my ex is harrasing me?
152257
Why bother to lower yourself to his level?  I would think that you would want to forget the bad times and start making good times.  Use your energy to find another partner/mate/pal or whatever you call him and develop some great new memories to blot out the sour of the old.  Remember this, ugly harbors ugly.
649152
Express how disrespectful she has been and leave her alone.  It is evident that she is only doing this because she feels that you are so desperate to have her.  Don't answer her calls.  Ignore her advances and move on with your life.
525300
NO ARE YOU KIDDING, HE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HE HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. AND APPARENTLY GIVES YOU NO RESPECT, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU NEED TO BE TREATED.
67536
First off change your phone numbers, get to the police station and reuqest a restraining order and also let them know that you are being stalked by an ex - boyfriend. If you fear for your safety then you need to get to the police station ASAP. No matter what state you live in stalking is against the law.
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
171468
I agree with skull22, why are you giving her anything if she is your ex, please add some more information please.
164371
Ok first off lets put things in perspective. Your ex is getting out of PRISON. That sentance alone should tell you who you should stay with, however, sometimes good people do bad things. So with that said, lets take another look. You are afraid that your ex will come back and take you away from this new guy that you really care about right? Well youve got to remember that this is your EX and hes called that for a reason. Whats your reason for calling him your ex and try to imagine being with him or with the new guy. If you truly feel you are happier with the new guy, then stay with him and tell the ex to leave you alone. If that doesnt work theres always restraining orders......
1109569
I would personally address this ex friend of yours and let her know that you are fine with the situation, and her cowering in the other room could make others uncomfortable, not to mention...it does make her look a little childish.  Hopefully that should resolve that particular problem, and if this is the way she acts, then I can see why she is your ex friend.
109748
No.  When you are angy at someone and tattle, it is more revenge than caring for the person you tattle to.  No one will appreciate you if you do this....and no one will trust you.  It is now none of your business, he is out of your life.  Your ex fella will doom himself in time and this will mean more than anything you could do or say.
317068
This guy is one messed up creep.  He lied about you too.  That is unforgivable.  Even if you had done it, him telling people is unforgivable.  You need to tell him in no uncertain terms to leave you alone or you will get a restraining order and follow through.  Start documenting the harrassment, you will need it to get the restraining order.  If you have to, you can add call block to your phone and block his number and everytime he calls from a new number hang up and immediately block that too and don't forget to document it for the courts.  This guy is sick.
309186
Sorry to say this but it sounds like he is using you.  He doesn't deserve you!
649832
How long ago did you stop seeing him?  I suspect the break-up wasn't that long ago because you've indicated that you're not fed up with the abuse yet.  If this behavior continues, you will become fed up.  He is stalking and abusing you. \n\nNot knowing your ex makes it difficult to say, but you should know that certainly personality types are known to carry this behavior to extremes ... criminal extremes.  For example:  slashed tires, rocks through windows, physical confrontations, etc... \n\nI have been the target of a stalker, and the longer it goes on, the worse it gets.  I would nip this in the bud IMMEDIATELY!.  \n\nFirst, send him a certified letter explaining that you do not want to see or hear from him again.  And, that if the abuse continues you will inform the authorities.  Do NOT meet with him.  This will only fuel any misguided belief that you are returning to him.  Keep a copy of the letter.  \n\nSecond, begin keeping a log of dates/times that he calls, or shows up at your home.  Note any threats or abusive language in the messages.\n\nThird, let family and friends know of the abuse. \n\nIf the abuse continues ...\n\nGo to the police and the court to have a restraining order issued.  And, take a self-defense class.  \n\nIf the abuse still continues, let the authorities know that he has violated the restraining order and purchase a hand gun. Take a firearms safety class so that you get comfortable using the firearm.  \n\nHopefully, he'll get 'it' after the certified letter, but if he is of the mind set to intimidate and terrorize you until you return to him, then the above steps may save your life.  \n\nStalking, in and of itself, is psychologically very disturbed behavior.  It indicates that his wants/needs are all that he is willing or capable of considering.  It also indicates that he is unwilling to limit his activities to the accepted norms of society.  In other words, stalking is not something to be taken lightly.  Be careful!
805628
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.
102354
If you really hate him..you should talk to the girl that has been calling and tell her not to date him! but if i were you..i would still talk to him..he is your ex after all and you and him need to move on!
679589
It's possible you could take her to court for slander, and also libel if she's written down police reports about your (apparent) behaviour.  Contact a local legal-aid clinic and ask about taking her to court.
271435
get a new number and only give it to people who ABSOLUTELY need it.  or screen your calls.  also, i'd consider get a restraining order, seriously.  i had a bf once who's ex called CONSTANTLY, it was bad, we contacted a lawyer and managed to get an order stating she had to leave us alone, because she was stalking us.
316520
Sounds like someone got a hold of him and told him something nasty about you.  You might to want to set the record straight.