Engaged; but my chick goes back on the computer; to see what I have been looking at. Should I Still marry her?
154965
she is insecuer about her self and she dont trust you if there is no trust you have nothing
1146169
I would not be happy at ALL I would consider this cheating, if not cheating then pretty darn close, if you are truly committed in a relationship you don't need to look else where and if pictures are being exchanged with nudity I would consider that looking elsewhere. \n\nGood luck--JammieGirl
670783
Ummm sir... what if your wife looks at this??? Yeah think next time!!! By the way I am your wife and I am looking at this and I think you should think (about getting a divorce). Can't have two hands in the cookie jar!
608657
i agree... just keep seeing them both... if its not a serious thing yet, or an exclusive thing...then it isnt cheating...eventually you'll figure out which one is for you..\n\nGood Luck
121108
Keep looking.  When you marry her you marry her family to a large extent.  No matter how you cut it, they are part of the package.  They will be a constant source of friction which will probably lead to divorce farther down the line.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
425571
marrying the chick with the baby, probably isn't a good idea, sounds like she wants you to be the baby's daddy, and for the other chick, you should go out with her and see what happens. good luck. :)
631012
I think you should meet him, but not even entertain the thought of marriage yet.  All you really know is what he has chosen to tell you via his internet persona.  Who knows what really lurks underneath.
445764
only you can tell for certain if you really love her. but if you think you're capable of giving up everything you know and believe in just to be with this chick, i think she got you.  \n\nshould you ask her to stay? it's worth a try. better do it than waste a lot of time regretting it.
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I do know where you are coming from,and i am not sure how long you have been with you`re fiancee.But having a sence of humour when you are dealing with men is some times best !I say 2 things ,one at least he is`nt doing anything with a another human behide you`re back and 2 it would be so more shocking if it was a channel for the opposite sex !\nIf it was me i would get him back in a wee matter ,but not going to far just see how he likes it ,take a real look at the next fit guy that walks pass both of you .When some hunk comes on telly just say "hes  alright" It just seem strange to us woman because we are not in to porn in any way ,but if you accept it ,and be cool he will love you more !If you want ,ask him why he likes it so much and may do things in your`re relation ship that you haven`t yet explored !But to be honest in life if you are`nt meant to do something it makes it more daring and naughty ,once you accept it and may even say can i watch one with you ,it will be come boring to him and he will stop ,as it is`nt naughty behide you`re back stuff ,and if he does big deal ,as you can please him for real !!!
192372
See if she wants to experiment a little. I mean, hey,  drop-n-roll and find out a little sumpinsumpin, if you think you can. \nBTW ,I love your stuff.. you spend WAY too much time thinkin'!
669005
I would find out what he is saying to her about her comments of you not being good enough for him.  Take his attention away from the computer during the times you know he is on it with her if you can.  Keep reminding him of why you guys got married in the first place.  There is such a thing as an "emotional relationship" and this will lead to other risk taking opportunities if you don't get a handle on this quick!  ONlY your husband is responsible for his actions not her...so don't be mad at her.  He has the choice to defend you and not let her take control of his own emotions in your relationship.  Good luck and remember you still love him.
270871
Ask her! If she is worth marrying you should be able to trust her? Right?!
370084
As of right now, she is technically single so if you are going to find out if she has mutual feelings, it should be done right away before the wedding, but you should only do this if you are sure of your feelings. You are right it's wrong to try and get her when you know she has a man...did you ever question why you were attracted to her?  Could it be the fact that you know she has a man in her life?
214662
Sorry to tell you but you may have to be a little less picky. The girl you are meant to be with might not know a lot of computars but if she loves you she will learn. I knew nothing about half the stuff my husband was into, but I loved him and wanted to learn things that were important to him and I did. Just give a girl time. If she's smart and she likes you, she will learn and soon enough you will be having Dabates over PC's and labtops or whatever.\n\nGood luck with ms. right
570560
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.