how to talk with mywife?
145501
just listen to her and if you understand then it will come easy.
615766
the best thing is talk with her directly .....
195998
i would like to talk to woman live
922810
First, ask her, during one of those moments, something like "Honey, do you want to talk about it?"  If she says yes, just hear her out, don't be judgmental, and let her vent.  Then you could say something like "You know what?  We all make mistakes in our youth that we regret.  The fact that it still bothers you simply means you are a thoughtful, caring person with a good heart and a conscience.  But maybe it's time to forgive yourself and move forward.  I love you very much and want you to know that nothing you did before we were married has diminished my respect and love for you."  If that doesn't work, suggest counseling.
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3 mos and marriage has been discussed???  You don't even know each other yet!  How do you tell her.....try "Honi, I just can't marry you"
1100921
chat about what your into ask what shes into i.e. thai boxing or something like that or music - it will go from there if you get on!!
774934
If she is your wife you should have open communication.\n\nShe might have an infection if the oder is bad.\n\nYour not doing her or yourself any favors by being silent.
773141
First learn; how  will be question ask ? and give the descripyion about ur marriage
123956
How about some peace and quiet.\nDon't say anything, you women talk too much.
471101
Talk to her about the problem
343207
Ask lots of questions and take and show a true interest in the answers. Think of it as learning something from other's viewpoints! It can be about anything you want if you're asking the right questions. Is your future mom-in law a great cook? Ask her how she chooses vegetables at the market. Is she a great dancer? Ask her how she was introduced to music and if she thinks dancing is good for mental health, etc. Forget about what you have to say though, because talking to hear your own voice is NOT good communication, even in the small talk arena! The right and appropriate words will come to you when you listen! Just listen openly, and ask lots of question. You will be seen as very wise and kind in doing so and make a great impression. \n\nThe best conversationalist is the one who is the greatest listener. Very few words of your own are needed. :-) But in doing this, they'll want to know all about you! So you'll have your chance to talk --- but still focus mostly on listening...if you want to be a great small -- or big -- talker!
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If you both have Yahoo Instant Messenger you should be able to talk for free.  Just by using the mic and headset/speakers.  We talk with my hubbies parents in Florida all the time this way.
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First, speaking in ALL CAPS IS CONSIDERED YELLING AND IS CONSIDERED RUDE.  I tell you this so that you will know, not to get on your case.\n\nSecond, we ALL make mistakes.  Your wife is not excluded from that.  We all "don't walk what we talk" from time to time.  To say that women don't (and therefore imply that men do) is just wrong.  We men are guilty of it just as often.  \n\nInstead of insulting your wife, and all of womanhood, why don't you just tell her that you were worried?  Let her know that you get concerned when she is late, too, and that you also need her to call in the future.  I think you will find that approach will help you to have a much happier marriage.
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The key to every realationship is to talk...talk....talk....talk. You can't fix your spouse, only yourself.  Look at the part you played in this misunderstanding, and then appologize.  Don't yell or call names.  Don't should on your spouse.  (you should have said this you should have said that)  \n\nblessings
244754
First, make sure you're not ignoring something that genuinely needs your attention. People need validation, and if this is true with casual aquaintances it's doubly true of spouses. But if you've eliminated constructive dialog from the equation, then you have to find your "center" and zone out until the wave has passed. No one can argue by themselves; it takes (2) to sustain the conflict. Realize though, that what I just said is a practical tactic to handle things while you're in that moment and feeling pressure to respond or explode. During cooler moments, you need to find a strategy to deal with the main source of the communication difficulty. It could be as simple as turning off the television and looking her straight in the eyes while she's talking, or it could be a matter for a counselor to walk you both through. People usually raise their voices when they don't feel acknowledged or heard in any other way. Once you're sure that's not the case, get some competent help in developing your communication skills together. Good luck.
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No 'nice' ways anymore.  Brutal (but sensitive) honesty time.\n1.  Admit your fault in the situation.  You shouldn't have started things up if you knew you were going to get back together with your wife.\n2.  Tell her your side.  Marriage is a commitment and you aren't the kind of person who wants to get divorced and trivialize that commitment so you're doing everything you can... etc, etc.\n3.  Compliment her by reminding her she can find someone much better.\n4.  Let her say how she feels and respond without getting defensive.\n5.  Under no circumstances are you to use her as a 'in case it doesn't work out' friend.  That isn't fair and it's not right.\nGood luck.
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Problem??? you dont want to be 'with" your wife??? then why you going to get married??\nwhat does she think? ask her this question\nmarried people should communicate TO each other and not online.\n\nTALK TO YOUR "NEW WIFE", COMMUNICATE TO HER!!!! \nSHE CAN TELL WHAT SHE LIKES AND TAKE IT FROM WHAT SHE TELLS YOU!!!\nDONT JUST DO IT THE MANY TIMES THAT PEOPLE SUGGEST ONLINE::\nTHEY DONT KNOW YOUR WIFE OR YOU.\nONLY YOU 2 KNOW HOW OFTEN YOU BOTH WANT TO. NO ONE CAN GIVE YOU A NUMBER!!!!\nBE CONSIDERATE OF HER FEELINGS. TALK TO HER!!!!!