i am 40 HE is 26. yet HE is asleep and i am sexually frustrated. i have a HIGH sex drive & no one can keep up,
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When you say no one can keep up, you are wrong because my sex drive is off the charts, I can do it non stop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I am a 44year old female, 14 years old the first time.\nI am hitting my prime, maybe have been since early 30s. It's been my experience that men hit their prime from 16 to maybe 25 - all downhill from there (sorry guys!!)  I am experiencing an increase in my sex drive & am very much more aware of my own sensuality & sexual self at this time in my life. I've never experienced any dysfunction but have been with several partners who have. (not fun)  I am a lot freer to experiment & enjoy - I'd love to take advantage of that but lack a steady partner at this point in my life. (gotta fix that, soon!) I've always been highly sexed, from my teen years & I don't see it slowing down any time soon. E-mail me if you want more details - I'd be delighted to provide you with information for your research.
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take a look at the response i gave to the guy that is 24yrs old and has sex drive issues.
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The fact that he falls asleep when his head hits the pillow isn't nearly  as much concern as to why you are barely intimate.  The relationship should not be quite as hot & heavy as it first was but there should still be something going on.\n Is his job stressful?  Is he working really long hours?  Is his job very physical?  Has your sexual appetites always been different?  Has this always been a problem & you thought it would get better?  Was he abused as a child?\n\nThere's so much that could be going on.  The two of you need to talk about this.
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The age thing alone can be a problem....because he would be in trouble since you are so young... But besides the age difference, there could be other problems. I understand how you feel about his and the masochism. I have a strong masochistic nature too. Regardless of the age, this type of relationship can be unhealthy. There is alot of psychological manipulation behind it.....some negative, and in your young age you may not be able to cope with some of that. I was 23 when i was in a relationship like this...i even married him, but it is very tough on your emotional and mental state.....be prepared. My hubby and i aren't together any longer, and i am struggling to maintain a life with some of the psychological "results" of my past relationships..... just be careful....please!
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I have to kids and one on the way. Let me let you ladies know that my husband complains about my sex drive being too high..I'm 23 and he's 26 and I always want sex. So when I get it usually its good if not I tell him that he sucked in the bed and i'm sleeping downstairs. To answer the question.. every chance I can get it, but usually every 3 days.
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I don't intend to me mean, but it sounds like the issue is yours and not his.  Okay - so he isn't as affectionate, but he sounds affectionate enough.\n\nHe isn't the same guy he was years ago.  Let's face it, the testosterone levels of a 20-yr. old would kill him today.  His body just couldn't take it.\n\nLook - talk to him about it - let him know your needs.  It sounds like he will do what he can to accommodate.  However, if he really loves you and takes good care of your kid, you have it better than 90% of the rest of us.  Be happy in that.\n\nGood luck.\nC
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Girl don't fret it!!  I turned 24 in November...I had a very low if any sex drive! Now I'm a horn ball!!! ALSO....  Once I started to "expieriment" (for lack of better words) with my body, the most my sex drive went up...Girls don't hit their sexual prime until they're in there mid to late 20's...you've got time!!  For a right now solution....try watching a dirty movie, or reading a romance novel...it use to help me!!  GOOD LUCK HONEY!!!
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Was he like this when you first got married? Has his sex drive dropped or stayed the same? Some men don't have a very active libido. It's usually hormonal.\n\nIf it isn't satisfying to you, try to suggest seeing a medical doctor.\n\nA person's sex drive is an individual thing. But for the record, your husband's does seem rather low for a newlywed guy. I had a friend who's husband was the same. He got help--against his wishes--but it worked.\n\nYou can't compare yourself with other couples, really, but  the average is about 3 times a week. We do it more often because my husband is a horn dog. As he ages, it is lessening though. We've been married for 20 years.
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It's time for some counseling!  If he won't go, you go!  You need someone to bounce things off and to get good solid objective input from.  \n\nHe may be in a personal slump himself.  If he has very little sex drive and is tired a lot, he might have low testosterone, it is not an uncommon condition.  Suggest he have a complete physical, just to make sure everything is okay, tell him you are concerned about him and want to make sure everything is all right physically.\n\nIt may be he is worried about a lot of things, and doesn't know how to communicate, or doesn't feel he should.  Guys often think they should be strong and keep things to themselves.\n\nWhat I am saying is, it might not be about you at all, though it is definitely affecting you.  And it could be that he doesn't like you bringing up the subject, so he pulls more into himself, and goes to the TV and computer to avoid interaction.\n\nI feel for you, I know this is a very difficult situation.  Don't just let it go on!  Get some outside help, at least to vent, and possibly to help the two of you communicate better.\n\nBest of luck to you!!
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well, let me tell you.  find yourself a 35 year old woman.  I am 35 and can't seem to get enough these days.  I am horny all the time, hubby can't keep up, have had to pursue other avenues.  good luck.
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I’m 58.  It can come with the territory. This is normal and more common than you might think.\nDon’t dwell on it.  This is the flip side of the hormone changes which is pushing the adolescents into “when am I gonna learn about sex?”\nIf it repeats and starts to disrupt you life, then seek some kind of help.  If it is just an occasional event, think about what this means to you and move on.
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Funny you should ask..lol...that's an issue I'm trying to work out with my boyfriend right now.  He says I want it too much (I want it every day!)  When he makes jokes that my sex drive is too high, it kind of makes me feel bad, like he doesn't want to have sex with me as much as I want to with him.  Some days I want it two or three times, but he says he's tired :(  We're both the same age, so I don't know what the problem is!
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I know how it feels I am 28 and feel the same way horney all the time. I am always ready for sex. Thats why I have to masturbate 5-6 times a day and some times 15 if i am all day free. It helps me a lot. I get real sex only occassionally from my GF. And she complain of Pain and tired ness because I do it for hours.
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Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
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My dear... just stop sleeping with him! under all circumstances!!! he will be nice in the beginning and soon will lose interest if he just wants to get some. do not settle for a such a man
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He needs to have his testosterone level checked some men especially those over 45 have low testosterone levels whichis the direct corolation to the sex drive.\nThis is the absolute first thing that needs to be checked b4 anything else. No testosterone = no drive\nAnd if thats the problem its a fairly easy fix