my boyfriend's sisters insult me a lot.when i tell him, he gets angry on me.is it not  ok to tell him?
148875
You should be able to tell him!....if not then something is wrong in your relationship....if he wont listen to you then obviously he isnt right for you or good enough....try to talk to him again....things will turn out ok in the end!..dont worry! :)
495804
My girlfriend had a similar problem with her older sister, she was a brat that was spoiled by her mother.  She treats her younger brother and sisters like trash and comes home yelling and kicking when things don't go her way.  She would go to their room to eat and put dirty cloth on their bed, and would leave without cleaning after herself.\n\nMy girlfriend and her siblings finally decided to take action to stop this madness.  They changed all the locks on the doors and told her elder sister either she respect them like human being or don't come back.\n\nHer elder sister went mad and start kicking and screaming when she heard that. She end up being asked to leave and kick out of the house at 1am in the morning, going back to her own place.\n\nAfter that she started to respect my girlfriend and her younger siblings on the phone and in person, althought she hasn't made her presence in the house so far after that night.\n\nYour family need to come together and tell your brother that this is not the way to go; disrespect your family is never right doesn't matter who you are. Your family must take a stand.\n\nI understand most family don't want to be firm and stand their ground because they are afraid of losing their children.  But the fact is your family already lost your brother and the only way for him to respect and come back is to show him your determination to your ideal as a family.\n\nGive him time to think, tell him if he still wants his family, he just as to respect you and your parents like what a nomraly child would do.  You're not asking alot here.\n\nWhether he accept / understand is irrevleant, don't try to convince him right now (he's probably not gonna agree), just let him know what your family decided to do.\n\nYour brother is probably not gonna budge now because he has his own family, but somewhere down the line when things don't go good he'll remember his sister and his parents.  That's where he'll come back and that's when you and your family will have a chance of change him by accepting him back.\n\nIts going to take time and patience for him to come back, but you have to let him know where your family stand for him to come back at all.  Don't push him away, just tell him where your family stands and ask him to think about it.  \n\nIts time to take a stand for what you believe.
73080
Ok, so I had this problem too. My friend told me that I should tell them that they aren't my type. That way, you aren't exactly telling them what you specifically don't like about them. Or you could make him break up with you by making yourself unattractive or doing things that he doesn't like.
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Yes...I think so.  Show them love and effort to get along with them and in time they may come to love you or atleast get along with you.  You should not force your boyfriend into a situation like this because it hurts him to choose between people that he loves.  Atleast make an effort, and I promise that he will  love you for it.  It never hurts to try as long as you examine your heart and make an honest effort.  I am saying a prayer for you!
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
564523
Your 'creature' is controlling you! This is NOT a good relationship, nor is it healthy for either one of you. Draw the line now! Speak to whomever you want. If he gets mad, tell him, "Goodbye." Short, swift, and mean what you say. Don't wishy wash on this, or you will be in for some serious problems from now on. It will escalate to beating, abuse, you name it. You are in a bad relationship that is not going to get better.
998040
There comes a time where you just have to tell the family to piss off. This is probably one of those times. Drama loving families will do whatever they can to start crap, and if they don't like someone you date they'll most likely let you and her know it. You just can't play their game. You might give them a chance to be nice to your new girlfriend. If they aren't at least polite to her, tell them you won't be spending time with them anymore until they can grow up. When it comes down to it, it's important that YOU are happy. Not your family. I know everybody wants their family to be happy. But seriously, you can only please one person, and that's yourself. If it'd make you happy to be with this woman, then by all means do it. Don't allow your family to screw up your good times with her. Good luck. :)
326041
just talk to him about what makes you mad...my boyfriend does the same things, and when i tell him something i don't like, he stops, or if he does it by accident, he's really sweet about it and makes up for it...also, if he's pissing you off, make sure he knows it at that time, cuz if he doesn't, he'll keep doing whatever he is doing wrong...make sure he knows you really want it to work, and you'll do whatever you can
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
867003
he probably thinks you shouted and screamed at her, and maybe he would never do this to his parents as he may see it as disrespectful. \n\njust try to keep explaining that she didnt mind and you didnt say it in a horrible way. xXx
201295
I think it's fine as long as you keep things separate.\nThe problems may start if you tell "him" "I can't get together with you tonight, am going out with your sister" and vice versa.\nI know of a couple of relationships like this and they never have issues.\nGood Luck.... you only live once
673175
No, it's not wrong if she's mean.  Maybe you can change it - tell your dad, a family member you trust or a counsellor at your school.  \n\nGod bless and good luck.
1050422
Wow what a whore! Unfortunately sweetie when your that much of a whore  (Which she clearly is) you don't care what people say or do to you. She's a low life, and a loser. I feel bad for your sister but her man doesn't deserve her. She's way too good for him. My idea is this, just gather all the ladies who's man cheated on them because of the whore and just tell them who's at fault once they find out one person is the cause of there problem then all hell will break loose.
855262
NO NO NO, YOUR NOT WRONG FOR BEING ANGRY, YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE ,WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD SUPPORT AND UPLIFT ONE ANOTHER NOT TAKE PEOPLE FOR GRANTED. STOP TAKING CARE OF HIM SURPRISE HIM AND DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
728323
At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.
549888
Most cases it usually has something to do with repressed anger. Is something in your life making you angry or is there something that you have not been able to get over? Most times, the people we take our anger out on are the ones we feel safest doing so with or to. IF you get nasty, and don't know why, tell him so. Maybe he can help you figure out what is bothering you. Be open and honest and sincerely apologetic for being nasty with him, or you may just run him off!!!!
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Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.