what are some human natural tendencies that one struggles with?
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I would say self-identity. Most people want to appear "with it" and guys want to have the best babe to accompany them in public and they have to struggle with their choice if their decision on how to be cool doesn't agree with the overall sociocultural norms. This would lead or relate to other tendencies such as seeking relations with the opposite sex, and it has been demonstrated that those who chose the same sex really have some tough issues to deal with, such as the natural tendency of normal people to reject such people. Then there is the natural tendency of a guys best friend wishing he had his babe which both have to struggle with issues such as the babe prefers his friend, or the friendship going bad should the friends desires be made known. \n\n(Sorry, I don't have time to edit this but I can go on and on and make a three page essay here and before I know it three hours will pass by and I'd forget to go to work. This would also be a demonstration of a natural tendency to provide a good concise understandable answer, but struggle with the amount of time I can truly spend pondering this question.)
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This one is my personal favorite, "People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar." -Thich Nhat Hanh, Buddhist monk and poet \n\nIt reminds me not to get stuck in the every day frustrations and try something new, that just because it's comfortable doesn't mean it's healthy or the best thing for me.  :o)
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Natural Instinct. Something like a sixth sense with me. I follow it and it always normally right. The question is are you spritual? For a lot a people that is a driving factor
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Interesting, that could be a part of it. I think that people who have these tendencies and are incapable of fitting in or functioning in normal society tend to gravitate toward places like the military or priesthood because it offers them an escape from the rest of the world. They can hide behind collar or camouflage (or clown make up).
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Is it really that hard to behave?
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Overcoming Shyness and Social Phobia\nShyness, (sometimes inaccurately called 'social phobia'), affects most people at some time in their life. Young people in particular find overcoming shyness difficult as they improve their social skills. And for some, shyness seems to persist into adult life, almost as if it has become a 'habit'.\n\nShyness has its roots in self consciousness and usually dissipates as people mature and become more experienced. However, for some it can 'stick', and then action is required.\n\nAlthough most people think in terms of 'overcoming shyness', it is more likely that you will become comfortable in social situations by learning the strategies of self confidence along with social skills. Then, shyness is no longer the issue, as social nerves will melt away as a new 'habit' takes their place.\n\nShyness versus Social Phobia\n\nIt is my personal opinion that social phobia is too often diagnosed where people are simply experiencing natural shyness. It is perfectly natural to be a little timid in a situation where you don't yet know the 'rules', or what to do. In fact, most people experience some degree of nerves when, say going to meet friends, especially if it is somewhere they haven't been before, or someone new will be there.\n\nWe have to be very careful not to assume that there is something wrong with this. Social nerves are natural, as long as they don't get out of hand. Focusing on them and making them into a 'big thing' will only make matters worse.\n\nWhen learning about social situations, young people need the chance to find their own way, without being labeled with 'social phobia'. This is not to say that social phobia does not exist; I know it does because I have worked with people suffering from it. However, in the vast majority of cases, the solution is social skills training, and perhaps relaxation and rehearsal, rather than drugs.\n\nIf a person can maintain a degree of calmness in a situation, then they are much more likely to be able to learn about how the situation works. However, if they are highly anxious and internally focused, both their emotional state and focus of attention will make it more difficult to pick up on subtle social cues.\n\nThe other key point about overcoming shyness is that most of socialising is an unconscious process. That doesn't mean you should be asleep when you're doing it (tell that to people I speak to at parties ;-), it simply means that much of human communication is non-verbal. That is, 'it's not what you say, it's the way that you say it'.\n\nIf you become highly anxious, this will tend to focus your conscious mind on your immediate environment, getting in the way of those unconscious processes.\nTips For Overcoming Shyness\nCheck out the tips in the article on self consciousness, particularly the ones to do with where you focus your attention.\n\n    * Practise becoming fascinated by other people. Ask them about themselves, and concentrate when they answer you. Remember what they tell you about themselves so you can talk about it later, or on another occasion.\n\n\n    * Great socialisers make other people feel comfortable and interesting. How do they do that? By being really, genuinely interested in other people. If you are talking to someone and you feel boring or inferior, ask why that is. Is it really all your fault?\n\n\n    * Practise using fewer 'personal pronouns' when you talk about things. Sentences beginning with 'I' are not only a turn-off for the listener, they also keep the focus of attention on you, which increases shyness. (Note: Of course, part of friendship is giving away things about yourself, but only when you feel it is appropriate to do so.)\n\n\n    * Remember that the way to overcome shyness is to focus elsewhere. Like on imagining what it will be like to really enjoy the social event, on how it will feel to be fu
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what could be more natural?
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laziness\nhappiness\ncheerfulness
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Human nature is human nature.
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To be of absurd, destructive, nature and unable to control yourself
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make a list-- of the feelings at the forefront of your mind\n\nput them in order from 1-10 (1)\n being the least important to 10 being the most-- and go from there.  Sometimes there are things we just cannot do anything about
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Physical Boundaries\nNot enough recources (food)\nPredation
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The will to stay away from junk food\nThe urge to look athletic/presentable\nThe tolerance to stay on limited meals\nThe never give up attitude
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no\nbut i do it\nit is a nervous habit that is incredibly hard to overcome
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haha good question. i hav one for each mood. when im stressed like nervous or angry i break my nails off which is annooying cause it takes me ages to get them nice. when im impatient i shake my foot, every1 knowas this which is quite funny, they go "ohoh shes shakin the foot!" haha. a couple of gross habits 4 ya: i eat the krusty bits off the top of ketchup and toothpaste, i love the feelin of it in my mouth! hhhmmm wot else?? ill get back 2 ya if i can think of more! lol
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Most people and animals are creatures of habit.
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most commonly the have trouble relaxing the muscles they need.\ntry distraction getting them set up to go then gettin them to tell you about something totally un related.once there mind is on something else they relax and the flow just comes naturally.