How do you tell someone that you have been usuing them after you find out that they have fallen in love with u
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Unfortunately it is not going to be easy and at least one person will be hurt.  You really must break this to him very gently otherwise it could backfire or he could get so angry that he causes you physical harm.\n\nI would recommend meeting at a restaurant or some other public place to break the news to him because he is less like to cause a scene.  Further more if you meet him you have your own transportation to get home safely.
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Why not sit down and talk with them.....express your feelings honestly, and ask how they feel about you.  But don't be in a hurry to end a relationship just because your love doesn't or is unable to say they love you back right at that moment.  Sometimes love buds and develops in time.  That is always a possibility.  Expressing your feeling honestly frequently sets the ball in motion also. What you actually feel and how you come across can be mis-interpeted.  You expression and conversation may be the 1st time your love realized that you "actually" love him/her.  Best of luck to you.   "Love is a many splendid thing"
627652
The best thing you can do, is to let it happend, just go and tell him what you are feeling for him ;)
30934
just tell them soon as possible because if not their feelings will become more stronger for you and of couse it will be hard to say it but do it in the nicest way possible because if you do it like saying your reslly ugly etc their selfesteem will go down and plus if you tell them that ''you know what i know you have feelings toward me but your just not my type''you will feel better trust me there is no other way!
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if u love him then tell him so\nand he still loves u \nthen he'll come back\nbut if he has stopped loving you\nbecause you rejected him \nthen its just fate\n\nbut try telling him first\nas there's always still a chance that\nthere's a lingering feeling of love for u
194714
tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.
232155
How do you feel.  Do you want to be with him if so tell him.  Obviously he could be in love with you again, if not and you are not in love with him, tell him that you don't want him to tell you that he loves you because that [art of your lives are over.  Just because things were comfortable then dose not mean they should be comfortable now in this new found relationship.
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tell him you still have feeling for him
628398
Well i wouldn't be ashamed of the guy that i love. It would be kinda hard for me to let them know that i love him, but they'll understand. it will just take some time to get used to it.
387678
It sounds to me like the one saying this has finally won the heart of someone they have loved for a while.  They have been giving love and are finally getting some back
55142
Just be honest with them.  Don't beat around the bush and try to stall.  Just tell them out right.  He/she might be caught off guard or shocked, but you will feel so much better in the long run.
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tell him your feelings
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When you are in love with someone you will know. It doesn't feel like anything you've ever felt before. The feeling is utterly unique.\n\nThe best way to show someone you love them is to first of all tell them you love them! You can also show your love by being respectful, being a friend or expressing your feelings physically. However you choose to express it the person will know they are loved.
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Just because the "L" word came out doesn't really mean anything Bad. Like you said you guys have known each other for awhile already!\nAnd telling him that you haven't felt that way in long time... \nWell, that's like telling him that you are not sure if you are ready for that step in your relationship with him... But, this could be a good thing! If he really loves you ... you will know! \nHe will still show interest in you and you and him can get closer in your relationship. Just don't rush it..  I have been married three times and all of them we're great at first! Ya' know? Just can't wait to be with them... all you think about... and that's great!\nAll I'm saying is to take your time if you want it to last... \nPay attention to the bad sides he may have and see if you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON...\n\nI don't think you really pushed... if he loves you he will stick around.    If you think you pushed... just go talk to him.\n"What should you do now?"  \n(1)Take your time...\n(2)Let the love grow...\n(3)Spend time together and talk<<< \ncommunication must be open. \nSharing your feelings with the one you love is very important!\nIf you are serious about this guy then try these steps and God Bless...\n later.
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tell them before you start dating them
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Tell HIM/HER I love you.
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You can start by showing appreciation from all the things he/her does for you.Give your support & unconditional love in return...and tell that person how you feel-especially during intimate moments.