My x-boyfriend and I still have feelings for eachother,I think.But he has a girlfriend.How can I make Him mine
149613
If he still loves you, he'll come back. And if that doesn't work then try to make him jealous. (guys hate it when they can't have something).
168374
I think that you should just tell him how you feel... because you will always play the "what-if" game.  You are jealous that his girlfriend is getting something that you once had and will always lust over.  He was probably your soulmate and you gave it all away when you broke off your communication.  Should have just gone with the long distance thing.  You should talk to him... maybe he feels the same way.  By the way, what is the new distance between u two?
692234
have respect for the girl and for her boyfriend. you can't change somebody's feelings. you can't make somebody like you. if you care about her, think about her feelings. respect her feelings and leave her alone. find another girl who is not attached.\n\nit's hard for two people to carry on a long distance relationship. it doesn't help when other people are trying to break it up either.\n\nyou'll find another girl that you're attracted to. i guarantee it, ok? if not, then the right girl will find you, so don't sweat it. but this girl is off limits.
1116787
You're going to have to build a lot of trust between the two of you first. He needs to be able to trust you so that he can tell you exactly how he feels whenever he wants. You are going to have to trust him when he is telling you these things. Keep up the good communication and everything should work out fine. Good luck!!
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
559486
You have to wait - the hardest thing to do - for him to find out if he`s interested in you as a girlfriend. Don`t try to come between him and his current girlfriend, he`s chosen to be with her, and until they split up - if they do - you have to play the waiting game and let him come to you.
1007004
Funny thing about thoughts which turn into fantasies. They really make us believe we have feelings but they really are not our true feelings. I think your true feelings are that you know that if he is coming on to you while he has a girlfriend then he would do the same with me when someone else he fancies comes along. That you know how bad you would feel if you were a reason why he broke up with his present girlfriend and that you know that deep inside all he is after is getting in your pants. I know you are smarter then to listen to misguided feelings that spawned out of fantasies created by suggested things he asked you to try. \nBe true to yourself your too smart to be fooled by a player and you know that you deserve better.
1054521
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change the way his best friend feels - and the worst thing you could do is try to come between them.  \n\nI'm sure that she does have strong feelings for him because that's what happens when you are best friends with someone and you really care about him.  This doesn't mean that she's in love with him though.  Love requires giving and receiving and, if he is in a relationship with you, it's clear that he is not returning her feelings for him.  This has probably only magnified her "feelings" for him because we always want what we can't have.\n\nI would suggest continuing your relationship with him as normal.  It is probably quite painful for her to see the two of you together and she is probably scared that you will take his friendship away from her.  If you make her feel included and let them continue their friendship as they always have, she will realise you are not a threat and will respect your time with him in the same way.  \n\nJust keep in mind that he sees her as a friend and he always has.  Being in a relationship with you will not suddenly make him believe that he loves her.  If you trust him, don't get jealous and don't try to compete with her, he will appreciate you all the more and realise he would be silly to lose you.
201320
Don't be a bad person. Let him go... \n\nYou had your chance, if he is happy with the other person you should not destroy his relationship.
947791
YOU CAN NOT MAKE HIM WANT YOU THAT HAS TO COME NATURALLY & IT PROBABLLY WILL~ PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE HONEY, DONT PLAY THE JEALOUSY GAME JUST BE STRAIGHT UP & I DEFINETLY DONT THINK ITS A GOOD IDEA TO DRAG HIS INNOCENT FRIEND INTO THIS KNOWING YOU REALLY ARENT INTERESTED IN HIM, THATS NOT FAIR!! THINGS MIGHT GET CARRIED AWAY & SOMEONE COULD GET EMOTIONALLY HURT, SO LETS LEAVE THAT 1 ALONE OKAY?? THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE IS TO "STOP" SENDING MESSAGES BY YOUR FRIENDS & PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE  & LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL 9X'S OUTTA 10 HE FEELS THE SAME WAY B/C FROM WHAT I CAN SEE YOU BOTH ARE PLAYING THE SAME GAME & DONT EVEN REALIZE IT lol.....
1092572
just let it go, if the attraction is strong enuf between you two, his relationship with the other gurl will begin to fall apart. let nature take it's course and  be the good guy. patience is a virtue. be virtuous. as the attraction between you and him grows, it will weaken between him and her. if he is a good guy, he will let her know he is losing interest and give her time to find someone new also. any other way is too messy, don't try to hurry things up. like teasing him sexually. he will use you and still end up with her. if it doesn't play out the way you want, you learned something. sometimes it doesn't no matter how bad you want it.
108037
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
612419
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.
582545
move on. i jus went through the same thing that lasted a year n my x even has dated his new girlfriend for 7 months. hes goin 2 act like that towards u cuz he knows youll wait for him...he knows he can swing u right back in..so dont let him kno that ur waitin..dont wait! u can find a guy that wont play wit ur emotions.dont wait for nebody...guys should b waitin in line for you!
274975
My boyfriend is still friends with the one long-term girlfriend he had before we got together. He still talks to the girls he had flings with throughout his early 20s. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't bother me occasionally. The important thing is that it's only occasionally. I trust him and I know he would never betray that trust.\n\nIf he still has feelings for them I'd be wary of getting too attached to this guy. He isn't bad, it just seems like he isn't sure of what he wants. Maybe those feelings will fade, maybe they won't. The important thing to remember is that he is entitled to those feelings and you can't force him to not have them.
1178260
go over to him a talk to him. then you guys can be friends. then you guys can be best friends. then you guys could be boyfriend and girlfriend.
700301
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!