Why do i feel Pain when i see a sad movie im a Beliver in christ and everythign but never have i had such Pain
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May be the compassion of God arsing in you but i think its more about who you are and where you came from matters.I think its wise idea as a beliver not to watch such kind of moives that really pulls you down spiritually and when it affects your emotion then you cant even pray properly.Thats why God bless you thru the scriptures be made whole in your Spirit , Soul(emotions....) and body.See that order anythat distrubs , disturbs your life.
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I feel your burden, this world has changed a lot in a short period of time. I am a believer in Christ, my faith is stronger as the world gets worse. You can feel the dark looming heaviness of things getting worse before getting better. I thank God for my faith. My husband is not a believer and I continue to pray for him. He is aware of the ads we see for upcoming movies, they are all so gory and evil. He is wondering as well as so many of us with what is going on in this world. I can only believe more people will receive salvation as time goes on. We live in such an obnoxious world that I don't think the rude people are laughing as hard as they used to. Just keep your eyes on Christ and everything will fall into place. God Bless to you and yours.
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i cant love anyone that i cant meet them, and look at them in the eye to see if they love me back. \nbut when you are feeling like killing yourself just remember this: Jesus Christ loves you
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I have not, and dread the day it happens for I am sure it will be one of, if not the saddest day of my life.  Do not listen to answers that say the soul does not exist.  If you believe in the soul, and that it exists, than it does.  That is your belief.  I am sorry for your loss, and hope that with time, the pain will ease.  peace and love
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it's like drugs aint it...\nyou never feel the love as strong as you felt it the first time. \nyes, you have to work a lot. life is nothing without work. it's not easy to love. needs a lot of work. if you dont work, love will die. but the point is, if you dont work on love, what are you gonna work on? what else is worth workin on? nothing. cause love is the only thing that stays at the end. everything else will be gone. death destroys everything.\nim not talkin about the love for a god here. there IS NO love for god. love for something that's not real cannot be love. you find the true god by loving. only by loving. you cant just read a book and since it tells you there's god, you think you've found him and you decide to love. it doesnt work that way. you have to love first. not gods, but people. your family, friend.. everybody. and then god will come naturally to you. and you wont need no books, no churches, no prayers.. all these things are pointless. they were all created by humans, not by god. a tree is much more divine than a icon in a church. the words that come from your heart are much more divine than the bible. if you pray, pray to a tree, or a flower, or whatever, as long as it's alive. there's no point prayin to a dead painting of some retards with yellow circles around their heads. love everybody, dont ever hate anybody, no matter who he is, always accept him. that's the work you gotta do.\nim an atheist too. i dont believe in any religion, i dont believe in any god from any religion, nor in any son of a god. the only thing you really need in life is love.
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I have definetly felt the pressence of GOD. Right before Christmas in 2004, our first ond onlt child, a son, passed away. This was a very hard time for my husband and I, and we stopped going to church. We didn't celebrate Christams that year, and my husband started to smoke cigarettes again. I quit my job to stay home, because being around people was so ahrd. I tried to convince myself that everything was okay.\n\nAbout a month after he passed away, i was going through some of his old belongings and looking at his phot album. I broke down, and it felt good. I dont know what it was for sure, but i felt like someone was hugging me; i felt warm, happy, and that everything was going to be okay. I like to think that our son is our gaurdian angel. \n\nGod has recently blessed us with a new baby boy. I think our first son saw how sad we are, and told GOD to give us another baby....
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Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your savior?  If not it may because you are feeling the death of your soul.\n\nI always thought about death, I could see it in others and felt it in myself. Then I made the decision to let God into my life and what was amazing was how quickly God began talking to me.  Once I experienced the feeling that I wasnt alone and God was with me at all times, my stress levels went way down, and my world switched from a dull gray to a colorful existence.\n\nThough I can still see death in the eyes of strangers, I see new life in the ones I pray for, and I feel as alive as a child in an amusement park!
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its from childhood.I get Sunday blah,s,its a quite day,nothing going on,its not really depression just a lonely feeling.Think back and remember how the Sunday nights were spent as a child.We have refered sadness and its sorta like when someone die,s say at christmas or holiday and that time of year,every year it comes back to you with a sadness or empty feeling.Sometime we cannot even remember but rest assured it is from a former memory.
