where is my husband...every night he comes home late...why?
153111
he could be working late, going out with friends to untagle his mind from a hard days work, or im srry to say he could be sneakin.
1161918
I'm sure that if things were reversed and  you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been.  You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer.  Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you.  I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation.  After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not.  Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this.  Don't become a statistic.
776242
LOL  :0)  Don't I know it!  I'm actually sitting up waiting for my husband to get home from work.  He's Active Duty Air Force and working late on the flightline tonight.  Since he came home from his last deployment, my 3 1/2 year old son won't go to bed until he sees daddy come home.  He always does this for about 14 days after my husband comes back from a deployment.  Plus, Aqua Teen Hunger Force is on.  that show is so stupid, it's funny!\n   But wait!!!  What are YOU doing up?  Don't you know it's late?  Ha Ha Ha!  Hope you have a hot pot of coffee!
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hi sorry to hear this...well its true about working late...i was and still am a repo man it calls for long hours..i am the same way..when i get home i do alot of the same..internet,movies,t.v...whatever.. it does take a while to unwind and let the day slip away..then when your unwound and ready for bed..your just waking up..its hard i know this aint what you wanna hear but he has to want to spend time with you..he has to compramize..with your feelings..i had to as well..how long has he worked 2nd shift? if he recently started doing the 2nd shift this will fade away..he will become tired sooner and be in bed with you sooner..i hope i helped if you have any further questions...please dont be afraid to e mail me and ask...good luck
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i think he is cheating to but if he's not why deal with that. remember when you was growing up you had to answer to your parents where you going what time will you be back and had to be home at a certain time why go back to that you might as well be at home. and don't never let a man tell you where you can or can't go. that is to much control, and believe me it don't get better only worst. you need to sit down with him and tell him look i am not your child and you can't tell me what to do if he don't like it then you need to get out before it is to late.
246861
your husband sounds like a loser\ni think you need to leave him for someone who will come home to you
1165349
He may be an idiot, but he sounds more lazy than anything else.  If you can get to sleep and get up on time, why can't he?  If he can't get to bed at night it's his own damn fault.\n\nDon't let him blame you for his shortcomings, he's only using you as a scapegoat.  He needs to place the blame where it belongs and get himself together if he wants to be a part of your family.  You deserve someone who will work to keep your family happy and healthy.  Be sure you tell him that!
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I check my alarm clock like 6 times before I can sleep then I wake up to recheck it. Same with the doors. Then after i've done this enough to wake my husband up I lay awake and worry about it and try not to move. Drives the poor man crazy!
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
6119
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
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Set aside time to communicate with him, and do so without judgement or accusations. When you discuss a difficult subject, stick to facts and the way his behavior affects you rather than attacking him. For example, if he comes home late, don't say, "You're so rude and inconsiderate! You're always doing this to me!"\n\nInstead, say, "You came home two hours late. (fact) When you are late, it worries me because I think something might have happened to you (how his behavior affects you)." That helps keep the conversation neutral so you can resolve the issue instead of starting a fight by putting him on the defensive.\n\nDuring other conversations, each of you should take a turn talking while the other listens without interrupting. Then, the listener should summarize what they thought they heard and give the speaker a chance to correct their interpretation.\n\nUsing technique like this will definitely help you to be open and honest.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
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Do you think he's been in an accident? Have you reported him as a missing person?  If he didn't leave you...or you are not separated or anything like that, I would say you need to get the police involved and see if he's been in some sort of accident or something. If you are separated...or something like that, then maybe he's just hiding?? I don't know, that's hard to say.
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try explaining to him your problem.he should behave like a responsible father first.he can't just fool around with you and your kid.\nif his friends come home to stay , just don't allow them.\nmake a big fuss about it everyday.also don't permit him to stay out make sure he returns home.\nwatch whatever he's up to.find out what exactly he's doing with his friends.explain to him he is a father of a 3yr old kid and tell him first to behave like a dad.
651514
Get a map to his crib fo sure!!!  What is he doesn't show up? You gotta track his azz down!!! Get this done lady and move to a sunnier pasture!!!
411097
You are wasting your time and living a fantasy. Since he lives far away, you never hear him in the toilet, he never drops his dirty socks where you have to pick them up, you don't see him talking with his mouth full and he never snores. Your husband does all of those things. You see your husband's flaws, not his.\n\nIf he doesn't answer mail he doesn't want you to write.\n\nGive up on him, start trying to make your marriage work.
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a cleaning strike is in order.  just pick up your stuff and either leave his where it sits, or pile it all up in an inconvenient place for him....like that front door, his side of the bed, in the garage, whatever.  i get so sick of picking up everything around here too.  good luck.  and how long does one have to deal with a husbands laziness before leaving him??
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pretty interesting. I know that they will follow people from one place to another. If you want him to leave, you may want to try telling him that he is not wanted there, that he needs to go back to his house, or even encourage him to head for the light.  there are people that could help you find out what he wants. check with a medium for what to do...\nI know some people think this is crazy, but they piss-on stuff they do not understand, because they have tiny little closed minds!