why doesnt this boy like me ? i am an ordinary girl and nice i just have a slightly deep voice?
143837
ask him. hes the only one that knows the answer at ur question
575762
i think he likes you, but he is just shy, boys can be annoying like that.\nif you really wanna know the truth then just ask him straight up.
898798
he likes you but has to be "the man" in front of his boys.the only thing to do is get him away from them and tell him how you feel.it may take awhile for him to mature.but he wants you. let him know he has to respect you and not diss you in front of his friends or he will never be with you .if he grows up and cares about you it will work.the reason this is happening is that men are taught to be "manly" and act like they don't have feelings.if you have boy or girl children do not enforce the bs stereotypes.
386314
well noone has answered and im a girl but i will answer anyways! I would feel like they didnt like me. You'd better call him just say hi and bye short and sweet so he knows ur thinking about him.
849692
don't change yourself for a boy. if he doesn't see how great you are just as yourself...chances are, he's not as great as you think.\n\nmaybe that's the other thing. if you can't talk to him in person, you probably won't have a good time dating him.\n\nbest of luck.
28418
just be yourself, if he doesnt like you for who you are then that's his problem and he's probably missing out on someone great ^_^ if you wanna know how to talk to a serious person, then talk seriously, and act like you might be interested, but be casual about it at the same time.
196199
Either he is a baby junior son of a btch or he has a crush on you. I will go out on a limb and say you are probably an adolescent and that is just what some guys do when they like a girl. He is probably too scared to ask you out and this playful way of flirting is a way for him to get your attention and is easy to turn around if you don't like him back. I say that you give him the green light if you like him back or just play along the next time he "teases" you because now you know why. Best Wishes
215897
nothing because I am a girl, I like boys
386575
Aye, honey I'm having the same issues as you (but in this case, I don't think he likes me.) Usually (from what my girl friends have told me), guys are very upfront with their feelings and they're obvious about it. He may pay more attention to you, be touchier with you, laugh more around you and look happy/act happy when you're around. Surprisingly, this boy might even tease you to an extreme point if he has feelings for you (it happened to me once) which is very 5th grade, but it still happens. You could, however, just go up and ask him if you want a direct answer :) because no matter what people tell you, there's usually no way to know unless he tells someone or you ask him yourself.
391612
why are u concerned with boys at this point in your life? I'm pretty sure u have more important things to think about than worrying about why boys dont like ya...anyway, you're only 14 and need to learn to love yourself first.
777166
you sound so much like me. I am 12 too. I am also a girl. I used to have boi troubles all the time. Then I got a bf. If you ever want to chat email me at:\n\nblondeqt4ver8994@yahoo.com\n\nanyway. You sound like me because I used to like a guy that said things like you know you like me, and screw my balls. \n\nI dont like him because I realized when I got a boyfriend that he was just a guy with a really big ego. So, I thijnk you should try and find someone else.  Hope you will email me. or IM. my IM screen name is the same as my email address but w/o the @yahoo.com part. Bue Bye
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Don't just "like" someone because they are "hot".  remember, he is a person just like you. He looks good?\nSo?  And you think you don't?  Then so will he.  Show him you have a good personality, and maybe he will take notice of you.  OR>>>>  maybe when you least expect it, another boy will show you interest!  \n\nRemember...Like someone because they have a good personality, and they are kind, and good to all people.  That way, you will know he will probably treat you good too.
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Why do you really like him? If its because you just find him hot and he seems really cool, well its best you find out what he is really like before you take any steps forward. Hang out with hi, see how he talks to other people..this way you can see if he treats you more special or any different. Be confident and present yourself as you, now who he might like..that way you know he likes you for who you are, not who he imagines you to be..keep in mind boys are verry verrry simple, its us girls that complicate things :)\n\nhow do you tell him? hang around him more. listen intently when he talks, make physical contact but not too directly (touch his shoulder, lean on him) and always make eye contact. if you want to tell him directly don't do it in a situation where there are a lot of people. If he doesn't like you he may react and you don't want to be embarassed :) good luck girl!
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Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
808908
Ok, you shouldn't need to get a boy to like you. Just be yourself and someone will like you for you. Don't change for somone. If you are yourself then someone will relize that they like you.
532995
this boy sounds like he doesn't like you. why would he go out with your friend if he knew you liked him and liked you too?
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Are you going to be afraid of boys forever?\nJust ask him\nIf he embarrasses you or makes you feel bad or stupid for being honest... then forget him\nThere are plenty of cute boys out there that are nice and will respect you and your values. It's up to YOU to be picky.\nAlways be yourself and never compromise your values for the attention of anybody- especially a dumb boy.