if u and your manbreakes up and he has started dateing already what do i do to get him back?
138862
why don't you let him try to see how much harder it will be for him without you, he will see it's not so rosy having to start again, the newness wears off quickly and if it's meant to be, it will
903441
You broke up with him because you wanted him to change.  Now, you want suggestions on how to change him back.  I think you should stop focussing on how he should act, and focus on your own behavior because you can only control your actions, not his.  Obviously, it seems like you should have thought through breaking up more before you actually did it.  You hurt him.  You have to show him that you can be trusted.  Apologize, be honest with him about your feelings and let him be.  If he comes back to you, he is in your future.  If he doesn't, then learn from the experience and the next time you're with someone you're totally crazy about, don't get caught up in fixing his flaws.
388439
Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
820355
Well, you should start talking to someone else too. Maybe that will help you get over him and what he is doing. The fact that you seperated because you "needed time to grow" should have told you that he was going to date other people. What did you think was going to happen? You were going to seperate and then just wait around for eachother? If that`s what you thought, you shouldn`t have seperated at all. You need to get out there and find a new man. Just let this guy go and do whatever he wants to do. If it was "meant to be" you will end up back together. In the meantime, you should go out and have your own fun and not sit around worrying and wondering what he is doing. Do your own thing and let HIM wonder about YOU.
16909
hey girl my ex boyfriend for 1year and a month he also went out with one of my friends when they were going out he relized that he should be with me just give the guy time and maybe you to will get back together just give him space and let him relize that you are the one for him
983526
Look around.  You shouldn't have to put your life on hold just because he needs to get his in order.  If you are meant to be you will reconnect.  You're a free woman...get out and date!
993345
Get back out in the dating scene, have fun, and meet someone new.....Easy to do???? NO!, but it's a lot better than sitting home being sad, and depressed. That will get your mind off him, and on to new people. Good Luck!
447588
try to get him back dear
1081299
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
300683
Back him off, keep him at arm's length and force the interaction back to just professional. Otherwise, someone is going to get a broken heart, and it isn't going to be you.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
919252
Be friends.  It didn't work out and you moved on and so did he.  Don't put your heart out there again for him to step on, but never let him think that he crushed you either.  Try to get past it and just know that he was Mr. Wrong for you.  You shouldn't ask him out but talk on line with him and just be kind.  You know girl...kindness kills.  I think that he'll probably kick himself when he realizes that he let you go.  Good Luck.
1078735
The BEST thing you can do is go back out there and meet new men.  Date them, laugh with them, have fun.  You will discover that you're a much better catch than your "ex" made you feel.  It will take time, but you will get over him.  If you can force yourself into going on at LEAST three dates in the next month, you will help yourself far more than you may believe.  It's not about him anymore, it's all about YOU.  You're special, you're desirable, and the right man will KNOW it.
495349
did you talk to him before dumping him?  Sometimes us womean fly off the handle for something that the guy is not even aware of.  Remember Men are dumb.. approach with beer and the will be fine.
97097
If he don't like you anymore and you are being yourself you don't need him. I feel if you have to change and be someone else for him to start back liking you he is not the one gurl move on and find someone else. there is someone way better.
150202
He has already broke up with you. So dont call him, email him go over his house or nothing.  Just know next time he see you, you must look the BEST, The Bomb, the Freshest.  Stay FLy.  He will want to call you, watch.  Or, you can let him see you by being somewhere you know he will be.