im a 18yr old female just here recently i had bad breakup and now im bisexual i've started lookin fems?
157022
you dont wake up one day after a bad breakup and be bisexual.\nyou either are or your not\nif you think getting involved with a woman will prevent you from getting hurt 1 your wrong and 2 thats very unfair to the person you get involved with \ntake some time by yourself and see how you feel after healing from your last relationship\nas for your family-- if you really are bisexual i hope that they understand you are still you and accept you and whomever you are in a relationship with
49876
Sorry sweetie, you are about 20 years too young for me. Dont worry, you will find someone and I am sure they will feel lucky to have you.
1096475
Well U have just joined the world of millions of females who feel the same..\n\nYou dont have to settle down so soon..u are just 16, enjoy it while it lasts..just make sure u dont get yourself hurt or abused by someone...\n\nAll the best!!
180361
Maybe you are bi. There is no shame in that though. You have to follow your heart. Sometimes it leads us in directions that we would rather not go. But don't deprive yourself from something that you truley feel.
1079848
You have the most advice, you have said you are already leaving him.  Good.   Find someone who will treat you better and love you for being you.  True love knows no gender.  Keep yourself  open to a new relationship, but take time to heal.  If, you swing toward women, fine..yet you could find another man to soothe the hurt.  Keep your chin up and keep looking...hopefully love will find you........good luck.
696217
I started out the same way. I was attracted to guys. Had boyfriends all thru jr high & highschl. But i always found myself looking at girls, admiring nice a.s.ses and what not. It took a few yrs & for me to snap out of denial and now im a lesbian! Havent been with a man in yrs. & i dont really want 2. Sooo...maybe u just need to wait. You are young.
952369
Hey guy.  Don't beat yourself up so much.  Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places.  There are people out there for everyone.  You will see that the Abercrombie types tend to be attracted to the Abercrombie types.  The bears are usually with other bears.  If people told you that you are cute, you probably are.  I know you have a lot to offer and the right guy will come along.  Just remember the attraction has to be reciprocal.  That's what makes the dating scene hard some times.  But it goes beyond the physical.  Find a group where you have common interests and mingle with that group.  Someone probably has a 'friend' who is gay that you might like.  Don't give up.  You need to be more upbeat and not sound so depressing.  Life is what you make of it.  I am single right now and am actually kind of enjoying the break.  Good luck.
645755
Ok, you are bisexual. Feelings like that totally start at that age. Trust me thats when my feelings started and its not weird at all. You are really starting to grow up and realize that you have sexual feelings and all that. I used to feel sexual towards my girlfriends in high school when I was your age. Many of them turned out to feel the same way about me. I had quite a few girlfriends in high school. Just a warning to you though: Don't make it too public that you are Bi I wouldn't really tell anyone unless you seriously trust them. I don't want to freak you out and maybe its because I live in the south but you can and probably will be threatened because of all the homophobes out there. The schools I went to were in the Bible Belt and I really didn't give a F*** who knew I was bi or les or whatever so I made out with girls all the time - but I did get threatened all the time. I really didn't care but you might not want to risk it. No one reall yhad the balls to do anything to me I guess that they were too scared lol... Have fun enjoy your life and don't let ANYONE tell you how to feel or who to love!
612232
well u are probably @ d age n need someone so go n find or seek a lover she is waitin 4 u
1170460
Just keep going and move on NOT to go out and hook up with someone just tell ur self it didn't work out for a reason and look toward the future things happen for a reason I am getting over an ugly breakup and i am constantly reminding myself of that..
333894
U should get yourself checked out. Make sure that doesn't happen again until you are ready to have a monogamous relationship. Can't trust everyone you lay down with. Be more careful in your selections.
509057
It hurts at first but once you get over it you will feel like a stronger person. This is a dangerous time for you because instead of toughing it out and growing up, some guys resort to being emo which always leads to homosexuality and dressing like a girl. Judging by your grammar and poor spelling you are probably young. Give it time buddy there are better ones out there TRUST me.
1086431
You only mentioned woman, if your going out with men also then your bi. If you haven't been with a woman for 7yrs.you must of been with someone.I think.........
1154620
You are still exactly who you were.  You were bi before and they didn't know it, and now they do.  Nothing about you changed.  I would let them go and focus on people who will love and support you for who you are, and appreciate your value as a human being on this planet.
1078735
The BEST thing you can do is go back out there and meet new men.  Date them, laugh with them, have fun.  You will discover that you're a much better catch than your "ex" made you feel.  It will take time, but you will get over him.  If you can force yourself into going on at LEAST three dates in the next month, you will help yourself far more than you may believe.  It's not about him anymore, it's all about YOU.  You're special, you're desirable, and the right man will KNOW it.
552331
Maybe you reflect on what you had knowing you have not got it now.\nAsk yourself is you relationship the same with the man you have now as it was with the one you had.\nAnd maybe you should try to search within, to find out what you can to spice it up a\nbit ; )\nLove & Blessings \nMilly
625965
Pink bear please don't say that.... Well... actually... nevermind that... Your not bisexual you feel you have a liking on "attractive" girls because of some problems with your relationship with a few people and sometimes want to change your life... Gambate Kudasai(Please hang in there)