I am divorced after 14 yrs. Im 33, punk and heavily tattooed. will i find romance on a dating site?
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There is no reason why you can't.  In fact in your case it may be the easiest method to find someone similar to you if that is what your looking for.  Just realize it will be a long process to weed out all the jerks because a lot people use those sites just for quick sex.  Becareful and be smart and hopefully you'll find the right one for you.
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YESSSSSSSSS there is one that i know of.  it's called plentyoffish.com and it's website is www.plentyoffish.com.  it's free to make a profile and free to contact other members.  it's a really good dating site b/c it is basically what the pay site would offer but it is free.  the problem is that since it's off the internet everyone is soo cautious that it is easy to chat online but nearly impossible to go out on a date.  i found meeting people through friends or even randomly at local bars is much better than internet dating.\n\nonce again your answer is yes and the site is www.plentyoffish.com  if you join you must be nice to all otherwise dont bother.
641180
First of all, Kenny - grow up. \nAny dating site will have people of all ages on it, and you can narrow your criteria to the age of the people you want to date. Match.com has lots of people over 50. So does Yahoo personals. \nPersonally, I don't think  there is any "Good" dating site. There are lots of weirdos out there, and a lot of players (including people over the age of 50). So try them out, but be aware that you probably won't find a long lasting relationship on them. Then again, maybe that's not what you;re looking for.
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Go to your search and type in  just what you asked it should bring it up or go to one of the dating things on here and put in your area (sign UP) what your looking for, that would be your best bet. there are all kinds of people looking for people on those things. like friendfinder.com or american singles.com , www.adult-seeker.com, there are lots out there.
359395
This is not a love site. Try eharmony.com Good luck.
559710
I'm 26, and not 2, and not from CO.  Go to a bar and find someone.  \n\nGood luck!
300706
yeah. When I was living in NYC I couldn't meet ANYONE and used MATCH.com. No long term relationships came out of it but I went on lots of fun dates :) That was 5 years ago though. Recently I have had friends meet people...one had a successful relationship. Other friends have had success with e-harmony, and yahoo personals too...hey it's free to look, right?
473046
Try match.com or yahoo match.  I know they exist.  Don't waste time with the bums.  Also, you should tell them you're a woman and not a wemon.
406203
I think perhaps you should go on a dating site, you will prob have more luck with it there.
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First, & I don't want this to sound mean in the least, this is not the type of forum to find a mate. If you want to find someone via the Internet, you'll have much better luck with a dating service.\n\nSecond, again, not being mean, if you are looking for a quick fling, then your question (or lack thereof) will probably get you just that but you will also run the risk of a lot of borrowed problems as well. After all, how do you know that the person on the other end of the keyboard is who or what they say they are? True, in time you can find out but how are you going to handle it if you find that the person you've been talking to is one of the "old" people you mention?\n\nMy best suggestion for you is to get out there & get involved in some hobbies, whatever they might be. This will put you in an arena with like-minded people with whom you will already have something in common.\n\nStill, it sounds to me from your details that what you are really interested in is nothing more than a cute, young thing; sorry, but this is the way your details have come off to me. If this is the case, just hit the bars & you'll find someone to warm your bed. If you are looking for something more, however, you are severely limiting yourself by talking so much about younger ladies & calling those of or about your age "old". It would make me wonder why your marriage of 25 years ended...maybe you found her too old for you suddenly? If this happened to be the case, how do you think women will react to learning this?\n\nI'm not trying to be hurtful in any way; I'm trying to honestly explain to you how your above approach might look to women. Me? I'm very taken & you wouldn't be interested anyway since I'm 40 :)\n\nGood luck, whichever route you end up taking...
