for women ONLY : why women like to play hard to get ?
152400
because guys like it ?
629029
she is probably playing hard to get, she might actually like you but wants to see how much effort you will put into her before she puts any effort into you, to see if you are actually interested in her or just out for yourself
180453
Because they were told long ago that if you get a good job and have financial stablity that you will be able to get any woman you want. It simply isn't true, but some guys seem to be convinced that it is. I would hope that personality and kindness were more important.
702236
you see.. Women HAVE to play hard to get whether we want to or not, because we get labeled as sluts, hoes, whores, etc. Men have the ability to be easy and sleep around and not get labeled. If men do get labeled its always meant in a good for you sense, unlike for women it means we're slutty and need to learn to keep our legs closed...\nIt's just the way human nature has stuck itself into peoples lives.. the old days do live on.....\n\nSo now do you understand why women have to play hard to get whether we really want to jump you right then and there?
33990
It's all about games! They want to use the girl for what ever they can get from her (money,clothes, jewelry, ect.), and know they won't get it from most girls that know they have a g/f!
52066
Some women do not know what they really want.  Much of human relationships comes from the unconscious mind.  Many women have no idea of what is driving them to do what they do because it is coming from their own unconscious.\nOnce stuff starts to surface, then it is a whole ‘nudder ball game.  Now the conscious mind can directly see what is happening.
333641
Oh, the games girls play to get a little attention.  She wants you to chase her and fall desperately in love with her.  But she wants to just string you along.  It gives her power in her otherwise powerless life.  Sounds like she's got her own issues to deal with.  Forget the girl and find yourself a stronger, more mature woman.
1012441
Blame it on nature! Women by the time they have kids and a house to run, often lose their sex drives because they got what they wanted, a home, kids, and a husband! In the beginning, it was their sex drive they used in order TOO get the man! Now they are content with what they got, why have sex when they don't care to! That's probably why it is mostly older middle aged men who seek out hookers! Also nature makes the desire go down so a woman can put all her attention on what's really important, CHILDREN! That's what nature does. Anything female, is to attract a mate, bare his offspring, then (he) dies off, and (she) raises the offspring till they are old enough to leave, and the cycle goes on and on!
531472
why would you want someone that you have to try so hard to get anyway
418977
Hard to get, better than easy to get all the time.  If she won't tell you  Go somewhere else, there are bunch of girls out there.  Have your standards high.  Trial and error.
1061742
its not a game, it's a way for us girls to feel you out to see where your head is at, if she didn't like you, she wouldn't be around you in the first place. love is a game to most, and sincere to a few. woman want love and we try so hard to find it, even if it means going through alot of drama to find it. what would make it easier is if you guys just say what you feel instead of playing:THE GAME
220192
I think it varies because it depends what the woman prefers it's a guessing game at times but normally ya can tell what us ladies prefer. Watch body language and make your move but becareful because 1 wrong move and she could think your sleazy.
582671
its one thing that us girls are good at we like to play hard ball to get what we want men are to soft and so easy to walk over just love the bitchy attatude some women give we can get away with it as well just blame it on our periods lol
623568
Oh COM'N , is this a trick question.. EVERY BODY KNOW WOMEN HAVE IT SO EASY IN THIS WORLD.IT'S ALL ABOUT SUPPLY AND DEMAND.. YOU CAN COMPARE THEM TO THE PETROLEUM BIG SHOTS.. THE RAISE THE STAKES MEN HAVE TO WORK HARDER TO GET WHAT THE WAN.. ALL WOMEN HAVE TO DO IS WITHHOLD AND BE LAZY..NOW GIVE ME MY POINTS FOR THIS ANSWER CAUSE I'LL PROBABLY NEVER GET LAID AGAIN..
521615
Perhaps shyness is part of it. It could also because she didn't want you to think she was easy. Despite the fact times have changed a lot of girls don't like making the first move for fear of being called a slut.
856300
He likes it when you play hard to get.  It keeps him interested in you.
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It takes a certain amount of effort to make that first move.\n\nI use to play this game where I would approach attractive women out of the blue just to master a kind of smooth way of dealing with women.  At first I was nervous and would struggle with staying relaxed, but over time I got where I could be as comfortable with an extremely attractive woman whom I had never spoken to until that moment as with some woman that I had know for years.\n\nI thought it was really funny because it was such an unusually brash self assured behavior, but it wasn't like it was helping me find Mrs. Right.\n\nEven once I got where I could stay comfortable, I still had to gather my thoughts to make sure that old insecurities, social perceptions, etc. etc. etc. didn't rise up and throw me off my game.\n\nAfter a while I realized that each woman was just another woman, and so it didn't seem worth the effort to make that big push, to make that first move.\n\nThe idea of romance was in my head, but that didn't mean that this girl or that girl being attractive would make her Mrs. Right and I would live happily ever after.\n\nWhether they have fleshed it out as much as I have in their minds, most men feel a natural reluctance to lay their ego on the line on the chance that some girls smile means something, or even that just because a girl smiles at you that she will even be worth the effort.\n\nIf you could see clearly that this was Mrs. Right and not have to put out all of that effort only to find another boring ordinary kind of relationship, then the motivation might be a little stronger to make that first move.