what do you do when you get tired of being the only one?
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i stopped being the only one. ask for some help it won't hurt you, and don't forget to relax, a little indulgence is not considered a sin you owe it to yourself
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I found that KEEPING YOUR SELF BUSY doing ANYTHING  helped me out alot. That and being around friends and family, cuz itd be the  WORST when i was by myself cuz all i did was think and remember the way things USED to be, or id notice that EVERYTHING reminded me of that person in some stupid way....lol. But just know that things really do take time to get better....and the more time that passes by, the EASIER it gets. GOOD LUCK! :-)
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Get busy with something.\nWrite a novel.\nWork or study harder.\nGet involved with a charity project.\nAnything - but be busy - your problem is not love but an unresolved situation that takes time to get used to.\nThe more you dwell the more maudlin you get.\nBut if you enjoy the maudlin side of life... listen to The Smiths, Morrisey....\n\nAnd if it is any consolation your situation is not uncommon...
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Time for some 'self' time.  Go hang out with your girlfriends, family & meet new people!  The world won't stop revolving, it feels bad now, but it will pass. :)
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Try going alone when you know there's hardly anyone around like early mornings. When you do go, reward yourself with something nice besides food. Work on your postive self-talk. I had the same problems with being self conscious when I'm alone but I went and did it. What helped was having a radio or cd/tape player to distract you from your own self-defeating thoughts.
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I thought i was the only one who felt so. I guess there are some things to keep to yourself, some moments you have to be alone....Better find an e-pal for youself, takes some time, but works out.\ntake care,\nbest wishes
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Do some introspective thinking and find out what *you* want. Let loose and party for hours without caring about a thing. Learn to accept people for who they are and find people who accept you for who you are, not what they expect you to be. Surround yourself with things/people/surroundings that make you feel at peace. Never forget that you only live once, and anything you've been dying to do, or think of spur of the moment, don't let fear stop you, go do it. All in all - live lively.
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When you feel like having one and everyone else is game.
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first ask if there is a problem the next get out and do something invite yourself in a group do anything just get out of that room and quit being a depressed person
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get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
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find things to do at night with a companion [type] of your choice and do things at night that will make too tired to be bothered to "play" all day....get a "partner", get some "porno,start something that you cant quit, get a busy night life, work "HARD" all night,wear yourself out at night\n....get involved in "NIGHT" sports, get a hobby that doesn't make you so self-concerned...start to care about others and don't be so self-centered all focused on sports and "stats", GET A LIFE....
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Get out and meet some new people. Take a class, join a club, try a new hobby, join a gym, etc...\nAnything to help take your mind off your troubles.
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No i'm not as bored as you are. You are standing still get up and move! You need to find places to go to meet new people, like me. You don't anger easily so that is great. Find yourself a new friend and be happy.
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Don't feel self conscious about it. I do it all of the time.Sometimes i prefer to be alone so that i can leave when i want or stay as long as i like.Find a bar where lots of after work people meet .I bet you will see you are not the only one who comes alone.Also I  have met lots of interesting people this way.If it is still uncomfortable maybe you could find a co-worker that would want to stop too.It does not look bad to me when i see someone come in alone.At all.But I do remember feeling the same way you do when i first started stopping by myself.
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Stop looking and start enjoying your life as a single lady.  As soon as you start enjoying your own company, you'll become more enjoyable to someone else.
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find other friends... they are out there... be your "new" self and they will find you
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make sure u contact them from time to time. There are ways, even cheaper ways to do it (email, chatting). And if it is just too much, do not be alone. Spend time with people close to you, the ones who care about you. And also make yourself busy,so that you forget about everything that worries you as well.