How can i know whether my Boyfriend still loves  his X-girlfrnd?
150514
Hopefully, he will always have love for her.  If he doesn't you've found yourself a psycho who can turn his emotions on and off like a light switch; this personality can kill easily.  You don't want a person who will throw away love without regard.  You want someone who loves all the way through  ... this gives you a serious chance in the relationship.\n\nNow, the real question is ... "How do I know if my boyfriend is ready for a serious relationship with me?" But, to figure this one out, you need to spend time alone with yourself and ask yourself "What do I want from this relationship" ... then you need to sleep on this question ... wake up, ask it again ... sleep on the question another night ... then if you've honestly answered yourself ask him, "What do you want from this relationship".  Just like you gave yourself time in answering your own question, give him time too.  When he's honestly answered  check his desire against yours ... if the answers match, great, if not evaluate your choices and make a decision.\n\nSounds tedious??? Well, it's supposed to be fun! Life is supposed to be fun and you need a new direction if this process isn't fun. Likwise for him too...he's supposed to be having fun in the beggining of the relationship.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
55564
You don't! It will take some time for you to tell. If it's something new, the novelty will wear off quickly. If it's love, it will stand the test of time (although it's common for the feeling to lessen in intensity).\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
544106
Ask him.\nHow he answers the question is how you will know.\nAlso you can feel if someone really loves you.
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
289773
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
384103
when he really loves u. then he aint gonna hook up with another girl. if u trust him then u know he iz never gonna cheat on u (though u never know)
204709
The first sign is doubt. If you question whether or not he's cheating most likely he is in fact unfaithful. Love is far more complicated to judge, if he does love you he will not cheat on you, because he would not want to hurt you. Here a few helpful hints 1. Spy on him. 2. Check his phone 4 new numbers. 3. Set him up, meaning send a sexy chica his way and see what he does when she tries to offer him a date.  Needless to say I'm no expert but I wouldn't give advice I haven't tried before, and trust me it works.    Good Luck
302593
you should not have to know if someone loves you the same, you should trust that you both love eachother. trust comes naturally.
587678
Don't fight with him. Ask him calmly why he is still in touch with her. If he becomes evasive or gets defensive, then you have cause to be suspicious for he IS hiding something then. If your suscipion is confirmed, then decide what you want to do next. If you still love him, tell him so and ask him to choose - you & your daughter or her. If he is undecided, I see no point in holding on to someone who doesn't really love you fully.
433580
ask ur girlfriend\nfoolish
110349
sounds like hes not over her or he likes the way his x does things better.. it could be a more familer thing to him.. or could be hes just a butt...
130480
of course he loves u!!! he came down for the weekend didnt he? he's never cheated on u has he? u 2 have been together for TWO YEARS havent u? i think that that's ample proof that he loves u!
351849
Honestly? nothing, there is no reason why your boyfriend can't think your friend is cute.  This is not a statement about you or your relationship.  I personally am in love with the most amazing woman on earth, and I think that Elizabeth Hurley is cute, this doesn't make me a bad person or mean that  I love my girl any less.  Now if he is giving you reason to doubt if he is being faithful, then talk about your concerns but it is  VITAL that you don't start accusing him or her of anything without a reason.  Try and be more secure in yourself, after all your guy is with you isn't he?
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I would also feel very insecure about this situation. the only thing you can do is be aware of it.  The fact that they dated could either be a good or bad thing.  He could still be holding a torch for her, or it could be that it just didn't work out romantically for them.  I wouldn't quiz him too much on it just keep an eye on what he is doing and when and what he is telling you.  If it makes you feel unstable in your relationship then I think you should tell him how you feel without making it sound like you are jealous.  Tell him how it is - its your ex, but you don't tell me that you are seeng her.  I feel like you are hiding something, even though i know aren't.  if he is hiding something there's no guarantee you will find out, but if that's the case and you can't trust him, there's no relationship.