How can I find my great love ?
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First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
641980
This is a loaded question which has many answers.  Since I do not know you nor do I know the friends of which you speak, it is hard for me to give you an accurate answer.  I will do my best.  \n\nPeople are inclined to seek out people...its human nature.  When looking for a mate, perhaps we have a vision in our mind of what's "ideal"...she's funny or he's handsome, she loves the theater, he loves to cook.  We set up a scenario only to be disappointed when there seems to be no match.  So, what is one to do?  Wait and pray for that soul mate to appear one day?  Maybe resign yourself to the fact that there is 'nobody' for you?  Or, do you settle for someone who is not quite what you were looking for but close enough to build something with...perhaps leaving you to wonder if that 'soul mate' is still out there?   The answer lies in you.  God won't shout down from 'above' with a megaphone "Go to the bookstore, you will find your mate there."  \n\nYou've reminded me of a joke I once heard.  I'll abbreviate it for you:  Every day a woman would go to church and pray to God that she would win the lottery. But, every night she would be disappointed when she didn't win.  One day God spoke to her and said "Meet me half way and buy a ticket." \n  \nYour ticket lies in your heart.  Good luck....
646166
Be patient...be good yourself, and a good boy will find you one day.  Don't settle for someone who is no good for you, just because he's there.  Wait for the good one!
354915
Yea.you just have to be patient.you'll find true love one day.love doesn't just knock on the door you know.you have to go out and find it!!
241775
love can hit you anytime anywhere... you dont have to meet the person to feel the love... I wud say yes, you can find a soulmate on net.. \ngood luck
960090
You say this now.\n\nWait until you actually do get to know, before you die.\n\nHow might this be possible? Seek God with an open heart, in humility, and in earnestness. He may very well reveal himself to you if you make it the primary concern of your entire life to find him.
108845
do not just wait there for love you have to start enjoying your life and if you start loving yourself and eveyone in our world then love will find you\ngive love and get love that is the way it works
970151
Dear Silver465,  Never give up on love, when you least expect it, it can creep up on you and bite you on the butt before you realize it.\nYou will find love, I don't know where you live, but there are nice girls all around.\nIf you are a church goer, try going to the single get-togethers. \nI don't recommend on-line dating, but that is up to you.  Do you have any single guy friends that may be able to hook you up with someone???  \n\nGood luck, sweetheart, and I hope that you find someone SOON, God bless you,\n                                                                                                Juanita
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May god help you in getting your love. How come there is no way ?? there has to be someway out. please find a way out to meet her or atleast talk to her. if possible make her frnds. but anyways.. if  there is no way u can see today .. i m sure if ur love is true u will find a way soon to your problem. Its only you who can help yourself. and if god wants you both to meet.. he will show u the way. \n\nAll the best\nMy prayers and wishes always with you.
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No one can say how long it will take for you to find your true love. If you are a young woman, get out there and meet people, sooner or later the right person for you will come along. You don't have to sit in an ivory tower hoping someone will call to you to let down your hair. Date, have fun, find some activities that you enjoy, because while you are out there living your life you can't help but expand your world. By expanding the world you live in you create new opportunities to meet that special person made just for you!Good luck!
1128691
i am sorry to say this but you can't find love. it's something that just happens. and it happens really really quick. and you never know when it hits you. don't search it will happen when you least expect it.
192228
Sweetheart, there is nothing you can do to find love. It will find you and then you won't know how else you lived without it. If you try to find love you could totally miss it cause you were busy looking for it. Be patient.
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Keep on dreaming!\nUnless you change your mindset, you will ask the same questions in 10 or 20 or 30 years again!\nIf you're only looking for the perfect match, you will never find it!\nIf instead you're looking for an interesting person to get to know, you will find your perfect match automatically!\nTake the search as the way to happiness without clinging to the ultimate objective! Much better chances for success and definitely this will make you a much happier person!
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Not on the net because you never know what you are getting until it's too late. Just seek someone with the same interest as you, someone down to earth,. And take your time getting to know this person, build your trust with this person, and most importantly, show your love to this person.  Don't rush things and if its meant to be you will indeed have found your partner for life someone you can be with and relate to.
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John Lennon said it best: "All you need is love!"\n\nLove is like nothing else. When you are really looking for it, you can't find it, but stop trying to find love and it will find you. The key is to love who the person you are today, and send loving thoughts to all those around you. Make it easy for love to find you and it will.\n\nAnd remember, no matter what, you are loved!!
12155
You can't make yourself find your soulmate. It just happens. Some people are supposed to meet theirs and some aren't. Can't force it either way. I wish you luck though.
627009
okay, here is a real answer from a real guy who found real love... look for someone who loves you for YOU... the way you really are.. don't try to play up to something you think they would like.. just be yourself, and someone who loves all the things that you are will come along... watch out for girls who try to change you into what they want u to be... they won't make you happy and you wont make them happy... someone who loves you just the way you are will make you happy, and vice versa.. here's a hint... look to your female friends... they already know you and like you for who you are... are any of them someone you could love forever and share similar interests with?