how can i stop my friend from cheating her husband?
146131
It's really not your choice - it's hers, good decision or bad.  \nYou advised her with your opinion, she knows where you stand.  Now it's time to stay out of her business - if it bothers you that much, perhaps you need to find a new friend.
489085
nope.....don't do it, specially if she is a good friend, you can f*** up your friendship, if she wants a threesome let her look somewhere else, so you won't have anything to do with her and her husband in the future, when they'll star having  problems because of this. don't do it.
878453
Tell him in the kindest way you can if you are a true friend you will stand by him and help him understand she is a cheat why was he baby sitting while she was out partying anyway?He sounds a nice guy don't let him be deceived by her.
970290
Perhaps you could confront them by letting them know that your husband is aware of what was said, and that you feel betrayed because it had been a private conversation between close friends. Let them know that you feel hurt as well, because it has as you have said, made a very tense situation even worse. \n\nIn some ways it is to be expected that these friends of yours would tell their husbands, that is their life partner. What is terribly wrong is for the husbands to turn around and not only repeat your private words and cause more problems for you, but these husbands also ratted on their own wives by telling. Goes to show you that these husbands did not even think about how their actions would afftect you or the bad position they put their ownnn  wives in. Now these women of course will have to face you with what they have done. All around not a good situation. \n\nI would be very hurt by their actions but as well, I do not think they told their husbands to be mean or to do it as gossip but to share in what you are going through and perhaps as women do... run it by someone else in order to get another's opinion.  Perhaps you could keep this in mind as you confront them. They do owe you a big apology..... as well as their husbands.  Good luck... I hope everything turns out ok for you.
380149
Not the friendship.\nStop the cheating,encourage him to study not copy.It helps himself incase you're no longer able to let him copy from you.\nA friend will not tolerate wrong doing.
709223
You must let them both go. A friend had this happen to her also and they got together got married had two kids and now they are in divorce court. She never got over the fact that her g/f did this to her, but now she sees that she mulled way too long over this. I would not be friends with her anymore as you may never be able to trust her.
670042
i would ask my man nicely to ask this female friend not to contact him. this is not normal. by staying silent u re provoking him cheating. this woman definitely wants a piece of your man
1094690
I think I figured out what u are saying!\n\nI think you are a very good friend for trying to help your friend through this.  It sounds serious so she may need to go and talk to a counsellor about it.  The counsellor will help her and whatever is said will be confidential.\n\nIf the woman is married and the man is also married, its just asking for problems.  The best thing for her to do is to sit down and evaluate how important her marriage is to her and how important the other man is. \n\nIf she decides she dosnt want anything to do with the other man, then she should change her phone number and move away from him.  She should make it impossible for him to contact her.  It will be hard but she will have you for support and also a counsellor (if she chooses to talk to one).\n\nEither way, she needs to decide what she wants, she cant go on like this, its not only affecting her and making her depressed but its upsetting you too as her friend.\n\nDont tell her what to do, because its her life and she has to suffer the consequences.  Just try and be there for her and be her friend no matter what she decides.  \n\nI hope it all works out well in the end
524060
Leave her alone, let your son and future daughter in law get on with their lives. If she is having an affair, that is really your son's problem. If he's asked for you to snoop, then tell him that one should never marry a person they cant trust.
635491
Marriage takes a lot of work and commitment.  Your friend is either immature or refusing to work her peoblems out with her husband.  A major key to a good marriage is communication.  I hope this helps.
654716
My question to you would be how can YOU trust him when obviously your FRIEND couldn't trust him? Can your friend trust you or are you going to let her down also?
99302
In all honesty, if he planned to stop, i'd tell you to keep it a secret because you could ruin their marriage...but since he's gunna keep doing it, you have to come clean to his wife.  He's being disrespectful to her and he's being an idiot.  If he loved her, he wouldn't need anyone else and he's probably not even worth being with her...tell her the truth and let them sort it out
417732
You have to ask yourself " do I want to stay friends with one or both of these people " If so stay out of It , They have issues in the marriage and if you get involved you will be in the middle of this mess . the one who is cheating will take offense at anything you say and will be angry for taking sides . The cheater will feel betrayed and angry that you don't understand their side and listen as a friend should . The one that is not cheating will be angry that you have caused trouble in the relationship if the affair is brought to light if the affair isn't brought to light you will be blamed for not telling . If the relationship ends both people will blame you for the whole mess . The beat thing you can do would be to explain to your friend the cheater that you would like it if the affair remains quiet and you wish to remain ignorant of the details so if any questions are ever raised by the other party you can act as if you know nothing . Also explain that you are being placed in a very hard position and wish to remain friends with both parties and if the affair comes to light and the relationship should end you will not be able to do so , Ask the cheater to respect your wishes as a friend . If he/she is a true friend he/she will understand ,and respect your wishes .
570486
cheating is cheating... and what's to stop him or her from doing it again with someone else?
64055
I agree totally with ft402003, and I might add that I was just platonic friends with my husband for TEN LONG YEARS before we knew we loved each other.  TEN YEARS!!!!  That is a long time, buddy.  My sister told me once that friends make the best spouses, and I thought YUCK!  But, she was totally right.  When you talk to your "friend", you might tell her to not be afraid to go a step further, and to not be repulsed by it.  Let her know that you are just as afraid as her.  But, whatever you do, don't let her get away.  It is better to tell her how you feel than to keep suffering.  And if she doesn't go for it, then it is HER loss.  Not yours.  HERS.
733195
If you continue seeing her the husband may find out then you may be in for a world of touble. So You should break it off and not see her ever again. Also once a cheater always a cheater.
258711
no, leave other peoples man alone there are plenty out there. and you don't want this one either because if he is doing this to his wife now, then u wont b the last. he is one big loser for cheating on his wife now.  and if you married this guy what kind of friend would u b called?? put yourself in the other person shoes, IT HURTS AND NOBODY SHOULD GO THRU THIS THAT WAS WRONG OF BOTH OF U. REAL FRIENDS DON'T TOUCH.