Should I break up with my boyfriend?
153930
Yes, if you feel trapped then you are telling yourself to experience life. Doesn't mean you don't love him, just that you realize that the world is out there and that you have questions or living to do. There are worlds within our world to explore and you may be intelligent enough, even at early adulthood to realize this. If your love is true, it will be waiting when you are both ready.
522481
To dump or not to dump?\n\nOkay. Take a couple days away from your boyfriend. Try and be as objective as possible. Write down the qualities you like and don't like about your boyfriend. Then write down the qualities you want out of a relationship, in general. Compare the two.\n\nYou'll find out what you feel is lacking in the relationship. Talk to him about it. Tell him your concerns. If he's not willing to work on it with you, then you should move on and find a guy who is.
486750
Just tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings or lie to him by staying with him when you just don't feel the same way for him so it is better to break up. Honesty is always the best answer. It may hurt still, but its better than a lie.
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
75140
Dump your boyfriend.  He obviously doesn't care about you that much, otherwise he'd find the time to at least talk to you.  After you break up, then you can go out with the new guy.
67923
u should break up with him.  ur not happy in the relationship.  tell him u just want to be friends.  it may break his heart, but if he's a true friend, he'll still be ur friend.  it's akways a gamble to get into a relationship with friends btw, u took that gamble and this was ur outcome.  it might setback ur friendship for a few days maybe a week, but u'll see that he'll be a better as a friend and won't annoy u.
948752
Okay; I'm gonna put this plain and simple.\n\nBreak up with your boyfriend, but not to go out with the other guy. Don't go out with either one of them. If you're having thoughts or feelings of attraction for someone other than your companion, you're not ready for a committed relationship. Sure; it's fine to go on dates with both of them occasionally, but don't steady-date either of them for now. Wait until your feelings remain constant for one individual; then if you think it's the right time, see if you can progress that relationship further. That's my opinion. Hope it helped.
982301
you gave me 3 to 4 reason why you should break up with him and not look back 1. he has no respect for you and he don't give a da***  about you cause he don't care 2. what boyfriend would let another man grab his women butt and don't say noting 3. his friend is always trying to talk to you 3. then he calls you on the phone and you tell him and he play dumb 4 .if i was you i would be afraid of him what if his friend wanted to pull a train on you 5. you don't need a friend like that you need to run as fast far as you can away from that jerk unless you like being treated that way good luck
1098842
just a thought...........break up with him.  why cheat.  im sure u wouldnt like it if your boyfriend was cheating on you.  to each his own i guess.
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
776728
have a serious talk and if he still insists then break up with him.\nthere are other guys who can respect your decision.\n\nbesides thing could get ugly if you stay with him. from pushy to abuser. he might do anything just to get it. and i mean anything, if you know what i mean.\n\ntake much care
422149
i think you should break up and concentrate on your studies. i know that its easy for me to say and its hard when you have a lot of emotions, but this guy really doesn't sound like a winner.\nits hard when you're dating someone cos there are a lot of feelings involved, but you should try and keep one eye on your future.  try and think what will happen if you choose this guy and sacrifice your grades..will you be happy with yourself? is there any guarantee that you will stay with this guy forever? will you be happier with better grades/better future? is this the only guy in the world?\n\ni think you should break up with him, if you really can't do that then have a little time off from each other and give yourself the space and freedom to think straight. it sounds to me like this guy is more concerned with impressing his friends than with your feelings. you should find someone who supports and encourages you.
111624
you will eventually dump him. Before this goes on that far and it causes u guys so much emotional harm, break ur relation with him.
837050
You have two choices: you can be mad at both of them and break up with your boyfriend, or you can strip and have a threesome. The choice is yours.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
989153
This is your life.  You are the one who decides whether you stay in a relationship or not.  Still, you might ask yourself what the reasons are "everyone" wants you to dump him.  Does he mistreat you?  If that's the case, then maybe they're right... but you have to be the one to call it quits.  They can't make the decision for you, and they can't do it for you.  Good luck.