why does my sister kristin thinks shes the boss of me when im the boss of her?
151475
Well:) my father's policy in such situations (among us siblings) is very interesting....hope u find it applicable & useful\n\nNOBODY IS BOSS OF OTHER. EACH IS INDEPENDENT UNIT......\nHELP EACH OTHER WHEN NEEDED BUT NEVER BULLY CAUSE U R NOT ALLOWED TO:)
725883
The answer is that she is just being personal and that's not being professional. I have seen one of my lady bosses treating several staff that she dislike this way and worst, she can be a totally different person with staff that she LIKES. After a while, all the staff that she don't like left the company and she still thinks she is right. There's only three solutions to the this problem\n1) Leave and find a better environment-you may even have another one of this ppl in yr new workplace-so its realy a matter of luck\n2) Stay and ignore her completely. If you don't have a line of report to her, just do your job and make sure that she cannot find any loopholes that you didn't do your job correctly\n3) Thirdly, try to win her over and get into her good books. It sounds tough but sometimes, we have to take a look at where we have gone wrong and amend our own character. Its not easy and takes alot of you swallowing your pride and giving her the leeway\n\nOther than this, I dunno how to help. I have been working for almost 20 yrs, seen the good and bad of bosses and I'm still learning daily how to handle them\n\nGood luck...
409784
since when did it become YOUR day to worry about me???\nI have PLENTY of things better to do... I just don't want to do them... and last time I checked... I was the Boss of me!!!   Is that OK with you???
424613
b/c she's got a thyroid problem...*sniff* WHY does everyone have to pick on me b/c of my mom???
144704
she probably does not hate u but sum times i think my dad hates me 2 !!! she iz probably under alot of pressure right now that she needs some body to take it out on,so don't b mad if its u!!!!1
894820
This guy sounds like a typical control freak. However, your sister is getting something she needs out of this relationship. If she wasn't...she would have left. The bad news is she sounds like she likes to be controlled...even just a little. It must be hard for your family to sit on the sidelines, and watch your sister go on this crazy roller coaster ride. The decision is hers to make. The only thing you and your family can do is wait for the outcome. \n\n*Do you want me to send Vinny over and take care of him?
1150499
Maybe he is afraid of making his wife jealous.  I had some trouble with my wife when I hired my assistant.  She is pretty and I hired her because she is very intelligent and goal oriented.  All the things my wife needs to work on.  Could be your boss wants to ease her into getting used to you.
772995
she probably is interested in you but does not want to cross the boss/ employee boundry or she is debating whether she should or not. Dunno, sounds like she digs you though.
1040210
Your sister needs a shrink...\n\nShe may be your sister but she acts like your girlfriend
653465
I wonder the same thing. I try not to think about my sister hating me but it is really hard. My sister has caused problems between me & my mother just by doing things like you said: she would pick everything just to hurt you. I have shown my mother proof from my doctor that I am really ill & that I am dying but oh no my sister tells her that I am lying so now my mother refuses to talk to me. She says I made everything up even the letter from my doctor with his signature & the letter was written on letter head paper. Go figure. I made it all up. I wish that I wasn't dying. My sister says that she can't deal with my illness. I passed out one day asked her to take me to the hospital, says she can't deal with me. I don't know why she hates me. and I don't know how to handle it except for focusing on one day at a time. I have my husband and my daughter with me. She even told my husband something that my daughter did at her home, she was grounded for 8 months and then 2 months ago I found out from one of my other sisters that it was all a lie. she wanted to cause problems between my husband & I. She thought he would leave me over it. She has major problems. She has 2 daughters by her 4th husband. but actually the 1st one belongs to his brother but she confided in me not to tell him and I haven't. It has been 7 years and he still does not know. I don't cause her problems why cause me problems. Why can't she just love me? I love her with all my heart. I wish your sister would love you too. Maybe they are having emotional & mental problems and they have focused on us to take it out on so that they can live with it. I wish  you the best of luck in working things out with your sister. I am trying but to no avail.
658117
I have the same problem she thinks that I ignore her around my other firends and then she does the same thing. When I confront her about it, it always ends up to be a fight or she responds with " Your a slut" and I am not. If i were you i would confront her about it or ignore her untill she sees what good of a friend you are to her.
614902
Doesnt work for me \ncause where i work im the boss
480286
Some say that the highest form of flattery is imitation.  If it bothers you that much, do something different such as compliment her on her "unique style" or whatever she has copied from you.  If it is a sister, live w/ it.  If it is a girl that hears about it from a friend or copies what she overhears from you, your friends will know who the real deal is.  Good luck!
137753
Don't blame her, she feels responsible for you... unfortunately she will always look at you as a kid. I'm 26 and i still look at my 22 year old sister as a kid, cause she IS!!
1092677
your sister is obviously very jealouse of you and insecure. she is a total bitch. that is so wrong of her to do that to you. and give me a break, the same damn colors. she has some fucking nerve she is a wedding crasher hore. im pissed. that is so messed up. tell her how you feel bring her to lunch and tell her that this is the most important day for you and anyone . have some respect.
1091262
Just let her rant and rave. I'm sure you're doing an excellent job, so keep it up. Show your boss through your deeds that you are a valuable employee, and you have nothing to worry about. If your boss wants to confide in you, they will. Until then, do your job to the best of your ability and let that womans voice just drift off into the background. Every work place has them....unfortunately.
911369
It sounds like you are unhappy and need a different job.\n\nTHEY are the boss. You are labor.