why am i so serious and i cant hit a man that is insulting me or hurting me,i want to hit him but i just cant?
147829
Probably because you are NOT an evil or violent person and do not want to inflict harm even tho someone is harming you.  I have felt the same way sometimes where I have been hurt very badly but would not hurt in return.  THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE A COWARD so if anyone says that in response to this question ignore it.  You just operate on a higher plane than the person you are dealing with.
178135
it's easy to say what you will do but when actually doing it, its hard to do.  That happened to me coming off the train in NY, this guy grabbed my butt.  And I was so hurt, but also afriad he might hurt me if I said anything to draw attention.  If he has the balls to do something like that and not think about the consiquences who knows what he is capiable of.  So be careful, its better to get a male to handle it for you.\n\nAnd let me tell u this horney crazy men are not affected my kneeing, you better be ready to fight after you do anything to hurt anyone whether its male or female.  If u hit just know you will always be hit back.  And if he is big u might not get back up
937259
Find a woman that will make you happy sexually too...Sorry there is nothing you can do if the guy is hitting it better then you, just find another..
965265
she loves you yet she's mean to you? that's what you call tough love. try elaborating on how she's mean to you... maybe it's just her way of teasing you or fondling with you. some of 'em like guys who absorb all their blows. but if her meanness bothers you, maybe you should talk to her about it.
370780
He may not be slapping or punching you, but forcefully grabbing you is physical abuse. If he is verbally, emotionally and mentally, sexually you need to examine whether or not you want to stay married to him. It doesn't sound like he respects you or your wishes. If he did he wouldn't be forcing kisses and hugs on you when you need some space to sort out your feelings. Only you can know when you've had enough and are ready to leave. What you are describing is abuse. You may not want to see that, but I heard your story from hundreds of other women in the 11 years I worked for a domestic violence program. I'm sorry if it upsets you to hear it, but I hate to see any woman treated this way.
1067362
Why would you kick his ass (if you could)? What would that solve? \n\nYou seem to already have pity on him. Show him the pity. I sure that would piss him off...and he would be reclusive. He doesn't sound like a good friend. Forget him and move on. He seem like a dick. \n\nViolence is a last resort. Only if he strikes first. Trying to kick his ass will get you no respect. What would the girl your "friends" with think?
263754
You should never beat on him.  But, honestly, tell him if it is making you uncomfortable, or if you are interested. :)
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
218216
you should never have punched a woman.  you deserve for her to leave you.  men who abuse never change... go to counseling and try to work out your issues.
885087
The Mr. Nice Guy stuff is classic abuser behavior. Contact a domestic abuse center. Educate yourself. Get as much emotional support as you can from your friends and family. They can help you keep your head in the right place when you're having ambivalent feelings. These situations don't typically get better, they get worse. Good luck, my heart goes out to you.
1101362
You've been reported for abusing Yahoo Answers.  I hope someone in real life reports you for abusing your brother.\n\nLater - thanks for clearing up my concern for your brother.  I'm glad to know you aren't physically hurting him, just goofing around.
1112451
Just as funny as the thought of sticking my thumb in your eye socket.\nYou're a bully and needs to get your butt kicked just to see how it feels when you inflict pain on others for your amusement.\nSomewhere, someday, someone will inflict pain on you because you deserve it.
189800
A guy who is getting mad at you easily isn't worthy of you.  Find yourself a new guy who loves and respects you.
564131
Is that really what you want? You deserve to be treated with respect and anyone who treats you any less isn't worth your time. Figure out your worth, and then ask yourself this same question. You deserve the best, believe that, know who you are, what you want, and the type of person you want to be with. Someone who brings you down, and degrades you, is rude to you (even if just sometimes) isn't worth your time.
355968
hahaha..honestly this is so funny...okay..for whatever the reason is you cannot beat your woman..her power not even half yours..but i can understand in the minute she hits you, you cant think because of the pain and the normal reaction is to hit back, cuz it's all about reflects. but here's what you can do in time of phisycal fighting instead of beating her as a revenge, grab both of her arm so she cant move, and watch her legs cuz she will try to kick your hip and below. the safest position is hold her from the back, so that she cant move and you're not doing her any harm...
1133650
If it is bothering you then that means he hurt your feelings. You need to say something to him. It doesn't have to mean or hurtful in return just let him know that what he said to you really hurt your feelings. then find out why he needed to do that. If he can't answer you then maybe you should find a new best guyfriend. Who needs a friend to "cuss" them out and be little them. You are better than that. Any person is. Good luck.
268268
Nope, YOU were wrong. Why would you start calling your boyfriend names? Seriously. I think it's wrong for a man to hit a woman. But, if she provokes him, calls him names, and then hits him, well, she brought it upon herself. If you are going to do that again, then make sure you can handle whatever it is you get for it. I've never been hit by a guy, firstly because I would stand to be hit out of the blue. And secondly because I don't provoke or hit guys.