should i marry my lesbian lover?
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Would you love her tomorrow, next year, the next year and so on? Are you READY to love her tomorrow, next year, the next year and so on? If you answer yes, then my answer is YES, too :)  Wish u 2 the best!
590955
Absolutely,  Remember, "When Harry Met Sally."  My wife and I were best of friends and still are--it is a perfect combination if you are heterosexual.  If on the otherhand, you are not, then you may lose a friend forever.
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you said you have a great marriege that you guys are happy together...if your happy just tell him your fantasy...it doens't mean that your a lesbian since you love your husband...lesbians don't fall in love with guys, they fall in love with girls, so you shouldn't worry about this b/c even i think womens bodys are wonderfall, i think all women do...and if a women is hot, hell i get attracted as well, but i know for sure that i could never be with a women or love a women like i love my boyfriend....if you feel the same as i do then you are doing okay if not, if you really feel like you love a women, and wanna be with her...then you should tell your husband as well b/c he needs to know the truth...and both of you will be even more happy b/c you are not living a lie.\n\nGOOD LUCK.
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I love it...but I am a lesbian.
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Not at all! All these people who don't believe in same sex marriages are looking at the wrong things. If they're happy, than let them be together to be happy. We wouldn't want someone getting in the middle of our marriages if we really loved someone! I would never marry someone of my gender, just based on the fact that I'm not lesbian. But some people are, and this is a country where we can all be free to marry whoever we want, as long as they aren't our immediate family. Let them be, because once you stop being judgemental and look at who they really are, you'll see that they have feelings too and they just want to be able to express love the way straight people do
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I'm a lesbian in a committed long term relationship (over three years and counting!) and of course I wish it were legal.  The only argument against it is a religious one and since marriage is a legal institution and not a religious one, that shouldn't have any bearing on the subject.  Besides which, just because the majority of people feel what I do in my personal life is not for them, does not mean they should be able to make decisions control what I do and feel in my personal life.  This has happened in the past with races and cultures and the majority of people controlled what (for example) the African Americans could and couldn't do (segregation, voting etc.) and we now recognize this as wrong.  I'm hoping that we can overcome this one day as the other races have.
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Sarah, since you are a girl, I think to marry someone who truly loves you if certainly better than one who loves you too but not truly. Since he loves you truly, he may be more sincere and faithful to you and even if you dont love him enough now,  due to his love and sincereity, your love for him will grow eventually. Best of luck to you, do make a wise decision because marriage is a life-long committment.
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it may not be what you think it is. give it a little time and if you are 100% sure that you like her then go for it but be warned that there are heaps of ppl out there who dont support gays and lesbians
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Who knows why our country's doing anything it's doing. I agree with you completely. I'm sorry that you and your partner, as well as all other homosexuals, cannot show your love by marrying one another. Love is love. I don't think it matters if you're a man loving a man, a woman loving a woman, or a man loving a woman. If your heart is true you should be able to get married. Bottom line. I hope that you and your partner will one day have the same rights as the rest of us. And that this prejudice will end; to any degree it can.
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I totally disagree with the previous answerers.  It's not right for women to be with women, although many people experience the attraction.  I don't think it would be a bad idea to pray to God and ask Him to help you to be more satisfied in your marriage and deal with same-sex attraction appropriately.  You could also seek help from a psychologist or counselor, who can possibly help you discover underlying causes.
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I wouldn't settle with anyone right now. Have fun while you can when you get older then pick one and marry her.\nHave fun!
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No, only if they're bi-sexual or confused. Although I did tell a butch lesbian I wanted to marry her when I was drunk. ^_^
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No one should answer this question for you!  But here are a few questions you can ask yourself to help you decide one way or the other.\nDo you love her at least as much as you love yourself?\nDo you have similar interests?\nAre you close to the same age?\nAre you the same religion? (very important!)\nHow long have you known her?\nDo you trust her?\nDo you like her family?\nDo you have the same interests in pets?\nHow come I need to ask people that I don't even know If I should marry her?\nand last but certainly not least...\nWHEN IN DOUBT DO WITHOUT!!!!!!!!!!!
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Would YOU marry her.... if you a man?
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If it feels right to you then go for it. It really doesn't matter what other people think.\nI know of a few people who have done this and are still very happy together after many years.\nEnjoy
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H.  I don't know why you have to ask what you should do.  To marry because you don't want to hurt family, or to save yourself from embarrassment is ludicrous.  No one should enter into marriage unless they love their fiance and plan to stay with them til death do they part. It is really not fair to your fiance to begin this union feeling the way you do, and have you even considered what kind of life would any children have if you did not love their mother.  There really is nothing to contemplate.  You should break off the engagement, stop the wedding and go on with your life.  Marry only when you know you want to spend the rest of your life with the chosen one. Good Luck!
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no i dont think she is a lesbian i think shes just strange!! A little crazy but not les!! I would just ya know call johnny depp and see which one she chooses! if she chooses johnny depp(which she will) obviously shes not fruity!!!i dont have anything against fruity people but you seem to be fruity urself!