why am i not getting married even though iam much better looking than those who have? is there no match for me
144760
Your beggining to sound as if your full of yourself, you need to understand that life has its ups and downs and that not everyone is meant to get married when they want to. It will just happen you will find someone who trully loves you and sees everything that everyone else isnt.
639000
I really need someone who is trustworthy,funny, someone who can help me when everything is bad or good in my life and someone who loves me just like i will love him...with all my soul..!Looks doesn't matter for me...because if u just wait to find a handsome husband or a beautifully wife...you will be looking for many years to find someone with a good heart..
331092
The fact that you have to ask the question hints that you place too much emphasis on looks.  I think we all need to be attracted to the one we love on a certain level but ultimately there are always going to be better looking people.  Just think, she is probably thinking the same about you.  Hopefully some day you will realize that looks are not what makes the person because you can be with the best looking person in the world and all it takes is time or one accident for that to change.
1141191
i can't see the picture very well. but trust me, you ain't ugly! don't worry about your looks. the men i've fallen in love with aren't necessarily good-lookin!
1020917
At this point ...no.  If there is someone better out there for me...why should I be with someone who does not totally satisfy me?  Especially in some cases of women I know who settle for anything...its so sad that they have that low self esteem to take whatever comes there way.  I think I deserve better than that. I definitely would not want to be someone's good enough. I want to be the one, the best they've had.
1165964
actually...being short doesnt not mean youre not attractive...its just that you havent found the right one to love and like you for who you are.....
917883
They always want what they can't have.....human nature. You are more attractive to them once you have left their sorry butts in the dust. Keep moving until you find the one that appreciates you right here and right now.
126978
Not at all. The major thing about finidng someone is that  you have first to find...yourself, as corny as it sounds.\nThe moment you become more aware of your own worth, you start attracting potential candidates. If you are not very much impressed with your looks, there must be something that is special about you. Let it become your assignment to find that something within yourself. If you do find it, be proud of it. Even if you don't feel it, keep reinforcing it for yourself by repeating it mentally before you go to sleep. Repeat that sentence: "I have the right to be proud of..."(insert whatever it is found in yourself). "I am aware of my worth, and others will become too"\nThe more times you do it, the more convincing it becomes, and that will eventually show even in your posture.\nAs for age, one of my uncles married for God knows what time when he was 65. You are still young enough and there are many bachelors out there who are looking for the right woman. Why not you?\nGood Luck.
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
333388
You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
522979
If u still not yet marry,get marry first.From there you will know much better because the factors that influence self-concept are differ among us.
345975
hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
1038938
Don't know why that seems to be the case, but it is.  There are more immature, insecure young women in this world with self-esteem problems than those who are not.  But you probably have much higher standards than that anyway and you may have been saved from a fate worse than death.\n\nMany desirable women are looking for someone just like you to come along -- trust me on this.  Just keep livinig!
909009
Last time I checked, ugly and gorgeous alike are virgins at one time.\nWhy are you asking such an absurd question?  You won't get very far with women with that kind of attitude, nor will you get very far in life with your spelling/communication skills.  This site even provides you with spell check.  \nPoint and click.
851553
Looks do matter. Lots of people will say they don't to sound "PC," but lets face it, you want to be attracted to your partner - everybody does. I think the difference lies in preference - everyone has their different definition of "attractive," so you just need to find a match. Don't give up, it will happen.\n\nI've been "looking for love" online as well, and I get my rejections, but I also get those who really like what they see. You just need to roll with the punches until the right one comes along. If you believe in fate, just take all the rejections as the lead-up to something wonderful.\n\nWhen that special person finds you and makes you feel beautiful, you will be grateful that you waited for him to find you. :-)\n\nBest of luck!
359187
It is possible that you are not satisfied with wht you are doing.. YOu are not satisfied with your life style. Obviously, you do not have a high esteem.. Are you attempting to compare yourself with others who you think are perfect or near so?
486927
Sure.. lol \nI just want some one who is faithful.. not drop dead sexy so I have to worry about other chicks, loves me for who I am not what I do (job) or look like, Can stick up for himself in front of people but will show affection to me at anytime any place. Plain and simple.. oh wait!! Ive already found mine! lol getting married on June 10th!!