I see a bright future for my boyfriend and I, how do I know if it's too good to be true?
141415
dont move in\nstudies show you'll never get married ( if that's your goal ) or he evetuanlly dump you ( more than likely )
315241
You don't. You never really know. You think that person you're seeing right now is the "right one", but maybe 2-3 years down the road they may not be. Things will change no matter what you do. Learn to accept each other. Work out your problem. When you truly understand where each other are coming from that is maybe when you have found the right one.
722844
It all sounds good,but it sounds like young love.Hope it is real and works out for you.Good luck
1077524
Yes, ask him.  That's the only way to find out.  If you know you'll spend the rest of your life with him, why not risk knowing sooner?
121564
You dont know. But thats with every relationship. We take a chance hoping that whether close or distant relatioships will work out. If the two of you are really commited then it will work out. So take a chance! It will be a learning experience
139165
If she thinks you have no future, she might be right.  What kind of future do you think you have?  Tell her.  Let her know what your vision of the future together looks like.  It is a happy, secure, wonderful future?  If not, why not?  Do you have some major problems to overcome? Does she?  Maybe you should solve these problems first, then discuss your future later.
44979
well, you shouldn't be looking, or it won't be true it will be sought after and kind of planned in a way. true love should just happen, maybe if you stop looking it will be there in front of you. focus on other things in your life that make you happy.
621591
At the end of the day your boyfriend is a 21 year old male and you must think as they would. A man will be a man and that includes acting up when the homies are around but he does all these things he does for you and is described the way he is, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Unless the man is cheating, smoking crack rocks or drinking till his liver turns colors I think you got a good one. A lot of people make the mistake of letting the "fear of the future" dictate what they do in the present. If he is good to you be good to him. Only time will tell if the relationship will flop or flourish. You gotta stop putting a stigma over and just let it be. Sounds like a good man don't let that fear mess it for you. I wish you all the luck in the world!
140843
Act as if the statement was true. You have nothing to lose. If it is true then you are trusting her and goodness will follow. If it is not true you still trusted her and the truth will come out in the end. If you don't accept its true and it is true then you will blow an incredible opportunity to be loved.
214399
Some people do know that their love will last for ever others dont know, but are you happy and is he happy? do you make each other happy?\nAs Long as you are both happy why should you worry?
888204
Stop worrying, you won't get anywhere like this. If it is going to work then it will and it sounds like your both enjoying each other so just relax.
303227
If you have doubts about it, then that probably means that your not ready to find "the one", and if you don't think that this guy is the right one yet, then he probably won't be.  There are so many other men out there and you have your whole life to find "the one", don't rush into things, it's not worth it to get hurt in the end.  You have to know that you can trust someone, have awesome communication, and respect for each other.  If you feel that you have these and your still having doubts, then maybe he's not right for you and you need to keep looking.\n\nGood luck!
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
262915
how about any more details???... but like they say anything's possible... good luck with your bf... :)
670337
If you are sure you guys can make it work then go for it. I know that we think things will and all we can do is hope. If you really love him and he reallys loves you then go for it hun. You have to do what is in your heart. Go with what YOU feel. Good luck
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well if he makes long term plans and includes you in them, its a good start. as long as there are no secrets between the two of you , and he has been honest about who he is then everything should fall into place on its own. \n\nif all else fails, you could always ask him, if you feel inclined to.\n\nhope i helped; good luck!!
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whaz ur final destination? \ndo u expect tht this love will turn out to be a marriage?\nthere are many points which u need to consider..like...ur economy status, society, family conditions and last but not the least how is the guy like?\nin times, we think wht we are thinking and analysing is right and everyone seems to be ununderstandable for u and u think tht they are wrong. but the fact is u know everything but u didnt accpet the reality.. reanalyse urself.\n\nin times , we want to stick to the fantasy world just for our pleasure. perhaps the pleasure satisyf's us mentally, physically and emotionally. \n\nif u are enough matured to understand a relation , then u would have never asked this question. so do analyse the terms of the relation and the ppl around u and ur boyfriend and ofcoursed urself.