What should i do with this christin guy?
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No christian man should treat a woman of any riligion with disrespect and that is what he's doing to you. He's disrespecting you by trying to control your actions and not treating you like an individual. Look, there will be plenty of other guys you'll come across that are fifty times sweeter, kinder, and gentler than this guy. I think your best course of action is to just move on.\n\nGood luck!
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GIRL I CAN FEEL YOU ON THIS ONE...LET ME LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET HE IS UNHAPPY IN HIS LIFE AND  HAS NO LIFE OF HIS ON HIS OWN.. AND SINCE HE IS  NOT H-A-P-P-Y... HE  DO NOT WANT TO SEE Y-O-U.. HAPPY...SO THIS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO ACT LIKE  THIS DOESN'T BOTHER YOU KEEP YOUR CHRIST AND THAT GOOD BOOK  IN YOUR  LIFE AND I PROMIS YOU..HE'LL (GOD) WILL SEND THAT GOD FEARING MAN..LET SAY THIS AGAIN..A GOD FEARING NOT MAN FEARING MAN..,.SMILE BECAUSE BEEN THERE  GOT OVER THAT ........ OYA THAT SO CALL FRIEND THAT STOP TALKING TO YOU CAUSE DUDE SAID SO.. WAS NOT YOUR FRIEND FROM WHAT I'VE READ....TAKE A  STEP BACK A LOOK FOR YOURSELF GIRL..TRUST ME HE (GOD FEARING MAN )IS ON HIS WAY.
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Worship him! Not just in church, but in life. Live as he would, be gentle and kind to others, but mostly tell others of his goodness! :)
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I think you should accept him for who he is.  If you can't accept him, let him go so he can find a girl who appreciates him.
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Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
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You need to stop fantasizing about this missionary.  You are just going to get him into trouble.\n\nBut to answer your question...nothing, unless he acts on those thoughts.\n\nNow leave him alone and let him share the gospel.
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Do you have a Bible? Read it. He is my best friend, He is my Savior. We talk to Him by praying. Just open your heart to Him and read His word and you too will see what I'm talking about.
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I'm confused, is this guy a member of the church or is he simply a crazed homeless guy living in his van?\n\nLook, I dont know, im really bad at this "subtle revenge" thing.\nYoure trying to avoid his "conversion"? Tell him youre gay. Christians hate gays.\n\n:UPDATE:\nBut whats his prime objective in watching you and your friends? Is he trying to turn your friends into members? What does he want from you? Figure out what it is he wants, once you have the right question than you can get the right answer.\n\nALSO\nIs he clean cut? or very ragged and shabby looking? Do you get the impression that hes been using drugs?\n\nO, in that case youre dealing with a sociopath. Well, if he has threatened you than a restraining order will be easy to get. It might be best if you beat him at his own game, I wouldnt damage his car or fuck with his property as it might just escalate into something you could regret later. You gotta beat him at his own game, recruit some friends to confront this asshole.
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I would recommend you meet up at the gym and both use the treadmills. Then, you could do some weight training with Him, before a stroll to the cafe for a coffee and a cigarette. After that...who knows?\n\nWhat He REALLY needs is a pedoPHILEmeter to assess prospective catholic priests.
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Leave this guy alone.  Let him find a girl who only wants to have sex with him.  If you don't like that, then find someone more worth your time instead of wasting time with this horny jerk.
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Good question!\n\nApostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians7:14-18, "Do not be yoked with nonbelievers." If God is speaking to you, telling you that this boy is not a Christian, then you should listen to Him, pray about it, and see what God leads you to do. In my opinion, if he was practicing witchcraft... then within 4 days-a month he probably did not accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Yes, DO ask him these questions, to his face-- have a sit-down talk. Is he attending church? Does he profess that Christ is his Savior who died for all his sins? If so, then he is a Christian and you should help him grow by having a Christ-centered relationship with him. Christian dating is focused on marriage. And marriage, the Bible says, must be with a believer. If it turns out that he is not a Christian, and you still feel like you should stay together, then ask God to help you help your boyfriend seek Christ in his life. Take him to bible studies and retreats and church. Let God do the rest. If you feel like your boyfriend is not a Christian, and has no desire to truly discover Jesus and eventually accept Him into his heart, then I say you should break up with this boy. He will not be good for your own spiritual walk, and he might even pull you down to his level. Make sure he doesn't "falsely" accept Christ just to make you feel better. Christ is not a dating instrument-- He is our Savior and Lord who died on the cross for us.\n\nPraise God for this strength that you have for seeking His heart! I wish you the best of luck through this, and pray that you'll find the man of God who will lead you spiritually in love and encouragement-- that is also the man of your dreams!
