how do you find out if your boyfriend is flirting with other girls behind your back besides asking him?
147470
Would you prefer he flirt when you're around???\n\nFlirting alone is harmless....  \n\n& why do you need to know anyway?  Are you a control freak that needs to know his every thought and move at all times?
272819
You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
358081
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
225869
you are never going to know until you find out yourself dont ask someone else to do it!!! if you like him flirt back and you will get somewhere!!! he will proberly flirt back so yea thats it reli
923075
Ask him upfront and openly. If he gets mad and leaves you for asking that question, he was cheating, so you saved yourself.
782246
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
192112
Well, if you feel like you may have something to worry about then confront him about it, otherwise give him the benefit of the doubt. Girls may flirt with him and try to get him to go out with them but if its YOU that he really likes then he wont cheat on you. Remember its important to go with your gut instinct and dont get mad until there is evidence that there is something definately to be mad about
663505
Ok, first your boyfriend looks at other females, it's normal a guy can't help but to look as long as it is looking instead of touching...If you love him, you wouldn't let him go......If he wanted to date someone else, he wouldn't be with you....Just ask him what does those other girls have that you don't.....What will it take for him to be proud of what he has.......Maybe he looks and thinks that you have them beat!!!  Who knows what runs in guys head!!  I caught my man nodding at another girl, talking to another girl, and looking at a girls butt......But he is still with me!!!  Just don't let it get to you......It will all work it course!!!
327982
Yes, it is cheating.  Why does he need to look for other girls when he has you?  What would he do if a girl did respond?  You should get a friend who he doesn't know to respond to him and see what happens.
221074
Well if you ever see his penis inside another girl, that's usually a good sign. Sorry for being mean but I had to, I'm mean.  Look for lies about where he was, ask him what he did that night, then the next day tell him you forgot what he did, if his stoy differs, he may be lying and therefore hiding something
1056647
i wont listen to them. For what reason is he my boyfriend. Of course because he must have been loyal & sincere. But yes if some very close friend would have told me then my case would be different. I'll try to investigate about it.Then i'll ask my boyfriend myself if he has been cheating or not.Cheating is not a big issue till its just flirting but if he would be dating other girls then i would simply hug him n say go0d bye baby...
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
284617
Don't expect more than flirtation from him... lots of people in relationships flirt, and thats all they do.  They have no intention of cheating or leaving - and thats what he's told you by letting you know he's already involved.
474919
They flirt with other guys when they're boyfriend isn't there because they want the attention they're not getting from their boyfriend.