What can I do being all alone this Valentines day? ideas?
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Have a singles get together.  You must have single friends.  Hook up and go clubbing.  Maybe you'll meet someone and then next year . . .
89887
Send as many valentines or E-cards to others you know especially if they have been in your position. It will make them feel good. In return you will get many back too and that will make you feel good too. And who knows? There may be a secret admirer hidden in there you weren't aware of. Oh yes, if you realy feel the need to..send him one too. Do what ever your heart tells you. And have a happy Valentines Day!
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Get together with your friends, go out to dinner, go to a club and go dancing! Rent or go see an awesome movie... Do something special for yourself. But really, it's just another day, a Tuesday, infact, so don't stress being alone... It's not such a big deal. :)
257373
movies, have an allnight hangout with your friends, at free time try to talk to your spouse on the phone, read a book, go to a gym, volunteer somewhere, etc etc etc
956032
ask him "if u could do anything w/ me for 24 hours- and i would b ok w/ everything and luv it all- wat would u do?"\nhe'll give u some fun ideas
1149392
Invite a friend over, like have a girls night in or out sometimes. Keep in touch again, with some of your favorite movies. Take a cooking or a craft course. You can also volenteer somewhere. \nThen of course, play on the computer.
1092858
Ask friends or relatives if they have any single women friends. Try church. Join a club or sports team that's co-ed (golf league?). Visit the mall, library, grocery store, etc...
279127
run at streets and say ....\n\n "OHH YES ..YES .YESSSSSSSSS ....IM SINGLE ..OHHH YES IM SINGLEEEEEEEEE  ... WOW ..WOW WOWO ...IM SINGLE " :)
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Make a big deal over the holiday.  Some way where she will see that you love & are extremely interested in her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your girlfriend back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your girlfriend guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money.  It challenges you to be more creative.  Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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Try going alone when you know there's hardly anyone around like early mornings. When you do go, reward yourself with something nice besides food. Work on your postive self-talk. I had the same problems with being self conscious when I'm alone but I went and did it. What helped was having a radio or cd/tape player to distract you from your own self-defeating thoughts.
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Well since im not sure wheather your a boy or girl, I'll go with a somewhat universal suggestion. What you neeed to do is hang out with your single girl friends! Go out to a nice dinner, maybe all go and rent a movie and eat in. Have a girls night in.. or in some a guys night in or out :) But enjoy. Love is a regular basis thing. Not a ONE day a year occasion. :) Good luck! And Enjoy!
346666
go where no one can find you even if its a hotel. turn off the phone take a warm bath and just relax
933217
It depends on the day of the week, the time of month or if your close to valentines or christmas etc.\nBeing single is ok, I am completely independant, am not answerable to anyone and very rarely disappointed.\nBut that doesn't stop me feeling lonely when I'm sat in on my own, sadly answering question after question on here... \nI think it would be nice to find companionship, but then I meet someone and before it develops into a relationship it gets all heavy or complicated and think I can do without the hassle.. \nI have plenty of friends and will keep it that way until someone totally special comes my way.\nNot getting into something on the premise I am lonely, if I did that, I could let any kind of scumbag into my life, and they would probably leave it just as quickly having stripped me of my confidence. I am not prepared to let that happen.
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You may never get the 'flame' back, but you can definitely stoke the embers and have a nice hot bed of coals!!  Plan surprises... meals in your bedroom spread out on the bed, with foods that lend themselves to play ; pineapple, grapes, honey, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, etc...  or try dating again. If you have kids, shuffle them off to a neighbor or relative for the weekend,  and just have fun together. Play tourists and see your own town like you don't live there. Go out to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before. See a show, or just take a nice, slow walk together. BE together like you used to be when you didn't have kids or a busy life. Try some new lingerie. Make him a basket with new stuff  for the two of you to try together, like warming gels for massages, and toys to try if you are into that. Make a game with your egg timer and some homemade cards; have six small piles of homemade cards that have things on them such as "massage your partners back for 3 minutes" and may go up to any position or act you like. Put the easier, lighter stuff into pile one, and go up to pile six, which will have your "hottest" stuff in it. Roll one dice, and whatever number it lands on, choose a card from that pile and do what it says. Then it's the other persons turn.  The only rule is you CAN'T make love! ( We always end up making love anyway, coz you just can't stand it, but it's fun trying!)    The point is to spend quality time together, and just have fun again!  The rest should all fall right into place!  Good luck!
409846
Celebrate life! Life is too precious to worry about people who don't care.......Go out with friends, volunteer somewhere, get a dog, join a club....... and the biggest thing is that you have to learn to be alone. If you are ok with yourself then you'll do better.  The right person is out there. It may take awhile, but she is there.......start looking!
531513
go to a water park and flirt, go to a regular park for a picnic in the picnic area and see if any one is there that catches your eye, go to school functions may be single guys looking for love, go to a concert and mingle!
459148
Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!