What is the best way to meet a decent man to spend time with?
152651
try the internet. local church groups can also be good.
1170281
Hi, well a good way to meet people is have a friend who really knows you set you up with someone who you'll go out with.
26876
The internet dating sites can be a good place but be careful. Always talk on the phone first after email is exchnged (preferably his #) and meet for the first several times in a public place. Starbucks or similar is great for a first meeting.
358874
I've met a few people on internet dating sites, as long as they are fairly local you can arrange to meet or talk on the phone. I've also joined local groups and taking up hobbies like climbing and swimming.\nI've heard of people meeting up in supermarkets and at bus stops, and of course at work or college.\nGet out there, and don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself now and then.\nGood luck
509326
Look in the places where you enjoy going most.  If you like to workout, check out the gym.  if you like the beach, find someone there.  \n\nMy point, chances are you'll find someone who is compatible with similar interests rather than lusty bar flies.\n\nGood Luck!
791399
just go out and meet another guy
1131145
Finding a decent guy isn't that easy. I'm speaking from experience here. I'm 25 and in less than a year will finally be finished with my Ph.D., and have found that most guys are untrustworthy. But I do know that there are a very few decent ones out there. Maybe try looking in different places, like museums, church, the theater, etc. If you ever want to chat about this or anything else feel free to drop me a line
474924
There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
517839
You can try online dating, just be patient.  I would suggest you try pre-dating (predating.com) or 8 minute dating (8minutedates.com).  That's always a fun way to meet people.  \n\nThere are always single groups on meetup.com that you can join as well. Good Luck
123830
there is no secret place to meet someone. it can happen anywhere at any time in any circumstance. You have to put your best foot forward at any given moment and behave like that person of your dreams is around the corner. Take extra time in the things that you do and look around.Start calling in favors with friends and get set up on the infamous blind date as painful as it sounds. Join a gym, play bingo, get out there and hunt like your ancient ancestors did.
1082265
try plentyoffish.com its free and a good site for meeting people
133614
I agree with the whole enjoy your life deal.. but I have to also say the best way to meet guys is RANDOMLY.. when a real man sees you living your life and enjoying yourself without having to have a man by your side you will draw the good men to you with your own self-confidence.. and it's not true that there are no good men out there.. don't fall for that crap.. the problem is that theres a lot less men than women.. so the percentage are even.. which means theres a lot more "scarlett women" who taint men too.. kinda makes me wonder..
321663
Go out with friends and just have fun.  Don't approach the situation "looking" to meet a guy.  If you are just being yourself with friends, the guys will approach.
917867
My best advise is this... make your own choices and build your life. You can't plan for a man to come into your life, and when he does it will probably upset your apple cart a bit... that  is what love does. To meet a nice, good, and strong, man you should try looking in quieter places and not night spots. Bookstores, libraries, coffee houses... those are good places to just relax and attract a few fellas. Good luck!
146818
First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
205509
It depends on the type of guys your dating.  There are some decent guys out there.  Make sure he is family oriented.
1073726
Go out with a bunch of people the first time that you meet him. NOT ALONE! You have to get to know him before you are alone with him.\nWhen you know you are safe, then be alone.