my friend just moved, i'm going to move this summer, any advice?
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you can't base her experience on your experience that hasn't happened yet.
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you need to really explain how devastated you are about him moving to your parents. your parents should be more understanding, but they might just have your best interest in mind? why would they oppose from having your friend over to YOUR house? is this friend a bad influence or something? well, try & that is all you can do. it is hard to get used to people moving away, but time will help. i suggest talking on the phone will help as well.
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moving to another state is almost ALWAYS the right decision. it will demand that you grow a little. and that's never bad! :)\n\nto reassure yourself... ask yourself before you go to sleep: should i go ahead with this move? or, am i making the right decision?\n\nask it outloud, and really focus on the question.\n\nthen go to sleep... when you wake up, don't get distracted with the alarm or the cellphone. let your mind drift until you remember your dreams. hopefully, your dreams will answer your question clearly and you can continue or change plans.\n\ntry it a few nights in a row if you're not convinced!\n\nour subconscious minds are powerful. deep down we know answers to many troubling questions. it's just a matter of tapping into the subconscious!
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Basically just continue to talk and communicate every day. Try to do things like go to the movies and hang out a lot. Have fun together and enjoy summer
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It depends...how long have you two known each other and who will be making the sacrifice to move away? Let me guess you'll be the one. What are you leaving behind and is moving really worth it? Have you two known each other long enough?
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Stay busy! Find new things to occupy you in your new home instead of doing the same things thereby bringing back memories that might cause you to compare the two and cause you to miss home. Step out of your comfort zone and be the first to speak if you meet someone new, like a neighbor or co-worker or someone at the gym. Become involved in community service, because the quickest way to take the focus off yourself and your own problems is to focus on helping someone else. It also gives you a sense of belonging and makes you feel you have a place in your new "world." I'm new to my area -20 miles south of Philadelphia- so I know where you are coming from, but I've built a busy, happy life for myself and I only go home with I really miss family back in VA. The key for me is staying busy!
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Hi Christian!\nNow that the housing market is finally looking up, it's the perfect time to seek out a new place to live. This summer you need to shake off that "lucky I even have my folks to live with" mentality, polish up your shoes, and explore your living quarters options! There are fun, flexible, fantastic places out there just waiting for someone like you!\nNow, get out there and pound the pavement. Beat on some doors until you latch onto that incredible tree house or fort you always wanted!\n(I heard the esperanza area is a great place to find a cardboard box near the dumpster behind a pizza joint?)\n-zealnik
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GO there and do what?  You should first look into how you would make a living there.  You should have a better reason to move than just weather.
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Before you even consider moving , make sure you can take care of yourself.Obviously it is to your advantage to stay at home as long as you can, go to school-get a job- then worry about entering the "real world".  Its a jungle out there whether in KS or In or whereever -be prepared
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That sounds normal to me.  I am not moving but I think that you would want to see your friends and the comfortable familiarities of your life because you will be going to a new place. Good luck.
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key word is MIGHT. you might move soon, so go for it sweetie.
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You have other business to take care of first.  Specifically, what business does a 7-year-old have moving to New Jersey?  Does he have a job waiting for him?  How about a house?  How will he support himself or get around?\n\nI urge you, or another caring adult, to go with him.  You'll also be able to find a school more effectively if you go along.
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Quite easy; \n1) a)make sure your friend does not move away and make sure you dont move\n   b)Talk with your friend regularly\n   c)have fun with your friends (play games, go watch movies; just hang out)\n\n2) if your friend has moved and you cannot move to where your friend have moved to:\nkeep contact with your friend (phone, email, talk/messenger, etc.)\n\nNEVER loose contact with your friend and your friendship should always maintain great! \n\nI hope you will have a great time with your best friend.
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Good luck!  Get a summer job.
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No, don't start something that can't last. If you think it can last after you move then give it a try. I think the guy needs to tell your friend that he has feelings for you. If your relationship will ruin your friendship with your friend then don't do it.
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Tell them you are moving and like to cacel or close an account.  If you would like, have them open another account at your next resident.  Let them know like a month ahead if possible.
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wow-i can relate having moved in w/friends a month ago after leaving my husband. be honest and upfront. sit her down w/your facts written out in front of you.\n\nHave a time-line for you to leave if she cannot pay her share. If she's in over her head - offer to help her find subsidized housing/sell her place etc.\n\nIt's awful to lose good friends over money, honesty is the best policy before you and your other half resent her or worse. Good luck and Happy New Years, Pat