Me and my man just broke up,but he won't give me my stuffs.What can I do and how can get him back?
156312
you need to have a heart to heart talk with him. dont critize him but tell him what the problem is. tell him that you want to stay together and work it out. lay down some grounds that you wont cross to get him upset and tell him your boundaries. you got to tell him what you want out of this relationship.
666613
I've been wondering the same thing since my break-up, even though it didn't include a fight.\n\nIf you really want to get back together, maybe you should try talking to him and trying to understand what's going on between the two of you before just getting back together. Believe me, I know that is not a simple thing to do. Talking with him may tell you what you need to know, though.
741399
He didnt seem to treat you very well hun, you obviously had problems within the relationship, did you try telling him how you felt or did you just split up with him without discussing how he made you feel?\nIf you want him back then you need to talk to him but this time make sure that you tell him how you feel, take control a little.\nIf he only wants you back on the same terms as you had before then it's obvious that he is just using you hun.\nTry talking , but it does sound like he was using you a little.\nDont let him rule when you do things, be brave , ask for what you want when you want it, if he says no then cut your losses and find someone who truely appreciates you.\nGood luck, hope all works out ok for you.
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
379749
i dont think he does... get out of it while you can... do not let him get his papers cause he is going to dump you afterwards
89198
Depends on how you broke up...\nif he ditched you then theres nothing you can do\n\nand if you ditched him you should be "nice" and let him be happy with someone else.
821237
There are plenty of people around who will take your money.  Asking on here is no better than just searching the web.  I've put the link in for the first hit I found.  I have no idea if they are any good.\n\nI think you would do better to seriously address the reason why you split up.  The wording in your question implies that he left you.  Why do you think that was?  \n\nHe may have felt that something was lacking in the relationship.  If so, do you know what it was and how it would be different next time?  Does he blame you for the miscarriage?  It may be him that needs to change.  Are you still friends?  If so, perhaps you can change his outlook slowly over time.\n\nDon't look for an instant cure.  Expand your horizons.  You may meet someone else more suitable.  Or it may be that he is right for you and will return at the appropriate time.
400965
No, because the situation was out of your control. Just buy him something when you can. I'm guessing he doesn't expect anything in return.
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
737714
Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.\n\nif he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.\n\nif you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
815669
Try to see if he will commuicate with you.  If he isn't will to at least listen  to you or  try to work it out then he isn't woth having.  One of the key things in a realationship is communication as well as compromise.  If he can't give you that then you need to let go.  I know it will be hard.  Breakups always are.  But just remember there are other fish in the sea.  You need someone who will respect you as well as be able to compromise and communicate.
298499
Unless he can show that your husband should have known the person would steal the paperwork(that'd be tough to prove), took the paperwork or misplaced the paperwork there's nothing that can be done.  Since he contacted the police there's a report to back him up.  Also in order to sue he'd have to show how he lost money because of the missing paperwork.  If all that happened was he got a slap on the hand from someone there's nothing for him to collect on.  \n\nNow my question is what were the "items" you found in the closet?  Was this the paperwork?  Was it items of value?
743437
is this just a temporary thing???\nyou have a responsibility - you ex - partner still needs to make ends meet??   More details please x
613929
Ask him politely.All you can do is ask. If he wont give it back then next time you have photos on a CD put them on a computer so you always have a copy.
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.