There was this guy I really liked but I didnt really get to know him and hes not working at his job anymore?
155988
Life sucks - then we live forever...\n\nDon't worry. By the time you're 11, you'll have forgotten all about him.
483582
idk without meeting him, but i would say yes, you see he sounds like a rare breed of guys that are like that, i know very few people(including me) that are like that nowadays, and girls have a tendency to pass us by, so i would talk to him, and work from there if you would like to date him, if you don't though, then don't lead him along, that will hurt him more than a straight out rejection. good luck
411667
Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
783901
Some ppl wait all their life waiting to find that one true love....\n\nSo if u think you found this person don't deny the fact that his work takes him away alot because at least hes willing to hold down a job and this is challenge that you have to fight for want u wat and believe it so give it a try and see where it takes you don't be looking back another 10yrs from now and regreting not letting this person how u feel.....
872665
Sounds to me like this guy at work was only after one thing ... and was maybe also a little turned on with the "thrill of the hunt" ...\nIt could also be that while you had a BF and were in a relationship he felt comfortable flirting and now he can "have you" he isn't all that interested?\nIt could also be that since you were prepared to "fool around" a little with him whilke your BF was out of town ... he might think that the same thing will happen if he has to spend time away???
1171593
Nothing you can do for now but wait. Maybe there is a reason he didn't call, lost the number, sick relative, sick himself..........on and on..... The next time you see him wait and see how he reacts to you and go from here.
565168
you called him and didnt leave a message,now that is not good. leave a message. then he really wont have no excuse. if he dont get back to you, forget him. i know its hard when you like someone, but i know you would be saying the same thing to me if i had your prob. leave a message saying how great the other nite was and how you are looking forward to his cal. gud luck. x
584368
Don't lead him on. Keep your work professional unless you are interested in dating him. If so, you had better prepare to find a different job.
437415
well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
258205
You might be able to talk the company into telling you his last name(maybe) or tell them you have an urgent personal matter and need to get a hold of him and see if they will relay a message.  Maybe if you became friendly with someone who works there you could have them find out for you.
583264
You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
1007116
i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
324709
da best thing u can do now is to lay evrything out on the table n to c where things go from there... tis better to b honest... da thing is, v, as women, can only wait so long... he's got things n issue tt he needs to sort out first... so, u gaf him time...but u shld haf stated how long i guess...but u say u liked him n not loved him...so, if he still hasn't gotten back to u on tt matter, jus move on my dear fren... there r better pple out there who r more worthy of ur time ok?\nchin up... :-)
1134298
girl u are lucky to have some one like him probably he is busy cause of his work i will say just trust him and see how things go
605340
Try to meet him outside of work! But I hope you know the risks of an office relationship!!
274564
I think U should give him a second chance,Because some times there is good guys-like me,lol-Who get confused in the begin' of relations or in knowin' new friends.he may be was gettin' his life in a special way that He had to work it in another way after he knew U.from wt U said I think he is startin' to plan his life the way that suits U.\nI think that he is a good Guy & he really want to be with U now after gatherin' him self up\nSo,GOOD LUCK\n:)
1010096
Its hard to determine how to handle the situation based on your question.  I suggest that you keep your career the main focus.  It never hurts to be friends, but I don't suggest asking him out agian.  If you do this will make you look desperate and very un-professional, but if he asks if the offer is still available, just go out as friends and determine the next step later.