can someone find girls and guys attractive?
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Yes they can. Its called Bi- curius. Bi sexual is someone who has experiemented with both and actually knows they enjoy both sexes.
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personality and good looks
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Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?\n\nThe answers are the same for either orientation.
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There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.
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Guys are just attracted to Girls!
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It isn't even that. To a large extent society determines what people find attractive. Not too long ago men went wild over a woman's legs, now it is breasts, soon it will be nostrils. In harder times overweight women were considered particularly attractive. Far too few people are willing to work to see the innate beauty of a person; they'd rather take the easy way out and only see what they think they should see.
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I think it's a combination of both.  Sometimes people are quick to get involved with someone who is goodlooking, but soon find out that they are a creep.  But I do think that the people who have a great personality are usually attractive to the people who are attracted to them.  Goodlooking to one person may be ugly to another person.  Example- In my opinion, my sister is attracted to the ugliest guys I've ever seen. But she thinks that they are FINE!
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Looks aren't everything. Be a gentleman and you will attract girls who will be loyal and good to you.
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Yes.\n\nI know several straight guys that see the beauty of men, but are not sexually attracted to them. As a gay man I can see the beauty of women, but I am in no way sexually attracted to them. I don't think they are sexy, but they can be pretty....like flowers are pretty. I know straight guys that see the beauty of men like the beauty of flowers.
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wadda ya think?\nthey may like your "looks" good looks do attract, and/or who you are as a person!
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I'm a white guy, and I can say with conviction that if a girl is good looking (black, white, asian, hispanic) I "find her attractive". But in general I think white guys are raised in sheltered environments and tend to stray away from black girls. A lot of it has to do with how you were raised.
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hell no, try girls, they are better looking.
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It don't matter. Personality and brains is what is attractive!
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Some men are attracted to one more than the other, but in the grand scheme of things, most men will be attracted to any kind of woman (if they are hot of course :)).
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Ummm....no actually I haven't.  And I don't think anyone can.  I think everyone finds there mate good looking in some way, I don't know if you are like this but I see each person in a different way, I swear I sometimes see someone everyone says is pretty and i am like yuck !! because of how they are or whatever, somehow i see them uglier, but i can have a really good friend and if i truly luv em i see them prettier than they are. But I dont think you can be with someone you are not physically attracted to.  You wouldnt be able to be 100% into her.\nOops I answered the one for men lol now i saw the one for women , Tip for you next time just make one saying men n women oka ?  lol\nanyways i think the relationship would turn platonic, you will really admire and love that person in a friendship way.
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I'm a guy and when I really like a girl I cant seem to be as cool or witty when I see some one I'm attracted to. So don't judge people to quickly because the slick talking ones are mostly there for non commitment. The stuttering ones could be a keeper. Take time to see the real person.
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Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!