can i love a girl older one year than me?
153828
Yes, you can. When the difference is only one or two years, it's basically the same age bracket. I am married to a woman who is two years older and we feel like we are the same age.\nThe only problem you might expect is when you are, say 11, and the girl is 12. Then it is obvious that the love is more likely to be infatuation rather than love, and the age difference might mean the two people go in completely opposite directions.\nOther than that, you are probably fine.You are of the same generation, with the same cultural values, so it can be definitely alright between you.\nGood Luck.
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
237489
There is no such age limit. Usually it is seen that there is extreme love between two persons of huge age difference and many times it is a source of utmost pleasure. There is no hard and fast rule that young guys prefer only young girls...many times they do go for older ladies and so enjoy their life to the fullest extent and vice versa is also true. At the most it is the personal liking of every person.
261101
No dear, you obviously should not : especially when there is such a LARGE age difference involved.\nBy the way, are you SURE about you gf's 'real' age ? Girls often lie about theirs - and she could actually be all of 9 years old. That would be REAL bad, no ?!\n:-))
39715
well ,you must treat her like a person more than of her age.. \nyou must also consider her opinions....
673171
there's no such thing as an specific ages that people can fall in love, you can fall in love the first time you notice the difference in the girl or boy you like, it comes naturally... so in your case, 18 or 14 is absolutely fine to have ur first feeling for someone\npeace
383533
neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.
1160266
Not at all. Forget about one year u can marry 20 years younger man. It is a matter of your choice. Most of Holy Prophet ( PBUH) wives were older than him. Allah ( God) gives u complete authority to choose your partner
567924
for sure you can, you will not marry her tomorrow, right? there will be more time till marriage, and remember, in old times 'my grandfathers' they were marrying ladies younger than them by more than 10 years, they believed in that, and they were happy and their marriages were so successful. In case you really believe she loves you 'loving is so different than impressed, remember, ladies in her age are impressed by your age, make sure she knows what love is, and that she really loves you', Go Ahead! Good Luck!
395482
Age is just a number, if you love her stay with her dont let anyone else tell you different.
658478
love does'nt c any age...try to tell ur cousin first if she is close to u
943430
If you're of dating age, one year is not a big difference. You must be quite young for this to bother you. But one year is really not a big deal. Count yourself lucky - I now have to figure age differences in decades.
479982
If they are truly in love then age shouldnt matter .After all , he is just a guy and she is just a girl ,and they are both just looking for that special someone . Just make sure the girl knows to take it slow and theyll be fine.
709700
Hi, I remember when I was your age I thought that a guy 1 year younger was a 'lot younger'. If he's a good person, { and especially if he's cute!}, defiantly go out with him.        ps. some advice for your future, 20 or even more years from now, when you meet a guy 20 years younger than you,  STILL GO FOR IT!!!        pss. Also remember this rule, "once a mistake, twice a habit", when any man shows signs of disrespect, or hurts you in any way, BOUNCE!!! Before you get to attached to him. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache!
565264
freshman year of highschool, we're both 15 and in lovee ;)
168245
talk to her. It's only a year what's the big deal. If your old enough to date though and it isn't illegal or anything bad like that than go for it.