Are emotional guys a turn off?
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Just be yourself. There is a girl out there that will like you for you. If she doesn't, she's not worth your time.
945344
Emotionally weak is hard to put up with, but so is the typical stoic, show-no-emotions type of guy. A nice balance is the best. Physical weakness, it matters to some girls, but not to others. It really just depends on the woman, you know?
589472
most guys dont like to show that they are sensitive, its just their way
94132
depends on the girl. i really like a guy who's open, funny, and has a charming playfulness. nice smile is good too, and i love it when guys laugh. i mean genuinely laugh, not just " Hahaha, in your face! i just beat you at nintendo!" laugh. just be yourself, insecurity is the biggest turn-off out there.
611453
no i find that "unmanly"\nor in other words a turn off\nhope i helped\n: )
479392
Honestly most girls are emotional and have trouble trying not to cry just isnt an option it is the way most of them deal with things. But I wouldnt say more than guys it is about equal I run around with alot of guys and they are emotioinal to they just try to hide it more
263244
For some guys it is weak to show emotion because as a male they may feel the need to always present a tough exterior.  A guy has to be secure in himself to present his emotional side.  If he isn't, then those are the guys you are talking about in your question.
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I absolutely do not think that these traits make you a bad guy. people who work with unpleasant people it makes it a very hard working environment to be around. I think that just because you are emotional doesnt mean it is a bad trait. however, just remember that even though you are laid back and easy going, there is a place and a time to be serious and to be stearn and to not be so easy going. i know you are probably an awesome person but just remember, dont let people walk all over you (not saying they do) and know when the right time to be serious or not is. k?!? i hope this helped... let me know
1033245
Well I am not a guy But I see the inner beauty in the men I date. After all the cute is gone you are left with a cute asshole nobody. I figure it is that way for men also when they look for a mate. Of coarse everybody wants that perfect person who is all that .but think of it this way "our skin is just our garage where we                temporarily store our souls."
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No that is not a turn off.  That just means she is preserving herself. shes not all used up and she cares about her body and who touches. a woman should never think about what a guy thinks about her. she should always think she is the sh*t no matter what.
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Yeah, I think all of the Super-emotional guys in the eastern half of PA between the ages of 20 and 30 are just waiting for my boyfriend to mess up. \n\nSometimes I just want a man who actually makes me feel like a woman! I'm SO sick of girly-men!
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Most men are just as sensitive as women but conceal that for a lot of reasons. To other men sensitivity is a weakness and no guy wants to be looked at as weak. Some girls take advantage of sensitive guys. In many cultures men are still not supposed to publically cry. I could go on but you get the idea.
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Guys are like that. My husband does it too. I think guys are just moody and hormonal too. Just got to get use to it. We love them, but they drive us nuts
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Yes there is such a thing. Some people including women don't show there feelings. That doesn't mean that they aren't there, they just don't show them . You know if he cares by the way he treats you. If he is honest and you feel like you can trust him then that's a good sign. Also if he does little things for you without being told that means he thinks about you. That means he cares. If he blows you off or ignores you when you are around, then that probaly means he doesn't care. When people care about you they treat you with respect. Most guys just aren't in to telling you how they feel. If you still aren't sure, then just ask him. You will know by his response how he feels. Good Luck
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We're a bit slow in understanding... No, in se everyone wants a guy that's nice. We're just frightened that 'nice' is all he'll ever be. A man is supposed to be an animal sometimes: It's superficial, but with a nice guy it's only guessing if he'll ever be a challenge in bed. With macho-dudes you're 'sure' of a challenge, and whenever he's sweet, it's even a bigger party, for you know that didn't com easy for him... The rough guy with the soft heart is a stayer on the market. And even when he doesn't have a soft heart, you can always pretend for your friends he has and then they think you're a winner. It's also very 'in' to complain about your guy. Some girls bond by wining. Don't ask me where that comes from. But in the end I think philosopher René Girard has an answer: 'You want what is wanted.' Tough guys get promoted a lot (e.g. by themselves or by 'cool' friends). Nice guys don't promote themselves and get promoted by parents (not really a reference, parents are those people we don't want to become like). And since you want what others you admire want,... you end up with a bully sometimes. Good to know: we do come to sence. When we get to know this nice guy and he surprises us with some unexpected male talents,... Ding Ding Jackpot!
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B/c guys are taught from a very young age that it's not "masculine" to be emotional.  We are taught to hide and repress our emotions.  As a result, it can be very difficult for us to talk about them as easily as girls can b/c we're not used to it.  It takes effort and practice and we have to sometimes unlearn the bad habits we were taught growing up.  You just need to be as patient with your bf as possible.  And provide helpful insight.  Sometimes you can help him figure out what he's feeling by placing yourself in his shoes.
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definately depends on the guy...its like any other thing, likes and dislikes are personal.