I'm in love with a friend, but I know it wouldn't work so I never told him. I want to know how to forget him.
151427
you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
845414
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them.  They will always be there in your head.  Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them.  Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there.  \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God.  More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here.  Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience.  Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future.  Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad.  Best of luck in your hard times...
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
502370
Let time take its course. There is no real way to forget someone you care about. As stupid as it sounds, time will heal all wounds. Try to get on with your life as best you can. Surround yourself with positive people and give yourself time to heal. Best of luck to you.
858646
Sometimes you never forget someone who is really special.  You've got to just keep trying to be happy and move on but you may never forget.  Hang in there!
250658
hey first think about him and think what he has done for you if you really want him to be your friend you must talk to him frnakly or try talking to your friend aboput it you should remove all those thoughts about him and try concentrating on your studies and finally try to talk to him and tell him that you arent interested in love at all okay !! see yah!!!
409662
DANG THAT'S A TOUGH ONE ; i KN0 i ASKED MYSELF THE SAME THiNG EVRYDAi ; BUT iT TAKES TiME - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SOME MEMORi OF HiM - BUT iT GOES AWAi SLOW - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SUM FEELiNG FOR HiM BECAUSE iT WAS LOVE ND LOVE NEVER GOES AWAi EVEN A LITTLE - SO JUST TRi TO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO HELP U GET OVER HiM ; iT MiTE HELP ; OR DO THiNGS TO GET UR MiND OFF OF HiM -- iT HELPD WiT MEH .. SOO YEA
424621
Take no notice of him.\nDo you forget things easily.
183337
Find him. Talk to him. Tell him your feelings. Don't hold anything. Ask a friend of his for his number, or to get him to call you. You have an infinite amount of possibilities.
1044319
I know it's hard to get over him especially if you see him everyday. But the easiest I know, is to stick in your mind that he likes to flirt with girls and tell them that he like them but not from his heart. Get it? Or better still, think that your bff likes him. So being a good friend, you'll get out of their way. I'm not telling you that you're going to evade the guy forever. There's nothing wrong in talking to him but only a few lines then say your busy and going some place else. \n\nI hope it works!
493623
Deep down you haven't really let him go \nTo forget about him you have to
1030758
Sadly, stopping to think about him is one of the hardest things to do. There´s no way to just stop. And you´re doing it cause he´s obviously a really important person in your life and you really care about him.\nSuggestions:\n1- Go for it! ask him out.. get a friend to set you guys up... or at least hang out with him more so he can see the great person you are\n2- Find someone else that wants to be with you... unless you´re in Love with this guy you´ll forget about him\n3- Wait... a long time... i don´t suggest this that much because you´ll go pretty insane. Either you´ll end up liking him less or just getting use to the pain and the obsession. But i really suggest either trying to be with him or going for someone else
416792
With anyone who confesses feelings, be gentle but clear.  There is nothing worse than being that person who admitted an attraction and having those feelings totally ignored.  It's cruel to ignore it.  You have to deal with it, and you say something like "I'm flattered but I'm not interested". You can decide if you think you can still be friends, but deal with that relationship thing first.
824658
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
397628
Find som1 else. It will help you forget. Be open and dont shut others from you. If you dont let any1 in, and cling to her memories, you will never be able to move on. If she does not love u, dont waste your time thinking of her, find somelse who recognises your worth. You will be a lot happier. Its not empty talks, its experience talking. I missed out 3 years of my life clinging to memories
262931
You might have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you.  Telling her that you love her would even make it worse.  If you value your friendship, you have to give her some space, give her time to realize that your friendship is important.  It's probably a good idea NOT to mention that you love her, especially if she only wants to be friends.\nIf it's hard for you to be friends, then unfortunately you are going to have to move on.  Many good friendships have been ruined when one person falls in love with the other, but the other doesn't fall in love back.\nGood Luck, remember, this isn't the end of the world, maybe the end of the friendship...but you'll love someone else again.
85906
Just tell him that your really good friends with him and you dont want to harm the friendship. Or even better you could tell him that you dont love him you only see him as a friend and nothing more.