i broke up with my bf and i want to forget him but its not that easy so what can i do to forget him?please?
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You probably will not be over him completely until you are involved with another man.  There is, as you know, a man-shaped space inside your . . . heart . . . that you need to fill.  Choose wisely this time, and you won't have to go through this again.
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It is quite natural to still think about a guy you broke up with. Sometimes as someone said above, you might have second thoughts about what you just did or in denial that he broke up with you.\n\nHowever, time is a great healer. You only have to shift your concentration and free time to something else.. like answering in Yahoo! Answers, than questioning hehehehehehe\n\n.:Fishie:.
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You obviously cannot trust him to be anymore than a short-term and very unstable relationship... it's best to refuse to go out with him. As for how you "get over him", you can try finding someone else that you like, or you could busy yourself with other activities as a start. As for the Jazz band performance tomorrow, good luck! I know you'll do well, just practice your part and you'll be fine. Take care.\nAloha,\nDavid
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
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Hi! I know it is highly impossible to forget any person. If you want to live .. go and seek another person..i knw it seems so rude. or live with his memories but it is very difficult. be practical.. forget the past do n't forget him just live with the guy who loves you ...
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How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
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Why did you break up in the first place? How long have you known each other? How long has it been since you broke up?  Do you want him back?  These are all questions you should be asking yourself.  Then perhaps you'll know if it's right for you to pursue him again or to just forget him and move on. :)
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if you really can't get over him, then i guess you'll have to learn the hard way and hear it cold from him. call him and hear his rejection and that should make you get over him. if it doesn't work the first time, keep dfoing that until you are over him and have moved on.
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Just forget about him....it's hard, but that's the only solution.
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Let time take its course. There is no real way to forget someone you care about. As stupid as it sounds, time will heal all wounds. Try to get on with your life as best you can. Surround yourself with positive people and give yourself time to heal. Best of luck to you.
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It will just take time to get over him.  He broke up with you, which means he doenst want anything to do with you, dont write him notes or try to talk to him, just move on.
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there is no easy way to forget someone you allowed into your heart, where others seldom go. and if you trully loved him, then you have to except that he will always have a place in your heart. it is never easy to forget someone. \nbut the one thing you can do is to think about who you are. \nit is time that you started belonging to yourself and not to the past. boost your ego by going out with the girls and flirting with fit men. (that tends to work for me) as long as you don't make the mistake of going home with them on the first night.\nhope that helps:)
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You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
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The best way to get over it, is to move on. Get a new love in your life, and devote 110% of your time and attention to him. You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be "over him'. Good Luck.....
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If you truly want to forget him than it shouldn't matter what things he does/says you'll just want to cut the ties you had with him, if not then you still care and probably dont want to end the contact with him...what ever you decide you will never really forget him, you'll always have the memories of being in the relationship
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you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
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This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..