this girl wants to fight me and every one is telling me to back down should i back down?
144637
Fighting will only lead to more seriuos problems. Let's say you "WIN" (no one wins at love, war, fights) and you beat the hell out of this person. The police WILL be paying you a visit and that's if your lucky. If your not lucky then some whack job friend of the person whom you just beat down, burns your family's house to the ground killing everyone.\n\nJust walk away and steer clear of these idiots
997497
ok, if you guys fought, never ever call her too soon.  It shows that you're desperate or lonely, either which will feed her need to dangle you along and make you squirm in agony about her for as long as she can.\n\nbelieve me, women are evil, and will exploit any oppertunity they see in you.  Hang tough and ingnore her until she gives in and breaks communication silence.  it will be worth it, she will give in believe me, they always do.  Girls are more emotional than you, and they always give.  Hang tough and the spoils of war shall be YOURS!  Good luck my brother.
495802
You need to back off. You are not ready for anyone. Tell your girlfriend that you want to play the field and are not ready to be dedicated to just one person at this time of your life. It is not fair to anyone to keep up this charade.
787712
Sounds like she is trying to pick a fight with you.
762273
well i was bullid once im in 8th grade and what i did was when the girl made fun of me i ended up hitting her in the face i broke her nose and really messed her up. But i will proudly admit i whent about it all the wrong way. What you should do is just forget about what the person is saying. if she/he is making fun of you there scared of you or see you as some sorce of power so they will do what ever they can to keep you down and make you think your not a strong person. its all part of there plan and when they see your not botherd with it and you just forget about them they loose the power they have over you. dont let the person get the best of you and do what i did. your much stronger that they think you are you just need to show that to them. i hope everything goes good for you.   :) good luck.
293373
Just give her the cold shoulder for a while or don't talk to her because if she is doing this to you she is not really your friend she is just a backstabber.But I would just give her the cold shoulder for a lil bit and see what happens.
558409
She is not your friend if she keeps on getting mad at you for no reason at all. You should talk to her about that. Misery loves company and this is not something you should even have to put up with. Find new friends and don't sweat the small stuff.
1038117
Good grief, just tell her you don't like her. You have to understand, there's no law that says you have to like everyone. You don't have to put her down, but flat out tell her, you don't want to hang out with her anymore.  Because as time goes on you won't do anything and you'll wind up hating her.
548159
yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
735926
Drama.  Tell her to back off and go for it or do nothing.  Flip a coin if you need to.
642500
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
689915
Honey you keep tryin until you get what you want became i have the same problem you have.it depends on how much you love her. if deep down you know she is the one you want to be with forever then baby I'm on your side don't give up until you get what you want cause believe me when i say if you fight hard enough then you will win her back. GOOD LUCK!
36324
I think that either she is jelous, worried that you will fail, or if she's a friend she may just not want to loose you. If she's not a friend she may  just not like you and wants to irritate you in any way...if this is the case ignore her. If you play her game she'll only get worse.
484200
watch your back.\ndon't make a fight unless she does.
211695
She sounds immature.  This is called "playing games."  If you want to stoop to her level- tell her you're hanging out with a girl tonight.
558683
dump her, no just kidding, confront her and ask her why she's doing it tell her how much it hurts you, and if she dont listen, dump her, its not worth holding on to someone who wants to run wild, and hurting yourself, you can do better