What can I do if I kissed another guy behind my boyfriends back.?(I think that I like this one guy too!)?
152282
I know how u feel...i'm having hte same problems. but i had to cut it off with the guy that i dind't like as much... u need to do that now, better to hurt now than hurt much more later...
568081
I would not kiss him. My brother and an old friend dated behind my back, and it hurt. \nI don't advise it\n\nBecause if you date him & problems arise, who are you gonna turn to? Your BFs sister?\nThat is putting her in the middle of something she probably wants no part in.
907667
Because you kissed the guy that doesn't mean that you're not a virgin anymore,just decide what you want.İf you love this guy you shouldn't be hanging out with the others.İf you tell him you probably lose him.
321627
Take a long look at the relationship that you have worked to develop with your boyfriend. If everything is good there, then forget about the other guy and spend more time having sex with your boyfriend. He won't know what hit him, and you can "work out" some of the urges you are having. Try something new in bed (or in chair, or on dining room table) to spice it up a bit. The new guy is just that , someone new. And the fact that he wants to "hook up" with someone who is already in a relationship tells you all you need to know about his character.
520249
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...
258308
Ok, my b/f/f is a boy. About 3 years ago, I had the same feeling. I thought of him as more than my friend. I thought that is I told him, that it would ruin our chance as b/f g/f and friends so I decided not to do anything about it. About a month or so afterwards, my other friend came up to me and said that he liked me too. So, I decided to talk to him bout us and we came to find out that we both liked each other as more then friends. So, there could be something there for you. Don't be afraid like I was to make the first move. He could be ur soulmate. So, go 4 it! Good luck! :)
204977
trust him to believe you. if your both friends with the guy then invite your boyfriend to hang out with the two of you more often so that he can see what the two of you are really up to.
371257
Find another boyfriend!
511795
Let him see you kissing another
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
124063
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
1013061
well...um...i dont know. just think real hard and ask yourself "do i like him or not?"\n\nhopefully u come up with an answer.\n\n\nbut i am thinking u r just confused because u were flattered that he kissed u. u just got caught up in the moment.
854097
Uhhh ask the other guy if he feels like there is something going on between you too? then if he says yes dumb boyfriend then get a with him!
355322
WHO DO YOU LIKE MORE, YOUR BOYFRIEND OR THIS NEW GUY?? MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE NEW OR SOMEONE ELSE. IT HAPPENS! AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. TRUST YOUR HEART, BELIEVE IN YOUR MIND. SIXTH GRADER LIKING A NINTH GRADER!!!! NOT SO SHOCKING!! IF YOU LIKE HIM JUST BECAUSE HE IS OLDER, THEN THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST REASON. DO YOU WHAT YOU FEEL??
681208
Whether this is "your fault" for being with another guy, or "his fault" for freaking out, doesn't matter.  Even if it was an accident, and you say sorry and can prove it, still doesn't matter.\n\nStuff like this is a clear signal that one of you (maybe both of you?!) aren't ready for a real relationship.  Take some time off, think about what YOU can do better next time (even if it's just thinking about how to choose a boyfriend that isn't so immature).  Then, after a few months (I would suggest 3-6 months at least!) you might possibly think about another boyfriend.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
1110831
If you want to stay with Ken as your boyfriend then just back off from the other.  If you want a fling then have it ans see what the out come is.