i understood my opposite sxe patner but she dosent unestand me  every btime we fighrt what shuld i do?
148807
Firstly explain that a kick in the right place sometimes hurts, then every time she starts a fight, leave the room and take spelling lessons, answer your question?
234744
Listen to Sassy.Also you can look on your own.\nIn the meantime try to control yourself,don't lash out at her when she makes one of her digs. It sounds like you are\nboth decent people stuck in a tough situation. Don't let\nwords be spoken that can't be taken back-suck it up,take a deep breath,leave the room if you have to.When you have your\nown place it'll be easier to get along and repair the damage.Good luck and remember you're both human.
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
143682
just be your self, if she makes a nasty reply, then she's the one at fault, there is someone out there that will love you just as you are, dont get stuck on one person\ngood luck
1118211
Probably cuz you ignored her.  I always say sometimes it is best to "back off" which is what you did and it worked out for you.  Try not to be TOO interested too fast though as that probably scared her a little.  You did right.
445075
She sounds as if she doesn't treat you the way that you would like to be treated. I wouldn't like it, but I am not you.\n\nYou sound like you need someone to hash all of this over with to make sure you know what you are thinking. On observation, you have not been close acting for a while. If you can't tell her, write it a couple of times to get confidence. Then drink a beer or a coffee one day and tell it to her straight. \n\nThen do what you have to do to be happy. No use wasting the rest of your life pretending. Time to be free to be true to yourself.
24761
??I can't understand u
369342
Give her some time to cool off. After a little while, confront her with your concerns. Tell her you feel like she's been ignoring you, and thet you are sorry for beign a few minutes late. Tell her you love ehr and you don;t like feeling like she's mad at you or that she doesn't trust you. Be calm and assertive, and get your point across. Good luck! :]
379655
she doesnt knowwhat she wants
180421
i found my self in the same situation and i could tell you if he doesnt understand, let it be. dont crack in too hard. \nyou dont need to look the bad guy. \nlet him take a chance & see you were only caring to say something early. \n support is more noticable than a paradox.
912487
Stop stressing over it and go have a good time. \n\nBe yourself and when the time comes just smile and be polite. If she sees you relaxed and happy and approachable she may start to wonder about what she heard and realise it was wrong. She could be nice really.
100867
Ouch. Kudos to you on doing what you said you would, but for her it might be too little, too late. She needs to know that you will do what you say even when she isnt threatening you. Is there anything else about you that you know bugs her? Make an effort to change that too. She feels like you dont care enough about her to change, but you are doing the best you can now.\nLevel with her, tell her that you didnt change before but that now that you know how life is without her that you want to be just the man she needs.
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
390679
dnt even bovva wid her...i no it soundz weird but dnt even try nd b m8s wid her cuz if she nowz dt ur tryin 2 b m8s wid her she wud end up sayin yea den usin ya i should no ive bin throu it
385489
You have all my sympathy - I too have no understanding of the deeper mechanics of the evil female brain. Maybe you should try talking to her and see if she is willing to communicate to you what the problem.\n\nHey, worth a try,
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
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TRY LISTEN 2 HER. UNDERSTAND WHERE SHE IS COMING FROM. AND TELL THE TRUTH, EVEN IF IT MAY HURT.