why cant guys take a HINT???
156882
You need to focus on who you really are. You are not dumb.\nNeither are you crazy. What you have is lust. Lust will mess you up. It will have you looking like moron. And you\nknow that's not what you want. You can do better than that.\nYou are young, sweet, beautiful and kind. don't fall for the\nokee-dokee. Some guys these days are after one thing. What \nyou have in your pants. They don't care how you feel or what\nyou think. Trust me. I know what I'm talking about. Been\nthere, done that.
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i truthfully know men and i mean really know men. I would suggest shrugging him off a bit! He may think that you are too available to him, he is a man but hes not dumb! If all these girls are paying him so much attention, he i sucking it up! Maybe if he sees that you arnt that interested, which we no is not true, he might see you in a different light. Men love a tease! make it a challenge for him!
922371
Yes it is called communication. Just tell him, men do not usually understand hints. just be forward and tell him, he will probably be flattered you did. Good luck and God bless
76696
Some guys are just so unsecure with themselfs that they put up a front. Some are shy etc etc etc etc. Then again some are just jerks that have to put on a show for their "friends" so they do not lose face. If a guy really wants you to be around, he'll do just that no matter what his "friends" think or do.
1069709
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
301533
At least he's nice enough to wait for you... Maybe he knows that you don't know what you want too.\nYou are not pushy when you let people know what you want.  It's a good way to communicate.  Plus it will save both of you a lot of time & confusion.
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
870515
I'm really sorry that you had to deal with this.  The standard way that women have evolved to deal with this (i.e. guys who won't get a clue) is to develop a total ice-bitch routine, where they just totally shut down the guy's questions.  Even if you do this though, the guy might persist, so no strategy may be totally effective.  \n\nAnyhow, one effective thing you might try is to offhandedly mention your boyfriend (whether or not you really have one).  This usually sends a pretty strong signal.  Or really, you can just say outright that you're taken.  Then turn away.
200932
Men are rutabagas -- dense vegetables.  If you need your boyfriend to notice something, point it out to him. Be direct.  Don't just give "hints."  Don't be offended if he doesn't notice on his own.  Guys are "wired" differently than gals.  Just the way it is.  Tell a guy straight out what you want and need and he'll jump through hoops to please you.  Subtlety and hints may work with your GFs, but guys just won't get it.
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Some guys like the "Art of Flirtation".  They literally practice on you just to get it right.  And they LOVE that you respond to it.  \n\nOther guys are just too shy to go up and say they are interested in you, yet forward enough to actually flirt. If this is the case, you might have to ask him out.
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
357846
Give it up then.  Sheesh, can't you take a hint?
1007440
Sounds like he meant it, he just wants to prove it to you through his actions .... guys just don't know what to say .... wouldn't you want him to show you through his actions or would you rather he just said 'Of course I meant it' and not really mean it.
286355
Gotta tell him ... hints are always subtle and will never work
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No. You can show that you are interested in a guy, like flirting with your eyes, without being aggressive and asking them out.  If the guy is interested in you, then they will show you in their own way.  Guys want to take control of the relationship and be the leader, and I think it turns them off when the girl is too pushy.  So, show him subtle signs of being into him, but do not chase after him.  He will not be given the chance to pursue you, which is the dance of dating.  I guess this is just old-fashioned advice.
170193
it's best to tell us, we don't always get hints.\nbut maybe some fun way to tell us. like a scavenger hunt
555235
Maybe he was a little shy & timid.If he had to look around then he is definitely trying to hide his feelings.He may have changed the subject for another reason-he wants you to know that he was interested but pretends to be nonchalant about the question itself...as if it was just an innocent question that anybody would ask.Indeed he's interested,in my opinion...perhaps he wants you to chase or make the next move because like most people he isn't use to rejection.I've been wrong many times b4...but that's just my 2 cents!