How should a man act toward a crying women?
150911
It depends on who the man is in relation to her.\n\nIf it is a boyfriend or husband, they should be caring & understanding, even if they have to pretend.  Just let her do most of the talking, cry it out & maybe hold her or hug her.
782606
You should first stop crying and look out why you have to cry for this man. He might not be worth for you to cry for. If he likes somebody else, you could not really do a thing. You can't change his mind to like you. It's hurt , I know. However, while you are crying, there might be a suitable guy walking past you by. I don't want you to miss that new oppotunity of yourself. Think about it carefully. Life is yours. You'd better go on. What you did for him was enough, as a very good friend. Nothing left to be sorry for. Move on and take care of your own heart!
961231
If you can, just let her carry on talking and crying. Let her get it out of her system if you feel comfortable with that.\n\nThe "cheer up, stop crying" is only to be used if YOU cannot handle the situation - as those words never actually help the person who is tearful!\n\nDepends also on how well you get on and what gener you are. If a trusted friend or you are also a woman, resting a hand on her shoulder *MAY* be appropriate if you have had SOME sort of contact before. If not, then perhaps best avoided.\n\nWas there something in particular that you WANTED to do?
728973
It's ok to cry.  Our culture tells every man to not show his feelings, but that's not a very healthy way to live.  Showing your feelings, not being afraid to cry, makes you a stronger person than someone who can't show his feelings.  You are stronger because you can deal with what is inside you.  They can't.\n\nPS:  When a girl sees a man cry, she wants to comfort him, shower him with love and affection.  If you want to get your girlfriend into a session of intense love-making (not just sex), do something emotional, like watch a movie, that will get those eye juices flowing.  She won't be able to resist.
769978
what kind of crying do you want her to cry? like a happy cry or the one we know the most the cry me a river? you're not a good friend if you want to see her cry out of horror. you're the one who's suppose to make her stop cryin not the one to make her cry and to tell her to forget those tears those tears aren't meant for somethin stupid i.e. a bad breakup.
714179
Be there for her and listen to her...be the shoulder she leans on...and the person she cries with...spend time with her...and encourage her to go out, and to spend her time doing things she likes to do...\n\nBe patient, and listen to her...show her that you are there for her and that she can rely on you...\n\nBy the way, you are a really good guy...Good luck!!!
592507
Lol, If she's a woman then she's probably trying to put the situation across in a way you'll understand. Women often feel men don't really listen when they're upset so women try and explain how they feel with an analogy to something. I dunno if that's what you mean or the woman is just plain crazy lol.
170514
brake up with her man , its not that hard , you see whats happening here , you said so your self .\ndo you like looking like a fool over some girl that dosent even care for you ?\ncome on now ! you know what you need to do here !\nleave now and spare you pride .\nstay and be an idiot . its you call . witch will you do ?\ni think id leave if i where you !
616181
i dont think any female should ever cry  girls should be put on  a pedastal and treated like a princess well thats my opinnion no man should ever make a women cry
1026285
Skyler --\nIt IS okay for a man to cry, especially to express his emotions.  It is also healthier to do so when it needs to be done.  Do not put this off until later.  If it is okay to laugh when you are happy, then it okay to cry when you are sad.\n\nIf you do not want to appear as a crybaby, then do not cry like a baby, with loud sobbing and blubbering.  If you do not want to appear to be a whiner, then learn to cry without whining.\n\nThere is never anything wrong with allowing the tears to flow.  But if you want to look masculine doing it, do so silently (a little nose sniffling is okay, so is blowing your nose if that is needed).  Just let the tears fall, do not draw attention to them by continuing to wipe them away.  Take deep breaths, fill your lungs, hold the air slightly before you exhale and cry.\n\nEmotions are meant to be expressed.  When you try to hold them inside, you are doing yourself harm (that is why you feel like you are going to explode).  When you express your emotions honestly, you have nothing to be ashamed about.\n\nOne of my favorite verses from the Bible is also one of the shortest.  It reads: "Jesus wept."
