wHY DO YOUNG MEN (ESPECIALLY TEENAGERS) EXPERIENCE WET DREAMS?
149025
The nightly wet-dream just is a normal event and for young guys mainly.\nIn fact, during puberty and adolescence it is due to the hormones storm while later it just is the vivid fantasy and the hot dreams to let that event.\nIt occurs in the night and precisely at the end of the sleep and in the REM phase of the sleep.\nOn that time dream are more deep and unconscious, many erection occurs repetitively and during one of them, there could be a little ejaculation too. When awake guys remember nothing about.\nGrowing on and with a regular sexual life such occurrence decrease till to disappear.\nThere’s no negative impact, as you say, so just don’t worry.
1180758
They are normal part of growing up. Masturbate if you want to have them not happen. You really should. It's healthy. They say that men that masturbate regularly when they are young have less chance of prostate cancer when they get old. So, not ejaculating (which is what you are talking about) is what will have a negative effect on you. Wet dreams are a positive thing.
419955
The frequency of nocturnal emissions is highly variable. Some men have\nexperienced large numbers of nocturnal emissions as teenagers, while some\nmen have never experienced one in their lives. Generally speaking, young men\nwho mastu**ate very little or not at all have the most nocturnal emissions.\n\nhttp://www.questionz.net/List_of_phobias/Nocturnal_emission.html
1106895
It means you are absolutely normal and healthy!\nThe simple reason why you wake up like this, is that you bladder is filled and presses on some of the blood vessels around this area. And this is exactly that causes the erection.\nOnce you've urinated, I'm quite certain that everything goes back to normal...\nAnd it is an old myth that it is related to you having 'special' dreams.
269968
When I was 5, and well past potty-trained, I use to pee in my sleep. B/c I was dreaming that I went to the bathroom and thought I was actually going in the toilet. But when I woke up I realized I was sleeping instead. But as far as grown ups over 18....maybe it's a medical condition or something?
1069495
Because when a man's senses are dulled by sleep then his inhibitions drop considerably and he's more likely to let that deep seeded inner self be expressed. It's a complete opposite of the typical male role to be the strong one and not show emotions so easily. Take advantage of it ... lol.
240023
im in my mid 30s and i only had 2 wet dreams in my life.  so not getting wet dreams in 2 months should not worry you.  though i wish i had more than 2 wet dreams and still wishing i would get it again one of these days.
679213
First, like so many others wrote - MOST people (99%), men and woman masterbate.  It is healthy and normal.  When boys begin puberty, your body begins making MILLIONS of sperm a day...That is a lot of sperm, and not a lot of holding space.  When the sperm are mature and ready to be "used" they will need to get out somehow to make room for the younger, healthier sperm being made.  If you are not having sex, masterbation releases sperm.  If you are not masterbating very often, you may even experience wet dreams, or nocturnal emissions - the body's way of relasing sperm on it's own.  Hope that helps...
751278
I had brain surgery 3 years ago and obviously i couldn't have sex for a while, well after about a month, even though i was still pretty ill, i started to have really erotic dreams, even though sex was definitely not on the agenda for me, i woke my wife to "let her take the situation in hand". i'm pretty sure i was on the verge of wet dreams, i was 38.\nBasically youre not wierd, once you get a regular sex life going again, i'm sure they will stop. it is nothing to be ashamed of anyway, it's just your bodies way of letting you know that everythings still working.
434986
Feminine discharge is normal.  It fluctuates according to where we are in our menstrual cycle.  To give him more proof, have him check out this:\nhttp://www.pamf.org/teen/health/femalehealth/discharge.html\n\nBTW, turn about is fair play...ask him WHO he is fantasizing about when he has wet dreams?
