would it be wrong to let a CLOSE FRIEND know how strongly u feel for him, esp if there's chemistry in the air?
138781
No ! Often friends before a relationship makes the best Romance! What are you waiting for? Life is too short ?Tell him ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
636896
i think that it is imoportant for you to tell him how you feel.you never know, he might like you too.but what you really should do is to do what you feel is right in your heart =)
1154637
Its common to have those feelings cause you think you can trust the person with all your inner details and secrets... The way you would want a serious relationshiop to be. And you have to remember,t he person you want to spend the rest of your life with has to be your friend first. You should think of them as your best friend. And love simply follows naturally. Thats the recipe for a great relationship anyhow.
652352
Honestly, I think you should tell him how you feel. The only reason I say that is because he is the only person that will give the truth about the situation. If you ask your friends they might lead you into the wrong direction. yes, it's nerve-racking but once you find out the happier and less confused you'll be.
1038374
It's okay as long as you don't bring up feelings and emotions. This is when I freaked out when she started saying she loved me and asking me how did I feel. When you're friends with benefits you don't expect anything, you don't want to hear none of that moo-shy woo-shy stuff!
391515
If it is complicated for you to tell your bf how you feel then you should keep things the way they are and not risk loosing a friendship..Time will only tell if she has these same feelings for you or not..
876617
its a good idea  to let him know, but you need to do it your self, dont let your friends do it for you. he will appreciate it more if you tell him yourself.
28093
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.
16529
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
21051
Depends on how this person is. If he/she is approachable, go show it. Beware if she/he has already a special someone otherwise, you will only end up as dessert. Its okay to tell someone what you feel just don't take anything personal.
217249
tough 1! Well if u feel u lov him u must b pretty close. Who knows, mayb he is thinking the same thing but doesnt know what youll think. my sugestion is if you luv him enough then u should tell him. Im sure he'll feel the same way!;)
671847
Feelings are just that.. feelings.  They are neither right or wrong.  True love can't be made where it doesn't exist and can't hide where it does.  He is feeling that he somehow betrayed his friend.... He should discuss his feelings with him.
82180
go for it. tell him. what's the pro? be wiser and be brave. nothing is as good in our world as expression of feelings.\n\ngood luck
382768
From my opinion is is best to be honest. Just tell him how you are feeling, and also explain that you are scared of what he might say. He will only respect you for what you have told him. I'm pretty sure your friend wont exclude you. Remember just be honest and open about it. who knows. he might feel the same way =P
642834
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.
818355
You need to explain to your friend that it is your understanding he might be interested in you.  Although you're flattered, and you love him very much as a friend, you simply don't feel that way about him.  Tell him you wanted to say something because you greatly value his friendship, and didn't want to do anything to mislead him.  Once things blow over with this situation, you should then be able to pursue a relationship with his buddy.  Your friend might be upset for awhile, but if you truly care about him you don't want to eventually hurt him more deeply.
614960
No, don't start something that can't last. If you think it can last after you move then give it a try. I think the guy needs to tell your friend that he has feelings for you. If your relationship will ruin your friendship with your friend then don't do it.