i just can't seem to get a girlfriend what should i do?
144280
wait for someone to come along that you like don't get a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend and end up hurting someone. who cares what everyone else thinks
467877
maybe its just bad luck.how about starting out slow.go up to a girl and see if she doesnt have a guy around first,and say hi.just start a conversation,ask her name and compliment her.after u two talk for awhile then ask her if she would maybe like to go out to a movie or dinner sometime.if she says yes then get her #.ur not always gonna get a yes,but maybe it will just take some time.plus like u said u have no experience.think of it this way.its practice.but good luck and hope my advise works out for u and i also hope u find that special one.u seem like a real nice guy.
592706
You need to gain confidence in yourself, for one. Learn to be alone, and not lonely. If you can appreciate yourself as company, others will as well. Go places where you will meet people with similar interests, and you'll meet women who will be interested in you.
420846
you got problems.  no gurl will want someone desperate unless they are desperate themselves.  just sit back and be patient.  true love will come to you soon enough.  and just be yourself.  not tryin to dogg ya either just tryin to help
130797
You haven't stated any additional info?\n\nMaybe you haven't met the right girls so far. It's all about timing and also chemistry. Patience is the key, whats the point in throwing yourself to any girl cuz your desperate. You might lose the opportunity of asking the girl of your dreams out.=)\n\nGoodluck Bro
692221
You can't get a girl to like you. Be yourself, if that doesn't work move on.  You can get a girl to not like you very easily.
982589
First off nobody needs a girlfriend. Being shy is a hardship for dating I know.I can tell you though just be yourself and someone special will find you. Try being friends with some girls first have some of your guy friends and some girl friends hang out somewhere. Having a friend that is a girl is a way to get to know what other girls like too. Good Luck and remember you do not need a girlfriend to be happy and go out and have fun.
695106
be yourself, be friendly, know that things won't always be this way.  You will find someone who will accept you for who and what you are.  Try to have a girl as a friend and then maybe she will become a girlfriend.
691117
Well it depends on the guy you're looking for. Guys really like it when you can relate to them about something. It's hard to start a relationship or keep one going if you don't have something to talk about. And always show that you're interested. If you don't have a boyfriend right now then it can't get any worse if u try so it's always worth trying to get a boyfriend. You don't have to be hott to get a boyfriend, be yourself and as long as you try everything'll fall inot place. Give it time, be patient. Everything'll work out.\n\nGood Luck!
552857
Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
407149
Are you really as cute and sexy as you say?  Just kidding.  But seriously it's hard to move around and try to make new friends.  Just try smiling and saying hi to people at first and if they seem receptive then start up a convo or ask them out for pizza or something.   Grab that bull by the balls and go for it! (figuratively speaking of course)
303187
I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
56843
Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
830289
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
248905
So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
732907
First of all, why do you DESPERATELY need a girlfriend?!  Work on your social skills.  You do not have to be loud and obnoxious to get attention.  Not all girls like those kinds of guys.  Get involved in something that interests you that also interests girls, so you can meet some that are more like yourself.
1003034
I don't think anything is wrong with you, you just haven't met the right girl yet. So what if you're not very tall and you are not very small, you just have to keep trying. That's what the dating game is all about. Are you in school? You could look around campus for different events that are sure to attract many decent young ladies. Just keep trying, it is rough trying to find a mate but it won't get you anywhere if you give up.