I love a girl who is a distant relative of mine what shall i do now?
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Skip family reunions for a while.
658478
love does'nt c any age...try to tell ur cousin first if she is close to u
109259
If you like her and she likes you,then there is nothing that can stop you,not even distance. Just tell her how you feel.
666532
It should be up to you, not your family.  IF you like a girl, you should go ahead and ask her out, or if you are already dating, dont worry about your family.  IF they are really your family, they will understand, and except her for who she is.  Goodluck
874484
If u want to experiment, go ahead as per her guidance.  If u like her ultimately and can not leave her without hurting urself, u can even marry her.
752610
be as well as u love her. she will feel u
328460
Happy Birthday to my sister. May all your dreams come true. Then tell her how you feel about her.
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Of course not! Why should it be wrong to fall in love with your someone? She might be your close cousin, she might be your distant cousin but the most important thing is that you are in love with her. \n\nAs far as I know and believe, love comes naturaly. You do not need to create love for somebody and obviously nobody does that. Love will automatically be created in you, will be felt by you for someone but you never know who will be your she before love comes to you!\n\nSo, as you can see, it is not at all wrong to fall in love with your distant cousin. By the way, are you in love with her? If you are sure that you are, do not hesitate to make her know about it. She might be feeling in the same way too! Who knows!\n\nBest of luck and thanks for such a wonderful question.
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hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
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I really feel for you, thats a tough situation.\nAre you sure that you are really in love with him, as you only said that you believe you are in love with him. Be careful not to confuse other feelings for love.\nDid you know he was your uncle before you got involved?\nI know you fall in love with who you fall in love with but there is a brief window in which you can apply the breaks.\nWhat about the other woman he is with? Has he spoken to her yet?\nIf I were you, I would try to steer clear and if he manages to end the relationship with the other lady and keep his relationship with the kids maybe you could think about him again.\n\nI don't know about the law and deformities. I would say no to both questions, but just think of the people involved in this tangled web and how your decisions will effect them\n\nIts tough I know.\n\nGood luck.
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Don't directly say it.\n\nShow that you like her by listening to what she has to say and being yourself. It will become obvious how you feel and you will achieve the same thing without risking anything anyway!\n\nPersonally, I would hold off the gifts for a while as they can put early pressure on a relationship. If you must get a gift, get something amusing and inexpensive. \n\nAs long as you continue to be yourself, you are fine. Although you feel close to this person already, bear in mind that you have known her for four days. Take your time, there is no rush! Of course she will know how you feel in the end! It is not like she will run away if you don't say all the highest romantic things. Don't scare her away.
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If you really are sure that you love that other person you should go for it and tell her how you feel. Because life is short and opportunities don't last forever.
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If this has been going on for 13 yrs, I would think your parents have some idea of your feelings for each other. I think you should start seeing each other to see if this is true love. You don't mention if you are dating any one and if so, how does he feel about it. Or are you not interested in dating anyone but your uncle. First cousins date and get married but I am not sure on the laws for this relationship. I say go ahead and explore this relationship, you may find that it's only a fascination of something\nthat is out of bounds.
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you should talk it over with your family and tell them why you like the person. then try to get everyone together and make minor adjustments to see if that helps. for the record family ties are very important, but you have a life of your own and you need to live it.
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Well this is easy.Get back in contact with her and see what she thinks,and if you have a distant relationship then you wont have to worry about getting a girl there,and at least you know she is a special one,hard to find at times,all taken.
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Spend more time with her, and if the chemsitry is right, then you'll both make the right moves!\n\n-Ryan
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tell her how you feel. maybe the two of you can work it out.