What do you do when the person that makes you stop crying, was the one that makes you cry in the first place?
157060
if the person that made you cry makes you stop and gets a smile out of you then chances are its forgivable.
961231
If you can, just let her carry on talking and crying. Let her get it out of her system if you feel comfortable with that.\n\nThe "cheer up, stop crying" is only to be used if YOU cannot handle the situation - as those words never actually help the person who is tearful!\n\nDepends also on how well you get on and what gener you are. If a trusted friend or you are also a woman, resting a hand on her shoulder *MAY* be appropriate if you have had SOME sort of contact before. If not, then perhaps best avoided.\n\nWas there something in particular that you WANTED to do?
277433
first and foremost you need someone to listen to you. not talk but listen. sometimes, we just need somebody who will just listen. how do you find that person?...could be one of your best buddies or if you're a religious person go to the priest or rabbi. just tell them that you just need someone who will listen.  or tell yourself it's ok to cry then belt out your one last cry..after that, take a long walk at the park. be one with nature..i mean, breath in fresh air..don't forget to bring lots of water.you'll need that.
693399
Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.
671436
Well at times life puts you through a test and you need to make do with what you have and decide likewise.\n\nIf possible, you should decide on moving away from him.\n\nIf you are dependent on that person and / or tied with him for some reason which would not allow you to move away, then try to stress less on the darker side of your life. If it's just something that you can't really do anything about then at-least deviate your mind and attention away from that person as much as possible. Try occupying yourself with something that takes your mind away from him so you don't keep pondering on the fact and getting yourself more depressed.\n\nLast but not the least, I don't really know your relationship with this person or your history with him, though would still suggest to analyze your situation once again to see where the wrong lies. There may just be ways that you can salvage your relationship with this person. Depending on your situation, it may just be worth the try.\n\nHope you find a way out of your problem soon.\n\nAll the best.
246616
planned or not, it is still is a very emotional time in this persons life.  You can't really say or do anything to console the person, all you can do is show your respect and compassion and give that person whatever they need.  If they need to cry you let them cry, if they want to yell then let them, just be a friend.
37264
Walk out of the situation before the anger takes control of you. Like 'babygirl' said, it will give you time to cool down & think through the situation sensibly instead of causing harm, whether physically or verbally, to the other in a fit of rage.\n\nThat's what I do, just walk out on the person or just don't talk. I am known for a vicious temper & that's how I deal with it. :)
1153109
I would suggest counseling. Maybe this person does not know how they make you feel, or even if they do, they don't know how to stop. If they grew up in a household that was always yelling, then they don't know any other way to be. If you can't get the person into counseling, then you either find a way to deal with it or find a way to get out.
150823
affect a persons emotions and you have affected the person.
974857
Drop him! You don't deserve that crap. i've had the same thing happen to me, and the right guy was there all along.
961697
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
817369
Stop crying. I am not saying that that wasn't sad and I am not saying you shouldn't cry, but you've got to stop thinking about things that happened in the past.\n\nIt's a crazy notion propogated by the society, that when someone sexually abuses you, he/she makes you impure. It's wrong. You are not responsible for the things that were forcibly done to you. You are as pure as you were when you were a kid. The other guy has sinned; it's his fault. If you constantly cry and be unhappy, you are only punishing yourself for something that was never your fault anyway. Not fair to you AT ALL.\n\nForget about the past and relatives who just don't care about your feelings. Who wants such nasty people to love you anyway?\n\nLook at today. You've got a job. You probably support yourself well. I am proud of you. Now only if you stop crying and see that you don't deserve to be unhappy, you'll be perfect. :)\n\nSmile!
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
260135
IGNORE him or her. The only reason he/she keeps doing it is because it gets you upset. This gives the person a sense of control over you. If you ignore him/her then they loose that control.
1095976
You should probably cut it off. If you know you are the only one with serious feelings then you also know that you are going to be the only one hurt in the end. If you are hell bent on staying with him, then try to use him for something as well. Then you'll both be okay in the end, because you acknowledged early that it was meaningless.
1148285
Overwhelm yourself with friends. \nI get over things like that when I hang out with one person or a group of people that NEVER make me feel bad. \nAlso pick one person to cry on. Don't conseal it completely or you'll explode!
68931
Yours?  Get involved in something else.  Do not dwell on the past.\nA friend?  Listen.  Help keep their mind on something else.  Hugs do wonders.\nStay away from tear-jerker movies, songs and book.  Go for the light hearted.\nHearts can be broken, but they do heal.