how do you go about getting an old love back?
146737
call her and told what do u wanna do say to her now
30947
TALK TO THEM MORE AND TRY TO REKINDLE THE FLAME THAT YOU ONCE HAD WITH EACH OTHER.
56811
Show her the new you, show her what she has been missing for those two years!! \nCharm her\nAnd BE YOU!!!
325148
First allow yourself to grieve and own up to what went wrong without blaming another person.  That is how we grow up.  Then start to dream again.  The past relationship wasn't right or else it would have worked out.  So, start dreaming about that perfect person.  What would they look like, how would they make you feel, what would you do together.  The more you can let go of the old and welcome the new the better.  Look at it as having a white canvas where you can begin to create once again.  Enjoy the process and do a lot of nice things for yourself that make you feel good.  Start looking for the joy in your life from other ways.  Good luck.
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Well, unfortunately you can't erase the memories of past relationships. There is always going to be something that reminds you of that person. A good way to bypass the baggage is not to use it against the new love.  They don't deserve to be compared to or treated as if they are going to be the same way. Not everyone is the same way. Have a positive outlook on any new relationship and learn from the previous ones.
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Start from scratch.  Do not resume this relationship where you left off.  That would be the mistake.  People change.  If you are interested in getting back together.  Do not date for six months.  Let your old love mourn the loss of the marriage.  This will allow your old love to clear his mind first.  Start dating and take it slowly to find out how the marriage has affected him and why his marriage failed.
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The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
447588
try to get him back dear
156499
it's easy if your both single, just see if there's still that something from both of you, ask to go out with him or her, talk about those days, even your mistakes, so you both could straighten it out..it's that feeling to know if you could revive that 'love'
1066365
Everyone deserves a second chance but if it was something you can not get over don't bother taking him/her back. It will cause problems. Leave the past in the past. Start over new.
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
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Do the things you did when you were first in love with this person.  Maybe something that you haven't done for years but have fond memories of doing when you were young and inl ove.  Whether it's dancing, enjoying a candlelit dinner, surprising him/her with flowers, or strolling along the beach, just try to show this person that the love and magic and chemistry you felt 25 years ago is still there, and even stronger.
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1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
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By taking it one day at a time. and working on the things you can control. \n\nWork on dating new people, and learning what you like in women. She has left you and is not comming back so you might as well move on also. \n\nIt's your choice you can pine over a lost love or work on making new memories with someone new. the choices are up to you. \n\nI would suggest reading the book\nWho moved my cheese it's small and oh so wonderful for helping you look at your life with a critical eye. \n\nThen I would suggest readong smart love. \n\nMay God Bless your life.
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Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
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A loyal heart like yours is hard to find.  The sad, sad thing is that you can't make a person fall in love with you again, nor should you try.\n\nYou need to be the best person you can be: your happiness shouldn't be dependent on another person, no matter how beautiful, no matter how lovely or nice. You need to move on, to value yourself.\n\nIt's fair enough to feel bad after a relationship ends. But you need to admit that it's over, and grieve for it. You need to find a way to go on, to make new friends, and so on.\n\nThe thing is, even if you were to get together again, it wouldn't be the old relationship, it would be a new one. Five years is a long time, and as you say, she's grown up... and chances are so have you. I've got a lot of respect for you for ensuring her safety, and for not expecting sex when she stayed. Seriously, you sound like a stand-up guy. You will find someone to make you happy, and you will make that person happy too.  Things will work out for the best.\n\nIn the mean time, do as she says, don't read too much into you hanging out. Treat her nicely, and as a friend. That's all you can do.  There's a slim chance that you might get back together, but that can only happen if you don't make her feel obliged. If you're happy and confident and self-sufficient, that's a much more attractive package than needy and desperate.  And it will feel better for you, too.\n\nIf you get to know each other again, and there's still a spark there, then let things take their own time. If there's not, nothing will make it come. But appreciate the good things about yourself, and try and believe that there's someone for everyone, even if it's not who you initially expect.\n\nGood luck, either way.