how do i attract a girl... but im not that attractive?
146589
Looks are not everything!Get over your insecurities and just go up and talk to her.If she likes your personality you'll be ok. That's worth more than looks any day.There are a lot of handsome guys out there that do nothing but look good.They come and they go but you wouldn't take them home to momma because they are stuck on themselves.So remember be brave and honest and you will go alot farther than the pretty boys!!!
549507
well you really CANT get a girl to like you BUT u can do things to improve your  chances. check your breath and if it isnt too great pop a mint or gum. make sure you smell good. studies show that smell is the sense that stays longest in the memory so that is really important. ok. and then like take care of how you look, dont look like you just rolled out of bed, but dont look like you spent all day in front of the mirror either. brush your teeth and if they r stained then you should prolly purchase some teeth bleach (i suggest crest white strips premium plus.....they work in 7 days and show results after the 1st use). make sure you use chapstick because no girls wants to kiss a guy w/ dry lips, or look at them for that matter. i'm not gonna say dress hot but definately dont dress grungey or wear pants two days in a row w/o washing cuz that isnt hot and if she pays ANY attention at all she'll notice that. play up your best features, if you like your eyes then wear colors that bring out your eyes. if u wear eyeliner...dont. lol. hope i helped!
427112
Just ask!! Confidence is key. Even if she isnt attracted to you, she might get attracted to you because of the fact that you had enough confidence to ask. Or she might think of you as a potential friend and you'll gain a friend. My advice: ask! even if things dont work out, you'll gain confidence for the next time. :-)
505834
= ) I'm back.  To make a girl feel special, you have to get to know her, and pretty much ask her.  Every one is different.  But, tell her she's beautiful, not hot, look her in the eyes when you talk to her, and are telling her something of importance.  And I am a firm believer in making them laugh.  It breaks the weirdness, be yourself.  As far as meeting girls, ya got me there, I'm a homebody. Pretty boring.
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
820290
right there.. your attitude is going to screw you over.. be confident my friend... by being confident you are being more attractive.. just be your self because in the long run, even though it should be the first thing its not because of the world we live in, personality is going to be your greatest friend... if she doesnt like you for that then she isnt worth is.. but thats not what you want to hear and im sorry for that... you just want advice to get her so thats what i'll give you...be consistently around her.. she'll notice you... start talking to her and have group hang outs and make sure she is invited.. go bowling or the movies.. something where everyone is comfortable.. this way you get to talk to her more and get to know her and vise versa with you... then after you feel everything is good... ask her out... if you think you arent attractive enough then she wont.. also its more than just looks.... maybe she isnt as shallow as you might think\n\ngood luck\nnice guys dont always finish last... i wont let it happen
401048
Hey, i have the same problem. In most girls they trully dont care about looks, but you have those shallow girls too. I'm a guy that feels the same way. well the chance i think, would depend on what you are like, along with your personality. And if this girl is a popular, cheelaeder type, i would say she is going to be shallow , because girls like that don't want to be embarresed in front of their friends, but if she's not liek that try to talk to her learn about her. and if she is shallow just stay away from her.
805223
Rule 1: pretend as if you are not trying to attract her.\n\nRule 2: read other answers..
1165964
actually...being short doesnt not mean youre not attractive...its just that you havent found the right one to love and like you for who you are.....
937481
Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
277529
mm.. just be yourself, smile a lot to attract her attention..smile at her. when she notice you, try to talk to her. start a conversation like where she lives and everything then ask her out.
576853
Well since you said that you're a handsome person, i guess it should not be a problem for you to get a beautiful girl friend eh ? I think all you need to do is just be yourself at your best. Confident look with a brilliant smile always get you going smooth .. Clean and simple outlook also is a major point, as most girl don't really into vain guys .. Search for places where you can look for girls that're your type .. If not, online matching services also can be a way but that i can't make sure if they're beautiful or not then .. lol
288255
flirt with her, tell her pretty thing so she will feel unique and spacial, but the most important.. be yourself man, if you don´t catch her attention being like you always be that girl is not the one. (of course if you normally act like a perv  or like an ass you`re in trouble)
141315
Girls want to hear that they are beautiful or cute. Not hot or sexy..
420517
youd probably get a few tips out of them but id say try and follow your heart..if you like the look of a girl just be nice toward her,be charming and sweep her off her feet...lol...
1012004
Be Handsome\nBe Attractive\nDon't be unttractive
237025
You're a dork.  Nothing you do can make a girl want you more.  Just be yourself is all you can do.  If that doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.