Help me with this. My girl walked up to me and told that she is not in love with me any more.What should I do?
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
848384
She has moved on with her life.  It is time for you to do the same.  She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
21938
Are you going out?  If you are, watch what she does for you?  Does she help you get your coat when you leave her place?  Does she do little things for you?  Call to say she misses you?\n\nSome girls are sensitive to a guy telling her he is in love with her.  Find out if she is in love first, if not work to get there.  If you say, that you are in love with her and she is not, then she might get scared and end the relationship.\n\nGood luck.  Peace.
821901
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
731777
she's not that in to you,,, anymore. move on to the next girl. and this time, don't take too long.
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
693834
Are you sure she doesn't feel the same?\nHumm.\nBut she IS meeting you, right?\n\nLooks like she is playing "hard-to-get"! :-)\n\nDid she explicitly tell you she doesn't love you?\nWell, if not, take it easy, man. \n\n"Quitters never win, and winners never quit - simple."
1003492
Walk away.  Seriously.  Don't waste your life because you don't wanna hurt her.\n\nI stayed with a girl I didn't love for a year and a half after I realized I didn't care about her any more... why?  Because she loved me and needed me.\n\nIt's lost time, and I'll never get it back.
134653
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".
479780
Do you love her? If yes, go talk to her at least, maybe she was in a bad space. If no, dump her a**.
229887
If she has to think about it then she is in doubt or she just doesn't wanna be with you. If she truly cared about you she would know how she feels. I think you should tell her how you feel and what you want from her and see what she says.., you might be surprised. Good Luck!!
370799
You have nothing to lose so go for it, if you dont act on it right now you will then say...if only i had told her...so just give it a try.  If it doesnt work you can just move on like you did when you first left her...
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
1163469
WELL, RIGHT NOW I WOULD TAKE THINGS REALLY SLOW.... SHE MAYBE HURT AND IS VULNERABLE RIGHT NOW.... I WOULD GIVE HER SOMETIME TO FIND HERSELF AGAIN AND TO HEAL.... IF YOU ALREADY HAD THE CHANCE TO BE WITH HER.... EXPLAIN TO HER YOU REALIZE YOUR FAULTS AND WOULD LIKE THE CHANCE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.... SHE MAY COME AROUND.... AT THE MOMENT SHE MAY SEEM BITTER AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.... SO DON'T THINK SHE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE... SHE NEEDS TIME.... ALL WOMAN DO....
633439
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
423410
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.