Should a girl wait for a guy to approach her or should she talk to him first? What does she say to get started
141861
It doesn't matter, either the girl or the guy can start, you could start it by looking at that person in a sexy way, and the other person will react.
303830
You can start by a simple stare (and smile) if you are not comfortable with the direct approach. After you do this on a few occasions, you will be stuck to her mind and then the opportunity will come when it will be just natural to start a conversation.
535919
When a lady wants to approach me to talk to me, the first thing she will usually do, is to look at me, and smile. She will see what I do in return. If I smile back, then later on in the evening, she will smile again, this time a little more friendly, and longer. If I return it this time, she will normally walk over and say. "HI, I'm Carol". I tell her my name, and then normally she will say,"May I sit down?" Of course she can, so then we begin to talk. The important thing is, until she actually came over , the conversation had already begun....with smiles, and looks in each other's direction. She knew I was interested before she came over, so that made it a lot easier for her to approach me. Try this.....the nesxt guy that catches your eye, smile real big at him, then later on, smile at him again..I'll make you a bet. Before the evening is over, he will be putty in your hands....TRY IT!! Good LUCK!!
792879
Uh well the real ? is does he notice you? Have y'all sat down and talked to each other? Or does he like you a little more than a friend? I normally believe you should wait for a guy to ask the girl but if you want to take a risk and lose him or feel uncomfortably around him then go ahead because if he says no you might just not feel very comfortable around him.
707523
I say that you should never wait for a guy. Whether it is to call you or  for him to ask you out. Take the chance and learn from it, whether the results turn out the way you do or don't want it. Life is about taking chances and living it to the fullest
311211
all your friend sthat are surprised because you probably a really coo and hot chick. i know from experience that it is very hard to approach a girl that i might not have a chance wit. the only advice i have is to take the ropes in your hands and talk to him first or make the first move.
889522
Seems like she isn't interested right now, just try to be more casual and try to build on a friendship, because she might be one of those girls who can't really date someone until they've been friends, I know I like to know a guy a little before even considering dating them. Just talk to her more, and don't seem so desperate to get a date with her, most girls don't find that attractive, she might start to think you're a stalker or a weirdo, just act yourself and wait, if it's meant to be it will happen eventually.
259274
This is a basic question every girl and guy wants to know.  I'd be a lot earlier on the person wondering if he/she knew the answer before approaching the other to start a conversation, but nobody I know is a mind reader.  So, first notice if this guy ever looks your direction, and if so, often or very little.  Then take it from there.  If he often looks your way, he's probably interested, if he only glances your direction frequently, he's probably not.  But, if you're really interested in the guy, a lot, maybe you can get in on a conversation involving more than just you two and introduce yourself and tell the others you're interested in the subject matter.  Do you already know what "type" of girls he previously dated?  If so, this should give you a head start and compare yourself to what he might see in them.  Also, notice what he might be interested in, like sports, politics, religious discussions, current events, and brush up on the subject, then you are prepared for a discussion and then he'll at least knows you have something in common.  Good luck
619179
try to approach her in a friendly way first
334069
just say something\nif she is interested she will respond\npositive or nagative,\nbut you have to say something first.
289207
It is perfectly OK for a woman to ask a guy for his phone number, that way, the guy knows the lady will call!\n\nIt used to be that a woman was never supposed to make the first move, it was supposed to be the man who was the aggressor in a relationship.\n\nHow times have changed, and I think for the better.  Because it's my belief that a lot of relationships never got started because the woman wasn't suppossed to give out her number.  How is a guy going to know she likes him if she doesn't?  Come on!  A lot of guys are really clueless.  I know I was. Looking back, there were a lot of signals I missed.\n\nSo, don't be shy, give the guy your number, chances are he will be flattered.  Guys like attention just like the women.\n\n                     Good Luck
41801
The guy should make the first move.  That way, the girl knows that he is confident enough to go for it, and the guy doesn't have to sit around waiting for her to make a move.  Any confident guy will make a move on a girl he likes.
663161
Girl, you need to be brave. IT ISN'T EASY! approach 'Him' and say, "Hi." and if he says hi, then you say, "Hows it going?" And if he says good, then you start out in SIMPLE conversation. Make him feel acquainted. Then, you say, "Wanna get together sometime?" And if he says yes, you say, "Cool, when?" If he says no, you say, "Well, maybe some other time I guess." If he says, "uh-uh-uh-uh s-sure," then you are in luck. If he doesn't want to talk to you or anything, you just say, "I hope we can be friends sometime." You approach him like this: You see him, you walk over. Thats all there is to it. Good Luck Girl.
515162
Yes, they're scared! Girls say yes or no and have that power. But, girls must wait to be asked. What suspense! That's scary, isn't it. Ther's a trick, if you can do it.  Why not (gulp) just quiet and confidently approach the guy when he's alone and tell him directly you'd like to go out sometime and it's OK if he isn't interested... and mean it. Just say that. No babeling. Courage is impressive, to me.
923177
yeah it's true... guy should make the first move though...girls will look so desperate if her make the first move..
58361
It's really easy for a girl to ask a guy out.  I'm a guy, I would know.  I've never turned a girl down.  Women are observative, and will go with their intuitions when it comes to men.  They can decide in ten seconds whether they'd like a guy or not.  Men always want to see where things could go.  The answer will be yes, believe me.  The way I would ask would just be something like, "Hey, do you want to get together and do something sometime?"  Make it really vague.  The answer WILL be yes.  Now, the ball's in your court.  Make him pick what and where.  Good luck.
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.