my boyfriend has left me for his ex knowing i am pregnant?
140743
Wow, your in a pretty bad situation. You should have never taken him back the first time. This guy is someone who likes to play games.I bet he's seeing that other girl again.\nI'm sorry that you're in such a mess but there's not much you can do. Whatever you do DO NOT!!!!take him back again..You can raise that baby on your own..you don't need him..take it from me, i'm 19 and a single mom of a 2 year old little girl and yes its hard but you can do it.If you decide not to have the baby thats your decision but please im begging you do not take him back.believe me he'll come crawling back saying i love you and all that bullshit but dont buy it cuz he'll just break your heart again.good luck .
135807
Leave him, go have a pregnancy test done and be checked out for STDS. He is obviously not trustworthy to have done something so sneaky. It is your choice if you want to have a baby not his. If he wants a child and you are not willing or ready to have one, he should either accept it or find someone that wants a family. Not try to force one on you.\n\n************************************************************\nAs for the abortion and adoption issue brought up in previous answers, Think it through well and make an educated decision. Even though you were tricked into a pregnancy it doesn't change the fact that it would be your baby growing inside of you and you would have to live with your choice for the rest of your life. There is no taking it back...once you abort the baby is dead a nd gone forever, and once you give your child to someone else it is their child. You could also consider giving the child to the father, since he obviously wanted a baby so badly, but only do so if he is secure and stable enough to raise and love the baby.
865584
probably he wanted to tell you that he didnt mean to hurt you by asking about ur plans about the pregnancy and he left it in ur hand to think and find the best way for the pregnancy and the kid ,so he still feels the same for you and he will send you a message and will talk to you tomorrow....\nIN fact I think he means he still loves you ,no matter that you're pregnant .
178032
Talk to your parents and get your girlfriend to the doctor.  If she is pregnant the two of you should seriously consider adoption.  There are plenty of mature adults out there who would love the gift of a child.\n\nI'm sorry that you are young and having to deal with this, but OMG please think twice before you do something so stupid again.  If you are old enough to have sex then you should be old enough to deal with the consequences...and the frightening reality is if your girlfriend isn't pregnant a few weeks from now when the shock of this has worn off you'll be back in your car doing it again like rabbits.  Learn from this experience!
357483
You need serious help--I read your other post about you being pregnant with your current bf yet still loving this jailed ex-bf?\n\nDo you realize that the probability of the jailed ex--finding a job is slim to none.  Most employers will not HIRE someone that 1) has been jailed; 2) has been jailed for theft; 3) that has a record.\n\nI'm not saying your EX-is a bad person, I'm being realistic in telling you that the odds of him getting hired, and being able to provide for you and a child (from the other bf) is highly unlikely.\n\nStick to your current bf--he's the baby's father.  As sad as it may be, but you need to give up your WANTS for the NEEDS of your baby--you have to look out for the interest of your baby first.  Don't be selfish, and only think of yourself and not the baby nor the baby's father.  With children comes sacrafice, with children comes responsiblity, with children comes awareness that your life is no longer your own, but that of your childs.
384014
ok calm down in the child support ofice they are going to make a test, there u are going to find out if is hes or not, if you were in love enough to forgive him maybe u can work this out is a part of him what are u talking about(meaning if if his baby) so take the good thing about this and enjoy him and the baby. ok is been 6 yrs are u ready to live him for the same mistake that you already forgave him. think about it and be honest to your self.... do you really love him? and care enough to go through thtis with him? is a big test u know?
775812
Not surprising.When you start a relationship with a man who leaves another woman 8 months pregnant....you reap what you sow.
119151
you might be pregnate!  Look on google and do a search and it could give you an idea of what is going on.
455062
not sure.. ask your doctor.. i think you may lose the baby.. bc doctors always make you take a pregnancy test before perscribing them to me... i kno that.. much..
