i am loving a girl very much i cant live without her she also likes me but she has some problems with parents?
153103
Forget the hyperbole about "can't live without her."  You really mean "don't want to," and that's different.  So what are the problems with her parents?  If they do not like you, or do not approve of you, can you find out the reasons, and try to reassure them that you are a good guy, and worthy of their daughter?  Or does she have trouble between her and her parents, and you fear being stuck in the middle?  Perhaps all that is needed here is time:  time for both of you to mature, time for her parents to get to know you and get used to the idea of the two of you being together, etc.  If there really is little reason to hope, then she may have to make a choice between you and her parents, and that's a very hard one to make.  Try not to pressure her.  Be patient and sweet.
1089625
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
662265
I don't know how old you are, but obviously pretty young. \nI'll tell you that you should respect what her parents say. This gets you in good with them. They maybe worried that you are trying to give her stuff to feel obligated to do sexual things with her. In which case, that's too serious for your age and mom and dad know that. Okay, so your intentions were good, and not trying to buy sex, but trying to show her how much she means to you. Girls don't know this. They are too young to understand any of that. She confided in you about her deep feelings, feel honored, most girls don't feel that comfortable around any guy. If you want to tell her that you miss the times you had with her, that is okay, that lets her know that you really care about her still, but you understand that you both aren't ready for something that serious. She will then always remember that you are a wonderful boy, and her parents will always remember you were respectful. Wait until she and you are old enough to date seriously, who knows what the future holds. Remember to get good grades and go to college so you can get a good job; no girl (or woman) likes a stupid, broke man. Keep being you.
592083
maybe you are just confuse with your fellings.  try to talk to her and see what you girls have in common and you know try talking to her about your feeling and you know if there is trust than there is love ok if you haveany more question tht i ca help you with send me an email to azucena_vll@yahoo.com bye hope i help you
488727
First learn English.\nSecond, if you love her that much then you would understand that sometimes it's better for you and that person to let go. You are young!!! live your life, go to college,get a good job, ask her to marry you when your stable and not living with your parents,and when it's not ILLEGAL!!!!!!\nBest of luck!!!!
1081605
You are absolutely right. You have been very considerate to your parents, which shows your family culture. There is no hurry for marriage, now. Maintain good relationship with her and rightly no co-habitation till formal marriage. But tell your parents that if they want to see you married you would marry only her and none else. After all they are your parents, they will not like to stand on the way beyond a certain point. All the best.  God's delays are not God's denials. Patience is genius.
948302
In my opinion anywhere above twenty years is too much of an age difference. I have no doubt in my mind at all that you and your girl will live a happy life together forever. As long as you are both treating each other with respect and courtesy then you should be just fine. Loving her is part of it but you also have to show her that you love her. Maybe you should renew your vows if you're married (hope you know what that means), or plan a surprise trip to a country she has always wanted to visit. I know that might sound like a hassle and quite a chunk of dough out of your pocket but from your description it sounds like it might be the only thing that will work... good luck in resolving this conflict, i will keep you and your girlfriend in my thoughts and prayers
287517
I used to be that teenager. Even though it sometimes gets awkward between the two of you the thing she loves is just being with you. Deep down your love and time is sufficient enough. Sometimes she just wants you and not what you can buy or where u can take her. Simple is good.
918398
well you could talk to your family and explain that you really love her. if they still don't like her and if you are dead sure that she loves you and that she can break her engagement without any problem, then i guess you should stay with her. because it is YOU who will love her and  not your family. and if you can persuade them that you will be happy with her then they should be tolerant and accept the situation. i could also tell you to face your family and fight for your love like they do in movies but this is unrealistic. i have faced a more or less similar situation some years back. i was in love with a boy. he is hindou and i am christian and my parents disliked him. i love my parents very much and i didn't want to hurt them and see them sad. so i broke up. but this was my choice. today i'm still alive and waiting for the perfect guy if ever he exist at all. i dn't know if i have regrets. what i mean is that the choice is yours and no one else's!
1062034
I definitely think you should try, no matter how well you feel around her.  She is still your family, even though you are not blood related.  I'm sure your father would be very happy if you could connect with her.  Respect to parents and family no matter how close you are is a very important thing in life, well it definitely is in my culture.
756142
If you really care for her stick by her. May be she is having a hard time dealing with her sexuality. It sounds like she is into you. She told her parents.Just give her time.
380683
Her life is not any of your concern.  Its her life and she deserves the right to make her own mistakes.  Who knows, this really could be love between them and he may change is leaving ways just to be with her.  Focus on your life and not hers.  If you interfere with her relationship she will only grow to hate you and you will never have another chance with her.
863106
Yikes! that sounds like a lot to deal with.. but if your gf loves you she'll help her family understand.. Just continue your relationship as you have in the past. As long as youre not abusing your gf her family will have no real reason to dislike you. If the love is there and strong enough you two will get through this.. just dont get mad at your gf for her mother.. she didnt get to choose her parents... Its too bad her mom doesnt see that you two love eachother! \n\nPS.. Kudos to you for surviving a long distance relationship. if you can survive that you can survive a mother
1019813
This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.
603486
If your parents would never let you have anything to do with her, then why would you want to call her. You would only raise her hopes up, only to be let down. If you ARE going to take her back without your parents consent then yes, call her and tell her that you still love her.
890478
Does she love you back? If so, try going together to talk to each set of parents. Maybe one or the other will agree, and help convince the other set of parents. \n\nIf neither accepts it, maybe you will just have to wait until you are old enough and do what you want then. Good luck :)
203399
How old are you? If you're old enough to make decisions about your life, then this one has to be your decision, too.\n\nParents have a habit of not thinking anyone is good enough for their little girl, and there's a good chance you'll never meet anyone that meets up to their expectations - or if you do, he won't be right for you and you are the one that has to put up with him, right?\n\nAs long as a guy is good to you and not abusive or doing anything illegal, then your parents - as difficult as it may be - will just simply have to accept whoever you decide to love because it is your life, not theirs.