should confide in.
997483
I think you should start by keeping your distance a bit.  I think you should make other friends and spend time with them.  Just try to get out of it little by little.  Less calls, less get togethers, maybe even take a class dancing or in something else that she will not join you in.  \n\nThat way the distance will become more and more, until the day you guys don't' get to hang out very much.  \n\nIf she confronts you in a very angry or whatever tone, just be calm, nice & friendly.  Tell her that you guys have drifted apart and maybe you don't have much in common anymore.  But you still like her and consider her a friend.  This may still bite you in the butt, if she decides to spread gossip there's not much you can do but just ride it out, hang out with new friends, whatever.\n\nWhatever damage she could do, you're so much better off without her being around you, you will be happy and it will be worth it, just be strong.  You deserve good, positive, supporting friends in your life.\n\nTake care.  If you need a good defense to fight rumors, or whatever she throws your way, you can always contact me, or post another question, just be ready.
95772
ok listin closely.  OK    do what you should have done a long time ago talk to that girl and nicely tell them to stop
974735
sometimes you just have to tell people straight\n\nboth you and you boyfriend should tell her to back off !!!
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
709134
when you start getting all mushy with a girl then something bad is going to happen soon\n\nshe will finish whatever is left of her 4 weeks and tell you she met this really wonderful guy and that its not your fault  its just her\n\nso dude, let me teach you what I learned\n\nrecycle as many girls as you can like your friends are doing. its the only way to go. Get a new girl every night if possible.
1177570
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.
482905
Don't listen to gossip -- especially from people who have ulterior motives (such as splitting you up with your boyfriend).  These girls are behaving very immaturely, so they're not worth listening to.
930638
You could have let those girls down easy when you turned them down.\n\nTry being cocky and funny.
346047
Sucks huh...i was in a relationship for so long that I forgot how to flirt! ;) I started by organizing large group outings, and gradually built up the confidence to mingle single ;)
133636
Well, the best thing to do is figure out why it is that you have such a problem being alone.  Then let the girls know that they aren't the only women in your life.  It's not fair to let someone think that you are completely theirs when your not.  Try being honest.  I think that you just want your cake and want to eat it too.
1068036
Behave yourselvs at work and carry on with work as usual.  Romance out of the premises.  I did that and kept a secret for 2 years, people just thought we were friends.
735926
Drama.  Tell her to back off and go for it or do nothing.  Flip a coin if you need to.
243787
Woo, how on earth did you ever think that getting in a situation with two girls was a good idea? (unless they both gave you permission before ;-) then you're a lucky man!)\n\nYou know deep down you can't keep seeing both. That's just not fair to them, and it compromises you, and adds pressure and stress to your life, as you are effectively living a life of deception! So make a decision, make it fast, and finish with the other girl as kindly as possible. Make sure the ditched girl never finds out, as you are a dead man. \n\nThat really is the only thing you can do!
172441
Dont sneak out because if you break their trust once, it'll take years to get it back. Sit down with them and be willing to compromise. Maybe just go on dates with friends and agree to carry a cell phone or stuff like that. It helps if they trust you and if they still refuse, just hang out with the girl of your dreams at school. Its not tthat big of a deal if you cant see her outside of school but you can im her or call her if she doesnt mind.