how can i confirm that she truly loves me? she claims so on fone...never met her. live in difrnt countries????
157086
you can neva LOVE someone you have neva met cos u dont even know de person u are loving
1017575
i think you should tell that girl that you love her before you go. it's different telling her in person than telling her that you do love her when you're in another country, say using a phone or in an e-mail. if you don't tell her now, you'll regret that the rest of your life so you should just come up to her and see what comes to your mind. trust me, it's better to be spontaneous than plan out what you're going to say (it usually doesn't work out fine when you rehearse the things you want to say). fix yourself up. wear something nice. bring flowers or anything that's going to remind her of you. then just speak. talk to her about how you feel. yeah, you'll have a lot of butterflies in your stomach but you'll feel much better when you've said you love her. although if she loves you back, it's going to be difficult for her, and for you since you're leaving. having a long distance relationship is one of the most difficult things to maintain in this world. good luck!
1022589
Before going out and blurting out that you love her and putting your friendship in jeopardy, why don't you try to gauge whether she loves you or not. It's not all that difficult; her body language, the way she talks about you to her friends would let you in on some clues. Read up some material on the net to actually determine whether it's just fleeting infatuation or love.
126662
You've got to get to know her to know if it's true love... Going out and having fun is great, do you have conversations? Do you share funny moment? Do you make each other smile?\nYou should listen to your feelings about this one, no one else but yourself can tell if this is love or not. Goodluck.
1181614
The only person that has that answe is her. Go see her and ask her what is up. Ever thought maybe she doesn't want to leave her state. Maybe she would like for you to move there. Good luck!
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.
75423
Do you believe her?  If so, try to work things out.  If you don't believe her or trust her, then there is no way that you could work it out.
271510
If this is true love, hang on to it. Dont let distince stop you. I am currently in a LDR and shes in another country completly. It could be a few months before i can see her again.... She is very impatiant, but i still get her to hang on. So you should try untill you can see him/her again.
1136927
a bit unclear there in your wording, but speak to her calmly, and don't let her interrupt until you say what you want to, to clear yourself from this. Then tell her what you know without hurting her feelings, afterall she needs to know what you know. She will believe you and trust you then.
90259
First of all, it's not wrong !! Don't ever say that b/c thats just what others believe. If you two been together for 3 months and you honestly really care for one another than you are going to have to talk to her and let her know how you feel about the whole situation. It shouldn't really matter what religion she chooses to go to b/c if she really loves you and you really love her then why should either of you allow a book that someone else wrote run you guys relationship down. If you feel that she deserves you and that you deserve her and yall make each other happy then GIRL please live life the best way known how b/c to be real with you, you know like I know that we are only granted with one life to live!!!!!!You midestwell live it being happy, you aren't hurting anyone else by doing that!!\nGOOD LUCK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!
300839
umm ask her...\nbut is that a bad thing she loves you? \n\ni hope it's not.... some people wait their whole lives to find love and some never find it...be glad with whatyou have and don't ask questions. worrying leads to nothing but being unhappy and if you are unhappy and (heaven forbid) your relationship crashes you'll just remember you weren't happy because you never asked her why do you love me anyway??\n\nif she really loves you she'll have a better answer than the "i love everything about you" answer, which i personally hate, if she can give you answer after answer like "i love your smile, your personality, your humor, etc..." then she does love you. if she says "everything" pshaw! an ex of mine told me that as did other dates i've had, thankfully none worked or i wouldnt' be with my fiance, and he actually tells me everything he likes and lists it not just saying "everything"
12534
if you really love her be patient enough to understand, try to convince her that nothing would ever change even your far from each other. when she talks, listen in that way you will know whats bugging her. maybe she just miss you a lot.so just hold on if you dont want your relationship to go to waste.
519176
Rent a romantic foreign film in her language with subtitles so you can follow along. cook a popular (not too difficult) meal from her country yourself. borrow a cool romantic cd from her friends to play while you eat dinner(in her native tongue of course!) be with her immersed in her culture and she will make a great effort to communicate with you, even if her English is not that good because you will have shown a willingness to be with her on her terms.\nShe'll more than appreciate the effort on your part, and eventually, she will communicate that appreciation to you via the universal language of LUUUUUVE! good luck!
396225
Accept her decision if you sincerely care for her. If thet time is right things will happen for the two of you. I also think that you should really think this realtionship through! You say you have been together for three years yet you have only seen her for a total of six weeks thats not healthy in a realationship. Did you ever think that she might have someone in her country? Just think it over and if she is still the one ask her to marry you. Good Luck!
236767
It's going to be pretty tough!!!\n\nBut ask yourself a few questions.\n\n1> Do you to continue this relationship because it MAY have a chance to grow into LOVE... and thus marriage?\n- if you do not believe SHE is the woman you could marry... then cut it off.... you can't "date" someone so far away, and it's not fair to them, as they should be trying to find someone close to them that will care for them.\n\n2> Do you EVER intend to move to Korea?\n- if not... how likely is it that she will ever move to wherever you are? If these things aren't likely... cut it off.\n\nYou can have friends in another country... and I highly recommend that the two of you stay in touch.\n\nBUT.... think about the questions above.... don't cause yourself heartache.... and especially do not cause her heartache.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
1016416
if she acknowledges your friend before you, let her go. if she loved u, u would be the first thing she sees. she would make it her duty to acknowledge you from afar.