Should I be having sex?
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Stop having sex with your boy friend.  \n\nNo matter what others are telling you, you are too young.\n\nThe very fact that you are asking this question demonstrates that you are too young.   \n\nHave a very frank talk with your boy friend and explain why this cannot continue.  If your boy friend doesn’t like you saying no, then be assured he neither loves you nor even respects you and isn’t the right one.  \n\nMy wife and I have been together for 51 years, since we met at 14 and have been married for 46 years.  Believe me when I say don’t do it.
173569
your a guy, so probably sex
1068242
Check with your doctor on this matter. I think that as long as you don't exhibit outer symptoms, it is safe to have sex. This is only an opinion from a layman's viewpoint.
89305
You should wait until you're both ready. To sound stereotypical, sex is a big responsibilty. No matter how safe you are, there can always be the risk of pregnancy or getting an STD. Be sure you're ready for an consequences that may occur.\n\nBut if you decide to go for it....HAVE FUN!
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
1111826
sex should be with someone that you love and respect. and they should love and respect you.\nshould wait for marriage.\nthere could health problems when a women reaches 35yr. there are more health risks for the baby and the mom.\nI wish I waited to be married before having sex. I thought I was "missing out" on sex too. started seeing all my classmates around town and they were married and on their second kids.\nthought I was missing out, so I wanted to know what "it" was like too. but then got pregnant and the baby on my own. not fun after the fact.\nhaving sex is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU LEAVE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON.\nso PLEASE WAIT FOR MARRIAGE AND IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT BELIEVE ME PLEASE WAIT.\n\ndont be in such a rush to "fit in" or "know what it is like" just to know. take your time and know what kind of person has the qualitites you want in the other person and that you take of yourself financially and emotionally on your own.\n\ngood luck and WAIT FOR MARRIAGE: YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DO.!!!!
995955
Only if you are in public. I appreciate you practicing safe sex.Way to go!!!
168427
do you mean sex or 69?  if he means 69, you should be on top.  if he wants sex, you probably should wait until you are ready and comfortable with it.  don't rush anything.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
531258
by the look of your question it looks like you are to young to be having sex anyway. Either that or your a 2ND grade drop out
1135054
Take your time. Your first meeting is NOT an advicable time to want to have sex. Show her how much you respect her and her body by abstaining. You are young and have plenty of time to get to the point of "sex" with her.  Besides, why risk pregnancy, STD's, or hurt feelings after. Respect yourself enough also to say NO. No contraception is full proof!!!!
1071860
sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married
1105329
it all depends on who your having sex with..i have decided to wait because every time i do have sex!! IT HURTS!! so im just gonna wait until i find someone thats right for me(u know marrige) then maybe i will like it...(so dont just go around experimenting make sure you know what your doing and you love somone then maybe sex will feel GREAT!!!
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Aboslutly Not. Actually haveing intercourse is healthy. It is in fact considered a good exercise. It depend upon your ability. \nOwr body is made in a way that you cannot have more sex than you can do. (for mens)\nWhereever i've read its never considered bad or unhealthy
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Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
310500
maybe he needs sex, are you having sex?
144135
there  is nothing wrong with being sexually active.You're at that age when your hormones are racing.Just make sure you use a condom.