I have a former friend that is spreading rumors about me, saying I slept with her husband.?
140288
Ignore it. If someone is insensitive enough to ask, then just calmly deny it and go on. If you let it go, she will too.
264576
I would go to her and confront her about it.  I would also have the other people there she was telling this stuff to there also.  See who is the liar.
733592
as she's your friend, you should'nt lie to her. once you lie, you have to cover it up with a bigger lie and you'll soon get into trouble.
776316
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
709223
You must let them both go. A friend had this happen to her also and they got together got married had two kids and now they are in divorce court. She never got over the fact that her g/f did this to her, but now she sees that she mulled way too long over this. I would not be friends with her anymore as you may never be able to trust her.
714683
I think you have every right to be mad, and very, very suspicious. And you had every right to voice your concern, because you just wanted to know what was going on, and if your best friend and your husband really care about you, this wouldn't be such a big issue: They shouldn't be mad about telling you the truth. I honestly feel that their anger is because they are hiding something. Keep in mind, pot does impair your judgement, no matter how many people try to tell you it doesn't. I would suggest talking to your husband one on one, let him know how you feel about the situation, and maybe suggest marital counseling. I hope everything works out for you, and remember that you are in the right about this! Good luck!
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
720686
Sit her down and explain to her that although she told you that she didn't want to hear anything about your past, you feel that it is important to tell her something. Once you have her attention tell her that you were married. I'm sure she will understand why you told her and hopefully the two of you can talk it over and maybe even forget about it after you break the news! Good luck!
1169279
So what if they are just friends. Your a little jelious and way to suspicisous unless you have reason to believe there is something more going on. But seeing that you know about it she must have showed it to you or told you about it. So really whats the problem.
395347
Lying is just plan WRONG!\nThe best thing that the ex-husband and his new love can do is file restraining order to keep her away from them and a peace bond to keep her off their property. I the ex did not start the whole thing, people will realize it soon enough. And if she is lying, what comes around goes around. She will get her just due in time. It is part of life.\nI had a Motor Sgt. came in new to a unit where I was stationed. Before he got there I had 1 counseling over 4 years, in 6 months he wrote me up 2 or 3 dozen times. He tried to get me burned and failed. I finally move on to another duty station. Several years later I saw him, he was taking an early release from the military because his wife was divorcing him and his boy was in prison for drugs. If he would have just treated people with respect, What could have been!!!!
1181659
Tell her to fess up to whatever she was untruthful about.  Its not good to deceive anyone especially someone you have feelings for.
718881
If your friend's wife was operated on before he married her and he knew about it and married her anyway, then your friend is being a complete JERK and he never really loved her anyway. \n\nIf he was deceived in this matter, then okay, I understand. \n\nTo answer your question, in this day and age anyone can get divorced for any reason.
639935
One thing if she is lying about him something is wrong, but if he is a old friend then maybe your making her feel bad and she knows you will get angry about it so she lies. Not good but sometimes we all tend to do that...
844031
I think she has an integrity issue and I think you should leave her alone.  It also occurs to me that if anything came of you and her, wouldn't everyone know?  I think she's toying with you and seeking a little more gossip to spread.\n\nSorry sweetie.  There are really good girls out there and you deserve so much better than this.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
246012
If she has seen the evidence and still refuses to believe the facts, then there is nothing else you can do. If you keep pushing the subject she could get angry with you and you could lose a friend. And keep in mind that it IS possible you and other friends have misread his actions. But if in the end, she realizes what has happened, just be sure to comfort her and avoid telling her, "I told you so."
914975
Yes she did and she should tell her husband. You, on the other hand, need to stay out of it.