how do i get a sexy girl friend to be my long time date?
141434
Ask her.\n\nPlus, you have this in the wrong category.
847767
Hey, do what I did.  Ask her to a movie or some other one-on-one activity, make sure she is the only one that comes.  Don't hint that it's a date until you're there.  Let her figure it out.\n\nIf you do the corny thing, like put your arm around her during the movie, she'll get the hint, too.  I confess, I did it and it worked.\n\nBig thing to remember, though.  If she responds in a positive way (she doesn't run out of the theatre screaming), don't take the night any further along.  Don't go for the first kiss or all the fun stuff that comes later.  At the end of the night, see if she is interested in a date with you another time.  She'll think you're a nice boy and probably say yes.  (unless she's one of those promiscuous types, which may be fun once, but you'll regret it later, trust me).\n\nAnd, if she doesn't want to go out again, you can always keep the friendship, cause you never really went out on a date, did you?  You were just a couple friends hanging out.\n\nGood luck!
422911
Listen up.\nTry this, it always works. The girl wont mind and she will secretly like it. The moment you appraoch the girl at the begining of the date, Kiss her. Just like you would greet your grandmother, with a kiss on her cheeck and maybe a SLIGHT pat on the top of her back or maybe a SLIGHT hug. No more than this for now. Also its important that you dont ask or hesitate with this. Walk straight up to her and do it. I promise she will love it. Dont push your luck whilst on the date. (Unless of course she comes on strong to you) If nothing else has happened by the time its time to part company at the end of the date. Do exactly the same thing again (NO MORE) just before you leave. Thats it. The problem is, that she will fall in love with you before she goes to bed. So if you dont want to be going steady with her dont do these things as you will break her heart. Let girls know where they stand from the word go so you dont break their hearts. If you do this and treat them with respect, word will soon get around and you will have more girls than you can handle. And everyone of them will know the score.
618869
Sometimes, you just can't. It all depends what you're into and what lengths you're willing to go to but my personal (and instinctive) advice would be to move on and find someone who's \n\n1. obviously interested and \n2. not into playing silly retrograde games.\n\nThere's a chance, however, that she may just be unsure or genuinely fickle so, if you really like her, you could just sit tight and keep flirting. You've already asked her out so she knows you like her. Now it's up to her to make a move.
248897
Guess u must be a guy. Well since uall have been fiends its not be easy, two things ur either gonna get her or loose ur friendship prob. What kinda friends were yall. Does she know ur dirt. Do u know hers. Does she like you, treat u special or diff form her other male friends. If ur not absolutely sure that she likes u, then only tell her how u feel. If ur sure she likes u then make a move. I mean ask her out on a date and just ask her how she'd feel if you fancied her on the date noy at home. \nU sound like u had sex with her, and now u caught feelings. Why are u worried where she is, or doing. What do u mean by never really dated her.\nIf u had sex with her before, or still havin it with her then ur trouble dog. Does she worry about where u are. How often do you all talk on the phone, how often does she call you, when does she call you.\n\nLate calls could mean ur prob the only one she talks to, of cares about. If she always gets of the other calls she was on when u call her then she digs u dog. \nWhen u call her late( how late is it) does she care. if she doesnt mind then she digs u men for real. Girls a more direct than us guys.\nIf she really likes u she'll devote to you only, If they wanna break up with u they'll in a minute with no hesitation.\nAssess everything ive said don't make judgements to favor ur thinkin. be unbaised in accessin. test her on all these things and see if she's into u then make ur choice
506157
use charms and looks to lure her in. talk to her and make sure you are funny and charismatic. get her #. then spend tons of money on her and get her to want to hang at your place (since you're under 21). people tend to attract people like themselves, it's a law of the universe. you need to look and act the part. oh, and be confident like you don't need her. women can sense desperation.
1046556
If a girl thinks all you want from her is sex, you're going to get the "let's be friends" line from most you meet.  (Sluts don't count.)  The strongest relationships start as friendships.  My advice to you would be to slow down, don't try to get your nookie on the first date, and spend some time getting to know the wonderful world of the feminine mystique.
1133316
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
786255
try and do things that will get you near her, join a club, hang out with the same people, join a sport. you must find a reason to talk to her. being a lady i know that women cannot read minds. often i will find out a guy has liked me AFTER the fact and after its too late (like when i'm with someone or no longer live near them). many of the times I also have liked these men. ask a mutual friend about what she likes so that you will have something to talk about. just say something to her!!
830660
Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
893347
That really depends how close you want to be with her . \nIf you just wish to stay friends then give her a root!! Just kidding. \n\nGet her stuff that shows friendship and humor.  \n\nIf you want her to be your gf, then you better be careful how you go about it. Ask yourself, where you're at with her, how she thinks about you...etc \n\nDude, most of the time you only get one shot at it. You have to decide whether is friendship you want with her or "Pill-pill" is what your after!!
913290
You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
275737
ok one, movies, not a good place. you dont even get to know her that well then. Go to a resturaunt. Much better. NOW, best thing to do is have the guts, because girls really do respect guys that are WILLING and CONFIDENT in their selves. BUT, where there is a will there is a way. Go to one of your buddies, and if he is friends with her have him go up to her and say "hey, i think my friend here likes you, but im not sure, would you want me to hook you up with em?" somthing like that, that way he isnt saying you DO like her. but he isnt asking FOR you. he is just helping HER out kuz he wants to be "matchmaker" ect. so you are excluded from the shame of rejection. but having the guts is recomended. somtimes you just have to take risks for love. good luck dude.
1004195
Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)
675753
It develops over time.  Often friends do become more.  My advice would be to treat her well, be considerate, take her to nice places, invite her to your place to get a better sense of your personality and lifestyle.  \n\nIn any relationship you must be yourself, because your true colors come out in the end--always.  So, don't try to be something you aren't.  \n\nAlso, I think you must ask yourself the opposite question.  What would make you want to be her boyfriend????\n\nDon't act desperate or crude.  Believe me I have had several guy friends who wanted more and they blew it by being obvious and telling me over and over why I should not be dating the person I was with and why I should date them.  It was flattering at first in a way, but it made me feel icky as well, not to mention it was a nice way of putting me down.  \n\nIt's not how you get her to like you.  Why does she like you now.  Is there hope?  Does she seem interested or totally abliss.  If there is a connection you will know it by how she acts around you, if she feels the same way...If you do not get the same signals, then do not pursue it.  However, if you think there is some chemistry, maybe mention your feelings to her close friend and see what they think.  Also sending flowers for no reason will get the point across.  \n\nRemember too, that it is better to have a friend than to risk losing one to an unsure relationship. Is it worth it??
774028
lol....just be yourself...be confident!!! Like i said..it may take a while because I'm 23 years old, married and there are still things I shy away from. It happens but like i said..be confident. You don't need you friends to introduce you to there female friends if they don't want to. Introduce yourself...have a nice conversation and take it from there.  And it's good you don't use your car or money for the women. There are soo many women out there looking for a guy like you. Give it some time.
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To "make" her? What - is this like some performing poodle?\n\nYou haven't said if you want more than a one-off "make love".\nIf just one-off, just go out for an evening with her and get her much more drunk than you are. With luck she might not even remember, and then you can try the same trick again later.\n\nIf you want any kind of deeper relationship, you're gonna have to seriously loosen up in your whole approach.\nEm - as a first step, try getting to know her.\n(I mean, really know her rather than just her name.)