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I am happy serving God and I have always been that way.  Being a human, we go through things in life and because of our emotions and feelings, we are unhappy with situations in our lives.  But I am angry at those situations, not God.  \nI have felt rewarded by God simply because I am alive at this very moment.  I have been through so much in my life and at the time, I would ask myself why was this happening to me.  But I realize now, that those moments made me a stronger person and a stronger believe in Christ.  According to the doctors and everyone else, me and my mother, who have been suffering from so many things including cancer and tumors and many different diseases, should have been dead a long time ago.  But their medical books can only go through so much.  Where they leave off, my Bible gets me through the rest... my Bible tells a whole other truth and that is what I go by.  I do believe that when you dedicate your life and being to God, that your benefit will be to reside in Heaven with Him.  If not, then you will burn in Hell for all eternity.  I know that its hard to grasp the fact that something we can not see nor touch is going to swoop us up and that this earth will be no more. BUT IT'S TRUE.  God has brought me out of too much for me to not to believe in Him.  It wasn't fate or destiny or any of that stuff.  I would not be here if it wasn't for the grace of God.  I walk by faith and never by sight and that is what gets me through.  There are many that don't believe and I pray for them every day and night that God shines blessing into their lives that one day, their eyes are opened to recieve the full benefits of serving God.  I know it's hard but my life has been so much better since I have given it up to God.  People walk around and want to believe in lies and deceit and take all kinds of risk.  Well if you don't believe, take this risk.  Because in the end, its something that is truly worth fighting for.  And I will continue to fight for our God and through my faith.  It has gotten so many people so far in this life and if me believing in something is keeping me alive and helping me get through this world, then I will continue to do just that.
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Is It Normal to Feel This Way?\n \n \n \n\n\nA BEREAVED person writes: "As a child in England, I was taught not to express my feelings in public. I can remember my father, an ex-military man, saying to me through clenched teeth, 'Don't you cry!' when something had caused me pain. I cannot recall whether my mother ever kissed or hugged any of us kids (there were four of us). I was 56 when I saw my father die. I felt a tremendous loss. Yet, at first, I was unable to weep."\n\nIn some cultures, people express their feelings openly. Whether they are happy or sad, others know how they feel. On the other hand, in some parts of the world, notably in northern Europe and Britain, people, especially men, have been conditioned to hide their feelings, to suppress their emotions, to keep a stiff upper lip and not wear their hearts on their sleeves. But when you have suffered the loss of a dear one, is it somehow wrong to express your grief? What does the Bible say?\n \n\n\nThose Who Wept in the Bible\n \n \n\n\nThe Bible was written by Hebrews of the eastern Mediterranean region, who were expressive people. It contains many examples of individuals who openly showed their grief. King David mourned the loss of his murdered son Amnon. In fact, he "wept with a very great weeping." (2 Samuel 13:28-39) He even grieved at the loss of his treacherous son Absalom, who had tried to usurp the kingship. The Bible account tells us: "Then [David] the king became disturbed and went up to the roof chamber over the gateway and gave way to weeping; and this is what he said as he walked: 'My son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! O that I might have died, I myself, instead of you, Absalom my son, my son!'" (2 Samuel 18:33) David mourned like any normal father. And how many times have parents wished they could have died in place of their children! It seems so unnatural for a child to die before a parent.\n\nHow did Jesus react to the death of his friend Lazarus? He wept on nearing his tomb. (John 11:30-38) Later, Mary Magdalene wept as she neared Jesus' sepulcher. (John 20:11-16) True, a Christian with an understanding of the Bible's resurrection hope does not grieve inconsolably, as some do who do not have a clear Bible basis for their beliefs regarding the condition of the dead. But as a human with normal feelings, the true Christian, even with the hope of the resurrection, does grieve and does mourn the loss of any loved one.—1 Thessalonians 4:13, 14.\n \n\n\nTo Weep or Not to Weep\n \n \n\n\nWhat about our reactions today? Do you find it difficult or embarrassing to show your feelings? What do counselors recommend? Their modern views often merely echo the Bible's ancient inspired wisdom. They say that we should express our grief, not repress it. This reminds us of faithful men of old, such as Job, David, and Jeremiah, whose expressions of grief are found in the Bible. They certainly did not bottle up their feelings. Therefore, it is not wise to cut yourself off from people. (Proverbs 18:1) Of course, mourning is expressed in different ways in different cultures, also depending on the prevalent religious beliefs.*\n\n\nWhat if you feel like weeping? It is part of human nature to weep. Recall again the occasion of Lazarus' death, when Jesus "groaned in the spirit and . . . gave way to tears." (John 11:33, 35) He thus showed that weeping is a normal reaction to the death of a loved one.\n\nThis is supported by the case of a mother, Anne, who had lost her baby Rachel to SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). Her husband commented: "The surprising thing was that neither Anne nor I cried at the funeral. Everyone else was weeping." To this, Anne responded: "Yes, but I have done plenty of crying for both of us. I think it really hit me a few weeks after the tragedy, when I was finally alone one day in the house. I cried all day long. But I believe it helped me. I felt better
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Well it certainly looks like you've had some less than sensitive answers so far, but don't lose hope. There are people with hearts out there, I promise! In my own life I have suffered personal misfortune in many ways. My best advise is to allow yourself time to grieve. It is normal and denying it will only prolong the process of healing. Then you must go on. You cannot allow any misfortune to destroy you. Sometimes it takes a long time to come to terms with what has happened to you, especially if it was completely out of your control and you are suffering in your faith because of it. Shaken faith is difficult but not impossible to overcome. Fear takes a long time to overcome, as well. When I lost my church several years ago due to some indiscretions by the pastor, and at the same time dealing with my small child suffering from childhood cancer, I thought I would never be the same again. I thought I would never be happy, or not be afraid, or trust people again. Still, the human spirit is resilient beyond all reason! Thank God! We all must go on, and find strength in ourselves to defeat the miseries caused by misfortunes that befall us throughout our lives here on earth, but only if we allow ourselves time to grieve our very real losses and accept the support of our friends and family as we come to terms with how our lives have changed because of the misfortune. Life might not ever be the same, but it can still be good. We can get to a place where we can be grateful for small things and good, caring people, and smile at a beautiful sunset again. I promise. Hang in there and don't let others discourage you.
