r guys alway jerks or can they be sweet and if ur ex tells you to wait 2 weeks for an answer to go bak wit him
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r girls always b1tches or can they be sweet and not ask questions about guys always being jerks?\n\nYes, I took offense to the question.
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ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
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If you asked him a serious and imprtant question, and he can't even give a response, even if it is a response that says he needs more time to answer than you need to move on, this is tough to say, but he does not rank you very high on his priority list if he has not replied for over a week.  Move on, you'll find a better match for you!
760272
because you just got out of a bad relationship he doesn't want to be the rebound he is very smart.he will wait until you are completely over it so then he stands a better chance for it to be real with you. he is truely a gentlemen.
635342
2 weeks isn't a long time to really say you were in a relationship so it wouldn't be that bad if you talked to the other guy. Especially if he broke up with you. Now if you broke up with him,then you would be considered a whore for breaking up with him for his friend. Not in my opinion but society's opinion. If it were me though girl, I would leave both of them alone because you might reck their friendship.\n\nGood luck
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He could be trying to say no in a nice way.  (Sorry!!!)  I had the same thing happen to me.  I asked a guy out and he said we would...sometime.  Next thing I know, he's "kinda got a girlfriend".\nGuys are jerks when they try to be nice.
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I would sit and have a long conversation with him and try to get out what was bothering him. Evidently something is or he wouldn't be acting like this. Either he wants to be with u or he's making up excuses to leave u. I would find the truth and get to the bottom if it. No use in wasting your time on someone who's a jerk.
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depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
687650
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
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its probably because of his new girlfriend u should be more important then her and u need to remind him of all the good times yall had so he can relize hes being a jerk and u shouldnt be treated like dirt that wrong
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do u kno 4 sure he dont love u hows he a jerk?
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Even though I'm a guy, I have been where you are before.  My ex always dangled that possibility that we might get together thing out there.  Unfortunately being the person who got left you feel like if there is a posiblity then you should keep your life on hold just in case.  Two years is too long to have to keep your life on hold for someone who has left you and cheated on you.  It is past time for you to get your life back and to seek out happiness once again.  Step one though should be filing for divorce.  I recomend this before you date anyone because in some states it can make a difference in the settlement still.  If you so much as date someone even though he is the one who cheated first and left they will still see you as equally cheating even though you waited two years.  Beyond that concern though you have every right and duty to yourself to move on and be happy.  Get divorced and find a guy who really loves you and deserves your love.
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Everyone must be saying this... But girl, move on! I had the same experience... The guy I chucked a year ago suddenly appeared begging for forgivness... Even though he was fit I still said no, like you I broke up with them twice... Guys never change, I kept on making a mistake... Girl don't you...
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He doesn't like you, he wants you, there's a difference. He may have realized he lost a good thing, but that's the key; he lost it. You have a new guy now and he sounds like he's not to bad a guy. Your ex on the other-hand approached you and tried to get you to dump your guy! If he cared at all for what you felt he'd have left you alone.
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Ex boyfriends come back more frequently than they stay away!  They break things off with us for odd reasons, then miss us when we've moved on.  The question is, what do YOU want?  Does he bring anything new to the relationship?  Why are you letting him dictate the terms?  I'd date other guys with a view to allowing the best guy to attract your focus.  This one may compete for you if he wishes, but you should not accept his crumbs when he's in the mood to toss them to you.
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Kt, I am a 23 yr old male, and let me say that if some guy gets upset at you, because they have to wait, then, they are not for you. They need to understand that its just about them, but about what you want/feel as well. \n\nYou just need to find someone who wouldnt get upset at you for waiting 4-6 months. Hope this helps.
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RUN!! Trust me, I've been there, I dated a guy for 2 years who was like that and it was a huge mistake on my part. But I let him control me to the point that I wouldn't even leave him when he told me not to. Don't get in that situation. You'll be very miserable. I'm now with a wonderful guy who I'm getting married to in a couple of months. So great guys really do exist, so you don't have to put up with jerks!