Ho do i get TRUST?!?!?!?
150486
Trust is something you earn. Show them you can be trusted.
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Trust is earned, never freely given.\n\nBeing burned a few times myself has made me very cautious about who I trust, but relationships are built on trust.  So, what does one do?\n\nWell, it is a kind of process, I have found.  One only metes out trust a little at a time, starting at "friendly."  From there on, it is a gradual process where one observes what they say and do to see if the two match.  After a while, one learns to trust the other when it is shown that they are trustworthy.\n\nBe friendly, mete out your trust a little at a time, and always be observant and pay attention to any "red flags" about the guys behavior.\n\nOne admonition: the road goes two ways.  Be a person who is fair, honest, and trustworthy yourself.  He'll probably be watching you as well!\n\nGood luck!
563612
Sorry, but if she doesn't trust you, there is no basis for a relationship!  You have no choice in the matter but to move on!
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
519986
yes you can trust him. But do not always bother him about it. Just try be on his side for any help. He will turn. dont worry. He is normal
482313
Fess up!  The longer you lie the most the distrust builds, but if you come clean you'll show you are willing to try and be honest and build the trust up again.  Yes, it will be hard at first, but if she truly loves you and sees you are truly trying to make things right and address the problem, she'll stick with you and help you work through it.
1035829
you can ask, but you either trust someone or you don't.  if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.  and if you do trust him, you have to know in your heart he wouldn't do that even if there are signs that might point that way.
827730
Are you thinking of Matter of Trust???
263976
Get this in your head everyone lies. Until you and your "friend" could have a level of trust that is sincere then you're in business. And know how to tell nice people from bad people, dont be naive. If your like under 21 then grow up some more.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
190004
I SOOO TRUST YOU!!!!!\nlol
61370
Trial & error. A lot of the time your intuition will steer you in the right direction. But you will never learn to trust 'til you give people a chance. You have to let your guard down some time or another.
853359
If you feel that he is... in your gut... then he probably is. I have learned through experience to trust myself, and I constantly tell girls all the time to TRUST THEMSELVES as well. You know yourself better than anyone.... Can you be with a guy you cant trust.. If the answer is yes, Then maybe you should get some councelling of your own. You cant be a doormat, you cant have love with out trust. Good luck
462208
You should Ask him directly. That's something to keep the trust on each other. You must trust him and he must trust you.
808982
You cannot force trust. This is an issue of trusting one another. The more you push, the more she pulls. Better to just be you and be the way you truly are. If she comes around and cottons to that kind of honesty, then good for both of you. If she continues to have qualms about someone who is honest and trustworthy, those issues are better helped by her actions, not yours. Just be kind and steady and send out a good feeling of love in her general direction and she may eventually relax once again. I once invited a small cat into my back hall and she kept coming closer and closer and then she made eye contact with me and what she saw there enabled her to cross the threshold and enter my home. She has been with me ever since and I have never betrayed that trust. You are the same way, except you are with a person, not a little cat who was stuck out in an ice storm last March.
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Trust is very important.  You can't have a relationship without trust.  (Well you can but it won't be a good one)
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well if u have been screw over so many times it would be hard for u to trust anyone . but u will fine someone u can trust and who will be faithful to u it will take time k just hang in there it will get better soon