How do you know if you boyfriend is gay?
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NEVER just stick your finger in a guys a hole just at a random moment.  And if you do stick a finger in it, LUBE IT A LOT.  Now if you reach behind and could stic a fist in, then that's another matter entirely.  Even if he liked it does not definitively mean he is gay.  Sexuality is learned, and so is butt hole play.
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
761016
If you flat out ask him, it could be awkward for both of you. Maybe you should be a little bit stronger in your hints and say something along the lines that, even though you are straight, you wouldn't mind having a gay friend and ask him if he has ever known anyone who is gay. Most gay people have the feeling that it is killing them inside before they come out, so even if he doesn't open up to you right away remain a close friend. If he is gay, your friendship will mean a lot to him.
278682
Does he know about your sexual orientation ?\nHe might like you too but is also not sure if you like him or not ?\nIf he knowes that you are gay, and he does all these signs that make you doubt that he's gay, it could be because he's trying to sense some signals from your part too.\n\ntry to find out about his environment. what do people around him in his community think about gays and lesbians? maybe he is but he's afraid of being rejected for who he is?
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
743463
If you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend but then have sex with someone else (male or female), you are cheating on your boyfriend.\nHowever, if you and your boyfriend have NOT committed yourselves to each other, then he needs to understand that he cannot stop you from experimenting.  He's jealous and most boyfriends would be jealous if their girlfriend wants to experiment in a potential lesbian relationship.
1012503
Don't make the mistake of assuming someone is gay by comparing them to a "laundry list" of stereotypes.   I know many guys who like to shop, wear great clothes, and listen to techno.  They're not gay.\n\nI know many guys who love to play football, drink beer, and don't shower.  They're gay.\n\nIf you want to play games and possibly offend people, then sure, look for "signs".  \n\nThe truth is that there are no SURE FIRE SIGNS to be certain about ANYTHING about ANYBODY. \n\nBe an adult, and ask him.  It's simple, direct, and if he gets offended, let him know that you want to know because you're interested in dating him.\n\nBeing upfront, mature, and understanding will get you far in life.  Playing games and stereotyping makes you just like everyone else.
969943
Just because you find another person of the same sex cute, doesn't mean you're gay. You're only gay if you know for a fact that you would never want to have sex with a girl, but instead with a guy. Don't ask us, ask yourself.
398148
You need to be honest with him. If he's straight and not into you then at least you will know. Maybe he wants to know because maybe he's interested in you. Either way you need to be honest with him. If it's meant to be it will be. Show him respect always and by being honest with him it shows him the utmost respect. Good luck honey!
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This information is coming from the ultimate relationship specialist who happens to be Gay.  Don't let him go, but don't date him yet.  Wait a while until he becomes more mature.  If he finds someone else, then that's that.  But if after a long while he still tries to hook up with you, then you know he must care about you, so then give him a try at being serious.
669270
it depends on how he makes fun of you. is he laughing at you or with you? just were a pull-up bra and when you ask him ether he says yes or he is gay.
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What makes you think he's Gay?  \n\nMany Gay people do their 'best to fit into society' by joining up with a person of the opposite sex to keep the appearance of being 'normal'.  They marry and have kids sometimes as well -- all to keep up the facade and DENY who they are to themselves and his family.  The thing is, if you believe this to be true, then first thing is ask him.  If he denies (he will I'm sure), then be on your way if you are that convinced.  Because no matter how attractive you are, sweet, loving etc.. he will NOT change who he is attracted to - it's in his DNA/Biology who he is attracted to.  So do yourself a favor and just walk away from that.  \n\nI hope it all works out for you, but there are no 'sure tests' to be 100%.  If your GUT is telling you he is, then trust your gut, because most of the time, your gut is never wrong.  If your friends have 'gently commented/asked about it' then it is 'for sure' time to break it off.  Do your best not to hurt his feelings and your own feelings.  Be good to yourself and there is NOT something wrong with you that you 'fell' for osmeone Gay.  \n\nGood Luck and be well! :)
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
544106
Ask him.\nHow he answers the question is how you will know.\nAlso you can feel if someone really loves you.
1052725
well if you think you might be gay\n\nyou probably are\n\n\nhere are some other signs:\n\nyou like to have sex with people of the same gender
949697
If your not gay, you simply tell him. He'll be hurt, but he should know the truth.
84266
He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.