wat do i do when i was uncool at first then i got a new purse and the popular girls are all over it and now?
140425
Could be honey,  I have never heard of a purse making people like you.  What kind of purse is it?  If I were you I'd watch out for these girls, sounds to me like they are trying to set you up.  Be careful and be safe.
694030
Relax. Remember how much fun it was. Then take your time to get used to them again.
208589
has she started taking drugs or drinking..this could explain alot.\n\nAre her new friends telling what she wants to hear...your pretty, popular...cool when you hang out with us. If you hang out with your other friends you are a loser...they may be telling her that, and in the interest of being accepted and being with the cool group she is not being true to herself.
196334
Basically dump all my other girls.... ummm what else to I remember...start calling her on a more regular basis.. Like pretty much excluding my friends and hanging out with that girl more...Call unexpectedly things like that.
539651
YOu shouldn't worry about it. Lots of girls these days look much more mature than they actaully are. You realized she was too young and let it go. Good for you!
655469
tell her that you guys should do some shopping together and maybe that will hold her for a little while because she has just gotten some new clothes. if this doesn't work, think if you really want to stay her friend and if you don't, make new ones. you shouldn't be with people that annoy you or upset you...be with people who care about you and not their clothes. good luck!
873328
You weren't socially acceptable because you went against the crowd. Though you were really doing the right thing, they are buttheads and have excluded you from the clique. Be to the point about it and ask them why they are being hypocrits... if they are rude find a new circle...
913237
If you have been discribed as "willowy" by others, it sounds like you have a very different self-image than what others see.  "Willowy" usually means exactly what it implies, tall, slender, long limbs.  I'm not sure how old you are but if you are in your early teens, chances are you haven't gotten used to your newly developed body.  I remember how painful it was for me, especially graduating from a training bra to a real one.  I was so self conscious of how I "stuck out" where I used to be flat.  Don't let yourself be led astray by diet and exercise plans that promise to change the way you look drastically.  If you are self conscious of your bust, there are minimizing bras that support without pushing everything up and out.  If you are like me, I can't find clothes long enough in the sleeves or pant lengths.  Todays styles are body clinging, form fitting, which, if you are self conscious, will make you feel worse.  Find a friend, or someone you trust completely, and go on a clothes trying on spree.  Find a style that you like and suits you.  Go into stores that are  normally not your style, or price range and HAVE FUN WITH IT.  It costs nothing to shop and try on clothes, the decision to buy is up to you.  This will give you a chance to check out new styles you may not have conisdered, and give you ideas for dfferent styles.  Tall Girl (here in Canada) is great for taller women, better proportioned all over.  Who knows, maybe you'll discover a love for sewing and make your own clothes.  I'm not suggesting you don't exercise, exercise is an important part of daily life.  Do it.  But please be gentle on yourself, we are always our own worst critics.  God made you beautiful just the way you are.  Look in the mirror every day and find one thing to complement yourself on.  Record those observations every day, and when you feel especially down, go back and read all those wonderful things about yourself.  You are more wonderful than you may know.  Believe that, OK?!
1038389
I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
497174
How did you treat your girlfriends last year.  Trust me, if there is one thing we girls like to do, it's talk...  If you were a jerk, word has probably gotten around.  Did you move up to the high school?  You may be dealing with more  competition...older guys with cars.  I know it's frustrating, but you may just have to be friends with the girls for a while to build up your reputation.  If that doesn't work, there's always next year's incoming freshmen.  Good luck.
651545
JUST IGNORE THEM! TRY TO FIND A NEW GF AND BFF. DONT ACT JELOUS OR THEY WILL BE WORST! THATS WAT I DID AND IT ALL WORKED!!
527618
the populare people usually switch friends and stuff since of all the drama\nyou dont need to worry about being popular \nbeing popular isnt a big deal at my school and no one cares about the "popular ones" just be friendly to everyone even if they are mean to you and dont deserve it OF COURSE YOU WILL MAKE FRIENDS
144797
Sure, but it takes a while.  The way I did it was to improve myself.  Loose a few pounds, change your hair, whatever.  Get out of the style you had with the other person.  Change your style, go to a few places other than where you went with him/her.  Meet some friends of friends and get into a new circle.  Your new friends won't know about your past. Before long you'll be caught up with improving yourself and your new friends you'll forget all about you know who.  Keep your old friends.  If they bring up you know who, just say you wish them well, but I'm not really interested.  Change the subject or politely walk away, go to the bathroom or whatever.  Pretty soon your friends will get the idea.  Never, never, slag you know who.  Don't lower yourself to talking bad about someone.  That will get back to the other person, and will also keep him/her on your mind.  Best of luck.
681792
Look at the clothes you are wearing, stay away from trendy fashions. Be conservative with your makeup if you use it. Look at your hair, avoid things like pigtails. Dress grown-up and you will look more grown-up
892037
Just don't think of it in terms of popularity. You shouldn't get caught up in labels. (I'm not saying you are).  Be respectful to those who deserve respect. Be firm with people who don't. Don't look to make enemies. Discern between true friends and ass-kissers. Look out for yourself. Focus on what's really important in life. Think about the future.
842747
Just ignore them. There's not a lot you can do about people like them. You could always insult them back, but you know that would be wrong. You could stay in a group of girlfriends (or guyfriends) that would help protect you. You could notify the schoolboard, but the likelyhood of them doing anything about it is very low. Oh! A really cool idea is to do something special to your jeans, or at least to one pair. You could draw on them, or tie them up specially (like capris) or you could just make up something! Maybe wear a cool belt and always make sure that you look and smell nice. You don't have to be "cool" per say, but if you have a nice, sleek style then you won't have to worry about them. This is great because it costs nothing! Other things you can do are: 1. wear inexpensive jewlery (just not something cheap looking) 2. Do something with you hair every day. It doesn't have to be fancy, just fun. A messy bun, curly, straight, pulled up in a pony tail, pig tails, crimped etc. Well, that's about all I can think of right now! Also, don't worry about what other people think of you. The main reason I listed all of those things above that you can do to yourself, was for your benefit, not theirs. If you feel good about how you look, then it doesn't matter how everybody else looks at you. \n\nP.S. I only have 3 pairs of jeans too! :D
88032
well, there is something you have to learn in life, and it might as well start now. there will be people like this.\nYou need to accept it.\nAs for solutions, when she brags make it your thing to build her up more. she sounds insecure, so if she is bragging about being so popular, tell her that you think its great that she gets along well with so many different people. If she is looking to you for affirmation of her awesomeness, give it to her and she can move on.\nHow does she embarass you?