My boyfriend has a friend that i don't like him hanging out with!!!?
141572
well, the sad truth is that you can't tell your boyfriend who to be friends with.  I understand that you don't like his friend, and that maybe you don't even like who your boyfriend becomes when he is with his friend.  But you can't change him.  You can tell him your concerns and hope that he cares enough for you to stop hanging around with his friend when he is going to strip clubs, but other than that, there really isn't anything that you can do.  Look sweetie, you will learn that you really can't worry about whether or not your man is going to cheat.  If he is, then he is, and if he isn't then you don't need to worry.  but you worrying isn't going to do anything other than make you sick, ya know?  So, just find a way to be happy and comfortable in your relationship.  Be faithful to him and hope that he is doing the same thing.  Trust in your relationship.  This will save you a lot of anguish and pain in the long run.\n\nGood luck!
654640
well that is simple DUMP THAT FOOL he isnt the right guy for you, if he is fooling around with your friends then you should dump that jerk move on and get some one who treat's you right! and if you stay with him your just hurting your self so move on 'cause you ant getting any younger so the best thing to to do is to get some one else who treat's you like your a queen also thats the oldest excuse in the book "i must have been trunk" or somthing like that it doesnt even matter because a real friend and boyfriend would never do that to you so my advice is dump those two losers get some new friends get a new boyfriend and call it a day!!!!!!
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
265251
I think you need to express to him, the importance of her not being in his life as a friend or any other aspect.  The two of you need your own life, without her input.  She's only going to be biased against you because of her situation previously.  You shouldn't talk about being jealous or anything like that, just appeal to him on a more inter personal, relationship aspect level and try to get him to understand and see how that relationship betweem him and her adds absolutely NO value to him or his life now!
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
695931
Just stay away from her.  From what you said, I can't think of any reason why you need to be in her presence.  Tell your boyfriend if he wants to keep you as a girlfriend he has stay away from her too.  People like her are poison.  I'm sorry you had to go through that.
366376
Uhm ogviously he likes  you...or he mihgt be mad because he doesnt want you to like have a boyfriend cuz then you wont hang out wit him that mcuh as you will with u boyfriend.
101339
Tell him u have another/a boyfriend and u don't like him much :)
50861
First you have to tell your friend that you would really appreciate it if they dont ever bring over the person you dont like. And tell your friend why you don't like them and the reasons, so they can understand your point of view. ok
1045090
There are two issues here. The first is that your friend is not respecting your request to stop flirting with your boyfriend. If she isn't willing to stop, is she really a good friend? Is she the kind of friend you want hanging out around your boyfriend? If you've been friends with her for a while, try talking to her again and really impressing upon her how much her behavior bothers you.\n\nThe second issue is that she's telling your boyfriends that you and your friends are cheating on them. I can't imagine a good justification for that. What do you have to lose by asking her why she would say those things, and asking her not to? If she wants to continue being disrespectful, then she's obviously not worth your friendship.
608902
Go out with him.  He obviously doesn't like your friend as much as he does you.
1090883
You sound very young dear.. A true friend doesnt stab you in the back ..And if a so called boyfriend betrays you like that then you are better off without him anyways
771339
Do what you heart tells you, unless he is taking you away from your friends, then get rid of him.  Who cares what your friends say, as long as they stay your friends.  If the relationship is having a negative effect on your friendships, then you might want to rethink it.  As they always say, Bros before Hos and Chicks before D. . . well you know.
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
563534
You sure you want him for him or just to stick-it to your  "friend"??  I wouldn't call what she's doing the act of a friend!  You certainly don't need any more "friends" like her!\n\nForget Josh - you're too good for this fickle slob!  And what he's doing isn't "sweet".\n\nAdjust your standards and go find a "real" bf - they're out there, believe me!
32271
i think maybe you need to find a compromise between the two. You can ask him to not have his friend sleep over, but dont ask him not to visit. having close friends is really important, and if he and his bud are as close as they sound it will cause some tension between you and your soon-to-be hubby. Let him know that you feel left out when his friend is over, and that you feel like its causing you to have resentment for that friend, which is obviously something you dont want. hopefully he will take a minute to think about how things are affecting you, and alter his behavipr accordingly.