How do you report your husband for stealing your paycheck?
143395
As wrong as it was to do something like that, being that it was almost 10 years ago I believe it is too late but if you really want to pursue this, check with a lawyer, they would know what the statute on something like this would be
291459
talk to your attorney and go back to court........... his wages could be garnished until it is paid in full and his tax return could also be intercepted and paid to you for that debt
275335
It's shady alright.  Report him to the tax or labour authorities.
962082
There is one an only way to get your money or part of it back. In a very innocent way ask him to sell to you something valuable he owns, like a laptop or TV set. Tell him that you need this item and that you would pay him in a few days, (it is incredible but this kind of people almost always believe that) and do not pay him until he pays you.  I had done it many, times and believe me, it works.
490066
You could report it to the local police.  This also involves a federal offense... if you want your sister to go to federal jail then report if not give her a chance to pay your mother back and if not report it.  Let her know that you are VERY serious.\n\nI had this happen with my father.  I worked for two weeks and told him to send me the check I get in the mail.. since I was in college and paying for everything myself.  He takes the check of almost 300 dollars and cashes it and spends the money.  He dodged me for about three months... I could have reported him but he has paid me back some but not much.  Also, I've learned not to trust him like I used to.  I never lived with him, trusted him with anything important to me again.... so you live and you learn.  \n\nThink before you do something you might regret b/c God knows all and sees all... you dont have to be the judge.. God will do so.  Just try and get her to pay her back even if it's just 20 or 30 her and there... \n\nGood luck!
1053113
Report the theft to the police. Other than that, there isn't anything you can do unless he uses information on your license to commit a crime against you or otherwise. How much personal information was on the license? Be sure to let the police know, especially if you feel threatened. Best of luck.
298499
Unless he can show that your husband should have known the person would steal the paperwork(that'd be tough to prove), took the paperwork or misplaced the paperwork there's nothing that can be done.  Since he contacted the police there's a report to back him up.  Also in order to sue he'd have to show how he lost money because of the missing paperwork.  If all that happened was he got a slap on the hand from someone there's nothing for him to collect on.  \n\nNow my question is what were the "items" you found in the closet?  Was this the paperwork?  Was it items of value?
736817
I know a guy who gave his wife $ 75,000 cash on Monday. He pulled $ 5000 from the stack and deposited 1/2 of that in the bank. Spent the other 1/2. \n\nTuesday, the guy puts it inside a plastic crate & padlocks it for security. He leaves town for 3 days.\n\nBy Friday, wifey can't stand being locked out from the cash and cuts the box. Inside was a carefully taped together stack of color copies of $100 bills. \n\nWife is furious! Brings the photo copies to police to "prove" there used to be all that cash.\n\nPolice say husband having $ 75,000 cash is not a crime...But YOU could be in trouble for carrying around all this counterfit money.\n\nI'm just glad I didn't have to bail her out of jail!
889989
To those who claim it's the mans fault, he should have to pay, forget that it takes two totally comitted people to have a marriage.\n\nWhen a woman stone-walls her feelings, expects her husband to mind read, uses him for nothing more than an ATM and someone convienient for squashing bugs, and then has an affair, I'm wonding how much it can really be the man's fault in a situation like this.\n\nBut the truth is, neither is totally innocent or totally guilty in a broken marriage.\n\nGiven that women file 2/3rd of all divorce actions in the US, and are pretty certain they will get the kids unless they are hard core criminals,  I often wonder the same things.\n\nNot all me who end up divorced are cheaters.  Many more times than folks would like to admit, it was mom cheating, and she still gets the kids and child support.\n\nHowever, there is hope.  At least in my case, she didn't get sole custody, and she didn't get the house or 1/2 of everything.  She only got 1/2 of what we accumulated during the marriage.  Since I had documents going back to when I married showing my net worth then, all of those assets came off the table when it came time to split the marital property. \n\nWhat I owned before was NOT marital property and mine to keep.\n\nFrankly, I'm better off financially now, 3+ years after her affair came out and she left.\n\nShe is worse off financially.  Sure, her life looks nice, luxury apartment, new VW Beetle.  But she is living paycheck to paycheck, not always having money to do anything other than stay in her apartment and stare at the walls.\n\nBefore, we went on a couple of vacations / year, Disney, Vegas, Mackinac Island, DC, Vancouver Island, etc.  Now, she stays home, or goes when her lover can come into town and take her somewhere.\n\nI"m sure she's not saving anything for retirement, as her apartment costs more than my mortgage before I get to deduct the interest and everything.  \n\nYes, I kept the home!  We bought it together and I kept the home.\n\nI do think women shut you out when they divorce you.  Actually, long before.\n\nThey don't get everything, I'm proof of that.  I still believe I did more right than wrong, and certainly didn't deserve the treatment I got during the marriage and divorce.  But I do believe that what goes around, comes around.\n\nHer lover left a 30 year marriage to be with her and travels extensively for his job.\n\nHe will cheat her, or since he's much older than me, she'll be changing his Depends pretty soon, and I'll laugh sitting with my hot red-headed woman at the unwise ex-wife who left me for all that fun.
