me and this boy are going out but i think he might be gay would do i do?
139484
Take him somewhere privately and discuss about your relationship and ask him if he is. If he is let him freely go his way because obviously you are not his type but just in a friendly way, and if not let him know that he is doing things that are giving you the idea that he is and maybe he will change his ways.
874434
Did he buy you a Hot-dog and a cold drink?\n\nIf no! He is a inconsiderate muther-chicken...You need to ''Dump" him and dump him fast!!!       j/k      ....  lol\n\nHe is excited about you! he has those butter-flys stirring-up\nI am in no way by any means GAY! \nBut he sound like he has cute personalty and I hope you two\nexperience a fun time of getting to know one another..\n\nGood luck I'M happy for you,
597127
I think a guy is gay if he dates other guys.
678395
You should be there for him! He has been honest to you and you need to support his decision! Thats what friends are for.  Thats so cool actually because id like a guy friend that was gay.  They are so sweet and caring and make the best friend out of everyone.  Accept his decision and carry on with your friendship as normal.
747550
Straight up ask him. Don't beat around the obvious bush - Just walk right up to him, and tell him as it is.... Don't sugercoat it, or lead it on, just ask him if he wants to go out or not.
1085106
Dear...Just ask him flat out...Will you go out with me...If he says yes then awesome ...If he says no then move on and you two can be at least friends.....Remember the most important question is the one not asked...Good Luck!!!!
560832
acually he should be taking you out but you guys should go out for a picnic talk and get to know each other better, or if that aint your thing try a some what nice restraunt like olive garden and a movie
889743
if u r gay he may be interested indeed!\nbut if u r not then maybe u ve gotta see more signs b4 drawing conclusions!!\nthink bout it!
851388
You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.
599642
I dont think that means you are gay. But maybe you should sit down and really think about this before jumping into anything you might later regret
748762
Sounds like a great idea. It will show him you like him and then maybe you 2 can take it from there. You're breaking the ice. You go girl. Good luck. Who knows he might turn out to be one of the best boy friends you've ever had so far. Or ever will have.
445668
Doing it together with his friends is a bit weird....\nIs he gay?
1120499
Nick, good luck with that, but I think you better find out which team he plays for first.\nYou run the risk of making him mad or possibly feel bad if he is straight.
456843
hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
1119669
You're gay, he's not and you're practically stalking him. Give it a rest butt boy and let then man be before he loses his patience and takes your high heels away.
369282
I would stick to the guy that is straight.\n\nHERE'S WHY (MY OPINION ONLY): While the guy who bi may only make out with other boys now, what happens when he crosses the line? What if he likes them more? What if you get yourself caught in some wicked love triangle? What if you really end up liking him more & he doesn't? That's alot of 'what if's' girl and if you are woman enough to go through it.... you know but it sounds like a little much. Go for the one that is straight and see which the other one ends up swinging. I perfer, from dating experience, to stay away from all the 'what if's' & maybe that will change. I like for my relationships to be fun & enjoyable and it sounds like that COULD be trouble. Life is confusing & challege enough with us adding all the extra trouble that we could of avoided. Sad thing is we know it. We just all want our own way and life doesn't work that why. Some times you just gotta step back and say, "Now, really?!" How do you feel deep down, find the bottom line & don't let yourselfish ways override what is the striaght up fact. A lot more STDs are linked in gay relationships, but you take that chance anyway. Search heart & be true to you. It's your life. Save the drama! Good luck girly!
1117632
How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.