Is this too much..... with my boy?
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
376015
I do not think that you are overreacting. Please do not allow him to smoke marijuana around you or your baby. This is a decision that your boyfriend has to make on his own. He knows your stand on this issue. The ball is in your court. You need to decide if you want to have this man in you and your child's life. Pray about it. I wish you well.
527495
Seven months and stil dont know how much love is there?  I think he is just keeping you busy????     Keep Looking!
424104
too much for you child
816605
not a word about it! it may turn out really nasty for the 3 of you! just keep it to urself.
502131
Christopher sounds like he's very lucky to have you.  Just keep loving him and encouraging him.  You're all right.
320213
You are obviously looking for the best advice possible, so please if you can do anything to rectify this situation then do it and as soon as possible. I am so proud of you even though I dont know you, for recognising that this man is in difficulty, please go to someone who can help him, go to his or indeed your Dr. and seek immediate advice. This is wrong, you know it I know it and I am sure every other user of this site will see it for what it is.  It is abuse of the worst kind.  I have a son with special needs, and this is my worst nightmare. I applaud your concern, now please get help for him....
264360
Talk it out, dude. That's the only way to get things right. But hey, be careful in doing so. It might be too much to ask but believe me, you'll need ounces of patience and tons of prudent speech as this maybe a sensitive ish. He probably needs to shower more often so he wouldn't have to do that again. Good luck! =)
748716
Are you serious???  NO MAN, yours or hers, should ever come between you and your child!!!  What is wrong with you???  You need to quit being so self centered and act your age.  This should not even be a question.  This should never even be something that any GOOD parent would ever dream of considering.  GROW UP!!!
1170723
YES........  I would do it all over again.. Even though he can be a real pain in my ***, sometimes....  I have invested so much energy into him and the things we have overcome and survived through, have no doubt made us stronger and more committed to each other.  And the fact that he has given me the ~BEST part of him with our two beautiful baby girls.~  He is more beautiful today than the day we met and I thought he was oh wow so damn fine when we met. He charmed my pants right off of me... And I think that one big factor is that he still does........~  Thank you for the trip down memory lane.......!~  He will get a Special treat just because of you...........~   Sorry I guess that was too much information, wasn't it?!
711030
Who doesn't? I love my boy sooooooooooooo much!
923263
I think all parents involved need to sit down together and discuss this...it's a decision that could make or brake this boy. Make a list of pros and cons...hopefully you can come to a reasonable decision. I hope it works out for you.
1156108
You sound jealous to me!  You need to let him have a little bit of freedom!  If not, things that are bad, could happen!
636570
YOu are going to get some good answers for this one... I have one that my son did tho\n\nWhen me and my hubby started dating my son was 6. One day after thay had started getting to be really good friends(my son and hubby) Chris, my son jumped up in my hubbys lap and LET ONE RIP!! I said " that was rude!!! HE IS NEW. dont do that" My son(very embaressed and laughting hastericly) says back to me " He's not new anymore!!!
479344
Yes. You need to communicate better with the son, and your girlfriend. If you tell someone you are going to be somewhere, but something comes up, call and say so. Perhaps the 2 of you weren't on the same page. You thought she'd be ok, and she thought you'd be with her. Nobody's wrong, you just didn't see the situatuion the same way. That's called life. Right now, or as soon as possible, go over to their house. Sit the mom and son down. tell them that you know they are feeling slighted, but they need to know that wasn't at all your intention. You were overwhelmed with responsibility at the time, and you should ALL do a better job expressing expectations. A SIMPLE CALL FROM EITHER ONE OF YOU TO PUT YOURSELVES "ON THE SAME PAGE". Even if you disagree, at least the other person will know where you stand and know that there was no bad intention. the son actually sounds like a pretty good communicator for his age!!! Tell them that you love them and you feel terrible that they were upset.Often, when we take the responsibility, it opens up the other person's eyes to the fact that this was not something that you should turn into a bad situation, and we are all human.\nBy theway, the $ issue. tell her exactly what you told us. tell her you'd love to lavish her like the queen she is to you, and give her lots of attention.
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You answered your own question within the body of the explanation-you said "My daughter is 3 months old and I can't do it without them" -- sounds like you have made your decision, which it is YOUR DECISION! Major decisions like this shouldn't be made on a yahoo forum. Why not talk to all of the family and your boyfriend and explain to them how they are tearing you apart and ask for suggestions from the people involved? A solution just might present itself.
327100
Sounds like he wants you to be his mother.  I would just go seperate ways.  Good luck.