how soon can you fall in love?
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Hmm.. I think it takes alot of maturity to realize when something is  "love" or  infatuation. I can see  by some of these responses" it happens daily" (thundergirll) that you have not matured as much as you need to. Let me clarify, age has alot to do with this, but even older people can be misled with love. You have to think about what makes you think you "love" this person. Is it the way he smells, walks, talks,breathes? Hmm , sounds like infatuation. There are no quizzes or anything to take to find out if you " love" someone. Love to me has alot to do with sacrificing. Are you willing to sacrifice things for the one you love? Do you really care about this person, and will be there for them no matter what? Do you really appreciate them for who they are and what they stand for? Love has alot more to do with the interior of a person. Think about these things,and see if you feel this way.You need to get to know the person, their likes, dislikes, their secrets, be each others friend. That always works!
1096506
There is no such thing (to me) as falling in love.  You are first attracted to a person but you need to take the time to get to know them from the inside out. That takes time. Years even.  A lot of time when people are building a relationship based on some foundations of trust, loyalty, honesty, likenesses, etc. love follows.  When you say you love someone, if you truly know the meaning - Read ! Corinthians 13.  It explains love like nothing else.
145245
you can't find true love, it finds you. you'll know one day . and yes you probably could fall in love with a stranger. love works in mysterious ways.
601505
You really won't know when you will fall in love. So, if your heart tells you that you are in love now, then you really are. Even if you are at that age, if your heart tells you that you are in love then you are in love. Just remember to take things slowly. You are still young and there are still lots and lots of opportunities awaiting you in this world. I wish you the best.
1022647
When you're in love...
532680
Honey, no matter what fairy tale you think you live in, Love doesn't happen in a few weeks. You are probably infatuated at the moment; you sound too young to have a boyfriend. \nP.S. it's better to have a shy guy than a loud jerk.
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YES YOU CAN!\nBUT THE FALLING IN LOVE I'M THINKING ABOUT( NO!) YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF FALLING IN LOVE OR TO ACT ON SUCH AN  EMOTION.
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The sexual attraction is there for starters, if its strong flirtaton! But love come with time , lust comes first I think, but there is a saying LOVE at first sight , so are you in love with him or is it lust? There is a difference but you got to be in a relationship for a while my opinion is , so the lust grows into love and that could take from a day to a week , to a month , and it's good to find out if you got the same interests and beliefs early in a relationship. When I met an ex of mine we were in lust , but we played a game one day down on the beach , it was a great setting and we asked each other what our favorite coulors were , till we practically new each other inside out and it was great fun to see if we liked the same things, that relationship lasted ten years but alchol made us grow apart. So go out some where like a quiet cafe , and start chatting , play the game , ask what he thinks about love and then he could ask you and maybe you will find your answer just like that and have fun the same time laughing when you both kissed when you were little and did you run like hell or was it fun and ask child hood pranks you both got up to , you will end up having a whale of a time and it wont even cost a lot of money , just a couple of coffee's . You could find a nice quiet pub, and have a few glasses of wine to pluck up the courage to ask questions, say you saw this survey in a magizine and would he like a laugh and have a go at playing it, what have you got to lose, I hope at the end of it you have a good relationship and you will FALL in love . Best of luck , go for it lv D, jones x Ps. I gave the same advise to a similar question b4 and had good feed bk frm it .... so have fun x
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hmmm... three months is a little early to be "in love".  i would wait and make sure what your feeling is really love and not infatuation.
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no you are fine, you should fall in love when you meet the suitable girl\nas long as you didn't met her, you won't fal in love. logical huh?
638607
Yes, you can most definitely fall in love in two months, love is a growing process. EHarmony is a reputable place.  Sounds like he is very in to you!
617492
try falling in love and u will know how it works, simple
493364
Love is something that usually grows.  Love at first sight doesn't happen very often.  It's hard to just be in love.  The only way you can discover if you are in love is to give it time to grow and be patient.  If you can see yourself going through life and growing old with the other person then you may very well be in love.  As for the other person, just wait.
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Than that would be lust.. not love. To fall in love usually you at least need to speak with the person, unless they are a deaf-mute.
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It varies with each man. Some men fall in love instantly and others it takes a very long time. You will know when it happens cause he will tell you in a million ways. Everything from being over attentive to showering you with gifts, he'll want to spend every waken moment with you.
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You'll just know when the time is right with the right person.  Nothing you can really know before the perfect moment just happens.  As soon as it does you'll understand that time.
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no it takes time to fall in love