How come people do the exactly opposite of what I thought and want them to do?
139739
Stick in there, your luck will change. Be the best person you could be always and smile a lot. Things will change in your favor...
240313
why in the world would anyone want to do that? are you trying to off yourself? Dont be crazy!!
992792
Well some people are just like that.  We all have a habit or a tick or do something that drives another crazy. Even if one was as close to perfect as they come that would drive someone crazy!
339366
because some people just don't think about the consequenses of their actions.
1106809
I hate it too. I just never do it, and whenever I see someone else do it (like, in movies or something), I always think "how can they do that?"
748050
Because some people are just plain evil and don't care who they hurt or what they destroy.  Some people look at others as stepping stones to getting what they want.  And if you are in the way .. prepare to be stepped on.
656658
Yes I used to do that alot. I agree to do something I don't really want to do or agree to an opinion because it is just easier to do so. And I found that I was starting to hate myself for it. \n\nRight now no matter what situation I'm facing I either say what I REALLY feel about it or keep my mouth shut and not let myself do anything I dont want to. I get into trouble sometimes because of that honesty for some strange reason. But at least at the end of the day I'm perfectly okay with myself. Don't let people tell you who you should be or shouldn't be. It's something we all hate but sometimes do to ourselves. But now that I stopped that I'm much more relaxed and happier, even if I find myself different than what people expect (or want) me to be.
98510
i think no one wants to do wrong on porpose at all times. One reason people do wrong is because they react out of impulse of the moment or out of insticts without taking the time to think things over first before acting. Other times they do something wrong because they let themselfs convinced and draged into action by so called friends. \nIs in nature of human beeings to feel attracted by forbiden things (which in most cases are wrong) and is in human nature to feel it hard to resist temptations ( we got an example from old times in Adam and Eve who although were aware they were not alowed to touch the forbiden fruit Eve still did it and then convinced Adam to do it also).\nWe can never expect someone to do only the right thing cuz no one is perfect , we are submited to mistakes. The only way we can  make up for the wrong choises we make is to learn from them and dont repeat them.
1105443
doing something wrong
1083498
I trust people to act in the way that they show me they do.  I learned I can't trust anyone to act the way I want them to.  But why should I be able to, they're not me and they have different goals, and different reasoning than I do.  But I can usually trust them to act in the ways that I have observed them acting in the past.   And I take a while to get to know someone before I decide what I think of them.\nSo I only trust myself in one respect, but I trust everyone in another.
699806
You are too funny, but I completely agree with you.  I think people in this world should try minding their own business and celebrate whatever the hell they want to.  I do find that people take more pleasure out of minding everyone elses business instead of their own.
731996
It can work but don't expect to be happy.\nWhy would you want to do this to yourselves?
1000905
Heh, love how you end you "why can't people get it" question by stating you just don't get it.\n\nJust because you believe something should be a certain way doesn't mean others will feel the same way.  If they believe opposite enough it doesn't matter how articulate you are because they just won't care.  Not everyone will agree and not everyone will respond intelligently, this is just a simple fact of life.
11637
No. Why on earth would anyone do that?
835831
People usually trap themselves and are oblivious to their\nsurroundings. If you can give more details some of us\nmay be able to help you
288818
I have no idea why people do that.  I've never done it, I think is just stupid.
960625
In many cases when people do this, it's because they feel insecure, and being "right" helps them to feel better.  You can simply let them win, assuming that whatever they're saying doesn't matter that much.  You can say something like, "That's an interesting idea."