Is it OK for a guy that is rich, athletic, and handsome to date ordinary women to bolster their self esteem?
154349
Sure. I do it all the time. Thrills them to pieces. I'm just a regular Boy Scout, doing my good deed. You'd be amazed at how much Ch. Lafite Rothchild plain women can snork down in fancy French restaurants.\n\nAfter they realize I was just toying with them, most of them become nuns, though. The gift of charm, looks, brains and money is a two-edged sword. Use it wisely.
138171
Attractiveness in in the eye of the beholder. I have dated men in the past that have been unconventionally attractive because I loved their mind or personality. It all depends on what  each person finds attractive. Just be the most confident you can be without being arrogant and show the women what you have to offer.
631871
I would be, I'm open minded, caring and generous.  Not trying to be a creep though.  Maybe what they are saying is that you need to meet someone genuine, not the "typical" guy who thinks of himself superior to women, and that a women's place is in the kitchen, stuff like that.  But rather a man that would treat you with the respect and understanding that your friends think you desrve.  Good luck on finding that special someone.
435549
You may be looking in all the wrong places.  There are great guys out there who have hearts of gold, compassion towards others and certainly know how to treat a lady.  Knowing the qualities of the person who would make you happy is a good thing and is not too much to ask.
63652
I am a female, and no i don't think that, I find that with my past relationships my looks were just a bonus, if the girl has a great personality, then there really isnt a need for great looks or nice rack or a firm rear. so if you find that you like this girl with an amaxing personailty and colorful aura, then no it isnt based on looks, im pretty average and none of my relationships are based on looks and ive dated some of the best looking guys around.
664836
I'm sorry to say but yes it is, especially if he is in the feild of business. Working a cerrer is a very serious time and one needs to dedicate alot of time to it, in order to succeed. But a good man would know how to level both his women love and his career love.
314584
Most men who would not do not have alot of self confidence. They will look and say she is pretty, but dont believe they deserve someone that pretty. \nYou deserve a man who is confident, and loveing is comfortable in his skin. You must also believe in yourself and bleive for the man you want. Don fall for second best. \n\nAnd not good to tell a man he is second best. that is part of what makes men less confident in themselves. When leaving them just agree that you are not best for one another.
295499
Yes.  It is better for a woman to date a guy who is older because of the differences in maturity, but if a woman is okay with that, there is nothing wrong with it.
482645
Believe it or not some guys are not out just for looks. Now I am not going to lie there has to be a physical attraction. However I have dated some drop dead sexy women who have tried to use me as a rug, and I would not allow it so I got rid of them. I have also dated some normal everyday looking women who although were not model material did treat me  the way I prefer.
295932
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
579487
Never never never "check" your self confidence or your brains at the door. If you find that some men are intimidated by those....you don't want those men anyway. I think confidence, brains, and fitness are EXTREMELY sexy. I want a well read, well traveled, OPINIONATED, worldly woman. If the best discussion she can participate in is why a certain person should win American Idol...well, she is bound to find someone OTHER THAN ME who appreciates her more. If she can't tell me the pros and cons of Bolivia's recent nationalization of the oil fields...and what the ethical issues are in stem cell research....and quite frankly, tell me why my opinion on the war doesn't make sense...well...then she isn't much interest to me. Anyway, NO, don't doubt yourself in this case...simply change the venues where you are meeting men. They are out there.
1128722
That is pretty shallow; but at least you care enough to wonder whether it's wrong.  Under the circumstances, it may be more right for you to leave him alone; you may end up hurting him more by giving him false hope, and end up turning him bitter about women in general.\n\nOTOH, if you can get over your own vanity, you might find that your intuition about him seeming perfect is more true than you realize.  This could be a real opportunity for growth in your life.
1073379
Here is a guy's opinion.  Most guys don't love her, they would only want to be with her because she has the reputation of being easy, she has money and is famous.  If she wasn't rich or famous and didn't put out, then she would be just an ordinary, nice looking person who would have all the same problems dating as the rest of us.
316881
Let's be realistic. A great personality only works if the woman is in a position to get to know you (i.e. work, class, interest group, religious group, etc.), that's how "nice guys" meet their girlfriends and wives.\n\nIf you are going to approach a complete stranger, you have to exude attractiveness, that goes beyond what your mamma gave you. This means, you have to be confident, and secure with yourself. \n\nI date guys who know what they want--me--and go for it, without any concern as to whether I find them attractive or not. If I show the slightest disinterest, they walk away from me indifferent, as if I am nothing. \n\nYou have to be indifferent, you have to be confident, and sometimes cocky. We all have flaws, we all have insecurities. The guys who always get the dates, are the alpha males who don't deserve them. Not all of the "alpha-males" are prettyboys either.
136244
I consider myself a very ordinary guy but I just adore she males epecially if they have very pretty faces and huge dicks. I just think of them as women with something extra to fantasice about.
735806
No not at all, i would kind of find it flattering if i was dating a male virgin and he wanted to do the deed with me.  Even if he didnt want a sexual relationship and wanted to stay celebate i would still respect it.  Any person male or female who has respect for themselves in that way should be commended.
607304
Yes, I think so.\n\nPersonally, for me, short men are unattractive. (no pun intended). I am short myself, so I do not want to date someone who is smaller than me or just the same as my height. It looks really weird for me. But really do not get me wrong, I am not being shallow for setting physical standards, but hey, it's just me.