why a loving gay towife asked for divorce?
156059
Because he could no longer live a lie.  He had to be with a person  that corresponded to his dreams.
661825
He wants his cake and eat it too.  If he did not ask you to marry him and you all were obviously in some sort of relationship/friendship(so you thought) and he did the mentioned above, that says alot about his character.  He's a loser, want-to-be playa, cheat, liar, etc.  Why would you want that friendship again? Friends like that, who needs enemies.
161538
"Desperation is a stinky cologne"... I was desperate about 3 years ago.  It was the ugliest thing you ever saw.  Divorce is always ugly... but let me tell you that if a woman has made up her mind about a divorce... its made up.  To make it worse, she decided a long time before she actually told you so it's set in her mind and it won't be undone.  My ex told me we wouldn't be getting divorced if had done this or hadn't done that and the more I worked on those things... the angrier she became.  Why, because she made up her mind a long time ago and and she doesn't want you screwing up her justifications.  Let her go do what ever she is going to do and you just work on getting back to God... because that could be all that saves you from doing "something very stupid"... I can hear it in your voice.  I could go on, but I really just want to answer the question you posed "what to do when my wife loves another and kicks me out but i still love her?"... You have to pray for God to show you what he wants you to get out of this and to pray for her and the well being of your children.  Don't worry about her love right now... just God's and you will be in a much better place a year or so from now.
1126489
You have to now figure out if this is good for you.  She apparently doesn't know what she wants.  Either she's fearful of the life that could include being with the same person until death, or she can't handle being faithful.  She's hurting you, but does she realize it?  Have you ever just sat down with her to figure out what the deal is?  I'm sorry to say that I think a divorce would be the best thing.  She obviously has some issues, and no one can get through to her.
763342
before you go the divorce route like everyone is doing lately have you tried to work it out. if you did then i think he wants to have his cake and eat it too. but at the same time he is doing what he wants r you? you both have to give a 100%. try counseling!
668475
I would think this was something to get clear on before entering a second marriage. \n\nIs there some reason why he is objecting? Do you have a good reason to talk to your ex? Do you share children, property, etc?\n\nSit down when both of you are relaxed not angry about anything and see if you can just talk it out.
303270
For the same reason straight people want to join.  No, gay does not "come with love everybody peace to all fagity mentality".
871129
why did you get divorced in the first palce? I think you know the anser in your heart of what you want to do, especially if you had to ask online. She does not sound worth it, let her go and find someone that will make you very happy
651015
IM BISEXUAL AND LOVE A MARRIED MAN. STRANGE RIGHT? I KNOW. NO SEX INVOLVED. THIS IS A STICKY SITUATION AND ONE THAT SHOULD NOT INVOLVE YOU. IM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HIM. HE NEEDS SPACE AND HE MADE THIS PART OF THE MESS AND PROBABLY DOESN'T WANT TO SUBJECT YOU TO THE FUCKING DRAMA.MY ADVISE IS TO LEAVE AND MOVE OUT. HE NEEDS TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS AND YOU LET HIM. IF HE LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE HIM THINGS WILL WORK THEMSELVES OUT. IF NOT, THEN YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE. EVER HEARD "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR"? I GUESS IT IS.YOU WALK OUT AND SAY GIVE IT A YEAR, CAUSE DIVORCE IS MESSY.AND IN THIS CASE IT DEFINITELY IS. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE LET THEM GO. IF THEY COME BACK TO YOU THEN....THEY ARE YOURS..{SMILE I KNOW YOU ARE SAD} . BE STRONG GIRL,LOL HOPE THIS HELPS.LOL MEXXXI
80753
It's not the woman's fault, the man was always gay and knew it, he just wasn't ready to come out the closet or ready to admit to everyone that he was into men. Nothing wrong with realizing who your are, but in these type of situations someone always gets hurt.
291769
Maybe because it's genetic and not a choice.\n\nYou should worry more about saving your own imperfect a s s rather than casting judgment on the gay community.
973896
Most definitely, they should. I've known/known of gay couples who have been together in loving, monogamous relationships for decades. They are better examples of how to having a loving, compassionate partnership, which is more than anyone can say for the majority of heterosexual couples (one look at the divorce rate will tell you this). There is absolutely no reason to say that heterosexual couples can offer a more stable, caring environment for a child, simply because they have sex with a member of the opposite sex. Ask the many, many anti-homosexual rights congressman with 4 or more marriages under their belts if stability and love are sure bets in hetero relationships. Seriously.\n\nAlso, there is no proof that a single gay man or woman cannot provide a loving home for a child which desperately needs one. Being the product of a single mother home, I can personally attest to the fact that it is in no way necessary to have a mother *and* father. If there is love, a child will thrive. And one could reason that homosexual parents would be best for this task, seeing as they treasure the opportunity to share love with each other, as well as children, more than your average heterosexual. It could also be argued that these couples will provide an extremely important testement to acceptance, and holding an open mind. Children cannot learn enough about this essential part of being a kind, loving, human being. If they don't learn this, they become the sort of people who go around websites like this one, condemming people they've never met, and know nothing about.\n\nStill not sure? Ask the thousands upon thousands of children who await adoption around the country. I can promise you that no 7 year old child is going to say "No thank you, Gay people shouldn't adopt. I'll go ahead and remain an orphan."
1076875
Just because he didnt have sex with you or the other woman doesnt make him gay. That is jumping to conclusions. Perhaps he was emotional issues?  Perhaps he kept thinking about an ex-girlfriend? Perhaps he just wasn't attracted to you guys???  There are countless scenarios.
759909
If a gay married couple were to move in to my neighborhood, next door to my house, it would be the end of my marriage.\n\nMy marriage is that fragile.\n\nreally.\n\nAnd my box turtle is terrified!
945772
Did they say that he resigned because of a GAY PROSTITUTION SCANDAL!   \n\nThat just can't be!!!!\n\nHe told me that he only used HETROSEXUAL DATING SERVICES, like mine!   \n\nWe were going to be married!!!\n\nWhat are you saying about my sweet Teddy boy?\n\nDoes this mean that I'm going to have to call the wedding off!!!\n\nDevastated and in tears......Donna
404154
There is something called a Holy Union.  In Vegas you can have a ceremony; just like a wedding(gay people do it all the time).  It is not a marriage, but it is recognized as a "union"; like a marriage.  You will still have to have another ceremony once he is divorced; a marriage ceremony in the future.  A Holy Union is a way to declare your love for one-another; just like a marriage, if you can't have a marriage, yet................He needs to get divorced, so you can be together without all of the guilt.  Starting a union off with guilt will not be satisfying, whether it is a union or a marriage.  Good luck.
88667
I can`t tell you about your relationship,but I am a married man and have been separated for over a year,I am in a relationship with a much younger lady and I would get a divorce now if I thought she would have me.But I know that it would be too much to ask of her,with our age.\nLazyman614@yahoo.com