how do u know someone really loves you or if they wanna get married to you like they said they wanted to??????
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A man seldom considers himself really engaged to be married until he sets a date.  So if you want to test the strength of his committment, ask him to set a date.  You may scare him off, however, so it may not be worth the risk.\n\nCan you separate his loving you from his wanting to marry you?  They are not always the same thing.  Sometimes men are not interested in marriage at all, or do not consider themselves ready for it, even though they love a woman very dearly.  Marriage is a big responsibility, and if his career is just getting started, or if he's still in college, he may think it's better to wait.  Or he may love you, but not feel monogamous commitment is right for him.  If that is the case, and if he is able to be honest about it, you may work out an "open marriage" arrangement.  It's a very tricky thing to make it work well, but some people really do.  I often quote an old rhyme I heard many years ago:\n\nHiggamous, hoggamous, woman's monogamous.\nHoggamous, higgamous, man is polygamous.\n\nIt has more truth to it than many people would like to admit.  That's why polygamy (a man with more than one wife) is far more common than polyandry (a woman with more than one husband).  And it makes sense from an evolutionary sense.  A woman with many husbands can still have no more than one pregnancy every nine to ten months.  A man with several wives could have each one pregnant at the same time, if he is (???) lucky.
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He is just saying that to keep you, he knows thats something YOU want. He most likly doesnt want to get married and if he does not right now. Either you keep letting him ignore you or tell what you want  and follow through dont except anything less than what you deserve, but pressuring him would be the wrong thing to do. I think you should just let him know how you feel and then determine if he is worht waiting for, dont let him slip away if you know he is a good guy.!!!!
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As they say the heart knows, what the heart wants! \nStop worring God made someone just for you.\nI promise you will meet them, so take your time love is sneeky, it will get you when you least expect it. So Smile!\nFor someone that sounds so sweet you have to know, there is someone out there for you!
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you don't.  you will know when its happen and there will be no doubts. you love this person for who they are not what they have, who they are or what they look like. they will love you as much and as the same.
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go propose... wat r u waiting 4... maybe he too likes u and doesnot kno whether u lik him or not... be honest with him... and brace urself for the worst cases lik "sorry, i am already married".
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realize him that you love by indirect means.look trendier,smart,and show that u have everything what he wants.Then at some day say him to help you in some work then slowly slowly propose  him.
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Wait till you two meet and talk about it sort it out then make your decision based on his reaction if he says he loves u wants to marry u if not move on
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If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
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Listen very carefully...\n\nShow him what you just asked us...\n\nAnd then ask him what he would like...\n\nBut I have a pretty good feeling he already knows how much you love him and doesn't need a reminder...
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Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
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There is no way to prove that someone really loves you. You'll just have to look at the way they treat you and talk to you, and decide for yourself.\n\nMy parents have been married for 20 years, and almost every morning for 20 years my father has gotten up and made my mother a cup of coffee and then brought it to her in bed. \n\nI think it's the little things that show love for another person. Things like switching seats at a restaurant so that the setting sun is in your eyes instead of the other person's. \n\nHolding someone's hand when you're just walking together or lending them your jacket when it's cold out show consideration for the other person.\n\nIf they respect you, if they show concern for your wellbeing, if you can have meaningful conversations together, if you can laugh together, if they enjoy your company, if they've said they love you then they probly do.\n\n;)\n\n~Oracle~ @};-
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You will know when you feel like you have to be around this person all of the time.  When you begin to realize that they compliment you, brighten your day, and they are the first person to see when you wake up and last person when you go to sleep then you want to marry them.  Hope I helped!!
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Tell they guy you are saving yourself for marriage.  If he really likes you he will not cheat.  \n\nIf he has already gotten what he wants from you and is no longer interested, he will keep one eye on you and the other on his next conquest.\n\nWhen a guy truly loves a girl, he will propose.
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First, open ur bible and read 1Corinthians 13:4-8 and if he/she resembles a bit of all or most of these qualities, then he loves u. The best way to know, is if he/she puts ur feelings, thoughts, emotions, ideas...ect, before his/hers. Lastely if they respect u. I hope this answers ur question. \nGood luv'n.
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You could actually tell that a guy is ready to commit to you for a lifetime whenever that guy has already plans for the both of you in the future. It is not all about the diamond ring that a guy gives you on your engagement day, it is not also just about what you both have in the present but what you will be having in the future. You could tell that a guy is ready to commit to you for a lifetime if guy plans already on what you both will have...it is not only "I" that he would be taking into consideration but it would become "WE". In all things "WE" counts.
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That is right! If you say you love someone, you gotta trust him. But before you fall in love with this person you gotta get to know him. If you are willing to accept him for  who he is, then it is LOVE!!!\n\nI have done that and I am now happily married to this man!
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You get married because you love that person and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You want to really love that person and you know you are meant to be with them. There is not a time limit on love. You just choose.