if i say that i told my bf i was 17 and i wasnt forced i aggreed then wht?
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If one person under 18 has sex with someone more than 3 years different in age, the older person is guilty of statutory rape in most states.
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I personally dont think so I started dating my fiance at the age of 16 and he was 22. But it really depends are how mature you are. \nYou must remeber he is 7 yrs older than you. So he has experienced alot more than you have. You must ask your self if you think he is willing to let you take your time in certain aspects of your relationship. And that he understands your needs and wants at your age.  \n\nWell good luck for the future
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hmmm lets see...last time i lied about my age was about a month ago...i said i was 18...i'm only 16 X)
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i went there the same thing when my parents found out that i liked a 17 year old. all i can tell u is if u've gone on this long w/ your bf & they just found out dont change your mind bout him....try 2 get them 2 let u have him over 4 dinner or something so they can get 2 know him a little.  good luck
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Dear Bunny,\n     Please don't be in a hurry to grow up!!!  You have YEARS ahead of you to become acquainted with men.  Enjoy your friends and peers.  Develop your own interests, activities, and hobbies.  Take time to become "you."  Relationships (especially in the teen years) can be a HUGE drain on your time and energy.  Enjoy being 13 (trust me, you'll be "old" soon enough!).  If this guy really cared about you, he would be willing to step back and wait until you are older.  Please don't let him push you into a relationship!!!  \n     A 17 year old boy who dates 13 year old girls is probably pretty insecure.  Why isn't he dating someone who is 17 or 18??
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You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
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Why do you think the law says you only become legally adult at 18? That's not because they just want to make your life miserable. It's because a person usually becomes mature enough to understand what MAY happen - what consequences will follow a particular action, and be able to be responsible for it when they reach that age. \n\nHoney at 13, you haven't even experienced all there is you will be responsible for. I strongly suggest that you wait until you are 18. If he loves you, as you say he does, then he will be willing to wait for you too. Then you will be both free to decide and marry.
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17 and 15 is ok. two years is nothing. im thinking maybe there is some peer pressure there, maybe its his friends that think your to young. my daughter had the same problem and i can tell ya..... there is plenty more guys out there that would love to call you there own. good luck sweetheart
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16 dating a 20 yr old is a lot different than 13 dating a 17 yr old.  The maturity gap is huge, and yes it is illegal since you're a minor, and when he's 18 he can go to jail, I'm not sure about now.  You should find out what your laws are for where you live regarding minors.\n\nIn the meantime, you should just be friends with him but don't date him, and by all means don't do anything physical with him.  Wait until you're at least 17 or 18 before making any real decisions, you might think you're mature but you still have many years to go and you'll change your mind on a lot of things as you get older.
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god forgive me for stereotyping but I only have limited info for going on! from what you say, there is only one adult in the relationship and it's not him!!!\nok, he sounds like a typical man, wanting to have his cake and eat it too - basically he feels it's a bit wrong to be with you, but he wants you to make it ok.\nso he's being cautious and flaky so that most of the hard work comes from you and you end up saying all the stuff people usually don't want to be the first to say (ie tell me how you feel/why are you sending out mixed signals - making you look needy)- don't fall into that trap. as much as you want some clarity, pull back and let him do the hard work. it is obvious he likes you despite the age diff (dirty old man - just kidding) so he will try to engineer the opportunity to kiss you again- at which point, i think you should play a bit hard to get so he has to SAY those things he is obviously avoiding saying  in case it all goes tits up, i presume. \nanyway, only my opinion, so let me know if i was totally wrong - and good luck!!!
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I was in a relationship where the girl was 3 years older then me and It never really bothered me, Until she starts telling her friends and telling me and saying it as if she was embarrassed. So i ditched her and so learn from our mistake and don't pick at him about it. But age does not seem to mater if he is mature and you care for him then your very lucky. Good luck I hope this helps.
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16 is the legal age of consent in most states.  However, by your posting of the question here, it sounds like you might have some questions of your own about it.  Is he pressuring you?  Are you worried about moral or religious issues?  If so, then wait.  There's a special feeling you get when your head knows that your heart is in the right place.  Don't settle for anything less than what you know is right within yourself.
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ok look....this can be a touchy thing..but you shouldnt let age get in the way. If you really like him it shouldnt matter. My bf is 18 and i'm 16 and we work out fine. I can understand why he lied because i was dating a 12 year old when i was 15 and he lied to me too. the only reason we broke up was because of distance.  I don't think it's wrong at all. Like I said if you like him, then forget his age...and he obviously wants to be with you..take advantage of that :)
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just dont go any further until you get alittle older. dont let him force you to go further.
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no absoluely not age is a # , it might be if it was a 9 year span and you were 26 and him 17 but at this age its fine.
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Ok, hun, he's an adult and I take it that you are a minor?  First thing, he should have never put you in a criminal situation to begin with.  Obviously he didn't care enough about you to keep you out of possibly going to jail, so I would just let him sit in there and think about what he has done....if he is a man at all, he should be the one apoligizing to you.
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he may just be saying that,cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, he might not like you, reality, most 18 year olds arent interested in 14 year olds, alot of guys that age are into older, more experienced woman. 2 years is a long time to wait for someone, do you really think that you or him will actually wait that long for one another?i wouldnt put myself on hold for 2 years on a guy that i wasnt 100% sure that i was gonna be with, have fun, go out with friends and get to know guys your age and you might just find someone you like more than this 18 year old