my boyfriend looks at females all the time every where we go, and now i think im pregnant. what now?
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Slap the brown stuff out of him. \n\nBaby girl let me tell you. If he keeps his head on a swivel he keeps his zipper opperational , if you catch my drift.\n\nLooking is natural but staring is wrong and when you stare your mind works in mysterious ways.
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what an idiot! you don't say stuff like that, not even jokingly. you're gaining weight because you're carrying HIS child. just return the favor, tell him since you are the pregnant one you're bound to gain weight, what's his excuse? besides, since you're not feeling like he is attracted to you, there is no way you can be in the mood...\ndon't listen to him, pregnant women are gorgeous!
572430
Honey, he's yours and unless he is gay he's going to look and that's okay because as I said he's yours. The thing is, maybe he thought he knew her. Maybe he wasn't even looking at her but passed her. Maybe you should ask him :)
605551
You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
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First ask yourself a few questions. Does he flirt a lot with these girls? Does he dump you a lot to go out with these girls? Does he talk about them all the time? If you answered a honest no to these questions you might just need to turn off the jealously and realize your boyfriend loves you. If you answered yes then confront your boyfriend because you have a right to know if anything is going on.
65339
u wear what ever u want and if your man loves u then he has to respect u. tell him to keep his eyes of other woman and if he continues to look then u start looking the other way at men to see how he likes that play them at there own game.
96003
You by your question know what is right. I am here to back you up in your decision. You are in control of your own body.He is not. You have made the right decision already in your heart. How dare someone tell a girl like you to go and rent porno movies. If your boyfriend is in that frame of mind tell him to take the matter into his own HANDS, as the milk is not free unless you buy the cow.
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Sounds like he just isn't ready to be where you want him to be.  You ever heard of the BabyBoy syndrome, I think he has that.  He's selfish and childish and you need to stop wasting your time.  He's going to get you pregnant and then he will have no interest in you anymore.  Get out of the rut, leave him and do something positive with your life.  He isn't ready for what you have to give him.  If he is doing this now he will NEVER put into the relationship what you do.  And this gets really old really quick... trust me.
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Your confusion is a sign that you physical attraction is messing with your ability to make good decisions.  If this relationship is a mistake, then break it off.  Apologize to the boy, tell him you're sorry that you let things get out of hand, that you should have known better.\n\nThen be careful - this kind of thing is a message to you that you aren't ready for relationships like this yet.  Find a boy that you are friends with.  If you can talk to him normal for a few months, you might have a future boyfriend.  But no kiss/hold hands/saying I love you.  That's making a promise you're not ready to keep.\n\nAnd, since you are thinking about it, no sex until you have enough $$$ to have a baby.  When you have a plan as to what you would do if you were pregnant, then you are ready for sex.
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You didn't state your age, but...\n\nSince your boyfriend has a girlfriend (you), he has been "tested and proven."  Meaning he has something going on and is dateable.  Plus, people often seem to want what they can't have.  If he hasn't shown signs of being unfaithful, then best to not worry too much about it.  It will only keep burning at you inside until you become angry and resentful.  Then your boyfriend might start taking a more serious look at these other girls.
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he is probobly checking out your butt. seriously,its one of those "hate to see you go; but LOVE to watch you leave" things. im serious, my bf watches me walk out of the room every time.
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PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
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He's just looking?  Does he say, "Man, I'd like to get me some of that!" or "Check out that booty!" - or does he just glance at them?  I don't think there is a straight man alive who doesn't look at least a little bit.  I think I'd be more worried about the man that *didn't* look.\n\nPlease work on being more secure in yourself - your man is with you for a reason.\n\n[There's someone you should get in touch with - you two could start a "My Man Looks At Women" club.  Actually, I bet you are the same person.)
731255
I think you're pregnant... congratulations!! =] go see a doctor to be sure and be safe.
545720
This is normal male behavior.  Be honest, you looked and noticed she was "hot" too.  We all look at other people.  Don't make a big deal out of nothing.  If he's doing more than looking, or looking online and in magazines then, I might move on.  If he's not happy looking at you, the real thing, then you don't need to stay in his sights.
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Well, if this makes you feel insecure, then you need to talk it over with him.\n\nFrankly, my husband has an appreciative eye for attractive women.  And, I don't mind staring at some men, either.  But, the line is, neither of us have ever ACTED on it (the old, Look with your eyes, not with your hands, line).\n\nIs your boyfriend staring at women thinkingm, "Boy, I would rather date her," or is he thinking, "Boy, she makes my girlfiend look mighty fine!"\n\nDon't leap to bad conclusions until you've talked to him about it.