i am in love, but the guy doesn't know it. what should i do?
147852
How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.
471610
Go for it!!!!! You'll never know what will happen until you tell him how you feel.He could be debating the same thing right now if he likes you too.In my opinion, its better to have told him and he said no, then to have not said anything and have never found out the truth. So, I say go for it. I mean, you only live once; and besides, love waits for no one.
905852
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
1037397
Honey if the Dude is truly in love the only person he would be looking at is You.And is he ashamed of you?Girl it sounds like this dude is playing with Ur feelens. Or are u just a spare tire to him and when he needs u he calls.Take it from a guy who has been playing around all his life.I hate to say this leave him and I am sure he will come chasing u and when he does u set the rules .OK Try it it works
498984
hey nice situation. just ask him weather hez interestes in u or not just sit n hav a chat with him. tell ur fellings ask him to listen once. tell him to take time ...if urs is a true love it wud definately succeed\n\nALL THE BEST    !\n\n***  rem LOVE IS BLIND
917898
If your really that in love you could try and wait for a little while. I would not spend a great deal of time waiting though. Is his relationship about to end? is there no end in sight? these are all things that need to be answered.>
227555
Either he IS in a relationship or he ISN'T in a relationship.\nThere is no such thing as 'kinda in'.\nYou are infatuated because he is unavailable to you. Stay out of it. Please try again.
787076
Don't rush right out and tell him your in love with him.  If he don't feel the same why he may get scared and run.  Just think how you would feel then.
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
86060
Tell him you like him and see what he says. You can't know until you ask and why worry about something you don't know.
213991
Gosh. I totally understand everything you are saying.. just give it a little time.. you know what you want.. but your just waiting on him, right? ok... just wait. Love will always wait.. remember...love is love
79256
Just tell the guy. I am in total and complete love with someone. I told him. Flat out. I let him know. And he said he loves me too. You just need to tell this person. Try to piece it together as best you can. Your feelings and everything. It doesn't have to be perfect, everything you say, but make it mean something. Let him know.
725181
Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
246870
i think that you sould ask him bout what he think and if he can't anwer you then you sould know if he in love with you.take your time in your relationship
890565
go for it. \nTell him how you feel\nor else you will just keep yourself wondering "what if you did anything different"