why does your boyfriend want kiss you, hold your hand, hug you so much?
142591
Have you ever considered that he is an affectionate person, and likes to show it.  Could it be LOVE?
531709
Your partner's bahabiour is quite controlling and dominating,so it appears on the surface.Displaying affection is a good thing,but overly showing ur neediness to be with him all the time,without giving him breathing space sounds troublesome.Maybe ur behaviour is childish,SMSing calling just to say a hi, and hello every now n then.Maybe this is acting as a repellent.Grow up.The more u run after him,the more he would want to cut contacts with u.Men like to win their love through a hard way.Anything easily falling in their hands is not seen as a compliment.Further,do u want to be treated the way he does to u now?Has he declared his love for u verbally?U sure this isnt freindship?Also,his giving u lesser attention is drawing u to him closer.Are u sure u love him?
308134
If he likes you, he's always calling you or trying to get ur attention (sometimes guys also annoy you just to get ur attention), he gives you the "eye" more than once. IF in school, he sits next to you or somewhere near and/or behind you just to see you.now if you're talking about a bf, most likely they hold hands without letting go if he sees his friends or anyone else and he kisses with his eyes closed...lol hope that helps.
1093738
He may not be comfortable expressing his romantic side with you because he is unsure of how you will see him. He may want to be seen as masculine and may see showing tenderness as feminine. This is why I don't get into the gender bending stuff. He may be confused that real men don't want to kiss and he sees you as his woman so he is not going to initiate anything tender. Or maybe he is used to not having to initiate anything. If he has only been with guys much older they may have done everything to him so he didn't have to make a move on his own.  If he enjoys the sex then he will eventually learn that you require some heating up on his part and you need to give him positive reinforcement. When he does even the smallest nice thing for you praise him as though it where a grand romantic gesture. As he realizes how much that turns you on he will gradually expound on that. \nOne other thing that might just might help. Talk to him. Tell him you want him to take the lead every once in a while tell him you need him to take your hand on occasion and sometimes you would like him to just reach out and grab you, pull you close and kiss you. It may be awkward at first but if he gets enough reward for his efforts then he will continue with gusto.
959276
Easy when you are hugging him look up at him and if he is looking down at you he probually wants you to kiss him!
446847
Over.  I like when my boyfriend does that, it makes me feel little and feminine and like he's protecting me...that might sound silly but it's true.  And never underestimate picking a girl up when you hug her, girls LOVE that.
153355
He can tell you he loves you when his friends are around.  He offers you the last bite of his favorite dish.  He calls you in the middle of the day for no apparent reason.  He laughs with you and not at you, for real.  He wants you in his bed, just to hold.  He accepts you for who you are.  He loves your imperfections.  He wants the best for you.  He makes it his job to make sure you are happy.  He holds your hand in public.  He holds your purse while you try on bathing suits.  He thinks you are perfect...just the way you are.
478810
Because he wants to be with his girlfriend more. Move on because you deserve all the love someone can give you.
646864
HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.
950313
Being someone who has done that, it is an affection thing, but it also shows that he wants to kiss you on the lips he may just be afraid.  Whether afraid because you are with someone else or afraid of making a "move of no return" unknown.  If he is someone that you think could be special, when he does it next time turn your head toward his and give him one back, when that happens look at his eyes, you will more than likely get the "awkward stare" as one of my old flames used to call it.  The look that each of us gave just before we hooked up, the look where everything seemed to get dark and all you could see was each other.  That is in fact how she and I started our relationship. But if he is not someone that you could see kissing, then dont, but do know that he WOULD like to kiss you and be gentle with his feelings
763966
my man chris is a very affectionate man he loves to hold and kiss on me infront of his friends and people i just asked him why so i could tell you and told him your question and he said if you truely love someone it doesnt matter what others think you always want to show your affection to them and he said he enjoys showing me off and showin im his he said that some of his friends are actualy jelouse that he has the balls to just be himself !!\n make sure your man really loves you and dont just settle in life i did that once in a past relationship dont do it im warning you you will regrate it \nlet him show you off \nmy man also said to say the person you are with should be your best friend and for him you should be his so he shouldnt rely care what others think that he's being a punk
733868
It is always ok to hug anyone. If you have a boyfriend that is NOT ok with you hugging someone, you've got the wrong boyfriend.
399266
good possibility: maybe he's worried that your relationship is begining to be based on the kissing. he may want to make it based more on an emotional connection, and then go back to all the kissing.\nbad possibility: he is loosing interest.
719460
What happens when you try holding his hand?  Does he pull away?  Likewise, what happens when you try hugging or kissing him?  If he pulls away, ask him if he wants you to stop or not.  Like you said, he could be shy.  Just pour on the affection until he tells you to stop.  Tell him you'd enjoy getting some affection back.
1100393
Being in a relationship is like a game and you have to learn how to play it to win. Let's look at the evidence here a little more carefully: 1-he is calling you more; 2-he has referred to you hon on more than once occasion, and 3-he wants to clean your car. Yes, this gentleman indeed sounds like a nice guy. However, I would suggest you let the relationship take it's course, slow and steady. He may be using this time to sort out his feelings for you as well. What he appears to be doing is throwing hints at you. Therefore, develop a strategy to throw hints at him as well. For instance, if you are "hanging out" at his place, help him clean up some time. Take him to dinner and pay. When he hugs you, give him a quick peck on the cheek. These things are subtle and will give you a chance to return the signals you are receiving. I wish you two the best. It wont be long before you two are in love.
616610
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
271785
Cuddling definitely causes emotions; security and romance- Maybe he thought it would hurt his friendship with your ex.