Playing hard to get turns me off, How can i deal with it?
137801
If you're a guy that judges by what people say, you're in for a world of hurt and not just in the dating game.  When you buy a car, do you just listen for the salesman or do you check out the product?  Do you honestly believe every advertising claim on TV?  Unless you're a complete idiot, you don't.  The same way that what people say in relationships should never be taken at face value, and it goes double with women.  What they say, what they do, why they think they are saying or doing, and the real motivations behind what they do are ALL completely different things.  You need to become a Sherlock Holmes to figure it out, but there are resources available to help you learn this skill.  Try the link below to get you started.
367352
You have a tendency to punish him when he gives you what you want. That will make him close up and communication will be next to impossible. I'm sure you don't do it maliciously, but you should stop to think how what you say might be perceived.
805914
I have the same problem but my friend is quite forward and she is rubbing off on me. If you know the person may be interested in you then make the move. No one likes rejection but you just have to be confident in YOURSELF, thats the first thing to work on.
733125
If you're not being natural it'll never work. \n\nLook her in the eyes a lot. Look at her mouth when she's talking, touch her hand gently then later when things heat up hold it like you mean it.\n\nIf she resists you then you need to get her off the subject of whatever it is your trying to do to her. You need to get her wanting you without you making it clear you're going to give it to her.\n\nEither that or get her drunk.
869616
There are some lines i don't cross.  \nDating anyone at work is a no no.\n\nSure at work things fly around in the work place...  \nBut you are responding to them, in other words accepting the game and playing with him in this flirting..\n \nMaybe the best bet would be. dont respond every email or message that is sent. It will die down slowly..\nI can understand you dont want it to put up a brick wall.. \nAs You might loose your job. But at the same time.. \nif he presses you for a reply, Just brushing it off as a joke. \nThis can work just as well. It saves face for him as well as yourself.. \n\nBe careful.  You dont want to scream sexual harassment..  \nNot when your responding and playing the game with him.\nBecause if you do, he will throw it back to you.\n\nSo my suggestion would be, Just don't respond as much.. find work .. make yourself busy. And maybe find another job in the mean time. \n\nBlessings ALD
536369
No! play hard to get!!
67410
some people really only want what they cant have. i bet that u have alot of other good, quality guys that really like u ,but 4 some reason ur just not that attracted 2 them that way. he probly has some feelings 4 u but he knows that no matter what he does ur always gonna b there. so start thinking the same way. u should probly stay away from him as much as u can bear. try 2 ween ur self the best u can. but make sure that u really do have fun, though. if its really meant 2 be itll happen. but dont put ur fun and groth as a person on hold 4 a maybe.
965777
Actions speak louder than words if used correctly. Don't talk to him that much, say leave me alone if he bugs you alot. Basically... Be the opposite of what you were to attract him in the first place.
945824
Change it around, and YOU play hard to get.  If she really does like you, that will drive her wild then.  Just change the game around on her and see...
187942
some guys like girls to play hard to get. try flirting, before telling them exactly how you feel.
737760
I'm in the same boat as you... just use this time to re-center yourself.  Go out and just sit and have a beer by yourself.  Just sit and think.  A similar soul might approach you and share in your misery for a while.  Eventually, it will pass.  If you want a shortcut (which I'm not recommending); playing on a girl in a weak situation will make you feel powerful if a little guilty.  I am NOT advocating date rape of ANY SORT!  However, alot of guys are too nice for their own good and don't realize that a 24 year old woman is completely in control of her situation.  Smooth talking and being a player does not necessarily mean you are taking advantage of someone.  Girls like sex just as much as guys, and almost every girl worth her salt has some douchebag at home that they are on the rocks with.  In other words, go hook up with someone hot, by any means necessary short of physical force or breaking up a marriage.  It will boost your confidence in the short run, but don't forget the "re-centering your self" part.  It's the only way you will find true happiness.
559584
If u have tried n not sucessful in saying no.... next option is to avoid such people as they r not geninue in their relation they just using u and taking ur advantage... this is actually happen with me and i am telling u with my own experience... just have few friends rather have bulk who just take things for granted
850294
You are far too important than to be someone's play thing for a while.  Tease him and let him dangle, that's got to be more fun.
951223
from experience it really doesnt matter what you do in order to flirt with girls just as long you are confident while doing it. The biggest turn off girls tell me is a guy without confidence so just fake it even if you do not initially feel like a stud. Also all the love movies and shows are bullsh*t. All these cute lines that make the girl smile and fall in love with you on these shows will not happen. I hate to say it but the nice sweety guys will always finish last. Just go with the "take what is yours" mentallity and women will be after you instead of you going after them. Do not be so soft but instead be a little rough around the edges. Trust me, girls will not want to admit it most of the time but being too nice can also be a turn off and boring.
476888
I guess what we really want out of a potential g/f or wife is a bit of a challenge. If you're too aggressive those signs say you're giving it away too easy to be virtuous. Light flirting with a little withdrawal let's us know you're interested but discerning. Now the easy part, not wanting what we can have is a popular misconception. Keep us wanting. Take care of yourself. Maintain some drive. Stay healthy and trim if that's the way we found you. Nothing makes us refocus our desire for you like you being desired, especially by other men. But if you let it go, we can't fool ourselves into being attracted. It just won't happen. Oh, and have self-esteem, please.
238887
If she's playin hard to get then she'll still flirt a little, and give you quick glances. If she's really not interested them she'll probably tell you to back off.
490133
Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.