Do you think guys have to go after the girl they like, or wait for that perfect one?
144369
who knows....the one you like may be the perfect one.
1058364
play hard to get and she'll like it and maybe leave him for you, if thets what u want
588708
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
1182598
Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
271249
It's going to sound cheesy, but I don't look for anything specific in a girl. When I meet a girl I like, I'll know it. I'll enjoy spending time with her, I'll feel comfortable around her, and I'll think about her when she's not around. So I never really know what to look for in a girl. I think most guys are the same way deep down, but they'll only even start the relationship to begin with if the girl is pretty. Beauty makes a first impression, personality seals the deal.
634780
I think it's a matter of creating a certain head trip for the guy, and for conforming to his idea of "ideal woman". \n\nI think that if you have to constantly try, especially in the beginning, then he's the wrong guy for you.\n\nI think love can be eternal. \nLust can be once. \nCommittment can be short term.\n\nSometimes you love someone, but cannot stay committed or be passionate to them back.
49741
how hard is it to find the right guy?  it would be easier to find the person we wanted in our lives if we knew what we were looking for.  So make a list of what you want in a woman and go from there.
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
79987
Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
766530
Well thats kind of a difficult question to answer - it all depends on your situation! Did you call her first? Sometimes girls just wait for the guy to call them....
376490
I am so in your situation. For a while I thought it was because I was scared of rejection or that I felt all traditional, but I really have a lot at stake. I have a son. I like a guy and haven't really decided what is best. I usually get a vote of 50/50 on this topic. I think for me, it might be best to wait. I want to see if the guy is interested, comfortable and confident enough to have the balls to make the first move. Remember, woman sacrifice more in the long run, and should never settle for second best!
127125
Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
408859
girl you will know u just have to wait for that right person to come along
225469
sure why not. just wait for the time to come.\n\ndont go after every guy you meet. just wait for a perfect guy
575264
well most girls go for looks in guys but to tell you the truth  girls should go for personality and how that guy treats her becuase most of the really good looking guys are jerks and will most likely will dump the girl and leave her to drown in her tears or he will not even go out with her so try to be the really nice guys that way you don't have to be good looking just nice and charming
409433
Sure, if you want.  Follow your instincts. I am sure he would be flattered.\n\nSometimes, girls have to make the first move.