Should I cheat,  if I have explained to my wife what's missing in the bedroom and she has not responded.?
143058
Have you ever heard of, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." It's called te golden rule.  Would it be all right if your wife was cheating on you because you either were no longer interested or was physically unable to have sexual relations?  Think about the hurt, the lawyer fees (divorce is highly likely if you get caught) and the never ending alimony and child support payments.  Is it worth it?
352674
Welcome to the world of liars and cheats.  They will tell you anything to get you in bed.  How their wives don't understand them, how horrible she is and they have no intentions of ever leaving their wives.  Take this as a lesson learned and leave married men where they belong, with their wives.
1076092
If seduced, she would have "put out". You were played. Flirting is often fun for married people who know they have no intention of having sex.
579295
If that kind of man talks to me about his wife like that, I will tell him to tell directly to his wife in manageable ways. Sex might be important, not the important thing for building a marriage, but it's not good to let others beside our spouse knows the trouble of that, it's better if the couples set time together discuss.
649775
Your wife is lucky that you're a man who has no secrets behind her back. Eh, I'd just bcc her just to appease her. You don't have anything to hide anyway, so I don't see a problem with alleviating whatever concerns she has with a simple bcc.
554681
No way!... if you don't like sex with her why don't you teach her how you like it?  You made a commitment to your marriage, you can make it what every you want it to be. What you are saying is just an excuse.  I am sure there was a time that you found her a turn on. Well find it again, and if there is things you like then introduce her to it. Talk to her, be open with her. Seek counseling, it really helps!   There is no better turn-on than the ability to do what ever with the person you really love...
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
82816
Speaking from experience, you're guilty. If he's playing along with all of this, don't waste your time. He's a deadbeat anyway. What would you think if you were his wife?
736164
Well......see it was when you said you were having sex last night that she became skeptical. Afterall... she knew you were with your wife. Sex with your wife? *smacks his head* Sheesh....what were you thinking! Of course your girlfriend isn't going to buy that. \n\nI suggest you write your wife a cute little note like we used to do in 6th grade and say:\n\n"Hey sweetie... I enjoyed making love to you last night. Did you? Check one:\n\n______ yes      _________ no\n\n(oh and will you sign your name at the bottom as well?)\n\n\n\n~~~~~ \nThen show this to your girlfriend. Surely it will be as good as an affadavit.
34385
I certainly couldn't argue with your sexual prowess, having no personal experience with you from which to draw from. So I'll start by just believeing that it's at least close to being true.\n\nWhy does he cheat? You say you only do what he asks you to do. I find this statement somewhat odd and I am not sure exactly what you mean by it. Without more information it's hard to give you a "real" answer but, here are a few possibilites (I'm not implying that any of them or all of them are true.)... Maybe he feels neglected in other areas of the marriage? Maybe he married young and feels like he missed out on being single? Maybe he disagrees with your statement regarding "sexual prowess"? Maybe he is going through a mid-life crisis?\n\nIt's hard to give you a good answer without more information. Post more details or drop me an email, I'll help if I can.
1089103
it sounds like you've forgiven her for the affair (so drop it - i'm sure years from now it will come out if need be), but she hasn't forgiven herself.  perhaps you should tell you forgive and want a happy marriage and want to have sex like you used to.\n\ntell her you're willing to do whatever it takes to have a happy marriage again because you love her so.
126648
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ask her if she cleaned under the bed first.give her a chance to fix it first
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
34801
Lying is part of the Affair. First print a hard copy of the BLog, and all Emails for future referance. Chances are it has gone farther and she is covering it up. \n\nThe only way to get through the lies is to catch her in the act. I suggest you contact a private investagetor to look into the matter, They have knowledge and resourses that you would not have, plus by having a third party you get honest information and not biased based on how you feel. Now if you learn that she is not cheating, "yet" then I suggest you work on the relationship before she does. \n\nI would suggest you seek help in counciling. Your not going to be able to resolve the issue by yourself. She is looking at other men probably due to an unmet "NEED" at home. You can read books like those listed below to help identify what those needs are, but until you begin meeting the "NEED" your self, and expose the lies you have no chance of saving the marriage.
915566
Think about this for a moment if you will, if he took all the time and energy that he has spent on you this past 6 months and spent it on his wife, do you think he would have a bad marriage? Another point to ponder, the feelings he has for you right now, do you think he had those same feelings for his wife when they had been going together for 6 months? One more, if he has shown this pattern before, how long before he is bored with you and needs another woman to make him feel good? You are asking us if you should have a relationship with a liar and a cheat, I would not recommend it. What I would recommend though, is for you to step back and look at your relationship with your head and not your heart so you can actually see what you are doing to him and his wife.
1099426
a. how long have you been married?\nb. how old are you?\n\nwell, without knowing the answerd to those two questions, I would say sometimes when a woman loses trust in you in any way ( you have been late, lying, belittling, anything that would make her lose some trust in you) she will pull back and not feel like being intimate. Are there ANY areas where you may be losing her trust?
26042
If you know your wife and are truly in love with her one kiss is all it will take.  From an unfortunate amount of experience, once she has been with someone else, even one time,  the differnece in the way the kiss feels is noticable.  Maybe not physically, but the difference is there.  Now proving that she cheated  is an entirely different story.