What are the best topics to talk about on a first date ?
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Movies, music, current events & dreams.
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Some fundamentals for men: talk 30-40% and let her talk the rest of the time.  Open doors, pick up the tab, and make eye contact.    One big mistake I see guys make, and one that I made back in my dating days, is making the date seem more like an interview.    Sure, you want to get to know the person, but that doesn't have to be crammed into one night of Q&A.  Make an effort to strike up casual conversation, and talk about things that are in the moment.  Remember, people evaluate how much they like or dislike you based upon the quality of the experience they have in your presence.  If you are able to show people a good time, they will be attracted to you.  If you make people feel like they are interviewing for a job, they will not be so keen on another date. (Watch any episode of Blind Date to find out what NOT to do.)
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the "best topic" is relative. Best could mean anything. Perhaps, what you are looking for is "suitable". I would start with finding out about themselves...so something like "so, what makes you tick?", or if you are humorous, something to make your bf/gf laugh, like "I've heard a lot about you...mostly from me, that--you're a BABE!"
209310
evidently you both love music.Let your first conversation be about music that will break the ice,as you are talking find out other interest you might have in common.Then take it from there,say something funny every now and then to make her laugh that should win her over.GOOD LUCK!
423923
Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
737448
Just talk about whatever.  "hey, how was your day?" "what are you doing this weekend?"  Ask her about her interests, school, family, etc.  \n\nIf you click it won't be hard at all.
557324
Hello is always a good start...Then just ask how her day went. But if she's not the talkative type(I know I'm not) Then just ask simple yes or no questions til she feels more comfortable to talk.
144523
i can tell u im no expert in this area but i have some advice.try 2 bring up neutral topics(ur just meeting and u dont wanna spook him)never bring up your ex.u'll damage the relationship be4 it even starts.bottom line be friendly,natural and a little flirty.u want 2 get the message across that u wanna be more than friends.
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why not eat noodles?\nThe question is what you do on a date, or what you don't do on a date?\nDO:\nwatch a movie, have dinner, go for a walk, make out, have sex\nDON'T:\nTalk about your past relationships
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Easy: Ask her about herself, her friends, her interests, her family, etc. Nothing too personal (that might seem scary), just enough to let her know you care. Plus it takes pressure off you, since you don't have to do all the talking, and women love a good listener.
564504
I think that movies are a cop out on a first date...I agree with those who say do something low-key and fun.  Outdoor activities are great and you could take a picnic.  Have fun!
1086329
depends where he takes you lol. I know i probably wouldn't take my first date to the Cheesecake Factory but a local diner and movie or something would be nice.\n\nIt is also nice to try something active. It give you something to do if you and the other person are shy and don't talk alot. It could reduce awkward moments.
213116
Go to a nice restaurant for dinner and sit and have coffee and talk after you finish dinner.  I wouldn't suggest a movie on a first date because you can't talk during a movie and that's what a first date should be all about... talking and getting to know one another.
230491
I can try. I will give you all the ones I have, and you can pick the best ones.\n\n    *  Who is most beautiful person you know (inside and out).\n    * If you could date anyone in the world, who would it be?\n    * Which famous couple throughout history would you like to be a part of?\n    * What is your most romantic dream?\n    * What is your most romantic memory?\n    * If you could kiss anyone in the world, who would it be?\n    * What is the most annoying habit that a romantic partner of yours has ever had?\n    * What is your biggest pet peeve, having to do with a romantic partner?\n    * What is the quality that is most important to you in a romantic partner?\n    * How many times during the day do you think romantic thoughts?\n    * Which relationship appeals to you more, a wild passionate one, or a quiet calm one.\n\nFor Dare\n\n    *  Attempt to stand on your head.\n    * Sing a song in front of people.\n    * Hop around to each person at the party saying, "I'm cupid, and I will help you find love".\n    * Do 3 consecutive cartwheels.\n    * Lead everyone in the chant, "We want food"!\n\nmore truth\nWho do you like?\nHow far have you ever gone with someone?\nHow far would you go with [fill in name here]?\nHave you ever broken the law, if so, how?\nWhat's your most intimate fantasy?\n\nmore\n1.Crush?\n2.How far have you gone...\n3.Have you ever tried drugs\n4.Do you smoke\n\nmore\nfor both sexes:\nTRUTH-"How old of a person would you do *stuff* with?"\nDARE-"Take off your shirt, and run around the block" (I've done this before) lol\n\nfor Guys:\nTRUTH-"do you prefer bigger boobs? If so why? If not, why?"\n\nfor Girls:\nTRUTH- "Have you ever thought of becoming a lesbian?"\n\netc, etc.. good luck ;) \n\nother than that, there are many good ones you can think up yourself, and depending on your style you can either leave in or take out those ones using sexual references, etc. Using an imagination, I'm betting you can think of a couple more, like, let me try..\n\nDare.\nI dare you to lick the floor\nI dare you to Call (a boy, doesn't matter), and disguise your voice, do something funny.\n\nCmon you can try, be creative. Not that hard.
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talk about intrests , summer jobs , holidays , crazy freinds , think about it the possibilities are endless . but id fly by the seat of your pants and talk about whatever you feel at the time . be yourself thats what he wants to see. enjoy your date hope it goes well.
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Anything that interests you...talk about what your favorite things were growing up - just things that open doors and help you get to know each other better.  You could also do a thing liek - "we each ask each other 3 questions a day - which can be on any topic, anything at all"  the thing is, you HAVE to answer the question... You can get some questions if you google "ice breakers" and things like that....  It should be fun though...tell him..." I want to know all about you....I have an idea, why dont we come up with 3 questions each - per day - to ask each other, and we have to answer them no matter how much we might not want to".... once you do that, usually it opens the door to many other conversations.\n\nGood Luck!
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If you don't really talk, there is a problem with the relationship.  However, if you just started dating and still are in the get-to-know you phase, go for:\n\n1. common interests\n2. common occurrences- same school, same teachers, same friends\n3. his likes\n4. politics and religion--volatile but they usually get a response\n\nAsk him questions, people love to talk!