Do you think parents have the right to dictate their child's career choices?
139063
They can suggest career options that are good for you, but really, it's your job and your future so you should do something that you will want to do and that you will enjoy.\n\nSo, in answer to your question, no--they shouldn't dictate their child's career choices.
17131
No. Parents enter their kids in these things for themselves. When you throw your child into a competition based on looks, what are you teaching them?\nI was at a kids acting audition recently, and some of the parents were downright embarrassing. You could tell a lot of the kids didn't want to be there and the parents were living through them....expecting the glory. It's sad and too much pressure for a child. How about we focus on them being competative with their grades at school instead of trying to be prettier than the next girl?\nOn the other hand, there are some pageants that don't exploit the kids and actually encourage good scholarship, so I can't speak for all.
180797
No there are some things that the parents should take responsibility for. Second it might be somewhat OK but I don't want people teaching my kids wrong morals. I think it's sad that parent can't sit down and talk to their kids. I don't want it cheapened by someone who doesn't have the same morals as me or the same beliefs.  Everything is being tainted now adays. They really need to stick with the education that will help them with college and getting the skills they need to go forward. There are also too many groups who would want to put there two cents in and I don't agree. You would have the heterosexual theme then the gay theme and everyone would want equal time given to their preferences. Lets stick to the basics of Reading Writting and arithmetic.
532195
What in gods name is this?  Your career is based on your education, your desires, your talents and your interest, not on what your mom and dad desided to call you in the middle of the night one night.  Don't look so hard for things to worry about ok.
360331
To get the hell away from their parents who controll them and tell them what to do every day.. As for me I do not allow my children to be envolved with it.. Instead i pay for their college and dreams for the future..\n\nI have one Girl and one Boy.. Sorry YOu can not have my kids.\n\nAs for the rest.. My Cousens Daughter is inrolled doing great.. it will give her a great future if she can with stand the wars.. we help other countrys fight..\nMy Nephew is in it..\nMy ex husbands Nephew is in it..\nMy father was in it.\nHis father was in it..\nso i am not errigont about it.. I just did not want it for my kids.. I saw the pain and heart ack my parents went through ..
796988
Yes, I think so.  \nIt is a basic function of being prepared to be a citizen and a productive member of society.  Of course, it would be nice if parents taught this at home but you can't count on that.  While the responsibilities of individual jobs must be learned there, there are common basics that everyone could learn.
440459
i think that is only being responsible as a parent.  i don't see where there is any problem. if the school has a problem with this i would ask them why and what guidelines if any they have for this situation.first and foremost the wishes of the child and parent should come first.
193697
That is something that should not be done. There are to many rules and laws taking peoples freedoms away already. It should strictly be something decided within each home between the youths and their parents. You have to take into consideration the maturity level of the youth and also the relationship between parent and youth. I think that there are youths out there that shouldn't be but.... they ultimately will have to pay the consciences of their actions. If they are good then great if they abuse the laws then they will be held accountable. Half the problems now adays is because kids don't have to learn responsibilities like they use to. They can't get jobs anymore until their older and so they aren't learning how to be productive citizens. Parents need to have some say and rights given back. There has to be a line drawn somewhere.
114196
I think all parents early on should have a plan as to what their goals are as parents. In my opinion the two best things I can provide my children is good health and a good education. It kills me when people just expect the government to provide these things for them. What greater gift can you give a kid than at 18 to have options? \n\nI homeschool but I do not recommend that all people should. It works for us. I know lots of kids who have gotten an amazing education through public schools from teachers who loved their jobs and genuinely cared about the kids. The main difference in that the parents took an active role in their upbringing and provided a lot of supervision and support. It is not a teacher’s job to educate your child. They have them for 9 months and then pass them on. You are the consistent force in their education. \n\nI personally went to private school and received an amazing education. I felt like I had to reprogram some of my beliefs after high school. I totally had a superiority complex that I was smarter then public schooled kids. What a shocker when I got to college. I think it was partially my parents influence. I see this problem with homeschool kids as well. If you shelter kids to where they are always in the same peer group, you are doing your kids a great disservice. What happens when they are competing in the job market with people who are different then them? For that reason, I keep my kids involved in lots of different social groups. I heavily monitor them so I remain the number one force in their belief system. \n\nI don’t think the question in my mind is if homeschooling is better. I have seen kids that have gotten a lousy education because their parents never should have attempted homeschooling. I think the main issue is what influence a parent is in a child’s life. We should always put what is best for the kid in front of our motives. If I can maintain a relationship with my kids that they respect me so much they will do their best not to disappoint me then I have succeeded. If my kids feel I am the one they should turn to no matter how bad of situation they are in then I have succeeded.
