Im bad with women, i need help?
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If you think she thinks you're a jerk, then you're acting like one. Relax, keep in mind that there are more fish in the sea. The worst thing that can happen is she says no. Keep that in mind, you'll be fine. Do not be yourself... would you be yourself at a job interview? Hell no! this chics don't know what they are talking about
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
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I have been knocked in the nuts be several people none being female... \n\nCarlton, I think you need to re-evaluate the way you think and converse with women and offer them the respect you are asking for and then you won't need to worry about them kicking your bag...
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Its hard to get confidence enough to girls.  Take it in small steps. \nFirst find something about yourself that you like and are proud of.  You don't need anyone to know about your achievements and they probably don't care, but they aren't good at what you are good at and that makes you unique different in your own right.  Knowing that in the back of your head can give you the pride and confidence you seek in yourself.  When you can see that in yourself others will and those others will be girls.  \nWhy would someone want something when it’s thrown at them. Value comes when there ain't enough to go around. So let them take interest in you for you, instead of you trying to convince them that your worth it let them see it before you give them the chance. That’s a rookie mistake.\nNext up, start with a "Hi". Say "Hi" when appropriate to one girl you know each day. Start with ones you know then get used to making eye contact with and saying "Hi" to girls your don't talk to. Don’t go stalker there. Just a normal “Hi”\nThis will help you get used to talking with women.  The next up is talking to women.  The best is to talk to women your not into, just as people.  Then work your way up to women who are decent and finally to women who seem out of your league for now.  A good starter is “Hey do you know what the time is?” (Don’t be wearing a watch or have a phone on you.\nOnce your talking with women they will see you as a decent guy and not a serial killer.  By the way have guy friends. Other wise you might end up a yip dog boy. The guy friend to all the girls that doesn’t get laid and isn’t gay.\nThe next step is showing interest and asking them out for coffee. Start slow and keep moving. Soon you will be gaining the confidence that will enable you to have the "Game" you desire.\nOnce date around have some experience under your belt, you will be strait pimping.  Then it’s to the next level of women.  The right girls for now girls.  Then to the last level the right girl.\n\nIt all starts and ends with you.  Remember it’s all about you, until you meet a cool chick that you dig a lot and then guess what. It's all about you.  When she starts being not worth the time and doing you wrong.  You are back on the scene.  Master the game my friend, it will pay off.
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You are doing something wrong-hire an escort-ask her for pointers.
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Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
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There's tons of ways to meet women. Maybe try personal ads and party lines. If you meet anyone are are worried about whether or not you'll want to hook up with em, meet at a bar or somewhere else public and talk for a lil while first. Have a friend call you about 20 minutes after you meet so you can make an excuse to leave if you don't have the heart to tell her that you're not attracted to her. If all is going well, and you and her click, take it from there. You need to meet up with someone that has mutual interests. If you're only interested in sex, you need to hook up with someone whose only interest is that as well.
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Try a different woman, that works for some guys!
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First you need to get some self esteme man picking up women in a bar tells me that you are just looking for an easy drunk mark have a little more respect for yourself and women and i have a feeling you come off like you are trying to hard so just take it easy and make them want you
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You're a douche, why would you "hit it" if she really is how you describe her "poor and average looking and smells like a french fry and has a PMS attitude."  Guys like you are why women hate men!
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Step out on faith, and just ask the girl out and come at her with all your cards out there on the table, and say  I like you I want to show you how you should be treated and what I can offer you and if you come at her real sincere like that she'll respond or she's just an idiot and you dont need her in the first place!!! keep your head up there good women out there...
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You have all my sympathy - I too have no understanding of the deeper mechanics of the evil female brain. Maybe you should try talking to her and see if she is willing to communicate to you what the problem.\n\nHey, worth a try,
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just ask a them out, and if one thing leads to another then go for it, but don't ask a women to just sleep with you, no one with class would do that, plus you don't know what kinda nasty things shes got
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You just have to remember your old self and how much fun you use to have.  Women suck and can rip out the heart of any man.  If anything they did not deserve you and you did not deserve to be treated the way you were and hurt so bad.  There is so much to live for and eventually you will find a girl that deserves to be with a guy like you.  I don't know you but everyone has somethingn special to offer, find out what that is and hold your head high.  Be confident in yourself and everything else will fall into place.
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She is a sl*t, get rid of her. As a man you can do better.
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Make a list:  on one side show your good points starting at the top of your head and go all the way down to your toes.  On the other, list those things which you consider to be not good enough.  On the good points, consider how you could make them even better.  On the other side decide what you can do to improve them.  Those you cannot change, accept.  You will see beauty in many of your assets and when you compare your 'bad points' with other girls and women, you will soon realise that they are not that bad at all.  Usually I have found that most girls who have low esteem are quite beautiful and in actual fact frighten off most men.  They usually are from an only girl family with more than one brother.  Brothers can be the biggest down putters for girls.   I have no idea what you look like but I will wager a bet that you are a beautiful person, with a beautiful mind and many beautiful features.  Good luck and God bless...........
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Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.