How can a woman challenge her husband?
151978
Ummmm...how about a wrestling match in a blowup swimming pool filled with any of the following:  Jell-O, KY, mud, pudding....\n\nOh and don't forget the white tee-shirt without a bra and thong bikini bottoms....sounds like one hell of a challenge to me...
928637
How dare you question your husband's decision, especially in public.  Bad Submissive!
984469
When she is disobedient to him. A wife should always obey her husband.
208562
To be treated like a child is definitely not fair!  The typical first response is to confront him and to retaliate, that is pretty much what everybody else has said here.  However, rather than creating conflict, I would try a more discrete tactic.  First of all, thank him for the notes, he will be dumbfounded, and you will definitely get his attention, but there won't be a conflict.  Secondly, try do more that what he writes down on the list, that will definitely impress him, and make him question the necessity of the notes.  If you can't think of any additional things to do beyond his list, then call him up and tell him that you are done with the list, and if there is anything else that he could think of that needs to be done, if you can't call him, then ask him when he gets back home!  Basically this will show him that you are proactive, and want to have things done just as much as he does, and even more by doing additional things or asking him for additional things.  I realize that I am not giving you an easy answer but in real life there is no easy answers, and no easy people to deal with.  Life is hard, and it's a struggle.  And unfortunately marriages have to be built, and rebuilt, and worked on being improved and enjoyable!  The good thing that your husband has going for him, is that the has you for his wife, he is very fortunate indeed!  Hope this helps!
355968
hahaha..honestly this is so funny...okay..for whatever the reason is you cannot beat your woman..her power not even half yours..but i can understand in the minute she hits you, you cant think because of the pain and the normal reaction is to hit back, cuz it's all about reflects. but here's what you can do in time of phisycal fighting instead of beating her as a revenge, grab both of her arm so she cant move, and watch her legs cuz she will try to kick your hip and below. the safest position is hold her from the back, so that she cant move and you're not doing her any harm...
1179387
Many times we take our frustration and or anger out on the person who is closest to us which is usually the one we love the most! Plan a "date night" with your husband! Tell him in advance that the two of you are going out to dinner together. Pick a restaurant that both of you enjoy. Wear something you know he finds sexy on you. Once this day comes, you are going to start off with a whole new attitude! You are going to be more positive about things. Yes there are things that will get us down but don't let it keep you down, no more S.H.I.T. !!!! From here on you are going to see the brighter side of things! That evening at dinner talk about all of the wonderful things the TWO of you have done TOGETHER! Reminisce about your wedding day, anything of the wonderful things that two of you have done! Also, tell him how after dinner you are going to take him home and the two of you are going to get absolutely wild in bed! After this, wake up each day and realize how good you have things. A wonderful, loving husband, a good family life and all of the other things you may have! Take a positve outlook on things and you will stop giving him that other thing you mentioned. By doing this you will help yourself mostly but also your marriage too!\nGood luck!
1115917
With God all things are possible. Please don't forget that.\n\nIf your husband  doesn't believe you cant handle responsibilities believe me he wouldn't travel a lot.\nHandling responsibilities is a character of a virtuous women(Prob 31:10) there is time for everything: time to work,play, eat, cry, rejoices and fight.(Eccl 3)\nAnd I strongly believe your marriage (not relationship) will last and stand the test of time. When couple fight it may be for a lot of reasons: maybe you spend more time at work or he is not doing things you know him for. when you leave work leave everything that pertains to your work at the office and face your family and home squarely.create time to take your husband out on a date and rediscover yourselves, don't let your drive for success get between your family. \n\nWishing you the best.
464661
just be creatively sexy, lingerie & camisoles with matching panties and try to match them with some high heeled shoes these are jut some ideas to think of. Mind you, you want to look your sexiest! How to move...just thrust your hips and pelvis turning around from front to back and make sure you get all in his face but don't let him touch you at all! and you can choose any good music that has a great beat, if you know how to dance then you could pretty much move seductivly to any type...Good Luck, this will bring extra spice to your marriage. This lets your husband know that you still are in love with him and will do what ever you think it takes to please him and to go the extra mile for him....