1132873
You're right.  I think parents should definitely EXPECT good grades.  But I don't know that rewarding them is such a good idea.  You don't go around giving your kids money for being polite to your dinner guests, or behaving well at the grocery store.
1081483
Probably.  But what is wrong with that?\n\nAren't parents limiting their child's freedom by:\n\n1)  Telling them stealing is bad\n2)  Teaching them to share\n3)  Teaching them not to lie  etc...\n\nUltimately, it is the parent's right to mold their childrens opinions and behaviors unless it is abusive and harmful.\n\nBy the way, the freedom of religion that we enjoy is freedom from the government abridging religion, not freedom from brainwashing, proseltyzing, lecturing, etc... by individuals and private parties.
830567
This is a good question on an even better topic.  It is very important to make your wishes known as to what you would prefer should you ever be in a position where you are unable to make those decisions.  I make sure my parents know I do not want to be on life support.  This is a very smart thing to do, and highly recommended.
11786
I would also have to answer that it depends on the parent’s perspective.\n\nIf the parent actually and truly enjoys spending time and teaching the child, then yes.\n\nIf the parent is creative, patient and understanding, then yes. \n\nIf the parent knows his or her own limitations (when to teach, when to hire a tutor), then yes.  \n\nIf a parent is looking out for the best interest of the child instead of trying to satisfy a martyr syndrome, then yes.\n\nIf a parent recognizes that a child is not thriving in school, and wants the best for THAT child and not the best for the system at the cost of THAT child, then yes.\n\nIn my case, homeschooling is a preferred method of education. You see I have two children who were both in public school.  One was advanced and was not allowed to advance at his own speed.  Homeschooling remedied that problem.  The second was suspected to have ADHD and we were constantly being pushed to test and medicate.  Homeschooling also remedied that problem.  The child is still very active, but it turns out her learning was tied to that constant moving.  While being allowed to jump up and down in front of the computer, this child completed 2 years curriculum in 1 year, and is moving ahead at the same speed as her brother.\n\nTherefore, if a parent is willing to make personal sacrifices, which include putting off a career, driving children all over town to have activities with other homeschoolers, and shell out a bit of money here and there for superior instruction, then I highly recommend homeschooling.
54613
After raising a child to the place where they have earned their independance of being capable of making good decisions( theres going to be mistakes and poor choices ), but all of that is a part of growing up.When you are making your on money and not depending on extra help from them, then it's time for them to stop and make only suggestions, rather you take it or not.
1162202
I want what my kids want. Doesn't matter to me one bit. It's gonna be THEIR job for LIFE not MINE!!!\n\nDaughter always wanted to be a Kindergarten School Teacher but now has changed it.\nSon wants to do something in the Science/Technology Field. \nSon always wanted to be either Firefighter or Police Officer.
767363
OK, I had some trouble understanding your question...But if you're trying to decide your future plans (work, marriage, ect) your parents feelings are important but it has to be what you want. You need to enjoy your job, so it has to be something you really want to do. If you enjoy pharmacology, then great. Just think all the way through your decisions.
807444
A big yes! They should comply with the guide lines that they can offer a stable home, personal references and the desire to raise a child. What difference does it make if they are of the same sex. \n\nI know several people who grew up with gay parents & none of them are gay. There are to many children who need homes. If someone is loving enough and able to care for them, why not let them.