me and my exbotfriend broke up because hes still in love with his ex but we still love each other what to do??
138930
This is from a guy, so listen up: NO ONE can love two. No man can serve two masters, as the Bible says. He does not love either of you but is getting all he can from both. Go find a real man, who will treat you like the pricess you are.
800707
He probably still has feelings for his ex if i were you i would just let him go and move and.But  if you really want to be with him tell him to stop talking to her and if he really wants to have something with you he will but if not then youre going to know hes not worth it.I've been in thins kind of situation before it hurts knowing there was someone else in your bf's past, do what you think is best for you.
479643
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.
225773
Just think about this, He's an ex for a reason~!! If your love for him overpowers that reason then go back with him.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
320746
It sounds like you really already know in your heart what you want and what you need to do.So,do it.Life is to short to be unhappy.You truly are in love with your ex,so that is where you need to be.I know it would be hard to tell the other person in your life,but it needs to be done,and it can be done in a nice manner.Like you just are not ready for a relationship with him,and you would not be fibbing,because you are not ready when you have such strong feelings for your ex.Also,this isn't fair for them nor for you all,and in the long run,it would be much harder to end as the more time that goes by.I say go and follow your heart.Good Luck to you!
162277
if you tell him now and he still has feelings for his ex. he could go for you but it will be a rebound experiance and it will not last. if you really are his friend then be that. let him go through the things that he needs to go through to get over his ex.
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.
158118
Never go for someone who is still holding on to an ex. Now, don't get me wrong...there are times when I still think about my ex's, but it doesn't mean I'm still in love with them, but we did share something that's undeniable. I gave them a piece of my heart, and you can't really take that back. So, if he's still in love, you need to give him time to find closure, but if he just thinks about her once in a blue moon, it's okay to go for it, help him get his mind off of her.
657654
Obviously they are not over yet. If you love him, set him free. He needs to be reminded of why she is his ex. Give him some time.\n\nYou will not have trust now. You cannot have love without trust. Love is action. His actions do not show love.\n\nI know people make mistakes, but this sounds like the beginning of a bad relationship. Free him now before it gets out of hand.
469555
It sounds like he still loves his ex and obviously can't take the hint that she wants nothing to do with her. I would say you need to ignore him awhile then try to talk to him again about the ex, if he gets mad then straight out tell him that he either stops with the cards and flowers to the ex or you will be gone, why stay with someone when their heart is with someone else!
17364
The fact he his your ex tells you that it would be in your best intrest not to concern yourself with wheather or not he has moved on and move on yourself. Once you start careing about yourself you'll find someone who will also care about you! Let your ex move on I'm sure it would be for the best.
751020
I am not sure you want to know what you  should  do...because You know you have to move on and you still think about him might break up with his current gf?\nwhy do you want to be the second choice while there are many who can make you feel real love...Just delete and ignore him and try to forget about him..past has passed ..so live in present..you'll find the right one i promise!
179403
I think you should move on he is cheating on you right now with his ex he still in love with her
289773
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.