Should you marry someone b/c you love them or because you think you should?
139426
Yes you have to love this person.  Look far ahead in life....is this the person who you want to have there when you are old, gray, and this person is the only person you will have to depend on?  Make sure they are dependible, reliable and they really care about you.  Susan Surandon said it best when she said, "People get married because they want a witness to their life.  You will not go unnoticed because I will notice you."
417266
If you both love each other and place the same value on the relationship, than nothing will come in the way of it. In hard times you find strength in each other and in happy times you rejoice in the loving relationship that you have created together. Who would you marry if not the love of your life? You want the person to be your best friend....the one that you love to live life with!
11901
A marriage can be very important if you want to be with them for life. Studies show that live-in relationships on average don't last as long as marriages do. However, do not jump into marraige just because you want to live with someone. Learn as much about the person before you make a serious commitment of marriage or moving in.
1023716
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
1034004
No, I would still marry them, because each person can have their own beliefs, and not have it interrupt the marriage at all. Religion is something that brings people together, not takes them apart. Besides if the love is true then they respect each others religion, so it would not be a big deal
416194
Why do you think ,you want to marry this man?is it love, security , lust or proving a point.\n\nI did the same thing and it absolutely ruined my life.\n\nIt should be possible to find another alternative, I only wish that i had tasted the water before.\n\nwhatever you decide it, try to make the best ,rational solution that your young mind can give you.
6983
Wait until the initial passion is over before you think about marrige. Take it slow. If you are meant for each other you will be together anyway whether you are married or not. Marrige is just a formality.
559449
right. love is love. if you love a person and are in a long term relationship and you want to be with that person forever, marry them\n\nif two people of the same gender, are in love and they marry then who can say that that is wrong? NO ONE
942997
yeah as long as you dont have any doubts about the person you are going to marry. your stuck with them forever, dont forget.
164504
look the life is urs,donot play with ur life.u love someone but now u r going to marry a unknown person donot do this to ur self,think deeply,the life is completely urs u v the rite to take decision.keep smiling
9613
I think everyone would like to marry the one they love, but I think that sometimes people confuse love with lust or infatuation and that is why people "fall out of love" so often today.  They don't wait to see if it is really love.
201620
No offense, but if you have to ask, niether relationship is probably a good one. When you truely love somone, there is no doubt in your mind as to what decision to make in this type of situation.
447040
Is this from a financial point of view? I think you should only marry someone because you love them. Living with someone isn't always easy normally in a loving relationship...it can be hell if it was done for other reasons!! Financially, you could actually lose certain benefits depending on the state you live in.
294290
If you really are sure that you love that other person you should go for it and tell her how you feel. Because life is short and opportunities don't last forever.
583208
Actually I'd say to save yourself until you know for a 100% fact that you love your partner and he loves you too.  It is a sacred part of a person that is not to be disrespected rather cherrished.
395644
I prefer marriage over just living together. It tells me he loves me enough to commit to being together for the rest of our lives. To stand before God, family and friends and declare his undying love for me. It's the only way for me.
253177
I've always wondered this myself. If I am going to be marrying someone that I plan to spend the rest of my life with I am not going to be thinking about the dissolution of our marriage. Also, if I think he is going to try to take me for all that I have upon our divorce, well, I didn't know his character all that well anyway. So, the moral is, know someone totally before you marry them. :)