If I am not and never have been sexually attracted to anyone, does it mean I am asexual?
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yes you are an asexual person but not in all meanings of the word, you have sex organs so you are not completely asexual. It's not common at all most people are sexual in some way or form whether it be hetero homo or bi. kind of cool though, you have to be a very confident person not having to worry about how other see you.
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it means a virgin...  you haven't had sex yet... it can actually be used to refer to a  female  or a male ...
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lol...asexual?  no child you are not asexual.\n\nYou seem bright, talented and sensible.  I'm betting you are average if not awesome in school.  Maybe a little on the mousy side, but that is beyond the point I was trying to make.  \n\nJust because you have no crushes, or desire or want to be with someon else does not mean you are not capable of it.  You've got lots of things on your plate.  Being obsessed with someone else, like everyone else, might be below you.  Maybe you realize this all ready.  There is definitely no race to jump into bed with anyone in this matter.\n\nLook around you.  Do you see others primping in the bathroom?  Wearing designer clothing?  Making one side of the story and then changing it to suit their needs (and keep them out of trouble)?  That is the need of those others to pop out and feel needed and liked because they are following the herd mentality.  My advice to you is don't be a cow.  Heh, I mean, don't go lemmingly follow the others because everyone else is doin' it.\n\nYou have a whole world to experience, and from the little you have said, you are well on your way to seeing the world, instead of bein' blinded by statistics.  Don't you dare fret, you're day is comin'...just wait a couple more years when everyone around you starts to fade in beauty, and the guys actually start thinkin' about what they want for the future.
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If you had sex, you are not a virgin.\n\nIf you never had sex, you are a virgin.
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yes. maybe your asexual.
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No, but for the sake of honesty.... I have slept with people that I was ONLY physically attracted to or only had an emotional attachment to with NO physical attraction.
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No. Psychologist say that it is common amongst some straight people to be curious about it. Many of them never actually act upon it. Some act upon it and don't like it afterwards and it ends the curiousity. Some act upon it and like it and it turns out they are bisexual. \n\nIt all depends a lot on you and where your sexuality fits on the scale. There are those who are exclusive heterosexual and exclusive homosexuals. I'm the latter. I've never even thought about the opposite gender in a romantic or sexual way. Since I was a little boy I always wanted to kiss the boys and hold their hands. That's what it means to be an exclusive homosexual. And there are heterosexuals that are like that, too. They have never even thought about being with someone of the same gender. Then there are all the areas in between and right in the middle are the degrees of bisexuality. Some are bisexual, but lean more towards heterosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic more with the opposite gender) and those that are bisexual but lean more towards homosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic with someone of the same gender more). It is said that those who are exclusively heterosexual, exclusively homosexual, and those who are 50/50 bisexuals are actually the minority sexually. It is all the middle grey areas that are more common. Atleast that is what I've read.\n\nI mean, consider the type of scale it is\n\nHeterosexuality/Homosexuality\n100/0\n90/10\n80/20\n70/30\n60/40\n50/50\n40/60\n30/70\n20/80\n10/90\n0/100\n\nEach end is the exclusive (top being exclusive Heterosexual 100% heterosexual 0% homosexual and the bottom being exclusive Homosexual 0% heterosexual 100% homosexual) and the middle area is the grey area of bisexuality. Obviously a person who is 90% heterosexual and only 10% homosexual is probably not going to act on the homosexual tendency, it is very weak. But that person might occasionally have a dream that is somewhat homosexual. The same would be true of a person who is 90% homosexual and 10% heterosexual. They may realize they are gay, but occasionally would have a heterosexual dream. That might cause the person to question, but probably never act. As you get closer towards the middle the more likely the person is to have actually acted upon their interests...gay or straight.
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0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
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If you are attracted to the same gender as yourself, you are a homosexual.  If you are attracted to the opposite, you are heterosexual.  If you are attracted to both, you are bisexual.  And if you are attracted to neither, you are asexual.
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Nope, being bi-sexual means potentially liking someone regardless of their sex, or to put it another way, liking somebody for who they are without the restriction of gender.
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It means she has never had sex with a man.
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A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse.\n\nBut I consider any sexual act sex.  Who cares if your technically a virgin but you have given head to a hundred men.
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honestly i dont know what u were thinking when u posted this question,is that u think u are unattractive and cant find a boyfriend or u just decided that is hopeless to try?cos i see reasons why people just decided to turn  gay and lesbian.but one think i would like to tell is dont let anyone or anything make u feel like u dont deserve what u want want and is as for u question i dont know an answer to that
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This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.
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I can honestly say, I have never had an organism during sex.
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People are giving you answers to two questions.\n\nSome people are telling you no one has to have sex.  That is true.  Celibacy has always been around -- some religions are very keen on it.  So, a person can choose not to have sex.  I could choose not to have sex with my partner, I could even choose to force myself to have sex with a female.  It makes my physically ill, but I could force the issue, at least I think I could.  Likewise, a heterosexual could force himself to have sex with another man. He could choose not to have sex with women.  In NEITHER CASE would the person change.  the homosexual would still be homosexual, the heterosexual would still be heterosexual.  What they would be doing would in both cases be unnatural for them.  But they could choose.\n\nThen there is the question of choosing how you feel.  No, there is no choice there except for bisexuals.  I have never found a single woman even vaguely attractive sexually.  I get along with women well enough, though the vast majority of my friennds are straight males.  I've had the same male lover for nearly 15 years, but I still notice other males, I just choose not to have sex with them (back to that choice thing again, in this case the same choice a straight man in a committed relationship makes).  \n\nNo one knows the reasons for this, it may be a cocktail of reasons, or  it may be genetic, or chemo-genetic -- both the eyeblink logitudnal study and the pheremonal response study imply that it is one or the other. What it is not is environmental.\n\nAs for our friend who thinks he turned gay because he wanted to see a penis at 6.  I think you feel guilty inside for being gay, and you concocted that as an excuse.  I saw penises and vaginas all my life -- my family was not big on modesty inside our home, and it was no big deal.  However, I began to realize what I liked by 8 and fully understood it was sexual by 11.  So you were interested in penises earlier, as I was - and then you realized what it meant at 10 -- not that much different from me, but without the self-acceptance and family support -- therefore, instead of realizing that it was self-recongition, you make it into a cause.  It isn't, you were not born straight.\n\nIf people have questions do not hesitate to email me.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com