For women only : List it begin from the most important factor for u when u chose a man.1look 2$ 3 personality?
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personality first of all, cause it determines his look and amount of money in his pocket.
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I don't think there's one trait that's more important than another.  If, for example, honesty is important and kindness or a good heart is important, how do you choose. It's never just one thing... it's the package you want when you choose a wife.
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Well a first physical attraction would be about looks. You wouldnt walk past a guy / girl and say to your self "yeah baby, I bet he has a good personality."
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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Yes.  It should be a combination of the three, and my girlfriend is.  Looks are important, because I like a girl who takes care of her appearance.  Intelligence: I dont want to have to talk down to someone all the time.  Personality:  I like a person who's interesting and wants to go out and laugh, and play, and have a good time with me.
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Looks are good, but not actually important. I want a guy that´s really nice, selfless, fun to be around and most importantly will always respect me
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Good personality all the way.  Without that, all the others are a waste.  And, a good personality can sure make someone good looking, smart and fun.
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Personality.\n\nIntelligence can be improved... personality will seldom change.
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1. Habits-caring, sense of humor, respect for others, willing to accept responsibility.\n2. Height-I'm partial to any man over 6 feet. Weight is not really an issue.\n3. Extra ability- to know what I don't know.  That why with the two of us together we know everything.\n4. Looks- Clear skin helps. I lean more towards Hispanic men. Which is weird since it is hard to find any over 5'10".\nOther than that, not much else counts. Remember love is blind.\n5. Job and money go hand in hand.  If you don't have a job, then you won't have money.  Enough to support me and eventually kids, with some to spare.\n6. Religion never came into consideration.\n      U.S. The thing that really got me about my husband was his lips.  When I would talk to him at school, I would think how it would be nice to suck on his bottom lip.
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charm is one of the best 'attributes' that a man can have =)\nplus, you're honest, romantic, and giving\nwhat else could a woman want?\nage and look are not important these days\nso, if i'm not married, i would surely date you!\nbe more confident with yourself =)
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Self-confidence. If you are confident (or try to be) and don't care about what people would think when you state your opinion, thats an attractive factor. I'm not a guy, but i've been 13 b4!
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I think the most important thing is confidence.  If you are confident in yourself and know that you are a desirable person, everyone else will know it too.
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Romance.....Just a honest man and one that listens is nice.\n☺
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OK here's my list:\n1. loyal\n2. trustworthy\n3. caring\n4. humorous (at least he/she should not bore you)\n5. acceptable (should gel well with your family and friends)\n6. shares some common interests.\n\ndon't go for physical beauty, d person should be beautiful from inside. \nall the best for your love life !
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Personally,I like a man who is a little on the wild side..a bit of a badboy,who knows what he wants and how to get it,but not in a nasty way!I like him to have charisma,passion,drive.Be romantic but not slushy,be giving but not a push over,kind and sensitive when need be,but not OTT.Ultimately a man who is a man,but who knows when to show his softer side.
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It's true that many women place a high priority on wealth when picking a guy. But there are other things you can bring to the table: You can be funny, good looking, charming or mean. Most straight women seem to find one or more of those things appealing.
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i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.