my boobs are really big and it seems guys only want me for them. how do i know when i've found a real guy?????
147677
I think to some degree you answered this question.  You need to find a guy who can look you in the eye when you talk to him.  There is nothing wrong with the guy liking your boobs but he needs to like you and who you are beyond those.  Unfortunately other than looking you in the eye, the only real test is time and you being able to judge where his real interest lies.
567402
if they are decent sized to you-who wants them bigger?  your man or you?  along with bigger boobs can come some complications-first off i heard it hurts for several days, if you get them out of proportion for your size you could suffer back, shoulder or chest pains,  and if you plan to have children you may not be able to breastfeed (which is a lot more to be proud of than big boobs) depending how you are cut to have them done.  Not too mention the effects they have yet to discover.  If you think they are decent en ought, but want them firmer, try the Avon Bust Sculpt, you use it once a day, i have been using it for 1 week and see a difference, though i use it twice a day
529615
This is a reality "WAKE UP CALL" : You do not need a man to validate whom you are, because if you do, then you really do not know whom you are at all. This is a trying and difficult situation, to feel lonely, but this too shall pass. First thing is to be selective about the guy you are interested in, don't just go for the hard body with the great face and bad boy attitude{ these guys are good in the sack and little else}, try to find a guy you have a bit in common with, this will make you happier in the long run. The kindest thing you can for yourself is to not be so desperate, it is like blood in the water, you do not want to cause a feeding frenzy among the sharks and you my dear are the bait.
781168
every girl is different and i think it has alot to do with genetics. i didn't get them until i was 16 or 17 and they were not a size d(nor are they now)my mom is flat chested too. but please don't give into the notion that big breast are what men want or that they will make you more of a woman. be happy with yourself on the inside and you will be beautiful on the outside.
1122112
It depends :\n\nIf u are happy with them then flaunt them!!! \nIf u are unhappy with them then exercise and reduce the size or go in for surgery.\n\nIn my opinion guys love big boobs!!!
416539
This is tuff.  Believe it or not, guys like different things in girls.  Some guys like girls that are like sticks, some like girls with some meat on there bones.  Some guys like small boobs, some guys like big boobs.  The most important thing for you to ALWAYS remember it you need to like yourself.  If you don't like yourself it is hard for others to like you.  Any guy, and I do mean any, should like you for you.  Not because you have big boobs and are a stick.  They are not really worthy of you if they don't accept you for whom you are.  As far as that goes, you need to accept you for whom you are.  Don't worry, you are young.  In time you will find the right guy.  Don't place a large enfasist on trying to be with a guy now.  Hard to accept but you should worry about doing well in school.  This way when you are older, you will be smarter and make allot of money and then the guys will flock around because you are not poor.  Good luck.
1034185
Are you being serious??\n\nYes, when u find a decent guy
608426
No no no. First off, you are like the perfect size already !!!! Secondly, obviously your boyfriend likes what you have !!!! But the real reason to not do it is that fake boobs usually feel and look bad. Don't get me wrong, I like big boobs also, but I really do prefer smaller ones on a gorgeous, well proportioned body - but it does put some pressure on you to keep your body in shape - sorry about that. But 34b on a frame like yours is hot hot hot. As far as implants go, I much prefer the real thing over implants any day. The fake ones can look pretty good when you have cloths on, but often look terribly fake when your cloths are off. And they almost always feel terrible. I don't really care how small a girls breasts are, but I do care if they don't feel natural. For me, you judge a ladies breasts with your hands and mouth anyway :) But to be honest, I do know several women that have had boob jobs and they all say they love them because they have helped improve their self-confidence. A couple of them have complained that their husbands will no longer touch their boobs though because they don't like the way they feel. Of the ladies that I have been with that had the fake boobs, I really didn't like the way they looked or felt. My advice would be : become comfortable with what you have, knowing that your breast size doesn't define you and that a lot of guys love what you have!!!! But, stay in prime shape with a nice butt and legs to go with those gorgeous breasts of yours !!!!! I am mikeallen555555@yahoo.com if you want to chat
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i think that's your best asset. at least you know that a guy is not only after your big breasts. that if he asks you out, you know that he mustve really liked you for who you are. but if you really wanna have bigger breasts you can do push ups. gravity will do the trick.
227997
Its awefull how this society works today. I have big breasts and I have had alot of boys ask me out just because. But when u find someone who trully cares about you they wouldn't care what you look like. But yes the aweful truth is that looks have a great deal of impact on a persons perspective of you. Just be yourself. Don't worry about it, then if they do show intrest in you then they truly care.
212261
Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
593864
did you mean boobs? some guys care..but i like guys that could care less and they like me for me..and not because of how big my boobs are...i mean when i get older my boobs will be saggy and gross...and i want a guy that will still say they love me and be with me even if i have saggy boobs
962013
Well...   I'd look into the point as to "WHY" your breast make you self concious.   Is it that you don't like them?  Or has someone made a comment?  \n\nI think you have to find your inner self, and like yourself, and build your confidence to feel sexy.  It's not a body part that makes a woman sexy, it's the self confidence that you can nock his socks off... lol
336790
exactly.. be yourself... and dont always be searching for a 'mr. right' figure, because 99% likely he doesnt exist.\n\ndont be too choosy and dont expect too much im afraid, whats meant for you will not go past you
1167603
Lol, I'm still trying to figure this out. In all 3 of my relationships I have been chested on. It doesn't make sense, but guys will be guys. Some are just selfish and only want what they can get out of a relationship. I know its upsetting, but hey I'm sure there are good one's out there. The good one's are just hard to find. Don't give up, but don't allow urself to be played anymore. Stand up for yourself and say what you want and do not want in a relationship.  Let a guy know what you will accept from the beginning.
875301
It's not that big of a deal, hun. Boobs are boobs, and that's all there is to it. Of course you're gonna have guys who love bigger boobs, and there are those who love smaller boobs, but would you date a guy who wants you not because of your personality but because of your boobs? I know it's cliche, but accept it. \n\nCheck out nenarmz's answer: her friend's got inverted nipples and her significant other thinks she's the hottest thing around! That's gotta say something. As far as the breakouts are concerned, you can always fix that. Do you change your bra daily? You'd be surprised how many girls don't! That could be a culprit. Purchase a loofah in order to cleanse that area well and buy an acne body scrub to go along with it. \n\nIt's all a matter of effort and if you've gotten to know the guy like you should have (meaning all shallowness aside), then he won't have a problem with your physical appearance.\n\nBesides, it's a little elementary if guy freaks out because of that, don'tcha think? There are TONS of women with inverted nipples, which just goes to show it's nothing to be worried about.
859285
wait your turn sweetie, it will come to you all of a sudden, and then you wont want it anymore. i have the largest breast of all my friends and most people i know and have since i was 12. when someone referes to me they say, sarah with big boobs, sarah?  yeah i hate it, and trust me, with that comes your period and that is no fun!!!!!! i hate it and wish often that i was a guy.  but your time will come so just wait it out.