my friend is mad because i spend more time with my bf than her. how do i deal with this??
141714
CHICKS BEFORE DICKS!!!\n\nHave you never heard of that saying...well it is so true...ur friend will always be there but your boyfriend might now...do a big girls night out and tell her that u are sorry for taking advantage of her relationship
858225
I definitly know what you're gong through! I hate all the drama!!! This friend is not your friend. You can still talk to her, but I wouldn't ask her over again.I have this one friend who I asked over like 3 times, but each time she is"Busy". I figured out she blew me off, and talked about how boring her weekend was on Monday... I was so ticked! I finally figured she would never be there for me so I just backed off.\nJust make sure you don't be the friend who makes all the effort.
552292
because neither wants to give up their time with you for the other. Before your g f came along you had all the time in the world for your friend right?? now the G f has come along & you have to make time for her (which p!sses off your friend who is used to having all your time) so now you make time for the gf but still try to keep time for your friend & that in turn p!sses off your g f who thinks your time should be spent with her & not your friend.... gotta find a happy medium or it will end in tears... good luck!!! ha ha
901690
i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
81195
Your best friend must be jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend.  Tell how much she means to you and that no one could ever take her place in your heart.  Help her get a boyfriend and things may get a little better between ya'll.
597915
No I think she is just jealous and she wants u to break up so she can have u all to herself have a word with her and tell her u still wanna hang with her but u will b hanging with ur bf also and try and set her up with some 1.
183376
The best thing you can do is keep out of it: they'll sort it out eventually. You don't have to put up with their nonsense, though, especially if it makes you unhappy, and you should let them know. Don't make a big drama out of it, or you'll be pandering to their feelings that this fight is a huge big thing and probably help spin it out even longer. Just say to them firmly "none of that crap around me, please. You two can take your arguments elsewhere or be quiet." If one of them is with you and tries to make you avoid the other one, just say "don't be stupid, just act like an adult, can't you?!" As they no doubt care about you, after a while they'll settle down. If one of your friends decides not to be friends with you any more because you won't take sides, then they're not really a true friend, and you're better off spending your time doing other things.
161545
First of all, you answered your own question, eleven years, you can't throw that away over your boyfriend. I look at this way, tell both of them how you feel. You don't like her dissing him, and you are going to be her friend regardless if he likes her or not. You just tell them both, they both are going to be in your life regardless of who likes it or not. If they care for you, they will arrange a way to deal with it. Your friend sounds like she cares, but sometimes she might need to tone down the dislike for your guy. Just be honest with both.
142762
Is it your friend? Keep asking her why she's mad.\n\nIs it just 'some girl'? Forget about her. :/
482524
I think that with anyone that you spend lots of time with, you are bound to get annoyed at times with your best friend. it just means that it's time to give each other a little space and maybe not hang out every day. Even if it's just a weekend off. But if it's more intense than that, maybe you should discuss it with them and see if they are feeling the same way.
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
573177
Sounds like she's a little jealous.  It didn't work out between him and her so she doesn't want him to work out with anyone else.  I think it's more of a hurt ego actually.  The question is why is she so concerned about your feelings that she has to tell you about all his downfalls?  Do the best you can to just ignore it.  It doesn't sound like you two are any type of friends and she's not physically there to make it harder to deal with so when you check your emails and you see her name, just click on that little X and you're done with it.
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
540145
i think you should talk heart-to-heart with your friend why she has started disliking your boyfriend when she earlier liked him. MAY BE she herself had feelings about him and this is the way she is expressing them after you have got together with him. this is perfectly normal and anyone would react that way. i think you should jus leave things like that. i am sure she'll get over these feelings on her own. just give it time.
1135539
Yes, she's blowing you off.  Try to make her jealous by making a new friend, and maybe she will want to spend more time with you. She doesn't sound like a very good friend.
534860
Simple, just relax and don't worry about your bf's friend. There's really nothing you can do to a girl who loves someone else. He'll think you're manipulative if you do something to make his friend lay off. They're just being friends. Plus, you said he didn't love her. It's going to be okay. And if he does love her, well maybe he loves you more. Don't let it bother you. =]