part 2 to my first question. . . . boyfriend problems?
140794
first of all its said (sorry im nuts with grammer) second,do you believe him. he betrayed you once, what makes you so sure he wouldn't do it again?
854097
Uhhh ask the other guy if he feels like there is something going on between you too? then if he says yes dumb boyfriend then get a with him!
572620
It sounds to me that either he really just doesn't give a fig about your relationship, or he really does but he doesn't want to show that he's bothered by what your friend said to him.\n\nSometimes guys SAY that they don't care just because they don't want to talk about a potentially tough subject for them. At the same time, he's being insensitive to your feelings.\n\nMy advice: Firstly, do YOU even want to go out with him, or do you just have a boyfriend so that you can say that you have one? Do you actually LIKE this guy or not? If you have feelings for him, and want to try and salvage this relationship, corner him and tell him, "Look, everytime I try and talk about stuff, you just shut me out. That really bothers me. It makes me think that you don't care about me. I don't want to break up with you, but unless you actually show me that you care about me and want to be my boyfriend, I'm going to have to break this up. I need a boyfriend that actually wants to be with me and will treat me nicely."\n\nThere, end of story.
695042
it's good you know that these thhings are now too much to take. DOn't tolerate each thng that he does. If you think you're being violated at this, yu shouldn't give much time for him. You'd rather have a breakup if he can't get better after explanations. After all, he is proving how immature he is with all that he does...
159033
On guy number 2, never settle.  It's not fair to you or him.  On guy number one, just go talk with him, see if you can lead the horse to water...  If not, it's not meant to be.
910611
Hello:\n\nFirst off, I know exactly how you are feeling. My ex-boyfriend and I spent more time fighting than we did simply being happy with each other. It just got to be so frusterating. Ultimately I just decided that something wasn't working because we were arguing about the same few things. \n\nWe decided to sit down and have a serious talk about it. One of our main problems was that he was an incredibly jealous person, and I usually am not. He would get upset if he saw me talking to one of my guy friends. I have never ever been unfaithful to anyone and just could never do that to someone, and yet he always assumed that I was messing around behind his back. \n\nAnd then he would get frusterated that I was such a trusting person, and that I would never confront him for talking to another girl. So he started pushing the limits a little bit in order to make me jealous, and boy did it work. It just seemed that we were spending so much time hurting each other. And we agreed that the relationship wasn't working out. \n\nNow we are both in relationships, and we remain friends. And both of our relationships are much more successful than we ever were together. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It was through that experience that I realized it isn't enough to simply love someone, there is more to making a relationship work. \n\nI would suggest having a serious talk with your girlfriend. Figure out which things you are fighting about most often, and I'm sure you will find a common thread. Then you need to decide if it's worth it to make an effort to fix the relationship, or if it's time to move on. \n\nI wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps!
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
663949
About time, you asked what he thinks of you. It seems that you have slipped into that friendship realm, not the boyfriend one.\nUnless some change is made, that's all it will ever be.\nSpeak up, and ask him outright.
1038264
wait til he gets rid of his girlfriend first, cause if you get to involved now your relationship won't flow right, get to know him more he may seem like mr. right but obviously he might not be so cool, since he's having those kind of conversations with you and he has a girlfriend, but if he is the one you won't have to worry about knowing what to do, it'll come to you natuarally, but just be patient, don't get too excited yet ya feel me.
447755
Do you love your boyfriend? If yes, cut off communication.\n\nDo you love those other people? If yes, why are you with your boyfriend?
662062
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
658268
i understand you are very frustrated...\n\n... i can see that you want him to make a decision\nbecause you hate being taddled along and dragged about\n....\nand you want a definite 'relationship' or 'not' kind of\n... relationship...\n\n... and i bet you... he understand that as well...\nbut put yourself in his shoes..\n\nif you had a boyfriend and were getting along fine...\nand suddenly, a single guy enters your world...\n\nand completely blows you away...\n.. now what would you do?\nyou might say, 'i'll take him,' but it's not that easy...\n\nhe's struggling...\nand i might take a step further to say...\nmaybe his girlfriend is on him about this...\nmaybe she's getting the hint he's not 100% committed to her\n\nmy best advice to you is... give him time...\n\nif you constantly prod him, he might completely ignore you..\n.. if you give him room for thinking and reconsidering,\nhe will seriously weigh it out...\n\n... moreover, he will see your understanding side\nand your compassionate, openness and he will run to you..\n\n.. meanwhile, you go out and have some fun...\ni don't mean cheat on your soon-to-be-boyfriend\nbut go out and meet your friends... guys and gals...\n\nmeeting other gals will set you back to your\ngiggling-chatty-girly mode, which will ultimately put you\nin a euphoria of confidence..\n\nplus, guys will drool over you, and you can neglect them\nand gain higher self-esteem...\n\ngodspeed
448868
I personally think that he is a J-E-R-K! I totally agree with you and I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why is he not calling, emailing (etc) you at all. I'm not saying straight-up break up with him but he needs to show that he actually loves you. If I saw him, I would tell him to be your boyfriend and not to just think he can coast along enjoying the benefits and not doing the love. I hope you find someone who will treat you like a queen and not a servant. -Cody
396441
Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
860262
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.