The father of my child is in prison and he just told me there is another girl 6 months pregnant what do i do?
155102
Run just as fast as you can away from this man.  You have a child to think of now and is this the way you want your child raised?  If you can't think of your child, then think of yourself.  You deserve so much more out of life than this and there is so much more out there.  I know it will be hard, but there is a light at the end of this tunnel.  My thoughts are with you.
826140
Google "fathersrights"  there is a lot of free advice and links to help dads. See if there is a local chapter in MO where he can get legal advice and suggestions on line.Thousands of dads are fighting to be active in their kids lives, from jail and a lot of ex's goal is to keep them in there by filing OPs and having them arrested under false charges. Tell him to hang on and never give up!
991074
How long is the person going away for?  A few months, I could see you waiting for them.  Years?  Well, you have needs, and that person isn't going to be there to help you fulfill them.  Eventually, you WILL cheat.  You may as well break it off and save both of you heartache.  Plus, the person that goes inside the joint, won't be the same person that comes out.  They're going to see a lot of messed up things.\n\nP.S.  Do you know how many prisoners get raped inside?  It's scary!  Do you want them possibly bringing something back once they're out?  Run girl Run!
1127824
If you can prove to a court that she is an unfit mother than the baby is yours.  The court doesn't care about you or the mother.  They want the best for the child, If I was you the only way to win is to play dirty.  Get a private investigator he'll help you more then a lawyer will.  Have him dig up some dirt and use it against her.  Believe me I'm a woman that child is nothing but a pawn to her.  She kept her from you probably claiming she was some one else's.  That guy probably got smart you were her plan B.  Find out why you didn't know of her for those two years and why all of the sudden she's asking you for child support.  Oh and she can't deny you visitation, you pay child support she can't as much as take that child out of state lines without letting you know.  Boy read up on your right or she'll play you like a fool. Good Luck
537151
Any questions about custody should be asked to a lawyer. The 1st consultation w/ a lawyer is usually free. Your b/f can find out what his rights are at that time. I would also caution this ... Since you have been together for only 3 months, make sure he wants to move back only for his daughters and not for his ex g/f. Im surprised he got you pregnant after going thru what he is now. I wouldve been more careful or at least planned better. But thats a decision u two made and thats ok. Good luck in whatever he chooses and I do hope his lil girls get the daddy they deserve.
904163
Wow, sounds like you're going through a really tough time.  I think the judge would order that your boyfriend and the baby be seperated until such a time as your boyfriend learns to leave you alone.  Wait until the child is much older and understand a lot more, like around 8 or 9.  Then tell your child (be honest) about what has gone on between you and his father.  If the child says that she/he would like to know his or her father it's only right that you give them a chance to meet no matter how much stress it puts on you.  I firmly believe that everyone has a right to know their father (or mother).
23240
Ask both the parents to sign the child over to you.  Then, there will be nothing further that the state can do to take the child away or change the situation.  If the mother is in jail and the father can't support the child, I can't imagine that they wouldn't let the child be with you.
638503
wtf!! honey i know i shouldnt be saying this but your 9 year old daughter is way too young to be watching a baby,now what if that baby would have choked or something?? girl i wanna tell you that you shoulda opened a can of whip azz on the both of them,but im not,the right thing for you to do is turn both of them in to child service,if they have a 9 year old watching a baby then apparently they dont care about what happens to the baby or your daughter! and for whatever you took,honey burn that shit! if no proof of evidence then they cant charge you!!!:) and for him telling your baby girl not to come back>f*ck him,she dont need him,and neither do you!! hurt him through his pocket!!!!!
18159
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nSomeone there can probably help.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
288671
Go to your court house and file a complaint for visitations, and go to court and well go from there.  If it is something that you want then you will do what it takes.  I have been through similar things and the best thing that I can give you as advice is go to your county court house and file for visitations.  If you are fit and stable then you will get visitations through court and she will have to let you see your daughter...if she don't then she will be in contempt against a court order.
850911
If he is the biological father of your kids then get the miserable SOB back into court and apply for  child support and make sure you get it backdated too.
67947
First do a test(DNA) that will prove who is the father for the new problem. If he is true to you he will come without any wrong from his side. Acept him, if not be ready to loose him also. because now he is also having ownership of another girl than u
633215
Your story is very difficult to follow.  So, if I understand, this guy and his underage girlfriend want to take your daughter whenever they want.  Unless there is a court order you DO NOT have to hand your child over.  Especially to another child or CHILD MOLESTOR.\n\nSince he is 19 and she is 15, (and was 14), you could turn him in for the contributing to the delinquency of a minor.  And from what you said, she is delinquent.  He's just perverted.  You don't need him in the childs life.  Sue for child support and block his access to your child.  He seems to like them young.\n\nIf he gets help PROFESSIONALLY then maybe some time in the future he may have rights to visit his child.  But until you can insure the safety of the baby, keep him and that wacko girlfriend away.  Make this clear to the judge.\n\nGood Luck
500619
You have a lot of good adice there young lady.  Try going to the police and they should be able to tell you of organizations that can help you.  Above all please carry the baby to term.  Thia is from a male.  A real man would never abandon you in a case like this.
123881
You have already played a very dangerous game.  Your child deserves, at the very least, the financial support of its father, but presumably, the wife and her baby, who have done nothing wrong, deserve not to have their lives interrupted.  You could certainly sue your baby's father for paternity, but you will have to worry about how desparate he will be to keep this situation from destroying his current family situation.  Without threatening to sue, tell him that you will leave him completely alone if he meets you at the child support division at your county courthouse and agrees to voluntary enforced support payments.  Tell him that you will not terminate the pregnancy, but the only involvement you will expect is for him to voluntarily pay a reasonable amount in support for your child.  Have your attorney (or a child support enforcement agent) help you determine what that amount should be.  If he pays, leave him alone.  If he doesn't pay, or stops paying, inform child support enforcement and allow them to proceed against him.  You must not put yourself or your child in danger by contacting him directly.  Hopefully, he will keep his word and your child will benefit.  Please be careful, whatever you do.
631844
If you are lucky maybe you will get a guy fresh out of prison.  \n\nGood luck with that!
603995
Find out when he is getting out.  He should have a court date set to be sentenced or they could give him a bail amount.  It could take up to a week to find this out.  Alot of guys in jail have girlfriends but most of them arent even worth it.  If you love him you can go and visit.  Just contact the jail.