all the boys in my classwear boxers and i wear whitey-tidies and i cant change in front of them.why?
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Blow them all away and start wearing boxer-briefs. That way you'll have the best of both worlds and you won't have to worry what they say because they will want some of their own.
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I wear briefs. Thats what I grew up with and I am used to it. My boys are not hanging free, they are nice and snug.
1176354
I think that teachers should dress in a way that earns respect from their students and peers. No one dresses nice anymore. You go to a fancy restaurant or even church and everyone is wearing jeans. You want the students to follow dress codes, however, students may not want to dress the same as their teachers (even if their teachers are wearing the latest trends). Students may dress in a way that is much more over-the-top, just to prevent this. It's a job, dress for individuality when the day is done.
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Getting changed for PE is no big deal... since all the students have to do it, you are not being singled out.  Be sure to wear clean, non-holey undergarments!  \n\nTake off your jeans, slip into gym shorts. Take off shirt, slip on gym shirt...a little skin is not much different than putting on skimpy clothes.\n\nAt your age, when you dress for PE, you will see well-developed girls, and flat-chested girls. \n\nYou mentioned the place has no doors....???  Usually a locker room is situated so no one outside the locker room can see in, so no boys should be able to see anything. As for being in the locker room, well, you're a girl and so are the others and so are the teachers, so what's to worry about?  If someone gets a peek at you in bare skin don't worry about it;  It's just a body, and we all have one.
1180302
The school where I work has a uniform that is blue jeans with a school T-shirt. Yet the students still complain.
622514
As hard as you may find this to believe, you may actually find that you are intimidating to them. Boys at that age are more nervous than you might believe. Being a well endowed, or self-aware girl makes you a confident person. There is NOTHING wrong with that, and your friends may even envy you for it. Don't change a thing girl, and let them catch up with YOU... you're doing fine!! Good luck!
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Uniforms are the answer. If everyone is wearing basically the same clothing it leaves little room for distraction in the classroom. I teach at a Parochial school where uniforms are required. when we have dress=down days (kids choose what to wear) they act totally different.\nUniforms are the answer!
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I think you should be proud to be at a school that allows things like that.  Dressing in rival colors?  That is a little immature for being in high school isn't it?  I would suggest if you don't like the school you are going to - simply transfer to another.\n\nPs.  Use spell check, your grammar is HORRIBLE for being in school.
886389
Like u would in any other class. Dont be a show off, it turns them off
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You will learn.\nJust talk with them.\nBoys are not as mature and will come around with time.\n\nYou must be very young. Don't be in such of a hurry.
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I think that these boys were not your friend to begin with and just wanted to leer over your body(you must be gorgeous). You don't need them! Hold your head high and go and find some good friends who like you the way you are. You deserve better than people who judge with looks.Pretty soon you ll get your confidence back and will show those boys up. YOU GO GIRL!!!
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As its smart casual why don't you wear jeans, boots and a nice top, with a dressy jacket. Also remember to be yourself and don't drink to much and try and start some conversations, just don't sit back and let them take over, otherwise they will think your are too quite but don't talk too much either. \n\nJust be yourself and I'm sure that you will win them over\n\nTry looking at the Next website for ideas http://order.next.co.uk/page.asp?b=X38&p=168&o=1
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Don't lesson to the other people. putting him into dresses does work. my 9yo son has been wearing dresses and panties for almost a year. and what a wonderfully change it made in him.\nKaren
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When my kids' school tried to force my kids into uniforms i went to my 1st school board meeting to argue against this stupid, counter-productive, and morally reprensible action.  Those of us on the anti-uniform side had several good (and a few I admit that weren't so good) reasons not to have uniforms.\n\nThe decision of what the uniforms look like can NEVER be universally agreed upon. The final decision well come down to  a very few people, who then put their ideas onto everyone else.  I understand this is necessary in curriculum and book purchases but not fashion choices.\n\nI believe we can all agree that teachers have more than enough to do during school time. Uniform checking is an extra load they just don't need. Don't let anybody try to say that checking a uniform takes no more time enforcing any other dress code.  I spent 8 years in the military. I know all about wearing a uniform.  Checking uniform compliance is a meticulous activity.  You can tell at a glance if the clothes someone is wearing are smelly, have dirty words printed on it or show too much skin.  Teachers need to forget about uniforms and concentrate on what they are there for; teaching our kids.\n\nIf everyone has to wear the same clothes in a public school then anyone who can't afford the uniform will have to be supported by school funds.  They already are for meals, supplies, book fees, etc. The schools are strapped to the hilt as it is now.  We don't need an added expense.  \n\nUniforms are just a band-aid answer to real problems in schools.  It's a way for lazy, ineffectual administrators to look like they're doing something, rather than actually addressing what plagues the schools.\n\nUniforms have absolutely no educational value whatsoever.  There is no credible, conceiveable way that everyone wearing the same clothes improves education.  Anything that doesn't aid education has no business in schools.\n\nThere were probably others but it's late and I'm too tired to think of them right now.
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I agree with Whiz and Kd.  I am a teacher and I'm constantly telling the boys to pull up their pants.  I have plastic ties that I put on their pants to hold them up if I have to ask them more than once.  It's a disgusting look and it makes them walk like a duck.\n\nIf they knew where it really originated from maybe some of them wouldn't wear their pants like that.  It comes from men in prison.  If their pants were worn that way it meant they were "the girls" if you know what I mean.
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don't be embarassed?? why are you emarrassed??? You should be PROUD of your big package!Do people stare at you like you're a freak of nature or something? If they do the only thing i can suggest is dark denim in relaxed fit.
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Just tell them that it grosses you out when they act like that.  They probably don't mean anything by it and they more than likely just see you as one of the boys but make sure they know that somethings need to be reserved for when just the guys are around.