How do I know if my boyfriend has lost interest in me?How do I keep him interested?
149246
You will know if he doesnt call you like he use to and doesnt come by all the time like he used to.  You have to change up to keep him interested. Like instead of doing your own hair go to the hair dresser and look so good that someone will ask " where are you going" that will keep him interested.
528367
hmmm!. Ask yourself, has he mended his ways, or is he going to try a different approach to the same old games, those are the important question one ask when your trust been violated, now if he was just slow to giving you all he has to give to this relationship, as you have, then maybe, just maybe he will pick up the pace and be more serious about this go as you are, GOOD LUCK< girl you watch him anyway
629506
YOu need to go out with him more to find out his level of interest. Of course, he likes you now or else he wouldn't be spending time with you. The question is, how much does he like you?
334356
Well, if he's interested, but shy, you might catch glimpses of him staring at you, he might ask you if you have a boyfriend or something... If he's just not interested, he'll just say 'hi' and that's it. Keep him under observation, and see the way he treats you.
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
34020
I think if he loves you, it's not hard to motivate him. You yourself, and your relationship should be a great motivation to him.  \n\nThis could be a good test to find out how much he loves you ...\n\nTry to let him know that you don't appreciate he's not doing much. Ask him about his plans for career and future life. \nTell him that you care and will support him in his decisions. \n\nIf he shows zero interest in these things, he probably isn't  falling for you much, and it's up to you to consider whether to stay with him, or whether it's time to say goodbye.
212723
I agree, stop the sexual part of the relationship and see if he still comes around. If he is willing to still date knowing he isn't getting any, then he is interested. If not, then yeah you were a booty call, which then you should kick him to the curb and find someone you deserve. Good Luck!
49022
Let him go if he's not interested you can't do a lot about it.  Find someone who cares about you
694009
If the relationship is new, it may just be that.  I would ask him, tell him and see what he says.  It may be that he is picking up little clues and gathering the information, or it may be that he isn't interested.  Talking to him is your best bet.
578562
It seems like something is bugging him. Whether it be someone else (hopefully not), or he's just not interested anymore, make sure you find out the truth. It somewhat seems like you're not interested either. Talk to him and his friends. Maybe it's just not going to work out. But good luck with whatever happens!
123727
Show him how much you care about him. Whether he is your boyfriend, or just a friend, let him know that there is someone who cares about him.
259732
You should just move on, while you are with him you might be missing out on the right man for you. It sounds like you and your boyfriend aren't really in the relationship anymore anyway, you're settling, you're just in it because it is comfortable.
403352
Trust me... he'll appreciate knowing.  He probably doesn't want to feel embarassed or waste his time if you're not going to give in.\n\nJust be nice...  Tell him you're not interested.
1166790
he's probaly not calling because he isnt interested in you anymore and doesnt want to give you the hope that something is still there in the relationship...
745051
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
663949
About time, you asked what he thinks of you. It seems that you have slipped into that friendship realm, not the boyfriend one.\nUnless some change is made, that's all it will ever be.\nSpeak up, and ask him outright.
549220
just let him know how you feel. that you love him and your not trying to be mean or rude but things are starting to get alittle boring. give some suggestions of things that he could do to make things better. tell him things you want so he'll have an idea. and then say i love you but please think about what i'm telling you.