GUYS: help me with my creepy boyfriend?
146153
JUST LEAVE THE A-H*LE!!!! \n\nYour only hurting yourself by staying.
117466
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
669888
If he's stalking you he must really love you.  Just tell him to bring a pizza next time.  Kill 2 burds.
378483
You will know when Yall do things that he would do with his boys. When he's around dress down. If he's attracted to you without the makeup and clothes then he will definately like you when you look like a dime. So tell him the truth about you and dont make him feel like you want him. Tell him you feelin him but you aint lookin for anyone. The thing is guys love a chase. Play the games they so call dont like to play and you will have him on a leash in no time!!!
1011864
Don't hold your breath hoping this guy is going to change.  Women have to keep thier options open.  Don't settle for this creep.  If you two are intimate, do you really want to be with him?  There are too many diseases out there to keep people like this in your life.  Ditch him.
1106613
If he thinks your stalking him, he is obviously not romantically interested in you.  Try to find someone who shares your feelings and returns your affection or your just asking for disappointment.
732745
Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
748370
Because now that you're together, he thinks your his 'property' and he can do anything sexual, no matter where you are! If you don't like it, tell him to stop. If that doesn't work set ground rules, if he's still ignoring you, dump him! You want a boyfriend not pervert!
987268
He sounds like a pervert to me. Don't let him touch you.
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
35853
There's a good chance you might be able to keep him as your weird boyfriend and still leave room for another boyfriend.  You should ask him.  You know if he's weird, he might go for it.
864815
i could spy on him for you. just give me his email address and i'll try and hack into his account and find out if there's a third party involved. if there's indeed a third party, i could ruin him for you. :)\n\nor... you could just observe his actions. if he's colder than he usually is, if he doesn't reciprocate with your usual sweet gestures, then there's something amidst. ask him casually if there's something bothering him. then try to pick things up from there.
783876
At all times keep a third person involved and informed. Keep a running record, like a diary, of time, place, what happened and show Principal each day if you must. Stay safe. Never speak to the creepy guy directly or alone. Do not make eye contact. If Principal does not keep you safe or listen to you, tell your parents or a school counselor or a favorite teacher. They should tell him privately that looks, words, contact is, starting now, illegal and a rule breaker where he is concerned. Do not be bullied and do not, under any circumstances talk to or look at this person. Do not send double messages  like "stay away" but then smiling at him because you feel sorry for him or because you have felt safe for a minute. Send only one message to him via your actions and that is, stay away, you do not exist, I will tell on you everytime, if you can't take "no" for an answer it is because you are not thinking about me but only thinking about yourself and you are glaring at me because I said "no" to you and you think everyone should say yes to you. Normal people can take no for an answer and normal people report abuse every time. Normal people say "no"..."no, leave me alone" etc. Keep being real, keep telling, keep listening to yourself. Tell everyone. They will observe too that he has creepy behavior. Again, never speak to this person. It would be a double message, a mixed message of leave me alone and yet I still talk to you. No. Do not speak to him ever. He will take that little courtesy and think that you like him or that he can control you. Keep being yourself. You know what to do. Tell and stay away from him. Do not be polite. he will use your politeness against you. Do not be flattered by his attention. Something is wrong with him. Stay away.
540090
Write him a letter, a real letter not just email.  Explain it all, that you don't want to scare him but you really want to be with him and you want to know how to take the next step him.  Then talk to him and find out.  Good luck!
580123
tell him straight that he dont stand a chance.mention to him that he's scaring you..just tell him what you really fee..but in a nice way ok? goodluck!
133432
This is an easy one. Tell your boyfriend, "I don't trust you and I'd like to have control over things you do. Therefore, give me your password so I can watch your every move while on line."
259559
Guys like to hear that you trust them. Tell him you trust him, but be very watchful of his behvavior. If anything suspicious occurs, then talk about it; if things get worse -DUMP HIM! BUT, often times, guys don't change over night, and no matter how pretty you are, they still won't change for you - so you could save yourself time, and get rid of him now - but, the choice is yours.