is it ok to date a 27 year old guy when ur 18 year old girl?
152885
Well, from a legal stand point it is perfectly fine to be dating him. You do need to consider though, his experience in life vs your own. Chances are he has done a lot more living then you have. In the begining your age differences may not effect your relationship much, but in time he could become possesive and controlling and try to stop you from living your young carefree life. Wanting to settle down ect... I watched this happen to my sister, and before she knew what was happening she felt stuck, and had a baby, and he had her convinced that she was nothing without him, often using his experience in life against her youhful ways. She did finally get out, after a few years, but now she is a single mom trying to make a life for her and her child and this guy is still a thorn in her side and will be for the rest of her life since she shares a child with him. While you might be thinking this would never happen to me, once upon a time my sister thought the same thing. Be careful & good luck.
1158891
no, you can date him, but u can not have sex unit he is 18
329367
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
5445
The 2 year age difference don't matter because i am dating a girl who is 13 and I am 15 unless you are thinking about sex and he is too but your nor his parents will let it happen unless you have a dad like mine is and he dose too so age really don't matter to anyone unless it comes to that
345557
Hey age doesn't matter! If the both of you are compatible with each other then go for it! That is what matters the most.
1116518
love... im fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for almost four months now and never once has he asked me to or pressured me to have sex with him. actually i was the one who brought it up but he said he wanted to wait. i said that's fine with me. we love each other so much and i know he's the one for me and he feels the same way about me. i would do anything for him. there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old boy and a 14 year old girl together. the age difference isn't that much and it is said that women mature faster than men. i love having a mature boyfriend. unlike the other boys my age. mabey he feels like the other girls are way too mature for him and he wants to actually go out and have fun instead of always being bitched at lol. too much drama with 17 year old girls
1181304
My boyfriend is 43 and I am 25.  We have been together for 3 years now and it is the best relationship I have been in.  I couldn't imagine ever dating somebody my own age again.  They are so immature and in this relationship I feel like there is stability.  I think he will definitely stay with you because men like younger women and if you are good to him and he is good to you, it will work.
1015046
No, it is not illegal to continue dating your girlfriend. She is considered your contemporary (meaning she is in your age group) because she is less than 3 years younger than you. Thats great if you guys are not having sex but if you both decide that you want to, I don't think thats a problem either. It depends on the age of consent in your state. Sometimes it is as low as 14. In the majority of states it is 16. That means she takes the responsibility for consenting to having intercourse with a contemporary whether or not he is minor like she is.
85496
It's a matter of personal choice - love has no boundaries... my dad is married to someone 16 years younger than him... his wife likes older men, and he likes younger women.. also, when you are in high school, you may think that it's wrong to date someone who's 3 years older, but then as you get into college you may start thinking it's ok to date someone who's 5-10 years older.. It all comes down to personal preference. So long as it's not like you're under 18 years old or dating someone in your own family! That's considered unethical in many societies.\n\nMore answers to your question in the link below.
841299
Well if hes nice and you can trust him and hes not too old for you then you should
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
738829
depends on what level of dating you want. It could be totally ok unless you cross the sexual realm and then it could come into a question of legality he could be charged with satutory rape because of his age and yours, I dated nothing but older guys in highschool but never crossed the line into sex, alot of guys around that age are scared to anyway simply because of the possibilities of charges. and some just simply stayed away from the younger girls because of it.
140236
Even though it may seem cool that he likes you Tell him to back off and wait till you are older.\nMost 18 year olds seek relationships with girls close to their own age. A boy who singles out a much younger girl often has serious problems. You might get pressured for sex, He might become possesive or abusive. My 17 year old daughter says you should call the cops.
519671
If you are legal age (you didn't mention your age) then dating him is no big deal if you are both interested in one another.  If there is a huge age difference between you both you might keep in mind that your relationship with him might not be long term, as you might not have much in common.  However, as long as you are of legal age then go for it - who's to stop you.
405569
In this case -- and this is rare -- it might be okay.  You're definitely better off with an 18-year-old guy who's nice, than a 15 or 16 year old dirtbag.
987700
You thought you were falling for a 27 year old so it sounds like you have an age limit in mind.  He might deceive you on the number of sex partners and so forth just because he has had more experience in life.  If you want to be with someone who will die long before you do, then go for it, if not, then you should move on.
1049849
Why does age matter? If you like him and he likes you go for it. They say all's fair in love and war. I say you better get your man before somone else does. Anyway. Just be careful about if you two are still going out when your 18. Because that's against the law. You got three more years though. Hope I helped.