what does it mean when a guy says he wants you to be the mother of his kids but he's not ready to get u a ring
146140
It means he wants to have sex with you and he knows that if he tells you all that, you will concede to his wishes.  He doesn't have to buy you a ring because he's getting it for free.  He's no dummy.  My advice: stop having sex with him--if no proposal (with a ring and date) in 6 months, dump him and move on.
140830
It means that you (or him) are not ready yet, or one of you has not found the one for you (them).
530543
If he is giving you that ultimatum, then hes a jerk. Family is blood, they will always love and be around you. A man asking you to choose, is not a man.
59508
he is afraid of commitment with children. he should be used to the kids by now if youve been with him for 3 years.
865584
probably he wanted to tell you that he didnt mean to hurt you by asking about ur plans about the pregnancy and he left it in ur hand to think and find the best way for the pregnancy and the kid ,so he still feels the same for you and he will send you a message and will talk to you tomorrow....\nIN fact I think he means he still loves you ,no matter that you're pregnant .
376473
You need to ask yourself if this is someone your gonna keep waiting on. My granny use to say crap or get off the pot. It doesn't sound like he want to get married to you but he doesn't want anyone else to either. Maybe he doesn't realize what he has, you usually don't until you don't have it no more.
96181
It usually means that he doesn't what to give you his phone number for security reasons.\n\nIt can also mean that part of that security is keeping his wife from picking up the phone and hearing your voice. That would be a major security breech in my book.\n\nMy gut instinct tells me that you should fish from another pond. Usually I tell people to "work it out". This doesn't sound right for some reason. Sounds like lies. I would move on if I were you.
523894
it might mean something, but might be just a date... be happy as it means he is not ashamed of you and takes you with him... he wants you get involved into hes lives so he would expect be involved to yours too... but it doesn't mean that he is going get you a proposal the next day... just relax and enjoy your time...
921611
Sounds like he's testing the ground. He wants to be close to you but he's making sure he doesn't tread where you don't want him to be. In otherwords, he doesn't want you to feel pressured. I think he likes you, and has great respect for you, especially if he's giving you an out like that. Perhaps you should ask him why he keeps saying that, and see what he says. Your gut should tell you if you can take it at face value.
1170271
It depends on the both of you.  Since he's older, what is it that he is pursuing in life; and what is it that you are pursuing in life.  Sometimes, promise rings are just place holders for the time being and can be deceiving.  Other times, they are true from the heart.  But let me warn you that the heart changes with time.
866247
Sounds like this boy has abandonment issues.  He's in a hurry to build a family life he never had and is probably smoking it up to forget how bad he had it.  He took you saying no as a major rejection and is trying to get you to feeling guilty about it by not calling you.  You sound like you have your life on track and made an adult decision.  Be proud of yourself for being responsible and thinking of the long term.  Don't get sucked into his childish games.  If he really loves you, then he would understand that you aren't ready for that kind of move and work at your pace.  \n\nLove is always hard.  Letting people we care of go can seem agonizing and takes a long time to get over.  You've got a bright future ahead of you and a good man who will support you and love you.
905033
Maybe he doesn't want a relationship right now. Maybe he was he is scared and backed out your life.A daughter and you being a mother is a little too much baggage for him. Donrt worry keep ur daughter 1st priority.
426358
It means that he is not ready for you to be apart of that part of his life.
109344
It (probably) means that it wasn't meant to be. You two have lived it up and have produced two lovely children. I'm sure the both of you love them more than life itself. But perhaps that's where it ends...It seems like you have tried everything. Hell, you even went to counseling. Good job on both of your parts. You two want it to work. Maybe you're going through a phase? Maybe you should spice things up a bit. Join a club together, join together in a new sport, go hiking, camping, maybe you could spend less time with each other. Mabe ALL you need is a BREAK. C'mon now...16 years together. THAT tells you something. It cannot just stop like that. Do not give up. There is a reason why the two of you are together. There is a reason why you met, why you got married, why you decided to create children. Reminisce together about the days when you were younger, the crazy things you guys did for each other, the first time you told each other 'I Love you', etc. Do not give up. If it's an attraction/physical thing, work it out (Literally). Get sexy, make him look at you like you're the hottest thing to have walked this earth. It's not over sweetie. I believe in you guys.
1078660
sorry im not a guy but generally it could be one of wo thingseither he wants you and is to scare to say guys are like bug puppy dogs they need nurturing...or he wants you to set him up...aski him if he wants you toi set him up and if he says no you know he probably means he wants you...worth a try babe x
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
405683
if you and this guy are in a relationship, i thimk it's awesome that he steps up and plays with your child.  If your not planing a long term relationship with this guy then he might get attached and be heartbroken.