Men Only: Do you hold the door open for women or has chivalry died in you?
155176
i do hold the door if the woman behind me is reasonably close, say 20 feet.  that's courtesy.\n\ni won't hold the door for a woman two blocks away.  that's stalking.\n\nlong live chivalry!!  to scotland!!
220606
Chivalry seems to be a thing of the past.  It went away with equal rights for women, but some men, myself included, still treat the "fairer sex" with the respect and dignity they deserve.
532203
Women do it!  (Myself included!)\n\nI had three friends over last night and we were talking about it...3 out of 4 of us (75%) do it regularly and the other one wants to now.  lol  So that should tell you something...
866790
Those rules change over time, as society does.  These days, it involves holding doors open for women, helping them on with their coats, and not talking about them in rude ways.\n\nMy personal opinion, I really like being treated that way, but I always treat my sweetie with similar respect and courtesy, and that makes it a great two-way street.
929225
He should have just said "thank you" and let it go.  It isn't a big deal.  \n\nAs far as I know, modern etiquette would have it ok for a woman to hold the door for a man.  The way I see it, its a nice way to let men know they are equally valued/cared for.  Why should they have a life of nobody ever doing anything nice for them just because they're men.\n\nMaybe at a formal event it would be nicer to stay with traditional etiquette, but if people are just walking into the drug store I don't see why formal etiquette needs to be followed.
1182638
Personally, I don't like to shake hands with men....makes me feel like one of the guys.  I know in business you don't have the option but to shake hands.  I would suggest using your free hand to support either her elbow or forearm as you hold the "shaking" hand.  And, I wouldn't actually "shake" her hand...just hold it as you greet her.  I think that would be appropriate and respectfully acknowledge that she's a woman.... yet not too intimate to cause a problem. Most of us enjoy being  treated like women.  And, BTW....if you hold the door for me, not only will I smile but I'll also say thank you.
870253
not me!! I like the way things were, you open door for me, I look good and am nice to you, I am the weaker sex, you are the stronger, you work and bring home the bacon and me, I fry it for you!! I have a home my man wants to come home to and a woman waiting. Stay as you are, the rough chin in the mornings or late at night....the scent of man....
950957
It's not all that much different up here in the northeast.  Nice men do land women, don't get me wrong....but the majority of men who land the women are the careless type.  I think it's a universal reality no matter where you go.....why do you think so many men try to be careless, bad, look mean, etc.....it's all to win the ladies affection because we all know it works.  Modern feminists try to tell us to treat a woman good, but we aren't affectionately or sexually rewarded in return......I think they need to re-evaluate their thinking.
490631
Either way, if you like him, snatch him up ASAP!  I don't care what the youth of today say...Chivalry never dies!  (and always the way to a womans heart!)
287347
It is so right for many reasons. I say go ahead especially if you guys are in love. Men are not accustomed to being treated special, they have all the pressure of having to be sweet and romantic because society has labelled that their role, so when u do a simple thing like open their door, or pull out their chair, or give them a nice massage they feel so pampered.\nGo for it , May God bless you both
832949
I am old fashion...He pays for the date, always.  I refuse to accept his role in the relationship.  I think the problem with most men is that we as working, independent women feel the need to display our equality.  I don't.  I am equal but you will open my door.  I am equal, but you will pay for the date.  I am equal but if you see me carrying heavy bags or see something in my house that needs repair, you will offer your services.  And in return, I cook my butt off, never say no and make each intimate moment an adventure.  Also, leave that tired clown alone, he's not a real man and will never make you happy.
754682
I like it when a man stands up when i enter the room. There is no harm in this. Its show that the man has respect of ladies etc.
909790
you got it right, why should us guys have to do the double touch on the toilet! up before and down after.\n\nforget that, in this day and age with equality issues all around i think that if guys have to put it down then women have to put it up!\n\nSilly females think they can control us....
748791
You can be a gentleman at any age.  :)  The most respectful gentleman I have ever met is 16, and I hope he'll keep his respect for women until the day he dies.  First, don't judge people based on the outside alone.  Open doors for people, whether it be an old lady, a mother with kids, the girl you're crushing on.  Always say thank you and please.  Always help when you can, especially if it is something small like helping someone carry their grocery bags to their car, returning a cart for someone in the mall, helping a neighbor shovel their driveway or mow their lawn.  Giving up your seat in a crowded room or on the bus.  Lending someone shivering cold your jacket.  Helping the person in front of you pay for their purchases/orders or whatever if they find they are a couple dollars short.  Help a lady seat first when sitting or eating with her, pass food options to her before yourself.  Offer to run and grab an umbrella for her and walk her to her car when it's raining.  Offering to signal a cab for a lady, and sometimes, maybe even paying! ;) These things seem small, but they go so far to touch the lives of those around you.  :)
421222
Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
335971
all women "manipulate" to a certain degree.  for example I do not feel that I am an extreme manipulator.  I prefer to think of myself as a "motivator".  In all honesty, a lot of men do need a little pushing once in a while.
738412
Men do. They are the ones that have to make all the moves. Well some women except them too. Things may have changed for the younger people. In all men have it harder.