is it possible :boy is just friend not more?
154979
well I have to say as a man, and knowing lots of other men- I dont believe a man can be a good friend to a woman unless he had sexual desires first.  I think it is very possible to be friends after that desire calms down, but I think sexual attraction is the first thing a guy thinks of when he meets a woman and wants to be her friend. \n\nBoys, on the other hand- under a certain age can be friends with girls without that impulse- but puberty changes us.\n\nLots of women get angry when I say this, but being honest isnt always a popular choice to make.  All of my best female friends -started out as a sexual desire upon first meeting them.  \n\nLots of guys will deny this because women cant handle the truth because it disgusts them. Although I think the same goes for women in many cases too. \n\nMen and women really dont usually have the chemistry to be really close friends without one of them having some sexual attraction to the other, at least at some point in the friendship.\n\nI think it is changing though with the internet, because people can get to know each other without any kind of sexual stimulants such as physical attraction. My very best friend (and yes I adore her and yes I have sexual desire for her but...) started out as a complete mental interest.  I liked the things she had to say before I was distracted by her beauty, but of course I fell in love and NOW I think I have finally learned what REAL love is- by getting to know her as a person before I ever saw her, was a great thing.  I dont think it is foolish love, or marriage love as of yet- but I can definitely feel my love growing for her every day.
780219
hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
469745
not unless you think it will work between the two of you. if you care and he's your friend wouldn't you feel awful for leading him on and hurting him? maybe you just think of him like a brother or something.
32400
I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
1137411
ask your boyes friend not girl
46008
I know in the movie When Harry Met Sally the whole theme is that men and women can't be friends.  I think it's something everyone thinks deep down because men seem to be way more interested in sex than in meaningful friendships.  I don't believe this.\n\nYes, a friendship can blossom into something much more, but it's also quite possible for men and women to just be friends.  I have had several male friends, and while at some point they'll admit they've considered me for dating, they enjoy just being my friend. If you have enough in common and  don't flirt (and give eachother the wrong impression) it should work out fine!\n\nYou just need to know the boundaries and the difference between friend and lover.
106008
yes, they can be if the boy is not really a man.
516986
Be steady with one guy, other you will loose both of them. friend is friend & boy friend is something more than the friend. So think carefully and decide.
239620
maybe because girl actually like the boy very much and wanna talk more bout the boy
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.
1183296
This is not sufficient information about the boy to judge him.Actually that will be the best judgement which will be made by you.Because you know him better than any others.I can give you some suggestions.Make friendship with the boy deeply & analize his expressions to you.
219109
Of course you aren't bad. If he is a friend, then you obviously have things in common to start with. Sometimes the relationship grows from there to a romantic one. It is tough though when the guy doesn't feel the same way. It can ruin the friendship.
1007725
Yes they can. If they can't, they're not the kind of guys you want as friends anyway.
222738
as long as ure born then u can have a boy freind im sure that u have boys that r ure friends!!!!!!!!
33969
yes, it is possible. you've just got to watch out on which signals u might be sending these guys. you also need to make it very clear up front that u only want to be JUST friends and nothing more. hope this helps.
546562
Isn't he supposed to be I mean he is your boy friend
920813
Yea, it does sound like a friend to me. Get to know him more as he gets to know you a little more. Don't worry too much.