why does your boyfriends act tough around you ?
145431
boyfriends act rough around their girlfriends ,only to impress them.
335603
I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.
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It sounds like you have a guy who loves you dearly and is naturally scared of hurting you. I honestly don't think he would feel like you are afraid of him - if you have talked about what happened, and he is being there for you the way you say he is, then he is simply trying to be there for you in the best way he can, and worries when he's not sure how he can help more.\n\nYou've picked well - don't let this one go :)
521761
hey ya umm well ur boyfriend wants to take things slower than maybe u do my b--freind is like that to me it drives me nuts
1116661
my ex is also like that.. at first i thought it was cute of him being jealous... but as time passes by it really suffocates me.. its like you cant do anything without asking permission from him or him allowing you. He became very possesive and it really kills me... As if i cant live my life by myself... piece of advice girl... don't let your bf becum a monster you should talk to him...and tell him that its normal to be jealous but its also not normal if he's over reacting when he is jealous...
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becuase, guys are very intimidated when others know they have a soft side. try being a football player varsity since my sophomore year. yea. most guys look down on other with soft sides. i mean its not that hes denying you, or rejecting your love for him...just that reputation plays a role these days.
222820
My Grandma says it means that maybe your boyfriend is controlling, bossy, rough, somethin' like that.
254591
it depends if it is your boyfriend he will get mad if not he will maybe try harder if he really likes you.
1059182
Sounds like a loser to me.  The more comfortable he gets with you, the more likely he will start to abuse you, physically or verbaly.  It doesn't sound like you are in a very good situation.  You should get out of it.  Nobody should tell you what to do all of the time and the jealousy thing, it kind of makes me scared for you.  Good luck!
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He trusts you and he is confident in himself, for a start. He must not feel in any way threatened, which shows the strength of your relationship.\n\nBut still, most guys woul dbe a little jealous, so maybe it turns him on to know how desired you are- maybe he really likes that, and it outweighs the jealousy.
380301
Yeah, unfortunately, some people thrive on fighting. Or look at your relationship, how long have you been together?? Is he trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy?? Did you do something he hasn't forgiven you for?? If he always has to fight with you then I'm guessing he's not the type to talk about it. Are you?? What do YOU want?? Are you happy like this?? Try talking to him
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He take u serious, he pay attention to u more he like to be around. U find him glaze at u more than once. He say nice things to u. He might even say something about u to get u mad at him.
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My husband was that way in his early twenties when we were dating. It's a guy thing. I think they do it to not look like the girl is in control of them. They mature eventually. I would talk to your boyfriend alone and ask him. Do you think you act different when your around your friends? Why do you think your friend teases me?  Say it in a calm and casual way. Just to see what he says. You could even kid around with the guy who teases you about your age and say, by the way your acting you wouldn't know the difference in our age.\n  In the end it seems all boys and young men go through that phase. I learned to give it right back to them. I would like to think they think of you as a friend and they are kidding around. I remember a time when i didn't like joking around or "busting chops" but as i got older and learned how to give it right back. I learned not to be so sensitive, not that you are, and it actually made the guys I hung out with more comfortable around me. There were times when I would give it right back and they would say something that made me a little sensitive and I couldn't think of anything to say and it was at thoughts times when I learned to laugh at myself and say to them "o.k. you got me". I hope i could help. I know exactly what your going through, I was there. I does get better.
172389
Kick is butt to the curb.  It isn't much of a relationship if he is lying and making you look bad on purpose.  If a boyfriend doesn't respect you then he is just a boy and not your friend at all.
601920
Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.
725994
If by bitchy, you mean a girl who knows her own worth and will not allow anyone to run over her and will tell you when she thinks you have disrespected her, men like this kind of woman because she challenges him to be his best.  He knows that if he wants this better kind of woman, he must be thoughtful of her feelings, work hard for a living because she will not just accept any excuse for a man, have plans for his future (which will not necessarily include her if their plans do not match) and be a man not an excuse for 1.  If you mean a girl who is rude and crude for the heck of it, it is because he is stupid.    By the By, if you feel that you must always agree with your bf or risk losing him, I feel sorry for you
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If you have to ask because you don't like how he treats you, he probably is. \n\nIf you don't feel like he is using you and he just looks guilty, he might just be nervous.  Some people feel nervous and guilty just because they think they are not perfect/are too self critical, so don't go just on that.