How will a man react, if he finds out his girlfriend is a virgin?
146027
Hi As a guy I was glad my gf { now my wife} was a virgin. Dont let a guy pressure you into losing your Virginity. You only have one first time and it should be saved for your future husband. If a guy can not handle that, I would find a new guy.
830166
No, if he is a virgin he is probably nervous and feeling guilty. If he is feeling guilty he may not be able to get off.
507670
Wow...this is tough...If you really want to know, then yes, but if you're positive that you're both virgins and your families don't have it...why bother...?
520838
When the time comes, it will happen. You most likely will have sex with your girlfriend before you see her naked, as contradictory as that sounds!
976286
The reason they can tell if a girl is a virgin is because of a thing called a girl's hymen. If it's torn then someone has been there before. I suggest looking up the word "hymen". They also walk differently too and sometimes look like sluts.
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.
118909
how did he react to this? You need to let her know hes taken or he needs to step up and say I have a woman ,you don't need to be doing that shit!! She sounds like a little whore anyway!
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
618785
There is no way by which u can know she is virgin or not expect what the lady says. If u love her then learn to respect her statements. \n\nLove is not about knowing ur patner is virgin or not. Its about accepting the way the other is and i don't think it makes any difference
914810
i have a girlfriend? boy! my boyfriends goingto get mad when he finds this out..
863527
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!
1011817
I AM THE DECIDER does not give an informed opinion, how would a virgin (at least with a female) know anything about this!\n\nHe thinks he has a girl friend, but actually since she is repulsed by him, she is not giving it up, so he is used to being in a sexless relationship!
500474
It doesn't matter what she did with how many people, what matters is how you feel about it.\n\nYou aren't a virgin anymore. If you break up with her what is going to happen when the next girl you date finds out you did whatever you did with your current girlfriend and decides to break up with you over it.\n\nAre you any less of a boyfriend/partner/husband because you have now had sex with a girl?\n\nShe is who she is no matter what she has done in the past.  This is not her problem it is yours, so you need to find a way to get past it or you need to tell her that it is a problem and move on. But at the end of the day you are responsible.
566444
Being a virgin makes no difference. if you are a virgin it seems to have more of a damper since you have to kinda prep the girl first. Not a virgin is a plus but too much experience might make him shy away. If she is a virgin and she doesnt tell me she will be in a bit of pain, since im a bit rough. A female should always tell her male if she is a virgin, always.
514971
No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
844418
I would, for a number of reasons. First of all, the fact they haven't had sex shows that they have a lot of self respect, which is extremely sexy in a guy. It's also nice to know that if you sleep with him, you'll be his first, and not just another girl in what could be a long list of them. Thirdly, if a guy who has kept his virginity decides he wants to sleep with you, then he obviously has a high opinion of you, which is really nice to know too. Fourth, they won't forget you because everyone remembers their first. Finally, you make the experience amazing for them, and cause none of you are sure what to expect, it creates suspense - pure turn on.\n\nXXX
513285
sadly, thats about the going time for sex now. If she pretended to be a virgin, the whole thing was based on a lie. My advice would be to leave her alone. He was a virgin, and sadly, he'll always remember her. Just tell him that there are plenty more people out there who are better and just to wait for the right one next time.