i am a 29 yrs lady in love with a 24 yrs old man with no qualification.love him n cant let go.can i marry him?
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~
219237
24 is still young!  Don't rush things:)  I am also 24, and unmarried.  I don't want to get married for a while still.  I want to do so many things before I settle down.  If you marry, it should be for true love.  Don't settle just so you won't be single anymore.  Enjoy your single time!  Love will come your way, most of the time when you least expect it!
1157527
You can push... but pushing for "the ring you want" might push him away.  Not only are you pressuring him for marriage, but you're also pressuring him for an expensive ring.  Unless he sh*ts money, thats a huge issue.  I understand people might grow up with a dream wedding or dream ring or even dream of by what age they would get married (ie: a life plan... married by 22, kids by 24...etc) ...but if you really truly love this man and feel he is for you... than you should understand sometimes, those visions we had before have to be adjusted/sacraficed a little bit to fit with HIS visions.  There are two people in this relationship.  What if he didn't imagine getting married by his age? And you'll find out in the end the $20,000 Tiffany's ring or getting married by age 24 or having a boy first, than a girl... doesn't really matter.  It won't make the marriage perfect/last which is what matters most right?  And if getting "the ring you want" is simply THAT important, understand you might have to wait for him to put some money together, but express your feelings so that you aren't disappointed and will hold it against him.  Men are not psychic believe it or not :-)
1160266
Not at all. Forget about one year u can marry 20 years younger man. It is a matter of your choice. Most of Holy Prophet ( PBUH) wives were older than him. Allah ( God) gives u complete authority to choose your partner
1061886
so u are 48 and he is 36? yeah sure as long as you guys are in love \n\nnow if it would've been 16 and 28 that would be a different story
276342
Sweetie, age has nothing to do with nothing okay.  If you like this guy then go for it.  You never know, this could be your true love.  Just remember, "It's better to have loved and lost, than to have no love at all."
211593
Do you think you would have the same feelings for him/about him if he was closer to your age?  Society puts a lot of stipulations on this type of relationship.  My first love was a man who was 12 years older than myself (with whom I had a child) and I was married to a man 17 years my senior.  The age factor didn't bother me, but it did bother my husband.  He felt a little insecure with our age differences - he thought I would wake up one day and want to be with a younger man.  That wasn't the case at all.  We had fun together - laughed, good experiences - and not so good (like all relationships).  We had differing viewpoints on some issues, but nothing we couldn't agree to disagree on.  You need to ask yourself if you feel as if you would be missing out on something in life if you decided to stay in a relationship with this man.  Are you compatible in other ways?  Do you both want the same things out of life?  Are you happy?  Where do each of you see yourselves in 5 years - together or apart?  What about children?  No relationship is a piece of cake and with an age difference it makes it a little more difficult, but not impossible.  Follow your heart, do what makes you happy.
112938
If you're happy now, then be contented with what you have. You chose to marry him despite his age and you've lasted that long together.\n\nIt is dangerous to entertain such a question...
1130639
please do not accept this.\nbecause when you will be in the age of 30 he could not do anything.
136828
Age is nothing but a number bestowed upon us at our birth. There's nothing wrong with a man in his 30's falling in love with someone whom may be a little older than him. Love works in mysterious ways. Why try to figure out the mystery of it when we can just sit back and enjoy it when it happens.
451785
If you both are truly in love, then it is the right time.  Marriage should not be bound by your fiscal situation or your career, ect.  True love knows no boundaries.
209646
my husband is 10 years older than myself, we have a beautful 2 yr old baby boy, so age isn't a factor unless of course you aren't legal!!! love can happen to anyone
1137947
why not!!! Age difference doesn't matter, once the two people get on great. All the best for the future! Love doesn't know any limits!!!!
907914
Sure.  Why not?  If you truly love each other, I just married my husband in August and he is 14 1/2 yrs older than me.  Some times these things just work out that way.  I think it is a great idea to wait a few years to make sure things work out.  He and I were together for 3 yrs first, and yeah a job would be in order, those weddings are very expensive. And, sure, if you want to wait until your wedding night, then that is your choice.  Don't let him, or anyone else tell you that you have to.... if he truly loves you he will respect your decision.
139426
Yes you have to love this person.  Look far ahead in life....is this the person who you want to have there when you are old, gray, and this person is the only person you will have to depend on?  Make sure they are dependible, reliable and they really care about you.  Susan Surandon said it best when she said, "People get married because they want a witness to their life.  You will not go unnoticed because I will notice you."
578537
if iu was you i would, but that is totaly up to you. you are your own person and part of love is making the right choices. if your ready for that then go for it...if not then dont im sure he'll understand
71234
I think the maturity level of the two persons involved makes a difference, I mean if you are both willing to accept each other for who you are and for how well you get along, similar interests, good communication, respect, and love. If things are good between the two of you, age should not make a difference. My boyfriend is 22 years younger than I am, we have been together for over two years and things are great! I know what you are talking about though. Finding the right person to share your life with is difficult enough. Age should not be an issue. Let him know this, and let him know how you feel about him, that's about all you can do, the rest is up to him.