how do i brake up with my boyfriend?i dont know how.?
153262
Tell him that you too are better off friends and you want to see someone else.
834024
Before you do anything, take a deep breath.\n\nYou must feel overwhelmed since this is your first relationship, it's brand new, and you have huge expectations of how your boyfriend is supposed to act.\n\nHigh school romances are very fragile and very diffiult to maintain.  You didn't mention if he's had prior relationships to the one with you.  I would suspect that he has had several.  The boy in high school is being bombarded by hormones just like you are. \n\nThe most important thing for you to do is to take care of yourself.  Two months may seem like a long time to you, but in relationships that is not.  Whatever is going on with your boyfriend is HIS stuff.  How you react to his behavior is YOURS.\n\nWhy would you feel it appropriate to yell at him??  You are powerless over his behavior.  The only actions you can control are yours.  It's appropriate to bring up, in a calm manner, your surprise that his usual sweet messages weren't left for you.  See what he has to say.  Keep in mind he may have a reason.\n\nNow, he may have changed his mind about wanting to be your boyfriend.  That is a painful thought, I know.  Particularly if you've given yourself to him sexually.  If so, I hope you used protection.  \n\nMy thought is to tell you to move slowly through all the actions you take.  Don't yell, don't threaten, don't bargain, don't try to do anything to MAKE him act like he did before.  You cannot change him.  Cry if you break up with him.  Eat too much ice cream.  Talk to your girlfriends.  Whatever it takes to get over a broken heart.   Take it from an older woman...we will all get our hearts broken and will break hearts in our lives.  And it never seems at the time, like we'll survive.  But we always do. And we're stronger, more awesome women than we were before.\n\nWhatever you find out when you talk with him, remember it's his stuff.     \n\nHugs.
722652
The same thing you did as a teen, Egg cars and T.P houses!\nJust be yourself silly lady!\nIf you're boyfriend doesn't like you, then kick him to the curb! He doesn't know what he's missin'
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
1145286
Well if you guys basically never talk or see each other its not a real relationship so you might as well put the brakes on your current relationship with him!!
170514
brake up with her man , its not that hard , you see whats happening here , you said so your self .\ndo you like looking like a fool over some girl that dosent even care for you ?\ncome on now ! you know what you need to do here !\nleave now and spare you pride .\nstay and be an idiot . its you call . witch will you do ?\ni think id leave if i where you !
852920
So what is stopping you? If you get into the heat of things, then just let go a little bit and let the hands wonder. It will come to you. You are right about not wanting it to hold your relationship up, so just relax some and let things happen. Be sure to make sure you want it though. Good luck and relax. That is the important part.....SAM
1074876
There is no easy way to do this. I wonder though, if you love him so much, why break up? Consider your reasons and then be straight and honest with him. Then go your own way. Good luck with this.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
956009
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
383881
You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.
952185
haha...my boyfriend does that!  i just kiss him and he stops :)
168850
Tell the guy you want to break up with, why you are doing it. But you have to be honest and not hurt his feelings. If you lie, then it will just become a big mess and you guys won't even be friends anymore. I think this is the best way to break up with a guy. Hope this helps!
325767
Either you are having problems or you are not.  If you are having problems in your relationship, he may have thought of breaking up with you, and you will actually be doing him a favor by doing it for him.  If you are not having problems, you can fix them or leave him.  If you fix them, you will not need to break up with him.  If you leave him, there is only one way to do it.  Do it quickly.  Do not let him talk you into keep on trying and just one more week, or one more dance, or one more anything.  It will just make it harder on BOTH of you.... It will be prolonging the pain when at the end of the one more whatever, you have to break up with his still / or again.
327216
Do it the old fashion way. Tell him directly. Or just say, things aren't really working out between us. I want to break up with you.
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.