Advice on talking with women?
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A very simple Hi....how are you?.....with a big smile will do just fine. Or how about "where have you been all my life"? Or even....."You are so pretty". Maybe even a classic..."Have I seen you before?"....but act as if you really seen her before. Good luck. I hope these work to at least break the ice.
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Ask yourself is the possibility of getting this girl worth the effort of overcoming your insecurities and shyness? Is holding her, seeing her smile, laugh, waking up to see her face in the morning worth putting for effort to change?  You're the only one that can actually do that, though here is a little advice that may help you in talking to her:\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nAs for the no being able to relate to others because you don't drink of dance... You're not the only one, a lot of people don't enjoy the bar and club scenes, you'll find others that feel the same way. If the people you want to hang out with do goto these places you can go with them everyonce in a while. You really don't need experience to be with friends at most of them.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful tod
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THE most important thing about talking to chicks is to realize that they love to talk about what they want to talk about, so if you can be funny and ask openended questions, then PAY ATTENTION to what they reply and go from there, you'll be fine.  \nConfidence reinforces itself, so always remember the past successes and build from there.  If you blow it (and you will), just forget about it and try again.  \nHang in there guy, it gets easier with time...
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Hi. Then make some kind of general comment. Small talk usually works best to build a illusion of a relationship and then bring on the lines. This may or may not work, but it's better than walking up to a girl and saying "hey baby, wanna fuck?"
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need not to be goodlooking but presentable and decent.\nalways bring your sense of humour in any conversation, just to break the monotony of a serious topic. \nknow her knowledge level and favourite topic of conversation, then research and discuss the next time you see her.\nbe mysterious and don't be so agressive\ngood luck!!!!
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The best advice I can give you is to try and make friends with your co-workers or neighbors.  When I moved to the city I live in now, I became great friends with my neighbors and we hang out all the time.  Also I met people through work. And have made great friends that way too.  Another idea might be to join a class with some kind of interest to you and make friends that way whether its a cooking class, an aerobics class, or an art class.  These places are great for women getting together and hanging out.  Its easy to make conversation at places like this.  Once you've started a conversation and after a few times going to a class or talking to people at work its much easier to start planning things outside of these areas to go and have a drink at a bar or catch a movie or go shopping together.  Women aren't that weird about meeting new people and accepting new friends.  It has worked for me and now I have plenty to do in my free time.  I go get my nails done with a woman from work and another friend from work and I go to have drinks now and again, and my old neighbor I mentioned, we get together and our kids hang out.  When I took classes at college I met all kinds of nice girls to hang out with and we would go to the mall or grab coffee and hang out.  There are lots of women out there just like you looking for the same thing.  I hope I helped you!
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grocery stores (ask them advice about food), long lines (dmv, etc.), night classes, volunteer groups (woman are statiscally shown to volunteer more), and generally any other place is potentially a good place to talk to woman. I find one of my favorites places is when they are working...cuz they have to be nice since you are the customer you have the upper advantage. They love a laidback sense of humor. good luck
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Buy her a drink and let her to the talking. All women love good listeners. And dont ask yes or no questions. Ask questions that need a explanation. Let her think you want to know more about her.
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First off, most girls do NOT like being referred to as Chicks.Other than that, meeting women involves risk and alot of trial and error. Get out more! Go to where girls/women are likely to be and always ask your friends if they know female friends who would like to meet someone.Saying Hi to a random girl is a good way to start a conversation. Avoid pickup lines, fancy outfits, and bar scenes and just be yourself. Being confident about yourself and curious about other people is very appealing to most women(at least in my experience). Don't see rejection for a date as failure, simply move on and accept advice from your rejector if she gives you any.
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Go in with an open mind. \n\nSure, when women want to talk, it's always seems to be about the relationship, but go in with an open mind.\n\nShe wants to talk to you about it, whatever "it' is. You may be surprised.
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You will only insult a woman if you give some insincere, generic oft-used line to push up her confidence, and in turn, perhaps hurt her feelings, especially if she hears you turn around and say the exact thing to another. The best thing you can do is truly find something about each woman as an individual that you genuinely appreciate, admire, or respect and tell her this in a gentlemanly way. Male or female, if you sincerely want to find something good to say about someone, you will usually find it in each individual!
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
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Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.
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I have 3 words for you. Flirt, flirt, flirt.  You have to come on to a woman for her to respond to you.  Think up some lines.  Think up some comebacks.  Like - when I say "Oh, I've lost a few pounds", you say "hey don't loose too much I like my women to have something to hold on to".. See how clever yet flirtatious..
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How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
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Take a walk anywhere "nice" women are walking (e.g., sidewalk in a nice part of your city). When you see someone really interesting, say, "Hello," introduce yourself, and take her with you. If she is busy at that very moment, get her phone number and make sure you call her. If she is married (also a possibility), apologise and move on; she will be too flattered to hold a grudge. Do this until you get someone. By the way, if you don't see anything that you like at any time, wait until you do. You will see someone you like soon enough.\n\nAnother place to pick up nice girls is at a grocery store. However, keep in mind that others will be near you there, so you won't get as much privacy to ask for her number; and it is good for the two of you to bond from the beginning -- just the two of you, even for a moment. If she has only a couple of items, insist on paying for them at the register, then walk her to her car. It will not cost much, but you will already be getting her attention that she can rely on you. (No, it is not a money thing, it is a security thing.) Again, if she is married or attached, apologise and move on. Soon enough you will wind up with someone you are happy with.
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There really isn't a "best way"  in my opinion.  I'm a lady and it just all depends on the conversation I have with a man.  You have to give eye contact when talking to a woman.  Be courteous and honest.  Besides the obvious, just make sure she's interested in you.  Let her know that if possible you would like to get to know her better.  Heck most guys that ask me out always want to take me somewhere fancy, so I always agree.