the guy i like told me his best friend dreamt of us having sex. i smacked him hard. was i wrong 2 do that?
141836
no hun i would have done the same thing
1116711
Boy thats hard...Especially because its your best friend It all depends on if you are willing to risk yourfriendship. I always have started out by saying ya know I had the craziest dream about us... just to feel the situation out and see what response I get then go from there. Good luck...
988240
"Banging"  now that is romantic. Tell her you like her as more than a friend but I would leave the dreams out.
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
605979
Nothing at all.  Haven'y you ever had naughty dreams like that?  Nothing says that he will go through with what he dreamt.  The fact that he trusted in your relationship enough to actually tell you means he trusts you with things.  I am thats pretty gutsy for him to tell he dreamt he slept with your friend.  I bet he probably dreams sex with you too.  Until he actually sleeps with someone other than you don't worry about.  Be happy that he trusts you with secrets.  Dont let this little thing destroy your relationship
1036422
Enjoy your dreams but act normal around him and keep the dreams to yourself. Maybe someday he'll be having dreams about you too! Maybe he is now! If anything is to happen, let him make the first move. Until then, remain friends, in thought as in deed. As in, don't go getting yourself all worked up about him, or we'll see another one of those questions that starts "I'm in love with my best friend, what...". Please, girl, you know the answer to those! So just be cool.
557365
First of all I'd say that he isn't your best friend. A best friend would NEVER rape their friend!\n\nYou need to ditch him, get him out of your life. Tell him flat out that you are not comfortable with what he did. He needs to know that if he tries anything like that again, or comes around you that you'll report him to the police.
915107
Well, neither of you truly knew where the relationship was going to end up.  If you start throwing sex into the mix then the feelings involve get very confusing.  I would say you are going to have to talk to him about it.  Let him know how you feel and don't let it carry on any longer.  The longer you go on with these feelings the more it is going to hurt him later.  Stop sleeping with him for sure.  He will decide if you are still going to be friends, if you were truly good friends he will probably come around and be friends with you again.  It might take some time though.  You might not want to date anyone else for awhile, especially don't introduce them if you do. Friends and sex usually don't end up with positives, but you might be lucky.
58183
If he's sleeping with your friend, you don't want him back.  You deserve better.  Time to move on!
1097304
It sounds like maybe he bruised it...it could be from too much sex...or maybe some girl got ticked at him and kicked him in the crotch!! Either way...if it doesnt get better...he needs to see a doctor.
1102620
My best friend in college tried to fight me one night because I laughed at him when someone gave him a dirty sanchez.  His girlfriend of 4 years was visiting our school at the time. I had sex with my her in his dorm room, and on his bed. just to pay him back. Plus I was drunk.  Then she broke up with him and we dated and got married 2 years later.  And have been for 3 years no problems  Last time I checked, he was suffering from extreme depression.  I am not proud of it, but I dont regret any decisions that I have made.
1162571
Yes.  I dreamed I saw my husband having sex in our home with my best friend.  I confronted him and it turned out to be true.  They were having an affair, and he was very unnerved when I told him how I knew.
222361
yes you were wrong to kiss him. this is why i believe the whole guy and girl friendship thing does not work. and now its too late to go back whether you wanted to ruin the relationship or not its going to happen cause you took things too far to begin with. so just tell him the truth and hopefully things will work out
417598
i did it bcoz i really liked the guy and i thought he liked me. i thought if i slept with him, he would want a relationship. total opposite. felt dirty and used after. i would definately discourage any daughter i had or any young girl i know from doing it. wait till ur older and in a commited loving relationship.
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
651231
This is not your fault. They probably had it planned! You and your friend should go on and find different guys!
979388
I know how you feel, although my rape was very different from yours. First off, please remember that it WAS NOT your fault. Even if you would lose a court case, it is still worth fighting... Also, obviously this guy is a sexual predator, I would make sure that all of your girlfriends know to avoid him.