why do the boys at school be mean to me?
155615
When kids in school have low self esteem they make fun of other kids.  Just know that deep down something is not right with them, and try to ignore it. If they don't get a reaction out of you it won't be fun for them anymore.
705447
Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.\n\nGood luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
106408
I think by the way he acts around you. Some boys act mean and make fun of you and that usually means that they like you. Though that is not always the case.
283123
If a boy is eleven, you can usually tell he likes you when he starts being a bit mean to you. As if to show he doesn't really like you, but really he does.
932664
I feel you pal! But not everybody hates you. It just seems like that. Look around you, there are certain to be other kids who also feel they are hated. Make friends with them. Rejects never reject rejects. I say this as a former high school reject...
37088
haha yeah good luck its with all boys they are either mean or annoying.. but its life. You know you love your brother. My brothers and I always fight but we always make up to brothers and sisters are your best friends!
565368
most of the time teachers are just mean because they want you to try and succeed or their just assholes
226104
This friend is not a real friend, they're not mean with each other. But there's nothing wrong with your friend (or you, even,) being nice to teachers, if you're nice to them they generally respond similarly. Don't creep though, they will usually despise you for it. \n\nIgnore your 'friend', I'm sure you must have others who are a lot nicer.
188586
It depends on what they are doing to you. If they are teasing you ignore them.  If they are physically hitting you tell your parents, tell your teacher tell everyone and fight back.  Tell your parents you want to take up karate and then make sure everyone around you knows that you know how to fight.  They will mess with you a lot less.\n\nEven if you can't do any of this just remember they are probably being bullies to you because you are probably a very good natured, sweet, kind girl and you are probably very sensitve too.  These are good traits to have, don't let anyone make you feel that they aren't.   \n\nWhen you grow up you'll probably do a lot better then those bullies.    \nI know it's really hard and it hurts, but just remember you aren't alone, let everyone know what is going on so that the bullies can be punished.  \n\nI went through it too growing up, and it's hard but try your best to not see it as them making fun of you, because they aren't, not really.  In reality it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They are the ones with the problems and they see that you have what they don't have, that makes them angry and they take out their problems on you.  Don't let their problems become your problems though.  \n\nThis will help you out though, it will make you stronger and wiser then they can ever be.  Trust me on that one.
295214
I read no evidence where they had a cause for hating you, and people seldom waste a lot of time and energy on people they don't like.  Perhaps they are getting a response from you that tickles them, so they make juvenile efforts for more amusement.  When they make remarks about your friends, tell them you don't want to listen and say, "I don't listen when anyone talks about you."  Strive to treat them as friends, even when they don't act like it, and the situation may reverse itself.  If not, and you get no response from the teacher, enlist the aid of your parents in talking with her or him, and then, if necessary, it is a chain of command thind: Principal, Board of Education, etc.  Recent laws should aid you in getting attention to your problem.  Good luck, and remember, the best way to get rid of an enemy, is to make a friend of them.
243012
Stop being a bully.  Guys don't like that, it doesn't show strength it shows insecurity and that shows weakness.  Be nice and accept that other people aren't perfect and BE NICE!  He'll see your sweetness and want to be around you.  Noone wants to be around a BIG MEANIE!
79750
I don't know why some boys act like that but it probably means he has a crush on you. It's sort of like how little kids throw temper-tandrams to get noticed.
1119853
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.
66430
You know I haven't figured that out either. I am the smartest girl in my grade so the way the those kinds of girls act is really annoying and immature to me. At my school a lot of the teachers suck up to these kind of people so I have no idea.
101737
sweetheart the best way to deal with this is either move to another table or stand your ground since no teachers care you can start putting it back on the ones that do this to you, by throwing it back at them. another thing is there a guides counselor you can go and talk to about this? that may work because more or less this is bullin and most schools dont tolerate this act. i hope i helped you some hugs sweetie, best of luck sunshinelady_40940
313408
I think that these boys were not your friend to begin with and just wanted to leer over your body(you must be gorgeous). You don't need them! Hold your head high and go and find some good friends who like you the way you are. You deserve better than people who judge with looks.Pretty soon you ll get your confidence back and will show those boys up. YOU GO GIRL!!!
98944
Because they were bullied when they were your age,now they are older and taking the revenge by bullying you.........its a vicious circle....!!