is weight really a factor when chosing a girlfriend?
148123
I dont really like a girl by the way she looks I will love the girl inside. I may have a good looking girl and she is all stupid or have a ugly girl who cares about me and the other around me. Doent really matter I love all girls!!!!\n\nI wont mind a fat girl!
160095
i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
133831
well i use to think so but i guess not cause my boyfriend loves me and loves my body just because its apart of me! so if he really loves you it doesn't matter whats big, small, thin, or fat he will love all of you!!!There is not one woman that is perfect cause even the women who seem perfect dont like something about themselves!!!
508931
Losing weight will not make you more attractive, per se. You might get more ATTENTION from people who would have never talked to you when you were heavier, but remember: part of attraction is allure. You need to feel good about yourself; feel sexy. Men and women can tell someone who has low self esteem a lot of the time from the way they look (don't make eye contact, walk with head down, etc), and even if not from the way you carry yourself, they will know when you open your mouth. Make sure you're losing weight to benefit your lifestyle - as a part of being healthier, not to worry about who you will ATTRACT. That stuff will come along at the appropriate time.
1085119
I think that you should tell her not to worry about her appearance.People will fall in love with her because of her personality.Besides men like their women in different shapes and sizes.Men that are drop dead gorgeous go out with big girls.Everybody has their own taste.Just try to talk to her and convince her that there is someone out there fir her and it doesn't matter how she looks..There is a man out there that will like all her thickness.
71331
Sure!  It all depends on the girl.  A chunky guy might have to be more outgoing or funny...I think it can be very difficult and discouraging in middle school or high school (but what isn't during those years?).  I think one of the keys is self confidence.  A guy who is always apologetic or obviously unhappy with himself is hard to be attracted to (especially for me).  \n\nWeight can play a part in attraction, but so does personality.  And in the U.S. most of us are a little chunkier than we should be.  If a guy is unhappy with his weight, there are always things to do.  I won't lie and say it is easy, but if someone really wants to loose weight it can be done.  (I am in Weight Watchers, so I am trying to practice what I preach.)
842095
It depends on what's she's like. I would not date a girl just because she's skinny. I have girls at my school that are skinny and sleep around alot. They also are the worst to talk to. So it would depend on here personality.
619236
It depends on their confidence level.  I've dated a heavy guy who was very confident in himself, he didn't have that "hang dog" attitude about him. He was carefree and was self consious when we went out. But I also dated a heavy guy who was the opposite.  He would refuse to dance with me when we went out because I guess he thought people would look and laugh at him.  We broke up.  Heaviness I can deal with, low self esteem and self loathing I can't.
154940
Depends on the girl's height, of course. Let's say that a girl 5' 10'' tall is "fat" if she's over 150 pounds.
615707
Sure you can attract girls! Seriously mate, I know it might sound cliche, but it really is what's on the inside that matters. Just make sure that you're not unhealthily fat. What I mean is, some people are naturally big-boned, but others could lose weight if they got some exercise. If you're the second type, then work out! Well, work out anyway- it helps to keep you healthy, AND it improves your sex drive! (...er... it's supposed to anyway...) Stay healthy- healthy people, regardless of how they're built, are attractive. Seriously- just so long as you look alert and active, and walk straight, with your chin up, it doesn't matter if you're on the heavy side. But back to the point, when you meet the love of your life, she's not going to care if you're fat or so thin that you're two-dimensional. She's going to love you for who you are on the inside. Of course, there are girls (and boys, too) who judge people by their looks and their looks alone, but don't worry about them! Remember- those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. A great sense of humour is a big bonus, by the way- it's one of the first things I look for in a guy! Anyway mate, good luck!
456903
I think it all depends on the guy, when I was heavy I did notice that my choice in girlfriends were based on character. But once I dropped a ton of weight and actually developed a good body my choices lately haven't been based on character but rather on looks and well lets just say the last few experiences haven't been all that great.
63652
I am a female, and no i don't think that, I find that with my past relationships my looks were just a bonus, if the girl has a great personality, then there really isnt a need for great looks or nice rack or a firm rear. so if you find that you like this girl with an amaxing personailty and colorful aura, then no it isnt based on looks, im pretty average and none of my relationships are based on looks and ive dated some of the best looking guys around.
340415
Looks matter to a certain extent. I'll be honest and say I wouldn't date someone incredibly homely and 600 lbs, and most of you would agree. Personality is immensely important to me. He must be a good listener, and can't be arrogant.
1083474
Not all men have the same opinions about that.All people are different and therefore some of them will like skinny and some fat ... Being skinny or fat is not the most important thing in a relationship.Love is blind , it doesn't see the size!
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
508565
mostly skinny but i have dated a thick girl and she was a really good girl... alot of it has to do with personality. Personality can make a girl lood beautiful
1060109
I don't think it has anything to do with size or right moves, its about emotions and the way that person and you feel for each other!