How can I consolidate my selfconfidence?
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If you are a believer, man is the living images of God - God, the Fatehr; God, the Son; and God, the Holy Spirit - the mystery of the Holy Trinity - the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. When you pray to our loving Father in Heaven, you should say Amen; meaning, so do I; and, therefore, you must act and encourage others to act in the name or in behalf of God. After the strong and living belief and reliant to God, you should and must rely on yourself. It is because God created equally man with respect to spirituality of his human being; eventhough one is not perfect phsically, maybe a disable person without hands and he can write, drive, weave mats/hats, if he has the strong belief that he is one the debris of the mystic body of Christ - One Bread, One Body, One People, a different unique person with different talents and abilities\nas potentials given by God; but, these potentials need to be husked or unfolded or develop as talents are discovered by talent scouts specially your parents/brothers/sisters/relatives/other persons close to your heart are are willing to train you, no matter, what is the Intelligence Quotient (I.Q.) he has. An idiot is teachable if one is just interested in that endeavor, his interest and willingness would and shall make him to be able and strenghen his own weaknesses by accepting the challege and never run away from resposibility to your own. Nobody could help as much as you can but yourself. Constant correct practice makes a man perfect as God is perfect; but, man is imperfect; but, perfection as of this moment, is now ongoing process, if you just accept God as your Redeemer and we will become the same sons and daughters of the Heavenly Father. What do you need more - your living faith in God which could move mountains. Because of one strong beliefs in God, nothing is impossible, under the heat of the sun on this planet Earth. "Tularan mo si Manny Pacquiao, a religious man who prays always before he fights; and, as for him, it is not the number of times that he falls to the canvas but it is the number of times that he rises again. As for Manny mottoe: Eventhough, he falls 7 times, he rises again eight times. Eventhough, his head is bloody, yet, unbowed because he fights not only for personal/family engrandisement but for his country and ultimately for God. Do you get it? - Self reliance - "Pagkatapos, sa pagtitiwala sa Panginoong Diyos, PAGTITIWALA SA SARILI!"
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There are a few simple things that you can do to boost your confidence quite easily.\nThe first is to make a list of all your strong points: write down all the things about you that are good and strong. If you need help, don't be shy to ask others to comment on your strong areas for you.\nKeep this list with you at all times, and pin a copy by your bed so that you can look at it first thing in the morning and when you go to bed, to make you feel great first and last thing every day of the week.\nThis is such a simple tip but it works really well.
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Beleive in yourself. Make your own decision. Trust yourself. Love yourself. Be proud of yourself and decisions you have made (Specially the right decisions). Learn from your mistakes and improve your shortfalls. Listen to others and learn from their experiences. Know that you are as capable as others. Everyone makes mistakes, it is the one who learns from it that rises higher in life.
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I have a few suggestions on overcoming your problems.\n\nYou need to love yourself for the person you are, tell yourself daily that you are strong and confident (preferably when you feel the least). Everyone is unique. Everyone is different. Good posture might help with your confidence, it sends a confident vibe.. \n\nTry acting confident for a day, you'll see you might actually like it.. and it's not as difficult to pick it up after a while as it sounds.\nSometimes you might feel a little cheesy but it will really help.\n\nAs for the concentration.. work on developing patience and listening skills. If you are genuinely interested in what a person has to say, it is easier to listen. Or you could try tapping one finger on your leg, I know someone who does this. (discreetly though) Don't make it look like you are impatient. \n\nI hope this helps
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Think about what assertive and confident look and sound like, then look and sound like that.\n\nSome details that come to mind...\nstand or sit tall\nmake eye contact\nspeak a little slower than usual\nspeak a little lower (no high squeaky voice) than usual\n\n\nBest of all, know your stuff inside out. That way you should actually be confident.
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I AM A CONFIDENT PERSON OF GREAT FAITH AND POSTIVE ATTITUDE !!! \nI BELEIVE THIS GIVES ME THE SELF-CONFIDENCE TO FEEL SECURE ABOUT MYSELF AND TO REFLECT BEAUTY INSIDE AND OUT !!!
