hi; how i can find real love, i m trying . but ?
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Don't go looking it will find you.
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People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works! \n\nThe thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.\n\nMore often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.\n\nBut actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!\n\nMarriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.\n\nBecause, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!
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Things are tough all over. I have been looking for a long time and no luck. So don't feel like the Lone Ranger. Maybe you are still looking for that knight in shining armor to come and sweep you off your feet. Good luck' There is no such thing.
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Alow your heart to find another love\nif you stick with your present love you will loss the chance to find another true love\nLeave him\nGive your self a true chance for another true productive Love \nyou will find him but only if you give your self that chance\nGood Luck
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Stop searching for your soul mate and you will find her. When you are looking for someone you will never find them. I stopped looking and WHAM there he was. (we are still together) Good luck. Yes true love exists.
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Look in the yellow pages...\n\nNobody can tell you how to find your soul mate, we don't know you.  Besides, love and your soul mate will happen, you can't find either of those by searching
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Try church.  If you don't find love there at least maybe you will feel better spiritually.
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
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You dont have to ask ppl where to find love! The right person will alwayz be there you just have to find her! You will never have to think twice when you do find true love b/c u will know....... you will feel a feeling that you have never felt b4 and you will know they are the right person that u want to spend the rest of your life wit! \n~ ya gurl Candi
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I am single for 26 years.. look am I frustrated...\n\ndo the traditional way of finding.. "Keep looking
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keep tryng but be careful. If you still can't find someone good, then be prepared to be single.
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You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)
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take your time and try to listen what your heart says.I had some experiences before and that works if you find the right person.But do not trust some 1 easily on the net.Try to discover with the help of time..Good luck
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Appartently not yet. But keep trying maybe one day you'll meet the right person
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because love is hard to find when you're looking for but when you aren't it won't leave you alone. Yes it is true, as strange as it is. But just have fun, enjoy life and trust me love will find you, you will meet someone special when you least expect it.
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Yes, it exists!!!\n\nApparently you haven't come across someone who is a good match for you, who has the same goals, life views, world views, and idea of perfect relationship that you do.  \n\nWhat is it you are looking for?  Do you know?  What is your definition of "true love"?  It could be that so far you are dating people whose definition is different than yours.\n\nThe best match is someone who makes us laugh, whom we make laugh as well; someone with whom we have a lot in common, including short term and long term goals, and world view, someone whose habits and characteristics you can live wiht, and who can live with yours; and someone with whom you have mutual respect.\n\nSometimes it takes a while and meeting a lot of people to find a few that come close to what we are looking for.  Don't settle for less.  But do get to know yourself and re-examine your thoughts on what true love is, just to make sure you are being realistic.  You may be . only you can decide that.\n\nYour love is out there!
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Don't look for love, it'll come to you. Everytime you go out looking for love it always ends up in bad news. Just be open to new friends and love will sweep you away. BE PATIENT