Eventhough the truth is scary why lie to someone you love?
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You know everyone lies to someone but your right are we just lieing to keep them from getting hurt or so they just won't get hurt by you only someone else?Any way someone always gets hurt in the end.
685659
Why start you relationship off lying...
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WELL~ ppl always say DONT YOU LIE TO ME. but we are now living in a world where lie is everywhere. I think whether you are going to tell the truth or not ,is depending on who you are dealing wiht. What do you tihnk of him. YOU lie coz, you think you are protecting from the bad so he wont get hurt, coz, you think you know better than he does, and you should decide his life? what kinda desicsion he iwll make? or you lie for yourself.\nI dont think lying is a big deal, ONLY IF its good for both of you.\nSo, i said, Lie, that means, you care and love him, When you found that you dont even worry about this lie thing, he/she means nothing to you. To lie is to care :D
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It is never ok. A white lie may be small at first but it becomes bigger in time. I'd rather tell the truth even though it may be hard for  someone to handle than  lie and decieve them. Do the right thing hun.
989568
Some people become addicted to lying. Others do it casually for cover. People constantly worry about what other people will think and the consequences of revealing the truth. Therefore, they lie to make things seem better than they actually are.
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because there afraid to know the truth.
663131
I've never told a really bad lie.  But once my boyfriend told me that a friend of mine died and he didn't tell me he was lying for about 2 hours.
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Be honest. You shouldn't pretend to feel something that you don't. Even though you know that it will hurt him, it is better that he knows how things really stand. Maybe you will never love him, then he will feel hurt AND betrayed that you lied to him too. Do you really want to hurt him that way? Plus if you lie to him, how can you be true to yourself. It is so unsatisfying to live a lie. Good luck
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There are two types of liars; those who lie because they are selfish and will lie to get what they want regardless, and those who feel telling the truth may cause pain and greater anguish to those around them. Lying is unfortunately a part of human nature. I think we've all told a lie at some point in  our lives, even if it is a small one. But, what people need to remember is, is the lie going to do more damage than good.
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People lie for numerous reason, however, the most common are:\n1)   To avoid getting in to trouble.\n2)   To avoid hurting people's feelings.\n3)   To make themselves seem more interesting.\n4)   Because they have a mental problem.\n5)   To hide something about themselves for fear that other people might judge them.\n6)   Because they get a thrill at the drama and/or attention that is created when the other person catches them in a lie.\n7)   Because the truth is hard to face,so, it is easier to try to live a lie.\n8)   Because they feel justified in lying because someone asked about something that was none of their business in the first place.
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It is best to tell the truth.  Not telling the truth can lead to a cascade of lies as you try to cover up your tracks.  While there may be a punishment in the short term, in the long run, you will have a lot more trust and leeway than if someone found out that what you said before was a lie.  They will be left wondering about everything you said and you will be unable to convince them even if you are telling the truth.
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I too hate lies and believe people deserve more respect than to be lied too. Cause if the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't appreciate it. Try not to over react though it could scare him away. Men lie cause they are too afraid of telling the truth cause they will look bad. It is good that you let him know that it affects you though. Cause in a relationship honesty is the best policy
918748
What is there to be confused about?  If you have to lie to someone in order for them to like you then you obviously don't need them.
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People lie to you because they don't want you to know the truth...
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Lying is not just not a guy problem as I know many women that lie as well. I personally do not get why anyone has to lie, I am one of those people that will tell you the truth even if it gets me in trouble. I hate liars, I would rather live with a thief than a liar. The relationship that I am in now, lying is a big problem and I am ready to throw it all away because it is hard to regain the trust back that was lost because of lying.
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Most dishonesty that is fear-based is caused by a desire to avoid conflict.  Telling someone what they want to hear rather than the truth.  \n\nOr a lie may be an attempt to avoid consequences of an action(such as jail in extreme cases).
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If someone tells you they're a liar,than you can't believe them but if they're liars and tell you they're lying than they must be telling you the truth but they can't tell the truth so they must be lying.\nSo the answer is no.