Is there any future in dating a married man?
156271
Yes there is a future...as a mistress and that would be about it.  He is only looking for some side action...and if this is you, then you are being used.  Say goodbye and move on.
376044
I hope that you are very careful with what you are doing with this guy.  Remember that you are married and you may lack a certain thing in your marriage which will be better work out with your husband.  I understand that it is kind of nice to have someone interested in your despite you are married but why are you dragging him on?  Will you be happy to divorce your husband because this guy sweet talk to you?  Are you sure that you will have a better future with this man than your current husband.  I suggest that you spend more time with your husband and rediscover him then talking to this guy, unless you have no hope in your marriage!  Good Luck!
903582
Leave him, if he never told you he was married then he was probably never really serious about you to being with and more than likely doesn't plan on leaving his wife.
190879
Well, when we know that a guy is married, we just got scared abouth the possible reaction of his wife, we don't want to get involved in those situations that only cause troubles 4 the couple and that everybody is hurt.\nThere's another reason: (My own experience) When two people have a friendship, even when one of them is married it doesn't necessary mean that never could happen something between them, I mean.. with the time of knowing this person U/she could fall in love or confusse the terms.\nI'm telling U this because I was in that situation, I'm not married but I live with someone since 4 years ago, I met someone, in the beginning I was just his friend and tryed to be nice, he was really nice to me too, but with the time I started to feel something really different and to see this guy not only as a friend, but also as someone who could have another kind of relationship with me, I even started to want him to make love to me..\nThat was really wrong! Nothing happened, he respected the fact I'm with someone else.\nBut my point is: is it really possible... I mean.. to be just friends?
565482
Many things are possible. Keep up the hope and I'm sure that it'll happen. Wish you and your hubby all the best!
545739
I think it's more than a friendship relationship at this point. I would say he's defidently more than interested, but committed. I think since you have so much in commen, he probebly thinks along the same lines as you regarding dating and getting married. You should have a serious conversation about your futures with him. Hear what he's thinking, then be honest, and tell him your consernes, and hopes for the relationship becoming more. Good luck! It sounds like you've found a great guy!
118932
I don't believe in soulmates, so I don't believe that you can know that. On the other hand, I believe that some people are meant to be together for this life. That's determined by God, so I don't think there are any predictable signs that you can look for.\n\nSince you are already married to him, the question should be moot to you. Both of you work to make it better every day, and no soulmate could make you happier.
440039
emotionally dilemma for him..\n\nget a grip and don't rush things...let him settle his matters with his wife first...before you proceed with your relationship..
26544
See a marriage counselor.  They are pretty good at letting you know if it will work out.\n\nIf you love him, he is probably right for you.\n\nBelow is a fun Mr. Right quiz...
346000
Ma'am I know you are in love and that this will be hard to hear but, you will be waiting a lot longer than four years. If he has not left his wife yet, he never will.\nHe may have lots of reasons why he hasn't and may even tell you when he will divorce....but, bottom line is......... if he didn't love her and wanted to be with you, he would have left by now. You are worthy of having real true love with a man that does not have to be shared.
6354
I first met my wife on the internet. And she is from another country too!\nI didn't really know if I loved her till I met her in real life (after about 3 months of chatting on the net and some phonecalls). I still didn't think we had a future together, but she really wanted to go on, and I was willing to. And.. here we are now :)\n\nMy advice is to try to get to know him more, find out his concepts and values, and pray about it. If you feel peaceful, try meeting him. Be careful, but not paranoid.\n\nGood luck :)
1159061
Yes, I was married to a man who was wonderful, but there is a downside to it. In order to stay in love the intimacy needs to be there. We later divorced and remained good friends, which was what we were in the first place. I have since remarried and I am glad because I missed being intimate with someone. Good luck.
652074
I know there is--I married my high school sweetheart, and two kids and twenty years later, we're still crazy about each other.  We were unusually fortunate, though, in finding someone we were so compatible with at such a young age, and both of us being open-minded enough to allow the other to grow and change as we grew up together.  That doesn't mean, though, that I believe there is only one person who each of us could achieve relationship nirvana with, though.  I think it's a matter of finding someone you can really connect with, and then building a strong foundation rooted in trust, honesty, tolerance, and open communication.
105188
Respect the thought tht he is married, never be involve with a married man they jst wanna try something different, like eating the same old thing everyday is boring, no matter what u will always never be hes no#1 priority he has a wife tht he will always love n of course his kids...why be in this situation when u hve to share someone.karma remember this u dun want it in return the nxt time..
756508
If you know that much about him, it's okay to ask him about those relationships...why did his marriage end...why did he not marry either of the long-term women? Does he think he'll ever marry again (or is he open to it) or does he think he'd prefer to not do that?\n\nThose questions are perfectly fine to ask someone you are getting to know, and considering dating...I frequently get asked "what are you looking for" by guys that find me online, and that question often comes VERY early in any chatting we do...they want to know if the person they are talking to is wanting a relationship or just some 'fun'...it makes perfect sense to see if you and the person that's caught your eye are on the same page, before bothering to see if there's potential for things to go anywhere...
464789
If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
196054
Ask his wife if in doubt....K