my girl got locked up 2 months ago n is gonna serve 2 in ahalf  years she is affarid ill 4get about her how?
146177
Be faithful to her!\nBe patient!\n\nYou both will be all right!!\nGood Luck!!!
729193
You say "Average", that alone implies that half the stays are longer then three months. I would guess the stay has to do with the problem, not the time that he (she) is confined.
991074
How long is the person going away for?  A few months, I could see you waiting for them.  Years?  Well, you have needs, and that person isn't going to be there to help you fulfill them.  Eventually, you WILL cheat.  You may as well break it off and save both of you heartache.  Plus, the person that goes inside the joint, won't be the same person that comes out.  They're going to see a lot of messed up things.\n\nP.S.  Do you know how many prisoners get raped inside?  It's scary!  Do you want them possibly bringing something back once they're out?  Run girl Run!
1131812
She'll just go for a year..i reckon u shud just get started..get to noe her more and try to noe her better..chat with her more..good luck!
1034333
You are best to let him get a jail house lawyer( an Inmate who is well read on the laws) He can guide you in the right direction. Your husband should know this if he has already been locked up for 3 years. He can file all of his own appeals first and see where it goes from there. Good Luck
489063
depends if the jail is suffering from overcrowding conditions.  if so, then the jail will do "early releases" for 1st time offenders of non-violent crimes.  if it's sexual crimes or person-to-person crimes, chances are, she'll be staying in county jail for the entire duration.
1130946
You should if she really is getting out of hand.  Let her see how it feels to be in jail and when she's out she'll want your forgiveness because that's wher she'll be if you don't teach her a lesson.
830179
i hope she never comes back!! ppl like you make me sick, guy's who use violence on women sohuld be locked up, it's a sign of weakness. i hope you rot in hell, i don't care if you report me ,i said what i wanted too.
865416
i am  very  sorry  to  hera   this      i know   how  sad  jail  is      i ve  seen  quite  a bit   of  heart breaking   story   / however  ther  is  hope    you  need  to   contact  the  judge    state  attoreny and  a lawyer    i   dont  know his   offence    . however   ther  iss  a  chance that  he  can  be   on  house   arrrest    , if this  happen   its  is  SO VERY IMPORANT  THAT  HE  COMPLISE  100 PERCENT  I   DO   KNOW THAT IF YOU ARE ON  HOUSE ARREST   ITS IS TAKEN VERY SERIOUSLY  IF YOU GET THIS   DONT  LET  HIM  MESS UP  BECAUSE THINGS COULD GET WORSE
1021079
There may be an on going investigation that you are not aware of.  Please speak to the policeman that you gave the report to and ask for an update.  Sometimes what we think is a done deal, is not enough for our courts to hang someone with.  I'm glad you had the courage and fortitude to do something about it.  Good for you!
738915
check with ur local free clinics.... they  can either help her out  or direct her to where to go...  for one thing... at least they will check her out.. which will establish  a documented history for her.. which in turn  will be  of assistance
967128
Everytime I get arrested(which is quite often and matter of fact the last time was Wednesday...Just got out Thursday morning) I have my "First Apperance"(which is usually held inside the jail somewhere) the next day or two, which at First Apperance they give you the chance to bond out and sentence you. You don't get your 'real' court date(in the courthouse) until at least two weeks later, but sometimes it can take up to a month or more. It sounds like what happened to your friend is 1) He couldn't make bond 2) They didn't issue him a bond, which means he has to stay till his 'real court date' at that time they will either give him time served and let him out or give him probation or 3) He already went to court and has to do his time period
809951
NOT TO BE HARSH BUT I GREW UP WITH A CRAZY LADY LIKE THAT(MY STEP GRANDMOTHER) SHE DROVE US ALL CRAZY RIGHT ALONG WITH HER DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN TO YOU.IF SHE IS ACTING THIS CRAZY I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY SHE IS NOT LOCKED UP . WHEN MY STEP GRANDMOTHER WOULD GO NUTS THEY WOULD DO AN EMERGENCY LOCK UP AND SHE HAD TO GO AGAINST HER WILL. I WOULD CONTACT THE POLICE DEPARTMENT OR A MENTAL HEALTH CLINIC OR LAWYER  AND SEE WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO HAVE HER COMMENTED FOR YOURS AND HER OWN SAFETY.WHEN THEY DO AN EMERGENCY LOCK UP IT IS NOT HER CHOICE TO GO BUT THE JUDGES COURT ORDERS OR THEY DO IT BY PSYCHIATRIST WORD AND SHE HAS TO GO.PLEASE LOOK IN TO IT BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW IT WORKS IN YOUR STATE.IF YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE HER WAIT UNTIL SHE IS LOCKED UP OR BETTER SO SHE WON'T HURT OR KILL HER SELF!JUST REMEMBER SHE IS SICK AND CAN NOT HELP WHAT SHE IS DOING SO THINK IT OVER LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU LEAVE HER SHE NEEDS LOVE AND SUPPORT TO GET BETTER! IF THEY LOCK HER UP PLEASE GO AND SEE HER! YOU GUYS ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND GOOD LUCK!
47583
Well first you have to ask yourself how ur gonna feel after you find out what happens. But if you really want to know then check on your state's Department of Corrections and look up her name somehow. Just search in Google '<state> Department of Corrections' and something should come up.
991150
Actually, you and your husband should have full custody of your child, since the Mother was incarcerated.  \n\nThe Mother has to have a "permenant" address, in which to file, for joint custody, and that is only going to be on the weekends and maybe time in the Summer for vacations.\n\nYour child, if he/she is old enough can elect not to go to the Mother, for vacations as she may pose a danger to them, (if she is on drugs or some other thing that may be a restriction).\n\nCheck with your lawyer and see what your "rights" are, and what her "rights" may be...\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
111962
Sign yourself into a drug program ASAP.  The first thing you have to do is get real and get healthy so get help.  The court may see that you have taken the first step and rethink the jail time for as long as you are in treatment.
661395
If the doctor won't let her leave then he thinks she is in danger. Do not let her out. She needs to remain hospitalized until she is stable and diagnosed. Have them sedate her if need be.