how can i ask a guy to the valentines dance?
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It depends on the guy, and the motivation for asking your question. If its a matter of 'is asking the guy the done thing?', then step up to the plate and ask him. We live in modern times and if he likes you at all, he will be flattered by being asked. Also remember he will probably more socially awkward than than you, since boys aren't particularly good communicators. \n\nIf you're nervous about asking him, talk through why you want to ask him with parents or a trusted older person so that you have a sounding board first. Try and get him when he is on his own, rather than asking him in front of his friends. Remember he is likely to be surprised by your question and boys aren't generally good communicators, so be prepared to take control.\n\nWhether he says yes or no, you've made a major step forward by being the master of your own destiny rather than going through life wondering about what-ifs.
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Just ask if he wants to out for drinks some time.  If he declines, then he is not interested, if he says maybe, then give him your phone number.  There's really no worst case scenario, so just ask.
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You: Hey, are you going to the dance? Him: Yes. You: Oh, are you going by yourself? If it's yes, ask if he'd like to go with you, if it's no, ask if he's going with friends or does he have a date. If he has a date, you can just casually say, "Oh,she's nice. Hope to see you both there!" If it's just with friends, you can still ask if he wants to go with you. If he says he's not going at all, ask if he'd like to go with you.\n Keep it casual, light and friendly. If he turns you down completely, there's no reason to be embarrassed. You were just making conversation. Good luck!
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Talk to him. Ask him to go to a movie or dance with you. There is nothing wrong with the girl asking the boy out. This is the 21st century.
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Don't get tricked into asking him out.  If he likes you he'll ask you out.  You're good enough to be asked out.  "Just because you like to lead, doesn't mean he wants to dance." If he likes you he will make the effort.  If he doesn't like you, you'll just make an ass of yourself.
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Straight up ask him. Don't beat around the obvious bush - Just walk right up to him, and tell him as it is.... Don't sugercoat it, or lead it on, just ask him if he wants to go out or not.
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If you are to shy to ask him out, try asking a group including him to go out. Invite he and his friends to go out with you and your friends someplace.
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lol learn how to type but if your question is how to ask a guy out its simple\n\n1. start a simple conversation and gradually work your way into it\n2. you can write him a note if shes shy then give it to a freind to give to him\n3. Who cares if a buddy asks for you some people are just shy im not in that category but still alot of people are and he needs to get over himself!
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Personally, I would rather let the guy make the first move. But, sometimes guys need help in doing this especially if he is a super shy one. One thing that you can do is give hints to him that you like him.\n\nIf he truly likes you, he probably have sent you some birthday gifts, valentine cards, or something.\nRespond to his tiny move by telling him that you appreciates his gestures.\n\nmake it the LAST effort for you to actually make the first move.\npersonally, i would not think a girl is desperate when she makes the first move (actually, i think it's pretty cool).\nBUT, I am just one guy. I CANNOT SAY THAT YOUR GUY WOULD THINK THE SAME LIKE I DO.
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Hell yes ask him out!  How are you going to know if you dont try?
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Invite him to go somewhere with you and your friends first.  See how that goes and if it goes great maybe he'll ask you out.
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Just come right out and ask him.  I don't know any other way.
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Be humble, truthful and state it just the way you did here:Tell him you think he's funny, intelligent, etc. Ask him if he'd like to go somewhere or do something after rehearsal!  Signed, shy guy.
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Just ask the dude out!
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Just go up to him and ask him.  He can't hurt you for asking.
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Don't wait for him to do it -- ask him yourself.\n\nFor the first time, use a 'group' strategy: invite 2-3 other friends along, say to a movie. Make sure they are already attached or not interested in your target. \n\nCall the guy up and say -- 'me and some friends are going to see a movie, wanna come along?'. If he says yes, great. Wear something sexy but not slutty. Sit next to him. Smile a lot. When it's over, say something like 'that was great, we should do it again sometime'. His response will indicate what can/cannot happen next. \n\nGood luck.
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ask him just casually