1131777
Dreams are just extentions of our awake conscience mind, we have a sleep cycle, and when we reach "rem" sleep, this is when we are in the deepest sleep, and our subconscienc mind takes over,we take our conscience mind into our sleep, this is useful so that we can continue to be alert even in our subconscience state.\n  This is why a person will wake up if somone is watching you, how soldiers stay alert on the battle fields, how new moms can hear thier infant cry, when normally they are "heavy sleepers".\n  So usally our dreams are about things that are going on in our everyday life. You did not say, what feeling you where haveing, scared, lonely, try and remember how you where feeling. This may give you the answer.\n    If you are a teen ager I would say that you may have met a boy that you like, and feel you parents are not giving you enough space? Plus when we meet a person we are attracted to, endorphines and other chemicals that effect our pleasure senses are released, ( this to is our bodies function for the continuation and survival of man,),this also is what gives people esp. young women the "fairytale feeling"  of love,if you are being held back from expericing these, it can bring on a feeling of being trapped, or imprisoned, and you see this guy as your rescuer, your knight in shining armor, he's the only one who can save me, ect. ect.\n    If not young and feeling stiffled by parents, then maybe a significant other, a husband, and don't feel bad, having romantic thoughts for someone besides your partner is very normal......acting on them well that's a choice you will make.\n    In summary, somthing, or someone is making you feel trapped, and you see this guy, or the image of a guy who is like this person as the only one who can save you,protect you. .......\n     I thought teenage first, because most times they are the ones that feel if I was only somone elese.........Astella, this person (the guy )could or would come and save me.
652477
Teenagers experience love and heartbreak just like people of any age. They often love more passionately and hurt more deeply at the end of a relationship or friendship. Teenagers don't really see tomorrow; everything is right now and final. \n\nHormones play a more dominate role in the teenage years; this is new territory, and they're terribly insecure and yes ... horny. Their bodies are telling them yes while every authority figure is screaming no. \n\nThey often confuse sexual desire with "love", but those feelings are as real and important to them as the love felt between more mature adults. They often feel dismissed by parents ( or even their own peers ) when they confide that they're in love, so they learn to downplay their future feelings. Teenaged girls feel emotional love more deeply; teenaged boys are primarily driven by their biology.
374800
some people have the urge to pee after ejaculation. like you say you r holding in. maybe with age your bladder control is not as good as it use to be ....
108543
Where it happens is not really an issue. Many younger kids just don't develope their bladders as quickly as others. Even if it is just "nerves" wetting the bed is not actually "Normal". If it is a matter of an under developed bladder it may resolve itself as you grow. However, an underlying medical condition could be at the root of the problem. Only you know how often, what age you are, etc and can take proper action, whether telling parents or taking your self to the Doctor.\n\nIf it is an underdeveloped bladder, and you are wetting either just at friends or at home as well sometimes, there are some things you can do. (I have a small bladder and wet the bed occassionally untill I was nearly ten). If at a sleep over, don't drink any liquids four hours before bedtime. This gives you time to make sure most or all of your liquid intake during the day has gotten to your bladder and had a chance to void out by going to the bathroom. If at home don't drink two hours before bedtime. Another tip, (but you may not be able to do this at a sleepover which is why I say the four hour not drinking at the sleepovers) Set an alarm for about midnight or so to wake you up to go to the bathroom. Sometimes sleeping really soundly you won't wake up to go to the bathroom and then wet the bed. Have you ever dreamed you were going to the bathroom and then wokeup to find you wet the bed? I use to. Also, when you spend the night you can use those pullup things under you jammies. I wish I had them when I was a kid. I hope these things help. sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite! :-)
1128103
For some people it's probably true that the older they get the fewer dreams they have. There could be a logical reason for that: Many dreams are really about conflicts we need to resolve, or decisions we need to make... Dreams can be the sleeping mind's way of digesting and resolving all the bumps (big and small) that pop up along the road of life. \n\nAnd more than a few of these conflicts are about emotional relationships, which (generally) aren't as volatile among older folks. \n\nAs we age, we get to know ourselves better, and sometimes that means we face fewer personal dilemmas than when we were younger. So if an older person who is in good health and gets adequate sleep is more settled and more stress-free than he was when younger, he might find that he has fewer dreams.
906912
Because you are a healthy adult male. All grown men who are in good health wake up with erections. You should be worried if you DIDN'T have a hard on when you woke up!
431247
During sleep a part of the brain called the pons fires randomly. The cortex of your brain then tries to make sense of these random signals by pairing them with things in your memory. If you spend all day listening to dark music and thinking about death, you would then dream about it. It means nothing. Analyzing the latent content of dreams is nonsense that went out of favour with scientists a long time ago. \nFreud also believed nonsense like "all women suffer from penis envy." Freud is highly quotable, but unreliable.