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I was hurt in an accident that took the life's off my family. my wife and little daughter and my wife was pregnant..I was in such horrible pain for so many years.got disabled, lost my home, and everything, i owned, the pain was terrible for years., I used to get my pistol and get in my dark bedroom and put one bullet in the chamber and spin it, and I would tell God, that if my pain wasn't going to go away some day, to please allow the bullet to go off as I put it to my head, I did this a number of times, it took hours sometimes to be able too pull that trigger,fate?I am still in horrible pain, I take  narcotics now , finally a  Doctor prescribed  me some pain pills.after years of no help. but I have cut my wrists twice,. the pain, & emotionally it was just so bad, and i do believe in God and the spirit, and I dont know where I would have gone, but I didnt care, the pain was just so much and still some times I wont to die, and I plan it out, and maybe I will kill myself and maybe I wont, but I trust in my God and try to live in the spirit. and if God wonts to punish me, if I kill myself, then so be it.
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Real, real, real.  Emotional pain is real.\n\nIt's called betrayal in the highest degree.  When someone entrusted with your protection fails to protect you from himself--especially when that person is supposed to represent God--it leaves a deep emotional and spiritual wound.\n\nIn some cases, physical pain may have been inflicted, too, especially if there was penetration.\n\nI'm not a boy and no one abused me in the name of God, but I did tally up a few "minor" incidents of sexual abuse between 9-14.  I feel some pain over those incidents.  Imagine what it must be like to be majorly betrayed by a "father" figure such as a priest?
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it was hard to watch, but it touched me very deeply. i reflect upon it a lot, as there are times i need to. And yes, it reminds me of the horror of the reality, but i am also "visually" able to be reminded of the Lords great sacrifice.  \nIt is Truth.
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We're just human. It's not a sin to feel unworthy. But in times like this, we just need to pray and seek God's help. It's only the devil that gives us negative feelings. We have to cast him out in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Kiara, no.  You are not alone in your feeling.  But may I make a suggestion?\n\nI grew up in a family where people routinely stabbed each other in the back.  It was a very unhappy place, and for most of our lives, certain people within the family came to resent others....this has lasted a lifetime in some instances.\n\nBut you have a choice to make, and let me tell you how I made mine; I came to know the love of Jesus Christ.  So no longer is my life about, who did what to me.  My life is about how to learn to love others unconditionally, as God loves me.\n\nYou have a choice to make too; which end of the pencil do you wish to use in your life?  The one that is continally writing down the offenses people give you...or the one that is continually erasing offenses, always forgiving, showing kindness with no expectation of return?  I can tell you one thing for sure; the second choice above will bring a life of peace and fulfillment; the first a life of bitterness and resentment.  The choice is yours to make.
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I think your questions count as preaching, but I can tell you that I am not interested in a relationship with Jesus or the Christian God.  I do feel complete.  I do not feel vulnerable and alone - my beliefs empower me and surrounds me with the protections I need to enjoy my life.  Even with an army on your side, anyone can feel scared from time to time - but I am very safe in my understanding of the Universe.\n\nThe things is, that even in a Christian God model philosophy the point is not to life your live for god - the point is to understand your own divinity and to understand that you and god are a team.  If god is an ocean, we are each and everyone of us a glass of god, with tremendous power and divine right - no matter what we call this being.  To spend time steeped in any church dogma only brings you closer to understanding the church, not god.  \n\nI am glad that Christianity has helped you and I rejoice that you are happy on your chosen path.  I regret that you feel you need to school others or that you feel you have the only answer to the mysteries of life.  There is no way to truly know the Unknowable and there are many paths to enlightenment.  Worry about your own soul until someone asks you for help if you truly want to display the virtue of christianity.\n\nPeace!