How do you love people who hate you?
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I remember- hurting people hurt people. We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against pincipalities andd powers etc. etc. I try to listen to their words and see if I can hear what it is they are really saying, something usually always surfaces that can help us to understand.
1034746
I hate to hate, and I love to love.
433607
I have to say I got a bit lost in your question, but i see you are sincere. Some people only spend time on pointing out hate and war towards their neghbors and demand to get loved for their)(fake)righteousness! Others, live life by their heart and demand nothing, you can hate them and they will accept it like it is just part of God's plan. They will still love you no matter what you do to them. \n\nYou choose who you follow. I follow my heart and look for those who do the same. You decide what is deception and what is true, not a book or a man. Only you hold the timeless key of truth.
144705
Love and Hate are the same coin\nLove can turn to hate very easely\nGiven time & patience,love can\nconquer hate,but it takes work
649191
Some people are filled with hate for themselves and that spills over onto other people.  You can still love her despite her own issues.  Rise above, dont let her hate define you.
783991
God bless you for trying, I will pass the kindness to each person I meet, but it is getting really hard. It is never too late to stop hating. Even though attitudes are tough to handle sometimes, I don't hate anybody, even when they hate me.
1014650
Take a moment, make some soul searching and ask youself: Why do they hate you? What are the things they dislike about you? If you know the answers of these questions, i guess they'll find you worth their friendship. Avoid doing things other dont like about you or offending to them. Emphasize what good in you so that they'll realize your a good pal after all. :-D
87926
it's extremely easy to do both, to hate and to love. the hard part comes when you have to love after you hated a person and hate him after you loved him
587892
Make a list of what makes you unhappy about those people.\n\nMake another list of what makes you love your job.\n\nIf the list of things you love is longer than the list of unhapiness, you should just find a way to get beyond the personalities of the people you work with. Stick to policies, procedures and principles. Smile at everyone and make like they don't bother you, but just try to stay as uninvolved with the personal lives and other people's personal problems. Do the best you can do at your job and maybe/hopefully, you will be there long past those people or maybe/hopefully, they will adjust their attitudes so that they are not so bad to work with.\n\nIf the list of unhappiness is longer than the love, stay there until you find a better job that you think you might be able to eventually love so much.
907919
Aren't you supposed to love everyone?  What reason would you have to hate them????
558564
Do you really hate yourself, or do you hate what others perceive you as?  \n\nWhat have you done to hate yourself so much?  Answer that question and ask for forgiveness in your heart, and move past it.  \n\nI don't think you can love another until you can learn to forgive yourself and make amends for whatever causes you to hate yourself.  You can have strong emotional ties and feelings, but until you can forgive yourself, how can you expect to love someone and forgive their faults?  \n\nI wish you luck in finding your way.
33234
If someone doesn't like you, there isn't much you can do. There are plenty of other people, dont waste your time on one that doesnt like you.
598164
First and foremost you should never Hate anyone.\nSecond, I have know idea, because you didn't give me a choice to choose from.
413825
guess you'll just have to hope fkor the best. you really can't stop people from hating you or for loving you for that matter. It's their choice.
326990
What do you want to know?  Why people hate you?
13331
drop hate. Act like a child, never look back, don't worry about tomorow, live for the moment. Good Luck.
608683
Depends on the reason you hate people and the world and how often you feel this way, as well as how strongly.  If it is an all the time feeling, then you need to get to the heart of why you really feel that way, and work on what you can do to change it.  Seeing a therapist might help you to get there, but you must make the journey.  I would not suggest talking to a minister about those feelings - I tried that, and was only made to feel worse because of my "sinful" feelings.\n\nIf it is an occasional thing, then it is a normal thing - everyone feels that way from time to time.  Sometimes the emotion is quite intense - in those cases, the best thing I've found to do is to do something to get my mind off whatever is bothering me (FPS games help).