If a guy cancels a dinner date that I'm paying for because he claims he has homework do u think he really did?
143106
sometimes homwork is more important than a dinner date.  try it again on a weekend, and if he makes an excuse, he not into you.
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
815982
In ninth grade, a friend who I liked promised me that he would have something for me at lunch the Friday before V-Day. (It was on Sunday, if I remember right.) I waited for him at lunch, but he didn't show up — he'd had band that day. I confronted him, he apologized profusely (he actually called himself a "selfish pig"), and I got the gift the following Monday. (A dating book he'd compiled out of Far Side comics.) We had a falling-out a few months later, and I gave it back. I regretted it deeply then, but I don't really care about it anymore.
1081130
Relax!  Just because he did something in the past that was a mistake doesn't mean he is going to do it to you.  He was honest with you and explained it to you - you don't have a reason to worry.
437152
Yes, it's probably true.  Stop making him feel like crap by asking him to take you out.  Find things you can enjoy that don't cost a lot or crack open your own wallet to pay for the 2 of you.  Men arent' just meal tickets.
162169
That is a tough question, sounds like he likes you, and if you like him great. But if you mean by lecturerer in class, does he give grades at all? If so you could be heading into a sticky situation. If he really likes you, he will wait to ask you out after you are done taking his class. You know that might be what he is doing now, letting you know he is interested, but wanting to date you when the time is right=after you are done with his class so he does not get into trouble.
382179
He is irresponsible to skip classes first of all.\n\nIf your not interested that stop pandering to his needs to get you. If he gets you he will lose interest shortly there after.\n\nStay with your focus.
682295
Take him to small claims court.  Be prepared to talk in detail about when he agreed to pay you, and how much he agreed to pay you.  You mentioned he paid when he could.... if you have any paycheck stubs left, bring those to court, it will show that he did in fact pay you for your time (and that you expected to be paid).  And, bring that calendar, he'll have a hard time denying that you work on the dates indicated in the calendar.\n\nGood luck!
513683
NO... dinner and a movie costs, what?  30 bucks?  Sweetie, are you worth more than 30 bucks?  Yes.  You are.  Hell no he has no right to ask for sexual inimacy, and he has no right to be angry if you say no if he DOES ask.  If he gets mad, his loss hun, NOT yours. ♥
186883
Id call him out, sounds like that guys a dick.  Hes blatently ditching you for a problem girl, but guys are guys about chicks. He'll come around when she screws him over again, till then cant tell you what to do other than wait and see. But if he ends up booting you get at least some of that money back.
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
1134137
Simply ask before the day of the date.  Bring it up in conversation.  I feel like if he asked you he should pay, but you will never know unless you ask
793741
He probably does.  Sometimes guys have a weird way of showing it.  Maybe you should be bold and ask him out or ask him if you 2 can get together to study for a test. Good luck!
980337
Sounds like he is using you now.  Before you cut him out of your life, get your money and ipod back!
921028
I don't know that there's much you can DO except be disappointed and tell him that you are. What did he say he had to do instead(if anything?) Does he make a habit of this or was this your first date? Did he seem to like being with you during the 2 hours or did he seem to be in a hurry to be elsewhere? These are questions you have to ask yourself or him. Personally, if somebody makes a promise to me it's a BIG black mark against them if they don't keep it without  a good excuse!
448393
The guy is probably no longer interested, but is too embarrassed to admit that in front of your friend.  I think, however, that he owes her an explanation -- just so there's some closure to this.
168230
Me again, this time it sounds bad.  I think you better think twice about this internet pal you have.  He owes you an explanation.  It is not polite to agree to meet with a lady and then not show up at all.  I don't want to say this, but i think you should move-on.  forget this guy, 2x, no good explanation, that doesn't sound right at all.