do u judge a girl by looks or personality? what do u look for in there personality?
144318
looks is always a good thing but personlity stands out more because you don't want to be with someone who has a bad attitude or who does things you don't like or who doesn't share anything good or worthwhile in common with you.
489777
Personality: she should be intelligent and outgoing. I like somebody I could talk to for hours without getting bored. Even if we're just sitting at a park or in the car, always have something to talk about. She has to be confident about herself in general, her sexuality, her looks, her emotions. She has to be romantic and sweet, but at the same time strong and ambitious. She needs to know about other cultures, maybe a foreign language (or two). She needs to enjoy traveling too. Mature of course. \n\nLooks: if she has all (or almost) of the above, looks don't matter that much. She could be any color and I'd like her. It'd be nice if she's into sports, since I am. It doesn't matter if she's feminine or not. They have to dress nice tho, not like a little teenage girl. \n\nWoW...I didn't know these until you made me think about it LOL. Am I being too exigent?
1163320
Well, I like girls that look good, and don't have a dull personality.\nOpen minded, someone who isn't living for material wealth. Things like that. I don't really "look" for them, as much as I just end up meeting them and talking with them.
650302
Honesty, sincerity, ambition ... above average libido, intelligence and a great sense of humour ... good lookin' with a great "bod" ... fairly well grounded i.e. spiritually and family upbringing. Not in any special order!\n\nA fair question would be ... have I found her yet??? eh!?!?
399329
First of all, looks are the second thing a person should look for.  Personality is number one.  I find it makes a person more beautiful.  You may be looking at a "Trophy Girl" now, but down the road you may find she is ugly.\nOn the other hand, if you really like her...ask her out to lunch, dinner, or do something you both have in common.  Show her your true stars.\nYou cannot MAKE a person like you.  If you are worried about just her beauty, you will never get anywhere.  Be yourself.  Be interested in her likes and dislikes.  Start out very slow and it may end up the way you both would like.  It takes two!  Good Luck!
226648
what's your life style?\nIf you judge a person by appearance  you will miss out on a lot of great woman. I know I used to be a bomb shell now I old. I can see many b**ches that act the way I did when I was young. I missed out on some great guys because I judged a person by their looks. Good luck! Grow up. Find a fat chick they are the better woman.
1128525
Cute, Funny, Sweet with a personality! Not just a Flashy Doll!\nAs for general appearance Girls generally take more care than Most blokes.\nGIRLS THINK that Big Breast's are very important. I REALLY LIKE SMALL Breast's!!! As do a lot of blokes.\n\nNOT LIKED ARE!\nJealousy! Eager to change YOU! Divide you from Friends & Family!
27975
I want a girl, who gets up early and stays up late.. with finger nails that shine like justice and eyes that burn like cigarettes.. w/ a short skirt and a Long Jacket-cake  j/k ..lol \n\na girl that takes care of herself, both physically, emotionally (limited drama) = low maintenance. who is reasonable, personally respondsible & accountable.\n\na girl with life goals beyond the generic marriage & kids (important, but needs to want something more in life). optimistic, passionate and self motivated.\n\na girl who understands her selfworth ( self respect & confident) importance of humility, and selflessness. \n\nbeyond that..(which I know is alot) I really seek someone who has a great imagination.. artistic, a manic creative.
298752
Come on, how 'not pretty' are we talking about? Yeah, I'm shallow. I'm not looking for a model or a beauty queen, but she can't be straight up ugly. Personality is great though, and yes, you can become more attracted to someone you relate to. It makes a difference, but sometimes it takes a lot of personality.
465633
NO. looks are skin deep, and while alluring at first, her personality can make her seem really ugly. while a person who doesn't look that great can have a personality that makes her seem more cute or beautiful. \n\nI'd definitely go for personality over looks, i always have, and i always will.\n\nthat having been said, if the girls has some cute or nice features, that is always a bonus. :)\n\nanother way to think about it is like this, look at your grandparents (if they are still together) they love each other and they probably don't look like supermodels. looks eventually go, but the person inside the body never changes. this is another reason i will always go for personality over looks.
1036231
Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
812769
I think girls are fine the way they are, curvy, slim, skinny, fit, fat, whatever. All they need is a great personality and/or intelligence. A cute face helps too lol
934697
I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
895915
How should I know what your personality's like?
525241
sure looks grab your attention.. a person can be gorgeous on the outside and ugly on the inside..looks fade personality is forever..
459725
Both.  At first it is on her looks (how she dresses, acts, make-up, hair, etc.)  Once I get to know her, personality, if I can accept the first set.\n\n(Sorry to sound shallow, but if a woman dresses like a street-walker and acts like a street-walker, I have no interest in getting to know her more.\n\nI prefer someone who is a lot more conservative)
525519
Their personality! I go by what a girl has within their minds.