If I am completely lost.,like I don't have a reason to live,what should I do?
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look around you for the things you can be greatful for, go to the graveyard and take a look at all those people, you certainly have things to be greatful for in more quantity than they do, start by smiling at the next person you see, smiles are contagious, your happiness will come not from outside people but from within yourself, smile at yourself and see if it doesn't make you feel a little bit better for a second, then try to do whatever you can to make others happy, smiles are a good way to start cause it takes you to start something to see yourself in the middle of feeling better and then to actually feel better is a longer jouney.
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There is always a way to make your life better.\n\nTeachers, social workers, counselors, (hopefully your parents, but that isn't always possible).......\n\nThere should be at least one person in your life you trust, at least to some extent. This person can help you find your goals, set timelines, find supports and resources, etc.\n\nStay strong and believe in yourself.\n\nNo matter how hopeless it seems, it isn't hopeless.  \n\nI've been there.... and am glad I didn't give up. Things do get better. It can take years, but it does happen.
522603
Maybe you should travel.  If you can't, try gong to the hospital or old folks home and volunteering your services.  Helping others always makes me feel better.
538234
No.  You are beyond help.\n\nYour life is over.
779503
Don't Worry...Be Happy!\nWell, just calm down, if you spend all your life worrying,,, you will never really get to live!
113148
Get out of the house and make real friends by doing what you like to do.  People have few needs.  There are physical needs (food, water, shelter), secutiry need, social need, esteem need, and feeling of self worth.  \n\nWhat do you like to do?  Better yet, what would you do if you were to die in three months?  After you answer that, get out and do it. \n\nBest wishes
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Praying doesn't work.\n\nGo seek a psychiatrist or counselor for help.\n\nCheck yourself into a hospital if you feel suicidal.\n\nBe with family and friends who will support you.\n\nJust don't be alone. \n\nGo out for a walk. \n\nPlay with your pets (great emotional support), watch TV. \n\nDo something to occupy your time. Now.
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What else could I do? If I'm wrong, I see 3 possibilities and I'll have no choice but to accept them:\n\n1) No Heaven & no hell - no afterlife. In this case my life meant nothing and my legacy is to be worm food. \n\n2) There is a Heaven & I'm not invited - unfortunate, but doubtful. \n\n3) I'll be sent back to hell in the form of earth school to get it right the next time.
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Get some help:\n\nCall some on this list that can help you!\nIf you kill yourself, your dead.  Then nobody can help you, you can't even help yourself.  My brother committed suicide.  Not the best option!\n\nSuicide: Don't let despair obscure other options\nDespair and hopelessness may lead you to think about suicide. But you have other options, from weathering an immediate crisis to creating a long-term safety plan.\n\nWhen life doesn't seem worth living anymore or your problems seem insurmountable, you may think that the only way to find relief is through suicide.\n\nYou might not believe it, but you do have other options — options to stay alive and feel better about your life. Maybe you think you've already tried them all and now you've had enough. Or maybe you think your family and friends would be better off without you.\n\nIt's OK to feel bad, but try to separate your emotions from your actions for the moment. Realize that depression, other mental disorders or long-lasting despair can distort your perceptions and impair your ability to make sound decisions. Suicidal feelings are the result of treatable illnesses. So try to act as if there are other options, even if you may not see them right now.\n\nNo, it probably won't be easy. You may not feel better overnight. Eventually, though, the sense of hopelessness can lift. You can find support, appropriate treatment and reasons for living.\nWhen you need immediate help for thoughts of suicide\n\nIf you're considering suicide right now and have the means available, talk to someone first. The best choice is to call 911 or your local emergency services number.\n\nIf you simply don't want to do that, for whatever reason, you have other choices for reaching out to someone:\n\n    * Contact a family member or friend\n    * Contact a doctor, mental health professional or other health care professional\n    * Contact a minister, spiritual leader or someone in your faith community\n    * Go to your local hospital emergency room\n    * Call a crisis center or hot line\n\nCrisis centers or suicide hot lines are often listed in the front of your phone book or on the Internet. They generally offer trained counselors — usually volunteers — who can help you through an immediate crisis. Some crisis centers with an Internet presence offer e-mail contact, but remember that responses may not be as prompt as they are with telephone support.\n\nTalking to someone about your feelings — connecting with someone — can help relieve the burden of despair and isolation, even if just temporarily. It may help you shift perspective and more clearly see that you have options beyond suicide.\nDaily coping strategies to manage thoughts of suicide\n\nYou may struggle with suicidal feelings frequently, perhaps many times a day. Develop a strategy to cope with those feelings in a healthy way. Consider asking a doctor, family member or friend to help create a strategy tailored to your specific situation.\n\n\nThat strategy may mean doing things you don't feel like doing, such as talking to friends when you'd rather hole up in your bedroom all day with the curtains drawn. Or it may mean going to the hospital for a mental health evaluation. But stick to your strategy, especially when you're in the grips of despair and hopelessness.\n\nAs part of your strategy, consider these measures:\n\n    * Keep a list of contact names and numbers readily available, including doctors, therapists and crisis centers.\n    * If your suicide plans include taking an overdose, give your medications to someone who can safeguard them for you and help you take them appropriately.\n    * Rid your home of knives, guns, razors or other weapons you may consider using for self-destructive purposes.\n    * Schedule daily activities for yourself that have brought you even small pleasure in the past, such as taking a walk, listening to music, watching a funny movie, knitting or visiting a
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well u could do what i did.... do nothing... let it guide u whereever it takes.. and pleassse dont try to think  sooo much... ur wasting on such wonderful time.. :D\nPEAce
615857
Life is too short while there are so many choices and things to do.\nI wouldn't worry about it one bit. If you are not happy where you are now, move on!
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For every million years that'll pass when you're dead you'll only be alive for a brief second. There is plenty of time for death, while only a little time for life. You might as well take the time you get to be alive and make the most of it. \n\nTalk to someone, a friend, family member, trusted adult, doctor, or anyone.  Just talk to someone and get help.
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You need to take some time for yourself and figure out what you want in your life. Get away from everyone and be alone somewhere that you can just think. Where are you at in life? What do you want to accomplish? What is important to you? How are you going to do this?  Life is a mess sometimes, take time to clean it up.
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Talk to someone....call a free help line. Talk to someone before doing something drastic. Suicide is a selfish choice - look at all those that you would leave behind. I strongly urge you to talk to someone...give it a shot. It takes no effort to make a call.
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I think that you should spend a lot of time alone in a quite place...maybe take long drives and start talking to God.  Be honest with Him and tell Him how you got where you are and that you need direction in your life.  He will be your best friend and a present help in the time of need.
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You are retishambat. Right now your life isn't full of purpose. You seem somewhat bored and maybe lacking a bit of direction. Just relaxing for a little while seems like an okay plan. You'll soon come across (or may have already come across) something which will engulf you in it and make you feel more complete.
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Start believing that what happens in life happens for a reason and that as you give to the world,so the world will give to you.Sounds simple and a bit cheesy but try it for a while and see how it goes.What have you got to lose.Let me know how you get on.