how can i stop my jealousy from ruining my relationship?
139626
trust ur partner & u'l stop feeling jealous..
1116516
I believe jealousy is a wasted emotion. Just because your upset about something doesn't mean the other person still isn't going to do whatever you dint like. If you love someone, you try to be open to their likes and feelings too. If you give ultimatums, it will backfire on you.
732095
Jealousy is the root to all eveil, if you are secure with yourself no woman or man on this earth could make you think other wise, 1st love yourself because noonelse can, men do nto like an insecure woman, or a needy one, read the attach article, go for a jog, meditate, go get a mani and pedi read the book he's just not that into you, and last havea cup of coffee:)
463447
learn fro this experience\n\nBe true to your self\n\n\nBrake it off with your boyfriend. \nStart anew Everyone deserves to be treated with honesty, you have broken respect  for your relationship.
993565
Why are you jealous?  You need to just find your own bf and start living your on life.  If you don't you will be left behind.
1109853
Your best bet is to let some time pass by.  You can't assume you know what your partner is feeling.  Other then what he is telling you.  If there are more concerns regarding your partners faithfulness you should always voice them. well not always '' you don't want to be marked a jealous''  But time will tell I think in this situation.  Follow your heart, be bold, and true to your self.  Then everything will happen how it is supposed to.
1071380
My boyfriend is a bit on the ( why you gotta go there) jealous side... it just tells me that he really wants me and dont want to lose me....
315500
Charlie heres the deal.....dont be jealous it is one of the deadly sins..thats a start.  2nd..there is no one in the world worth being jealous of...jealousy just means you want what that person has and if you want it that bad..then go for it, and ask...dont pussyfoot around, beat around the bush whatever ya'll say..JUST DO IT!!!!!
877422
Don't let yourself get pushed away. Pull away and run from this loser. \nJealousy has nothing to do with love but it has all to do with abuse and control. Things will get worse. You didn't say what kids on jealous behavior he's showing but here's a typical dynamic. \nHe doesn't like you talking with guy friends. \nHe lightly accuses you or a guy friend of making a move or saying something inappropriate. \nHe accuses you straight out that you're cheating on him and makes you plead your innocence. \nHe talks down on your female friends and encourages you to spend less time with them. \nHe does the same with your family members. \nHe isolates you from your friends and has you convinced that since every one else doesn't want to be around you, then he's the only one who loves you. \nHe has you to himself and is free to treat you like trash and continue to accuse you of fooling around. \n\nYou deserve better. I don't know where you are on my dynamics list but it is not too late to protect yourself and leave his immature butt in the dirt.
263861
Jealous is a cute thing at first then it gets old real fast. It will destroy a good relationship, the jealous person should seek help. Its an insecurity that needs to be addressed. In short it sucks.
605296
This is one of those things that is easier said than done, but if you value your future, and your relationships with other friends & family, you should leave him. You don't deserve to be treated like that. And he is not going to stop being jealous or overly possessive of you. If you want a good example, just talk to your local Women's Battered Shelter, and you will see all the reasons you could possibly need to realize he will not ever be any good for you. Whether its mental, emotionally, sexually, or physically abusive behavior... it usually doesn't get better. Stop it now. There are so many wonderful and sincerely loving people out there who will help bring out the best in you, than to waste your life with a control freak and cause you more problems in life.
842167
I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!
229404
I dunno, I haven't been able to master that skill yet.  Everytime someone's been jealous of me I haven't wanted them to feel that way and by the time I want them to be jealous of me they generally don't care enough about me to be jealous let alone any other emotion.\n\nProbably better to just let it go and move on.  Who knows -- maybe losing your fixation on getting him to care about you will make him jealous...
20328
Think about what you have that is positive in your life.  There will always be someone who is smarter, better looking, funnier, more talented or whatever you are measuring.  You will find yourself much happier if you "compete with yourself", rather than some ideal standard.  \n\nIt is big of you to try to be happy for the person you are jealous of and you should do that as much as possible.
279114
The fact that you see your fault in your current marital problems indicates that you are NOT crazy.\nI do think, however, that you should maybe see someone about your jealousy issues PRONTO.\nIn what I've seen here, it doesn't sound like you don't trust her, just that you're making your own self crazy, and making her a little crazy too.\nYou need to fix what you can, and fix it fast.  \nWhat you CAN fix:  You, anything that has to do with YOU, what it is that YOU do, what YOU think, what YOU feel, etc.\nWhat you can NOT fix:  What someone else does, what someone else thinks, what someone else wants, what someone else feels, etc. (someone else = your wife)\nIf you're smart, you will get off it & keep your mouth shut, before you do have a hand in driving her into someone else's arms, be it this guy or anyone else.  FYI, you stated yourself that their relationship is more professional, and again I say...you've not indicated in the slightest that you do not trust your wife.\nGet your head on right, and stop pressing the issue before it's too late.\nAnd to answer your initial question:  They're only friends.
422387
Read ME:\nTell him that he doesn't need to get you jealous because he has you already. he needs to stop playing games because it bothers you. just tell him how you feel, and hopefully he'll stop. but don't get in to a serious convo about your feelings. just say you don't like him trying to get you jealous.
1178125
Don't get mad just hold your head up and smile cause he is yours. Don't let them know they are getting to you cause then they will continue. Just lean over and give him a kiss or do little fun flirty things that he enjoy. Don't entertain them other girls by getting mad. Then your man will feel insecure if you do entertain those jealous females.