How can i love people ?
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Become more spiritual.. Have a personal relationship with God.. Love God.. Love yourself and then loving people will be easy..
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im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
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You can't make someone love you.  They either do or don't.  You can't change someone either.  They have to want to change.  You can tell him of the situation, what you want then hope he listens and changes.\nGood luck!
1064133
Give love and you will receive love.\nWhat goes around comes around.\nSo, be friendly and friendship will be returned to you.
480080
totally agrees with you.  The world is full of ppl we can connect with without acutally "knowing" them.  Like if they eat with thier mouth closed, do they put the toilet seat down, turn off the shower thing on the tub when they get out, etc etc etc.  I think you can develop feelings if you talk to someone for a long time, yes, but I think it is far from love.  In order to love someone you have to see all the negative and positive at least to make a judgment based on fact and not just what they might type to you.
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With loving actions.  Do something your loved one wants you to do for them.  Show that you appreciate them.  I sometimes believe that saying "I love you" is meaningless unless it's accompanied by an act of appreciation.  Appreciation=love!
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You simply cannot make a person love you that has to come naturally, A persons feelings just don't turn on and off at a whim. Before anything happens you must get to know each other first before anything jumps off.\n\nIf he doensn't love you that is perhaps he doesn't know you yet and you haven't bothered to go and introduce yourself to him yet.\n\nMake a move and see what happens but remember you cannot make a person love you, and that I am being honest with you with.
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just let them be, u can't force them whom to love. that's their choices.
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Explore the person they are, how they relate to people. Do they judge them, do they forgive them.\nSetting principles and sticking to them.\nHelping when needed, not asking why sometimes, and questioning yourself on a regular basis and learning from it.\nWe can all help people, but we cant if we dont help ourselves.
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You cannot make anyone love you, or get them to love you. You have to take a risk and care about them first. You have to get to know them first, otherwise its not love, its something else.\n\nMaybe you could think about how you might like someone to get you to love them. What would you want them to say? What would you want them to do for you? What would this "love" be like?\n\nEveryone needs to be loved. Consider the girl. Maybe she wants to be loved by you, or maybe she is waiting for someone else. Find out. Talk to her. Get information.\n\nYou may hear some things you don't want to hear, but at least you will know where you stand.
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Why not? Of course love can happen. People are people, we all have things in common wether you guys are in different circles. Anyway, we need to look at people as people, as individuals and not define them by groups or cliques or circles.
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The only advice that I would share with you is to spend time with those that you love. Life is short, too short. When you create memories with those you love, you build a lifetime of memories for others, as well. You cannot buy that anywhere! Tell others how much they mean to you in a short, sweet compliment. You will be amazed at how important you are to them, too. Be special to someone else, it will spread and return to you someday when you need it most.
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Being a nice, friendly person can make you "loved". Also, being there for people even when nobody else is will make them "love" you because you were supportive. Helping people that are total jerks to you sometimes, that can win people over.\n\nBeing loved well? It's not an easy thing to do, and not everybody will love you, after all, there are some real jerks out there.\nI know you can be a quality person that shares your love for others and recieves love in return if you try. Take care of yourself too.\nAloha,\nDavid
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Ability to love and express love unconditionally
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Treat everyone with respect and also believe in humanity. Believe in humanity not only in words but in actions too.
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Just be yourself! People are not going to love you if you are being someone you're not. You will find the right people just being you. Don't act a certain way, because you can't act forever and people will most likely be disappointed later on.
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Impossible u can't 'make' another person 'love' you.  If you try...it will be a disaster at some point.  You have to just 'be' you around that person and express yourself to her.  Be completely honest with yourself too.  Sometimes we really think we want something or someone and then once we have them we lose interest.  Just do not try to manipulate a situation...let it either blossom or wither.