Some 1 claimed sexual harrassment on me because im gay and they didn't like me! what do I do?
142950
You have grounds for a lawsuit!  That's discrimination in its purest and truest form, so I would be contacting an attorney right away and check into any legal action you may have a right to.
590737
You are gay and you hate gay people?\n\nDamn, you have serious issues. You should see a psychiatrist.
828922
That is tricky.  What kind of history do you have with the person?  Is the person known to be violent?  What is the context?  Sometimes you should ignore it and go on.  Sometimes you should take it very seriously and seek legal help.  If you genuinely fear for your safety, have a restraining order filed against the individual.  If the person has attempted to harm you, file charges with the police.  It helps if there are witnesses.  If you are at work, let your employer/supervisor know immediately.  If you are not provided a safe work environment, you can file a sexual harassment complaint.  I know, it's not sexual; but it falls under sexual harassment anyway.
960530
i joined the gay straight alliance, and someone told me "you cant ally with the gays... theyre just... too gay."  i didnt like them much personally, and any respect i had for them instantly vanished.
385293
Do you realize that posting a perons name and making accusations like you did, is illegal. If this person were to find out you have done this, he would be very smart to initiate a law suit against you. You might want to consider taking his name out, and maybe not worrying so much about the sexual orientaion of your co-workers.
749390
u say it how it is\n\nand if they dont accept your for ur sexuality then they aren't ur eal friends
1169991
Well you shouldn't feel uncomfortable, (but most guys are homophobic) Just tell them nicely that you are not interested or that you have a girlfriend. They will get the point, no need to bash on them. Respect others that are different from you.
47857
Tell them "I'm offended by that." Could fall under the sexual harrassment category (but it doesn't have to be sexual). \nOnce they've been notified, you are free to escalate. Supervisor can't ignore it if you have told them. This can lead to civil rights and right-to-work issues. HTH!
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
813748
Say this to him " If you keep bothering me I WILL GO THE THE PRINCIPLE'S OFFICE AND REPORT YOU AND I WILL NOT HESITATE TO THE POLICE DEPT AND FILE SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND STALKING CHARGES AGAINST AND HAVE YOU ARRESTED !!!!!HAVE A FRIEND OR TWO AROUND AS WITNESS TO WHAT YOU SAID. And if he doesn't heed this warning follow through with what I said. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU
105607
u should figure out why they don't like this person, do they have any objective treasons. if there are no objective reasons, thay are jelaous, it's normal. they don't want to loose u. but don't let them to rule ur life
699187
They won't listen to you honestly.... sorry to say. SO wait it out, take their remarks and comments, and when they're through thinking your a perve, they'll come around.
626876
I am sure your are a guy and you are gay!! LOL\n\nand all these people have fallen for your trap!
800014
You shouldn't let them do this to you. It was just a game and you didn't do that because you wanted to, it was a dare! You should tell your friend that you really love that he shouldn't get mad at you because of a game, and you should also tell the other guy that he shouldn't be mad at you either its not like he's got something you want, because it was just a game. Make sure that you let them see that you are above it all, you did what they dared you to do and you shouldn't get punished for it. The boy you really like will come around, just make sure to be really nice and friendly to him, but don't make it seem like you are feeling bad about what happen. Remember, it was just a game!
604621
That is DEFINATELY sexual harassment.\n\nIf the situation made you that uncomfortable, and if you feel like in the future he will repeat it, then go directly to your boss. If you don't want to get him in trouble, and feel like you won't be threatened in the future, then talk to him, and tell him that you will NOT accept his behavior, and ask him to please stop making those sexually harassing comments, gestures, whatever.
6910
If that happens to you Don't sit like a statue and try to laugh with them too. And tell them what kind of you are and tell him (whom you don't like) why you don't like him. and tell him that may be everybody thinks the way you thinks. \n====================================================\nThis works well, I have done this for so many, who teased me.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.