What to do with the most annoying whiney husband?
153977
you suck it up and find a constructive way to express your feelings/frusrations.  if you dont let him know how he is coming across, it will just build resentment and he possibly has no idea it is like this.  if he is aware, then throw up your hands and say to hell with it.
553358
This is what I did when I was married to a slob.  Take a gigantic trash bag and put everything in it.  Throw it out in the yard and see how long it take him to realize it's there.  When he asked hey honey where is my ____  just say you got tired of looking at it and threw it away.  Next, when he is asleep in bed at night, get out all your tampons and maxipads and throw them on the floor on his side of the bed.  This one really freaks them out.  Put all his dirty socks and underware inside his pillowcase so he can use them as a pillow.  Hide his real pillow.  Also, to get them to do their own laundry, get something new and really red to wash with his whites.  It turns everything pink and he willget tired of wearing pink unerwear in a hurry.
777160
Let him know of what behaviour you find annoying.  Go for a walk alone and/or take some time for just you.
912751
Doesn't sound as though you can do much. Pointing it out to him or suggesting counselling will only add fuel to the fire right? On the other hand...who wants to be around someone who constantly complains, b*tches and brings everyones mood down because he's a jerk?\nYou can always tell him you're taking the kids and screwing because you can't tolerate this and it's cruel to the kids. Beware though. You call his bluff and he calls it....you'd better be ready to follow through or you'll never, ever gain any ground again.\nGood luck with Grumpy!
246861
your husband sounds like a loser\ni think you need to leave him for someone who will come home to you
998473
Leave him. You can do better.
481187
You want to kill him? Hit him where it hurts. Take him to \ncourt for alienation of affection and hit him in the wallet! Then, give him your sleazy wife! They deserve each other, and you deserve better.
69291
Tell him in a direct way that focuses on how his behavior makes you feel rather than judging him or condemning the behavior. For example, don't say something like, "God, I'm sick of your bragging! It totally annoys him!"\n\nInstead, give him some concrete examples of things he's said that annoy you. Tell him specifically why that behavior is annoying to you. If you can keep the focus on neutral facts and your own feelings rather than accusing him, you lessen the chance that he will get upset.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
367825
I've been married for 3 years now, and let me tell you it has been hard at times.  My husband is very very compulsive about cleaning.  I however am the opposite.  He will come home from work and nag and complain NON STOP about everything about the house. When I do the dishes, he'll come in and yell at me because I'm not drying the right way, or I'm not stacking the right way.  We really had our breaking point when at 530am he was getting ready for work, and he took down the curtains because he wanted me to get a start on cleaning and making him breakfast.  Now I work full time too, and my alarm was set for 7am.  We had the biggest fight. I finally told him I couldn't take it anymore, he was bringing me down so much that I was starting to hate my self.  Just saying that too him killed him.  He had no idea that I was so unhappy.  After getting so much out he now makes an effort to make me feel better, he makes me breakfast in bed every Saturday.  And when he gets ready to complain or nag he holds back and simply offers the advice "take it or leave it"
9486
You need to stand up to your husband here, and tell him that his *inlaws* need to get the hell *out*!
234100
Kick him to the curb!
771968
Honey\n\nYou and your hubby need to move out!\n\nEven if you have to live in a small dump, its better than putting up with the stress!!\n\nMove out soon!
951516
ask her to quit it and stop annoys everyone else
909968
He is a magnet and u  are the refridgerater. Bug him until he is sick of you. Then throw something at him that won't hurt him but just scare him, like a SHOE!
1109256
Tell him to bring home a bottle of your favorite beverage.\nWhen he gets home, complain about the heat and take off  your top.\nPour yourself a drink, not him.\nTell him you don't know what is wrong, but he needs to do SOMETHING. Keep talking as your remove your pants.\nNow take a big gulp, sit spread eagle on the table and pull his head into wonderland.\nIf this does not work, call me ASAP
516208
My husband likes to curse.  I tell him it makes him look immature and undignified.  I personally think that's why he does it, because it irritates me.  I only get really mad when he says something and my 2-year old repeats it!
1099272
Tell him your sick of his annoying antics and he needs to get a life.  Tell your bf that you dont want him hanging around you anymore and if he loves you he should respect that. =)