when a guy likes a gurl does he like her to give him space or ask him about commitment?
153238
It all depends on the guy. Does he seem like he is open to discussing things like that? If you aren't sure, maybe ask him a question that's similar but not as serious and see how he responds. It is definately your right to ask about commitment, but he may not be exactly happy about talking. It depends on what kind of relationship you two currently have and what kind of person he is...
293142
Well, it depends upon the situation.  \n\nIf you see him everyday and from time to time you get into fights but make up.  It would be in that case where he's interested in you but needs some space to sort things out.  Now, you have to make sure that he's been attentive and giving a good effort into the relationship.  A guy that completely gives up and does not try to make amends is not worth the wait because the problems that arise from a lack of communication can be detrimental to your happiness in the future.  You do not want to wonder where he stands in the relationship in the future as you are together.  You do not want to have a relationship where you're guessing and answering for him about where he stands on things.  He should be able to do that.  He has a mouth, he should be able to communicate.\n\nIf you are in the relationship where he simply out the blue just says that without provocation, it means that he found a fling and he wants you on the backburner for a little bit of time.  It wasn't your fault.  You've been doing what you do.  You shouldn't change but you also should not accept that because he's using you.  He's counting on you to wait for him so when things go bad with that fling, you'll be there to catch him.\n\nAlso, be weary of the man who does this and does not call.  That means he's getting some fling to fulfill his needs.  My brother went through the same experience with his wife (back then she was his gf).  He kept in touch with her.  He kept talking and trying to sort things out with her.  He didn't completely dissapear.  He simply needed space because she became a bit too overbearing.\n\nWhen a man is serious about a relationship, when he asks for space he will keep you at arms length.  This means that he will still talk to you and try to fix things, but he won't jump in as if you were together.  When time comes, he'll fully rejoin you.  If your man does not put the effort of trying to sort things out, or just simply dissapears, forget about him.  He's going to be doing something else with someone else.  It's not worth it if he's not going to make any effort into trying to gain a common understanding that you both could live with.
506651
that really is up to him only he knows how he really feels about this girl.\n\nor he probably wants to know if you approve and that could mean something else.
978048
most guys are afraid of commitment like myself..if you initiate contact i guarentee he will talk to you..just go over to him and sit beside him ask him something as simple as "what are we doing this weekend?" you got to let the comfort roll in you can't force it.just show him you like him and if he doesn't have the confidence to speak to you as a bf i'm sorry but maybe you were better off friends.
179664
Ask him out.  He'll either tell you that he's seeing this other girl, or he'll say that you're not his type but would still like to be your friend.  I hate being simplistic for such a difficult subject, but as the woman, you have the easier end of whatever young relationship you encounter.  If you say you like a guy, the guy is more than likely apt to jump out of his skull in amazement.
314342
For some reason, now or days, guys normally wait for the girl to ask. I guess so they don't feel guilty either way for the fact that if the girl doesn't really want to then he'll obviously know and not look like a fool in front of his friends. Guys are competitive therefore feel that they can't put themselves out there on the line to be smacked back into place. You should ask him even though we both know that he should be asking you. Understand and he'll think that you are a wonderful girl for that. Hope I shed some light.
1070552
i say he loves and respects you and is trying to learn from his mistakes - before he leaped too quickly and it ended badly. I usually tell guys to wait until she is ready but I have to switch this time and say hey wait until he is ready. relationships are hard enough all by themselves without added pressure. sounds like a keeper to me. Be happy
735135
Contemporary male wisdom is to "keep her wanting more". Hopefully, he is just trying to get you more interested in him by keeping his distance. Is it working?\n\nIf it is much longer than a week, I would probably try to contact him. If you get no response, you should probably move on.
806046
If he cares about you then nothing will seem that strong.  Usually though if guys want to make a commitment, they will be the one to tell you.  Your happiness is on the line.  If he is ready to commit, then he will. If he isn't ready then he won't and then you can make your decision as what to do, whether to move on or stick it out.
728389
What happens when you don't suggest hanging out? Believe me, if a guy wants to be with a girl, nothing is going to get in his way: not war, flood, poverty and certainly not pride. Back off a bit and give him space. If he doesn't call you - find someone new who will.
656283
That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
211784
No, not many guys do. I can see that you like this guy too but you want to give yourself some time and space. I think you should tell him about it but in a softer way and see how he responds to it. I believe he should understand. But if he doesn’t, then forget it he’s not worth it.
568888
well friendships between a guy n a girl mostly end up in a relationship. one way or the other. you wanna know if he likes you then ask him. n if you want to ask him out then do it. it wouldn't affect your friendship.
118925
Guys are born to be straight forward and biologically we should let girls know directly when we want to be with them... although we like challenges too, our attraction is more physically driven... girls like the feeling of reaching to tame a rouge man and therefore the fact that this guy is indiferent increases your attraction even more.  Somehow the balence of power in your relationship has tipped in his favor... the more you confess your feelings for him the more he has you in the palm of his hand... give him space.  I figure he is playing games and dont encourage these but find them necessary to create attraction.
938407
Really hard to say. A lot depends on what's up with his girlfriend. Was she at the Dance? Did they break up? Did they show up with separate dates? Did they Dance together? it really depends on all that. You probably missed a great opportunity, you should have asked him for a dance that nite.  You should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and go from there.
532061
It depends on the individual. When my last girl first told me she loved me, I was suprised because we had only been going out two weeks. I thought it was beutiful personally and then had no problem telling her the same.\n\nIf I were you though, I tried and work out if your guy is the sort who will appreciate it. Some guys love to hear their girl say it. Some think it's the sign that they want more commitment and back off. Be careful, don't hurt yourself by jumping in too soon though.