should i listen or not?
140994
Girly you know your friend best but it sounds like girl games to me take that leap if you like the guy enough trust me its better to know and if you are right think of all the possibilities if you a wrong its just a chink in your pride and you move on to someone alse who will love you back because thats what most people want to be loved back as mouch as they love someone else
540825
Try listening. Follow her lead.
1035042
Sorry that people can be jerks. You should not give a crap what anyone thinks. Listen to what you like. I listen to whatever I feel like. When I am mad I listen to metal, when I am sad I listen to country, when I am happy I listen to everything under the sun.  When I am stuck in traffic I turn on Bluegrass music really freaking loud to piss of the people in the car next to me. It is great.
672304
The question is "Why should I care"
1127293
If you can give her really good reasons why you would rather go to the other one she might listen.  Talk to her about without sounding like whining and she will take you serious and maybe listen.  If she still says no, than you should respect that.
50284
Listen to what they have to say,
189629
Take time to really listen when he talks.  Ask questions about what he says not what you think he says.
380997
Why would you want to listen to that rubbish?
1119746
go for it ask your bose for a rase. you've shown your werthy of it you've been thare for 1.5 years. if thay say no ask y? you never know self improvment never herts anything. and ween thay hear your leven thay well try to keep you. and ween you find out you dont need to improve it will feel that much better.
482544
All you can do is continue to be a good friend by listening. None of this is your fault, and you are not responsible for resolving the situation. Just make sure you are always there for your friend, as a good listener.
404817
Learn to listen to them.
73859
In my personal experience I wouldn't say so, but it really depends on the person.  I recommend talking to someone you no or are close to.
727055
Listening!, not me I'll be watching it!.
168941
Listen to what you say and care about it.
359328
I'm a girl but I have listened to my friends over my heart and I regret it. Do whatever you feel is right. Good Luck!
1135936
NO, but...discus it with your "now" guy first. "IF" he rather you not then don't. It's about "respect", and if you respect your guy then do what he asks of you. BUT remember he may say yes, he doesn't care, but if you know him well enough you should know that he's saying " please don't".
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A little selfish are we? I have no idea but I thought you may want to consider compromise as part of the deal when or if you find out. You know a little time spent listening to your stuff then a little time spent listening to theirs?