How do I let go of someone I love because she's married?
147859
Wish her a everlasting married life & get busy with ur profession.
1123061
I think you are more infatuated with her than you love her. You got separated and she went to another man, why wouldn't she do it again if she has a problem with you again? Wake up man, this is simple commonsense. She just wants you, she does not need you, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you are just wanted and not needed. Thats not love. You will be used.\n\nWhat you need is a woman of your own and not one you share with another man. She is that other guy's wife and your seeing her is tantamount to adultery and that is treading on dangerous ground.\n\nDivorce? Well, she can get that to be with youbut are you going to marry her and take in that guy's children as your own? And do you see any reason why she won't divorce you as well when she has a problem with you? Don't be naive, you are believing that she loves you because thats what you want to believe. Sorry old boy but you will be a fool if you lick back what you spat out.
480801
Eight years is a long time to let go of. maybe she just needs some space. Try separating for a while. It seems that you both still have feelings for one another. Seems like she feels lost. I know, I'm going thru the same thing with my husband. I feel like I've lost myself. I'm not the same person I was when we first met. Give her some time. I'm sure she'll re-evaluate your relationship.
1162429
When you really love someone, letting go is very hurting and difficult.  If the one you love is the one asking you to let her go, gently ask her for the reasons why.  If her answers are valid and for the good of both of you, you should let her go no matter how difficult it is.  Your feeling that you can't let her go is natural for someone who loves truly.  But letting go is better than keeping a relationship which is a one-sided love affair, meaning it is you who wants to keep the relationship when the other does not.  There will be lots of problems and heartaches along the way when you do that because you can never make someone happy who possibly does not love you anymore or who has reasons to say goodbye to you other than that.  Let her go if you must.  Time heals brokenhearts so they say.  Let time be your remedy in forgetting her if necessary.  Look around you and you will see so many faces who may catch your interest and give you hope for a better and lasting future relationship.
449229
There is only one way to do that.. CLEAN! You need a completely clean break, no contact of any kind. If you are truly in love, but are going to end it (which, BTW, is the right thing to do if it is an extramarital affair), then you need to cease all communication and just try to move on.
249108
Yea. You have to let her go sometime though. Tell her how you feel.
180117
yes...you let them go. It would be selfish not to. After all when you truly love someone you want their happiness.
393230
simply explain to her how you feel.  tell her that you don't feel that it's fair to her to be with someone who doesn't love her.  explain that you have tried to regain your love for her, but you have become two different people and it's not working for you.\n\nas for some of the answers above me...screw them all...there is NOTHING wrong with divorce...i would rather my husband tell me the truth and divorce me...than lead a false life pretending that he loves me.
201876
You cant and you shouldnt have done that in the first place. Thats called adultry and your wife can devorce you for everything that your worth for that. So break it off now with her.
425721
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
456893
Well, obviously it is not a new idea to her, and it may be that your moodiness is exactly the problem that has made her think about it.  Honestly, you don't want to try to hold onto her if she wants to go, and you can always find someone new.  \n\nAs long as you have been married, you should have a little trouble getting use to dating again, but once you do you won't be sorry to be on your own.  \n\nThere are lots of single women out there to enjoy, so do it.  Let her go.  She has voiced it, and it is pretty much inevitable I think.\n\nYou could try counseling, if you want to save it, But you must do something.  Don't expect it to just go away.  Don't blame her for the timing.  Realize that this is something that has been building for some time.
29792
You have every right to break up with them, and are making the right choice in ending it before you get married. Just tell the person that you can't marry her. There really is no easy way to say it, but you are saving both of you a huge pain by cutting it off before it starts. Good job. Most people in your situation get married, and then regret it for the rest of thier lives.
999808
You don't tell her, you respect her enough to keep that to yourself until she decides to move on from her husband - divorce him.
464120
If you Love her then you will let her go.
918452
No! Explain your feelings to her, and leave it to her to decide! If she is angered, talk divorce. If she understands, why break a GREAT marriage?
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
433500
Never! Even if she is unhappy in her marriage, you do NOT have the right to interfere. There are enough unattached people in the world. Find one of those. Think about her family. Does she have children, who will be affected by this? Do you want to start a relationship with someone who is willing to betray her current husband? Could you ever trust her not to do this with someone else? Be realistic. Lastly, would you want someone to do this to you?