I had sex with my friends mom wjnhat should i do?
153901
i think you should stop now
841310
Forget about it.  You did nothing wrong.  Don't even mention it.  All you'll do is put your friend in an embarrassing situation.
563926
Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
792487
Have safe sex! You can have it without protection and her parents is her business!
1167453
You can't - Teens are hard headed, know it alls. \nIf you really want to stop her, tell her mom.\n\nShe CAN get an STD.  She CAN also get Pregnant. \n\nShe should wait until marriage b/c this guy is going to probably dump her within the year.  Then she's gonna feel real crappy when he breaks up with her and she's given it up to him.\n\nMy bet is that he'll screw her and then dump her immediately after. He'll probably pull the whole not-returinging-her-phone-calls ordeal. \n\nYou might want to tell Your Mom about this and have her call your friends Mom. Your mom will tell you what to do. I think you should talk to your mom about this b/c she knows your friend better than I do.
593311
This is a tricky question because only you really know what kind of relationship you have with your parents.  If you have a good relationship with them and know they won't blow up and over react then talk to them and tell them what happened.  If not then you have some other things to think about.  I am assuming that you probably had unprotected sex so you need to consider a pregnancy test and an STD test.  You also need to talk to your boyfriend and make it clear that even though you like him what happened was a mistake and that you are not ready to have sex with him.  If gets mad and says stuff like what is the big deal since you already have done it then walk away and dump him because that means he was only with you for the sex, which is my suspicion since he knew about the drink being spiked and didn't say anything to you.  He took advantage of you and that is not what a real boyfriend does.  Remember, we all make mistakes.  The key is to take responsibility and do the right things after the mistake to keep from allowing that mistake to keep growing.
832587
Tell her; and stand firm in your resolve to wait until you are married.  It is too bad that you had to learn the hard way that alcohol and casual sex are not all they are cracked up to be.  It sounds like you are basically a good girl.  Tell your mom, she will help you get through this.
1027665
lol!  Try.  Ask your girlfriend and her best friend if they actuallly want to, and then decide for yourself.  If you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to decide who you are going to have sex with.
1046302
GO TO THE DOC, asap, im sry to say this but it does sound liek you have an STD, you need to go, and who cares, just tell your mom, that you need to go, yeah ok she might have to drive, but still i think she'd want to know before it gets worse, most std's if caught before anything bad happense, can be curied within a week, or even a day, some can take one pill and your done jsut go to the doc, you need to its doens't matter who you've been with or what not, still just go, its your life you need to care about, SO GO!!! teehee
576872
Had sex with my girl friends brother!
973176
He raped you. I'm very sorry that happened to you. You were not able to give consent, because you were drunk. Sex without consent is rape. Read this:\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape\n\nGo to the doctor or hospital, see if you can get the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy. If it's too late, then I hope you are not pregnant. Also get tested for STDs (aka STIs). You should go to the police and tell them what happened, that he raped you.\n\nThis is a VERY BAD MAN. Do not see him again!\n\nI'm not saying that it is your fault, but in the future, do not allow yourself to be in that situation. If you want to get drunk, get drunk with your girlfriends, or at home. Don't get drunk at a guy's house, it's not safe.\n\nI hope you are not pregnant, and I'm very sorry you were raped.
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She's no "good friend".  That sounds like a Lifetime Television for Women movie.  You know, as a mother I want to say I'd kick her @ss.  But really, at this point there isn't anything you can do but sever your friendship with her.  He's 20 now, and the statue of limitation for rape ends at age 18 in most states (though you might want to research this for your state).  Your son, if he's the "mature type" could have very well seduced her.  But as I said, he's 20 now and there's nothing you can legally do.  I know you are hurt, angry and betrayed, I would be too.  And I'm so sorry for you.  Hopefully you and your son can discuss this and find out why/how it started.  But I would definately approch the woman and ask her why?  How would she feel if a man her age had an affair with her 16 or 17 year old daughter?  She'd have him in jail so quickly.  Remind her of that.  \n\nJesus, lady.  My heart goes out to you, really.  If you ever want to chat more, send me a message and we can exchange email address.  Good luck.
1093875
Your mom is lot more experienced than u boy...She know how to control pregnancy..Don't believe what your friend says..But as a man you should not be OK with your mom having sex with your friend even if she's divorced...
625928
You cant really do anything unless your mom starts approving. If you're not of legal age anything u do beyong kissing and holding hands can have him landed in jail. If you're both serious about this, then talk to your mom together.
846653
Livi, I have a daughter, she's 21 now.  I would be heart broken to know that she was hurting and confused.  And if she doesn't even know you got your period, then honey I think you need to skip the boyfriends for awhile and get to know your Mom.\n\nI remember when I was in the seventh grade, you are going through a lot of emotional stuff right now.  A Mom you can talk too would be great.  Can't you see yourself sharing some of this with her.  Please try.\n\nNow, about this nineth grader.  If you really really like him, then talk to him.  Tell him up front you aren't going in for no kissing and no touching.  If he can't deal with that, then drop him.  If he's truly interested in you then he will give the chance to be comfortable with the idea of kissing him.  My daughter broke up with a boy because he started smoking again.  So, you be careful with young man.  I don't want to read on here later on that you went out with him and now you are pregnant.  \n\nKissing, touching, and even sex is fun stuff, I am not going to lie to you.  But with it comes other stuff that's not so fun.  You don't sound you are ready for this kind of relationship, and if you don't want to sound like a "baby" or not cool, then tell him you are grounded.  Or tell him the truth that you haven't gotten permission from your Mom, and she would ground you for life if you went out with him without her ok'ing it.\n\nLivi, please see if you can speak to your Mom.  Give her another chance.  We parents don't always don't know the right answers, but we do care.\n\nGod bless us all..........
957692
Most docs will ask your mother to wait in the waiting room (especially with you being 17). If they don't, ask the nurse to tell the doctor to ask her to step out.  Say you need to go to the bathroom or something and then tell her. He is NOT allowed to tell your mother you had sex. He may just tell her that the exam went fine and he found no problems.  Anything you tell him is confidential. However, he will write his findings in the chart..if your mother wants a copy of the chart, she can freely get it since you are a minor. However, they use medical terms and unless your mother knows terminology, she may not understand it.\n\nI know your mother loves you and wants to know what's going on with you. Talk to her...You think she doesn't want to but from a parent's perspective  she does
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You really slept with her mom? Did you? if you did, pls do keep this a secret and never let it leak out in whatever way. And, if you would forgive me, stop seeing her mom. It is not good for the friendship and yourself.\n\nBeing lesbian is nothing wrong at all. Just meet up with your own lesbian clicks and who knows, you may find someone you like...which may turn to love in the near future.\n\nCheers! =)