Very tight - hurts to have sex.  What to do?
143067
I agree that she needs to talk with him, because she shouldn't have to suffer just so he can get his jollies, if he really cares then he'll understand
1081508
A few weeks before you do it (if possible), see a doctor to make sure your female parts are healthy. The doctor can tell you whether you are very tight, and if so, suggest what you can do to help. This could be even an operation, or just how to stretch you out. You may choose not to go all the way on your wedding night, until you are comfortable. By all means talk about this with your husband, what the doctor recommended for you, before you actually start to do anything together.
758095
i've had the occassional Purse Pinch but it's never been too painful. i wear those jockey shorts and still get some low bridges now and again....\ni'm pretty sure it's just a grin and bear it situation...you could always try adding a little extra swing when you go to sit down...might want to practise first so it doesn't look like you start dry humping the air but it may help if you have this happen all the time...\n-nny
102518
If it hurts her, it is too big.  Try not using every inch.  Some women just can't handle a large penis.
522356
you didn't say how many times-but if you are totally relaxed with your partner and you are well lubricated then I would have to wonder why it's painful for you. There are some medical conditions that make intercourse painful. If it continues go see your doctor.
520777
That can be caused by lots of things. She should definitely go to a gyno and have it checked out. One possibility: my husband is pretty big, and we have to be careful about angle or I'll be sore afterwards. If you're bigger than average, maybe y'all need to try some different positions to see if that helps. Also, make sure she's lubed, relaxed, and turned on.
1180337
ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
344964
Use a lubricant and find a position that is comfy. Its normal, dont worry!
3539
It is normal to have the muscles in your uterus tighten after sex.  If it begins affecting your intimate life.  Consult your physician.
440738
Honestly i feel funny answering, but, i will. At first hell yeah it hurts! It hurts worse than when I lost my virginity...but if the guy really lubes up, and doesn't put "it" completley in than it can be pleasurable...u cant just ram it in an out w/that position..be easy and gentle and she just may enjoy it.
936133
i get the feeling that you guys are more or less just diving right in. you need to spend a bit of time stretching yourself to properly and comfortably take him. the first time is likely going to sting a little, as there is some tissue damage when he takes your cherry, but the pain fades quickly (or so i am told) tell your fiance that you need to get warmed up first, use fingers, toys, whatever is comfortable to gradually stretch out. also, make sure you're turned on, since the natural lubricants released by your body are the best. have him try some oral play if you can, since the saliva will also help keep you lubricated. if you stil feel you need more lubrication, ensure it is a water based lube. if none of my advice works, talk to a doctor, it may be that (s)he can give better advice.
485253
First, if it is with in your beliefs, go to your Ob/gyne and discuss birth control.  If you are on a reliable source at least a month before your wedding night, this will make things a bit less stressful than fumbling with condoms for beginners. (either if he is a virgin or has been tested)\n\nSecond, take it slow and know that you are sharing this experience with someone you have waited your whole life for.  Don't rush it, take it slow.  Have a little bottle of KY lubricant on hand, in case nerves cause you to be a bit dry...it can happen.  I reccommned missionary, guy on top, for your first time.  There  is a special closeness there, and you can also relax a bit more.   It may not prove to be painful at all, but in some cases it can be a bit.  It is not, by any means terrible or people would not bother!  Oh, as for the big "O"...relax and know that for you, it might not happen until you get a little more practice in. ;)\nCongratulations on your wedding!!
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Doesn't sound like you were ready, it hurts if you are not lubricated  or turned on enough, get your boyfriend to concentrate on turning you on more beforehand and perhaps get some KY jelly.\n\nIt does get better, just think the Human Race would have died out before now otherwise !\n\nGood Luck
365996
My husband had the same problem you are having. He had an ultrasound done and found that their was a vein wrapped around his testicle that shouldn't have been. he found out the pain would go away after having intercourse cause your releasing the pressure that's being put on to it. Eventually it will go away by itself. he was told to wear a jock strap for two weeks, primarily while he slept. It took care of the problem. Best of luck.
602165
I can see why you're worried. Sex shouldn't be painful. It shouldn't make you bleed, either. That said - it doesn't mean there's definitely something wrong. But it does mean you need to get this checked out. \n\nSo please visit your GP and explain everything. You can ask for a woman doctor, if you prefer. Your doctor is likely to examine you internally to check all's well. It may be your vagina is inflamed for some reason - this would make it sore and likely to bleed. \n\nNext time you have sex you'll probably be scared in case it happens again - so please put your mind at rest and get this sorted.
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I have been there; \n\nThe reason it is hurting is because you are dry before he inserts his penis; and likely he is too young to know that he should first get you to the point that you are excited and your vagina is secreting for lubrication for the penis.  If you are not wet or not feeling really good before he puts his penis in you; than you need to perform more foreplay.\n\nAnd if it still hurts even when you are lubricated, then it is probably an infection in your cervix.  If it is a "burning sensation" when he puts it in, or even when you stop and it still burns then you have an infection of some sort and should see a doctor.
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There will be come pain for the woman (sorry not sure if you are the guy or girl), the best thing you can do to minimize the pain is foreplay. the more the better. the more relaxed and turned on the girl is, the less it will hurt.  go slow...it will be okay. \n\nThe amount of blood varies on different people. when i lost my virginity there was maybe about a teaspoon of blood on the sheet. \n\nNeed more help email me allyalexmch@yahoo.com