Why is it ok for a man to cheat and not women?
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It is NOT, I repeat NOT ok for EITHER to cheat! Forgiveness has nothing to do with it. If either partner cheats, there is a serious problem in the relationship. It's time to look toward the future and move on.\n\nThings may be salvageable with counseling, but even then...
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
582324
To be honest, as dude, I have never cheated on a woman, but as a male, personally it sounds like a "shovenistic pig" statement, but as humans we all get bored, just like having the same breakfast dish every morning, you seek for something different.\nSome men never cheat, but admit while making love they think of other woman, other men just strait up cheat, in a way both of these solutions are still cheating, just one is mental.\nAs for respect, cheating is disrespect, but what  pisses me off most is when dudes physically harm women or verbally abuse them, or just treat them like shit, it may sound hypocritical to the statements made above, but I think women should be appreciated, and if you hurt a woman in anyway you have no honor.\n I remeber when Bill Clinton was impeached my mom would tell me all men cheat, and it doesn't matter he is still a good president, I really don't know if all men cheat. \n Also in a males perspective, I would hate to cheated on and I would want to know who she was seeing and I would also want to know why.\n Sorry to go on tangent, anyways just think of the relationship game as a boxing match, pick shots wisely, be patient, and if you don't want to get hurt, avoid big risks.\nThere is an abundance of dudes, sooner or later you should find someone who truly cares for you.
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Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men cheat for sex, and women cheat for affection and attention. Yes, this is a generalization, and some women cheat because they are nympho's, but that is not the norm. I believe the old saying "a man is only as faithful to his partner as his options" meaning that a though a man may not go out of his way to try and get laid, but if it's put in front of him and offered up he is hard pressed to say no. A woman on the other hand equates sex with an act of love, unlike the man who sees it as an act of lust and gratification.
601760
not all men are unfaithful.\n\nwhy do women think that that all men play away, women are jsut as  likely as well.\n\nsaying that is a sexist generalisation of men.\nmany men are extremely loyal to there partners
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It may be cowardly to cheat, but more so to lie about it. Admitting that cheating is a problem, a vice, could help one to stop. Admitting to cheating usually has the worst consequences, which is logical.\n\nCheating is a high, like a cigarette for a nicotine addict, a cheater must conquer a woman to prove his manliness. this in turn most probably makes him feel weak, which in turn makes him need to prove his "strength" once again, continuing in a vicious circle. \n\nThe reasons men cheat may vary, but there is also an explanation given in Evolutionary psychology. Humans are but an instrument of gene pools. Men can have 1000 different women and produce 1000 offspring. However many partners a woman has she is still limited to a maximum of 20 children. Weird explanation. \n\nSo you can say that men who cheat haven't evolved much from our Neanderthal ancestors. \n\nIf you've been cheated on, know it is not your fault. You are probably not the reason. \n\nIf you can be compassionate with the cheater and limit your relationship to a non sexual one until he has matured into the New Age, maybe then you can try again... \n\nGood luck and God Bless
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Men cheat but women do to....honestly it's human nature we want what we cant have......and yeah guys get caught more because men don't have the brains....lol
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first, it is NOT okay if a guy cheats...they are just as guilty as a girl when she cheats...\n\nsecond, there is double standards in this society....either way, the girl is always going to be stuck with the bad reputation while the guys gets to be the player or the pimp daddy...it's never fair
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Because they seem to like the challenge.Because some women allow them to cheat.My father use to say that sometimes a man will marry the woman that will let him get away with the most crap.Whorish men get married too.Some men are in the practice of saying whatever it takes to get what they want or to get you off of their backs.Never let him know that you are totally satisfied with him or your relationship,because to do so is to give up the fight.Have you ever seen a dog chase a car?If the car stops moving he turns and goes the other way.He doesn't really want to catch it,he just enjoys the chase.Always keep your man chasing you.Even if he has you,don't convince him that he does.Otherwise he will look for some other person to chase.
61479
Any repectful man or woman does not cheat. If you need to cheat, then you need to break up with the person you want to cheat on. Makes sense, huh?
1090312
I don't believe in cheating on people either. I think people do it because they want the excitement of the beginning of a relationship where sometimes both people are on their best behavior, etc. or maybe they like the "conquest". Anyway neither reasons are very good because the next relationship will be the same eventually. I think some people aren't mature enough to realize that  they could just put their love and affection in the present relationship and it would be just as exciting. If a person lived by "do unto other as you would have done to you" they would not cheat.
369433
most men do seem to prefer sex to love, and dont hesitate to cheat (in my experience).  there are some good guys out there, who want to love, but they are VERY hard to find.
785852
I think you aren't being fair! all men don't cheat. My wife is the one who has cheated on me! And I thought I was being the Ideal husband but I found out wrong. I'm sorry that you think all men are cheaters, but keep in mind if it wasn't for the willing woman out there men wouldn't be able to cheat.
1114359
It goes both ways and it's not just men. Women are just as guilty for doing the same thing. Why do they do it? Only the person who is doing the cheating knows the answer to that. Doesn't make it right but it's hard to answer that question.
307409
Go the other way.  Married men are off limits.  You wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of a cheater.  Neither does his wife.  And let's face it, if he is cheating on her with you, do you think yer the only one?
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Why do Women cheat on Men?\n\nI do not believe that it has any thing to do with the gender of the person but the character of the individual.  If a person (male or female) is not committed to or satisfied with a relationship there is not much you can do to stop them from looking somewhere else.\n\nPeople suck and sh** on others all the time it is human nature.
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I do believe you mean "who" cheats more. If so, then allow me to give my opinion. I think men cheat more because most women are attached to their feelings/emotions when involved with a guy. Men are more analytical and think less with emotion. Women like to be held, talked to sweetly, respected as 'thinking'  people with viable opinions and last but not least deeply and honestly appreciated. Men on the other hand rationalize, often wrongly,   womens intentions, needs, wants, desires so they tend to decide in their favor what options they have. Also, men are 'hunter's'. That should tell you a lot right there.