how to delay ejaculation?
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Just as you are building up to climax, smack the head of your unit with a brick.  It works like a charm!
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One of the easiest and most natural solutions is to sexually relieve yourself manually up to one hour before engaging in intercourse. The resolution phase may take awhile afterwards, but it should desensitize you enough to permit you to reach the goal of completing your mission-before you self destruct...
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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation\n\n\nWorried that you don't last long enough during sex? Feel like a “minute man”? Well, you’re not alone – not by a long shot. Premature ejaculation is the number one question we get here – more than penis size, more than pregnancy, more than STDs, more than anything. \n\nAn Army of Minute Men?\nOf course, you would never guess that premature ejaculation (PE) is so common, because nobody ever talks about it. Even if it’s really bugging them, most guys won’t even bring it up with their doctor. The truth is, almost every guy experiences this kind of tool trouble at least once or twice during his sexual career. And many, many more have an ongoing struggle with it. In fact, some statistics say 20 to 30% of all men experience PE. That’s around one in four. Way more guys have trouble with being too quick on the trigger than have a problem getting it up. That’s why we’re going to give you some straight answers on PE and what you can do about it. \n\nHow Long Should I Be Lasting? \nThe term “minute man” pretty much sums it up: if you shoot your wad in a minute or less after penetration, you probably have what would be called premature ejaculation. You might even come before you get it in. Technically, PE means you’re coming sooner than you want to or expect to during sex, you don’t have any control over it, and it’s stressing you out or making you feel bad. If you come in a couple of minutes, but you don’t mind and your girlfriend is cool with it, then there’s not really a problem. But if every sexual encounter climaxes with you saying to your date, “Oops, sorry,” then that qualifies as having a problem with PE. \n\nLet’s Get Real\nOf course, lots of guys have unrealistic expectations about how long they’re supposed to last while fucking, and even how long women want them to last. The guys in porn videos pound away for what looks like hours at a time, but that’s all staged. Like average penis size, stamina in bed is vastly overestimated. In real life, most men don’t really last all that long – some surveys put the average lasting time before ejaculation at about seven minutes, which means a lot of guys actually last less than that. If you’re young and amped up, three to four minutes is more like it. It’s simply not realistic to think that you should be able to fuck like a stallion for half an hour, then climax at will at the exact moment your expertly skilled thrusting brings your partner to a screaming orgasm. Believe us, it just doesn’t happen that way. And as far as what women want, the truth is, most women (60 to 70%) cannot come through fucking alone; even if you could go all night, they’d only get sore. So a few minutes of intercourse is probably enough as long as you can back it up with some other sexual skills like fingering and oral sex. \n\nWhat Causes Premature Ejaculation? \nIf you do have PE, there’s a small chance it’s being caused by a disease or a medication you’re taking, but this is rarely the case. Most of the time there is no clear reason for premature ejaculation, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes the majority of PE cases. Current theories focus on biochemical factors, such as how sensitive your nervous system is, or the role of the neurotransmitter serotonin. We can tell you for a fact what doesn’t cause PE. It is not caused by excessive masturbation, poor sexual technique, lack of willpower or control, or any personal inadequacy on your part. In other words, if you have PE, don’t blame yourself, and don’t worry too much about what’s causing it. Instead, focus on what you can do about it. \n\nProven Techniques for Lasting Longer\nProbably the most effective way of dealing with PE long term, and the treatment most commonly recommended by sexual experts, is using a method like the stop-start or pinch technique to slow down your reaction time once you get turned on. These methods have been devel
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1) A desentizing cream or lotion, but be advised that it can transfer over to the woman and cut her pleasure as well.\n\n2) Change of position. One that does not offer as much stimulation as another.\n\n3) Understanding the signals tha tyour body gives, so you can slow down, back off or stop altogether.\n\n4) There is a book out there called the Squeeze Technique witch helps in delaying orgasm, but I may not have the title right.
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This is what I do, and it works.\nI think about the girl. I focus on her needs. Delay cumming is a mind game. If he takes his mind off of cumming, he probably won't. He can think about fishing or homework. If he is thinking about a hot super model or you for example, he might cum right away. Usually, what feels good for her (like the position) doesn't get me going like it would for her. Try positions that stimulate you more and him less. Although, putting you mind on a different subject can prolong the orgasm. My record is two hours.
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if you pause just before you ejaculate and then carry on a minute or two after u can tend to carry oon a bit longer
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Practice not ejaculating. There are books you can read to help you not ejaculate too fast. Leave your foreskin alone! Read some sex books. Foreskin is very sexy! No you will not last longer if you get your wang hacked.!\nOnly with practice and lots of it will you last longer! Also talk to your doctor to make sure nothings wrong!
