Found out my guy has a "single" 360 page,should I contact the women he chats with before or after I dump him?
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
422421
If it was my man then I would flip out...first of all it started off as work ?  blah...sit down have a talk with him tell him that you are on to his online cheating because it is cheating and that if he is not willing to quit being online then you will have to move on and move on...if he is looking for love online he  obviously does not love you.
168230
Me again, this time it sounds bad.  I think you better think twice about this internet pal you have.  He owes you an explanation.  It is not polite to agree to meet with a lady and then not show up at all.  I don't want to say this, but i think you should move-on.  forget this guy, 2x, no good explanation, that doesn't sound right at all.
928633
he has the leg up in this situation. her kids, and if she went back to him  that means she ended your relationship. may i reccommend match.com?\nSensitive guys like you are great, don't waste yourself on someone who treats you like dirt.
395049
He is totally in the wrong here, and it's not too nosy to find out someone has a girlfriend of Myspace, if it's on myspace it's pretty public.  Be mad at him, tell him to go back to his girlfriend and leave you alone!
466444
He may not be "cheating" yet, but he is entertaining the thought. Don't buy the BS story. He likes looking at her pic. You can do one of three things:\n\n1) Mope around and nag at him about it, which will drive him right to her\n\n2) Tell him to get bent and move on with your life. He's come back....they always come back. Eventually.\n\n3) Send him a sexier, nastier pic than any she has sent. (Doesn't have to be you, just a lookalike) Then tell him he has a choice, when he chooses you, see #2.
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
786458
It's okay to miss our friends but at some point we have to let go.  Unless that is you are the first one to bend the time continuum with a time machine, then you can go back in time as many times as you wish.  Since that's not happening any time soon, move on.\n\nI would say that the white lie you told doesn't compare with the lie he is living by being with you while 'hanging' out with his ex, while being on a dating site.  The way I see it is if he commits to being in a relationship (with you) he should be the one trying to earn your trust.  \n\nIt is because he doesn't have your trust (just like supposedly now you don't have his trust) that you have to go snoop around his e-mails.  Instead he is making you feel like you are the bad guy and he is the victim.  I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.\n\nI would say it's not worth it.. like i already told you... move on.\n\nGood luck.
132089
Personally I would leave that one alone. Who knows what kind of person she is to be sending pictures like that over the internet to people she doesnt know. who knows how many she is talking to and sending those pics to as well as you. This might not be a girl you would want to get to know. If you have morals and values and self respect you would walk away and leave her to those kind of guys who have no respect for woman in general.
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
346977
Ask yourself why is he insecure? Are you spending more time on 360 than with him? If he were spending his down time on360 instead of talking to you would you feel the same way? Is he spending a lot of time out of the home? He could be cheating and feeling guilty so he is trying to make you feel guilty. Think about those things and you may come up with the answer to your question.
727289
You're right - he only calls you when he's run out of other women to call.  Move on.  Don't answer his calls and especially don't meet with him.  You can get closure on your own, without him, and meet a guy who will answer your questions and make you feel like much more than the bottom of the list.  Good Luck!
853547
I would be a little concerned that he has his profile set at single when he is in a relationship with you.\nAlso, I do not think it's appropriate to respond to random messages he is receiving from girls telling him he is "hot."\nWhat he should do is A) not write them back at all, because they are NOT his friends, or B) written them back saying "thank you, my girlfriend thinks I'm hot too."\n\nI do not think he should have written them back telling them they are also hot.\nThat only encourages them to write some some more.\n\nIMO...why aggressively flirt with someone if you have no intention\nof doing anything with them!
291846
You are sloppy-seconds, an after thought, on the back burner. Do you--and leave that woman's man alone. It's easy to break up a relationship when it's not going well. Stop selling your soul for some dick.
344748
if he doesn't already know and he says she's his girlfriend ten something is already wrong. now if is an internet thing and he can be hurt in some way, then tell him
829783
The fact that he has shown you a picture and told you about her is not worthy of concern.  That's just him sharing himself with you.\n\nHowever, what is concerning is his statement and the comparisons.  He obviously is looking for someone to fill her void...\n\nI wouldn't tell you to just throw it away.  What I will suggest is talk to him, tell him it's concerning.  If things don't change and you still notice weird comments/comparisons, I would move on.
329616
He's blowing you off, but there may be a lot of truth to what he says. Unfortunately, I've used that line and lived to regret it. She was a great girl, but I didn't want to get exclusive. Sometime afterward, I wished I hadn't broke up with her because the other girls I met were not near as nice as she was. Hope that gives you some kind of consolation. You do deserve someone better, and you will find him.