350486
Sorry to hear about this, I am sure it is tearing you apart inside.  Unfortunately, I think it is over.  By what you are saying, it would appear that he has someone else.  The signs look like they are all there, sadly.  Whether he is cheating on you or not, it seems clear that he has moved on and you aren't packed up in his moving van!  I suggest that you cut your losses before you lose more of yourself.  It is always tough when this kind of situation comes up.  You have invested your time, life and deep emotions into something that you thought would last and for no known reason, you are abandoned and alone when you need it the most.  It is just going to hurt you more if you carry on with this non-relationship that is going on.  Just leave him alone and try to move on, if he decides to contact you, YOU be the one who is busy or something.   If he wants to get serious with you, tell him that he will need to tell you why you should pay attention to him and to tell you what all the secrecy was about, why he was too busy for you and why he left you, basically, all alone?  Good luck, I'm sure there are many much better guys out there who will appreciate you and the love you have to offer!
294769
If you plan on being a major part of this man's life than you will also be a part of his child's life.. His ex has to deal with the fact that they are not together. You shouild meet her because she has every right to know who he has around her child and who is a part of her child's life. But when you do meet her don't be disrespectful and try to understand where she is coming from. Tell her that you are not trying to take her place. Don't upset yourself(most important) and you really don't want to do anything that would jeoparadize you boyfriend's relationship with his child. "Baby Momma" relationships are hard to deal with because they have a child, they have a bond. If you really feel for him then try your best but his chils should always come first. Good Luck and sorry for wrapping you up!
263386
I'm sorry your going through this... I've been in your situation before... Well it all depends on hope much pain you want to go through. He loves you yeah but he loves someone else. give me a break. there is a reason why they call our ex's, ex's. If he's not man enough to handle his business and know that yeah he has a baby with another women he should provide for that child but now he's going to have a baby with you. It was hard but I left the man I was with I started over scared but I couldnt take not knowing where was all the time or him telling me he still has feelings for his ex... If he can't decide you have to look out for you and your child... Get out girl....
783152
And you question is????????\nYou delivered what ? a child? \n\nThen sue him for child support and move on with your life, this guy appears to be a cheating, scum. You could do much better by yourself.
426931
no!!! he made his choice to give you up. no offense. but he went off and got another girl pregent. if you take him back you are creating difficulties for yourself, him, the mom, and the baby and both families. he made his choice. he is missing out on life while you are enjoying it. plus being single ROXS!!!!
37259
Well, it seems like you really have a dilemia on your hands, since your earlier questions indicate you may be pregnant as well, and feel like you are too young for all of this grown up stuff.\n\nMy suggestion to you?.. Take a break, slow down, figure out what you do want in life that will give you satisfaction, and trust me when I say, this boy is not it.  Any one who cheats with you isn't worthy of your love, your trust, or your dignity.  And you may think he is worthy until he leaves you for another the exact way he is cheating on the person he's committed to with you, then you'll be back on here asking us how to get over him.\n\nYou don't LOVE him, you are infatuated with him, you think he's the coolest person you've ever met, SO GET OUT THERE AND MEET MORE PEOPLE, because if this guy is the best there is for you, then you haven't met enough people to have a good comparison, there are plenty of guys that don't cheat that you could have for your own.\n\nI will never understand anyone willing to share their man with another.. and still think that's LOVE..??
553234
Sounds like you are preggers. They are like 99.9% positive and you have taken two so there is only a 99.95% chance you are pregnant
505191
I have been in almost the same situation. my bf got his ex gf pregnant while we were on a short break. I went back to him and now the child is almost 3. The ex is CRAZY, wont leave us alone. We have to pay 127 a WEEK in child support, which we cant afford and havent been able to pay the whole 127 a week so my now husband will be going to jail fairly soon. To make matters worse the ex had another son 6 months ago, 10 days before my daughter was born. and is now claiming it is my husbands. SO all I can say IS LEAVE HIM. It will never end. You will be alot more happier without him. ' YOU DONT WANT DRAMA WITH HIS BABIES MAMA'.