What should I do about my boyfriend of  7 months not remembering my birthday or Valentine's Day.....??
138397
MEn forget these things, as much as it hurts some of us. Tell him how important this is to you. Thne leave hints as to when a special day is coming a few days before.
222828
maybe he just really loves his job?\nwell i would just phone him during the party and ask him if he could just come for like half an hour or something. cuz you really want him to attend your birthday party. \n\nif he really cant. i would just have the birthday party without him. but then the next day or something, i'll spend the night with him. and have a bday party for just the two of us.
780748
It sounds like need to move on. He is not satisfying your needs and he has anger issues. What are you trying to hold on to? It is obvious that he doesn't do it for you in more ways than one. Cut your losses and move on. Make that a birthday gift to yourself.
843826
As hard as it is to do this, I think the most important thing you can do is stop wondering if he misses you or not.  It really doesn't matter either way.  What matters is that you take care of yourself and work on your own self-worth/self-esteem.  Eventually as time goes by, you won't care what he thinks about you.  :)
418696
try talking to him about it... if he ignores you then u can always say u tried! ... noone could stay with someone like that, if you really feel he doesnt like you just tell him and break up, it might be hard but u can rest assured its the best option, u deserve better... wishin u the best!!!
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
502940
Well, first wait until the day is over!  There's still a chance he or she will call!\n\nIf your child doesn't call, make arrangments to meet or speak at a neutral time and tell your kid that they really disappointed you.  You manage to remember their special days, and now that they are adults they should be able to remember days that are important to you.  If nothing else works, I'm sure that "forgetting" their birthday would make an impact!
851371
I really don't want to be mean, but I've noticed several questions on this topic that you've posted.  I think at this point astrology is irrelevant, because he is with someone else.  Even if I told you that he was astrologically perfect for you and not her, does that really help? what will that change?  he is still with her.  You are still so young to be so obsessed with one person.  7 years is along time, especially at your age, I think that you should chalk this one up as your first great love and now move on and try to be more independant.  You have a choice, you can spend the next few months hating and desping them, living in bitterness and jealousy and hoping he will come back to you, or you can find comfort in your friends, go out, have fun, get some interests/hobbies and enjoy life.  By the way, which one of those types do you think guys will find more appealing?
760517
Dump that loser...if your birthday is not important to him then he doesn't value you and/or your relationship.  So, unless he's planning to surprise you by making an appearance, party on girlfriend and find a new guy.  Good Luck and happy birthday.
527495
Seven months and stil dont know how much love is there?  I think he is just keeping you busy????     Keep Looking!
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
164521
If you want a memorable valentine that your bf will remember?  (just for this year) Try and act like as if you were the guy - the giving one.  Instead of asking for this and that you plan the whole date: activities, gifts, and so on.  Now, don't scare him by reading him the plan (don't read it at all or tell him how it's going to be) instead wait till your activities starts and start telling him your ideas- by doing this, it will make it spontaneous.  Believe me guys like that.  As for the event don't make it so cheesy (unless you guys just started dating) but do some guy stuff and present him his gift (any guys stuff would do).  Remember by doing it this way just for this year- you will be rewarded every year by your bf and he will think your cool.
911312
Well, it sounds like maybe he needs a little prodding...maybe you should get him a gift that signifies something meaningful to the two of u, and then plan a night that he wont soon forget.
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
821040
Honey, if he's your boyfriend be honest with him.  Get him one present and make it for both.  If he cares about you, he won't care he only gets one present...he has you doesn't he!!!
460211
Try to get another thing to forger about him. Some hobby or something, love is one thing, but work is another. Do something in the house and you will see that you will be able to forget about him going to work and when he return you'll be overjoyed.
504709
Why are you dating him? To raise your self esteem?\n\nPeople can't lower or raise your self esteem only you can!\n\nIf you can't love you then no on will!\n\nStop being overexcessive about nothing. Think of better things, so what if he doesn't call? Are you going to just stay there and be depressed, when he probalbly just forgot?\n\nIt doesn't mean anything unless you want it to be!