Is it hard to marry a 23 years old girl when we are 35? what do girls think about it?
149921
Theres nothing wrong with that.A lot of girls like older men.They usually know how 2 treat a lady.
488890
if ever i get marry with my present boyfren its gonna be something shocking for my frens and family  because im 26 and my boyfren wants to marry me and guess how old is he?\n19 years old....
919553
I am 23 and just broke up with someone who was 52 why do you want someone younger? i think its fine as long as both people are okay with it you can email me if you want allison_buchanan2003@yahoo.com
452700
I dated and married a 24 year old when I was 18. Go for it!
483978
Is 18 to young to get engaged, i don't think so . have fun with that part.But is 20 to young to get married? well for some people it might be,there are some that get married at that age and are still together and thy were in love and they took that person for better or worse till death do them apart, but there are some out there that should never get MARRIED out there ,they don't no what it really means. And if your worry about missing out on life,you sure don't need to get married. i waited till i was 28 till i got married and that's when life began.
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
454764
Give yourself until 40 unless you want kids. At 40 you're more settled in your ways and it'll be a new adventure for the two of you. Would you be marrying for convenience, to have a partner to do things with? If so, I wouldn't get married. Keep your friendship. It'll probably last longer than a marriage.
408705
i don't think love should be ever judged by the age of the 2 persons involved in a relationship. most people think age difference is a big factor. however, the deal is if you will get along fine in the long run, if your differences compliment each other in a positive way, and if you try to overcome your differences in a positive way.\n\ni know you're thinking if there's something wrong with getting married at the age 17 or 22, and why people are kinda discouraging you from this.\n\nthe reason is that they're just concerned that you might just be too overwhelmed by the situation. and their concern is for you to try to see the other side of things, or the other possible things that you might still experience as a single person.\n\nmarrying is a big responsibility, regardless of age. some are being too reckless to marry, because there's divorce, so they just go ahead and do it, unprepared internally.\n\ni have read somewhere that there's these 2 teens married at a very young age. but they did it out of pure love. they attended college together, pursued their own degrees, sustaining their family (at the time, they decided not to bear a child, because they're supporting their education on their own). and they did that out of love.\n\nso i guess my say is, if you're really sure enough you really love your partner-in-life-to-be, go ahead and marry. but be sure to face the life of a married person. it's gonna be harder, but then, just bear in mind, that you chose to decide to marry because you love the person. and even if it's gonna be a tougher life, stick to it and do your best to make the married life work.\n\nkey to a good marriage? respect for each other and continuous acceptance and understanding for the other, bearing in mind that there's always room for improvement. =)
568651
no problem at all\n\nage is not at all a criteria for marriage. only criteria is mutual understanding.\n\nshe can be any years older to u, only thing u should look is she should be healthy. 2months or 2years is not at all a criteria.\n\nbe happy
333453
If you are looking for a long term relationship...marriage down the line, I would seriously consider the fact that most men in their latter years prefer a younger woman.  90% that is.  \n\nIn other words, when you are 50, he will be looking 35 year old women.  If you don't believe me, just ask your older female friends.
54442
Well, it depends.  If you are 20 and he is 23, no.  If your 11 and he's 14, yes.  If your 11 and he's 23, there's something wrong with you.  You generally need to stay in your own age group from 11-17 years old.  Once your old enough to marry, it doesn't really have a limit.  Unless your 30 and he's 60. >.< The general reason is because 11 year olds and 17 year olds think and want different things.  It's also illegal for a 17 year old to embrace an 11 year old.  \n\n~*Jesus take the wheel*~
900586
Personally I believe when you really love someone, I don't think age is a problem. It is more of whether both of you can communicate with each other and both have you must be able to accept each other.
104893
There is a 15 year difference between my fiance and I. I dont think age really matters if you can get along and everything is copacetic go for it.
174247
I've got another 4 plus years to go to get to 45.  But if I was single at that point and I met a 25 year old I would at least consider it.  I could never do the whole trophy wife thing though, it would have to be about real love and all the same things would apply to her as they would equally to anyone my own age.  There has to be an attraction factor looks wise, and there has to be a very strong connection personality wise.  I think the age difference could pose some issues to having a relationship but I don't think that it would be impossible to over come them or work through them.
380139
My husband and I just celebrated our 9th anniversary...He was 19 when we married and I was 20...we have an 8 year old son and are trying for another...(wish us luck:),,,Marriage is not so much about age but compatibility and the willingness to work out the bad times...every marriage has its ups and downs....just marry your best friend and you should be ok....xoxoxoturtlegirl
16860
there is a generation gap between the 2 of you.  she was 23 and you were 52 when you got married.  her interests, goals, values etc are probably different than yours.
83226
Not necessarily.  You just need to be careful, because marriage is a big thing.  I am assuming from your nick that you are a girl so..... Marriage at any age is a big thing and not to be taken lightly.  I have to agree with the other person that answered and said as long as you feel that it won't be an obstacle for you later then, no you are not too young.\n\nWhy don't you ask yourselves these questions and then maybe you can come to the answer to your question:\n\nApart from being in love with this man and feeling all the tingles and so on, do you see yourself living with this person for the rest of your life?\n\nImportant: Do you two have the same religous beliefs, morals standards , etc...to build a solid foundation and therefore later on stability for your children? \n\nWould you die for this man?  ( I know this question is a bit harsh, but you know what, my bestfriend asked me that when I was deciding whether to get married...it really sheds a light on things).\n\nMarriage isn't all tingles...babies come along, diapers, bills, arguments, etc....if you two can go through all that, then that's really LOVE.\n\nHope I didn't confuse you.