does my fiance carolyn really love me?
146860
Dude, she is your fiancee and ur not sure if she loves you? You should of known this before she became your fiancee. Look into her eyes when you say I love you and if they glisten or if has that affectionate look when she says it back, then yeah she loves you or atleast thinks she does. Only time will tell. What makes you uncertain though is what I am wondering.
430243
the question is, how do you know that you love her more than she does? and if she really do, just give her time. maybe she went through something before you both got married. try talking to her and just put more effort on making her happy. i'm pretty sure she'll realize that you're important to her as much as she is to you!
109606
Is she smiling and teasing you and tickling you and touching you softly as she does it? If yes, she's telling you through her actions that she loves you. Been there, done that, in-laws hate me. (NEVER allow other people's opinions to interfere with how you operate when you're conveying your feelings to your significant other.) If *they* know you love them, then that's all that matters. Do you feel her love?\n   On the other hand, if she's malicious or painful about it and constanty claims that she was "only teasing", watch out, the signs are there!
956452
There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
696731
this is not all to uncommon and trust me you are not alone. when i first got together with my fiancee, she was pretty full on. kinda scared me a bit, but i thought she was amazin too. after a couple of months a had a word with her bout it. she just said she had never felt that way before and didnt want to lose that. i told thats ok, maybe we should just slow down and she did. 3 years later we are engaged to get married next year. your relationship is not doomed, but you are gonna have to talk to him bout it.
106161
There are a lot of ways you cant tell if he does love you. If he has toled you he loves you then it is probably true. Knowing that he still stands by you even if his family dislikes you is another good sign, but there are a lot of other things too. Someone you love should also be your best friend. Can you trust him? can you talk to him about anything? Does he come to you with his problems? Does he let you hangout with him in front of his friends? Do you suspect hes trying to hide anything from you? If he really loves you then he'll show it, and you'll know for sure. If you have any doubts or questions about his actions or love for you then you can also talk to him about it. If he loves you and you love him you should be able to talk to him aboout anything, even this.
142179
Ultimately, it is up to this girl to do something about this situation.  SHE must tell her parents how she feels, and break it off with the man she is engaged to.  Are you sure she truly loves YOU?  If she truly loved you, she would do these things, or she would run off with you and marry you.  If she goes ahead and marries the other guy, GIVE UP on her.  TRUE LOVE LOVES BACK IN THE SAME WAY YOU LOVE.  Remember that.
252463
If me made this claim about marriage just prior to getting you in bed, then nope, he probably doesn't love you.  If he came up with the marriage idea on his own and without any benefits attached to it, then he probably does love you.  Tell him that you love him (I guess you have already done this) and see what kind of response you receive.  If you get something like "you too" or "uh huh" that's not a good sign.  If he responds by looking you in the eyes and sincerely says "I love you too" then he probably loves you.  Communication is the key here, if you can't tell if he loves you or not then you don't want to get married any time soon anyway.
420361
Yes she loves you. She probubly loves alot of people. She sounds like a kind person.  That is probubly what attracts you to her.  but unless she dumps her boyfriend for you she probubly doesn't love you the way you think.  take care to cherish your friendship.  they are hard to come by.
678754
My wife already makes feel special.She loves me,and to prove this,I will list the following things she does that makes me feel loved.\n1.She is always telling me-I love you!(I always tell her the same thing!!!)\n2.She works hard at her job of 18 years to provide me with a home.\n3. She supports my decision to start an in-home computer repair service\n3.She is always concerned about my health and well being\n4.She goes the extra mile to provide me with the attention and words to make me feel comfortable in every thing \n5.She will fight -to the death-anybody that tries to hurt me-(We both are experienced martial artists)\n6.She lets me know when she is sad-mad-upset with someone,or just needs some loving.\n7.She lets the past mistakes I made, remain in the past and forgave me of them-(I never repeated them)\n8. We are still together after 21 years!!!!!!!!!!
457879
Everyone lies at one time or another.  It's just human nature.  I'm sure if you took an honest look at yourself you'll see that you may have told little white lies yourself.  Now, hold on...I'm not accusing you of anything.  I'm just saying that unless you catch him in something big, it's up to you whether or not you want to trust him.  Also, if you are having doubts of whether or not you're in love with him, that's a serious red flag on whether or not to marry.  Your relationship with him should not depend on whether or not your family gets along with him, but it would behoove you to ask them why they feel the way they do.  Sometimes, people on the outside can be your best gauge, especially if you keep getting the same feedback from them.  I suggest that you not walk away until you are sure of what you feel, and don't get married until you are sure either.  Good Luck!
525915
Are u sure it's ur fiance.\nSounds like a 5 yr old baby to me\nTell him to grow up\nLotza Love\nNick
270960
That is true love and I think she needs to see that. We need more men like you out there. It's time for you to show her how you feel and tell her. And if she doesn't want you then she is crazy. I would be quick to get back with a man that told me he loved me from the bottom of his heart.
1128671
i just got out of a four year relationship about three weeks ago .....we are still friends but he acted the same way your fiance is acting i finally realized that he's never going to change and i wasn't happy with it so i left him alone ...................u just have to be strong and not let him take advantage of u.......if u really love him ask him straight out how he really feels and tell him not to play games.......
656964
does she tell you that she loves you?  if she does, believe her.  don't expect that what you do for her will be reciprocated the same way.  we all have different ways of showing our love.  that may be just the way she is.  but it doesn't mean she loves you less.
107894
HELLO marygreen38 WELL THE QUESTION U ASKED ABOUT YOUR FRND IS QUIET COMMON IN TODAYS MODERN ERA BUT BEING MODERN DOES NOT AT ALL MEAN THAT SHE WILL CARRY ON WITH SOME OTHER GUY BEINGN A MARRIED LADY..........\nU TOLD THAT SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND A LOT,,, THEN WHAT WAS THE NEED OF JOINING IMATCHUP. THIS IS TOTALLY WRONG ON HER PART.........\nTELL HER, THAT IF SHE AT ALL FEELS THAT HER HUSBAND IS NOT ROMANTIC ENOUGH THEN SHE SHOULD MAKE A FIRST MOVE TO BE ROMANTIC WITH HER HUSBAND..........\nIF SHE THINKS THAT SHE WILL NOT DO ANYTHING THEN IT IS NOT POSSIBLE AT ALL THAT HER HUSBAND SHOWS HIS ROMANTICNESS. MAY BE ITS POSSIBLE THAT TILL TODAY SHE DID NOT BECOME ROMANTIC AND HER HUSBAND FEELS AS IF SHE IS NOT ROMANTIC........\nITS NECESSARY IN A MARRIAGE TO SIT AND SHARE UR FEELINGS TOGETHER NOTHING IS GONNA HAPPEN ALL ALONE............\nWE ALL GET MARRIED TO GET SUPPORT OF A PARTNER WHO WILL STAND BY YOU ALL YOUR LIFE NOT JUST FOR ROMANCE..........\nASK HER, THAT IS SHE HAVING ALL THE RIGHT INFORMATION ABOUT THT GUY WITH WHOM SHE IS DATING? IS HE AS LOYAL TO HER AS SHE IS? IS HE NOT CARRYING ON ANY AFFAIR WITH SOME OTHER GIRL? I DONT THINK THAT SHE WILL BE ABLE TO ANSWER ALL THESE QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nASK HER TO BE LOYAL TO HER HUSBAND BECOZ HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL BE THERE TO HELP HER AT ANY PINT OF TIME AND NOT THAT GUY OF IMATCHUP..........\nTHAT'S ALL I WANT TO SAY..........