I have a boy friend for a year , how can i know if he wants to marry me or not.?
141242
Actually time is not really an issue.  I know pople who dated for 4 - 6 months and got married.  But there a re also people I know who have been dating since the beginning of time but they are still unmarried.  So obviously you are marriage oriented.  Bring up the marriage topic to him and see his reaction.  Positive or negative.  But you can also ask him directly to be sure  --  "do you plan on marrying me?" But be prepared for either getting really hurt or a pleasant surprise. In my opinion, if you are unsure then the answer is no or not yet.  Usually the guys will drop in a lot of hints on the fact that they want marriage early on in a relationship.  Does he talk alot about your future together?
407245
A year is a long time.  Now you make your decision.  Either go straight up to him and tell him how you feel, or move on.  You shouldn't dwindle on this any longer.
464600
I hope he asks you!!! That would be great!  I hope the best for you.  Thats so great that he likes your son too!  He probably will ask you soon... and I hope he does!  It sounds like he might.  But i understand what your saying about gettin ur hopes up.  That would suck.  SO.. if he doesnt ask... then maybe further along in ur relationship... talk to him about if he would ever marry u and maybe hint to him that ur ready to marry him. Good luck!
842059
YOUR IN LOVE AND YOU'VE GOT EACH OTHER. HE JUST GOT A JOBL, THINGS ARE GOING TO BE VERY BLESSED IN YEAR TWO. SAVE THE MONEY, STAY IN AND PRAISE GODS HOLY NAME!!!\n\n\nGOD BLESS
347046
Do you love him? If so you are going to want to stay together and try to make the relatinship work. I suppose if you don't know if you could love him ask yourself this: Could you see yourself marrying this guy? No? Then maybe it is time to move on. Break the news to him as gently as possible and maybe you can retain the relationship by just being friends.
375334
I think you should go on with your plans he might be getting cool feet he tells u he loves you and he still wants u to marry him it will be ok he just might be thinking about how things is going to be when u guys get marry and he just hope thing will work out
198211
He's going on a mission!!! Honestly, it is hard to move on.  Especially when it feels like you have found the one.  Just realize that he is probably someone else's future husband.  You are probably young and it won't matter.  Hey, if you are still around when he gets back from his mission, see how he feels then.  Don't wait for him though.  I would advise against that.  The chances of a girl waiting for a guy on his mission are 15% and the chances they will get married are less.  Anyway, tell him good luck and I will be seeing him out in the field in a little over a year.  Hope this helps.
1119754
If this guy is truly your destiny, there are usually signs given to you by Fate and the universe...These signs will be the tell all as to whether you should marry him.  Pay attention to details, conversations, and events...
1105775
Ask him to marry you. Explain that you don't wish to invest any more time in a relationship that isn't going anywhere. If he loves you, he will say yes. If he says no, you've saved yourself some wasted time. Good luck either way.
1065037
Always put this behind your mind: for a girl it is always 'what are you waiting for?' and for a boy it is always 'why the rush?' The fact that the your boy friend is not rushing things does not suggest that he is undecided about you, he may be working things out to suit the two of you n the long run. Depending on your culture and religious dispositions, you may just have to encourage him by showing more love. You may have to convince him that your union would not be regretted. The young man is just being apprehensive and it is normal.
255538
you need to make a decision...is this person going to marry me and will it last forever. These arent questions that you can hope for but must be 110% certain that both answers are yes. Now this is probably very unlikely. Friends are your family, usually closer than family. You tell more to your friends than you do your family so they must be preserved at all costs. The way this situation has arisen then you must make the choice now and not later as there may be no later. Your friend is feeling betrayed even if you didnt mean it that way. You need to fix things with your friend first and maybe they will give you their blessing which would work well for everyone. If they dont call your new relationship off immediately.
832061
yes it seems as though you are rushing a bit! just because you fooled around doesn't mean you are prepared to get married. and is he saying he wants to marry you to get into your pants? i would wait awhile before you make the commitment, because it sounds like it would be a failed marriage! wait atleast a year!
678557
I agree with just about everyone.  If he hasn't said it, either he doesn't feel it or he is afraid of committing to you.  Either way, if you want a committed relationship you should talk to him about it.  Saying that you love someone doesn't mean that you have to get married!  A year is plenty of time to know how you feel.  If it was something like a matter of weeks or months I'd say cool it and wait, but it has been too long.  He needs to tell you how he feels.
16091
I say leave. A year is not a lifetime, but I think enough time to figure out what you want. He wants to date around and not commit. It seems like you might want more.\n\nIf you stick around, you'll just be a convienance\nand you'll wind up getting more hurt.
662849
There are a lot of factors you have to consider.  Where do you see your relationship with him another year down the road?  Can you go with him?  The other question to be answered before you can make your decision is "Do you love him romantically, or more like loving him because he's become one of your best friends and are way close?"  Good luck, but you have to search your heart and soul.
135856
Tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way.  There is no harm in asking.  I would rather know now...rather than waiting for years to find out.
485660
Tell him how you really feel (be straight faced), and that you need to know if he wants the same things that you do.  If he really truly wants to wait until marriage than you have to respect that!  If you can't wait than you need to leave him or gain some self control!