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Your jiz doesn't shoot across the room because there's no pressure behind it.  Try waiting a week before you jerk it.  If nothing changes, try spitting on your index finger on your other hand and pushing it up your bunghole while jerking, and put pressure on the inside wall behind your penis.  This should quadruple the intensity, and you will come like a wildcat!  Enjoy your body!
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This is  called premature ejaculation. If you are young, masturbate half an hour before you engage in sex with a woman.\n\nDuring intercourse, when you are about to ejaculate, divert your thoughts. Think of your business for instance. \n\nSqueezing your scrotum when you are about to ejaculate can also help.\n\nMind control is the best remedy. \n\nNote many a marriage is ruined because of man's premature ejaculation. It is very important to give satisfaction to your partner.\n\nEngage is long foreplay to arouse your partner so that she climaxes soon after penetration.\n\nHope this helps.
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I am able to ejaculate 3-4 feet away from me each time.  The key is to strengthen your Kegel muscles by exercising them.   The Kegels are the same muscles you use when you pee.  You can do these exercises by either starting urinating and stopping midstream 5-10 times a day, or you can just do the same type of thing when you are not peeing.  It also helps to wait a couple of days between ejaculations to increase your semen volume.  A very strong sexual stimulus will help as well (whatever turns you on the most).
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From my experience... you can try a couple things. \n1. Try douching with warm water.\n2. Try masterbating/intercourse.  your "chemicals" have been know to speed up the menses. \nI use to play the "hurry it up" or "push it up" when I was on the BC pills for the weekends with B/f but that worked with pills. \nHowever, I dont think your can completely stop mother nature...once its started.  try hurrying it up.
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Try this.\n\nYa know that muscle at the base of your penis that can lift it up? Well seriously just practice that, while you're in the shower or whatever. \n\nAndn this one. While masterbating, when you're about to orgasm, that very first feeling, flex that muscle and stop soi you don't ejaculate, then repeat after a while you will be able to control it with that muscle, just try that.\n\n\nAlso, believe it or not a lot of it is mental, tell yourself you aren't gonna cum and you'll probably last longer.
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Hi,\nPremature ejaculation is can be cured,The treatment for premature ejeaculation is as under.\n\nThe following techniques will be  beneficial in delaying ejaculation:\nThe "stop and start" method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the 'Masters and Johnson method', is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.\n\nThe squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby "cancelling" the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.\n\nDesensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.\n\nThe couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.\n\nFeel free to contact\n\nEnjoy Life.\n\nDr.Mojo
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I don't think they can... I mean once they (the males) reach a certian peak, it's kind of difficult to shut it off or try to contain it.\n\nMy hubby has experimented alot with these things. He has told me there's a way to help limit the aftermath (i.e. ejaculation) but it doesn't work 100% since it's not possible to prevent an ejaculation once it has begun. Well there are ways, yes, but it isn't easy. It takes concentration, dicipline, and effort, as well as time to experiment. \n\nBasically my hubby can try to reduce his already massively powerful ejaculations to something a little more "normal", although even his so-called "softer" orgasms, he ejaculates much more than all men I've ever seen (except some older Peter North p*rn when he was in his prime). \n\nSo unless a guy has found a way to actually control the amount and volume he ejaculates, I still think men do not have dirrect control over their ejaculations... At least not in terms of controlling the volume and quantity!
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Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
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It's only a problem if you feel it's a problem, or if you feel unsatisfied all or most of the time. A old sex study by Kinsey reported that 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.   Many take longer, and a few ejaculate right away (called premature ejaculation). \n  \nTry to slow down, don't stroke so fast, and take long slow strokes with pauses between the strokes.  \n\nThere is a technique that might help you.  It's called the start-and-stop technique.  When you feel yourself starting to get close to orgasm, completely stop stroking until the feeling dies down enough that you no longer feel like you are going to pop right away.  Then you can start up again.  Do this start-and-stop method for a while until you can't stand it, then let the orgasm happen.  \n\nIt may not work right away, as you are used to climaxing quickly, but keep practicing, and keep trying to slow down.  Eventually you should be able to make the masturbation session last longer. When you hold off for a while, the orgasm often feels stronger and much better.\n\nPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for young men, so don't be worried. In fact, some men would love to be able to orgasm faster, since as you get older, it sometimes takes longer to climax.  Also, try different masturbation techiques, as some may work better for you.  Check out JackinWorld (the "Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource.")  The bottom line is: slow down, make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to yourself, and take the time to really enjoy your masturbation session.\n\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com
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Picture the ugliest woman you could think of naked. Roseanne Arnold is a good example or:\n\nIn many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation.\n\nYour health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation. \n\nMedications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor medications (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medications are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use.