why do some perfer hate instead of love?
150893
b/c if you never love and only hate then nobody can break your heart. hate is not and never will be a stronger word than love, it only seems this way b/c it has a negitive effect on a person and hurts were as love makes you feel good about yourself.
792936
they're haters; people tend to be jealous of people they wish they were...
743816
It is hate that you must understand if you are to understand the why of your query,as well as so many other questions.\nPeople hate some have reasons,some remarkably hate because they are good Christians,others hate because they don't understand,still others are pure evil and hate just to hate.
349635
nope, coz deep down...the reason a person who says they hate love... want to be loved. And mark that i said - \n"who says"....coz they want to hate love (for the negative things that happened in life (coz of misjuding love...real love doesnt hurt) ...but love is too powerful positive force to hate.
317779
Hate is the more detrimental,because it will eat you from the inside out.Harboring hate is like eating a grenade.It will explode its just a matter of where and when.Love on the other hand is a different kind of pain.Its like a growing pain that will make you stronger once you experience it on different levels.Hate won't make you stronger,it will weaken you.
1158441
It is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.
367320
People who don't like others because they are different are ignorant. People often fear what they don't understand, and ignorant people only like others like themselves because they understand and can relate to people similar to themselves, but those that are differnt because of lifestyle, race, language ect. they don't understand and there for fear. Of course they don't say that's why they dislike someone, or a group of people, but that is why. These type of people are not to be hated for their ignorance,they should be pittied, because they live sad scarred, small close minded ignorant angry life, surrounded by other sad pathetic close minded ignorant people just like them:-)
790297
Most people that are nice have a good understanding of God and what He requires of them, so they try their best and seem nice, even though they are not perfect and falter at times. Others that do not know God, or do not care to know Him simply find no reason to be nice. They love to see hurt in other people because their lives are a mess and they hurt animals because they have so much hate in them. When you neglect God in your life you invite hatred, senselessness, evil, and Satan himself into your life
135817
hate springs from greed. human nature always tells us to be the best.. strive for the best... our inability to be the best, creates envy and frustration. it creates grief --thus mankind is prone to hate. if man can do away with this lust for fame, power, fortune then maybe mankind can indeed love thy neighbor.
310991
Because we have a lot of people out there who aren't really as mature on the inside as they behave on the outside, and enjoy planting strife or get a laugh at doing or saying something truly rude.\n\nLot of truly deadbeat people out there. Some you can't love, because not everybody really wants to be loved.
543290
The reason there is so much hate in the world is because we humans don't accept one another for who we are. The other thing is that politics often times stir tension between groups, societies, different religions/belief systems and people of different race/color. I for one do not hate anybody and my religion teaches me if you hate someone I'll be sinful. So I do not hate anyone and I accept everyone of different shape, size, color, race, gender, sex, orientation, personality. I'll tell you what I don't accept, I don't accept people who are fanatical and are too extreme. So it depends, there are good people and bad people in every culture, every country, every race, and in every society, it doesn't matter if you're white, black, Mexican, brown, yellow, green, hot pink, etc.. And lastly I accept people with different view points if they are not threatening the society or me. Or causing tension or hatred or bloodshed. If a person doesn't express his viewpoint without being extreme than I would not accept his viewpoints whatsoever since extremism can lead to hate!
592398
Because to hate all the time is stupid, life draining, time consuming, emotionally exhausting, physically abusive and just not great for ones social life.. \n\nWho needs that?!\n\nI'm down with the love thing any day!
372076
People's intolerance and ingorance about things such as religion and other aspects that they know little about. Most hatred comes from ignorance and a lack of understanding and perhaps by eliminating it, peace would be an attainable posibility in a world that is too focused on violence and negativity.
79828
I hate less all the time.  It gets easier and easier to become forgiving as time goes on if you get on that track.  I don't think I was ever particularly hateful but now the only thing I seem to hate is hate itself, and when people chew with their mouth wide open or panic.
619706
Hate is a strong emotion. Waaaay stronger than most of us even realise! Never good to hate.
24978
Good for you. Hatred is not a nice feeling.
24271
because they're afraid of judgement.  they judge others because they feel judged themselves.  i hate people that don't like me, but i don't try to, it just occurs that way.  we can supress or express our hate, but it's still there.  people hate as often as they love.  the end... i suppose.