How do I let my girl "friend" know I like her as more?
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WARNING:\nNEVER tell them how you feel with words!  This will work, if pushing someone away & ruining any potential intimate relationship is what you are looking for.\n\n\nWhat you are really asking here is not how do you tell someone - it is how do I make them feel attraction for me & how do I tell when they do so I can take this relationship to another level.\nAllow me to explain ...\n\nOf all the ones given above this is the closest answer to the right way to go about things without spoiling anything you currently have between the both of you:\n"weather she says yes, or no, kiss her on the lips, then say lets go" - though it is whether that they meant to type not weather as in climate :)\n\nWhy was that good?\n1. Because you are being commanding & decisive & leading.\nThese are behaviours that display attractive qualities in a quietly confident & even in a brashly confident guy.\n\nThey are not too attractive if you are a bully though alot of women will sadly still be compelled even if you were to take it too far down the bully route - though I am certain that is not an issue here because that type of guy does not ask to do anything or for advice he just does, so that is for another question.\n\nIt's difficult to give you the precise thing to do & when - alot of it sadly has to do with reading soemone's mood or knowing how to proceed in a way that does not make things blatant so that you can abort any advances before you create an embarrasing situation which she will feel the need to get away from.\nA friend came up with a good trick for working out when this is likely to be the result by running what you are doing as if it were about to happen to you.\n\nSo if you are in a close 'moment' & you are thinking of doing something, pay complete attention to being in the same mood as your friend, be them with all of your being as far as you can... now imagine you doing whatever it was to 'you' (you are in the role of your friend remember so you should see you coming up to kiss you as they would etc.)\nHow did it feel *to them*?  Was it awkward?  Was it a pleasant surprise etc.?\nIf it was not completely positive then you should think twice before proceeding.  Think of something else.\nTougher to do when you lack practice at thinking like this & you are pumped up with lust & love chemicals coursing through your mind making you groggy I know.\n\nIf you are thinking of 'going in' & can't do the empathy test above then a sure fire way of gauging the waters is to casually but deliberately grab the ends of some of her hair & run your fingers through it as if you were running your hand through something very soft.\nIf she does not respond in a way that clearly says, 'what are you doing?' with her eyes or body then do it again, look her in the eyes if you can & say, 'your hair is so soft, I really like the way it feels'.  Keep looking her in the eyes you are trying to gauge a reaction & looking her deep in the eyes causes attraction in both of you, I *know* this; it can be a very powerful reaction when it does try & not to lose control if it does hit you (the chemical rush I mean, not if she hits you, she should have no need to hit you ever!)\n\nIf she has reacted positively & not sunk her head, shoulders away from you etc. then she will 99.9% be receptive to further touch & a kiss.  If she goes, 'yeah thanks I use good shampoo' then you can matter of factly agree & come back to more 'dry' conversation.\n\nIt can be tough to turn a friend into a lover.\nI personally never tried though I had a lot of friends who were girls.  Many very pretty.  Many who I got on with very very well.\nHowever the thing to realise is that they are all girls friends or not & that we are all people & we all have the same anxieties & concerns. Though men & women definitely see things differently when it comes to courtship & do defintitely have different roles.\nI could sometimes see t
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Tell her you like her, and see how she responds. Take it from there.
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First of all, in 90% of cases at least, girls/women feel it when a guy likes them, you don't really need to make them know, although it is good for their ego.\nSecondly, YOUR concern should not be to make her know that you like her but to make her like you.\nAnd last, when you think you have managed the second point, then tell her that you like her DIRECTLY.
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if you also like her tell her
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tell her shes a lovely girl and you really like spending time with her. this is not to full on but if she likes you back she would probably say it back x good luck hope it works out x
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I spent 3 years where you are man, and that's one of the few regrets of my life. First, if you really like her, ignore you're friends teasing. When they tease you, look at them, laugh, and tell them they're just jealous "'cause you don't have a girlfriend as good as her." That's good to use even if she's around.\nNow for the how to ask her part... Two major ways to do it. One, since she's in a group with you, go to one of your "most trusted" and have him deliver such feelings. Two, try leaving a message for her that lets her know. You can make it obvious it's you, or leave enough hints for her to figure it out. Finally, there's the straight forward way... but I wasn't man enough to do that at the time... I left her a note on the night I shipped off to boot camp. lol. Good luck. I'm praying for you man.
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If you like her and she likes you,then there is nothing that can stop you,not even distance. Just tell her how you feel.
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if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
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You have to get to know her first. Know more about her, her likes and dislikes. Become really close with her, and then when your relationship is developing, slowly tell her that you enjoy being around her, talking with her and all, also tell her that she makes you feel good. She will start getting hints that you like her, and then you go ahead and tell her, and use the other guys idea too, flowers and a card. Good Luck With you, and Hope you have a nice relationship.\nSincerely,\nYour Friend...
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I say wait to tell her unless you know that she feels the same way about you. Don't ruin the friendship by telling her your feelings and her not feel the same way about you. \n\nWould you want someone telling your g/f that they liked her?\nThink about it that way.
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if you really think that she's sending you signals and you really like her, then i guess theres no harm in asking her out. a safer way may be to have one of her friends explain whats going on, because she may just be acting that way to show that she really does want to continue being friends and that she likes you, even if it isnt on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. so try and find out what shes really thinking. good luck! =]
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Well first of all you should have told the girl that you like now that you like her. Or if u dont feel like telling her and make the girl tell her feelings to u then try to hang out with the girl u like and then increase ur relationship with her to make her know u like her.
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BE YOURSELF MAN!!! if she knows you for a liftime and she accepted you as her boyfriend, then there is a "slight" chance that she relly likes you the way you are...
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Guy,Tell her what you just told all of us in your question...\nOr,Find out something that interests her.And start up a conversation on whatever that may be.She will respond positivly towards you for showing an interest in something that she enjoys.\nJust come out and tell her that you really like her.Always works for me...
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tell her how you feel if she is your best bud then you should feel comfortable enough around her to tell her anything and if she is the girl you think she is she will be honest with you and let you know exactly how she feels
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there is no reason you can't tell her. just get to know her really well, and if you still like her still, kind of let her know without really telling her... it will drive her crazy...and if she doesn't get it soon tell her flat out...good luck....girls are crazy.
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Well if she feels the same way to towars you then she will let you know.  If it meant to be she'll let you know.  Just say calm and see what she is going to do.  If she doesn't  do anything to let you know she likes you then don't worry anymore.