What is love?is it good or bad?
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Love is an action not a word, as far as man and women love goes, it is finding one that makes you a whole person, and you fell whole, and complete, is it good? it is good when you find the one, it is bad when you don't.
1006700
Well  for me Love is something that makes you who you are,\nLove is being happy for the other person when they are happy, \nbeing sad for the other person when they are sad, \nbeing together in bad times and good times...\nLove is being honest with yourself at all times,\ntelling, listening, and never pretending...\nLove is an understanding that is so complete \nthat you feel as if you are a part of the other person,\naccepting the other person just the way they are, \nand not try to change them to be something else...\nLove is freedom to pursue your own desires, \nwhile showing your experiences with the other person...\nLove is the excitement of planning things togeather...\nLove is the fury of the storm, the calm in the rainbow...\nLove is the source of passion...\nlove is seen yourself in the eyes of the person that shares your heart.
90579
Love is when you have someone that you love and you do stuff together and you care about them! You comprimise your problems! Tell eachother you love them! Work together so things work! You have confidence in your relationship and most of all will never ever let anything get in the way of that!
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Love is the best thing in the world . It is who u think about when u wake up and who u think about when u go to bed. It is the person that can make everyone in the room disappear when they enter.Their smile melts your heart and their love for u makes your life worth  living.
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Based on what I think love is ... I think it's a connection between both.\n\nTrue Love ....\n\nIt's as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. It is everything it's hyped about to be. It's worth taking every risk, it's worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don't risk all then you risk even more. Love is kind of an elixir that lures us out of reality and into the realm of fantasy. It's like a drug creating an altered state of consciousness.\n\nLove is the moment when an unfavorable act becomes favorable, when you make excuses for some one else's mistakes, when you learn to tolerate, when you learn acceptance, when sacrificing becomes the beauty of life. \n\nIt's the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe its unspeakable.\n\nIt's the time when seeing some one, being seen by some one and thinking about some one feels good, when you learn to find happiness in the smallest of moments.\n\nThat's love--when you learn to put down your ego and love some one more than that.\n\nLove is forgetting your self and remembering some one else. \n\nLove is choosing your partner exactly as he is, and supporting him in his choices. It's honoring your partner's truth and wanting best for him.\n\nIt's not controlling or possessing but rather respecting and trusting.\n\nIt does not mean owning some one, getting some one, rather it means being happy in your loved one's happiness.\n\nLove means living without judgments. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking him for granted. \n\nLove means being able to forgive and learning to give more then you get. It means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions.\n\nIt means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the hurts and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. \n\nFalling in love is like being enveloped in a magical cloud. The air feels fresher, the flowers smell sweeter, food tastes more delectable, and the stars shine more brightly at night. You feel light and lofty as though you are floating through life, and your problems and challenges suddenly seem insignificant and easily surmountable. Your body feels alive, your skin tingles and you awaken in the morning with a smile on your face. You are suspended in a state of supreme delight.\n\nLove is a feeling and an action that arises from the most primal place within us. Making a relationship however, is a process that is learned. A relationship is the vessel that carries the precious cargo of love through time.\n\nRelationships are like a precious antique lamp; it takes a little polish and some effort to restore it to its valuable condition. A relationships love and luster will only improve with age if you continually give it the care that keeps it beautiful. But once you uncover its essential beauty it will bring you joy for years to come.\n\nAfter having said all this I want to say that you have to make the decision on your own, on one hand love is magic, on the other it's time tested relationship worked hard and furiously at.
870059
No it's not bad.  You can like, love or be crazy about someone without liking, loving or beign to crazy about all of the things that person does!
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love is selfless doing for others.  it is an action - the way you treat a person.\n\nlust is thinking about what that person can do for you and how they can make you feel
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See how your "love" compares with this definition of love:\n\n*** Love is long-suffering and kind. \n\n*** Love is not jealous.\n\n*** Love does not brag nor get puffed up.\n\n*** Love does not behave indecently. \n\n*** Love does not look for its own interests.\n\n*** Love does not become provoked. \n\n*** Love does not keep account of injuries. \n\n*** Love does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. \n\n*** Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.\n\n*** Love never fails.
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Good question, 'love' is such an umbrella term for the whole gamut of human attraction feelings. I guess the only way you know you love someone is if you put them first before yourself all the time. Personally I think this is a crazy idea, which is why I won't fall in love, nor will I lie to someone either. I think people need to be more honest and not say things that their partner wants them to say but they don't feel. Love is what you make of it, everyone has their own set of rules for it. To ask others what it is, is like saying what is the definition of chocolate flavoured ice cream? You can bet it tastes different every place you have it. Chocolate is a good substitute for love anyway, so eat that!
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love is the most beautiful thing in life..\nyou canot live with out love.\nlove is like the sun shine ; love is like the stars in the sky; love is like the child inosent and sweet; love is god itself; you r born in the world to love love people and get love from everyone living in the universe; \n\nbut mostly you r born to get love from that person who is made for you and for whom you r created......\n\nnow i don't have words to express it............
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A good marriage is what you choose to make of it. It is commitment and love and sharing and giving on both parts. It is unselfishness respect and love and caring for each other through good times and bad and loving each other unconditionally no matter what and cherishing and treating them the way you want to be treated!
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I know it is hard, but you just can't give up on love. It is not good for you. Love brings happiness. I know that it can be scary but that is just half the fun of it, right.
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Love is a blessing. Even if it ends, the time that you had together is a blessing. The good memories, you get to keep and treasure forever. The bad memories, you get to learn from and make future relationships better.\n\nLove makes you feel happy. It's the other stuff that makes you unhappy.
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No, not bad.\nLove is always an acceptable emotion to feel and we generally can not control our feelings only our expression of them.\nRomance is a confusing horse of a different color.  A Romantic attachment can seem very much like love and is often confused with it.  Romance never lasts on its own, love can but usually requires some effort.  Romance can hurt, love does not.  Romance can lead to jealousy, love does not.  Romance almost requires the other person to feel the same about you, love does not.
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Love is the awesome emotional tie that a couple has between each other and when that love is felt then sex turns into making love....That's how it should be.  Sex can be done by anyone but Love making is done by people who are in love and love each other, truly.
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love with friend or having an affair is good only if u r faithful and honest to each other. \none should love at least once in life, as pure love makes a person a good human being and a loving soul
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This goes back to the age old question; what is love? well this is my definition: Usually people say that they love someone because the other person makes them laugh; makes them feel comfortable; makes them smile and laugh; makes them feel complete - i tend to say that's not love - that's a self centred feeling. Love to me is when you want to be with the other person beause you want to make HIM/OR HER happy, you want to make THEM feel comfortable, make THEM smile and laugh; make THEM feel complete. Love is more of giving then wanting something from someone. A simple love test: If you took the brains of someone you think you love and put it on another body, would you feel the same? If you would then that's love, because you care and want to GIVE to the person - regardless of looks... more of what's in the inside. So, are you in love? I hope so :)