I was just wondering how often everyone has sex with their boyfriend/girlfreind, am I having it enough?
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I believe that the average is more often than once per week. Averages, however, can be totally irrelevant.\n\n"Enough" is a tricky amount to pin down. As a guy, I understand completely, but also as a guy I understand that we are hardwired to consider "enough" to be when the heart attack takes us after the 15th time in a single day.\n\nCommunication is the key here. You CANNOT have it more often than she wants, there is a word for that - it's called rape.\n\nPerhaps she is physically uncomfortable - a lubricating jelly may help.\n\nIf you only see each other on weekends, then once a week is pretty darn often.\n\nPerhaps she is tired and just doesn't feel "in the mood". You have to respect this, but you may be able to come up with alternatives **with her** to help you out too. (Ever showered together? Soap and warm water can be a wonderful thing - even if nothing too much happens)\n\nTalk it over, but don't be demanding. Tell her your feelings, and tell her that you realize that it is your BODY talking, not you. It is not right to keep it locked up inside of you, but it is also not right just to expect more from her.
852412
having many sexual partners
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Couple here\n\n\n\nNot often enough, cause of the Kids!!!!\n\n\nBut i heard that for couples the average should be at least twice a week to keep a relationship healthy.
452336
there's nothing wrong with having sex multi-times a day it goes to show you that you do have a very healthy active sex life. its normal but than again we are all different some like it less than others visversa.
331622
Depends, if I'm single then I don't really care about sex except occassionally.\n\nIf there is a guy I really like (like my bf now) then I like to have sex often.  It's always better with someone you love or at least like.
986230
Let's see... We have been married for 4 years and we have two children and do it 1-2 times a week. I think that is normal for most couples. Since you have no children I would aim for 2-3 times a week. But the question is not how often should we but how often do we WANT to have sex.
393830
im in college, my bf and i have sex 8 or 9 times a week, we do not live in the same towns so sometimes we only see each other on weekends, but we make up for lost time.
1020751
How old are you? And why are you even thinking of having sex with a g/f when you should know that sex should be between a man and women that are married? What had happened to you people these days?
627696
I am a believer in couples having sex every day, but I realize that with busy lives and hormones and menstruation that just isn't possible. Realistically a couple should have sex at least twice a week, ideally three. They should be reminding each other that they are attractive and appealing and eager to physically express their love.
685290
hell no you can have to much sex. but i am a veru sexual person and whenever i see my bf we have sex cause we only see each other on the weekend
686918
It would actually depend on what what kind of relationship you have, with the person that you are with. If you are still very close , and still very in love with your wife---> then your sexual relationship is normal. The closer you are to someone , the more you want them physically!\n  I have heard of other couples being together not as long as you two have , that say they only have sex once a week. I know another couple that says they only have sex once a month. I thought this was crazy , one lady told me do you see how clean my house is ??? How do you think that it stays this clean---By not having to worry with that all of the time.I would rather live in a simi clean house and have great sex alot more often.Another though is , maybe these couples have never really had great sex before. I myself think that something is very wrong with couples that dont have sex atleast once a day. But , i also understand that not all of us have the same sex drive.\n  Me and my x-husband used to have sex atleast once a day.\nWe were together for 8 1/2 years. But, during the pregnancy of our second child---> i lost all interest in sex which was suddenly too painful to me. I am not saying that he stopped getting it , but pretty close to it. However i gave him blow jobs alot. Then when our son turned 3 months old , i found out he was cheating on me & kicked him out . I still wonder if my not wanting to have sex with him was partly coming from the fact that i knew that something was going on. My husband and i never really liked eachother , so i was wondering how often we would have had sex , if we were deeply in love. The point is, I promise that the strength of your feelings in your relationship, helps alot to determine how often you get it !
869903
relax man..first let me commend you on having sex with your girlfriend, secondly dont worry about gettin girls pregnant..lots of people have sex man..and as long as you guys didnt have sex in one of those periods where shes more prone to get pregnant throught her monthly cycles then you got nothing to worry about bro..i say do it again so you feel more comfortable
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At least once a week. It depends on my cycle. Some weeks I don't feel sexual at all and others, I can't get enough of it.
437633
I don't think I can ever get enough sex, wish my hubby would stop being a prude 2-3 times a month doesn't cut it for me.  There are other girls out there like me who crave it all the time, what are you waiting for start looking for one lol!
1057272
i have had a boyfriend for two years now and were both 18 and we decided to not have sex because we both feels its very pointless. we just have too much oral sex instead!! ^_^
912032
Dude, I had one girlfriend in high school that lasted two months.  It took me a while to catch up on learning but now I can proudly say that I need more than two hands to count the partners I've had, and I'm 33.  The majority of people I were with were in a relationship with me for more than a year, so it's not like I constantly slept around.  At 28 years old I got tired of being a nice guy and decided to only make myself happy instead of always putting others ahead, and it has paid off well.  You still have to think with your brain more than your male appendage though.\n\nEven now I can still go to the clubs hanging out with my girlfriend (been together over a year), and I know the married couples that don't look too happy are envying me.  Just don't get married early and ruin it.  think of it this way too.  When you're in high school you really only connect with those in your school.  When you're in college the number of available women expands.  Then when you're in the real world it's a meat market.\n\nI can't say us males don't measure another guy in the number of women that he's conquered, but just play it safe and you won't have to hear from those same males on how many child support payments they make or avoid.
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I love having sex with my girl friend soooo much.  i dont set a date in my diary as and when we make the beautiful love but when we do it rocks. The more the better tho.