now that I've meet someone recently he claims he wants me back. What should I do?
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Don't do it. Unless you like being a puppet. Obviously you look so much better on this other guys arm.   Sometimes a man has to lose a good thing, before he realizes what he had.  I am afraid that if you return to him, he won't take that as a love gesture, but as a sign of weakness.
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Dear Katie,\nFirst thing... you have to ask yourself... do u want him back? If yes, are you sure he won't do it again... well u said u haven't made out with him but did get into some kinda relationship... He could be only looking for his 'unfinished work'... i know that's sick but it could be true. Just ask yourself... you'll have the answer.\n\nMy advice---> Do wat love makes you do!!! Its always right!!!
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Don't wait.  No need putting off something that is potentially better for some bum that wants you to wait on him.  Move on.  If he decides he wants you back, make him chase you.  And make him chase HARD!!!
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Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
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duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
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LOL neparis2001.. that wasn't nice.. true.. but not nice.\n\nI would say that you have started to 'draw a line in the sand' of what you will and will not do for a person, and you are finding your balance.\n\nThat you are able to not run and find out why he hasn't actually met up with you shows that you are maturing with what you find acceptable in how you want to be treated.\n\nIf you have feelings for him, at least you're honest, but how do you feel now that he blew you off?  I think you're worthy of someone that can return your values in a relationship.. if he can't, look for a new place for your feelings so they don't end up hurt.\n\nKeep your chin up and always respect yourself first!!..so you don't have to worry about regaining respect.
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Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
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Question is ---Why would you want him back?  Find someone that will not be ashamed of you and would be proud to have you around and meet his family and friends.  Good luck
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he wanted u for a period of time.. I think now its over.. so he's going away from you..\nNow what u can do is.. just forget such unworthy person and start living your life..
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wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
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be patient and not pushy. however if he is not sure he wants to be there then even if he does come back he won't be all there, why would you want someone to be with you that you have to beg to be there? thats a little sad and won't work out in the long run anyway. i think you need to worry less about getting him back and spend some time thinking about why you are so desperate to be with someone that you are willing to disrespect yourself so much.
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Wipe your eyes and move on.He has done you a favour if he behaves like that.you will find someone who wants you for yourself take your time there is no hurry and everyone is wanted by someone have patience.
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Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.\n\nif he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.\n\nif you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
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He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
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Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
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yeah i think he's getting back at you from the last time. if you guys weren't even together long enough especially. \n\ni would just let him go and when he comes crawling back you'll have more fun laughing at him, cause you don't need to be pulled like that. the nerve of him to ask you to wait for him, is laughable. \n\njust go fine a better guy to date. someone more mature and wants to be in a relationship, everyone has their ups and downs, and he just doesn't know how to deal with them. it doesn't have to do with the age, just the person. \n\nyou'll probably feel a lot better when he's off your mind, and you let him go. might be hard at first, but this doesn't seem like it was a loving relationship to begin with. so don't waste it on him. or the thought you might have been in love with him.
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Just wait for his call, he will contact you again and you wil soon enough find out what kind of relationship he wants with you. By the way, what kind of relationship do you want with him? That you have to ask yourself too