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Be confident that being yourself is the best way to create a good impression. Don't put on an act - show some honesty and integrity about who you are.
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by increasing your self confidence
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Confidence is the best weapon to so called "haters". If you know yourself deep inside and know that words are meant to be sometimes powerful and mean, then adapt that layer between the person and your head. That layer should adapt to never let anything negative put your confidence down. The best advice a great man once told me was: "Always look at everyone in the eye and know if they are lying about you then know that your confidence is your pride and joy". Be proud with what yo' momma gave you dude and dont let words be harmful.
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I don't like that I am always so unsure of myself.  I need more confidence.
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Hi,\n just bury the past ,offcourse telling is easy.\n\nYou seem to get nervous at some time,it happend with me too.\n\nOne simple remedy is 1.Take deep breath and take things simple\n\nnot imagine how things to perfect be your normal self.\nNo one is perfect.\n2.To make above practical start little sessions whenever you get\n  opportunity ,like going to shop take  intiative to talk by yourself,\n  do slowly seize every opportunity,you will be suprised once you get over.\n\nBut only you have to practical and take things lightly no worry.\nIf you failed also done get disappointed,keep trying,our brain has\n\nthe tendency to react to habit  forming ,the more you develop \n\nthe more easy so shun earlier habits form new helpful things.\n\nYou can observe within a week difference
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remember that life is short and you dont want to grow old asking yourself, 'what if?' and telling yourself 'if only'. Your greatest mistake would be the risk that you didnt take. Believe in yourself and your capabilities, have a positive attitude toward life. Take everything one step at a time, do not be afraid to live life to the fullest for it is fickle and it can be taken away from you anytime. Just always believe in yourself
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A person should not rely on a feeling of confidence that comes from external means...ie...you say when you are "...alone or with a close friend..."\n\nWhat that tells me is that your feeling of confidence MAY come from the fact that you know your close friend's strengths and weakness and insecurities...and so you KNOW that in certain areas you are "stronger" or "better" or "faster" or whatever....and IN COMPARISON that makes you feel confident. Or, IN COMPARISON that makes you feel less insecure. What it comes down to though is YOU comparing your strengths and weaknesses to others you know to help YOU feel confident. \n\nThat works great.....until you walk into a room of strangers........and suddenly your knowledge of their strengths and weaknesses is nonexistent. NOW how are you supposed to judge yourself? Now that you know nothing about them...you lose confidence in YOURSELF, because you don't know how you "compare".\n\nYour abilities and strengths and weaknesses are not RELATIVE or SUBJECTIVE. If you run a 45min 10k....you run a 45min 10k. THAT is objective...not subjective. It is a GOOD time that may even be getting better. If you have a good knowledge base in some subject, or an innate curiosity about things...THAT is an objective, positive quality. \n\nI think the key is for you to realize your strengths and weakness in an OBJECTIVE way...ie, not comparing them to other people...but just getting "your hands and mind" around them on your own...sort of a self-realization thing or something. If you are pretty...you are pretty. Not "pretty compared to...", but just plain pretty. If you run well....you run well. Not "run well compared to..."\nIf you have curious, thought provoking questions....then you have \ncurious, thought provoking questions...period!\n\nOnce you become aware of YOUR STRENGTHS you will become more confident. Not "your strengths compared to other girls' strengths"....but just YOUR STRENGTHS. They exist whether you are alone in your room, or in a room of 1000 people. They don't leave you! Your artistic ability, your athletic ability, your academic ability, etc all stay with you!\n\nKeep THAT in mind next time your mind starts to doubt!!
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Get to the basics. Let go the ego and the false pride. Accept mistakes and compromise.\nLive happily everafter.
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im like that too. i think talking in front of a mirror in a load clear confident voice ten minutes a day might help. it worked for me.
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Find someone who is closest to what you consider as a "succes man", and ask that person to be your mentor, or to give you suggestions to your situation, or give you names of people who may be able to provide you guidance in building self confidence and be a "succes man".\n\nMany people have succeeded in attaining their goal with the help of mentor(s) in their lives.
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Remember your Confidence Level