i dnt wana lose my bro wid silly interuptions of mine inhis life but i cant help stayin of his personal life?
139419
when my translater gets here i'll try to answer.
899374
he is my bro what do u want me to tell him
1159439
You should never put your friend's feelings over your family.  Friends will come and go, but your family will always be there for you through good and bad times. \n\nSo what if your brother is different.  We all have differences.  It is more embarrishing for your brother for you to be with him and be ashamed to be seen with him.  Think about his feelings first.  You can always walk away but he will always be that way.\n\nJust love and be proud of your brother no matter who sees you or who's around.
840048
I think it would be fine.  You might want to talk about it with your bro though and get his opinion.  The only potential prob I can see would be if you are hanging out with your bf's family and the ex starts asking questions about your brother or saying mean stuff about him.  But if that doesn't bother you, or if your bro and his ex had a relatively friendly breakup experience, then go ahead.
190691
poor u!well,in this case if i tell u 4get him then im bluffing .i knw its difficult to 4get him but just gv ur self sumtime try to spend most of ur time betweem frends and family cuz believe they r the one's that can get u out of this chaos......and i hope next time u get someone he b true to u
269568
How awful. I guess you can probably help him best by not avoiding him. A coworker of mine lost a son and when I wrote a sympathy card (on each anniversary of his death) she wrote back, "It's so nice to hear someone mention his name, finally. Everyone else is afraid to bring up his name, but seeing his name in print, acknowledging his life...helps me to remember his life."\n\nDon't avoid him...that's the best advice I have. And don't feel as if you have to come up with a "hallmark sentiment" every time you cross paths. Just give him a quick squeeze on his arm, move along with life, look into his eyes, cry along with him...don't avoid his pain.\n\nHe'll never forget your courage and friendship.
109862
He is your brother you are not supposed to get over him just redirect your thoughts into the positive instead of the negative...think about what you can do to make his time there better and do it....just be a good sis
394436
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
831371
It's time for you get some balls and stand up to your brother . . . if you really want to be with Frank then be with him, if your brother doesn't approve then tell him tough sh** . . . it's not his life, it's not his emotion or choice or even right to get in the way of your life because he has insecurity issues w/ himself . . . if he thinks frank will be bad for you, and if he's right, then that's a decision you're going to have to find out for yourself.\n\nStand up for yourself and put your foot down!!  Don't let other people, regardless of their role in your life, tell you what to do with your life.
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
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i am all for the "find a better guy and make him jealous" thing, but it puts you in a pickle with him being your brothers friend, and if you do anything to upset this guy your brother might get ticked off at you.(because that is how men are) i suggest talking to your brother and finding out what the deal is whether or not this dude is in to you or if he is slow-playin. then i would tell him (brother) that this dude really upset you because of the way he treated you. and if your lucky your brother just might have one of those "rules for dating my sister" talks with the dude.
831212
if you are truly fine with the way things are then dont open that can of worms. you will just get attached and then he will die and you will be hurt. then again, if you arent okay with it and are just telling yourself that then if you do nothing and he does die withought you making up it will hurt you. its a personal decision.
831300
I think you are too young and that is way your brother is proteting you...  Or maybe he knows someting about Frank that you do not know...  Just ask your brother what is the issue  and that's it.
1012201
tell me and we'll both know.  i'm 31 and my younger bro is 28 and we still don't see eye to eye on most things.  different personalities unfortunately.  if your bro is nasty and swearing than it sounds like you just need to walk away from him until he can speak to you nicely.  be strong when he bugs you for money, he's just using you as he knows you're an easy target.
600033
Honey, female to female: If YOU feel uncomfortable, then YOU ought to stop hanging with them.  God forbid something happen to you while your with them, and your brother is not there.  Stop while your ahead.  If its deep enough for you to be asking on here, then you need to stop hanging with your bro.  Get some girl friends. I don't recommend hanging with only guys under any circumstances, those are the kind of girls who end up getting taken advantage of, by people they've known and trusted for years.
957897
Leave it alone. NO guy is worth losing a best friend. None. It will probably all blow over eventually and you will later be glad that you didn't do anything.
767385
ok, so i lost you there at the end, but... there is always someone who gets all weird & acts distant to the family. they usually have other issues & i really suggest just staying out of it all & avoid such drama. making a fuss is only going to piss the brother off instead of making him WANT to be around the family. you can't assume it is only the woman who wants to keep him to herself. unless he says that. there may be much more to the situation than what you realize. so, i would just enjoy the family you have & accept your brother for the decisions he chooses to make.