is it right to romance my fiacee during courtship and to even kiss her?
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This is entirely up to the personal morals held by the two of you.  Morales are usually dictated by such sources as religious tradition, parental guidance, and peer influences.  Without going into too much detail on the morale make-up of today's society, I would have to say this is entirely up to the two of you.  If you want to be romantic and you feel that you are comfortable expressing you feelings physically then do so.  \n\nIf however you feel that you might be too young, to engage in such activities perhaps you had better talk this matter over with your parents.
681571
Ask her if it would be OK with her if you kissed her.
107894
HELLO marygreen38 WELL THE QUESTION U ASKED ABOUT YOUR FRND IS QUIET COMMON IN TODAYS MODERN ERA BUT BEING MODERN DOES NOT AT ALL MEAN THAT SHE WILL CARRY ON WITH SOME OTHER GUY BEINGN A MARRIED LADY..........\nU TOLD THAT SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND A LOT,,, THEN WHAT WAS THE NEED OF JOINING IMATCHUP. THIS IS TOTALLY WRONG ON HER PART.........\nTELL HER, THAT IF SHE AT ALL FEELS THAT HER HUSBAND IS NOT ROMANTIC ENOUGH THEN SHE SHOULD MAKE A FIRST MOVE TO BE ROMANTIC WITH HER HUSBAND..........\nIF SHE THINKS THAT SHE WILL NOT DO ANYTHING THEN IT IS NOT POSSIBLE AT ALL THAT HER HUSBAND SHOWS HIS ROMANTICNESS. MAY BE ITS POSSIBLE THAT TILL TODAY SHE DID NOT BECOME ROMANTIC AND HER HUSBAND FEELS AS IF SHE IS NOT ROMANTIC........\nITS NECESSARY IN A MARRIAGE TO SIT AND SHARE UR FEELINGS TOGETHER NOTHING IS GONNA HAPPEN ALL ALONE............\nWE ALL GET MARRIED TO GET SUPPORT OF A PARTNER WHO WILL STAND BY YOU ALL YOUR LIFE NOT JUST FOR ROMANCE..........\nASK HER, THAT IS SHE HAVING ALL THE RIGHT INFORMATION ABOUT THT GUY WITH WHOM SHE IS DATING? IS HE AS LOYAL TO HER AS SHE IS? IS HE NOT CARRYING ON ANY AFFAIR WITH SOME OTHER GIRL? I DONT THINK THAT SHE WILL BE ABLE TO ANSWER ALL THESE QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nASK HER TO BE LOYAL TO HER HUSBAND BECOZ HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL BE THERE TO HELP HER AT ANY PINT OF TIME AND NOT THAT GUY OF IMATCHUP..........\nTHAT'S ALL I WANT TO SAY..........
646869
When you are ready.  If you two are serious about each other, then go ahead.  Find the right time when you feel ready and she feels ready too.
690259
That's bad karma. If you don't think they're right for each other - and i assume that's because you want to be with her?? - then let it be. If you're meant to be with her then it will happen.
169482
There's no particular period of time, but it sounds like you would do well to let her make the first move, if she's going to.  Don't underestimate the healing power of romance; of knowing you are wanted and cherished.  You're not being a cad to be available to her; a cad would storm the bastions and make a nuisance of himself.  Just be sweet and helpful, and wait and see.  If she is interested, she may be reluctant to let you know for fear of seeming fickle.  You both need time, but she needs to signal when she thinks the time of waiting has come to an end.
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what you just said in the question sounds like a good start to me.  you have the right to be happy and if the relationship you are in right now does not make that happen, then you shouldn't have to stay.  it doesn't matter if your significant other is related to hers, you should do what makes you happy.  just try telling her what you wrote here.
86744
use your female creativity with values.  you will know if he desires to do so also.  but you want to keep control....if it is just kiss!!!!!!  and he should be special ---if it is just a kiss!!!!
357266
i think that it is okay. it is okay to be attracted and have feelings for anyone that you wish. what you need to do now is figure out what you want to do with your life. are you ready for committment, or do you want to explore a little? do be ashamed about your preference, but dont hurt, or lead anyone on in the process
872968
if you are quiet serious for marriage with her then plz go a head and take very good care of her self.\nregards
277073
No, not unless you have a really good reason too I think that you should kiss him. I mean, you like him and all right? if you haven't gone on a dite yet though that might be a good start
1154096
Well if you've been dating for a while than any time would be the perfect time for the first kiss. Your partner is probably just waiting with anticipation. But seriously, do it when the moment is right. Look your loved one right it their eyes and you'll know if it's the right moment or not. Good luck. Hope the first kiss is all you ever wanted it to be.
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First of all, it's not wrong !! Don't ever say that b/c thats just what others believe. If you two been together for 3 months and you honestly really care for one another than you are going to have to talk to her and let her know how you feel about the whole situation. It shouldn't really matter what religion she chooses to go to b/c if she really loves you and you really love her then why should either of you allow a book that someone else wrote run you guys relationship down. If you feel that she deserves you and that you deserve her and yall make each other happy then GIRL please live life the best way known how b/c to be real with you, you know like I know that we are only granted with one life to live!!!!!!You midestwell live it being happy, you aren't hurting anyone else by doing that!!\nGOOD LUCK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!
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it depends on how long and how well you know the other person . ask yourself these questions: are you willing to give up your total freedom as a single life? are you ready to be with just that one person for the rest of your life? do you really know this person? if you can say yes too all then make it special for her because romance is the winning yes
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You very well could be - and there is nothing wrong with that.  Just do what feels right as long as it does not harm anyone else (human or animal.)  You'll figure it out yourself over time and go with whatever feels good to you.
819265
Of course!!!life is 4 fun..not 4 doing romantic scene but erotic !!!\nI would dragged her in a coner were there would be no1 and then......it would be really fun!!!
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.