What embarrassments and lengths have you gone to in order to get your crush's attention?
146128
I had this crazy crush on a particular girl (who stayed next to my building and was my junior is school) longtime ago but had to give it up as my best friend was also having a crush on her and he wanted me to help him propose to her.\n\nThe number of crazy thing i did to get her attention where horrible:\n> Once to grab her attention in school, i asked a friend of mine to push me so that i can fall on her as start of a conversation. But my bad luck, i fell on my head mistress. (Guess the rest you ppl can imagine)\n> She used to go for dance class in the evening by bus and i used to make it a point to see she go and come every single day\n> Once one school bully tried to trouble her and i jumped to help her like a superman and ended up getting a black eye. And for the rest of my school year, he and his full gang was wait for a chance to get me.\n\nMust say that i have a long list of crazy things. But the best part is that i cannot believe now that i was such an idiot to do all those crazy things.
254504
1.) Introduce yourself as the unknown relative of a very famous person being kept in the closet all these years.\n(After getting their attention- being sure to clarify that you're just joking.)\n\n2.) Compliment the person on a particular characteristic about them that caught your attention and the reason you're finding them attractive.\n\nFinally..\n\n3.) Engage the conversation with smiles and laughter letting your 'potential item' know you're interested and fun to be with.\n\nGood Luck! :)
1100860
oh sweetie want to hear my story?\nthere was this guy in school had always had a thing for me n of course i wasnt biting (((he was a dork,,, i was popular)))  but i talked to him ((((i wasnt one of the stuck up popular girls)))  he told his friends that he did me on a picnic table @ the local park..\nthe last few years of my school social life my nickname was..... yep you guessed it picnic table... n the picnic table sex  never happened as well..\n\nhes just trying to make himself look all that to his buds dont worry bout it....
406983
I use to go up straight to them and see if i could get some eye contact.  If they give you a certain look then you know their interested.  Then start a conversation and begin getting to know them.  Sometimes you gotta get brave and go for it, all they can say is no.
808996
Well, they may know you are alive, but chances are you become shy around them and that makes them think that you don't know they are alive. Or.......you have picked the wrong type of person to have a crush on.\n\nI would suggest trying to say hi.....nothing more......just walk past and say "hi" whatever his name is......... that way he will know that you notice him & if he doesnt  try and talk to you then move on.\n\nI know that doesnt really answer your question.  Sorry about that.
870238
Hey, I had one of those myself! \n\nI ended up asking him out on a group date to the movies, bad idea, he spent the whole time talking to everyone but me, the only interaction we had is when he passed the popcorn...\n\nIt makes it too hard with those feelings going through you to even talk to the guy as you do go all hot and fuzzy and weak at the knees as they say.\n\nSo dont take those feelings to serously as the guy probly doesnt know you exist! \n\nGet one of your friends to maybe ask him if he likes you just to sus the situation out, but good luck and I hope you do a better job than I did with my crush!
48586
If you get the nerves,stare her/him in the eye.It works for me,thou sometimes it took sometime for him/her to notice me.but of course you got to control your expression,dont make him/her feel bad.give a stare thats saying,"hi,i want to get to know you".You know what i mean,eventually they notice.
607922
the conversation starters will come up spontaniously in your own mind when you first set eyes on him and see something 'more'. at that point it is make or break.\n\nyou will find you feel a strong urge to go and say something to him.\n\nseize the moment. there's no more successful way. \ni alwasy feel so stupid and guilty when i don't seize the moment! no joke, there's some special energy in that first moment which, if you can flow with it, will sufficiently buffer you against the perils of failure (you will just feel so great and exhilerated for being so honest and brave and acting on your feeling straight away!) and create such a charge in your eye, voice and actions that you will be at your most enticing!\n\nor at least you will be very interesting and a rare encounter for them for your honesty.\n\nthis is a fun and spontaneous thing to do, it becomes drudgerous and embarressing when you don't go with the initial impulse because of fear.\n\nlet it go if that happens and wait for the next opportunity! that's what i'm doing, rest assured they just keep on coming!
394173
I embarass easy too! I just make sure that whenever we are in a room together like at a party or even at school to be around them. Let yourself be seen, create attention to yourself by walking by with some friends and talking loudly and laughing and having a good time! Maybe you could write them a letter. I always write when I want to say something and I cant get the courage up to say it! That may be your best bet!
487559
well i have the same thing happenin to me just start with lil conversation like hi and how are you and stuff that is how i got my crush to talk to my now we are friends
1074328
Im sometimes embarrassed if anything cuz they come off pushy, I've experienced it myself from them : /
914086
Start a conversation randomly then slowly get\nto the point were u are sharing really weird\nstuff about yourself.\nthen be like "Hahahah do you know whats really funny...\nwhen i was young my mom used to tickled my feet\nwith her makeup brush hahahha... i still like the feeling\nit stuck with me.\nand just wait for a reaction and if u don't get the one u want\nthen just be like " hay do u have a spare makeup brush? hahaha"
663114
I promised this guy friend of mine that I would take him on a picnic.  He's a bit of an odd duck and I didn't know him very well when we jokingly talked about a picnic, and the next thing I know, we're seeing more of each other and now it's a promise, but I keep blowing it off or coming up with some excuse...and then he died.  \n\nI'm going to find out where his ashes are and go have a picnic with him there.
494321
These are some which I experience myself, when you like someone you would:\n1. glance at him when he walks past, eyes that follow him when he walks\n2. gets a bit shy when around him, hands or arms fidgeting\n3. try to appear in places he would appear as well\n4. sweep your hair, or tidy up your dressing when he is standing around (wants to look nice)\n5. stand close to him if you has a chance\n6. have a slight smile when you see him \n7. eyes lowered when he is around (sign of nervousness)\n8. Turn around your head when he had walked past to see him from behind\n9. Face flushing when you see him\n10. Suddenly you turn away when you suddenly see him around the corner
671100
Try to catch his eye then smile!\nSay hi to him everyday and compliment him honestly on something about him that he can feel proud of. Sooner or later you'll just start to talk more and even carry out full conversations.\nIf you just want him to aproach you and seem more approachable.. here it is:\nSmile frequently.\nDo not act insecure or clingy.\nWalk and pretend that you're a model walking across that red carpet(do not blow kisses at the audience). Generally, just walk with large steps and a straight back.\nBe relaxed.\nStand with your feet no farther than 6 inches apart and pointing inwards.\nYou're more approachable alone instead of being around friends.
1126837
You tell them...just make sure they're at least somewhat attracted or interested in you.  If you get rejected, just dust yourself off...you could probably do better.   OR be friends with them first if you're not already...probably be easier if you are.  GOOD LUCK!!
156324
If your crush doesn't like you, there is no good way to "snag" him/her.  The only way you can get them if they don't like you is by being fake and that's no way to start a relationship.