286895
I'm not a lawyer, but my mom's friend went through a similar situation. According to what they were told, if you have EVER given permission for your husband to drive this vehicle (or he had tacit permission), you can't report it stolen, even if the vehicle is in your name. You probably could report the cell phone stolen, but other than that (and this really stinks), you're probably out of luck. Maybe a lawyer will have better news. Sorry. :(\n\n<edit>\nYou wrote and said you didn't give him any permission to ever drive your car. I then went and did a bit of research online and found the link below. Basically, it says that, depending on where you live (laws vary from state to state), "(1) Community Property is Generally Defined in the Negative.  A married couple domiciled in a community property state is presumed to own all of their property as community or marital property, regardless of titling, absent:\n\n(a) An agreement to the contrary; or\n\n***(b) Proof that the property was brought into the marriage by either spouse, a gift received by either spouse, inherited by either spouse, or a spouse's separate property before the couple became domiciled in the community property state.  \n\nFurthermore, in Wisconsin, due to the fact that the marital property regime was recently enacted, classification depends heavily on whether the assets were acquired before or after "the determination date."  The determination date in Wisconsin is the last to occur of: (1) marriage, (2) date of establishment of domicile by both spouses in Wisconsin; or (3) January 1, 1986."\n\nSince you brought the car into the marriage and have proof in the title/registration that your car is, in fact, YOURS, I don't know why they won't let you report it stolen. You might call the district attorney's office and ask them. Best of luck!
491335
....you have to give more details.  "detaching pay" before court date?  Do you mean taking money from your check?  Why would they take money from your check?  Child support? what?  \nPlease explain the problem in more detail.
400213
Turn him in.  What he's doing is called tax fraud.  People like him are the reason we pay so much in taxes.  Seriously, I wish you wouldn't have even mentioned this, because now I'm going to be pi$$ed all day long.  I know of way too many people drawing disability and getting food stamps that work a few hours here and there and get paid cash.  They're worthless, lazy, no-count, welfare receiving, tax fraud bums that need to spend a little time locked up for their worthlessness.
555080
Have him come pick up the check.  Hand him the W-9 at that time.  When he gives it back he gets paid.
777943
Have his wages garnished! Plain and simple. If the state doesn't start collecting on his wages then they will press charges and he will go to jail. You could always find out who his supervisors superviors is and give them a piece of you mind if that doesn't work keep asking to talk to the supervisors supervisors until you get to the top.
322719
It's at least unfair.  But I'm wondering how that worked.  If he hired her just so he could lay her off, he is paying for the privilege, since his account with the unemployment compensation office is the one that is charged. [Edit:  Is he a middle manager in a company that is thus being bilked of the unemployment insurance money?  Then his boss needs to be notified.  Can you do so anonymously?] \n\nIf he did it to help her gouge money out of someone else's account, how did that work?  Those people (the ones being cheated) need to know that the job with your boss was a fake.  Who is going to tell them?  If you interfere, you are going to get in trouble yourself.\n\nIf it were me, I'd take this as evidence that your boss does not mind being sneaky, and start looking for a better job.
971667
tell his wife to go to talk to the district attorney, or give her the person's job address.\n\nok
729405
Where do you work?  This is not normal behavior report him at once