my boyfriend makes everything soo difficult,i mean everything.BUT when i kicked him to the curb he begsmebacky
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It's possible he gained some experience. If you  believe he's worth another shot, then do so. Otherwise, let him grind at the thought of having messed up what could have been the best thing of his life.
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tell him ur not ready if he tries to pressure u find someone better than him
305487
I beat up my boyfriend, punched him twice and rammed his head into a locker. He and everyone else learned never to cheat on me!
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I think you are the one who is not in love with your boyfriend.  You should leave him.  And no man has any right to beat anyone, but you make it worst staying with him after he has beaten you
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
940789
He keeps being persistant because you give in to easily. He keeps screwing up because he knows you will take him back eventually. Pull your head out of your behind and stand up for yourself! Tell him to F$&# off for good! You can do much better than him and you know it!
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ive felt that excat same way! my boyfriend is an isolater, and wants to deal with his problems on his own. it really makes me mad because i want to help him, i want him to just talk and get it out, but you cant make anyone do anything that they dont want to. im the kind of person that wants to talk about problems, you know, get them off my chest, but because he isnt like that, he doesnt undersand my need to deal with things that way. he feels that nobody understans what he is feeling and by telling me, i will only worry and not be able to fix them anyway. he loves me more than anything, but since he doesnt deal with things my way, he doesnt really know how. it doesnt mean he doesnt care about me, it just means he doesnt handel things the same as me! i hope things get better hunny!
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your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
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Honey, DUMP that loser.  \n\nYou don't deserve that crap.  He thinks you'll just take it, but that's abuse.  If you're that bad, what is he doing with you?  \n\nHe just feels so insecure that he is putting you down.  This is NOT your problem.  Get rid of that dork!
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Kick him to the curb!
524345
trying to be controlling...\ndon't let him...\nmy boyfriend tried that too.....but he didn't get his way...
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Diana..this is what i think u should do..sit down and talk to him about the way he treats u..tell him first about the good things that u love about him..but then tell him that he needs to trust u when u go out with your friends or if u just go out by yourself..(shopping or grabbing a bite to eat)..tell him in a kind way that if he keeps this up..u won't put up with it cause u want him to be part of your life and not your whole life..if it gets messy where he does hit u....stand up for yourself and have him arrested then gey a restraining order on him..its that simple sweety....please please don't be one of those gals that end up in a abuses relationship...
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Sounds like a loser to me.  The more comfortable he gets with you, the more likely he will start to abuse you, physically or verbaly.  It doesn't sound like you are in a very good situation.  You should get out of it.  Nobody should tell you what to do all of the time and the jealousy thing, it kind of makes me scared for you.  Good luck!
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maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
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my boyfriend has done that to me alot recently maybe hes trying to make a point or something
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He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
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Sweetie, unfortunately what he did was very messed up. All that you can do is try your best to move on... I know that it's hard as h*ll, but you have give yourself some stength and courage to keep on moving. Girl I don't have a clue as to what caused him to do that. If anything try to write him a letter about how you feel and let him know that he really hurt you. Tell him that he was wrong for what he did, and that you deserved at least an explanation. Show him that although you are hurting, you are not going to allow him to bring you down. Don't worry b/c What goes around, comes around... EVERYTIME!!... That's why my name is KARMA baby!!!!! Good Luck MaMa!! You are gonna be just fine. Just use that strength that you were born with!!!!!!!!!!