how do i get over a person that im realy in love with?
148798
time heals, one day it will all be over
838013
Love is a very hard thing to let go of. Dont beat yourself up over it. Time heals all :)
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
1179410
JUST DO IT! forget about everything and once they know , you will feel better than if you never did anything about it, if you dint you might still be thinking about that person for another 10yrs.
61190
i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
1013916
its normal to feel the pain because you have truely loved him. i suggest you go out w/ your friends, get a hobby, keep yourself busy so you dont have time to think about him. \ni hope sonner you'll get over him
108226
just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
952855
Just try to move on, every love is tough to overcome but in the end there is only one true love to whom you'll be with. Good luck
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
1009626
ask him, and if not, get over him and move on.. Life isnt going to be over.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
412878
Get over him and date someone else.  Make sure you get to know the guy really, really well before sleeping with him.
83186
just give your self things to do to let time go by so that you want half to think about this person. after you do that you should be able to look at other people and know that there is someone else out there for you..\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
552676
Weigh things over then talk to him personally. Don't let your feelings to rule over you. Did he say he loves you? If not, forget him. You'll get over with him. Look for someone else you deserve. Someone who will take care of you and will never hurt you..
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
180483
falling in love with someone that doesnt love me
94517
You shouldn't hesitate, you should wait, I know is hard to forget someone you loved so much, but you'll learn to forget that person, get over it, and one day find a better person, don't worry, I went through the same thing you are going through right now, give it some time and you'll see you'll find not only one, but many guys who will ask you out.