how do you feel when you feel unatrractive to women?
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I don't understand the question?\n\nI learned a long time ago that if you think you are unattractive, you will be unattractive.  If you think you are a worthy "catch", everything will fall into place.
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Hormones.  At our house, we call it the MOANS.  It causes fluctuations in the levels and one result may be that you feel a little blue, somewhat depressed.  It can also cause water retention which can make you feel bloated and unattractive.  Your face can feel puffy and - hey...I don't feel so hot now either.  A little tea.  A little cuddle.  A little music.  A little "retail therapy".  Use it as an excuse to baby yourself - or better yet - let someone else.
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Dare anyone answer you! LOL When I saw your question it took me back to Jr. High..and I will not say how long ago that was. There was this georgous girl in 8th grade. She walked like she was a princess and her face was like an angel. ( no I am not a guy, go with me here) Everyone was speechless around her because her beauty was unreal. I can see her face like it was yesterday. Well, as this beauties personality came to bloom in front of us over time she became very ugly. She had a cold heart, was completely self-centered, had a foul mouth and very unpleasant to be around. Sure she had boyfriends but they were for very short terms and they never went back. I felt sad for her, it was as if her beauty was.... deceiving.... her. In conlusion, I will say that, as for myself I do not think I am ugly, I FEEL beautiful at times, but my body will become very wrinkled and probably arthritic someday with those age spots too, the only beauty worth noting comes from inside. I know it sounds cliche or idealistic but I think it is so true. The personality, character, and SOUL is what makes someone beautiful.
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i am telling u now >>NO<< it is not fair that u feel UGLY but taking it out on sum1else that is not fair..........with all of the ugly that cums ur way there cums the beautiful..... i hope that u get the beautiful that u deserve because it must have taken real guts to put this question up on this website for every1 to c.....but i hope that everything works out for u and that ur future is a beautiful 1 God bless
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Jealous people who feel less attractive than us.
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Well you are enjoying that, and thats good. People will always have their ideal standard of what they think physical beauty is, and as women we tend to aspire to that a lot of the time. I don't think its always because someone else thinks its pretty. I think its because deep down inside, we do too. I would say lose it if you feel comfortable in doing so, and if it will make you feel better about yourself. I know I am trying to lose for that very reason, because I know I will feel better about myself once I do. I'm glad you're having fun, and I know that you will be very proud of your accomplishments by the end of the summer.
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nope, I prefer to think that I was cute when I was younger. Now I feel like the old lady look is coming on. (Will be 41 in three days and feel like I look older. Too much stress in my life until a few months ago and it took its toll in wrinkles!)
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You've experienced the good days with your girls at the past. And you liked it. However, losing something that you really treasured always gives disappointments. The reason why you are lonely is that you feel embarrasing when you think of the nice things that you had in the past but you lost in the present day today. You notice the big difference of the past days compared to these days. Because of that, you tend to feel disappointed. You want it back. And because you cannot get what you want, your brain is being tortured because of the lonesome you feel and makes you feel stressed. You have a good profession. You have a nice job to brag it to women. And with that, you may use your profession as your appeal to women in order to have a successful proposal. You may also start entering the gym to restore your lost nice looking body.
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In myu experiance, hells no.  I'm really really good looking (at least I think so).  I have a good mixture of genes and taking care of myself, so I have great breasts, nice curves, nice hair, and a great smile.  My looks and hot I feel about them have nothing to do with my liking p*ssy in addition to dick.  And I've had plenty of guys and girls tell me that I'm hot.  I feel really great about my whole package actually, not just my body.  I'm smart, witty, caring, compassionate, loving, loyal, and spiritual.  I want to be just like me someday!\n\nSome homoesexuals lack self esteem, some heterosexuals lack self esteem.  It doesn't have anything to do with what you like sexually.
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Remember Ursula Andress, the beautiful Swedish actress who was a Bond girl?  Look at her today.  Look at any beautiful woman from 10,20,30,40 years ago, they were all stunning, but we all age, we all lose that youthful beauty eventually.  Have you ever met someone who was very attractive then got to know them and found that their character was so unpleasant it made their physical appearance ugly?  Not only is physical beauty something that is transient, it really is in the eye of the beholder.  Real and lasting beauty lies in who you are, the way you express your self.  Think about the people you just like to be around; not because they 'look' good, but because they are fun, calming, sympathetic, vibrant, wise, amusing... qualities which can't be bought.  Many people believe that those who have beauty, good health or wealth must be the happiest.  It's not true is it?  Look at Micheal Jackson, Kate Moss.  The issue here is low self-esteem.  If you're self-esteem is based on your appearance it's no surprise you feel insecure, that is not a firm foundation for self-worth.  It is really sad that you would feel threatened by sharing the attention and affection of your own child with your husband.  Think about it.  I would recommend that you seek the help of a good therapist to help you get to the bottom of why you have this fragile self-esteem.  You need to build yourself up...from the inside.  I wish you all the best.
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Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
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you are pretty or you are attractive.
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Hey since this is for an English paper then I guess I can spill my heart out.  Being overweight makes me feel unimportant, undesirable, unattractive, unintelligent, unappreciated among other things.  I have been on only 3 or 4 diets.  But I've given up because nothing seems to work.  I hear about other diets from friends and other people. I am thinking about my weight 50% of the time.  While it is mentally painful sometimes it is physically pain also.  My friend her knees hurt because she has a lot of weight on them.  My back hurts a lot and it's hard for me to stand still in one place for a length of time.  I have to be standing against something.  The only reason I feel I can say that I only think about my weight 50% of the time is because I'm married and my husband makes me feel desirable and attractive and like I'm perfect the way I am.  So inside of my home I feel safe but outside, it's very hard.  My self-esteem probably drops- as a matter of fact I'm positive it does.  Hope I helped a little bit.
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You have just described 95 percent of the women in America.  Everyone has feelings like this.  The media helps make us sarcastic, feel like we don't have things good enough, and are nowhere near thin or pretty enough.  Maybe watching less TV would improve your outlook - it did for me.  \n\nObviously your friends see things that they like in you.  You can always ask them what they like about you. Try to do activities with them when you're together, like sports, playing games, etc., instead of just "hanging out" and talking, so you'll be more likely to be active and have new things to talk about, and less likely to ruminate and complain.\n\nJust a couple suggestions.  But don't think you have some serious disorder or anything - you sound perfectly normal to me.
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you are likely very beautiful.  if guys say it, they think you are hot.  if women say it, they might be jealous and are trying to make you feel bad or slutty.  ignore the girls!!
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A long time ago, when dinosaurs ruled the earth, I was a beautiful young woman.  I NEVER dressed to be sexy; I wore simple, ordinary clothing, high-necked tops and non-sexy shoes.  I never even wore make up.  \n\nBut, I was shaped very well, and often drew rude catcalls and unwelcome stares.  It drove me absolutely batshit with rage.\n\nBecause I never invited such obnoxious attention, I was furious at it.  If I had dressed to encourage it, I would have expected to be the object of interest...but, I didn't.\n\nThis kind of ugly attention has not happened to me for many years (proof that I am old and unattractive), but I'm glad to, at last, be left alone while I go about my routine.
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You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!