im so much nlove with my boyfriend and i feel that he feels the same..how can i keep him more inlove w/me?
154525
dont try to spend every second with him, give him occasional time to himself, but the other guy is right also.  if he starts getting quiet or distant, then back off a little.  dont have sex though too early in a relationship.  that will ruin everything.
371025
I think you should totally tell him exactly how you feel. If he truely loves you then he will change the way that he is to you and if not then obviously it means that you deserve better than. trust me on this i am in this same situation so i know exactly how you feel.
110497
ive been into that, and unfortunately it doesn't,because im always longing for more of a romantic moments with my boyfriend,but its just so hard my feelings just faded away as time goes by,eventhough i havent meet someone over with him,.But you know i have few friends who still have their loved ones though they are so far.It will wok out if both of you really really loved each other so much,distance is not matter my dear...
158224
Just show youre BF how much you love him, that you can't live without him and specially be honest and true to yourself
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
474369
Show your real feelings to him. Tell him often that you care and love him so much. Do things that you think he likes. Always accompany him especially when he have problems, never leave him alone so i'm sure he would realize how much you really love him...
164005
I know most people say that love is a feeling, but it's so much more than that.  Feelings are important, but our feelings can sometimes be deceiving and change.  Are you commited to this guy . . . through thick and thin?  Do you want him to be the one you work through all the hard stuff in life?  Do you have common goals and dreams to build your relationship on?  Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.  I hope you find your love . . . and he finds you.  Best wishes!
457372
you were right. you shouldnt lead him on if you dont feel the same way. the same thing happened to me with my boyfriend and he respected that those feelings hadnt developed for me. eventually i knew for sure that i love him, so when i told him he knew it was real and not a cop out. honesty and trust are the most important things in a realtionship, so never lie.
468919
Try to spend more time with him and show him a side of you that no one else can see...\n\nbut as someone already mentioned, you can't force anyone to love you. all you can do is be your best and wait.\n\nbest wishes! =]
59132
Sorry to tell you, but you can't MAKE someone love you more.\n\nWhat you CAN do, though, is showing him that he can rely on you and that you're always there for him. Make sure that he can relax with you and be totally himself.\nAlso, little romantic things are always good. Love letters, little surprises, something that shows him how much you think of him and how much you care.\n\nShould it still look like he isn't serious about you afterwards, then sorry, dear, let him go.\nNo matter how much you're in love, you deserve someone who has exactly the same feelings for you. If he is not up to that, then he's not the right one.
705536
You should feel special and irreplaceable, but it will take some time, are you sure you want to stay with him, ask your self is me and my b/f headed down that marriage path? if the answer is no, than why are you with him? your wasting your time, if the answer is yes, get some counseling together, and work things out, fight for your relationship (not the girls he was txt'ing) but work hard, and it will blossom, it will take some time, are you willing to put in that time?
241431
Be Open and Honest with him, tell him how you feel..communication is essential in any type of relationship romantic or otherwise so talk to him and make him understand that you care but, that the two of you have all the time in the world and there is no need for rushing into anything. take your time and don't be pushed into anything that your not ready for. Follow your heart and instinct. Good Luck!
859213
This is a tuff situation to be in, you want him around yet you dont want to hold him back from something great.  I think you need to be honest, tell him how you feel.. have no regrets at all.  If he is someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with then you do need to talk to him about a plan on keeping the romance alive or next steps.  I am a firm believer in destiny and fate and I think if its meant to be then things will mold into shape soon and you will see what your next steps will be.  Always be honest with your feelings and you will have no regrets.
982535
i love my boyfriend as well.good luck for the future you sound very happy
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
704500
If you value and want to continue your relationship with your girlfriend, you better shift your focus on another guy.  I hope that you can grasp that the notion of "falling in love" comes from the things we say to ourselves about another person and what we perceive about someone else (either imagined or real).  You are really in control of it.  If you have focused on this guy and you have, at present, no other in your life, it is easy to understand how it can happen, especially if you are a person who begins an intimate relationship from a friendship (It is the best situation.).  Trust in the fact that for every person there is more than one individual who is potentially suited for you.\n\nYour feelings of guilt is an internal sign to you that you should not pursue taking this relationship to a different level.  Each of us lives within our own skin; I would advise you to take a path of behavior that you will feel comfortable with yourself.  \n\nUltimately, the bottom line is that if the relationship develops and becomes so powerful between the two of you, no one or nothing will be able to stop the two of you getting together.  If not now, then later down the road.