how long do you wait to call someone after the first date?
147775
2 quick: 5 min\n2 long: 2 Days
324647
It is as long as you take some precautions.  Wait a while before you see him in person.  If you're going to talk on the phone first (which is a good idea) then give him a cell number rather than a home phone that he can track to your house.  When you do decide to meet, do it during the day the first time, and make it in a public place.\n\nAnd no matter how well the date's going, don't take it all the way the first time out.  That didn't go well for me at all the one time it happened.
413153
When you first meet her or on the first date.
320367
When you go out with a guy or give him your phone number....the "rule" is...he shouldn't/won't call you for 3 days.  I guess this is to avoid looking desperate.\n\nThere is also the "3 date rule" which is:  the guy expects to get laid on the 3rd date/the girl shouldn't give it up until the 3rd date.\n\nPretty dumb if you ask me.
918352
wait one more day and then call him and tell him you just wanted to say HI
809160
When I was dating, the guys usually asked at the end of the first date.  If he didn't, I would ask.  I would say something like, "I had a nice time and I was wondering if we could get together again".  I always got a good response of yes, but there were a few no's.\nThese days a guy doesn't mind if a girl asks him out.\n\nHere's a tip:\nIf the guy says he'll call you and acts fidgety, take it with a grain of salt because he won't.\nTry to ask him first as I said above to ease your mind.
481415
if it is a new friend then go for her/him first. seconds suck ya kno. but if they r really close to u, talk to them about it.
695091
You need to ask how much she means to you. If you think she's worth it then give her another call, and have a chat and ask her for that second date.
383502
Well, I will wait awhile to talk to the guy that likes me. Like if he calls me, I will wait a week or more to give him a call back. I do this from the start to make sure that he realizes that I don't like him in that way, but still want to be his friend. Best of luck.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.
449346
I wouldn't wait until you're married but probably not first date conversation. Wait until YOU trust HIM with the inforamtion.
218116
The next day. If you met her in the evening, call her the next afternoon. As someone above said, don't call her after 9pm, & don't call before noon in case she likes to sleep in. =)
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
763620
I guess it depends on the relationship. If it's a long-term relationship, and I feel that the person I was dating would be comfortable, then I would answer the phone, take a message, etc. Basically, would I want him to do the same for me?\n\nHowever, if it's someone that I've only recently started seeing, then I probably wouldn't answer the phone. It could seem a little rude and over-reaching.
821425
Either or.  But get back to  her soon..  That will show her that it really was a great time for you.  Leave the number however you do it and be patient.
307283
Depends were your morals ly.  Do you really care about her then you will wait for the right moment.  But if she agrees on the first date then she is easy and just good enough for a snag and nothing else.  But if she says wait then she's the one.
224367
Sex and the city = .5 times the length of your past relationship.\n\nIf you dated 3 years, wait 1 1/2 years before dating another.\n\nIf you dated 6 months, wait 3 months.\n\nDated 9 hours, wait 4 1/2 hours.\n\nhehe, etc....
336245
The same way as a first and third and hundredth time. Or more likely, a better way that you didn't know the first time (because you've never successfully asked someone to go on a date with you?).\n\nSo the answer is in a straight-forward manner: "Do you want to go out on a date with me?"