i like this girl she likes me but she a grade lower and people make fun of people like that!?
143665
If you like her, and she likes you, it doesn't matter what the other kids think.   Don't let them get to you.\n\nFirst dates are always tough.  Sometimes it's easier if you go out with a group.  Not as much pressure on the two of you to make conversation. :)\n\nGood luck.
506674
Why do you think she does not like you?  Is your self-esteem a bit low right now?  Why do you feel you do not deserve her love?  Whatever the cause, please start to believe in yourself.  Are you not a nice person?.  You have friends, don't you.? And you would do anything for any one. Yeah?  See, just believe that you are a good person and good things will come to you. Good luck.
292638
It's going to be tough if she doesn't like you to begin with.  In other words, whatever you do won't impress her much.  Just set your sights on someone else. I'm sure there's someone out there who would like you just the way you are even when you don't put your best foot forward.
88032
well, there is something you have to learn in life, and it might as well start now. there will be people like this.\nYou need to accept it.\nAs for solutions, when she brags make it your thing to build her up more. she sounds insecure, so if she is bragging about being so popular, tell her that you think its great that she gets along well with so many different people. If she is looking to you for affirmation of her awesomeness, give it to her and she can move on.\nHow does she embarass you?
938823
I hate to be the one to tell you this but she's just teasing you. There are fakes like her everywhere; they pretend like they like you but they just doing it for their kicks. I think that you should look around and try to someone else thats good for you. Also try online dating services for teens. Best of luck to you!!
156430
Stop following her around and just talk to her let her know you think she is hot stuff. I don't no why you would want someone who constantly insults people to like you anyway, but hey who am I to judge.
872782
just go up to her and ask her...make it seem like a joke so if she doesn't like you, no hard feelings...
163891
When a girl is unattractive or otherwise undesirable, a guy will act funny and dis her around his friends.  He's trying to give the perception that it's "nothing serious, I'm just using her" so that his friends won't annoy him about you.\n\nDon't worry, he's just protecting himself and you from ridicule.
1148174
Be professional and mature and remember to think as the higher person because the person who is making fun of you is obviously extremely low and you don't need to stoop to their level.  Just tell them you do not appriciate what they are doing and walk away from it.  It really makes you look like much of a stronger person.
437007
its a total sign of jealousy, she likes you, besides mature girls dont put down other girls, its not ladylike.
392176
Honestly you don't sound all that respectful yourself.\n Fake compliments?  Not sure what that means..do you mean\n she sucks up to people with things she doesn't mean? Or\n do you mean she is sarcastic in one of those "mean girl"\n ways?  If you don't like her, tell her why. It might do\n her some good. If not..she should be off your back.
531290
First and foremost, I must say that I applaud you for standing up for someone who you feel is being wronged. So what if she's " kinda big?" If God wanted everyone to be alike, then he would have made us that way. I also want to tell you that I had some hard times attending high school myself because no matter what you do, people are going to be just people. I was known as the "goody two-shoes" girl, but at least I wasn't bullying anybody, and I was able to get good grades. Grades that have put me where I am today. If you do as some people on here has suggested, and be a "goody-two shoes", then people will hate you for being good, and if you're stuck up and snobbish, then they will hate you for that also. Just be YOURSELF!! As long as when you get up in the morning and can still face yourself in the mirror, then you know that you are doing something right. And, I hate to say it, but this is just a growing process that we all must go through at some point in our lives. It sucks, I know, but in the end, at least you'll feel better for going through it, and being the victor!!
94432
All girls are different but if a girl really likes you she'll find an excuse to be around you way more than before. She'll laugh at things you say that noone else does. She'll go out of her way to hang out with you and be nice to you.
780052
Hey its only 2 grades....and if you really like her then whats the problem.\n\nIts not like she is in the 2nd grade or anything\nThat would be wrong
727364
Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
655432
Try learning how to spell better....anyway...try telling her that you aren't embarrased of her. Get her to believe you and trust you. Introduce her to other people/other friends so that she knows you're not embarassed of her.
590200
It sounds like she is trying to make friends. You could be nicer to her. Imagine yourself in her place, what would you want people to do to you? Who knows maybe you'll have a lot in common and will become great friends as time goes on.\n\nTry to be nice, and give her a chance or two to make friends. There are little things better than surrounding yourself with the laughter in company of friends.