im madly in love with a guy... but i dint ask "Gods will" b4 i told him.. now wat do i do?
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Hey if you and your new boyfriend are in love with each other, that's great. God is love. You are sharing what God has created "for you". Keep it respectful, remember to talk to God about this situation, everything will be great if you follow God's will. God bless both of you. If you trust in God save yourself for marriage, and happy you will be.
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You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.
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u got to ask him directly but be cool when u ask such a thing , dont lose your head\nmay be all will be fine\ngod bless you
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Sometimes showing the love of God can be the hardest thing and you probably should have gone to God first with this problem so He can direct you in the best way of approaching this guy. When this happened to me a while ago, the Spirit directed me to speak to the guy, letting him know how much I did appreciate his interest in me but I really did not feel comfortable with the way he thought my being nice was "flirty". He then saw things from my viewpoint and we are friendly now, though not real friends.  But pray about this first, it helps.
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If this guy TRULY loves you then he would understand if you were to tell him that you would like to take it slow.  Make sure that he IS the one before you walk down the isle with him.  True love is ALWAYS worth working for and waiting for.  Just be sure how you feel and the rest will fall into place!!  Good luck and I hope it works out for ya!
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If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
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Always be true to your feelings.  If you never tell him, he will never know.  You never gave it a chance because you never told him.  He may love you and be holding back.  Wouldn't you want to know?  I know I would.  Tell him and go from there.  Good Luck!
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Just tell him.  Find him, go up to him & tell him.  You can't live your life wondering what would have happened if I said this.  So even if he is not responsive to your statements, you know in your heart you were honest and did everything you could possibly do to make it work.
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Your relationship with God is personal just like his is. Your actions might win him over just give it time and keep the communication between you open and honest.
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this is an imposible relationship , how could you even think about him ?! , i know that love has no rules but our relegion is the most preceious thing we have , God how could you even think about him ? this is a big ( HARAM ) action what you're doing , if he really loves you so he must convert , he must or else both of you has just to move on , and be sure that God will be with you and will give you the best , but don't sacrefice your relegion or enter any illegal relation with him , tell him that it's his choice and he must take his decesion , whether he convert to be able to marry you , and that's what i really hope to happen , or if he refuses so he doesn't love you , good luck .
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You have said very little about the guy in question. It sounds to me like you may have a LOT of thinking to do before you take any action at all.\n\nFirst of all, why exactly do you want his attention? The reason I ask is that this will have a very big effect on the strategy you adopt. If you are just looking to spend some time in nice company, it would be wise not to get emotionally or physically involved. It will only lead to heartbreak for one or both of you.\n\nYou could ask him out, but it has to be very clear to both of you what your intentions are and aren't, in order to avoid any possibly tragic misunderstandings (e.g. date rape) - again, a good reason to think about all this beforehand.\n\nIndeed, it would be wise to delay emotional involvement until a moment when you feel ready for a permanent relationship, and until you know enough about what you are looking for in a potential permanent partner/husband to be able to measure him against your standard, and find that he fits.\n\nAnd there is much to be said for delaying all physical involvement until after you are actually in that permanent relationship (some, perhaps even most people call it marriage). The reasoning here is to ensure that when you do get emotionally or physically involved, it will have the right meaning, because once you've done those things, in a very real way, there is no turning back.\n\nIndeed, let me point out: the relationship where people leave their parents, commit to each other permanently, and become physically one is one in which God joins people together. This is why Jesus said 'What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder' - telling us why we should not break up once we have taken this step.(1)\n\nThe reason I mention this is that it therefore makes very good sense for you to above all take care of your relationship with God (and make sure the man you have your eye on is doing that too).\n\nOK, now let's say you feel you might want something more serious. Take an inventory of what you want in a potential permanent partner. Think 'the type of guy I would want to live with for the rest of my life'. Talk to people you know and trust who are already married to find out what sorts of general characteristics 'work'.\n\nObserve many different people and relationships - not just ones that are attractive, but also ones that aren't. Ask yourself 'Why does this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?' or 'Why doesn't this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?'\n\nThink about what is involved in a relationship, ask yourself, 'Do I really want this? Is this something I can do? If not, what do I have to do to correct that? Is *that* something I can do?' etc., until you are sure that you really want to be in a relationship at all. If you come to a point where you realize you don't want to be in a relationship right now, don't move forward.\n\nBut let's say you've decided this is what you want, that this is something you really can do. Now, and only now, are you ready to make a start. Before you take any action to attract the guy's attention, try to find out what he's interested in. What groups does he belong to? Is any of this stuff you would find interesting? If not, take that as a warning and don't go any further unless you find something later that you do have in common.\n\nIf there is some evidence of common interests, figure out how you can get involved in some kind of activity in these areas, a group situation where you can discreetly observe him and figure out in what measure he fits the profile you came up with earlier. Again, if he significantly falls short, does not have some really important characteristic(s), don't go any further.\n\nBut let's say, for the sake of argument, that he turns out to be a really nice, good, honorable guy, with more enduring values than just appearances, possessions,
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Just tell him.. if u dont u will forever wonder. If he is in love he will tell u..
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That is so awesome!! I know EXACTLY how u feel when somone u thought was not in your league chooses u...\nFirst ENJOY & rmbr u r worthy of all of your gifts/blessings!! \nIsn't God wonderful?\nJust treat this relationship w/ love & u will do just fine.\nMy man is incredibly handsome, generous, & loves to take me out everywhere! Every day I can't b-leeve he is w/me!! Truly, I am starting to hold my head up more, being proud of who I am..there must b something about me thats awesome too! \nSo I m sure u r awesome..don't worry about the Y's & c him again really soon! And if things don't work out..imagine u had him for a little while!Dreams really do come tru.
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Love has a strange way of allowing things to work out sometimes. You can write him a letter or you can call him or you can confront him face to face. Either way is okay. If you can't do any of these things then you can have a relative or friend of yours or the both of you drop some subtle hints for you. My dear, love is not dumb or desperate. It's honest and true. Hurry up now and don't waste any time! Good Luck!
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If you beleve in God then i will tell you that you must get on your knees and pray like you never prayed before.  At this time you need the Lord to tell you what your next move is.  I know that it may be hard to believe that someone you do not see can give you the best answer however it s true.  Listen and you wil hear him tell you the best way to handle things.  You can forgive him however that does not mean that you should stay married .  That depends on if you think that he will never do it agin.  Pay attention to his patterns and observe before you are quick to ask.   From experience a man will lie and lie until he is caught up.  Sometimes we woman speak to quick.  Let time reveal what type of person he is.  Time will tell if he is doing this because he just does not care or if he really has a problem.
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YOU KNOW WHAT IM GOING TO TELL YOU ...\ntry to take it step by step .. enjoy what you do and thabk god for it , for some people just dont have this anymore ...\nenjoy his friendship and his silant love ,,,\nim sure he loves you as you described but give time to work and in the mean while love him and go out with him calmely ...\nevery STEP in love should come slowly coz what comes can never be deleted .... if u kissed him one time , u r gonna kiss him again , u cant not kiss him if u know what i mean ...\nso take it slowly dear and good luck ,,,\nid after a long time u felt like asking him , ask him what he feels about you .
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Sometimes God is silent. He wants to know if you are serious about Him. Continue to pray and don't give up. Your consistency in prayer will make you stronger. I feel for you and please know that regardless of what people tell you, you are precious in God's site, and He cares about you.