i am very much atttracted to a married girl.?
140504
Umm .. that relationship comes with to much baggage. A baby and a husband you dont need!! You can surly find a nice single girl.
698317
Tell her you want to remain single.  You are not the type who can settle with a marriage.  Tell her you may not be faithful to her so it is better to be friends.
227483
It sounds like a good way to get shot,by him or her,If she is really into her marriage she will sense something is wrong and confront him herself.when that happens she may need YOU.Try to be there for her then.
819663
Well, I would say if your "love" is married to someone else, then she is not YOUR "love".  Grow up, get over it!  She obviously wasn't in love with you the way you are her.  If you still talk to your "love", then just keep being her friend don't try to ruin anything between her and her husband.  If you really love her, be happy for her that she is happily married to the love of her life.
354421
buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
796323
Someone on the Internet can tell you anything and a lot they do tell you is just what you want to hear. Enjoy it has something to kill time but dont take it as a relationship you will only get hurt. There are plenty of married men out there that use girls like you as a toy yet still have loving and normal relationships with their wife's and children. Get away from the key board go out and meet someone in the flesh its much safer and real
680231
May I suggest if you're looking for a long term relationship I would move on.\n\nThis lady has everything.  A husband who isn't always around, a good friend like you who is kind to her when she needs someone, etc.\n\nLooking at things from the outside I believe she is just giving you enough to keep you hanging on "i.e. the skin on her stomach is soft, etc."  Mixed signals and the fact she is a married woman.\n\nYou deserve better.\n\nJan
433500
Never! Even if she is unhappy in her marriage, you do NOT have the right to interfere. There are enough unattached people in the world. Find one of those. Think about her family. Does she have children, who will be affected by this? Do you want to start a relationship with someone who is willing to betray her current husband? Could you ever trust her not to do this with someone else? Be realistic. Lastly, would you want someone to do this to you?
903608
Seems like you really love this girl. Well a lot of people get married and talk about working and going to school at the same time, but you have to remember that if you do that, you have to have time for her too because what's the whole point of getting married with her if your not going to give her attention. If your planning in going to school first, why not go to school for 2-3 years first then get married and you could finish your carreer too. You should talk to her first about your feeling and tell her you really do love her and you want to marry her, but also tell her you want to finish your carreer to give her and you a better life. Talk with her you'd be surprised what she may tell you. Good luck. Hey if it helps. I've been married for a little over a year and my husband is so good with me that he lets me work and go to school at the same time because it makes me happy. I still have four more years to go and he helps me out a lot that make me appreciate my husband, but then I do help him a lot too in anything. So hope every thing goes great.
696659
hey dude, sorry to hear it, same happend to me. all we can do is respect the fact that she wants that. Continue to be there for her and she may come around to relize that she wants you.\nBest of luck man
993327
You are her best friend too right?, Well then some of the best marriages started out as best friends.....You will never know unless you ask. Don't let someone else beat you too it for fear of the unknown. I know you are nervous, but if your feelings are this strong, you should ask. She will listen... Best wishes to you both.
446672
dont meet her online..thats not a wife..a wife is someone you meet and you instantly can tell you love..dont go hunting for one though..just let time takes it's pace
513643
sounds like you better invest in some good running shoes & figure out which way is the quickest way out of the house. You sound very young to me, but just know that this woman is married and isnt likely to give that part of her life up the way she gave you other parts of her. I know it feels like love but it really isnt. What it is is lust, learn from these encounters with this middle aged woman and it will make you more worldly when you find a girl your own age to date or to marry..............
174753
hey come on... that's just an infatuation or maybe you're putting your ilussion into reality. what if time will come that you'll meet her and you'll be surprised with her being over weight and some kind of an elephant-look body-shape, will you still fall in love with that lady. i bet you will run away and thanking of yourself for not introducing yourself to her. check it out boy...
787073
tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
427733
Sit down and talk with her and tell her how you fell about her and sex. If that does not work than maybe you and her should think about getting some help. Marriage conslour!! I wish you the best of Luck!!
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.