my freind needs really good advice for his problem?
152008
Size is not the end-all, be-all in sex.  The vagina is very flexible and can adapt to fit larger or smaller penises.  As long as she is happy and satisfied, he should not worry about the size of his penis as this will only lead to self doubt, performance problems, and the dissatisfaction of his partner.
272882
My best advice for you is to make sure you dont keep telling her everything shes doing wrong, the first thing you want to do is tell her look you cant do this and everything along those lines, right now she needs to be able to have someone to talk to about why shes doing what shes doing, More then likely there is a root to the problem, shes not as far as she wanted to be at this point in her life, or something, see if she will open up to you about why she feels the need to go out and party like this, more then likely shes tring to "numb" out something, You dont want her to think that your not on her side anymore, and if you tell her everything shes doing wrong she might take it that your tring to rule her life and then she will shut you out, after you see what the root of the problem is you can talk to her about it, tell her that what shes doing is going to make her loose everything she has and your commited to her as a friend to help her out of this hole shes found herself in, and that you care about her health and you dont want to watch her slowly disinagrate her health and you want to help her get past this hard part in her life and get her to trust your recommendations on what you think she needs to do, then once she says she trusts you to guide her out of this problem, (keep in mind you have to get her to see she has a problem, spoon feed it to her so she sees it on her own she has a problem, like wow you used to be able to keep all this going with out a problem, it looks like your struggling, she will know why and see why) THen keep reminding her that you will do what ever she needs, that you will hold her hand in a local AA class, or you will go to a rehab place with her, what ever it takes :)
1066974
okay, I'm not the best person to ask but, i personally think you should do something that would let your friend(s) see what he is doing is bad. Or you could catch him doing something wrong, and if those are your real friends, tell them and they should believe you.
1163776
Might I say that you are one of many that do too much...you should tell him that it is too much for you and that you suggest him taking a cab where he needs to go and to tell him that sorry for any problems but to tell you the truth you need to let him grow up and do things on his own for himself.  He needs to grow up and stop relying on everyone else for things, even the little things.
205905
get a friend to tell\n him
1172988
Probably best if you message me on this one. Your friend has some possible options depending on the circumstances.
257912
dont stall him tell him the truth if he is any sort of friend he will understand
507651
get help from someone you trust and can talk to.if it carries on get help from someone proffesional
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
502080
obviously he knows he has a problem and hes asking you for help..support him and help him through..some guys dont want to help them selves feel lucky that your man recognizes his problem..dont leave him..stay and help him through it..he needs you..be there for him.
201104
You should talk to him and ask him what the problem is. If he is truely your friend he should acknowledge you anytime any place.
443213
You need to be real with him. Tell him you may be his only real friend. If he can't tell you why he's screwing up his life and let you help him then no one will. You need to tell him that you know something's wrong. But you have to know also that this is a big responsibility. If he decides to depend on you you're going to have to really be there for him everytime he needs you. You should also try to convince him after you have his trust to let some professionals get involved like the school counselor. I really hope things work out for you and your friend hun. Take care and good luck. :^)
268214
Does he know how much this means to you? Try telling him in a calm way sweet way. I know you can do it! You could also recommend renting one, that's what my 'friend' is doing.
620152
just tell him the honest truth. there is a saying "honesty is the best policy," and it is. if he is your friend, no matter what, he will understand that your friendship is worth more than nothing.
470585
Just be his friend and try to get him to stop......If he continues to cut then tell someone who can help.
153292
you know her problems. try to encourage her. tell her she is not the only one that has the problem but they eat inorder to live. tell her that what she is doing is not only bad to her but is also affecting you as her friend. just encourage her
268036
Lot's of experiences like that one... well, one thing that would really help your friend is to constantly praise his/her work. commend everything that was done right. if there are things that must be corrected, do it in a constructive way, and a suggestion will do. In this way, you are building up confidence without making your friend dependent on your opinions or praises. Remember, it's just a balance of praises and constructive criticisms. In the end, your friend will learn how to judge things about her all by herself. Best of all, SMILE! Your smile could actually mean everything.