Girls does it hurt the first time u have sex????????????
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Every girl is different. My friend told me hell yes, but in a good way. I say no, it didn't hurt. Sex is amazing, just be careful who your experiencing it with.
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I had one 3 years ago it didnt hurt during but after it was pretty tender for a few days best thing i ever did i dont have to ever worry about getting another girl pregnant and it was only 75 dollars in spokane  first time having sex well it felt like glass came out but ya know it hasnt hurt since plus the hardons are still as stronmg or better orgasms are great and i can hold out longer ....
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It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
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MY 1ST TIME WAS PAINFUL @ FIRST, BUT THEN ENJOYABLE AFTER THE PAIN SUBSIDED...HE WAS ONLY ABOUT 5 INCHES & DID NOT POP MY CHERRY, SO TECHNICALLY I WAS STILL A VIRGIN....UNTIL I CAUGHT HOLD OF MY NEXT SEXUAL PARTNER...WHICH WAS AN 8 INCHER....LOL...I WAS CRYING & HIS COUSIN KEPT WALKING IN ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON...NOW 2 THINK ABOUT IT, DA CHYCK MIGHT'VE BEEN GAY...OR THEY MIGHT'VE HAD A LIL INCEST GOIN ON THERE,LOL...........
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Men don't hurt when they lose their virginity because they don't have a hymen like women do. Honestly it hurts different for every woman when she loses her virginity. Women have a piece of skin called a hymen, this is broken by the penis when it enters the vagina. Some women have bigger thicker hymens so it hurts more when they have sex for the first time. I have a couple friends that do horse back riding and their hymens broke while riding horses..all the stretching and jumping I guess. \nIt may hurt for a man when a woman is really tight, this usually requires extra lubrication.
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not in all cases but most girls do i did not and one of my friends did not but it did hurt like he11
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If you have the right guy for the first time, and he's gentle, it shouldn't hurt at all.\nIf it hurts, then he needs to know and not make something happen that's not going to.
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yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
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OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
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After you have sex for the first time or have a female problem.
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dont do it girl,,,you will regret it after,,,it hurts like hell
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No. Apparently you've been watching too much bad porn. And by bad, I mean fake.\n\nOnce girls/young women have lost their virginity, sex is not painful unless she is forced to have intercourse without becoming properly lubricated first. In other words, as long as there is foreplay and the desire is mutual, sex is pleasant for women, not painful. However, there is a type of "pain" that is a "good pain" that is basically not much more than a bit of temporary pressure on excited nerve endings, and when a woman experiences this, she often responds with moans or screams of pleasure.\n\nIf a woman is screaming so loud it sounds like someone is killing her, there's either one of two problems: 1. She is in pain because she's either a virgin or her vagina isn't lubricated or expanded properly. 2. She's overacting. If it's the first case, by all means stop having sex immediately!!! If it's the second, you can either ask her to shut up or put a pillow over her mouth (but not so tightly as to smother her).
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It hurts very bad the first time. He doesn't have to go deep the head is the biggest part. He does need to be very gentle and easy so that he doesn't hurt you too badly.
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I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
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it does hurt it is very uncomfortable because they are pushed it up pretty hi mine made me very uncomfortable and i had a girl who did it.
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Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
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This all depends on the individual, the first sexual encounter will differ from woman to woman, there could be pain and bleeding, but there might not be. Best idea is to take it nice and slow. It may still hurt many times afterwards, as it does take awhile for the body to get used to the act. There is also a high chance of getting a yeast infection or bladder infection after the first sexual encounter. I would say the best idea would be to go to the doctors after and get a physical done. She should not be embarassed about her age and her virginity. I myself lost it when I was 21, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Losing your virginity is a very serious thing, not to be taken lightly.