32118
Ask him how he would expect men to treat you. Then explain how he treats other guys daughters, the women he is calling names.
461574
do not say your sorry - you must first show it - get your stuff together - for give ness must be shown - not just talked aboutif you are serious and he is a good person , you may start talking - he is listening even if he's mad, and then you show every day you DO care and love him - he will mellow in time - how much time is unimportant- just keep doing the show thing - even stupid men can be retrained to see their partner cares from the heart
81328
Well I can't speak for all guys but I hate to see my gf cry. In fact i try to do anything possible to keep her from crying or at least let her cry on my shoulder if she is in grief.
527763
tell him to stop acting like a woman...and if he doesn't get over it he's a big puss.
406648
I don't know if this is supposed to be a guy's problem...but my mother and I share the same problem. My mother is a little more severe in that aspect, though.\n\nI've never, ever seen her cry in my entire life. I can swear by that. Not even her eyes watering. She's an extremely tough, strong woman who'd never let the 'weakness' (she thinks its a weakness) of crying show in front of her children.\nI have no doubt she cries to herself at nights. But I've never seen her crying, and no matter how hurtful or great the situation is, she never breaks down. SHe's always tight-lipped and tension lines streak across her tired face, but there's never a tear.\nMy dad once commented to her, "I feel like I've married a man."\nI take that as a sort of compliment, that my mom, after having gone through several life crisises that wouldn't probably sent a whole family off a building or through the noose, she plough through it all, all without shedding a tear.\nAs for me, you can expect that because of her perception that crying is a weakness, I became somewhat eager to live up to her expectations (while my sister and brothers are whiny sobs...ok, well, they just cry a whole lot more, my sister being the worse.) and I became somewhat 'conditioned' not to cry.\nThough since I've had a fiance, he's been trying to encourage me not to be so 'angry', 'uptight' and close up all my feelings, I find it's helped a little, but I find it so hard to just 'let it go'.\nFor example, I was very close to my grandma. When she passed away because of breast cancer (she also had several stomach ulcers because she kept skipping meals to save money even though we were really well-off. SHe did it without our knowledge, because she came from extreme poverty with 8 kids single-handedly raised, and saving money no matter how was crucial to survival.), I was distraught, but I didn't cry.\nIt was an open coffin funeral. I remember seeing her lying in there dressed in new clothes, her eyes closed, like she was asleep. But she looked a little worried, I thought.\nI never shed a tear, I tried, I even closed my eyes and tried to run all the fond memories through my head of my beloved gran but not a tear could be shed.\nI was so...crushed. I felt like a robot. I still do. I find my emotions just swelling up inside.\n\nThe only 3 people who'd ever made me actually cry was my mother (she can be so hurtful at times, she was the first one who hurt my feelings during my childhood so much I curled up in the closet and cried.), my best friend (though we broke up long ago, she really was selfish and self-absorbed.) and my fiance (we've had a few big fights. He cried when he saw me cry. :|).\n\nI can understand it must be really frustrating, but for me, I realised we don't cry because a certain button in us has to be pushed.\nYou would know...have you ever thought or talked about a certain topic which you felt overwhelming emotion about? That's the button. One day, I suggest you sit down in a quiet spot where you can contemplate, and search that button and push it.\nYou might find that the tears that come out, might feel rather liberating.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
834693
How right you are.It gotta be one worst annoying things their is.They,re all over the place.Not getting there way.lol.Sad but true.Cry babies.Men can be cry babies.very annoying.Years ago men got it beat into them not to cry.Wasn,t allowed to cry.Still a winny man is a pitiful sight and they ought to hide somewhere,s.Like a closit.I,m moving to one place is almost all woman.  Not enough but kicking these days.
497474
I don't know, but isn't it annoying?  If you think it is bad, trying being the best friend of one of those cry-all-over-you types.  I have three or four friends that will call me in the middle of the day to cry and tell me about a petty problem that would probably be fixed if they could just make a decision.  I prefer logic over emotion.  If something isn't going right, I fix it.  Please, don't think all women can't control their emotions, most can.  Those that can't are just more noticeable.