my friend's cousin tries to do things to her when his drunk she is 18 he is 24 so wat i tell her she should do
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tell her that its not right its disgusting and to get away from him and if it gets really bad get a older guy that she knows around his age to kick his *** or go to the police to get a restraining order its really important and its not freakin cute either so tell her as soon as possible this is not a thing to take as a joke many girls have this problem and they don't have the time or rather the chance to do this so get major help b.c girls die every day from being raped b.c after hes done shes finished and plus HES DRUNK  GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT HE CAN DO.
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If he is having problems with her now, when she is only sixteen then it will only get worse. The poor girl seems very insecure and he should discuss this with her but with such an age gap it is inevitable that someone will get hurt. This girl is too young and immature to be in a serious relationship, and I presume that he is looking for a serious relationship. The best advice I can give is for them to break up and for her to get help. Best of luck to your friend
585210
TRY DOING A 69 TELL HIM YOU'LL DO HIM IF HE DOES YOU. IF NOT GET HIM DRUNK LOL
625612
yu should here both stories frist but if she was drunk then how does she know what he was doing but if he loves you then i don't think he would do that but why would you friend say that he did that to her  but i would talk to both at the same time.
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oh my ******* gosh GIRL.....your so called bestfriend.  Damn, she wasnt ya bestfriend from the word go. girlfriend(bestfriend) sister, cousin, aunty, mother (sorry examples) they all have their limits, going anywhere near a friend(s) or family member is just way un'co!!!!  DONT even think or say its you why that shet with them happened, especially with alcohol. Girl it takes two, either your so called g'friend could had prevented that shet, and your so called b'friend could had done the same....they both new what they we're doing. Girl im sorry what im saying aint damn great but i believe in true bestfriends, morals.....them two clowns dont. You stay strong, you are the better person, dont ever feel guilty aite...dont feel bad..look after number1...thats YOU!!!  your boy will comer knocking when you least expect it aite...stay strong & be proud...
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First of all you have every right to say that she is not allowed in your home. Especially since you have a 15 year old. That is the prime age for someone like your niece to be able to influence her. Secondly, just because she isn't high at the moment you still shouldn't let her in your home. She may not act high but could be and you would never know. Stick to your guns on this one and don't let her in your home. I know what's its like to be around someone like that and its not fun. They don't want to get help but expect everyone to be at their beck and call and when they aren't they go crazy. She will eventually realize on her own that she is losing her family. Hopefully, its not too late by then. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I hope I have helped at least a little!
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a bit of both, at 16 you know the difference between right and wrong. a 21 year should never touch a 16 year old, if they do its for one reason only (sorry cooks but you live and learn). if he did something that you are not comfortable with then say something.... rape is never the girls fault. EVER
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Take your cousin. Its not your fault if he/she is annoying. Your friends won't blame you for her problems.
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OK people get your head out of the gutters, she is his cousin!\n\nI think the best thing you can do is just be there with her, you are the old cousin who she looks up to and probably idolizes since you are all of 14 and can do some many things she can not. So definetly have some games that you can play together, but let her decide what she wants to do, and just be the loving cousin and she will adore you for it.\n\nAnd ignore the sickos here, it is not creepy it is cute and loving.
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How should I feel ? Sounds like a loaded question.\nCannot tell you how to feel.Whatever you are feeling areexactly how you are feeling.\nThe question should be : How should I handle it?\n1. Your friend is 30 yrs. old\n2. She was already staying with you.\n3. Had too much to drink\n4. Homeless------ No excuse\n5. friends for 21 years\n\nNow lets look at your Dad\n\n1. Your Dad--Your role model\n2. Knows your friend was already staying with you ?\n3. Knows she was drinking\n4. Knows that your friend could have been you---- same age.\n5. Knows that she is your friend for 21 years\n\n\n FACTS\nYour friend knew what she was doing\nShe knew that she already had somewhere staying---- with you.\n3. She probably had , had a crush on your Dad\n4. Excuse that there were 2 beds in room eventhough it was the truth--Excuse\n\nFacts about you\n\n1. you trusted your friend\n2. you trusted your Dad\n3. You did not expect your friend to do that.\n4. You did not expect your Dad to MAKE that STUPID  decision \n5. Now you are feeling torn up inside\n6. Eventhough they are both saying the same thing , A part of you is not sure if you do believe them.\n\n\nWhat you could do\n\n1. Tell your friend exactly how you are feeling--- if she values your friendship any at all, she should understand and apologise to you.\n2. If after 21 years she does not value the friendship, she will get up in your face, thinking it is no big deal.\n3. Talk to your Dad. First with respect. Tell him how you are feeling about the situation that took place.\n4. Tell him your friend was already staying with you , if he did not know that.\n5.Tell him you mean him no disrespect because he is a grown man , but you believe he made a dumb, stupid, whatever you feel like type of mistake.\n\n6.Finish it from there.\n\n\n7.REMINDER: \nTHey both made stupid mistakes.\nIt is up to you after this is over to FORGIVE and get on with your life.\nAt least you were honest with your feelingson this\n\nPraying for you.
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fooling your father around\n\ni think it would be better to let him do it if he's drunk
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Get her drunk.  \n\nPay attention to him, kiss him like I mean it, ask him to take me home.
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It would be helpful to know how old you are if your 15 or 16 I say sit down and talk to him calmly  If you are 17 18 or older I say get off your dead butt and get busy
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Sweethart for one thing you were drunk and his mom shoud take that into consideration anything you said or might have said is cause you were drinkin and more than likely upset. As for him not comin home that is bullshit if he wasnt planin on comin home he should have not set a time that he would be home. You have every right to be upset for that but stand tall and behind everything you said and if they don't like it they don't deserve you in the family!!!!!!
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tell her that you only have fun once in your life that you want to see your cousins tell her to stop hattin' on people that life is short she does't wast any regrets and her sister wouldn't like it either.
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Give her a chance to explain, the worst thing is to jump to any conclusion. After that if she says it was disgusting, beat him up. He has NO RIGHT to be touching a girl, ANY GIRL that way.
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You need to tell her family.. Your friend needs mental help before she does something too extreme, and dies. Tell,...because you care, you know you do or you wouldn't be posting this question if you didn't. But tell someone that can HELP. Good Luck.