Why is it so hard to find a SINGLE man that know how to treat a woman?
142883
Have you give every male a chance or just the good looking one?
272493
Honey, don't bother yourself with men...they are all full of lies and games! Get yourself a woman who will treat you like the queen and goddess you are!! Trust me. Don't knock it til you've tried it!
215482
much easier than a single Mom!!! \nTo a woman, a single dad already proved that he can have and raise kids in a stable environment. If that isn´t a plus for women who are looking for a good man I don´t know what!!\nTo a man, a single mom is loaded with baggage - somebody else´s children!\nIt´s not fair but that´s the way society seems to promote it.. \nSo the answer is still DEFINITELY! If you´ve already proven you´re a good dad and then on top of that have a job then you are an invitation to any woman who is looking for a serious relationship! I can´t believe you´re asking.. lol. you should be swamped with nice women :-)
526320
You don't say if you have a certain woman in mind - if you do, it takes time - it is a matter of trust - trust takes a while to establish.  On the other hand, there are women who treat men like crap - it goes both ways.  The important thing is to communicate and LISTEN when someone is talking to you - don't interrupt them until they are finished.\n\nAnd just like the saying - it takes kissing a lot of frogs to find that prince - it goes the same for guys - it takes kissing many frogs to find that princess.\n\nJust take your time to get to know a person, and if that girl intrigues you, begin chatting with her and find out where she is.  If she has come out of relationships where she has been mistreated, listen to what has gone on - and let her vent - she will appreciate that from you.\n\nWhen the time is right, you will meet that special girl who will realize the qualities you possess.\n\nGood Luck!
688977
some ladies are "traditional" like that. It is all about what the man wants. \n\nsome ladies just are insecure and lose themselves in men. \n\nsome ladies just want to be loved so desperatly that they will do whatever it takes to keep this mans attention.\n\nsome ladies treat guys the way they want to be treated cuz no man is treating them this way.
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
115304
Everyone is different!! I, being a man, is looking for someone who treats me with respect, hindness, and most of all is HONEST! the rest will fall into place!
974897
Because they are insecure creatures and do not believe they are worth being loved in a true and pure manner.  The best way to handle a woman is to be manly with her plain and simple.  I call it "being Sinatra" ... After you practice being a take charge type of guy she will respect you....Stop asking a woman "what do you want to do?" and start making plans and sticking to them...That's what women want and that's what they respect because they only knew from what they saw their daddy doing, and he was always in charge of her.....Once they get older they find all these mamby pamby boys that are always trying to be nice.  Be nice when you need to be and be manly all the time.  good luck damn it.
114407
For some women, we think the perfect man is the answer to all our problems. Thats why we will never find him. He does not exsist. A perfect anything doesn't exsists. I'm not going to find a man that has EVERY single quality that I'm looking for in a man, he'll have maybe 2 out of 5, but if there is potential I need to run wit it.
1134233
We may have disguised our feelings due to societal pressures but our basic instinct are still animalish. Man is still similar to the ancient cave man in all his instincts and finding a mate is always on his mind. Since a single woman living alone is the softest target , he feels it might be an easier prey so even the weak amongst men dare to woo her. Its just like the tiger on a prawl who tries to hunt the weakest fowl. They may be wearing an Armani and driving a Ferrarri but deep down there the nature is still the same.
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Make yourself as attractive as possible, then define the type of man that you're looking for (don't settle for less), then find that group of single men (personals, on-line etc) and sort through them until you find what you're looking for and hopefully the one you choose was also looking for you as his ideal woman.
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There are a lot of "good guys" around. It's just that half the time women aren't looking for a "good guy" and we're forced to turn into something we really don't want to be in order to have a girl around, or we're married and, being the nice guys we are, we're not about to cheat on or leave the women we made a vow to on that wedding day for any reason. I'm lucky. I haven't had to change, despite the fact that it is extremely hard for me to get a girlfriend when I am single. My advice to you: don't go looking for a good guy, you won't find him; let him find you. And don't rush into a relationship head-first (though you know that one I'm sure, I just want to state it anyways). Get to know them really well before you decide to take a chance and get into a relationship with them. As you know pretty well by now, not all of us guys are exactly what we show ourselves to be. Hope that helps you out some.
1141842
I understand totally. I have the same problem. Only the other way. I can't find a good man who appreciates a great woman.
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
180453
Because they were told long ago that if you get a good job and have financial stablity that you will be able to get any woman you want. It simply isn't true, but some guys seem to be convinced that it is. I would hope that personality and kindness were more important.
543190
you know, I asked myself a similar question, never been able to find a woman who was the same person when I met her as she was 6 months later, I think there are a lot of us "both men and women" want to be with someone so badly, want to fit so badly, that when it isn't a match, the partner can just see right through it, even though we may sincerely be trying.  But what you have to find, is someone who is into YOU as a person, not necessarily like EVERYTHING about you, but as you said, someone who knows without even questioning, that whatever step you take, he takes the same step right beside you.  They are out there, its just hard to find, because as a womnderful individual as you may be, that person has to be of a certain unique quality that fits you.