What am I doing wrong? Guys help!!!!!!!????????????
152707
I guess you already had sex at 13. By 20, you'll have as many kids as you have siblings, each one fathered by a different guy. Pathetic.
87382
Knowing the problem is 70% of the solution.  STOP BEING NEEDY!  Like yourself and depend on yourself so that you don't need to "need" a man....then you'll ENJOY a man's company.  They stick around longer if you do this!
661790
Sorry honey, guys must do the first move, and if he did not do it it means he wants you only as a friend.\nNowdays women are becoming too open and agressive, and guys miss the magic of hunting and courting!!! we are cutting off their attributes.\nSo, sorry, but step back, keep him as friend and put your interest somewere else, in the meantime be sweet and nice to him, be always very well put together when you meet, so in this way, did not work with him sentimentally, you always will have a great supporter on him. Please, remember, be a real femminine woman "NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE"
300820
He REJECTED you. Well honey, that's his lose NOT yours. Move on as I know you can get a better guy. Hell, there is probably a line of guys waiting outside your door right now. Look, go see.
1178301
i have a question for u. how old are u girls and how old is this guy? If u girls are under 18 and he is 18 or older u should report this guy immediately.\nto answer your question, i would fall into the category of a guy who might think about doing something like that but never actually do it. I'd be too concerned with a)rejection and b) freaking a chick out. u should ask yourself why  you'd wanna give the time of day to a guy who flirts with u, then ask your friend for a hand job. does that sound like the type of guy u want for a BF?
1011393
Start wearing sexy clothes....\nKeep in mind that Men are pigs !!\nFor more suggestions, stay in touch at \nmanish_p_66@yahoo.com
874167
Yeah, tell him girl! u have nothing to lose! I know it's going to b embarassing afterwards if he doesn't answer or he says "no", but really, that's still ok, things will b fine in a few days! u can still work to impress him or go for another guy later. But imagine if he likes u back! If you can't work up the courage to ask him face to face, write him a letter, tell him on msn, tell a friend to tell him, get to know him better... Really, there's nothing wrong with telling him u like him, but if he accepts, don't forget to ask him to a movie or something, or u guys might b just hanging there not knowing what to do after. Bottom line is, go for it, be romantic!
650005
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
908043
coming from a guys point of view, try not to insult him if he doesnt know your playing around. You should be yourself i dont like girls that change to try and make me like them (Only happened once) and if u do have to change who you are i dont think hes the right guy. as for those other girls if you suceed in getting with this guy watch out girls can be mean if there jealous (not trying to stereotype) \nGood luck
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
1183444
Find another guy.  \n\nUnless he's inexperienced with girls and/or somewhat shy (in which case, maybe you should call him and help him along), he's not calling because he's not interested in you in that way.
509509
Ask him out. Give him a call. It's ok for girls to approach guys. Sometimes guys just don't know that you're interested. Who knows, maybe he's nervous too and just doesn't know how to approach you about going out
387795
Ask him yourself.  Don't pay someone to do it for you.  If you like a guy, express it, communicate it and if he isn't interested, move on.  Don't waste time on him.  Ultimately, it is for your benefit to get together with this guy and it is best if you try to get over some of your shyness.  You never will if you don't try.  Good luck.
1140183
He is Up 2 No Good!!!!!!!! This is called DANGER!!!!!!!!! No Girl Will Have A Guy That Does That Type Of Flirting, Keep Fishing There is More Out There Besides That Jerk!!!!!!
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
457835
Guys always wait to call - You problem caught him off guard by dialing his digits back.  He Probly wasn't ready for a voice to voice conversation.  You should have text him back - girls are notorious for jumping the gun - however with that said - chill - wait a couple of days and think of something funny and text him - he'll respond - he probly feels awkward too because the conversation didn't go so well.