do you think it is a problem if you have sex with someone that started out being your friend?
152186
Some of the best relationships start out as friendships, probably because your friends know everything about you and still like you, while a lot of other relationships start out with people trying to be what they think the other person wants them to be, and then they get sick of pretending.\n\nthe person you spend your life with should be your best friend, they should know all about you and you should know all about them, no secrets.
1108110
I am not sure.  Everyone needs friends, but if your friend crosses a certain level of intimacy, you should certainly evaluate that relationship during down time. In other words, only you can answer that question.
747805
The same thing you would do with a normal friend except there is sex involved
1169756
It's possible as long as neither one of you want a sexual relationship. Could build a stronger bond or could make things really difficult. I say you should go with how you really feel about it. A lot of people couldn't be friends after something like that, but if the both of you are mature about it, then I say go for it. Good luck.
46202
If you're friends are calling you a prude, then they aren't your friends.  A friend respects your morals and choices, even if they don't share the same ones.  Don't have sex to please your friends, you'll regret it later.  Stick to what you believe.
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt
844333
Not necessarily......just being friends with someone who happens to be attractive does not mean they are having an affair.  It could be that after she spends time with him she realizes how lucky she is to have you, that explains why her sex drive is up.\n\nThis question is far to vague and asks more questions before an opinion can be formed.
607586
well a friend is a friend i think they should be friends no matter what i mean dont let 1 guy come and  end a friendship a booty call is not worth the friendship and that is the only thing he wanted so never end something good over something dumb
463931
not at all as long as its an agreement between both of you that its just casual sex. nothing wrong with familiar territory!! just dont be leading her on and saying you want to get back together or anything if you dont.
989050
I think friends with benefits is a good thing. Alot of people are afraid of committments these days. As long as everyone knows the rules then there should be no hurt feelings. If one person has stronger feelings than the other than that should be discussed so that no one gets hurt. i have had many fwb relationships over the years and have never lost a friend because of it when you both know the scoop. But there are also peolpe who are my friends who i would never sleep with because i would lose that friendship. Everyone concerned has to know the rules. We all have needs and sometimes need that itch scratched.
548794
no as best friends you are supposed to be the support system for your friend when going through a divorce not jump in and be with your ex how would she have felt if heather had started sleeping with here ex no matter what else has happened as friends you should never cross that line and then why would you want to sleep with a man who used to sleep with your best friend i think it is disgusting immorral and wrong and i feel for heather she lost a husband and a friend i think celebrities have this notion that they can do whatever they want and sleep with whoever thwy want because they are famous if i was to sleep with my best friendsex husband my whole family would disown me\n\nwhile i agree that once you are seperated you cant control who your ex dates i still think it is wrong for your friend to cross that boundary because she is your friend and like your mommma always teaches you men will come and go but true friendship is forever which means as a friend you would not betray the trust by dating the ex
555630
It's okay, as long as it's okay for your girl friend is out scoring with an old friend at the same time you are banging\nyour neighbor.  You'll never know about it, so what will it hurt?
568494
yes, you can, i am actually in the process of doin that now. We're doin real good, but plz know things will not be the same. That mainly depends on who cut it off and why. I went back to my ex, my friend was a rebound but i grew to really care for him, so i didnt want to throw that away. But in time it will fade or yall will go back to having sex. You will eventually grow apart because most men dont want to be friends with a girl that they wanna do and she says no. Think hard about and i hope the make the decision thats right for you, for me it was to go and i havent looked back, buh bye
672327
don't do that to a friend. There are plenty of ther people in the world for you to have sex with.
523725
In my experience, it has a been a really good thing. It was good because we were both honest, and up front about it. We established that our friendship was the most important thing, and that we didn't want to ruin it. (Of course, there was an exception) but for the most part, even if one of us started feeling a "crush" or something, we talked it through. The one thing that I have to be CLEAR on is that we BOTH were honest. That we could be close to each other, and there were limits, and you had to stay within those limits. I don't know if I am just weird, but I have had some very special friends, and it worked. Most have moved on, but if we saw each other again, (in face I called one just the other day and we had a fantastic conversation) I know we are still friends, and they know I am still their friend as well. I KNOW there are times when men use that as a line, and I KNOW there are women who say they can do that, but they think I can change the guys mind. The reason I know this is because my guy friends told me that women did this, so I don't know if I'm just bizarre, but in my own personal life, I've had some FANTASTIC friendships, and they were friends with benefits.\nI forgot to tell you that when it worked this way with me, 98% of the time, we were friends First!! =o)\nBTW I thought I invented that term LOL
255229
Believe me I think plenty of us have done this at one time or another.. It is nice to have somebody there to get intimate with.. And it is not awkward because you have been with him before.. Is it a good idea? No, it is time to move on and find somebody else to build a relationship with...
537026
Although it is rather common having sex among friends in this era, do not ever assume that because this guy has a sexual relationship with you that he will end up having intimate feelings for you. It is interesting how you think that he is "a good friend," when in reality, this guy might not have concern about you as a person, other than just a friend, or how his behavior is going to affect you later.\n\nYou have to be able to involve yourself in a real relationship with someone who is actually to have true feelings for you, to see you as someone to spend the rest of his life with. This is not a good situation for you and it certainly will not turn out the way you would want if you had sex with your so-called good friend.\n\nThe only way to see in this situation is your friend gets in for the sake of having sex with you, and chances are never become emotionally involved. You can have fun for a while, but the novelty of having a "sexual buddy" starts to wear thin. You may begin to get upset after you and he get physical, because he may not be able to give you the emotional part of sex that you deserve. \n\nI would suggest to hold on to your urge of having sex with your friend, rather than heading for an unknown disaster in the future. You should cherish your friendship and not salvage it for sex.