how do u tell some one to leave u alone when ur in love with them?
153396
why you would want them to leave you alone is beyond me but tell them you never realy enjoyed their company and to please leave you alone
613689
Ignore them. If they see that they don't affect you, they will leave you alone.
98805
Ignore her friend and just focus on the one you love. You control your life. And whoever loves you can't do anything about it if you don't love them so just ignore them and focus on the one you really love. However, you can't also do anything about it if she also doesn't love you.
701907
say "you're being too clingy. i  need some space. i love you, but you've just gotta back off" but if you don't love her, just leave out the "i love you" part.
281421
I would say ignore them but that only makes them want you more. You have to TOTALLY ignore them. You have to avoid all contact because the slightest thing you do will only make the attraction stronger.
837332
Ok, that happened to me... and if you never tell him, you will never know. Buy a flower, put it in an envelope with a letter saying how you feel about him, give it to him... tell him it is very personal, to read it when he is alone and then walk away, don't you even dare look back... just keep walking. If you don't do that, you might lose the opportunity of your life.
132010
Best approach is to be direct! Be polite, just tell them the truth and hopefully they'll understand. Well unless you're with them for very long already and suddenly you fall for someone else...
613252
I know how it feels and its really hard, but you got to be straight up with the person. Tell him how you feel ( as nice as possible) that way you don't bruise his feelings. Try to be as calm as you can and tell him why you can't be with him, or why you need your space... or whatever the problem is... remember to be yourself and as open and REAL as possible, thats ALWAYS the best way.
103315
it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
978105
Always leave them wanting more...be independent, dont be at their beck and call and let them know you're around because you want to be....but you could go off of it
554919
Start pulling away gradually.  Start doing things with your other friends but don't completely desert this guy either.  If he thinks he's in love with you, it would hurt a lot for you to suddenly ignore him.  Just spend less time with him and have shorter phone conversations, etc.  He will begin to see something is happenng in a short time and will be ready for a break.  Be kind just as you would want someone to be kind if they were breaking it off with you.
4560
Just say no.  It hurts more if you tell them yes and stiff them.  The thing is in life there are hurts and you can't shield people from them.  The only person your responsible to is yourself.
1144140
Whenever he disturbs you, just stare at him until he leaves you alone.  You don't have to say anything mean to him.  I think it is an innate human trait that we don't like to be watched...
255837
Just always be there for him.  It's the best move.  If someone's in love with someone, he usually don't see other people/things.  You can't really force him or attact him to give his attention to you right away.  Just being with him would make him more comfortable with you and hopefully sooner, he may fall for you.
144295
Move on we all deserve equal oppourtunity in love.. someone who is out there will love you as much as you need. \nOR have tyou not be honest with this person. Tell them that you love them and give them the choice leave that person  alone or come and recieve all of your good loving!!
224132
I would say to leave him to himself. If not completely, atleast for alittle while. I was raised to treat a woman like the princess that she is. I'm not saying that he should do exactly everything perfectly, but if I loved someone, I would want to spend time with them, i would go out of my way to see them and i would show as much affection as i could.\nLastly no one should ever put you down, I mean no one, especially someone who says they love you...
34787
Because ignoring them is a very passive and not effective way to get rid of someone.  Tell them.  Be direct and let them know you're not interested, you're busy, you have other interests, whatever.  From their end, it's better to know than to wonder.  So not telling them is mean.