Can't figure out friends sexual preference???? Help?
140973
Seriously, go suck him off, if you like it, you're gay, if he likes it, he's gay, if you both like it, you're both gay.Or you could go ask your daddy how long he's been packing fudge.......
302959
It really depends. You could just be curious, or excited to try something new. But it also could mean that you are bisexual. Why don't you talk to your friend about it? If she is bisexual or lesbian, she will be able to help you through it.
426693
well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
719486
Do this based on your chemistry together. From what i've experienced and heard from others:\n\n"If a girl sees a guy as just just a friend from the start, it will stay that way, but if the girl has a thing for the guy from the start it will always be there."\n\nThis could work for you in reverse gender. If thre was something there at the start, and you both felt it, then you should tell him and get things startedd ;)\n\nGood luck to you and your friend
837098
Hi there!\n\nWell I'm sure your friend did not "just discover he is gay" it's not like you look under this rock one day and Oh My God I just discovered this.\nIt just sounds cute the way you said it, but I'm sure he has known for quite a while because gay does not BING turn on all of a sudden.\nSo support him be his best friend more then ever right now, because it took him tremendous courage to even speak to you about it ...I would think.\nI don't know how old either one of you are but it is the same for heteros as homos we all need and all need at the different ages, so just be there for him and love him. It will all come in time, his courage will build and he will meet people just as everyone does, give it time. Maybe at school there are some support groups for gays, something like that could be helpful for him and help him feel more secure about himself plus he could meet people.
1001275
I have many friends that are either/or.  They are still good people but have a difference on their sexual outlook.  If they are your friends that is all they have to be nothing more.  I had a male friend who I did not know was gay and when he told me after 5 years of friendship I was only upset because he didn't tell me.  I told him I still loved him the same and we were best friends for many more years after that.  Some people are very mean when it comes to that.
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
228516
which ever I'm attracted to.. ?
478374
Okay, so tell me;  exactly what IS the definition of a "NORMAL" PERSON?  Who sas that because you are gay, you are not normal.  I do not like pizza, does that mean I am not normal?  When I have intimacy I like candles and soft music going all night, does that mean I am not normal?  I mean, what do normal people eat and like???  \nCome on, think about this.  Don't let anyone tell you that what your preference is -is not normal.  Normal for who?  For them?  Do they have a right to try to control your life by dictating what type of desires you should have?\nListen, if you are not attracted to the opposite sex, then don't try to fake it, just because someone sas you are not "normal".  Please don't try to be one of the crowd by doing it their way and making yourself and your mate unhappy in the meantime.  There is nothing worse than a phony.  \nIf you're saying you are not happy with the same sex, then fine.  Do the other sex, but do it because this is your nature, your need and your desire, not that of an society driven antagonistic snob.\n\nGet my drift?  Be yourself and be happy being who you are and change only if this is really your preference, not that of "getting others to appove."  Just be yourself and hold your head up high, either way.  Know who you are and what you want. Period the end...............
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
193419
I've looked really hard for you- but I can't find a thing. \nI found some books that might relate to what you are looking for.\nI can see why you are struggling with this question!\nTo be honest- it's nice to see an intelligent question- rather than those who don't know what sex is!!!\nGood luck with your research. Hope it works out well!
609532
I'm laughing at the answer above me. Where did you get this information?  It actually lists his sexual orientation?!  Who cares, no need to share.
1150084
At this point I'd say bi-curious, if you tried it and liked it, then bi.  Be sure to discuss things with your husband first, you don't want him to be upset, or find out through someone else.  And if you do choose to be with one of your friends, make sure she knows that you are still married and are staying married, that it is a no strings kind of thing.  That way no one gets hurt.
927380
That's probably the best relationship question I've ever seen asked.\n\nAnd I don't know if I can give a good answer that's universal, and I don't think anyone can.\n\nBut... at the root of it all, is that a straight or bi-guy, and a straight or bi-girl will always have that hormonal thing going on between them. Pheromones in the air will always in some way impact any relationship (at least in person) between male and female (not sure if both are gay though... that might be the exception - where guys and girls can be just friends...).\n\nAnd socially/mentally I think even online there is some element of sexual tension invariably lurking in the background. At least when you *know* the gender of the person you're interacting with.\n\nOddly - I'm not sure which is worse - knowing, or guessing the gender of the person I'm interacting with.  I think many, maybe all of us make assumptions.\n\nLike I just realized I assume that you are a straight woman asking this. And that's ironic, as I started writing this up I wrote clinically - gender and orientation independent as it were... \n\nI think for me at least - there is a special element of love for my female friends that is very different from the relationships I have with my male friends. And to be clear, I'm a straight male - and that may significantly impact how I've responded. I don't know.\n\nBut again - great question - look forward to reading replies.\n\n-dh
305901
Its good that you were honest with your friend, he knows how you feel about him now and also knows your sexual preferences. But if he is not interested then you need to let him be and just try to be friends, he is entitled to his own sexual preferences as much as you so it is important to respect that.\n\nIt seems like he still wants to be mates so you might be able to build a good friendship with this guy, most young men probably wouldn't want anything to do with you if they knew you fancied them (i'm assusming you're male) so he sounds pretty understanding and cool and might be able to offer you some good support.\n\nIf he does want more than a friendship at some stage he'll come to you.
213779
nothing...we do live in america you can choose what sexuality you are doesnt matter what anyone tells you otherwise! of course if someone is straight they probally thinik your weird..but theres nothing wrong..and dont try to change your sexuality cause some idiot decides to share there opinion  be proud of who you are and what you are\nHope I helped!
1184584
How does your family and friends feel about homosexuality? If they are open to this kind of lifestyle just invite them over and just let them know that you want to share something that is very important to you with them. If that made any sense.