is it ok to have say someone is cute if you have a boyfriend???
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The real answer comes as a question. If your boyfriend is secure in your relationship with him, he probably won't mind. On the other hand, if it really bothers him, then he is responding to an offhand remark as if it is a threat to your relationship. In this case, it may still be alright to others, but if you're smart, you won't continue to do it if you know it upsets him. Here's the real big question you  need to answer, and only you can. If your boyfriend is getting really bent out of shape over an innocent remark because he's that insecure, do you really want to invest more of your time on him in the first place? \n\nNot to tell you what to do, but my experience has taught me that jealousy and insecurity are symptoms of greater emotional problems. The person with the problems needs to first acknowledge them, before he can ever get the help he needs to overcome them. As long as he thinks you'll put up with it, he never will admit he has a problem. Don't deceive yourself, as many young women have done, into thinking that you can change him. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. Better for you to just move on. This may sound cold, but it's probably the best for him and certainly would be for you.\n  Hope this helps you.
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Let me say this way. u r very sweet coz u r the way u r & u recognize that fact. ugly .. beautiful etc r all relative words ...if a guy is fancy u ... u r blessed ... its immaterial how he looks like .i m happy u hv faith in urself ...... God bless
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
1002434
you have a boyfriend and you want your so called friends approval? sorry i don't get it, if he's your boyfriend and there your mates how come they don't know him and have only seen a pic. my advise get new friends. i could never in a million years tell my friends that their  boyfriends weren't good looking even if that's what i thought, and i would never tell them that they could do better unless he was been horrible to her. true friends accept each others partners and even if your not that keen you pretend for their sakes. Also your the one who is with him not them and like i've said before looks are'nt everything.
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Tell him you've got a boyfriend
567947
This is true. When you are with someone you think they are cute because of how they act or how they are with you. Or basically because you are stupid. When you break up you look at them and think what the heck was I thinking? Its normal ha but it sure does suck
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I would first thank the person for the compliment...but remind them that I am in a relationship...and it wouldn't be a good idea as it might jeporize my relationship...\nthere are always strings...sometimes you just don't see them right away.
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Most guys would say, "oh, that's lame... you should shoot yourself for even asking it." but the smart guys >like myself< know that's something women would find cute. It might not be something to say on a first glimpse, but to a friend you are trying to up your relationship with, sure!  good line for that
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You go girl, flaunt it if you have it!!!!\nEnjoy it, because it's a relationship like any other...
914097
dude your not ugly, and i'm not gay, i'm ugly, but its ok, i've seen some drop dead god hating ugly people going out with some of the cutest girls you have ever seen, personality matters, and to some girls, as we say in spanish "chillote" matters or "grande verga" matters, dont know what they mean then post another question about it
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You are seeking that guy's approval in some way.  You want him to say you're cute too. It doesn't matter who the guy is - BTW - you need him to say something nice about you.  If I were you, I'd assess why you may feel the need to get the man's approval of your looks and why it feels not so good if a guy says another girl/woman is cute. Don't worry about it....just take a step back and look at yourself and how you feel.
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You have a nice little @ss I love you a lot.\n\nIrishbeauty, you need to take the word mean out of quotations.
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not really, because if they have girlfriends, then they must have something that's attractive and obiously, u see it. u just got to be a little faster. u know what i mean, right?
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just tell her, "My friend thinks your cute and his name is .....whatever. Do you know who he is? (wait for response) Do you think he is cute?" Like that but don't come off as a jerk. Cuz then you messed it all up. But don't come off flirty either cuz then she'll think the "friend" is you.
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You like him, don't you?\n\nOf course it's okay but be careful (i.e. don't expect him to be impressed, esp. if he doesn't appreciate it).  It's just the way guys are.
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Do not just pop over with him and get their raw reaction. That might not go so well. I would break them in slow over a few weeks - start with telling them you have a boyfriend, explain how much you care about him...no details at first. Then pepper in a few hints about him that would give hints about him, then maybe put a picture up or have pictures of you and him together. Give them time to take it all in. Then bring him over so they can find out how good a guy he is.
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Don't touch. Think "professional" without thinking "formal" if that's possible. Mention how great your boyfriend or husband is every now and then.