am i going to get marry whom i love?is he going to get a job?
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Sweetie he just wants to be able to take care of you. If you can tell he really loves you give it time...be patient. Good things come to those who wait. Take it as a good sign that he wants to work for you and give you all he can. It shows he is concerned about your well being. Trust me I went through the same thing and now I am happily married and he makes good money. This may sound very strange but tell him to watch for a hanging orange or red cloth...maybe many cloths hung in a row outside (like flags in size but not flags), gently moving in the breeze. If he sees this tell him to enter the place within and his luck might turn. Worth a shot anyways! Many blessings to you! :D
440556
Why dont you try talking to him about marriage first, when he talks about the future and growing old and dieing with you just say, dont you think we should talk about getting married before we talk about the house with the white picked fence? Just bring it up, there might be a reason why hes timid on getting married or maybe hes talking about the future fishing around for a good way to ask you about marriage and hes worried that you might say no or something, you never know hun, just ask him if hes thought about it or if in his plans on the future if hes planning on getting married, just bring it up you might just make his day ;)
58806
DO'nt marry.\n\nYou'll repent that. It looks quite romantic first. But\nits your end surely!!!!\ngood luck!
129685
This tells you what your life with him will be like IF you get married.  Now ask yourself, "Is this what I want?"  If not, then thank goodness that you two aren't married and move on.
961411
He will regret that for the rest of his life. If you really love him marry him and support his mission. Look at all the benefits you get and think positive. Why do  you want him to get out? Does he have a career lined up is he a college graduate? \nGetting out that way is not the answer. You want him to do that for you? What are you willing to sacrifice for him? Comon Think Straight!
596190
With any LUCK, he'll love you for it.\n\nBest of LUCK!!!
447741
I would have a serious conversation with him. It would be a shame to wait another 5 years just to hear again what you're hearing now. Why doesn't he want to marry you? I would think that the prospect of marrying the person you love would make you work harder towards your goals if you know that you will be married after. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If marriage and children are important to you then he needs to know. He may just be nervous about commitment, but if he really loves you he will need to face that fear. Im sorry but if he doesnt feel the same way then you need to move on. I know that will be painful but its better than wasting the next 5+ years of your life hoping he will change. If he agrees to marry you, make sure its really what he wants. You will be miserableif he married you because he felt he had no choice. Best of luck.
333737
The Love of my Life......the man i will be marrying soon.
985281
LOL-will you marry me???-D
380611
Whether you want to marry him and vice versa. Relationships work like Yahoo! Answers, in the sense that you have to upgrade to make life more interesting, and work hard to make that upgrade.\n\nIs the selfless love? Are any one of you still looking for the next best person which may come along? Are there many long-due unsolved issues which are constant thorns in the relationship?
464789
If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
73221
Don't persue it, he is getting married.  Go find another boyfriend. Besides, he will probably kick your a$$ for even thinking that you could do him.
339459
man, good question.\nsay yes.. and you´ll find out what will happen. \nif he´s gonna start makin´ plans.. telling ppl about it he should mean it right?!\n\nif he was playin´ you he would not tell everyone .. cos then ppl would say he´s an a*s*s*h*o*l*e.\n\nGood luck.. follow your heart. If you are sure you wanna be with him go for it! God leads us to all kind of ppl. \nNow it´s up to you to find out if he is the right one of if this is just one of many experience god wants you to make.\n\nGood luck dear. You will find out. I just found my man, who is heaven send. Darlin ´ you´d feel if he is the right one.\n\n\nTTYL
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I am amazed at such simple questions, which really can't be answered without more background info.  Does he love you?  The most important question.  Will he do everything in his power to better your life?  Will he charish you til his last breathe?\n\nIf you can answer yes to all of these, and do all the same things for him....then you SHOULD get married.\n\nIf not, don't rush in, unless you want to get your first divorce out of the way.
1043389
dont listen of all of them are u going to run to this man tell him marry me as my parents are forcing me to get married?haha hes going to be a man dont do that.during this time dont be in touch with this guy tell ur parents i wont get married now go off get a new job move to a new place then date man u love if not find a nice guy get married settle down marriage should be based on love and marriage shouldnt be for any other reason then two people themselves wanting to spend their life together not parents.
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you need to get married\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
859464
okay well this guy is head over heels for you. i think he is trying so hard because he thinks you feel this way about him deep down and your afraid to get out your feelings. what you can do is be sensitive with him. tell him that your more than flattered and surprised that he proposed to you, but we can only stay simple friends right now. im not ready top get married right now and believe it or not i have dreams and goals i want to make come true. and i know you do too. and dont tell me that the only dream you have is to be my husband. i know you have things to accomplish in life. so thats why. we can still be really good friends b ut thats all we are going to be. if you liked me this much you would accept it and move on."if after that he still doesnt understand then maybe you shouldnt talk to him anymore. try avoiding him if he makes you feel uncomfortable. if he does understand then thats one less thing to worry about in life.