my little sister told me she wanted to be gay because she wanted to be like me,whatshould i do?
148489
SEEMS LIKE SHE LOOKS UP TO AS A ROLE MODEL, HOW OLD IS UR SISTER? ITS HER DECISION, EXPLAIN TO HER THAT WHATEVER SHE WANTS IN LIFE SHE CAN HAVE, ITS HER DECISION.
884692
If you don't know what her reaction is going to be, or even if she homophopic or not, you'll have to come up with something so you can start a discussion with her to see where she stands as far as gay people go, i suggest this so you'll know what she thinks before you say something to her about being attracted to her.
544499
Wow Jill...\n\nFirst...#1...won't happen\n\nMy suggestion would be...to enjoy your life at the moment and don't "look" for a guy.  \n\nYou don't find love...love finds you...It'll happen...If you are as sweet as your sister tells me that you are, then you will have no worries what-so-ever.\n\nMost of all...DO NOT SETTLE !....You are more valuable than that. :-)
259339
Just be honest if it comes up.  Saying "you're like a brother (or sister)" will usually do the trick.
104398
You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
534194
I have a sister same age.  Think of something really special and do it with her or for her.
468827
Tell her to tell her parents that she is gay by telling them that they well kick her out of the house, but before you do that make sure it is okay that she can stay with you. Her father has lost touch with what a parent should be a friend and a guider, Not controlling. I feel for your situation. I will pray for you both.
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Bring the matter up gently, at a time when you two are alone so she won't feel uncomfortable speaking candidly.  Let her know from the beginning that no matter how she lives her life, you value her friendship and are not going to abandon her (as I HOPE you won't), but if it turns out that she is gay and has been making some advances, you need to tell her that, while you support her in what she thinks is the right way to live her life, you do not think that's the right choice for you.  Good luck, and remember friendships are REALLY important!
31163
Well tell them or him that if he wants you to respect them for being  gay, they should respect you fro being straight, and that they know that your not gay or intrested in them in the way they want u 2 b
901539
Your sister is bi-sexual, her boyfriend is gay. What should you do? Absolutely nothing, and let them live out their life as they so choose. I'm sure you want your sister to be happy, so whats the problem?
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Hi there!\nWhen I was 16-17, I came out to my family. They immediately told me it was a phase, that I was trying to get attention, etc. . . At that point in my life, nothing was really " curling my toes" so to speak, so I figured hey, I'll take the course of least resistance.  If I am not going to be happy anyway, at least my family would be ok with the decisions that I made. .. . \nFast Forward 11 years. By this point, I've gotten married and divorced, dated a lot, and the whole time had fun little "flings" because who was it hurting? \n\nWell, all of a sudden, I met someone who DID do all those things for me. .. . that alleviated the panic I felt when I thought about my future. Did I know all the answers? Of course not, but I did know who I would be with. All of a sudden, I realized what making love was all about, what true intimacy was.\n\nAnd I don't want to be away from my partner- which doesn't make me *****-whipped, just that everything is more complete with her. \n\nA question for you: Do you need time alone with your sister? Or are you cool with hanging out with her girlfriend, too? \n\nWhen you're in a relationship, it gets harder to be spontaneous, but your sister probably doesn't even realize that you feel like you're being shut out.  Make plans with her ahead of time. You can ask if you can have a sisters night, or whatever. \n\nDoes your sister know that you are completely accepting? That its ok for her and her lover to be themselves around you? My partner and I love to be around other folks, but not unless we can be comfortable expressing ourselves around each other. ( Try going back to calling someone by their first name when you only ever call them " honey" or "babe". \n\nWhen siblings enter different life phases, it can be tough, but this is a chance to let your friendship with her grow, too. \nBest of luck to you, and I'm sure your sister feels very lucky to have you.
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Sweetie you have to be who you are...you can't be what people want you to be.. It's a tough lesson..but your friend has to understand that it's not your choice to be gay.  You can't change your sexuality so you will have to learn to accept and like who you are...it's not easy...but the end result can be really great..
1004898
just tell her the wuts up tell her that ur not gay and that she is ur sister in law and u dont want to be an imbred
504849
Their sexual preferences doesn't change who they are or the fact that they are your sisters.  Treat them like you always have and don't worry about it.
530079
Sexuality is not a choice, you are what you are. If she wants to be Bi-sexual, she should follow her heart.  Being honest is not a bad thing. Better to find out now before an entire family's future(kids, husband...) could be at stake. If she is just experimenting because she is curious, that is OK to.  Just be SAFE.
925194
Tell her the truth bro...The whole "Gay" thing will backfire on ya because then she will tell everyone you know and then people will think your gay....Tell her the truth...I would rather people think that im an A-hole for telling the truth...then think that im a fag for lying.
1005350
it takes two to tango...I think your sister is defiantely at fault too. You need to ask your sister why she would make out with him, especially if she knew you like him. Did he know you liked him and wanted to be in a relationship with him?