How do u know if your ex. is truelly over you?
154320
truthfully your ex's never get over you entirely. in any relationship with a true connection there will always be something that reminds you of why you were together. even in bad breakups and relationships you never really get over it you just find something or someone else that lets it fade away but i know when im reminded by someone of when we were "together" my mind rambles on about them for a while.  you just can tell when they have gotten over you enough to feel comfortable around you without wanting or wandering why everything is the way it is now. hopefully you will remain friends. then you cant say you lost anything.
1070391
u show him the pics of u and ur ex :-)\nor  to be serious why do u bother if she is his ex. Just think that he is yours now and thats all.
819111
It depends on the circumstances for their breakup, and how he is thinking of her. I wouldn't mind if he was thinking in terms of getting over their relationship to find closure. I would mind If he is still thinking of her in terms of getting her back.
1083590
Nope.  You were broken up - which means you weren't together - which means that you were both technically single.  Maybe he/she was talking to a friend or relative - or maybe he/she was just lonely.  Phone calls on a phone bill don't mean anything - especially if you weren't together in the first place.
328031
well, if u dumped her there wuz prolly a reason...think about it...
513666
no   he's  your ex  move on with your life.
913285
If the two of you were broke up at the time, there is no need to question her activities.  If you are really starting over, focus on the future, not the past.
336205
He's an ex for a reason. move on
915098
1)  That's why he's your ex.\n2)  That how he caught you in the first place.\nLife has its moments.  Move on to the good stuff.
1074737
I agree that you make a list of reasons you broke up and go back to read it when you need to. Just make sure he doesn't find it.\nGood luck.
288017
You will know. There is no need to ask anyone else about your own feelings. However, if you are not in touch with your feelings, and don't really know if your in love or not, then just imagine yourself without him. If your in love, you won't be able to see yourself without him. Just ask yourself these kind of questions: How would I feel if he broke up with me? Would I try to get him back or would I just move on? Will I be sad and depressed after the breakup or just think of it as his loss?
937389
Depends.  If you're putting all your energy into thinking about your ex, it doesn't necessarily mean they were right for you - it just means you are obsessed with thinking about them.  Find a hobby or do something to occupy more of your time - and when you start thinking about them - immediately work on changing your thoughts to something else.  Time to move on.
388288
Whatever the reason for your ex being your ex. Put yourself in their shoes and think about the situation and what you would do. Be true about the considerations...it only help u know wether it's worth trying to get back together.
898676
So you broke up.  Then he started missing you and wanted to get back together.  Now he wants allot of it, and you're not sure if he just wants it or really cares about you.  Is that about it?\n\nWell, one way to tell is to give him as much as he can handle, and then see how he reacts.  Once he's satisfied, and he still wants to be around you, then it's easy to tell he really cares about you.  Otherwise, he's doing what guys refer to as a 'booty call.'\n\nAnd if the idea of giving him allot just doesn't make you comfortable, then that's your voice of reason trying to shout through the fog of love, that you already know he's just making a booty call and doesn't really care about you.  Trust your instincts.  There was a  reason why you two broke up in the first place.  ;)
1080226
have u ever heard someone say, "U DON'T KNOW WHAT U HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE"?? If u were good to him, he will realize it OWN HIS OWN....he will soon think about u and the good thing he let go of....DO NOT GO AFTER HIM.....if he left u and he knows in his heart that he loves u, HE WILL COME back.....he may still have that emotional attachment but he is SUPPOSED to be with U!!! if in the end, he decides not to continue the relationship with u, then u should view it as HIS LOSS, NOT yours. U SHOULD REALIZE THAT IF HE WANTED U & HE LOVED U, HE WOULD BE WITH U & NOT WITH HIS EX!!! THINK ABOUT IT!!!
602548
Help you?? You need to remember theres a reason why hes your ex in the first place.
734150
Friend - It depends on the reason for the break up.  Does he know it bothers you?  Have you discussed that he may still have feelings for her?  Not all break ups are the same or follow any rules.  GBU