Can anyone tell me why men do nothing but lie and cheat?  When the woman don't even ask for it?
138321
If this man is not a God fearing man then he will do that and mouch more
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
11545
That whole idea where men are the main cheaters is all wrong. I do believe that men, and women both have the same disposition to strayed. But, women are just better in hiding, and lying.
78636
Are you taking care of your man at home? Most men who have healthy sexual relationships at home do not cheat. When women withold sex from their partners they will seek what they want elsewhere. if you have no solid evidance of him cheating,  stop looking for him to cheat and make his time with you extra special.\n\nIf he offers it to you and you do not want it, he may give it to someone else.
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
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Julie, \n\nThis question is as relevant to women as it is to men as they cheat on their husbands too.  For example, Clara Harris ran over her husband "accidental" 3 times for cheating on her.  What did not come out in the media, is that she had cheated on him too...but he did not think she deserved to be pavement for his car.  \n\nMany women look for married men because they do not want the commitment \n\nDid you know that at least a third of the children men are paying for in child support are not their children as proven by DNA?   \n\nSeems that it is more then men that like to play but then, shouldn't everyone know that that person they are about to go to bed with is NOT "THEIR" husband or wife?\n\nWhy do they not stop to think that if they will do this before marriage, what makes them think they will only be faithful to each other after marriage?\n\nThere is always a hidden cost to all of this...check the link below to find out more.
642197
I have never cheated but have heard that the main reason a woman cheats is because she is not fully happy at home. Something is missing, which could be a lot of things...
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How do women expect to find a good man if they choose to be dishonest? (Women are just as bad as men, and it makes me sick when people try to say otherwise. Women cheat just like men. Women abuse men just like men abuse women. Get over yourself.)
902249
Maybe your missing key points in your argument like the TRUTH? Maybe your man really doesn't like you sleeping around with no panties on when he's not around. Hey, but what do I know?
600835
When you find out where to find them let me know!  I work with a lot of police officers from different agencies so I'm around men all the time.  It seems they all want crazy women.  I'm strong and independent, almost to a fault... so I know what you are talking about.  Just know that it isn't anything that you do or don't do that make them wander.  Some men just cheat.  Some cheat because of reasons they think justify it.  I think there is no justification. period.  I have a lot of male friends and I could tell ya some stories!  (probably a lot of the reasons I'm single)  Don't get me wrong, MOST of the ones married don't cheat and are great guys.  But to some, it is a sport.  Feel free to email if you want to talk about it more.
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I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
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there are many motives behind an affair,the old line it just happened is a crock of bull,it is given much thought and for men i think it's a challenge for women it is a emotional thing the sense of being needed, attractive to another man.men also need to see if they still have it some do, some don't,  some never did,regardless of the reason it is wrong.if your sex life stinks make it better try different things,being a women i can't completly answer why guys cheat but i feel it's an ego thing or maybe their spouse is truely a louse in which case she has no reason to complain we women know men like / need  sex and if we are completly against making love then let him go no man or women should be forced to live without it unless it is for a medical reason,in that case then you should find other ways to satisfy each other.
108706
Because women truly don't know what they want, except to drive men crazy, and then ask their friends "why"?\nWhat did I do?
907127
the trick is to make them think they have control---you never really give it to them!!!!!\nif a man is unfaithful and wants control-good sign--red flag he is or will be an abuser---run for the hills now!!!
704166
They don't all lie.  There are lots of guys who are honest.  \n\nJust me, but I figure if it's a little thing, then there's no point in lying about it unless the liar is looking for control, amusement, self-aggrandizement, or is just a compulsive liar.  If it's any of those things, how does anyone possibly trust him?  Without trust what kind of real relationship can you have?  Not much of one, for sure.\n\nIf it's a big thing he's lying about, the fact that it's a big thing is all the more reason to tell the truth!\n\nThe issue is much deeper than lying and it's not something you can fix.\n\nThere ARE guys out there who are honest.  As long as women continue to date liars, they'll continue to lie.
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because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.
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Women cheat just as much on men so that is really unfair. Women are 90% of the reason why men cheat. That and that they are dumb bastards.