How do u get him to love u again when distance is a barieer and there is another women closer to him?
155559
thats hard i know im in the same situation! remind him why he loves you! dont let him forget!
344046
You were hurt, and you pushed him away. That can happen to anyone in your situation, but I agree that you should tell him how you feel. Don't drag it out. You should know where you stand and let him know where he stand with you. If it doesn't work out, you will have closer and the ability to love someone else. That may not necessarily be what you want to hear, but YES sweetie you can love again.
814270
It all depends on whether or not your comfortable having a long-distance relationship. if you chose the guy who lives further away, you'd have to deal with seeing the other guy all the time.
989002
distance either makes the heart grow fonder...or makes the heart wander...it would be hard not having him around, but try love conquers all boundaries, including distance..this is your challenge to know if this is meant to be..hang in there and have faith in his love for you. Whatever happens happens for a reason. \n\nGood Luck
28458
Give her time and space. If she doesn't come around... then out of his love for her, he should respect her wishes and want her to be happy.
432044
if you still love him, and really really want him back in your life and into your future, then get up right now and start packing your bags! your going on a trip to get your ONE and ONLY back! even though he lives 8 hours away from you, it doesnt matter! you should fight for him and do anything to get him back, right?! and if it will cost you money, it still doesn't matter, what would you rather lose? your money or the ONE you truly want and need? of course you would rather lose money than the person you loved, right? and when you get to him... tell him how you really really love him so much... tell him that you would rather lose all the things you have than lose him! tell him that you will NEVER EVER do anything to hurt him again! tell him that you would change and go back to the real you just like in the old days... and tell him that you really need him and want him in your life! especially, tell him that you wouldnt change into the self that was dishonest and the self you didnt like before... then tell him you really love him! over and over and over and over again!!!! =)
52940
If the fold is from you try and work it out \nexpecialy if you love him faigt back.\nBut if it is him give him some time he will \ncome back after he realise what hi miss.
1092572
just let it go, if the attraction is strong enuf between you two, his relationship with the other gurl will begin to fall apart. let nature take it's course and  be the good guy. patience is a virtue. be virtuous. as the attraction between you and him grows, it will weaken between him and her. if he is a good guy, he will let her know he is losing interest and give her time to find someone new also. any other way is too messy, don't try to hurry things up. like teasing him sexually. he will use you and still end up with her. if it doesn't play out the way you want, you learned something. sometimes it doesn't no matter how bad you want it.
247315
Tell him that you want to remain close and when he comes back you will take it from there. One day at a time.
159221
Run away, and run fast.  He is not worth the space in your head.  There are plenty of guys out there who will be proud of the woman they are with, and will not hesitate to let everyone they know that there is someone special that they are spending their time with.  Trust me.
910511
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..
405467
Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
33768
Do the same! or find something better so that your bf come from frist place to second place!\n(just for a limit time)
63475
im in a position like that.\nits really hard\nspecially when you think (you can see) she (he) loves you too, but both of you cant talk about it at all!\n\ni think its on you, if you can eliminate the distance, then tell that person, what you feel,\nand tell her (him) what are you going to do!
911842
communication is the key. maybe you should invite him ot your place and let him know how u feel.  if he loves you and if avoiding you is not his intention, he will comfort you and reassure you that that is not the case.  if your feelings of doubt persist after talking to him, listen! it's your female intuition. good luck....
649486
well it depends i know that i almost took a break from my realtionship because i was also frustrated but i din't.  i decided that if i really wanted this realtionship to work i have to talk out my feelings so he could understand.  if you really like her or love her ask if she would just try to talk to you explain her fellings to you.  this will not only bring you two closer but will also help you understand her needs better....good luck
263443
cry alot call them write them and cry some more i know i still love this guy im 1500 miles away from him you just hope you can be with him again and hold him in your arms and do the things that you did when you were with him and i do believe that if you are meant to be with someone you will be no matter what happens in life