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Dude, you sound just like me. My wife left me last July.  We had been together for 7 years.  We didn't have kids, do you?  I think that might make a difference.  Anyway, I turned 28 2 days after the divorce was final.\n\nYou have every right to feel scared.  Since we were kids whenever we hooked up with our exwives, we never really went through the dating scene that you are about to enter.  I see that some of the peeps are advising you not to enter in to a relationship, but you arent asking about a relationship, you are asking about dating, gotta keep that seperated.  If you are anything like me, your world has stopped spinning and you are all sorts of messed up in the head.  Don't let that part of you bring down the rest of you.  For me, it was real freaking important psychologically to know that I could still pull tail.  Let me tell you, it was not that hard.  Just so you know, I am nothing special.  I aint Mr. GQ.  I aint some gym rat either.  I tell you that because I always see dudes our age at the bars all GQ'd out looking like they live in the gym and I never thought I could compete with that, well don't.  You don't have to.  You don't want the bar flies that chase those dudes anyway.  \n\nFirst thing you gotta do is get your mind right.  You are a dude that was faithful to 1 girl from the time you were an irresponsible kid till now.  You havent been in bars chasing skeezers every night since you turned 21.  You are a good dude that is different than those type of guys.  You understand relationships and women.  You know the expectations of a woman and will naturally meet them.  Things like calling, being thoughtful, etc. are hard for dudes who have never been married, its natural for you and women love that.  Girls that are our age have the same concerns that we do.  Good girls are looking for good dudes and are willing to give you a chance if you can present an acceptable formula of traits.  You know you can.  \n\nI have dated 5 girls since my wife left me 9 months ago.  1 was a girl that I knew from highschool, (work that circuit).  3 were girls that I met via my job that worked for other companies, and the most recent one was an acquaintance of one of my friends wives.  If you are anything like me, your friends are all married and the wives know that you are a good dude, thus willing to set you up.  Keep your expectations real.  You know deep down the level of girl that you can pull.  Work all angles and dont listen to anyone who gives you a time table.  You need female companionship to get your esteem up.  Take it where you can get it.\n\nYou'll be alright.  It'll all work out for you my man.
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Well, lets see here. It sounds like this is a reoccuring problem you are having. I am going to assume that you are over 18 years old. \n\nSign up for a free account on Yahoo Personals. fill out all the profile and personal information. When you have your home page finished look on it for a link that allows you to take the personality/love type test. This is the most detailed test I have taken and I have taken a few. When you finish, your information will be immediately available to view. It will consist of maybe 20 pages of expert opinions advice and comparisons. These will be based on your responses to the test. You will learn all about yourself. What you like and don't like in a partner, what buttons a potential partner may push that you find irritating. What buttons you push that irritate them and most importantly, what changes you are going to need to make in order to secure the person you would like to be with.\n\nYou see, there is this problem with our humanity, that is, we can't change anyone but ourselves. You can't change these women that want to be friends but you can change yourself into a man they would want to be a lover to.
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There is one free dating site www.plentyoffish.com\n\n\nman i hope i don't get reported for giving a link lol
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Internet dating can be fun. There is a probability that you will meet a genuine partner. I am not particularly interested in the sites which ask for credit card details. It's hard to meet a serious partner due to limited number of members.\n\nThe more perfect sites are the free sites where you are likely to meet vast array of genuine members because the site is free and everybody can afford it. \n\nHey! They work and to let you know my wife was my pen-pal and we have been married for two years and expecting our first boy due in February. Go on, give it a click and let me know how charming he is.
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Unfortunately dating is always tricky and probably hasn't changed a whole lot since you were last single other than the addition of the internet.  No matter what you do there is no guaranteed way of avoiding the ones you don't want.  For beginners I recomend sticking to activities that you enjoy.  If you like dancing or something like that try taking a class.  Don't be afraid of the internet, but be prepared to have to filter out a lot of trash to find a few nuggets of gold.
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Absolutely!\n\nTake the time to nurture yourself, and pursue your own interests, which may end up being a great way to not only meet potential dating material, but also make some new friends.  Remember, you are whole and complete just by yourself - dating someone may be nice, but it's not neccessary.\n\nThe main thing that I can think of as far as the dating in today's world is to be safe!  If you meet someone through the internet, be sure your first meetings are in public places.  And if anything progresses very far, be sure to practice safe sex!\n\nMost of all, enjoy this new phase of your life and have fun!\n\nP.S. Dr Phil always comes off like a pompous a** to me :-)
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not a chat room or dating sevice to old to look for love on da internet!!!