Why do my relationships never work out?
151753
You probably need to try harder. That's the best I can say without more information.
410547
I am not sure that the signs are the most reliable items which can assess rightfully whether a relationship will work or not. It's the individuality of each person that might make him compatible with you and of course it's also the chemistry between you and him.
91354
No. That's only considering yourself and some (probably temporary) emotions.\n\nAsk anyone who has had a successful relationship (>15 years) and they will tell you there were times when they were not satisfied with each other. When they worked through it and waited it out, they found it was just like a passing storm.\n\nIf you break or injure this relationship it will not get any easier for you. Even with the 'perfect' partner it will be almost unmanageably diffucult at times.\n\nBy bailing out each time it gets difficult you are dooming yourself to a life of constantly moving around and never being satisfied.\n\nThey will also tell you that any relationship requires both to actively work on building the relationship and that in the end it's worth it.
728153
probably gotten to know you and not that its your fault but they don't see anything happening htere no feelings the same as how we feel sometimes you need a couple of dates to be sure and then bam you know this isn't going anywhere so why continue on .\n\nmaybe no chemistry , maybe yoru not a match in some ways there looking for . you just know it you feel it.
378036
Hi!\n\nYou seem to be making up all the reaons you need for it not to work out. have you tried listing the positive side of things? If you cant find any, maybe it's best to be friends. This doesnt mean you have to end your life! If it's meant to be it will, if it isnt... just remember there is porobably someone out there waiting for you.\n\nHang in there! take care. *hugs*
257399
All relationships require work from both ends and if that doesn't exist then they eventually fade away.  It is often better to let them fade away than to be angry over what you can't control.
198212
I think it important to assess how you behave in a new relationship. Are you perhaps a bit too full-on? Are you maybe even trying a bit too hard? I have a friend who is in a similar situation to you. She is a great person with a great personality but she has never managed to have a relationship that lasts more than a couple of months. Guys break it off because like your situation they like her but just feel that she's not compatible with them for a relationship. She's got loads of friends, but no boyfriend. this is because she's so outgoing and full-on. She tries hard to impress and guys just feel like they can't relax and get into a proper relationship. Shes a great laugh and really fun to be around but could they talk to her about problems? Could they share a secret with her? Could they just snuggle up with her and not have to have an exciting conversation? No. Just relax in a relationship. Don't be afraid to be a bit vulnerable and girly. let the guy take the lead a bit. Let him try to impress you. good luck.
74993
You have to give urself time 2 heal...dont jump into another relationship...try to see what went wrong and why u couldnt stop it...then...began 2 grow as a person...and once u have healed then u can began 2 work towards having better..longer and more successful relationships...\n\nGood Luck..SMoOoCHez!!!
867311
Maybe you need to be alone and need that time to find otu what you want and what your looking for.  It may be temporarily uncomfortable but in the end it will pay off.  Being in your first relationship you already saw what you don't want now you need to figure out what you really want and find someone thta fits that criteria.  If things didn't work and you and hima re off an don that much it may be a good sign it's not going to work.  Try bringing it to his attention and see what he says and if he makes the changes, if he doesn't don't waste any more time in the relationship when it's not going to work.
331891
I don't usually answer a question with a question BUT, why don't you go out with her to see how things work out? Some times when you start a relationship you have to let it run it's course if she's not the ONE it'll come out in time. She's rich and willing! That's two points in her favor in my book.
1105335
In all truthfulness. It takes two to make it or break it. You can't blame the other without looking at yourself as well to see where you have went wrong. sometimes that doesn't happen till the relationship is done and over. At least you can look at it as a learning experience. At least you will be better prepared in a new relationship when that time comes. To know how to handle things. Not talking to each other is the main problem in most cases
1051202
Relationships are always tough. I have found that the way to make them last is to not worry about the longevity. If all we did was focus on when something was going to end, why bother starting? At any rate if you have a good thing going cherish it. If something goes wrong with your mate, try and help them as best you can. Remember some of the best things about being in a relationship are not only sharing good times but having someone there for you in the bad. And if the relationship doesn't work, cherish that, you experienced something, which is better than nothing at all.
342826
Well if you can't see it then you are in denial,when you have been in a commited relationship with someone you really want to make it work out,its not easy to come to terms with the reality things are not working out but deep down you always know.The best thing to do is pray about it and take your time before making any lasting decisions.
28851
All relationships are based on values, subjectivity and mutual or shared interests. \n\nThese are conflicting sentiments and their equillibium is very fragile. \n\nThere lies their fragility.
606254
The key to any relationship is communication.  If you can't talk about how you feel then things are not going to get any better.  Be strong, find a moment during your conversation to just say I love you and I am tired of fighting lets figure out a way to get back on track.  Or something like that, you need to talk about it or it will just get worse.
195101
I think that relationships can get boring and predictable after a period of time... so I would suggest throwing in a few curve balls from time to time, catch them off guard and keep them guessing. Keep things interesting. But most importantly... stay faith full and never be afraid to show your feelings.
203018
I think you are setting yourself up for failure by asking this question.\n\nIt will not necessarily fail.  You just have to keep in mind that relationships go through stages.  No two people can be together without eventually finding something that they don't agree on.  \n\nIt's kind of like a roller coaster ride.  Bad times come, and in the beginning you think that it can't get any worse or it will never be the same.  When things work out, and you're up, things should be better than they were before...until you hit another problem and start to fall.\n\nReal relationships take time, compromise, and communication.  If you've got these three things together, then you'll be fine.  Just take your time and make sure you are with someone you can live with forever before you rush into getting married or pregnant.