how do u ask someone ur seeing about another woman who is calling him all the time?
139910
If you really want to know just come right out and ask him. I don't know how involved you are with this person, but he really should not have a problem with you wanting to know. I do find it rather rude, inconsiderate, and unfeeling of him letting another woman take his time while he is with you.
727289
You're right - he only calls you when he's run out of other women to call.  Move on.  Don't answer his calls and especially don't meet with him.  You can get closure on your own, without him, and meet a guy who will answer your questions and make you feel like much more than the bottom of the list.  Good Luck!
1165176
if he comes over and smells of perfume that you don't have - there's a clue.\n\nif he doesn't call you as often as before...\n\nhe calls out another woman's  name when he meant to call you.
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
627761
That depends on why you are checking them out.\n\nIs it to get a boyfriend/girlfriend jealous - dumb reason, but then make it obvious\n\nDo you want to spark their interest and hope they come talk to you?  Make it obvious\n\nIf you are just curious about them, but aren't wanting to connect - then don't let on....at least for now...until you can determine if you want to learn more about them.\n\nI would think the only reason one would do it under disguise (as you say) would be that they are shy or not confident enough to deal with the interaction.  OR they are flirting with the concept of cheating....\nI say, just make it known and see what happens next....\nlife is an adventure!
1040730
I think that you should try to talk to him, ask for him #, sn, or e-mail.  He is obviously into if he has introduced himself numerous times.
314822
It is so nice to see/hear two people in love.\nBut you need to be up front and foward with him, if you talk to him that much I am sure he will understand that EVERY woman needs time to herself. And if he doesn't now, he will later!\n\nGOOD LUCK!!
1061838
ask her if she wants him
1168130
if it's really true and he has been seeing someone else, then just let him go.  if he's doing it to get your attention, then he's really immature so again, let him go.  just keep ignoring his calls and he'll go away.
924495
Ask your mate if he knows whether she's involved with someone.  If not, send her some flowers with the following note:\n\n"Visiting my friend is infinitely more interesting with you as his flatmate." or something like that.  Flirty, but not over the top.  Then ask your friend to "observe" what her reaction was and report back to you.
318701
Ask her why she is obsessing about you, and to stop stalking you.  People don't like to be called "stalkers".
286081
I'm in the same boat, but I AM THE "SOMEONE ELSE. Please accept it. I am constantly being harrassed with phone calls and I had to get the police involved. Please don't let it get to you like that. It will only make you look foolish. There is someone for everyone out there and when yours comes along you will forget about the guy who is hurting you now. Trust me when I tell you that if he really loves this other girl, you don't stand a chance anymore. Let him go.
576283
OK, in the perfect world, if you want to have a healthy marriage, you should not contact this other woman and just go on living your every day life. And that is just fine and dandy, if only your mind didn't keep drifting away towards this other girl. Maybe it keeps drifting because it's a new and exciting part of your life you don't have anymore, since being married can get to be "boring" or just not as adventurous as it was in the beggining. That is totally understandable. \nWhat you didn't mention, is that if this girl is still contacting you? Has she given up on you? If she has, then it means that she just wanted to say hi and see how you were doing, she's not interested in you in any other way. \nI think you will always wonder "what could have been", until you have some closure in this part of your life. If you do decide to contact her again, you should meet face to face and tell her what she meant to you and how it felt to let her go. But remember that you are a different person now, as is she, in totally different circumstances.\nI don't think an honest luncheon to clear the air, and to put your mind and feelings at ease would be that bad.\nAs long as you know where to draw the line, and as long as you understand that you are a married man with different obligations now.\nGood luck man. Tough call.
261690
It's also depending on the person. She may like the ideal of you calling her. Then again if you are calling her all the time then why should she call you? It does not mean that she has someone else, it could mean she needs a break from you calling her all the time or a little space. Just think about it.
721005
call him up, let him know u were thinking about him, catch up whats been going on and then ease that part in, it has always worked for me
153704
Refer to the chick that hangs around him as his girlfriend or wife. Wait for him to correct you, and if he doesn't, you still have your answer.
386214
Ask in a subtle way. Get it straight from him/.Sometimes you cannot believe half what you see or hear.