i asked my boyfriend if he was cheating on me and he said whatever and tould me bye what do i think or do?
141926
He was defenitly just wanting to break up with you. This almost always happens after a guy starts acting weird and distant.
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
28357
First I would validate that s/he indeed is cheating.\n\nS/he might have other issues that you are not aware of.\n\nConfront the person if possible, in a non-hostile manner.
246160
you cheated?\n\nif so, he needs time. he may not forgive.
599989
It's all about trust.  He told you nothing is going on, so believe him.  It really doesn't sound like he is cheating, or else why would he tell you who he was on the phone with in the first place?  You can be sure he loves you by his actions.  Taking on a baby that isn't his own?  Wanting to name your child??  That sounds like love to me!  He may have loved this girl at one point but he has moved on.  He has learned to love you more than he loved her.  Everything is okay.  Explain to him that you got plain old jealous and reacted wrong.  And then go take him out for ice cream ;)
121304
Don't rush to conclusions, because you might be breaking a really good relationship.  If you are 100% sure, there is still the question whether the offense is unforgivable that it is worth breaking a really good relationship.  Maybe you should help the significant other get his/her mind back by showing yourself and making sure that he/she knew that you witnessed something which can be interpreted as "cheating" or infidelity.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
318891
you say you love him and trust him, but you also say you don't know what to do.  if you trust him, then there isn't anything you need to do.  if something is bothering you, then discuss it with him, and if whatever is bothering you isn't resolved, then move on.\n\nif he love&#92; you, he shouldn't be doing things that make you wonder.  if you trust him, there wouldn't be any doubt.
136624
Sounds like he's on the verge of cheating to me.  If all you did was ask him a question, and he got pissed, he's feeling the pressure.  This doesn't sound normal to me, I think you should ditch him.  If he really cared about you, he wouldn't get angry and insult you when you ask him questions.  AND he wouldn't be meeting other guys behind your back.  I think you should confront him and if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it's not worth it.  Don't worry, you'll find the one that is.
263963
Take a moment to get the act of cheating to suck in and your emotions under control. Get all your thoughts together in a logically manner. Tell him exactly how you feel,in a lady-like manner because he will expect you to be bitter so don't give him that satisfaction,  don't hold anything back because you don't want to later regret not saying something. Move on with your life and don't look back, don't let him make a fool out of you again. Best of luck.
590569
Mandy,\n If you have reason to believe that he even thought about cheating on you, then hit the road. Leave this idiot in the dirt, and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.\nGood Luck.
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
494046
Confront him with your insecurities. But don't go about it in an accusing manner. Rather, ask if everything is right between you two. Trust is everything in a relationship. If there are more signs that come up, then I would definitely look into it. But insecurities from your part needs to come to a resolution of if you do trust him or if you don't.  If there is real proof he is cheating on you then confront the issue. If not, let it be. Showing your lack of trust in him can be hurtful especially if he's been loyal to you all along.
836880
It is admirable that you told your boyfriend and also apologised.\nWhat you should do is to give him time and see what happens\nSeriously i think that you are a very brave girl\nGood luck
27408
I suggest you ask him and explain why you are asking him , has he given you reason to think he is ? Or do you have trust issues ? Your best bet is to talk to him and be honest seeing as though that is what you would want from him right ?
809684
Sounds like the bf has some real issues.  He really did you wrong.  If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to prove himself.   I'd take anything REALLY slow.  Keep your eyes open, see if you can trust him again.