My boyfriend is lying to me, what should I do?
145135
Don't get even, that makes you just like him. The best thing to do is just make sure neither of you is actively mad, sit down, and confront him. Make sure you don't yell at him, just let him know that you know that he's lying to you, tell him you wish he'd spend more time with you, and you wish he'd be a little more considerate. If you still care for him and still want to be with him, let him know that too. If he can't handle a calm confrontation like that, you need think about whether or not he's worth spending more time on, considering he's actively lied to you for three years. Please be careful to be calm when you talk to him, and good luck. Also, remember that even though a little lie like this one might seem insignificant, there might be something under it. Even though it's small, if you want to have an open, good relationship, you need to confront the situation, and not have any secrets between you.
487127
I too hate lies and believe people deserve more respect than to be lied too. Cause if the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't appreciate it. Try not to over react though it could scare him away. Men lie cause they are too afraid of telling the truth cause they will look bad. It is good that you let him know that it affects you though. Cause in a relationship honesty is the best policy
337740
Confront him about it,put him on the spot and let him know he has explaining to do! Dont be afraid to confront him,he need's to feel like an idiot for being so dishonest with  you and need's to know how that makes you feel. IF he doesnt stop this,then you need to move on,because that's never a good sign,and is never going to make it into a long term relationship. People lie for a reason,and obviously it isnt a GOOD one. lier's continue to lie because people let them get away with it,afraid to put them on the spot,afraid to embarrasse them,ect,forget that,embarrasse the crap out of him,it might teach him if he know's he cant get away with it,but make sure you know why he lied to you,that should tell you alot,and please,dont let him tell you a lie about his lie,and dont let him make you feel guilty about it either,liers will try and make you feel guilty about their lie,such as "I thought if you knew you would hate me and not want me anymore" or "I didnt want you to know,because that's not who I am anymore,you have changed me"blah,blah,blah
1115655
you make him stop lying to you by leaving him.... if you arent there anymore he cant lie to you. If you think staying around will fix it you are wrong. If he compulsively lies to you he will continue to.
1160705
he's lying to u hun..
197893
Count yourself lucky.  You don't want to be with someone who lies.  It will just take time to move on.
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
428218
all people lie; but if you really love someone and feel totally comfortable with that person, you will be able to open up and share things with them that you don't with anybody else.  Evaluate your relationship and if you're letting him express himself without there being a sense of rejection or judgement, if you are creating a safe environment for him and he still lies, he probably will always lie to you and trust is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship.
841047
well u shouldnt worry about something that happened 2 mon. ago just leave it alone. Just because he lied once doenst mean he'll do it again.and if he does leave him
539739
Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
386292
You have a perfectly valid reason for being upset. If he loves you he should respect your feelings. He basically lied to you. You can do better.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
86747
He's lying to you so you don't dump him.  A man will say anything as long as he gets what he wants.
632181
He thinks he can avoid the fighting if he lies to you. What you need to do is let him know that it acctually makes it worse when he lies and you find out later. Tell him that if he tells the truth right off the bat, then you will try not to get so upset with him. If you give him alittle bit more patience and calm, he'll be more willing to tell the truth. He's just afraid of arguing.
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sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
392888
If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
630355
If he do this very often wat i can say is he does not love u anymore. he is trying to stay away from u. Or maybe he is really busy, so maybe u try to find out whether he is telling the truth or not. If he lies then the best thing is to leave him. Only An Advise!!!!