I was dumped 3 days ago by someone i lv and my friends want to introduce me to someone new, shall i go for it?
149349
I too was in a relationship with someone of a different ethnicity, who also happened to be 18 years my senior, and after 3 and a half years, I broke it off not too long ago actually.  It is never easy to deal with a breakup, but you must find the strength to move foward.  I think we need to take time to heal and jumping right into another relationship isn't the answer.  However, going out with friends and maybe even meeting the guy your friends are encouraging you to meet may not be such a bad idea.  Just don't move to fast too soon, and make decisions for all the wrong reasons.  Things happen for a reason and not every person that we are with is the person that is our life partner, you don't want someone in your life that you can't trust, nor do you want a cheater.  So wish him luck and say good riddance to bad rubbish.
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
393493
Don't do it! you are just heading for more heartbreak and will end up making yourself feel stupid and desperate.Is it really worth it? Let him go and find another fish in the sea.xxx
691651
wow.. im not the emotional sort, but i heard you crying while you wrote this! i feel for you, we all been there, you gotta CHANGE your out look and overview! it's over, he's cheated it wont get better, it cant, it will be tough, but you will get by it, find out your old girlfriends get back in touch with them, and start again.  company will help you through, and help you meet other people, dont give up look forward to the change ok?....ok?
492302
Wow! All that happened in a week? It sounds like he's just as confused as you are. Most people don't hang out with somebody they just dumped. How can you be cheating on somebody that you don't have a relationship with? I think you need to wait a week or two to see how it goes. It sounds like the first few steps toward a friendship. It doesn't go easy when both parties are insecure. Just remember as the girl you are the prize he has to win over not the other way around.
635342
2 weeks isn't a long time to really say you were in a relationship so it wouldn't be that bad if you talked to the other guy. Especially if he broke up with you. Now if you broke up with him,then you would be considered a whore for breaking up with him for his friend. Not in my opinion but society's opinion. If it were me though girl, I would leave both of them alone because you might reck their friendship.\n\nGood luck
465214
It depends on who broke up with who but you could contact him, but just don't sound too desperate. Just act friendly, ask how he's doing and maybe you two can hang out at some point. Then let him make the next move.
32377
Well, from experience all you can do is go with your heart...if it wasn't a bad break-up...and he treats you well then go for it. If the new guy really is amazing and your curious to get to know him..I say "Don't put all your eggs in one basket!!"
431750
i have friends in my life that are going through the same situation, but i think that the best way to move on is to set things straight with him/her and w/ the new girl or boy. then you should try and not hang around as much and just try and become interested in another person
354099
You really don't have much choice. He broke up with you, so now it is time to move on with your life. Don't see this as a negative thing, instead see it as the chance to develop new relationships. You sound young, so this probably wasn't the right one for you anyway. Love and respect yourself and know that you deserve better. Don't rush into a new relationship right away, because we usually make the wrong choice on the rebound. Enjoy being free and wait for that special guy to come along. He will be worth waiting for! Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
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option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
264852
move away without saying a word. Maybe even a bring a girl over and say, "meet your replacement". Maybe not that one. \nHow about just tell the girl it is time to move on-see other people.
757070
Stay busy - with friends, maybe meet someone new?  Good luck.
1017312
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
401244
Make friends first. Trust me if I had a random guy that I have said hi to once or twice, I wouldn't be likly to say yes as I would if I had known him. But since your on a time crunch take a week. Good Luck!
1041591
You need rebound sex. Go out and meet someone new.
526306
break it off and find someone new