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I think he's being professional, and rightly so. What's the problem with him commited to God?  See it as a plus!  Spiritual people run their lives with great spiritual guidance.  This shouldn't be a problem.  It should make him even more attractive.\n\nIf he is easily succumbed to your interest in him, won't you think he would be easily succumbed to other girls/women?\nThink about those pointers above.\n\nFind out what makes him seemed uninterested.  Perhaps he knows you have a problem with God.  \n\nUntil you know God and how He can influence a man's character and actions, you will appreciate his belief and gain his attention!\n\nIf you saw the points raised valid, I suggest you go to his place of worhip - first with the right motive of learning about his God, and then from there if he is interested in you, he will know what to do.  \n\nDon't think he is a 'square'.  He is just a upright man... hopefully.
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no, i don't think it's ok. i'm a Christian too, and i have made a list of my standards and what i want in my guy, u should make one too! but like u said, ur not gonna marry him ever and do u think he wants u to date him jus cuz ur bored? also u said u don't want to get sidetracked from God, that's why u wouldn't marry him(or another non-Christian) so what, he's not gonna sidetrack u jus cuz ur dating him? i think he would sidetrack u! and u r only 15, u still have plenty of time to date and find the right (Chritian) one!\n but also think about this, if this guy is so great, what is the guy that God has for u gonna b like? he's going to b even BETTER!!! so keep holding out for the right guy! good luck!
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You can stand up for God's Word. or you can play a "popular" Christian and say nothing. What does your own Bible say for you to do? Actually, you may not even know yet. However. The Bible does tell you as a Christian, to stay away from people like this. They will only tear you down. \n That depends on how faithful a person is, as to what they pick and chose to do.  I would tell him, the truth. He knows your a Christian. If he has a problem with ,then..so be it..\n\nGood Luck.
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Love him and pray for him. But there are times you will have to leave him and move on and trust the lord to take care of him and place him in his hands.God is able to do all things.We can not depend on our self to get the job done.The Lord cares even more than we do. So I would just sort of speak, cast your care on the Lord. Or he will bring you down also. Love in Christ.
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Visit a local church.  You don't want to find him in a bar.  You want someone faithful and truly loving.
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Ok, I am looking at your history now.....\n1. "I agree with the first girl what have you got to lose besides time itself. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\n    this answer was in response to a girl looking for her godparents on line. I thought it was a good answer but you didn't have much to add to what had already been said. I like to do research on my answers and try to say something that hasn't been said if I can.\n\n2."Christian and a good person in general. Not what you wanted to hear right and I am 15 fyi. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\n    So that is what you look for in a girl. hmmm\n     If it is true great answer, but again, kinda short. I would explain what you mean by good person.\n\n3. "I never had a job on account of my age but try fry cook. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\nAgain a short answer but this time it was about something you knew nothing about. Why did you answer? I answered this one too but I have years of summer job experiences to draw from. That is what makes a good answer. \n\n4. "They are not true friends. If you hang out with them you will become like them and do you want to be like her. You should stop being friends with her and tell her why. Good Luck God Bless and Jesus Loves and Adores. \nI actually really liked your point on this one. If she hangs out with girls that can't be trusted then she evcentually will learn to lie too. Good answer!\n\n5."You already know your boyfriend very well stay with him and don't take the chance of going for this other guy and figure out the love he has for you is just temporary. If you take a chance like this you could end up with no one and be left alone with a broken heart now if your current boyfriend is abusing you physically, mentally, or in anyway dump him but don't overreact and make something actually pretty insignificant into something catastrophic so you could just be with the other guy or it will probably lead to a broken heart and most of all pray for guidance from Jesus Christ our Lord. Good Luck, God Bless, and Jesus Loves and Adores. \nSo this is an answer you can be proud of. Great explanation with advice that is true to life.\n\nI closing I would say try to answer stuff you can answer based on your life experiences. There are a lot of people on here that take this stuff seriously. If you go around giving advice just to get points you could hurt somebody. \nHope this helps, it was the toughest answer I have ever given. \nLOL