how do you REBUILD a relationship ??
143503
We always want what we do not have.  If this girl is really interested in someone else, you need to get on with your own life.  There are many people in this world that are right for us.  Let yourself be open and look for them and stop punishing yourself over this one.
1079112
Start from the beginning from when you first started dating. Go back to the place you met. Revisit old past times together. Start doing the things you used to do before your life became busy. \n\nDon't forget to look back and find out what that person really means to you. Spice things up a little, do something that you would not ordinarily do. You may have become to predictable with your day in and day out routine. Do some new things.\n\nPray about it as well. It'll work, you have nothing to worry about.
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
445077
just think about the times when you first started the relationship. reminisce and remember why you fell in love the first time. don't take each other for granted. there are TONS of things that you guys love about each other but just forgot. have a fun evening somewhere nice. don't talk about work. don't talk about problems. just laugh by remembering all the funny stupid things you guys used to do. Good luck. let me know how things work out.
635876
That's a real tough one. And millions of others have been through the same thing. I am not going to lie to you and say it'll be easy, especially since you work with him. It's a process that you have to go through taking one day at a time. I think it's a pretty sure bet that if you got back together that the same thing would happen again.You may love him but he has to find his way back to you if and when he realizes that it's you he really wants to be with. So as hard as it is, let him work things out for himself. If you have close friends or relatives spend some time with them and if you have interests then try to keep yourself busy without over doing it. It's hard, but I think a person has to learn to try to relax as much as possible in a situation and not allow depression to creep in and get a grip. Don't let obsessive thinking get the better of you. In a sense it is an opportunity for you to learn to enjoy just being alive and being your own person. Some men and women keep making the same mistake bcause they either let someone back when it's not wise because they love them and are lonely, or they get involved with someone new, too soon, and the cycle repeats itself. Like I said, don't fixate on it, but try to enjoy each day as much as you can. You will have down times, but over time you can and will recover and you may discover a brand new life for yourself. So allow yourself to grieve a little but let yourself have hope for your future too.
132161
The heart is a funny thing. It is only mended through time. There is no other way to make heal it, unfortunately. The one thing you CAN do however, is keep remembering WHY you are no longer together and reinforce those ideas. Now that you have a single life, you need to get out and do the things that you haven't been able to do for a while. Whatever you used to find pleasure in, but just couldn't find the time. Bowling, pool, hiking, camping, etc.. those are good distracters to help you along with the tenderness.. That's how I got over my relationship turmoil, and I hope this truly helps you in your journeys..
3293
start talking even if it is VERY broken.\nI came through that successfully.\n\nof course, you need somebody who will listen in the very beginning stage and will enjoy listening.\n\nhave fun.
970335
a)  get a hot new gf, even if your not like that, itll make you feel better\nb) punch the guy out in front of the whole school.  you might get punished, but itll be worth it\n\nAbove all, dont hold on to hope that you might get back together with the girl.  Life is too short, and reunited couples rarely happen.
56657
If the relationship is important enough, and you're sure you want to try to fix it...try to fix it. Send an email...leave a voicemail message...send them a letter...above all- keep trying. :)
631473
start a new one with someone else.\n\nseriously!\n\nonce the trust is broken u can never fully regain it. u will always be wondering!
400257
get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.
449847
Make sure his relationship is actually over.  Give yourself time to heal, and don't push yourself.  Some days will be harder than others.  Just do your best not to keep throwing it in his face.  It will be tempting, but counterproductive.  Good luck.
849413
trust is the basis of any relationship! if that trust is broken, it can be rebuilt, but at what cost? is the price worth it? that's my question for you?\n\nmy guess is that you broke that trust?
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
1105335
In all truthfulness. It takes two to make it or break it. You can't blame the other without looking at yourself as well to see where you have went wrong. sometimes that doesn't happen till the relationship is done and over. At least you can look at it as a learning experience. At least you will be better prepared in a new relationship when that time comes. To know how to handle things. Not talking to each other is the main problem in most cases
895097
The key to every realationship is to talk...talk....talk....talk. You can't fix your spouse, only yourself.  Look at the part you played in this misunderstanding, and then appologize.  Don't yell or call names.  Don't should on your spouse.  (you should have said this you should have said that)  \n\nblessings
186859
Very high. Everyone gets a second chance. Just learn from your past relationships.Remember the bad, but do them your self.Remember the good and apply them to your new relationships.Good luck.