Why is it that trough the years you start looking fisically like your best friend?
151504
do you mean physically? well after spending countless hours in each others presence its only natural that you become like each other
537262
Yes, certainly.  Then, my best friend finds out and she starts hounding a confession out of me.  Of course, you sometimes cannot hide things from your best friend even if your best friend is at least 20 years older than you (which mine is in her 40's and I am in my 20's).
165335
If you have to work to make them happy then you shouldn't be calling them your best friend. I've had the same best friend for 13 years (Since we were about 8 or 9) and all I've done was be there for her when she needed me. If they want something more from the friendship then maybe they're asking too much. Just do what you can and what you can't do, if they're your best friend they'll understand.
452777
I met a friend and I consider her as my bestfriend, during my hi-school days..She was my classmate only for 1 year, then we parted ways as my family moved to our province and her family too, our place seems like A-Z, on the first few months we had communications then it fades away..after 22 years, I was happily married w/ 2 kids and working abroad and 1 day I was terrribly surprised when I received an email from her..and she said that she never gave up on looking for me though I did..We were very happy then..her family still remembers me and my family as well..I'd like to see her very soon when I got my vacation, we've got so  many things to talk about..I love her, she is my very best friend.
294134
Sometimes it does. One day i went to a party and i tried to look my best. Later on, my best friend praised my other friend who only wore a plain t-shirt and a pair of jeans. Y kno, that sucks...
152186
Some of the best relationships start out as friendships, probably because your friends know everything about you and still like you, while a lot of other relationships start out with people trying to be what they think the other person wants them to be, and then they get sick of pretending.\n\nthe person you spend your life with should be your best friend, they should know all about you and you should know all about them, no secrets.
469122
Well of course at first it is the looks, that is just human nature i think.  But as we get to know you it starts to lean more toward personality (weather we were attracted to the looks at first or not).  Personality should be the number one thing, but it just isn't like that.  Cause those looks are going to go away ever seen a hot ass 80 year old?  Didn't think so.  Have you ever seen a sweet kind loving 80 year old?  Probally.  See my point?
804203
sadly if  you have to ask this then i would say no they dont .. when you have a best friend you will know it and dont feel bad because what most people dont realize is that you are very lucky to have ONE best friend in your whole life time... i found my best friend 7 years ago and then 2 yrs ago she died and i am still lost with out her but she taught me so much and from the first time we sat and talked we knew we were best friends by chance sisters in heart.......
419548
Growing up, I guess.  There is almost like a power struggle among siblings who are around the same age.  They want to see who can get the most attention, who can be the perfect kid, or who is just overall the best.  But, when you start getting older, it is so much better.  They are there all the time, your friends until the end.  If you need them, they come around.  I know that no matter what happens in my life, I will always have them to be there for me.  It is a wonderful feeling.
952941
You can't help the way you feel, it is being human.  I had a similar situation when I was 17.  I had been best friends with him for 2 years and gradually we got closer and closer.  For me it didn't work out but I am glad I gave it a go otherwise I would all ways wonder what if.  I think life is far too short to have regrets.
94136
i best friend is some1 tht likes u no matter wht u do and who u are and wht u done in ur past and the mistakes u made just b/c ur not perfect they know the real u and and they love u for who u are
859779
You know the rule about a bf, once you stop looking it will just happen?  Treat this the same way.  It's just another form of a relationship.  You might also want to take a look at what kind of best friend you really want and be that person for other people.  If you BE a best friend, then you'll be DOING best friend things, then you will HAVE a best friend relationship.  I call this the BE, DO, HAVE theory.  Often times people feel that they HAVE to have a best friend relationship IN ORDER TO DO best friend things which in turn will make them BE best Friends.  (HAVE, DO, BE) That is bass ackwards.  If ever the words "IN ORDER TO" are in the same sentence as a goal, the goal will never be reached.   Hope this helps
1146674
if it's just a platonic friendship probably as long as you want it to be, but if you're sixteen as your avatar says then you may find you'll grow apart as you age and mature
81973
It can be nice when somebody wants to act or look like you, it means s/he likes your style...\nHowever, if you really don't like that, just talk to your friend and tell her to stop doing that...
248488
well, at 21 years you should have your own personality, so you can make decisions that are a part of you. if that friends are real friends they shouldn't try to change you, they should accept you as you are
241070
you don't just find good friends, you make acquaintance's. friendship is earned through time.
291542
It sounds to me like you need a new best friend.\nIf he acts like that toward you then he is NOT a friend.\n\nI doubt if he will change back to how he used to be.  I've never heard of THAT happening.\n\nSince the two of you were freinds for SO long, that tells me that YOU are a great friend to have.\n\nIt should be VERY easy to replace him with someone who will appreciate having you as their friend.\n\nLeave the loser alone, move on and find new freinds so you can go back to being happy!