what does it mean when your significant other doesnt want to have sex with you or they seem disinterested?
147980
It could be about them, not you. Instead of worrying what you doing wrong (if anything at all), be a friend and ask what is wrong. Chances are, they feel insecure or something is troubling them. Godd luck!
925298
I think that it means that she doesn't think that you are the type of person that she is looking for, or else that she doesn't think that you seem like the type of person who can stay in a serious relationship.\nHope this helps and good luck!
292477
Tickling doesn't prove she loves him!\n\nit means she is either shy or nervous.
625938
It means he doesn't love you.
800155
He may feel rejected but if you have talked about how you feel them i'm sure he won't.  Sometimes he may get frustrated with you...trust me I was in the same situation.  And each time he gets upset just remember that he is in a different situation.  Men tend to think of sex as a was of expressing their love.  One thing I did was to find other ways to express my love for him. I wrote tons of love notes and made cookies with his name on them.  This made my ex-boyfriend feel like I truly loved him.  You just need to have good communication and I am sure he will not be upset in any way. Good luck and if you need any advice just send me an email
390062
I am glad that you are asking this question, cause it means you are moving in a positive direction. Of course there is more to it then sex, relationship between two people is about mutual trust, accepting  each other with all of our flaws and faults, loving each other even when you don't feel like it.
1068196
Love is about respect.  If he truly loves you, regardless his feelings on the matter, he will RESPECT yours!  The truth is, an individual who has the audacity to say "if you don't have sex with me, you don't love me" is suspect; I'd have to say that in saying so, they are showing that, in all likelihood, they don't love you!  Tell him: If YOU LOVED ME, you would respect my desire to wait until marriage-and if you don't have that level of respect for me, WE DON'T BELONG TOGETHER!.
435980
Many reasons, he/she wants to be cared by someone. Or plainly, he/she wants to have sex. Or no reason at all.Sometimes love just happens
947388
Because we don't want love, we want sex.\nAnd after sex, we lose all interest.\nGood Night.
876820
It means she's not in love with you like she should be to a potential husband.
581717
If you are not having sex with your partner then it doesn't mean that you aren't in love it just means maybe you need some time to get to know eachother first.  Sex is not love in some situations, if you are always having sex and not spending time with eachother then it is not love but if your relationship is good and so is the sex then it is love.\nLOL
677121
He won't show interest in you. It should be pretty obvious. Assess the situation: does he work a lot? does he come home late? is he not in the mood for sex? He may just be under a lot of stress, but if it goes on for too long (6-8 months) then it's a safe bet something else is wrong. Ask him. Tell him you're afraid he's lost interest, and if he doesn't change his behavior you know he has.
109515
they are not interested and feel uncomfortable. or perhaps they want to get away from you and make it more obvious that they are not interested.\nfind someone else. the right person is out there.
821743
exactly what you think it means... lack of interest or indifference.  If she is usually nice, then maybe she's having a bad day.
314268
From my expericence, I have learned that trying to show a man all of my great qualitites in order to make him appreciate me and want a more serious relationship has NEVER worked.  It only made me seem desperate.  Desperation has never made any person want to be with another person.  Even though you may feel that you can't let go of the person, it would be better to do so.  He has made it beyond clear to you that he isn't interested in having anything more than a sexual relationship with you.  In other words, you're good enough to have sex with but NOT good enough to have a meaningful relationship with.  That is horrible for your self esteem and self worth.  You deserve better and more.  Just because he asks about your activities doesn't mean that he cares about you.  He tells you flat out that he doesn't.  It may be difficult but you should consider stopping the sexual relationship with him.  He doesn't love you or care about you.  If he did, he'd want to have more than sex with you.  I hope that you realize that you deserve more than a quickie when he's bored.
965416
try asking her if she was being put off by something you did.. or try to arouse her interest by touching her sensual parts lightly.. or try not asking her for some time. Show more care for her even when you don't intend to have sex.. sometimes, she just feels uncared for and thus has no interest in sex \n\nTry having a romantic time out or staying home to build up sexual interest.. \n\nyou could also offer to accompany her for a doctor's appointment to show that you really care for her well-being than to just be interested in sex.
1006507
in a relationship, a guy should make his feelings clear. if he doesn't say that he loves her, either he doesn't love her or he is afraid of getting emotionally attached or commitment. simple sex without love is just that. if he can't say it, she should move on to somebody who is more mature and can honestly and openly show their emotions. hope the best.