This is for ladies. What wud it take for lady to realise how serious a guy is? What do u need 2 c in a guy?
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men dont need 2 prove anythin u know.. its really hard 2 explain.\n\nin my case, i know that my bf really loves me coz i can feel it. he doesnt say he loves me everyday or every second but d moment he say it, he really means it.\n\nin order 4 a guy 2 convince a girl, he shld convince himself 1st & b 100% sure of his feelings. Like wat we say, action speaks louder than words..
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Well he need to be cute but cute cannot just do, he also need to have a killer personality.. Knows when to be serious from when to be kidding around.. Generally sweet, actually likes to do things wit me, no matter how girly it is.. They are interesting in knowing about us and they cant be cocky and totally self-absorbed. Generous, smart, funny, creative to the point where there arent any awkward silences.. knows what to say and when to say it. MUST HAVE goals in life, and optimistic...\nThats pretty much all i can think of...
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If he cares about you then nothing will seem that strong.  Usually though if guys want to make a commitment, they will be the one to tell you.  Your happiness is on the line.  If he is ready to commit, then he will. If he isn't ready then he won't and then you can make your decision as what to do, whether to move on or stick it out.
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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it depends upon how the man can deal with it. but i think a man with a loving heart, caring, understanding, faithful, loyal, honest, tidy in terms of his outfits, fresh looking, one woman man, and relationship oriented. if you have this all, then you can easily atract a woman
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please learn proper english... but you can never tell when a guy really loves you... but you can be a good girl friend by being yourself
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Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
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You obviously mean a lot to him. I am saying it from my insight that he has a lot of affection and love for you. You certainly mean the world to him. I know, I have never come across a lady with whom I want to be different, but I would always love to be with a woman with whom I want to be nice, I want to be good, I want to take care of her, make her feel special. Its such a grand feeling. Its nice that your guy told you how much he cared for you, most guys dun say that. You should be proud of him. Best of luck !!
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a guy thats prepared to put himself forward like that is rare, just check the  "do they fancy me" questions on this site and you'll see.\n\nnext time you see him.. give him a big smile grab him and plant one on him.  \n\nenjoy!
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Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
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By being sure of himself, knowing what he wants from life and working toward that. Maturity, women in this age group do not want men who do not know how to treat a woman. Sincerity is extremely important and having a sense of humor. Make her laugh, sense of humor and not "bathroom humor" will make her eyes shine. We older women have lots to teach younger men though I am myself no longer available, I have my younger man.
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Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
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Most guys like breast.  If you notice A guy will not look in a good looking girls face.  Its there breast.  But Some guys is the but.  For me I like both.  Not just the T&A  I like the personality.  My advist is to be yourself.  Ask questions don't be too shy.  Be shy in a cute way.  When I am in a relationship is to be honest.  I don't have nothing to hide.  But be real.  I am a nice guy so I try to be unque.  I don't want a girl I am the same like the rest.  I will look in a girls eyes and listen.  Unlike most guys they'er eyes are wondering.  Guys are easy to figure out.   I like to be honest a gentleman. I try to write a poem.  Make sure its a happy one.  Something that tell them that I love them.  For the other guys the all about the breast and buts.  Nothing but sex about most guys.  Just a few good guys out there.  If you do find one don't let him go.  Because we are hard to find.  Learn how to relaxed medatated.  Medatation is a good way to focuse on a date.
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First of all, you need to realize that each woman wants or needs something a little different in her man...we don't all want or need the same things. You must also know that the qualities we are looking for in a man must be genuine, and not there just to impress us...which means that you can't read an answer on this list, and conform yourself to that answer in order to impress a woman..but you can look for suggestions, and work on certian aspects of your personality in order to improve yourself as a human being.\nMy perfect man would be dependable...and truely interested in me.  He would be the type who actually takes the tree down from the attic when he said he would...a man who does what he says he will do.  My man would call me often to tell me that he can't wait until we are together again.  My man would be touchy feely...not afraid to hold hands, hug, or kiss in public.  He would look up from across the room and give me that smile meant for only me.  He would walk in at the end of the day and say...this was the worst day at work ever...and I've never been so tierd...but it's worth it now because I'm here with you.  He would have a sense of humor as well as a positive attitude.  He'd be willing to learn new things with me, and he's also going to want to be with his own friends from time to time.  He will know that he can trust me with his life, and I will know that I can trust him with mine.  Of course there are a few other things here and there, but when all of this comes together, then the romance is there....and obviously the personality is there and the looks just won't mean as much as some people think they do.
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Hmmm...wot do guys like in a gal? It's a li'l tricky question, I must say. Yet, I'll try to answer the best I can manage.\n\nI think, whenever a guy looks at a gal, the first thing he's gonna notice are her body, her clothes and probably the way she carries herself. And then again, if those 1st impressions pique the guy's interests, he might go up and talk. In that case, what matters, what  personally feel, is the substance in her words, the way she talks, her choice of words, how intellectual she is...and yeah, definitely how funny she is.\n\nNow, what a guy might like in a gal are obviously dependent on himself and that the criteria are definitely subjective. I think u shall just need to look out for the right signs and decipher them to realize what your guy likes about you and improvise on them!!
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LOOK  dont stress  over  a  guy. PUT  G0d first and all those  things will work  out. MAtt. 6:33
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What are you doing now that is different from all the other times to show you that you are serious this time?  \n\nIf you are doing nothing differently, then you have to ask yourself just how serious are you?  Plus, is she sees nothing different, she has no reason to believe you.\n\nAre you seeking counseling?  \n\nHere's another thing that guys don't do very well with: do you show her affection and attention?  Do you leave her little notes, touch her arm when you walk by her, take the time to listen to her with no outside distractions such as TV or radio?  Women are like plants: if they don't get watered (which means attention, comfort, security) they wither like a plant.  When they wither, they feel insecure and unloved.\n\nAnd I say this in all seriousness, and don't mean it to sound like women are needy.  They need certain things in a relationship just like men.  In fact, I think a lot of men would be surprised at how understanding a woman can be if she is watered (again using the analogy here).