674568
Best tip?  Don't compete with him. You're a woman. Act like\nit. Don't act like a man. You don't want him to act like a\nwoman, do you? Role reversal will ruin a marriage. Accept\nyour individual strengths and fill in for each others weak-\nnesses. Men don't think like women. Don't try to undermine\nhis manhood. Admire his intellect, courage, and stamina.\nDon't detract from those "macho" traits that make him a man.\nHelp him, if he asks. Your femininity is a gift. Don't use\nit as a tool. Don't play head games. Don't waste time play-\ning "Hint". Tell him what you need and want. You may not get\nit all, but if you're good to him, you can be sure he'll \ntry. And if love fades, consider it a temporary condition.\nTip toe through it. Use your loving tenderness at every\nopportunity, but don't patronize. Men sometimes act like\nboys, let him. He may be inept at something, don't accent it. Let him love you. Let him not love you. If he's working\nhard, don't stop him. If he's not, gently motivate him. Don't take anything for granted. Know him, his moods, his\njoys, and his troubles. Add to his joys, not his troubles.\nDon't ever stir up the bad from the past. Expect the little\nproblems ahead, prepare for them. Don't make life changing\ndecisions based on bad temporary female feelings. Never put\nanyone before him. And remember: men aren't always the\nbrightest crayons in the box. Give him chances to get it\nright. Don't just say it, but reaffirm your love often,\nespecially when things are going wrong. Don't forget what\nyou're fighting for. Remind him, if needed. And if he does\nthis for you too, you should be fine. One more thing, turn\noff the T.V., it is filled with silly notions of what love\nand struggle are all about. And about the sex tips...\njust kidding. Sweet dreams, you two.
355374
Punch the b|tch in her mouth.  Or if you don't agree with hitting woman have a female friend do it.  Or pay a really big dike to do it instead.
1048575
Maintain a sense of reasonable doubt. Accept proofs that work beyond a reasonable doubt as real. Accept cooberated circumstantial evidence, with physical evidence.\n\nTest everything except your wife's, and God's love.
1058995
It's an attitude thing.  Do you ever have an aggressive... I want what I want when I want it attitude.  Take control...  \n\nTell him what you want him to do and how you want it done.  Dictate to him what you are going to do to him and he has no choice but to let you do it.\n\nThe turn on for your husband is that you want him so bad that he turns you from this cute, sweet, shy woman into a this vixen who needs him so increadibly bad.  \n\nIt's fun!!!\n\nIt's really just a role playing thing.  Have fun with it.  Enjoy yourself.
540919
just don't bother god will give her the punishment.if you try to humiliate her what will be the difference between you and her.if you really want to do something justgo and challenge her in something in which you are best and she is not.
326823
She's not your mother.  Let your husband do it.  It's his mother, he needs to do it himself.
902504
Hi been there and it is horrid dont argue with your hubby about her as she obviously wants to destroy the marriage and using a child is low Play her at her own game and stop trying to be super woman her hubby doesnt want to lose his son and she knows it why not go and have some you time when he sees his son for an hour she will panic my hubbys ex made my life hell for years but she didnt win and you are a winner as you have him and she dont smile sweetly with perfect makeup and be civilised it works
912839
Hopefully your husband wants your help and isn't putting out signals to attract this type of attention.  That's another whole problem altogether.\n\nBut what I would do if this is just some ordinary floozy putting the moves on your guy--and I've seen this done very well--is to go up to them and join the conversation with the attitude conveying complete confidence that you are welcome in the conversation.  HE will welcome you, right, even if she won't?  Maybe put your arm around your husband.  If he becomes standoffish, again, that's a problem; he needs to welcome you into the conversation.\n\nThen be sweet as pie to her.  Ask her about herself.  Take an interest.  Never betray that you are anything but completely assured of your wonderful relationship with your husband.  Ideally, bore her with prattle until she leaves on her own (getting her to excuse herself from you two is the best way, it's a much stronger position than walking away).  It doesn't matter if she's interested in you, believe me, in fact, use the fact that she isn't!  Then stay nearby your husband in case she comes back.  If you can't bore her to death, you and hubby will have to excuse yourself from her company and move on.  \n\nIf she gets too pushy or nasty to you personally, say something very pointed in a very nice tone (like "peddle your wares to someone who's interested, honey").  But never, NEVER get bitchy.  It's beneath you.
626948
Why waste your time confronting her when it is him that your really mad at.  She didn't force your husband to cheat with her, she just happened to be the one he cheated with.  After all, who knows what story your husband told her.