Do you think it is wrong to be in love with a married man even if you know he is your soul mate?
151130
this is tough. Your only get one soulmate in a lifetime. Both of you though have families. You said you live with your childrens father you didnt say husband or boyfriend so is it that you live together but you are not together? this is really something you and your soulmate need to dicuss if this is how both of you feel. It's a tough thing. You having to choose with taking care of responsibility to your children and he to his wife or do you stay true to your heart and be together  and get through everything together. It is really something both of you have to discuss. Sometimes a person makes a mistake and marries someone they may care for but who isnt their soulmate. So both of you do need to talk and decide what you will choose to do. It is a tough choice but that is also how you know if its meant to be because if this is something you can get through than you know you made it. I wish you the best and may you recieve your hearts desire.
1135901
No its not wrong! I was with my husband 10 yrs and had 2 lovely kids,we got married then within 18 mth of the marrage he slept with 2 others and moved out! He said he felt diffrent since we married and to tell you the truth so did I! we are working through stuff but we both agree that we wished we had left things the way we were! If you's are happy why take a chance and spoil things? Good luck to the both of you!!
74813
No it isn't wrong as it can't be worked out. If both of you choose to leave the marriage that is your business, but beware that the grass isn't greener on the other side..Lady
496798
I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.
581299
The fact that you are even thinking of this guy doesn't speak very highly of your feelings for your husband.  If something is meant to be, then it will be.  Maybe that guy was supposed to be "the one", maybe not.  But since it didn't work out when you had the chance, I'm leaning more towards "NOT."  Please put him out of your mind and focus all your love and attention on the man you married.
1093725
You need to realize that your not really falling in love with him but that you still have a crush on him and that your feelings are based upon the past and not on your current life.  He may be a wonderful guy but the reality of it is you really have no idea if you two could ever really be together and be happy together like you and your husband are.  The best way to deal with this is just to keep reminding yourself how lucky you are to have the life you do and stop focusing on what you can't/ don't have.
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
296419
Well, i wouldnt forget about him. I would stay close with him. Maybe just maybe if he is the right one for u and ur the right one for him he might divorse his wife and u both live happy for the rest of ur life. Ive seen this many of times and normally what u r felling is the sign that he is the one for u.
1147910
You are not wrong for feeling the way you do about his infidelity.  However, you can be blamed if you are not letting your feelings known to the person(s) you are blaming for putting you in this position of mistrust, anger, sadness...  If you let this go for too long, you'll lose yourself.  Let your feelings out and you'll definitely feel better...and it will give you a sense of freedom to make choices about what to do next.  Separation can be a good thing when trying to figure it out.  Because you are married and even though he is in the wrong, he has a right to know how you feel and what you intend to do about it.  If your desire to give him another chance is there but buried with all the anger then focus on the good you two have shared and go back to those magical moments to help you remember why you were together in the first place.  No one is perfect, wife or husband, we all have faults.  Forgiveness won't be easy but it will give you both freedom whether you stay together or not.  I wish you all the best.
107388
is it wrong to flirt with other men while married
49971
What you are feeling is perfectly normal. Just because you are married and love your husband does not mean you are dead. I am sure your husband is not perfect and neither is the other guy. It's like the new car smell, eventually it wears off as the car gets older.\n\nBe a friend to your friend and keep it that way. There is nothing wrong with feeling for someone that you like and admire. Just keep both of your families in focus and everthing should be okay.
357128
Well, first of all don't start any relationship with a married man... (think of a family that you are about to ruin and ask yourself "If I get married, would I want my family to be destroyed by my husband's cheating?" If your answer is no then you'll know how this man's wife would feel if you will agree to be his other woman... second of all, find a single man who will love and accept you for what you are. Afterall, you can fall in love without having to ruin anybody else's life
432434
No it's noy wrong and don't let  any one tell you that it is because you have the right to your own way of life and how you decide to live it and also who you date and when you date them and how old they are when you fall in love with them trust me on this one I know for a fact because I am also in love with a younger person who happens to know it but doesn't know that I know that he loves me back. \n\n            p.s.\n\n           Take this info to head and share it with some one else that you know with the same problem as you and me(to me it's not really a probllem so you shouldn't say that it is).
1001509
Infatuations will never cease.  It is what you do with these feelings that counts.  It is never wrong to love someone.  It is always wrong to break your vows.
799159
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you
424891
If you still love him,tell him the true. Do not make the same mistake I made. I'm been married for seven years, but I still feeling something for my ex-boyfriend. I know isn't love,but maybe butterflies in my stomach. That is strange or not?
190859
I do not believe so..I believe in true love and thats with "THE SPECIAL ONE"..When you love someONE, you love them & only them. Your true soulmate.. You do not want anyone else to or anyone's love but that one special person. Yes, people do cheat but to feel attention or affection...but that is NOT love. Love is a seperate issue. I thought I was in love for 12 years, but maybe I wasnt..Maybe I was...Who knows maybe someday I may love someone even more than him, even though for 12 years I did not think it was possible~but I also didnt think I could live without him.A quote that made me think alot during my relationship "JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE DOESNT LOVE YOU THE WAY U WANT TO BE LOVED;DOES NOT MEAN THEY DO NOT LOVE YOU WITH ALL THEY HAVE....:-) best wishes