I'm fat and not too pretty, but I like this guy and want to know how to get him to like me back. HELP!?
156863
first thing, quit talking badly about yourself. the thing that is least attractive to me in a girl is when she has no confidence in herselfif you are more confident, the easier it will be for you to get what you want.if this guy is shy like you, and has a hard time talking to the opposite sex like you, you are already showing some signs of things in common. just build up some courage, walk up to him and speak to him......about anything, it doesnt matter. when i was your age, i would have killed to have a girl come up and talk to me. i was very shy  and had a hard time chatting up the girls. after a while, i started gaining confidence and it made my whole high school years that more enjoyable, cause i figured out if you were confident, there was always someone to talk to, and if i talked to more girls, the better chance i had to get me one, or two. anyway, suck it up and talk to him, and the next guy and the next. it will always get easier as you do it more.
357601
well if you are trying to see if you like him...then be flirty.  talk to him a lot, wear something cute, smile at him, and most of all make eye contact.  Confidence is always sexy.  Guys sometimes like a girl but are too nervous to ask her out b/c they are worried she doesnt like them back!  Good luck getting the guy! ;)
10137
Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you, so-be-it.  There will be other guys out there who will like you for you.  Those are the ones that are going to mean something.\n\nThe ones that like you for you are the ones that will carry you through.\n\nNo matter how hard you try, if someone doesn't like you, they don't like you.\n\nWhen they like you, they like you.\n\nREMEMBER!  What's meant to be will always find a way!\n\nGood Luck!
685688
Flirt. \nThat will always work. Do it in subtle ways, NOT to the point you look trashy.\nIf you like him, then the really best thing to do is just tell him. Once he KNOWS you like him, it'll defiantly make him see you in a different/good light.
667002
If you are just looking for a guy that likes you for your physical benefits than he will probably slap your but or try to be really nice to you but if you are looking for a guy that likes you for more than what you have to offer on the outside he would respect you, be nice to you, try to be around you all the time(if he is really bold), and talk about you nonstop. (and you probably aren't fat at all)
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
687762
hey girl all i can say is be up front and honest. it might get you further than you think. if he turns you down becouse of the way you look hes not worth having as a boy friend
352675
just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
471525
well i dont think it matters what kind of body type you have\nthis is actually kind of weird because most guys like a nice curvy girl like ourselves. you know not skinny but not fat. lol really it doesnt matter i think maybe you should just tell him that you like him and he may just surprise you.... maybe your wrong about his likes and dislikes
956772
Be confident and true to yourself. If you know your own worth, you exude better vibes and people see and are attracted to that. Don't let his response affect your self-image...so he doesn't like you...you do and so do many others.
682161
Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!
910787
So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
921828
Don't be anything but yourself. Try starting a conversation with a simple "hello" or compliment. If he doesn't seem interested then move on to someone else. You can't make someone like you. There's someone out there for you and only you.\n\n♥Rachel
287683
If you know he has an interest that you share you can let him know that and take it from there.\n\nGuys generally don't need much encouragement if they like you. So don't try to hard, cause they might perceive you as easy.\n\nExample: He rides a bike. Let him know you would like to go for a ride. Or he is into fitness, if you are too then see if you can train together.
580213
talk to him. If your pretty and skinny just go up tp him. If your kinda fat lose wieght or he'll never go out with you.
664734
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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don't kid your self love\nand forget he as he dose not like you if he's going to hurt you.\npick your self up and dust your self off and keep looking for an other bloke who likes you for who you are and not for who you try and be\nstay true to your self and\ngood luck