I'm a hispanic woman and my boyfriend has a asian girl fetish, convinced they're superior in every way. Advice
146609
Make yourself look and behave like an Asian. He's not the only one does.
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
200932
Men are rutabagas -- dense vegetables.  If you need your boyfriend to notice something, point it out to him. Be direct.  Don't just give "hints."  Don't be offended if he doesn't notice on his own.  Guys are "wired" differently than gals.  Just the way it is.  Tell a guy straight out what you want and need and he'll jump through hoops to please you.  Subtlety and hints may work with your GFs, but guys just won't get it.
1125931
It depends on the girl because I'm asian (mixed: chinese and vietnamese) and I'm dating a black guy.
940905
Dakotah, \n\nYou have a racialist, stereotyped and sexist view of the world. You cannot view all people of the same race as being the same. Also, it seems you view Asian women as submissive, and you assume that the "best wives" are the ones who are submissive to men.\n\nYou have a seriously distorted view of the world, Dakotah.\n\nYou need a reality check!
993783
Yes it's rude! It would be one thing if her family didn't know any English but if they do she shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable.  I'm hispanic and my bf is american when my family that doesnt speak english talk to me and he's around i translate for both of them so everyones in the conversation and if we start laughing i tell him right away why so not to make him think it's about him.  Tell her to stop and include you in the convo and to translate.
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
285824
just looking at your user name, are you asking the question, asian man.  nah! just joking!!! why do you want to know the percentage?  if you have a nice personality, all the females, will want to go with you.  just for your 411, white woman is very discriminating.
912240
Well I'm an Asian woman and I have dated every type of men. White, Pakistani (still Asian though), Chinese, Mexican, and Black. I don't have a problem with any background the man comes from! \n\nFrom personal experiences and from the absolute truth I get out of other Asian women most of these women go out with White men not because they fell in love with them at first sight but because they "looked attractive" and attractive means sharp features that White men have that are highly influence by the media they see every day.\n\nWhat's funny is that if you live in San Francisco, I'll guarantee to you that every part of the city you go, you'll always see an Asian girl with a White guy! Some of them act really stuck up too just because they'll with a White guy?\n\nSome girls I know even point out that White guys treat Asian women better than Asian men, that they have money, and above all you can have beautiful babies with them! But this is American, and the Asian men here are Asian Americans how stupid to assume such things!\n\nIt's really like reverse racism if you think about it. They say Asian men are no good!\n\nWhere I lived before moving to San Francisco, I always saw the Asian guys have girlfriend with no difficulty, but here I see a lot of single Asian guys and not so many other races of women want to give them a chance. How sad! Asian men are statistically more lonely and single than Black women too.\n\nI just wish some of my Asian female counterparts just stop the reverse racism on our men because they don't deserve any more discrimination!\n\nStatistically: There is one Asian woman for every TWO Asian man in America! And Japanese American women marry outside race like 75%! Those are really disturbing numbers, because like I said, many of these Asian men will be bachelors for a long time and some may never marry because of it!   :(\n\nI love all men but I wish more of my sisters gave other men a chance besides White guys!\n\nOh and of all the men I've dated, my favorite was my ex-Chinese boyfriend. He was so funny and really, really, really.....good in the bed! Probably he was so lonely for a long time before he met me! There was nothing small about him either!
727474
Asian woman are very beatiful by all man's standard, but asian man are ugly in most woman's standard. therefore asian man feel shy and inferior when they compare themselves with westners and are uneasy to approach excedingly beatiful women in general.\nBy making youself simple, and not very beatiful or sexy, you will seem more aproachable.
123350
sounds like one that the guys in my family would enjoy but at the same time, one that would make me want to hit my boyfriend for saying!  A little too racist for me, so you would definetly want to be careful who you tell it to!
773633
No, I disagree.  Most Asian women I know are high maintenance, clingy and possessive, as well as ill tempered.  Latin women I've come in contact with have been pretty cool, strong willed (which isn't necessarily a bad thing).\n\nIt's all about what you're attracted to.
142810
Show your boyfriend why you are better for him than she is. Be attentive to his needs, laugh at his jokes, be there for him and avoid places that the witch will be at.
852117
Moms have their own ways.  You have to make your own happiness in life.  You do not mention your age.  Cross cultural dating is difficult lots of times and no due to race.  If you have a nice boyfriend of color then try to get her to meet him and show her he respects you and wants to be kind to you and to her
1090726
its just you lol, maybe white men like asian females
537760
Be ourselves and not allow society to form our opinions or our judgments.  I'm a white girl, but my boyfriend's black.  We're madly in love, and both of our familys accept each of us...because we got to know eachother before making any judgements.  I hear rude stuff all the time, like, "He's a trader," and "Uh-uh, that don't make no sense."  I even get evil glares from white men when we go out...but I don't mind, cuz he's the one that I go home with at night, so that's all that matters.
117650
Sounds like this Japanese man plays the field, conning innocent women like you.  If he loved his previous girlfriend and allowed his parents to interfere in his marriage choice, then HE IS NOT A MAN.  Drop this guy!  He's a loser, also there won't be any conflict between your coworker. You both can drink a beer a say what a momma's boy he is.