If u have a long distance relashonship,should u break up with that person or no?
143502
I had one of those long distance things and I stuck it threw and I'm still with her today. I think it all depends on where you want your heart to be in at the end of the night. It takes alot of trust and it can get very fustrating at times but in the end it's all worth it.
1154492
Long Distance relationships are doomed to failure 99.9% of the time.  You can try to make it work, but you will go broke paying for all the long distance phone calls, and there still is no guarantee she's not banging the lumpy guy who works the counter at the Taco Bell.   \nIt just ain't worth the hassle and stress.  Move on.  Keep in touch with her, and if she moves nearby, start dating her again.
6054
Talk to him about everything. If you still like him then make sure he still feels the same way about you. If either of you aren't committed to the relationship then break it off. Long distance relationships aren't easy and there's no reason to drag it on if you're not sure about it. \n\nIf he's been seeing other girls and rarely calls, chances are it's time to move on. On the bright side, it's a lot easier to move on when the person isn't around all the time. \n\nGood luck!
422917
since you have already made up your mind to study abroad, my advise is to just go ahead without worrying about your boyfriend. since you don't believe in long distance relashionships this decision basically means that you have already given up on the relashionship. It sounds to me like you need some time to find out who you are before you can commit yourself. it is only fair that you tell your boyfriend what you are planning. be honest. I wish you well.
39344
You got to choices, and it's all up to you.\n\n1. Dont listen anything she says cause living 1 hour away from each other is not DISTANCE, believe you have no idea what a distance-relationship is. If you care for her as you say, FIGHT FOR HER, dont' let her go, if she really loves you, she'll stay with you.\n\n2. Move on... there's a milion other girls. Yeah, i know it's really hard and at this moment you probably believe that you can't live without her, than you will never be able to love anyone again and stuff like that... but believe me, in 6 months, you won't even remember her last name.
361149
If he's worth it, do it. My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we're only able to see eachother once a month (maybe twice). If I didn't like him as much as I do, it wouldn't be worth it. I won't lie, it's hard. But I feel like our relationship is strong enough to get through the times we can't see each other. It also depends on how old you are. If you're too young to be able to drive yourselves to see each other, it's probably not the best idea since it'll make it harder. But if you really like this guy and you think it's worth having someone 3 hours away, rather than 3 minutes, do it. Sometimes long distance relationships help you to get to know each other better. When you're not together, you can only talk to each other. You don't have the physical stuff (even if that stuff is fun) to distract you. You have this opportunity to get to know each other very well.
187196
What do you want out of this relationship?\nIt's long distance so it's goiing to be hard to maintain it.\nDo you just want someone to talk to privately or what?
741177
First, it's "might" not "mite". You have to decide whether or not you want to move with him, have a long distance relationship, or break up. All of this depends on whether or not you can move, how involved is the relationship, etc.
365478
I don't think I'd do anything quite yet.  You should probably wait and see what happens. I understand you're worried but if your relationship is strong, you 2 can work this out.  Some people can make long distance relationships work out, some can't.  He says he's taking you with him, do you even want to move? That's something you'll have to decide and that could give you the rest of the answers you need.\nBest of luck to you!
981696
Either try to continue the relationship you have. If the distance is too much and the relationship is basically over, it's time to formally end it. That way both of you know that it's over and can move on without hurting the other by cheating.
676859
if you can't resolve the issue you've got to both accept that it won't be resolved and talking about it will only make you feel frustrated. You'll have to have discipline to keep a long distance relationship going so use that discipline to avoid the issue for now. Be careful that one or both of you aren't using this as an excuse to get out of the relationship. Having a break suggests it's something you are thinking about. You need to get together soon and remember the reasons that you are together. The issue you mention is obviously standing in the way so are you sure you can't do something to make it a bit better at least. fighting can become a habit and if you or he have done it with previous partners it may be something that feels so familiar that you recreate it. you are in a circle that must be broken but hiding or running away by not talking won't heal or help or break the circle. Only you two can work this out but you must be clear about what you want and need and are you compromising yourself too much! Good luck to you both.
522318
You should ask yourself if it's worth it to break up with the one you're dating and if the other one would like you back, and then make a decision. Just don't cheat.
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
853667
i'd give him the time he needs, all you can do is wait. he'll either come back or he wont, when you break up with sumone, it takes time because they're scared you'll hurt them again, just wait, time will tell
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
145638
That would depend on if the relationship that I was currently in was going sour. I wouldn't cheat on them if it was I'd just break it off.
176193
Long distance relationships are never an easy thing. The only way they work is if the two of you trust each other completely. It also depends on how well you know each other. It's a bad idea to go into a long distance relationship early on. However, once your bond is strong enough, time away from each other makes the heart fonder.\nIt's harsh, but if you can't trust her, then it's not going to work. \nBut when you do, it'll work out. If you truly love her, trust her.\nIt'll be a tough 6 months, but you'll pull through.\nHope it all turns out for the best...\n:)