how can i keep my boyfriend when he 's so far from me?
147389
you can keep him with all your heart and love that you give him, but can he keep you bc futher away means stretching honesty and trust.
1095786
I've done the long distance thing..  You two are doing everything right in my book anyways.. lol.  My advise is to stay busy with friends.  That way the time will go by faster.
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
631705
Be blunt just come right out and tell him you are in love with him and if that dont work they are a lot of men out there. stop wasting you time you dont live forever. maybe when you are not around he may miss you. and come looking for you. you never know.
410568
I'm 26 and in a long distance relationship as well.  We live 2.5 hours away from each other and I always return her phone calls.  It pisses me off if other people don't return mine, so I always return theirs.  Point to remember, guys don't like to talk on the phone.  I have trouble talking on the phone for more than five minutes.  I love her, but it seems like more of a job than a pleasure.  I can talk your ear off in person, but not on the phone.  Sounds like your boyfriend is forgetful or too busy.
101203
Don't look back, look forward. You should forget him and concentrate on making new friends. Long distance relationships seldom if ever last, and you'll just have alot of frustration and heart ache to show for it. Find someone you can spend time with when and where you want instead of sticking with a guy that by all indications doesn't love you anyway. I know that is harsh, but he hasn't called, and wouldn't say so according to you. You can do better. The guy for you is right under your nose, you just have to look!. Hope this has encouraged you and given you hope.
255927
long distance relationships are always tough, and especally tough if you don't trust the person your trying to have one with, cut your losses and get out while the getting is good, be kind about it though and just blame it on the distance, that way if he moves back over here you could pick up where you left off.
1093842
Whatever it takes bridge the distance to a point that your relationship stays out of the brinks of doubt, trust or love.  Make plans for periodic visits, and look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself to look at the facts of everything because there is no room for things that are made up or do not exist.  They will kill the realationship faster than lighting starts fires.  Be fair, control emotion and set dates to accomplish things that will help to bring you together more quickly and work on them together.  Plan ways to be together and work them as you would any other goals.  It will take the lonliness and waiting out of the time, give you something constructive to do during the absence making the time go by faster or giving both of you shortcuts to bridging the gap or distance.  Use cams and microphoneis on the internet for close times.  Do anything but sit and do nothing as that will create decay and cause you to feel horrible things maybe that don't even exist.  You can get through it if both of you want to and you can make it fun,  use you heads and minds.  Be smart people.
263443
cry alot call them write them and cry some more i know i still love this guy im 1500 miles away from him you just hope you can be with him again and hold him in your arms and do the things that you did when you were with him and i do believe that if you are meant to be with someone you will be no matter what happens in life
45205
Go out to your favorite romantic restaurant and then spend the night at a bed and breakfast or a really nice hotel. Just spending the night somewhere besides your house will make it interesting and romantic. Also, get him something that he can take with him while he is gone, sort of something to remember you while he is away.
229884
Find a boyfriend a bit closer to home.
1066398
My boyfriend lives 3,000 miles away.  It only works if you both really want it to work.  But eventually someone has to move.
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
370182
You should look for someone closer to where you live, the long distance thing is lame....
20535
try to keep them as far away from each other as possible
569764
the truth is, it really depends on both parties, if they really love each other and that the FAITH is there, no matter how far they are from each other, it doesn't matter!! but in reality, it is so hard to keep a long distance relationship... There are lot of things that can happen when you're away from someone, its up to you if you really want to stay in your relationship or just goes on with the flow!!!
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.