Ok Ladies, I need your help please?
141000
Buy her 'good' chocolate and forget the massage for now!\nI think you're cute!  Good Luck!
161996
Give her an extra unexpected compliment. I believe some of the best compliments come from a look, a touch, or even a naughty smile when she has on less clothes and may feel less pretty. Men lose weight faster then women anyway so the both of you should find something she can do that may help speed up her weight loss. Be supportive, but let her know how you feel and that you are in this together, it's not a race and in the end you both will be winners. At this point you are starting to look different and she may not be at that point yet. It's hard for the both you, talk and try to make things eaiser.
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
894696
Woman... what did you do ?
442146
ladies you are a riddle wrapped in an enigma. \nWanna cut through the confusion? Say what you mean and stick by it, lose the whole womans right to change her mind at the drop of a hat shtick! you're driving us fellas crazy with that.
89778
For starters treat her right and also do you already have a Lady that you want to be connected to is the best answer, if not get off the internet and find you one.\n\nK
658233
yeah, show her what you've posted!! Or rephrase it in a letter. Maybe a poem if you're creative? You could arrange to have a bouquet sent to her, or think of other things you could do. An easy one is to send her an e-card. Aw, nice to hear that there are some men out there who are all loved up and adore their women!
638381
What kind of help?  Can you be a little more vague, please.  LoL..
74316
I belive if you can make a woman feel sucure in you.That she can trust that you'll be there for her emotionally,good times and bad. that you can always help, or that she can help you.if she feels sucure, she may make the first move tword sex and chances are your  sex will be better. really liston to her and you'll know what to do
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Dont talk too much about stupid boring boy stuff like football, cars etc.  Ask lots of questions & sound really interested in what ever she tells you, make sure you listen coz she'll test you to make sure & if you arent paying attention she will get upset.  Tell her that you love giving massages & if you get the chance to do it pretend as if you actually do like it.  Take notice of her, if she looks cold (is hugging herself) offer her your jacket.  Always ask if she would like a drink, or something to eat.  Make sure you find her a seat before yourself.  Open doors for her , a lot of girls will say they dont want you to do it but they secretly love it & tell all their friends how much of a gentleman you are if you do.  Give her compliments coz we LOVE them, we just might not show it.  Tell her what ever she is wearing that she looks beautiful in it .. or say she looks very glamorous.
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get a grip, dude.\ntalk to her.
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Do me and yourself a HUGE favor, DON'T TELL THIS GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!!!\n\nThink about it.  If she is an 8 or 9 as you suggest then she probably has a million guys fawning all over her every day.  If you tell her how you feel you'll be just another one of those average chumps! She probably hears the same sh*t over and over again and it probably bores her to death!\n\nDo something to make yourself stand out.  Give her some attitude, dude!  Don't be an a-hole, but don't be a kiss-a*s either.  Treat her like your annoying little sister and bust her chops.\n\nIf you say she's been teasing you a lot, that's because she likes you.  If a girl is into you she will tease you.  It's as simple as that.  What you need to do is have fun with her and tease her right back.\n\nThe first line of your question was "...at the beginning...she was into me, but I ruined that by showing her too much love."  If that didn't work in the past why do you think that would work now?  It's like putting spoiled milk back into the fridge and checking it again a month later to see if it some how is drinkable.  Crazy, huh?\n\nIf you want to drive her wild, then make sure and flirt with every other girl at your weekend event!  Women don't want a guy that no one else is into. They think something is wrong with him.  But if you are chatting up a bunch of ladies and they are all laughing with you and smiling she will think, 'Hey, what does this guy have that all these women like being around him?  I want him to want me, why is he paying no attention to me.'\n\nI guarantee that if you don't approach her and are the life of the event, she will come up to you.  In fact, I will back up my guarantee.  \n\nDo this.  Pay attention to everyone but her.  Maybe give her a glance and a wry smile, but do not approach her.  If she does not come up to you and start chatting you up, I will send you a $10 gift card from Starbucks so you can ask her out the lame way you want to (no offense intended) and tell her how you feel.  \n\nWhen that doesn't work (which it won't), at least you'll have the comfort of knowing that you didn't spend your hard earned money on her and you are no worse for wear except knowing that being lame is just that, LAME!  And that you have to try a new approach with ALL ladies.\n\nThere are 6 billion people on this planet, half are women.  If she fizzles out that leaves only 2,999,999,999 potential others.  Oh, what will you do?  On the flip side, there are the same number of men out there who will try to woo her with their 'feelings for her' and their gifts and she will shun most of them.\n\nLadies out there, please weigh in and post your thoughts.
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Be honest with her.  If you think you came on too strong, take her out to a nice dinner and explain yourself.  Tell her you were so eager to get to know her better you let your heart act instead of listening to your head.  Tell her you want to be something more, but you want to take things at a pace that is comfortable for the both of you.  If its meant to be, it'll be.  Give yourself a little credit, at least you are trying to read your woman's heart.  If she's not interested, then you could do better anyway!  Lots of women out there would love to find a man like you!
259670
tell her tough tittie...it dont feel nice now do it? you backstabbing slut...then laugh in her face ; )
374066
Compliment me. Then flirt with me in a light hearted way. Get more sexual in your comments once you realise I am receptive. Maybe not too blatant right away. If your eyes are drawn to my low neck line don't say anything like "Love your t**s." Maybe compliment my necklace and gaze into my cleavage. Later you can get really sexy in your chat. Those first impressions are important. Some girls could be put off with the first comment if you are too horny. I'm not, but lots are. Just keep trying. We love it really. Best of luck. Joan.
351365
TALK, thats always a good starting point. and if she is lesbian and you are a guy you have the wrong equipment and she might be friend but dont get too excited and wet your panties.
545697
Why does everything has to become a creepy drama?.  Confidence is ur greatest weapon for attraction, keep that in mind.  So in order to let her know u know what u want ( confidence), talk to her out of the blue one day, about anything with little importance but in a funny, flirting kinda way, then just drop the line, like it is no big deal ( cause it really isn't) " by the way , there's this thing at that place... i think u will enjoy it, specially with my company"  and let her be the one that, points out the details of the outing!.  have a good one. SUAE