My friend/neighbor keeps coming on to me... MAYBE SOME MEN CAN ANSWER THIS FOR ME!?
145713
Damn. Either you are hot or he is stupid. Just tell him he had his chance and he isn't going to get another, but he can be your friend.\n\nGo to laddertheory.com and read all of it.
642264
Be firm in your convictions. If he continues to threaten you get an order of protection or restraining order against him. \n\nThis guy obviously has issues and should seek counseling or attend anger management classes.
658039
Put a block on your phone against that number.  What he is doing is illegal and frightening.  DON'T PUT UP WITH IT!!!
45688
Is he watching you at your house, if so call the cops and report him as a suspicious person(s). If he just follows you, oh say, everywhere else, call your girls and kick his sorry butt.
93310
Just a suggestion, but start keeping a journal of odd events and things he does, or places that he shows up at that he couldn't have possibly known you were going to be there unless you told him, and do a little investigative work to find out why he is at the same places as you.  Some of his being there could be easily explained, or just pure coincidence, but in case it isn't, it's better to look through several incidents and find a pattern of it instead of just being scared about it and not sure if it's just all in your head, or if it really is something to be concerned about.\n\nThen if you have to file a formal complaint later with the police department, you have more references to tell the police about his past odd behavior that isn't acceptable.\n\nAnd whether you are being paranoid or not, it's better to be safe than sorry, tell your trusted friends about the situation, and set up a sefety net of people who can be there if the situation feels too scary, your instincts are there for a reason, don't blow them off as if you're overreacting.
1013078
I am guessing that one of your friends told you this to goad you into having sex with him or someone else.  Get yourself a new friend.
842078
You run a thin line with slander, especially if he has put the incident behind him. Discuss it with the police first to see if anything can be done
1009059
Consider this,  this person is either a very lonely soul who is desperatly trying to seek attention or approval.   If so,  try to tone them down by just being a friend.    Or,  if this person is just trying to make you look stupid in front of other people, stay cool and keep your distance and your ears open,  when the opportunity strikes, debunk one of their knowlege attacks.
851005
First, run spell check.\nSecond, he sounds like a predator. You should notify police.
956374
Well, it sounds like he is just being a protective guy.Sounds like a normal problem to me.
622166
I agree with the first answerer. Try the *69 if you don't have call display, phone your phone company. They can help. They once changed my phone number right away because my ex-husband had found out my number (from our son)and kept phoning and threatening me. If this has been going on for some time I would notify the police also, I hate to have anything bad happen to you esecially if he's saying I see you. Sounds pretty scary to me. Actually, if this has been going on for some time now, notify the police at once, especially if he keeps calling. OR...If the police will not do anything at first, tell the caller you've notified the police and they're going to trace his call and find out where he lives. If this is just a prank caller, someone getting his jollies, the calls will hopefully stop. Good Luck and take care. But do something soon. Don't wait. \n\np.s.\nI don't mean to scare you but this is a scary situation.
604614
I'm pretty sure what he is doing would be considered harassment.  Call the company he works for (EVERYONE has a boss SOMEWHERE) and report him.  If that doesn't work, and he comes back, call the cops on him.  You can get a restraining order where he can't come near your house.
837738
Sounds like a stalker setting you up.  I would keep watching out the window.\n\nCoach
985099
Ok, Houston we have a problem.   Clearly he is flirting, but the question is, does it bother you or make you feel so uncomfortable that it crosses your line so to speak.  Ultimately that's the issue.  Harassment.  Do you feel harassed or in any way "creeped" out?  if so, you know what you need to do.  Politely at first, ask that he cease this behaviour.  If however it does not cease you may need to take further steps.\n\nAt the end of the day, you must decide for yourself if this is acceptable to you.  He enters your personal space at his leisure and you need to ask if that's ok, from there, well........
631933
Bull crap he is leading you on. He wants to keep you hanging just in case he can't find someone else, don't be his doormat..............
759498
Some people just latch on to someone they think they stand a chance with and won't let go. It isn't anything you are doing. You are being honest with him and he won't take the hint. If it is online then report him to whatever chat site you are using. If it is in person call your local magistrate and see what can be done to keep this guy away from you.
299144
I'm confused, is this guy a member of the church or is he simply a crazed homeless guy living in his van?\n\nLook, I dont know, im really bad at this "subtle revenge" thing.\nYoure trying to avoid his "conversion"? Tell him youre gay. Christians hate gays.\n\n:UPDATE:\nBut whats his prime objective in watching you and your friends? Is he trying to turn your friends into members? What does he want from you? Figure out what it is he wants, once you have the right question than you can get the right answer.\n\nALSO\nIs he clean cut? or very ragged and shabby looking? Do you get the impression that hes been using drugs?\n\nO, in that case youre dealing with a sociopath. Well, if he has threatened you than a restraining order will be easy to get. It might be best if you beat him at his own game, I wouldnt damage his car or fuck with his property as it might just escalate into something you could regret later. You gotta beat him at his own game, recruit some friends to confront this asshole.