Does love really make things better? Should I believe in it & consider it my biggest asset in my relationship?
147523
yes   love is hard to find  when you do .. grab on and hold..
1139932
It sounds like it's a matter of how you feel about him, rather than how me could make you feel loved.  Love can take time to grow, but when you do have that moment, then you will know it when you experience it.  Until then, You should be honest that you don't feel love yet.  If you hide it or are dishonest about it, you'll only be doing yourself and any bf you're with a disservice.
564784
Well, my finace and I have seen each other 3 times in the last year... It can be difficult at times, but if what you have is truly love, then it will work out in the end and this time you are going through will only bring you closer together. If, however, your relationship does not withstand these hard times, then it would not withstand the harder times that are sure to come throughout life.
414331
Only time and personal effort will make it better.  You truely love someone, it's forever, and your mind will from time to time come back to him, but if u truely love him, u are doing the right thing by stopping and staying away.  Don't break up a family or hurt a child.  If it's meant to be it will happen one day.
1173017
Yes.  I believe in true love!!!  It doesn't happen overnight.  It really is something you have to wait for.  Trust your heart...you'll know it when you find it.
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
1053994
Yes, it is nice to love someone but never put anyone over yourself...If you invest too much time and effort in a relationship but for some reason it ends, you have been put in a decificit, so don't do that....\n\nYou should be number 1 to yourself.\n\nGood luck and have fun!!!!
1144828
Yes, I think the love can be there.  However love will disintegrate extremely fast when there is not trust.  I was in a relationship like that and even though my feelings for her were strong, I could never get oer the trust issue.  If you cant trust the person you love, who can you trust?
843647
i think a balance is the best approach. love isnt always enough. it takes time and effort of both people to make a relationship work. you might love someone and they may be the most unhealthy person for you ... an example is women who love men that abuse them. i can love someone who is hurtful, but at a distance, that's where the head/heart balance comes in. love yourself enough to know when someone isnt capable of giving you what you deserve and need.\ndestiny is kind of fairy tale-ish to me. if you want to be happy, you have to be in charge of that and the choices you make to make yourself happy. \ndestiny and fate can't carry you through the hard times that life brings to a relationship. if you truly love someone you stand by them through the hard times, and appreciate the awesome times.
433403
I think that "the love of your life" is a fairy tell. If you find a person that is willing to work with you through bad and \ngood times, he is probably a good candidate. Love is force each and every day and there is not warranty that it will be forever, but as the years pass and that relationship is growing stronger is a good sight that it will continue that way.
820396
yes. if you do NOT love to keep pain OUT, then you also cannot let LOVE IN!! it's a risk but one worth taking!! just use your HEAD and not always your heart for guidance!!
633649
I think many things make the world go around, but think that LOVE is definitely the biggest factor, at least for me it is.  I do think however, that LOVE is too often pushed aside for Sex, Money, and Greed (not sure about Gravity, lol). It seems that love isn't nearly as important as it should be, and it's too easily shoved aside nowadays for other seemingly more important things.
1083086
Maybe, maybe not.  But, I wouldn't rush it.  Whoever said that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never in a relationship that made them miserable.  \n\nIf you are looking for a TRUE love for the REST of your life, then patience is your best friend.  I recommend working on bettering yourself and staying busy.  It makes the time go faster and you grow as an individual before taking on the responsibility of another person's emotions and well-being.  \n\nGood Luck.
16942
Love is difficult and a pain in the ass. It's up to the two of you to make you love last. Love is work. Work to get it and work to keep it. Make sure your arguments are not petty but of some legitament reasons. Jealousy and insecurity are like cancer to relationships. Trust is the cure. Trust in God and yourself.
624964
Love a beautiful relationship of heart,if their is confusion then this is not love.Love doesn't have to think so much it is very straightforward,true and confident.If you are still confused just close your eyes and listen to your concious and you will get your answer.TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WIN.GOD BLESS YOU.
131824
I think so man...maybe not as far as health sciences are concerned but love eats you up like AIDS man...it blinds you from any thing concurrent with the loved person particularly negative stuff...not to imagine what it can drive u to do if the love is only one-sided...that is your partner doesn't (or no longer) share(s) the same affection as you do....
569177
yes, because love gives hope, freedom, peace, care.. and time.. love can be a reason why people wanted to be good and worth for the love.. love can set us free form past and face the future and gain back the goodness in our heart.. love can   has its own miracle where love knows nothing but its heartbeat..