Is it okay for a african-american to ask a caucasian guy if he likes her?
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I personally don't ask guys out.  If I want to be asked out, I send off signals letting the guy know that I like him.  Body language tells it all.  As far as your dad goes, you have to live life for you (not unless you have kids).  Do what makes you happy!!! Your dad may have reservations, but thats only because they've seen, and went through things growing up, that we fortunately didn't have to.  Your dad will come around, especially if the guy you like is a good guy.  Plus your mom wouldn't mind.....you know women have a way of swaying men minds (smile)  Good Luck!
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I'm a 22 yr old black girl and i dont date black guys. I used to like them when i was younger, in my teens. But i find them very boring and not very intelligent and they dont seem very articulate. I find it hard to have a decent conversation with a black my age. Alot of them are about rap music, sex, and cars and nothing else. \nI find white guys more attractive and intelligent. I like their pale skin in private places!! White men are just alot more interesting to me. \n\nHowever I dont think white guys treat girls different to black guys, men are men regardless. You have to judge the individual on who they and how they behave. \n\nI agree that there are more white guys with black girls and they seem to be quite possessive. If i walk past a girl with her white man she give you evils lol. Like i care,the girls ive seen are uglier than me anyway. each to there own.\n\nI would marry a white man, my family are from jamaica and i will never on this earth date a jamaican man! Black men are a no no for me. As for sex, white men are far more gental and understanding.
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It hasn't been for many years? Anyway, you should clarify the question because I am sure the point you are trying to make is "Is black and white people dating each other okay now?" There has been interracial dating for a very long time, but the one that irritated people was the black on white dating. Hispanics are a different race and they can date caucasians without an issue.
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if you see him for his ethnicity, there is a very low probability a relationship would work. try seeing him as a person not a race.
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it shoudn't matter the race or ethnic bachground she comes from. i think it's great u r willing to date outside of your race. just know that there are ignorant people in the world who are going to challenge u on this issue. stand strong!
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It depends on the girl because I'm asian (mixed: chinese and vietnamese) and I'm dating a black guy.
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satan your a moron, and she said she wasnt a racist!  Anyway, You dont have a mental issue, your just attracted to the people your attracted to. no big deal. as for white guys, we do that all the time, you r totally right for saying that. [but of course i dont rape people, and im honest, just ask my gf.]
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22,F,white,straight, Texas\n\n\nGood or bad?\n-Straight same race relationships      Good\n-Gay same race relationships           Good\n-Straight Interracial relationships    Good\n-Gay Interracial relationships         Good\n\nIf gay, which is acceptable\n-Girl, girl                        Okay\n-Guy, Guy                          Okay\n\nDo you think Public Displays of Affection are acceptable for any of the above groups?\nI dont mind hand holding or light kissing, but dont grab at each other pubes or kiss all nasty...It is cool for all.\n\n All of the above groups?\nyes\n None of the above groups?\nGay may make me uncomfortable but I can always turn my head. \nIf it's not acceptable for any one or all, why?\nN/A
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I think it's perfectly normal. My best friend (a girl) is attracted exclusively to Hispanic guys...and she's totally Irish. You probably just like certain features that white girls have. Nothing wrong with that.
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Hell no! If you love this guy, color & race should not matter.
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I am in a similar place as you, except I'm a white female attracted to black males (also white males).  In most cases, when I come across a black male ( far and few between, here in Aledo, TX) they're usually wearing a wedding ring.  There are a number of interracial couples out there, so we know there's hope!  Whoever our mate turns out to be, regardless of race, finding "that one" with a same like mind as yours WILL BE yours one day.  Try to be patient.  Take care.
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there's nothing wrong with it\neveryone is entitled to date or marry whoever they wish ,  it doesn't matter about the color  or race as long as your  both all right with it
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If you're white and this is your question, then is this case: yes.
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So you would date a black man just because he's a black man? Not to say there is anything wrong with dating a black man just saying if his skin is the only reason than its a very sad one.
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I think its fine. But to be honest I would much rather prefer to date/marry in my race not because of skin color or nothing like that but because If I date someone of a differenace race  I know it will always be a issue and if we ever got in a fight He might call me some racist terms  and ya know how it goes... and someone in my race can't do that
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NO! I have been in an interracial relationship for several years and honestly do not even think about his race because I love him. This questions has been asked many many times and if you will notice, the only people that respond no to this question are white boys. Not all white guys feel this way, but the ones that respond no just feel threatened and I think that's really lame. I think you should love everyone and if you feel in your heart that a relationship is right, race should not matter.
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Does it matter if your black, white, yellow, brown or otherwise? Let's think about it, when it all comes down to bone structure and level of mallamon (not sure of spelling!) in your skin, then why do we see people so differently? We are all people sharing this planet, it's our belief structure and how we act that differentiates us from one another.\n\nSo may answer is you is 'Yes' because you are dating the person not the race! Cultural backgrounds sometimes need to be considered, but really the same rules would apply if you were dating someone of the same race.\n\nMy wife is Asian and I am Caucasian. I am attracted to the beauty of the person and my wife.